WEBVTT - Awkward Tuesday: Secrets In Ink

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<v Speaker 1>You found it at the home of the Second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 2>It's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning and thanks for

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<v Speaker 2>being here on the weekend with us in our home.

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<v Speaker 1>And I know we have a.

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<v Speaker 2>Lot of new listeners from all over the world since

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<v Speaker 2>we've been in the you know, top ten charts of podcasts.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, also, which is awesome. And if you don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>we actually are a full radio show.

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<v Speaker 2>I know rio and we are talking on it and

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<v Speaker 2>we do a brand new full hour episode every day

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<v Speaker 2>on our main feed, Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 2>And we just thought, you know, y'all seem to like

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<v Speaker 2>relationship drama. We're kind of experts on it, and we

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<v Speaker 2>do a lot of other segments, including this one awkward

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<v Speaker 2>Tuesday phone call.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, love it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, seriously, it's not necessarily always a romantic relationship with these.

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<v Speaker 3>It always awkward, ye and tricky.

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<v Speaker 1>So sit back and enjoy your awkward Tuesday phone call

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<v Speaker 1>on Sunday. Totally. It starts right now.

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<v Speaker 3>It's the number one most important piece of advice that

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<v Speaker 3>you can give to a newly engaged couple. Well, what's

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<v Speaker 3>that use it if you need to keep a secret

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<v Speaker 3>from your spouse. Whatever you do don't hide the evidence

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<v Speaker 3>here what jeff number one most important piece of.

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<v Speaker 1>Advice see advice is don't keep secret.

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<v Speaker 3>No, apparently somebody didn't get the memo and they chose

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<v Speaker 3>the bad forbidden hiding spots in their home. And now

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<v Speaker 3>there's significant others on the phone desperate for answers to

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<v Speaker 3>what she discovered. Okay, honestly doesn't look great for him.

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<v Speaker 3>You're gonna hear it in your brain. New awkward Tuesday

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<v Speaker 3>phone call right after this. It's awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>It's Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 3>It's awkward Tuesday phone call. Welcome back to brook and

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<v Speaker 3>Jeffrey in the morning. Let's take a quick look at

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<v Speaker 3>the scoreboard. In the last three years, we've had twenty

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<v Speaker 3>engaged couples come on our show, and Brooke has miraculously

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<v Speaker 3>stopped seventeen of those from going through with it because

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<v Speaker 3>of her advice. Wait, what, that's a new rerecord. We

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<v Speaker 3>are very excited to have another bride to be with

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<v Speaker 3>us on the phone today, will Brooks successfully implode her

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<v Speaker 3>budding relationships?

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<v Speaker 1>This my RBI or what.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's find out? Donna, Welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 4>Hi, thanks for taking my call day, Donna.

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<v Speaker 2>I swear I don't even know what the issue is yet,

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<v Speaker 2>but I engaged.

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<v Speaker 3>You still are hopefully yours are pre packed to move

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<v Speaker 3>out as soon as this conversation is over. But first

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<v Speaker 3>tell us about your awesome relationship. How can we ruin

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<v Speaker 3>that for you?

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<v Speaker 5>God?

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<v Speaker 4>So I got engaged about a month ago.

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<v Speaker 1>Okayngratulations?

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<v Speaker 3>What's his names?

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<v Speaker 4>His name is Neil? Okay, So I actually met him

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<v Speaker 4>last year, so it was kind of a quick engagement.

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<v Speaker 4>We're both like mid to late thirties. Like I've always

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<v Speaker 4>wanted to get married, Like it's always been a goal.

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<v Speaker 3>A lot of what you said there made Alexis grimace.

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<v Speaker 3>Late thirties getting married.

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<v Speaker 2>I started an engagement, so I mean it's finally happening

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<v Speaker 2>for you.

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<v Speaker 4>So that's great.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, the person that you love.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. But okay, So after our engagement, I moved into

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<v Speaker 4>his place. But I came across something just I don't know,

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<v Speaker 4>weird the other day.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, what was it?

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<v Speaker 4>So it was crammed in like a computer dusk for

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<v Speaker 4>so obviously it's something he probably meant to hide, or

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<v Speaker 4>it seems like it.

