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Speaker 2: Presences, presents, and I already had too much stuff. So

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Speaker 3: Welcome to? I said, no gifts. I'm Richard Wineger. I

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Speaker 3: I don't care, I really, I just want to introduce.

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Speaker 3: Our guests are wonderful, so funny, just a joy Anna

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Speaker 3: fabreca Anna, Welcome to. I said, no gifts. Hi, thank

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Speaker 3: you for having me. How are you? I'm good?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, all things considered.

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Speaker 3: You're uh are you? I'm doing okay. I woke up

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Speaker 4: My morning was very similar yours, except where it started

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Speaker 4: but you can only cancel it in person, and gyms.

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Speaker 4: Today was the first day that they were opening, and

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Speaker 4: this forty five day period. Okay, but I was charged

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Speaker 4: And I'm going into this conversation with the gym knowing

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Speaker 4: Boring all of that information crazy, But you know, Sports

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Speaker 4: But anyways, after that, I went to a couple of

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Speaker 4: So I settled for some hemp seeds. And then I

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Speaker 3: Here, this is lovely. So you're with the hemp protein.

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Speaker 4: It's literally the only thing I eat for breakfast for years?

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Speaker 3: So you found hemp seeds, is that right? Yeah? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: A plane, oh of course not.

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Speaker 3: I don't know much about Arizona. Scottsdale is isn't near Phoenix.

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Speaker 3: a four pound teaky head. So there's truly no telling

438
00:22:02,760 --> 00:22:07,840
Speaker 3: what could be in that. But is it a lightweight

439
00:22:07,920 --> 00:22:10,359
Speaker 3: box or it you? You know, it's like I would say,

440
00:22:10,400 --> 00:22:13,800
Speaker 3: this is like, I'm going to pick it up here. Oh,

441
00:22:13,880 --> 00:22:17,440
Speaker 3: it's lightweight for sure. It's probably a pound to two pounds.

442
00:22:18,760 --> 00:22:22,320
Speaker 3: It's right here. I mean, and is is this a

443
00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:23,960
Speaker 3: gift for me? Yeah?

444
00:22:24,080 --> 00:22:26,240
Speaker 4: I mean I was told not to get you a gift,

445
00:22:26,320 --> 00:22:28,240
Speaker 4: but I sub simply had it meant before it would

446
00:22:28,240 --> 00:22:29,520
Speaker 4: be a nice gesture.

447
00:22:29,800 --> 00:22:33,600
Speaker 3: Well, I mean it's sweet, I mean obviously inconvenience aside

448
00:22:33,680 --> 00:22:37,560
Speaker 3: driving back to my apartment, mystery in my closet? Uh,

449
00:22:38,240 --> 00:22:39,960
Speaker 3: I thank you? I should I open it here on

450
00:22:40,000 --> 00:22:41,080
Speaker 3: the podcast?

451
00:22:41,520 --> 00:22:43,359
Speaker 4: Yeah, but can you actually give me one second because

452
00:22:43,359 --> 00:22:45,120
Speaker 4: I just realized I didn't plug in.

453
00:22:45,080 --> 00:22:55,440
Speaker 3: My laptop and yeah, of course, okay, I'm.

454
00:22:55,400 --> 00:22:56,960
Speaker 4: Sorry that was unprofessional.

455
00:22:58,640 --> 00:23:02,640
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, okay, I'm going to open this box. We'll

456
00:23:02,640 --> 00:23:06,160
Speaker 3: see what's inside. It's probably like a foot by a foot.

457
00:23:06,359 --> 00:23:09,240
Speaker 3: Who knows what's happening in here. Give me a moment

458
00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:23,040
Speaker 3: while I unwrapped this. Oh boy knocks on microphone. Oh

459
00:23:24,240 --> 00:23:31,040
Speaker 3: oh what is this? This looks like Uh, it's a

460
00:23:31,200 --> 00:23:35,520
Speaker 3: like a Coleman brand cooler, like a it's a little cooler.

461
00:23:35,960 --> 00:23:39,400
Speaker 3: This is adorable. Tell me what's going on here?

462
00:23:39,800 --> 00:23:42,679
Speaker 4: So, you know, I when I was getting a gift,

463
00:23:42,760 --> 00:23:46,240
Speaker 4: I fought, should I send something stupid and funny that

464
00:23:46,359 --> 00:23:48,320
Speaker 4: will just see a little you'll laugh at it and

465
00:23:48,359 --> 00:23:51,520
Speaker 4: then it'll go into trash that I'm a little more useful,

466
00:23:51,960 --> 00:23:55,040
Speaker 4: And I wasn't feeling a little more useful. And uh,

467
00:23:55,800 --> 00:23:59,080
Speaker 4: throughout the COVID times, I've been spending a lot of

468
00:23:59,119 --> 00:24:00,959
Speaker 4: time in the park that's socialized now.

469
00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:04,240
Speaker 3: So I got myself a cooler that that I.

470
00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:07,159
Speaker 4: Got one to put beer with water, whatever I want

471
00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:09,879
Speaker 4: to drink in there with and it helps keep it

472
00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:13,000
Speaker 4: insulated and cool. And I can go to the park

473
00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:15,920
Speaker 4: for hours and my drinks stay cold. And maybe maybe

474
00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:16,919
Speaker 4: that'd been nice for you too.

475
00:24:17,320 --> 00:24:20,080
Speaker 3: Absolutely wonderful, are you? I mean, it's like this is

476
00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:22,359
Speaker 3: like a real you know, you could take this camping.

477
00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:24,520
Speaker 3: It's not like a chinzy yeah couler. It's like a

478
00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:27,560
Speaker 3: nice little it's essentially perse size. I could replace my

479
00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:31,240
Speaker 3: handbag Witherson. I have always a cold drink in my money, cold,

480
00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:35,840
Speaker 3: wet and cold, and I just always have that sloshing around.

481
00:24:36,240 --> 00:24:39,160
Speaker 3: But this is this is fantastic. So you've been going

482
00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:41,280
Speaker 3: out to the park. Are you having picnics?

483
00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:44,440
Speaker 4: Yeah? No, no picnics really all all bring I got,

484
00:24:44,480 --> 00:24:46,560
Speaker 4: I got my my I mean it's just a while

485
00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:48,440
Speaker 4: to actually do this. And once I did, I was like,

486
00:24:48,480 --> 00:24:50,320
Speaker 4: why didn't I do it sooner? If I got a

487
00:24:50,440 --> 00:24:54,440
Speaker 4: blanket and I got that cooler. So I'll usually throw

488
00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:55,359
Speaker 4: beer in.

489
00:24:55,440 --> 00:24:58,120
Speaker 3: There or wine.

490
00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:03,200
Speaker 4: Or kombucha right and then maybe my water bottle sometimes,

491
00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:05,639
Speaker 4: So I usually drink room temperature. I don't want to

492
00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:08,000
Speaker 4: stick it in the Coalman because it'll get too cold,

493
00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:11,560
Speaker 4: and you know the coal is going to keep it cold, so.

494
00:25:13,080 --> 00:25:15,480
Speaker 3: I don't think you can count on with coal then

495
00:25:15,560 --> 00:25:18,280
Speaker 3: it's gonna be cold. It's the brand we trust.

496
00:25:18,960 --> 00:25:21,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, so it's been it's been great. And if I

497
00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:23,679
Speaker 4: bring every now and then, I'll bring like a snack

498
00:25:24,119 --> 00:25:27,080
Speaker 4: right to the puck and if it's something that I

499
00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:28,879
Speaker 4: want to keep cold, I'll stick it.

500
00:25:28,920 --> 00:25:32,600
Speaker 3: In the Coleman. Snack Wise, what are you doing if.

501
00:25:32,480 --> 00:25:34,480
Speaker 4: I welcome apart? Well, the last I went to the

502
00:25:34,520 --> 00:25:36,280
Speaker 4: park a couple of days ago was my girlfriend to

503
00:25:36,359 --> 00:25:38,399
Speaker 4: meet up with her sister and her niece, and I

504
00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:39,120
Speaker 4: made hummus.

505
00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:43,119
Speaker 3: Oh, and I wrest some hummus and uh, we.

506
00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:46,080
Speaker 4: Got tortilla chips and her sister had made a sandwiches.

507
00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:49,240
Speaker 4: But usually if I'm snacking, it's like hummus or nuts?

508
00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:49,639
Speaker 2: Right?

509
00:25:49,720 --> 00:25:51,359
Speaker 3: And are you always making your hummus or do you

510
00:25:51,400 --> 00:25:53,280
Speaker 3: occasionally buy it? I always make it?

511
00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:53,760
Speaker 4: Is it?

512
00:25:54,280 --> 00:25:57,040
Speaker 3: I've made hummus? Once my friend Danny God blessed, she

513
00:25:57,240 --> 00:25:59,040
Speaker 3: came over and tried to teach me how to make hummus,

514
00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:01,560
Speaker 3: and it fell like a lot of steps. There was

515
00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:04,600
Speaker 3: like putting ice cubes in it. There was does it

516
00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:05,159
Speaker 3: sound right?

517
00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:07,720
Speaker 4: You know some people will do that.

518
00:26:07,880 --> 00:26:08,240
Speaker 3: I don't.

519
00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:10,400
Speaker 4: I think it's actually really easy. I used to buy

520
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:13,840
Speaker 4: store about ummits all the time, and then I started

521
00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:16,720
Speaker 4: making it myself and I tasted dirt, bought hummets again,

522
00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:18,639
Speaker 4: and I was like, oh, this tastes so different to me.

523
00:26:18,720 --> 00:26:18,840
Speaker 3: Now.

524
00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:21,600
Speaker 4: It tastes like it's meant to last on a shelf.

525
00:26:22,920 --> 00:26:24,720
Speaker 4: So I feel like it's one of those things that

526
00:26:24,760 --> 00:26:26,560
Speaker 4: when you start doing it, you can't really go back.

527
00:26:26,960 --> 00:26:31,600
Speaker 4: But it's really easy, especially well I use I cooked

528
00:26:31,600 --> 00:26:33,639
Speaker 4: the chick peas myself. Also, if you're doing it with

529
00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:36,160
Speaker 4: a can, it's even easier because you just open the can,

530
00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:38,680
Speaker 4: stay a bit of the water, mince the chicks peas,

531
00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:41,160
Speaker 4: throw them in a food processor or blender or whatever,

532
00:26:41,720 --> 00:26:44,560
Speaker 4: throw in tahini, olive oil, salt, coom.

