Speaker 1: Or here we go, we live. Yo, what's happening. It's
Speaker 1: another episode against the Chronicles podcast. It's Boy Big Steel
Speaker 1: with my dog jip Hey. She was just down in Detroit.
Speaker 1: Man down there with one of my favorite groups of
Speaker 1: all time, EPM, D Ice Cube. Y'alls out there getting busy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we put on a good show down in Detroit. You know,
Speaker 1: it's always good to go to the d Man Uh,
Speaker 1: EPM D you know all basically shid. All the homies
Speaker 1: was there, Uh Face was there and Q so you
Speaker 1: know it wasn't nothing but like a shit a family
Speaker 1: reunion in that motherfucker.
Speaker 2: So it was cracking the shore. The Dove come out
Speaker 2: there with cue I Nigga Trick Trick popped up. You
Speaker 2: know it was all good. Yeah, we gotta get Trick
Speaker 2: Trick on the show. You know.
Speaker 1: Speaking of homies, we got the Homegirls up here tonight.
Speaker 1: Man from we talked back, I'm gonna give y'all a
Speaker 1: warning in advance. They talk a lot of ship man,
Speaker 1: they talk a lot of a lot of a whole
Speaker 1: lot of ship were Southernes.
Speaker 3: We don't talk too much.
Speaker 1: That South Carolina one and a half. Get it from
Speaker 1: South Carolina. And the homegirl got a light all dark,
Speaker 1: and I know you what, you turn off the license
Speaker 1: ship for no.
Speaker 4: I was trying to plug myself on up to the
Speaker 4: same power source as I got the camera the light.
Speaker 5: Plugged up to that Obama. I know you ain't talking
Speaker 5: about equipment no way over here.
Speaker 2: Now my ship working right.
Speaker 1: So we're gonna talk a little bit about music. We're
Speaker 1: gonna talk about a little bit of music. I know,
Speaker 1: ain't none of y'all heard the Missionary album.
Speaker 2: You have, y'all. Snoop and Dray's album we have not.
Speaker 2: Y'all ain't even listen.
Speaker 1: To it yet.
Speaker 5: Unfortunately, that's a bad science.
Speaker 1: Y'all ain't checking for you know, Snoop and dra Usually
Speaker 1: when Snoop and Dre put out some shit, it's an event.
Speaker 1: Like everybody on that shit. I heard the album, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna tell you like this, I don't have a bad
Speaker 1: opinion of it. I thought it was very well produced
Speaker 1: and put together. It just didn't really sound like a
Speaker 1: Snoop Dogg and Dre album, you know, after them coming
Speaker 1: from what they usually do, like with the Chronic and
Speaker 1: all that other stuff. Usually when they collaborate, it's a celebration.
Speaker 1: It's a gangster party, you know, I just didn't hear
Speaker 1: that this one. But at the same token, it wasn't
Speaker 1: bad though. It wasn't a bad album. It just didn't
Speaker 1: sound like a Snoop and Tray album.
Speaker 3: What was the content, you know what?
Speaker 1: He had stuff with Sting on there. He had a
Speaker 1: whole bunch of other people on there. It was just
Speaker 1: I'm trying to find the best way to I'm trying
Speaker 1: to find the best way to describe it music. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it was kind of poppy. He had a few cools.
Speaker 1: You ain't son there, but it was kind of poppy.
Speaker 1: And again, it wasn't bad though. It's music sounded good.
Speaker 1: You know, whenever Dre do some shit, it's immaculate.
Speaker 5: So when the last time they actually dropped the album,
Speaker 5: was it the Chronic, not the the Dre and Snoop?
Speaker 5: When was the last what's the last last album they had?
Speaker 1: You know what? Officially it might have been the Chronic.
Speaker 1: I know the Chronic two thousand and one was Dre
Speaker 1: ship and Snoop was on there on some songs, but
Speaker 1: it really wouldn't a collaborate like that, you know, I
Speaker 1: would say the last one was probably a doggy style
Speaker 1: when you say so.
Speaker 2: Eight yeah, and I would say a little bit of
Speaker 2: the chronic two thousand and one. Snooper was on a
Speaker 2: few songs on there. So but uh, with the with
Speaker 2: the with the generation and and you know what's going on,
Speaker 2: it's kind of hard for uh experienced artists like myself
Speaker 2: and and uh, the the younger gen generation don't want
Speaker 2: to hear us talking about you know, socking niggas up
Speaker 2: or you know, the drug deal or you know, fuck
Speaker 2: Obama and shit like that because they look at they
Speaker 2: look at us as passed the torch now, so you
Speaker 2: have to switch it up, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 2: because I guess you're trying to appease a mature audience.
Speaker 1: Now, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: Put it on the record when you was twenty one
Speaker 2: to twenty five, you get me talk all that hood shit.
Speaker 2: And even though my nigga Snoop will still cuz you
Speaker 2: and let you know where you're from, the music, I
Speaker 2: guess has to be more mature.
Speaker 6: Age appropriately give me because a young nigga at fifteen
Speaker 6: and twenty don't want to hear a fifty year old
Speaker 6: talk about slanging on the corner and busting that niggas.
Speaker 2: You hit me like, God damn, how many times you're
Speaker 2: gonna shoot a nigga? My nigga shoot niggas for thirty years?
Speaker 2: And shit, everybody said around thirty.
Speaker 1: Years of dumping on niggas, man. And that's why I
Speaker 1: was real careful to come out like, oh I don't
Speaker 1: like it. I hate it because it was put together
Speaker 1: real well. It was a it was a good like
Speaker 1: if that album would have been Kid Cut the Ship
Speaker 1: or somebody that's in that lane, it would have been
Speaker 1: the Ship. But it's just not what I even though
Speaker 1: Snoop like said, I'm a reiterated he said, they, oh geez,
Speaker 1: don't nobody want to go through no drastic changes.
Speaker 2: Man.
Speaker 1: It's like when a motherfucker go to Taco Bell, even
Speaker 1: though we know Tackle Bell ain't the best food in
Speaker 1: the world, when you go there, you ain't trying to
Speaker 1: get no chicken sandwich from that motherfucker exactly.
Speaker 5: I feel like Snoop, are you had like some songs
Speaker 5: like that though.
Speaker 4: Like sexual Seduction, Like he's like transitioning into what he was.
Speaker 2: Transition He was in a transition point. But those old
Speaker 2: school solid fans wasn't ready to give him that yet, right,
Speaker 2: because shit, I even thought like, hey, my nigga, what's
Speaker 2: going on? But he was already envision I got the transition,
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. So, yeah, the niggas might
Speaker 2: not like this motherfucker, but the female's gonna jump all
Speaker 2: over it.
Speaker 5: It's it's the way people like cause who's buying the
Speaker 5: music exactly.
Speaker 1: But you know what with this one they did, They
Speaker 1: did thirty six thousand, which in this climate, it ain't bad.
Speaker 1: But I know Dra probably was expected more. You feel
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like Dre, if the problem meals eight,
Speaker 1: You know, Drey is fighting against his own election, that
Speaker 1: gotta be a motherfucker dog. You know, everything he do
Speaker 1: pretty much is like the ship in this event, and
Speaker 1: the people who am hollering over he feels like it's
Speaker 1: a failure. Yeah, well I don't.
Speaker 2: You gotta understand it's a difference between the artist and
Speaker 2: the producer.
Speaker 1: You get me.
Speaker 2: Dre's known for some spectacular tracks. You get me, the
Speaker 2: older you get it. Don't mess with your motherfucking your
Speaker 2: your intensity for making music.
Speaker 1: You get me.
Speaker 2: But again, we're not here. We're not hearing those usual
Speaker 2: Drake cuts on mission.
Speaker 1: You get me.
Speaker 2: We're hearing advancement and production and you know, expertise and
Speaker 2: all of that. But when it comes down to it,
Speaker 2: you're not hearing no core doctor Dre. You're hearing the
Speaker 2: transition of musically growing. You give me, I don't have
Speaker 2: to do boom kick, boom kick. Now I'm gonna add
Speaker 2: in a motherfucking violin and the harmonicists and all whatever.
Speaker 2: Whatever the growths the beat making, you can still pull that.
Speaker 2: You know, you know, next episode beats or those g
Speaker 2: thang beats. You get me, Niggas, it should right about anything,
Speaker 2: but you still don't have to lose the core of
Speaker 2: the identity of what niggas poured over you for. You
Speaker 2: get me, because it's just motherfuckers, it's just hardcore when
Speaker 2: they come to it. You feel me. As fans, niggas
Speaker 2: don't want to ship the same.
Speaker 4: Pattern, y'all don't think they could have dropped still Dre
Speaker 4: or next episode right now and that shit will go platinum.
Speaker 5: And that type of music.
Speaker 2: And that's why that's why I said, it's it's really
Speaker 2: the musical transition. You feel me, because, like you said,
Speaker 2: they could drop that ship right now. It'll probably go
Speaker 2: double platinum real quick. But because my ears are listening
Speaker 2: to something on a few songs that I'm you know,
Speaker 2: I know Drake can produce for Sting. I know he
Speaker 2: can produce for Mary J. Blige then turn around and
Speaker 2: produce for Ice Cube or or jay Z. You feel me,
Speaker 2: m But it's it's it's I don't want to probably
Speaker 2: hear that when I'm looking for a Snoop Dog and
Speaker 2: Doctor dre missionary album, because when you when you when
Speaker 2: you promoted like that, I'm looking for Doggy Style Part two?
Speaker 2: What time it is twenty twenty four or whatever?
Speaker 1: And Snoop said even writing the reps on there either, Bro,
Speaker 1: And I think that's part of the disconnect right there,
Speaker 1: because I'm pretty sure who was whoever was in there, man,
Speaker 1: they probably Drake probably got a bunch of young cats
Speaker 1: around them that don't really know Snoops legacy. You feel
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, And it's very possible because I've talked
Speaker 1: to young cats before and they you know, when you
Speaker 1: tell somebody, hey, you messed with Quick or you messed
Speaker 1: with Cube, they think Cube is just an actor, Bro,
Speaker 1: And they don't even know who quick heals nowadays you
Speaker 1: feel you feel me so and Snoop, even though he's
Speaker 1: very iconic, one of the most recognizable hip hop artists
Speaker 1: on the planet, if not the most recognizable hip hop
Speaker 1: artists on the planet, it didn't sound like Snoop Dogg.
