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Speaker 1: My family doesn't want me to date my girlfriend. They

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Speaker 1: break up with her? This is okayop Home of the

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Speaker 1: Craziest True Stories on Earth. I'm Sophia and Sam and Max.

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Speaker 2: What should ope?

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Speaker 3: Do I think? Maybe just like emancipated from your parents? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Maybe first impressions, though, like from personal experience, your parents

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Speaker 4: probably have a point. They're probably dialing in on something,

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Speaker 4: So don't break up with her. But like keep your

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Speaker 4: other peeled.

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Speaker 3: Of Gary Vee, fuck your parents drop out.

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Speaker 1: Of College's two different, two different approaches here, Yeah, let's

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Speaker 1: see which one should you do?

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Speaker 2: Well, there's only one way to find out.

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Speaker 3: Well that collect Jackson.

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Speaker 1: So my now girlfriend and I have known each other

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Speaker 1: our entire lives, our families have been friends for a

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Speaker 1: long time now, so we are We're always close. My

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Speaker 1: girlfriend and I had feelings for each other for a while,

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Speaker 1: but never acted on it until a few months ago.

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Speaker 1: We secretly dated until two weeks ago when we went

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Speaker 1: to prom together. We thought everyone would think it was

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Speaker 1: the coolest thing ever, but they had the opposite reaction.

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Speaker 1: Why they told us we weren't allowed to date. And

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Speaker 1: that was that holdly eight Oh yeah, eighteen female and

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Speaker 3: That feels like an okay, time to date. Yeah, when

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Speaker 3: did you have your first girlfriend? Thirteen thirteen fourteen.

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Speaker 2: My conspiracy is that they're siblings.

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Speaker 3: Oh because cousin, oh family friend?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's my conspiracy thing we find out they're related. Anyway,

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Speaker 1: let's continue. The only explanation we got is that it's

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Speaker 1: weird because we're basically family, which doesn't make sense because

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Speaker 1: we're not related.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's as far as you know.

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Speaker 1: We're just so confused about why they're acting like this.

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Speaker 1: We're not going to stop because we're going away to

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Speaker 1: college in a couple months. But it's frustrating that they're

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Speaker 1: ruining this for us. Anyone have any idea why they're

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, they're related for sure.

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Speaker 3: You think so?

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Speaker 5: Maybe?

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Speaker 3: Maybe? I mean, that would be crazy twist. It could

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Speaker 3: be that, like this is.

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Speaker 2: What's your conspiracy theory, Sam put.

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Speaker 3: On, It's not a conspiracy theory. It's more like it's

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Speaker 3: more like what I think is actually happening. I think

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Speaker 3: the families are so close and they don't want to

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Speaker 3: just intermingling that could happen, you know, and then it

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Speaker 3: just makes it weird and it's like, oh, like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: your daughter broke up with my son and now he's

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Speaker 3: like in his emo phase and doesn't want to come

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Speaker 3: in his room, and so that's awkward when our families

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Speaker 3: go to dinner together, and then like the whole family

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Speaker 3: friend dynamic just crumbles before our eyes.

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Speaker 2: That's true. Well there's an update.

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Speaker 3: Oh is it juicy?

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Speaker 2: It's just not really.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't say juicy. We'll find out. There's good news

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Speaker 2: and there's awful news. Oh no, good news is no

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Speaker 2: incest here. We're not related.

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Speaker 1: God, everyone else thought the same thing.

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Speaker 3: Too.

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Speaker 1: Awful news is our parents are polly and basically a foursome.

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Speaker 2: Oh so they're like technically step siblings. Well no, that's

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Speaker 2: not why they say. That's just my interution.

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Speaker 3: Sorry. Sorry, that multiple generations of fucking each other, that's hot.

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Speaker 5: It's crazy.

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Speaker 1: We were trying to get an answer out of our

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Speaker 1: if she knew why they didn't want us together. We

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Speaker 2: They're being really good the stress that.

