1 00:00:01,960 --> 00:00:05,279 Speaker 1: Happy Bartie cry everybody. It is time now for today's 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:09,600 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. By everybody, I mean Carla for sure. So 3 00:00:10,080 --> 00:00:13,119 Speaker 1: I got some beads for y'all. I'm just saying I 4 00:00:13,160 --> 00:00:17,280 Speaker 1: got some. You got some beads and some gumbo gumbo. 5 00:00:18,440 --> 00:00:21,239 Speaker 1: But in order to get the beads, you gotta show 6 00:00:21,280 --> 00:00:27,120 Speaker 1: you something for a quarter. All right, Time now for 7 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:32,520 Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letter. Listen. If you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, 8 00:00:32,520 --> 00:00:35,960 Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM 9 00:00:36,040 --> 00:00:39,159 Speaker 1: dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be 10 00:00:39,200 --> 00:00:41,879 Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're 11 00:00:41,920 --> 00:00:44,280 Speaker 1: gonna read this one right here, right now, and you 12 00:00:44,360 --> 00:00:48,640 Speaker 1: never know, it could be yours. It could be yours. 13 00:00:48,720 --> 00:00:50,440 Speaker 1: Buckle up and hold on tight. We got it for 14 00:00:50,640 --> 00:00:54,720 Speaker 1: you here. It is Strawberry Letter. Subject I'm not leaving 15 00:00:54,720 --> 00:00:58,320 Speaker 1: and she's not staying. Dear Stephen Shirley, I am twenty 16 00:00:58,400 --> 00:01:01,640 Speaker 1: nine years old and my parents got divorce six years ago. 17 00:01:02,040 --> 00:01:05,040 Speaker 1: My dad cheated on my mom and after the divorce, 18 00:01:05,280 --> 00:01:08,560 Speaker 1: he moved in with his girlfriend. My mother eventually met 19 00:01:08,600 --> 00:01:11,360 Speaker 1: a nice man and she got remarried three years ago 20 00:01:11,440 --> 00:01:14,440 Speaker 1: and moved in with him. My mother owns the house 21 00:01:14,480 --> 00:01:16,840 Speaker 1: I'm living in, and she promised it to me as 22 00:01:16,880 --> 00:01:19,840 Speaker 1: a wedding gift. My fiance moved in and we are 23 00:01:19,880 --> 00:01:23,320 Speaker 1: fixing the house up, slowly but surely. My dad had 24 00:01:23,360 --> 00:01:27,400 Speaker 1: given me five thousand dollars to help us with the renovations, 25 00:01:27,400 --> 00:01:31,920 Speaker 1: and my fiance and I were overjoyed. But now everything 26 00:01:32,040 --> 00:01:35,600 Speaker 1: is falling apart and we're miserable because my dad is 27 00:01:35,680 --> 00:01:39,000 Speaker 1: living with us. His second wife kicked him out and 28 00:01:39,080 --> 00:01:43,039 Speaker 1: filed for divorce after he got caught cheating again. He 29 00:01:43,160 --> 00:01:45,800 Speaker 1: was supposed to be with us temporarily, but it's been 30 00:01:45,880 --> 00:01:49,160 Speaker 1: seven months. The worst part is he wants his new 31 00:01:49,200 --> 00:01:52,320 Speaker 1: girlfriend to live with us too, until they can find 32 00:01:52,360 --> 00:01:55,560 Speaker 1: a place that suits them. I lost so much respect 33 00:01:55,600 --> 00:01:58,080 Speaker 1: for my dad after he cheated on my mom, and 34 00:01:58,160 --> 00:02:00,920 Speaker 1: my emotions boiled over earlier this week, and I let 35 00:02:01,040 --> 00:02:04,720 Speaker 1: him know exactly how I feel. I told him that 36 00:02:04,760 --> 00:02:06,880 Speaker 1: I want him and its new girlfriend out of my 37 00:02:06,960 --> 00:02:09,520 Speaker 1: house and if it was a problem, my fiance and 38 00:02:09,560 --> 00:02:12,480 Speaker 1: I would give him every penny of the five thousand 39 00:02:12,560 --> 00:02:15,320 Speaker 1: dollars back. He had done a little