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<v Speaker 1>Can I can I ask before you tell us what

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<v Speaker 1>it is? Were you looking for something or you just.

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<v Speaker 4>Came No, I was just kind of like cleaning out

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<v Speaker 4>some drawers, like I was trying to organize a little bit. Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>So I found a piece of paper, and.

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<v Speaker 3>Which is already sus because who still uses paper nowadays?

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<v Speaker 2>Already that another from alexis yeah, like.

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<v Speaker 4>The whole desk and laughter of the situation.

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<v Speaker 3>That I'm assuming there was something something else about the

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<v Speaker 3>paper that got you worried.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay. Yeah. On the piece of paper there is a

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<v Speaker 4>list of girls names on it, okay, And next to

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<v Speaker 4>each name there's check marks, and there's dollar amounts maybe

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<v Speaker 4>dollar amounts.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it like five dollars? Like five hundred? Like does

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<v Speaker 1>it have a mounts on it? Is a lot of money?

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<v Speaker 3>Tell us more?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, like not five hundred, but in the hundreds.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, not a lemonade stand. That's what I was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of hoping. Why is it just some work thing?

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<v Speaker 5>Like?

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<v Speaker 1>Why is everyone assuming it's something weird and odd?

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<v Speaker 3>Well? Do what I owe you money?

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<v Speaker 5>Brooke?

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<v Speaker 3>If I pay you back for lunch, I don't write

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<v Speaker 3>it down somewhere like I just give you back to fifty.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not an organized person, that's true.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I need to know have you brought this up

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<v Speaker 3>to your fiance yet or is this going to be

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<v Speaker 3>the first time.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, So I did some digging, and we share a

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<v Speaker 4>bank account right now. So recently on the paper he

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<v Speaker 4>had added two hundred and fifty dollars to this girl

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<v Speaker 4>named Melissa, who I know, like, I know her pretty well,

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<v Speaker 4>like I know the girls on the list, know the.

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<v Speaker 1>People on the list?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I know if you like. Some of them are single,

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<v Speaker 4>some of them are married.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, does that feel even more in Yeah, it

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<v Speaker 2>makes me feel kind of gross though.

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<v Speaker 3>Why paying married people to do stuff? They're usually desperate

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<v Speaker 3>enough to give it away for free. You don't know

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<v Speaker 3>what's going on.

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<v Speaker 1>I think my husband does take the payments.

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<v Speaker 3>There's always one money sack you want group.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm kidding, We're kidding, We're kidding, We're kidding.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean he's giving, he's it's some sort of accounting

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<v Speaker 2>sheet with people and friends of his.

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<v Speaker 1>So what else did you find? Did you find anything

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<v Speaker 1>sketchy about it?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I asked, did you bring it up to him

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<v Speaker 3>or is this totally what?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? So when I saw that he had taken to

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<v Speaker 4>interviewed from the bank account and send it to the

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<v Speaker 4>scirl Melissa, I said to him, Hey, just curious, why

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<v Speaker 4>are you paying Melissa to fifty last week?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Instantly, to me, he looked super nervous. He kind of

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<v Speaker 4>looked like he got caught.

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<v Speaker 2>But he's paying out of a joint account, Like is

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<v Speaker 2>he that bad at like prime?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, he didn't.

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<v Speaker 4>Realize it's a new account, so I don't even know

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<v Speaker 4>that he was like seeking about that, but he does

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<v Speaker 4>seemed super super nervous. And then he was like, I

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<v Speaker 4>got to leave the room for a second room.

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<v Speaker 3>What did I say when he eventually I mean, you

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<v Speaker 3>must have seen him since he left the room.

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<v Speaker 2>Why did he have to leave the room?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>And then when he came back, he was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>it's a fantasy football thing with her. So I just

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<v Speaker 4>didn't even bring up the other women or the other

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<v Speaker 4>dollar amounts because I was just like, all right, some

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<v Speaker 4>things is not adding up, like and getting married to him.

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<v Speaker 4>There can't be any secrets, especially like financial.

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<v Speaker 3>Weirdly, Okay, so you brought up the amount of money

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<v Speaker 3>paid to one of your friends, but you didn't tell

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<v Speaker 3>him about the list that you found.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, I just confronted him about the amount that I

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<v Speaker 4>saw takeout of the bank account recently.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, he doesn't know.