Speaker 1: It wasn't bad, but it just didn't sound like Snoop
Speaker 1: and Tray. Again, people don't go to Taco Bell to
Speaker 1: get chicken sandwiches. Just imagine Chicks and Seawn coming out
Speaker 1: with a movie now and they talking about they sobering
Speaker 1: and going to Bible stuff. You ain't nobody gonna watch
Speaker 1: that shit because it ain't them. They want to see
Speaker 1: Chicks and Shawn getting high and talking shit and getting
Speaker 1: into some mayhem and driving their van around and talking shit.
Speaker 1: But that's enough on that. It wasn't a bad album.
Speaker 1: I just don't think it was a Snoop album. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna tell you what. It was my shit though. That
Speaker 1: fact Joe album is jamming like a motherfucker.
Speaker 2: I honestly haven't heard it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's check that out when you get a chance, man,
Speaker 1: check that out. In fact, Joe shit is joining he
Speaker 1: got one with Todd dollars signing that his dope as hell.
Speaker 2: But what you like more about Fact Joe's album than
Speaker 2: the Missionary?
Speaker 1: Well, Fact Joe put out the Fact your album.
Speaker 3: Huh, he stayed with.
Speaker 1: His cor up on it. He doing the same ship.
Speaker 1: He got the songs on there for the females. He
Speaker 1: got the song talking about how he'll whoop your ass,
Speaker 1: how he'll plug your ass. Fact Joe still doing what
Speaker 1: he do and he got songs on there talking about
Speaker 1: his history. It's adult shit on there to where he
Speaker 1: talking about shit he going through in his life. People
Speaker 1: want to hear progression, but people don't want a bunch
Speaker 1: of change. I'm gonna tell y'all something I was a
Speaker 1: and R before. People want the same shit from you.
Speaker 1: They don't want you to take too much of a departure.
Speaker 1: You can give him a little bit of growth and experimentation,
Speaker 1: but they want the same shit from your ass. Look
Speaker 1: at look John, Look John ran three summers with the
Speaker 1: same beat, the thing, dumb bump, the same.
Speaker 3: Ship be Joe.
Speaker 1: But no, that's what I'm saying, because you know he's
Speaker 1: skinny nowt Fact Joe just did his thing. His album
Speaker 1: was dope. It sounded current, but he was still hisself.
Speaker 1: You feel what I'm saying. He was still himself. It's
Speaker 1: like this I till eight all the time. He's one
Speaker 1: of my favorite rappers. I love this ship. If I
Speaker 1: buy eight eight album and I hear him doing ship
Speaker 1: with Duran Duran all, I'm like, Hey, what the fuck is.
Speaker 2: You doing, my nigga?
Speaker 1: Yeah, like you live and then niggas be sounding incredible
Speaker 1: like this ship is jam or No. It might sound good,
Speaker 1: but that's not what I want for you again, my
Speaker 1: nigga again, give me my burrito and my hard still tackle.
Speaker 1: You feel what I'm saying. That's what I want, my
Speaker 1: nigga when I come to see you.
Speaker 2: You don't want that ship depth and some motherfucking sauce
Speaker 2: all over. So you just walked it straight up, playing
Speaker 2: like you want it. Yeah, I want to playing give
Speaker 2: me like John.
Speaker 3: That's I felt about Lil Wayne when he started putting
Speaker 3: a rock band in the back of his old songs.
Speaker 3: It's not the same want to hear the rockne right.
Speaker 1: No, hell no, especially from a nigga like Lil Wayne.
Speaker 1: And then when Lil Wayne started playing guitar. The problem
Speaker 1: with these dudes is they have too many yes, men
Speaker 1: around them. Ain't nobody telling Lil Wayne bro that guitar
Speaker 1: don't sound good. You feel what I'm saying. You don't
Speaker 1: want to play this shit? Stop doing that shit. It's
Speaker 1: Lil Wayne. Everybody gonna tell him it's a genius. You're
Speaker 1: a genius. Same thing with dra Everybody in there they
Speaker 1: so scared that he go kick him out the studio
Speaker 1: if they say, well, man, you know what, Trey, this
Speaker 1: shit is tight, but maybe we do it like this,
Speaker 1: my nigga. They scared Drake, go tell the man you
Speaker 1: know who the fuck you talking to? Nigga on sold
Speaker 1: that Jesus Gauzen your records, get the fuck out, you
Speaker 1: fired and when really, in reality, I don't think Drake
Speaker 1: don come like that. Dre probably go appreciate that, like
Speaker 1: you know what, I got these cats here, because I
Speaker 1: know if I was over there writing I would be
Speaker 1: straight up I would be like, hey man, this don't
Speaker 1: sound like the album Snoop needs to be on there
Speaker 1: tongue about backhanded motherfucker's talking about sipping on his gin
Speaker 1: and juice, he and his low rider, he creeping now.
Speaker 1: He could probably have a little song here and there
Speaker 1: about the presidential election and some ship like that. To
Speaker 1: show his brothers an adult, the Snoop Dogg always gotta
Speaker 1: be Snoop Dogg. Snoop put cripping on the.
Speaker 3: Mac they want to anymore, though that's not his brandy.
Speaker 3: He's doing shows with Martha Stewarts and that's cool.
Speaker 5: And the home not here, Granddaddy.
Speaker 1: Think about it like this, though, Tom Snoop is the
Speaker 1: face of the cripping. He the face of the crips.
Speaker 1: Snoop smoke weed wherever he wants to. He already said
Speaker 1: he smoked weed in the White House. At this point,
Speaker 1: Snoop is not a regular man. Snoop is like almost
Speaker 1: like a.
Speaker 2: A character.
Speaker 1: You feel what I'm saying. His character is Snoop Dogg.
Speaker 1: I'll do what the fuck I want to. I'm an outlaw,
Speaker 1: that's his thing. I smoke weed, I'm a quick I'm
Speaker 1: a gang bang on you, I'm a quip walk, I'm
Speaker 1: I'm a cousin nigg and a T mobile commercial.
Speaker 2: That's what he do.
Speaker 3: But do you think he's above cancel culture because these
Speaker 3: white families and Target and all these brands. If he's
Speaker 3: talking about smacking bitches in the album, you think he'll
Speaker 3: still have those type of opportunities for himself.
Speaker 2: And man, that's Snoop Doog. Yeah, And I say that's
Speaker 2: that's one. That's probably one reason, because like you said,
Speaker 2: I'm fucking with corporate motherfuckers on a higher level, you know,
Speaker 2: with the record label, nigga, I can do what the
Speaker 2: fuck I want to. I'm not really you know, back
Speaker 2: in the days, we wasn't getting no motherfucking billion dollar
Speaker 2: endorsement contracts and all that shit. Nowadays, you know, rap
Speaker 2: is everything, hip hop is everything. And when they have
Speaker 2: when you can, when you can do cooking shows with
Speaker 2: Martha Stewart, you know your your uh not so harmful
Speaker 2: brand as gonna go way up. And so if you
Speaker 2: can start doing sexual seductions instead of you know, bitch,
Speaker 2: please and ship, it's gonna bring a different motherfucking scale
Speaker 2: of corporate sponsorship on you.
Speaker 1: I feel it. I feel it.
Speaker 2: Do I want to go kill a nigga when I'm
Speaker 2: getting this check from T Mobile? Do I want to
Speaker 2: go kill a nigga when I'm endorsing motherfucking get you
Speaker 2: a fireplace, nigga? This shit is all When I'm beling
Speaker 2: around in sketchers and shiit do. I want to be
Speaker 2: having my foot up a bitch ass and be, you know,
Speaker 2: in a pair of sketchers.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: It might not work for them. So you know, Mischionary
Speaker 2: has got to show, you know, the growth side. We're
Speaker 2: gonna do a song with Steam, We're gonna do a
Speaker 2: song with so and so, and you know we'll put
Speaker 2: it out there like that. We ain't gonna bring it
Speaker 2: too much, you know, east Side or dog out like.
Speaker 1: We used to. And the album, you know what, bro, again,
Speaker 1: the album wasn't whack like I can't, you know what.
Speaker 1: It's one thing I heard a few cats that had
Speaker 1: their opinions. If a nigga ever say that Trey doing
Speaker 1: some shit, that's garbage. First of all, it ain't nobody
Speaker 1: in hip hop that got the track record that man got.
Speaker 2: Oh No, Snoop has continuously put out great music from
Speaker 2: you his career.
Speaker 1: So you for sure can't be on those ship like
Speaker 1: when you're talking when you're talking about cats like Snoop
Speaker 1: Dogg and you're talking about cats like Drey, they kind
Speaker 1: of can what they do. But I want to move
Speaker 1: on from this shit a little bit, bro, because we
Speaker 1: could talk about that all night. I was asking y'all earlier,
Speaker 1: as we see, it's a whole bunch of shit going
Speaker 1: on the media, and it seemed like it's all centered
Speaker 1: around wealthy black men, right they ain't really, They ain't
Speaker 1: really mess with the sisters yet, and I see black
Speaker 1: people really pushing this shit. Do you all think black
Speaker 1: people hate successful black people? Oh?
Speaker 3: Wow, that's a loaded question. Do I think black people
Speaker 3: hate your voices going down?
Speaker 1: Do you think he do you think black people hate
Speaker 1: successful black people? Because if you notice the first thing
Speaker 1: we heard from Puffy, it was the black community, well
Speaker 1: he did this and that everybody and their mama came
Speaker 1: out the woodwork when the shit came out with jay Z,
Speaker 1: even though it got turned out to be false, everybody
Speaker 1: came out like, oh yeah, I.
Speaker 2: Knew his answer is in on it too. Were in
Speaker 2: each other's downfall.
Speaker 4: I feel like they now I agree, right, because I
Speaker 4: feel like a lot of times the powers that be
Speaker 4: can't do shit unless the people are complicit with it.
Speaker 1: Right.
Speaker 4: So, people been calling for jay Z to be in
Speaker 4: this Diddy mix for fucking months, like on like oh Diddy,
Speaker 4: next Diddy, Da da da da So It almost does
Speaker 4: seem like black people be just waiting for the next
Speaker 4: nigga down on fall, Like we put people on these pedestals,
Speaker 4: and then the niggas also want to be the ones
Speaker 4: that to pull them down off the pedestal, like you
Speaker 4: need to sit down now, your time up.
Speaker 1: It is.
Speaker 5: It is weird, and for me personally, I find it
Speaker 5: really hard to condemn people. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 5: That's not for me to do.
Speaker 4: I believe in karma for sure, So whatever, you know,
Speaker 4: somebody does that shit coming back around, like I'm unless
Speaker 4: it's done to me directly, I.
Speaker 5: Usually do the coming around. But yeah, it's hard to
Speaker 5: condemn people for me.
