Speaker 1: You might be dating or relationshiping wrong. Excuse it's the
Speaker 1: Jewel Show. I say that because Relationship Experts just released
Speaker 1: the new dating and relationship rules for twenty twenty five.
Speaker 1: Oh there are rules, yeah, I guess so. And it
Speaker 1: includes something called the creepiness rule. So three minutes will
Speaker 1: tell you just how creepy you're allowed to be in
Speaker 1: the dating world without it being way too creeptastic. Okay, cool,
Speaker 1: tell you the new dating and relationship rules for twenty
Speaker 1: twenty five coming up right after this. It's the Jewbil Show. Hey,
Speaker 1: there are you a library book? Because I'd like to
Speaker 1: check you out and then throw them through the pages
Speaker 1: and take you right back to where I got you.
Speaker 1: It's the Jewel Show. Yeah, I'd like to also see
Speaker 1: all the other people that have written you. Anyway, let's
Speaker 1: go back to my place for some venu and some spaghetti.
Speaker 1: Do you like that the dating world can be a
Speaker 1: ridiculous place even if you're in a relationship. And now,
Speaker 1: Relationship Experts have released a list of dating and relationship
Speaker 1: rules for twenty twenty five that you need to know.
Speaker 2: I actually like the fact that we're calling them rules
Speaker 2: because maybe people will follow directions this time instead of like, oh,
Speaker 2: here's a trend to watch out for. Here's a word,
Speaker 2: watch out for that landmine.
Speaker 1: Let's have some rules to play by. Yeah, I love it.
Speaker 1: One of them is called the creepiness rule. We'll go
Speaker 1: over that in a second, because that one sounds interesting.
Speaker 1: Just how creepy can you be in the dating world,
Speaker 1: I'll tell you in a second, not at all. I'm
Speaker 1: not very I'm sure there's a reason you could be.
Speaker 1: The first rule of dating that they say is the
Speaker 1: new rule for twenty twenty five that you need to
Speaker 1: pay attention to is the rule of fiscal attraction, seeking
Speaker 1: a match who is financially secure and attractive while setting well,
Speaker 1: while settling on the rest, or while not settling I
Speaker 1: guess on the rest in this economy.
Speaker 2: Yep, wait, a fiscal attraction has been around for a
Speaker 2: long time.
Speaker 1: That is not a new rule.
Speaker 3: That's like I said, with money, So like, you just
Speaker 3: find someone who is pretty on the eyes and makes
Speaker 3: a lot of money and then you're good.
Speaker 1: Yeah. They say sixty six percent of singles are simply
Speaker 1: seeking someone who is easy on the eyes and money savvy.
Speaker 1: Money savvy is a hot trait. Yeah, well, I think
Speaker 1: the other thing here is that like.
Speaker 4: Guys have been had had to be fiscally fiscally just
Speaker 4: had to fit fisically fit for a long long time.
Speaker 1: But I think the ladies now are fiscally fit and.
Speaker 4: They don't want anyone touching their bank account because they
Speaker 4: now understand how it works, right, and they're like.
Speaker 1: No, you've got to have money, because you're not touching
Speaker 1: my money. That's not gonna work. Yeah. I've never cared
Speaker 1: that your fiscal fitness. Yeah, I've never cared about money
Speaker 1: when it comes to relationships, although I probably should have. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, you probably should, but yeah, I've never really
Speaker 1: cared about it, you know. But I've been taking advantage
Speaker 1: of a lot, So that proves that maybe and maybe
Speaker 1: I should use the rule of fiscal attraction. I just
Speaker 1: want someone who can make their own money. I don't
Speaker 1: care how much it is, yeah, exactly. Yeah, to me,
Speaker 1: it's not an amount thing.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's not like how much you make, because if
Speaker 4: that gets into a whole weird world, it's like, hey,
Speaker 4: can you support yourself?
Speaker 1: Great? Yeah I could sport me too. Together, we could
Speaker 1: support all kinds of things.
Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, But that's what the fitness rule is you're
Speaker 2: actually able to do that.
Speaker 1: It's not saying you're loaded.
Speaker 2: That's a different rule that's called sugar daddy, daddyep make money,
Speaker 2: I spend it.
Speaker 1: We're going over the rules for relationships and dating in
Speaker 1: twenty twenty five. We'll get to the creepiness rule in
Speaker 1: just a second, but the rules for people in a relationship.
Speaker 1: The sixty eighty rule is there saying something you should
Speaker 1: pay attention to as you go into the new year.
Speaker 1: You should aim to contribute sixty percent effort to any
Speaker 1: shared responsibility. In a marriage, your goal should be to
Speaker 1: put fourth sixty percent while your spouse, while your spouse
Speaker 1: puts fourth forty percent, and then do you take turns, So.
Speaker 4: If you're both trying to go for sixty, you got
Speaker 4: one hundred. And I do, like I kind of heard
Speaker 4: of this before.
Speaker 3: It's like if one person's not all in it that day,
Speaker 3: like it's not feeling great, Like can only give forty percent?
Speaker 1: Or can I only give twenty percent?
Speaker 4: And you make it like pay Yeah, well yeah, that's
Speaker 4: actually a big thing in psychology right now. They're saying
Speaker 4: when you walk through the door and you get home,
Speaker 4: you like, hey, I only got ten percent to give.
Speaker 4: The other person's like all right, I'll take the ninety
Speaker 4: for the night, right, you know, or whatever it.
Speaker 1: Is, and then you trade off. Yeah, it depends on
Speaker 1: the day. Yes, Yeah. I've been in a lot of
Speaker 1: relationships where it's like, hey, I have zero percent, so
Speaker 1: you maybe can put in one hundred percent effort all
Speaker 1: the time. Every day is like this, I own you. Okay,
Speaker 1: Well that's doesn't work out very well. But everybody has
Speaker 1: good and bad days.
Speaker 5: Right.
Speaker 1: If you're in a relationship with someone, you're a partner,
Speaker 1: so you should be able to pick up the slack
Speaker 1: and go I got you. It's fine. You know.
Speaker 2: I like that. We do that in here too, if
Speaker 2: you think about it. So that also could work out
Speaker 2: in different like working relationships.
Speaker 1: You know, I only have today. You do the right
Speaker 1: of it. There's the eighty twenty rule, which is a
Speaker 1: new rule in dating you need to pay attention to
Speaker 1: in twenty twenty five, according to relationship experts, except being
Speaker 1: eighty percent satisfied in your relationship, the other twenty percent
Speaker 1: of your overall satisfaction should come from yourself. Your lifestyle,
Speaker 1: your hobbies, and your career can all play a party.
Speaker 6: What.
Speaker 1: I don't like that at all. I love that. What
Speaker 1: do you mean you probably could be more than twenty percent?
Speaker 3: You don't like that, Victoria, No, you're only going to
Speaker 3: be eighty percent, like satisfying your relationship.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 3: I feel like my hobbies can only take up twenty
Speaker 3: My hobbies are going to take up like closer to
Speaker 3: sixty or seventy.
Speaker 1: Homie, you're already like you're You're lucky. If I'm thirty
Speaker 1: percent satisfied with you, he has to satisfy eighty percent.
Speaker 1: I got more like self work to do it. I
Speaker 1: feel that's fair. I thought you were going in a.
Speaker 2: Different Directoria, nobody can be one hundred percent of everything.
Speaker 1: But it is true. I think people sometimes expect that
Speaker 1: a relationship be a one hundred percent of your satisfaction. Right,
Speaker 1: everything is your relationship when you you know not everybody
Speaker 1: can be everything to you? Yes, right, So you should
Speaker 1: have some friends that feed certain needs, some people that
Speaker 1: feed other needs, and your relationship should be eighty percent satisfactory.
Speaker 4: You just learned it would be very easy to date Victoria,
Speaker 4: And she's like, just don't look at me.
Speaker 1: I got stuff to do. Man, see you can get
Speaker 1: to her. Yeah, that you can see what dating her
Speaker 1: is like. Show just go on a wald longs to do,
Speaker 1: go on a walk. You can hire somebody from Rover
Speaker 1: to take your friend on a walk, and then you
Speaker 1: wonder why I didn't come on. That's a good app idea,
Speaker 1: it is. And then there's the creepiness rule, the rules
Speaker 1: about how old and young you can date. The creepiness
Speaker 1: rule states that the youngest you should date is half
Speaker 1: your age plus seven. What so half your age plus seven?
