WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Dr. Deb & the Yoga Boy 0:00:00.110 --> 0:00:01.650 Hey, when we came in, Jose and I were just 0:00:01.670 --> 0:00:03.670 talking about how comfy these new sweatshirts are. 0:00:03.730 --> 0:00:05.010 Yeah. 0:00:05.090 --> 0:00:05.630 Merch for a cause. 0:00:05.650 --> 0:00:06.590 We're like every day now. 0:00:06.610 --> 0:00:07.210 No, seriously. 0:00:07.290 --> 0:00:09.230 It's the second date update version. Oh, and we do 0:00:09.250 --> 0:00:11.360 have a brand new episode for you that's about to start. 0:00:11.789 --> 0:00:13.379 I just want to let you know that you can 0:00:13.420 --> 0:00:15.900 get your merch for a cause. 100% of proceeds going 0:00:15.920 --> 0:00:19.140 to StJudes at BrookeAndJeffrey.com or there's a link in our description. 0:00:19.300 --> 0:00:21.419 In the show notes. 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Yes. 0:00:41.090 --> 0:00:42.280 And I love just telling her what you want. 0:00:42.340 --> 0:00:43.900 Makes life easier for everyone. 0:00:43.979 --> 0:00:44.760 It really does. 0:00:44.940 --> 0:00:45.379 All right. 0:00:45.440 --> 0:00:48.500 Get your merch and here's your new episode right now. 0:00:49.200 --> 0:00:52.080 Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Second date update. 0:00:53.400 --> 0:00:56.740 What's the old saying about what girls typically go for? 0:00:57.740 --> 0:01:01.520 I'm looking for a man in finance. Trust fund, 6'5, 0:01:01.830 --> 0:01:02.430 shoe size. 0:01:02.590 --> 0:01:06.229 So wait, that's not really an old saying. I think 0:01:06.290 --> 0:01:07.610 it was a TikTok trend. 0:01:07.690 --> 0:01:09.730 Yeah, it was like a piece of audio. Yeah, from 0:01:09.730 --> 0:01:13.090 200 million years ago. Still making the rounds today. 0:01:13.090 --> 0:01:14.110 16 weeks ago, sure. 0:01:14.150 --> 0:01:17.590 Feels like it online. But there's a similar stereotype that 0:01:17.650 --> 0:01:22.140 ladies also like doctors and lawyers. And today's a little 0:01:22.180 --> 0:01:25.920 different because we have a female doctor on the line 0:01:26.020 --> 0:01:30.190 who says she is getting ghosted. And like any good doctor, 0:01:30.510 --> 0:01:33.910 she wants to get a diagnosis for why this is happening. 0:01:34.010 --> 0:01:34.170 So. 0:01:34.720 --> 0:01:37.600 Let's talk to her. Deb, is it okay if I 0:01:37.640 --> 0:01:38.339 call you Dr. 0:01:38.380 --> 0:01:38.660 Deb? 0:01:38.880 --> 0:01:39.440 Would that be cool? 0:01:40.680 --> 0:01:41.960 Sure. 0:01:42.100 --> 0:01:44.640 You did the schoolwork. I would make everyone call me 0:01:44.740 --> 0:01:47.310 doctor if I had a PhD, honestly. 0:01:47.330 --> 0:01:47.830 So, Dr. 0:01:47.850 --> 0:01:50.470 Deb, when doctors have questions, they don't go to other doctors? 0:01:50.490 --> 0:01:51.470 They go to radio shows? 0:01:51.610 --> 0:01:52.410 Yeah. 0:01:53.110 --> 0:01:56.010 Well, I guess so, yeah. 0:01:56.050 --> 0:01:57.590 We're like the love doctors. 