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Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back podcast, the production of iHeart

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Speaker 1: Radio and the Black Effect Network Talk Talk Talk.

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Speaker 2: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who

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Speaker 2: talks back.

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Speaker 1: What's up y'all? Thank you for tuning in for a

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Speaker 1: new episode that We Talk Back, the show dedicated to

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Speaker 1: your dreamers and chases niggas and hosts what's up, Tam Bam.

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Speaker 1: It's your co host aj Holiday.

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Speaker 2: Hey, y'all, I love y'all.

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Speaker 1: That's what y'all. Niggas need, y'all. Mom, they love you.

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Speaker 1: She love Y'allam.

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Speaker 2: I'm so happy when people who listen on the show

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Speaker 2: d m me and be like, hey, Tam Bam, I

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Speaker 2: just want to tell you I love you, to thank you.

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Speaker 1: But the minute you do is say some ship they

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Speaker 1: don't like. Let's see y'all quick. They hate you, y'all

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Speaker 1: hating me day one? Fuck it that way, you can't

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Speaker 1: see I changed. Always been an abusive relationship.

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Speaker 2: How was your weekend? It was cool?

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Speaker 1: I do much and nothing. Rode my bike this week weekend.

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Speaker 1: I did eat a lot on Saturday, so I felt

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Speaker 1: really guilty on Sunday. Just a whole bunch of shit,

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Speaker 1: Like I just kept frying stuff like plantons and oyster

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Speaker 1: mushrooms and fry shrimp. I just was cooking everything I

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Speaker 1: had in the damn refrigerator as far as I'm the

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Speaker 1: service and now here it is today, and I'm like, man,

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Speaker 1: that shit over with, all that fat shit over with y'all.

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Speaker 2: Yeah for me too. I started a detox yesterday.

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Speaker 1: Like I juiced yesterday.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. It's just such an uphill battle, you know, it

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Speaker 2: really is.

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Speaker 1: So I thought that the juice I was buying from

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Speaker 1: Whole Foods was expensive because it was eleven ninety nine,

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Speaker 1: but so I bought all excuse, it's really not, though,

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Speaker 1: because I bought so this juice has mango, grapes, apples, ginger,

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Speaker 1: and pineapple in it. So I bought all those individual fruits,

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Speaker 1: spent twenty five dollars on them, and I saved the

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Speaker 1: bottle from Whole Foods for my last juice that I

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Speaker 1: bought from them. One side juiced maybe like thirty grapes,

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Speaker 1: the whole pineapple, six apples, some ginger, and a mango.

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Speaker 1: It equal that bottle plus maybe this little bit I

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Speaker 1: got in a jar. So really it costs more for

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Speaker 1: me to juice myself. I probably get more juice though,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, because I'm pretty sure they

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Speaker 1: got some purified water some bullshit in theirs. But man,

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Speaker 1: it's expensive to eat healthy.

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Speaker 2: It's so expensive to eat healthy.

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Speaker 1: And time consuming to juice.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I said, I want to start juicing. But I

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Speaker 2: love juicing. We'll see. I want like juice watermelons, that's

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Speaker 2: what I want.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I love It's hard to find a good watermelon, man,

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Speaker 1: And I'll go to the flea market on the weekends.

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Speaker 1: Like I had got too sour ass watermelons one weekend

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Speaker 1: and I had a flea market, yes, because they had

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Speaker 1: the seated one usually looking Mexicans be having an old

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Speaker 1: ass fruit. Man. Oh that's should be moldy as fuck

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Speaker 1: out there. I was like, okay, now.

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Speaker 2: Y'all showing up. Yes, come on, man, what did I

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Speaker 2: do this weekend? Oh? Nothing? I only got one foot,

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Speaker 2: so I can't do ship.

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Speaker 1: Get on your good foot, bitch.

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Speaker 2: I started watching the show with Nisi Nash. It's called

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Speaker 2: grotesquea y It's it's like a who Done It? A

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Speaker 2: thriller with like a sadistic serial killer.

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Speaker 1: Is sheer killer?

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Speaker 2: No, she's the detective? Okay, Yeah, so I support Nisi

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Speaker 2: nash Uh. There's another actress in the show. She was

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Speaker 2: on Being Mary Jane. She played the nise on Being

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Speaker 2: Mary Jane that kept getting pregnant. I can't. I don't

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Speaker 2: know her name. I'm sorry. She's too and they have

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Speaker 2: her playing like this character who is you know, obese,

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Speaker 2: and she has like a food addiction, so it's interesting

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Speaker 2: to see. And she has picked up a considerable amount

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Speaker 2: of weight. I don't know if they use AI to

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Speaker 2: make her look bigger or she got bigger for the show,

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Speaker 2: but ooh, that's part of the series. And I don't know,

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Speaker 2: like which I.

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Speaker 1: Can find a job for gaining weight? Sh no, because.

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Speaker 2: It's not healthy.

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Speaker 1: It is, but like, just say you did gain weight,

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Speaker 1: she could still work, like she was able to find

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Speaker 1: a job right gaining weight.

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Speaker 2: So y'all watch the tescary if you like, like the

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Speaker 2: who Done It? Yeah, so it's kind of scary, though

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Speaker 2: I ain't gonna hold you.

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Speaker 1: Do you watch true crime stuff?

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Speaker 2: I watch it here when I'm at my mom's because

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Speaker 2: they watch it.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 2: My sister works in that industry, so she's very entertained

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Speaker 2: by this shit. But I think it's weird. To be watching.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I just I remember there was a point in

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Speaker 1: my life, like in my twenties, like I would be

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Speaker 1: watching that shit. First of all, I haven't had cable

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Speaker 1: for real since two thousand and five, so that's probably

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Speaker 1: when it ended. But it's just weird that true crime

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Speaker 1: is like a genre in America, like for entertainment. Like,

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Speaker 1: it's weird to me. And it's a lot of women

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Speaker 1: that watch that.

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Speaker 2: Shit and go to sleep watching it.

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Speaker 1: Yes, all of that is like in your psyche and

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Speaker 1: your subconscious mind programming while you sleeping, you wake up

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Speaker 1: to a bitch screaming or deep voices talking like that.

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Speaker 1: That's weird to me, Like that's.

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Speaker 2: A I used to watch First forty eight back when

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Speaker 2: it was new. Yeah, I mean, I guess that's a

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Speaker 2: true crime show. But no, that doesn't. I never like

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Speaker 2: turn that on my mother. Wait, she makes me want

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Speaker 2: to throw her TV out the window. I swear every day,

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Speaker 2: turn on Steve Harvey that fucking Family Few. She loves

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Speaker 2: some fucking Family Few. Girl.

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Speaker 1: My mom would be watching them in those Korean movies

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Speaker 1: all day long for the last two years. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: did don't you find it? I don't know it's like

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Speaker 1: they've taken over her mind. And you know, those series

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Speaker 1: be like twenty five thirty episodes. She will watch them,

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Speaker 1: and then because it's not in English, right, she don't

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Speaker 1: like like they let the English come over, so she'll

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Speaker 1: watch it in the original language and the captions. But

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Speaker 1: she can't read fast, so she's literally positive all day long.

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Speaker 1: So it take her like a week to watch some

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Speaker 1: shit like like you positive and rewinding it to see

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Speaker 2: Like what, I'm not a big fan of movies where

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Speaker 2: there's no English and I have to watch the subtitles,

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Speaker 2: and I especially don't like a show where it's a

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Speaker 2: I'll turn it off, Y'll hang it up.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to watch shame. Well, let's get into

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Speaker 1: stupid internet news, y'all. We're gonna start with Man, I

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Speaker 1: love Whitney Houston so so much. She's my all time

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Speaker 1: to sing really well, okay and tell my sister cursed me,

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Speaker 1: but I used to always the former fucking Whitney Houston song.

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Speaker 1: But Sissy passed away yesterday, her mom at ninety one

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Speaker 2: She was a long life.

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Speaker 1: Man. I don't feel sad. People be like, man, we

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Speaker 1: lost another one. Like, I don't feel like it's a loss.

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Speaker 1: When someone lives a full life like that. You know,

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Speaker 1: I'm probably gonna get the fuck up out of here,

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Speaker 1: like ninety five, between ninety five and one hundred and five,

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Speaker 1: So I'm gonna live a long, full life too. So

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Speaker 1: I'm always excited when people live like good, long lives,

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Speaker 1: like that's a that's not a loss for real.

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Speaker 2: I just I love the fact that the three of

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Speaker 2: them are back together, Cissy Whitney and the baby. What's

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Speaker 2: the baby's name? Bobby, Baby Bobby?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know her husband up there with him with

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Speaker 1: them too now thrown no Bobby, the little girls. Oh

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Speaker 1: yeah yeah, maybe he passed away as well.

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Speaker 2: But you know what, it's more people gone than it

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Speaker 2: is here. Just remember that, you know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, niggas dying every day. Be listen what weirded me

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Speaker 1: out last night?

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Speaker 2: Y'all?

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Speaker 1: I have what's these niggas podcasts? Hold on, let me

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Speaker 1: tell you all right quick, because I'm like, yo, people

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Speaker 1: are we depressed? That's all I could think? You are

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Speaker 1: these guys podcasts? It says Shadow Bunny Scorpio. I don't

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Speaker 1: know if that's their podcast. Who the fuck? Oh maybe

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Speaker 1: some random person posted this. I don't know the guy's podcast.

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Speaker 1: I've seen them before in line, but they was having

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Speaker 1: a conversation. The guy was like, what's the what's one

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Speaker 1: thing you're going to be happy that's over when the

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Speaker 1: world starts to like end, and one of the whole

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Speaker 1: says living like they're gonna be glad to get the

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Speaker 1: fuck up out of here, and people in the comments

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Speaker 1: like agreeing it was weird to me, and I commented,

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Speaker 1: I was like, am I the only warrior?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 1: Am I the only one that's gonna fight to the

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Speaker 1: end because the bitch like me gonna always live to

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Speaker 1: tell the story.

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Speaker 2: So I'm like going here easy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like it's like it's almost like you might as

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Speaker 1: well die today, you know what I'm saying, because I'm

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Speaker 1: going out guns ablazing whatever's going on?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, me too. I don't know what that ideology is,

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Speaker 2: but maybe people are depressed and they're not happy here,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And that's that, And that's what I kind of

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Speaker 1: want people to recognize, Like never mind waiting until the

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Speaker 1: world ends. Are you happy being alive right now? Because

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Speaker 1: based on these comments, our generation is highly depressed.

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Speaker 2: M h.

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Speaker 1: The first person that responded back to me was like, yes, baby,

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Speaker 1: telling we was here, type of telling we was here

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Speaker 1: for me, Like y'all ready to go? And I said,

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Speaker 1: you know what, y'all the motherfuckers that would hide a

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Speaker 1: zombie bite. Yeah, y'all are motherfuckers that'll be amongst a

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Speaker 1: group of us trying to survive, and you do did

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Speaker 1: some dumb shit, got bit and you just stole walking

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Speaker 1: and hanging out with us like you regular waiting to

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Speaker 1: turn go jump off a bridge. Okay. Somebody was like, yeah, girl,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna fight it. We're gonna build a memorial for

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Speaker 1: the following ones. I said, I'm not building naw memorial

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Speaker 1: for no nigga that gave up Burnham for real, Like

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Speaker 1: why would you give you on life?

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Speaker 2: Listen, you gotta have compassion for people. Everybody ain't as

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Speaker 2: strong as you. Everybody is not you. Everybody can't handle

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Speaker 2: adversity the same way you do.

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Speaker 1: But imagine a whole comment section like that, So that

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Speaker 1: means won me and like a few old sprinkling so

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Speaker 1: all y'all depressed and ready to go today. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: know you said worlds and you was just gonna start

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Speaker 1: sniffing coke.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm gonna do some whoa, you know, but I

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Speaker 2: ain't going out without a fight. But my fight gonna

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Speaker 2: be highest school.

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Speaker 1: How to you wait to apocalyst to get an opioid addiction?

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Speaker 2: Right, I'm high as hell and I'm gonna fuck without

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Speaker 2: a condo.

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Speaker 1: And I guess ibody living like the end of the

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Speaker 1: world because babe, I don't call no mother baby bitch.

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Speaker 1: Fire and nobody can't wash like that, Like you really

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because there was a washing.

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Speaker 1: Niggas had the same clothes like every fucking day, bitch.

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Speaker 2: The fact that you worried about wigs during the zombie

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Speaker 2: I'm when the zombies come, I'm gonna have two corn

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Speaker 1: Now underneath this week. Yeah, next girl, you.

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Speaker 2: Know you will run out. You know what?

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Speaker 1: Did he mama?

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Speaker 2: Jide? Oh? Did hey? Mom speaks out. So Diddy's mom

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Speaker 2: all the allegations in his adictment. Jenis kOhm spoke out

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Speaker 2: her attorney, expressing her devastation over the allegations against her son,

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Speaker 2: saying he was judged by the truth. He was judged

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Speaker 2: too unbearable to put into words. Okay, Mortician, listen what

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Speaker 2: you call her mortician girl?

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Speaker 1: Because I remember seeing a statement of what her saying, like,

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Speaker 1: She had that monster Adam's family. Absolutely, Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: you could not tell Mortitia her baby wasn't beautiful.

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Speaker 2: But listen, here's the thing, what mother it could be

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Speaker 2: his nickname, and he don't kill a bunch of people.

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Speaker 2: And the mom is still gonna be like, that's my baby.

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Speaker 2: I love him. He's not the monster that because a

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Speaker 2: mother's love is just you know, is it a different thing.

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Speaker 2: So I don't knock her for supporting her baby. That's

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Speaker 2: what mothers do. That's just what mothers do.

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Speaker 1: Have y'all seen that movie The Good Son, You remember

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Speaker 1: that movie. It was like the these people's biological son, right.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she dropped her son over the clifs exactly.

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Speaker 1: So that would be me right, knowing I have this

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Speaker 1: us at this point, even the son we adopted, he's

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Speaker 2: I would hope that God would bless me to know

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Speaker 2: it's a bond that's just hard to break mentally. It's

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Speaker 1: You made your child the way they are. You know.

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Speaker 1: That's something also because you know a lot of people

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Speaker 1: they have like some crazy like Oedipis type shit going on.

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Speaker 1: But you know a lot of moms enable their children

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Speaker 2: Oh, anytime I see like a very fucked up line lineage,

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Speaker 1: Exactly like we literally wear the fruit, they we bury

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Speaker 1: that fruit. So I mean listen.

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Speaker 2: Ooh ooh, which makes me y'all. You know, I love

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Speaker 2: reading me a good book. That's what I did. I

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Speaker 2: read this book in like three days. It's called The

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Speaker 2: The Housemaid. If y'all are reader, and y'all like a

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Speaker 2: who done it? Read The Housemaid? It is so good

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Speaker 2: and it's definitely like you know about the mom. You

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Speaker 2: know who's the mom and what they do for the family.

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Speaker 2: So read that, y'allah.

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Speaker 1: Like like I said, our mothers are definitely our gods

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Speaker 1: in a way, you know what I'm saying. They literally

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Speaker 1: give us life. So when you looking at like how

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Speaker 1: were raised. You have to, like you can't. But the

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Speaker 1: how this attorney has now essentially put like a class

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Speaker 1: has and over twelve thousand people have now called into

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Speaker 1: this hotlines and that they were violated by Diddy. How

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Speaker 1: my nigga, Like now it's almost going to get to

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Speaker 1: the point. And this is to me, I wouldn't be

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Speaker 1: surprised if this, if this, if this attorney right, who's

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Speaker 1: the weird part is like, once you get twelve thousand

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Speaker 1: of them is a lot, right. That kind of discredits

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Speaker 1: the people who actually have legitimate lawsuits against Ditty, so

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Speaker 1: he can kind of use this in his favor, like

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Speaker 1: the wire exactly, these people are inspiring against me because

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Speaker 1: if I was his attorney, bitch, that would be the

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Speaker 1: route I would be going. This is all of which Hunt,

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Speaker 1: This is all some bullshit, So I don't know. It's

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Speaker 1: just weird, Like y'all create a hotline. Did y'all do

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Speaker 1: that for Harry Wysee? No, I'm signing like niggas now,

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Speaker 1: you know niggas be like, oh, they always bring the

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Speaker 1: black man down. But for real, man, this is a

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Speaker 1: bit much. That's a bit much. So I don't know.

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Speaker 2: It's a lot twelve thousand people. He ain't had that

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Speaker 2: many parties, right, Like, God, you haven't baby off of

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Speaker 2: all of them people.

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Speaker 1: Fly one of my I don't know that. I do

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Speaker 1: want to fuck on a bloud mattress with a bunch

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Speaker 1: of oil. It's just one of my things I want

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Speaker 2: What is that? What that's for? I still want to know, Like,

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Speaker 2: can somebody please tell me what they gotta.

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Speaker 1: Be for a slipping slide party? Gotta be for slipping

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Speaker 1: slide party? Like why else? First of all, that's like

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Speaker 1: coconut oil would be the better option for lubrication. So

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Speaker 1: I don't know what you're doing with all this fucking

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Speaker 1: baby oil, all that petroleum. That's a lot sounds like

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Speaker 1: BV to me. You need to use some coconut oil.

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Speaker 1: And it's just weird how they put that particular point

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Speaker 2: I could you not put that point in the media though,

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Speaker 2: But that's.

