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Speaker 1: a quick little announcement. First of all, if you are

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Speaker 1: what's up everyone, and welcome to Stradio Lab.

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Speaker 2: And we are standing in solid air with fran Dresser

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Speaker 1: Now more than ever, what with everything going on.

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Speaker 2: Exactly, please stream the Nanny. No, we can't promote, we

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Speaker 2: can't promote anything. Okay, well I'll talk about that. The rules,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and we have.

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Speaker 2: Been told that the official strike rules are that we

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Speaker 1: Which I find so perfect for us. Yeah, because we

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Speaker 2: We have never promoted anything, even when asked to.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, weren't trying to profit the CEOs by promoting your

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Speaker 1: Because we've seen what happens when they get successful. Let

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Speaker 1: Yesterday, George, I can't help but feel we started this podcast,

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Speaker 3: I'm so happy to be here. This is thrilling, this

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Speaker 3: but I don't want to hold a sign. I don't

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Speaker 3: to hold a sign?

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Speaker 1: They will hand you a sign. You kind of have

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Speaker 3: You know what I heard? So I was with someone

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Speaker 3: See what happens? Don't you have any like I message

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Speaker 3: I never like Gaga. People were in heels. Of course,

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Speaker 1: She really is.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, did you ever watch The Women?

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Speaker 3: I have seen this movie.

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Speaker 3: No, unless you're in the know. You know, everyone's really

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Speaker 1: Exactly? Yeah? Yeah, does Amanda have a podcast? We could

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Speaker 2: You know, I want to talk about how I am

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Speaker 3: But she also I think so old her production company

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Speaker 1: You know, bombs, which is such an incredible collab. It's

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Speaker 3: It's like why they have croc KFC they.

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Speaker 3: Because I have a Taco Bell bikini. I love Taco Bell.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I do think brand collaborations are in their

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but in a way that's almost like losing its

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Speaker 2: Well, that's how I feel about like the fake merch

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Speaker 1: You know what it is. We got to reel in,

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Speaker 3: But you're also like hip, cool New Yorkers, So you've

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Speaker 2: Like I'm trying to remember, like what I like something.

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Speaker 3: Anything that Ariano Maddox from vander Pump.

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Speaker 2: The pink glad bags. Are you purchasing?

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Speaker 3: No? But I got I got dur cell batteries immediately

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Speaker 2: Do you think here's my question, it's like everyone in

439
00:19:49,680 --> 00:19:53,440
Speaker 2: this day and age fetishizes his apologies. Do you think though,

440
00:19:53,440 --> 00:19:56,040
Speaker 2: that they can ever actually be effective? Like, who has

441
00:19:56,080 --> 00:19:59,119
Speaker 2: had what major star has had an apology that like

442
00:19:59,200 --> 00:19:59,760
Speaker 2: did the trick?

443
00:20:00,520 --> 00:20:02,800
Speaker 3: Well, I think Jack's if we're talking just vander pump

444
00:20:02,840 --> 00:20:06,760
Speaker 3: Roles because Jack's talking. Yeah, It's like Jacks is a

445
00:20:06,760 --> 00:20:08,440
Speaker 3: piece of ship and he might still be associated that

446
00:20:08,480 --> 00:20:11,679
Speaker 3: doesn't even believe the apology. Being able to be on

447
00:20:12,560 --> 00:20:15,480
Speaker 3: you know, a show and be like Brittany is incredible.

448
00:20:15,560 --> 00:20:17,199
Speaker 3: I'm a piece of shit. I had to work for

449
00:20:17,280 --> 00:20:19,040
Speaker 3: a lot. I'm a bad person that I did that

450
00:20:19,080 --> 00:20:21,399
Speaker 3: to the woman I love. Like, that's enough for me

451
00:20:21,520 --> 00:20:23,960
Speaker 3: to be like, get back on my TV screen. But

452
00:20:24,480 --> 00:20:28,560
Speaker 3: for someone to just cheat, a lie everything and not

453
00:20:28,640 --> 00:20:32,760
Speaker 3: even be ashamed, that's the thing. But you know, I

454
00:20:32,080 --> 00:20:36,000
Speaker 3: apologies because even if you are very sincere, there's people

455
00:20:36,040 --> 00:20:39,439
Speaker 3: who will never accept it, people that will never believe

456
00:20:39,440 --> 00:20:41,760
Speaker 3: that you're actually sorry. They're gonna think other things.

457
00:20:41,840 --> 00:20:44,680
Speaker 2: Well, it's also a sign of weakness. So it's it's

458
00:20:44,720 --> 00:20:48,480
Speaker 2: this weird paradox where and I'm not making some like

459
00:20:48,560 --> 00:20:51,360
Speaker 2: weird cancel culture argument, but.

460
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Speaker 1: It's like this weird can if you've been a fan,

461
00:20:55,680 --> 00:20:56,480
Speaker 1: but it's this weird.

462
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Speaker 2: Thing where when you apologize, actually because you are showing weakness,

463
00:21:00,080 --> 00:21:02,520
Speaker 2: people respect you less, like.

464
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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're almost rewarded when you like run the other direct.

465
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Speaker 2: It's difficult because if you're running the other direction, yes,

466
00:21:07,840 --> 00:21:09,240
Speaker 2: a lot of people will hate you, but a lot

467
00:21:09,280 --> 00:21:10,680
Speaker 2: of people will be like respect.

468
00:21:11,080 --> 00:21:13,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, like he's not willing to stoop to their level.

469
00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:17,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, Nazis will buy your tickets. Yeah, they have a.

470
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Speaker 1: Lot of disposable income. It's kind of crazy, I know,

471
00:21:20,480 --> 00:21:22,399
Speaker 1: get Valley.

472
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Speaker 3: Well, I think a lot of the people, like the comedians,

473
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Speaker 3: I guess I'm thinking about Yeah, they're not sorry because

474
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Speaker 3: they don't think they did anything wrong. They are the

475
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Speaker 3: victims of, of course something, and so that's why they're

476
00:21:35,160 --> 00:21:38,439
Speaker 3: selling theaters now. So like they're canceled, but the in

477
00:21:38,560 --> 00:21:41,040
Speaker 3: cells are going total. But they're not sorry. They don't

478
00:21:41,080 --> 00:21:43,400
Speaker 3: think they did anything wrong. Like they'll they'll say something

479
00:21:43,440 --> 00:21:48,560
Speaker 3: messed up, and they don't. They're like poor me. But

480
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Speaker 3: I mean I've said fucked up ship and I could.

481
00:21:52,040 --> 00:21:53,480
Speaker 3: It's embarrassing. It's embarrassing.

482
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Speaker 1: No, it's like.

483
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Speaker 3: Humiliating to see what you have written and be like, oh, Mike,

484
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Speaker 3: like it is horrible. It's share. But I think a

485
00:22:01,240 --> 00:22:02,960
Speaker 3: lot of people don't feel the shame, even.

486
00:22:03,080 --> 00:22:05,240
Speaker 2: Well shame is in an interesting place because for so

487
00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:10,520
Speaker 2: long we were saying, destigmatize this, destigmatize that, no shame,

488
00:22:10,640 --> 00:22:13,400
Speaker 2: no shame, And I'm like, how do we slowly It's

489
00:22:13,480 --> 00:22:15,919
Speaker 2: like introducing something into a baby's diet. It's like, how

490
00:22:15,920 --> 00:22:19,280
Speaker 2: do we slowly reintroduce shame into America's diet? Because let

491
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Speaker 2: me tell you something.

492
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Speaker 3: Yeah I felt I felt shame. So to me, it's like, I, yeah,

493
00:22:26,359 --> 00:22:30,080
Speaker 3: they're just entitled to this. It's really wild. Yeah, it's

494
00:22:30,200 --> 00:22:32,119
Speaker 3: our community is wild.

495
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Speaker 2: People should micro shame, you know, a little shame pill

496
00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:37,359
Speaker 2: every morning, of course, so that you're not so overly

497
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Speaker 2: confident that you say a slur.

498
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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, everyone needs like a cool I'm gonna say guy,

499
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Speaker 1: Everyone needs a cool guy who's like you're doing that

500
00:22:48,840 --> 00:22:50,919
Speaker 1: like just every day to sort of be like a

501
00:22:50,920 --> 00:22:54,040
Speaker 1: little judgmental and that will like help so much.

502
00:22:54,240 --> 00:22:56,480
Speaker 3: Like there's a one NBA coach who speaks out against

503
00:22:56,560 --> 00:22:59,320
Speaker 3: racism and maybe he's like that, like, is that what

504
00:22:59,359 --> 00:22:59,840
Speaker 3: you mean or not?

505
00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:02,680
Speaker 2: I like you're saying the opposite of a yes man.

506
00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:04,040
Speaker 2: I think there needs to be you know how, there

507
00:23:04,080 --> 00:23:07,439
Speaker 2: are professional mourners that go to funerals and mourn in

508
00:23:07,520 --> 00:23:10,760
Speaker 2: various cultures or there are professional like seat fillers at weddings.

509
00:23:10,880 --> 00:23:14,399
Speaker 2: There need to be professional no men that join the

510
00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:18,520
Speaker 2: posse what's it called entourage, join the entourage of famous people,

511
00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:21,320
Speaker 2: and their job is to be like, well let's rain

512
00:23:21,359 --> 00:23:24,480
Speaker 2: it in a little bit. Yeah, maybe not those visuals.

513
00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:26,199
Speaker 1: It also needs to be like they have to be

514
00:23:26,240 --> 00:23:28,359
Speaker 1: like really cool. I don't know who that would be

515
00:23:28,400 --> 00:23:29,080
Speaker 1: to these people.

516
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Speaker 3: It would be like a Harry Styles like that.

517
00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:36,280
Speaker 2: Well, but we mean like not a celebrity, We mean

518
00:23:36,359 --> 00:23:37,480
Speaker 2: like a friend.

519
00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:39,760
Speaker 1: Like basically like we need like but those people don't

520
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Speaker 1: have cool friends, right, That's why they would be for

521
00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:43,400
Speaker 1: higher That's why they would be actors.

522
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Speaker 2: This is the way that actors can make money. This

523
00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:48,879
Speaker 2: is non union, non union.

524
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Speaker 3: Well, the filtrate the Nazi communities they are and help

525
00:23:53,640 --> 00:23:55,840
Speaker 3: them out and be like actually, yeah.

526
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Speaker 1: Exactly, like I don't know about that. Just that little

527
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Speaker 1: I don't know about that, Like that be like, oh

528
00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:03,800
Speaker 1: well okay, maybe I'll sort of turn a little and

529
00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:04,880
Speaker 1: little by little bill turn.

530
00:24:05,040 --> 00:24:09,880
Speaker 2: Wow, that's all right, cool, And it's gonna be what

531
00:24:09,920 --> 00:24:10,919
Speaker 2: is it going to be called?

532
00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:21,120
Speaker 1: Actors against Hate? And as soon as the strike's over,

533
00:24:21,240 --> 00:24:22,120
Speaker 1: it's going on the.

534
00:24:23,160 --> 00:24:27,200
Speaker 2: Exactly it is. No, I think that is a very

535
00:24:27,280 --> 00:24:29,560
Speaker 2: nice way for actors to make money during the strike.

536
00:24:29,840 --> 00:24:32,080
Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean that's kind of what like Reese Witherspoon

537
00:24:32,200 --> 00:24:34,360
Speaker 1: is doing with Blackstone, right.

538
00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:38,399
Speaker 2: Oh yes, in her mind, she's the one who's like, y'all,

539
00:24:38,440 --> 00:24:40,640
Speaker 2: I go into the Blackstone offices and I tell them

540
00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:47,119
Speaker 2: wars bad, y'all, like, and women's stories matter, they matter.

541
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Speaker 3: Damn, she's fine. I want to get drunk with her though.

542
00:24:50,680 --> 00:24:50,840
Speaker 1: Yeah.

543
00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:53,040
Speaker 2: No, she'd be great, although she'd be violent. Have you

544
00:24:53,080 --> 00:24:54,439
Speaker 2: seen that video where she's like, do you know who

545
00:24:54,480 --> 00:24:54,720
Speaker 2: I am?

546
00:24:55,320 --> 00:25:00,800
Speaker 3: But that I've been arrested the hands of a car.

547
00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:03,080
Speaker 3: But I was I was nineteen.

548
00:25:03,240 --> 00:25:05,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, and that video is, as we said many times

549
00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:08,680
Speaker 2: on this podcast, Wild is when her resurgence started. Anything

550
00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:10,600
Speaker 2: that happened pre Wild does not count.

551
00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:12,920
Speaker 3: That's why. That's why I feel all my arrests were

552
00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:15,920
Speaker 3: before twenty one. Oh so I feel like, oh, yeah,

553
00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:18,760
Speaker 3: that's where I was learning who I was personal.

554
00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:22,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, that should be illegal. Yeah, the fact that police

555
00:25:22,280 --> 00:25:25,880
Speaker 1: touched you. You were tried as an adult.

556
00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:30,560
Speaker 3: Wait, but what fuck I forgot? Oh? There was one

557
00:25:30,600 --> 00:25:32,560
Speaker 3: clip and I was so lucky I saw it on

558
00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:35,320
Speaker 3: Instagram before it was taken down because I think Reese

559
00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:37,280
Speaker 3: Weather's been flipped out. But it was in an elevator

560
00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:41,520
Speaker 3: at the met and she was just wasted and she

561
00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:43,400
Speaker 3: was just like what kind of name is that? Even?

562
00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:45,000
Speaker 3: And I was like, oh, I want to get Oh

563
00:25:45,119 --> 00:25:47,920
Speaker 3: she you know she is a messy drunk. Yeah, I

564
00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:51,200
Speaker 3: really I wouldn't. I wouldn't be mad to get wasted

565
00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:51,479
Speaker 3: with her.

566
00:25:51,600 --> 00:25:52,560
Speaker 1: Yeah.

567
00:25:52,760 --> 00:25:54,840
Speaker 2: Fun, she should come on. She should come on and

568
00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:56,200
Speaker 2: first of all explain herself.

569
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Speaker 3: Wait. You know this reminded me of another celeb product.

570
00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:03,720
Speaker 3: Have you seen the new Cardi b whip liquor infused

571
00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:07,200
Speaker 3: whipped cream. No, she has a product called whip Shots

572
00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:10,520
Speaker 3: now and it's whip cream with alcohol already in it.

573
00:26:10,600 --> 00:26:11,840
Speaker 1: Oh that's sort of it's fun.

574
00:26:12,240 --> 00:26:12,920
Speaker 3: I think so too.

575
00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:15,880
Speaker 1: Actually that is fun, you know like that, it's very

576
00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:18,439
Speaker 1: like it reminds me of like what something that the

577
00:26:18,520 --> 00:26:20,640
Speaker 1: characters in Night of the Rocksbury would come up.

578
00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:25,639
Speaker 3: With, or Varsity Blue. Yeah, that was a big moment,

579
00:26:25,760 --> 00:26:26,760
Speaker 3: that whip cream thing.

580
00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:29,080
Speaker 1: Was whip cream really had a moment.

581
00:26:29,240 --> 00:26:31,879
Speaker 2: You know what else had a moment putting things in

582
00:26:32,040 --> 00:26:34,040
Speaker 2: putting like whip cream and chocolate syrup. In your mouth

583
00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:36,320
Speaker 2: as a guy and being like and like making a

584
00:26:36,359 --> 00:26:38,320
Speaker 2: little like milkshake in your mouth?

585
00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:39,399
Speaker 3: Is that like old school?

586
00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:41,440
Speaker 2: I feel like that. Yeah, it's very old Yeah, it's

587
00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:45,560
Speaker 2: very like. It's very that era of like male comedies. No, no, no,

588
00:26:45,560 --> 00:26:46,320
Speaker 2: you're you're right.

589
00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:48,920
Speaker 1: But the way that I wanted to leave you hanging

590
00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:51,879
Speaker 1: on that would have been so funny. I was like,

591
00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:54,800
Speaker 1: I was really that was a moral decision. I was like,

592
00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:58,159
Speaker 1: I can either like leave him hanging and it'll be

593
00:26:58,200 --> 00:27:00,399
Speaker 1: so funny, or I can agree and we can I

594
00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:01,160
Speaker 1: just go more set.

595
00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:02,640
Speaker 3: My brain goes to whip Cream Bikini.

596
00:27:03,200 --> 00:27:06,160
Speaker 2: That's right, that's you know what. But then my brain

597
00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:09,040
Speaker 2: goes to Chris Evans in the whip Cream and not

598
00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:12,000
Speaker 2: another teen movie, which is so formative it is.

599
00:27:12,080 --> 00:27:13,560
Speaker 3: It was a great I watched that all the time

600
00:27:13,600 --> 00:27:16,280
Speaker 3: to go to bed. It was really fucking fun. But

601
00:27:16,400 --> 00:27:20,879
Speaker 3: Varsity Blues that really like Awakened. But did you watch Jawbreaker?

602
00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:23,719
Speaker 2: You know what? That's a blind spot of mine. I

603
00:27:23,760 --> 00:27:26,040
Speaker 2: need to watch. Everyone talks about it all the time.

604
00:27:26,119 --> 00:27:30,600
Speaker 3: There's a popsicle sex scene that really changed the course

605
00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:33,359
Speaker 3: of my sexuality as a junior high kid. I was

606
00:27:33,440 --> 00:27:34,880
Speaker 3: like that's the hottest thing I've ever seen.

607
00:27:35,440 --> 00:27:37,880
Speaker 2: I hate when you miss something as a teen and

608
00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:39,840
Speaker 2: it will just never have that impact. Like I can

609
00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:41,879
Speaker 2: watch Drawbreaker and I'm sure I would like it, but

610
00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:45,600
Speaker 2: it's meant to be watched by teens that are like

611
00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:47,760
Speaker 2: hungry for you know, a sexual way.

612
00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:50,600
Speaker 3: No, you're gonna love it. It's dark. It's so dark,

613
00:27:50,800 --> 00:27:54,680
Speaker 3: and all of them are in their thirties. Yeah, well,

614
00:27:54,960 --> 00:27:56,440
Speaker 3: I think you're still gonna get turned on.

615
00:27:57,600 --> 00:28:01,320
Speaker 1: Hope this. I need it.

616
00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:04,399
Speaker 3: I think it's dark enough that adults can enjoy it

617
00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:05,240
Speaker 3: for the first time.

618
00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:07,119
Speaker 2: I mean that's sort of how I feel about like Heather's,

619
00:28:07,359 --> 00:28:09,320
Speaker 2: Like you watch Heather as an adult, it still hits.

620
00:28:09,520 --> 00:28:16,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, we have to do I can't wait, Lisa.

621
00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:18,960
Speaker 1: Are first segments called straight shooters. In this segment, we

622
00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:21,400
Speaker 1: ask you a series orrapifire questions that's basically this thing

623
00:28:21,480 --> 00:28:23,399
Speaker 1: or this other thing to gauge your familiarity with and

624
00:28:23,440 --> 00:28:26,240
Speaker 1: complicity in straight culture. The only rule is you can't

625
00:28:26,240 --> 00:28:28,760
Speaker 1: ask any follow up questions. Are you ready?

626
00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:31,000
Speaker 3: I've never been more ready for anything.

