Speaker 1: Second date update. We got an email from a listener
Speaker 1: and I'll just read the subject line. It says, there's
Speaker 1: a scamming coward on the dating apps and you need
Speaker 1: to help me expose him. And his name is Scotty.
Speaker 1: Don't I'm just kidding. It's an inside joke on the
Speaker 1: show right now. So we're gonna put that aside with
Speaker 1: the bottle of peach snaps and everything else that's waiting
Speaker 1: up in his hotel room. Let's focus on our caller here,
Speaker 1: because she did seem pretty heated in her email. Just
Speaker 1: on the subject line alone, you could tell. Let's talk
Speaker 1: to Lindsay. Lindsey, welcome to the show.
Speaker 2: Hi already coming in hot just with that high. I
Speaker 2: love it, Lindsay, what's going on?
Speaker 3: I did?
Speaker 4: And I want to call him. I want to call
Speaker 4: him right.
Speaker 2: Let's take a deep breath.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll into him. Can we know what's this guy's name?
Speaker 4: His name is Alex and honestly, don't even call him
Speaker 4: a guy. He's a boy. Wow, Like yeah, cowardly little.
Speaker 2: Oh oh, what happened? Well, okay, Lindsay, we're on the radio.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we got to watch the language just a little bit.
Speaker 1: But I appreciate the passion that you have.
Speaker 2: What happened, Well.
Speaker 4: We got dinner and it was going great. I felt
Speaker 4: like we were really connecting, having a good time. He
Speaker 4: seems more into me than I was into him. And
Speaker 4: towards the end of the meal he gets up to
Speaker 4: go to the bathroom and never comes back.
Speaker 2: Oh no, we have taught to people that have done
Speaker 2: this or had it done to them.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's really extreme.
Speaker 4: I've heard of this happening online. I never thought this
Speaker 4: would happen to me, and it was humiliating. I felt
Speaker 4: like an idiot.
Speaker 2: Oh god, how long did you sit there? Did you
Speaker 2: get the waiter to like go check on him or what?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Okay, So after like fifteen twenty minutes, I was like,
Speaker 4: maybe we can check the bathroom. Is he okay? I
Speaker 4: actually got worried about him and he wasn't even there.
Speaker 4: He was gone, yeah, okay.
Speaker 2: I hate to ask, but usually the people who do
Speaker 2: this are enjoying the date. Do you think maybe you've.
Speaker 1: Done this before saying you did something wrong?
Speaker 2: He usually did it have a really good reason.
Speaker 1: I come, he isn't like you so much?
Speaker 4: He left right Like I said, he seemed more into
Speaker 4: me than I was into him. He was so slurty
Speaker 4: and funny and like, who does this? What kind of
Speaker 4: garbage piece of craft? Human and leave their dates at
Speaker 4: the end of the dates all by yourself.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it's going you just.
Speaker 5: Don't call her.
Speaker 2: You have a lot of reason to be upset. But
Speaker 2: I don't know that he is going to hear you
Speaker 2: if we're coming in at that level, you know what
Speaker 2: I mean, Like, what do you want out of this?
Speaker 2: You want to call him out? And then what I.
Speaker 4: Want to know what made him do that?
Speaker 1: So you want to know what's good that we're going
Speaker 1: to talk and not you because it sounds like you're
Speaker 1: just gonna yell. This is definitely different because most of
Speaker 1: the people that reach out to us want another date
Speaker 1: with the person that we're about to call. Lindsey, you
Speaker 1: have no interest whatsoever.
Speaker 4: No, I want you to call him and then I'm
Speaker 4: going to come on the phone and lean him out.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, I'm here for that. I don't know, like
Speaker 2: what if he has a good reason, but.
Speaker 1: There isn't there There is no good reason a man
Speaker 1: should ever do that to a woman.
Speaker 2: We have heard where people have had like bathroom emergencies
Speaker 2: where they can't go back to the table.
Speaker 1: He could have texted her and said something to her like,
Speaker 1: exactly have you reached out to him since then? Since
Speaker 1: that happened.
Speaker 4: Yes, I've texted him a lot. He had plenty of
Speaker 4: opportunities to write me back and let me know if
Speaker 4: something went wrong in the bathroom, which he didn't.
Speaker 1: Well, I'm assuming you called him a bunch of like
Speaker 1: mean names in the text message.
Speaker 4: I mean I started off nice and then he didn't answer,
Speaker 4: so he didn't deserve anything nice. He didn't get that.
Speaker 4: He does not get that.
Speaker 2: What's interesting. I mean, as soon as we tell this
Speaker 2: guy who we're calling for, he's going to hang up
Speaker 2: on us. Why because he knows, he knows how mad
Speaker 2: she is. She's already been texting us.
