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Speaker 1: What's up you guys? This week we are talking about

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Speaker 1: our live show that happened this weekend.

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Speaker 2: While stunning on Valentine's Day on Instagram is tacky as fuck?

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Speaker 1: Michael B. Jordan bought what for?

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Speaker 2: Lori Harvey Vice questions about coming back to yourself after kids.

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Speaker 1: And a horror story involving an ex husband and his brother.

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Speaker 3: Enjoy Hello there.

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Speaker 1: Welcome back to good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica and

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Speaker 1: I'm Meela. Happy hump Day, Happy hump day, bys. How

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Speaker 1: are you? I'm good, I'm good. I'm tired, but I'm

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Speaker 1: good too. I'm really tired.

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Speaker 2: I think that as I get older, it's harder to

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Speaker 2: recover from things that require a lot of brain energy

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Speaker 2: and a lot of does anything partying makes me more tired?

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Speaker 1: Using my brain makes me more tired.

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Speaker 2: I need to rest, like twenty four to seventy two

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Speaker 2: hours after a lot of brain power.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I agree. I agree. So maybe if we

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Speaker 1: pull a card off the more activated.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so let's do that.

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Speaker 1: Let's let's see what do we have in the cards

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Speaker 1: to day? Hey?

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Speaker 2: Hey, I don't like that.

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Speaker 1: What do you have in the cars today? Hey?

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Speaker 2: Hey, that's very Mary Poppin in excise me, Mary Poppins temperance.

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Speaker 1: This looks important. It's a white angel, red wings pouring.

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Speaker 1: He's pouring water into another cup. There's a sun in

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Speaker 1: like a stream, but he has one foot in the

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Speaker 1: say this like bright light behind him it looks like

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Speaker 1: the sun or something. And then he has some sort

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Speaker 1: of thing on his head look looks like and then

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Speaker 1: he has a triangle in the center of his chest,

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Speaker 1: which I'm sure means something. And then there's orchids in

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Speaker 1: the background. I feel like this means like vitality or

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Speaker 1: like temperance description. Oh this is interesting. Finally, we're fucking right.

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Speaker 2: The temperance card shows a large winged angel who is

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Speaker 2: both masculine and feminine. You know, we're always getting confused

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Speaker 2: with these white people. Which one they are? This one

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Speaker 1: Finally, if anyone wants to send us some better tarot cards,

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Speaker 1: we would love to have that. I leave my po

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Speaker 1: box in the until we drop our own shortly.

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Speaker 2: The temperance card shows a large angel who is both

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Speaker 2: masculine and feminine. She wears a light blue robe with

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Speaker 2: a triangle enclosed and a square on the front see

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Speaker 2: representing that humans the triangle are bound by the earth.

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Speaker 1: And natural law square.

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Speaker 2: The angel balances between one foot on the rocks, press

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Speaker 2: showing the need to be in flow. She pours water

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Speaker 2: between two cups, symbolic of the flow and alchemy of life.

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Speaker 2: In the background, there's a winding path up to a

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Speaker 2: hovers a golden crown encased in a glowing light, a

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Speaker 1: Damn or just thinking about this today.

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Speaker 2: Temperance is the card for bringing balance, patience, and moderation

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Speaker 2: into your life. You are being invited to stabilize your

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Speaker 2: It's time to recover your flow and get your life

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Speaker 2: back into order and balance. This card calls on you

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Speaker 2: to remain calm even when in life feels stressful or frantic.

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Speaker 2: Maintain and even temperament and managery emotions. You have learned

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Speaker 2: to keep composed in stressful situations. Little things don't get

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Speaker 2: to you thanks to your seemingly abundant source of patient.

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Speaker 2: Your respect for balance and tranquility is what will help

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Speaker 2: Now is not the time to be highly opinionated or controversial.

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Speaker 2: Be the peacemaker and take a balanced and moderate approach,

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Speaker 2: avoiding any extremes, including others and include others and bring

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Speaker 2: diverse groups of people to create harmony and cooperation. By

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Speaker 1: There is alchemy with temperess. Hmm, okay, where was this

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Speaker 1: because a bitch was not feeling balanced at all? Well,

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Speaker 2: I think what the card means is even though you

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Speaker 2: collaboratively always bring the perfect people to make the shit

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Speaker 2: happen because we do. We have really cultivated a team

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Speaker 2: that's only cultivated with alchemy. Honestly true, only through alchemy

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Speaker 2: could our team and the shit we like make possible

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Speaker 2: be made possible because of the community that we've cultivated,

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Speaker 2: including the people listening, including the audience, like it's honestly,

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Speaker 2: someone asked me over the weekend about manifestation, like, how

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Speaker 2: do you know if you're manifesting correctly?

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Speaker 1: Like what if you're.

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Speaker 2: Manifesting on some one thing and then it doesn't happen

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Speaker 1: Right amen? Amen? Okay, Well that was a good card,

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Speaker 1: and I want to say that I want to share

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Speaker 1: my affirmation of the week, okay, and so my affirmation

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Speaker 1: I'm an endless well of ideas and creativity. I will

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Speaker 1: better ones. So this one came to me because I

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Speaker 1: lot of people I'm sure listening, like you might be

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Speaker 1: those there's no perfect conditions. You're not making space in

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Speaker 2: Do you know how long it takes me to post anything?

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Speaker 2: Four to six weeks, four to six weeks to never No,

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Speaker 2: it's true, I and then I get frustrated, and I

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Speaker 1: And I still do it. I think like I've really

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Speaker 1: learned how to do it best in partnership, like with

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Speaker 1: bold when it comes to partnership. I agree. I know that.

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Speaker 2: Partnership has helped me tremendously because I have ask Erica.

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Speaker 2: Speaking of community, cultivating the perfect community, we had a

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Speaker 2: fucking bomb ass Valentine's Day, Gallantines Girls' Night. Some guys

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Speaker 1: Like it was. It was a labor of fucking love.

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Speaker 1: Now you know, like we promised you, it was not

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Speaker 1: and yeah, we had segments. Shout out to Sexual Essentials

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Speaker 2: I think shout out to an eSPI for always coming

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Speaker 2: through with the produce, the production quality of HBO and

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Speaker 2: and like letting us bother you.

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Speaker 1: We love you.

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Speaker 2: You don't understand if you are a friend, I'm sorry,

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Speaker 2: if you're in our friend group, we are not only

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Speaker 2: going to milk you for every fucking talent and service

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Speaker 2: that you offer. We will also milk your husband. Because

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Speaker 1: We know.

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Speaker 2: There is no one in our community that doesn't get

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Speaker 1: How do we know?

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Speaker 2: I'm like, oh fine, it's not mine for everybody. I

436
00:21:59,280 --> 00:22:03,679
Speaker 2: make friends her because this is what I do. And

437
00:22:03,720 --> 00:22:06,480
Speaker 2: then I could tell that, like some two people leave,

438
00:22:06,600 --> 00:22:08,760
Speaker 2: another person leaves, and then I can eric has been

439
00:22:08,800 --> 00:22:11,320
Speaker 2: in the room with her girlfriend and her boyfriend for

440
00:22:11,440 --> 00:22:15,640
Speaker 2: like forty pretty much forty five minutes, me and the girl.

441
00:22:15,800 --> 00:22:18,359
Speaker 1: So much for me not telling my business. Okay, well

442
00:22:18,640 --> 00:22:19,600
Speaker 1: didn't you just said that.

443
00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:21,680
Speaker 2: Didn't anything happen. I just said, you guys have disappeared.

444
00:22:22,040 --> 00:22:22,760
Speaker 2: I wasn't in there.

445
00:22:22,800 --> 00:22:27,560
Speaker 1: I just thought you disappeared to long conversation. Conversation, right, yeah.

446
00:22:26,840 --> 00:22:27,080
Speaker 2: So.

447
00:22:28,480 --> 00:22:30,920
Speaker 1: Me and the girl and then living room like moaning deeply.

448
00:22:31,080 --> 00:22:33,560
Speaker 2: Okay, that's another reason I like the friend because he

449
00:22:33,600 --> 00:22:35,400
Speaker 2: agrees with me about my my moaning.

450
00:22:35,560 --> 00:22:36,560
Speaker 1: He's on board.

451
00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:40,159
Speaker 2: So I'm talking to them and then like I'm kind

452
00:22:40,200 --> 00:22:43,040
Speaker 2: of piecing together. I'm like, huh, maybe they're just friends,

453
00:22:43,359 --> 00:22:44,919
Speaker 2: because she's like, I just came from a date. She

454
00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:46,399
Speaker 2: didn't stay like with him. She's like, I have a

455
00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:48,240
Speaker 2: date in the morning. I'm on this dating app. I'm like,

456
00:22:48,280 --> 00:22:51,040
Speaker 2: maybe they're besties. I'm like, I hope they're besties whatever.

457
00:22:51,280 --> 00:22:53,840
Speaker 2: Even if I don't know, I don't care. So I

458
00:22:53,880 --> 00:22:56,120
Speaker 2: can tell that Eric is never coming back out the room,

459
00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:58,640
Speaker 2: and then Happy Bay comes out a couple of times,

460
00:22:58,680 --> 00:22:59,760
Speaker 2: but he's too happy to tell.

461
00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:00,440
Speaker 1: Anybody get out.

462
00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:02,200
Speaker 2: So I'm like, I think there want us to leave.

463
00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:05,360
Speaker 2: You guys, I think it's time to go. I was dancing,

464
00:23:05,359 --> 00:23:06,879
Speaker 2: and so I was like, I'll walk out with you

465
00:23:07,080 --> 00:23:11,560
Speaker 2: with you all as we're downtown and I get downstairs

466
00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:14,159
Speaker 2: and I forgot where I parked because I'm smart, and

467
00:23:14,200 --> 00:23:14,560
Speaker 2: he's like.

468
00:23:14,520 --> 00:23:16,560
Speaker 1: He walks me. He's like, I'm taking pictures of him.

469
00:23:16,480 --> 00:23:19,560
Speaker 2: Because he's also a photographer and a fucking DJ and

470
00:23:19,560 --> 00:23:23,040
Speaker 2: everything else cool, and he's like, so worry, what are

471
00:23:23,080 --> 00:23:23,639
Speaker 2: you about to do?

472
00:23:23,680 --> 00:23:25,960
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm gonna go home. He's like, you don't

473
00:23:25,960 --> 00:23:27,320
Speaker 1: want to just come to my Are you okay to drive?

474
00:23:27,400 --> 00:23:29,280
Speaker 1: I'm like no, I'm fine. And then he's like, you

475
00:23:29,359 --> 00:23:31,520
Speaker 1: can just come to my house. So in my head,

476
00:23:31,560 --> 00:23:33,560
Speaker 1: I'm like, is he flirting with me? I can't tell.

477
00:23:34,119 --> 00:23:37,399
Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, I can all right, I'm like he

478
00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:39,520
Speaker 2: said he has to be flirting, right, He's flirting now, right.

479
00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:42,080
Speaker 1: So we go to his house, all three of us.

480
00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:46,600
Speaker 2: And we're literally having and I'm really exciting about telling

481
00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:49,920
Speaker 2: the story. I'm having anxiety. Oh god, did we do

482
00:23:49,960 --> 00:23:50,639
Speaker 2: this for a living?