Speaker 1: So Victoria, you're twenty four, right, yes, so it's like,
Speaker 1: is that nineteen o nineteen? So you can get a
Speaker 1: nineteen year old without being.
Speaker 3: Creepy, homie, that's one year above like the just barely legal?
Speaker 1: Like, I don't think that's what's nate, Oh that's not
Speaker 1: a cigarettes so a teenager?
Speaker 2: That was the creepiness rule. Just make sure they're legal
Speaker 2: eighteen and enough.
Speaker 1: On your market half your age plus seven. I would
Speaker 1: not date to one under twenty one? Yeah, no, why
Speaker 1: I don't think you should either.
Speaker 4: I don't think people twenty one sho date people under tlin.
Speaker 4: I don't think people nineteen should eight people under twenty one.
Speaker 1: The whole new world. When you hit twenty.
Speaker 4: One, your whole life changes as soon as the alcohol
Speaker 4: comes in.
Speaker 1: I would love Victoria to date a nineteen year old.
Speaker 1: It would be funny over fun because they could never
Speaker 1: go to work events because they usually at a place
Speaker 1: into alcohol. You're missing, Ow, this is the person? Yeah,
Speaker 1: it is. Actually you can't take them anywhere. Sorry, you
Speaker 1: can't come with me because twenty one over that'd be
Speaker 1: so sad. Twenty one body.
Speaker 7: Then we go to Vegas.
Speaker 1: Victoria is going to be forty dating only nineteen year old.
Speaker 1: He didn't learn it's another jubile phone frame Mornings on
Speaker 1: the twenties. Hello, Hi, is this is Trevor.
Speaker 8: Uh Hi Trevor. Okay, can I help you with something?
Speaker 9: Yes, my name is Trevor, and I'm one of the
Speaker 9: people saying in your airbnb and so like I know
Speaker 9: that normally, you know, you had your number in case
Speaker 9: of emergency. So I just want to call because like
Speaker 9: I want a question.
Speaker 8: Okay, Trevor, what's the emergency? What's going on?
Speaker 9: Well, I don't know if it's emergency so much, but
Speaker 9: like I was confused at how to use something.
Speaker 8: Okay, what are you trying to use.
Speaker 9: We were trying to play frisbee golf in the backyard.
Speaker 1: Have you ever played frisbee golf before?
Speaker 8: Yes?
Speaker 9: Okay, so it's really fun. It's where you like throw
Speaker 9: frisbee and stuff.
Speaker 8: Okay, And why would you need to call me about
Speaker 8: frisbee golf, Trevor.
Speaker 9: Well, because, like, uh, the frisbees that you have here,
Speaker 9: they keep cracking. So I like I'm wondering if like
Speaker 9: it's you know, operator error, if like I'm throwing the frisbee.
Speaker 1: Wrong or something.
Speaker 8: I'm sorry, Trevor. The frisbees that I have.
Speaker 9: There, Yes, they keep cracking, Like every time I throw on,
Speaker 9: I throw frisbee and then it just like if they
Speaker 9: don't catch it, and sometimes when they do catch it,
Speaker 9: it's cracked. So like, do you have any advice for
Speaker 9: how to throw them right? Because like it's really confusing me.
Speaker 9: I'm like, there's only like two left.
Speaker 8: What frisbees do you think that I would leave a
Speaker 8: group of strangers in my house?
Speaker 1: Well, they're the.
Speaker 9: Cool like thin ones. They're black, you know, they're like
Speaker 9: in those little sleeves. They're really cool. Like, I also
Speaker 9: want to know where you got those frisbees from, because,
Speaker 9: like I want to get some and like all replace
Speaker 9: the ones that were cracked.
Speaker 10: When you say black frisbee, yeah, once they're in a sleeve, Trevor.
Speaker 9: Yeah, you know, they're all protected and like cool like sleeves,
Speaker 9: like some very colorful, like some of them have like
Speaker 9: some really cool like old pictures of like the beetles
Speaker 9: and stuff like that, Like those are really funky frisbees.
Speaker 10: So I want you to think about this real carefully, Trevor,
Speaker 10: because the next word is out of your mouth. Need
Speaker 10: a lot to your safety when you say the black
Speaker 10: frisbees in a case.
Speaker 8: That has the beetles on them?
Speaker 10: Oh, do you mean myam records?
Speaker 8: Trevor?
Speaker 5: Oh the ones we listed not?
Speaker 1: Okay?
Speaker 9: So there there records like you mean like the old
Speaker 9: like old school records where people can listen to music.
Speaker 10: Like records like listen as in the thing not to touch?
Speaker 10: Are you telling me that my whole record collection is broken?
Speaker 11: What you're telling me?
Speaker 9: No, I'm not.
Speaker 1: I'm not telling you that at all.
Speaker 9: So there's two left and like so now that I
Speaker 9: know not to touch those, we won't be using those
Speaker 9: as frisbees.
Speaker 8: I'm gonna say this is very carefully and.
Speaker 1: I would should I gw up to pack.
Speaker 10: Up all of your right now and get the out
Speaker 10: of my house, because if I come down there and
Speaker 10: there is another living soul in that building and my
Speaker 10: records are destroyed, I am.
Speaker 7: Going to do so many horrendous things.
Speaker 10: It's going to be considered a war crime.
Speaker 5: Do you understand me?
Speaker 11: Yes?
Speaker 1: I do, And I'll let you know how that. This
Speaker 1: is actually double from the Jewel Show doing a phone
Speaker 1: prank on you and your wife set you up. She's
Speaker 1: a jokes. She said that you guys are being beat
Speaker 1: your house for the first time, and you were nervous
Speaker 1: about people breaking yourself, so she wanted to mess with you.
Speaker 8: Oh thank god.
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, it's a joke.
Speaker 12: Oh my goodness.
Speaker 8: You don't understand how fast my heart has raised me.
Speaker 1: Wake up every morning with jubile phone. Franks, it's time
Speaker 1: for Nina's what's trending.
Speaker 2: There's a headline that's been trending that says Drake sends
Speaker 2: cease and desist letter to Kendrick Lamar not to perform
Speaker 2: not or to not perform not like us as the woole.
Speaker 2: But we're here and we're all about the truth. So no,
Speaker 2: that is not true. Drake's people have said that that's
Speaker 2: not accurate. No point has he thought about sending a
Speaker 2: cease and desist or any of the above. That came
Speaker 2: out in some interview you that some random rapper was
Speaker 2: doing and like kind of joked about it, and then
Speaker 2: ever since then it's kind of gone viral. But if
Speaker 2: you think about it, it's in Drake's best interest for
Speaker 2: him to do that song the Supero.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it is the only thing public publicity out of it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's the only thing that keeps people talking about Drake.
Speaker 1: Yeah for now. Yeah, I mean the guy's and he's done.
Speaker 1: I don't think that's I don't think that's true to
Speaker 1: go in the rapper cemetery, buddy, I don't know.
Speaker 2: I don't think that's true at all. I think this
Speaker 2: is gonna happen and then people are gonna be like,
Speaker 2: where is Drake. He's been so quiet, and he's gonna
Speaker 2: pop back. He's gonna have some kind of fire and
Speaker 2: everybody's gonna be on the Drake train again.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I mean, man started from the middle, you're still there.
Speaker 1: Be really funny he walked in right now. I would
Speaker 1: love to see what Brad would do I would tell.
Speaker 4: I would say, hey, Drake, you were a rich kid
Speaker 4: and you got lucky and you're a creep.
Speaker 1: Well, okay, well that I just want to be there
Speaker 1: for the Hey Drake, Hello, mister Drake, sir, sit down
Speaker 1: for a second. I'll walk out after that. I don't
Speaker 1: believe it.
Speaker 2: And other news Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce, you're doing fine, okay.
Speaker 2: I don't know why everybody jumps to this conclusion. She's
Speaker 2: not at two games and all of a sudden there's
Speaker 2: problems in paradise.
