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Speaker 2: I knownapologist conception. Why are we talking about Omar the Angel?

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Speaker 5: And I said, be not afraid. It was a Bible

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Speaker 2: Yeah, right trade, absolute trade. I will give.

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Speaker 2: Why do you say that?

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Speaker 3: Well, she's really close to the daughter.

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Speaker 5: It is a thing she already Kayla's job to now

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Speaker 5: Only because put side John, only because she's she's she's

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Speaker 4: It just makes a good Cassanda makes a good point.

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Speaker 4: Proof that he cheated? All we know is that he

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Speaker 2: Okay, don't woo me with that. Stop stop about you model,

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Speaker 2: Dane, your your knives out? Oh my god, I don't

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Speaker 1: I feel stock this isn't just about cheating, even though

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Speaker 3: What if he was planning a birthday party that.

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Speaker 1: Communicated to Although although he hasn't seen Mike in four

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Speaker 2: One war flying fun. You are you are lying hard bike.

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Speaker 5: This is what I did. Nothing in here, That's what

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Speaker 1: Shut up onto the updates. Undiscloses the amount of time

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Speaker 2: First.

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Speaker 1: Kaylee decided to give him a call. She talked things

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Speaker 3: He was like, I was cheating for four weeks.

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Speaker 5: You were on your period at the beginning of the month,

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Speaker 3: So I just cheated all.

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Speaker 1: Just like filled, I figured, you know what you know

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Speaker 5: You need your logic, right, And it's funny because like

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Speaker 1: You know, like if you just talk to the lady

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Speaker 5: I talked to your guynecologist and she said, you don't

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Speaker 3: And so you're actually it's your fault.

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Speaker 2: You to ris. I want you to russ. We're on fire. Okay.

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Speaker 1: He said he had done it three other times, all

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Speaker 3: I am, oh, my god, I am.

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Speaker 2: Detecting a pattern here.

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Speaker 3: This man tracks her cycle.

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Speaker 2: My god.

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Speaker 1: She called me and told me before my son told me.

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Speaker 1: But in his defense, let's see this, he was busy

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Speaker 2: In his defense, what is that? How does that add

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Speaker 5: Hey, the jury, he uh that in his defense, he

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Speaker 1: That to me is like saying, in his defense, yesterday evening, uh,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, his defense, he couldn't have been cheating.

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Speaker 2: But just like, yeah, I don't know this. I don't

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Speaker 1: It's only twelve in the afternoon and he wants to

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Speaker 1: Told me that he was sorry for lying, and I

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Speaker 1: I didn't mention this in the post or to hurt him.

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Speaker 1: But his bio dad cheated on me, and this is

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Speaker 4: Oh did you know that cheating is it goes down

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Speaker 2: Really it was like a higher chance. Yep. Yeah, it's

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Speaker 2: like generational trauma. Okey, thankiky.

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Speaker 1: He cheated on me before I was pregnant with my son,

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Speaker 1: I talked to Kayleie and she is just head over

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Speaker 4: As long as you don't have a period. I will

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Speaker 4: never do it again.

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Speaker 2: Just stop that.

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Speaker 4: Stop stop dude being so sensitive.

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Speaker 5: Justinemnoldberqui says. She means that she understood why girlfriend got

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Speaker 3: Talking to Mike. Got it, Okay, that I'm the stun now,

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Speaker 1: Also, crap, I don't want to lose the thing that

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Speaker 1: I just in my mind. Oh yeah, I feel like

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Speaker 1: Mike's like, I have an idea of how you cannot

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 1: I haven't told him this because it's not my business.

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Speaker 1: They can talk about it. My son has sent me

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Speaker 1: but he seems extremely sorry. I'm a bit disappointed in him,

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Speaker 1: honestly sucks to hear because this is not her faults, which.

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Speaker 3: Is a fact, is not Kaylee's fault.

