WEBVTT - The Great Unfollow

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to We Talk Back podcast, the production of iHeart

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<v Speaker 1>Radio and the Black Effect Network Talk Talk Talk.

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<v Speaker 2>We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who

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<v Speaker 2>talks back.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up y'all? Thank you for tuning in for a

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<v Speaker 1>new episode that We Talk Back, the show dedicated to

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<v Speaker 1>your dreamers and chases niggas and hosts what's up, Tam Bam.

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<v Speaker 1>It's your co host aj Holiday.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, y'all, I love y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what y'all. Niggas need, y'all. Mom, they love you.

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<v Speaker 1>She love Y'allam.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so happy when people who listen on the show

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<v Speaker 2>d m me and be like, hey, Tam Bam, I

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<v Speaker 2>just want to tell you I love you, to thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>But the minute you do is say some ship they

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<v Speaker 1>don't like. Let's see y'all quick. They hate you, y'all

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<v Speaker 1>hating me day one? Fuck it that way, you can't

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<v Speaker 1>see I changed. Always been an abusive relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>How was your weekend? It was cool?

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<v Speaker 1>I do much and nothing. Rode my bike this week weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>I did eat a lot on Saturday, so I felt

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<v Speaker 1>really guilty on Sunday. Just a whole bunch of shit,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I just kept frying stuff like plantons and oyster

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<v Speaker 1>mushrooms and fry shrimp. I just was cooking everything I

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<v Speaker 1>had in the damn refrigerator as far as I'm the

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<v Speaker 1>service and now here it is today, and I'm like, man,

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<v Speaker 1>that shit over with, all that fat shit over with y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah for me too. I started a detox yesterday.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I juiced yesterday.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. It's just such an uphill battle, you know, it

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<v Speaker 2>really is.

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<v Speaker 1>So I thought that the juice I was buying from

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<v Speaker 1>Whole Foods was expensive because it was eleven ninety nine,

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<v Speaker 1>but so I bought all excuse, it's really not, though,

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<v Speaker 1>because I bought so this juice has mango, grapes, apples, ginger,

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<v Speaker 1>and pineapple in it. So I bought all those individual fruits,

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<v Speaker 1>spent twenty five dollars on them, and I saved the

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<v Speaker 1>bottle from Whole Foods for my last juice that I

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<v Speaker 1>bought from them. One side juiced maybe like thirty grapes,

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<v Speaker 1>the whole pineapple, six apples, some ginger, and a mango.

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<v Speaker 1>It equal that bottle plus maybe this little bit I

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<v Speaker 1>got in a jar. So really it costs more for

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<v Speaker 1>me to juice myself. I probably get more juice though,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying, because I'm pretty sure they

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<v Speaker 1>got some purified water some bullshit in theirs. But man,

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<v Speaker 1>it's expensive to eat healthy.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so expensive to eat healthy.

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<v Speaker 1>And time consuming to juice.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I said, I want to start juicing. But I

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<v Speaker 2>love juicing. We'll see. I want like juice watermelons, that's

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<v Speaker 2>what I want.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I love It's hard to find a good watermelon, man,

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<v Speaker 1>And I'll go to the flea market on the weekends.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I had got too sour ass watermelons one weekend

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<v Speaker 1>and I had a flea market, yes, because they had

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<v Speaker 1>the seated one usually looking Mexicans be having an old

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<v Speaker 1>ass fruit. Man. Oh that's should be moldy as fuck

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<v Speaker 1>out there. I was like, okay, now.

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<v Speaker 2>Y'all showing up. Yes, come on, man, what did I

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<v Speaker 2>do this weekend? Oh? Nothing? I only got one foot,

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<v Speaker 2>so I can't do ship.

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<v Speaker 1>Get on your good foot, bitch.

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<v Speaker 2>I started watching the show with Nisi Nash. It's called

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<v Speaker 2>grotesquea y It's it's like a who Done It? A

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<v Speaker 2>thriller with like a sadistic serial killer.

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<v Speaker 1>Is sheer killer?

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<v Speaker 2>No, she's the detective? Okay, Yeah, so I support Nisi

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<v Speaker 2>nash Uh. There's another actress in the show. She was

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<v Speaker 2>on Being Mary Jane. She played the nise on Being

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<v Speaker 2>Mary Jane that kept getting pregnant. I can't. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know her name. I'm sorry. She's too and they have

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<v Speaker 2>her playing like this character who is you know, obese,

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<v Speaker 2>and she has like a food addiction, so it's interesting

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<v Speaker 2>to see. And she has picked up a considerable amount

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<v Speaker 2>of weight. I don't know if they use AI to

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<v Speaker 2>make her look bigger or she got bigger for the show,

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<v Speaker 2>but ooh, that's part of the series. And I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>like which I.

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<v Speaker 1>Can find a job for gaining weight? Sh no, because.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not healthy.

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<v Speaker 1>It is, but like, just say you did gain weight,

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<v Speaker 1>she could still work, like she was able to find

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<v Speaker 1>a job right gaining weight.

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<v Speaker 2>So y'all watch the tescary if you like, like the

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<v Speaker 2>who Done It? Yeah, so it's kind of scary, though

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<v Speaker 2>I ain't gonna hold you.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you watch true crime stuff?

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<v Speaker 2>I watch it here when I'm at my mom's because

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<v Speaker 2>they watch it.

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<v Speaker 1>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>My sister works in that industry, so she's very entertained

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<v Speaker 2>by this shit. But I think it's weird. To be watching.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I just I remember there was a point in

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<v Speaker 1>my life, like in my twenties, like I would be

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<v Speaker 1>watching that shit. First of all, I haven't had cable

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<v Speaker 1>for real since two thousand and five, so that's probably

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<v Speaker 1>when it ended. But it's just weird that true crime

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<v Speaker 1>is like a genre in America, like for entertainment. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>it's weird to me. And it's a lot of women

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<v Speaker 1>that watch that.

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<v Speaker 2>Shit and go to sleep watching it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, all of that is like in your psyche and

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<v Speaker 1>your subconscious mind programming while you sleeping, you wake up

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<v Speaker 1>to a bitch screaming or deep voices talking like that.

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<v Speaker 1>That's weird to me, Like that's.

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<v Speaker 2>A I used to watch First forty eight back when

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<v Speaker 2>it was new. Yeah, I mean, I guess that's a

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<v Speaker 2>true crime show. But no, that doesn't. I never like

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<v Speaker 2>turn that on my mother. Wait, she makes me want

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<v Speaker 2>to throw her TV out the window. I swear every day,

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<v Speaker 2>turn on Steve Harvey that fucking Family Few. She loves

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<v Speaker 2>some fucking Family Few. Girl.

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<v Speaker 1>My mom would be watching them in those Korean movies

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<v Speaker 1>all day long for the last two years. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>did don't you find it? I don't know it's like

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<v Speaker 1>they've taken over her mind. And you know, those series

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<v Speaker 1>be like twenty five thirty episodes. She will watch them,

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<v Speaker 1>and then because it's not in English, right, she don't

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<v Speaker 1>like like they let the English come over, so she'll

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<v Speaker 1>watch it in the original language and the captions. But

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<v Speaker 1>she can't read fast, so she's literally positive all day long.

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<v Speaker 1>So it take her like a week to watch some

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<v Speaker 1>shit like like you positive and rewinding it to see

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<v Speaker 1>what they said.

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<v Speaker 2>Like what, I'm not a big fan of movies where

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<v Speaker 2>there's no English and I have to watch the subtitles,

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<v Speaker 2>and I especially don't like a show where it's a

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<v Speaker 2>different language and then they put the English speaking person

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<v Speaker 2>over it. In the mouth is even different than the words.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll turn it off, Y'll hang it up.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to watch shame. Well, let's get into

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<v Speaker 1>stupid internet news, y'all. We're gonna start with Man, I

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<v Speaker 1>love Whitney Houston so so much. She's my all time

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<v Speaker 1>favorite any talent show that I would because I used

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<v Speaker 1>to sing really well, okay and tell my sister cursed me,

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<v Speaker 1>but I used to always the former fucking Whitney Houston song.

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<v Speaker 1>But Sissy passed away yesterday, her mom at ninety one

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<v Speaker 1>years old.

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<v Speaker 2>She was a long life.

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<v Speaker 1>Man. I don't feel sad. People be like, man, we

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<v Speaker 1>lost another one. Like, I don't feel like it's a loss.

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<v Speaker 1>When someone lives a full life like that. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm probably gonna get the fuck up out of here,

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<v Speaker 1>like ninety five, between ninety five and one hundred and five,

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm gonna live a long, full life too. So

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<v Speaker 1>I'm always excited when people live like good, long lives,

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<v Speaker 1>like that's a that's not a loss for real.

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<v Speaker 2>I just I love the fact that the three of

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<v Speaker 2>them are back together, Cissy Whitney and the baby. What's

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<v Speaker 2>the baby's name? Bobby, Baby Bobby?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you know her husband up there with him with

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<v Speaker 1>them too now thrown no Bobby, the little girls. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>yeah yeah, maybe he passed away as well.

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<v Speaker 2>But you know what, it's more people gone than it

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<v Speaker 2>is here. Just remember that, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, niggas dying every day. Be listen what weirded me

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<v Speaker 1>out last night?

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<v Speaker 2>Y'all?

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<v Speaker 1>I have what's these niggas podcasts? Hold on, let me

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<v Speaker 1>tell you all right quick, because I'm like, yo, people

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<v Speaker 1>are we depressed? That's all I could think? You are

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<v Speaker 1>these guys podcasts? It says Shadow Bunny Scorpio. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if that's their podcast. Who the fuck? Oh maybe

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<v Speaker 1>some random person posted this. I don't know the guy's podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>I've seen them before in line, but they was having

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<v Speaker 1>a conversation. The guy was like, what's the what's one

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<v Speaker 1>thing you're going to be happy that's over when the

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<v Speaker 1>world starts to like end, and one of the whole

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<v Speaker 1>says living like they're gonna be glad to get the

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<v Speaker 1>fuck up out of here, and people in the comments

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<v Speaker 1>like agreeing it was weird to me, and I commented,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, am I the only warrior?

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<v Speaker 2>Like?

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<v Speaker 1>Am I the only one that's gonna fight to the

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<v Speaker 1>end because the bitch like me gonna always live to

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<v Speaker 1>tell the story.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm like going here easy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Like it's like it's almost like you might as

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<v Speaker 1>well die today, you know what I'm saying, because I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going out guns ablazing whatever's going on?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, me too. I don't know what that ideology is,

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<v Speaker 2>but maybe people are depressed and they're not happy here,

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<v Speaker 2>you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And that's that, And that's what I kind of

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<v Speaker 1>want people to recognize, Like never mind waiting until the

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<v Speaker 1>world ends. Are you happy being alive right now? Because

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<v Speaker 1>based on these comments, our generation is highly depressed.

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<v Speaker 2>M h.

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<v Speaker 1>The first person that responded back to me was like, yes, baby,

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<v Speaker 1>telling we was here, type of telling we was here

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<v Speaker 1>for me, Like y'all ready to go? And I said,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, y'all the motherfuckers that would hide a

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<v Speaker 1>zombie bite. Yeah, y'all are motherfuckers that'll be amongst a

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<v Speaker 1>group of us trying to survive, and you do did

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<v Speaker 1>some dumb shit, got bit and you just stole walking

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<v Speaker 1>and hanging out with us like you regular waiting to

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<v Speaker 1>turn go jump off a bridge. Okay. Somebody was like, yeah, girl,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna fight it. We're gonna build a memorial for

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<v Speaker 1>the following ones. I said, I'm not building naw memorial

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<v Speaker 1>for no nigga that gave up Burnham for real, Like

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<v Speaker 1>why would you give you on life?

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<v Speaker 2>Listen, you gotta have compassion for people. Everybody ain't as

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<v Speaker 2>strong as you. Everybody is not you. Everybody can't handle

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<v Speaker 2>adversity the same way you do.

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<v Speaker 1>But imagine a whole comment section like that, So that

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<v Speaker 1>means won me and like a few old sprinkling so

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<v Speaker 1>all y'all depressed and ready to go today. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>know you said worlds and you was just gonna start

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<v Speaker 1>sniffing coke.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm gonna do some whoa, you know, but I

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<v Speaker 2>ain't going out without a fight. But my fight gonna

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<v Speaker 2>be highest school.

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<v Speaker 1>How to you wait to apocalyst to get an opioid addiction?

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<v Speaker 2>Right, I'm high as hell and I'm gonna fuck without

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<v Speaker 2>a condo.

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<v Speaker 1>And I guess ibody living like the end of the

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<v Speaker 1>world because babe, I don't call no mother baby bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>I still don't want to be burning apocalyst like you're

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna be able to get no medication.

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<v Speaker 2>Running from the zombies. M I pussy on.

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<v Speaker 1>Fire and nobody can't wash like that, Like you really

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get burned by some dirty dick.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I always.

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<v Speaker 1>Think about that watching the watching that bad meet Ricky Bobby,

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<v Speaker 1>that pussy gonna be stayed got burned, Yet neither will I.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, BV to the max, anybody be very possible.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody got b V during the zombie Apocalypse. I'm pretty

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<v Speaker 1>sure everybody on the Walking Dad had BV dog.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, because there was a washing.

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<v Speaker 1>Niggas had the same clothes like every fucking day, bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just man Like's not.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I'm gonna.

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<v Speaker 1>Literally have wigs in my book bag during this apocalypse.

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<v Speaker 1>Like what the I'm not about to be walking around

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<v Speaker 1>here looking like bashon, okay, but.

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<v Speaker 2>The fact that you worried about wigs during the zombie

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<v Speaker 2>apocalyp this next.

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<v Speaker 1>Level, bitch.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm when the zombies come, I'm gonna have two corn

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<v Speaker 2>roads going straight back and like my head right.

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<v Speaker 1>Now underneath this week. Yeah, next girl, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know you will run out. You know what?

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<v Speaker 1>Did he mama?

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<v Speaker 2>Jide? Oh? Did hey? Mom speaks out. So Diddy's mom

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<v Speaker 2>has finally weighed in on her son's legal troubles, stating

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<v Speaker 2>while he might not have been completely honest about the

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<v Speaker 2>whole castie situation, that doesn't automatically make him guilty of

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<v Speaker 2>all the allegations in his adictment. Jenis kOhm spoke out

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<v Speaker 2>about the situation to local ten news on Sunday through

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<v Speaker 2>her attorney, expressing her devastation over the allegations against her son,

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<v Speaker 2>saying he was judged by the truth. He was judged

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<v Speaker 2>not by the truth, but by a narrative created out

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<v Speaker 2>of lies. She also said to bear witness to what

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<v Speaker 2>seems like a public lynching of my son before he

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<v Speaker 2>had the opportunity to prove his innocence. Is a pain

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<v Speaker 2>too unbearable to put into words. Okay, Mortician, listen what

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<v Speaker 2>you call her mortician girl?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I remember seeing a statement of what her saying, like,

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<v Speaker 1>her son is not the monster they're making her out

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<v Speaker 1>to be, making him out to be. She is mortitious.

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<v Speaker 1>She had that monster Adam's family. Absolutely, Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>you could not tell Mortitia her baby wasn't beautiful.

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<v Speaker 2>But listen, here's the thing, what mother it could be

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<v Speaker 2>little a nigga in jail named Little Pistol Starter is

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<v Speaker 2>his nickname, and he don't kill a bunch of people.

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<v Speaker 2>And the mom is still gonna be like, that's my baby.

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<v Speaker 2>I love him. He's not the monster that because a

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<v Speaker 2>mother's love is just you know, is it a different thing.

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<v Speaker 2>So I don't knock her for supporting her baby. That's

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<v Speaker 2>what mothers do. That's just what mothers do.

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<v Speaker 1>Have y'all seen that movie The Good Son, You remember

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<v Speaker 1>that movie. It was like the these people's biological son, right.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she dropped her son over the clifs exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>So that would be me right, knowing I have this

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<v Speaker 1>demon seed, right and he's about to kill all of

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<v Speaker 1>us at this point, even the son we adopted, he's

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<v Speaker 1>the mad seed. At some point you have to recognize that,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, Yeah, yeah, that you kind of you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying, Yeah, I agree, But that mother's love

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<v Speaker 1>thing is just so it's the closest thing to God's love, right,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's very unconditional at times, and it's hard to like,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I don't know it yet.

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<v Speaker 2>I would hope that God would bless me to know

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<v Speaker 2>that type of love for my child, but I think

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<v Speaker 2>it's a bond that's just hard to break mentally. It's

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<v Speaker 2>just hard to especially when.

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<v Speaker 1>You made your child the way they are. You know.

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<v Speaker 1>That's something also because you know a lot of people

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<v Speaker 1>speculate about him and his mom's relationship, not saying like

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<v Speaker 1>they have like some crazy like Oedipis type shit going on.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know a lot of moms enable their children

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<v Speaker 1>to be the people that they are.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, anytime I see like a very fucked up line lineage,

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<v Speaker 2>I always look at the matriarch.