483
00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:54,359
Speaker 1: Should we start over? You're also not you don't have

484
00:23:54,400 --> 00:24:00,560
Speaker 1: to share. Maybe I'll wait till next week Patreon to

485
00:24:00,560 --> 00:24:03,080
Speaker 1: get the full story. Okay, yeah, yeah, maybe we'll share

486
00:24:03,080 --> 00:24:07,560
Speaker 1: it on Patreon because I feel exposed. Yep, me too.

487
00:24:09,320 --> 00:24:13,560
Speaker 2: Nobody needs to know my play by play. Someone's gonna

488
00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:15,520
Speaker 2: want to date me in like ten years and be like,

489
00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:18,800
Speaker 2: I listened to all your stories and based on these calculations,

490
00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:25,200
Speaker 2: you've slept with a four hundred ninety seven four hundred

491
00:24:25,240 --> 00:24:25,680
Speaker 2: ninety eight.

492
00:24:27,200 --> 00:24:30,520
Speaker 1: Men in the last we're like, no, I counted, I'd listened.

493
00:24:30,560 --> 00:24:32,720
Speaker 1: I listened to all your stories. Not true.

494
00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:34,159
Speaker 2: I don't even if it was with a fuck hare,

495
00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:37,439
Speaker 2: I don't give a fuck. My pussy's bomb blessing to

496
00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:44,879
Speaker 2: the earth. So since we're not exposing ourselves, this just

497
00:24:44,880 --> 00:24:45,359
Speaker 2: ever happened.

498
00:24:45,400 --> 00:24:47,800
Speaker 1: As the podcast first start to telling a story and

499
00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:51,280
Speaker 1: be like, eh, you know, no, I do want to.

500
00:24:51,359 --> 00:24:53,199
Speaker 1: I want to tell it, but it's a good story.

501
00:24:53,240 --> 00:24:55,880
Speaker 1: I just it's gonna just need to go on Patreon. Yeah,

502
00:24:55,920 --> 00:24:58,040
Speaker 1: we'll make sure you go to patreon dot com backslash

503
00:24:58,080 --> 00:25:06,720
Speaker 1: good Mom's bad Choices to hear this story and maybe mine. Hm, well,

504
00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:09,440
Speaker 1: we didn't play. But overall, so the overall the theme

505
00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:12,159
Speaker 1: of overall Valentine's Day is I think me and Jamila

506
00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:14,200
Speaker 1: both had a really good Valentine's Day. Yeah, we did.

507
00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:16,560
Speaker 1: We did, and it really was you know, it was

508
00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:19,560
Speaker 1: spent with people, but it was really I had no expectations.

509
00:25:19,920 --> 00:25:22,680
Speaker 1: I really didn't give a fuck about what was about

510
00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:26,640
Speaker 1: to happen, and it was great and been great. Yeah. Yeah,

511
00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:28,639
Speaker 1: people spend so much pressure on that day. You know what,

512
00:25:28,760 --> 00:25:30,280
Speaker 1: you know what I was noticing on the internet. I'm

513
00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:34,160
Speaker 1: just so, don't fucking post your louis not even that.

514
00:25:34,240 --> 00:25:40,200
Speaker 1: I'm so over people posting their fucking like whole spread

515
00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:43,840
Speaker 1: of fucking roses, like you know, their nigga, like you know,

516
00:25:43,920 --> 00:25:46,359
Speaker 1: like laur Harvey. She showed this whole thing of like

517
00:25:46,440 --> 00:25:55,080
Speaker 1: Michael B. Jordan, like rented out the aquarium. Stop and wait, wait, wait, wait,

518
00:25:55,320 --> 00:25:57,919
Speaker 1: hold the fuck up. I want to make sure I

519
00:25:57,920 --> 00:26:00,480
Speaker 1: heard that. You heard it. He bought her, not a

520
00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:05,640
Speaker 1: hermez suck. Who the fuck has Supermart? Because all these

521
00:26:06,400 --> 00:26:09,159
Speaker 1: listen black people buying, all black people are buying her

522
00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:11,639
Speaker 1: mess and I have no idea why. It's They're ugly.

523
00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:16,360
Speaker 1: It's ugly, the bag's ugly. I hate the bag. It's good?

524
00:26:16,640 --> 00:26:18,879
Speaker 1: Is that the one that Cardi buys? Yes, she's like

525
00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:21,640
Speaker 1: always spending all her money on fucking bags.

526
00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:23,919
Speaker 2: Let me tell you, guys, these white people don't give

527
00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:26,520
Speaker 2: a fuck about us. You don't need to spend thousands

528
00:26:26,520 --> 00:26:28,520
Speaker 2: of dollars on her message. I wonder how much that

529
00:26:28,600 --> 00:26:29,240
Speaker 2: stock costs.

530
00:26:30,280 --> 00:26:32,080
Speaker 1: I just feel like it's Michael B.

531
00:26:32,160 --> 00:26:32,440
Speaker 2: Jordan.

532
00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:34,440
Speaker 1: I knew I should have just let my message stay

533
00:26:34,440 --> 00:26:39,200
Speaker 1: in my message. I knew eventually he'd come back around

534
00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:40,720
Speaker 1: to black women, and I could have been that.

535
00:26:41,520 --> 00:26:44,199
Speaker 2: Tobria and Mindy and me are going to forever be

536
00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:45,640
Speaker 2: blamed for her not kidding.

537
00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:49,359
Speaker 1: Maria and Mindy, y'all ain't my friends. Y'all. Let me

538
00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:51,600
Speaker 1: keep my message in his DMS. I should have never

539
00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:54,320
Speaker 1: unsent it. He probably would have read it around this

540
00:26:54,440 --> 00:26:57,880
Speaker 1: time this year, three years later.

541
00:26:58,320 --> 00:27:00,800
Speaker 2: If anyone has no idea what we're talking about, please

542
00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:04,040
Speaker 2: please go back to our first episode with the Sick

543
00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:08,240
Speaker 2: in twenty eighteen and find this fucking message because Ericas

544
00:27:08,280 --> 00:27:11,600
Speaker 2: sent Michael Big Jordan a DM and we highly recommended

545
00:27:11,600 --> 00:27:14,840
Speaker 2: that she race it because it sounded fucking crazy. So

546
00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:17,639
Speaker 2: now she's three years later that he's back on the

547
00:27:17,680 --> 00:27:19,440
Speaker 2: brown side, she's feeling like.

548
00:27:19,359 --> 00:27:21,200
Speaker 1: It could have been her. But I truly feel like

549
00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:23,240
Speaker 1: it could have, but I now will never know because

550
00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:27,080
Speaker 1: might I don't have friends. But yeah, no, I mean

551
00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:30,199
Speaker 1: she was showing like this, like you know, all the

552
00:27:30,240 --> 00:27:33,080
Speaker 1: fucking rose pedals and da da da da dah blah

553
00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:35,359
Speaker 1: blah blah blah blah, and like literally I saw like

554
00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:39,000
Speaker 1: at least ten different celebrities post this shit. I'm like,

555
00:27:39,080 --> 00:27:42,040
Speaker 1: y'all want to get robbed? Eh. Second of all, like

556
00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:45,360
Speaker 1: your niggas probably in someone else's DM tomorrow. Third of all,

557
00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:47,840
Speaker 1: why why does this matter? Like, are you you want

558
00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:48,680
Speaker 1: us to feel bad?

559
00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:48,920
Speaker 4: Now?

560
00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:51,320
Speaker 1: You know what it is I've noticed because it's just annoying.

561
00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:53,880
Speaker 1: It's just annoying, and it's and I'm not bitter because

562
00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:56,240
Speaker 1: I don't like it's not that I want that. And

563
00:27:56,280 --> 00:27:58,760
Speaker 1: you know what, even if I did get that, are

564
00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:00,879
Speaker 1: you not even enjoying the moment you have your phone

565
00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:03,200
Speaker 1: out while you're walking into the room.

566
00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:06,280
Speaker 2: Speaking of that, we have a person that we are

567
00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:10,040
Speaker 2: in acquaintins with, and that's my thing. Like, I know

568
00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:12,480
Speaker 2: people want to share, but like, are you sharing? Are

569
00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:14,800
Speaker 2: you doing these things too because you care about a

570
00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:17,359
Speaker 2: human being and like you're celebrating the lift? Or literally

571
00:28:17,359 --> 00:28:21,280
Speaker 2: are you doing it for Instagram? Because I saw a nigga? Okay,

572
00:28:21,480 --> 00:28:24,760
Speaker 2: let me just be clear. This nigga is crazy. I

573
00:28:24,800 --> 00:28:30,160
Speaker 2: saw him post like I guess his whole Valentine's that weekend.

574
00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:33,520
Speaker 2: I stopped at some point. It was dumbest shit I've

575
00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:36,199
Speaker 2: ever seen. First of all, it's like I didn't know

576
00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:38,160
Speaker 2: he was like that. He hates such a turn off.

577
00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:40,160
Speaker 1: I didn't know he was. He seems so much more

578
00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:40,880
Speaker 1: like normal.

579
00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:43,000
Speaker 2: But you know what this is, okay, this is this

580
00:28:43,080 --> 00:28:48,400
Speaker 2: is to our other topic about toxicity. He comes off

581
00:28:48,680 --> 00:28:50,800
Speaker 2: this is just a guy, like, no one's involved with

582
00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:51,240
Speaker 2: this person.

583
00:28:51,280 --> 00:28:52,200
Speaker 1: This is someone we know.

584
00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:57,920
Speaker 2: He comes off as so fucking thearrapized and so fucking

585
00:28:58,040 --> 00:29:01,040
Speaker 2: down to earth and so fucking cool and like.

586
00:29:01,280 --> 00:29:06,200
Speaker 1: E like I don't know healed. But those are the

587
00:29:06,200 --> 00:29:10,120
Speaker 1: ones you gotta be careful for, because that nigga is

588
00:29:10,120 --> 00:29:13,160
Speaker 1: a narcissist, like the like.

589
00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:16,680
Speaker 2: First of all, he like surprised his girl of the

590
00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:19,800
Speaker 2: week with like balloons and like a cake.

591
00:29:21,160 --> 00:29:22,640
Speaker 1: Is that what happened? I didn't see that part. I

592
00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:28,200
Speaker 1: saw our friend made it. Oh no, Mama sold. She

593
00:29:28,200 --> 00:29:29,840
Speaker 1: don't know. She didn't know. She was being complicit. But

594
00:29:29,880 --> 00:29:31,280
Speaker 1: it's okay. You could give her money even if you

595
00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:33,720
Speaker 1: want to be her stun on the ground. It's fine.

596
00:29:34,400 --> 00:29:36,920
Speaker 1: I need to see this cake. It's probably bomb. It's sure.

597
00:29:36,920 --> 00:29:40,320
Speaker 1: It's beautiful. A cake and some balloon. Well, he also

598
00:29:40,360 --> 00:29:43,240
Speaker 1: got his other bitch, a Mam of the soul baby her.

599
00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:44,120
Speaker 1: All the bitches get it.

600
00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:46,680
Speaker 2: Oh wait, he got like three bottles of champagne, three

601
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:47,800
Speaker 2: bottles of wine and like one.

602
00:29:47,640 --> 00:29:50,680
Speaker 1: Bitch can't drink all that anyway. But then he's just.