Speaker 1: I guess, Wow, can she not have her own things
Speaker 1: to do? Well, we only have like twenty six days
Speaker 1: left on the contract. When didn't they say that there
Speaker 1: was a day there October? It was in October? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I thought it was October. That's wild to have a
Speaker 1: contract for that. I don't believe it. I think these
Speaker 1: two are going to get married.
Speaker 2: I've said it before and I'll say it again. I'm
Speaker 2: pretty sure either way. The reason though, there are reasons,
Speaker 2: and that she's preparing for the next leg of her
Speaker 2: Heirs tour, and also because if they're not playing at
Speaker 2: Arrowhead Stadium, which is the Chief's home stadium, then there's
Speaker 2: security concerns. So at the home stadium, they have all
Speaker 2: kinds of security set up for Taylors.
Speaker 1: But that's there someone that big.
Speaker 3: It's like you have to have that security concern because
Speaker 3: people will just like run up towards.
Speaker 1: She have her own security, though she does.
Speaker 3: Yeah, having extra security like probably nice around it.
Speaker 2: Just wild to think about, though, that's a stadium that's
Speaker 2: there for football and they had to rearrange all of
Speaker 2: their security because one of the girlfriends was Taylor Swift.
Speaker 1: That just add.
Speaker 2: They definitely had to rearrange. Say it was a bad thing.
Speaker 2: I just said that, isn't that a wild thing to
Speaker 2: think about?
Speaker 4: Well, especially when you think about like the owner of
Speaker 4: the stadium or the owner of the football team, when
Speaker 4: there shouldn't there be just as much security.
Speaker 1: For that millionaire.
Speaker 2: A millionaire I couldn't point him out in a lineup.
Speaker 4: I mean, I know Jeff Bezos carries this kind of
Speaker 4: security as well. He sends an entire advanced team before
Speaker 4: he visits the city. He sends a whole team to
Speaker 4: go scope the city before he lands.
Speaker 2: Because he can afford it. You know who else can
Speaker 2: afford it? Mark Zuckerberg because he just joined the two
Speaker 2: hundred billion dollars day. Two hundred billion dollars. There are
Speaker 2: only three other people in that club. Boo Jeff Bezos
Speaker 2: is one of them, Elon Musk is the other, and
Speaker 2: then Bernard Arnault, the CEO of luxury brand LVMH.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Wow, two hundred and one billion dollars owning Hennessy.
Speaker 1: I'll get you some money. That's yeah, it's all. It's
Speaker 1: like ninety five different brands.
Speaker 7: You talked about this.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's pretty amazing anyway, So he's the fourth richest
Speaker 2: person in the world. Wow, And that's what's trending.
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Speaker 1: Randy is on the phone today for a first day
Speaker 1: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Rose.
Speaker 1: And I really hope that they go out again because
Speaker 1: Randy and Rose a double r double Randy. Before we
Speaker 1: find out about your date and why you think you're
Speaker 1: getting ghosted, how long has it been since you talked
Speaker 1: to Rose.
Speaker 12: It's been it's been about a month.
Speaker 1: WHOA.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I just was like, you know, a week or
Speaker 6: two is understandable. But after about a month. It's like, Okay,
Speaker 6: I think I did something really wrong here some things.
Speaker 6: I just you know, I really want to find out
Speaker 6: what what happened.
Speaker 11: You know.
Speaker 1: Sure, so we know you're getting ghosted. We just need
Speaker 1: to know why.
Speaker 3: But if it's in a whole month, why do you
Speaker 3: want to still get a hold of her?
Speaker 12: There's just something about her.
Speaker 11: You know.
Speaker 6: I'm a podcaster and I and I had the reviews
Speaker 6: on movies and stuff, and she commented on one of
Speaker 6: my stories on the podcast, and we just got to
Speaker 6: talking and there was just such a strong connection that
Speaker 6: I just I couldn't let oh, I can't stop thinking
Speaker 6: about it. I need to know. It's like everything seemed
Speaker 6: so great. Why why did disappear on me?
Speaker 1: Like you tell us about the date? Then?
Speaker 12: So we got to.
Speaker 6: Talk in and I found out that she lived close by.
Speaker 6: I had a movie I was reviewing. It was a
Speaker 6: horror film, you know. I asked, Hey, do you want
Speaker 6: to do you want to go to this movie with me?
Speaker 6: We can get drinks at the bar beforehand and everything
Speaker 6: like that, and she was down and I was like
Speaker 6: that's perfect, and you know, everything went off without a hitch.
Speaker 6: We went to the bar, had a few drinks, and
Speaker 6: I'm a movie buff and so finding someone that is
Speaker 6: also passionate about movies, the conversation flows so perfectly. We
Speaker 6: had a few drinks, really getting along. We went to
Speaker 6: the movie early, we were ready. The movie was pretty good,
Speaker 6: and again it was a horror film, and so she
Speaker 6: did get a little scared.
Speaker 1: And did she jump into your lap at any point
Speaker 1: or your arms?
Speaker 12: Well, you know, there was one moment. There was one.
Speaker 12: There was one really big scare moment, you know the
Speaker 12: jump scares in movies.
Speaker 6: Yeah, so there was a big jump scare moment and uh,
Speaker 6: she grabbed my hand really tight then and it just
Speaker 6: it felt really good.
Speaker 12: And I was like, you know, she might not be.
Speaker 6: Into horror films. Yeah, but I kind of like the
Speaker 6: he's a little scared, just like holding on.
Speaker 1: Did she keep her hand on or take it off?
Speaker 6: After Well, she grabbed my hand really really tight, and
Speaker 6: it actually hurts how she grabbed it. But after that
Speaker 6: it was kind of like deadpans. She's like, no, done,
Speaker 6: And I was like, oh, I guess I guess I
Speaker 6: was too much.
Speaker 1: Was one of the best feelings for me, at least
Speaker 1: when I've gone on dates before. To the movies and
Speaker 1: is it's a scary movie. They jump and grab your
Speaker 1: hand and then they leave it there on your hand.
Speaker 5: You're like, yeah, yeah, exactly.
Speaker 6: So so then she asked, She's like, I need to
Speaker 6: use the restroom, and I was like, okay, okay, go ahead,
Speaker 6: do you think Then ten minutes go by, now twenty
Speaker 6: minutes go by, the movie ends, I'm.
Speaker 12: Like, Rose, where where are you? You know?
Speaker 6: And so it was like kind of weird, just like
Speaker 6: everything seemed to be going so smoothly and then out
Speaker 6: of nowhere, you just disappear on me.
Speaker 1: Like does she just bounce?
Speaker 6: Yeah, she just bounced, And so I like, you know,
Speaker 6: at first I was scared. I was like, is she okay?
Speaker 6: Did something bad happen? Where did she go? But you know, text,
Speaker 6: you know, callback you no, no, nothing. And I thought about,
Speaker 6: you know, because I wrote the review it was an
Speaker 6: okay movie, but I thought about like mentioning something. But
Speaker 6: it's like I don't want to bring anything off on
Speaker 6: my podcast, like.
Speaker 1: Do not bring a date to this movie?
Speaker 14: Right?
Speaker 15: Yeah?
Speaker 6: Not a date of movie. This is a movie for friends,
Speaker 6: you know. So I just am at a loss and
Speaker 6: I just I really just want to know what did
Speaker 6: I do wrong? Because if I did something incredibly wrong,
Speaker 6: I need to know because I don't want to miss
Speaker 6: out on another another person if if she's done you know, I.
Speaker 2: Mean, but are you sure you don't want to just
Speaker 2: cut your losses? I mean, this girl bounced on you
Speaker 2: in the middle of a movie, which should be a
Speaker 2: red flag to you, and is not responding in a month,
Speaker 2: which should also be a red flag to you.
Speaker 1: So I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 6: Yeah, nine times out of ten, i'd be like, all right,
Speaker 6: it's over, it's fine. But there was just something about
Speaker 6: the way we connected over our love of movies that
Speaker 6: I was like, I can't I can't let this go.
