WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Scam the Scammer

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<v Speaker 1>Second date update. We got an email from a listener

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<v Speaker 1>and I'll just read the subject line. It says, there's

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<v Speaker 1>a scamming coward on the dating apps and you need

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<v Speaker 1>to help me expose him. And his name is Scotty.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't I'm just kidding. It's an inside joke on the

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<v Speaker 1>show right now. So we're gonna put that aside with

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<v Speaker 1>the bottle of peach snaps and everything else that's waiting

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<v Speaker 1>up in his hotel room. Let's focus on our caller here,

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<v Speaker 1>because she did seem pretty heated in her email. Just

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<v Speaker 1>on the subject line alone, you could tell. Let's talk

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<v Speaker 1>to Lindsay. Lindsey, welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi already coming in hot just with that high. I

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<v Speaker 2>love it, Lindsay, what's going on?

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<v Speaker 3>I did?

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<v Speaker 4>And I want to call him. I want to call

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<v Speaker 4>him right.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's take a deep breath.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we'll into him. Can we know what's this guy's name?

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<v Speaker 4>His name is Alex and honestly, don't even call him

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<v Speaker 4>a guy. He's a boy. Wow, Like yeah, cowardly little.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh oh, what happened? Well, okay, Lindsay, we're on the radio.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we got to watch the language just a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>But I appreciate the passion that you have.

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<v Speaker 2>What happened, Well.

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<v Speaker 4>We got dinner and it was going great. I felt

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<v Speaker 4>like we were really connecting, having a good time. He

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<v Speaker 4>seems more into me than I was into him. And

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<v Speaker 4>towards the end of the meal he gets up to

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<v Speaker 4>go to the bathroom and never comes back.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, we have taught to people that have done

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<v Speaker 2>this or had it done to them.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's really extreme.

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<v Speaker 4>I've heard of this happening online. I never thought this

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<v Speaker 4>would happen to me, and it was humiliating. I felt

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<v Speaker 4>like an idiot.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh god, how long did you sit there? Did you

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<v Speaker 2>get the waiter to like go check on him or what?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, So after like fifteen twenty minutes, I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>maybe we can check the bathroom. Is he okay? I

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<v Speaker 4>actually got worried about him and he wasn't even there.

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<v Speaker 4>He was gone, yeah, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I hate to ask, but usually the people who do

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<v Speaker 2>this are enjoying the date. Do you think maybe you've.

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<v Speaker 1>Done this before saying you did something wrong?

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<v Speaker 2>He usually did it have a really good reason.

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<v Speaker 1>I come, he isn't like you so much?

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<v Speaker 4>He left right Like I said, he seemed more into

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<v Speaker 4>me than I was into him. He was so slurty

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<v Speaker 4>and funny and like, who does this? What kind of

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<v Speaker 4>garbage piece of craft? Human and leave their dates at

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<v Speaker 4>the end of the dates all by yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean it's going you just.

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<v Speaker 5>Don't call her.

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<v Speaker 2>You have a lot of reason to be upset. But

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know that he is going to hear you

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<v Speaker 2>if we're coming in at that level, you know what

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, Like, what do you want out of this?

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<v Speaker 2>You want to call him out? And then what I.

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<v Speaker 4>Want to know what made him do that?

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<v Speaker 1>So you want to know what's good that we're going

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<v Speaker 1>to talk and not you because it sounds like you're

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<v Speaker 1>just gonna yell. This is definitely different because most of

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<v Speaker 1>the people that reach out to us want another date

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<v Speaker 1>with the person that we're about to call. Lindsey, you

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<v Speaker 1>have no interest whatsoever.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I want you to call him and then I'm

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<v Speaker 4>going to come on the phone and lean him out.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, I'm here for that. I don't know, like

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<v Speaker 2>what if he has a good reason, but.

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<v Speaker 1>There isn't there There is no good reason a man

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<v Speaker 1>should ever do that to a woman.