Speaker 3: I think the crab in the barrel mentality does exist
Speaker 3: among black people, but I think it exists among all people.
Speaker 3: I think we just belong to this culture and that's
Speaker 3: why we see much more of it, you know, gets
Speaker 3: exclusive to us. I think it's all people think.
Speaker 1: Man, Maybe I'm just paying attention too much because it
Speaker 1: looked like when it looked like as soon as something happened,
Speaker 1: nobody comes out and says, especially in the ship that
Speaker 1: we do, they just want to paint more. The fuckers
Speaker 1: in the worst light. Yeah, I heard this motherfucker was
Speaker 1: over there doing this and doing that. It's like we
Speaker 1: add on to it. And to be honest with you,
Speaker 1: sometimes we need to rally around people and say hold on, enough,
Speaker 1: enough of this, enough of this bullshit. We're gonna let
Speaker 1: the ship play out in court, and we gonna see
Speaker 1: what the facts are and with the true feels and
Speaker 1: let it be what it is you feel me and
Speaker 1: not have an opinion on it, because I'm gonna tell
Speaker 1: you now, the court of public opinion is a motherfucker.
Speaker 1: If somebody came out now and said, man, you know what,
Speaker 1: man still being out there knocking old ladies.
Speaker 2: Out and doing this and doing that.
Speaker 1: By the time Friday come, it's gonna be motherfuckers pigginging
Speaker 1: outside of my house talking about this motherfucker beating up
Speaker 1: on old people. I might even get shot of some
Speaker 1: shit like that. It's like, you can really fuck somebody's
Speaker 1: life off of this shit nowadays.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're absolutely rightfucker.
Speaker 5: We don't have enough cold.
Speaker 4: You know, we don't be on cold enough in the
Speaker 4: black community because should go down and other people's culture
Speaker 4: is community, but it don't get on Front Street.
Speaker 2: Now.
Speaker 5: We have blogs of our own, right, So you got
Speaker 5: the Shade Room, Batla Alert all that ship.
Speaker 4: So we're putting the negative news out and look, those
Speaker 4: platforms are not even owned by black American people. Okay,
Speaker 4: but but but all of our business gets put on
Speaker 4: front Street by people that look like us.
Speaker 1: And we're fueling this ship. We fueling it. And it's
Speaker 1: like myself, I've been guilty of it. Something happened. Oh shit, man,
Speaker 1: I'm about to tear his heads up. This gonna get
Speaker 1: some you know, it's gonna go up. It's just you know,
Speaker 1: when you get caught up in that ship and you
Speaker 1: kind of start thinking like, hold up, man it nobody
Speaker 1: is exempt from here, Like because I've had motherfuckers go
Speaker 1: online and tell bull face lies about me, bull face lies,
Speaker 1: and I'll be looking at that ship like, damn, when
Speaker 1: the fuck did that shit happen? That's how you really feel.
Speaker 1: And it's just like and it ain't cool. And I
Speaker 1: think we endorse in a little bit too much of
Speaker 1: that bullshit. Oh definitely. Leaf.
Speaker 3: What can you do though, Like, how can you not
Speaker 3: be a part of the conversation? You know, it's everywhere
Speaker 3: everywhere you look.
Speaker 2: We have like to see another niggas down fall. Man,
Speaker 2: they love it. It's just like I love to see
Speaker 2: it for some reason.
Speaker 1: You get me. People love that shit. I'm gonna tell
Speaker 1: you right now. If I was walking, If me and
Speaker 1: eight was walking up the street, right and the police
Speaker 1: came out of somebody, let's say, of some clansmen jump
Speaker 1: out the truck, start whooping me and eight asses. Note
Speaker 1: of the motherfuckers. I guarantee you ninety nine percent of
Speaker 1: the people walking by just gonna pull their phones out
Speaker 1: and look at us, get our ass. Well, they could
Speaker 1: be thirty niggas out there looking at us. They gonna
Speaker 1: have their phones, they gonna be looking at Oho. You
Speaker 1: see eight got socked out? You sleepy though?
Speaker 5: I bet you a black woman?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, the women, That's what I'm saying. Ok, women, dudes,
Speaker 1: in most cases, I'm gonna tell you, But if it
Speaker 1: ain't your honies around there, this jenneration with people, the
Speaker 1: majority of theygga look at you with their phone and
Speaker 1: they gonna talk ship.
Speaker 2: Oh them niggas got their ass, They got the ass.
Speaker 2: This happened. This happened.
Speaker 1: It's like a.
Speaker 2: Thousand people comming and why you niggas filming and not helping.
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. They're so see the negativity in everything.
Speaker 2: It's like crazy, you know what. It's a handful of
Speaker 2: us who and for bullshit, but the majority of motherfuckers
Speaker 2: like to see a motherfucker.
Speaker 3: I don't believe that social media do you really think?
Speaker 3: I think social media is a dark space of its own.
Speaker 3: But I think in reality most there are more good
Speaker 3: than it is bad. Don't you not?
Speaker 1: On this realm? This is the hell you so for me?
Speaker 5: For me, it's two sides of the thing, right, Because
Speaker 5: when the shit happened with Diddy, I had gone into
Speaker 5: a badass argument one of my guy friends because he
Speaker 5: was texting me like, oh, maybe the video is AI.
Speaker 4: When he was kicking Cassie. The nigga said maybe the
Speaker 4: video was a I'm like, come on, man. So a
Speaker 4: lot of black men feel like there's a takedown of
Speaker 4: black men, right, that's happening. But here's the thing, like
Speaker 4: why there should be no evidence of no bullshit?
Speaker 5: You see what I'm saying, Like, why are y'all doing
Speaker 5: the things to get fucked up about?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: No, I'm gonna tell you what the Diddy shit, In
Speaker 1: particular me having a daughter, me being a motherfucker that
Speaker 1: got a wife, and you know, Mama, I love women,
Speaker 1: I don't have them, hate the women, and I hate
Speaker 1: motherfuckers to put their hands on women. I really detest
Speaker 1: motherfuckers like that. When I saw him beating on that
Speaker 1: girl the way it did, it kind of did something
Speaker 1: to me to where I judged him. I said, this
Speaker 1: motherfucker is guilty for his motherfucking asked, right. But then
Speaker 1: I had to check myself. I said, you know what,
Speaker 1: is this really a recocage though? Or is this a
Speaker 1: criminal and they're.
Speaker 5: Trying to put that racist ass man act the same
Speaker 5: shit they did to R. Kelly.
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: It's not. It's not a recocage. This dude is a
Speaker 1: he's abusive towards women. Put his ass in jail, give
Speaker 1: them thirty years whatever it need to be, right, make
Speaker 1: him pay some restitution, and what else. But all this
Speaker 1: other shit about motherfucker's just coming out the bluefire and lawsuits.
Speaker 1: First of all, I don't think no man should ever
Speaker 1: force hisself on no woman. Right. If he's guilty of that, ship,
Speaker 1: may his ass fried, may he burn. But all the
Speaker 1: other bullshit we gotta really investigate this shit to make
Speaker 1: sure some of that shit really happened. Now, the woman
Speaker 1: beating and the other ship, I'm with it. Fry's ass.
Speaker 1: If the motherfucker a freek, he just a freak though
Speaker 1: that that really ain't no against the lost ship.
Speaker 3: But Dre has been accused of beating a lot of women, and.
Speaker 1: Doctor Dre, I don't know that motherfucker. Don't got he
Speaker 1: did some shit. He beat d Barnes ass.
Speaker 3: But y'all still support him. So what makes him any
Speaker 3: different than Diddy?
Speaker 1: You know what, you got a point. You got a point.
Speaker 1: But that's the thing. That's the thing about America right now.
Speaker 2: I think what makes the difference is is because they're
Speaker 2: trying to label him as this sexual predator, Devin, you
Speaker 2: get me. Back in our days, yeah it was frowned
Speaker 2: It is frowned upon. But when you when you so
Speaker 2: called gangster and all that shit, it's not like in
Speaker 2: the position of niggah, I get it, you get me.
Speaker 2: In Diddy's case, I guess because he's this person that
Speaker 2: they're trying to turn into this sexual predator and Dee
Speaker 2: and I guess that you know that kind of hit
Speaker 2: me with the women rougher today of being sexually prayed
Speaker 2: on and sex trafficking is so large today, you get me.
Speaker 2: I think that's why there and less supportive Diddy. Now,
Speaker 2: everybody's supposed to be proven innocent to proven guilty. But
Speaker 2: like you said, when you you see a nigga kicking
Speaker 2: on the motherfucking broad daily, and is.
Speaker 4: There any video of doctor J beating that, we know,
Speaker 4: we heard the stories, but ain't no video.
Speaker 2: Because we all, I mean, you know, technically in that time,
Speaker 2: we we knew. You get me, Uh, some niggas was
Speaker 2: putting hands on women back then, it was more, you know,
Speaker 2: until the OJ thing happened. You know, it was basically
Speaker 2: like he says, she says, ship or motherfucker, lock you
Speaker 2: up in jail for a day or two and let
Speaker 2: you out ship.
Speaker 1: I saw a lot of that growing up as a kid.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I'm gonna tell you, you know, my mama
Speaker 2: was a victim of all that, right exactly. So I
Speaker 2: really got a lot of work.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I feel tell him on that. I don't
Speaker 1: think no other motherfucker just because he got money will
Speaker 1: make him exempt from the motherfucking law. Because I'm gonna
Speaker 1: tell you. I wouldn't give a fuck. Was doctor Dre
Speaker 1: or the mayor at Los Angeles, whoever the fucking somebody
Speaker 1: put their hands and my daughter. They going that there's
Speaker 1: some bag would.
Speaker 5: Happen to them, right, But I think that's what it
Speaker 5: is though a lot of people, a lot of individual
Speaker 5: people don't see themselves and the victim.
Speaker 1: Right.
Speaker 5: It don't have to happen to me for me to
Speaker 5: have a feeling about it. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 4: I don't have no kids, but I'm a fucking warrior
Speaker 4: for children, you know what I'm saying. If somebody doesn't,
Speaker 4: I feel like a lot of times, like black men
Speaker 4: don't see that's not my daughter, that's not my sister,
Speaker 4: that's not my mom, right, that is happening to So
Speaker 4: they don't really care about it like that.
Speaker 3: Because it's not like close to homebody's.
Speaker 5: It's some exactly and it could be yours.
Speaker 4: Is how people should look at it, because what's happening
Speaker 4: one that's happening all I look.