0:01:57.610 --> 0:01:58.710 Dr. 0:01:58.950 --> 0:01:59.450 Dem. 0:01:59.650 --> 0:02:03.530 Yeah, and the prognosis is always pretty bleak. But I 0:02:03.580 --> 0:02:05.480 just want to know, where does a doctor meet a guy? 0:02:05.500 --> 0:02:09.520 Because I'm hoping it's not a patient. But then again, 0:02:09.560 --> 0:02:11.420 there's a 50% chance that I'm hoping it is. 0:02:11.460 --> 0:02:13.700 Any doctor I know, they date within Medfield. That's the 0:02:13.720 --> 0:02:15.700 only time you have to meet someone. You need to 0:02:15.720 --> 0:02:18.420 meet a nurse, another doctor, receptionist. 0:02:18.560 --> 0:02:19.680 Is it someone in the hospital? 0:02:20.520 --> 0:02:23.549 Um, no, no, it's actually, I met this one guy. 0:02:23.940 --> 0:02:25.770 He was in the yoga class that I was taking. 0:02:25.790 --> 0:02:30.590 Oh, all right. 0:02:31.190 --> 0:02:32.960 I've seen him, you know, we sort of flirted in 0:02:33.030 --> 0:02:35.840 class a little bit and then Yeah. One day he 0:02:35.940 --> 0:02:38.980 actually started talking to me after class. And so I 0:02:39.020 --> 0:02:41.580 think it was like two days after that, that, you know, 0:02:41.600 --> 0:02:42.919 I saw him again and I said, you know what, 0:02:43.419 --> 0:02:45.040 I'm going to say, Hey, let's just go out and 0:02:45.280 --> 0:02:46.010 get some dinner. 0:02:46.030 --> 0:02:50.290 I'm personally, I have a really hard time with. 0:02:50.190 --> 0:02:55.110 Guys because I'm a very stoic person normally. So I 0:02:55.169 --> 0:02:58.570 don't really give off the vibes of, I'm super interested, 0:02:58.650 --> 0:03:02.670 so I really have to push myself. 0:03:02.910 --> 0:03:04.760 I have a best friend like that, and she's actually 0:03:04.780 --> 0:03:05.800 a high-powered lawyer. 0:03:06.410 --> 0:03:09.359 Yeah. The doctor and the lawyer. 0:03:09.500 --> 0:03:13.080 And she's gorgeous. And she's so funny and so nice. 0:03:13.139 --> 0:03:14.859 But you have to break through that wall. 0:03:14.880 --> 0:03:15.040 Yeah. 0:03:15.080 --> 0:03:18.330 Because that extreme professionalism does sometimes get in the way 0:03:18.350 --> 0:03:19.790 of like the romantic vibes. 0:03:19.990 --> 0:03:20.370 Sure. 0:03:20.550 --> 0:03:23.030 And just like the dedication you have to have to 0:03:23.070 --> 0:03:25.110 become what you have. 0:03:25.250 --> 0:03:27.500 But Yoga Boy was able to break down your walls. 0:03:27.590 --> 0:03:30.320 So what's Yoga Boy's name, by the way? 0:03:30.950 --> 0:03:32.350 Dylan is what his name is. 0:03:32.430 --> 0:03:36.190 He does sound like a hottie in a yoga class. 0:03:36.390 --> 0:03:36.930 Okay. 0:03:37.030 --> 0:03:39.910 So you said that you and Dylan went out to 0:03:39.950 --> 0:03:43.680 a restaurant and, you know, with your natural stoic nature, 0:03:44.100 --> 0:03:46.660 how do you show Dylan that you're more interested? 