603
00:29:50,600 --> 00:29:53,040
Speaker 2: Like, shout out to this, shout out to this shout

604
00:29:53,040 --> 00:29:55,520
Speaker 2: out that shouts that, shout out to balloons. It's like

605
00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:58,760
Speaker 2: rose petals of six balloons. I'm like, okay, shout out,

606
00:29:58,760 --> 00:30:01,200
Speaker 2: but enough shouts outs. And then the poor bitch is

607
00:30:01,280 --> 00:30:05,000
Speaker 2: just crying, just like crying because she's.

608
00:30:04,880 --> 00:30:07,440
Speaker 1: Happy, I guess, but like it's balloons of cake and

609
00:30:07,600 --> 00:30:10,120
Speaker 1: some so sad. Like as women, we like, we know

610
00:30:10,160 --> 00:30:12,320
Speaker 1: what it's like. We've never been treated well, I mean,

611
00:30:12,320 --> 00:30:14,720
Speaker 1: and I guess we haven't. We haven't. It takes one

612
00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:16,160
Speaker 1: day out of the year for a nigga to lay

613
00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:19,200
Speaker 1: some roses down on the floor halfway on the hallway

614
00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:20,440
Speaker 1: of your apartment, so.

615
00:30:20,440 --> 00:30:25,040
Speaker 2: You to be like, oh yeah, and literally there's like

616
00:30:25,120 --> 00:30:27,440
Speaker 2: six stories of her crying.

617
00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:28,280
Speaker 1: I missed that.

618
00:30:28,720 --> 00:30:32,080
Speaker 2: And then he's like, oh, man, stop crying. Oh she's

619
00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:34,840
Speaker 2: so happy, she's crying. You can film me. Yeah, yeah,

620
00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:38,560
Speaker 2: Oh she's so happy she cried. What Like, first of all,

621
00:30:38,880 --> 00:30:40,880
Speaker 2: why are you still crying? Second of all, can you

622
00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:45,400
Speaker 2: stop filming it? But that's not it. There's another one

623
00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:46,440
Speaker 2: the next day.

624
00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:48,760
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, And this is when I think, this is

625
00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:49,520
Speaker 1: when I tapped him.

626
00:30:49,760 --> 00:30:54,080
Speaker 2: They take a private jet service to Las Vegas, but

627
00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:57,240
Speaker 2: not before you see his Louisvaton sneakers with a jet

628
00:30:57,240 --> 00:31:01,800
Speaker 2: in the background. You guys, you go, we gotta stop

629
00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:04,240
Speaker 2: doing stuff for Instagram. Like, I get it's a platform,

630
00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:07,080
Speaker 2: but says the bitch she was wants to put her

631
00:31:07,080 --> 00:31:12,000
Speaker 2: titties on it every time. Yeah, I was just like,

632
00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:14,480
Speaker 2: this bitch has to know this is not about her

633
00:31:14,600 --> 00:31:17,320
Speaker 2: for her wait, and then to make it even better,

634
00:31:18,000 --> 00:31:21,240
Speaker 2: the bitch she just left for the new bitch is

635
00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:23,240
Speaker 2: posting on her story.

636
00:31:23,520 --> 00:31:24,280
Speaker 1: Niggas are so.

637
00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:28,800
Speaker 2: Sad posting their Louis Vaitton sneakers and when they owe

638
00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:31,760
Speaker 2: me money. Still, I was like, the fact that I

639
00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:35,440
Speaker 2: can see everybody's perspective life.

640
00:31:35,560 --> 00:31:38,400
Speaker 1: On here is just it's it's pretty toxic because what

641
00:31:38,400 --> 00:31:40,120
Speaker 1: I'm trying to say, it's just like I don't know,

642
00:31:40,120 --> 00:31:44,360
Speaker 1: it's just it is toxic because I feel like, I mean, obviously,

643
00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:46,160
Speaker 1: like I don't know Lorie Harvey's life, and you know,

644
00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:50,320
Speaker 1: she's obviously very wealthy and successful and beautiful, and she

645
00:31:50,360 --> 00:31:52,120
Speaker 1: lives her life for the ground a little bit like

646
00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:54,000
Speaker 1: that's why she makes her money. People care about what

647
00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:56,080
Speaker 1: she's wearing and what she's doing, because what does she do?

648
00:31:56,800 --> 00:31:57,760
Speaker 1: It's Steve Daddy.

649
00:31:57,880 --> 00:32:00,840
Speaker 2: Is Seeve Steve Daddy, Steve Daddy, just her stepdaddy.

650
00:32:01,040 --> 00:32:04,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's just it. Well, now she has a skincare line,

651
00:32:04,200 --> 00:32:06,160
Speaker 1: she's doing collabs with different brands now, like she just

652
00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:08,840
Speaker 1: had she just had a clothing collab with some clothing

653
00:32:08,880 --> 00:32:11,360
Speaker 1: company or whatever. So she's getting she's figuring it out.

654
00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:14,440
Speaker 1: Have you ever heard her talk? I don't think so,

655
00:32:14,560 --> 00:32:16,640
Speaker 1: have you No? I was just wondering, like is she

656
00:32:16,640 --> 00:32:18,600
Speaker 1: a personality? Like I never a. I don't know. I mean,

657
00:32:18,640 --> 00:32:21,000
Speaker 1: she's fucking gorgeous, That's what I do know, But like

658
00:32:21,800 --> 00:32:23,720
Speaker 1: I just feel like, and then I look at Michael B. Jordan,

659
00:32:23,840 --> 00:32:27,680
Speaker 1: my could have been future boyfriend who doesn't really post

660
00:32:27,800 --> 00:32:30,080
Speaker 1: like stunt like that on the GRAM. It's like whatever

661
00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:33,000
Speaker 1: she's doing, everyone's stunting on the ground, but it's with her.

662
00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:35,760
Speaker 1: And I feel like, is now stunting for her because

663
00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:37,280
Speaker 1: he knows he has to do that because this is

664
00:32:37,280 --> 00:32:39,920
Speaker 1: what she likes, And like, did this whole extra shit?

665
00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:42,480
Speaker 1: And I'm just like, couldn't y'all just like done this

666
00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:47,160
Speaker 1: and like enjoy it with your amongst yourself because there's

667
00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:49,440
Speaker 1: so many people right now that are alone. There are

668
00:32:49,520 --> 00:32:51,520
Speaker 1: so many people who can't afford to do these things.

669
00:32:51,840 --> 00:32:54,800
Speaker 1: It just feels tacky. How did it is tacky? How

670
00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:55,080
Speaker 1: did you?

671
00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:57,760
Speaker 2: How did how did you don't let me get into

672
00:32:57,760 --> 00:32:58,239
Speaker 2: private jet?

673
00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:05,120
Speaker 1: Everybody's gonna see that's true. We're confused.

674
00:33:05,160 --> 00:33:07,960
Speaker 2: Just not on Valentine's any other day, I'm gonna step,

675
00:33:07,960 --> 00:33:11,200
Speaker 2: but not Valentine's Day? What if people might get sad?

676
00:33:12,240 --> 00:33:16,560
Speaker 2: Comes from two single bitches? How did he showcase the hermes?

677
00:33:16,760 --> 00:33:19,440
Speaker 1: Stop? She posted it like just like everyone posted a

678
00:33:19,480 --> 00:33:22,720
Speaker 1: picture of the of the paper and said, so thoughtful

679
00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:26,800
Speaker 1: baby brought me her stock in or maze and like,

680
00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:28,840
Speaker 1: you know, the whole the whole story of them walking

681
00:33:28,880 --> 00:33:31,480
Speaker 1: through the aquarium and then oh and then a Nobu

682
00:33:31,600 --> 00:33:34,800
Speaker 1: cooked for them and Noble himself. I guess I don't

683
00:33:34,800 --> 00:33:37,000
Speaker 1: know if he did aum. Yes, how rude to have

684
00:33:37,080 --> 00:33:38,160
Speaker 1: sushi had an aquarium?

685
00:33:39,080 --> 00:33:39,800
Speaker 2: So rude?

686
00:33:40,640 --> 00:33:44,600
Speaker 1: Right up? What aquarium like long Beach? Were they I

687
00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:47,520
Speaker 1: don't know, but somewhere okay? And then then then didn't

688
00:33:47,520 --> 00:33:49,240
Speaker 1: and there then like then they got back to the

689
00:33:49,280 --> 00:33:52,080
Speaker 1: apartment and there was like orchids, like it was like

690
00:33:52,120 --> 00:33:54,320
Speaker 1: the whole room was ok because it couldn't be Roses.

691
00:33:55,040 --> 00:33:58,600
Speaker 1: You know who started all this ship the Kardashians. Kim

692
00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:01,840
Speaker 1: started the ship with with Kanye because Kanye would always

693
00:34:01,440 --> 00:34:04,440
Speaker 1: be trapping out, then Kylie and Travis and all this shit,

694
00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:06,600
Speaker 1: and He's just like, Okay, bitch, we get it. You're rich.

695
00:34:06,960 --> 00:34:07,160
Speaker 3: I know.

696
00:34:07,160 --> 00:34:08,600
Speaker 1: I'm trying to put myself in that position.

697
00:34:08,640 --> 00:34:11,640
Speaker 2: I'm like, Okay, if I get a nigga tomorrow, literally,

698
00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:13,160
Speaker 2: if I get a niga tomorrow.

699
00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:13,359
Speaker 1: He's rich.

700
00:34:13,680 --> 00:34:15,360
Speaker 2: He buys me live shit. I'm not gonna put it

701
00:34:15,400 --> 00:34:17,080
Speaker 2: all on there because I see it. I'm like, this

702
00:34:17,160 --> 00:34:18,759
Speaker 2: is very shacky, and I don't.

703
00:34:18,880 --> 00:34:19,160
Speaker 1: I don't.

704
00:34:19,200 --> 00:34:22,640
Speaker 2: That's really not that's not my thing. One nigga bought

705
00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:23,400
Speaker 2: me flowers.

706
00:34:23,960 --> 00:34:27,200
Speaker 1: One nigga. I get sharing certain things, you know what

707
00:34:27,280 --> 00:34:30,120
Speaker 1: I mean, And like, I get it. I'm not saying

708
00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:33,120
Speaker 1: you can't. And I've shared a picture of some flowers

709
00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:34,560
Speaker 1: someone about me, you know what I mean. But like,

710
00:34:35,400 --> 00:34:38,160
Speaker 1: I just feel like when you do the most most.

711
00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:40,400
Speaker 2: It just seems like it's it seems like it's for

712
00:34:40,440 --> 00:34:41,320
Speaker 2: the wrong reasons.

713
00:34:41,520 --> 00:34:44,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, like why you want us to see what you have?

714
00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:46,520
Speaker 1: It goes with you. It's very on brand for you.

