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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices.

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Speaker 2: I'm Erica and I'm Niela and it's Junior.

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Speaker 3: It's my birthday month.

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Speaker 1: You guys.

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Speaker 2: I'm really excited because this month, you know, we're highlighting

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Speaker 2: more male voices.

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Speaker 1: We you know, we some talking ass bitches. We always

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Speaker 1: have bitches on the show. It's time to have some

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Speaker 1: niggas on the show.

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Speaker 3: We need another perspective.

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Speaker 1: How are you doing about it?

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Speaker 3: I'm doing good. I'm feeling good. I'm feeling strong and

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Speaker 3: confident and excited about you know, the hot girl summer activities,

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Speaker 3: the healing and the hoeing that will happen surely, and

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Speaker 3: you know, it just feels good. This is, you know,

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Speaker 3: where I thrive in the summertime. I'm a summer solstice baby.

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Speaker 3: So you know, I'm feeling right and airy about it.

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Speaker 3: How about you, baby?

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Speaker 2: I feel great. I feel I'm I'm ready. Summer is here,

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Speaker 2: the kids is out of school?

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Speaker 1: Is we late? Okay?

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Speaker 2: The retreat is coming up. If you guys have it yet,

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Speaker 2: checked out the Good Vibe Retreat. We're going to Costa

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Speaker 2: Rica on July thirty first, it's our first date. And

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Speaker 2: August tenth is our second date.

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Speaker 1: Come. If you haven't planned your summer trip, this is

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Speaker 1: the one.

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Speaker 3: This is your sign if you need something to do,

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Speaker 3: We've taken care of everything for you. Trap Yoga Bay

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Speaker 3: will be their week one, and Sexual Essentials will be

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Speaker 3: there week two. It's going to be poppin'. They're gonna

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Speaker 3: host workshops, we're gonna host worgshops, and we're gonna have

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Speaker 3: a good motherfucking time.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, so make sure you check that out. Everything

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Speaker 2: is in the episode description.

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Speaker 1: But I kind of just want to jump it.

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Speaker 2: I tell you how you're doing, but I really just

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Speaker 2: want to like get it in right. I think it's

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Speaker 2: time you guys, ladies, tribe members.

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Speaker 1: I'm really excited. We have a special guest today. You know,

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Speaker 1: you know we are.

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Speaker 2: Some expert d M sliders, Okay, and we slid right

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Speaker 2: into this.

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Speaker 3: Man's d M deep dive.

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Speaker 2: We have none other than rockstar dad, entrepreneur, vibe curator Oriyan.

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Speaker 4: You did yours truly peace.

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, should we also call you the watermelon Connoisseur?

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Speaker 4: Thank you?

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Speaker 3: We gotta say we gotta say it twice, orian O,

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Speaker 3: Watermelon an abundance.

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Speaker 4: Y'all having an awesome day having an awesome night. I

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Speaker 4: love you, You love you, you did day. The most important part

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Speaker 4: of that.

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Speaker 5: Mantra is you love you because the thing about love is,

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Speaker 5: you know, it's like, if this is your love cup

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Speaker 5: and it ain't even full, please don't pour your.

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Speaker 4: Last bit of water in mind because you but I'm

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Speaker 4: filled up and you did give me your last.

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Speaker 3: That's true.

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Speaker 4: So love yourself first, and that's yeah, that's that.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I love that, especially as a man, I'm happy

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Speaker 2: to hear that you you share these ideals because a

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Speaker 2: nigga will ask you to pour your last. Actually, they

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Speaker 2: don't even ask a bitches just do it. I don't

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Speaker 2: even know why we do it.

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Speaker 1: They don't even ask us. We just do it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I think it's natural.

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Speaker 5: You know, you guys are nurturing, and you know you

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Speaker 5: gotta put the nurture in.

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Speaker 4: The right direction.

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Speaker 3: We like to poor, we like to pour, and then

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Speaker 3: we forget that that poor should be an exchange, you know,

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Speaker 3: And we're nurturers by nature. So we're hoping if we

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Speaker 3: water a nigga, you know he's gonna water us. He's

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Speaker 3: going to be fruitful and multiply. But we all know

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Speaker 3: that some of these niggas are a cacti.

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Speaker 5: You know, And that's why you gotta learn the land, ladies.

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Speaker 5: You know, you got to learn the land and.

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Speaker 4: Research who you're dealing with, you know.

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Speaker 5: And and when I saw these cards, I was so

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Speaker 5: glad to see that, because you know, there are tools

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Speaker 5: out here to give you some foresight to what you're

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Speaker 5: dealing with. And a lot of ladies make us some

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Speaker 5: thinking that all men are the same, or that we

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Speaker 5: all operate from the same os. Like, no, some dudes

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Speaker 5: out here are still iPhone Force.

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Speaker 3: Honey, they have the flip slide. There's been a sidekick

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Speaker 3: that might be too that might even too good. They

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Speaker 3: the Nokia with the snake on it. They don't make

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Speaker 3: the b That's That's all I got is the good

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Speaker 5: But you know, a lot a lot of the you know,

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Speaker 5: the thing is about the good guys.

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Speaker 4: You know, a lot of them are are they're.

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Speaker 1: Out here, they're like they're taking.

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Speaker 5: And they disappear, they're off the scene. That's how wife

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Speaker 5: he wants it, that's how we're it seemed to be

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Speaker 5: securing the whatever. But I see a problem with that,

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Speaker 5: because this is why a lot of guys aren't motivated

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Speaker 5: to go in that space either because it's like all right, man,

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Speaker 4: Man, build a bridge. Man, you know, how do I

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Speaker 4: how do I get there?

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Speaker 5: You know? And it's told to us like oh you

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Speaker 5: have to do this and you got to do that,

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Speaker 5: But it's told to us by women and you know,

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Speaker 4: How you're supposed to want to go here? Do this? Well?

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Speaker 1: Are are men having the conversations?

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Speaker 4: Well that's what That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 5: The good men they get taken away from us that

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Speaker 5: want to be good men too.

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Speaker 4: There's there's no you know, are you transitional? Like you

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Speaker 5: Like say say say I got an og and he's married, right,

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Speaker 5: and like, oh man, I.

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Speaker 4: Look up to him.

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Speaker 5: He's fit and he's like got his money together and

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Speaker 5: I'm like, og, like I want to you feel me.

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Speaker 5: This dude is busy. He's like hard to get in

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Speaker 1: He's changed his.

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Speaker 4: Number and he means business.

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Speaker 5: So it's like you know, there there are there isn't

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Speaker 5: any there's not much fellowshipping with those who have.

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Speaker 4: Made it to those who want to go.

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Speaker 3: There, well, I agree, I totally agree, And Eric I

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Speaker 3: have talked about this multiple times on the show because

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Speaker 3: hoped we host retreats, and just in general, like this,

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Speaker 3: this entire like this entire journey has been us, you know,

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Speaker 3: to our power, to our divine femininity, to who the

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Speaker 3: fuck we are. We're you know, we're kicking down doors

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Speaker 3: you know, and we're just like, where are the men

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Speaker 3: that when we're all healed and ready, we don't have

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Speaker 3: to be lesbians, right, you know, Like, so is this

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Speaker 3: a thing? And you're like, I just want to know,

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Speaker 3: because you see him evolved, you see.

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Speaker 5: Him like all the healing is definitely a huge part

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Speaker 5: of any any dudes I hang out with or you know,

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Speaker 5: my brother, Like we went last year, we went on

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Speaker 5: two weeks I think it was ten days. It was

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Speaker 5: fourteen days yoga retreat with sad Guru who's like one

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Speaker 4: He's from India, and we went.

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Speaker 5: To to his his His land is so crazy. It's

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Speaker 5: like it was a it was an old like national park,

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Speaker 5: it's in Tennessee. It's in Tennessee, so there's green everywhere, waterfalls,

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Speaker 5: It's like it's amazing. The biggest yoga like place, the

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Speaker 5: biggest yoga like dome in the in the nation right now.

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Speaker 5: It's there, and they have this huge like statues. It's

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Speaker 5: the land is is special. And my brother and I

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Speaker 5: we did this last year and it just was a

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Speaker 5: game changer and it's like we did that for us,

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Speaker 5: you know, and it's like next week we're doing the

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Speaker 5: me and it's like we have a good balance.

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Speaker 1: Of can you invite more men with you?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well yeah, yeah, I think it'd be a retreat healer. Ryan,

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Speaker 3: Do you want to go into retreat business with that?

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Speaker 1: Absolutely retreat collab for the men.

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Speaker 4: I'm interested.

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Speaker 3: We need to heal the men.

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Speaker 5: We do we do and you know, like I said earlier,

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Speaker 5: there's a lot of dudes who want to do that

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Speaker 5: and they want to go in that direction, but they're like,

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Speaker 5: I don't want to go right there where it's looking

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Speaker 2: You know, I feel like it's a gay I'm like, absolutely, well,

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Speaker 2: I mean a bunch of niggas on a property, like

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Speaker 2: we're going to retreat that less ship we'll see.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, a lot of a lot of straight guys may

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Speaker 5: think it's a little gay because sometimes they might see

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Speaker 5: what I mean. So it may it may seem like

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Speaker 5: I don't know, they may be a little hesitant. But

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Speaker 4: Got meditated.

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Speaker 5: I'll go live and meditate just to show people like,

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Speaker 5: you know, like I'm not too cool for this, like

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Speaker 5: healing man, Like I'm not too like fly to like

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Speaker 3: We have to do it, you know, I know I

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Speaker 3: tapped into your life this morning. I was like, oh yeah,

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Speaker 3: I saw the brog.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, you know, like all of your healing energy

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Speaker 5: and power it's within as above so below yeah, or

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Speaker 5: God's like I mean, it's everywhere telling you you know,

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Speaker 5: we've got it.

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Speaker 4: We just have to do it. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I think I think too that like with the with

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Speaker 2: the men doing the healing, the women doing the healing,

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Speaker 2: I think there's also like there has to be a

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Speaker 2: distrust between men and women as well.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, because of the traumas and the you know,

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Speaker 5: the things we've separately gone uh through separately and the

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Speaker 5: things we've gone through together. Like you know, there there

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Speaker 5: was a literal separate, like there was a intentional separation

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Speaker 5: of us, and we have to intentionally come.

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Speaker 4: Back together, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 5: So it's it's happening, you know, slowly but surely, And

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Speaker 5: I think that that's the best way because we all know,

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Speaker 5: So this slow pace of of you know, everybody slowly

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Speaker 5: like we have to do it that way. It's not

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Speaker 4: And it's just gonna slowly happen.

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Speaker 3: So the revolution will not be televised.

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Speaker 5: I mean they told us it's gonna be a live

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Speaker 1: Like it might be a carousel post.

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Speaker 4: Yes it will, it will. You know who owned the TV.

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Speaker 4: They're not telling us every ding. They're telling us they

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Speaker 3: Well, we usually start the episode with an affirmation. Do

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Speaker 4: Yes? I do. Uh, part of it is what I started.

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Speaker 3: I wasn't sure if that was it was so strong,

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna say it again.

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Speaker 3: Please we can repeat it with you, so you can.

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Speaker 4: Say it with me. Peace, Love and abundance.

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Speaker 3: Peace, Love and abundance.

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Speaker 5: Have an awesome day, have an awesome day, having an

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Speaker 4: I love you, I love you, you love you, you

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Speaker 5: it just it tells, you know, our body, It tells

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Speaker 4: I know you said.

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Speaker 5: We're going up. You did because I love me and

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Speaker 3: Yes, that's true. We need that, We need that extra

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Speaker 3: I was like, it's okay, it's okay, you're the ship.

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Speaker 3: I was like, that's true. House is still dirty. It's

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Speaker 3: I really love that you talked about balance. Me and

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Speaker 1: It's on your top.

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Speaker 3: Seller Okay, let's go. We're really proud of our merch

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Speaker 3: for our merch drops, our sex, weed and wellness.

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Speaker 2: I did, she customized the merch. She said, fuck a shirt.

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Speaker 2: Gila's always mad because we're making shirts, and she's like,

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Speaker 2: I don't look good in shirts. She's like, I'm small,

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Speaker 1: I did, that's very creative.

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Speaker 3: I said, now wear our shirts because my cleavage is

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Speaker 3: Hello, Hello, I'm here. Honestly, when I wear shirts, i'd

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Speaker 3: I'm the ship.

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Speaker 4: Hey, Sally, wish you wish.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, is this aggressive? First one?

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Speaker 1: For my kids?

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Speaker 3: School is like predominantly white. I'm wearing black as fuck,

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Speaker 1: Parents are like, who is my necklaces?

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Speaker 3: Bad? Bad choices? My titties around? I'm like, come on, little,

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Speaker 3: let's go. Mom's here.

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Speaker 1: You're the coolest mom at school for sure.

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Speaker 3: I claimed it. So I okay, So Orian Orian. We

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Speaker 3: this game. It's called trigger. And how we play the

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Speaker 3: game is I'm going to say one word and then

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Speaker 3: that comes to mind quickly, maybe one word? Maybe, don't

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Speaker 3: don't ever think it? Ay ready, fatherhood, me, monogamy, what?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Pretty much? Boxers or briefs.

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Speaker 4: Neither right?

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Speaker 3: Idle your idle, most spontaneous thing you've ever done this year?

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Speaker 4: Just random trip up the coast.

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Speaker 3: Kevin Samuels, out of pocket, bad habits.

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Speaker 4: Come easy. Marriage needs to be refined, Molly about.

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Speaker 3: The Trinidad James child support? What favorite stream?

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Speaker 4: Oh lucky lady, mm hmm mm hmm.

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Speaker 3: Omnicron I ain't gonna say that.

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Speaker 4: I would just do that. We have to.

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Speaker 3: No chill, you said, nurture. No, well, okay, nurture mom.

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Speaker 3: Happily ever after.

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Speaker 6: Disney Black Women, everything turn on, Black women, turn off everything.

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Speaker 3: Favorite porn category.

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Speaker 4: I don't my own. I don't watch porn.

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Speaker 2: You make the chords, you're only fans.

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Speaker 3: Suscribers personal collection, the archives, got it. Favorite position mm hmmm,

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Speaker 3: verse charg that's a good one. Celebrity crush.

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Speaker 4: Mm hmm.

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Speaker 5: Honestly, you know, because I became one Very, I had

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Speaker 4: It's gonna sound crazy.

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Speaker 5: But when I was younger, gonna be too.

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Speaker 4: I love like fresh album and I still, you know,

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Speaker 3: It changed, It changes when you get older.

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Speaker 4: You still love that.

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Speaker 3: It's not as like as raunchy as it once was.

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Speaker 5: She just just had that that brown skin and that

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, all day love think love you, oh my,

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Speaker 3: I can't even think of thanks JJ. Put the wish and.

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Speaker 7: Not in my day dreams come true.

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Speaker 3: That baby, Sorry, I had to drop it. That was

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Speaker 3: like my favorite fucking album. In the seventh grade. Maybe

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Speaker 3: it was like the fifth but it was great. Shout

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Speaker 3: out to Tail for that epic one album that she.

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Speaker 4: Still bangs out here. Okay, no disrespect.

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Speaker 3: You're banging. You're banging. Single mom, need everything, manifestation, masturbation.

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Speaker 4: Tapping, therapy, needed for everyone.

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Speaker 3: Best advice you've ever.

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Speaker 4: Received, not received yet?

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Speaker 3: Mm hmm. Big Sean is a rapper insecurity? What is

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Speaker 3: that biggest regret?

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Speaker 4: Zero?

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Speaker 3: Okay, that's all I got today. There's all the triggers

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Speaker 3: you completed. Trigger that was really smooth. You did a

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Speaker 3: good job. Most people get stuck. Your smooth guy. Good

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Speaker 3: Mom's approved.

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Speaker 1: Trigger.

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Speaker 4: Thank you excellence.

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Speaker 5: I mean, yeah, you don't have to put too much

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Speaker 3: You know it's true when you smooth the smooth.

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Speaker 1: So you mentioned that you had your daughter. I think

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Speaker 4: At twenty, yes, yes, at twenty.

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Speaker 1: What was that like for you at that time in

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, it was so crazy because her and

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Speaker 5: I we had we had been in a relationship. We

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Speaker 4: Than me.

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Speaker 5: So we started young, you know, hanging out and getting

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Speaker 4: We actually went to the same.

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Speaker 5: But yeah, I didn't have anything any more than that.

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Speaker 5: And I felt like as a friend and as an artist,

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Speaker 4: When it comes to that, she got to worry about

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Speaker 3: Like it's a beautiful period.

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 5: That was my goal, Like, hey, I don't want nowhere

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Speaker 5: get to worry, you know, don't worry about it. You're

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Speaker 5: It's not an issue. It's gonna get done. Please, don't

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Speaker 5: I think you're bothering me. You know what I'm saying,

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Speaker 4: You know, man, it's got to I gotta handle this

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Speaker 4: And it's like, no, don't worry. We got this. So

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Speaker 4: that was that was my plan. I stuck to it.

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Speaker 5: And that's why my daughter is you know, it's lit.

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Speaker 5: That's why you know she's amazing, and you know that's

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Speaker 4: You feel me?

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Speaker 3: Well, damn, that's not mature twenty year old dad. Should

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Speaker 3: I ever heard? Where the fun do they source you at?

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Speaker 8: Because ship Mama made thank you, Mama, Mama, may you know,

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Speaker 8: And yeah, it was all of them, you know, me

441
00:23:05,840 --> 00:23:10,960
Speaker 8: seeing you know where everything was lacking, you know it

442
00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:12,040
Speaker 8: just when.

443
00:23:11,960 --> 00:23:13,600
Speaker 4: I had the chance, I was like, you know what,

444
00:23:14,119 --> 00:23:16,920
Speaker 4: I know what I'm doing. I'm doing what never been done,

445
00:23:17,200 --> 00:23:19,080
Speaker 4: you know, And well.

446
00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:21,159
Speaker 2: That's amazing that you have, like I guess, like the

447
00:23:21,280 --> 00:23:24,680
Speaker 2: self awareness too at that age to be able to

448
00:23:24,760 --> 00:23:26,440
Speaker 2: do that, that's a real that's a gift.

449
00:23:26,600 --> 00:23:29,760
Speaker 5: Yeah, my nana, you know, and my mom, like I said,

450
00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:34,960
Speaker 5: I grew up, you know, my brother being like kind

451
00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:37,360
Speaker 5: of like the you know, he's always been the way

452
00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:41,720
Speaker 5: he is now. He's always been like a performer, always entertaining,

453
00:23:42,080 --> 00:23:43,359
Speaker 5: like always.

454
00:23:43,040 --> 00:23:44,840
Speaker 4: Like since we were kids, since I've known him, since

455
00:23:44,880 --> 00:23:48,600
Speaker 4: I've been a lot. And myself, you know, like I

456
00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:51,720
Speaker 4: was always in the books, you know, in the corner reading.

457
00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:53,640
Speaker 4: I mean, I remember looking at.

458
00:23:53,600 --> 00:23:56,080
Speaker 5: Books when I couldn't even read as a child and

459
00:23:56,240 --> 00:23:57,680
Speaker 5: like I'm gonna learn this.

460
00:23:58,760 --> 00:24:01,800
Speaker 3: I don't know what this is, just keep on looking, figut,

461
00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:03,040
Speaker 3: don't cook you feel me?