research on the 40 00:02:15,360 --> 00:02:17,760 Speaker 1: house and found out that my mother hadn't done what 41 00:02:18,560 --> 00:02:20,799 Speaker 1: she was supposed to do to put the house in 42 00:02:20,919 --> 00:02:23,880 Speaker 1: my name, and since she had been paying taxes, since 43 00:02:23,919 --> 00:02:26,120 Speaker 1: he had been paying taxes on the house for years, 44 00:02:26,520 --> 00:02:29,880 Speaker 1: I couldn't put him out. I told him I'm not 45 00:02:30,040 --> 00:02:33,120 Speaker 1: leaving and she's not staying. We'll have to deal with 46 00:02:33,160 --> 00:02:35,440 Speaker 1: my dad a bit longer, but we do not have 47 00:02:35,520 --> 00:02:38,160 Speaker 1: to deal with his girlfriend living with us. How can 48 00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:40,960 Speaker 1: my own dad be so evil when he knows I'm 49 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:43,880 Speaker 1: getting married and fixing up this house. Do I let 50 00:02:43,960 --> 00:02:47,440 Speaker 1: him and his girlfriend have the house or fight for 51 00:02:47,480 --> 00:02:50,560 Speaker 1: what's mine? Well, I definitely think you should fight for 52 00:02:50,639 --> 00:02:53,640 Speaker 1: what's yours. I mean, sorry, sorry that this is your 53 00:02:53,720 --> 00:02:56,440 Speaker 1: dad you're gonna have to be fighting with, But I mean, 54 00:02:56,560 --> 00:03:00,600 Speaker 1: just what a mess this is, and it's nothing likely mess. 55 00:03:00,639 --> 00:03:03,520 Speaker 1: I know you love your dad, but you know I 56 00:03:03,639 --> 00:03:06,880 Speaker 1: also see how you've lost respect for him. He's in 57 00:03:06,919 --> 00:03:08,720 Speaker 1: there on you for all this time, and now he 58 00:03:08,760 --> 00:03:10,960 Speaker 1: wants to bring his girlfriend in. He shouldn't be living 59 00:03:11,040 --> 00:03:13,800 Speaker 1: with you under any circumstances if he can help it, 60 00:03:14,120 --> 00:03:17,160 Speaker 1: and certainly shouldn't be trying to move his girlfriend in there. 61 00:03:17,680 --> 00:03:21,079 Speaker 1: Why would she even want a grown man with kids? 62 00:03:21,400 --> 00:03:24,160 Speaker 1: Why would this woman even want a grown man who 63 00:03:24,200 --> 00:03:26,920 Speaker 1: has to live with his son. I mean, sorry, but 64 00:03:26,960 --> 00:03:29,400 Speaker 1: they both sound trifling to me. Sorry, I know that 65 00:03:29,480 --> 00:03:33,040 Speaker 1: your dad, your father's bad behavior got him into this predicament, 66 00:03:33,120 --> 00:03:36,160 Speaker 1: and he's got you and your fiance all involved. You're 67 00:03:36,200 --> 00:03:39,040 Speaker 1: trying to plan for your future, you know, fix up 68 00:03:39,080 --> 00:03:41,840 Speaker 1: the house, who you all can have something. I think 69 00:03:41,840 --> 00:03:45,680 Speaker 1: your father's very selfish, doesn't care about anyone but himself. 70 00:03:45,880 --> 00:03:47,800 Speaker 1: And the fact that he took the time to look 71 00:03:47,880 --> 00:03:50,720 Speaker 1: up the paperwork on the house and try to use 72 00:03:50,760 --> 00:03:53,440 Speaker 1: what he found to impose on you guys, that's even 73 00:03:53,520 --> 00:03:57,120 Speaker 1: more disgusting and unbelievable. I mean, come on, Dad, you 74 00:03:57,200 --> 00:04:01,320 Speaker 1: know this is wrong and out of order. So son, 75 00:04:01,520 --> 00:04:04,520 Speaker 1: to answer your question, No, you shouldn't have to give 76 00:04:04,640 --> 00:04:07,520 Speaker 1: up on your cheating dad, give up your house to him, 77 00:04:07,720 --> 00:04:10,120 Speaker 1: none of that and his girlfriend. No, you shouldn't. I 78 00:04:10,160 --> 00:04:12,160 Speaker 1: think you should get with your mom, get these papers 79 00:04:12,160 --> 00:04:16,720 Speaker 