715
00:34:46,600 --> 00:34:48,719
Speaker 1: It's very on brand for her. So it felt like

716
00:34:48,800 --> 00:34:50,600
Speaker 1: Michael B. Jordan is trying to make sure he's on

717
00:34:50,680 --> 00:34:53,600
Speaker 1: brand for her, because I've never seen him do post

718
00:34:53,680 --> 00:34:56,239
Speaker 1: anything like that. Obviously, I'm not just saying like for

719
00:34:56,280 --> 00:34:57,920
Speaker 1: a bitch, but just in general, he's more of a

720
00:34:57,920 --> 00:35:01,239
Speaker 1: low key actor than than what she is. Now. He's

721
00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:03,880
Speaker 1: all lost in on the yachts and shit, and he

722
00:35:03,960 --> 00:35:06,480
Speaker 1: has to because he's with Lori Harvey. It's a requirement,

723
00:35:06,600 --> 00:35:08,640
Speaker 1: all right. It's like dating Kim. You can't be private. Yeah,

724
00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:11,160
Speaker 1: you can't be fucking private. The funk. We're showing everyone

725
00:35:11,160 --> 00:35:13,719
Speaker 1: all of our shit. We're waiting to get robbed. We're

726
00:35:13,800 --> 00:35:15,640
Speaker 1: raidy to get robbed, just like Kim.

727
00:35:16,160 --> 00:35:18,880
Speaker 2: I'm gonna rob them when they wonder we get rich

728
00:35:18,920 --> 00:35:20,680
Speaker 2: and FLOSSI and everyone's gonna play this back.

729
00:35:21,040 --> 00:35:25,560
Speaker 1: Remember, look, it's on brand for us now we're rich.

730
00:35:26,480 --> 00:35:28,160
Speaker 1: I don't know at least if it's at least it'll

731
00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:31,360
Speaker 1: be mine. I will have bought my own larel displayed.

732
00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:33,160
Speaker 2: I'll be like, look how wonderful I am to me?

733
00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:38,640
Speaker 2: I bout myself a diamond ring. Yeah, I kind of

734
00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:42,080
Speaker 2: not that I care. I didn't get like jealous or anything.

735
00:35:42,360 --> 00:35:45,719
Speaker 1: But I just want to say, Okay, like, live your life,

736
00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:47,960
Speaker 1: do what you do. It's not I think it's tacky,

737
00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:50,279
Speaker 1: but you know whatever, do what you do. I just

738
00:35:50,280 --> 00:35:53,120
Speaker 1: want to say, for the people that watch those things

739
00:35:53,200 --> 00:35:58,360
Speaker 1: and feel a way, just know that half the time

740
00:35:58,520 --> 00:36:00,759
Speaker 1: they a living that life. They are that rich life

741
00:36:00,760 --> 00:36:04,520
Speaker 1: for sure, confirmed but they probably there's so much other

742
00:36:04,560 --> 00:36:07,520
Speaker 1: shit going on that you just be happy with what

743
00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:12,399
Speaker 1: you have because they like I just I think about

744
00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:14,400
Speaker 1: so many people that I know that floss on the Gram,

745
00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:16,600
Speaker 1: and I know them personally, and I know their life,

746
00:36:16,600 --> 00:36:19,200
Speaker 1: and I know what's happening in their relationships, and I

747
00:36:19,239 --> 00:36:22,200
Speaker 1: know what's happening in their personal life. And shit ain't sweet.

748
00:36:22,680 --> 00:36:26,840
Speaker 1: It's not fucking rose petals and fucking champagne. And for

749
00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:29,480
Speaker 1: someone who doesn't know that, that can be so triggering

750
00:36:29,520 --> 00:36:31,960
Speaker 1: for them. It can be so upsetting. It can make

751
00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:34,120
Speaker 1: you feel it can make you go into depression, It

752
00:36:34,120 --> 00:36:36,760
Speaker 1: can make you kill yourself. Not to be okay, trigger warning,

753
00:36:37,080 --> 00:36:40,000
Speaker 1: not to be like talk about suicide, but.

754
00:36:39,719 --> 00:36:42,680
Speaker 2: But suicide is at an all time it's like tripled

755
00:36:42,680 --> 00:36:44,440
Speaker 2: in the last ten years since social media.

756
00:36:44,520 --> 00:36:46,680
Speaker 1: So it's not like it can ruin your relationship you're

757
00:36:46,719 --> 00:36:48,600
Speaker 1: looking at your partner like you didn't do this shit

758
00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:51,040
Speaker 1: for me. No, but he did push you through college,

759
00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:53,680
Speaker 1: and he is paying the rent and he is paying

760
00:36:53,719 --> 00:36:55,560
Speaker 1: the mortgage, or she is doing this and that. It's

761
00:36:55,600 --> 00:36:58,760
Speaker 1: like put things in perspective, you guys, because the should

762
00:36:58,800 --> 00:37:02,840
Speaker 1: I row? Yeah, And once Michael and Laurier are done,

763
00:37:03,120 --> 00:37:06,360
Speaker 1: she's flatten back into that DM Okay, and she's gonna

764
00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:09,319
Speaker 1: post her her mess stop on the yacht. Okay, she's

765
00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:11,120
Speaker 1: gonna do. It'll be a different stock. It won't be

766
00:37:11,160 --> 00:37:13,479
Speaker 1: your mess. It'll be like a bigger, better yacht. Yeah,

767
00:37:13,600 --> 00:37:21,359
Speaker 1: it'll be a bigger cryptocurrency. Yeah. Yeah, I don't like that.

768
00:37:21,400 --> 00:37:24,319
Speaker 1: I didn't like that. Maybe I'm sugar because I saw the.

769
00:37:24,320 --> 00:37:25,880
Speaker 2: Other guy do it and I was like, this is

770
00:37:25,920 --> 00:37:28,239
Speaker 2: the fakest shit I've ever seen. He's so fake and

771
00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:29,880
Speaker 2: not evolved and this is a dummy.

772
00:37:30,040 --> 00:37:32,560
Speaker 1: When I saw those, I saw the hotel and all

773
00:37:32,840 --> 00:37:38,359
Speaker 1: I didn't see the hotel this is I heard about it.

774
00:37:38,360 --> 00:37:40,319
Speaker 1: It was what it was like the Delxe. It was

775
00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:43,080
Speaker 1: like a two story hotel. Oh yeah, there was a

776
00:37:43,120 --> 00:37:46,320
Speaker 1: staircase with roses going up the staircasep and he was

777
00:37:46,400 --> 00:37:48,560
Speaker 1: the one filming it. He was filming. I mean, I

778
00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:50,000
Speaker 1: don't have follow her on Instagram, so I don't know,

779
00:37:50,040 --> 00:37:52,000
Speaker 1: but he was filming it. He was filming his own

780
00:37:52,040 --> 00:37:54,600
Speaker 1: work that he had done hook I Am and and

781
00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:56,400
Speaker 1: then like he finally got to her and she was

782
00:37:56,440 --> 00:37:58,720
Speaker 1: like next to the bed, like texting on her phone.

783
00:37:58,760 --> 00:38:00,640
Speaker 1: I was like, this is so sad. Y'all ain't even

784
00:38:00,680 --> 00:38:03,839
Speaker 1: enjoying the shit. You're too busy capturing content to even

785
00:38:04,000 --> 00:38:06,600
Speaker 1: just enjoy what's been had, what you're doing.

786
00:38:06,640 --> 00:38:08,560
Speaker 2: And nigga, you're a trainer. This is not even on

787
00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:11,720
Speaker 2: brand for you. Oh damn, I don't give a fuck.

788
00:38:12,520 --> 00:38:13,160
Speaker 1: I don't care.

789
00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:16,759
Speaker 2: That's still vague everybody that likes a trainer, So you're

790
00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:18,360
Speaker 2: not even Lori Harvey and Michael P.

791
00:38:18,480 --> 00:38:20,319
Speaker 1: Jordan. There's no reason for you to be capturing this.

792
00:38:20,520 --> 00:38:26,360
Speaker 1: No one cares except we're talking about it. It was

793
00:38:26,400 --> 00:38:26,960
Speaker 1: just funny.

794
00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:31,520
Speaker 2: It was fucking hilarious, and yeah, what a waste of money.

795
00:38:31,800 --> 00:38:36,919
Speaker 1: Anyway, I'm half satisfied with my my Valentine's Day I got.

796
00:38:36,920 --> 00:38:40,600
Speaker 1: I got no rose petals on beds or candlelit rooms.

797
00:38:40,680 --> 00:38:42,799
Speaker 1: I don't really like that kind of stuff. It's just

798
00:38:43,000 --> 00:38:43,359
Speaker 1: one time.

799
00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:45,600
Speaker 2: This bitch did it for me in Atlanta, and I

800
00:38:45,640 --> 00:38:47,680
Speaker 2: was just like, I don't even know what to say.

801
00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:53,160
Speaker 1: But I was like, this is so generic. I'm just

802
00:38:53,160 --> 00:38:55,480
Speaker 1: not a generic type of bitch, Like don't run.

803
00:38:55,600 --> 00:38:58,720
Speaker 2: I mean you can, I like that, but like, don't

804
00:39:00,160 --> 00:39:03,120
Speaker 2: four hundred million thousand times and now five hundred million

805
00:39:03,120 --> 00:39:03,839
Speaker 2: bucks made that?

806
00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:06,640
Speaker 1: Is it? Pretty woman? Who who created that? I don't know,

807
00:39:06,680 --> 00:39:09,279
Speaker 1: but it's killing the flowers. I fucking created this shit.

808
00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:10,319
Speaker 1: I need to google it.

809
00:39:10,440 --> 00:39:15,200
Speaker 2: Wait and then okay, so side note on on Valentine's Day,

810
00:39:15,200 --> 00:39:19,640
Speaker 2: because I'm a Jamaican, I did a couple's massage and

811
00:39:20,440 --> 00:39:23,800
Speaker 2: I was at this like resident slash hotel, Residency slash

812
00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:26,719
Speaker 2: hotel in downtown. But it must be like a lot

813
00:39:26,719 --> 00:39:30,000
Speaker 2: of niggas go there because the security at this place

814
00:39:30,239 --> 00:39:32,560
Speaker 2: was they literally might as well be wearing bulletproof.

815
00:39:32,680 --> 00:39:34,799
Speaker 1: Vest I was like, what the fuck is going on?

816
00:39:34,920 --> 00:39:36,239
Speaker 2: And then I realized when I was in the lobby,

817
00:39:36,320 --> 00:39:38,920
Speaker 2: there's so many black people, so you know, anything fancy

818
00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:41,360
Speaker 2: that black people frequent, they got to put the fucking

819
00:39:41,800 --> 00:39:45,320
Speaker 2: fourteen security around. But everybody in the lobby because he

820
00:39:45,320 --> 00:39:47,719
Speaker 2: had to wait for the elevators, all these niggas had

821
00:39:47,760 --> 00:39:51,040
Speaker 2: like teddy bears and flowers and teddy bears and flowers,

822
00:39:51,120 --> 00:39:52,560
Speaker 2: and then me and my friend were going up to

823
00:39:52,560 --> 00:39:54,200
Speaker 2: do like a massage and cater some food.

824
00:39:54,239 --> 00:39:57,360
Speaker 1: I'm like, niggas still I got creative in two hundred

825
00:39:57,400 --> 00:39:59,680
Speaker 1: million years, it's the same shit. I don't want, no

826
00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:02,919
Speaker 1: teddy please don't get as a grown up, I wasn't

827
00:40:02,920 --> 00:40:03,640
Speaker 1: gonna do it, Teddy bear.

828
00:40:03,680 --> 00:40:05,080
Speaker 2: And it was one of those big ass ones that

829
00:40:05,120 --> 00:40:07,000
Speaker 2: no one has any of the place that is.