Speaker 1: I just can't well, which I figured out. Man, we'll
Speaker 1: play a song come back, and then call her and
Speaker 1: see if she answers, and see if she'll tell us
Speaker 1: why she's ghosting you and why she skipped out on
Speaker 1: the movie, and then maybe get you another date if
Speaker 1: you still want them. Okay, yeah, yeah, all right, we'll
Speaker 1: play a song come back. They follow up next. I'm
Speaker 1: really interested in finding out what happened to Rose. Rose
Speaker 1: is the girl that Randy went out with for the
Speaker 1: first eight follow up today. We're about to call her
Speaker 1: and ask her why she's ghosting him and see if
Speaker 1: we can get him another date if he still wants
Speaker 1: one after he finds out the reason. But Rose just
Speaker 1: took off in the middle of their date. Randy, why
Speaker 1: don't you recap the date real quick to refresh everybody's
Speaker 1: memory before we call her.
Speaker 12: Oh yeah, yeah, for sure.
Speaker 6: So I met Rose via a comment on the podcast
Speaker 6: that I work, and we hit it off.
Speaker 5: It's not weird.
Speaker 6: Grab a couple of drinks before a movie that I
Speaker 6: had a review, had a drink, great conversation, great start
Speaker 6: to the movie. In the middle of the movie, for
Speaker 6: some odd reason, she said she had to use the
Speaker 6: restroom and just never came back.
Speaker 12: And I don't know what happened.
Speaker 1: It's like scary or heartbreaking or both. All right, we'll
Speaker 1: try to figure out where you're going to call the
Speaker 1: number right now, see if she answers, and see if
Speaker 1: she'll tell us why she's ghosting. Okay, you ready, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm ready? Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, man, I
Speaker 1: speak to Rose. Please, Hey Rose, how are you. My
Speaker 1: name is Jubal and I'm calling from a radio show.
Speaker 1: It's called The Jebel Show. Hi, Rose, this is the
Speaker 1: show too. My name is Anna. Hi, I'm Victoria. How
Speaker 1: are you hi?
Speaker 7: It's fine, I guess. Oh my gosh, you listen.
Speaker 1: To the show.
Speaker 15: I do? I do?
Speaker 1: I thank you, appreciate that. Rose.
Speaker 7: So why are you calling me? I guess.
Speaker 1: We're just wondering why you ran out of a date
Speaker 1: in the middle of it.
Speaker 5: Oh my god.
Speaker 1: This is the first date follow up, and Randy emailed
Speaker 1: us about you in case. You guys went out and
Speaker 1: you were at a movie and then you went to
Speaker 1: the bathroom and you were gone. You haven't talked to
Speaker 1: him since then. Randy is wondering if you would tell
Speaker 1: us the reason that you goes or were glad to
Speaker 1: hear you?
Speaker 2: Okay, a little bit scary, right, No?
Speaker 7: Okay, so, oh my gosh, I have no idea like
Speaker 7: what he may have shared with you.
Speaker 16: But yeah, I mean, I know, I know the show,
Speaker 16: and so I okay, we're going to talk about this. Okay,
Speaker 16: what did he say? I mean, what did he say?
Speaker 16: Because I love the date? I mean, I absolutely loved
Speaker 16: the date.
Speaker 1: Why did you leave it?
Speaker 7: Oh my gosh.
Speaker 16: Well, like, first of all, Randy, I don't know, you know,
Speaker 16: if he mentioned that he's a podcaster, so kind of
Speaker 16: like you guys, like he's on the radio and has
Speaker 16: like this really sexy voice. He was even sexier in person.
Speaker 16: So like we would help for drinks before our date.
Speaker 16: You know, I'm not a big drinker, but I knew
Speaker 16: that I needed to kind.
Speaker 7: Of like loosen up.
Speaker 16: And everything was perfect. I mean, everything was perfect, and
Speaker 16: I was feeling like loose. I was feeling, you.
Speaker 7: Know, just comfortable. Not a huge Hora fan.
Speaker 16: I mean I haven't watched like horror movies since like
Speaker 16: high school, but like whatever, it's not that big of
Speaker 16: a deal. I don't feel like they're that you know,
Speaker 16: there's not that much artistic stuff that goes into it,
Speaker 16: you know, so I'm not into like dumb slash reflects
Speaker 16: or anything like that. But this movie was okay, but
Speaker 16: I do get scared easily. I mean I felt comfortable
Speaker 16: holding his hand. Randy was so like good to me
Speaker 16: and gentle, and it felt so like perfect. There was
Speaker 16: like no judgment or anything. But there was this point
Speaker 16: in the movie that I got scared. And I don't
Speaker 16: know if any other women out there, I mean, my
Speaker 16: doctor said, Okay, I peed myself I got it.
Speaker 1: Been there, girl, It's okay, laughing too hard?
Speaker 7: Did I peed my pants? Oh my god? And I
Speaker 7: didn't know what to do.
Speaker 16: And I thought about it a second because you know,
Speaker 16: like it was dark.
Speaker 7: And it just happened. It didn't mean to happen, and so.
Speaker 16: I excused myself to the bathroom. And when I made
Speaker 16: it to the bathroom, I was mortified because it wasn't
Speaker 16: like I was going to be able to go under
Speaker 16: the hand dryer. I wore this skirt and I guess
Speaker 16: I just had too many drinks. I don't know, and
Speaker 16: I was completely covered and I'm sitting there thinking, like
Speaker 16: my chair is wet, my entire skirt is wet, Like
Speaker 16: being is so sexy. He's going to think I'm a
Speaker 16: crazy person.
Speaker 7: And I just was.
Speaker 16: I was too embarrassed, you know what I mean. I
Speaker 16: just slipped out when no one was looking, thank god.
Speaker 16: I mean, and I just I had to run to
Speaker 16: my car. I had to go home. I had to
Speaker 16: completely change, completely change, and.
Speaker 1: I you know that. I mean, that's how it is,
Speaker 1: when like a little bit comes out and you can't
Speaker 1: stop it, and then it's like literally sometimes and then
Speaker 1: it just keeps going.
Speaker 2: I know this is after the fact, but if it
Speaker 2: ever happens again, just get a soda and dump it
Speaker 2: on your side in the future, right, It might save you.
Speaker 1: A little bit.
Speaker 7: And I guess I just I was.
Speaker 16: Not thinking that's a great idea, by the way, I
Speaker 16: was so flustered that And I mean I got Randy's text.
Speaker 7: I did.
Speaker 16: I just did not know what to say because I
Speaker 16: don't want to start off with like lies, you know.
Speaker 16: And he didn't say anything about it on his movie review, so.
Speaker 7: And I listened for it, like I did, so that's cool.
Speaker 1: At least he didn't say that you beat your pants
Speaker 1: on his podcast.
Speaker 16: Yeah, he wasn't like I took this crazy personal for
Speaker 16: date and she peed.
Speaker 7: On me or something like, hell I wasn't the goal.
Speaker 7: And yeah, so I don't know what to say.
Speaker 1: Well, I think you said it all basically. You also
Speaker 1: said it to Randy because he's been on the phone
Speaker 1: listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 15: Oh my god, Hi, hello Tirose.
Speaker 7: Oh, I am so sorry. I am so sorry.
Speaker 6: I've been trying hard not the lab like, oh my god,
Speaker 6: I understand completely. I am just so happy that it
Speaker 6: was not something crazy or that I did something wrong,
Speaker 6: you know, Yeah, no, it.
Speaker 12: Comes in my head. Yeah, I know when Adam Stander
Speaker 12: goes your pants, you right, And.
Speaker 7: I was going to like doing Madison moment too, but
Speaker 7: like I didn't know if it would be it's not funny,
Speaker 7: it's not cool. It's so not funny.
Speaker 6: It's pretty fun honestly, Like now that I've had I mean,
Speaker 6: I wish you would have said something and like, hey,
Speaker 6: I had an emergency.
Speaker 11: I need to go home.
Speaker 12: Can we re schedule?
Speaker 6: But I just honestly, the biggest thing I feel right
Speaker 6: now is relief, Like I feel really connected to you,
Speaker 6: and it's like it's funny now, like we if you'll
Speaker 6: have me, I would love to go on another date
Speaker 6: and we can laugh about this, you.
Speaker 1: Know, Rose, would you like to go on another date
Speaker 1: with Randy? Will pay for it?
