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Speaker 2: Dads Papa Team six Welcome to another episode for the Dads.

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Speaker 2: our first gender reveal.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, through for the Dad's podcast. This wasn't our idea.

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Speaker 1: She knows the gender. Hubby does not know the gender.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's going to get revealed to him because

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Speaker 2: Maybe there's some dads or follow maybe they're not fathers

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Speaker 3: Maybe there might be a lecture about an Iowa wrestling

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Speaker 1: You might find that on this Dad podcast.

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Speaker 2: We might read a comment and say, we need to

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Speaker 2: it's a little excerpt from Daily Dad. Yes, we get emotional.

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Speaker 1: You just watch it unfold. I mean, we have his

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Speaker 3: Zachary Edwards and he's a tennis coach in Indiana as.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. That's a wild thought, based on people gravitating towards

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Speaker 1: Yeah, love can come in a multitude away. Love can

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Speaker 2: And be so many different ways. Some more Dad brain

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Speaker 1: But last week, one.

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Speaker 2: Hashtag good, hashtag pt fit. That is phenomenal Mason gill

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Speaker 2: in a great point. I love that. I love that.

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Speaker 2: and how hey, eat your veggies. It's good for your brain,

438
00:20:39,560 --> 00:20:41,640
Speaker 2: eat your protein. It's good for your muscles. This will

439
00:20:41,640 --> 00:20:44,159
Speaker 2: make you run faster, jump higher, Yeah, this will be

440
00:20:44,280 --> 00:20:46,760
Speaker 2: be more creative. This helps you draw better. Carrots help

441
00:20:46,800 --> 00:20:48,480
Speaker 2: you see better. Like you're doing all the things to

442
00:20:48,680 --> 00:20:51,240
Speaker 2: educate them while I'm sitting there snacking away on the

443
00:20:51,280 --> 00:20:53,800
Speaker 2: side of making sure Rue eats the right meal, and

444
00:20:53,880 --> 00:20:57,360
Speaker 2: it's like, you want to show and show the example

445
00:20:57,400 --> 00:20:59,840
Speaker 2: of what healthy living looks like and what hard work

446
00:21:00,000 --> 00:21:01,960
Speaker 2: looks like like, even when it is hard and it

447
00:21:02,119 --> 00:21:04,280
Speaker 2: is stressful and you are kind of beat down mentally

448
00:21:04,640 --> 00:21:07,800
Speaker 2: and you've just gotten in this bad momentum, You've gained

449
00:21:07,800 --> 00:21:09,399
Speaker 2: a lot of bad momentum and you're kind of just

450
00:21:09,480 --> 00:21:11,439
Speaker 2: stuck in it. It's like, dude, you can show them

451
00:21:11,480 --> 00:21:15,520
Speaker 2: what it's like to just restart today tomorrow you wanted

452
00:21:15,600 --> 00:21:18,159
Speaker 2: to be today or yesterday, to where you're like, you

453
00:21:18,320 --> 00:21:21,239
Speaker 2: now have a story when they're in a rut at

454
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Speaker 2: some point in time, you're pulling from your own experience.

455
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Speaker 2: And it's like.

456
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Speaker 1: This might sound I know we were talking about stuff

457
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Speaker 1: being a comment being intense before, but even just the

458
00:21:31,680 --> 00:21:35,520
Speaker 1: protection of being with your kids and being with it, yeah, yeah,

459
00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:39,000
Speaker 1: and being with it enough to like if you ever

460
00:21:39,119 --> 00:21:41,800
Speaker 1: do get in a situation to feel like you can

461
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Speaker 1: protect them. It as funny as it like you read

462
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Speaker 1: that comment before, I really did.

463
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Speaker 3: When my back was locked up, I did have the

464
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Speaker 3: thought of just watching a movie on Netflix where a

465
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Speaker 3: guy's scrapping, and I'm like, I would go down in

466
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Speaker 3: five seconds with my back locked up.

467
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Speaker 2: I would I would.

468
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Speaker 1: Literally just be on the ground going water water like

469
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Speaker 1: like I couldn't do anything.

470
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Speaker 3: Yeah, like and to your point, you could not have

471
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Speaker 3: hit closer to home on what my internal thoughts have

472
00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:19,680
Speaker 3: been with feeding Scarlet. She has just started solid, so

473
00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:26,320
Speaker 3: it's like, you know, she's having an apple with avocado. Yeah,

474
00:22:27,400 --> 00:22:30,040
Speaker 3: like you know this little berry mixed pouch thing, like

475
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Speaker 3: we try to have like two or three options for

476
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Speaker 3: when we're doing solids now. And then Dad got the

477
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Speaker 3: seven piece tender meal because he didn't eat lunch, but

478
00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:43,960
Speaker 3: he didn't eat like he works and Dad has his

479
00:22:44,040 --> 00:22:46,639
Speaker 3: hungry so it'sd the three piece. They went with the

480
00:22:46,720 --> 00:22:50,719
Speaker 3: seven piece and made the mashed potatoes just a little bit.

481
00:22:51,359 --> 00:22:53,920
Speaker 3: Let's make that a large because that sounds good. And

482
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Speaker 3: then I'm watching Scarlet leftovers it leftovers. I'm watching Scarlet

483
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Speaker 3: eat her food, and I'm like, I don't want her

484
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Speaker 3: sitting and eating like a seven piece tender meal.

485
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Speaker 1: D Like, I don't want that for her, and like

486
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Speaker 1: I see it with with ru Causcotti's still young, so

487
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Speaker 1: I'm not like, I'm not saying that this happens.

488
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Speaker 2: But there's a part of me that feels like I'll

489
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Speaker 2: come home and if I work through my lunch or

490
00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:20,199
Speaker 2: I don't eat throughout the afternoon, and I get home

491
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Speaker 2: and I start snacking before dinner. Ruth sees me stack

492
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Speaker 2: and she'll come up and be like, Daddy, can I

493
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Speaker 2: have a snack? Like, yeah, you know, you can have

494
00:23:27,320 --> 00:23:29,000
Speaker 2: you can have a banana, you can have you can

495
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Speaker 2: have one snack. She'll eat the snack, but I'm over

496
00:23:31,400 --> 00:23:33,520
Speaker 2: there still eating and snacking. She said, Daddy, can I

497
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Speaker 2: have another snack? And I'm just thinking, like she's seeing

498
00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:39,040
Speaker 2: me do it, how like I'm going to And I

499
00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:41,320
Speaker 2: do tell her no, and I tell her why, And

500
00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:43,200
Speaker 2: then when I'm thinking about it, I'm like, dude, she's

501
00:23:43,280 --> 00:23:46,320
Speaker 2: watching me do it. Yes. So it's not like she's

502
00:23:46,400 --> 00:23:48,439
Speaker 2: just like I'm just gonna snack all the way up

503
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Speaker 2: until dinner. I know, Dad keeps telling me like we

504
00:23:50,119 --> 00:23:52,240
Speaker 2: gotta wait till dinner. I mean, she might not be

505
00:23:52,359 --> 00:23:53,760
Speaker 2: noted in in her brain, but her brain could be

506
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Speaker 2: telling her. I mean this, I'm watching dad do it.

507
00:23:55,880 --> 00:23:56,960
Speaker 2: I'm watching Dad snack.

508
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Speaker 3: It is very much a monkey see monkey, dude, yeah,

509
00:24:01,359 --> 00:24:03,800
Speaker 3: I don't have too much experience in that, but like

510
00:24:04,760 --> 00:24:07,760
Speaker 3: just through volunteering and like being a counselor at camps

511
00:24:07,800 --> 00:24:11,000
Speaker 3: and stuff. Like the young kids want to mimic any

512
00:24:11,080 --> 00:24:14,199
Speaker 3: type of behaviors, like any type of they look up

513
00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:16,320
Speaker 3: to these athletes, and I want to be a soccer

514
00:24:16,400 --> 00:24:19,119
Speaker 3: player just like this favorite soccer player. I want to

515
00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:22,200
Speaker 3: be something just like this. Yeah, and there's no bigger

516
00:24:22,240 --> 00:24:25,720
Speaker 3: superhero than your mom or dad. And so you know,

517
00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:26,840
Speaker 3: I went Scarlett to.

518
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Speaker 2: Like aspire for some kind of health of like, hey,

519
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Speaker 2: my dad takes care of himself. I need to.

520
00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:36,159
Speaker 1: I need to desperately, And now does my dad take

521
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Speaker 1: care of himself?

522
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Speaker 2: And that's admirable for as they grow up and think

523
00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:41,520
Speaker 2: about it and think, like, you know, my parents, My

524
00:24:41,640 --> 00:24:43,480
Speaker 2: parents took care of themselves. They showed me what it

525
00:24:43,560 --> 00:24:46,720
Speaker 2: looked like. And not only that, but that's probably will

526
00:24:46,760 --> 00:24:49,200
Speaker 2: be what they look for in their partner. Yes, also

527
00:24:49,359 --> 00:24:52,159
Speaker 2: that that is a very good point. I want to

528
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Speaker 2: add real quick. I was in will like you. I

529
00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:57,640
Speaker 2: was in a three year rut and I'm a littlehead.

530
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Speaker 2: I pulled out of it in January. I've been going

531
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Speaker 2: like three months really strong. The biggest thing on top

532
00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:05,200
Speaker 2: of just like physical health is like the mental benefits

533
00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:09,680
Speaker 2: to exercise is something that I have personally noticed, like

534
00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:11,840
Speaker 2: have been the biggest game changer over any kind of

535
00:25:11,880 --> 00:25:15,000
Speaker 2: physical And so I have three years like post college

536
00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:16,880
Speaker 2: where I just was like, you don't have a coach

537
00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:19,280
Speaker 2: telling you to run or sports doesn't keep you going.

538
00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:21,120
Speaker 2: It's yeah, it's so easy.

539
00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:23,440
Speaker 6: To fall out of and then finally you know enough,

540
00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:26,360
Speaker 6: hit enough, and you know once you get back into

541
00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:29,119
Speaker 6: It's like nowadays, when I drive home, I'm really pumped

542
00:25:29,280 --> 00:25:30,720
Speaker 6: because I know I'm gonna go hit the gym.

543
00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:32,640
Speaker 2: I know I'm gonna sweat my ass off.

544
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Speaker 6: And if it's like a rough day or something like,

545
00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:39,760
Speaker 6: it's so insane how mentally clearing being physical is, and

546
00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:41,440
Speaker 6: you forget about it because you get in that bad

547
00:25:41,520 --> 00:25:45,080
Speaker 6: habit state and it's like you just totally forget all

548
00:25:45,160 --> 00:25:47,000
Speaker 6: the good times that you have working out where you go,

549
00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:48,879
Speaker 6: oh my god, I can never like when you're in it,

550
00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:51,040
Speaker 6: you're like, I can't see myself not doing this because

551
00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:54,240
Speaker 6: it's so beneficial and it's so weird when you get

552
00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:56,000
Speaker 6: sucked out of it, and all it takes is just

553
00:25:56,080 --> 00:25:58,840
Speaker 6: a little bit of momentum to get back in. You go,

554
00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:01,680
Speaker 6: why the what the fuck was I doing for three years? Like,

555
00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:03,680
Speaker 6: why was I not doing this every single day?

556
00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:04,560
Speaker 2: Crazy?

557
00:26:04,640 --> 00:26:07,440
Speaker 3: To see there's no better dopamine drop than getting the

558
00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:11,520
Speaker 3: endorphins going. No, like truly, like it is kind of weird,

559
00:26:11,640 --> 00:26:14,680
Speaker 3: Like it does suck once you're getting started, but once

560
00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:18,840
Speaker 3: you're able to get into that phase, Dude, I fully

561
00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:20,000
Speaker 3: agree with you there, Chef.

562
00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:23,480
Speaker 2: I know with one of our one of our partners

563
00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:27,119
Speaker 2: in the bust and universes is Form Energy. So first Form, Oh,

564
00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:30,000
Speaker 2: you've always been massive fans of them, but for sella

565
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Speaker 2: Start had this thing that went crazy for a long

566
00:26:33,040 --> 00:26:34,760
Speaker 2: period of time. It's obviously still out there, but it's

567
00:26:34,760 --> 00:26:37,720
Speaker 2: called seventy five hard. But just knowing that Form is

568
00:26:37,760 --> 00:26:40,879
Speaker 2: a partner in our universe seventy five, our heart is

569
00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:44,160
Speaker 2: out there. Pt fit something there. There's gotta be something

570
00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:48,200
Speaker 2: there or is anybody out there that's that's vibing with

571
00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:51,600
Speaker 2: anything that st six or Chef is talking about myself

572
00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:54,360
Speaker 2: and sure them like anything that's like marinane and it's like, yeah,

573
00:26:54,480 --> 00:26:58,480
Speaker 2: I feel these things too. I love the community aspect

574
00:26:58,480 --> 00:27:00,040
Speaker 2: because my wife was even bringing up too, she's like,

575
00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:01,680
Speaker 2: you know, one thing I do think that you would

576
00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:04,320
Speaker 2: benefit from, which I know you've like stayed away from

577
00:27:04,359 --> 00:27:07,240
Speaker 2: because of injuries, and you need like specific type of training,

578
00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:11,320
Speaker 2: but just being around, whether it's unaccountabil buddy or just

579
00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:13,359
Speaker 2: a group of guys again, because a lot of it,

580
00:27:13,480 --> 00:27:15,760
Speaker 2: a lot of my training would be around the team,

581
00:27:15,960 --> 00:27:19,040
Speaker 2: around guys, around people that are there to help you

582
00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:21,720
Speaker 2: subconsciously be accountable. Well.

583
00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:28,479
Speaker 3: And your dad getting super fit and dropping a ton

584
00:27:28,520 --> 00:27:32,119
Speaker 3: of weight, my dad very similar thing. He had to

585
00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:37,280
Speaker 3: get back surgery that spinal fusion m H. And I

586
00:27:37,400 --> 00:27:40,640
Speaker 3: mean he wasn't like super out of shape, but definitely

587
00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:43,119
Speaker 3: could stand to like lose some weight. And for like

588
00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:46,720
Speaker 3: the last ten years he has been so healthy, dude,

589
00:27:46,760 --> 00:27:50,320
Speaker 3: And it does make me feel better of like Scarlet's

590
00:27:50,359 --> 00:27:53,680
Speaker 3: gonna have, you know, but like Scarlett's gonna have for

591
00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:57,600
Speaker 3: granddad and he's healthy and he's like there is so

592
00:27:57,800 --> 00:28:01,520
Speaker 3: much like excitement that comes out. I'm like, I'm so glad,

593
00:28:01,560 --> 00:28:03,399
Speaker 3: and I'm like really proud of my dad for him

594
00:28:03,560 --> 00:28:07,600
Speaker 3: taking care of himself and like dieting, exercising, getting out

595
00:28:07,760 --> 00:28:08,399
Speaker 3: and like.

596
00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:10,959
Speaker 1: Dude, that's a great point. Like even us we were

597
00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:11,520
Speaker 1: the kiddos.

598
00:28:11,560 --> 00:28:13,640
Speaker 2: We feel like, you know, if our dad's had a pod,

599
00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:15,520
Speaker 2: we were the kids that they were talking about raising.

600
00:28:15,840 --> 00:28:18,320
Speaker 2: We've grown up and we think about it with our

601
00:28:18,440 --> 00:28:21,960
Speaker 2: parents for their grandkids. Dude, like that's what we want

602
00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:26,880
Speaker 2: from our grandparents. Yes, and every older person that is healthier,

603
00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:28,480
Speaker 2: that is taking care of their body and say it

604
00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:32,200
Speaker 2: was over the last decade, it's like what they would do.

605
00:28:32,840 --> 00:28:34,760
Speaker 2: The analogy would be the one where it's like they

606
00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:36,800
Speaker 2: would grab you by the throat, holding you against the

607
00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:39,120
Speaker 2: wall and be like, the one thing I wish I

608
00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:42,280
Speaker 2: would have done is doing it sooner, Like do it

609
00:28:42,440 --> 00:28:43,440
Speaker 2: now when you are young.

610
00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:44,640
Speaker 1: You don't want these problems.

611
00:28:44,680 --> 00:28:45,880
Speaker 2: You don't want to have to get to a point

612
00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:48,720
Speaker 2: to where you're now having to fix the entire operation

613
00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:51,360
Speaker 2: to get a few more years out of life. Like

614
00:28:51,440 --> 00:28:53,640
Speaker 2: I wish I would have been doing this when I

615
00:28:53,800 --> 00:28:54,160
Speaker 2: was young.

616
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:56,520
Speaker 1: That's it back. I'm like, I'm thirty six. I know

617
00:28:56,600 --> 00:28:57,040
Speaker 1: I'm young.

618
00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:59,160
Speaker 2: I know I feel old at times, and I'm like,

619
00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:01,440
Speaker 2: no matter what I know, o'clock's ticken, Yeah, but you

620
00:29:01,520 --> 00:29:03,400
Speaker 2: can't hear the ticken, No, you can't.

621
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Speaker 3: And it was very humbling, like I had a huge

622
00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:09,640
Speaker 3: win where I used to vape like crazy. Do you

623
00:29:09,640 --> 00:29:13,440
Speaker 3: remember when I was contracting? Yeah, And I would hit

624
00:29:13,520 --> 00:29:18,080
Speaker 3: that vape like insane, dude, you were a vapor insane.

625
00:29:18,680 --> 00:29:20,720
Speaker 3: Jilly Bean would tell you that that is like the

626
00:29:20,760 --> 00:29:26,080
Speaker 3: biggest win that we've gotten of me, dude, disgusting amount.

627
00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:29,880
Speaker 3: I was a vape god, and not because I loved

628
00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:33,640
Speaker 3: blowing fat clouds, but I purely would like that was

629
00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:34,520
Speaker 3: my knickstick.

630
00:29:34,640 --> 00:29:34,840
Speaker 2: Dude.

631
00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:40,600
Speaker 3: I was just and like walking upstairs would get me wheezing,

632
00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:41,960
Speaker 3: like it was bad, dude.

633
00:29:41,960 --> 00:29:44,080
Speaker 1: And so I was at the doctor last week.

634
00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:47,040
Speaker 3: I went after we record that episode where I set

635
00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:50,240
Speaker 3: the entire time like this to be comfortable, and she

636
00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:51,840
Speaker 3: was like, uh, do.

637
00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:55,680
Speaker 1: You smoke a vapor? You know, tobacco? And I said, no,

638
00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:58,040
Speaker 1: I do not. And I was very proud of that.

639
00:29:58,280 --> 00:30:00,320
Speaker 1: But it's been like several years. And and she was

640
00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:03,680
Speaker 1: like height, I was like five eight.

641
00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:10,960
Speaker 2: She was like wait, it was like two twenty, two

642
00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:14,320
Speaker 2: hundred and twenty pounds, And I'm thinking to myself five

643
00:30:14,440 --> 00:30:18,280
Speaker 2: a two twenty dude, what are we doing like it?

644
00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:18,560
Speaker 1: Man?

645
00:30:19,160 --> 00:30:19,200
Speaker 5: Ugh?

646
00:30:19,800 --> 00:30:22,440
Speaker 1: So I am very much like this feels good.

647
00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:25,200
Speaker 2: It's important, man, It's supported for family, it's important. For career,

648
00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:27,960
Speaker 2: it's important for yourself. Yeah, I have one last thing

649
00:30:29,240 --> 00:30:30,320
Speaker 2: and then I'll show them.

650
00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:33,080
Speaker 6: But when I started back at it, I had three

651
00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:35,520
Speaker 6: things that I did that like because I've tried a

652
00:30:35,560 --> 00:30:37,680
Speaker 6: lot of times where you try and then maybe you

653
00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:39,920
Speaker 6: get like a weak momentum, but then you stop. The

654
00:30:40,040 --> 00:30:42,080
Speaker 6: three things I did was like, there was a quote

655
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Speaker 6: that I love that when you're when you climb a mountain,

656
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Speaker 6: never look at the peak. You always look down at

657
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Speaker 6: your feet and keep walking. That's something that like a

658
00:30:49,640 --> 00:30:51,960
Speaker 6: mental thing. And the other big one was like every

659
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Speaker 6: day when you're done.

660
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Speaker 1: You just go.

661
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Speaker 6: I tell myself, like, that's a chip you just chipped away,

662
00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:58,560
Speaker 6: and so you just chip and chip and chip. And

663
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Speaker 6: then the other thing, which sounds counterintuitive, was it's nothing special.

664
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Speaker 6: I'm just doing what I should be doing. My parents

665
00:31:05,440 --> 00:31:07,280
Speaker 6: like I'll live with home. They're like we start proud,

666
00:31:07,280 --> 00:31:10,600
Speaker 6: and I'm like, I appreciate it, but like it's like

667
00:31:10,680 --> 00:31:12,920
Speaker 6: as soon as I feel that where I'm like, you

668
00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:16,240
Speaker 6: start getting I guess relaxed, where you're like, hey, this

669
00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:18,880
Speaker 6: is what I should be doing. It's nothing that special.

670
00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:22,160
Speaker 6: That's what I tell myself. I don't know if that's

671
00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:24,920
Speaker 6: helpful to anyone. But that's something that I've been as

672
00:31:24,960 --> 00:31:27,320
Speaker 6: I've been going through this. Three things that I just

673
00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:30,800
Speaker 6: love are like those little like it's just for your health,

674
00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:32,480
Speaker 6: it's what you should be doing. What I try to

675
00:31:32,520 --> 00:31:33,920
Speaker 6: tell myself, it's been good.

676
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Speaker 1: Dan Gables, dude, Chef Gable, I how did how do

677
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Speaker 1: you eat an elephant?

678
00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:47,200
Speaker 2: Does anyone know how you eat an elephant? That's a

679
00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:47,800
Speaker 2: great answer.

680
00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:50,840
Speaker 1: One bite at a time, many at a time, one

681
00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:53,680
Speaker 1: bite at a time. I want to hear for Jesse

682
00:31:53,840 --> 00:31:54,480
Speaker 1: on Spotify.

683
00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:57,680
Speaker 2: Jimmy, this is pretending to last week's episode Jimmy v

684
00:31:57,880 --> 00:32:00,880
Speaker 2: Soode boys had all the emotions and it pt fit

685
00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:03,120
Speaker 2: for life. We have to be healthy and stay around

686
00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:06,400
Speaker 2: for the little monsters. Amen, Jesse, let's go. I mean,

687
00:32:06,440 --> 00:32:12,880
Speaker 2: that's an Jesse I have. Zach Aber or Hebrew.

688
00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:17,560
Speaker 3: Zach wrote in this is a fun one. The trifecta

689
00:32:17,720 --> 00:32:21,720
Speaker 3: hit this PT sixer last night. All three kids have fevers,

690
00:32:21,960 --> 00:32:26,800
Speaker 3: body aches, and congestion. Mom has an important presentation to

691
00:32:26,880 --> 00:32:28,920
Speaker 3: present at the hospital today for work.

692
00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:30,440
Speaker 2: So you know what that means.

693
00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:35,840
Speaker 3: This PT six veteran is tapping in dads don't get

694
00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:40,720
Speaker 3: sick all caps like like my former college coach Pete

695
00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:44,920
Speaker 3: Pete Carroll would say, mind over matter. If you think

696
00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:48,560
Speaker 3: you're healthy, you're healthy, stay positive and embrace the suck.

697
00:32:49,080 --> 00:32:53,200
Speaker 3: This too shall pass. Love what you guys are preaching here,

698
00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:54,680
Speaker 3: and keep up the good work.

699
00:32:54,880 --> 00:32:58,840
Speaker 2: Fight on. And then his wife Caitlin.

700
00:32:58,760 --> 00:33:02,360
Speaker 3: Then commented underneath and said, and he had a crock

701
00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:07,120
Speaker 3: pot dinner ready when the wife he got home, and

702
00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:15,560
Speaker 3: then she wrote shockwave. Oh that is our first Anti

703
00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:18,320
Speaker 3: six confirmation of shockwave.

704
00:33:19,320 --> 00:33:22,520
Speaker 1: Shockwave and Zach played for USC.

705
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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was just kind of flying under the Yeah,

706
00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:26,320
Speaker 2: that was like just kind of like fight on my

707
00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:27,600
Speaker 2: old former my former.

708
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Speaker 1: Head ball coach, Pete Carroll.

709
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Speaker 2: Carrol, you know he always used to say this, okay, Zach, Yeah,

710
00:33:34,880 --> 00:33:35,480
Speaker 2: that's sick.

711
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Speaker 1: I want to dock wave. I wondered the National Championship

712
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Speaker 1: ring on. Yeah for real, hold on honey, Hey, hold

713
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Speaker 1: on honey. And it's just this like old wooden box

714
00:33:49,680 --> 00:33:54,160
Speaker 1: that you just in the rings sitting right there, just

715
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Speaker 1: slides onto the middle finger. I got another one from

716
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Speaker 1: Dalton Lobby eleven eighty four on YouTube. Boys, my dad

717
00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:07,280
Speaker 1: came down and once to make a father son trip

718
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Speaker 1: before my wedding in June we both lit. Uh, we

719
00:34:11,920 --> 00:34:15,120
Speaker 1: both love the Braves. And so we're going to Atlanta

720
00:34:15,239 --> 00:34:16,480
Speaker 1: for Opening Day this year.

721
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Speaker 2: That's so fun.

722
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Speaker 3: We will be traveling through Nashville and I need one

723
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Speaker 3: recommendation for somewhere to eat dinner. I have no idea

724
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Speaker 3: where to even start. But if you could only choose

725
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Speaker 3: one place to eat in Nashville, what would it be?

726
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Speaker 2: Oh, he doesn't know, Lord forgiven, poor Dalton, Dalton. This

727
00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:43,880
Speaker 2: is a fantastic question, though, I don't want you to

728
00:34:43,960 --> 00:34:44,520
Speaker 2: beat yourself.

729
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Speaker 4: Let's all give him one recommendation, and I would say, like,

730
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Speaker 4: I don't know what kind of food they like, and

731
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Speaker 4: so if will pick something with steak, we'll pick something

732
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Speaker 4: different and try to help them out.

733
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Speaker 2: That's what you're going to beat. A steakhouse.

734
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Speaker 4: You don't have to go.

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Speaker 2: You don't have to go steak. I mean you don't

736
00:34:58,760 --> 00:35:01,399
Speaker 2: have to, oh recommendation. Yeah.

737
00:35:01,480 --> 00:35:03,480
Speaker 4: I don't want you to feel pigeonholed by my example.

738
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Speaker 2: Dude, I have to go, do you have to go?

739
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Speaker 2: Here's here's what I'm saying. Here, here's what I'm gonna

740
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Speaker 2: go with. C keep it clean, keep it right. Yeah,

741
00:35:12,600 --> 00:35:14,399
Speaker 2: your coffee shop in the morning has to be Eighth

742
00:35:14,400 --> 00:35:18,920
Speaker 2: and Roast. Ooh, okay, your coffee shop has to be

743
00:35:18,960 --> 00:35:21,640
Speaker 2: Eighth and Roast. Okay, so I get to kind of

744
00:35:21,680 --> 00:35:25,600
Speaker 2: low key bow out you do of the restaurant business, however,

745
00:35:25,719 --> 00:35:28,200
Speaker 2: I do. If you want a spot in the early

746
00:35:28,280 --> 00:35:29,919
Speaker 2: half of the day, the front half of the day,

747
00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:31,800
Speaker 2: you want a coffee, you want to go to a

748
00:35:31,880 --> 00:35:35,799
Speaker 2: great local spot that reps Nashville, it's Eighth and Roast.

749
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Speaker 2: Come on, no free shout outs, there's I have zero

750
00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:42,200
Speaker 2: ties to anything Eighth and Roast. I should own a

751
00:35:42,200 --> 00:35:44,400
Speaker 2: piece of their company. Yeah, because I do love it.

752
00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:46,600
Speaker 2: My kids have basically been raising Eighth and Roast. But

753
00:35:46,680 --> 00:35:48,279
Speaker 2: we just we love Eighth and Rose. And you do

754
00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:51,120
Speaker 2: give a lot of not free shout outs. Yes, yes,

755
00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:56,319
Speaker 2: they are loved by this podcast. Yes okay, I so uh.

756
00:35:56,560 --> 00:35:59,920
Speaker 3: Who who's our electrician guide that we just absolutely love

757
00:36:00,239 --> 00:36:01,920
Speaker 3: that comes in here and he's always talking to us.

758
00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:03,080
Speaker 2: Robbie. Robbie.

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Speaker 3: Robbie put me on game. Shout out Robbie. By the way,

760
00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:08,919
Speaker 3: I haven't seen him in a minute.

761
00:36:08,920 --> 00:36:09,600
Speaker 2: I love Robbie.

762
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Speaker 3: He put me on game because my anniversary was coming up.

763
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Speaker 3: I was looking for places to eat. He overheard the conversation,

764
00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:20,880
Speaker 3: butted in with the best answer. It's called Jimmy Kelly's.

765
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Speaker 3: It's a steakhouse here in Nashville, and it is the

766
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Speaker 3: oldest steakhouse in Nashville.

767
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Speaker 2: It's the og.

768
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Speaker 3: It is a literal house with like a little extension

769
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Speaker 3: restaurant kind of built off of it. Food is incredible.

770
00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:38,799
Speaker 3: There's a ton of lore behind the location of uh It's.

771
00:36:39,400 --> 00:36:43,520
Speaker 3: It's the spot that when artists signed their first contract

772
00:36:43,680 --> 00:36:47,279
Speaker 3: in Nashville, like their first record deal, you go celebrated.

773
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Speaker 3: Jimmy Kelly's. It is pricey, I will say it like

774
00:36:52,640 --> 00:36:55,359
Speaker 3: it is steakhouse prices. But you can go in there

775
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Speaker 3: and not feel like you just got you know, stabbed

776
00:36:58,080 --> 00:36:59,359
Speaker 3: and robbed like you can.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you can got shock wave.

778
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Speaker 2: Jimmy.

779
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Speaker 5: Yeah.

780
00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:08,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you can go in there strategically and get

781
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Speaker 1: a really good dinner.

782
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Speaker 2: Dude.

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Speaker 3: Jimmy Kelly's rips, no free shout outs. Pinewood Social great spot. Okay,

784
00:37:18,440 --> 00:37:21,880
Speaker 3: what little bowling alley in the back? Yeah, Pinewood Social

785
00:37:21,960 --> 00:37:22,880
Speaker 3: is just a good spot.

786
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Speaker 2: Really.

787
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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a good it's a good Yeah.

788
00:37:27,760 --> 00:37:28,479
Speaker 2: They have good food.

789
00:37:28,680 --> 00:37:31,000
Speaker 1: What type of food menu changes?

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Speaker 4: They got a very good steak salad like a tremendous

791
00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:36,880
Speaker 4: I recommend steak salad that wouldn't have But there are

792
00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:38,520
Speaker 4: many changes, but they do a really good job. They

793
00:37:38,600 --> 00:37:40,760
Speaker 4: have a chrem of coffee in the front, a bochy

794
00:37:40,840 --> 00:37:41,760
Speaker 4: court outside, a pool.

795
00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:46,799
Speaker 2: Yeah stuff outside, not to like like it's a it's

796
00:37:46,840 --> 00:37:49,880
Speaker 2: a popular spot, but not where it's you're just cramped

797
00:37:49,920 --> 00:37:50,160
Speaker 2: in there.

798
00:37:50,719 --> 00:37:54,000
Speaker 4: This very this looks sick. I used to live above that.

799
00:37:54,160 --> 00:37:55,000
Speaker 4: We'd go there all the time.

800
00:37:55,120 --> 00:37:55,480
Speaker 2: Very cool.

801
00:37:55,640 --> 00:37:58,520
Speaker 1: Oh, that's amazing, that's amazing. Anytime people visit.

802
00:37:58,680 --> 00:38:01,160
Speaker 2: It's always if I give a Pinewood Social is always

803
00:38:01,200 --> 00:38:03,920
Speaker 2: on there because you people love it for brunch, especially

804
00:38:03,920 --> 00:38:05,399
Speaker 2: if the sun's out you go out there, but even

805
00:38:05,480 --> 00:38:07,520
Speaker 2: at nighttime, like they have good dinner, they have good food,

806
00:38:07,560 --> 00:38:09,640
Speaker 2: it's good vibes. They have a lot of space, have

807
00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:11,840
Speaker 2: a pool, am I I did not know that.

808
00:38:12,480 --> 00:38:14,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, so if you go out there's that botchi court there,

809
00:38:15,080 --> 00:38:17,400
Speaker 4: it's all like ivy. They have a swimming pool in

810
00:38:17,480 --> 00:38:20,000
Speaker 4: there that you could rent or like. They have passes

811
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Speaker 4: you can use.