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Speaker 3: And so there's an ancestry test. I want twenty three

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Speaker 3: and meter DNA test.

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Speaker 1: New Redis story is the DNA test. We asked them

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Speaker 1: what they expected us to do, and they said break

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Speaker 3: That's so yeah, that's crazy. I mean yeah, I feel

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and honestly, for real.

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Speaker 1: They thought we had more of a brother's sister relationship

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Speaker 3: Well, I thought you had more of a family relationship.

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Speaker 1: And everyone's a little bit surprised here, not really proud

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's nuts.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what I would do if I found

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Speaker 3: out like my parents' family friends were, who's their closest

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Speaker 2: No, they're not there.

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Speaker 3: Who I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I feel like most of our family friend's parents are

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Speaker 3: One that's true.

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Speaker 2: No, it's not like a bad thing. It's just like

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Speaker 5: Be it wouldn't be a threesome.

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Speaker 1: We told them it's unfair of them to have a

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Speaker 1: and I can't have a public one. They said we

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Speaker 1: it's better to end it now to keep peace in

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't have secked with each other because it

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Speaker 2: But it's pretty hypocritical, so critical, Yeah, it's critical.

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Speaker 5: That's crazy.

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Speaker 1: We left and went to stay at her sister's apartment.

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Speaker 1: Now what why does this have to be so complicated?

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Speaker 1: We can't just break up and pretend like nothing happened

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Speaker 1: to please our parents It's also super hypocritical of them

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Speaker 2: Should we do?

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Speaker 3: I think keep blinking, you know, like, don't don't let

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Speaker 5: You Yeah, yeah, don't let this parents off you. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I've been in a swinger relationship really yeah, And me

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Speaker 2: And thing you have to tell the kids to like,

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Speaker 3: It's like, what do you meet the kids?

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Speaker 5: I have met the kids?

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Speaker 4: Sometimes you says, nice to meet friend.

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Speaker 5: I'm friends with your mom, a close family friend. A

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Speaker 5: close family friend. Me and your mom like to party.

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Speaker 3: Are the kids like older? Like how old are they?

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Speaker 3: When do they know?

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Speaker 4: They The last one we met, the parents were like

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Speaker 3: They understand they don't hopefully yeah yeah.

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Speaker 4: So like, you know, because they're already in this like lifestyle,

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Speaker 3: But then if you're like, what if you had kids,

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Speaker 3: and then they have kids, and then your kids are dating.

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Speaker 4: I mean, if they break up, it's I'm still fucking

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Speaker 4: It wouldn't, shouldn't effect.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's two separate relationships. Okay, Well let's get in.

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Speaker 1: I think if they marry, that's different. Like if the

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Speaker 3: The parents, like the set of parents marry each other.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, marriage very marriage hypothetically. Let's say it does.

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Speaker 1: Happen hypothetically and in which case they like for example, is.

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Speaker 3: Why would that change it? It's two separate relationships.

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Speaker 2: No, okay, I guess it depends.

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Speaker 4: Well, yeah, because then they'd be step siblings.

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Speaker 3: That is never that there's never been a step sibling

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Speaker 3: that like has hooked up with another step sibling.

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Speaker 2: That's like the pot of the fosters.

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Speaker 4: I think it depends when the parents when they became

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Speaker 4: step siblings. Yes, because if you're already eighteen, like it

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Speaker 1: Then like it's like okay, but if it's like earlier, yeah,

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Speaker 3: And you think of her as a sister.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So I think that that's where there's anyway, there's

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Speaker 2: a juicy update.

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Speaker 1: Juicy post is locked now, so we just wanted to

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Speaker 1: say thanks. Been a crazy few days, but reading these

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Speaker 2: And then another update.

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Speaker 1: Hey, thought I would give the followers a quick update

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Speaker 1: on my girlfriend and I. I'll post one last update

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Speaker 1: after my girlfriend and I move away from school. So

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Speaker 1: we both went home after school on Monday and told

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Speaker 1: It maybe, but they're also they might I think they're

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Speaker 2: Maybe probably, I feel like I wouldn't like Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I'm just imagining like a home alone situation where they're

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Speaker 3: setting a bunch of traps for the kids to fall into,

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Speaker 3: opposite of a parent trap. Yeah, child trap. That sounds bad. Okay,

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Speaker 3: let's go cal murder.

