WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Karaoke Cryer

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<v Speaker 1>Oof, did we find a villain today?

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, it's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning, and I

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<v Speaker 2>think it's gonna be hard. We're gonna be hard pressed

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<v Speaker 2>to find someone who's a fan of this woman. You'll

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<v Speaker 2>understand why in just a second, because we're getting into

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<v Speaker 2>our brand new Second Date podcast. But first, we always

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<v Speaker 2>love to start with your comments.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, Hope, Faith Joyce, Yeah, that's fun. Love the show.

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<v Speaker 1>I listen at work.

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<v Speaker 2>I then have to relive the show when I report

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<v Speaker 2>back to my husband, who refuses to listen.

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<v Speaker 1>He's an Insta reels over TikTok kind of person.

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<v Speaker 3>I actually just be a part of the show at

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<v Speaker 3>this point.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm already so involved.

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<v Speaker 3>There we are, There we go.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll tell your husband do it least in the very

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<v Speaker 2>least follow our socials at Brook and Jeffrey. Yeah on

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<v Speaker 2>Insta where he's yeah, then he can get a little

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<v Speaker 2>bit of that second date hit on those. All right,

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<v Speaker 2>let's go Second Date update brand new starts right now.

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<v Speaker 3>Second Date up date is singing okay on a first

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<v Speaker 3>date or during a first meet up?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you asking for yourself because you've always wanted to

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<v Speaker 2>live inside a musical?

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<v Speaker 3>Jeff I'm Jeff, I do my song of the week

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<v Speaker 3>here all the time, so I fully support that idea.

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<v Speaker 3>But if I'm some rando going out with Alexis or Brook,

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<v Speaker 3>probably would not recommend a duet with them.

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<v Speaker 1>You need to hate on our singing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you're so both vocally talented, thank you.

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<v Speaker 3>The man would just be so intimidated by the raw.

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<v Speaker 2>Music and art is more about effort than actual raw talent.

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<v Speaker 2>If loud enough, I sound better, like, don't have that

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<v Speaker 2>surprise exactly?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you want us to sing right now?

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<v Speaker 3>No? I don't want. I don't want the listeners to

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<v Speaker 3>be intimidated by you. But bring god exactly. I bring

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<v Speaker 3>it up though, because one of our listeners apparently was

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<v Speaker 3>singing during his first meet up.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope it was karaoke.

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<v Speaker 3>Well let's find out. His name is Charlie. Charlie, welcome

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<v Speaker 3>to the show.

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<v Speaker 4>Hello are you doing?

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<v Speaker 1>Why did you come in not singing?

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<v Speaker 5>Hello?

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<v Speaker 4>Sorry?

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to give that's what we wanted.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm not much of a karaoke person at all.

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<v Speaker 3>I take my solo back. It says in the email

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<v Speaker 3>here that you sang during your first meetup.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I did, not knowing what I guess what I

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<v Speaker 5>was exactly getting into.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, we put way too much pressure on him coming

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<v Speaker 3>into this so to.

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<v Speaker 2>Sense musical Yeah, I'm guessing it's someone you met online, right,

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<v Speaker 2>set up a date.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, no, not not at all.

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<v Speaker 5>Actually, I was just at karaoke and I signed up

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<v Speaker 5>for Bohemian Rhapsody.

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<v Speaker 4>What nice?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, like a singer. I don't get it. You

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<v Speaker 1>don't like singing and you do a queen song?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Like that is a big song, a big stretch.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I knew the song, so I knew all the words,

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<v Speaker 5>but I guess I didn't realize the vocal aptitude that

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<v Speaker 5>it required.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>It is one thing when you hear a song on

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<v Speaker 3>the radio and you're like, oh yeah, I could do this,

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<v Speaker 3>and then you're up on stage, actually under the lights,

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<v Speaker 3>needing to do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, the words singing with you?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it sounds like maybe you bit off more than

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<v Speaker 3>you could chew with that song.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and it's like seven minutes long. Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, did you at least have friends with you to

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<v Speaker 1>make fun of you? I was going to say, to

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<v Speaker 1>get a good video of this.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, they really tore me apart.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, you know, Charlie, we are doing a second date. Update.

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<v Speaker 2>So, although Jeffrey has been wanting to do karaoke reviews

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<v Speaker 2>for years.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I've been petitioning to get rid of these stupid

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<v Speaker 3>second dates so that we could just sing. I guess

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<v Speaker 3>what we should probably get to is the person that

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<v Speaker 3>you met. I'm assuming it happened there.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>So after I just like ruined this song and totally

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<v Speaker 5>embarrassed myself, Janine came up to me and introduced herself

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<v Speaker 5>and told me that Queen.

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<v Speaker 4>Is her favorite band and I did an all right

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<v Speaker 4>job and.

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<v Speaker 1>Settle for you.

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<v Speaker 3>That's nice.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, And then she went up and did her song

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<v Speaker 5>and she just like blew it away.

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<v Speaker 4>It was just like amazing. Wow.

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<v Speaker 5>So after he was done, I congratulated her and asked

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<v Speaker 5>her if I could buy her a drink, and she said, well, yes,

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<v Speaker 5>but you have to ask me out first.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I mean she's the karaoke queen.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>So did you do it or did you say no,

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<v Speaker 3>no things?

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<v Speaker 7>No?

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<v Speaker 4>Absolutely, Yeah, I asked her out.

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<v Speaker 3>Good the moment.

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<v Speaker 2>So you have one drink and then you guys go

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<v Speaker 2>on a date another time or was it the same night.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, we had a couple of drinks that night, hung out,

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<v Speaker 5>and then we decided to meet up.

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<v Speaker 4>I think it was like two or three days later.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so that's your official date. How did that go?

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<v Speaker 4>Wow? That was completely different. It's just such a different

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<v Speaker 4>person we had.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, started off conversating over dinner, and she cried

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<v Speaker 5>three different times throughout the night.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, was there like some I cry over everything? Like literally,

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<v Speaker 2>it's really hard for me. It like really impedes on

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<v Speaker 2>my social life sometimes because I don't want to cry over.

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<v Speaker 3>Everything, and yet you still do it.

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<v Speaker 1>No, it's like my emotional reaction. It's like blushing for me, do.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what? Like started to crying.

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<v Speaker 5>We were talking about her sister and she she started crying.

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<v Speaker 5>I asked, is everything okay? Is her sister all right

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<v Speaker 5>health wise?

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<v Speaker 4>She said yes.

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<v Speaker 5>And then the second time she started crying about her dog,

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<v Speaker 5>and I asked.

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<v Speaker 4>Her her dog was okay, and she said, yeah, her

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<v Speaker 4>dog's okay. But I just couldn't understand why she was

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<v Speaker 4>so upset.

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<v Speaker 3>So her sister's totally healthy, her dog's totally healthy, and

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<v Speaker 3>that makes her cry.

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<v Speaker 1>But crying is it always about being sad or upset?

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes it's about like just a really deep feeling like

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<v Speaker 2>maybe she has a deep feeling of love and gratitude

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<v Speaker 2>towards these things that are.

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<v Speaker 3>Going through it and everything that day.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe yeah. But then the third time she cried was

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<v Speaker 4>was over dessert. I mean over a fln.

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<v Speaker 3>I've cried over something. Were you eating dessert or what

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<v Speaker 3>was happening?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 5>No, I said, let's change the environment. Let's go out

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<v Speaker 5>and maybe get some dessert somewhere else.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, And that made her cry.

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<v Speaker 3>The suggestion of dessert made her cry.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, did you get her the flawn because girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 3>Needs She sounds like she didn't even want it.

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<v Speaker 1>She needs where she is.

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<v Speaker 2>You eat this cake, whether you want to or not

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<v Speaker 2>to go, you'll feel better.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. I'm just totally confused. There was this great interaction.

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<v Speaker 5>That we had when I met her, and this night

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<v Speaker 5>just went totally off the rail.

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<v Speaker 4>She was crying about everything.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Charlie, I know it's probably hard, but if you

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<v Speaker 3>had to guess, like, is there any thought in your

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<v Speaker 3>mind about what maybe caused her to be so emotional

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<v Speaker 3>that night?

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<v Speaker 4>If I had to guess, maybe she's just going through

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<v Speaker 4>something really personal and she didn't want to open up

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<v Speaker 4>about it to me.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so let's call her on the radio and ask

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<v Speaker 1>her about it.

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<v Speaker 5>Or Ellie, it was just a full moon that night

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<v Speaker 5>and people act weird on that night.

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<v Speaker 3>I'd like to say, some people cry for good things.