812
00:38:20,600 --> 00:38:21,080
Speaker 2: I didn't use it.

813
00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:22,560
Speaker 4: My apartment boat and had one, but I would take

814
00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:24,839
Speaker 4: my dog and a walk around Pine with Social every day. Yeah,

815
00:38:24,920 --> 00:38:26,560
Speaker 4: and so he would barking at the people of the pool,

816
00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:32,279
Speaker 4: which is a single Yeah, So what would be your recommendation?

817
00:38:32,800 --> 00:38:34,840
Speaker 4: So him and his dad, Like I I have like

818
00:38:34,960 --> 00:38:36,680
Speaker 4: four or five restaurants that I'm like, you have to

819
00:38:36,719 --> 00:38:38,720
Speaker 4: go to these if it's you and your dad traveling

820
00:38:38,800 --> 00:38:41,520
Speaker 4: through no free shout outs. The number one place I

821
00:38:41,560 --> 00:38:43,719
Speaker 4: would recommend is Smith and Lentz Pizza. It is in

822
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Speaker 4: East Nashville. It is the number one pizza I've ever

823
00:38:45,680 --> 00:38:48,200
Speaker 4: had in the world. Take it to prom They are

824
00:38:48,200 --> 00:38:51,319
Speaker 4: a brewery that does pilsners and loggers primarily. No, they

825
00:38:51,600 --> 00:38:54,799
Speaker 4: have fears called pizza parties. Best pizza in the world.

826
00:38:54,640 --> 00:38:56,200
Speaker 2: That I have had. What was the name of it?

827
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Speaker 2: Smith and Lentz.

828
00:38:57,560 --> 00:38:58,720
Speaker 1: Okay, Smith and Lentz.

829
00:38:59,000 --> 00:39:02,799
Speaker 2: But that's ship on you good for it. I've never

830
00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:04,640
Speaker 2: heard you talk about Smith talking.

831
00:39:04,440 --> 00:39:06,240
Speaker 4: About Smith and Lenz because you talk about hometom pizzam

832
00:39:06,280 --> 00:39:07,480
Speaker 4: did you guys teck on Smith a lens it's a

833
00:39:07,480 --> 00:39:08,200
Speaker 4: brewery and East now.

834
00:39:08,239 --> 00:39:09,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, but not not.

835
00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:12,040
Speaker 1: You haven't talked about in that capacity. If your if

836
00:39:12,080 --> 00:39:13,279
Speaker 1: in your brain is have you.

837
00:39:13,320 --> 00:39:15,719
Speaker 4: Ever said, Derek, hey, give me your number one?

838
00:39:15,920 --> 00:39:15,960
Speaker 6: No?

839
00:39:16,160 --> 00:39:18,879
Speaker 2: But what fun we've talked food?

840
00:39:18,920 --> 00:39:21,480
Speaker 4: What if I recommended to you. Name the things I've

841
00:39:21,480 --> 00:39:22,080
Speaker 4: recommended to you.

842
00:39:22,280 --> 00:39:26,239
Speaker 1: The Mexican spot Cafe de Sult No, no, no, no no.

843
00:39:26,480 --> 00:39:30,719
Speaker 2: What's that one? Call? Because Bryce Harper was talking about it. Yeah,

844
00:39:30,719 --> 00:39:32,399
Speaker 2: I mean, just bring it up. That's one where I'm

845
00:39:32,440 --> 00:39:35,279
Speaker 2: like my d like, I think to myself, I know,

846
00:39:36,000 --> 00:39:36,720
Speaker 2: that's my point.

847
00:39:37,560 --> 00:39:40,080
Speaker 4: Mys Day Levita has a food truck in East Nashville

848
00:39:40,120 --> 00:39:42,319
Speaker 4: attached to a tiki bar. That is the best truck

849
00:39:42,360 --> 00:39:45,959
Speaker 4: I've ever eaten out of the restaurant is unbelievable. James

850
00:39:46,040 --> 00:39:48,960
Speaker 4: Beard finalists on the Michelin List Love mys Day Levita.

851
00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:50,759
Speaker 4: If you want me to go, I'll go go to

852
00:39:50,840 --> 00:39:53,960
Speaker 4: Audrey Audrey and the restaurant sy Sean Brock and East Nashville.

853
00:39:53,960 --> 00:39:56,600
Speaker 4: That is unbelievable. He also opened Husk Husk is across

854
00:39:56,640 --> 00:39:58,880
Speaker 4: the street from Pinewood Social Lescus in the House that

855
00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:01,720
Speaker 4: is breathtaking. There's multiple locations if you're looking for different pizza.

856
00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:04,880
Speaker 4: Frankie's in East Nashville was out of Brooklyn. Mattie Mathison

857
00:40:04,920 --> 00:40:07,160
Speaker 4: helped open the spot. Here there pizza goes by the door.

858
00:40:07,239 --> 00:40:08,840
Speaker 4: They make the dough. Each day they run out of dough.

859
00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:10,720
Speaker 4: It's breath taking the restaurant really good and other pizzas.

860
00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:13,719
Speaker 4: Robertas attached to Urban Cowboy. Across from that is Lachland Table,

861
00:40:13,760 --> 00:40:16,359
Speaker 4: Lachland Table Fox as well. I can stop now.

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00:40:16,719 --> 00:40:19,120
Speaker 2: I love you cooking, but this Derek.

863
00:40:19,200 --> 00:40:21,360
Speaker 1: I haven't gotten this version of Derek because club and

864
00:40:21,400 --> 00:40:25,080
Speaker 1: I have argued over pizza. Yeah, food on you missing Nashville,

865
00:40:25,360 --> 00:40:26,840
Speaker 1: But you haven't been the guy that got on the

866
00:40:26,920 --> 00:40:28,080
Speaker 1: box and just cooked.

867
00:40:27,800 --> 00:40:30,759
Speaker 4: To where there ain't nothing to say. Watch this man work.

868
00:40:30,800 --> 00:40:32,959
Speaker 4: He just shoved it down your throat. Yeah, I've listened

869
00:40:33,000 --> 00:40:36,440
Speaker 4: to your guys piece of takes. I've respected it. It's wrong,

870
00:40:36,520 --> 00:40:38,560
Speaker 4: but I've respected it. But you are so hometown of

871
00:40:38,600 --> 00:40:40,279
Speaker 4: nizza that I would never come into there and be like,

872
00:40:40,320 --> 00:40:41,279
Speaker 4: well you got to change it up.

873
00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:42,880
Speaker 2: Well, basically say no.

874
00:40:43,320 --> 00:40:45,239
Speaker 1: If you really loved me, I would have already known.

875
00:40:45,640 --> 00:40:47,040
Speaker 2: But he couldn't even remember my stale.

876
00:40:47,760 --> 00:40:48,440
Speaker 1: But I got it.

877
00:40:48,640 --> 00:40:49,360
Speaker 2: I know, I know.

878
00:40:49,400 --> 00:40:52,319
Speaker 1: I have an emotion if somebody says Mexican, Mexican spot

879
00:40:52,360 --> 00:40:53,880
Speaker 1: in Nashville, I know Dieke's got you.

880
00:40:54,440 --> 00:40:56,600
Speaker 2: I didn't know you had the bag. I got a bag?

881
00:40:56,840 --> 00:40:57,400
Speaker 2: Is he Trudy?

882
00:40:57,600 --> 00:40:58,200
Speaker 4: I know you do.

883
00:40:58,400 --> 00:41:00,960
Speaker 2: But now that i'm Hearria on that I'm saying bullshit

884
00:41:01,000 --> 00:41:01,160
Speaker 2: on you.

885
00:41:01,960 --> 00:41:03,719
Speaker 4: Shout out Lauri's Casino. We're doing a shout out shout

886
00:41:03,719 --> 00:41:04,480
Speaker 4: out Lai's Casino.

887
00:41:04,560 --> 00:41:06,799
Speaker 3: He pitched me two new spots that he didn't even

888
00:41:06,880 --> 00:41:09,120
Speaker 3: mention right now when we got coffee this morning.

889
00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:11,279
Speaker 1: Have you shoved this pizza down clumps throat?

890
00:41:11,960 --> 00:41:14,560
Speaker 4: Can I say something respectfully? Klump is a steakhouse guy.

891
00:41:14,600 --> 00:41:16,520
Speaker 4: I don't give them recommendations.

892
00:41:17,800 --> 00:41:19,640
Speaker 2: Fair. I don't because he's gonna.

893
00:41:19,400 --> 00:41:21,440
Speaker 4: Go well, you know the I could have head over

894
00:41:21,520 --> 00:41:24,400
Speaker 4: there ocasion cruss and I'm like, that's sick, bro. Like

895
00:41:24,480 --> 00:41:26,160
Speaker 4: some of us want to eat different things. So I

896
00:41:26,200 --> 00:41:29,279
Speaker 4: don't give steakhouse guys recommendations. I'll give it to you

897
00:41:29,360 --> 00:41:31,840
Speaker 4: Smith and let's pizza. It's a brewery, so I'm like,

898
00:41:32,000 --> 00:41:33,600
Speaker 4: I don't know. Will doesn't go to East much. YadA,

899
00:41:33,680 --> 00:41:35,279
Speaker 4: YadA YadA. I try to be respectful. It's the best

900
00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:37,040
Speaker 4: pizza I've ever had. You got to take it to Prom.

901
00:41:37,280 --> 00:41:38,600
Speaker 4: Breathtake take it to Prom.

902
00:41:38,760 --> 00:41:39,480
Speaker 1: I can't wait to go.

903
00:41:39,880 --> 00:41:42,359
Speaker 4: Call it out. About three to four minutes before it's done,

904
00:41:42,680 --> 00:41:45,160
Speaker 4: reoil the crust, put red pepper flakes in a new

905
00:41:45,239 --> 00:41:46,359
Speaker 4: layer of cheese over top.

906
00:41:46,600 --> 00:41:47,160
Speaker 2: Put it back in.

907
00:41:47,280 --> 00:41:49,719
Speaker 4: It got hit during the tornado. They redid it, put

908
00:41:49,719 --> 00:41:53,480
Speaker 4: a brand new pizza oven in it. Focks take it

909
00:41:53,520 --> 00:41:57,239
Speaker 4: to prom. Take it to prom anyway. So for lunch, Hey,

910
00:41:57,840 --> 00:42:02,239
Speaker 4: pause this one real quick. Pauses real quick. No, I'm

911
00:42:02,280 --> 00:42:03,920
Speaker 4: just searching something so I can talk about it.

912
00:42:08,600 --> 00:42:10,120
Speaker 1: I couldn't wait because I knew you were going to

913
00:42:10,200 --> 00:42:11,400
Speaker 1: cook and I was like, I can't wait to hear

914
00:42:11,520 --> 00:42:13,640
Speaker 1: like what he says, Oh my god. But then when

915
00:42:13,640 --> 00:42:16,680
Speaker 1: you went to Pizza Rod, I'm like, this is fucking bullshit.

916
00:42:17,400 --> 00:42:19,560
Speaker 1: Not that you don't know, I will.

917
00:42:19,520 --> 00:42:23,279
Speaker 2: Say, there wasn't a lot of room for Derek to

918
00:42:23,560 --> 00:42:31,480
Speaker 2: jump into that conversation because the the vibes were very

919
00:42:31,680 --> 00:42:36,279
Speaker 2: high in that fight with like clump Taylor and Will,

920
00:42:36,560 --> 00:42:37,759
Speaker 2: like there was a lot going on.

921
00:42:38,800 --> 00:42:40,080
Speaker 4: Taylor out of respect to him.

922
00:42:40,239 --> 00:42:41,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, yere, we're going okay.

923
00:42:41,800 --> 00:42:44,200
Speaker 4: It's not that I'm against Taylor. It's that if Taylor's

924
00:42:44,239 --> 00:42:46,959
Speaker 4: going to say words like we have bad Mexican food

925
00:42:47,000 --> 00:42:49,719
Speaker 4: in Nashville, then I'll take my energy elsewhere. It's just

926
00:42:49,800 --> 00:42:51,480
Speaker 4: kind of my take on it. Will has been very

927
00:42:51,480 --> 00:42:53,000
Speaker 4: respectful and we've talked a lot of food, so I

928
00:42:53,080 --> 00:42:56,600
Speaker 4: do apologize Smith and Lentz is like they make their

929
00:42:56,640 --> 00:42:58,320
Speaker 4: own bread, they make their own dough, they make everything.

930
00:42:58,360 --> 00:43:00,640
Speaker 4: They bring it all in seasonal people Like there's blue

931
00:43:00,680 --> 00:43:02,680
Speaker 4: collar guys that go there for their Caesar salad. Is

932
00:43:02,760 --> 00:43:04,719
Speaker 4: how good of the kind of diverse their man.

933
00:43:04,840 --> 00:43:07,040
Speaker 2: I think it's just the one that Bryce Harper said

934
00:43:07,120 --> 00:43:11,080
Speaker 2: he always gets too, Like I'm most positive that Bryce

935
00:43:11,080 --> 00:43:13,560
Speaker 2: Harper also said he gets this.

936
00:43:13,680 --> 00:43:17,439
Speaker 4: I mean I have a bag yeah of restaurants. Yeah,

937
00:43:17,600 --> 00:43:19,680
Speaker 4: And I mean our friendship's blossom and I'm giving you

938
00:43:19,719 --> 00:43:20,480
Speaker 4: so no doubt.

939
00:43:20,640 --> 00:43:24,400
Speaker 2: But but I would also say it's like I support

940
00:43:24,600 --> 00:43:28,520
Speaker 2: home team big time because of it's just a family

941
00:43:28,600 --> 00:43:31,680
Speaker 2: owned operation. Not saying it's the best. That doesn't mean

942
00:43:32,040 --> 00:43:33,759
Speaker 2: if I say it's not the best pizza, that's not

943
00:43:33,840 --> 00:43:36,280
Speaker 2: saying I think it's average pizza. Like I love their pizza,

944
00:43:36,800 --> 00:43:40,640
Speaker 2: get it every Friday from Pizza Friday. But Kevin who

945
00:43:40,760 --> 00:43:43,960
Speaker 2: runs it, he has like he listens to our stuff,

946
00:43:44,000 --> 00:43:46,239
Speaker 2: like we've always just chopped it up, big college football fan,

947
00:43:46,320 --> 00:43:48,560
Speaker 2: and I've just been I've been a customer that shows

948
00:43:48,640 --> 00:43:50,160
Speaker 2: up every week and we always chop it up. And

949
00:43:50,160 --> 00:43:51,960
Speaker 2: he's got two little ones around the same age, so

950
00:43:52,080 --> 00:43:55,640
Speaker 2: I just he's a fucking grinder. Yeah, and it seems

951
00:43:55,680 --> 00:43:57,880
Speaker 2: like their operation, they just got their full of grinders,

952
00:43:57,960 --> 00:44:01,160
Speaker 2: full of great people inside of a so home Team

953
00:44:01,200 --> 00:44:03,960
Speaker 2: pizza is inside of a shared kitchen. So it's not

954
00:44:04,160 --> 00:44:06,400
Speaker 2: you can't go in and like you can go in

955
00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:08,480
Speaker 2: and you make your payment everything else, but there's no

956
00:44:08,600 --> 00:44:09,200
Speaker 2: sitting area.

957
00:44:09,480 --> 00:44:11,520
Speaker 1: They just share a kitchen. So you walk in this

958
00:44:11,719 --> 00:44:14,600
Speaker 1: red door like this, it's just this building.

959
00:44:14,640 --> 00:44:16,480
Speaker 2: They have four walls, a couple of little windows, but

960
00:44:16,560 --> 00:44:19,480
Speaker 2: it's just for operations, just to work out of they deliver,

961
00:44:19,680 --> 00:44:21,400
Speaker 2: you can go and pick it up. And I just

962
00:44:21,640 --> 00:44:24,880
Speaker 2: I respect his like his passion for it, his hustle,

963
00:44:25,320 --> 00:44:28,399
Speaker 2: the way he goes about essentially everything, like he talks

964
00:44:28,400 --> 00:44:30,799
Speaker 2: about fatherhood, like we all we're always just chopping it up,

965
00:44:30,880 --> 00:44:31,759
Speaker 2: checking in on the little ones.

966
00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:35,880
Speaker 1: I just fully support his. I just I just support him.

967
00:44:35,920 --> 00:44:37,960
Speaker 2: I just want to, like, I just love giving him

968
00:44:38,040 --> 00:44:40,920
Speaker 2: love because I know he's just doing it from the

969
00:44:41,080 --> 00:44:43,080
Speaker 2: ground up, like doesn't have It's not like he has

970
00:44:43,120 --> 00:44:44,080
Speaker 2: a few different spots.

971
00:44:44,440 --> 00:44:46,759
Speaker 1: Dude, just in there fucking operating at all times.

972
00:44:46,840 --> 00:44:49,480
Speaker 4: There will be a day where I forget what Smith

973
00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:52,440
Speaker 4: and Len's pizza tastes like, but I'll never forget the

974
00:44:52,680 --> 00:44:54,359
Speaker 4: first time I bit into it sitting at the bar

975
00:44:54,480 --> 00:44:56,960
Speaker 4: when I first moved to Nashville, and the pizza is

976
00:44:57,200 --> 00:44:59,480
Speaker 4: better than that memory. But like to your point, there's

977
00:44:59,480 --> 00:45:01,240
Speaker 4: gonna be a day where you no longer can explain

978
00:45:01,320 --> 00:45:04,160
Speaker 4: what Hometome pizza tastes like, but you'll never forget how

979
00:45:04,200 --> 00:45:05,480
Speaker 4: you felt with him and the Amen.

980
00:45:05,600 --> 00:45:08,120
Speaker 2: That's why I love food Amen. It's like we sit

981
00:45:08,200 --> 00:45:10,040
Speaker 2: there and even when we get different pizza spots, I'm

982
00:45:10,040 --> 00:45:11,960
Speaker 2: always excited to go back, just to walk in and

983
00:45:12,000 --> 00:45:13,799
Speaker 2: say what's up to him and check in t He's

984
00:45:13,840 --> 00:45:14,920
Speaker 2: a big Ohio State fan.

985
00:45:14,960 --> 00:45:17,839
Speaker 1: They he makes these Buck guys that are just you've

986
00:45:17,880 --> 00:45:18,640
Speaker 1: had the Buck guys.

987
00:45:18,680 --> 00:45:21,840
Speaker 2: They're on reel the unreal.

988
00:45:21,920 --> 00:45:23,120
Speaker 1: And I just love going and.

989
00:45:23,200 --> 00:45:24,920
Speaker 2: Seeing him, or like when you when you go and

990
00:45:25,000 --> 00:45:26,640
Speaker 2: park and they deliver it out to you and they're

991
00:45:26,640 --> 00:45:28,320
Speaker 2: just chopping it up. I might be playing else in

992
00:45:28,400 --> 00:45:31,399
Speaker 2: the car, but I just I just love.

993
00:45:31,600 --> 00:45:33,759
Speaker 1: I love supporting home teams because I just I love

994
00:45:33,840 --> 00:45:34,520
Speaker 1: what the dude's about.

995
00:45:35,000 --> 00:45:37,560
Speaker 3: Definitely go inside to you. He'll give you a tour

996
00:45:37,640 --> 00:45:40,040
Speaker 3: of the kitchen. Yeah, it's really sick.

997
00:45:40,320 --> 00:45:42,759
Speaker 2: It is cool. He played at air Force, right, Oh

998
00:45:42,840 --> 00:45:45,520
Speaker 2: did he I'm not even sure. I'm almost if he

999
00:45:45,600 --> 00:45:48,440
Speaker 2: told me that he played, it's either air Force or

1000
00:45:48,480 --> 00:45:49,360
Speaker 2: Colorado State.

1001
00:45:50,080 --> 00:45:51,880
Speaker 1: I didn't know he played somewhere in Colrado.

1002
00:45:51,920 --> 00:45:54,600
Speaker 2: Did not know he was familiar with the a gap. Yeah. Yeah,

1003
00:45:54,920 --> 00:45:57,200
Speaker 2: but they share a kitchen and it's just like you

1004
00:45:57,400 --> 00:45:59,440
Speaker 2: just respect what he's doing and trying to do and

1005
00:45:59,440 --> 00:46:02,319
Speaker 2: everything there actually moving into a new building they are

1006
00:46:02,560 --> 00:46:04,839
Speaker 2: to where there will be space because they have done

1007
00:46:04,960 --> 00:46:07,480
Speaker 2: they have done well with their one pizza shop that's been.

1008
00:46:07,440 --> 00:46:09,759
Speaker 1: Operating now for Grace where.

1009
00:46:10,200 --> 00:46:12,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like over off of a Charlotte Charlotte Avenue,

1010
00:46:12,760 --> 00:46:15,319
Speaker 2: you know the McDonald's and Hueye Babies. It's like right

1011
00:46:15,360 --> 00:46:17,040
Speaker 2: off that road and it's like a little building on

1012
00:46:17,080 --> 00:46:20,040
Speaker 2: the corner where it's like they share it with I

1013
00:46:20,120 --> 00:46:24,160
Speaker 2: could probably find it like citizens something, but they just

1014
00:46:24,280 --> 00:46:27,000
Speaker 2: they share a kitchen and you just when you walk

1015
00:46:27,080 --> 00:46:28,239
Speaker 2: in and you get to know him a little bit,

1016
00:46:28,239 --> 00:46:31,040
Speaker 2: you're like, man, he's fucking they grind. Yeah. I think

1017
00:46:31,080 --> 00:46:32,919
Speaker 2: it's called the co op kitchen. Yeah.

1018
00:46:33,120 --> 00:46:37,000
Speaker 4: I think always assume this was like like a farm

1019
00:46:37,080 --> 00:46:40,239
Speaker 4: feed shop. Yeah, look, pictures on the outside, just like

1020
00:46:40,400 --> 00:46:42,359
Speaker 4: have a red barn and like say love, yeah, I'm

1021
00:46:42,400 --> 00:46:43,880
Speaker 4: looking at yeah, yeah, exactly know.

1022
00:46:44,000 --> 00:46:46,320
Speaker 2: Even if if it's your first time going and picking

1023
00:46:46,400 --> 00:46:47,960
Speaker 2: it up there, you don't even know if you're kind

1024
00:46:48,000 --> 00:46:49,879
Speaker 2: of in the right spot because it's like they don't

1025
00:46:49,880 --> 00:46:52,800
Speaker 2: have like a storefront or nothing else. That's cool. Citizen kitchens,

1026
00:46:52,920 --> 00:46:55,080
Speaker 2: citizen kitchens. There we go, There we go.

1027
00:46:55,719 --> 00:46:58,160
Speaker 1: The Shoutout Home Team. This is a dad's podcast.

1028
00:46:58,880 --> 00:46:59,960
Speaker 2: Is a dad's podcast.

1029
00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:05,360
Speaker 3: Talk kids, We talk kids, We talk shockwave with our partner,

1030
00:47:05,480 --> 00:47:06,240
Speaker 3: with our spouse.

1031
00:47:07,280 --> 00:47:08,919
Speaker 2: I still well, I still want to get my wreck.

1032
00:47:09,239 --> 00:47:11,640
Speaker 1: I know, I know we're prere recommendations.

1033
00:47:12,239 --> 00:47:16,520
Speaker 2: Oh chef s oh yeah, sorry, guys, I would love that.

1034
00:47:17,320 --> 00:47:24,720
Speaker 6: Hey man, uh for lunch. Uh it's a classic Nashville

1035
00:47:24,719 --> 00:47:27,440
Speaker 6: hot chicken. You can go Princess, which is the original,

1036
00:47:27,600 --> 00:47:30,560
Speaker 6: the founder of it, yeah, story behind it. Or you

1037
00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:32,560
Speaker 6: can hit I mean there's a bunch of different spots.

1038
00:47:32,719 --> 00:47:36,480
Speaker 6: Is boltons still up? Boltons that bolts. Boltons will kick

1039
00:47:36,520 --> 00:47:38,840
Speaker 6: your ass. Be careful when you when you order voltens.

1040
00:47:39,320 --> 00:47:41,360
Speaker 6: Medium will ruin your day if you go to the

1041
00:47:41,400 --> 00:47:43,520
Speaker 6: wrong spot. Depends on where you go. But I would

1042
00:47:43,560 --> 00:47:45,640
Speaker 6: go Princess because it's the original it's not the best,

1043
00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:48,160
Speaker 6: but it is the original that or maybe Loveless Cafe.

1044
00:47:48,960 --> 00:47:50,040
Speaker 2: Just throwing a couple of things out.

1045
00:47:50,120 --> 00:47:55,640
Speaker 1: Okay, recommendations, great, very well done, great recommendations.

1046
00:47:56,040 --> 00:48:04,120
Speaker 2: So yeah, Dalton, you choose from and good luck. I

1047
00:48:04,160 --> 00:48:06,560
Speaker 2: don't think you can go wrong with the wrong.

1048
00:48:06,800 --> 00:48:10,640
Speaker 1: No, the't things go wrong. I have some hobby shout outs.

1049
00:48:11,520 --> 00:48:14,600
Speaker 2: Let's let's just talk our scope of world of what's

1050
00:48:14,640 --> 00:48:17,319
Speaker 2: going on in fatherhood? Oh okay, yeah, yeah, because I'm

1051
00:48:17,360 --> 00:48:19,680
Speaker 2: dealing with a little something. What's going on for parents

1052
00:48:19,719 --> 00:48:22,440
Speaker 2: that have three year olds four year olds? I'm sure

1053
00:48:22,480 --> 00:48:24,800
Speaker 2: it happens. I obviously the word know is going to

1054
00:48:24,840 --> 00:48:27,040
Speaker 2: happen throughout the course of their life and in parenthood.

1055
00:48:27,080 --> 00:48:31,440
Speaker 2: But rue struggles where I'm trying to get her right,

1056
00:48:31,840 --> 00:48:34,520
Speaker 2: is struggling with hearing the word no, Like you know

1057
00:48:34,600 --> 00:48:37,919
Speaker 2: how we did the TV coupons and she'll like ask

1058
00:48:37,960 --> 00:48:39,480
Speaker 2: that I kind of watch TV. And if it's like

1059
00:48:39,520 --> 00:48:40,959
Speaker 2: a certain time of the day where I'm like, okay,

1060
00:48:41,040 --> 00:48:44,360
Speaker 2: this doesn't need to happen now over the weekend, or

1061
00:48:44,600 --> 00:48:46,920
Speaker 2: it was last week when char was working a double

1062
00:48:48,040 --> 00:48:50,080
Speaker 2: in the evening and it was kind of early, probably

1063
00:48:50,120 --> 00:48:52,080
Speaker 2: around like four point thirty Like, if we do screen time,

1064
00:48:52,120 --> 00:48:55,160
Speaker 2: I like to measure when I'm preparing whatever the meal

1065
00:48:55,280 --> 00:48:57,360
Speaker 2: is going to be for nighttime. Just get it to

1066
00:48:57,400 --> 00:48:59,880
Speaker 2: where I can like I can collaborate it with me

1067
00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:01,960
Speaker 2: doing something like, Okay, you can do your screen time.

1068
00:49:01,960 --> 00:49:04,640
Speaker 1: You can do your TV coupon at this time. But

1069
00:49:04,800 --> 00:49:06,080
Speaker 1: it was early and she was asking.

1070
00:49:06,120 --> 00:49:07,799
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, sweetheart, we're not gonna watch TV

1071
00:49:08,000 --> 00:49:10,080
Speaker 2: right now, and she was just gung ho, like when

1072
00:49:10,080 --> 00:49:12,400
Speaker 2: they want to do something, you know, God bless their

1073
00:49:12,440 --> 00:49:15,040
Speaker 2: little toddler brains, but they want to do it. Yeah.

1074
00:49:15,360 --> 00:49:16,720
Speaker 1: I'm like, sweetheart, you gotta be patient.

1075
00:49:16,760 --> 00:49:19,080
Speaker 2: Why can we uh? I'm like, we can do it

1076
00:49:19,120 --> 00:49:20,880
Speaker 2: here in about I'm like, look at my watch. I'm like,

1077
00:49:20,920 --> 00:49:22,160
Speaker 2: we can do it here in about thirty minutes. So

1078
00:49:22,200 --> 00:49:23,800
Speaker 2: I want to right now. And she starts having a

1079
00:49:23,920 --> 00:49:26,200
Speaker 2: meltdown over the word no. She struggles with hearing the

1080
00:49:26,239 --> 00:49:34,040
Speaker 2: word no when she absolutely wants something, and it's difficult, Bro,

1081
00:49:35,040 --> 00:49:37,960
Speaker 2: it is difficult to sit there and tell them no

1082
00:49:38,160 --> 00:49:40,600
Speaker 2: because you start to fester in your brain. You're just like, bro,

1083
00:49:41,560 --> 00:49:44,719
Speaker 2: you're not getting this, and you do your best to

1084
00:49:44,800 --> 00:49:49,000
Speaker 2: the whole thermostat thermometer, you try to remain a thermostat

1085
00:49:49,280 --> 00:49:53,320
Speaker 2: because it just it boils your blood when they're just

1086
00:49:53,440 --> 00:49:56,960
Speaker 2: not handling the word no well, and you just know

1087
00:49:57,080 --> 00:49:58,839
Speaker 2: in your brain like, hey, we're going to We're going

1088
00:49:58,920 --> 00:50:00,320
Speaker 2: to have to work through this like this. This is

1089
00:50:00,920 --> 00:50:03,600
Speaker 2: a lesson for both you. I want to help you

1090
00:50:03,760 --> 00:50:07,000
Speaker 2: understand the lesson and teach you through patients and hey,

1091
00:50:07,160 --> 00:50:09,719
Speaker 2: we can't get this right now. You can't do X,

1092
00:50:09,880 --> 00:50:10,719
Speaker 2: Y and Z right now.

1093
00:50:10,840 --> 00:50:11,839
Speaker 1: Here's why. Yeah.

1094
00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:14,560
Speaker 2: And also it's a lesson for I feel like myself

1095
00:50:14,600 --> 00:50:18,400
Speaker 2: as a parent because you get so tested when they

1096
00:50:18,440 --> 00:50:21,719
Speaker 2: are just not wanting to be obedient to something where

1097
00:50:21,760 --> 00:50:23,959
Speaker 2: you're trying to be cool about it and you're trying

1098
00:50:23,960 --> 00:50:26,279
Speaker 2: to be like respectful and thoughtful and everything else. But

1099
00:50:26,360 --> 00:50:29,520
Speaker 2: once their lid flips, Dude, your lid is right there

1100
00:50:29,600 --> 00:50:33,360
Speaker 2: teetering borderline, ready to flip, and you just you know

1101
00:50:33,480 --> 00:50:35,560
Speaker 2: it's not the right route to just get in their

1102
00:50:35,600 --> 00:50:38,160
Speaker 2: ass about it, you know what I mean? Yeah, you

1103
00:50:38,239 --> 00:50:41,040
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying. You know what I'm saying. We

1104
00:50:41,160 --> 00:50:43,000
Speaker 2: had our parents back the day, we had our old man,

1105
00:50:43,080 --> 00:50:44,719
Speaker 2: when the lid would be flipped and he'd get in

1106
00:50:44,760 --> 00:50:49,480
Speaker 2: your ass about something, absolutely, and I'm trying to stay

1107
00:50:50,680 --> 00:50:54,920
Speaker 2: poised on the best routes to handle things, whether it's

1108
00:50:55,000 --> 00:50:58,680
Speaker 2: like you know, telling her like, sweetheart, I know it's hard,

1109
00:50:59,040 --> 00:51:01,560
Speaker 2: I know this, I know this stinks, but we are

1110
00:51:01,680 --> 00:51:04,239
Speaker 2: going to be patient through this, versus continue to just tell.

1111
00:51:04,160 --> 00:51:05,759
Speaker 1: Her I told you, no, we're not doing it.

1112
00:51:06,320 --> 00:51:10,480
Speaker 2: Stop crying, stop this, stop that, like just validating what

1113
00:51:10,680 --> 00:51:13,520
Speaker 2: she's feeling. Because in the developmental stage, when their brains

1114
00:51:13,520 --> 00:51:16,479
Speaker 2: about three, they have so many emotions that they can't

1115
00:51:16,520 --> 00:51:19,480
Speaker 2: control or articulate, or they just have no control. They

1116
00:51:19,480 --> 00:51:22,040
Speaker 2: don't have a governor on their brain. And so knowing

1117
00:51:22,120 --> 00:51:24,040
Speaker 2: that I'm not thinking like, okay, I'm being soft, I'd

1118
00:51:24,040 --> 00:51:25,440
Speaker 2: be like, hey, no, you're gonna sit your ass here.

1119
00:51:25,480 --> 00:51:28,200
Speaker 1: Stop crying. YadA, YadA, YadA. Her brain is way different

1120
00:51:28,239 --> 00:51:30,760
Speaker 1: than mine. I have control over how I can deliver

1121
00:51:30,880 --> 00:51:32,440
Speaker 1: and how I can think and how I can operate

1122
00:51:32,520 --> 00:51:36,279
Speaker 1: with her. So I'll do my best to sweetheart. I

1123
00:51:36,440 --> 00:51:37,279
Speaker 1: know this is tough.

1124
00:51:37,480 --> 00:51:39,640
Speaker 2: I know this is hard, but we're just gonna have

1125
00:51:39,680 --> 00:51:43,040
Speaker 2: to be patient until we can watch TV. You will

1126
00:51:43,160 --> 00:51:46,080
Speaker 2: get to watch TV TV, but not right now. Yeah,

1127
00:51:46,480 --> 00:51:48,480
Speaker 2: there's so many Oh look at this toy over here.

1128
00:51:48,520 --> 00:51:54,240
Speaker 2: You try to distract, adapt, distract, overcome, adapt, improvise overcome.

1129
00:51:54,280 --> 00:51:54,840
Speaker 2: We're changing it.

1130
00:51:54,960 --> 00:51:58,799
Speaker 1: Improvise to distract, adapt, distract, overcome. Oh look at this toy.

1131
00:51:59,040 --> 00:52:01,120
Speaker 2: Oh Sweeter, did you try this picture while she's in

1132
00:52:01,200 --> 00:52:02,880
Speaker 2: the middle of a meltdown to try to get her

1133
00:52:02,920 --> 00:52:05,040
Speaker 2: brain thinking about something else to know, Like, dude, this

1134
00:52:05,160 --> 00:52:05,680
Speaker 2: isn't the end.

1135
00:52:05,600 --> 00:52:06,080
Speaker 1: Of the world.

1136
00:52:06,520 --> 00:52:09,520
Speaker 2: This is not hard, my man. Yeah, this is not tough.

1137
00:52:10,000 --> 00:52:12,399
Speaker 2: To just chill for another thirty minutes and figure something

1138
00:52:12,440 --> 00:52:14,480
Speaker 2: else out. We have toys, we have arts and crafts.

1139
00:52:14,760 --> 00:52:17,000
Speaker 2: We have so many things that you love doing, and

1140
00:52:17,080 --> 00:52:19,239
Speaker 2: I know if you're doing them you won't even be

1141
00:52:19,360 --> 00:52:23,080
Speaker 2: thinking about TV. But when they're lid is flipped and

1142
00:52:23,120 --> 00:52:26,560
Speaker 2: they're having the meltdown, you're doing your best. I'm trying

1143
00:52:26,600 --> 00:52:30,000
Speaker 2: to do my best as dad to level with her,

1144
00:52:30,640 --> 00:52:33,120
Speaker 2: tell her, hey, I know this is tough, and also

1145
00:52:33,360 --> 00:52:35,600
Speaker 2: let's figure out something else that we can do or

1146
00:52:35,719 --> 00:52:38,759
Speaker 2: you know what, it's gone so overboard. Me talking to

1147
00:52:38,840 --> 00:52:41,480
Speaker 2: you or trying to find solutions right now probably isn't

1148
00:52:41,480 --> 00:52:44,400
Speaker 2: even the best course. If you want to be upset,

1149
00:52:44,440 --> 00:52:46,720
Speaker 2: that's fine. I'm gonna give you some space to be upset.

1150
00:52:46,840 --> 00:52:48,719
Speaker 2: Dad's going to be right over here if you want

1151
00:52:48,719 --> 00:52:50,239
Speaker 2: to hug or you want to talk about it. But

1152
00:52:50,640 --> 00:52:52,839
Speaker 2: and I'm sorry, but right now we're not watching TV.

1153
00:52:53,000 --> 00:52:55,200
Speaker 2: So I'll like leave the area. I'll come back and

1154
00:52:55,280 --> 00:52:57,200
Speaker 2: she might still be crying. And when she was still

1155
00:52:57,280 --> 00:52:59,160
Speaker 2: crying and I came back in the room, I'm just like,

1156
00:53:00,120 --> 00:53:02,919
Speaker 2: my lid's starting to my lid's starting to flip because

1157
00:53:02,960 --> 00:53:08,160
Speaker 2: I'm getting pretty like, hey, dude, stop to stop the bullshit. Yea.

1158
00:53:08,680 --> 00:53:10,839
Speaker 2: So I pick her up owner the room. I'm like, Hey,

1159
00:53:10,880 --> 00:53:12,680
Speaker 2: we're gonna walk in the mom and dad's room. We're

1160
00:53:12,680 --> 00:53:14,359
Speaker 2: gonna walk into mom and dad's room. As I'm walking

1161
00:53:14,400 --> 00:53:16,560
Speaker 2: with her, I'm like, hey, get a hold of yourself.

1162
00:53:16,880 --> 00:53:19,640
Speaker 2: Enough of the crying, enough of all this nonsense. You're

1163
00:53:19,680 --> 00:53:21,880
Speaker 2: stronger than this. You were better than this all that

1164
00:53:22,000 --> 00:53:22,400
Speaker 2: I told you.

1165
00:53:22,480 --> 00:53:24,160
Speaker 1: And you're saying you're saying this out loud.

1166
00:53:24,320 --> 00:53:26,080
Speaker 2: I'm saying this out loud too, or like as well,

1167
00:53:26,120 --> 00:53:28,440
Speaker 2: because I'm getting I'm starting to get in that frustration

1168
00:53:28,680 --> 00:53:30,759
Speaker 2: state of like it's starting to piss me off that

1169
00:53:30,840 --> 00:53:33,680
Speaker 2: you're still here crying over about because you can't get

1170
00:53:33,760 --> 00:53:37,680
Speaker 2: TV right now, and pick her up as I'm walking.

1171
00:53:37,719 --> 00:53:39,319
Speaker 2: You're better you're you know you're better than this, You're

1172
00:53:39,360 --> 00:53:41,320
Speaker 2: stronger this. I know you can use your strong voice.

1173
00:53:41,680 --> 00:53:44,680
Speaker 2: We were not doing this, like get yourself together. And

1174
00:53:44,760 --> 00:53:46,200
Speaker 2: I'm like, hey, here's what dad I wants to tell you.

1175
00:53:46,280 --> 00:53:47,759
Speaker 2: As I'm holding her, I walk her into the room.

1176
00:53:47,800 --> 00:53:50,279
Speaker 2: I walk her into our room. I sit her down,

1177
00:53:50,560 --> 00:53:54,200
Speaker 2: and I'm like, what did I say to her? I'm like,

1178
00:53:55,200 --> 00:53:56,560
Speaker 2: can that I ask you about something?

1179
00:53:56,600 --> 00:53:56,640
Speaker 6: Like?

1180
00:53:56,719 --> 00:53:57,719
Speaker 1: Can I talk to you about something?

1181
00:53:57,760 --> 00:53:57,960
Speaker 2: Can you?

1182
00:53:58,120 --> 00:53:59,920
Speaker 1: Can you wipe your tears? Can you calm down? And

1183
00:54:00,080 --> 00:54:02,200
Speaker 1: I talk with you? Because we have to.

1184
00:54:02,600 --> 00:54:05,319
Speaker 2: We need to learn something new. You love learning new things,

1185
00:54:05,400 --> 00:54:07,759
Speaker 2: you love growing, You love failing at certain things, and

1186
00:54:07,840 --> 00:54:09,440
Speaker 2: you struggle at times. You do with the bike, you

1187
00:54:09,480 --> 00:54:11,400
Speaker 2: do it with swimming, you do with I'm saying all

1188
00:54:11,440 --> 00:54:14,040
Speaker 2: the things that she's been gotten successful in. So I'm

1189
00:54:14,040 --> 00:54:16,040
Speaker 2: trying to get her brain to start thinking about all

1190
00:54:16,120 --> 00:54:18,880
Speaker 2: the things. You do. Love learning, you do love being curious.

1191
00:54:18,920 --> 00:54:21,600
Speaker 2: You do love getting better. You love seeing yourself get better.

1192
00:54:21,880 --> 00:54:24,359
Speaker 2: There's one area we have to get better in. There's

1193
00:54:24,360 --> 00:54:26,200
Speaker 2: an area that where you can see progress.

1194
00:54:26,400 --> 00:54:27,239
Speaker 1: You have to learn.

1195
00:54:27,560 --> 00:54:29,239
Speaker 2: You have to be curious about getting better in this

1196
00:54:29,560 --> 00:54:32,640
Speaker 2: and that is hearing the word no, because, sweetheart, you

1197
00:54:32,719 --> 00:54:35,800
Speaker 2: have meltdowns when mom or Dadas says you can't have

1198
00:54:35,960 --> 00:54:38,279
Speaker 2: something or you can't do something. And I know it's

1199
00:54:38,360 --> 00:54:40,560
Speaker 2: tough in the time, but if you can think about

1200
00:54:41,120 --> 00:54:42,840
Speaker 2: when we sit there and tell you know, we're not

1201
00:54:43,000 --> 00:54:45,680
Speaker 2: being We're not being upset with you, We're not being

1202
00:54:45,760 --> 00:54:48,359
Speaker 2: aggressive towards you. We're not being mean or anything else.

1203
00:54:48,400 --> 00:54:50,279
Speaker 2: We're not being unkind. We're just letting you know now

1204
00:54:50,440 --> 00:54:52,600
Speaker 2: is not the right time that we're gonna get this

1205
00:54:52,760 --> 00:54:57,040
Speaker 2: toy or watch TV. And you all you know. I

1206
00:54:57,160 --> 00:54:59,319
Speaker 2: try not to talk to her in absolutes, but I'm

1207
00:54:59,360 --> 00:55:01,520
Speaker 2: like trying to c in a way of like, we

1208
00:55:01,640 --> 00:55:03,840
Speaker 2: need to do a better job of learning the word no,

1209
00:55:04,320 --> 00:55:06,400
Speaker 2: And I do, Sweetheart. I know it's hard, but I

1210
00:55:06,520 --> 00:55:08,239
Speaker 2: know you can get better in this. I know you

1211
00:55:08,360 --> 00:55:10,600
Speaker 2: love getting better at things. So when you hear the

1212
00:55:10,680 --> 00:55:13,319
Speaker 2: word no, you just got to know I am looking

1213
00:55:13,400 --> 00:55:16,840
Speaker 2: out for your best interest and you will. Guess what, Sweetheart,

1214
00:55:16,920 --> 00:55:19,560
Speaker 2: You're gonna get to watch TV. It's just not right now.

1215
00:55:20,160 --> 00:55:21,880
Speaker 2: You're just gonna have to learn something else to do.

1216
00:55:22,000 --> 00:55:24,640
Speaker 2: I know you love drawing. Mom's gone right now. When

1217
00:55:24,719 --> 00:55:26,880
Speaker 2: she comes home, she'd probably love to see a picture

1218
00:55:26,920 --> 00:55:31,160
Speaker 2: from you arts and crafts? Would you like to do that? Yeah? Like, yeah,

1219
00:55:31,400 --> 00:55:33,200
Speaker 2: that sounds fun, Like I'd like to do that. Like

1220
00:55:33,280 --> 00:55:35,239
Speaker 2: all of a sudden, their brain just flips and she's

1221
00:55:35,280 --> 00:55:37,320
Speaker 2: a completely different person. And I'm like, hey, listen to me.

1222
00:55:37,719 --> 00:55:39,719
Speaker 2: Do you understand that we need to start getting better

1223
00:55:39,800 --> 00:55:41,960
Speaker 2: with the word no? And she's like yeah, And I'm like,

1224
00:55:42,200 --> 00:55:44,239
Speaker 2: I will tell you. Here's what I need from you now,

1225
00:55:45,040 --> 00:55:47,000
Speaker 2: and I know you're gonna crush it. Here's what I

1226
00:55:47,040 --> 00:55:48,600
Speaker 2: need from you now. I need you to not ask

1227
00:55:48,719 --> 00:55:52,680
Speaker 2: me again about watching TV that has I'm gonna look

1228
00:55:52,719 --> 00:55:53,839
Speaker 2: at the clock all the time.

1229
00:55:53,960 --> 00:55:56,120
Speaker 1: Whenever it's time to watch TV. I will remind you.

1230
00:55:56,160 --> 00:55:58,440
Speaker 2: Hey, sweetheart, would you like to watch? Would you like

1231
00:55:58,480 --> 00:56:01,239
Speaker 2: to use your TV coupon now and watch Little Bear

1232
00:56:01,400 --> 00:56:03,600
Speaker 2: or Daniel Tiger or whatever it is you want to watch.

1233
00:56:03,800 --> 00:56:05,319
Speaker 2: I will let you know. But here's what I need

1234
00:56:05,400 --> 00:56:07,879
Speaker 2: from you. I need you to be patient. I need

1235
00:56:07,960 --> 00:56:09,880
Speaker 2: you to love doing your arch and crafts, and I

1236
00:56:09,960 --> 00:56:12,520
Speaker 2: need you to not ask dad Dad when you can

1237
00:56:12,560 --> 00:56:14,000
Speaker 2: watch it? Hey is the time to watch TV?

1238
00:56:14,160 --> 00:56:14,279
Speaker 6: Now?

1239
00:56:14,440 --> 00:56:17,120
Speaker 2: We got to learn, we got to explore patients a

1240
00:56:17,200 --> 00:56:20,080
Speaker 2: lot more than a lot better than we are doing

1241
00:56:20,160 --> 00:56:23,120
Speaker 2: right now, and that's kind of how I handled the situation.

1242
00:56:24,040 --> 00:56:27,680
Speaker 2: But dude, it is so frustrating. It is so frustrating

1243
00:56:27,719 --> 00:56:31,920
Speaker 2: getting through this whole no phase right now because she's

1244
00:56:32,000 --> 00:56:34,400
Speaker 2: a stud, you know what I mean. It's like it

1245
00:56:34,560 --> 00:56:38,239
Speaker 2: pains me because I'm like, dude, this should not be happening. Yes,

1246
00:56:38,520 --> 00:56:42,279
Speaker 2: like you are better than She's sweet, she's smart, she's

1247
00:56:43,080 --> 00:56:46,600
Speaker 2: great with communication. Yeah, last night, I got two women

1248
00:56:46,719 --> 00:56:49,920
Speaker 2: now that boss me around the house. I got two

1249
00:56:50,000 --> 00:56:52,239
Speaker 2: women now that boss me around the house. So with it.

1250
00:56:53,000 --> 00:56:56,359
Speaker 2: Mama Ruth comes out Yesterday, I'm home and I put

1251
00:56:56,440 --> 00:56:58,160
Speaker 2: something away and I come out. I come out to

1252
00:56:58,200 --> 00:57:00,719
Speaker 2: the living room. Who just comes up to me, Hey, Dad,

1253
00:57:01,480 --> 00:57:04,960
Speaker 2: just so you know, I'm going to go potty. She's

1254
00:57:05,040 --> 00:57:08,239
Speaker 2: a I'm gonna go potty, Mom's gonna go, Mom's gonna

1255
00:57:08,239 --> 00:57:10,800
Speaker 2: go clean up and change. So I need you to

1256
00:57:10,840 --> 00:57:11,400
Speaker 2: watch Scotty.

1257
00:57:12,160 --> 00:57:15,200
Speaker 1: She says that to me, good calm, and I'm smiling

1258
00:57:15,239 --> 00:57:16,200
Speaker 1: as I'm looking down.

1259
00:57:16,080 --> 00:57:17,760
Speaker 2: At her, and I look at you. Before Charle goes

1260
00:57:17,760 --> 00:57:19,720
Speaker 2: back to the room, I'm like, what the hell is this?

1261
00:57:20,280 --> 00:57:21,959
Speaker 2: And she starts laughing. I'm like, oh, now I got.

1262
00:57:21,880 --> 00:57:26,120
Speaker 1: Two of y'all boss me around the house. That's watch Scotty.

1263
00:57:27,320 --> 00:57:31,400
Speaker 1: That's hilarious. She is, but she is very capable as

1264
00:57:31,480 --> 00:57:32,360
Speaker 1: a first born.

1265
00:57:32,720 --> 00:57:36,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, like I feel like that that's a fun behavior

1266
00:57:36,320 --> 00:57:39,640
Speaker 2: that will uh develop as far as life, no doubt.

1267
00:57:39,800 --> 00:57:41,800
Speaker 2: Helping with Scott, no doubt. It's like when you try

1268
00:57:41,880 --> 00:57:45,560
Speaker 2: and look into I guess, like the research of everything.

1269
00:57:46,160 --> 00:57:47,760
Speaker 2: If you have a little one and they're getting to

1270
00:57:47,840 --> 00:57:50,240
Speaker 2: these phases or the parents out there that are remembering

1271
00:57:50,280 --> 00:57:54,400
Speaker 2: these phases or currently in these phases as they get older,

1272
00:57:54,480 --> 00:57:57,720
Speaker 2: like all they're they're controlled so much by us that

1273
00:57:58,000 --> 00:58:00,240
Speaker 2: as they grow into their own little human Because Rue

1274
00:58:00,360 --> 00:58:02,560
Speaker 2: is doing that, she's very much an independent person. She's

1275
00:58:02,640 --> 00:58:05,200
Speaker 2: very much going to have that type a firstborn style

1276
00:58:05,320 --> 00:58:08,640
Speaker 2: about her. She loves to be in control, have autonomy

1277
00:58:08,680 --> 00:58:10,919
Speaker 2: over her decision. So in her brain when she wants

1278
00:58:10,960 --> 00:58:12,800
Speaker 2: to watch TV or once she wants to do a thing,

1279
00:58:13,240 --> 00:58:15,640
Speaker 2: she just wants control and the freedom to do those

1280
00:58:15,680 --> 00:58:18,200
Speaker 2: things because she crushes it and everything else. Yeah, Like

1281
00:58:18,800 --> 00:58:20,440
Speaker 2: she wouldn't let me put a band aid on her.

1282
00:58:21,200 --> 00:58:24,160
Speaker 2: The other night, she wanted to take the crowns. The

1283
00:58:24,280 --> 00:58:26,960
Speaker 2: Crowns back to the bonus room. We had to kind

1284
00:58:27,000 --> 00:58:28,600
Speaker 2: of tell her like, hey, you did arts and crafts

1285
00:58:28,600 --> 00:58:30,320
Speaker 2: down here, you have to go put them up. She

1286
00:58:30,440 --> 00:58:32,240
Speaker 2: ends up dropping all the crowns all over the place

1287
00:58:32,280 --> 00:58:35,400
Speaker 2: in the hallway. Good, that's great, good, yeah, drop them.

1288
00:58:35,480 --> 00:58:37,240
Speaker 2: I hear kind of frustrating crying. I just go over

1289
00:58:37,280 --> 00:58:39,760
Speaker 2: he sweet are you frustrated? I know that stinks here out, Debta,

1290
00:58:39,760 --> 00:58:41,040
Speaker 2: I'll help you pick it up. Now you can go

1291
00:58:41,080 --> 00:58:42,040
Speaker 2: put it in your bonus room.

1292
00:58:42,120 --> 00:58:42,280
Speaker 7: Yeah.

1293
00:58:42,320 --> 00:58:44,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, she comes in, Debta, I can do a new

1294
00:58:44,600 --> 00:58:46,520
Speaker 2: fresh band aid. Oh, of course, absolutely, let me go. No,

1295
00:58:46,640 --> 00:58:48,160
Speaker 2: I want to do it. She goes and gets it.

1296
00:58:48,200 --> 00:58:49,720
Speaker 2: I'm sitting in the chair. I hear a box at

1297
00:58:49,720 --> 00:58:52,000
Speaker 2: the ground. Band aids all over the band aids all

1298
00:58:52,000 --> 00:58:52,720
Speaker 2: over the bedroom. Good.

1299
00:58:52,920 --> 00:58:55,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, frustrated, mad dadda. Can you come help me? Yeah,

1300
00:58:55,800 --> 00:58:58,120
Speaker 1: I'll come help you here. Can I put the band

1301
00:58:58,120 --> 00:58:58,760
Speaker 1: aid on you? No?

1302
00:58:58,880 --> 00:59:01,240
Speaker 2: No, I want to do it. Okay. She tries putting

1303
00:59:01,240 --> 00:59:02,840
Speaker 2: the band aid on, bends it every which way. It

1304
00:59:02,840 --> 00:59:06,480
Speaker 2: looks like an origami paper machete. Yeah, like, bends it up,

1305
00:59:06,520 --> 00:59:08,760
Speaker 2: messes it up. Can't can't do it? Good? Good?

1306
00:59:09,600 --> 00:59:10,720
Speaker 1: Like, hey, can da? No?

1307
00:59:10,880 --> 00:59:14,080
Speaker 2: I want to do a sweetheart, I love you. Let

1308
00:59:14,160 --> 00:59:16,400
Speaker 2: that put the band aid on you crush it. Let

1309
00:59:16,480 --> 00:59:18,440
Speaker 2: me at least help give you some direction. Let me

1310
00:59:18,560 --> 00:59:21,120
Speaker 2: just open the package and get you started. You can

1311
00:59:21,160 --> 00:59:23,080
Speaker 2: finish it. We figured that out. Awesome.

1312
00:59:23,760 --> 00:59:26,840
Speaker 1: But she's very much like very much independent, wants to

1313
00:59:26,920 --> 00:59:28,160
Speaker 1: be in control of everything.

1314
00:59:28,280 --> 00:59:28,640
Speaker 2: Uh huh.

1315
00:59:28,920 --> 00:59:32,520
Speaker 1: So it's just that that fine line when their shit

1316
00:59:32,600 --> 00:59:33,240
Speaker 1: gets rocked.

1317
00:59:33,880 --> 00:59:36,160
Speaker 2: When when does it change?

1318
00:59:36,440 --> 00:59:39,680
Speaker 3: As far and I'm asking this as like Scarlett is,

1319
00:59:40,080 --> 00:59:43,360
Speaker 3: you know three years behindru when does it change from

1320
00:59:43,840 --> 00:59:46,959
Speaker 3: We've talked about like being able to almost like trick

1321
00:59:47,680 --> 00:59:51,960
Speaker 3: our toddlers with like getting what we want them to do,

1322
00:59:52,480 --> 00:59:56,200
Speaker 3: like by doing some kind of adult brain thing where

1323
00:59:56,720 --> 00:59:59,720
Speaker 3: you say, oh, yeah, how many more times do you

1324
00:59:59,760 --> 01:00:01,959
Speaker 3: want to do it? They can only count to five,

1325
01:00:02,160 --> 01:00:05,000
Speaker 3: so then they say three, and it's like, oh, I

1326
01:00:05,080 --> 01:00:08,200
Speaker 3: got them. Like where where does that shift go from

1327
01:00:08,320 --> 01:00:11,480
Speaker 3: like playing those like I can trick them into doing

1328
01:00:11,520 --> 01:00:13,720
Speaker 3: the right thing, and then like I feel like she

1329
01:00:13,880 --> 01:00:16,760
Speaker 3: can communicate well enough to hear if I sit her

1330
01:00:16,840 --> 01:00:19,280
Speaker 3: down and say, hey, I know you're good enough.

1331
01:00:19,960 --> 01:00:22,800
Speaker 2: I know that you're smart enough that you can hear

1332
01:00:23,040 --> 01:00:25,920
Speaker 2: the word no. We can be better at this, Like

1333
01:00:26,000 --> 01:00:32,920
Speaker 2: where did that good question? I would say, we're just

1334
01:00:32,960 --> 01:00:35,080
Speaker 2: about to be four to April. With God, that makes

1335
01:00:35,120 --> 01:00:38,120
Speaker 2: me say, that's a month away. That's really scary, dude.

1336
01:00:38,120 --> 01:00:40,200
Speaker 1: I didn't even realize that she was that close to

1337
01:00:40,280 --> 01:00:40,840
Speaker 1: turning four.

1338
01:00:41,280 --> 01:00:45,280
Speaker 2: I did not know that, damn, I would say in

1339
01:00:45,400 --> 01:00:48,840
Speaker 2: her three and agor three phase, because there's always going

1340
01:00:48,880 --> 01:00:51,720
Speaker 2: to be a version of being able to like I guess,

1341
01:00:51,800 --> 01:00:55,000
Speaker 2: trick or negotiate with them. Yeah, but they're going to

1342
01:00:55,040 --> 01:00:58,000
Speaker 2: start identifying the routine and patterns of everything to where

1343
01:00:58,040 --> 01:01:01,280
Speaker 2: they understand how many how many bites they might have left,

1344
01:01:01,480 --> 01:01:03,920
Speaker 2: or how many times they might want to do something,

1345
01:01:05,440 --> 01:01:07,960
Speaker 2: or when you're just constantly giving them options to at

1346
01:01:08,040 --> 01:01:11,800
Speaker 2: least allow them to have control over what decision they're

1347
01:01:11,840 --> 01:01:14,320
Speaker 2: going to make within the structure of everything, they just

1348
01:01:14,440 --> 01:01:17,720
Speaker 2: get better at it. But those kinds of conversations, I

1349
01:01:17,720 --> 01:01:21,040
Speaker 2: would say it happened throughout this year of three because

1350
01:01:21,080 --> 01:01:23,080
Speaker 2: she's gotten better in a lot of areas to where

1351
01:01:23,120 --> 01:01:26,560
Speaker 2: you can grab examples to communicate with her because she

1352
01:01:26,640 --> 01:01:30,840
Speaker 2: does understand what you're saying, Like she's made Going to

1353
01:01:31,000 --> 01:01:34,040
Speaker 2: a Montsori has been tremendous for her because they do

1354
01:01:34,160 --> 01:01:37,360
Speaker 2: so much tribe mentality work and counting and just all

1355
01:01:37,440 --> 01:01:39,880
Speaker 2: of the things where they work together and communicate and

1356
01:01:40,000 --> 01:01:41,600
Speaker 2: kind of do a lot of things on their own

1357
01:01:42,320 --> 01:01:44,080
Speaker 2: to where she gets it to where you trust her

1358
01:01:44,120 --> 01:01:45,800
Speaker 2: to do stuff. You kind of always know what those

1359
01:01:45,840 --> 01:01:48,480
Speaker 2: boundaries are. And then she's also like a sponge, so

1360
01:01:48,600 --> 01:01:51,000
Speaker 2: she's curious, Hey, I'm going to keep you from doing

1361
01:01:51,080 --> 01:01:53,320
Speaker 2: this if you have a conversation with her on here's why.

1362
01:01:53,840 --> 01:01:55,720
Speaker 2: She loves to know that she has a mission of

1363
01:01:55,880 --> 01:02:00,320
Speaker 2: some sort within the tribe. So I would say much

1364
01:02:00,360 --> 01:02:04,000
Speaker 2: happens at three because two they talk about terrible twos.

1365
01:02:04,040 --> 01:02:06,840
Speaker 2: Twos wasn't as bad as three was, especially coming into

1366
01:02:06,920 --> 01:02:08,880
Speaker 2: the first half of the three year old stuff, because

1367
01:02:08,880 --> 01:02:11,880
Speaker 2: they're just more with it. They understand what they want more,

1368
01:02:11,920 --> 01:02:14,400
Speaker 2: they understand how to not how to argue better. But

1369
01:02:14,480 --> 01:02:17,440
Speaker 2: they just their meltdowns happen a little bit more violently

1370
01:02:17,560 --> 01:02:20,000
Speaker 2: because they kind of do know now how to communicate

1371
01:02:20,480 --> 01:02:23,760
Speaker 2: what they're wanting. They just can't. They can't slow everything down,

1372
01:02:23,880 --> 01:02:27,680
Speaker 2: and they're hard wirings being hacked by all the hormones

1373
01:02:27,680 --> 01:02:30,800
Speaker 2: and emotions going on with their developing brain. So but

1374
01:02:30,960 --> 01:02:33,200
Speaker 2: they do know much more what they want, whereas in two,

1375
01:02:33,520 --> 01:02:36,040
Speaker 2: you can play the whole mind game with them a

1376
01:02:36,040 --> 01:02:38,120
Speaker 2: little bit more because they're so new to the world.

1377
01:02:38,560 --> 01:02:41,280
Speaker 2: They're learning about everything, Like Rus in such a why phase.

1378
01:02:41,400 --> 01:02:45,520
Speaker 2: Now it's not why is he bad? Or it's not

1379
01:02:45,680 --> 01:02:48,360
Speaker 2: just is he a bad guy? It's oh, well, why

1380
01:02:48,480 --> 01:02:49,520
Speaker 2: is he bad? Well?

1381
01:02:49,640 --> 01:02:51,200
Speaker 1: This kind of happened to Well, why did that happen

1382
01:02:51,280 --> 01:02:51,520
Speaker 1: to him?

1383
01:02:51,720 --> 01:02:54,200
Speaker 2: Well because their mom and dad or this person over

1384
01:02:54,240 --> 01:02:55,520
Speaker 2: here ATD X, Y and Z, Well, why did they

1385
01:02:55,560 --> 01:02:56,840
Speaker 2: do that to him? And then you're just trying to

1386
01:02:56,920 --> 01:02:59,080
Speaker 2: make up stuff because they're so curious on the why

1387
01:02:59,240 --> 01:03:02,960
Speaker 2: behind everything that happens, whereas in two they're more of

1388
01:03:03,080 --> 01:03:03,640
Speaker 2: like what's that?

1389
01:03:04,400 --> 01:03:06,320
Speaker 1: They're learning about what it is? Oh, what's that?

1390
01:03:06,640 --> 01:03:09,200
Speaker 2: Then they start when they start getting to why, they're

1391
01:03:09,280 --> 01:03:11,960
Speaker 2: just they're so curious and their brain is developing so

1392
01:03:12,120 --> 01:03:16,080
Speaker 2: much that they start having patterns now to match their

1393
01:03:16,240 --> 01:03:18,840
Speaker 2: exploration of the world, and you're the one that's kind

1394
01:03:18,880 --> 01:03:21,600
Speaker 2: of guiding them through all of it. But three is

1395
01:03:21,680 --> 01:03:23,760
Speaker 2: the big Three is the big age where I feel

1396
01:03:23,760 --> 01:03:26,720
Speaker 2: like I've been able to you can actually have conversations

1397
01:03:26,760 --> 01:03:29,800
Speaker 2: with Ru and she's so curious because she knows you

1398
01:03:29,920 --> 01:03:34,080
Speaker 2: trust her and she trusts you. Yeah, that's she's picking

1399
01:03:34,160 --> 01:03:35,360
Speaker 2: up everything that you're telling her.

1400
01:03:35,560 --> 01:03:40,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, that just from my small little sample size of

1401
01:03:41,200 --> 01:03:44,040
Speaker 3: being at the zoo with her recently, I picked up

1402
01:03:44,080 --> 01:03:47,720
Speaker 3: on that immediately. Her communications yeahs and how much they've

1403
01:03:47,800 --> 01:03:52,080
Speaker 3: grown and like she's excuse me, she is a little

1404
01:03:52,160 --> 01:03:55,640
Speaker 3: girl now you know what I mean, and behaves and

1405
01:03:56,000 --> 01:03:58,840
Speaker 3: acts like one and ask those types of questions that

1406
01:03:59,040 --> 01:04:00,720
Speaker 3: even I was sitting there when we were talking about

1407
01:04:00,720 --> 01:04:04,520
Speaker 3: the muscles and the bones of the tiger and like like, man,

1408
01:04:04,680 --> 01:04:06,600
Speaker 3: you are like, yeah, growing.

1409
01:04:06,760 --> 01:04:08,440
Speaker 2: Well, I'll tell you the example. I think I shared

1410
01:04:08,480 --> 01:04:11,080
Speaker 2: it on for the dads a couple of weeks ago

1411
01:04:11,200 --> 01:04:13,360
Speaker 2: or last week whenever we were recapping the zoo stuff.

1412
01:04:13,400 --> 01:04:14,880
Speaker 2: But when we got in the when we got in

1413
01:04:14,920 --> 01:04:16,400
Speaker 2: the car and I was like, hey, I love that

1414
01:04:16,520 --> 01:04:20,960
Speaker 2: you helped entertain Scarlet ye And you're like, when they

1415
01:04:21,000 --> 01:04:23,200
Speaker 2: do have patience, dude, I love that you've been having

1416
01:04:23,280 --> 01:04:25,640
Speaker 2: so much patience? Well why why am Why am I

1417
01:04:25,680 --> 01:04:27,680
Speaker 2: having patience? And then you're kind of explaining like what

1418
01:04:27,720 --> 01:04:31,120
Speaker 2: they've been doing, but you're kind of validating a positive

1419
01:04:31,160 --> 01:04:33,320
Speaker 2: thing that they did so that way they remember it.