462
00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:06,359
Speaker 4: And I remember thinking like that, you know, at five six,

463
00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:09,919
Speaker 4: you know what I mean. So that's just who I am.

464
00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:13,720
Speaker 5: And I I was blessed enough to you know, create

465
00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:17,560
Speaker 5: with someone that understood who I was, you know, because

466
00:24:17,560 --> 00:24:20,879
Speaker 5: I feel like a lot of complications with that, it

467
00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:24,399
Speaker 5: comes with people not knowing who they're dealing with. You

468
00:24:24,480 --> 00:24:26,200
Speaker 5: know what I mean, or not knowing like you know,

469
00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:28,200
Speaker 5: that was my motivation. It was like to be better

470
00:24:28,280 --> 00:24:30,159
Speaker 5: than my father, you know what I mean. And some

471
00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:33,199
Speaker 5: some people may not have that motivation. Actually a lot

472
00:24:33,240 --> 00:24:35,159
Speaker 5: of people don't have that motivation, you know what I mean.

473
00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:39,520
Speaker 5: And some people, you know, may have an example that

474
00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:43,040
Speaker 5: wasn't good and that messes up everything. You know, I

475
00:24:43,080 --> 00:24:44,840
Speaker 5: didn't have an example at all, and I think that

476
00:24:44,960 --> 00:24:45,520
Speaker 5: that's great.

477
00:24:45,720 --> 00:24:48,560
Speaker 4: You know. I never held that against my father or

478
00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:52,119
Speaker 4: like you're like, oh, you know, I hate you like

479
00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:53,520
Speaker 4: I love my dad, you know what I mean.

480
00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:57,160
Speaker 3: You have a relationship now, No, No, I wish we did.

481
00:24:57,320 --> 00:25:01,639
Speaker 5: But you know, I don't hold him accountable for not

482
00:25:01,840 --> 00:25:05,920
Speaker 5: being able to have tools to give me right he

483
00:25:05,920 --> 00:25:10,800
Speaker 5: didn't have it. Thank you for staying away, not giving

484
00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:14,800
Speaker 5: me things that I couldn't do right, because that's that

485
00:25:14,880 --> 00:25:17,960
Speaker 5: happens a lot. That does just for the sake of tradition.

486
00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:19,639
Speaker 3: And being you know what I mean, just being just

487
00:25:19,720 --> 00:25:20,560
Speaker 3: to pretend to be there.

488
00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:22,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you know, I think a lot of I mean,

489
00:25:22,520 --> 00:25:24,160
Speaker 1: that's funny that you say that, because I think that's

490
00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:26,520
Speaker 1: a lot of Like we were talking and we're doing

491
00:25:26,560 --> 00:25:29,159
Speaker 1: trigger and we're saying like happily ever after or the like,

492
00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:31,359
Speaker 1: saying that it needs to be redefined and things like

493
00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:35,040
Speaker 1: that and that nature. Like, I think the family dynamic.

494
00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:37,199
Speaker 2: A lot of times we you know, especially I think

495
00:25:37,240 --> 00:25:40,040
Speaker 2: in black in our black community, because being a baby

496
00:25:40,080 --> 00:25:42,840
Speaker 2: mama or baby daddy has looked down upon being a

497
00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:46,720
Speaker 2: single parent. So we hold these families together and actually

498
00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:50,000
Speaker 2: do so much more harm to our children by trying

499
00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:53,200
Speaker 2: to like force relationships and like, you will be with

500
00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:55,920
Speaker 2: your dad this weekend, you know, because you need a dad.

501
00:25:56,000 --> 00:25:58,280
Speaker 2: I don't care if he's not perfect. You'll get that imperfect.

502
00:25:58,359 --> 00:25:59,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, You're going to go over there and spend time.

503
00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:02,000
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, yeah yeah.

504
00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:04,520
Speaker 5: And I feel like, you know, the generation after they

505
00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:06,520
Speaker 5: had to deal with it, they're not having it, you

506
00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:07,040
Speaker 5: know what I mean.

507
00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:10,000
Speaker 4: They're like, no, we're going to try something new. You know.

508
00:26:10,320 --> 00:26:12,600
Speaker 5: I was, like I said, I was blessed enough to

509
00:26:13,359 --> 00:26:16,400
Speaker 5: to be with someone that was willing to try something.

510
00:26:16,200 --> 00:26:19,080
Speaker 4: And willing to trust me, willing to trust my word,

511
00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:19,639
Speaker 4: willing to.

512
00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:21,080
Speaker 5: Be like all right, you're going to follow through with this,

513
00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:23,760
Speaker 5: you know, and be like all right, you got it,

514
00:26:23,960 --> 00:26:28,359
Speaker 5: you know, and that in return, you know, I.

515
00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:30,159
Speaker 4: Had to keep my word. You feel me like I

516
00:26:30,280 --> 00:26:32,200
Speaker 4: had to, you know, it's like all right, we'll go.

517
00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:33,879
Speaker 4: And it was like, oh, all right, let me go,

518
00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:36,720
Speaker 4: you know. So that that helped me a lot, you know,

519
00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:40,760
Speaker 4: just her believing that I would do.

520
00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:43,960
Speaker 3: What I say I did, like, you know, even thinking

521
00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:46,520
Speaker 3: about that, like as a mom, as a single mom,

522
00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:49,880
Speaker 3: as a single mom, like building an empire, building a business,

523
00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:52,080
Speaker 3: and it's like this it is, we're gonna. We're like

524
00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:55,760
Speaker 3: in a sense building this like untraditional brand, you know,

525
00:26:56,160 --> 00:26:59,840
Speaker 3: even though it's not new. But like hearing you say

526
00:26:59,880 --> 00:27:03,359
Speaker 3: that at the guilt that I feel sometimes for like

527
00:27:04,240 --> 00:27:07,240
Speaker 3: building this business, you know, and having to be away

528
00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:10,000
Speaker 3: and being like listen, I gotta go, and like worried

529
00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:12,080
Speaker 3: about low Ki, Like what are you saying to her?

530
00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:14,600
Speaker 4: Are you holding you? Yeah?

531
00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:17,960
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, And like if like I think men do

532
00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:23,000
Speaker 3: just the community such a disservice by not I mean, yeah,

533
00:27:23,240 --> 00:27:28,320
Speaker 3: not really supporting mothers and supporting their women or even

534
00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:32,000
Speaker 3: like like even I've known my baby daddy for since

535
00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:34,320
Speaker 3: I'm thirteen, you know, for a long fucking time, and

536
00:27:34,560 --> 00:27:37,960
Speaker 3: still there's this rift and it's like because I knew

537
00:27:38,040 --> 00:27:40,440
Speaker 3: him and I chose still, you know, that's really what

538
00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:42,800
Speaker 3: it is. But you know I was young too. But

539
00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:46,240
Speaker 3: it's also like what happens to the community when the

540
00:27:46,320 --> 00:27:49,000
Speaker 3: women are supported in that way, Like you know, I'm

541
00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:50,680
Speaker 3: going to build this business regardless.

542
00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:55,520
Speaker 5: You know, magic magic magic, because people forget to realize.

543
00:27:55,560 --> 00:27:59,159
Speaker 5: I'm sorry because you off. But like you know, big Mama,

544
00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:02,560
Speaker 5: you feel me, Big Mama. They call it Mother Earth

545
00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:03,320
Speaker 5: for a reason.

546
00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:06,520
Speaker 3: Mama, paa, come on, you feel me.

547
00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:09,680
Speaker 4: So it's like we all come from big Mama. We

548
00:28:09,840 --> 00:28:11,000
Speaker 4: all need big Mama.

549
00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:14,200
Speaker 5: Big Mama gonna let everybody stay over. Big Mama gonna

550
00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:15,920
Speaker 5: take care of whoever pull up. It could be some

551
00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:19,000
Speaker 5: random kid, Big Mama gonna take care of it. So

552
00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:21,920
Speaker 5: I come from like my nana was a big mama.

553
00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:25,840
Speaker 5: You know, I've you know, my mom having me at eighteen.

554
00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:29,479
Speaker 5: I remember being at my mom's thirtieth birthday.

555
00:28:29,680 --> 00:28:30,160
Speaker 3: Oh wow.

556
00:28:31,119 --> 00:28:35,240
Speaker 4: So my perspective on women way beyond.

557
00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:37,879
Speaker 5: What a lot of them can understand. Like, sweetheart, I

558
00:28:37,960 --> 00:28:39,880
Speaker 5: can have an intelligent conversation.

559
00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:41,880
Speaker 4: With your mom. Your mom gonna tell you.

560
00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:45,560
Speaker 5: Your mom might check you before I do with me, right,

561
00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:48,680
Speaker 5: because your mom probably knows what you're dealing with.

562
00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:52,080
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying, and you know, I just

563
00:28:52,160 --> 00:28:54,400
Speaker 4: feel like it has to be that way, you know

564
00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:54,760
Speaker 4: what I mean.

565
00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:57,040
Speaker 3: It's just a beautiful thing. What happens like when you

566
00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:59,520
Speaker 3: pour back into big Mama, you know, like we've had

567
00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:01,920
Speaker 3: oh you know what I'm saying, Like, imagine that giveth

568
00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:04,800
Speaker 3: being watered too, you know, and and and how that

569
00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:08,120
Speaker 3: waters the family, How that waters the children. How that's

570
00:29:08,120 --> 00:29:13,800
Speaker 3: going to water our daughters and everybody eats and then

571
00:29:13,840 --> 00:29:14,720
Speaker 3: suddenly healed.

572
00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:19,760
Speaker 4: Certainly we back to berth. Everybody what they need.

573
00:29:20,200 --> 00:29:21,240
Speaker 1: Global warming is also.

574
00:29:21,120 --> 00:29:25,800
Speaker 2: Cured exactly because Mama, it's true.

575
00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:28,040
Speaker 3: It's true. And it's just like it's a beautiful thing

576
00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:30,440
Speaker 3: that you were like at even a young age, you know,

577
00:29:31,120 --> 00:29:34,000
Speaker 3: having that experience to understand like I'm going to support

578
00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:36,440
Speaker 3: you and have your back because hey, we've made this

579
00:29:36,600 --> 00:29:41,080
Speaker 3: child together. How about that? And b Like what happens

580
00:29:41,080 --> 00:29:43,080
Speaker 3: when a woman can go and do her thing and

581
00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:45,920
Speaker 3: not feel be shame and guilt about it?

582
00:29:46,280 --> 00:29:50,560
Speaker 4: That you can see exactly And what.

583
00:29:50,680 --> 00:29:54,120
Speaker 3: A beautiful manifestation of a unit. And I like how

584
00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:56,000
Speaker 3: you called it a co creator, you know, because we

585
00:29:56,040 --> 00:29:58,720
Speaker 3: are co creators, but you know, like this this co create,

586
00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:01,040
Speaker 3: like when we support our coke creators, and it's and

587
00:30:01,120 --> 00:30:05,560
Speaker 3: it's you know, fluid, and it's it's reciprocal. Our kids win,

588
00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:06,080
Speaker 3: you know.

589
00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:09,640
Speaker 5: And it's so crazy because you know, we've known each

590
00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:12,480
Speaker 5: other so long and we've supported each other in such

591
00:30:12,520 --> 00:30:14,720
Speaker 5: a unique way that a.

592
00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:16,080
Speaker 4: Lot of people don't understand.

593
00:30:16,240 --> 00:30:18,320
Speaker 5: You know, a lot a lot of people you know,

594
00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:20,560
Speaker 5: her saw they don't a lot of people in my

595
00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:22,600
Speaker 5: family they don't get it because they've never done it,

596
00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:23,560
Speaker 5: seen it.

597
00:30:23,640 --> 00:30:25,560
Speaker 1: It's almost like they look for conflict. They want to

598
00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:30,680
Speaker 1: look Okay, yeah, a.

599
00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:32,600
Speaker 3: Whole life, you got that baby all.

600
00:30:33,440 --> 00:30:35,840
Speaker 5: And then I have to remind people like, yeah, I

601
00:30:36,160 --> 00:30:39,920
Speaker 5: saw the baby come out. There's nothing more. There's no

602
00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:43,560
Speaker 5: more intimate I could get with this person. I know this,

603
00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:46,360
Speaker 5: Like I love this person. I know this person, and

604
00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:50,920
Speaker 5: that's it. So if this person has love over here,

605
00:30:51,240 --> 00:30:54,480
Speaker 5: love is something over here, I support that too, you know,

606
00:30:54,720 --> 00:30:57,360
Speaker 5: Like I don't know if y'all seen like you know,

607
00:30:57,600 --> 00:30:59,520
Speaker 5: like we've been close to me and my baby mom.

608
00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:02,640
Speaker 4: We've been since we've been closed, you know, like I've.

609
00:31:02,560 --> 00:31:07,280
Speaker 5: Gone on trips with her and her you know, right

610
00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:10,800
Speaker 5: whole you know what I mean, Like it can be done,

611
00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:14,400
Speaker 5: but it's just people are are kind of stuck in tradition,

612
00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:17,800
Speaker 5: you know, and you know and a lot of yeah

613
00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:19,760
Speaker 5: ego and a lot of traditions that are.

614
00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:24,120
Speaker 4: Not ours, not even ours. So you know, we have

615
00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:25,920
Speaker 4: to get back to the original.

616
00:31:26,760 --> 00:31:29,640
Speaker 3: You know, we're a tribe. We function as tribe. We

617
00:31:29,720 --> 00:31:33,680
Speaker 3: function as a village. That is an African proverb, you know,

618
00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:36,440
Speaker 3: like it takes a village is not no bullshit.

619
00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:40,360
Speaker 5: Yes, and like that that was it is an African proverb.

620
00:31:40,640 --> 00:31:44,320
Speaker 5: But don't forget on this land here. That's what they took,

621
00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:47,600
Speaker 5: you know what I mean, that's what they took here.

622
00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:49,720
Speaker 4: You know what I mean. It's still going on there,

623
00:31:50,080 --> 00:31:52,520
Speaker 4: but that's what was usurped here.

624
00:31:53,040 --> 00:31:56,040
Speaker 1: And that's why there's so so much divide and that's

625
00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:59,000
Speaker 1: why you know, when they break the family, they break everything.

626
00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:01,120
Speaker 5: You feel me and you know, just like you got

627
00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:04,160
Speaker 5: the East Indians, you know, were the West Indians over

628
00:32:04,280 --> 00:32:08,040
Speaker 5: here going through it and you know, Big Mama's coming back.

629
00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:11,560
Speaker 4: Though, well the women are Big Mama's coming back. I know.

630
00:32:12,080 --> 00:32:15,520
Speaker 5: I feel like you know, through through the history here,

631
00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:18,760
Speaker 5: you know, like we've had the revolution, we have black Panthers,

632
00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:21,200
Speaker 5: we have everything you know now BLM and you know,

633
00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:24,160
Speaker 5: we have all this stuff, and it's like right now,

634
00:32:24,360 --> 00:32:26,880
Speaker 5: I feel like we're in a special time for us,

635
00:32:27,160 --> 00:32:29,840
Speaker 5: like we are the we're the ones now, so.

636
00:32:29,920 --> 00:32:32,840
Speaker 4: We can literally change this like that.

637
00:32:33,400 --> 00:32:35,040
Speaker 5: We just got to get on one accord, you know,

638
00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:37,920
Speaker 5: and we just have to respect each other's power and

639
00:32:38,120 --> 00:32:41,360
Speaker 5: know what we're capable of and what we're responsible for,

640
00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:42,960
Speaker 5: and then you know, it's easy.

641
00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:47,320
Speaker 3: Absolutely, And it's like, really understand loving yourself and understanding

642
00:32:47,360 --> 00:32:50,560
Speaker 3: your power is really the superpower. I think. Yeah, even

643
00:32:50,600 --> 00:32:53,400
Speaker 3: in this journey, like I've realized like, oh, like we

644
00:32:53,520 --> 00:32:55,400
Speaker 3: talked about this before we started, Like me and Erica

645
00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:58,880
Speaker 3: will literally speak some shit and then within like seven

646
00:32:58,920 --> 00:33:02,320
Speaker 3: to ten days we will get it. I mean, without doubt.

647
00:33:03,200 --> 00:33:04,640
Speaker 3: I don't even have to think about it. I just

648
00:33:04,720 --> 00:33:06,880
Speaker 3: say we can literally be like, oh I want I

649
00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:08,160
Speaker 3: want to Ryan to come on the show.

650
00:33:09,040 --> 00:33:10,120
Speaker 4: Y'all are that powerful?

651
00:33:10,560 --> 00:33:11,320
Speaker 3: It's crazy.

652
00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:14,560
Speaker 5: That's why you guys have to speak life into us too,

653
00:33:15,400 --> 00:33:16,600
Speaker 5: because we've messed up.

654
00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:21,360
Speaker 4: We've gotten done. We've gotten done, done, done done that

655
00:33:21,520 --> 00:33:23,560
Speaker 4: undone done Yeah.

656
00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:27,040
Speaker 3: Okay, And it's difficult because we've a lot of us

657
00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:30,120
Speaker 3: have been hurt, have been talked down to, have been disrespected,

658
00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:32,320
Speaker 3: there's a lot of lost men who are putting that

659
00:33:32,400 --> 00:33:35,200
Speaker 3: that hurt on their women, and then we're scorned and

660
00:33:35,280 --> 00:33:36,040
Speaker 3: we can't come back.

661
00:33:35,920 --> 00:33:40,240
Speaker 5: Another tradition that's not ours, that was picked up what

662
00:33:41,240 --> 00:33:45,760
Speaker 5: treating their women like that? Yeah, you know we we historically,

663
00:33:46,160 --> 00:33:48,080
Speaker 5: you know, when you go back and you see relics

664
00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:50,800
Speaker 5: and you see old things that are tribes and everything

665
00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:52,920
Speaker 5: that we worshiped, it was the woman.

666
00:33:53,360 --> 00:33:57,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, and the woman. So all that disrespect the

667
00:33:57,680 --> 00:33:58,920
Speaker 4: women that ain't natural to us.

668
00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:00,600
Speaker 3: No, that ain't to us.

669
00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:04,880
Speaker 5: That's picked up by someone else and carried on into

670
00:34:05,000 --> 00:34:06,800
Speaker 5: the culture. But that ain't naturally us.

671
00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:08,640
Speaker 4: You feel me, So.

672
00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:10,719
Speaker 1: I think it's true.

673
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Speaker 2: Though you're right, like I think you know. Me and

674
00:34:12,640 --> 00:34:14,120
Speaker 2: me love talked about a lot on the show. You know,

675
00:34:14,200 --> 00:34:16,200
Speaker 2: I'd be lying if I said fu niggas like a

676
00:34:16,280 --> 00:34:27,560
Speaker 2: hundred times. I often battle with that too because I'm like, okay, wait, wait, wait, wait,

677
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Speaker 2: hold on, Okay, I know I said, so, I know

678
00:34:29,880 --> 00:34:30,440
Speaker 2: I said niggas.

679
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Speaker 1: Ain't it last week?

680
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Speaker 2: But like, how do we okay, how how do I

681
00:34:36,160 --> 00:34:40,160
Speaker 2: empower the man? How do I without without pouring my

682
00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:43,160
Speaker 2: last drop you know what I mean? Without feeling like

683
00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:45,960
Speaker 2: I'm going to be at a loss by pouring into

684
00:34:46,040 --> 00:34:48,879
Speaker 2: you and speaking into you and not you know, maybe

685
00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:51,560
Speaker 2: getting anything back in return. I mean obviously maybe not

686
00:34:51,680 --> 00:34:54,560
Speaker 2: having the expected expectation of gettingything back in return and

687
00:34:54,719 --> 00:34:55,880
Speaker 2: just pouring in.

