Speaker 1: Oof, did we find a villain today?
Speaker 2: Hey, it's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning, and I
Speaker 2: think it's gonna be hard. We're gonna be hard pressed
Speaker 2: to find someone who's a fan of this woman. You'll
Speaker 2: understand why in just a second, because we're getting into
Speaker 2: our brand new Second Date podcast. But first, we always
Speaker 2: love to start with your comments.
Speaker 1: Yes, Hope, Faith Joyce, Yeah, that's fun. Love the show.
Speaker 1: I listen at work.
Speaker 2: I then have to relive the show when I report
Speaker 2: back to my husband, who refuses to listen.
Speaker 1: He's an Insta reels over TikTok kind of person.
Speaker 3: I actually just be a part of the show at
Speaker 3: this point.
Speaker 1: I'm already so involved.
Speaker 3: There we are, There we go.
Speaker 2: We'll tell your husband do it least in the very
Speaker 2: least follow our socials at Brook and Jeffrey. Yeah on
Speaker 2: Insta where he's yeah, then he can get a little
Speaker 2: bit of that second date hit on those. All right,
Speaker 2: let's go Second Date update brand new starts right now.
Speaker 3: Second Date up date is singing okay on a first
Speaker 3: date or during a first meet up?
Speaker 2: Are you asking for yourself because you've always wanted to
Speaker 2: live inside a musical?
Speaker 3: Jeff I'm Jeff, I do my song of the week
Speaker 3: here all the time, so I fully support that idea.
Speaker 3: But if I'm some rando going out with Alexis or Brook,
Speaker 3: probably would not recommend a duet with them.
Speaker 1: You need to hate on our singing.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're so both vocally talented, thank you.
Speaker 3: The man would just be so intimidated by the raw.
Speaker 2: Music and art is more about effort than actual raw talent.
Speaker 2: If loud enough, I sound better, like, don't have that
Speaker 2: surprise exactly?
Speaker 1: Do you want us to sing right now?
Speaker 3: No? I don't want. I don't want the listeners to
Speaker 3: be intimidated by you. But bring god exactly. I bring
Speaker 3: it up though, because one of our listeners apparently was
Speaker 3: singing during his first meet up.
Speaker 1: I hope it was karaoke.
Speaker 3: Well let's find out. His name is Charlie. Charlie, welcome
Speaker 3: to the show.
Speaker 4: Hello are you doing?
Speaker 1: Why did you come in not singing?
Speaker 5: Hello?
Speaker 4: Sorry?
Speaker 1: I just want to give that's what we wanted.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm not much of a karaoke person at all.
Speaker 3: I take my solo back. It says in the email
Speaker 3: here that you sang during your first meetup.
Speaker 5: Well, I did, not knowing what I guess what I
Speaker 5: was exactly getting into.
Speaker 3: Okay, we put way too much pressure on him coming
Speaker 3: into this so to.
Speaker 2: Sense musical Yeah, I'm guessing it's someone you met online, right,
Speaker 2: set up a date.
Speaker 4: Well, no, not not at all.
Speaker 5: Actually, I was just at karaoke and I signed up
Speaker 5: for Bohemian Rhapsody.
Speaker 4: What nice?
Speaker 1: You know, like a singer. I don't get it. You
Speaker 1: don't like singing and you do a queen song?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Like that is a big song, a big stretch.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 5: I knew the song, so I knew all the words,
Speaker 5: but I guess I didn't realize the vocal aptitude that
Speaker 5: it required.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 3: It is one thing when you hear a song on
Speaker 3: the radio and you're like, oh yeah, I could do this,
Speaker 3: and then you're up on stage, actually under the lights,
Speaker 3: needing to do it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, the words singing with you?
Speaker 3: Yeah, it sounds like maybe you bit off more than
Speaker 3: you could chew with that song.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and it's like seven minutes long. Wow.
Speaker 1: Yeah, did you at least have friends with you to
Speaker 1: make fun of you? I was going to say, to
Speaker 1: get a good video of this.
Speaker 4: Yeah, they really tore me apart.
Speaker 3: Okay, you know, Charlie, we are doing a second date. Update.
Speaker 2: So, although Jeffrey has been wanting to do karaoke reviews
Speaker 2: for years.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I've been petitioning to get rid of these stupid
Speaker 3: second dates so that we could just sing. I guess
Speaker 3: what we should probably get to is the person that
Speaker 3: you met. I'm assuming it happened there.
Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 5: So after I just like ruined this song and totally
Speaker 5: embarrassed myself, Janine came up to me and introduced herself
Speaker 5: and told me that Queen.
Speaker 4: Is her favorite band and I did an all right
Speaker 4: job and.
Speaker 1: Settle for you.
Speaker 3: That's nice.
Speaker 5: Yeah, And then she went up and did her song
Speaker 5: and she just like blew it away.
Speaker 4: It was just like amazing. Wow.
Speaker 5: So after he was done, I congratulated her and asked
Speaker 5: her if I could buy her a drink, and she said, well, yes,
Speaker 5: but you have to ask me out first.
Speaker 1: Okay, I mean she's the karaoke queen.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 3: So did you do it or did you say no,
Speaker 3: no things?
Speaker 7: No?
Speaker 4: Absolutely, Yeah, I asked her out.
Speaker 3: Good the moment.
Speaker 2: So you have one drink and then you guys go
Speaker 2: on a date another time or was it the same night.
Speaker 5: Yeah, we had a couple of drinks that night, hung out,
Speaker 5: and then we decided to meet up.
Speaker 4: I think it was like two or three days later.
Speaker 3: Okay, so that's your official date. How did that go?
Speaker 4: Wow? That was completely different. It's just such a different
Speaker 4: person we had.
Speaker 5: You know, started off conversating over dinner, and she cried
Speaker 5: three different times throughout the night.
Speaker 2: Wow, was there like some I cry over everything? Like literally,
Speaker 2: it's really hard for me. It like really impedes on
Speaker 2: my social life sometimes because I don't want to cry over.
Speaker 3: Everything, and yet you still do it.
Speaker 1: No, it's like my emotional reaction. It's like blushing for me, do.
Speaker 3: You know what? Like started to crying.
Speaker 5: We were talking about her sister and she she started crying.
Speaker 5: I asked, is everything okay? Is her sister all right
Speaker 5: health wise?
Speaker 4: She said yes.
Speaker 5: And then the second time she started crying about her dog,
Speaker 5: and I asked.
Speaker 4: Her her dog was okay, and she said, yeah, her
Speaker 4: dog's okay. But I just couldn't understand why she was
Speaker 4: so upset.
Speaker 3: So her sister's totally healthy, her dog's totally healthy, and
Speaker 3: that makes her cry.
Speaker 1: But crying is it always about being sad or upset?
Speaker 2: Sometimes it's about like just a really deep feeling like
Speaker 2: maybe she has a deep feeling of love and gratitude
Speaker 2: towards these things that are.
Speaker 3: Going through it and everything that day.
Speaker 4: Maybe yeah. But then the third time she cried was
Speaker 4: was over dessert. I mean over a fln.
Speaker 3: I've cried over something. Were you eating dessert or what
Speaker 3: was happening?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 5: No, I said, let's change the environment. Let's go out
Speaker 5: and maybe get some dessert somewhere else.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, And that made her cry.
Speaker 3: The suggestion of dessert made her cry.
Speaker 1: Yeah, did you get her the flawn because girlfriend.
Speaker 3: Needs She sounds like she didn't even want it.
Speaker 1: She needs where she is.
Speaker 2: You eat this cake, whether you want to or not
Speaker 2: to go, you'll feel better.
Speaker 4: Yeah. I'm just totally confused. There was this great interaction.
Speaker 5: That we had when I met her, and this night
Speaker 5: just went totally off the rail.
Speaker 4: She was crying about everything.
Speaker 3: Okay, Charlie, I know it's probably hard, but if you
Speaker 3: had to guess, like, is there any thought in your
Speaker 3: mind about what maybe caused her to be so emotional
Speaker 3: that night?
Speaker 4: If I had to guess, maybe she's just going through
Speaker 4: something really personal and she didn't want to open up
Speaker 4: about it to me.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so let's call her on the radio and ask
Speaker 1: her about it.
Speaker 5: Or Ellie, it was just a full moon that night
Speaker 5: and people act weird on that night.
Speaker 3: I'd like to say, some people cry for good things.
Speaker 3: I cry watching soldiers from home videos, and I cry
Speaker 3: on cute stuff. So maybe she was like thinking about
Speaker 3: a really.