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<v Speaker 2>That you have that shared because like I was totally like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>it's innocent, you're assuming things until his reaction.

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<v Speaker 1>Like his reaction, and like why would he have to

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<v Speaker 1>leave the room to gather himself to tell you about

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<v Speaker 1>a fantasy Melissa, the.

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<v Speaker 3>Secret fantasy football league that nobody's allowed to know about.

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<v Speaker 1>You were the sketchiest one here.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So we're running out of time on this segment here,

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<v Speaker 3>So you want to call your I'm assuming your fiance

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<v Speaker 3>coming up here, and what advice are you looking for

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<v Speaker 3>from us?

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<v Speaker 4>I just need to know how to approach this situation

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<v Speaker 4>or like what to expect.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just nervous or even to see if he's lying

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<v Speaker 2>or not.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean I think he was lying about the fantasy

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<v Speaker 4>football thing. Like I mean, I'm just kind of freaking out.

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<v Speaker 4>I was just to marry this guy, Like, I don't

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<v Speaker 4>think he's playing the truth.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, we're going to come back and we're going to

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<v Speaker 3>have some advice for you. Let you make this call

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<v Speaker 3>to your fiance and find out if he committed the

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<v Speaker 3>most atrocious of acts lying about fantasy football.

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<v Speaker 1>Meantime, go take two fifty out of his account for yourself.

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<v Speaker 5>It's also her.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, yes, she's taken from herself anyway, I'll want some

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<v Speaker 3>advice when we do your offer Tuesday phone call right

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<v Speaker 3>after this hold on. It's awkward. It's it's awkward Tuesday

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<v Speaker 3>phone call. If you're just joining us. We've got some

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<v Speaker 3>miss story fiance drama going on this morning with one

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<v Speaker 3>of our listeners, Donna, who just moved in with her

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<v Speaker 3>new fiance Neil after they got engaged. She was recently

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<v Speaker 3>cleaning out a computer desk drawer at his place when

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<v Speaker 3>she found a folded up piece of paper filled with

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<v Speaker 3>women's names and next to their names different payments, which

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<v Speaker 3>I know is all very normal and that stuff happens

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<v Speaker 3>all the time for newly engaged guys. But Donna decided

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<v Speaker 3>to confront him about one of the payments, and he

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<v Speaker 3>immediately acted nervous, kind of weird, left the room and

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<v Speaker 3>came back blaming it all on a fantasy football misunderstanding,

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<v Speaker 3>and Alexis.

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<v Speaker 2>Is like, he obviously left the room detects the woman

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<v Speaker 2>he probably gave football.

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<v Speaker 1>Excuse you guys, believe everything I say. I thought that

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<v Speaker 1>was really sorry.

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<v Speaker 3>Donna is not buying any of that she hasn't even

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<v Speaker 3>told them about the big list of names that she found,

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<v Speaker 3>but she might have to coming up here depending on

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<v Speaker 3>the advice that we have. Donna, are you ready to

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<v Speaker 3>hear what jose and Brook give you?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm ready.

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<v Speaker 3>First, I gotta charge you a hundred bucks.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Something. She's shuffling around through more drawers right now, Donna,

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<v Speaker 3>you're looking to find more pieces of paper.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, she finds like three scrolls.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Brooke, what advice do you have for Donnie?

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<v Speaker 2>I just think this sucks right now. I mean, he

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<v Speaker 2>was obviously shady the first time you confronted him.

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<v Speaker 1>He probably will be again in the end.

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<v Speaker 2>I think you just need to say, listen, I'm trying

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<v Speaker 2>to build a life with you, and that foundation starts

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<v Speaker 2>with trust, and if you're not going to be in that,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, Like.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you have a marriage? Little threat? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>how do you start a marriage without trust? Without honesty?

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<v Speaker 1>You can't.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, it's just like Brooke breaks you up again. But

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<v Speaker 3>this one is a little bit sadder. Donn Are you

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<v Speaker 3>willing to go that far?

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<v Speaker 4>I pretty much agree, Like I can't start a relationship

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<v Speaker 4>with lies or feeling like something is not truthful.