533
00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:47,280
Speaker 3: And garlic, lemon juice, and that's it. And do you

534
00:26:47,440 --> 00:26:49,240
Speaker 3: just blend it up? You just blend it.

535
00:26:49,600 --> 00:26:49,800
Speaker 4: Yeah.

536
00:26:49,880 --> 00:26:52,800
Speaker 3: I feel like between opens you're making a lot of

537
00:26:52,920 --> 00:26:55,000
Speaker 3: just beige pastes in your home.

538
00:26:55,160 --> 00:26:57,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, I eat, I eat, Yeah, I have my well

539
00:26:57,800 --> 00:26:59,960
Speaker 4: at my breakfast is green because of the hemp.

540
00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:03,520
Speaker 3: Oh okay, yeah, oh that's a fun like going back

541
00:27:03,560 --> 00:27:05,399
Speaker 3: to that memory now and switching the color of the

542
00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:08,360
Speaker 3: oatmeal is very It's great a little fun at home

543
00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:12,800
Speaker 3: activity for listeners to do green oatmeal. Okay, and then

544
00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:15,920
Speaker 3: you're making hamas. Oh, so that maybe I need to

545
00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:18,640
Speaker 3: find an easier recipe. My friend Danny's an actual cook,

546
00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:23,240
Speaker 3: so I think she, uh, she overrested my overestimated my

547
00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:24,560
Speaker 3: ability to make food.

548
00:27:24,640 --> 00:27:26,600
Speaker 4: Well, we did it for I guess if you just

549
00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:29,879
Speaker 4: cooked the chickpeas and they're still hot, you would want

550
00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:30,160
Speaker 4: to add.

551
00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:32,320
Speaker 3: I don't think we even could. I feel like we

552
00:27:32,480 --> 00:27:36,159
Speaker 3: use canned chickpeas. It was something about making it smooth

553
00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:37,399
Speaker 3: or something. I don't know.

554
00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:39,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, I guess that would be like a substitute for

555
00:27:39,600 --> 00:27:41,360
Speaker 4: just adding a little bit of water. You just throw

556
00:27:41,440 --> 00:27:43,879
Speaker 4: in some some I mean, because of course, if your

557
00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:45,680
Speaker 4: blaming something for a while, it will start to eat

558
00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:46,440
Speaker 4: it up. Right.

559
00:27:46,560 --> 00:27:51,040
Speaker 3: Oh that's like those super temperature blenders. Yeah, okay, well

560
00:27:51,080 --> 00:27:53,720
Speaker 3: this is that makes me want to try it again.

561
00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:59,080
Speaker 3: I've I've I've got. I don't have a little process.

562
00:27:59,160 --> 00:28:02,879
Speaker 3: I have a blender, powerful blender, which I bought online

563
00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:05,600
Speaker 3: a few years ago. There was some sort of glitch

564
00:28:05,680 --> 00:28:07,959
Speaker 3: on the Target website that let people get seventy five

565
00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:15,320
Speaker 3: percent off of everything, and so I just vitamins dollars, right,

566
00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:18,320
Speaker 3: I bought a flat I mean, looking back, I really

567
00:28:18,440 --> 00:28:24,040
Speaker 3: regret not just literally furnishing my home, because yeah, wow,

568
00:28:24,520 --> 00:28:25,280
Speaker 3: but I do have a blow.

569
00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:27,840
Speaker 4: Are you on the Target website and just happened to

570
00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:29,560
Speaker 4: notice it? Or did someone say, hey, there's a.

571
00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:32,040
Speaker 3: Glas somebody told me about it. I said, I'll give

572
00:28:32,119 --> 00:28:33,760
Speaker 3: this a shot. I need I had just moved into

573
00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:36,240
Speaker 3: my apartment at the time, and I thought, let's give

574
00:28:36,280 --> 00:28:39,160
Speaker 3: this a little shot, and suddenly I was just on

575
00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:45,120
Speaker 3: a target chopping spry. Wow, that's you know, that feels

576
00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:47,800
Speaker 3: like kind of old Internet, when things would go wrong

577
00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:50,200
Speaker 3: on people's websites and people would take advantage of it.

578
00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:52,200
Speaker 3: You don't see that much anymore, but when you do,

579
00:28:52,320 --> 00:28:54,360
Speaker 3: you have to strike. You've got to get your blended,

580
00:28:54,520 --> 00:28:54,760
Speaker 3: get it.

581
00:28:55,040 --> 00:28:57,479
Speaker 4: Yeah, especially when it's big companies, like guys like, oh,

582
00:28:57,560 --> 00:28:59,320
Speaker 4: that's a big deal. You know it's a local.

583
00:28:59,120 --> 00:29:01,920
Speaker 3: Store, a huge You're fine, we're all paying in other

584
00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:05,920
Speaker 3: ways for these companies always be seventy five percent of Yeah,

585
00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:08,760
Speaker 3: I don't know what to say. No, So you don't

586
00:29:08,800 --> 00:29:11,120
Speaker 3: picnic often. I haven't been on a picnic in years.

587
00:29:11,480 --> 00:29:13,200
Speaker 3: I think it's a nice thing to do, but I

588
00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:17,080
Speaker 3: I guess I don't know why I don't try it.

589
00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:20,240
Speaker 4: You know, my hesitation was picnicing. The reason I'll meat

590
00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:23,440
Speaker 4: to have a drink instead of eat is that I

591
00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:27,200
Speaker 4: sometimes eating without a table, if you're just sitting down

592
00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:29,320
Speaker 4: on the grass and it's kind of uneven, and I

593
00:29:29,360 --> 00:29:32,040
Speaker 4: feel like if you just get messy. Yeah, depending on

594
00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:34,040
Speaker 4: what it is, that you're eating. You know, I'm just

595
00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:36,400
Speaker 4: like I would rather just have a drink. Keep it simple.

596
00:29:38,040 --> 00:29:39,680
Speaker 3: Are you getting take out at all or a you're

597
00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:40,720
Speaker 3: cooking mostly at home?

598
00:29:41,360 --> 00:29:44,840
Speaker 4: I cook a lot. I'll order takeout like once a.

599
00:29:44,920 --> 00:29:48,800
Speaker 3: Week or so. Okay, and what's re ordering? What sort

600
00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:51,080
Speaker 3: of food are you into? It depends.

601
00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:55,480
Speaker 4: So the last thing I ordered for takeout was dumplings

602
00:29:55,520 --> 00:29:56,800
Speaker 4: and scallion pancakes.

603
00:29:56,840 --> 00:29:59,960
Speaker 3: Oh delicious? Oh no me, pancakes I had pickled by

604
00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:02,560
Speaker 3: Have you never had pancake? Oh?

605
00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:03,280
Speaker 4: They're so good.

606
00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:09,560
Speaker 3: Imagine like like two layers of thick bread.

607
00:30:09,360 --> 00:30:12,280
Speaker 4: With same sweets on it and then pickled vegetables inside,

608
00:30:12,400 --> 00:30:14,720
Speaker 4: and they're kind of sweet. It's like sweetly pickled.

609
00:30:14,960 --> 00:30:18,520
Speaker 3: Oh that sounds lovely. I mean, I prefer a pickly

610
00:30:18,720 --> 00:30:22,240
Speaker 3: flavored pickle rather than a sweet pickle. But you know,

611
00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:24,480
Speaker 3: I'm always willing to try it with a new bread.

612
00:30:25,120 --> 00:30:29,760
Speaker 4: So yeah, in the pancake, it's always a little sweet.

613
00:30:29,920 --> 00:30:34,080
Speaker 3: Oh okay, So this is yeah, we're veering into dessert territory.

614
00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:38,640
Speaker 3: I feel like a dirt I wouldn't either.

615
00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:45,640
Speaker 4: And then I order, Like what else do I order?

616
00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:50,240
Speaker 4: I'll order like Thai food here and there there's a

617
00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:55,280
Speaker 4: reference that has like calad orange food that I'll get

618
00:30:56,040 --> 00:30:59,880
Speaker 4: from that I really like. But I really I cook

619
00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:00,880
Speaker 4: most of the time.

620
00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:02,640
Speaker 3: And what sort of food are you cooking? Are you

621
00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:04,560
Speaker 3: doing a lot of like deliberate cooking or they's just

622
00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:07,960
Speaker 3: easy whatever I have made. It's both, it's both.

623
00:31:08,040 --> 00:31:11,040
Speaker 4: I feel like my cooking is very utilitarian, just kind

624
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:12,240
Speaker 4: of like what does my body need?

625
00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:12,600
Speaker 2: Right?

626
00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:16,440
Speaker 4: So I eat pretty much the same thing for lunch

627
00:31:16,480 --> 00:31:19,760
Speaker 4: and dinner every day. I can have a very monotonous

628
00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:23,840
Speaker 4: sort of diet, which is why I order, not because

629
00:31:24,080 --> 00:31:26,200
Speaker 4: I like. I order because I get so bored of

630
00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:27,720
Speaker 4: what I'm eating that I need a break from it.

631
00:31:28,520 --> 00:31:30,320
Speaker 4: Then I always come back to it because I'm like, well,

632
00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:30,720
Speaker 4: it's got.

633
00:31:30,680 --> 00:31:32,920
Speaker 3: Everything I need well, and what are these things?

634
00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:38,600
Speaker 4: So I'll have. I'll make beans, I'll make steamed greens

635
00:31:38,640 --> 00:31:43,440
Speaker 4: with which are usually kale, collared greens, finach, and broccoli.

636
00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:47,440
Speaker 4: I'll steam sweet potato, I'll steam tofu, I'll make comments,

637
00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:51,000
Speaker 4: I'll some some mushrooms, and that's it.

638
00:31:51,200 --> 00:31:54,560
Speaker 3: Are you putting hot ses on this? I mean, yeah, it.

639
00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:56,880
Speaker 4: Sounds for the it sounds the land, but it's not.

640
00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:59,960
Speaker 4: Because I'll make the beans, like I'm good at cooking beans,

641
00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:03,280
Speaker 4: so I'll make good beans, I mean the black beans less.

642
00:32:03,280 --> 00:32:05,280
Speaker 3: What does that make to making a good bean. I've

643
00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:07,320
Speaker 3: tried cooking a bean once and they ended up being.

644
00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:10,120
Speaker 4: Hard, so you didn't cook them long enough.

645
00:32:12,360 --> 00:32:14,600
Speaker 3: And I also do follow a recipe, which is probably

646
00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:17,080
Speaker 3: another fatal flaw.

