Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices.
Speaker 2: I'm Erica and I'm Niela and it's Junior.
Speaker 3: It's my birthday month.
Speaker 1: You guys.
Speaker 2: I'm really excited because this month, you know, we're highlighting
Speaker 2: more male voices.
Speaker 1: We you know, we some talking ass bitches. We always
Speaker 1: have bitches on the show. It's time to have some
Speaker 1: niggas on the show.
Speaker 3: We need another perspective.
Speaker 1: How are you doing about it?
Speaker 3: I'm doing good. I'm feeling good. I'm feeling strong and
Speaker 3: confident and excited about you know, the hot girl summer activities,
Speaker 3: the healing and the hoeing that will happen surely, and
Speaker 3: you know, it just feels good. This is, you know,
Speaker 3: where I thrive in the summertime. I'm a summer solstice baby.
Speaker 3: So you know, I'm feeling right and airy about it.
Speaker 3: How about you, baby?
Speaker 2: I feel great. I feel I'm I'm ready. Summer is here,
Speaker 2: the kids is out of school?
Speaker 1: Is we late? Okay?
Speaker 2: The retreat is coming up. If you guys have it yet,
Speaker 2: checked out the Good Vibe Retreat. We're going to Costa
Speaker 2: Rica on July thirty first, it's our first date. And
Speaker 2: August tenth is our second date.
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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, so make sure you check that out. Everything
Speaker 2: is in the episode description.
Speaker 1: But I kind of just want to jump it.
Speaker 2: I tell you how you're doing, but I really just
Speaker 2: want to like get it in right. I think it's
Speaker 2: time you guys, ladies, tribe members.
Speaker 1: I'm really excited. We have a special guest today. You know,
Speaker 1: you know we are.
Speaker 2: Some expert d M sliders, Okay, and we slid right
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Speaker 3: Man's d M deep dive.
Speaker 2: We have none other than rockstar dad, entrepreneur, vibe curator Oriyan.
Speaker 4: You did yours truly peace.
Speaker 1: Oh wait, should we also call you the watermelon Connoisseur?
Speaker 4: Thank you?
Speaker 3: We gotta say we gotta say it twice, orian O,
Speaker 3: Watermelon an abundance.
Speaker 4: Y'all having an awesome day having an awesome night. I
Speaker 4: love you, You love you, you did day. The most important part
Speaker 4: of that.
Speaker 5: Mantra is you love you because the thing about love is,
Speaker 5: you know, it's like, if this is your love cup
Speaker 5: and it ain't even full, please don't pour your.
Speaker 4: Last bit of water in mind because you but I'm
Speaker 4: filled up and you did give me your last.
Speaker 3: That's true.
Speaker 4: So love yourself first, and that's yeah, that's that.
Speaker 2: Yes, I love that, especially as a man, I'm happy
Speaker 2: to hear that you you share these ideals because a
Speaker 2: nigga will ask you to pour your last. Actually, they
Speaker 2: don't even ask a bitches just do it. I don't
Speaker 2: even know why we do it.
Speaker 1: They don't even ask us. We just do it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think it's natural.
Speaker 5: You know, you guys are nurturing, and you know you
Speaker 5: gotta put the nurture in.
Speaker 4: The right direction.
Speaker 3: We like to poor, we like to pour, and then
Speaker 3: we forget that that poor should be an exchange, you know,
Speaker 3: And we're nurturers by nature. So we're hoping if we
Speaker 3: water a nigga, you know he's gonna water us. He's
Speaker 3: going to be fruitful and multiply. But we all know
Speaker 3: that some of these niggas are a cacti.
Speaker 5: You know, And that's why you gotta learn the land, ladies.
Speaker 5: You know, you got to learn the land and.
Speaker 4: Research who you're dealing with, you know.
Speaker 5: And and when I saw these cards, I was so
Speaker 5: glad to see that, because you know, there are tools
Speaker 5: out here to give you some foresight to what you're
Speaker 5: dealing with. And a lot of ladies make us some
Speaker 5: thinking that all men are the same, or that we
Speaker 5: all operate from the same os. Like, no, some dudes
Speaker 5: out here are still iPhone Force.
Speaker 3: Honey, they have the flip slide. There's been a sidekick
Speaker 3: that might be too that might even too good. They
Speaker 3: the Nokia with the snake on it. They don't make
Speaker 3: the b That's That's all I got is the good
Speaker 3: game the same.
Speaker 5: But you know, a lot a lot of the you know,
Speaker 5: the thing is about the good guys.
Speaker 4: You know, a lot of them are are they're.
Speaker 1: Out here, they're like they're taking.
Speaker 5: And they disappear, they're off the scene. That's how wife
Speaker 5: he wants it, that's how we're it seemed to be
Speaker 5: securing the whatever. But I see a problem with that,
Speaker 5: because this is why a lot of guys aren't motivated
Speaker 5: to go in that space either because it's like all right, man,
Speaker 5: you're happy and you're good over there, but I'm trying
Speaker 5: to get over there.
Speaker 4: Man, build a bridge. Man, you know, how do I
Speaker 4: how do I get there?
Speaker 5: You know? And it's told to us like oh you
Speaker 5: have to do this and you got to do that,
Speaker 5: But it's told to us by women and you know,
Speaker 5: not men, like hey, dude, this is.
Speaker 4: How you're supposed to want to go here? Do this? Well?
Speaker 1: Are are men having the conversations?
Speaker 4: Well that's what That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 5: The good men they get taken away from us that
Speaker 5: want to be good men too.
Speaker 4: There's there's no you know, are you transitional? Like you
Speaker 4: know what I mean?
Speaker 5: Like say say say I got an og and he's married, right,
Speaker 5: and like, oh man, I.
Speaker 4: Look up to him.
Speaker 5: He's fit and he's like got his money together and
Speaker 5: I'm like, og, like I want to you feel me.
Speaker 5: This dude is busy. He's like hard to get in
Speaker 5: touch with. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: He's changed his.
Speaker 4: Number and he means business.
Speaker 5: So it's like you know, there there are there isn't
Speaker 5: any there's not much fellowshipping with those who have.
Speaker 4: Made it to those who want to go.
Speaker 3: There, well, I agree, I totally agree, And Eric I
Speaker 3: have talked about this multiple times on the show because
Speaker 3: you know, as you know, we're doing a retreat, we
Speaker 3: hoped we host retreats, and just in general, like this,
Speaker 3: this entire like this entire journey has been us, you know,
Speaker 3: healing as in the form of talking, and we've just
Speaker 3: really noticed, like we feel like women are like there's
Speaker 3: a revolution with women happening right now. We're waking up
Speaker 3: to our power, to our divine femininity, to who the
Speaker 3: fuck we are. We're you know, we're kicking down doors
Speaker 3: and taking names and we're taking less ship from the cacti,
Speaker 3: you know, and we're just like, where are the men
Speaker 3: that are on the journey of healing themselves too, so
Speaker 3: that when we're all healed and ready, we don't have
Speaker 3: to be lesbians, right, you know, Like, so is this
Speaker 3: a thing? And you're like, I just want to know,
Speaker 3: because you see him evolved, you see.
Speaker 5: Him like all the healing is definitely a huge part
Speaker 5: of any any dudes I hang out with or you know,
Speaker 5: my brother, Like we went last year, we went on
Speaker 5: two weeks I think it was ten days. It was
Speaker 5: fourteen days yoga retreat with sad Guru who's like one
Speaker 5: of the most famous yogis like on the planet right now.
Speaker 4: He's from India, and we went.
Speaker 5: To to his his His land is so crazy. It's
Speaker 5: like it was a it was an old like national park,
Speaker 5: it seemed like. And he's got like the biggest yoga
Speaker 5: it's in Tennessee. It's in Tennessee, so there's green everywhere, waterfalls,
Speaker 5: It's like it's amazing. The biggest yoga like place, the
Speaker 5: biggest yoga like dome in the in the nation right now.
Speaker 5: It's there, and they have this huge like statues. It's
Speaker 5: the land is is special. And my brother and I
Speaker 5: we did this last year and it just was a
Speaker 5: game changer and it's like we did that for us,
Speaker 5: you know, and it's like next week we're doing the
Speaker 5: me and it's like we have a good balance.
Speaker 1: Of can you invite more men with you?
Speaker 3: Yeah, well yeah, yeah, I think it'd be a retreat healer. Ryan,
Speaker 3: Do you want to go into retreat business with that?
Speaker 1: Absolutely retreat collab for the men.
Speaker 4: I'm interested.
Speaker 3: We need to heal the men.
Speaker 5: We do we do and you know, like I said earlier,
Speaker 5: there's a lot of dudes who want to do that
Speaker 5: and they want to go in that direction, but they're like,
Speaker 5: I don't want to go right there where it's looking
Speaker 5: like I don't know what I'm looking at.
Speaker 2: You know, I feel like it's a gay I'm like, absolutely, well,
Speaker 2: I mean a bunch of niggas on a property, like
Speaker 2: we're going to retreat that less ship we'll see.
Speaker 5: Yeah, a lot of a lot of straight guys may
Speaker 5: think it's a little gay because sometimes they might see
Speaker 5: a gay person healing themselves before they are, you know
Speaker 5: what I mean. So it may it may seem like
Speaker 5: I don't know, they may be a little hesitant. But
Speaker 5: that's why I stay in that space and why I
Speaker 5: you know, in the mornings.
Speaker 4: Got meditated.
Speaker 5: I'll go live and meditate just to show people like,
Speaker 5: you know, like I'm not too cool for this, like
Speaker 5: healing man, Like I'm not too like fly to like
Speaker 5: sit there with my toes out and just folk, you know,
Speaker 5: and sit there and do nothing, think nothing.
Speaker 3: We have to do it, you know, I know I
Speaker 3: tapped into your life this morning. I was like, oh yeah,
Speaker 3: I saw the brog.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, you know, like all of your healing energy
Speaker 5: and power it's within as above so below yeah, or
Speaker 5: God's like I mean, it's everywhere telling you you know,
Speaker 5: we've got it.
Speaker 4: We just have to do it. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I think I think too that like with the with
Speaker 2: the men doing the healing, the women doing the healing,
Speaker 2: I think there's also like there has to be a
Speaker 2: coming together of it because I felt there's a big
Speaker 2: distrust between men and women as well.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, because of the traumas and the you know,
Speaker 5: the things we've separately gone uh through separately and the
Speaker 5: things we've gone through together. Like you know, there there
Speaker 5: was a literal separate, like there was a intentional separation
Speaker 5: of us, and we have to intentionally come.
Speaker 4: Back together, you know what I mean.
Speaker 5: So it's it's happening, you know, slowly but surely, And
Speaker 5: I think that that's the best way because we all know,
Speaker 5: you know, the faster it comes through, the faster it leaves.
Speaker 5: So this slow pace of of you know, everybody slowly
Speaker 5: kind of coming together and like peeking over and like hey, yeah,
Speaker 5: like we have to do it that way. It's not
Speaker 5: gonna be this big, Like it's not gonna be that
Speaker 5: you know, what I mean. You know it's not gonna
Speaker 5: be on television, and it's gonna be low key.
Speaker 4: And it's just gonna slowly happen.
Speaker 3: So the revolution will not be televised.
Speaker 5: I mean they told us it's gonna be a live
Speaker 5: stream though the revolution will be.
Speaker 1: Like it might be a carousel post.
Speaker 4: Yes it will, it will. You know who owned the TV.
Speaker 4: They're not telling us every ding. They're telling us they
Speaker 4: vision and that's fine. We got our own. Now it's
Speaker 4: our time.
Speaker 3: Well, we usually start the episode with an affirmation. Do
Speaker 3: you have an affirmation for us today?
Speaker 4: Yes? I do. Uh, part of it is what I started.
Speaker 3: I wasn't sure if that was it was so strong,
Speaker 3: I wasn't sure.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna say it again.
Speaker 3: Please we can repeat it with you, so you can.
Speaker 4: Say it with me. Peace, Love and abundance.
Speaker 3: Peace, Love and abundance.
Speaker 5: Have an awesome day, have an awesome day, having an
Speaker 5: awesome nights, hav an awesome night.
Speaker 4: I love you, I love you, you love you, you
Speaker 4: love you.
Speaker 5: Yeay, And you gotta say it with that energy because yeah, yeah,
Speaker 5: it just it tells, you know, our body, It tells
Speaker 5: the DNA like, hey, we're going up to this happening.
Speaker 4: I know you said.
Speaker 5: We're going up. You did because I love me and
Speaker 5: you love me too, you know, so let's go.
Speaker 3: Yes, that's true. We need that, We need that extra
Speaker 3: you know. I was telling myself the other day. I
Speaker 3: was feeling like sad for myself that I didn't clean
Speaker 3: my house and I had a lot of ship to do.
Speaker 3: So I was like, this house is dirty. Damn it is.
Speaker 3: I was like, it's okay, it's okay, you're the ship.
Speaker 3: You canna clean your house on Friday. Was like, you
Speaker 3: can't do everything, girl, at least you got a house.
Speaker 3: I was like, that's true. House is still dirty. It's
Speaker 3: not Friday yet, but I'm gonna get that.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get around to you get there.
Speaker 3: I really love that you talked about balance. Me and
Speaker 3: Erica very much in the balance space, you know, like
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Speaker 2: Was actually wearing our merch right now, and she's customized it.
Speaker 2: I did, she customized the merch. She said, fuck a shirt.
Speaker 2: Gila's always mad because we're making shirts, and she's like,
Speaker 2: I don't look good in shirts. She's like, I'm small,
Speaker 2: I don't like shirts. I don't and so literally she
Speaker 2: pulled up yesterday the other day at my house and
Speaker 2: I was like, she literally cut the shirt all the
Speaker 2: way down the middle.
Speaker 1: I did, that's very creative.
Speaker 3: I said, now wear our shirts because my cleavage is
Speaker 3: that I feel I can breathe now. I can breathe.
Speaker 5: Here.
Speaker 3: Hello, Hello, I'm here. Honestly, when I wear shirts, i'd
Speaker 3: be like sometimes it's like, just get me out of here.
Speaker 3: I don't like close that much anyway. I have very
Speaker 3: little assets, so these little these are the assets that
Speaker 3: will show. I want to go pick up Luda in
Speaker 3: the shirt yesterday and I was like, let's coooluck these parents.
Speaker 3: I'm the ship.
Speaker 4: Hey, Sally, wish you wish.
Speaker 3: I'm like, is this aggressive? First one?
Speaker 1: For my kids?
Speaker 3: School is like predominantly white. I'm wearing black as fuck,
Speaker 3: fine as fuck, And I'm like, and I have a
Speaker 3: purse that's protect black women.
Speaker 1: Parents are like, who is my necklaces?
Speaker 3: Bad? Bad choices? My titties around? I'm like, come on, little,
Speaker 3: let's go. Mom's here.
Speaker 1: You're the coolest mom at school for sure.
Speaker 3: I claimed it. So I okay, So Orian Orian. We
Speaker 3: usually start the episode with a little well, you know,
Speaker 3: certain we pick and choose, we play this game with
Speaker 3: it for you. We've decided that we want to play
Speaker 3: this game. It's called trigger. And how we play the
Speaker 3: game is I'm going to say one word and then
Speaker 3: you're gonna just tell me the respond the first thing
Speaker 3: that comes to mind quickly, maybe one word? Maybe, don't
Speaker 3: don't ever think it? Ay ready, fatherhood, me, monogamy, what?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Pretty much? Boxers or briefs.
Speaker 4: Neither right?
Speaker 3: Idle your idle, most spontaneous thing you've ever done this year?
Speaker 4: Just random trip up the coast.
Speaker 3: Kevin Samuels, out of pocket, bad habits.
Speaker 4: Come easy. Marriage needs to be refined, Molly about.
Speaker 3: The Trinidad James child support? What favorite stream?
Speaker 4: Oh lucky lady, mm hmm mm hmm.
Speaker 3: Omnicron I ain't gonna say that.
Speaker 4: I would just do that. We have to.
Speaker 3: No chill, you said, nurture. No, well, okay, nurture mom.
Speaker 3: Happily ever after.
Speaker 6: Disney Black Women, everything turn on, Black women, turn off everything.
Speaker 3: Favorite porn category.
Speaker 4: I don't my own. I don't watch porn.
Speaker 2: You make the chords, you're only fans.
Speaker 3: Suscribers personal collection, the archives, got it. Favorite position mm hmmm,
Speaker 3: verse charg that's a good one. Celebrity crush.
Speaker 4: Mm hmm.
Speaker 5: Honestly, you know, because I became one Very, I had
Speaker 5: a celebrity because very Okay, and it's gonna sound crazy.
Speaker 4: It's gonna sound crazy.
Speaker 5: But when I was younger, gonna be too.
Speaker 4: I love like fresh album and I still, you know,
Speaker 4: love her and she's beautiful. I would never you know.
Speaker 3: It changed, It changes when you get older.
Speaker 4: You still love that.
Speaker 3: It's not as like as raunchy as it once was.
Speaker 5: She just just had that that brown skin and that
Speaker 5: wavy hair.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, all day love think love you, oh my,
Speaker 3: I can't even think of thanks JJ. Put the wish and.
Speaker 7: Not in my day dreams come true.
Speaker 3: That baby, Sorry, I had to drop it. That was
Speaker 3: like my favorite fucking album. In the seventh grade. Maybe
Speaker 3: it was like the fifth but it was great. Shout
Speaker 3: out to Tail for that epic one album that she.
Speaker 4: Still bangs out here. Okay, no disrespect.
Speaker 3: You're banging. You're banging. Single mom, need everything, manifestation, masturbation.
Speaker 4: Tapping, therapy, needed for everyone.
Speaker 3: Best advice you've ever.
Speaker 4: Received, not received yet?
Speaker 3: Mm hmm. Big Sean is a rapper insecurity? What is
Speaker 3: that biggest regret?
Speaker 4: Zero?
Speaker 3: Okay, that's all I got today. There's all the triggers
Speaker 3: you completed. Trigger that was really smooth. You did a
Speaker 3: good job. Most people get stuck. Your smooth guy. Good
Speaker 3: Mom's approved.
Speaker 1: Trigger.
Speaker 4: Thank you excellence.
Speaker 5: I mean, yeah, you don't have to put too much
Speaker 5: thought into what's natural to you.
Speaker 3: You know it's true when you smooth the smooth.
Speaker 1: So you mentioned that you had your daughter. I think
Speaker 1: you said at twenty.
Speaker 4: At twenty, yes, yes, at twenty.
Speaker 1: What was that like for you at that time in
Speaker 1: your life?
Speaker 5: Oh my god, it was so crazy because her and
Speaker 5: I we had we had been in a relationship. We
Speaker 5: were younger for a couple of years, probably started like
Speaker 5: when we were eighteen nineteen twenty, and she's a year younger.
Speaker 4: Than me.
Speaker 5: So we started young, you know, hanging out and getting
Speaker 5: to know each other.
Speaker 4: We actually went to the same.
Speaker 5: Elementary school, so you know, we've seen each other with
Speaker 5: other people before we got together.
Speaker 4: So that's why I wasn't triggered.
Speaker 5: But yeah, I didn't have anything any more than that.
Speaker 5: But for me, it was like I had a decision
Speaker 5: to make when I was told when I got the news,
Speaker 5: you know, and it was like, you know, do this
Speaker 5: or that, like be like your dad or be unlike
Speaker 5: you know, and I chose to be nothing like my dad,
Speaker 5: you know, And I planned it out as far as
Speaker 5: I could, you know, I was like, hey, you know, pregnant,
Speaker 5: stay with me, you know, throughout this pregnancy. I want
Speaker 5: you to be happy, you know, I want you to
Speaker 5: be eating good like you know everything. I didn't see
Speaker 5: my mom like kind of have you know that I
Speaker 5: wish she did. That was my plan. That was the motivation.
Speaker 5: And yeah, that was that was it, you know. And
Speaker 5: the first the first i'll say, the first seven years
Speaker 5: of my daughter's life. She'll be fourteen this year. The
Speaker 5: first seven years, you know, I was just heavily influenced,
Speaker 5: heavily involved, you know, and that was my that was
Speaker 5: my plan.
Speaker 3: You know, even at twenty you're like, I'm dedicated to.
Speaker 4: Music, acting all that.
Speaker 5: I put that on a back burner because I didn't
Speaker 5: want to. I didn't want my daughter to see me
Speaker 5: in that perspective, Like I wanted her to see me
Speaker 5: and actually touch me and feel me sorry and actually
Speaker 5: know I was there. So you know, I just was
Speaker 5: like I made my decision. Once I got the news,
Speaker 5: it was like, all right, cool. So you know, once
Speaker 5: you know, like I said, the first seven years that
Speaker 5: were up, it was like her, you know, her mom,
Speaker 5: she really started like coming into who she was, like
Speaker 5: not just as a person, but as an artist as well.
Speaker 5: And I felt like as a friend and as an artist,
Speaker 5: fellow artist, fellow friend, you know, I felt like, you know, hey,
Speaker 5: like the best way I could support that dream, you know,
Speaker 5: is to to provide a space where she doesn't have
Speaker 5: to worry about her daughter, our daughter that like.
Speaker 4: When it comes to that, she got to worry about
Speaker 4: that when it comes to dad, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3: Like it's a beautiful period.
Speaker 4: You know.
Speaker 5: That was my goal, Like, hey, I don't want nowhere
Speaker 5: get to worry, you know, don't worry about it. You're
Speaker 5: not annoying me when you ask me anything, you're not.
Speaker 5: It's not an issue. It's gonna get done. Please, don't
Speaker 5: I think you're bothering me. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 5: because a lot of women feel like, you know, they
Speaker 5: don't want to you know what I mean, when they
Speaker 5: get to know all the things you gotta do, all
Speaker 5: the things.
Speaker 4: You know, man, it's got to I gotta handle this
Speaker 4: and that they're like, oh, I don't want to bother you.
Speaker 4: And it's like, no, don't worry. We got this. So
Speaker 4: that was that was my plan. I stuck to it.
Speaker 5: And that's why my daughter is you know, it's lit.
Speaker 5: That's why you know she's amazing, and you know that's
Speaker 5: why it's all happy.
Speaker 4: You feel me?
Speaker 3: Well, damn, that's not mature twenty year old dad. Should
Speaker 3: I ever heard? Where the fun do they source you at?
Speaker 8: Because ship Mama made thank you, Mama, Mama, may you know,
Speaker 8: tried shout out all you know, my aunties, my name,
Speaker 8: I love you, I miss you, Rest in peace Nana,
Speaker 8: And yeah, it was all of them, you know, me
Speaker 8: seeing you know where everything was lacking, you know it
Speaker 8: just when.
Speaker 4: I had the chance, I was like, you know what,
Speaker 4: I know what I'm doing. I'm doing what never been done,
Speaker 4: you know, And well.
Speaker 2: That's amazing that you have, like I guess, like the
Speaker 2: self awareness too at that age to be able to
Speaker 2: do that, that's a real that's a gift.
Speaker 5: Yeah, my nana, you know, and my mom, like I said,
Speaker 5: I grew up, you know, my brother being like kind
Speaker 5: of like the you know, he's always been the way
Speaker 5: he is now. He's always been like a performer, always entertaining,
Speaker 5: like always.
Speaker 4: Like since we were kids, since I've known him, since
Speaker 4: I've been a lot. And myself, you know, like I
Speaker 4: was always in the books, you know, in the corner reading.
Speaker 4: I mean, I remember looking at.
Speaker 5: Books when I couldn't even read as a child and
Speaker 5: like I'm gonna learn this.
Speaker 3: I don't know what this is, just keep on looking, figut,
Speaker 3: don't cook you feel me?