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Speaker 1: I meant like breaking up, but not parents anyways. Like

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Speaker 1: girlfriend to a grad party yesterday, they just rolled their

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Speaker 1: just having fun being together. We graduated from high school

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Speaker 1: on Friday.

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Speaker 2: Congratulations. The best part about it was having our parents

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Speaker 2: take pictures of the two of us. Next week.

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Speaker 1: Next weekend is going to be wild with my grad

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Speaker 1: interesting to see what more extended family think, what more

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Speaker 1: extended family think of our relationship because they're all friends too. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Christmas is a poop show.

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Speaker 3: Black Christmas would be weird.

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Speaker 2: Now we're just gonna see where it goes and enjoy

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Speaker 3: So this, oh my god, no way, this comes from

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Speaker 3: How did he meet my mom? Well? I stalked her

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Speaker 3: And we do have an okay story time from both

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Speaker 3: Bracken's you know, do you know Catherine Bracken anyway, she's

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Speaker 3: And uh then I asked Max if she had a boyfriend,

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Speaker 1: And and there was just like we would have you know,

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Speaker 1: And I was like, weird. I did let him find

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Speaker 1: me because I found out that he was in.

447
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Speaker 3: The theater, like he was in maybe a little interested.

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Speaker 1: No no, no, I wasn't, but like he was in he

449
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Speaker 1: was in the theater major. No, no, no, but he was

450
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Speaker 1: in the theater major. I was like, okay, well he's

451
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Speaker 1: a new theater person. But like he didn't know that

452
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Speaker 1: I was a theater student. So I was like, how

453
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Speaker 1: did he find me?

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Speaker 3: How do you think he found it?

455
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Speaker 2: I have no idea.

456
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Speaker 3: I stocked stock something, stock something.

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Speaker 2: He was nice at the time, but I know it's

458
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Speaker 2: just a little bit too much.

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Speaker 3: Where's the weirdest location you've picked up someone?

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Speaker 5: I try to stick it to the estay on the internet. Internet.

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Speaker 3: Yeah you're an Internet boy.

462
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Speaker 4: Yeah, I think it's kind of rude to try to

463
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Speaker 4: hit on girls in public, do you think so? Yeah,

464
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Speaker 4: I think usually they're with their friends.

465
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Speaker 3: But that the world's such a cold, soulless place if

466
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Speaker 3: you can't talk to people, And.

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Speaker 1: I think it depends on how you do it. Yes,

468
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Speaker 1: I was in Europe with my frond, my two friends,

469
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Speaker 1: and one of my friends just got hit on like

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Speaker 1: so much.

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Speaker 3: And it was like that like like not fun hitting

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Speaker 3: not fun.

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Speaker 2: Not even they was.

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Speaker 1: Like it wasn't like necessarily that a lot of them,

475
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Speaker 1: like a lot of them would just like make comments

476
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Speaker 1: and they weren't rude, but they was just a lot

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Speaker 1: to deal with, you know. So like I think it

478
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Speaker 1: depends on how you do it, I guess.

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Speaker 3: Especially giving me Sophia wing woman me on a to

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Speaker 3: write my number down.

481
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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I think, well, actually that's a good point.

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Speaker 1: I think if you want to give your number to

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Speaker 1: someone who's working, or if you want to like get

484
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Speaker 1: them upset someone who's working, I think that you should

485
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Speaker 1: always give your number instead of getting instead of asking them,

486
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Speaker 1: because it puts the thing like they can call you

487
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Speaker 1: or not, and just because they're working. Because I always

488
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Speaker 1: feel really obligated when people.

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Speaker 2: Ask for now, and I'm like, oh, okay, because.