627
00:28:31,320 --> 00:28:37,159
Speaker 2: Okay, Lisa, being in denial about your lactose intolerance or

628
00:28:37,200 --> 00:28:39,880
Speaker 2: being sent to trial due to your gross incompetence.

629
00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:42,920
Speaker 3: I'm gonna do lactose intolerance.

630
00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:47,000
Speaker 1: Okay, Lisa standing in solidarity with the WGA, or having

631
00:28:47,080 --> 00:28:50,200
Speaker 1: the clarity to call someone gay.

632
00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:52,920
Speaker 3: I'm gonna go with clarity to call someone gay.

633
00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:57,760
Speaker 2: Okay. Doing journey at karaoke or being warny while eating

634
00:28:57,840 --> 00:28:58,920
Speaker 2: Yoki Oh.

635
00:28:58,760 --> 00:29:02,600
Speaker 3: Warney while eating the Okay, okay.

636
00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:06,320
Speaker 1: Line dancing, line drawing, or non linear storytelling.

637
00:29:07,600 --> 00:29:11,560
Speaker 3: I'm gonna go with nonlinear storytelling, even though line dancing

638
00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:12,920
Speaker 3: is very in the queer community.

639
00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:13,719
Speaker 1: Right now, say that.

640
00:29:14,080 --> 00:29:17,120
Speaker 2: Okay, stop it, you're bad, or top me, you're brad.

641
00:29:17,680 --> 00:29:21,680
Speaker 1: Stop at your bad Okay, Matisse or my niece.

642
00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:26,080
Speaker 2: This is really hard.

643
00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:28,640
Speaker 3: I gotta go with my niece. She's just starting college.

644
00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:32,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, wow, sorry I'm running late. Hurry they're closing the gate.

645
00:29:32,880 --> 00:29:38,600
Speaker 2: Or mcflury, No thanks, I already ate, Sorry I'm late.

646
00:29:38,720 --> 00:29:42,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, shopping spree or watching Glee shopping spree?

647
00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:55,240
Speaker 3: Wow? Yeah it was you know, tattoo, you are commemorate

648
00:29:55,320 --> 00:29:58,000
Speaker 3: a thousand duves. I was actually gonna stop talking to

649
00:29:58,040 --> 00:30:01,040
Speaker 3: Chris Murphy fully after he did so poorly. Yeah, you

650
00:30:01,120 --> 00:30:02,640
Speaker 3: got the lowest steps I've ever heard.

651
00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:07,360
Speaker 1: That was tough. But fair from Sam. You have to

652
00:30:07,360 --> 00:30:08,320
Speaker 1: be honest with people.

653
00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:11,280
Speaker 2: You have to be honest with people. No, I think

654
00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:14,360
Speaker 2: your performance was very much like if Madonna hadn't canceled

655
00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:19,880
Speaker 2: her tour and got on stage and did every move remember.

656
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Speaker 1: I love that being all concert is, well, do you

657
00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:25,280
Speaker 1: know the words? I just love you being like, what

658
00:30:25,440 --> 00:30:27,520
Speaker 1: does you need to learn? She knows the words? Hey,

659
00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:29,600
Speaker 1: that song came about thirty years ago. I think you

660
00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:30,520
Speaker 1: can remember the words.

661
00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:32,640
Speaker 2: We can put a teleprompter up for Vogue.

662
00:30:33,520 --> 00:30:37,040
Speaker 3: Wait, did you guys watch drag Race? I haven't watch

663
00:30:37,080 --> 00:30:38,160
Speaker 3: with Sugar and Spicy.

664
00:30:38,320 --> 00:30:39,280
Speaker 1: Oh yes, yes.

665
00:30:39,280 --> 00:30:43,640
Speaker 3: When they played a clip of Selena as Titties and

666
00:30:43,760 --> 00:30:46,840
Speaker 3: Spices different reactions to the song where Selena was just

667
00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:50,840
Speaker 3: like to fight for my life, this is my last chance,

668
00:30:50,880 --> 00:30:53,120
Speaker 3: and Spice goes, I think I actually know the words

669
00:30:53,120 --> 00:30:54,840
Speaker 3: to this song, but I'm really excited.

670
00:30:56,160 --> 00:30:59,240
Speaker 2: It's very like the difference between gen Z and like,

671
00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:01,360
Speaker 2: I don't know whatever Selena.

672
00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:04,080
Speaker 1: I guess is millennial. You probably cusp, probably cuss.

673
00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:06,160
Speaker 3: No, gen Z will burn it so they don't give it.

674
00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:08,040
Speaker 2: They don't give a fuck. They don't give a fuck.

675
00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:10,720
Speaker 2: I was listening to Okay, I was listening to our

676
00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:13,080
Speaker 2: favorite podcast, the Slate Culture gab Fest, uh huh, and

677
00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:16,920
Speaker 2: they had a guest on to talk about the new

678
00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:19,800
Speaker 2: Wes Anderson movie, and I think she was like sort

679
00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:21,200
Speaker 2: of on the younger side and the rest of them

680
00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:24,640
Speaker 2: are gen X and I was so impressed with her

681
00:31:24,680 --> 00:31:26,680
Speaker 2: just coming in and being like, yeah, so I pretty

682
00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:28,880
Speaker 2: much don't give a fuck about Wes Anderson, but this

683
00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:31,400
Speaker 2: is like a pretty good movie, I guess. And she's there,

684
00:31:31,440 --> 00:31:34,680
Speaker 2: like as a culture critic to talk about this. I

685
00:31:34,720 --> 00:31:38,640
Speaker 2: was like, honestly, go off, like, oh, I've noticed.

686
00:31:38,680 --> 00:31:40,840
Speaker 1: Okay. I was on Fire Island and I actually think

687
00:31:40,840 --> 00:31:44,560
Speaker 1: I've found a key difference between millennial gaze and gen z. Okay,

688
00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:47,600
Speaker 1: I need to know hear me out. Gen Z gays

689
00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:52,760
Speaker 1: know the words to Toddrick Hall songs. Wow, really they

690
00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:55,520
Speaker 1: don't like it. Okay, it's ironic. It's like, of course

691
00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:58,400
Speaker 1: this is bad, but they know it. And they because

692
00:31:58,480 --> 00:32:01,400
Speaker 1: I think I was thinking about this, and because this

693
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:03,160
Speaker 1: has happened a few times where I've been with like

694
00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:05,040
Speaker 1: a twenty four year old and a togic song comes

695
00:32:05,040 --> 00:32:06,720
Speaker 1: on and I'm like, why is this bar playing this? Yeah?

696
00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:09,720
Speaker 1: And they're like yeah, they're like, and a Todrick song

697
00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:12,480
Speaker 1: goes on and I'd be like, what the hell is

698
00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:15,600
Speaker 1: going on? And I think it's because we saw YouTube

699
00:32:15,720 --> 00:32:18,600
Speaker 1: as less than one and they didn't see that.

700
00:32:18,720 --> 00:32:22,760
Speaker 2: Well, you're basically pointing to just the YouTube, yeah, because

701
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:25,680
Speaker 2: that is what it is like YouTubers. We are just

702
00:32:25,800 --> 00:32:28,040
Speaker 2: at the cusp where we didn't care about YouTube right

703
00:32:28,080 --> 00:32:30,760
Speaker 2: after us, everyone that was their entertainment preth.

704
00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:34,720
Speaker 3: I have a confession what I watch YouTube shorts that is.

705
00:32:34,920 --> 00:32:37,800
Speaker 2: Rough, and I want to say that as people who

706
00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:40,920
Speaker 2: publish YouTube shorts of this very podcast. First of all,

707
00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:42,920
Speaker 2: these congratulations you're about to be on one.

708
00:32:44,600 --> 00:32:48,840
Speaker 3: Yes, I am addicted to YouTube shorts and bed like,

709
00:32:49,040 --> 00:32:50,400
Speaker 3: I can't like ours?

710
00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:51,920
Speaker 1: Is there an app for them?

711
00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:56,080
Speaker 3: No, I'm on Google Chrome. I'm on Chrome.

712
00:32:56,240 --> 00:32:59,560
Speaker 2: I mean sometimes I do. Sometimes I will just let

713
00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:00,800
Speaker 2: Instagram and reels play.

714
00:33:01,560 --> 00:33:03,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, but on your phone or yeah yeah?

715
00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:07,440
Speaker 1: So why why did you choose YouTube shorts over like and.

716
00:33:07,760 --> 00:33:09,800
Speaker 3: We're talking on well, because you have to hold a

717
00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:12,320
Speaker 3: phone and I'm trying to stay off my phone. But

718
00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:16,880
Speaker 3: YouTube and you know, the laptop, I'm like classic, so

719
00:33:16,880 --> 00:33:19,480
Speaker 3: it's on my chest and it's like this, so it's

720
00:33:19,480 --> 00:33:22,960
Speaker 3: like an easy, fun kind of motion and it's just

721
00:33:23,000 --> 00:33:25,880
Speaker 3: a woman packing a Bento box lunch for her husband

722
00:33:26,080 --> 00:33:30,080
Speaker 3: and writing a note and I just wow, can't stop.

723
00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:33,280
Speaker 3: But they it's a lot of anti trans content. And

724
00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:36,200
Speaker 3: I keep writing to YouTube being like not for me

725
00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:40,520
Speaker 3: and like no and like doing this, and they won't stop.

726
00:33:40,560 --> 00:33:44,200
Speaker 3: Like I understand YouTube is dangerous for sure, it just

727
00:33:44,280 --> 00:33:46,800
Speaker 3: keeps it. They keep talking about that swimmer and I'm like,

728
00:33:46,880 --> 00:33:50,400
Speaker 3: I just don't want it, and it won't stop feeding

729
00:33:50,400 --> 00:33:52,440
Speaker 3: it to me. It's really wild. I've written like three

730
00:33:52,880 --> 00:33:56,640
Speaker 3: like help, I don't want to and they will not stop.

731
00:33:56,760 --> 00:33:58,640
Speaker 1: My YouTube shorts experience is being ruined.

732
00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:01,560
Speaker 3: But I also love I'm a Chamberlain and I did buy.

733
00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:02,840
Speaker 3: I did buy her merch She.

734
00:34:02,960 --> 00:34:06,200
Speaker 2: Is the only one with any charisma, Emma Chamberlain.

735
00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:08,360
Speaker 1: Do you know which one is she?

736
00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:11,560
Speaker 2: She is like sort of like skinny, sleepy eyes.

737
00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:16,680
Speaker 3: She's a fashion girl, Louisa yeah, yea, yeah yeah. It's

738
00:34:16,680 --> 00:34:17,319
Speaker 3: three years in a row.

739
00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:20,279
Speaker 2: And you see all these YouTubers and they you see

740
00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:22,040
Speaker 2: them outside of the screen and in real life, and

741
00:34:22,080 --> 00:34:24,040
Speaker 2: you're like, no, flop, get out of here, what are

742
00:34:24,040 --> 00:34:25,799
Speaker 2: you doing? Like that should be Jennifer Lawrence. But then

743
00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:27,440
Speaker 2: you see them a Chamberlain, You're like, finally we've.

744
00:34:27,280 --> 00:34:27,799
Speaker 1: Got a good one.

745
00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:32,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, she she created I would say, at like sixteen,

746
00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:35,960
Speaker 3: what YouTube is now? Like that, like the editing, she

747
00:34:36,080 --> 00:34:37,640
Speaker 3: kind of did all that, and her parents let her

748
00:34:37,719 --> 00:34:41,759
Speaker 3: quit school. Well god, she was just not happy. She

749
00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:44,719
Speaker 3: wasn't happy at school and her dad's like make videos.

750
00:34:44,920 --> 00:34:46,759
Speaker 3: And now you know she owns a giant home.

751
00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:47,360
Speaker 1: Wow.

752
00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:50,840
Speaker 3: I know I want to see her, but I I

753
00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:53,760
Speaker 3: really I bought her planner because the planners for people

754
00:34:53,760 --> 00:34:56,440
Speaker 3: who don't love planning. So there's no dates or months

755
00:34:56,440 --> 00:34:59,080
Speaker 3: written anywhere you can write it in, and so you

756
00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:00,400
Speaker 3: can do it for a week and then throw it

757
00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:01,960
Speaker 3: away and then when you come back, you can just

758
00:35:02,000 --> 00:35:03,919
Speaker 3: start wherever you left off.

759
00:35:06,920 --> 00:35:08,759
Speaker 2: You know what I love about you, Lisa, And I

760
00:35:08,760 --> 00:35:12,400
Speaker 2: think this is a pattern. You really support the creators,

761
00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:15,040
Speaker 2: you like financially, Like you have this old true you

762
00:35:15,080 --> 00:35:17,760
Speaker 2: have this bit about like how you always pay for porn,

763
00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:20,000
Speaker 2: like you want to support the porn stars, and it's like,

764
00:35:20,080 --> 00:35:22,439
Speaker 2: of course that makes it. Of course you should pay

765
00:35:22,800 --> 00:35:25,480
Speaker 2: the people doing free labor. And you're like, yeah, I'm

766
00:35:25,480 --> 00:35:27,720
Speaker 2: watching YouTube for free. I'm gonna buy that girl's planner.

767
00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:30,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, No, I'm a merch girl. I don't know if

768
00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:33,320
Speaker 3: it's a shopping spending addiction or if it's support, like

769
00:35:33,360 --> 00:35:36,040
Speaker 3: if it's coming from a good place. But no, I

770
00:35:36,080 --> 00:35:39,200
Speaker 3: do every museum I'm buying, I'm buying something. Yeah, wow,

771
00:35:39,360 --> 00:35:43,680
Speaker 3: a little postcard, a keychain, magnets. I have Ariana Grande sweatpants. Wow.

772
00:35:43,680 --> 00:35:46,960
Speaker 3: The hard thing with merch sweatpants, though very rarely they

773
00:35:47,000 --> 00:35:47,680
Speaker 3: have pockets.

774
00:35:47,920 --> 00:35:50,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, they're also made of like tissue paper, like a

775
00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:52,399
Speaker 2: lot of merch is very poorly made, which you sort

776
00:35:52,440 --> 00:35:54,479
Speaker 2: of realize as you.

777
00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:57,839
Speaker 3: Also but you know it was great merch Brassers, porn Hub.

778
00:35:58,239 --> 00:36:00,279
Speaker 3: I have two hundred and fifty dollars sweatpants like a

779
00:36:00,280 --> 00:36:02,919
Speaker 3: collab from SSU R. I mean they because I've worked,

780
00:36:02,960 --> 00:36:06,040
Speaker 3: I've done. It's like a sex a cool brand, I guess.

781
00:36:06,440 --> 00:36:08,360
Speaker 3: And then the tag inside says, fuck you pay me,

782
00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:11,560
Speaker 3: but they're my airport pants. And then I get to

783
00:36:11,560 --> 00:36:13,400
Speaker 3: see who the perverts are because they're looking at the

784
00:36:13,440 --> 00:36:16,760
Speaker 3: browsers and they're like trying to figure out what's happening.

785
00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:20,320
Speaker 3: But I've done like event like roasts and red carpet

786
00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:22,080
Speaker 3: for them, and in the contract I put in on

787
00:36:22,160 --> 00:36:22,600
Speaker 3: want Merch.

788
00:36:23,760 --> 00:36:24,560
Speaker 2: You're literally.

789
00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:27,080
Speaker 1: It's crazy.

790
00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:30,400
Speaker 3: So I don't you know Kanye Obviously, with the Holocaust,

791
00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:34,680
Speaker 3: it's tough. But let's start there. Porn Hub and Kanye

792
00:36:34,719 --> 00:36:38,320
Speaker 3: did a collab and I have like, uh, this Abella

793
00:36:38,440 --> 00:36:40,399
Speaker 3: Danger Kanye porn Hub shirt.

794
00:36:40,440 --> 00:36:43,560
Speaker 1: That fucking whoa. Okay, I'm shocked by that collab. Actually,

795
00:36:43,600 --> 00:36:44,560
Speaker 1: I said, I couldn't be surprised.

796
00:36:44,560 --> 00:36:46,560
Speaker 3: And I'm surprised well because he went off being like

797
00:36:46,880 --> 00:36:49,320
Speaker 3: my daughter porn sucks. I'm like, you were the creative

798
00:36:49,320 --> 00:36:52,640
Speaker 3: director of the porn Hub Awards. You dressed Asakira and

799
00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:55,960
Speaker 3: and put he was draping the women. He dressed the

800
00:36:56,040 --> 00:37:01,200
Speaker 3: porn hypocrite. I think we all are. That's kind of

801
00:37:01,200 --> 00:37:03,800
Speaker 3: my new thing. Of course, you're all talking shit and

802
00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:04,759
Speaker 3: we're all hypocrites.

803
00:37:04,800 --> 00:37:07,360
Speaker 2: Wait, okay, we need to get we need to introduce

804
00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:09,960
Speaker 2: the topic. Is this I would love to see? Yeah? Okay,

805
00:37:10,200 --> 00:37:12,200
Speaker 2: and we and by the way, we are being surprised.

806
00:37:12,239 --> 00:37:14,239
Speaker 2: We are being surprised, asked Lisa, do you want to

807
00:37:14,239 --> 00:37:15,920
Speaker 2: surprise ourselves ahead of time? She said, I want to

808
00:37:15,960 --> 00:37:16,320
Speaker 2: surprise you.

809
00:37:16,440 --> 00:37:19,600
Speaker 3: I'm so scared you'll hate it. Of course, but my

810
00:37:19,719 --> 00:37:23,080
Speaker 3: straighth topic is axe throwing bars.

811
00:37:24,719 --> 00:37:29,040
Speaker 2: That is such a good old classic that it's very

812
00:37:29,080 --> 00:37:31,440
Speaker 2: like themed restaurants like that is.

813
00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:36,319
Speaker 1: Well and it's specific too, because it's like it's like

814
00:37:36,400 --> 00:37:39,200
Speaker 1: newish yees like people think people thought it was like

815
00:37:39,400 --> 00:37:42,399
Speaker 1: a new thing that it wasn't straight that it was like, no,

816
00:37:42,480 --> 00:37:43,960
Speaker 1: we are not our parents anymore.

817
00:37:44,200 --> 00:37:48,880
Speaker 3: No, it's billiards, it's pool hauls but updated. And for me,

818
00:37:48,960 --> 00:37:51,920
Speaker 3: it's like a place where men take women on dates

819
00:37:51,920 --> 00:37:55,960
Speaker 3: and women go, I can't and men go look at that,

820
00:37:56,280 --> 00:37:59,400
Speaker 3: like it's like the men like holding the pool stick

821
00:37:59,520 --> 00:38:01,800
Speaker 3: and real show. But then I was talking to a

822
00:38:01,880 --> 00:38:04,120
Speaker 3: friend about this and she said, oh, yeah, that's what

823
00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:06,560
Speaker 3: they do. Men try to act like they have skills,

824
00:38:06,600 --> 00:38:08,920
Speaker 3: and then once you're in a relationship, they can't do laundry.

825
00:38:09,080 --> 00:38:10,240
Speaker 1: Like wow.

826
00:38:11,239 --> 00:38:13,160
Speaker 3: On the dates they're like, look I can throw this,

827
00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:16,520
Speaker 3: act strong, you little weak idiot girl. And then as

828
00:38:16,560 --> 00:38:18,600
Speaker 3: soon as you're committed, you have to make the plans,

829
00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:21,760
Speaker 3: the dates, the housework everything. That's like a true.

830
00:38:21,640 --> 00:38:24,520
Speaker 2: Good point because actually I would say women don't do that.

831
00:38:24,600 --> 00:38:28,000
Speaker 2: It's not like women are constantly trying to impress a

832
00:38:28,040 --> 00:38:31,799
Speaker 2: man by like doing laundry. When they're doing women are

833
00:38:31,840 --> 00:38:37,160
Speaker 2: just like in traditional, you know, heterosexual narrative, women's job

834
00:38:37,239 --> 00:38:39,439
Speaker 2: is to look hot and that's how they impress. It's

835
00:38:39,480 --> 00:38:41,400
Speaker 2: because the flip side of what you're saying is like

836
00:38:41,520 --> 00:38:43,239
Speaker 2: women look hot on dates and then when they get

837
00:38:43,239 --> 00:38:45,879
Speaker 2: married they all let themselves go. Like that's the that's

838
00:38:45,920 --> 00:38:47,839
Speaker 2: like the narrative for women, and then for men it's

839
00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:50,000
Speaker 2: like they show how useful they are, show how useful

840
00:38:50,000 --> 00:38:51,959
Speaker 2: they are, and as soon as they lock it down,

841
00:38:52,000 --> 00:38:55,279
Speaker 2: so to speak, they stop putting on pants and waking

842
00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:56,000
Speaker 2: up before noon.

843
00:38:56,360 --> 00:38:56,760
Speaker 1: Yeah.

844
00:38:57,000 --> 00:39:00,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, this actually reminded me of one of my favorite

845
00:39:00,160 --> 00:39:04,680
Speaker 3: episodes of Your Guys with Aaron Jackson about weaponizing oral sex.

846
00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:07,640
Speaker 3: That was really a life changing episode I would say,

847
00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:10,879
Speaker 3: where I was like, oh, yeah, the met are only

848
00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:13,600
Speaker 3: on your birth Yeah, it's really it's really twisted.

849
00:39:13,800 --> 00:39:17,520
Speaker 2: Well so much the undercurrent of heterosexuality is like by

850
00:39:17,640 --> 00:39:20,560
Speaker 2: the way we hate each other, Well, that's what it

851
00:39:20,600 --> 00:39:21,360
Speaker 2: all comes down to.

852
00:39:21,640 --> 00:39:24,480
Speaker 1: The actually bar is really freaking me out because I'm realizing,

853
00:39:24,600 --> 00:39:27,880
Speaker 1: like this is something I've culturally known, a culturally like reference.

854
00:39:27,600 --> 00:39:29,640
Speaker 3: Only from reality TV shows though, because I've never been,

855
00:39:29,680 --> 00:39:30,160
Speaker 3: have you guys.

856
00:39:30,040 --> 00:39:33,839
Speaker 1: Been, I've never been, never been invited I've never been accidentally.

857
00:39:34,000 --> 00:39:36,799
Speaker 1: I've never like no one's had a birthday party. That's like,

858
00:39:36,920 --> 00:39:38,319
Speaker 1: I have to go to this because I went to

859
00:39:38,320 --> 00:39:41,560
Speaker 1: college with him. It was never any moment have I

860
00:39:41,600 --> 00:39:44,160
Speaker 1: been tempted to be in an ax dooring bar.

861
00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:47,520
Speaker 3: Never did I see a housewife doing that on Bravo

862
00:39:47,560 --> 00:39:49,960
Speaker 3: and go oh, I got to make a reservation. It

863
00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:52,560
Speaker 3: was just like, I will never do that. Yeah, I

864
00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:54,800
Speaker 3: don't want to throw an axe. That's also I remember

865
00:39:54,960 --> 00:39:56,920
Speaker 3: so dangerous people are drinking, you have an axe in

866
00:39:56,920 --> 00:39:57,239
Speaker 3: your ear.

867
00:39:58,200 --> 00:40:01,600
Speaker 1: I don't need any daynger in my life ever, I

868
00:40:01,640 --> 00:40:04,920
Speaker 1: don't want an axe. I don't like darts. I can

869
00:40:04,960 --> 00:40:06,600
Speaker 1: get behind. I don't hate it.

870
00:40:06,600 --> 00:40:07,640
Speaker 2: By the way, go.

871
00:40:07,520 --> 00:40:11,280
Speaker 1: Bowling, Go bowling something safe, Go for a walk.

872
00:40:11,840 --> 00:40:14,040
Speaker 3: Actually, while we're talking about I hate mini golf too.

873
00:40:14,040 --> 00:40:16,600
Speaker 3: I didn't even think about it, but I really I

874
00:40:16,719 --> 00:40:20,560
Speaker 3: love like that. I like the fun sets like I

875
00:40:20,680 --> 00:40:23,759
Speaker 3: like when it's a windmiller, a big outlephant like. I

876
00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:25,240
Speaker 3: like the statue totally.

877
00:40:25,320 --> 00:40:27,600
Speaker 2: I was a hater of mining golf until recently I

878
00:40:27,640 --> 00:40:31,560
Speaker 2: found myself there and just like it's very much. You know,

879
00:40:31,840 --> 00:40:40,160
Speaker 2: went in a normal person, came out blackout drunk, it was,

880
00:40:40,280 --> 00:40:42,440
Speaker 2: and I was like, oh, I guess I love minigolf.

881
00:40:42,680 --> 00:40:47,400
Speaker 3: I think I've only taken children. Well, maybe I need

882
00:40:47,480 --> 00:40:50,080
Speaker 3: a drink when I do it. And I love golf

883
00:40:50,600 --> 00:40:52,880
Speaker 3: more fun. Damn, I didn't think about that. I love

884
00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:56,799
Speaker 3: a batting cage though, Like I really.

885
00:40:57,719 --> 00:40:59,560
Speaker 1: I feel like something like that is similar to the

886
00:40:59,600 --> 00:41:02,320
Speaker 1: actor to me, where it's like the bar is a

887
00:41:02,360 --> 00:41:04,919
Speaker 1: little too high, where it's like gonna show how bad

888
00:41:04,960 --> 00:41:07,200
Speaker 1: I am at it, like, and I don't want to

889
00:41:07,239 --> 00:41:08,919
Speaker 1: be embarrassed when I'm having fun.

890
00:41:09,880 --> 00:41:13,000
Speaker 2: Again, That's why bowling is good because everyone is sort

891
00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:15,440
Speaker 2: of fine at it. Yeah, and if now and then

892
00:41:15,480 --> 00:41:17,920
Speaker 2: you're good at it, that's fun. That's a fun little surprise.

893
00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:19,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't love bowling.

894
00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:21,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, but when I find myself forced to bowl, I

895
00:41:21,920 --> 00:41:22,440
Speaker 3: have a good time.

896
00:41:22,800 --> 00:41:24,560
Speaker 2: That's how I feel. I'm like, it's sort of a

897
00:41:24,680 --> 00:41:28,359
Speaker 2: crowd pleaser. Everyone is okay, and you can invite your

898
00:41:28,360 --> 00:41:32,000
Speaker 2: sober friest. They can eat Matrelli sticks, you know, exactly exactly.

899
00:41:32,239 --> 00:41:33,359
Speaker 1: Yeah.

900
00:41:33,400 --> 00:41:36,000
Speaker 3: My sister when she she married her high school sweetheart,

901
00:41:36,000 --> 00:41:37,880
Speaker 3: they've been together like over twenty years, but when they

902
00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:40,800
Speaker 3: were in the dating phase, they went to like disco

903
00:41:40,840 --> 00:41:41,480
Speaker 3: bowl what was it?

904
00:41:41,560 --> 00:41:43,960
Speaker 1: Neon like, yeah, yeah, black light.

905
00:41:43,800 --> 00:41:46,680
Speaker 3: Boiling, black light bowling, and her fingers got stuck in

906
00:41:46,719 --> 00:41:49,640
Speaker 3: the ball and she flew and slid into up.

907
00:41:49,760 --> 00:41:52,160
Speaker 1: So like the comedy.

908
00:41:53,160 --> 00:41:56,120
Speaker 3: She also Okay. In where I grew up, Skoche suburbs

909
00:41:56,160 --> 00:42:01,080
Speaker 3: of Chicago, there's a poop river, sant and the expect

910
00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:04,440
Speaker 3: Like the rich high schools and some colleges, they do

911
00:42:04,560 --> 00:42:07,440
Speaker 3: rowing practice in the shit river. But my sister fell

912
00:42:07,480 --> 00:42:08,919
Speaker 3: in the shit river to the story.

913
00:42:09,040 --> 00:42:10,319
Speaker 2: Oh my god, she's been through so much.

914
00:42:10,840 --> 00:42:13,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, I know. She just so had to, you know,

915
00:42:13,600 --> 00:42:16,000
Speaker 3: leave the Soviet Union as a teen. She's really had

916
00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:16,399
Speaker 3: it rough.

917
00:42:16,600 --> 00:42:16,920
Speaker 1: Wow.

918
00:42:17,400 --> 00:42:18,680
Speaker 3: But now she's having a great time.

919
00:42:18,719 --> 00:42:19,400
Speaker 2: Oh good for her.

920
00:42:19,520 --> 00:42:23,440
Speaker 1: Good. Yeah, what a journey. She deserves it. Yeah, make

921
00:42:23,600 --> 00:42:25,840
Speaker 1: a movie about her. Yeah, exactly, I want to.

922
00:42:25,880 --> 00:42:27,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, she had She got married at twenty two, start

923
00:42:27,760 --> 00:42:29,800
Speaker 3: having kids at twenty five. The kids are now teens.

924
00:42:29,840 --> 00:42:33,680
Speaker 3: She's in her forties. She's going to summerfest She's traveling

925
00:42:33,760 --> 00:42:37,239
Speaker 3: following imagine dragons all over this country. She quit her

926
00:42:37,320 --> 00:42:40,040
Speaker 3: job at fifteen years. Her and her husband are in love.

927
00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:43,640
Speaker 3: They're dabbling in mushrooms, they're going to music festivals, they're

928
00:42:43,640 --> 00:42:46,280
Speaker 3: doing road trips in Mexico. She's dyed her hair blue

929
00:42:46,640 --> 00:42:47,640
Speaker 3: and it's really fun.

930
00:42:47,880 --> 00:42:50,160
Speaker 2: I mean that is really an argument in favor of

931
00:42:50,239 --> 00:42:53,480
Speaker 2: doing everything young, like getting married, having kids. Yeah, yeah,

932
00:42:53,560 --> 00:42:56,879
Speaker 2: get out of the way, finally enjoy your life at forty. Yeah,

933
00:42:56,880 --> 00:42:58,680
Speaker 2: it's like right for college, have a kid exactly.

934
00:42:59,000 --> 00:43:01,440
Speaker 3: And if you're a good parent, like my sister is,

935
00:43:01,640 --> 00:43:04,440
Speaker 3: the kids like you totally. So then you like they'll

936
00:43:04,440 --> 00:43:07,239
Speaker 3: do stuff together with their twenty year old son and

937
00:43:07,360 --> 00:43:09,719
Speaker 3: like hang out and sit by a fire and chit chat.

938
00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:12,120
Speaker 3: So it's like you also raise them, right, you have

939
00:43:12,160 --> 00:43:13,600
Speaker 3: fun friends that are younger than you.

940
00:43:14,640 --> 00:43:16,520
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do it differently. I'm gonna have sort of

941
00:43:16,760 --> 00:43:17,680
Speaker 1: a child when.

942
00:43:17,520 --> 00:43:20,000
Speaker 3: I'm fifty, and my dad was fifty when I was born.

943
00:43:20,080 --> 00:43:22,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm gonna be really distant. I think that. Oh,

944
00:43:23,320 --> 00:43:24,959
Speaker 1: I mean so just I mean, I have nothing in common.

945
00:43:25,000 --> 00:43:27,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be like sort of being like, what are

946
00:43:27,040 --> 00:43:29,560
Speaker 1: you doing? You know that type of thing. Yeah, that'll

947
00:43:29,600 --> 00:43:31,799
Speaker 1: be really good for the child. Well, the child's gonna

948
00:43:31,800 --> 00:43:32,600
Speaker 1: be an artists. Of course.

949
00:43:34,120 --> 00:43:36,480
Speaker 3: It was just tough because everyone I just was aware

950
00:43:36,520 --> 00:43:38,759
Speaker 3: my parents were gonna die in any moment because my

951
00:43:38,840 --> 00:43:40,799
Speaker 3: dad had white Harry was fifth, so everyone would always

952
00:43:40,800 --> 00:43:43,200
Speaker 3: be like, is that your dad or grandpa? And so

953
00:43:43,280 --> 00:43:47,640
Speaker 3: I was thank god they're still here, but their death

954
00:43:47,680 --> 00:43:50,959
Speaker 3: has always loomed over me in a in a real way. Yeah,

955
00:43:50,960 --> 00:43:53,200
Speaker 3: starting young, Sorry to bring it down, no, no, but

956
00:43:53,280 --> 00:43:55,440
Speaker 3: you know, my sister visited this weekend to go to

957
00:43:55,480 --> 00:43:57,560
Speaker 3: a party that had nothing to do with anything SAgs

958
00:43:57,600 --> 00:44:02,520
Speaker 3: against and go home at one am. And she was livid.

959
00:44:02,560 --> 00:44:05,759
Speaker 3: She's like, you brought me to New York to party, Well,

960
00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:07,839
Speaker 3: you're going home at one am. She was wasting. I

961
00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:10,760
Speaker 3: couldn't control her. Oh, by the way, we saw Luanne

962
00:44:10,800 --> 00:44:11,640
Speaker 3: Ella SEPs at the bar.

963
00:44:12,040 --> 00:44:15,560
Speaker 2: I did see that, so and she told.

964
00:44:15,320 --> 00:44:17,560
Speaker 3: My sister, I bet you can make me come. So

965
00:44:18,680 --> 00:44:20,319
Speaker 3: I have a photo of them arm in arm at

966
00:44:20,320 --> 00:44:22,239
Speaker 3: the bar together. She doesn't know who Luyenne is. She

967
00:44:22,440 --> 00:44:25,799
Speaker 3: bonded with Luanne, was like having the time of her life,

968
00:44:25,880 --> 00:44:28,400
Speaker 3: but screaming that she didn't want to go home, and

969
00:44:28,440 --> 00:44:31,040
Speaker 3: I had to drag her back to Brooklyn.

970
00:44:31,000 --> 00:44:33,080
Speaker 2: Because guess what, you know what you know what I

971
00:44:33,160 --> 00:44:35,360
Speaker 2: do all the time? That is so like lame. Is

972
00:44:35,400 --> 00:44:37,480
Speaker 2: like I will be at a party and be sort

973
00:44:37,480 --> 00:44:39,640
Speaker 2: of like performatively having a bad time where be like

974
00:44:39,840 --> 00:44:41,840
Speaker 2: I'm sleepy, or like I need to go home, or

975
00:44:41,880 --> 00:44:43,880
Speaker 2: like oh I don't like this drink blubbla, and it's like,

976
00:44:43,960 --> 00:44:45,560
Speaker 2: how about you enjoy what you have for once?

977
00:44:45,920 --> 00:44:48,319
Speaker 3: True, but I had Abi's I wanted an egg and sheet,

978
00:44:48,360 --> 00:44:50,239
Speaker 3: like I wanted to know I put something on, but

979
00:44:50,360 --> 00:44:52,759
Speaker 3: she was livid. Me and my friend exited the Uber.

980
00:44:52,840 --> 00:44:54,440
Speaker 3: We had to wait ten minutes while she finished her

981
00:44:54,480 --> 00:44:58,680
Speaker 3: conversation with the Uber driver. They exchanged numbers, multiple pictures,

982
00:44:58,880 --> 00:45:01,400
Speaker 3: then we went to the bodega made me do a

983
00:45:01,440 --> 00:45:04,000
Speaker 3: photo shoot of her laying on the white clock boxes.

984
00:45:04,160 --> 00:45:08,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, she truly was like that's loving. It shouldn't have those.

985
00:45:08,480 --> 00:45:11,879
Speaker 2: Girls are are the girls keeping New York running. It's

986
00:45:11,920 --> 00:45:14,080
Speaker 2: not you going home and having an egg and cheese.

987
00:45:14,200 --> 00:45:17,080
Speaker 1: No, when I actually do, like am like coming home

988
00:45:17,080 --> 00:45:18,760
Speaker 1: from a night out and decide to do a bodega

989
00:45:18,800 --> 00:45:20,920
Speaker 1: photo shoot, I'm like I still got it, Like I'm

990
00:45:20,920 --> 00:45:23,360
Speaker 1: like I still find magic in the city. I'm still

991
00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:24,680
Speaker 1: twenty two and life.

992
00:45:24,840 --> 00:45:27,879
Speaker 2: Or when you get home and you are messily like

993
00:45:28,320 --> 00:45:31,000
Speaker 2: finding leftovers that are not meant to be eaten cold

994
00:45:31,040 --> 00:45:32,520
Speaker 2: and just like eating them over the sink, are like,

995
00:45:32,560 --> 00:45:33,080
Speaker 2: oh good, for me.

996
00:45:33,120 --> 00:45:33,719
Speaker 1: I'm twenty two.

997
00:45:34,080 --> 00:45:37,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, Taco Bell actually saves.

998
00:45:37,400 --> 00:45:39,960
Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean my my new thing is popeye Is,

999
00:45:40,000 --> 00:45:43,560
Speaker 2: which I had never been. I had never explored previously.

1000
00:45:43,840 --> 00:45:45,400
Speaker 2: But there's a popeye Is close to a gaybar. We

1001
00:45:45,520 --> 00:45:48,600
Speaker 2: go too often, and it's I'm going thereafter every night.

1002
00:45:48,640 --> 00:45:50,080
Speaker 3: Popeye's is great. What side do you get?

1003
00:45:51,040 --> 00:45:53,440
Speaker 2: I just get chicken tenders and fried.

1004
00:45:54,080 --> 00:45:55,279
Speaker 3: I'm a mac and cheese mask fast.

1005
00:45:55,360 --> 00:45:57,480
Speaker 2: Oh okay, okay, okay, I.

1006
00:45:57,480 --> 00:46:01,600
Speaker 3: Feel bad saying this on this podcast, but I do

1007
00:46:01,719 --> 00:46:02,400
Speaker 3: go to chick fil A.

1008
00:46:03,000 --> 00:46:08,000
Speaker 1: Oh sure, I mean not like every day.

1009
00:46:08,120 --> 00:46:11,440
Speaker 3: Imagine cheese is so good at chick fil A.

1010
00:46:11,680 --> 00:46:13,319
Speaker 1: Well, the way the Chick fil A is also a

1011
00:46:13,600 --> 00:46:17,279
Speaker 1: true cult like these. I went to a Chick fil

1012
00:46:17,280 --> 00:46:20,719
Speaker 1: A in like Pennsylvania or something, and it was all

1013
00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:24,520
Speaker 1: teens and everyone is like being really nice and like

1014
00:46:24,640 --> 00:46:27,279
Speaker 1: not in like a weird like it was like they

1015
00:46:27,320 --> 00:46:29,120
Speaker 1: were almost too good at being blight where it kind

1016
00:46:29,120 --> 00:46:29,879
Speaker 1: of freaked me out.