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<v Speaker 3>I cry watching soldiers from home videos, and I cry

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<v Speaker 3>on cute stuff. So maybe she was like thinking about

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<v Speaker 3>a really.

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<v Speaker 2>Good thing in Coco or just a full moon werewolf situation,

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<v Speaker 2>crying at the movement.

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<v Speaker 3>So we'll come back and hopefully get some answers from

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<v Speaker 3>her when we do your second Date Update super emotional

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<v Speaker 3>edition right after this thank you Second Date Update. It's

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<v Speaker 3>Brook and Jeffrey in the morning, and if you're just

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<v Speaker 3>joining us, our listener, Charlie hung out with a woman

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<v Speaker 3>named Janine on two separate occasions. Yes, and I tend

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<v Speaker 3>to want to focus more on the first hangout because

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<v Speaker 3>because singing and complimenting and high fiving each other.

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<v Speaker 2>Karaoke Sharon drinks together, that sounds fun.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. The second hangout, where he's sitting across a table

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<v Speaker 3>from her while she balls her eyes out for an

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<v Speaker 3>hour and a half, I mean fun. Yeah, No, not fun,

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<v Speaker 3>as the first time.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't fun for her either, Jess. Nobody had a

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<v Speaker 1>good time at that dinner thingcause.

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<v Speaker 3>We don't know exactly what was going on, not even Charlie.

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<v Speaker 3>He doesn't know why the crying was happening. She seemed

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<v Speaker 3>to be talking about a lot of different subjects, and

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<v Speaker 3>the night ended with him suggesting that they go grab

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<v Speaker 3>dessert together, and that resulted in immediate wailing. I really

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<v Speaker 3>don't know what we're gonna get here if she answers

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<v Speaker 3>the phone. I just know that we probably need to

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<v Speaker 3>be the opposite of how we normally do these calls

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<v Speaker 3>and actually be super respectful. Oh what do you think

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<v Speaker 3>about that strategy, Brooke?

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<v Speaker 1>I think that we shouldn't bring up the crime. I

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<v Speaker 1>do think that.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I would assume it's something really personal happening

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<v Speaker 2>in her life and it's none of our business.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a good point, fair, We'll just say you hung

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<v Speaker 3>out with Charlie.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I mean, she.

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<v Speaker 2>Spent a lot of time with him at the karaoke bar,

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<v Speaker 2>and like there could be a very innocent reason she's.

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<v Speaker 1>Not calling him back.

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<v Speaker 3>Charlie. Is that okay with you if we take that approach, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's fine. I mean, but what do we call her?

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<v Speaker 4>I just I want to express it. She has feelings.

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<v Speaker 4>The most women that I date, they're not like open

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<v Speaker 4>like this. I have the most respect for her. Maybe

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<v Speaker 4>she was just having a bad day, you say.

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<v Speaker 2>If she has feelings.

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<v Speaker 1>There's most women you date don't have feelings.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh well they don't.

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<v Speaker 4>They don't really open up like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I see you like the vulnerability.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, yeah I do.

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<v Speaker 3>Charlie, do you promise us that you're not going to

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<v Speaker 3>join in and cry on this call to.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want him to make that promise cry if

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<v Speaker 1>you need to, Charlie crying people on the phone. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe three, I'll join in a big cry.

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<v Speaker 3>People are going to keep on listening to this. So

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<v Speaker 3>here we go. If you're also going to cry with us,

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<v Speaker 3>it feels good, it really does.

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<v Speaker 1>It feels good.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm actually hoping she doesn't answer it. Here we go.

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<v Speaker 4>Hello.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi, is this Jeanine?

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<v Speaker 7>Yes, she's calling.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey Jeanine. This is a radio show calling. We're called

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<v Speaker 3>Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning Positive Upbeat Show. Hi Janine,

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<v Speaker 3>good morning.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, you have.

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<v Speaker 3>A good time today, Janine.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, why are.

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<v Speaker 6>You doing that?

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<v Speaker 1>You You're coming off like an infomercial salesman.

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<v Speaker 3>I love those commercials. Those are great.

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<v Speaker 1>They're awful. Hi Janine, welcome to the show. I hope

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<v Speaker 1>you have a second for us.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, hope you have a second.

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<v Speaker 7>What is this?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, this is a This is a segment we do.

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<v Speaker 3>It's called the Second Date Update, and we try to

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<v Speaker 3>help out our listeners if they've gone out with someone recently.