1420
01:04:34,600 --> 01:04:36,800
Speaker 2: I'm like, I loved how much you helped out Dad

1421
01:04:36,920 --> 01:04:39,000
Speaker 2: end Uncle Sherm at the zoo with Scarlet?

1422
01:04:39,440 --> 01:04:39,800
Speaker 7: What was I?

1423
01:04:40,040 --> 01:04:42,200
Speaker 2: What was I doing? And then you tell them like, well,

1424
01:04:42,200 --> 01:04:43,800
Speaker 2: why did you like that? Why did you love that?

1425
01:04:44,280 --> 01:04:47,000
Speaker 2: And then I'm we're talking about the communication well dead end,

1426
01:04:47,080 --> 01:04:49,360
Speaker 2: Uncle Sherm get to hang. But they're just they're just

1427
01:04:49,440 --> 01:04:51,760
Speaker 2: such a sponge and they're so curious, like, Okay, well,

1428
01:04:51,800 --> 01:04:54,800
Speaker 2: why why did you enjoy that that thing that I

1429
01:04:55,000 --> 01:04:57,720
Speaker 2: was doing? Tell me more about that. It helps you

1430
01:04:57,800 --> 01:04:59,960
Speaker 2: like lay a foundation. So then the next time it happens,

1431
01:05:00,000 --> 01:05:02,640
Speaker 2: they're already thinking about it. I'm gonna make Scarlett laugh. Yeah,

1432
01:05:02,720 --> 01:05:04,320
Speaker 2: I'm gonna do these things and they'll let you know

1433
01:05:04,400 --> 01:05:07,680
Speaker 2: that they're doing them because they want the reward. Hey, sweetheart,

1434
01:05:07,720 --> 01:05:10,920
Speaker 2: Not everything we're doing is for a compliment. Yeah you

1435
01:05:11,040 --> 01:05:13,640
Speaker 2: know what I mean? Yeah, Okay, you gotta watch me

1436
01:05:13,720 --> 01:05:15,240
Speaker 2: go do he did it? Watch me? And then she'll

1437
01:05:15,280 --> 01:05:18,120
Speaker 2: go and like, hug Scotty. No, that's so sweet, sweetheart.

1438
01:05:18,480 --> 01:05:21,880
Speaker 2: I want to just hug Scotty because you just love Scott.

1439
01:05:22,040 --> 01:05:23,960
Speaker 2: You don't need dad and MoMA to watch every time.

1440
01:05:24,120 --> 01:05:24,320
Speaker 7: Yeah.

1441
01:05:25,240 --> 01:05:28,400
Speaker 2: I obviously I can't remember when I was like three

1442
01:05:28,480 --> 01:05:31,600
Speaker 2: or four years old, but uh, that was one of

1443
01:05:31,680 --> 01:05:34,400
Speaker 2: my favorite things of like moments where I did get

1444
01:05:34,520 --> 01:05:37,520
Speaker 2: sat down by my parents and there was like a

1445
01:05:37,680 --> 01:05:42,360
Speaker 2: full explanation of why the answer was no or why

1446
01:05:43,400 --> 01:05:46,120
Speaker 2: something wasn't gonna happen that I wanted it to happen,

1447
01:05:46,240 --> 01:05:50,640
Speaker 2: Like I loved being able to have a conversation about

1448
01:05:50,680 --> 01:05:54,120
Speaker 2: it instead of just no and that that's it and

1449
01:05:54,160 --> 01:05:57,360
Speaker 2: that's final, because I did hear that sometimes too. Yeah

1450
01:05:57,360 --> 01:06:00,000
Speaker 2: I have great parents, like you know, no parents perfect,

1451
01:06:00,560 --> 01:06:04,000
Speaker 2: but like I would get those no and the answers

1452
01:06:04,040 --> 01:06:06,040
Speaker 2: out you don't need it, yeah because I said so.

1453
01:06:06,160 --> 01:06:10,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, because I said so, which would leave they would

1454
01:06:10,120 --> 01:06:12,840
Speaker 3: leave me frustrated because I'm you know, if I got

1455
01:06:12,920 --> 01:06:18,280
Speaker 3: an explanation of why, maybe I would understand, uh why

1456
01:06:18,360 --> 01:06:20,480
Speaker 3: the answer is know in that situation, and then I'm

1457
01:06:20,560 --> 01:06:24,400
Speaker 3: not trying to push that again in the future, Like

1458
01:06:24,560 --> 01:06:27,160
Speaker 3: you sitting down with ru in that moment and really

1459
01:06:27,240 --> 01:06:30,960
Speaker 3: trying to show her what's going on, showing her why

1460
01:06:31,040 --> 01:06:35,240
Speaker 3: it's no telling, complimenting her and being like I feel

1461
01:06:35,280 --> 01:06:36,400
Speaker 3: like you can understand this.

1462
01:06:36,560 --> 01:06:40,120
Speaker 1: You're big girl enough that you can handle this. All

1463
01:06:40,240 --> 01:06:45,680
Speaker 1: that like sounds awesome to me. Yeah, yeah, it's just

1464
01:06:45,880 --> 01:06:48,680
Speaker 1: testing in those times, bro oh, because I know parents

1465
01:06:48,720 --> 01:06:50,440
Speaker 1: out there it's like when those moments are happening, the

1466
01:06:50,600 --> 01:06:54,240
Speaker 1: lid is flipped that she just can't and would you

1467
01:06:54,360 --> 01:06:54,800
Speaker 1: just want to?

1468
01:06:55,040 --> 01:06:58,120
Speaker 3: And I'm already start facing pillow. I'm starting to get

1469
01:06:58,240 --> 01:07:02,360
Speaker 3: a little hint of that. Even Scarlet is officially eight

1470
01:07:02,440 --> 01:07:05,920
Speaker 3: months old today, by the way, yeah, the third of March.

1471
01:07:06,960 --> 01:07:08,480
Speaker 3: But I'm already starting to get that a little bit

1472
01:07:08,560 --> 01:07:12,760
Speaker 3: with Scarlet. And it's funny of like her like she's

1473
01:07:12,800 --> 01:07:15,880
Speaker 3: starting to hit and swing when she doesn't want something

1474
01:07:15,960 --> 01:07:18,760
Speaker 3: like ye do want blah blah, I don't want this toy,

1475
01:07:18,960 --> 01:07:21,480
Speaker 3: throw that like I don't, you know, hitting you in

1476
01:07:21,560 --> 01:07:25,680
Speaker 3: the face or bucking dude, She's like bucking so hard.

1477
01:07:25,840 --> 01:07:29,120
Speaker 2: Now would she like once down or isn't like comfortable yeah?

1478
01:07:29,440 --> 01:07:31,320
Speaker 2: Or like hey, I want to play. I don't want

1479
01:07:31,320 --> 01:07:33,400
Speaker 2: to sit in your lap in the rocking chair, like

1480
01:07:33,560 --> 01:07:35,600
Speaker 2: I have a cool playpin over there, put me in it.

1481
01:07:35,720 --> 01:07:39,160
Speaker 2: And she's doing this so much with like a not

1482
01:07:39,280 --> 01:07:43,880
Speaker 2: a cry, but like a ah, like letting you know,

1483
01:07:44,080 --> 01:07:47,040
Speaker 2: like I want to go do something else, like stop

1484
01:07:47,160 --> 01:07:50,080
Speaker 2: doing this. And so I'm already like, oh man, this

1485
01:07:50,200 --> 01:07:53,960
Speaker 2: is gonna be fun, like having to deal with somebody

1486
01:07:54,080 --> 01:07:56,320
Speaker 2: that is saying no to you.

1487
01:07:56,760 --> 01:07:58,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's fun too because it gives you, as

1488
01:07:58,840 --> 01:08:00,000
Speaker 1: a parent too, some more directions.

1489
01:08:00,440 --> 01:08:02,240
Speaker 2: It you don't like that, you don't want that, now

1490
01:08:02,280 --> 01:08:04,840
Speaker 2: we know now, I know, Yes, I don't know if

1491
01:08:04,840 --> 01:08:06,960
Speaker 2: I'm just guessing if you're not hungry right now or

1492
01:08:07,040 --> 01:08:09,000
Speaker 2: if you're this is something you don't like.

1493
01:08:09,200 --> 01:08:13,040
Speaker 3: Yes, that that actually goes into my dad hack, like

1494
01:08:13,160 --> 01:08:17,920
Speaker 3: perfectly is bedtime playtime of Scarlett was one hundred percent.

1495
01:08:18,840 --> 01:08:23,840
Speaker 3: I fed her solids and stuff, and I got home

1496
01:08:24,000 --> 01:08:27,640
Speaker 3: so late from daycare that it was already kind of

1497
01:08:27,680 --> 01:08:30,120
Speaker 3: her feeding and bathtime like by the time I got

1498
01:08:30,160 --> 01:08:33,960
Speaker 3: her home, so we didn't do our bedtime playtime, and

1499
01:08:34,080 --> 01:08:36,920
Speaker 3: the entire time she's like trying to eat solids and stuff.

1500
01:08:37,160 --> 01:08:40,519
Speaker 1: She's pissed. She doesn't want anything to do with it,

1501
01:08:40,720 --> 01:08:41,920
Speaker 1: which is not really Scarlett.

1502
01:08:42,000 --> 01:08:44,880
Speaker 3: Scarlett has a very kind of like calm vibe, and

1503
01:08:44,960 --> 01:08:47,439
Speaker 3: she'll let you know if she doesn't like something. But

1504
01:08:47,560 --> 01:08:51,080
Speaker 3: she was letting me know she was upset. I was like, oh,

1505
01:08:51,240 --> 01:08:53,479
Speaker 3: she's tired. She's probably just tired. I'll go ahead and

1506
01:08:53,520 --> 01:08:55,960
Speaker 3: put her in the bath. She's not really having fun

1507
01:08:56,040 --> 01:08:58,720
Speaker 3: in the bath like she usually is. I put her

1508
01:08:58,800 --> 01:09:01,720
Speaker 3: on the changing table, she is so sad that she's

1509
01:09:01,760 --> 01:09:03,880
Speaker 3: on the changing table. I'm like, this is the one

1510
01:09:03,920 --> 01:09:07,799
Speaker 3: place where you're always happy. What like, yea, what has changed?

1511
01:09:07,880 --> 01:09:10,640
Speaker 3: What's going on? Trying to feed her the bottle, she

1512
01:09:10,760 --> 01:09:14,479
Speaker 3: takes three ounces out of seven. That's like unheard of

1513
01:09:14,680 --> 01:09:18,360
Speaker 3: for Scarlet. That never happens. I put her into her

1514
01:09:18,479 --> 01:09:21,679
Speaker 3: crib because I sat there for twenty minutes, like, okay,

1515
01:09:21,800 --> 01:09:22,479
Speaker 3: you're gonna go down.

1516
01:09:22,560 --> 01:09:25,920
Speaker 1: The entire time she's doing this, which she never does.

1517
01:09:26,640 --> 01:09:27,880
Speaker 2: I put her in the crib.

1518
01:09:28,360 --> 01:09:33,439
Speaker 3: She's screaming for like fifteen minutes straight, and she finally

1519
01:09:33,600 --> 01:09:36,160
Speaker 3: did go to bed. But like looking back on it now,

1520
01:09:36,360 --> 01:09:38,720
Speaker 3: all that bucking and all that crying and stuff, I

1521
01:09:38,840 --> 01:09:41,200
Speaker 3: was like, she was trying to tell me I didn't

1522
01:09:41,200 --> 01:09:43,360
Speaker 3: get to play with you, Like I didn't get to

1523
01:09:44,120 --> 01:09:45,360
Speaker 3: sit down in the playpen.

1524
01:09:45,960 --> 01:09:48,000
Speaker 1: I didn't realize that until it was too late.

1525
01:09:48,120 --> 01:09:50,560
Speaker 3: Of like trying to put her in the crib, I

1526
01:09:50,760 --> 01:09:52,760
Speaker 3: was kind of moving her hands around a little bit,

1527
01:09:53,600 --> 01:09:56,200
Speaker 3: trying to tell her to go to bed.

1528
01:09:56,160 --> 01:09:58,439
Speaker 1: And she started laughing and smiling. When I was like

1529
01:09:59,080 --> 01:10:00,320
Speaker 1: playing with her hands, I was.

1530
01:10:00,360 --> 01:10:03,880
Speaker 2: Like, oh no, I didn't play with you. That's what

1531
01:10:04,080 --> 01:10:06,840
Speaker 2: that's what you wanted this entire time, So that was

1532
01:10:07,000 --> 01:10:11,840
Speaker 2: that was my That's awesome. I love that you're getting uh,

1533
01:10:12,160 --> 01:10:15,120
Speaker 2: you're like getting feedback. I always love those little nuances

1534
01:10:15,320 --> 01:10:18,479
Speaker 2: where Scotty's way different from Rue. Whereas Rue would take

1535
01:10:18,479 --> 01:10:21,320
Speaker 2: down the entire bottle, like five six ounces in it,

1536
01:10:21,880 --> 01:10:23,559
Speaker 2: Rue would take it all the way down, because Scotty's

1537
01:10:23,600 --> 01:10:28,559
Speaker 2: around fifteen months and Scotty's different, Like she'll take down

1538
01:10:28,640 --> 01:10:30,920
Speaker 2: like two ounces and then stop. And then I'm thinking, Okay,

1539
01:10:31,160 --> 01:10:34,000
Speaker 2: does she not want any more milk? Like it seems

1540
01:10:34,040 --> 01:10:36,920
Speaker 2: like she's not not into the milk thing. And then

1541
01:10:36,920 --> 01:10:38,880
Speaker 2: all of a sudden, you like read a book and

1542
01:10:38,960 --> 01:10:41,439
Speaker 2: she wants the milk again. But there's a learning phrase

1543
01:10:41,479 --> 01:10:43,200
Speaker 2: there for me to where I'm like, Okay, if you

1544
01:10:43,200 --> 01:10:44,479
Speaker 2: don't want the milk, I'd get to where I just

1545
01:10:44,520 --> 01:10:45,760
Speaker 2: hide it and be like maybe it just needs to

1546
01:10:45,800 --> 01:10:47,679
Speaker 2: be out of her sight because she's not like drinking

1547
01:10:47,680 --> 01:10:50,720
Speaker 2: all the milk. I go downstairs until chorro dude, she

1548
01:10:50,880 --> 01:10:54,080
Speaker 2: left like four ounces in her bottle and we just

1549
01:10:54,120 --> 01:10:55,800
Speaker 2: put it in the fridge for the next day. But

1550
01:10:56,360 --> 01:10:58,880
Speaker 2: over the next few days because I wasn't realizing she

1551
01:10:59,080 --> 01:11:02,320
Speaker 2: just she takes it down differently to wear rue. You

1552
01:11:02,400 --> 01:11:04,160
Speaker 2: had this full routine and then when you're sitting there

1553
01:11:04,200 --> 01:11:06,679
Speaker 2: to read the book, read the books and everything else,

1554
01:11:07,320 --> 01:11:09,720
Speaker 2: she's just hammering the milk. Now with Scotty, I've just

1555
01:11:09,840 --> 01:11:13,120
Speaker 2: learned that, like, okay, she just takes twenty minutes to

1556
01:11:13,479 --> 01:11:15,639
Speaker 2: drink all of her bottle or thirty minutes to drink

1557
01:11:15,640 --> 01:11:17,320
Speaker 2: all of her bottles. So when I'm up about to

1558
01:11:17,400 --> 01:11:19,400
Speaker 2: change her arm, like hey, put away your laundry, I

1559
01:11:19,600 --> 01:11:21,200
Speaker 2: just give her the bottle so she can sip on

1560
01:11:21,280 --> 01:11:23,479
Speaker 2: it whenever she's wanting to sip on it. But I'm

1561
01:11:23,520 --> 01:11:26,760
Speaker 2: not knowing that until like I'm learning days after like

1562
01:11:26,880 --> 01:11:29,840
Speaker 2: thinking about whatever the feedback like Scarlett was giving you

1563
01:11:29,960 --> 01:11:33,560
Speaker 2: of like okay, they're just they just maneuver, they're just

1564
01:11:33,680 --> 01:11:34,799
Speaker 2: doing things differently.

1565
01:11:35,800 --> 01:11:38,200
Speaker 1: Also, what type of milk is she drinking now?

1566
01:11:38,640 --> 01:11:42,760
Speaker 2: Right now? So Scotty has eggzema on her skin, so

1567
01:11:42,920 --> 01:11:46,400
Speaker 2: we're exploring is it dairy, like is it h oh okay?

1568
01:11:46,720 --> 01:11:48,800
Speaker 2: Is it something that she could have an allergy to?

1569
01:11:49,520 --> 01:11:52,479
Speaker 2: So we've gotten like dairy out of her diets. So

1570
01:11:52,680 --> 01:11:56,040
Speaker 2: right now she'll have like almond milk for like as

1571
01:11:56,160 --> 01:11:58,920
Speaker 2: her bedtime drink. Like we'll do different things throughout the day,

1572
01:11:59,439 --> 01:12:01,880
Speaker 2: but right now Scotty's just having almond, which she likes it.

1573
01:12:01,960 --> 01:12:04,400
Speaker 1: So that fires us up. Is a game when you

1574
01:12:04,520 --> 01:12:06,639
Speaker 1: change from like you know, you're drinking like whole milk

1575
01:12:06,800 --> 01:12:10,840
Speaker 1: to almond milk. Yeah, but that's what she's having out

1576
01:12:10,840 --> 01:12:13,400
Speaker 1: because she's gotten like eggs amunt houses, like these rashes

1577
01:12:13,439 --> 01:12:14,960
Speaker 1: on her skin, to where we're trying to figure out

1578
01:12:15,000 --> 01:12:18,040
Speaker 1: what's going on, oh with her skin, because it doesn't

1579
01:12:18,040 --> 01:12:18,639
Speaker 1: seem like it's.

1580
01:12:18,520 --> 01:12:21,800
Speaker 2: Bothering her, because that's such a dad hack that I

1581
01:12:22,040 --> 01:12:27,120
Speaker 2: just that you just said with putting the remainder of

1582
01:12:27,320 --> 01:12:30,840
Speaker 2: the milk in the fridge, I haven't even thought about that,

1583
01:12:31,520 --> 01:12:33,519
Speaker 2: but I but then when it's enough, if it's like

1584
01:12:33,520 --> 01:12:35,200
Speaker 2: an ounce, I might just dump it. Like if it's

1585
01:12:35,200 --> 01:12:36,840
Speaker 2: a little bit, I might just dump it or wash it.

1586
01:12:36,920 --> 01:12:40,880
Speaker 2: But sometimes Scotty was leaving like three or four ounces

1587
01:12:40,920 --> 01:12:42,200
Speaker 2: like in her bottle. I'm like, all right, I guess

1588
01:12:42,240 --> 01:12:44,080
Speaker 2: we'll just use this for the morning time. But it's

1589
01:12:44,120 --> 01:12:46,439
Speaker 2: only because she was different. She's different from Rude because

1590
01:12:46,520 --> 01:12:49,040
Speaker 2: Rue would just suck it down and you would just

1591
01:12:49,160 --> 01:12:50,080
Speaker 2: know when she was done.

1592
01:12:50,360 --> 01:12:54,160
Speaker 1: Scotty's like a sipper. Yeah, like throughout the entire bedtime.

1593
01:12:54,439 --> 01:12:57,479
Speaker 2: I'll read books and sometimes Scotty's like, ru would sit

1594
01:12:57,520 --> 01:12:59,320
Speaker 2: there and you'd read the full book to her, she

1595
01:12:59,479 --> 01:13:02,439
Speaker 2: pointed to, you'd have like interactions if kisses or kissing

1596
01:13:02,640 --> 01:13:04,320
Speaker 2: was on a page, like you'd like kiss them and

1597
01:13:04,600 --> 01:13:05,040
Speaker 2: stuff like that.

1598
01:13:05,160 --> 01:13:07,160
Speaker 1: Like Scotty enjoys that. But Rude sit there and listen

1599
01:13:07,240 --> 01:13:08,000
Speaker 1: and drink her milk.

1600
01:13:08,400 --> 01:13:11,160
Speaker 2: Scott, He's like, you're trying to read the pages, and

1601
01:13:11,280 --> 01:13:13,080
Speaker 2: she's trying to touch and engage with the book and

1602
01:13:13,200 --> 01:13:15,240
Speaker 2: move the pages herself. Like she doesn't have the same

1603
01:13:15,360 --> 01:13:19,240
Speaker 2: kind of like patience or chillness that Rude did. Scotty

1604
01:13:19,240 --> 01:13:21,120
Speaker 2: will be done with the book. You'll get three pages

1605
01:13:21,160 --> 01:13:23,439
Speaker 2: in and she'll be leaning on you, like wrestling you

1606
01:13:23,520 --> 01:13:26,240
Speaker 2: to get another back. Yeah, And I'm like, golly, hey,

1607
01:13:26,360 --> 01:13:29,240
Speaker 2: just relax, man, just sit down and like let's enjoy this.

1608
01:13:29,560 --> 01:13:31,080
Speaker 2: We're going to bed dude. Yeah.

1609
01:13:31,320 --> 01:13:34,040
Speaker 4: And I ask a dumb guy question. Do do you

1610
01:13:35,040 --> 01:13:37,120
Speaker 4: test babies for what they're allergic to at a young

1611
01:13:37,160 --> 01:13:39,040
Speaker 4: age or is it just kind of like they tell

1612
01:13:39,120 --> 01:13:40,840
Speaker 4: you when they're allergic to something. Like I'm thinking about

1613
01:13:40,840 --> 01:13:42,360
Speaker 4: like if a baby's allergic to carrots and you feed

1614
01:13:42,400 --> 01:13:44,160
Speaker 4: the carrots and then something happens or is there some

1615
01:13:44,400 --> 01:13:46,960
Speaker 4: version of like allergy testing for babies.

1616
01:13:46,640 --> 01:13:49,439
Speaker 1: Or is it just as you go there is a form,

1617
01:13:49,479 --> 01:13:51,960
Speaker 1: But absolutely it doesn't just happen like they're not like

1618
01:13:52,760 --> 01:13:54,439
Speaker 1: do they do test them like right out of the gate.

1619
01:13:55,080 --> 01:13:57,040
Speaker 2: Not right out of the gate. And I think it's

1620
01:13:57,160 --> 01:14:01,800
Speaker 2: around like the four five six rain of like the

1621
01:14:01,960 --> 01:14:05,120
Speaker 2: major allergies. But I know a lot of people for

1622
01:14:05,439 --> 01:14:09,639
Speaker 2: peanut butter because a lot yeah, peanuts is a peanut allergy,

1623
01:14:09,760 --> 01:14:10,760
Speaker 2: nuts a big one.

1624
01:14:10,920 --> 01:14:13,720
Speaker 3: They will test it in the parking lot of a hospital,

1625
01:14:14,640 --> 01:14:16,479
Speaker 3: which is kind of a dad hack, I guess.

1626
01:14:16,760 --> 01:14:18,519
Speaker 1: But a lot of times you're like learning on the go.

1627
01:14:18,840 --> 01:14:22,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, like they're having an allergic reaction to anything, and

1628
01:14:22,160 --> 01:14:23,720
Speaker 2: then you take them into the pediatrician.

1629
01:14:23,760 --> 01:14:25,200
Speaker 1: You'll sit there and talk about the diet.

1630
01:14:25,479 --> 01:14:27,439
Speaker 2: But there is a tour. Hey let's try this, let's

1631
01:14:27,479 --> 01:14:29,160
Speaker 2: try that. That's kind of where we got to. What

1632
01:14:29,280 --> 01:14:31,320
Speaker 2: we're doing with Scottie is like let's just see if

1633
01:14:31,360 --> 01:14:33,439
Speaker 2: she's having an allergy to be.

1634
01:14:33,479 --> 01:14:37,160
Speaker 3: Dairy, because there's also a nut allergy of like all

1635
01:14:37,400 --> 01:14:40,760
Speaker 3: you know, not just peanuts, Like oh okay, if they're

1636
01:14:40,760 --> 01:14:43,479
Speaker 3: allergic to peanuts, Like, let's test them for all these

1637
01:14:43,520 --> 01:14:44,479
Speaker 3: different types of nuts.

1638
01:14:44,520 --> 01:14:47,080
Speaker 1: It's like, yo, they just have a nut allergy, like

1639
01:14:47,160 --> 01:14:52,479
Speaker 1: they can only do it. Yeah, just anything legit though, yeah,

1640
01:14:53,320 --> 01:14:54,519
Speaker 1: overarching nut allergy.

1641
01:14:54,800 --> 01:14:55,040
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1642
01:14:56,080 --> 01:14:58,960
Speaker 1: Also, I have a humongous dad loss.

1643
01:15:00,200 --> 01:15:03,839
Speaker 3: I just briefly want to talk about, and I honestly

1644
01:15:04,000 --> 01:15:07,160
Speaker 3: want PT six's help on this.

1645
01:15:08,680 --> 01:15:12,560
Speaker 2: This is a cry for help. Okay, the ratkin.

1646
01:15:12,320 --> 01:15:20,799
Speaker 3: Situation will not cease. They are officially out of the space.

1647
01:15:21,720 --> 01:15:26,160
Speaker 3: But one of them was definitely killed by something. Because

1648
01:15:27,479 --> 01:15:30,439
Speaker 3: my house smells like a dead animal right now. The

1649
01:15:30,720 --> 01:15:35,160
Speaker 3: entire shit, the entire living room, kitchen areas smells like

1650
01:15:35,200 --> 01:15:35,880
Speaker 3: a dead animal.

1651
01:15:37,000 --> 01:15:37,599
Speaker 2: It's awful.

1652
01:15:38,800 --> 01:15:39,600
Speaker 1: I don't know what to do.

1653
01:15:40,160 --> 01:15:44,040
Speaker 2: Have you checked cross space. There is not a crawl

1654
01:15:44,080 --> 01:15:50,120
Speaker 2: space to like get into like it would basically you

1655
01:15:50,200 --> 01:15:52,760
Speaker 2: would have to take off like multiple pieces of wood

1656
01:15:52,840 --> 01:15:56,080
Speaker 2: from like the exterior of the home and enter in

1657
01:15:56,200 --> 01:15:56,599
Speaker 2: through there.

1658
01:15:56,680 --> 01:15:59,680
Speaker 6: There's no like attics, any points of enturg that a

1659
01:15:59,800 --> 01:16:01,439
Speaker 6: s all animal could have got under the home.

1660
01:16:02,360 --> 01:16:05,799
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that same point of entry that I closed

1661
01:16:05,960 --> 01:16:09,479
Speaker 3: up twice. Now they ripped they rip it off. I

1662
01:16:09,840 --> 01:16:12,000
Speaker 3: did nails and screws, and they rip.

1663
01:16:12,120 --> 01:16:15,280
Speaker 2: The roof on the roof. Have you checked I'm talking

1664
01:16:15,320 --> 01:16:16,280
Speaker 2: about below the house.

1665
01:16:16,920 --> 01:16:20,600
Speaker 3: Oh, below the house, Yeah, there is, there is, but

1666
01:16:20,800 --> 01:16:24,120
Speaker 3: I mean it's almost one hundred million percent in the

1667
01:16:24,640 --> 01:16:25,240
Speaker 3: in the ceiling.

1668
01:16:25,640 --> 01:16:29,400
Speaker 2: Like okay, so you know you can smell. Oh yes,

1669
01:16:30,439 --> 01:16:32,479
Speaker 2: So your question to pop a team six out there

1670
01:16:32,520 --> 01:16:33,639
Speaker 2: that's dealt with potential.

1671
01:16:33,800 --> 01:16:36,120
Speaker 1: What what do I dead animals smell in their house?

1672
01:16:36,680 --> 01:16:37,200
Speaker 2: What do I do?

1673
01:16:38,600 --> 01:16:40,679
Speaker 1: Like there is a dead animal in the crawl space

1674
01:16:40,800 --> 01:16:42,800
Speaker 1: of I don't know what to do.

1675
01:16:43,760 --> 01:16:45,200
Speaker 2: I'll be honest, I don't know what to do. I

1676
01:16:45,240 --> 01:16:46,600
Speaker 2: wouldn't know what to do. I'd just be paying to

1677
01:16:46,640 --> 01:16:51,840
Speaker 2: spraying for breeze. And I paid for this. Oh, charl

1678
01:16:51,880 --> 01:16:55,479
Speaker 2: would be in my ass about spraying for breeze when

1679
01:16:55,560 --> 01:16:57,960
Speaker 2: Charles out of town. You'll love this because this is

1680
01:16:58,040 --> 01:17:02,479
Speaker 2: like a newspaper esque. Roue wet the bed when she

1681
01:17:02,560 --> 01:17:04,879
Speaker 2: was sleeping with me one night and got a little.

1682
01:17:04,680 --> 01:17:11,200
Speaker 1: Bit, just got a little bit. No, no, no, I

1683
01:17:11,320 --> 01:17:13,560
Speaker 1: took the sheets off because we have like this, We

1684
01:17:13,640 --> 01:17:16,120
Speaker 1: have like this eight this eight sleep like cover that

1685
01:17:16,280 --> 01:17:18,240
Speaker 1: like helps chill and heat.

1686
01:17:18,080 --> 01:17:20,000
Speaker 2: The bed and stuff like that. And it doesn't seem

1687
01:17:20,040 --> 01:17:23,040
Speaker 2: like you can wash it. Yeah, And so I'm like,

1688
01:17:23,120 --> 01:17:25,280
Speaker 2: whoa I you know, I took the sheet off. I'm

1689
01:17:25,400 --> 01:17:28,439
Speaker 2: washing the sheets, but the eight sleep it still got

1690
01:17:28,520 --> 01:17:30,880
Speaker 2: the pist smell on it. And then when Charle came back,

1691
01:17:30,920 --> 01:17:32,840
Speaker 2: she's like, what'd you do? I was like, what do

1692
01:17:32,880 --> 01:17:34,960
Speaker 2: you mean? I was like, I just sprayed for breeze

1693
01:17:35,000 --> 01:17:39,599
Speaker 2: on it. I hit it with some clean it out.

1694
01:17:39,600 --> 01:17:42,000
Speaker 2: You didn't like blatch it or try to rub it

1695
01:17:42,040 --> 01:17:45,160
Speaker 2: out with a get a rag with. She was saying

1696
01:17:45,240 --> 01:17:47,040
Speaker 2: some home remedy remedy type shit.

1697
01:17:47,840 --> 01:17:47,880
Speaker 5: No.

1698
01:17:48,120 --> 01:17:49,800
Speaker 2: I thought like the for breeze like that would just

1699
01:17:50,040 --> 01:17:51,640
Speaker 2: that would just kill it. She's like, well, I mean

1700
01:17:52,320 --> 01:17:53,760
Speaker 2: you were saying the smell is still there, like I

1701
01:17:53,800 --> 01:17:58,840
Speaker 2: can smell it. I'm like, oh, the forre breeze didn't work, honey.

1702
01:17:58,880 --> 01:18:02,040
Speaker 2: I tried to do something. Yeah, there was an attempt

1703
01:18:02,120 --> 01:18:04,640
Speaker 2: to face he's got the chemicals and everything else, like

1704
01:18:04,720 --> 01:18:06,360
Speaker 2: it's not good to just spray for breezes.

1705
01:18:06,400 --> 01:18:08,160
Speaker 1: You gotta you gotta figure out a way to try.

1706
01:18:08,000 --> 01:18:08,400
Speaker 2: And clean it.

1707
01:18:08,560 --> 01:18:12,080
Speaker 3: I don't know what you want me to do, and

1708
01:18:12,200 --> 01:18:14,400
Speaker 3: I don't know what I need to do for for

1709
01:18:14,560 --> 01:18:17,360
Speaker 3: this and all all else. I will say about the

1710
01:18:17,439 --> 01:18:20,200
Speaker 3: situation is I hired people.

1711
01:18:20,360 --> 01:18:23,640
Speaker 1: Do you guys just like candles. Yeah, we've just been

1712
01:18:23,720 --> 01:18:27,679
Speaker 1: doing candles, baking soda. I don't I don't even Yeah,

1713
01:18:27,920 --> 01:18:30,839
Speaker 1: we've been doing candles. You do that apple side of vinegar.