0:03:47.340 --> 0:03:50.300 Well, funny you ask, because I really made a point 0:03:50.320 --> 0:03:53.369 of figuring out what I had to do to show 0:03:53.390 --> 0:03:56.050 him that I was interested and not just friends going 0:03:56.090 --> 0:03:58.830 out for, you know, a drink and dinner, but I 0:03:59.370 --> 0:04:01.830 purposely asked for a table at the bar, you know, 0:04:01.850 --> 0:04:02.990 where you could sort of kind of sit a little 0:04:03.010 --> 0:04:05.430 bit closer and like right next to them. So I 0:04:05.450 --> 0:04:07.890 was like, well, if it gets to that moment, I'm 0:04:07.910 --> 0:04:10.390 going to, you know, maybe we'll touch knees or, you know, 0:04:10.410 --> 0:04:11.900 I can gently touch his hand. 0:04:12.250 --> 0:04:12.880 Okay. 0:04:13.060 --> 0:04:16.720 Okay. Do a little physical contact. Yeah. So a little 0:04:16.960 --> 0:04:18.679 leg yoga underneath the bar. 0:04:18.860 --> 0:04:21.740 Well, I mean, instead of sitting across from someone, I 0:04:21.760 --> 0:04:22.779 kind of like that move. 0:04:23.100 --> 0:04:26.099 Yeah, yeah, that is interesting. We haven't heard that before. Okay, 0:04:26.140 --> 0:04:26.760 so how did it go? 0:04:26.779 --> 0:04:30.380 I thought it was well, we were talking and flirting. 0:04:30.520 --> 0:04:32.760 And I don't know, I guess we got pretty deep 0:04:32.779 --> 0:04:33.740 into conversation. 0:04:33.820 --> 0:04:36.380 I just sort of talked about what I was looking 0:04:36.440 --> 0:04:38.409 for in life a little bit, you know, started talking 0:04:38.450 --> 0:04:40.450 about family and how I'd love to have kids. 0:04:40.570 --> 0:04:42.310 And, you know, that's pretty important to me. 0:04:42.670 --> 0:04:45.530 Well, and I mean, gosh, I feel like in today's 0:04:45.790 --> 0:04:48.570 dating age, like that is something that you may want 0:04:48.589 --> 0:04:50.549 to throw out there right away because if a guy 0:04:50.690 --> 0:04:53.200 isn't interested in the kid angle and you really want that, 0:04:53.260 --> 0:04:55.620 then on to the next. That doesn't, it's not a 0:04:55.640 --> 0:04:56.140 good match. 0:04:56.160 --> 0:04:58.060 Listen, it was a big step for me to sort 0:04:58.100 --> 0:05:00.260 of really reach out there. Cause again, I'm not really 0:05:00.440 --> 0:05:02.120 open all the time about this stuff. And I just 0:05:02.200 --> 0:05:04.099 felt I'm not a spring chicken. I want to get 0:05:04.140 --> 0:05:05.650 out there a little bit and just say sort of 0:05:05.670 --> 0:05:06.550 kind of what I'm looking. 0:05:06.330 --> 0:05:07.130 For in life, you know? 0:05:07.150 --> 0:05:10.110 Do you think that is what went wrong with the date? 0:05:10.550 --> 0:05:11.740 Is that why you're bringing that part up? 0:05:12.190 --> 0:05:14.070 So I don't know what really freaked him out. 0:05:14.110 --> 0:05:16.510 I mean, he, we just sort of kind of touched 0:05:16.570 --> 0:05:19.030 upon it, but you know, the conversation kept going and 0:05:19.050 --> 0:05:20.990 I just, I don't know. 0:05:21.010 --> 0:05:23.530 I don't know. Maybe I scared him off with that. 0:05:23.750 --> 0:05:24.590 No, no. 0:05:24.690 --> 0:05:27.510 I'm sure that bringing up immediately that you want to 0:05:27.550 --> 0:05:31.610 have seven children is a totally big turn on to him. 0:05:32.310 --> 0:05:34.549 I didn't say seven. 0:05:34.570 --> 0:05:37.280 She's a full-time doctor. I think she has time for one. 0:05:37.300 --> 0:05:42.520 Deliver her own baby. Any other highlights from the night 0:05:42.540 --> 0:05:43.039 that we missed? 