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Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Scatilly and Tanya Brad and I Heart

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Speaker 1: Radio and People's Choice Award winning podcast. WHOA feels really

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Speaker 1: good to be back. It feels like it's been forever.

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Speaker 1: I walked in and I was like, it's my old home,

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Speaker 1: my old stompingers been week two weeks. Yeah, yeah, it's

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Speaker 1: been I feel like it's been a long time, right, yeah,

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Speaker 1: because no, just kidding, just two weeks a Fortnite two

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Speaker 1: it's topical reference. Is your hair darker? Maybe done? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I've done some things. Do you like it? I roused

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Speaker 1: a little different too. Oh yeah, we're probably just not

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Speaker 1: completely done. So Sissy micro bladed her. So I'm kind

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Speaker 1: to look really full they're filled in with but I'd

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Speaker 1: I could just wake up and go I know, but

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Speaker 1: then like you wake up with no wakeup on it,

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Speaker 1: then you're like my eyebrows, you know what I mean? No,

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Speaker 1: I'd be like thrilled, like my eyebrows really done. Did

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Speaker 1: Sisney just get her stup? Yeah? Okay, yeah, they're they're

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Speaker 1: really intensive first, so that's your thing. No, I just

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Speaker 1: mean like in general. Oh no, I'd love to have

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Speaker 1: my eyebrows look like they were done all the time. Okay, Um, well,

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Speaker 1: I've been moving, so I the other day I'm getting

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Speaker 1: with these Ikea outdoor tiles. And I have never felt

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Speaker 1: more pain in my life than my back right now.

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Speaker 1: I I think I don't know if I pulled it.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if I have a pinched nerve. I

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Speaker 1: don't know what your back patio. Yeah, yeah, it looks

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Speaker 1: I want to do it to actually want to do it. Um,

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Speaker 1: so this is the before and that's a fantastic But yeah,

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Speaker 1: So to make myself feel better about postmating a Kia tiles,

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Speaker 1: and then as soon as I finished, I stood up.

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Speaker 1: I was like, something is not right. So I noticed.

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Speaker 1: Like you use your back for so many things that

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Speaker 1: But man, like thirty really has taken a toll in

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Speaker 1: catch up on on the tube. It's the TV for

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Speaker 1: all you younguns. Should we start with Grayson Anatomy because

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Speaker 1: it consistent your whole backstory. Yeah, well let's talk about

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Speaker 1: What time do you have to call him in? About

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Speaker 1: was like, yeah, they have a full on Gray's Amni podcast.

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Speaker 1: You should go. I was like, give, We'll get him

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Speaker 1: on here. That would be interesting, especially however, the Meredith

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Speaker 1: this week's Grace. Before we move on, Meredith questions links

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Speaker 1: in my lane, Like I had my job. No one

425
00:23:15,720 --> 00:23:18,159
Speaker 1: else in the company was doing it, so I was

426
00:23:18,280 --> 00:23:21,360
Speaker 1: never you know, taking orders from Billy. You know, it's

427
00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:24,320
Speaker 1: kind of like his disposable factor within the company. I

428
00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:27,800
Speaker 1: was also Texas investors, so I don't know whatever it was.

429
00:23:27,880 --> 00:23:31,119
Speaker 1: But you know, like Billy and I always were on

430
00:23:31,200 --> 00:23:34,959
Speaker 1: a good page until this idea of the festival came up.

431
00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:38,879
Speaker 1: We really butt heads over it. I said, listening, you know,

432
00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:41,119
Speaker 1: this team has grown from three to twenty and a

433
00:23:41,119 --> 00:23:42,920
Speaker 1: matter of six months. You know, like we've got two

434
00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:45,679
Speaker 1: seven deals. Like everyone's working day and night for this

435
00:23:45,760 --> 00:23:49,520
Speaker 1: new platform. You know, like why you're dividing the company

436
00:23:49,600 --> 00:23:52,520
Speaker 1: and like starting a whole new venture six months into

437
00:23:52,680 --> 00:23:54,399
Speaker 1: you know, a tech startup, Like if you want to

438
00:23:54,440 --> 00:23:56,399
Speaker 1: do this two years down the road, great, you know,

439
00:23:56,480 --> 00:23:59,560
Speaker 1: also something like this, you know takes a minimum two

440
00:23:59,640 --> 00:24:03,080
Speaker 1: years at least eighteen months what he was told of planning.

441
00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:05,920
Speaker 1: So that's kind of when like the team started to divide,

442
00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:09,560
Speaker 1: I mean Billy started to divide. He went off and

443
00:24:09,640 --> 00:24:13,240
Speaker 1: started to you know, conceptualize this idea for the festival.

444
00:24:13,760 --> 00:24:16,600
Speaker 1: All looked really pretty on paper. You know. I had

445
00:24:16,640 --> 00:24:18,880
Speaker 1: some of the contact of like people he wanted to use,

446
00:24:19,040 --> 00:24:21,520
Speaker 1: you know, for the promo video, told him I wasn't

447
00:24:21,560 --> 00:24:25,400
Speaker 1: even comfortable making those like introductions. So he really went

448
00:24:25,560 --> 00:24:29,320
Speaker 1: out and just kind of paid market rate for everyone.

449
00:24:29,760 --> 00:24:32,600
Speaker 1: UM did his thing. I went on when I went

450
00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:37,199
Speaker 1: on the promo video shoot UM trip, which was like

451
00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:41,040
Speaker 1: obviously cool fund UM. But I think the biggest thing

452
00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:44,040
Speaker 1: was like they tried to market something before they created

453
00:24:44,080 --> 00:24:49,000
Speaker 1: it UM. So that was like definitely the biggest problem.

454
00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:51,959
Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, like the right

455
00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:54,720
Speaker 1: partners are brought on board UM, the best of the

456
00:24:54,760 --> 00:25:00,000
Speaker 1: best within every department, from marketing to film, the photography

457
00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:04,280
Speaker 1: for you to production even UM. But that production company

458
00:25:04,520 --> 00:25:07,239
Speaker 1: was apparently let go a few months into it, and

459
00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:10,760
Speaker 1: he chose not to disclose that to the fire media team,

460
00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:13,240
Speaker 1: knowing that those guys were trying to the last day

461
00:25:13,320 --> 00:25:16,399
Speaker 1: the great to putting you know that festival. They were

462
00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:20,040
Speaker 1: like responsible for putting on Coachella and some other like

463
00:25:20,280 --> 00:25:25,640
Speaker 1: really big festivals that we all know about. Um, but yeah,

464
00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:27,480
Speaker 1: I guess that's that kind of how I got into it.

465
00:25:27,560 --> 00:25:30,600
Speaker 1: And six months into it, how like the team kind

466
00:25:30,600 --> 00:25:33,480
Speaker 1: of starts to divide, as I'm sure you kind of

467
00:25:33,480 --> 00:25:36,600
Speaker 1: grasped from the documentary. Well, so when you went on

468
00:25:36,680 --> 00:25:40,560
Speaker 1: the shoot, like the promo shoot, were you thinking this

469
00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:43,160
Speaker 1: could be a disaster if we try to do it,

470
00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:45,440
Speaker 1: or were you thinking like, oh, we can totally do this.

471
00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:51,119
Speaker 1: It's possible. It was definitely possible. Um, the time frame

472
00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:54,360
Speaker 1: was always tight. I was always a question. I did

473
00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:59,680
Speaker 1: have somewhat believe that the production company that was originally

474
00:25:59,680 --> 00:26:02,639
Speaker 1: brought on board, like they could pull it off like

475
00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:05,639
Speaker 1: a super well known company. So I mean it wasn't.

476
00:26:05,720 --> 00:26:08,680
Speaker 1: It wasn't, And it was in such an infancy stage,

477
00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:11,960
Speaker 1: Like I don't even think I was really understanding like

478
00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:14,600
Speaker 1: the scale of what he was trying to pull off.

479
00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:17,399
Speaker 1: So I'm not sure I really think for me, like

480
00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:19,800
Speaker 1: when I was watching it and like just watching this

481
00:26:19,880 --> 00:26:23,160
Speaker 1: billy guy, like I know I've dated guys like this

482
00:26:23,359 --> 00:26:25,399
Speaker 1: in my past, Like there's a car artist, you know,

483
00:26:25,400 --> 00:26:27,080
Speaker 1: what I mean that they can like blatantly just like

484
00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:29,280
Speaker 1: lie to you, like they can fully just lie. And

485
00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:31,879
Speaker 1: I think it was so good at that. He was

486
00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:33,920
Speaker 1: so good at that keeping things like above the line,

487
00:26:33,960 --> 00:26:37,119
Speaker 1: below the line that like he was so talented at that,

488
00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:40,040
Speaker 1: he really really was. And he was always like he

489
00:26:40,119 --> 00:26:42,600
Speaker 1: was never really in the picture at the same time too,

490
00:26:42,720 --> 00:26:45,800
Speaker 1: because anything investor related, I was like the one thing

491
00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:48,280
Speaker 1: that no one on the team, you know, it was

492
00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:51,000
Speaker 1: really aware of what was happening. Like it was never

493
00:26:51,040 --> 00:26:52,800
Speaker 1: in the office. It's always learned for meting the meeting,

494
00:26:53,119 --> 00:26:55,600
Speaker 1: always coming in like putting his head into the second

495
00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:57,280
Speaker 1: saying whatever you had to say, and then leaving on

496
00:26:57,320 --> 00:26:59,840
Speaker 1: to like the next meeting. Investors would come into the

497
00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:02,320
Speaker 1: fits like the only time you would bring people into

498
00:27:02,320 --> 00:27:04,240
Speaker 1: the meeting is like if investors wanted to meet some

499
00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:07,480
Speaker 1: of the people on the team. Um, but like everything

500
00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:10,720
Speaker 1: was like kind of running without him even there because

501
00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:14,159
Speaker 1: he was always just like fundraising fund raising fundraising. I

502
00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:16,399
Speaker 1: think like because you started, you have your own company,

503
00:27:16,400 --> 00:27:19,760
Speaker 1: you have your own clothing line now correct, yeah, yeah,

504
00:27:21,000 --> 00:27:24,240
Speaker 1: how can how do you like know now when you're dealing?