Speaker 2: At that as just those those type just don't have
Speaker 2: a feel for women. They don't like women. You give me,
Speaker 2: and it's some dude who grew up in a situation
Speaker 2: to where you know, their life, uh didn't work out
Speaker 2: as planning, and they blamed that on them on the women,
Speaker 2: probably their mom whatever she used to whoop your ass
Speaker 2: because you used to get in trouble but you deserved it.
Speaker 1: But that made you hate moms.
Speaker 2: You getting me getting your ass whooped every other day,
Speaker 2: or a female who you thought you was in love
Speaker 2: with might have motherfucking shook your motherfucking ass for doing
Speaker 2: something stupid, so your.
Speaker 5: Daddy left, so you blame mom for everything.
Speaker 2: I say, niggas got the hatred for women, so you
Speaker 2: know exactly comes in, the cheat comes in. You know,
Speaker 2: all kind of shit happens when you don't a lot
Speaker 2: of motherfuckers don't like theirself.
Speaker 1: To me, a lot of that shit come from motherfuckers
Speaker 1: having low self esteem and really just kind of trying
Speaker 1: to take their aggression out on somebody else that's weaker
Speaker 1: than them, you know.
Speaker 2: And one thing we will say, the ship with Dre.
Speaker 1: Drake has acknowledged that he did some dumb shit, like
Speaker 1: I ain't heard about him doing no shit lately. I
Speaker 1: know his wife that gives divorced, and she ain't never
Speaker 1: putting it out there like that and I believe she
Speaker 1: was a white woman, so if he was hitting her,
Speaker 1: you know, they'd have been put that motherfucker up under
Speaker 1: the house. You hit him the sister, boy, they get
Speaker 1: your ass all kind of passive. But she takes one
Speaker 1: of the white women. Boy, your ass is going your
Speaker 1: ass is going up under the thing. And a male
Speaker 1: a female. I think I think they need to have
Speaker 1: harsher penalties for dudes to put their hands on women.
Speaker 1: That shouldn't be no thing, because most of these women
Speaker 1: wind up coming back to the same situation. That's why
Speaker 1: I was always taught when I was kid, don't get
Speaker 1: in nobody's business because she could be right back there
Speaker 1: with him. I call bullshit on that, and I think
Speaker 1: that if you take a motherfucker out the mix, she
Speaker 1: can't go back to him, because I don't care what
Speaker 1: nobody say. A dude beat it for a woman one time,
Speaker 1: he gonna do it again.
Speaker 4: I always say, I feel like those type of people
Speaker 4: find each other, like men who hit women and women
Speaker 4: who get hit.
Speaker 5: Somehow find each other.
Speaker 6: Right.
Speaker 5: Usually that woman has a history of abuse from childhood,
Speaker 5: because it ain't nothing to break a broken bitch, you
Speaker 5: know what I'm saying you already, she's already broken when
Speaker 5: this abuser gets a hold of him, Like men can't
Speaker 5: abuse people who they can't abuse.
Speaker 3: There's some truth to that, because I do know a
Speaker 3: girl that always was with a nigga who was whooping
Speaker 3: her ass. It would be a different dude and she
Speaker 3: getting beat again, Like how is this possible? So it
Speaker 3: has to be something psychologically that this woman keeps attracting
Speaker 3: this type of.
Speaker 1: Man you do. And you know what, I used to
Speaker 1: have a theory about that. I used to think the
Speaker 1: dudes that put their hands on women and gets one
Speaker 1: next to her was gay.
Speaker 5: I always said that, I'm real with you battling their sexuality.
Speaker 3: Man, they can't.
Speaker 1: No woman never did. As if woman never did. Some
Speaker 1: ship bad enough for you to make you want to
Speaker 1: just knock him out and kick on them and ship
Speaker 1: like just like just leave if it's bad, like they
Speaker 1: just bown out. Yeah, I've learned that, you know.
Speaker 2: Where you're like, Oh, I probably got to the point
Speaker 2: of where I was like god damn it, But then
Speaker 2: me just grab my keys and up out of the crib.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you now. The one thing I don't like,
Speaker 1: I think they're hitting. No motherfuckers go both ways. You
Speaker 1: put your hands on me, I'm gonna hit you back.
Speaker 1: First off, I'm not going to jail for no bullshit.
Speaker 1: You feel me, I go to jail. It's from some
Speaker 1: old school hoods ship.
Speaker 2: It's definitely not gonna be for slapping the motherfucker over
Speaker 2: something you made me mad or was talking to another nigga. Please, man,
Speaker 2: let me get my keys and get the fuck up
Speaker 2: out of here. Thank you, you just you just gave
Speaker 2: me a free pass right.
Speaker 1: Like this.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you that I'm looking at it and
Speaker 2: it's freedom.
Speaker 1: Nigga.
Speaker 2: Run like a motherfucker slave nigga.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you like this first, and that's that's
Speaker 1: not worthy. Everybody is not worthy of your emotions. Literally,
Speaker 1: Like when I see niggas and they find out they
Speaker 1: white seeted on them, I say, you should be celebrating
Speaker 1: you found out who that bitch was when you had
Speaker 1: the chance to right now every sing because woman, oh no, Listenney,
Speaker 1: when we finish my thing now, everything is not binary.
Speaker 1: You have to find out maybe it was your fault
Speaker 1: that woman cheated. Revenge is real sometimes and I look
Speaker 1: at sh This is the ship that niggas don't worry about.
Speaker 1: To me, I don't play that work husband ship. If
Speaker 1: you're giving your emotional time and motherfucker is your emotional crutch,
Speaker 1: I don't want you talking to that motherfucker. You talking
Speaker 1: about your problems with me. Husband she got she's no better,
Speaker 1: you know better. Only you got one husband. That's me.
Speaker 1: All that work husband ship and all that other ship.
Speaker 2: No, that's not little frappuccinos together at lunch, nigga. Maybe
Speaker 2: maybe split a subway sandwiches.
Speaker 1: And man, it goes down at the jib man. They
Speaker 1: say that something like affairs happened, that the motherfucker works.
Speaker 3: But but you're with these people all day long. That's
Speaker 3: probably the only place that will really happen, you know.
Speaker 2: Believe me, it's always a motherfucker that mother down that
Speaker 2: you're pulling up with some motherfucking to Molly's for lunch
Speaker 2: nigga something and going up, going up to the job. Baby,
Speaker 2: I'm coming to take you to lunch every day. I'm
Speaker 2: coming to see what's man.
Speaker 1: I don't think nobody, and my wife always won't smoke
Speaker 1: all the motherfuckers before I be mad.
Speaker 2: Though I was like she's like, Maria, Oh, this is
Speaker 2: such and such. He teach what a homie? Yeah, Like,
Speaker 2: I don't introduce me to none of them.
Speaker 5: Was a killer.
Speaker 2: I don't want them to know me.
Speaker 1: No, you don't know me. I'm crazy as a motherfucker.
Speaker 1: But I really think though, ain't nobody dissolved, And I
Speaker 1: do think they need to go harder. I'm with you,
Speaker 1: Tam on that ship. I think they need to go
Speaker 1: harder on dudes because there are a whole bunch of
Speaker 1: dudes that kill women.
Speaker 2: And anything can happen.
Speaker 3: I was number one for domestic violence in the country,
Speaker 3: this state that we are both in, So it's definitely
Speaker 3: something that we take very serious and not like so
Speaker 3: when it came to you like, oh, you listen to
Speaker 3: Dre album? I am a Dre fan, but I'm not
Speaker 3: rushing to hear his album for that specific reason, you know,
Speaker 3: in all honesty, Yeah.
Speaker 1: Because I'm gonna tell you too, liquor. Drey used to
Speaker 1: get smashed. You know. Dre admitted he had a drinking
Speaker 1: problem at one time, and I'm pretty sure that played
Speaker 1: a role in it. But the one thing that he
Speaker 1: did do, he came and apologized, and that could be
Speaker 1: looked at neither it's here nor there. You know what
Speaker 1: I mean. It's easy to come back and say you
Speaker 1: sorry for some shit that you get caught doing. Right,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Speaking of which, y'all made
Speaker 1: a thing that ain't bad if you cheating. So you
Speaker 1: think if somebody's cheek you should take him back. Come on,
Speaker 1: wait now, so because woman ain't cheap cheat, you just.
Speaker 2: Say the thing.
Speaker 1: So if your man go out and have some oops,
Speaker 1: my bad, baby, it never happened again, you're supposed to
Speaker 1: just forgive him.
Speaker 3: I don't think. I mean, I think every relationship is different,
Speaker 3: and I think it's important to see does the good
Speaker 3: outweigh the bad. If the good in your relationship outweighs
Speaker 3: the bad, then cheating may not be the deal breaker.
Speaker 3: You have to determine what your deal breakers are. You know,
Speaker 3: if I'm in a relationship with someone and he's done
Speaker 3: everything else right, because it's so many other things that
Speaker 3: can be bad, you know, it's so many other things
Speaker 3: that could be sucked up. But if that everything else
Speaker 3: is right and that is the one infraction that he's made,
Speaker 3: I can I can take him back.
Speaker 5: For that, you know, But do you think men give
Speaker 5: you that same type of leeway.
Speaker 1: If y'all just letting each other cheek with no consequence,
Speaker 1: y'all min will have some open relationship that y'all some
Speaker 1: swingers or some ship because they have all when you're
Speaker 1: with me, you my woman. The ain't no other nigga
Speaker 1: supposed to put his hands on you.
Speaker 3: Right, I agree? I agree.
Speaker 5: Why I feel.
Speaker 1: Scared like this.
Speaker 2: I love my wife. I don't want to share my
Speaker 2: wife with no mother. And I told you, what is
Speaker 2: the circumstance though, or are you in a relationship or
Speaker 2: you married man?
Speaker 1: A whole different Yeah, that's a whole different thing, because
Speaker 1: this is what I believe. And I tell my sons this,
Speaker 1: even though I tell my daughter this. When you're a
Speaker 1: young person and you dating somebody, that boyfriend and girlfriendship
Speaker 1: is cool, right, it's cute y'all with each other, But
Speaker 1: you might you really supposed to be really trying to
Speaker 1: find the person you're supposed to be with for the
Speaker 1: rest of your life. That maybe somebody that's just cool
Speaker 1: for that moment. But I think you should always be
Speaker 1: honest with the motherfucker. I think if you're gonna be
Speaker 1: out doing shit like, look, we cool, we hang out together,
Speaker 1: but you should do your thing because I'm doing mine.
Speaker 2: But we cool when we're together.