0:05:43.860 --> 0:05:47.350 Not really. it was good conversation. You know, I, I 0:05:47.390 --> 0:05:49.970 talked about family a lot. He did too. He seemed 0:05:49.990 --> 0:05:50.750 to agree on it. 0:05:50.910 --> 0:05:53.070 And I thought it went well. Yeah. 0:05:53.100 --> 0:05:54.920 But did you ever touch him? Wasn't that the whole 0:05:54.960 --> 0:05:55.400 point of. 0:05:55.339 --> 0:05:58.860 Sitting next to the bar? 0:05:58.900 --> 0:06:02.310 That was her whole plan is to like get cozied up. 0:06:02.360 --> 0:06:04.980 She's a doctor. She's respectable. 0:06:05.240 --> 0:06:08.200 There was this time though. I, I touched his forearm. 0:06:08.279 --> 0:06:09.980 I put my hand on him just to make a 0:06:10.020 --> 0:06:13.150 point that I was trying to, Talk about family and everything. 0:06:13.170 --> 0:06:14.620 I did. 0:06:14.630 --> 0:06:15.960 I see what you're doing. 0:06:15.980 --> 0:06:17.219 That's by the humorous. 0:06:17.360 --> 0:06:17.740 Yeah. 0:06:17.760 --> 0:06:18.220 She's a dog. 0:06:18.240 --> 0:06:19.120 She's trying to make him laugh. 0:06:19.140 --> 0:06:21.099 She's taking his pulse. Like, oh, your heart rate is 0:06:21.140 --> 0:06:24.380 a little bit elevated. You might need to increase exercise. 0:06:24.400 --> 0:06:25.580 This is doctor technique here. 0:06:25.620 --> 0:06:27.789 I can't believe you're laughing at these dumb doctors. 0:06:27.810 --> 0:06:29.670 This is classic medical humor, Brooke. 0:06:29.690 --> 0:06:30.130 Come on. 0:06:30.230 --> 0:06:31.990 Elevated. But she likes our show. 0:06:32.029 --> 0:06:32.330 Remember? 0:06:32.350 --> 0:06:33.950 She thinks we're funny. I've never dated a dog. I 0:06:33.950 --> 0:06:34.910 didn't think she said that. 0:06:35.050 --> 0:06:35.270 Yeah. 0:06:37.170 --> 0:06:39.240 I didn't say that, but I do think it. 0:06:39.420 --> 0:06:42.580 Oh, that's nice to hear. Well, let's find out what 0:06:42.640 --> 0:06:45.440 Dylan is thinking and why he's ghosting Dr. 0:06:45.560 --> 0:06:45.880 Deb. 0:06:46.260 --> 0:06:46.719 Dr. 0:06:46.760 --> 0:06:50.620 Deb and Yoga Boy. Best bedside manner in the entire industry. 0:06:50.670 --> 0:06:52.050 We're going to come back and do it with your 0:06:52.089 --> 0:06:53.510 second date update next. 0:06:54.290 --> 0:06:57.190 Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Second date update. 0:06:58.510 --> 0:06:59.310 Paging Dr. 0:06:59.370 --> 0:07:00.469 Deb. Dr. 0:07:00.529 --> 0:07:02.610 Deb to the love lab for your ghostectomy. 0:07:03.360 --> 0:07:07.000 Ghostectomy. Oh, that's funny. Is it a code blue? 0:07:07.279 --> 0:07:08.359 It feels like it. 0:07:08.500 --> 0:07:10.280 A boo-hoo, a code boo-hoo. 0:07:11.020 --> 0:07:13.800 It's been days since our listener, Dr. Dev, has heard 0:07:13.880 --> 0:07:17.630 from her flexible yoga boy, Dylan. And she said in 0:07:17.670 --> 0:07:19.530 her email she doesn't date a lot because she's really 0:07:19.550 --> 0:07:22.370 busy with her profession as a doctor. And it's her 0:07:22.430 --> 0:07:25.150 nature to be stoic, so she doesn't always give off 0:07:25.190 --> 0:07:29.300 flirtatious vibes. But she did meet Dylan in yoga where 0:07:29.360 --> 0:07:32.600 he asked her out. Unfortunately, though, it turned out to 0:07:32.660 --> 0:07:36.360 be a one-and-done-er. And the only possible turn-off that she 0:07:36.400 --> 0:07:39.220 could think of was when she told Dylan about how 0:07:39.260 --> 0:07:43.260 she wanted to flood her womb with human babies. Which 0:07:43.300 --> 0:07:45.870 can definitely be a weird topic to bring up on 0:07:45.910 --> 0:07:46.220 date number one. 0:07:46.250 --> 0:07:48.670 I'm pretty sure she just said she wanted a family someday. 