Speaker 4: And I remember thinking like that, you know, at five six,
Speaker 4: you know what I mean. So that's just who I am.
Speaker 5: And I I was blessed enough to you know, create
Speaker 5: with someone that understood who I was, you know, because
Speaker 5: I feel like a lot of complications with that, it
Speaker 5: comes with people not knowing who they're dealing with. You
Speaker 5: know what I mean, or not knowing like you know,
Speaker 5: that was my motivation. It was like to be better
Speaker 5: than my father, you know what I mean. And some
Speaker 5: some people may not have that motivation. Actually a lot
Speaker 5: of people don't have that motivation, you know what I mean.
Speaker 5: And some people, you know, may have an example that
Speaker 5: wasn't good and that messes up everything. You know, I
Speaker 5: didn't have an example at all, and I think that
Speaker 5: that's great.
Speaker 4: You know. I never held that against my father or
Speaker 4: like you're like, oh, you know, I hate you like
Speaker 4: I love my dad, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3: You have a relationship now, No, No, I wish we did.
Speaker 5: But you know, I don't hold him accountable for not
Speaker 5: being able to have tools to give me right he
Speaker 5: didn't have it. Thank you for staying away, not giving
Speaker 5: me things that I couldn't do right, because that's that
Speaker 5: happens a lot. That does just for the sake of tradition.
Speaker 3: And being you know what I mean, just being just
Speaker 3: to pretend to be there.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you know, I think a lot of I mean,
Speaker 1: that's funny that you say that, because I think that's
Speaker 1: a lot of Like we were talking and we're doing
Speaker 1: trigger and we're saying like happily ever after or the like,
Speaker 1: saying that it needs to be redefined and things like
Speaker 1: that and that nature. Like, I think the family dynamic.
Speaker 2: A lot of times we you know, especially I think
Speaker 2: in black in our black community, because being a baby
Speaker 2: mama or baby daddy has looked down upon being a
Speaker 2: single parent. So we hold these families together and actually
Speaker 2: do so much more harm to our children by trying
Speaker 2: to like force relationships and like, you will be with
Speaker 2: your dad this weekend, you know, because you need a dad.
Speaker 2: I don't care if he's not perfect. You'll get that imperfect.
Speaker 4: Yeah, You're going to go over there and spend time.
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, yeah yeah.
Speaker 5: And I feel like, you know, the generation after they
Speaker 5: had to deal with it, they're not having it, you
Speaker 5: know what I mean.
Speaker 4: They're like, no, we're going to try something new. You know.
Speaker 5: I was, like I said, I was blessed enough to
Speaker 5: to be with someone that was willing to try something.
Speaker 4: And willing to trust me, willing to trust my word,
Speaker 4: willing to.
Speaker 5: Be like all right, you're going to follow through with this,
Speaker 5: you know, and be like all right, you got it,
Speaker 5: you know, and that in return, you know, I.
Speaker 4: Had to keep my word. You feel me like I
Speaker 4: had to, you know, it's like all right, we'll go.
Speaker 4: And it was like, oh, all right, let me go,
Speaker 4: you know. So that that helped me a lot, you know,
Speaker 4: just her believing that I would do.
Speaker 3: What I say I did, like, you know, even thinking
Speaker 3: about that, like as a mom, as a single mom,
Speaker 3: as a single mom, like building an empire, building a business,
Speaker 3: and it's like this it is, we're gonna. We're like
Speaker 3: in a sense building this like untraditional brand, you know,
Speaker 3: even though it's not new. But like hearing you say
Speaker 3: that at the guilt that I feel sometimes for like
Speaker 3: building this business, you know, and having to be away
Speaker 3: and being like listen, I gotta go, and like worried
Speaker 3: about low Ki, Like what are you saying to her?
Speaker 4: Are you holding you? Yeah?
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, And like if like I think men do
Speaker 3: just the community such a disservice by not I mean, yeah,
Speaker 3: not really supporting mothers and supporting their women or even
Speaker 3: like like even I've known my baby daddy for since
Speaker 3: I'm thirteen, you know, for a long fucking time, and
Speaker 3: still there's this rift and it's like because I knew
Speaker 3: him and I chose still, you know, that's really what
Speaker 3: it is. But you know I was young too. But
Speaker 3: it's also like what happens to the community when the
Speaker 3: women are supported in that way, Like you know, I'm
Speaker 3: going to build this business regardless.
Speaker 5: You know, magic magic magic, because people forget to realize.
Speaker 5: I'm sorry because you off. But like you know, big Mama,
Speaker 5: you feel me, Big Mama. They call it Mother Earth
Speaker 5: for a reason.
Speaker 3: Mama, paa, come on, you feel me.
Speaker 4: So it's like we all come from big Mama. We
Speaker 4: all need big Mama.
Speaker 5: Big Mama gonna let everybody stay over. Big Mama gonna
Speaker 5: take care of whoever pull up. It could be some
Speaker 5: random kid, Big Mama gonna take care of it. So
Speaker 5: I come from like my nana was a big mama.
Speaker 5: You know, I've you know, my mom having me at eighteen.
Speaker 5: I remember being at my mom's thirtieth birthday.
Speaker 3: Oh wow.
Speaker 4: So my perspective on women way beyond.
Speaker 5: What a lot of them can understand. Like, sweetheart, I
Speaker 5: can have an intelligent conversation.
Speaker 4: With your mom. Your mom gonna tell you.
Speaker 5: Your mom might check you before I do with me, right,
Speaker 5: because your mom probably knows what you're dealing with.
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying, and you know, I just
Speaker 4: feel like it has to be that way, you know
Speaker 4: what I mean.
Speaker 3: It's just a beautiful thing. What happens like when you
Speaker 3: pour back into big Mama, you know, like we've had
Speaker 3: oh you know what I'm saying, Like, imagine that giveth
Speaker 3: being watered too, you know, and and and how that
Speaker 3: waters the family, How that waters the children. How that's
Speaker 3: going to water our daughters and everybody eats and then
Speaker 3: suddenly healed.
Speaker 4: Certainly we back to berth. Everybody what they need.
Speaker 1: Global warming is also.
Speaker 2: Cured exactly because Mama, it's true.
Speaker 3: It's true. And it's just like it's a beautiful thing
Speaker 3: that you were like at even a young age, you know,
Speaker 3: having that experience to understand like I'm going to support
Speaker 3: you and have your back because hey, we've made this
Speaker 3: child together. How about that? And b Like what happens
Speaker 3: when a woman can go and do her thing and
Speaker 3: not feel be shame and guilt about it?
Speaker 4: That you can see exactly And what.
Speaker 3: A beautiful manifestation of a unit. And I like how
Speaker 3: you called it a co creator, you know, because we
Speaker 3: are co creators, but you know, like this this co create,
Speaker 3: like when we support our coke creators, and it's and
Speaker 3: it's you know, fluid, and it's it's reciprocal. Our kids win,
Speaker 3: you know.
Speaker 5: And it's so crazy because you know, we've known each
Speaker 5: other so long and we've supported each other in such
Speaker 5: a unique way that a.
Speaker 4: Lot of people don't understand.
Speaker 5: You know, a lot a lot of people you know,
Speaker 5: her saw they don't a lot of people in my
Speaker 5: family they don't get it because they've never done it,
Speaker 5: seen it.
Speaker 1: It's almost like they look for conflict. They want to
Speaker 1: look Okay, yeah, a.
Speaker 3: Whole life, you got that baby all.
Speaker 5: And then I have to remind people like, yeah, I
Speaker 5: saw the baby come out. There's nothing more. There's no
Speaker 5: more intimate I could get with this person. I know this,
Speaker 5: Like I love this person. I know this person, and
Speaker 5: that's it. So if this person has love over here,
Speaker 5: love is something over here, I support that too, you know,
Speaker 5: Like I don't know if y'all seen like you know,
Speaker 5: like we've been close to me and my baby mom.
Speaker 4: We've been since we've been closed, you know, like I've.
Speaker 5: Gone on trips with her and her you know, right
Speaker 5: whole you know what I mean, Like it can be done,
Speaker 5: but it's just people are are kind of stuck in tradition,
Speaker 5: you know, and you know and a lot of yeah
Speaker 5: ego and a lot of traditions that are.
Speaker 4: Not ours, not even ours. So you know, we have
Speaker 4: to get back to the original.
Speaker 3: You know, we're a tribe. We function as tribe. We
Speaker 3: function as a village. That is an African proverb, you know,
Speaker 3: like it takes a village is not no bullshit.
Speaker 5: Yes, and like that that was it is an African proverb.
Speaker 5: But don't forget on this land here. That's what they took,
Speaker 5: you know what I mean, that's what they took here.
Speaker 4: You know what I mean. It's still going on there,
Speaker 4: but that's what was usurped here.
Speaker 1: And that's why there's so so much divide and that's
Speaker 1: why you know, when they break the family, they break everything.
Speaker 5: You feel me and you know, just like you got
Speaker 5: the East Indians, you know, were the West Indians over
Speaker 5: here going through it and you know, Big Mama's coming back.
Speaker 4: Though, well the women are Big Mama's coming back. I know.
Speaker 5: I feel like you know, through through the history here,
Speaker 5: you know, like we've had the revolution, we have black Panthers,
Speaker 5: we have everything you know now BLM and you know,
Speaker 5: we have all this stuff, and it's like right now,
Speaker 5: I feel like we're in a special time for us,
Speaker 5: like we are the we're the ones now, so.
Speaker 4: We can literally change this like that.
Speaker 5: We just got to get on one accord, you know,
Speaker 5: and we just have to respect each other's power and
Speaker 5: know what we're capable of and what we're responsible for,
Speaker 5: and then you know, it's easy.
Speaker 3: Absolutely, And it's like, really understand loving yourself and understanding
Speaker 3: your power is really the superpower. I think. Yeah, even
Speaker 3: in this journey, like I've realized like, oh, like we
Speaker 3: talked about this before we started, Like me and Erica
Speaker 3: will literally speak some shit and then within like seven
Speaker 3: to ten days we will get it. I mean, without doubt.
Speaker 3: I don't even have to think about it. I just
Speaker 3: say we can literally be like, oh I want I
Speaker 3: want to Ryan to come on the show.
Speaker 4: Y'all are that powerful?
Speaker 3: It's crazy.
Speaker 5: That's why you guys have to speak life into us too,
Speaker 5: because we've messed up.
Speaker 4: We've gotten done. We've gotten done, done, done done that
Speaker 4: undone done Yeah.
Speaker 3: Okay, And it's difficult because we've a lot of us
Speaker 3: have been hurt, have been talked down to, have been disrespected,
Speaker 3: there's a lot of lost men who are putting that
Speaker 3: that hurt on their women, and then we're scorned and
Speaker 3: we can't come back.
Speaker 5: Another tradition that's not ours, that was picked up what
Speaker 5: treating their women like that? Yeah, you know we we historically,
Speaker 5: you know, when you go back and you see relics
Speaker 5: and you see old things that are tribes and everything
Speaker 5: that we worshiped, it was the woman.
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, and the woman. So all that disrespect the
Speaker 4: women that ain't natural to us.
Speaker 3: No, that ain't to us.
Speaker 5: That's picked up by someone else and carried on into
Speaker 5: the culture. But that ain't naturally us.
Speaker 4: You feel me, So.
Speaker 1: I think it's true.
Speaker 2: Though you're right, like I think you know. Me and
Speaker 2: me love talked about a lot on the show. You know,
Speaker 2: I'd be lying if I said fu niggas like a
Speaker 2: hundred times. I often battle with that too because I'm like, okay, wait, wait, wait, wait,
Speaker 2: hold on, Okay, I know I said, so, I know
Speaker 2: I said niggas.
Speaker 1: Ain't it last week?