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Speaker 2: Booms for Kaylee? Does this for Kaylee?

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Speaker 1: I am not going to dictate the relationship and tell

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Speaker 2: But it does.

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Speaker 1: But it does shock me that she can forgive him.

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Speaker 1: As much as I want to be mad at my son,

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Speaker 1: I really can't.

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Speaker 3: You can.

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Speaker 1: And I've never gotten mad at him before, and I

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Speaker 1: to be a little strict on him, obviously, but again,

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Speaker 1: he is an adult. If he says that he's going

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Speaker 2: If he says that out.

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Speaker 1: Right, that's crazy, premeditated, premeditated. Come on, I really really

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Speaker 2: I feel like there's a lot to talk about her.

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Speaker 2: There's so much to talk about. You cheated on her

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Speaker 4: Did you just say that?

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Speaker 2: I said it is obvious? Oh obvious? Yeah? Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 5: You don't want to deal with periods. You have three

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Speaker 5: I don't have a third option.

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Speaker 2: That's okay, because.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, stop up dating those are your three options.

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Speaker 2: That's right, abstinence, big guy conception.

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Speaker 1: Talk to me about what you think about how the

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Speaker 4: He's pretty forgiving, not like, oh.

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Speaker 3: This is a oh I can't really stop him. But

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I think that she should and I

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Speaker 1: that she should say, what, Kim really fine? Get him

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Speaker 1: the little guy gets too riled up. Oh, my goodness,

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Speaker 1: Kim really fine, My goodness. I feel like she should

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Speaker 1: say to him, Hey, this is bringing up a lot

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Speaker 1: of memories of what your dad to me.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and I am really disappointed, and yeah.

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Speaker 1: Really disappointed, and and I feel like, hopefully that should

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Speaker 1: really communicate to him how how much he has left

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Speaker 1: up and how much he needs to learn this lesson

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Speaker 1: because he's not only you know, hurting hurting kay Lee,

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Speaker 1: he's also hurting his mom. Yeah, and he probably doesn't

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Speaker 1: realize it and being like honest, if.

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Speaker 5: I found out you ever cheat on Kaylee, and I'm

462
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Speaker 5: telling her right away, I will not hide your secrets

463
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Speaker 5: for you.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I think that although I honestly can understand how

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Speaker 1: like going to your child, there's still like you know,

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Speaker 1: nineteen or whatever. I think that's what she should do.

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Speaker 1: But I can understand that it is a probably a

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Speaker 1: hard thing to because like.

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Speaker 5: This is my kids, my baby, Like you don't want

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Speaker 5: to let necessarily like stop seeing them, but.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, not at all.

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Speaker 1: But I think it's it's it's one of those like

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Speaker 1: I think glass breaking moments of like, oh not only

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Speaker 1: like is my childhood in the adults and like all

475
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Speaker 1: of this as that my child has grown up, but

476
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Speaker 1: my child has grown into an adult who can do

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Speaker 1: these super hurtful things like his father did, and that

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Speaker 1: is a I think that's a very painful thing and

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Speaker 1: probably makes it very hard. I could see it be

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Speaker 1: of like hard and emotional for OP to communicate her stuff.

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Speaker 1: In all fairness, I just wanted to put that out there,

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Speaker 1: But I agree with you. I think she should just

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Speaker 1: she should just communicate how it hurts her, how it's.

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Speaker 2: Not acceptable when she won't hind to see it in

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Speaker 2: some of.

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Speaker 4: The comments that I'm reading here, recent comments is she's

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Speaker 4: going to be discussing therapy with her son, and I

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Speaker 4: think they're in therapy. It's been a year ago, by

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Speaker 4: the way.

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Speaker 2: That's good. That's good, good, good, very good and honestly, like,

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: In a lot of the stories, I mean, I think

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Speaker 1: a lot of the stories they are like older living

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Speaker 1: out of the house when they talk about the cheating.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, but in this.