505
00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:26,240
Speaker 1: I think the thing that's so scary when you're watching

506
00:27:26,280 --> 00:27:28,640
Speaker 1: it is like when you deal with people like this

507
00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:31,240
Speaker 1: on a regular basis, how can you decipher, like who's

508
00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:34,080
Speaker 1: legit and who's not? Were you able to? Like that? Was?

509
00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:37,639
Speaker 1: That was my That was my biggest struggle on a

510
00:27:37,720 --> 00:27:41,840
Speaker 1: personal level after everything went down. I had always prided

511
00:27:41,920 --> 00:27:45,160
Speaker 1: myself on keeping the right people around me. I think

512
00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:48,560
Speaker 1: that's the most important thing, like anyone can do, um,

513
00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:50,679
Speaker 1: you know, especially with your friends, me, especially being in

514
00:27:50,680 --> 00:27:55,800
Speaker 1: New York, such a bustling city with so much you know,

515
00:27:56,080 --> 00:28:02,399
Speaker 1: just fake you know, superficial, imperialistic, you know, nonsense around you.

516
00:28:02,480 --> 00:28:05,200
Speaker 1: Like it's always to me, it was always most important

517
00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:08,200
Speaker 1: to the best people around me. Um. And I always

518
00:28:08,200 --> 00:28:10,240
Speaker 1: thought that I had such a good judge and character

519
00:28:10,480 --> 00:28:13,800
Speaker 1: of people as well. Um in hindsight, I mean it's

520
00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:16,720
Speaker 1: like I guess something that gave me, like some sources,

521
00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:18,720
Speaker 1: like he fooled the biggest investors in the world, so

522
00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:20,280
Speaker 1: like here I am like a plant two year old

523
00:28:20,320 --> 00:28:22,360
Speaker 1: kids like people would do like, okay, take it as

524
00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:24,680
Speaker 1: a learning lesson, you know what I mean. Like for me,

525
00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:27,879
Speaker 1: I was very blessed, very privileged, Like fire media was

526
00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:30,200
Speaker 1: my thing, like he gave to me booked the line

527
00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:33,160
Speaker 1: up for Fire Festival. I was already dealing with these artists. Granted,

528
00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:36,000
Speaker 1: like they were grossly overpaid, but for a first year

529
00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:40,400
Speaker 1: festival under remote islands and Moa, Bahamas, like who, no

530
00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:42,640
Speaker 1: one really knows about it in the industry. Okay, it's

531
00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:45,040
Speaker 1: just like really cool promo and you know people are

532
00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:48,640
Speaker 1: talking about it, but like still like they got overpaid.

533
00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:50,360
Speaker 1: So I was able to book the line up, which

534
00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:53,120
Speaker 1: I think was a really incredible lineup if it ever happened,

535
00:28:56,360 --> 00:28:59,360
Speaker 1: it was a pretty good line up. Um, but I

536
00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:03,400
Speaker 1: mean I guess like that, yeah, like he was just

537
00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:07,760
Speaker 1: really good at at fooling people. He just was, yeah,

538
00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:09,760
Speaker 1: well I want you to talk about just a little

539
00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:11,760
Speaker 1: bit before I know, thank you so much obviously for

540
00:29:11,840 --> 00:29:14,560
Speaker 1: calling in because I know this is like obviously not

541
00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:19,000
Speaker 1: like super fun to relive, but um, you have a

542
00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:21,920
Speaker 1: great company. Now support your friends in a proportion of

543
00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:24,160
Speaker 1: your proceeds are going to March for Our Lives, which

544
00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:28,560
Speaker 1: I thought was really awesome, the first official, first official partner.

545
00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:31,760
Speaker 1: But yeah, I mean it's all it's all part of

546
00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:34,880
Speaker 1: the story, you know what I mean. Like i I'm like,

547
00:29:35,120 --> 00:29:38,479
Speaker 1: I'm a religious guy, Like I know, that everything happens

548
00:29:38,520 --> 00:29:41,960
Speaker 1: for a reason. I know when sometimes everybody you know

549
00:29:42,000 --> 00:29:46,120
Speaker 1: individually go through certain difficult you know, challenges or tragedies

550
00:29:46,160 --> 00:29:48,240
Speaker 1: in their life, it's difficult at that very moment to

551
00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:52,040
Speaker 1: understand why certain things are happening. But I'm I've always

552
00:29:52,160 --> 00:29:55,280
Speaker 1: been like blessed to have the faith in my entire

553
00:29:55,320 --> 00:29:58,240
Speaker 1: life that I know one day will come where you know,

554
00:29:58,280 --> 00:30:00,200
Speaker 1: that light bulb will go off and you'll be like, oh,

555
00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:03,000
Speaker 1: I know why God or whatever you believe in put

556
00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:06,320
Speaker 1: me through. You know that situation. And I mean, if

557
00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:08,240
Speaker 1: you think about like that was an n y u.

558
00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:12,360
Speaker 1: I worked in fashion all four years of college. Fashion

559
00:30:12,400 --> 00:30:15,240
Speaker 1: has always been my passion, you know. Branding was always

560
00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:18,239
Speaker 1: my passion. You yourself, you know, our brand, who you

561
00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:21,680
Speaker 1: and now with how you dress, how you talk, all

562
00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:23,480
Speaker 1: of it makes you as a brand. And I just

563
00:30:23,520 --> 00:30:27,040
Speaker 1: think it was kind of funny or at least, you know,

564
00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:29,000
Speaker 1: I was kind of blessed that that light bulb went

565
00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:31,400
Speaker 1: off really quickly for me. After this was like, Hey,

566
00:30:31,920 --> 00:30:34,479
Speaker 1: you've always wanted to You've always dressed the starting your

567
00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:37,360
Speaker 1: starting your own brands, Like you went through all of this.

568
00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:39,960
Speaker 1: We're about to go to business school and then you

569
00:30:40,000 --> 00:30:44,080
Speaker 1: go through this crazy, crazy experience where no business school

570
00:30:44,120 --> 00:30:45,640
Speaker 1: in the country, I don't care how good of a

571
00:30:45,640 --> 00:30:48,800
Speaker 1: business school it is to teach you what you just experienced,

572
00:30:48,840 --> 00:30:52,440
Speaker 1: you know, and you also learned the most through your experiences. UM,

573
00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:55,200
Speaker 1: So here I am. You know, I guess what is it?

574
00:30:55,240 --> 00:30:57,320
Speaker 1: We're almost something off them two years someone actually brought

575
00:30:57,320 --> 00:30:59,240
Speaker 1: it up today, like this whole festival thing is almost

576
00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:03,440
Speaker 1: two years old. Um. But luckily, um, that happened when

577
00:31:03,520 --> 00:31:08,600
Speaker 1: like April of two thousand seventeen, like within within the year, um,

578
00:31:08,640 --> 00:31:12,840
Speaker 1: you know. Unfortunately, there was a lot happening in the world,

579
00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:16,520
Speaker 1: mass shootings, I mean, just so much happening in society,

580
00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:18,720
Speaker 1: and I think it was just an accumulation of things.

581
00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:23,120
Speaker 1: And when those mass shooting happened in Parkland, Florida, February fourth,

582
00:31:23,120 --> 00:31:25,920
Speaker 1: teams also almost coming up in the one year anniversary

583
00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:29,040
Speaker 1: of that kind of like how can I get involved

584
00:31:29,040 --> 00:31:31,160
Speaker 1: at the youth? I was determined to get involved at

585
00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:33,360
Speaker 1: the youth. I think March for our lives, the students

586
00:31:33,360 --> 00:31:37,160
Speaker 1: who really were um, the epitome of showing youth coming

587
00:31:37,200 --> 00:31:40,760
Speaker 1: together together under this same idea, whatever it may be,

588
00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:43,880
Speaker 1: for whatever organization that we as a partner with I'm

589
00:31:43,920 --> 00:31:46,440
Speaker 1: just coming together to really just kind of propel a

590
00:31:46,480 --> 00:31:49,880
Speaker 1: safe for tomorrow, UM in terms of March of Our Lives.

591
00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:52,480
Speaker 1: So I wanted to get involved. It also wants to

592
00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:55,640
Speaker 1: pursue my passion, and you know kind of asked myself,

593
00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:58,160
Speaker 1: how can I combine them? To support your friends was

594
00:31:58,240 --> 00:32:01,920
Speaker 1: always this person slogan of mine. So kind of said,

595
00:32:01,960 --> 00:32:03,680
Speaker 1: you know, kay, of run with this. How to bring

596
00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:08,160
Speaker 1: everyone together under this like idea of support your friends.

597
00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:09,400
Speaker 1: What it means to me, what it means to you

598
00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:12,360
Speaker 1: two different things. But that's kind of the purpose, UM,

599
00:32:12,400 --> 00:32:14,959
Speaker 1: for everyone to come together and really just share what

600
00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:18,440
Speaker 1: it means to one another. UM. So yeah, I mean,

601
00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:22,880
Speaker 1: we uh successfully launched the brand this past November. UM,

602
00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:26,720
Speaker 1: it's been super exciting. The reaction has been super exciting,

603
00:32:26,760 --> 00:32:30,360
Speaker 1: the press has been great, UM, and you know, we're

604
00:32:30,400 --> 00:32:33,240
Speaker 1: really really just running with it, and you know the

605
00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:39,560
Speaker 1: goal is to bring awareness to certain um causes within

606
00:32:39,600 --> 00:32:42,920
Speaker 1: each collection. March for Our Lives being our first official

607
00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:47,160
Speaker 1: partner UM and hopefully you know, if you need to collaborate,

608
00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:52,280
Speaker 1: partner with other creatives, artists, photographers, videographers, whoever, it may

609
00:32:52,280 --> 00:32:56,360
Speaker 1: be somebody like Tanya, maybe you know and uh, I'm

610
00:32:56,400 --> 00:32:59,520
Speaker 1: just like propel this message create additional vehicles are trying

611
00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:02,640
Speaker 1: to tell the story for us to brand. I think

612
00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:05,600
Speaker 1: we're really positioning ourselves as kind of one of the

613
00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:08,280
Speaker 1: only brands out there that wants to person almost be

614
00:33:08,480 --> 00:33:13,080
Speaker 1: known for its story. It's message with the product coming secondary.