830
00:40:06,920 --> 00:40:09,640
Speaker 1: Going in and going to trash, is going to good will.

831
00:40:10,080 --> 00:40:12,480
Speaker 2: Well, so like, yeah, I would like stalk to but

832
00:40:12,760 --> 00:40:14,400
Speaker 2: I don't know, get get creative.

833
00:40:14,480 --> 00:40:17,080
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't. Don't run me a bath

834
00:40:17,239 --> 00:40:19,319
Speaker 1: with fucking rosesn't it? I did that?

835
00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:24,759
Speaker 2: I did that last night to myself every day, Yeah,

836
00:40:24,760 --> 00:40:28,880
Speaker 2: it's overrated. Valentine's Day is overrated, and like, romanticize your

837
00:40:28,880 --> 00:40:29,640
Speaker 2: fucking self.

838
00:40:30,000 --> 00:40:36,759
Speaker 1: Be romantic for yourself. I agree. Well, we do have

839
00:40:36,800 --> 00:40:39,359
Speaker 1: an advice question, since we are we have so much

840
00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:43,640
Speaker 1: to say about everything, OK, very opinionated. We are Valentine's

841
00:40:43,719 --> 00:40:47,239
Speaker 1: Day experts wait to not do on Valentine's Day. For

842
00:40:47,280 --> 00:40:52,759
Speaker 1: some reason, people trust us with advice. So we got

843
00:40:52,800 --> 00:40:56,239
Speaker 1: this one a little while ago, and I'm meeting to

844
00:40:56,400 --> 00:41:00,839
Speaker 1: read it and actually she mentions you, Mila, Oh, so

845
00:41:00,880 --> 00:41:05,680
Speaker 1: here it goes. Hello, ladies. I know this is super

846
00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:07,960
Speaker 1: late and I'm super behind. I'm still playing catch up,

847
00:41:07,960 --> 00:41:09,680
Speaker 1: but I just wanted to say I absolutely love your

848
00:41:09,719 --> 00:41:13,040
Speaker 1: podcast and adore you both. Thank you. You two are

849
00:41:13,080 --> 00:41:18,680
Speaker 1: amazing individuals and even better together. Wighty, we really are

850
00:41:18,719 --> 00:41:22,600
Speaker 1: better together. So getting to the point of my message,

851
00:41:22,719 --> 00:41:25,200
Speaker 1: I just finished listening to your episode with Jodie Sweeten

852
00:41:25,280 --> 00:41:28,640
Speaker 1: and Celia Beheer a shout out to never thought i'd

853
00:41:28,680 --> 00:41:32,880
Speaker 1: say this podcast. Great conversation, by the way, but I

854
00:41:32,960 --> 00:41:36,239
Speaker 1: needed some advice if you two have any Truthfully, towards

855
00:41:36,280 --> 00:41:38,319
Speaker 1: the end of the episode, you guys were discussing being

856
00:41:38,320 --> 00:41:42,719
Speaker 1: in relationships and putting yourself first and that's okay. And

857
00:41:42,800 --> 00:41:44,640
Speaker 1: one of the things that stood out to me was

858
00:41:44,640 --> 00:41:47,240
Speaker 1: when Miela was describing how her parents had been married

859
00:41:47,320 --> 00:41:49,520
Speaker 1: young and her mom was just obsessed with her dad

860
00:41:49,560 --> 00:41:52,200
Speaker 1: and just basically her world revolved around him, and that

861
00:41:52,280 --> 00:41:56,560
Speaker 1: she sometimes catches her feeling that anxiety when she herself

862
00:41:56,640 --> 00:41:59,279
Speaker 1: is with her dad and he's leaving like she's and

863
00:41:59,320 --> 00:42:01,040
Speaker 1: she's like, where are you going, what are you doing?

864
00:42:02,239 --> 00:42:04,319
Speaker 1: And she mentioned she catches herself and is like, what

865
00:42:04,360 --> 00:42:09,279
Speaker 1: the fuck? Why do I care? Well, I myself. I've

866
00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:11,080
Speaker 1: been in a relationship with the same man since I

867
00:42:11,160 --> 00:42:14,120
Speaker 1: was sixteen. I'm now going on thirty one. We've been

868
00:42:14,160 --> 00:42:18,000
Speaker 1: married almost seven years and together for fourteen and Miela's

869
00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:20,759
Speaker 1: situation triggered me because I know that is me. I

870
00:42:20,800 --> 00:42:23,080
Speaker 1: am her mom in the situation, and the sad part

871
00:42:23,160 --> 00:42:25,080
Speaker 1: is I know what I'm doing. I know it needs

872
00:42:25,120 --> 00:42:27,680
Speaker 1: to change. It's something I try to work on gradually,

873
00:42:27,719 --> 00:42:30,680
Speaker 1: but I just don't know how. There's no autonomy developed.

874
00:42:30,840 --> 00:42:33,319
Speaker 1: It's what stands out and I think to myself, like, yeah,

875
00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:35,080
Speaker 1: I can do things on my own. I can make

876
00:42:35,120 --> 00:42:37,719
Speaker 1: executive decisions on my own. But then I come back

877
00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:40,360
Speaker 1: to thinking that, like, in the back of my mind,

878
00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:44,279
Speaker 1: my decisions are always based on my husband, always, no

879
00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:46,960
Speaker 1: matter how much I'd like to believe I decide something

880
00:42:47,000 --> 00:42:50,160
Speaker 1: on my own. And don't get me wrong, I love him,

881
00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:52,799
Speaker 1: I'm in love with him. I'm just not happy with

882
00:42:52,840 --> 00:42:55,719
Speaker 1: myself because I've come to the realization that in these

883
00:42:55,760 --> 00:42:58,120
Speaker 1: fourteen years, I haven't given myself the love and care

884
00:42:58,160 --> 00:43:01,200
Speaker 1: and support I need. And now I don't even know

885
00:43:01,360 --> 00:43:03,920
Speaker 1: what that is anymore. And don't get me wrong, I

886
00:43:03,960 --> 00:43:06,400
Speaker 1: have a good job here in Silicon Valley that pays

887
00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:09,560
Speaker 1: decent and well, but he's always thrived and worked his

888
00:43:09,600 --> 00:43:11,799
Speaker 1: ass off to be the head of his company. But

889
00:43:11,880 --> 00:43:14,759
Speaker 1: at what expends to me? If that makes sense, I

890
00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:19,279
Speaker 1: feel like I'm just rambling, and in all that, I

891
00:43:19,320 --> 00:43:21,480
Speaker 1: do want to say. We have two beautiful pain in

892
00:43:21,520 --> 00:43:23,640
Speaker 1: the ass boys that are twelve and three years old,

893
00:43:23,680 --> 00:43:25,839
Speaker 1: who I love dearly, and I feel myself just being

894
00:43:25,840 --> 00:43:27,800
Speaker 1: stuck in this limbo because I do not want to

895
00:43:27,840 --> 00:43:31,160
Speaker 1: alter any parts of their lives, you know, any thoughts.

896
00:43:31,280 --> 00:43:34,279
Speaker 1: With the new year already here, I'm going to make

897
00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:36,040
Speaker 1: it a goal to try to work on myself without

898
00:43:36,080 --> 00:43:39,640
Speaker 1: feeling guilty about it, So any feedback would be great.

899
00:43:40,560 --> 00:43:44,919
Speaker 1: I know you're probably like, girl, go see a therapist. No.

900
00:43:44,920 --> 00:43:48,640
Speaker 2: No, thank you for coming to us and caring about

901
00:43:48,680 --> 00:43:52,359
Speaker 2: our opinion and listening so intently to our stories and

902
00:43:52,360 --> 00:43:55,040
Speaker 2: like letting them apply to you because obviously we're not

903
00:43:55,600 --> 00:43:59,120
Speaker 2: experts at everything, but we're just here to share our

904
00:43:59,280 --> 00:44:04,600
Speaker 2: perspectives experiences, and I really appreciate you guys embracing us

905
00:44:04,640 --> 00:44:10,839
Speaker 2: and you know, being supportive, I would say, though I

906
00:44:10,840 --> 00:44:14,560
Speaker 2: don't know, I don't maybe take a solo trip. Yeah,

907
00:44:14,680 --> 00:44:16,920
Speaker 2: I think you need to disconnect. I mean, I'm not

908
00:44:16,920 --> 00:44:19,759
Speaker 2: saying that's the answer, because one time my mom did

909
00:44:19,760 --> 00:44:22,000
Speaker 2: that for two weeks winto why then she came back

910
00:44:22,000 --> 00:44:22,279
Speaker 2: and she.

911
00:44:22,280 --> 00:44:26,400
Speaker 1: Still acted crazy. I'm just saying she did. Yeah, she

912
00:44:26,440 --> 00:44:27,200
Speaker 1: did it one time.

913
00:44:27,520 --> 00:44:29,799
Speaker 2: I remember, because like for two weeks, everybody was acting

914
00:44:29,840 --> 00:44:30,680
Speaker 2: wild at the house.

915
00:44:30,920 --> 00:44:32,440
Speaker 1: There's fucking no supervision.

916
00:44:33,600 --> 00:44:36,919
Speaker 2: But obviously she came back and got right back into

917
00:44:36,920 --> 00:44:39,520
Speaker 2: crazy mode. But I just think it's a practice. I

918
00:44:39,560 --> 00:44:41,560
Speaker 2: think it's something you have to like be mindful of im.

919
00:44:41,680 --> 00:44:46,239
Speaker 2: And I didn't help all my mom's business only to

920
00:44:46,360 --> 00:44:49,760
Speaker 2: like reference how it affected me. But I just feel

921
00:44:49,800 --> 00:44:54,360
Speaker 2: so even in any relationship, it can become so routine

922
00:44:54,400 --> 00:44:57,400
Speaker 2: and so codependent because the routine is depending on your

923
00:44:57,440 --> 00:45:01,440
Speaker 2: partner and we're not Like if you don't priority individuality,

924
00:45:01,719 --> 00:45:05,280
Speaker 2: individual time in your relationship and personally, it will not happen.

925
00:45:06,080 --> 00:45:08,080
Speaker 1: Both of you need to be on the same page.

926
00:45:08,280 --> 00:45:10,719
Speaker 2: You need to go go whatever you need to do,

927
00:45:10,840 --> 00:45:14,000
Speaker 2: go do it. You know, like I have your back

928
00:45:14,000 --> 00:45:15,719
Speaker 2: with the kid, I have you know, those are the

929
00:45:15,760 --> 00:45:17,719
Speaker 2: type of like that should be at a prior, that

930
00:45:17,719 --> 00:45:21,480
Speaker 2: should be at a priority for the relationship your individual growth,

931
00:45:22,360 --> 00:45:23,960
Speaker 2: because I really feel like those are the most the

932
00:45:24,040 --> 00:45:27,839
Speaker 2: best and most healthy relationships that don't later don't like

933
00:45:28,000 --> 00:45:29,040
Speaker 2: lead in resentment.

934
00:45:29,960 --> 00:45:32,680
Speaker 1: I think also, kids are so resilient, Like if if

935
00:45:32,719 --> 00:45:35,680
Speaker 1: your kids, if you're worried about switching shit up and

936
00:45:35,800 --> 00:45:39,360
Speaker 1: affecting the kids like stability. I mean, you're saying you're happy,

937
00:45:39,640 --> 00:45:41,960
Speaker 1: happily marriage, so I'm assuming it's not a matter of

938
00:45:41,960 --> 00:45:44,200
Speaker 1: like I want to leave my husband. It's more like

939
00:45:44,320 --> 00:45:46,560
Speaker 1: I need to switch some shit up for myself, like

940
00:45:47,640 --> 00:45:50,360
Speaker 1: do that. Yeah, your kids might notice some shit is changing,

941
00:45:50,440 --> 00:45:52,719
Speaker 1: but they'll also just get on board and go with it.

942
00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:54,480
Speaker 1: I mean there are three and I think she said

943
00:45:54,480 --> 00:45:58,279
Speaker 1: three and twelve. Yeah, kids are resilient, man like, and

944
00:45:58,360 --> 00:46:04,439
Speaker 1: you deserve you deserve to feel whole. You. I think

945
00:46:04,520 --> 00:46:07,120
Speaker 1: you got triggered because you're worried that maybe your kids

946
00:46:07,120 --> 00:46:11,640
Speaker 1: will look will feel like their mom only lived for

947
00:46:11,680 --> 00:46:15,759
Speaker 1: their for their dad, and they may if you continue

948
00:46:15,800 --> 00:46:20,360
Speaker 1: on this path. But I think it's it's not trying

949
00:46:20,400 --> 00:46:23,520
Speaker 1: to like change everything overnight. It's just like baby steps.

950
00:46:23,960 --> 00:46:26,680
Speaker 1: It's first that even acknowledged yeah, and you said you're

951
00:46:26,719 --> 00:46:29,279
Speaker 1: aware of it. I mean that's the first step. Some

952
00:46:29,320 --> 00:46:32,000
Speaker 1: people are not even aware of it. I mean at all.

953
00:46:32,080 --> 00:46:33,319
Speaker 1: Do you think your mom's aware of it.

954
00:46:35,920 --> 00:46:39,399
Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure I'm not the only one who's ever

955
00:46:39,400 --> 00:46:42,640
Speaker 2: told her this. I think it's she's so deeply programmed

956
00:46:42,680 --> 00:46:43,479
Speaker 2: that way, she.

957
00:46:43,400 --> 00:46:44,759
Speaker 1: Doesn't realize when she's doing it.

958
00:46:44,760 --> 00:46:48,040
Speaker 2: Sometimes now it's in her nature, like I've seen, she's

959
00:46:48,120 --> 00:46:49,120
Speaker 2: in her nature to do it.

960
00:46:52,880 --> 00:46:56,080
Speaker 1: And talk to your husband about how you're feeling. Yeah,

961
00:46:56,280 --> 00:46:59,480
Speaker 1: talk to your husband, like you know, you might be

962
00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:01,520
Speaker 1: nervous to do that, but it sounds like you guys

963
00:47:01,520 --> 00:47:05,239
Speaker 1: have a really good relationship, and you know, asking for

964
00:47:05,320 --> 00:47:09,040
Speaker 1: help is sometimes the hardest thing when you're a woman, honestly,

965
00:47:09,080 --> 00:47:11,440
Speaker 1: and a mom like you, and especially if you're a

966
00:47:11,480 --> 00:47:14,279
Speaker 1: good mom and you're a good wife. Well, I think

967
00:47:14,280 --> 00:47:14,800
Speaker 1: that's the problem.

968
00:47:14,840 --> 00:47:17,279
Speaker 2: I was gonna say, is that the good wife shit,

969
00:47:18,000 --> 00:47:20,799
Speaker 2: you know a good wife? Like, because I can I

970
00:47:20,800 --> 00:47:25,080
Speaker 2: can totally hear someone at home who is trained, who's

971
00:47:25,160 --> 00:47:28,120
Speaker 2: very traditional saying like that's how it's supposed to be.

972
00:47:28,800 --> 00:47:32,440
Speaker 2: Every decision should include your spouse. But I think what

973
00:47:33,200 --> 00:47:35,240
Speaker 2: it's one thing to be considerate of someone else's feelings.

974
00:47:35,280 --> 00:47:39,359
Speaker 2: That's something completely different to be abandon your ability to

975
00:47:39,440 --> 00:47:42,719
Speaker 2: make decisions on your own, which you know.

976
00:47:42,800 --> 00:47:45,400
Speaker 1: I need to check myself, even with my relationship.

977
00:47:44,920 --> 00:47:50,160
Speaker 2: With Erica, always asking her shit, but I'm saying, but

978
00:47:51,000 --> 00:47:54,000
Speaker 2: it's just it's it's not so. I think we're so

979
00:47:54,120 --> 00:47:56,960
Speaker 2: conditioned that being a good wife is and being a

980
00:47:56,960 --> 00:47:59,480
Speaker 2: good mom is. And even I had this thought today

981
00:47:59,520 --> 00:48:02,880
Speaker 2: because my daughter has been at her dad's house for

982
00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:06,640
Speaker 2: like a pretty good amount of time, probably like Thursday, Friday,

983
00:48:06,640 --> 00:48:07,520
Speaker 2: Saturday day, and Monday.

984
00:48:07,680 --> 00:48:08,839
Speaker 1: Today's Tuesday, and I was.

985
00:48:08,800 --> 00:48:12,279
Speaker 2: Feeling like deep guilt because I really needed last night.

986
00:48:12,320 --> 00:48:13,560
Speaker 2: I was like, damn, I should have when got her

987
00:48:13,600 --> 00:48:15,120
Speaker 2: last night, but he didn't call me, so I was.

988
00:48:15,080 --> 00:48:18,000
Speaker 1: Like off the hook. But I just needed to sleep.

989
00:48:18,080 --> 00:48:19,040
Speaker 1: I really wanted to sleep.

990
00:48:19,080 --> 00:48:21,040
Speaker 2: And I found myself getting anxiety about having to pick

991
00:48:21,080 --> 00:48:23,200
Speaker 2: her up because I didn't feel rested yet and I

992
00:48:23,280 --> 00:48:25,120
Speaker 2: knew she required a lot of my attention. And today

993
00:48:25,160 --> 00:48:27,239
Speaker 2: as I was coming over here, still haven't gotten her.

994
00:48:28,000 --> 00:48:29,600
Speaker 2: I was feeling and he hadn't called me. I was

995
00:48:29,600 --> 00:48:31,799
Speaker 2: feeling anxiety a that he was gonna like guilt me

996
00:48:31,840 --> 00:48:33,960
Speaker 2: for not calling even though I did who gives a

997
00:48:33,960 --> 00:48:36,960
Speaker 2: fuck's that doesn't that's doesn't matter. I have her all

998
00:48:36,960 --> 00:48:40,239
Speaker 2: the time. But I just felt the mom guilt come up,

999
00:48:40,560 --> 00:48:44,440
Speaker 2: and I had to tell myself, it's okay. You like

1000
00:48:44,560 --> 00:48:47,120
Speaker 2: you're you have things that you were getting done. You're

1001
00:48:47,160 --> 00:48:50,360
Speaker 2: not like fucking off you. You needed the rest, and

1002
00:48:50,400 --> 00:48:52,799
Speaker 2: it's okay to honor that. And like, I also have

1003
00:48:52,840 --> 00:48:54,600
Speaker 2: this fear that I'm like, oh, no, I've I'm not

1004
00:48:54,640 --> 00:48:58,279
Speaker 2: gonna I always have this fear, like fifteen years from now,

1005
00:48:58,360 --> 00:48:59,560
Speaker 2: when she doesn't want to hang out with me, I'm

1006
00:48:59,560 --> 00:49:02,040
Speaker 2: gonna go back to this very moment, this very weak

1007
00:49:02,080 --> 00:49:05,200
Speaker 2: and I'm like I didn't pick her up on fucking Sunday,

1008
00:49:05,800 --> 00:49:08,239
Speaker 2: you know, but like you can't live like that. And

1009
00:49:08,280 --> 00:49:11,120
Speaker 2: I also came to the epiphany like anxiety is fear

1010
00:49:11,160 --> 00:49:15,880
Speaker 2: of time, and guess what, like time is happening constantly.

1011
00:49:16,400 --> 00:49:18,600
Speaker 2: So I think a part of like getting a rid

1012
00:49:18,680 --> 00:49:21,040
Speaker 2: of the anxiety is just like being present and being

1013
00:49:21,080 --> 00:49:23,520
Speaker 2: okay with what you need right now and right now.

1014
00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:26,359
Speaker 2: If you're feeling like you're being codependent in any way,

1015
00:49:26,920 --> 00:49:30,120
Speaker 2: do like take slow steps back to untangle that, And

1016
00:49:30,160 --> 00:49:32,080
Speaker 2: like even if that means untangling a little bit from

1017
00:49:32,120 --> 00:49:33,919
Speaker 2: the kids and saying, hey, I need you to show

1018
00:49:34,000 --> 00:49:36,040
Speaker 2: up more because I need to show up more for myself.

1019
00:49:36,960 --> 00:49:38,759
Speaker 1: Then that's what needs to be needs to be done.

1020
00:49:38,920 --> 00:49:42,600
Speaker 1: Amen to that, because I was thinking, like, I know,

1021
00:49:42,640 --> 00:49:44,799
Speaker 1: you said your your husband has worked his ass off

1022
00:49:44,840 --> 00:49:47,000
Speaker 1: to be the head of his company and all those things,

1023
00:49:47,160 --> 00:49:50,040
Speaker 1: and that's all great, and you have a job too

1024
00:49:50,320 --> 00:49:52,719
Speaker 1: that pays well. Like you said, you have a work.

1025
00:49:52,760 --> 00:49:54,440
Speaker 1: Don't downplay what the fuck you do. You might not

1026
00:49:54,440 --> 00:49:56,319
Speaker 1: be the head of the company, but you're working and

1027
00:49:56,360 --> 00:49:58,960
Speaker 1: you're a mother. He can take up some of the slack.

1028
00:49:59,480 --> 00:50:01,960
Speaker 1: He can. He's capable of doing it. If he can

1029
00:50:02,000 --> 00:50:04,160
Speaker 1: work his ass off at his job, he can work

1030
00:50:04,160 --> 00:50:06,399
Speaker 1: his ass off in his marriage and his fatherhood. I'm

1031
00:50:06,400 --> 00:50:08,960
Speaker 1: not saying he's not. I'm just saying, allow him to

1032
00:50:09,000 --> 00:50:10,680
Speaker 1: pick up some of the slack. If you need to

1033
00:50:10,719 --> 00:50:13,000
Speaker 1: go have a solo dinner once a week by yourself

1034
00:50:13,200 --> 00:50:15,400
Speaker 1: where you order whatever the fuck you want and you

1035
00:50:15,400 --> 00:50:17,560
Speaker 1: don't have to worry about whatever the fuck everyone else

1036
00:50:17,640 --> 00:50:20,680
Speaker 1: is eating, then do that shit, whatever it is like,

1037
00:50:21,080 --> 00:50:23,239
Speaker 1: and just start there. And maybe that's not it. Maybe

1038
00:50:23,239 --> 00:50:24,600
Speaker 1: you do that. You do that for like a month,

1039
00:50:24,640 --> 00:50:26,960
Speaker 1: You're like, I actually really like having dinner with my family,

1040
00:50:27,040 --> 00:50:30,600
Speaker 1: you know, but find the things that you feel bring

1041
00:50:30,640 --> 00:50:31,719
Speaker 1: you back to yourself.