0:07:49.070 --> 0:07:49.830 I don't know how she said it. 0:07:49.850 --> 0:07:51.530 I didn't say it like that. 0:07:51.590 --> 0:07:54.850 But to the male ear, that's how it sometimes goes 0:07:54.930 --> 0:07:55.270 in there. 0:07:55.370 --> 0:07:58.110 I mean... Don't you think, Deb, if you're a yoga guy, 0:07:58.130 --> 0:07:59.900 you should be more open to that? 0:08:00.000 --> 0:08:02.780 Is that yoga boy stereotype? 0:08:02.820 --> 0:08:04.860 Yeah, more zen, more chill. 0:08:05.540 --> 0:08:06.940 More at one. 0:08:06.960 --> 0:08:09.360 Yeah, less, like, phased with big reactions to things. 0:08:09.420 --> 0:08:10.480 Yeah, yeah. 0:08:10.840 --> 0:08:14.820 Absolutely. Yeah, I thought he was very interested in all that. 0:08:15.000 --> 0:08:16.450 I mean, we talked about it, so. 0:08:16.510 --> 0:08:18.929 I mean, you would have noticed, like, a big energy shift, right? 0:08:18.950 --> 0:08:20.130 If he got quiet or something. 0:08:20.490 --> 0:08:21.410 Right, right. 0:08:21.630 --> 0:08:22.070 And I didn't. 0:08:22.490 --> 0:08:24.970 You know, the conversation kept going. Hmm. 0:08:24.990 --> 0:08:25.110 Hmm. 0:08:25.490 --> 0:08:28.350 Well, let's see what's going on in Dylan's mind because 0:08:28.390 --> 0:08:30.630 he hasn't spoken to you in days and we need 0:08:30.650 --> 0:08:33.090 to get the diagnosis stats. So I'm going to dial 0:08:33.110 --> 0:08:33.330 his number. 0:08:33.350 --> 0:08:34.270 Can we just drop the doctor stuff? 0:08:34.330 --> 0:08:35.490 Absolutely not. 0:08:35.650 --> 0:08:36.849 Brooke, we never have doctors on. 0:08:36.850 --> 0:08:38.350 It was cute for a minute. She loves to talk 0:08:38.390 --> 0:08:40.200 about work when she's outside of work, I'm sure. 0:08:40.820 --> 0:08:41.840 Yeah. 0:08:41.860 --> 0:08:42.320 I like it. 0:08:42.400 --> 0:08:43.000 Anyway. 0:08:43.340 --> 0:08:46.760 Here we go. I'm going to dial his number right now. 0:08:46.980 --> 0:08:52.620 Hello? 0:08:54.500 --> 0:08:54.800 Hello? 0:08:55.960 --> 0:08:56.660 Hey, is this Dylan? 0:08:57.059 --> 0:08:57.179 Oh. 0:08:58.360 --> 0:08:59.760 This is Dylan. Okay. 0:09:00.140 --> 0:09:01.969 Well, you sound like a very nice guy, Dylan. Thank 0:09:01.990 --> 0:09:04.390 you for answering the phone. We're a radio show called 0:09:04.410 --> 0:09:05.430 Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:09:05.570 --> 0:09:06.710 Yeah, I hope we're not bugging you. 0:09:08.350 --> 0:09:09.570 Oh, hey, how's it going? 0:09:10.290 --> 0:09:13.030 Hey, good morning. It's going all right. 0:09:13.890 --> 0:09:15.430 You are definitely a friendly guy. 0:09:15.630 --> 0:09:16.000 Yeah. 0:09:16.100 --> 0:09:18.360 Yeah, we like that. We're not used to it, honestly, 0:09:18.380 --> 0:09:20.079 because we do a lot of these phone calls. We 0:09:20.100 --> 0:09:23.420 get turned down a lot, but we're doing something called 0:09:23.460 --> 0:09:24.600 a second date update. 