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Speaker 1: shown Morning Shelley. Everybody calling Junior. Now, I know y'all

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Speaker 1: That stuff he smokes should be called lists? What you

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Speaker 1: it's the nephew would run that prank back? You're listening.

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Speaker 1: I'm fine with this. This is Brian. This is Brian.

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Speaker 1: So you said it's it's pot luck. What are y'all bringing? Well,

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Speaker 1: I am not making eggnog with breast milk. Now, Breast

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Speaker 1: some Christmas parties. That that is nasty. Okay, somebody gonna

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Speaker 1: there to make some ignocks? What does that? We don't

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Speaker 1: You you know what? Man? Ma'm I mean? I didn't.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't trying to offend you. I just wanted to

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Speaker 1: I'm past offended. I ain't squeezing out a tablespoon of

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Speaker 1: You got me up. You need to tell Keith. First

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Speaker 1: I didn't, I didn't. I didn't tell Kiev exactly what

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Speaker 1: You're calling somebody asking for some breast milk? Who does that?

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Speaker 1: What you can do? Or if you want some eggnog,

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Speaker 1: some infamire some Simila ca and mix some eggnog yourself,

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Speaker 1: if that's what you choose to do. But my breast milk,

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Speaker 1: you can't even pay for it? Okay, I don't get

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Speaker 1: for milk, So you're gonna be this selfish that you

421
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Speaker 1: can't loan us a little bit of breast milk so

422
00:27:49,480 --> 00:27:51,679
Speaker 1: we can have a great time with some eggnog at

423
00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:57,000
Speaker 1: the party. Selfish loan breast milk? Okay, you know what?

424
00:27:57,000 --> 00:27:58,680
Speaker 1: You know what, conser don't worry about. We don't even

425
00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:00,000
Speaker 1: want you at the party if you don't gonna bring

426
00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:02,200
Speaker 1: breast milk. They don't come to the party. Damn right.

427
00:28:02,240 --> 00:28:04,399
Speaker 1: I don't need to come to your funky party. And

428
00:28:04,480 --> 00:28:07,399
Speaker 1: you tell Kiva this is some Steven have her friend

429
00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:10,600
Speaker 1: called me. I am the party coordinator, and Kiva knows

430
00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:12,479
Speaker 1: that that's and I tried to be nice enough to

431
00:28:12,520 --> 00:28:16,119
Speaker 1: invite you. I'm offended. I am offended. Okay, would you

432
00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:18,600
Speaker 1: ask your wife or your girlfriend or whoever your baby

433
00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:20,960
Speaker 1: mama is to do something like that? Would you expect

434
00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:23,679
Speaker 1: somebody to ask cock. You're disrespecting me asking me for

435
00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:27,159
Speaker 1: something like that. Okay, you know what, Bryan, what is

436
00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:29,560
Speaker 1: your last name? Because I'm failing to remember who you

437
00:28:29,600 --> 00:28:32,280
Speaker 1: are because I'm sho gonna ask Keith, Well, Brian, Brian,

438
00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:34,280
Speaker 1: Brian ain't really my name. I didn't really want to

439
00:28:34,320 --> 00:28:36,800
Speaker 1: tell you my real name, so so you playing on

440
00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:39,360
Speaker 1: the phone name you probably don't even know my sister. Now,

441
00:28:39,440 --> 00:28:41,640
Speaker 1: who is this? I mean? I talk to your sister

442
00:28:42,240 --> 00:28:44,640
Speaker 1: about twenty minutes ago. I talked to Keiva. You cain't

443
00:28:44,680 --> 00:28:47,120
Speaker 1: talk to my Kiva because this is a I know

444
00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:49,280
Speaker 1: that too clearly, Okay, but I want to go and

445
00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:51,000
Speaker 1: tell you this Hill. You know what you're gonna get

446
00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:53,120
Speaker 1: off my damn phone. That's what you're gonna do. Kiva

447
00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:56,040
Speaker 1: told me to call because see, I am nephew Timmy

448
00:28:56,200 --> 00:28:59,400
Speaker 1: from the Steve Harvey Martin Show, and your sister Kiva

449
00:28:59,640 --> 00:29:05,280
Speaker 1: got me to prank phone call you. You're talking about

450
00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:13,920
Speaker 1: the nephew times on the TV and the radio. I

451
00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:24,240
Speaker 1: this can't be real, you said, Oh my god, are

452
00:29:24,280 --> 00:29:30,720
Speaker 1: you real? Funny? Okay, Exam, I gotta ask you, baby,

453
00:29:30,760 --> 00:29:33,440
Speaker 1: what's the baddest it? I mean, the baddest radio show

454
00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:37,880
Speaker 1: in the land, The Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening

455
00:29:38,080 --> 00:29:41,680
Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right. We promised

456
00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:45,280
Speaker 1: to talk about holiday traditions, especially Christmas traditions, and while

457
00:29:45,400 --> 00:29:49,960
Speaker 1: time honored holiday traditions are important, they've also evolved over

458
00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:53,120
Speaker 1: the generations. Now this is according to a survey, family

459
00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:57,040
Speaker 1: activities and writing to Santa are still among the most

460
00:29:57,120 --> 00:30:01,680
Speaker 1: popular holiday traditions. That is interesting, even though because I've

461
00:30:01,680 --> 00:30:04,280
Speaker 1: never written to Santa. Even though we live in a

462
00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:07,360
Speaker 1: tech savvy world, three out of four parents say their

463
00:30:07,440 --> 00:30:12,160
Speaker 1: children still handwrite letters to Santa as opposed to a

464
00:30:12,160 --> 00:30:17,440
Speaker 1: more modern approach like email. And really, and what's the

465
00:30:17,440 --> 00:30:21,240
Speaker 1: most popular family activity in twenty seventeen. This year, well,

466
00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:25,480
Speaker 1: according to most households, it's decorating the Christmas tree as

467
00:30:25,520 --> 00:30:28,080
Speaker 1: a family. Now that I like, I can can relate

468
00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:32,640
Speaker 1: to that. We do that. Yeah. Uh so let's so, Steve,

469
00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:35,080
Speaker 1: we got to start with you here. What are what

470
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Speaker 1: are the family traditions that your family keeps that you

471
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Speaker 1: definitely First of all, let me get this straight. Boodle

472
00:30:44,400 --> 00:30:53,320
Speaker 1: your grandson Ale, Noah and Rome. I'm not telling you

473
00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:58,640
Speaker 1: that Santa Claus's coming down the chimney. Okay, hey, Mom

474
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Speaker 1: and Daddy Mike, but they come on Papa's house. Papa

475
00:31:04,480 --> 00:31:10,720
Speaker 1: bought all this. Okay, let's be straight about that tree

476
00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:14,000
Speaker 1: out here, y'all. Papa paid for all the tree, okay,

477
00:31:14,680 --> 00:31:17,440
Speaker 1: all the little fingers snow, I bought all that in Hire,

478
00:31:18,960 --> 00:31:20,720
Speaker 1: I had that tree in the in the in the

479
00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:23,560
Speaker 1: in the foyer that Papa bought that. So that's a

480
00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:27,840
Speaker 1: new tradition really, because you weren't you brought up with

481
00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:30,280
Speaker 1: thinking Santa Claus did it for a while when you

482
00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:33,720
Speaker 1: were little? Yeah? Yeah, so you're usually as young as

483
00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:38,080
Speaker 1: your grandchildren. Yeah, well little you know, my kids take

484
00:31:38,120 --> 00:31:42,000
Speaker 1: their keys to see Senate Claus. Yeah, they thinking it's

485
00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:44,520
Speaker 1: a Seneca. I'm just telling don't bring them over here.

486
00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:48,080
Speaker 1: You got so real with it right now. Well, no,

487
00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:50,520
Speaker 1: a Papa house. All is paid for by the big

488
00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:52,920
Speaker 1: ball half hard as you work, you want some credit.

489
00:31:53,320 --> 00:31:56,320
Speaker 1: The white man didn't bought nothing up in him, the

490
00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:59,280
Speaker 1: ball head black man that's in that office down there

491
00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:01,840
Speaker 1: at before the half. You going that dash Santa Claus

492
00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:05,080
Speaker 1: down there. A matter of fact, don't bring him up

493
00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:08,000
Speaker 1: when you come in here, because he had nothing to do.

494
00:32:08,120 --> 00:32:10,720
Speaker 1: Everything on this side of the the gate, Santa Claus ain't

495
00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:14,520
Speaker 1: had damn thing. Okay. So that's one. That's the one

496
00:32:14,720 --> 00:32:21,160
Speaker 1: that's men that you burst wide open. Okay. Secondly, if

497
00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:24,880
Speaker 1: you tap up your toy on Christmas, you get your

498
00:32:24,920 --> 00:32:32,120
Speaker 1: ass on, Chris, what man? Dash? It's a traditional tradition,

499
00:32:33,800 --> 00:32:38,560
Speaker 1: rations man, How long I hadn't lay away and you

500
00:32:38,680 --> 00:32:43,280
Speaker 1: just everything broke it? It ain't even flot at it. Yeah,

501
00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:50,239
Speaker 1: opened it at five and it's broken. Man. I had

502
00:32:50,280 --> 00:32:54,960
Speaker 1: a nephew named Pogo. All Pogo did every toy he got,

503
00:32:55,320 --> 00:32:58,800
Speaker 1: he took it apart. Wow. But then you know what

504
00:32:58,880 --> 00:33:01,000
Speaker 1: he put it all back to. Yeah that's all he

505
00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:04,800
Speaker 1: wanted to. Well, yeah, that's like girls we used to

506
00:33:04,800 --> 00:33:10,440
Speaker 1: take our dolls clothes off. He mechanic. Yeah, that's what

507
00:33:10,520 --> 00:33:13,920
Speaker 1: you do. He's a mechanic right now. Because see, yeah,

508
00:33:14,040 --> 00:33:15,520
Speaker 1: so that was some good. But did he get in

509
00:33:15,560 --> 00:33:17,720
Speaker 1: trouble for doing it when he was a kid? Dog?

510
00:33:18,320 --> 00:33:21,840
Speaker 1: Because if my daddy saw the tad toe up, but

511
00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:24,880
Speaker 1: he would ask after the second year, is that poy

512
00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:34,600
Speaker 1: put him back again? Oh? He wasn't too mad, all right?

513
00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:37,520
Speaker 1: What else? So? So, no Santa, but whippings if you

514
00:33:37,600 --> 00:33:43,440
Speaker 1: broke your toys? What else? Uh? These are some tradition, Steve,

515
00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:45,320
Speaker 1: I want to hear some of Junior Stu. I know,

516
00:33:46,960 --> 00:33:50,760
Speaker 1: sounds like he got his up. Oh man, absolutely. One

517
00:33:50,840 --> 00:33:54,400
Speaker 1: tradition was you're going to bed at seven on Christmas

518
00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:57,440
Speaker 1: Eve or Christmas Day, Christmas Eve. Oh I could never

519
00:33:57,520 --> 00:34:01,080
Speaker 1: sleep on Christmas Eve. I could never do that because

520
00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:05,760
Speaker 1: Santa was coming. But Santa don't show up to nine

521
00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:09,240
Speaker 1: in the morning. We gotta go back to be nine.

522
00:34:10,880 --> 00:34:15,120
Speaker 1: I think they did nine. We're running, y'all go back

523
00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:22,239
Speaker 1: and then go back to be night. He ain't made

524
00:34:22,280 --> 00:34:28,479
Speaker 1: it in yet, y'all go back to Yeah, I'm next,

525
00:34:28,600 --> 00:34:31,960
Speaker 1: nephews praying phone call right after this, please drink it

526
00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:35,280
Speaker 1: all night. All right, more of this crazy ignorant show,

527
00:34:35,520 --> 00:34:38,800
Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're listening

528
00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:42,160
Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right. A lot

529
00:34:42,200 --> 00:34:45,880
Speaker 1: of people are losing sleep because of work, guys. A

530
00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:49,320
Speaker 1: new study by account Tips finds that forty four percent

531
00:34:49,400 --> 00:34:53,319
Speaker 1: of professionals are losing sleep over work. As for why,

532
00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:56,800
Speaker 1: fifty percent say they've been overwhelmed with work, the volume

533
00:34:56,840 --> 00:34:58,719
Speaker 1: of work they have, the hours that they have to

534
00:34:58,719 --> 00:35:01,480
Speaker 1: put in. Some of the other reasons for work related

535
00:35:01,520 --> 00:35:07,480
Speaker 1: sleep loss include strange coworker relationships. Wow. Uh, worried that

536
00:35:07,560 --> 00:35:13,520
Speaker 1: they may lose their job. That's a lot of stress. Yeah, beusted.