1017
00:46:30,080 --> 00:46:31,600
Speaker 3: No, there's like all these stories where it's like they

1018
00:46:31,600 --> 00:46:33,000
Speaker 3: could tell I was having a bad day and gave

1019
00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:35,200
Speaker 3: me a free cookie. You know, they're like intuitive.

1020
00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:38,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's dark, it's dark, but they have.

1021
00:46:39,120 --> 00:46:42,400
Speaker 3: Like they have kale salads. But yeah, when I'm really

1022
00:46:42,440 --> 00:46:46,239
Speaker 3: feeling a certain way, I will postmates Chick fil A

1023
00:46:46,320 --> 00:46:48,319
Speaker 3: and eat it in my bed and it's it's bad.

1024
00:46:48,360 --> 00:46:49,000
Speaker 3: It feels.

1025
00:46:50,360 --> 00:46:52,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, transorbic content.

1026
00:46:53,080 --> 00:46:56,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're like reporting transphobic content but eating Chick fil A.

1027
00:46:56,360 --> 00:47:00,399
Speaker 2: So it sort of comes out comes out of watch. Wait,

1028
00:47:00,440 --> 00:47:04,160
Speaker 2: I want to go back to ax throwing, So I

1029
00:47:04,800 --> 00:47:06,840
Speaker 2: feel like we need to explore sort of psycho analytically,

1030
00:47:06,920 --> 00:47:09,880
Speaker 2: what is it behind all these activity based That's what

1031
00:47:09,880 --> 00:47:13,080
Speaker 2: I was saying, like escape rooms extra.

1032
00:47:13,280 --> 00:47:14,479
Speaker 3: I hate an escape room.

1033
00:47:14,719 --> 00:47:18,759
Speaker 2: I will never I could not believe because escape rooms

1034
00:47:18,800 --> 00:47:20,840
Speaker 2: would get people you knew, one by one where at

1035
00:47:20,840 --> 00:47:22,640
Speaker 2: first everyone thought it was stupid and it was like

1036
00:47:22,680 --> 00:47:26,279
Speaker 2: a punchline, and then slowly people were like, oh yeah,

1037
00:47:26,320 --> 00:47:27,640
Speaker 2: like we did it and it was fun and we

1038
00:47:27,640 --> 00:47:30,120
Speaker 2: were like drink. I was like, no, no, no, no no.

1039
00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:32,080
Speaker 3: I would go to a smash place where you can

1040
00:47:32,120 --> 00:47:33,080
Speaker 3: like smash.

1041
00:47:32,920 --> 00:47:36,600
Speaker 1: You know what. That's kind of I would hit stuff, yeah,

1042
00:47:36,640 --> 00:47:38,320
Speaker 1: but that's more like therapeutic. I wouldn't want to be

1043
00:47:38,360 --> 00:47:40,359
Speaker 1: like drinking while doing that. Like it's not like fun

1044
00:47:40,520 --> 00:47:42,480
Speaker 1: or even like group necessary.

1045
00:47:42,520 --> 00:47:44,520
Speaker 2: I just I know this is reductive, but part of

1046
00:47:44,520 --> 00:47:47,480
Speaker 2: me is just like go to a bar. If you're

1047
00:47:47,480 --> 00:47:49,799
Speaker 2: interesting enough and you are with your friends, that is

1048
00:47:49,840 --> 00:47:52,600
Speaker 2: more fun than having an activity gate.

1049
00:47:52,719 --> 00:47:55,520
Speaker 3: I like games in a home, like I do love

1050
00:47:55,520 --> 00:47:58,000
Speaker 3: a board game or a list game. I like games,

1051
00:47:58,080 --> 00:48:01,400
Speaker 3: but I also think at might be different than other activities.

1052
00:48:01,440 --> 00:48:03,640
Speaker 3: It's like pretending or back in nature, but you're not,

1053
00:48:03,800 --> 00:48:04,600
Speaker 3: oh yes.

1054
00:48:04,560 --> 00:48:07,400
Speaker 1: Well this is very the twenty tens when like the

1055
00:48:07,560 --> 00:48:11,120
Speaker 1: nature esthetic was so popular and I'm sort of like,

1056
00:48:11,200 --> 00:48:14,600
Speaker 1: what happened? Like everyone in the thick flannel, everyone in

1057
00:48:14,640 --> 00:48:17,279
Speaker 1: the like raw denim, in the red wing boots, and

1058
00:48:17,280 --> 00:48:20,680
Speaker 1: it was like, what were gay guys doing then? Like, actually,

1059
00:48:20,680 --> 00:48:21,880
Speaker 1: I don't remember.

1060
00:48:21,719 --> 00:48:22,680
Speaker 2: In twenty tens, in.

1061
00:48:22,680 --> 00:48:25,160
Speaker 1: Literally twenty tens, like the twenty thirteen.

1062
00:48:25,560 --> 00:48:27,879
Speaker 2: Okay, what were gay guys doing in twenty thirteen when

1063
00:48:27,960 --> 00:48:30,680
Speaker 2: straight people were doing wilderness? Wilderness?

1064
00:48:31,719 --> 00:48:34,239
Speaker 3: Okay, so good at knowing what happened at what year.

1065
00:48:34,600 --> 00:48:37,000
Speaker 3: It's because I smoke weed, Like I don't know what happened.

1066
00:48:37,080 --> 00:48:41,680
Speaker 2: No, it's because the twenty tens, as Amy zimmer One said,

1067
00:48:41,800 --> 00:48:44,480
Speaker 2: we have to believe they were they meant something.

1068
00:48:44,160 --> 00:48:45,160
Speaker 1: They meant something to us.

1069
00:48:45,280 --> 00:48:47,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, like because because the twenty tens in many ways

1070
00:48:47,640 --> 00:48:50,480
Speaker 2: were a waste, Like there's just something about the optimism

1071
00:48:50,520 --> 00:48:52,319
Speaker 2: of the Obama era whatever, and it's like, what did

1072
00:48:52,360 --> 00:48:54,799
Speaker 2: it all lead to this? You know what I mean? Like,

1073
00:48:55,080 --> 00:48:57,400
Speaker 2: so there, we just have to believe in something in

1074
00:48:57,400 --> 00:48:59,600
Speaker 2: the twenty tens. We have to believe there was some value.

1075
00:48:59,640 --> 00:49:01,440
Speaker 1: Also, it's such a weird time where I was like

1076
00:49:01,719 --> 00:49:03,680
Speaker 1: I love this, Like I was like, well, yeah, I'm

1077
00:49:03,760 --> 00:49:06,799
Speaker 1: twenty two. This is the perfect time, Like I love

1078
00:49:06,840 --> 00:49:09,480
Speaker 1: this esthetic. Of course this is my vibe. And now

1079
00:49:09,560 --> 00:49:13,160
Speaker 1: I'm like that was embarrassing, Like everything was embarrassing. Yeah,

1080
00:49:13,239 --> 00:49:14,880
Speaker 1: so now I'm trying to reckon with it, and so

1081
00:49:14,920 --> 00:49:16,120
Speaker 1: I'm examining it a lot.

1082
00:49:16,080 --> 00:49:18,760
Speaker 3: Because I also don't even remember this the wilderness moment,

1083
00:49:18,800 --> 00:49:19,800
Speaker 3: but I remember flannel.

1084
00:49:19,840 --> 00:49:23,000
Speaker 2: I definitelyel and like, do you remember the I hate.

1085
00:49:23,080 --> 00:49:25,720
Speaker 3: I hate beanies that don't cover ears.

1086
00:49:25,800 --> 00:49:27,520
Speaker 2: Oh that talk about a straight topic.

1087
00:49:27,800 --> 00:49:30,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, I hate the folded beanie that play well.

1088
00:49:30,840 --> 00:49:33,440
Speaker 2: Because that is sort of like saying the quiet part

1089
00:49:33,440 --> 00:49:35,359
Speaker 2: out loud, where you're like, Okay, so you're pretending you're

1090
00:49:35,360 --> 00:49:37,560
Speaker 2: in nature, but you are in fact wearing something that

1091
00:49:37,760 --> 00:49:40,719
Speaker 2: is making it harder, like it is not doing its

1092
00:49:40,719 --> 00:49:42,719
Speaker 2: intended thing of warming you because in fact, you're not

1093
00:49:42,800 --> 00:49:43,240
Speaker 2: in nature.

1094
00:49:43,320 --> 00:49:45,080
Speaker 3: No, did you remember like a chuck e Cheese or

1095
00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:47,040
Speaker 3: places like that, like where you can get these little

1096
00:49:47,680 --> 00:49:50,680
Speaker 3: rubbery like condom tips that you flip over the blue

1097
00:49:50,719 --> 00:49:54,040
Speaker 3: in the air. That's what I think of when I like, yeah,

1098
00:49:54,719 --> 00:49:59,279
Speaker 3: you're exposed ears. But it's something about like, yeah, why

1099
00:49:59,280 --> 00:50:02,080
Speaker 3: do you need an But karaoke is a fun activity

1100
00:50:02,120 --> 00:50:03,799
Speaker 3: at a bar? Or are you anti kids?

1101
00:50:04,080 --> 00:50:07,799
Speaker 2: I'm the minority of karaoke, and I've stopped You know,

1102
00:50:08,560 --> 00:50:11,200
Speaker 2: everyone loves karaoke, so it does feel like you're such

1103
00:50:11,239 --> 00:50:13,200
Speaker 2: a wet blanket for not liking it, so I've stopped

1104
00:50:13,200 --> 00:50:13,799
Speaker 2: talking about it.

1105
00:50:13,840 --> 00:50:16,000
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm horrible at it and I'm just nervous

1106
00:50:16,000 --> 00:50:17,440
Speaker 1: in a way that nothing else does. But I do.

1107
00:50:18,040 --> 00:50:23,640
Speaker 2: I mean what again, Like I don't like watching the

1108
00:50:23,680 --> 00:50:26,000
Speaker 2: person that is really good at it and it's like

1109
00:50:26,040 --> 00:50:28,359
Speaker 2: they're one chance to be on stage. It makes me.

1110
00:50:28,719 --> 00:50:31,040
Speaker 1: Well, that's bad, that's a bad version of it.

1111
00:50:31,719 --> 00:50:34,960
Speaker 3: I just mostly do things like Brittany sure yes, b

1112
00:50:35,320 --> 00:50:39,120
Speaker 3: and yeah you know live I. I did try to

1113
00:50:39,160 --> 00:50:42,600
Speaker 3: overextend myself and then I humiliated myself trying to do

1114
00:50:42,680 --> 00:50:45,120
Speaker 3: Marvin Gay once and Dolly Parton and I realized I

1115
00:50:45,200 --> 00:50:47,520
Speaker 3: just have to do no scrubs by TLC and call

1116
00:50:47,560 --> 00:50:49,960
Speaker 3: it a day. Oh. I recently was at a lesbian

1117
00:50:50,000 --> 00:50:52,360
Speaker 3: bar and tried to do rain on me and everyone

1118
00:50:52,440 --> 00:50:55,040
Speaker 3: looked like was so they're like, and then immediately when

1119
00:50:55,040 --> 00:50:58,760
Speaker 3: I started, they all realized I was bad and turned

1120
00:50:58,760 --> 00:51:01,880
Speaker 3: against me, turned away like I can tell the anger.

1121
00:51:02,080 --> 00:51:04,600
Speaker 2: But this is what I'm saying, like if that happened,

1122
00:51:04,680 --> 00:51:06,799
Speaker 2: like it's such a risk, Like what if you're the

1123
00:51:06,800 --> 00:51:07,480
Speaker 2: one who flopps?

1124
00:51:07,640 --> 00:51:10,239
Speaker 1: I always flop. I almost always flop. I do every

1125
00:51:10,239 --> 00:51:12,279
Speaker 1: time I try to do PAPARAZZI can't do it right.

1126
00:51:12,600 --> 00:51:16,760
Speaker 1: I always try to do. I mean I famously past guest.

1127
00:51:17,080 --> 00:51:21,120
Speaker 1: THETA was hosting Garaochi once and I did she Wolf

1128
00:51:21,239 --> 00:51:24,800
Speaker 1: and she turned off the song happening because I was flopping.

1129
00:51:24,480 --> 00:51:29,360
Speaker 3: Theda back in the day. I fucking went constantly. And

1130
00:51:29,360 --> 00:51:32,239
Speaker 3: I remember showing up on my birthday throwing money at

1131
00:51:32,280 --> 00:51:35,920
Speaker 3: her and going, it's my birthday, give me Britney Spears

1132
00:51:36,120 --> 00:51:38,840
Speaker 3: and she said what song? And I went, surprise me

1133
00:51:39,480 --> 00:51:41,440
Speaker 3: and I think I only gave her twelve dollars, Like

1134
00:51:41,520 --> 00:51:44,719
Speaker 3: the attitude was not the money I threw at her.

1135
00:51:44,840 --> 00:51:46,600
Speaker 3: But and then I did stronger.

1136
00:51:46,360 --> 00:51:48,960
Speaker 1: I mean a Sunday strong ago that was like Sunday

1137
00:51:49,000 --> 00:51:50,799
Speaker 1: night at this and that. Yes, and it was.

1138
00:51:50,840 --> 00:51:54,000
Speaker 3: Yes, but she was the best because she hated us.

1139
00:51:53,920 --> 00:51:57,279
Speaker 1: All like she hated there, and it was like a

1140
00:51:57,400 --> 00:51:59,319
Speaker 1: very hostile environment. But in a way that was like

1141
00:51:59,440 --> 00:51:59,799
Speaker 1: a slag.

1142
00:52:00,040 --> 00:52:03,279
Speaker 2: We are losing the art of hosting. M do you

1143
00:52:03,360 --> 00:52:05,960
Speaker 2: know what I mean? Continue, Well, I just think it

1144
00:52:06,080 --> 00:52:09,560
Speaker 2: used to be. I mean, I'm sorry to say we

1145
00:52:09,600 --> 00:52:11,400
Speaker 2: are complicit in this because it used to be that

1146
00:52:11,520 --> 00:52:14,200
Speaker 2: so few people got the opportunity to be a host

1147
00:52:14,200 --> 00:52:18,040
Speaker 2: of anything. It was like Ryan Seacrest, the late night hosts,

1148
00:52:18,520 --> 00:52:21,160
Speaker 2: the you know, the morning show host whatever. And then

1149
00:52:21,560 --> 00:52:24,960
Speaker 2: with their eyes of like YouTube and podcasting and like

1150
00:52:25,080 --> 00:52:28,040
Speaker 2: social media, everyone can sort of pretend they are one

1151
00:52:28,480 --> 00:52:32,279
Speaker 2: and you've lost like the star power associated with you know,

1152
00:52:33,160 --> 00:52:34,160
Speaker 2: who's a great host.

1153
00:52:34,520 --> 00:52:37,440
Speaker 3: I wonder about hosts, but I think of Red Carpet

1154
00:52:37,480 --> 00:52:39,880
Speaker 3: when you say this. Joan Rivers was like a moment

1155
00:52:40,000 --> 00:52:42,520
Speaker 3: whether we agree with her, you know, her being vicious

1156
00:52:42,560 --> 00:52:46,120
Speaker 3: that people or not. But like it's now like models

1157
00:52:46,120 --> 00:52:49,000
Speaker 3: and just famous people. And then they can't handle Hugh

1158
00:52:49,040 --> 00:52:52,200
Speaker 3: Grant being a dick totally and it's like, get a professional,

1159
00:52:52,600 --> 00:52:55,160
Speaker 3: get a fucking host, get a journalist, like, get someone

1160
00:52:55,200 --> 00:52:58,760
Speaker 3: that can actually ask some questions. We're getting these models

1161
00:52:58,760 --> 00:52:59,960
Speaker 3: that are flopping on the carpet.

1162
00:53:00,600 --> 00:53:02,040
Speaker 1: You know, I went to a gay bar once that

1163
00:53:02,239 --> 00:53:04,959
Speaker 1: had gave you wristbands like green if you were allowed

1164
00:53:05,000 --> 00:53:07,560
Speaker 1: to touch you, yellow if it's like ask, and red

1165
00:53:07,640 --> 00:53:10,399
Speaker 1: if don't touch me at all. And I actually think

1166
00:53:10,480 --> 00:53:13,200
Speaker 1: a red carpet could if all the celebrities were like

1167
00:53:13,520 --> 00:53:16,319
Speaker 1: Green means a model only can talk to me, Red

1168
00:53:16,360 --> 00:53:19,319
Speaker 1: means I'm down to be like yelled at by by

1169
00:53:19,480 --> 00:53:23,200
Speaker 1: Joan River's ghost, and yellow means like surprise me. I

1170
00:53:23,200 --> 00:53:25,520
Speaker 1: actually think that could be a sleigh because some celebrities

1171
00:53:25,560 --> 00:53:28,840
Speaker 1: can't handle the bite and some celebrities like want the bite,

1172
00:53:29,160 --> 00:53:30,120
Speaker 1: and I think, and.

1173
00:53:30,080 --> 00:53:35,319
Speaker 3: The bite is what like, yeah, I don't know if

1174
00:53:35,360 --> 00:53:38,000
Speaker 3: we need you mean.

1175
00:53:37,920 --> 00:53:39,720
Speaker 2: Like someone that goes rows with the punches.

1176
00:53:40,040 --> 00:53:42,560
Speaker 3: Yes, like okay, Hugh Grants being a dick, stop asking

1177
00:53:42,600 --> 00:53:46,600
Speaker 3: about these loves. You know, shoot, girl, why couldn't you

1178
00:53:46,640 --> 00:53:48,600
Speaker 3: just go okay, you clearly don't want to be here,

1179
00:53:49,000 --> 00:53:50,560
Speaker 3: keep it moving. But she couldn't.

1180
00:53:50,920 --> 00:53:53,600
Speaker 2: She just like had these questions and was like ha ha,

1181
00:53:53,800 --> 00:53:57,440
Speaker 2: interesting So anyway, I heard you love Olive Oil.

1182
00:53:58,760 --> 00:54:01,840
Speaker 3: And the year before she fund because she asked, who's

1183
00:54:01,840 --> 00:54:05,200
Speaker 3: the sexy Jason Momoa to do like a traditional Hawaiian dance,

1184
00:54:05,600 --> 00:54:07,920
Speaker 3: and I guess means you know something in their culture.

1185
00:54:07,920 --> 00:54:10,200
Speaker 3: And she's like, do a little haka for us, and

1186
00:54:10,239 --> 00:54:14,680
Speaker 3: Lisa Bonana be like no. And so it's like years

1187
00:54:14,719 --> 00:54:17,600
Speaker 3: in it's like, could we just get someone that knows

1188
00:54:17,640 --> 00:54:19,880
Speaker 3: what's up? But I do love her. I'm obsessed with her.

1189
00:54:19,880 --> 00:54:22,520
Speaker 3: I think she did change plus size fashion in the world.

1190
00:54:22,960 --> 00:54:26,120
Speaker 3: I do love Ashley Graham, that is who. It's Ashley

1191
00:54:26,120 --> 00:54:27,680
Speaker 3: Graham who I'm obsessed with. But I did hear that

1192
00:54:27,719 --> 00:54:31,040
Speaker 3: she's a flat earther and does not believe in evolution.

1193
00:54:31,320 --> 00:54:33,879
Speaker 3: So that is tough. So get her off the mic,

1194
00:54:34,680 --> 00:54:37,960
Speaker 3: get her off the mic. I'm buying Revlon because of you.