0:09:25.960 --> 0:09:26.780 Second date update. 0:09:27.800 --> 0:09:29.380 Yeah. Maybe explain it to him. 0:09:29.940 --> 0:09:31.660 Maybe he already knows it, Brooke. And I don't have 0:09:31.679 --> 0:09:33.480 to mansplain to a man. That would be nice. 0:09:33.520 --> 0:09:36.040 I would love if more man mansplained to other men. 0:09:36.420 --> 0:09:37.270 That'd be great. 0:09:37.290 --> 0:09:37.609 We do. 0:09:37.650 --> 0:09:38.470 It's just called explaining. 0:09:38.610 --> 0:09:40.530 Dylan, would you like me to mansplain what the second 0:09:40.550 --> 0:09:41.170 date update is? 0:09:43.370 --> 0:09:43.770 Sure. 0:09:44.670 --> 0:09:44.910 Great. 0:09:44.950 --> 0:09:48.090 So, um, Basically, you've gone out on a date with 0:09:48.150 --> 0:09:51.429 somebody who really liked you, and they're confused that you're 0:09:51.470 --> 0:09:53.380 not calling them back for a second meetup. 0:09:53.400 --> 0:09:55.640 You know what? That's the right amount of condescending in 0:09:55.840 --> 0:09:57.100 the mansplaining. 0:09:57.179 --> 0:09:58.800 It's a woman you went out with named Dr. 0:09:58.860 --> 0:10:02.480 Deb. Oh, Deb. I remember her. Yeah. 0:10:03.740 --> 0:10:06.780 Oh, that's a... I mean, your voice sounds really like 0:10:06.820 --> 0:10:08.100 you fondly remember her. 0:10:08.760 --> 0:10:11.080 But you didn't call her doctor, which is disrespectful to 0:10:11.100 --> 0:10:13.140 her profession. So please refer to as Dr. 0:10:13.179 --> 0:10:13.400 Deb. 0:10:13.540 --> 0:10:14.579 That's not coming from her. 0:10:14.600 --> 0:10:15.920 Okay. 0:10:15.940 --> 0:10:18.680 So you guys want to know what went down with 0:10:18.710 --> 0:10:19.040 that date? 0:10:19.490 --> 0:10:22.469 We know most of the highlights of it. We're just, 0:10:22.690 --> 0:10:25.270 what we don't know is why you're not calling her 0:10:25.330 --> 0:10:29.310 back afterwards. If there was something that happened that was 0:10:29.690 --> 0:10:30.670 a turnoff to you. 0:10:30.690 --> 0:10:31.550 All right. 0:10:31.610 --> 0:10:35.610 Well, it was a little bit of a different kind 0:10:35.630 --> 0:10:36.980 of date than what I'm used to. 0:10:37.410 --> 0:10:40.340 Okay. I mean, it sounds like you had pretty deep conversation. 0:10:40.420 --> 0:10:41.040 Is that what you mean? 0:10:41.059 --> 0:10:45.040 The conversation was pretty deep, but it almost felt like, 0:10:46.309 --> 0:10:49.160 Like an interrogation. Like I mentioned how I was a 0:10:49.170 --> 0:10:51.620 little tired and then she was like, well, be careful 0:10:51.640 --> 0:10:54.240 because that could be signs of an early liver disease. 0:10:54.260 --> 0:10:54.480 What? 0:10:54.760 --> 0:10:55.640 Oh my gosh. 0:10:55.679 --> 0:10:57.380 I'm sitting here trying to get to know her, but 0:10:57.840 --> 0:11:00.920 I'm getting all these diagnoses and it's just making it 0:11:00.970 --> 0:11:02.589 really difficult to have a conversation. 