537
00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:18,280
Speaker 1: Oh this is a good one. My boss is a nightmare.

538
00:35:21,840 --> 00:35:27,600
Speaker 1: Have you checked all three bucks? That's Chase, strange coworking, Okay,

539
00:35:27,719 --> 00:35:34,360
Speaker 1: strange coworker relationships, worried I may lose my job and

540
00:35:35,120 --> 00:35:40,560
Speaker 1: my boss is a nightmare. Okay. So I gotta ask you, Steve.

541
00:35:41,280 --> 00:35:43,040
Speaker 1: You have a lot of jobs. You have more than

542
00:35:43,120 --> 00:35:46,560
Speaker 1: anyone I know. Do your jobs keep you up at night?

543
00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:48,640
Speaker 1: Or you know, is it if they do, is it

544
00:35:48,719 --> 00:35:52,359
Speaker 1: constant or just a case exhausting? For my jobs, it's

545
00:35:52,520 --> 00:35:55,879
Speaker 1: when I run up into stupidity. That's the only thing

546
00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:59,160
Speaker 1: I get exhausted for. I don't. I've you know, I've

547
00:35:59,160 --> 00:36:01,359
Speaker 1: really found out over the years. I don't really care

548
00:36:01,440 --> 00:36:06,400
Speaker 1: for stupid people. I really don't. I can't even I

549
00:36:06,440 --> 00:36:09,640
Speaker 1: can't even play it off, Like if you're stupid, I

550
00:36:09,760 --> 00:36:13,040
Speaker 1: look at you like you're stupid the whole time you talk.

551
00:36:13,520 --> 00:36:15,719
Speaker 1: I don't know what we're supposed to do with that information.

552
00:36:15,920 --> 00:36:18,480
Speaker 1: It's just important information that you know about me and

553
00:36:18,560 --> 00:36:21,800
Speaker 1: my job. My job. I love my job. Look, I

554
00:36:21,880 --> 00:36:25,239
Speaker 1: tell jokes for a living and play music. All of

555
00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:28,719
Speaker 1: my jobs that have an element of meat, using my

556
00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:32,800
Speaker 1: god given talent. So I love my work. Just the

557
00:36:32,960 --> 00:36:37,120
Speaker 1: things that surround my work, Like when you stupid, I

558
00:36:37,160 --> 00:36:42,799
Speaker 1: just can't stand that. Man, Is that no Jay? Good? Jay?

559
00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:49,640
Speaker 1: Ignort different from ignort stupid when you're doing stuff that

560
00:36:49,719 --> 00:36:53,640
Speaker 1: ain't attached to nothing and just has no rhyme or reason,

561
00:36:53,960 --> 00:36:59,080
Speaker 1: But you standy doing oh, anyone in particular in minder

562
00:36:59,120 --> 00:37:05,399
Speaker 1: It just anyone at the job. I know. I didn't

563
00:37:05,400 --> 00:37:09,919
Speaker 1: think he was gonna say you honestly, Um, okay, why

564
00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:13,200
Speaker 1: would I say this is uncomfortable right now? Yes? Why

565
00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:16,520
Speaker 1: you uncomfortable? You're not stupid. Oh, I know, I know.

566
00:37:17,719 --> 00:37:20,600
Speaker 1: You just don't like the way Tommy goes into the

567
00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:24,040
Speaker 1: shelf when you call him stupid. But let him go

568
00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:25,759
Speaker 1: in there. When you go into the shell, he can't

569
00:37:25,760 --> 00:37:30,640
Speaker 1: say no, stupid. He's here working. What are you gonna do?

570
00:37:30,960 --> 00:37:36,680
Speaker 1: He's working. I'm right Hello everyone, I'm here. I'm right here. Yeah, yeah, okay,

571
00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:39,239
Speaker 1: I'm right here. You stop doing it, stop talking over

572
00:37:39,320 --> 00:37:43,200
Speaker 1: and around me. I'm right here. You can't all right?

573
00:37:43,280 --> 00:37:45,960
Speaker 1: Listen coming up at thirty four after the hour, Ja

574
00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:48,719
Speaker 1: Anthony Brownie. He's scared to lose his job, but he

575
00:37:48,840 --> 00:37:54,719
Speaker 1: is here to murder another hit. You're listening, Steven Show,

576
00:37:55,719 --> 00:38:00,680
Speaker 1: He come on, introduced Jay. He's here to murder another hit, Folks,

577
00:38:01,040 --> 00:38:05,200
Speaker 1: without further ado, we murder hits up on hire because

578
00:38:05,239 --> 00:38:10,399
Speaker 1: we got it first round Draft choice Lady Jimmy jaffer Burn.

579
00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:13,759
Speaker 1: All right, everybody, another song right here, Steve. The song

580
00:38:13,880 --> 00:38:17,160
Speaker 1: is a special song. The song is dedicated to every

581
00:38:17,239 --> 00:38:21,080
Speaker 1: man who's been in the friend zone for the entire year.

582
00:38:21,600 --> 00:38:24,000
Speaker 1: We've all been in the friend zone. It's not a

583
00:38:24,080 --> 00:38:27,279
Speaker 1: nice place to be. You do everything, you help out.

584
00:38:27,840 --> 00:38:30,520
Speaker 1: He wants to get out of the friends zone. Somebody

585
00:38:30,520 --> 00:38:32,440
Speaker 1: just put me there. You've been putting friends zone. I'm

586
00:38:32,480 --> 00:38:37,160
Speaker 1: in there now yea songs dedicated here man in the

587
00:38:37,239 --> 00:38:39,560
Speaker 1: friend zones, Christmas songs and Christmas. I ain't gonna be

588
00:38:39,640 --> 00:38:41,759
Speaker 1: in your friends zone without no pressure. Here you go,

589
00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:44,359
Speaker 1: here you go, check it out. Dandy Brown murders a hit.

590
00:38:52,360 --> 00:38:59,800
Speaker 1: He will watch your kids, even by the gifts, kiding

591
00:39:00,239 --> 00:39:06,200
Speaker 1: in the car and take them to the mom. But

592
00:39:06,600 --> 00:39:12,560
Speaker 1: you call him and there he buys your daddy Beard.

593
00:39:13,120 --> 00:39:17,680
Speaker 1: There's a gift he win a dog. You can't buy

594
00:39:17,800 --> 00:39:22,840
Speaker 1: it from a store. Why I don't choot it? Get

595
00:39:22,920 --> 00:39:31,080
Speaker 1: it up on chrismustt Oh, make a friend, get a

596
00:39:31,239 --> 00:39:35,200
Speaker 1: la king. Come on, girl and get out of that

597
00:39:35,520 --> 00:39:43,320
Speaker 1: bank and get it up on Chrismust day. I don't

598
00:39:43,320 --> 00:39:55,640
Speaker 1: want no tie. Just get it up. I'm miss saw

599
00:39:56,200 --> 00:40:02,000
Speaker 1: your dough. I took you to the stoke. I was

600
00:40:02,239 --> 00:40:10,279
Speaker 1: there for you when you were unemployed. Stupid stuff. I

601
00:40:10,880 --> 00:40:17,080
Speaker 1: been like feed another man's kids. Nothing left for me

602
00:40:17,360 --> 00:40:23,719
Speaker 1: to say, girl, I feel like getting played. Why don't

603
00:40:23,800 --> 00:40:31,920
Speaker 1: you get it up on christ My stay? Oh? Making

604
00:40:32,080 --> 00:40:36,920
Speaker 1: man feel like the king? Come o, girl, get I

605
00:40:37,040 --> 00:40:44,840
Speaker 1: want that bank canning something over christ My Stay. I

606
00:40:45,040 --> 00:40:52,879
Speaker 1: don't want no socks. Just get it. What I'm saying

607
00:40:52,880 --> 00:41:04,080
Speaker 1: about my clothes day? Oh me, man, feel like a king.

608
00:41:04,920 --> 00:41:11,960
Speaker 1: Come on, girls, get all that thing up. Oh Chrismus

609
00:41:12,400 --> 00:41:23,080
Speaker 1: Day and manet friends get out of her friend's own

610
00:41:23,160 --> 00:41:29,600
Speaker 1: baby by me. No damn socks. All I want to

611
00:41:29,719 --> 00:41:36,160
Speaker 1: do is get off. Come on, come on, Chrismas Day.

612
00:41:39,440 --> 00:41:47,239
Speaker 1: Even bought your daddy field, Yes, yes, the iTunes. Get

613
00:41:47,280 --> 00:41:50,319
Speaker 1: all your months, press something. Girls don't enjoy them. Type,

614
00:41:50,480 --> 00:41:53,120
Speaker 1: they don't like them, title, they don't even, they don't

615
00:41:53,239 --> 00:41:57,000
Speaker 1: jump in, they don't see. Just shut it down, Shirley call.

616
00:41:57,120 --> 00:42:04,760
Speaker 1: But play that com and scratch your allegedly you go crazy.

617
00:42:05,360 --> 00:42:10,400
Speaker 1: Alleged you did do call. That's why you're in the

618
00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:15,640
Speaker 1: friends zone. Now stay right there, y'all. Watch this. You're

619
00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:19,600
Speaker 1: listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at the top

620
00:42:19,680 --> 00:42:22,360
Speaker 1: of the hour, right about four minutes after, it's Today's

621
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Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. But up next, I mean, right here, right now,

622
00:42:25,600 --> 00:42:27,440
Speaker 1: it's the nephew with the prank phone call. What you

623
00:42:27,520 --> 00:42:32,439
Speaker 1: got now? Oh, brand spanking new, I got gospel the church,

624
00:42:32,640 --> 00:42:37,960
Speaker 1: Queen Gospel Church. What a new friend? You gotta hit

625
00:42:38,040 --> 00:42:42,440
Speaker 1: this on head go. This is Grant all right, Grant H.

626
00:42:42,880 --> 00:42:46,239
Speaker 1: Grant Stevens. Right, Yes, hey, hey, Grant, this is brother

627
00:42:46,360 --> 00:42:50,520
Speaker 1: Lewis Finley. I'm calling from my side and nine Missionaire

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Speaker 1: Baptist Church. You you and your wife just joined a

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Speaker 1: couple of weeks ago, am I right? Absolutely? Yes? Okay,

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Speaker 1: So now listen, um, I wanted to reach out to you.

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Speaker 1: I know you guys have started the uh the orientation

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Speaker 1: and from my understanding you you finished one one class

633
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Speaker 1: at the orientation. You got three more to go with that, right, yes, alright, alright, alright,

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Speaker 1: So first of all, I want to say welcome to

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Speaker 1: not a side and that and and I hope you

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Speaker 1: are enjoying yourself. I know that you and your wife

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Speaker 1: are a mixed couple. You your Caucasian and she's she's black.

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Speaker 1: Are you Are you liking the church so far? Grant? Absolutely,

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Speaker 1: we really are enjoying it. We completed our first orientation

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Speaker 1: and uh yeah, so far we're really enjoying it. Okay, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I kept you a bad time. I am at work

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Speaker 1: right now, but it's okay. I've got a couple of

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Speaker 1: I've got a couple of minutes, okay, Okay, I just

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Speaker 1: wanted to call you man, I was worried. I know

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Speaker 1: you because I don't think you noticed. But you are

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Speaker 1: the first Caucasian to join our church, and I just

647
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Speaker 1: want to make sure you kind of knew the land

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Speaker 1: switch and and just just kind of knowing what the

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Speaker 1: Black Church is all about. And there's certain sands and

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Speaker 1: different things I think you should know so that, uh

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Speaker 1: you know, I just don't want you to say the

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Speaker 1: wrong thing while you at the church. Does that makes sense? Uh? Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: So so what I wanted to do, like I wanted

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Speaker 1: to give you a little Black Church quiz so you

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Speaker 1: can kind of maybe if you could let me know

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Speaker 1: where you are, you know, if you want a lower

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Speaker 1: level or a high level. It's for being knowledgeable about

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Speaker 1: the Black Church. Like still is blank in for me?

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Speaker 1: Grant if and if you don't matter. I just want

660
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Speaker 1: to take liberty of time and I let you get

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Speaker 1: back to work. But first of all, give a blank

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Speaker 1: to God? What what what would go in that blink

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Speaker 1: right there? First of all, give a blank to God?