Speaker 16: Absolutely absolutely, I would. Just as long as this does
Speaker 16: not become our story of how we met, like we're
Speaker 16: going to need to come up with something else.
Speaker 12: We'll do another one.
Speaker 6: So I have review that I'm doing next week and
Speaker 6: it's a comedy, So maybe we'll just try it again
Speaker 6: and watch a comedy.
Speaker 2: That's when it really happens. Rose, maybe brings some depends
Speaker 2: just in case.
Speaker 7: I will be prepared. I will be prepared.
Speaker 12: Cool and see me, Miles Davis.
Speaker 1: That was the grossest thing Jubile's first day follow up.
Speaker 11: Got room for one more if you still want to
Speaker 11: go to ask But where did you find that some
Speaker 11: kid back in town?
Speaker 5: Trade the van for it?
Speaker 1: Straight up, I can get seventy miles to the gallon
Speaker 1: on this hog, you know, Lloyd.
Speaker 9: Just when I think you couldn't possibly be any dummer,
Speaker 9: you go and do something like this.
Speaker 12: I am totally yourself.
Speaker 1: It's time for America's favorite trivia game. You versus Victoria,
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Speaker 7: Uh?
Speaker 12: Key?
Speaker 1: Jane Piano? What he said? But why did the scarecrow
Speaker 1: win an award? Because he was really cool?
Speaker 3: No?
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Speaker 13: You know what's weird about your quizzes, Katie, is that
Speaker 13: all the work is right and just the answers are wrong.
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Speaker 17: Good morning?
Speaker 1: How are you?
Speaker 7: I'm doing good?
Speaker 1: How are you great? Do you think you have what
Speaker 1: it takes to meet Victoria? She's won three in a row?
Speaker 7: Now, yeah, I think I think I got something.
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, Okay, We're gonna send Victoria out of
Speaker 1: the studio. Here's how the game is played. You have
Speaker 1: thirty seconds to answer as many questions as possible. If
Speaker 1: you don't know when, just say pass, and Victoria has
Speaker 1: to beat you outright to win. Okay, okay, all right,
Speaker 1: she's she's taking her some time. The door is closing. Okay,
Speaker 1: she's officially outside. Now here we go, Destiny. Your time
Speaker 1: starts now. Who wrote the national anthem?
Speaker 14: Uh?
Speaker 6: Fact?
Speaker 2: What is the name of the largest country in the
Speaker 2: world by area, Texas? What is the name of the
Speaker 2: largest species of penguin, uh?
Speaker 7: African penguin.
Speaker 1: What's the smallest mammal?
Speaker 17: The smallest mammal? I'm gonna say you now, how.
Speaker 1: Many islands are there in the Philippines?
Speaker 12: Four time is up.
Speaker 1: We'll bring Victoria back to the studio. And while she's
Speaker 1: coming back in Destiny, what's something you would like the
Speaker 1: world to know.
Speaker 17: Today it's Tuesday. Just have a great day and always
Speaker 17: do you a smile on your face.
Speaker 1: All yeah, that's great advice. What do you do for work, Destiny?
Speaker 7: I work at the Saclone.
Speaker 17: Youth Center off the Delpasa Boulevard. I'm a program specialist,
Speaker 17: so I teach kids about the eighth we Oh.
Speaker 4: That's cool, that's really good. Yeah, there's not enough education
Speaker 4: about wellness.
Speaker 1: Yeah, there is it, right, Okay, Victoria's got her headphones on.
Speaker 1: You ready, I think?
Speaker 15: So?
Speaker 1: All right? Thirty seconds to answer as many questions as possible.
Speaker 1: If you don't know one, just say pass and I
Speaker 1: have to be Destiny. Our one. Can't be me out
Speaker 1: right to one? No, no, you don't have to already
Speaker 1: got one wrong. You can tell Victoria when to go
Speaker 1: in this one?
Speaker 15: What?
Speaker 1: All right?
Speaker 7: Ready?
Speaker 15: Go?
Speaker 2: Who wrote the national anthem, Christopher Columbus. What is the
Speaker 2: name of the largest country in the world by area Asia?
Speaker 1: What is the name of the largest species of penguin?
Speaker 1: The largest species of penguin? Uh? The penguin?
Speaker 3: I don't know, penguin one?
Speaker 1: What's the smallest mammal?
Speaker 11: Rah?
Speaker 1: Time is up? Wait and Victoria get her fourth win
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Speaker 1: and see how you guys did with our scoreboard. Producer
Speaker 1: brad Well.
Speaker 4: Destiny did not get any correct neither did Victoria.
Speaker 1: And that means Destiny, congratulations, you did it. You won.
Speaker 1: You got one hundred dollars gift card. And let's get
Speaker 1: the answers now with Nina.
Speaker 2: Francis Scott Key wrote the national anthem, Francis Scott Key.
Speaker 1: He used aye to do it too.
Speaker 2: Russia is the largest country in the world by area.
Speaker 1: That's what I meant.
Speaker 2: The Emperor penguin is the largest species of penguin. The
Speaker 2: bumblebee bat is the smallest mammal. And there are seven thousand,
Speaker 2: six and forty one islands in the Philippine.
Speaker 1: You didn't ask me that one.
Speaker 3: You didn't get there, bro, And I was gonna say bumblebee,
Speaker 3: but you will cut me off the bumblebee bat.
Speaker 1: You're gonna say that, Yeah, yeah, head, okay, I think
Speaker 1: bumblebee's bat.
Speaker 17: Yeah.
Speaker 4: For all the trolls, we are going to text into
Speaker 4: four one oh six one and say Russia is not
Speaker 4: the biggest by land.
Speaker 1: Here it's Antarctica.
Speaker 4: I want you to double check before you text that
Speaker 4: in if Antarctica is a country or not.
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Speaker 13: It's time to catch a Cheater.
Speaker 1: Only on the Jubile Show. Julia is on the phone
Speaker 1: today for to catch a cheater. She's been with her
Speaker 1: boyfriend George for a year, but now she thinks that
Speaker 1: he might be messing around, so we'll see if we
Speaker 1: can help her out. Julia, Sorry, you have to come
Speaker 1: on the show this way, but what's up? Why do
Speaker 1: you think George is cheating on you?
Speaker 8: So?
Speaker 5: Uh?
Speaker 7: Yeah, So George and I we don't live together, but
Speaker 7: basically like we might as well be. We both work
Speaker 7: a lot. Uh so you know, we try to spend
Speaker 7: as much time together as you can. But a while ago,
Speaker 7: I signed Georgia at my gym that I go to,
Speaker 7: so like, basically after work we can like both go
Speaker 7: work out together and spend some time together that way
Speaker 7: and decompressed together. Yeah, I figured that was like a
Speaker 7: way to kind of like be productive and still spend
Speaker 7: time together. And then uh, he actually got me an
Speaker 7: Apple Watch and I said we should do like a
Speaker 7: fitness challenge on it, and I was like, okay, never
Speaker 7: had one before, it's pretty cool. But then so basically
Speaker 7: it was like we were both doing really good.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 7: I was like using the app. We were like using
Speaker 7: the you know, all the info on there, like taking
Speaker 7: it super seriously.
Speaker 6: You know.
Speaker 7: It's fun to like you know, just basically like check
Speaker 7: your progress. But yeah, it start point, he was like
Speaker 7: way more ahead of me. Like there was like suddenly
Speaker 7: just like a giant spike in activity and its like
Speaker 7: on the thing it gives you the info. I said
Speaker 7: it was around two am. So I was like, okay,
Speaker 7: like even if she fell asleep with it, like he'd
Speaker 7: never like amassed that much. Like he's just like this
Speaker 7: doesn't make any sense. It was just like this giant spike.
Speaker 7: So I was like, you know, I thought maybe if
Speaker 7: she had it on like while he was like by
Speaker 7: himself or something, you know.
Speaker 15: But then I was like still like.