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Speaker 1: Why it's so unseerious, you know. That makes it so

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Speaker 1: unseerious to me.

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Speaker 2: But there's no children involved, So what is really like?

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Speaker 1: I mean, they're saying there's children. There's now people saying

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Speaker 1: like that. There's adults now saying that, yeah, did he

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Speaker 1: top of them off, Like for real, that's happening, yes,

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Speaker 1: So I just it's just it's just too weird. It's

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Speaker 1: getting real weird. So I don't know, good luck to Diddy. Man,

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Speaker 1: I still can't like condemn people. That's not for me

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Speaker 1: to do. Karma always come back a line to get

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Speaker 2: It's a publicly like I'm people. I just can't, you know,

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Speaker 2: with the Cassie thing. I because you know, I have

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Speaker 2: loved Diddy forever. You know, I used to say I

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Speaker 2: want to be on his boat. You know, I want

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Speaker 2: to go on the boat. But God protect babies and fools,

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Speaker 2: so I ain't never make it on there. But I

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Speaker 2: mean what we saw him do to Cassie definitely hurt

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Speaker 2: my feelings to see that happens. So I'm not like

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Speaker 2: really like good luck to Diddy because he did some

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Speaker 2: very agregious shit. Absolutely yeah, but I will say, like.

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Speaker 1: We know, the luck ain't gonna be good. So it's

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Speaker 1: not like I'm like, oh I hope he gets off.

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Speaker 1: Hell no, like Nigga good luck. That's really like sarcasm.

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Speaker 1: But I'm still not gonna be the person that says, oh,

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Speaker 1: publicly like, I don't want to. I'm never gonna be

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, because even though I lest some shit

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Speaker 2: that would be the only way I have a stone

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Speaker 2: to cast. Well.

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Speaker 1: See, I'm different in that way too, because when it

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Speaker 1: So I I never feel like I'm exempt from any

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Speaker 2: Everybody got some balls. If this ship out of me

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Speaker 2: and you knew, you wouldn't publicly condemn him, No, absolutely, Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Ah yeah, I probably wouldn't because I want to be

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Speaker 1: I don't want nobody to ever tie me to your disappearance,

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Speaker 1: So I probably wouldn't be as public about it if

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Speaker 1: I plan actually doing something today. Fucking ass, you know

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying. It's a little different. I don't know next.

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Speaker 1: Tim Moury, Okay, Tim Murray has her new reality TV show,

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Speaker 1: and she said she lost the virginity to her husband

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Speaker 2: Oh m, she's a good woman, Savannah five, that's it.

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Speaker 1: And that's the only man she's ever known. So he

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Speaker 1: was her first ever thing. Is what he what she said?

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Speaker 1: I can see her now wanting to live with Baybe.

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Speaker 1: It ain't nothing outside, girl, Go explore a little bit,

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Speaker 2: Right or they'll have each other back, you know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like see if y'all can work ship out, because

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Speaker 1: maybe he'll be understanding that you you never actually lived,

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Speaker 1: because niggas be living, Okay. I don't see him ever

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Speaker 2: I wish I had my virginity to my husband. That

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Speaker 1: You know, a lot of women ain't gonna admit to that,

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Speaker 1: But girl, by, you know you can wish you can

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Speaker 1: wedther day. Okay, yeah, get rejuvenation. I mean that's kind

434
00:22:56,920 --> 00:23:00,960
Speaker 1: of kind of new, Yeah for my wedding day. Kind

435
00:23:00,960 --> 00:23:03,880
Speaker 1: of kind of knew a little bit. I don't know. Yeah,

436
00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:07,520
Speaker 1: I wish I could literally, I mean, I do delete people.

437
00:23:08,240 --> 00:23:11,480
Speaker 1: You know, if I ain't coming, don't count, So it

438
00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:14,359
Speaker 1: do count. That should do not count, bitch, especially if

439
00:23:14,359 --> 00:23:18,240
Speaker 1: they ran to die too. What happened.

440
00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:26,040
Speaker 2: Never happened. That's mean as fun.

441
00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:28,240
Speaker 1: But y'all knew that.

442
00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:33,640
Speaker 2: But knew that, But y'all knew I was mean.

443
00:23:35,200 --> 00:23:41,000
Speaker 1: See that's what I'm saying. Never change change, So y'all,

444
00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:44,360
Speaker 1: this one last story is let me know what y'all doing.

445
00:23:44,480 --> 00:23:48,199
Speaker 1: So woman says her truck driver husband was missing for

446
00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:51,920
Speaker 1: two days. She filed a police support and he suddenly

447
00:23:51,960 --> 00:23:57,199
Speaker 1: appears and apologizes on Facebook. Baby, I'm sorry, that's what

448
00:23:58,600 --> 00:23:59,400
Speaker 1: he had to say.

449
00:23:59,440 --> 00:24:00,320
Speaker 2: It was a long like.

450
00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:02,080
Speaker 1: Little let me pull it up right quick, hold on.

451
00:24:03,359 --> 00:24:06,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, because he made a statement because people were like, uh,

452
00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:10,880
Speaker 2: coming for her, and he made a statement in support

453
00:24:10,920 --> 00:24:13,040
Speaker 2: of her. But bitch, where the fuck were you at?

454
00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:13,960
Speaker 2: Where could worry you?

455
00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:17,080
Speaker 1: So it says a man went missing for forty eight

456
00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:20,200
Speaker 1: hours and his wife out a police report and told

457
00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:22,720
Speaker 1: Facebook all about it. On Sunday, a woman by the

458
00:24:22,800 --> 00:24:26,600
Speaker 1: name of Brittany Brittany from a now deleted Facebook page

459
00:24:26,680 --> 00:24:29,720
Speaker 1: share that her husband, Joseph Avery, was a truck driver

460
00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:32,760
Speaker 1: and had been missing for forty eight hours. She continued

461
00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:35,520
Speaker 1: to share that his employer was contacted to locate his

462
00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:40,600
Speaker 1: truck and they weren't helpful. On Wednesday, excuse me. Eventually,

463
00:24:40,600 --> 00:24:43,119
Speaker 1: she updated the Facebook post and shared there was a

464
00:24:43,119 --> 00:24:46,320
Speaker 1: police report filed. A few hours later, she stated her

465
00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:49,160
Speaker 1: husband of four years had been found and she didn't

466
00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:52,960
Speaker 1: know his condition. On Wednesday, Avery made a public post

467
00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:56,000
Speaker 1: on social media site on a social media site apologizing,

468
00:24:56,280 --> 00:24:59,120
Speaker 1: but he didn't share where he was when no one

469
00:24:59,119 --> 00:25:03,480
Speaker 1: could find him. However, he confirmed he was in contact

470
00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:06,240
Speaker 1: with his wife for two days and that was not

471
00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:08,000
Speaker 1: He was not in contact with his wife for two

472
00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:10,840
Speaker 1: days and that was not like him. Listen when I

473
00:25:10,880 --> 00:25:16,240
Speaker 1: said this to Tabby Tims, like he gay he was

474
00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:23,600
Speaker 1: a nigga for two days. Flick. Hey, let's say knowing

475
00:25:23,640 --> 00:25:28,520
Speaker 1: that this guy was just found truck driver was just

476
00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:32,400
Speaker 1: found in North Carolina, essentially lynched, right, I can understand

477
00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:37,040
Speaker 1: her concern. Your heartsman just disappears for two whole fucking days.

478
00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:38,240
Speaker 2: Forty eight hours.

479
00:25:38,280 --> 00:25:40,639
Speaker 1: And we know these niggas who drive trucks, they be

480
00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:43,760
Speaker 1: like whores. Okay, let's just be honest. They could skip,

481
00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:46,240
Speaker 1: they bout pussy in all different states.

482
00:25:45,880 --> 00:25:47,639
Speaker 2: And if they got one of the beds in the

483
00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:50,080
Speaker 2: bad women be actually getting up in that truck and

484
00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:51,119
Speaker 2: fucking in that truck.

485
00:25:51,560 --> 00:25:53,800
Speaker 1: Girl, you sucking dick in the back of a truck.

486
00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:58,399
Speaker 1: You're a wild If that's not your husband, that's not

487
00:25:58,440 --> 00:25:58,880
Speaker 1: your man.

488
00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:02,199
Speaker 2: What are you doing right? Why are you hopping your

489
00:26:02,200 --> 00:26:02,960
Speaker 2: answer in the can?

490
00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:07,400
Speaker 1: Because I'll definitely meet my nigga at a truck stop, okay,

491
00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:10,919
Speaker 1: but what what are you doing? So yeah, they got

492
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:12,600
Speaker 1: the pictures of them. He kind of looked like, Uh,

493
00:26:12,600 --> 00:26:17,119
Speaker 1: what's the rapper from California? The one the game, the

494
00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:22,760
Speaker 1: one Sweetie Dayton genisis no sweety not dating him. What's

495
00:26:22,760 --> 00:26:25,560
Speaker 1: the nigga YG? He looked like YG a little bit

496
00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:31,320
Speaker 1: to meet this guy. But yeah, so she she updated.

497
00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:34,080
Speaker 2: You know, yeah, he mean like YG, stay for you

498
00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:37,360
Speaker 2: gates because that's what he was doing. I believe.

499
00:26:41,720 --> 00:26:43,919
Speaker 1: She was like, yeah, he does suffer from health issues.

500
00:26:43,960 --> 00:26:45,640
Speaker 1: They call the company he works for it. They said

501
00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:48,840
Speaker 1: he was last in Maryland, but the tractor hasn't moved

502
00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:51,320
Speaker 1: or moved for seventeen hours, so he basically parked that

503
00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:54,960
Speaker 1: shit and somebody came and scoop his ass up. They said,

504
00:26:55,040 --> 00:26:57,320
Speaker 1: if he doesn't make the delivery by tomorrow, they will

505
00:26:57,359 --> 00:26:59,760
Speaker 1: call the police. Is that normal for a company to

506
00:26:59,760 --> 00:27:02,400
Speaker 1: do that? Yeah, because they have like a certain timeframe.

507
00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:05,440
Speaker 1: So as long as he makes he meets the delivery

508
00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:09,399
Speaker 1: time right, it's not an issue. So I guess he

509
00:27:09,480 --> 00:27:18,440
Speaker 1: spent his down hours somewhere somewhere, But it says edis is.

510
00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:20,479
Speaker 1: I call the company several times and they told me

511
00:27:20,560 --> 00:27:23,119
Speaker 1: to call tomorrow and hung up on me. So they're like, bitch,

512
00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:25,119
Speaker 1: we're not about to get into no domestic shit with you.

513
00:27:25,920 --> 00:27:27,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's none of our business. He did his job

514
00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:31,359
Speaker 2: and we're not concerned until he doesn't do his job.

515
00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:33,800
Speaker 2: If that truck don't come back when it's supposed to,

516
00:27:33,800 --> 00:27:35,720
Speaker 2: it's a problem for us. But other than that, that's

517
00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:38,440
Speaker 2: between y'all exactly. So here's his apology.

518
00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:42,520
Speaker 1: I like to issue a public apology to my wife,

519
00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:46,159
Speaker 1: all caps, Brittany, Brittany, I'm sorry, baby, for the humiliation

520
00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:49,240
Speaker 1: and embarrassment that I caused you. I've seen all the

521
00:27:49,640 --> 00:27:52,840
Speaker 1: bashing and allegations from all the internet trolls about us

522
00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:56,440
Speaker 1: not being really married or her being a crazy X stocker,

523
00:27:56,440 --> 00:27:58,840
Speaker 1: and none of that is true. She's my wife and

524
00:27:58,880 --> 00:28:02,119
Speaker 1: has been for four years. She was genuinely concerned and

525
00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:04,359
Speaker 1: hadn't heard from me in over forty eight hours, which

526
00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:08,600
Speaker 1: is unlike me. I usually always check in. She done

527
00:28:08,640 --> 00:28:11,359
Speaker 1: what any wife would do. She made a post to

528
00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:14,280
Speaker 1: bring awareness, especially since I suffered from health issues, so

529
00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:17,480
Speaker 1: technically I was missing. Since I hadn't spoken to my

530
00:28:17,520 --> 00:28:19,879
Speaker 1: wife or family for a few days, she thought something

531
00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:22,800
Speaker 1: had happened to me or I was having a medical emergency.

532
00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:25,480
Speaker 1: I was missing, so please stop saying she fought a

533
00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:28,679
Speaker 1: false report. Again, baby, I'm sorry for causing all this

534
00:28:28,760 --> 00:28:31,399
Speaker 1: stuff coming for my wife and family come at me,

535
00:28:31,800 --> 00:28:34,719
Speaker 1: but they shortly thereafter that both of them deleted their

536
00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:35,560
Speaker 1: Facebook posts.

537
00:28:37,320 --> 00:28:39,440
Speaker 2: It's too late, baby, you made it and we talk back.

538
00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:44,800
Speaker 1: Man were happening, Brittany, Joseph was fucking cheating, Okay. If

539
00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:47,240
Speaker 1: the nigga was not in jail or at the hospital,

540
00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:51,680
Speaker 1: he was cheating. Where is the risk band from the hospital? Like,

541
00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:54,720
Speaker 1: where was he right? Where your nigga been at? We

542
00:28:54,760 --> 00:28:58,440
Speaker 1: are concerned now because you made a public We need

543
00:28:58,480 --> 00:28:59,640
Speaker 1: to know where that nigga been at.

544
00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:04,520
Speaker 2: Where were you at, Joe, Joe? That's what?

545
00:29:05,520 --> 00:29:07,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, I want to know where the fuck he was at? Like,

546
00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:10,000
Speaker 1: my nigga cannot disappear for two days. For two days,

547
00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:13,040
Speaker 1: imagine like when you get home, I won't be there.

548
00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:15,280
Speaker 1: I will not be.

549
00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:19,480
Speaker 2: There two whole days is crazy? Without a word? Seven

550
00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:22,200
Speaker 2: who then you come back and say just I'm sorry

551
00:29:22,360 --> 00:29:26,280
Speaker 2: and where were you? Seven home?

552
00:29:26,520 --> 00:29:30,800
Speaker 1: Nice? She was just about through it two days and

553
00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:37,840
Speaker 1: I'm just about through girl. Hold on, before we get off,

554
00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:39,160
Speaker 1: did I tell you about the old man I have

555
00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:42,200
Speaker 1: bought up? Like speaking of Facebook marketplace, I had bought

556
00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:44,840
Speaker 1: air pump, like a portable air pump from this old way.

557
00:29:44,880 --> 00:29:46,959
Speaker 2: You talking about speaking us? If we did not have

558
00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:50,280
Speaker 2: that conversation we had it, yeah off here, right?

559
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:54,080
Speaker 1: But girl, why is seventy seventy something year old white

560
00:29:54,080 --> 00:29:56,480
Speaker 1: man texting my damn phone now? But anyway, because I

561
00:29:56,520 --> 00:29:58,320
Speaker 1: did give him my number because he does like the

562
00:29:58,360 --> 00:30:00,560
Speaker 1: whole selling you know, you buy, like the some shit

563
00:30:01,040 --> 00:30:03,080
Speaker 1: some might that might be something I want to get into,

564
00:30:03,240 --> 00:30:07,400
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, especially like cosmetic stuff. But

565
00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:10,560
Speaker 1: when I went to pick the airpump up from him,

566
00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:13,480
Speaker 1: we met at Zaxby's. We sat there and talked for

567
00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:15,800
Speaker 1: like twenty minutes, and within this twenty minutes I knew

568
00:30:15,920 --> 00:30:18,680
Speaker 1: all of his shit, all his business. But he had

569
00:30:18,720 --> 00:30:21,920
Speaker 1: told me that, you know, his wife divorced him. He

570
00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:24,720
Speaker 1: got divorced like in his forties. He said he used

571
00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:29,800
Speaker 1: to own a firestone and some young girl came in

572
00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:31,560
Speaker 1: there one day. It was basically trying to trade her

573
00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:36,120
Speaker 1: ringing to get new tires and brakes, and I guess

574
00:30:36,120 --> 00:30:39,400
Speaker 1: he started fucking with her. But he said that he

575
00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:42,680
Speaker 1: always used to come home between six thirty and six

576
00:30:42,840 --> 00:30:47,920
Speaker 1: forty five every day. Right. He said he was late

577
00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:51,440
Speaker 1: coming home two times, and by the second time his

578
00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:53,840
Speaker 1: wife had got a private investigator on her on him.

579
00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:56,160
Speaker 2: You mentioned this on the show before I did.

580
00:30:56,840 --> 00:31:02,560
Speaker 1: Yeap oh deleted you did like bitch two days too.

581
00:31:02,680 --> 00:31:05,480
Speaker 1: Motherfucking you came home. You was late, though, I'm still

582
00:31:05,760 --> 00:31:06,560
Speaker 1: on your ass.

583
00:31:06,840 --> 00:31:07,960
Speaker 2: Fifteen minutes late.

584
00:31:08,160 --> 00:31:10,480
Speaker 1: Fifteen minutes late anyway.

585
00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:13,200
Speaker 2: All right, So when we get back from our break,

586
00:31:13,760 --> 00:31:19,520
Speaker 2: we're going to talk about unfollowing and following, blocking and

587
00:31:19,640 --> 00:31:23,520
Speaker 2: unblocking in your phone and social media? Is it healthy?

588
00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:25,160
Speaker 2: What do you think?