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<v Speaker 1>Exactly like we literally wear the fruit, they we bury

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<v Speaker 1>that fruit. So I mean listen.

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<v Speaker 2>Ooh ooh, which makes me y'all. You know, I love

0:15:59.160 --> 0:16:00.760
<v Speaker 2>reading me a good book. That's what I did. I

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<v Speaker 2>read this book in like three days. It's called The

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<v Speaker 2>The Housemaid. If y'all are reader, and y'all like a

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<v Speaker 2>who done it? Read The Housemaid? It is so good

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<v Speaker 2>and it's definitely like you know about the mom. You

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<v Speaker 2>know who's the mom and what they do for the family.

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<v Speaker 2>So read that, y'allah.

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<v Speaker 1>Like like I said, our mothers are definitely our gods

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<v Speaker 1>in a way, you know what I'm saying. They literally

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<v Speaker 1>give us life. So when you looking at like how

0:16:28.320 --> 0:16:30.280
<v Speaker 1>a person is, you have to look at how they

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<v Speaker 1>were raised. You have to, like you can't. But the

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<v Speaker 1>thing I don't agree with with this ditty case is

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<v Speaker 1>how this attorney has now essentially put like a class

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<v Speaker 1>action lawsuit out there so anybody like a hotline he

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<v Speaker 1>has and over twelve thousand people have now called into

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<v Speaker 1>this hotlines and that they were violated by Diddy. How

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<v Speaker 1>my nigga, Like now it's almost going to get to

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<v Speaker 1>the point. And this is to me, I wouldn't be

0:16:54.680 --> 0:16:58.960
<v Speaker 1>surprised if this, if this, if this attorney right, who's

0:16:58.960 --> 0:17:02.520
<v Speaker 1>representing all these people isn't actually working for Diddy because

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<v Speaker 1>the weird part is like, once you get twelve thousand

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<v Speaker 1>people together, you know they're all lying in the majority

0:17:06.640 --> 0:17:09.000
<v Speaker 1>of them is a lot, right. That kind of discredits

0:17:09.000 --> 0:17:12.959
<v Speaker 1>the people who actually have legitimate lawsuits against Ditty, so

0:17:13.000 --> 0:17:15.919
<v Speaker 1>he can kind of use this in his favor, like

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<v Speaker 1>the wire exactly, these people are inspiring against me because

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<v Speaker 1>if I was his attorney, bitch, that would be the

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<v Speaker 1>route I would be going. This is all of which Hunt,

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<v Speaker 1>This is all some bullshit, So I don't know. It's

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<v Speaker 1>just weird, Like y'all create a hotline. Did y'all do

0:17:31.600 --> 0:17:34.040
<v Speaker 1>that for Harry Wysee? No, I'm signing like niggas now,

0:17:34.080 --> 0:17:35.600
<v Speaker 1>you know niggas be like, oh, they always bring the

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<v Speaker 1>black man down. But for real, man, this is a

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<v Speaker 1>bit much. That's a bit much. So I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a lot twelve thousand people. He ain't had that

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<v Speaker 2>many parties, right, Like, God, you haven't baby off of

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<v Speaker 2>all of them people.

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<v Speaker 1>Fly one of my I don't know that. I do

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<v Speaker 1>want to fuck on a bloud mattress with a bunch

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<v Speaker 1>of oil. It's just one of my things I want

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<v Speaker 1>to do at some point, like.

0:18:02.640 --> 0:18:05.040
<v Speaker 2>What is that? What that's for? I still want to know, Like,

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<v Speaker 2>can somebody please tell me what they gotta.

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<v Speaker 1>Be for a slipping slide party? Gotta be for slipping

0:18:12.119 --> 0:18:15.119
<v Speaker 1>slide party? Like why else? First of all, that's like

0:18:15.200 --> 0:18:18.159
<v Speaker 1>coconut oil would be the better option for lubrication. So

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what you're doing with all this fucking

0:18:19.720 --> 0:18:24.000
<v Speaker 1>baby oil, all that petroleum. That's a lot sounds like

0:18:24.080 --> 0:18:27.560
<v Speaker 1>BV to me. You need to use some coconut oil.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's just weird how they put that particular point

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<v Speaker 1>in the media. It's like, this is the world state.

0:18:34.400 --> 0:18:36.760
<v Speaker 2>I could you not put that point in the media though,

0:18:36.840 --> 0:18:37.440
<v Speaker 2>But that's.

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<v Speaker 1>Why it's so unseerious, you know. That makes it so

0:18:41.359 --> 0:18:42.520
<v Speaker 1>unseerious to me.

0:18:43.359 --> 0:18:46.080
<v Speaker 2>But there's no children involved, So what is really like?

0:18:47.200 --> 0:18:50.120
<v Speaker 1>I mean, they're saying there's children. There's now people saying

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<v Speaker 1>that they were molested by him at nine and shit

0:18:52.640 --> 0:18:56.000
<v Speaker 1>like that. There's adults now saying that, yeah, did he

0:18:56.080 --> 0:18:57.919
<v Speaker 1>did this to me when I was a child. I

0:18:57.960 --> 0:19:00.359
<v Speaker 1>came in for a record deal and he made me

0:19:00.880 --> 0:19:04.240
<v Speaker 1>top of them off, Like for real, that's happening, yes,

0:19:05.000 --> 0:19:07.280
<v Speaker 1>So I just it's just it's just too weird. It's

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<v Speaker 1>getting real weird. So I don't know, good luck to Diddy. Man,

0:19:12.640 --> 0:19:15.720
<v Speaker 1>I still can't like condemn people. That's not for me

0:19:15.800 --> 0:19:18.440
<v Speaker 1>to do. Karma always come back a line to get

0:19:18.440 --> 0:19:18.840
<v Speaker 1>that ass.

0:19:18.960 --> 0:19:22.240
<v Speaker 2>It's a publicly like I'm people. I just can't, you know,

0:19:22.440 --> 0:19:24.879
<v Speaker 2>with the Cassie thing. I because you know, I have

0:19:25.000 --> 0:19:27.200
<v Speaker 2>loved Diddy forever. You know, I used to say I

0:19:27.280 --> 0:19:28.880
<v Speaker 2>want to be on his boat. You know, I want

0:19:28.920 --> 0:19:31.560
<v Speaker 2>to go on the boat. But God protect babies and fools,

0:19:32.000 --> 0:19:35.639
<v Speaker 2>so I ain't never make it on there. But I

0:19:35.640 --> 0:19:38.359
<v Speaker 2>mean what we saw him do to Cassie definitely hurt

0:19:38.359 --> 0:19:40.600
<v Speaker 2>my feelings to see that happens. So I'm not like

0:19:41.200 --> 0:19:44.119
<v Speaker 2>really like good luck to Diddy because he did some

0:19:44.359 --> 0:19:49.359
<v Speaker 2>very agregious shit. Absolutely yeah, but I will say, like.

0:19:49.320 --> 0:19:50.920
<v Speaker 1>We know, the luck ain't gonna be good. So it's

0:19:50.960 --> 0:19:52.720
<v Speaker 1>not like I'm like, oh I hope he gets off.

0:19:52.840 --> 0:19:57.040
<v Speaker 1>Hell no, like Nigga good luck. That's really like sarcasm.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, the fu.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm still not gonna be the person that says, oh,

0:20:03.440 --> 0:20:06.560
<v Speaker 1>he deserves this, because like those are the people that

0:20:06.560 --> 0:20:09.359
<v Speaker 1>would probably go to a public hanging or a public

0:20:09.440 --> 0:20:12.480
<v Speaker 1>stoning online, just like his mom said, like he's being

0:20:12.520 --> 0:20:14.879
<v Speaker 1>publicly like, I don't want to. I'm never gonna be

0:20:14.920 --> 0:20:17.320
<v Speaker 1>one in the audience throwing a stone.

0:20:17.560 --> 0:20:20.480
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you know, because even though I lest some shit

0:20:20.720 --> 0:20:23.520
<v Speaker 2>happened to me or someone I love and I know personally,

0:20:24.760 --> 0:20:26.600
<v Speaker 2>that would be the only way I have a stone

0:20:26.600 --> 0:20:28.440
<v Speaker 2>to cast. Well.

0:20:28.440 --> 0:20:30.480
<v Speaker 1>See, I'm different in that way too, because when it

0:20:30.520 --> 0:20:33.280
<v Speaker 1>happens to one, I feel like it's happening to all right,

0:20:33.320 --> 0:20:35.720
<v Speaker 1>So I I never feel like I'm exempt from any

0:20:35.760 --> 0:20:43.600
<v Speaker 1>bullshit happening, right, But I'm still not here to just

0:20:44.240 --> 0:20:46.720
<v Speaker 1>publicly condemn people because.

0:20:46.440 --> 0:20:49.600
<v Speaker 2>Everybody got some balls. If this ship out of me

0:20:49.960 --> 0:20:59.480
<v Speaker 2>and you knew, you wouldn't publicly condemn him, No, absolutely, Yeah.

0:20:56.960 --> 0:21:01.480
<v Speaker 1>Ah yeah, I probably wouldn't because I want to be

0:21:01.560 --> 0:21:04.639
<v Speaker 1>able to make you disappear in two years. Like so,

0:21:04.720 --> 0:21:07.280
<v Speaker 1>I don't want nobody to ever tie me to your disappearance,

0:21:07.359 --> 0:21:12.080
<v Speaker 1>not you, but the person who did it to you.

0:21:10.880 --> 0:21:14.560
<v Speaker 1>So I probably wouldn't be as public about it if

0:21:14.600 --> 0:21:17.399
<v Speaker 1>I plan actually doing something today. Fucking ass, you know

0:21:17.440 --> 0:21:20.240
<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying. It's a little different. I don't know next.

0:21:23.720 --> 0:21:27.560
<v Speaker 1>Tim Moury, Okay, Tim Murray has her new reality TV show,

0:21:27.600 --> 0:21:29.880
<v Speaker 1>and she said she lost the virginity to her husband

0:21:29.920 --> 0:21:33.359
<v Speaker 1>at twenty five. The actress family grew up in a

0:21:33.440 --> 0:21:36.480
<v Speaker 1>religious household and was not allowed to date until the

0:21:36.560 --> 0:21:39.480
<v Speaker 1>age of eighteen. And the same clip, Tia talks about

0:21:39.520 --> 0:21:42.800
<v Speaker 1>being her true authentic self for the first time as

0:21:42.840 --> 0:21:46.600
<v Speaker 1>her white picket fence persona was not all it seemed

0:21:46.600 --> 0:21:49.399
<v Speaker 1>to be. She said, at times she went home and

0:21:49.440 --> 0:21:51.119
<v Speaker 1>fell alone despite being married.

0:21:51.160 --> 0:21:56.080
<v Speaker 2>Oh m, she's a good woman, Savannah five, that's it.

0:21:57.359 --> 0:21:59.119
<v Speaker 1>And that's the only man she's ever known. So he

0:21:59.240 --> 0:22:01.560
<v Speaker 1>was her first ever thing. Is what he what she said?

0:22:02.560 --> 0:22:05.040
<v Speaker 1>I can see her now wanting to live with Baybe.

0:22:05.680 --> 0:22:10.680
<v Speaker 1>It ain't nothing outside, girl, Go explore a little bit,

0:22:10.840 --> 0:22:13.240
<v Speaker 1>might get a few extra dicks up your sleep. But

0:22:13.359 --> 0:22:16.720
<v Speaker 1>see if your husband have you back, because.

0:22:16.640 --> 0:22:19.560
<v Speaker 2>Right or they'll have each other back, you know.

0:22:19.680 --> 0:22:22.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Like see if y'all can work ship out, because

0:22:22.400 --> 0:22:25.160
<v Speaker 1>maybe he'll be understanding that you you never actually lived,

0:22:25.160 --> 0:22:28.200
<v Speaker 1>because niggas be living, Okay. I don't see him ever

0:22:28.520 --> 0:22:32.040
<v Speaker 1>holding off on some gucci before or after the marriage.

0:22:32.800 --> 0:22:35.639
<v Speaker 2>I wish I had my virginity to my husband. That

0:22:35.640 --> 0:22:36.440
<v Speaker 2>would have been nice.

0:22:37.560 --> 0:22:39.239
<v Speaker 1>You know, a lot of women ain't gonna admit to that,

0:22:39.400 --> 0:22:41.320
<v Speaker 1>like we'd be saying whole his life and all that ship.

0:22:41.359 --> 0:22:43.080
<v Speaker 1>But girl, by, you know you can wish you can

0:22:43.200 --> 0:22:45.199
<v Speaker 1>all control, all delite some of them bodies off that

0:22:45.200 --> 0:22:48.040
<v Speaker 1>pussy because I know I all love them. I know

0:22:48.080 --> 0:22:52.240
<v Speaker 1>what I do ripping out the plastic on my motherfucker

0:22:52.280 --> 0:22:56.880
<v Speaker 1>wedther day. Okay, yeah, get rejuvenation. I mean that's kind

0:22:56.920 --> 0:23:00.960
<v Speaker 1>of kind of new, Yeah for my wedding day. Kind

0:23:00.960 --> 0:23:03.880
<v Speaker 1>of kind of knew a little bit. I don't know. Yeah,

0:23:03.880 --> 0:23:07.520
<v Speaker 1>I wish I could literally, I mean, I do delete people.

0:23:08.240 --> 0:23:11.480
<v Speaker 1>You know, if I ain't coming, don't count, So it

0:23:11.600 --> 0:23:14.359
<v Speaker 1>do count. That should do not count, bitch, especially if

0:23:14.359 --> 0:23:18.240
<v Speaker 1>they ran to die too. What happened.

0:23:20.440 --> 0:23:26.040
<v Speaker 2>Never happened. That's mean as fun.

0:23:27.240 --> 0:23:28.240
<v Speaker 1>But y'all knew that.

0:23:30.000 --> 0:23:33.640
<v Speaker 2>But knew that, But y'all knew I was mean.

0:23:35.200 --> 0:23:41.000
<v Speaker 1>See that's what I'm saying. Never change change, So y'all,

0:23:41.000 --> 0:23:44.360
<v Speaker 1>this one last story is let me know what y'all doing.

0:23:44.480 --> 0:23:48.199
<v Speaker 1>So woman says her truck driver husband was missing for

0:23:48.240 --> 0:23:51.920
<v Speaker 1>two days. She filed a police support and he suddenly

0:23:51.960 --> 0:23:57.199
<v Speaker 1>appears and apologizes on Facebook. Baby, I'm sorry, that's what

0:23:58.600 --> 0:23:59.400
<v Speaker 1>he had to say.

0:23:59.440 --> 0:24:00.320
<v Speaker 2>It was a long like.

0:24:00.280 --> 0:24:02.080
<v Speaker 1>Little let me pull it up right quick, hold on.

0:24:03.359 --> 0:24:06.800
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because he made a statement because people were like, uh,

0:24:06.920 --> 0:24:10.880
<v Speaker 2>coming for her, and he made a statement in support

0:24:10.920 --> 0:24:13.040
<v Speaker 2>of her. But bitch, where the fuck were you at?

0:24:13.080 --> 0:24:13.960
<v Speaker 2>Where could worry you?

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<v Speaker 1>So it says a man went missing for forty eight

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<v Speaker 1>hours and his wife out a police report and told

0:24:20.240 --> 0:24:22.720
<v Speaker 1>Facebook all about it. On Sunday, a woman by the

0:24:22.800 --> 0:24:26.600
<v Speaker 1>name of Brittany Brittany from a now deleted Facebook page

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<v Speaker 1>share that her husband, Joseph Avery, was a truck driver

0:24:30.119 --> 0:24:32.760
<v Speaker 1>and had been missing for forty eight hours. She continued

0:24:32.800 --> 0:24:35.520
<v Speaker 1>to share that his employer was contacted to locate his

0:24:35.560 --> 0:24:40.600
<v Speaker 1>truck and they weren't helpful. On Wednesday, excuse me. Eventually,

0:24:40.600 --> 0:24:43.119
<v Speaker 1>she updated the Facebook post and shared there was a

0:24:43.119 --> 0:24:46.320
<v Speaker 1>police report filed. A few hours later, she stated her

0:24:46.400 --> 0:24:49.160
<v Speaker 1>husband of four years had been found and she didn't

0:24:49.200 --> 0:24:52.960
<v Speaker 1>know his condition. On Wednesday, Avery made a public post

0:24:53.000 --> 0:24:56.000
<v Speaker 1>on social media site on a social media site apologizing,

0:24:56.280 --> 0:24:59.120
<v Speaker 1>but he didn't share where he was when no one

0:24:59.119 --> 0:25:03.480
<v Speaker 1>could find him. However, he confirmed he was in contact

0:25:03.600 --> 0:25:06.240
<v Speaker 1>with his wife for two days and that was not

0:25:06.560 --> 0:25:08.000
<v Speaker 1>He was not in contact with his wife for two

0:25:08.040 --> 0:25:10.840
<v Speaker 1>days and that was not like him. Listen when I

0:25:10.880 --> 0:25:16.240
<v Speaker 1>said this to Tabby Tims, like he gay he was

0:25:16.400 --> 0:25:23.600
<v Speaker 1>a nigga for two days. Flick. Hey, let's say knowing

0:25:23.640 --> 0:25:28.520
<v Speaker 1>that this guy was just found truck driver was just

0:25:28.560 --> 0:25:32.400
<v Speaker 1>found in North Carolina, essentially lynched, right, I can understand

0:25:32.400 --> 0:25:37.040
<v Speaker 1>her concern. Your heartsman just disappears for two whole fucking days.