1: in order for your house, and ask your dad to leave. Period. Steve, 80 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:20,560 Speaker 1: this is a really, really complex letter on so many levels, 81 00:04:20,600 --> 00:04:24,760 Speaker 1: and I happened to know these levels, not personally, but 82 00:04:24,920 --> 00:04:29,559 Speaker 1: I've seen aspects of this acted out in my own life. 83 00:04:29,680 --> 00:04:32,839 Speaker 1: I've seen it acted out in people's lives close to me. 84 00:04:32,920 --> 00:04:36,040 Speaker 1: So I've had some experience with this, not really personally. 85 00:04:36,200 --> 00:04:40,440 Speaker 1: Well yeah I have, yeah, yeah, so, And that's the 86 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:42,400 Speaker 1: only way I can answer this question. The way I'm 87 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:46,720 Speaker 1: going to answer it, because the main problem here is 88 00:04:47,720 --> 00:04:49,960 Speaker 1: and I'm gonna go at it from this standpoint. First 89 00:04:49,960 --> 00:04:52,200 Speaker 1: of all, I think your mother did a very noble thing. 90 00:04:52,960 --> 00:04:55,000 Speaker 1: I think your mother wanted you to have the house 91 00:04:55,080 --> 00:04:58,479 Speaker 1: as a wedding gift promise to her, so forth and 92 00:04:58,560 --> 00:05:02,080 Speaker 1: so on. So I think the intentions were well serving 93 00:05:02,120 --> 00:05:05,560 Speaker 1: and thought out, and do it. The problem in this 94 00:05:06,000 --> 00:05:10,039 Speaker 1: whole letter is two people, and I want you to 95 00:05:10,080 --> 00:05:13,680 Speaker 1: hear me out before you get mad at me. First 96 00:05:13,680 --> 00:05:21,839 Speaker 1: of all, your daddy, Your daddy is beon trifling own 97 00:05:22,120 --> 00:05:25,960 Speaker 1: so many levels. And the problem with this man is 98 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:31,640 Speaker 1: he has no problem sharing his triflingness and spreading it around. 99 00:05:31,800 --> 00:05:34,520 Speaker 1: He has no consideration. Shirley called it right. He has 100 00:05:34,600 --> 00:05:39,160 Speaker 1: no consideration for anybody but himself. But it's because he's trifling. Now, 101 00:05:39,279 --> 00:05:42,640 Speaker 1: first of all, you cheat on your original wife. I'm 102 00:05:42,640 --> 00:05:44,839 Speaker 1: not judging the man. Things happen. I don't know what's 103 00:05:44,880 --> 00:05:47,480 Speaker 1: going on in his family life or nothing like that 104 00:05:48,440 --> 00:05:50,560 Speaker 1: could have been the mama's fault as well as his. 105 00:05:50,680 --> 00:05:54,800 Speaker 1: But whatever he cheated got busted. They got a divorce, 106 00:05:56,400 --> 00:06:04,880 Speaker 1: he moved out, he moved in with his girlfriend. Now, 107 00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:08,240 Speaker 1: then your mother eventually eventually met a nice man had 108 00:06:08,279 --> 00:06:11,520 Speaker 1: gotten remarried, and this was three years ago. She moved 109 00:06:11,560 --> 00:06:14,919 Speaker 1: in with him. Now, your mama owns the house that 110 00:06:15,040 --> 00:06:17,240 Speaker 1: you're living in, and she promised it to you as 111 00:06:17,240 --> 00:06:21,200 Speaker 1: a wedding gilt. Your mama ow's house or your mom 112 00:06:21,240 --> 00:06:23,960 Speaker 1: and your daddy owned the house. See, there's a little 113 00:06:24,000 --> 00:06:26,320 Speaker 1: glitch right there. That's where we're starting to run a problem. 114 00:06:26,600 --> 00:06:30,120 Speaker 1: My fiance moved in, we're fixing up the house slowly, 115 00:06:30,279 --> 00:06:33,200 Speaker 1: and your daddy gave you five thousand and help. Y'all overjoyed. 