589
00:31:25,600 --> 00:31:28,400
Speaker 1: And I do it and it is a form of

590
00:31:28,520 --> 00:31:30,320
Speaker 1: manipulation as far as I'm concerned.

591
00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:36,760
Speaker 2: Well call me manipulation, Tam, because I'm blocking your ass.

592
00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:38,920
Speaker 2: We'll be right back you guys.

593
00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:47,520
Speaker 1: All right, y'all, So we're back, and for today's episode,

594
00:31:47,560 --> 00:31:53,120
Speaker 1: I wanted to talk about, uh, unfollowing and following people

595
00:31:54,360 --> 00:31:59,160
Speaker 1: on social media? How do you feel when you unfollow people?

596
00:31:59,640 --> 00:32:02,560
Speaker 1: And how do you feel when someone unfollows you or

597
00:32:02,600 --> 00:32:04,480
Speaker 1: even blocks you? And to take it a step further,

598
00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:07,360
Speaker 1: have you ever been blocked? Tammy?

599
00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:10,800
Speaker 2: Have you I just I just got blocked.

600
00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:12,480
Speaker 1: Block you.

601
00:32:14,200 --> 00:32:15,560
Speaker 2: One of my old niggas.

602
00:32:15,880 --> 00:32:17,240
Speaker 1: Damn you got blocked by dude.

603
00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:23,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, he mad, he real sassy girl. Don't worry about it.

604
00:32:23,520 --> 00:32:29,480
Speaker 2: He was sassy thing, sassy frast He told me he

605
00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:32,440
Speaker 2: was gonna take me away. From my birthday, and then

606
00:32:32,480 --> 00:32:35,520
Speaker 2: he was on bullshit and then he didn't do it,

607
00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:37,360
Speaker 2: and then the next time he hit me up, I

608
00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:39,720
Speaker 2: was like, boy, fuck you full of shit. You don't

609
00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:45,160
Speaker 2: even communicate. He's like, I'm sick of your mouth, and

610
00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:49,960
Speaker 2: then he blocked me. What the hell, sassy?

611
00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:52,320
Speaker 1: But why would men stand on business? We be calling

612
00:32:52,400 --> 00:32:53,680
Speaker 1: them sassy? That's fucked up.

613
00:32:53,720 --> 00:32:55,840
Speaker 2: How's dad standing on business? All you had to do

614
00:32:55,880 --> 00:32:58,160
Speaker 2: if something came up and you couldn't take me, you

615
00:32:58,160 --> 00:33:04,200
Speaker 2: could have communicated that you sure you birthday? I said

616
00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:07,320
Speaker 2: you just I said, you always on bullshit? You unreliable.

617
00:33:07,960 --> 00:33:14,800
Speaker 2: Mm hmm, that's always your mouth. What did I say?

618
00:33:15,280 --> 00:33:16,680
Speaker 1: Nigga had a block party on you.

619
00:33:17,880 --> 00:33:20,560
Speaker 2: I don't care. He'll be back. They always come back

620
00:33:20,720 --> 00:33:21,280
Speaker 2: with thing.

621
00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:24,960
Speaker 1: I've never been blocked by a guy before, but I

622
00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:27,680
Speaker 1: have definitely been blocked by an ex best friend to

623
00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:29,960
Speaker 1: this date. And I'm like, well, I'm assuming to this

624
00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:31,400
Speaker 1: day because I haven't checked in a while.

625
00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:32,400
Speaker 2: No.

626
00:33:32,520 --> 00:33:35,360
Speaker 1: Actually, somebody sent me that she was pregnant. But they

627
00:33:35,440 --> 00:33:37,440
Speaker 1: just sent like a Facebook link and I clicked on

628
00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:39,800
Speaker 1: it and I couldn't see anything. So I was like, oh,

629
00:33:39,800 --> 00:33:44,240
Speaker 1: she must have got me blocked, but for what, Like

630
00:33:44,320 --> 00:33:46,800
Speaker 1: your life is not that lit for me to like

631
00:33:46,960 --> 00:33:49,640
Speaker 1: want to see everything you got going on to where

632
00:33:49,640 --> 00:33:53,160
Speaker 1: you're on social media. Yes, that is so weird to me.

633
00:33:54,520 --> 00:33:57,120
Speaker 2: I don't think I've ever had any women blocking, you know, like.

634
00:33:57,160 --> 00:34:01,200
Speaker 1: I would never now I havelock and this same person

635
00:34:01,320 --> 00:34:05,560
Speaker 1: I have blocked and then unblocked just so I unfollow

636
00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:07,680
Speaker 1: her and she can unfollow me. You know, that's how

637
00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:10,279
Speaker 1: you get people to unfollow you, Like I've done that,

638
00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:12,760
Speaker 1: Like so within the same second, I'm blocking and unblocking

639
00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:16,759
Speaker 1: just to get the unfollowed. But no, I've never just

640
00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:19,400
Speaker 1: blocked for what picture me rolling?

641
00:34:20,480 --> 00:34:23,040
Speaker 2: Well, what's the point of blocking and unblocking.

642
00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:26,000
Speaker 1: So they can unfollow and you unfollow? Like you force

643
00:34:26,080 --> 00:34:30,000
Speaker 1: them to unfollow you when you block and unblock, like

644
00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:32,040
Speaker 1: within the same minute, you know what I'm saying.

645
00:34:32,080 --> 00:34:35,680
Speaker 2: Oh, but I'm just saying, but why because.

646
00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:37,719
Speaker 1: If we are no longer friends, why do you need

647
00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:42,839
Speaker 1: to be following me? I'm not gonna block you.

648
00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:48,160
Speaker 2: It's definitely it's still definitely girls in my uh follows

649
00:34:48,200 --> 00:34:50,239
Speaker 2: that we're not friends no more, but we just never

650
00:34:50,320 --> 00:34:51,160
Speaker 2: unfollowed each other.

651
00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:54,600
Speaker 4: It's cool whatever, No, I feel like it's levels, right,

652
00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:58,360
Speaker 4: So like best friendshit, like you were somebody I speak

653
00:34:58,400 --> 00:35:03,280
Speaker 4: to every day and then now we just aren't friends anymore. Oh,

654
00:35:03,320 --> 00:35:05,640
Speaker 4: I did block one of my old best That's what

655
00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:08,560
Speaker 4: I'm saying, Like, that's it's just different.

656
00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:09,040
Speaker 2: Now.

657
00:35:09,960 --> 00:35:12,239
Speaker 1: Did y'all refollow each other since y'all cool?

658
00:35:12,280 --> 00:35:12,400
Speaker 2: Now?

659
00:35:13,280 --> 00:35:16,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I'm saying. To block and then y'all

660
00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:18,400
Speaker 1: may eventually start talking to each other again or some

661
00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:20,600
Speaker 1: shit like why are you even doing that? Or to

662
00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:24,759
Speaker 1: unfollow like I felt like it was super final. That's

663
00:35:24,800 --> 00:35:26,839
Speaker 1: why I went ahead and did the unfollowed thing.

664
00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:31,840
Speaker 2: No, when i'm mad, I will.

665
00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:33,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, you've done it to me, and so that's also

666
00:35:33,760 --> 00:35:34,880
Speaker 1: a part of this conversation.

667
00:35:36,880 --> 00:35:37,200
Speaker 2: Bitch.

668
00:35:37,239 --> 00:35:39,680
Speaker 1: If you aren't following me, please let me know. That

669
00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:45,960
Speaker 1: was that was last year? Okay. If you an't following me, bitch, bitch,

670
00:35:46,080 --> 00:35:48,879
Speaker 1: let me know so I can unfollow your ass too.

671
00:35:48,920 --> 00:35:51,440
Speaker 1: We like still having to do business and ship. And

672
00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:53,440
Speaker 1: I realized, bitch.

673
00:35:53,200 --> 00:35:56,160
Speaker 3: I just see you today.

674
00:35:56,520 --> 00:35:59,239
Speaker 2: I had not forgot. Wasn't you following your ass? And

675
00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:01,120
Speaker 2: you said, and I was like, oh.

676
00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:07,719
Speaker 1: Ca Saio asked my mentions as a follow Bitch, did

677
00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:12,719
Speaker 1: you unfollow me at one point, Petty, is you okay?

678
00:36:14,280 --> 00:36:15,400
Speaker 2: Okay?

679
00:36:15,880 --> 00:36:16,600
Speaker 1: Are you okay?

680
00:36:16,760 --> 00:36:16,960
Speaker 2: Now?

681
00:36:17,160 --> 00:36:20,960
Speaker 1: I wasn't then are you well? Like that never crossed

682
00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:23,160
Speaker 1: my mind to unfollow Tammy, Like, no matter if we

683
00:36:23,239 --> 00:36:24,880
Speaker 1: beefing or what like, I still got to see and

684
00:36:24,920 --> 00:36:27,319
Speaker 1: talk to this bitch. So like that, what is that

685
00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:31,799
Speaker 1: really going to do? Other than like to me, it's foolish, right,

686
00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:34,520
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. When I do it, it's final.

687
00:36:34,560 --> 00:36:37,120
Speaker 1: I don't gotta never fuck with you again. Period.

688
00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:39,600
Speaker 2: No for me is I do not want listen. The

689
00:36:39,640 --> 00:36:41,840
Speaker 2: best thing they ever gave me was the mute button.

690
00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:46,239
Speaker 2: That mute button is my best friend. Because if I'm

691
00:36:46,239 --> 00:36:47,920
Speaker 2: not if I'm mad at you and I'm not talking

692
00:36:47,920 --> 00:36:49,680
Speaker 2: to you, I don't want to see you out smiling

693
00:36:49,760 --> 00:36:51,720
Speaker 2: having a good time, I don't want to see nothing. Really,

694
00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:53,200
Speaker 2: get that out of my space.

695
00:36:53,440 --> 00:36:56,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, that is so weird.

696
00:36:57,440 --> 00:36:58,720
Speaker 2: Ain't shit funny? Bitch?

697
00:37:03,200 --> 00:37:05,160
Speaker 1: I'm never like that. But I realized that a lot

698
00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:06,760
Speaker 1: of people and I think we even had an episode

699
00:37:06,800 --> 00:37:10,239
Speaker 1: about blocking before, right, And I know I said, like

700
00:37:10,280 --> 00:37:13,279
Speaker 1: to me, blocking is a form of manipulation, especially if

701
00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:16,200
Speaker 1: you plan on unblocking a person and speaking to them

702
00:37:16,280 --> 00:37:19,000
Speaker 1: later on. It's like you catting off access to you

703
00:37:19,480 --> 00:37:21,920
Speaker 1: for a moment. That's fucked up because you do that

704
00:37:21,960 --> 00:37:23,600
Speaker 1: to me, I'm not talking to you no more.

705
00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:28,680
Speaker 2: If you block me, I never When I block, it's

706
00:37:28,719 --> 00:37:31,520
Speaker 2: with intention to never speak to you again. Now, if

707
00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:36,600
Speaker 2: somehow the universe decides first to reconcile, then okay. But

708
00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:40,440
Speaker 2: in that moment, I've done with you for life.

709
00:37:40,239 --> 00:37:43,120
Speaker 1: And so I guess I don't reconcile, right, because I

710
00:37:43,160 --> 00:37:46,560
Speaker 1: really like being on some shit like yeah, I'm good

711
00:37:46,560 --> 00:37:49,160
Speaker 1: on you whatever forever. If we get to that point

712
00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:51,040
Speaker 1: to where you got the block or block me or

713
00:37:51,080 --> 00:37:54,200
Speaker 1: I'm unfollowing and all that shit, man, we good forever.

714
00:37:54,400 --> 00:37:56,600
Speaker 1: I'm cool. One of my ex best friends still follow me,

715
00:37:56,600 --> 00:37:59,480
Speaker 1: but I've been unfollowed that bitch, and another one I

716
00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:02,200
Speaker 1: kept blocking and unblocking so she can unfollow me. I

717
00:38:02,239 --> 00:38:04,400
Speaker 1: don't even want you following me, bitch. That's so how

718
00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:05,279
Speaker 1: much I don't like you.

719
00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:10,520
Speaker 2: I literally blocked and unblocked a nigga in the same night.

720
00:38:12,280 --> 00:38:14,760
Speaker 2: See that is like, in less than twenty four hours,

721
00:38:14,800 --> 00:38:16,920
Speaker 2: I had them blocked to me and unblocked him. I

722
00:38:16,960 --> 00:38:19,759
Speaker 2: blocked him because I was mad, but then after I'm

723
00:38:19,840 --> 00:38:20,880
Speaker 2: mad at myself.

724
00:38:20,920 --> 00:38:21,359
Speaker 1: A little bit.

725
00:38:21,400 --> 00:38:25,000
Speaker 2: I was like, it's not that deep. I unblocked.

726
00:38:25,000 --> 00:38:26,840
Speaker 1: See, I do things with a little bit more intention,

727
00:38:27,680 --> 00:38:31,440
Speaker 1: so I if I go that far, that's it because

728
00:38:31,440 --> 00:38:33,960
Speaker 1: I already know, like, Okay, we beefing right now, but

729
00:38:34,000 --> 00:38:36,319
Speaker 1: I'm gonna want to talk to you later or I know,

730
00:38:36,440 --> 00:38:39,839
Speaker 1: and my soul is not final, but the ministum shit

731
00:38:39,880 --> 00:38:42,520
Speaker 1: fine on my soul, bitch, fuck you am unfollowing. I'm

732
00:38:42,520 --> 00:38:44,919
Speaker 1: I'm still not blocking though, so I don't. I don't

733
00:38:44,920 --> 00:38:46,840
Speaker 1: do that type of shit. I wanted to try to

734
00:38:46,840 --> 00:38:49,440
Speaker 1: figure out some of the reasons, Like this is aside

735
00:38:49,440 --> 00:38:52,040
Speaker 1: from like people we actually know, right, because I know

736
00:38:52,120 --> 00:38:54,680
Speaker 1: we also have people. Do you follow anybody on social

737
00:38:54,719 --> 00:38:58,000
Speaker 1: media you don't know personally or you've like become friends

738
00:38:58,000 --> 00:38:59,040
Speaker 1: with them on social media.

739
00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:02,160
Speaker 2: I follow a lot of bitches from the show. It's

740
00:39:02,200 --> 00:39:04,600
Speaker 2: a lot of people who have like listen to the show,

741
00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:08,879
Speaker 2: comment on something, and I'll follow them back and then

742
00:39:08,920 --> 00:39:09,640
Speaker 2: we become friends.

743
00:39:09,719 --> 00:39:13,359
Speaker 1: Yeah. I usually follow people back who like share our show,

744
00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:15,279
Speaker 1: like if they share it on their story or on

745
00:39:15,320 --> 00:39:17,480
Speaker 1: their page, like those usually the people I follow back

746
00:39:18,280 --> 00:39:21,080
Speaker 1: because I really appreciate their support. But then then you

747
00:39:21,200 --> 00:39:24,239
Speaker 1: just have people like I'll have random people following. I

748
00:39:24,360 --> 00:39:27,240
Speaker 1: usually look at people who follow. I'll look and see

749
00:39:28,040 --> 00:39:30,840
Speaker 1: and if they just look like they got life going on,

750
00:39:30,920 --> 00:39:33,640
Speaker 1: I might follow back. But then I'll do a purge

751
00:39:33,680 --> 00:39:35,960
Speaker 1: every so often, you know, and they might be one

752
00:39:36,000 --> 00:39:40,439
Speaker 1: of the people I unfollow, just there's no rhyme or reason.

753
00:39:40,600 --> 00:39:42,480
Speaker 2: Have you ever been following somebody and be like what

754
00:39:42,640 --> 00:39:44,720
Speaker 2: did that start following this person? Why?

755
00:39:44,760 --> 00:39:48,239
Speaker 1: And I've seen myself accidentally follow people before, like you

756
00:39:48,400 --> 00:39:51,160
Speaker 1: just strolling and now like the follower is right there,

757
00:39:51,200 --> 00:39:53,160
Speaker 1: so you can fuck run and hit it and not

758
00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:55,920
Speaker 1: realize it, like it's on the image basically.

759
00:39:56,480 --> 00:40:00,439
Speaker 2: So like the other day on my timeline, I saw

760
00:40:00,480 --> 00:40:03,040
Speaker 2: this nigga who was like holding pistols and money and

761
00:40:03,080 --> 00:40:05,239
Speaker 2: his pains was low and all that stuff, and I

762
00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:09,279
Speaker 2: was like, how did I start following this nigga? When

763
00:40:09,360 --> 00:40:11,440
Speaker 2: did that happen? You know? I follow?

764
00:40:11,600 --> 00:40:16,400
Speaker 1: I think when people buy followers, I think they make accounts,

765
00:40:16,480 --> 00:40:20,400
Speaker 1: real accounts follow people and you just have to realize

766
00:40:20,440 --> 00:40:23,080
Speaker 1: you didn't follow that person and unfollow. I think that

767
00:40:23,200 --> 00:40:25,560
Speaker 1: might be a package deal you can buy, because I

768
00:40:25,640 --> 00:40:27,799
Speaker 1: swear it'd be people I have never seen them on

769
00:40:27,840 --> 00:40:31,799
Speaker 1: my timeline before, just random ask who are you?