1195
00:54:37,960 --> 00:54:40,000
Speaker 3: You don't need to be like ruining the carpet for

1196
00:54:40,080 --> 00:54:41,919
Speaker 3: my mother, who that's all she has.

1197
00:54:42,239 --> 00:54:45,120
Speaker 1: You know, you're doing exactly what we should have been

1198
00:54:45,160 --> 00:54:48,520
Speaker 1: doing at the beginning. You are combining the high and

1199
00:54:48,640 --> 00:54:51,840
Speaker 1: low of supporting women. We're being like, this woman is

1200
00:54:51,880 --> 00:54:53,640
Speaker 1: a genius. She changed my life. I love her so much.

1201
00:54:53,680 --> 00:54:55,920
Speaker 1: That being said she's a nightmare, she's a flatterer, she

1202
00:54:55,920 --> 00:54:58,719
Speaker 1: doesn't believe in evolution, and I hate her. Like to

1203
00:54:58,920 --> 00:55:02,280
Speaker 1: contain both of those in the same sentence is genius

1204
00:55:02,320 --> 00:55:03,680
Speaker 1: And that's why you should be on the red carpet.

1205
00:55:03,800 --> 00:55:06,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, because not all We can't all be great everything.

1206
00:55:06,920 --> 00:55:09,480
Speaker 3: It's hard. We have flaws, and her flaws are She

1207
00:55:09,640 --> 00:55:10,400
Speaker 3: is an idiot.

1208
00:55:10,239 --> 00:55:10,600
Speaker 1: Isn't it.

1209
00:55:10,760 --> 00:55:13,400
Speaker 2: But I mean that is the biggest Okay, this is

1210
00:55:14,600 --> 00:55:17,920
Speaker 2: the biggest taboo is how some people are stupid, do

1211
00:55:17,920 --> 00:55:19,319
Speaker 2: you know what I mean? It's like the one thing

1212
00:55:19,360 --> 00:55:21,560
Speaker 2: you can say, and in fact it is it is

1213
00:55:21,600 --> 00:55:25,480
Speaker 2: more socio acceptable to call someone like a hypocritor say

1214
00:55:25,480 --> 00:55:27,520
Speaker 2: they have bad politics or something, and it's like, no,

1215
00:55:27,560 --> 00:55:29,920
Speaker 2: some people are just dumb. It's not that they are evil.

1216
00:55:30,120 --> 00:55:30,200
Speaker 1: No.

1217
00:55:30,280 --> 00:55:33,799
Speaker 3: I learned this actually from this podcast because sometimes, you know,

1218
00:55:33,880 --> 00:55:35,880
Speaker 3: I think we're all in the same plank. No, and

1219
00:55:35,880 --> 00:55:37,520
Speaker 3: then you find out you go to Stanford and I go,

1220
00:55:38,000 --> 00:55:39,600
Speaker 3: oh Jesus, no.

1221
00:55:39,400 --> 00:55:40,239
Speaker 2: No, no, no.

1222
00:55:39,960 --> 00:55:41,520
Speaker 3: But that's how I feel sometimes because I can't put

1223
00:55:41,520 --> 00:55:43,200
Speaker 3: a set like I don't know grammar, like there's just

1224
00:55:43,440 --> 00:55:45,319
Speaker 3: the things I don't know. And then you see people

1225
00:55:45,320 --> 00:55:46,880
Speaker 3: that are so smart and you're like, Wow, everything they

1226
00:55:46,880 --> 00:55:49,520
Speaker 3: say is amazing, and you're like, oh, they're ivally educated,

1227
00:55:49,600 --> 00:55:50,680
Speaker 3: you know, like that's.

1228
00:55:51,200 --> 00:55:53,120
Speaker 2: Well, I don't think. I mean, if you meet some

1229
00:55:53,120 --> 00:55:56,200
Speaker 2: of the people correct, you would be very short.

1230
00:55:56,360 --> 00:55:58,160
Speaker 3: Like live Alison Livey is someone like that too, where

1231
00:55:58,200 --> 00:55:59,920
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, we're having apps, we're the same, and

1232
00:56:00,000 --> 00:56:02,160
Speaker 3: and she'll say something, I'll be like, we're not your best.

1233
00:56:01,960 --> 00:56:05,400
Speaker 2: But once I really are. I mean again, some of

1234
00:56:05,440 --> 00:56:08,279
Speaker 2: the dumbest people I know went to Ivy League schools. No,

1235
00:56:08,400 --> 00:56:12,440
Speaker 2: I know, to the point where you're like, it's concerning

1236
00:56:12,520 --> 00:56:14,520
Speaker 2: because you're like, these people are in our country. It's

1237
00:56:14,560 --> 00:56:16,040
Speaker 2: people that went to like Harvard and you.

1238
00:56:17,560 --> 00:56:20,560
Speaker 3: I'm nervous. My niece went to a private school that's

1239
00:56:20,680 --> 00:56:22,680
Speaker 3: like rich kids, and now she's going to college that

1240
00:56:22,719 --> 00:56:24,239
Speaker 3: I think is going to be just rich kids, and

1241
00:56:24,239 --> 00:56:26,160
Speaker 3: I'm kind of nervous for her. But then I know

1242
00:56:26,200 --> 00:56:27,719
Speaker 3: someone that grew up in poverty and they said the

1243
00:56:27,719 --> 00:56:30,319
Speaker 3: only way to get ahead is to be around rich people. Well,

1244
00:56:30,360 --> 00:56:31,399
Speaker 3: so this is I don't really know.

1245
00:56:31,800 --> 00:56:35,680
Speaker 2: This is an interesting sort of I was thinking about

1246
00:56:35,719 --> 00:56:37,680
Speaker 2: this when people were talking about affirmative action debate, because

1247
00:56:37,680 --> 00:56:41,120
Speaker 2: it's like, obviously legacy admissions are bad. It's like, if

1248
00:56:41,160 --> 00:56:42,759
Speaker 2: your dad went to Harvard, you should not immediately go

1249
00:56:42,800 --> 00:56:44,840
Speaker 2: to Harvard. But then when you think about people that

1250
00:56:44,880 --> 00:56:47,640
Speaker 2: are on scholarship, it's like, well, the opportunity they're getting

1251
00:56:47,680 --> 00:56:52,120
Speaker 2: is basically to become friends with these rich legacy people

1252
00:56:52,320 --> 00:56:54,160
Speaker 2: who can then help them.

1253
00:56:54,400 --> 00:56:56,520
Speaker 1: Yes, you know what I mean. It's very weird. It

1254
00:56:56,600 --> 00:56:58,320
Speaker 1: is confusing, it's so fucked.

1255
00:56:58,320 --> 00:57:01,319
Speaker 3: But yeah, going back to the you know, not ivy league.

1256
00:57:01,320 --> 00:57:03,919
Speaker 3: But yeah, some people are dumb it's okay or evil

1257
00:57:03,960 --> 00:57:06,719
Speaker 3: because sometimes I try to understand you. I'm like, what

1258
00:57:06,760 --> 00:57:08,879
Speaker 3: are you talking about? How are you you think it's

1259
00:57:08,920 --> 00:57:10,920
Speaker 3: okay to get a background after pam for a day

1260
00:57:10,920 --> 00:57:12,759
Speaker 3: of work and own their likeness for the rest of

1261
00:57:12,800 --> 00:57:15,680
Speaker 3: their lives. How what's in your brain? And then you're like, oh,

1262
00:57:15,680 --> 00:57:18,280
Speaker 3: they're broken. Money breaks your brain. And then it's like

1263
00:57:18,760 --> 00:57:20,720
Speaker 3: you're not going to understand. And that's the same thing,

1264
00:57:20,800 --> 00:57:22,800
Speaker 3: like you're trying to understand someone and you're like, oh, yeah,

1265
00:57:22,800 --> 00:57:23,520
Speaker 3: they're just dumb.

1266
00:57:23,800 --> 00:57:26,080
Speaker 2: Well I think actually, I think actually the binary of

1267
00:57:26,160 --> 00:57:29,320
Speaker 2: dumb and evil is a really productive one. So many

1268
00:57:29,360 --> 00:57:32,920
Speaker 2: things are dumb and people misunderstand them to be evil

1269
00:57:33,040 --> 00:57:35,520
Speaker 2: or are evil and people misunderstand them to be dumb.

1270
00:57:35,680 --> 00:57:38,120
Speaker 1: Like, yeah, you can play dumb and you go exactly

1271
00:57:38,160 --> 00:57:41,320
Speaker 1: exactly and exactly be evil. Wait, and you can be

1272
00:57:41,560 --> 00:57:43,680
Speaker 1: dumb and people think you're evil.

1273
00:57:43,760 --> 00:57:45,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, It's like it's like if you're dumb, so you

1274
00:57:45,840 --> 00:57:48,800
Speaker 2: express a really problematic opinion and people like, oh, you're evil.

1275
00:57:48,840 --> 00:57:51,440
Speaker 2: It's like, no, she just hasn't ever read a book.

1276
00:57:51,360 --> 00:57:52,240
Speaker 1: Right, and that's better.

1277
00:57:52,400 --> 00:57:55,760
Speaker 2: I'm really sorry I gendered her female never read a book?

1278
00:57:55,920 --> 00:57:57,320
Speaker 3: Oh no, I thought you were about to call me

1279
00:57:57,320 --> 00:57:59,640
Speaker 3: out because I did just buy some books today, I

1280
00:57:59,640 --> 00:58:01,400
Speaker 3: mean this week for my visit. I bought. But I'm

1281
00:58:01,400 --> 00:58:02,880
Speaker 3: gonna try. I'm really trying to read.

1282
00:58:02,960 --> 00:58:04,440
Speaker 2: I have a book that I bet you would like that.

1283
00:58:04,480 --> 00:58:06,919
Speaker 2: I just read, what is it? The Guest by Emma Client.

1284
00:58:07,040 --> 00:58:10,760
Speaker 2: It's like the book of the Summer everyone, and you

1285
00:58:10,760 --> 00:58:14,040
Speaker 2: would love it. It's about this girl in the Hamptons

1286
00:58:14,080 --> 00:58:18,320
Speaker 2: who basically like doesn't have anywhere to stay, so she's

1287
00:58:18,320 --> 00:58:20,520
Speaker 2: like scamming her way into various like rich people's house.

1288
00:58:20,560 --> 00:58:22,400
Speaker 2: Oh I do, okay, that's like I feel like it's

1289
00:58:22,520 --> 00:58:23,680
Speaker 2: you would you would enjoy it.

1290
00:58:23,720 --> 00:58:25,480
Speaker 3: So it's like Anna Delvy, but you're on her side.

1291
00:58:25,560 --> 00:58:28,560
Speaker 2: Totally okay. And she's also like kind of an idiot,

1292
00:58:28,600 --> 00:58:30,480
Speaker 2: and it's not it's not meant to be like empowering,

1293
00:58:30,520 --> 00:58:32,160
Speaker 2: like wow, look at her, it's like she's kind of dumb.

1294
00:58:32,720 --> 00:58:36,400
Speaker 3: Wow, that's incredible. Did you have you been to the Hamptons?

1295
00:58:36,560 --> 00:58:38,040
Speaker 2: Yes, we were there together recently.

1296
00:58:38,200 --> 00:58:38,439
Speaker 1: True.

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00:58:38,560 --> 00:58:39,960
Speaker 3: Wow, how was it?

1298
00:58:40,600 --> 00:58:43,960
Speaker 2: I would say, you know, whenever, like we didn't have

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00:58:44,040 --> 00:58:45,840
Speaker 2: the like fan, we were not at.

1300
00:58:45,720 --> 00:58:46,600
Speaker 1: The white Party.

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00:58:46,800 --> 00:58:49,080
Speaker 2: It was very much like we were in like we

1302
00:58:49,160 --> 00:58:51,160
Speaker 2: went to like a sort of crabs track type place.

1303
00:58:51,480 --> 00:58:53,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, what people don't tell you about Have you been

1304
00:58:53,480 --> 00:58:54,560
Speaker 1: to the Hamptons before? No?

1305
00:58:55,240 --> 00:58:58,120
Speaker 3: I just watched Summerhouse and I have seen the episode.

1306
00:58:58,480 --> 00:59:00,240
Speaker 2: Like that is not where.

1307
00:59:00,440 --> 00:59:02,280
Speaker 1: People don't talk you about the Hamptons is that it

1308
00:59:02,320 --> 00:59:03,560
Speaker 1: is literally just Long Island.

1309
00:59:03,640 --> 00:59:05,360
Speaker 2: We were fully watching in just like that on the

1310
00:59:05,400 --> 00:59:06,680
Speaker 2: couch in like a living room.

1311
00:59:06,920 --> 00:59:08,000
Speaker 1: That's like normal.

1312
00:59:08,080 --> 00:59:10,880
Speaker 2: And then went and had like Calamari that was.

1313
00:59:11,240 --> 00:59:11,760
Speaker 1: A six.

1314
00:59:13,640 --> 00:59:17,440
Speaker 3: Country club prices or not it was New York prices.

1315
00:59:17,600 --> 00:59:19,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, But I think I was like,

1316
00:59:20,200 --> 00:59:22,080
Speaker 1: oh when I was first, I was like, the Hamptons

1317
00:59:22,120 --> 00:59:24,360
Speaker 1: is going to be like like the Sex and City episode,

1318
00:59:24,400 --> 00:59:26,640
Speaker 1: And I was like, this is gonna be crazy, and

1319
00:59:26,680 --> 00:59:29,040
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, it's just long island.

1320
00:59:29,160 --> 00:59:30,600
Speaker 3: Was it like the Girls episode?

1321
00:59:31,000 --> 00:59:34,200
Speaker 1: Not even the Girls episode. It's literally like a suburban area.

1322
00:59:34,280 --> 00:59:37,400
Speaker 2: But to be clear, other people around us are having

1323
00:59:37,680 --> 00:59:39,800
Speaker 2: the Sex and the City episode version of the Hampton's

1324
00:59:39,800 --> 00:59:42,040
Speaker 2: Like there are huge, huge mansions, and there are people

1325
00:59:42,040 --> 00:59:44,720
Speaker 2: that have like beachfront properties or whatever. It's just there

1326
00:59:44,760 --> 00:59:45,960
Speaker 2: are also more normal.

1327
00:59:47,320 --> 00:59:49,840
Speaker 3: They're just people that are like, yeah, have you watched

1328
00:59:49,880 --> 00:59:51,640
Speaker 3: The Affair? No?

1329
00:59:51,880 --> 00:59:52,280
Speaker 2: I have to.

1330
00:59:52,480 --> 00:59:54,640
Speaker 3: There's a comedian who has one of my favorite is

1331
00:59:54,640 --> 00:59:58,840
Speaker 3: it Liz McGee. She goes the Affair. It's a show

1332
00:59:58,880 --> 01:00:01,880
Speaker 3: where you get the men's the man's perspective and the truth.

1333
01:00:02,640 --> 01:00:05,640
Speaker 3: And I just I liked that so much. I've remembered

1334
01:00:05,640 --> 01:00:06,880
Speaker 3: it for years. Is it good?

1335
01:00:07,480 --> 01:00:11,120
Speaker 2: Well, So it's about a a woman who's a local,

1336
01:00:11,800 --> 01:00:14,080
Speaker 2: has lived in Montalker whole life, and then a man

1337
01:00:14,320 --> 01:00:16,000
Speaker 2: who is part of a rich family that goes in

1338
01:00:16,080 --> 01:00:18,160
Speaker 2: vacations there and they have an affair. So that's it's

1339
01:00:18,160 --> 01:00:20,680
Speaker 2: sort of like about much like the Jennifer.

1340
01:00:20,360 --> 01:00:23,120
Speaker 3: Lawrence I saw it? Did you?

1341
01:00:23,600 --> 01:00:26,040
Speaker 2: I haven't seen it, but it's very much about like

1342
01:00:26,080 --> 01:00:29,560
Speaker 2: the class distinctions among Hampton's residents.

1343
01:00:30,360 --> 01:00:34,640
Speaker 3: And yeah, they're not afraid to go there mon talk baby. Yeah, okay,

1344
01:00:34,680 --> 01:00:35,560
Speaker 3: I'll watch the affair.

1345
01:00:35,720 --> 01:00:36,080
Speaker 1: I guess.

1346
01:00:36,160 --> 01:00:38,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, there is an original theme song by Fiona Apple.

1347
01:00:39,720 --> 01:00:40,320
Speaker 2: You believe that?

1348
01:00:40,360 --> 01:00:40,640
Speaker 3: Wow?

1349
01:00:40,720 --> 01:00:43,760
Speaker 1: Yeah felt sophistication.

1350
01:00:44,960 --> 01:00:48,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, she's cool. I remember very vividly buying a Fiona

1351
01:00:48,320 --> 01:00:51,000
Speaker 3: Apple CD and a Whitney Houston CD at the same

1352
01:00:51,040 --> 01:00:53,880
Speaker 3: time at the store, and then the guy asked, which

1353
01:00:53,960 --> 01:00:56,800
Speaker 3: one's your favorite, and I went, I don't know. Yeah,

1354
01:00:56,840 --> 01:00:59,439
Speaker 3: you hadn't listened yet, child trying to learn my stay.

1355
01:01:00,200 --> 01:01:03,600
Speaker 3: I'm just I'm just buying what society told me about.

1356
01:01:03,600 --> 01:01:06,280
Speaker 1: It sounds usually trying to start up a conversation with

1357
01:01:06,280 --> 01:01:06,680
Speaker 1: a child.

1358
01:01:06,920 --> 01:01:12,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, oh my god, weird. It is weird being

1359
01:01:12,120 --> 01:01:14,480
Speaker 3: a girl. And then like I remember in junior high

1360
01:01:14,520 --> 01:01:16,200
Speaker 3: this girl data that she was twelve and she was

1361
01:01:16,280 --> 01:01:18,520
Speaker 3: dating a twenty two year old No, and then at

1362
01:01:18,560 --> 01:01:20,800
Speaker 3: the time we're like, wow, she's so fucking.

1363
01:01:20,480 --> 01:01:23,960
Speaker 2: Cool exactly, and then you're like, middle school are so harrowing. Yeah,

1364
01:01:24,280 --> 01:01:25,439
Speaker 2: there was always that one girl.

1365
01:01:25,680 --> 01:01:28,200
Speaker 3: Yes, and she also like cut her thighs. Sorry to

1366
01:01:28,240 --> 01:01:31,240
Speaker 3: get so grim, Lisa, I'm sorry.

1367
01:01:32,040 --> 01:01:33,600
Speaker 1: I think the sag strake says, we's not a lot

1368
01:01:33,600 --> 01:01:39,120
Speaker 1: to talk about that, Lisa, Lisa, Sorry, Liza, what about

1369
01:01:39,120 --> 01:01:42,640
Speaker 1: ax throwing is straight? We literally have barely talked about.

1370
01:01:42,880 --> 01:01:46,040
Speaker 3: I know, it's just that. To me, it's just like

1371
01:01:46,080 --> 01:01:47,920
Speaker 3: a date spot for men to try to prove their

1372
01:01:47,920 --> 01:01:51,120
Speaker 3: worth no strength, and then like women pretending to be idiots.