688
00:34:56,600 --> 00:35:01,160
Speaker 5: But it's like, gotta be careful with that because you know,

689
00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:03,200
Speaker 5: we got to know that we at a disadvantage. We've

690
00:35:03,239 --> 00:35:05,360
Speaker 5: been at a disadvantage for so long. We got to

691
00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:07,160
Speaker 5: know when we're in the orange or the red or

692
00:35:07,400 --> 00:35:09,840
Speaker 5: you know, like, hey, you gotta know if you can

693
00:35:09,920 --> 00:35:12,120
Speaker 5: pour or not. If you can't pour, guess what you

694
00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:14,480
Speaker 5: gotta you got you got a friend that can pay.

695
00:35:16,040 --> 00:35:19,279
Speaker 4: We're flowing. So yeah, you know what I'm saying.

696
00:35:19,440 --> 00:35:23,080
Speaker 5: And you know, I think conversations, you know, for me,

697
00:35:23,719 --> 00:35:26,000
Speaker 5: I can say, like, you know, being a young dad,

698
00:35:26,160 --> 00:35:28,960
Speaker 5: like when I was twenty three, twenty four, you know,

699
00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:31,520
Speaker 5: like my daughters like five, and it's like you know,

700
00:35:32,000 --> 00:35:34,960
Speaker 5: I you know, it wasn't much to do around that time.

701
00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:36,880
Speaker 5: Like I wouldn't say it was easy, but it was

702
00:35:36,960 --> 00:35:39,520
Speaker 5: like the easiest hard when they're younger, that was the

703
00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:43,520
Speaker 5: easy part. The hard part is when they become people,

704
00:35:43,680 --> 00:35:46,480
Speaker 5: you have to really guide them and be like, hey, listen.

705
00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:49,920
Speaker 4: That's not right, you know, but.

706
00:35:51,880 --> 00:35:54,080
Speaker 3: Sorry, I lost It's okay, high.

707
00:35:56,480 --> 00:35:58,400
Speaker 5: I just I was talking about yeah, like the pouring

708
00:35:58,520 --> 00:36:01,239
Speaker 5: into okay, sorry, yeah, I just speak from my mind.

709
00:36:01,320 --> 00:36:05,320
Speaker 5: I think before I speak, must be inquirsed leo moving.

710
00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:07,920
Speaker 5: But yeah, like you guys got to make sure you're

711
00:36:08,040 --> 00:36:10,960
Speaker 5: pouring into a cup that has a little something many

712
00:36:11,600 --> 00:36:14,880
Speaker 5: you know what I mean, and that that comes with discernment,

713
00:36:15,280 --> 00:36:17,360
Speaker 5: you know, like women, when do you guys learn.

714
00:36:17,280 --> 00:36:21,280
Speaker 1: Then we don't have discernment?

715
00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:31,080
Speaker 3: No, I would say thirty three and a half. It's

716
00:36:31,200 --> 00:36:33,239
Speaker 3: me right now. I just learned it last week, and

717
00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:36,000
Speaker 3: I can say that you know, and and you I

718
00:36:36,080 --> 00:36:39,560
Speaker 3: think as women, intuitively, we're some intuitive ask natures.

719
00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:40,279
Speaker 4: Oh my god.

720
00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:42,440
Speaker 3: Like I know people get weird about this word. But

721
00:36:42,680 --> 00:36:45,000
Speaker 3: when I say we're witches, it is because our words

722
00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:47,640
Speaker 3: are spelled. It is because we are alchemists. It is

723
00:36:47,719 --> 00:36:50,960
Speaker 3: because we are powerful and we really can't manipulate the

724
00:36:51,120 --> 00:36:53,080
Speaker 3: energies that be. I've seen it happen.

725
00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:58,120
Speaker 5: We are wizards, don't you know. Don't leave that little

726
00:36:58,200 --> 00:37:00,920
Speaker 5: power over there. We are wizards to you, absolutely are.

727
00:37:01,120 --> 00:37:03,480
Speaker 3: But I think with all of that being said, I

728
00:37:03,560 --> 00:37:07,479
Speaker 3: think sometimes because of where we're at how we've lost

729
00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:10,839
Speaker 3: touch with our powers of who we are in each other.

730
00:37:11,160 --> 00:37:15,200
Speaker 3: Like there are things that you know, we know instinctually,

731
00:37:15,600 --> 00:37:18,960
Speaker 3: but we believe the programming, and so we try and

732
00:37:19,080 --> 00:37:21,040
Speaker 3: we try. Let me try it this way, let me

733
00:37:21,120 --> 00:37:22,960
Speaker 3: go over, let me go under, let me hit it here.

734
00:37:23,239 --> 00:37:25,120
Speaker 3: Maybe if I go in the back window, maybe if

735
00:37:25,160 --> 00:37:26,520
Speaker 3: I pour over here, maybe if I shake like this,

736
00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:28,160
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying, Like there's all these things

737
00:37:28,200 --> 00:37:31,320
Speaker 3: where like you see this like one percent of like

738
00:37:31,440 --> 00:37:33,680
Speaker 3: of potential, and then you want to water that. But

739
00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:36,640
Speaker 3: in reality and then we want to cling You know

740
00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:40,000
Speaker 3: that I'm a cancer, So Lord Jesus, that clinging shit

741
00:37:40,280 --> 00:37:44,319
Speaker 3: is like outside soft hands, so fucking soft soft is kitten,

742
00:37:44,400 --> 00:37:45,120
Speaker 3: motherfucking candy.

743
00:37:45,239 --> 00:37:48,760
Speaker 4: I love I got a cousin, is a cancer shutout.

744
00:37:49,239 --> 00:37:49,960
Speaker 4: I love Jesus.

745
00:37:50,120 --> 00:37:53,640
Speaker 3: I love aquariuses. I'm learning to love aquariuses recently.

746
00:37:53,960 --> 00:37:58,320
Speaker 5: Hard to love because we're so spaced out. We're in

747
00:37:58,400 --> 00:37:59,920
Speaker 5: the age of Aquarius. You know, we went from the

748
00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:03,080
Speaker 5: age of Pisces, who brought you guys, Jesus and Buddha

749
00:38:03,120 --> 00:38:03,440
Speaker 5: and all that.

750
00:38:03,560 --> 00:38:05,560
Speaker 4: But now we're in the age of Aquarius, and we

751
00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:06,319
Speaker 4: changing it up.

752
00:38:06,320 --> 00:38:07,960
Speaker 3: We shaking it up is shaken up.

753
00:38:08,040 --> 00:38:10,359
Speaker 4: We're shaking it up. If you want to get shu,

754
00:38:10,640 --> 00:38:11,200
Speaker 4: come this way.

755
00:38:11,360 --> 00:38:14,920
Speaker 3: I'm gonna shook it. I'm here to get shook it

756
00:38:15,920 --> 00:38:21,879
Speaker 3: shook with me, but for real, like yeah, it's it's

757
00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:25,800
Speaker 3: it's that discernment and you know, like I've been I

758
00:38:25,920 --> 00:38:28,480
Speaker 3: told I always talk about this. There was his last relationship.

759
00:38:28,520 --> 00:38:29,719
Speaker 3: This was when I was thirty three and a half

760
00:38:31,280 --> 00:38:34,040
Speaker 3: and I was like, don't do this. I saw the light.

761
00:38:34,120 --> 00:38:36,240
Speaker 3: I was like, you're healing. You're doing so well, you're evolving.

762
00:38:36,280 --> 00:38:39,640
Speaker 3: And then I was like huh. I was like, I'm

763
00:38:39,719 --> 00:38:41,360
Speaker 3: going to the light and I was like yeah. I

764
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:44,719
Speaker 3: was like, over here, is that the darkness? Is that

765
00:38:44,800 --> 00:38:50,480
Speaker 3: a dark alley calling my name? Is that backwards? I'm

766
00:38:50,560 --> 00:38:53,400
Speaker 3: so curious about what's happening. If I sink, if I

767
00:38:53,480 --> 00:38:55,880
Speaker 3: sink into this cluick sand. But I did it consciously

768
00:38:55,920 --> 00:38:58,640
Speaker 3: and then I came out of it consciously quicker thought.

769
00:38:58,760 --> 00:38:58,960
Speaker 4: Yeah.

770
00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:04,879
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, mage have it. But I knew

771
00:39:05,000 --> 00:39:08,200
Speaker 3: like that into that intuitive bullshit. I was like, I

772
00:39:08,400 --> 00:39:12,040
Speaker 3: told myself to myself, I said, bitch, this is a test.

773
00:39:12,320 --> 00:39:14,359
Speaker 3: Are you mature yet? And I was like no, I'm

774
00:39:14,400 --> 00:39:16,279
Speaker 3: not I'm a dumb bitch.

775
00:39:17,480 --> 00:39:21,520
Speaker 5: I'm at least you owned it, and I feel like

776
00:39:21,760 --> 00:39:26,600
Speaker 5: that's that is where you know people can People can

777
00:39:27,080 --> 00:39:30,200
Speaker 5: rest in that owning it and have more either fun

778
00:39:30,440 --> 00:39:33,080
Speaker 5: or go further in the intellect of what we're doing.

779
00:39:33,239 --> 00:39:35,480
Speaker 5: Like you know, a lot of the women that me

780
00:39:35,600 --> 00:39:38,920
Speaker 5: me man like, I tell them off the rip, like,

781
00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:41,080
Speaker 5: trust me, you don't want to fall.

782
00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:42,239
Speaker 4: In love with me. If you don't want to be

783
00:39:42,320 --> 00:39:44,560
Speaker 4: madly in love with someone, if you don't want to

784
00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:49,560
Speaker 4: like think of one, don't just like me from right there.

785
00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:50,520
Speaker 3: Don't want to.

786
00:39:52,200 --> 00:39:53,920
Speaker 4: And like me from right there, because if you get

787
00:39:53,960 --> 00:39:56,680
Speaker 4: any closer, you're going to think about me every day.

788
00:39:57,360 --> 00:39:58,239
Speaker 4: I tell that too.

789
00:39:58,880 --> 00:40:00,640
Speaker 1: Do you think about that every day?

790
00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:03,520
Speaker 4: Are you? Are you.

791
00:40:05,760 --> 00:40:09,400
Speaker 5: Falling deep? But I'm falling deep in everything I do.

792
00:40:10,040 --> 00:40:13,360
Speaker 5: So don't think I don't love you because I'm falling

793
00:40:13,400 --> 00:40:15,279
Speaker 5: deep in this. I'm about to fall I'm about to

794
00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:17,040
Speaker 5: go wag up and then fall back and deep in

795
00:40:17,120 --> 00:40:20,440
Speaker 5: with you. But because everybody can't do that, they may

796
00:40:20,560 --> 00:40:22,400
Speaker 5: be like, oh, you don't love me, but it's like no,

797
00:40:22,560 --> 00:40:25,960
Speaker 5: I just love the same way I love you. So

798
00:40:26,320 --> 00:40:29,359
Speaker 5: just be patient with me and just know the love

799
00:40:29,480 --> 00:40:31,399
Speaker 5: is a boomerang. You know what I'm saying, It's gonna

800
00:40:31,400 --> 00:40:32,680
Speaker 5: come right back, you know what I mean.

801
00:40:36,640 --> 00:40:39,160
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802
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803
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804
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805
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844
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Speaker 3: you seem pretty private. I've never seen you on this

845
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Speaker 3: on this shade rim the news of the of the

846
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Speaker 3: new era. What are like?

847
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Speaker 4: You know? Are you?

848
00:43:37,360 --> 00:43:37,880
Speaker 3: Are you single?

849
00:43:38,480 --> 00:43:40,600
Speaker 4: Yes, single handedly doing my thing?

850
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Speaker 3: I've heard that, baby, babe it What in dating are

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Speaker 3: you seeking, like a long term relationship do you have?

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Speaker 3: What are you like? Non negotiables? Ladies?

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Speaker 1: Ladies want to know what top three non negotiables?

854
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Speaker 4: All right, all right, you've got to love yourself. You

855
00:44:01,280 --> 00:44:02,919
Speaker 4: gotta have self esteem, baby.

856
00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:06,040
Speaker 5: That's number one for me, because you're not about to

857
00:44:06,080 --> 00:44:07,920
Speaker 5: get mad at me for all the self esteem I

858
00:44:08,000 --> 00:44:11,120
Speaker 5: got right, You're not about to make me question my shit.

859
00:44:11,640 --> 00:44:14,440
Speaker 5: So I need you to have full self esteem. I

860
00:44:14,560 --> 00:44:16,840
Speaker 5: need you to be a self starter, you know, a

861
00:44:16,960 --> 00:44:20,080
Speaker 5: self motivator. You know, because in the wee hours of

862
00:44:20,080 --> 00:44:21,880
Speaker 5: the night when I'm creating, or i leave the studio

863
00:44:21,960 --> 00:44:24,040
Speaker 5: or I'm going home and I can't sleep, like I

864
00:44:24,239 --> 00:44:25,799
Speaker 5: have to make myself go to sleep.

865
00:44:26,160 --> 00:44:28,520
Speaker 4: No one's there. I'm not taking no pills. I'm not

866
00:44:28,560 --> 00:44:29,240
Speaker 4: taking no drugs.

867
00:44:29,239 --> 00:44:32,359
Speaker 5: I'm a natural reagen out of rude way, so I'm

868
00:44:32,440 --> 00:44:34,800
Speaker 5: not you know, I ain't taking no pills or anything

869
00:44:34,920 --> 00:44:39,680
Speaker 5: chemical to get me there. I'm basically putting myself through

870
00:44:39,719 --> 00:44:41,560
Speaker 5: the worst shit so that no.

871
00:44:41,600 --> 00:44:46,799
Speaker 4: One else can. That's my logic. So it's like, yeah,

872
00:44:47,120 --> 00:44:49,680
Speaker 4: I put myself through the worst so that whatever comes

873
00:44:49,880 --> 00:44:52,200
Speaker 4: or whatever. You know, it's nothing to me.

874
00:44:52,360 --> 00:44:54,480
Speaker 3: This seems like a job listing. Are you a self starters?

875
00:44:54,480 --> 00:44:55,120
Speaker 3: A self starter?

876
00:44:55,600 --> 00:45:03,600
Speaker 4: Yourself? Love yourself? And you know what's that? Uh, I

877
00:45:03,640 --> 00:45:06,640
Speaker 4: don't know. You might gotta smoke, we you might go

878
00:45:09,360 --> 00:45:11,600
Speaker 4: if you don't smunkly. You gotta do shrooms. You gotta

879
00:45:11,640 --> 00:45:19,719
Speaker 4: do some type of like, oh, you're out drink. If

880
00:45:19,760 --> 00:45:22,239
Speaker 4: all you do is drink, we're not gonna get along.

881
00:45:22,800 --> 00:45:24,360
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, Like you need to do

882
00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:27,279
Speaker 5: some type of like something natural, like I said, mushrooms

883
00:45:27,880 --> 00:45:30,600
Speaker 5: or like weed, you know that comes from the earth.

884
00:45:31,040 --> 00:45:33,520
Speaker 4: So I'm tied to the land, baby, you know what

885
00:45:33,560 --> 00:45:35,920
Speaker 4: I'm saying, Like you need to be tied to the

886
00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:38,080
Speaker 4: land too. If you just tied to like other.

887
00:45:38,000 --> 00:45:43,480
Speaker 5: Things, we're gonna disconnect. So yeah, self confidence, self motivating,

888
00:45:43,640 --> 00:45:45,479
Speaker 5: and you gotta be of of the land.

889
00:45:45,520 --> 00:45:47,400
Speaker 4: You gotta know, you.

890
00:45:47,440 --> 00:45:51,360
Speaker 5: Gotta like either be into like beating or like hiking

891
00:45:51,719 --> 00:45:53,000
Speaker 5: or like you know what I mean. You can't just

892
00:45:53,120 --> 00:45:57,400
Speaker 5: be like you gotta be into arts and crafts like

893
00:45:57,520 --> 00:45:59,040
Speaker 5: you know what I mean. You gotta you have to

894
00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:01,640
Speaker 5: do something like that, because if you wanted them shorties,

895
00:46:01,680 --> 00:46:04,719
Speaker 5: I just want to go out, go to restaurants, eat this,

896
00:46:05,000 --> 00:46:08,279
Speaker 5: don't even really eat everything, take the stuff home, don't

897
00:46:08,280 --> 00:46:10,080
Speaker 5: even eat it like you're trying to reheat it in

898
00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:10,440
Speaker 5: the air.

899
00:46:10,560 --> 00:46:10,799
Speaker 4: Fright.

900
00:46:11,080 --> 00:46:13,800
Speaker 5: The next day, were on something else, we meditating today

901
00:46:14,040 --> 00:46:14,960
Speaker 5: we're not even eating that.

902
00:46:15,440 --> 00:46:16,759
Speaker 4: It's over. Yeah, you know.

903
00:46:16,960 --> 00:46:19,719
Speaker 5: So it's like them shortis that want to get lit

904
00:46:19,800 --> 00:46:21,960
Speaker 5: and they want to go to the nice restaurants and

905
00:46:22,000 --> 00:46:22,200
Speaker 5: all that.

906
00:46:22,440 --> 00:46:24,600
Speaker 4: You know, I do that from time to time, but

907
00:46:24,719 --> 00:46:25,839
Speaker 4: I've done it so long.

908
00:46:26,040 --> 00:46:29,240
Speaker 5: Like you know, you wanted to go to the clubs

909
00:46:29,640 --> 00:46:31,600
Speaker 5: the Chef and mashows and Beverly Hills, like I know

910
00:46:31,680 --> 00:46:34,200
Speaker 5: the Chef because I've been going there so many years.

911
00:46:34,719 --> 00:46:35,439
Speaker 1: You do both.

912
00:46:35,520 --> 00:46:39,840
Speaker 3: You could go to mass shows and do like grounding

913
00:46:40,520 --> 00:46:45,400
Speaker 3: that's I'm like, I'm like, take me to the restaurant. Yeah, yeah, yeah, we.

914
00:46:48,520 --> 00:46:50,000
Speaker 4: Walk, I'm doing both.

915
00:46:51,560 --> 00:46:53,880
Speaker 3: Take me to the mass shows on the beach and.

916
00:46:53,920 --> 00:46:59,200
Speaker 5: Then yeah, we have to go to that one because

917
00:46:59,280 --> 00:47:01,920
Speaker 5: you know, the the negative ions that's hitting.

918
00:47:01,680 --> 00:47:03,600
Speaker 3: The ocean, it's gonna take away the badness.

919
00:47:03,640 --> 00:47:07,000
Speaker 4: And if you think about that you just went through

920
00:47:07,000 --> 00:47:08,160
Speaker 4: before you put up.