Speaker 2: But like, how do we okay, how how do I
Speaker 2: empower the man? How do I without without pouring my
Speaker 2: last drop you know what I mean? Without feeling like
Speaker 2: I'm going to be at a loss by pouring into
Speaker 2: you and speaking into you and not you know, maybe
Speaker 2: getting anything back in return. I mean obviously maybe not
Speaker 2: having the expected expectation of gettingything back in return and
Speaker 2: just pouring in.
Speaker 5: But it's like, gotta be careful with that because you know,
Speaker 5: we got to know that we at a disadvantage. We've
Speaker 5: been at a disadvantage for so long. We got to
Speaker 5: know when we're in the orange or the red or
Speaker 5: you know, like, hey, you gotta know if you can
Speaker 5: pour or not. If you can't pour, guess what you
Speaker 5: gotta you got you got a friend that can pay.
Speaker 4: We're flowing. So yeah, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 5: And you know, I think conversations, you know, for me,
Speaker 5: I can say, like, you know, being a young dad,
Speaker 5: like when I was twenty three, twenty four, you know,
Speaker 5: like my daughters like five, and it's like you know,
Speaker 5: I you know, it wasn't much to do around that time.
Speaker 5: Like I wouldn't say it was easy, but it was
Speaker 5: like the easiest hard when they're younger, that was the
Speaker 5: easy part. The hard part is when they become people,
Speaker 5: you have to really guide them and be like, hey, listen.
Speaker 4: That's not right, you know, but.
Speaker 3: Sorry, I lost It's okay, high.
Speaker 5: I just I was talking about yeah, like the pouring
Speaker 5: into okay, sorry, yeah, I just speak from my mind.
Speaker 5: I think before I speak, must be inquirsed leo moving.
Speaker 5: But yeah, like you guys got to make sure you're
Speaker 5: pouring into a cup that has a little something many
Speaker 5: you know what I mean, and that that comes with discernment,
Speaker 5: you know, like women, when do you guys learn.
Speaker 1: Then we don't have discernment?
Speaker 3: No, I would say thirty three and a half. It's
Speaker 3: me right now. I just learned it last week, and
Speaker 3: I can say that you know, and and you I
Speaker 3: think as women, intuitively, we're some intuitive ask natures.
Speaker 4: Oh my god.
Speaker 3: Like I know people get weird about this word. But
Speaker 3: when I say we're witches, it is because our words
Speaker 3: are spelled. It is because we are alchemists. It is
Speaker 3: because we are powerful and we really can't manipulate the
Speaker 3: energies that be. I've seen it happen.
Speaker 5: We are wizards, don't you know. Don't leave that little
Speaker 5: power over there. We are wizards to you, absolutely are.
Speaker 3: But I think with all of that being said, I
Speaker 3: think sometimes because of where we're at how we've lost
Speaker 3: touch with our powers of who we are in each other.
Speaker 3: Like there are things that you know, we know instinctually,
Speaker 3: but we believe the programming, and so we try and
Speaker 3: we try. Let me try it this way, let me
Speaker 3: go over, let me go under, let me hit it here.
Speaker 3: Maybe if I go in the back window, maybe if
Speaker 3: I pour over here, maybe if I shake like this,
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying, Like there's all these things
Speaker 3: where like you see this like one percent of like
Speaker 3: of potential, and then you want to water that. But
Speaker 3: in reality and then we want to cling You know
Speaker 3: that I'm a cancer, So Lord Jesus, that clinging shit
Speaker 3: is like outside soft hands, so fucking soft soft is kitten,
Speaker 3: motherfucking candy.
Speaker 4: I love I got a cousin, is a cancer shutout.
Speaker 4: I love Jesus.
Speaker 3: I love aquariuses. I'm learning to love aquariuses recently.
Speaker 5: Hard to love because we're so spaced out. We're in
Speaker 5: the age of Aquarius. You know, we went from the
Speaker 5: age of Pisces, who brought you guys, Jesus and Buddha
Speaker 5: and all that.
Speaker 4: But now we're in the age of Aquarius, and we
Speaker 4: changing it up.
Speaker 3: We shaking it up is shaken up.
Speaker 4: We're shaking it up. If you want to get shu,
Speaker 4: come this way.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna shook it. I'm here to get shook it
Speaker 3: shook with me, but for real, like yeah, it's it's
Speaker 3: it's that discernment and you know, like I've been I
Speaker 3: told I always talk about this. There was his last relationship.
Speaker 3: This was when I was thirty three and a half
Speaker 3: and I was like, don't do this. I saw the light.
Speaker 3: I was like, you're healing. You're doing so well, you're evolving.
Speaker 3: And then I was like huh. I was like, I'm
Speaker 3: going to the light and I was like yeah. I
Speaker 3: was like, over here, is that the darkness? Is that
Speaker 3: a dark alley calling my name? Is that backwards? I'm
Speaker 3: so curious about what's happening. If I sink, if I
Speaker 3: sink into this cluick sand. But I did it consciously
Speaker 3: and then I came out of it consciously quicker thought.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, mage have it. But I knew
Speaker 3: like that into that intuitive bullshit. I was like, I
Speaker 3: told myself to myself, I said, bitch, this is a test.
Speaker 3: Are you mature yet? And I was like no, I'm
Speaker 3: not I'm a dumb bitch.
Speaker 5: I'm at least you owned it, and I feel like
Speaker 5: that's that is where you know people can People can
Speaker 5: rest in that owning it and have more either fun
Speaker 5: or go further in the intellect of what we're doing.
Speaker 5: Like you know, a lot of the women that me
Speaker 5: me man like, I tell them off the rip, like,
Speaker 5: trust me, you don't want to fall.
Speaker 4: In love with me. If you don't want to be
Speaker 4: madly in love with someone, if you don't want to
Speaker 4: like think of one, don't just like me from right there.
Speaker 3: Don't want to.
Speaker 4: And like me from right there, because if you get
Speaker 4: any closer, you're going to think about me every day.
Speaker 4: I tell that too.
Speaker 1: Do you think about that every day?
Speaker 4: Are you? Are you.
Speaker 5: Falling deep? But I'm falling deep in everything I do.
Speaker 5: So don't think I don't love you because I'm falling
Speaker 5: deep in this. I'm about to fall I'm about to
Speaker 5: go wag up and then fall back and deep in
Speaker 5: with you. But because everybody can't do that, they may
Speaker 5: be like, oh, you don't love me, but it's like no,
Speaker 5: I just love the same way I love you. So
Speaker 5: just be patient with me and just know the love
Speaker 5: is a boomerang. You know what I'm saying, It's gonna
Speaker 5: come right back, you know what I mean.
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Speaker 3: Calm dot Com backslash g MBC Happy Meditating. You seem
Speaker 3: like a pretty low key guy. I never you know, Yeah,
Speaker 3: you seem pretty private. I've never seen you on this
Speaker 3: on this shade rim the news of the of the
Speaker 3: new era. What are like?
Speaker 4: You know? Are you?
Speaker 3: Are you single?
Speaker 4: Yes, single handedly doing my thing?
Speaker 3: I've heard that, baby, babe it What in dating are
Speaker 3: you seeking, like a long term relationship do you have?
Speaker 3: What are you like? Non negotiables? Ladies?
Speaker 1: Ladies want to know what top three non negotiables?
Speaker 4: All right, all right, you've got to love yourself. You
Speaker 4: gotta have self esteem, baby.
Speaker 5: That's number one for me, because you're not about to
Speaker 5: get mad at me for all the self esteem I
Speaker 5: got right, You're not about to make me question my shit.
Speaker 5: So I need you to have full self esteem. I
Speaker 5: need you to be a self starter, you know, a
Speaker 5: self motivator. You know, because in the wee hours of
Speaker 5: the night when I'm creating, or i leave the studio
Speaker 5: or I'm going home and I can't sleep, like I
Speaker 5: have to make myself go to sleep.
Speaker 4: No one's there. I'm not taking no pills. I'm not
Speaker 4: taking no drugs.
Speaker 5: I'm a natural reagen out of rude way, so I'm
Speaker 5: not you know, I ain't taking no pills or anything
Speaker 5: chemical to get me there. I'm basically putting myself through
Speaker 5: the worst shit so that no.
Speaker 4: One else can. That's my logic. So it's like, yeah,
Speaker 4: I put myself through the worst so that whatever comes
Speaker 4: or whatever. You know, it's nothing to me.
Speaker 3: This seems like a job listing. Are you a self starters?
Speaker 3: A self starter?
Speaker 4: Yourself? Love yourself? And you know what's that? Uh, I
Speaker 4: don't know. You might gotta smoke, we you might go
Speaker 4: if you don't smunkly. You gotta do shrooms. You gotta
Speaker 4: do some type of like, oh, you're out drink. If
Speaker 4: all you do is drink, we're not gonna get along.
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, Like you need to do
Speaker 5: some type of like something natural, like I said, mushrooms
Speaker 5: or like weed, you know that comes from the earth.
Speaker 4: So I'm tied to the land, baby, you know what
Speaker 4: I'm saying, Like you need to be tied to the
Speaker 4: land too. If you just tied to like other.
Speaker 5: Things, we're gonna disconnect. So yeah, self confidence, self motivating,
Speaker 5: and you gotta be of of the land.
Speaker 4: You gotta know, you.
Speaker 5: Gotta like either be into like beating or like hiking
Speaker 5: or like you know what I mean. You can't just
Speaker 5: be like you gotta be into arts and crafts like
Speaker 5: you know what I mean. You gotta you have to
Speaker 5: do something like that, because if you wanted them shorties,
Speaker 5: I just want to go out, go to restaurants, eat this,
Speaker 5: don't even really eat everything, take the stuff home, don't
Speaker 5: even eat it like you're trying to reheat it in
Speaker 5: the air.
Speaker 4: Fright.
Speaker 5: The next day, were on something else, we meditating today
Speaker 5: we're not even eating that.
Speaker 4: It's over. Yeah, you know.
Speaker 5: So it's like them shortis that want to get lit
Speaker 5: and they want to go to the nice restaurants and
Speaker 5: all that.
Speaker 4: You know, I do that from time to time, but
Speaker 4: I've done it so long.
Speaker 5: Like you know, you wanted to go to the clubs
Speaker 5: the Chef and mashows and Beverly Hills, like I know
Speaker 5: the Chef because I've been going there so many years.
Speaker 1: You do both.
Speaker 3: You could go to mass shows and do like grounding
Speaker 3: that's I'm like, I'm like, take me to the restaurant. Yeah, yeah, yeah, we.
Speaker 4: Walk, I'm doing both.
Speaker 3: Take me to the mass shows on the beach and.
Speaker 5: Then yeah, we have to go to that one because
Speaker 5: you know, the the negative ions that's hitting.
Speaker 3: The ocean, it's gonna take away the badness.
Speaker 4: And if you think about that you just went through
Speaker 4: before you put up.
Speaker 3: Eat like I eat fine dining by the beach and
Speaker 3: do melamones? Have you have you heard of milamones? Let
Speaker 3: me teach you. I know you meditate and ship, like
Speaker 3: maybe you want to adopt this into your practice. I've
Speaker 3: been spreading the words, so you know, I'm just offering
Speaker 3: it up to everyone. And it's just you know, like
Speaker 3: just like stretching is the release. What we've discovered. I've
Speaker 3: discovered that, like, you know, using voice as a release too.
Speaker 3: If it's sometimes you got to cry, sometimes you gotta yell,
Speaker 3: and sometimes as humans we forget like that moaning is
Speaker 3: not just reserved for sex. It's you know, it's pleasurable,
Speaker 3: like oh that's beautiful, for really beautiful?
Speaker 4: Did you hear Yeah?
Speaker 3: I did? Well did I didn't hear it?
Speaker 7: But I was.
Speaker 1: But when I saw you.
Speaker 3: I was like, he needs to know about Mela mos.
Speaker 4: I start at the end.
Speaker 5: I started doing a Yeah, I told everybody to do
Speaker 5: because od is one of my favorite I mean, besides
Speaker 5: obviously is amazing, but ah.
Speaker 4: Liberates myself.
Speaker 3: Yeah, just like m hm oh ship yeah give.