Speaker 1: Well, he won't know that she's on the line until
Speaker 1: we surprise her with that.
Speaker 2: I mean, maybe he wants to out her. Maybe this
Speaker 2: is his chance, right if it's something he thinks she did,
Speaker 2: not that I support.
Speaker 1: That women don't do things wrong in the dating world.
Speaker 5: So the only he's done this.
Speaker 4: I bet he's done this to like a hundred women,
Speaker 4: so he can't get away with it and he has
Speaker 4: to defend himself or say something.
Speaker 1: Oh you think he does this like all the time
Speaker 1: he gets nothing to do.
Speaker 5: I bet he does.
Speaker 4: Okay, because he was acting so smooth and funny, flurry,
Speaker 4: I can read these guys.
Speaker 5: Like a book.
Speaker 1: Okay, So the only reason that you reached out to
Speaker 1: us here is just because the idea of not knowing
Speaker 1: why he left that night is probably just killing you
Speaker 1: right now.
Speaker 4: And if he's going to humiliate me, I'm going to
Speaker 4: humiliate him on the radio.
Speaker 1: Okay. We're not just doing this for Lindsay today. We're
Speaker 1: doing this for women everywhere who have gotten stood up
Speaker 1: and walked out of in the middle of dinner.
Speaker 4: Let's get him, ladies, Come on, I don't even know
Speaker 4: if he's a scammer.
Speaker 1: We are gonna la'm merciless when we come back and
Speaker 1: do the most brutal second Date, Part two we've ever done.
Speaker 1: If you're a guy, I would not answer your phone
Speaker 1: in the next five minute, well please answer so that
Speaker 1: we can have something to eric. But we're gonna do
Speaker 1: it right after this second date update. This is a
Speaker 1: little tense because there's a woman listener of ours on
Speaker 1: the phone right now who is out for blood.
Speaker 2: Yes she is, claws are.
Speaker 1: Out because in her mind and I do kind of
Speaker 1: agree with her here, there's no reason for a guy
Speaker 1: to get up and leave a table at the end
Speaker 1: of the date, sneak out of the restaurant and stick
Speaker 1: her with the entire bill.
Speaker 2: And that's a day he ate his dinner. It's not
Speaker 2: like he left in the middle and like sub emergency.
Speaker 1: But that's what's a point, Joe. That's what happened to Lindsay,
Speaker 1: or I mean, at least I think she got stuck
Speaker 1: with the bill. What happened with the bill, Lindsay? Did
Speaker 1: you pay it?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 4: Yeah, so that's another thing. He left me to cover
Speaker 4: the bill. The waiter saw me sitting there for a
Speaker 4: half hour and sawhow up said he was, and he
Speaker 4: generously covered my bill, which was so nice.
Speaker 1: Told the manager to take it off the bill.
Speaker 4: You didn't have to pay, Yeah, I didn't have to pay.
Speaker 4: But the humiliation of being left alone there was the
Speaker 4: worst part of it.
Speaker 2: Okay, Alexis is humiliated just sitting alone at her desk
Speaker 2: sometimes even if I can't shameful.
Speaker 1: But Brooke, I think we need a game plan so
Speaker 1: we all don't jump on Alex and like get anger
Speaker 1: right off the back.
Speaker 2: I mean, I think, first of all, we shouldn't accuse
Speaker 2: him of anything. We don't know from his side what happened,
Speaker 2: you liar, you would say that there could be a reason,
Speaker 2: even if his reason sucks. You want to hear it.
Speaker 2: That's the whole point of you calling in, right, you
Speaker 2: want to hear it.
Speaker 1: He better be in the hospital when we call him.
Speaker 1: I won't forgive him.
Speaker 2: The only way we're going to hear it is if
Speaker 2: we come in not accusatory.
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, but like we're all on my side.
Speaker 2: Yes, well the girls do not see you, I mean
Speaker 2: right now. Yeah, I haven't heard the other side of
Speaker 2: the story yet.
Speaker 1: I don't care what the other side of the story
Speaker 1: is personally, But you know what, I'm gonna dial Alex
Speaker 1: and we're going to be on our best behavior. Hopefully
Speaker 1: he picks up.
Speaker 4: Here we go, let's see what he says.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, I make sure.
Speaker 1: I kind of like it. Here we go. Hello, Hey,
Speaker 1: we're looking to speak with Alex.
Speaker 5: Let's see Hey, Alex, hope you're.
Speaker 1: Having a good day.
Speaker 2: Hello, Hello, Sorry, Alex, I'm just laughing at Jeffrey right now.
