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Speaker 1: on Sunday. Totally. It starts right now.

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Speaker 3: It's the number one most important piece of advice that

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Speaker 3: you can give to a newly engaged couple. Well, what's

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Speaker 3: here what jeff number one most important piece of.

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Speaker 3: No, apparently somebody didn't get the memo and they chose

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Speaker 3: You're gonna hear it in your brain. New awkward Tuesday

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Speaker 1: It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 3: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. Welcome back to brook and

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Speaker 3: Jeffrey in the morning. Let's take a quick look at

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Speaker 3: the scoreboard. In the last three years, we've had twenty

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Speaker 3: engaged couples come on our show, and Brooke has miraculously

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Speaker 3: stopped seventeen of those from going through with it because

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Speaker 3: us on the phone today, will Brooks successfully implode her

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Speaker 1: This my RBI or what.

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Speaker 3: Let's find out? Donna, Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 4: Hi, thanks for taking my call day, Donna.

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Speaker 2: I swear I don't even know what the issue is yet,

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Speaker 3: tell us about your awesome relationship. How can we ruin

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Speaker 4: So I got engaged about a month ago.

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Speaker 1: Okayngratulations?

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Speaker 3: What's his names?

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Speaker 4: His name is Neil? Okay, So I actually met him

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Speaker 4: last year, so it was kind of a quick engagement.

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Speaker 4: We're both like mid to late thirties. Like I've always

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Speaker 3: A lot of what you said there made Alexis grimace.

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Speaker 3: Late thirties getting married.

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Speaker 2: I started an engagement, so I mean it's finally happening

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Speaker 4: Yeah. But okay, So after our engagement, I moved into

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Speaker 4: So it was crammed in like a computer dusk for

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Speaker 4: Okay. Yeah. On the piece of paper there is a

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Speaker 1: Why is everyone assuming it's something weird and odd?

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Speaker 3: Well? Do what I owe you money?

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Speaker 3: If I pay you back for lunch, I don't write

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Speaker 3: Well, I need to know have you brought this up

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Speaker 4: Yes, So I did some digging, and we share a

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Speaker 4: like I know the girls on the list, know the.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, does that feel even more in Yeah, it

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Speaker 3: Why paying married people to do stuff? They're usually desperate

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Speaker 1: I think my husband does take the payments.

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Speaker 3: There's always one money sack you want group.

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Speaker 2: I mean he's giving, he's it's some sort of accounting

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Speaker 3: Well, I asked, did you bring it up to him

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Speaker 4: Yeah? So when I saw that he had taken to

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Speaker 4: Instantly, to me, he looked super nervous. He kind of

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Speaker 2: But he's paying out of a joint account, Like is

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Speaker 4: Realize it's a new account, so I don't even know

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Speaker 3: What did I say when he eventually I mean, you

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Speaker 2: Why did he have to leave the room?

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Speaker 4: And then when he came back, he was like, oh,

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Speaker 4: it's a fantasy football thing with her. So I just

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Speaker 4: things is not adding up, like and getting married to him.

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Speaker 4: There can't be any secrets, especially like financial.

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Speaker 4: Yes, I just confronted him about the amount that I

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Speaker 3: Okay, he doesn't know.

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Speaker 2: That you have that shared because like I was totally like, oh,

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Speaker 2: it's innocent, you're assuming things until his reaction.

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Speaker 1: Like his reaction, and like why would he have to

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Speaker 3: Secret fantasy football league that nobody's allowed to know about.

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Speaker 1: You were the sketchiest one here.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So we're running out of time on this segment here,

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Speaker 3: So you want to call your I'm assuming your fiance

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Speaker 4: I just need to know how to approach this situation

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Speaker 2: I'm just nervous or even to see if he's lying

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Speaker 4: I mean I think he was lying about the fantasy

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Speaker 4: I was just to marry this guy, Like, I don't

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Speaker 3: Yes, we're going to come back and we're going to

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Speaker 3: have some advice for you. Let you make this call

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Speaker 3: most atrocious of acts lying about fantasy football.

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Speaker 1: Meantime, go take two fifty out of his account for yourself.

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Speaker 5: It's also her.

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Speaker 3: Yes, yes, she's taken from herself anyway, I'll want some

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Speaker 3: I know is all very normal and that stuff happens

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Speaker 2: Is like, he obviously left the room detects the woman

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Speaker 1: Excuse you guys, believe everything I say. I thought that

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Speaker 3: Donna is not buying any of that she hasn't even

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Speaker 3: the advice that we have. Donna, are you ready to

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm ready.

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Speaker 3: First, I gotta charge you a hundred bucks.

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Speaker 3: Something. She's shuffling around through more drawers right now, Donna,

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Speaker 3: you're looking to find more pieces of paper.

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Speaker 4: Okay, she finds like three scrolls.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Brooke, what advice do you have for Donnie?

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Speaker 2: I just think this sucks right now. I mean, he

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Speaker 2: was obviously shady the first time you confronted him.

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Speaker 1: He probably will be again in the end.

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Speaker 2: I think you just need to say, listen, I'm trying

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Speaker 2: with trust, and if you're not going to be in that,

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Speaker 2: I don't know, Like.

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Speaker 1: How do you have a marriage? Little threat? I mean,

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Speaker 1: how do you start a marriage without trust? Without honesty?

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Speaker 1: You can't.

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Speaker 3: Oh, it's just like Brooke breaks you up again. But

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Speaker 4: I pretty much agree, Like I can't start a relationship

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Speaker 3: Plus, men love being told that they can't be trusted

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Speaker 2: But you think that guy to be honest about fantasy football,

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Speaker 3: With, Brooke, I don't know the answers to everything, but

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Speaker 3: real quick. Okay, don't go into it hot like this.