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Speaker 1: Well all I can think of some has give give

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Speaker 1: things to God. Uh No, See that's wrong, See that's wrong.

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Speaker 1: See to see what it is is? First of all,

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Speaker 1: give a honor to God. All right, remember that. First

668
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Speaker 1: of all, give an honor to God. You got that? Okay, yes, yes, okay.

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Speaker 1: First of all, give an honor to God, who is

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Speaker 1: the blank of my life. What what? What? What goes

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Speaker 1: into blak? First of all, I give an honor to God,

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Speaker 1: who is the blank of my life, the love of

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Speaker 1: my life. No, No, that's that's that's that's wrong. First

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Speaker 1: of all, give an honor to God, who is the

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Speaker 1: head of my life. Do you sure? I'm sorry, okay,

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Speaker 1: I was just are you sure? Are you sure about that? Oh?

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Speaker 1: I'm definitely sure about I don't don't don't. What I

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Speaker 1: don't want you to do is question what what I know.

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Speaker 1: I'm from the Black Church. I know. No, No, I wasn't.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't questioning you, sir. I wasn't a question. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: I've just always heard it that way. But okay, So,

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Speaker 1: so I'm trying to give you the understanding of knowing

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Speaker 1: what the Black Church is about. You know what I'm saying,

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Speaker 1: I understand. I just I pre I appreciate it. I'm

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Speaker 1: just I apologize. Okay. Now, now look I don't know

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Speaker 1: these answers, obviously, but I've got a meeting. I gotta

687
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Speaker 1: get you here in a minute like like this, I'm

688
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Speaker 1: curious if everyone in the church gets these phone calls.

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Speaker 1: Well wait, waiting minute, waiting in the Grant. I know

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Speaker 1: you have a meeting, but what's more important? You're meeting

691
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Speaker 1: or knowing your position at the Black Church? What what's

692
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Speaker 1: more important? I really don't have time for this right now.

693
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Speaker 1: I can't believe it's actually happening. Like, did you did

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Speaker 1: your pastor even know that you're calling you right now? Well? No,

695
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Speaker 1: I took the livery of myself when I realized you

696
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Speaker 1: was Caucasian, that I would call and try to help

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Speaker 1: you so you would know what to do when you're

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Speaker 1: in the Black Church when people are saying certain things

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Speaker 1: you okay, okay, Grant, if you don't man, just do this,

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Speaker 1: f Grant, Like, do you know what hooping is? Hooping? Like?

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Speaker 1: Who the hooping? Uh? No, hooping is when the past

702
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Speaker 1: that is at the end of his sermon. So listen

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Speaker 1: to this all good God, I'm like it. Do that

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Speaker 1: if you if you will, Grant, Oh hello, oh God,

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Speaker 1: oh mighty, no, no, no, no, you come on you women.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, he got out of mind. I gotta get grant.

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Speaker 1: I can't believe I'm doing that. Oh lo yeo, oh god,

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Speaker 1: oh mighty. Okay, Hey, hey, gret do you think maybe

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Speaker 1: it's possible that and you can have some sessions topow

710
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Speaker 1: you come back to the church and I can prepare

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Speaker 1: you more. Hey man, let's listen. You have caught me

712
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Speaker 1: at a really bad time, and I'm quite honestly just

713
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Speaker 1: so frustrated. Like I've never heard of a quiz like this.

714
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Speaker 1: I'm really offended, to be honest with you, Like, do

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Speaker 1: you guys don't want me to go here church anymore?

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Speaker 1: Like a matter of fact, dude, you should be calling

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Speaker 1: my wife right now. She's black, but she should already

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Speaker 1: know nacoast question. You the one. Don't know why I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna call I should call you. I am at work

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Speaker 1: right now. I have a meeting to get to in

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Speaker 1: just a minute. I don't know what you're doing. And

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Speaker 1: I hold on a second. I have got to close

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Speaker 1: my office store. This is so embarrassing. I have never

724
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Speaker 1: ever received a phone call like this in my life,

725
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Speaker 1: and you better be lucky. I mean, I want to

726
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Speaker 1: talk to your pastor. I am going to talk to

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Speaker 1: him next Sunday, no joke. Why didn't mean for you

728
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Speaker 1: to get hotstyle like that. I hadn't mean that you.

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Speaker 1: I didn't mean to upset you and nothing like that.

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Speaker 1: What can I can I say something else to you?

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Speaker 1: One last thing and I have to go. Okay, I

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Speaker 1: just wanted to let you know that this is Nephew

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Speaker 1: telling me from the Steve Hormit Man the show. No

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Speaker 1: wife Carolyn got me to prank phone call you shut up?

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Speaker 1: Shut up. I am so sorry. I am so sorry.

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Speaker 1: Oh you're good, you are. I'm alright, man, I'm alright

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Speaker 1: a little embarrassed, but I'm alright. You gotta do it

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Speaker 1: for me one more time? Oh no, oh yeah, okay, man,

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Speaker 1: look at do this for me. Tell me what is

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Speaker 1: the baddest I mean, the baddest radio show in the land,

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Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show all the way. You know,

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Speaker 1: you just got to try to you know, you wrong,

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Speaker 1: white man, even quick. If you're gonna be going, if

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Speaker 1: you're gonna join the Black church, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: Tell me you know what churches are? Not like that?

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Speaker 1: You know mine was it? You know that's why you

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Speaker 1: gotta feeling you haven't feeling the blank. You know, first

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Speaker 1: of all, give a blank to God. You know you

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Speaker 1: don't you don't know, you don't know what. Go there,

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Speaker 1: He didn't know what. Take him through the queat. I'm

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Speaker 1: time for today's Strawberry Letter. And let me tell you this.

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Speaker 1: If you need some advice and relationships, on dating, on work,

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Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. Tell him Steve you better, you better repeat yourself? Okay,

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Speaker 1: that was it? Was it? Yeah? We could be reading

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Speaker 1: your letter live on the air like we'll read this

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Speaker 1: one today right now. All right, buckle up, hold on tight,

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Speaker 1: We got it for you hims. Do you have a

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Speaker 1: dolling O? Hold on tight. Buckle up, we'll be there

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Speaker 1: in a minute. Strawberry ruletta, Yeah, I got it, all right,

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Speaker 1: bugal hold on tight, he has it the strawberry letta

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Speaker 1: all right? Subject, Why is her ex still checking on her?

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Speaker 1: Here's Stephen Shirley. My girlfriend and I have been together

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Speaker 1: for about a year. When I met her, she had

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Speaker 1: just ended a relationship with a wealthy man that was

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Speaker 1: nineteen years older than her. This man spoiled her with

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Speaker 1: expensive gifts, and he was her first sexually, so she

776
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Speaker 1: was caught up for a long time. He offered to

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Speaker 1: buy her a condo if she stayed with him, but

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Speaker 1: she realized that he was trying to buy her love

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Speaker 1: and she wasn't really into him, so they broke up.

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Speaker 1: We've been dating since then. The old boyfriend still calls

781
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Speaker 1: and texts her, and she tells him whenever she tells

782
00:51:48,520 --> 00:51:51,480
Speaker 1: me whenever she hears from him. I'm no fool, so

783
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Speaker 1: I've been looking for signs of infidelity, but she's not

784
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Speaker 1: given me any reason not to trust her. She's new

785
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Speaker 1: to the game, so it's the old rich cat that

786
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Speaker 1: I don't trust. Why does he have to check in

787
00:52:02,040 --> 00:52:04,080
Speaker 1: on her to see if she's okay. All of the time,

788
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Speaker 1: I believe he's waiting for me to slip up so

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Speaker 1: he can make his move. Recently, she told me that

790
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Speaker 1: he asked if I was taking care of her the

791
00:52:12,840 --> 00:52:15,279
Speaker 1: way he used to. I got game, and I do

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Speaker 1: what it takes to keep a smile on my lady's face.

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00:52:17,960 --> 00:52:20,560
Speaker 1: I told my lady that he realizes he lost a

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Speaker 1: good thing and there's no way that he wants to

795
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Speaker 1: be just friends with her. I asked her to stop

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Speaker 1: talking to him, but she refuses. She said that she

797
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Speaker 1: is glad that they are still friends and she likes

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Speaker 1: it when he checks on her. Maybe I'm crazy, but

799
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Speaker 1: this is not sitting well with me. This old boyfriend

800
00:52:37,040 --> 00:52:40,280
Speaker 1: is a wolf and sheep's clothing, and she's too naive

801
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Speaker 1: to see it. How do I get this man to

802
00:52:42,800 --> 00:52:47,080
Speaker 1: leave my girlfriend alone? Please help? All right? I don't

803
00:52:47,080 --> 00:52:48,960
Speaker 1: know if that's going to happen, if he's ever going

804
00:52:49,000 --> 00:52:52,160
Speaker 1: to leave her alone, because he knows, you know about her,

805
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Speaker 1: He had her first, he's older in the game. I

806
00:52:56,080 --> 00:52:58,640
Speaker 1: think you're right, though, and everything you say about your

807
00:52:58,680 --> 00:53:01,640
Speaker 1: new girlfriend and her old boyfriend, he is too much

808
00:53:01,680 --> 00:53:04,880
Speaker 1: in her life, calling her, texting her to see if

809
00:53:04,960 --> 00:53:06,879
Speaker 1: she's all right. Yeah, he's waiting for you to slip

810
00:53:07,040 --> 00:53:09,120
Speaker 1: up so he can slip back in. Yes he is.

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Speaker 1: Of course, Papa's out of line, and she is too

812
00:53:12,360 --> 00:53:14,719
Speaker 1: for still taking his calls and stuff. She may be

813
00:53:14,840 --> 00:53:19,360
Speaker 1: a little naive, but you know he, like he said,

814
00:53:20,000 --> 00:53:22,560
Speaker 1: or like you said, he wait, he's checking on her

815
00:53:22,719 --> 00:53:25,120
Speaker 1: to see if she's okay all the time. He is

816
00:53:25,280 --> 00:53:27,040
Speaker 1: waiting for you to slip up so he can make

817
00:53:27,120 --> 00:53:30,320
Speaker 1: your moves. So you better be. Since you say you

818
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Speaker 1: know the game, you're not new to the game and

819
00:53:32,280 --> 00:53:33,840
Speaker 1: all of that, and you know what it takes to

820
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Speaker 1: put a smile on her face. You better continue doing that.

821
00:53:37,320 --> 00:53:39,879
Speaker 1: Continue to do that. But I don't know why she's

822
00:53:39,920 --> 00:53:43,400
Speaker 1: not stop taking his texts and his calls. Maybe she

823
00:53:43,520 --> 00:53:46,520
Speaker 1: likes this conversation. Maybe she does think they're just trying

824
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Speaker 1: to be friends. Because he does want her back, He

825
00:53:49,760 --> 00:53:52,759
Speaker 1: definitely does. He wants her back. He knows he can

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Speaker 1: get her if he just hangs in there, hangs in

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Speaker 1: there and does what he's been doing. Steve, you know why,

828
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Speaker 1: I know, right, No, Dark said, listen to me. Look,

829
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Speaker 1: first of all, this young dude that wrote this letter

830
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Speaker 1: because he looking for answers because he don't know. Now

831
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Speaker 1: he got game, but he don't have advanced game because

832
00:54:14,520 --> 00:54:16,840
Speaker 1: he writing a letter because he don't know the answer.

833
00:54:18,120 --> 00:54:20,480
Speaker 1: Your girlfriend and you've been together for a year. You

834
00:54:20,600 --> 00:54:23,480
Speaker 1: met her. She had just ended relationship with a wealthy

835
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Speaker 1: man that was nineteen years older than hug. Now you

836
00:54:29,000 --> 00:54:31,719
Speaker 1: didn't say how old anybody is in this letter, but

837
00:54:31,880 --> 00:54:37,040
Speaker 1: just judging by the right the way you write, I'm thinking, man,

838
00:54:37,760 --> 00:54:41,839
Speaker 1: she bought twenty six. I figured he bought forty six.