0:11:02.610 --> 0:11:05.050 What do you mean diagnoses? It's like being on a 0:11:05.070 --> 0:11:10.179 date with WebMD. You know? Well, and look, I mean, 0:11:10.260 --> 0:11:12.980 we know that Dr. Deb is obviously a doctor. I've 0:11:13.020 --> 0:11:15.800 had doctors in my family, and that's just a natural 0:11:15.870 --> 0:11:18.550 thing that they tend to do is they immediately worry 0:11:18.850 --> 0:11:21.990 and immediately jump to, like, oh, no. This could be 0:11:22.030 --> 0:11:22.319 a sign. 0:11:22.340 --> 0:11:23.460 They're usually like, you're fine. 0:11:23.530 --> 0:11:27.260 Oh, my God. My grandpa would not stop diagnosing me 0:11:27.280 --> 0:11:28.439 with all sorts of issues. 0:11:29.220 --> 0:11:31.340 And you turned out fine. Yeah. 0:11:31.600 --> 0:11:35.900 But maybe, okay. I could see why that would be 0:11:35.940 --> 0:11:38.820 a weird thing to happen on a romantic date. 0:11:38.920 --> 0:11:41.780 I mean, did you tell her, let's slow down the diagnosis? 0:11:41.800 --> 0:11:43.810 I don't have a liver problem and take another shot. 0:11:46.380 --> 0:11:48.120 It was kind of difficult to be like, hey, can 0:11:48.140 --> 0:11:49.179 you not diagnose me? 0:11:49.679 --> 0:11:52.120 I mean, she commented about the liver thing. Was there 0:11:52.179 --> 0:11:54.540 other moments like that, or was it just that one 0:11:54.559 --> 0:11:55.620 when you said you were tired? 0:11:56.400 --> 0:11:57.740 So I was talking to her, and I told her 0:11:57.760 --> 0:12:00.580 how my dad had diabetes, and then she goes, well, 0:12:01.100 --> 0:12:03.439 then we're definitely not having dessert tonight. And I'm just like, 0:12:03.500 --> 0:12:04.880 what is going on? 0:12:05.300 --> 0:12:07.100 Oh, because it's genetic. 0:12:07.140 --> 0:12:09.620 It could be genetic. Maybe she's saving your life. 0:12:09.960 --> 0:12:10.700 Yeah, I mean. 0:12:11.460 --> 0:12:14.210 I mean, on a first date, though, it was a 0:12:14.380 --> 0:12:14.880 little much. 0:12:15.170 --> 0:12:17.610 Okay, okay. But you can take it as a positive, 0:12:17.650 --> 0:12:21.170 like she cares about you. She's looking out for you. 0:12:21.230 --> 0:12:23.550 She just can't leave work at the door. She hasn't 0:12:23.570 --> 0:12:26.910 been dating a ton because she's been so engrossed in 0:12:26.990 --> 0:12:30.200 med school and then her own career. It's true. 0:12:30.280 --> 0:12:32.260 She does have a lot going on in her life 0:12:32.320 --> 0:12:35.160 right now. In fact, Dr. Deb is currently busy with 0:12:35.220 --> 0:12:38.500 a phone call right now. This one on the other 0:12:38.540 --> 0:12:39.540 line waiting to talk to you. 0:12:40.580 --> 0:12:42.020 No way. Are you kidding me? 0:12:43.059 --> 0:12:43.850 I'm not kidding you. 0:12:43.920 --> 0:12:45.720 Oh, man. 0:12:46.080 --> 0:12:46.780 Paging Dr. 0:12:46.820 --> 0:12:47.120 Deb. 0:12:47.140 --> 0:12:49.319 This is your chance. Patient is waiting. Hi. 0:12:50.340 --> 0:12:50.960 Hi, Dylan. 0:12:51.320 --> 0:12:52.440 Oh, you're a little embarrassed. 