Speaker 7: Mm hmmmm.
Speaker 4: H hey, honestly, let me be real man, it took me.
Speaker 4: M m all right.
Speaker 5: I've been like, I'm like thirty five, so I'm like,
Speaker 5: I'm like twenty years into my sex career.
Speaker 4: Mm hmm right, all right, and it took me.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna call you.
Speaker 1: We gotta get better.
Speaker 3: We gotta shark it raises.
Speaker 4: Oh.
Speaker 5: So, what I've learned when I'm thinking about like all
Speaker 5: my little phases, what I would do, what I was
Speaker 5: into and stuff like that, what I'm learning right now
Speaker 5: in my sex career is that, you know, this is
Speaker 5: like my first in the last five years.
Speaker 4: This is my first time really like letting the moan out.
Speaker 3: Oh wow, they forget what we like that though.
Speaker 5: Well, I learned that a couple of years ago because
Speaker 5: my first experience she did something I was just like,
Speaker 5: what are you doing?
Speaker 3: I'm gonna have to know what that was?
Speaker 5: Well, well, she just started, you know, doing things that
Speaker 5: have never been done, you know, And I'm like, wait
Speaker 5: a minute, I'm comfortable with you.
Speaker 4: Why are you doing this? Why why do you want
Speaker 4: to make me feel this good? You feel me? And
Speaker 4: I learned about myself, like I heard, I heard my mom.
Speaker 3: And then it's kind of a turn on, right, my
Speaker 3: pleasure sounds.
Speaker 4: Good like nam money. Yeah, you need to get in.
Speaker 4: You know, I could sing this.
Speaker 3: You know you know I sing, so you know, can
Speaker 3: you can you sing a month for us?
Speaker 4: Absolutely not. It would be fake. It would be fair.
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 4: It would be fake, and I don't want to get
Speaker 4: you all fake.
Speaker 3: All right, those other mons were good. I appreciate you
Speaker 3: for joining, Thank you for joining.
Speaker 4: I'm a tinner. I'm a tinner, slightly an alto.
Speaker 5: So ladies, hmm, if I'm speaking to you and you're
Speaker 5: close to me, you're going to feel the viber.
Speaker 4: With me.
Speaker 3: I'm like, no, it's fucking true. I did with a
Speaker 3: baritone voice. And I didn't even like him at first,
Speaker 3: and he like whispered some ship. But it was only
Speaker 3: when he got like in it, like yeah, literally I
Speaker 3: was cool on him. I was like, I'm like, I'm cool.
Speaker 3: He got like three inches from my bitch's ear level.
Speaker 3: He was like the room number is. I was like,
Speaker 3: what the fuck? I was like, yeah, I was like what.
Speaker 3: I was like, Okay, that was a nigga that I
Speaker 3: said was a back alley, dark dark way.
Speaker 4: Everything's bright except this.
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah that that voice. Yeah, yeah, I gotta stop
Speaker 3: talking about him on my episodes.
Speaker 5: I had an impression. You know, shadow work is important too.
Speaker 5: You know a lot of people, you know, obviously we
Speaker 5: come up in religion and praying.
Speaker 4: And getting on your knees and praying.
Speaker 3: Did you grow up Christian or like in religious?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I grew up.
Speaker 5: My aunt had a church, she's a pastor, so yeah,
Speaker 5: I grew up Christian. And then my sister's dad, who
Speaker 5: is not my dad, my dad, but my mom my
Speaker 5: sisters we have different dads.
Speaker 4: He was seven day of minutes, so I was like
Speaker 4: ten eleven years old in a seven day minutes. Yeah,
Speaker 4: you know about the seven day that's yeah, yeah, I
Speaker 4: had to I had to have the experience.
Speaker 3: I was talking about that intent.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I lost my originator.
Speaker 5: So it was like, yeah, Friday night to Saturday night,
Speaker 5: no nothing, you know, but we weren't doing any settings.
Speaker 4: So that was that was the part I couldn't respect.
Speaker 4: It was like, all right, we're gonna get us into this,
Speaker 4: like learn the keys. But it's just like, no, you
Speaker 4: can't play video games right now, you can't.
Speaker 3: You know, you can't do anything. Don't do anything.
Speaker 4: Yeah, So you know it's it's levels. You know.
Speaker 5: I grew up that way, but you know, through time
Speaker 5: I developed my own modalities because I realized this is
Speaker 5: this is all, this is all you know.
Speaker 4: What you make it?
Speaker 3: What are some of the modalities you've adopted to do
Speaker 3: shadow work? And what shadow work have you done? Like
Speaker 3: maybe there's a man man tuning in first.
Speaker 4: And foremost.
Speaker 5: Doing mushrooms, you feel me, I know on TV and
Speaker 5: the media, like maybe someone saw mushrooms like being done
Speaker 5: on TV or you know, but that's not the actual
Speaker 5: original purpose.
Speaker 4: You feel me like this comes from the earth.
Speaker 5: And every time I do mushrooms, it's shadow work because
Speaker 5: I'm presented with some ship I did or some ship
Speaker 5: that happened to me. You know, it's coming up in
Speaker 5: the trip and I'm like, oh my god, how did
Speaker 5: I feel? You know, a lot of times when we
Speaker 5: have trauma, we don't we put it to the side.
Speaker 3: A lot of times when you're black, you put it.
Speaker 4: You got on.
Speaker 1: Look, you got on the side, literally almost every time.
Speaker 1: Let's be honest.
Speaker 5: Okay, we have so much stuff on the side and
Speaker 5: we just moving and walking around and hey we lit no, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 5: you need to get that stuff on the side.
Speaker 4: So, you know, Ayuasca was a big, big help for me.
Speaker 3: Purging, you know, right in the ayahuasca experience.
Speaker 5: Yeah, the ayahuasca experience was amazing. It was life changing.
Speaker 5: Like I did it after after the tour, which the
Speaker 5: tour was so tough, you know for me because it's
Speaker 5: been a while since I've been in that world, and
Speaker 5: it was like revisiting some people from the past that
Speaker 5: I've moved on from, and.
Speaker 4: It was like, why are we doing this?
Speaker 3: What did you learn in that experience?
Speaker 5: I learned that you know, the past is the past,
Speaker 5: and however you choose to you know, you have to
Speaker 5: you have to decide how you're going to walk away.
Speaker 4: A lot of people when we have trauma and stuff
Speaker 4: happens to us, we like.
Speaker 5: Run away and we're like, oh this happened to me,
Speaker 5: and this is wrong, and now I'm here dealing with
Speaker 5: this what happened to me, But you have to approach
Speaker 5: it and be like, yo, that was wrong.
Speaker 4: This wasn't supposed to happen to me. And I know that,
Speaker 4: and now I'm carrying.
Speaker 5: On this is it is over, you know, And that tour,
Speaker 5: you know, really helped me deal and heal with that
Speaker 5: because you.
Speaker 4: Know, when I first started my career when I was
Speaker 4: sixteen sevent.
Speaker 5: Team I would suppose Orion, Orion's career was supposed to
Speaker 5: have the support of B two K's career, and because
Speaker 5: they didn't want they got jealous of me, you know,
Speaker 5: and we almost fought on my first performance.
Speaker 4: You know, that turned me off from doing everything I
Speaker 4: was destined to do. You know. So shit happens, but
Speaker 4: it's all about how you deal with it.
Speaker 5: And at that moment the tour, it was like okay.
Speaker 5: It was like, hey, you want to still be a
Speaker 5: victim or you want to be a victor. And you know,
Speaker 5: like I said, my dad his name is Victor. Shout
Speaker 5: out my dad, even though you know we're not you
Speaker 5: know what I'm saying where I wish we were, But
Speaker 5: my dad's name is Victor. So I would always be victorious.
Speaker 5: So after the tour, that was like, oh, this is
Speaker 5: my moment. Get back to yourself or Ryan enough daddy,
Speaker 5: that's what I call it, dadding. Yeah, enough dadding, you know,
Speaker 5: like get back to your purpose. Like my purpose wasn't
Speaker 5: to be a good dad. It's just part of who
Speaker 5: I am. But my purpose is to influence the world,
Speaker 5: to change the world. So I have to get back
Speaker 5: to my strongest modality, which is entertainment, which is being
Speaker 5: in front of people.
Speaker 4: And you know that just that tour was the catalyst
Speaker 4: for me because, like you.
Speaker 5: Said earlier, I felt a lot of guilt, you know,
Speaker 5: like because my original plan was to be like president
Speaker 5: in my daughter's life and all that.
Speaker 4: And you know, once my mom's.
Speaker 5: Career started kicking off and you know, settling, and you know,
Speaker 5: like I said, after seven, you know, she started being
Speaker 5: with mom more. You know, she started going, my daughter
Speaker 5: start having lady changes and going through things, and it's like,
Speaker 5: all right with your mom, I.
Speaker 4: Don't have it.
Speaker 3: Well, I don't have any I don't have this experience.
Speaker 4: You know, I can tell you this, but that ain't
Speaker 4: gonna work for you. It's gonna work for me. But
Speaker 4: you know, your mom needs to tell you this.
Speaker 5: Your aunt needs to tell you this, you know, because
Speaker 5: me being your dad, me telling you you know my dad,
Speaker 5: you know what I mean.
Speaker 4: But I understand that, so you know it all it all.
Speaker 3: You know, that's beautiful. I think sometimes with shadow work people, yeah,
Speaker 3: like you said, run away from it and just like
Speaker 3: the dark side of Like, I think shadow work is
Speaker 3: a lot of things dealing with trauma also, like you know,
Speaker 3: I always say, like you got to feed the beasts
Speaker 3: a little bit. Hello, Like like you said, you got
Speaker 3: to go to the you gotta do the we're all
Speaker 3: about the yingang and bad choices.
Speaker 4: You got to go to the fort a purpose.
Speaker 3: You can't have one but about that bad even like one.
Speaker 5: Like actually like solidifies the other when when you think
Speaker 5: about it in whole, it's like, yeah, this one does that,
Speaker 5: so it can.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but we're if we are really in true wholeness,
Speaker 3: then we are dabbling in both at you know, in
Speaker 3: balance really and you really can't even in like a
Speaker 3: lot of traditional religions Christianity and all the other ones whatever,
Speaker 3: there is this huge like don't do this, don't indulge
Speaker 3: in sex, don't indulge in drinking, but it's like, well
Speaker 3: that ship feels good. Sex feels good, pleasure feels good,
Speaker 3: moaning feels good, Being naked feels good. There are things
Speaker 3: that which are there's something there. There's something there, something
Speaker 3: that God or you can learn.
Speaker 4: That you can take away. Yes, yes, whether it's about
Speaker 4: yourself or whether it's about.
Speaker 3: The dark alley, darky down.
Speaker 4: Maybe you're in the dark alley, Like why do I
Speaker 4: like dark alleys? Yeah?
Speaker 3: Now I got to figure out what I got? Like
Speaker 3: how do I see lights in these dark allies?
Speaker 1: What am I am?
Speaker 3: I the dark alley? And when I'm indulging in this
Speaker 3: dark alley only because.
Speaker 4: They're not trying to light up some ship.
Speaker 3: That can't be lit?
Speaker 8: Or do I need to walk the funk away and
Speaker 8: you need to give with my tribe and stay lit
Speaker 8: exactly stop trying to you know, project in this person
Speaker 8: what I really need to do for myself.
Speaker 4: Yes, I really need to do for myself, you.