647
00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:20,520
Speaker 4: Well, it depends like what way, like what you want

648
00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:22,280
Speaker 4: out of the beans, Like if you want the broth

649
00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:24,880
Speaker 4: to be something that you're eating with them or whatever,

650
00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:28,120
Speaker 4: then like you know, you soak them overnight or do

651
00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:30,840
Speaker 4: a quick folk and then when you're actually boiling them

652
00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:34,000
Speaker 4: to cook them, salt the water you can add like

653
00:32:34,160 --> 00:32:40,360
Speaker 4: garlic time like whatever you know, herbs you want right,

654
00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:44,520
Speaker 4: sometimes olive oil, and then just let them go. But

655
00:32:44,600 --> 00:32:47,120
Speaker 4: when I make beans, I'll usually just add salt of

656
00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:50,720
Speaker 4: the water and then in a separate pan so that's

657
00:32:50,760 --> 00:32:53,880
Speaker 4: a garlic and onion, and then add the beans and

658
00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:56,320
Speaker 4: some of the liquid to that. Sometimes I'll like mash

659
00:32:56,320 --> 00:32:57,640
Speaker 4: them up to make them like refried.

660
00:32:58,040 --> 00:32:59,240
Speaker 3: Othertimes I'll just let them.

661
00:32:59,200 --> 00:33:01,360
Speaker 4: Be and like a bit of a broth like that

662
00:33:01,640 --> 00:33:04,760
Speaker 4: and have it with like rice or whatever. It's really

663
00:33:04,760 --> 00:33:06,440
Speaker 4: easy once you start to do it. I used to

664
00:33:06,600 --> 00:33:08,400
Speaker 4: never do it. And then when I started doing it,

665
00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:09,480
Speaker 4: I was like, oh, this is so easy.

666
00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:12,640
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, I am. I feel like I can eat

667
00:33:12,720 --> 00:33:15,280
Speaker 3: breakfast that have the same meal for breakfast and lunch

668
00:33:15,360 --> 00:33:18,360
Speaker 3: every single day, but for dinner, I need some break

669
00:33:18,440 --> 00:33:21,600
Speaker 3: I need some special thing to look forward to at

670
00:33:21,600 --> 00:33:22,400
Speaker 3: the end of the day.

671
00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:25,160
Speaker 4: The protein bar every day, every morning.

672
00:33:25,080 --> 00:33:28,040
Speaker 3: Every single morning, I eat a protein bar with my coffee,

673
00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:32,000
Speaker 3: and then for lunch, I make a shake, and then uh,

674
00:33:32,520 --> 00:33:37,480
Speaker 3: for dinner. It's anybody's guess. Yeah, truly, what Yeah, I

675
00:33:37,560 --> 00:33:41,760
Speaker 3: mean just cooking. I'm cooking. I am cooking certainly more

676
00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:45,040
Speaker 3: than I had literally maybe I mean, outside of like

677
00:33:45,600 --> 00:33:49,720
Speaker 3: scrambling eggs, had never cooked until the pandemic, which is

678
00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:53,320
Speaker 3: just humiliating. I mean, whatever I did, a lot of

679
00:33:53,360 --> 00:33:55,240
Speaker 3: bait I was doing.

680
00:33:55,360 --> 00:33:57,240
Speaker 4: No one can shame you for doing your thing.

681
00:33:58,000 --> 00:34:01,840
Speaker 3: My thing was just throwing away they going after restaurants

682
00:34:01,880 --> 00:34:04,600
Speaker 3: for dinner every time. That was my thing, and not

683
00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:08,160
Speaker 3: learning new skills was my thing. And now that's changed.

684
00:34:08,320 --> 00:34:12,600
Speaker 3: But you know, I'm making a lot of like turkey meatballs,

685
00:34:12,960 --> 00:34:18,399
Speaker 3: just variations on that I'm making. I bought an instant pot,

686
00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:21,960
Speaker 3: which I've used three times. I made stew I made soup,

687
00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:27,000
Speaker 3: I made various things like that. But since we moved,

688
00:34:27,080 --> 00:34:29,759
Speaker 3: it's my cooking has slowed down a bit. I've been

689
00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:34,440
Speaker 3: so busy just looking at nonsense like furniture and rugs

690
00:34:34,480 --> 00:34:37,319
Speaker 3: on the internet that it's really slowed down. But I've

691
00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:39,759
Speaker 3: got to get back to it. I enjoy doing it.

692
00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:43,200
Speaker 3: It's just the one thing about cooking at home for me,

693
00:34:43,520 --> 00:34:47,200
Speaker 3: is it cooking feels a little bit like a magic trick.

694
00:34:47,400 --> 00:34:50,080
Speaker 3: I mean eating, and if I know what went into it,

695
00:34:50,280 --> 00:34:52,400
Speaker 3: it's not as exciting. It doesn't feel like there's a

696
00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:55,279
Speaker 3: real surprise at the end. It's just like, oh, I

697
00:34:55,320 --> 00:34:57,200
Speaker 3: know exactly what this is going to be, and here

698
00:34:57,280 --> 00:34:57,560
Speaker 3: we are.

699
00:34:58,520 --> 00:35:00,480
Speaker 4: But when you go to a restaurant that you've been

700
00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:03,440
Speaker 4: to before and you know what to expect, it doesn't

701
00:35:03,440 --> 00:35:03,880
Speaker 4: feel like that.

702
00:35:05,280 --> 00:35:06,520
Speaker 3: You know, you've got to give it a couple of

703
00:35:06,520 --> 00:35:11,320
Speaker 3: weeks in between, but I still don't know what the

704
00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:15,360
Speaker 3: process was. So that's I just need the process removed.

705
00:35:15,520 --> 00:35:18,000
Speaker 3: I just need the food to appear before me and

706
00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:21,239
Speaker 3: then I can enjoy it, maybe ten percent more than

707
00:35:21,280 --> 00:35:23,360
Speaker 3: I would if I were to make it myself. Is

708
00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:26,120
Speaker 3: that worth the extra time? And is that so bad?

709
00:35:26,640 --> 00:35:30,960
Speaker 3: Is that is that so bad? Chain me up, take

710
00:35:31,040 --> 00:35:33,760
Speaker 3: me to prison. I don't know what to tell anybody.

711
00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:38,920
Speaker 3: You've spent I mean a decent amount of time in Chile, right, Yeah, Well,

712
00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:40,000
Speaker 3: we had been down there.

713
00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:42,880
Speaker 4: We were actually shooting when the pandemic started, so we

714
00:35:42,960 --> 00:35:43,720
Speaker 4: had a stoff production.

715
00:35:43,800 --> 00:35:46,120
Speaker 3: I come back kidding, how far into care you?

716
00:35:46,520 --> 00:35:49,160
Speaker 4: We had about like sixty percent of the second season?

717
00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:49,799
Speaker 3: Oh boy?

718
00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:53,879
Speaker 4: Yeah, we had the first four episodes like probably eighty

719
00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:57,640
Speaker 4: percent shot, and yeah, we had to shoot two more,

720
00:35:57,760 --> 00:36:00,000
Speaker 4: plus like a handful of scenes from the other episode.

721
00:36:00,239 --> 00:36:01,080
Speaker 2: Oh my.

722
00:36:01,800 --> 00:36:04,120
Speaker 3: And what was the general feeling when it got shut down?

723
00:36:04,280 --> 00:36:05,799
Speaker 3: Was it just I mean, was there like we can

724
00:36:05,840 --> 00:36:07,239
Speaker 3: try to figure this out, or was it just like

725
00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:07,879
Speaker 3: this is done.

726
00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:12,360
Speaker 4: Well, we know we're going to finish it sometime in

727
00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:14,080
Speaker 4: the next few weeks. We'll have a better sense of

728
00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:16,600
Speaker 4: when that'll be, right, But at the time, I mean,

729
00:36:16,760 --> 00:36:20,120
Speaker 4: because Chile is so far from the rest of the world,

730
00:36:20,280 --> 00:36:22,120
Speaker 4: it took a while to kind of get down there.

731
00:36:22,600 --> 00:36:23,560
Speaker 3: So as it was like.

732
00:36:23,760 --> 00:36:27,160
Speaker 4: Becoming worse and worse in Wuhan and gradually spread into Europe.

733
00:36:27,239 --> 00:36:29,600
Speaker 4: The cases in the US, where you know, the New

734
00:36:29,680 --> 00:36:32,720
Speaker 4: York case first appeared, it felt like, oh, whoa, Okay,

735
00:36:32,880 --> 00:36:36,600
Speaker 4: it's like it's it's still far right, And then we

736
00:36:36,719 --> 00:36:40,040
Speaker 4: started to take more precautions on set. There weren't cases

737
00:36:40,280 --> 00:36:42,440
Speaker 4: in well, as soon as cases started to arrive in

738
00:36:42,560 --> 00:36:44,880
Speaker 4: Chile from people that had flown back from Europe. We

739
00:36:45,000 --> 00:36:48,399
Speaker 4: had like masks on set, but only people that were

740
00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:51,520
Speaker 4: handling food would wear masks, and we had hand sanitizer everywhere,

741
00:36:52,080 --> 00:36:54,520
Speaker 4: and everyone was using hand sanitizer. But still I think

742
00:36:54,560 --> 00:36:57,160
Speaker 4: people felt sort of like, ah, like I mean, obviously

743
00:36:57,320 --> 00:36:58,919
Speaker 4: not everyone feld like this, but there was a sense

744
00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:01,160
Speaker 4: of like get it, you get it, and like we

745
00:37:01,239 --> 00:37:04,000
Speaker 4: didn't really know how bad it was. I started to

746
00:37:04,040 --> 00:37:06,800
Speaker 4: feel a bit on edge. And then we had a

747
00:37:06,880 --> 00:37:08,640
Speaker 4: bit of a spare where we found out that one

748
00:37:08,719 --> 00:37:12,359
Speaker 4: of our actors who had arrived from New York had

749
00:37:12,440 --> 00:37:15,359
Speaker 4: been found out. While we were shooting, our producers got

750
00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:17,520
Speaker 4: a call that he had been exposed to someone at

751
00:37:17,560 --> 00:37:19,840
Speaker 4: a show in New York who had such been positive.

752
00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:22,160
Speaker 4: So then it was like, oh my god, it's on set.

753
00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:24,480
Speaker 4: We got to shut down and we made the decision

754
00:37:24,680 --> 00:37:27,239
Speaker 4: like within twenty four hours to stop production after we

755
00:37:27,400 --> 00:37:29,360
Speaker 4: got that call, and it felt very much as we

756
00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:31,320
Speaker 4: were all on the same page that like, yeah, this

757
00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:35,279
Speaker 4: is not worth the risk and we can finish another time.