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<v Speaker 3>Plus, men love being told that they can't be trusted

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<v Speaker 3>and you don't feel like you're being honest with them.

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<v Speaker 3>We love hearing that from the girl.

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<v Speaker 2>But you think that guy to be honest about fantasy football,

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<v Speaker 2>about the list of women that he's playing.

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<v Speaker 3>With, Brooke, I don't know the answers to everything, but

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<v Speaker 3>one person who does is Hose. So's your advice. We

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<v Speaker 3>can they just give him the benefit of the doubt

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<v Speaker 3>real quick. Okay, don't go into it hot like this.

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<v Speaker 4>Look it looks bad.

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<v Speaker 3>He's paying multiple women to do stuff to him, get it.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't say that.

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<v Speaker 3>But no matter how bad it looks, you gotta keep

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<v Speaker 3>an open mind. He could be embarrassed to tell you

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<v Speaker 3>for another reason, like you don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Just let him say it.

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<v Speaker 4>That's fair. You're right, Like I do need to keep

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<v Speaker 4>an open mind, Like I don't want to just attack

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<v Speaker 4>him or like make him think that I'm just constantly

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<v Speaker 4>snooping on him and whatever looking for something bad.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Yeah, but if he turns it around and says,

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<v Speaker 2>why were you even looking and tries to blame.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, okay, we have some good advice for you. You

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<v Speaker 3>can take a little bit of what you want. But

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<v Speaker 3>we're gonna dial your fiance Neil here and let you

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<v Speaker 3>make your awkward Tuesday phone call. You ready, Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>I think so?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, you got this. You got this.

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<v Speaker 3>Every guy deserves to twenty mistakes before he dials number,

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<v Speaker 3>right now, Yeah, hold on stright again.

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<v Speaker 4>Hello, Hey, it's me.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh Hey, what's up babe?

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<v Speaker 4>Not much?

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<v Speaker 5>Everything all right?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean everything's okay.

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<v Speaker 5>Is that didn't recognize the number? Just making sure you're

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<v Speaker 5>you're safe?

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<v Speaker 4>And yeah, sorry, I just yeah, my phone died, so

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<v Speaker 4>I was just calling from somewhere else. I have a question.

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<v Speaker 4>Are you doing drugs? Just tell me?

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<v Speaker 5>Mm hmm what am I? What are you talking about?

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<v Speaker 5>Am I? Am I doing drugs? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Are you doing drugs?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean none that you are already a weara no.

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<v Speaker 4>God, okay? Are you paying for adult experiences? No?

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<v Speaker 5>Come on, what are you talking about?

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<v Speaker 4>Don't laugh. I'm being This is serious. Please don't laugh

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<v Speaker 4>at me. This is serious.

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<v Speaker 5>Like I'm I have no, I'm not, I'm not. I mean,

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<v Speaker 5>I thought you were joking. I don't know what you're

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<v Speaker 5>talking about, honey.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, listen, I know there's something going on. I know

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<v Speaker 4>you're paying money. There's something you're not telling me.

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<v Speaker 5>Does this have to do with the other day with

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<v Speaker 5>the two hundred and fifty dollars to Melissa?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and I know about the others.

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<v Speaker 5>What are you talking about?

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<v Speaker 4>What are you found? I found a folded up piece

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<v Speaker 4>of paper in your desk and it had women's names,

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<v Speaker 4>it had dollar amounts next to them, and you're acting

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<v Speaker 4>weird about it, Like, do not say fantasy football again,

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<v Speaker 4>because I know that's a straight up lie.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, God, I really didn't want to talk to you

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<v Speaker 5>about this.

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<v Speaker 4>Uh okay, Well we have to. We're getting married. You know,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going to build this marriage on trust. I cannot

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<v Speaker 4>be in a relationship built on like a lie.

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<v Speaker 5>Couldn't we just talk about it after we get married?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, there's not going to be a marriage

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<v Speaker 4>if you don't tell me what the hell is going on?

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<v Speaker 4>No secret, Like, you're not making yourself look good right now.

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<v Speaker 5>I can tell you, but it sounds worse than it is.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh Oh my god, please, I'm can you just tell me.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm ready to please he just.