770
00:40:32,800 --> 00:40:35,719
Speaker 2: I don't know, Yeah, because who is that guy? I

771
00:40:35,719 --> 00:40:38,200
Speaker 2: would never follow somebody who running around with guns and

772
00:40:38,320 --> 00:40:42,719
Speaker 2: money online, you know, like in person, perhaps, but not

773
00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:45,279
Speaker 2: if that's your social media image. I'm not. That's not

774
00:40:45,400 --> 00:40:47,120
Speaker 2: my ministry, baby.

775
00:40:47,160 --> 00:40:49,680
Speaker 1: And even people I know who don't post shit like

776
00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:51,759
Speaker 1: you haven't posted it in years, I'm unfollow you, like

777
00:40:51,800 --> 00:40:54,040
Speaker 1: bitches I went to school with and shit like that. Like,

778
00:40:54,120 --> 00:40:56,440
Speaker 1: I'm unfollow you if I'm doing like a low purge

779
00:40:56,440 --> 00:41:02,279
Speaker 1: and you don't even use Instagram, Yeah, I'm unfollowing. So

780
00:41:02,360 --> 00:41:05,359
Speaker 1: I do do that type of shit because I like numbers, right,

781
00:41:05,440 --> 00:41:07,799
Speaker 1: so I want my number to say it's certain, Like

782
00:41:07,880 --> 00:41:12,080
Speaker 1: the follow number is nine nine nine, So you might

783
00:41:12,120 --> 00:41:16,319
Speaker 1: get Yeah, you might get kicked out because I want

784
00:41:16,360 --> 00:41:19,719
Speaker 1: it to be nine because I like nine. It's a

785
00:41:19,719 --> 00:41:20,280
Speaker 1: good number.

786
00:41:21,560 --> 00:41:24,680
Speaker 2: So you only want nine hundred and ninety nine people

787
00:41:24,719 --> 00:41:34,640
Speaker 2: you follow, and that's it. That's not strange.

788
00:41:28,680 --> 00:41:39,400
Speaker 1: So here are some reasons that people will unfollow, okay.

789
00:41:41,080 --> 00:41:45,239
Speaker 1: Number one is emotional boundaries. Unfollowing someone often serves as

790
00:41:45,280 --> 00:41:48,000
Speaker 1: a way to protect your emotional wellbeing. If someone frequently

791
00:41:48,040 --> 00:41:51,640
Speaker 1: posts content that causes stress, anxiety, or negative emotions, the

792
00:41:51,760 --> 00:41:55,239
Speaker 1: follower may choose choose to distance themselves to maintain their

793
00:41:55,280 --> 00:42:00,480
Speaker 1: own mental health. I have unfollowed accounts for that type

794
00:42:00,480 --> 00:42:03,480
Speaker 1: of shit, like you just always posting negative shit. I

795
00:42:03,480 --> 00:42:07,279
Speaker 1: hate a bit you always posting as somebody hating on them, Like,

796
00:42:07,360 --> 00:42:11,000
Speaker 1: don't nobody even know you, girl? I'm unsorrowing you.

797
00:42:11,120 --> 00:42:13,359
Speaker 2: You think that that is? I have no people like that,

798
00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:17,680
Speaker 2: Like everybody is just against them, everybody is jealous of them,

799
00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:20,799
Speaker 2: everybody is just girl relaxed.

800
00:42:20,920 --> 00:42:24,080
Speaker 1: Yes, And I'm unfollowing you know, because I don't want

801
00:42:24,120 --> 00:42:26,719
Speaker 1: it to ever get every for you to ever feel

802
00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:29,000
Speaker 1: any type of way. If I don't like something, or

803
00:42:29,040 --> 00:42:32,200
Speaker 1: if I don't comment on your post, or if I

804
00:42:32,320 --> 00:42:34,839
Speaker 1: look at your story and not hearted, I never want

805
00:42:34,840 --> 00:42:36,160
Speaker 1: you to feel a way. So let me just go

806
00:42:36,200 --> 00:42:38,520
Speaker 1: ahead and unfollow, because those will be the people who

807
00:42:38,520 --> 00:42:40,960
Speaker 1: think somebody just looking at them just to.

808
00:42:40,960 --> 00:42:45,080
Speaker 2: Look and hat I don't like, but I'm one of

809
00:42:45,080 --> 00:42:47,920
Speaker 2: those people, Like if you don't post me for my birthday,

810
00:42:48,080 --> 00:42:50,360
Speaker 2: I will have a like are we good? Are we ah?

811
00:42:50,600 --> 00:42:55,359
Speaker 2: Is you cool? I don't care why you ain't. No,

812
00:42:55,400 --> 00:42:57,799
Speaker 2: why you ain't only if you're if you're a person

813
00:42:57,800 --> 00:43:00,640
Speaker 2: who don't post a lot, But if You're posting all

814
00:43:00,719 --> 00:43:03,120
Speaker 2: day every day, and you posting everybody else's birthday and

815
00:43:03,160 --> 00:43:07,160
Speaker 2: you don't post mine? What's up? Is there a problem?

816
00:43:07,239 --> 00:43:09,399
Speaker 1: So you would think that person is not your friend?

817
00:43:10,719 --> 00:43:13,200
Speaker 2: You on one? What's up?

818
00:43:13,239 --> 00:43:13,279
Speaker 4: You?

819
00:43:13,680 --> 00:43:13,839
Speaker 1: Are?

820
00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:16,960
Speaker 2: We cool? With everything? Cool? Because why didn't you post me?

821
00:43:17,239 --> 00:43:19,400
Speaker 2: And then I definitely go to make sure I posted.

822
00:43:19,560 --> 00:43:21,440
Speaker 2: I look at our messages and see if I posted

823
00:43:21,480 --> 00:43:24,319
Speaker 2: you for yours? Oh but you got me fugged up?

824
00:43:25,880 --> 00:43:27,759
Speaker 1: But what if she texts you that day and towards

825
00:43:27,760 --> 00:43:32,040
Speaker 1: you happy birthday? So oh my god, Okay.

826
00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:36,120
Speaker 2: Post me because I'm gonna text you. I'm gonna call you.

827
00:43:36,160 --> 00:43:38,320
Speaker 2: And what else I'm gonna do on your birthday?

828
00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:41,000
Speaker 1: Post and call and sing happy birthday.

829
00:43:40,880 --> 00:43:43,399
Speaker 2: And I'm gonna sing to your motherfucking ass. The least

830
00:43:43,440 --> 00:43:44,959
Speaker 2: you can do is post my picture on your page,

831
00:43:45,040 --> 00:43:47,000
Speaker 2: especially if you're not on your page on your store.

832
00:43:47,120 --> 00:43:50,000
Speaker 1: Right. Yeah, it's only like a quick click, you know,

833
00:43:50,280 --> 00:43:53,719
Speaker 1: it's not much to do. But I'm still not mad

834
00:43:53,719 --> 00:43:55,960
Speaker 1: at a bitch for now because I don't only my

835
00:43:56,040 --> 00:43:58,160
Speaker 1: immediate friends.

836
00:43:57,600 --> 00:43:58,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, like close friends.

837
00:43:58,680 --> 00:44:01,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, so I ain't.

838
00:44:01,440 --> 00:44:04,520
Speaker 2: But if I posted you, you close enough, bitch? Post

839
00:44:04,600 --> 00:44:05,000
Speaker 2: me bad?

840
00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:10,240
Speaker 1: So the relationship over if the friend don't post your birthday.

841
00:44:10,440 --> 00:44:12,239
Speaker 2: No, no, it's not over, but there's gonna be a

842
00:44:12,280 --> 00:44:14,600
Speaker 2: conversation to be had very soon about it.

843
00:44:14,800 --> 00:44:17,279
Speaker 1: Yo. And how would that conversation go? You would call

844
00:44:17,320 --> 00:44:18,040
Speaker 1: him and say, what.

845
00:44:19,160 --> 00:44:24,520
Speaker 2: Hey, girl, how you doing? You cool? Is everything cool?

846
00:44:27,560 --> 00:44:29,239
Speaker 2: I think it's real funny. Dad.

847
00:44:33,440 --> 00:44:35,840
Speaker 1: I'd be like, get the fuck off my phone.

848
00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:42,040
Speaker 2: I've been stressed out all day and I didn't I

849
00:44:42,040 --> 00:44:44,960
Speaker 2: didn't see your posts, So what's up. You don't like me,

850
00:44:45,360 --> 00:44:47,200
Speaker 2: you hate me? What's going on?

851
00:44:47,440 --> 00:44:51,359
Speaker 1: Yo? What about my dog died today or something? Now

852
00:44:51,400 --> 00:44:53,799
Speaker 1: you're gonna feel like shit for stressing somebody else.

853
00:44:54,080 --> 00:44:58,440
Speaker 2: Then I'd be like, I'm so sorry, I didn't know that.

854
00:44:58,800 --> 00:45:01,600
Speaker 2: I would didn't apologize, but I mean, you can make

855
00:45:01,640 --> 00:45:03,200
Speaker 2: a related post and I understand.

856
00:45:03,440 --> 00:45:11,560
Speaker 1: Yo, okay. No. Social comparison is another reason why people

857
00:45:11,640 --> 00:45:14,720
Speaker 1: may unfollow someone. So it says constant comparison with others

858
00:45:15,239 --> 00:45:18,080
Speaker 1: lives as showcase on social media can lead to feelings

859
00:45:18,120 --> 00:45:23,680
Speaker 1: of inadequacy. People may unfollow individuals who suppost constantly trigger envy, jealousy,

860
00:45:23,719 --> 00:45:27,080
Speaker 1: or feelings of being less than. That's never me because

861
00:45:27,400 --> 00:45:29,480
Speaker 1: when I see a motherfucker doing great, I know I

862
00:45:29,480 --> 00:45:29,960
Speaker 1: can do it.

863
00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:33,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, I will definitely mute somebody.

864
00:45:34,200 --> 00:45:35,840
Speaker 1: Yo, you're fucking nuts.

865
00:45:36,880 --> 00:45:40,640
Speaker 2: Yeah I will. I will not because I'm jealousy jealous.

866
00:45:41,239 --> 00:45:44,520
Speaker 2: It's just because I don't want to ever be comparing myself,

867
00:45:45,160 --> 00:45:48,439
Speaker 2: you know. If I start to feel like a parison part, yeah,

868
00:45:48,480 --> 00:45:51,840
Speaker 2: I'll be like, look, this is gonna be counterproductive for

869
00:45:51,920 --> 00:45:54,000
Speaker 2: what I got going on right now, So I'm just

870
00:45:54,000 --> 00:45:57,120
Speaker 2: gonna mute you. It's not personal, it's just about me.

871
00:45:59,000 --> 00:46:01,400
Speaker 2: Does that make sense for you? Because it's not like

872
00:46:03,280 --> 00:46:05,239
Speaker 2: and be like, it's not like I look at this

873
00:46:05,320 --> 00:46:07,200
Speaker 2: ship and be like, oh, you shouldn't have that. That

874
00:46:07,239 --> 00:46:09,640
Speaker 2: should be me. That's never my energy. I'm always proud

875
00:46:09,640 --> 00:46:12,520
Speaker 2: of everybody. I want them to do great, especially black women,

876
00:46:12,760 --> 00:46:15,279
Speaker 2: you know. But if I start to feel like I

877
00:46:15,320 --> 00:46:18,440
Speaker 2: could be comparing my situation to theirs, I will mute.

878
00:46:19,160 --> 00:46:21,520
Speaker 1: I guess I never do that though. I never compare

879
00:46:21,640 --> 00:46:26,160
Speaker 1: my situation to somebody else. Haters are bred through that

880
00:46:26,160 --> 00:46:28,880
Speaker 1: type of shit, right because either you're gonna be inspired

881
00:46:29,000 --> 00:46:30,919
Speaker 1: or you're gonna become a hater. So I'm not saying

882
00:46:31,600 --> 00:46:33,719
Speaker 1: become a hater. Why you would block that person out?

883
00:46:34,000 --> 00:46:36,399
Speaker 1: But my mind never thinks like that like I never

884
00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:40,719
Speaker 1: I don't really do comparison mode for real. The only

885
00:46:40,760 --> 00:46:43,440
Speaker 1: people I be jealous of, I'm gonna be honest, the

886
00:46:43,440 --> 00:46:48,200
Speaker 1: motherfucking Wall Street Trapper, Chap, the Wall Street Trapper. As

887
00:46:48,280 --> 00:46:52,080
Speaker 1: much as I love that nigga, because I love him, Okay,

888
00:46:52,800 --> 00:46:55,600
Speaker 1: I cannot stand when that nigga show his motherfucker brokeras

889
00:46:55,600 --> 00:46:59,960
Speaker 1: you count balance, I'd be so jealous.

890
00:47:00,360 --> 00:47:03,120
Speaker 2: I don't be like Yo, I've been traded for years.

891
00:47:03,160 --> 00:47:07,320
Speaker 2: Where's my m okay, but it's coming so I'm not dressed.

892
00:47:07,320 --> 00:47:07,839
Speaker 2: It too bad.

893
00:47:08,520 --> 00:47:12,400
Speaker 1: It gives me, but no, it motivates me. It motivates me,

894
00:47:13,040 --> 00:47:16,560
Speaker 1: like I literally have on my vision board. Yeah, like

895
00:47:16,680 --> 00:47:20,240
Speaker 1: four m four million dollars on my fucking brokerage account

896
00:47:20,280 --> 00:47:27,920
Speaker 1: on my vision board. Like, no, mute, and look, I

897
00:47:28,080 --> 00:47:30,520
Speaker 1: was jealous. The other day he was posting this girl

898
00:47:30,560 --> 00:47:34,440
Speaker 1: for her birthday, saying how she was the one that

899
00:47:34,480 --> 00:47:36,279
Speaker 1: got away. Excuse me?

900
00:47:36,640 --> 00:47:38,640
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, so just mute people.

901
00:47:39,040 --> 00:47:44,080
Speaker 1: You don't know you internet boyfriend of my mind? Are you? Well?

902
00:47:45,440 --> 00:47:54,680
Speaker 2: I like her? You get your CA and will and will.

903
00:47:55,320 --> 00:47:58,240
Speaker 1: But luckily, my nigga, don't listen to this show.

904
00:48:01,480 --> 00:48:02,440
Speaker 2: I'm about the blackmail.

905
00:48:02,560 --> 00:48:04,560
Speaker 1: Yo's gonna listen and send it to him, and I'm

906
00:48:04,600 --> 00:48:05,799
Speaker 1: gonna kill whoever that is.

907
00:48:05,840 --> 00:48:08,920
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm gonna either send me a tay tea tomorrow

908
00:48:09,480 --> 00:48:14,040
Speaker 2: around twelve o'clock or I wasn't.

909
00:48:12,920 --> 00:48:22,799
Speaker 1: Just extorting me for Boba. What is happening? Yeah, I'd

910
00:48:22,800 --> 00:48:25,000
Speaker 1: be jealous of his broker's account, like that's the only

911
00:48:25,040 --> 00:48:27,920
Speaker 1: person on social media, Like I'd be like, especially if

912
00:48:27,960 --> 00:48:29,840
Speaker 1: I had a bad day in the market and I

913
00:48:29,880 --> 00:48:33,400
Speaker 1: see somebody else made money, I'm like, oh my fucking god,

914
00:48:33,480 --> 00:48:40,560
Speaker 1: I hate these people. Other than that, I'm cool.

915
00:48:42,080 --> 00:48:44,919
Speaker 2: There's a it's a couple. I won't say their name,

916
00:48:45,560 --> 00:48:48,120
Speaker 2: but I had to mute her because I'm just tired

917
00:48:48,120 --> 00:48:51,839
Speaker 2: of y'all being in love. What y'all. I'm so sick

918
00:48:51,880 --> 00:48:54,680
Speaker 2: of y'all that because I don't want y'all to be

919
00:48:54,760 --> 00:48:57,759
Speaker 2: in love. I love, but I love love. But I'm

920
00:48:57,840 --> 00:49:01,879
Speaker 2: just like, girl enough, bitch, I don't have a man.

921
00:49:01,960 --> 00:49:05,000
Speaker 2: I can't take this. It's eating me up. You eating

922
00:49:05,040 --> 00:49:07,359
Speaker 2: me up every day. I want to know a girl

923
00:49:07,360 --> 00:49:12,319
Speaker 2: will tell me. I'll tell you after the ship telling

924
00:49:12,400 --> 00:49:14,319
Speaker 2: everybody because they be like, not you hating on so

925
00:49:14,480 --> 00:49:17,719
Speaker 2: and so. It's you know what, I am hating. Fuck it,

926
00:49:17,719 --> 00:49:19,680
Speaker 2: it is what it is. I'm jealous, yo.

927
00:49:19,680 --> 00:49:19,839
Speaker 1: You.

928
00:49:22,600 --> 00:49:27,360
Speaker 2: So I had to mute her. I don't but listen,

929
00:49:27,440 --> 00:49:30,160
Speaker 2: let me make this very clear. I don't want them

930
00:49:30,200 --> 00:49:33,399
Speaker 2: to break up. I love the love. I just don't

931
00:49:33,440 --> 00:49:34,399
Speaker 2: have it yet.

932
00:49:35,520 --> 00:49:37,400
Speaker 1: People shit don't be looking like what it is.