490
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Speaker 1: I'm not good at saying no, yeah, fair, Oh yes,

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Speaker 1: that's a listen for you guys.

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Speaker 3: Let us know if you would like to be picked

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Speaker 3: up in public or asked on a date in public,

494
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Speaker 3: or would you prefer the internet. I would love to

495
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Speaker 3: know in the comments. I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't think I mind the public aspect. Yeah, it

497
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Speaker 1: just depends on how you ask.

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Speaker 3: What were I have?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? I just remembered something.

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Speaker 4: This one time I picked up this girl who was

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Speaker 4: my stepmom's friend got a Thanksgiving dinner. What, yeah, like

502
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Speaker 4: picked up successfully.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

504
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Speaker 4: She was dating her boyfriend at the time, and I

505
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Speaker 4: was just like chatting her up. I was kind of drunk,

506
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Speaker 4: and later I asked my little sister for her Instagram,

507
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Speaker 4: so then I followed her and then a few weeks

508
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Speaker 4: later she was like, hey, my boyfriend's like, gone, do

509
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Speaker 4: you want to like hang out messy Max?

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Speaker 2: That works better?

511
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Speaker 3: Does work? I mean? Yeah?

512
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Speaker 4: Messi Max? I mean you know, I let you know,

513
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Speaker 4: she's an adult. She made that decision. Like, it's not

514
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Speaker 4: you know, am I the morality police on that. I'm

515
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Speaker 4: not the morality police, you know, I'm gonna let her.

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Speaker 4: You know, she's a big girl. She can make her

517
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Speaker 4: own decisions.

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Speaker 3: He's not the morality police, but he did bring handcuffs. Well,

519
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Speaker 3: I hope you enjoyed this episode with guest Maxville's if

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Speaker 3: you look him up, you can find him if you know,

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Speaker 3: you know at max Fiells dot com.

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Speaker 5: You have a dot com? Yeah, Maxville's dot com. I

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Speaker 5: got it.

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Speaker 4: No way, it's just my links. It's safe for the work. Yeah,

525
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Speaker 4: it's just a picture. It's like one of my head shots.

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Speaker 4: I think that's it. Oh, it's cute.

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Speaker 3: That's cute.

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Speaker 5: Thanks, don't click those.

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Speaker 3: Well, if you love us, make sure to subscribe. We

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Speaker 3: love you and see you tomorrow. Wo This is an

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Speaker 3: episode from Deep within the Archives. Time for okop reward.

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Speaker 7: My husband refuses to do any chores because that's a

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Speaker 7: woman's job.

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Speaker 3: Now, I don't know if I want to keep our baby.

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Speaker 3: I love like that husband's logic where it's like, I

536
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Speaker 3: only do the fun parts of parenting. You do diapers,

537
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Speaker 3: you clean the house, you make the food.

538
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Speaker 7: How how's how am I supposed to put dishes away?

539
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Speaker 3: When my big old package of meat just getting in

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Speaker 3: the way.

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Speaker 6: My sausage can't possibly fit in the dishwasher. I've got

542
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Speaker 6: a broom size handle between my legs. Misogyny shot, it

543
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Speaker 6: would never come back, but it's still here.

544
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Speaker 3: Here we are.

545
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Speaker 7: So me twenty six female and my husband twenty eight male,

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Speaker 7: who I will call Jake.

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Speaker 3: For this story. Fuck you, Jake. Yeah, change that a

548
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Speaker 3: to one. Oh, because that's what you are, A big

549
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Speaker 3: fat joke God.

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Speaker 7: Now he's been to other for five years and married

551
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Speaker 7: for three too long?

552
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Speaker 3: Too long, too long? Their hash have been a red

553
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Speaker 3: fight earlier. But yeah, come on, I do not recognize

554
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Speaker 3: the misogyny like one year in. Yeah, he's got to

555
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Speaker 3: be able to do something like, oh dude, have you

556
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Speaker 3: heard this like philosopher like Andrew T.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, he's like the modern day Socrates. Now, we've both

558
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Speaker 7: recently started trying for a baby. I would hope they

559
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Speaker 7: both recently. My husband just started trying for a baby

560
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Speaker 7: with some sluicy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, my husband has been trying for a baby with

562
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Speaker 3: anyone that, any Susan or ann that walks his path.