0:25:37.119 --> 0:25:38.240
<v Speaker 2>Forty eight hours.

0:25:38.280 --> 0:25:40.639
<v Speaker 1>And we know these niggas who drive trucks, they be

0:25:40.880 --> 0:25:43.760
<v Speaker 1>like whores. Okay, let's just be honest. They could skip,

0:25:43.800 --> 0:25:46.240
<v Speaker 1>they bout pussy in all different states.

0:25:45.880 --> 0:25:47.639
<v Speaker 2>And if they got one of the beds in the

0:25:47.680 --> 0:25:50.080
<v Speaker 2>bad women be actually getting up in that truck and

0:25:50.119 --> 0:25:51.119
<v Speaker 2>fucking in that truck.

0:25:51.560 --> 0:25:53.800
<v Speaker 1>Girl, you sucking dick in the back of a truck.

0:25:55.119 --> 0:25:58.399
<v Speaker 1>You're a wild If that's not your husband, that's not

0:25:58.440 --> 0:25:58.880
<v Speaker 1>your man.

0:25:59.000 --> 0:26:02.199
<v Speaker 2>What are you doing right? Why are you hopping your

0:26:02.200 --> 0:26:02.960
<v Speaker 2>answer in the can?

0:26:03.000 --> 0:26:07.400
<v Speaker 1>Because I'll definitely meet my nigga at a truck stop, okay,

0:26:07.760 --> 0:26:10.919
<v Speaker 1>but what what are you doing? So yeah, they got

0:26:10.960 --> 0:26:12.600
<v Speaker 1>the pictures of them. He kind of looked like, Uh,

0:26:12.600 --> 0:26:17.119
<v Speaker 1>what's the rapper from California? The one the game, the

0:26:17.200 --> 0:26:22.760
<v Speaker 1>one Sweetie Dayton genisis no sweety not dating him. What's

0:26:22.760 --> 0:26:25.560
<v Speaker 1>the nigga YG? He looked like YG a little bit

0:26:25.600 --> 0:26:31.320
<v Speaker 1>to meet this guy. But yeah, so she she updated.

0:26:31.000 --> 0:26:34.080
<v Speaker 2>You know, yeah, he mean like YG, stay for you

0:26:34.359 --> 0:26:37.360
<v Speaker 2>gates because that's what he was doing. I believe.

0:26:41.720 --> 0:26:43.919
<v Speaker 1>She was like, yeah, he does suffer from health issues.

0:26:43.960 --> 0:26:45.640
<v Speaker 1>They call the company he works for it. They said

0:26:45.680 --> 0:26:48.840
<v Speaker 1>he was last in Maryland, but the tractor hasn't moved

0:26:48.960 --> 0:26:51.320
<v Speaker 1>or moved for seventeen hours, so he basically parked that

0:26:51.359 --> 0:26:54.960
<v Speaker 1>shit and somebody came and scoop his ass up. They said,

0:26:55.040 --> 0:26:57.320
<v Speaker 1>if he doesn't make the delivery by tomorrow, they will

0:26:57.359 --> 0:26:59.760
<v Speaker 1>call the police. Is that normal for a company to

0:26:59.760 --> 0:27:02.400
<v Speaker 1>do that? Yeah, because they have like a certain timeframe.

0:27:02.480 --> 0:27:05.440
<v Speaker 1>So as long as he makes he meets the delivery

0:27:05.480 --> 0:27:09.399
<v Speaker 1>time right, it's not an issue. So I guess he

0:27:09.480 --> 0:27:18.440
<v Speaker 1>spent his down hours somewhere somewhere, But it says edis is.

0:27:18.480 --> 0:27:20.479
<v Speaker 1>I call the company several times and they told me

0:27:20.560 --> 0:27:23.119
<v Speaker 1>to call tomorrow and hung up on me. So they're like, bitch,

0:27:23.160 --> 0:27:25.119
<v Speaker 1>we're not about to get into no domestic shit with you.

0:27:25.920 --> 0:27:27.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's none of our business. He did his job

0:27:27.960 --> 0:27:31.359
<v Speaker 2>and we're not concerned until he doesn't do his job.

0:27:31.400 --> 0:27:33.800
<v Speaker 2>If that truck don't come back when it's supposed to,

0:27:33.800 --> 0:27:35.720
<v Speaker 2>it's a problem for us. But other than that, that's

0:27:35.760 --> 0:27:38.440
<v Speaker 2>between y'all exactly. So here's his apology.

0:27:39.000 --> 0:27:42.520
<v Speaker 1>I like to issue a public apology to my wife,

0:27:42.640 --> 0:27:46.159
<v Speaker 1>all caps, Brittany, Brittany, I'm sorry, baby, for the humiliation

0:27:46.240 --> 0:27:49.240
<v Speaker 1>and embarrassment that I caused you. I've seen all the

0:27:49.640 --> 0:27:52.840
<v Speaker 1>bashing and allegations from all the internet trolls about us

0:27:52.920 --> 0:27:56.440
<v Speaker 1>not being really married or her being a crazy X stocker,

0:27:56.440 --> 0:27:58.840
<v Speaker 1>and none of that is true. She's my wife and

0:27:58.880 --> 0:28:02.119
<v Speaker 1>has been for four years. She was genuinely concerned and

0:28:02.160 --> 0:28:04.359
<v Speaker 1>hadn't heard from me in over forty eight hours, which

0:28:04.400 --> 0:28:08.600
<v Speaker 1>is unlike me. I usually always check in. She done

0:28:08.640 --> 0:28:11.359
<v Speaker 1>what any wife would do. She made a post to

0:28:11.359 --> 0:28:14.280
<v Speaker 1>bring awareness, especially since I suffered from health issues, so

0:28:14.359 --> 0:28:17.480
<v Speaker 1>technically I was missing. Since I hadn't spoken to my

0:28:17.520 --> 0:28:19.879
<v Speaker 1>wife or family for a few days, she thought something

0:28:19.880 --> 0:28:22.800
<v Speaker 1>had happened to me or I was having a medical emergency.

0:28:23.040 --> 0:28:25.480
<v Speaker 1>I was missing, so please stop saying she fought a

0:28:25.520 --> 0:28:28.679
<v Speaker 1>false report. Again, baby, I'm sorry for causing all this

0:28:28.760 --> 0:28:31.399
<v Speaker 1>stuff coming for my wife and family come at me,

0:28:31.800 --> 0:28:34.719
<v Speaker 1>but they shortly thereafter that both of them deleted their

0:28:34.720 --> 0:28:35.560
<v Speaker 1>Facebook posts.

0:28:37.320 --> 0:28:39.440
<v Speaker 2>It's too late, baby, you made it and we talk back.

0:28:39.560 --> 0:28:44.800
<v Speaker 1>Man were happening, Brittany, Joseph was fucking cheating, Okay. If

0:28:44.840 --> 0:28:47.240
<v Speaker 1>the nigga was not in jail or at the hospital,

0:28:47.680 --> 0:28:51.680
<v Speaker 1>he was cheating. Where is the risk band from the hospital? Like,

0:28:51.720 --> 0:28:54.720
<v Speaker 1>where was he right? Where your nigga been at? We

0:28:54.760 --> 0:28:58.440
<v Speaker 1>are concerned now because you made a public We need

0:28:58.480 --> 0:28:59.640
<v Speaker 1>to know where that nigga been at.

0:29:00.720 --> 0:29:04.520
<v Speaker 2>Where were you at, Joe, Joe? That's what?

0:29:05.520 --> 0:29:07.240
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I want to know where the fuck he was at? Like,

0:29:07.360 --> 0:29:10.000
<v Speaker 1>my nigga cannot disappear for two days. For two days,

0:29:10.360 --> 0:29:13.040
<v Speaker 1>imagine like when you get home, I won't be there.

0:29:14.400 --> 0:29:15.280
<v Speaker 1>I will not be.

0:29:15.360 --> 0:29:19.480
<v Speaker 2>There two whole days is crazy? Without a word? Seven

0:29:19.600 --> 0:29:22.200
<v Speaker 2>who then you come back and say just I'm sorry

0:29:22.360 --> 0:29:26.280
<v Speaker 2>and where were you? Seven home?

0:29:26.520 --> 0:29:30.800
<v Speaker 1>Nice? She was just about through it two days and

0:29:31.000 --> 0:29:37.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm just about through girl. Hold on, before we get off,

0:29:37.840 --> 0:29:39.160
<v Speaker 1>did I tell you about the old man I have

0:29:39.280 --> 0:29:42.200
<v Speaker 1>bought up? Like speaking of Facebook marketplace, I had bought

0:29:42.240 --> 0:29:44.840
<v Speaker 1>air pump, like a portable air pump from this old way.

0:29:44.880 --> 0:29:46.959
<v Speaker 2>You talking about speaking us? If we did not have

0:29:47.000 --> 0:29:50.280
<v Speaker 2>that conversation we had it, yeah off here, right?

0:29:50.880 --> 0:29:54.080
<v Speaker 1>But girl, why is seventy seventy something year old white

0:29:54.080 --> 0:29:56.480
<v Speaker 1>man texting my damn phone now? But anyway, because I

0:29:56.520 --> 0:29:58.320
<v Speaker 1>did give him my number because he does like the

0:29:58.360 --> 0:30:00.560
<v Speaker 1>whole selling you know, you buy, like the some shit

0:30:01.040 --> 0:30:03.080
<v Speaker 1>some might that might be something I want to get into,

0:30:03.240 --> 0:30:07.400
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying, especially like cosmetic stuff. But

0:30:08.360 --> 0:30:10.560
<v Speaker 1>when I went to pick the airpump up from him,

0:30:10.560 --> 0:30:13.480
<v Speaker 1>we met at Zaxby's. We sat there and talked for

0:30:13.560 --> 0:30:15.800
<v Speaker 1>like twenty minutes, and within this twenty minutes I knew

0:30:15.920 --> 0:30:18.680
<v Speaker 1>all of his shit, all his business. But he had

0:30:18.720 --> 0:30:21.920
<v Speaker 1>told me that, you know, his wife divorced him. He

0:30:22.040 --> 0:30:24.720
<v Speaker 1>got divorced like in his forties. He said he used

0:30:24.720 --> 0:30:29.800
<v Speaker 1>to own a firestone and some young girl came in

0:30:29.840 --> 0:30:31.560
<v Speaker 1>there one day. It was basically trying to trade her

0:30:31.640 --> 0:30:36.120
<v Speaker 1>ringing to get new tires and brakes, and I guess

0:30:36.120 --> 0:30:39.400
<v Speaker 1>he started fucking with her. But he said that he

0:30:39.480 --> 0:30:42.680
<v Speaker 1>always used to come home between six thirty and six

0:30:42.840 --> 0:30:47.920
<v Speaker 1>forty five every day. Right. He said he was late

0:30:48.000 --> 0:30:51.440
<v Speaker 1>coming home two times, and by the second time his

0:30:51.480 --> 0:30:53.840
<v Speaker 1>wife had got a private investigator on her on him.

0:30:54.400 --> 0:30:56.160
<v Speaker 2>You mentioned this on the show before I did.

0:30:56.840 --> 0:31:02.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeap oh deleted you did like bitch two days too.

0:31:02.680 --> 0:31:05.480
<v Speaker 1>Motherfucking you came home. You was late, though, I'm still

0:31:05.760 --> 0:31:06.560
<v Speaker 1>on your ass.

0:31:06.840 --> 0:31:07.960
<v Speaker 2>Fifteen minutes late.

0:31:08.160 --> 0:31:10.480
<v Speaker 1>Fifteen minutes late anyway.

0:31:10.520 --> 0:31:13.200
<v Speaker 2>All right, So when we get back from our break,

0:31:13.760 --> 0:31:19.520
<v Speaker 2>we're going to talk about unfollowing and following, blocking and

0:31:19.640 --> 0:31:23.520
<v Speaker 2>unblocking in your phone and social media? Is it healthy?

0:31:24.560 --> 0:31:25.160
<v Speaker 2>What do you think?

0:31:25.600 --> 0:31:28.400
<v Speaker 1>And I do it and it is a form of

0:31:28.520 --> 0:31:30.320
<v Speaker 1>manipulation as far as I'm concerned.

0:31:31.720 --> 0:31:36.760
<v Speaker 2>Well call me manipulation, Tam, because I'm blocking your ass.

0:31:37.760 --> 0:31:38.920
<v Speaker 2>We'll be right back you guys.

0:31:43.480 --> 0:31:47.520
<v Speaker 1>All right, y'all, So we're back, and for today's episode,

0:31:47.560 --> 0:31:53.120
<v Speaker 1>I wanted to talk about, uh, unfollowing and following people

0:31:54.360 --> 0:31:59.160
<v Speaker 1>on social media? How do you feel when you unfollow people?

0:31:59.640 --> 0:32:02.560
<v Speaker 1>And how do you feel when someone unfollows you or

0:32:02.600 --> 0:32:04.480
<v Speaker 1>even blocks you? And to take it a step further,

0:32:05.800 --> 0:32:07.360
<v Speaker 1>have you ever been blocked? Tammy?

0:32:08.040 --> 0:32:10.800
<v Speaker 2>Have you I just I just got blocked.

0:32:11.960 --> 0:32:12.480
<v Speaker 1>Block you.

0:32:14.200 --> 0:32:15.560
<v Speaker 2>One of my old niggas.

0:32:15.880 --> 0:32:17.240
<v Speaker 1>Damn you got blocked by dude.

0:32:18.520 --> 0:32:23.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he mad, he real sassy girl. Don't worry about it.

0:32:23.520 --> 0:32:29.480
<v Speaker 2>He was sassy thing, sassy frast He told me he

0:32:29.600 --> 0:32:32.440
<v Speaker 2>was gonna take me away. From my birthday, and then

0:32:32.480 --> 0:32:35.520
<v Speaker 2>he was on bullshit and then he didn't do it,

0:32:35.760 --> 0:32:37.360
<v Speaker 2>and then the next time he hit me up, I

0:32:37.480 --> 0:32:39.720
<v Speaker 2>was like, boy, fuck you full of shit. You don't

0:32:39.720 --> 0:32:45.160
<v Speaker 2>even communicate. He's like, I'm sick of your mouth, and

0:32:45.200 --> 0:32:49.960
<v Speaker 2>then he blocked me. What the hell, sassy?

0:32:50.200 --> 0:32:52.320
<v Speaker 1>But why would men stand on business? We be calling

0:32:52.400 --> 0:32:53.680
<v Speaker 1>them sassy? That's fucked up.

0:32:53.720 --> 0:32:55.840
<v Speaker 2>How's dad standing on business? All you had to do

0:32:55.880 --> 0:32:58.160
<v Speaker 2>if something came up and you couldn't take me, you

0:32:58.160 --> 0:33:04.200
<v Speaker 2>could have communicated that you sure you birthday? I said

0:33:04.200 --> 0:33:07.320
<v Speaker 2>you just I said, you always on bullshit? You unreliable.

0:33:07.960 --> 0:33:14.800
<v Speaker 2>Mm hmm, that's always your mouth. What did I say?

0:33:15.280 --> 0:33:16.680
<v Speaker 1>Nigga had a block party on you.

0:33:17.880 --> 0:33:20.560
<v Speaker 2>I don't care. He'll be back. They always come back

0:33:20.720 --> 0:33:21.280
<v Speaker 2>with thing.

0:33:22.440 --> 0:33:24.960
<v Speaker 1>I've never been blocked by a guy before, but I

0:33:25.000 --> 0:33:27.680
<v Speaker 1>have definitely been blocked by an ex best friend to

0:33:27.720 --> 0:33:29.960
<v Speaker 1>this date. And I'm like, well, I'm assuming to this

0:33:30.040 --> 0:33:31.400
<v Speaker 1>day because I haven't checked in a while.

0:33:32.320 --> 0:33:32.400
<v Speaker 2>No.