Speaker 1: You and that person might grow and wind up having
Speaker 1: a fifty six in year relationship just because you're all
Speaker 1: so in tune with each other. Right, Ain't no lives,
Speaker 1: ain't no friend. But I think once you put that
Speaker 1: ring on and you tay them viobes in front of God,
Speaker 1: I think that's when you got to really be serious
Speaker 1: about your shit.
Speaker 3: I agree, but a lot oftentimes, as you can see
Speaker 3: by the numbers of divorce that people fall short of
Speaker 3: that you know exactly of being perfect in a marriage.
Speaker 3: There is no real perfect marriage. You decide what you're
Speaker 3: willing to deal with everybody else.
Speaker 2: Nigga told me, if you're looking for a perfect marriage,
Speaker 2: then you might as well be by yourself.
Speaker 1: M real. And I'm gonna tell you that you're talking
Speaker 1: to somebody that's been made with thirty plus. And I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna sit up here and say I'm been motherfucking
Speaker 1: Mary Poppins or the perfect motherfucking the most perfect motherfucker
Speaker 1: in the world.
Speaker 2: But in the back of the head a couple of times.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I think as long as you trying and
Speaker 1: you grow and you developed the whole kids communication. Because
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you, when you've been with somebody a
Speaker 1: long time, my wife is not the same person I
Speaker 1: met when we was kids. I'm talking about emotionally and
Speaker 1: everything else. I'm not the same dude. My focus is
Speaker 1: way different now, you know. It's it's we different people,
Speaker 1: so we always have to talk and keep them linds
Speaker 1: of communication open. But I think it's not all binary.
Speaker 1: I don't think it's binary. I think you gotta look
Speaker 1: at it and say, Okay.
Speaker 2: Why did she she?
Speaker 1: And then a big part about it who it was?
Speaker 2: Who wasn't? Now I I deal with it. I didn't know.
Speaker 1: I could probably deal with it if I find out
Speaker 1: she tip towing out the back door with glasses. Hey,
Speaker 1: this is gonna be some motherfucking problems. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. I'ma have to go see them niggas, and
Speaker 1: I'm gonna see her because I'm like, you disrespected me,
Speaker 1: had all these motherfuckers in the world. How long has
Speaker 1: it been happening? Don't tell me it was just this
Speaker 1: one time. How long y'all been doing this? It's gonna
Speaker 1: be some.
Speaker 5: Problems right, well that I mean different, So it ain't
Speaker 5: what you do is how.
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, it's your home I just think that's fine.
Speaker 1: Hey, hey, you agree with me on that dog? Oh definitely,
Speaker 1: because I feel like this the motherfucker that's even the
Speaker 1: work husband. He don't owe me no loyal to that
Speaker 1: motherfucker don't know where I am.
Speaker 2: You don't know me.
Speaker 1: I feel like if you're my homeboy, nigga, you was
Speaker 1: supposed to check that and call me and say, hey, man,
Speaker 1: your old lady doing this and that. Even though some
Speaker 1: niggas can't accept that. It's some niggas you tell that too,
Speaker 1: they're gonna stop being your friends. They don think you
Speaker 1: did something.
Speaker 2: Wrong them niggas like Nigga, I don' want to take
Speaker 2: a dip in that pool. Don't be a fuck like.
Speaker 2: Let me ask you this.
Speaker 1: Have you ever seen one of your homegirls? Man, look
Speaker 1: at y'all? Yeah, of course, which I'll tell your homegirl. Hey,
Speaker 1: that nigga was looking at my booty.
Speaker 3: No, I can't really.
Speaker 5: Say that I've ever not a real homegirl anyway, and
Speaker 5: looking at me.
Speaker 1: One time? This is telling stories.
Speaker 5: One time one time.
Speaker 4: So this wasn't my homegirl, per se, and I think
Speaker 4: she tried to get me back a little like some
Speaker 4: years later. But anyway, but she was roommates with my friends,
Speaker 4: and I went over there and her nigga was there.
Speaker 4: She wasn't there yet. Now we all went to school together.
Speaker 4: He was like, your feet ashy.
Speaker 5: I'm like, okaynig get to get some lotion and lotion.
Speaker 5: M man like, what's up? This nigga was lotion in
Speaker 5: my feet when she walked.
Speaker 1: Then her nigga rubbing your feet and she walks in
Speaker 1: and see that. See that's cheating.
Speaker 6: He cheating, cheating?
Speaker 3: Why did you ask?
Speaker 4: I was like this talking ship and I didn't even
Speaker 4: realize the nigga had left the room and came back
Speaker 4: with lotion.
Speaker 2: How was you when he was doing it? Was you
Speaker 2: laid back like this?
Speaker 1: Or relaxed and ship like that? Nowiggling, I'm gonna tell
Speaker 1: you this, whenever I want my wife to submit to
Speaker 1: my wheel, I rub her feet and ship. That's the
Speaker 1: whole cue right there. That's that's a cue right there.
Speaker 3: Wait, what did she do when you came in?
Speaker 5: I'm gonna tell you who it is. After this, she
Speaker 5: just was looking puzzled like what the fuck is happening?
Speaker 2: She into that nigga giving feet up in this motherfucking nigga.
Speaker 2: Don't never touch my feet.
Speaker 1: Hey, let me ask you this. Your people come here,
Speaker 1: come damn. I don't be even this fucking popcorn.
Speaker 2: That's what I get.
Speaker 1: But eight, your old lady come home and see you
Speaker 1: her friend rubbing your feet. Is you in trouble?
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it's gonna it'd probably be some some ship
Speaker 2: going down.
Speaker 1: It's going to be some smoke smoke, And I'm gonna
Speaker 1: tell you if you get forgiving, I.
Speaker 2: Don't think no female call themselves having a significant other
Speaker 2: is gone out. That's gonna be an issue you get
Speaker 2: hell hell yeah for sure. Your wife walk in, your
Speaker 2: wife walk in the studio and see somebody rubbing your shoulders,
Speaker 2: giving you a massage, It's gonna be a problem.
Speaker 1: It's a rap. Ain't no more going to that studio,
Speaker 1: Ain't no more none of that ship. I don't give
Speaker 1: a fuck out innocent over.
Speaker 4: I don't know, man, I'd be like I always say this,
Speaker 4: I like to let people do what they want to
Speaker 4: do so I can see what they I'll never be
Speaker 4: trying to like.
Speaker 5: I'm just not that person.
Speaker 4: You know what, even if I catch you doing some bullshit,
Speaker 4: I just I don't know, man, it's just something about it,
Speaker 4: Like I just got to keep that ship play. I
Speaker 4: can't be stalking a nigga all.
Speaker 5: Day long, you know what?
Speaker 2: Y'all women doing that?
Speaker 1: I like, that's a lot of your women that like
Speaker 1: to give niggas honest tests, or you know what, try
Speaker 1: to get at him and see if he do. You
Speaker 1: can't be just putting no motherfucking no temptation either. You
Speaker 1: can't put no steak in front of the line. If
Speaker 1: you like, let's see if the lion eat that motherfucking steak,
Speaker 1: he might, you know, lione and grab that motherfucking A
Speaker 1: lot of the ship.
Speaker 5: Y'all be saying, women do men do?
Speaker 1: Man?
Speaker 5: I had a nigga create one hundred thousand Instagram pages
Speaker 5: just to try to do that type of shit to me. See,
Speaker 5: I ain't got no time like that, no time neither
Speaker 5: business owner and all that ship. But everybody find time
Speaker 5: when you're fucking crazy. You're gonna find time to be crazy.
Speaker 1: Dogs, be honest, because you let that nigga rub your feet.
Speaker 2: Did you have a crush on that nigga?
Speaker 5: Did you like him, No, Dusty, Dusty, I mean we
Speaker 5: were I might have been in at the time. Nah,
Speaker 5: not at all.
Speaker 4: And I'm pretty sure he used to be beating her
Speaker 4: ass up, so she probably couldn't say nothing.
Speaker 1: Hell no, she wasn't gonna say nothing. She was probably
Speaker 1: scared of the motherfucking m hm. So have you ever
Speaker 1: looked at one of your friends, one of your friends
Speaker 1: significant other, and said, man, that nigga's fine. I like him. No,
Speaker 1: but I but I ain't never say nothing about it.
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna keep the secret to myself. Yes you.
Speaker 3: No, I'm just asking.
Speaker 1: We don't have women on the show too. Of them
Speaker 1: probably want to know what they be going through their mind.
Speaker 5: Not that I liked him, but like her.
Speaker 3: Nigga find as hell, I'm gonna tell her her nigga
Speaker 3: find that's my friend. You know, I'm not going to
Speaker 3: ever hit on him. He's officially my brother from that moment.
Speaker 2: But I will tell you there that's cool right there.
Speaker 1: See, niggas can't go around telling me because if a
Speaker 1: nigga tell me, man, your wife pretty as fucked, I'm believing.
Speaker 4: I'll be like he ain't got no sisters were like
Speaker 4: That's how men tell you your woman find.
Speaker 5: They ask you if that got some bitches somewhere.
Speaker 3: Where her friend where her friends at?
Speaker 5: That's how men tell you.
Speaker 1: For really, you know what I'm gonna tell you like this,
Speaker 1: This is what I think right again? The communication is key,
Speaker 1: and I think it ain't what you do. It's for me.
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna lie. Most niggas be sit up here
Speaker 1: talking about I don't give a fucking nigga. You ask, man,
Speaker 1: my wife does something to me, I'm gonna cry. I'm
Speaker 1: letting you know now, i'mnna cry like a motherfucker, be mad.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go through all the little changes. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: probably have to leave for a few days. Then I'm
Speaker 1: back and be ready to talk. We have to talk
Speaker 1: about that ship, like what made you do that? Like
Speaker 1: why would you just play with me like that? Like
Speaker 1: why would you like or what the fuck was I
Speaker 1: doing wrong? Because sometimes you gotta look at yourself.
Speaker 3: But you are going nowhere.
Speaker 2: You know what it depends, man, you ain't going.
Speaker 3: You've been with her thirty years, one mistake. Now you're
Speaker 3: talking about you in her room and figured out.
Speaker 4: I'm pretty sure she don't give you way more grace
Speaker 4: than I'm thirty years. She probably ain't never did no
Speaker 4: shit to give some grace about niggas.
Speaker 5: Do not be given no grace. Man, y'all be on.
Speaker 1: Lay down man, you know what. And that's not and
Speaker 1: that's not if she listening, that's not a past for
Speaker 1: you to go out and do the fuck you want to.