1373
01:01:51,560 --> 01:01:54,520
Speaker 3: And it's also I liked what you were saying where

1374
01:01:54,520 --> 01:01:55,760
Speaker 3: it's like, why don't you just go to a bar

1375
01:01:55,840 --> 01:01:58,440
Speaker 3: and have fun? Like why do you need this activity?

1376
01:01:59,320 --> 01:02:01,760
Speaker 2: What you're saying about women pretending to be idiots is

1377
01:02:01,840 --> 01:02:03,200
Speaker 2: a big part of it.

1378
01:02:03,200 --> 01:02:05,240
Speaker 3: It's like you, I know, you go to Berry's. Yeah,

1379
01:02:05,280 --> 01:02:07,040
Speaker 3: I know, you're out there doing push ups, like there's

1380
01:02:07,080 --> 01:02:08,720
Speaker 3: no way that you can't throw this acts.

1381
01:02:08,800 --> 01:02:11,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like, well I might be empowered, but I'm weak.

1382
01:02:11,840 --> 01:02:13,200
Speaker 2: And then a man's like love that.

1383
01:02:14,160 --> 01:02:16,480
Speaker 3: Or it's just like a you know, a birth It's

1384
01:02:16,520 --> 01:02:18,520
Speaker 3: also a place for birthday parties where you have too

1385
01:02:18,520 --> 01:02:20,640
Speaker 3: many different groups of people that don't know each other,

1386
01:02:20,680 --> 01:02:23,520
Speaker 3: and then you bring them into this sectivity that.

1387
01:02:23,520 --> 01:02:26,200
Speaker 2: Is so Yes, the promise of an activity to bring

1388
01:02:26,240 --> 01:02:30,080
Speaker 2: people together is one of the sort of lies of

1389
01:02:30,120 --> 01:02:31,960
Speaker 2: our society, you know what I mean? It is the

1390
01:02:32,000 --> 01:02:34,240
Speaker 2: great light. It's like okay, so if all of us

1391
01:02:34,280 --> 01:02:36,840
Speaker 2: throw axes, then we will become friends. I guess kind

1392
01:02:36,880 --> 01:02:38,200
Speaker 2: of something to talk about.

1393
01:02:38,240 --> 01:02:41,240
Speaker 1: You literally need to have like a one drink before

1394
01:02:41,320 --> 01:02:44,720
Speaker 1: where everyone sort of meets talks a little, and then

1395
01:02:44,760 --> 01:02:46,760
Speaker 1: I think you can do an activity and then but

1396
01:02:46,920 --> 01:02:48,880
Speaker 1: only for like a half hour. It has to be

1397
01:02:48,920 --> 01:02:52,280
Speaker 1: an icebreaker and not like the whole event. I think no.

1398
01:02:52,320 --> 01:02:54,680
Speaker 3: And then you also you don't like do you know

1399
01:02:54,720 --> 01:02:57,960
Speaker 3: the game Tellustrations? So it's a really fun game. There's

1400
01:02:58,040 --> 01:03:02,200
Speaker 3: like notebooks and like a card and let's say the

1401
01:03:02,240 --> 01:03:04,880
Speaker 3: first thing it says cat with a hat, so you

1402
01:03:04,920 --> 01:03:07,680
Speaker 3: like draw it, you pass it, and you'd pass your

1403
01:03:07,760 --> 01:03:10,760
Speaker 3: drawing and then you would have to guess what that is.

1404
01:03:10,840 --> 01:03:12,600
Speaker 3: So the next car you would write what you think

1405
01:03:12,600 --> 01:03:15,280
Speaker 3: it is, and then whatever he wrote, you write what

1406
01:03:15,360 --> 01:03:16,880
Speaker 3: he wrote, and you like keep going. So it's like

1407
01:03:16,920 --> 01:03:21,040
Speaker 3: telephone but pictionary. Oh okay, but I take it seriously.

1408
01:03:21,840 --> 01:03:23,800
Speaker 3: And I was playing with a group of like art

1409
01:03:23,800 --> 01:03:26,840
Speaker 3: teachers who are like goofy, and they were just doing

1410
01:03:26,920 --> 01:03:29,360
Speaker 3: silly stuff and I was in a rage the whole time,

1411
01:03:29,480 --> 01:03:31,040
Speaker 3: and then they made fun. They're like, do you really

1412
01:03:31,040 --> 01:03:34,200
Speaker 3: care who wins this? And I'm like draw what's what

1413
01:03:34,280 --> 01:03:37,000
Speaker 3: I wrote? Like, I was getting so upset. So that's

1414
01:03:37,040 --> 01:03:39,600
Speaker 3: another kind of risk with bringing all these groups together.

1415
01:03:39,600 --> 01:03:42,440
Speaker 3: There's gonna be one psychopath who takes it too seriously,

1416
01:03:42,960 --> 01:03:45,080
Speaker 3: gets mad at people who don't care who's you know,

1417
01:03:45,120 --> 01:03:48,480
Speaker 3: who's keeping track like all of that stuff, or like bowling,

1418
01:03:48,520 --> 01:03:51,120
Speaker 3: like what's Oh, I'm gonna go get order food. You

1419
01:03:51,160 --> 01:03:52,880
Speaker 3: take my turn, and then someone's like, you can't take

1420
01:03:52,920 --> 01:03:53,240
Speaker 3: the turn.

1421
01:03:53,400 --> 01:03:55,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, you don't know the level of how

1422
01:03:55,600 --> 01:03:56,920
Speaker 2: seriously you take it is.

1423
01:03:57,200 --> 01:03:59,320
Speaker 1: I have been yelled at at a dinner party for

1424
01:03:59,480 --> 01:04:01,920
Speaker 1: like not taking it seriously. Yeah, and it was like,

1425
01:04:02,480 --> 01:04:03,280
Speaker 1: I swear I'm trying.

1426
01:04:03,440 --> 01:04:07,080
Speaker 3: No, the person like me is always bad. I'm bad

1427
01:04:07,120 --> 01:04:09,200
Speaker 3: in that situation. But I love a game and I

1428
01:04:09,240 --> 01:04:12,040
Speaker 3: want to guess and try my hardest.

1429
01:04:12,120 --> 01:04:15,200
Speaker 2: Totally. Well, sometimes you'll get a peek into the darkness

1430
01:04:15,200 --> 01:04:18,960
Speaker 2: of someone's personality with games. Like my mom, So there's

1431
01:04:18,960 --> 01:04:21,360
Speaker 2: a Greek you know on New Year's you play card games,

1432
01:04:21,480 --> 01:04:24,000
Speaker 2: don't Is that like a common tradition. Okay, that's what

1433
01:04:24,000 --> 01:04:25,640
Speaker 2: I did with my parents. Well there you go. Okay,

1434
01:04:27,000 --> 01:04:29,240
Speaker 2: and my mom is always like, oh, I'm not gonna

1435
01:04:29,360 --> 01:04:30,840
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna play this year. And then at some

1436
01:04:30,880 --> 01:04:33,360
Speaker 2: point I realized it's because she is so competitive that

1437
01:04:33,400 --> 01:04:36,480
Speaker 2: she knows it will ruin her entire night. Wow, she

1438
01:04:36,560 --> 01:04:39,240
Speaker 2: has to take herself out of it. She no, you

1439
01:04:39,280 --> 01:04:41,640
Speaker 2: know me, I'm you know you know me? And then

1440
01:04:41,840 --> 01:04:42,840
Speaker 2: you realize that's why.

1441
01:04:42,960 --> 01:04:44,760
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I was playing I think the same games.

1442
01:04:44,760 --> 01:04:48,040
Speaker 3: Illustrations has been following me everywhere. But I was joined

1443
01:04:48,120 --> 01:04:51,560
Speaker 3: my American style friends for Christmas. I don't you know,

1444
01:04:51,560 --> 01:04:54,800
Speaker 3: I'm a Jew, but I love to do Christmas with

1445
01:04:54,840 --> 01:04:57,840
Speaker 3: American families. And so we're at Christmas, we're playing the game.

1446
01:04:57,920 --> 01:05:02,960
Speaker 3: The timer ran out and whatever. Someone's husband to the

1447
01:05:03,000 --> 01:05:06,120
Speaker 3: mom was like, the Timer's done. And I had to

1448
01:05:06,160 --> 01:05:08,080
Speaker 3: be like, don't you yell at the matriarch of this family?

1449
01:05:08,120 --> 01:05:09,360
Speaker 3: Are you out of your fucking mind?

1450
01:05:09,440 --> 01:05:10,520
Speaker 1: It's fucking Christmas.

1451
01:05:10,760 --> 01:05:13,320
Speaker 3: I like flipped out on him. I'm like, how dare

1452
01:05:13,400 --> 01:05:15,920
Speaker 3: you rush the woman who has brought us all here.

1453
01:05:16,640 --> 01:05:19,440
Speaker 3: I was livid that he was just like Tina the timer,

1454
01:05:19,560 --> 01:05:21,280
Speaker 3: and I was like, shut your fucking mouth.

1455
01:05:21,360 --> 01:05:23,960
Speaker 2: I remember so much. I feel like we have in common,

1456
01:05:24,200 --> 01:05:29,080
Speaker 2: like being sort of like a white immigrant that completely

1457
01:05:29,120 --> 01:05:32,240
Speaker 2: passes as fully American. You see all the darkness like

1458
01:05:32,280 --> 01:05:35,120
Speaker 2: American white families, and you're like, they don't know what

1459
01:05:35,320 --> 01:05:37,560
Speaker 2: is going on inside my head right now, Like I

1460
01:05:37,600 --> 01:05:38,400
Speaker 2: am in shock.

1461
01:05:39,120 --> 01:05:41,840
Speaker 3: I'm in well because our friend. But we're dramatic in

1462
01:05:41,880 --> 01:05:42,520
Speaker 3: different ways.

1463
01:05:42,600 --> 01:05:42,840
Speaker 1: Right.

1464
01:05:43,000 --> 01:05:45,320
Speaker 3: My big thing that with my family that frustrates me

1465
01:05:45,440 --> 01:05:48,720
Speaker 3: is every family event we would go to with extended family,

1466
01:05:49,080 --> 01:05:50,920
Speaker 3: we would wear safety pins on the inside of our

1467
01:05:50,960 --> 01:05:53,040
Speaker 3: clothes to ward away the evil eye because we don't

1468
01:05:53,040 --> 01:05:53,800
Speaker 3: trust our family.

1469
01:05:53,840 --> 01:05:56,880
Speaker 2: Well, you know, people invent of course a huge thing

1470
01:05:56,920 --> 01:05:57,480
Speaker 2: in our culture.

1471
01:05:57,560 --> 01:05:59,080
Speaker 3: And now as an adult, my parents are like, why

1472
01:05:59,080 --> 01:06:01,120
Speaker 3: don't you like why don't you like your cud? Why

1473
01:06:01,120 --> 01:06:02,120
Speaker 3: don't you hang out with their? An?

1474
01:06:02,280 --> 01:06:02,480
Speaker 1: I go.

1475
01:06:03,240 --> 01:06:05,400
Speaker 3: You taught me my whole life to be scared of them,

1476
01:06:05,520 --> 01:06:08,840
Speaker 3: to wear things and do little evil eye shit because

1477
01:06:08,880 --> 01:06:10,640
Speaker 3: our family is evil, and now you want me to

1478
01:06:10,720 --> 01:06:12,800
Speaker 3: just hang out with them. You taught me not to

1479
01:06:12,840 --> 01:06:15,080
Speaker 3: trust them. I don't trust them anymore. And then after

1480
01:06:15,120 --> 01:06:18,360
Speaker 3: every family event we come home and talk shit about them.

1481
01:06:18,640 --> 01:06:20,600
Speaker 3: And then now I'm like such a shit talker and

1482
01:06:20,640 --> 01:06:23,440
Speaker 3: it's like I was just raised talking shit about everyone

1483
01:06:23,520 --> 01:06:25,120
Speaker 3: that was related to me all the time.

1484
01:06:25,280 --> 01:06:26,760
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it's a form of bonding.

1485
01:06:27,160 --> 01:06:29,480
Speaker 1: Well, I was raised to talk shit as well. Yeah,

1486
01:06:29,520 --> 01:06:31,800
Speaker 1: everyone talks shit, right, It's toxic.

1487
01:06:31,600 --> 01:06:34,680
Speaker 3: Because this is my big gripe. Everyone's like when you're sixty,

1488
01:06:34,680 --> 01:06:36,880
Speaker 3: you realize no one is even paying attention to you.

1489
01:06:37,000 --> 01:06:40,680
Speaker 3: No one thinks about it wrong, I'm thinking about everybody.

1490
01:06:41,960 --> 01:06:45,400
Speaker 3: I'm judging everyone. Are people really not thinking about others?

1491
01:06:45,600 --> 01:06:47,480
Speaker 3: Are we small? Because you know, it's like big people

1492
01:06:47,480 --> 01:06:50,120
Speaker 3: talk about ideas, Small people talk about people, and I go,

1493
01:06:50,240 --> 01:06:52,960
Speaker 3: I've been talking about the same people for a decade

1494
01:06:53,080 --> 01:06:55,680
Speaker 3: with the same people, and it's the same story.

1495
01:06:55,760 --> 01:06:56,160
Speaker 2: I love it.

1496
01:06:56,280 --> 01:06:56,440
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1497
01:06:56,800 --> 01:06:58,600
Speaker 2: By the way, by the way I talk about ideas,

1498
01:06:58,600 --> 01:07:00,520
Speaker 2: here's an idea integrity. She does have it.

1499
01:07:01,680 --> 01:07:04,280
Speaker 1: Yeah. It's also like so funny to be like judgmental

1500
01:07:04,320 --> 01:07:05,760
Speaker 1: of like, yeah, you guys need to play your little

1501
01:07:05,840 --> 01:07:07,480
Speaker 1: x oring game. I just need to talk about the

1502
01:07:07,480 --> 01:07:09,680
Speaker 1: same person for ten years.

1503
01:07:09,840 --> 01:07:10,040
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1504
01:07:10,080 --> 01:07:11,640
Speaker 2: Well, by the way, I'm sorry to ring the jone

1505
01:07:11,680 --> 01:07:13,440
Speaker 2: date in Alarm, but we tell ourselves stories in order

1506
01:07:13,480 --> 01:07:15,760
Speaker 2: to live, and you know what you are not. You know,

1507
01:07:15,840 --> 01:07:17,640
Speaker 2: it is not something you do in order to live

1508
01:07:17,720 --> 01:07:20,800
Speaker 2: act throwing. When I'm talking shit about someone, I am

1509
01:07:20,840 --> 01:07:23,640
Speaker 2: at least doing oral storytelling and I'm and I am.

1510
01:07:23,680 --> 01:07:27,640
Speaker 1: Well you're creating morals. You're creating sort of the new religion,

1511
01:07:27,720 --> 01:07:29,040
Speaker 1: even of a new religion.

1512
01:07:29,560 --> 01:07:31,520
Speaker 2: You are playing with oral traditions.

1513
01:07:31,640 --> 01:07:33,800
Speaker 1: Of course, did you see.

1514
01:07:33,640 --> 01:07:35,800
Speaker 3: That there was a TikTok where it was like a

1515
01:07:35,840 --> 01:07:39,320
Speaker 3: group of women at dinner, like and it's and then

1516
01:07:39,360 --> 01:07:42,680
Speaker 3: it said first one who talks shit about someone pays

1517
01:07:42,720 --> 01:07:46,080
Speaker 3: for everybody. So it's all these women just silent. But

1518
01:07:46,120 --> 01:07:49,000
Speaker 3: then the comments are all people being like wow, small mind.

1519
01:07:49,160 --> 01:07:53,360
Speaker 3: Really that's how And I'm like fuck off, Like yeah, yeah,

1520
01:07:53,440 --> 01:07:55,680
Speaker 3: I want to talk about these people over and over,

1521
01:07:55,960 --> 01:07:57,800
Speaker 3: Like even my friends right now we're having like this

1522
01:07:57,920 --> 01:08:00,520
Speaker 3: friendship lunch today. I'm just like I can't wait to

1523
01:08:00,560 --> 01:08:03,800
Speaker 3: get up. I can't wait to know how this conversation went.

1524
01:08:04,240 --> 01:08:07,760
Speaker 3: I just want to gossip constantly. And I you know,

1525
01:08:07,760 --> 01:08:10,880
Speaker 3: I'm gonna where it happens, you know, probably behind my

1526
01:08:10,960 --> 01:08:11,560
Speaker 3: back too.

1527
01:08:11,600 --> 01:08:15,120
Speaker 1: Well aware of it. Yeah, I mean it's a fair trade.

1528
01:08:15,160 --> 01:08:17,479
Speaker 1: It's sort of like yeah whatever. I'm sure people are

1529
01:08:17,479 --> 01:08:17,920
Speaker 1: talking it.

1530
01:08:19,400 --> 01:08:21,360
Speaker 3: Because all comedy road trips too. All I do is

1531
01:08:21,400 --> 01:08:23,320
Speaker 3: will we talk shit? So if I've never come up like,

1532
01:08:23,320 --> 01:08:27,040
Speaker 3: I'd be upset. Honestly, I have flaws, of course, find

1533
01:08:27,080 --> 01:08:28,320
Speaker 3: them talk about them.

1534
01:08:28,600 --> 01:08:31,080
Speaker 1: Explore, you know, maybe use them in a script.

1535
01:08:31,200 --> 01:08:33,160
Speaker 3: But you know what's bad when someone comes out to

1536
01:08:33,160 --> 01:08:35,280
Speaker 3: you and goes, oh, this person said these horrible things

1537
01:08:35,320 --> 01:08:37,760
Speaker 3: to you, and I'm like, why would you do that?

1538
01:08:37,960 --> 01:08:40,360
Speaker 1: A breach of trust and also doesn't help anything.

1539
01:08:40,479 --> 01:08:42,840
Speaker 3: I don't. Yeah, I really That's happened to me a

1540
01:08:42,880 --> 01:08:45,479
Speaker 3: few times in my life, and those things have stuck

1541
01:08:45,520 --> 01:08:48,360
Speaker 3: with me for like, I don't I hate that people

1542
01:08:48,520 --> 01:08:52,639
Speaker 3: brought me into it. Yeah, but yeah, I don't. Why

1543
01:08:52,760 --> 01:08:55,240
Speaker 3: is gossip? Is it just because it's a more feminine thing.

1544
01:08:56,439 --> 01:08:59,719
Speaker 2: Well, gossip is definitely stigmatized because it's a feminine thing.

1545
01:09:01,080 --> 01:09:04,640
Speaker 2: But man, I mean, who is it that has the

1546
01:09:04,760 --> 01:09:06,560
Speaker 2: joke that's I think it's Julia Shipley. She has a

1547
01:09:06,600 --> 01:09:09,840
Speaker 2: joke that's like conspiracy theories are the ultimate gossip and

1548
01:09:09,880 --> 01:09:11,240
Speaker 2: that is very male coded.

1549
01:09:11,360 --> 01:09:12,160
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

1550
01:09:12,360 --> 01:09:15,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I mean. It's like, so you

1551
01:09:15,120 --> 01:09:18,200
Speaker 2: think of gossip as this like female thing, but in fact,

1552
01:09:18,320 --> 01:09:23,360
Speaker 2: like I don't know, thinking the like hearing something about

1553
01:09:23,560 --> 01:09:26,960
Speaker 2: some like some illuminati thing is like the ultimate.