839
00:54:42,080 --> 00:54:45,280
Speaker 1: That's just a guesting based on the way you're writing

840
00:54:47,400 --> 00:54:51,680
Speaker 1: twenty six forty five something like that. This man spoiled

841
00:54:51,719 --> 00:54:55,000
Speaker 1: her with expensive gifts. He was her first sexually, so

842
00:54:55,200 --> 00:54:57,840
Speaker 1: she was caught up for a long time. Oh just

843
00:54:57,960 --> 00:55:01,040
Speaker 1: happen for a while. He offered to buy her kind

844
00:55:01,080 --> 00:55:03,320
Speaker 1: of if she stayed with him, but she realized that

845
00:55:03,440 --> 00:55:05,360
Speaker 1: he was just trying to buy her love and she

846
00:55:05,600 --> 00:55:09,080
Speaker 1: wasn't really into him, so they broke up. We've been

847
00:55:09,160 --> 00:55:12,719
Speaker 1: dating since then. The old boyfriends still calling, texts her

848
00:55:12,880 --> 00:55:16,320
Speaker 1: and tells her whenever, and then she tells me whatever

849
00:55:16,400 --> 00:55:19,680
Speaker 1: she hears from him. I'm no fool, So I've just

850
00:55:19,840 --> 00:55:22,520
Speaker 1: been looking for signs of infidelity that she is not

851
00:55:22,640 --> 00:55:25,680
Speaker 1: giving me any reason not to trust her. First of all,

852
00:55:25,880 --> 00:55:30,360
Speaker 1: she ain't seeing the dude. She's a good girl. She

853
00:55:30,719 --> 00:55:35,520
Speaker 1: telling you every time to dude contact her. But why

854
00:55:35,640 --> 00:55:39,880
Speaker 1: does a woman notify you every time another man called

855
00:55:40,000 --> 00:55:46,520
Speaker 1: her calls? She wants you to know. She wants you

856
00:55:46,800 --> 00:55:50,800
Speaker 1: to know he's still calling, He still want me. And

857
00:55:50,920 --> 00:55:53,520
Speaker 1: you know why she notifying you because she trying to

858
00:55:53,600 --> 00:55:55,719
Speaker 1: send a signal to you that you need to step

859
00:55:55,840 --> 00:56:00,279
Speaker 1: up your game because you're lacking somewhat partner. Now here

860
00:56:00,360 --> 00:56:03,880
Speaker 1: comes the real truth. Since you got game and everything,

861
00:56:04,239 --> 00:56:07,360
Speaker 1: but you ain't got advanced game all right now, I

862
00:56:07,440 --> 00:56:09,839
Speaker 1: ain't no food looking for him for Delhi not giving

863
00:56:09,880 --> 00:56:12,560
Speaker 1: me any reason trusting she's new to the game. Sound

864
00:56:12,640 --> 00:56:16,319
Speaker 1: like you new to the game. That's what it sound

865
00:56:16,360 --> 00:56:19,000
Speaker 1: like she knew to the game. You still knew what game.

866
00:56:20,200 --> 00:56:23,240
Speaker 1: So it's the old rich cat that I really don't trust.

867
00:56:24,160 --> 00:56:26,399
Speaker 1: Why does he have to check on her to see

868
00:56:26,440 --> 00:56:29,120
Speaker 1: if she's okay all the time? Because he WoT her,

869
00:56:30,400 --> 00:56:34,600
Speaker 1: he won't her back. And that's what grown asked. Men

870
00:56:34,800 --> 00:56:39,759
Speaker 1: do we call and we check on it? Just saying hey,

871
00:56:39,960 --> 00:56:42,560
Speaker 1: make sure and you're good. Don't want to see you

872
00:56:42,680 --> 00:56:48,279
Speaker 1: fall on hard times? Is everything okay? Hello? Pot no

873
00:56:51,400 --> 00:56:54,520
Speaker 1: old player lines, I love him stay. I believe he

874
00:56:54,680 --> 00:56:56,799
Speaker 1: waiting for me to slip up so he can make

875
00:56:56,880 --> 00:56:59,200
Speaker 1: his move. He ain't waiting on you to slip up.

876
00:57:00,239 --> 00:57:05,520
Speaker 1: Now he moving. He waiting on the damn thing you

877
00:57:05,760 --> 00:57:09,840
Speaker 1: involved with the girl and he texting her. Now you

878
00:57:10,080 --> 00:57:15,960
Speaker 1: slipping and you don't know it, young homie. She knew

879
00:57:16,040 --> 00:57:18,720
Speaker 1: to the game. You knew to the game. But hang

880
00:57:18,800 --> 00:57:22,600
Speaker 1: on because Steve and to put your own game. He's

881
00:57:22,600 --> 00:57:26,040
Speaker 1: gonna get him, right boy, saying, no game, just lying him,

882
00:57:26,800 --> 00:57:30,520
Speaker 1: get him old and paper two he got old and

883
00:57:30,720 --> 00:57:37,000
Speaker 1: with Mace. Well, you ain't got a chance your ass out.

884
00:57:37,120 --> 00:57:38,800
Speaker 1: You know what mean you you out? Don't even know

885
00:57:38,920 --> 00:57:43,240
Speaker 1: you're going out, know it? Man's this letter about? All right? Listen,

886
00:57:43,320 --> 00:57:46,640
Speaker 1: we'll come back with part two with the old players

887
00:57:46,760 --> 00:57:52,560
Speaker 1: in the game, young boy, all right, twenty three afters

888
00:57:52,640 --> 00:57:54,800
Speaker 1: when we're coming back, all right, the subject today is

889
00:57:54,920 --> 00:57:58,560
Speaker 1: why is her ex still checking on her? Right after this?

890
00:57:59,080 --> 00:58:05,160
Speaker 1: You're listening, all right, let's recap today's strawberry letters Steve.

891
00:58:05,320 --> 00:58:08,040
Speaker 1: It's called the subject why is her ex still checking

892
00:58:08,120 --> 00:58:10,720
Speaker 1: on her? A young man wrote this one, Dude, dating

893
00:58:10,800 --> 00:58:12,880
Speaker 1: this girl man that was involved with this man that

894
00:58:13,040 --> 00:58:15,520
Speaker 1: was nineteen years older and her. He called it her

895
00:58:15,520 --> 00:58:19,040
Speaker 1: old man. That was her first sexual encounter. So she

896
00:58:19,200 --> 00:58:22,000
Speaker 1: was caught up with him for a while. She wanted

897
00:58:22,040 --> 00:58:24,240
Speaker 1: he wanted to buy him a condo. She stayed with him.

898
00:58:24,280 --> 00:58:26,840
Speaker 1: She realized he was just trying to buy love. They

899
00:58:26,960 --> 00:58:29,680
Speaker 1: broke up. Now you've been dating her, he's still checking

900
00:58:29,760 --> 00:58:32,760
Speaker 1: on you, trying to figure out why her ex is

901
00:58:32,840 --> 00:58:36,440
Speaker 1: still checking on because he won't because he want her back.

902
00:58:37,040 --> 00:58:39,640
Speaker 1: You know how he got your girl. He was checking

903
00:58:39,720 --> 00:58:48,840
Speaker 1: on you. Know how he got your girl? He was

904
00:58:48,920 --> 00:58:54,880
Speaker 1: checking on See. Put is something that young boys don't

905
00:58:54,920 --> 00:58:57,840
Speaker 1: know how to do. See, y'all, don't check on women.

906
00:58:58,120 --> 00:59:00,560
Speaker 1: You call women because you want to cheat and hook

907
00:59:00,640 --> 00:59:03,240
Speaker 1: up you on a Netflix night. But you're gonna call him,

908
00:59:03,320 --> 00:59:06,680
Speaker 1: check on him. See how they're doing, See how they

909
00:59:06,840 --> 00:59:10,840
Speaker 1: day going, Did they need anything anything you can do

910
00:59:11,000 --> 00:59:15,160
Speaker 1: for help him solve problems? See that's what Groan asked me,

911
00:59:15,280 --> 00:59:19,520
Speaker 1: and he was, See he is right there. Why don't

912
00:59:19,520 --> 00:59:21,440
Speaker 1: you check on him? No? See hold on, hold let

913
00:59:21,480 --> 00:59:23,480
Speaker 1: me finish this here for see. So what he do

914
00:59:23,760 --> 00:59:28,200
Speaker 1: is he he said it all up. Now Now you're

915
00:59:28,240 --> 00:59:30,400
Speaker 1: talking about she knew to the game. So it's the

916
00:59:30,520 --> 00:59:33,440
Speaker 1: old rich cat that I really don't trust. Why he

917
00:59:33,520 --> 00:59:35,400
Speaker 1: got to check on it to see if she okay?

918
00:59:35,480 --> 00:59:37,600
Speaker 1: All the time, I believe he waiting on me to

919
00:59:37,640 --> 00:59:40,640
Speaker 1: slip up so he can make his move. Partner, he

920
00:59:40,840 --> 00:59:43,480
Speaker 1: already moving. He don't even give a damn about you.

921
00:59:43,920 --> 00:59:48,080
Speaker 1: You're irrelevant. He texting your girl right now while y'all

922
00:59:48,080 --> 00:59:50,680
Speaker 1: all together. He ain't waiting on you to slip up.

923
00:59:50,840 --> 00:59:53,520
Speaker 1: He gonna cause you to slip up. He gonna show

924
00:59:53,640 --> 00:59:57,360
Speaker 1: a vast difference between him and you. He ain't waiting

925
00:59:57,360 --> 00:59:59,760
Speaker 1: on you to slip up here in the game, Partner.

926
01:00:00,040 --> 01:00:02,400
Speaker 1: You know why because to old school players, it ain't

927
01:00:02,400 --> 01:00:05,760
Speaker 1: a game. It's a contest. Everybody can get a blue ribbon.

928
01:00:05,880 --> 01:00:11,440
Speaker 1: Let's go. Recently, she told me that he asked if

929
01:00:11,480 --> 01:00:13,920
Speaker 1: I was taking care of her the way he used to.

930
01:00:15,120 --> 01:00:18,280
Speaker 1: I got game, and I do what it takes to

931
01:00:18,360 --> 01:00:21,360
Speaker 1: keep a smile on my lady's face. That ain't what

932
01:00:21,520 --> 01:00:24,960
Speaker 1: he asked a girl. He asked a girl, were you

933
01:00:25,160 --> 01:00:29,560
Speaker 1: taking care of her the way he used to? The

934
01:00:29,720 --> 01:00:34,760
Speaker 1: answer to that question is now, because your answer wasn't, Yale. See,

935
01:00:34,800 --> 01:00:37,440
Speaker 1: you ain't taking care of her the way he used to.

936
01:00:37,920 --> 01:00:42,680
Speaker 1: You're going back to I got game game, I want

937
01:00:42,760 --> 01:00:46,800
Speaker 1: no damn game bought. This ain't videoing in the arcade,

938
01:00:48,440 --> 01:00:50,800
Speaker 1: this life. I know how to keep a smile on

939
01:00:50,960 --> 01:00:54,840
Speaker 1: my lady's face. I told I told my lady that

940
01:00:54,960 --> 01:00:57,520
Speaker 1: he realizes he lost a good thing and there's no

941
01:00:58,120 --> 01:01:00,320
Speaker 1: no way that he just wants to be friends with her.

942
01:01:00,600 --> 01:01:06,960
Speaker 1: He mentioned friend and none of them texts. He asked,

943
01:01:07,120 --> 01:01:10,440
Speaker 1: your girl, where you taking care of her the way

944
01:01:10,520 --> 01:01:13,480
Speaker 1: he used to? That ain't trying to be friends. He

945
01:01:13,640 --> 01:01:16,600
Speaker 1: gonna get back into taking care of her business because

946
01:01:16,640 --> 01:01:20,280
Speaker 1: I think you ain't. I asked her to stop talking

947
01:01:20,360 --> 01:01:26,800
Speaker 1: to him. You go the clue, but she refused because

948
01:01:26,920 --> 01:01:30,400
Speaker 1: you know what what he talking about where different from

949
01:01:30,440 --> 01:01:33,240
Speaker 1: what you're talking about. Didn't you just tell us you

950
01:01:33,400 --> 01:01:36,760
Speaker 1: had a game where the game must be weak? Because

951
01:01:36,880 --> 01:01:41,400
Speaker 1: she want to hear something else. He as saying that

952
01:01:41,560 --> 01:01:44,920
Speaker 1: she's glad that they still friends, and she liked when

953
01:01:44,960 --> 01:01:47,280
Speaker 1: he checks on her. And you know why he liked

954
01:01:47,400 --> 01:01:49,680
Speaker 1: when you check on when you check on her, because

955
01:01:49,760 --> 01:01:53,440
Speaker 1: you don't, man, because you're so busy with your game.