933
00:49:37,440 --> 00:49:40,080
Speaker 2: We know that too, right right right, It might not

934
00:49:40,239 --> 00:49:43,319
Speaker 2: be as beautiful as it looks on social media and oftentimes,

935
00:49:43,800 --> 00:49:46,080
Speaker 2: I mean, people post a highlight reel. They don't post

936
00:49:46,120 --> 00:49:48,080
Speaker 2: the bullshit. You know. So, but.

937
00:49:50,040 --> 00:49:54,480
Speaker 1: How about Chanelle and Duke. Who's that Chanelle like the

938
00:49:54,520 --> 00:49:59,840
Speaker 1: fitness girl. I think it's like Chanelle, uh, Chanelle Dezzler

939
00:50:00,120 --> 00:50:04,040
Speaker 1: something like that, and her fiance they engage now, name

940
00:50:04,120 --> 00:50:06,920
Speaker 1: is Duke. I was so happy when he got engaged.

941
00:50:06,960 --> 00:50:09,040
Speaker 1: I felt like it was like some people I actually knew.

942
00:50:09,360 --> 00:50:13,080
Speaker 1: They're like the finest couple on Instagram. To me, the

943
00:50:13,200 --> 00:50:15,600
Speaker 1: motherfuckers look good, both of them.

944
00:50:15,920 --> 00:50:16,919
Speaker 2: You know what I'm talking about.

945
00:50:17,080 --> 00:50:19,399
Speaker 1: Hold on, let me see make a funny havee real quick?

946
00:50:20,160 --> 00:50:25,319
Speaker 1: Duke so fucking fine. He's Nigerian African dude. Hey, go

947
00:50:25,440 --> 00:50:25,799
Speaker 1: right here.

948
00:50:26,520 --> 00:50:29,120
Speaker 2: I don't be really caring about the fitness girlies with

949
00:50:29,200 --> 00:50:32,840
Speaker 2: their boyfriend because I like to eat. Show me a

950
00:50:32,920 --> 00:50:36,719
Speaker 2: fat couple, I'd be jealous of the shive me a.

951
00:50:36,680 --> 00:50:39,080
Speaker 1: Fat bitch with her her man, I'm mad.

952
00:50:39,800 --> 00:50:42,080
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I've never seen these No, you don't know

953
00:50:42,120 --> 00:50:46,120
Speaker 2: them in my life. No, but they are beautiful, you know, and.

954
00:50:46,200 --> 00:50:48,360
Speaker 1: Duke fine and hell she's so fine. Like how you

955
00:50:48,400 --> 00:50:50,480
Speaker 1: got a fat ass in a six pack? I'm confused.

956
00:50:52,680 --> 00:50:54,719
Speaker 2: You can have that right now for the price of

957
00:50:55,400 --> 00:51:01,000
Speaker 2: eight thousand dollars right care credit, But yep, can get you. So.

958
00:51:02,280 --> 00:51:06,720
Speaker 2: But yeah, that's the only people I I mute because

959
00:51:06,719 --> 00:51:10,760
Speaker 2: I don't block anybody on social media anymore. I just mute. Yeah,

960
00:51:10,800 --> 00:51:14,359
Speaker 2: if I'm following them. Yeah, so just that one girl

961
00:51:14,360 --> 00:51:16,920
Speaker 2: and her boyfriend, because damn, let me get a nigga

962
00:51:16,960 --> 00:51:19,680
Speaker 2: before y'all put it in my face every fucking day.

963
00:51:23,400 --> 00:51:24,960
Speaker 1: They're jealous ass girl.

964
00:51:26,760 --> 00:51:34,200
Speaker 2: That's it. That's all. Oh like all like literally every

965
00:51:34,239 --> 00:51:38,480
Speaker 2: guy that I've dated in the since Instagram started, that

966
00:51:38,600 --> 00:51:45,400
Speaker 2: we fell out. They no, they please your that was.

967
00:51:48,400 --> 00:51:53,200
Speaker 1: I didn't mean it to be it that.

968
00:51:55,239 --> 00:51:59,319
Speaker 2: No, they're all none of them niggas engage. Only one

969
00:51:59,360 --> 00:52:01,000
Speaker 2: of them is married. Oh no, two of them are

970
00:52:01,080 --> 00:52:04,640
Speaker 2: married now from my past, but all of them outside

971
00:52:04,640 --> 00:52:06,840
Speaker 2: industries being the whores they were when they were went me.

972
00:52:07,760 --> 00:52:10,839
Speaker 2: But they're all blocked on social media.

973
00:52:10,960 --> 00:52:12,799
Speaker 1: Damn you block all your old niggas.

974
00:52:14,560 --> 00:52:16,080
Speaker 2: Not all of them, but a lot of them, because

975
00:52:16,120 --> 00:52:20,839
Speaker 2: it always is in some type of betrayal that leads

976
00:52:20,880 --> 00:52:22,719
Speaker 2: to me like you don't need to have access to

977
00:52:22,760 --> 00:52:23,360
Speaker 2: me anymore.

978
00:52:24,680 --> 00:52:26,720
Speaker 1: I only got one nigga blocked, or one.

979
00:52:26,600 --> 00:52:29,000
Speaker 2: Guy I blocked because he didn't take care of his kids,

980
00:52:29,120 --> 00:52:29,799
Speaker 2: stuff like that.

981
00:52:29,920 --> 00:52:31,920
Speaker 1: You know, everybody should block him. You should put his

982
00:52:31,960 --> 00:52:35,680
Speaker 1: Instagram name on your story. Everybody should.

983
00:52:36,840 --> 00:52:38,759
Speaker 2: Right as your son lives down the street and he

984
00:52:38,800 --> 00:52:41,200
Speaker 2: ain't seen you in years. When I found that out,

985
00:52:41,280 --> 00:52:43,960
Speaker 2: I was like, oh hell, no blocked period.

986
00:52:44,800 --> 00:52:50,440
Speaker 1: No value misalignment. It says as people grow and evolved,

987
00:52:50,719 --> 00:52:54,120
Speaker 1: their values may shift. If someone's content no longer resonates

988
00:52:54,200 --> 00:52:58,120
Speaker 1: or aligns with those evolving values, it's common for users

989
00:52:58,160 --> 00:53:02,080
Speaker 1: to unfollow. For instance, if someone becomes more politically active

990
00:53:02,160 --> 00:53:05,880
Speaker 1: or shares controversial opinions, others might feel the need to

991
00:53:05,960 --> 00:53:10,240
Speaker 1: unfollow to avoid conflict, to conflict or discomfort. I agree

992
00:53:10,239 --> 00:53:13,400
Speaker 1: with that. I really don't unblocking, especially like right now,

993
00:53:13,480 --> 00:53:16,759
Speaker 1: like the political ship has been It's just a it's

994
00:53:16,760 --> 00:53:18,920
Speaker 1: a bit much, okay.

995
00:53:18,520 --> 00:53:21,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it can get ugly.

996
00:53:22,560 --> 00:53:23,279
Speaker 1: Disrespectful.

997
00:53:23,440 --> 00:53:27,600
Speaker 2: Actually yeah, they're passionate and sometimes they get rude. You know,

998
00:53:27,640 --> 00:53:29,759
Speaker 2: it gets to a place where And that's why I

999
00:53:29,800 --> 00:53:32,200
Speaker 2: don't wanting to talk about y'all. AJ really wants us

1000
00:53:32,239 --> 00:53:34,880
Speaker 2: to have a political conversation on the show, but I

1001
00:53:34,960 --> 00:53:37,760
Speaker 2: just feel like this our show is so much fun

1002
00:53:37,840 --> 00:53:40,480
Speaker 2: and it's so happy, and I don't want her and

1003
00:53:40,520 --> 00:53:41,759
Speaker 2: I to you know.

1004
00:53:41,800 --> 00:53:43,880
Speaker 1: It doesn't have to be like that, right, So you

1005
00:53:43,960 --> 00:53:45,520
Speaker 1: already in the wrong mindset.

1006
00:53:45,560 --> 00:53:48,719
Speaker 2: But it has been like that before when we talked

1007
00:53:48,760 --> 00:53:51,879
Speaker 2: about it, and that's why I don't want to enter

1008
00:53:52,080 --> 00:53:54,880
Speaker 2: it into that space and then we be back in

1009
00:53:55,080 --> 00:53:57,800
Speaker 2: so and then I'll be I'll follow you again, you

1010
00:53:57,840 --> 00:53:58,600
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying, Like, I.

1011
00:53:58,560 --> 00:54:00,520
Speaker 1: Don't why does it have to be? You know? This

1012
00:54:00,560 --> 00:54:03,120
Speaker 1: is this is why also just in real life, regular life,

1013
00:54:03,160 --> 00:54:06,040
Speaker 1: I try to stay away from religion and politics too.

1014
00:54:06,080 --> 00:54:08,799
Speaker 1: Like I try to really gravitate towards people who have

1015
00:54:08,920 --> 00:54:11,680
Speaker 1: the same views, but I also like to still see

1016
00:54:11,719 --> 00:54:14,040
Speaker 1: what other people think. Like I'm not just to seeing

1017
00:54:14,120 --> 00:54:16,680
Speaker 1: in girl. I'm not a Fox girl. What I don't

1018
00:54:16,760 --> 00:54:19,920
Speaker 1: subscribe to no news station, but I like to see

1019
00:54:20,000 --> 00:54:22,960
Speaker 1: all the things, So I'm never going to just discard

1020
00:54:23,560 --> 00:54:27,279
Speaker 1: someone's opinion or their views about something in particular. We

1021
00:54:27,280 --> 00:54:30,400
Speaker 1: should be able to converse without it being an argument

1022
00:54:30,520 --> 00:54:33,880
Speaker 1: about some shit. Is what bitches call you willfully ignorant

1023
00:54:34,440 --> 00:54:38,879
Speaker 1: is when she gets stupid. Yeah, because you said that, Yes,

1024
00:54:38,960 --> 00:54:41,879
Speaker 1: you did call me willfully ignorant three years ago.

1025
00:54:43,440 --> 00:54:46,720
Speaker 2: I said it. It was because you said some slitch bitch.

1026
00:54:47,520 --> 00:54:50,400
Speaker 1: Nah, bitch because look, yes, ain't get vaccinated because of me,

1027
00:54:50,480 --> 00:54:55,200
Speaker 1: bitch like hive out here saving fucking lives. Bitch because

1028
00:54:55,440 --> 00:54:59,960
Speaker 1: ain't a motherfucker in this world regret not getting vaccinated. Okay, everybody,

1029
00:55:00,719 --> 00:55:01,240
Speaker 1: we're good.

1030
00:55:02,120 --> 00:55:06,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're right about that. But we did like our

1031
00:55:06,320 --> 00:55:10,239
Speaker 2: when we would talk politics, that would get nasty, you know,

1032
00:55:10,400 --> 00:55:12,000
Speaker 2: So I just don't want to do it. I like

1033
00:55:12,080 --> 00:55:13,840
Speaker 2: where we are right now. I like the space that

1034
00:55:13,840 --> 00:55:16,120
Speaker 2: we're in. I like the way we were communicating, and

1035
00:55:16,160 --> 00:55:19,200
Speaker 2: I just don't want politics to ruin that.

1036
00:55:19,320 --> 00:55:22,560
Speaker 1: Well, that's why I wanted to bring on other people. Right,

1037
00:55:22,680 --> 00:55:26,279
Speaker 1: it doesn't have to necessarily be us having a conversation,

1038
00:55:26,400 --> 00:55:30,120
Speaker 1: but with a platform like we talk back, you know,

1039
00:55:30,960 --> 00:55:34,239
Speaker 1: and it's not like so we're not a comedy podcast, right,

1040
00:55:34,320 --> 00:55:38,320
Speaker 1: it's culture and society, Like we need to be talking

1041
00:55:38,320 --> 00:55:39,680
Speaker 1: about the things that's happening.

1042
00:55:40,840 --> 00:55:43,520
Speaker 2: I yes, we should be talking about the things that

1043
00:55:43,680 --> 00:55:48,040
Speaker 2: are happening. I agree, I just don't know politics should

1044
00:55:48,080 --> 00:55:50,840
Speaker 2: be one of them. But we can revisit that before

1045
00:55:50,840 --> 00:55:51,440
Speaker 2: the election.

1046
00:55:51,920 --> 00:55:55,200
Speaker 1: Well the election is in twenty nine days, okay.

1047
00:55:55,000 --> 00:55:57,759
Speaker 2: So we visit it next week and I'm gonna have

1048
00:55:57,800 --> 00:55:59,680
Speaker 2: the same shame.

1049
00:56:01,440 --> 00:56:04,719
Speaker 1: But yeah, some people. I haven't unfollowed people because of

1050
00:56:04,800 --> 00:56:07,560
Speaker 1: their political opinions, but if the shit is too radical,

1051
00:56:07,640 --> 00:56:11,680
Speaker 1: I'm really looking at you sideways because I just feel

1052
00:56:11,719 --> 00:56:16,560
Speaker 1: like it's just something. It be something there, right, it's

1053
00:56:16,640 --> 00:56:18,319
Speaker 1: just something like you.

1054
00:56:18,640 --> 00:56:22,000
Speaker 2: It's something I don't like when it when it gets

1055
00:56:22,040 --> 00:56:26,040
Speaker 2: to like as much as I enjoy sexy Red, I

1056
00:56:26,080 --> 00:56:30,759
Speaker 2: had to unfollow her because our Sukiana Sukihan is mine.

1057
00:56:30,840 --> 00:56:34,040
Speaker 2: Sometimes the content is just a little bit more than

1058
00:56:36,160 --> 00:56:39,319
Speaker 2: that agrees with my personal taste. Yes, so I just

1059
00:56:39,360 --> 00:56:43,759
Speaker 2: have to like follow, Yeah, no shade to them. I

1060
00:56:43,920 --> 00:56:46,080
Speaker 2: like it was like that one picture when she was

1061
00:56:46,120 --> 00:56:48,640
Speaker 2: like holding her coochie list like a penis. That's when

1062
00:56:48,680 --> 00:56:49,640
Speaker 2: I was like, all right, that is.

1063
00:56:50,120 --> 00:56:55,120
Speaker 1: For me enough. Yeah, Sukiyana I've always had a love

1064
00:56:55,200 --> 00:56:57,399
Speaker 1: hite relationship for her because I just know she's much

1065
00:56:57,440 --> 00:57:01,560
Speaker 1: more than what she presents. So I always battle with that,

1066
00:57:01,719 --> 00:57:03,640
Speaker 1: just not wanting to discard. And I mean, she don't

1067
00:57:03,680 --> 00:57:05,560
Speaker 1: know me, so it doesn't matter, right.

1068
00:57:05,680 --> 00:57:08,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, you got millions of followers. They don't care. You know.

1069
00:57:08,920 --> 00:57:11,960
Speaker 2: It's about the content that I want to consume, right,

1070
00:57:12,760 --> 00:57:14,040
Speaker 2: you know, it's not personal.

1071
00:57:14,680 --> 00:57:17,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, that ship is not for me. Like that, you'd

1072
00:57:17,360 --> 00:57:20,560
Speaker 1: be saying some super intelligence sound and ship the next thing,

1073
00:57:20,600 --> 00:57:23,480
Speaker 1: you know, she looking at that long ass tongue with

1074
00:57:23,520 --> 00:57:26,280
Speaker 1: her leg cock open eating, put s on a video

1075
00:57:26,480 --> 00:57:27,520
Speaker 1: all type of wearing shit.

1076
00:57:28,600 --> 00:57:34,000
Speaker 2: Yeah for Auntie, listen, I just come from a different

1077
00:57:34,200 --> 00:57:37,840
Speaker 2: I'm okay, I'm understanding and I'm accepting that. I just

1078
00:57:37,920 --> 00:57:42,640
Speaker 2: come from a time. Yeah, Trina raor girl like you know.

1079
00:57:43,120 --> 00:57:45,479
Speaker 3: Just still classy, whole classy ship.

1080
00:57:45,680 --> 00:57:52,320
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, okay, Yeah, decluttering the digital space. So we

1081
00:57:52,560 --> 00:57:54,640
Speaker 1: kind of talked about that already, just you know, cleaning

1082
00:57:54,640 --> 00:57:58,280
Speaker 1: your page up, cleaning up the followers, looking for people

1083
00:57:58,360 --> 00:58:02,000
Speaker 1: that do not who are not social like I don't.

1084
00:58:01,880 --> 00:58:05,560
Speaker 2: Like those bitches and I call them bitches who will

1085
00:58:05,720 --> 00:58:08,560
Speaker 2: have a whole bunch of followers come follow you. You'll

1086
00:58:08,600 --> 00:58:10,520
Speaker 2: be like, oh, they got good content, follow you, and

1087
00:58:10,600 --> 00:58:12,760
Speaker 2: then you look back two days later and they've unfollowed.

1088
00:58:12,880 --> 00:58:15,560
Speaker 1: I think that's how a lot of people build their followers.

1089
00:58:15,040 --> 00:58:18,880
Speaker 2: Too, trying to build their followers and keep their numbers low. Bitch,

1090
00:58:18,920 --> 00:58:20,880
Speaker 2: don't come over here with that because I don't follow

1091
00:58:20,920 --> 00:58:22,160
Speaker 2: you back. Why are you doing that?

1092
00:58:22,160 --> 00:58:24,520
Speaker 1: You're whack if you do that type of shit and

1093
00:58:24,640 --> 00:58:27,240
Speaker 1: I and I've seen that, not just with the women,

1094
00:58:27,800 --> 00:58:30,840
Speaker 1: men do that shit too, like random ass nigga following.

