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Speaker 1: My son won one hundred thousand dollars in the lottery,

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Speaker 1: and I stole every penny. Am I the ful? You

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Speaker 1: know you brought me into this world to care for me.

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Speaker 1: You're in debt, dude. Every moment that you live under

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Speaker 1: my care is a moment that you owe me money.

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Speaker 2: Wait, the sun stole from the Dada to the dad stole.

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Speaker 1: From the sun. This dad stole from the sun dad.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, so this is payba papal. Literally he's owed

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Speaker 1: so much more. Yeah. We had a story of a

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Speaker 1: mom who invoiced their kid for like seven hundred grand. Dude,

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Speaker 1: hundred k is light work? Deal? What a deal? I'm

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Speaker 1: doing you such a favor? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: You know what else is doing me a favor?

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Speaker 1: What is not? Share it Me and my my my

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Speaker 1: baldy girlfriend. Yes, uh separated today, Yeah, amicably, amicably amicably.

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Speaker 1: You know she's leaving beautiful five four days together, That's right.

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Speaker 1: It was a beautiful time. You know, lifelong memories.

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Speaker 2: Made mess her all right.

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Speaker 1: So I have a y, I will Eelmina will Will

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Speaker 1: Helma Will Helma. I have a wife Withhelma forty and

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Speaker 1: two sons, Sam seventeen and Scott sixteen, six years ago,

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Speaker 1: I ran the gas station to buy some cigarettes. Instead

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Speaker 1: of abandoning my family, just a joke, I decided to

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Speaker 1: also buy a lottery ticket for everyone, just for fun.

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Speaker 1: It was a blast. We all talked all night about

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Speaker 1: what we would do with our winnings, where we would go,

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Speaker 1: et cetera.

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Speaker 2: I mean this was all.

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Speaker 1: Fantasy anyway, right, That's what we thang. And everyone knows

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Speaker 1: the fantasy always turns into reality and then leaves.

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Speaker 2: You just just buckling. Everybody buckle in, and that does.

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Speaker 2: We're here. We're here to hear Sam out.

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Speaker 1: You know what it's meant to be lost? He needs

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Speaker 1: to bench. But I specifically told my kids that they

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Speaker 1: would have to share their winnings.

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Speaker 2: So if anyone wanted anything, everyone's sharing.

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Speaker 1: It makes sense. Yeah, and they would have to put

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Speaker 1: it away for college first and foremost. Well, what do

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Speaker 1: you know it Sam's ticket one woway Lucky Sammy over here,

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Speaker 1: I see more. Luck is just so it's so soon,

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Speaker 1: I hope, so soon in your future you're about to

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Speaker 1: be have I mentioned it, but my bolly broke the case.

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Speaker 1: I forgot. I forgot. Yeah, her name's Ashley. She's Australian

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Speaker 1: met at the beach. That's right, I'm gonna keep going.

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Speaker 1: Of course, it's actually my ticket and I had to

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Speaker 1: claim it. It didn't win the jackpot, but after taxes

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Speaker 1: we walked away with sixty thousand dollars, which means it

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Speaker 1: was probably one hundred thousand dollars straight up. Yeah, that's good.

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Speaker 1: I sat them both down and explained that I was

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Speaker 1: going to save it all for college, but we could

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Speaker 1: celebrate slash splurge a little. They absolutely wanted a gaming system,

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Speaker 1: and will Helma insisted on a family vacation that was

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Speaker 1: much needed. We all agreed on this and are saving

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Speaker 1: the rest. I mean, that's that's a brilliant plan. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I think those people, like their lives are messed up

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Speaker 1: by the lottery. So yeah, yeah, you want to save

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Speaker 1: most of it and then get a vacation. Fil like

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Speaker 1: sounds nice, Just like, don't meet the love of your

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Speaker 1: next and I know that was coming. Oh baby, this

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Speaker 1: is gonna be fun, fun episodes. Guys. I about a

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Speaker 1: gaming system and a bunch of games for about one

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Speaker 1: thousand dollars. Will Helma took over the vacation and insisted

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Speaker 1: but it's always will Helma's dream to go, So he

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Speaker 1: went another five thousand dollars. So man's already six k

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Speaker 1: in the whole, but at least he doesn't have a

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Speaker 1: hole in his heart. Last year, Sam wanted a car. Well,

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Speaker 1: Helma was pretty tired of schifferring them around anyway, so

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Speaker 1: I agreed and spent his four k on another car.

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Speaker 1: So ten k in the hole. Wow. I paid insurance,

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Speaker 1: registration and maintenance under the agreement that he takes over

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Speaker 1: driving Scott to his stuff and as well. So basically

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Speaker 1: it's like you drive payper places, I'll pay for it right. Well,

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Speaker 1: Helma had no complaints about any of these purchases, so

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Speaker 1: everyone's happy. Everyone's looking good since day one. I've actually

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Speaker 1: invested better than average, and that sixty k is now

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Speaker 1: one hundred k. Hey, hey, miss the money bags? Money bags?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, prove in his life that's right, only only I

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Speaker 2: was winning instead of losing. I'm telling you it's coming today,

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Speaker 1: It's fine, it's fine. Well, Helma knows I've always invested

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Speaker 1: has ever asked. She has left our finances completely up

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Speaker 1: to me. Sam is starting college in a few weeks,

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Speaker 1: and we figured out a plan to stretch his thirty

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Speaker 1: will Helma noticed it was one hundred K and asked how.

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Speaker 1: I told her I invested sixty K and it grew

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Speaker 1: to one hundred K. She then asked why we're only

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Speaker 1: giving Sam thirty K when it should be fifty K.

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Speaker 1: I said, no, the other forty k is mine. I

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Speaker 1: managed just the count I made the investments, I did

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Speaker 1: stuff through our other savings. The forty K stays, and

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Speaker 1: I'll keep investing it. If the boys need money, it's there.

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Speaker 1: But if not, I'm going to eventually retire a little

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Speaker 1: early with it. She thinks I'm stealing his money, since

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't have been able to invest with it if

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Speaker 1: I didn't have it to begin with. I say, it's

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Speaker 1: always kind of been my money to begin with. And

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Speaker 1: I'm still giving him thirty k I promised him since

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Speaker 1: the beginning. So am I the a hole for keeping

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Speaker 1: that left over cash? Interesting? So basically, and this is

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Speaker 1: his wife saying this to him, right, interesting, And he

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Speaker 1: he bought the ticket, initially bought the ticke, but the

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Speaker 1: winning ticket was Sam's ticket, right, So the sixty k

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Speaker 1: technically kind of was bought for Sam on behalf of him. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean, he's just he bought it so like that

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Speaker 1: he bought it and gifted it, right, So I think

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Speaker 1: hit me, hit me? So you buy you buy me

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Speaker 1: a lottery ticket? Yep right, you you buy yourself? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you buy everyone here a lottery ticket? Yep right. They're like,

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Speaker 1: hey went out, why don't everyone a lot of your ticket?

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Speaker 1: You give it to each one of us. Riley wins

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Speaker 1: a million dollars. Oh yes, are you saying Riley, that

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Speaker 1: actually wasn't a real gift. That million dollars is one

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Speaker 1: hundred percent. No, I'm just kidding. I think the difference

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Speaker 1: that is the child's money. But this is like, hey,

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Speaker 1: you might like just blow it all immediately, like throw

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Speaker 1: you're like, where am I? What am I doing here?

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Speaker 1: Of course, is any of this matter? So yeah, I

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Speaker 1: don't know.

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Speaker 2: Sam met this girl in case you haven't.

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Speaker 1: Heard, Yeah, yeah, yeah, Ashley, which is pretty cool Australian.

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Speaker 1: We danced until three am last night. Really three am, dude,

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Speaker 1: we were destroying the dance floor. Are you must be

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Speaker 1: dead right now? Actually, I feel alive because the heartbreak

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Speaker 1: is keeping me up. Wow, it's like the adrenaline. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's better than coffee. Honestly. There you go, broken a heart,

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Speaker 1: We'll really, you know, keep you up at night apparently

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Speaker 2: Well here's the question. Is OP the a hole for

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Speaker 2: keeping I say no?

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Speaker 1: I say no. I say no, you know, like protect

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Speaker 1: And it's also their retirement. So I'm like, your wife,

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Speaker 1: you know better, Like, don't go and throw your you know,

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Speaker 1: life into anyone that will damn it. Like my parents

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Speaker 1: were like, Sam, just focus on your yourself, be you know,

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Speaker 1: your way. Well, let's get to this next one. What

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Speaker 1: Someone on Tinder scan me for twenty thousand dollars.

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Speaker 2: I want to get revenge. But am I the a hole?

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Speaker 1: Dude? Classic dating love app just destroying all the hope

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Speaker 1: the apps, they're just gonna leave you. Why why even

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Speaker 1: try an art choke? Was planted in the crowd? Am

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Speaker 1: I mad? And we're just reading an agricultural textbook. These

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Speaker 1: stories have way too many possibilities. I'll tie in, but

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Speaker 2: Damn, dude, facts you're like poetry.

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Speaker 1: Damn. I can't give. I can't give any more fuel.

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Speaker 1: I broke up with my Boloniese girl. She alway wasn't Bolanese,

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Speaker 1: this is a bad story to read. But it's okay,

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Speaker 1: It's okay, what John, this is going to be a

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Speaker 1: long one. That's gonna be a long one. Editors, can

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Speaker 1: we start up a Bali girlfriend counter see where we're

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Speaker 1: Just prepare yourself, all right. So I just realized that

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Speaker 2: Imagine your phone just fell into the pool. I don't

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Speaker 1: I lost so much for me, I can spot a

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Speaker 1: scam within a mile, but this one was something I

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Speaker 1: didn't expect I would fall for. It started when I

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Speaker 1: went through finding true love on Tinder. I mean, you

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Speaker 1: can't try. You can't find true love anywhere. There's the worst.

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Speaker 1: So if there's there's if there's no good places, then

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Speaker 1: it's all, you know, I tell her, if it's all bad,

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Speaker 1: it's all. Yeah. I'm not a very attractive person, but

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Speaker 2: Okay, you got something open and like some people.

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Speaker 1: Invest in yourself, not the ugly fire, but the personality.

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Speaker 1: Invest in yourself. Yeah, invest in yourself. Invest yourself. You

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Speaker 1: don't need a relationship. Yeah, you don't need anyone to

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Speaker 1: give you value. That's right. You don't even need a

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Speaker 1: dancing partner. Just dance by yourself alone in the club. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: do you will I went through a week without making

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Speaker 1: call called Elon sperm. Yeah, that's right, I've heard of

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Speaker 1: Apparently she was showing me her transactions and are so

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Speaker 1: And she told me about b WU BWU.

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Speaker 2: The hottest coin out there.

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Speaker 1: Baby, ooh, what does that stand for? Be with you?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I've checked more information about this coin, but it

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Speaker 1: How can you be no, how could you be so naive? Opie?

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Speaker 1: look up elon sperm? Nice producer Riley giving us all

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Speaker 1: Though? I would love to know people's scamcam stories and

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Speaker 1: pretty sure that trying to push this kind of knuckleheaded

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00:21:31,560 --> 00:21:34,879
Speaker 1: stuff on kids makes kids not want to speak to you. Yeah,

429
00:21:34,920 --> 00:21:38,240
Speaker 1: so this is where I'm probably the asshole. Yesterday, my

430
00:21:38,320 --> 00:21:40,879
Speaker 1: wife forced my daughter to video call her cousin. My

431
00:21:41,000 --> 00:21:44,040
Speaker 1: daughter rejected the request, and my wife told her, unless

432
00:21:44,080 --> 00:21:46,480
Speaker 1: you have a valid reason for disliking your cousin, you

433
00:21:46,520 --> 00:21:49,879
Speaker 1: will do this because we're family. This is so dumb. Yeah,

434
00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:53,320
Speaker 1: this is so dumb. Force friendships. I don't understand. Yeah,

435
00:21:53,440 --> 00:21:56,320
Speaker 1: just let happen naturally. Yeah, and maybe even happens naturally

436
00:21:56,320 --> 00:22:01,880
Speaker 1: could lead somewhere, but often it doesn't. Night, she wasn't used,

437
00:22:01,920 --> 00:22:04,280
Speaker 1: She wasn't your cousin. Yeah, that's true. That's true. Fuck,

438
00:22:04,359 --> 00:22:08,320
Speaker 1: maybe should be dating my cousin. The call occurred this morning.

439
00:22:08,520 --> 00:22:12,119
Speaker 1: We awoke to a PowerPoint presentation titled valid Reasons to

440
00:22:12,200 --> 00:22:15,200
Speaker 1: Dislike my cousin, using clips from the zoom call. Segments

441
00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:18,800
Speaker 1: included why is cousin's voice so grading? A music theory approach,

442
00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:22,320
Speaker 1: a case study, conversations that provide no value, rethinking the

443
00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:25,320
Speaker 1: idea that there are no dumb questions, et cetera. With

444
00:22:25,400 --> 00:22:27,520
Speaker 1: the benefit of a couple hours of hindsight. It was

445
00:22:27,560 --> 00:22:31,800
Speaker 1: a very cruel takedown of her cousin's entire personality. But

446
00:22:32,960 --> 00:22:35,760
Speaker 1: this is hilarious. I want to see that power pot. Oh,

447
00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:39,000
Speaker 1: I'd want to sob. My wife was furious my eldest

448
00:22:39,040 --> 00:22:42,200
Speaker 1: daughter and I lost her laughing. My wife is demanding

449
00:22:42,200 --> 00:22:45,200
Speaker 1: I support her and punishing my daughter for bullying her cousin.

450
00:22:45,280 --> 00:22:48,040
Speaker 1: I have refused because I feel this whole situation wouldn't

451
00:22:48,040 --> 00:22:50,360
Speaker 1: have occurred if she didn't push the relationship. But I'm

452
00:22:50,359 --> 00:22:53,280
Speaker 1: starting to have second thoughts because it was very mean,

453
00:22:53,359 --> 00:22:54,560
Speaker 1: I guess, although very funny.

454
00:22:54,640 --> 00:22:57,720
Speaker 2: Am I the actful question? How old is the kid?

455
00:22:57,720 --> 00:22:58,960
Speaker 1: Again? Like sixteen? Teenager?

456
00:22:59,320 --> 00:23:00,960
Speaker 2: It is a teenage, we're not We're not sure of

457
00:23:00,960 --> 00:23:01,480
Speaker 2: the age.

458
00:23:01,320 --> 00:23:04,040
Speaker 1: Okay, So I feel like there's you kind of reach

459
00:23:04,119 --> 00:23:06,320
Speaker 1: this point with your kid, like when they're like little

460
00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:10,639
Speaker 1: and they're like, you know, set up playing well specifically

461
00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:12,760
Speaker 1: with like the the bullying or like whatever thing right,

462
00:23:12,920 --> 00:23:14,640
Speaker 1: like okay, Like ah no, I don't say many names

463
00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:18,240
Speaker 1: once you get to like the later teenage years. If

464
00:23:18,280 --> 00:23:20,960
Speaker 1: I saw this, I would think it's funny and like

465
00:23:21,200 --> 00:23:23,800
Speaker 1: maybe it's kind of mean spirited, But I think it

466
00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:26,440
Speaker 1: is mean spirited, though I would probably yeah, I would

467
00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:28,840
Speaker 1: probably say like, hey, like you know, you might not

468
00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:30,680
Speaker 1: want to hang out with your cousin. But you should

469
00:23:30,680 --> 00:23:33,440
Speaker 1: have made things like this. Yeah, although the mom did

470
00:23:33,560 --> 00:23:36,040
Speaker 1: set the kid up, like why don't you want to

471
00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:38,200
Speaker 1: hang out with your cousin? Yeah, so I actually don't

472
00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:40,159
Speaker 1: think the kid's apful because of that.

473
00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:40,400
Speaker 2: Yeah.

474
00:23:40,400 --> 00:23:42,680
Speaker 1: I don't think the kids the apple because they're trying

475
00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:44,920
Speaker 1: to force a relationship, yes, that the kid doesn't want

476
00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:46,800
Speaker 1: to have. Yes, And so I don't think the kid's

477
00:23:46,800 --> 00:23:49,520
Speaker 1: the actual I don't think the dad is the aful. Yeah,

478
00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:51,040
Speaker 1: I think the mom's the apple for trying to force

479
00:23:51,040 --> 00:23:52,840
Speaker 1: a relationship. Yes, but I don't know. I want to

480
00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:55,240
Speaker 1: know what everyone else thinks. Definitely, that's know in the comments.

481
00:23:55,560 --> 00:23:57,639
Speaker 2: Never try to force a relationship. Let it happened naturally.

482
00:23:57,760 --> 00:24:02,159
Speaker 1: Also, I would love to hear you'll most annoying family

483
00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:06,199
Speaker 1: member stories. Oh yeah, I've people definitely got a lot

484
00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:10,000
Speaker 1: of those. Oh yeah, for sure. Remember my cousin Max,

485
00:24:10,320 --> 00:24:13,119
Speaker 1: you said I didn't even remember this, but apparently Christian

486
00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:15,720
Speaker 1: said he used to do this thing like Max and

487
00:24:15,720 --> 00:24:17,400
Speaker 1: I did not get along when we were kids.

488
00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:18,360
Speaker 2: We get along now.

489
00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:21,560
Speaker 1: He's great, but in middle school he would lick the

490
00:24:21,560 --> 00:24:23,159
Speaker 1: bottom of his shoe a lot. I don't know.

491
00:24:23,160 --> 00:24:24,439
Speaker 2: As a performer of stunts.

492
00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:26,520
Speaker 1: I think, oh my god, I don't remember this, but

493
00:24:26,600 --> 00:24:28,520
Speaker 1: Christian brought it up and like, I don't remember this

494
00:24:28,600 --> 00:24:31,119
Speaker 1: at all, but yeah, it was just and there's just

495
00:24:31,119 --> 00:24:33,760
Speaker 1: a bunch of weird bit I don't remember everything. But

496
00:24:33,760 --> 00:24:35,200
Speaker 1: that is so disgussied.

497
00:24:35,320 --> 00:24:36,640
Speaker 2: We didn't get along with him a lot.

498
00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:40,840
Speaker 1: Man. Kids really need a like guardian, Like what is

499
00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:43,240
Speaker 1: it the attention to the validation of attention? Like I

500
00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:46,040
Speaker 1: know that is to lick a shoe, to lick a shoe,

501
00:24:46,080 --> 00:24:48,679
Speaker 1: but I would have licked any shoe to have Ashley

502
00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:54,520
Speaker 1: stay a couple more days? How many shoes too? Too?

503
00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:55,879
Speaker 1: At least? What about like five?

504
00:24:56,040 --> 00:24:57,600
Speaker 2: How many days am I getting a month?

505
00:24:57,760 --> 00:24:58,800
Speaker 1: A month? Yeah?

506
00:24:58,960 --> 00:25:00,480
Speaker 2: Five shoes shoes for a month?

507
00:25:00,520 --> 00:25:02,280
Speaker 1: Easy? What about fifty shoes?

508
00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:03,760
Speaker 2: Fifty shoes for a month.

509
00:25:04,040 --> 00:25:07,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, just one lick, one lick, but on fifty different shoes.

510
00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:09,199
Speaker 2: Do I have to like the whole surface area or

511
00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:09,520
Speaker 2: is it.

512
00:25:09,440 --> 00:25:13,560
Speaker 1: Just like whole surface area everything, Like I'm the cleanest

513
00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:18,720
Speaker 1: show like that skid row toes like that, like like

514
00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:20,960
Speaker 1: like toes of skid row, like they're all needled up.

515
00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:21,800
Speaker 2: Probably not.

516
00:25:21,840 --> 00:25:22,440
Speaker 1: I wouldn't do.

517
00:25:22,359 --> 00:25:24,959
Speaker 2: It many am I getting anything?

518
00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:25,080
Speaker 1: Like?

519
00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:26,560
Speaker 2: Is it like is there.

520
00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:31,960
Speaker 1: But would I could.

521
00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:32,480
Speaker 2: I get diseases?

522
00:25:33,119 --> 00:25:37,720
Speaker 1: Probably not. Yeah, I don't think AIDS is worth I'm sorry, Ashley,

523
00:25:38,119 --> 00:25:39,120
Speaker 1: we were committed.

524
00:25:39,359 --> 00:25:40,560
Speaker 2: I wouldn't get AIDS for you.

525
00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:46,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, but hey, honest, yeah, honest, honest. Yeah, it was great, John,

526
00:25:46,520 --> 00:25:48,760
Speaker 1: But it was a great couple of days. You know what, Sam,

527
00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:52,160
Speaker 1: We have all of these incredible people here. It's true.

528
00:25:52,280 --> 00:25:54,240
Speaker 1: If you haven't already putting my sunglass so on, I

529
00:25:54,320 --> 00:25:57,720
Speaker 1: got right down something you love about Sam. Let's let's

530
00:25:57,760 --> 00:25:59,560
Speaker 1: give our boys, Sam someone Actually a lot of you

531
00:25:59,600 --> 00:26:02,080
Speaker 1: have written I'm really nice. John. You don't understand. It

532
00:26:02,119 --> 00:26:06,000
Speaker 1: was so lovely John, Johnny, don't I understand? Okay, So

533
00:26:06,800 --> 00:26:09,320
Speaker 1: what was our second day here? Yeah, our second full

534
00:26:09,400 --> 00:26:11,960
Speaker 1: day here. I'm about to go for a sunset surf.

535
00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:15,800
Speaker 1: You are. I am so excited the sun setting. It's beautiful.

536
00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:18,000
Speaker 1: I see this pretty Australian girl to my right as

537
00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:19,800
Speaker 1: I'm about to go in, and she's taking pictures of

538
00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:23,360
Speaker 1: the sunset, and I strike up a conversation and then

539
00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:25,320
Speaker 1: she like drops her phone or something. Oh. I'm like, oh,

540
00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:28,159
Speaker 1: are you nervous because you're talking to a cute surfer

541
00:26:28,320 --> 00:26:30,680
Speaker 1: and she's like no, ha ha, let me get your

542
00:26:30,840 --> 00:26:32,720
Speaker 1: I have to jump into the water, but let me

543
00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:34,880
Speaker 1: get your Instagram and then I jump into the water,

544
00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:39,600
Speaker 1: have the most amazing surf. Dude. It was incredible. Almost

545
00:26:39,640 --> 00:26:42,640
Speaker 1: died on the rocks. And then because of the near

546
00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:45,159
Speaker 1: death experience, I'm just like, I'm just gonna go for it.

547
00:26:45,200 --> 00:26:47,159
Speaker 1: And so I'm like, hey, let's get drinks tonight. And

548
00:26:47,160 --> 00:26:49,040
Speaker 1: then she comes. We like go to a bunch of

549
00:26:49,080 --> 00:26:53,600
Speaker 1: different bars, we like dance and eat great food and

550
00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:58,480
Speaker 1: like just have the most amazing conversation. And she comes

551
00:26:58,480 --> 00:27:00,199
Speaker 1: back here. We take a dip in the pool, we

552
00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:03,040
Speaker 1: listen to country songs, take a shower, and it was

553
00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:04,160
Speaker 1: like four nights of that.

554
00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:05,600
Speaker 2: It was great in a row.

555
00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:08,000
Speaker 1: That's true. She was here, she was here every day

556
00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:11,160
Speaker 1: every day. Yeah, and she just left like thirty minutes ago.

557
00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:14,280
Speaker 1: I'm fine, You're gonna be good, gonna good, buddy. Yeah,

558
00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:19,000
Speaker 1: thousands of people rooting for you right now. And if

559
00:27:19,560 --> 00:27:23,080
Speaker 1: you're an Australian that's near Bali, oh yeah, and you

560
00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:25,639
Speaker 1: want to take a flight out and mean, Sam, just

561
00:27:25,680 --> 00:27:28,240
Speaker 1: go to just go to the beach, just catch some waves. Ye,

562
00:27:28,520 --> 00:27:33,240
Speaker 1: look around for a cute, hunky American man that is

563
00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:36,280
Speaker 1: shredding the nard and uh, we can make something happen. Yeah,

564
00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:38,040
Speaker 1: we can make something happen. I don't know if I'm

565
00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:41,640
Speaker 1: ready to love again. Give us, Sam, give us, give

566
00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:44,760
Speaker 1: us one one positive thing from the trip to close

567
00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:48,119
Speaker 1: out with our with our beautiful fans today, Ashley, my

568
00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:51,040
Speaker 1: daughter is eighteen and pregnant. She's too young to have

569
00:27:51,080 --> 00:27:54,200
Speaker 1: a kid, So I stole that child. Am I the asshole?

570
00:27:55,080 --> 00:27:57,800
Speaker 1: You know you gotta let your kid spread their wings

571
00:27:57,800 --> 00:28:00,520
Speaker 1: and fly, you know what I mean? Let your kids kids,

572
00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:03,240
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying, and then steal them. So my

573
00:28:03,400 --> 00:28:06,600
Speaker 1: forty nine male daughter got pregnant when she was eighteen.

574
00:28:06,840 --> 00:28:09,000
Speaker 1: She didn't want a kid, especially not that young. So

575
00:28:09,119 --> 00:28:11,800
Speaker 1: after some serious talk, I said I would take in

576
00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:14,520
Speaker 1: her child, but she said she didn't want any responsibility

577
00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:16,960
Speaker 1: for the child, so she ended up signing away her

578
00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:20,200
Speaker 1: parental rights and I adopted her child as soon as

579
00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:20,840
Speaker 1: he was born.

580
00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:23,359
Speaker 2: That seems like a tricky situation because you're still there.

581
00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:26,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, but okay, I think it's like the classic Oh,

582
00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:31,280
Speaker 1: like I'm actually your sister. Yeah, yeah, you get raised

583
00:28:31,359 --> 00:28:36,000
Speaker 1: by the mom your mom says, your grandma mom's your sister. Oops.

584
00:28:36,359 --> 00:28:39,520
Speaker 1: She went off to college, traveled, and I fully supported her.

585
00:28:39,680 --> 00:28:42,880
Speaker 1: My son my daughter's child, but I will be calling him.

586
00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:45,960
Speaker 1: My son is now sixteen and is an amazing kid,

587
00:28:46,040 --> 00:28:48,480
Speaker 1: and my daughter has barely come to see him, and

588
00:28:48,560 --> 00:28:51,840
Speaker 1: if she does come around, she just ignores him. He

589
00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:55,080
Speaker 1: knows that she is her biological mother, but after a

590
00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:58,240
Speaker 1: few failed reconnection attempts when he was younger, he's given

591
00:28:58,360 --> 00:29:00,640
Speaker 1: up on a relationship with her. I'm so sad. It

592
00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:03,360
Speaker 1: is really tough. Honestly, I thought it was going to

593
00:29:03,440 --> 00:29:06,120
Speaker 1: be like, oh, he doesn't know. Yeah, the fact that

594
00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:08,640
Speaker 1: he knows, and she's like, I'm kind of busy, like

595
00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:11,920
Speaker 1: traveling and like see in the world.

596
00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:14,400
Speaker 2: I'd rather just not see you or be involved in

597
00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:14,800
Speaker 2: your world.

598
00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:18,280
Speaker 1: Your world. Shit, can you just like stop being around

599
00:29:18,520 --> 00:29:22,400
Speaker 1: These last few weeks, a few things happened. My daughter

600
00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:26,760
Speaker 1: got engaged to her long term boyfriend, okay, and my

601
00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:30,080
Speaker 1: son came out to me. Wow, I fully support him,

602
00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:33,000
Speaker 1: which is great. Don't expect that often from your grandma's

603
00:29:33,200 --> 00:29:36,080
Speaker 1: That is true. And my son also won a small

604
00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:39,840
Speaker 1: local skating competition. He's been skating since he was nine

605
00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:43,240
Speaker 1: and loves it. It's his preferred mode of transport. And

606
00:29:43,320 --> 00:29:46,560
Speaker 1: he is known by the local skating community and skate shop.

607
00:29:46,600 --> 00:29:48,680
Speaker 1: When my daughter got engaged, she said she didn't want

608
00:29:48,680 --> 00:29:51,240
Speaker 1: any secrets, so she told her fiance that she has

609
00:29:51,280 --> 00:29:53,280
Speaker 1: a child, but that I have adopted him.

610
00:29:53,480 --> 00:29:54,080
Speaker 2: His kids.

611
00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:56,440
Speaker 1: I'm not sure the age, but they are young. Not

612
00:29:56,520 --> 00:29:59,320
Speaker 1: understanding that my daughter and my son are estranged, wanted

613
00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:02,320
Speaker 1: to meet their new brother. Even after days of refusing

614
00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:05,320
Speaker 1: in kid friendly explanations, they didn't give up, so they

615
00:30:05,360 --> 00:30:08,280
Speaker 1: brought the kids to meet my son. Hmmm, it's the

616
00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:11,800
Speaker 1: clash with the two families. Interesting. My son was friendly

617
00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:14,400
Speaker 1: with the kids and their dad and was civil with

618
00:30:14,480 --> 00:30:17,320
Speaker 1: my daughter and her fiance sat with me to talk.

619
00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:20,360
Speaker 1: After a while, the fiance noticed my son's trophy on

620
00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:22,680
Speaker 1: a shelf and asked about it. When I explained, he

621
00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:25,959
Speaker 1: looked interested, but my daughter was horrified.

622
00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:27,000
Speaker 2: Why you horrified?

623
00:30:27,040 --> 00:30:29,560
Speaker 1: Okay, listen, you're getting way too much attention. I might

624
00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:31,080
Speaker 1: have to think and look at you now. I would

625
00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:34,080
Speaker 1: love for you to win the quiet competition. Yes, let's

626
00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:37,200
Speaker 1: start playing now and never stop. You're doing so good.

627
00:30:37,360 --> 00:30:40,320
Speaker 1: You're doing so great, honey, Thank you. Keep going until

628
00:30:40,360 --> 00:30:43,200
Speaker 1: you die. She sent her fiance to check on the kids,

629
00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:46,480
Speaker 1: then asked me what I was doing letting.

630
00:30:46,240 --> 00:30:47,840
Speaker 2: Them do something so dangerous.

631
00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:51,880
Speaker 1: She said that skateboarding was for delinquents and that as

632
00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:56,320
Speaker 1: his mother, she doesn't want him skating anymore. As his mother,

633
00:30:57,040 --> 00:31:00,480
Speaker 1: excuse me all of a sudden, you care? Oh, now

634
00:31:00,520 --> 00:31:01,560
Speaker 1: you're so worried.

635
00:31:01,760 --> 00:31:03,320
Speaker 2: She only wants to take away is fun.

636
00:31:03,880 --> 00:31:07,600
Speaker 1: What if she's trying to prove to her fiance, like, oh,

637
00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:09,600
Speaker 1: I'm going to be a good mom to yr kids,

638
00:31:09,600 --> 00:31:12,880
Speaker 1: She's like flexing her mom muscle. When she said mother,

639
00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:16,360
Speaker 1: I have to admit I did laugh. I reminded her

640
00:31:16,600 --> 00:31:18,760
Speaker 1: that I had parental rights over him and that she

641
00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:22,040
Speaker 1: has no say. She was clearly upset by this and

642
00:31:22,120 --> 00:31:24,800
Speaker 1: called me cruel, saying that she was a child when

643
00:31:24,800 --> 00:31:27,960
Speaker 1: she got pregnant and that she's a different person. Now. Wait,

644
00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:31,840
Speaker 1: I recall you being pregnant at eighteen. I think, like, wait,

645
00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:34,600
Speaker 1: something happens when you go from seventy eighteen, right, Yeah.

646
00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:36,280
Speaker 1: I think like, in the eyes of the law, you're like,

647
00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:37,560
Speaker 1: we are you all fucking adult?

648
00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:40,840
Speaker 2: Also, you've had sixteen years.

649
00:31:40,600 --> 00:31:43,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, which again just leads me to think it's performative,

650
00:31:43,800 --> 00:31:47,200
Speaker 1: like you've had a lot of time to lean into this.

651
00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:50,000
Speaker 1: Mom role if you wanted to why not? Or even more,

652
00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:54,680
Speaker 1: how old is she? Forty nine? Eighteen? Oh? My forty nine?

653
00:31:54,800 --> 00:32:01,480
Speaker 1: So my so the grandma mom? Yeah, and then I

654
00:32:01,520 --> 00:32:08,520
Speaker 1: think it's forty nine mail. Oh sorry, sorry, dad, Please

655
00:32:08,560 --> 00:32:12,160
Speaker 1: accept her most humblest of apologies. I told her that

656
00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:16,360
Speaker 1: doesn't matter and that my son is my son. She

657
00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:19,080
Speaker 1: then got really upset and grabbed her fiance and his

658
00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:21,680
Speaker 1: kids and left. At first, I didn't think I was

659
00:32:21,720 --> 00:32:23,720
Speaker 1: in the wrong, but now that I think about it,

660
00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:25,840
Speaker 1: it might have been rude to laugh and hold my

661
00:32:25,880 --> 00:32:28,360
Speaker 1: paternal rights over her head like that. These past few

662
00:32:28,360 --> 00:32:32,640
Speaker 1: weeks have been emotional, so maybe I overreacted. Am I

663
00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:35,600
Speaker 1: the asshole? I want to let John give it an

664
00:32:35,600 --> 00:32:38,240
Speaker 1: opinion on whether op's the asshole or not, but I

665
00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:39,720
Speaker 1: would love to know from you guys. Do you have

666
00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:43,480
Speaker 1: any stories of, like, either you or someone you know

667
00:32:44,040 --> 00:32:47,920
Speaker 1: having a sister mom, or a dad brother or a

668
00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:52,280
Speaker 1: dad brother. Yeah, yeah, okay, So the biological mom, she

669
00:32:52,360 --> 00:32:55,280
Speaker 1: had so much time and so much opportunity, and to

670
00:32:55,400 --> 00:32:58,880
Speaker 1: me her going to the parent now and being like,

671
00:32:58,920 --> 00:33:00,400
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, what are you doing?

672
00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:01,800
Speaker 2: How could you be so irresponsible?

673
00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:03,720
Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, are you kidding me, I was literally

674
00:33:03,760 --> 00:33:06,360
Speaker 1: responsible for sixteen years. To me, I'm kind of like,

675
00:33:06,640 --> 00:33:09,720
Speaker 1: as ope, I am deserved an apology because it's like, hey, like,

676
00:33:09,800 --> 00:33:12,120
Speaker 1: don't attack my parenting style. And you didn't want a

677
00:33:12,160 --> 00:33:15,120
Speaker 1: parent at all, and you haven't had any input this

678
00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:17,840
Speaker 1: whole time, nor have you shown that you wanted to

679
00:33:17,880 --> 00:33:20,800
Speaker 1: have input. It's almost like if like if you had

680
00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:23,200
Speaker 1: a kid and you're like, yeah, I'm my kid's skateboarding now,

681
00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:25,360
Speaker 1: and I would be like, oh.

682
00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:27,440
Speaker 2: How dare you let your kids skateboard?

683
00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:29,600
Speaker 1: You know what? Let me take over right here, Let

684
00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:31,400
Speaker 1: me tell you how to parent your child. But yeah,

685
00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:34,560
Speaker 1: I think like, ope, I don't think is an asshole.

686
00:33:35,120 --> 00:33:38,560
Speaker 1: The laughing it was more like just out of bafflement,

687
00:33:38,880 --> 00:33:42,280
Speaker 1: and I think making it very clear like hey, like

688
00:33:42,360 --> 00:33:45,040
Speaker 1: this is not your kid. You can't just tell me

689
00:33:45,080 --> 00:33:48,680
Speaker 1: how to parent. Yeah. I do not think that OHP

690
00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:50,040
Speaker 1: is the asshole at all.

691
00:33:50,120 --> 00:33:51,160
Speaker 2: Now, But what do you think?

692
00:33:51,240 --> 00:33:54,440
Speaker 1: Put your answers in the comments right now and we

693
00:33:54,520 --> 00:33:57,600
Speaker 1: will talk to you s because we're gonna be telling

694
00:33:57,600 --> 00:33:59,920
Speaker 1: you this next story. Let's get into it. Husband want

695
00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:03,080
Speaker 1: to do a paternity test. He just wants to double check.

696
00:34:03,360 --> 00:34:06,520
Speaker 1: Now things are getting even worse. Am I the a whole? Yeah?

697
00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:08,600
Speaker 1: Just check your work, you know. It's like your teacher says,

698
00:34:08,640 --> 00:34:09,719
Speaker 1: show your work and then check it.

699
00:34:09,800 --> 00:34:11,480
Speaker 2: I'm not one hundred percent sure. I want to make

700
00:34:11,520 --> 00:34:13,960
Speaker 2: a hundred percent so I can love this child.

701
00:34:14,080 --> 00:34:17,160
Speaker 1: I thirty four female, have a younger brother, Tom thirty male,

702
00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:20,160
Speaker 1: who is co parenting my four year old nephew TJ

703
00:34:20,680 --> 00:34:23,640
Speaker 1: and his ex, Amanda, thirty female. She and my brother

704
00:34:23,680 --> 00:34:25,759
Speaker 1: have known each other since middle school and dated on

705
00:34:25,880 --> 00:34:28,920
Speaker 1: and off since high school. It wasn't until after college

706
00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:31,640
Speaker 1: that they decided to get serious moved in together, and

707
00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:34,600
Speaker 1: they were even engaged and would have gotten married if

708
00:34:34,640 --> 00:34:37,240
Speaker 1: Amanda hadn't found out that she was pregnant.

709
00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:39,640
Speaker 2: Isn't that the whole idea of a shotgun wedding? Also,

710
00:34:39,640 --> 00:34:42,959
Speaker 2: they were already engaged. Yeah wait, so it's like, oh shit,

711
00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:43,800
Speaker 2: we have a kid.

712
00:34:43,719 --> 00:34:48,160
Speaker 1: Divorce, divorce before we start. The dream dress that she

713
00:34:48,280 --> 00:34:51,680
Speaker 1: wanted to wear was not made for a pregnant woman's body,

714
00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:54,440
Speaker 1: and she opted to wait until after their son was

715
00:34:54,440 --> 00:34:57,960
Speaker 1: born for the actual wedding. Oh it sounds like I'll

716
00:34:58,000 --> 00:35:00,359
Speaker 1: be saying that they like didn't do the way, but

717
00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:03,720
Speaker 1: they delayed it. Okay, Okay, that makes more sense. Everything

718
00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:06,320
Speaker 1: seemed to be going great until Tom decided to toss

719
00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:09,120
Speaker 1: a grenade into the relationship. Here we go.

720
00:35:09,160 --> 00:35:10,120
Speaker 2: Oh, what's the grenade?

721
00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:13,960
Speaker 1: Tom by asking for a paternity test before signing the

722
00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:19,239
Speaker 1: birth certificate. Yikes, you know that doesn't It's not a

723
00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:22,359
Speaker 1: great setup to get married. It's not a good look.

724
00:35:22,440 --> 00:35:27,560
Speaker 1: I understand. I understand where he's looking. He's scared, he's nervous. Yeah,

725
00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:29,600
Speaker 1: but you're supposed to have the trust there.

726
00:35:29,680 --> 00:35:31,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like the trust is broken now.