0:33:32.520 --> 0:33:35.360
<v Speaker 1>Actually, somebody sent me that she was pregnant. But they

0:33:35.440 --> 0:33:37.440
<v Speaker 1>just sent like a Facebook link and I clicked on

0:33:37.480 --> 0:33:39.800
<v Speaker 1>it and I couldn't see anything. So I was like, oh,

0:33:39.800 --> 0:33:44.240
<v Speaker 1>she must have got me blocked, but for what, Like

0:33:44.320 --> 0:33:46.800
<v Speaker 1>your life is not that lit for me to like

0:33:46.960 --> 0:33:49.640
<v Speaker 1>want to see everything you got going on to where

0:33:49.640 --> 0:33:53.160
<v Speaker 1>you're on social media. Yes, that is so weird to me.

0:33:54.520 --> 0:33:57.120
<v Speaker 2>I don't think I've ever had any women blocking, you know, like.

0:33:57.160 --> 0:34:01.200
<v Speaker 1>I would never now I havelock and this same person

0:34:01.320 --> 0:34:05.560
<v Speaker 1>I have blocked and then unblocked just so I unfollow

0:34:05.600 --> 0:34:07.680
<v Speaker 1>her and she can unfollow me. You know, that's how

0:34:07.680 --> 0:34:10.279
<v Speaker 1>you get people to unfollow you, Like I've done that,

0:34:10.400 --> 0:34:12.760
<v Speaker 1>Like so within the same second, I'm blocking and unblocking

0:34:12.920 --> 0:34:16.759
<v Speaker 1>just to get the unfollowed. But no, I've never just

0:34:16.800 --> 0:34:19.400
<v Speaker 1>blocked for what picture me rolling?

0:34:20.480 --> 0:34:23.040
<v Speaker 2>Well, what's the point of blocking and unblocking.

0:34:22.640 --> 0:34:26.000
<v Speaker 1>So they can unfollow and you unfollow? Like you force

0:34:26.080 --> 0:34:30.000
<v Speaker 1>them to unfollow you when you block and unblock, like

0:34:30.080 --> 0:34:32.040
<v Speaker 1>within the same minute, you know what I'm saying.

0:34:32.080 --> 0:34:35.680
<v Speaker 2>Oh, but I'm just saying, but why because.

0:34:35.239 --> 0:34:37.719
<v Speaker 1>If we are no longer friends, why do you need

0:34:37.760 --> 0:34:42.839
<v Speaker 1>to be following me? I'm not gonna block you.

0:34:43.000 --> 0:34:48.160
<v Speaker 2>It's definitely it's still definitely girls in my uh follows

0:34:48.200 --> 0:34:50.239
<v Speaker 2>that we're not friends no more, but we just never

0:34:50.320 --> 0:34:51.160
<v Speaker 2>unfollowed each other.

0:34:51.160 --> 0:34:54.600
<v Speaker 4>It's cool whatever, No, I feel like it's levels, right,

0:34:55.120 --> 0:34:58.360
<v Speaker 4>So like best friendshit, like you were somebody I speak

0:34:58.400 --> 0:35:03.280
<v Speaker 4>to every day and then now we just aren't friends anymore. Oh,

0:35:03.320 --> 0:35:05.640
<v Speaker 4>I did block one of my old best That's what

0:35:05.680 --> 0:35:08.560
<v Speaker 4>I'm saying, Like, that's it's just different.

0:35:08.880 --> 0:35:09.040
<v Speaker 2>Now.

0:35:09.960 --> 0:35:12.239
<v Speaker 1>Did y'all refollow each other since y'all cool?

0:35:12.280 --> 0:35:12.400
<v Speaker 2>Now?

0:35:13.280 --> 0:35:16.160
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's what I'm saying. To block and then y'all

0:35:16.239 --> 0:35:18.400
<v Speaker 1>may eventually start talking to each other again or some

0:35:18.440 --> 0:35:20.600
<v Speaker 1>shit like why are you even doing that? Or to

0:35:20.719 --> 0:35:24.759
<v Speaker 1>unfollow like I felt like it was super final. That's

0:35:24.800 --> 0:35:26.839
<v Speaker 1>why I went ahead and did the unfollowed thing.

0:35:29.440 --> 0:35:31.840
<v Speaker 2>No, when i'm mad, I will.

0:35:31.360 --> 0:35:33.719
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you've done it to me, and so that's also

0:35:33.760 --> 0:35:34.880
<v Speaker 1>a part of this conversation.

0:35:36.880 --> 0:35:37.200
<v Speaker 2>Bitch.

0:35:37.239 --> 0:35:39.680
<v Speaker 1>If you aren't following me, please let me know. That

0:35:39.760 --> 0:35:45.960
<v Speaker 1>was that was last year? Okay. If you an't following me, bitch, bitch,

0:35:46.080 --> 0:35:48.879
<v Speaker 1>let me know so I can unfollow your ass too.

0:35:48.920 --> 0:35:51.440
<v Speaker 1>We like still having to do business and ship. And

0:35:51.480 --> 0:35:53.440
<v Speaker 1>I realized, bitch.

0:35:53.200 --> 0:35:56.160
<v Speaker 3>I just see you today.

0:35:56.520 --> 0:35:59.239
<v Speaker 2>I had not forgot. Wasn't you following your ass? And

0:35:59.600 --> 0:36:01.120
<v Speaker 2>you said, and I was like, oh.

0:36:01.080 --> 0:36:07.719
<v Speaker 1>Ca Saio asked my mentions as a follow Bitch, did

0:36:07.760 --> 0:36:12.719
<v Speaker 1>you unfollow me at one point, Petty, is you okay?

0:36:14.280 --> 0:36:15.400
<v Speaker 2>Okay?

0:36:15.880 --> 0:36:16.600
<v Speaker 1>Are you okay?

0:36:16.760 --> 0:36:16.960
<v Speaker 2>Now?

0:36:17.160 --> 0:36:20.960
<v Speaker 1>I wasn't then are you well? Like that never crossed

0:36:21.000 --> 0:36:23.160
<v Speaker 1>my mind to unfollow Tammy, Like, no matter if we

0:36:23.239 --> 0:36:24.880
<v Speaker 1>beefing or what like, I still got to see and

0:36:24.920 --> 0:36:27.319
<v Speaker 1>talk to this bitch. So like that, what is that

0:36:27.440 --> 0:36:31.799
<v Speaker 1>really going to do? Other than like to me, it's foolish, right,

0:36:32.600 --> 0:36:34.520
<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm saying. When I do it, it's final.

0:36:34.560 --> 0:36:37.120
<v Speaker 1>I don't gotta never fuck with you again. Period.

0:36:37.280 --> 0:36:39.600
<v Speaker 2>No for me is I do not want listen. The

0:36:39.640 --> 0:36:41.840
<v Speaker 2>best thing they ever gave me was the mute button.

0:36:42.520 --> 0:36:46.239
<v Speaker 2>That mute button is my best friend. Because if I'm

0:36:46.239 --> 0:36:47.920
<v Speaker 2>not if I'm mad at you and I'm not talking

0:36:47.920 --> 0:36:49.680
<v Speaker 2>to you, I don't want to see you out smiling

0:36:49.760 --> 0:36:51.720
<v Speaker 2>having a good time, I don't want to see nothing. Really,

0:36:51.920 --> 0:36:53.200
<v Speaker 2>get that out of my space.

0:36:53.440 --> 0:36:56.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that is so weird.

0:36:57.440 --> 0:36:58.720
<v Speaker 2>Ain't shit funny? Bitch?

0:37:03.200 --> 0:37:05.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm never like that. But I realized that a lot

0:37:05.200 --> 0:37:06.760
<v Speaker 1>of people and I think we even had an episode

0:37:06.800 --> 0:37:10.239
<v Speaker 1>about blocking before, right, And I know I said, like

0:37:10.280 --> 0:37:13.279
<v Speaker 1>to me, blocking is a form of manipulation, especially if

0:37:13.320 --> 0:37:16.200
<v Speaker 1>you plan on unblocking a person and speaking to them

0:37:16.280 --> 0:37:19.000
<v Speaker 1>later on. It's like you catting off access to you

0:37:19.480 --> 0:37:21.920
<v Speaker 1>for a moment. That's fucked up because you do that

0:37:21.960 --> 0:37:23.600
<v Speaker 1>to me, I'm not talking to you no more.

0:37:23.800 --> 0:37:28.680
<v Speaker 2>If you block me, I never When I block, it's

0:37:28.719 --> 0:37:31.520
<v Speaker 2>with intention to never speak to you again. Now, if

0:37:31.560 --> 0:37:36.600
<v Speaker 2>somehow the universe decides first to reconcile, then okay. But

0:37:37.080 --> 0:37:40.440
<v Speaker 2>in that moment, I've done with you for life.

0:37:40.239 --> 0:37:43.120
<v Speaker 1>And so I guess I don't reconcile, right, because I

0:37:43.160 --> 0:37:46.560
<v Speaker 1>really like being on some shit like yeah, I'm good

0:37:46.560 --> 0:37:49.160
<v Speaker 1>on you whatever forever. If we get to that point

0:37:49.160 --> 0:37:51.040
<v Speaker 1>to where you got the block or block me or

0:37:51.080 --> 0:37:54.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm unfollowing and all that shit, man, we good forever.

0:37:54.400 --> 0:37:56.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm cool. One of my ex best friends still follow me,

0:37:56.600 --> 0:37:59.480
<v Speaker 1>but I've been unfollowed that bitch, and another one I

0:37:59.560 --> 0:38:02.200
<v Speaker 1>kept blocking and unblocking so she can unfollow me. I

0:38:02.239 --> 0:38:04.400
<v Speaker 1>don't even want you following me, bitch. That's so how

0:38:04.480 --> 0:38:05.279
<v Speaker 1>much I don't like you.

0:38:06.960 --> 0:38:10.520
<v Speaker 2>I literally blocked and unblocked a nigga in the same night.

0:38:12.280 --> 0:38:14.760
<v Speaker 2>See that is like, in less than twenty four hours,

0:38:14.800 --> 0:38:16.920
<v Speaker 2>I had them blocked to me and unblocked him. I

0:38:16.960 --> 0:38:19.759
<v Speaker 2>blocked him because I was mad, but then after I'm

0:38:19.840 --> 0:38:20.880
<v Speaker 2>mad at myself.

0:38:20.920 --> 0:38:21.359
<v Speaker 1>A little bit.

0:38:21.400 --> 0:38:25.000
<v Speaker 2>I was like, it's not that deep. I unblocked.

0:38:25.000 --> 0:38:26.840
<v Speaker 1>See, I do things with a little bit more intention,

0:38:27.680 --> 0:38:31.440
<v Speaker 1>so I if I go that far, that's it because

0:38:31.440 --> 0:38:33.960
<v Speaker 1>I already know, like, Okay, we beefing right now, but

0:38:34.000 --> 0:38:36.319
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna want to talk to you later or I know,

0:38:36.440 --> 0:38:39.839
<v Speaker 1>and my soul is not final, but the ministum shit

0:38:39.880 --> 0:38:42.520
<v Speaker 1>fine on my soul, bitch, fuck you am unfollowing. I'm

0:38:42.520 --> 0:38:44.919
<v Speaker 1>I'm still not blocking though, so I don't. I don't

0:38:44.920 --> 0:38:46.840
<v Speaker 1>do that type of shit. I wanted to try to

0:38:46.840 --> 0:38:49.440
<v Speaker 1>figure out some of the reasons, Like this is aside

0:38:49.440 --> 0:38:52.040
<v Speaker 1>from like people we actually know, right, because I know

0:38:52.120 --> 0:38:54.680
<v Speaker 1>we also have people. Do you follow anybody on social

0:38:54.719 --> 0:38:58.000
<v Speaker 1>media you don't know personally or you've like become friends

0:38:58.000 --> 0:38:59.040
<v Speaker 1>with them on social media.

0:39:00.080 --> 0:39:02.160
<v Speaker 2>I follow a lot of bitches from the show. It's

0:39:02.200 --> 0:39:04.600
<v Speaker 2>a lot of people who have like listen to the show,

0:39:04.840 --> 0:39:08.879
<v Speaker 2>comment on something, and I'll follow them back and then

0:39:08.920 --> 0:39:09.640
<v Speaker 2>we become friends.

0:39:09.719 --> 0:39:13.359
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I usually follow people back who like share our show,

0:39:13.840 --> 0:39:15.279
<v Speaker 1>like if they share it on their story or on

0:39:15.320 --> 0:39:17.480
<v Speaker 1>their page, like those usually the people I follow back

0:39:18.280 --> 0:39:21.080
<v Speaker 1>because I really appreciate their support. But then then you

0:39:21.200 --> 0:39:24.239
<v Speaker 1>just have people like I'll have random people following. I

0:39:24.360 --> 0:39:27.240
<v Speaker 1>usually look at people who follow. I'll look and see

0:39:28.040 --> 0:39:30.840
<v Speaker 1>and if they just look like they got life going on,

0:39:30.920 --> 0:39:33.640
<v Speaker 1>I might follow back. But then I'll do a purge

0:39:33.680 --> 0:39:35.960
<v Speaker 1>every so often, you know, and they might be one

0:39:36.000 --> 0:39:40.439
<v Speaker 1>of the people I unfollow, just there's no rhyme or reason.

0:39:40.600 --> 0:39:42.480
<v Speaker 2>Have you ever been following somebody and be like what

0:39:42.640 --> 0:39:44.720
<v Speaker 2>did that start following this person? Why?

0:39:44.760 --> 0:39:48.239
<v Speaker 1>And I've seen myself accidentally follow people before, like you

0:39:48.400 --> 0:39:51.160
<v Speaker 1>just strolling and now like the follower is right there,

0:39:51.200 --> 0:39:53.160
<v Speaker 1>so you can fuck run and hit it and not

0:39:53.320 --> 0:39:55.920
<v Speaker 1>realize it, like it's on the image basically.

0:39:56.480 --> 0:40:00.439
<v Speaker 2>So like the other day on my timeline, I saw

0:40:00.480 --> 0:40:03.040
<v Speaker 2>this nigga who was like holding pistols and money and

0:40:03.080 --> 0:40:05.239
<v Speaker 2>his pains was low and all that stuff, and I

0:40:05.360 --> 0:40:09.279
<v Speaker 2>was like, how did I start following this nigga? When

0:40:09.360 --> 0:40:11.440
<v Speaker 2>did that happen? You know? I follow?

0:40:11.600 --> 0:40:16.400
<v Speaker 1>I think when people buy followers, I think they make accounts,

0:40:16.480 --> 0:40:20.400
<v Speaker 1>real accounts follow people and you just have to realize

0:40:20.440 --> 0:40:23.080
<v Speaker 1>you didn't follow that person and unfollow. I think that

0:40:23.200 --> 0:40:25.560
<v Speaker 1>might be a package deal you can buy, because I

0:40:25.640 --> 0:40:27.799
<v Speaker 1>swear it'd be people I have never seen them on

0:40:27.840 --> 0:40:31.799
<v Speaker 1>my timeline before, just random ask who are you?

0:40:32.800 --> 0:40:35.719
<v Speaker 2>I don't know, Yeah, because who is that guy? I

0:40:35.719 --> 0:40:38.200
<v Speaker 2>would never follow somebody who running around with guns and

0:40:38.320 --> 0:40:42.719
<v Speaker 2>money online, you know, like in person, perhaps, but not

0:40:42.840 --> 0:40:45.279
<v Speaker 2>if that's your social media image. I'm not. That's not

0:40:45.400 --> 0:40:47.120
<v Speaker 2>my ministry, baby.

0:40:47.160 --> 0:40:49.680
<v Speaker 1>And even people I know who don't post shit like

0:40:49.719 --> 0:40:51.759
<v Speaker 1>you haven't posted it in years, I'm unfollow you, like

0:40:51.800 --> 0:40:54.040
<v Speaker 1>bitches I went to school with and shit like that. Like,

0:40:54.120 --> 0:40:56.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm unfollow you if I'm doing like a low purge

0:40:56.440 --> 0:41:02.279
<v Speaker 1>and you don't even use Instagram, Yeah, I'm unfollowing. So

0:41:02.360 --> 0:41:05.359
<v Speaker 1>I do do that type of shit because I like numbers, right,

0:41:05.440 --> 0:41:07.799
<v Speaker 1>so I want my number to say it's certain, Like

0:41:07.880 --> 0:41:12.080
<v Speaker 1>the follow number is nine nine nine, So you might

0:41:12.120 --> 0:41:16.319
<v Speaker 1>get Yeah, you might get kicked out because I want

0:41:16.360 --> 0:41:19.719
<v Speaker 1>it to be nine because I like nine. It's a

0:41:19.719 --> 0:41:20.280
<v Speaker 1>good number.

0:41:21.560 --> 0:41:24.680
<v Speaker 2>So you only want nine hundred and ninety nine people

0:41:24.719 --> 0:41:34.640
<v Speaker 2>you follow, and that's it. That's not strange.

0:41:28.680 --> 0:41:39.400
<v Speaker 1>So here are some reasons that people will unfollow, okay.