1095
00:58:30,840 --> 00:58:33,280
Speaker 1: You might follow back because they content looks lit. A

1096
00:58:33,320 --> 00:58:37,080
Speaker 1: couple of days later, like what is happening? That's pretty whack.

1097
00:58:37,960 --> 00:58:39,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's lame. Don't do that.

1098
00:58:39,800 --> 00:58:42,720
Speaker 1: I've had people I know do that, not like recently,

1099
00:58:42,840 --> 00:58:43,760
Speaker 1: but like.

1100
00:58:43,840 --> 00:58:47,360
Speaker 2: What follow you and then when you follow back on following?

1101
00:58:47,440 --> 00:58:50,960
Speaker 1: Yes, yes it is. At one point I wasn't on

1102
00:58:51,000 --> 00:58:53,360
Speaker 1: social media like that, so when I started getting back

1103
00:58:53,400 --> 00:58:55,800
Speaker 1: on that type of whack shit was happening.

1104
00:58:57,000 --> 00:58:59,160
Speaker 2: Have you ever had somebody try to force a follow

1105
00:58:59,240 --> 00:59:02,280
Speaker 2: from you? Yeah, keep ding and they'll follow you and

1106
00:59:02,400 --> 00:59:06,200
Speaker 2: unfollow follow my back and then unfollow you, and then

1107
00:59:06,400 --> 00:59:08,240
Speaker 2: so you can keep showing up at so they can

1108
00:59:08,360 --> 00:59:10,520
Speaker 2: keep showing up as a new follow, Like.

1109
00:59:10,840 --> 00:59:13,080
Speaker 1: I've never had that happen, but I've had people like

1110
00:59:13,440 --> 00:59:16,120
Speaker 1: putting messages in the comments like you'll follow me back?

1111
00:59:17,880 --> 00:59:21,240
Speaker 1: Why if I wanted to, I would? I saw you

1112
00:59:21,320 --> 00:59:27,640
Speaker 1: follow me? I promise I saw. I don't want to like.

1113
00:59:28,280 --> 00:59:30,040
Speaker 2: But when did our world become?

1114
00:59:30,200 --> 00:59:34,280
Speaker 1: So everybody wants to feel important? So that's what the

1115
00:59:34,320 --> 00:59:38,840
Speaker 1: follow thing is, right, it's about it feeds something in people.

1116
00:59:38,840 --> 00:59:41,360
Speaker 1: It feeds something in you to see the likes, right,

1117
00:59:41,520 --> 00:59:44,400
Speaker 1: it feeds something. Oh, it gives you do That's what

1118
00:59:44,440 --> 00:59:49,360
Speaker 1: Instagram is. It's instant grams of dopamine. That's literally what

1119
00:59:49,480 --> 00:59:53,520
Speaker 1: the fuck they've created. It's a drug. Because I can't disconnect.

1120
00:59:53,560 --> 00:59:56,040
Speaker 1: And we had a whole episode about just disconnecting from

1121
00:59:56,320 --> 01:00:01,520
Speaker 1: social media to digital detox. I'm still trying every day.

1122
01:00:02,240 --> 01:00:04,800
Speaker 1: I'm still trying to because I know I can do

1123
01:00:04,880 --> 01:00:08,560
Speaker 1: something more productive with those hours I spend on social media.

1124
01:00:08,560 --> 01:00:10,920
Speaker 1: And if it's not a straight six hours, I mean

1125
01:00:10,960 --> 01:00:13,240
Speaker 1: it adds up throughout the day you on and off

1126
01:00:13,240 --> 01:00:13,600
Speaker 1: the app.

1127
01:00:14,960 --> 01:00:20,320
Speaker 2: I have a problem with going on Facebook, Marketplace and

1128
01:00:20,400 --> 01:00:24,160
Speaker 2: offer up and I'm like, just I love it. Haggling

1129
01:00:24,400 --> 01:00:27,760
Speaker 2: motherfuckers like price haggling for shit I don't even want.

1130
01:00:27,920 --> 01:00:29,520
Speaker 2: I just like to see how far I can get

1131
01:00:29,520 --> 01:00:35,960
Speaker 2: people together. Bitch, I'm blocking you, like, I'm just like

1132
01:00:36,200 --> 01:00:39,960
Speaker 2: the negotiator, Like I will send them like they don't

1133
01:00:40,000 --> 01:00:42,439
Speaker 2: have a price for something, and I'll send them where

1134
01:00:42,560 --> 01:00:45,160
Speaker 2: it's a similar price marked down online for their shit,

1135
01:00:45,320 --> 01:00:47,480
Speaker 2: Like I can get a new one of what you're

1136
01:00:47,560 --> 01:00:51,360
Speaker 2: selling for. I just need to tell, right, yeah, for

1137
01:00:51,480 --> 01:00:53,640
Speaker 2: five dollars more than what you're trying to sell it for.

1138
01:00:53,960 --> 01:00:56,160
Speaker 2: So are you willing to accept this price that I've

1139
01:00:56,200 --> 01:00:58,200
Speaker 2: offered you? Like, I really be going back?

1140
01:00:58,960 --> 01:01:02,120
Speaker 1: What's the last thing you off of Facebook Marketplace?

1141
01:01:04,480 --> 01:01:09,400
Speaker 2: I just I just actually bought a salon sink okay

1142
01:01:09,800 --> 01:01:12,160
Speaker 2: off of Facebook mark and listen. It was so lit

1143
01:01:12,200 --> 01:01:17,400
Speaker 2: because I got a sink, uh, two dryers because they're

1144
01:01:17,600 --> 01:01:21,480
Speaker 2: refurbishing their salon, this Salona downtown Charlotte and I and

1145
01:01:21,560 --> 01:01:23,479
Speaker 2: since I'm moving from place to place, I just needed

1146
01:01:23,520 --> 01:01:27,680
Speaker 2: some new stuff and they gave me all this ship.

1147
01:01:27,920 --> 01:01:29,520
Speaker 2: So what I'm gonna do? I mean, they gave me

1148
01:01:29,560 --> 01:01:30,160
Speaker 2: a bunch of shit.

1149
01:01:30,240 --> 01:01:32,040
Speaker 1: You want to resell it? No?

1150
01:01:35,120 --> 01:01:35,480
Speaker 2: Period?

1151
01:01:36,920 --> 01:01:39,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, because they probably didn't feel, like, you know, having

1152
01:01:39,200 --> 01:01:41,320
Speaker 1: to deal with the things. And that's what I was

1153
01:01:41,360 --> 01:01:43,280
Speaker 1: talking about last week, like with my storage unit, Like

1154
01:01:43,320 --> 01:01:46,760
Speaker 1: I wanted to sell that stuff, but I didn't really

1155
01:01:46,800 --> 01:01:55,600
Speaker 1: have the time. So mm hm. Reducing social pressure. Sometimes

1156
01:01:55,600 --> 01:02:01,320
Speaker 1: social media connections connections feel like obligations, especially with acquaintances

1157
01:02:01,400 --> 01:02:05,800
Speaker 1: or distant relatives. Unfollowing can reduce the pressure to engage

1158
01:02:05,840 --> 01:02:08,760
Speaker 1: with people one might not have a close relationship with,

1159
01:02:08,880 --> 01:02:14,040
Speaker 1: creating more space for authentic interactions. Not y'all unfollowing family,

1160
01:02:14,040 --> 01:02:17,440
Speaker 1: because y'all all want to deal with them, and you

1161
01:02:17,520 --> 01:02:19,919
Speaker 1: got to be careful who you engage with. So even though,

1162
01:02:19,960 --> 01:02:22,520
Speaker 1: like you know, engaging with listeners because that's something I

1163
01:02:22,640 --> 01:02:25,640
Speaker 1: like to do, you just got to be careful because

1164
01:02:25,680 --> 01:02:28,280
Speaker 1: some people just they automatically just think y'all like for

1165
01:02:28,360 --> 01:02:32,200
Speaker 1: real besties mm hmm. You know, and some some people

1166
01:02:32,240 --> 01:02:33,000
Speaker 1: be cool.

1167
01:02:33,120 --> 01:02:36,120
Speaker 2: But then others they just start a lot of people

1168
01:02:36,160 --> 01:02:38,160
Speaker 2: are you know, actually really cool. But then some people

1169
01:02:38,240 --> 01:02:42,560
Speaker 2: be really thinking, like I don't know you.

1170
01:02:42,640 --> 01:02:44,480
Speaker 1: They can pull up in your city, like I had

1171
01:02:44,480 --> 01:02:50,040
Speaker 1: a Nigga message be like, now, maybe I just didn't say,

1172
01:02:50,080 --> 01:02:52,240
Speaker 1: but I don't live in Charlotte, right, I don't know.

1173
01:02:52,280 --> 01:02:55,040
Speaker 1: Maybe they never heard that. But this nigga driving trucks

1174
01:02:55,160 --> 01:02:58,240
Speaker 1: is like I'm coming through. Excuse me, I don't even

1175
01:02:58,240 --> 01:03:01,640
Speaker 1: live there. You don't know my life. You don't really

1176
01:03:01,680 --> 01:03:07,840
Speaker 1: know my life. Dog, and my nigga is a killer. Okay,

1177
01:03:08,520 --> 01:03:13,280
Speaker 1: I only fuck with killers. I'm not about to risk

1178
01:03:13,360 --> 01:03:22,040
Speaker 1: my life or yours, sir, right legs the hell it's happened? Yeah,

1179
01:03:22,120 --> 01:03:28,720
Speaker 1: self esteem and empowerments. For some, unfollowing is an empowering act,

1180
01:03:29,000 --> 01:03:33,680
Speaker 1: so you power tripping. H It represents taking control of

1181
01:03:33,720 --> 01:03:38,040
Speaker 1: one's digital environment and reinforcing personal boundaries. This is particularly

1182
01:03:38,080 --> 01:03:42,080
Speaker 1: true in toxic relationships or after a breakup, where unfollowing

1183
01:03:42,120 --> 01:03:46,440
Speaker 1: may signal a need to move on and regain emotional independence.

1184
01:03:46,720 --> 01:03:50,080
Speaker 2: So that's when it's a prop Yeah, I've done that. Like,

1185
01:03:51,480 --> 01:03:54,200
Speaker 2: you don't need access to me in any way anymore

1186
01:03:54,360 --> 01:03:57,880
Speaker 2: after this is done. And like if we ended amicably,

1187
01:03:58,200 --> 01:04:00,440
Speaker 2: then okay, we can still have a followup. It's not

1188
01:04:00,480 --> 01:04:02,960
Speaker 2: a problem. But if it was toxic and you did

1189
01:04:03,000 --> 01:04:06,000
Speaker 2: some shit that really broke me, you have no accent

1190
01:04:07,640 --> 01:04:08,760
Speaker 2: except for cash.

1191
01:04:08,480 --> 01:04:11,640
Speaker 1: Apps, still a stepping those zails.

1192
01:04:11,720 --> 01:04:14,479
Speaker 2: You can't even can you block people on cash app? Yeah?

1193
01:04:14,760 --> 01:04:15,080
Speaker 1: You can?

1194
01:04:16,080 --> 01:04:19,040
Speaker 2: You can't walk never Why would I do suggest that

1195
01:04:19,080 --> 01:04:20,160
Speaker 2: it's a dumb feature.

1196
01:04:21,360 --> 01:04:27,960
Speaker 1: It's a broke ass future feature. Over exposure to content,

1197
01:04:28,240 --> 01:04:33,120
Speaker 1: people may unfollow when the content becomes repetitive or overbearing. Overposting,

1198
01:04:33,200 --> 01:04:37,200
Speaker 1: especially on topics like fitness, politics, or personal achievements, can

1199
01:04:37,280 --> 01:04:42,200
Speaker 1: lead to content fatigue, where followers lose interest or become annoyed.

1200
01:04:42,440 --> 01:04:44,200
Speaker 1: So at one point, I was following a lot of

1201
01:04:44,240 --> 01:04:46,560
Speaker 1: different fitness pages. But what I've started doing is just

1202
01:04:46,600 --> 01:04:49,480
Speaker 1: saving a post from that person's page instead of following.

1203
01:04:50,040 --> 01:04:51,840
Speaker 1: So now if I want to go to they page,

1204
01:04:51,880 --> 01:04:54,120
Speaker 1: I can just go to my save shit and go

1205
01:04:54,200 --> 01:04:55,720
Speaker 1: to their page, because I might. I don't want to

1206
01:04:55,760 --> 01:05:00,240
Speaker 1: see that every day all day, if that is the

1207
01:05:00,280 --> 01:05:02,640
Speaker 1: main thing that person does on social media. I don't

1208
01:05:02,680 --> 01:05:07,120
Speaker 1: really want twenty fitness bitches on my timeline.

1209
01:05:07,320 --> 01:05:09,800
Speaker 2: I don't. I love the fitness bitches on my timeline.

1210
01:05:10,280 --> 01:05:12,320
Speaker 1: I got the the ones I like, and then I

1211
01:05:12,440 --> 01:05:15,360
Speaker 1: see other people like who may have like a low

1212
01:05:15,480 --> 01:05:17,160
Speaker 1: routine I want to try or something like that I

1213
01:05:17,200 --> 01:05:20,520
Speaker 1: wouldn't necessarily follow. I'll just save it second, go back

1214
01:05:20,560 --> 01:05:21,120
Speaker 1: and visit it.

1215
01:05:22,200 --> 01:05:23,200
Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah that makes sense.

1216
01:05:23,280 --> 01:05:25,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, so I have like my bitches like Chanelle. I

1217
01:05:25,600 --> 01:05:26,640
Speaker 1: love watch that bitch.

1218
01:05:26,640 --> 01:05:29,400
Speaker 2: Okay, we gotta stop calling women bitches so much.

1219
01:05:29,680 --> 01:05:34,000
Speaker 1: Oh like that girl, Chanel. I love to see that bitch. Ye,

1220
01:05:34,840 --> 01:05:40,480
Speaker 1: she's so fine. Cognitive dissonance when someone posts content that

1221
01:05:40,520 --> 01:05:43,480
Speaker 1: goes against the followers believes values or lifestyle, it can

1222
01:05:43,520 --> 01:05:47,880
Speaker 1: create this comfort. Unfollowing can resolve this dissonance by eliminating

1223
01:05:47,920 --> 01:05:52,120
Speaker 1: the exposure to these conflicting ideas. I like learning new

1224
01:05:52,120 --> 01:05:54,600
Speaker 1: shit rather I agree with it or not, So when

1225
01:05:54,640 --> 01:05:57,200
Speaker 1: I see something, I'll go look it up. I'll never

1226
01:05:57,280 --> 01:06:02,360
Speaker 1: have cognitive dissonance like I be wanting to know shityeh

1227
01:06:02,400 --> 01:06:02,720
Speaker 1: me too.

1228
01:06:02,760 --> 01:06:06,120
Speaker 2: I'm open to the opinions of others, you know where

1229
01:06:06,280 --> 01:06:09,680
Speaker 2: you know, I'm not one of those people who typically

1230
01:06:09,760 --> 01:06:12,680
Speaker 2: get mad at someone else's opinion as long as they're

1231
01:06:12,720 --> 01:06:14,600
Speaker 2: not condescending to mine, you know.

1232
01:06:14,720 --> 01:06:21,880
Speaker 1: Right, You know, I just realized I did recently unfollow

1233
01:06:22,000 --> 01:06:24,040
Speaker 1: somebody that I haven't following for a long time. And

1234
01:06:24,080 --> 01:06:26,240
Speaker 1: I don't really know why. I just felt like and

1235
01:06:26,280 --> 01:06:29,360
Speaker 1: it could be a thing where I just outgrew their content.

1236
01:06:29,600 --> 01:06:33,360
Speaker 1: Really and it's like mm, because this next one says,

1237
01:06:35,720 --> 01:06:40,560
Speaker 1: did I skip it? Is that cognitive dissonance over exposure

1238
01:06:40,600 --> 01:06:45,880
Speaker 1: to content like okay, it's enough. I'll check you out

1239
01:06:45,920 --> 01:06:48,840
Speaker 1: some other time, and I probably I've been following that

1240
01:06:48,880 --> 01:06:54,920
Speaker 1: person for a long time. This next next one says uh,

1241
01:06:55,040 --> 01:07:02,880
Speaker 1: fomo fear of missing out reversal. It actually says fomo reversal.

1242
01:07:04,280 --> 01:07:07,160
Speaker 1: Initial Social media amplifies fomo. You know what that is?

1243
01:07:07,240 --> 01:07:10,200
Speaker 1: Fair of missing out? Yeah, by keeping people connected to

1244
01:07:10,240 --> 01:07:12,880
Speaker 1: a wide array of experiences. But over time, some users

1245
01:07:12,880 --> 01:07:15,919
Speaker 1: find that constantly seeing that others, seeing what others are

1246
01:07:15,920 --> 01:07:19,440
Speaker 1: doing triggers FOMO too often leading them to unfollow people

1247
01:07:19,680 --> 01:07:27,120
Speaker 1: who post it exacerbate that feeling. Who's post exacerbates that feeling.