Speaker 1: Hey, Pas Jeffrey, that's me. I'm a radio host on
Speaker 1: the show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 5: Hey Alex, Wait, what.
Speaker 2: The whole show's here?
Speaker 1: Man? Yeah, you're on the radio right now. We're just
Speaker 1: hoping to have an nice, calm, pleasant conversation with you
Speaker 1: today about what a date you went on recently with
Speaker 1: one of our listeners. Her name is Lindsay. Please don't hang.
Speaker 5: Up my god.
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, you remember Lindsay.
Speaker 5: Huh oh yeah.
Speaker 1: So we heard from her that you two went out
Speaker 1: to dinner recently, which.
Speaker 2: She thought was going great. She really was enjoying her
Speaker 2: time with you.
Speaker 1: And then there was the bad part of dinner, which
Speaker 1: happened when you went missing from the restaurant.
Speaker 2: Like yep, yeah, you're just gonna own that. You're not
Speaker 2: gonna apologize immediately.
Speaker 1: So you admit that, you admit that happened, you walked out.
Speaker 5: I take full credits to that.
Speaker 2: What credit's God, that's like a pride thing when you
Speaker 2: take credit or something.
Speaker 5: What do you mean because she probably didn't share with you,
Speaker 5: but I saw her and her little friend before the date.
Speaker 2: What little friend?
Speaker 5: What's a little friend? I don't know her little friend's name,
Speaker 5: her little girlfriend. They were about a block away from
Speaker 5: the restaurant. Her and her friend were involved in something else,
Speaker 5: so they didn't notice me.
Speaker 2: What do you see them do? That's so terrible.
Speaker 3: Her friend is like, seems like she's coaching her for something.
Speaker 3: So Lindsey says to her friend, oh, my uber app
Speaker 3: is not working, can you pay for me?
Speaker 5: And she like bats her eyes.
Speaker 3: And and her friend said no, just say a little more.
Speaker 5: Believably, she's coaching her.
Speaker 2: Exactly, exactly so she wouldn't have to pay for an
Speaker 2: uber home.
Speaker 5: She was like, my uber app's not working, did you
Speaker 5: pay for me? It was like sociopathic the way she
Speaker 5: did it.
Speaker 4: So you path the way I did it.
Speaker 1: Okay, we have to let Alex know that that is
Speaker 1: Lindsay on the line.
Speaker 4: What I'm hearing. What I'm hearing, Alex is that you're
Speaker 4: so so guys aren't supposed to help a girl get
Speaker 4: home safely?
Speaker 1: Well after the thing is, Lindsay, you jumped in too soon,
Speaker 1: so we couldn't get to what Alex was thinking. What
Speaker 1: was going through your mind? Alex?
Speaker 5: I was thinking, and I feel like I have proof
Speaker 5: because I witnessed your friend coaching you in getting me
Speaker 5: to pay for your uber and you playing this like
Speaker 5: Damsel in distress act just to get free stuff out
Speaker 5: of me.
Speaker 2: Do you know what he's talking about, lindsay, I I was.
Speaker 4: I was expecting to be able to get help getting home.
Speaker 4: I just said that, and there's nothing wrong with that,
Speaker 4: And so you were your answer to that was a
Speaker 4: get up and just leave dinner at the end and
Speaker 4: leave me the bill, like I don't know, like an
Speaker 4: immature loser will help.
Speaker 2: I mean, I want to know, like, if you heard
Speaker 2: it before the date even started, why did you do
Speaker 2: the date?
Speaker 5: Because here's the thing. As soon as I heard her
Speaker 5: planning to do that, I already knew she was going
Speaker 5: to manipulate me.
Speaker 4: So I was like, I'm going to manipulate you. So,
Speaker 4: oh my god, God forbid a guy helps a girl
Speaker 4: get home, you know, usually.
Speaker 5: People do that, but you were practicing over and over again,
Speaker 5: and you twoine laughing about it. If you ask for help.
Speaker 4: Girls, and we think like I was like, Hue, who
Speaker 4: do not laugh with your friends? Like Jesus, you see
Speaker 4: me this evil plan and response to leave me and
Speaker 4: like an idiot in the middle of the restaurant all alone, like, oh.
Speaker 5: God, no one, I ordered the most expensive thing on
Speaker 5: the men.
Speaker 4: Okay, so that's just confirms you are you are just
Speaker 4: a little Oh well, if.
Speaker 1: Anything, you guys are both a little bit of manipulators.
Speaker 5: No no, no, no, no no no, I only scam the scammer.
Speaker 5: I was ready to have a genuine date with her.
Speaker 5: Shut up.
Speaker 4: After a few drinks safely, and you decided up on
Speaker 4: a planet of just I don't know. You just want
Speaker 4: to make someone feel small. You want to make women
Speaker 4: feel small.