956
01:01:54,200 --> 01:01:56,520
Speaker 1: You're so busy trying to put a smile on her

957
01:01:56,600 --> 01:01:58,840
Speaker 1: face that you don't really know how to check on

958
01:01:58,920 --> 01:02:01,960
Speaker 1: her if you don't care out for her. I love

959
01:02:02,000 --> 01:02:04,920
Speaker 1: your answers, you just want to do something with it.

960
01:02:06,840 --> 01:02:10,400
Speaker 1: I'm telling him, I'm giving him your game unless just

961
01:02:10,520 --> 01:02:14,200
Speaker 1: what he's doing wrong? This old man is what she

962
01:02:14,480 --> 01:02:17,480
Speaker 1: telling you, is she trying to put you on game

963
01:02:17,760 --> 01:02:19,800
Speaker 1: so you can know what game is, because that little

964
01:02:19,840 --> 01:02:23,280
Speaker 1: weak ass game you got ain't worth for quality. So

965
01:02:23,480 --> 01:02:26,160
Speaker 1: she keeps telling you every time he called what he

966
01:02:26,320 --> 01:02:30,360
Speaker 1: said nah, and she likes when each other. Maybe I'm crazy,

967
01:02:30,720 --> 01:02:35,160
Speaker 1: but this ain't sitting well with men. This shit. I

968
01:02:35,320 --> 01:02:37,080
Speaker 1: tell you, she ain't gonna be sitting with you in

969
01:02:37,120 --> 01:02:44,080
Speaker 1: a minute. This old boyfriend is a wolf in sheep's clothing.

970
01:02:44,320 --> 01:02:47,600
Speaker 1: No he not, He just a wolf. He ain't got

971
01:02:47,680 --> 01:02:52,800
Speaker 1: no sheep's clothing on. The problem me is a little boy.

972
01:02:53,240 --> 01:02:57,840
Speaker 1: You are sheep. You in trouble, You up against you,

973
01:02:57,960 --> 01:03:00,640
Speaker 1: up against some deep odds man unless you really learn

974
01:03:00,720 --> 01:03:06,760
Speaker 1: what game is. And she's too naive to see it.

975
01:03:07,440 --> 01:03:11,960
Speaker 1: Don't she see exactly what it is. It's just what

976
01:03:12,240 --> 01:03:16,080
Speaker 1: she had before she don't have now, So she's staying

977
01:03:16,160 --> 01:03:18,640
Speaker 1: in touch with what she had before because she thinks

978
01:03:18,680 --> 01:03:22,640
Speaker 1: what she got now ain't gonna last. How do I

979
01:03:22,760 --> 01:03:25,480
Speaker 1: get this man to leave my girlfriend alone? Plea calling?

980
01:03:27,360 --> 01:03:30,640
Speaker 1: Let's cut this out him. You want to get this

981
01:03:30,760 --> 01:03:35,120
Speaker 1: man to leave your girl alone? Calling? Calling his number

982
01:03:35,160 --> 01:03:40,240
Speaker 1: in her phone, get her phone calling, tell him don't

983
01:03:40,280 --> 01:03:44,640
Speaker 1: call your woman no more or else what n Let's

984
01:03:44,680 --> 01:03:50,200
Speaker 1: find out what kind of game. See. You may find

985
01:03:50,280 --> 01:03:53,840
Speaker 1: out that he cared more deeply for her than you do. See.

986
01:03:54,720 --> 01:03:56,360
Speaker 1: But now I'm ask you, and I ain't saying you

987
01:03:56,440 --> 01:03:58,440
Speaker 1: got to get violent. That ain't what I'm saying to you.

988
01:03:58,840 --> 01:04:02,360
Speaker 1: But calling man, have a man to man conversation and

989
01:04:02,520 --> 01:04:06,640
Speaker 1: tell him he can't call your girl no more. You

990
01:04:06,760 --> 01:04:12,720
Speaker 1: can convince him of that, then you got something. If

991
01:04:12,800 --> 01:04:16,680
Speaker 1: you can't convince him of that, you got nothing. He

992
01:04:18,400 --> 01:04:21,760
Speaker 1: can't whoop his old dude ass man, that's just nineteen

993
01:04:21,920 --> 01:04:25,400
Speaker 1: years you're twenty six forty five. You're gonna get your

994
01:04:25,440 --> 01:04:27,640
Speaker 1: ass s thought. Now, Hey, this is begging for a

995
01:04:27,720 --> 01:04:32,080
Speaker 1: reenactment between you and Jay as the girl. It is okay,

996
01:04:33,200 --> 01:04:38,400
Speaker 1: we come back. Listen. You can email us your Instagram

997
01:04:38,480 --> 01:04:41,600
Speaker 1: at your thoughts on Today's Strawberry Letters. Steve Harvey f

998
01:04:41,840 --> 01:04:44,919
Speaker 1: M all right, coming up, We're gonna do a reenactment.

999
01:04:45,480 --> 01:04:50,440
Speaker 1: You're listening morning show earlier if you heard the Strawberry letter,

1000
01:04:50,520 --> 01:04:52,760
Speaker 1: the subject why is her X still checking on her?

1001
01:04:53,160 --> 01:04:56,280
Speaker 1: A young man is worried that his girlfriend's ex, who

1002
01:04:56,360 --> 01:05:00,080
Speaker 1: is an older, wealthy man, keeps checking on her, and

1003
01:05:00,200 --> 01:05:04,040
Speaker 1: he's concerned about that. So, uh, Stephen, Jay, I believe

1004
01:05:04,080 --> 01:05:07,800
Speaker 1: it is, are going to reenact what could possibly happen?

1005
01:05:08,240 --> 01:05:11,320
Speaker 1: So Jay, you're gonna call I'm the older dude that

1006
01:05:11,520 --> 01:05:16,360
Speaker 1: seeing this young girl. You call me Hello, Hello, is

1007
01:05:16,440 --> 01:05:20,960
Speaker 1: this mister let's see mister, mister, mister Whittaker, Yes it is.

1008
01:05:21,000 --> 01:05:23,480
Speaker 1: How could it help you? Well, I'm the guy that's

1009
01:05:23,880 --> 01:05:26,160
Speaker 1: you know, used to date Simone and y'all not seeing

1010
01:05:26,160 --> 01:05:28,440
Speaker 1: each other anymore. Now we're in a relationship now, and

1011
01:05:28,520 --> 01:05:31,640
Speaker 1: I was wondering. I'm asking you, would you like please

1012
01:05:31,680 --> 01:05:35,040
Speaker 1: stop texting and calling her because it's it's kind of

1013
01:05:35,080 --> 01:05:37,600
Speaker 1: getting in the way what we're trying to do over here. Okay, Well,

1014
01:05:37,600 --> 01:05:42,880
Speaker 1: a little brottle brother may my name is Billy, Billy, Billy,

1015
01:05:43,000 --> 01:05:46,439
Speaker 1: how did you really how did you give my number?

1016
01:05:46,440 --> 01:05:50,480
Speaker 1: A little bro I went through her Well, I went

1017
01:05:50,560 --> 01:05:52,760
Speaker 1: through the phone to get it, and all you went

1018
01:05:52,840 --> 01:05:55,480
Speaker 1: through a phone okay, but I just would like for

1019
01:05:55,560 --> 01:05:58,000
Speaker 1: you to stop calling her and texting her because, well

1020
01:05:58,000 --> 01:06:01,080
Speaker 1: a little dude, dude, look here, my name is Billy.

1021
01:06:01,240 --> 01:06:05,160
Speaker 1: I don't really I don't really see what business of

1022
01:06:05,320 --> 01:06:09,160
Speaker 1: yours it is that I'm calling Simone. Well, I want,

1023
01:06:09,200 --> 01:06:11,120
Speaker 1: but I want you to stop. I mean, man the man.

1024
01:06:11,200 --> 01:06:13,680
Speaker 1: I'm asking you, man the man, would you just stop

1025
01:06:13,880 --> 01:06:17,640
Speaker 1: calling Simone? Well, kid, listen to me, I'm seeing us.

1026
01:06:17,640 --> 01:06:20,800
Speaker 1: How you ain't face to face with you. I don't

1027
01:06:20,840 --> 01:06:22,880
Speaker 1: know how you want to call this man the man

1028
01:06:23,360 --> 01:06:25,600
Speaker 1: When you didn't got my number out of a girl's

1029
01:06:25,680 --> 01:06:28,320
Speaker 1: phone and you called in me that you might as

1030
01:06:28,360 --> 01:06:31,920
Speaker 1: well have text me. Kid. Well, we're doing fine. I'm

1031
01:06:31,960 --> 01:06:34,520
Speaker 1: working two jobs and working at the gas station and

1032
01:06:34,640 --> 01:06:37,200
Speaker 1: I'm working at another place. You know, we make friends.

1033
01:06:37,240 --> 01:06:40,240
Speaker 1: I want what your gas station you work at. We're

1034
01:06:40,280 --> 01:06:44,120
Speaker 1: on the corner seventeenth and and Hopper over there. I

1035
01:06:44,200 --> 01:06:46,760
Speaker 1: work over there. Okay, Well that's good, that's good because

1036
01:06:46,760 --> 01:06:54,400
Speaker 1: I own that gas station. Wow. Yeah, Well if you

1037
01:06:54,520 --> 01:06:56,480
Speaker 1: do on it, what you don't own it? Simone? How

1038
01:06:56,480 --> 01:07:00,800
Speaker 1: about that? How about that? Ain't come on? Bill? Come well, boy,

1039
01:07:01,000 --> 01:07:04,320
Speaker 1: so what is your phone call about? My name is Billy.

1040
01:07:04,520 --> 01:07:07,840
Speaker 1: My phone call is about you calling Simone. I'm asking

1041
01:07:07,920 --> 01:07:10,920
Speaker 1: you to stop, please, because you just don't call it

1042
01:07:11,000 --> 01:07:16,240
Speaker 1: no more scooter scooter. I don't, I don't, I don't.

1043
01:07:16,320 --> 01:07:18,680
Speaker 1: I don't really have time for you because I don't

1044
01:07:18,800 --> 01:07:21,520
Speaker 1: know you. It's none of your business what I do.

1045
01:07:22,680 --> 01:07:24,720
Speaker 1: Let me ask you a question. Do Simone want me

1046
01:07:24,760 --> 01:07:28,960
Speaker 1: to stop calling her because I haven't heard from her? Well,

1047
01:07:29,000 --> 01:07:31,520
Speaker 1: we had discussions about it. Now I laid it down

1048
01:07:31,600 --> 01:07:35,280
Speaker 1: that for her to stop talking to you? Well, well, well, well,

1049
01:07:35,360 --> 01:07:37,760
Speaker 1: can I say something to you after you laid it down?

1050
01:07:38,920 --> 01:07:41,000
Speaker 1: Is that after I laid down what I laid down?

1051
01:07:42,120 --> 01:07:44,880
Speaker 1: Because right now she's still taking her phone. I'm trying

1052
01:07:44,920 --> 01:07:46,680
Speaker 1: to have a phone calling. What I would not like

1053
01:07:46,840 --> 01:07:49,240
Speaker 1: for this to do is to get physical. I don't

1054
01:07:49,240 --> 01:07:53,400
Speaker 1: want well, hey, partner, partner name is not. If you

1055
01:07:53,640 --> 01:07:56,320
Speaker 1: feel like you need to get it physical, I don't

1056
01:07:56,360 --> 01:07:58,640
Speaker 1: want it to get physical. Okay, well I don't either,

1057
01:07:58,760 --> 01:08:00,840
Speaker 1: But if that's what you want to do, you ain't

1058
01:08:00,880 --> 01:08:03,000
Speaker 1: gonna be able to do it over the phones on

1059
01:08:03,200 --> 01:08:06,160
Speaker 1: your behalf. I'm praying for you not to let this

1060
01:08:06,320 --> 01:08:09,560
Speaker 1: get Billy all a little altar boy. Look here, you

1061
01:08:09,640 --> 01:08:14,160
Speaker 1: ain't got the form me. Hey, hey, look here a

1062
01:08:14,280 --> 01:08:17,120
Speaker 1: little you know, you know, you know, I don't know

1063
01:08:17,160 --> 01:08:19,360
Speaker 1: if you like the candles, if you go get wine

1064
01:08:19,520 --> 01:08:21,479
Speaker 1: for the communion. I don't know what your job is

1065
01:08:21,560 --> 01:08:24,720
Speaker 1: down at the church. But when you step up to me,

1066
01:08:25,200 --> 01:08:27,880
Speaker 1: you're stepping up to a grown ass man, and I

1067
01:08:27,960 --> 01:08:30,760
Speaker 1: think that's the thing that's most appealing to sman about me.