758
00:37:35,640 --> 00:37:38,320
Speaker 3: Wow, that is so wild and so yeah, it's just

759
00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:39,960
Speaker 3: up in the era as to when you'll finish it

760
00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:40,480
Speaker 3: at this point.

761
00:37:40,719 --> 00:37:42,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean they think that like maybe before the

762
00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:44,560
Speaker 4: end of the year we can go back with like

763
00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:49,680
Speaker 4: you know, obviously a ton of precaution, right, But you know,

764
00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:52,759
Speaker 4: it's hard to say because in Santiago, I'm not really

765
00:37:52,800 --> 00:37:55,279
Speaker 4: sure what their rules are on like, you know, is

766
00:37:55,320 --> 00:37:57,520
Speaker 4: the border still closed, you know, all that kind of

767
00:37:57,600 --> 00:38:00,720
Speaker 4: stuff we have. I mean, all our crew is Chilean,

768
00:38:00,920 --> 00:38:02,880
Speaker 4: but we have some asters that come from Mexico in

769
00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:05,480
Speaker 4: the US, so we would all have to be like

770
00:38:05,560 --> 00:38:09,240
Speaker 4: housed in the same place and CODs you know often

771
00:38:09,400 --> 00:38:12,759
Speaker 4: and all that stuff. I don't know, We're just like

772
00:38:12,880 --> 00:38:13,879
Speaker 4: playing it all right year.

773
00:38:14,120 --> 00:38:16,840
Speaker 3: Right, And do you enjoy spending time in Chile? Is

774
00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:19,279
Speaker 3: it a funny to be in.

775
00:38:19,719 --> 00:38:22,239
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's funny. It's like, I don't know why I

776
00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:24,839
Speaker 4: thought this before I went. When we went to shoot

777
00:38:24,880 --> 00:38:28,160
Speaker 4: the pilot, I thought I was expecting it to feel

778
00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:30,319
Speaker 4: like Panama. My family's from Panama, and I was like, oh,

779
00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:32,719
Speaker 4: they feel like Central America. And then we get there

780
00:38:32,880 --> 00:38:36,040
Speaker 4: and it's not all like Central America, and it feels

781
00:38:36,160 --> 00:38:40,480
Speaker 4: like a European city and it feels very like sort

782
00:38:40,520 --> 00:38:44,759
Speaker 4: of like structured, and the architecture is not what I expected.

783
00:38:44,960 --> 00:38:47,319
Speaker 4: It's like it's like a very like.

784
00:38:47,480 --> 00:38:51,040
Speaker 3: Rule oriented that's not what I expect.

785
00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:54,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean it's and it's fun. I've grown to

786
00:38:54,200 --> 00:38:57,799
Speaker 4: like it. It's like it's kind of a funny place.

787
00:38:57,880 --> 00:39:00,480
Speaker 4: It feels really like if someone was like, gonna, I

788
00:39:00,560 --> 00:39:03,160
Speaker 4: want to go like explore, I'm going to go to Santiago,

789
00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:06,000
Speaker 4: I'd be like, it's not the most like exciting.

790
00:39:06,480 --> 00:39:09,560
Speaker 3: Well Santiago Tourism board isn't listening.

791
00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:12,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, I know. I mean, but there are like things

792
00:39:12,760 --> 00:39:14,879
Speaker 4: that I really enjoy about it. It depends what kind

793
00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:18,080
Speaker 4: of like. But they have this huge mall that is

794
00:39:18,280 --> 00:39:22,919
Speaker 4: like a tourist destination for whatever reason, and it's like, yeah,

795
00:39:22,920 --> 00:39:26,759
Speaker 4: if you want to go like shopping, I guess, but

796
00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:29,040
Speaker 4: it's more like stuff outside of Santiago, the rest of

797
00:39:29,120 --> 00:39:31,759
Speaker 4: Chile that has like a lot of really beautiful like

798
00:39:32,000 --> 00:39:35,640
Speaker 4: lakes and mountains and things like that. But it is

799
00:39:35,719 --> 00:39:38,600
Speaker 4: a nice place and especially to work. You know, we're

800
00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:41,960
Speaker 4: on set all day, you know, it's I can like

801
00:39:42,080 --> 00:39:44,200
Speaker 4: run in the mornings and which I can't really do

802
00:39:44,400 --> 00:39:47,799
Speaker 4: well in like Panama for example. So it's like nice

803
00:39:47,840 --> 00:39:51,080
Speaker 4: that it is like a really calm, laid out, like

804
00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:53,920
Speaker 4: in a pretty simple way to navigate sort of place.

805
00:39:54,239 --> 00:40:00,239
Speaker 3: Right right, Yeah, it's a funny city. Now, maybe I'm wrong,

806
00:40:00,320 --> 00:40:03,719
Speaker 3: but is there like a Chilean sandwich where they put

807
00:40:03,800 --> 00:40:06,360
Speaker 3: like green beans on the sandwich? Is this something that

808
00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:09,520
Speaker 3: I'm imagining? I feel like, you know, that.

809
00:40:09,680 --> 00:40:12,040
Speaker 4: Sounds familiarly they put French fries.

810
00:40:12,200 --> 00:40:13,880
Speaker 3: Okay in some stuff.

811
00:40:14,000 --> 00:40:16,840
Speaker 4: I mean I truly I don't. I didn't eat a

812
00:40:16,960 --> 00:40:20,520
Speaker 4: ton of like traditional Chilean food because age is not a.

813
00:40:20,600 --> 00:40:21,000
Speaker 3: Lot of it.

814
00:40:21,320 --> 00:40:24,239
Speaker 4: It's really like when I first got there. You know again,

815
00:40:24,280 --> 00:40:26,319
Speaker 4: I hope the tourism board isn't listening, but I was like, oh,

816
00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:29,680
Speaker 4: Chilean don't know how to eat because there's bread on

817
00:40:29,800 --> 00:40:32,399
Speaker 4: the table. There's bread on the table that every meal,

818
00:40:32,440 --> 00:40:35,000
Speaker 4: but the bread sucks. There's not like good bread, it's

819
00:40:35,040 --> 00:40:38,640
Speaker 4: just like bread. And then the food is like not seasoned.

820
00:40:38,680 --> 00:40:43,040
Speaker 4: Well they don't like. But also I'm vegan and they

821
00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:45,600
Speaker 4: eat a lot of seafood, so yeah, stuff like that.

822
00:40:45,800 --> 00:40:48,160
Speaker 4: That was like Okay, I can't participate in that. So

823
00:40:48,320 --> 00:40:50,360
Speaker 4: the places that I went to eat that had vegan

824
00:40:50,440 --> 00:40:53,440
Speaker 4: stuff was truly like, oh this is There was one

825
00:40:53,480 --> 00:40:55,719
Speaker 4: restaurant that I like and I'd go there every day,

826
00:40:56,320 --> 00:40:59,160
Speaker 4: but anything else I tried is like not good and

827
00:40:59,280 --> 00:41:01,239
Speaker 4: the food that both seem to us like people love

828
00:41:01,280 --> 00:41:04,960
Speaker 4: tomatoes there, but not like good tomatoes, just like Roma tomatoes.

829
00:41:05,040 --> 00:41:07,439
Speaker 4: But you know, I was like, why did they eat

830
00:41:07,480 --> 00:41:09,680
Speaker 4: Why don't they have like better food? And I think

831
00:41:09,680 --> 00:41:12,120
Speaker 4: it's because when when, like you know, they were so

832
00:41:12,360 --> 00:41:14,359
Speaker 4: closed off for a long time and there's so much

833
00:41:14,360 --> 00:41:18,480
Speaker 4: European influence there that that it just brought like kind

834
00:41:18,520 --> 00:41:23,920
Speaker 4: of ruined whatever. Like culturally interesting cuisine they had was

835
00:41:24,040 --> 00:41:27,360
Speaker 4: just like whitewashed with like bread and Roma tomatoes.

836
00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:31,680
Speaker 3: A shame. Julia is not coming off well on this podcast.

837
00:41:32,239 --> 00:41:34,840
Speaker 3: But I love Chileanan, you know, and I.

838
00:41:36,920 --> 00:41:40,239
Speaker 4: Love working there, and there is a vegan restaurant there,

839
00:41:40,239 --> 00:41:42,760
Speaker 4: a vegetarian restaurant but with a lot of vegan options

840
00:41:42,800 --> 00:41:46,520
Speaker 4: that I love, and I would do anything for that restaurant.

841
00:41:46,680 --> 00:41:49,439
Speaker 3: It really just takes one good restaurant. I mean, yeah,

842
00:41:50,040 --> 00:41:53,360
Speaker 3: who needs more than one good restaurant, especially somebody eating

843
00:41:53,520 --> 00:41:58,320
Speaker 3: you know, oatmeal for breakfast and you know, yeah, spinach

844
00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:04,839
Speaker 3: for dinner. Effort. You're okay, you're fine, Yeah, you're absolutely fine. Okay, Well,

845
00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:06,239
Speaker 3: you know what, I feel like, it's time to play

846
00:42:06,280 --> 00:42:08,920
Speaker 3: a game. I just want to play a game. Do

847
00:42:08,960 --> 00:42:11,320
Speaker 3: you want to play a game called Gift Master or

848
00:42:11,320 --> 00:42:15,799
Speaker 3: a game called gift or a curse? Yes, Master, Okay,

849
00:42:15,840 --> 00:42:20,000
Speaker 3: we're going to play gift Master. First of all, I

850
00:42:20,120 --> 00:42:23,520
Speaker 3: need a number from you between one and ten seven. Okay.

851
00:42:23,600 --> 00:42:26,600
Speaker 3: I have to do some calculations. This is a randomnest

852
00:42:26,719 --> 00:42:29,000
Speaker 3: things that I have to count. So for the next

853
00:42:29,160 --> 00:42:31,960
Speaker 3: minute or who knows how long, I want you to

854
00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:35,120
Speaker 3: promote something, recommend something. You just have the microphone, so

855
00:42:35,160 --> 00:42:38,399
Speaker 3: you just spend your time here. Wisely, I'll be right back.

856
00:42:38,480 --> 00:42:42,040
Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, Well, while I have the time, I want

857
00:42:42,080 --> 00:42:47,080
Speaker 4: to give a big shout out to drivers everywhere for

858
00:42:47,880 --> 00:42:49,920
Speaker 4: doing their thing every time to get behind the wheel.