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Speaker 7: We've been recently been trying for a baby as we

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Speaker 7: both felt like that was the next step in our

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Speaker 7: life together.

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Speaker 3: And three weeks ago I got a positive test back,

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Speaker 3: let's go. It's eight. It's what this man, Samuel. Now,

568
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Speaker 3: we were really really happy.

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Speaker 7: We told our families and now my mom and mother

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Speaker 7: in law want to throw a big baby shower for us,

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Speaker 7: and it was just super good news all around.

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Speaker 3: All right, really quick question, Yes, were there ever baby

573
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Speaker 3: showers where they have showered the baby? Like you could

574
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Speaker 3: argue that the baptism is a shower or of the bath?

575
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Speaker 3: I guess depending. Some people drizzle some people that's where

576
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Speaker 3: that's where baby shower comes from. The sprinkling of the Oh,

577
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Speaker 3: we found it. You're welcome.

578
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Speaker 7: I was holding out knowledge for three thousand years.

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Speaker 3: Shit Doug.

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Speaker 7: So two nights ago, me and Jake were getting ready

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Speaker 7: for bed when he reminds me to go through the

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Speaker 7: house and make sure all the lights are turned off.

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Speaker 7: What do you mean go to the house? Where are

584
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Speaker 7: they right now? They're at their home. So he told

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Speaker 7: her go around and turned off.

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Speaker 3: All the lights. That she turned them all on? Is

587
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Speaker 3: it her fault?

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Speaker 7: It's it's interesting that he's telling her that instead of

589
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Speaker 7: just turning.

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Speaker 3: Them off, like like not, what if we both did it?

591
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Speaker 3: It would be crazy?

592
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Speaker 7: The quality is too shocking. WHOA Now he can be

593
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Speaker 7: a bit lazy at times. It's an understatement of yeah,

594
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Speaker 7: and it has become a nightly routine for me to

595
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Speaker 7: make sure all the lights are off that he leaves

596
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Speaker 7: on before we go to bed.

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Speaker 3: So okay, so it is his fault. He's over here

598
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Speaker 3: just flipping on lights all night, all day long.

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Speaker 8: And then the now pregnant wife used to walk through

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Speaker 8: and pregnant you know, yeah, She's like, hold on one.

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Speaker 3: Faster, I'm trying to get the night sleep sleep. I'm sorry,

602
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Speaker 3: I'm I'm just carrying our child now.

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Speaker 7: I wasn't feeling very well and I asked if he

604
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Speaker 7: could just do it since he wasn't doing anything and

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Speaker 7: literally just standing by the door, you know, very opportune

606
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Speaker 7: place for light switching. He then tells me, no, babe,

607
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Speaker 7: this is what is expected of you every night.

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Speaker 3: I feel like like and also, babe, you got to

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Speaker 3: make sure to turn on the night light and uh,

610
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Speaker 3: re'd be a bedtime story, Where's where's my where's my nighttime?

611
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Speaker 3: Pebe and jays. But honestly, even with like within the

612
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Speaker 3: realm of misogyny, I feel like electricity is a man's job.

613
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Speaker 3: So he got zeus with the lightning bult like he

614
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Speaker 3: could be many zeus with his little little flicky sweat exactly. Now.

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Speaker 7: I was a little hurt, but I didn't want to

616
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Speaker 7: fight with him, so I just did it.

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Speaker 3: Damn. Yeah, that is very sad. It'll be a great marriage, yea.

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Speaker 7: And then when I come back, Jake goes on this

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Speaker 7: very long and completely unprovoked rant about things like just

620
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Speaker 7: because you're pregnant doesn't mean anything's good to change, babe,

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Speaker 7: And you're still expected to cook, You're still expected to

622
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Speaker 7: clean and to all of the chores, because how can

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Speaker 7: you expect to be a good mother if you.