0:41:41.080 --> 0:41:45.239
<v Speaker 1>Number one is emotional boundaries. Unfollowing someone often serves as

0:41:45.280 --> 0:41:48.000
<v Speaker 1>a way to protect your emotional wellbeing. If someone frequently

0:41:48.040 --> 0:41:51.640
<v Speaker 1>posts content that causes stress, anxiety, or negative emotions, the

0:41:51.760 --> 0:41:55.239
<v Speaker 1>follower may choose choose to distance themselves to maintain their

0:41:55.280 --> 0:42:00.480
<v Speaker 1>own mental health. I have unfollowed accounts for that type

0:42:00.480 --> 0:42:03.480
<v Speaker 1>of shit, like you just always posting negative shit. I

0:42:03.480 --> 0:42:07.279
<v Speaker 1>hate a bit you always posting as somebody hating on them, Like,

0:42:07.360 --> 0:42:11.000
<v Speaker 1>don't nobody even know you, girl? I'm unsorrowing you.

0:42:11.120 --> 0:42:13.359
<v Speaker 2>You think that that is? I have no people like that,

0:42:13.480 --> 0:42:17.680
<v Speaker 2>Like everybody is just against them, everybody is jealous of them,

0:42:17.800 --> 0:42:20.799
<v Speaker 2>everybody is just girl relaxed.

0:42:20.920 --> 0:42:24.080
<v Speaker 1>Yes, And I'm unfollowing you know, because I don't want

0:42:24.120 --> 0:42:26.719
<v Speaker 1>it to ever get every for you to ever feel

0:42:26.760 --> 0:42:29.000
<v Speaker 1>any type of way. If I don't like something, or

0:42:29.040 --> 0:42:32.200
<v Speaker 1>if I don't comment on your post, or if I

0:42:32.320 --> 0:42:34.839
<v Speaker 1>look at your story and not hearted, I never want

0:42:34.840 --> 0:42:36.160
<v Speaker 1>you to feel a way. So let me just go

0:42:36.200 --> 0:42:38.520
<v Speaker 1>ahead and unfollow, because those will be the people who

0:42:38.520 --> 0:42:40.960
<v Speaker 1>think somebody just looking at them just to.

0:42:40.960 --> 0:42:45.080
<v Speaker 2>Look and hat I don't like, but I'm one of

0:42:45.080 --> 0:42:47.920
<v Speaker 2>those people, Like if you don't post me for my birthday,

0:42:48.080 --> 0:42:50.360
<v Speaker 2>I will have a like are we good? Are we ah?

0:42:50.600 --> 0:42:55.359
<v Speaker 2>Is you cool? I don't care why you ain't. No,

0:42:55.400 --> 0:42:57.799
<v Speaker 2>why you ain't only if you're if you're a person

0:42:57.800 --> 0:43:00.640
<v Speaker 2>who don't post a lot, But if You're posting all

0:43:00.719 --> 0:43:03.120
<v Speaker 2>day every day, and you posting everybody else's birthday and

0:43:03.160 --> 0:43:07.160
<v Speaker 2>you don't post mine? What's up? Is there a problem?

0:43:07.239 --> 0:43:09.399
<v Speaker 1>So you would think that person is not your friend?

0:43:10.719 --> 0:43:13.200
<v Speaker 2>You on one? What's up?

0:43:13.239 --> 0:43:13.279
<v Speaker 4>You?

0:43:13.680 --> 0:43:13.839
<v Speaker 1>Are?

0:43:13.840 --> 0:43:16.960
<v Speaker 2>We cool? With everything? Cool? Because why didn't you post me?

0:43:17.239 --> 0:43:19.400
<v Speaker 2>And then I definitely go to make sure I posted.

0:43:19.560 --> 0:43:21.440
<v Speaker 2>I look at our messages and see if I posted

0:43:21.480 --> 0:43:24.319
<v Speaker 2>you for yours? Oh but you got me fugged up?

0:43:25.880 --> 0:43:27.759
<v Speaker 1>But what if she texts you that day and towards

0:43:27.760 --> 0:43:32.040
<v Speaker 1>you happy birthday? So oh my god, Okay.

0:43:31.920 --> 0:43:36.120
<v Speaker 2>Post me because I'm gonna text you. I'm gonna call you.

0:43:36.160 --> 0:43:38.320
<v Speaker 2>And what else I'm gonna do on your birthday?

0:43:38.400 --> 0:43:41.000
<v Speaker 1>Post and call and sing happy birthday.

0:43:40.880 --> 0:43:43.399
<v Speaker 2>And I'm gonna sing to your motherfucking ass. The least

0:43:43.440 --> 0:43:44.959
<v Speaker 2>you can do is post my picture on your page,

0:43:45.040 --> 0:43:47.000
<v Speaker 2>especially if you're not on your page on your store.

0:43:47.120 --> 0:43:50.000
<v Speaker 1>Right. Yeah, it's only like a quick click, you know,

0:43:50.280 --> 0:43:53.719
<v Speaker 1>it's not much to do. But I'm still not mad

0:43:53.719 --> 0:43:55.960
<v Speaker 1>at a bitch for now because I don't only my

0:43:56.040 --> 0:43:58.160
<v Speaker 1>immediate friends.

0:43:57.600 --> 0:43:58.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like close friends.

0:43:58.680 --> 0:44:01.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so I ain't.

0:44:01.440 --> 0:44:04.520
<v Speaker 2>But if I posted you, you close enough, bitch? Post

0:44:04.600 --> 0:44:05.000
<v Speaker 2>me bad?

0:44:06.280 --> 0:44:10.240
<v Speaker 1>So the relationship over if the friend don't post your birthday.

0:44:10.440 --> 0:44:12.239
<v Speaker 2>No, no, it's not over, but there's gonna be a

0:44:12.280 --> 0:44:14.600
<v Speaker 2>conversation to be had very soon about it.

0:44:14.800 --> 0:44:17.279
<v Speaker 1>Yo. And how would that conversation go? You would call

0:44:17.320 --> 0:44:18.040
<v Speaker 1>him and say, what.

0:44:19.160 --> 0:44:24.520
<v Speaker 2>Hey, girl, how you doing? You cool? Is everything cool?

0:44:27.560 --> 0:44:29.239
<v Speaker 2>I think it's real funny. Dad.

0:44:33.440 --> 0:44:35.840
<v Speaker 1>I'd be like, get the fuck off my phone.

0:44:36.880 --> 0:44:42.040
<v Speaker 2>I've been stressed out all day and I didn't I

0:44:42.040 --> 0:44:44.960
<v Speaker 2>didn't see your posts, So what's up. You don't like me,

0:44:45.360 --> 0:44:47.200
<v Speaker 2>you hate me? What's going on?

0:44:47.440 --> 0:44:51.359
<v Speaker 1>Yo? What about my dog died today or something? Now

0:44:51.400 --> 0:44:53.799
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna feel like shit for stressing somebody else.

0:44:54.080 --> 0:44:58.440
<v Speaker 2>Then I'd be like, I'm so sorry, I didn't know that.

0:44:58.800 --> 0:45:01.600
<v Speaker 2>I would didn't apologize, but I mean, you can make

0:45:01.640 --> 0:45:03.200
<v Speaker 2>a related post and I understand.

0:45:03.440 --> 0:45:11.560
<v Speaker 1>Yo, okay. No. Social comparison is another reason why people

0:45:11.640 --> 0:45:14.720
<v Speaker 1>may unfollow someone. So it says constant comparison with others

0:45:15.239 --> 0:45:18.080
<v Speaker 1>lives as showcase on social media can lead to feelings

0:45:18.120 --> 0:45:23.680
<v Speaker 1>of inadequacy. People may unfollow individuals who suppost constantly trigger envy, jealousy,

0:45:23.719 --> 0:45:27.080
<v Speaker 1>or feelings of being less than. That's never me because

0:45:27.400 --> 0:45:29.480
<v Speaker 1>when I see a motherfucker doing great, I know I

0:45:29.480 --> 0:45:29.960
<v Speaker 1>can do it.

0:45:31.280 --> 0:45:33.400
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I will definitely mute somebody.

0:45:34.200 --> 0:45:35.840
<v Speaker 1>Yo, you're fucking nuts.

0:45:36.880 --> 0:45:40.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah I will. I will not because I'm jealousy jealous.

0:45:41.239 --> 0:45:44.520
<v Speaker 2>It's just because I don't want to ever be comparing myself,

0:45:45.160 --> 0:45:48.439
<v Speaker 2>you know. If I start to feel like a parison part, yeah,

0:45:48.480 --> 0:45:51.840
<v Speaker 2>I'll be like, look, this is gonna be counterproductive for

0:45:51.920 --> 0:45:54.000
<v Speaker 2>what I got going on right now, So I'm just

0:45:54.000 --> 0:45:57.120
<v Speaker 2>gonna mute you. It's not personal, it's just about me.

0:45:59.000 --> 0:46:01.400
<v Speaker 2>Does that make sense for you? Because it's not like

0:46:03.280 --> 0:46:05.239
<v Speaker 2>and be like, it's not like I look at this

0:46:05.320 --> 0:46:07.200
<v Speaker 2>ship and be like, oh, you shouldn't have that. That

0:46:07.239 --> 0:46:09.640
<v Speaker 2>should be me. That's never my energy. I'm always proud

0:46:09.640 --> 0:46:12.520
<v Speaker 2>of everybody. I want them to do great, especially black women,

0:46:12.760 --> 0:46:15.279
<v Speaker 2>you know. But if I start to feel like I

0:46:15.320 --> 0:46:18.440
<v Speaker 2>could be comparing my situation to theirs, I will mute.

0:46:19.160 --> 0:46:21.520
<v Speaker 1>I guess I never do that though. I never compare

0:46:21.640 --> 0:46:26.160
<v Speaker 1>my situation to somebody else. Haters are bred through that

0:46:26.160 --> 0:46:28.880
<v Speaker 1>type of shit, right because either you're gonna be inspired

0:46:29.000 --> 0:46:30.919
<v Speaker 1>or you're gonna become a hater. So I'm not saying

0:46:31.600 --> 0:46:33.719
<v Speaker 1>become a hater. Why you would block that person out?

0:46:34.000 --> 0:46:36.399
<v Speaker 1>But my mind never thinks like that like I never

0:46:37.480 --> 0:46:40.719
<v Speaker 1>I don't really do comparison mode for real. The only

0:46:40.760 --> 0:46:43.440
<v Speaker 1>people I be jealous of, I'm gonna be honest, the

0:46:43.440 --> 0:46:48.200
<v Speaker 1>motherfucking Wall Street Trapper, Chap, the Wall Street Trapper. As

0:46:48.280 --> 0:46:52.080
<v Speaker 1>much as I love that nigga, because I love him, Okay,

0:46:52.800 --> 0:46:55.600
<v Speaker 1>I cannot stand when that nigga show his motherfucker brokeras

0:46:55.600 --> 0:46:59.960
<v Speaker 1>you count balance, I'd be so jealous.

0:47:00.360 --> 0:47:03.120
<v Speaker 2>I don't be like Yo, I've been traded for years.

0:47:03.160 --> 0:47:07.320
<v Speaker 2>Where's my m okay, but it's coming so I'm not dressed.

0:47:07.320 --> 0:47:07.839
<v Speaker 2>It too bad.

0:47:08.520 --> 0:47:12.400
<v Speaker 1>It gives me, but no, it motivates me. It motivates me,

0:47:13.040 --> 0:47:16.560
<v Speaker 1>like I literally have on my vision board. Yeah, like

0:47:16.680 --> 0:47:20.240
<v Speaker 1>four m four million dollars on my fucking brokerage account

0:47:20.280 --> 0:47:27.920
<v Speaker 1>on my vision board. Like, no, mute, and look, I

0:47:28.080 --> 0:47:30.520
<v Speaker 1>was jealous. The other day he was posting this girl

0:47:30.560 --> 0:47:34.440
<v Speaker 1>for her birthday, saying how she was the one that

0:47:34.480 --> 0:47:36.279
<v Speaker 1>got away. Excuse me?

0:47:36.640 --> 0:47:38.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah yeah, so just mute people.

0:47:39.040 --> 0:47:44.080
<v Speaker 1>You don't know you internet boyfriend of my mind? Are you? Well?

0:47:45.440 --> 0:47:54.680
<v Speaker 2>I like her? You get your CA and will and will.

0:47:55.320 --> 0:47:58.240
<v Speaker 1>But luckily, my nigga, don't listen to this show.

0:48:01.480 --> 0:48:02.440
<v Speaker 2>I'm about the blackmail.

0:48:02.560 --> 0:48:04.560
<v Speaker 1>Yo's gonna listen and send it to him, and I'm

0:48:04.600 --> 0:48:05.799
<v Speaker 1>gonna kill whoever that is.

0:48:05.840 --> 0:48:08.920
<v Speaker 2>Okay, I'm gonna either send me a tay tea tomorrow

0:48:09.480 --> 0:48:14.040
<v Speaker 2>around twelve o'clock or I wasn't.

0:48:12.920 --> 0:48:22.799
<v Speaker 1>Just extorting me for Boba. What is happening? Yeah, I'd

0:48:22.800 --> 0:48:25.000
<v Speaker 1>be jealous of his broker's account, like that's the only

0:48:25.040 --> 0:48:27.920
<v Speaker 1>person on social media, Like I'd be like, especially if

0:48:27.960 --> 0:48:29.840
<v Speaker 1>I had a bad day in the market and I

0:48:29.880 --> 0:48:33.400
<v Speaker 1>see somebody else made money, I'm like, oh my fucking god,

0:48:33.480 --> 0:48:40.560
<v Speaker 1>I hate these people. Other than that, I'm cool.

0:48:42.080 --> 0:48:44.919
<v Speaker 2>There's a it's a couple. I won't say their name,

0:48:45.560 --> 0:48:48.120
<v Speaker 2>but I had to mute her because I'm just tired

0:48:48.120 --> 0:48:51.839
<v Speaker 2>of y'all being in love. What y'all. I'm so sick

0:48:51.880 --> 0:48:54.680
<v Speaker 2>of y'all that because I don't want y'all to be

0:48:54.760 --> 0:48:57.759
<v Speaker 2>in love. I love, but I love love. But I'm

0:48:57.840 --> 0:49:01.879
<v Speaker 2>just like, girl enough, bitch, I don't have a man.

0:49:01.960 --> 0:49:05.000
<v Speaker 2>I can't take this. It's eating me up. You eating

0:49:05.040 --> 0:49:07.359
<v Speaker 2>me up every day. I want to know a girl

0:49:07.360 --> 0:49:12.319
<v Speaker 2>will tell me. I'll tell you after the ship telling

0:49:12.400 --> 0:49:14.319
<v Speaker 2>everybody because they be like, not you hating on so

0:49:14.480 --> 0:49:17.719
<v Speaker 2>and so. It's you know what, I am hating. Fuck it,

0:49:17.719 --> 0:49:19.680
<v Speaker 2>it is what it is. I'm jealous, yo.

0:49:19.680 --> 0:49:19.839
<v Speaker 1>You.

0:49:22.600 --> 0:49:27.360
<v Speaker 2>So I had to mute her. I don't but listen,

0:49:27.440 --> 0:49:30.160
<v Speaker 2>let me make this very clear. I don't want them

0:49:30.200 --> 0:49:33.399
<v Speaker 2>to break up. I love the love. I just don't

0:49:33.440 --> 0:49:34.399
<v Speaker 2>have it yet.

0:49:35.520 --> 0:49:37.400
<v Speaker 1>People shit don't be looking like what it is.

0:49:37.440 --> 0:49:40.080
<v Speaker 2>We know that too, right right right, It might not

0:49:40.239 --> 0:49:43.319
<v Speaker 2>be as beautiful as it looks on social media and oftentimes,

0:49:43.800 --> 0:49:46.080
<v Speaker 2>I mean, people post a highlight reel. They don't post

0:49:46.120 --> 0:49:48.080
<v Speaker 2>the bullshit. You know. So, but.

0:49:50.040 --> 0:49:54.480
<v Speaker 1>How about Chanelle and Duke. Who's that Chanelle like the

0:49:54.520 --> 0:49:59.840
<v Speaker 1>fitness girl. I think it's like Chanelle, uh, Chanelle Dezzler

0:50:00.120 --> 0:50:04.040
<v Speaker 1>something like that, and her fiance they engage now, name

0:50:04.120 --> 0:50:06.920
<v Speaker 1>is Duke. I was so happy when he got engaged.

0:50:06.960 --> 0:50:09.040
<v Speaker 1>I felt like it was like some people I actually knew.

0:50:09.360 --> 0:50:13.080
<v Speaker 1>They're like the finest couple on Instagram. To me, the

0:50:13.200 --> 0:50:15.600
<v Speaker 1>motherfuckers look good, both of them.

0:50:15.920 --> 0:50:16.919
<v Speaker 2>You know what I'm talking about.

0:50:17.080 --> 0:50:19.399
<v Speaker 1>Hold on, let me see make a funny havee real quick?