859
00:42:50,840 --> 00:42:51,960
Speaker 3: I want to give a big.

860
00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:55,480
Speaker 4: Thank you to my neighbor who lives next door, Thank

861
00:42:55,520 --> 00:42:58,480
Speaker 4: you so much for doing that. I want to thank

862
00:42:58,719 --> 00:43:04,200
Speaker 4: hosts leading guests for centuries it feels like.

863
00:43:04,520 --> 00:43:04,680
Speaker 2: Now.

864
00:43:06,320 --> 00:43:09,480
Speaker 4: I want to say thank you to my landlord for

865
00:43:09,640 --> 00:43:14,560
Speaker 4: renting me my apartment and for generating steady income for

866
00:43:14,719 --> 00:43:18,080
Speaker 4: her and her family. I want to say thank you

867
00:43:18,600 --> 00:43:22,880
Speaker 4: to who else. Well, I would be remiss if I

868
00:43:22,960 --> 00:43:26,160
Speaker 4: didn't thank the Academy right now, because if it one

869
00:43:26,239 --> 00:43:30,360
Speaker 4: for them, there wouldn't be Emmy's, and there wouldn't be

870
00:43:30,640 --> 00:43:33,200
Speaker 4: oscars and Tony's and all those things that was come

871
00:43:33,280 --> 00:43:36,400
Speaker 4: to cherish, especially right now during the pandemic, when so

872
00:43:36,600 --> 00:43:39,280
Speaker 4: much is at stake and this is the new normal

873
00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:42,200
Speaker 4: and we are all just figuring it out as we

874
00:43:42,320 --> 00:43:45,839
Speaker 4: go along. So without further ado, I'm going to throw

875
00:43:45,840 --> 00:43:49,719
Speaker 4: it back to the band, who's here graciously covering the

876
00:43:50,040 --> 00:43:53,680
Speaker 4: entire Andrea Bachelli discography T get Away.

877
00:43:54,280 --> 00:43:57,040
Speaker 3: Oh that really lined up really well. I managed to

878
00:43:57,080 --> 00:44:02,160
Speaker 3: get it just in time. Great, very exciting to half

879
00:44:02,280 --> 00:44:04,640
Speaker 3: listen to while I was calculating. This is how gift

880
00:44:04,719 --> 00:44:09,800
Speaker 3: master works. I'm going to tell you three objects, items, whatever,

881
00:44:10,280 --> 00:44:12,200
Speaker 3: and then I'm also going to tell you three celebrities.

882
00:44:12,520 --> 00:44:15,000
Speaker 3: You have to tell me which item you would give

883
00:44:15,040 --> 00:44:18,319
Speaker 3: which celebrity and why does that make sense? It's very simple? Yeah?

884
00:44:18,400 --> 00:44:20,680
Speaker 4: Would I have a question technical questions? What if I

885
00:44:20,760 --> 00:44:21,800
Speaker 4: don't know the celebrity?

886
00:44:22,160 --> 00:44:24,680
Speaker 3: Oh, I'll try there's a good chance that I might

887
00:44:24,760 --> 00:44:26,920
Speaker 3: not know the celebrity. That's it. You know that I

888
00:44:27,000 --> 00:44:28,440
Speaker 3: live in a world of not knowing a lot of

889
00:44:28,520 --> 00:44:31,080
Speaker 3: who a lot of celebrities are. But I'll do my

890
00:44:31,160 --> 00:44:33,919
Speaker 3: best to explain to you who they are and their

891
00:44:34,040 --> 00:44:37,880
Speaker 3: general thing should But I imagine you'll know, Okay, I

892
00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:43,760
Speaker 3: mean these are you know I Marilyn Monroe, Babe Bruce,

893
00:44:44,600 --> 00:44:49,479
Speaker 3: John F. Kennedy. No, I think you'll know these people,

894
00:44:49,680 --> 00:44:52,759
Speaker 3: and if not, we'll work around it. This game, you know,

895
00:44:53,640 --> 00:44:58,239
Speaker 3: ultimately it's a growth exercise, and we're both going to grow.

896
00:44:58,520 --> 00:45:02,040
Speaker 3: The listener will learn, and we'll all become better for

897
00:45:02,680 --> 00:45:05,719
Speaker 3: playing it. So the first the gifts that you're going

898
00:45:05,800 --> 00:45:09,279
Speaker 3: to be giving are a remote controlled truck, you know,

899
00:45:09,400 --> 00:45:13,759
Speaker 3: like a toy, remote controlled truck You're going to be giving, uh,

900
00:45:14,200 --> 00:45:18,040
Speaker 3: let's see, a pair of chunky boots, and then also

901
00:45:19,239 --> 00:45:21,520
Speaker 3: a bag of mousetraps. Those are the three things that

902
00:45:21,719 --> 00:45:24,160
Speaker 3: I've calculated here, and then you're going to have to

903
00:45:24,239 --> 00:45:28,960
Speaker 3: give them to the following people. Actor John Goodman, we

904
00:45:29,080 --> 00:45:32,200
Speaker 3: know him from Roseanne, we know him from all sort

905
00:45:32,239 --> 00:45:36,840
Speaker 3: of terrific actor. Who else is on this list? Marie

906
00:45:36,920 --> 00:45:42,000
Speaker 3: Osmond of the Osmond family. You know, she's this former singer,

907
00:45:42,520 --> 00:45:45,800
Speaker 3: the sister of Donnie Osmond. You know they were singers

908
00:45:45,800 --> 00:45:46,719
Speaker 3: in the seventies.

909
00:45:47,920 --> 00:45:53,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, can I look up? Yeah, okay, because I haven't

910
00:45:53,160 --> 00:45:54,520
Speaker 4: seen me a lot where I'm like, I don't know,

911
00:45:54,840 --> 00:45:57,960
Speaker 4: I don't know anyone's name, but if I see them,

912
00:45:57,960 --> 00:45:59,160
Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, okay.

913
00:45:59,160 --> 00:46:01,640
Speaker 3: Right, Marie husband, for some reason, always gives me the

914
00:46:01,719 --> 00:46:03,480
Speaker 3: vibe of being a giant spider.

915
00:46:03,640 --> 00:46:06,560
Speaker 4: So yes, okay, now that I'm looking at the photo,

916
00:46:06,600 --> 00:46:07,880
Speaker 4: I totally agree and I get it.

917
00:46:07,960 --> 00:46:12,000
Speaker 3: Okay, that makes me feel actually really good because you know,

918
00:46:12,080 --> 00:46:14,600
Speaker 3: I don't know where that that vibe is coming from her,

919
00:46:14,640 --> 00:46:18,000
Speaker 3: but she's got a spider vibe. And finally, director Guermo

920
00:46:18,160 --> 00:46:23,239
Speaker 3: del Toro of you know, Pans Labyrinth, the what was

921
00:46:23,320 --> 00:46:23,680
Speaker 3: that movie?

922
00:46:24,160 --> 00:46:24,879
Speaker 4: Shape of Water?

923
00:46:25,360 --> 00:46:30,759
Speaker 3: Yes, Shape of Water, various films, and so there you go.

924
00:46:31,320 --> 00:46:32,520
Speaker 3: What's going to happen here?

925
00:46:32,920 --> 00:46:38,760
Speaker 4: Well, I would give Garamo before the bag of moss track, okay,

926
00:46:40,280 --> 00:46:44,560
Speaker 4: because there must be a rodent infensation somewhere in the

927
00:46:44,960 --> 00:46:49,440
Speaker 4: proximity to him. I assume he has like a big

928
00:46:49,520 --> 00:46:52,080
Speaker 4: property and maybe on the perimeter he would want to

929
00:46:52,080 --> 00:46:52,839
Speaker 4: put the masks track.

930
00:46:53,200 --> 00:46:55,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like I've seen pictures of his house

931
00:46:55,239 --> 00:46:57,320
Speaker 3: and it's like it feels like there's a decent amount

932
00:46:57,320 --> 00:47:00,960
Speaker 3: of clutter. I feel like he's like, yes, probably have clients,

933
00:47:01,239 --> 00:47:01,920
Speaker 3: Yeah there's.

934
00:47:01,880 --> 00:47:03,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, or he can put his scripts under them if

935
00:47:03,960 --> 00:47:05,759
Speaker 4: they're not finishing. He doesn't want anyone to read them.

936
00:47:07,840 --> 00:47:14,000
Speaker 4: And then I would give John Goodman the chunky boots, Okay,

937
00:47:14,320 --> 00:47:18,120
Speaker 4: why because they you know, I thought at first to

938
00:47:18,160 --> 00:47:19,759
Speaker 4: give him some Marie Ausman, but then I thought she

939
00:47:19,840 --> 00:47:20,799
Speaker 4: already has so many.

940
00:47:20,800 --> 00:47:23,160
Speaker 3: Tons, four closets of chunky boots.

941
00:47:23,440 --> 00:47:25,919
Speaker 4: Yeah, it doesn't need anymore. And John didn't probably doesn't

942
00:47:25,960 --> 00:47:29,400
Speaker 4: have any chunky boots, so now he has some. And

943
00:47:29,480 --> 00:47:31,719
Speaker 4: then Maria Ethen gets the toy truck. I'm sure there's

944
00:47:32,360 --> 00:47:35,000
Speaker 4: a child in her life that could benefit from.

945
00:47:34,960 --> 00:47:40,120
Speaker 3: It, or Marie herself in the show, or I don't

946
00:47:40,160 --> 00:47:42,560
Speaker 3: know what she's doing stage show.

947
00:47:43,440 --> 00:47:45,000
Speaker 4: That's how they bring her the Michaels phone.

948
00:47:46,200 --> 00:47:49,640
Speaker 3: They strap a microphone to a remote control truck and

949
00:47:49,800 --> 00:47:51,680
Speaker 3: she drives it out to herself. I feel like that

950
00:47:51,719 --> 00:47:54,080
Speaker 3: would be a decent I would scream and holler for

951
00:47:54,160 --> 00:47:54,880
Speaker 3: that stay.

952
00:47:54,600 --> 00:47:57,479
Speaker 4: And it becomes like her her trademark, and when people

953
00:47:57,560 --> 00:48:00,680
Speaker 4: see the truck coming out, because I know she's gonna sing.

954
00:48:02,560 --> 00:48:05,000
Speaker 3: They hear like that high whine of an electric toy

955
00:48:05,200 --> 00:48:08,080
Speaker 3: coming onto the stage, and people just lose their minds.