0:12:52.460 --> 0:12:54.480 Did you hear everything that Dylan said? Do you want 0:12:54.500 --> 0:12:55.270 to talk to him about it? 0:12:55.260 --> 0:13:00.760 Yeah, I'm hearing it. I just... I guess I'm surprised because, 0:13:00.780 --> 0:13:01.679 I mean, I'm just. 0:13:01.620 --> 0:13:05.120 Sort of stating the facts, you know? I mean, it's true. 0:13:05.160 --> 0:13:06.860 I mean, you talk about the diabetes. Well, we should 0:13:06.920 --> 0:13:09.540 avoid sugar until we sort of investigate a little bit more. 0:13:09.559 --> 0:13:10.380 That's a good point. 0:13:10.500 --> 0:13:13.240 No, Deb, that's a total buzzkill, man. 0:13:13.280 --> 0:13:15.860 Yeah, on a day like... Well, I think diabetes is 0:13:15.900 --> 0:13:19.380 more of a buzzkill. So I'm glad to avoid it. 0:13:19.420 --> 0:13:22.640 You don't know anything about his health history other than 0:13:22.679 --> 0:13:25.660 what his dad is going through. I mean, it's just like, sure, 0:13:25.730 --> 0:13:27.849 maybe down the road, if you guys were together, you 0:13:28.050 --> 0:13:29.990 guys can come up with a health plan if that's 0:13:30.030 --> 0:13:31.069 something that he wants. 0:13:31.210 --> 0:13:34.309 But like, to deny the man dessert. On date number two. 0:13:34.330 --> 0:13:34.530 Yeah. 0:13:34.550 --> 0:13:39.110 Oh. You know, all I can say is, I mean, 0:13:39.120 --> 0:13:41.450 this is just, you know, in my world, I'm surrounded 0:13:41.470 --> 0:13:43.370 by people. We all talk this way, you know, like 0:13:43.410 --> 0:13:45.110 all of us doctors and nurses and whatnot. 0:13:45.150 --> 0:13:47.130 That's sort of, that's just what we talk about. 0:13:47.210 --> 0:13:48.780 Yeah, but remember, you're not dating them. 0:13:48.800 --> 0:13:48.880 Yeah. 0:13:49.260 --> 0:13:51.839 But of course, I'm thinking about the future here. 0:13:51.900 --> 0:13:54.740 And if we want to continue this relationship, I think 0:13:54.780 --> 0:13:56.319 we need to sort of be on the same page 0:13:56.340 --> 0:13:56.800 a little bit. 0:13:57.230 --> 0:14:00.030 Oh, Dylan, do you want to address your fatty liver 0:14:00.050 --> 0:14:00.510 with Dr. 0:14:00.550 --> 0:14:01.689 Deb? 0:14:01.790 --> 0:14:04.790 It was just a little too much for the first day. 0:14:05.190 --> 0:14:06.850 I felt a little too evaluated. 0:14:06.870 --> 0:14:08.910 And not in a good way. 0:14:09.130 --> 0:14:11.160 I mean, even when you grabbed my arm that one time, 0:14:11.179 --> 0:14:14.500 you made a comment about like, maybe my blood pressure 0:14:14.580 --> 0:14:17.400 is high and that could be hereditary and I should 0:14:17.420 --> 0:14:18.560 try these practices. 0:14:19.470 --> 0:14:20.150 Hold up. 0:14:20.390 --> 0:14:22.750 Deb, did you actually check his pulse? Like, Jeff made 0:14:22.770 --> 0:14:24.010 that joke earlier, but. 0:14:24.150 --> 0:14:24.510 Yeah. 0:14:24.590 --> 0:14:28.030 Yeah, I was half joking because I honestly, you know, 0:14:28.070 --> 0:14:29.950 I saw this cute waitress walk by and I wanted 0:14:29.970 --> 0:14:30.470 to check his. 0:14:30.410 --> 0:14:33.610 Blood pressure to see if it was raising. When, you know, 0:14:33.630 --> 0:14:34.850 she kept coming over with drinks. 0:14:35.150 --> 0:14:36.550 Well, at least you didn't bring out the stethoscope. 0:14:37.120 --> 0:14:37.830 That's girl. 0:14:38.040 --> 0:14:38.920 Oh, my God. 0:14:40.090 --> 0:14:42.510