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Speaker 3: Can't handle just a little work, yo, Like the light

625
00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:22,280
Speaker 3: switch thing? You know, bad enough? Yeah, man, rans And

626
00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:25,960
Speaker 3: just like cements that he's a complete misogynist out of

627
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Speaker 3: nowhere from a light switch.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, we went from a light switch to like, you

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Speaker 7: must do everything always or otherwise you will be a

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Speaker 7: terrible mother to our child.

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Speaker 3: Like because while she was going to turn off all

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Speaker 3: the light switches in their home, he was on the

633
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Speaker 3: pod Andrew Tage exactly, Bro, he was he was getting

634
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Speaker 3: gold nuggets of wood. He's getting like in the war

635
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Speaker 3: room with all the other badass alphas.

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Speaker 7: Now he wasn't yelling or anything. He was talking to

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Speaker 7: me quietly, like I was two inches tall. Damn, that's

638
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Speaker 7: even worse. Like it's like you're just human garbage, Like

639
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Speaker 7: I'm just scraping you off my shoe.

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Speaker 3: Make my mac ro right now, right now. If I

641
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Speaker 3: have to tell you one more time, it's macadamia nut

642
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Speaker 3: butter and not this BS peanut butter. We're done. It's

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Speaker 3: I'm an alpha. You're a meat sack. Now.

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Speaker 7: I was shocked because I had never heard him say

645
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Speaker 7: anything like this. Never okay, never okay. The rant went

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Speaker 7: on for about thirty minutes. Thirty minutes. Good God, this

647
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Speaker 7: is big Andrew ta energy over here.

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Speaker 3: This man all right, this man might not have a

649
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Speaker 3: future with this marriage, but he has a future in

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Speaker 3: Alpha Male podcast. If you get rant on the fly

651
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Speaker 3: thirty minutes while talking down to women, you got naughty.

652
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Speaker 3: It's gonna takes. It takes.

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Speaker 7: It takes skills saying stupid shit even with context. Yo, dang,

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Speaker 7: A true king, a true king has emerged.

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Speaker 3: Hey, hey, wear your crown. Well that's all right, my

656
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Speaker 3: king might lee.

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Speaker 4: Yes.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 7: He was going on and on before I interjected and asked, well,

660
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Speaker 7: what do you plan on doing to help me with

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Speaker 7: all of this. He then got extremely defensive, saying he

662
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Speaker 7: works his butt off at his job to provide for

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Speaker 7: me and what is going to be our future children.

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Speaker 7: I have something funny to add to this at the

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Speaker 7: at the end, I'm gonna I'm gonna save it. I'm

666
00:30:27,440 --> 00:30:29,080
Speaker 7: gonna save it for the end. Is she working to

667
00:30:29,720 --> 00:30:33,280
Speaker 7: for context, I don't work at the moment. My job

668
00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:36,080
Speaker 7: was not paying enough to justify me going to it,

669
00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:38,280
Speaker 7: so now I am a full time college student. So

670
00:30:38,400 --> 00:30:40,920
Speaker 7: she's basically like she's probably doing that to like get

671
00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:43,120
Speaker 7: a higher paying job. Like, Okay, I'm getting paid low.

672
00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:44,720
Speaker 7: Let me like up my skills and then get like

673
00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:47,960
Speaker 7: a higher pay afterwards. Like even if you are working,

674
00:30:48,120 --> 00:30:51,920
Speaker 7: like I feel like it still makes sense to help

675
00:30:51,960 --> 00:30:52,680
Speaker 7: around the house.