727
00:35:31,719 --> 00:35:34,839
Speaker 1: Oh boy. He admitted that he had no proof, nor

728
00:35:34,840 --> 00:35:38,319
Speaker 1: did he even suspect Amanda of cheating, and believed that

729
00:35:38,480 --> 00:35:42,960
Speaker 1: their son was his. So why the paternity test? But

730
00:35:43,800 --> 00:35:48,280
Speaker 1: he just wanted to be one hundred percent. Babe, Babe, listen,

731
00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:51,640
Speaker 1: I totally trust you ninety nine point five percent. I'm

732
00:35:51,640 --> 00:35:54,440
Speaker 1: an overachiever. What can I say? I want one hundred percent?

733
00:35:54,520 --> 00:35:58,560
Speaker 1: Come on. Obviously, Amanda did not take you kindly to

734
00:35:58,640 --> 00:36:01,560
Speaker 1: what was being implied and moved out while Tom was

735
00:36:01,600 --> 00:36:02,360
Speaker 1: away at work.

736
00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:05,000
Speaker 2: Speed run to implode your marriage for real.

737
00:36:05,480 --> 00:36:08,320
Speaker 1: A few days later, he got the ring back through

738
00:36:08,320 --> 00:36:13,440
Speaker 1: the mail, along with a court summons for child support, wow,

739
00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:18,160
Speaker 1: which included the DNA test he initially wanted.

740
00:36:18,560 --> 00:36:19,640
Speaker 2: I mean, you got what you wanted.

741
00:36:20,920 --> 00:36:25,440
Speaker 1: Be careful what you ask for. Boys. So the DNA test.

742
00:36:25,280 --> 00:36:26,239
Speaker 2: Oh, he's just the father.

743
00:36:26,640 --> 00:36:30,040
Speaker 1: Tom was the father. I mean he was ninety nine

744
00:36:30,120 --> 00:36:31,960
Speaker 1: percent sure, Yeah, exactly.

745
00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:32,560
Speaker 2: It was right.

746
00:36:33,000 --> 00:36:35,920
Speaker 1: And while there were people on both sides trying to

747
00:36:35,960 --> 00:36:40,480
Speaker 1: push for reconciliation, Amanda was not interested. She was mostly

748
00:36:40,520 --> 00:36:43,399
Speaker 1: civil about everything, but refused to be engaged with Tom

749
00:36:43,520 --> 00:36:47,279
Speaker 1: about anything that didn't directly involve their son. To me,

750
00:36:47,880 --> 00:36:51,000
Speaker 1: she didn't seem angry, just cold, like she could put

751
00:36:51,040 --> 00:36:53,760
Speaker 1: on this convincing mask of warmth and joy with Tom

752
00:36:53,880 --> 00:36:56,680
Speaker 1: whenever TJ was around, but the second he wasn't home,

753
00:36:57,040 --> 00:37:00,160
Speaker 1: she would go, please don't touch me. Damn, Tom really

754
00:37:00,200 --> 00:37:03,160
Speaker 1: fucked his life up. Tom has always been hurt over

755
00:37:03,200 --> 00:37:05,960
Speaker 1: how Amanda responded to his request and feels that she

756
00:37:06,040 --> 00:37:09,160
Speaker 1: failed TJ by walking away instead of just staying in

757
00:37:09,200 --> 00:37:10,040
Speaker 1: the relationship.

758
00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:11,279
Speaker 2: Do you think it's an overreaction.

759
00:37:11,560 --> 00:37:15,759
Speaker 1: I mean, I do think that Amanda has every right

760
00:37:15,880 --> 00:37:18,640
Speaker 1: to be very offended, feel like the trust is broken,

761
00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:21,600
Speaker 1: and all these all these things, and ultimately I think

762
00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:24,799
Speaker 1: it's okay to leave the relationship. I'm putting myself in

763
00:37:24,840 --> 00:37:28,120
Speaker 1: those shoes. I probably would have wanted to sit down

764
00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:31,160
Speaker 1: and I would give myself some time to process and

765
00:37:31,280 --> 00:37:33,200
Speaker 1: maybe tell them like the trust is broken like this,

766
00:37:33,280 --> 00:37:34,719
Speaker 1: get in relationship. I don't know if I would have

767
00:37:34,760 --> 00:37:38,120
Speaker 1: done it as soon, but I mean, yeah.

768
00:37:37,320 --> 00:37:39,719
Speaker 2: Who am I to say? Nobody?

769
00:37:39,880 --> 00:37:42,680
Speaker 1: I mostly just bit my tongue. But now that Amanda

770
00:37:42,680 --> 00:37:46,120
Speaker 1: has started dating again, Tom has gotten worse. One day,

771
00:37:46,200 --> 00:37:48,279
Speaker 1: he was ranting about how it was too soon for

772
00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:49,280
Speaker 1: Amanda to be dating.

773
00:37:49,600 --> 00:37:52,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, man, four years, you know that is four years.

774
00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:55,160
Speaker 1: It is four years old now, Yeah, yeah, I mean

775
00:37:55,239 --> 00:37:57,520
Speaker 1: four years is not too soon, babe. Can you just

776
00:37:57,560 --> 00:38:01,200
Speaker 1: wait like a good like three day gads for me?

777
00:38:01,680 --> 00:38:04,239
Speaker 1: Just be celibate the rest of your life. I responded

778
00:38:04,239 --> 00:38:08,239
Speaker 1: by bringing up how Tom has had at least two girlfriends,

779
00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:11,480
Speaker 1: says his relationship with Amanda ended. Bro, Tom is the

780
00:38:11,520 --> 00:38:14,160
Speaker 1: biggest hypocrite. He wants to have it both ways. He's like,

781
00:38:14,200 --> 00:38:17,000
Speaker 1: I trust you, but I want a pattornity test. I

782
00:38:17,080 --> 00:38:19,800
Speaker 1: have had two girlfriends, but you're not allowed any boyfriends.

783
00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:22,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I love you, but I need to sleep with

784
00:38:22,200 --> 00:38:22,919
Speaker 2: all these other women.

785
00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:25,000
Speaker 1: He's warm buffetting it just because I have a wife,

786
00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:28,440
Speaker 1: don't mean, I can't diversify my assets, emphasis on the ass.

787
00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:31,320
Speaker 2: So Tom defended himself, saying that.

788
00:38:31,200 --> 00:38:34,040
Speaker 1: What he did was different as he was just dating

789
00:38:34,080 --> 00:38:37,400
Speaker 1: to have fun and scratch the itch while Amanda is

790
00:38:37,440 --> 00:38:41,640
Speaker 1: looking to marry man does not know how to save himself.

791
00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:44,640
Speaker 1: This guy is chicken Joe. If he was like nefarious

792
00:38:44,880 --> 00:38:47,200
Speaker 1: not cool. Yeah, if he wasn't like a good guy, Tom,

793
00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:49,880
Speaker 1: you are now chicken Tom. Eventually I got fed up

794
00:38:49,880 --> 00:38:52,480
Speaker 1: with his attitude and told him the only reason he's

795
00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:55,320
Speaker 1: in this situation is because of his choice to question

796
00:38:55,440 --> 00:38:58,319
Speaker 1: the paternity. Tom said that as a man, he had

797
00:38:58,400 --> 00:39:01,560
Speaker 1: every right to know if tj his and I countered,

798
00:39:01,719 --> 00:39:04,400
Speaker 1: with Amanda having every right to leave him over it,

799
00:39:04,520 --> 00:39:07,319
Speaker 1: as no honest woman should have been treated as if

800
00:39:07,360 --> 00:39:10,160
Speaker 1: they'd done something wrong, and that I would have done

801
00:39:10,280 --> 00:39:12,600
Speaker 1: the exact same thing as her if a man ever

802
00:39:12,680 --> 00:39:15,920
Speaker 1: dared to try something like that with me. Dude, this

803
00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:18,600
Speaker 1: is some tough brotherly love right here. He is just

804
00:39:20,440 --> 00:39:23,000
Speaker 1: Since then, my parents and a few of Tom's friends

805
00:39:23,040 --> 00:39:25,200
Speaker 1: has said that I was in the wrong as my

806
00:39:25,360 --> 00:39:28,920
Speaker 1: brother was looking for a sympathetic ear rather than to

807
00:39:28,960 --> 00:39:32,239
Speaker 1: be kicked while he was down. Am I the a hole?

808
00:39:32,440 --> 00:39:35,160
Speaker 2: I don't think so, who are these family members?

809
00:39:35,239 --> 00:39:38,440
Speaker 1: Dude? I means I feel like OPI is giving the

810
00:39:38,520 --> 00:39:42,120
Speaker 1: exact advice that Tom needs to hear. Tom is a

811
00:39:42,160 --> 00:39:45,880
Speaker 1: bumbling beffoon that doesn't know his ass from his taint,

812
00:39:46,120 --> 00:39:48,520
Speaker 1: and he needs to know what is and what aims.

813
00:39:48,640 --> 00:39:50,360
Speaker 1: And you know what's going to keep happening. He is

814
00:39:50,400 --> 00:39:53,839
Speaker 1: going to keep doing stupid shit like this. Yeah, oh

815
00:39:53,880 --> 00:39:55,000
Speaker 1: my god, I don't know.

816
00:39:55,040 --> 00:39:56,960
Speaker 2: What do you think? Do you think Opie was too

817
00:39:57,000 --> 00:39:57,760
Speaker 2: harsh with Tom?

818
00:39:57,960 --> 00:40:00,919
Speaker 1: Also? What do you think about asking for paternity test

819
00:40:01,400 --> 00:40:04,200
Speaker 1: just in case? Is that a good idea? Is that? Ever?

820
00:40:04,239 --> 00:40:05,040
Speaker 2: A good idea?

821
00:40:05,440 --> 00:40:09,359
Speaker 1: Is asking for a paternity test an automatic relationship ender?

822
00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:10,080
Speaker 1: That's the question.

823
00:40:10,200 --> 00:40:10,800
Speaker 2: That's the question.

824
00:40:10,840 --> 00:40:13,480
Speaker 1: I feel like we'll get some mixed results. I'm curious

825
00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:15,320
Speaker 1: to see what people say. Yeah, me too, you know what.

826
00:40:15,360 --> 00:40:18,960
Speaker 1: I'm also curious about what this next story. My children

827
00:40:19,040 --> 00:40:21,520
Speaker 1: are refusing to take care of me in my old age,

828
00:40:21,640 --> 00:40:24,000
Speaker 1: so I'm spending all of their inheritance.

829
00:40:24,120 --> 00:40:26,439
Speaker 2: Am I the asshole? What goes around comes around?

830
00:40:26,520 --> 00:40:27,399
Speaker 1: Yeah? You know what I mean?

831
00:40:27,640 --> 00:40:29,400
Speaker 2: Like, you don't take care of me, say goodbye to

832
00:40:29,440 --> 00:40:29,880
Speaker 2: your money.

833
00:40:30,080 --> 00:40:34,880
Speaker 1: Not looking for financial advice, only moral judgments. Also, English

834
00:40:34,960 --> 00:40:38,200
Speaker 1: is not my first language. Here we are the arbiters

835
00:40:38,360 --> 00:40:42,640
Speaker 1: of moral judgments. We have arrived, weel arrived, and we are

836
00:40:42,640 --> 00:40:45,840
Speaker 1: ready to judge you severely. I have three children, Jason

837
00:40:45,880 --> 00:40:50,080
Speaker 1: twenty five male, Monica thirty female, and Veronica thirty two female.

838
00:40:50,120 --> 00:40:52,520
Speaker 1: I've always had a good relationship with my children. A

839
00:40:52,560 --> 00:40:55,000
Speaker 1: bit more distant after my wife died, but in general

840
00:40:55,080 --> 00:40:58,000
Speaker 1: we have a nice relationship. I received a hefty inheritance

841
00:40:58,000 --> 00:41:00,600
Speaker 1: from my parents, who had fortunately passed away if years ago.

842
00:41:00,680 --> 00:41:03,399
Speaker 1: This inheritance is not only a product of my parents' work,

843
00:41:03,600 --> 00:41:05,800
Speaker 1: but money that has been in my family for decades.

844
00:41:06,040 --> 00:41:08,080
Speaker 1: So it is expected of me to try to save

845
00:41:08,239 --> 00:41:11,399
Speaker 1: as much of the inheritance for my children and so on.

846
00:41:11,560 --> 00:41:13,560
Speaker 1: It's also important to mention that in my culture that

847
00:41:13,640 --> 00:41:15,920
Speaker 1: children are supposed to take care of their parents and

848
00:41:15,960 --> 00:41:17,919
Speaker 1: their old age, which, honestly, I feel like that should

849
00:41:17,920 --> 00:41:21,200
Speaker 1: be in all cultures. It really should be. Though. Yeah, like,

850
00:41:21,239 --> 00:41:23,720
Speaker 1: my parents definitely want me to take care of them. Yeah,

851
00:41:23,840 --> 00:41:27,080
Speaker 1: they're getting down the streets there. Yeah, sorry, mom and dad.

852
00:41:27,360 --> 00:41:30,440
Speaker 1: Both my mom and dad suffered from diseases that required

853
00:41:30,440 --> 00:41:32,840
Speaker 1: twenty four to seven care by the end of their life.

854
00:41:32,920 --> 00:41:35,880
Speaker 1: This disease runs in the family, so most likely I

855
00:41:35,920 --> 00:41:38,439
Speaker 1: will suffer from one of them too. A few months ago,

856
00:41:38,600 --> 00:41:40,880
Speaker 1: I made an offhand comment about going to the doctor

857
00:41:40,920 --> 00:41:44,239
Speaker 1: for my annual revisitation since my health has been not

858
00:41:44,320 --> 00:41:46,880
Speaker 1: so great, I said, has anyone talked about who I

859
00:41:46,920 --> 00:41:49,600
Speaker 1: will live with when I'm old and wrinkly? Which is

860
00:41:49,640 --> 00:41:50,920
Speaker 1: like a cute way to kind of bring it up.

861
00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:53,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's nice and subtle, and it's timely.

862
00:41:53,880 --> 00:41:56,360
Speaker 1: You know. It was a joking comment. I'm not actually

863
00:41:56,400 --> 00:41:58,400
Speaker 1: planning to live with any of my children yet, but

864
00:41:58,760 --> 00:42:01,080
Speaker 1: I guess the comment didn't sit right with any of

865
00:42:01,080 --> 00:42:03,839
Speaker 1: my children because they told me about two months ago

866
00:42:04,040 --> 00:42:06,560
Speaker 1: that they have decided that they will not be taken

867
00:42:06,600 --> 00:42:11,319
Speaker 1: care of me when I'm old. Sorry, Pops, I just

868
00:42:11,360 --> 00:42:13,880
Speaker 1: want to watch you wither away in dot That's so shitty.

869
00:42:14,040 --> 00:42:16,560
Speaker 1: Imagine all three of your children be like So, we

870
00:42:16,600 --> 00:42:20,399
Speaker 1: have unanimously decided that, like, when you can't take care

871
00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:22,520
Speaker 1: of yourself anymore, we're just not going to do anything

872
00:42:22,560 --> 00:42:24,800
Speaker 1: about it. They told me that they first have to

873
00:42:24,840 --> 00:42:27,640
Speaker 1: look out for their family. The cost of living is rising,

874
00:42:27,640 --> 00:42:29,960
Speaker 1: et cetera, et cetera, and it was very hurtful. To

875
00:42:30,040 --> 00:42:32,480
Speaker 1: hear them say that, then I've had to make the

876
00:42:32,520 --> 00:42:34,799
Speaker 1: decision to start to plan for my old age. I've

877
00:42:34,800 --> 00:42:37,239
Speaker 1: moved a lot of the funds of my inheritance to

878
00:42:37,280 --> 00:42:39,520
Speaker 1: my savings account and plan to go on trips that

879
00:42:39,560 --> 00:42:41,440
Speaker 1: I've always wanted to go on while I'm a bit

880
00:42:41,560 --> 00:42:44,200
Speaker 1: young and healthy. I plan to pay for this with

881
00:42:44,320 --> 00:42:49,319
Speaker 1: the inheritance. Oh sorry, Sahi, you can't take care of me.

882
00:42:49,480 --> 00:42:51,920
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna take care of you. I mentioned I'm

883
00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:53,960
Speaker 1: going to Mexico in a few weeks to Monica, who

884
00:42:54,080 --> 00:42:56,160
Speaker 1: asked how I'm gonna pay for the trip. I then

885
00:42:56,239 --> 00:42:58,919
Speaker 1: told her I'm planning to use the inheritance from now

886
00:42:58,960 --> 00:43:02,600
Speaker 1: on to pay for trips, accommodations, food, etc. She then

887
00:43:02,680 --> 00:43:05,200
Speaker 1: called me selfish and accused me of trying to punish

888
00:43:05,239 --> 00:43:07,879
Speaker 1: them for not following tradition or if you don't want

889
00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:09,879
Speaker 1: to continue the tradition of taking care of me, I'm

890
00:43:09,920 --> 00:43:11,680
Speaker 1: not going to continue the tradition of taking care of you.

891
00:43:11,880 --> 00:43:13,880
Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, you know what, you were right when

892
00:43:13,920 --> 00:43:15,560
Speaker 1: you said that, Like, yeah, let's get rid of this

893
00:43:15,560 --> 00:43:18,359
Speaker 1: tradition stuff. Also, it's like he needs that money now

894
00:43:18,400 --> 00:43:21,399
Speaker 1: to take care of himself. Oh hello, Yeah, what else

895
00:43:21,480 --> 00:43:23,879
Speaker 1: is he to do? Yeah, he needs that money. Yeah,

896
00:43:23,960 --> 00:43:27,600
Speaker 1: you've decided that you're going to just saddle me with

897
00:43:28,040 --> 00:43:31,839
Speaker 1: end of life care, which is ridiculously expensive if you're

898
00:43:31,840 --> 00:43:34,360
Speaker 1: talking about any retirement home. The reason that it's so

899
00:43:34,480 --> 00:43:36,320
Speaker 1: high is they just want to drain your bank account

900
00:43:36,320 --> 00:43:40,319
Speaker 1: before you die. After that, Monica called her siblings, which

901
00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:42,120
Speaker 1: in turn called me to tell me that if I

902
00:43:42,160 --> 00:43:44,680
Speaker 1: start to use the inheritance to live a lavish life,

903
00:43:44,719 --> 00:43:47,160
Speaker 1: then I'm robbing them of the money that their grandparents

904
00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:49,760
Speaker 1: promised them. They're all very mad at me and refuse

905
00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:51,360
Speaker 1: to talk to me to get to an agreement.

906
00:43:52,000 --> 00:43:54,360
Speaker 2: Am I the asshole? So I want to know what

907
00:43:54,440 --> 00:43:55,040
Speaker 2: y'all think?

908
00:43:55,239 --> 00:43:55,439
Speaker 1: Yes?

909
00:43:56,080 --> 00:43:58,080
Speaker 2: And also, do you guys plan on taking care of

910
00:43:58,120 --> 00:43:58,720
Speaker 2: your parents?

911
00:43:59,600 --> 00:44:02,839
Speaker 1: If so? Oh how? Riley's shaking his head saying, in

912
00:44:02,840 --> 00:44:05,360
Speaker 1: no way, parents are fucked. Fuck my parents.

913
00:44:05,480 --> 00:44:06,319
Speaker 2: I don't know what do you think?

914
00:44:06,440 --> 00:44:09,000
Speaker 1: This just makes my blood boil so much, especially that

915
00:44:09,040 --> 00:44:11,760
Speaker 1: they would be I can understand, you know, there's certain

916
00:44:11,760 --> 00:44:14,920
Speaker 1: scenarios where it might be a big imposition.

917
00:44:15,160 --> 00:44:18,279
Speaker 2: This is not that situation in the slightest.

918
00:44:18,400 --> 00:44:20,560
Speaker 1: This is OPI being like, Hey, if I'm ever in

919
00:44:20,600 --> 00:44:23,120
Speaker 1: a place where I you know, I get this disease

920
00:44:23,160 --> 00:44:25,879
Speaker 1: that I might have in my genetics. Op doesn't even

921
00:44:25,920 --> 00:44:29,279
Speaker 1: expect to live with them. Yeah, Opie's just like what

922
00:44:29,440 --> 00:44:31,719
Speaker 1: is the plan? Yeah, Like it's such an a whole movie.

923
00:44:31,719 --> 00:44:35,120
Speaker 1: Like kids Smart my grandparents last year, it was like,

924
00:44:35,239 --> 00:44:37,600
Speaker 1: actually a big thing because my grandma is like having

925
00:44:37,640 --> 00:44:40,400
Speaker 1: some dementia right now. Grandpa's still very sharp, but they

926
00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:43,760
Speaker 1: were living in their place in Sacramento, and they probably

927
00:44:43,800 --> 00:44:45,520
Speaker 1: still could have lived there for a while, but my

928
00:44:45,560 --> 00:44:47,879
Speaker 1: grandma was needing more care. But it was a huge thing,

929
00:44:48,000 --> 00:44:50,400
Speaker 1: like the whole family came together, there were meetings or

930
00:44:50,440 --> 00:44:52,840
Speaker 1: like how are we gonna take care of you as

931
00:44:52,920 --> 00:44:55,440
Speaker 1: you go into this next part of your life? But

932
00:44:55,560 --> 00:44:58,320
Speaker 1: the conversation is super important, and the fact that the

933
00:44:58,400 --> 00:45:00,279
Speaker 1: kids are just like I don't want anything to do

934
00:45:00,280 --> 00:45:01,080
Speaker 1: with that conversation.

935
00:45:01,440 --> 00:45:02,440
Speaker 2: That's pretty fucked up.

936
00:45:02,520 --> 00:45:05,440
Speaker 1: That's it. And like there's so many there's just so

937
00:45:05,520 --> 00:45:08,600
Speaker 1: many options that they could have explored. Theirs in home nurses,

938
00:45:08,640 --> 00:45:10,960
Speaker 1: there's the retirement homes. There's I'm sure, you know, I'm

939
00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:12,480
Speaker 1: no exper I'm sure there's a lot more. But they

940
00:45:12,520 --> 00:45:15,239
Speaker 1: literally said, I'm not even willing to think about it,

941
00:45:15,320 --> 00:45:17,640
Speaker 1: and it's not like they had a bad relationship. No,

942
00:45:17,920 --> 00:45:19,960
Speaker 1: unless maybe they did. I don't know. Maybe there's some

943
00:45:20,000 --> 00:45:23,160
Speaker 1: like lowba some low key children red flag y Yeah,

944
00:45:23,200 --> 00:45:25,120
Speaker 1: I don't know from all of you. Like, do you

945
00:45:25,160 --> 00:45:27,879
Speaker 1: plan on taking care of your parents? If so, how

946
00:45:28,120 --> 00:45:30,360
Speaker 1: if you haven't thought about it, maybe started thinking about it.

947
00:45:30,440 --> 00:45:31,920
Speaker 1: You know your parents are going to die and you're

948
00:45:31,960 --> 00:45:34,959
Speaker 1: going to die using noodle, so get ready for death.

949
00:45:35,160 --> 00:45:37,640
Speaker 1: My father passed away, so my sister wants me to

950
00:45:37,680 --> 00:45:41,560
Speaker 1: walk her across the aisle. I'll never do it. Am

951
00:45:41,560 --> 00:45:42,400
Speaker 1: I the a hole? You know?

952
00:45:42,560 --> 00:45:43,840
Speaker 2: You can't coddle people forever?

953
00:45:43,920 --> 00:45:46,319
Speaker 1: Are you kidding me? You expect me like, Hey, I

954
00:45:46,400 --> 00:45:49,120
Speaker 1: am going to support you on your biggest day, give

955
00:45:49,120 --> 00:45:52,160
Speaker 1: you emotional support, be a good sister. No, no, no, no,

956
00:45:52,280 --> 00:45:54,520
Speaker 1: Sometimes how love is the best love and you can't

957
00:45:54,520 --> 00:45:57,680
Speaker 1: just be a crutch Wow, send him off into the abyss. Exactly.

958
00:45:57,760 --> 00:46:00,000
Speaker 1: I see a house burning down, I light another match,

959
00:46:00,000 --> 00:46:02,680
Speaker 1: should throw it on in build character Bill character, Come on,

960
00:46:02,800 --> 00:46:05,560
Speaker 1: if the house was really going to stay a house,

961
00:46:05,760 --> 00:46:07,840
Speaker 1: it would have not been burning in the first place,

962
00:46:07,920 --> 00:46:09,960
Speaker 1: be a better house, or it would have stopped burning.

963
00:46:10,000 --> 00:46:12,239
Speaker 1: You know, by one match's not going to do anything. Nope,

964
00:46:12,320 --> 00:46:14,919
Speaker 1: only get a test that the house was sturdy enough.

965
00:46:15,000 --> 00:46:18,120
Speaker 1: That's how we do relationships. Yep, Tasso's matches in. Y'all

966
00:46:18,200 --> 00:46:21,360
Speaker 1: let it burn. So my father passed away when I

967
00:46:21,640 --> 00:46:24,000
Speaker 1: male twenty six, was twenty two years old and my

968
00:46:24,120 --> 00:46:27,560
Speaker 1: sister female twenty nine was twenty five years old. With

969
00:46:27,640 --> 00:46:30,640
Speaker 1: this in mind, my sister, after getting engaged, asked me

970
00:46:30,719 --> 00:46:32,719
Speaker 1: if I would do the honor of walking her down

971
00:46:32,760 --> 00:46:34,920
Speaker 1: the aisle. At first, I was elated, and so I

972
00:46:35,040 --> 00:46:39,360
Speaker 1: enthusiastically agreed. Then there's always it. Then things quickly changed

973
00:46:39,400 --> 00:46:42,600
Speaker 1: after my sister realized that my wife was pregnant. Why

974
00:46:42,640 --> 00:46:45,200
Speaker 1: does that change anything? In the preceding months, my sister

975
00:46:45,360 --> 00:46:48,560
Speaker 1: made my wife's life hell who initially had been one

976
00:46:48,560 --> 00:46:52,200
Speaker 1: of her bridesmaids, but was relatively recently informed that she

977
00:46:52,360 --> 00:46:56,000
Speaker 1: will not be anymore. Wow, because you're too pregnant. Yeah,

978
00:46:56,040 --> 00:46:58,160
Speaker 1: you're too fat to be my rides. You're just throwing

979
00:46:58,200 --> 00:47:00,919
Speaker 1: off the vibe. Yeah, Like, can you like, we're all

980
00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:06,080
Speaker 1: size two's your size? Ill? Can you just bring your

981
00:47:06,080 --> 00:47:11,480
Speaker 1: stomach into Yeah, suck it up. Your baby's probably fat too,

982
00:47:12,880 --> 00:47:17,160
Speaker 1: Can you have a skinny your baby? But then only

983
00:47:17,200 --> 00:47:20,719
Speaker 1: gained three pounds when she was pregnant. Is that true?

984
00:47:20,880 --> 00:47:23,959
Speaker 2: I have no idea, I Jennerson, I totally.

985
00:47:23,640 --> 00:47:27,480
Speaker 1: Believed you right there now. Originally it was fine, but

986
00:47:27,600 --> 00:47:32,120
Speaker 1: as my wife's pregnancy became visible a fucking ill, my

987
00:47:32,239 --> 00:47:36,000
Speaker 1: sister would at times taunt her and make rude comments.

988
00:47:35,520 --> 00:47:38,720
Speaker 2: Towards her, like what God like was an example?

989
00:47:39,440 --> 00:47:42,319
Speaker 1: Ready, move that big bluga stomach out of the way,

990
00:47:42,800 --> 00:47:44,520
Speaker 1: skinny bitches are taking a picture.

991
00:47:45,520 --> 00:47:47,359
Speaker 2: My god, I gotta heat check you guys.

992
00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:51,120
Speaker 1: Sometimes, during her bachelorourette party just a few days ago,

993
00:47:51,280 --> 00:47:54,560
Speaker 1: she even yelled at her because she was ruining her

994
00:47:54,600 --> 00:48:00,520
Speaker 1: fund by being too distracting and not drinking. Everyone shot,

995
00:48:00,760 --> 00:48:05,320
Speaker 1: including you, fatty. You should actually be drinking for two.

996
00:48:05,239 --> 00:48:09,560
Speaker 2: Yeah exactly, Yeah, it's bad luck.

997
00:48:10,640 --> 00:48:13,040
Speaker 1: Oh my god, do you want your feet is to

998
00:48:13,040 --> 00:48:16,680
Speaker 1: be a little bit when it's born? Yeah? No, okay, God,

999
00:48:16,840 --> 00:48:19,880
Speaker 1: I hate this woman. The ensuing onslaught resulted in my

1000
00:48:19,960 --> 00:48:24,080
Speaker 1: wife being removed as one of the bridesmaids. Wow. God.

1001
00:48:24,320 --> 00:48:27,640
Speaker 1: She even left my pregnant wife on the side of

1002
00:48:27,680 --> 00:48:30,319
Speaker 1: the road as my sister made her way to a

1003
00:48:30,400 --> 00:48:33,560
Speaker 1: party planned in part by my wife and in a

1004
00:48:33,640 --> 00:48:37,359
Speaker 1: limousine paid for by me. Wait, how did they leave

1005
00:48:37,400 --> 00:48:39,120
Speaker 1: her on the side of the road. I guess they're

1006
00:48:39,160 --> 00:48:41,680
Speaker 1: just like, get out, you're not coming. There's a weight

1007
00:48:41,760 --> 00:48:48,000
Speaker 1: limit on this limou God bro oh, oh that is terrible.

1008
00:48:48,120 --> 00:48:49,840
Speaker 1: It's been a while since my blood has boiled this

1009
00:48:49,880 --> 00:48:53,600
Speaker 1: hard or in blood boiling moments, right. This coupled with

1010
00:48:53,680 --> 00:48:56,759
Speaker 1: the fact that she had asked me recently to ask

1011
00:48:56,840 --> 00:49:00,319
Speaker 1: my wife to stay at home because her pregnant. See,

1012
00:49:00,360 --> 00:49:03,759
Speaker 1: we'll take attention away from her on her special day.

1013
00:49:04,080 --> 00:49:07,200
Speaker 1: What I'm actually hearing because it's really oh Pie's fault. Yeah,

1014
00:49:07,760 --> 00:49:10,680
Speaker 1: more in a condom until after your sister's brother. Could

1015
00:49:10,680 --> 00:49:12,880
Speaker 1: you have just pulled out? Can you like maybe not

1016
00:49:13,040 --> 00:49:15,439
Speaker 1: fuck her and my wedding at the same time. You're

1017
00:49:15,440 --> 00:49:18,080
Speaker 1: not pulling out, your fetus isn't taking shots with me?

1018
00:49:18,360 --> 00:49:21,919
Speaker 1: Everything is wrong. Everything is wrong, God, or you could

1019
00:49:21,960 --> 00:49:24,400
Speaker 1: pull It's like, hey, I wanted you to be a bridesmaid.

1020
00:49:24,480 --> 00:49:25,080
Speaker 2: I really did.

1021
00:49:25,160 --> 00:49:27,680
Speaker 1: But honestly, your baby's a little bit too young to

1022
00:49:27,719 --> 00:49:32,320
Speaker 1: be part of the wedding party. I can't okay, Like,

1023
00:49:32,800 --> 00:49:34,600
Speaker 1: could you guys like separate for a little bit?

1024
00:49:34,760 --> 00:49:36,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, Oh, here's a hangar.

1025
00:49:37,080 --> 00:49:44,600
Speaker 1: Jesus, there we go, baby, Actually, there, we don't go, Okay,

1026
00:49:44,600 --> 00:49:49,439
Speaker 1: here's a vacuum. Wow, what a gentleman. This kayus suck

1027
00:49:49,480 --> 00:49:51,440
Speaker 1: it out. The kind of guy to suck it up,

1028
00:49:51,520 --> 00:49:53,480
Speaker 1: Sam's the kind of guy to cover the bill. If

1029
00:49:53,480 --> 00:49:56,160
Speaker 1: you catch my drift, this one's on me, babe.

1030
00:49:56,320 --> 00:49:58,719
Speaker 2: Not drinks, dinner and plan.

1031
00:49:58,640 --> 00:50:03,919
Speaker 1: Be the trifecta of Samuel Donner. To be clear, that's

1032
00:50:03,960 --> 00:50:06,799
Speaker 1: exactly what I do. Just should be super clear. I'm

1033
00:50:06,840 --> 00:50:10,680
Speaker 1: not joking. I've only paid for Plan B once, gentlemen.

1034
00:50:10,960 --> 00:50:15,280
Speaker 1: The other time she paid for I'm kidding. I'm kidding.

1035
00:50:15,920 --> 00:50:17,719
Speaker 2: We'll let you reath between the line on that one. Guys,

1036
00:50:18,680 --> 00:50:21,000
Speaker 2: this just broke me.

1037
00:50:21,320 --> 00:50:23,600
Speaker 1: I called her up yesterday after I found out what

1038
00:50:23,680 --> 00:50:25,480
Speaker 1: she said to my wife, and I told her that

1039
00:50:25,600 --> 00:50:28,080
Speaker 1: I will not be attending the wedding and that she

1040
00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:30,359
Speaker 1: will have to find someone else to walk her down

1041
00:50:30,360 --> 00:50:32,520
Speaker 1: the aisle. I would also send her a receipt for

1042
00:50:32,560 --> 00:50:35,719
Speaker 1: the limo bo like, yeah, it's so fucked up, like

1043
00:50:35,760 --> 00:50:38,560
Speaker 1: that she didn't pick up his wife. Yeah, so fucked

1044
00:50:38,640 --> 00:50:41,720
Speaker 1: it's ridiculous. Yeah, oh god, that's when the call began.

1045
00:50:41,920 --> 00:50:45,240
Speaker 1: Everyone has been calling me telling me that I'm overreacting

1046
00:50:45,320 --> 00:50:48,640
Speaker 1: and that I'm intentionally trying to sabotage her wedding. She

1047
00:50:48,800 --> 00:50:51,160
Speaker 1: even called to yell at me and told me that

1048
00:50:51,200 --> 00:50:55,680
Speaker 1: she has always hated that bitch while referring to my wife. Okay,

1049
00:50:56,239 --> 00:50:58,640
Speaker 1: really quick, really quick. We've said this before. If you're

1050
00:50:58,640 --> 00:51:01,080
Speaker 1: ever trying to convince so one to do something that

1051
00:51:01,160 --> 00:51:04,480
Speaker 1: you want to do, don't fucking call them names. Don't

1052
00:51:04,520 --> 00:51:07,480
Speaker 1: do it. Calling someone a fucking bitch. Do this thing

1053
00:51:07,719 --> 00:51:10,560
Speaker 1: is not going to work. Help yourself. Yeah, we're helping you,

1054
00:51:10,719 --> 00:51:13,239
Speaker 1: trying to help you, help you. Yeah, but you're too

1055
00:51:13,320 --> 00:51:15,200
Speaker 1: dumb for that, too much of a dumb bitch to

1056
00:51:15,280 --> 00:51:18,800
Speaker 1: listen to us. I told her to fuck off. Of course,

1057
00:51:18,960 --> 00:51:21,640
Speaker 1: my mother has been extremely sympathetic towards my wife, and

1058
00:51:21,680 --> 00:51:24,600
Speaker 1: she agrees with me. My wife has been crying over this,

1059
00:51:24,760 --> 00:51:28,240
Speaker 1: and she has herself received an onslaught of messages, hopefully

1060
00:51:28,320 --> 00:51:31,000
Speaker 1: in support. I blocked all my relatives except my mother

1061
00:51:31,080 --> 00:51:33,680
Speaker 1: of course. Oh so maybe everyone isn't in support of her.

1062
00:51:33,800 --> 00:51:37,440
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, onslaught of messages from the family for real, am.

1063
00:51:37,520 --> 00:51:39,560
Speaker 1: And I'm planning on a trip to Disney for my

1064
00:51:39,640 --> 00:51:41,760
Speaker 1: wife and I on the day of my sister's wedding,

1065
00:51:41,840 --> 00:51:43,880
Speaker 1: as I already booked a days off from work and

1066
00:51:43,960 --> 00:51:45,880
Speaker 1: Disney is where my wife and I went on our

1067
00:51:45,920 --> 00:51:48,239
Speaker 1: first date and we lived in la Oh cute. The

1068
00:51:48,280 --> 00:51:52,319
Speaker 1: news has started its own onslaught. Nevertheless, am I the

1069
00:51:52,520 --> 00:51:56,600
Speaker 1: a hole? Now we do have an update? Is a juicy?

1070
00:51:56,640 --> 00:51:58,719
Speaker 1: I think there's some juice and juice. There's a little

1071
00:51:58,800 --> 00:52:01,080
Speaker 1: juice in there, but uh, so far I want to

1072
00:52:01,080 --> 00:52:03,000
Speaker 1: know what everyone else thinks. But like, so far?

1073
00:52:03,280 --> 00:52:05,440
Speaker 2: Is op the ale four? Stepping out of the wedding?

1074
00:52:05,600 --> 00:52:06,359
Speaker 2: What a guy?

1075
00:52:06,719 --> 00:52:09,239
Speaker 1: If I was to choose who I wanted to be

1076
00:52:09,320 --> 00:52:10,960
Speaker 1: married to, I'm choosing this dude.

1077
00:52:11,080 --> 00:52:13,319
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, so propose right now?

1078
00:52:13,560 --> 00:52:16,919
Speaker 1: Say yeah, put on? Put a ring his finger? No ring?

1079
00:52:17,440 --> 00:52:20,680
Speaker 2: Yes, throwing on? Not going to be on the market long.

1080
00:52:20,680 --> 00:52:21,160
Speaker 1: That's right.

1081
00:52:21,760 --> 00:52:24,480
Speaker 2: Sam has many, many people coordinated.

1082
00:52:25,040 --> 00:52:29,240
Speaker 1: And sutresses and butters and buttresses.

1083
00:52:28,960 --> 00:52:31,279
Speaker 2: Who may or may not be working out. Yeah, dude,

1084
00:52:31,280 --> 00:52:33,759
Speaker 2: I had a girl over yesterday and yeah you did.

1085
00:52:33,800 --> 00:52:36,320
Speaker 1: I reduced. It was like, damn does she work out? Yeah?

1086
00:52:36,560 --> 00:52:38,879
Speaker 1: I'm like, what do you mean? He's like the ass

1087
00:52:38,920 --> 00:52:43,120
Speaker 1: fat though I can't be natural, Yeah, it can't be natural.

1088
00:52:43,360 --> 00:52:46,480
Speaker 1: H I feel trapped in her eyes. My eyes were trapped.

1089
00:52:46,480 --> 00:52:49,560
Speaker 1: My eyes are trapped her onto that ass bouncy little

1090
00:52:49,560 --> 00:52:52,759
Speaker 1: booty cheeks and he just couldn't stop ching about k

1091
00:52:52,960 --> 00:52:55,319
Speaker 1: If you want you you could directly ask her when

1092
00:52:56,120 --> 00:52:58,080
Speaker 1: do you want me to tell her that I think

1093
00:52:58,160 --> 00:53:01,000
Speaker 1: Riley should do the honest Hey, yeah, I was wondering,

1094
00:53:01,120 --> 00:53:03,640
Speaker 1: like what's your workout routine? And like can I join

1095
00:53:03,760 --> 00:53:06,239
Speaker 1: just for the horizontal parts? Yeah? Yeah, yeah? How do

1096
00:53:06,280 --> 00:53:09,840
Speaker 1: I get my ass that fat? Well? Speaking of fat,

1097
00:53:09,920 --> 00:53:12,399
Speaker 1: juicy things, should we get into this big old juicy

1098
00:53:12,440 --> 00:53:13,480
Speaker 1: update and conclusion?