Speaker 1: It's like years when you got a history. It depends
Speaker 1: on how your history is. When you got three kids together,
Speaker 1: y'all got because marriage is a business, so y'all got
Speaker 1: a house together, y'all got hit with each other and ship,
Speaker 1: you know, card notes and ship like that. She ain't
Speaker 1: as just easy just like I'm gonna give it. It
Speaker 1: ain't like that. Y'all got a fucking history together, you know,
Speaker 1: in his history, and like you said, it has been
Speaker 1: some forgiveness, not just It ain't always about she. They
Speaker 1: may have forgiven your ass for walking out on a
Speaker 1: motherfucking gig when you wasn't supposed to. They may have
Speaker 1: forgiven your ass for going out because men are selfish
Speaker 1: in a way. In a way, you know, we can
Speaker 1: be selfish. It's all about us, especially when we're younger.
Speaker 1: That's why be telling my younger homies and my sons,
Speaker 1: don't get married to you about thirty because you ain't
Speaker 1: gonna be shitting to you about thirty. I say for that,
Speaker 1: you know, maybe even forty because men we you know,
Speaker 1: men want to sort of the wild oats and shit.
Speaker 1: You know, it's like women are more mature than men. Oh,
Speaker 1: because you know what I'm saying, because women are used
Speaker 1: to getting hit on from the time they develop their parts.
Speaker 1: They use the niggas trying to holler at them, so
Speaker 1: in a big deal. And I don't This is what
Speaker 1: I don't understand about the homies. They have a decent
Speaker 1: looking white but it'd be the ugliest motherfucker in the
Speaker 1: world when they get kind of doing some shit is
Speaker 1: usually the most low down motherfucker in the world.
Speaker 2: You're like, as one, I'm gonna.
Speaker 5: Tell you what I heard. This is what a nigga
Speaker 5: told me. If you cheat, what a woman that is
Speaker 5: comparable to your woman? Like that's really cheat with the
Speaker 5: buggaboo because it's like, man, I don't like that bitch.
Speaker 5: I just just give them a nick suck, you know.
Speaker 1: But somebody compete with nobody.
Speaker 5: It ain't nothing worse than that your nigga cheating with
Speaker 5: a fucking walrus. Okay, I'd rather see that a nigga
Speaker 5: got some like a little bit of standard, a little
Speaker 5: bit of.
Speaker 1: What I'm looking for.
Speaker 5: Preference. I preference if you do fun on it. I
Speaker 5: don't like fucking with somebody and I see your ex
Speaker 5: and they hit like I, now, you're not even used
Speaker 5: to a bitch like me?
Speaker 4: Like That's how I'm thinking now. I would prefer if
Speaker 4: you want to cheat, let it be somebody comparable. I
Speaker 4: like a nigga cheating on me with a bitch.
Speaker 5: I couldn't believe it. I couldn't believe, like this is
Speaker 5: the person he actually cheated with. To what I I've
Speaker 5: never reached out to a woman, but I reached out
Speaker 5: to that bitch because that's how fucked up she looked.
Speaker 5: I couldn't believe he did that.
Speaker 1: What you doing? What what is it? What you doing?
Speaker 1: What hand standing and some ship? What you doing? Like because.
Speaker 5: She didn't even respond back to me. She told him
Speaker 5: that I reached out to her.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you, I think I don't know if
Speaker 1: a nigga is so much. Just look at how the
Speaker 1: nigga look and all that ship. I think the only
Speaker 1: thing nigga want to know money. No, listen, the money
Speaker 1: he got was exactly that. That's what the first thing.
Speaker 1: So what the nigga swinging more than me was happening?
Speaker 5: It's money for men, I think.
Speaker 4: Uh, I don't even think they'd be concerned about like, well,
Speaker 4: maybe you know, if he but your ass up, maybe,
Speaker 4: But for the most part, I know. I almost got
Speaker 4: beat up once because I told somebody who was with
Speaker 4: that the next nigga had more money than him. That
Speaker 4: was a big problem.
Speaker 1: Like that you went to I'm gonna tell you what
Speaker 1: women need to stop doing. They gotta stop making their
Speaker 1: men feel like he just the lords is a woman.
Speaker 5: I was in the midst of an artist, and it
Speaker 5: was after it was nearing the end the.
Speaker 1: Argument bring out the true ship. I don't get I'm
Speaker 1: gonna get you got going on that ship.
Speaker 3: So the school Bill my Ringer is off. I don't know,
Speaker 3: like I swear it's off. I don't know.
Speaker 1: What kind of ship was then.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but I'm not gonna tell you anything to win
Speaker 5: the argument.
Speaker 1: So I'm I'm.
Speaker 5: I'm telling you, I'm a I'm a real Gemini. When
Speaker 5: I say and do something. It is with much attention.
Speaker 4: I've thought about it long and hard for a very
Speaker 4: long time. I don't just say ship to win an argument,
Speaker 4: especially if I love you, in love with you. I'm
Speaker 4: not going out my way to say the worship to
Speaker 4: win an argument.
Speaker 5: Absolutely not. When I start unloading on your ass like that,
Speaker 5: I'm halfway at the door, like foot out the door.
Speaker 5: I'm talking to you crazy. I don't gave myself permission
Speaker 5: to say fuck you all types of ships.
Speaker 1: That's what.
Speaker 5: I knew that would get him, So you would.
Speaker 1: Already have to do already. So you was already gone.
Speaker 1: So you just told that nigga that he was a
Speaker 1: broke ass nigga. That wasn't ship.
Speaker 5: It wasn't a broke ass nigga.
Speaker 3: The next nigga just.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Now with the income about like you know, y'
Speaker 1: y'all the homegirl. So I want to know, y'all keep
Speaker 1: it one hundred with me, what's the threadshold for for
Speaker 1: a woman? Like how much income would y'all want y'all
Speaker 1: nigga to have, Like y'all like y'all looking at somebody.
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure y'all got certain standards that y'all want
Speaker 1: like the nigga can't be fat maybe or maybe he
Speaker 1: got to be you know, his car can't be dirty
Speaker 1: and ship like that. You know what's the income guidelines?
Speaker 1: How much he got to make a year to qualify?
Speaker 5: It's not how much a man somebody you're gonna give
Speaker 5: me like it don't really matter off so you.
Speaker 1: Could be cool if.
Speaker 3: Money and it was stingy, Yeah, exactly, look at that
Speaker 3: stingy like it don't matter. To treat me nice, that's best.
Speaker 3: How are you going to so?
Speaker 1: So y'all get with a dude that was working at
Speaker 1: the liquor store a part time and working at Taco
Speaker 1: Bell at.
Speaker 5: Night at this current age, no current age, No, but
Speaker 5: I remember.
Speaker 2: Enough. Man, we can't go he can't go to no
Speaker 2: good restaurant.
Speaker 1: And you may tell you we got a Netflix white Netflix.
Speaker 3: Hey once in a while, then come with Taco Bell heavy.
Speaker 3: You don't mention Taco Bell.
Speaker 2: Every time we leave the studio late night to see
Speaker 2: the Taco Bell of Popeye.
Speaker 1: The po Dog. It's a girl that work over that
Speaker 1: man every time I come. She was like, or y'all
Speaker 1: because she looked at the show man. I ordered two
Speaker 1: apple pies. I get like nine apple pies. Man Chicken.
Speaker 5: Get Popeyes be passing me off because I literally only
Speaker 5: eat the apple pies from that Every time I get
Speaker 5: to that one, thatw It's gonna be sad.
Speaker 2: They always do that ship iceten on work.
Speaker 3: But answer your question, I think at our age, we
Speaker 3: definitely want somebody who's ambitious and has something going for themselves.
Speaker 3: You know. But I don't want to put a number
Speaker 3: on it because I'm a player and my nigga might
Speaker 3: be listening. So but yeah, I don't want to number
Speaker 3: on it. But ambitious, you know, ambitious.
Speaker 2: You're moving out to California? Are you already out here?
Speaker 3: So I actually, uh, I went to California. I moved
Speaker 3: out there in August, so all my stuff is in
Speaker 3: a California right now. But I broke my foot the
Speaker 3: first day of September came home, so I'm actually home
Speaker 3: right now South Carolina until I'm fully healed.
Speaker 2: That must be a sign that you need to stay
Speaker 2: your ass in South Carolina.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 3: I prayed about it, and I asked, guy, if I'm
Speaker 3: meant to be over here, then give me like a
Speaker 3: huge opportunity on this side that makes me say otherwise,
Speaker 3: I'm just gonna look at it as a hiccup in
Speaker 3: the road and keep going.
Speaker 1: Well, I'm gonna tell you as a transplant that's originally
Speaker 1: from the Midwest, I'm originally from Ohio and I came
Speaker 1: out here in eighty eight. I'll tell you this California
Speaker 1: has been cool to me because I wouldn't change it.
Speaker 1: This is where I met my wife at and I
Speaker 1: got my children. I wouldn't change none of that shit.
Speaker 1: But this shit is out here as high as girafft pus.
Speaker 1: From the state taxes to just the cost of living.
Speaker 1: It's like I live in a three bedroom townhouse and
Speaker 1: this motherfucker is worth nine hundred eighty thousand dollars. I
Speaker 1: keep trying to figure out how the fuck is this
Speaker 1: house worth that much money? And just the state tax
Speaker 1: is just everything. You go get sharks for everything out here.
Speaker 1: And if you've got you know, if you're in South
Speaker 1: Carolina making one hundred and fifty thousand dollars a year,
Speaker 1: you balling, you could do some shit. You know, you
Speaker 1: can shake some shit out here. You just regular, you
Speaker 1: regular dagger out here with that shit. You gotta get
Speaker 1: on with that shit. That shit almost ain't enough money,
Speaker 1: So I would think about that. You're coming out here,
Speaker 1: I'm trying to get the fuck from out here.
Speaker 3: You're trying to leave.
Speaker 1: Hell, yeah, I'm getting you know, I'm a person that
Speaker 1: living in reality. We're getting older. Shit. Hell, retirement time
Speaker 1: is around the corner from.
Speaker 2: My ass and years where I am. That's what I'm
Speaker 2: gonna have to do.
Speaker 1: What Lake elsa, North California. And it's nice, you know what.
Speaker 1: He about an hour and a half from LA. But
Speaker 1: that's worth the sacrifice to me, bro, because I'm gonna
Speaker 1: tell you, I looked at the house and men I
Speaker 1: fee and it's my dream house.
Speaker 2: And I'm serious.
Speaker 1: If everything go right by this summer eight, I want
Speaker 1: to sell this motherfucker I'm mean and move out there.