615
00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:15,719
Speaker 1: Not to say that we don't put amazing products out there.

616
00:33:15,880 --> 00:33:18,080
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, those people, those pieces are kill

617
00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:22,400
Speaker 1: you to put the product on and feel like you're

618
00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:25,120
Speaker 1: you're part of something greater than just yourself, greater than

619
00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:29,000
Speaker 1: just a brand itself, and uh, you know, propelling just positivity.

620
00:33:29,120 --> 00:33:32,600
Speaker 1: You know, you're amazing. Honestly, thank you so much for

621
00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:36,000
Speaker 1: taking the time. Um, we love having you. Do you

622
00:33:36,040 --> 00:33:37,680
Speaker 1: want to plug the website so people can check out

623
00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:41,680
Speaker 1: the clothes. Yeah, Cross New York dot com, k r

624
00:33:41,760 --> 00:33:46,840
Speaker 1: ost New York dot Com. Amazing and um, Sammy, we

625
00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:50,000
Speaker 1: love you. Yeah that was but we have so I

626
00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:53,640
Speaker 1: mean I need like forty seven more of the fire Festival. Yeah,

627
00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:55,480
Speaker 1: well you're you're coming to l A this week, so

628
00:33:55,520 --> 00:33:58,360
Speaker 1: can we all get drinks? We love too, would love

629
00:33:58,440 --> 00:34:02,520
Speaker 1: to awesome because Sam Sammy's actually really like a good

630
00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:06,360
Speaker 1: I feel like you get really good guy advice, guy advice. Yes,

631
00:34:07,240 --> 00:34:09,960
Speaker 1: we've done this before. Yeah, but we've done this like

632
00:34:10,040 --> 00:34:13,399
Speaker 1: drunkenly on a vacation and not like I'm like, well,

633
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:15,800
Speaker 1: I remember, I thought Tanya didn't know I was involved,

634
00:34:15,880 --> 00:34:17,960
Speaker 1: but we spoke about it before. Yeah, because I was

635
00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:22,720
Speaker 1: a little too mee tequila is that day. I'm also

636
00:34:22,760 --> 00:34:26,760
Speaker 1: good at. I'm also good at seeing people who's drinks stuff. Okay,

637
00:34:26,800 --> 00:34:29,440
Speaker 1: well I can't. I can't wait to see you, and

638
00:34:29,480 --> 00:34:31,760
Speaker 1: thank you so much for taking the time. Thanks Sammy.

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00:34:32,520 --> 00:34:37,239
Speaker 1: Good to meet you. Guys. Um, yeah I could, seriously,

640
00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:44,600
Speaker 1: I just I want to go watch him again documentaries again.

641
00:34:44,800 --> 00:34:47,560
Speaker 1: It's so I don't know why it's so fascinating to me,

642
00:34:47,680 --> 00:34:51,120
Speaker 1: just because it's like I like watching people get in

643
00:34:51,280 --> 00:34:54,440
Speaker 1: over their head that aren't me, because it's like it's

644
00:34:54,480 --> 00:34:57,839
Speaker 1: like watching porn for that, like like I always saw

645
00:34:57,840 --> 00:34:59,959
Speaker 1: the Hulu one, but like it was like four days

646
00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:02,120
Speaker 1: before the festival, we don't have anything ready. I'm like,

647
00:35:02,120 --> 00:35:04,759
Speaker 1: oh god, someone's getting in trouble. Yeah. It's like you

648
00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:07,319
Speaker 1: watch this train going down the track and then those

649
00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:09,200
Speaker 1: like the wheels are starting to fall off as it

650
00:35:09,400 --> 00:35:13,400
Speaker 1: keeps moving. You're just like. And also the fire Festival

651
00:35:13,840 --> 00:35:16,279
Speaker 1: Facebook page is still up as if it were a thing,

652
00:35:16,600 --> 00:35:18,359
Speaker 1: and it's fascinating to look at it because it's done

653
00:35:18,360 --> 00:35:20,520
Speaker 1: before when everything was fine. It's like music and art

654
00:35:20,560 --> 00:35:23,560
Speaker 1: festival and remote island we get weekend. He was like, Wow,

655
00:35:23,600 --> 00:35:26,040
Speaker 1: this looks awesome. I know. And also the documentary you

656
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657
00:35:29,000 --> 00:35:31,400
Speaker 1: it's actually like not a legit thing, do you know

658
00:35:31,400 --> 00:35:34,120
Speaker 1: what I mean? He started like a was it fire?

659
00:35:34,680 --> 00:35:37,360
Speaker 1: That's when I started seeing stuff. Yeah, So like he

660
00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:39,399
Speaker 1: was like really looking into it and realized like they

661
00:35:39,440 --> 00:35:43,040
Speaker 1: actually can't pull this off. So it's just like really fascinating.

662
00:35:43,560 --> 00:35:45,160
Speaker 1: And how like people I think they were like trying

663
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664
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Speaker 1: were like posting that and stuff. I think you didn't

665
00:35:50,200 --> 00:35:52,520
Speaker 1: go back. I'm thinking, yeah, first of all, can you

666
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667
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Speaker 1: beds because it rained, and no food or dr pepper, Like,

668
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669
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670
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671
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674
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675
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676
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677
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678
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679
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680
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681
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Speaker 1: Things are great. You know, I'm not gonna lie. I

714
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715
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716
00:38:36,360 --> 00:38:38,560
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717
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718
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Speaker 1: But it's just the wind, No big deal. Yeah, oh

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Speaker 1: move from stuff around? When't you move around? Tania? What's

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753
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754
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Speaker 1: Would you get I'm gonna do a fettachini. Alfredo call

755
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Speaker 1: calling me all like that. You ever get the tour

756
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Speaker 1: of Italy? No, no, no, I'm a fan. Ah yeah.

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759
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Speaker 1: chicken palm? How do you do all that cheese? I

760
00:41:05,320 --> 00:41:09,800
Speaker 1: don't do Alfredo anymore. Alfredo sends me to the bathroom,

761
00:41:09,840 --> 00:41:12,279
Speaker 1: which is what we were going to talk about. Oh

762
00:41:12,360 --> 00:41:16,880
Speaker 1: you need around your squatty potty got rid of it

763
00:41:16,880 --> 00:41:19,759
Speaker 1: because I was like, know what, I brought that one

764
00:41:19,800 --> 00:41:24,120
Speaker 1: guy home and I was like showing him my new place. No,

765
00:41:24,320 --> 00:41:26,480
Speaker 1: and it was just out in a bell. It's just

766
00:41:26,520 --> 00:41:28,759
Speaker 1: in my bath it's in my bathroom. It's just like

767
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Speaker 1: a cabinet. Why would I haven't it. I don't have

768
00:41:31,040 --> 00:41:33,799
Speaker 1: much space under my speak in my bathroom. So no,

769
00:41:33,920 --> 00:41:37,440
Speaker 1: it's just, um, he's the guy that like I went

770
00:41:37,440 --> 00:41:39,520
Speaker 1: out with like a few years ago, and then he

771
00:41:39,640 --> 00:41:42,600
Speaker 1: kind of circled back and was like, oh man, yeah,

772
00:41:42,600 --> 00:41:45,719
Speaker 1: I'm a new guy. Changed and again never heard from

773
00:41:45,760 --> 00:41:48,840
Speaker 1: him again. But um, nevertheless, the date was great and

774
00:41:48,880 --> 00:41:52,120
Speaker 1: I wanted to show them my place, and it got

775
00:41:52,120 --> 00:41:54,720
Speaker 1: me thinking, I was like, this is like not sexy,

776
00:41:54,880 --> 00:41:57,160
Speaker 1: like this is the antithesis of it kind of forces

777
00:41:57,239 --> 00:42:00,600
Speaker 1: him to picture you doing that. Yeah, it's not great.

778
00:42:00,680 --> 00:42:04,319
Speaker 1: And I was like, you know what, picturing someone in

779
00:42:04,400 --> 00:42:07,280
Speaker 1: that position with their legs dropped off, it's not cute.

780
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Speaker 1: It's not And I was like, I just like my

781
00:42:10,200 --> 00:42:16,080
Speaker 1: bed's all like cute and like cozy, and I love

782
00:42:16,120 --> 00:42:18,960
Speaker 1: it's so good. I love how they look. But I

783
00:42:19,080 --> 00:42:22,600
Speaker 1: do make my bed every morning, make my bed pillows

784
00:42:22,640 --> 00:42:25,200
Speaker 1: around your bed right now? Um well, you know I

785
00:42:25,200 --> 00:42:27,480
Speaker 1: don't have my my master bedroom done yet, but in

786
00:42:27,520 --> 00:42:30,919
Speaker 1: my other bedroom that I'm sleeping in right now, there's

787
00:42:30,920 --> 00:42:33,160
Speaker 1: only four pillows, but I'm gonna actually put more. I

788
00:42:33,160 --> 00:42:35,160
Speaker 1: think I'm gonna have five or six on my um,

789
00:42:36,000 --> 00:42:37,880
Speaker 1: on my mask. That's why I started with it. Just

790
00:42:38,040 --> 00:42:40,799
Speaker 1: they started. I'm not real quick, but I was like,

791
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Speaker 1: you know what I want. This is gonna be like

792
00:42:43,400 --> 00:42:46,000
Speaker 1: this is my year, Like I'm finding my guys coming

793
00:42:46,080 --> 00:42:47,880
Speaker 1: like it's all happening. I gotta gotta get rid of

794
00:42:47,880 --> 00:42:51,400
Speaker 1: the squaddy potties. So I did, well, where is it?