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Speaker 1: It's she's like very intimately involved in the situation in

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Speaker 1: a good way because I feel like that improves his

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Speaker 1: chances of actually learning his lesson and not doing it again.

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Speaker 2: To hurt Kaylee, to hurt the mom.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Other thoughts.

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Speaker 3: Sofia not not a one.

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Speaker 2: Me either, just a big empty tank of fluff up there.

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Speaker 3: A big cloud, a big cloud.

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Speaker 1: But ladies and gentlemen, I think that's I think. But

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Speaker 1: with that said, if you love us, make sure to subscribe.

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Speaker 6: This is an episode from Deep within the Archives.

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Speaker 1: Time for okop Free lash My fiance didn't want to

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Speaker 1: watch our dog, so she let him get away and

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Speaker 1: now he's lost. I'm furious at her. Am I the

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Speaker 1: a whole.

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Speaker 6: Furious for someone losing your dog? No, so not the aovin,

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Speaker 6: not the ahole. That's my prediction.

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Speaker 2: Let's get into it.

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Speaker 1: So my fiance, twenty eight female, is currently five months

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Speaker 1: pregnant and has been both fatigued and nauseous lately. I

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Speaker 1: get why she didn't want to help me look for

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Speaker 1: the dog, but I can't get over the lack of

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Speaker 1: empathy and borderline selfish behavior of this either. My dog,

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Speaker 1: six year old Healer slash Corky mix, runs off at

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Speaker 1: least once a week.

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Speaker 6: God, you need better fences, my guy, I need something training.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Usually my fiance will help me find her, but it's

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Speaker 1: not without protest. I honestly didn't even know how she

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Speaker 1: was getting out of our fenced yard, so I installed

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Speaker 1: cameras and found out that.

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Speaker 2: She was scaling the eight foot fence.

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Speaker 6: That is crazy to put your dog in, like the

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Speaker 6: police force or something that is a dog with skills.

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Speaker 2: Those hops to use it.

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Speaker 1: I ended up attaching spinners to the top of the fence,

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Speaker 1: thinking that would solve the issue, but it didn't. I

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Speaker 1: guess that's some sort of like thing where it spins

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Speaker 1: in the okay, kid, yeah, stops the dog from getting

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Speaker 1: over it. I brought her out today and was playing

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Speaker 1: with her when my phone rang. I was inside just

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Speaker 1: long enough to grab my phone, and my dog had

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Speaker 1: gotten out already.

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Speaker 2: Bro this dog is done.

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Speaker 1: I immediately went and searched for her, thinking she couldn't

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Speaker 1: have gotten far. But I couldn't find her anywhere, so

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Speaker 1: I went back to the house and asked my fiance

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Speaker 1: was curled up on the sofa, to come help me. Yo,

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Speaker 1: the fiance is like ut sucking again.

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Speaker 2: Let's get a new dog that doesn't run away every

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Speaker 2: five seconds. About that.

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Speaker 1: After I asked her to help, my fiance immediately said no,

550
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Speaker 1: not doing it. She said she was tired of chasing

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Speaker 1: the dog and that she isn't dealing with it anymore,

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Speaker 1: and that I should have been out there watching her.

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Speaker 1: I explained to her that I had been watching her

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Speaker 1: and simply stepped away for point two seconds to grab

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Speaker 1: my phone just inside the sliding door, and she had

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Speaker 1: escape just point two seconds enough for the dog to escape.

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Speaker 1: She again said it wasn't her problem and she's not

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Speaker 1: exhausting herself anymore to search for my dog. I won't

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Speaker 1: even say it was unexpected, because, as I said in

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Speaker 1: the past, she has always had a problem with helping

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Speaker 1: me search, but she's never said no, She just complained

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Speaker 1: about it. At first, I went in and searched myself.