Speaker 7: You know, but like the like the spike was huge,
Speaker 7: and so I was like, well, that still doesn't really
Speaker 7: make any sense. It was like it was like a
Speaker 7: he was running a marathon for like twenty minutes, so
Speaker 7: he's constantly working. Like I mentioned before, like, there's no
Speaker 7: way he would be up that late because he had
Speaker 7: to get up early in the morning and so he
Speaker 7: should be sleeping. And he doesn't really work out late
Speaker 7: at night because he said he keeps him up. So
Speaker 7: I asked him about a couple days later, and he
Speaker 7: said he was stressed that day and couldn't sleep, so
Speaker 7: he went for a quick run at the gym. I
Speaker 7: don't know, maybe he went to the gym in the
Speaker 7: middle of the night. It seems a little weird, okay,
Speaker 7: but he worked out with me earlier that day, so
Speaker 7: I feel like that was just kind of weird because
Speaker 7: he had already worked out. So maybe you can go
Speaker 7: twice at in a day like people do that.
Speaker 1: But I don't know.
Speaker 2: I just is there anybody that he could have got
Speaker 2: his steps in with? I guess whatever we're calling it,
Speaker 2: I mean, I see where you're going with that, Like
Speaker 2: that is kind of alarming.
Speaker 1: It's way and you're like, okay, bro, twenty minutes is
Speaker 1: kind of.
Speaker 2: A sweet spot, you know, So is there anybody it
Speaker 2: could be, or is there anything else that he's been
Speaker 2: doing that's kind of weird.
Speaker 7: No, I feel like he's like when I first met him,
Speaker 7: he was like super you know, kind of nerdy, and
Speaker 7: he was a little like, you know, kind of softer
Speaker 7: and not in shape, not super confident, and he didn't
Speaker 7: have a lot of friends. So I don't think there's
Speaker 7: anyone that he could be like meeting. Is not like
Speaker 7: the most like social guy in the world. Okay, he's
Speaker 7: kind of a geek, like you know, So.
Speaker 1: Do you have an Apple watch table? I do.
Speaker 2: Do you know that if you were to be by
Speaker 2: yourself at that time, would it make it look like you.
Speaker 1: Were running a marathon? No, I don't think so. Your
Speaker 1: heart rate would go up, heart rate might go up
Speaker 1: a little bit. Yeah, I think even if it was
Speaker 1: on that hand, I don't think. No, I don't think so. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: and it definitely wouldn't never put it out, but I
Speaker 1: will this afternoon, okay, get back to us. And also
Speaker 1: probably wouldn't be twenty minutes. Was he real? But yeah,
Speaker 1: we'll see if we can figure it out for you.
Speaker 1: That is weird.
Speaker 7: Yeah, so, uh, we're like at the gym all the time.
Speaker 7: So instead of like maybe I don't know, like flowers
Speaker 7: or something, you could try to offer like a free
Speaker 7: kickboxing class or whatever and then ask them to do
Speaker 7: like a plus one and then see like who we
Speaker 7: give that to.
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, we can come up with something to see
Speaker 1: if he'll tell us if he invites you or somebody else.
Speaker 7: Yeah, it just seems like more realistic.
Speaker 1: Okay, we'll play a song come back, and then call
Speaker 1: him and pretend to be from the gym and offer
Speaker 1: him some sort of package that involves someone else. Will
Speaker 1: figure it out here in a second, and then we'll
Speaker 1: see if he invites you or somebody else. Okay, okay, okay,
Speaker 1: we'll plaus on, come back, get your to Catch theater next.
Speaker 1: Right in the middle of today's To Catch a Cheater,
Speaker 1: if you're just joining us, Julia is on the phone.
Speaker 1: She's been with her boyfriend George for a year, but
Speaker 1: now she suspects that he might be cheating. So in
Speaker 1: a second, we're going to call him and pretend to
Speaker 1: be from the gym that they both go to and
Speaker 1: say that we're offering a new kickboxing class for couples
Speaker 1: and we'd like him to come, and if we could
Speaker 1: also have the name of the person he wants to bring.
Speaker 1: We'll see if he believes that and tells us either
Speaker 1: Julia's name or somebody else so we can find out.
Speaker 1: All right, Julia, are you ready to give him a call?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Okay, real quick. Why don't you catch everybody up in
Speaker 1: your situation?
Speaker 15: So?
Speaker 7: Yeah, have been dating my boyfriend for about a year.
Speaker 7: We go to the gym all the time together. When
Speaker 7: I would first dating him, he was not in shape.
Speaker 7: Now he is. I really got him in shape and
Speaker 7: was a good influence on him. But then, uh, and
Speaker 7: then he bought me an Apple watch. We've both been
Speaker 7: like tracking our progress and I noticed one night at
Speaker 7: two am on some high activity that didn't make any sense.
Speaker 7: He said, he was at the gym. But who goes
Speaker 7: to the gym at two am?
Speaker 1: Right? Yeah, all right? Are you ready for us to
Speaker 1: call in?
Speaker 8: Yes?
Speaker 1: Okay, here we go. Hell yeah, hey, this is horrible
Speaker 1: calling from so I was looking for our member George.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, this is hey, bro. How are you I'm
Speaker 1: doing good? How are you great?
Speaker 6: Man?
Speaker 1: Thank you for asking. Listen, I'm not calling for any
Speaker 1: marketing purposes right now. I'm actually calling to say congratulations.
Speaker 1: We're actually doing like an incentive for some of our
Speaker 1: newer members, and we know you just joined up, and
Speaker 1: so I'd like to offer you an exciting opportunity. Like
Speaker 1: it's not a sales thing. It's more like you want
Speaker 1: you want something.
Speaker 5: Is this one of the things that you add to
Speaker 5: like my account?
Speaker 1: No, dude, it's not. Yeah, like I know I'm not
Speaker 1: selling it the best, but that's not really my thing.
Speaker 1: I'm more of a trainer, you know. But we we're
Speaker 1: actually doing kickboxing now, and we are inviting some of
Speaker 1: our new members to sign up for an evening. It's
Speaker 1: like an event thing where we're launching our kickboxing but
Speaker 1: we're doing like a couples like mixer and stuff like that,
Speaker 1: so you can bring somebody like a date to it.
Speaker 1: You guys can do the class, but then also they'll
Speaker 1: be like, you know, drinks and stuff after. It's kind
Speaker 1: of like a fun thing. Are you interested?
Speaker 5: Yeah, kickboxing? That sounds great.
Speaker 1: It's a good workout. It's great, and like you don't
Speaker 1: have to sign up for anything. It's literally like it's
Speaker 1: just a it's just our way of saying thank you
Speaker 1: very much for you know, being a member here and
Speaker 1: we want you to experience all the things we can
Speaker 1: offer and like we're launching this new thing, so it's exciting.
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, sign me up.
Speaker 1: Well, stal simple, I can just sign you up right now,
Speaker 1: but I do need to know are you going to
Speaker 1: bring a plus one? Oh yeah, okay, cool. I just
Speaker 1: need to know like their names so we can have
Speaker 1: it here, you know, in case they're not a member.
Speaker 14: Yeah, yeah, you should just put down Sophie is this
Speaker 14: girl that works out at the gym and I picked
Speaker 14: up and I think this will like totally score.
Speaker 1: Points if you mean, like you metver here. Yeah, oh yeah,
Speaker 1: that's probably real exciting.
Speaker 5: Then you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Okay, I can probably look up the name Sophie and
Speaker 1: you get the last name or whatever. But well I'll
Speaker 1: put you down with Sophie and then for the event,
Speaker 1: it's gonna not be at all.
Speaker 5: Sorry.
Speaker 1: Yeah, this is actually the Jubill Show. It's a radio show.
Speaker 1: My name's Jubil. Yeah, I mean I'm Victoria, and we
Speaker 1: do a segment called to Catch a Cheater, where if
Speaker 1: you think your significant other might be cheating, you try
Speaker 1: to set them up and your girlfriend Julie is on
Speaker 1: the phone.
Speaker 5: Actually, yeah, hi, Yeah, what is this?
Speaker 7: What's going on? Well, who's Sophie?
Speaker 14: Sophie, she's just a girl that works at she works out.
Speaker 18: At the gym that you picked up at the gym.
Speaker 18: What do you mean, Well, that's just what you said. Yeah, No,
Speaker 18: she's just a friend at the gym.
Speaker 5: What do you mean would you.