1099
00:53:13,520 --> 00:53:14,600
Speaker 2: I don't think op is the a hole.

1100
00:53:14,600 --> 00:53:16,920
Speaker 1: There we go, let's get into it. So I unblocked

1101
00:53:16,920 --> 00:53:19,680
Speaker 1: my relatives who had called me to convince me to

1102
00:53:19,760 --> 00:53:22,120
Speaker 1: walk my sister down the aisle, and I sent them

1103
00:53:22,120 --> 00:53:25,440
Speaker 1: the post. Most apologized and didn't know how poorly my

1104
00:53:25,480 --> 00:53:28,880
Speaker 1: sister had treated my wife. That makes more sense if

1105
00:53:28,920 --> 00:53:31,719
Speaker 1: you even canceled going to the wedding and were appalled

1106
00:53:31,760 --> 00:53:33,920
Speaker 1: at the fact that my sister decided to kick my

1107
00:53:34,040 --> 00:53:36,360
Speaker 1: pregnant wife out of the car and leave her on

1108
00:53:36,400 --> 00:53:37,239
Speaker 1: the side of the road.

1109
00:53:37,280 --> 00:53:39,279
Speaker 2: So she literally did kick her out of the car.

1110
00:53:39,600 --> 00:53:43,240
Speaker 1: Why, oh, we're not drinking, I guess. So for being

1111
00:53:43,520 --> 00:53:46,480
Speaker 1: not the life of the party, the groom didn't care

1112
00:53:46,600 --> 00:53:49,200
Speaker 1: much and said that this is a personal family matter

1113
00:53:49,280 --> 00:53:52,040
Speaker 1: which he shouldn't involve himself in. You are that is

1114
00:53:52,080 --> 00:53:54,759
Speaker 1: what marriage is. I guess he's like, Hey, we're not

1115
00:53:54,920 --> 00:53:57,200
Speaker 1: married yet, so I don't have to deal with this shit.

1116
00:53:57,360 --> 00:53:59,840
Speaker 1: Give me another forty eight hours before waiting on this.

1117
00:54:00,800 --> 00:54:04,120
Speaker 2: Give me a break, man, You're literally joining the family.

1118
00:54:04,160 --> 00:54:05,880
Speaker 1: That's how this shit works. You know, I did a

1119
00:54:05,880 --> 00:54:09,480
Speaker 1: little warm up before is drama. Can't just put me

1120
00:54:09,600 --> 00:54:12,160
Speaker 1: right in. You know, my mother is attending the wedding,

1121
00:54:12,200 --> 00:54:15,319
Speaker 1: but she has just adopted the attitude of once I

1122
00:54:15,400 --> 00:54:17,720
Speaker 1: get this done, she'll be out of my hair once

1123
00:54:17,760 --> 00:54:20,120
Speaker 1: and for all now. As for my sister, she was

1124
00:54:20,200 --> 00:54:22,400
Speaker 1: none too pleased when I sent her the post. She

1125
00:54:22,480 --> 00:54:25,080
Speaker 1: apparently texted me a bunch. I had her blocked so

1126
00:54:25,120 --> 00:54:28,040
Speaker 1: I didn't receive anything. Then this very morning, she shows

1127
00:54:28,080 --> 00:54:30,000
Speaker 1: up to my firm in New York. She doesn't live

1128
00:54:30,040 --> 00:54:31,680
Speaker 1: too far, but I didn't know that she would show

1129
00:54:31,760 --> 00:54:33,879
Speaker 1: up to my workplace. I sat her down and gave

1130
00:54:33,920 --> 00:54:37,160
Speaker 1: her a chance to explain herself. She refused to apologize.

1131
00:54:37,200 --> 00:54:40,359
Speaker 1: You understand your wife is fat. Yeah, you feed us

1132
00:54:40,360 --> 00:54:43,600
Speaker 1: as fat she is, Yeah, Like this is bad. She

1133
00:54:43,680 --> 00:54:46,359
Speaker 1: can't fit into the matching set of dresses we got,

1134
00:54:46,480 --> 00:54:49,960
Speaker 1: No just ew just killing them. She can't sit with us. No. Never.

1135
00:54:50,200 --> 00:54:52,279
Speaker 1: She tried to make herself seem like she was making

1136
00:54:52,320 --> 00:54:54,959
Speaker 1: the right decision by saying she was just looking out

1137
00:54:55,000 --> 00:54:59,319
Speaker 1: for my wife and baby's health, putting her by making yeah,

1138
00:54:59,360 --> 00:55:01,800
Speaker 1: by kicking out of a car and wanting her to drink.

1139
00:55:01,920 --> 00:55:03,720
Speaker 2: I don't think you know how to be a parent.

1140
00:55:04,000 --> 00:55:07,080
Speaker 1: I don't think you understand how anything it's a parent.

1141
00:55:07,120 --> 00:55:10,080
Speaker 1: You shouldn't parent, yeah, to which I reminded her how

1142
00:55:10,120 --> 00:55:12,960
Speaker 1: she tried to bully my pregnant wife into doing shots.

1143
00:55:13,040 --> 00:55:15,480
Speaker 1: My wife didn't cave, of course. Then she tried to

1144
00:55:15,520 --> 00:55:18,600
Speaker 1: guilt me, saying that our father would have disapproved of

1145
00:55:18,640 --> 00:55:22,040
Speaker 1: me trying to ruin her wedding if he was still alive. Wow,

1146
00:55:22,560 --> 00:55:26,120
Speaker 1: give me a break, using the dead dad car. Oh god,

1147
00:55:26,400 --> 00:55:29,319
Speaker 1: Oh well, you can say that about anything, Like our

1148
00:55:29,520 --> 00:55:32,719
Speaker 1: dead father would not approve of you not giving me

1149
00:55:32,800 --> 00:55:34,919
Speaker 1: all your money. He would have been so disappointed, would

1150
00:55:34,920 --> 00:55:36,600
Speaker 1: have been so disappointed that you just didn't give me

1151
00:55:36,600 --> 00:55:38,279
Speaker 1: ten thousand cans. You know how much he loved me

1152
00:55:38,320 --> 00:55:40,120
Speaker 1: and how much she hated you. Yeah, we know that.

1153
00:55:40,200 --> 00:55:42,880
Speaker 1: We can't ask him anymore. But we know that we know,

1154
00:55:43,000 --> 00:55:45,240
Speaker 1: we know in each of our hearts. He actually whispered

1155
00:55:45,239 --> 00:55:47,360
Speaker 1: it to me many times, but not to you because he.

1156
00:55:47,719 --> 00:55:48,560
Speaker 2: Doesn't want to talk to you.

1157
00:55:48,719 --> 00:55:51,920
Speaker 1: She said that blood is more important, which is ironic

1158
00:55:52,120 --> 00:55:55,480
Speaker 1: considering this is her wedding. Then she got aggressive, telling

1159
00:55:55,520 --> 00:55:57,920
Speaker 1: me that I am ruining her wedding, and proceeded to

1160
00:55:57,960 --> 00:56:01,279
Speaker 1: say horrific things about my wife and down doubled down.

1161
00:56:01,320 --> 00:56:04,560
Speaker 1: Baby really doesn't like your wife. Angered. I told her

1162
00:56:04,640 --> 00:56:07,200
Speaker 1: to get out of my office, and I told her

1163
00:56:07,360 --> 00:56:09,520
Speaker 1: to never come to my office or house again or

1164
00:56:09,560 --> 00:56:12,799
Speaker 1: I'd get a restraining order. She left, cursing me and

1165
00:56:12,840 --> 00:56:17,800
Speaker 1: my wife out. Also, we are still going to Disneyland. Hey,

1166
00:56:18,000 --> 00:56:20,919
Speaker 1: silver lining. Disneyland's pretty dope. It really is though. Yeah,

1167
00:56:20,920 --> 00:56:23,040
Speaker 1: we were actually there not too long ago, that's right. Yeah,

1168
00:56:23,080 --> 00:56:25,840
Speaker 1: we went around like two fools. Yeah we went to

1169
00:56:25,880 --> 00:56:28,680
Speaker 1: the Indiana Jones. We were wined and dined. Oh yeah,

1170
00:56:28,719 --> 00:56:31,480
Speaker 1: we got like drinks and went to like rides, some

1171
00:56:31,520 --> 00:56:34,960
Speaker 1: sort of teaky hut thing. If I was going through

1172
00:56:35,320 --> 00:56:38,360
Speaker 1: situation where my sister despised my wife, Disneyland would have

1173
00:56:38,360 --> 00:56:39,879
Speaker 1: solved all my problems. It's a good cure.

1174
00:56:39,920 --> 00:56:40,440
Speaker 2: It's a good cure.

1175
00:56:40,440 --> 00:56:42,520
Speaker 1: It's a good care, good cure. My question is, obviously,

1176
00:56:42,680 --> 00:56:45,000
Speaker 1: is Opie the a hole like Opie is asking? No,

1177
00:56:45,280 --> 00:56:48,160
Speaker 1: Opie is not the a hole in the slightest Yeah,

1178
00:56:48,239 --> 00:56:51,480
Speaker 1: in fact, what a great husband. Yeah, fanning up to

1179
00:56:51,520 --> 00:56:54,959
Speaker 1: his sister, which sometimes, like we've seen many times people's side,

1180
00:56:55,120 --> 00:56:56,680
Speaker 1: it is hard to stand up to your family, you know.

1181
00:56:56,719 --> 00:56:58,600
Speaker 1: And like this guy's doing it for his wife, his

1182
00:56:58,680 --> 00:57:00,880
Speaker 1: fat pregnant wife, Like, come on, if you could do

1183
00:57:00,960 --> 00:57:03,480
Speaker 1: that for your wife when she is getting kicked out

1184
00:57:03,480 --> 00:57:06,600
Speaker 1: of the bridle shower for being a whail, for not

1185
00:57:06,640 --> 00:57:09,560
Speaker 1: taking shots her inner. Maybe not taking shots.

1186
00:57:09,239 --> 00:57:11,000
Speaker 2: He's really doing words work here.

1187
00:57:11,080 --> 00:57:13,719
Speaker 1: Big salutes, OPI. I also would love to hear your

1188
00:57:13,760 --> 00:57:18,320
Speaker 1: craziest Bridezilla stories. I feel like certain people just the

1189
00:57:18,360 --> 00:57:21,200
Speaker 1: power goes to their head, like they think they're because

1190
00:57:21,200 --> 00:57:24,560
Speaker 1: they're planning like a big event and they own the world. Yeah,

1191
00:57:24,600 --> 00:57:27,040
Speaker 1: it is all about but it's like level and I

1192
00:57:27,040 --> 00:57:29,120
Speaker 1: think because they know it's all about them, like the

1193
00:57:29,160 --> 00:57:33,440
Speaker 1: power trips go insane. Yeah, but I'm gonna take a

1194
00:57:33,480 --> 00:57:36,360
Speaker 1: second to go on my own power trip wow and

1195
00:57:37,000 --> 00:57:39,960
Speaker 1: tell you this next story. Oh, let's go my annoying

1196
00:57:40,040 --> 00:57:42,800
Speaker 1: step mom keep trying to adopt me. I told her,

1197
00:57:43,080 --> 00:57:46,320
Speaker 1: I don't want to be adopted. Leave me alone. Am

1198
00:57:46,360 --> 00:57:48,520
Speaker 1: I the asshole? Maybe you don't want to be adopted

1199
00:57:48,520 --> 00:57:51,160
Speaker 1: by the stepmom, but you know there's some other things

1200
00:57:51,160 --> 00:57:53,960
Speaker 1: that can be done with adopt part of me. Who

1201
00:57:54,200 --> 00:57:59,920
Speaker 1: maybe what's some moms? Stepmom? What are you doing? Yeah? Stepmom?

1202
00:58:00,000 --> 00:58:02,640
Speaker 1: Why are you always getting stuck in the washing machine?

1203
00:58:02,840 --> 00:58:06,000
Speaker 1: Oh god, why don't you step into my room? My

1204
00:58:06,080 --> 00:58:08,280
Speaker 1: mom died when I was six years old. Yeah, how

1205
00:58:08,320 --> 00:58:09,160
Speaker 1: do you feel now, John?

1206
00:58:09,280 --> 00:58:11,680
Speaker 2: I feel great? I feel amazing.

1207
00:58:11,880 --> 00:58:14,840
Speaker 1: My dad ended up turning to one of his good friends, Anna,

1208
00:58:15,080 --> 00:58:17,080
Speaker 1: and they ended up getting married when I was seven.

1209
00:58:17,200 --> 00:58:20,120
Speaker 1: Pretty quick, you turn quick and deep balls deep into Anna.

1210
00:58:20,000 --> 00:58:21,640
Speaker 2: And he said he usually doesn't turn this quick.

1211
00:58:21,720 --> 00:58:23,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I take a lot longer, but like, you're so pretty.

1212
00:58:23,840 --> 00:58:26,920
Speaker 1: Anna couldn't. I couldn't help myself apologize. I didn't mean

1213
00:58:27,000 --> 00:58:29,760
Speaker 1: for my sweetness to explode in that way. No. Anna

1214
00:58:29,800 --> 00:58:32,040
Speaker 1: brought up the idea of adopting me the day of

1215
00:58:32,080 --> 00:58:34,120
Speaker 1: the wedding. It was something my dad was all for,

1216
00:58:34,520 --> 00:58:37,360
Speaker 1: but I went nuts when she mentioned it to me,

1217
00:58:37,440 --> 00:58:39,800
Speaker 1: and I kind of spoiled the rest of the wedding. Yikes.

1218
00:58:39,920 --> 00:58:42,000
Speaker 1: Imagine like you're trying to do this nice thing for

1219
00:58:42,040 --> 00:58:44,160
Speaker 1: your kid to be like, fuck you, you're trying to

1220
00:58:44,240 --> 00:58:46,360
Speaker 1: hook up with my dad and replace my mom.

1221
00:58:46,480 --> 00:58:47,840
Speaker 2: My mom was better in bed anyway.

1222
00:58:48,000 --> 00:58:50,600
Speaker 1: I would know. I heard the sounds I was birthed

1223
00:58:50,600 --> 00:58:53,320
Speaker 1: through her tight lips, and I know you gotta flop,

1224
00:58:53,320 --> 00:58:56,080
Speaker 1: you wizards, leeve flopping. Can't have a baby just fall

1225
00:58:56,160 --> 00:59:00,520
Speaker 1: right out? Yeah, oh bucket pussy like a dog in

1226
00:59:00,560 --> 00:59:02,680
Speaker 1: a cave over there. For the next year, we did

1227
00:59:02,720 --> 00:59:05,520
Speaker 1: this really intense therapy where I was told over and

1228
00:59:05,640 --> 00:59:08,840
Speaker 1: over by the therapist and them that I needed a mom,

1229
00:59:08,920 --> 00:59:10,960
Speaker 1: that it would provide safety for me, and that it

1230
00:59:11,000 --> 00:59:14,120
Speaker 1: was not a betrayal of my mom to accept another

1231
00:59:14,200 --> 00:59:17,200
Speaker 1: loving mom into my life. The therapist put the recommendation

1232
00:59:17,280 --> 00:59:19,160
Speaker 1: into the court to approve it, but when the judges

1233
00:59:19,200 --> 00:59:21,480
Speaker 1: spoke to me, I told him that I would run

1234
00:59:21,560 --> 00:59:24,760
Speaker 1: away and I would do everything to never come back.

1235
00:59:24,840 --> 00:59:28,920
Speaker 1: I was eight at the time, and I meant business, Oh, yeah,

1236
00:59:28,960 --> 00:59:30,920
Speaker 1: this is like an intense eight year old burial. This

1237
00:59:31,000 --> 00:59:34,080
Speaker 1: is like a Macaulay Cocin type like, yeah, it's like, dude,

1238
00:59:34,080 --> 00:59:35,720
Speaker 1: I'm going to set this whole place on fire, burn

1239
00:59:35,760 --> 00:59:37,160
Speaker 1: it down and hit you in the nuts with some

1240
00:59:37,200 --> 00:59:39,000
Speaker 1: marbles if you don't fucking give me my way.

1241
00:59:39,120 --> 00:59:41,160
Speaker 2: Damn, you just had that lock and loaded.

1242
00:59:41,280 --> 00:59:41,960
Speaker 1: That was yeah.

1243
00:59:41,960 --> 00:59:43,800
Speaker 2: I gave you the alley you, but you just broke

1244
00:59:43,880 --> 00:59:44,640
Speaker 2: the backboard.

1245
00:59:44,960 --> 00:59:47,200
Speaker 1: He asked me why I didn't want to be adopted,

1246
00:59:47,320 --> 00:59:49,600
Speaker 1: and he listened, and when he addressed the court again,

1247
00:59:49,720 --> 00:59:52,560
Speaker 1: he denied the adoption request and told my dad Nana

1248
00:59:52,600 --> 00:59:55,040
Speaker 1: that until I was on board, no adoption would be

1249
00:59:55,040 --> 00:59:57,920
Speaker 1: approved in his court. I didn't realize that the kids

1250
00:59:57,920 --> 00:59:59,840
Speaker 1: had like full veto power makes sense.

1251
01:00:00,040 --> 01:00:01,400
Speaker 2: I feel like I should take two to want to

1252
01:00:01,400 --> 01:00:04,000
Speaker 2: be adopted one hundred percent. I'm glad it's the thing

1253
01:00:04,000 --> 01:00:04,720
Speaker 2: I didn't know it was.

1254
01:00:04,880 --> 01:00:07,680
Speaker 1: They did try again, requesting a different judge, but received

1255
01:00:07,720 --> 01:00:11,040
Speaker 1: the same response. I was asked constantly to change my mind.

1256
01:00:11,120 --> 01:00:13,560
Speaker 1: Anna would put her all into trying to fill the

1257
01:00:13,600 --> 01:00:15,920
Speaker 1: place of a mom in my life. Every time I

1258
01:00:16,000 --> 01:00:18,240
Speaker 1: told her she could never be my mom, she took

1259
01:00:18,280 --> 01:00:20,600
Speaker 1: it as a challenge to try harder and be better.

1260
01:00:20,640 --> 01:00:23,360
Speaker 1: She would dedicate so much time to be it was crazy.

1261
01:00:23,440 --> 01:00:26,320
Speaker 1: I never appreciated it because instead of just being Anna,

1262
01:00:26,440 --> 01:00:28,560
Speaker 1: instead of my dad telling her to just be Anna.

1263
01:00:28,720 --> 01:00:31,439
Speaker 1: She saw mom as the only thing she wanted, even

1264
01:00:31,440 --> 01:00:33,400
Speaker 1: when she had kids of her own. I was their

1265
01:00:33,480 --> 01:00:36,479
Speaker 1: oldest son. I was her son, her boy. She call

1266
01:00:36,680 --> 01:00:40,520
Speaker 1: herself a boy mom, et cetera, whereas I never once

1267
01:00:40,640 --> 01:00:44,400
Speaker 1: called her mom. Ooh sorry, Anna, got a little present

1268
01:00:44,480 --> 01:00:47,920
Speaker 1: for you, Mom. You know would be even better calling

1269
01:00:47,920 --> 01:00:51,240
Speaker 1: her a mat made. There we go. William Osmond says

1270
01:00:51,240 --> 01:00:54,720
Speaker 1: something funny. He calls his girlfriend his like he calls

1271
01:00:54,720 --> 01:00:57,200
Speaker 1: his girlfriend caretaker. I just thought of one. But should

1272
01:00:57,240 --> 01:00:59,560
Speaker 1: I say it? Say it sausage holder, nothing but my

1273
01:00:59,600 --> 01:01:02,120
Speaker 1: father's sausage told her, if we're being honest, I don't

1274
01:01:02,160 --> 01:01:05,600
Speaker 1: even love her after all these years. I see her

1275
01:01:05,680 --> 01:01:08,520
Speaker 1: more as an intrusive family member who won't stop. My

1276
01:01:08,640 --> 01:01:11,240
Speaker 1: relationship with my dad is also not the best, because

1277
01:01:11,520 --> 01:01:13,480
Speaker 1: I don't like that he wouldn't take no for an answer,

1278
01:01:13,640 --> 01:01:15,800
Speaker 1: that he was so quick to try to push an adoption,

1279
01:01:15,960 --> 01:01:18,320
Speaker 1: even after I told him I would rather be with

1280
01:01:18,400 --> 01:01:21,120
Speaker 1: grandparents or an aunt or uncle or a close family

1281
01:01:21,160 --> 01:01:24,200
Speaker 1: friend Anna if he died. He insisted being with Anna

1282
01:01:24,320 --> 01:01:26,080
Speaker 1: and her being my mom was best for me. I

1283
01:01:26,120 --> 01:01:28,640
Speaker 1: turned eighteen a few months ago, and I ran, like

1284
01:01:28,680 --> 01:01:31,400
Speaker 1: my ass was on fire to get away from Dad

1285
01:01:31,440 --> 01:01:33,680
Speaker 1: and Anna. I lived with my maternal grandparents for a

1286
01:01:33,680 --> 01:01:36,560
Speaker 1: while before moving in with my maternal uncle, who lived

1287
01:01:36,560 --> 01:01:38,800
Speaker 1: near a really good apprenticeship I wanted to join. My

1288
01:01:38,840 --> 01:01:42,360
Speaker 1: paternal grandparents celebrated their wedding anniversary this past weekend, and

1289
01:01:42,400 --> 01:01:44,880
Speaker 1: I was there. While there, Anna approached me, handing me

1290
01:01:44,920 --> 01:01:47,920
Speaker 1: papers for an adult adoption. She told me she loved

1291
01:01:47,960 --> 01:01:49,920
Speaker 1: me and she wanted me to know it was not

1292
01:01:50,200 --> 01:01:53,200
Speaker 1: too late. Fucking take a hint, Anna, Come on, Anna,

1293
01:01:53,360 --> 01:01:55,920
Speaker 1: take ahead. If I wanted you, I'll get you in

1294
01:01:55,960 --> 01:01:58,240
Speaker 1: a different way. Yeah, yeah, Anna, I don't want to

1295
01:01:58,320 --> 01:02:01,640
Speaker 1: be your son. I want to be your man.

1296
01:02:01,800 --> 01:02:05,200
Speaker 2: You can't adopt me, but you can adopt my Paenis.

1297
01:02:04,600 --> 01:02:08,040
Speaker 1: You got two hands? You can hold two sausages. Uh, oh, sausage,

1298
01:02:08,080 --> 01:02:10,440
Speaker 1: hold the times? Woo? What if he just got her

1299
01:02:10,480 --> 01:02:13,360
Speaker 1: pregnant as revenge. I don't know how that's revenge, but

1300
01:02:13,440 --> 01:02:16,560
Speaker 1: it is. Somehow, somehow, it somehow work. Oops, I'm sorry.

1301
01:02:16,680 --> 01:02:18,160
Speaker 1: I meant to pull out. Here we go.

1302
01:02:18,280 --> 01:02:20,200
Speaker 2: You will never be my mom, but you can.

1303
01:02:20,200 --> 01:02:23,960
Speaker 1: Be my wife. You can't be the mom to my son. Yeah,

1304
01:02:24,000 --> 01:02:26,800
Speaker 1: that will create together, that's right. I asked her. How

1305
01:02:26,880 --> 01:02:29,600
Speaker 1: delusional could he be. When I said no to being

1306
01:02:29,640 --> 01:02:32,440
Speaker 1: adopted for eleven years now, I told her I would

1307
01:02:32,480 --> 01:02:34,760
Speaker 1: not change my mind and I will never She and

1308
01:02:34,800 --> 01:02:37,400
Speaker 1: my dad were pissed at my choice of words, and

1309
01:02:37,480 --> 01:02:41,160
Speaker 1: chaos ensued at the party. So am I the asshole

1310
01:02:41,160 --> 01:02:44,760
Speaker 1: at the which party? Wedding anniversary? Got it? Well, we

1311
01:02:44,800 --> 01:02:46,640
Speaker 1: want to know what you all think. Please share your

1312
01:02:46,640 --> 01:02:48,760
Speaker 1: comments below if you think Op is Ahle or not?

1313
01:02:48,920 --> 01:02:51,560
Speaker 2: And also would you let us adopt you?

1314
01:02:51,680 --> 01:02:54,520
Speaker 1: Oh? Yeah, we actually what if we just literally adopted

1315
01:02:54,520 --> 01:02:56,440
Speaker 1: like a thousand of our fans and we just had

1316
01:02:56,480 --> 01:02:59,440
Speaker 1: like the big the actual OKOP fan whoa if you

1317
01:02:59,480 --> 01:03:01,480
Speaker 1: want to be a opted by us, but I want

1318
01:03:01,520 --> 01:03:04,400
Speaker 1: you to be my daddy in the comments, Oh, you'll

1319
01:03:04,400 --> 01:03:05,320
Speaker 1: get a lot of those.

1320
01:03:05,640 --> 01:03:09,680
Speaker 2: Come to Bali. He's over in Bali by the way.

1321
01:03:09,680 --> 01:03:13,120
Speaker 2: He's booked until September eighteenth, but after that he is free.

1322
01:03:15,200 --> 01:03:18,240
Speaker 1: Call her at your boy. Here's my question though, like,

1323
01:03:18,360 --> 01:03:20,520
Speaker 1: remember we had a story recently where it was like, oh,

1324
01:03:20,560 --> 01:03:23,160
Speaker 1: we found out that like the step mom is actually

1325
01:03:23,200 --> 01:03:26,200
Speaker 1: like a big asshole, you know, whereas it didn't see

1326
01:03:26,200 --> 01:03:28,919
Speaker 1: that way in the story. Did we get any evidence that,

1327
01:03:29,080 --> 01:03:31,080
Speaker 1: did we get any bad vibes? Or we didn't get

1328
01:03:31,080 --> 01:03:33,680
Speaker 1: any bad vibes except like she really wanted to be

1329
01:03:33,880 --> 01:03:36,560
Speaker 1: Opie's mom and like wouldn't accept any other position in

1330
01:03:36,560 --> 01:03:39,440
Speaker 1: his life. I think it was probably just being too forceful. Hey,

1331
01:03:39,920 --> 01:03:41,439
Speaker 1: you know, like it could have been good, right, Yeah,

1332
01:03:41,520 --> 01:03:43,280
Speaker 1: if she took that energy be like, hey, I'm going

1333
01:03:43,320 --> 01:03:44,960
Speaker 1: to be a great mom to this kid, but I'm

1334
01:03:44,960 --> 01:03:46,280
Speaker 1: not going to try to push him. I'm not going

1335
01:03:46,320 --> 01:03:48,240
Speaker 1: to make it. I'm not going to put any labels

1336
01:03:48,240 --> 01:03:50,840
Speaker 1: on it. Yeah yeah, yeah, so it could be mom,

1337
01:03:50,880 --> 01:03:55,480
Speaker 1: it could be a lover, you know, like yeah, you

1338
01:03:55,480 --> 01:03:59,280
Speaker 1: feel me out, oh god, But yeah it's op They

1339
01:03:59,800 --> 01:04:01,680
Speaker 1: like because OPI made a big scene at the wedding.

1340
01:04:02,000 --> 01:04:04,240
Speaker 1: Maybe a little yeah, a little little bit maybe maybe

1341
01:04:04,240 --> 01:04:06,400
Speaker 1: it's like I feel it still feels a little childish

1342
01:04:06,480 --> 01:04:08,400
Speaker 1: to be like so like, you're not my mom.

1343
01:04:08,680 --> 01:04:10,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're not my momm You will never be my mom.

1344
01:04:10,600 --> 01:04:12,760
Speaker 1: He's now a p he's an adult. Yeah, he's like eighteen,

1345
01:04:12,880 --> 01:04:14,800
Speaker 1: Like you know, fuck, you know, get over it. I

1346
01:04:14,840 --> 01:04:16,600
Speaker 1: mean eighteen is still kind of young, but like, oh,

1347
01:04:16,640 --> 01:04:20,120
Speaker 1: it's an illegal adult. You're legally allowed to be mature

1348
01:04:20,360 --> 01:04:20,720
Speaker 1: right now.

1349
01:04:20,760 --> 01:04:23,840
Speaker 2: If you can legally bang your step mom, just be courteous.

1350
01:04:24,000 --> 01:04:26,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, come on, play the long game here. Yeah, that's

1351
01:04:26,520 --> 01:04:28,640
Speaker 1: what I'm talking about. Because you got that long game

1352
01:04:28,760 --> 01:04:30,640
Speaker 1: or maybe that short game. It's either motion or the

1353
01:04:30,680 --> 01:04:33,520
Speaker 1: ocean or explosion and erosion. Yep, with that, let's get

1354
01:04:33,520 --> 01:04:36,120
Speaker 1: into the next story. Let's do it. My mom banned

1355
01:04:36,120 --> 01:04:38,480
Speaker 1: me from going to Disneyland just because I want to

1356
01:04:38,560 --> 01:04:40,680
Speaker 1: abandon my brother. Am I the a.

1357
01:04:40,760 --> 01:04:43,880
Speaker 2: Whole Disneyland is worth abandoning your whole family for?

1358
01:04:44,120 --> 01:04:46,800
Speaker 1: Really? I agree? Yeah? Yeah, that's what Walt Disney would

1359
01:04:46,800 --> 01:04:50,040
Speaker 1: have wanted. Really, he's in his cryogenic chamber right now,

1360
01:04:50,200 --> 01:04:52,720
Speaker 1: wishing for you to abandon your family so you can

1361
01:04:52,840 --> 01:04:55,919
Speaker 1: pledge your allegiance to the Disney warlarts. I guess by

1362
01:04:55,960 --> 01:04:59,120
Speaker 1: freezing himself he did technically abandon his family. He did,

1363
01:04:59,160 --> 01:05:01,760
Speaker 1: you know, it's like I freeze myself over here, not like,

1364
01:05:01,880 --> 01:05:04,200
Speaker 1: why not freeze them with you? Like exactly, freeze the

1365
01:05:04,200 --> 01:05:06,880
Speaker 1: whole family. Yeah, freeze the family. That's the motto. So

1366
01:05:07,200 --> 01:05:10,440
Speaker 1: my sixteen female parents didn't have much time for me

1367
01:05:10,640 --> 01:05:13,360
Speaker 1: after my brother nine male was born, and it got

1368
01:05:13,400 --> 01:05:16,120
Speaker 1: even worse after he was diagnosed with autism when he

1369
01:05:16,200 --> 01:05:18,479
Speaker 1: was three. My dad is rarely home and my mom

1370
01:05:18,520 --> 01:05:20,840
Speaker 1: is always busy with my brother, so neither of them

1371
01:05:20,840 --> 01:05:23,240
Speaker 1: have time for me. I've known my best friend Rachel

1372
01:05:23,400 --> 01:05:26,160
Speaker 1: since we were in kindergarten. Her mom is the nicest

1373
01:05:26,200 --> 01:05:29,200
Speaker 1: person I've ever met. Rachel and I played soccer, but

1374
01:05:29,240 --> 01:05:31,960
Speaker 1: my mom was rarely able to take me to practices

1375
01:05:32,000 --> 01:05:34,920
Speaker 1: and games, so Rachel's mom would always take me. That's sweet. Yeah,

1376
01:05:34,960 --> 01:05:36,960
Speaker 1: that's nice. Yeah. I used to be in the school

1377
01:05:37,040 --> 01:05:40,280
Speaker 1: choir and my parents went to like one performance during

1378
01:05:40,280 --> 01:05:41,720
Speaker 1: the six years I did it. I love how the

1379
01:05:41,720 --> 01:05:43,920
Speaker 1: teenage speak is coming to that they only went to

1380
01:05:44,040 --> 01:05:45,320
Speaker 1: like one.

1381
01:05:45,120 --> 01:05:48,920
Speaker 2: Performance in the whole six years on like get It Together.

1382
01:05:49,000 --> 01:05:51,120
Speaker 1: Pheyer is the support. Oh my god. Those are just

1383
01:05:51,160 --> 01:05:54,000
Speaker 1: a few examples. But Rachel's mom has always been there

1384
01:05:54,000 --> 01:05:56,560
Speaker 1: for me when my parents weren't available. My mom never

1385
01:05:56,600 --> 01:05:58,840
Speaker 1: really cares what I'm doing unless she needs me to

1386
01:05:58,880 --> 01:06:00,720
Speaker 1: watch my brother. So I spent a lot of time

1387
01:06:00,720 --> 01:06:03,200
Speaker 1: at Rachel's house. Once I spent a whole weekend there

1388
01:06:03,280 --> 01:06:05,440
Speaker 1: and my mom didn't even call to ask where I

1389
01:06:05,560 --> 01:06:09,360
Speaker 1: was at. Oh, I'm sorry. That sucks. Rachel's family goes

1390
01:06:09,400 --> 01:06:11,440
Speaker 1: on a lot of vacations and they often take me.

1391
01:06:11,560 --> 01:06:13,160
Speaker 2: Damn at least you have a better family.

1392
01:06:14,320 --> 01:06:14,560
Speaker 1: Jeez.

1393
01:06:14,800 --> 01:06:17,920
Speaker 2: Rachel's family is a real MVP here. Yeah, yeah, especial

1394
01:06:17,920 --> 01:06:19,680
Speaker 2: seems like they just adopted.

1395
01:06:19,200 --> 01:06:22,560
Speaker 1: Op Basically, they're going to Disney World during Thanksgiving break

1396
01:06:22,600 --> 01:06:24,040
Speaker 1: and invited me to come with them.

1397
01:06:24,200 --> 01:06:27,240
Speaker 2: I asked my dad and he said I could go. Okay,

1398
01:06:27,280 --> 01:06:29,640
Speaker 2: so you got an approval from your terrible parents.

1399
01:06:29,640 --> 01:06:32,880
Speaker 1: Everything sounds good. They've already planned and booked everything, and

1400
01:06:32,920 --> 01:06:35,760
Speaker 1: I'm really excited. I've been to Disneyland once with my

1401
01:06:35,840 --> 01:06:38,439
Speaker 1: family and it was horrible. My brother threw a huge

1402
01:06:38,480 --> 01:06:40,560
Speaker 1: tantrum on the first day because you wanted to go

1403
01:06:40,560 --> 01:06:43,040
Speaker 1: on the ride alone and sit in between mom and dad,

1404
01:06:43,120 --> 01:06:45,000
Speaker 1: so I had to stay at the hotel most of

1405
01:06:45,040 --> 01:06:49,760
Speaker 1: the time. Oh man, that's that sucks so much. That's

1406
01:06:49,880 --> 01:06:53,880
Speaker 1: that's really tough. But I'm sorry, Ophie, that damn Yeah.

1407
01:06:53,920 --> 01:06:56,200
Speaker 1: And like as Opie didn't mention the age, but like

1408
01:06:56,320 --> 01:06:58,520
Speaker 1: I imagine pretty young. You know, you're a little kid

1409
01:06:58,520 --> 01:07:00,760
Speaker 1: and you have to like sit at the hotel by yourself.

1410
01:07:00,800 --> 01:07:03,840
Speaker 1: That sucks. That sucks. Yeah. My brother found out that

1411
01:07:03,840 --> 01:07:07,080
Speaker 1: I'm going to Disney and he had a really big meltdown.

1412
01:07:07,200 --> 01:07:09,720
Speaker 1: He loves Disney and he was mad that I was

1413
01:07:09,760 --> 01:07:12,120
Speaker 1: going without him. My mom told me that she was

1414
01:07:12,160 --> 01:07:14,760
Speaker 1: planning to go to Washington to visit my grandparents. My

1415
01:07:14,880 --> 01:07:17,520
Speaker 1: dad didn't say anything about that, so I'm pretty sure

1416
01:07:17,640 --> 01:07:19,880
Speaker 1: she just made that up to stop me from going.

1417
01:07:20,040 --> 01:07:23,400
Speaker 1: Oh so they're like, you're not going to Disney World anymore.

1418
01:07:23,520 --> 01:07:25,880
Speaker 1: You're going to Washington to see your grandparents.

1419
01:07:26,040 --> 01:07:27,400
Speaker 2: That's so shitty, dude.

1420
01:07:27,600 --> 01:07:30,240
Speaker 1: Like the other family, we have some fun, literally, and

1421
01:07:30,400 --> 01:07:33,440
Speaker 1: like from what we can infer, the other family is

1422
01:07:33,480 --> 01:07:35,880
Speaker 1: paying for it. They're taking care of her, the watching her.

1423
01:07:36,040 --> 01:07:38,520
Speaker 1: Like what are we doing here? We're trying to destroy

1424
01:07:38,680 --> 01:07:41,600
Speaker 1: joy apparently. And even if they are going, I don't

1425
01:07:41,640 --> 01:07:44,240
Speaker 1: want to go to Disney World my best friend see

1426
01:07:44,240 --> 01:07:47,120
Speaker 1: my grandparents. Yeah, they're not quite on the same level.

1427
01:07:47,200 --> 01:07:50,000
Speaker 2: Sorry, Grandma, you ain't got a lightning pass.

1428
01:07:50,240 --> 01:07:54,160
Speaker 1: Maybe fast straight fast passed straight to the grave. Booh,

1429
01:07:54,440 --> 01:07:58,000
Speaker 1: that's right, I want you to skip that line. Oh man,

1430
01:07:58,200 --> 01:08:00,720
Speaker 1: I don't want to go on a fourteen our car

1431
01:08:00,800 --> 01:08:03,280
Speaker 1: ride with my brother, and I'm pretty sure when we

1432
01:08:03,320 --> 01:08:05,360
Speaker 1: get there, they're either going to make me stay with

1433
01:08:05,440 --> 01:08:07,640
Speaker 1: him while they go out or take him and leave

1434
01:08:07,680 --> 01:08:10,240
Speaker 1: me alone in the hotel. I also won't be allowed

1435
01:08:10,240 --> 01:08:13,000
Speaker 1: to go out on my own. Oh yeah, that's just

1436
01:08:13,000 --> 01:08:16,840
Speaker 1: being left hold sixteen. No, yeah, she told me that

1437
01:08:16,920 --> 01:08:19,080
Speaker 1: I need to think about my brother and his feelings

1438
01:08:19,120 --> 01:08:23,160
Speaker 1: are more important than mine because because he's younger and

1439
01:08:23,320 --> 01:08:25,840
Speaker 1: is autistic. Bro, no one's feelings are more important than

1440
01:08:25,880 --> 01:08:26,960
Speaker 1: anyone else's feelings.

1441
01:08:27,040 --> 01:08:29,639
Speaker 2: Speak that speak, talk that talk. Come on, there we.

1442
01:08:29,600 --> 01:08:33,040
Speaker 1: Go, Like, just because he's young and he's going to

1443
01:08:33,120 --> 01:08:38,200
Speaker 1: say young and dumb, but that's probably not appropriate. Like

1444
01:08:38,560 --> 01:08:44,439
Speaker 1: my podcast, I was not because I was saying because

1445
01:08:44,479 --> 01:08:46,800
Speaker 1: he's autistic. Just like because you know.