921
00:47:08,880 --> 00:47:11,320
Speaker 3: Eat like I eat fine dining by the beach and

922
00:47:11,400 --> 00:47:16,000
Speaker 3: do melamones? Have you have you heard of milamones? Let

923
00:47:16,040 --> 00:47:18,080
Speaker 3: me teach you. I know you meditate and ship, like

924
00:47:18,120 --> 00:47:20,399
Speaker 3: maybe you want to adopt this into your practice. I've

925
00:47:20,400 --> 00:47:22,520
Speaker 3: been spreading the words, so you know, I'm just offering

926
00:47:22,560 --> 00:47:25,200
Speaker 3: it up to everyone. And it's just you know, like

927
00:47:25,680 --> 00:47:28,640
Speaker 3: just like stretching is the release. What we've discovered. I've

928
00:47:28,680 --> 00:47:31,879
Speaker 3: discovered that, like, you know, using voice as a release too.

929
00:47:32,239 --> 00:47:34,719
Speaker 3: If it's sometimes you got to cry, sometimes you gotta yell,

930
00:47:35,120 --> 00:47:38,239
Speaker 3: and sometimes as humans we forget like that moaning is

931
00:47:38,360 --> 00:47:41,960
Speaker 3: not just reserved for sex. It's you know, it's pleasurable,

932
00:47:42,000 --> 00:47:44,800
Speaker 3: like oh that's beautiful, for really beautiful?

933
00:47:45,360 --> 00:47:46,640
Speaker 4: Did you hear Yeah?

934
00:47:46,760 --> 00:47:48,000
Speaker 3: I did? Well did I didn't hear it?

935
00:47:48,080 --> 00:47:48,360
Speaker 7: But I was.

936
00:47:48,520 --> 00:47:49,120
Speaker 1: But when I saw you.

937
00:47:49,160 --> 00:47:50,640
Speaker 3: I was like, he needs to know about Mela mos.

938
00:47:50,680 --> 00:47:51,520
Speaker 4: I start at the end.

939
00:47:51,600 --> 00:47:54,480
Speaker 5: I started doing a Yeah, I told everybody to do

940
00:47:55,080 --> 00:47:57,640
Speaker 5: because od is one of my favorite I mean, besides

941
00:47:57,719 --> 00:48:01,000
Speaker 5: obviously is amazing, but ah.

942
00:48:02,680 --> 00:48:03,600
Speaker 4: Liberates myself.

943
00:48:05,320 --> 00:48:16,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, just like m hm oh ship yeah give.

944
00:48:22,640 --> 00:48:24,320
Speaker 7: Mm hmmmm.

945
00:48:28,320 --> 00:48:33,840
Speaker 4: H hey, honestly, let me be real man, it took me.

946
00:48:34,800 --> 00:48:35,520
Speaker 4: M m all right.

947
00:48:37,320 --> 00:48:40,200
Speaker 5: I've been like, I'm like thirty five, so I'm like,

948
00:48:41,280 --> 00:48:44,600
Speaker 5: I'm like twenty years into my sex career.

949
00:48:45,040 --> 00:48:49,120
Speaker 4: Mm hmm right, all right, and it took me.

950
00:48:52,239 --> 00:48:53,160
Speaker 3: I'm gonna call you.

951
00:48:55,200 --> 00:48:55,879
Speaker 1: We gotta get better.

952
00:48:55,960 --> 00:48:58,400
Speaker 3: We gotta shark it raises.

953
00:48:58,920 --> 00:48:59,120
Speaker 4: Oh.

954
00:48:59,680 --> 00:49:03,719
Speaker 5: So, what I've learned when I'm thinking about like all

955
00:49:03,760 --> 00:49:05,759
Speaker 5: my little phases, what I would do, what I was

956
00:49:05,840 --> 00:49:08,480
Speaker 5: into and stuff like that, what I'm learning right now

957
00:49:08,640 --> 00:49:12,040
Speaker 5: in my sex career is that, you know, this is

958
00:49:12,160 --> 00:49:13,839
Speaker 5: like my first in the last five years.

959
00:49:13,880 --> 00:49:16,520
Speaker 4: This is my first time really like letting the moan out.

960
00:49:16,800 --> 00:49:21,560
Speaker 3: Oh wow, they forget what we like that though.

961
00:49:22,080 --> 00:49:25,160
Speaker 5: Well, I learned that a couple of years ago because

962
00:49:25,320 --> 00:49:28,080
Speaker 5: my first experience she did something I was just like,

963
00:49:29,840 --> 00:49:30,560
Speaker 5: what are you doing?

964
00:49:30,600 --> 00:49:31,759
Speaker 3: I'm gonna have to know what that was?

965
00:49:32,840 --> 00:49:37,680
Speaker 5: Well, well, she just started, you know, doing things that

966
00:49:37,960 --> 00:49:41,239
Speaker 5: have never been done, you know, And I'm like, wait

967
00:49:41,280 --> 00:49:43,440
Speaker 5: a minute, I'm comfortable with you.

968
00:49:43,880 --> 00:49:45,920
Speaker 4: Why are you doing this? Why why do you want

969
00:49:45,960 --> 00:49:49,520
Speaker 4: to make me feel this good? You feel me? And

970
00:49:50,400 --> 00:49:53,040
Speaker 4: I learned about myself, like I heard, I heard my mom.

971
00:49:53,120 --> 00:49:55,759
Speaker 3: And then it's kind of a turn on, right, my

972
00:49:55,920 --> 00:49:57,080
Speaker 3: pleasure sounds.

973
00:49:56,840 --> 00:49:59,920
Speaker 4: Good like nam money. Yeah, you need to get in.

974
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:00,920
Speaker 4: You know, I could sing this.

975
00:50:01,239 --> 00:50:03,440
Speaker 3: You know you know I sing, so you know, can

976
00:50:03,480 --> 00:50:04,680
Speaker 3: you can you sing a month for us?

977
00:50:06,200 --> 00:50:10,239
Speaker 4: Absolutely not. It would be fake. It would be fair.

978
00:50:10,719 --> 00:50:11,319
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.

979
00:50:11,320 --> 00:50:12,640
Speaker 4: It would be fake, and I don't want to get

980
00:50:12,640 --> 00:50:13,080
Speaker 4: you all fake.

981
00:50:13,120 --> 00:50:16,080
Speaker 3: All right, those other mons were good. I appreciate you

982
00:50:16,200 --> 00:50:18,520
Speaker 3: for joining, Thank you for joining.

983
00:50:18,760 --> 00:50:21,480
Speaker 4: I'm a tinner. I'm a tinner, slightly an alto.

984
00:50:22,320 --> 00:50:25,719
Speaker 5: So ladies, hmm, if I'm speaking to you and you're

985
00:50:25,719 --> 00:50:28,879
Speaker 5: close to me, you're going to feel the viber.

986
00:50:30,880 --> 00:50:31,040
Speaker 4: With me.

987
00:50:32,120 --> 00:50:37,120
Speaker 3: I'm like, no, it's fucking true. I did with a

988
00:50:37,160 --> 00:50:39,200
Speaker 3: baritone voice. And I didn't even like him at first,

989
00:50:39,239 --> 00:50:42,480
Speaker 3: and he like whispered some ship. But it was only

990
00:50:42,520 --> 00:50:45,759
Speaker 3: when he got like in it, like yeah, literally I

991
00:50:45,920 --> 00:50:48,160
Speaker 3: was cool on him. I was like, I'm like, I'm cool.

992
00:50:48,880 --> 00:50:50,960
Speaker 3: He got like three inches from my bitch's ear level.

993
00:50:51,000 --> 00:50:53,080
Speaker 3: He was like the room number is. I was like,

994
00:50:53,239 --> 00:50:56,800
Speaker 3: what the fuck? I was like, yeah, I was like what.

995
00:50:59,280 --> 00:51:02,680
Speaker 3: I was like, Okay, that was a nigga that I

996
00:51:03,000 --> 00:51:07,759
Speaker 3: said was a back alley, dark dark way.

997
00:51:08,440 --> 00:51:09,920
Speaker 4: Everything's bright except this.

998
00:51:10,280 --> 00:51:14,040
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah that that voice. Yeah, yeah, I gotta stop

999
00:51:14,040 --> 00:51:15,440
Speaker 3: talking about him on my episodes.

1000
00:51:16,120 --> 00:51:20,040
Speaker 5: I had an impression. You know, shadow work is important too.

1001
00:51:20,400 --> 00:51:23,480
Speaker 5: You know a lot of people, you know, obviously we

1002
00:51:23,600 --> 00:51:26,640
Speaker 5: come up in religion and praying.

1003
00:51:26,360 --> 00:51:27,759
Speaker 4: And getting on your knees and praying.

1004
00:51:27,920 --> 00:51:30,720
Speaker 3: Did you grow up Christian or like in religious?

1005
00:51:30,760 --> 00:51:31,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, I grew up.

1006
00:51:32,400 --> 00:51:36,000
Speaker 5: My aunt had a church, she's a pastor, so yeah,

1007
00:51:36,040 --> 00:51:39,799
Speaker 5: I grew up Christian. And then my sister's dad, who

1008
00:51:39,920 --> 00:51:42,040
Speaker 5: is not my dad, my dad, but my mom my

1009
00:51:42,400 --> 00:51:43,600
Speaker 5: sisters we have different dads.

1010
00:51:44,320 --> 00:51:46,600
Speaker 4: He was seven day of minutes, so I was like

1011
00:51:47,320 --> 00:51:49,919
Speaker 4: ten eleven years old in a seven day minutes. Yeah,

1012
00:51:51,160 --> 00:51:53,800
Speaker 4: you know about the seven day that's yeah, yeah, I

1013
00:51:53,880 --> 00:51:55,520
Speaker 4: had to I had to have the experience.

1014
00:51:56,640 --> 00:51:58,200
Speaker 3: I was talking about that intent.

1015
00:51:59,520 --> 00:52:01,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I lost my originator.

1016
00:52:01,680 --> 00:52:04,640
Speaker 5: So it was like, yeah, Friday night to Saturday night,

1017
00:52:05,000 --> 00:52:07,960
Speaker 5: no nothing, you know, but we weren't doing any settings.

1018
00:52:08,040 --> 00:52:10,000
Speaker 4: So that was that was the part I couldn't respect.

1019
00:52:10,040 --> 00:52:12,120
Speaker 4: It was like, all right, we're gonna get us into this,

1020
00:52:12,320 --> 00:52:14,920
Speaker 4: like learn the keys. But it's just like, no, you

1021
00:52:15,000 --> 00:52:18,319
Speaker 4: can't play video games right now, you can't.

1022
00:52:18,360 --> 00:52:19,920
Speaker 3: You know, you can't do anything. Don't do anything.

1023
00:52:20,280 --> 00:52:22,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, So you know it's it's levels. You know.

1024
00:52:23,080 --> 00:52:26,799
Speaker 5: I grew up that way, but you know, through time

1025
00:52:26,920 --> 00:52:30,560
Speaker 5: I developed my own modalities because I realized this is

1026
00:52:31,160 --> 00:52:32,960
Speaker 5: this is all, this is all you know.

1027
00:52:33,160 --> 00:52:33,840
Speaker 4: What you make it?

1028
00:52:34,280 --> 00:52:36,440
Speaker 3: What are some of the modalities you've adopted to do

1029
00:52:36,560 --> 00:52:40,000
Speaker 3: shadow work? And what shadow work have you done? Like

1030
00:52:40,080 --> 00:52:42,640
Speaker 3: maybe there's a man man tuning in first.

1031
00:52:42,440 --> 00:52:43,560
Speaker 4: And foremost.

1032
00:52:45,080 --> 00:52:49,960
Speaker 5: Doing mushrooms, you feel me, I know on TV and

1033
00:52:50,040 --> 00:52:53,600
Speaker 5: the media, like maybe someone saw mushrooms like being done

1034
00:52:53,640 --> 00:52:56,960
Speaker 5: on TV or you know, but that's not the actual

1035
00:52:57,120 --> 00:52:58,120
Speaker 5: original purpose.

1036
00:52:58,239 --> 00:52:59,879
Speaker 4: You feel me like this comes from the earth.

1037
00:53:00,239 --> 00:53:03,400
Speaker 5: And every time I do mushrooms, it's shadow work because

1038
00:53:03,560 --> 00:53:06,399
Speaker 5: I'm presented with some ship I did or some ship

1039
00:53:06,719 --> 00:53:09,440
Speaker 5: that happened to me. You know, it's coming up in

1040
00:53:09,560 --> 00:53:12,279
Speaker 5: the trip and I'm like, oh my god, how did

1041
00:53:12,320 --> 00:53:14,320
Speaker 5: I feel? You know, a lot of times when we

1042
00:53:14,440 --> 00:53:18,520
Speaker 5: have trauma, we don't we put it to the side.

1043
00:53:19,280 --> 00:53:20,800
Speaker 3: A lot of times when you're black, you put it.

1044
00:53:20,920 --> 00:53:21,560
Speaker 4: You got on.

1045
00:53:23,440 --> 00:53:26,200
Speaker 1: Look, you got on the side, literally almost every time.

1046
00:53:26,280 --> 00:53:26,920
Speaker 1: Let's be honest.

1047
00:53:27,080 --> 00:53:29,600
Speaker 5: Okay, we have so much stuff on the side and

1048
00:53:29,719 --> 00:53:33,800
Speaker 5: we just moving and walking around and hey we lit no, no, no, no, no,

1049
00:53:33,960 --> 00:53:36,360
Speaker 5: you need to get that stuff on the side.

1050
00:53:36,840 --> 00:53:41,400
Speaker 4: So, you know, Ayuasca was a big, big help for me.

1051
00:53:42,960 --> 00:53:46,200
Speaker 3: Purging, you know, right in the ayahuasca experience.

1052
00:53:46,360 --> 00:53:50,640
Speaker 5: Yeah, the ayahuasca experience was amazing. It was life changing.

1053
00:53:51,360 --> 00:53:57,239
Speaker 5: Like I did it after after the tour, which the

1054
00:53:57,360 --> 00:54:01,040
Speaker 5: tour was so tough, you know for me because it's

1055
00:54:01,040 --> 00:54:03,520
Speaker 5: been a while since I've been in that world, and

1056
00:54:03,640 --> 00:54:06,560
Speaker 5: it was like revisiting some people from the past that

1057
00:54:06,680 --> 00:54:08,360
Speaker 5: I've moved on from, and.

1058
00:54:08,400 --> 00:54:11,080
Speaker 4: It was like, why are we doing this?

1059
00:54:11,360 --> 00:54:12,840
Speaker 3: What did you learn in that experience?

1060
00:54:13,560 --> 00:54:18,240
Speaker 5: I learned that you know, the past is the past,

1061
00:54:18,719 --> 00:54:23,520
Speaker 5: and however you choose to you know, you have to

1062
00:54:23,800 --> 00:54:25,960
Speaker 5: you have to decide how you're going to walk away.

1063
00:54:26,600 --> 00:54:28,360
Speaker 4: A lot of people when we have trauma and stuff

1064
00:54:28,400 --> 00:54:29,719
Speaker 4: happens to us, we like.

1065
00:54:30,200 --> 00:54:32,920
Speaker 5: Run away and we're like, oh this happened to me,

1066
00:54:33,200 --> 00:54:36,680
Speaker 5: and this is wrong, and now I'm here dealing with

1067
00:54:36,800 --> 00:54:39,800
Speaker 5: this what happened to me, But you have to approach

1068
00:54:39,880 --> 00:54:43,640
Speaker 5: it and be like, yo, that was wrong.

1069
00:54:44,239 --> 00:54:47,000
Speaker 4: This wasn't supposed to happen to me. And I know that,

1070
00:54:47,840 --> 00:54:49,279
Speaker 4: and now I'm carrying.

1071
00:54:49,040 --> 00:54:52,839
Speaker 5: On this is it is over, you know, And that tour,

1072
00:54:53,520 --> 00:54:56,160
Speaker 5: you know, really helped me deal and heal with that

1073
00:54:56,320 --> 00:54:57,480
Speaker 5: because you.

1074
00:54:57,520 --> 00:54:59,239
Speaker 4: Know, when I first started my career when I was

1075
00:54:59,280 --> 00:55:00,080
Speaker 4: sixteen sevent.

1076
00:55:00,040 --> 00:55:05,120
Speaker 5: Team I would suppose Orion, Orion's career was supposed to

1077
00:55:05,160 --> 00:55:08,480
Speaker 5: have the support of B two K's career, and because

1078
00:55:08,560 --> 00:55:11,600
Speaker 5: they didn't want they got jealous of me, you know,

1079
00:55:11,800 --> 00:55:14,560
Speaker 5: and we almost fought on my first performance.

1080
00:55:14,680 --> 00:55:18,560
Speaker 4: You know, that turned me off from doing everything I

1081
00:55:19,120 --> 00:55:23,960
Speaker 4: was destined to do. You know. So shit happens, but

1082
00:55:24,120 --> 00:55:25,560
Speaker 4: it's all about how you deal with it.

1083
00:55:25,680 --> 00:55:28,400
Speaker 5: And at that moment the tour, it was like okay.

1084
00:55:29,480 --> 00:55:31,360
Speaker 5: It was like, hey, you want to still be a

1085
00:55:31,480 --> 00:55:34,440
Speaker 5: victim or you want to be a victor. And you know,

1086
00:55:34,719 --> 00:55:36,879
Speaker 5: like I said, my dad his name is Victor. Shout

1087
00:55:36,920 --> 00:55:39,080
Speaker 5: out my dad, even though you know we're not you

1088
00:55:39,160 --> 00:55:41,480
Speaker 5: know what I'm saying where I wish we were, But

1089
00:55:42,520 --> 00:55:45,360
Speaker 5: my dad's name is Victor. So I would always be victorious.

1090
00:55:46,600 --> 00:55:49,239
Speaker 5: So after the tour, that was like, oh, this is

1091
00:55:49,280 --> 00:55:52,560
Speaker 5: my moment. Get back to yourself or Ryan enough daddy,

1092
00:55:52,800 --> 00:55:55,960
Speaker 5: that's what I call it, dadding. Yeah, enough dadding, you know,

1093
00:55:56,200 --> 00:55:58,759
Speaker 5: like get back to your purpose. Like my purpose wasn't

1094
00:55:58,800 --> 00:56:00,560
Speaker 5: to be a good dad. It's just part of who

1095
00:56:00,640 --> 00:56:03,399
Speaker 5: I am. But my purpose is to influence the world,

1096
00:56:03,800 --> 00:56:06,040
Speaker 5: to change the world. So I have to get back

1097
00:56:06,080 --> 00:56:09,359
Speaker 5: to my strongest modality, which is entertainment, which is being

1098
00:56:09,440 --> 00:56:10,120
Speaker 5: in front of people.

1099
00:56:10,680 --> 00:56:13,520
Speaker 4: And you know that just that tour was the catalyst

1100
00:56:13,600 --> 00:56:15,160
Speaker 4: for me because, like you.

1101
00:56:15,200 --> 00:56:17,440
Speaker 5: Said earlier, I felt a lot of guilt, you know,

1102
00:56:17,680 --> 00:56:21,080
Speaker 5: like because my original plan was to be like president

1103
00:56:21,160 --> 00:56:22,600
Speaker 5: in my daughter's life and all that.

1104
00:56:22,719 --> 00:56:25,080
Speaker 4: And you know, once my mom's.

1105
00:56:24,800 --> 00:56:28,400
Speaker 5: Career started kicking off and you know, settling, and you know,

1106
00:56:29,080 --> 00:56:31,239
Speaker 5: like I said, after seven, you know, she started being

1107
00:56:31,280 --> 00:56:33,680
Speaker 5: with mom more. You know, she started going, my daughter

1108
00:56:33,760 --> 00:56:36,800
Speaker 5: start having lady changes and going through things, and it's like,

1109
00:56:36,800 --> 00:56:38,600
Speaker 5: all right with your mom, I.