1554
01:09:28,320 --> 01:09:30,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I grew up on a sweekly entertainment Tonight,

1555
01:09:30,840 --> 01:09:32,840
Speaker 3: I just want to know everything about everyone. The only

1556
01:09:33,000 --> 01:09:35,800
Speaker 3: time I get sad is I'm a perpetually single person

1557
01:09:35,880 --> 01:09:38,559
Speaker 3: judging everyone's relationships constantly. Who won't get out there and

1558
01:09:38,600 --> 01:09:41,840
Speaker 3: meet somebody? So that's that's sad.

1559
01:09:41,880 --> 01:09:44,880
Speaker 2: But judging relationship is a classic though. It's a class,

1560
01:09:44,920 --> 01:09:47,080
Speaker 2: and it's much better than judging like your single friends

1561
01:09:47,080 --> 01:09:47,799
Speaker 2: for being single.

1562
01:09:48,760 --> 01:09:49,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I wouldn't.

1563
01:09:49,760 --> 01:09:53,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, being single makes sense to me. Marrying a dud

1564
01:09:53,439 --> 01:09:57,639
Speaker 3: does not well objectively. Being single makes more sense than

1565
01:09:57,840 --> 01:10:03,240
Speaker 3: marriage period. Yeah, I want to be married, though, do

1566
01:10:03,280 --> 01:10:06,920
Speaker 3: you do? I think it's so romantic. I agree, yeah,

1567
01:10:07,439 --> 01:10:10,719
Speaker 3: Like I love the little not traditions with little moments

1568
01:10:10,760 --> 01:10:13,000
Speaker 3: of it all. If I don't, I think it's humiliating

1569
01:10:13,040 --> 01:10:15,559
Speaker 3: to be so vulnerable and earnest in front of you know,

1570
01:10:15,640 --> 01:10:20,439
Speaker 3: your colleagues and distant relatives. But I think it's just

1571
01:10:20,479 --> 01:10:23,559
Speaker 3: so romantic to make this kind of declaration with somebody.

1572
01:10:24,080 --> 01:10:26,519
Speaker 3: But it never seems to truly work out except for

1573
01:10:26,560 --> 01:10:28,280
Speaker 3: my sister shut up.

1574
01:10:29,760 --> 01:10:32,479
Speaker 1: I'm always sort of like, why do you need to? Like?

1575
01:10:32,520 --> 01:10:35,360
Speaker 1: The proclamation of it is always like why, Like I'm like,

1576
01:10:35,439 --> 01:10:37,960
Speaker 1: have the party, but I'm like, I'm always like, what

1577
01:10:38,000 --> 01:10:38,679
Speaker 1: are you doing?

1578
01:10:39,439 --> 01:10:42,200
Speaker 3: Even not even running the little courthouse? Because I think

1579
01:10:42,200 --> 01:10:44,760
Speaker 3: about wedding anytime I'm anywhere I go. Oh, we're gonna

1580
01:10:44,760 --> 01:10:47,240
Speaker 3: be a wedding here. I plan weddings everywhere I go, everywhrestaurant.

1581
01:10:47,400 --> 01:10:49,320
Speaker 3: This would be a good rehearsal dinner. This would be fun.

1582
01:10:49,360 --> 01:10:51,800
Speaker 3: I'm gonna shut this down. Like everywhere I go, I

1583
01:10:51,840 --> 01:10:54,000
Speaker 3: think about what kind of wedding themed event I would

1584
01:10:54,000 --> 01:10:54,439
Speaker 3: have there.

1585
01:10:54,640 --> 01:10:56,439
Speaker 1: Wow, what would you have in this room?

1586
01:10:57,280 --> 01:11:00,320
Speaker 3: In this room would be the photobooth. Of course this

1587
01:11:00,360 --> 01:11:04,639
Speaker 3: would be the photo but there's a perfect red wall,

1588
01:11:04,840 --> 01:11:07,439
Speaker 3: and then all the props will be here, the lights ready.

1589
01:11:07,520 --> 01:11:09,920
Speaker 2: Yeah. My one comment on weddings and then we have

1590
01:11:10,000 --> 01:11:13,360
Speaker 2: to do shout outs, is we need to figure out

1591
01:11:13,360 --> 01:11:17,080
Speaker 2: the food situation. Like wedding. The food at weddings is

1592
01:11:17,120 --> 01:11:19,280
Speaker 2: the worst food you will ever have, including like making

1593
01:11:19,280 --> 01:11:21,200
Speaker 2: an egg that is under cooked. I'm kind of obsessed

1594
01:11:21,240 --> 01:11:22,559
Speaker 2: with it, though, No I.

1595
01:11:22,600 --> 01:11:26,200
Speaker 3: Will, so I'll say some stuff. You need richer friends

1596
01:11:26,479 --> 01:11:29,200
Speaker 3: because the rich they have to fit. Well, what it

1597
01:11:29,240 --> 01:11:32,040
Speaker 3: comes down to, my cousin had a three hundred thousand

1598
01:11:32,000 --> 01:11:32,639
Speaker 3: dollars wedding.

1599
01:11:33,320 --> 01:11:34,280
Speaker 1: You just you ever?

1600
01:11:35,200 --> 01:11:37,559
Speaker 2: No, I think the solution is you have to have

1601
01:11:37,640 --> 01:11:41,360
Speaker 2: wedding celebrations at restaurants rather than at a venue with

1602
01:11:41,439 --> 01:11:43,400
Speaker 2: catering like that, don't you agree?

1603
01:11:43,520 --> 01:11:47,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, But my cousin had danielle chef Daniel Blue, he catered.

1604
01:11:49,360 --> 01:11:51,840
Speaker 2: Do you know I've met Daniel Blued. I did not,

1605
01:11:52,320 --> 01:11:56,200
Speaker 2: So I was telling Sam this, Okay, truncate the story

1606
01:11:56,400 --> 01:11:57,040
Speaker 2: and then I have.

1607
01:11:57,040 --> 01:11:58,560
Speaker 3: To, I know, we have to rush, but I have

1608
01:11:58,600 --> 01:11:59,439
Speaker 3: a comment on it.

1609
01:11:59,560 --> 01:12:01,840
Speaker 2: Okay, basically it's not an interesting story. But I met

1610
01:12:01,880 --> 01:12:04,439
Speaker 2: him and he's very nice. But I want to know

1611
01:12:04,479 --> 01:12:05,880
Speaker 2: what you're Yeah, he's very so.

1612
01:12:06,200 --> 01:12:10,559
Speaker 3: You know, we're these like wild Soviet Jews, so most

1613
01:12:10,560 --> 01:12:14,160
Speaker 3: of our weddings are family style. It's tons of constant food.

1614
01:12:14,720 --> 01:12:17,200
Speaker 3: The bottles of liquor are on the table with chasers,

1615
01:12:17,240 --> 01:12:19,200
Speaker 3: and the food is just there and you're all eating

1616
01:12:19,240 --> 01:12:21,320
Speaker 3: all night. There's not like dinner than dancing. It's like

1617
01:12:21,439 --> 01:12:24,800
Speaker 3: constant throughout. So at my cousin's wedding, she's very American.

1618
01:12:25,200 --> 01:12:28,000
Speaker 3: She had this Daniel guy like that's who catered. So's

1619
01:12:28,040 --> 01:12:31,840
Speaker 3: just one plated, nice meal. And the Russian relatives lost

1620
01:12:31,880 --> 01:12:35,280
Speaker 3: their minds. We're asking for more food, talking shit about

1621
01:12:35,280 --> 01:12:37,599
Speaker 3: the sweat like they were pissed there wasn't more food.

1622
01:12:37,680 --> 01:12:39,160
Speaker 2: Cousin had Daniel balloon.

1623
01:12:39,439 --> 01:12:41,320
Speaker 3: Well he wasn't there, but his catering, like he.

1624
01:12:42,080 --> 01:12:45,320
Speaker 2: Has a catering. Yeah, but that's so probably like so expensive.

1625
01:12:45,320 --> 01:12:47,480
Speaker 3: Her wedding dress alone was thirty thousand dollars.

1626
01:12:48,040 --> 01:12:49,240
Speaker 1: What does she do?

1627
01:12:49,600 --> 01:12:54,200
Speaker 3: Finance? Shiit corporate, corporate, real estate and her finance stuff.

1628
01:12:54,280 --> 01:12:54,479
Speaker 2: You know.

1629
01:12:54,640 --> 01:12:56,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're changing careers starting now.

1630
01:12:56,439 --> 01:12:58,080
Speaker 3: She's been to a linear three times.

1631
01:12:58,760 --> 01:12:59,400
Speaker 1: What's a LINEU.

1632
01:12:59,640 --> 01:13:02,040
Speaker 3: It's known as like the seventh best restaurant in the world.

1633
01:13:02,040 --> 01:13:04,519
Speaker 3: It's in Chicago. It's and then the chef famously had

1634
01:13:04,560 --> 01:13:06,960
Speaker 3: like mouth cancer, lost his taste buds. It's wild. It's

1635
01:13:07,000 --> 01:13:08,320
Speaker 3: like molecular astrono.

1636
01:13:08,080 --> 01:13:09,360
Speaker 2: And it has really gone downhill since.

1637
01:13:11,960 --> 01:13:12,200
Speaker 1: Wow.

1638
01:13:12,920 --> 01:13:15,760
Speaker 3: But yeah, well, you know what I love at a

1639
01:13:15,760 --> 01:13:18,240
Speaker 3: wedding for food. I love an after wedding brunch, Like

1640
01:13:18,280 --> 01:13:20,880
Speaker 3: the brunch the next day is my favorite. Every you know,

1641
01:13:20,920 --> 01:13:23,240
Speaker 3: people are fucking they come in, they're haggard, you talk

1642
01:13:23,240 --> 01:13:25,559
Speaker 3: about it and everyone, you know, everyone eating eggs. That's

1643
01:13:25,560 --> 01:13:26,320
Speaker 3: like my favorite.

1644
01:13:26,400 --> 01:13:28,080
Speaker 2: You know what I've noticed recently as a trend, And

1645
01:13:28,120 --> 01:13:30,920
Speaker 2: maybe I don't know if this is common or if

1646
01:13:30,920 --> 01:13:32,920
Speaker 2: I just wanted two weddings that had this. You have

1647
01:13:33,040 --> 01:13:36,360
Speaker 2: the dinner dancing starts, people are dancing for two, three,

1648
01:13:36,479 --> 01:13:39,040
Speaker 2: four hours, and then there is sort of a secret

1649
01:13:39,080 --> 01:13:43,160
Speaker 2: post credits drunk meal where they bring out like.

1650
01:13:44,280 --> 01:13:46,280
Speaker 3: If you don't have drunk food and a photo booth,

1651
01:13:46,280 --> 01:13:49,200
Speaker 3: you didn't really get married. That I believe in. I

1652
01:13:49,240 --> 01:13:51,000
Speaker 3: want to wear a silly hat in a photo booth

1653
01:13:51,040 --> 01:13:55,800
Speaker 3: and I want a cheeseburger or in my mouth at midnight. Well,

1654
01:13:55,800 --> 01:13:57,400
Speaker 3: because I went to a wedding where it was just

1655
01:13:57,439 --> 01:13:59,280
Speaker 3: one taco truck and you got one ticket, and that's

1656
01:13:59,320 --> 01:14:03,240
Speaker 3: what everyone was black out because there was no food.

1657
01:14:03,720 --> 01:14:04,519
Speaker 1: No, that's evil.

1658
01:14:04,680 --> 01:14:06,919
Speaker 3: It was just one ticketed taco.

1659
01:14:07,240 --> 01:14:10,800
Speaker 2: If you're ticketing your food, that's and an open bar.

1660
01:14:11,280 --> 01:14:14,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, and so it was just everyone was like we

1661
01:14:14,000 --> 01:14:15,639
Speaker 3: were So you're trying.

1662
01:14:15,439 --> 01:14:18,000
Speaker 2: To go back for seconds and you don't have a ticket. Yeah,

1663
01:14:18,439 --> 01:14:22,360
Speaker 2: that's all shameful. That's embarrassing, it really is.

1664
01:14:22,720 --> 01:14:25,680
Speaker 3: But you're right. The food is never that good. It's

1665
01:14:25,680 --> 01:14:27,639
Speaker 3: always the apps that are good, or the rehearsal dinner

1666
01:14:27,640 --> 01:14:31,840
Speaker 3: food or something like that. But I think family style

1667
01:14:32,080 --> 01:14:33,479
Speaker 3: is better because then you don't have to have this.

1668
01:14:33,600 --> 01:14:35,680
Speaker 3: It's like a plate of cut up steak already. I

1669
01:14:35,680 --> 01:14:36,599
Speaker 3: love family style.

1670
01:14:36,720 --> 01:14:39,160
Speaker 1: I like family style too, The only thing I want

1671
01:14:39,160 --> 01:14:41,960
Speaker 1: to say about wedding food is that I like trying,

1672
01:14:42,760 --> 01:14:44,679
Speaker 1: like in the same way that like going to all

1673
01:14:44,760 --> 01:14:47,400
Speaker 1: gay bars to like see sort of how everyone's doing

1674
01:14:47,400 --> 01:14:50,040
Speaker 1: it and like what the little nuanced differences are. I'm

1675
01:14:50,080 --> 01:14:53,080
Speaker 1: obsessed with wedding food to be like, Okay, what kind

1676
01:14:53,160 --> 01:14:54,639
Speaker 1: of bad is it going to be? Like what's gonna

1677
01:14:54,640 --> 01:14:55,240
Speaker 1: surprise me?

1678
01:14:55,680 --> 01:14:58,000
Speaker 3: And I think I was kissed because I put salmon

1679
01:14:58,080 --> 01:15:00,560
Speaker 3: and then I got some fucking rice instead of mashed potatoes.

1680
01:15:00,920 --> 01:15:03,360
Speaker 3: I didn't know that, and then my friends are like, duh,

1681
01:15:03,520 --> 01:15:05,719
Speaker 3: but so I learned that recently was there.

1682
01:15:05,600 --> 01:15:07,840
Speaker 2: An option for massed potatoes. Well, the steak was with

1683
01:15:07,920 --> 01:15:12,080
Speaker 2: mashed potatoes, but I get why the salmon would of course, of.

1684
01:15:12,040 --> 01:15:14,720
Speaker 3: Course, but all like I want a mashed potato at

1685
01:15:14,760 --> 01:15:17,439
Speaker 3: a wedding. Do you guys know the show Four Weddings?

1686
01:15:17,760 --> 01:15:20,320
Speaker 2: No, you would love like the reboot of Four Weddings

1687
01:15:20,320 --> 01:15:20,839
Speaker 2: in a Funeral.

1688
01:15:21,040 --> 01:15:23,360
Speaker 3: You know you're gonna love it. It's an old TLC

1689
01:15:23,479 --> 01:15:25,880
Speaker 3: show where four women go to each other's weddings and

1690
01:15:25,920 --> 01:15:28,479
Speaker 3: then rate each other on the scale of one to

1691
01:15:28,560 --> 01:15:32,599
Speaker 3: tent for food, dress, venue, and overall experience. I love

1692
01:15:32,800 --> 01:15:36,360
Speaker 3: and then the winner gets a free honeymoon. But all

1693
01:15:36,400 --> 01:15:40,120
Speaker 3: the weddings are bad, and it'll be like one woman going,

1694
01:15:40,280 --> 01:15:42,360
Speaker 3: I have a dry wedding. I don't believe in liquor.

1695
01:15:42,360 --> 01:15:44,679
Speaker 3: And then the next bride's like, I like to party,

1696
01:15:45,439 --> 01:15:47,360
Speaker 3: and then it's like I think a wedding is a theme.

1697
01:15:47,439 --> 01:15:49,080
Speaker 3: Themes are sick. And then the other woman's like, I'm

1698
01:15:49,080 --> 01:15:51,680
Speaker 3: having a Halloween wedding. And then so they ruin each

1699
01:15:51,680 --> 01:15:54,160
Speaker 3: other's lives going to these weddings that they hate out,

1700
01:15:54,320 --> 01:15:54,799
Speaker 3: you know, they.

1701
01:15:54,680 --> 01:15:55,720
Speaker 2: Like they should do that with we.

1702
01:15:56,040 --> 01:15:57,439
Speaker 1: That would be so fun if.

1703
01:15:57,320 --> 01:15:58,840
Speaker 3: They have not had a gay episode that is so

1704
01:15:58,960 --> 01:16:03,680
Speaker 3: fucked up. I don't think they have, but theater and so,

1705
01:16:03,760 --> 01:16:05,560
Speaker 3: and then the women are like vicious. They'll be like

1706
01:16:05,560 --> 01:16:06,879
Speaker 3: I had to wait in the line at the buffet,

1707
01:16:06,960 --> 01:16:09,639
Speaker 3: so I give this wedding a six, you know, stuff

1708
01:16:09,680 --> 01:16:12,240
Speaker 3: like that. Wow, and they try to like fuck each

1709
01:16:12,240 --> 01:16:14,200
Speaker 3: other up. I think you guys would have so much

1710
01:16:14,280 --> 01:16:15,559
Speaker 3: fun watching four weddings.

1711
01:16:15,560 --> 01:16:23,679
Speaker 1: Wow, all right, well done. Should we do our final segment?

1712
01:16:23,760 --> 01:16:25,400
Speaker 2: And then we gotta.

1713
01:16:26,280 --> 01:16:28,200
Speaker 3: I didn't have more to say about X throwing bars.

1714
01:16:28,320 --> 01:16:30,679
Speaker 3: You keep trying to ask, and I just kept talking

1715
01:16:30,720 --> 01:16:33,880
Speaker 3: about my cutter friends in junior high and I apologize.

1716
01:16:34,520 --> 01:16:36,679
Speaker 1: No, no, no, that is totally fine.

1717
01:16:37,200 --> 01:16:39,439
Speaker 2: Do you think what makes it such a perfect topic

1718
01:16:39,479 --> 01:16:42,439
Speaker 2: is that it's pretty straightforward, just like, yeah, it's straight and.

1719
01:16:42,520 --> 01:16:46,080
Speaker 1: We came here with like a thesis and then you're like, okay, anyway,

1720
01:16:45,400 --> 01:16:48,439
Speaker 1: it was normally this is sort of a long form

1721
01:16:48,640 --> 01:16:50,960
Speaker 1: essay type and you were like nope, short answer and

1722
01:16:51,000 --> 01:16:53,439
Speaker 1: it's like okay, and we're all like yeah, we agree, yeah,

1723
01:16:53,479 --> 01:16:55,200
Speaker 1: and there's no part of us. It's like, also, it's

1724
01:16:55,320 --> 01:16:57,240
Speaker 1: kind of queer. Well, we were like trying to dig

1725
01:16:57,280 --> 01:16:58,640
Speaker 1: into it a bit and it was like, you know

1726
01:16:58,680 --> 01:16:59,719
Speaker 1: what point.

1727
01:16:59,560 --> 01:17:05,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, what is the queer activity are? What is a karaoke?

1728
01:17:05,680 --> 01:17:07,800
Speaker 2: It's a drag show, but that's more of a performance.

1729
01:17:08,120 --> 01:17:09,840
Speaker 2: But I think it's collaborative in the sense of people

1730
01:17:09,840 --> 01:17:10,360
Speaker 2: are tipping.