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<v Speaker 2>We have heard where people have had like bathroom emergencies

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<v Speaker 2>where they can't go back to the table.

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<v Speaker 1>He could have texted her and said something to her like,

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<v Speaker 1>exactly have you reached out to him since then? Since

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<v Speaker 1>that happened.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, I've texted him a lot. He had plenty of

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<v Speaker 4>opportunities to write me back and let me know if

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<v Speaker 4>something went wrong in the bathroom, which he didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I'm assuming you called him a bunch of like

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<v Speaker 1>mean names in the text message.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean I started off nice and then he didn't answer,

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<v Speaker 4>so he didn't deserve anything nice. He didn't get that.

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<v Speaker 4>He does not get that.

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<v Speaker 2>What's interesting. I mean, as soon as we tell this

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<v Speaker 2>guy who we're calling for, he's going to hang up

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<v Speaker 2>on us. Why because he knows, he knows how mad

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<v Speaker 2>she is. She's already been texting us.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, he won't know that she's on the line until

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<v Speaker 1>we surprise her with that.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, maybe he wants to out her. Maybe this

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<v Speaker 2>is his chance, right if it's something he thinks she did,

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<v Speaker 2>not that I support.

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<v Speaker 1>That women don't do things wrong in the dating world.

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<v Speaker 5>So the only he's done this.

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<v Speaker 4>I bet he's done this to like a hundred women,

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<v Speaker 4>so he can't get away with it and he has

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<v Speaker 4>to defend himself or say something.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you think he does this like all the time

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<v Speaker 1>he gets nothing to do.

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<v Speaker 5>I bet he does.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, because he was acting so smooth and funny, flurry,

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<v Speaker 4>I can read these guys.

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<v Speaker 5>Like a book.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So the only reason that you reached out to

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<v Speaker 1>us here is just because the idea of not knowing

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<v Speaker 1>why he left that night is probably just killing you

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<v Speaker 1>right now.

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<v Speaker 4>And if he's going to humiliate me, I'm going to

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<v Speaker 4>humiliate him on the radio.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. We're not just doing this for Lindsay today. We're

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<v Speaker 1>doing this for women everywhere who have gotten stood up

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<v Speaker 1>and walked out of in the middle of dinner.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's get him, ladies, Come on, I don't even know

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<v Speaker 4>if he's a scammer.

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<v Speaker 1>We are gonna la'm merciless when we come back and

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<v Speaker 1>do the most brutal second Date, Part two we've ever done.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're a guy, I would not answer your phone

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<v Speaker 1>in the next five minute, well please answer so that

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<v Speaker 1>we can have something to eric. But we're gonna do

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<v Speaker 1>it right after this second date update. This is a

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<v Speaker 1>little tense because there's a woman listener of ours on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone right now who is out for blood.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes she is, claws are.

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<v Speaker 1>Out because in her mind and I do kind of

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<v Speaker 1>agree with her here, there's no reason for a guy

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<v Speaker 1>to get up and leave a table at the end

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<v Speaker 1>of the date, sneak out of the restaurant and stick

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<v Speaker 1>her with the entire bill.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's a day he ate his dinner. It's not

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<v Speaker 2>like he left in the middle and like sub emergency.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's what's a point, Joe. That's what happened to Lindsay,

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<v Speaker 1>or I mean, at least I think she got stuck

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<v Speaker 1>with the bill. What happened with the bill, Lindsay? Did

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<v Speaker 1>you pay it?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so that's another thing. He left me to cover

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<v Speaker 4>the bill. The waiter saw me sitting there for a

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<v Speaker 4>half hour and sawhow up said he was, and he

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<v Speaker 4>generously covered my bill, which was so nice.

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<v Speaker 1>Told the manager to take it off the bill.

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<v Speaker 4>You didn't have to pay, Yeah, I didn't have to pay.