0:50:20.160 --> 0:50:25.319
<v Speaker 1>Duke so fucking fine. He's Nigerian African dude. Hey, go

0:50:25.440 --> 0:50:25.799
<v Speaker 1>right here.

0:50:26.520 --> 0:50:29.120
<v Speaker 2>I don't be really caring about the fitness girlies with

0:50:29.200 --> 0:50:32.840
<v Speaker 2>their boyfriend because I like to eat. Show me a

0:50:32.920 --> 0:50:36.719
<v Speaker 2>fat couple, I'd be jealous of the shive me a.

0:50:36.680 --> 0:50:39.080
<v Speaker 1>Fat bitch with her her man, I'm mad.

0:50:39.800 --> 0:50:42.080
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, I've never seen these No, you don't know

0:50:42.120 --> 0:50:46.120
<v Speaker 2>them in my life. No, but they are beautiful, you know, and.

0:50:46.200 --> 0:50:48.360
<v Speaker 1>Duke fine and hell she's so fine. Like how you

0:50:48.400 --> 0:50:50.480
<v Speaker 1>got a fat ass in a six pack? I'm confused.

0:50:52.680 --> 0:50:54.719
<v Speaker 2>You can have that right now for the price of

0:50:55.400 --> 0:51:01.000
<v Speaker 2>eight thousand dollars right care credit, But yep, can get you. So.

0:51:02.280 --> 0:51:06.720
<v Speaker 2>But yeah, that's the only people I I mute because

0:51:06.719 --> 0:51:10.760
<v Speaker 2>I don't block anybody on social media anymore. I just mute. Yeah,

0:51:10.800 --> 0:51:14.359
<v Speaker 2>if I'm following them. Yeah, so just that one girl

0:51:14.360 --> 0:51:16.920
<v Speaker 2>and her boyfriend, because damn, let me get a nigga

0:51:16.960 --> 0:51:19.680
<v Speaker 2>before y'all put it in my face every fucking day.

0:51:23.400 --> 0:51:24.960
<v Speaker 1>They're jealous ass girl.

0:51:26.760 --> 0:51:34.200
<v Speaker 2>That's it. That's all. Oh like all like literally every

0:51:34.239 --> 0:51:38.480
<v Speaker 2>guy that I've dated in the since Instagram started, that

0:51:38.600 --> 0:51:45.400
<v Speaker 2>we fell out. They no, they please your that was.

0:51:48.400 --> 0:51:53.200
<v Speaker 1>I didn't mean it to be it that.

0:51:55.239 --> 0:51:59.319
<v Speaker 2>No, they're all none of them niggas engage. Only one

0:51:59.360 --> 0:52:01.000
<v Speaker 2>of them is married. Oh no, two of them are

0:52:01.080 --> 0:52:04.640
<v Speaker 2>married now from my past, but all of them outside

0:52:04.640 --> 0:52:06.840
<v Speaker 2>industries being the whores they were when they were went me.

0:52:07.760 --> 0:52:10.839
<v Speaker 2>But they're all blocked on social media.

0:52:10.960 --> 0:52:12.799
<v Speaker 1>Damn you block all your old niggas.

0:52:14.560 --> 0:52:16.080
<v Speaker 2>Not all of them, but a lot of them, because

0:52:16.120 --> 0:52:20.839
<v Speaker 2>it always is in some type of betrayal that leads

0:52:20.880 --> 0:52:22.719
<v Speaker 2>to me like you don't need to have access to

0:52:22.760 --> 0:52:23.360
<v Speaker 2>me anymore.

0:52:24.680 --> 0:52:26.720
<v Speaker 1>I only got one nigga blocked, or one.

0:52:26.600 --> 0:52:29.000
<v Speaker 2>Guy I blocked because he didn't take care of his kids,

0:52:29.120 --> 0:52:29.799
<v Speaker 2>stuff like that.

0:52:29.920 --> 0:52:31.920
<v Speaker 1>You know, everybody should block him. You should put his

0:52:31.960 --> 0:52:35.680
<v Speaker 1>Instagram name on your story. Everybody should.

0:52:36.840 --> 0:52:38.759
<v Speaker 2>Right as your son lives down the street and he

0:52:38.800 --> 0:52:41.200
<v Speaker 2>ain't seen you in years. When I found that out,

0:52:41.280 --> 0:52:43.960
<v Speaker 2>I was like, oh hell, no blocked period.

0:52:44.800 --> 0:52:50.440
<v Speaker 1>No value misalignment. It says as people grow and evolved,

0:52:50.719 --> 0:52:54.120
<v Speaker 1>their values may shift. If someone's content no longer resonates

0:52:54.200 --> 0:52:58.120
<v Speaker 1>or aligns with those evolving values, it's common for users

0:52:58.160 --> 0:53:02.080
<v Speaker 1>to unfollow. For instance, if someone becomes more politically active

0:53:02.160 --> 0:53:05.880
<v Speaker 1>or shares controversial opinions, others might feel the need to

0:53:05.960 --> 0:53:10.240
<v Speaker 1>unfollow to avoid conflict, to conflict or discomfort. I agree

0:53:10.239 --> 0:53:13.400
<v Speaker 1>with that. I really don't unblocking, especially like right now,

0:53:13.480 --> 0:53:16.759
<v Speaker 1>like the political ship has been It's just a it's

0:53:16.760 --> 0:53:18.920
<v Speaker 1>a bit much, okay.

0:53:18.520 --> 0:53:21.239
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and it can get ugly.

0:53:22.560 --> 0:53:23.279
<v Speaker 1>Disrespectful.

0:53:23.440 --> 0:53:27.600
<v Speaker 2>Actually yeah, they're passionate and sometimes they get rude. You know,

0:53:27.640 --> 0:53:29.759
<v Speaker 2>it gets to a place where And that's why I

0:53:29.800 --> 0:53:32.200
<v Speaker 2>don't wanting to talk about y'all. AJ really wants us

0:53:32.239 --> 0:53:34.880
<v Speaker 2>to have a political conversation on the show, but I

0:53:34.960 --> 0:53:37.760
<v Speaker 2>just feel like this our show is so much fun

0:53:37.840 --> 0:53:40.480
<v Speaker 2>and it's so happy, and I don't want her and

0:53:40.520 --> 0:53:41.759
<v Speaker 2>I to you know.

0:53:41.800 --> 0:53:43.880
<v Speaker 1>It doesn't have to be like that, right, So you

0:53:43.960 --> 0:53:45.520
<v Speaker 1>already in the wrong mindset.

0:53:45.560 --> 0:53:48.719
<v Speaker 2>But it has been like that before when we talked

0:53:48.760 --> 0:53:51.879
<v Speaker 2>about it, and that's why I don't want to enter

0:53:52.080 --> 0:53:54.880
<v Speaker 2>it into that space and then we be back in

0:53:55.080 --> 0:53:57.800
<v Speaker 2>so and then I'll be I'll follow you again, you

0:53:57.840 --> 0:53:58.600
<v Speaker 2>know what I'm saying, Like, I.

0:53:58.560 --> 0:54:00.520
<v Speaker 1>Don't why does it have to be? You know? This

0:54:00.560 --> 0:54:03.120
<v Speaker 1>is this is why also just in real life, regular life,

0:54:03.160 --> 0:54:06.040
<v Speaker 1>I try to stay away from religion and politics too.

0:54:06.080 --> 0:54:08.799
<v Speaker 1>Like I try to really gravitate towards people who have

0:54:08.920 --> 0:54:11.680
<v Speaker 1>the same views, but I also like to still see

0:54:11.719 --> 0:54:14.040
<v Speaker 1>what other people think. Like I'm not just to seeing

0:54:14.120 --> 0:54:16.680
<v Speaker 1>in girl. I'm not a Fox girl. What I don't

0:54:16.760 --> 0:54:19.920
<v Speaker 1>subscribe to no news station, but I like to see

0:54:20.000 --> 0:54:22.960
<v Speaker 1>all the things, So I'm never going to just discard

0:54:23.560 --> 0:54:27.279
<v Speaker 1>someone's opinion or their views about something in particular. We

0:54:27.280 --> 0:54:30.400
<v Speaker 1>should be able to converse without it being an argument

0:54:30.520 --> 0:54:33.880
<v Speaker 1>about some shit. Is what bitches call you willfully ignorant

0:54:34.440 --> 0:54:38.879
<v Speaker 1>is when she gets stupid. Yeah, because you said that, Yes,

0:54:38.960 --> 0:54:41.879
<v Speaker 1>you did call me willfully ignorant three years ago.

0:54:43.440 --> 0:54:46.720
<v Speaker 2>I said it. It was because you said some slitch bitch.

0:54:47.520 --> 0:54:50.400
<v Speaker 1>Nah, bitch because look, yes, ain't get vaccinated because of me,

0:54:50.480 --> 0:54:55.200
<v Speaker 1>bitch like hive out here saving fucking lives. Bitch because

0:54:55.440 --> 0:54:59.960
<v Speaker 1>ain't a motherfucker in this world regret not getting vaccinated. Okay, everybody,

0:55:00.719 --> 0:55:01.240
<v Speaker 1>we're good.

0:55:02.120 --> 0:55:06.080
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you're right about that. But we did like our

0:55:06.320 --> 0:55:10.239
<v Speaker 2>when we would talk politics, that would get nasty, you know,

0:55:10.400 --> 0:55:12.000
<v Speaker 2>So I just don't want to do it. I like

0:55:12.080 --> 0:55:13.840
<v Speaker 2>where we are right now. I like the space that

0:55:13.840 --> 0:55:16.120
<v Speaker 2>we're in. I like the way we were communicating, and

0:55:16.160 --> 0:55:19.200
<v Speaker 2>I just don't want politics to ruin that.

0:55:19.320 --> 0:55:22.560
<v Speaker 1>Well, that's why I wanted to bring on other people. Right,

0:55:22.680 --> 0:55:26.279
<v Speaker 1>it doesn't have to necessarily be us having a conversation,

0:55:26.400 --> 0:55:30.120
<v Speaker 1>but with a platform like we talk back, you know,

0:55:30.960 --> 0:55:34.239
<v Speaker 1>and it's not like so we're not a comedy podcast, right,

0:55:34.320 --> 0:55:38.320
<v Speaker 1>it's culture and society, Like we need to be talking

0:55:38.320 --> 0:55:39.680
<v Speaker 1>about the things that's happening.

0:55:40.840 --> 0:55:43.520
<v Speaker 2>I yes, we should be talking about the things that

0:55:43.680 --> 0:55:48.040
<v Speaker 2>are happening. I agree, I just don't know politics should

0:55:48.080 --> 0:55:50.840
<v Speaker 2>be one of them. But we can revisit that before

0:55:50.840 --> 0:55:51.440
<v Speaker 2>the election.

0:55:51.920 --> 0:55:55.200
<v Speaker 1>Well the election is in twenty nine days, okay.

0:55:55.000 --> 0:55:57.759
<v Speaker 2>So we visit it next week and I'm gonna have

0:55:57.800 --> 0:55:59.680
<v Speaker 2>the same shame.

0:56:01.440 --> 0:56:04.719
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, some people. I haven't unfollowed people because of

0:56:04.800 --> 0:56:07.560
<v Speaker 1>their political opinions, but if the shit is too radical,

0:56:07.640 --> 0:56:11.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm really looking at you sideways because I just feel

0:56:11.719 --> 0:56:16.560
<v Speaker 1>like it's just something. It be something there, right, it's

0:56:16.640 --> 0:56:18.319
<v Speaker 1>just something like you.

0:56:18.640 --> 0:56:22.000
<v Speaker 2>It's something I don't like when it when it gets

0:56:22.040 --> 0:56:26.040
<v Speaker 2>to like as much as I enjoy sexy Red, I

0:56:26.080 --> 0:56:30.759
<v Speaker 2>had to unfollow her because our Sukiana Sukihan is mine.

0:56:30.840 --> 0:56:34.040
<v Speaker 2>Sometimes the content is just a little bit more than

0:56:36.160 --> 0:56:39.319
<v Speaker 2>that agrees with my personal taste. Yes, so I just

0:56:39.360 --> 0:56:43.759
<v Speaker 2>have to like follow, Yeah, no shade to them. I

0:56:43.920 --> 0:56:46.080
<v Speaker 2>like it was like that one picture when she was

0:56:46.120 --> 0:56:48.640
<v Speaker 2>like holding her coochie list like a penis. That's when

0:56:48.680 --> 0:56:49.640
<v Speaker 2>I was like, all right, that is.

0:56:50.120 --> 0:56:55.120
<v Speaker 1>For me enough. Yeah, Sukiyana I've always had a love

0:56:55.200 --> 0:56:57.399
<v Speaker 1>hite relationship for her because I just know she's much

0:56:57.440 --> 0:57:01.560
<v Speaker 1>more than what she presents. So I always battle with that,

0:57:01.719 --> 0:57:03.640
<v Speaker 1>just not wanting to discard. And I mean, she don't

0:57:03.680 --> 0:57:05.560
<v Speaker 1>know me, so it doesn't matter, right.

0:57:05.680 --> 0:57:08.520
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you got millions of followers. They don't care. You know.

0:57:08.920 --> 0:57:11.960
<v Speaker 2>It's about the content that I want to consume, right,

0:57:12.760 --> 0:57:14.040
<v Speaker 2>you know, it's not personal.

0:57:14.680 --> 0:57:17.320
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that ship is not for me. Like that, you'd

0:57:17.360 --> 0:57:20.560
<v Speaker 1>be saying some super intelligence sound and ship the next thing,

0:57:20.600 --> 0:57:23.480
<v Speaker 1>you know, she looking at that long ass tongue with

0:57:23.520 --> 0:57:26.280
<v Speaker 1>her leg cock open eating, put s on a video

0:57:26.480 --> 0:57:27.520
<v Speaker 1>all type of wearing shit.

0:57:28.600 --> 0:57:34.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah for Auntie, listen, I just come from a different

0:57:34.200 --> 0:57:37.840
<v Speaker 2>I'm okay, I'm understanding and I'm accepting that. I just

0:57:37.920 --> 0:57:42.640
<v Speaker 2>come from a time. Yeah, Trina raor girl like you know.

0:57:43.120 --> 0:57:45.479
<v Speaker 3>Just still classy, whole classy ship.

0:57:45.680 --> 0:57:52.320
<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, okay, Yeah, decluttering the digital space. So we

0:57:52.560 --> 0:57:54.640
<v Speaker 1>kind of talked about that already, just you know, cleaning

0:57:54.640 --> 0:57:58.280
<v Speaker 1>your page up, cleaning up the followers, looking for people

0:57:58.360 --> 0:58:02.000
<v Speaker 1>that do not who are not social like I don't.

0:58:01.880 --> 0:58:05.560
<v Speaker 2>Like those bitches and I call them bitches who will

0:58:05.720 --> 0:58:08.560
<v Speaker 2>have a whole bunch of followers come follow you. You'll

0:58:08.600 --> 0:58:10.520
<v Speaker 2>be like, oh, they got good content, follow you, and

0:58:10.600 --> 0:58:12.760
<v Speaker 2>then you look back two days later and they've unfollowed.

0:58:12.880 --> 0:58:15.560
<v Speaker 1>I think that's how a lot of people build their followers.

0:58:15.040 --> 0:58:18.880
<v Speaker 2>Too, trying to build their followers and keep their numbers low. Bitch,

0:58:18.920 --> 0:58:20.880
<v Speaker 2>don't come over here with that because I don't follow

0:58:20.920 --> 0:58:22.160
<v Speaker 2>you back. Why are you doing that?

0:58:22.160 --> 0:58:24.520
<v Speaker 1>You're whack if you do that type of shit and

0:58:24.640 --> 0:58:27.240
<v Speaker 1>I and I've seen that, not just with the women,

0:58:27.800 --> 0:58:30.840
<v Speaker 1>men do that shit too, like random ass nigga following.

0:58:30.840 --> 0:58:33.280
<v Speaker 1>You might follow back because they content looks lit. A

0:58:33.320 --> 0:58:37.080
<v Speaker 1>couple of days later, like what is happening? That's pretty whack.

0:58:37.960 --> 0:58:39.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's lame. Don't do that.

0:58:39.800 --> 0:58:42.720
<v Speaker 1>I've had people I know do that, not like recently,

0:58:42.840 --> 0:58:43.760
<v Speaker 1>but like.

0:58:43.840 --> 0:58:47.360
<v Speaker 2>What follow you and then when you follow back on following?

0:58:47.440 --> 0:58:50.960
<v Speaker 1>Yes, yes it is. At one point I wasn't on

0:58:51.000 --> 0:58:53.360
<v Speaker 1>social media like that, so when I started getting back

0:58:53.400 --> 0:58:55.800
<v Speaker 1>on that type of whack shit was happening.