676
00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:55,520
Speaker 3: Yeah you know. Yeah, Like it's just like it's like

677
00:30:55,560 --> 00:30:57,960
Speaker 3: a nice balance. So like if I go over to

678
00:30:58,040 --> 00:31:00,760
Speaker 3: a friend's house or something, like they might cook and

679
00:31:00,840 --> 00:31:03,440
Speaker 3: I might clean. Right, It's like it's just like even

680
00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:05,480
Speaker 3: though it's like I feel like it just it just

681
00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:09,440
Speaker 3: feels it just doesn't feel right. Yeah good, It's like

682
00:31:09,680 --> 00:31:13,080
Speaker 3: this what but I think what what this this dude is?

683
00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:16,000
Speaker 3: This thing is like this woman is now my slave,

684
00:31:16,560 --> 00:31:20,160
Speaker 3: Like I think that's all. Now that she's with my child,

685
00:31:20,360 --> 00:31:22,640
Speaker 3: now I can just order her to do anything. Yeah.

686
00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:25,680
Speaker 7: He ended by saying that it doesn't matter how I

687
00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:31,120
Speaker 7: feel physically or mentally, it's a mother's job to push through.

688
00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:35,000
Speaker 7: And if he helped and babied me, I would never

689
00:31:35,240 --> 00:31:36,760
Speaker 7: be a good mother.

690
00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:42,400
Speaker 3: Who's a baby and who actually right actually.

691
00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:45,160
Speaker 7: Asking a herd a baby. He's the one getting warm

692
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:46,440
Speaker 7: milk and tucked in before that.

693
00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:49,920
Speaker 3: Like, literally, she's about to have a baby, but now

694
00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:52,800
Speaker 3: there's already another baby on the way, and it's her

695
00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:54,200
Speaker 3: husband acting like a shit.

696
00:31:54,320 --> 00:31:56,360
Speaker 7: I wonder if we can flip the narrative, like, oh,

697
00:31:56,800 --> 00:31:59,440
Speaker 7: are you too weak to flip a white a little

698
00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:00,440
Speaker 7: white switch?

699
00:32:00,600 --> 00:32:04,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly. You can't pick up a brew because you're too.

700
00:32:06,960 --> 00:32:09,640
Speaker 7: You can't you can't bear to lift the dust bin

701
00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:11,520
Speaker 7: to pour it into trash.

702
00:32:12,080 --> 00:32:14,160
Speaker 3: This guy crill.

703
00:32:14,560 --> 00:32:17,800
Speaker 7: I got extremely upset and started yelling, and I said,

704
00:32:18,360 --> 00:32:20,480
Speaker 7: I wish I would have known this is how you

705
00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:22,960
Speaker 7: felt before I got pregnant with your baby.

706
00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:26,880
Speaker 3: Facts. There was a moment of silence before he started

707
00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:28,720
Speaker 3: crying like a beta.

708
00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:30,880
Speaker 7: I had to.

709
00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:34,840
Speaker 3: That really turned it into a whole ass baby. It

710
00:32:34,960 --> 00:32:38,480
Speaker 3: really is, though, And he left for the night to

711
00:32:38,600 --> 00:32:44,280
Speaker 3: stay at his mother's house. Stop acting like a little baby.

712
00:32:44,320 --> 00:32:46,600
Speaker 3: I'm going to my mom. I'm going to my baby.

713
00:32:49,880 --> 00:32:53,400
Speaker 3: I've been big up. Do what I say.

714
00:32:56,560 --> 00:32:59,160
Speaker 7: He hasn't called back yet, and my mother in law

715
00:32:59,280 --> 00:33:02,440
Speaker 7: and sister in law have called me, berating me, saying

716
00:33:02,560 --> 00:33:05,240
Speaker 7: I broke Jake's heart with what I said and I

717
00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:06,640
Speaker 7: need to apologize immediately.

718
00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:08,680
Speaker 5: Pause.

719
00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:15,520
Speaker 3: You are both women? Are you kidding me? Are you kidding?

720
00:33:15,560 --> 00:33:17,959
Speaker 3: Maybe he didn't say what he said? Yeah, he probably.