116 00:06:33,279 --> 00:06:36,360 Speaker 1: Everything was going fine, and then hell broke loose. And 117 00:06:36,400 --> 00:06:39,080 Speaker 1: this is why I got the answer to you. Okay, 118 00:06:39,160 --> 00:06:42,160 Speaker 1: hold on, Steve, we'll have part two of your response 119 00:06:42,200 --> 00:06:45,679 Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour Today's 120 00:06:45,680 --> 00:06:50,640 Speaker 1: Strawberry letter subject I'm not leaving and she's not staying. 121 00:06:50,839 --> 00:06:54,800 Speaker 1: We'll be back right after this. You're listening Stave Harvey 122 00:06:54,839 --> 00:06:57,960 Speaker 1: Morning Show. All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's 123 00:06:57,960 --> 00:07:02,680 Speaker 1: Strawberry letter, the subject I'm not leaving and she's nut staying. 124 00:07:03,360 --> 00:07:05,400 Speaker 1: The reason we have a problem because there's twenty nine 125 00:07:05,480 --> 00:07:09,320 Speaker 1: year old woman who has a fiance. Three years ago, 126 00:07:10,520 --> 00:07:15,480 Speaker 1: her father cheated on her mom or six years ago. 127 00:07:15,920 --> 00:07:19,360 Speaker 1: They got a divorce six years ago. The cheating had 128 00:07:19,360 --> 00:07:21,720 Speaker 1: probably been going on for a while, but divorce was 129 00:07:21,760 --> 00:07:27,120 Speaker 1: six years ago. She was twenty three. Your dad moved 130 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:30,600 Speaker 1: in with the girlfriend that he was cheating on your 131 00:07:30,600 --> 00:07:34,440 Speaker 1: wife with. Your mother met a new man, got remarried 132 00:07:34,480 --> 00:07:38,480 Speaker 1: three years ago, moved in with him. That your mother 133 00:07:38,600 --> 00:07:41,200 Speaker 1: owns the house you're living in now, and she promised 134 00:07:41,240 --> 00:07:44,360 Speaker 1: it to you as a wedding gilt. Your fiance moved 135 00:07:44,400 --> 00:07:46,720 Speaker 1: in and we're fixing up the house slowly but surely, 136 00:07:46,960 --> 00:07:49,680 Speaker 1: and my dad gave y'all. Your dad gave you five 137 00:07:49,680 --> 00:07:52,920 Speaker 1: thousand dollars to help y'all with the renovation and your fiance, 138 00:07:53,160 --> 00:07:56,000 Speaker 1: and you were overjoyed. But now everything's fallen apart with 139 00:07:56,120 --> 00:07:59,680 Speaker 1: miserable because your dad is now living with us his 140 00:08:00,760 --> 00:08:05,600 Speaker 1: second wife. Now he got married to the girlfriend that 141 00:08:05,720 --> 00:08:09,160 Speaker 1: he was cheating on your mama with, but now she 142 00:08:09,320 --> 00:08:11,840 Speaker 1: didn't kicked him out of the house and filed for 143 00:08:11,960 --> 00:08:15,760 Speaker 1: divorce because he got caught cheating again and he was 144 00:08:15,800 --> 00:08:19,560 Speaker 1: supposed to be with us for seven months temporarily, but 145 00:08:19,640 --> 00:08:22,680 Speaker 1: he's been seven months. And the worst part is he 146 00:08:22,720 --> 00:08:26,480 Speaker 1: wants his new girlfrid. This is the new girlfriend that 147 00:08:26,560 --> 00:08:31,560 Speaker 1: he's now cheating on his second wife with this high trifling, 148 00:08:31,640 --> 00:08:36,079 Speaker 1: this duty. So she filed for divorce. Divorce ain't went 149 00:08:36,120 --> 00:08:39,560 Speaker 1: through yet, he didn't win and got another girlfriend. Now 150 00:08:39,679 --> 00:08:43,439 Speaker 1: he wants and the girlfriend live with y'all too, until 151 00:08:43,480 --> 00:08:46,400 Speaker 1: they can find a place that suits them. I've lost 152 00:08:46,480 --> 00:08:48,640 Speaker 1: so much respect for my dad after he cheated on 153 00:08:48,720 --> 00:08:51,200 Speaker 1: my mom, and my emotions boiled over earlier this week, 154 00:08:51,400 --> 00:08:53,560 Speaker 1: and I let him know exactly how you feel. I 155 00:08:53,600 --> 00:08:56,680 Speaker 1: can't blame you for that. You're a woman, you his daughter. 