1714
01:18:32,920 --> 01:18:37,360
Speaker 3: There's like a little opening in my roof, like starting

1715
01:18:37,520 --> 01:18:40,760
Speaker 3: like holy water. Just just make a little grenade of

1716
01:18:40,840 --> 01:18:41,960
Speaker 3: apples or vinegar.

1717
01:18:42,640 --> 01:18:46,599
Speaker 2: Just don't people use apple side of vinegar for everything? Yeah,

1718
01:18:46,960 --> 01:18:50,720
Speaker 2: burn some sage. Yeah, but I desperately like I need

1719
01:18:50,800 --> 01:18:52,439
Speaker 2: some help. I just want to put this out there.

1720
01:18:52,560 --> 01:18:52,800
Speaker 2: I have.

1721
01:18:53,040 --> 01:18:55,040
Speaker 1: I don't even know what they're called, but it's like

1722
01:18:55,080 --> 01:18:56,240
Speaker 1: the Wildlife Specialists.

1723
01:18:57,360 --> 01:18:58,600
Speaker 2: There's some name for that.

1724
01:18:59,000 --> 01:19:03,800
Speaker 3: Who said Steve irwincontrol dot com.

1725
01:19:03,960 --> 01:19:05,040
Speaker 4: I just texted you a link.

1726
01:19:05,120 --> 01:19:06,120
Speaker 2: So fabulous.

1727
01:19:06,920 --> 01:19:10,960
Speaker 3: I've hired one of them, and it was it felt

1728
01:19:11,000 --> 01:19:13,559
Speaker 3: like a scam because I was charged six hundred dollars

1729
01:19:13,640 --> 01:19:16,760
Speaker 3: for them to put a trap on my roof that

1730
01:19:17,000 --> 01:19:18,519
Speaker 3: caught a baby raccoon.

1731
01:19:19,120 --> 01:19:21,639
Speaker 1: And they're like, oh, well, we can't just like take.

1732
01:19:21,479 --> 01:19:24,400
Speaker 3: The baby away, So we let the baby out of

1733
01:19:24,600 --> 01:19:26,360
Speaker 3: the cage and just put it back in the crawl

1734
01:19:26,400 --> 01:19:29,599
Speaker 3: space to be with its mom because we can't take

1735
01:19:29,680 --> 01:19:30,400
Speaker 3: the baby away.

1736
01:19:30,960 --> 01:19:33,680
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, oh, they brought the trap over

1737
01:19:33,800 --> 01:19:37,439
Speaker 2: trap something released the animal the critter back into Yeah,

1738
01:19:37,720 --> 01:19:39,000
Speaker 2: we're just going to take our trap back.

1739
01:19:39,080 --> 01:19:41,360
Speaker 1: But hey, and I got to pay six hundred dollars

1740
01:19:41,439 --> 01:19:41,640
Speaker 1: for that.

1741
01:19:41,760 --> 01:19:44,080
Speaker 2: That was fun. Crazy, That was a lot of fun.

1742
01:19:44,520 --> 01:19:46,439
Speaker 1: I got to see a baby raccoon in a cage

1743
01:19:46,520 --> 01:19:48,000
Speaker 1: on my roof for six hundred dollars.

1744
01:19:48,320 --> 01:19:53,040
Speaker 2: Well worth it, So so pt Sichos that were going

1745
01:19:53,120 --> 01:19:55,400
Speaker 2: to give me that type of recommendation.

1746
01:19:55,520 --> 01:19:58,240
Speaker 3: I need some different avenue than that. Yeah, I need

1747
01:19:58,280 --> 01:20:03,160
Speaker 3: a different avenue. Bye Jim in Pt. Six, please help me,

1748
01:20:04,479 --> 01:20:04,920
Speaker 3: help me.

1749
01:20:05,280 --> 01:20:09,040
Speaker 1: I do have a I have a dad win slash loss.

1750
01:20:09,080 --> 01:20:14,080
Speaker 2: This is a little dad loss by TRAVISCT strict Faden.

1751
01:20:13,840 --> 01:20:15,200
Speaker 1: On X Hey Boys.

1752
01:20:15,280 --> 01:20:17,760
Speaker 2: Travis from Michigan checking in, huge fan of the show,

1753
01:20:18,240 --> 01:20:21,120
Speaker 2: saw the new Empty six shirts drop and thought, perfect,

1754
01:20:21,560 --> 01:20:24,000
Speaker 2: my heavily pregnant wife needs this in her life.

1755
01:20:24,520 --> 01:20:25,640
Speaker 1: She's twenty nine weeks with.

1756
01:20:25,680 --> 01:20:28,639
Speaker 2: Kid number two, looking like she swallowed a yoga ball

1757
01:20:28,880 --> 01:20:34,120
Speaker 2: that's now practicing karate in there. I love the creativity,

1758
01:20:34,720 --> 01:20:37,160
Speaker 2: so I hit her with Babe, I gotta get that

1759
01:20:37,280 --> 01:20:41,439
Speaker 2: dope new shirt in a small Her face immediately did

1760
01:20:41,520 --> 01:20:45,960
Speaker 2: the you sweet sweet idiot betrayal look. Got absolutely flamed

1761
01:20:46,040 --> 01:20:49,160
Speaker 2: for sizing her like she's fitting into a pre pregnancy Lululemon.

1762
01:20:49,920 --> 01:20:53,519
Speaker 2: Oh good, panic ordered the next size up. I'm diffusing

1763
01:20:53,600 --> 01:20:56,519
Speaker 2: the bomb now, praying to rise before she goes full

1764
01:20:56,600 --> 01:21:00,200
Speaker 2: hulk on me. Y'all keep cooking, pet sick oh out

1765
01:21:00,400 --> 01:21:05,120
Speaker 2: with the emoji pt sico let's go. Yeah, thank you, Travis, dude.

1766
01:21:05,120 --> 01:21:07,960
Speaker 2: Good luck out there, man, truly thank you for the support.

1767
01:21:08,000 --> 01:21:09,280
Speaker 2: Bwtv dot com.

1768
01:21:09,280 --> 01:21:12,160
Speaker 1: Bw tv dot com. There's also the contest.

1769
01:21:11,920 --> 01:21:14,599
Speaker 2: Going on right now. Yes, yes, we name it, dude,

1770
01:21:16,360 --> 01:21:16,840
Speaker 2: that's all right.

1771
01:21:16,960 --> 01:21:21,200
Speaker 1: The sikos, the ones who actually listened to the full hour. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

1772
01:21:21,720 --> 01:21:24,679
Speaker 1: they're gonna hear us. Okay, this did just really quick.

1773
01:21:24,840 --> 01:21:29,320
Speaker 3: Shameless plug, a shameless plug for our own companies contests

1774
01:21:29,320 --> 01:21:31,920
Speaker 3: that we're doing. There's a T shirt contest. There's a

1775
01:21:31,960 --> 01:21:34,120
Speaker 3: bunch of Busting with the Boys shirts on there. They're

1776
01:21:34,200 --> 01:21:36,519
Speaker 3: really great. I am actually a huge fan of the

1777
01:21:38,120 --> 01:21:41,040
Speaker 3: uh Busting with Thy Boys, and you guys are in

1778
01:21:41,320 --> 01:21:46,920
Speaker 3: night outfits. That's my favorite by far. But there are

1779
01:21:46,960 --> 01:21:51,040
Speaker 3: two PT six inspired designs and they are badass, and

1780
01:21:51,080 --> 01:21:51,839
Speaker 3: they are badass.

1781
01:21:51,960 --> 01:21:55,160
Speaker 2: And the little commercial piece of content you made for

1782
01:21:55,400 --> 01:21:59,599
Speaker 2: who's phenomenal. Yes, yes, Brovo and the riding deck chef,

1783
01:22:00,600 --> 01:22:01,639
Speaker 2: just all of it. Bravo.

1784
01:22:01,840 --> 01:22:04,640
Speaker 3: Yes, they they did a fabulous job with that. That

1785
01:22:04,840 --> 01:22:11,800
Speaker 3: was a very funny idea. And hopefully this David versus

1786
01:22:11,920 --> 01:22:17,519
Speaker 3: Goliath story, maybe we get a third place. Maybe the Cougar,

1787
01:22:17,720 --> 01:22:20,479
Speaker 3: the hot cougar mommy gets like a third place finish,

1788
01:22:20,960 --> 01:22:22,439
Speaker 3: or the bear gets a third place finish.

1789
01:22:22,720 --> 01:22:25,600
Speaker 2: Let's get one of those designs. Why not a championship?

1790
01:22:26,840 --> 01:22:27,120
Speaker 2: Why not?

1791
01:22:27,960 --> 01:22:28,519
Speaker 1: Why not us?

1792
01:22:28,600 --> 01:22:32,479
Speaker 2: Why not be elite? But essentially fan this is a

1793
01:22:32,720 --> 01:22:36,760
Speaker 2: design contest where fans submitted designs. I'll be on merchandise

1794
01:22:37,520 --> 01:22:40,920
Speaker 2: and a fan drew up awesome pieces for Empty six

1795
01:22:41,000 --> 01:22:43,600
Speaker 2: and Papa Team six. Yep. Like we'll obviously have it

1796
01:22:43,640 --> 01:22:45,559
Speaker 2: playing like as you guys are watching. If you're listening

1797
01:22:45,680 --> 01:22:47,080
Speaker 2: right now, make sure to just check out the site

1798
01:22:47,120 --> 01:22:49,559
Speaker 2: btwtv dot com. The design contest will be up right

1799
01:22:49,600 --> 01:22:51,479
Speaker 2: in front of your face. Yes, you click on that

1800
01:22:51,560 --> 01:22:53,560
Speaker 2: and you'll see you'll know what we're talking about. And

1801
01:22:53,640 --> 01:22:56,439
Speaker 2: there we're phenomenal ones and the winner is getting there's

1802
01:22:56,479 --> 01:22:59,439
Speaker 2: like a first, there's a first, second, third, uh to

1803
01:22:59,560 --> 01:23:02,960
Speaker 2: reward the fans who submitted designs. Whichever shirt gets sold

1804
01:23:03,040 --> 01:23:05,280
Speaker 2: the most, that's gonna be the winner. That design winner

1805
01:23:05,320 --> 01:23:08,400
Speaker 2: is getting three thousand dollars. Yeah, second place is getting

1806
01:23:08,439 --> 01:23:10,880
Speaker 2: two thousand, Third place is getting one thousand dollars. So

1807
01:23:11,360 --> 01:23:13,880
Speaker 2: if the empty six shirt or the PT six shirt

1808
01:23:13,960 --> 01:23:17,920
Speaker 2: sells the most, it has the most sales, that person

1809
01:23:17,960 --> 01:23:20,160
Speaker 2: who designed it will be getting a reward of three

1810
01:23:20,200 --> 01:23:23,519
Speaker 2: thousand dollars. Yeah, so that's how that's how it's working.

1811
01:23:23,760 --> 01:23:26,360
Speaker 2: The stakes are high, The stakes are high. So PT

1812
01:23:26,520 --> 01:23:31,000
Speaker 2: six come correct, bring the army and let's try and

1813
01:23:31,080 --> 01:23:34,080
Speaker 2: get one of these one of these designs to win. Yeah.

1814
01:23:35,200 --> 01:23:38,240
Speaker 2: GWTV dot com, BWDB dot com. Shameless blog of our

1815
01:23:38,240 --> 01:23:44,080
Speaker 2: own website, Hubby shoutouts, I have hubby shoutouts emails. Yeah,

1816
01:23:45,320 --> 01:23:45,840
Speaker 2: let's rip it.

1817
01:23:45,920 --> 01:23:48,920
Speaker 3: Let's rip I have a hubby shout out right here

1818
01:23:49,280 --> 01:23:54,200
Speaker 3: from Antwinette Saba on Ig. Hey boys, I just wanted

1819
01:23:54,240 --> 01:23:56,519
Speaker 3: to send a message to say how truly grateful and

1820
01:23:56,600 --> 01:23:57,720
Speaker 3: thankful I am for it.

1821
01:23:58,080 --> 01:24:00,720
Speaker 2: For the dads. I've been a listener since day one,

1822
01:24:00,920 --> 01:24:03,880
Speaker 2: and the craziest part is the pod launch shortly after

1823
01:24:04,560 --> 01:24:08,400
Speaker 2: I got pregnant. The timing felt meant to be, and

1824
01:24:08,479 --> 01:24:11,840
Speaker 2: my husband and I have been active listeners ever since.

1825
01:24:12,479 --> 01:24:15,600
Speaker 1: Every week we look forward to the laughs, the advice.

1826
01:24:15,360 --> 01:24:16,719
Speaker 2: And yes, even the tears.

1827
01:24:17,560 --> 01:24:21,959
Speaker 3: Throughout my entire pregnancy, we listen and talk about the trenches,

1828
01:24:23,000 --> 01:24:25,960
Speaker 3: getting so fired up hearing all the stories and feeling

1829
01:24:26,080 --> 01:24:30,120
Speaker 3: ready to dive right in ourselves. Well, our baby boy

1830
01:24:30,160 --> 01:24:36,400
Speaker 3: officially arrived on February twenty second. He's a junior second

1831
01:24:36,479 --> 01:24:39,840
Speaker 3: of his name, so that birthday feels very fitting for

1832
01:24:39,920 --> 01:24:44,479
Speaker 3: a legacy guy. I can't even put into words what

1833
01:24:44,640 --> 01:24:48,000
Speaker 3: this podcast has done for my life and especially my husband.

1834
01:24:48,439 --> 01:24:51,800
Speaker 3: Good is now a staple in our house. He doesn't

1835
01:24:51,800 --> 01:24:55,759
Speaker 3: miss trash day. Good, no dishes in the sink, Good floors,

1836
01:24:55,840 --> 01:24:59,960
Speaker 3: vacuumed good. Dog's taken care of good. So they kind

1837
01:25:00,120 --> 01:25:01,479
Speaker 3: restructured the good thing there.

1838
01:25:01,520 --> 01:25:01,880
Speaker 1: I like it.

1839
01:25:02,040 --> 01:25:04,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, taking the night shift so I can sleep and

1840
01:25:05,000 --> 01:25:07,559
Speaker 3: be the best mom possible for our son, especially while

1841
01:25:07,600 --> 01:25:11,800
Speaker 3: breastfeeding Good Good Good. She put three goods there. Since

1842
01:25:11,840 --> 01:25:17,080
Speaker 3: giving birth, my husband Joe was absolutely or My husband

1843
01:25:17,160 --> 01:25:20,400
Speaker 3: Joe has absolutely stepped the fuck up. He is a

1844
01:25:20,560 --> 01:25:24,240
Speaker 3: full blown general and officially a pt SIKO. I'm so

1845
01:25:24,760 --> 01:25:28,000
Speaker 3: proud of the father he's become, and I truly believe

1846
01:25:28,120 --> 01:25:32,360
Speaker 3: this podcast helped shape the mindset going into fatherhood. From

1847
01:25:32,360 --> 01:25:35,400
Speaker 3: the bottom of my heart, thank you for building something

1848
01:25:35,479 --> 01:25:39,200
Speaker 3: that impacts families the way you probably don't even realize.

1849
01:25:39,320 --> 01:25:44,200
Speaker 3: With love officially Milk Team sixer Antoinette.

1850
01:25:44,080 --> 01:25:45,960
Speaker 1: Antoinette, thank you very much. That is awesome.

1851
01:25:46,000 --> 01:25:49,519
Speaker 2: That's an awesome shout out. That's a massive shout out. Yeah,

1852
01:25:49,640 --> 01:25:52,560
Speaker 2: and the shout out she's bringing up is now. I

1853
01:25:52,720 --> 01:25:54,640
Speaker 2: remember I put it on my story the other day,

1854
01:25:54,680 --> 01:25:58,160
Speaker 2: but I saw Luke Comb's sitting with somebody breaking down.

1855
01:25:58,280 --> 01:26:00,920
Speaker 2: I think it was with Bobby Bones. Yeah, yeah, yours

1856
01:26:01,000 --> 01:26:03,000
Speaker 2: was the Bobby Bones one where he's.

1857
01:26:02,840 --> 01:26:04,200
Speaker 1: Sitting down and it was very good.

1858
01:26:04,320 --> 01:26:07,439
Speaker 2: It was very much like he simplified it to a

1859
01:26:07,479 --> 01:26:10,160
Speaker 2: way to where Luke Combs because he's a massive loves

1860
01:26:10,200 --> 01:26:14,280
Speaker 2: being a dad, talks about being a dad, and and

1861
01:26:14,520 --> 01:26:16,760
Speaker 2: Bobby was asking him like, hey, what would be your

1862
01:26:16,800 --> 01:26:19,080
Speaker 2: best advice going into fatherhood?

1863
01:26:19,200 --> 01:26:24,000
Speaker 1: And I loved his response because there's a response was basically, you.

1864
01:26:25,680 --> 01:26:28,680
Speaker 2: Mean nothing for the kid, which sounds like, you know,

1865
01:26:28,800 --> 01:26:30,519
Speaker 2: it sounds like a okay, what does that mean? We

1866
01:26:30,560 --> 01:26:32,920
Speaker 2: shouldn't dads be involved? YadA YadA. He's like, your kid

1867
01:26:33,000 --> 01:26:35,760
Speaker 2: needs there's nothing that you can give your kid in

1868
01:26:35,880 --> 01:26:38,880
Speaker 2: those first you know a couple months, those first few months,

1869
01:26:40,280 --> 01:26:43,000
Speaker 2: who needs all the help? Who does who? The person

1870
01:26:43,040 --> 01:26:45,840
Speaker 2: who does need you is your wife, which is so

1871
01:26:46,080 --> 01:26:49,320
Speaker 2: true like postpartum, we're all very we're all we're all aware.

1872
01:26:49,320 --> 01:26:52,880
Speaker 2: I wouldn't stay very aware to what postpartum comes with

1873
01:26:53,040 --> 01:26:55,400
Speaker 2: for women, Like it's hard for me to even explain

1874
01:26:55,479 --> 01:26:57,280
Speaker 2: how what. When our wives get on we will have

1875
01:26:57,400 --> 01:26:59,120
Speaker 2: them break it down a little bit more for us.

1876
01:27:00,080 --> 01:27:04,400
Speaker 2: But essentially there's a huge hormonal change that's taking place

1877
01:27:04,520 --> 01:27:06,880
Speaker 2: where they're just dealing with they're dealing with an ego

1878
01:27:07,000 --> 01:27:09,479
Speaker 2: death and identity death because now they have this.

1879
01:27:10,040 --> 01:27:13,439
Speaker 1: New kid in our world and they're the basically the light.

1880
01:27:13,520 --> 01:27:16,240
Speaker 2: They're the vessel, like they are the nucleus for the kid,

1881
01:27:16,400 --> 01:27:17,840
Speaker 2: Like you can hold them, you can feed them, you

1882
01:27:17,880 --> 01:27:20,040
Speaker 2: can do all those things. Your kid does need you

1883
01:27:20,120 --> 01:27:22,360
Speaker 2: in that capacity. But mainly the help that is coming

1884
01:27:22,439 --> 01:27:25,360
Speaker 2: for is for mom because of the lack of sleep,

1885
01:27:25,400 --> 01:27:27,360
Speaker 2: the lack of everything that they get because they have

1886
01:27:27,479 --> 01:27:31,000
Speaker 2: to essentially pour everything into the newborn child. Where the

1887
01:27:31,120 --> 01:27:33,680
Speaker 2: help or the entire scope of your work as a

1888
01:27:33,720 --> 01:27:36,920
Speaker 2: PT sixer needs to come from the entire mission. The

1889
01:27:37,040 --> 01:27:41,360
Speaker 2: goal is obviously fatherhood, holding your little one, loving your

1890
01:27:41,400 --> 01:27:43,920
Speaker 2: little one, falling in love with your little one. But

1891
01:27:44,080 --> 01:27:46,600
Speaker 2: the mission, the moment the kid comes, needs to be

1892
01:27:46,760 --> 01:27:50,479
Speaker 2: all about your empty sixer, all about your wife and

1893
01:27:50,600 --> 01:27:53,200
Speaker 2: everything you can do around her to help her out.

1894
01:27:53,880 --> 01:27:56,439
Speaker 2: And when Luke was saying it and explaining it, and

1895
01:27:56,520 --> 01:27:58,040
Speaker 2: we can run the clip if we want to, or

1896
01:27:58,080 --> 01:28:01,120
Speaker 2: show the clips so people can go see give me

1897
01:28:01,240 --> 01:28:02,800
Speaker 2: some advice. And by the time my first kid.

1898
01:28:02,840 --> 01:28:06,400
Speaker 8: Yep, I would say my biggest piece of advice is

1899
01:28:06,920 --> 01:28:10,519
Speaker 8: the baby. The baby with the infant that comes out,

1900
01:28:10,960 --> 01:28:14,000
Speaker 8: it does not need you in any way. Your wife

1901
01:28:14,080 --> 01:28:15,200
Speaker 8: needs you a lot though.

1902
01:28:15,240 --> 01:28:15,519
Speaker 2: Got it.

1903
01:28:15,680 --> 01:28:18,000
Speaker 8: Your wife is gonna be so tired, it's gonna be

1904
01:28:18,040 --> 01:28:20,200
Speaker 8: so exhausting because she's going through the same thing you're

1905
01:28:20,240 --> 01:28:23,880
Speaker 8: going through. But there's also a physical element for her,

1906
01:28:24,479 --> 01:28:28,200
Speaker 8: like her body is gonna be completely different after this thing,

1907
01:28:28,360 --> 01:28:31,200
Speaker 8: and it's gonna be like she's never experienced that before,

1908
01:28:31,720 --> 01:28:34,240
Speaker 8: and she's gonna be dealing with all these new emotions,

1909
01:28:34,400 --> 01:28:36,760
Speaker 8: and like helping her through it and doing everything to

1910
01:28:36,840 --> 01:28:39,880
Speaker 8: make her life as comfortable and easy as it can

1911
01:28:39,960 --> 01:28:41,480
Speaker 8: be through that process.

1912
01:28:41,240 --> 01:28:43,840
Speaker 2: To me, is the most benefit that you can be.

1913
01:28:45,320 --> 01:28:47,320
Speaker 2: But I just I loved his answer because he's one

1914
01:28:47,439 --> 01:28:51,320
Speaker 2: hundred percent right. It's all about It's all about helping mom.

1915
01:28:51,800 --> 01:28:56,479
Speaker 2: It all about helping your wife and curating whatever it

1916
01:28:56,600 --> 01:28:58,960
Speaker 2: is the environment that needs everything going on because they're

1917
01:28:59,120 --> 01:29:02,040
Speaker 2: just there. They're their body's been hijacked by all these

1918
01:29:02,080 --> 01:29:06,479
Speaker 2: different hormones, postpartum, everything going on, because they are the

1919
01:29:06,680 --> 01:29:09,639
Speaker 2: one that is mainly in charge of keeping this little

1920
01:29:09,680 --> 01:29:13,000
Speaker 2: one alive, giving them everything that they need nutrient wise.

1921
01:29:13,120 --> 01:29:15,759
Speaker 2: Like you, again, you're changing the diapers. You're not changing

1922
01:29:15,800 --> 01:29:17,479
Speaker 2: the diapers because you're fall in love with your kid.

1923
01:29:17,520 --> 01:29:20,280
Speaker 2: That's a byproduct of changing the diapers, holding them and

1924
01:29:20,280 --> 01:29:22,160
Speaker 2: feeding them and everything else. But you're doing all of

1925
01:29:22,240 --> 01:29:25,960
Speaker 2: this work for your wife, the decluttering, the cleaning up.

1926
01:29:26,000 --> 01:29:29,559
Speaker 2: He's talked about, the dishes, the dishes, the vacuuming, all

1927
01:29:29,600 --> 01:29:33,559
Speaker 2: of these things that helps mom out throughout the entire process.

1928
01:29:33,840 --> 01:29:37,240
Speaker 2: Obviously it's an ongoing process forever, but mainly in those

1929
01:29:37,280 --> 01:29:42,080
Speaker 2: first few months. Man, it is pivotal that your entire being,

1930
01:29:42,280 --> 01:29:45,600
Speaker 2: your entire mission as APT sixer is how do I

1931
01:29:45,800 --> 01:29:46,479
Speaker 2: help Mom?

1932
01:29:46,760 --> 01:29:49,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I would say that it leads to a

1933
01:29:49,640 --> 01:29:53,599
Speaker 3: really good runoff of if you can ask yourself the question,

1934
01:29:53,720 --> 01:29:56,800
Speaker 3: am I being an intentional husband and the answer is yes,

1935
01:29:57,400 --> 01:30:00,360
Speaker 3: then I would say nine times out of ten, also

1936
01:30:00,520 --> 01:30:04,320
Speaker 3: being an intentional dad by being an intentional.

1937
01:30:03,960 --> 01:30:07,840
Speaker 2: Husband to your wife, like when when you've had your baby, Like,

1938
01:30:08,320 --> 01:30:10,920
Speaker 2: if you're doing things to help out mom, more than

1939
01:30:11,120 --> 01:30:14,000
Speaker 2: likely you are being a good dad as well, right,

1940
01:30:14,280 --> 01:30:16,519
Speaker 2: Like just go hand in hand. You got to find

1941
01:30:16,520 --> 01:30:19,240
Speaker 2: a way to compartmentalize the stress that's going on in

1942
01:30:19,360 --> 01:30:21,719
Speaker 2: your world outside of it, because, yeah, fatherhood is amazing

1943
01:30:21,720 --> 01:30:24,040
Speaker 2: because you got a new kid. You're hearing all the compliments,

1944
01:30:24,040 --> 01:30:25,800
Speaker 2: You're wanting to show them pictures and do all those things.

1945
01:30:25,920 --> 01:30:28,760
Speaker 2: That's fun stuff that comes with it. Yeah, but the entire,

1946
01:30:29,160 --> 01:30:30,680
Speaker 2: the entire mission is around mom.

1947
01:30:31,720 --> 01:30:36,280
Speaker 3: Also, I forgot to show this. Antoinette provided a wonderful

1948
01:30:36,400 --> 01:30:40,600
Speaker 3: picture of her hobby. That's him leaving the hospital with

1949
01:30:40,760 --> 01:30:43,559
Speaker 3: their baby. He's got the nice little for the dad's

1950
01:30:43,600 --> 01:30:47,240
Speaker 3: hoodie on. He's looking like a stud, looking like a stud.

1951
01:30:47,600 --> 01:30:49,439
Speaker 2: I have another shout out, hubby, shout out here from

1952
01:30:49,439 --> 01:30:55,840
Speaker 2: Emma McKee on x HI reaching out. That sounded just

1953
01:30:56,000 --> 01:31:03,479
Speaker 2: like Emma too. That sounded just like her reaching out

1954
01:31:03,520 --> 01:31:06,280
Speaker 2: Because for the dads is frequently spoken about in our home.

1955
01:31:06,360 --> 01:31:09,040
Speaker 2: My husband Dakota is a big fan. He has been

1956
01:31:09,080 --> 01:31:12,360
Speaker 2: studying so hard to pass his PE exam professional Engineer.

1957
01:31:12,880 --> 01:31:15,360
Speaker 2: It's something he's been waking up very early to study

1958
01:31:15,439 --> 01:31:18,559
Speaker 2: for a very long time so he doesn't cut time

1959
01:31:18,600 --> 01:31:21,360
Speaker 2: with his two daughters, Mia and wren and myself in

1960
01:31:21,439 --> 01:31:25,439
Speaker 2: the evenings after work. This is a huge accomplishment. This

1961
01:31:25,600 --> 01:31:27,679
Speaker 2: morning he got his results and he was so excited.

1962
01:31:28,080 --> 01:31:31,040
Speaker 2: Then he was extra excited because you guys liked his comment.

1963
01:31:31,520 --> 01:31:36,280
Speaker 2: What then even more excited when you commented fitting because

1964
01:31:36,360 --> 01:31:39,200
Speaker 2: he has been fitting because he has been using his

1965
01:31:39,320 --> 01:31:43,040
Speaker 2: workout time to study for his exam. Anyway, give him

1966
01:31:43,040 --> 01:31:45,120
Speaker 2: a shout out for passing his eight hour test to

1967
01:31:45,200 --> 01:31:48,360
Speaker 2: become a professional engineer and tell him Emma, Mia and

1968
01:31:48,520 --> 01:31:51,320
Speaker 2: Rennie are so proud and thankful for his hard work

1969
01:31:51,439 --> 01:31:54,400
Speaker 2: and that we love him too hard emojis ps, thank

1970
01:31:54,479 --> 01:31:55,240
Speaker 2: y'all for everything.

1971
01:31:55,600 --> 01:31:58,200
Speaker 1: Please reply so I know when if you're doing it,

1972
01:31:58,320 --> 01:32:02,720
Speaker 1: so he can be prepared. Oh my yes, wait, what

1973
01:32:02,920 --> 01:32:03,439
Speaker 1: was his name?

1974
01:32:03,800 --> 01:32:06,320
Speaker 2: His name is Dakota Dakota team man.

1975
01:32:06,439 --> 01:32:10,759
Speaker 1: Congratulations, bro Hey, shout out Dakota professional Engineer.

1976
01:32:11,040 --> 01:32:13,400
Speaker 2: Come on, I feel like engineer. You know when you're

1977
01:32:13,880 --> 01:32:16,960
Speaker 2: when you're growing up and you're in like elementary school

1978
01:32:16,960 --> 01:32:19,320
Speaker 2: and you're trying to like find things that you want

1979
01:32:19,360 --> 01:32:21,280
Speaker 2: to do. Whether it's like doctor, lawyer, I feel like

1980
01:32:21,360 --> 01:32:24,320
Speaker 2: engineer is always in like the big the mount rushmore

1981
01:32:24,360 --> 01:32:26,840
Speaker 2: of jobs people talk about big time. Dude.

1982
01:32:26,920 --> 01:32:30,439
Speaker 3: If you that's like dad's getting to brag about their

1983
01:32:30,560 --> 01:32:35,120
Speaker 3: son or daughter. Yeah, it's like lawyer, doctor engineer, Yeah,

1984
01:32:35,439 --> 01:32:38,400
Speaker 3: professional you know, professional person.

1985
01:32:38,520 --> 01:32:43,599
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah yeah that yeah engineering. Damn eight hours dude,

1986
01:32:43,640 --> 01:32:44,679
Speaker 2: you could that is crazy.

1987
01:32:44,920 --> 01:32:47,800
Speaker 3: You could go into that exam with the sun up

1988
01:32:48,040 --> 01:32:50,720
Speaker 3: and come out and spitch black at night, Like that's

1989
01:32:50,880 --> 01:32:52,320
Speaker 3: a whole day essentially.

1990
01:32:52,880 --> 01:32:56,320
Speaker 2: That's crazy. Yeah, it's amazing, and it's awesome to hear

1991
01:32:56,360 --> 01:32:58,400
Speaker 2: about her just being pumped for him, like he always

1992
01:32:58,400 --> 01:33:00,240
Speaker 2: woke up super early, so it didn't take away of

1993
01:33:00,400 --> 01:33:04,439
Speaker 2: time from being dad, being hubby. Yeah, putting the kids down.

1994
01:33:04,640 --> 01:33:06,679
Speaker 2: We got to take some kind of test as a pod.

1995
01:33:07,200 --> 01:33:10,720
Speaker 2: That would be fun, some kind of little exam, maybe

1996
01:33:10,840 --> 01:33:13,040
Speaker 2: just the A C T or S A T. Yeah, yeah,

1997
01:33:13,600 --> 01:33:17,120
Speaker 2: that would be scantrons. Do they do the scantron? Yeah,

1998
01:33:17,920 --> 01:33:21,080
Speaker 2: but I'm the scantron life A three E A three

1999
01:33:21,160 --> 01:33:24,240
Speaker 2: d uh huh. Sometimes you try and think of it

2000
01:33:24,320 --> 01:33:26,680
Speaker 2: as like, okay, I've done C three times in a row.

2001
01:33:27,720 --> 01:33:32,280
Speaker 1: There ain't no way because I was at first I

2002
01:33:32,400 --> 01:33:35,000
Speaker 1: might go back to D and you're thinking I got

2003
01:33:35,120 --> 01:33:37,639
Speaker 1: these three season a row, like those are the correct

2004
01:33:37,680 --> 01:33:40,559
Speaker 1: answers on this test, Like they might be trying.

2005
01:33:40,360 --> 01:33:41,439
Speaker 2: To get me here there.

2006
01:33:41,960 --> 01:33:42,080
Speaker 1: Uh.