1110
00:56:40,200 --> 00:56:40,640
Speaker 4: Don't have it.

1111
00:56:40,920 --> 00:56:44,480
Speaker 3: Well, I don't have any I don't have this experience.

1112
00:56:44,520 --> 00:56:46,719
Speaker 4: You know, I can tell you this, but that ain't

1113
00:56:46,719 --> 00:56:49,040
Speaker 4: gonna work for you. It's gonna work for me. But

1114
00:56:50,200 --> 00:56:51,960
Speaker 4: you know, your mom needs to tell you this.

1115
00:56:52,840 --> 00:56:55,160
Speaker 5: Your aunt needs to tell you this, you know, because

1116
00:56:55,520 --> 00:56:58,040
Speaker 5: me being your dad, me telling you you know my dad,

1117
00:56:58,760 --> 00:56:59,359
Speaker 5: you know what I mean.

1118
00:56:59,840 --> 00:57:03,879
Speaker 4: But I understand that, so you know it all it all.

1119
00:57:04,000 --> 00:57:08,719
Speaker 3: You know, that's beautiful. I think sometimes with shadow work people, yeah,

1120
00:57:08,840 --> 00:57:11,880
Speaker 3: like you said, run away from it and just like

1121
00:57:12,000 --> 00:57:14,239
Speaker 3: the dark side of Like, I think shadow work is

1122
00:57:14,280 --> 00:57:17,880
Speaker 3: a lot of things dealing with trauma also, like you know,

1123
00:57:17,920 --> 00:57:19,840
Speaker 3: I always say, like you got to feed the beasts

1124
00:57:19,920 --> 00:57:22,040
Speaker 3: a little bit. Hello, Like like you said, you got

1125
00:57:22,120 --> 00:57:24,160
Speaker 3: to go to the you gotta do the we're all

1126
00:57:24,200 --> 00:57:26,480
Speaker 3: about the yingang and bad choices.

1127
00:57:27,160 --> 00:57:29,040
Speaker 4: You got to go to the fort a purpose.

1128
00:57:29,200 --> 00:57:33,040
Speaker 3: You can't have one but about that bad even like one.

1129
00:57:34,160 --> 00:57:37,760
Speaker 5: Like actually like solidifies the other when when you think

1130
00:57:37,760 --> 00:57:40,360
Speaker 5: about it in whole, it's like, yeah, this one does that,

1131
00:57:40,560 --> 00:57:41,320
Speaker 5: so it can.

1132
00:57:41,720 --> 00:57:45,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, but we're if we are really in true wholeness,

1133
00:57:45,840 --> 00:57:48,360
Speaker 3: then we are dabbling in both at you know, in

1134
00:57:48,560 --> 00:57:52,720
Speaker 3: balance really and you really can't even in like a

1135
00:57:52,840 --> 00:57:56,680
Speaker 3: lot of traditional religions Christianity and all the other ones whatever,

1136
00:57:57,040 --> 00:58:00,720
Speaker 3: there is this huge like don't do this, don't indulge

1137
00:58:00,760 --> 00:58:03,560
Speaker 3: in sex, don't indulge in drinking, but it's like, well

1138
00:58:03,880 --> 00:58:06,720
Speaker 3: that ship feels good. Sex feels good, pleasure feels good,

1139
00:58:07,080 --> 00:58:10,120
Speaker 3: moaning feels good, Being naked feels good. There are things

1140
00:58:10,160 --> 00:58:13,000
Speaker 3: that which are there's something there. There's something there, something

1141
00:58:13,080 --> 00:58:15,120
Speaker 3: that God or you can learn.

1142
00:58:15,440 --> 00:58:18,360
Speaker 4: That you can take away. Yes, yes, whether it's about

1143
00:58:18,360 --> 00:58:20,960
Speaker 4: yourself or whether it's about.

1144
00:58:21,080 --> 00:58:23,720
Speaker 3: The dark alley, darky down.

1145
00:58:24,640 --> 00:58:26,920
Speaker 4: Maybe you're in the dark alley, Like why do I

1146
00:58:27,080 --> 00:58:28,320
Speaker 4: like dark alleys? Yeah?

1147
00:58:28,600 --> 00:58:29,880
Speaker 3: Now I got to figure out what I got? Like

1148
00:58:30,080 --> 00:58:31,560
Speaker 3: how do I see lights in these dark allies?

1149
00:58:32,000 --> 00:58:33,760
Speaker 1: What am I am?

1150
00:58:33,800 --> 00:58:36,080
Speaker 3: I the dark alley? And when I'm indulging in this

1151
00:58:36,160 --> 00:58:37,320
Speaker 3: dark alley only because.

1152
00:58:37,080 --> 00:58:38,840
Speaker 4: They're not trying to light up some ship.

1153
00:58:40,480 --> 00:58:41,240
Speaker 3: That can't be lit?

1154
00:58:41,720 --> 00:58:43,320
Speaker 8: Or do I need to walk the funk away and

1155
00:58:43,520 --> 00:58:45,520
Speaker 8: you need to give with my tribe and stay lit

1156
00:58:45,800 --> 00:58:49,320
Speaker 8: exactly stop trying to you know, project in this person

1157
00:58:49,400 --> 00:58:50,920
Speaker 8: what I really need to do for myself.

1158
00:58:51,240 --> 00:58:54,760
Speaker 4: Yes, I really need to do for myself, you.

1159
00:58:54,800 --> 00:58:58,960
Speaker 5: Know, Like like I said when on this fatherhood journey,

1160
00:58:59,240 --> 00:59:01,680
Speaker 5: you know which, I didn't have a role map. You

1161
00:59:01,720 --> 00:59:03,480
Speaker 5: know what I'm saying, I'm not one of them dudes,

1162
00:59:03,600 --> 00:59:06,000
Speaker 5: Like I didn't have my dad, Like I have no

1163
00:59:06,120 --> 00:59:10,040
Speaker 5: one to fucking mirror. But people in my memory or

1164
00:59:10,120 --> 00:59:12,920
Speaker 5: people I've read about, or you know, Sean will Smith,

1165
00:59:13,040 --> 00:59:15,360
Speaker 5: you know, people like him, you know, like I have

1166
00:59:15,600 --> 00:59:19,040
Speaker 5: no none of that. Uncle Phil rest in peace, but

1167
00:59:19,280 --> 00:59:23,520
Speaker 5: like you know, so knowing that, it's just like, all right, man,

1168
00:59:23,640 --> 00:59:26,520
Speaker 5: how I wanted to be you feel me? I wanted

1169
00:59:26,600 --> 00:59:30,280
Speaker 5: to be where you know, you know, for Janey. You

1170
00:59:30,320 --> 00:59:32,680
Speaker 5: know what I'm saying, like there was certain comfort in

1171
00:59:32,760 --> 00:59:35,240
Speaker 5: her that I wanted her to have that I never

1172
00:59:35,320 --> 00:59:37,560
Speaker 5: seen my mom have. You feel me as far as

1173
00:59:37,680 --> 00:59:41,720
Speaker 5: like with working. You know, like my mom was a hairstylist,

1174
00:59:41,760 --> 00:59:44,040
Speaker 5: So it's like I grew up in the salon. I

1175
00:59:44,120 --> 00:59:46,880
Speaker 5: grew up around, you know, all of that shit that

1176
00:59:47,320 --> 00:59:50,800
Speaker 5: at it's intercelt, so you know I grew up around that,

1177
00:59:51,040 --> 00:59:51,440
Speaker 5: and you.

1178
00:59:51,480 --> 00:59:55,720
Speaker 3: Know, it's just like yeah, man, But before we started talking,

1179
00:59:56,240 --> 00:59:58,560
Speaker 3: when he came in, when you came in, you were saying, like,

1180
00:59:58,840 --> 01:00:02,280
Speaker 3: you know, I when you guys crept into our DM

1181
01:00:02,440 --> 01:00:04,960
Speaker 3: talking about I know all about good mom's bad choices,

1182
01:00:05,280 --> 01:00:06,560
Speaker 3: We're like, well, what the fuck do you mean you

1183
01:00:06,600 --> 01:00:09,680
Speaker 3: know about good mom's sad choices? But you were essentially

1184
01:00:09,840 --> 01:00:12,000
Speaker 3: you said you were raised by your mom primarily she

1185
01:00:12,200 --> 01:00:14,040
Speaker 3: you know, she worked in the Harislon. I'm sure she's

1186
01:00:14,080 --> 01:00:16,680
Speaker 3: working the fuck a lot to support her, you know,

1187
01:00:16,760 --> 01:00:20,280
Speaker 3: you and your your siblings. And she smoked weed, and

1188
01:00:20,680 --> 01:00:24,040
Speaker 3: from the community's standpoint, she was doing making bad choices.

1189
01:00:24,080 --> 01:00:28,480
Speaker 1: But then she created these I mean amazing me being.

1190
01:00:28,560 --> 01:00:31,600
Speaker 5: My brother, my older brother being born at sixteen when

1191
01:00:31,640 --> 01:00:34,080
Speaker 5: she was sixteen, Me being born at eighteen.

1192
01:00:34,640 --> 01:00:36,560
Speaker 4: That was already a bad choice.

1193
01:00:36,960 --> 01:00:39,840
Speaker 5: Not only for her, but like my grandma, Like you know,

1194
01:00:39,960 --> 01:00:42,880
Speaker 5: people were talking shit, y'all, what y'all doing.

1195
01:00:43,160 --> 01:00:46,120
Speaker 4: Y'all got these little dudes like what they gonna do?

1196
01:00:46,520 --> 01:00:49,400
Speaker 4: You feel me? And it's like, turns out we did.

1197
01:00:49,440 --> 01:00:50,960
Speaker 4: It's still a good jobs I was supposed to do.

1198
01:00:51,640 --> 01:00:52,120
Speaker 4: You feel me?

1199
01:00:52,280 --> 01:00:55,760
Speaker 5: And it turns out when when ladies like my mom

1200
01:00:55,840 --> 01:00:57,760
Speaker 5: and my nan and all them, when they got it,

1201
01:00:58,160 --> 01:00:58,520
Speaker 5: when they.

1202
01:00:58,520 --> 01:01:01,480
Speaker 4: Got it under control, you feel me. Look how it happens.

1203
01:01:01,520 --> 01:01:04,400
Speaker 5: Now. There are some things that I'm missing. There are

1204
01:01:04,440 --> 01:01:08,040
Speaker 5: some parts I'm missing You know that I was I

1205
01:01:08,240 --> 01:01:10,880
Speaker 5: wasn't allotted. You know that I'm gathering now that I

1206
01:01:11,040 --> 01:01:15,200
Speaker 5: seek now, you know, like you know, working out and

1207
01:01:15,440 --> 01:01:17,680
Speaker 5: like you know, going to the gym. It's like those

1208
01:01:17,720 --> 01:01:19,560
Speaker 5: are things I didn't do as a kid that I

1209
01:01:19,640 --> 01:01:22,840
Speaker 5: should have done if a mail was around me influencing that.

1210
01:01:23,040 --> 01:01:25,280
Speaker 4: But you know, I'm into it now and I have.

1211
01:01:25,520 --> 01:01:26,680
Speaker 4: You know, I got ogs. Now.

1212
01:01:26,840 --> 01:01:29,120
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna say, I think the ladies don't think

1213
01:01:29,240 --> 01:01:31,360
Speaker 1: that that's been missing. I think.

1214
01:01:32,920 --> 01:01:35,640
Speaker 3: I think you're doing just fine, that you've been doing

1215
01:01:35,840 --> 01:01:36,280
Speaker 3: just well.

1216
01:01:36,440 --> 01:01:41,040
Speaker 1: Okay, you know we saw the pictures. We saw the watermelons.

1217
01:01:42,200 --> 01:01:45,440
Speaker 4: Indeed, yes, indeed I love watermelons.

1218
01:01:45,600 --> 01:01:45,760
Speaker 5: You do.

1219
01:01:46,040 --> 01:01:48,320
Speaker 3: I mean, now you know we brought we didn't. We

1220
01:01:48,960 --> 01:01:53,000
Speaker 3: gifted Oriyan O'Ryan a couple of swetters. But yes, I

1221
01:01:53,120 --> 01:01:56,720
Speaker 3: want you to know that, my dear, we have one

1222
01:01:56,960 --> 01:01:57,680
Speaker 3: more gift for you.

1223
01:01:59,160 --> 01:02:00,920
Speaker 4: Y'all just surprises.

1224
01:02:02,120 --> 01:02:03,880
Speaker 1: When you come to the Good Mom Show, you get

1225
01:02:03,920 --> 01:02:05,400
Speaker 1: taken care of, you get nurtured.

1226
01:02:05,200 --> 01:02:07,000
Speaker 3: You do get nurtured. We're nurturing women.

1227
01:02:07,280 --> 01:02:11,520
Speaker 4: We're all making me feel like at home hanging out.

1228
01:02:12,440 --> 01:02:12,800
Speaker 4: Well we have.

1229
01:02:13,320 --> 01:02:15,320
Speaker 3: I also want to apologize to you. We usually smoke

1230
01:02:15,480 --> 01:02:19,640
Speaker 3: during our episodes, but HR is here today so we can't.

1231
01:02:19,760 --> 01:02:22,240
Speaker 3: We're going to smoke outside. But we do have another

1232
01:02:22,320 --> 01:02:25,880
Speaker 3: gift for you, and just just say right here, hold on,

1233
01:02:26,880 --> 01:02:27,280
Speaker 3: you're ready.

1234
01:02:29,120 --> 01:02:31,760
Speaker 4: My god, I was surprised this is why I love.

1235
01:02:34,320 --> 01:02:42,160
Speaker 3: Oh Lord, we have so Erica and I really thought

1236
01:02:42,200 --> 01:02:45,760
Speaker 3: this really through mostly Erica. Oh yeah, please get comfortable.

1237
01:02:46,720 --> 01:02:47,000
Speaker 4: Hold it.

1238
01:02:48,680 --> 01:02:50,920
Speaker 1: Need to get to hear God, God, damn it.

1239
01:02:51,200 --> 01:02:52,280
Speaker 3: Here, I'll hold we can hold it.

1240
01:02:52,640 --> 01:02:53,760
Speaker 4: Hold it, you can hold it.

1241
01:02:55,200 --> 01:02:55,880
Speaker 1: Okay, you hold it.

1242
01:02:56,400 --> 01:02:58,360
Speaker 3: I can actually assist you with this watermelon if you

1243
01:02:58,400 --> 01:03:01,040
Speaker 3: need to hold it and let me just yeah, actually,

1244
01:03:01,800 --> 01:03:03,360
Speaker 3: let me get a bigger one for you, because we

1245
01:03:03,520 --> 01:03:06,520
Speaker 3: heard from the instagrams that O Marion, I mean o'rian

1246
01:03:06,640 --> 01:03:13,360
Speaker 3: really loves watermelon. So ready oh oh oh.

1247
01:03:17,840 --> 01:03:18,320
Speaker 5: Oh wow.

1248
01:03:22,360 --> 01:03:25,160
Speaker 4: Mhmm, how is that? How is that?

1249
01:03:27,880 --> 01:03:28,200
Speaker 3: Go ahead?

1250
01:03:28,200 --> 01:03:30,760
Speaker 4: Go ahead, it's so juicy. Oh no, I know I

1251
01:03:30,840 --> 01:03:31,360
Speaker 4: got some drip.

1252
01:03:34,080 --> 01:03:40,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh oh my goodness.

1253
01:03:40,520 --> 01:03:41,760
Speaker 3: The instagram didn't lie.

1254
01:03:45,880 --> 01:03:46,080
Speaker 4: For you.

1255
01:03:47,080 --> 01:03:53,440
Speaker 1: Mhm all no, no, that's all.

1256
01:03:53,520 --> 01:03:55,160
Speaker 3: That's all natural, man, right.

1257
01:03:57,160 --> 01:03:59,720
Speaker 9: One thing I love is the juices. Baby, let the juice.

1258
01:03:59,760 --> 01:04:02,000
Speaker 9: Thot know, some of y'all be nervous about the juice

1259
01:04:02,000 --> 01:04:05,320
Speaker 9: is spraying us. Don't be nervous about that. Please let

1260
01:04:05,400 --> 01:04:08,160
Speaker 9: it go, Please let.

1261
01:04:08,160 --> 01:04:08,840
Speaker 1: It go on that.

1262
01:04:11,160 --> 01:04:17,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, don't breathe. You can't breathe now, you gotta.

1263
01:04:20,560 --> 01:04:30,320
Speaker 1: Wow, I think you.

1264
01:04:34,680 --> 01:04:35,400
Speaker 3: Let me try to.

1265
01:04:35,400 --> 01:04:38,480
Speaker 4: See hold on how much motel milion.

1266
01:04:38,560 --> 01:04:40,520
Speaker 3: Y'all, we got another one.

1267
01:04:42,240 --> 01:04:46,600
Speaker 4: Y'all got use if you put the ten on it,

1268
01:04:46,680 --> 01:04:47,560
Speaker 4: I can show y'all.

1269
01:04:47,920 --> 01:04:48,560
Speaker 3: A little spice.

1270
01:04:52,000 --> 01:04:52,200
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1271
01:04:55,880 --> 01:05:00,160
Speaker 3: Oh lord, you know we discovered on arbitree. Honestly, Ti there,

1272
01:05:00,320 --> 01:05:02,480
Speaker 3: I'm like, how do we make women feel safe? She's

1273
01:05:02,520 --> 01:05:04,200
Speaker 3: like I was like, I was like, we should feed

1274
01:05:04,280 --> 01:05:08,680
Speaker 3: them fruit. I'm going to feed my friends.

1275
01:05:10,160 --> 01:05:16,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, don't give me no see me.

1276
01:05:19,560 --> 01:05:21,360
Speaker 3: Okay, it's okay, so what but this is this is

1277
01:05:21,400 --> 01:05:23,040
Speaker 3: how you This is how you cultivate friendships.

1278
01:05:23,240 --> 01:05:29,080
Speaker 5: Absolutely, and we're connected through the fruit and the juices.

1279
01:05:29,200 --> 01:05:32,840
Speaker 5: Okay and the juice and Ma and Mama. See this

1280
01:05:33,000 --> 01:05:35,200
Speaker 5: is what we do in mama's you know, big Mama.

1281
01:05:35,560 --> 01:05:38,120
Speaker 4: Thank you. We love you, big Mama because you know

1282
01:05:38,200 --> 01:05:40,000
Speaker 4: you allow us to come together.

1283
01:05:39,840 --> 01:05:40,280
Speaker 1: In this way.

1284
01:05:40,960 --> 01:05:41,640
Speaker 3: This is beautiful.

1285
01:05:41,680 --> 01:05:43,400
Speaker 1: While let me tell you, I don't think we've ever

1286
01:05:43,440 --> 01:05:44,040
Speaker 1: eaten on the show.

1287
01:05:44,080 --> 01:05:44,479
Speaker 3: We haven't.

1288
01:05:46,200 --> 01:05:48,120
Speaker 4: Can I get you? Let me finish?

1289
01:05:48,320 --> 01:05:50,000
Speaker 3: Go ahead, we have more for you. Don't worry.

1290
01:05:50,040 --> 01:05:50,440
Speaker 1: There's more of.