1042
00:50:32,040 --> 00:50:36,600
Speaker 2: And we have a friend, a tribe member who's married.

1043
00:50:36,719 --> 00:50:39,319
Speaker 2: She said they're about to be married, but she told me,

1044
00:50:39,400 --> 00:50:42,000
Speaker 2: like they do take turns, like just getting staycations and

1045
00:50:42,000 --> 00:50:45,759
Speaker 2: going to a hotel. And one time recently he went,

1046
00:50:45,920 --> 00:50:47,600
Speaker 2: he said he needed space to go, you know, go

1047
00:50:47,719 --> 00:50:48,200
Speaker 2: to the hotel.

1048
00:50:48,200 --> 00:50:49,000
Speaker 1: And she wasn't tripping.

1049
00:50:51,080 --> 00:50:53,359
Speaker 2: But then like they did something sexy and he was like,

1050
00:50:53,480 --> 00:50:55,320
Speaker 2: you know, meet me, meet me at the hotel for dinner.

1051
00:50:55,360 --> 00:50:57,640
Speaker 2: And they played strangers and they and they fucked and

1052
00:50:57,680 --> 00:50:59,759
Speaker 2: then she left. He fell asleep and she left and

1053
00:50:59,800 --> 00:51:00,840
Speaker 2: he like, where are you?

1054
00:51:00,880 --> 00:51:03,560
Speaker 1: And she's like, I went home. Yeah, this is your staycation.

1055
00:51:04,160 --> 00:51:07,560
Speaker 2: It's just it's just like I think sometimes even pulling

1056
00:51:07,600 --> 00:51:10,000
Speaker 2: back in your relationship and like honing in on your

1057
00:51:10,000 --> 00:51:13,200
Speaker 2: individuality and on your own time actually.

1058
00:51:12,800 --> 00:51:14,360
Speaker 1: Makes the relationship more sexy.

1059
00:51:14,680 --> 00:51:17,359
Speaker 2: It makes relationship more like in this date space, because

1060
00:51:17,400 --> 00:51:20,040
Speaker 2: why is dating so fucking sexy? Like why are you

1061
00:51:20,120 --> 00:51:22,640
Speaker 2: thinking about like the guy you just met because it's

1062
00:51:22,760 --> 00:51:25,800
Speaker 2: new and you don't there's mystery what a lot of

1063
00:51:25,800 --> 00:51:28,919
Speaker 2: times in relationships you're together so long that mystery is gone,

1064
00:51:28,960 --> 00:51:31,399
Speaker 2: and it's just like some brother sister type roommate shit.

1065
00:51:32,080 --> 00:51:34,480
Speaker 2: So like the space I think is really what creates

1066
00:51:35,280 --> 00:51:37,279
Speaker 2: makes space for romance in some weird way.

1067
00:51:38,920 --> 00:51:42,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, are we gonna do our horry? Oh yeah, I

1068
00:51:42,040 --> 00:51:46,200
Speaker 1: think let's get into the horror stories since we're not

1069
00:51:46,239 --> 00:52:02,040
Speaker 1: gonna tell any every No, we're not. So today's horror story. Yeah, okay,

1070
00:52:02,560 --> 00:52:05,920
Speaker 1: you have contacted. I can't your glasses right there.

1071
00:52:06,239 --> 00:52:09,520
Speaker 2: Bitch, I can't see far away. Oh okay, my sight

1072
00:52:09,680 --> 00:52:10,080
Speaker 2: is things.

1073
00:52:10,120 --> 00:52:12,480
Speaker 1: I came far away. Okay, I'm not I don't need

1074
00:52:12,560 --> 00:52:14,480
Speaker 1: reading glasses. Well, so, then every time you make me

1075
00:52:14,560 --> 00:52:16,400
Speaker 1: make shit bigger, I thought you said.

1076
00:52:16,239 --> 00:52:18,640
Speaker 2: It's it's because it's usually far away. You're probably asking

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00:52:18,640 --> 00:52:21,839
Speaker 2: me from far away something small. Oh my god, I'm

1078
00:52:21,840 --> 00:52:24,840
Speaker 2: gonna fuck this up. Okay, So I have a horry.

1079
00:52:25,520 --> 00:52:27,440
Speaker 2: I was dating this guy for a little while. He

1080
00:52:27,560 --> 00:52:29,760
Speaker 2: was like a bomb boyfriend and all, but he worked

1081
00:52:29,760 --> 00:52:32,080
Speaker 2: a lot, so I wasn't having as I wasn't having

1082
00:52:32,080 --> 00:52:34,239
Speaker 2: sex as often as I would like. I had a

1083
00:52:34,280 --> 00:52:36,359
Speaker 2: side nigga that I'd been going back and forth with

1084
00:52:36,440 --> 00:52:36,839
Speaker 2: since I.

1085
00:52:36,840 --> 00:52:37,600
Speaker 1: Was like eighteen.

1086
00:52:38,040 --> 00:52:41,360
Speaker 2: Dick was super bomb and his head always left me twitching.

1087
00:52:42,120 --> 00:52:44,960
Speaker 2: So this one time Main Bay came over and did

1088
00:52:44,960 --> 00:52:47,440
Speaker 2: his thing. It was good, but I needed more, so

1089
00:52:47,480 --> 00:52:49,879
Speaker 2: I waited until he left and called side Bay over.

1090
00:52:50,640 --> 00:52:53,080
Speaker 1: I washed up. I washed up while I was waiting

1091
00:52:53,120 --> 00:52:53,960
Speaker 1: for him to come over.

1092
00:52:54,120 --> 00:52:56,840
Speaker 2: He finally came and literally sucked my soul out of

1093
00:52:56,840 --> 00:52:59,480
Speaker 2: my body. He fucked me so good that I think

1094
00:52:59,520 --> 00:53:01,279
Speaker 2: I forgot how to walk a few minu For a

1095
00:53:01,280 --> 00:53:04,920
Speaker 2: few minutes, I know that type of fuck. The whole time,

1096
00:53:05,239 --> 00:53:08,480
Speaker 2: Maine Bay is calling and facetiming my phone and I'm

1097
00:53:08,560 --> 00:53:12,960
Speaker 2: deep in dick. I had to rush side Bay out

1098
00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:14,799
Speaker 2: the house so I could so that I could call

1099
00:53:14,920 --> 00:53:18,319
Speaker 2: Main Bay back. Turns out he wanted round two and

1100
00:53:18,440 --> 00:53:20,880
Speaker 2: was on his way back over, so I had to

1101
00:53:20,960 --> 00:53:23,719
Speaker 2: hurry and wash up again before he got to me

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00:53:24,080 --> 00:53:26,160
Speaker 2: and throw the sheets off the bed because they smelled

1103
00:53:26,200 --> 00:53:27,239
Speaker 2: like Side Bay.

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00:53:29,160 --> 00:53:31,880
Speaker 1: Can you imagine Nikki like? Is that Hugo? Boss? I

1105
00:53:31,880 --> 00:53:36,840
Speaker 1: don't want to know, Hugo. I think men notice niggas. Niggas.

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00:53:36,960 --> 00:53:40,880
Speaker 2: Niggas are jealous women on steroids, but quietly, which is

1107
00:53:40,920 --> 00:53:45,080
Speaker 2: even psychoer. I had to rush Sideway out the house

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00:53:45,080 --> 00:53:48,719
Speaker 2: so that I could, Okay, wait, Main Maine Bay. Must

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00:53:48,719 --> 00:53:50,840
Speaker 2: have drank a red bull or had a shot of Henny,

1110
00:53:50,920 --> 00:53:53,640
Speaker 2: because he came back and fucked the ship out of me.

1111
00:53:54,200 --> 00:53:56,560
Speaker 2: He sucked my toes, put a finger in my ass,

1112
00:53:56,680 --> 00:53:59,880
Speaker 2: choked me. I spit in his mouth. It was fucking amazing,

1113
00:54:00,160 --> 00:54:03,319
Speaker 2: sounds amazing. My little olid vagina was so sore for

1114
00:54:03,400 --> 00:54:05,280
Speaker 2: like a week, but it was worth it.

1115
00:54:05,520 --> 00:54:08,879
Speaker 1: Oh yes, I'm you know. Back and forth and back

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00:54:09,680 --> 00:54:12,320
Speaker 1: and forth, back and fuck.

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00:54:15,160 --> 00:54:18,480
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, sounds like a good time, baby. Sounds like

1118
00:54:18,560 --> 00:54:19,720
Speaker 2: you got yours ansome.

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00:54:20,760 --> 00:54:23,400
Speaker 1: I think we have another one. Oh oh yeah, we do.

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00:54:23,560 --> 00:54:25,560
Speaker 1: Should we read it? Yeah? That was a good one. Okay,

1121
00:54:25,719 --> 00:54:28,239
Speaker 1: So this is again. Since we're not sharing our host

1122
00:54:28,280 --> 00:54:32,759
Speaker 1: shit this week, we'll share yours. Okay, Hey, ladies, just

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00:54:32,800 --> 00:54:34,319
Speaker 1: wanted to share my horri So. I was in a

1124
00:54:34,360 --> 00:54:36,840
Speaker 1: serious relationship with someone since I was in my teens.

1125
00:54:37,040 --> 00:54:39,840
Speaker 1: We're married and all that shit. Many years into our marriage,

1126
00:54:39,840 --> 00:54:41,520
Speaker 1: I found out he was cheating on me and had

1127
00:54:41,520 --> 00:54:44,200
Speaker 1: no intentions of changing. So I decided to end that

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00:54:44,239 --> 00:54:46,240
Speaker 1: and move on with my life. It was a big

1129
00:54:46,360 --> 00:54:49,560
Speaker 1: change for me being single as an adult woman, especially

1130
00:54:49,600 --> 00:54:51,640
Speaker 1: since he was like one of three men I'd ever

1131
00:54:51,640 --> 00:54:54,920
Speaker 1: slept with. So here I am in unfamiliar waters, navigating

1132
00:54:54,960 --> 00:54:57,160
Speaker 1: single hood, feeling horny as fuck with no one to

1133
00:54:57,200 --> 00:54:59,400
Speaker 1: fuck until one day I was hanging out with a

1134
00:54:59,440 --> 00:55:02,480
Speaker 1: group of friends and my ex's younger brother decided to

1135
00:55:02,560 --> 00:55:04,880
Speaker 1: join us. It was cool. He was friends with my

1136
00:55:04,920 --> 00:55:08,520
Speaker 1: friends and he was family, so I felt comfortable with

1137
00:55:08,600 --> 00:55:12,000
Speaker 1: him being around. Anyways, the night went on, shots were taken,

1138
00:55:12,080 --> 00:55:14,080
Speaker 1: vibes were felt, and when the night came to an end,

1139
00:55:14,160 --> 00:55:16,959
Speaker 1: I found myself looking at him a little different. Let's

1140
00:55:17,000 --> 00:55:20,520
Speaker 1: just say the liquid courage kicked him and my hands

1141
00:55:20,520 --> 00:55:23,280
Speaker 1: got a little frisky. When we were outside the club

1142
00:55:23,280 --> 00:55:25,239
Speaker 1: waiting to go home, he was standing near me, and

1143
00:55:25,280 --> 00:55:27,960
Speaker 1: I decided to just go for it. Okay, girl, get it.