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<v Speaker 5>Like, Okay, So you know where we're not super young.

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<v Speaker 5>We're our thirties or late thirties and a couple of

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<v Speaker 5>years ago, I made it a life priority to find

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<v Speaker 5>somebody that I could spend the rest of my life with.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, okay, so.

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<v Speaker 5>I read this thing that if you put up bounty

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<v Speaker 5>out with your friends and co workers, they'd be more

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<v Speaker 5>motivated to find a match for you.

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<v Speaker 4>What what are you talking about?

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<v Speaker 5>What works? More than once? Over the last few years,

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<v Speaker 5>I've been set up on successful dates and I paid

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<v Speaker 5>the person who finds them for me.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, that's desperate.

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<v Speaker 5>It's not desperate, it's not it's normal normal ish.

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<v Speaker 4>That's not normal, Like what the hell?

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<v Speaker 5>Like? Wait, but I'm not cheating on you or anything

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<v Speaker 5>like in this good news. I mean, this is how

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<v Speaker 5>I found you paid the most money to Melissa, who

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<v Speaker 5>set us up. Okay, what's going on?

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<v Speaker 4>Money?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>Heyabe, Okay, who are all these people? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Sorry to interrupt your riveting conversation with your fiance. You're

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<v Speaker 3>on the radio right now.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's sweet what you did. My friends said

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<v Speaker 1>each other for free. I'd love to get paid, and

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<v Speaker 1>it shows that you were serious.

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<v Speaker 3>We're here because Donna needed a little bit of help

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<v Speaker 3>after she found that piece of paper with all the

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<v Speaker 3>women's names on it and all the different dollar amounts.

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<v Speaker 3>She thought something really shady was going on.

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<v Speaker 2>Honestly, you could tell by her first question that she

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<v Speaker 2>jumped to worst case scenario.

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<v Speaker 3>You're claiming that it's a way to have friends set

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<v Speaker 3>you up with women, Donna, How are you feeling and

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<v Speaker 3>hearing all that?

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<v Speaker 4>I almost don't know how to feel. It's so not

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<v Speaker 4>anything I was expecting.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you believe them?

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<v Speaker 4>Right? I mean, it's it's so specific that like I

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<v Speaker 4>feel like I do, but it's also just kind of strange.

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<v Speaker 3>I heard you use the word desperate, I think when

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<v Speaker 3>you were talking to you.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, but it's worth it. I paid her one and

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<v Speaker 5>fifty dollars to find you, and it worked. I thought

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<v Speaker 5>this would be a funny story I could tell you.

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<v Speaker 3>Look later, I had to pay somebody else to get you.

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<v Speaker 2>People pay for matchmaking services all the time, and nobody

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<v Speaker 2>judges them.

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<v Speaker 1>His friends will accept the money though, Yeah, I mean maybe.

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<v Speaker 2>It was like, you know, it'll take the money right

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<v Speaker 2>unless you meet the one.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a successful match? Is that how it works?

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<v Speaker 5>Well?

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<v Speaker 3>Once you say I do?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, look, there's different tiers if it's not a

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<v Speaker 5>great day, and I like cookies.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, I thought.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't understand, Donna. Aren't you like I would be flattered?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, okay, on money hand, I'm kind of flattered.

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<v Speaker 4>But on the other hand, I'm like, too fifty. That's

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<v Speaker 4>all I'm worst to you.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, it'll be when you're a grandma one day you're

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<v Speaker 3>telling your grand kids, like you, Grandpa bought me for

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<v Speaker 3>two You think they paid more.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, you weren't supposed to know about the price.

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<v Speaker 5>The price is beside the point. It's just thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>It's kind of fantasy football dating though I played fantasy

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<v Speaker 2>so I actually don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, So it sounds like there isn't really a

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<v Speaker 3>whole lot as shady as we thought going on with

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<v Speaker 3>this list of women. It's just a matchmaking service.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not cheating.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, with his good friends because they know you best right,

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<v Speaker 2>and it works.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the amazing thing. You two are getting married.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you still, Donna? This doesn't change anything in your mind,

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<v Speaker 3>does it?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean no, not at the moment. Now. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>Brook soiled again, couldn't ruin this.

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jeffrey in the morning