1446
01:08:46,840 --> 01:08:50,080
Speaker 2: What, what are you saying? Can you break it down?

1447
01:08:50,160 --> 01:08:53,000
Speaker 1: So could you let's sit down and really know I'm

1448
01:08:53,040 --> 01:08:55,759
Speaker 1: just playing with you. Continue. Yeah, just because he's autistic

1449
01:08:55,760 --> 01:08:58,000
Speaker 1: doesn't mean that he has better feelings than her. Here's

1450
01:08:58,000 --> 01:09:00,120
Speaker 1: the thing. Okay, they have to deal with their on

1451
01:09:00,200 --> 01:09:03,400
Speaker 1: stantrum fair, that's not nothing, but literally, this other family

1452
01:09:03,479 --> 01:09:07,080
Speaker 1: is giving your daughter this whole vacation, all this time

1453
01:09:07,160 --> 01:09:09,879
Speaker 1: now to spend with the one kid or up the ante.

1454
01:09:09,920 --> 01:09:11,920
Speaker 1: You can go on your own vacation and then be

1455
01:09:12,000 --> 01:09:14,559
Speaker 1: able to spend all your time with him, which seems

1456
01:09:14,600 --> 01:09:17,040
Speaker 1: like that make him happy. Anyway, You don't have to

1457
01:09:17,040 --> 01:09:18,760
Speaker 1: put me in the hotel room. I'll be over here

1458
01:09:18,760 --> 01:09:20,880
Speaker 1: at Disneyland. Haven't found you don't have to lock me

1459
01:09:20,960 --> 01:09:23,519
Speaker 1: in the freaking cage. My parents, it sounds like they

1460
01:09:23,560 --> 01:09:26,599
Speaker 1: don't know how to prioritize or bounce their children at all. Yeah.

1461
01:09:26,680 --> 01:09:28,960
Speaker 1: I told her that I honestly don't give a foot

1462
01:09:29,040 --> 01:09:33,840
Speaker 1: about my brother's feelings, and I wish he was never born.

1463
01:09:34,200 --> 01:09:36,839
Speaker 2: Yikes, All right, lying.

1464
01:09:36,680 --> 01:09:40,639
Speaker 1: Cross, Okay, okay, okay, okay, we got some We got

1465
01:09:40,680 --> 01:09:46,719
Speaker 1: the teenage think really really really really strong. Oh my god,

1466
01:09:47,800 --> 01:09:52,240
Speaker 1: he was there when I said all this, Oh god

1467
01:09:53,160 --> 01:09:58,120
Speaker 1: in the corner. Oh god, o Pop.

1468
01:09:58,439 --> 01:10:00,920
Speaker 2: We were on your side, op we were.

1469
01:10:01,000 --> 01:10:03,880
Speaker 1: Ruining for you, were all the way there, and he

1470
01:10:03,960 --> 01:10:06,679
Speaker 1: took us all the way back. Okay, he's disappointed us, Opie.

1471
01:10:06,720 --> 01:10:09,639
Speaker 1: We're not mad, we're just disappointed. Yeah, we're the real

1472
01:10:09,720 --> 01:10:12,600
Speaker 1: parents that you know you should have tried to. We

1473
01:10:12,640 --> 01:10:14,880
Speaker 1: were thinking about adopting you. Now we're casting you to

1474
01:10:14,880 --> 01:10:17,600
Speaker 1: the streets not anymore. And now he's been crying and

1475
01:10:17,640 --> 01:10:20,120
Speaker 1: screaming for the last three hours, and it's giving me

1476
01:10:20,200 --> 01:10:22,599
Speaker 1: a headache. Man's got stamina also, She's like, she's cried

1477
01:10:22,600 --> 01:10:23,840
Speaker 1: for the last three hours and it has been giving

1478
01:10:23,880 --> 01:10:25,760
Speaker 1: me such a headache. It's like, I mean, if you

1479
01:10:25,800 --> 01:10:28,360
Speaker 1: tell someone you wish I'd never been born, that will

1480
01:10:28,439 --> 01:10:32,960
Speaker 1: upset anybody. I'm sorry. Yeah, my mom has been trying

1481
01:10:33,000 --> 01:10:36,160
Speaker 1: to calm him down, and my dad said that he'll

1482
01:10:36,240 --> 01:10:39,439
Speaker 1: still let me go because he understands I'm frustrated. He

1483
01:10:39,520 --> 01:10:42,479
Speaker 1: also grew up with neurodivergent siblings, so he knows what

1484
01:10:42,520 --> 01:10:46,200
Speaker 1: it's like. Okay, interesting this, There is like some empathy here. Yeah,

1485
01:10:46,200 --> 01:10:48,599
Speaker 1: that's like the first time that I think we've noticed that. Right.

1486
01:10:48,720 --> 01:10:51,720
Speaker 1: My mom said that I'm a rude, ungrateful brat and

1487
01:10:51,800 --> 01:10:54,439
Speaker 1: I need to be kinder to my brother. Am I

1488
01:10:54,640 --> 01:10:59,160
Speaker 1: the a hole? There is an edit with some additional context,

1489
01:10:59,200 --> 01:11:01,280
Speaker 1: et cetera. But let me know, watch you all think

1490
01:11:01,280 --> 01:11:03,519
Speaker 1: in the comments so far, is OP the ahle or not?

1491
01:11:03,720 --> 01:11:06,680
Speaker 1: I think OPS a hole for the issue and ever

1492
01:11:06,720 --> 01:11:09,880
Speaker 1: born and for sure, Yeah, but I also think like

1493
01:11:09,920 --> 01:11:13,240
Speaker 1: Op's being put in this like really weird situation where

1494
01:11:13,280 --> 01:11:16,160
Speaker 1: like the parents are putting so much time and effort

1495
01:11:16,200 --> 01:11:19,000
Speaker 1: to make sure that the other kid feels okay, and

1496
01:11:19,080 --> 01:11:22,519
Speaker 1: there's just like no effort and time and courtesy put

1497
01:11:22,560 --> 01:11:24,160
Speaker 1: on OP. I don't know, It's a really hard thing

1498
01:11:24,200 --> 01:11:27,240
Speaker 1: to balance when you have a kid that needs more attention. Yeah, Like,

1499
01:11:27,400 --> 01:11:30,640
Speaker 1: to be fair, already having children is exhausting, right to

1500
01:11:30,720 --> 01:11:33,759
Speaker 1: have a child that is neurodivergent, there's a lot more

1501
01:11:33,920 --> 01:11:35,920
Speaker 1: care that needs to be put into that. And it's like,

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01:11:36,040 --> 01:11:37,960
Speaker 1: I totally get that that's a lot and probably very

1503
01:11:38,000 --> 01:11:41,240
Speaker 1: hard to balance. But it seems like from what we

1504
01:11:41,280 --> 01:11:44,760
Speaker 1: can infer, especially the mom is just like this is

1505
01:11:44,840 --> 01:11:48,080
Speaker 1: completely catering to the other. K. Yeah, I'm curious for

1506
01:11:48,120 --> 01:11:51,760
Speaker 1: anyone who grew up with like a neurodivergent sibling, or

1507
01:11:51,760 --> 01:11:54,360
Speaker 1: if you've seen this situation happen, like how it has unfolded,

1508
01:11:54,439 --> 01:11:56,920
Speaker 1: what are the worst cases of you know, how it

1509
01:11:56,960 --> 01:11:59,400
Speaker 1: was managed, and what are the best cases? This seems

1510
01:11:59,439 --> 01:12:01,639
Speaker 1: to be in the world category. Deems like it okay,

1511
01:12:01,640 --> 01:12:03,479
Speaker 1: so what's this edit? There is an edit. I was

1512
01:12:03,479 --> 01:12:07,000
Speaker 1: eleven when the Disneyland incident occurred. My brother was mostly

1513
01:12:07,040 --> 01:12:10,120
Speaker 1: nonverbal then, but when we were about to leave the hotel,

1514
01:12:10,320 --> 01:12:13,280
Speaker 1: he screamed and was saying no while pointing at me.

1515
01:12:13,439 --> 01:12:15,880
Speaker 1: My parents calmed him down briefly, but when we got

1516
01:12:15,920 --> 01:12:18,479
Speaker 1: on our first ride, he started screaming again, so my

1517
01:12:18,560 --> 01:12:20,960
Speaker 1: parents told me to go back to the hotel. Okay,

1518
01:12:21,000 --> 01:12:23,759
Speaker 1: so I guess in trying to understand what he wants,

1519
01:12:23,800 --> 01:12:26,000
Speaker 1: they were like, oh, he just doesn't want you here.

1520
01:12:26,080 --> 01:12:28,519
Speaker 2: He wasn't able to verbally communicate it, but he's like,

1521
01:12:28,560 --> 01:12:31,720
Speaker 2: get the fuck out of here. Yeah GTFO sis kind

1522
01:12:31,760 --> 01:12:33,960
Speaker 2: of asshole, move on the nerd divergent Ki.

1523
01:12:35,600 --> 01:12:39,240
Speaker 1: Sam's like, this kid is a total asshole. He's nine now,

1524
01:12:39,439 --> 01:12:41,479
Speaker 1: so he was like a very young child.

1525
01:12:41,640 --> 01:12:42,879
Speaker 2: Can we see thatalon asshole?

1526
01:12:42,880 --> 01:12:45,840
Speaker 1: Though everyone in the comments can say, can I call

1527
01:12:45,920 --> 01:12:48,400
Speaker 1: hi an asshole? That is a question? Can Sam calmann asshole?

1528
01:12:48,479 --> 01:12:52,240
Speaker 1: I'm not asking, but Sam's asking. I'm asking as I

1529
01:12:52,240 --> 01:12:54,680
Speaker 1: think you can call any toddler and asshole if they're

1530
01:12:54,720 --> 01:12:56,960
Speaker 1: being an asshole? Can you call a nerd divergent toddler

1531
01:12:57,000 --> 01:12:58,840
Speaker 1: an asshole if he's being an asshole.

1532
01:12:58,520 --> 01:13:00,960
Speaker 2: At a bare minimum, it's un to the sister.

1533
01:13:01,000 --> 01:13:03,760
Speaker 1: Yeah right, Yeah, he's singling his sister out, especially being

1534
01:13:03,760 --> 01:13:06,200
Speaker 1: locked and literally making his sister be locked into a

1535
01:13:06,280 --> 01:13:07,519
Speaker 1: room because he doesn't want to go on a ride

1536
01:13:07,520 --> 01:13:10,439
Speaker 1: with her. Yeah, well the parents. Yeah, I mean, like

1537
01:13:10,520 --> 01:13:11,920
Speaker 1: I get what you're saying. Let's say him know in

1538
01:13:11,960 --> 01:13:14,719
Speaker 1: the comments, everybody, can I call this kid an asshole? Danny,

1539
01:13:14,800 --> 01:13:16,800
Speaker 1: tell me why I'm wrong or why I'm right. By

1540
01:13:16,840 --> 01:13:18,840
Speaker 1: the way, if you're listening on the podcast right now,

1541
01:13:18,960 --> 01:13:22,360
Speaker 1: I just realized that people are commenting on the Spotify

1542
01:13:22,439 --> 01:13:26,600
Speaker 1: episodes using the Q and a feature. Yes, yes, I

1543
01:13:26,640 --> 01:13:28,720
Speaker 1: forgot to shut that. So if you're on the Spotify,

1544
01:13:28,920 --> 01:13:31,120
Speaker 1: can you rate us five stars? Can you please? Could

1545
01:13:31,160 --> 01:13:33,000
Speaker 1: you do that right now? Can you rate us five stars?

1546
01:13:33,000 --> 01:13:35,080
Speaker 1: Because right now we're at like four point four.

1547
01:13:35,160 --> 01:13:37,840
Speaker 2: Guys, they're hating on us so hard. They don't love

1548
01:13:37,880 --> 01:13:39,160
Speaker 2: us like you five at least?

1549
01:13:39,280 --> 01:13:42,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, four point five? Four point five? How many seconds

1550
01:13:42,880 --> 01:13:45,880
Speaker 1: I last? I snuck out on the second day and

1551
01:13:46,080 --> 01:13:48,960
Speaker 1: I went on like two rides before I ran into

1552
01:13:49,040 --> 01:13:51,879
Speaker 1: my parents and they told me to go back because

1553
01:13:51,960 --> 01:13:54,680
Speaker 1: they didn't want me to be out there alone. Oh

1554
01:13:54,720 --> 01:13:56,160
Speaker 1: my gosh. She snuck out of the hotel going to

1555
01:13:56,320 --> 01:13:58,679
Speaker 1: right which, by the way, I one hundred percent would

1556
01:13:58,720 --> 01:13:59,080
Speaker 1: have done.

1557
01:13:59,200 --> 01:14:01,120
Speaker 2: I'm not like stay in a hotel room.

1558
01:14:00,960 --> 01:14:03,719
Speaker 1: But man, I feel bad for her. Dude at number three,

1559
01:14:03,840 --> 01:14:06,360
Speaker 1: I don't blame my brother for what happened at Disneyland.

1560
01:14:06,520 --> 01:14:10,720
Speaker 1: He was four. I blame my parents. I'm calling he's

1561
01:14:10,760 --> 01:14:13,720
Speaker 1: an asshole. He's an asshole. Samuel Donor. I blame my

1562
01:14:13,800 --> 01:14:16,639
Speaker 1: parents for not finding a better way to handle the situation.

1563
01:14:16,800 --> 01:14:19,400
Speaker 1: He was nonverbal at the time, but he can talk now.

1564
01:14:19,560 --> 01:14:22,840
Speaker 1: He isn't high functioning exactly, but he does understand what's

1565
01:14:22,880 --> 01:14:23,760
Speaker 1: going on around him.

1566
01:14:23,920 --> 01:14:26,439
Speaker 2: He has basic life skills, but can't be on his.

1567
01:14:26,400 --> 01:14:29,960
Speaker 1: Own for very long. So we have the full picture.

1568
01:14:30,120 --> 01:14:31,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, everyone's an asshole.

1569
01:14:31,320 --> 01:14:34,200
Speaker 1: Including the autistic brother. Yeah, that's my take. Samuel Donner

1570
01:14:34,320 --> 01:14:38,080
Speaker 1: is known for taking stands. Ye, every man will stand on,

1571
01:14:38,200 --> 01:14:41,479
Speaker 1: but Sam does brittle ground I'm standing on. Yeah, only

1572
01:14:41,760 --> 01:14:44,679
Speaker 1: enough room for me. Here's my question. Op is sixteen,

1573
01:14:44,920 --> 01:14:46,800
Speaker 1: still in high school, still at the parents' house. I

1574
01:14:46,800 --> 01:14:50,439
Speaker 1: would actually be curious for everyone who has neurodivergent siblings,

1575
01:14:50,560 --> 01:14:52,599
Speaker 1: or maybe he's in a similar situation. What's the best

1576
01:14:52,600 --> 01:14:54,800
Speaker 1: way for OP to sit down with her parents and

1577
01:14:54,920 --> 01:14:57,000
Speaker 1: talk to them about it and like how it makes

1578
01:14:57,000 --> 01:15:00,200
Speaker 1: her feel. This is obviously a very complicated situation, not

1579
01:15:00,240 --> 01:15:03,280
Speaker 1: as easy as just saying you're an asshole. Yes, I

1580
01:15:03,280 --> 01:15:06,840
Speaker 1: think this is I wish it was. I think there

1581
01:15:06,840 --> 01:15:08,680
Speaker 1: needs to be a couple of conversations which about how

1582
01:15:08,680 --> 01:15:10,960
Speaker 1: to balance this parenting because I don't think the parents

1583
01:15:10,960 --> 01:15:13,200
Speaker 1: are doing a good job of balancing the parenting between

1584
01:15:13,200 --> 01:15:13,759
Speaker 1: the two kids.

1585
01:15:13,840 --> 01:15:15,800
Speaker 2: Maybe the dad, but definitely the mom. It seems like

1586
01:15:15,840 --> 01:15:16,040
Speaker 2: it's not.

1587
01:15:16,160 --> 01:15:17,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I would love to know what you guys

1588
01:15:17,320 --> 01:15:18,800
Speaker 1: think what should be done. Put your answers in the

1589
01:15:18,800 --> 01:15:21,439
Speaker 1: comments below. I'm keeping the two hundred and fifty thousand

1590
01:15:21,479 --> 01:15:24,760
Speaker 1: dollars inheritance for myself. My sister's adopted, so it doesn't count.

1591
01:15:25,000 --> 01:15:28,759
Speaker 1: I'm ahole. Yeah, you know you already won the lottery

1592
01:15:28,840 --> 01:15:32,559
Speaker 1: once by being adopted. You think you deserve the money too, Sam,

1593
01:15:32,640 --> 01:15:35,840
Speaker 1: You know, I could have family, or I could have

1594
01:15:36,280 --> 01:15:39,679
Speaker 1: money to hire a family. I could hire a family

1595
01:15:39,760 --> 01:15:42,280
Speaker 1: and have some left over. I could hire a sister

1596
01:15:42,439 --> 01:15:45,719
Speaker 1: to laugh at all my jokes to always. You actually

1597
01:15:45,760 --> 01:15:48,720
Speaker 1: probably could, Like I talked to my sister probably like

1598
01:15:49,040 --> 01:15:51,960
Speaker 1: maybe fifteen to thirty minutes talk about it, you know,

1599
01:15:52,880 --> 01:15:56,080
Speaker 1: let's say fifteen to thirty minutes every two days. Yep.

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01:15:56,160 --> 01:15:59,200
Speaker 1: I could hire an actor probably for really twenty bucks

1601
01:15:59,320 --> 01:16:01,759
Speaker 1: an hour due two hundred and fifty k probably covers

1602
01:16:01,800 --> 01:16:04,479
Speaker 1: the rest of my life of talking to my sister.

1603
01:16:04,520 --> 01:16:08,000
Speaker 1: And and is this actor going to bregnant insults from

1604
01:16:08,000 --> 01:16:10,480
Speaker 1: your childhood ever talk back to you?

1605
01:16:10,520 --> 01:16:12,800
Speaker 2: No, exactly we just figured it out.

1606
01:16:12,880 --> 01:16:17,320
Speaker 1: Dude, hire family, fire your family, hire your family, make money,

1607
01:16:17,560 --> 01:16:19,840
Speaker 1: hire a new one. That's the way, baby. I thirty

1608
01:16:19,880 --> 01:16:22,599
Speaker 1: mail lost my mom when I was five. Despite being

1609
01:16:22,640 --> 01:16:25,439
Speaker 1: so young, I had a very vivid and treasured memory

1610
01:16:25,520 --> 01:16:28,200
Speaker 1: of my mom, and I did not take my dad

1611
01:16:28,360 --> 01:16:31,600
Speaker 1: dating a year after her death. Well, my dad recognized

1612
01:16:31,600 --> 01:16:33,439
Speaker 1: that he knew this would be hard for me, but

1613
01:16:33,520 --> 01:16:36,360
Speaker 1: said that as the parent slash adult, he knew what

1614
01:16:36,479 --> 01:16:39,479
Speaker 1: was best, even if it didn't seem that way at first,

1615
01:16:39,640 --> 01:16:42,280
Speaker 1: and that I would thank him in the long run. Yeah,

1616
01:16:42,320 --> 01:16:45,960
Speaker 1: you'll totally thank me for this, lady. It's not your

1617
01:16:46,080 --> 01:16:48,920
Speaker 1: dead mom. That is a wild thing to say. Yeah,

1618
01:16:48,960 --> 01:16:50,640
Speaker 1: I mean, like, all right, it's one thing about like

1619
01:16:50,640 --> 01:16:54,439
Speaker 1: cleaning your room or learning good you thank me? Just

1620
01:16:55,160 --> 01:16:58,800
Speaker 1: I don't know having sex again. Yeah, I mean like,

1621
01:16:59,000 --> 01:17:01,760
Speaker 1: I don't know. Man, that's a weird statements. Tough. I

1622
01:17:01,840 --> 01:17:03,880
Speaker 1: don't know how to justice. It's a tough one. Hey.

1623
01:17:03,920 --> 01:17:06,240
Speaker 1: If Sam has a hard time justifying it, you're not

1624
01:17:06,280 --> 01:17:08,479
Speaker 1: doing too good, buddy. Let me tell you something. Also,

1625
01:17:08,520 --> 01:17:11,400
Speaker 1: I think like, but to his credit, a year after

1626
01:17:11,760 --> 01:17:13,960
Speaker 1: you know your significant other dime and I think that

1627
01:17:13,960 --> 01:17:17,479
Speaker 1: that is an appropriate hundred Yeah, I think that's getting

1628
01:17:17,520 --> 01:17:21,160
Speaker 1: married reasonable. You get married a year after or started

1629
01:17:21,240 --> 01:17:24,320
Speaker 1: dating a year after started dating? Yeah, so it's starting

1630
01:17:24,400 --> 01:17:26,920
Speaker 1: starting to date a year after, So that's fine.

1631
01:17:26,920 --> 01:17:29,519
Speaker 2: Has needs, yeah, and they need to be satisfied.

1632
01:17:29,600 --> 01:17:31,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, you can only you know, hook up with your

1633
01:17:31,880 --> 01:17:35,760
Speaker 1: mom's corpse so many times? Wow that you know that

1634
01:17:35,920 --> 01:17:39,280
Speaker 1: is technically true. I guess hopefully it's zero times, by

1635
01:17:39,320 --> 01:17:43,040
Speaker 1: the way, Thank you, thank you for that clarification. Sam.

1636
01:17:43,240 --> 01:17:46,120
Speaker 2: Not long after that, he married my step mom Lucy.

1637
01:17:46,280 --> 01:17:47,280
Speaker 2: Oh disgusting.

1638
01:17:47,720 --> 01:17:49,840
Speaker 1: And when I began to act out over it, my

1639
01:17:50,040 --> 01:17:52,800
Speaker 1: dad said that parenting alone was hard and that my

1640
01:17:53,040 --> 01:17:56,760
Speaker 1: sister Jessica twenty eight female needed a mom, which I

1641
01:17:56,760 --> 01:17:59,599
Speaker 1: guess is his stepsister. Yeah. My dad even got my

1642
01:17:59,640 --> 01:18:02,519
Speaker 1: maternal grandparents to tell me that everything would be fine

1643
01:18:02,560 --> 01:18:05,120
Speaker 1: and how I needed to be a good boy. I

1644
01:18:05,280 --> 01:18:09,400
Speaker 1: don't know if that's the right approach. I actually think

1645
01:18:09,439 --> 01:18:11,360
Speaker 1: it's a right approach. Yeah, if this guy's being like

1646
01:18:11,360 --> 01:18:14,719
Speaker 1: an afffle for the being like the kid is being

1647
01:18:15,000 --> 01:18:17,680
Speaker 1: an actful about it, but it's me an awful but

1648
01:18:18,080 --> 01:18:20,040
Speaker 1: like yeah, I guess I don't know. She's a way

1649
01:18:20,080 --> 01:18:21,640
Speaker 1: like be a good boy. I think it's more of

1650
01:18:21,720 --> 01:18:24,120
Speaker 1: just explaining that, it's almost like, do this because I

1651
01:18:24,160 --> 01:18:24,519
Speaker 1: told you so?

1652
01:18:24,720 --> 01:18:26,880
Speaker 2: Well, what explanation does he need?

1653
01:18:26,920 --> 01:18:29,840
Speaker 1: Like? Hello, son? You know your father is a man,

1654
01:18:30,439 --> 01:18:33,599
Speaker 1: and when a man is a man, he has needs.

1655
01:18:34,080 --> 01:18:38,879
Speaker 1: He does sexual impulses that only your stepmother can supply.

1656
01:18:39,120 --> 01:18:40,800
Speaker 2: Your mother was great in bed, but.

1657
01:18:41,120 --> 01:18:46,640
Speaker 1: Your stepmother, goddamn holy s she does things that I

1658
01:18:46,720 --> 01:18:49,640
Speaker 1: don't think your mama could even comprehend. And that's exactly

1659
01:18:49,640 --> 01:18:53,720
Speaker 1: what they should have said. Boom. That was enough to

1660
01:18:53,760 --> 01:18:56,479
Speaker 1: get me to behave during the wedding, But once Lucy

1661
01:18:56,560 --> 01:18:59,719
Speaker 1: moved in and started redecorating, I started acting out again.

1662
01:18:59,800 --> 01:19:02,080
Speaker 1: My dad had had enough and just started punishing me

1663
01:19:02,200 --> 01:19:05,000
Speaker 1: whenever I acted out or made Lucy upset, as well

1664
01:19:05,120 --> 01:19:08,360
Speaker 1: as used the Jessica isn't acting out like this? And

1665
01:19:08,520 --> 01:19:12,639
Speaker 1: to be honest, Jessica was easily pleased and wasn't alive

1666
01:19:12,760 --> 01:19:15,200
Speaker 1: long enough to have the same attachment to our mom

1667
01:19:15,280 --> 01:19:17,320
Speaker 1: as I did, right, I mean, but I don't know

1668
01:19:17,560 --> 01:19:20,080
Speaker 1: it's oh and I'm sorry, Jessica. Is that is his

1669
01:19:20,200 --> 01:19:23,840
Speaker 1: real sister okay yea or his one blood sister. It

1670
01:19:23,880 --> 01:19:26,760
Speaker 1: really upset me when Jessica started calling Lucy mom, and

1671
01:19:26,800 --> 01:19:29,120
Speaker 1: it really takes me off. When Lucy started referring to

1672
01:19:29,160 --> 01:19:31,439
Speaker 1: me as her son, I always corrected it when she

1673
01:19:31,520 --> 01:19:33,320
Speaker 1: tried that around me. What do you think about that

1674
01:19:33,439 --> 01:19:36,040
Speaker 1: if well, you know, this is just the classic like

1675
01:19:36,120 --> 01:19:38,639
Speaker 1: you're now my mom, you will never be my mom?

1676
01:19:38,720 --> 01:19:41,719
Speaker 1: My mom is my mom? Thing? No, that's true.

1677
01:19:41,760 --> 01:19:43,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it's it's like you.

1678
01:19:43,040 --> 01:19:48,040
Speaker 1: Think, do you think that the kid is entitled to say, like, hey,

1679
01:19:48,080 --> 01:19:51,120
Speaker 1: you please like don't call me son? I think I

1680
01:19:51,120 --> 01:19:54,240
Speaker 1: mean kid is entitled to definitely that and also like

1681
01:19:54,240 --> 01:19:56,679
Speaker 1: any feelings that he's feeling, like this is all classic

1682
01:19:56,760 --> 01:20:00,000
Speaker 1: dead parents, you know, you know, the just the classic stuff,

1683
01:20:00,720 --> 01:20:03,360
Speaker 1: just how it goes. This is you got you got

1684
01:20:03,360 --> 01:20:07,639
Speaker 1: off your stages. That's right. What are the stages? Break

1685
01:20:07,640 --> 01:20:12,599
Speaker 1: it down? First stage, Yeah, my mom's dad. Second stage,

1686
01:20:13,000 --> 01:20:17,960
Speaker 1: my dad's fucking my new mom. Third stage, my dad

1687
01:20:18,080 --> 01:20:22,640
Speaker 1: and my mom they suck. Fourth stage, step mom fucking me.

1688
01:20:23,320 --> 01:20:26,439
Speaker 1: Fifth stage, I marry my step mom. I gotta say,

1689
01:20:26,520 --> 01:20:27,880
Speaker 1: I think you did a pretty good job. Thank you.

1690
01:20:28,000 --> 01:20:29,479
Speaker 2: That was a great break on the fly to on

1691
01:20:29,520 --> 01:20:30,599
Speaker 2: that line. All right, very good.

1692
01:20:30,640 --> 01:20:33,080
Speaker 1: This is this is why we were podcast professionals. Ladies

1693
01:20:33,120 --> 01:20:37,040
Speaker 1: and gentlemen, welcome, America. Yeah, it got worse when I

1694
01:20:37,080 --> 01:20:39,599
Speaker 1: was eight and Lucy had her own kids because then

1695
01:20:39,640 --> 01:20:43,040
Speaker 1: my dad and her started pushing for adoption. Jessica obviously

1696
01:20:43,040 --> 01:20:45,360
Speaker 1: had no problems with it, but I refused.

1697
01:20:45,680 --> 01:20:46,879
Speaker 2: Are you pushing for adoption?

1698
01:20:47,200 --> 01:20:47,479
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1699
01:20:47,720 --> 01:20:48,920
Speaker 2: Do they not have enough? Kids?

1700
01:20:49,360 --> 01:20:51,000
Speaker 1: Is not enough? I want more?

1701
01:20:51,080 --> 01:20:52,479
Speaker 2: I mean, it's fine to have more, but.

1702
01:20:52,520 --> 01:20:56,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, why would anyone want more? Is there like any reason?

1703
01:20:56,800 --> 01:20:59,760
Speaker 1: I guess I want to have kids together. Yeah, I think

1704
01:21:00,280 --> 01:21:03,160
Speaker 1: to cement that now it gets worse. I love when

1705
01:21:03,200 --> 01:21:05,240
Speaker 1: it gets worse. We love it. I love it so much.

1706
01:21:05,280 --> 01:21:08,080
Speaker 1: When I was eight, Lucy had her own kids because

1707
01:21:08,120 --> 01:21:11,120
Speaker 1: my dad and her started pushing for adoption. Jessica obviously

1708
01:21:11,200 --> 01:21:14,280
Speaker 1: had no problems with it, but I refused. My dad

1709
01:21:14,320 --> 01:21:17,200
Speaker 1: had my maternal grandparents come in again and tell me

1710
01:21:17,280 --> 01:21:20,040
Speaker 1: that adoption wouldn't be that bad, but I still refused.

1711
01:21:20,240 --> 01:21:22,840
Speaker 1: Lucy and my dad pushed for the adoption anyway, But

1712
01:21:22,960 --> 01:21:25,799
Speaker 1: thankfully the judge listened to me and to my feelings

1713
01:21:25,800 --> 01:21:28,439
Speaker 1: in a private room and denied it. I did not

1714
01:21:28,720 --> 01:21:29,920
Speaker 1: know that was a thing.

1715
01:21:30,080 --> 01:21:32,559
Speaker 2: So the kids can veto your the adoption.

1716
01:21:32,760 --> 01:21:38,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I wow, what a fucking brat, I s looky.

1717
01:21:39,680 --> 01:21:41,519
Speaker 2: You know your mom dies and you think you rule

1718
01:21:41,560 --> 01:21:41,920
Speaker 2: the world.

1719
01:21:42,120 --> 01:21:46,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I mean yeah, after that fair, all right,

1720
01:21:46,640 --> 01:21:51,799
Speaker 1: just be empathetic to have Yeah, I understand. Grief takes

1721
01:21:51,960 --> 01:21:55,280
Speaker 1: all forms, including being a massive deck. He's also like

1722
01:21:55,320 --> 01:21:59,400
Speaker 1: a child, so like you know, emotions and all of

1723
01:21:59,400 --> 01:22:01,759
Speaker 1: those things. Some of the biggest dicks in my life

1724
01:22:01,760 --> 01:22:04,720
Speaker 1: were children, that is correct. Meanest people I've ever met

1725
01:22:04,720 --> 01:22:07,240
Speaker 1: were children. That is correct. There's no one who has

1726
01:22:07,240 --> 01:22:09,639
Speaker 1: been ever meaner to me than the kids in middle school.

1727
01:22:09,720 --> 01:22:12,760
Speaker 1: Children are just tiny terrorists, tiny, no empathy. I know

1728
01:22:13,640 --> 01:22:16,280
Speaker 1: they haven't like developed that part of their brain yet. No. No,

1729
01:22:16,600 --> 01:22:19,760
Speaker 1: it's I want what I want, little fucking monsters. That's it.

1730
01:22:20,080 --> 01:22:23,080
Speaker 2: That destroy families, correct, and your dreams of adoption.

1731
01:22:23,439 --> 01:22:26,800
Speaker 1: Apparently after that therapy started, but it didn't last. So

1732
01:22:26,840 --> 01:22:29,000
Speaker 1: they also tried the since you don't want to be

1733
01:22:29,040 --> 01:22:31,960
Speaker 1: a part of this family, you don't get X, or

1734
01:22:32,040 --> 01:22:36,760
Speaker 1: you can't come do why you deserve it? Same your

1735
01:22:36,920 --> 01:22:41,080
Speaker 1: donner's coming familial terrorists, Like what what are you really

1736
01:22:41,080 --> 01:22:44,360
Speaker 1: gonna do? Not take him on? Like the family vacation. Yeah, Like,

1737
01:22:44,520 --> 01:22:47,200
Speaker 1: I mean, look that sucks if you're like, like, if

1738
01:22:47,200 --> 01:22:49,759
Speaker 1: I'm in the same position as the dad, I'm like, Okay,

1739
01:22:49,960 --> 01:22:52,960
Speaker 1: my wife passed away, I remarry, I start dating after

1740
01:22:53,000 --> 01:22:55,160
Speaker 1: a year, remarry. Now you know, we want to have

1741
01:22:55,200 --> 01:22:57,759
Speaker 1: a kid together. I guess they didn't really talk about.

1742
01:22:57,520 --> 01:22:59,400
Speaker 2: It, but it seems like they want to adopt together.

1743
01:22:59,520 --> 01:23:02,040
Speaker 1: Yeah. So I don't know, man, but I was too

1744
01:23:02,080 --> 01:23:04,200
Speaker 1: stubborn for that method to work on me. The only

1745
01:23:04,240 --> 01:23:06,360
Speaker 1: one who I felt was on my side was my

1746
01:23:06,439 --> 01:23:09,200
Speaker 1: paternal aunt, who kept sticking up for me whenever she'd

1747
01:23:09,240 --> 01:23:11,200
Speaker 1: see what Lucy and my dad were trying to do.

1748
01:23:11,479 --> 01:23:14,080
Speaker 1: So when I turned eighteen, I went straight to her.

1749
01:23:14,240 --> 01:23:16,880
Speaker 1: Oh wow, so I think we went from you know,

1750
01:23:17,200 --> 01:23:19,439
Speaker 1: with all this kid's whole life six to eighteen kids

1751
01:23:19,479 --> 01:23:22,639
Speaker 1: still seems bitter. That sounds like he hasn't got all

1752
01:23:22,680 --> 01:23:25,599
Speaker 1: these things are very normal. There's nothing that the like

1753
01:23:25,760 --> 01:23:27,680
Speaker 1: Lucy or his dad did. And then I'm like, oh,

1754
01:23:27,720 --> 01:23:30,679
Speaker 1: that's like a dick move. From the way he's described it.

1755
01:23:30,840 --> 01:23:33,400
Speaker 1: I think I would agree. Maybe there's something that he's

1756
01:23:33,439 --> 01:23:34,080
Speaker 1: not the.

1757
01:23:34,040 --> 01:23:36,200
Speaker 2: Service, but like, this all seems very normal.

1758
01:23:36,320 --> 01:23:38,799
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah. It was when I became a legal adult

1759
01:23:38,800 --> 01:23:42,479
Speaker 1: that my maternal grandparents confessed that they were never okay

1760
01:23:42,479 --> 01:23:45,080
Speaker 1: with the situation. But my dad threatened to keep me

1761
01:23:45,120 --> 01:23:47,960
Speaker 1: and my sister away from them if they didn't show support.

1762
01:23:48,560 --> 01:23:51,519
Speaker 2: That is not cool. Why weren't they okay with it?

1763
01:23:51,680 --> 01:23:52,240
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1764
01:23:52,320 --> 01:23:57,080
Speaker 2: I truly wonder if there's more context than more that is,

1765
01:23:57,439 --> 01:23:57,880
Speaker 2: he is not.

1766
01:23:57,880 --> 01:24:01,760
Speaker 1: Shared, it still seems like pretty Yeah. I was furious,

1767
01:24:02,000 --> 01:24:05,200
Speaker 1: so furious that I had my surname legally changed to

1768
01:24:05,280 --> 01:24:07,760
Speaker 1: my mom's maiden name as I wanted nothing to do

1769
01:24:07,800 --> 01:24:10,280
Speaker 1: with my dad and only ever really talk to my

1770
01:24:10,400 --> 01:24:13,599
Speaker 1: paternal aunt. Wow. Fast forward to now, and my grandma

1771
01:24:13,680 --> 01:24:16,960
Speaker 1: has passed away. Grandpa died in twenty twenty, and according

1772
01:24:17,040 --> 01:24:21,719
Speaker 1: to their will, only their legal grandchildren is to split

1773
01:24:21,880 --> 01:24:26,679
Speaker 1: the two hundred and fifty thousand dollars inheritance. And since

1774
01:24:26,840 --> 01:24:30,559
Speaker 1: Jess is legally Lucy's daughter, all she got was a

1775
01:24:30,640 --> 01:24:35,040
Speaker 1: framed photo of my mom and a letter, wait, so

1776
01:24:35,040 --> 01:24:38,680
Speaker 1: OPI singlely inherits the two hundred and fifty k.

1777
01:24:39,080 --> 01:24:40,479
Speaker 2: I think that might be the case.

1778
01:24:40,600 --> 01:24:43,880
Speaker 1: No, right, how about the sister the sister was was

1779
01:24:44,000 --> 01:24:47,680
Speaker 1: the adoption was from for them, for them to be

1780
01:24:47,840 --> 01:24:51,160
Speaker 1: so Lucy adopting, That's what it was.

1781
01:24:51,320 --> 01:24:53,360
Speaker 2: It's not that they wanted to add new kids to

1782
01:24:53,400 --> 01:24:53,879
Speaker 2: the family.

1783
01:24:53,920 --> 01:24:58,000
Speaker 1: They were trying to adopt, so Lucy, those weren't her kids.

1784
01:24:58,080 --> 01:25:00,640
Speaker 1: She wanted to legally adopt the tw of them to

1785
01:25:00,720 --> 01:25:04,479
Speaker 1: be their legal guardian. Oh but and that's why when

1786
01:25:04,520 --> 01:25:08,200
Speaker 1: op refused, the judge listened to Ope and said, okay,

1787
01:25:08,360 --> 01:25:09,360
Speaker 1: I won't you know?

1788
01:25:09,800 --> 01:25:12,040
Speaker 2: Of course that to happen, that changes everything.

1789
01:25:12,280 --> 01:25:17,519
Speaker 1: Oh so because so basically what happened was because Jessica

1790
01:25:17,600 --> 01:25:21,360
Speaker 1: didn't contest it, she was legally adopted to her and

1791
01:25:21,439 --> 01:25:25,679
Speaker 1: therefore no longer the I guess. Legally speaking, I'm guessing

1792
01:25:25,920 --> 01:25:28,759
Speaker 1: the child of their mother who passed away. But Ope

1793
01:25:29,200 --> 01:25:33,160
Speaker 1: never was legally adopted, which means that legally op Is

1794
01:25:33,160 --> 01:25:36,479
Speaker 1: is the only child legally belonging to their.

1795
01:25:37,360 --> 01:25:39,320
Speaker 2: Do you think the grandparents did that on purpose?

1796
01:25:39,600 --> 01:25:42,759
Speaker 1: Well? I have to see, won't we whoa? Jessica doesn't

1797
01:25:42,760 --> 01:25:45,200
Speaker 1: think it's fair and thinks that I should share the money.