Speaker 5: You are not women, You are one person.
Speaker 4: Great, so now I'm not a woman who deserves to
Speaker 4: be not left an abandoned at a restaurant.
Speaker 2: Why can't you afford your own uber?
Speaker 5: Yes? Fine, you guys are not getting it. She was
Speaker 5: practicing that her uber wasn't working. She can totally afford it.
Speaker 5: She just wants to take the fool out of somebody.
Speaker 4: Okay, so chivalry is dead, thank you.
Speaker 1: A little bit, sus that you're practicing the line to
Speaker 1: say to like be like, can you pay for my
Speaker 1: broken app? Owhn?
Speaker 2: No, it's more than suss. It's like you got caught, girl,
Speaker 2: You got caught scamming him for an uber ride.
Speaker 4: I was not scamming.
Speaker 2: You're not scamming. You're lying. You're lying to get what
Speaker 2: you need.
Speaker 1: I am just a shamed that Brooke was on Lindsay's
Speaker 1: side this entire time. This is what happens.
Speaker 4: Yeah, like, maybe Brook cannot be part of this anymore.
Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, thank you for taking my side.
Speaker 5: I think it sounds like a genuine individual who could
Speaker 5: totally afford her own over right home.
Speaker 1: Yeah, man, clearly, Brooke, there's always two sides to every story,
Speaker 1: and you're on the wrong one every time.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've never heard anyone in that room say that
Speaker 2: before that there's two sides. I didn't hear that at.
Speaker 3: All, so weird.
Speaker 1: Look, I mean, at this point, we're running out of time,
Speaker 1: so I just have to ask, we would.
Speaker 2: I know there could be a lot of hot passion there.
Speaker 1: Because we always offer to send you guys out on
Speaker 1: another date, a date that we would pay for if
Speaker 1: you're both willing to agree to it.
Speaker 4: Just no, I can find a man who doesn't mind
Speaker 4: getting me home after a few drinks.
Speaker 1: I don't mind getting you home after a few drinks.
Speaker 1: That's why I'm offering to pay.
Speaker 5: I mean lindsay, I'm actually kind of down at this point.
Speaker 1: Don't for Lindsey. He's luring you in for another track.
Speaker 3: What's someone?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 5: What could I possibly weave this time? Dude?
Speaker 2: And in the end, Alex, I don't know if you
Speaker 2: know this, but she never even paid for the dinner.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, you.
Speaker 2: Know what?
Speaker 5: You know what? That makes me even happier that this
Speaker 5: is all happening on the radio.
Speaker 1: What's happening on the radio.
Speaker 5: That she is getting completely exposed for being the liar
Speaker 5: manipulator that she is.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, this is funny now, Alex, Oh my god, Sun.
Speaker 2: It around.
Speaker 3: Takes one to know one, babe.
Speaker 1: I think we've gotten pretty far in understanding what happens.
Speaker 1: We finally reached common ground.
Speaker 2: Thank god, you are such a champion of women generally.
Speaker 1: Right, I fixed all the problems I knew you.
Speaker 4: Would, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: I feel like it's pretty clear, and maybe this is
Speaker 1: just my observation, but I feel like it's a super
Speaker 1: rare occurrence for Lindsey to be held accountable for anything
Speaker 1: she's ever done wrong.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it sounds like she just bats her eyes and says.
Speaker 1: What means the end how her thing was. Oh well
Speaker 1: is dead. Yeah, that's what this means.
Speaker 2: Like, that's not what this means. A wait a minute.
Speaker 2: I thought you two were gonna champion her no matter
Speaker 2: what happened. Remember that tried, but someone took us.
Speaker 1: I'm all about hearing people out.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you would have thought the two girls in the
Speaker 4: room had the right sense of the.
Speaker 1: What if he wouldn't have seen her practicing her uber
Speaker 1: app lie out on the side of the.
Speaker 2: Road, would have paid for her uber.
Speaker 1: He would have paid for the Uber. There would have
Speaker 1: been no drama. They would never have even been on
Speaker 1: the show.
Speaker 2: I mean, they could be two kids deep by this point.
Speaker 5: See.
Speaker 1: I think the real lesson is practice your scam lines
Speaker 1: in private, or at least in the women's restroom where
Speaker 1: the men can't here.
Speaker 5: It is.
Speaker 2: Remember that, ladies, thank you for the always again, Jim.
Speaker 1: That's right. We're ready to be scammed by you. We
Speaker 1: just don't want to know about it. Okay, and text
Speaker 1: in email the show. We'll call that person who's not
Speaker 1: calling you back. Go check out all of our second
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