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Speaker 1: After maybe half an hour, I came back and asked

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Speaker 1: her again to come help, and she snapped. I said, no,

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Speaker 1: I am so tired of chasing that dog around multiple

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Speaker 1: times a week when I'm already exhausted and throwing up constantly.

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Speaker 1: I panicked and unleashed some yelling, which involved me telling

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Speaker 1: her she was such a bee who lacked empathy, and

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Speaker 1: that I was thoroughly disappointed with my decision to be

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Speaker 1: with someone so heartless.

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Speaker 6: Okay, oh my god, you might have said some things

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Speaker 6: that are gonna be hard to come back from.

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Speaker 1: It was out of pure fear and panic on my part,

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Speaker 1: and I did apologize later after I found my dog.

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Speaker 6: God, but she said go for yourself, which I believe

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Speaker 6: is the appropriate response. Yeah, and now she won't talk

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Speaker 6: to me.

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Speaker 2: Am I the ahole. Everyone is on my.

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Speaker 1: Side except my sister, who says I'm an effing prick

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Speaker 1: because it's not my pregnant fiance's responsibility to quote, chase

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Speaker 1: around your effing mount unquote, and she said that she

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Speaker 1: would have left immediately if her boyfriend ever said.

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Speaker 2: What I did to her.

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Speaker 1: Oh God, y'all, we got a big mess on our

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Speaker 1: hands and you have to help us sort through it.

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Speaker 2: Please let us know in the comments, is the a whole? Angel?

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Speaker 2: Is the wife the a hole? The angel? Let us know?

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Speaker 2: And why Sam?

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Speaker 1: Please please attempt us to give it, to give a

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Speaker 1: breakdown here?

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Speaker 2: What are we thinking?

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Speaker 6: Okay, so originally I thought this was gonna be a

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Speaker 6: clear cut Opie is not the A hole. I don't know,

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Speaker 6: like Opie needs some like new friends because they're all

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Speaker 6: just like yes manning him. Her friends are biased as

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Speaker 6: fat You're like, first of all, you know you get

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Speaker 6: a better fence, you know, practical advice.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: Second, you know I understand.

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Speaker 2: Oh I lost my dog? Can you help me find? Yeah? Once,

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Speaker 2: maybe twice, maybe twice weekly. And your wife's pregnant, Like,

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Speaker 2: are you kidding me?

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Speaker 6: You're gonna make your pregnant is a girlfriend wife fiance?

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Speaker 6: You're gonna make your pregnant fiance the go run around

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Speaker 6: and chase some dumb dog like one. You could probably

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Speaker 6: do that yourself and to it's your fault for losing

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Speaker 6: this dog all the time.

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Speaker 2: In conclusion, you need.

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Speaker 6: A new fence, you need new friends, you need to

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Speaker 6: treat your wife with some goddamn respects. And also the

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Speaker 6: most a holy move of all is yelling at your

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Speaker 6: wife telling her she's an inconsiderate bitch, when you are

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Speaker 6: the inconsiderate bitch.

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Speaker 1: Literally like, look at a mirror, my friend. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: kind of one hundred percent agree with your breakdown. It's

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Speaker 1: just so insane to me that like a responsible pet

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Speaker 1: owner is like you take care of the pet, and

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Speaker 1: it's like, Okay, you realize that your dog always wants

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Speaker 1: to run out. You need to fix the fence, and

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Speaker 1: you need to go to a trainer because like I

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Speaker 1: think the dog maybe the dog is just like like.

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Speaker 6: An electric fence for it, like like a shot call.

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Speaker 1: It really like anything to like Okay, yeah, he like

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Speaker 1: installed cameras and put a spinner on the fence. Cool,

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Speaker 1: but then it didn't work, so now you have to

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Speaker 1: do the next thing. It seems pretty clear it's ope's dog,

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Speaker 1: not like bears or hers or whatever.

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Speaker 6: So it's like your responsibility or you know what, you

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Speaker 6: should all get a grip on ooh our slash okop show.

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