1291
01:05:53,800 --> 01:05:58,160
Speaker 4: Mm hmm. So you can't leave. You can't leave the

1292
01:05:58,320 --> 01:06:00,800
Speaker 4: rhymee my guy, my god.

1293
01:06:00,880 --> 01:06:03,320
Speaker 5: When you're done with that, Ryan, it gotta look like

1294
01:06:03,400 --> 01:06:06,439
Speaker 5: a hello like a happy face looks happy.

1295
01:06:08,480 --> 01:06:13,040
Speaker 3: Oh oh oh Lord is right Hollo.

1296
01:06:13,760 --> 01:06:16,760
Speaker 1: I'm I'm so happy you picked a good Yeah.

1297
01:06:17,080 --> 01:06:20,600
Speaker 3: I got these motherfucker watermelons yesterday, I said Erica had

1298
01:06:20,640 --> 01:06:20,959
Speaker 3: the idea.

1299
01:06:21,080 --> 01:06:23,280
Speaker 4: Wait, first of all, was the first watermelon I've had

1300
01:06:23,320 --> 01:06:30,160
Speaker 4: this year? What first one this year? Be gone? And

1301
01:06:30,280 --> 01:06:32,920
Speaker 4: you know this cherry you just reminded me.

1302
01:06:33,000 --> 01:06:38,640
Speaker 5: I gotta go see my man Sam's watermelons on Normandy Engage.

1303
01:06:38,960 --> 01:06:39,640
Speaker 3: He's the best ones.

1304
01:06:39,800 --> 01:06:42,439
Speaker 4: It's in the hoods in l A. But I'm telling y'all,

1305
01:06:42,440 --> 01:06:44,120
Speaker 4: if y'all want you ever tried to yellow.

1306
01:06:43,920 --> 01:06:45,400
Speaker 3: Water can be come with yellow.

1307
01:06:45,840 --> 01:06:46,640
Speaker 1: That's how I trip.

1308
01:06:46,760 --> 01:06:51,760
Speaker 5: Yes, yellow watermelon, orange watermelon, and watermelon with seeds.

1309
01:06:51,840 --> 01:06:56,880
Speaker 4: Okay, we need to say from Texas extinct, Yes, from Texas.

1310
01:06:56,960 --> 01:06:59,960
Speaker 5: So you know, yeah, we gotta, yeah, we gotta plany

1311
01:07:00,160 --> 01:07:01,680
Speaker 5: that out, you know what I mean, Because we gotta

1312
01:07:01,880 --> 01:07:03,560
Speaker 5: we gotta do a watermelon feast.

1313
01:07:06,280 --> 01:07:08,120
Speaker 4: You know what I mean? Just everybody just.

1314
01:07:09,920 --> 01:07:15,320
Speaker 3: Rather good friends after dark? That's interesting after dark after yeah, well,

1315
01:07:15,360 --> 01:07:16,280
Speaker 3: you know we do well.

1316
01:07:16,320 --> 01:07:22,920
Speaker 5: See, I gotta I got a freaky Friday playlist, we see, Okay,

1317
01:07:23,080 --> 01:07:24,600
Speaker 5: now see I love the way y'all think.

1318
01:07:24,720 --> 01:07:27,400
Speaker 4: See ladies. I love the way y'all think.

1319
01:07:27,800 --> 01:07:31,480
Speaker 3: May come the Patreon for some exclusive watermelon content.

1320
01:07:31,600 --> 01:07:36,040
Speaker 4: Okay, you know, because I could do this, but I

1321
01:07:36,120 --> 01:07:36,680
Speaker 4: think they would.

1322
01:07:37,200 --> 01:07:39,640
Speaker 3: I think we're good. I mean, ladies, I don't know.

1323
01:07:39,680 --> 01:07:41,240
Speaker 1: If you see this plate, we can we can all

1324
01:07:41,320 --> 01:07:41,480
Speaker 1: do that.

1325
01:07:41,640 --> 01:07:44,440
Speaker 5: We can do with the shirts off, you know, you know,

1326
01:07:44,640 --> 01:07:47,160
Speaker 5: because honestly, it's a lot of fellows out there. They

1327
01:07:47,200 --> 01:07:51,680
Speaker 5: don't know how to properly, you know, take that watermelon

1328
01:07:51,760 --> 01:07:54,000
Speaker 5: and get it right on in. I think I think

1329
01:07:54,000 --> 01:07:57,040
Speaker 5: they need storial see hold on, see when you gotta this,

1330
01:07:57,200 --> 01:07:58,800
Speaker 5: this is this is a small one. So you want

1331
01:07:58,840 --> 01:08:01,600
Speaker 5: to finish this in Like I said, okay, you know

1332
01:08:01,680 --> 01:08:03,400
Speaker 5: what I mean, because you need to let her know, like, hey,

1333
01:08:03,760 --> 01:08:05,240
Speaker 5: you're gonna you're gonna go first.

1334
01:08:10,080 --> 01:08:13,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, got a little Ryan right there. I went a

1335
01:08:13,560 --> 01:08:14,200
Speaker 4: little too Haim.

1336
01:08:14,240 --> 01:08:16,519
Speaker 5: I'm sorry, baby, but I have to let you know,

1337
01:08:16,720 --> 01:08:20,400
Speaker 5: like listen, you're gonna be good, and you're gonna go first,

1338
01:08:20,439 --> 01:08:22,200
Speaker 5: and I'm gonna be right behind you.

1339
01:08:22,280 --> 01:08:22,559
Speaker 1: Baby.

1340
01:08:22,680 --> 01:08:25,839
Speaker 3: You know, there's something so erotic and pleasurable and beautiful

1341
01:08:25,960 --> 01:08:31,800
Speaker 3: about just you know, being one with the earth, divine, feminine, divine, masculine,

1342
01:08:31,920 --> 01:08:32,960
Speaker 3: and the mama patcha.

1343
01:08:33,120 --> 01:08:33,400
Speaker 5: This is.

1344
01:08:33,760 --> 01:08:37,720
Speaker 3: This goes to show how beautiful just friendship is. Absolutely

1345
01:08:38,920 --> 01:08:39,439
Speaker 3: friendship is.

1346
01:08:40,160 --> 01:08:43,639
Speaker 4: I don't know how y'all knew. I ain't nothing today,

1347
01:08:44,360 --> 01:08:45,120
Speaker 4: I ain't had a thing.

1348
01:08:45,640 --> 01:08:46,360
Speaker 1: I'm so glad we could.

1349
01:08:46,680 --> 01:08:50,200
Speaker 5: And that was the perfect first meal of the day.

1350
01:08:50,400 --> 01:08:52,120
Speaker 5: And I mean I don't I don't wake up and

1351
01:08:52,200 --> 01:08:52,800
Speaker 5: like go to food.

1352
01:08:52,840 --> 01:08:54,960
Speaker 3: That's it's a good way to drink.

1353
01:08:56,360 --> 01:08:59,760
Speaker 4: That was amazing. We have we have one of those

1354
01:08:59,760 --> 01:09:02,880
Speaker 4: free to go home with thinking about it all night.

1355
01:09:03,080 --> 01:09:07,320
Speaker 3: Oh good, because so we'll we That was a delicious.

1356
01:09:07,520 --> 01:09:11,679
Speaker 4: I didn't even going to be presented with amazing.

1357
01:09:12,920 --> 01:09:14,880
Speaker 3: Well, we bear gifts, you know, good good moms are

1358
01:09:14,920 --> 01:09:18,760
Speaker 3: full of surprises. Keep hanging out, you know, you never

1359
01:09:18,800 --> 01:09:19,840
Speaker 3: know what you're gonna get over here.

1360
01:09:19,960 --> 01:09:20,559
Speaker 1: Always invited.

1361
01:09:22,800 --> 01:09:24,840
Speaker 3: I was Erica was telling me we should get a

1362
01:09:24,840 --> 01:09:27,759
Speaker 3: watermelon on like my carf on the phone on speaker.

1363
01:09:27,880 --> 01:09:29,639
Speaker 3: My daughter was a backseat, so she was like later

1364
01:09:29,720 --> 01:09:32,879
Speaker 3: she was like, mom, you know when you have a cabation.

1365
01:09:33,160 --> 01:09:34,720
Speaker 3: I was like, what she's like when you like when

1366
01:09:34,760 --> 01:09:36,519
Speaker 3: someone comes on the show. I was like, oh, guest,

1367
01:09:36,600 --> 01:09:38,200
Speaker 3: She's like, yeah, you know how you said you're gonna

1368
01:09:38,200 --> 01:09:39,960
Speaker 3: eat watermelon. I was like yeah, She's like, that's a

1369
01:09:40,000 --> 01:09:42,400
Speaker 3: good idea because watermelon is delicious.

1370
01:09:43,840 --> 01:09:45,120
Speaker 5: I was like it is.

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01:09:45,479 --> 01:09:47,680
Speaker 3: I was like, it is a good idea. And you're

1372
01:09:47,800 --> 01:09:51,280
Speaker 3: full of water and it's full of water and water

1373
01:09:52,960 --> 01:09:55,639
Speaker 3: and women make women and men make life. We create life.

1374
01:09:55,680 --> 01:10:00,160
Speaker 4: We hold life, you know, and you know, wh his

1375
01:10:00,240 --> 01:10:01,320
Speaker 4: life save the soil.

1376
01:10:01,600 --> 01:10:01,760
Speaker 1: You know.

1377
01:10:01,880 --> 01:10:03,800
Speaker 3: Are you like a vegetarian or vegan? Are you like

1378
01:10:03,960 --> 01:10:05,719
Speaker 3: very your diet?

1379
01:10:05,880 --> 01:10:09,599
Speaker 4: Like I'll say this, I am.

1380
01:10:09,760 --> 01:10:10,040
Speaker 7: I am.

1381
01:10:10,760 --> 01:10:13,920
Speaker 5: I'm like eighty percent plant based, but because I have

1382
01:10:14,920 --> 01:10:18,439
Speaker 5: friends that are not, you know, I don't make my

1383
01:10:18,600 --> 01:10:21,080
Speaker 5: friends feel weird about the choices.

1384
01:10:20,840 --> 01:10:24,040
Speaker 4: That they choose, you know. Like I have a best friend,

1385
01:10:24,120 --> 01:10:26,880
Speaker 4: what up Joe? He loves steak, you know, he loves

1386
01:10:26,960 --> 01:10:31,000
Speaker 4: waggy steak. And I'm like, you know, but if we're

1387
01:10:31,040 --> 01:10:33,880
Speaker 4: going to dinner, I'm not gonna be I don't want

1388
01:10:33,920 --> 01:10:35,519
Speaker 4: to go there. It's a steakhouse. Like what am I

1389
01:10:35,600 --> 01:10:37,960
Speaker 4: going to eat? Sides? Yeah?

1390
01:10:38,160 --> 01:10:41,599
Speaker 5: Yeah, but I'm gonna eat some size for my bro tonight,

1391
01:10:41,680 --> 01:10:47,360
Speaker 5: you know, because you know, because that's what you do

1392
01:10:47,479 --> 01:10:48,280
Speaker 5: when you love people.

1393
01:10:48,439 --> 01:10:52,080
Speaker 4: You know, your compromise. So I'm I'm plant based, but

1394
01:10:52,400 --> 01:11:00,160
Speaker 4: I compromise for those hard I'm a video.

1395
01:11:01,520 --> 01:11:03,840
Speaker 3: Those dipping tacos I know, did me.

1396
01:11:04,640 --> 01:11:09,000
Speaker 5: Even though some really good like Jackfruit, I know, Oh

1397
01:11:09,080 --> 01:11:11,840
Speaker 5: my god, yo what they're doing with jack Fruit's.

1398
01:11:13,240 --> 01:11:14,960
Speaker 3: But you know, it also depends on your bood type.

1399
01:11:14,960 --> 01:11:17,439
Speaker 3: Sometimes certain blood types need me like I'm an a

1400
01:11:17,560 --> 01:11:17,960
Speaker 3: b plan.

1401
01:11:18,200 --> 01:11:18,960
Speaker 4: I need to do that.

1402
01:11:19,360 --> 01:11:22,000
Speaker 5: I heard it's it's a blood type test something you

1403
01:11:22,080 --> 01:11:23,519
Speaker 5: can do to Yeah, I.

1404
01:11:23,560 --> 01:11:24,240
Speaker 4: Need to get into that.

1405
01:11:24,840 --> 01:11:26,439
Speaker 3: The conspiracy part of me was like, don't tell your

1406
01:11:26,439 --> 01:11:31,200
Speaker 3: blood type on the podcast. The government JJ blipped.

1407
01:11:30,920 --> 01:11:35,960
Speaker 4: That out, you know, but yeah, meet you up about that.

1408
01:11:36,080 --> 01:11:38,880
Speaker 3: Okay, good, Yeah, I'll help you. I'll lead you need,

1409
01:11:39,920 --> 01:11:42,479
Speaker 3: lead you to your blood type diet or wherever wherever

1410
01:11:42,560 --> 01:11:47,439
Speaker 3: you need me to take it, because you know whatever,

1411
01:11:47,479 --> 01:11:51,160
Speaker 3: I'll take it. Oh my god, me and him are

1412
01:11:51,280 --> 01:11:53,400
Speaker 3: literally about to kill this fucking bottle.

1413
01:11:53,080 --> 01:11:53,559
Speaker 1: Of bell air.

1414
01:11:55,360 --> 01:12:00,519
Speaker 3: Here's the watermelon champagne and Wednesday Friday and hump Day

1415
01:12:03,200 --> 01:12:06,800
Speaker 3: to hump Day. Yes, okay, Well, at the beginning of

1416
01:12:06,840 --> 01:12:09,439
Speaker 3: the show, we asked you to pull a card, and

1417
01:12:09,920 --> 01:12:11,360
Speaker 3: it's just like the witchy bitch that I.

1418
01:12:11,439 --> 01:12:12,240
Speaker 4: Am, I.

1419
01:12:13,840 --> 01:12:16,520
Speaker 3: Have pulled the Emperor card and shout out to Mahogany

1420
01:12:16,560 --> 01:12:20,120
Speaker 3: Tiaro for having the best black and brown cards on

1421
01:12:20,200 --> 01:12:22,280
Speaker 3: the in the game. But when I pulled this card

1422
01:12:22,360 --> 01:12:25,360
Speaker 3: and we looked at it, I said, huh, that looks

1423
01:12:26,080 --> 01:12:29,800
Speaker 3: like you. Well, I said, well, I'll be damn let

1424
01:12:29,840 --> 01:12:34,639
Speaker 3: me say the Emperor right, it just looks like it's

1425
01:12:34,680 --> 01:12:36,400
Speaker 3: like him sitting in there. It does, it does.

1426
01:12:37,760 --> 01:12:38,040
Speaker 4: Start.

1427
01:12:39,400 --> 01:12:42,520
Speaker 3: So let's let's see. Let us know if this resonates

1428
01:12:42,560 --> 01:12:47,880
Speaker 3: with you. Okay, so upright. It means authority, establishment, structure,

1429
01:12:48,080 --> 01:12:53,679
Speaker 3: father figure huh. As the father figure of the Tarot tech,

1430
01:12:53,960 --> 01:12:57,240
Speaker 3: the Emperor suggests that you are adopting this fatherly role

1431
01:12:57,360 --> 01:13:00,680
Speaker 3: regardless of whether you are male or female, providing for

1432
01:13:00,800 --> 01:13:03,920
Speaker 3: your family and protecting and defending your loved ones. You

1433
01:13:04,040 --> 01:13:07,000
Speaker 3: may be the breadwinner or the rock for those who

1434
01:13:07,120 --> 01:13:13,040
Speaker 3: rely on your stability and security. Similarly, the Emperor represents

1435
01:13:13,080 --> 01:13:17,599
Speaker 3: a powerful leader who demands respect and authority. Status, power

1436
01:13:17,760 --> 01:13:21,080
Speaker 3: and recognition and are essential to you, and you are

1437
01:13:21,120 --> 01:13:23,799
Speaker 3: the most comfortable in leadership role where you can command

1438
01:13:23,880 --> 01:13:26,880
Speaker 3: and direct others. As a leader, you rule with a

1439
01:13:27,040 --> 01:13:29,640
Speaker 3: firm but fair hand. You have a clear vision of

1440
01:13:29,720 --> 01:13:32,439
Speaker 3: what you want to create, and you organize those around

1441
01:13:32,479 --> 01:13:35,519
Speaker 3: you to manifest your goal. You listen to the advice

1442
01:13:35,600 --> 01:13:38,000
Speaker 3: of others, but you prefer to have the final say

1443
01:13:39,320 --> 01:13:43,760
Speaker 3: com wow. He literally said, this conflict doesn't scare you,

1444
01:13:44,600 --> 01:13:46,880
Speaker 3: and you won't hesitate to use your power to protect

1445
01:13:47,000 --> 01:13:49,960
Speaker 3: those that you care about, and in return, those people

1446
01:13:50,000 --> 01:13:52,719
Speaker 3: will repay you with their loyalty and respect you deserve.

1447
01:13:53,320 --> 01:13:56,320
Speaker 3: Claim your authority as leader and influencer, and don't let

1448
01:13:56,360 --> 01:14:00,800
Speaker 3: others put you down. The Emperor reflects am bound by

1449
01:14:00,880 --> 01:14:04,519
Speaker 3: rules and regulations. You create law and order by applying

1450
01:14:04,600 --> 01:14:07,479
Speaker 3: principles or guidelines to a specific situation, even if they're

1451
01:14:07,520 --> 01:14:11,400
Speaker 3: your own. Create calm out of chaos by breaking down

1452
01:14:11,479 --> 01:14:14,200
Speaker 3: any problem into parts and then mapping out the actions

1453
01:14:14,240 --> 01:14:17,720
Speaker 3: you need to take to resolve it. Be systematic, strategic,

1454
01:14:17,840 --> 01:14:20,080
Speaker 3: and highly organized in your approach, and stick to your

1455
01:14:20,160 --> 01:14:25,880
Speaker 3: plan until the end. It also signifies world knowledge and expertise.

1456
01:14:26,200 --> 01:14:28,320
Speaker 3: Through the course of your life, you have gained valuable

1457
01:14:28,400 --> 01:14:33,479
Speaker 3: wisdom and life experience, and now you enjoy offering guidance, advice,

1458
01:14:33,920 --> 01:14:36,160
Speaker 3: and direction to someone who might benefit from it.

1459
01:14:36,920 --> 01:14:37,839
Speaker 1: Retreat leader.

1460
01:14:41,640 --> 01:14:43,800
Speaker 3: The Good Vibe or treat men the Good Vibe treat

1461
01:14:43,840 --> 01:14:44,080
Speaker 3: for men.

1462
01:14:44,160 --> 01:14:47,000
Speaker 5: Retreat leaders that the Emperor cards were just describing me

1463
01:14:47,240 --> 01:14:50,760
Speaker 5: in my life to the t and you know that's energy.

1464
01:14:50,880 --> 01:14:52,719
Speaker 5: You know, like how you guys were talking about earlier,

1465
01:14:53,240 --> 01:14:55,840
Speaker 5: that's manifestation that I mean, we all align right now

1466
01:14:55,960 --> 01:14:59,479
Speaker 5: because you know, when you guys hit me up, I

1467
01:14:59,640 --> 01:15:01,960
Speaker 5: was just like, like, you know, I'm I'm in a

1468
01:15:02,000 --> 01:15:04,640
Speaker 5: space right now with my career and with all this,

1469
01:15:04,960 --> 01:15:08,080
Speaker 5: like you know, my plan was, you know, like I

1470
01:15:08,160 --> 01:15:10,280
Speaker 5: said earlier, to be present, you know, and now that

1471
01:15:10,400 --> 01:15:13,880
Speaker 5: my daughter is like a teenager not worried about me,

1472
01:15:15,040 --> 01:15:16,560
Speaker 5: got our own things.