2007
01:33:42,520 --> 01:33:46,360
Speaker 3: Coach O'Donnell shout out was a coach at Alito, and

2008
01:33:46,520 --> 01:33:50,800
Speaker 3: he was diabolical with his scantron answers, and he would

2009
01:33:50,960 --> 01:33:55,200
Speaker 3: purposely make the scantrons a B c D A b

2010
01:33:55,360 --> 01:33:58,800
Speaker 3: c D A b c D so that people would

2011
01:33:58,920 --> 01:34:01,760
Speaker 3: second guess as their filling out the scantron. They're like,

2012
01:34:02,840 --> 01:34:05,560
Speaker 3: I'm seeing a pattern here, Like am I what what

2013
01:34:05,800 --> 01:34:06,320
Speaker 3: is going on?

2014
01:34:06,720 --> 01:34:08,479
Speaker 2: You look up the scantron and you just see a

2015
01:34:08,520 --> 01:34:12,000
Speaker 2: full pattern. You're like you started racing. You're like, this

2016
01:34:12,120 --> 01:34:13,599
Speaker 2: can't be You's gotta be the one I was thinking

2017
01:34:13,600 --> 01:34:14,160
Speaker 2: about second.

2018
01:34:14,240 --> 01:34:18,200
Speaker 3: And he did that for that exact right there, that moment,

2019
01:34:18,479 --> 01:34:21,439
Speaker 3: like he wanted to like add that extra stress of like.

2020
01:34:21,560 --> 01:34:24,360
Speaker 2: This can't be right or just like lolling the sleep,

2021
01:34:24,960 --> 01:34:27,080
Speaker 2: loll in the sleep first seven or all B and

2022
01:34:27,120 --> 01:34:29,360
Speaker 2: then you're like, okay, he must be just I think

2023
01:34:29,400 --> 01:34:31,280
Speaker 2: gets you just throw a little wrinkle in there and.

2024
01:34:31,360 --> 01:34:34,719
Speaker 3: Imagine that one burnout kid or the kid that didn't study.

2025
01:34:34,960 --> 01:34:37,719
Speaker 3: That's just like, oh fuck it, dude, I'm just gonna

2026
01:34:37,720 --> 01:34:38,640
Speaker 3: do abc D.

2027
01:34:39,560 --> 01:34:43,160
Speaker 2: I don't care. Did you get a hundred back? Imagine

2028
01:34:43,200 --> 01:34:46,880
Speaker 2: that mind fuck of like, oh my god, it worked.

2029
01:34:47,640 --> 01:34:50,360
Speaker 1: It's got to think about teachers, yeah, very much. Probably

2030
01:34:50,400 --> 01:34:53,799
Speaker 1: think about the pattern and uh huh as they're curating

2031
01:34:53,880 --> 01:34:54,960
Speaker 1: tests and everything else.

2032
01:34:55,800 --> 01:34:58,920
Speaker 2: Multiple choice. I'm big multiple choice guys. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

2033
01:34:59,080 --> 01:35:02,640
Speaker 2: Don't have me trying to explain shit. I have another

2034
01:35:02,720 --> 01:35:08,519
Speaker 2: hobby shout out. This is from Ess Too Good, Too Good.

2035
01:35:09,640 --> 01:35:13,320
Speaker 2: Hi guys, I hope you don't mind me emailing you privately.

2036
01:35:13,800 --> 01:35:15,720
Speaker 2: This has been sitting in my heart for a while

2037
01:35:15,800 --> 01:35:18,240
Speaker 2: and I finally decided to put it into words, hopefully

2038
01:35:18,439 --> 01:35:23,000
Speaker 2: without crying on the keyboard too much. Lock In, let's

2039
01:35:23,080 --> 01:35:25,719
Speaker 2: lock in. I have not read this before, but let's

2040
01:35:25,760 --> 01:35:28,800
Speaker 2: lock in. But something like that tells you, yeah, let's

2041
01:35:28,840 --> 01:35:30,000
Speaker 2: lock in. Okay. Uh.

2042
01:35:30,520 --> 01:35:33,320
Speaker 3: My husband Brett is a huge fan of for the Dads,

2043
01:35:33,439 --> 01:35:36,640
Speaker 3: And when I say huge, I mean he watches religiously

2044
01:35:37,200 --> 01:35:41,679
Speaker 3: new video out Everything stops, Snacks are prepared, drinks are poured,

2045
01:35:42,200 --> 01:35:45,040
Speaker 3: and we're usually tucked up in bed, ready to watch,

2046
01:35:45,240 --> 01:35:48,680
Speaker 3: followed by a very serious debrief where we solve all

2047
01:35:48,720 --> 01:35:51,840
Speaker 3: the world's parenting problems, or at least talk about them

2048
01:35:52,080 --> 01:35:55,960
Speaker 3: like we could. What started as just a YouTube channel

2049
01:35:56,040 --> 01:35:59,160
Speaker 3: has genuinely become part of our routine in our relationship.

2050
01:35:59,479 --> 01:36:01,800
Speaker 3: Some nights we laugh, some nights we get emotional, and

2051
01:36:01,920 --> 01:36:04,720
Speaker 3: some nights we just sit there nodding like yup, That's

2052
01:36:04,760 --> 01:36:07,680
Speaker 3: exactly how it feels. We get married in Vegas on

2053
01:36:07,760 --> 01:36:11,640
Speaker 3: the twenty first of September. We got married on the

2054
01:36:11,720 --> 01:36:14,799
Speaker 3: twenty first of September in twenty twenty four, and marrying

2055
01:36:14,960 --> 01:36:17,920
Speaker 3: Brett was hands down the best decision I've ever made.

2056
01:36:18,439 --> 01:36:25,200
Speaker 3: Vegas clearly brings good judgment. Occasionally, he works incredibly hard

2057
01:36:25,439 --> 01:36:29,120
Speaker 3: as a welder fabricator to give me, the and the

2058
01:36:29,280 --> 01:36:31,840
Speaker 3: kids the best life he can, and he does it

2059
01:36:32,120 --> 01:36:35,559
Speaker 3: with quiet strength, kindness, and a heart that's bigger than

2060
01:36:35,640 --> 01:36:38,800
Speaker 3: he realizes. He lived in Florida for a year when

2061
01:36:38,840 --> 01:36:41,639
Speaker 3: he was younger, and his love for America has never

2062
01:36:41,760 --> 01:36:44,439
Speaker 3: left him. This year, I surprise him with the trip

2063
01:36:44,520 --> 01:36:47,519
Speaker 3: back to Vegas for our anniversary, so we can make

2064
01:36:47,640 --> 01:36:50,360
Speaker 3: more memories together and one day we hope to return

2065
01:36:50,520 --> 01:36:53,160
Speaker 3: and all the kids, with all the kids and share

2066
01:36:53,240 --> 01:36:57,360
Speaker 3: it with them too. Florida not Vegas. I really just

2067
01:36:57,439 --> 01:37:00,719
Speaker 3: wanted to say thank you. What you do genuinely matters.

2068
01:37:00,800 --> 01:37:04,320
Speaker 3: Your honesty, humor and stories make us feel less alone

2069
01:37:04,479 --> 01:37:08,080
Speaker 3: in the madness of parenting, especially on the harder days.

2070
01:37:08,640 --> 01:37:11,640
Speaker 3: And if Brett PT six ever happened to get a

2071
01:37:11,840 --> 01:37:15,160
Speaker 3: mentioned on one of your videos, it would absolutely make

2072
01:37:15,200 --> 01:37:18,400
Speaker 3: his year in probably mine too. But regardless, thank you

2073
01:37:18,479 --> 01:37:21,519
Speaker 3: for creating something that brings comfort, connection and a lot

2074
01:37:21,560 --> 01:37:22,760
Speaker 3: of laughs into our home.

2075
01:37:23,360 --> 01:37:24,800
Speaker 2: Much love from the UK.

2076
01:37:26,200 --> 01:37:30,720
Speaker 1: Oh that is awesome, just too good. Mt six just

2077
01:37:30,880 --> 01:37:35,080
Speaker 1: too good. Thank you, Thank you, Franking the UK dude.

2078
01:37:37,120 --> 01:37:39,719
Speaker 1: And he's he has a love for America.

2079
01:37:39,880 --> 01:37:43,120
Speaker 2: So I'm guessing he's not American. He lived in Florida

2080
01:37:43,479 --> 01:37:43,920
Speaker 2: for a year.

2081
01:37:44,040 --> 01:37:44,920
Speaker 1: Okay, that's what they're saying.

2082
01:37:44,960 --> 01:37:47,320
Speaker 4: And so they take led through the reading, they take

2083
01:37:47,360 --> 01:37:49,640
Speaker 4: some trips to America to reminisce about his time in

2084
01:37:49,680 --> 01:37:52,040
Speaker 4: America and that's why they went to Vegas.

2085
01:37:51,800 --> 01:37:58,200
Speaker 2: And from all their stuff, that's cool, man. Well, hello Brett,

2086
01:37:58,560 --> 01:38:04,559
Speaker 2: you blame game by game by clip by.

2087
01:38:06,200 --> 01:38:09,479
Speaker 1: Hey, Brett goes in a little Australian right there for a.

2088
01:38:09,520 --> 01:38:14,120
Speaker 2: Second, are you going day here? Are you?

2089
01:38:15,160 --> 01:38:15,439
Speaker 4: Brett?

2090
01:38:15,720 --> 01:38:18,720
Speaker 3: Thank you so much for loving our podcast. Yeah uh,

2091
01:38:19,240 --> 01:38:22,559
Speaker 3: and to your wife as well. I love the image

2092
01:38:22,600 --> 01:38:27,200
Speaker 3: of you guys snuggling up in bed and getting some snacks.

2093
01:38:27,320 --> 01:38:30,600
Speaker 2: Dude. Yeah, yeah, God that gets me stoked. And I

2094
01:38:30,720 --> 01:38:33,160
Speaker 2: love the way y'all pronounce aluminum.

2095
01:38:34,280 --> 01:38:40,479
Speaker 9: Alu minim. That's how they say it, alu many minim Yeah, alum.

2096
01:38:41,680 --> 01:38:51,479
Speaker 9: And contra controversy is uh contrifacy contrafacy controversy? Do everything

2097
01:38:51,560 --> 01:38:55,920
Speaker 9: sounds so smart? So bro, that's awesome, Jess how they

2098
01:38:55,920 --> 01:39:02,720
Speaker 9: call everybody c U n T. Yeah that let's normalize that.

2099
01:39:03,240 --> 01:39:03,479
Speaker 2: Yay.

2100
01:39:04,160 --> 01:39:04,360
Speaker 1: Con.

2101
01:39:07,320 --> 01:39:09,040
Speaker 2: If you're a guy here in the.

2102
01:39:09,120 --> 01:39:11,760
Speaker 3: States that sits there and says to himself, Hey, why

2103
01:39:11,800 --> 01:39:13,679
Speaker 3: can't I just freely say the word con?

2104
01:39:15,479 --> 01:39:20,360
Speaker 2: You're on the right podcast. We fully support you. Botherhood, fatherhood, batherhood.

2105
01:39:20,400 --> 01:39:23,000
Speaker 2: We have fun. We have fun. We have fun. He'll

2106
01:39:23,040 --> 01:39:28,160
Speaker 2: be shout out here from j bird Va on YouTube. Hey, guys,

2107
01:39:28,240 --> 01:39:30,040
Speaker 2: want to start off by saying, I love the podcast.

2108
01:39:30,160 --> 01:39:31,920
Speaker 2: My husband put me on you guys last summer, and

2109
01:39:31,960 --> 01:39:34,560
Speaker 2: I've been hooked ever since. I really just wanted to

2110
01:39:34,560 --> 01:39:36,439
Speaker 2: give you guys a shout out I really just want

2111
01:39:36,479 --> 01:39:38,080
Speaker 2: to give a shout out to my husband Bryce, not

2112
01:39:38,200 --> 01:39:40,280
Speaker 2: only to brag on him, but to show him how

2113
01:39:40,360 --> 01:39:42,600
Speaker 2: much I appreciate him. Last Friday, I was admitted to

2114
01:39:42,640 --> 01:39:49,240
Speaker 2: the hospital with pre eclampsia, oh, pre acclamsia, preaclampsia at

2115
01:39:49,280 --> 01:39:52,400
Speaker 2: thirty one weeks. We were told we would be here

2116
01:39:52,479 --> 01:39:55,240
Speaker 2: until delivery at thirty four weeks. Oh, wow, three weeks.

2117
01:39:56,880 --> 01:39:58,519
Speaker 2: You just have to stay in the hospital. What is

2118
01:39:58,640 --> 01:39:59,760
Speaker 2: pre what is that?

2119
01:40:00,360 --> 01:40:02,840
Speaker 3: That was what we searched that one time, because Jill

2120
01:40:03,120 --> 01:40:07,679
Speaker 3: was potentially preaclantic with the gestational diabetes.

2121
01:40:07,160 --> 01:40:12,240
Speaker 4: And oh, okay do with the placenta a pregnancy specific

2122
01:40:12,360 --> 01:40:15,639
Speaker 4: blood pressure disorder occurring after twenty weeks, often containing protein

2123
01:40:15,680 --> 01:40:16,639
Speaker 4: and you'urine oregon day?

2124
01:40:17,240 --> 01:40:20,439
Speaker 1: Oh cow okaying amid to the hospital until yeah, for

2125
01:40:20,520 --> 01:40:21,240
Speaker 1: three weeks? Wow?

2126
01:40:21,680 --> 01:40:25,640
Speaker 2: To make light of this situation. To make light of

2127
01:40:25,680 --> 01:40:30,559
Speaker 2: this situation. He looked at me and said, what would

2128
01:40:30,600 --> 01:40:34,599
Speaker 2: will Compton say? I'm just laughing, like did he actually

2129
01:40:34,680 --> 01:40:40,920
Speaker 2: say that? We both collectively said good, hey, there you go. Unfortunately,

2130
01:40:41,439 --> 01:40:44,240
Speaker 2: unfortunately I started to progressively get worse and the decision

2131
01:40:45,320 --> 01:40:48,280
Speaker 2: was made to deliver our twin girls, Denver and Rory

2132
01:40:48,400 --> 01:40:51,520
Speaker 2: at just thirty one weeks in five days, although premature,

2133
01:40:51,600 --> 01:40:54,800
Speaker 2: our girls are thriving in the nick you. Let's go,

2134
01:40:55,439 --> 01:40:58,720
Speaker 2: Let's go. That's huge. Throughout this time, Bryce has been

2135
01:40:58,800 --> 01:41:01,160
Speaker 2: killing his new role as a dad, but also his

2136
01:41:01,320 --> 01:41:04,200
Speaker 2: role as a partner while caring for me. While caring

2137
01:41:04,240 --> 01:41:07,360
Speaker 2: for me post c section, He's also keeping track of

2138
01:41:07,479 --> 01:41:13,800
Speaker 2: my pumping schedule, washing pump parts. Huge good. He's a

2139
01:41:13,880 --> 01:41:17,880
Speaker 2: killer labeling milk, in delivering it to the nick you

2140
01:41:18,040 --> 01:41:21,080
Speaker 2: for our girls, and so much more. That's Bryce. Let's

2141
01:41:21,280 --> 01:41:25,479
Speaker 2: fucking Bryce, Let's go. From beeting together since ages fourteen

2142
01:41:25,560 --> 01:41:27,920
Speaker 2: and fifteen, I truly could not be more, could not

2143
01:41:28,080 --> 01:41:30,320
Speaker 2: be more proud of the man he has become and

2144
01:41:30,400 --> 01:41:32,200
Speaker 2: the great father I know he'll.

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Speaker 1: Be shout out Bryce, dude, there's no gabord. Thank you

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Speaker 1: for writing in.

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Speaker 3: Yes, there's nothing better than people went face with adversity,

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Speaker 3: just leaning into it and making the best of a situation.

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Speaker 1: And Bryce, you are doing so more than you could

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Speaker 3: And that's speaking from somebody that has never experienced anything

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Speaker 3: like that, but just knowing, like everything that she's having

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Speaker 3: to go through, that she's able to sit there and

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Speaker 3: go man, I don't have to question a single thing

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Speaker 3: about Bryce.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's got it. That's a good feeling good. PT.

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Speaker 3: Back to the episode that leads into my Cracker Cold one,

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Speaker 3: perfect crack a cold one, little ollipop.

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Speaker 1: Oh, come on, you see what we got in front

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Speaker 1: of us too?

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Speaker 2: Yes, sir?

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Speaker 1: When does our ollipop video come out?

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Speaker 7: Uh?

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Speaker 2: Sometime this week. I just I just won't beat these

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Speaker 2: sixs to know if you, if you have any question,

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Speaker 2: if your boys about that life, you'll know no soon enough. Yes,

2207
01:45:02,160 --> 01:45:04,559
Speaker 2: we'll just do it because they bathe the money. You're

2208
01:45:04,560 --> 01:45:07,679
Speaker 2: gonna learn very quick that I do this for real.

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Speaker 2: Oh you sold the hollipop making appearance too in the

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Speaker 2: old one shelf. It's a it's a cash grab. Really,

2211
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Speaker 2: it's just a big cake. You don't know how to

2212
01:45:16,120 --> 01:45:21,040
Speaker 2: put a wall mount in his garage. That's bait, that's bait.

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Speaker 2: No today, crack a Cold one.

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01:45:26,320 --> 01:45:29,400
Speaker 1: I had a full on date night on Sunday.

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01:45:30,920 --> 01:45:34,160
Speaker 2: It was unreal. How did it end? How did it end?

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01:45:34,200 --> 01:45:37,560
Speaker 2: How did it end? Eight? Did end with shockwave? And

2217
01:45:37,680 --> 01:45:37,920
Speaker 2: that's it.

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01:45:38,000 --> 01:45:40,400
Speaker 3: That's not for clicks. That's not for clicks. I'm just

2219
01:45:40,479 --> 01:45:43,080
Speaker 3: gonna say it. It it ended with shockwave. That's just facts.

2220
01:45:43,120 --> 01:45:48,240
Speaker 3: That's just facts. Went to Del Frisco's grill, got got

2221
01:45:48,280 --> 01:45:50,679
Speaker 3: some steak, got some French onion. Soup, Got a little

2222
01:45:50,720 --> 01:45:53,680
Speaker 3: Philly cheese steak egg roll, Got a little wine for

2223
01:45:53,760 --> 01:45:56,560
Speaker 3: the wifey. Yeah, I can't be drinking wine. I'm on

2224
01:45:56,560 --> 01:45:59,759
Speaker 3: the muscle relaxers, a muscle relaxer.

2225
01:46:00,560 --> 01:46:03,080
Speaker 1: When you said that earlier, I'm good on a must

2226
01:46:03,160 --> 01:46:05,680
Speaker 1: relaxes now, like it's like a supplement.

2227
01:46:05,400 --> 01:46:08,439
Speaker 2: Like you're like you're back on creatine or something. I'm

2228
01:46:08,520 --> 01:46:11,240
Speaker 2: really I'm really proud of myself. I'm taking care of myself.

2229
01:46:11,320 --> 01:46:13,000
Speaker 2: I started taking muscle relaxers.

2230
01:46:15,120 --> 01:46:17,400
Speaker 3: But yes, we had a full on date night. It

2231
01:46:17,520 --> 01:46:21,400
Speaker 3: was absolutely incredible. And a rule, here's a little dad

2232
01:46:21,479 --> 01:46:25,560
Speaker 3: hack for you. A rule that Jill wants to do

2233
01:46:25,960 --> 01:46:29,920
Speaker 3: when we are at dinner on date nights or at

2234
01:46:29,960 --> 01:46:32,160
Speaker 3: the meal is that we can't.

2235
01:46:31,960 --> 01:46:35,440
Speaker 2: Talk about Scarlet. We got to talk about ourselves.

2236
01:46:35,960 --> 01:46:38,840
Speaker 3: Oh and talk about you know, stuff that's going on,

2237
01:46:38,920 --> 01:46:42,360
Speaker 3: our lives, thoughts, feelings, YadA, YadA. And it was a

2238
01:46:42,479 --> 01:46:45,720
Speaker 3: lot harder said than that, or a lot easier said

2239
01:46:45,760 --> 01:46:48,240
Speaker 3: than done, because it was like, oh my gosh, like

2240
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Speaker 3: every conversation like Scarlet, would they come in and be like.

2241
01:46:51,720 --> 01:46:53,160
Speaker 2: Hey, don't talk about Scarlet.

2242
01:46:53,880 --> 01:46:58,240
Speaker 3: We're talking about us. We're talking about us here. It

2243
01:46:58,360 --> 01:47:01,600
Speaker 3: was very fun but that same thing that Wifey is

2244
01:47:01,640 --> 01:47:05,639
Speaker 3: probably having about Bryce. Jill and I we're just kind

2245
01:47:05,680 --> 01:47:10,400
Speaker 3: of we're just talking about and this would be good

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01:47:10,439 --> 01:47:14,000
Speaker 3: for Zachary and Courtney as well. When you're looking for

2247
01:47:14,080 --> 01:47:19,920
Speaker 3: a partner, is that you never have those thoughts of

2248
01:47:20,280 --> 01:47:23,680
Speaker 3: like worry, of like trust of anything like that.

2249
01:47:23,880 --> 01:47:26,840
Speaker 2: Like I truly I don't. I don't know how to

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01:47:26,960 --> 01:47:27,320
Speaker 2: explain it.

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01:47:27,439 --> 01:47:29,840
Speaker 3: But with Jill, it's just like, Hey, I'm going to

2252
01:47:29,920 --> 01:47:34,320
Speaker 3: a bachelorette party in West Palm Beach, blah blah blah.

2253
01:47:34,439 --> 01:47:37,920
Speaker 1: I have like zero follow up questions with that. Yeah,

2254
01:47:37,960 --> 01:47:39,240
Speaker 1: I'm like, go have fun with your friends.

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Speaker 2: That sounds awesome.

2256
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Speaker 1: It is the reason I'm laughing. Is you saying for

2257
01:47:44,680 --> 01:47:49,559
Speaker 1: zach and Courtney, Well, potentially, you know, potentially because they're

2258
01:47:49,600 --> 01:47:50,760
Speaker 1: looking we're looking for love.

2259
01:47:51,040 --> 01:47:54,360
Speaker 2: I'm looking for love. But you've been married now, however

2260
01:47:54,479 --> 01:47:56,760
Speaker 2: long a couple of years. Yeah, coming up on three,

2261
01:47:57,120 --> 01:48:00,960
Speaker 2: got an eight month old Scottie, and you're relating to

2262
01:48:01,120 --> 01:48:04,400
Speaker 2: like married couples that like the topic of kids being

2263
01:48:04,439 --> 01:48:05,200
Speaker 2: in every conversation.

2264
01:48:05,280 --> 01:48:06,439
Speaker 1: So you guys, which I love.

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01:48:06,520 --> 01:48:09,200
Speaker 2: By the way, Charli have like stuff she reads or

2266
01:48:09,280 --> 01:48:12,960
Speaker 2: cards or things that like, hey, I saw this, and

2267
01:48:13,200 --> 01:48:15,519
Speaker 2: it's almost like the same challenge of like thinking beyond

2268
01:48:15,640 --> 01:48:17,599
Speaker 2: what our day to day is where it's just surrounded

2269
01:48:17,640 --> 01:48:20,120
Speaker 2: by kids. I love that because it challenges you because

2270
01:48:20,120 --> 01:48:21,800
Speaker 2: you are sometimes you're sitting dead in It's like, Okay,

2271
01:48:21,840 --> 01:48:23,880
Speaker 2: give me a minute to kind of give me a

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01:48:23,920 --> 01:48:24,800
Speaker 2: minute to think a little bit.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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01:48:25,080 --> 01:48:26,400
Speaker 1: I brought up Scarlett again.

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01:48:26,439 --> 01:48:29,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, And it's such game for couples, married couples, like

2276
01:48:30,120 --> 01:48:32,120
Speaker 2: partners that are just in it. And I just love that.

2277
01:48:32,240 --> 01:48:33,800
Speaker 1: You're like, you know, it could be a good thing

2278
01:48:33,920 --> 01:48:35,559
Speaker 1: for Zach and Courtney.

2279
01:48:36,040 --> 01:48:37,760
Speaker 2: This could be good for Zach and Courtney. I'm just

2280
01:48:37,960 --> 01:48:41,479
Speaker 2: I'm throwing it out, but they might. They might.

2281
01:48:42,120 --> 01:48:44,519
Speaker 1: But the part that's important for them is when you

2282
01:48:44,640 --> 01:48:45,719
Speaker 1: are looking for that partner.

2283
01:48:45,840 --> 01:48:49,040
Speaker 3: One of my favorite qualities in yeah Yeah is like

2284
01:48:49,600 --> 01:48:51,480
Speaker 3: there's just there's just no questions.

2285
01:48:51,880 --> 01:48:52,080
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2286
01:48:52,640 --> 01:48:55,240
Speaker 3: And I we were laughing because I told Jill, I

2287
01:48:55,360 --> 01:48:56,920
Speaker 3: was like, this is a really poor way of saying it.

2288
01:48:57,200 --> 01:48:59,360
Speaker 3: But it's almost like I don't care. That's how much

2289
01:48:59,400 --> 01:49:02,439
Speaker 3: I don't work. Like there's there's no worry there.

2290
01:49:02,520 --> 01:49:02,640
Speaker 2: OK.

2291
01:49:02,840 --> 01:49:03,080
Speaker 6: But what.

2292
01:49:05,320 --> 01:49:07,439
Speaker 3: Like, uh, hey, I'm going to a bachelorette party. Blah

2293
01:49:07,439 --> 01:49:09,559
Speaker 3: blah blah, and it's like it's almost like I don't

2294
01:49:09,640 --> 01:49:12,360
Speaker 3: care about her going to the bachelorette party.

2295
01:49:12,439 --> 01:49:13,840
Speaker 2: You don't care if she hit the shockwaves.

2296
01:49:14,240 --> 01:49:16,960
Speaker 1: Somebody else was, Oh, well I do, but I'm just

2297
01:49:17,080 --> 01:49:19,920
Speaker 1: day yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm totally teasing because I hate

2298
01:49:20,200 --> 01:49:20,640
Speaker 1: if you did it.

2299
01:49:20,760 --> 01:49:23,200
Speaker 2: I don't care. I don't care, but I'm saying it.

2300
01:49:23,439 --> 01:49:26,040
Speaker 3: It almost feels that way with how much I'm just like,

2301
01:49:27,320 --> 01:49:29,479
Speaker 3: just go have fun and like you're gonna be with

2302
01:49:29,560 --> 01:49:32,519
Speaker 3: your friends, and that's so like it's just such a

2303
01:49:32,640 --> 01:49:36,360
Speaker 3: great like oh my gosh, just like no stress, no

2304
01:49:36,479 --> 01:49:37,479
Speaker 3: weight on your shoulders.

2305
01:49:37,960 --> 01:49:39,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know, you don't feel like you're like

2306
01:49:39,600 --> 01:49:43,360
Speaker 2: a crazy person sitting by your phone or yeahs or

2307
01:49:43,479 --> 01:49:46,280
Speaker 2: just being curious like, oh soa what time did you

2308
01:49:46,320 --> 01:49:47,720
Speaker 2: say you left there? Yeah?

2309
01:49:47,720 --> 01:49:48,639
Speaker 1: When are you getting back?

2310
01:49:48,840 --> 01:49:51,559
Speaker 2: Yeah? When you Oh my gosh, like you said you're

2311
01:49:51,600 --> 01:49:54,439
Speaker 2: gonna text mefore bedtime. It's you said bedtime is gonna

2312
01:49:54,439 --> 01:49:56,280
Speaker 2: be around ten thirty. It's eleven forty five, right now.

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01:49:56,280 --> 01:49:59,240
Speaker 2: Where's my face hign, yeah face hign me. Yeah.

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01:49:59,280 --> 01:50:02,559
Speaker 1: Yeah, but yeah, that was my crack A cold one

2315
01:50:02,920 --> 01:50:04,200
Speaker 1: was date night love.

2316
01:50:04,120 --> 01:50:04,880
Speaker 4: That and shoutout.

2317
01:50:04,880 --> 01:50:06,880
Speaker 1: I'll think it's hilarious. You brought up Zach and Courtney.

2318
01:50:07,000 --> 01:50:09,280
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, like any parents that could be in the

2319
01:50:09,320 --> 01:50:12,400
Speaker 1: monotony and looking for a date night. Little here's a

2320
01:50:12,439 --> 01:50:15,080
Speaker 1: good little convert here's some good conversation challenges we got

2321
01:50:15,200 --> 01:50:17,160
Speaker 1: up with. You know, another thing I just love that

2322
01:50:17,320 --> 01:50:19,880
Speaker 1: you with your partner is just the freedom of not

2323
01:50:20,120 --> 01:50:20,720
Speaker 1: feeling like.

2324
01:50:21,960 --> 01:50:27,680
Speaker 2: Like particularly potentially if we're not doing anything like we

2325
01:50:27,760 --> 01:50:30,400
Speaker 2: said it, hands off, we're just zero pressure, zero pressure,

2326
01:50:30,479 --> 01:50:32,920
Speaker 2: real pressure, and we do need to follow up.

2327
01:50:32,920 --> 01:50:33,800
Speaker 1: It's almost like we need.

2328
01:50:33,880 --> 01:50:39,800
Speaker 2: Corney to be like, yeah, next week we're gonna get

2329
01:50:39,840 --> 01:50:41,840
Speaker 2: an email or a DM or something.

2330
01:50:41,640 --> 01:50:45,960
Speaker 1: Something says hey, why not Hey Zach? Yeah, yeah, I'd

2331
01:50:46,000 --> 01:50:47,200
Speaker 1: be cool to get connected with him.

2332
01:50:47,240 --> 01:50:49,240
Speaker 3: I'll let the four I'll send my info to the

2333
01:50:49,280 --> 01:50:51,559
Speaker 3: for the dad's guys. For the dad's guys will afford

2334
01:50:51,640 --> 01:50:55,040
Speaker 3: that along to you. And then, like they said, they're gonna,

2335
01:50:55,200 --> 01:50:56,800
Speaker 3: you know, put their hands up there.

2336
01:50:56,840 --> 01:50:57,519
Speaker 1: Done. Yeah.

2337
01:50:57,880 --> 01:51:00,639
Speaker 2: If Corny just simply said I'd be interested in connecting

2338
01:51:00,680 --> 01:51:06,120
Speaker 2: with Zach, Yeah, that's it. That's it. What you think of, Dick.

2339
01:51:09,439 --> 01:51:11,559
Speaker 4: My brain goes, dude, hey, we're gonna have our first

2340
01:51:11,600 --> 01:51:12,559
Speaker 4: kid that we sponsored.

2341
01:51:15,280 --> 01:51:19,080
Speaker 2: That's an FTD baby. That's an ft D baby.

2342
01:51:19,120 --> 01:51:20,639
Speaker 1: That's an FTD baby right there.

2343
01:51:21,280 --> 01:51:24,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, n I L deal this kid. I mean, yeah,

2344
01:51:25,400 --> 01:51:26,320
Speaker 4: we got something man.

2345
01:51:26,640 --> 01:51:27,799
Speaker 1: We'll sponsor the marriage.

2346
01:51:28,000 --> 01:51:31,000
Speaker 2: Yeah we we we yeah, we have to.

2347
01:51:31,160 --> 01:51:32,480
Speaker 1: We have to be the officiator.

2348
01:51:32,560 --> 01:51:35,320
Speaker 3: We just start this whole new Yeah, we get to

2349
01:51:35,680 --> 01:51:38,120
Speaker 3: we start this whole new movement. And we have baby

2350
01:51:38,240 --> 01:51:42,639
Speaker 3: baby Boomers v dot two, Version two of the next generation.

2351
01:51:43,200 --> 01:51:46,639
Speaker 1: Zach's family and Courtney's family. Immediate family can be there.

2352
01:51:47,240 --> 01:51:49,880
Speaker 2: The audience, the guest the invites is just going to

2353
01:51:49,920 --> 01:51:52,360
Speaker 2: be the audience of Papa teams for the dance Papa teams.

2354
01:51:52,400 --> 01:51:55,760
Speaker 2: Oh I love that. I love next week T shirt. Yeah,

2355
01:51:55,840 --> 01:51:59,200
Speaker 2: yeah yeah, and we'll give them a c We'll give

2356
01:51:59,240 --> 01:52:06,000
Speaker 2: him a split red whatever. But yeah, yeah ye. Or

2357
01:52:06,080 --> 01:52:09,840
Speaker 2: did you have a crack of cold one? Sir? Not

2358
01:52:10,040 --> 01:52:11,559
Speaker 2: to throw in your court. I do have a really

2359
01:52:11,600 --> 01:52:16,559
Speaker 2: good uh survival kid, crack a cold one, my crack

2360
01:52:16,640 --> 01:52:20,040
Speaker 2: a cold one. First grille of the season, m the

2361
01:52:20,080 --> 01:52:21,479
Speaker 2: first grill of the year. The other day, it's been

2362
01:52:21,520 --> 01:52:23,600
Speaker 2: beautiful in Nashville. It's great outside today. I want to

2363
01:52:23,640 --> 01:52:28,400
Speaker 2: say it hitting. It's in seventy six today, it's seventy

2364
01:52:28,439 --> 01:52:33,879
Speaker 2: one right now. I saw hot were about to argue whether.

2365
01:52:38,080 --> 01:52:40,000
Speaker 6: As I was getting there's nothing more. What's the weather

2366
01:52:40,120 --> 01:52:42,559
Speaker 6: like today? They're gonna be a highest seventy one in Nashville.

2367
01:52:42,680 --> 01:52:43,479
Speaker 2: That's what I got.

2368
01:52:45,120 --> 01:52:50,920
Speaker 1: Now, And now I got a fact check you. Hey, hey, hi,

2369
01:52:51,040 --> 01:52:52,080
Speaker 1: today is seventy.

2370
01:52:51,800 --> 01:52:56,439
Speaker 2: Two off by one. I'll take that. And those things

2371
01:52:56,520 --> 01:52:59,799
Speaker 2: do change throughout the day. Dude, So maybe he's exactly

2372
01:53:00,080 --> 01:53:01,559
Speaker 2: four of my garments said something else.

2373
01:53:03,160 --> 01:53:06,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I do have very quickly time out

2374
01:53:07,080 --> 01:53:07,920
Speaker 1: crack a cold one.

2375
01:53:07,960 --> 01:53:09,840
Speaker 2: Time out time out will has a crack of cold one.

2376
01:53:09,880 --> 01:53:12,960
Speaker 1: Weather's been great outside, first grill of the season. We

2377
01:53:13,120 --> 01:53:15,479
Speaker 1: heat it because we got hey listen, I don't want

2378
01:53:15,479 --> 01:53:20,320
Speaker 1: to flex, but we got a hot tub. Like we

2379
01:53:20,400 --> 01:53:20,880
Speaker 1: got a pool.

2380
01:53:20,920 --> 01:53:25,519
Speaker 2: We got a hot tub. They you know, tell us

2381
01:53:25,560 --> 01:53:31,000
Speaker 2: about your hot tub. I love it. Like the weather

2382
01:53:31,120 --> 01:53:32,439
Speaker 2: was so nice. We were trying to kind of heat

2383
01:53:32,439 --> 01:53:34,320
Speaker 2: the pool, get it going. We couldn't get it. It

2384
01:53:34,360 --> 01:53:36,080
Speaker 2: would take all day long. It would take all day.

2385
01:53:36,840 --> 01:53:38,840
Speaker 2: But you turn the spa mode on and it heats

2386
01:53:38,920 --> 01:53:40,600
Speaker 2: up the hot tub. It's a little corner of the

2387
01:53:40,640 --> 01:53:44,880
Speaker 2: pool like it's you know, it's one of those you say, flex,

2388
01:53:45,000 --> 01:53:47,680
Speaker 2: but I can't help but feel that way because you know,

2389
01:53:47,880 --> 01:53:49,759
Speaker 2: not having a pool or a hot tub or anything

2390
01:53:49,800 --> 01:53:51,559
Speaker 2: of that sort's growing up. I got to the one

2391
01:53:51,640 --> 01:53:53,120
Speaker 2: time we thought about getting a hot tub. We thought

2392
01:53:53,120 --> 01:53:54,800
Speaker 2: about getting in college and just putting it on the

2393
01:53:54,840 --> 01:53:57,040
Speaker 2: back deck. But then we realized we fucked up with

2394
01:53:57,040 --> 01:53:59,080
Speaker 2: getting a pool table downstairs because we never used it.

2395
01:53:59,080 --> 01:54:01,280
Speaker 1: We couldn't maneuver around it, so we opped it out

2396
01:54:01,280 --> 01:54:01,840
Speaker 1: of the hot tub.

2397
01:54:01,960 --> 01:54:04,640
Speaker 2: But just first time having a hot tub, Yeah, to

2398
01:54:04,760 --> 01:54:06,320
Speaker 2: pull like you kind of make on the sims of.

2399
01:54:06,439 --> 01:54:06,760
Speaker 9: Just you know.

2400
01:54:09,400 --> 01:54:13,599
Speaker 3: Oh, also, uh no, go ahead, go ahead, Sorry about

2401
01:54:13,600 --> 01:54:16,840
Speaker 3: the hot time. I totally cut you off.

2402
01:54:17,400 --> 01:54:18,320
Speaker 2: That was my bad.

2403
01:54:20,920 --> 01:54:23,760
Speaker 3: Was giving me a note about time, and I cut

2404
01:54:23,800 --> 01:54:26,200
Speaker 3: off your I cut off your sentence.

2405
01:54:26,320 --> 01:54:29,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, I gotta you know you don't care about my

2406
01:54:29,120 --> 01:54:31,280
Speaker 1: hot tub. I did so good, trust me, this is

2407
01:54:31,320 --> 01:54:32,600
Speaker 1: what I felt you're talking about.

2408
01:54:32,680 --> 01:54:34,800
Speaker 2: No, you don't need to I just lied.

2409
01:54:34,880 --> 01:54:35,000
Speaker 1: Love.

2410
01:54:35,360 --> 01:54:37,000
Speaker 2: We got to enjoy the hot time and it looks

2411
01:54:37,040 --> 01:54:39,200
Speaker 2: we're outside. It was in the seventies. Over the weekend,

2412
01:54:39,560 --> 01:54:41,400
Speaker 2: we had a grill sash, I had a couple of ribbies.

2413
01:54:41,520 --> 01:54:44,760
Speaker 2: Wag you and you caught some flack on the bus,

2414
01:54:45,720 --> 01:54:48,320
Speaker 2: caught some flack on the bus for not having an

2415
01:54:48,400 --> 01:54:49,200
Speaker 2: after picture.

2416
01:54:50,000 --> 01:54:52,800
Speaker 1: I trust your word, though I have seen steaks.

2417
01:54:52,480 --> 01:54:53,360
Speaker 2: That you have cooked.

2418
01:54:54,440 --> 01:54:57,440
Speaker 1: Yeah I know, yeah, I knocked out of the park. Yeah,

2419
01:54:57,480 --> 01:54:59,640
Speaker 1: I know you can cook a steak. That's my crack

2420
01:54:59,640 --> 01:55:01,200
Speaker 1: of hole. We had a great time out saying you

2421
01:55:01,200 --> 01:55:02,600
Speaker 1: know what, listen, I want to talk about the hot

2422
01:55:02,640 --> 01:55:03,080
Speaker 1: time anymore?

2423
01:55:03,520 --> 01:55:06,200
Speaker 2: Okay, done, I'm done. I won't ever mention it again.

2424
01:55:06,440 --> 01:55:08,680
Speaker 4: What about what about the sauna?

2425
01:55:11,720 --> 01:55:11,760
Speaker 5: Go?

2426
01:55:12,720 --> 01:55:12,760
Speaker 2: No.

2427
01:55:13,080 --> 01:55:16,520
Speaker 3: I am very sorry because I Chef was doing a

2428
01:55:16,560 --> 01:55:19,320
Speaker 3: great job of producing and then I cut you off

2429
01:55:19,360 --> 01:55:21,280
Speaker 3: of your story and I thought, abologize.

2430
01:55:21,360 --> 01:55:22,080
Speaker 1: Can I say can I?

2431
01:55:22,320 --> 01:55:26,200
Speaker 2: Can I say something? Absolutely? I am I allowed to

2432
01:55:26,240 --> 01:55:32,560
Speaker 2: do this. Chef, You're back there fucking producing a bit.

2433
01:55:34,560 --> 01:55:36,240
Speaker 6: I think we're gonna get a ear piece for SUREM

2434
01:55:36,320 --> 01:55:38,440
Speaker 6: So that way I can just relay stuff like whisper.

2435
01:55:38,520 --> 01:55:40,040
Speaker 2: In that way, we don't have to do the hands sing.

2436
01:55:40,160 --> 01:55:42,680
Speaker 2: Oh that sounds secret agent and fun.

2437
01:55:42,920 --> 01:55:45,560
Speaker 1: You can wait for a time where a moment stops.

2438
01:55:45,840 --> 01:55:47,760
Speaker 6: To be honest, I've been doing this signal for the

2439
01:55:47,840 --> 01:55:51,480
Speaker 6: last ten minutes as we've been telling stories, and suram,

2440
01:55:51,640 --> 01:55:55,400
Speaker 6: I finally made eye contact. I went sure, because we

2441
01:55:55,480 --> 01:55:59,000
Speaker 6: are coming up on an hour I'm guessing yeah, okay,

2442
01:56:00,080 --> 01:56:01,840
Speaker 6: but will I want to hear it.

2443
01:56:02,320 --> 01:56:03,840
Speaker 2: You're gonna say I was gonna say a joke on

2444
01:56:03,880 --> 01:56:06,720
Speaker 2: the podcast. I was gonna work in a joke, go

2445
01:56:06,960 --> 01:56:09,040
Speaker 2: for it, and it was gonna be you know how

2446
01:56:09,080 --> 01:56:11,360
Speaker 2: we do uh And listen, now I'm butchering the joke.

2447
01:56:11,400 --> 01:56:12,960
Speaker 2: Now I'm just gonna say what the joke is gonna be.

2448
01:56:12,960 --> 01:56:14,200
Speaker 2: And I was gonna figure out a way to maneuver

2449
01:56:14,240 --> 01:56:16,200
Speaker 2: it in. But I'm like, who knows because you brought

2450
01:56:16,240 --> 01:56:18,240
Speaker 2: up the steak. Like when I posted about the steak

2451
01:56:18,600 --> 01:56:21,040
Speaker 2: first grill the season, I was going to have what

2452
01:56:21,160 --> 01:56:22,840
Speaker 2: took so long to get that photo up?

2453
01:56:24,040 --> 01:56:30,200
Speaker 1: There we go, Derek's holding up a producer son.

2454
01:56:30,200 --> 01:56:31,200
Speaker 2: Shut up? Will sign?

2455
01:56:32,280 --> 01:56:34,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I was gonna say, first grill this season,

2456
01:56:34,880 --> 01:56:41,360
Speaker 1: get to kick off the war, the first grill of

2457
01:56:41,400 --> 01:56:43,080
Speaker 1: the season to kick off the war? Yeah, because I

2458
01:56:43,240 --> 01:56:47,400
Speaker 1: posted on Saturday, you know we bombed our rand. Oh,

2459
01:56:49,640 --> 01:56:50,520
Speaker 1: we can cut that out.

2460
01:56:50,560 --> 01:56:52,880
Speaker 2: We can't cut that. We can always we can't leave

2461
01:56:52,920 --> 01:57:01,480
Speaker 2: it in too, because you know stuff, I'm I love

2462
01:57:01,560 --> 01:57:04,120
Speaker 2: the of the mucket up.

2463
01:57:04,240 --> 01:57:06,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're having fun, you're having fun.

2464
01:57:07,560 --> 01:57:09,240
Speaker 2: But I had another joke and again we can cut

2465
01:57:09,280 --> 01:57:12,200
Speaker 2: this out, okay, okay, because I was wanting to post

2466
01:57:12,280 --> 01:57:14,320
Speaker 2: it and then I was advised not to, And I'm like, oh,

2467
01:57:14,400 --> 01:57:15,680
Speaker 2: you don't know how bad it makes me want to

2468
01:57:15,680 --> 01:57:17,560
Speaker 2: post it? Even who did you read it by? It?

2469
01:57:17,840 --> 01:57:21,040
Speaker 2: Just wondering I'll tell you after the pot, okay. And

2470
01:57:23,000 --> 01:57:24,640
Speaker 2: because I'm just want to run, I'm just like, I'm

2471
01:57:24,680 --> 01:57:26,880
Speaker 2: like laughing to myself. Yeah, yeah, yeah, because I know

2472
01:57:26,920 --> 01:57:28,240
Speaker 2: it's ridiculous.

2473
01:57:28,760 --> 01:57:31,200
Speaker 1: And uh, I was gonna work in another joke, like okay,

2474
01:57:31,240 --> 01:57:32,600
Speaker 1: maybe I can put this on Rue somehow.

2475
01:57:35,640 --> 01:57:37,200
Speaker 2: Yeah. I was gonna say, you know how we do uh,

2476
01:57:37,640 --> 01:57:39,200
Speaker 2: you know, we do rosen thorns for dinner. We were

2477
01:57:39,200 --> 01:57:40,880
Speaker 2: going around the table, what's the rose and thorn? And

2478
01:57:40,960 --> 01:57:43,080
Speaker 2: I asked, Rue, sweetheart, what was your rosen thorn today?

2479
01:57:43,120 --> 01:57:46,480
Speaker 2: She said, we bombed o ran She said was a Rue?

2480
01:57:46,600 --> 01:57:47,160
Speaker 2: You can't wait?

2481
01:57:47,360 --> 01:57:48,560
Speaker 1: Was that her rose thorn?

2482
01:57:48,800 --> 01:57:52,880
Speaker 2: Those are for rose? Yeah, sweet, we can't joke about

2483
01:57:53,000 --> 01:57:55,440
Speaker 2: We can't joke about it like that. Thank god you

2484
01:57:55,480 --> 01:57:58,880
Speaker 2: don't have the Internet, because people would people would come

2485
01:57:58,920 --> 01:58:01,280
Speaker 2: out there would get upset for a joke like that. Yeah.

2486
01:58:01,360 --> 01:58:02,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I was teaching her right away. That was

2487
01:58:02,920 --> 01:58:03,720
Speaker 1: a big learning lesson.

2488
01:58:03,800 --> 01:58:04,000
Speaker 2: Moment.

2489
01:58:04,160 --> 01:58:06,600
Speaker 4: No, you're that's I know, your audience type of situation.

2490
01:58:07,040 --> 01:58:08,440
Speaker 2: You could say this in front of the deck side.

2491
01:58:09,040 --> 01:58:11,840
Speaker 2: Yeah see, that's a hilarious joke at the montestory though,

2492
01:58:12,040 --> 01:58:14,640
Speaker 2: like I would, I would all yeah, yeah, don't say

2493
01:58:14,680 --> 01:58:15,080
Speaker 2: to school.

2494
01:58:18,360 --> 01:58:20,800
Speaker 1: And I for sure won't post about that or make

2495
01:58:20,840 --> 01:58:22,480
Speaker 1: a joke of it, because don't you don't want to

2496
01:58:22,520 --> 01:58:25,000
Speaker 1: get in those walks. Yeah, it's it's a dangerous game

2497
01:58:25,040 --> 01:58:25,360
Speaker 1: out there.

2498
01:58:25,800 --> 01:58:26,080
Speaker 2: Again.

2499
01:58:26,160 --> 01:58:28,320
Speaker 3: Our kids growing up to be old enough to look

2500
01:58:28,360 --> 01:58:32,640
Speaker 3: at our content, just like, dad, what the hell?

2501
01:58:33,720 --> 01:58:34,560
Speaker 2: What the world?

2502
01:58:35,200 --> 01:58:38,440
Speaker 1: No, it's not funny, but it's it's funny.

2503
01:58:38,720 --> 01:58:42,480
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah yeah. And also.

2504
01:58:43,680 --> 01:58:49,280
Speaker 1: Just randomly thought we could go into our voicemails. We

2505
01:58:49,360 --> 01:58:50,960
Speaker 1: got a couple. Let's do it six on one the dads.

2506
01:58:51,000 --> 01:58:52,320
Speaker 1: You want to be featured on the show, we send

2507
01:58:52,360 --> 01:58:53,360
Speaker 1: you merch, We do the whole thing.

2508
01:58:53,360 --> 01:58:55,640
Speaker 2: If you don't want to hear your voice heard, don't

2509
01:58:55,640 --> 01:58:57,000
Speaker 2: want your voice to be on the show, you want

2510
01:58:57,040 --> 01:58:58,520
Speaker 2: to write in we have six one The dad's at

2511
01:58:58,560 --> 01:59:02,160
Speaker 2: gmail dot com. Let's kick off the dead hotline. Yes,

2512
01:59:03,120 --> 01:59:07,800
Speaker 2: this one is labeled one hundred and thirty seven missed calls.

2513
01:59:11,640 --> 01:59:16,120
Speaker 7: Hey fellas, this is Trent It's currently six twelve in

2514
01:59:16,200 --> 01:59:19,280
Speaker 7: the morning and I am flying eighty five.

2515
01:59:19,280 --> 01:59:22,080
Speaker 2: All the way across great state of Missouri.

2516
01:59:23,040 --> 01:59:25,840
Speaker 7: Was on a goosan sleep my buddies for a bachelor party.

2517
01:59:26,520 --> 01:59:30,600
Speaker 7: Woke up at four am to get out and go hunt.

2518
01:59:31,160 --> 01:59:31,800
Speaker 2: Check my phone.

2519
01:59:31,840 --> 01:59:35,320
Speaker 7: One hundred and thirty seven missed calls, fifteen text messages.

2520
01:59:35,720 --> 01:59:38,320
Speaker 7: Called my wife and her water broke and she is

2521
01:59:38,920 --> 01:59:43,520
Speaker 7: going into labor. We got to go ahead, last minute

2522
01:59:43,560 --> 01:59:47,640
Speaker 7: decision to be able to go. She's thirty seven weeks

2523
01:59:47,680 --> 01:59:52,240
Speaker 7: and nothing with budget. But of course, good good, hopefully

2524
01:59:52,560 --> 01:59:54,840
Speaker 7: everything goes well. Wishing me love boys, Love you, guys,

2525
01:59:55,680 --> 01:59:56,840
Speaker 7: Love you too. Man.

2526
01:59:57,040 --> 02:00:00,040
Speaker 2: Thanks for the call in. Slow down just yeah, it

2527
02:00:00,160 --> 02:00:02,120
Speaker 2: slowed down for legal sake on the show. Yeah yeah.

2528
02:00:02,360 --> 02:00:09,640
Speaker 2: He can't promote speeding, no, yeah, God forbid speeding on

2529
02:00:09,760 --> 02:00:19,080
Speaker 2: this podcast that podcast. Please drive responsibly please yeah? Yeah yeah.

2530
02:00:20,680 --> 02:00:23,200
Speaker 2: I love that his first thought was called the boys.

2531
02:00:26,520 --> 02:00:28,680
Speaker 2: Do you know how dead inside I would feel if

2532
02:00:28,720 --> 02:00:31,360
Speaker 2: I had twenty miscalls for my wife, I'd be like,

2533
02:00:31,480 --> 02:00:32,760
Speaker 2: oh my god, Like.

2534
02:00:33,120 --> 02:00:34,960
Speaker 1: You don't even call back, you just send, like you

2535
02:00:35,000 --> 02:00:36,600
Speaker 1: see all the message, you hear the water broke, and

2536
02:00:36,640 --> 02:00:37,280
Speaker 1: you just text her.

2537
02:00:37,560 --> 02:00:42,320
Speaker 2: Are you sure? Because it's a trip. I'm trying to

2538
02:00:42,960 --> 02:00:43,360
Speaker 2: but are you.

2539
02:00:43,400 --> 02:00:46,920
Speaker 3: Sure like we should that it's gonna happen because the

2540
02:00:47,040 --> 02:00:52,240
Speaker 3: Goose numbers are great, Garrett says, everybody's got to limit out. Yeah,

2541
02:00:52,600 --> 02:00:56,080
Speaker 3: I mean we're all getting our limit today. Oh my god,

2542
02:00:56,240 --> 02:00:57,640
Speaker 3: great call in great calling.

2543
02:00:57,760 --> 02:00:58,720
Speaker 2: I hope everything goes well.

2544
02:00:58,720 --> 02:01:02,640
Speaker 1: I hope everything went well. Yes, say safe travels.

2545
02:01:03,080 --> 02:01:06,120
Speaker 3: I hope you got there in time, but also also

2546
02:01:06,360 --> 02:01:09,640
Speaker 3: hope that WiFi had a nice easy delivery.

2547
02:01:10,000 --> 02:01:11,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then you went to speed limit and that

2548
02:01:12,040 --> 02:01:16,320
Speaker 2: you went to speed limit, click it or ticket? What

2549
02:01:16,560 --> 02:01:21,640
Speaker 2: was your rose? You didn't speed you didn't speed Cut

2550
02:01:21,800 --> 02:01:24,600
Speaker 2: from first team is our second voice?

2551
02:01:24,600 --> 02:01:24,840
Speaker 1: Small?

2552
02:01:30,040 --> 02:01:32,920
Speaker 2: Hey boys, I just called. I'm gonna leave a better message.

2553
02:01:33,520 --> 02:01:33,640
Speaker 6: Uh.

2554
02:01:34,240 --> 02:01:35,520
Speaker 2: I'm a dad out of California.

2555
02:01:35,680 --> 02:01:38,240
Speaker 5: I got a ten year old that is uh we

2556
02:01:38,440 --> 02:01:41,840
Speaker 5: just got work, got cut from his first team and

2557
02:01:42,160 --> 02:01:45,360
Speaker 5: uh really good team could go anywhere else and play.

2558
02:01:45,480 --> 02:01:48,200
Speaker 2: But uh, I don't know what to say to the kid.

2559
02:01:49,040 --> 02:01:52,640
Speaker 2: I had no experience of this at all. He's only child.

2560
02:01:53,440 --> 02:01:55,200
Speaker 2: Uh So I'm curious to hear if.

2561
02:01:55,120 --> 02:01:57,640
Speaker 5: You guys have had any stories about parents dealing with

2562
02:01:58,800 --> 02:02:01,920
Speaker 5: defeat or whatever or you want to call it, and

2563
02:02:02,280 --> 02:02:03,800
Speaker 5: how you guys, deal with it what you think the

2564
02:02:03,880 --> 02:02:05,600
Speaker 5: best way is to deal with it. I know there's

2565
02:02:05,600 --> 02:02:07,640
Speaker 5: a lot of kids in club sports now and how

2566
02:02:07,760 --> 02:02:08,480
Speaker 5: cutthroat they are.

2567
02:02:08,640 --> 02:02:12,000
Speaker 2: So I'd love to hear your opinion. Wish me luck.

2568
02:02:12,280 --> 02:02:15,480
Speaker 2: It's gonna be just terrible see it.

2569
02:02:16,840 --> 02:02:18,720
Speaker 1: So the kid hasn't got the news yet, he hasn't

2570
02:02:18,760 --> 02:02:19,400
Speaker 1: got the news.

2571
02:02:21,480 --> 02:02:24,400
Speaker 2: Ten years old. Yeah, club team, I mean you're playing

2572
02:02:24,880 --> 02:02:29,480
Speaker 2: different ball games, yeah, and out in California. I'm sure

2573
02:02:29,520 --> 02:02:31,720
Speaker 2: that there's a lot of competition, Like, there's a lot

2574
02:02:31,800 --> 02:02:38,760
Speaker 2: of really good teams, a lot of athletes. Good.

2575
02:02:39,200 --> 02:02:40,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, first off.

2576
02:02:40,200 --> 02:02:40,400
Speaker 2: Good.

2577
02:02:41,680 --> 02:02:48,080
Speaker 3: Secondly, I never got like cut from a team by

2578
02:02:48,200 --> 02:02:50,880
Speaker 3: one made like the B team and the C team

2579
02:02:51,560 --> 02:02:55,120
Speaker 3: for some sports in middle school, which really sucked.

2580
02:02:56,400 --> 02:02:57,560
Speaker 1: Because everybody wants.

2581
02:02:57,400 --> 02:03:04,680
Speaker 2: To be on the A team. Dude, I don't even

2582
02:03:04,760 --> 02:03:05,480
Speaker 2: know where to begin.

2583
02:03:06,240 --> 02:03:06,440
Speaker 1: Yeah.

2584
02:03:07,640 --> 02:03:12,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, because I think the only thing right off the bat,

2585
02:03:13,320 --> 02:03:19,320
Speaker 3: when you're having that conversation with your son of this team,

2586
02:03:19,720 --> 02:03:22,280
Speaker 3: thought that you weren't good enough, and you could probably

2587
02:03:22,400 --> 02:03:26,640
Speaker 3: speak to this better than anybody being able to essentially

2588
02:03:26,760 --> 02:03:27,560
Speaker 3: walk onto.

2589
02:03:27,360 --> 02:03:34,080
Speaker 2: An NFL team not being drafted. I would say, I

2590
02:03:34,160 --> 02:03:36,160
Speaker 2: don't know how to say it, but I would say,

2591
02:03:39,840 --> 02:03:42,600
Speaker 2: sit him down to try and create that mindset that

2592
02:03:43,080 --> 02:03:46,240
Speaker 2: you had when you were going to the NFL to

2593
02:03:46,760 --> 02:03:47,440
Speaker 2: prove yourself.

2594
02:03:47,680 --> 02:03:48,560
Speaker 1: Does that make sense?

2595
02:03:48,960 --> 02:03:51,360
Speaker 2: Yeah? The difference there is I was an adult, you're

2596
02:03:51,360 --> 02:03:53,520
Speaker 2: an adult. It's a and he's trying to figure out

2597
02:03:53,600 --> 02:03:55,880
Speaker 2: how to communicate with this ten year old when he's

2598
02:03:56,920 --> 02:04:02,600
Speaker 2: mortified of getting cut, you're getting or not making the team. Yeah, Look,

2599
02:04:03,520 --> 02:04:05,960
Speaker 2: this isn't gonna be the first time that you get

2600
02:04:06,000 --> 02:04:08,760
Speaker 2: told no. This isn't gonna be the first time that

2601
02:04:09,560 --> 02:04:14,960
Speaker 2: you you know, I understand you aspire and desire to

2602
02:04:15,040 --> 02:04:16,880
Speaker 2: be on this team, and it's not gonna be the

2603
02:04:16,880 --> 02:04:18,920
Speaker 2: first time a desire gets taken away from you and

2604
02:04:19,080 --> 02:04:21,800
Speaker 2: something kind of you know, outside of your controller where

2605
02:04:21,800 --> 02:04:22,920
Speaker 2: you're not the decision maker.

2606
02:04:23,360 --> 02:04:24,520
Speaker 1: And what a moment too too.

2607
02:04:24,680 --> 02:04:28,440
Speaker 2: If I'm dad, like I'm pulling from if I happen

2608
02:04:28,520 --> 02:04:31,720
Speaker 2: to be the kids child, speaking on my own experience,

2609
02:04:32,160 --> 02:04:35,400
Speaker 2: it would be pulling examples from my journey back in

2610
02:04:35,440 --> 02:04:39,200
Speaker 2: time where whether it's undrafted, getting cut, something bad happening,

2611
02:04:39,320 --> 02:04:41,400
Speaker 2: whether in school, growing up, anything that you can pull

2612
02:04:41,440 --> 02:04:44,120
Speaker 2: from that felt like that was failure that you saw

2613
02:04:44,160 --> 02:04:46,920
Speaker 2: as failure that you struggled with you're like using the

2614
02:04:47,320 --> 02:04:50,760
Speaker 2: example in that storytelling to empathize where your son is

2615
02:04:50,840 --> 02:04:52,760
Speaker 2: probably gonna be at and it's gonna hurt. There's nothing

2616
02:04:52,800 --> 02:04:54,960
Speaker 2: you're gonna do that's just going to take his pain

2617
02:04:55,040 --> 02:04:56,720
Speaker 2: away or any words that you're gonna be said. But

2618
02:04:56,800 --> 02:04:59,280
Speaker 2: you're also being real about this isn't gonna be the

2619
02:04:59,320 --> 02:05:02,320
Speaker 2: first time this is this is gonna happen, buddy, You

2620
02:05:02,360 --> 02:05:06,160
Speaker 2: know what I mean? Like this decision, two things are

2621
02:05:06,160 --> 02:05:09,200
Speaker 2: gonna happen. You can go whenever we get home, you're

2622
02:05:09,240 --> 02:05:10,680
Speaker 2: gonna go to bed to night, and you're gonna go

2623
02:05:10,680 --> 02:05:12,120
Speaker 2: to bed every night, and you're gonna want to stay

2624
02:05:12,160 --> 02:05:15,000
Speaker 2: under the covers. You're gonna want to stay secluded from

2625
02:05:15,040 --> 02:05:17,320
Speaker 2: everybody else and be ashamed and be embarrassed.

2626
02:05:17,320 --> 02:05:20,600
Speaker 1: It's okay to feel those things. But two things are

2627
02:05:20,640 --> 02:05:21,080
Speaker 1: gonna happen.

2628
02:05:21,440 --> 02:05:24,360
Speaker 2: You're either going to allow this moment to define you,

2629
02:05:24,680 --> 02:05:27,760
Speaker 2: or you're going to show up understand where we can

2630
02:05:27,800 --> 02:05:30,280
Speaker 2: get better at if this is something you want to

2631
02:05:30,360 --> 02:05:32,240
Speaker 2: continue doing and something you inspire to do, which I

2632
02:05:32,320 --> 02:05:34,200
Speaker 2: know it is you want to do. But we show

2633
02:05:34,280 --> 02:05:35,880
Speaker 2: up the next day and work on the things from

2634
02:05:35,920 --> 02:05:38,560
Speaker 2: the feedback that we got on why this didn't why

2635
02:05:38,640 --> 02:05:40,920
Speaker 2: this didn't work out, and you just work and you

2636
02:05:41,000 --> 02:05:45,640
Speaker 2: work and work because that is life. That is you know,

2637
02:05:46,000 --> 02:05:49,200
Speaker 2: how great is it that this happened when you're young

2638
02:05:50,320 --> 02:05:52,800
Speaker 2: and not later on or where you're given everything and

2639
02:05:52,880 --> 02:05:55,440
Speaker 2: you've accomplished everything and you've been a studded everything, and

2640
02:05:55,560 --> 02:05:57,960
Speaker 2: then you taste failure for the first time when you

2641
02:05:58,040 --> 02:06:00,480
Speaker 2: are a little bit more developed with your brain, skill set,

2642
02:06:00,520 --> 02:06:03,240
Speaker 2: everything else, to where you feel like it's such a

2643
02:06:03,400 --> 02:06:05,880
Speaker 2: shock and an embarrassing feeling to you. You get to

2644
02:06:06,320 --> 02:06:08,080
Speaker 2: we get to deal with this now when you're young,

2645
02:06:08,240 --> 02:06:10,080
Speaker 2: because it's not going to be the first time. There's

2646
02:06:10,160 --> 02:06:13,800
Speaker 2: nobody that goes through anything without failure or adversity. You

2647
02:06:13,920 --> 02:06:16,280
Speaker 2: get to taste this adversity. Now you're you're wanting to

2648
02:06:16,320 --> 02:06:19,960
Speaker 2: play club level ball, and club level ball there's higher competition.

2649
02:06:20,080 --> 02:06:21,720
Speaker 2: We can go play community league if you want to.

2650
02:06:21,840 --> 02:06:24,200
Speaker 2: We can keep you protected. You can hit the forest,

2651
02:06:24,280 --> 02:06:26,000
Speaker 2: you can hit the three hole, you can play center field.

2652
02:06:26,000 --> 02:06:27,720
Speaker 2: You can do all the things and be a study

2653
02:06:28,000 --> 02:06:29,600
Speaker 2: in a small pond. But if you're wanting to chase

2654
02:06:29,680 --> 02:06:31,840
Speaker 2: the things, there's going to be some realities.

2655
02:06:31,800 --> 02:06:34,560
Speaker 1: That is going to suck. When you do get told no.

2656
02:06:35,280 --> 02:06:38,400
Speaker 2: However, that reality can also be our feedback because I

2657
02:06:38,480 --> 02:06:40,360
Speaker 2: know you want to be great at this, and this

2658
02:06:40,560 --> 02:06:44,800
Speaker 2: is a this is a lesson that either can define

2659
02:06:44,840 --> 02:06:47,280
Speaker 2: you or we can grow and get better from it,

2660
02:06:47,560 --> 02:06:50,040
Speaker 2: because I'm not shying away from want to go out

2661
02:06:50,040 --> 02:06:51,560
Speaker 2: and play catch or work on the things that you're

2662
02:06:51,600 --> 02:06:52,400
Speaker 2: wanting to get better at.

2663
02:06:52,520 --> 02:06:54,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, so whenever you're ready, this is going to suck.

2664
02:06:54,840 --> 02:06:57,160
Speaker 2: There's no way around it. But there's no way around

2665
02:06:57,960 --> 02:07:00,480
Speaker 2: you know this hurting. This should hurt if you care,

2666
02:07:00,600 --> 02:07:02,320
Speaker 2: you love it, you want to be great at it.