1248
01:07:27,160 --> 01:07:31,200
Speaker 1: In many cases, the act of unasturbate bit and step

1249
01:07:31,520 --> 01:07:36,200
Speaker 1: let me get sorry, friend girl. In many cases, the

1250
01:07:36,240 --> 01:07:39,760
Speaker 1: act of unfalling is a subtle, silent action to maintain

1251
01:07:39,800 --> 01:07:43,960
Speaker 1: one's mental health, social standing, or personal preferences, with deeper

1252
01:07:44,320 --> 01:07:49,720
Speaker 1: psychological motivations lurking behind the seemingly simple act. So that

1253
01:07:49,880 --> 01:07:52,200
Speaker 1: friend who feel like y'all will never invite her out nowhere,

1254
01:07:52,280 --> 01:07:56,000
Speaker 1: she might unfollow all y'all ass, I don't want to

1255
01:07:56,000 --> 01:07:57,760
Speaker 1: see these bitches outside.

1256
01:07:58,160 --> 01:08:00,479
Speaker 2: Every time, and I ain't get to invite. But here's

1257
01:08:00,480 --> 01:08:03,320
Speaker 2: the thing, don't be the bitch because I am. I have.

1258
01:08:03,840 --> 01:08:09,240
Speaker 2: Don't be the girl who never says yes to an

1259
01:08:09,280 --> 01:08:11,640
Speaker 2: invite and then get mad when the invites stopped coming.

1260
01:08:11,720 --> 01:08:15,400
Speaker 2: I have definitely been that girl. Don't never say yes.

1261
01:08:15,480 --> 01:08:17,559
Speaker 2: I always staying in like, oh no, I don't want

1262
01:08:17,600 --> 01:08:20,840
Speaker 2: to tell that I'm tired. I'm tired. And then when

1263
01:08:20,880 --> 01:08:24,600
Speaker 2: they don't invite you, you gotta show up, right, you

1264
01:08:24,640 --> 01:08:25,400
Speaker 2: gotta show up.

1265
01:08:25,520 --> 01:08:29,000
Speaker 1: My problem is I just need a week in advanced notice, Like,

1266
01:08:29,080 --> 01:08:31,400
Speaker 1: don't be telling me bout some shit two days before,

1267
01:08:31,439 --> 01:08:33,920
Speaker 1: because I have to mentally prepare to leave my house.

1268
01:08:35,680 --> 01:08:37,760
Speaker 1: I be comfortable, Like so now I got to put

1269
01:08:37,760 --> 01:08:40,280
Speaker 1: clothes on it and do my hair and like put

1270
01:08:40,320 --> 01:08:42,720
Speaker 1: a little eyeliner on it to go outside. I don't

1271
01:08:42,760 --> 01:08:43,799
Speaker 1: feel like it all the time.

1272
01:08:44,640 --> 01:08:46,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, if you tell me a day before you didn't

1273
01:08:46,800 --> 01:08:49,559
Speaker 2: want me to come, that's how I feel, right. Sit,

1274
01:08:49,640 --> 01:08:51,960
Speaker 2: you tell me the week of, Like I need to

1275
01:08:52,000 --> 01:08:54,400
Speaker 2: know the week before, so at least by the friday

1276
01:08:54,439 --> 01:08:56,639
Speaker 2: of the week before, what you need me to do

1277
01:08:57,160 --> 01:08:58,200
Speaker 2: the following friday?

1278
01:08:58,640 --> 01:09:02,800
Speaker 1: The seven days? Notice, this is what I need. Don't

1279
01:09:02,800 --> 01:09:06,320
Speaker 1: get me no a couple of days. Notice my homegirl,

1280
01:09:06,360 --> 01:09:08,400
Speaker 1: she know better, she'd be like I'm telling you now

1281
01:09:09,080 --> 01:09:12,920
Speaker 1: put layer clothes out today because I really got to

1282
01:09:12,920 --> 01:09:16,439
Speaker 1: get people not prepared, mentally prepared, because I will cancel. Bitch.

1283
01:09:16,680 --> 01:09:18,800
Speaker 1: Oh I love a bitch to cancel. I love if

1284
01:09:18,840 --> 01:09:22,000
Speaker 1: somebody say, oh, I'm going again, Thank God.

1285
01:09:21,840 --> 01:09:24,400
Speaker 2: That's me. I'm a kid. I'm like, I'll be. I

1286
01:09:24,400 --> 01:09:26,519
Speaker 2: can be hyped about something and then on the day

1287
01:09:26,560 --> 01:09:30,960
Speaker 2: of it's like, there is a new show that dropped

1288
01:09:31,000 --> 01:09:34,240
Speaker 2: on Netflix today that looks very good. I can just

1289
01:09:34,360 --> 01:09:36,799
Speaker 2: roll a joint and watch this and just be content.

1290
01:09:39,680 --> 01:09:42,120
Speaker 1: So those were I think those were Those were things

1291
01:09:42,160 --> 01:09:44,000
Speaker 1: like more so for like people we don't know, so

1292
01:09:44,040 --> 01:09:47,200
Speaker 1: what happens like with the friends unfollowing and shit like that.

1293
01:09:47,280 --> 01:09:51,200
Speaker 1: So this one says. Unfollowing friends on social media adds

1294
01:09:51,200 --> 01:09:56,200
Speaker 1: a layer of complexity because the decision might have personal, social,

1295
01:09:56,439 --> 01:10:04,320
Speaker 1: and emotional consequences. While unfollowing strangers or acquaintances can feel

1296
01:10:04,360 --> 01:10:08,519
Speaker 1: relatively straightforward, unfollowing a close friend can lead to feelings

1297
01:10:08,520 --> 01:10:12,240
Speaker 1: of guilt, anxiety, or even damage to the friendship. Here

1298
01:10:12,280 --> 01:10:17,600
Speaker 1: are the psychological factors behind unfollowing real life friends, so

1299
01:10:18,439 --> 01:10:22,479
Speaker 1: managing emotional triggers. So friends might post content that despite

1300
01:10:22,479 --> 01:10:26,720
Speaker 1: the close relationship triggers negative emotions, such as jealousy and

1301
01:10:26,760 --> 01:10:31,200
Speaker 1: security or frustration. That's your friend is that you can

1302
01:10:31,240 --> 01:10:35,200
Speaker 1: be Even though there's a bond outside of social media,

1303
01:10:35,240 --> 01:10:38,880
Speaker 1: their online presence may create emotional stress. For example, seeing

1304
01:10:38,920 --> 01:10:43,840
Speaker 1: friends on lavish vacations, celebrating milestones or flaunting success could

1305
01:10:43,920 --> 01:10:47,960
Speaker 1: lead to feelings of an adequacy or social comparison, making

1306
01:10:48,120 --> 01:10:52,840
Speaker 1: unfollowing a way to protect emotional well being. Again, I'm

1307
01:10:52,880 --> 01:10:55,320
Speaker 1: not unfollowing my friend because they're doing well.

1308
01:10:56,479 --> 01:11:00,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, that sounds weird to me. To unfollow your

1309
01:11:00,920 --> 01:11:04,200
Speaker 2: friend because they're doing well is because you need to

1310
01:11:04,240 --> 01:11:04,639
Speaker 2: do something.

1311
01:11:04,720 --> 01:11:07,360
Speaker 1: And here's the part. Here's the part that irks my

1312
01:11:07,400 --> 01:11:12,520
Speaker 1: nerves even thinking about realizing a close friend unfollows you.

1313
01:11:12,520 --> 01:11:16,360
Speaker 1: You ask them why they did it. How do they

1314
01:11:16,439 --> 01:11:18,960
Speaker 1: even explain that? I can only imagine a bit trying

1315
01:11:18,960 --> 01:11:21,800
Speaker 1: to make you the problem, which points to them not

1316
01:11:21,840 --> 01:11:25,519
Speaker 1: really being your friend, because explain to me why you

1317
01:11:25,600 --> 01:11:29,000
Speaker 1: one follows me? Because an adult, they're not going to

1318
01:11:29,040 --> 01:11:30,320
Speaker 1: be able to say that. They're not going to be

1319
01:11:30,320 --> 01:11:32,040
Speaker 1: able to say because you be on trips and shit

1320
01:11:32,439 --> 01:11:34,639
Speaker 1: and I ain't going on trips like they will create

1321
01:11:34,680 --> 01:11:37,240
Speaker 1: another reason in their minds that justify like how they're

1322
01:11:37,240 --> 01:11:40,759
Speaker 1: feeling other than it just being like a projection.

1323
01:11:42,160 --> 01:11:47,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, I couldn't see myself like saying like, hey, you know,

1324
01:11:48,360 --> 01:11:52,080
Speaker 2: it's not because we're not friends. I'm just not in

1325
01:11:52,160 --> 01:11:55,840
Speaker 2: a good space and seeing you so happy makes it

1326
01:11:55,880 --> 01:11:56,559
Speaker 2: harder for me.

1327
01:11:57,280 --> 01:12:00,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what it sounds like. And so as the

1328
01:12:00,320 --> 01:12:03,680
Speaker 1: the friend who's having this lit social life, how do

1329
01:12:03,720 --> 01:12:07,479
Speaker 1: you take that? Right, because it's a thin line between

1330
01:12:07,479 --> 01:12:07,960
Speaker 1: love and heat.

1331
01:12:10,280 --> 01:12:12,680
Speaker 2: I don't know how how I could accept that, Like,

1332
01:12:13,880 --> 01:12:15,840
Speaker 2: I don't know what to do with that information, Like,

1333
01:12:16,160 --> 01:12:18,960
Speaker 2: so are we still friends, right? Because I'm not gonna

1334
01:12:19,040 --> 01:12:22,400
Speaker 2: not be happy to make you happy.

1335
01:12:22,400 --> 01:12:27,040
Speaker 1: Right, So either mute or unfollow. So even muting your

1336
01:12:27,080 --> 01:12:28,640
Speaker 1: friend is just weird to me.

1337
01:12:29,800 --> 01:12:32,960
Speaker 2: But I mean I've had friends, I mean we all

1338
01:12:32,960 --> 01:12:36,320
Speaker 2: go through highs and lows, right, I've had friends that

1339
01:12:37,000 --> 01:12:40,320
Speaker 2: when some good things were happening for me, they didn't

1340
01:12:40,320 --> 01:12:42,680
Speaker 2: have the excitement that I thought they would for me.

1341
01:12:43,840 --> 01:12:47,920
Speaker 2: But I didn't take it personal because I knew what

1342
01:12:48,120 --> 01:12:50,720
Speaker 2: was going on in their own life, right, And it's

1343
01:12:50,760 --> 01:12:53,760
Speaker 2: hard sometimes to be happy for someone when your shit

1344
01:12:53,840 --> 01:12:55,920
Speaker 2: fucked up, you know, as happy as you would like

1345
01:12:55,960 --> 01:12:58,719
Speaker 2: to be, I don't know, and I wouldn't take it personal.

1346
01:12:58,800 --> 01:12:59,839
Speaker 2: I didn't take it personal.

1347
01:13:01,000 --> 01:13:04,160
Speaker 1: You sure, bitch, you sure you ain't take it personal.

1348
01:13:04,479 --> 01:13:07,920
Speaker 2: No, I didn't take it personal. I mean I saw

1349
01:13:07,960 --> 01:13:11,320
Speaker 2: it it did you know? It didn't feel good because

1350
01:13:11,360 --> 01:13:13,800
Speaker 2: I want the people I love most to be like

1351
01:13:14,320 --> 01:13:18,360
Speaker 2: celebrate my wins, you know. But I had to like

1352
01:13:18,400 --> 01:13:20,960
Speaker 2: take a step back and look like, well, she got

1353
01:13:20,960 --> 01:13:22,960
Speaker 2: this going on, and this going on, and this's going

1354
01:13:22,960 --> 01:13:25,559
Speaker 2: on right now. I can't expect her to be outside

1355
01:13:25,600 --> 01:13:27,640
Speaker 2: doing cartwheels for me right now, right, you know.

1356
01:13:28,200 --> 01:13:31,360
Speaker 1: But see that's where like doing cartwheels, that's how you

1357
01:13:31,439 --> 01:13:35,519
Speaker 1: receive your blessings, right, doing cartwheels when somebody else is

1358
01:13:35,520 --> 01:13:39,240
Speaker 1: doing well, Well, give you like that if you need

1359
01:13:39,760 --> 01:13:41,000
Speaker 1: to push forward to me.

1360
01:13:41,160 --> 01:13:43,639
Speaker 2: For me, Yeah, but only if the cartwheels are real.

1361
01:13:43,680 --> 01:13:47,840
Speaker 2: If you faking them, then you just gonna probably feel worse.

1362
01:13:48,160 --> 01:13:50,760
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. Like I wouldn't be faking the cartwheels.

1363
01:13:50,760 --> 01:13:53,400
Speaker 1: They would be genuine cart wheels because my people's is winning,

1364
01:13:53,920 --> 01:13:56,639
Speaker 1: so I'm next in line, would be my thought process.

1365
01:13:56,800 --> 01:13:58,920
Speaker 1: It would never be like I'm going to be in

1366
01:13:58,960 --> 01:14:00,200
Speaker 1: this downstate.

1367
01:14:01,520 --> 01:14:06,519
Speaker 2: Right. Everybody don't think like that, you know, when when

1368
01:14:06,520 --> 01:14:11,160
Speaker 2: they're in the thick of their valley, it's hard. Sometimes

1369
01:14:11,200 --> 01:14:13,880
Speaker 2: it's hard to see this sun. Like, so I get

1370
01:14:13,880 --> 01:14:17,200
Speaker 2: people grace with that, because some people like this totally

1371
01:14:17,240 --> 01:14:21,200
Speaker 2: would totally discard a person for not she haters, she ain't.

1372
01:14:21,000 --> 01:14:23,120
Speaker 1: Show up, she don't like my posts. That's another one.

1373
01:14:23,160 --> 01:14:26,000
Speaker 1: People be like, you don't like my posts, like maybe

1374
01:14:26,040 --> 01:14:27,599
Speaker 1: I didn't even see it. Maybe it didn't even come

1375
01:14:27,640 --> 01:14:29,760
Speaker 1: on my time. Your ship hardy comes up on my

1376
01:14:29,840 --> 01:14:32,479
Speaker 1: timeline right or even like you know what I'm saying,

1377
01:14:32,520 --> 01:14:34,719
Speaker 1: like at the top, like story stuff, your thing don't

1378
01:14:34,720 --> 01:14:38,519
Speaker 1: be first. Yeah, so sometimes you miss people's things.

1379
01:14:38,520 --> 01:14:40,519
Speaker 2: I rarely see yours, and I just assume that you

1380
01:14:40,560 --> 01:14:41,240
Speaker 2: don't be posting.

1381
01:14:41,520 --> 01:14:44,800
Speaker 1: I posted my story every day almost some days I like, yeah,

1382
01:14:44,840 --> 01:14:46,400
Speaker 1: I don't even see it, but it won't be like

1383
01:14:46,439 --> 01:14:48,160
Speaker 1: a whole I used to post a lot of shit

1384
01:14:48,240 --> 01:14:49,840
Speaker 1: on my story. It's not as much as it used

1385
01:14:49,880 --> 01:14:52,600
Speaker 1: to be, but yeah, I post something something.

1386
01:14:52,280 --> 01:14:54,680
Speaker 2: On it in each other the algorithm. Maybe because I

1387
01:14:54,720 --> 01:14:55,479
Speaker 2: don't follow you this.

1388
01:14:55,640 --> 01:15:00,719
Speaker 1: Exactly, bitch. We fell out. We fell out real life

1389
01:15:00,760 --> 01:15:01,599
Speaker 1: and on the internet.

1390
01:15:02,520 --> 01:15:02,880
Speaker 2: Uh.

1391
01:15:02,960 --> 01:15:07,120
Speaker 1: Protecting friendships, Sometimes people unfollow real life friends to preserve

1392
01:15:07,160 --> 01:15:09,679
Speaker 1: the friendship that ain't what happened to. If a friend

1393
01:15:09,720 --> 01:15:13,439
Speaker 1: constantly posts advice of annoying or controversial content that may

1394
01:15:14,240 --> 01:15:17,559
Speaker 1: lead to conflicts or resentment, unfalling conserve as a way

1395
01:15:17,600 --> 01:15:21,280
Speaker 1: to maintain harmony. By creating distance online, a person avoids

1396
01:15:21,479 --> 01:15:26,839
Speaker 1: unnecessary tension, ensuring that in person relationship isn't negatively affected.

1397
01:15:26,840 --> 01:15:29,960
Speaker 1: That's weird. Like, I'm following on social media and I'm

1398
01:15:29,960 --> 01:15:32,240
Speaker 1: gonna still go out to lunch with you. No, Like,

1399
01:15:32,479 --> 01:15:34,920
Speaker 1: as much as people like don't want to admit it,

1400
01:15:35,120 --> 01:15:38,439
Speaker 1: this is our lives now. Social media is a part

1401
01:15:38,479 --> 01:15:39,200
Speaker 1: of our life.

1402
01:15:39,880 --> 01:15:42,160
Speaker 2: Well, I know couples that don't follow each other on

1403
01:15:42,200 --> 01:15:44,520
Speaker 2: social media for that same reason, though.

1404
01:15:44,840 --> 01:15:49,559
Speaker 1: I think that's different though couples versus like friendships. No,

1405
01:15:49,600 --> 01:15:52,559
Speaker 1: it's not, I think, girl, I'm not sucking your dead girl.