Speaker 5: Know, Like like I said when on this fatherhood journey,
Speaker 5: you know which, I didn't have a role map. You
Speaker 5: know what I'm saying, I'm not one of them dudes,
Speaker 5: Like I didn't have my dad, Like I have no
Speaker 5: one to fucking mirror. But people in my memory or
Speaker 5: people I've read about, or you know, Sean will Smith,
Speaker 5: you know, people like him, you know, like I have
Speaker 5: no none of that. Uncle Phil rest in peace, but
Speaker 5: like you know, so knowing that, it's just like, all right, man,
Speaker 5: how I wanted to be you feel me? I wanted
Speaker 5: to be where you know, you know, for Janey. You
Speaker 5: know what I'm saying, like there was certain comfort in
Speaker 5: her that I wanted her to have that I never
Speaker 5: seen my mom have. You feel me as far as
Speaker 5: like with working. You know, like my mom was a hairstylist,
Speaker 5: So it's like I grew up in the salon. I
Speaker 5: grew up around, you know, all of that shit that
Speaker 5: at it's intercelt, so you know I grew up around that,
Speaker 5: and you.
Speaker 3: Know, it's just like yeah, man, But before we started talking,
Speaker 3: when he came in, when you came in, you were saying, like,
Speaker 3: you know, I when you guys crept into our DM
Speaker 3: talking about I know all about good mom's bad choices,
Speaker 3: We're like, well, what the fuck do you mean you
Speaker 3: know about good mom's sad choices? But you were essentially
Speaker 3: you said you were raised by your mom primarily she
Speaker 3: you know, she worked in the Harislon. I'm sure she's
Speaker 3: working the fuck a lot to support her, you know,
Speaker 3: you and your your siblings. And she smoked weed, and
Speaker 3: from the community's standpoint, she was doing making bad choices.
Speaker 1: But then she created these I mean amazing me being.
Speaker 5: My brother, my older brother being born at sixteen when
Speaker 5: she was sixteen, Me being born at eighteen.
Speaker 4: That was already a bad choice.
Speaker 5: Not only for her, but like my grandma, Like you know,
Speaker 5: people were talking shit, y'all, what y'all doing.
Speaker 4: Y'all got these little dudes like what they gonna do?
Speaker 4: You feel me? And it's like, turns out we did.
Speaker 4: It's still a good jobs I was supposed to do.
Speaker 4: You feel me?
Speaker 5: And it turns out when when ladies like my mom
Speaker 5: and my nan and all them, when they got it,
Speaker 5: when they.
Speaker 4: Got it under control, you feel me. Look how it happens.
Speaker 5: Now. There are some things that I'm missing. There are
Speaker 5: some parts I'm missing You know that I was I
Speaker 5: wasn't allotted. You know that I'm gathering now that I
Speaker 5: seek now, you know, like you know, working out and
Speaker 5: like you know, going to the gym. It's like those
Speaker 5: are things I didn't do as a kid that I
Speaker 5: should have done if a mail was around me influencing that.
Speaker 4: But you know, I'm into it now and I have.
Speaker 4: You know, I got ogs. Now.
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna say, I think the ladies don't think
Speaker 1: that that's been missing. I think.
Speaker 3: I think you're doing just fine, that you've been doing
Speaker 3: just well.
Speaker 1: Okay, you know we saw the pictures. We saw the watermelons.
Speaker 4: Indeed, yes, indeed I love watermelons.
Speaker 5: You do.
Speaker 3: I mean, now you know we brought we didn't. We
Speaker 3: gifted Oriyan O'Ryan a couple of swetters. But yes, I
Speaker 3: want you to know that, my dear, we have one
Speaker 3: more gift for you.
Speaker 4: Y'all just surprises.
Speaker 1: When you come to the Good Mom Show, you get
Speaker 1: taken care of, you get nurtured.
Speaker 3: You do get nurtured. We're nurturing women.
Speaker 4: We're all making me feel like at home hanging out.
Speaker 4: Well we have.
Speaker 3: I also want to apologize to you. We usually smoke
Speaker 3: during our episodes, but HR is here today so we can't.
Speaker 3: We're going to smoke outside. But we do have another
Speaker 3: gift for you, and just just say right here, hold on,
Speaker 3: you're ready.
Speaker 4: My god, I was surprised this is why I love.
Speaker 3: Oh Lord, we have so Erica and I really thought
Speaker 3: this really through mostly Erica. Oh yeah, please get comfortable.
Speaker 4: Hold it.
Speaker 1: Need to get to hear God, God, damn it.
Speaker 3: Here, I'll hold we can hold it.
Speaker 4: Hold it, you can hold it.
Speaker 1: Okay, you hold it.
Speaker 3: I can actually assist you with this watermelon if you
Speaker 3: need to hold it and let me just yeah, actually,
Speaker 3: let me get a bigger one for you, because we
Speaker 3: heard from the instagrams that O Marion, I mean o'rian
Speaker 3: really loves watermelon. So ready oh oh oh.
Speaker 5: Oh wow.
Speaker 4: Mhmm, how is that? How is that?
Speaker 3: Go ahead?
Speaker 4: Go ahead, it's so juicy. Oh no, I know I
Speaker 4: got some drip.
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh oh my goodness.
Speaker 3: The instagram didn't lie.
Speaker 4: For you.
Speaker 1: Mhm all no, no, that's all.
Speaker 3: That's all natural, man, right.
Speaker 9: One thing I love is the juices. Baby, let the juice.
Speaker 9: Thot know, some of y'all be nervous about the juice
Speaker 9: is spraying us. Don't be nervous about that. Please let
Speaker 9: it go, Please let.
Speaker 1: It go on that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, don't breathe. You can't breathe now, you gotta.
Speaker 1: Wow, I think you.
Speaker 3: Let me try to.
Speaker 4: See hold on how much motel milion.
Speaker 3: Y'all, we got another one.
Speaker 4: Y'all got use if you put the ten on it,
Speaker 4: I can show y'all.
Speaker 3: A little spice.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Oh lord, you know we discovered on arbitree. Honestly, Ti there,
Speaker 3: I'm like, how do we make women feel safe? She's
Speaker 3: like I was like, I was like, we should feed
Speaker 3: them fruit. I'm going to feed my friends.
Speaker 4: Yeah, don't give me no see me.
Speaker 3: Okay, it's okay, so what but this is this is
Speaker 3: how you This is how you cultivate friendships.
Speaker 5: Absolutely, and we're connected through the fruit and the juices.
Speaker 5: Okay and the juice and Ma and Mama. See this
Speaker 5: is what we do in mama's you know, big Mama.
Speaker 4: Thank you. We love you, big Mama because you know
Speaker 4: you allow us to come together.
Speaker 1: In this way.
Speaker 3: This is beautiful.
Speaker 1: While let me tell you, I don't think we've ever
Speaker 1: eaten on the show.
Speaker 3: We haven't.
Speaker 4: Can I get you? Let me finish?
Speaker 3: Go ahead, we have more for you. Don't worry.
Speaker 1: There's more of.
Speaker 4: Mm hmm. So you can't leave. You can't leave the
Speaker 4: rhymee my guy, my god.
Speaker 5: When you're done with that, Ryan, it gotta look like
Speaker 5: a hello like a happy face looks happy.
Speaker 3: Oh oh oh Lord is right Hollo.
Speaker 1: I'm I'm so happy you picked a good Yeah.
Speaker 3: I got these motherfucker watermelons yesterday, I said Erica had
Speaker 3: the idea.
Speaker 4: Wait, first of all, was the first watermelon I've had
Speaker 4: this year? What first one this year? Be gone? And
Speaker 4: you know this cherry you just reminded me.
Speaker 5: I gotta go see my man Sam's watermelons on Normandy Engage.
Speaker 3: He's the best ones.
Speaker 4: It's in the hoods in l A. But I'm telling y'all,
Speaker 4: if y'all want you ever tried to yellow.
Speaker 3: Water can be come with yellow.
Speaker 1: That's how I trip.
Speaker 5: Yes, yellow watermelon, orange watermelon, and watermelon with seeds.
Speaker 4: Okay, we need to say from Texas extinct, Yes, from Texas.
Speaker 5: So you know, yeah, we gotta, yeah, we gotta plany
Speaker 5: that out, you know what I mean, Because we gotta
Speaker 5: we gotta do a watermelon feast.
Speaker 4: You know what I mean? Just everybody just.
Speaker 3: Rather good friends after dark? That's interesting after dark after yeah, well,
Speaker 3: you know we do well.
Speaker 5: See, I gotta I got a freaky Friday playlist, we see, Okay,
Speaker 5: now see I love the way y'all think.
Speaker 4: See ladies. I love the way y'all think.
Speaker 3: May come the Patreon for some exclusive watermelon content.
Speaker 4: Okay, you know, because I could do this, but I
Speaker 4: think they would.
Speaker 3: I think we're good. I mean, ladies, I don't know.
Speaker 1: If you see this plate, we can we can all
Speaker 1: do that.
Speaker 5: We can do with the shirts off, you know, you know,
Speaker 5: because honestly, it's a lot of fellows out there. They
Speaker 5: don't know how to properly, you know, take that watermelon
Speaker 5: and get it right on in. I think I think
Speaker 5: they need storial see hold on, see when you gotta this,
Speaker 5: this is this is a small one. So you want
Speaker 5: to finish this in Like I said, okay, you know
Speaker 5: what I mean, because you need to let her know, like, hey,
Speaker 5: you're gonna you're gonna go first.
Speaker 4: Yeah, got a little Ryan right there. I went a
Speaker 4: little too Haim.
Speaker 5: I'm sorry, baby, but I have to let you know,
Speaker 5: like listen, you're gonna be good, and you're gonna go first,
Speaker 5: and I'm gonna be right behind you.
Speaker 1: Baby.
Speaker 3: You know, there's something so erotic and pleasurable and beautiful
Speaker 3: about just you know, being one with the earth, divine, feminine, divine, masculine,
Speaker 3: and the mama patcha.
Speaker 5: This is.
Speaker 3: This goes to show how beautiful just friendship is. Absolutely
Speaker 3: friendship is.
Speaker 4: I don't know how y'all knew. I ain't nothing today,
Speaker 4: I ain't had a thing.
Speaker 1: I'm so glad we could.
Speaker 5: And that was the perfect first meal of the day.
Speaker 5: And I mean I don't I don't wake up and
Speaker 5: like go to food.
Speaker 3: That's it's a good way to drink.
Speaker 4: That was amazing. We have we have one of those
Speaker 4: free to go home with thinking about it all night.
Speaker 3: Oh good, because so we'll we That was a delicious.
Speaker 4: I didn't even going to be presented with amazing.
Speaker 3: Well, we bear gifts, you know, good good moms are
Speaker 3: full of surprises. Keep hanging out, you know, you never
Speaker 3: know what you're gonna get over here.
Speaker 1: Always invited.
Speaker 3: I was Erica was telling me we should get a
Speaker 3: watermelon on like my carf on the phone on speaker.
Speaker 3: My daughter was a backseat, so she was like later
Speaker 3: she was like, mom, you know when you have a cabation.
Speaker 3: I was like, what she's like when you like when
Speaker 3: someone comes on the show. I was like, oh, guest,
Speaker 3: She's like, yeah, you know how you said you're gonna
Speaker 3: eat watermelon. I was like yeah, She's like, that's a
Speaker 3: good idea because watermelon is delicious.
Speaker 5: I was like it is.
Speaker 3: I was like, it is a good idea. And you're
Speaker 3: full of water and it's full of water and water
Speaker 3: and women make women and men make life. We create life.
Speaker 4: We hold life, you know, and you know, wh his
Speaker 4: life save the soil.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 3: Are you like a vegetarian or vegan? Are you like
Speaker 3: very your diet?
Speaker 4: Like I'll say this, I am.
Speaker 7: I am.
Speaker 5: I'm like eighty percent plant based, but because I have
Speaker 5: friends that are not, you know, I don't make my
Speaker 5: friends feel weird about the choices.
Speaker 4: That they choose, you know. Like I have a best friend,
Speaker 4: what up Joe? He loves steak, you know, he loves
Speaker 4: waggy steak. And I'm like, you know, but if we're
Speaker 4: going to dinner, I'm not gonna be I don't want
Speaker 4: to go there. It's a steakhouse. Like what am I
Speaker 4: going to eat? Sides? Yeah?
Speaker 5: Yeah, but I'm gonna eat some size for my bro tonight,
Speaker 5: you know, because you know, because that's what you do
Speaker 5: when you love people.