795
00:42:51,400 --> 00:42:55,200
Speaker 1: It's in my other bathroom. I was gonna say, why

796
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Speaker 1: did you throw it? Out if it's like helps you

797
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Speaker 1: because I'm going to use a basket now instead the

798
00:43:04,239 --> 00:43:08,719
Speaker 1: original squad. So you just have like a two for

799
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Speaker 1: one deal and your exactly. But I felt good, like

800
00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:13,200
Speaker 1: it felt like a big I was like, you know what,

801
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Speaker 1: I'm making room okay, But so now I suggested that

802
00:43:18,640 --> 00:43:21,600
Speaker 1: she used the spare bathroom as her number two bathroom.

803
00:43:21,760 --> 00:43:24,480
Speaker 1: That's not a bad idea a single person with two bathrooms.

804
00:43:24,480 --> 00:43:26,120
Speaker 1: It's kind of a luxury to have. You're gonna have

805
00:43:26,120 --> 00:43:28,400
Speaker 1: a number one and a number two. Yeah, So what

806
00:43:28,400 --> 00:43:30,400
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do now, Yeah, I just like go wherever

807
00:43:30,440 --> 00:43:32,640
Speaker 1: I'm walking around. If I'm like gotta go, I just

808
00:43:32,680 --> 00:43:35,640
Speaker 1: go find the bathroom with which is closest. I would

809
00:43:35,640 --> 00:43:37,839
Speaker 1: just go to my own bathroom, which is like my

810
00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:40,399
Speaker 1: bath your bathroom. And I guess you're right. I never

811
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Speaker 1: experienced this before. You have three? Yeah. Um, and Tiny's

812
00:43:46,320 --> 00:43:52,359
Speaker 1: also working on something. It's almost weird, like Mark knows

813
00:43:52,360 --> 00:43:55,560
Speaker 1: me better than I know myself when I say these

814
00:43:55,560 --> 00:44:00,160
Speaker 1: things you're working on? Yeah, she wants a new walk.

815
00:44:01,000 --> 00:44:03,040
Speaker 1: Do I want like a swagger walk? Like I want

816
00:44:03,080 --> 00:44:06,319
Speaker 1: like a Beyonce Like I am here walk all right?

817
00:44:06,440 --> 00:44:09,279
Speaker 1: Do its a favor beca. Get out your phone, we'll

818
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Speaker 1: post this. Just come over here by me, show you

819
00:44:13,160 --> 00:44:17,960
Speaker 1: what my regular Tanya walk. Yeah, I want to see. Yeah,

820
00:44:18,040 --> 00:44:20,759
Speaker 1: like the normal walk. Okay, okay, here we go. She's

821
00:44:20,760 --> 00:44:23,040
Speaker 1: taking off her you're going to start over there, right

822
00:44:23,160 --> 00:44:25,799
Speaker 1: coming over here and walking towards you. All right. Here

823
00:44:25,880 --> 00:44:29,360
Speaker 1: she's in her both in matching modern women sweatshirts. By

824
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Speaker 1: the way, all right, here is Tanya's walk normal. I'm

825
00:44:33,600 --> 00:44:35,880
Speaker 1: not sure that that seems a little not normal. That

826
00:44:35,920 --> 00:44:38,840
Speaker 1: seems a little forced. You're thinking about it. You're not

827
00:44:38,880 --> 00:44:42,920
Speaker 1: even your arms aren't moving. It's very river dance. All right,

828
00:44:42,960 --> 00:44:47,200
Speaker 1: try it again, hold on, hold on, hold on, and

829
00:44:49,719 --> 00:44:53,640
Speaker 1: we're thinking about Yeah, you're over thinking your walks, not

830
00:44:53,680 --> 00:44:56,000
Speaker 1: your natural walk, and your sweatshirts all bunched up and

831
00:44:56,040 --> 00:45:02,520
Speaker 1: you're leggings in the back. All right, just go out

832
00:45:02,560 --> 00:45:05,200
Speaker 1: and then come in. Yeah, come in the door. That's

833
00:45:05,200 --> 00:45:10,239
Speaker 1: a good idea, all right, ready go okay, all right,

834
00:45:10,280 --> 00:45:13,800
Speaker 1: I'll buy that. All right now, the new twenty nineteen

835
00:45:13,880 --> 00:45:17,080
Speaker 1: Tanya walked, and she's working on with more swagger, more attitude,

836
00:45:17,560 --> 00:45:21,560
Speaker 1: more confidence. I think we'll see. All right, here we go.

837
00:45:24,920 --> 00:45:28,640
Speaker 1: It's almost like it's got a bounce to it. Yeah,

838
00:45:28,680 --> 00:45:30,600
Speaker 1: I see what you're doing. It's probably good for your

839
00:45:30,640 --> 00:45:32,600
Speaker 1: I don't know foot muscles or something, but you are

840
00:45:32,640 --> 00:45:36,080
Speaker 1: bouncing as you walk. It gets your hair moving. Did

841
00:45:36,120 --> 00:45:39,640
Speaker 1: someone give you this idea? I mean, yeah, it just

842
00:45:39,680 --> 00:45:42,160
Speaker 1: came out of nowhere. Though it's not infectious energy though,

843
00:45:42,320 --> 00:45:44,520
Speaker 1: Like I want to start bouncing after watching it, because

844
00:45:44,560 --> 00:45:46,839
Speaker 1: I like kind of wanted to be like I never

845
00:45:46,880 --> 00:45:49,879
Speaker 1: thought about this doing. Yeah, you've had that walk your

846
00:45:49,920 --> 00:45:53,480
Speaker 1: whole life and something. You must have cropped this in

847
00:45:53,480 --> 00:45:55,400
Speaker 1: your brain. Did you see video of yourself walking and

848
00:45:55,440 --> 00:45:59,680
Speaker 1: think boring? My walk is different right now because my back. Yeah,

849
00:46:00,000 --> 00:46:02,000
Speaker 1: it's a new walk. It's like the first Like you

850
00:46:02,040 --> 00:46:04,080
Speaker 1: know what they say, it's like your energy enters the room.

851
00:46:05,280 --> 00:46:07,080
Speaker 1: You have a lot of energy that enters the room

852
00:46:07,080 --> 00:46:10,279
Speaker 1: without your walk. But I was like, how cool if

853
00:46:10,320 --> 00:46:14,800
Speaker 1: I had this like bouncy bubbly like Beyonce walk. Bouncy

854
00:46:14,840 --> 00:46:17,480
Speaker 1: bubbly Beyonce walk, That's what I wanted to be. Is

855
00:46:17,520 --> 00:46:23,799
Speaker 1: that a good Yeah? Don't search that. Uh you know

856
00:46:24,200 --> 00:46:26,120
Speaker 1: you know that that works. Um, I try to change

857
00:46:26,160 --> 00:46:28,080
Speaker 1: my walk. A couple of years ago, I wanted to

858
00:46:28,080 --> 00:46:39,360
Speaker 1: walk like Shaggy from Scooby Doo. I'm not drinking whilst

859
00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:41,799
Speaker 1: work to wait, Why do you want to foil your

860
00:46:41,880 --> 00:46:44,160
Speaker 1: arms like that? I thought it was more fun. I

861
00:46:44,160 --> 00:46:46,439
Speaker 1: wouldn't mind the walk if you didn't have your arms swing.

862
00:46:46,760 --> 00:46:49,439
Speaker 1: That's part of it. It's part of the pizza. I'm saying.

863
00:46:49,480 --> 00:46:52,080
Speaker 1: It's a it's a dangerous slope you're going on, because

864
00:46:52,120 --> 00:46:55,439
Speaker 1: that backfired on me in a big way. Your walk

865
00:46:55,480 --> 00:46:57,200
Speaker 1: is great, but you gotta if you're gonna change your walk,

866
00:46:57,239 --> 00:46:59,319
Speaker 1: you gotta put a lot of effort into picking it. Yeah,

867
00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:02,439
Speaker 1: he as, I walked into work today like being all

868
00:47:02,560 --> 00:47:06,160
Speaker 1: excited about it, like, no one, no, no, it's not

869
00:47:06,320 --> 00:47:09,719
Speaker 1: I'll be honest. If I hadn't taken the videos, you

870
00:47:09,719 --> 00:47:11,839
Speaker 1: wouldn't have noticed. I would have just been like, well,

871
00:47:11,920 --> 00:47:13,920
Speaker 1: Tony was in a good mood. You not in a

872
00:47:13,920 --> 00:47:16,000
Speaker 1: good mood. Do I need to change it again? No?

873
00:47:16,160 --> 00:47:17,600
Speaker 1: I think you gotta stick with that for at least

874
00:47:17,600 --> 00:47:20,400
Speaker 1: a few weeks. Well, yeah, because you gotta adjust to it.

875
00:47:20,400 --> 00:47:23,440
Speaker 1: It's got to become natural, right, all right, a couple

876
00:47:23,480 --> 00:47:25,399
Speaker 1: more topics we want to get to wait. Did y'all

877
00:47:25,400 --> 00:47:28,640
Speaker 1: see on the Facebook group the girl kept her uh

878
00:47:29,040 --> 00:47:33,680
Speaker 1: condom of their first time. She shot at it. Actually,

879
00:47:33,719 --> 00:47:36,359
Speaker 1: should we call her out? So the deal was she

880
00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:38,800
Speaker 1: was she had watched the Tidying Up on Netflix, and

881
00:47:38,920 --> 00:47:40,600
Speaker 1: she was cleaning her house and so she found an

882
00:47:40,600 --> 00:47:42,440
Speaker 1: old memory box and then the memory box was the

883
00:47:42,560 --> 00:47:46,359
Speaker 1: rapper from the condom from the first time she had sex.