Speaker 1: Even to go back and listen to it again, because
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure you did.
Speaker 7: Yeah, you said a girl I picked up at the gym,
Speaker 7: and he was all, oh, yeah, so people are meeting
Speaker 7: at the gym and you're like, oh yeah, and I'm
Speaker 7: going to win points with her? Why would you want
Speaker 7: to win points with there?
Speaker 19: I just said that as a as a joke when
Speaker 19: the guy was just asking, like, I just wanted to
Speaker 19: let him know that what is this about?
Speaker 11: How?
Speaker 5: Why are you on the radio? Like why are you
Speaker 5: call it calling the radio?
Speaker 7: Well, you know how we have like the Apple watches?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 7: Well why why at two am? Was there a crazy
Speaker 7: spike the other night?
Speaker 5: Why are you like, I was just at the gym.
Speaker 19: What do you mean that I'm changing like my schedule
Speaker 19: And that just happened to me when.
Speaker 7: I went working out at two am.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I told you, like some nights I can't sleep, and.
Speaker 19: That's when I met that Sophie person and Juice is
Speaker 19: there and we just got to talking.
Speaker 5: It literally doesn't mean anything.
Speaker 11: I was just thought that because I go there at.
Speaker 1: Night, why wouldn't you take your girlfriend to that class?
Speaker 1: Then is there a spike of your just talking.
Speaker 5: It's because I can't sleep. I was just like, you're
Speaker 5: being controlling, Like.
Speaker 19: Why are you Why are you always telling me how
Speaker 19: and when I should like work out?
Speaker 1: I don't think you're telling you that. Also, George, why
Speaker 1: why wouldn't you invite your girlfriend? Why would you invite
Speaker 1: Sophie instead?
Speaker 5: Because I should be able to. I mean, it doesn't matter.
Speaker 5: I'm not like doing anything with this person.
Speaker 19: If if it's two am and I want to invite
Speaker 19: this person to the gym, you know, then it's two am.
Speaker 5: That's because I can't sleep.
Speaker 1: There's the thing was at two am.
Speaker 19: I can't believe you're like calling the radio station and
Speaker 19: then just like controlling.
Speaker 5: Me like this, like this is not a relationship.
Speaker 7: How am I controlling you? If I'm if I'm just
Speaker 7: asking about a specific thing that you did at two am?
Speaker 7: Which is like extremely alarming.
Speaker 19: I just went to the gym because I couldn't sleep,
Speaker 19: and that's why I probably spiked on them on the watch.
Speaker 7: It's obvious that you're lying. I'm not controlling your lying.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I told you.
Speaker 19: I'm done with that. Like I told you the other day.
Speaker 19: I don't know why you're going through all this trouble.
Speaker 19: So yeah, I'm seeing I'm seeing somebody else. Okay, I'm
Speaker 19: seeing Sophie. Okay, I'm tired of you like running.
Speaker 5: My life okay, and she like she just tells, she
Speaker 5: lets me be who I want to be.
Speaker 7: You know, the reason why Sophie even likes you is
Speaker 7: because of me, because of what I've done to like
Speaker 7: build confidence in you and like like to do the
Speaker 7: gym stuff. And now you're all like your ego is
Speaker 7: like big.
Speaker 5: Now my ego is what do you mean my ego?
Speaker 19: I'm just he's trying to be me and I don't
Speaker 19: like this, like the whole controlling thing, like tell me
Speaker 19: when I should do things, when I should work out,
Speaker 19: when I should eat.
Speaker 7: Well, cool, you can go and do whatever you want
Speaker 7: now because you're not under control anymore. You can be
Speaker 7: with Sophie because this is over. Okay, he hung up.
Speaker 1: Julia, I'm sorry. I'm so sorry hung up. Your intuition
Speaker 1: was right, Oh yeah, I guess so. Yeah, I'm really sorry.
Speaker 1: But you will find someone else and maybe even at
Speaker 1: the gym.
Speaker 7: Yeah. Yeah, I'm not going to go for the nerdy
Speaker 7: guy again.
Speaker 2: That part too, his self esteem is probably like temporary.
Speaker 2: Once this girl Sophie gets bored, then he's going to
Speaker 2: go back to being like whatever and doesn't know what
Speaker 2: to do with himself.
Speaker 1: So it's all good.
Speaker 7: Oh I'm glad I shound out.
Speaker 1: Thank you, guys, no problem. Yeah, the Jewel Shows you
Speaker 1: catch a cheater. I might have to call off my
Speaker 1: wedding and I need your help. Excuse me the Jewble Show.
Speaker 1: That's the start of an email. We got into the
Speaker 1: show yesterday and one of our listeners needs your and
Speaker 1: our advice. So we'll talk to them next and see
Speaker 1: why they think they need to call off their wedding.
Speaker 1: It's a big decision. It is a big decision. Apparently
Speaker 1: it's in a week two decision. We'll talk to them
Speaker 1: next and maybe you can help him out. It's the
Speaker 1: Jewble Show. I need your help. I might have to
Speaker 1: cancel my wedding and it's in a week. It's the
Speaker 1: Jewbile Show. That was a subject line from an email
Speaker 1: we got into the Jubileshow dot com yesterday and the
Speaker 1: email goes on and says, hi, Juble Show, you guys
Speaker 1: are great, thank you, thank you very much. I listened
Speaker 1: to you all the time, and you seem to give
Speaker 1: good advice. Well except Victoria, what hey, I don't know
Speaker 1: if I trust anything you tell me. And then there's
Speaker 1: producer Brad and he's always just annoyed with things. And
Speaker 1: then there's Gabby, your social media producer. I definitely don't
Speaker 1: want this posted on social media. And jubill you never
Speaker 1: know what weird thing is going to come out of
Speaker 1: your mouth. But I'm pretty sure Nina could help me
Speaker 1: out pressure and maybe you're listeners too. If I can
Speaker 1: please come on the show and ask for some advice,
Speaker 1: I'd really appreciate it. I'm about to marry the love
Speaker 1: of my life. But I also might have to call
Speaker 1: the whole thing off a week before the wedding. Am
Speaker 1: I the worst person ever? Question mark from Dylan and
Speaker 1: Dylan is on the phone right now, so we can
Speaker 1: see what the issue is. Dylan what's up?
Speaker 11: Hey guys, Hey you guys, Dylan.
Speaker 1: Good sounds like you're in a spot though, Why do
Speaker 1: you think you're gonna have to call off your wedding?
Speaker 11: And yeah, so I got this issue going on. I
Speaker 11: don't know what to do. I'll just first say I
Speaker 11: love the show. I love you guys, thank you, But
Speaker 11: I really need to help with this situation. Basically, like
Speaker 11: I'm getting married in a week, right, and be before
Speaker 11: I got engaged and wanted to, you know, make sure
Speaker 11: I was committing to this fully. I decided to go
Speaker 11: on a date with my ex girlfriend just to make
Speaker 11: sure that. I know, it sounds weird, but I was
Speaker 11: just I wanted to make sure I was making the
Speaker 11: right decision and that, you know, I wanted closure with
Speaker 11: my with my eggs, and so I did that right
Speaker 11: after getting engaged.
Speaker 1: Does you know that you did that?
Speaker 11: She does not. I didn't tell her. I thought she
Speaker 11: would get upset. But it was cool. We didn't do anything,
Speaker 11: you know, it was just it was just dinner and
Speaker 11: talking about lives and stuff. And then but after this,
Speaker 11: I was very sure that I, you know, I wanted
Speaker 11: to marry my fiance. I got my closure. It was good,
Speaker 11: you know, I just needed that. The issue is this girl,
Speaker 11: my eggs, she's now the right mean to tell my
Speaker 11: fiance about this date. And she even has like pictures
Speaker 11: and what you know, basically ruined like the.
Speaker 1: Wedding pictures of its uh on the date with her
Speaker 1: or something.
Speaker 11: Yeah, I mean she's threatening to break the news to
Speaker 11: like everyone at the wedding that we went on a
Speaker 11: date and like show all these pictures and like probably
Speaker 11: even like crash the wedding. I mean, she's kind of nuts.
Speaker 1: Okay, wow, just tell your fyance.