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<v Speaker 4>But the humiliation of being left alone there was the

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<v Speaker 4>worst part of it.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Alexis is humiliated just sitting alone at her desk

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<v Speaker 2>sometimes even if I can't shameful.

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<v Speaker 1>But Brooke, I think we need a game plan so

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<v Speaker 1>we all don't jump on Alex and like get anger

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<v Speaker 1>right off the back.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I think, first of all, we shouldn't accuse

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<v Speaker 2>him of anything. We don't know from his side what happened,

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<v Speaker 2>you liar, you would say that there could be a reason,

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<v Speaker 2>even if his reason sucks. You want to hear it.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the whole point of you calling in, right, you

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<v Speaker 2>want to hear it.

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<v Speaker 1>He better be in the hospital when we call him.

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<v Speaker 1>I won't forgive him.

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<v Speaker 2>The only way we're going to hear it is if

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<v Speaker 2>we come in not accusatory.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, okay, but like we're all on my side.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, well the girls do not see you, I mean

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<v Speaker 2>right now. Yeah, I haven't heard the other side of

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<v Speaker 2>the story yet.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't care what the other side of the story

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<v Speaker 1>is personally, But you know what, I'm gonna dial Alex

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<v Speaker 1>and we're going to be on our best behavior. Hopefully

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<v Speaker 1>he picks up.

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<v Speaker 4>Here we go, let's see what he says.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, I make sure.

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of like it. Here we go. Hello, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>we're looking to speak with Alex.

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<v Speaker 5>Let's see Hey, Alex, hope you're.

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<v Speaker 1>Having a good day.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello, Hello, Sorry, Alex, I'm just laughing at Jeffrey right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, Pas Jeffrey, that's me. I'm a radio host on

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<v Speaker 1>the show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 5>Hey Alex, Wait, what.

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<v Speaker 2>The whole show's here?

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<v Speaker 1>Man? Yeah, you're on the radio right now. We're just

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<v Speaker 1>hoping to have an nice, calm, pleasant conversation with you

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<v Speaker 1>today about what a date you went on recently with

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<v Speaker 1>one of our listeners. Her name is Lindsay. Please don't hang.

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<v Speaker 5>Up my god.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, yeah, you remember Lindsay.

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<v Speaker 5>Huh oh yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So we heard from her that you two went out

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<v Speaker 1>to dinner recently, which.

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<v Speaker 2>She thought was going great. She really was enjoying her

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<v Speaker 2>time with you.

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<v Speaker 1>And then there was the bad part of dinner, which

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<v Speaker 1>happened when you went missing from the restaurant.

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<v Speaker 2>Like yep, yeah, you're just gonna own that. You're not

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<v Speaker 2>gonna apologize immediately.

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<v Speaker 1>So you admit that, you admit that happened, you walked out.

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<v Speaker 5>I take full credits to that.

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<v Speaker 2>What credit's God, that's like a pride thing when you

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<v Speaker 2>take credit or something.

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<v Speaker 5>What do you mean because she probably didn't share with you,

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<v Speaker 5>but I saw her and her little friend before the date.

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<v Speaker 2>What little friend?

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<v Speaker 5>What's a little friend? I don't know her little friend's name,

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<v Speaker 5>her little girlfriend. They were about a block away from

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<v Speaker 5>the restaurant. Her and her friend were involved in something else,

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<v Speaker 5>so they didn't notice me.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you see them do? That's so terrible.

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<v Speaker 3>Her friend is like, seems like she's coaching her for something.

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<v Speaker 3>So Lindsey says to her friend, oh, my uber app

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<v Speaker 3>is not working, can you pay for me?

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<v Speaker 5>And she like bats her eyes.

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<v Speaker 3>And and her friend said no, just say a little more.

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<v Speaker 5>Believably, she's coaching her.

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<v Speaker 2>Exactly, exactly so she wouldn't have to pay for an

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<v Speaker 2>uber home.