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Speaker 4: Look it looks bad.

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Speaker 3: He's paying multiple women to do stuff to him, get it.

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Speaker 1: Don't say that.

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Speaker 3: But no matter how bad it looks, you gotta keep

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Speaker 1: Just let him say it.

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Speaker 4: That's fair. You're right, Like I do need to keep

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, but if he turns it around and says,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, we have some good advice for you. You

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Speaker 3: we're gonna dial your fiance Neil here and let you

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Speaker 4: I think so?

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Speaker 1: All right, you got this. You got this.

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Speaker 3: Every guy deserves to twenty mistakes before he dials number,

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Speaker 4: Hello, Hey, it's me.

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Speaker 5: Oh Hey, what's up babe?

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Speaker 4: Not much?

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Speaker 5: Everything all right?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean everything's okay.

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Speaker 5: Is that didn't recognize the number? Just making sure you're

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Speaker 4: And yeah, sorry, I just yeah, my phone died, so

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Speaker 4: I was just calling from somewhere else. I have a question.

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Speaker 4: Are you doing drugs? Just tell me?

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Speaker 5: Mm hmm what am I? What are you talking about?

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Speaker 4: Are you doing drugs?

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Speaker 5: I mean none that you are already a weara no.

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Speaker 4: God, okay? Are you paying for adult experiences? No?

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Speaker 5: Come on, what are you talking about?

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Speaker 4: Don't laugh. I'm being This is serious. Please don't laugh

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Speaker 5: Like I'm I have no, I'm not, I'm not. I mean,

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Speaker 5: I thought you were joking. I don't know what you're

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Speaker 4: Okay, listen, I know there's something going on. I know

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Speaker 5: Does this have to do with the other day with

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and I know about the others.

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Speaker 5: What are you talking about?

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Speaker 4: What are you found? I found a folded up piece

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Speaker 4: it had dollar amounts next to them, and you're acting

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Speaker 5: Okay, God, I really didn't want to talk to you

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Speaker 4: Uh okay, Well we have to. We're getting married. You know,

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Speaker 4: I'm going to build this marriage on trust. I cannot

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Speaker 5: Couldn't we just talk about it after we get married?

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, there's not going to be a marriage

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Speaker 4: if you don't tell me what the hell is going on?

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Speaker 4: No secret, Like, you're not making yourself look good right now.

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Speaker 5: I can tell you, but it sounds worse than it is.

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Speaker 4: Oh Oh my god, please, I'm can you just tell me.

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Speaker 4: I'm ready to please he just.

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Speaker 5: Like, Okay, So you know where we're not super young.

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Speaker 5: We're our thirties or late thirties and a couple of

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, so.

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Speaker 5: I read this thing that if you put up bounty

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Speaker 4: What what are you talking about?

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Speaker 5: What works? More than once? Over the last few years,

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Speaker 5: I've been set up on successful dates and I paid

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Speaker 5: the person who finds them for me.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, that's desperate.

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Speaker 5: It's not desperate, it's not it's normal normal ish.

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Speaker 4: That's not normal, Like what the hell?

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Speaker 5: Like? Wait, but I'm not cheating on you or anything

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Speaker 5: like in this good news. I mean, this is how

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Speaker 5: I found you paid the most money to Melissa, who

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Speaker 4: Money?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Heyabe, Okay, who are all these people? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Sorry to interrupt your riveting conversation with your fiance. You're

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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 1: I think it's sweet what you did. My friends said

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Speaker 1: it shows that you were serious.

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Speaker 3: We're here because Donna needed a little bit of help

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Speaker 3: She thought something really shady was going on.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, you could tell by her first question that she

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Speaker 3: You're claiming that it's a way to have friends set

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Speaker 4: I almost don't know how to feel. It's so not

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Speaker 1: Do you believe them?

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Speaker 4: Right? I mean, it's it's so specific that like I

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Speaker 3: I heard you use the word desperate, I think when

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but it's worth it. I paid her one and

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Speaker 5: this would be a funny story I could tell you.

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Speaker 3: Look later, I had to pay somebody else to get you.

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Speaker 2: People pay for matchmaking services all the time, and nobody

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Speaker 1: His friends will accept the money though, Yeah, I mean maybe.

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Speaker 2: It was like, you know, it'll take the money right

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Speaker 3: It's a successful match? Is that how it works?

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Speaker 5: Well?

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Speaker 3: Once you say I do?

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Speaker 5: I mean, look, there's different tiers if it's not a

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Speaker 5: great day, and I like cookies.

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Speaker 4: Oh, I thought.

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Speaker 1: I don't understand, Donna. Aren't you like I would be flattered?

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Speaker 4: I mean, okay, on money hand, I'm kind of flattered.

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Speaker 4: But on the other hand, I'm like, too fifty. That's

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Speaker 3: Hey, it'll be when you're a grandma one day you're

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Speaker 3: telling your grand kids, like you, Grandpa bought me for

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Speaker 5: I mean, you weren't supposed to know about the price.

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Speaker 5: The price is beside the point. It's just thank you.

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Speaker 2: It's kind of fantasy football dating though I played fantasy

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Speaker 3: All right, So it sounds like there isn't really a

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Speaker 3: this list of women. It's just a matchmaking service.

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Speaker 1: It's not cheating.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, with his good friends because they know you best right,

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Speaker 2: and it works.

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Speaker 1: That's the amazing thing. You two are getting married.

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Speaker 3: Are you still, Donna? This doesn't change anything in your mind,

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Speaker 4: I mean no, not at the moment. Now. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Brook soiled again, couldn't ruin this.

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Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning