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Speaker 1: Welcome to an all new episode of Her Playbook. That

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Speaker 1: Her Playbook Podcast, presented by Kendra Scott, the jewelry company

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Speaker 1: That's Shining Bright and doing good shop jewelry sales designed

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Speaker 1: for every day and every occasion at your local Kendrascott

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Speaker 1: store or Kendrascott dot com. Welcome to Her Playbook. My

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Speaker 1: name is Madeline Burke, and on this episode, I am

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Speaker 1: joined by a businesswoman, a philanthropist, an entrepreneur, and an author,

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Speaker 1: es Morel. Tobias. Thank you so much for joining us today.

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much for inviting me. I'm excited to

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Speaker 2: be here.

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Speaker 1: I'm thrilled to have you here because I look at

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Speaker 1: your bio and all the things that you are doing

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Speaker 1: and I'm tired, like I don't know how you fit

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Speaker 1: it all into a day. So can you describe to me,

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Speaker 1: you know, the many, the multi hyphen it things that

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Speaker 1: you do right now?

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Speaker 3: So as of right now, well, I own a PR

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Speaker 3: agency which is specialized in not in music and entertainment.

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Speaker 3: Outside of that, I also work on special projects with

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Speaker 3: spacifican Business Council, which is a worldwide company. They have

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Speaker 3: this is in fifty three countries right now and pretty

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Speaker 3: much I'm in charge of connecting CEOs all over the

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Speaker 3: world and see how synergy is created. And I'm also

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Speaker 3: two times best selling author Spanish and English.

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Speaker 2: Amazing, and I just dropped a new baby because I

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Speaker 2: just dropped a new baby.

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Speaker 3: Better but better, it's it's my vegan all natural.

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Speaker 2: Sleep aid supplement.

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Speaker 1: Amazing.

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Speaker 3: And the reason why I got into the health field

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Speaker 3: was because for many years I've suffered from insomnia and

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Speaker 3: sleep issues and I honestly just got tired of taking

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Speaker 3: pills and I was like, what can I possibly do

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Speaker 3: outside of meditation praying to make the situation better? Because

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Speaker 3: I almost felt at some point I was becoming an

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Speaker 3: added to medication to sleep, and sleep is something that

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Speaker 3: should come naturally, right.

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Speaker 2: So it started as a.

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Speaker 3: Conversation with a friend of mine. He's actually my business partner,

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Speaker 3: Jenny Freeze. He is a retired basketball player. I was

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Speaker 3: just like, I am so tired, and he's like he

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Speaker 3: was going through the same thing at the time, same problems.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, why can't we just come up with something.

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Speaker 3: I just want to go night night, And.

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Speaker 2: That's where they came up.

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Speaker 3: Amazing Night Night is it's just from a conversation that

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Speaker 3: was started maybe eighteen months ago, and now the product

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Speaker 3: it's out. It's been out and out for three weeks,

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Speaker 3: and I'm just really excited.

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Speaker 1: That is very exciting, and it's incredible too to create

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Speaker 1: a product that is, you know, all natural and supports

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Speaker 1: something so important like sleep in a way that is

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Speaker 1: clean for the body too.

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Speaker 3: Absolutely, I'm in this phase of wellness and what a

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Speaker 3: lot of people don't understand is that when you let sleep,

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Speaker 3: your mentals are not going to be in place right,

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Speaker 3: and when your mentals not in place, a lot of

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Speaker 3: other things in your life are going to malfunction. So

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Speaker 3: I am just a big advocate when it comes to

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Speaker 1: And also you've had a lot of transformative moments in

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Speaker 1: your life because of health. And also you mentioned the

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Speaker 1: two time bestselling author of Reset and Reboot. Regaining Mindfulness

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Speaker 1: in English and Spanish is a bestseller. That is incredible.

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Speaker 2: Yes, walk me through.

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Speaker 1: I know it's a pivotal time in your life when

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Speaker 1: you wrote this book, What went into writing it and

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Speaker 1: what can people expect when they read it?

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Speaker 3: So recent and reboot I released it in twenty twenty two,

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Speaker 3: but I started writing it during the pandemic in twenty twenty.

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Speaker 2: As we all know, it was very difficult times.

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Speaker 3: But what we had in our hands was a lot

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Speaker 3: my time as I possibly can write. So what I

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Speaker 3: did was I started rewriting. I've always been a writer,

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Speaker 3: but I stopped and then this was like my time too, Okay,

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Speaker 3: let me get back to writing. And was started as

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Speaker 3: a morning journal turned into a book which is Reset

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Speaker 3: and Rebood and on. The book is a self improvement books.

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Speaker 3: I speak the benefits of manifestation, detoxing, living a life

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Speaker 3: with a purpose, but I also talk about having a

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Speaker 1: Well, that's a pivotal moment in your story too. I mean,

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Speaker 3: Twenty eighteen was a very hard time for me. This

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Speaker 3: And all I knew was I need to make changes.