Speaker 2: Good thing in Coco or just a full moon werewolf situation,
Speaker 2: crying at the movement.
Speaker 3: So we'll come back and hopefully get some answers from
Speaker 3: her when we do your second Date Update super emotional
Speaker 3: edition right after this thank you Second Date Update. It's
Speaker 3: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning, and if you're just
Speaker 3: joining us, our listener, Charlie hung out with a woman
Speaker 3: named Janine on two separate occasions. Yes, and I tend
Speaker 3: to want to focus more on the first hangout because
Speaker 3: because singing and complimenting and high fiving each other.
Speaker 2: Karaoke Sharon drinks together, that sounds fun.
Speaker 3: Yeah. The second hangout, where he's sitting across a table
Speaker 3: from her while she balls her eyes out for an
Speaker 3: hour and a half, I mean fun. Yeah, No, not fun,
Speaker 3: as the first time.
Speaker 1: It wasn't fun for her either, Jess. Nobody had a
Speaker 1: good time at that dinner thingcause.
Speaker 3: We don't know exactly what was going on, not even Charlie.
Speaker 3: He doesn't know why the crying was happening. She seemed
Speaker 3: to be talking about a lot of different subjects, and
Speaker 3: the night ended with him suggesting that they go grab
Speaker 3: dessert together, and that resulted in immediate wailing. I really
Speaker 3: don't know what we're gonna get here if she answers
Speaker 3: the phone. I just know that we probably need to
Speaker 3: be the opposite of how we normally do these calls
Speaker 3: and actually be super respectful. Oh what do you think
Speaker 3: about that strategy, Brooke?
Speaker 1: I think that we shouldn't bring up the crime. I
Speaker 1: do think that.
Speaker 2: I mean, I would assume it's something really personal happening
Speaker 2: in her life and it's none of our business.
Speaker 3: It's a good point, fair, We'll just say you hung
Speaker 3: out with Charlie.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, she.
Speaker 2: Spent a lot of time with him at the karaoke bar,
Speaker 2: and like there could be a very innocent reason she's.
Speaker 1: Not calling him back.
Speaker 3: Charlie. Is that okay with you if we take that approach, Yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's fine. I mean, but what do we call her?
Speaker 4: I just I want to express it. She has feelings.
Speaker 4: The most women that I date, they're not like open
Speaker 4: like this. I have the most respect for her. Maybe
Speaker 4: she was just having a bad day, you say.
Speaker 2: If she has feelings.
Speaker 1: There's most women you date don't have feelings.
Speaker 3: Oh well they don't.
Speaker 4: They don't really open up like that.
Speaker 1: Oh I see you like the vulnerability.
Speaker 4: Okay, yeah I do.
Speaker 3: Charlie, do you promise us that you're not going to
Speaker 3: join in and cry on this call to.
Speaker 1: I don't want him to make that promise cry if
Speaker 1: you need to, Charlie crying people on the phone. Yeah,
Speaker 1: maybe three, I'll join in a big cry.
Speaker 3: People are going to keep on listening to this. So
Speaker 3: here we go. If you're also going to cry with us,
Speaker 3: it feels good, it really does.
Speaker 1: It feels good.
Speaker 3: I'm actually hoping she doesn't answer it. Here we go.
Speaker 4: Hello.
Speaker 3: Hi, is this Jeanine?
Speaker 7: Yes, she's calling.
Speaker 3: Hey Jeanine. This is a radio show calling. We're called
Speaker 3: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning Positive Upbeat Show. Hi Janine,
Speaker 3: good morning.
Speaker 7: Okay, you have.
Speaker 3: A good time today, Janine.
Speaker 1: Okay, why are.
Speaker 6: You doing that?
Speaker 1: You You're coming off like an infomercial salesman.
Speaker 3: I love those commercials. Those are great.
Speaker 1: They're awful. Hi Janine, welcome to the show. I hope
Speaker 1: you have a second for us.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, hope you have a second.
Speaker 7: What is this?
Speaker 3: Yeah, this is a This is a segment we do.
Speaker 3: It's called the Second Date Update, and we try to
Speaker 3: help out our listeners if they've gone out with someone recently.
Speaker 3: We try to figure out if there's a reason why
Speaker 3: they're not wanting to do a second hang the third
Speaker 3: really in your case, yeah.
Speaker 7: I have no idea what you're talking about.