956
00:48:09,000 --> 00:48:11,239
Speaker 3: I don't even know as Marie singing anymore. I don't know.

957
00:48:11,440 --> 00:48:15,400
Speaker 3: But if she isn't singing, she's got you know, vegas

958
00:48:15,520 --> 00:48:19,360
Speaker 3: or something. She's Yeah, you know, once you start singing,

959
00:48:19,440 --> 00:48:23,680
Speaker 3: you don't stop, you don't stop. I think that's great.

960
00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:25,040
Speaker 4: I have never started.

961
00:48:26,000 --> 00:48:28,400
Speaker 3: Do you sing at all? I'm scared I would never stop. No,

962
00:48:28,560 --> 00:48:31,719
Speaker 3: I'm a really bad singer. Oh that makes me feel better.

963
00:48:31,800 --> 00:48:32,600
Speaker 3: I'm not a good singer.

964
00:48:33,520 --> 00:48:34,120
Speaker 4: That makes sense.

965
00:48:34,239 --> 00:48:36,480
Speaker 3: That makes sense. You don't look like someone who could sing.

966
00:48:38,760 --> 00:48:40,560
Speaker 3: I mean, actually, I feel like a lot of drummers

967
00:48:40,600 --> 00:48:42,120
Speaker 3: don't sing. Is that true?

968
00:48:42,280 --> 00:48:42,480
Speaker 4: Yeah?

969
00:48:42,560 --> 00:48:43,879
Speaker 3: I don't sing.

970
00:48:43,960 --> 00:48:46,200
Speaker 4: If I was ever like when I play music with

971
00:48:46,280 --> 00:48:48,120
Speaker 4: my friends Amy and Laura Life, they were like, do

972
00:48:48,200 --> 00:48:49,640
Speaker 4: you want to sing? Well, first of all, I can't

973
00:48:49,680 --> 00:48:51,880
Speaker 4: drum and sing at the same time, right, And I

974
00:48:51,920 --> 00:48:55,040
Speaker 4: would also be like, no, I'm not a good vocalist.

975
00:48:55,480 --> 00:48:58,080
Speaker 4: You can know why you're asking me to sing, because

976
00:48:58,080 --> 00:48:59,480
Speaker 4: it's not my job to sing here.

977
00:49:00,040 --> 00:49:05,719
Speaker 3: I'm here for another reason. Yeah, yeah, I can't sing

978
00:49:05,800 --> 00:49:08,040
Speaker 3: Happy birthday or anything. I just cannot.

979
00:49:08,480 --> 00:49:10,880
Speaker 4: I get like a little embarrassed singing happy birthday.

980
00:49:11,040 --> 00:49:15,600
Speaker 3: Oh I feel anytime people are just vocalizing in unison,

981
00:49:15,640 --> 00:49:18,000
Speaker 3: in any situation, I feel embarrassed, Like if people are

982
00:49:18,080 --> 00:49:21,160
Speaker 3: cheering or anything. There's a real I don't know what

983
00:49:21,280 --> 00:49:23,360
Speaker 3: it is, if I feel very self conscious or I

984
00:49:23,480 --> 00:49:26,000
Speaker 3: just feel embarrassed for everybody doing it. I don't know why.

985
00:49:26,480 --> 00:49:28,280
Speaker 4: You know, I haven't have a problem with people singing.

986
00:49:28,360 --> 00:49:31,440
Speaker 4: I understand that it brings tremendous joy to so many people,

987
00:49:31,640 --> 00:49:34,879
Speaker 4: and I'm not asking them to stop. What I feel

988
00:49:34,880 --> 00:49:37,759
Speaker 4: embarrassed is because I know I can't sing. And in

989
00:49:37,880 --> 00:49:40,279
Speaker 4: Happy Birthday, the part where you's a happy birthday, Dar

990
00:49:40,360 --> 00:49:42,120
Speaker 4: or so and so and you go up a little bit,

991
00:49:42,280 --> 00:49:45,120
Speaker 4: That's when I'm like, oh no, well, and that's.

992
00:49:44,880 --> 00:49:47,240
Speaker 3: The part where it's like everyone's driving off the cliff

993
00:49:47,239 --> 00:49:49,279
Speaker 3: at a different time. So there's a good chance people

994
00:49:49,280 --> 00:49:51,360
Speaker 3: are going to able to hear your voice there, and

995
00:49:51,719 --> 00:49:54,640
Speaker 3: you're going to really humiliate yourself on someone else's birthday,

996
00:49:54,880 --> 00:49:59,960
Speaker 3: and it's a whole situation. Yeah, so I understand that completely.

997
00:50:01,160 --> 00:50:04,040
Speaker 3: All that said, we're moving into the final segment of

998
00:50:04,120 --> 00:50:07,760
Speaker 3: the podcast listeners. This is called I said no questions

999
00:50:07,800 --> 00:50:09,960
Speaker 3: they're writing into I said no gifts at gmail dot com.

1000
00:50:10,160 --> 00:50:12,840
Speaker 3: These people are desperate. They need help finding gifts for

1001
00:50:12,920 --> 00:50:15,520
Speaker 3: people in their lives. Will you just help me answer

1002
00:50:15,520 --> 00:50:18,319
Speaker 3: a couple questions? Okay, let me read this first one.

1003
00:50:18,360 --> 00:50:18,520
Speaker 4: Here.

1004
00:50:19,040 --> 00:50:23,000
Speaker 3: It says Highbridger, my husband and I are due with

1005
00:50:23,160 --> 00:50:25,920
Speaker 3: our first child, and while I honestly don't think he'll

1006
00:50:25,960 --> 00:50:28,440
Speaker 3: buy me a gift to accompany the birth, I'm the

1007
00:50:28,520 --> 00:50:31,399
Speaker 3: kind of gal that frequently does that what I wish

1008
00:50:31,560 --> 00:50:34,239
Speaker 3: other people would do, in hopes that they get the

1009
00:50:34,320 --> 00:50:37,760
Speaker 3: message without actually having to talk about it. What should

1010
00:50:37,800 --> 00:50:41,080
Speaker 3: I buy my husband? Okay, I think I'm misreading here,

1011
00:50:42,640 --> 00:50:44,319
Speaker 3: but she says, what should I buy my husband? Should

1012
00:50:44,320 --> 00:50:45,600
Speaker 3: I give him a gift around the time of the

1013
00:50:45,640 --> 00:50:50,280
Speaker 3: birth or should I just wait until Father's Day? Follow

1014
00:50:50,360 --> 00:50:52,239
Speaker 3: up question if he doesn't buy me a gift but

1015
00:50:52,320 --> 00:50:55,480
Speaker 3: then receives one and realizes maybe he should have and asked, Oh, okay,

1016
00:50:55,480 --> 00:50:58,680
Speaker 3: now I'm seeing what I'm getting a fuller picture, and

1017
00:50:58,800 --> 00:51:02,480
Speaker 3: so sincerely, And she just says, first time mom who

1018
00:51:02,520 --> 00:51:05,960
Speaker 3: wants a memento to commemorate everything I've been through? Okay,

1019
00:51:06,040 --> 00:51:08,359
Speaker 3: so basically what's happening is she's having a baby, she's

1020
00:51:08,400 --> 00:51:10,480
Speaker 3: hoping her husband buys her a gift without being told

1021
00:51:10,600 --> 00:51:14,359
Speaker 3: she's going to buy him a gift, and is now

1022
00:51:14,440 --> 00:51:19,040
Speaker 3: afraid he's gonna feel guilty because I mean, uh, but

1023
00:51:19,360 --> 00:51:20,200
Speaker 3: you know, I've.

1024
00:51:20,000 --> 00:51:22,520
Speaker 4: Got to say that. The while you were reading it,

1025
00:51:22,640 --> 00:51:26,800
Speaker 4: I thought, this is not a healthy communication. If you

1026
00:51:26,960 --> 00:51:29,440
Speaker 4: want him to can't do you a gift, but you

1027
00:51:29,520 --> 00:51:31,319
Speaker 4: don't want to talk to him about it, I don't

1028
00:51:31,360 --> 00:51:34,640
Speaker 4: want to communicate. That's like relationship one on one. They

1029
00:51:34,719 --> 00:51:36,880
Speaker 4: got to communicate. That is, you got to talk to

1030
00:51:36,920 --> 00:51:38,840
Speaker 4: your husband about the gifts and to buy him a

1031
00:51:38,920 --> 00:51:41,840
Speaker 4: gift and hope that he understands you wanted him to

1032
00:51:41,920 --> 00:51:44,839
Speaker 4: get you a gift. Is expecting a lot of him

1033
00:51:44,960 --> 00:51:46,960
Speaker 4: and also putting him in a situation where no matter what,

1034
00:51:47,160 --> 00:51:51,040
Speaker 4: he will fail. You know, if you want do you

1035
00:51:51,239 --> 00:51:53,759
Speaker 4: want him to feel guilty? Because he will if you

1036
00:51:53,840 --> 00:51:56,120
Speaker 4: give him a gift and he realizes it's because you

1037
00:51:56,239 --> 00:51:56,640
Speaker 4: wanted a.

1038
00:51:56,680 --> 00:51:57,600
Speaker 3: Give You know.

1039
00:51:58,120 --> 00:52:01,160
Speaker 4: I think they should talk and decide for a gift together.

1040
00:52:01,840 --> 00:52:04,719
Speaker 3: This is beautiful and it's such a mature way of

1041
00:52:04,840 --> 00:52:07,320
Speaker 3: looking at gift giving, which I think most people don't do,

1042
00:52:08,000 --> 00:52:11,080
Speaker 3: which is there is like I'll do that occasionally. I'll

1043
00:52:11,120 --> 00:52:13,600
Speaker 3: like wait till my birthday and hope my boyfriend has

1044
00:52:13,880 --> 00:52:17,040
Speaker 3: gotten me something or has planned something without telling him

1045
00:52:17,080 --> 00:52:18,960
Speaker 3: I'd like to do something, or you know that sort

1046
00:52:19,000 --> 00:52:21,920
Speaker 3: of thing, and then when it doesn't happen, he didn't know.

1047
00:52:22,360 --> 00:52:25,920
Speaker 3: I mean, I mean, there is a baseline like assumption

1048
00:52:26,600 --> 00:52:29,120
Speaker 3: that's the person's birthday is coming up, I should do something.