0:58:57.000 --> 0:58:59.160
<v Speaker 2>Have you ever had somebody try to force a follow

0:58:59.240 --> 0:59:02.280
<v Speaker 2>from you? Yeah, keep ding and they'll follow you and

0:59:02.400 --> 0:59:06.200
<v Speaker 2>unfollow follow my back and then unfollow you, and then

0:59:06.400 --> 0:59:08.240
<v Speaker 2>so you can keep showing up at so they can

0:59:08.360 --> 0:59:10.520
<v Speaker 2>keep showing up as a new follow, Like.

0:59:10.840 --> 0:59:13.080
<v Speaker 1>I've never had that happen, but I've had people like

0:59:13.440 --> 0:59:16.120
<v Speaker 1>putting messages in the comments like you'll follow me back?

0:59:17.880 --> 0:59:21.240
<v Speaker 1>Why if I wanted to, I would? I saw you

0:59:21.320 --> 0:59:27.640
<v Speaker 1>follow me? I promise I saw. I don't want to like.

0:59:28.280 --> 0:59:30.040
<v Speaker 2>But when did our world become?

0:59:30.200 --> 0:59:34.280
<v Speaker 1>So everybody wants to feel important? So that's what the

0:59:34.320 --> 0:59:38.840
<v Speaker 1>follow thing is, right, it's about it feeds something in people.

0:59:38.840 --> 0:59:41.360
<v Speaker 1>It feeds something in you to see the likes, right,

0:59:41.520 --> 0:59:44.400
<v Speaker 1>it feeds something. Oh, it gives you do That's what

0:59:44.440 --> 0:59:49.360
<v Speaker 1>Instagram is. It's instant grams of dopamine. That's literally what

0:59:49.480 --> 0:59:53.520
<v Speaker 1>the fuck they've created. It's a drug. Because I can't disconnect.

0:59:53.560 --> 0:59:56.040
<v Speaker 1>And we had a whole episode about just disconnecting from

0:59:56.320 --> 1:00:01.520
<v Speaker 1>social media to digital detox. I'm still trying every day.

1:00:02.240 --> 1:00:04.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm still trying to because I know I can do

1:00:04.880 --> 1:00:08.560
<v Speaker 1>something more productive with those hours I spend on social media.

1:00:08.560 --> 1:00:10.920
<v Speaker 1>And if it's not a straight six hours, I mean

1:00:10.960 --> 1:00:13.240
<v Speaker 1>it adds up throughout the day you on and off

1:00:13.240 --> 1:00:13.600
<v Speaker 1>the app.

1:00:14.960 --> 1:00:20.320
<v Speaker 2>I have a problem with going on Facebook, Marketplace and

1:00:20.400 --> 1:00:24.160
<v Speaker 2>offer up and I'm like, just I love it. Haggling

1:00:24.400 --> 1:00:27.760
<v Speaker 2>motherfuckers like price haggling for shit I don't even want.

1:00:27.920 --> 1:00:29.520
<v Speaker 2>I just like to see how far I can get

1:00:29.520 --> 1:00:35.960
<v Speaker 2>people together. Bitch, I'm blocking you, like, I'm just like

1:00:36.200 --> 1:00:39.960
<v Speaker 2>the negotiator, Like I will send them like they don't

1:00:40.000 --> 1:00:42.439
<v Speaker 2>have a price for something, and I'll send them where

1:00:42.560 --> 1:00:45.160
<v Speaker 2>it's a similar price marked down online for their shit,

1:00:45.320 --> 1:00:47.480
<v Speaker 2>Like I can get a new one of what you're

1:00:47.560 --> 1:00:51.360
<v Speaker 2>selling for. I just need to tell, right, yeah, for

1:00:51.480 --> 1:00:53.640
<v Speaker 2>five dollars more than what you're trying to sell it for.

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<v Speaker 2>So are you willing to accept this price that I've

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<v Speaker 2>offered you? Like, I really be going back?

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<v Speaker 1>What's the last thing you off of Facebook Marketplace?

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<v Speaker 2>I just I just actually bought a salon sink okay

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<v Speaker 2>off of Facebook mark and listen. It was so lit

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<v Speaker 2>because I got a sink, uh, two dryers because they're

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<v Speaker 2>refurbishing their salon, this Salona downtown Charlotte and I and

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<v Speaker 2>since I'm moving from place to place, I just needed

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<v Speaker 2>some new stuff and they gave me all this ship.

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<v Speaker 2>So what I'm gonna do? I mean, they gave me

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<v Speaker 2>a bunch of shit.

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<v Speaker 1>You want to resell it? No?

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<v Speaker 2>Period?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because they probably didn't feel, like, you know, having

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<v Speaker 1>to deal with the things. And that's what I was

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<v Speaker 1>talking about last week, like with my storage unit, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to sell that stuff, but I didn't really

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<v Speaker 1>have the time. So mm hm. Reducing social pressure. Sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>social media connections connections feel like obligations, especially with acquaintances

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<v Speaker 1>or distant relatives. Unfollowing can reduce the pressure to engage

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<v Speaker 1>with people one might not have a close relationship with,

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<v Speaker 1>creating more space for authentic interactions. Not y'all unfollowing family,

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<v Speaker 1>because y'all all want to deal with them, and you

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<v Speaker 1>got to be careful who you engage with. So even though,

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, engaging with listeners because that's something I

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<v Speaker 1>like to do, you just got to be careful because

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<v Speaker 1>some people just they automatically just think y'all like for

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<v Speaker 1>real besties mm hmm. You know, and some some people

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<v Speaker 1>be cool.

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<v Speaker 2>But then others they just start a lot of people

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<v Speaker 2>are you know, actually really cool. But then some people

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<v Speaker 2>be really thinking, like I don't know you.

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<v Speaker 1>They can pull up in your city, like I had

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<v Speaker 1>a Nigga message be like, now, maybe I just didn't say,

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't live in Charlotte, right, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe they never heard that. But this nigga driving trucks

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<v Speaker 1>is like I'm coming through. Excuse me, I don't even

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<v Speaker 1>live there. You don't know my life. You don't really

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<v Speaker 1>know my life. Dog, and my nigga is a killer. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I only fuck with killers. I'm not about to risk

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<v Speaker 1>my life or yours, sir, right legs the hell it's happened? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>self esteem and empowerments. For some, unfollowing is an empowering act,

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<v Speaker 1>so you power tripping. H It represents taking control of

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<v Speaker 1>one's digital environment and reinforcing personal boundaries. This is particularly

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<v Speaker 1>true in toxic relationships or after a breakup, where unfollowing

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<v Speaker 1>may signal a need to move on and regain emotional independence.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's when it's a prop Yeah, I've done that. Like,

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<v Speaker 2>you don't need access to me in any way anymore

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<v Speaker 2>after this is done. And like if we ended amicably,

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<v Speaker 2>then okay, we can still have a followup. It's not

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<v Speaker 2>a problem. But if it was toxic and you did

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<v Speaker 2>some shit that really broke me, you have no accent

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<v Speaker 2>except for cash.

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<v Speaker 1>Apps, still a stepping those zails.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't even can you block people on cash app? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>You can?

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<v Speaker 2>You can't walk never Why would I do suggest that

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<v Speaker 2>it's a dumb feature.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a broke ass future feature. Over exposure to content,

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<v Speaker 1>people may unfollow when the content becomes repetitive or overbearing. Overposting,

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<v Speaker 1>especially on topics like fitness, politics, or personal achievements, can

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<v Speaker 1>lead to content fatigue, where followers lose interest or become annoyed.

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<v Speaker 1>So at one point, I was following a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>different fitness pages. But what I've started doing is just

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<v Speaker 1>saving a post from that person's page instead of following.

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<v Speaker 1>So now if I want to go to they page,

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<v Speaker 1>I can just go to my save shit and go

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<v Speaker 1>to their page, because I might. I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>see that every day all day, if that is the

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<v Speaker 1>main thing that person does on social media. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>really want twenty fitness bitches on my timeline.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't. I love the fitness bitches on my timeline.

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<v Speaker 1>I got the the ones I like, and then I

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<v Speaker 1>see other people like who may have like a low

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<v Speaker 1>routine I want to try or something like that I

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't necessarily follow. I'll just save it second, go back

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<v Speaker 1>and visit it.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Yeah that makes sense.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so I have like my bitches like Chanelle. I

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<v Speaker 1>love watch that bitch.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, we gotta stop calling women bitches so much.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh like that girl, Chanel. I love to see that bitch. Ye,

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<v Speaker 1>she's so fine. Cognitive dissonance when someone posts content that

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<v Speaker 1>goes against the followers believes values or lifestyle, it can

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<v Speaker 1>create this comfort. Unfollowing can resolve this dissonance by eliminating

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<v Speaker 1>the exposure to these conflicting ideas. I like learning new

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<v Speaker 1>shit rather I agree with it or not, So when

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<v Speaker 1>I see something, I'll go look it up. I'll never

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<v Speaker 1>have cognitive dissonance like I be wanting to know shityeh

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<v Speaker 1>me too.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm open to the opinions of others, you know where

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I'm not one of those people who typically

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<v Speaker 2>get mad at someone else's opinion as long as they're

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<v Speaker 2>not condescending to mine, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, You know, I just realized I did recently unfollow

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<v Speaker 1>somebody that I haven't following for a long time. And

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really know why. I just felt like and

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<v Speaker 1>it could be a thing where I just outgrew their content.

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<v Speaker 1>Really and it's like mm, because this next one says,

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<v Speaker 1>did I skip it? Is that cognitive dissonance over exposure

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<v Speaker 1>to content like okay, it's enough. I'll check you out

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<v Speaker 1>some other time, and I probably I've been following that

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<v Speaker 1>person for a long time. This next next one says uh,

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<v Speaker 1>fomo fear of missing out reversal. It actually says fomo reversal.

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<v Speaker 1>Initial Social media amplifies fomo. You know what that is?

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<v Speaker 1>Fair of missing out? Yeah, by keeping people connected to

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<v Speaker 1>a wide array of experiences. But over time, some users

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<v Speaker 1>find that constantly seeing that others, seeing what others are

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<v Speaker 1>doing triggers FOMO too often leading them to unfollow people

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<v Speaker 1>who post it exacerbate that feeling. Who's post exacerbates that feeling.

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<v Speaker 1>In many cases, the act of unasturbate bit and step

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<v Speaker 1>let me get sorry, friend girl. In many cases, the

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<v Speaker 1>act of unfalling is a subtle, silent action to maintain

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<v Speaker 1>one's mental health, social standing, or personal preferences, with deeper

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<v Speaker 1>psychological motivations lurking behind the seemingly simple act. So that

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<v Speaker 1>friend who feel like y'all will never invite her out nowhere,

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<v Speaker 1>she might unfollow all y'all ass, I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>see these bitches outside.

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<v Speaker 2>Every time, and I ain't get to invite. But here's

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<v Speaker 2>the thing, don't be the bitch because I am. I have.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't be the girl who never says yes to an

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<v Speaker 2>invite and then get mad when the invites stopped coming.

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<v Speaker 2>I have definitely been that girl. Don't never say yes.

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<v Speaker 2>I always staying in like, oh no, I don't want

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<v Speaker 2>to tell that I'm tired. I'm tired. And then when

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<v Speaker 2>they don't invite you, you gotta show up, right, you

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<v Speaker 2>gotta show up.

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<v Speaker 1>My problem is I just need a week in advanced notice, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>don't be telling me bout some shit two days before,

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<v Speaker 1>because I have to mentally prepare to leave my house.

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<v Speaker 1>I be comfortable, Like so now I got to put

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<v Speaker 1>clothes on it and do my hair and like put

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<v Speaker 1>a little eyeliner on it to go outside. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>feel like it all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, if you tell me a day before you didn't

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<v Speaker 2>want me to come, that's how I feel, right. Sit,

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<v Speaker 2>you tell me the week of, Like I need to

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<v Speaker 2>know the week before, so at least by the friday

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<v Speaker 2>of the week before, what you need me to do

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<v Speaker 2>the following friday?

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<v Speaker 1>The seven days? Notice, this is what I need. Don't

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<v Speaker 1>get me no a couple of days. Notice my homegirl,

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<v Speaker 1>she know better, she'd be like I'm telling you now

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<v Speaker 1>put layer clothes out today because I really got to

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<v Speaker 1>get people not prepared, mentally prepared, because I will cancel. Bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I love a bitch to cancel. I love if

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<v Speaker 1>somebody say, oh, I'm going again, Thank God.

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<v Speaker 2>That's me. I'm a kid. I'm like, I'll be. I

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<v Speaker 2>can be hyped about something and then on the day

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<v Speaker 2>of it's like, there is a new show that dropped

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<v Speaker 2>on Netflix today that looks very good. I can just

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<v Speaker 2>roll a joint and watch this and just be content.

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<v Speaker 1>So those were I think those were Those were things

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<v Speaker 1>like more so for like people we don't know, so

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<v Speaker 1>what happens like with the friends unfollowing and shit like that.

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<v Speaker 1>So this one says. Unfollowing friends on social media adds

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<v Speaker 1>a layer of complexity because the decision might have personal, social,

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<v Speaker 1>and emotional consequences. While unfollowing strangers or acquaintances can feel

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<v Speaker 1>relatively straightforward, unfollowing a close friend can lead to feelings

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<v Speaker 1>of guilt, anxiety, or even damage to the friendship. Here

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<v Speaker 1>are the psychological factors behind unfollowing real life friends, so

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<v Speaker 1>managing emotional triggers. So friends might post content that despite

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<v Speaker 1>the close relationship triggers negative emotions, such as jealousy and

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<v Speaker 1>security or frustration. That's your friend is that you can

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<v Speaker 1>be Even though there's a bond outside of social media,

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<v Speaker 1>their online presence may create emotional stress. For example, seeing

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<v Speaker 1>friends on lavish vacations, celebrating milestones or flaunting success could

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<v Speaker 1>lead to feelings of an adequacy or social comparison, making

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<v Speaker 1>unfollowing a way to protect emotional well being. Again, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not unfollowing my friend because they're doing well.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, no, that sounds weird to me. To unfollow your

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<v Speaker 2>friend because they're doing well is because you need to

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<v Speaker 2>do something.

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<v Speaker 1>And here's the part. Here's the part that irks my

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<v Speaker 1>nerves even thinking about realizing a close friend unfollows you.

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<v Speaker 1>You ask them why they did it. How do they

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<v Speaker 1>even explain that? I can only imagine a bit trying

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<v Speaker 1>to make you the problem, which points to them not

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<v Speaker 1>really being your friend, because explain to me why you

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<v Speaker 1>one follows me? Because an adult, they're not going to

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<v Speaker 1>be able to say that. They're not going to be

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<v Speaker 1>able to say because you be on trips and shit

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<v Speaker 1>and I ain't going on trips like they will create

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<v Speaker 1>another reason in their minds that justify like how they're

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<v Speaker 1>feeling other than it just being like a projection.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I couldn't see myself like saying like, hey, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>it's not because we're not friends. I'm just not in

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<v Speaker 2>a good space and seeing you so happy makes it

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<v Speaker 2>harder for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's what it sounds like. And so as the

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<v Speaker 1>the friend who's having this lit social life, how do

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<v Speaker 1>you take that? Right, because it's a thin line between

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<v Speaker 1>love and heat.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know how how I could accept that, Like,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what to do with that information, Like,

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<v Speaker 2>so are we still friends, right? Because I'm not gonna

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<v Speaker 2>not be happy to make you happy.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, So either mute or unfollow. So even muting your

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<v Speaker 1>friend is just weird to me.

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<v Speaker 2>But I mean I've had friends, I mean we all

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<v Speaker 2>go through highs and lows, right, I've had friends that

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<v Speaker 2>when some good things were happening for me, they didn't

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<v Speaker 2>have the excitement that I thought they would for me.

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<v Speaker 2>But I didn't take it personal because I knew what

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<v Speaker 2>was going on in their own life, right, And it's

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<v Speaker 2>hard sometimes to be happy for someone when your shit

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<v Speaker 2>fucked up, you know, as happy as you would like

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<v Speaker 2>to be, I don't know, and I wouldn't take it personal.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't take it personal.

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<v Speaker 1>You sure, bitch, you sure you ain't take it personal.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I didn't take it personal. I mean I saw

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<v Speaker 2>it it did you know? It didn't feel good because

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<v Speaker 2>I want the people I love most to be like

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<v Speaker 2>celebrate my wins, you know. But I had to like

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<v Speaker 2>take a step back and look like, well, she got

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<v Speaker 2>this going on, and this going on, and this's going

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<v Speaker 2>on right now. I can't expect her to be outside

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<v Speaker 2>doing cartwheels for me right now, right, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>But see that's where like doing cartwheels, that's how you

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<v Speaker 1>receive your blessings, right, doing cartwheels when somebody else is

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<v Speaker 1>doing well, Well, give you like that if you need

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<v Speaker 1>to push forward to me.

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<v Speaker 2>For me, Yeah, but only if the cartwheels are real.

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<v Speaker 2>If you faking them, then you just gonna probably feel worse.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm saying. Like I wouldn't be faking the cartwheels.