156 00:08:57,120 --> 00:09:00,400 Speaker 1: You would think that a man worth any salt would 157 00:09:00,440 --> 00:09:04,240 Speaker 1: not drag his daughters into his mess, or any of 158 00:09:04,280 --> 00:09:08,440 Speaker 1: his children for that matter, but especially your daughter, because 159 00:09:08,520 --> 00:09:10,559 Speaker 1: what you want to try to be for your daughter, 160 00:09:10,880 --> 00:09:15,040 Speaker 1: it's somewhat of an example of what a man should be, 161 00:09:15,480 --> 00:09:18,440 Speaker 1: so she has a right to know how to pick one. 162 00:09:18,720 --> 00:09:22,840 Speaker 1: But oh no, your trifling ass, it's just gonna be 163 00:09:22,920 --> 00:09:26,959 Speaker 1: trifling across the board. I'm coming to my solution for 164 00:09:27,040 --> 00:09:29,080 Speaker 1: all this. I told him I want him and his 165 00:09:29,120 --> 00:09:30,880 Speaker 1: new girlfriend out of my house, and if it was 166 00:09:30,920 --> 00:09:33,320 Speaker 1: a problem, my fiance and I would give him every 167 00:09:33,360 --> 00:09:37,400 Speaker 1: penny of the five thousand dollars back. Okay, gangster move, 168 00:09:37,480 --> 00:09:40,959 Speaker 1: I like that. But then your daddy trifle. He did 169 00:09:41,000 --> 00:09:42,960 Speaker 1: a little research on the house and found that my 170 00:09:43,080 --> 00:09:46,120 Speaker 1: mother hadn't done what she was supposed to do to 171 00:09:46,240 --> 00:09:50,040 Speaker 1: put the house in my name, and since he had 172 00:09:50,040 --> 00:09:53,000 Speaker 1: been paying taxes on the house for years, I couldn't 173 00:09:53,040 --> 00:09:56,200 Speaker 1: put him out. But if the house is in your 174 00:09:56,240 --> 00:09:59,679 Speaker 1: mama's name, your mama can quit d eat the house 175 00:09:59,720 --> 00:10:04,000 Speaker 1: to you immediately. If you notify your mother, your mama 176 00:10:04,040 --> 00:10:06,960 Speaker 1: can quit. Lead you the house and his ass is out, 177 00:10:08,400 --> 00:10:12,640 Speaker 1: and any quarter log gonna give you the wouse now here. 178 00:10:12,760 --> 00:10:16,600 Speaker 1: That's the one solution. But then I told him I'm 179 00:10:16,640 --> 00:10:18,960 Speaker 1: not leaving and she's not staying. We have to deal 180 00:10:19,000 --> 00:10:21,440 Speaker 1: with my dad a bit longer. But do we have 181 00:10:21,559 --> 00:10:24,400 Speaker 1: to deal with this girlfriend living them? Use? No, you don't. 182 00:10:24,720 --> 00:10:26,920 Speaker 1: How can my own dad be so evil when he 183 00:10:26,960 --> 00:10:29,600 Speaker 1: knows I'm getting married and fixing up this house. Do 184 00:10:29,679 --> 00:10:31,480 Speaker 1: I let him and his girlfriend and have the house 185 00:10:31,559 --> 00:10:34,560 Speaker 1: or fight for what's mine. Here's the second problem to 186 00:10:34,600 --> 00:10:38,280 Speaker 1: the problem. You got trifling people in your life. Number 187 00:10:38,280 --> 00:10:41,600 Speaker 1: one is your daddy. The number two persons here, And 188 00:10:41,640 --> 00:10:44,000 Speaker 1: I'm not saying that this young man is trifling because 189 00:10:44,000 --> 00:10:48,360 Speaker 1: of but I don't really what is your fiance doing 190 00:10:48,920 --> 00:10:51,600 Speaker 1: because I'm I'm I'm I'm a little stump fright here 191 00:10:51,600 --> 00:10:53,319 Speaker 1: because I'm gonna tell you how I am, and I'm 192 00:10:53,320 --> 00:10:55,520 Speaker 1: gonna tell you how my dad raised me to be. 193 00:10:55,520 --> 00:10:57,719 Speaker 1: Because see, I ain't Finn the centiped head. Take all 194 00:10:57,760 --> 00:11:01,360 Speaker 1: this hire, not off this dude. Hey, man, you can 195 00:11:01,400 --> 00:11:04,800 Speaker 1: have your five thousand pat I'm not fit to sit 196 00:11:04,880 --> 00:11:06,880 Speaker 1: up and here and no house you acting like you 197 00:11:06,960 --> 00:11:10,040 Speaker 1: own because king people, one king and one queen in 198 00:11:10,120 --> 00:11:13,240 Speaker 1: this house ain't no two kings, ain't no two queens. 