884
00:47:46,800 --> 00:47:50,120
Speaker 1: And what's her name? Morgan? But I don't have a

885
00:47:50,160 --> 00:47:56,960
Speaker 1: last names? Okay, yeah, she hashtag modern woman moment. This

886
00:47:57,040 --> 00:47:59,880
Speaker 1: is so something time you would do. I thought it

887
00:47:59,920 --> 00:48:04,000
Speaker 1: was Tanya's post, like, I didn't even even think about it.

888
00:48:04,120 --> 00:48:07,160
Speaker 1: I'm surprised I didn't save my condom wrapper from my

889
00:48:07,840 --> 00:48:10,920
Speaker 1: first time. I'm actually shocked I didn't. What what do

890
00:48:10,920 --> 00:48:12,759
Speaker 1: you think is the strangest thing you did save? Can

891
00:48:12,800 --> 00:48:21,520
Speaker 1: you think of anything? Nothing like ticket stubs? I saved

892
00:48:21,560 --> 00:48:26,319
Speaker 1: like programs from something I've saved like eggshells from like

893
00:48:26,320 --> 00:48:27,880
Speaker 1: like an easter basket, and I saved like one of

894
00:48:27,920 --> 00:48:30,799
Speaker 1: the eggs or something like dumb. But that's all just

895
00:48:30,840 --> 00:48:33,040
Speaker 1: like normal. I never saved anything weird, like his underwear

896
00:48:33,120 --> 00:48:35,920
Speaker 1: or anything. He would know that if you if you

897
00:48:35,920 --> 00:48:39,000
Speaker 1: saved his underwear, he'd be wondering where it went. I

898
00:48:39,000 --> 00:48:40,920
Speaker 1: wonder where it was missing all the time. Yeah, no,

899
00:48:40,920 --> 00:48:44,239
Speaker 1: I've never saved anything weird like that beat someone who

900
00:48:44,320 --> 00:48:46,960
Speaker 1: saves stuff for second. Thank you. I don't know if

901
00:48:46,960 --> 00:48:50,160
Speaker 1: that's nice or not, but thank you. Um I do.

902
00:48:50,560 --> 00:48:52,960
Speaker 1: As I was moving, I came across some stuff from

903
00:48:53,400 --> 00:48:57,560
Speaker 1: rob like my relationship with Robert um and it was

904
00:48:57,600 --> 00:49:00,160
Speaker 1: like a booklet that he made me for christ Us.

905
00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:02,120
Speaker 1: It was like his handwriting and stuff and his like

906
00:49:02,160 --> 00:49:05,520
Speaker 1: pictures of things that we had done um and then

907
00:49:06,000 --> 00:49:08,160
Speaker 1: just like pictures and like cards that he had me,

908
00:49:08,280 --> 00:49:11,680
Speaker 1: but nothing. I mean, like to be honest, I think

909
00:49:11,719 --> 00:49:13,320
Speaker 1: I just had it because I wasn't gonna throw it

910
00:49:13,360 --> 00:49:15,480
Speaker 1: away in the moment. But I don't. I don't. I

911
00:49:15,520 --> 00:49:17,920
Speaker 1: don't have a spot for it that I'm like, Oh

912
00:49:17,960 --> 00:49:19,400
Speaker 1: it was just like, oh that was fun. That was

913
00:49:19,440 --> 00:49:23,239
Speaker 1: so sweet speaking of it down to come on the podcast.

914
00:49:23,760 --> 00:49:25,799
Speaker 1: We talked the other day and we both think it's

915
00:49:25,840 --> 00:49:28,439
Speaker 1: like you could do it and it wouldn't be weird.

916
00:49:28,480 --> 00:49:33,080
Speaker 1: It would be like funny, great, I'm down, are you kidding?

917
00:49:33,160 --> 00:49:36,919
Speaker 1: And beyond Robert's like Mary Poppins. What does that mean?

918
00:49:37,239 --> 00:49:39,680
Speaker 1: He's like my go to, like he just like gives

919
00:49:39,719 --> 00:49:43,319
Speaker 1: good advice because you're Mary Poppins. Oh it doesn't. He's

920
00:49:43,400 --> 00:49:45,879
Speaker 1: my go to, Like, I know, I'm going to get

921
00:49:45,960 --> 00:49:48,439
Speaker 1: legit advice from Barbert because he's like a guy's guy,

922
00:49:48,719 --> 00:49:53,040
Speaker 1: but he's also like dated you, so he's like family

923
00:49:53,160 --> 00:49:56,600
Speaker 1: to me. He finds his fin on an umbrella. Have

924
00:49:56,640 --> 00:50:01,680
Speaker 1: you seen Mary Poppins? Yeah, and Harry Poppins return. All right, Okay,

925
00:50:01,719 --> 00:50:04,680
Speaker 1: he's like Mary Poppins, Harry Poppins, did you keep the

926
00:50:04,719 --> 00:50:06,480
Speaker 1: picture book or did you just throw it away? I

927
00:50:06,520 --> 00:50:09,080
Speaker 1: still have it somewhere gone through. I don't know if

928
00:50:09,080 --> 00:50:10,839
Speaker 1: I'll keep it. But it was you know, I sent

929
00:50:10,920 --> 00:50:12,360
Speaker 1: a picture to him. It was like look what I

930
00:50:12,440 --> 00:50:14,520
Speaker 1: just found, and he packed it and brought it to

931
00:50:14,560 --> 00:50:16,640
Speaker 1: the new place. Yeah, but I couldn't tell you where

932
00:50:16,800 --> 00:50:18,480
Speaker 1: where it is. Well, I have a lot of things

933
00:50:18,520 --> 00:50:22,120
Speaker 1: that made it over that I'm okay to leave in

934
00:50:22,160 --> 00:50:25,120
Speaker 1: the past. See for me, I would have thrown all

935
00:50:25,160 --> 00:50:28,040
Speaker 1: my old stuff away, but I'm keeping all my old letters,

936
00:50:28,400 --> 00:50:30,440
Speaker 1: um for the book that I'm going to write one day.

937
00:50:30,560 --> 00:50:32,719
Speaker 1: That's smart. Yeah, because I was like, I'm you know,

938
00:50:32,760 --> 00:50:34,480
Speaker 1: I'm ready to part with all of these things, like

939
00:50:34,520 --> 00:50:38,360
Speaker 1: I really am. But I was like, how legit is

940
00:50:38,360 --> 00:50:40,040
Speaker 1: it going to be in my book to have like

941
00:50:40,719 --> 00:50:43,720
Speaker 1: xerox copies of some of these, Like what is that happening?

942
00:50:43,760 --> 00:50:47,520
Speaker 1: When is the book happening? Probably after I like find

943
00:50:47,560 --> 00:50:51,080
Speaker 1: my husband and get married. Okay, so yeah, it's gonna

944
00:50:51,080 --> 00:50:53,239
Speaker 1: happen this year and then I get married and then

945
00:50:53,239 --> 00:50:56,600
Speaker 1: the book will come to for sure it. How will

946
00:50:56,680 --> 00:51:03,680
Speaker 1: you be walking in? We can only imagine the new guy. Yeah,

947
00:51:04,960 --> 00:51:07,840
Speaker 1: you like do a new walk specifically for your wedding.

948
00:51:08,480 --> 00:51:11,560
Speaker 1: Uncomfortable for everyone to watch. But do you know what

949
00:51:11,600 --> 00:51:14,120
Speaker 1: I decided? Actually, and Becca, you'll be pleased to I

950
00:51:14,160 --> 00:51:16,320
Speaker 1: mean fully still ordering her Olive Garden by getting on

951
00:51:16,400 --> 00:51:22,040
Speaker 1: her credit card gift card. W Um, you'll be happy

952
00:51:22,080 --> 00:51:24,120
Speaker 1: to hear this. I decided that I'm gonna let my

953
00:51:24,160 --> 00:51:27,479
Speaker 1: bride'smaids pick out all their dresses. Well that's so kind. Yeah,

954
00:51:27,560 --> 00:51:30,439
Speaker 1: And I think while we're here, I think if you

955
00:51:30,480 --> 00:51:33,840
Speaker 1: are getting married that what do you It's just weird

956
00:51:33,880 --> 00:51:36,000
Speaker 1: to talk about your wedding when you're not dating anyone.

957
00:51:36,080 --> 00:51:39,280
Speaker 1: It's weird. It's croud Manifestation Mark, Okay, you're big fans

958
00:51:39,280 --> 00:51:44,240
Speaker 1: of Manifestation around here. Um, but yeah, I think everyone

959
00:51:44,280 --> 00:51:46,239
Speaker 1: should kind of go that route. Ye, Like I'm gonna

960
00:51:46,480 --> 00:51:50,760
Speaker 1: never talk to someone who's like, I loved my bride's

961
00:51:50,800 --> 00:51:53,360
Speaker 1: maid dress so much that I wore it again, and

962
00:51:53,600 --> 00:51:56,480
Speaker 1: everyone says you can wear it again. No one wears

963
00:51:56,520 --> 00:51:58,560
Speaker 1: it again. I just got rid of two of mine. Actually,

964
00:51:58,600 --> 00:52:00,200
Speaker 1: that's what got me thinking about it, and I was, Yeah,

965
00:52:00,200 --> 00:52:01,919
Speaker 1: I'm gonna pick a color scheme and then I'm gonna

966
00:52:01,920 --> 00:52:05,799
Speaker 1: have my bridesmaids. Yeah, pick out what else we did

967
00:52:05,800 --> 00:52:07,799
Speaker 1: in our wedding. Yeah. All the bridesmans are very happy

968
00:52:07,840 --> 00:52:10,759
Speaker 1: with it. Yeah, so that's exciting, that's smart. One check

969
00:52:10,800 --> 00:52:14,200
Speaker 1: off the list. Yeah, well that's one part of the

970
00:52:14,239 --> 00:52:17,239
Speaker 1: wedding planning. Um. Speaking of one. Should we have Robert on?