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<v Speaker 3>We try to figure out if there's a reason why

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<v Speaker 3>they're not wanting to do a second hang the third

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<v Speaker 3>really in your case, yeah.

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<v Speaker 7>I have no idea what you're talking about.

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<v Speaker 3>We're really just calling based about a guy that you

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<v Speaker 3>hung out with recently, a guy named Charlie.

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<v Speaker 6>Who Charlie Charlie.

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<v Speaker 2>He's the one that's saying Bohemian Rhapsody at the karaoke bar.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, yeah, the karaoke dude. Yeah I remember him.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, So we're trying to help Charlie figure out why

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<v Speaker 3>you haven't met up again.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't really have much reason. I mean, I'm not

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<v Speaker 6>really sure why Jael's business.

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<v Speaker 1>Well it's not.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, Charlie asked us to call you like on

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<v Speaker 2>his on his behalf.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, I don't know why he do that either, Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Because he likes you. Does that seem far facts.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you guys want to hung out?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you scared of her job?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know what to say.

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<v Speaker 6>No.

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<v Speaker 1>I think Charlie just really likes you.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, a lot of guys do.

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<v Speaker 7>It's nothing new to me.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that must be nice. She's a good singer. It

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<v Speaker 1>gets people's attention.

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<v Speaker 2>That's true.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's true. We did hear your Yeah, a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of nice things to say about you.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, he doesn't really know me and I don't

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<v Speaker 6>know him.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's strange because he was like, one thing that

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<v Speaker 2>he really liked about you is how vulnerable you were.

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<v Speaker 1>And I guess maybe it's just weird to have us call.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe that's now.

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<v Speaker 6>Honestly, guys are just super easy to be manipulated. Like

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<v Speaker 6>guys in general, all I have to do is cheer

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<v Speaker 6>up and I'll get a free drink or food.

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<v Speaker 2>What wait, you're manipulating men, that's like what you get

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<v Speaker 2>off on.

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<v Speaker 3>You fake cried.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, if it gets me a free uber or drink, food, whatever,

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<v Speaker 6>it works.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't understand what because can I just tell her

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<v Speaker 3>what we know? Because we didn't want to bring this

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<v Speaker 3>up to you because we thought it might trigger something.

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<v Speaker 3>But Charlie mentioned that on your second hangout, you cried

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<v Speaker 3>on multiple occasions and he wasn't exactly sure what was

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<v Speaker 3>causing it.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, he bought me the one drink, everything was fine.

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<v Speaker 6>I cried again to you know, get another, but he

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<v Speaker 6>wouldn't buy another.

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<v Speaker 2>So so then you cried a third time or a

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<v Speaker 2>second time. I don't know what number we're at.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, I mean I had to try sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Sweet turned down dessert.

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<v Speaker 3>No one turns.

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<v Speaker 6>Why wouldn't I stick around if he's not going to

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<v Speaker 6>buy me any more drinks?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So you were specifically crying, trying to send the

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<v Speaker 3>message to buy you a drink, and he wasn't picking

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<v Speaker 3>up on that message.

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<v Speaker 1>There's no message, Jeff, She's just manipulating him.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, guys, I'm right here, I'm listening.

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<v Speaker 1>Good, I'm glad you heard all of that. Yeah, who

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<v Speaker 1>cares about her, Jeanine?

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, broke. Come on, you said to be respectful about

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<v Speaker 3>her and her emotions. Right now, you're coming off very rude.

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<v Speaker 1>She's making all the other women that actually cry look bad.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think that you make women look bad.

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<v Speaker 1>You're manipulating men for drinks. He would just buy you

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<v Speaker 1>a drink without you cry.

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<v Speaker 3>She's just a normal lady.

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<v Speaker 4>The reason why you fried is just so I would

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<v Speaker 4>buy you stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, yeah, you're like, honestly, that's like a toddler.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what my kids do.

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<v Speaker 2>They try to cry so I'll buy him something and

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<v Speaker 2>I say, no, cry all you want.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not buying you that. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Tell your emotions are getting the best of you right now.

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<v Speaker 3>I think you need to take a break. Everyone needs

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<v Speaker 3>to breathe. We're just trying to figure out what's going

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<v Speaker 3>on between Janine and Charlie and the figure out. Well,

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<v Speaker 3>we need to let them talk to there. Yeah, Jeanine

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<v Speaker 3>right now, because Charlie has been listening this entire time.