199 00:11:13,280 --> 00:11:16,600 Speaker 1: So me personally as to fiance, if I was y'all, 200 00:11:17,200 --> 00:11:20,680 Speaker 1: I would gather my stealth and move on, I would 201 00:11:21,440 --> 00:11:23,679 Speaker 1: because Jess, as a man, I'm not fitn to be 202 00:11:23,720 --> 00:11:25,679 Speaker 1: sitting up here and beholding to this man because he 203 00:11:25,760 --> 00:11:28,199 Speaker 1: had paid some taxes or have to listen to you 204 00:11:28,520 --> 00:11:31,320 Speaker 1: upsetting my girl because you in't here because you ain't 205 00:11:31,360 --> 00:11:34,080 Speaker 1: trifling and you do on us here. I understand you 206 00:11:34,080 --> 00:11:36,080 Speaker 1: want to hold on to the house. I understand your 207 00:11:36,080 --> 00:11:37,760 Speaker 1: mama gave it to you, and I think it's worth 208 00:11:37,840 --> 00:11:40,760 Speaker 1: fighting for. I really really do. And I would get 209 00:11:40,800 --> 00:11:42,600 Speaker 1: my mamma to quick deed that house to me and 210 00:11:42,600 --> 00:11:45,120 Speaker 1: get your daddy ass out of it. But the young 211 00:11:45,240 --> 00:11:48,960 Speaker 1: man that you are the fiance of, see, it's hardly 212 00:11:50,559 --> 00:11:54,080 Speaker 1: the daddy is trifling on so many levels. It's not 213 00:11:54,200 --> 00:11:58,520 Speaker 1: this young man's fault. He may be very supportive. He 214 00:11:58,640 --> 00:12:01,800 Speaker 1: may be saying, hey, look, let's just move, and she 215 00:12:01,920 --> 00:12:04,520 Speaker 1: gonna this is my house. And I understand you fighting 216 00:12:04,600 --> 00:12:06,920 Speaker 1: for him, So I kind of let me backpeddler a 217 00:12:06,960 --> 00:12:08,720 Speaker 1: little bit. I don't want you all to think that 218 00:12:08,760 --> 00:12:10,960 Speaker 1: I think that the young man is strifling, because he's not. 219 00:12:11,840 --> 00:12:15,640 Speaker 1: I think it's the daddy that's the ultimate strifling, grown 220 00:12:15,720 --> 00:12:18,600 Speaker 1: up ass man. And for him to show this type 221 00:12:18,600 --> 00:12:20,480 Speaker 1: of the example of what a man who it is 222 00:12:20,679 --> 00:12:23,720 Speaker 1: to his daughter and not only did you destroy yours, 223 00:12:23,760 --> 00:12:25,640 Speaker 1: but then now you're over here messing up. Mind to 224 00:12:26,360 --> 00:12:30,520 Speaker 1: damn daddy, how can this be your father? Your damn 225 00:12:30,600 --> 00:12:32,439 Speaker 1: daddy ain't worth for damn Go to your mom and 226 00:12:32,559 --> 00:12:34,400 Speaker 1: get the house quick ded it over till you go 227 00:12:34,440 --> 00:12:37,400 Speaker 1: down there, get a restraint in order lie. Your father 228 00:12:37,520 --> 00:12:41,160 Speaker 1: has been physically threatening to you. It's mentally abusive to you, 229 00:12:41,440 --> 00:12:43,720 Speaker 1: and that I'm telling you in this culture, your daddy 230 00:12:43,720 --> 00:12:45,400 Speaker 1: gonna have to move out the house. Get a restraint. No, 231 00:12:45,520 --> 00:12:47,840 Speaker 1: he came going with the two unfeeded out body right 232 00:12:48,120 --> 00:12:51,400 Speaker 1: poster comments on today's Strubberry Letter, It's Steve RVFM on 233 00:12:51,440 --> 00:12:54,439 Speaker 1: Instagram and Facebook, and check out the Strubberry Letter podcast 234 00:12:54,520 --> 00:12:57,319 Speaker 1: on demand. 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