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<v Speaker 5>She was like, my uber app's not working, did you

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<v Speaker 5>pay for me? It was like sociopathic the way she

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<v Speaker 5>did it.

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<v Speaker 4>So you path the way I did it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, we have to let Alex know that that is

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<v Speaker 1>Lindsay on the line.

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<v Speaker 4>What I'm hearing. What I'm hearing, Alex is that you're

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<v Speaker 4>so so guys aren't supposed to help a girl get

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<v Speaker 4>home safely?

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<v Speaker 1>Well after the thing is, Lindsay, you jumped in too soon,

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<v Speaker 1>so we couldn't get to what Alex was thinking. What

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<v Speaker 1>was going through your mind? Alex?

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<v Speaker 5>I was thinking, and I feel like I have proof

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<v Speaker 5>because I witnessed your friend coaching you in getting me

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<v Speaker 5>to pay for your uber and you playing this like

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<v Speaker 5>Damsel in distress act just to get free stuff out

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<v Speaker 5>of me.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you know what he's talking about, lindsay, I I was.

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<v Speaker 4>I was expecting to be able to get help getting home.

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<v Speaker 4>I just said that, and there's nothing wrong with that,

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<v Speaker 4>And so you were your answer to that was a

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<v Speaker 4>get up and just leave dinner at the end and

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<v Speaker 4>leave me the bill, like I don't know, like an

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<v Speaker 4>immature loser will help.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I want to know, like, if you heard

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<v Speaker 2>it before the date even started, why did you do

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<v Speaker 2>the date?

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<v Speaker 5>Because here's the thing. As soon as I heard her

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<v Speaker 5>planning to do that, I already knew she was going

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<v Speaker 5>to manipulate me.

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<v Speaker 4>So I was like, I'm going to manipulate you. So,

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<v Speaker 4>oh my god, God forbid a guy helps a girl

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<v Speaker 4>get home, you know, usually.

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<v Speaker 5>People do that, but you were practicing over and over again,

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<v Speaker 5>and you twoine laughing about it. If you ask for help.

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<v Speaker 4>Girls, and we think like I was like, Hue, who

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<v Speaker 4>do not laugh with your friends? Like Jesus, you see

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<v Speaker 4>me this evil plan and response to leave me and

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<v Speaker 4>like an idiot in the middle of the restaurant all alone, like, oh.

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<v Speaker 5>God, no one, I ordered the most expensive thing on

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<v Speaker 5>the men.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, so that's just confirms you are you are just

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<v Speaker 4>a little Oh well, if.

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<v Speaker 1>Anything, you guys are both a little bit of manipulators.

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<v Speaker 5>No no, no, no, no no no, I only scam the scammer.

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<v Speaker 5>I was ready to have a genuine date with her.

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<v Speaker 5>Shut up.

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<v Speaker 4>After a few drinks safely, and you decided up on

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<v Speaker 4>a planet of just I don't know. You just want

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<v Speaker 4>to make someone feel small. You want to make women

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<v Speaker 4>feel small.

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<v Speaker 5>You are not women, You are one person.

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<v Speaker 4>Great, so now I'm not a woman who deserves to

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<v Speaker 4>be not left an abandoned at a restaurant.

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<v Speaker 2>Why can't you afford your own uber?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes? Fine, you guys are not getting it. She was

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<v Speaker 5>practicing that her uber wasn't working. She can totally afford it.

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<v Speaker 5>She just wants to take the fool out of somebody.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, so chivalry is dead, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>A little bit, sus that you're practicing the line to

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<v Speaker 1>say to like be like, can you pay for my

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<v Speaker 1>broken app? Owhn?

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<v Speaker 2>No, it's more than suss. It's like you got caught, girl,

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<v Speaker 2>You got caught scamming him for an uber ride.

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<v Speaker 4>I was not scamming.