Speaker 4: You know, your compromise. So I'm I'm plant based, but
Speaker 4: I compromise for those hard I'm a video.
Speaker 3: Those dipping tacos I know, did me.
Speaker 5: Even though some really good like Jackfruit, I know, Oh
Speaker 5: my god, yo what they're doing with jack Fruit's.
Speaker 3: But you know, it also depends on your bood type.
Speaker 3: Sometimes certain blood types need me like I'm an a
Speaker 3: b plan.
Speaker 4: I need to do that.
Speaker 5: I heard it's it's a blood type test something you
Speaker 5: can do to Yeah, I.
Speaker 4: Need to get into that.
Speaker 3: The conspiracy part of me was like, don't tell your
Speaker 3: blood type on the podcast. The government JJ blipped.
Speaker 4: That out, you know, but yeah, meet you up about that.
Speaker 3: Okay, good, Yeah, I'll help you. I'll lead you need,
Speaker 3: lead you to your blood type diet or wherever wherever
Speaker 3: you need me to take it, because you know whatever,
Speaker 3: I'll take it. Oh my god, me and him are
Speaker 3: literally about to kill this fucking bottle.
Speaker 1: Of bell air.
Speaker 3: Here's the watermelon champagne and Wednesday Friday and hump Day
Speaker 3: to hump Day. Yes, okay, Well, at the beginning of
Speaker 3: the show, we asked you to pull a card, and
Speaker 3: it's just like the witchy bitch that I.
Speaker 4: Am, I.
Speaker 3: Have pulled the Emperor card and shout out to Mahogany
Speaker 3: Tiaro for having the best black and brown cards on
Speaker 3: the in the game. But when I pulled this card
Speaker 3: and we looked at it, I said, huh, that looks
Speaker 3: like you. Well, I said, well, I'll be damn let
Speaker 3: me say the Emperor right, it just looks like it's
Speaker 3: like him sitting in there. It does, it does.
Speaker 4: Start.
Speaker 3: So let's let's see. Let us know if this resonates
Speaker 3: with you. Okay, so upright. It means authority, establishment, structure,
Speaker 3: father figure huh. As the father figure of the Tarot tech,
Speaker 3: the Emperor suggests that you are adopting this fatherly role
Speaker 3: regardless of whether you are male or female, providing for
Speaker 3: your family and protecting and defending your loved ones. You
Speaker 3: may be the breadwinner or the rock for those who
Speaker 3: rely on your stability and security. Similarly, the Emperor represents
Speaker 3: a powerful leader who demands respect and authority. Status, power
Speaker 3: and recognition and are essential to you, and you are
Speaker 3: the most comfortable in leadership role where you can command
Speaker 3: and direct others. As a leader, you rule with a
Speaker 3: firm but fair hand. You have a clear vision of
Speaker 3: what you want to create, and you organize those around
Speaker 3: you to manifest your goal. You listen to the advice
Speaker 3: of others, but you prefer to have the final say
Speaker 3: com wow. He literally said, this conflict doesn't scare you,
Speaker 3: and you won't hesitate to use your power to protect
Speaker 3: those that you care about, and in return, those people
Speaker 3: will repay you with their loyalty and respect you deserve.
Speaker 3: Claim your authority as leader and influencer, and don't let
Speaker 3: others put you down. The Emperor reflects am bound by
Speaker 3: rules and regulations. You create law and order by applying
Speaker 3: principles or guidelines to a specific situation, even if they're
Speaker 3: your own. Create calm out of chaos by breaking down
Speaker 3: any problem into parts and then mapping out the actions
Speaker 3: you need to take to resolve it. Be systematic, strategic,
Speaker 3: and highly organized in your approach, and stick to your
Speaker 3: plan until the end. It also signifies world knowledge and expertise.
Speaker 3: Through the course of your life, you have gained valuable
Speaker 3: wisdom and life experience, and now you enjoy offering guidance, advice,
Speaker 3: and direction to someone who might benefit from it.
Speaker 1: Retreat leader.
Speaker 3: The Good Vibe or treat men the Good Vibe treat
Speaker 3: for men.
Speaker 5: Retreat leaders that the Emperor cards were just describing me
Speaker 5: in my life to the t and you know that's energy.
Speaker 5: You know, like how you guys were talking about earlier,
Speaker 5: that's manifestation that I mean, we all align right now
Speaker 5: because you know, when you guys hit me up, I
Speaker 5: was just like, like, you know, I'm I'm in a
Speaker 5: space right now with my career and with all this,
Speaker 5: like you know, my plan was, you know, like I
Speaker 5: said earlier, to be present, you know, and now that
Speaker 5: my daughter is like a teenager not worried about me,
Speaker 5: got our own things.
Speaker 4: Going on, I'm like, you know, what, perfect time to
Speaker 4: get back in it.
Speaker 5: So, uh, you know, when you guys hit me like
Speaker 5: and I did a little research on y'all, it just
Speaker 5: was it was perfect. And when you pick that, I
Speaker 5: always get the Emperor card, you know, I you know
Speaker 5: I do. I definitely dabble. So you know that was
Speaker 5: confirmation for me too that I'm where I need to be.
Speaker 4: You guys are a part of my dream.
Speaker 5: Thank you for being a part of my dream, making
Speaker 5: me making me feel like, you know, yeah, I'm going
Speaker 5: in the right direction.
Speaker 4: You guys are my confirmation for that I'm going in
Speaker 4: the right directions.
Speaker 1: I'm happy, We're happy to be that.
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, what made you say yes, were you like, well,
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 5: I felt like I met you before, I know you
Speaker 5: somewhere or maybe you know right, So I was just like,
Speaker 5: wait a minute, I think you know my cousin.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 5: I'm like, this is a familiar person, but not that
Speaker 5: familiar like my name and you know, but I'm like,
Speaker 5: this is a familiar person. So I just was like,
Speaker 5: you know, I get dms all the time. The dms
Speaker 5: go crazy. I'm sure I was like this, but I
Speaker 5: like to curate the things that I'm involved in, like
Speaker 5: I like them to be about what I'm about because
Speaker 5: I don't have management and don't have you know, I.
Speaker 4: Got a little publicism and you feel me. But my
Speaker 4: career is run by me. Everything I do. I like
Speaker 4: the cars, I have the last say.
Speaker 5: So, so if I don't want to do it is
Speaker 5: because if it's not done, it's because I didn't want
Speaker 5: to do it.
Speaker 4: You know.
Speaker 5: If it's because it's done, it because I wanted to
Speaker 5: do it. So, you know, thank you guys for having
Speaker 5: me and considering me, thinking about me to you know,
Speaker 5: be here, because this was like you got I mean.
Speaker 4: I told my mom, you know, I told I'm like, Mom,
Speaker 4: you gotta check this out about listen, I'll be chiefing
Speaker 4: with Mama.
Speaker 3: That makes us really feel special because someone told someone
Speaker 3: told eric and that we're not the type of women
Speaker 3: that would take you take home your mom. The fact
Speaker 3: that you told your mom about us, we really needed.
Speaker 1: To hear that.
Speaker 4: Little do they know more than the mama's back in
Speaker 4: the day. They know what time it is. They ain't
Speaker 4: corny and cookie cutter.
Speaker 3: Get me, You're a product of a good mom, bad choices.
Speaker 4: Okay, so happens this is this.
Speaker 5: A good mom do her thing and allow her to,
Speaker 5: you know, manifest her ideas, and you believe in her.
Speaker 5: Because I'm gonna tell you all right now. Like I
Speaker 5: said before, I can remember I can recall as a kid,
Speaker 5: people telling them my mom, you know, you know you'd
Speaker 5: be sneaking around you listening to conversation ship. I can recall,
Speaker 5: you know, some of my my grandma's friends and all
Speaker 5: of them saying, my mom, you know, we wasn't gonna
Speaker 5: be nothing.
Speaker 4: We was gonna be in jail.
Speaker 5: Wenna, have all these kids all of that ship. Look
Speaker 5: at me now you feel me influencing your little grandson.
Speaker 5: He's looking at me now, So you need to watch yourself,
Speaker 5: you feel me, because you never know who's gonna come out.
Speaker 5: You know, victorious, you know what I mean. And you
Speaker 5: know through my past and through what I've gone through,
Speaker 5: you know, I'm glad my mom and then was able
Speaker 5: to display the strength for me to get through things without.
Speaker 4: You know what I mean, without taking too much of
Speaker 4: what it was.
Speaker 1: Well, I want to.
Speaker 2: Personally thank your mother. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
Speaker 2: Her name is may No Leslie, Leslie, Thanks Leslie.
Speaker 3: I want to last thing I want to ask you
Speaker 3: because you've had like this experience with your mom and
Speaker 3: you're obviously on your own journey and you're involved, and
Speaker 3: you're a dad and you've been a young dad. How
Speaker 3: have you? I mean, your daughter's.
Speaker 4: Fourteen now, she'll be fourteen in November.
Speaker 3: What's your birthday?
Speaker 4: November nineteenth?
Speaker 3: My daughters is the twenty seventh. Yeah, oh yeah, that's Erica. Yeah,
Speaker 3: well spice a little spicy. Yeah.
Speaker 1: And I'm like, you don't know your we're special Scorpio children. Yes,
Speaker 1: I mean, especially when I'm to double Scorpio Sage Moon.
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh my gosh, it's a lot.
Speaker 4: You are.
Speaker 3: How how have you instilled your spirituality with what's you
Speaker 3: daughter's name means child of the way, Yeah, okarious.
Speaker 1: And she's a water signed.
Speaker 4: Beautiful and her mom's water science.
Speaker 3: Oh, I mean Erica and I are both waters for me.
Speaker 4: So what was the question?
Speaker 3: How have you instilled your your spirituality? Have you practiced
Speaker 3: spirituality and brought her into that as a.
Speaker 4: Honestly you know, being open with her, share, you know,
Speaker 4: meditating with her.
Speaker 5: You know, when I go and I'm like building my
Speaker 5: altar in my in my space and all that, like,
Speaker 5: come here, baby, you need to know what I'm doing.
Speaker 4: Right. You see this picture of your grandma right here.
Speaker 4: You know, you gotta put this up. You gotta honor her.
Speaker 4: And she's gone, but hey, listen, gotta put an altar up,
Speaker 4: you know what I mean. So when I'm doing.
Speaker 5: Things, I just make sure she's there and I explain
Speaker 5: it to her and I let her know like, hey, listen,
Speaker 5: your dad's gonna give you the keys.
Speaker 4: Don't worry about it. I'm gonna tell you everything. There's
Speaker 4: nothing you can tell me that's like.
Speaker 5: Tell me, let's go, let's do this, let's do this,
Speaker 5: and let's do this right, you know, because one thing
Speaker 5: I can recall, like she's like five six or whatever.
Speaker 5: You know, family members and women saying to me like, oh,
Speaker 5: what are you gonna do when she's like start liking
Speaker 5: boys and ah, And I'm like, listen, I'm gonna be
Speaker 5: excited because of the type of man I am.
Speaker 4: I want to see what type of influence, what what
Speaker 4: type offfluence like look like me? Because if he is,
Speaker 4: I'm love that. You know, I'm gonna I'm gonna hope.
Speaker 4: So you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I think, you know, you kind of get to see
Speaker 1: the work in action.
Speaker 3: And I think in the black community or just in
Speaker 3: like the parental community, I think we forget, especially for
Speaker 3: little girls, and it's like this huge thing to be
Speaker 3: like too all dads like you ain't gonna have no
Speaker 3: boyfriend or oh I can't when she turns.
Speaker 4: That ain't our culture either.
Speaker 3: But the thing is that little girls growing to be women,
Speaker 3: you know, that is what happens. That's a part of it.