1473
01:15:16,320 --> 01:15:20,120
Speaker 4: Going on, I'm like, you know, what, perfect time to

1474
01:15:20,200 --> 01:15:20,800
Speaker 4: get back in it.

1475
01:15:23,080 --> 01:15:26,320
Speaker 5: So, uh, you know, when you guys hit me like

1476
01:15:26,880 --> 01:15:29,240
Speaker 5: and I did a little research on y'all, it just

1477
01:15:29,479 --> 01:15:32,560
Speaker 5: was it was perfect. And when you pick that, I

1478
01:15:32,680 --> 01:15:35,320
Speaker 5: always get the Emperor card, you know, I you know

1479
01:15:36,439 --> 01:15:40,479
Speaker 5: I do. I definitely dabble. So you know that was

1480
01:15:40,560 --> 01:15:43,439
Speaker 5: confirmation for me too that I'm where I need to be.

1481
01:15:44,000 --> 01:15:46,280
Speaker 4: You guys are a part of my dream.

1482
01:15:46,400 --> 01:15:49,120
Speaker 5: Thank you for being a part of my dream, making

1483
01:15:49,200 --> 01:15:51,639
Speaker 5: me making me feel like, you know, yeah, I'm going

1484
01:15:51,680 --> 01:15:52,439
Speaker 5: in the right direction.

1485
01:15:52,560 --> 01:15:54,800
Speaker 4: You guys are my confirmation for that I'm going in

1486
01:15:54,880 --> 01:15:55,639
Speaker 4: the right directions.

1487
01:15:56,240 --> 01:15:57,439
Speaker 1: I'm happy, We're happy to be that.

1488
01:15:58,760 --> 01:16:03,840
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, what made you say yes, were you like, well,

1489
01:16:05,080 --> 01:16:05,560
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1490
01:16:06,439 --> 01:16:10,800
Speaker 5: I felt like I met you before, I know you

1491
01:16:11,760 --> 01:16:16,960
Speaker 5: somewhere or maybe you know right, So I was just like,

1492
01:16:17,040 --> 01:16:18,679
Speaker 5: wait a minute, I think you know my cousin.

1493
01:16:19,600 --> 01:16:20,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know.

1494
01:16:20,400 --> 01:16:23,080
Speaker 5: I'm like, this is a familiar person, but not that

1495
01:16:23,280 --> 01:16:26,680
Speaker 5: familiar like my name and you know, but I'm like,

1496
01:16:26,800 --> 01:16:28,479
Speaker 5: this is a familiar person. So I just was like,

1497
01:16:29,200 --> 01:16:31,360
Speaker 5: you know, I get dms all the time. The dms

1498
01:16:31,439 --> 01:16:34,560
Speaker 5: go crazy. I'm sure I was like this, but I

1499
01:16:34,760 --> 01:16:37,560
Speaker 5: like to curate the things that I'm involved in, like

1500
01:16:37,760 --> 01:16:40,400
Speaker 5: I like them to be about what I'm about because

1501
01:16:40,439 --> 01:16:43,920
Speaker 5: I don't have management and don't have you know, I.

1502
01:16:43,960 --> 01:16:46,519
Speaker 4: Got a little publicism and you feel me. But my

1503
01:16:46,720 --> 01:16:49,720
Speaker 4: career is run by me. Everything I do. I like

1504
01:16:50,200 --> 01:16:51,599
Speaker 4: the cars, I have the last say.

1505
01:16:51,680 --> 01:16:53,439
Speaker 5: So, so if I don't want to do it is

1506
01:16:53,479 --> 01:16:55,760
Speaker 5: because if it's not done, it's because I didn't want

1507
01:16:55,760 --> 01:16:55,920
Speaker 5: to do it.

1508
01:16:56,439 --> 01:16:56,600
Speaker 4: You know.

1509
01:16:56,680 --> 01:16:58,600
Speaker 5: If it's because it's done, it because I wanted to

1510
01:16:58,760 --> 01:17:02,120
Speaker 5: do it. So, you know, thank you guys for having

1511
01:17:02,200 --> 01:17:05,840
Speaker 5: me and considering me, thinking about me to you know,

1512
01:17:06,000 --> 01:17:10,080
Speaker 5: be here, because this was like you got I mean.

1513
01:17:10,000 --> 01:17:12,200
Speaker 4: I told my mom, you know, I told I'm like, Mom,

1514
01:17:12,240 --> 01:17:19,280
Speaker 4: you gotta check this out about listen, I'll be chiefing

1515
01:17:19,320 --> 01:17:19,679
Speaker 4: with Mama.

1516
01:17:19,840 --> 01:17:22,679
Speaker 3: That makes us really feel special because someone told someone

1517
01:17:22,760 --> 01:17:24,559
Speaker 3: told eric and that we're not the type of women

1518
01:17:24,640 --> 01:17:27,280
Speaker 3: that would take you take home your mom. The fact

1519
01:17:27,280 --> 01:17:29,320
Speaker 3: that you told your mom about us, we really needed.

1520
01:17:29,080 --> 01:17:29,439
Speaker 1: To hear that.

1521
01:17:30,520 --> 01:17:33,680
Speaker 4: Little do they know more than the mama's back in

1522
01:17:33,760 --> 01:17:35,599
Speaker 4: the day. They know what time it is. They ain't

1523
01:17:35,720 --> 01:17:37,479
Speaker 4: corny and cookie cutter.

1524
01:17:37,800 --> 01:17:40,960
Speaker 3: Get me, You're a product of a good mom, bad choices.

1525
01:17:41,320 --> 01:17:43,760
Speaker 4: Okay, so happens this is this.

1526
01:17:45,439 --> 01:17:48,760
Speaker 5: A good mom do her thing and allow her to,

1527
01:17:49,080 --> 01:17:51,880
Speaker 5: you know, manifest her ideas, and you believe in her.

1528
01:17:51,960 --> 01:17:54,240
Speaker 5: Because I'm gonna tell you all right now. Like I

1529
01:17:54,320 --> 01:17:58,920
Speaker 5: said before, I can remember I can recall as a kid,

1530
01:17:59,360 --> 01:18:01,280
Speaker 5: people telling them my mom, you know, you know you'd

1531
01:18:01,280 --> 01:18:04,400
Speaker 5: be sneaking around you listening to conversation ship. I can recall,

1532
01:18:04,520 --> 01:18:06,800
Speaker 5: you know, some of my my grandma's friends and all

1533
01:18:06,840 --> 01:18:09,240
Speaker 5: of them saying, my mom, you know, we wasn't gonna

1534
01:18:09,240 --> 01:18:09,639
Speaker 5: be nothing.

1535
01:18:10,080 --> 01:18:11,120
Speaker 4: We was gonna be in jail.

1536
01:18:11,439 --> 01:18:14,920
Speaker 5: Wenna, have all these kids all of that ship. Look

1537
01:18:15,000 --> 01:18:19,000
Speaker 5: at me now you feel me influencing your little grandson.

1538
01:18:19,479 --> 01:18:22,479
Speaker 5: He's looking at me now, So you need to watch yourself,

1539
01:18:22,680 --> 01:18:25,400
Speaker 5: you feel me, because you never know who's gonna come out.

1540
01:18:25,640 --> 01:18:29,280
Speaker 5: You know, victorious, you know what I mean. And you

1541
01:18:29,360 --> 01:18:31,760
Speaker 5: know through my past and through what I've gone through,

1542
01:18:32,560 --> 01:18:35,040
Speaker 5: you know, I'm glad my mom and then was able

1543
01:18:35,120 --> 01:18:38,440
Speaker 5: to display the strength for me to get through things without.

1544
01:18:38,200 --> 01:18:40,720
Speaker 4: You know what I mean, without taking too much of

1545
01:18:41,040 --> 01:18:42,000
Speaker 4: what it was.

1546
01:18:42,200 --> 01:18:42,720
Speaker 1: Well, I want to.

1547
01:18:42,680 --> 01:18:45,320
Speaker 2: Personally thank your mother. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

1548
01:18:45,880 --> 01:18:48,759
Speaker 2: Her name is may No Leslie, Leslie, Thanks Leslie.

1549
01:18:49,120 --> 01:18:51,439
Speaker 3: I want to last thing I want to ask you

1550
01:18:51,800 --> 01:18:54,200
Speaker 3: because you've had like this experience with your mom and

1551
01:18:54,280 --> 01:18:56,479
Speaker 3: you're obviously on your own journey and you're involved, and

1552
01:18:56,560 --> 01:18:59,040
Speaker 3: you're a dad and you've been a young dad. How

1553
01:18:59,120 --> 01:19:01,320
Speaker 3: have you? I mean, your daughter's.

1554
01:19:01,120 --> 01:19:03,439
Speaker 4: Fourteen now, she'll be fourteen in November.

1555
01:19:03,840 --> 01:19:04,479
Speaker 3: What's your birthday?

1556
01:19:04,880 --> 01:19:05,799
Speaker 4: November nineteenth?

1557
01:19:06,000 --> 01:19:10,040
Speaker 3: My daughters is the twenty seventh. Yeah, oh yeah, that's Erica. Yeah,

1558
01:19:10,120 --> 01:19:14,040
Speaker 3: well spice a little spicy. Yeah.

1559
01:19:14,080 --> 01:19:19,280
Speaker 1: And I'm like, you don't know your we're special Scorpio children. Yes,

1560
01:19:19,880 --> 01:19:24,720
Speaker 1: I mean, especially when I'm to double Scorpio Sage Moon.

1561
01:19:25,280 --> 01:19:26,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh my gosh, it's a lot.

1562
01:19:27,000 --> 01:19:27,240
Speaker 4: You are.

1563
01:19:27,920 --> 01:19:32,320
Speaker 3: How how have you instilled your spirituality with what's you

1564
01:19:32,360 --> 01:19:39,120
Speaker 3: daughter's name means child of the way, Yeah, okarious.

1565
01:19:39,320 --> 01:19:40,600
Speaker 1: And she's a water signed.

1566
01:19:41,200 --> 01:19:42,840
Speaker 4: Beautiful and her mom's water science.

1567
01:19:42,880 --> 01:19:45,800
Speaker 3: Oh, I mean Erica and I are both waters for me.

1568
01:19:46,040 --> 01:19:48,120
Speaker 4: So what was the question?

1569
01:19:48,640 --> 01:19:54,360
Speaker 3: How have you instilled your your spirituality? Have you practiced

1570
01:19:54,360 --> 01:19:56,519
Speaker 3: spirituality and brought her into that as a.

1571
01:19:56,840 --> 01:20:00,560
Speaker 4: Honestly you know, being open with her, share, you know,

1572
01:20:02,600 --> 01:20:03,519
Speaker 4: meditating with her.

1573
01:20:03,840 --> 01:20:06,519
Speaker 5: You know, when I go and I'm like building my

1574
01:20:06,680 --> 01:20:09,000
Speaker 5: altar in my in my space and all that, like,

1575
01:20:09,280 --> 01:20:11,519
Speaker 5: come here, baby, you need to know what I'm doing.

1576
01:20:11,680 --> 01:20:13,360
Speaker 4: Right. You see this picture of your grandma right here.

1577
01:20:13,880 --> 01:20:16,640
Speaker 4: You know, you gotta put this up. You gotta honor her.

1578
01:20:16,760 --> 01:20:19,840
Speaker 4: And she's gone, but hey, listen, gotta put an altar up,

1579
01:20:19,880 --> 01:20:21,919
Speaker 4: you know what I mean. So when I'm doing.

1580
01:20:21,840 --> 01:20:25,080
Speaker 5: Things, I just make sure she's there and I explain

1581
01:20:25,160 --> 01:20:28,040
Speaker 5: it to her and I let her know like, hey, listen,

1582
01:20:29,200 --> 01:20:30,559
Speaker 5: your dad's gonna give you the keys.

1583
01:20:31,040 --> 01:20:33,639
Speaker 4: Don't worry about it. I'm gonna tell you everything. There's

1584
01:20:33,720 --> 01:20:35,160
Speaker 4: nothing you can tell me that's like.

1585
01:20:37,840 --> 01:20:41,439
Speaker 5: Tell me, let's go, let's do this, let's do this,

1586
01:20:41,560 --> 01:20:44,120
Speaker 5: and let's do this right, you know, because one thing

1587
01:20:44,520 --> 01:20:48,799
Speaker 5: I can recall, like she's like five six or whatever.

1588
01:20:49,760 --> 01:20:52,880
Speaker 5: You know, family members and women saying to me like, oh,

1589
01:20:53,000 --> 01:20:54,880
Speaker 5: what are you gonna do when she's like start liking

1590
01:20:55,000 --> 01:20:58,640
Speaker 5: boys and ah, And I'm like, listen, I'm gonna be

1591
01:20:58,720 --> 01:21:01,720
Speaker 5: excited because of the type of man I am.

1592
01:21:02,600 --> 01:21:05,840
Speaker 4: I want to see what type of influence, what what

1593
01:21:06,000 --> 01:21:12,120
Speaker 4: type offfluence like look like me? Because if he is,

1594
01:21:12,160 --> 01:21:15,559
Speaker 4: I'm love that. You know, I'm gonna I'm gonna hope.

1595
01:21:15,640 --> 01:21:16,800
Speaker 4: So you know what I'm saying.

1596
01:21:17,479 --> 01:21:19,360
Speaker 1: I think, you know, you kind of get to see

1597
01:21:19,400 --> 01:21:20,720
Speaker 1: the work in action.

1598
01:21:21,120 --> 01:21:24,160
Speaker 3: And I think in the black community or just in

1599
01:21:24,320 --> 01:21:28,040
Speaker 3: like the parental community, I think we forget, especially for

1600
01:21:28,160 --> 01:21:30,400
Speaker 3: little girls, and it's like this huge thing to be

1601
01:21:30,520 --> 01:21:32,960
Speaker 3: like too all dads like you ain't gonna have no

1602
01:21:33,080 --> 01:21:34,960
Speaker 3: boyfriend or oh I can't when she turns.

1603
01:21:36,439 --> 01:21:37,599
Speaker 4: That ain't our culture either.

1604
01:21:37,760 --> 01:21:41,080
Speaker 3: But the thing is that little girls growing to be women,

1605
01:21:41,320 --> 01:21:44,680
Speaker 3: you know, that is what happens. That's a part of it.

1606
01:21:44,720 --> 01:21:48,000
Speaker 3: And if if you like completely, if you completely don't

1607
01:21:48,439 --> 01:21:51,640
Speaker 3: negate that, pretend it doesn't exist, then she then you

1608
01:21:51,880 --> 01:21:54,479
Speaker 3: develop a child or a young woman that is not

1609
01:21:54,680 --> 01:21:57,160
Speaker 3: in tune with herself as a woman. And in her

1610
01:21:57,240 --> 01:22:01,519
Speaker 3: divine feminine and by totally darving that part and ignoring it,

1611
01:22:01,640 --> 01:22:04,200
Speaker 3: it does not do ship for how she's going to

1612
01:22:04,280 --> 01:22:08,240
Speaker 3: know herself as a whole human inevitably in adulthood. And like,

1613
01:22:08,439 --> 01:22:10,880
Speaker 3: I think people get really weird about talking about this

1614
01:22:11,040 --> 01:22:14,240
Speaker 3: part of women developing young women developing into women, but

1615
01:22:14,960 --> 01:22:16,320
Speaker 3: it is so fucking important.

1616
01:22:16,720 --> 01:22:17,160
Speaker 4: Let me tell you.

1617
01:22:17,439 --> 01:22:21,720
Speaker 5: We see what happens when Thanksgiving my daughters with me.

1618
01:22:22,040 --> 01:22:24,840
Speaker 5: She's at my house, nanas and all that. She asked

1619
01:22:24,880 --> 01:22:28,200
Speaker 5: me if one of her little guy friends school, She went.

1620
01:22:28,080 --> 01:22:30,160
Speaker 3: To, you know, if they can come over, how'd you

1621
01:22:30,200 --> 01:22:34,040
Speaker 3: handle it? So, yeah, come on right right, Yeah, I

1622
01:22:34,160 --> 01:22:34,519
Speaker 3: need to know.

1623
01:22:36,320 --> 01:22:39,080
Speaker 4: Bring them over here in my playing field so I

1624
01:22:39,200 --> 01:22:40,120
Speaker 4: can see what's going on.

1625
01:22:40,280 --> 01:22:42,240
Speaker 3: And thankfully she feels comfortable enough to do that.

1626
01:22:42,520 --> 01:22:44,360
Speaker 4: Oh I love that. Yeah, I was.

1627
01:22:45,840 --> 01:22:49,040
Speaker 2: Accepted the invitation because she might have not asked. Again,

1628
01:22:50,600 --> 01:22:51,960
Speaker 2: the secrets happened and then.

1629
01:22:51,880 --> 01:22:52,320
Speaker 1: All that shit.

1630
01:22:52,400 --> 01:22:54,160
Speaker 3: Nobody got time for that, and you even know who

1631
01:22:54,240 --> 01:22:55,519
Speaker 3: it was and what they are about.

1632
01:22:58,400 --> 01:23:00,960
Speaker 1: It's like you got to trust your parenting. Like it's

1633
01:23:01,040 --> 01:23:03,120
Speaker 1: like a lot of the work, Like do you not

1634
01:23:03,160 --> 01:23:03,960
Speaker 1: trust your parenting?

1635
01:23:04,600 --> 01:23:05,040
Speaker 4: What do you think?

1636
01:23:05,080 --> 01:23:05,479
Speaker 5: He was right?

1637
01:23:05,600 --> 01:23:07,639
Speaker 2: This was always my argument with my I mean, granted

1638
01:23:07,720 --> 01:23:09,519
Speaker 2: I was like doing some function when I was a kid.

1639
01:23:09,560 --> 01:23:10,200
Speaker 3: That's because she fell.

1640
01:23:12,000 --> 01:23:13,640
Speaker 1: I would always tell my mom, I'm like, you're not.

1641
01:23:13,640 --> 01:23:22,080
Speaker 4: Trust your parenting because said, well, okay, yeah, so you

1642
01:23:22,160 --> 01:23:23,479
Speaker 4: know my daughter.

1643
01:23:26,840 --> 01:23:28,759
Speaker 1: Understand whatever.

1644
01:23:29,560 --> 01:23:32,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, but yeah, I would I would say that, and

1645
01:23:32,040 --> 01:23:35,160
Speaker 2: I'd be and and she would be like that would

1646
01:23:35,160 --> 01:23:40,519
Speaker 2: be her response, like, yo, I'm like, you did a

1647
01:23:40,560 --> 01:23:42,400
Speaker 2: great job, but hold on.

1648
01:23:42,680 --> 01:23:44,400
Speaker 1: I feel like you've done a great job.

1649
01:23:44,439 --> 01:23:45,479
Speaker 4: So you know.

1650
01:23:45,840 --> 01:23:48,080
Speaker 1: And and even what you said remind me of what

1651
01:23:48,200 --> 01:23:50,800
Speaker 1: Problems said a few weeks ago on our episode where

1652
01:23:50,800 --> 01:23:52,600
Speaker 1: he was like, I'm not raising my daughter to be

1653
01:23:52,800 --> 01:23:54,000
Speaker 1: a childld I'm raising her.