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Speaker 3: But I was also very lost because I didn't even

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Speaker 2: The detox today.

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Speaker 3: I'm very careful. I'm very more like walking with purpose

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's fascinating and also scary, but I think I

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Speaker 3: I feel that at times, most times, things happen to

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Speaker 2: It's almost like I'm walking in my purpose. And if you.

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Speaker 3: Want to be part of whatever I have going on, great,

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Speaker 3: and if you don't get best, you keep going.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, and kind of protecting your own piece.

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Speaker 2: Oh your energy, Your energy is everything. Yeah, I am like, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: The type of people are going to be there. Really.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because when you are focused on doing things better

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Speaker 2: Have to be like in a bubble. That's what works

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Speaker 3: Embrace your solitude and like I said, just say laser

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you've also been someone who's so good at using

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Speaker 1: your voice to inspire others. I know you've spoken on

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Speaker 2: Yes, I remember, I loved it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what's that experience like for you?

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Speaker 2: It was great.

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Speaker 3: We went to a high school in the Bronx I

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Speaker 3: believe it was DJ Kamaloe and one of your old

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Speaker 3: how we are using our voice to to pretty much

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Speaker 3: one tell them that school, it's very important education, follow

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Speaker 1: Amazing, Yes, and it's so impressive to inspire so many

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Speaker 3: My motivation in life would definitely be creating a better

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Speaker 2: We're proud of her. She's not out here and now

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Speaker 2: For me, that's motivation.

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Speaker 3: But also personally, my motivation is being a good person.

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Speaker 2: Continuing to be a good person.

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Speaker 3: That motivates me every day to continue to be a

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Speaker 1: What's something that you learned later on in life that

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Speaker 1: you wish you could tell your younger self.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, that's a great question.

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Speaker 1: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: That's a great question. And it sounds so simple, but

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Speaker 2: it's so powerful.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Oh, because there's so many moments right where we're looking. Man,

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Speaker 1: we're turning the tables on the I don't know. I mean,

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Speaker 1: there's there's a lot of different things. I think, you know,

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Speaker 1: don't know. The one that comes to mind is how

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Speaker 2: Well, I was going to say that trust.

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Speaker 1: That's one that I feel like I really learned later

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Speaker 3: I would honestly say, trusting your insuation is so important,

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Back then as you get older, you start okay, this

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Speaker 2: I wish I was able to tell that to myself.

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Speaker 2: I grow though, and maybe I wouldn't have.

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Speaker 3: Made the decisions or choices that I made then, which

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: But intuition, yeah, I would say intuition.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's an interesting one.

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Speaker 2: That was a great one. Thank you, my favorite so

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Speaker 1: One thing that's also interesting and really inspiring too is

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Speaker 1: the way that you talk about how you're protecting your peace,

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Speaker 1: how you're not afraid to say no. And I think

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Speaker 1: for a lot of women, especially the need to be amenable,

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Speaker 1: the garden of people that are aren't supportive of your path,

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Speaker 1: how was that for you?

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Speaker 2: So be honest, I don't know how this is gonna sound.

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Speaker 3: I didn't have support, especially for my family, and that

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Speaker 2: Get a real job, But I really didn't care.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I just have that personality that it's like I

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Speaker 1: Just go right, just trusting the self and saying, hey,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, affirmations too, I'm big on those. I forgot to

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Speaker 3: mention that before daily affirmations they have change my life.

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Speaker 2: My third book will be about a daily affirmations.

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Speaker 1: affirmations as well. Yes, what is your favorite or what

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Speaker 3: I am beautiful, I am powerful. I only attract abundance,

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Speaker 3: I tell, and then a bunch of other things, whether

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Speaker 3: because it does something to your subconscious Then you start

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Speaker 2: If you are dealing with you know.

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Speaker 3: Whether it's depression or low self esteem. These are words.

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Speaker 2: Words are powerful, very powerful words.

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Speaker 1: Thoughts all of it really affect your experience in life

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Speaker 1: and the outcome of the way you perceive situations. I'm

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Speaker 3: Oh absolutely, it doesn't matter if somebody comes and tells

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Speaker 3: They probably want some nice, nice But if you believe

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Speaker 3: it, it doesn't even matter.

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Speaker 2: You don't need.

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Speaker 3: The recognition from anyone to feel good about yourself if

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Speaker 3: you just want an award nothing, which is.

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Speaker 1: The core. It all stems from kind of trusting yourself,

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Speaker 1: believing in yourself, empowering yourself and just being a bull

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Speaker 1: for all, Tobias, thank you so much for taking the time.

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Speaker 1: It's been it's a pleasure.

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