Speaker 3: And if if you like completely, if you completely don't
Speaker 3: negate that, pretend it doesn't exist, then she then you
Speaker 3: develop a child or a young woman that is not
Speaker 3: in tune with herself as a woman. And in her
Speaker 3: divine feminine and by totally darving that part and ignoring it,
Speaker 3: it does not do ship for how she's going to
Speaker 3: know herself as a whole human inevitably in adulthood. And like,
Speaker 3: I think people get really weird about talking about this
Speaker 3: part of women developing young women developing into women, but
Speaker 3: it is so fucking important.
Speaker 4: Let me tell you.
Speaker 5: We see what happens when Thanksgiving my daughters with me.
Speaker 5: She's at my house, nanas and all that. She asked
Speaker 5: me if one of her little guy friends school, She went.
Speaker 3: To, you know, if they can come over, how'd you
Speaker 3: handle it? So, yeah, come on right right, Yeah, I
Speaker 3: need to know.
Speaker 4: Bring them over here in my playing field so I
Speaker 4: can see what's going on.
Speaker 3: And thankfully she feels comfortable enough to do that.
Speaker 4: Oh I love that. Yeah, I was.
Speaker 2: Accepted the invitation because she might have not asked. Again,
Speaker 2: the secrets happened and then.
Speaker 1: All that shit.
Speaker 3: Nobody got time for that, and you even know who
Speaker 3: it was and what they are about.
Speaker 1: It's like you got to trust your parenting. Like it's
Speaker 1: like a lot of the work, Like do you not
Speaker 1: trust your parenting?
Speaker 4: What do you think?
Speaker 5: He was right?
Speaker 2: This was always my argument with my I mean, granted
Speaker 2: I was like doing some function when I was a kid.
Speaker 3: That's because she fell.
Speaker 1: I would always tell my mom, I'm like, you're not.
Speaker 4: Trust your parenting because said, well, okay, yeah, so you
Speaker 4: know my daughter.
Speaker 1: Understand whatever.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but yeah, I would I would say that, and
Speaker 2: I'd be and and she would be like that would
Speaker 2: be her response, like, yo, I'm like, you did a
Speaker 2: great job, but hold on.
Speaker 1: I feel like you've done a great job.
Speaker 4: So you know.
Speaker 1: And and even what you said remind me of what
Speaker 1: Problems said a few weeks ago on our episode where
Speaker 1: he was like, I'm not raising my daughter to be
Speaker 1: a childld I'm raising her.
Speaker 3: To be a woman.
Speaker 4: Problem That was. That was lit. That was lit.
Speaker 5: I don't know him like personally, but I know a
Speaker 5: few people that know him and always know him to
Speaker 5: be like a solid person.
Speaker 3: So yeah, that was that was maybe one of the
Speaker 3: people that you're talking about.
Speaker 1: He actually.
Speaker 3: He's talking.
Speaker 4: I can take him on the retreat and we unfolded,
Speaker 4: we unlocked some shing.
Speaker 5: Yeah, because that's you know with the Fellas Man and
Speaker 5: you know with meditation and ship like that, and it's
Speaker 5: like what they don't know, is like it's so much
Speaker 5: power in that man, if you just take it back,
Speaker 5: you know what I mean?
Speaker 4: But you want to go to the gym, pump iron.
Speaker 4: But you know it's like, bro, can you really withstand
Speaker 4: a situation that you couldn't even fathom?
Speaker 5: Like are you gonna are you gonna be able to
Speaker 5: still be a man in that and not act out
Speaker 5: on your emotions?
Speaker 4: And yeah, because when women see nigga freaking out and
Speaker 4: it's a rap, rap, God, damn niggas was the over
Speaker 4: you feel me? So it's like, you know, I love that.
Speaker 5: You know I was able to come up under you know,
Speaker 5: my nana who was studying you know all right, so
Speaker 5: my nana was like came up Yoruba right by choice
Speaker 5: though by choice, great Grandma, shout out, nanny, you feel me?
Speaker 5: Chalk tawn Indian, full blooded. She obviously got bit by
Speaker 5: the Bible. You know what I'm saying that she got
Speaker 5: bit by the Bible that ain't even in its original text.
Speaker 4: So she got bit by the remixed Bible. And you
Speaker 4: know Christianity.
Speaker 5: You know, I'm sorry, you know, I gotta say it,
Speaker 5: but it sucked a lot of us up because what
Speaker 5: we don't realize is we got Sorry, it's clear we
Speaker 5: got Christianity the same time as slaves so called slavery,
Speaker 5: because so called slavery.
Speaker 4: Didn't go high. They said it went just so you know,
Speaker 4: but it did go. It did go, but not how.
Speaker 4: But you know that. You know, my my my circle
Speaker 4: is is really all responsible for my thoughts and what
Speaker 4: I do. Like like you guys said this, I'm the product.
Speaker 4: I'm the literal product of a good mom, bad choice.
Speaker 3: Your grandma was practicing like what should there she was doing.
Speaker 5: I was I was six and and going, you know,
Speaker 5: seeing her go, like you know, seeing her go do
Speaker 5: rituals with Africans and they you know, there was this
Speaker 5: thing that used to happen in la.
Speaker 4: Called the African Marketplace in the nineties.
Speaker 5: Like my grandma used to always have a booth there,
Speaker 5: and you know, she was like the first entrepreneur I've
Speaker 5: ever seen.
Speaker 3: Wow, that's bomb.
Speaker 5: You feel me, Like, I mean, making necklaces, beads and
Speaker 5: like really creating from here, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 4: So you know, seeing that and knowing that that.
Speaker 5: That's all it takes, is like it's a gift. All
Speaker 5: I gotta do is do my part and make sure
Speaker 5: I'm around the right people. Just do any part.
Speaker 3: Thank you. That makes me feel really good. I feel
Speaker 3: like seeing you a product of like free women, entrepreneurial women,
Speaker 3: good mom's bad choices.
Speaker 5: It's like it made me like val repond immediately, you know,
Speaker 5: I was just like, wait a minute, where was this?
Speaker 4: You know, like my mom, you know, like my mom
Speaker 4: didn't have that.
Speaker 5: My mom didn't have any friends that were like you know,
Speaker 5: she opted out of friends to take care of us,
Speaker 5: you know, to take us to skating, you know what
Speaker 5: I mean.
Speaker 4: She opted out of that. You know. So when I
Speaker 4: started like watching you guys and like watching your whole thing,
Speaker 4: I'm like, yo, I'm pulling up on them because.
Speaker 5: I respect it, I love it. I'm a product of this,
Speaker 5: and you know, it's just it's my duty. Like you know,
Speaker 5: like I don't know if y'all got sons or y'all got.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 5: I mean, my daughter she's you know, like she's a
Speaker 5: great artist. She can draw, amazing, she does everything thing.
Speaker 5: But like you know, I instilled in my daughter like hey,
Speaker 5: if you have you got to give, yeah, you know,
Speaker 5: whether that's information structure, you know, knowledge, whatever, if you.
Speaker 4: Have you have to give.
Speaker 3: I feel very very like, I'm very aware that you know,
Speaker 3: when you're aligned with people, whether it be through the DMS,
Speaker 3: hether someone say hey, interview him and then he pulls up.
Speaker 3: I was going to tell you, like, thank you very much,
Speaker 3: because just as you were supposed to be here, I
Speaker 3: think there was a message for you, for us from
Speaker 3: you and that like this is the product of you know,
Speaker 3: watering your garden and that it is okay. And sometimes
Speaker 3: we're going to feel guilt and we're going to feel
Speaker 3: you know, because maybe we don't have the baby daddy.
Speaker 3: That's right, Ryan, Who's fucking Who's Yeah, But at least
Speaker 3: we know that doing what we're doing is going to
Speaker 3: see children that are understand respect the hustle and understand it.
Speaker 3: And so like you know, it's it's always in exchange.
Speaker 3: And it's so beautiful to have you here.
Speaker 4: Thank you for having me.
Speaker 5: Yes, you know, like I said, you know what the
Speaker 5: title alone, I'm like, this is it first of all,
Speaker 5: because I know y'all lying, y'all don't make it bad.
Speaker 3: It's all good most of them, you know.
Speaker 5: I mean that may be bad to someone else, but
Speaker 5: if you if you're making a choice wholeheartedly.
Speaker 3: It ain't bad, and then you grow from it, even
Speaker 3: if it's not the fact.
Speaker 4: Because it might be a choice. You got to learn exactly. So,
Speaker 4: you know, I saw that in you guys.
Speaker 5: And when I was hearing you guys talk about certain
Speaker 5: bring up certain things you guys are doing, I was like, see,
Speaker 5: I need to tap in with them. You know what
Speaker 5: I mean, I need I need two for what I
Speaker 5: do in my tribe. You know what I'm saying, y'all
Speaker 5: gotta be around.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm talking about you on the show.
Speaker 5: You know, like I do things like you know when
Speaker 5: we do like family family cookouts and ship like that,
Speaker 5: Like I invite my friends like I'm on the grill.
Speaker 3: I can bring some signs we cooked.
Speaker 4: Could kids, kids running around.
Speaker 3: Yes, the dose over here, Yeah, it's not even the hiding.
Speaker 3: We're smoking weight to go to the fucking way and
Speaker 3: see we're smoking way by that and.
Speaker 5: See you know, my niece and my nephew and my daughter,
Speaker 5: you know, they know when when uncle's in that garage,
Speaker 5: when Papa's in that garage.
Speaker 1: Shape, you smell that, I know, you smell it gone,
Speaker 1: And I'll be in there smoking the flower.
Speaker 5: Because I need them to see me stone so that
Speaker 5: they know no one can tell them at fifteen sixteen,
Speaker 5: Oh you smell weight you?
Speaker 4: Yeah? No, I see my dad that nigga smoke four
Speaker 4: blunts and then he made dinner. So wait.
Speaker 3: The other day. The other day, I went to the
Speaker 3: farmer's market and I was like, I didn't have any
Speaker 3: weed in the house. So I got to my friend's house.
Speaker 3: We were with the kids. I was like, she had
Speaker 3: one joint left. We smoked a joint. We went down
Speaker 3: the hill to this fucking farmer's market in Studio City, right.
Speaker 3: I was stone. I was like, I don't know how
Speaker 3: I'm so stone. We can pull up to like the
Speaker 3: coffee one or whatever. So I'm in line and they're ordering,
Speaker 3: and I'm looking at the sign and I'm reading it
Speaker 3: and I'm like, I know what that word says, but
Speaker 3: it looks like a different word. So I'm like it
Speaker 3: goods to me. I'm high in my mind, in my
Speaker 3: mind and by myself. I'm looking at the word. I'm
Speaker 3: about to order the coffee. I'm like, I'll take the Yeah,
Speaker 3: I'll take the parate. She was like pirates.
Speaker 4: I was like, yo was high level pronunciation.
Speaker 1: I was like, he's a classy.
Speaker 3: I said, well, I'm a very come find it the
Speaker 3: pate of the Cariban. But I was like, I'll take
Speaker 3: the pate lat She was like the Pirates latte. I
Speaker 3: was like, I'm high. I was like, I'm so, and
Speaker 3: I'm fancy. I said, I'm still that I'm fancy. I said,
Speaker 3: the Pirates with the oat milk, okay, the old milk.
Speaker 3: My daughter, who's learning to read, was like, this pitch
Speaker 3: is dumb. Meanwhile, I'm like, I'm high, bitch, don't correct
Speaker 3: men of my daughter's wanting to read. I was like,
Speaker 3: that's you know, And I told I was like, you know,
Speaker 3: words are difficult.
Speaker 1: I know.
Speaker 4: The English English language.
Speaker 3: At the time, we don't know why K is in
Speaker 3: front of n O w okay, shut up. I don't know,
Speaker 3: it doesn't make sense. Who fucking knows, but this is
Speaker 3: a goddamn parate. Give me, goddamn it. Then my friend
Speaker 3: looked down. She's like a bitch. That was gonna be
Speaker 3: like an accident over the or something. I just had
Speaker 3: to That's the high thing I did this week. Well,
Speaker 3: thank you so much, thank you for this episode. You
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