Speaker 3: We're really just calling based about a guy that you
Speaker 3: hung out with recently, a guy named Charlie.
Speaker 6: Who Charlie Charlie.
Speaker 2: He's the one that's saying Bohemian Rhapsody at the karaoke bar.
Speaker 7: Okay, yeah, the karaoke dude. Yeah I remember him.
Speaker 3: Yes, So we're trying to help Charlie figure out why
Speaker 3: you haven't met up again.
Speaker 6: I don't really have much reason. I mean, I'm not
Speaker 6: really sure why Jael's business.
Speaker 1: Well it's not.
Speaker 2: I mean, Charlie asked us to call you like on
Speaker 2: his on his behalf.
Speaker 7: Okay, I don't know why he do that either, Okay.
Speaker 1: Because he likes you. Does that seem far facts.
Speaker 3: Do you guys want to hung out?
Speaker 1: Are you scared of her job?
Speaker 3: I don't know what to say.
Speaker 6: No.
Speaker 1: I think Charlie just really likes you.
Speaker 4: Well, a lot of guys do.
Speaker 7: It's nothing new to me.
Speaker 1: Okay, that must be nice. She's a good singer. It
Speaker 1: gets people's attention.
Speaker 2: That's true.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true. We did hear your Yeah, a lot
Speaker 1: of nice things to say about you.
Speaker 6: I mean, he doesn't really know me and I don't
Speaker 6: know him.
Speaker 2: So it's strange because he was like, one thing that
Speaker 2: he really liked about you is how vulnerable you were.
Speaker 1: And I guess maybe it's just weird to have us call.
Speaker 4: Maybe that's now.
Speaker 6: Honestly, guys are just super easy to be manipulated. Like
Speaker 6: guys in general, all I have to do is cheer
Speaker 6: up and I'll get a free drink or food.
Speaker 2: What wait, you're manipulating men, that's like what you get
Speaker 2: off on.
Speaker 3: You fake cried.
Speaker 6: I mean, if it gets me a free uber or drink, food, whatever,
Speaker 6: it works.
Speaker 3: I don't understand what because can I just tell her
Speaker 3: what we know? Because we didn't want to bring this
Speaker 3: up to you because we thought it might trigger something.
Speaker 3: But Charlie mentioned that on your second hangout, you cried
Speaker 3: on multiple occasions and he wasn't exactly sure what was
Speaker 3: causing it.
Speaker 7: I mean, he bought me the one drink, everything was fine.
Speaker 6: I cried again to you know, get another, but he
Speaker 6: wouldn't buy another.
Speaker 2: So so then you cried a third time or a
Speaker 2: second time. I don't know what number we're at.
Speaker 7: Well, I mean I had to try sure.
Speaker 1: Sweet turned down dessert.
Speaker 3: No one turns.
Speaker 6: Why wouldn't I stick around if he's not going to
Speaker 6: buy me any more drinks?
Speaker 3: Okay, So you were specifically crying, trying to send the
Speaker 3: message to buy you a drink, and he wasn't picking
Speaker 3: up on that message.
Speaker 1: There's no message, Jeff, She's just manipulating him.
Speaker 4: Hey, guys, I'm right here, I'm listening.
Speaker 1: Good, I'm glad you heard all of that. Yeah, who
Speaker 1: cares about her, Jeanine?
Speaker 3: Wow, broke. Come on, you said to be respectful about
Speaker 3: her and her emotions. Right now, you're coming off very rude.
Speaker 1: She's making all the other women that actually cry look bad.
Speaker 4: I don't.
Speaker 3: I don't think that you make women look bad.
Speaker 1: You're manipulating men for drinks. He would just buy you
Speaker 1: a drink without you cry.
Speaker 3: She's just a normal lady.
Speaker 4: The reason why you fried is just so I would
Speaker 4: buy you stuff.
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, you're like, honestly, that's like a toddler.
Speaker 1: That's what my kids do.
Speaker 2: They try to cry so I'll buy him something and
Speaker 2: I say, no, cry all you want.
Speaker 1: I'm not buying you that. Yeah.
Speaker 3: Tell your emotions are getting the best of you right now.
Speaker 3: I think you need to take a break. Everyone needs
Speaker 3: to breathe. We're just trying to figure out what's going
Speaker 3: on between Janine and Charlie and the figure out. Well,
Speaker 3: we need to let them talk to there. Yeah, Jeanine
Speaker 3: right now, because Charlie has been listening this entire time.