1731
01:17:10,439 --> 01:17:13,160
Speaker 1: It's also like crafting, like queer bars love to be

1732
01:17:13,200 --> 01:17:16,240
Speaker 1: like drink and draw or like today or like selling

1733
01:17:16,280 --> 01:17:17,440
Speaker 1: old clothes.

1734
01:17:18,800 --> 01:17:19,880
Speaker 2: Is actually kind of queer.

1735
01:17:19,960 --> 01:17:20,600
Speaker 3: Oh, I didn't know that.

1736
01:17:20,840 --> 01:17:24,519
Speaker 2: It's because it's like, again, anything anything a drag queen

1737
01:17:24,640 --> 01:17:28,640
Speaker 2: can host. Yeah, I think trivia, even bingo can be queer.

1738
01:17:29,040 --> 01:17:31,479
Speaker 3: Because bingo's not all encompassing. It's not like a whole

1739
01:17:31,520 --> 01:17:34,280
Speaker 3: bar with all these wood stumps, you know, like they're

1740
01:17:34,360 --> 01:17:39,240
Speaker 3: my like local watering hole Johnny's. One time we were

1741
01:17:39,240 --> 01:17:41,519
Speaker 3: just there randomly, they gave us bingo cards. I want.

1742
01:17:41,520 --> 01:17:43,799
Speaker 3: I got a thing of Domino. But it's not over impacted,

1743
01:17:43,840 --> 01:17:46,320
Speaker 3: like you could still chit chat. There's breaks, like it's

1744
01:17:46,400 --> 01:17:48,040
Speaker 3: not the center of the thing.

1745
01:17:48,280 --> 01:17:49,320
Speaker 1: Actually that's a good point.

1746
01:17:49,360 --> 01:17:53,520
Speaker 2: I do think it is more common in queer events

1747
01:17:54,120 --> 01:17:56,720
Speaker 2: to not have such rigid rules, like even if it's

1748
01:17:56,760 --> 01:17:59,519
Speaker 2: a drag show, you're actually not gonna get scolded if

1749
01:17:59,520 --> 01:18:01,400
Speaker 2: you're like talking through, or if you do get scolded,

1750
01:18:01,400 --> 01:18:02,879
Speaker 2: it'll be it'll be funny.

1751
01:18:03,040 --> 01:18:06,040
Speaker 1: You're gonna get.

1752
01:18:05,080 --> 01:18:07,400
Speaker 2: You're gonna get scolded. But you know what I mean,

1753
01:18:07,439 --> 01:18:10,680
Speaker 2: It's like everyone's there to have fun. Okay, all right,

1754
01:18:10,880 --> 01:18:14,400
Speaker 2: shout outs Okay, Lisa. Our final segment is called shout Outs,

1755
01:18:14,400 --> 01:18:16,439
Speaker 2: and in the segment we pay homage to the classic

1756
01:18:16,479 --> 01:18:20,240
Speaker 2: straight tradition of the radio shout out, and I have

1757
01:18:20,320 --> 01:18:25,320
Speaker 2: one I could go, please go first, all right, what's

1758
01:18:25,400 --> 01:18:29,120
Speaker 2: up bride zillas and groomy stas out there and everyone?

1759
01:18:29,280 --> 01:18:32,120
Speaker 2: At the taping of four Weddings on TLC, I want

1760
01:18:32,120 --> 01:18:34,720
Speaker 2: to give a shout out to Grave Blocks. I am

1761
01:18:34,800 --> 01:18:38,200
Speaker 2: such a salmon queen and I always just get normal

1762
01:18:38,240 --> 01:18:41,639
Speaker 2: smoked salmon. But here's a treat for you. Get your

1763
01:18:41,680 --> 01:18:44,840
Speaker 2: bangele with grave Blocks. Do it once every few times.

1764
01:18:44,920 --> 01:18:47,320
Speaker 2: Samuel looks, So what is his words?

1765
01:18:48,240 --> 01:18:49,040
Speaker 3: But what's the different?

1766
01:18:49,080 --> 01:18:52,000
Speaker 2: I don't know if it's no, no, no, no, it's it's

1767
01:18:52,240 --> 01:18:56,120
Speaker 2: more I don't know, more salted. I think it's more salted,

1768
01:18:56,160 --> 01:18:59,920
Speaker 2: and it's usually more like tender and more expensive. I again, please,

1769
01:19:00,040 --> 01:19:02,120
Speaker 2: if you know the difference, do not come for me.

1770
01:19:02,560 --> 01:19:04,400
Speaker 2: All I know is that it is a slightly more

1771
01:19:05,280 --> 01:19:06,840
Speaker 2: I don't want to say nuance, but like a more

1772
01:19:06,840 --> 01:19:08,920
Speaker 2: complex flavor. So you're sort of like wow, I'm like,

1773
01:19:08,960 --> 01:19:12,160
Speaker 2: I didn't know salmon could be even more salmon. And

1774
01:19:12,200 --> 01:19:14,160
Speaker 2: so get out there and get some sort of like

1775
01:19:14,360 --> 01:19:17,640
Speaker 2: dill dilly grave loox. Put it on a bagel, have

1776
01:19:17,720 --> 01:19:20,080
Speaker 2: it in a sandwich, and treat yourself. And yeah, it's

1777
01:19:20,080 --> 01:19:21,960
Speaker 2: gonna be a little more expensive than normal locks, but

1778
01:19:22,000 --> 01:19:25,200
Speaker 2: guess what, you deserve it because it's summer and it's

1779
01:19:25,240 --> 01:19:26,160
Speaker 2: time to eat fish.

1780
01:19:28,240 --> 01:19:29,519
Speaker 1: Fish comes alive in the summer.

1781
01:19:29,640 --> 01:19:32,880
Speaker 3: Salmon is my top favorite salmon avocado sushi. I could

1782
01:19:32,880 --> 01:19:33,519
Speaker 3: eat every single day.

1783
01:19:33,600 --> 01:19:36,479
Speaker 2: Same ever, to have salmon like in your fridge and

1784
01:19:36,520 --> 01:19:39,120
Speaker 2: do a sort of toast that's like cream cheese, salmon, avocado,

1785
01:19:39,160 --> 01:19:41,240
Speaker 2: and then a little lemon on top. Are you kidding me?

1786
01:19:41,520 --> 01:19:45,320
Speaker 2: Cracked peper cook or but that's me. No, not assemble either.

1787
01:19:45,439 --> 01:19:51,599
Speaker 3: I can make, George, You're gonna be shocked. I buy

1788
01:19:51,720 --> 01:19:54,400
Speaker 3: sliced and peeled apples in a bag. No, if I

1789
01:19:54,400 --> 01:19:56,120
Speaker 3: have to cut an apple, I'm not gonna eat it.

1790
01:19:56,360 --> 01:19:59,560
Speaker 1: Wow, I actually love that. That's genius.

1791
01:20:00,000 --> 01:20:02,439
Speaker 3: If I if I'm gonna nourish my body in a

1792
01:20:02,439 --> 01:20:04,840
Speaker 3: healthy way, there cannot be any barrier to entry.

1793
01:20:04,920 --> 01:20:06,880
Speaker 1: You know, I feel I love bananas, and I think

1794
01:20:06,880 --> 01:20:08,639
Speaker 1: it's because it's just like boop yep.

1795
01:20:08,720 --> 01:20:10,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, Oh, I have a new I was gonna do

1796
01:20:11,040 --> 01:20:12,719
Speaker 3: it for this because I've been planning on the show

1797
01:20:12,760 --> 01:20:15,600
Speaker 3: for so long. But I'll just tell you no, I

1798
01:20:16,600 --> 01:20:18,960
Speaker 3: have another thing. I take a banana and I put

1799
01:20:19,040 --> 01:20:20,559
Speaker 3: whip cream on it, and then it tastes like pie,

1800
01:20:20,600 --> 01:20:20,960
Speaker 3: but it's not.

1801
01:20:22,120 --> 01:20:22,360
Speaker 2: Wait.

1802
01:20:22,439 --> 01:20:25,880
Speaker 1: I love that. Yes, that's so good whip cream. This

1803
01:20:25,960 --> 01:20:30,200
Speaker 1: episode is honestly about ripe cream. Yeah, okay, okay, okay,

1804
01:20:32,280 --> 01:20:35,599
Speaker 1: what's up everyone around the globe to everyone who's ever

1805
01:20:35,640 --> 01:20:38,000
Speaker 1: had a dream and ever believed in themselves. I want

1806
01:20:38,040 --> 01:20:40,479
Speaker 1: to do a repetitive shout out. If you heard the

1807
01:20:40,520 --> 01:20:42,719
Speaker 1: Patreon you know what I'm gonna say, and I'm doing

1808
01:20:42,760 --> 01:20:44,800
Speaker 1: it again. I want to give a huge shout out

1809
01:20:44,880 --> 01:20:50,080
Speaker 1: to Rush by Troy Savon. That's right, Twinks are back

1810
01:20:50,200 --> 01:20:53,479
Speaker 1: in a huge way now more than ever. Twinks are back.

1811
01:20:53,600 --> 01:20:56,839
Speaker 1: Taste is back, music is back, horny is back. Finally

1812
01:20:56,960 --> 01:21:01,240
Speaker 1: summer can start. I feel so moved, I feel hungry

1813
01:21:01,280 --> 01:21:04,320
Speaker 1: for the future, I feel hope. I feel finally someone

1814
01:21:04,439 --> 01:21:09,679
Speaker 1: has art direction in this world. I'm so excited for Troy.

1815
01:21:09,840 --> 01:21:13,760
Speaker 1: He proves that yes, gay guys can be nasty and

1816
01:21:13,920 --> 01:21:18,360
Speaker 1: in a public forum, where did that? Troy Rush?

1817
01:21:19,240 --> 01:21:21,559
Speaker 3: Is this though for song of this summer?

1818
01:21:21,880 --> 01:21:23,240
Speaker 1: No, it's not a rasher, it's defeating.

1819
01:21:24,160 --> 01:21:25,880
Speaker 2: Do you think it defeated?

1820
01:21:26,200 --> 01:21:29,679
Speaker 1: I do? I think is too There's too much irony

1821
01:21:29,720 --> 01:21:32,240
Speaker 1: in it. People are a little too lol.

1822
01:21:31,920 --> 01:21:37,640
Speaker 2: About Sam's Like twink pilling is insane, Like Sam is

1823
01:21:37,640 --> 01:21:40,280
Speaker 2: the number one enemy of Twins. You know he loves bears.

1824
01:21:41,479 --> 01:21:43,760
Speaker 2: Like the fact that Troy Sevon has won you over

1825
01:21:43,840 --> 01:21:45,000
Speaker 2: in this way is shocking.

1826
01:21:45,040 --> 01:21:48,320
Speaker 3: Did you watch the idol. Yes, I love How funny

1827
01:21:48,400 --> 01:21:51,800
Speaker 3: is that it's I'm all fully tortured and then show

1828
01:21:51,840 --> 01:21:52,920
Speaker 3: the next day and she's like.

1829
01:21:52,960 --> 01:21:56,840
Speaker 1: Never mind, it was such a bad shoe. I was

1830
01:21:56,840 --> 01:21:58,519
Speaker 1: addicted to it. But shout out to Troy.

1831
01:22:00,120 --> 01:22:02,120
Speaker 3: I love this. I was at Jumbo's clown Room. It's

1832
01:22:02,160 --> 01:22:03,560
Speaker 3: like a strip club but not really. They have to

1833
01:22:03,640 --> 01:22:07,040
Speaker 3: keep bikinis on, but they're really good polled answers. I've

1834
01:22:07,120 --> 01:22:09,120
Speaker 3: never met Troicemon. He is behind me though at this

1835
01:22:09,320 --> 01:22:12,719
Speaker 3: Jumbo's clown Room, but he's so weak. His dollars won't

1836
01:22:12,800 --> 01:22:16,000
Speaker 3: go to the stage, and I was sitting right at

1837
01:22:16,000 --> 01:22:17,920
Speaker 3: the stage, so I would help. I would take his

1838
01:22:18,040 --> 01:22:21,880
Speaker 3: dollars and like throw. I was like in between, is

1839
01:22:21,960 --> 01:22:22,800
Speaker 3: so helpful?

1840
01:22:22,840 --> 01:22:25,280
Speaker 2: Wow you are look are you uplifting queer artists?

1841
01:22:26,360 --> 01:22:28,960
Speaker 3: We have the best time Jumbo's clown Room. I was

1842
01:22:28,960 --> 01:22:31,400
Speaker 3: there a Jared Goldsteine and this woman comes out and

1843
01:22:31,400 --> 01:22:34,360
Speaker 3: he goes, we love your bolliage Like we were just

1844
01:22:34,400 --> 01:22:38,799
Speaker 3: having the best time with the girls. Wow. Wow, Okay,

1845
01:22:40,360 --> 01:22:43,479
Speaker 3: what's up? Everying back home and Skochie. I do want

1846
01:22:43,520 --> 01:22:46,800
Speaker 3: to give a shout out to Megababe thy rescue. This

1847
01:22:46,840 --> 01:22:49,600
Speaker 3: is no one's pain. This has changed my life. It

1848
01:22:49,640 --> 01:22:51,280
Speaker 3: has made my time in New York and in the

1849
01:22:51,280 --> 01:22:54,799
Speaker 3: world in the summer manageable. I put this on my thighs.

1850
01:22:54,920 --> 01:22:58,320
Speaker 3: They rub all that, no chafing, no pain, no nothing.

1851
01:22:58,600 --> 01:23:00,559
Speaker 3: They come in big sizes. I take the little one,

1852
01:23:00,600 --> 01:23:02,400
Speaker 3: put it in my purse, and my thighs will never

1853
01:23:02,439 --> 01:23:06,160
Speaker 3: bleed again. There will never be sores. Antype. Yeah, fuck friction.

1854
01:23:06,360 --> 01:23:08,800
Speaker 3: And I love it so much. Thank you so much, Menda.

1855
01:23:09,840 --> 01:23:12,040
Speaker 1: Wow, I love recommending an actual product.

1856
01:23:12,479 --> 01:23:13,720
Speaker 2: Maybe we get a sponsorship.

1857
01:23:14,240 --> 01:23:16,720
Speaker 3: I hope you did. I mean life changing. You don't

1858
01:23:16,720 --> 01:23:18,679
Speaker 3: have to wear shorts, you don't have to do anything.

1859
01:23:19,240 --> 01:23:23,000
Speaker 3: Pop it in. I also, I know you want to

1860
01:23:23,080 --> 01:23:28,000
Speaker 3: end so bad. I've your gold earring, gold frame, gold necklace, perfection.

1861
01:23:28,439 --> 01:23:30,479
Speaker 3: I could not stop looking at this gold.

1862
01:23:31,240 --> 01:23:35,760
Speaker 2: You know what you should I get either ear or

1863
01:23:35,920 --> 01:23:37,040
Speaker 2: second one in this year?

1864
01:23:37,240 --> 01:23:38,280
Speaker 3: Ooh, I think second.

1865
01:23:38,360 --> 01:23:40,040
Speaker 2: Okay, what do you think I was gonna say?

1866
01:23:40,080 --> 01:23:40,479
Speaker 1: Other ear?

1867
01:23:40,600 --> 01:23:41,439
Speaker 2: Damn damn?

1868
01:23:42,240 --> 01:23:43,880
Speaker 3: Maybe but not at the same time, not at the

1869
01:23:43,920 --> 01:23:45,479
Speaker 3: same time, because then.

1870
01:23:45,479 --> 01:23:48,480
Speaker 1: Yes, oh smart, it's.

1871
01:23:48,080 --> 01:23:51,400
Speaker 3: I learned from mystics. Yeah, I learned from pain bleeding

1872
01:23:51,479 --> 01:23:54,800
Speaker 3: plus yeah, oh damn, one side at the time. What

1873
01:23:54,920 --> 01:23:57,799
Speaker 3: your ear is bussing you keep that less.

1874
01:23:57,800 --> 01:23:59,400
Speaker 2: Product recommendation and advice.

1875
01:23:59,640 --> 01:24:00,639
Speaker 1: Ye huge?

1876
01:24:00,800 --> 01:24:02,719
Speaker 3: Am I the first person to bring the product?

1877
01:24:03,439 --> 01:24:03,960
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1878
01:24:04,000 --> 01:24:08,599
Speaker 2: We definitely had people like hold something and recommend it,

1879
01:24:08,640 --> 01:24:11,160
Speaker 2: but not not in a planned and perfect way like that,

1880
01:24:11,400 --> 01:24:12,320
Speaker 2: just because New York is.

1881
01:24:12,280 --> 01:24:14,920
Speaker 3: You know, I'm here right now. It's hard, but I

1882
01:24:14,960 --> 01:24:16,840
Speaker 3: was gonna do the banana but I got it out anyways,

1883
01:24:16,840 --> 01:24:17,519
Speaker 3: because I won't let you.

1884
01:24:17,560 --> 01:24:18,320
Speaker 1: On this show.

1885
01:24:18,520 --> 01:24:19,120
Speaker 3: You can end.

1886
01:24:21,040 --> 01:24:24,200
Speaker 2: Literally and we support the strike is late so where

1887
01:24:24,240 --> 01:24:26,160
Speaker 2: I was stressed because she was supposed to be here,

1888
01:24:26,200 --> 01:24:28,360
Speaker 2: but she's not so perfect, so so I want to

1889
01:24:28,400 --> 01:24:31,280
Speaker 2: keep going. All right, Lisa, thank you so much.

1890
01:24:32,320 --> 01:24:33,040
Speaker 1: Thanks for doing it.

1891
01:24:33,160 --> 01:24:35,960
Speaker 3: You guys are killers so fun, such a fun show.

1892
01:24:36,080 --> 01:24:38,160
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, well bye.

1893
01:24:38,360 --> 01:24:41,960
Speaker 3: You're you're You're what made Chipotle come back into my life.

1894
01:24:42,240 --> 01:24:44,000
Speaker 3: I know if he's eating chipotlet, I'm eating Chipotle.

1895
01:24:44,080 --> 01:24:46,160
Speaker 2: Now wait, Lisa, you are allowed to promote your podcast?

1896
01:24:46,360 --> 01:24:48,760
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I have a podcast called That's Messed Up,

1897
01:24:48,840 --> 01:24:51,960
Speaker 3: an SVU podcast with my friend Kara Klank, and it's

1898
01:24:52,160 --> 01:24:54,320
Speaker 3: we recap an episode of s View the true crime

1899
01:24:54,320 --> 01:24:57,759
Speaker 3: it's based on, and then we maybe we'll continue interviewing

1900
01:24:57,760 --> 01:24:58,799
Speaker 3: actors from the episode.

1901
01:24:58,840 --> 01:25:00,960
Speaker 2: Maybe, as long as they don't mentioned that they were

1902
01:25:00,960 --> 01:25:01,679
Speaker 2: in Stbu.

1903
01:25:04,200 --> 01:25:06,840
Speaker 1: That'll be hard for you. I think that's the.

1904
01:25:06,840 --> 01:25:09,799
Speaker 3: Book, Thank you so much, but the murder will continue.

1905
01:25:09,880 --> 01:25:13,599
Speaker 1: Yeah all right, well, here's the murder. Here's the murder. Cheers, bye,