Speaker 1: I know my daughter I don't want to hear that
Speaker 1: shit because she got her nails shot down here. But
Speaker 1: I told her, I'm gonna buy your ass a car.
Speaker 1: With all the money, I'll be saved and I can
Speaker 1: get you that car you want. You could drive your
Speaker 1: ass down every day if you want to. But it's
Speaker 1: a seven bedroom house. That motherfucker got like an in
Speaker 1: law suite within the house. To where you walk through
Speaker 1: this door. It's like a whole nother motherfucking place. And
Speaker 1: I was thinking, man, my mother in law can live
Speaker 1: there because they're getting older. You know, my mama could
Speaker 1: live there if need be. She gotta tell her and
Speaker 1: her husband fly to my head, y'all. You know that's
Speaker 1: y'all ship over there. My mom is still independent. She
Speaker 1: ain't trying to live for nobody. And that motherfucker is
Speaker 1: just like the dream house. Ed it got the n
Speaker 1: sweet the living room, in the bedroom and ship. You know,
Speaker 1: the shower you go stand up in the look jakoozie
Speaker 1: tub that you could put your little thing of a
Speaker 1: wine right here and had the white frightscage my wine
Speaker 1: and ship.
Speaker 3: Hell yeah, I ain't there yet.
Speaker 1: You know I would call that mother the player layer.
Speaker 1: You know what I meant, the player, the player come
Speaker 1: on baby.
Speaker 2: Layer and he's say nobody player, and shit, I'm my wife.
Speaker 1: That's why I'm saying this for me and my wife's
Speaker 1: play layer, for me and for me and my woman's lair.
Speaker 1: You know what I mean to where if I want to.
Speaker 2: Come out that room, happy room, then nigga, ain't no
Speaker 2: players layer.
Speaker 1: I can have and then I thought about too, if
Speaker 1: moms and papas don't come out here, that other little
Speaker 1: spot over there, I could make that the hell of
Speaker 1: homies hang out by able to put the podcast room
Speaker 1: over to have a pool table, and that way you
Speaker 1: ain't gonna have niggas in your house.
Speaker 2: You know what I mean, Because I don't fuck around
Speaker 2: put a.
Speaker 1: Pool table and shit in there. And that's the only
Speaker 1: reason why I would never have a shit at my house.
Speaker 1: I don't believe. I don't let anybody show up in
Speaker 1: my crib. A nigga Glasses did that when we first
Speaker 1: started fucking with each other. He gets showed up at
Speaker 1: my house with some niggas. He came over for dinner.
Speaker 1: I told him, I said, bro, don't do that shit
Speaker 1: no more.
Speaker 2: Man't bring the.
Speaker 1: Motherfuckers over my house. That wound up being cool because
Speaker 1: it was some ladies, right, you know, it's people used
Speaker 1: to wind up doing business with. And I said, Bro,
Speaker 1: from now you bring somebody in my crib. You called
Speaker 1: me to ask me like, don't just pop up over
Speaker 1: here with motherfuckers. That shit ain't cool because you don't
Speaker 1: know because California, you know, everywhere scammers like that. You
Speaker 1: have somebody come over your house, it might not beat them.
Speaker 1: They get to talking to somebody else. Man, I was
Speaker 1: over the steel's house.
Speaker 5: He's general conversation.
Speaker 1: Yep, yep. Next thing you know, niggas don't broken your
Speaker 1: crib and shit. You know, you get ship. This normally
Speaker 1: don't happen. All that shit coming because a nigga one
Speaker 1: ran their mouth. You can't tell me. I saw some
Speaker 1: shit man the other day to where they had some
Speaker 1: niggas on the camera, niggas caring and motherfucker's safe out.
Speaker 1: I was a big ass safe dog and put that
Speaker 1: shit in the back of a car and boned out.
Speaker 2: Dog.
Speaker 1: Didn't nobody do nothing. And I said, man, that had
Speaker 1: to be a maid up in that motherfucker dog or
Speaker 1: somebody that you just never expect.
Speaker 2: They called him. Yeah, they got it safe. They got
Speaker 2: all kind of money in there. She got all.
Speaker 1: Right.
Speaker 2: Now, it's always the outside motherfucker.
Speaker 1: Who pulls up scam.
Speaker 2: You give me if they seem like I didn't have
Speaker 2: ship to do with it, so they called in the
Speaker 2: motherfucker or nigga. I just drove bas I just drove
Speaker 2: past some and so house. You get me right there, man,
Speaker 2: You know they got something. That's how a lot of
Speaker 2: home invasions.
Speaker 1: Go, you know, go down.
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, what then happened with tam She and fear She?
Speaker 5: And she had to take a quick intermission right quick?
Speaker 1: She had to take an intermission real quick. She probably
Speaker 1: called her. Nigga probably called her said, I heard that ship.
Speaker 1: You're saying on the thing talking about who was that
Speaker 1: nigga's voice? I heard.
Speaker 5: My nigga in the back of sleeping. He probably hearing
Speaker 5: me talk about that ugly bitch you was cheating at
Speaker 5: that time.
Speaker 3: About him, right, you talk about the homie.
Speaker 1: See. Look, that's the thing. A woman can't let shit go.
Speaker 1: You see, that ship probably happened a million years ago.
Speaker 1: Hey you want to in his face?
Speaker 2: It's still in the memory banks niggas.
Speaker 5: So when I tell you when you were my feelings,
Speaker 5: I don't never forget that ship done.
Speaker 1: I shall.
Speaker 4: Let me tell you when you heard a woman that's
Speaker 4: your alters our d n a, that ship changes us forever.
Speaker 5: It's not going to be.
Speaker 2: Exactly, but nigga, don't think I'm gonna forget about that.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna bring that ship up and let you know
Speaker 2: I'm gonna.
Speaker 3: Mm hmmm, athletics. You can't use it every time you
Speaker 3: get married.
Speaker 5: I'm using it. I'm using it for the sake of
Speaker 5: the podcast. I'm telling the funny story.
Speaker 2: Let us know. Yeah, it was his ass that did
Speaker 2: hed ugly as woman.
Speaker 5: That was been our last life relationship the current one.
Speaker 2: Are y'all, are y'all, are y'all gonna get married?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah? Or the women at a certain point just
Speaker 1: say fuck it. I don't want to get married. I
Speaker 1: just want to have me a man and we be
Speaker 1: cool with each other. Whereas the Olderman goal to get
Speaker 1: married one day.
Speaker 4: So where I'm at right down in life, I am
Speaker 4: forty years old, right, so the firston who I'm with?
Speaker 5: This our second time trying this.
Speaker 4: If it don't work this time, which we be good,
Speaker 4: it won't be no issues, no problems. But I could
Speaker 4: be by myself. Ever, I can honestly say I am
Speaker 4: cool being by myself. Have a little boyfriend here and
Speaker 4: there maybe, but man, just I don't know. I'd be
Speaker 4: liking solitude a lot.
Speaker 5: My problem does too, So we get out of space.
Speaker 2: Is that the ultimate goal for the woman is like,
Speaker 2: you know, I gotta get that. I gotta get married.
Speaker 2: The white picket fence, the house, you know, the two
Speaker 2: kids and the two cars. Is that the ultimate goal
Speaker 2: for the woman?
Speaker 3: I think we were raised to want that, But I
Speaker 3: think it's twenty twenty four and their idea is changing.
Speaker 3: I don't think every woman feels like marriage is the
Speaker 3: ultimate goal to be to happiness. You know, no women
Speaker 3: are seeing that you can be happy by yourself. Now.
Speaker 3: Do I want that?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 3: Not necessarily. I would love to have a husband and
Speaker 3: a partner to gro old. But will I be Will
Speaker 3: I feel like I'm missing out on something if I don't,
Speaker 3: I don't know, you know, I don't think that's necessarily
Speaker 3: what will happen? You know, I know a lot of
Speaker 3: women who are in their sixties and seventies and quite
Speaker 3: content with their life without a man.
Speaker 4: You know, they probably been married, raise their kids already,
Speaker 4: and they I'll never do it again. I should have
Speaker 4: never did it in the first place. Like you're hearing
Speaker 4: that a lot from older women, right, And I don't
Speaker 4: even want to say sixty seventy. We like fifty year
Speaker 4: old women, forty five year old women who got married
Speaker 4: early in life, had children, maybe divorced, now kids a
Speaker 4: little older and they are content being single.
Speaker 2: So at this age, is it even worth it?
Speaker 5: I mean, it's something we haven't done yet, so we
Speaker 5: don't know.
Speaker 2: You know, they's asking for his own personal mage, Like
Speaker 2: let me see if they do.
Speaker 4: No, listen, if your woman wants to get married now,
Speaker 4: you can't be asking us that, like that's like she
Speaker 4: may not feel how with you.
Speaker 1: It's not in general that you know. I don't. I'm not. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm not. I'm not burden with those with
Speaker 1: those questions.
Speaker 2: I just want to know, is that the ultimate goal
Speaker 2: for you know, the woman, because a lot of a
Speaker 2: lot of you women have been told, you know, that's
Speaker 2: what that's what it's supposed to happen. You're supposed to
Speaker 2: get your husband, he's supposed to get married. You won't,
Speaker 2: you won't. And I just want to see is that
Speaker 2: every woman's you know, inspiration, you know, growing, you know,
Speaker 2: once you get past a certain point.
Speaker 3: It's like, I don't think anybody's meant to be alone though,
Speaker 3: you know, I don't think anybody is supposed to be alone.
Speaker 3: We're all supposed to be here to pair.
Speaker 5: I mean, the Bible says man shouldn't be alone. Women
Speaker 5: can be alone. Man shouldn't be alone, okay, and let's.
Speaker 3: Not get made is a good thing, you know, Nigga
Speaker 3: women are meant to be wives.
Speaker 5: Men created marriage so that niggas who wouldn't normally have
Speaker 5: access to pussy could lock some in. That's what happened
Speaker 5: because if we did nactual selection like.
Speaker 4: Let me cook, if we did natural selection like the
Speaker 4: animal kingdom, there would be a lot of men that
Speaker 4: would die having never had sex, having never pro created,
Speaker 4: because women are supposed to pick like the best suitable.
Speaker 5: Person to pro create with. And y'all know these niggas
Speaker 5: are majority of these niggas suitable.
Speaker 1: Mates, damn, just like the majority of the women ain't
Speaker 1: suitable mates could be, there would be old make and stick.
Speaker 1: You know what I feel what you're saying, this is
Speaker 1: what I thought, right. I don't think nobody should rush
Speaker 1: into no marriage. I think it should be like this, right.