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<v Speaker 1>They would be genuine cart wheels because my people's is winning,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm next in line, would be my thought process.

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<v Speaker 1>It would never be like I'm going to be in

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<v Speaker 1>this downstate.

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<v Speaker 2>Right. Everybody don't think like that, you know, when when

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<v Speaker 2>they're in the thick of their valley, it's hard. Sometimes

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<v Speaker 2>it's hard to see this sun. Like, so I get

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<v Speaker 2>people grace with that, because some people like this totally

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<v Speaker 2>would totally discard a person for not she haters, she ain't.

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<v Speaker 1>Show up, she don't like my posts. That's another one.

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<v Speaker 1>People be like, you don't like my posts, like maybe

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't even see it. Maybe it didn't even come

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<v Speaker 1>on my time. Your ship hardy comes up on my

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<v Speaker 1>timeline right or even like you know what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>like at the top, like story stuff, your thing don't

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<v Speaker 1>be first. Yeah, so sometimes you miss people's things.

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<v Speaker 2>I rarely see yours, and I just assume that you

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<v Speaker 2>don't be posting.

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<v Speaker 1>I posted my story every day almost some days I like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even see it, but it won't be like

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<v Speaker 1>a whole I used to post a lot of shit

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<v Speaker 1>on my story. It's not as much as it used

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<v Speaker 1>to be, but yeah, I post something something.

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<v Speaker 2>On it in each other the algorithm. Maybe because I

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<v Speaker 2>don't follow you this.

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<v Speaker 1>Exactly, bitch. We fell out. We fell out real life

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<v Speaker 1>and on the internet.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>Protecting friendships, Sometimes people unfollow real life friends to preserve

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<v Speaker 1>the friendship that ain't what happened to. If a friend

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<v Speaker 1>constantly posts advice of annoying or controversial content that may

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<v Speaker 1>lead to conflicts or resentment, unfalling conserve as a way

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<v Speaker 1>to maintain harmony. By creating distance online, a person avoids

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<v Speaker 1>unnecessary tension, ensuring that in person relationship isn't negatively affected.

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<v Speaker 1>That's weird. Like, I'm following on social media and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna still go out to lunch with you. No, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>as much as people like don't want to admit it,

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<v Speaker 1>this is our lives now. Social media is a part

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<v Speaker 1>of our life.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I know couples that don't follow each other on

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<v Speaker 2>social media for that same reason, though.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's different though couples versus like friendships. No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not, I think, girl, I'm not sucking your dead girl.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't have no dig to un I don't want

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<v Speaker 2>you to see what other negative I might be talking

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<v Speaker 2>to on Instagram. I have a friend on social media

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<v Speaker 2>who is one of my real friends. He's a guy,

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<v Speaker 2>but his the stuff that he sends me pisses me

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<v Speaker 2>the fuck off, Like, and I have to say, don't

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<v Speaker 2>send me.

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<v Speaker 1>Are we the same? Is it the same? Friend.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Okay, the content he sends me and it just

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<v Speaker 2>irks me, it gives me an it. I don't like it,

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<v Speaker 2>but I love him, so I have to tell him

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<v Speaker 2>I haven't unfollowed him.

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<v Speaker 1>But even if you unfollow, he'll stow you send you

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<v Speaker 1>those things. You'd have to block him to not receive

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<v Speaker 1>those things, and he'll probably take them to you at

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<v Speaker 1>that point. Right, if that nigga is a nut job,

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<v Speaker 1>shout out to that nigga.

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<v Speaker 2>Hell love him to death. But the content he shares

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<v Speaker 2>does get on my fucking up, So I understand what

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<v Speaker 2>they're saying. Like, to create healthy boundaries in the friendship,

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<v Speaker 2>sometimes you gotta do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm not gonna go through all of these, but

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<v Speaker 1>I do want to hit this one. This last one.

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<v Speaker 1>Different social media personalities. This is weird to me. It

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<v Speaker 1>says many people behave differently on social media than they

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<v Speaker 1>do in real life. A friend may post in a

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<v Speaker 1>way that feels inauthentic, excessive, or self centered, which could

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<v Speaker 1>clash with how they act face to face. Unfallen can

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<v Speaker 1>be a way of acknowledging that the online version of

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<v Speaker 1>a friend isn't someone you enjoy engaging. Engaging with even

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<v Speaker 1>though the in person version is someone you care about. See,

1:17:28.560 --> 1:17:32.599
<v Speaker 1>I'm the same person like online the in real life

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<v Speaker 1>me too.

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<v Speaker 2>You get what you get. But I know people like that, well.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, like who the fuck are you? Like, I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>realize you had mental health issues and so on social media?

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<v Speaker 2>Right, but you know what people deal everybody dealing with something.

1:17:45.720 --> 1:17:48.400
<v Speaker 2>That's the thing. I know somebody likes so judging of

1:17:48.439 --> 1:17:51.679
<v Speaker 2>people on social media and just be running people down

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<v Speaker 2>and tearing it like they just.

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<v Speaker 1>Meaning, somebody just sent me that person's screenshot, a screenshot

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<v Speaker 1>from that person's page and was like, look at your friend,

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<v Speaker 1>like that isn't not my fucking friend. Know exactly who

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<v Speaker 1>you're talking about.

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<v Speaker 2>But in person, they'll give you the shirt off their back,

1:18:06.560 --> 1:18:08.680
<v Speaker 2>you know, like they're that person is just like a

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<v Speaker 2>doctor Jeko mister Hyde thing, and.

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<v Speaker 1>That needs to be studied because so is that like

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<v Speaker 1>really people already in the matrix like there being someone

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<v Speaker 1>else like that's their surrogate online that strangers get to meet. Meanwhile,

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<v Speaker 1>they just somebody totally different in person.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I've seen it more than once. Then I also

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<v Speaker 2>know another girl who like her house is so filthy, right,

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<v Speaker 2>But she got a clean spot in there, and that's

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<v Speaker 2>what shit brouh cleaning shit up bruh yo. You would

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<v Speaker 2>never know.

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<v Speaker 1>So you really consciously choosing to be nasty, because if

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<v Speaker 1>your internet life is cleaner than your real life, that

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<v Speaker 1>is wild.

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<v Speaker 2>You just find a clean spot in post.

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<v Speaker 1>Because I'm a bit you'd be studying the background, like, oh,

1:19:06.160 --> 1:19:10.040
<v Speaker 1>I see that, Like why your cabinet a toilet back there?

1:19:12.360 --> 1:19:15.880
<v Speaker 1>Let a niggaposted a selfie in a bathroom. Who pink toothbrush?

1:19:16.000 --> 1:19:20.920
<v Speaker 1>Is that nigga? That toothbrush look old too? You don't

1:19:20.920 --> 1:19:23.240
<v Speaker 1>supposed to change that shit every two three months, Like

1:19:26.680 --> 1:19:35.479
<v Speaker 1>bristles are chewed up, so good shame. So I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>People are weird. We're living in a were living in

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<v Speaker 1>real weird times. And I guess whatever you think you

1:19:50.080 --> 1:19:55.360
<v Speaker 1>need to do to cater to your your best mental health.

1:19:56.600 --> 1:20:02.200
<v Speaker 1>But I think some of these things are actually mental

1:20:02.200 --> 1:20:07.320
<v Speaker 1>health issues, you know what I'm saying, Like like some

1:20:07.439 --> 1:20:09.840
<v Speaker 1>of the projection, like you feel in a way about

1:20:09.840 --> 1:20:14.200
<v Speaker 1>somebody they don't even know, right, they don't even know,

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<v Speaker 1>So unfollowing them isn't remedying the problem that you actually have.

1:20:18.840 --> 1:20:22.439
<v Speaker 1>Your problem is comparison, right, how do you get out

1:20:22.479 --> 1:20:23.280
<v Speaker 1>of that state.

1:20:25.720 --> 1:20:27.679
<v Speaker 2>When you Yeah, I'm gonna do it, though, I will

1:20:27.760 --> 1:20:33.719
<v Speaker 2>mute you if I feel like even a twinge of

1:20:33.800 --> 1:20:38.080
<v Speaker 2>some jealousy or hate trying to like exist in my spirit,

1:20:38.240 --> 1:20:40.120
<v Speaker 2>I will mute because I don't want that for me,

1:20:40.680 --> 1:20:42.040
<v Speaker 2>and I don't want that for you.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, so a lot of but that's what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>like people have to explore and I'm not. Maybe I

1:20:47.640 --> 1:20:50.719
<v Speaker 1>don't know it's hate a natural because it's not nat.

1:20:50.680 --> 1:20:54.559
<v Speaker 2>Jealousy and hate, yeah, but they are natural emotions. They

1:20:54.600 --> 1:20:58.920
<v Speaker 2>are normal emotions. You know, it happens, you know, it does,

1:20:59.520 --> 1:21:02.800
<v Speaker 2>and that's so the thing you cannot envy. I think

1:21:03.040 --> 1:21:09.839
<v Speaker 2>sometimes envy has a dark something behind it, Yeah, because

1:21:09.880 --> 1:21:12.800
<v Speaker 2>when you I think, when you envy somebody, it's like

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<v Speaker 2>why do they have this? They shouldn't have it and

1:21:16.320 --> 1:21:20.400
<v Speaker 2>I should, you know. But if you're jealous, I think

1:21:20.439 --> 1:21:23.360
<v Speaker 2>that's natural, Like you can be jealous or something because

1:21:23.400 --> 1:21:26.320
<v Speaker 2>you it's something that you want also for your life

1:21:26.439 --> 1:21:28.599
<v Speaker 2>and this person has it, you know, and not saying

1:21:28.600 --> 1:21:32.040
<v Speaker 2>that they shouldn't have it too. H It's I don't know,

1:21:32.080 --> 1:21:32.559
<v Speaker 2>I don't.

1:21:32.479 --> 1:21:34.920
<v Speaker 1>Mean it's too close like it's too close for me.

1:21:35.040 --> 1:21:37.720
<v Speaker 1>So I just I feel good when people are doing good.

1:21:37.760 --> 1:21:40.080
<v Speaker 1>And I also know this is social media. You don't

1:21:40.120 --> 1:21:42.200
<v Speaker 1>know what the fuck is going on that person's real life,

1:21:43.880 --> 1:21:47.679
<v Speaker 1>you see. Yeah, so I'm gonna be You've You've conjured

1:21:47.720 --> 1:21:50.240
<v Speaker 1>up these feelings and emotions about some ship that's probably

1:21:50.280 --> 1:21:50.920
<v Speaker 1>not even real.

1:21:51.439 --> 1:21:53.320
<v Speaker 2>They're probably jealous.

1:21:53.439 --> 1:21:55.360
<v Speaker 1>I just told you who I'm jealous of. I hate

1:21:55.360 --> 1:21:58.000
<v Speaker 1>to see a nigga brokerage account balance because that is

1:21:58.040 --> 1:22:02.080
<v Speaker 1>something I'm very out. Other than that, I don't care.

1:22:03.520 --> 1:22:05.120
<v Speaker 2>I was just jealous of one of my friends. But

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<v Speaker 2>I told her to her face, I'm jealous. I want to.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want no burking and not they don't look nice.

1:22:13.680 --> 1:22:18.679
<v Speaker 1>It's a social a status of a particular like social status, right.

1:22:18.560 --> 1:22:23.439
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, like bitch, ain't got your whole month ring, your.

1:22:23.320 --> 1:22:28.639
<v Speaker 1>Whole month ring? No, no that we'th thirty five forty

1:22:28.680 --> 1:22:30.479
<v Speaker 1>thousand dollars, bitch my rent.

1:22:30.360 --> 1:22:34.320
<v Speaker 2>Your whole thousand, I mean your whole salary for the

1:22:34.439 --> 1:22:35.320
<v Speaker 2>year on my ring?

1:22:36.080 --> 1:22:36.960
<v Speaker 1>Is it a real burking?

1:22:37.040 --> 1:22:37.240
<v Speaker 3>Though?

1:22:38.080 --> 1:22:43.680
<v Speaker 2>It is jealous? I don't know to this day, if

1:22:43.680 --> 1:22:45.320
<v Speaker 2>you're listening, bitch to this day.

1:22:47.800 --> 1:22:50.519
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm not real materialistic like that. So like the

1:22:50.560 --> 1:22:53.000
<v Speaker 1>burking way make me feel no type of way. Now

1:22:53.160 --> 1:22:55.519
<v Speaker 1>I've seen a bitch hopping on planes and traveling every

1:22:55.520 --> 1:22:57.559
<v Speaker 1>which you weigh like that, I'd be like, damn, man,

1:22:58.600 --> 1:23:00.760
<v Speaker 1>I gotta get my stamps up up you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, I love that.

1:23:02.280 --> 1:23:03.960
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I want to see the world and ship like that.

1:23:04.000 --> 1:23:06.679
<v Speaker 1>I want to hop on uh you know, I don't

1:23:06.680 --> 1:23:08.479
<v Speaker 1>been on plenty yachts. I want to get on some

1:23:08.479 --> 1:23:11.360
<v Speaker 1>more or just more frequent. I want to do things

1:23:11.400 --> 1:23:14.680
<v Speaker 1>more frequently. Yes, but I also know bitches be going

1:23:14.680 --> 1:23:17.200
<v Speaker 1>to the airport just to take pictures on those planes

1:23:18.040 --> 1:23:20.639
<v Speaker 1>on a private plane, not really ever taking out.

1:23:20.800 --> 1:23:22.439
<v Speaker 2>I want real I want real life ship.

1:23:22.479 --> 1:23:25.360
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to And a lot of people spend

1:23:25.360 --> 1:23:27.679
<v Speaker 1>a lot of money to look like things on social media.

1:23:28.760 --> 1:23:29.599
<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, they say.

1:23:29.640 --> 1:23:32.479
<v Speaker 2>I have a one of my clients has a plane

1:23:32.560 --> 1:23:35.559
<v Speaker 2>and she makes a lot of money just renting it

1:23:35.640 --> 1:23:36.280
<v Speaker 2>for pictures.

1:23:36.600 --> 1:23:40.519
<v Speaker 1>That's weird, Like that's really faking it until you make it.

1:23:41.439 --> 1:23:42.320
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to do that.

1:23:43.600 --> 1:23:47.519
<v Speaker 2>I'm my pictures would look so sad, like why are

1:23:47.560 --> 1:23:48.080
<v Speaker 2>you crying?

1:23:48.439 --> 1:23:49.000
<v Speaker 1>Because I.

1:23:53.200 --> 1:23:53.559
<v Speaker 2>Don't know.

1:23:53.600 --> 1:23:55.160
<v Speaker 1>But that's what we had in that man you got

1:23:55.160 --> 1:23:59.400
<v Speaker 1>to get you got to get your social up when

1:23:59.479 --> 1:24:02.240
<v Speaker 1>elsee guy, Yeah yeah, you you sent me two other

1:24:02.360 --> 1:24:04.599
<v Speaker 1>damn things. You ain't talk about none of them things.

1:24:04.640 --> 1:24:06.840
<v Speaker 2>Oh we already had an hour and we did thirty

1:24:06.840 --> 1:24:07.599
<v Speaker 2>minutes of seeing.

1:24:07.680 --> 1:24:12.040
<v Speaker 1>All right, anyway, block that bitch if you need to,

1:24:12.560 --> 1:24:16.040
<v Speaker 1>excuse me, block that woman if you need to. This

1:24:16.120 --> 1:24:19.720
<v Speaker 1>is my last last. Block whoever you need to unfollow

1:24:20.240 --> 1:24:22.719
<v Speaker 1>who you need to, but make sure it is not projection.

1:24:24.680 --> 1:24:27.320
<v Speaker 1>I don't know how you want to check that, but

1:24:27.479 --> 1:24:30.200
<v Speaker 1>make sure you're not doing it from a place.

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<v Speaker 2>Of like alice.

1:24:32.960 --> 1:24:36.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, I agree, Yeah, because then that you need

1:24:36.160 --> 1:24:39.080
<v Speaker 1>you're not going to remedy the issue by unfollowing this person.

1:24:39.080 --> 1:24:41.200
<v Speaker 1>They're actually not the problem.

1:24:41.760 --> 1:24:46.800
<v Speaker 2>So yeah, my last last don't have nothing to do

1:24:46.840 --> 1:24:49.760
<v Speaker 2>with the topic. It's just gonna be just be good

1:24:49.800 --> 1:24:53.200
<v Speaker 2>and kind to each other and kind to yourself. Boom,

1:24:53.240 --> 1:24:53.639
<v Speaker 2>that's it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah man, yeah man. Don't unfollow us though, as a

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<v Speaker 1>matter of fact, follow us. We need more of y'all

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<v Speaker 1>That is free. Can we get our social digital currency please,

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<v Speaker 1>it's free.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. We're gonna start posting more clips. Actually we're gonna

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<v Speaker 2>post one in just a moment with me and my boots. Yeah,

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