2667
02:07:04,680 --> 02:07:09,560
Speaker 2: Find examples to one you are cooking. You're cooking, find

2668
02:07:09,640 --> 02:07:12,240
Speaker 2: examples because I know that there's really good examples out.

2669
02:07:12,120 --> 02:07:17,960
Speaker 3: There of absolute studs. Like I'm almost positive Michael Jordan got.

2670
02:07:19,760 --> 02:07:21,640
Speaker 1: This one as Michael Jordan not making his high school

2671
02:07:21,680 --> 02:07:22,440
Speaker 1: basketball team.

2672
02:07:22,560 --> 02:07:26,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, like, find examples in that sport that he's playing.

2673
02:07:26,760 --> 02:07:31,200
Speaker 3: I'm guessing it's baseball just from context. That sounds like

2674
02:07:31,240 --> 02:07:38,160
Speaker 3: baseball to me. Could be maybe it's soccer, could be soccer. Yeah, yeah, okay,

2675
02:07:38,200 --> 02:07:41,680
Speaker 3: probably soccer at baseball. Yeah, either way, I know, as.

2676
02:07:41,600 --> 02:07:44,080
Speaker 2: A dad, I can imagine he's like, ah, this is

2677
02:07:44,160 --> 02:07:45,600
Speaker 2: gonna like and he's like you can hear it in

2678
02:07:45,680 --> 02:07:47,520
Speaker 2: his voice. This is gonna suck because you're seeing your boy,

2679
02:07:49,000 --> 02:07:51,840
Speaker 2: seeing your boy fail you like you're seeing your kids fail.

2680
02:07:52,160 --> 02:07:54,280
Speaker 1: Which we always want to protect our kids. We want

2681
02:07:54,320 --> 02:07:55,000
Speaker 1: them to be great.

2682
02:07:55,120 --> 02:07:57,480
Speaker 2: We we hate seeing them deal with something that they

2683
02:07:57,600 --> 02:08:00,640
Speaker 2: haven't experienced before and knowing what it could do to

2684
02:08:00,720 --> 02:08:03,760
Speaker 2: their psyche. But also, man, what a what a gift

2685
02:08:03,800 --> 02:08:05,520
Speaker 2: and an opportunity and a lesson.

2686
02:08:05,280 --> 02:08:09,040
Speaker 1: To have, right, nownies, it's they're ten.

2687
02:08:09,520 --> 02:08:12,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, they're young. There's so much developed, there's so much

2688
02:08:12,600 --> 02:08:14,680
Speaker 2: to work on. Like that's where it's like a good

2689
02:08:14,760 --> 02:08:17,880
Speaker 2: we need to taste it, need to taste somebody. It

2690
02:08:18,160 --> 02:08:19,080
Speaker 2: is such a blessing.

2691
02:08:19,440 --> 02:08:21,680
Speaker 3: I know they probably sucks to hear that from his

2692
02:08:22,000 --> 02:08:24,800
Speaker 3: end of things, but this is a blessing that this

2693
02:08:25,000 --> 02:08:28,080
Speaker 3: is happening at ten. And this can be a really

2694
02:08:28,200 --> 02:08:32,000
Speaker 3: really cool, defining moment for your son and for yourself.

2695
02:08:33,160 --> 02:08:34,840
Speaker 1: A lot of good can come out of this.

2696
02:08:35,160 --> 02:08:39,160
Speaker 3: Right, your son's work ethic will be completely different than

2697
02:08:39,320 --> 02:08:42,400
Speaker 3: anybody else of his peers for the rest of his

2698
02:08:42,520 --> 02:08:44,280
Speaker 3: life because of this moment.

2699
02:08:44,920 --> 02:08:47,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, and you know two, as a as an adult,

2700
02:08:47,760 --> 02:08:52,880
Speaker 2: as a dad, as knowing the harsh realities that are

2701
02:08:53,040 --> 02:08:57,760
Speaker 2: factual and true. The sun rises every day and nobody

2702
02:08:58,280 --> 02:09:02,120
Speaker 2: cares about how you feel. And I don't say that

2703
02:09:02,280 --> 02:09:05,480
Speaker 2: to be like aggressive about it. We just know what

2704
02:09:05,560 --> 02:09:07,680
Speaker 2: you mean that We all know as adults that no

2705
02:09:07,840 --> 02:09:11,760
Speaker 2: matter what, everything continues to spin and go and people

2706
02:09:11,800 --> 02:09:14,840
Speaker 2: are out there moving, and it's truly it comes down

2707
02:09:14,920 --> 02:09:17,600
Speaker 2: to you getting out of bed and having a drive,

2708
02:09:17,760 --> 02:09:21,120
Speaker 2: having building momentum, having a purpose for Okay, am I

2709
02:09:21,160 --> 02:09:23,240
Speaker 2: going to allow this failure to define me? Or am

2710
02:09:23,280 --> 02:09:25,680
Speaker 2: I gonna get my shit together? Listen to whatever the

2711
02:09:25,760 --> 02:09:29,400
Speaker 2: feedback was, and not let external noise or anything external

2712
02:09:29,480 --> 02:09:31,760
Speaker 2: effect what my next approach is going to be, because

2713
02:09:31,800 --> 02:09:34,400
Speaker 2: at the end of the day, it's just it's you're

2714
02:09:34,720 --> 02:09:36,360
Speaker 2: receiving data. What am I going to do with this?

2715
02:09:37,320 --> 02:09:40,160
Speaker 2: You're not telling a ten year old that, obviously, but

2716
02:09:40,440 --> 02:09:46,200
Speaker 2: you get to start molding this this little this little

2717
02:09:46,320 --> 02:09:50,320
Speaker 2: human to essentially prepare for that to be life one day,

2718
02:09:50,360 --> 02:09:53,840
Speaker 2: because that is the like the harshest way to just

2719
02:09:54,000 --> 02:09:55,640
Speaker 2: understand the reality of the world.

2720
02:09:55,920 --> 02:09:58,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think the only thing I would add on

2721
02:09:58,480 --> 02:10:00,720
Speaker 4: top of that is if I was in this position,

2722
02:10:00,880 --> 02:10:03,560
Speaker 4: is to attack the original reason why the kid wants

2723
02:10:03,600 --> 02:10:05,240
Speaker 4: to play that sport or be on that team. Is

2724
02:10:05,280 --> 02:10:07,840
Speaker 4: that he's saying, like, there's other teams, but this was

2725
02:10:07,920 --> 02:10:10,040
Speaker 4: the really good one, and there's other situations, but this

2726
02:10:10,200 --> 02:10:12,160
Speaker 4: is the one he wanted. But that doesn't mean that

2727
02:10:12,240 --> 02:10:14,440
Speaker 4: you can't not play the sport, and that doesn't mean

2728
02:10:14,440 --> 02:10:16,760
Speaker 4: there are another opportunities to continue playing that sport. And

2729
02:10:16,800 --> 02:10:18,880
Speaker 4: so as a dad, I don't have kids, I'm not married,

2730
02:10:18,920 --> 02:10:21,360
Speaker 4: but I would think to attack the reason the kid

2731
02:10:21,400 --> 02:10:22,520
Speaker 4: wanted to be on the team. If it's just to

2732
02:10:22,560 --> 02:10:24,960
Speaker 4: play with his buddies, different kind of beasts, but if

2733
02:10:24,960 --> 02:10:26,880
Speaker 4: he just loves the sport and he's like, yeah, I'm

2734
02:10:26,880 --> 02:10:28,880
Speaker 4: just mad I won't get to play, I would just

2735
02:10:28,960 --> 02:10:30,920
Speaker 4: drive home the fact that there are other opportunities and

2736
02:10:31,200 --> 02:10:33,600
Speaker 4: talent is talent, like you'll, you know, you talk about

2737
02:10:33,600 --> 02:10:35,280
Speaker 4: being a walk on in the NFL, like you'll get

2738
02:10:35,360 --> 02:10:37,960
Speaker 4: noticed and you'll get your time to play. And there's

2739
02:10:37,960 --> 02:10:39,760
Speaker 4: nothing wrong with playing on a worst team and being

2740
02:10:39,800 --> 02:10:41,600
Speaker 4: the guy on that team. I guess is how I

2741
02:10:41,600 --> 02:10:43,280
Speaker 4: would hope I treat it something.

2742
02:10:43,360 --> 02:10:45,560
Speaker 1: I love the approach to buddy, why do we play?

2743
02:10:46,000 --> 02:10:48,640
Speaker 1: Why do we play this game? Yes, tell me why

2744
02:10:48,720 --> 02:10:50,240
Speaker 1: you love soccer or baseball?

2745
02:10:50,280 --> 02:10:54,560
Speaker 2: Whatever, gauge his passion for it. Gauge his passion for it.

2746
02:10:54,720 --> 02:10:57,760
Speaker 2: That is a great point. That is a really good point,

2747
02:10:58,000 --> 02:11:01,240
Speaker 2: because yeah, that's honestly well said. You're starting from the wild.

2748
02:11:01,440 --> 02:11:04,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, like they you once you have that base setup

2749
02:11:04,240 --> 02:11:08,600
Speaker 3: of like, oh you you're die hard passionate about this. Okay, well, buddy,

2750
02:11:08,680 --> 02:11:10,280
Speaker 3: this is what we're gonna do to stay in it

2751
02:11:10,440 --> 02:11:12,280
Speaker 3: and like keep moving forward.

2752
02:11:12,560 --> 02:11:13,120
Speaker 2: We got this.

2753
02:11:14,240 --> 02:11:16,080
Speaker 3: Oh you just want to be on there because Bradley's

2754
02:11:16,120 --> 02:11:17,720
Speaker 3: on there and that's your buddy and he lives two

2755
02:11:17,760 --> 02:11:20,320
Speaker 3: blocks away, Like, dude, we.

2756
02:11:20,600 --> 02:11:22,720
Speaker 2: Can find another team. You're gonna you're gonna meet some

2757
02:11:22,760 --> 02:11:27,760
Speaker 2: other Bradleys. Like yeah, mm hmm, I love that question.

2758
02:11:28,200 --> 02:11:32,600
Speaker 2: So you're married it on for the next week because

2759
02:11:32,640 --> 02:11:34,880
Speaker 2: that's yeah, that's a good one. That's a obviously a

2760
02:11:34,960 --> 02:11:36,920
Speaker 2: tough spot for a parent because you're wanting to give

2761
02:11:37,000 --> 02:11:39,360
Speaker 2: you're wanting to approach it the right way. Yeah, and

2762
02:11:39,480 --> 02:11:42,560
Speaker 2: he's just like you're not trying to not validate how

2763
02:11:42,600 --> 02:11:45,000
Speaker 2: my man's feeling, but you're also thinking, like, buddy, this

2764
02:11:45,160 --> 02:11:47,640
Speaker 2: is listen, this is gonna be all good.

2765
02:11:47,920 --> 02:11:50,040
Speaker 1: This is gonna be the first of many times you're

2766
02:11:50,080 --> 02:11:52,360
Speaker 1: going to fail. You know why you're going to continue

2767
02:11:52,400 --> 02:11:55,080
Speaker 1: to fail because you want to be really good at

2768
02:11:55,120 --> 02:11:56,720
Speaker 1: something and you want to put yourself out.

2769
02:11:56,640 --> 02:11:58,880
Speaker 2: There and be vulnerable enough to be great. And with

2770
02:11:59,120 --> 02:12:03,120
Speaker 2: that comes failure and you're just gonna learn. Yeah, you're

2771
02:12:03,120 --> 02:12:06,600
Speaker 2: just gonna learn. Or you can go home and you

2772
02:12:06,640 --> 02:12:07,880
Speaker 2: don't want to do anything and you want to play

2773
02:12:07,920 --> 02:12:09,960
Speaker 2: video games, which I know that's not what you want

2774
02:12:10,000 --> 02:12:12,040
Speaker 2: to do. Yeah, but buddy, this is gonna be the

2775
02:12:12,080 --> 02:12:14,200
Speaker 2: first of many, man, And that is awesome to say.

2776
02:12:14,360 --> 02:12:16,480
Speaker 2: Once you once you know that, like that is going

2777
02:12:16,520 --> 02:12:18,800
Speaker 2: to be the reality. That's when you can just accept

2778
02:12:18,800 --> 02:12:21,160
Speaker 2: because once you can, the sooner you can accept this

2779
02:12:21,360 --> 02:12:23,840
Speaker 2: and understand it and feel it and know that this

2780
02:12:23,960 --> 02:12:25,960
Speaker 2: feeling is not going to go away for the rest

2781
02:12:26,040 --> 02:12:29,240
Speaker 2: of life. The sooner we'll be able to start finding

2782
02:12:29,360 --> 02:12:32,480
Speaker 2: solutions to Hey, so what's going to be your pivot?

2783
02:12:32,520 --> 02:12:35,000
Speaker 2: What are we going to do next? Yeah? And and

2784
02:12:35,320 --> 02:12:36,960
Speaker 2: just like the.

2785
02:12:39,280 --> 02:12:42,840
Speaker 3: Passing of a loved one, or like other huge milestones

2786
02:12:42,880 --> 02:12:47,000
Speaker 3: like universal truths in this world, like a you know,

2787
02:12:47,280 --> 02:12:49,800
Speaker 3: not too early, but at the early stages of life,

2788
02:12:50,000 --> 02:12:53,440
Speaker 3: like him being able to understand a universal truth of

2789
02:12:53,680 --> 02:12:54,440
Speaker 3: you will fail.

2790
02:12:55,680 --> 02:12:57,520
Speaker 2: But but what are you going to do about it?

2791
02:12:57,800 --> 02:13:00,440
Speaker 2: What are you going to learn from that? Ones are

2792
02:13:00,480 --> 02:13:02,880
Speaker 2: going to pass away? How do we deal with that?

2793
02:13:03,080 --> 02:13:06,040
Speaker 3: You know, like I think learning that at a young age.

2794
02:13:06,120 --> 02:13:08,720
Speaker 3: This is a really cool opportunity for this dad.

2795
02:13:09,440 --> 02:13:12,680
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, do we want time wise? Do we want

2796
02:13:12,680 --> 02:13:15,640
Speaker 2: to jump to emails? Yeah? Yeah, one hundred percent? Were

2797
02:13:15,960 --> 02:13:22,920
Speaker 2: around where we're flirting around actual time? Teffs got work? Well,

2798
02:13:22,920 --> 02:13:30,680
Speaker 2: I have one email, so that works perfect. Masonlio part one.

2799
02:13:31,240 --> 02:13:33,280
Speaker 1: We have pictures for part two. Oh he looks like

2800
02:13:33,320 --> 02:13:33,720
Speaker 1: a stud.

2801
02:13:34,200 --> 02:13:34,840
Speaker 2: What's up? Boys?

2802
02:13:34,880 --> 02:13:35,920
Speaker 1: This is Mason from Florida.

2803
02:13:36,000 --> 02:13:38,520
Speaker 2: My wife and I had the same job cleaning pools,

2804
02:13:38,560 --> 02:13:40,920
Speaker 2: but when she got pregnant, I took over her pool

2805
02:13:41,000 --> 02:13:43,440
Speaker 2: route and still doing my own just so we can

2806
02:13:43,560 --> 02:13:45,280
Speaker 2: keep the same pay while she stays at home.

2807
02:13:45,440 --> 02:13:45,680
Speaker 7: Good.

2808
02:13:46,520 --> 02:13:48,920
Speaker 2: Well, now she's in her nesting stage where that means

2809
02:13:49,000 --> 02:13:51,600
Speaker 2: she wants or do that means she wants to do

2810
02:13:51,760 --> 02:13:55,280
Speaker 2: all kinds of home improvement. Good. Last weekend, after working

2811
02:13:55,400 --> 02:13:57,800
Speaker 2: five double shifts, she's like, I can't stand the way

2812
02:13:57,840 --> 02:14:03,720
Speaker 2: our kitchen ceiling looks to what can you do about it? Well, boys,

2813
02:14:03,880 --> 02:14:05,520
Speaker 2: I took care of it, and I'm building up that

2814
02:14:05,720 --> 02:14:09,000
Speaker 2: shock wave. Come on, here's some pictures for the work done.

2815
02:14:10,080 --> 02:14:15,000
Speaker 2: Oh beautiful ceiling. Oh wow, oh wow.

2816
02:14:15,160 --> 02:14:17,320
Speaker 1: You know what you know, my man Mason gets there,

2817
02:14:17,480 --> 02:14:21,960
Speaker 1: Mason coupons. This is a shock wave and this is

2818
02:14:22,000 --> 02:14:23,080
Speaker 1: a put a bowl on a coopon.

2819
02:14:23,280 --> 02:14:25,440
Speaker 2: Brother, he got the whole wheel at the fair. You

2820
02:14:25,520 --> 02:14:28,320
Speaker 2: know how they have the entire wheel of coupons. Give

2821
02:14:28,400 --> 02:14:33,880
Speaker 2: him the whole damn wheel. Yeah that's unreal. Yeah, okay Mason. Wow,

2822
02:14:34,680 --> 02:14:39,880
Speaker 2: don't I hope Jill does not see that. Daniel rich Uh.

2823
02:14:40,080 --> 02:14:44,240
Speaker 3: This is an email starts with good morning, Papa, team, Sickos,

2824
02:14:44,800 --> 02:14:50,200
Speaker 3: my boy, sharm God. I love you man, go dogs Bunchell, Willy,

2825
02:14:50,600 --> 02:14:53,120
Speaker 3: I am so proud of you. You have officially upgraded

2826
02:14:53,200 --> 02:14:58,200
Speaker 3: to snow apocalypse Willie. So let's get to it about

2827
02:14:58,360 --> 02:15:02,520
Speaker 3: last night. I was fortunate to be in town here

2828
02:15:02,600 --> 02:15:06,520
Speaker 3: in Jacksonville, Florida, in the Neptune Beach area at my house.

2829
02:15:06,920 --> 02:15:08,800
Speaker 1: I travel a lot for work.

2830
02:15:08,960 --> 02:15:12,040
Speaker 3: I got home from Cleveland on Wednesday evening and was

2831
02:15:12,080 --> 02:15:16,800
Speaker 3: planning on spending all Thursday, February twenty six with my boy, Waylan,

2832
02:15:16,880 --> 02:15:19,880
Speaker 3: who is two, while my wife went to work at

2833
02:15:20,800 --> 02:15:26,960
Speaker 3: Wolfson's Children's Hospital. She is a nicku practitioner there Milk

2834
02:15:27,000 --> 02:15:29,720
Speaker 3: Team sixer is a serious boss bitch.

2835
02:15:30,320 --> 02:15:31,400
Speaker 2: That's my little mama.

2836
02:15:31,880 --> 02:15:35,320
Speaker 3: That evening Waitelan went down to sleep at nine forty

2837
02:15:35,400 --> 02:15:38,480
Speaker 3: pm and my wife had just gotten home around nine

2838
02:15:38,480 --> 02:15:41,560
Speaker 3: point fifty pm. We were in the room discussing our

2839
02:15:41,720 --> 02:15:44,960
Speaker 3: day in our upcoming c section on March twelfth for

2840
02:15:45,040 --> 02:15:49,360
Speaker 3: our little baby girl, Joseph Fine. The excitement was apparently

2841
02:15:49,440 --> 02:15:52,520
Speaker 3: too much. While my wife stood up at exactly ten pm,

2842
02:15:52,680 --> 02:15:55,800
Speaker 3: like something out of a movie, her water suddenly broke.

2843
02:15:56,320 --> 02:16:00,760
Speaker 3: Good didn't have bags packed. Good baby flew all over

2844
02:16:00,840 --> 02:16:04,480
Speaker 3: our bedroom floor. Good family lives in Atlanta.

2845
02:16:05,080 --> 02:16:05,360
Speaker 2: Good.

2846
02:16:06,040 --> 02:16:08,360
Speaker 1: As of twelve eleven am February.

2847
02:16:08,000 --> 02:16:11,720
Speaker 3: Twenty seventh, my second child, Josephine Lynn Rich arrived at

2848
02:16:11,800 --> 02:16:15,840
Speaker 3: six pounds fourteen ounces, making me a first time girl.

2849
02:16:15,960 --> 02:16:16,200
Speaker 2: Dad.

2850
02:16:16,840 --> 02:16:20,360
Speaker 3: I get it, boys, I'm cooked. She's got me wrapped.

2851
02:16:20,800 --> 02:16:23,800
Speaker 3: Take the credit card, my life and my heart. Baby girl.

2852
02:16:24,320 --> 02:16:27,440
Speaker 3: Peep the for the dad's gear and the picks, all

2853
02:16:27,560 --> 02:16:30,760
Speaker 3: the best boys. I love y'all and the content. It

2854
02:16:30,840 --> 02:16:34,119
Speaker 3: definitely feels like we are all in this together Philippians

2855
02:16:34,160 --> 02:16:37,000
Speaker 3: four thirteen. I can do all things through Christ, who

2856
02:16:37,200 --> 02:16:42,280
Speaker 3: strengthens me. He's got the six black for the dad's hat.

2857
02:16:43,560 --> 02:16:45,160
Speaker 3: Look at little Josephine.

2858
02:16:46,040 --> 02:16:50,920
Speaker 1: There's also congratulations, well done, well done, well done, well done,

2859
02:16:51,240 --> 02:16:53,959
Speaker 1: and congrat congratulations.

2860
02:16:53,959 --> 02:16:54,720
Speaker 2: And go dogs.

2861
02:16:54,760 --> 02:16:55,920
Speaker 1: What's he doing with that, chef?

2862
02:16:56,760 --> 02:17:00,360
Speaker 2: What do you mean by that? Go down? Mean by

2863
02:17:00,400 --> 02:17:06,600
Speaker 2: that it's golfing season. We'll worry about that. What do

2864
02:17:06,680 --> 02:17:12,520
Speaker 2: you mean by go doll? Topic quote lesson of the week.

2865
02:17:13,080 --> 02:17:15,080
Speaker 2: I have a quote. Let's hear it.

2866
02:17:16,800 --> 02:17:20,280
Speaker 3: This one is a little late, but I thought it

2867
02:17:20,320 --> 02:17:23,600
Speaker 3: would be apropos to quote Clay Matthews.

2868
02:17:27,080 --> 02:17:27,840
Speaker 1: Here's our quote.

2869
02:17:28,400 --> 02:17:31,600
Speaker 3: Great moments are born from great opportunity, and that's what

2870
02:17:31,720 --> 02:17:35,600
Speaker 3: you have here tonight. Boys, that's what you've earned here tonight.

2871
02:17:35,760 --> 02:17:36,280
Speaker 1: One game.

2872
02:17:37,680 --> 02:17:40,680
Speaker 2: If we played them ten times, they might win nine,

2873
02:17:41,520 --> 02:17:46,920
Speaker 2: but not this game, not tonight. Tonight. We skate with them. Tonight,

2874
02:17:47,120 --> 02:17:50,320
Speaker 2: we stay with them, and we shut them down because

2875
02:17:50,400 --> 02:17:51,560
Speaker 2: we can. Tonight.

2876
02:17:52,560 --> 02:17:55,440
Speaker 3: We are the greatest hockey team in the world. You

2877
02:17:55,560 --> 02:17:58,400
Speaker 3: were born to be hockey players, every one of you,

2878
02:17:58,959 --> 02:18:00,760
Speaker 3: and you were meant to be here tonight.

2879
02:18:00,920 --> 02:18:04,480
Speaker 1: This is your time. Their time is done. It's over.

2880
02:18:05,480 --> 02:18:09,200
Speaker 2: I'm sick and tired of hearing about what a great

2881
02:18:09,320 --> 02:18:13,480
Speaker 2: hockey team the Soviets have. Screw them. This is your time.

2882
02:18:14,000 --> 02:18:18,160
Speaker 2: Now go out there and take it herb Brooks, it's

2883
02:18:18,160 --> 02:18:22,080
Speaker 2: a great quote. Thank you. It's a little late, but god,

2884
02:18:22,879 --> 02:18:24,240
Speaker 2: great quote. What nonetheless?

2885
02:18:24,560 --> 02:18:28,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, and just switch out hockey player with dad dead.

2886
02:18:31,200 --> 02:18:35,600
Speaker 2: I'm hearing how good these Soviet dads are at being fathers.

2887
02:18:37,400 --> 02:18:38,480
Speaker 2: Go out there and take it.

2888
02:18:39,120 --> 02:18:41,840
Speaker 1: One game, one feed, what feed a.

2889
02:18:43,520 --> 02:18:45,000
Speaker 2: Tonight? We pair it with them?

2890
02:18:48,280 --> 02:18:51,880
Speaker 3: Oh my god, Yeah, dude, it just cave. That gets

2891
02:18:51,920 --> 02:18:55,760
Speaker 3: me Jesus every time I hear that, what do you

2892
02:18:55,840 --> 02:18:56,320
Speaker 3: have cooking?

2893
02:18:57,520 --> 02:19:01,240
Speaker 2: I love how when there's always a hard Instagram has

2894
02:19:01,360 --> 02:19:08,160
Speaker 2: some slide carousel that is either pointing out all the

2895
02:19:08,280 --> 02:19:11,040
Speaker 2: things my kids do that make it a hard day. Yeah,

2896
02:19:11,080 --> 02:19:12,560
Speaker 2: and they're just trying to make you feel better, or

2897
02:19:12,640 --> 02:19:15,280
Speaker 2: if it's real and you're just thinking like, okay, we're

2898
02:19:15,280 --> 02:19:16,680
Speaker 2: doing a pretty good job. Yeah.

2899
02:19:17,959 --> 02:19:19,039
Speaker 1: This one is from.

2900
02:19:22,080 --> 02:19:27,520
Speaker 2: Schweta Happy Minds. Yeah, five signs your child is truly

2901
02:19:27,640 --> 02:19:33,280
Speaker 2: happy that most parents miss. They daydream talking to toys,

2902
02:19:33,360 --> 02:19:37,040
Speaker 2: building imaginary worlds, getting lost in their own stories. This

2903
02:19:37,240 --> 02:19:40,320
Speaker 2: is not distraction. That is a brain that feels safe

2904
02:19:40,400 --> 02:19:46,360
Speaker 2: to explore. They disagree with you. I'll say that again.

2905
02:19:46,400 --> 02:19:50,600
Speaker 2: They disagree with you. That is not fair. I do

2906
02:19:50,760 --> 02:19:53,920
Speaker 2: not like it. This is not disrespect, It is trust.

2907
02:19:54,480 --> 02:19:56,920
Speaker 2: They believe your leve will not disappear just because they

2908
02:19:57,000 --> 02:20:02,560
Speaker 2: think differently. They copy you, your tone, your habits, your

2909
02:20:02,600 --> 02:20:06,280
Speaker 2: little phrases. Children imitate the people who feel safe to them.

2910
02:20:06,840 --> 02:20:10,560
Speaker 2: You are their model of the world. They are silly

2911
02:20:10,640 --> 02:20:15,720
Speaker 2: around you, loud laughter, random songs, funny faces, Goofiness means comfort.

2912
02:20:16,200 --> 02:20:23,920
Speaker 2: Play is how children show connection. They show big emotions tears, anger,

2913
02:20:24,760 --> 02:20:27,959
Speaker 2: I hate you moments. Haven't got to those yet. Okay,

2914
02:20:28,879 --> 02:20:32,199
Speaker 2: it may feel messy, but it means they feel safe

2915
02:20:32,320 --> 02:20:36,120
Speaker 2: enough to be real instead of hiding their feelings. And

2916
02:20:36,240 --> 02:20:40,040
Speaker 2: the last one. Real happiness is not constant smiling. It

2917
02:20:40,160 --> 02:20:43,400
Speaker 2: is feeling safe. It is feeling seen, and it is

2918
02:20:43,520 --> 02:20:47,879
Speaker 2: being free to be themselves with you shout out Schweta

2919
02:20:48,440 --> 02:20:53,800
Speaker 2: period happy minds on Instagram. Let's go and a question

2920
02:20:53,959 --> 02:20:56,320
Speaker 2: that I'm coming below safe and I'll share a list

2921
02:20:56,400 --> 02:21:00,480
Speaker 2: of simple practical things those those ones ough comment the

2922
02:21:00,520 --> 02:21:02,720
Speaker 2: word yeah hey.

2923
02:21:02,800 --> 02:21:08,800
Speaker 1: But to comment this week, what is it going to be? Oh?

2924
02:21:08,879 --> 02:21:13,160
Speaker 2: Blue heart, a blue heart jose correct yeah?

2925
02:21:15,160 --> 02:21:16,920
Speaker 1: And if people listen very endo this this can be

2926
02:21:16,959 --> 02:21:17,600
Speaker 1: another emoji.

2927
02:21:17,760 --> 02:21:19,920
Speaker 2: I do need. We need to make pop a team

2928
02:21:20,000 --> 02:21:28,720
Speaker 2: six aware. Okay, March fourteenth, Steak and blow Chop day,

2929
02:21:32,120 --> 02:21:35,199
Speaker 2: and that's your rose for this. Yeah, that's your rose

2930
02:21:35,320 --> 02:21:39,160
Speaker 2: that that's coming out. Yeah yeah, just just circle that. Yeah,

2931
02:21:39,480 --> 02:21:43,360
Speaker 2: put a steak emoji put or rose still listen. That's that.

2932
02:21:43,560 --> 02:21:45,440
Speaker 2: We we have fun in the comments. Yeah yeah, yeah.

2933
02:21:46,160 --> 02:21:47,160
Speaker 2: But March fourteenth.

2934
02:21:47,320 --> 02:21:49,240
Speaker 1: March fourteen, showed my wife last night.

2935
02:21:49,920 --> 02:21:54,320
Speaker 2: M Yeah, that's it. You know, I have you little

2936
02:21:54,480 --> 02:21:57,680
Speaker 2: a little fun moments with your wife. Were you over

2937
02:21:58,240 --> 02:21:59,480
Speaker 2: that sound that I was about to go up in

2938
02:21:59,640 --> 02:22:03,960
Speaker 2: h and goon with demon. We watched her episode of

2939
02:22:04,840 --> 02:22:07,080
Speaker 2: the Beast of Me by the way, great show, great show,

2940
02:22:07,959 --> 02:22:09,680
Speaker 2: and I was like, she was talking about going to bed.

2941
02:22:09,720 --> 02:22:11,040
Speaker 1: It was about nine thirty, and I was like, all right,

2942
02:22:11,040 --> 02:22:13,280
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go up and throw some lead. Yeah, throw

2943
02:22:13,320 --> 02:22:14,360
Speaker 1: some lead in with the boys.

2944
02:22:14,440 --> 02:22:15,600
Speaker 2: Honey, we're boots on the ground.

2945
02:22:16,800 --> 02:22:17,600
Speaker 1: I gotta go get the head.

2946
02:22:17,640 --> 02:22:20,960
Speaker 2: Said on, I'm gonna kill a couple of bad guys. Yeah.

2947
02:22:21,000 --> 02:22:21,160
Speaker 7: Yeah.

2948
02:22:22,200 --> 02:22:24,360
Speaker 1: And it came over. She was sitting on the couch.

2949
02:22:24,480 --> 02:22:28,120
Speaker 2: I'm standing up, walking over, been down her kiss, smile,

2950
02:22:28,360 --> 02:22:30,760
Speaker 2: give her another kiss, and then I hit her with.

2951
02:22:30,800 --> 02:22:31,920
Speaker 1: The I stood up and then I hit it with

2952
02:22:32,000 --> 02:22:37,200
Speaker 1: the she left.

2953
02:22:37,400 --> 02:22:43,040
Speaker 2: I said, he love that, love that. Hey, baby, don't forget.

2954
02:22:43,560 --> 02:22:45,880
Speaker 2: I started walking away. I said, hey, don't up. March fourteenth,

2955
02:22:45,920 --> 02:22:51,480
Speaker 2: it's coming up. She said, Mart's fourteenth steaking blow job there, Yes.

2956
02:22:53,160 --> 02:22:55,800
Speaker 3: And she actually told me that you had brought that up.

2957
02:22:55,840 --> 02:22:58,160
Speaker 3: And she told me what she said after you said that.

2958
02:22:58,680 --> 02:23:01,200
Speaker 3: She said, there's the man I'm married. There's a man

2959
02:23:01,240 --> 02:23:04,240
Speaker 3: I found love with. There he is I love you,

2960
02:23:06,600 --> 02:23:07,760
Speaker 3: and gave her a little airtop.

2961
02:23:08,640 --> 02:23:10,800
Speaker 2: Thank you try shall we love you. We'll see you.

2962
02:23:10,920 --> 02:23:11,480
Speaker 2: Last week