1144
00:55:28,239 --> 00:55:32,880
Speaker 1: I reached I reached into the brother's pants and grabbed

1145
00:55:32,880 --> 00:55:36,799
Speaker 1: his dick and started stroking it outside, right there on

1146
00:55:36,840 --> 00:55:39,680
Speaker 1: the sidewalk, like shit was cool. He was drunk, but

1147
00:55:39,840 --> 00:55:42,320
Speaker 1: very aware of what the fuck I was doing. Anyways,

1148
00:55:42,360 --> 00:55:44,200
Speaker 1: his drunk ass shoved me into the backseat of the

1149
00:55:44,200 --> 00:55:47,400
Speaker 1: car and started kissing me and shit, but I stopped him.

1150
00:55:47,719 --> 00:55:49,839
Speaker 1: A few weeks went by, and the sexual attention had

1151
00:55:49,840 --> 00:55:52,399
Speaker 1: really built up since our little drunken night. So one

1152
00:55:52,480 --> 00:55:54,480
Speaker 1: night we decided to link up and talk about what

1153
00:55:54,600 --> 00:55:59,400
Speaker 1: had happened. But let's just say not much talking took place.

1154
00:56:00,040 --> 00:56:02,160
Speaker 1: End up going from my couch to my bed and

1155
00:56:02,200 --> 00:56:05,360
Speaker 1: having the most amazing sex. He was younger than me,

1156
00:56:05,520 --> 00:56:07,880
Speaker 1: but boy, this young bug really knew his way around

1157
00:56:07,880 --> 00:56:11,040
Speaker 1: my body. He ate me out so fucking good, had

1158
00:56:11,040 --> 00:56:14,120
Speaker 1: me squareding all over his face, which was so hot

1159
00:56:14,160 --> 00:56:17,200
Speaker 1: because he had never experienced a woman scorting before, Young buck.

1160
00:56:18,800 --> 00:56:20,759
Speaker 1: He was like a kid in a candy store. Okay,

1161
00:56:20,800 --> 00:56:25,759
Speaker 1: all these references to Yeah, he was like a kid

1162
00:56:25,800 --> 00:56:30,240
Speaker 1: in the candy store, and the candy store was my pussy. Okay.

1163
00:56:30,440 --> 00:56:32,600
Speaker 1: It was my first time being with someone that much

1164
00:56:32,600 --> 00:56:36,359
Speaker 1: younger than me, but he did not disappoint. There I

1165
00:56:36,440 --> 00:56:40,480
Speaker 1: was with my ex's younger brother having the most amazing, passionate, aggressive,

1166
00:56:40,560 --> 00:56:43,360
Speaker 1: steamy sex I had in a while. And listen, I

1167
00:56:43,360 --> 00:56:45,040
Speaker 1: don't know if it was just the good dick or

1168
00:56:45,080 --> 00:56:47,640
Speaker 1: the sweet taste of revenge, but that shit was so

1169
00:56:48,160 --> 00:56:51,319
Speaker 1: fucking good. He literally fucked the shit out of each other.

1170
00:56:51,560 --> 00:56:56,440
Speaker 1: I'm talking spanking, choking, gagging, sweaty, just all around amazing sex.

1171
00:56:56,640 --> 00:56:58,120
Speaker 1: He was a freak, so I was able to let

1172
00:56:58,160 --> 00:57:01,120
Speaker 1: my freak flag fly high, and it was just what

1173
00:57:01,239 --> 00:57:06,440
Speaker 1: I needed. The end, Amen More, all of the story is,

1174
00:57:07,160 --> 00:57:09,399
Speaker 1: don't piss a bitch off because she's lable. The fuck

1175
00:57:09,400 --> 00:57:17,520
Speaker 1: your brother or your daddy. Bye. Wow. I love our

1176
00:57:17,600 --> 00:57:20,480
Speaker 1: community so much. I love our tribe. I love that

1177
00:57:20,560 --> 00:57:23,000
Speaker 1: this is a safe space. I love that we.

1178
00:57:22,760 --> 00:57:27,000
Speaker 2: Can literally come and tell each other everything and we

1179
00:57:27,040 --> 00:57:27,840
Speaker 2: all know it's love.

1180
00:57:27,920 --> 00:57:29,840
Speaker 1: We're gonna love you. If you're a good mom, you

1181
00:57:29,880 --> 00:57:31,040
Speaker 1: can tell us anything. We love you.

1182
00:57:31,120 --> 00:57:32,800
Speaker 2: We love you, We're gonna tell you the truth. We're

1183
00:57:32,800 --> 00:57:34,520
Speaker 2: gonna laugh, we're gonna love you.

1184
00:57:34,640 --> 00:57:35,160
Speaker 1: We don't care.

1185
00:57:36,120 --> 00:57:37,760
Speaker 2: We just want you to come as you are and

1186
00:57:37,840 --> 00:57:41,840
Speaker 2: be authentically yourself because that's the only.

1187
00:57:41,680 --> 00:57:42,560
Speaker 1: Way it is.

1188
00:57:42,680 --> 00:57:45,120
Speaker 2: It is, people do shit, you learn from it or

1189
00:57:45,160 --> 00:57:47,960
Speaker 2: you like it, you know, and that's just the moral

1190
00:57:48,000 --> 00:57:48,479
Speaker 2: of the story.

1191
00:57:48,480 --> 00:57:51,200
Speaker 1: I mean, that's the whole point. You know. Bad choices

1192
00:57:51,280 --> 00:57:55,120
Speaker 1: lead to better ones, and sometimes bad choices are our

1193
00:57:55,160 --> 00:57:59,600
Speaker 1: fucking good choices for that night. Okay, So if you

1194
00:57:59,600 --> 00:58:01,680
Speaker 1: guys have any horries, if you're listening to this horry

1195
00:58:01,680 --> 00:58:05,560
Speaker 1: and saying to yourself, damn, I got something better than that,

1196
00:58:06,440 --> 00:58:08,360
Speaker 1: send that ship please, because we are lacking in the

1197
00:58:08,360 --> 00:58:10,640
Speaker 1: Hoary department. Y'all have some cruds over there. I know

1198
00:58:10,680 --> 00:58:13,800
Speaker 1: you ain't and retired telling ours. Yeah, clearly because we

1199
00:58:13,840 --> 00:58:14,480
Speaker 1: didn't share.

1200
00:58:14,320 --> 00:58:17,400
Speaker 2: Ours, because I'm afraid that ten years from now, so

1201
00:58:17,440 --> 00:58:19,919
Speaker 2: I'm going to pull up on my receipt. Four hundred

1202
00:58:19,920 --> 00:58:25,280
Speaker 2: and eighty seven men, all recorded on podcasts.

1203
00:58:26,240 --> 00:58:30,520
Speaker 1: Anyway, I hope you guys have a wonderful week that you.

1204
00:58:31,320 --> 00:58:33,080
Speaker 1: Maybe all of our hories are only going to be

1205
00:58:33,120 --> 00:58:35,160
Speaker 1: on Patreon from here on out, just ours.

1206
00:58:38,200 --> 00:58:40,680
Speaker 2: I just feel like we've done, like we've told all

1207
00:58:40,720 --> 00:58:43,040
Speaker 2: the tills, like how much of our so how much

1208
00:58:43,080 --> 00:58:43,800
Speaker 2: can we tell?

1209
00:58:44,000 --> 00:58:44,280
Speaker 1: Fuck?

1210
00:58:44,600 --> 00:58:48,160
Speaker 2: You guys want us never to get married? Do you

1211
00:58:48,160 --> 00:58:49,360
Speaker 2: want to get married at some point?

1212
00:58:50,200 --> 00:58:50,360
Speaker 1: Wait?

1213
00:58:50,840 --> 00:58:52,880
Speaker 2: All we do is talk about like being unashamed woman,

1214
00:58:53,000 --> 00:58:54,760
Speaker 2: like we're gonna stop because we want to get married.

1215
00:58:55,160 --> 00:58:57,560
Speaker 1: I look that's to you. I say nothing joking kind

1216
00:58:57,560 --> 00:58:58,200
Speaker 1: of And.

1217
00:59:00,840 --> 00:59:03,120
Speaker 2: I'm just going back over my weekend story and I'm like,

1218
00:59:03,480 --> 00:59:04,760
Speaker 2: how many more of these do I have?

1219
00:59:04,880 --> 00:59:13,120
Speaker 1: In meeting? So yeah, let us tell your business jesus. Yeah.

1220
00:59:13,200 --> 00:59:16,600
Speaker 2: Patreon dot com backslash Good Mom's Bad Choices is where

1221
00:59:16,640 --> 00:59:21,240
Speaker 2: you can get all the uncensored self sabotage sories that

1222
00:59:21,320 --> 00:59:23,439
Speaker 2: we have and so much more.

1223
00:59:23,600 --> 00:59:24,880
Speaker 1: We have a lot of good shit on there. And

1224
00:59:24,880 --> 00:59:26,880
Speaker 1: if you have horis, just DM us or you can

1225
00:59:26,920 --> 00:59:29,600
Speaker 1: email us at info at Good Momsbad Choices dot com.

1226
00:59:29,640 --> 00:59:31,680
Speaker 1: Please put horry in the subject title. Yeah, because the

1227
00:59:31,680 --> 00:59:33,280
Speaker 1: shit will get lost in our emails, so make sure

1228
00:59:33,280 --> 00:59:34,080
Speaker 1: you put that in stuff.

1229
00:59:34,120 --> 00:59:36,040
Speaker 2: If you've sent one and we haven't said it, it's

1230
00:59:36,080 --> 00:59:39,880
Speaker 2: either a seven or free send it because we our

1231
00:59:39,920 --> 00:59:40,800
Speaker 2: emails are crazy.

1232
00:59:41,120 --> 00:59:44,880
Speaker 1: Don't DM it, just email it because DM you can't search.

1233
00:59:44,920 --> 00:59:49,479
Speaker 1: It's really annoying. And what else? Rate us and review

1234
00:59:49,520 --> 00:59:52,520
Speaker 1: us on Apple Podcasts. Please, we're almost at a thousand reviews.

1235
00:59:52,600 --> 00:59:55,280
Speaker 1: We're so close, very close, Like, do it right now? Yeah,

1236
00:59:55,320 --> 00:59:57,320
Speaker 1: please just just go ahead and rate and review us.

1237
00:59:57,360 --> 00:59:59,160
Speaker 1: If you don't follow us on Instagram, do that too,

1238
00:59:59,240 --> 01:00:01,840
Speaker 1: because I don't know. Our Instagram is kind of lit

1239
01:00:01,840 --> 01:00:03,160
Speaker 1: over there, and I don't know how long we're gonna

1240
01:00:03,160 --> 01:00:03,480
Speaker 1: be on there.

1241
01:00:03,880 --> 01:00:07,480
Speaker 2: I mean, I've greaty to only fans because I'm stick

1242
01:00:07,480 --> 01:00:11,080
Speaker 2: of putting my titties away anyway.

1243
01:00:11,120 --> 01:00:13,560
Speaker 1: We will see you guys next week.

1244
01:00:14,440 --> 01:00:32,720
Speaker 5: Bye bye record Lalas the lass

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Speaker 1: Ranza