1654
01:23:53,920 --> 01:23:54,479
Speaker 3: To be a woman.

1655
01:23:56,120 --> 01:23:58,240
Speaker 4: Problem That was. That was lit. That was lit.

1656
01:23:58,880 --> 01:24:02,960
Speaker 5: I don't know him like personally, but I know a

1657
01:24:03,000 --> 01:24:05,479
Speaker 5: few people that know him and always know him to

1658
01:24:05,560 --> 01:24:06,599
Speaker 5: be like a solid person.

1659
01:24:06,720 --> 01:24:09,200
Speaker 3: So yeah, that was that was maybe one of the

1660
01:24:09,560 --> 01:24:10,599
Speaker 3: people that you're talking about.

1661
01:24:11,080 --> 01:24:11,880
Speaker 1: He actually.

1662
01:24:14,240 --> 01:24:16,000
Speaker 3: He's talking.

1663
01:24:18,120 --> 01:24:22,160
Speaker 4: I can take him on the retreat and we unfolded,

1664
01:24:22,240 --> 01:24:23,320
Speaker 4: we unlocked some shing.

1665
01:24:23,520 --> 01:24:27,240
Speaker 5: Yeah, because that's you know with the Fellas Man and

1666
01:24:27,360 --> 01:24:29,559
Speaker 5: you know with meditation and ship like that, and it's

1667
01:24:29,600 --> 01:24:32,040
Speaker 5: like what they don't know, is like it's so much

1668
01:24:32,120 --> 01:24:34,240
Speaker 5: power in that man, if you just take it back,

1669
01:24:34,640 --> 01:24:35,200
Speaker 5: you know what I mean?

1670
01:24:35,320 --> 01:24:39,479
Speaker 4: But you want to go to the gym, pump iron.

1671
01:24:39,720 --> 01:24:43,880
Speaker 4: But you know it's like, bro, can you really withstand

1672
01:24:44,640 --> 01:24:47,200
Speaker 4: a situation that you couldn't even fathom?

1673
01:24:47,320 --> 01:24:49,240
Speaker 5: Like are you gonna are you gonna be able to

1674
01:24:49,520 --> 01:24:51,760
Speaker 5: still be a man in that and not act out

1675
01:24:51,840 --> 01:24:52,800
Speaker 5: on your emotions?

1676
01:24:52,840 --> 01:24:57,600
Speaker 4: And yeah, because when women see nigga freaking out and

1677
01:24:57,880 --> 01:25:02,040
Speaker 4: it's a rap, rap, God, damn niggas was the over

1678
01:25:02,680 --> 01:25:06,000
Speaker 4: you feel me? So it's like, you know, I love that.

1679
01:25:06,320 --> 01:25:08,800
Speaker 5: You know I was able to come up under you know,

1680
01:25:09,040 --> 01:25:12,040
Speaker 5: my nana who was studying you know all right, so

1681
01:25:12,200 --> 01:25:16,920
Speaker 5: my nana was like came up Yoruba right by choice

1682
01:25:17,000 --> 01:25:21,400
Speaker 5: though by choice, great Grandma, shout out, nanny, you feel me?

1683
01:25:22,360 --> 01:25:28,080
Speaker 5: Chalk tawn Indian, full blooded. She obviously got bit by

1684
01:25:28,160 --> 01:25:31,400
Speaker 5: the Bible. You know what I'm saying that she got

1685
01:25:31,439 --> 01:25:33,880
Speaker 5: bit by the Bible that ain't even in its original text.

1686
01:25:34,560 --> 01:25:37,120
Speaker 4: So she got bit by the remixed Bible. And you

1687
01:25:37,200 --> 01:25:39,200
Speaker 4: know Christianity.

1688
01:25:39,320 --> 01:25:41,400
Speaker 5: You know, I'm sorry, you know, I gotta say it,

1689
01:25:41,479 --> 01:25:43,720
Speaker 5: but it sucked a lot of us up because what

1690
01:25:43,840 --> 01:25:46,360
Speaker 5: we don't realize is we got Sorry, it's clear we

1691
01:25:46,520 --> 01:25:50,040
Speaker 5: got Christianity the same time as slaves so called slavery,

1692
01:25:50,439 --> 01:25:51,880
Speaker 5: because so called slavery.

1693
01:25:51,600 --> 01:25:53,720
Speaker 4: Didn't go high. They said it went just so you know,

1694
01:25:54,280 --> 01:25:57,080
Speaker 4: but it did go. It did go, but not how.

1695
01:25:58,720 --> 01:26:04,479
Speaker 4: But you know that. You know, my my my circle

1696
01:26:04,640 --> 01:26:08,720
Speaker 4: is is really all responsible for my thoughts and what

1697
01:26:08,880 --> 01:26:12,400
Speaker 4: I do. Like like you guys said this, I'm the product.

1698
01:26:12,439 --> 01:26:15,240
Speaker 4: I'm the literal product of a good mom, bad choice.

1699
01:26:15,800 --> 01:26:19,160
Speaker 3: Your grandma was practicing like what should there she was doing.

1700
01:26:21,120 --> 01:26:24,240
Speaker 5: I was I was six and and going, you know,

1701
01:26:24,800 --> 01:26:27,560
Speaker 5: seeing her go, like you know, seeing her go do

1702
01:26:27,760 --> 01:26:30,720
Speaker 5: rituals with Africans and they you know, there was this

1703
01:26:30,840 --> 01:26:32,360
Speaker 5: thing that used to happen in la.

1704
01:26:32,400 --> 01:26:34,360
Speaker 4: Called the African Marketplace in the nineties.

1705
01:26:34,520 --> 01:26:37,240
Speaker 5: Like my grandma used to always have a booth there,

1706
01:26:37,800 --> 01:26:40,280
Speaker 5: and you know, she was like the first entrepreneur I've

1707
01:26:40,320 --> 01:26:40,800
Speaker 5: ever seen.

1708
01:26:41,000 --> 01:26:42,040
Speaker 3: Wow, that's bomb.

1709
01:26:42,120 --> 01:26:45,200
Speaker 5: You feel me, Like, I mean, making necklaces, beads and

1710
01:26:45,360 --> 01:26:49,040
Speaker 5: like really creating from here, you know what I'm saying.

1711
01:26:49,120 --> 01:26:52,479
Speaker 4: So you know, seeing that and knowing that that.

1712
01:26:52,640 --> 01:26:56,599
Speaker 5: That's all it takes, is like it's a gift. All

1713
01:26:56,640 --> 01:26:58,960
Speaker 5: I gotta do is do my part and make sure

1714
01:26:59,040 --> 01:27:01,160
Speaker 5: I'm around the right people. Just do any part.

1715
01:27:02,040 --> 01:27:04,360
Speaker 3: Thank you. That makes me feel really good. I feel

1716
01:27:04,360 --> 01:27:07,960
Speaker 3: like seeing you a product of like free women, entrepreneurial women,

1717
01:27:08,840 --> 01:27:10,240
Speaker 3: good mom's bad choices.

1718
01:27:10,400 --> 01:27:14,640
Speaker 5: It's like it made me like val repond immediately, you know,

1719
01:27:14,840 --> 01:27:19,320
Speaker 5: I was just like, wait a minute, where was this?

1720
01:27:19,600 --> 01:27:22,040
Speaker 4: You know, like my mom, you know, like my mom

1721
01:27:22,120 --> 01:27:22,680
Speaker 4: didn't have that.

1722
01:27:22,800 --> 01:27:26,080
Speaker 5: My mom didn't have any friends that were like you know,

1723
01:27:26,200 --> 01:27:29,280
Speaker 5: she opted out of friends to take care of us,

1724
01:27:29,520 --> 01:27:32,280
Speaker 5: you know, to take us to skating, you know what

1725
01:27:32,320 --> 01:27:32,559
Speaker 5: I mean.

1726
01:27:32,680 --> 01:27:35,360
Speaker 4: She opted out of that. You know. So when I

1727
01:27:35,439 --> 01:27:37,840
Speaker 4: started like watching you guys and like watching your whole thing,

1728
01:27:37,920 --> 01:27:41,200
Speaker 4: I'm like, yo, I'm pulling up on them because.

1729
01:27:41,479 --> 01:27:44,400
Speaker 5: I respect it, I love it. I'm a product of this,

1730
01:27:45,200 --> 01:27:47,760
Speaker 5: and you know, it's just it's my duty. Like you know,

1731
01:27:48,040 --> 01:27:50,720
Speaker 5: like I don't know if y'all got sons or y'all got.

1732
01:27:53,479 --> 01:27:53,679
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1733
01:27:53,680 --> 01:27:56,320
Speaker 5: I mean, my daughter she's you know, like she's a

1734
01:27:56,400 --> 01:28:00,160
Speaker 5: great artist. She can draw, amazing, she does everything thing.

1735
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Speaker 5: But like you know, I instilled in my daughter like hey,

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01:28:03,479 --> 01:28:07,120
Speaker 5: if you have you got to give, yeah, you know,

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01:28:07,240 --> 01:28:13,600
Speaker 5: whether that's information structure, you know, knowledge, whatever, if you.

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01:28:13,760 --> 01:28:15,120
Speaker 4: Have you have to give.

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01:28:15,560 --> 01:28:20,120
Speaker 3: I feel very very like, I'm very aware that you know,

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01:28:20,160 --> 01:28:22,360
Speaker 3: when you're aligned with people, whether it be through the DMS,

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01:28:22,400 --> 01:28:24,439
Speaker 3: hether someone say hey, interview him and then he pulls up.

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01:28:24,960 --> 01:28:26,559
Speaker 3: I was going to tell you, like, thank you very much,

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01:28:26,640 --> 01:28:29,439
Speaker 3: because just as you were supposed to be here, I

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01:28:29,479 --> 01:28:32,040
Speaker 3: think there was a message for you, for us from

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01:28:32,160 --> 01:28:34,760
Speaker 3: you and that like this is the product of you know,

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01:28:35,200 --> 01:28:37,960
Speaker 3: watering your garden and that it is okay. And sometimes

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01:28:38,000 --> 01:28:39,599
Speaker 3: we're going to feel guilt and we're going to feel

1748
01:28:39,840 --> 01:28:41,679
Speaker 3: you know, because maybe we don't have the baby daddy.

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01:28:41,720 --> 01:28:47,800
Speaker 3: That's right, Ryan, Who's fucking Who's Yeah, But at least

1750
01:28:47,880 --> 01:28:50,439
Speaker 3: we know that doing what we're doing is going to

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01:28:50,640 --> 01:28:53,880
Speaker 3: see children that are understand respect the hustle and understand it.

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01:28:54,360 --> 01:28:56,919
Speaker 3: And so like you know, it's it's always in exchange.

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01:28:56,960 --> 01:28:58,599
Speaker 3: And it's so beautiful to have you here.

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01:28:59,000 --> 01:28:59,800
Speaker 4: Thank you for having me.

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01:29:00,120 --> 01:29:02,920
Speaker 5: Yes, you know, like I said, you know what the

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01:29:03,080 --> 01:29:06,120
Speaker 5: title alone, I'm like, this is it first of all,

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01:29:06,200 --> 01:29:08,160
Speaker 5: because I know y'all lying, y'all don't make it bad.

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01:29:08,600 --> 01:29:10,800
Speaker 3: It's all good most of them, you know.

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01:29:11,920 --> 01:29:13,519
Speaker 5: I mean that may be bad to someone else, but

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01:29:13,640 --> 01:29:15,760
Speaker 5: if you if you're making a choice wholeheartedly.

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01:29:16,360 --> 01:29:18,080
Speaker 3: It ain't bad, and then you grow from it, even

1762
01:29:18,080 --> 01:29:19,000
Speaker 3: if it's not the fact.

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01:29:18,920 --> 01:29:21,680
Speaker 4: Because it might be a choice. You got to learn exactly. So,

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01:29:21,880 --> 01:29:24,719
Speaker 4: you know, I saw that in you guys.

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01:29:24,920 --> 01:29:27,120
Speaker 5: And when I was hearing you guys talk about certain

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01:29:27,200 --> 01:29:30,120
Speaker 5: bring up certain things you guys are doing, I was like, see,

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01:29:30,920 --> 01:29:32,360
Speaker 5: I need to tap in with them. You know what

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01:29:32,400 --> 01:29:36,680
Speaker 5: I mean, I need I need two for what I

1769
01:29:36,840 --> 01:29:39,599
Speaker 5: do in my tribe. You know what I'm saying, y'all

1770
01:29:39,600 --> 01:29:40,360
Speaker 5: gotta be around.

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01:29:40,560 --> 01:29:46,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm talking about you on the show.

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01:29:48,880 --> 01:29:53,360
Speaker 5: You know, like I do things like you know when

1773
01:29:53,400 --> 01:29:56,200
Speaker 5: we do like family family cookouts and ship like that,

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01:29:56,400 --> 01:29:59,000
Speaker 5: Like I invite my friends like I'm on the grill.

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01:30:00,280 --> 01:30:02,800
Speaker 3: I can bring some signs we cooked.

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01:30:02,760 --> 01:30:05,920
Speaker 4: Could kids, kids running around.

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01:30:06,040 --> 01:30:11,280
Speaker 3: Yes, the dose over here, Yeah, it's not even the hiding.

1778
01:30:11,360 --> 01:30:13,240
Speaker 3: We're smoking weight to go to the fucking way and

1779
01:30:13,320 --> 01:30:15,080
Speaker 3: see we're smoking way by that and.

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01:30:15,160 --> 01:30:17,400
Speaker 5: See you know, my niece and my nephew and my daughter,

1781
01:30:17,560 --> 01:30:20,160
Speaker 5: you know, they know when when uncle's in that garage,

1782
01:30:20,240 --> 01:30:22,040
Speaker 5: when Papa's in that garage.

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01:30:21,600 --> 01:30:25,080
Speaker 1: Shape, you smell that, I know, you smell it gone,

1784
01:30:25,240 --> 01:30:27,840
Speaker 1: And I'll be in there smoking the flower.

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01:30:27,880 --> 01:30:30,560
Speaker 5: Because I need them to see me stone so that

1786
01:30:30,720 --> 01:30:33,479
Speaker 5: they know no one can tell them at fifteen sixteen,

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01:30:33,760 --> 01:30:35,400
Speaker 5: Oh you smell weight you?

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01:30:36,560 --> 01:30:39,439
Speaker 4: Yeah? No, I see my dad that nigga smoke four

1789
01:30:39,520 --> 01:30:44,439
Speaker 4: blunts and then he made dinner. So wait.

1790
01:30:44,520 --> 01:30:46,720
Speaker 3: The other day. The other day, I went to the

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01:30:46,800 --> 01:30:48,439
Speaker 3: farmer's market and I was like, I didn't have any

1792
01:30:48,479 --> 01:30:49,960
Speaker 3: weed in the house. So I got to my friend's house.

1793
01:30:50,240 --> 01:30:51,880
Speaker 3: We were with the kids. I was like, she had

1794
01:30:51,920 --> 01:30:53,840
Speaker 3: one joint left. We smoked a joint. We went down

1795
01:30:53,880 --> 01:30:56,760
Speaker 3: the hill to this fucking farmer's market in Studio City, right.

1796
01:30:56,840 --> 01:30:58,559
Speaker 3: I was stone. I was like, I don't know how

1797
01:30:58,560 --> 01:31:01,040
Speaker 3: I'm so stone. We can pull up to like the

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01:31:01,120 --> 01:31:04,439
Speaker 3: coffee one or whatever. So I'm in line and they're ordering,

1799
01:31:04,479 --> 01:31:06,280
Speaker 3: and I'm looking at the sign and I'm reading it

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01:31:06,320 --> 01:31:08,519
Speaker 3: and I'm like, I know what that word says, but

1801
01:31:08,640 --> 01:31:10,439
Speaker 3: it looks like a different word. So I'm like it

1802
01:31:10,479 --> 01:31:12,960
Speaker 3: goods to me. I'm high in my mind, in my

1803
01:31:13,040 --> 01:31:15,360
Speaker 3: mind and by myself. I'm looking at the word. I'm

1804
01:31:15,360 --> 01:31:18,040
Speaker 3: about to order the coffee. I'm like, I'll take the Yeah,

1805
01:31:18,160 --> 01:31:21,200
Speaker 3: I'll take the parate. She was like pirates.

1806
01:31:23,680 --> 01:31:28,320
Speaker 4: I was like, yo was high level pronunciation.

1807
01:31:28,560 --> 01:31:30,759
Speaker 1: I was like, he's a classy.

1808
01:31:31,880 --> 01:31:37,400
Speaker 3: I said, well, I'm a very come find it the

1809
01:31:37,439 --> 01:31:39,519
Speaker 3: pate of the Cariban. But I was like, I'll take

1810
01:31:39,560 --> 01:31:42,680
Speaker 3: the pate lat She was like the Pirates latte. I

1811
01:31:42,800 --> 01:31:46,720
Speaker 3: was like, I'm high. I was like, I'm so, and

1812
01:31:46,840 --> 01:31:49,160
Speaker 3: I'm fancy. I said, I'm still that I'm fancy. I said,

1813
01:31:49,160 --> 01:31:53,280
Speaker 3: the Pirates with the oat milk, okay, the old milk.

1814
01:31:55,200 --> 01:31:57,320
Speaker 3: My daughter, who's learning to read, was like, this pitch

1815
01:31:57,439 --> 01:32:03,080
Speaker 3: is dumb. Meanwhile, I'm like, I'm high, bitch, don't correct

1816
01:32:03,120 --> 01:32:08,920
Speaker 3: men of my daughter's wanting to read. I was like,

1817
01:32:09,040 --> 01:32:10,800
Speaker 3: that's you know, And I told I was like, you know,

1818
01:32:11,200 --> 01:32:12,360
Speaker 3: words are difficult.

1819
01:32:12,400 --> 01:32:12,640
Speaker 1: I know.

1820
01:32:14,479 --> 01:32:16,519
Speaker 4: The English English language.

1821
01:32:16,680 --> 01:32:19,080
Speaker 3: At the time, we don't know why K is in

1822
01:32:19,120 --> 01:32:26,040
Speaker 3: front of n O w okay, shut up. I don't know,

1823
01:32:26,080 --> 01:32:28,800
Speaker 3: it doesn't make sense. Who fucking knows, but this is

1824
01:32:28,800 --> 01:32:35,720
Speaker 3: a goddamn parate. Give me, goddamn it. Then my friend

1825
01:32:35,760 --> 01:32:37,200
Speaker 3: looked down. She's like a bitch. That was gonna be

1826
01:32:37,240 --> 01:32:42,720
Speaker 3: like an accident over the or something. I just had

1827
01:32:42,760 --> 01:32:45,559
Speaker 3: to That's the high thing I did this week. Well,

1828
01:32:45,720 --> 01:32:48,600
Speaker 3: thank you so much, thank you for this episode. You

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01:32:48,680 --> 01:32:51,240
Speaker 3: guys know where to find us a Good Mom's underscore

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01:32:52,680 --> 01:32:55,479
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1832
01:32:56,360 --> 01:32:59,360
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01:32:59,560 --> 01:33:04,080
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01:33:09,240 --> 01:33:13,040
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01:33:23,760 --> 01:33:28,679
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Speaker 1: Bye bye.

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