721
00:33:19,160 --> 00:33:20,960
Speaker 3: She said she didn't want to be a mom to

722
00:33:21,080 --> 00:33:23,680
Speaker 3: our child, and I asked her to turn off a

723
00:33:23,840 --> 00:33:26,800
Speaker 3: light switch and she said no. And by the way,

724
00:33:27,040 --> 00:33:29,080
Speaker 3: I don't want to be a mother to her child.

725
00:33:29,720 --> 00:33:34,040
Speaker 7: Yeah, he's like, hey, baby, mind he said it, like, hey,

726
00:33:34,080 --> 00:33:36,440
Speaker 7: maybe mind turning off a light switch. I wish I

727
00:33:36,480 --> 00:33:38,800
Speaker 7: would have known you'd ask me shit like that before

728
00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:41,000
Speaker 7: I got bringnant with our child. Now I don't know

729
00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:46,640
Speaker 7: what to do. Should I get rid of it? Yeah,

730
00:33:46,720 --> 00:33:50,400
Speaker 7: that's exactly what he said. And until I apologize, he

731
00:33:50,560 --> 00:33:51,760
Speaker 7: is not coming home.

732
00:33:52,280 --> 00:33:53,080
Speaker 3: Tantrable alert.

733
00:33:53,320 --> 00:33:56,320
Speaker 7: Yeah, really, I do not know how to feel, so

734
00:33:56,720 --> 00:33:59,400
Speaker 7: am I the ahole? For yelling at my husband after

735
00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:02,120
Speaker 7: he said he isn't helping me with anything during this

736
00:34:02,240 --> 00:34:04,400
Speaker 7: pregnancy because it's a mother's job.

737
00:34:04,360 --> 00:34:06,640
Speaker 3: To deal with it. No, you're not the ahole, but

738
00:34:06,840 --> 00:34:11,640
Speaker 3: holy shit, dude, you are in a tricky situation, pregnant

739
00:34:11,760 --> 00:34:15,080
Speaker 3: with a dude who just like showed his true colors.

740
00:34:15,680 --> 00:34:20,480
Speaker 7: I so like, oh, it's it's really bad, but I

741
00:34:20,560 --> 00:34:23,480
Speaker 7: do I do have a clap back. Yeah, I've been saving.

742
00:34:23,560 --> 00:34:26,560
Speaker 3: I've been saving. So he's like, Okay, you're the mom,

743
00:34:26,760 --> 00:34:27,400
Speaker 3: You're the woman.

744
00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:28,920
Speaker 7: You have to do all the chores. You have to

745
00:34:28,960 --> 00:34:30,640
Speaker 7: do it, Like why are you sitting around? Turn off

746
00:34:30,680 --> 00:34:33,640
Speaker 7: the light, sweep something, cook something right? She should be like,

747
00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:36,719
Speaker 7: why are you standing by the door and sleeping when

748
00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:41,000
Speaker 7: you should be making money. I'm confused because you're the provider,

749
00:34:41,239 --> 00:34:46,640
Speaker 7: but yet you he lays the bout for eight hours

750
00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:49,400
Speaker 7: a day. I'm confused, Like, you should be up and

751
00:34:49,520 --> 00:34:53,080
Speaker 7: working right like you are constantly, and I would be

752
00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:58,080
Speaker 7: babying you and you know, being not you, I'm babying

753
00:34:58,160 --> 00:35:01,000
Speaker 7: you and not helping you become a real father by

754
00:35:01,080 --> 00:35:03,719
Speaker 7: allowing you to just laze about for eight hours every night.

755
00:35:04,719 --> 00:35:07,040
Speaker 3: I mean, I think that it is an excellent clap

756
00:35:07,160 --> 00:35:10,960
Speaker 3: back man, just like, oh, get back to work. How

757
00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:12,399
Speaker 3: dare you come into this house?

758
00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:16,719
Speaker 7: I mean, the actual answer is like divorce, divorce, but yeah,

759
00:35:16,840 --> 00:35:19,640
Speaker 7: that's one thing she could do to annoy him.

760
00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:22,880
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah man. But I do not envy this relationship.

761
00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:24,279
Speaker 3: I at all do not