1049
00:52:30,320 --> 00:52:33,360
Speaker 3: But you've got to communicate if there's a in a

1050
00:52:33,400 --> 00:52:35,960
Speaker 3: situation like this where it's like, I've never heard of

1051
00:52:36,080 --> 00:52:37,840
Speaker 3: giving somebody a gift after.

1052
00:52:37,680 --> 00:52:39,880
Speaker 4: They Yeah, you know, I thought it would be a

1053
00:52:39,960 --> 00:52:40,960
Speaker 4: gift for the baby or.

1054
00:52:41,000 --> 00:52:44,920
Speaker 3: Something, right, which, but the gifts for each other, it's

1055
00:52:44,960 --> 00:52:49,359
Speaker 3: a nice thought. Yeah, So, I mean, I've now we've

1056
00:52:49,440 --> 00:52:51,960
Speaker 3: zoomed out so far. I don't even know what she's asking.

1057
00:52:52,360 --> 00:52:57,920
Speaker 3: I don't even know why we're here, completely black, and

1058
00:53:01,480 --> 00:53:03,560
Speaker 3: let's just say, what should she get her husband? After

1059
00:53:03,680 --> 00:53:05,360
Speaker 3: she tells her husband I want a gift.

1060
00:53:05,560 --> 00:53:07,560
Speaker 4: They have a healthy conversation about all this.

1061
00:53:07,760 --> 00:53:10,040
Speaker 3: I mean that almost is the gift. We're going to

1062
00:53:10,080 --> 00:53:12,359
Speaker 3: commute a bit more because we're bringing a child into

1063
00:53:12,360 --> 00:53:14,759
Speaker 3: the world, going to be.

1064
00:53:17,320 --> 00:53:24,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's toxic. Little gift, I think a good gift

1065
00:53:24,680 --> 00:53:28,320
Speaker 4: for a soon to be father. You know, I'm so

1066
00:53:28,560 --> 00:53:30,200
Speaker 4: tempted to say a chunky boot.

1067
00:53:34,680 --> 00:53:36,719
Speaker 3: A child should grow up knowing his father can wear

1068
00:53:36,800 --> 00:53:37,520
Speaker 3: chunky boots.

1069
00:53:38,360 --> 00:53:41,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, and you should argue that a lot

1070
00:53:41,080 --> 00:53:44,800
Speaker 4: of boots are chunky, sort of by default, that a

1071
00:53:44,880 --> 00:53:46,120
Speaker 4: boot is a chunky shoe.

1072
00:53:46,200 --> 00:53:48,439
Speaker 3: That's right, Yeah, that's very true. I mean, I guess

1073
00:53:48,440 --> 00:53:53,560
Speaker 3: that's like a streamlined boot is a stranger thing, less comptant.

1074
00:53:54,640 --> 00:53:57,440
Speaker 3: Maybe get the dad both a chunky and a you know,

1075
00:53:57,600 --> 00:53:59,960
Speaker 3: like a sleek, streamlined.

1076
00:53:59,320 --> 00:54:03,919
Speaker 4: Boot, a strain warned boot. What I do want to think?

1077
00:54:04,000 --> 00:54:05,759
Speaker 4: I mean, it's really hard to take a gift for

1078
00:54:05,840 --> 00:54:06,360
Speaker 4: someone when you.

1079
00:54:06,360 --> 00:54:08,640
Speaker 3: Don't know anything about it other than the fact that

1080
00:54:08,680 --> 00:54:12,360
Speaker 3: they're not communicating as much as they should walkie talking.

1081
00:54:13,120 --> 00:54:15,800
Speaker 4: How about some noise canceling headphones so that he doesn't

1082
00:54:15,800 --> 00:54:18,160
Speaker 4: have to listen to his wife and declining babies.

1083
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Speaker 3: No, I feel like you you're gonna want to get him, like,

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00:54:31,880 --> 00:54:35,000
Speaker 3: you know, something, something that he's able to spend time with,

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00:54:35,239 --> 00:54:35,960
Speaker 3: maybe like a.

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00:54:36,239 --> 00:54:39,640
Speaker 4: Babysitter or something, or like a nanny, something so that

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00:54:39,800 --> 00:54:42,879
Speaker 4: like they can have take a turn like not being

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00:54:43,000 --> 00:54:43,600
Speaker 4: up all night.

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Speaker 3: Every now and then with the babe, because you know

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00:54:46,280 --> 00:54:49,680
Speaker 3: that drives people insane. Yeah, okay, well, I feel like

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00:54:49,880 --> 00:54:55,919
Speaker 3: chunky boot noise canceling headphones so that he doesn't.

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00:54:55,640 --> 00:54:57,839
Speaker 4: Have to hear finishing, so he doesn't have to hear

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00:54:57,960 --> 00:54:59,040
Speaker 4: his wife crying.

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Speaker 3: Baby just put him on a path to beautiful fatherhood.

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Speaker 3: I hope that this has been of some use to you,

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00:55:06,960 --> 00:55:09,080
Speaker 3: but I feel like the real home run here was

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Speaker 3: the communication. Move on with that and do congratulations on

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Speaker 3: the baby, and everything's going to be fine. Okay, one more,

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00:55:18,200 --> 00:55:21,239
Speaker 3: let's do this one, says mister Weineger and guest, I

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00:55:21,320 --> 00:55:25,000
Speaker 3: deeply appreciate. Okay, blah blah blah. Let's see, I'm getting

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00:55:28,920 --> 00:55:31,000
Speaker 3: too much, too much. I'm trying to get to the

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00:55:31,080 --> 00:55:33,480
Speaker 3: heart of the matter here and here it is. It

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00:55:33,520 --> 00:55:36,440
Speaker 3: says I'm getting married on October second, and my future

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00:55:36,520 --> 00:55:39,640
Speaker 3: bride has expressed that she look at this communication, has

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00:55:39,719 --> 00:55:41,600
Speaker 3: expressed that she would like a gift on the morning

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00:55:41,800 --> 00:55:44,560
Speaker 3: of the wedding. All these unconventional gifts. What do you

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00:55:44,600 --> 00:55:46,520
Speaker 3: get your bride as a gift for the morning of

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00:55:47,280 --> 00:55:49,560
Speaker 3: birthday Christmas? No problem. I can usually come up with

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00:55:49,600 --> 00:55:52,400
Speaker 3: something thoughtful, but a wedding day gift. I need some advice,

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00:55:52,520 --> 00:55:55,439
Speaker 3: some pro advice, he says, which, okay, well, I don't

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00:55:55,440 --> 00:55:58,520
Speaker 3: know what you're about to get. The agree budget is

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00:55:58,560 --> 00:56:01,440
Speaker 3: around one hundred dollars, so there's an agreement. Okay. She

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00:56:01,600 --> 00:56:05,840
Speaker 3: likes coffee, she likes lavender, all things cozy and being outdoors.

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00:56:05,880 --> 00:56:08,080
Speaker 3: Could you help me out? And that's from Daniel. I mean,

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00:56:08,440 --> 00:56:10,880
Speaker 3: what an what a swing here? We get into some

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Speaker 3: real gift communication. They have a budget. Yeah, they both

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00:56:14,120 --> 00:56:16,680
Speaker 3: know there's an expectation, they know what they want from

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00:56:16,719 --> 00:56:17,080
Speaker 3: each other.

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Speaker 4: I mean, what.

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Speaker 3: Wedding I mean yeah, and wow. So she likes coffee lavender,

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00:56:25,680 --> 00:56:27,920
Speaker 3: so she just likes the scent of lavender, I imagine.

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00:56:28,040 --> 00:56:29,600
Speaker 3: But this is not going to happen on the morning

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Speaker 3: of the wedding. So I could get her worth of coffee,

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00:56:35,640 --> 00:56:37,799
Speaker 3: just a huge bag of coffee she has to kind

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00:56:37,840 --> 00:56:42,399
Speaker 3: of carry around in her wedding dress. Is there such

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00:56:42,440 --> 00:56:44,600
Speaker 3: thing as lavender flavored coffee?

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00:56:45,480 --> 00:56:47,400
Speaker 4: But you know what, if you really like coffee, you

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00:56:47,800 --> 00:56:48,680
Speaker 4: want you don't talk with.

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00:56:48,960 --> 00:56:51,080
Speaker 3: You don't want to flavor, you want the coffee flavor.

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00:56:51,320 --> 00:56:54,080
Speaker 3: You want the coffee flavor. Right, So that's mixing worlds

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00:56:54,120 --> 00:56:59,400
Speaker 3: in a bad way. She likes being outdoors. I mean,

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00:56:59,440 --> 00:57:03,800
Speaker 3: I've recently received a gift that was a Coleman cooler,

1133
00:57:04,120 --> 00:57:06,960
Speaker 3: which is perfect for outdoor. Why not get her some

1134
00:57:07,480 --> 00:57:10,000
Speaker 3: way to make like a cold coffee. I use a

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00:57:10,120 --> 00:57:13,680
Speaker 3: toddy to make a cold brew coffee. You get her

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00:57:13,760 --> 00:57:17,280
Speaker 3: that and the little pouch, and suddenly you're out drinking

1137
00:57:17,320 --> 00:57:18,040
Speaker 3: coffee together.

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00:57:18,520 --> 00:57:18,720
Speaker 2: Yeah.

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00:57:19,040 --> 00:57:22,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's first of all excellent with Coleman.

1140
00:57:23,720 --> 00:57:25,720
Speaker 3: We've got to bring it back to Coleman or you

1141
00:57:26,080 --> 00:57:29,720
Speaker 3: paid one hundred thousand dollars to So we've got to

1142
00:57:29,800 --> 00:57:35,800
Speaker 3: really pound that. What what do you think the morning of?

1143
00:57:35,920 --> 00:57:37,840
Speaker 3: Does I have to think on the morning of?

1144
00:57:38,280 --> 00:57:39,480
Speaker 4: I don't think it has to be used on the

1145
00:57:39,520 --> 00:57:39,920
Speaker 4: morning of.

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00:57:40,400 --> 00:57:40,560
Speaker 2: You know.

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00:57:41,000 --> 00:57:44,560
Speaker 4: I feel like maybe if they're outdoors, they both spend

1148
00:57:44,640 --> 00:57:47,080
Speaker 4: time outdoors, they could invest in one of those little

1149
00:57:47,240 --> 00:57:49,760
Speaker 4: like camping coffee makers, but like a nice one.

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00:57:49,840 --> 00:57:53,240
Speaker 3: What's that like the little metal thing? Yeah?