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<v Speaker 2>You're not scamming. You're lying. You're lying to get what

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<v Speaker 2>you need.

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<v Speaker 1>I am just a shamed that Brooke was on Lindsay's

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<v Speaker 1>side this entire time. This is what happens.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, like, maybe Brook cannot be part of this anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, exactly, thank you for taking my side.

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<v Speaker 5>I think it sounds like a genuine individual who could

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<v Speaker 5>totally afford her own over right home.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, man, clearly, Brooke, there's always two sides to every story,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're on the wrong one every time.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I've never heard anyone in that room say that

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<v Speaker 2>before that there's two sides. I didn't hear that at.

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<v Speaker 3>All, so weird.

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<v Speaker 1>Look, I mean, at this point, we're running out of time,

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<v Speaker 1>so I just have to ask, we would.

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<v Speaker 2>I know there could be a lot of hot passion there.

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<v Speaker 1>Because we always offer to send you guys out on

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<v Speaker 1>another date, a date that we would pay for if

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<v Speaker 1>you're both willing to agree to it.

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<v Speaker 4>Just no, I can find a man who doesn't mind

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<v Speaker 4>getting me home after a few drinks.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't mind getting you home after a few drinks.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why I'm offering to pay.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean lindsay, I'm actually kind of down at this point.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't for Lindsey. He's luring you in for another track.

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<v Speaker 3>What's someone?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh?

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<v Speaker 5>What could I possibly weave this time? Dude?

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<v Speaker 2>And in the end, Alex, I don't know if you

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<v Speaker 2>know this, but she never even paid for the dinner.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know what?

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<v Speaker 5>You know what? That makes me even happier that this

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<v Speaker 5>is all happening on the radio.

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<v Speaker 1>What's happening on the radio.

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<v Speaker 5>That she is getting completely exposed for being the liar

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<v Speaker 5>manipulator that she is.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, this is funny now, Alex, Oh my god, Sun.

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<v Speaker 2>It around.

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<v Speaker 3>Takes one to know one, babe.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we've gotten pretty far in understanding what happens.

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<v Speaker 1>We finally reached common ground.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank god, you are such a champion of women generally.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, I fixed all the problems I knew you.

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<v Speaker 4>Would, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like it's pretty clear, and maybe this is

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<v Speaker 1>just my observation, but I feel like it's a super

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<v Speaker 1>rare occurrence for Lindsey to be held accountable for anything

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<v Speaker 1>she's ever done wrong.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it sounds like she just bats her eyes and says.

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<v Speaker 1>What means the end how her thing was. Oh well

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<v Speaker 1>is dead. Yeah, that's what this means.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, that's not what this means. A wait a minute.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought you two were gonna champion her no matter

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<v Speaker 2>what happened. Remember that tried, but someone took us.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm all about hearing people out.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you would have thought the two girls in the

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<v Speaker 4>room had the right sense of the.

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<v Speaker 1>What if he wouldn't have seen her practicing her uber

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<v Speaker 1>app lie out on the side of the.

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<v Speaker 2>Road, would have paid for her uber.

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<v Speaker 1>He would have paid for the Uber. There would have

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<v Speaker 1>been no drama. They would never have even been on

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<v Speaker 1>the show.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, they could be two kids deep by this point.

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<v Speaker 5>See.

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<v Speaker 1>I think the real lesson is practice your scam lines

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<v Speaker 1>in private, or at least in the women's restroom where

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<v Speaker 1>the men can't here.

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<v Speaker 5>It is.

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<v Speaker 2>Remember that, ladies, thank you for the always again, Jim.

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<v Speaker 1>That's right. We're ready to be scammed by you. We

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<v Speaker 1>just don't want to know about it. Okay, and text

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<v Speaker 1>in email the show. We'll call that person who's not

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<v Speaker 1>calling you back. Go check out all of our second

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<v Speaker 1>Day podcast wherever you get yours at Brook and Jeffrey