1068
01:08:31,200 --> 01:08:33,160
Speaker 1: See different between me and you know, I'm grown ass man.

1069
01:08:33,240 --> 01:08:35,519
Speaker 1: You act like a little boy that you didn't call

1070
01:08:35,680 --> 01:08:40,439
Speaker 1: me for what I'm asking you. Well, okay, okay, now

1071
01:08:40,479 --> 01:08:42,920
Speaker 1: you didn't asked. I'm gonna keep doing what I'm doing.

1072
01:08:43,120 --> 01:08:46,600
Speaker 1: Don't get fired. It's gonna it's gonna get physical. Let's go.

1073
01:08:47,200 --> 01:08:49,920
Speaker 1: But see you've asked me not to call her the more.

1074
01:08:50,240 --> 01:08:52,800
Speaker 1: As soon as you hang up, I'm calling. So where

1075
01:08:52,840 --> 01:08:59,200
Speaker 1: we are now you're right now, peanut? He well, where

1076
01:08:59,200 --> 01:09:02,760
Speaker 1: we are? To have several gas stations because I'm finn

1077
01:09:02,880 --> 01:09:08,479
Speaker 1: set five And then yeah, hey, June Bug, let me

1078
01:09:08,520 --> 01:09:12,400
Speaker 1: tell you something. What you're gonna end up in jail somewhere.

1079
01:09:12,640 --> 01:09:16,360
Speaker 1: See Notna, she was gonna take this to a grown

1080
01:09:16,439 --> 01:09:20,960
Speaker 1: man level. You're gonna get arrested for austin potential potential

1081
01:09:21,040 --> 01:09:25,240
Speaker 1: attempted murder charge because I record all phone calls. This

1082
01:09:25,479 --> 01:09:29,240
Speaker 1: is a terror threat trying that. I'm gonna set it

1083
01:09:29,320 --> 01:09:31,760
Speaker 1: on five. I'm telling you just like you telling me

1084
01:09:31,840 --> 01:09:34,840
Speaker 1: you're gonna call so I'm telling you, well, that's good.

1085
01:09:34,920 --> 01:09:37,880
Speaker 1: What you know? What? What? What can impending matches buy

1086
01:09:38,000 --> 01:09:40,120
Speaker 1: out of your store? I'm gonna set five to you.

1087
01:09:40,520 --> 01:09:42,080
Speaker 1: That's what I'm gonna do. What that ain't no problem?

1088
01:09:42,120 --> 01:09:43,800
Speaker 1: Didn't get us what? Then? You ain't gonna have no

1089
01:09:43,880 --> 01:09:46,439
Speaker 1: more job, You ain't gonna have no life, and you

1090
01:09:46,520 --> 01:09:48,880
Speaker 1: ain't gonna have some more. And I'm gonna have all

1091
01:09:48,960 --> 01:09:53,960
Speaker 1: that because my shoes is gonna give a gas shoes.

1092
01:09:54,320 --> 01:09:56,280
Speaker 1: All I can do is make you. I can't do

1093
01:09:56,400 --> 01:10:00,360
Speaker 1: nothing else. Squo. I got it shot like all I

1094
01:10:00,479 --> 01:10:05,439
Speaker 1: can do right now. I got in shore. You have it,

1095
01:10:05,520 --> 01:10:07,360
Speaker 1: but it'll take a while for that one going back up.

1096
01:10:07,400 --> 01:10:10,680
Speaker 1: So do you want the girl or you want to

1097
01:10:10,720 --> 01:10:13,320
Speaker 1: burn down the gas station with your pump? An's now

1098
01:10:13,439 --> 01:10:16,080
Speaker 1: make up your mind? Did you call here to burn

1099
01:10:16,200 --> 01:10:18,479
Speaker 1: down the gas station? Because you're just going over there

1100
01:10:18,479 --> 01:10:20,320
Speaker 1: and do that? Are you trying to hold on to

1101
01:10:20,439 --> 01:10:22,800
Speaker 1: your girl, which I ain't never let go up? What

1102
01:10:23,040 --> 01:10:24,840
Speaker 1: you want to do. I just want you to know

1103
01:10:25,040 --> 01:10:27,240
Speaker 1: I'm gonna set five to your gas station. And our

1104
01:10:27,280 --> 01:10:29,840
Speaker 1: relationship is hot. How about that? And the winner is

1105
01:10:32,360 --> 01:10:35,760
Speaker 1: and let me explain one last thing. And hey man,

1106
01:10:36,160 --> 01:10:39,320
Speaker 1: let me help you out a little bit. I'm gonna

1107
01:10:39,320 --> 01:10:42,080
Speaker 1: be seeing someone this weekend, so don't look at that sad.

1108
01:10:44,320 --> 01:10:48,080
Speaker 1: And and I'm gonna show you why she keeps taking

1109
01:10:48,200 --> 01:10:54,960
Speaker 1: my phone call. Get seen because you messed around mister Whittaker. Boy,

1110
01:10:56,360 --> 01:11:00,800
Speaker 1: Well that was good, that was good. Yeah, been billy before,

1111
01:11:02,280 --> 01:11:07,880
Speaker 1: been mister, I've been billy, mister. Yeah, I asked you

1112
01:11:07,920 --> 01:11:14,439
Speaker 1: to stop talking to him. All right, guys, thank you

1113
01:11:14,520 --> 01:11:18,200
Speaker 1: for that inside look in yours, inside your relationships? Coming

1114
01:11:18,280 --> 01:11:20,720
Speaker 1: up more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after

1115
01:11:20,800 --> 01:11:26,519
Speaker 1: this you're listening show, all right, Come on, Steve. Ten

1116
01:11:26,640 --> 01:11:29,479
Speaker 1: things you have for us that your ex should never

1117
01:11:29,960 --> 01:11:34,200
Speaker 1: ever see you do. Let's go. These are things, fellows

1118
01:11:35,880 --> 01:11:38,680
Speaker 1: that you don't need Joe X to see happen to you.

1119
01:11:40,200 --> 01:11:46,120
Speaker 1: You're ready for the she cannot see you on the bus,

1120
01:11:50,000 --> 01:11:53,960
Speaker 1: better be driving it. She driving back in your ass

1121
01:11:54,080 --> 01:12:02,000
Speaker 1: at the books. Here's another thing she beat up. Pull

1122
01:12:02,120 --> 01:12:05,599
Speaker 1: up at the restaurant and your ass is the valet.

1123
01:12:13,280 --> 01:12:18,080
Speaker 1: Here's another one. She cannot be driving down the freeway

1124
01:12:18,800 --> 01:12:21,960
Speaker 1: and look over there and your car is broke down.

1125
01:12:24,120 --> 01:12:32,000
Speaker 1: Another these are things that your ex cannot see happened

1126
01:12:32,080 --> 01:12:39,519
Speaker 1: to you. Y'all in line, huh at the walmart? Yes,

1127
01:12:40,439 --> 01:12:44,599
Speaker 1: she behind you and you don't know it. In your car,

1128
01:12:44,800 --> 01:12:51,200
Speaker 1: don't go through. God, you turn around and it's hurt.

1129
01:12:53,680 --> 01:12:57,040
Speaker 1: That's why I left you in the way. There's another thing.

1130
01:12:57,120 --> 01:12:59,840
Speaker 1: Your mama can't she happened to your girl. You girls,

1131
01:13:00,000 --> 01:13:02,320
Speaker 1: I mean your girl, your ex girl can't see this

1132
01:13:02,520 --> 01:13:06,320
Speaker 1: happened to you. You're then move back and to your mama's.

1133
01:13:09,400 --> 01:13:13,639
Speaker 1: She ding off some packe to your mama for Mother's Day.

1134
01:13:15,080 --> 01:13:17,519
Speaker 1: You ask them about the basement with some hot shoes

1135
01:13:18,280 --> 01:13:20,880
Speaker 1: and a wife beater and a white people with a

1136
01:13:20,920 --> 01:13:26,840
Speaker 1: pack of cigarette behind you you damn Johnny, and a

1137
01:13:26,920 --> 01:13:33,160
Speaker 1: cold on because ain't no heat that. And here's one

1138
01:13:33,280 --> 01:13:37,680
Speaker 1: that you can't have happened to you. She found out, No,

1139
01:13:39,160 --> 01:13:44,200
Speaker 1: this happened to you. Your ex send you a text

1140
01:13:44,320 --> 01:13:49,000
Speaker 1: that was meant for someone else while, but the text

1141
01:13:49,040 --> 01:13:53,040
Speaker 1: say I'm in the shower the doors open, followed by

1142
01:13:53,160 --> 01:13:59,880
Speaker 1: I'm sorry that's cold. That's deliberate man, it's two teen

1143
01:14:00,800 --> 01:14:05,920
Speaker 1: instant crying. I'm in the showers, the doors open, followed

1144
01:14:06,000 --> 01:14:13,960
Speaker 1: by I'm sorry that was not for you. Here's another

1145
01:14:14,080 --> 01:14:16,880
Speaker 1: thing your ex can't find out about you. You mess

1146
01:14:16,960 --> 01:14:22,400
Speaker 1: around and lost that good ass y'all. She walked into you.

1147
01:14:22,720 --> 01:14:27,040
Speaker 1: You now you down at the windy you replenishing the

1148
01:14:27,080 --> 01:14:30,479
Speaker 1: salad ball. She and there with the kids, right right, mama,

1149
01:14:30,520 --> 01:14:41,320
Speaker 1: ain't that miss let him work? That's cold. That's cold. Man.

1150
01:14:42,680 --> 01:14:50,439
Speaker 1: You come to church walking it then all went bad.

1151
01:14:51,360 --> 01:14:55,720
Speaker 1: But here's my favorite one of the ball. Drum roll cat,

1152
01:14:57,360 --> 01:15:00,439
Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen, this is the top thing. Get your

1153
01:15:00,600 --> 01:15:03,720
Speaker 1: ex you can never see happen to you. What is it?

1154
01:15:04,040 --> 01:15:09,799
Speaker 1: It is your new girlfriend look just like your brother.

1155
01:15:14,280 --> 01:15:28,920
Speaker 1: Dog man. You can out by my new lady. Excuse me,

1156
01:15:30,880 --> 01:15:37,840
Speaker 1: you can't let him see your do game ever ever, ever, ever, ever, ever,

1157
01:15:39,360 --> 01:15:41,160
Speaker 1: never have a move. If you got it going on

1158
01:15:41,320 --> 01:15:47,000
Speaker 1: like that, you cannot let you your ex see your

1159
01:15:47,240 --> 01:15:51,479
Speaker 1: new girlfriend talk to you crazy outside. You can't do

1160
01:15:51,600 --> 01:15:58,040
Speaker 1: that all that her. Oh, somebody ain't got it together.

1161
01:16:02,880 --> 01:16:04,880
Speaker 1: Let me tell you another thing you cannot see. You

1162
01:16:05,040 --> 01:16:08,599
Speaker 1: do washing car that the car rid the return if

1163
01:16:08,680 --> 01:16:10,599
Speaker 1: they pull up in that car, and they look at

1164
01:16:10,600 --> 01:16:16,240
Speaker 1: to see you out there washing car? Is that here?

1165
01:16:17,560 --> 01:16:20,759
Speaker 1: What you don't want her to see you do out there? Cleaning?

1166
01:16:20,840 --> 01:16:27,880
Speaker 1: Porter Pott is clean, Porter Patty. You don't want hus?

1167
01:16:28,080 --> 01:16:32,200
Speaker 1: Glad we broke up. Man, you know you don't like you.

1168
01:16:32,320 --> 01:16:36,360
Speaker 1: Cannot be the mascot at the birthday part. Cannot walk

1169
01:16:36,439 --> 01:16:42,559
Speaker 1: away sitting man, No spongebobs with fancy her baby. Birthday

1170
01:16:42,640 --> 01:16:50,439
Speaker 1: part cannot be that is he checking cheese? No check?

1171
01:16:50,520 --> 01:16:53,800
Speaker 1: Your job can be at the birthday party, have the man.

1172
01:16:54,680 --> 01:16:59,639
Speaker 1: They're not gonna go for that. Glad. Your ex can

1173
01:16:59,760 --> 01:17:04,719
Speaker 1: not see you rummaging through a trash. You have lost

1174
01:17:04,800 --> 01:17:07,519
Speaker 1: all your shame everybody else. But she can't see that.

1175
01:17:14,240 --> 01:17:18,360
Speaker 1: She cannot see you riding around town on your car

1176
01:17:18,680 --> 01:17:29,120
Speaker 1: and you got that little donut on them he got

1177
01:17:29,200 --> 01:17:33,920
Speaker 1: new money. Your ex can't see you. She had to stop. Yeah,

1178
01:17:34,439 --> 01:17:36,600
Speaker 1: she can't see you pull up next to her. You

1179
01:17:36,640 --> 01:17:40,400
Speaker 1: don't know as her You're on your brother bike. Oh

1180
01:17:40,479 --> 01:17:45,320
Speaker 1: my god, sweating like hell, trying to make it work.

1181
01:17:46,400 --> 01:17:48,680
Speaker 1: I'll tell you what you can't see. What. I'll tell

1182
01:17:48,680 --> 01:17:50,439
Speaker 1: you what you can't see. She got the kids and

1183
01:17:50,520 --> 01:17:52,840
Speaker 1: pull up to McDonald's window and you work in the

1184
01:17:52,920 --> 01:18:00,960
Speaker 1: window order you thought I recognized. Damn, Eleena, say hey,

1185
01:18:04,720 --> 01:18:08,040
Speaker 1: here is one that really hurt. They cannot see you

1186
01:18:08,160 --> 01:18:11,040
Speaker 1: with your shirt open. Is some flip flops in a y'all?

1187
01:18:12,680 --> 01:18:19,880
Speaker 1: They cannot see you open you all right, get it together, guys. Wow,

1188
01:18:20,920 --> 01:18:24,599
Speaker 1: all right, more of this crazy ignorant show. Steve Harvey

1189
01:18:24,680 --> 01:18:29,160
Speaker 1: Morning Show right after this. You're listening to the Steve Show.

1190
01:18:29,760 --> 01:18:32,200
Speaker 1: Here's a question, guys. I want to ask you, guys,

1191
01:18:32,400 --> 01:18:34,040
Speaker 1: how do you know if you're spending too much time

1192
01:18:34,080 --> 01:18:36,800
Speaker 1: on social media? And that's for everybody when I say, guys,

1193
01:18:37,080 --> 01:18:39,960
Speaker 1: here's some signs you and your phone need to take

1194
01:18:40,120 --> 01:18:44,320
Speaker 1: a break, okay from social media. You're making out landish

1195
01:18:44,439 --> 01:18:52,080
Speaker 1: plans just for the photo op. Okay people, Yeah right, yes,

1196
01:18:52,479 --> 01:18:56,479
Speaker 1: I know a lot of people. Yeah, we weren't more.

1197
01:18:56,960 --> 01:19:01,880
Speaker 1: Take my bigture, missus Hippi Monica mean delete that, delete

1198
01:19:01,920 --> 01:19:06,680
Speaker 1: all of it, Peggy, all right, that's one. You make

1199
01:19:06,760 --> 01:19:10,400
Speaker 1: all these outlandish plans just to take a selfie or okay,

1200
01:19:10,920 --> 01:19:15,679
Speaker 1: your followers know more about you than your significant other does. Wow. Wow,

1201
01:19:16,439 --> 01:19:20,559
Speaker 1: you're spending a lot of time on social media. You're right, Yeah,

1202
01:19:21,160 --> 01:19:23,439
Speaker 1: that's a shame when the people who subscribe to your feeds,

1203
01:19:23,520 --> 01:19:26,519
Speaker 1: no more details. That's your life. The person you're dating,

1204
01:19:26,640 --> 01:19:31,240
Speaker 1: does that is crazy? You should consider, Yeah, you should.

1205
01:19:32,760 --> 01:19:35,720
Speaker 1: You should consider a social media break. You won't go

1206
01:19:35,880 --> 01:19:39,519
Speaker 1: anywhere without full hair, full makeup. If you can't run

1207
01:19:39,560 --> 01:19:42,320
Speaker 1: to the CBS because of your social followers, you do

1208
01:19:42,479 --> 01:19:45,280
Speaker 1: that change. I'm just saying, if you've got more pictures

1209
01:19:45,320 --> 01:19:49,000
Speaker 1: in your phone of yourself than anybody else, you are

1210
01:19:49,120 --> 01:19:54,679
Speaker 1: very selfish. Yeah, yeah, you're a selfie. Selfish, selfie self

1211
01:19:55,360 --> 01:19:58,080
Speaker 1: pictures of you, You're selfie. Don't you know what you

1212
01:19:58,200 --> 01:20:03,120
Speaker 1: look like by now? Yeah? At every there's another one.

1213
01:20:03,200 --> 01:20:05,760
Speaker 1: If you're always on social media when you're hanging out

1214
01:20:05,800 --> 01:20:08,000
Speaker 1: with your friends, you're at dinner, you're at the table,

1215
01:20:08,080 --> 01:20:10,920
Speaker 1: just you know, taking selfie's just yeah, I just I

1216
01:20:10,960 --> 01:20:13,840
Speaker 1: don't get people taking pictures of food, just the food

1217
01:20:15,240 --> 01:20:18,040
Speaker 1: that people are into that do that, you know, especially

1218
01:20:18,080 --> 01:20:22,280
Speaker 1: if it's a really good my wife, do you really

1219
01:20:22,360 --> 01:20:25,320
Speaker 1: thought that would be small? To say? Why she do it?

1220
01:20:25,880 --> 01:20:28,519
Speaker 1: He never any nothing. I've seen people do it in rest.

1221
01:20:28,640 --> 01:20:31,120
Speaker 1: I think grown. I don't understand what it is for.

1222
01:20:31,760 --> 01:20:34,200
Speaker 1: Are you gonna rewind that lady and say this is even?

1223
01:20:34,240 --> 01:20:36,800
Speaker 1: What does that do? Yea, but you put it out

1224
01:20:36,840 --> 01:20:39,599
Speaker 1: there because other people like to see what he where

1225
01:20:39,680 --> 01:20:45,960
Speaker 1: you are? People need the restaurant. Ain't even married, Timmy,

1226
01:20:45,960 --> 01:20:51,759
Speaker 1: and I know that ain't small. We are in trouble

1227
01:20:52,000 --> 01:21:04,160
Speaker 1: understanding that he says some stupid Hey, I'm not she's scary.

1228
01:21:04,960 --> 01:21:10,439
Speaker 1: Oh I wish we could call her, get the real No,

1229
01:21:10,760 --> 01:21:13,479
Speaker 1: let's not call you. Ever thought about what you're gonna

1230
01:21:13,520 --> 01:21:14,760
Speaker 1: say when she walking in the room and say, I

1231
01:21:14,840 --> 01:21:23,120
Speaker 1: won't out giving it to what thanks part? Somebody got

1232
01:21:23,200 --> 01:21:25,400
Speaker 1: to lay it down. I tell somebody got to go

1233
01:21:25,479 --> 01:21:28,840
Speaker 1: out here the lone. If you won't out you know

1234
01:21:28,960 --> 01:21:31,679
Speaker 1: how to get that, well, then you're gonna get killed.

1235
01:21:31,840 --> 01:21:35,680
Speaker 1: Keep it up here. It's just crazy when you hang

1236
01:21:35,720 --> 01:21:37,519
Speaker 1: out with your friends, when you're doing stuff and you're

1237
01:21:37,560 --> 01:21:39,920
Speaker 1: taking pictures, you know you're not engaged. You're not in

1238
01:21:40,040 --> 01:21:43,240
Speaker 1: the moment. We are so attached to our phone. Yes,

1239
01:21:43,360 --> 01:21:46,840
Speaker 1: we'll go back to get my phone, not my medication.

1240
01:21:49,360 --> 01:21:50,960
Speaker 1: I got to go back and give my phone to

1241
01:21:51,040 --> 01:22:00,960
Speaker 1: say the relationship that medication to get that okay, and

1242
01:22:01,080 --> 01:22:03,559
Speaker 1: I got that thing programmed it be I can't get him.

1243
01:22:04,840 --> 01:22:09,479
Speaker 1: We get that medication him. I get some medication, all right,

1244
01:22:09,680 --> 01:22:12,439
Speaker 1: Hang on. Hang on that picture that dude walking home

1245
01:22:12,600 --> 01:22:15,760
Speaker 1: within that hospital gown with the back out and the

1246
01:22:15,840 --> 01:22:18,479
Speaker 1: socks on. He was just walking home to capture. Said

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Speaker 1: when you've left your telephone at home, drip, He'll got

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01:22:26,160 --> 01:22:29,360
Speaker 1: the badge. He just hiding. He'll get that phone. Man.

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Speaker 1: All right, we'll be back right after this. You're listening

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01:22:32,920 --> 01:22:38,080
Speaker 1: string show. Steve, come on, introduced Jay. He's here to

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01:22:38,200 --> 01:22:43,439
Speaker 1: murder another hit, folks, without further ado. We murder hits

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01:22:43,520 --> 01:22:47,320
Speaker 1: up on him because we got him first round draft choice.

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01:22:48,680 --> 01:22:52,719
Speaker 1: Lady Jimmy Jaffer Bryn al Right, everybody, another song right here, Steve.

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01:22:52,920 --> 01:22:56,000
Speaker 1: The song is a special song. The song is dedicated

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01:22:56,080 --> 01:22:59,519
Speaker 1: to every man who's been in the friend zone. For

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01:22:59,680 --> 01:23:02,599
Speaker 1: then hire you. We've all been in the friend zone.

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01:23:03,080 --> 01:23:06,120
Speaker 1: It's not a nice place to be. You do everything

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01:23:06,200 --> 01:23:09,679
Speaker 1: you help out. Wants to get out of the friend zone.

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01:23:09,720 --> 01:23:11,800
Speaker 1: Somebody just putting me there. You've been putting friend zone.

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01:23:11,840 --> 01:23:16,640
Speaker 1: I'm in there now. Songs dedicate to here man is

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01:23:16,680 --> 01:23:19,040
Speaker 1: the friends zones, Christmas songs and Christmas I ain't gonna

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01:23:19,040 --> 01:23:21,240
Speaker 1: be in your friends zone without no pressure. Here you go,

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01:23:21,520 --> 01:23:23,840
Speaker 1: here you go, check it out. Candy Brown murders a hit.

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01:23:31,920 --> 01:23:39,360
Speaker 1: He will watch your kids, even by them gifts coming

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01:23:39,720 --> 01:23:45,760
Speaker 1: in the car and take them to the mom. But

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01:23:46,120 --> 01:23:52,040
Speaker 1: you call him and beard he buys your dady beer.

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01:23:52,640 --> 01:23:57,160
Speaker 1: There a gif he with a dog. He can't buy

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01:23:57,320 --> 01:24:02,880
Speaker 1: it from a store. While I don't get it up

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01:24:03,439 --> 01:24:11,880
Speaker 1: on chrismustt oh make a friends, get a like a king.

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01:24:12,720 --> 01:24:15,760
Speaker 1: Come on, girl and get out of that thank you.

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Speaker 1: Get it up on Chrismust Day. I don't want no

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01:24:23,680 --> 01:24:36,840
Speaker 1: time just getting it up. I'm miss saw your dough.

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01:24:37,280 --> 01:24:42,240
Speaker 1: I took you to the store. I was there for

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01:24:42,439 --> 01:24:50,719
Speaker 1: you when you were uney, glowed stupid stuff. I don't

1275
01:24:50,920 --> 01:24:58,479
Speaker 1: like feed another man's kids. Nothing left for me to say, girl,

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01:24:58,640 --> 01:25:04,479
Speaker 1: I feel like gett he played? Why don't shoot? Get

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01:25:04,600 --> 01:25:13,960
Speaker 1: it up on rice mystay making man like a king?

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01:25:14,840 --> 01:25:19,400
Speaker 1: Come on girl, get I want that bank Kennys on

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01:25:20,040 --> 01:25:27,960
Speaker 1: rice Mys Day. I don't want no socks, just getting

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01:25:28,000 --> 01:25:39,760
Speaker 1: it what I'm saying my cold three Us day, Oh

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01:25:40,760 --> 01:25:46,040
Speaker 1: making man feel like a king. Come home girl, get

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01:25:46,080 --> 01:26:01,200
Speaker 1: all that thing you oh Chrismus day and many friends. Yeah,

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01:26:01,360 --> 01:26:07,479
Speaker 1: get out of friends own baby by me, No damn socks.

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01:26:08,000 --> 01:26:14,280
Speaker 1: All I want to do is get on, come on

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01:26:14,680 --> 01:26:24,160
Speaker 1: chriss day. He even bought your daddy Bill. All right,

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01:26:24,560 --> 01:26:27,840
Speaker 1: coming up our last break of the day, we're going

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01:26:27,920 --> 01:26:33,160
Speaker 1: to close out the show. You're listening here, we are

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01:26:33,280 --> 01:26:36,960
Speaker 1: last break of the day, Steve. This time is for

1289
01:26:37,120 --> 01:26:39,479
Speaker 1: you to just leave us with something we can go

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01:26:39,640 --> 01:26:41,679
Speaker 1: through the rest of the day with. With your closing

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01:26:41,800 --> 01:26:44,559
Speaker 1: remarks and what do you have for us today, sir, Well,

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01:26:44,840 --> 01:26:50,479
Speaker 1: you know, just something I've had to learn. But I

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01:26:50,600 --> 01:26:55,200
Speaker 1: have to constantly, constantly remind myself of it all the time.

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01:26:56,360 --> 01:27:01,040
Speaker 1: And that is something that Bishop Kenneth Olma talk. He

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01:27:01,200 --> 01:27:03,360
Speaker 1: taught me something I was going through, something I was

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01:27:03,439 --> 01:27:07,680
Speaker 1: being attacked, I thought rather unfailed with a bunch of

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01:27:07,800 --> 01:27:11,439
Speaker 1: vicious lies. And what I was about to do was

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01:27:11,520 --> 01:27:15,200
Speaker 1: I had a plan of a counter attack. I'm gonna

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01:27:15,200 --> 01:27:17,799
Speaker 1: go I'm gonna say something. I'm gonna set the records straight.

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01:27:19,280 --> 01:27:21,639
Speaker 1: Bishop Oldman called me just in the nick of time.

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01:27:21,680 --> 01:27:23,960
Speaker 1: I was about to make a call to a reporter.

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01:27:24,840 --> 01:27:27,639
Speaker 1: I was about to make a call to a reporter.

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01:27:28,760 --> 01:27:32,000
Speaker 1: I was about to just set the record straight. And

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01:27:32,160 --> 01:27:35,200
Speaker 1: Bishop Alma said something to me that changed my direction.

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01:27:36,040 --> 01:27:40,000
Speaker 1: He says, Steve, stay on the wall. Stay on the wall.

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01:27:41,800 --> 01:27:44,160
Speaker 1: It's actually a scripture I don't know which one it is,

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01:27:44,439 --> 01:27:46,599
Speaker 1: but it's something to the effect of stay on the wall.

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01:27:48,040 --> 01:27:52,760
Speaker 1: But what he explained to me was very simple. You

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01:27:54,880 --> 01:27:58,959
Speaker 1: are in a certain position in life. God has allowed

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01:27:59,040 --> 01:28:08,519
Speaker 1: you to climb in dual overcome, survive and thrive. At

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01:28:08,560 --> 01:28:15,559
Speaker 1: a certain point in life, when people beneath you start

1312
01:28:15,720 --> 01:28:21,320
Speaker 1: throwing rocks up at you, when people on the floor

1313
01:28:22,000 --> 01:28:25,800
Speaker 1: start attacking you, saying stuff about you that ain't true,

1314
01:28:27,360 --> 01:28:30,679
Speaker 1: it is in your best interests to stay on the wall.

1315
01:28:31,160 --> 01:28:35,640
Speaker 1: Do not climb down off the wall to address this

1316
01:28:35,880 --> 01:28:39,080
Speaker 1: small stuff. When God has put you up there on

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01:28:39,200 --> 01:28:42,400
Speaker 1: the side of the hill. You halfway up the mountain,

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01:28:42,600 --> 01:28:44,320
Speaker 1: but you're gonna come back down to the bottom of

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01:28:44,320 --> 01:28:46,960
Speaker 1: the mountain because somebody was hauling insults up there, So

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01:28:47,120 --> 01:28:49,840
Speaker 1: now you come all halfway back down the mountain to

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01:28:50,000 --> 01:28:53,800
Speaker 1: address them. Why now you got to go all the

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01:28:53,880 --> 01:28:56,720
Speaker 1: way back up there when all you had to do,

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01:28:56,880 --> 01:28:59,760
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey, was stay on the wall. When all you

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01:29:00,040 --> 01:29:02,120
Speaker 1: had to do with stay on that side of the

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01:29:02,200 --> 01:29:04,559
Speaker 1: mountain that God had allowed you to get to get

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01:29:04,600 --> 01:29:07,400
Speaker 1: on that plateau and take yourself a rest. But stay

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01:29:07,479 --> 01:29:10,479
Speaker 1: on the wall, stay on the mountain side, don't come

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01:29:10,560 --> 01:29:13,200
Speaker 1: off to address these people that's throwing rocks at you.

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01:29:15,560 --> 01:29:19,840
Speaker 1: Drake and Meek decided to quit coming off the wall.

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01:29:20,600 --> 01:29:26,040
Speaker 1: It makes no sense. Cardi B and Nicki Minaj, you're

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01:29:26,160 --> 01:29:29,560
Speaker 1: on the wall. Why do you keep getting off the

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01:29:29,680 --> 01:29:36,360
Speaker 1: wall to address these small minded matters and people? I'm

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01:29:36,479 --> 01:29:40,680
Speaker 1: telling you, man, just because you famous don't make you

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01:29:41,000 --> 01:29:44,719
Speaker 1: the smartest people in the room. We're not just because

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01:29:44,800 --> 01:29:48,360
Speaker 1: we're famous people. We make mistakes too, because guess what,

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01:29:48,520 --> 01:29:52,240
Speaker 1: famous people are happened to be human beings. They just

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01:29:52,400 --> 01:29:55,680
Speaker 1: got more people know they faced and know yours. They

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01:29:55,760 --> 01:29:58,160
Speaker 1: not know better than you. They're not smarter than you.

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01:29:58,280 --> 01:30:01,560
Speaker 1: They're not kinder than you, they're not deeper than you.

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01:30:03,240 --> 01:30:06,320
Speaker 1: It's none of that. That may have seen a few

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01:30:06,400 --> 01:30:09,479
Speaker 1: more things, been a few more places. But guess what

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01:30:09,960 --> 01:30:12,920
Speaker 1: if you don't adjust your thinking and you keep coming

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01:30:12,960 --> 01:30:16,759
Speaker 1: down off the wall, don't those rich, wealthy, famous people

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01:30:16,840 --> 01:30:20,280
Speaker 1: look real common for you? And don't it kind of

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01:30:20,360 --> 01:30:23,240
Speaker 1: make you just a little bit of shame sometime when

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01:30:23,320 --> 01:30:25,720
Speaker 1: you look over there and you see somebody that you

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01:30:26,000 --> 01:30:28,880
Speaker 1: clearly know that God has blessed and allowed to get

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01:30:28,920 --> 01:30:31,439
Speaker 1: to a certain position in life, And don't it sicken

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01:30:31,520 --> 01:30:33,559
Speaker 1: you just a little bit when you look over there

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01:30:33,760 --> 01:30:36,479
Speaker 1: and they back down off the wall, acting like somebody

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01:30:36,560 --> 01:30:39,160
Speaker 1: that ain't never been up on the wall. I don't

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01:30:39,200 --> 01:30:43,040
Speaker 1: want to be that person, Nicki Minaj, really don't want

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01:30:43,040 --> 01:30:46,000
Speaker 1: to be that person. Cardi b You don't really want

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01:30:46,000 --> 01:30:50,599
Speaker 1: to be that person, because we're just defeating the purpose

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01:30:51,120 --> 01:30:55,840
Speaker 1: of climbing anyway. You can't climb the wall or the

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01:30:56,040 --> 01:30:59,880
Speaker 1: ladder and keep getting off every time somebody throw a rocket.

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01:31:00,000 --> 01:31:02,599
Speaker 1: At one point in time, you gotta keep your foot

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01:31:02,640 --> 01:31:05,479
Speaker 1: on the ladder and keep climbing. At one point time,

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01:31:05,560 --> 01:31:07,759
Speaker 1: you just got to stay on the wall quick coming

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01:31:07,800 --> 01:31:11,240
Speaker 1: back down. The best lesson I learned was not to

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Speaker 1: address everything that said about me. Do you know how

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01:31:14,040 --> 01:31:16,360
Speaker 1: much stuff gets said about me? Man that I could

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01:31:16,439 --> 01:31:19,000
Speaker 1: easily straighten out. I don't even take the time to

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01:31:19,280 --> 01:31:26,439
Speaker 1: straighten it out, because what I'm on a mission. God

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01:31:26,560 --> 01:31:29,439
Speaker 1: got me on a mission. God got you on the mission.

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01:31:29,680 --> 01:31:32,920
Speaker 1: God trying to show you something, man, and God can't

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01:31:32,920 --> 01:31:34,879
Speaker 1: show it to you. If you're gonna keep acting regular,

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01:31:37,040 --> 01:31:39,360
Speaker 1: Why would God do something extraordinary for you? If you

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01:31:39,479 --> 01:31:43,439
Speaker 1: just want to be ordinary? Why would God give you

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01:31:43,560 --> 01:31:47,920
Speaker 1: more if you ain't appreciative of what you have Why

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01:31:48,000 --> 01:31:50,960
Speaker 1: would God take you high if you keep climbing back down?

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01:31:51,720 --> 01:31:55,400
Speaker 1: Just ask yourself that. So one of the things I

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01:31:55,479 --> 01:31:57,920
Speaker 1: had to come away with quick coming off that wall,

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01:31:58,040 --> 01:32:02,519
Speaker 1: to address stuff. And that's what I want everybody to

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01:32:02,640 --> 01:32:07,360
Speaker 1: consider today. And sometimes let famous people be your example.

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01:32:08,160 --> 01:32:10,479
Speaker 1: And what are the great examples? Was over this weekend,

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01:32:10,640 --> 01:32:15,120
Speaker 1: Drake and Meek Meal, they hugged, they squashed the beef.

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01:32:16,520 --> 01:32:19,559
Speaker 1: It's plenty of money for everybody. Drake not gonna get

1379
01:32:19,560 --> 01:32:22,040
Speaker 1: it all, Meek not gonna get it all. Card ain't

1380
01:32:22,040 --> 01:32:24,280
Speaker 1: gonna get it all. Nicki Minag ain't gonna get it all.

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01:32:24,760 --> 01:32:27,479
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey ain't gonna get it all. Ain't nobody gonna

1382
01:32:27,520 --> 01:32:31,240
Speaker 1: get it all. It's plenty for everybody. Make your money,

1383
01:32:31,600 --> 01:32:35,000
Speaker 1: stay on the wall, live your life as a righteous person.

1384
01:32:35,320 --> 01:32:39,559
Speaker 1: Do the best you can. Stay preyed up because we're

1385
01:32:39,560 --> 01:32:43,120
Speaker 1: all gonna fall shorter to glory at the end. All right,

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01:32:43,200 --> 01:32:45,920
Speaker 1: those are my clothes remarks. Why you ain't say Steve

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01:32:46,000 --> 01:32:47,880
Speaker 1: Harvey ain't gonna get it all. Time, ain't gonna get

1388
01:32:47,880 --> 01:32:50,160
Speaker 1: it out. Why you ain't say that, I didn't. I

1389
01:32:50,200 --> 01:32:52,800
Speaker 1: didn't want to compare me and you. But we're a

1390
01:32:52,880 --> 01:32:56,599
Speaker 1: good comparison. This is such an obvious one. It doesn't

1391
01:32:56,680 --> 01:33:00,880
Speaker 1: really drop the mic. Stick. He always got to drop

1392
01:33:00,920 --> 01:33:02,400
Speaker 1: the mic. Why don't get to drop the mic? You

1393
01:33:02,439 --> 01:33:06,960
Speaker 1: ain't never saying none? Never shut up, Julie, what you're

1394
01:33:06,960 --> 01:33:23,479
Speaker 1: gonna mess around? Head and mic fall on you. For

1395
01:33:23,600 --> 01:33:26,920
Speaker 1: all Steve Harvey contests, no purchase necessary void where prohibited.

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01:33:26,960 --> 01:33:30,439
Speaker 1: Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old,

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01:33:30,600 --> 01:33:34,360
Speaker 1: unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey

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