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<v Speaker 3>He does want to talk to you, Yes, about what

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, Charlie, now's your moment.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean there's really nothing to say at this point.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, she's just a child, and this is like.

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<v Speaker 7>No, this is ridiculous to bring me on the radio

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<v Speaker 7>like this, Like what is wrong with you?

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<v Speaker 3>I have a feeling he's not going to get another

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<v Speaker 3>date for that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think we all know this is I think

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<v Speaker 2>he's mad, Jeff for some reasons.

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<v Speaker 3>He's not manipulating her back with his tears.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, listen, Janine, do you feel so bad for him?

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<v Speaker 7>No? Why would I? I mean it was a date.

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<v Speaker 6>It's not like either of us had anything like serious

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<v Speaker 6>going and he was willing to buy it, So why

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<v Speaker 6>wouldn't I.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, any point were you actually interested in him?

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<v Speaker 2>Because it sounds like you're just using him to get stuff.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm not just using him, I'm using all the guys.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, and you've you've figured out the key to manipulating

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<v Speaker 3>men is just shed a few tears and then they'll

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<v Speaker 3>do whatever you ask them for.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>Like I don't even have to be on a date

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<v Speaker 6>with them. You know, they could be sitting next to

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<v Speaker 6>me at a bar or something and I just cry

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<v Speaker 6>a little bit, get something.

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<v Speaker 4>Everybody. Everybody's gonna think you're a basket case and you're

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<v Speaker 4>a crazy lunatic.

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<v Speaker 6>Or people can just think I'm controlling my emotions in

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<v Speaker 6>a smart way.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, I got five hundred bucks off a car

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<v Speaker 7>the other day.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh wow, that's a good deal. Actually need to do that, listen.

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<v Speaker 2>I just feel like, Janine, I hear that you're angry

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<v Speaker 2>at men and you just want to use them, Like

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<v Speaker 2>maybe you could channel that energy in a different way,

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<v Speaker 2>go bigger. I don't know, person nice, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 7>I have an idea. Why don't you'll just shut the up?

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<v Speaker 3>I think that was directed towards you Brook. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean.

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<v Speaker 7>All of y'all everything to one of you.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, she just hung out for sure we were going

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<v Speaker 1>to get a date.

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<v Speaker 4>I can't believe that's alf that. I really thought she

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<v Speaker 4>was going to do something. I mean, you guys did too, right, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Mean, yeah, I know the whole room kind of fell

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<v Speaker 3>for it, but I didn't. I knew the entire time.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, let's be respectful of this goal. Remember that

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<v Speaker 3>that sounds like a perfect impersonation of me Jeff in

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<v Speaker 3>the morning. You know, here's the question that we didn't ask.

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<v Speaker 3>Has anybody in this room fake cried before? Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like someone here has definitely tried to cry

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<v Speaker 3>to get out of a speeding ticket at least once.

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<v Speaker 3>And if that's true, then we are no better than

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<v Speaker 3>that woman on the phone. You faked it before.

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<v Speaker 2>Now I've really cried, I've gotten pulled over. It really hicked,

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<v Speaker 2>but it still got the freaking ticket.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was still cry. I mean no, it was

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<v Speaker 1>it was real.

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<v Speaker 3>Though the officer was like, come on, man, this is

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<v Speaker 3>not going to work. You're the twelfth woman to try

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<v Speaker 3>to manipulate me with. I see tears, but I still

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<v Speaker 3>don't believe that. I do like the idea though. Crying

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<v Speaker 3>isn't a sign of weakness. It's a tool of manipulation.

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<v Speaker 3>Frame crying into something positive. We can be manipulated into

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<v Speaker 3>helping our listeners if you send us an email with

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<v Speaker 3>a bunch of crying emojis on it, and I will

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<v Speaker 3>feel obligated to take action. That action might be to

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<v Speaker 3>drag your email right into the trash, or it could

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<v Speaker 3>be to help.

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<v Speaker 4>You.

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<v Speaker 3>Might as well reach out and.

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<v Speaker 1>Find out they just said the second part, Yeah, we will.

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<v Speaker 3>Try to help. Just email the show. We'll call that

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<v Speaker 3>person who's not calling you back, and go check out

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<v Speaker 3>all of our second dates. Yeah, you find them online

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<v Speaker 3>where you gets your podcast? That Brooke and Jeffrey