1151
00:57:53,400 --> 00:57:56,600
Speaker 4: Like I feel like what I don't I don't I

1152
00:57:56,720 --> 00:57:58,640
Speaker 4: wasn't looking for something like that, but I was looking

1153
00:57:58,720 --> 00:58:01,400
Speaker 4: at like Ari I for something else got it outdoor related,

1154
00:58:01,480 --> 00:58:04,400
Speaker 4: and I and I came across like that kind of thing.

1155
00:58:04,600 --> 00:58:06,400
Speaker 4: So I'm like, oh, maybe they could get they don't

1156
00:58:06,440 --> 00:58:10,640
Speaker 4: have one, and I feel like maybe those Italian style like.

1157
00:58:10,760 --> 00:58:14,440
Speaker 3: So hot ones, right and you put that something like

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00:58:14,560 --> 00:58:16,760
Speaker 3: that or something and heat up your coffee.

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00:58:17,160 --> 00:58:20,280
Speaker 4: Yeah. Or if she doesn't have a nice like tumbler

1160
00:58:20,520 --> 00:58:22,720
Speaker 4: or something like that, there are some really pretty tumbles

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00:58:22,800 --> 00:58:23,200
Speaker 4: that are.

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00:58:23,360 --> 00:58:26,919
Speaker 3: Okay that are out there, you know, off online, head

1163
00:58:26,960 --> 00:58:28,040
Speaker 3: to the store, off.

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00:58:27,960 --> 00:58:31,120
Speaker 4: Online, or you could do something that that doesn't involve

1165
00:58:31,800 --> 00:58:32,800
Speaker 4: any of those things.

1166
00:58:33,600 --> 00:58:35,680
Speaker 3: Surprise her something that she doesn't like.

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00:58:36,040 --> 00:58:39,200
Speaker 4: Get her right, get her a bottom of the raid,

1168
00:58:39,680 --> 00:58:42,680
Speaker 4: a raid, you know, so she can spray around her

1169
00:58:43,200 --> 00:58:48,880
Speaker 4: bucket that it's not a bug spread for you, but

1170
00:58:48,920 --> 00:58:50,400
Speaker 4: it's the kind of you spray around your.

1171
00:58:50,320 --> 00:58:52,960
Speaker 3: House to kill, like hornets or whatever they kill.

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00:58:53,280 --> 00:58:55,000
Speaker 4: I mean, it depends on how you buy. There are

1173
00:58:55,200 --> 00:58:59,240
Speaker 4: certain mixtures are made for different types of pets. But

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00:58:59,360 --> 00:59:01,240
Speaker 4: if she has a can of rage and she can

1175
00:59:01,320 --> 00:59:03,680
Speaker 4: splay around the altar where they're going to get married,

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00:59:03,680 --> 00:59:08,240
Speaker 4: so no bugs crawl on her, there's no cup your

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00:59:08,320 --> 00:59:09,400
Speaker 4: leg in a wedding dress.

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00:59:10,080 --> 00:59:12,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, I would love to see a bride walking around

1179
00:59:12,080 --> 00:59:17,680
Speaker 3: a wedding killing bugs with everywhere nobody can breathe and

1180
00:59:18,360 --> 00:59:19,920
Speaker 3: bugs are just all over the ground.

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00:59:21,000 --> 00:59:22,600
Speaker 4: I had to get some. I had to get some

1182
00:59:22,840 --> 00:59:25,959
Speaker 4: raide I used to. I lived in that apartment where

1183
00:59:26,720 --> 00:59:30,880
Speaker 4: it was like infected with house pentipines, and I didn't

1184
00:59:30,920 --> 00:59:33,120
Speaker 4: know that until I moved in. And then I was like,

1185
00:59:33,200 --> 00:59:34,560
Speaker 4: I was in a basement room and I was like,

1186
00:59:34,720 --> 00:59:37,040
Speaker 4: I told one of the people, like, hey, there's a ton.

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00:59:36,920 --> 00:59:37,960
Speaker 3: Of bugs down here.

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00:59:38,440 --> 00:59:40,440
Speaker 4: It's just like, oh, that's so weird. Let me ask

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00:59:40,520 --> 00:59:43,200
Speaker 4: the guy that moved out. And then he was like, yeah,

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00:59:43,360 --> 00:59:45,760
Speaker 4: it just didn't bother me. And so then I had

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00:59:45,920 --> 00:59:48,680
Speaker 4: like a giant sing of bugs riads in. I bought

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00:59:48,720 --> 00:59:51,520
Speaker 4: that I would spray my room all the time, and

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00:59:51,640 --> 00:59:55,360
Speaker 4: eventually it got under control and the landlord came and

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00:59:55,440 --> 00:59:59,800
Speaker 4: filled like the floor and stuff. But anyways, it's some

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01:00:00,040 --> 01:00:01,480
Speaker 4: and that it is good to have on hand.

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Speaker 3: I think everybody should have a bug spray. I think

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01:00:04,080 --> 01:00:06,160
Speaker 3: it's yeah, it is a valuable thing. I can't believe

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01:00:06,160 --> 01:00:08,600
Speaker 3: that the landlord kind of just placed the or maybe

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Speaker 3: I can believe the responsibility on you to kill all

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Speaker 3: of the bugs before he was willing to fix the situation.

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01:00:15,120 --> 01:00:18,680
Speaker 4: Well, well he sealed it up, you know, there was

1202
01:00:18,840 --> 01:00:20,200
Speaker 4: it was the kind of thing where like the floor

1203
01:00:20,400 --> 01:00:23,400
Speaker 4: is here and the the baseboarder exists. So there's like

1204
01:00:23,440 --> 01:00:24,160
Speaker 4: a huge.

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Speaker 3: Gash, right, you know, but the spray took care of it.

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01:00:27,720 --> 01:00:31,200
Speaker 3: Big deal. The spray helps a lot. Yeah, well I

1207
01:00:31,280 --> 01:00:34,120
Speaker 3: think that. Then you get a beautifully wrapped box full

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01:00:34,200 --> 01:00:37,800
Speaker 3: of several cans of RAID, maybe for different types of bugs.

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01:00:37,840 --> 01:00:39,200
Speaker 3: You don't know what sort of bugs are going to

1210
01:00:39,240 --> 01:00:42,760
Speaker 3: invade your wedding. And I mean one hundred dollars worth

1211
01:00:42,800 --> 01:00:44,920
Speaker 3: of bug spray that it's got to be a decent amount.

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01:00:45,040 --> 01:00:47,200
Speaker 4: That's a lot that'll last the whole marriage.

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01:00:49,080 --> 01:00:51,120
Speaker 3: When you run out of RAID, the marriage is over.

1214
01:00:52,920 --> 01:00:53,880
Speaker 4: We're done here.

1215
01:00:55,280 --> 01:01:01,400
Speaker 3: We've killed all the bugs we're going to kill together. Yeah. Well,

1216
01:01:01,440 --> 01:01:04,800
Speaker 3: congratulations to them on their wedding and their new supply

1217
01:01:05,280 --> 01:01:12,120
Speaker 3: sprey pandemic wedding. I know, life Martins. Hopefully it's outdoors

1218
01:01:12,480 --> 01:01:17,320
Speaker 3: and yeah, hopefully he's got masks on and is taking the.

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01:01:18,880 --> 01:01:19,040
Speaker 4: Win.

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01:01:19,800 --> 01:01:23,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, if nothing else, then why are we

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01:01:23,480 --> 01:01:30,000
Speaker 3: even bothering with this wet uh And it's I am

1222
01:01:30,160 --> 01:01:32,800
Speaker 3: just so thrilled to have had you here. And you know,

1223
01:01:33,400 --> 01:01:36,800
Speaker 3: probably every fifth gift I've been given on this program

1224
01:01:36,920 --> 01:01:40,800
Speaker 3: has been a something I can implement in my life practically,

1225
01:01:41,240 --> 01:01:44,320
Speaker 3: and this is a real big winner. I really appreciate

1226
01:01:44,400 --> 01:01:48,480
Speaker 3: a practical, practical, usable gift, so bless you for that.

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01:01:49,280 --> 01:01:51,120
Speaker 3: And I can't wait to go to the park with

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01:01:51,200 --> 01:01:54,080
Speaker 3: a cold drink or maybe even a sandwich or maybe

1229
01:01:54,160 --> 01:01:59,720
Speaker 3: a you know, another refrigerated item. Who knows. Yeah, but

1230
01:01:59,800 --> 01:02:02,800
Speaker 3: you're just wonderful and I've had a lovely time, So

1231
01:02:02,920 --> 01:02:04,680
Speaker 3: thank you for being here. Thank you so much for

1232
01:02:04,800 --> 01:02:08,640
Speaker 3: having me and everybody. That's the end of the podcast.

1233
01:02:08,920 --> 01:02:13,640
Speaker 3: So eventually the audio will stop and you'll move on

1234
01:02:13,800 --> 01:02:16,800
Speaker 3: with your life and look forward to whatever is to come.

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01:02:17,040 --> 01:02:20,560
Speaker 3: So I love you, goodbye. I Said No Gifts isn't

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01:02:20,600 --> 01:02:25,120
Speaker 3: exactly right production. It's engineered by Earth Angel Stephen Ray Morris.

1237
01:02:25,320 --> 01:02:28,360
Speaker 3: The theme song is by miracle worker Amy Mann. You

1238
01:02:28,440 --> 01:02:31,000
Speaker 3: can follow the show on Instagram and Twitter at I

1239
01:02:31,160 --> 01:02:34,040
Speaker 3: Said No Gifts and if you have a question or

1240
01:02:34,560 --> 01:02:36,520
Speaker 3: need help getting a gift for someone in your life,

1241
01:02:37,040 --> 01:02:40,600
Speaker 3: email me at I Said No Gifts at gmail dot com.

1242
01:02:40,880 --> 01:02:44,640
Speaker 3: Listen and subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher or wherever you

1243
01:02:44,760 --> 01:02:47,200
Speaker 3: found me, and why not leave a review while you're

1244
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Speaker 3: at it?

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Speaker 1: Hello, man, did you hear fun A man? Myself perfectly clear.

1246
01:02:57,880 --> 01:03:04,360
Speaker 1: But you're I guess, Tom, you gotta come to me empty,

1247
01:03:04,800 --> 01:03:11,040
Speaker 1: And I said, no, guest, your own presence is presents enough.

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01:03:12,200 --> 01:03:16,760
Speaker 1: I already had too much stuff, So how do you

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01:03:17,080 --> 01:03:19,120
Speaker 1: dare to surbey me?