1406
01:15:53,400 --> 01:15:55,760
Speaker 2: I don't have no dig to un I don't want

1407
01:15:55,760 --> 01:15:58,080
Speaker 2: you to see what other negative I might be talking

1408
01:15:58,080 --> 01:16:05,400
Speaker 2: to on Instagram. I have a friend on social media

1409
01:16:05,439 --> 01:16:07,200
Speaker 2: who is one of my real friends. He's a guy,

1410
01:16:07,280 --> 01:16:10,800
Speaker 2: but his the stuff that he sends me pisses me

1411
01:16:10,880 --> 01:16:14,160
Speaker 2: the fuck off, Like, and I have to say, don't

1412
01:16:14,200 --> 01:16:14,479
Speaker 2: send me.

1413
01:16:14,720 --> 01:16:16,640
Speaker 1: Are we the same? Is it the same? Friend.

1414
01:16:17,080 --> 01:16:22,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, the content he sends me and it just

1415
01:16:22,240 --> 01:16:24,680
Speaker 2: irks me, it gives me an it. I don't like it,

1416
01:16:24,840 --> 01:16:27,599
Speaker 2: but I love him, so I have to tell him

1417
01:16:27,680 --> 01:16:28,800
Speaker 2: I haven't unfollowed him.

1418
01:16:28,840 --> 01:16:31,200
Speaker 1: But even if you unfollow, he'll stow you send you

1419
01:16:31,240 --> 01:16:33,479
Speaker 1: those things. You'd have to block him to not receive

1420
01:16:33,479 --> 01:16:35,559
Speaker 1: those things, and he'll probably take them to you at

1421
01:16:35,560 --> 01:16:39,479
Speaker 1: that point. Right, if that nigga is a nut job,

1422
01:16:40,120 --> 01:16:42,760
Speaker 1: shout out to that nigga.

1423
01:16:43,240 --> 01:16:47,599
Speaker 2: Hell love him to death. But the content he shares

1424
01:16:47,680 --> 01:16:51,120
Speaker 2: does get on my fucking up, So I understand what

1425
01:16:51,160 --> 01:16:54,240
Speaker 2: they're saying. Like, to create healthy boundaries in the friendship,

1426
01:16:54,320 --> 01:16:55,360
Speaker 2: sometimes you gotta do it.

1427
01:16:56,000 --> 01:16:58,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not gonna go through all of these, but

1428
01:16:58,200 --> 01:17:00,080
Speaker 1: I do want to hit this one. This last one.

1429
01:17:00,560 --> 01:17:05,760
Speaker 1: Different social media personalities. This is weird to me. It

1430
01:17:05,800 --> 01:17:08,880
Speaker 1: says many people behave differently on social media than they

1431
01:17:08,920 --> 01:17:11,200
Speaker 1: do in real life. A friend may post in a

1432
01:17:11,200 --> 01:17:14,960
Speaker 1: way that feels inauthentic, excessive, or self centered, which could

1433
01:17:15,000 --> 01:17:18,160
Speaker 1: clash with how they act face to face. Unfallen can

1434
01:17:18,200 --> 01:17:21,120
Speaker 1: be a way of acknowledging that the online version of

1435
01:17:21,160 --> 01:17:25,160
Speaker 1: a friend isn't someone you enjoy engaging. Engaging with even

1436
01:17:25,200 --> 01:17:28,439
Speaker 1: though the in person version is someone you care about. See,

1437
01:17:28,560 --> 01:17:32,599
Speaker 1: I'm the same person like online the in real life

1438
01:17:32,640 --> 01:17:32,960
Speaker 1: me too.

1439
01:17:33,240 --> 01:17:36,440
Speaker 2: You get what you get. But I know people like that, well.

1440
01:17:36,439 --> 01:17:39,040
Speaker 1: Yes, like who the fuck are you? Like, I didn't

1441
01:17:39,080 --> 01:17:42,320
Speaker 1: realize you had mental health issues and so on social media?

1442
01:17:42,560 --> 01:17:45,439
Speaker 2: Right, but you know what people deal everybody dealing with something.

1443
01:17:45,720 --> 01:17:48,400
Speaker 2: That's the thing. I know somebody likes so judging of

1444
01:17:48,439 --> 01:17:51,679
Speaker 2: people on social media and just be running people down

1445
01:17:51,720 --> 01:17:53,120
Speaker 2: and tearing it like they just.

1446
01:17:53,280 --> 01:17:57,000
Speaker 1: Meaning, somebody just sent me that person's screenshot, a screenshot

1447
01:17:57,040 --> 01:17:59,000
Speaker 1: from that person's page and was like, look at your friend,

1448
01:17:59,439 --> 01:18:01,880
Speaker 1: like that isn't not my fucking friend. Know exactly who

1449
01:18:01,880 --> 01:18:02,679
Speaker 1: you're talking about.

1450
01:18:04,120 --> 01:18:06,360
Speaker 2: But in person, they'll give you the shirt off their back,

1451
01:18:06,560 --> 01:18:08,680
Speaker 2: you know, like they're that person is just like a

1452
01:18:08,760 --> 01:18:10,760
Speaker 2: doctor Jeko mister Hyde thing, and.

1453
01:18:12,920 --> 01:18:16,760
Speaker 1: That needs to be studied because so is that like

1454
01:18:16,960 --> 01:18:20,679
Speaker 1: really people already in the matrix like there being someone

1455
01:18:20,680 --> 01:18:26,439
Speaker 1: else like that's their surrogate online that strangers get to meet. Meanwhile,

1456
01:18:26,439 --> 01:18:28,400
Speaker 1: they just somebody totally different in person.

1457
01:18:29,960 --> 01:18:32,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've seen it more than once. Then I also

1458
01:18:32,680 --> 01:18:38,920
Speaker 2: know another girl who like her house is so filthy, right,

1459
01:18:39,360 --> 01:18:42,000
Speaker 2: But she got a clean spot in there, and that's

1460
01:18:41,600 --> 01:18:48,880
Speaker 2: what shit brouh cleaning shit up bruh yo. You would

1461
01:18:48,920 --> 01:18:49,400
Speaker 2: never know.

1462
01:18:50,720 --> 01:18:54,439
Speaker 1: So you really consciously choosing to be nasty, because if

1463
01:18:54,479 --> 01:18:57,240
Speaker 1: your internet life is cleaner than your real life, that

1464
01:18:57,439 --> 01:18:58,160
Speaker 1: is wild.

1465
01:19:00,040 --> 01:19:02,599
Speaker 2: You just find a clean spot in post.

1466
01:19:02,640 --> 01:19:06,040
Speaker 1: Because I'm a bit you'd be studying the background, like, oh,

1467
01:19:06,160 --> 01:19:10,040
Speaker 1: I see that, Like why your cabinet a toilet back there?

1468
01:19:12,360 --> 01:19:15,880
Speaker 1: Let a niggaposted a selfie in a bathroom. Who pink toothbrush?

1469
01:19:16,000 --> 01:19:20,920
Speaker 1: Is that nigga? That toothbrush look old too? You don't

1470
01:19:20,920 --> 01:19:23,240
Speaker 1: supposed to change that shit every two three months, Like

1471
01:19:26,680 --> 01:19:35,479
Speaker 1: bristles are chewed up, so good shame. So I don't know.

1472
01:19:35,720 --> 01:19:43,760
Speaker 1: People are weird. We're living in a were living in

1473
01:19:43,880 --> 01:19:50,040
Speaker 1: real weird times. And I guess whatever you think you

1474
01:19:50,080 --> 01:19:55,360
Speaker 1: need to do to cater to your your best mental health.

1475
01:19:56,600 --> 01:20:02,200
Speaker 1: But I think some of these things are actually mental

1476
01:20:02,200 --> 01:20:07,320
Speaker 1: health issues, you know what I'm saying, Like like some

1477
01:20:07,439 --> 01:20:09,840
Speaker 1: of the projection, like you feel in a way about

1478
01:20:09,840 --> 01:20:14,200
Speaker 1: somebody they don't even know, right, they don't even know,

1479
01:20:14,280 --> 01:20:18,040
Speaker 1: So unfollowing them isn't remedying the problem that you actually have.

1480
01:20:18,840 --> 01:20:22,439
Speaker 1: Your problem is comparison, right, how do you get out

1481
01:20:22,479 --> 01:20:23,280
Speaker 1: of that state.

1482
01:20:25,720 --> 01:20:27,679
Speaker 2: When you Yeah, I'm gonna do it, though, I will

1483
01:20:27,760 --> 01:20:33,719
Speaker 2: mute you if I feel like even a twinge of

1484
01:20:33,800 --> 01:20:38,080
Speaker 2: some jealousy or hate trying to like exist in my spirit,

1485
01:20:38,240 --> 01:20:40,120
Speaker 2: I will mute because I don't want that for me,

1486
01:20:40,680 --> 01:20:42,040
Speaker 2: and I don't want that for you.

1487
01:20:42,040 --> 01:20:44,080
Speaker 1: You know, so a lot of but that's what I'm saying,

1488
01:20:44,120 --> 01:20:47,640
Speaker 1: like people have to explore and I'm not. Maybe I

1489
01:20:47,640 --> 01:20:50,719
Speaker 1: don't know it's hate a natural because it's not nat.

1490
01:20:50,680 --> 01:20:54,559
Speaker 2: Jealousy and hate, yeah, but they are natural emotions. They

1491
01:20:54,600 --> 01:20:58,920
Speaker 2: are normal emotions. You know, it happens, you know, it does,

1492
01:20:59,520 --> 01:21:02,800
Speaker 2: and that's so the thing you cannot envy. I think

1493
01:21:03,040 --> 01:21:09,839
Speaker 2: sometimes envy has a dark something behind it, Yeah, because

1494
01:21:09,880 --> 01:21:12,800
Speaker 2: when you I think, when you envy somebody, it's like

1495
01:21:13,920 --> 01:21:16,240
Speaker 2: why do they have this? They shouldn't have it and

1496
01:21:16,320 --> 01:21:20,400
Speaker 2: I should, you know. But if you're jealous, I think

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01:21:20,439 --> 01:21:23,360
Speaker 2: that's natural, Like you can be jealous or something because

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01:21:23,400 --> 01:21:26,320
Speaker 2: you it's something that you want also for your life

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01:21:26,439 --> 01:21:28,599
Speaker 2: and this person has it, you know, and not saying

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Speaker 2: that they shouldn't have it too. H It's I don't know,

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01:21:32,080 --> 01:21:32,559
Speaker 2: I don't.

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01:21:32,479 --> 01:21:34,920
Speaker 1: Mean it's too close like it's too close for me.

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01:21:35,040 --> 01:21:37,720
Speaker 1: So I just I feel good when people are doing good.

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01:21:37,760 --> 01:21:40,080
Speaker 1: And I also know this is social media. You don't

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01:21:40,120 --> 01:21:42,200
Speaker 1: know what the fuck is going on that person's real life,

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01:21:43,880 --> 01:21:47,679
Speaker 1: you see. Yeah, so I'm gonna be You've You've conjured

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01:21:47,720 --> 01:21:50,240
Speaker 1: up these feelings and emotions about some ship that's probably

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01:21:50,280 --> 01:21:50,920
Speaker 1: not even real.

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01:21:51,439 --> 01:21:53,320
Speaker 2: They're probably jealous.

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01:21:53,439 --> 01:21:55,360
Speaker 1: I just told you who I'm jealous of. I hate

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01:21:55,360 --> 01:21:58,000
Speaker 1: to see a nigga brokerage account balance because that is

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01:21:58,040 --> 01:22:02,080
Speaker 1: something I'm very out. Other than that, I don't care.

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01:22:03,520 --> 01:22:05,120
Speaker 2: I was just jealous of one of my friends. But

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01:22:05,160 --> 01:22:09,360
Speaker 2: I told her to her face, I'm jealous. I want to.

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01:22:11,040 --> 01:22:13,000
Speaker 3: I don't want no burking and not they don't look nice.

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01:22:13,680 --> 01:22:18,679
Speaker 1: It's a social a status of a particular like social status, right.

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01:22:18,560 --> 01:22:23,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, like bitch, ain't got your whole month ring, your.

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01:22:23,320 --> 01:22:28,639
Speaker 1: Whole month ring? No, no that we'th thirty five forty

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01:22:28,680 --> 01:22:30,479
Speaker 1: thousand dollars, bitch my rent.

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Speaker 2: Your whole thousand, I mean your whole salary for the

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01:22:34,439 --> 01:22:35,320
Speaker 2: year on my ring?

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01:22:36,080 --> 01:22:36,960
Speaker 1: Is it a real burking?

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01:22:37,040 --> 01:22:37,240
Speaker 3: Though?

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01:22:38,080 --> 01:22:43,680
Speaker 2: It is jealous? I don't know to this day, if

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01:22:43,680 --> 01:22:45,320
Speaker 2: you're listening, bitch to this day.

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01:22:47,800 --> 01:22:50,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not real materialistic like that. So like the

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01:22:50,560 --> 01:22:53,000
Speaker 1: burking way make me feel no type of way. Now

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01:22:53,160 --> 01:22:55,519
Speaker 1: I've seen a bitch hopping on planes and traveling every

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01:22:55,520 --> 01:22:57,559
Speaker 1: which you weigh like that, I'd be like, damn, man,

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01:22:58,600 --> 01:23:00,760
Speaker 1: I gotta get my stamps up up you know.

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01:23:01,400 --> 01:23:02,160
Speaker 2: Oh no, I love that.

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01:23:02,280 --> 01:23:03,960
Speaker 1: Yeah. I want to see the world and ship like that.

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01:23:04,000 --> 01:23:06,679
Speaker 1: I want to hop on uh you know, I don't

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01:23:06,680 --> 01:23:08,479
Speaker 1: been on plenty yachts. I want to get on some

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01:23:08,479 --> 01:23:11,360
Speaker 1: more or just more frequent. I want to do things

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01:23:11,400 --> 01:23:14,680
Speaker 1: more frequently. Yes, but I also know bitches be going

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01:23:14,680 --> 01:23:17,200
Speaker 1: to the airport just to take pictures on those planes

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01:23:18,040 --> 01:23:20,639
Speaker 1: on a private plane, not really ever taking out.

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01:23:20,800 --> 01:23:22,439
Speaker 2: I want real I want real life ship.

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01:23:22,479 --> 01:23:25,360
Speaker 1: I don't want to And a lot of people spend

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01:23:25,360 --> 01:23:27,679
Speaker 1: a lot of money to look like things on social media.

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01:23:28,760 --> 01:23:29,599
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, they say.

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01:23:29,640 --> 01:23:32,479
Speaker 2: I have a one of my clients has a plane

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01:23:32,560 --> 01:23:35,559
Speaker 2: and she makes a lot of money just renting it

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01:23:35,640 --> 01:23:36,280
Speaker 2: for pictures.

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01:23:36,600 --> 01:23:40,519
Speaker 1: That's weird, Like that's really faking it until you make it.

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01:23:41,439 --> 01:23:42,320
Speaker 1: I don't want to do that.

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01:23:43,600 --> 01:23:47,519
Speaker 2: I'm my pictures would look so sad, like why are

1549
01:23:47,560 --> 01:23:48,080
Speaker 2: you crying?

1550
01:23:48,439 --> 01:23:49,000
Speaker 1: Because I.

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01:23:53,200 --> 01:23:53,559
Speaker 2: Don't know.

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01:23:53,600 --> 01:23:55,160
Speaker 1: But that's what we had in that man you got

1553
01:23:55,160 --> 01:23:59,400
Speaker 1: to get you got to get your social up when

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01:23:59,479 --> 01:24:02,240
Speaker 1: elsee guy, Yeah yeah, you you sent me two other

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01:24:02,360 --> 01:24:04,599
Speaker 1: damn things. You ain't talk about none of them things.

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01:24:04,640 --> 01:24:06,840
Speaker 2: Oh we already had an hour and we did thirty

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01:24:06,840 --> 01:24:07,599
Speaker 2: minutes of seeing.

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01:24:07,680 --> 01:24:12,040
Speaker 1: All right, anyway, block that bitch if you need to,

1559
01:24:12,560 --> 01:24:16,040
Speaker 1: excuse me, block that woman if you need to. This

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01:24:16,120 --> 01:24:19,720
Speaker 1: is my last last. Block whoever you need to unfollow

1561
01:24:20,240 --> 01:24:22,719
Speaker 1: who you need to, but make sure it is not projection.

1562
01:24:24,680 --> 01:24:27,320
Speaker 1: I don't know how you want to check that, but

1563
01:24:27,479 --> 01:24:30,200
Speaker 1: make sure you're not doing it from a place.

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01:24:30,000 --> 01:24:32,719
Speaker 2: Of like alice.

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01:24:32,960 --> 01:24:36,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I agree, Yeah, because then that you need

1566
01:24:36,160 --> 01:24:39,080
Speaker 1: you're not going to remedy the issue by unfollowing this person.

1567
01:24:39,080 --> 01:24:41,200
Speaker 1: They're actually not the problem.

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01:24:41,760 --> 01:24:46,800
Speaker 2: So yeah, my last last don't have nothing to do

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01:24:46,840 --> 01:24:49,760
Speaker 2: with the topic. It's just gonna be just be good

1570
01:24:49,800 --> 01:24:53,200
Speaker 2: and kind to each other and kind to yourself. Boom,

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01:24:53,240 --> 01:24:53,639
Speaker 2: that's it.

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