Speaker 1: I think in the perfect word, or you do get married,
Speaker 1: you should make that shit work. I think people the
Speaker 1: first time the illusion of the happy marriage and everything
Speaker 1: good don't happen, they ready to bone out because this
Speaker 1: is gonna be some times.
Speaker 2: The way.
Speaker 1: You don't like that, motherfucker that nigga that you can
Speaker 1: and then nowadays you never know what a nigga had,
Speaker 1: and you might think that motherfucker got a nice hairline.
Speaker 1: You might come in the house one day and that
Speaker 1: nigga George shit, George Jeffersons even when they got his
Speaker 1: ship did you just don't know, Or that nigga might
Speaker 1: go home with that girl he think got a coke
Speaker 1: bottle shaving. She take that fire off and that shit
Speaker 1: gets coming out, you know what I mean. You gotta
Speaker 1: be willing to deal with that because it got it
Speaker 1: can't be that shallow. A lot of times people are
Speaker 1: real shallow because she gonna change. I know, for damn sure,
Speaker 1: I don't look like I did when my wife first
Speaker 1: met me. I used to be ripped up like a motherfucker.
Speaker 1: You know. Now my shit, you know, I'm trying to
Speaker 1: get it back, but ship my shit out on the
Speaker 1: street a little bit, you know, so I gotta get
Speaker 1: that shit back cracking. But I think people just I
Speaker 1: think people just too shallow nowadays to be married. They
Speaker 1: first time, some bad shit happen and they want to
Speaker 1: give it up. And time is an investment that you
Speaker 1: can't get. Time is something that you can't cool right,
Speaker 1: that's all those valuable commodity. If you've put ten years
Speaker 1: in with somebody, fifteen years in with somebody.
Speaker 4: Man who you also shouldn't stay just because of time,
Speaker 4: you know, because I can say I've spent too I
Speaker 4: spend too much time in the wrong place at some
Speaker 4: point in my life, you know, so that people stayed
Speaker 4: together because of obligations and things like that. Like when
Speaker 4: you probably the relationship probably been over. So I would
Speaker 4: tell younger women, you know, get the fuck up out there,
Speaker 4: like if the ship ain't working. I don't feel like
Speaker 4: love is supposed to be hard. Yes, relationships are hard,
Speaker 4: but love, right is what makes it easier. You know
Speaker 4: what I'm saying, to stay together. But if you want
Speaker 4: dumb shit be happening, you know, you fall out of love.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you what I think.
Speaker 3: No mady that can say though, that their relationships, even
Speaker 3: people who've been together fifty years and thirty forty years
Speaker 3: can say it wasn't hard because we love each other. Yeah,
Speaker 3: it was still hard. I think you just got to
Speaker 3: decide who you're going to go through the bullshit with.
Speaker 3: That's what you have to decide that's all the relationship is.
Speaker 2: You want to go through that ship three, four or
Speaker 2: five times or you're just gonna say fuck it, you
Speaker 2: get me. We're gonna try to work this out when
Speaker 2: situations arise.
Speaker 1: Mm hmmm. So we're about to get about this motherfucker y'all.
Speaker 1: We have been here with the homegirls for a minute. Now,
Speaker 1: what time, y'all? What day y'all?
Speaker 5: Show drop thursdays tomorrow?
Speaker 1: Right here?
Speaker 2: What's your episode about this week?
Speaker 1: We had a.
Speaker 5: Mom, a married mom, busy mom, three kids, husband.
Speaker 4: She's out here trying to teach women how to put
Speaker 4: themselves first while still in a union. Right, so she
Speaker 4: just came off of a uh momasion by herself, basically.
Speaker 1: Telling women how to rebel against their husband.
Speaker 3: I'm looking.
Speaker 1: Like your husband.
Speaker 3: This is how you do it. I have a sport
Speaker 3: written out for.
Speaker 1: You, just.
Speaker 2: Cause people problems in their house. So somebody hear that ship.
Speaker 1: I was listening to this thing, and I need some
Speaker 1: meat time so you can watch these kids when you
Speaker 1: come home from work.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna take care of myself. Yeah, I'm gonna have
Speaker 2: me some motherfucking me time. Niggas, So I holler, you.
Speaker 3: Know what I.
Speaker 2: Have some meat time while making my eggs and bacon
Speaker 2: and whatever it is, and.
Speaker 3: Later that's the problem, and that's why what she does
Speaker 3: is needed.
Speaker 7: So what y'all say, y'all Showkater more than women, Yes,
Speaker 7: I mean because we are women, you know, so yeah,
Speaker 7: but we want to get on everybody.
Speaker 2: M y'all make sure.
Speaker 1: Some ship. Sometimes I don't listen to y'all show before
Speaker 1: y'all show is actually pretty funny. I'm gonna tell y'all now,
Speaker 1: all my peeps out there, y'all got to go check
Speaker 1: the Homegirl show. That ship is funny. Y'all, make sure
Speaker 1: y'all go subscribe to the ship right now. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: put a link to the ship in the link because
Speaker 1: you know what to be. People ask me still hard
Speaker 1: find the show. I'm put the link right there for y'all.
Speaker 1: You always click that motherfucking go over there. But we're
Speaker 1: gonna go. I don't. I don't want TAM's man getting
Speaker 1: mad at her because she don't already said it or not.
Speaker 2: That's why she had to get off the ship a
Speaker 2: little bit over time with this motherfucker.
Speaker 3: I need to put it out there that Tam is
Speaker 3: very single, right now. So, yeah, that's what.
Speaker 2: Just got a broke foot trying to head up, y'all.
Speaker 1: Yeah, got bro Oh so I'm gonna put that out there.
Speaker 1: All my homies out there. It's looking for them at
Speaker 1: Southern Bell correct, possibly on the west coast now correct, homegirls.
Speaker 1: She said she's single right now. She put that out there.
Speaker 1: She said, no, I don't have no man. She's single.
Speaker 1: And she said that you better be making at least
Speaker 1: two fifty a year.
Speaker 3: I did not say that.
Speaker 1: I did not help it help.
Speaker 2: What two fifty is cool? But she'd take a nigga
Speaker 2: to make a buck twenty five. You got to have
Speaker 2: a car. Your credit score got to be at least
Speaker 2: a six fifty.
Speaker 1: I did not.
Speaker 3: I'm not putting a number on it. I just want someone.
Speaker 1: Well, I'm gonna do it for you. I got your
Speaker 1: back credits for ship and put all your ship in
Speaker 1: her name and all that shit. She all gotta be
Speaker 1: equally yoke. If you just look up her credit like that,
Speaker 1: How is your credit? Your credit good?
Speaker 3: My credit is very good, Yes, for sure.
Speaker 2: Y'all got to be able to get it.
Speaker 1: So if y'all wink up and y'all get serious, you
Speaker 1: can't just be having all this shit in her name home.
Speaker 2: You got to make sure your credit is right.
Speaker 1: Names a year.
Speaker 5: I'm getting car a nigga name next year period.
Speaker 1: You know what. The nigga is smart.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you what the niggas gotta watch nowadays.
Speaker 1: He's smart. The woman got everything in your name, ain't
Speaker 1: shipped for her to bone out. If y'all got some
Speaker 1: ship together, she's gonna have to stay and work ship out.
Speaker 1: She just can't leave like that because you know what,
Speaker 1: she ain't gonna leave her shit get let her shit
Speaker 1: get sucked up by you. Y'all got a car in
Speaker 1: each other's name and ship y'all both went that loan.
Speaker 1: That's some game out there for the homies.
Speaker 3: I don't want it in his name, put it in
Speaker 3: my name, but pay for it.
Speaker 2: Right. Yeah there, y'all go right there.
Speaker 5: Y'all talk y'all every Thursday on the iHeart Uh.
Speaker 1: Pat our podcast made to them in the same network
Speaker 1: Black Effect. Y'all going down.
Speaker 2: Y'all going down the convention this year?
Speaker 3: Yeah mm hmm. Yeah, we'll be there for convention.
Speaker 2: No thing, we know whatever, the festival. You know that
Speaker 2: was some shipping real. I said, the convention.
Speaker 1: Still, but I'm going down there, you know what. And
Speaker 1: Dolly said, yeah, we have any things just in case
Speaker 1: you want to go. I said, So that means I
Speaker 1: guess I ain't gonna be in this ship this year.
Speaker 1: She said, We're gonna be down there if you want
Speaker 1: to participate. But I'm gonna come to that like supporting
Speaker 1: what we do. I love the network and it's the
Speaker 1: one time of year we get to hang out with
Speaker 1: all the people you know that we don't see through
Speaker 1: the year and ship like that.
Speaker 2: So it's cool.
Speaker 1: I might be able to convince eight to come back out.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to get Dolly. I've had to tell Dolly
Speaker 1: you need to let the Honey eight perform it.
Speaker 3: That motherfucking absolutely that would be great.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and close it out. That'd be hard. They go
Speaker 1: down and drop some classes on the ass. But I
Speaker 1: don't want the homegirls to get in trouble.
Speaker 3: At the Black Effect, the mixer that I hate wrapping
Speaker 3: his old lyrics, wrapping his lyrics like I will you remember, Okay.
Speaker 1: You faded, motherfucker.
Speaker 2: But you know what, if Doll you let you perform
Speaker 2: down there, she can come do your backup for you.
Speaker 2: She could be your she could be.
Speaker 1: Hit man.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you'd be your white woman.
Speaker 1: But I'm telling you, if you ain't committed already, I
Speaker 1: don't know if I come out here, hey, and if
Speaker 1: you had the chance to be somewhere else, would you
Speaker 1: be there? Y'all?
Speaker 2: I don't know, man, It's kind of hard to take.
Speaker 1: It's California.
Speaker 2: It all depends on where it is and and how
Speaker 2: I feel it's working for me.
Speaker 1: You get me.
Speaker 2: Some times a transplant might might be the greatest thing
Speaker 2: for you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it could come out here. You know what, if
Speaker 1: you feel it in your spirit and feel like God
Speaker 1: is leading you out here, you never know. Hell, you
Speaker 1: might come out here and blow up. And then then
Speaker 1: I got somebody I know this Rick, and I be like,
Speaker 1: hey man, this ship been bad. You know what I'm saying, Brother,
Speaker 1: Old a couple of thousand dollars, you know what I mean?
Speaker 5: I got you a couple of thousand dollars.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah, we appreciate y'all. We got of here. We're gone. Yeah,
Speaker 1: this is fun.