1798
01:25:45,240 --> 01:25:49,080
Speaker 1: But I told her to get money from her legal grandparents.

1799
01:25:51,120 --> 01:25:53,880
Speaker 1: Hey you know those brand new grandparents. You got get

1800
01:25:53,920 --> 01:25:57,560
Speaker 1: some money from them. Damn yikes. That is cold, clappity

1801
01:25:57,600 --> 01:26:00,559
Speaker 1: clap back ice cold. My aunt thinks I'm being a

1802
01:26:00,600 --> 01:26:03,880
Speaker 1: bit harsh, So am I the a whole? Okay? There

1803
01:26:03,960 --> 01:26:08,320
Speaker 1: are some updates but wow, I mean I kind of

1804
01:26:08,320 --> 01:26:11,040
Speaker 1: had a flip flop when I realized that they were

1805
01:26:11,080 --> 01:26:14,599
Speaker 1: trying to legally adopt him specifically, not just add new

1806
01:26:14,680 --> 01:26:17,679
Speaker 1: children to the family. Yeah, I think that's a normal thing. Again,

1807
01:26:17,720 --> 01:26:19,960
Speaker 1: that's a normal thing to do. It is a normal thing.

1808
01:26:20,280 --> 01:26:22,559
Speaker 1: Like like we've read stories where it's like, oh my god,

1809
01:26:22,600 --> 01:26:25,160
Speaker 1: that's so nice that like he would like, you know,

1810
01:26:25,280 --> 01:26:27,519
Speaker 1: he or she would choose to adopt the kid, and.

1811
01:26:27,479 --> 01:26:30,800
Speaker 2: In many of the scenarios it was mutual, like.

1812
01:26:30,800 --> 01:26:34,240
Speaker 1: And I'm sure this is not mutual, but like I

1813
01:26:34,280 --> 01:26:37,200
Speaker 1: don't know, it all feels like very normal.

1814
01:26:37,560 --> 01:26:39,560
Speaker 2: You know, my mom's dead scenario.

1815
01:26:39,920 --> 01:26:45,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a different one, the different kind. Yeah. I've

1816
01:26:45,080 --> 01:26:49,959
Speaker 1: known people who have been adopted by actually very similar scenario,

1817
01:26:50,080 --> 01:26:53,479
Speaker 1: someone who their mom's dad passed away, she remarried, and

1818
01:26:53,520 --> 01:26:57,040
Speaker 1: then the stepdad legally adopted the children. But I mean

1819
01:26:57,320 --> 01:26:59,439
Speaker 1: it was like it was a very beautiful thing where

1820
01:26:59,479 --> 01:27:01,559
Speaker 1: like they both of each other like that is their dad,

1821
01:27:01,800 --> 01:27:04,679
Speaker 1: you know. So yeah, it feels like op is probably

1822
01:27:04,720 --> 01:27:08,040
Speaker 1: like just still grieving, Yeah, still grieving. And again, I

1823
01:27:08,320 --> 01:27:10,879
Speaker 1: I do truly wonder if there's more and more context

1824
01:27:10,880 --> 01:27:13,720
Speaker 1: of the story that hasn't been like thoroughly explained, but like,

1825
01:27:13,760 --> 01:27:16,439
Speaker 1: does this not see it seems like like everything oh

1826
01:27:16,439 --> 01:27:19,439
Speaker 1: pe is describing it feels like the normal chain of events.

1827
01:27:19,479 --> 01:27:22,800
Speaker 1: It could be the the like big ticket items I

1828
01:27:22,840 --> 01:27:25,840
Speaker 1: think are normal. It's like, Okay, the dad dates after

1829
01:27:25,880 --> 01:27:29,400
Speaker 1: a you know, reasonable amount of time, remarries, you know,

1830
01:27:29,560 --> 01:27:31,680
Speaker 1: the mom is like, hey, I want to truly be

1831
01:27:32,000 --> 01:27:34,800
Speaker 1: your mom and like legally adopt you. Yes. I don't

1832
01:27:34,800 --> 01:27:38,920
Speaker 1: think there's anything abnormal or wrong with any of those things,

1833
01:27:39,120 --> 01:27:42,519
Speaker 1: but I see also now, like the I think the

1834
01:27:42,960 --> 01:27:45,320
Speaker 1: one piece of context we do have is the dad

1835
01:27:45,360 --> 01:27:47,519
Speaker 1: going to the grandparents and being like, I will.

1836
01:27:47,320 --> 01:27:50,160
Speaker 2: Not see the grand Yeah, that's a little weird.

1837
01:27:50,280 --> 01:27:52,559
Speaker 1: Yeah that's giving me like there's I feel like there's

1838
01:27:52,560 --> 01:27:53,120
Speaker 1: more into the ice p.

1839
01:27:53,200 --> 01:27:54,439
Speaker 2: Right, Well, let's dive into the next part.

1840
01:27:54,560 --> 01:27:56,479
Speaker 1: It had been two years since the last time my

1841
01:27:56,560 --> 01:27:59,760
Speaker 1: sister Jessica had spoken to either of my grandparents. While

1842
01:27:59,800 --> 01:28:03,680
Speaker 1: she frequently called and interacted with Lucy's parents, Jessica was

1843
01:28:03,720 --> 01:28:05,800
Speaker 1: never close to my mom's side of the family because

1844
01:28:05,840 --> 01:28:09,000
Speaker 1: she'd rather spend time with Lucy's family and or didn't

1845
01:28:09,040 --> 01:28:11,640
Speaker 1: want to hurt their feelings. When Lucy moved in, she

1846
01:28:11,720 --> 01:28:14,280
Speaker 1: and my dad took down all of my mom's pictures

1847
01:28:14,320 --> 01:28:17,120
Speaker 1: and got rid of her things. Uh yeah, it's like

1848
01:28:17,479 --> 01:28:20,280
Speaker 1: I think Op feels like his dad is trying to

1849
01:28:20,439 --> 01:28:25,000
Speaker 1: erase his mom. Which, yeah, I was not allowed to

1850
01:28:25,080 --> 01:28:28,599
Speaker 1: keep any of the pictures in my room. Oh that's fucked. Yeah.

1851
01:28:28,640 --> 01:28:31,120
Speaker 1: And I would catch heat if I tried to celebrate

1852
01:28:31,160 --> 01:28:34,599
Speaker 1: my mom's birthday morn on the anniversary of her death

1853
01:28:34,760 --> 01:28:38,160
Speaker 1: and get punished if I didn't celebrate Mother's Day the

1854
01:28:38,200 --> 01:28:41,880
Speaker 1: way Lucy wanted me to. That is super funked. Okay,

1855
01:28:43,800 --> 01:28:50,040
Speaker 1: we were starting to see why this is so fucked Yeah. So, yeah,

1856
01:28:50,120 --> 01:28:52,240
Speaker 1: she wasn't the saint of a woman who stepped in

1857
01:28:52,360 --> 01:28:54,559
Speaker 1: when my mom couldn't be there for me. And because

1858
01:28:54,600 --> 01:28:57,599
Speaker 1: I keep seeing the same questions. One, I don't blame

1859
01:28:57,720 --> 01:29:00,800
Speaker 1: Jessica for choosing to be adopted. Now, I'm angry at

1860
01:29:00,800 --> 01:29:03,040
Speaker 1: her belief that she should get any money from my

1861
01:29:03,080 --> 01:29:06,440
Speaker 1: grandparents despite never showing any interest in having a relationship

1862
01:29:06,439 --> 01:29:08,760
Speaker 1: with them once she was eighteen plus. They reached out

1863
01:29:08,840 --> 01:29:11,719
Speaker 1: numerous times, but she never bothered yet has the belief

1864
01:29:11,720 --> 01:29:13,760
Speaker 1: that she's entitled to their money. That's what ticked me

1865
01:29:13,800 --> 01:29:17,040
Speaker 1: off too. My mom has a sister who also has kids.

1866
01:29:17,120 --> 01:29:18,880
Speaker 1: I'm not getting the full two hundred and fifty K,

1867
01:29:19,040 --> 01:29:22,799
Speaker 1: so there's okay, there's splitting, back flitting. Jessica would basically

1868
01:29:22,880 --> 01:29:26,719
Speaker 1: receive zero yeah and three no. I didn't expect anyone

1869
01:29:26,720 --> 01:29:29,320
Speaker 1: from Lucy's side to leave me anything, nor would I

1870
01:29:29,400 --> 01:29:32,439
Speaker 1: demand Jessica to share. It would be completely hypocritical. And

1871
01:29:32,520 --> 01:29:35,680
Speaker 1: final small update, my maternal cousins and I had a

1872
01:29:35,680 --> 01:29:38,680
Speaker 1: meeting and we all agree that since Jessica couldn't be

1873
01:29:38,720 --> 01:29:41,519
Speaker 1: bothered to speak or spend time with our grandparents once

1874
01:29:41,560 --> 01:29:43,640
Speaker 1: she was an adult, she didn't deserve any of the

1875
01:29:43,720 --> 01:29:46,880
Speaker 1: money we had. Our grandma's a state lawyer send out

1876
01:29:46,920 --> 01:29:50,000
Speaker 1: an official letter to Jessica. She said that she would

1877
01:29:50,080 --> 01:29:52,559
Speaker 1: challenge the will, and I told her that she's welcome

1878
01:29:52,600 --> 01:29:55,320
Speaker 1: to do so. I am fully prepared to never see

1879
01:29:55,520 --> 01:29:58,639
Speaker 1: or I am fully prepared to never see or speak

1880
01:29:58,680 --> 01:30:03,759
Speaker 1: to her ever again again. Over this. Wow, wow man,

1881
01:30:04,040 --> 01:30:08,320
Speaker 1: that is I mean, it seems like the context we

1882
01:30:08,400 --> 01:30:12,000
Speaker 1: got at the end is that Opie's dad and the

1883
01:30:12,040 --> 01:30:14,960
Speaker 1: step mom are trying to erase Opie's mom. Yes, and

1884
01:30:15,040 --> 01:30:18,000
Speaker 1: like all these normal things that do happen when a

1885
01:30:18,040 --> 01:30:20,720
Speaker 1: parent dies, and the other parent moves on, it's like

1886
01:30:21,000 --> 01:30:24,920
Speaker 1: underscored by this. It's like it's like there's this undercurrent

1887
01:30:25,120 --> 01:30:28,200
Speaker 1: of I'm trying to replace your mom that you know.

1888
01:30:28,240 --> 01:30:30,680
Speaker 1: I think in all a lot of these situations is

1889
01:30:30,920 --> 01:30:34,120
Speaker 1: true to an extent, right, because you kind of have

1890
01:30:34,240 --> 01:30:36,320
Speaker 1: to in a way. It's like, oh, I do want

1891
01:30:36,360 --> 01:30:39,680
Speaker 1: you to move on your mom? Yeah, like there's like

1892
01:30:39,720 --> 01:30:41,880
Speaker 1: a right and wrong way. Yeah, And it seems like

1893
01:30:42,000 --> 01:30:46,719
Speaker 1: in certain ways Opie's parent and stepparent handled it poorly.

1894
01:30:46,800 --> 01:30:49,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean just off rip trying to literally.

1895
01:30:49,520 --> 01:30:53,920
Speaker 1: Erase and he celebrate you know, birthday that it makes

1896
01:30:54,680 --> 01:30:58,439
Speaker 1: no sense whatsoever. I also wonder if Lucy pressured the

1897
01:30:58,560 --> 01:31:01,400
Speaker 1: dad to do that to that because this was his wife. Yeah,

1898
01:31:01,400 --> 01:31:05,439
Speaker 1: well he wasn't expecting to lee, you know, like, yeah,

1899
01:31:05,560 --> 01:31:08,040
Speaker 1: it seems like that could have happened. It's like just

1900
01:31:08,080 --> 01:31:10,120
Speaker 1: a cuck and you know not maybe I think I

1901
01:31:10,200 --> 01:31:12,679
Speaker 1: think daddy's a big, a big old cut niggle cut.

1902
01:31:13,000 --> 01:31:16,200
Speaker 1: But I would love to hear your step parent story,

1903
01:31:16,240 --> 01:31:18,759
Speaker 1: specifically your step mom's stories. We always get the crazy

1904
01:31:18,760 --> 01:31:21,160
Speaker 1: step mom stories, stepmom story. If you've been have you

1905
01:31:21,200 --> 01:31:23,960
Speaker 1: been in a situation like this one? That's sure you

1906
01:31:23,960 --> 01:31:26,840
Speaker 1: know a parent has died and you've gotten a new parent.

1907
01:31:27,040 --> 01:31:29,120
Speaker 1: You know because that you know this happens in divorce

1908
01:31:29,120 --> 01:31:31,879
Speaker 1: all the time. But have you had this exact situation

1909
01:31:31,920 --> 01:31:33,840
Speaker 1: happen to you. We would love to know your stories

1910
01:31:33,840 --> 01:31:36,800
Speaker 1: in the comments below, but I think we would also

1911
01:31:36,880 --> 01:31:39,479
Speaker 1: love to get into this next story. Let's get it.

1912
01:31:39,680 --> 01:31:43,320
Speaker 1: My sister is ruining her life by having too many kids,

1913
01:31:43,360 --> 01:31:45,280
Speaker 1: and I just couldn't keep my mouth shut.

1914
01:31:45,439 --> 01:31:46,280
Speaker 2: Am I the a hole?

1915
01:31:46,400 --> 01:31:49,160
Speaker 1: So? Okay, here's the thing. Right, if we're talking two

1916
01:31:49,200 --> 01:31:52,320
Speaker 1: to three, ay, over stepping your boundaries. But if we're

1917
01:31:52,320 --> 01:31:55,120
Speaker 1: talking about twenty two to twenty three.

1918
01:31:55,120 --> 01:31:56,280
Speaker 2: That's a village.

1919
01:31:56,520 --> 01:31:59,680
Speaker 1: My twenty one female sister, thirty two female, has been

1920
01:31:59,680 --> 01:32:02,759
Speaker 1: married to her husband, thirty three male, for eight years.

1921
01:32:02,880 --> 01:32:06,320
Speaker 1: They already have six kids total. The last one was

1922
01:32:06,360 --> 01:32:09,759
Speaker 1: born five months ago, So six kids, eight years pumping

1923
01:32:09,800 --> 01:32:13,280
Speaker 1: them out. I mean that's a lot. Yesterday, my sister

1924
01:32:13,360 --> 01:32:17,040
Speaker 1: had announced that she's three months pregnant with twins, and

1925
01:32:17,080 --> 01:32:21,200
Speaker 1: while everyone was congratulating her, I said, out loud, oh

1926
01:32:21,240 --> 01:32:25,520
Speaker 1: my god, again, can't your stupid husband leave you alone?

1927
01:32:26,240 --> 01:32:28,639
Speaker 1: You gotta wait with words over there. I didn't mean

1928
01:32:28,680 --> 01:32:30,920
Speaker 1: to say it out loud, but it slipped out? Does

1929
01:32:31,000 --> 01:32:31,720
Speaker 1: that slip out?

1930
01:32:32,240 --> 01:32:34,640
Speaker 2: I don't think that's a lot. That's a lot to

1931
01:32:34,680 --> 01:32:35,120
Speaker 2: slip out.

1932
01:32:35,200 --> 01:32:37,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, And my sister looked at me angrily and literally

1933
01:32:38,040 --> 01:32:40,479
Speaker 1: dragged me into another room and asked, why the fuck

1934
01:32:40,520 --> 01:32:44,120
Speaker 1: did you say that? Which that is a reasonable, reasonable

1935
01:32:44,160 --> 01:32:49,360
Speaker 1: and I'll also respectful response. Opie said again, that's slipping out. Yeah,

1936
01:32:49,400 --> 01:32:51,839
Speaker 1: but not that whole thing. Yeah, that's a long sentence

1937
01:32:51,880 --> 01:32:53,920
Speaker 1: to slip out. I told her that she and her

1938
01:32:54,000 --> 01:32:56,760
Speaker 1: husband have been pregnant every year for the last eight

1939
01:32:56,840 --> 01:32:59,320
Speaker 1: years and that she needs to take a break. Let's

1940
01:32:59,360 --> 01:33:01,639
Speaker 1: make it a full time okay, baby, round it out.

1941
01:33:01,800 --> 01:33:03,920
Speaker 1: I was worried about her having so many babies in

1942
01:33:03,960 --> 01:33:06,280
Speaker 1: such a short time, and I didn't want anything bad

1943
01:33:06,320 --> 01:33:09,439
Speaker 1: happening to her. She then said, how about you leave

1944
01:33:09,520 --> 01:33:12,760
Speaker 1: us alone and worry about Oh shit, this is my life,

1945
01:33:13,240 --> 01:33:14,080
Speaker 1: so fuck off.

1946
01:33:14,280 --> 01:33:17,280
Speaker 2: If you want to have a hundred kids, it's your prerogative.

1947
01:33:17,400 --> 01:33:19,800
Speaker 1: My mother told me that I should apologize for being rude,

1948
01:33:19,800 --> 01:33:22,720
Speaker 1: but I told her that I won't apologize for showing concern.

1949
01:33:22,920 --> 01:33:25,240
Speaker 1: But now I just can't help thinking that maybe I

1950
01:33:25,280 --> 01:33:27,479
Speaker 1: was being an asshole and sticking my nose into other

1951
01:33:27,520 --> 01:33:30,120
Speaker 1: people's business. I was just worried, but maybe I was

1952
01:33:30,160 --> 01:33:33,360
Speaker 1: being a jerk. Am I the asshole? There is an update, John,

1953
01:33:33,520 --> 01:33:36,080
Speaker 1: what is your decree? Yeah? I think that's being an

1954
01:33:36,080 --> 01:33:38,559
Speaker 1: asshole because again, like if she literally just said again,

1955
01:33:38,760 --> 01:33:40,640
Speaker 1: I was like, oh shit, I said that aloud. I

1956
01:33:40,680 --> 01:33:43,559
Speaker 1: could totally be like, all right, you you slipped up there.

1957
01:33:43,920 --> 01:33:46,439
Speaker 1: And also it's another thing to like sit down with

1958
01:33:46,479 --> 01:33:48,400
Speaker 1: her and be like, maybe this isn't my place and

1959
01:33:48,439 --> 01:33:50,760
Speaker 1: maybe I'm overstepping my balance. There is a way to

1960
01:33:50,960 --> 01:33:53,680
Speaker 1: approach it, which could still be maybe too much, but

1961
01:33:53,840 --> 01:33:55,920
Speaker 1: like saying it that way is just it's just not

1962
01:33:56,000 --> 01:33:58,160
Speaker 1: the move. Yeah, it's not the move. Oh p one

1963
01:33:58,240 --> 01:34:00,479
Speaker 1: hundred percent asshole. But let's see if this date does

1964
01:34:00,520 --> 01:34:03,400
Speaker 1: you any justice? So at it? Yes. I do babysit

1965
01:34:03,439 --> 01:34:05,960
Speaker 1: my sister's kids sometimes in all six of them at

1966
01:34:05,960 --> 01:34:08,600
Speaker 1: the same time, whenever they need me and I'm available.

1967
01:34:08,720 --> 01:34:11,080
Speaker 1: They pay me thirty to fifty dollars an hour. But

1968
01:34:11,120 --> 01:34:13,519
Speaker 1: their kids are pretty destructive and they don't respect other

1969
01:34:13,560 --> 01:34:15,840
Speaker 1: adults like they're supposed to, so it's a full chour

1970
01:34:16,040 --> 01:34:18,439
Speaker 1: watching after them. But they're to fifty bucks an hour.

1971
01:34:19,000 --> 01:34:22,880
Speaker 1: Pretty good, not bad. I'm aware that the stupid husband

1972
01:34:23,000 --> 01:34:26,200
Speaker 1: comment was inappropriate, but I have almost no filter, and

1973
01:34:26,240 --> 01:34:28,840
Speaker 1: my stupid mouth says shit before my brain can stop it.

1974
01:34:28,920 --> 01:34:31,840
Speaker 1: And I've seen comments talk about the ages. Assuming my

1975
01:34:31,920 --> 01:34:35,000
Speaker 1: sister is twenty one, I'm twenty one female. My sister's

1976
01:34:35,040 --> 01:34:37,639
Speaker 1: thirty two female, and her husband is thirty three male.

1977
01:34:37,920 --> 01:34:40,760
Speaker 1: And here's the update. I apologize to my sister for

1978
01:34:40,840 --> 01:34:43,559
Speaker 1: insulting her husband and making that rude comment, but I

1979
01:34:43,600 --> 01:34:45,800
Speaker 1: told her that I'm still worried about her having so

1980
01:34:45,840 --> 01:34:47,959
Speaker 1: many kids back to back to back, and just concerned

1981
01:34:47,960 --> 01:34:50,800
Speaker 1: in general about her health and well being. She actually

1982
01:34:50,840 --> 01:34:54,080
Speaker 1: forgave me and said it's because one I'm her youngest sister.

1983
01:34:54,280 --> 01:34:57,040
Speaker 1: Two she knows about my problem with keeping my thoughts

1984
01:34:57,040 --> 01:34:59,920
Speaker 1: to myself and that I'm working on myself. And three

1985
01:34:59,680 --> 01:35:02,400
Speaker 1: she that I am concerned for her and she appreciates it.

1986
01:35:02,479 --> 01:35:04,600
Speaker 1: But she assured me that she's fine and that this

1987
01:35:04,680 --> 01:35:07,560
Speaker 1: pregnancy wasn't planned and her husband plans on getting a

1988
01:35:07,640 --> 01:35:11,559
Speaker 1: vasectomy because they both want this pregnancy to be the last.

1989
01:35:11,760 --> 01:35:14,200
Speaker 1: For those asking in the comments, she and her husband

1990
01:35:14,240 --> 01:35:17,000
Speaker 1: can afford to have kids. He runs a very successful

1991
01:35:17,040 --> 01:35:19,920
Speaker 1: business and she is still co partner with her best

1992
01:35:19,920 --> 01:35:22,120
Speaker 1: friend in a company that they both started before she

1993
01:35:22,120 --> 01:35:24,760
Speaker 1: got married. How she manages to juggle being a full

1994
01:35:24,800 --> 01:35:27,360
Speaker 1: time mom and work here and there is beyond me,

1995
01:35:27,600 --> 01:35:30,519
Speaker 1: but she does. That's why a babysit sometimes when the

1996
01:35:30,600 --> 01:35:33,120
Speaker 1: nanny is an available twenty four to seven. Her husband

1997
01:35:33,280 --> 01:35:35,200
Speaker 1: was the one who initially wanted a big family, and

1998
01:35:35,240 --> 01:35:38,000
Speaker 1: my sister just went along with the idea. But that's

1999
01:35:38,360 --> 01:35:43,080
Speaker 1: their business. Wow, So I would say I am not

2000
01:35:43,400 --> 01:35:46,000
Speaker 1: anywhere near educated enough on reproductive health?

2001
01:35:46,160 --> 01:35:48,040
Speaker 2: Is that actually worrisome?

2002
01:35:48,439 --> 01:35:50,879
Speaker 1: I don't know. My dad's one of ten. My grandma's

2003
01:35:50,880 --> 01:35:53,439
Speaker 1: popping them out every year for a decade, and she

2004
01:35:53,640 --> 01:35:58,800
Speaker 1: is currently ninety one, sturdy, staying in the test of time. Yeah,

2005
01:35:58,960 --> 01:36:01,280
Speaker 1: so I mean, like it could help you live to

2006
01:36:01,360 --> 01:36:04,040
Speaker 1: ninety one. We have evidence, this is evidence. This is

2007
01:36:04,120 --> 01:36:07,120
Speaker 1: pure science, pure science. Yeah, you know, the average I

2008
01:36:07,120 --> 01:36:10,320
Speaker 1: went to Amage Country recently. The average family size in

2009
01:36:10,360 --> 01:36:13,960
Speaker 1: Amish Country is eight point two kids. The homage population

2010
01:36:14,080 --> 01:36:20,040
Speaker 1: is the fastest growing religious population in America. Really, that's fascinating.

2011
01:36:20,080 --> 01:36:21,080
Speaker 2: How you build a freaking empire?

2012
01:36:21,160 --> 01:36:24,000
Speaker 1: Dude? Why not go for it? Well, let's go for

2013
01:36:24,040 --> 01:36:26,280
Speaker 1: this next story. Also, how many kids is too many?

2014
01:36:26,560 --> 01:36:28,720
Speaker 1: Put your answers in the comments what's your number? How

2015
01:36:28,720 --> 01:36:30,599
Speaker 1: many kids do you want? And when would you start?

2016
01:36:30,640 --> 01:36:32,479
Speaker 1: You know, just like throwing them in the lake or

2017
01:36:32,720 --> 01:36:36,639
Speaker 1: the river. Let us know, my grandson sucks and I'd

2018
01:36:36,720 --> 01:36:38,640
Speaker 1: rather scool waul dive than see him. Am I the

2019
01:36:38,640 --> 01:36:40,960
Speaker 1: a hole? Yeah? I'd rather be three thousand feet at

2020
01:36:41,000 --> 01:36:42,760
Speaker 1: the bottom of the ocean than have to deal with

2021
01:36:42,800 --> 01:36:45,600
Speaker 1: your sorry sack of shit. I Mail twenty seven have

2022
01:36:45,720 --> 01:36:48,679
Speaker 1: a son, Jake Mail twenty six, who has his own son,

2023
01:36:48,920 --> 01:36:51,519
Speaker 1: Mike five. Jake's mother and I only had a short

2024
01:36:51,600 --> 01:36:55,040
Speaker 1: term relationship and it was an accidental pregnancy. To be blunt,

2025
01:36:55,479 --> 01:36:59,840
Speaker 1: I never wanted to be a parent, yikes, particularly not

2026
01:37:00,160 --> 01:37:03,920
Speaker 1: twenty one. However, Jake's mother did and it wasn't my decision. Man,

2027
01:37:04,160 --> 01:37:06,759
Speaker 1: tell us how you really feel. That kid never reads

2028
01:37:06,800 --> 01:37:09,760
Speaker 1: this story. Although we have always kept peace, things have

2029
01:37:09,840 --> 01:37:12,040
Speaker 1: always been icy between us due to that.

2030
01:37:12,200 --> 01:37:14,519
Speaker 2: However, I've always tried to do right by Jake.

2031
01:37:14,680 --> 01:37:17,080
Speaker 1: I would have him every other weekend for a month

2032
01:37:17,160 --> 01:37:19,320
Speaker 1: during the summer. I would do my best to deliver

2033
01:37:19,439 --> 01:37:22,080
Speaker 1: on anything he asked of me, treated him kindly and

2034
01:37:22,200 --> 01:37:23,519
Speaker 1: tried to be a good father.

2035
01:37:23,760 --> 01:37:25,920
Speaker 2: See when you say I tried to be a good father.

2036
01:37:26,160 --> 01:37:28,559
Speaker 1: It just feels like you're not man. Well, the thing

2037
01:37:28,640 --> 01:37:30,800
Speaker 1: is man never wanted to be a father. Yeah, and

2038
01:37:30,840 --> 01:37:33,600
Speaker 1: he's trying his best to be one. That's all you

2039
01:37:33,640 --> 01:37:36,479
Speaker 1: can ask. Then, at a certain point, his mother married

2040
01:37:36,479 --> 01:37:39,160
Speaker 1: a guy Jake hated, and I had him move in

2041
01:37:39,200 --> 01:37:42,800
Speaker 1: with me once he was thirteen. I won't lie. I

2042
01:37:42,840 --> 01:37:44,519
Speaker 1: wasn't cut out to be a parent. I need to

2043
01:37:44,560 --> 01:37:47,719
Speaker 1: bun up over here, get an itchy forehead. I love Jake,

2044
01:37:48,240 --> 01:37:51,320
Speaker 1: but I just hated parenting. I did it anyway since

2045
01:37:51,320 --> 01:37:53,520
Speaker 1: he was my son. We have a very good relationship

2046
01:37:53,560 --> 01:37:57,479
Speaker 1: and I've never shirked any responsibility to him. Jake also

2047
01:37:57,520 --> 01:38:00,320
Speaker 1: became a father at twenty one. However, he was all

2048
01:38:00,320 --> 01:38:02,479
Speaker 1: for it and happily married to Mike's mother.

2049
01:38:02,800 --> 01:38:06,280
Speaker 2: Mike is the kid, right, Like what.

2050
01:38:07,800 --> 01:38:12,200
Speaker 1: Hold on? Who's mom? I also got him into my

2051
01:38:12,320 --> 01:38:15,240
Speaker 1: electricians union and had him set up on some good jobs,

2052
01:38:15,320 --> 01:38:18,160
Speaker 1: so he was on a much much better footing than

2053
01:38:18,280 --> 01:38:20,920
Speaker 1: I was for a child. Back then. We had a

2054
01:38:20,960 --> 01:38:23,960
Speaker 1: long talk and I told him, Jake, being a parent

2055
01:38:24,280 --> 01:38:27,720
Speaker 1: is a very very different life. It's hard, exhausting, and

2056
01:38:27,800 --> 01:38:30,000
Speaker 1: on a day to day basis, you don't really get

2057
01:38:30,040 --> 01:38:32,040
Speaker 1: to do much of what you want to do, and

2058
01:38:32,080 --> 01:38:34,160
Speaker 1: I hate it and I hate it. It will be

2059
01:38:34,200 --> 01:38:37,120
Speaker 1: a very long time before you don't have that kind

2060
01:38:37,160 --> 01:38:41,760
Speaker 1: of responsibility anymore. Basically, parenting you sucked balls. I mean

2061
01:38:42,080 --> 01:38:44,840
Speaker 1: his right to us an extent, like parenting is a

2062
01:38:44,880 --> 01:38:47,439
Speaker 1: difficult endeavor you and you will like what he's like

2063
01:38:47,520 --> 01:38:49,960
Speaker 1: will change. You won't have that kind of freedom for

2064
01:38:50,120 --> 01:38:53,280
Speaker 1: a long time. Yeah. Then the conversation turned to how

2065
01:38:53,439 --> 01:38:57,960
Speaker 1: I would help him parent. I told him, no, my

2066
01:38:58,160 --> 01:39:02,200
Speaker 1: parenting is done, so I have clocked out. I am

2067
01:39:02,240 --> 01:39:06,280
Speaker 1: retired from parenting. I am turning back to my own life.

2068
01:39:06,400 --> 01:39:10,080
Speaker 1: He has his own home, union, job, is engaged and

2069
01:39:10,200 --> 01:39:13,759
Speaker 1: adult enough to decide to have a baby, and literally

2070
01:39:13,760 --> 01:39:16,320
Speaker 1: the exact same age that Op he was. He can't

2071
01:39:16,360 --> 01:39:18,120
Speaker 1: even be like, oh, man, like you know you were

2072
01:39:18,160 --> 01:39:20,120
Speaker 1: so much for No, you were literally the exact same

2073
01:39:20,160 --> 01:39:23,280
Speaker 1: place in life I was. He's the adult now he's

2074
01:39:23,360 --> 01:39:26,280
Speaker 1: the parent. All be around and if there's any emergencies,

2075
01:39:26,360 --> 01:39:28,640
Speaker 1: obviously I'll do what I can, but I won't be

2076
01:39:28,760 --> 01:39:32,320
Speaker 1: called an active grandparent. I've largely held to it. I

2077
01:39:32,320 --> 01:39:35,639
Speaker 1: have been doing a lot of travel, I have a girlfriend, hobbies,

2078
01:39:35,920 --> 01:39:38,360
Speaker 1: and to be blunt. I'm doing all the things I

2079
01:39:38,400 --> 01:39:40,719
Speaker 1: didn't get to do in my twenties. Do I seek

2080
01:39:40,800 --> 01:39:44,920
Speaker 1: Jake and his family, Yes, However I rarely agree to babysit.

2081
01:39:45,160 --> 01:39:48,160
Speaker 1: Jake resents that I don't go to Mike's games. They

2082
01:39:48,240 --> 01:39:52,599
Speaker 1: tend to conflict with my weightlifting club. He's just getting

2083
01:39:52,760 --> 01:39:57,839
Speaker 1: jacked and like has like a girlfriend traveling the world. Yeah, sorry, buddy,

2084
01:39:57,840 --> 01:40:02,000
Speaker 1: but oh, Grandpa's gotta pump the iron of pumpole Graandma,

2085
01:40:02,240 --> 01:40:05,639
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, and is just generally angry

2086
01:40:05,680 --> 01:40:07,880
Speaker 1: that I'm pretty hands off with Mike. Things came to

2087
01:40:07,920 --> 01:40:10,719
Speaker 1: a head last week when Mike had a baseball tournament

2088
01:40:10,760 --> 01:40:13,720
Speaker 1: and I refuse to go because I had plans to

2089
01:40:13,800 --> 01:40:17,479
Speaker 1: take a scuba class with my girlfriend, which admittedly could

2090
01:40:17,479 --> 01:40:20,120
Speaker 1: have been her scheduled. I didn't tell Jake this, but

2091
01:40:20,360 --> 01:40:23,519
Speaker 1: I spent so many saturdays bored out of my skull

2092
01:40:23,720 --> 01:40:27,839
Speaker 1: watching Little League when Jake was little. I always cheered loudly,

2093
01:40:28,080 --> 01:40:31,320
Speaker 1: was crazy supportive, and never let on that it was

2094
01:40:31,439 --> 01:40:32,880
Speaker 1: like watching paint dry.

2095
01:40:33,439 --> 01:40:34,679
Speaker 2: Damn man.

2096
01:40:34,880 --> 01:40:37,760
Speaker 1: Really didn't want to be a dad, but this is

2097
01:40:37,800 --> 01:40:41,000
Speaker 1: no longer my responsibility, so I told him, Jake, I've

2098
01:40:41,000 --> 01:40:44,200
Speaker 1: done twenty years of parenting. That's enough. He then yelled

2099
01:40:44,200 --> 01:40:47,479
Speaker 1: at me that I'm always going and jetting around, playing

2100
01:40:47,520 --> 01:40:50,160
Speaker 1: like a teenager and not putting him first. I told

2101
01:40:50,200 --> 01:40:52,759
Speaker 1: him no, that I wasn't. I did that for twenty

2102
01:40:52,840 --> 01:40:54,920
Speaker 1: years to get him on his feet as an adult.

2103
01:40:55,160 --> 01:40:57,200
Speaker 1: I've done that, and now I can go back to

2104
01:40:57,280 --> 01:41:03,040
Speaker 1: prioritizing my own life. So is he the a hole?

2105
01:41:03,479 --> 01:41:06,400
Speaker 1: Is he the a whole? Oh man? This is a

2106
01:41:06,439 --> 01:41:09,880
Speaker 1: tricky one, yeah, because like how he describes all this

2107
01:41:09,960 --> 01:41:15,800
Speaker 1: shit is very ass wholeish, but like logically, like I

2108
01:41:15,800 --> 01:41:19,400
Speaker 1: feel like he's done everything right and he's just being

2109
01:41:19,520 --> 01:41:22,599
Speaker 1: very honest about how he's felt about doing everything that

2110
01:41:22,640 --> 01:41:26,479
Speaker 1: he's done. And in his defense and in fairness, we

2111
01:41:26,600 --> 01:41:30,320
Speaker 1: have read so many stories about you know, like new

2112
01:41:30,439 --> 01:41:33,599
Speaker 1: young parents where they are literally like trying to make

2113
01:41:34,160 --> 01:41:39,120
Speaker 1: the grandparents basically be the parents, like literally sending them

2114
01:41:39,160 --> 01:41:41,240
Speaker 1: to there all day every day, and they're like, you know,

2115
01:41:41,280 --> 01:41:43,720
Speaker 1: getting older, all this stuff, So that could happen. I

2116
01:41:43,760 --> 01:41:47,120
Speaker 1: guess I think if you decide to have a child,

2117
01:41:47,560 --> 01:41:52,320
Speaker 1: it's your responsibility. Yes, often grandparents, you know, your parents

2118
01:41:52,479 --> 01:41:54,720
Speaker 1: do help, Like I know my parents want to be

2119
01:41:54,760 --> 01:41:58,799
Speaker 1: active when I have kids. Me having a child isn't

2120
01:41:59,280 --> 01:42:03,360
Speaker 1: completely on my parents being able to help. He put

2121
01:42:03,439 --> 01:42:07,400
Speaker 1: in twenty years. Man, his time, did his time, so

2122
01:42:07,800 --> 01:42:11,160
Speaker 1: did it. I think he's not the ahole in his

2123
01:42:11,400 --> 01:42:15,080
Speaker 1: actions and boundary setting, but just just his way with words.

2124
01:42:15,640 --> 01:42:18,840
Speaker 1: He just paints himself as ass. He's just being very

2125
01:42:18,880 --> 01:42:22,639
Speaker 1: honest emotions. I think he's setting a reasonable boundary.

2126
01:42:22,720 --> 01:42:23,679
Speaker 2: Yeah, I want.

2127
01:42:23,560 --> 01:42:26,120
Speaker 1: To know what your thoughts are and also like, is

2128
01:42:26,160 --> 01:42:31,519
Speaker 1: there any moral responsibility on parenting for grandparents? I want

2129
01:42:31,560 --> 01:42:33,040
Speaker 1: to know what your thoughts are. Put your answers in

2130
01:42:33,080 --> 01:42:35,840
Speaker 1: the comments. How involved were your grandparents when you were

2131
01:42:35,840 --> 01:42:38,360
Speaker 1: growing up? My mom is dating my high school bully,

2132
01:42:38,439 --> 01:42:39,840
Speaker 1: but I won't accept it.

2133
01:42:39,960 --> 01:42:42,599
Speaker 2: I ran away, But two years later she wants to talk.

2134
01:42:42,840 --> 01:42:45,040
Speaker 1: Am I the a hole? That voice crack made it

2135
01:42:45,080 --> 01:42:48,639
Speaker 1: sound personal? John, What do you have to tell me? Look, man, okay,

2136
01:42:49,280 --> 01:42:53,280
Speaker 1: I'm getting rised up. No, there's no no, no people

2137
01:42:53,320 --> 01:42:56,840
Speaker 1: sladden in your DM DMS. You're now you're going to

2138
01:42:56,920 --> 01:43:01,519
Speaker 1: get people to DMS. And then the way at John's

2139
01:43:01,520 --> 01:43:06,040
Speaker 1: mom's heart is through David Ramsey. That the question do

2140
01:43:06,080 --> 01:43:15,440
Speaker 1: you think your parents have a hall pass? For David Ramsey,

2141
01:43:15,720 --> 01:43:18,559
Speaker 1: it's fifty to fifty, dude, it's fifty to fifty man

2142
01:43:19,160 --> 01:43:24,200
Speaker 1: bro his those tips due tips lead the tips, they're said,

2143
01:43:24,280 --> 01:43:27,160
Speaker 1: they're very sad. Oh I'm praying no one in my

2144
01:43:27,200 --> 01:43:30,719
Speaker 1: family's watching this right now. Oh my god, this is fry.

2145
01:43:30,720 --> 01:43:31,799
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry.

2146
01:43:31,960 --> 01:43:35,599
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, be mad at him, Okay, like I am innocent. Here,

2147
01:43:35,920 --> 01:43:38,160
Speaker 2: he's the one encouraging this, he started it.

2148
01:43:39,080 --> 01:43:43,760
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, pray my mom doesn't see this. Okay,

2149
01:43:44,360 --> 01:43:51,000
Speaker 1: so lull no, see I can't read the first line

2150
01:43:51,040 --> 01:43:51,679
Speaker 1: while you're laughing.

2151
01:43:51,680 --> 01:43:54,559
Speaker 2: It's too much, all right, Oh heah, yeah here I'm

2152
01:43:54,600 --> 01:43:54,920
Speaker 2: with you.

2153
01:43:55,080 --> 01:43:55,479
Speaker 1: Okay.

2154
01:43:55,720 --> 01:43:58,639
Speaker 2: So my dad passed away when I was only one.

2155
01:43:58,720 --> 01:43:58,960
Speaker 1: Damn.

2156
01:43:58,960 --> 01:44:00,000
Speaker 2: I love those transitions.

2157
01:44:01,720 --> 01:44:04,240
Speaker 1: We do them the best. It's been me and my

2158
01:44:04,320 --> 01:44:06,720
Speaker 1: mom ever since. As you can guess, my mom and

2159
01:44:06,760 --> 01:44:09,040
Speaker 1: I were very close. When I was a sophomore in

2160
01:44:09,120 --> 01:44:11,000
Speaker 1: high school, my mom got a part time job as

2161
01:44:11,040 --> 01:44:13,840
Speaker 1: a gym teacher at my school. I supported her when

2162
01:44:13,840 --> 01:44:17,080
Speaker 1: she asked if I would be comfortable with it. Why

2163
01:44:17,160 --> 01:44:20,439
Speaker 1: because she looking so fine? You know, I mean looking

2164
01:44:20,720 --> 01:44:24,559
Speaker 1: like a nice little hard body hotie. You're either you're

2165
01:44:24,560 --> 01:44:28,719
Speaker 1: opening yourself up to two things, One getting little boys

2166
01:44:28,760 --> 01:44:32,240
Speaker 1: fawning over you, or two them saying the exact opposite.

2167
01:44:32,280 --> 01:44:34,000
Speaker 1: I feel like there's not much of it in between.

2168
01:44:34,040 --> 01:44:37,920
Speaker 2: Oh you mean your mom's hot, So okay, so that's

2169
01:44:37,960 --> 01:44:38,599
Speaker 2: where we're going.

2170
01:44:38,760 --> 01:44:42,200
Speaker 1: No, not your mom, just in general, a hot hot

2171
01:44:42,240 --> 01:44:45,080
Speaker 1: mom in general. This is fry. I'm not trying to

2172
01:44:45,080 --> 01:44:48,120
Speaker 1: send a coded message to the viewers, who you're just

2173
01:44:48,240 --> 01:44:52,320
Speaker 1: encouraging to risit my mother. Huh A dog whistle? I

2174
01:44:52,360 --> 01:44:56,960
Speaker 1: got ears they hear great, I hear all whistles. He

2175
01:44:57,000 --> 01:44:59,680
Speaker 1: can't get past me. He can't get past me. You

2176
01:44:59,720 --> 01:45:02,000
Speaker 1: got a call him, mom, You gotta you gotta stop him.

2177
01:45:03,000 --> 01:45:04,200
Speaker 1: Goodness gracious.

2178
01:45:05,880 --> 01:45:09,400
Speaker 2: It was extremely uncomfortable with his laughter from John's.

2179
01:45:09,360 --> 01:45:13,320
Speaker 1: Yes, the nervous laughter from John's end has been commented before. Apparently,

2180
01:45:14,439 --> 01:45:17,200
Speaker 1: it was extremely uncomfortable when guys would make comments on

2181
01:45:17,240 --> 01:45:20,160
Speaker 1: my mom's appearance. Yeah, like, damn with shorty, that ass

2182
01:45:20,200 --> 01:45:24,719
Speaker 1: got its old freaking gravity. Oh I see that moon circling.

2183
01:45:24,960 --> 01:45:30,439
Speaker 1: I see that your rainous amusing. Oh gosh, it also

2184
01:45:30,520 --> 01:45:34,400
Speaker 1: gave me. That also gave the lad who bullied me

2185
01:45:34,439 --> 01:45:35,040
Speaker 1: in high school.

2186
01:45:35,080 --> 01:45:38,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, I dude, what is Brad saying? Like that is

2187
01:45:38,680 --> 01:45:39,320
Speaker 2: what we just said.

2188
01:45:39,360 --> 01:45:42,439
Speaker 1: I'm gonna fuck your mom? Yeah, Like that's a classic one.

2189
01:45:42,680 --> 01:45:45,760
Speaker 1: Is it gonna come truefully? I don't, I mean, no way, right.

2190
01:45:46,160 --> 01:45:49,200
Speaker 2: He would make inappropriate comments about her towards me.

2191
01:45:49,479 --> 01:45:52,720
Speaker 1: Oh god, Brad was a year ahead of me, so

2192
01:45:52,920 --> 01:45:56,240
Speaker 1: I thought I was finally rid of him after he graduated.

2193
01:45:56,760 --> 01:46:01,040
Speaker 1: I was wrong. Oh no. When I became a senior,

2194
01:46:01,200 --> 01:46:05,000
Speaker 1: my mom started going out very often. How often? Uh,

2195
01:46:05,720 --> 01:46:12,639
Speaker 1: very very often? Oh jeez, she's hitting the streets. Yep.

2196
01:46:13,880 --> 01:46:16,200
Speaker 1: Initially I was happy for her because I wanted her

2197
01:46:16,200 --> 01:46:18,840
Speaker 1: to find someone nice. I don't know if your mom

2198
01:46:18,880 --> 01:46:22,040
Speaker 1: is looking for nice right now. She's looking for some

2199
01:46:22,479 --> 01:46:26,240
Speaker 1: She's looking for some hottie with a body, some fat,

2200
01:46:26,360 --> 01:46:32,040
Speaker 1: chunky dudaws to some some thickies, some thickies.

2201
01:46:32,080 --> 01:46:32,840
Speaker 2: You know what they say.

2202
01:46:32,880 --> 01:46:35,519
Speaker 1: A hole in the heart is filled by a big

2203
01:46:35,560 --> 01:46:40,880
Speaker 1: old thicky. That's right, yeah, Penis, Yep, Yeah, that's what

2204
01:46:41,040 --> 01:46:44,400
Speaker 1: he was talking, the hole in the heart. Analogy. Yeah,

2205
01:46:44,439 --> 01:46:47,880
Speaker 1: for explicit reasons, yeah, yep, yep. John John John has

2206
01:46:48,080 --> 01:46:53,960
Speaker 1: a way of making the implicit explicit. Can't be confused. However,

2207
01:46:54,280 --> 01:46:56,920
Speaker 1: it came to a point where, however, it came to

2208
01:46:57,000 --> 01:46:59,760
Speaker 1: a point where we barely got any time together. To

2209
01:46:59,840 --> 01:47:02,240
Speaker 1: be frank, I thought she was avoiding me? Did stop

2210
01:47:02,280 --> 01:47:04,680
Speaker 1: cock blocking your mom? Dude, you got to.

2211
01:47:04,680 --> 01:47:07,240
Speaker 2: Help you Think how much time you had in there?

2212
01:47:07,520 --> 01:47:10,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, you are all up in her vagina for

2213
01:47:10,280 --> 01:47:11,880
Speaker 1: like nine months. Nine months.

2214
01:47:11,920 --> 01:47:14,400
Speaker 2: Let someone else take over so they need at least

2215
01:47:14,520 --> 01:47:15,120
Speaker 2: enough time.

2216
01:47:15,400 --> 01:47:19,240
Speaker 1: Like think about how low I mean twenty seven seconds

2217
01:47:19,880 --> 01:47:20,479
Speaker 1: per time?

2218
01:47:21,040 --> 01:47:23,240
Speaker 2: But that's like, what is twenty seven seconds?

2219
01:47:24,520 --> 01:47:29,400
Speaker 1: How long? Everyone lasts? Of course? Right, nut, Time's right?

2220
01:47:29,479 --> 01:47:34,479
Speaker 1: What's your average? Riley just said you'd be very impressed.

2221
01:47:34,560 --> 01:47:40,519
Speaker 1: What's your average? There we go, there, we go, decent.

2222
01:47:40,720 --> 01:47:43,400
Speaker 2: There it is numbers. That's right, it's a number.

2223
01:47:43,840 --> 01:47:45,920
Speaker 1: It's a number to put up. It's pretty good.

2224
01:47:46,960 --> 01:47:50,360
Speaker 2: We just made Riley so visibly uncomfortable right now.

2225
01:47:50,560 --> 01:47:54,280
Speaker 1: I also love how the game of makes John uncomfortable

2226
01:47:54,320 --> 01:47:57,400
Speaker 1: has become make Rile uncomfortable. I like this game so

2227
01:47:57,640 --> 01:48:01,360
Speaker 1: much more. Oh my goodness. I think it depends if

2228
01:48:01,400 --> 01:48:09,160
Speaker 1: it's like with or without a condom? Oh Rally's like, wait, wait,

2229
01:48:09,160 --> 01:48:10,880
Speaker 1: wait what do you what do you what do you mean?

2230
01:48:12,800 --> 01:48:17,280
Speaker 1: You'll know one day? You'll know one day, buddy, Just okay,

2231
01:48:18,000 --> 01:48:22,960
Speaker 1: just sit tight, Okay, you'll find a lucky further comments,

2232
01:48:24,120 --> 01:48:29,960
Speaker 1: No further comments. Okay, So back to our story back

2233
01:48:30,000 --> 01:48:33,800
Speaker 1: to Opie's mom. This was because whenever I tried to

2234
01:48:33,800 --> 01:48:36,439
Speaker 1: make plants with her, she had already made plants before.

2235
01:48:36,720 --> 01:48:40,000
Speaker 1: Wait really quick, rally, did you hear anything like last

2236
01:48:40,040 --> 01:48:46,120
Speaker 1: couple of nights? I actually said you said something? Really,

2237
01:48:47,720 --> 01:48:50,679
Speaker 1: I didn't hear anything either, Okay, good.

2238
01:48:50,760 --> 01:48:54,360
Speaker 2: I didn't hear anything, and I was like, okay.

2239
01:48:55,280 --> 01:48:59,960
Speaker 1: I was like, is that is that? Okay? Okay? Okay

2240
01:49:00,080 --> 01:49:02,040
Speaker 1: me or anything? Good walls here, good walls.

2241
01:49:02,800 --> 01:49:03,800
Speaker 2: I haven't heard anything either.

2242
01:49:06,720 --> 01:49:14,800
Speaker 1: Yeah. After after the bar tonight, Riley just just like

2243
01:49:14,840 --> 01:49:18,920
Speaker 1: screaming goat videos like Dangle had a great time. I

2244
01:49:19,000 --> 01:49:22,440
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, it was a special lead good Yeah,

2245
01:49:22,760 --> 01:49:29,120
Speaker 1: scream like a goat. So all right, back to dope,

2246
01:49:29,120 --> 01:49:32,320
Speaker 1: he's them off. This was because whenever I tried to

2247
01:49:32,320 --> 01:49:34,799
Speaker 1: make plans with her, she had already made plans before.

2248
01:49:35,320 --> 01:49:37,200
Speaker 1: I sort of kept her to myself because I didn't

2249
01:49:37,200 --> 01:49:40,559
Speaker 1: want to come off as needy. I went off, so needy, dude, dude,

2250
01:49:40,720 --> 01:49:43,040
Speaker 1: So God, let your mama some space?

2251
01:49:43,160 --> 01:49:45,479
Speaker 2: My god, do you want your mom to uh see

2252
01:49:45,520 --> 01:49:46,320
Speaker 2: you on your birthday?

2253
01:49:47,000 --> 01:49:47,200
Speaker 1: Yeah?

2254
01:49:47,240 --> 01:49:49,080
Speaker 2: Disgusting idiot, You're so stupid.

2255
01:49:49,760 --> 01:49:52,320
Speaker 1: I didn't complain when she missed my birthday because she

2256
01:49:52,479 --> 01:49:58,160
Speaker 1: was out all night. It's tough. It's tough out there. Yep.

2257
01:49:58,840 --> 01:50:00,960
Speaker 1: When she tried to apologize the next day, I told

2258
01:50:01,000 --> 01:50:02,200
Speaker 1: her it was okay.

2259
01:50:03,080 --> 01:50:07,320
Speaker 2: After six months of this behavior, six months, six months.

2260
01:50:07,600 --> 01:50:09,240
Speaker 1: We got to lay it down. Now. Now is the

2261
01:50:09,280 --> 01:50:12,760
Speaker 1: time I decided to take action. I asked my mom

2262
01:50:12,800 --> 01:50:14,720
Speaker 1: if we can have dinner together, just the two of us.

2263
01:50:14,760 --> 01:50:20,840
Speaker 1: She's like, nah no, yeah, wow literally, Yeah. How much

2264
01:50:20,840 --> 01:50:22,200
Speaker 1: of a lose you have to be for your own

2265
01:50:22,240 --> 01:50:25,679
Speaker 1: mom to feel like that is kind of that seems

2266
01:50:25,720 --> 01:50:29,920
Speaker 1: like a waste of time, honey, Yeah, that's that kind

2267
01:50:29,920 --> 01:50:31,000
Speaker 1: of hurts. Yeah.

2268
01:50:31,400 --> 01:50:32,880
Speaker 2: I feel bad a little bit for Opie.

2269
01:50:33,040 --> 01:50:39,360
Speaker 1: Yeah. She said she was too busy. Yeah, she is busy. Yep.

2270
01:50:39,920 --> 01:50:41,439
Speaker 1: I got fed up and I told her to stop

2271
01:50:41,479 --> 01:50:43,960
Speaker 1: ignoring me. She said that she wasn't ignoring me, but

2272
01:50:44,000 --> 01:50:48,920
Speaker 1: that she had a life to live without you. Every

2273
01:50:48,920 --> 01:50:51,479
Speaker 1: second I'm with you, I'm not living life. Yeah, don't

2274
01:50:51,479 --> 01:50:53,439
Speaker 1: you get it. You literally drained life for me. You

2275
01:50:53,520 --> 01:50:57,080
Speaker 1: drained life for me for eighteen years. Mommy needs to

2276
01:50:57,120 --> 01:51:00,000
Speaker 1: have some funny time to shine. That really hurt me

2277
01:51:00,080 --> 01:51:02,599
Speaker 1: a lot. Out of anger, I started to ignore her

2278
01:51:02,640 --> 01:51:05,519
Speaker 1: for a few days after those days passed, she finally

2279
01:51:05,600 --> 01:51:08,920
Speaker 1: apologized to me. However, She said she needed to talk

2280
01:51:08,960 --> 01:51:11,439
Speaker 1: to me about something important.

2281
01:51:11,800 --> 01:51:15,200
Speaker 2: What is it? Mom's about to drop a bombshell? I feel.

2282
01:51:17,240 --> 01:51:19,360
Speaker 1: Well, I see you in the comments, but I see

2283
01:51:19,360 --> 01:51:21,880
Speaker 1: you if you know what? You see it? Do you

2284
01:51:21,960 --> 01:51:27,240
Speaker 1: see it? You know what time it is? She wanted

2285
01:51:27,280 --> 01:51:32,200
Speaker 1: to introduce me to her boyfriend at dinner. Oh no,

2286
01:51:33,320 --> 01:51:36,160
Speaker 1: she didn't sound excited about it. It sounded like she

2287
01:51:36,280 --> 01:51:38,960
Speaker 1: was almost dreading it. When the doorbell rang, my mom

2288
01:51:39,040 --> 01:51:40,840
Speaker 1: opened it and introduced the guy to me.

2289
01:51:40,920 --> 01:51:41,920
Speaker 2: Oh no, who's it gonna be?

2290
01:51:42,200 --> 01:51:46,160
Speaker 1: Ah? I know, I know. I was in the most

2291
01:51:46,280 --> 01:51:54,960
Speaker 1: extreme shock. No it, No was no Brad. Yep, Brad

2292
01:51:55,040 --> 01:51:57,160
Speaker 1: is also just a classic high school at the classic

2293
01:51:57,200 --> 01:52:00,400
Speaker 1: high school bullionaire. Dude, you know every Brad it's sucking

2294
01:52:00,400 --> 01:52:04,479
Speaker 1: that bully's mom. God or no, every Brad is the

2295
01:52:04,479 --> 01:52:08,240
Speaker 1: bully that is hooking up with your mom. Yikes. Also,

2296
01:52:08,320 --> 01:52:09,840
Speaker 1: let me see how old the mom is real quick?

2297
01:52:09,840 --> 01:52:13,479
Speaker 1: If it no, I don't seeing if it's in datable range,

2298
01:52:13,840 --> 01:52:19,720
Speaker 1: I don't. Nope, Yeah, I don't, I don't. We don't know.

2299
01:52:19,760 --> 01:52:22,519
Speaker 1: But let's assume, like, what what's eight eighteen and eighteen?

2300
01:52:23,800 --> 01:52:28,720
Speaker 1: Like thirty six, thirty six, nineteen and thirty six, and

2301
01:52:28,760 --> 01:52:34,400
Speaker 1: that's probably young. Yeah, like she's probably older than thirty six. KHLEI,

2302
01:52:36,560 --> 01:52:39,800
Speaker 1: I'd be into it. Seems like I'm about it. I'm

2303
01:52:39,800 --> 01:52:42,760
Speaker 1: about it the next to Australian sweetheart. Yeah, dude, I'm

2304
01:52:42,760 --> 01:52:53,120
Speaker 1: trying to meet some Australian mommies. Well I know one

2305
01:52:54,120 --> 01:52:58,880
Speaker 1: got you back, bitch. Yes. Fuck this is a war, dude, Yeah,

2306
01:52:58,920 --> 01:53:01,080
Speaker 1: this is now. It's just a be How can we

2307
01:53:01,120 --> 01:53:03,559
Speaker 1: get more people to DM each other's mom? This is

2308
01:53:03,960 --> 01:53:06,920
Speaker 1: not going to be good for our family to family dynamics,

2309
01:53:07,040 --> 01:53:09,679
Speaker 1: not at all. Please don't. Actually I'm gonna I'm gonna

2310
01:53:09,720 --> 01:53:11,840
Speaker 1: quit before I start because I do not want missus

2311
01:53:11,880 --> 01:53:14,479
Speaker 1: Donna Madamy. That is something I do not want. She

2312
01:53:14,560 --> 01:53:16,439
Speaker 1: will whip you and you won't like it. I don't

2313
01:53:16,439 --> 01:53:22,120
Speaker 1: want that smoke, not at all. Oh. I almost screamed

2314
01:53:22,120 --> 01:53:24,920
Speaker 1: at my mom, asking her what is he doing here?

2315
01:53:25,080 --> 01:53:28,360
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Brad came forward to acknowledge that the

2316
01:53:28,439 --> 01:53:31,880
Speaker 1: situation was uncomfortable, but he's sorry for how he treated

2317
01:53:31,960 --> 01:53:34,439
Speaker 1: me in school and that he really cares about my mom.

2318
01:53:34,560 --> 01:53:36,479
Speaker 2: Oh my god, that is like the worst that you

2319
01:53:36,479 --> 01:53:37,080
Speaker 2: could have said.

2320
01:53:38,120 --> 01:53:40,240
Speaker 1: Fuck not only did he bully you, but now he's

2321
01:53:40,240 --> 01:53:46,439
Speaker 1: a bigger man. Bro. Like, there's literally nothing you can

2322
01:53:46,960 --> 01:53:51,120
Speaker 1: there's no recovery. There's no recovery. I couldn't recover. I

2323
01:53:51,160 --> 01:53:56,400
Speaker 1: would be just so I refucked. Not as fucked as

2324
01:53:56,400 --> 01:54:04,000
Speaker 1: his mom. Hey five, god boom. My mom asked. My

2325
01:54:04,080 --> 01:54:06,680
Speaker 1: mom asked us to sit and let her explain how

2326
01:54:06,720 --> 01:54:09,640
Speaker 1: all of us happened. But did they did they? Like,

2327
01:54:10,120 --> 01:54:16,320
Speaker 1: did mom know that the bully bullied op context clues?

2328
01:54:16,400 --> 01:54:18,240
Speaker 1: I think I think so. And he also just said

2329
01:54:18,280 --> 01:54:21,320
Speaker 1: I'm sorry for you, like probably, yeah. It was like, yeah,

2330
01:54:21,360 --> 01:54:23,479
Speaker 1: you know, I went to a parent teacher conference with

2331
01:54:23,680 --> 01:54:27,400
Speaker 1: Brad and his parents and then you know, just me

2332
01:54:27,520 --> 01:54:30,280
Speaker 1: and Brad to really solve how we could stop bullying you.

2333
01:54:30,360 --> 01:54:33,120
Speaker 1: And I realized the best way was just to leave

2334
01:54:33,120 --> 01:54:36,040
Speaker 1: a lot of his stress. You know, Brad was really stressed,

2335
01:54:36,040 --> 01:54:37,760
Speaker 1: and I think that he was taking out on you.

2336
01:54:37,920 --> 01:54:40,680
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, And it's like, Brad, you know, where's all

2337
01:54:40,680 --> 01:54:42,000
Speaker 1: this coming from? And I think there's a lot of

2338
01:54:42,000 --> 01:54:44,200
Speaker 1: pent up energy here, a lot let me let me,

2339
01:54:44,280 --> 01:54:45,560
Speaker 1: let me, let me help you relax.

2340
01:54:45,640 --> 01:54:48,280
Speaker 2: Brad just easy did this for you?

2341
01:54:48,400 --> 01:54:51,760
Speaker 1: Op. Let you know, I had to let Brad let

2342
01:54:51,800 --> 01:54:54,640
Speaker 1: it out. Yeah, yeah, get it all, get it all out,

2343
01:54:54,760 --> 01:54:57,440
Speaker 1: all of it, all of it. And boy did I

2344
01:54:57,720 --> 01:55:05,680
Speaker 1: oh inside me, stepdaddy, stepbrother, half brother. Oh God, hold

2345
01:55:05,720 --> 01:55:11,040
Speaker 1: your dad. Hopefully this doesn't go there. I remember screaming,

2346
01:55:11,320 --> 01:55:13,520
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck about your explanation.

2347
01:55:13,840 --> 01:55:16,480
Speaker 2: You tossed me aside for this piece of shit. You're

2348
01:55:16,480 --> 01:55:18,080
Speaker 2: a pathetic excuse of a mother.

2349
01:55:19,000 --> 01:55:22,280
Speaker 1: Honestly, yeah, that's pretty rong. I mean I think that's

2350
01:55:22,520 --> 01:55:25,400
Speaker 1: that's about it as good of a reaction can you do?

2351
01:55:25,520 --> 01:55:27,280
Speaker 1: You have nothing else, You have nothing else, You have

2352
01:55:27,280 --> 01:55:31,400
Speaker 1: no dignity. My mom then defended him, saying, don't you

2353
01:55:31,520 --> 01:55:35,360
Speaker 1: dare call him that? She then she then said she

2354
01:55:35,480 --> 01:55:38,640
Speaker 1: tried to accommodate everyone in this tough situation by keeping

2355
01:55:38,680 --> 01:55:42,120
Speaker 1: the relationship away from me, and she was going out

2356
01:55:42,160 --> 01:55:45,320
Speaker 1: like every night, every night with Brad and skipping his

2357
01:55:45,480 --> 01:55:50,720
Speaker 1: birthday to hang out with Brad. Bro Worst mom of

2358
01:55:50,760 --> 01:55:57,880
Speaker 1: all time, worst mom of all time, so bad. She

2359
01:55:58,000 --> 01:56:01,120
Speaker 1: then said, like it or not, Brad is here to stay.

2360
01:56:01,400 --> 01:56:02,120
Speaker 1: No way.

2361
01:56:02,520 --> 01:56:05,560
Speaker 2: If you don't like it, you're more than welcome to leave.

2362
01:56:06,040 --> 01:56:11,200
Speaker 1: Oh literally, choosing Brad over Opie who you've been seeing?

2363
01:56:11,200 --> 01:56:16,920
Speaker 1: What me? He just graduated high school that you weren't

2364
01:56:16,960 --> 01:56:22,160
Speaker 1: teaching at. Oh she was teaching. Yes, she was the

2365
01:56:22,320 --> 01:56:29,440
Speaker 1: gym teacher. Oh that's fucked. That's so fucked. Right, that's

2366
01:56:29,520 --> 01:56:33,440
Speaker 1: so fucked. So I forgot about that. That's even more fucked.

2367
01:56:33,720 --> 01:56:37,920
Speaker 1: Yeah she yeah, yeah, OPI probably is putting two and

2368
01:56:37,920 --> 01:56:40,400
Speaker 1: two together as well. Yeah, I mean, like, how did

2369
01:56:40,440 --> 01:56:42,840
Speaker 1: they how did this start? Did this start in high school?

2370
01:56:44,320 --> 01:56:48,760
Speaker 1: So yeah, that's the question. Yeah, that's the question. I

2371
01:56:48,880 --> 01:56:51,360
Speaker 1: packed my bags right then and there. I called my

2372
01:56:51,400 --> 01:56:54,080
Speaker 1: grandma and told her about the whole situation. She drove

2373
01:56:54,200 --> 01:56:56,920
Speaker 1: to my house and confronted my mom after a shouting

2374
01:56:56,920 --> 01:57:00,440
Speaker 1: match between them. I left with my grandma by calling

2375
01:57:00,440 --> 01:57:03,000
Speaker 1: me several weeks after, but I blocked her. She tried

2376
01:57:03,000 --> 01:57:05,440
Speaker 1: to visit me, but I called the cops on her. Wow,

2377
01:57:06,200 --> 01:57:10,240
Speaker 1: my man is not playing around? Is heated? Yikes? After that,

2378
01:57:10,360 --> 01:57:13,040
Speaker 1: she just sort of gave up. It's been two years

2379
01:57:13,040 --> 01:57:16,040
Speaker 1: since I've heard from my mom. Then I got a

2380
01:57:16,040 --> 01:57:18,360
Speaker 1: call from her yesterday and she said it's urgent and

2381
01:57:18,400 --> 01:57:20,960
Speaker 1: that we need to meet up. And I don't know

2382
01:57:21,400 --> 01:57:24,920
Speaker 1: if I should go. Tell me there's an update. There's

2383
01:57:25,160 --> 01:57:29,920
Speaker 1: an update, Oh my god. But the question is do

2384
01:57:30,440 --> 01:57:34,440
Speaker 1: we does op go. I'm wondering if it's a pregnancy

2385
01:57:34,480 --> 01:57:39,400
Speaker 1: announcement that would I don't know if I'm calling it, man,

2386
01:57:39,400 --> 01:57:42,560
Speaker 1: but I would fucking flip a shit. I would flip

2387
01:57:42,600 --> 01:57:46,840
Speaker 1: a shit. No contact contact feel like it might be

2388
01:57:46,880 --> 01:57:51,760
Speaker 1: an actual emergent eurergency. Yeah, like like ratpl it'd be

2389
01:57:51,800 --> 01:57:55,880
Speaker 1: like I could be like I ran out of money, likes,

2390
01:57:56,160 --> 01:57:59,120
Speaker 1: I don't know, something like that. But I don't know.

2391
01:57:59,160 --> 01:58:02,200
Speaker 1: If you're your mom who is dating your high school

2392
01:58:02,200 --> 01:58:06,960
Speaker 1: bully asked you, Hey, I have an emergency. Are you

2393
01:58:07,000 --> 01:58:10,280
Speaker 1: gonna pick up? Are you gonna help? I think, honestly,

2394
01:58:10,400 --> 01:58:13,200
Speaker 1: it's my mom. I would probably help. Yeah, But the

2395
01:58:13,200 --> 01:58:17,600
Speaker 1: thing is, it's not your mom, it's this mom. I know. Yeah,

2396
01:58:17,640 --> 01:58:20,280
Speaker 1: but this mom, I would have a hard time. Not

2397
01:58:21,200 --> 01:58:26,120
Speaker 1: even I would go begrudgingly yeah, you know, but be like, yeah, mom,

2398
01:58:26,160 --> 01:58:27,880
Speaker 1: you treat me poorly. All right, let's see, let's see

2399
01:58:27,880 --> 01:58:31,040
Speaker 1: the ass update. Please, for the love of God, she

2400
01:58:31,200 --> 01:58:33,120
Speaker 1: said that we could meet for lunch at the restaurant

2401
01:58:33,200 --> 01:58:36,360
Speaker 1: at twelve pm. So he's doing it. When I arrived

2402
01:58:36,360 --> 01:58:40,320
Speaker 1: at the restaurant, unsurprisingly, Brad was sitting there.

2403
01:58:40,400 --> 01:58:43,440
Speaker 2: Oh not again, God, not again.

2404
01:58:44,520 --> 01:58:46,280
Speaker 1: He didn't even look me in the eye as we

2405
01:58:46,360 --> 01:58:49,120
Speaker 1: sat down. He just nodded his head as if to

2406
01:58:49,160 --> 01:58:52,600
Speaker 1: simply acknowledge my arrival. As my mom sat down, she

2407
01:58:52,680 --> 01:58:55,080
Speaker 1: started shooting out multiple questions.

2408
01:58:54,920 --> 01:58:56,720
Speaker 2: What have you been up to? Are you in school?

2409
01:58:56,800 --> 01:58:57,480
Speaker 2: How's it going?

2410
01:58:58,120 --> 01:59:00,480
Speaker 1: I got annoyed and I told her stop wasting my

2411
01:59:00,560 --> 01:59:03,040
Speaker 1: time with these questions? What do you want from me? Yeah?

2412
01:59:03,120 --> 01:59:05,640
Speaker 1: Tell me? Yeah, you said it was like low Kith

2413
01:59:05,840 --> 01:59:08,800
Speaker 1: was literally an emergency. Yeah. My mom burst into tears

2414
01:59:08,840 --> 01:59:10,920
Speaker 1: and begged me to forgive her for hurting me.

2415
01:59:11,360 --> 01:59:12,480
Speaker 2: Why is Brad there?

2416
01:59:12,520 --> 01:59:15,160
Speaker 1: Though? Like, what what are we doing? I mean to

2417
01:59:15,200 --> 01:59:20,960
Speaker 1: your bodyguard? That's what happened. He's hired is a bodyguard? No,

2418
01:59:21,040 --> 01:59:23,480
Speaker 1: but like why like why? Like why does why does

2419
01:59:23,520 --> 01:59:25,160
Speaker 1: he need to be there? Like it's it doesn't make

2420
01:59:25,160 --> 01:59:27,160
Speaker 1: any sense, That's what I'm saying. That feels like he's

2421
01:59:27,200 --> 01:59:31,440
Speaker 1: just there, like like I mean, maybe emotional support, an

2422
01:59:31,440 --> 01:59:35,080
Speaker 1: emotional bodyguard. I don't know. It doesn't seem like it

2423
01:59:35,120 --> 01:59:39,440
Speaker 1: makes sense. It doesn't to me at all. Oh my god.

2424
01:59:40,200 --> 01:59:42,480
Speaker 1: She She then said that these two years have been

2425
01:59:42,480 --> 01:59:46,960
Speaker 1: painful for her. Finally, Brad spoken admitted, she misses you

2426
01:59:47,080 --> 01:59:52,280
Speaker 1: like crazy, dude, she still needs you in her life. Yeah, thanks, Brad. Yeah,

2427
01:59:52,320 --> 01:59:56,360
Speaker 1: that don't really convince me, dude, fuck you you would

2428
01:59:56,480 --> 01:59:58,760
Speaker 1: like also, mom, you would have been so much better

2429
01:59:58,800 --> 02:00:01,520
Speaker 1: off or Opie's mom, you've been so much better off

2430
02:00:01,760 --> 02:00:04,640
Speaker 1: going alone. Yeah, you literally decreased your chances by a

2431
02:00:04,640 --> 02:00:06,800
Speaker 1: million xs. Yeah, I know, Like this seems like a

2432
02:00:07,000 --> 02:00:12,080
Speaker 1: very important emotional moment between the mom and op What

2433
02:00:12,120 --> 02:00:13,320
Speaker 1: the fuck is Brad doing there?

2434
02:00:14,320 --> 02:00:16,520
Speaker 2: Also emergency? Now I'm like pissed at.

2435
02:00:16,400 --> 02:00:19,400
Speaker 1: Her for for even like playing that card, Like what

2436
02:00:19,480 --> 02:00:21,680
Speaker 1: if like she's sick, you know what I mean? Like

2437
02:00:21,880 --> 02:00:26,440
Speaker 1: that could be what it means. My mom said, I'm

2438
02:00:26,560 --> 02:00:29,400
Speaker 1: I'm sorry for being awful. Mother. We want to make

2439
02:00:29,440 --> 02:00:32,040
Speaker 1: it up to you. We're moving to California and we

2440
02:00:32,080 --> 02:00:34,920
Speaker 1: want you to come with me. We are they like

2441
02:00:35,000 --> 02:00:39,360
Speaker 1: a man, this is so bad. This is so we

2442
02:00:39,400 --> 02:00:41,840
Speaker 1: will put the bill for your education and everything else.

2443
02:00:42,160 --> 02:00:43,720
Speaker 2: You won't have bad getting this money.

2444
02:00:43,960 --> 02:00:45,920
Speaker 1: That's a great question. What do you mean his mom

2445
02:00:45,960 --> 02:00:48,160
Speaker 1: was a gym teacher? Yeah, what do you what do

2446
02:00:48,200 --> 02:00:53,160
Speaker 1: you like putting the bill for money that we don't

2447
02:00:53,800 --> 02:00:56,000
Speaker 1: just got promoted over the last two years, you know,

2448
02:00:56,280 --> 02:01:00,880
Speaker 1: maybe inherited some fortune. Maybe I don't know, you know what,

2449
02:01:00,960 --> 02:01:04,720
Speaker 1: Maybe they're just saying all this just to like, you know, yeah,

2450
02:01:04,920 --> 02:01:06,600
Speaker 1: convince them. Maybe they're like they don't even know how

2451
02:01:06,600 --> 02:01:07,080
Speaker 1: they're gonna do.

2452
02:01:07,640 --> 02:01:10,360
Speaker 2: They're just like, we're just getting can by any means.

2453
02:01:10,360 --> 02:01:12,800
Speaker 1: That's god, which is not a cheap place to be

2454
02:01:13,120 --> 02:01:16,320
Speaker 1: or pay for school. No, yeah, bro out of state.

2455
02:01:17,320 --> 02:01:20,320
Speaker 1: I don't know what's going on here. You won't have

2456
02:01:20,400 --> 02:01:22,720
Speaker 1: to work at all, and you have a permanent place

2457
02:01:22,800 --> 02:01:23,960
Speaker 1: in our home? What the fuck?

2458
02:01:24,080 --> 02:01:25,880
Speaker 2: What kind of fake promises this?

2459
02:01:26,120 --> 02:01:31,120
Speaker 1: Yeah? Also, like, what do you mean our home? I

2460
02:01:31,160 --> 02:01:33,520
Speaker 1: also feel like it's like, obviously not the expectation one

2461
02:01:33,560 --> 02:01:35,520
Speaker 1: hundred percent of the time, but I feel like it's

2462
02:01:35,520 --> 02:01:38,640
Speaker 1: semi reasonable be like, hey, if you're like college aged,

2463
02:01:39,000 --> 02:01:43,280
Speaker 1: you could live at home and you know, my help

2464
02:01:43,320 --> 02:01:46,400
Speaker 1: for education. I feel like she's like not. I feel

2465
02:01:46,440 --> 02:01:47,800
Speaker 1: like she's like, oh my gosh, I'm going to give

2466
02:01:47,800 --> 02:01:49,160
Speaker 1: you the world and the moon and the stars. And

2467
02:01:49,200 --> 02:01:52,040
Speaker 1: it's like it's not that crazy, No, Like you're just

2468
02:01:52,400 --> 02:01:56,520
Speaker 1: you're just being a like a slightly above average mom. Now, yeah,

2469
02:01:56,560 --> 02:01:59,080
Speaker 1: like by paying for college, Like what's good? I don't

2470
02:01:59,080 --> 02:02:00,800
Speaker 1: know what the hell came to me, but I started

2471
02:02:00,880 --> 02:02:04,320
Speaker 1: laughing like crazy, like a madman. It was the most

2472
02:02:04,480 --> 02:02:09,360
Speaker 1: ridiculous proposition. Now, this is what makes me the monster.

2473
02:02:10,120 --> 02:02:15,440
Speaker 1: This is what I really came there for. After I

2474
02:02:15,480 --> 02:02:19,040
Speaker 1: calmed down, this is what I said to her. Mom,

2475
02:02:19,800 --> 02:02:23,480
Speaker 1: you must be the most delusional punt. If you think

2476
02:02:23,520 --> 02:02:27,240
Speaker 1: I'll ever forgive you, you are dead to me for good.

2477
02:02:27,920 --> 02:02:31,800
Speaker 1: Only acknowledgment you'll get from me is me pissing on

2478
02:02:31,880 --> 02:02:37,080
Speaker 1: your grave when you pass away. My god, Oh he's mad.

2479
02:02:37,400 --> 02:02:45,640
Speaker 1: That's a bit mad, a little bit mad. Then she

2480
02:02:45,880 --> 02:02:48,840
Speaker 1: was hysterically crying. I got it from the table and

2481
02:02:48,920 --> 02:02:52,840
Speaker 1: left the restaurant. A minute after, walking to the parking lot,

2482
02:02:53,000 --> 02:02:55,840
Speaker 1: I hear my mom screaming at Brad to stop following me.

2483
02:02:56,480 --> 02:03:00,760
Speaker 1: I really wanted this confrontation. The moment he grabbed my shirt,

2484
02:03:00,960 --> 02:03:03,320
Speaker 1: I turn around and sucker punch him in the face.

2485
02:03:04,040 --> 02:03:06,800
Speaker 1: He drops on the road with his mouth bleeding. My

2486
02:03:06,920 --> 02:03:09,560
Speaker 1: mom comes to physically restrain me from hurting him until

2487
02:03:09,560 --> 02:03:12,920
Speaker 1: he calms down. I told them this is what I

2488
02:03:12,920 --> 02:03:16,200
Speaker 1: think about your proposal. It's been four hours now after

2489
02:03:16,240 --> 02:03:19,000
Speaker 1: the incident. I know deep down I should be ashamed

2490
02:03:19,000 --> 02:03:22,240
Speaker 1: of myself, but I feel amazing inside. Oh my god,

2491
02:03:22,400 --> 02:03:25,800
Speaker 1: I don't know, if adrenaline can last that long. It

2492
02:03:25,880 --> 02:03:31,920
Speaker 1: feels like I took my power back. Oh my god,

2493
02:03:32,120 --> 02:03:37,480
Speaker 1: I'm speechless, speechless. That is so that is so insane.

2494
02:03:37,800 --> 02:03:40,080
Speaker 1: I mean, at least he got a punch in. He did,

2495
02:03:40,240 --> 02:03:45,320
Speaker 1: But I mean, I mean, Brad's gonna be punching your

2496
02:03:45,360 --> 02:03:48,120
Speaker 1: mom with his dick just like moments later.

2497
02:03:48,280 --> 02:03:51,560
Speaker 2: Can't stop you know again, it's it's the best you

2498
02:03:51,600 --> 02:03:52,040
Speaker 2: can do.