Speaker 3: He does want to talk to you, Yes, about what
Speaker 3: I mean, Charlie, now's your moment.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean there's really nothing to say at this point.
Speaker 4: I mean, she's just a child, and this is like.
Speaker 7: No, this is ridiculous to bring me on the radio
Speaker 7: like this, Like what is wrong with you?
Speaker 3: I have a feeling he's not going to get another
Speaker 3: date for that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think we all know this is I think
Speaker 2: he's mad, Jeff for some reasons.
Speaker 3: He's not manipulating her back with his tears.
Speaker 1: Yeah, listen, Janine, do you feel so bad for him?
Speaker 7: No? Why would I? I mean it was a date.
Speaker 6: It's not like either of us had anything like serious
Speaker 6: going and he was willing to buy it, So why
Speaker 6: wouldn't I.
Speaker 2: I mean, any point were you actually interested in him?
Speaker 2: Because it sounds like you're just using him to get stuff.
Speaker 7: I'm not just using him, I'm using all the guys.
Speaker 3: Okay, and you've you've figured out the key to manipulating
Speaker 3: men is just shed a few tears and then they'll
Speaker 3: do whatever you ask them for.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 6: Like I don't even have to be on a date
Speaker 6: with them. You know, they could be sitting next to
Speaker 6: me at a bar or something and I just cry
Speaker 6: a little bit, get something.
Speaker 4: Everybody. Everybody's gonna think you're a basket case and you're
Speaker 4: a crazy lunatic.
Speaker 6: Or people can just think I'm controlling my emotions in
Speaker 6: a smart way.
Speaker 7: I mean, I got five hundred bucks off a car
Speaker 7: the other day.
Speaker 3: Oh wow, that's a good deal. Actually need to do that, listen.
Speaker 2: I just feel like, Janine, I hear that you're angry
Speaker 2: at men and you just want to use them, Like
Speaker 2: maybe you could channel that energy in a different way,
Speaker 2: go bigger. I don't know, person nice, Yeah.
Speaker 7: I have an idea. Why don't you'll just shut the up?
Speaker 3: I think that was directed towards you Brook. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 3: I mean.
Speaker 7: All of y'all everything to one of you.
Speaker 1: Wait, she just hung out for sure we were going
Speaker 1: to get a date.
Speaker 4: I can't believe that's alf that. I really thought she
Speaker 4: was going to do something. I mean, you guys did too, right, I.
Speaker 3: Mean, yeah, I know the whole room kind of fell
Speaker 3: for it, but I didn't. I knew the entire time.
Speaker 3: I mean, let's be respectful of this goal. Remember that
Speaker 3: that sounds like a perfect impersonation of me Jeff in
Speaker 3: the morning. You know, here's the question that we didn't ask.
Speaker 3: Has anybody in this room fake cried before? Oh yeah,
Speaker 3: I feel like someone here has definitely tried to cry
Speaker 3: to get out of a speeding ticket at least once.
Speaker 3: And if that's true, then we are no better than
Speaker 3: that woman on the phone. You faked it before.
Speaker 2: Now I've really cried, I've gotten pulled over. It really hicked,
Speaker 2: but it still got the freaking ticket.
Speaker 1: So I was still cry. I mean no, it was
Speaker 1: it was real.
Speaker 3: Though the officer was like, come on, man, this is
Speaker 3: not going to work. You're the twelfth woman to try
Speaker 3: to manipulate me with. I see tears, but I still
Speaker 3: don't believe that. I do like the idea though. Crying
Speaker 3: isn't a sign of weakness. It's a tool of manipulation.
Speaker 3: Frame crying into something positive. We can be manipulated into
Speaker 3: helping our listeners if you send us an email with
Speaker 3: a bunch of crying emojis on it, and I will
Speaker 3: feel obligated to take action. That action might be to
Speaker 3: drag your email right into the trash, or it could
Speaker 3: be to help.
Speaker 4: You.
Speaker 3: Might as well reach out and.
Speaker 1: Find out they just said the second part, Yeah, we will.
Speaker 3: Try to help. Just email the show. We'll call that
Speaker 3: person who's not calling you back, and go check out
Speaker 3: all of our second dates. Yeah, you find them online
Speaker 3: where you gets your podcast? That Brooke and Jeffrey