971
00:52:18,560 --> 00:52:20,319
Speaker 1: I mean, we can do it next week. We can

972
00:52:20,360 --> 00:52:23,320
Speaker 1: do it next let's go next week in look him in,

973
00:52:23,360 --> 00:52:25,719
Speaker 1: text him right now? Okay, I will. Um, I love

974
00:52:26,040 --> 00:52:27,480
Speaker 1: something else. I was, Oh, you want me to text

975
00:52:27,520 --> 00:52:30,440
Speaker 1: him now? Yeah? Ask him for Monday. Should we call

976
00:52:30,520 --> 00:52:38,120
Speaker 1: him and ask that's getting better? Um? No? Yeah? Um no?

977
00:52:38,320 --> 00:52:44,480
Speaker 1: Or please? This is like go liath while we're calling.

978
00:52:44,880 --> 00:52:49,120
Speaker 1: I have a funny bit of information about Ben Higgins

979
00:52:49,280 --> 00:52:53,160
Speaker 1: new girl. Allegedly new girl. He hasn't announced it yet.

980
00:52:54,120 --> 00:52:58,000
Speaker 1: Our Facebook group did some digging love. Of course, I

981
00:52:58,080 --> 00:53:01,800
Speaker 1: go and look on the and they like put her Instagram.

982
00:53:01,840 --> 00:53:04,200
Speaker 1: So I go look on it and I see that

983
00:53:04,239 --> 00:53:07,919
Speaker 1: my brother has liked her photos, and I'm like, oh,

984
00:53:09,000 --> 00:53:12,040
Speaker 1: wait a second. I wonder if they know each other,

985
00:53:12,360 --> 00:53:14,520
Speaker 1: what the connection is. So I text my brother and

986
00:53:14,560 --> 00:53:17,000
Speaker 1: I'm like, hey, do you know this girl? Blah blah blah,

987
00:53:17,080 --> 00:53:21,120
Speaker 1: And he's like, like a few years ago she started

988
00:53:21,120 --> 00:53:24,440
Speaker 1: following me, and I drunkenly like d m her one

989
00:53:24,560 --> 00:53:26,560
Speaker 1: night and like we just chatted back and forth for

990
00:53:26,600 --> 00:53:29,440
Speaker 1: a little bit. It always goes down in But that

991
00:53:29,520 --> 00:53:33,400
Speaker 1: was about it. But isn't that such a small world

992
00:53:34,160 --> 00:53:36,239
Speaker 1: of all the people and she didn't even live like

993
00:53:36,320 --> 00:53:38,719
Speaker 1: in Denver. It's like, what do we know about her

994
00:53:38,760 --> 00:53:41,640
Speaker 1: at this point? Publicly? I think he said he's dating someone,

995
00:53:41,719 --> 00:53:45,480
Speaker 1: it's a long distance and she's not amazing. I think

996
00:53:46,120 --> 00:53:49,080
Speaker 1: because that's what a lot of people speculated because he

997
00:53:49,120 --> 00:53:50,520
Speaker 1: said he would have to stay in a couple of weeks.

998
00:53:50,560 --> 00:53:55,879
Speaker 1: I think everybody's like, oh, the other day you did

999
00:53:56,200 --> 00:53:57,400
Speaker 1: did I don't know if I'm allowed to say that,

1000
00:53:57,400 --> 00:53:59,520
Speaker 1: but I met on Skype the other day and she

1001
00:53:59,520 --> 00:54:01,279
Speaker 1: couldn't me, but I could see her, and I told her.

1002
00:54:01,320 --> 00:54:03,759
Speaker 1: She had beautiful hair and beautiful skin. She's beautiful, she said,

1003
00:54:03,760 --> 00:54:08,799
Speaker 1: Please don't talk to me every game. Generally get sense

1004
00:54:08,800 --> 00:54:11,520
Speaker 1: of humor. They seemed to really enjoy each other's company,

1005
00:54:11,760 --> 00:54:13,839
Speaker 1: and I'm really happy for him. Me too. I'm so

1006
00:54:13,880 --> 00:54:16,400
Speaker 1: happy for him. We were texting. He sent me a

1007
00:54:16,480 --> 00:54:20,800
Speaker 1: picture of the two of them. They're super cute. Um,

1008
00:54:20,840 --> 00:54:23,560
Speaker 1: But that's all say because that's his business to talk about.

1009
00:54:24,480 --> 00:54:26,360
Speaker 1: But I did think he was a small world. That

1010
00:54:26,360 --> 00:54:28,319
Speaker 1: that's who you know, because on Instagram it says like

1011
00:54:28,400 --> 00:54:31,160
Speaker 1: so and so and so and so liked this photo,

1012
00:54:31,360 --> 00:54:34,800
Speaker 1: it likes his name, and it happened to my brothers. Wow,

1013
00:54:36,440 --> 00:54:44,719
Speaker 1: is he on? Robert what? I was not expecting that

1014
00:54:44,800 --> 00:54:47,240
Speaker 1: phone call. I know, we you know. I was gonna

1015
00:54:47,440 --> 00:54:50,040
Speaker 1: text you and warn you, but I felt like bombarding

1016
00:54:50,040 --> 00:54:53,720
Speaker 1: you would be more fun. I was literally laying face

1017
00:54:53,800 --> 00:54:57,120
Speaker 1: down on my couch when you called, and just woke

1018
00:54:57,200 --> 00:55:01,000
Speaker 1: up for this. Are you okay? Are you gonna? I'm good.

1019
00:55:01,040 --> 00:55:03,200
Speaker 1: I'm good to go. It's a long day, you know,

1020
00:55:03,239 --> 00:55:04,719
Speaker 1: trying to get a quick nap in when I can.

1021
00:55:04,960 --> 00:55:07,759
Speaker 1: This is what happens. Mary Poppins just flops in, you know.

1022
00:55:08,080 --> 00:55:11,120
Speaker 1: Tony described you as her Mary Poppins. I don't know

1023
00:55:11,239 --> 00:55:14,359
Speaker 1: if that means anything to you or to anyone else,

1024
00:55:14,400 --> 00:55:17,520
Speaker 1: but that's that's how she described you. Doesn't mean a

1025
00:55:17,520 --> 00:55:20,960
Speaker 1: lot to me in this moment. Uh. I would love

1026
00:55:21,000 --> 00:55:23,799
Speaker 1: to would love to hear more about that one. Um, well,

1027
00:55:23,800 --> 00:55:26,719
Speaker 1: we were mostly yeah, we'll talk about that, but we

1028
00:55:26,719 --> 00:55:29,239
Speaker 1: were mostly calling to see when you're available to come

1029
00:55:29,280 --> 00:55:36,400
Speaker 1: on the podcast. Um, I'm out of town through Robber first,

1030
00:55:36,880 --> 00:55:39,440
Speaker 1: but after that I could come. It will have to

1031
00:55:39,480 --> 00:55:44,279
Speaker 1: be no, because I'm not here. This is very unfortunate.

1032
00:55:45,719 --> 00:55:50,600
Speaker 1: Can you leave? Can you rearrange something? Can you rearrange

1033
00:55:50,640 --> 00:55:54,880
Speaker 1: something going? I'm going out of the country, far, far away,

1034
00:55:54,920 --> 00:56:00,279
Speaker 1: so I can't unfortunately rearrange in your back when I'm

1035
00:56:00,320 --> 00:56:04,240
Speaker 1: back on the night at the first like I get yeah, Friday,

1036
00:56:04,239 --> 00:56:07,000
Speaker 1: like eleven on Friday night, right, And so you're not

1037
00:56:07,120 --> 00:56:09,319
Speaker 1: here after the super Bowl Bucca. Okay, so we're looking

1038
00:56:09,360 --> 00:56:15,919
Speaker 1: at the eleventh of February. It's still not bad. Dear listen, Well,

1039
00:56:16,000 --> 00:56:18,759
Speaker 1: we're gonna work this out. Don't worry. We're gonna work

1040
00:56:18,840 --> 00:56:21,440
Speaker 1: this out. My heart just got so excited, Robert that

1041
00:56:21,480 --> 00:56:23,040
Speaker 1: you were going to be on the podcast, and then

1042
00:56:23,040 --> 00:56:26,840
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna be on. It's just when I'm getting married.

1043
00:56:27,360 --> 00:56:30,080
Speaker 1: Tanya says that she's getting married in by the way,

1044
00:56:30,320 --> 00:56:34,160
Speaker 1: it's exciting. I'm he's the guy. I gotta, I gotta,

1045
00:56:34,360 --> 00:56:36,239
Speaker 1: I gotta see what this guy's all about. No, we

1046
00:56:36,280 --> 00:56:40,800
Speaker 1: don't there is no guy. Okay manifesting Yeah, um okay,

1047
00:56:40,840 --> 00:56:43,960
Speaker 1: well we'll figure this out, make this happen. But sorry,

1048
00:56:43,960 --> 00:56:47,160
Speaker 1: we woke you up. That's okay. I hope you guys

1049
00:56:47,160 --> 00:56:49,120
Speaker 1: are doing fantastic and I look forward to coming on

1050
00:56:49,520 --> 00:56:56,040
Speaker 1: in the next year. So I can't wait. Bye, Bob Robert,

1051
00:56:56,160 --> 00:57:03,399
Speaker 1: love you, love you. Well, that'll be fun. That would

1052
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Speaker 1: be a great that would be fun. I'm already thinking

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Speaker 1: time to coup with questions. Got a couple of weeks

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Speaker 1: This is from Jody. Hello, I'm a listener since the

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Speaker 1: beginning of the podcast. First time emailer. Thank you, Jody.