2499
02:03:53,480 --> 02:03:56,680
Speaker 1: In the scenario. Yeah, it's pretty rough, dude, pretty rough.

2500
02:03:56,720 --> 02:03:59,720
Speaker 1: I feel bad for Op, like his mom obviously is

2501
02:03:59,760 --> 02:04:02,920
Speaker 1: not being a good mother. Yeah, and he's just frustrated.

2502
02:04:03,000 --> 02:04:05,240
Speaker 1: It sounds like he also maybe is overly attached to

2503
02:04:05,280 --> 02:04:09,800
Speaker 1: his mom too. Yeah. So here's my question. I feel

2504
02:04:09,800 --> 02:04:12,360
Speaker 1: like we know the mom is the a hole? Here,

2505
02:04:13,200 --> 02:04:17,440
Speaker 1: is Ope the a hole for what he did? Yeah?

2506
02:04:17,440 --> 02:04:20,240
Speaker 1: I want to hear your your comments. I want to

2507
02:04:20,280 --> 02:04:23,640
Speaker 1: hear everything in the comments right now. But I think yes,

2508
02:04:23,800 --> 02:04:27,640
Speaker 1: a little bit but understandable. Yeah, but I would love

2509
02:04:27,680 --> 02:04:30,640
Speaker 1: to know what you would do if your bully started

2510
02:04:30,720 --> 02:04:31,400
Speaker 1: dating your mom.

2511
02:04:32,000 --> 02:04:33,480
Speaker 2: Would you ban her from doing it?

2512
02:04:33,520 --> 02:04:35,560
Speaker 1: Would you be happy that your mom found the love

2513
02:04:35,600 --> 02:04:38,560
Speaker 1: of her life in your pain? Let us know in

2514
02:04:38,560 --> 02:04:41,560
Speaker 1: the comments immediately, that's right, and we'll get into the

2515
02:04:41,600 --> 02:04:44,320
Speaker 1: next one. Boo, my sudden law is letting his disabled

2516
02:04:44,400 --> 02:04:48,520
Speaker 1: son ruin my granddaughter's birthday. I will not sit back idly.

2517
02:04:48,840 --> 02:04:51,280
Speaker 1: I'm going to cause a scene, am I the a hole?

2518
02:04:51,400 --> 02:04:52,840
Speaker 1: What is it with these people saying?

2519
02:04:52,880 --> 02:04:55,080
Speaker 2: When? When will they stop? When will they know.

2520
02:04:55,040 --> 02:04:57,800
Speaker 1: Where to stop? They'll never stop, They'll never stop until

2521
02:04:57,840 --> 02:05:01,560
Speaker 1: there's a plague that affects only assholes. The Karen, the

2522
02:05:01,640 --> 02:05:04,520
Speaker 1: Karen plague, the Karen play. We need one, honestly, pro

2523
02:05:04,680 --> 02:05:07,480
Speaker 1: Karen Plake. I'm gonna I'm going out there and saying it. Yeah,

2524
02:05:07,560 --> 02:05:10,640
Speaker 1: John's actually gonna go on a vigilante justice mission, that's right,

2525
02:05:11,200 --> 02:05:14,240
Speaker 1: going to Karen Mann. Yeah, yeah, Karen Man. He's going

2526
02:05:14,320 --> 02:05:19,560
Speaker 1: to infect every Karen with chlamydia. Wow, doing something for

2527
02:05:19,600 --> 02:05:20,600
Speaker 1: the all of us. I'm doing.

2528
02:05:20,640 --> 02:05:22,320
Speaker 2: I'm doing the Lord's work out here for real.

2529
02:05:22,680 --> 02:05:26,280
Speaker 1: My daughter Ava just turned fifteen. Her dad died when

2530
02:05:26,320 --> 02:05:29,800
Speaker 1: she was very little. My daughter May remarried a few

2531
02:05:29,840 --> 02:05:32,480
Speaker 1: years ago to a man, Tom that I wish she

2532
02:05:32,800 --> 02:05:34,680
Speaker 1: hadn't because Tom, I guess sucks.

2533
02:05:35,320 --> 02:05:37,440
Speaker 2: He has a thirteen year old disabled son, Rob.

2534
02:05:37,720 --> 02:05:40,920
Speaker 1: Tom spoils Rob and neglects all of my granddaughter's needs.

2535
02:05:41,280 --> 02:05:43,400
Speaker 1: Of course, this is May's fault too, and I've gotten

2536
02:05:43,400 --> 02:05:45,280
Speaker 1: to the point where I still love her, but I

2537
02:05:45,320 --> 02:05:50,080
Speaker 1: do not like her daughter. And this is uh Ope's

2538
02:05:50,400 --> 02:05:57,480
Speaker 1: granted Opie's daughter, Op's daughter, May May married someone in Toaz.

2539
02:05:57,960 --> 02:06:02,680
Speaker 1: Tom has the disabled kid. Right, May has daughter Ava.

2540
02:06:03,160 --> 02:06:06,440
Speaker 1: Right May does not pay attention enough to Ava. Got it,

2541
02:06:06,520 --> 02:06:09,480
Speaker 1: got it. Ava must always take a back seat to Rob.

2542
02:06:09,720 --> 02:06:11,840
Speaker 1: She can't go places that Rob can't go. He's in

2543
02:06:11,840 --> 02:06:14,480
Speaker 1: her wheelchair, so she can't do stuff like camping. I

2544
02:06:14,520 --> 02:06:16,080
Speaker 1: had to fight with May to get her to put

2545
02:06:16,120 --> 02:06:19,000
Speaker 1: her foot down and allow Ava to even play sports

2546
02:06:19,040 --> 02:06:23,200
Speaker 1: in school. Oh wow, so like AA's not Ava's not

2547
02:06:23,280 --> 02:06:26,280
Speaker 1: even allowed to play sports because Rob can't. That's wild,

2548
02:06:26,400 --> 02:06:29,480
Speaker 1: that's crazy. Yeah, even then it falls on me to

2549
02:06:29,520 --> 02:06:33,480
Speaker 1: transport her because May must always be available for Tom's needs.

2550
02:06:33,720 --> 02:06:36,440
Speaker 1: She won't even go to her games because Rob said

2551
02:06:36,520 --> 02:06:39,800
Speaker 1: it will make Tom feel bad. Ava's paternal grandparents had

2552
02:06:39,840 --> 02:06:42,960
Speaker 1: to stop giving Ava money because Tom would force her

2553
02:06:43,200 --> 02:06:46,400
Speaker 1: to give Rob sixty percent of it because Rob is

2554
02:06:46,480 --> 02:06:53,200
Speaker 1: disabled and needed extra I don't understand. The preferential treatment

2555
02:06:53,240 --> 02:06:57,760
Speaker 1: is crazy. It's literally like it's in like literally the

2556
02:06:57,800 --> 02:07:02,200
Speaker 1: sixty percent like it's yeah, there's no. Yeah, it's like, yeah,

2557
02:07:02,280 --> 02:07:07,160
Speaker 1: Rob deserves way more than you. Yeah. Oh boy. Ava's

2558
02:07:07,160 --> 02:07:09,800
Speaker 1: birthday was coming up, and Tom was clear that the

2559
02:07:09,840 --> 02:07:14,000
Speaker 1: cake and ice cream must be what Rob wants or

2560
02:07:14,040 --> 02:07:18,920
Speaker 1: else it's unfair. Make sure your birthday is pleasing Rob.

2561
02:07:19,040 --> 02:07:21,080
Speaker 1: That's right, it all needs to be catered to me.

2562
02:07:21,680 --> 02:07:23,960
Speaker 1: He demanded that the cake must be chocolate and the

2563
02:07:23,960 --> 02:07:29,240
Speaker 1: ice cream strawberry, neither of which Eva prefers. God, oh god.

2564
02:07:29,720 --> 02:07:30,920
Speaker 2: The party was at my house.

2565
02:07:30,960 --> 02:07:33,080
Speaker 1: So when I push back on this, Tom gave me

2566
02:07:33,160 --> 02:07:36,400
Speaker 1: a spiel about how hard Rob's life is and he

2567
02:07:36,480 --> 02:07:42,160
Speaker 1: deserves to always get what he wants because he is disabled. Man,

2568
02:07:42,440 --> 02:07:45,240
Speaker 1: come on, Tom, but you're like disabling both of your

2569
02:07:45,280 --> 02:07:49,400
Speaker 1: children now. It's like Ama can't get anything she wants.

2570
02:07:49,640 --> 02:07:55,120
Speaker 1: Her life is being disabled. I guess that's technically accurate, Like,

2571
02:07:55,160 --> 02:07:57,560
Speaker 1: don't let your disablement rub off on your other kids.

2572
02:07:57,600 --> 02:08:01,400
Speaker 1: I you know, I guess not. I guess not. It's

2573
02:08:01,440 --> 02:08:08,480
Speaker 1: not fair. No. No, My husband's daughter just moved near

2574
02:08:08,560 --> 02:08:11,440
Speaker 1: us recently. She has a six year old daughter with

2575
02:08:11,560 --> 02:08:14,360
Speaker 1: down syndrome. I asked Ava if she would be interested

2576
02:08:14,400 --> 02:08:17,720
Speaker 1: in inviting them, and she agreed. I knew Dave had

2577
02:08:17,760 --> 02:08:21,400
Speaker 1: some allergies, so I talked to the stepdaughter to make

2578
02:08:21,440 --> 02:08:24,400
Speaker 1: sure the party food was safe for him. He is

2579
02:08:24,520 --> 02:08:28,240
Speaker 1: deathly allergic to strawberries, so I assured her that it

2580
02:08:28,280 --> 02:08:31,360
Speaker 1: was no problem and we would not have strawberry ice cream.

2581
02:08:31,920 --> 02:08:34,000
Speaker 1: Ava was happy about that because I guess you didn't

2582
02:08:34,040 --> 02:08:37,120
Speaker 1: like strawberry ice cream, right right? She then asked if

2583
02:08:37,120 --> 02:08:40,600
Speaker 1: there were any other food preferences Dave might have some.

2584
02:08:41,040 --> 02:08:48,080
Speaker 1: It turns out he doesn't like eating brown Ooh. Well,

2585
02:08:48,160 --> 02:08:51,760
Speaker 1: since Dave is younger and freakly more disabled, why is

2586
02:08:51,800 --> 02:08:56,960
Speaker 1: it like the Disabled Olympics over god? Oh no, oh, dear?

2587
02:08:57,840 --> 02:09:00,040
Speaker 2: Did the most disabled? Like I?

2588
02:09:00,040 --> 02:09:02,560
Speaker 1: I don't like that in this story, the most disabled

2589
02:09:02,560 --> 02:09:06,120
Speaker 1: person gets what they want. You know, what what are

2590
02:09:06,160 --> 02:09:10,000
Speaker 1: you going to do? Not do that? I don't know, man?

2591
02:09:10,520 --> 02:09:12,600
Speaker 1: Why why is that a thing? I don't know?

2592
02:09:13,160 --> 02:09:15,520
Speaker 2: Like, I think there's like what about getting something else?

2593
02:09:16,080 --> 02:09:18,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like there's a there's a difference between catering to

2594
02:09:18,640 --> 02:09:22,760
Speaker 1: someone's needs and then making everyone needs get the same

2595
02:09:22,840 --> 02:09:25,600
Speaker 1: thing because like one person needs it, like you can

2596
02:09:25,680 --> 02:09:28,920
Speaker 1: even get like multiple cakes or you know, and the

2597
02:09:29,080 --> 02:09:31,400
Speaker 1: last time I checked, we live in fucking well, I

2598
02:09:31,400 --> 02:09:34,800
Speaker 1: guess we're in Bali, but we live in America usually typically,

2599
02:09:34,840 --> 02:09:37,160
Speaker 1: but now we're Indonesia.

2600
02:09:37,200 --> 02:09:39,000
Speaker 2: So what is Indonesia?

2601
02:09:39,080 --> 02:09:43,720
Speaker 1: I don't know. That's a great question, like politics wise,

2602
02:09:44,600 --> 02:09:48,440
Speaker 1: is that political system of government wise? I don't pull

2603
02:09:48,440 --> 02:09:48,760
Speaker 1: it up.

2604
02:09:48,880 --> 02:09:50,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, democratic Republic?

2605
02:09:50,800 --> 02:09:54,120
Speaker 1: Oh no way, congrats And so last time I checked,

2606
02:09:54,200 --> 02:09:57,120
Speaker 1: we're in Indonesia right now.

2607
02:09:57,600 --> 02:09:59,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's a free country.

2608
02:09:59,280 --> 02:10:02,640
Speaker 1: That's right. Left, A few bring edibles, yeah, and then

2609
02:10:02,680 --> 02:10:06,480
Speaker 1: you're fucked. We decided that would only be fair to

2610
02:10:06,520 --> 02:10:09,720
Speaker 1: make him what he likes. Ava got her red velvet

2611
02:10:09,720 --> 02:10:12,120
Speaker 1: cake and mint ice cream that she wanted. Okay, actually

2612
02:10:12,160 --> 02:10:13,200
Speaker 1: that sounds okay. There we go.

2613
02:10:13,280 --> 02:10:14,160
Speaker 2: He's getting what he likes.

2614
02:10:14,240 --> 02:10:18,720
Speaker 1: They ended up getting multip case Shirine. Tom was enraged

2615
02:10:18,720 --> 02:10:20,400
Speaker 1: when he got to my place and saw the food

2616
02:10:20,880 --> 02:10:24,120
Speaker 1: wasn't to his son's specifications. I just told him it

2617
02:10:24,160 --> 02:10:26,960
Speaker 1: was more fair to have what Dave's like because Dave

2618
02:10:27,080 --> 02:10:32,440
Speaker 1: is younger and more disabled. Rob threw a fit and

2619
02:10:32,600 --> 02:10:35,640
Speaker 1: upset Dave with his yelling. I scolded him and told

2620
02:10:35,720 --> 02:10:38,000
Speaker 1: him that it wasn't okay to get upset with the

2621
02:10:38,040 --> 02:10:42,680
Speaker 1: little man. This is where and told him that it

2622
02:10:42,760 --> 02:10:45,960
Speaker 1: wasn't okay to upset the little disabled boy, and he

2623
02:10:46,120 --> 02:10:49,040
Speaker 1: was being unfair. Then I gave Dave the presence I

2624
02:10:49,120 --> 02:10:52,920
Speaker 1: was forced to buy for Rob because that was more fair.

2625
02:10:53,760 --> 02:10:55,160
Speaker 2: Am I the asshole?

2626
02:10:55,440 --> 02:11:00,520
Speaker 1: I am just perplexed this whole situation. Okay, so let's

2627
02:11:00,520 --> 02:11:05,760
Speaker 1: backstrack a little bit. So it's Ava's birthday. Ava is

2628
02:11:05,760 --> 02:11:11,000
Speaker 1: not getting what she wants because Rob wants a chocolate

2629
02:11:11,040 --> 02:11:18,400
Speaker 1: cake and strawberry ice cream. Dave hates brown, and so

2630
02:11:19,120 --> 02:11:24,160
Speaker 1: chocolate cake is not okay, and he's allergic to strawberries.

2631
02:11:25,560 --> 02:11:30,280
Speaker 1: That's tough. That's the whole cake anything, and that's their

2632
02:11:30,440 --> 02:11:35,120
Speaker 1: like cousin or their friend. So basically they got red

2633
02:11:35,200 --> 02:11:38,080
Speaker 1: velvet cake and mint ice cream, which is what Ava wanted,

2634
02:11:38,160 --> 02:11:41,360
Speaker 1: and didn't get anything brown or strawberry, which is what

2635
02:11:41,600 --> 02:11:44,520
Speaker 1: Rob had originally wanted, because Dave is allergic and hates

2636
02:11:44,520 --> 02:11:50,680
Speaker 1: brown and is more disabled. Apparently, for all those reasons,

2637
02:11:51,680 --> 02:11:56,600
Speaker 1: Dave's preferences win, and honestly and in a better way,

2638
02:11:56,640 --> 02:12:00,560
Speaker 1: Ava's preferences win because that's what she wanted to rich. Yeah,

2639
02:12:00,600 --> 02:12:02,960
Speaker 1: I mean, so essentially it seems like op he's using

2640
02:12:03,440 --> 02:12:06,320
Speaker 1: Dave's disabledments to get what Ava wants.

2641
02:12:06,800 --> 02:12:07,800
Speaker 2: He's playing like some.

2642
02:12:07,680 --> 02:12:11,400
Speaker 1: Forty's she's kind of doing a little bit similar of

2643
02:12:11,400 --> 02:12:16,840
Speaker 1: what Tom is doing. Yeah, exactly what what Op is?

2644
02:12:17,120 --> 02:12:24,120
Speaker 1: Op is using what I guess, wadna. So so Tom

2645
02:12:24,560 --> 02:12:28,600
Speaker 1: is the father of Rob. Tom is using like the

2646
02:12:28,600 --> 02:12:35,000
Speaker 1: the you know, disabled game to win over to Rob's preferences. Yes, yes,

2647
02:12:35,640 --> 02:12:39,720
Speaker 1: Op is playing the same game, but now with dave preferences,

2648
02:12:40,080 --> 02:12:44,160
Speaker 1: and because Dave is more disabled, the automatically wins based

2649
02:12:44,200 --> 02:12:48,120
Speaker 1: on Rob's logic, yeah, or based on logic, right, which

2650
02:12:48,160 --> 02:12:51,280
Speaker 1: is oh yeah, well no, no, no, based on Rob's logic.

2651
02:12:51,600 --> 02:12:55,000
Speaker 1: Rob is the person playing to the disabled, right right right? Yeah, yeah,

2652
02:12:55,040 --> 02:12:59,800
Speaker 1: So Op is using Rob's logic against him to get

2653
02:12:59,840 --> 02:13:05,960
Speaker 1: what Ava wants. So wow, man, we just forget forty chess.

2654
02:13:05,960 --> 02:13:07,600
Speaker 1: This is like, yeah, that was that was a big

2655
02:13:07,640 --> 02:13:11,320
Speaker 1: That was a big nine chess, Like my goodness, gracious.

2656
02:13:11,960 --> 02:13:14,880
Speaker 1: But here's the question. Why didn't they get a third

2657
02:13:14,960 --> 02:13:17,200
Speaker 1: cake or a third.

2658
02:13:17,000 --> 02:13:18,640
Speaker 2: I don't think they got a third cake. No, I'm

2659
02:13:18,640 --> 02:13:20,240
Speaker 2: saying why didn't they.

2660
02:13:20,160 --> 02:13:23,240
Speaker 1: For for Rob?

2661
02:13:23,920 --> 02:13:24,840
Speaker 2: Because fuck Rob?

2662
02:13:27,200 --> 02:13:33,400
Speaker 1: Come full circle, come full circle. And also because Dave

2663
02:13:33,480 --> 02:13:37,360
Speaker 1: hates brown and is allergic. Right, so all of Rob's

2664
02:13:37,400 --> 02:13:44,960
Speaker 1: preferences are usurped because someone more disabled has uh different preferences.

2665
02:13:44,960 --> 02:13:48,520
Speaker 1: I feel pens in all seriousness, There's like Ava, obviously

2666
02:13:48,600 --> 02:13:51,280
Speaker 1: it's her birthday. Let's get Ava her cake. Dave has

2667
02:13:51,320 --> 02:13:54,240
Speaker 1: his preferences, Rob has his preferences. Get them both their

2668
02:13:54,280 --> 02:13:57,880
Speaker 1: own kind of cake situation, and then everyone's happy. And

2669
02:13:57,880 --> 02:14:01,080
Speaker 1: then everyone's happy, right expect I mean three cakes? I

2670
02:14:01,160 --> 02:14:06,040
Speaker 1: mean rich guy sitting in.

2671
02:14:06,080 --> 02:14:08,839
Speaker 2: Bali dollars just spin on three cakes.

2672
02:14:09,040 --> 02:14:12,160
Speaker 1: Dang, I guess that is ninety dollars of cake. Yeah,

2673
02:14:12,680 --> 02:14:15,840
Speaker 1: there's a lot of cake. Who else has a lot

2674
02:14:15,880 --> 02:14:18,880
Speaker 1: of cake? Guy reading the next story? Oh god, Oh,

2675
02:14:19,120 --> 02:14:21,240
Speaker 1: let's get into it. My ex is pregnant and she's

2676
02:14:21,240 --> 02:14:23,640
Speaker 1: saying I'm the father. She wants my money, but I

2677
02:14:23,720 --> 02:14:27,000
Speaker 1: refuse to give her a penny. Am I the a hole? Yeah?

2678
02:14:27,080 --> 02:14:28,800
Speaker 2: Kick her kids to the streets.

2679
02:14:28,480 --> 02:14:30,600
Speaker 1: You know, get him out of here, Get him out

2680
02:14:30,640 --> 02:14:32,680
Speaker 1: of here. Why would I need children? Well, exactly, And

2681
02:14:32,720 --> 02:14:34,560
Speaker 1: the streets are the best teacher, so you're actually doing

2682
02:14:34,600 --> 02:14:38,920
Speaker 1: them in a favor. Build character, build character softness exactly,

2683
02:14:39,040 --> 02:14:42,840
Speaker 1: like a Cottonell toilet paper. Jay Z, Yeah, jay Z's

2684
02:14:42,840 --> 02:14:45,360
Speaker 1: a billionaire now true, he was hitting the streets early

2685
02:14:45,400 --> 02:14:46,360
Speaker 1: in the day. That's right.

2686
02:14:46,600 --> 02:14:47,360
Speaker 2: Selling bricks.

2687
02:14:47,640 --> 02:14:48,120
Speaker 1: He wasn't.

2688
02:14:48,160 --> 02:14:50,839
Speaker 2: He wasn't in the live at school off of child support.

2689
02:14:51,000 --> 02:14:55,560
Speaker 1: Exactly What was the line? H, I was selling something

2690
02:14:55,680 --> 02:15:03,560
Speaker 1: so something CDs? Uh, Chaparl, it's a you know, come on, try,

2691
02:15:03,720 --> 02:15:06,000
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think of you. You know, the linery

2692
02:15:06,120 --> 02:15:10,640
Speaker 1: is like like I was selling selling coke or selling bricks.

2693
02:15:12,080 --> 02:15:15,840
Speaker 1: There's one one CD or three hundred and sixty pies No,

2694
02:15:16,080 --> 02:15:20,800
Speaker 1: jay Z, that's a different thing though. Line about I

2695
02:15:20,800 --> 02:15:26,000
Speaker 1: probably don't know that one CDs and cocaine one CD

2696
02:15:26,080 --> 02:15:28,400
Speaker 1: a three hundred and sixty pis. I think it's like

2697
02:15:28,480 --> 02:15:32,280
Speaker 1: around like I'm a business man. Oh yeah, here we go,

2698
02:15:32,400 --> 02:15:35,120
Speaker 1: there you go. Yeah, I know kilos of coke, So

2699
02:15:35,120 --> 02:15:36,640
Speaker 1: I'm guessing I can sell CDs.

2700
02:15:36,720 --> 02:15:39,800
Speaker 2: I'm a businessman. Yeah, I hit it, hit it, hit it.

2701
02:15:40,320 --> 02:15:42,400
Speaker 2: I don't know the first part. I know the second part.

2702
02:15:42,240 --> 02:15:45,840
Speaker 1: It goes, it goes. I sold kilos of coke, so

2703
02:15:46,160 --> 02:15:48,720
Speaker 1: I got I can sell CDs. I'm not a business man.

2704
02:15:49,080 --> 02:15:52,720
Speaker 1: I'm a business man. Let me handle my business. Damn.

2705
02:15:53,200 --> 02:15:56,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, the businessman I knew. Yeah, I didn't know the

2706
02:15:56,080 --> 02:15:56,520
Speaker 2: one before.

2707
02:15:56,680 --> 02:15:59,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, good memories. See I didn't know those first two.

2708
02:15:59,600 --> 02:16:01,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess I'm a rap guy.

2709
02:16:01,640 --> 02:16:06,920
Speaker 1: He's just did an officionado over here, a pure connoisseur. Alright,

2710
02:16:07,120 --> 02:16:10,200
Speaker 1: let's get into it. My ex, twenty five female and

2711
02:16:10,240 --> 02:16:13,480
Speaker 1: I twenty seven male, were together for about six months,

2712
02:16:13,760 --> 02:16:16,320
Speaker 1: but during that time we were free to see other people,

2713
02:16:17,120 --> 02:16:20,720
Speaker 1: a recipe for a great relationship. Things were working out,

2714
02:16:20,880 --> 02:16:23,440
Speaker 1: so we broke up. Over a month after that, she

2715
02:16:23,600 --> 02:16:27,800
Speaker 1: finds out she's pregnant and tells me the baby is mine.

2716
02:16:27,960 --> 02:16:30,920
Speaker 2: Yikes, God to love it, not love that to happen.

2717
02:16:31,080 --> 02:16:35,160
Speaker 1: Nope, but I already knew she was seeing other guys,

2718
02:16:35,280 --> 02:16:37,680
Speaker 1: so it was possible that the baby isn't.

2719
02:16:37,879 --> 02:16:39,600
Speaker 2: This is when you ask for opportunity test.

2720
02:16:40,160 --> 02:16:41,720
Speaker 1: This is fair. When I was like, hey, we have

2721
02:16:41,800 --> 02:16:45,240
Speaker 1: an open relationship, we can sleep with other people. I

2722
02:16:45,240 --> 02:16:48,480
Speaker 1: am pregnant, let's double check. That's when you want to

2723
02:16:48,480 --> 02:16:50,280
Speaker 1: be one hundred percent sure. Yeah, we got so, we

2724
02:16:50,320 --> 02:16:54,120
Speaker 1: want to double check your work. You know those teas exactly.

2725
02:16:55,520 --> 02:16:58,440
Speaker 1: She got mad that I was having doubts, but I said,

2726
02:16:58,480 --> 02:17:00,879
Speaker 1: if we got a paternity test and it showdown the dad,

2727
02:17:01,080 --> 02:17:04,879
Speaker 1: then yeah, I will one hundred percent be involved. My

2728
02:17:05,000 --> 02:17:07,800
Speaker 1: ex didn't want that, and she'd rather wait until after

2729
02:17:07,840 --> 02:17:10,240
Speaker 1: the baby is born to get a test done. So

2730
02:17:10,520 --> 02:17:13,280
Speaker 1: I said, that's fine if it's her choice, but I

2731
02:17:13,320 --> 02:17:16,360
Speaker 1: won't get involved unless I know that the baby is mine.

2732
02:17:16,440 --> 02:17:18,360
Speaker 1: That's know in the comments in the commons.

2733
02:17:18,400 --> 02:17:19,680
Speaker 2: Why le's know in the comments.

2734
02:17:19,840 --> 02:17:22,279
Speaker 1: Wait, I just didn't realize you could take the opportunity

2735
02:17:22,320 --> 02:17:26,080
Speaker 1: test before the baby's born. Yeah, you can, although I

2736
02:17:26,120 --> 02:17:31,360
Speaker 1: think there is like some risks sometimes. I think, right now,

2737
02:17:31,440 --> 02:17:35,080
Speaker 1: that's ringing a belly. Yeah you can do that yet,

2738
02:17:35,120 --> 02:17:37,560
Speaker 1: right right, I already know I could set up for

2739
02:17:37,640 --> 02:17:40,400
Speaker 1: child support if I started helping out now and then

2740
02:17:40,560 --> 02:17:43,200
Speaker 1: later it's revealed I'm not the father. I live in

2741
02:17:43,240 --> 02:17:46,520
Speaker 1: the US and have heard stuff like this happens, So

2742
02:17:46,640 --> 02:17:49,240
Speaker 1: basically I could set up child for now. Well, I

2743
02:17:49,240 --> 02:17:51,160
Speaker 1: think he's saying like, oh, I could start saving now

2744
02:17:51,200 --> 02:17:54,160
Speaker 1: maybe oh right, yeah, okay, well I mean like maybe

2745
02:17:54,240 --> 02:17:58,800
Speaker 1: just start saving worst case scenario, yeah, just to save yeah,

2746
02:17:59,000 --> 02:18:03,240
Speaker 1: my money. I'd rather not even risk it, you know.

2747
02:18:03,400 --> 02:18:05,800
Speaker 1: So it sounds like he's going down that path. She's

2748
02:18:05,840 --> 02:18:08,280
Speaker 1: about eight months now, and I've started saving up money,

2749
02:18:08,400 --> 02:18:10,800
Speaker 1: reading up on some books, making shopping cart lists of

2750
02:18:10,840 --> 02:18:13,600
Speaker 1: baby clothes and furniture to buy in case I am

2751
02:18:13,640 --> 02:18:15,840
Speaker 1: the father. So it's not like I'm not preparing for

2752
02:18:15,879 --> 02:18:19,640
Speaker 1: this at all. That's cute, that is, you know. Respect.

2753
02:18:20,720 --> 02:18:23,120
Speaker 1: So right now, money is tight with her since I

2754
02:18:23,200 --> 02:18:26,080
Speaker 1: know she's been only working part time. She doesn't have

2755
02:18:26,120 --> 02:18:29,400
Speaker 1: the money for a baby basinette or clothes because she

2756
02:18:29,480 --> 02:18:34,320
Speaker 1: practically lives paycheck to paycheck. She started asking to let

2757
02:18:34,360 --> 02:18:37,039
Speaker 1: her borrow money for baby stuff, but I've told her no.

2758
02:18:37,720 --> 02:18:40,000
Speaker 1: As far as I know, she doesn't have other family

2759
02:18:40,600 --> 02:18:43,680
Speaker 1: she's close to and friends are the same with her,

2760
02:18:44,240 --> 02:18:47,160
Speaker 1: and so she's not doing the paternity task as maybe

2761
02:18:47,200 --> 02:18:51,119
Speaker 1: like there's risk to the baby. Possibly, yeah, possibly there's

2762
02:18:51,200 --> 02:18:54,840
Speaker 1: risk to the baby. Yeah, it wasn't. Actually I forgot.

2763
02:18:54,879 --> 02:18:57,760
Speaker 1: We should we should look that up. Yep, wait, Ryley,

2764
02:18:57,760 --> 02:19:00,440
Speaker 1: can you look that up? Get on that, Get on

2765
02:19:00,520 --> 02:19:13,199
Speaker 1: that like a blood test. Interesting? Yeah, I mean that's.

2766
02:19:13,160 --> 02:19:16,320
Speaker 2: Okay, so no harm, no risk, So okay, so what yeah?

2767
02:19:16,520 --> 02:19:19,800
Speaker 1: Why the weight? What's up? Mama? I mean it is expensive,

2768
02:19:20,720 --> 02:19:22,680
Speaker 1: but honestly, OP should just pay for it. If I

2769
02:19:22,720 --> 02:19:24,360
Speaker 1: was OP, I would just pay for the petunity test

2770
02:19:24,400 --> 02:19:27,320
Speaker 1: yeah and be like, hey, you know, but really, see,

2771
02:19:27,520 --> 02:19:29,560
Speaker 1: I guess it's being like, okay, if that's really what

2772
02:19:29,600 --> 02:19:32,240
Speaker 1: you want, I'll wait till the pregnancy, but I won't

2773
02:19:32,280 --> 02:19:37,240
Speaker 1: start any thing in sus that she it seems sus.

2774
02:19:37,280 --> 02:19:39,720
Speaker 1: That's that's pretty sus. Yeah, I agree. I don't know

2775
02:19:39,800 --> 02:19:43,160
Speaker 1: p for staying firm. Yes, but I already said that

2776
02:19:43,200 --> 02:19:45,960
Speaker 1: I'll start giving her money and helping out once I

2777
02:19:46,040 --> 02:19:49,600
Speaker 1: know that the sun is mine. Otherwise I'd rather not

2778
02:19:49,640 --> 02:19:50,240
Speaker 1: get involved.

2779
02:19:50,360 --> 02:19:52,160
Speaker 2: Fair totally, fairly fair.

2780
02:19:52,520 --> 02:19:54,400
Speaker 1: I've even told her to reach out to the other

2781
02:19:54,440 --> 02:19:57,040
Speaker 1: guys who could also be the dad, but she said

2782
02:19:57,200 --> 02:19:59,800
Speaker 1: one is even more broke and the other she hasn't

2783
02:19:59,800 --> 02:20:02,560
Speaker 1: been able to contact. Well, you can't just choose the

2784
02:20:02,560 --> 02:20:05,039
Speaker 1: one who you've been able to contact and is richest.

2785
02:20:05,280 --> 02:20:07,640
Speaker 2: You know, I wasn't gonna like reach out to the dad,

2786
02:20:07,640 --> 02:20:10,959
Speaker 2: but like he's just bleak, doesn't have the time.

2787
02:20:12,920 --> 02:20:17,320
Speaker 1: You Yeah, you see him, like pretty nice guys, just

2788
02:20:18,080 --> 02:20:20,640
Speaker 1: your baby, just take it, just take it, come on,

2789
02:20:20,760 --> 02:20:24,520
Speaker 1: come on. So right now, seems like I'm the only

2790
02:20:24,560 --> 02:20:31,360
Speaker 1: one actually able to offer financial support. Okay, Wow, this

2791
02:20:31,480 --> 02:20:34,240
Speaker 1: is more and more assessed by the second. We have

2792
02:20:34,280 --> 02:20:36,879
Speaker 1: a couple of mutual friends and I'm getting ship from

2793
02:20:36,879 --> 02:20:39,120
Speaker 1: them because they know that I have the money to

2794
02:20:39,160 --> 02:20:40,000
Speaker 1: help out.

2795
02:20:40,320 --> 02:20:42,320
Speaker 2: She could be the mob of my kid. So the

2796
02:20:42,400 --> 02:20:43,760
Speaker 2: least I could do is provide.

2797
02:20:44,120 --> 02:20:47,240
Speaker 1: They're saying, well, let's see, let's see if she's actually

2798
02:20:47,280 --> 02:20:49,879
Speaker 1: the mother of your child. You know, they say they

2799
02:20:49,920 --> 02:20:53,000
Speaker 1: would if they had the money, then fucking do it.

2800
02:20:53,080 --> 02:20:56,400
Speaker 1: Bro That is get the fuck out of my face

2801
02:20:56,440 --> 02:20:59,240
Speaker 1: with that. That is so annoying. Yeah, I hate I

2802
02:20:59,360 --> 02:21:02,120
Speaker 1: hate the Oh like I would if I could. Yeah,

2803
02:21:02,160 --> 02:21:05,160
Speaker 1: well you can't and you won't do or do not.

2804
02:21:05,360 --> 02:21:05,879
Speaker 1: That is it.

2805
02:21:06,320 --> 02:21:09,240
Speaker 2: There is no try as right I would say yes.

2806
02:21:10,800 --> 02:21:13,000
Speaker 1: They say that since I do have the means and

2807
02:21:13,040 --> 02:21:15,920
Speaker 1: the baby could be mine, that I should already be helping.

2808
02:21:16,280 --> 02:21:18,760
Speaker 1: They have a point, the baby could be mine, and

2809
02:21:18,800 --> 02:21:21,760
Speaker 1: I'll be happy to help out once I know he

2810
02:21:21,920 --> 02:21:22,880
Speaker 1: is in fact mine.

2811
02:21:23,200 --> 02:21:24,800
Speaker 2: That's a really reasonable request.

2812
02:21:24,959 --> 02:21:28,280
Speaker 1: Yes, but everyone else seeing it as I'm being too

2813
02:21:28,360 --> 02:21:32,120
Speaker 1: cold and inconsiderate. I don't think I am, but I

2814
02:21:32,200 --> 02:21:37,040
Speaker 1: want to know what others believe. So am I the ahole?

2815
02:21:37,160 --> 02:21:38,240
Speaker 2: I want to hear from everyone else?

2816
02:21:38,280 --> 02:21:42,080
Speaker 1: First? Yeah, please come on, you gotta do the paternity test.

2817
02:21:42,120 --> 02:21:45,320
Speaker 1: You have they had an open relationship, that's ridiculous. Yeah,

2818
02:21:45,360 --> 02:21:48,080
Speaker 1: come on, and she's explained that, like, oh, I can't

2819
02:21:48,080 --> 02:21:50,680
Speaker 1: get in contact. The other guy's broke like she's just

2820
02:21:50,720 --> 02:21:53,720
Speaker 1: not getting the tests to string this guy along because

2821
02:21:53,720 --> 02:21:55,800
Speaker 1: she's worried that he might not be the father, because

2822
02:21:55,879 --> 02:21:58,600
Speaker 1: like she she's super fucked. Yeah, and right now she

2823
02:21:58,720 --> 02:22:00,960
Speaker 1: was like, okay, wait until the after born. And then

2824
02:22:01,000 --> 02:22:03,200
Speaker 1: she comes back and she's like, hey, just loan me

2825
02:22:03,280 --> 02:22:04,520
Speaker 1: some money for the baby, and it's like.

2826
02:22:06,240 --> 02:22:08,879
Speaker 2: My baby op just offered to pay for the test

2827
02:22:09,000 --> 02:22:09,440
Speaker 2: right out.

2828
02:22:09,560 --> 02:22:12,240
Speaker 1: Yeah. Then I don't think that's the issue though. I

2829
02:22:12,280 --> 02:22:14,560
Speaker 1: think she doesn't think it's the issue, but I think

2830
02:22:14,640 --> 02:22:18,280
Speaker 1: like that might get things moving, Yeah, because earlier, what

2831
02:22:18,360 --> 02:22:20,760
Speaker 1: else could there be? Yeah, yeah, exactly, because if there's

2832
02:22:20,800 --> 02:22:23,480
Speaker 1: no risk of the baby, probably the only issue is

2833
02:22:23,520 --> 02:22:26,480
Speaker 1: money and so cover that so you can just you know,

2834
02:22:26,879 --> 02:22:29,680
Speaker 1: be done with it, just know or not, no, wrap

2835
02:22:29,720 --> 02:22:32,320
Speaker 1: it up like you should hike, you should have, but

2836
02:22:33,000 --> 02:22:37,280
Speaker 1: here we are not everyone has the foresight mm or

2837
02:22:37,280 --> 02:22:41,360
Speaker 1: the foreskin or the foreskin. Sorry guys. Yeah, well this

2838
02:22:41,400 --> 02:22:44,480
Speaker 1: has been another beautiful episode. Yeah, okay, beautiful baldy episode.

2839
02:22:44,560 --> 02:22:49,240
Speaker 1: I'm recovering from my lost love and you know, I'm

2840
02:22:49,600 --> 02:22:51,680
Speaker 1: ready to get out there again. We'll have another Australian

2841
02:22:51,680 --> 02:22:54,560
Speaker 1: baby by the next episode. You guys, is that girl

2842
02:22:54,640 --> 02:22:57,600
Speaker 1: coming in a couple of days, supposed to get drinks

2843
02:22:57,640 --> 02:23:04,560
Speaker 1: with we too. Yeah, she's on Marcel's friend. Actually, there

2844
02:23:04,600 --> 02:23:07,560
Speaker 1: you go. So a mutual connection. Mutual connection.

2845
02:23:07,680 --> 02:23:09,320
Speaker 2: She's in LA.