Speaker 3: I mean I feel like that had to been a
Speaker 3: thought whenever you made the date.
Speaker 1: So she's threatening to show up at your wedding and
Speaker 1: then in front of everybody during the wedding tell them
Speaker 1: that you went on a date with her after you
Speaker 1: were engaged. But I feel like if nothing happened, is
Speaker 1: that is that what it is doing?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 11: I don't know what to do. I mean, there there's
Speaker 11: kind of one other thing I didn't tell you guys.
Speaker 1: Well before that though, like, uh, you haven't so you
Speaker 1: haven't said anything to your fiance.
Speaker 11: I've not told her anything. Was it wasn't that I
Speaker 11: was trying to keep it from her. I just didn't
Speaker 11: want her to like think anything wrong.
Speaker 1: What do you think? What do you think she would
Speaker 1: do if you sat down with her before the wedding
Speaker 1: and said, hey, I went out on a date just
Speaker 1: to see nothing happened, and they're threatening to show up
Speaker 1: at the wedding and tell everybody. What do you think
Speaker 1: your fiance would do? How would she react?
Speaker 11: She probably should probably be really, I mean, this has
Speaker 11: been like a couple of months ago, so I'm thinking,
Speaker 11: you know, she'll be mad that I kept the secret
Speaker 11: type of thing.
Speaker 1: She'll probably be bad. But what she also call it off?
Speaker 3: Like if I knew you went on a date with
Speaker 3: someone after we got engaged, especially with your ex, would
Speaker 3: you call it off?
Speaker 2: I don't think you're calling it off. I know, because
Speaker 2: if you went on your date, all of that money
Speaker 2: is spent, your wedding is already planned. So if you
Speaker 2: get in front of it right now, and if she's
Speaker 2: not the one that's telling, if your ex is the
Speaker 2: one that shows up and gets all psycho before you
Speaker 2: even get a chance to explain yourself, you're screwed. But
Speaker 2: but if you get up there and you get to
Speaker 2: tell her how you feel or why you did that.
Speaker 2: Probably shouldn't have done that in the first place, but
Speaker 2: you can tell her you shouldn't have. But she's not
Speaker 2: going to cancel a wedding just because you went out
Speaker 2: with your ex because you had cold feet. I mean
Speaker 2: that seems a little bit dramatic. No, we're getting text
Speaker 2: in that say just tell her. Yeah, you get out
Speaker 2: in front of it. You were calling it a date,
Speaker 2: but I think it was more like a closure dinner.
Speaker 2: Maybe we can rebrand it a little bit before you
Speaker 2: tell the day. I say, that's what Brad would be.
Speaker 1: How to brand it right? So it wasn't a date,
Speaker 1: it was a closure dinner. Yeah, I just want to
Speaker 1: make sure.
Speaker 4: She was fully out, you know, but she's not playing
Speaker 4: by the rules, and I want you to know she's
Speaker 4: got this plan baby.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then you lean into the whole like I've
Speaker 2: never been more sure about how much I love you
Speaker 2: in my life, Like you're the greatest thing. You lean
Speaker 2: into that you never make that mistake again, and I
Speaker 2: think you'll be fine. But if this girl shows up,
Speaker 2: then you're gonna have problems. You don't want to ruin
Speaker 2: your fiance's wedding day either, So it's not about the
Speaker 2: wedding getting canceled now or whatever. It's about getting ruined
Speaker 2: save it.
Speaker 11: Yeah. So I agree with all that, and I think
Speaker 11: you guys would, right, There's just like one other thing
Speaker 11: that I didn't tell you, guys, And I don't want
Speaker 11: you guys to think I'm like a bad person. It
Speaker 11: was just a weak moment, you know. The thing is
Speaker 11: like we hooked up. I didn't think it was going
Speaker 11: to happen. I drove her home and we had some
Speaker 11: drinks and it just it just happened.
Speaker 1: And but is that what she has pictures? That's a
Speaker 1: totally different conversation now.
Speaker 11: I don't know. But what's even worse is that she
Speaker 11: told me that she's pregnant.
Speaker 1: Maybe you should I got my ex pregnant. And what
Speaker 1: do I do?
Speaker 11: I really, straight up, I don't have to do right now.
Speaker 1: I think you have to talk. You have to talk
Speaker 1: to your fiance.
Speaker 2: I don't think you're getting married in a Yeah, yeah
Speaker 2: you can.
Speaker 1: You can get married again in nine months. But yeah,
Speaker 1: I think you have to talk to her one hundred percent.
Speaker 1: Let us know how it goes, Okay.
Speaker 11: All right, so I just come clean to her, Yeah, I.
Speaker 1: Mean, yeah, without the you got her pregnant thing. It
Speaker 1: might not be that bad, but this is something that
Speaker 1: you definitely need to tell her you have babies coming.
Speaker 2: She's gonna find out one way or another, so it's
Speaker 2: better coming from you.
Speaker 11: Yeah, you're right. Well, I'm worried, but I appreciate you guys.
Speaker 1: Advise, let us know how it goes. Okay, Okay, good luck.
Speaker 1: If you want to d any advice that we can
Speaker 1: actually help you with, give us email the show before
Speaker 1: your grave is already done.
Speaker 12: Jewbles, Dirty little Secret.
Speaker 1: Hello, Hey, what's up? You have a dirty little great?
Speaker 11: Yes?
Speaker 1: I do. Sweet, let's here?
Speaker 8: That is it?
Speaker 15: Okay? If I'm a guy, I like to crustius as
Speaker 15: a girl. Okay, And so sometimes I like to wear
Speaker 15: like white to freeze mm hmm. And I like to
Speaker 15: get on a chocolate I'll tick with like I see
Speaker 15: a chocolate all of my butt. And I like to
Speaker 15: go to like a store like the area where I
Speaker 15: know people like to get like attention from people. Do
Speaker 15: you really see a chocolate all of your pants? I'm like, well,
Speaker 15: I surprise and something about long but it's just I
Speaker 15: don't know.
Speaker 5: I get that.
Speaker 15: Thrills having like chocolate all in my buttons, walking around
Speaker 15: it and being in public.
Speaker 2: Which part gives you the thrill that people are looking
Speaker 2: at your butt or that they're shocked that there's chocolate
Speaker 2: on it?
Speaker 15: I think like both.
Speaker 7: I don't know.
Speaker 15: I just I just think it's funny enough, like wearing
Speaker 15: like white to freeze and I kind of chocolate And
Speaker 15: I don't know, it's just it's weird.
Speaker 3: And that's one way to get a compliment on your butt.
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, enjoy it, you know. Fun sounds fun?
Speaker 15: Yeah, well, thank you for it interesting for a lot
Speaker 15: of people.
Speaker 1: Yeah, if they've been like, hey, I just commented on
Speaker 1: chocolate on somebody's but the other day. Weird pose. Thank
Speaker 1: you for telling us your dirty little secret. Hello, hello, hey,
Speaker 1: you have a dirty little secret. I do, sweet? What
Speaker 1: is it?
Speaker 7: I muled a kilo of drugs across state lines many
Speaker 7: years ago to pay my rent. That's it. One time,
Speaker 7: one and done. Never do it again.
Speaker 6: Never did it before.
Speaker 15: You?
Speaker 7: No?
Speaker 8: No, oh my gosh.
Speaker 7: Actually in a McDonald's bag.
Speaker 1: Oh wait, that's.
Speaker 12: How easy it is.
Speaker 1: You say, a bag?
Speaker 7: Well, I mean, I'm sure if anything had happened, you know,
Speaker 7: it's not very hidden. Sometimes the more obvious thing is
Speaker 7: the less obvious thing, if that makes sense.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you have a guardian angel on that run.
Speaker 8: Dang.
Speaker 7: Yeah, it was terrifying. I tried to back out after
Speaker 7: agreeing to it.
Speaker 15: It was too late. I ended up doing it, getting
Speaker 15: it done, and never did it again.
Speaker 1: Well, thank you for your dirty little secret. El chopo,
Speaker 1: no eye. You never know by looking at me. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it don't sound sound like it, but you know. Thank
Speaker 1: you have a good one. You guys, what's your dirty
Speaker 1: little secret.