1084
00:58:56,440 --> 00:58:58,200
Speaker 1: I wanted a time you can talk about seeing Bobby

1085
00:58:58,240 --> 00:59:00,360
Speaker 1: Bones of the podcast Awards, since I saw extras of

1086
00:59:00,400 --> 00:59:02,600
Speaker 1: them from that night. I really wonder why these two

1087
00:59:02,600 --> 00:59:05,880
Speaker 1: wouldn't give a relationship a serious try. They're both such

1088
00:59:06,000 --> 00:59:08,560
Speaker 1: great people. Is it because they work in the same industry?

1089
00:59:08,600 --> 00:59:10,280
Speaker 1: I would think that would be a positive thing. I

1090
00:59:10,320 --> 00:59:12,680
Speaker 1: know the distance is not ideal, but you never know.

1091
00:59:13,080 --> 00:59:14,920
Speaker 1: I'm a forty year old woman who was way too

1092
00:59:15,000 --> 00:59:17,600
Speaker 1: invested in both of these people finding their person. Keep

1093
00:59:17,640 --> 00:59:19,600
Speaker 1: up the awesome work on the pot. It's Jody in

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00:59:19,640 --> 00:59:22,760
Speaker 1: New Jersey, speaking of do you remember that listener at

1095
00:59:22,760 --> 00:59:26,840
Speaker 1: our voting party that brought us the like plant like

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00:59:27,200 --> 00:59:30,400
Speaker 1: for a man for each of us or whatever. It's

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00:59:30,400 --> 00:59:32,560
Speaker 1: in my um on my balcony at my house and

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00:59:32,600 --> 00:59:38,240
Speaker 1: it is flourishing, it is green, it's vibrant, it's growing.

1099
00:59:38,560 --> 00:59:43,280
Speaker 1: I was like, this might be a sign. There's a

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00:59:43,280 --> 00:59:45,400
Speaker 1: lot of signs, a lot of signs, a lot of

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00:59:45,440 --> 00:59:55,320
Speaker 1: signs happening. But with the spotty potty removal. H sure

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00:59:55,400 --> 00:59:59,919
Speaker 1: what kind of plant is? Um? Okay? So with the Bob,

1103
01:00:01,120 --> 01:00:02,800
Speaker 1: he did ask me to hang out while he was

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01:00:02,840 --> 01:00:06,080
Speaker 1: in town. But here was my issue with it. If

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01:00:06,080 --> 01:00:10,480
Speaker 1: you want to date me, like genuinely date me, be like, hey, Tanya,

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01:00:10,560 --> 01:00:12,800
Speaker 1: I'm coming into town and I would love to see you,

1107
01:00:13,240 --> 01:00:16,040
Speaker 1: maybe the day before, maybe two days before. But he

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01:00:16,120 --> 01:00:18,640
Speaker 1: texted me the morning of and I already planned my

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01:00:18,680 --> 01:00:21,040
Speaker 1: Tanya time. I give myself one hour a day and

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01:00:21,120 --> 01:00:23,440
Speaker 1: that was my workout time, and so I had to

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01:00:23,480 --> 01:00:26,840
Speaker 1: say I can't hang out that time because that was

1112
01:00:26,920 --> 01:00:29,280
Speaker 1: when I had my workout and I stand by that.

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01:00:29,440 --> 01:00:31,160
Speaker 1: Everybody was like kind of giving me some heat, and

1114
01:00:31,160 --> 01:00:32,800
Speaker 1: they were like, if you really wanted to date him,

1115
01:00:32,800 --> 01:00:34,160
Speaker 1: like you would have made time, And I was like,

1116
01:00:34,240 --> 01:00:36,800
Speaker 1: I totally would have made time if I had a

1117
01:00:36,800 --> 01:00:38,680
Speaker 1: little bit of an advanced notice, you know what I mean,

1118
01:00:38,720 --> 01:00:41,960
Speaker 1: Like he called you at eleven am something like hat

1119
01:00:42,480 --> 01:00:46,680
Speaker 1: it was like nine or something like that. I feel

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01:00:46,720 --> 01:00:50,560
Speaker 1: like that wasn't exactly him over excited to spend time

1121
01:00:50,600 --> 01:00:53,520
Speaker 1: with you, correct And I seemed like someone canceled basically,

1122
01:00:53,640 --> 01:00:56,000
Speaker 1: or something didn't happen right. He had a meeting. It

1123
01:00:56,000 --> 01:00:59,680
Speaker 1: didn't happen or whatever, but I felt like, I want

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01:01:00,400 --> 01:01:02,680
Speaker 1: I want somebody, and I'm not going to like make

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01:01:02,720 --> 01:01:05,320
Speaker 1: any excuses for this, Like I want somebody that really

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01:01:05,600 --> 01:01:09,439
Speaker 1: wants me. That makes sense. I didn't feel like that

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01:01:09,440 --> 01:01:14,720
Speaker 1: that makes sense. Yeah, I'm torn on it because I

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01:01:14,760 --> 01:01:17,320
Speaker 1: totally think that you should. I think that he should

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01:01:17,320 --> 01:01:18,800
Speaker 1: have been like him coming in town. I'd love to

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01:01:18,800 --> 01:01:21,560
Speaker 1: see you that type of thing. But I am wondering

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01:01:21,720 --> 01:01:23,560
Speaker 1: while he was here, he's I feel like he's the

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01:01:23,560 --> 01:01:25,560
Speaker 1: type of guy who's like booked all the time, like

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01:01:25,680 --> 01:01:28,400
Speaker 1: always busy and got like, especially when he's traveling to

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01:01:28,480 --> 01:01:33,400
Speaker 1: do work stuff. So I kind of, you know, the

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01:01:33,440 --> 01:01:35,280
Speaker 1: fact that he reached out when he had free time,

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01:01:35,280 --> 01:01:37,360
Speaker 1: out of all the people he probably could have reached

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01:01:37,400 --> 01:01:39,680
Speaker 1: out too to hang out. I think that is something

1138
01:01:40,560 --> 01:01:42,360
Speaker 1: he was. He was like Q two with you. But

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01:01:42,400 --> 01:01:44,880
Speaker 1: if I'm him, I know I'm coming to l a

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01:01:44,920 --> 01:01:47,480
Speaker 1: weeks in advance, and so i'd let you know weeks

1141
01:01:47,480 --> 01:01:49,240
Speaker 1: in advance, and I really want to get together. I'm

1142
01:01:49,280 --> 01:01:51,480
Speaker 1: not sure of my schedule yet, but let's definitely make

1143
01:01:52,520 --> 01:01:57,320
Speaker 1: I know a few people that are very busy and

1144
01:01:58,480 --> 01:02:02,320
Speaker 1: they can when they want to see somebody they make

1145
01:02:02,360 --> 01:02:08,880
Speaker 1: the time priority exactly, so whatever. So there's but I

1146
01:02:09,000 --> 01:02:13,520
Speaker 1: felt I felt like y'all were like a like, I mean,

1147
01:02:13,560 --> 01:02:17,200
Speaker 1: I'm always trying, girlfriends owns trying, but there's only so

1148
01:02:17,320 --> 01:02:19,040
Speaker 1: much I can do, you know what I mean? Like

1149
01:02:19,480 --> 01:02:21,600
Speaker 1: and shout out to all of Bobby Bones his listeners

1150
01:02:21,640 --> 01:02:23,200
Speaker 1: who will be hearing this when he plays it on

1151
01:02:23,240 --> 01:02:27,480
Speaker 1: his show. All right From Maria, she says, Hi, guys,

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01:02:27,520 --> 01:02:30,520
Speaker 1: I love your podcast. My boyfriend feels the need to

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01:02:30,560 --> 01:02:34,360
Speaker 1: add every single girl he meets on Instagram, even after

1154
01:02:34,400 --> 01:02:38,040
Speaker 1: only meeting them once. He tells me it's purely friendly.

1155
01:02:38,080 --> 01:02:40,280
Speaker 1: But my experience is that any guy that meets me

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01:02:40,440 --> 01:02:42,520
Speaker 1: and searches me out and follows me on i G

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01:02:42,720 --> 01:02:45,240
Speaker 1: after meeting me once is usually interested in some form

1158
01:02:45,320 --> 01:02:47,440
Speaker 1: or another. It makes me feel as though he's browsing.

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01:02:47,680 --> 01:02:50,240
Speaker 1: We both work at the hospital and continually meet new people,

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01:02:50,280 --> 01:02:51,440
Speaker 1: but I don't feel the need to at all the

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01:02:51,480 --> 01:02:54,000
Speaker 1: guys I work with. How do we solve social media

1162
01:02:54,000 --> 01:02:55,720
Speaker 1: issues in relationship when you don't see eye to eye.

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01:02:55,760 --> 01:02:58,160
Speaker 1: Well that's kind of a bigger picture situation. But I

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01:02:58,200 --> 01:03:00,280
Speaker 1: don't like this. But you guys are way more into

1165
01:03:00,320 --> 01:03:01,880
Speaker 1: Instagram than I am. So what do you guys think

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01:03:02,000 --> 01:03:04,240
Speaker 1: I would hate this. This would be a huge problem

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01:03:04,280 --> 01:03:09,360
Speaker 1: for me. I get stressed when, like, yeah, I get

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01:03:09,400 --> 01:03:13,400
Speaker 1: stressed on dating with someone and they're like liking photos

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01:03:13,640 --> 01:03:16,840
Speaker 1: or like commenting on things. Like if if I was

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01:03:17,080 --> 01:03:20,280
Speaker 1: if I were in this situation, I would I would

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01:03:20,280 --> 01:03:25,280
Speaker 1: be concerned. Sorry, is really giving this some some thought?

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01:03:25,440 --> 01:03:28,720
Speaker 1: I am, I'm surprised by this actually that you're so.

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01:03:29,720 --> 01:03:32,360
Speaker 1: I feel like, if you're secure in your relationships, you

1174
01:03:32,440 --> 01:03:35,080
Speaker 1: know that's not fair. You can't say no because like

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01:03:35,560 --> 01:03:40,160
Speaker 1: I am very that you're very secure. I'm saying most

1176
01:03:40,160 --> 01:03:43,960
Speaker 1: of the time, I'm very secure. And if it would

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01:03:44,120 --> 01:03:47,040
Speaker 1: make anyone question like why are you? Why does it

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01:03:47,080 --> 01:03:48,600
Speaker 1: Why do you need to follow them and see what

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01:03:48,640 --> 01:03:50,520
Speaker 1: they're up to all the time? Why do we follow

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01:03:50,560 --> 01:03:53,840
Speaker 1: anybody that we follow because their friends are they're interesting,

1181
01:03:54,000 --> 01:03:56,320
Speaker 1: they all work in this scene once. It's not like

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01:03:56,360 --> 01:03:58,800
Speaker 1: he needs to know. Do you follow every single person?

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01:03:58,880 --> 01:04:01,880
Speaker 1: Sometimes you probably do, like musicians and stuff, But like

1184
01:04:02,560 --> 01:04:03,960
Speaker 1: if you worked at it, If you were at a

1185
01:04:04,000 --> 01:04:06,880
Speaker 1: party and you're and you had a boyfriend and you

1186
01:04:06,960 --> 01:04:10,160
Speaker 1: started and you met these guys once or something, and

1187
01:04:10,200 --> 01:04:13,040
Speaker 1: you started following them, why would there be the need

1188
01:04:13,080 --> 01:04:15,880
Speaker 1: to follow them. Why is there a need to follow

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01:04:15,920 --> 01:04:17,920
Speaker 1: anybody that we follow their like in our world and

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01:04:17,960 --> 01:04:20,400
Speaker 1: are like zeke guys, I don't know, Like I'll meet

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01:04:20,520 --> 01:04:22,920
Speaker 1: people randomly and start following them on but you're not

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01:04:22,960 --> 01:04:25,960
Speaker 1: in a relationship, you can do that, right, But even

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01:04:26,000 --> 01:04:31,040
Speaker 1: when he's not adding every guy he meets, Yeah, that's

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01:04:31,040 --> 01:04:33,440
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. If you were adding other girls and

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01:04:33,480 --> 01:04:36,240
Speaker 1: like and right, but we don't know that. Maybe that's

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01:04:36,280 --> 01:04:38,400
Speaker 1: just all she's focusing. I think that. I think if

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01:04:38,400 --> 01:04:41,120
Speaker 1: he was adding everybody he meets, I think that's different.

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01:04:41,280 --> 01:04:43,200
Speaker 1: I think that's not worth an email. And I think

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01:04:43,200 --> 01:04:45,600
Speaker 1: that no matter how secure you are, this is a

1200
01:04:45,600 --> 01:04:50,800
Speaker 1: push into insecurity. See, this is what's the problem. Is that, say,

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01:04:50,920 --> 01:04:52,920
Speaker 1: the thing on the left of Instagram where you can

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01:04:53,120 --> 01:04:55,920
Speaker 1: see people's actions, do you know what I mean? I

1203
01:04:55,920 --> 01:05:00,040
Speaker 1: don't look on that page. I don't care. But and

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01:05:00,120 --> 01:05:02,240
Speaker 1: how do you see everything else? Sometimes I take a candor,

1205
01:05:02,320 --> 01:05:04,840
Speaker 1: but I don't do it all the time, and sometimes

1206
01:05:04,880 --> 01:05:08,120
Speaker 1: I accidentally like well, as I'm like scrolling, I'll see it,

1207
01:05:08,120 --> 01:05:10,160
Speaker 1: but I like try not. I mean, I think that's

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01:05:10,200 --> 01:05:12,600
Speaker 1: the page that really this messes people up because you

1209
01:05:12,640 --> 01:05:14,920
Speaker 1: see all the activity, You're like, well, are they liking

1210
01:05:14,960 --> 01:05:17,240
Speaker 1: all these photos and not mine? Or like whatever? You know.

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01:05:18,000 --> 01:05:19,080
Speaker 1: I like looking at that in the middle of the

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01:05:19,160 --> 01:05:21,040
Speaker 1: night because I call it the Nightly thirst Report. You

1213
01:05:21,080 --> 01:05:23,520
Speaker 1: can see like there'll be like one dude and it'll

1214
01:05:23,600 --> 01:05:26,480
Speaker 1: be like like fifteen pictures and it's all girls in bikinis.

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01:05:26,520 --> 01:05:31,480
Speaker 1: Totally like that would boy? Okay, So we think that

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01:05:31,480 --> 01:05:33,640
Speaker 1: that he's just only adding the girls. I just thought

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01:05:33,680 --> 01:05:35,800
Speaker 1: if he's just adding everybody, like, I'm like, I don't,

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01:05:35,840 --> 01:05:38,560
Speaker 1: I would, I don't. I think he's keeping his options open.

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01:05:38,840 --> 01:05:41,120
Speaker 1: I do. It's sad. I'm sorry, I do. I think

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01:05:41,120 --> 01:05:45,720
Speaker 1: he is. I think just look, I can only know

1221
01:05:45,840 --> 01:05:48,080
Speaker 1: my situation. If my wife were doing this, I'd have

1222
01:05:48,120 --> 01:05:53,760
Speaker 1: a real problem with it, and vice versa, and justifiably so, Tanya.

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01:05:53,920 --> 01:05:57,160
Speaker 1: I know, without a shadow of a doubt, if you

1224
01:05:57,240 --> 01:05:59,760
Speaker 1: were in a relationship with a guy and crazy about

1225
01:05:59,840 --> 01:06:02,960
Speaker 1: him him and he started just following girls all the time,

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01:06:03,280 --> 01:06:08,560
Speaker 1: that it would make you insecure. I love that you're

1227
01:06:08,600 --> 01:06:12,760
Speaker 1: trying to act like you're so confident and not capable

1228
01:06:12,800 --> 01:06:16,080
Speaker 1: of feeling insecure by someone following on Instagram. I mean,

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01:06:16,120 --> 01:06:18,040
Speaker 1: it's not like I've never been in a relationship in

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01:06:18,040 --> 01:06:21,560
Speaker 1: my life. But it wasn't. It wasn't this like Instagram

1231
01:06:21,680 --> 01:06:25,480
Speaker 1: social media storm that. Well, the problem is is like

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01:06:25,680 --> 01:06:28,920
Speaker 1: I've always I've always been in relationship with people that

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01:06:28,960 --> 01:06:31,760
Speaker 1: are very private, so I didn't have to really deal

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01:06:31,840 --> 01:06:34,800
Speaker 1: with anything like that. Does that make sense? Like my

1235
01:06:34,920 --> 01:06:37,680
Speaker 1: ex is Instagram is private, and so it's not like

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01:06:38,040 --> 01:06:40,000
Speaker 1: there's a lot of action going on that does not

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01:06:40,080 --> 01:06:42,280
Speaker 1: make sense. Yeah, but he can even if he's private,

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01:06:42,280 --> 01:06:45,400
Speaker 1: he can still follow whoever he wants. That was never

1239
01:06:45,400 --> 01:06:46,920
Speaker 1: the case. I mean, it was never the case. I've

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01:06:46,920 --> 01:06:51,160
Speaker 1: never I've never had to experience what I'm saying. It

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01:06:51,400 --> 01:06:55,480
Speaker 1: pushes anyone, it would make anyone uncomfortable. I think I

1242
01:06:55,520 --> 01:06:58,200
Speaker 1: hate his excuse to like I'm just being friendly. Like

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01:06:58,600 --> 01:07:00,880
Speaker 1: being friendly is like holding or open for someone or

1244
01:07:00,920 --> 01:07:02,800
Speaker 1: saying hi, how are you doing. It's not like you

1245
01:07:02,840 --> 01:07:05,560
Speaker 1: don't need to get open their digital business, you know.

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01:07:06,240 --> 01:07:08,280
Speaker 1: So our advice for Maria is you are right to

1247
01:07:08,280 --> 01:07:16,240
Speaker 1: be concerned. And then what does she do? I next, Wow,

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01:07:17,200 --> 01:07:20,680
Speaker 1: how long has it been? She doesn't say together? I

1249
01:07:20,720 --> 01:07:22,160
Speaker 1: don't know. I think it's a red flag. I think

1250
01:07:22,200 --> 01:07:23,760
Speaker 1: you got to talk to him because if it makes

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01:07:23,760 --> 01:07:26,400
Speaker 1: you uncomfortable. He needs to know that I needed to

1252
01:07:26,400 --> 01:07:29,000
Speaker 1: stop that. And maybe he doesn't stop that, that's disrespectful

1253
01:07:29,040 --> 01:07:31,200
Speaker 1: to your feelings. And if he gets defensive and acts

1254
01:07:31,240 --> 01:07:34,200
Speaker 1: weird about it, then that's that's a red flag too.

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01:07:34,360 --> 01:07:36,840
Speaker 1: If adding all these women in Instagram is more important

1256
01:07:36,840 --> 01:07:39,760
Speaker 1: than your feelings and comfort in your relationship, that's a

1257
01:07:39,800 --> 01:07:44,000
Speaker 1: major problem. Tina keeps wincing over there. I'm just sad.

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01:07:45,040 --> 01:07:47,800
Speaker 1: Back and forth. Tanya is either like no, because I

1259
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Speaker 1: feel like you're either like this where you're like you

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