2846
02:23:09,400 --> 02:23:12,400
Speaker 1: It could happen, could happen. I just outed my ex

2847
02:23:12,480 --> 02:23:15,600
Speaker 1: husband as gay to his homophobic mother because she wouldn't

2848
02:23:15,640 --> 02:23:18,760
Speaker 1: leave me alone. Am I the apppole. It's a long

2849
02:23:18,920 --> 02:23:22,720
Speaker 1: and sucky story. But my twenty five female soon to

2850
02:23:22,760 --> 02:23:25,920
Speaker 1: be x twenty eight male is gay and hid that

2851
02:23:25,959 --> 02:23:28,360
Speaker 1: from me rough. It's tough. I found out because I

2852
02:23:28,400 --> 02:23:31,320
Speaker 1: caught him cheating, and he as much as admitted that

2853
02:23:31,400 --> 02:23:34,320
Speaker 1: he knew he wasn't attracted to me that way, but

2854
02:23:34,400 --> 02:23:37,480
Speaker 1: he wanted kids and a quote unquote normal life. He

2855
02:23:37,560 --> 02:23:40,240
Speaker 1: can't get behind that. There's just no like. I mean,

2856
02:23:40,640 --> 02:23:44,440
Speaker 1: she wishes he could get behind that, but he can't.

2857
02:23:44,520 --> 02:23:47,360
Speaker 1: Why you know, it's gross, it's disgusting. Yeah, give me

2858
02:23:47,400 --> 02:23:49,720
Speaker 1: a booty hole, now we're talking. Give me a booty

2859
02:23:49,720 --> 02:23:52,480
Speaker 1: hole and then I'll be enticed, and then I'm off

2860
02:23:52,520 --> 02:23:54,760
Speaker 1: to the moon. Off to the moon, to your moon. Hey,

2861
02:23:55,000 --> 02:23:57,840
Speaker 1: old baby, I don't care that he's gay, but I

2862
02:23:57,879 --> 02:24:00,280
Speaker 1: will never forgive him for leading me on so he

2863
02:24:00,320 --> 02:24:01,800
Speaker 1: could use me to have kids.

2864
02:24:01,879 --> 02:24:03,200
Speaker 2: So it's over. End of story.

2865
02:24:03,360 --> 02:24:06,360
Speaker 1: Op. I think you know. The lying very understandable. Yeah,

2866
02:24:06,400 --> 02:24:08,920
Speaker 1: the lying, the lying is is not not cool. The

2867
02:24:08,959 --> 02:24:13,200
Speaker 1: problem is that his family are fundamentalist nut jobs except

2868
02:24:13,200 --> 02:24:16,440
Speaker 1: for a few members, and his mother is the interfering

2869
02:24:16,840 --> 02:24:19,959
Speaker 1: mother in law from hell. This is just too classic. Yeah,

2870
02:24:20,040 --> 02:24:22,360
Speaker 1: I know, rough, dude, I mean, no wonder he doesn't

2871
02:24:22,520 --> 02:24:24,400
Speaker 1: even want to come out of that kind of family.

2872
02:24:24,879 --> 02:24:27,640
Speaker 1: His family doesn't believe in divorce. So under the guise

2873
02:24:27,760 --> 02:24:30,320
Speaker 1: of picking up some paperwork and other items I had

2874
02:24:30,360 --> 02:24:32,920
Speaker 1: found that were my exes, she quarnered me about how

2875
02:24:32,959 --> 02:24:36,600
Speaker 1: I'm being childish in marriage is about commitment, forgiveness and

2876
02:24:36,720 --> 02:24:39,959
Speaker 1: working through problems. Honey, I don't know about this problem.

2877
02:24:40,160 --> 02:24:43,280
Speaker 1: Is a problem that sticks, Yeah, it's really sticky. The

2878
02:24:43,400 --> 02:24:47,640
Speaker 1: problem that's him sticking it to other hymns exactly, and

2879
02:24:47,720 --> 02:24:51,920
Speaker 1: not your lovely daughter. It's in too tight the mother

2880
02:24:51,959 --> 02:24:52,280
Speaker 1: in law.

2881
02:24:52,360 --> 02:24:55,720
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, for a second, I thought you were saying there.

2882
02:24:56,160 --> 02:24:59,600
Speaker 1: Joh, you keep going, you keep going. What you thought

2883
02:24:59,600 --> 02:25:02,560
Speaker 1: you said, their child? I was like, he's sticking it

2884
02:25:02,560 --> 02:25:04,640
Speaker 1: to their child, That's why I was shocked. But then

2885
02:25:04,680 --> 02:25:06,960
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, you're talking about the mother. I

2886
02:25:07,000 --> 02:25:12,120
Speaker 1: completely eroded all confidence and don that you think that

2887
02:25:12,640 --> 02:25:14,760
Speaker 1: that's the first thing you think I would say. I

2888
02:25:14,800 --> 02:25:16,040
Speaker 1: got confused. What can I say?

2889
02:25:16,120 --> 02:25:19,119
Speaker 2: Child's much like much like husbands. I got very confused.

2890
02:25:20,320 --> 02:25:22,520
Speaker 1: It became a parent that my ex didn't tell his

2891
02:25:22,520 --> 02:25:25,000
Speaker 1: family that he cheated. He told his mom that I

2892
02:25:25,080 --> 02:25:28,760
Speaker 1: was diforcing him because we weren't having sex often enough

2893
02:25:28,800 --> 02:25:32,760
Speaker 1: for me. Dick, Yeah, no, you can't do that. Literally, Actually, yeah,

2894
02:25:33,360 --> 02:25:36,440
Speaker 1: two dick's worth, two dicks worth, dick of not dicking down, Nope,

2895
02:25:36,560 --> 02:25:40,240
Speaker 1: saving this dick for every other man around town, that's right.

2896
02:25:40,360 --> 02:25:42,760
Speaker 1: I try to be patient and explained that he had cheated,

2897
02:25:42,920 --> 02:25:45,800
Speaker 1: and that's why I wasn't going to go into greater detail,

2898
02:25:45,879 --> 02:25:48,200
Speaker 1: because I know how his parents are and it's none

2899
02:25:48,240 --> 02:25:51,199
Speaker 1: of their business, which, honestly, really nice vopium, totally fair.

2900
02:25:51,320 --> 02:25:53,920
Speaker 1: Mother in law's advice, I kid you not, was that

2901
02:25:54,080 --> 02:25:56,039
Speaker 1: men are just that way, and if I wanted to

2902
02:25:56,080 --> 02:25:58,520
Speaker 1: have sex more and for him not to stray, I

2903
02:25:58,560 --> 02:26:02,440
Speaker 1: should have made myself more attractive to my husband and

2904
02:26:02,520 --> 02:26:04,039
Speaker 1: be a better wife.

2905
02:26:04,600 --> 02:26:06,320
Speaker 2: She's asking for the truth.

2906
02:26:06,080 --> 02:26:10,840
Speaker 1: Mama, she is asking for what she doesn't want. I

2907
02:26:10,879 --> 02:26:13,200
Speaker 1: lost the plot completely. It had been a sad and

2908
02:26:13,320 --> 02:26:17,920
Speaker 1: hard day already, and that was the final straw. Here's

2909
02:26:18,360 --> 02:26:21,240
Speaker 1: where I may have been the asshole. I told her

2910
02:26:21,240 --> 02:26:23,360
Speaker 1: that the only thing that would make me more attractive

2911
02:26:23,400 --> 02:26:27,000
Speaker 1: to my ex would be a sex change, and that

2912
02:26:27,120 --> 02:26:30,240
Speaker 1: I hoped he and his boyfriend adopted her grandchild so

2913
02:26:30,280 --> 02:26:32,760
Speaker 1: she could finally shut the hell up about it. Not

2914
02:26:32,879 --> 02:26:34,920
Speaker 1: my finest moment, but she just hit the worst and

2915
02:26:35,160 --> 02:26:39,199
Speaker 1: raws nerve that she could have, and I exploded. Everybody

2916
02:26:39,240 --> 02:26:42,440
Speaker 1: loses here, Everyone's losing. Everybody loses. It's evidently turned into

2917
02:26:42,480 --> 02:26:45,720
Speaker 1: a huge family drama. He's probably going to be disowned. Fuck,

2918
02:26:45,879 --> 02:26:48,640
Speaker 1: and my ex called sobbing that I've ruined his life

2919
02:26:48,680 --> 02:26:49,279
Speaker 1: out of spite.

2920
02:26:49,320 --> 02:26:50,760
Speaker 2: I don't really know how to feel about it.

2921
02:26:50,800 --> 02:26:52,320
Speaker 1: I do feel bad for him that his parents are

2922
02:26:52,360 --> 02:26:55,279
Speaker 1: such awful people and there were just no good outcomes

2923
02:26:55,280 --> 02:26:57,600
Speaker 1: for him, But I also feel like he made his

2924
02:26:57,640 --> 02:26:59,000
Speaker 1: own bed here too.

2925
02:26:59,320 --> 02:27:01,920
Speaker 2: And there is an update. There is an update, But

2926
02:27:02,000 --> 02:27:02,480
Speaker 2: what do you think?

2927
02:27:02,600 --> 02:27:04,280
Speaker 1: Do you think? Oh, he made an a whole move

2928
02:27:04,480 --> 02:27:06,599
Speaker 1: by revealing the truth.

2929
02:27:06,680 --> 02:27:08,880
Speaker 2: So I want to hear what everyone else thinks.

2930
02:27:08,959 --> 02:27:12,360
Speaker 1: This is a very I think it's very difficult one, honestly,

2931
02:27:12,680 --> 02:27:15,920
Speaker 1: But I think that it was an a whole move.

2932
02:27:16,200 --> 02:27:19,760
Speaker 1: But the thing is, like, what can you expe like

2933
02:27:19,879 --> 02:27:23,360
Speaker 1: he basically I feel like his like abel meter pumped

2934
02:27:23,400 --> 02:27:25,680
Speaker 1: up so much and he and he puts so much

2935
02:27:26,040 --> 02:27:30,160
Speaker 1: on the wife, who had the intention of not revealing

2936
02:27:30,160 --> 02:27:32,680
Speaker 1: that he was gay exactly. But I think kind of

2937
02:27:32,720 --> 02:27:36,240
Speaker 1: like when you do so like no responsibility. Not only

2938
02:27:36,240 --> 02:27:38,520
Speaker 1: did he not come out to his family, which understandable

2939
02:27:38,520 --> 02:27:42,120
Speaker 1: why he didn't, yes, but he said that basically did

2940
02:27:42,520 --> 02:27:45,039
Speaker 1: He said it was basically the wife's faulty right, and

2941
02:27:45,200 --> 02:27:47,520
Speaker 1: said that he didn't cheat. So it's like when you

2942
02:27:47,560 --> 02:27:50,720
Speaker 1: do all that, you kind of can't expect everything to

2943
02:27:50,800 --> 02:27:53,760
Speaker 1: work out perfectly in your favorite You need to like

2944
02:27:53,920 --> 02:27:55,560
Speaker 1: there has to be some sort of lead, like he's

2945
02:27:55,600 --> 02:27:57,920
Speaker 1: literally doing nothing for forgive us. Do they have kids,

2946
02:27:57,920 --> 02:27:59,480
Speaker 1: by the way, do we know? I don't think so,

2947
02:27:59,640 --> 02:28:01,720
Speaker 1: But yeah, I think it's kind of like what goes

2948
02:28:01,760 --> 02:28:04,520
Speaker 1: around comes around, like he can't. Yes, it was an

2949
02:28:04,520 --> 02:28:07,080
Speaker 1: a whole move, but like all of the things he did,

2950
02:28:07,120 --> 02:28:09,480
Speaker 1: he doesn't have much room. Yeah, yeah, I think, but

2951
02:28:09,680 --> 02:28:12,920
Speaker 1: your a question if he did say, hey, I cheated,

2952
02:28:13,120 --> 02:28:15,160
Speaker 1: this is why we're breaking up. It's totally my fault

2953
02:28:15,280 --> 02:28:18,039
Speaker 1: and the mother still said, actually he cheated on you

2954
02:28:18,040 --> 02:28:20,880
Speaker 1: because you're an ugly fuck? Then then are you an

2955
02:28:20,920 --> 02:28:23,680
Speaker 1: a hole for saying wow? Actually he would never think

2956
02:28:23,680 --> 02:28:25,320
Speaker 1: I'm pretty unless I have a penis.

2957
02:28:25,360 --> 02:28:27,120
Speaker 2: He's still the a hole for cheating, of course. Yeah,

2958
02:28:27,120 --> 02:28:30,680
Speaker 2: that's the thing, is he originally he committed the original sin.

2959
02:28:30,879 --> 02:28:32,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think in the like if you cut off

2960
02:28:32,800 --> 02:28:35,879
Speaker 1: the cheating and then like move forward, I think she

2961
02:28:35,920 --> 02:28:37,760
Speaker 1: would be the a hole for Probably. I think so

2962
02:28:37,879 --> 02:28:41,040
Speaker 1: because because he's like, I need to work towards redemption

2963
02:28:41,120 --> 02:28:44,840
Speaker 1: and prove to you that, like I, you know, taking

2964
02:28:44,879 --> 02:28:47,800
Speaker 1: ownership of cheating. At least he's like working towards redemption.

2965
02:28:47,879 --> 02:28:50,760
Speaker 1: Probably the year I think he has shown no signs

2966
02:28:51,000 --> 02:28:54,800
Speaker 1: of working towards redemption. Thus, I think op is not

2967
02:28:55,000 --> 02:28:56,760
Speaker 1: the a hole. Yeah, but I want to hear what

2968
02:28:56,760 --> 02:28:59,080
Speaker 1: all y'all think. Put your answers in the comments. And also,

2969
02:29:00,280 --> 02:29:07,480
Speaker 1: are ladies with who either have had or currently have beards, let.

2970
02:29:07,480 --> 02:29:12,000
Speaker 2: Us know or versinoniaries? You know, Sam and I we've converted.

2971
02:29:11,520 --> 02:29:15,199
Speaker 1: A few, yes, yes, unintentionally the amount of by girls

2972
02:29:15,240 --> 02:29:18,240
Speaker 1: that I've decided to switch to one side permanently, you know,

2973
02:29:18,560 --> 02:29:21,840
Speaker 1: not my side, after tasting a little the you know

2974
02:29:24,120 --> 02:29:29,240
Speaker 1: is non zero. So yeah, let us know what you guys,

2975
02:29:29,520 --> 02:29:31,840
Speaker 1: let us go, you guys experience. But Sam, I I

2976
02:29:31,879 --> 02:29:32,720
Speaker 1: need to hear this update.

2977
02:29:32,920 --> 02:29:33,800
Speaker 2: Let's get into the update.

2978
02:29:33,959 --> 02:29:36,959
Speaker 1: So I finally gotten radio silence for my ex's immediate

2979
02:29:36,959 --> 02:29:39,080
Speaker 1: family after the incident with the mother in law, so

2980
02:29:39,360 --> 02:29:42,880
Speaker 1: there's a relief. So basically, finally they're not talking there. Ye.

2981
02:29:43,080 --> 02:29:44,680
Speaker 1: I work at the same place with a couple of

2982
02:29:44,720 --> 02:29:47,360
Speaker 1: his extended family members, so I still have to see them,

2983
02:29:47,400 --> 02:29:49,080
Speaker 1: but they haven't brought it up. They all know to

2984
02:29:49,120 --> 02:29:52,120
Speaker 1: contact me through my lawyer now and everything big that

2985
02:29:52,200 --> 02:29:55,200
Speaker 1: belongs to X has been passed on already, so anything

2986
02:29:55,280 --> 02:29:57,880
Speaker 1: else can be forwarded through the legal office. Now I

2987
02:29:57,920 --> 02:30:00,280
Speaker 1: shouldn't have had to interact with them, but it's hard

2988
02:30:00,320 --> 02:30:03,760
Speaker 1: to avoid people forever in a small town. Small town, life, dude,

2989
02:30:04,400 --> 02:30:08,000
Speaker 1: small town. And she works with the family. Yes, it sucks, Yeah,

2990
02:30:08,280 --> 02:30:12,480
Speaker 1: works around the uh yeah, yeah, it works with some

2991
02:30:12,560 --> 02:30:14,440
Speaker 1: of the family member. It's not the mother in law,

2992
02:30:14,480 --> 02:30:16,680
Speaker 1: but some of the excited family. My ex tried to

2993
02:30:16,760 --> 02:30:19,000
Speaker 1: break into the house the day that I posted the

2994
02:30:19,040 --> 02:30:21,600
Speaker 1: story while I was at work, and I press charges.

2995
02:30:21,840 --> 02:30:24,240
Speaker 1: I don't know how that's going to shake out or

2996
02:30:24,280 --> 02:30:26,360
Speaker 1: why he's doing this when it can only get him

2997
02:30:26,400 --> 02:30:28,440
Speaker 1: in worse trouble. But I'm letting my lawyer and the

2998
02:30:28,440 --> 02:30:30,440
Speaker 1: police handle it, and I'm staying with my parents for

2999
02:30:30,440 --> 02:30:32,720
Speaker 1: a little while until I feel safer. Damn op im

3000
02:30:32,760 --> 02:30:35,800
Speaker 1: sorry sucks. I don't know what's happened between him and

3001
02:30:35,840 --> 02:30:38,120
Speaker 1: his family, and I don't want to try and find out.

3002
02:30:38,160 --> 02:30:40,360
Speaker 1: My ex and I guess his family before the fight

3003
02:30:40,480 --> 02:30:43,240
Speaker 1: with mother in law spread rumors about me, and it's

3004
02:30:43,240 --> 02:30:46,280
Speaker 1: made living here very hard an It's a smallish community

3005
02:30:46,320 --> 02:30:49,240
Speaker 1: and people treat me differently. Now. The local steak president

3006
02:30:49,400 --> 02:30:52,440
Speaker 1: has been kind, state president or steak steak president. What

3007
02:30:52,440 --> 02:30:55,160
Speaker 1: does that mean? S tak at least from a small town.

3008
02:30:55,200 --> 02:30:57,480
Speaker 1: What does that mean? Do you have presidents for your steaks? Yeah,

3009
02:30:57,600 --> 02:30:59,760
Speaker 1: you have steak president that steakhouse.

3010
02:31:00,000 --> 02:31:02,760
Speaker 2: I got a steak president cutting up a fresh new beef.

3011
02:31:03,000 --> 02:31:06,840
Speaker 1: Oh. A state president is the man who's asked volunteer

3012
02:31:08,280 --> 02:31:11,680
Speaker 1: churches and stuff like that. Okay, ah. The local stake

3013
02:31:11,800 --> 02:31:15,040
Speaker 1: president who's like a guy that helps is a volunteer

3014
02:31:15,080 --> 02:31:17,680
Speaker 1: for the leader of churches or whatever has been kind

3015
02:31:17,760 --> 02:31:20,039
Speaker 1: and after being told about the cheating, no mention of

3016
02:31:20,120 --> 02:31:22,680
Speaker 1: orientation said he would try to help with the rumors.

3017
02:31:22,800 --> 02:31:24,600
Speaker 1: I don't want to leave the area, but I'm thinking

3018
02:31:24,640 --> 02:31:26,240
Speaker 1: that I may need to, at least for a while

3019
02:31:26,320 --> 02:31:28,960
Speaker 1: after the legal stuff is over. My lawyer and I

3020
02:31:28,959 --> 02:31:31,280
Speaker 1: have decided to go for annulment, since that will take

3021
02:31:31,360 --> 02:31:33,440
Speaker 1: less time and be harder to fight in this case,

3022
02:31:33,560 --> 02:31:36,160
Speaker 1: hopefully the ex won't contest it. I'm glad that we

3023
02:31:36,240 --> 02:31:39,160
Speaker 1: never combined finances. There won't be too many joint assets

3024
02:31:39,200 --> 02:31:41,760
Speaker 1: to sort out. I will be okay financially. Still, this

3025
02:31:41,800 --> 02:31:43,720
Speaker 1: could have been much worse if I was a stay

3026
02:31:43,720 --> 02:31:46,400
Speaker 1: at home mom or something. I'm going to start therapy soon.

3027
02:31:46,560 --> 02:31:48,640
Speaker 1: I was thinking about it anyway, even before this all

3028
02:31:48,680 --> 02:31:51,480
Speaker 1: came out, because I've been feeling depressed over how things

3029
02:31:51,480 --> 02:31:53,480
Speaker 1: were working in my marriage for a while. I don't

3030
02:31:53,480 --> 02:31:55,920
Speaker 1: want to lose any more of myself in my time

3031
02:31:56,040 --> 02:31:58,360
Speaker 1: than I already have, and I hope one day I'll

3032
02:31:58,360 --> 02:32:00,879
Speaker 1: feel good enough to start dating again. Right now, I

3033
02:32:00,920 --> 02:32:05,280
Speaker 1: don't know, even thinking about it hurts my goodness. So

3034
02:32:05,879 --> 02:32:10,360
Speaker 1: Johnny Boy, Johnny Bahama, Sammy, what do you think OP

3035
02:32:10,520 --> 02:32:14,160
Speaker 1: should do? Is she trucking forward in the right way?

3036
02:32:14,400 --> 02:32:16,720
Speaker 1: Is going no contact with the family and the ex

3037
02:32:16,840 --> 02:32:18,800
Speaker 1: the right thing to do here? What would you guys do?

3038
02:32:18,800 --> 02:32:20,480
Speaker 1: Would you go no contact with the family and the

3039
02:32:20,640 --> 02:32:22,680
Speaker 1: X but your answers in the comments immediately, But John,

3040
02:32:22,959 --> 02:32:25,360
Speaker 1: with this update, what are you thinking? Yeah? And also

3041
02:32:25,440 --> 02:32:27,800
Speaker 1: I would love to see I know we've actually had

3042
02:32:27,840 --> 02:32:31,560
Speaker 1: some breakup stories from people who watch like kind of

3043
02:32:31,600 --> 02:32:33,760
Speaker 1: sharing advice. I would love if you guys have any

3044
02:32:33,800 --> 02:32:36,360
Speaker 1: advice on like any sort of like big breakups like

3045
02:32:36,400 --> 02:32:38,920
Speaker 1: this that you've gone through. I think that'd be very

3046
02:32:38,959 --> 02:32:41,680
Speaker 1: helpful for the community. But yeah, Also, I don't know

3047
02:32:41,680 --> 02:32:43,760
Speaker 1: if anyone can hear this, but there's a looking drill going,

3048
02:32:43,800 --> 02:32:46,040
Speaker 1: oh yeah, yeah, it's crazy. How was it? I mean,

3049
02:32:46,360 --> 02:32:51,160
Speaker 1: that's amazing. Yeah, these strange. But I think that OPI

3050
02:32:51,320 --> 02:32:52,840
Speaker 1: is doing all the right things in terms of, like,

3051
02:32:52,879 --> 02:32:55,160
Speaker 1: all right, let's leave it to the lawyer. If anything happens,

3052
02:32:55,160 --> 02:32:58,720
Speaker 1: called the police, like literally just basically have the intermediary

3053
02:32:58,720 --> 02:33:01,039
Speaker 1: handle it and not get involved, because, like she said,

3054
02:33:01,080 --> 02:33:03,360
Speaker 1: like just dealing with people directly just gets messy, and

3055
02:33:03,400 --> 02:33:04,080
Speaker 1: like all these other.

3056
02:33:04,000 --> 02:33:05,360
Speaker 2: Things, it's emotionally taxing.

3057
02:33:05,440 --> 02:33:09,160
Speaker 1: It's emotionally taxing, and like I imagine too, like dealing

3058
02:33:09,240 --> 02:33:11,760
Speaker 1: with it legally that will help her from accidentally like

3059
02:33:11,879 --> 02:33:14,520
Speaker 1: slipping up and giving them to like something counters to whatever.

3060
02:33:14,720 --> 02:33:15,160
Speaker 1: I think.

3061
02:33:15,240 --> 02:33:18,320
Speaker 2: What OPI mentioned in terms of moving to a new hometown.

3062
02:33:18,160 --> 02:33:20,560
Speaker 1: Is great because I think about, like, Okay, what is

3063
02:33:20,600 --> 02:33:23,000
Speaker 1: your overall quality of life? You're gonna be stuck with

3064
02:33:23,280 --> 02:33:25,959
Speaker 1: the small town people, all the people rumoring about you,

3065
02:33:26,000 --> 02:33:28,600
Speaker 1: the family, the people, the family you work with. I

3066
02:33:28,640 --> 02:33:31,199
Speaker 1: have to imagine that your quality of life can only

3067
02:33:31,280 --> 02:33:34,280
Speaker 1: improve if you leave. Yeah. Yeah, but it's hard to leave,

3068
02:33:34,400 --> 02:33:38,000
Speaker 1: you know, a small town. It's like it sucks, But

3069
02:33:38,000 --> 02:33:39,640
Speaker 1: but it might be that. Yeah, it's kind of like

3070
02:33:39,680 --> 02:33:42,320
Speaker 1: the lesser of two evil type situations. Yeah. Yeah, so

3071
02:33:42,480 --> 02:33:45,080
Speaker 1: maybe opia time to go on Zello look at some

3072
02:33:45,120 --> 02:33:47,400
Speaker 1: new apartments there you go. Maybe, uh, maybe come to

3073
02:33:47,400 --> 02:33:49,480
Speaker 1: Bali cheap man.

3074
02:33:49,640 --> 02:33:52,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, but you know what's never cheap.

3075
02:33:53,200 --> 02:33:57,920
Speaker 1: Tell me the price of this new story. The price

3076
02:33:58,120 --> 02:34:00,360
Speaker 1: is your time, which you will never get back. No,

3077
02:34:00,640 --> 02:34:02,880
Speaker 1: let's steal it. Let's get into it. I lost one

3078
02:34:02,959 --> 02:34:06,160
Speaker 1: hundred and forty six thousand dollars playing poker, but I

3079
02:34:06,200 --> 02:34:09,760
Speaker 1: think I can win it back. That's always a smart idea. Literally,

3080
02:34:09,800 --> 02:34:12,560
Speaker 1: this is the worst mindset to have. I mean all right,

3081
02:34:12,680 --> 02:34:16,199
Speaker 1: best mind is set to have in anything but gambling gambling,

3082
02:34:16,240 --> 02:34:19,200
Speaker 1: you're you're about to be down like another one hundred

3083
02:34:19,200 --> 02:34:21,280
Speaker 1: and forty grand. That's a I was gonna say, because listen, like,

3084
02:34:21,360 --> 02:34:24,840
Speaker 1: okop is going well, and we're talking about doubling downling down,

3085
02:34:25,000 --> 02:34:28,360
Speaker 1: But if you have a gambling addiction, like fifty one

3086
02:34:28,400 --> 02:34:30,160
Speaker 1: percent of the time, you're probably not going to win

3087
02:34:30,520 --> 02:34:33,880
Speaker 1: doubling down my house always wins, you lose. But we're

3088
02:34:33,920 --> 02:34:36,920
Speaker 1: so deep already. Yeah, we might as well just climb.

3089
02:34:37,160 --> 02:34:38,960
Speaker 1: I'm six feet in the Grid's not going to happen.

3090
02:34:39,000 --> 02:34:41,400
Speaker 1: What what? What is another? What is twelve feet? To me?

3091
02:34:41,720 --> 02:34:45,040
Speaker 2: It's your you're it's something you can't dig yourself.

3092
02:34:45,120 --> 02:34:48,959
Speaker 1: That's a crushed I'm dead. So what's time on? Can you? Like?

3093
02:34:49,040 --> 02:34:51,080
Speaker 2: I guess if you can, you declare bankruptcy.

3094
02:34:51,200 --> 02:34:54,160
Speaker 1: It'll your life is ruined either way. Yeah, exactly, I'm

3095
02:34:54,160 --> 02:34:56,960
Speaker 1: totally joking. By the way, never do this, please, I'm

3096
02:34:56,959 --> 02:35:00,480
Speaker 1: not a twitch gambling streamer. Yeah. Yeah, going to tell

3097
02:35:00,480 --> 02:35:04,000
Speaker 1: you to invest in life gambling, sponsorship, gambling.

3098
02:35:04,160 --> 02:35:06,040
Speaker 2: We're safe, guys. Yeah, let's get into it.

3099
02:35:06,080 --> 02:35:07,880
Speaker 1: I've been living alone in a new city for a

3100
02:35:07,879 --> 02:35:10,320
Speaker 1: little more than a year. I literally don't know anyone here.

3101
02:35:10,400 --> 02:35:12,840
Speaker 1: Except for my work folks who I don't interact with

3102
02:35:13,000 --> 02:35:15,760
Speaker 1: except for work. With not much to do during my downtime,

3103
02:35:15,959 --> 02:35:19,200
Speaker 1: I got into the best hobby you can do online, poker,

3104
02:35:19,440 --> 02:35:22,519
Speaker 1: the best way to spend free time. I mean, honestly.

3105
02:35:22,920 --> 02:35:26,080
Speaker 1: One of our friends who lives in Bali plays poker

3106
02:35:26,360 --> 02:35:27,000
Speaker 1: full time.

3107
02:35:27,360 --> 02:35:28,520
Speaker 2: He quit his job.

3108
02:35:28,680 --> 02:35:30,600
Speaker 1: He had a bunch of businesses, just threw them in

3109
02:35:30,640 --> 02:35:33,760
Speaker 1: the trash and decided to play poker full time.

3110
02:35:34,120 --> 02:35:36,480
Speaker 2: He sent me he was making like a ton of

3111
02:35:36,480 --> 02:35:39,720
Speaker 2: money before. Yeah, he uh, before.

3112
02:35:39,480 --> 02:35:41,720
Speaker 1: He quit, Like before he quit those to play poker.

3113
02:35:41,800 --> 02:35:43,800
Speaker 1: He sent me a screenshot and he won like forty

3114
02:35:43,800 --> 02:35:46,640
Speaker 1: six bucks from a tournament that he spent like six

3115
02:35:46,680 --> 02:35:47,120
Speaker 1: hours in.

3116
02:35:47,240 --> 02:35:48,120
Speaker 2: But he's having fun.

3117
02:35:48,240 --> 02:35:50,680
Speaker 1: I feel like it's like, like you said, literally everything

3118
02:35:50,680 --> 02:35:52,800
Speaker 1: else in life you can do, like making content.

3119
02:35:52,920 --> 02:35:54,000
Speaker 2: If you don't make a bunch of money, you know

3120
02:35:54,040 --> 02:35:55,000
Speaker 2: you can figure it out.

3121
02:35:55,000 --> 02:35:55,680
Speaker 1: You can have fun.

3122
02:35:55,680 --> 02:35:58,119
Speaker 2: But like playing poker, it's just like I don't know,

3123
02:35:58,320 --> 02:35:59,560
Speaker 2: Like it's just it's.

3124
02:35:59,400 --> 02:36:02,520
Speaker 1: Just being fair to he is. He says he's learning

3125
02:36:02,560 --> 02:36:04,800
Speaker 1: a ton and it's the best way. Like he's learned

3126
02:36:04,840 --> 02:36:08,400
Speaker 1: a lot about learning in doing this this. I think

3127
02:36:08,480 --> 02:36:11,160
Speaker 1: Cam has his own like he's just a different league,

3128
02:36:11,160 --> 02:36:12,960
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But like for for us

3129
02:36:13,040 --> 02:36:16,280
Speaker 1: normal folks, you know what I mean, normal Joe's Yeah. Yeah,

3130
02:36:16,280 --> 02:36:19,480
Speaker 1: I would not to anyone but that friend Cam. I

3131
02:36:19,520 --> 02:36:22,840
Speaker 1: would not suggest playing poker full time unless you want

3132
02:36:22,840 --> 02:36:24,400
Speaker 1: to lose your money, unless you want to lose great

3133
02:36:24,400 --> 02:36:26,200
Speaker 1: way to do that. I actually think the way he's

3134
02:36:26,200 --> 02:36:28,920
Speaker 1: playing is smart. He's doing like tournaments that's like a dollar,

3135
02:36:29,120 --> 02:36:31,720
Speaker 1: like five dollars entry, right, and so like such, can

3136
02:36:31,760 --> 02:36:34,840
Speaker 1: you lose? You could lose unlimited. I mean you can

3137
02:36:34,920 --> 02:36:36,680
Speaker 1: know you can only lose you that's your buy in.

3138
02:36:36,760 --> 02:36:38,680
Speaker 1: But there's like a thousand people playing, so you can

3139
02:36:38,720 --> 02:36:41,280
Speaker 1: only lose up to a thousand. No. No, So so there's

3140
02:36:41,280 --> 02:36:43,840
Speaker 1: a thousand people playing. Buy in is a dollar, right,

3141
02:36:43,920 --> 02:36:46,920
Speaker 1: and then if you lose that dollar, then you lose. Okay,

3142
02:36:47,040 --> 02:36:48,960
Speaker 1: the winning pot is like a thousand or like six

3143
02:36:49,080 --> 02:36:52,560
Speaker 1: hundred bucks, right, I see? Okay, Hey, high risk, high

3144
02:36:52,560 --> 02:36:57,080
Speaker 1: reward baby, Yeah, let's keep calling with this guy. I

3145
02:36:57,120 --> 02:36:59,000
Speaker 1: have a decent job where I make around one hundred

3146
02:36:59,040 --> 02:37:01,400
Speaker 1: k year and where I stay this puts me in

3147
02:37:01,440 --> 02:37:04,000
Speaker 1: the top ten percent of earners. But over the last

3148
02:37:04,000 --> 02:37:07,840
Speaker 1: seven months, I've managed to lose one hundred forty six

3149
02:37:07,959 --> 02:37:12,039
Speaker 1: grand playing poker one hundred and forty six Does it

3150
02:37:12,120 --> 02:37:14,600
Speaker 1: not like set off alarm bells at like twenty grand?

3151
02:37:14,920 --> 02:37:17,480
Speaker 1: You know. That's that's why I think it's so dangerous,

3152
02:37:17,560 --> 02:37:19,360
Speaker 1: is because you don't like, well, you lose es.

3153
02:37:19,400 --> 02:37:21,800
Speaker 2: Actually actually this is this is the learning curve.

3154
02:37:21,879 --> 02:37:25,840
Speaker 1: You know. You just think, all right, think about how

3155
02:37:25,920 --> 02:37:28,520
Speaker 1: much money do you spend on college before you get

3156
02:37:28,520 --> 02:37:31,800
Speaker 1: a real job, what like sixty one hundred and twenty grand.

3157
02:37:31,920 --> 02:37:34,080
Speaker 1: You're one hundred twenty grand in the hole, yeah, and

3158
02:37:34,120 --> 02:37:35,840
Speaker 1: then you start digging your way up. Op.

3159
02:37:35,920 --> 02:37:37,119
Speaker 2: He is on the upswing.

3160
02:37:37,280 --> 02:37:40,480
Speaker 1: He does he spent all the money on college, poker, college,

3161
02:37:40,480 --> 02:37:42,959
Speaker 1: and now he's ready to he's with everything. But using

3162
02:37:42,959 --> 02:37:45,560
Speaker 1: your analogy, that's like like going to school for marketing

3163
02:37:45,720 --> 02:37:48,320
Speaker 1: and then you like go into work and they're like, hey, Sally,

3164
02:37:48,400 --> 02:37:50,960
Speaker 1: so your Facebook ads campaign didn't do too well, so

3165
02:37:51,000 --> 02:37:54,240
Speaker 1: you've lost ten grand today, hopefully you do better, like

3166
02:37:54,320 --> 02:37:57,560
Speaker 1: literally like that's when it is well. But he's but

3167
02:37:57,800 --> 02:38:00,080
Speaker 1: he's he's learned everything, so that's not gonna happen. And

3168
02:38:00,200 --> 02:38:01,720
Speaker 1: so I was going to be like, oh my god,

3169
02:38:01,800 --> 02:38:05,160
Speaker 1: now you're just winning every tournament, every cash game every hand.

3170
02:38:05,280 --> 02:38:07,600
Speaker 1: I also like how we've completely full flopped, And I

3171
02:38:07,640 --> 02:38:09,560
Speaker 1: was like, gamble your LifeWay and You're like, no, you

3172
02:38:09,600 --> 02:38:12,760
Speaker 1: can never do that. You're like, I just realized he

3173
02:38:12,840 --> 02:38:15,440
Speaker 1: just spent all this time and money learning, and that

3174
02:38:15,600 --> 02:38:17,280
Speaker 1: is something they can never take away from you.

3175
02:38:17,480 --> 02:38:19,640
Speaker 2: That's true, Unlike all of your worldly possessions.

3176
02:38:19,680 --> 02:38:22,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, that your freedom in jail, yeah yeah, but that

3177
02:38:22,640 --> 02:38:25,560
Speaker 1: they'll take away from you. Yeah, you can never take

3178
02:38:25,600 --> 02:38:28,240
Speaker 1: this away, baby, except for lobotomy. Yeah.

3179
02:38:28,600 --> 02:38:31,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, don't get lobotomized. Yeah, don't do that. I primarily

3180
02:38:31,680 --> 02:38:33,520
Speaker 2: played p l O six.

3181
02:38:33,680 --> 02:38:35,760
Speaker 1: I started with buyings of one hundred dollars, but then

3182
02:38:35,800 --> 02:38:40,240
Speaker 1: I soon moved to five hundred and then five thousand dollars.

3183
02:38:40,400 --> 02:38:42,480
Speaker 2: Why were you moving up if you were losing?

3184
02:38:42,680 --> 02:38:45,160
Speaker 1: Go big or go home, baby, But it's how we

3185
02:38:45,240 --> 02:38:47,760
Speaker 1: go big. If you go home, dude. If you lose

3186
02:38:47,840 --> 02:38:50,040
Speaker 1: on the one hundred dollars ones, it only gets more

3187
02:38:50,040 --> 02:38:55,360
Speaker 1: competitive as you go higher. Big home, go big home,

3188
02:38:55,640 --> 02:39:00,360
Speaker 1: big home. Go what's big home? Go big or go home? God.

3189
02:39:00,920 --> 02:39:04,760
Speaker 1: The only path I was losing often, but only after

3190
02:39:05,000 --> 02:39:08,320
Speaker 1: I would run up insane scores similar every other day

3191
02:39:08,360 --> 02:39:10,400
Speaker 1: I would load up for five k running up to

3192
02:39:10,440 --> 02:39:13,840
Speaker 1: thirty K as in Game thirty thousand, but then proceed

3193
02:39:13,920 --> 02:39:17,279
Speaker 1: to lose it all and then buy back six more times.

3194
02:39:17,320 --> 02:39:19,920
Speaker 1: Oh my god. I kept it mostly in balance with

3195
02:39:19,959 --> 02:39:22,280
Speaker 1: a couple of big cash outs, getting up from the

3196
02:39:22,320 --> 02:39:26,240
Speaker 1: table with let's say a seventy thousand dollars profit only

3197
02:39:26,280 --> 02:39:30,040
Speaker 1: because everyone else left. Okay, is he doing well? He's

3198
02:39:30,280 --> 02:39:33,120
Speaker 1: I think he's like the highest extremes on both ends.

3199
02:39:33,160 --> 02:39:36,160
Speaker 1: I think seventy thousand dollars profit. Yeah, I mean, but

3200
02:39:36,240 --> 02:39:39,520
Speaker 1: that's gambling for you, right, Like, sometimes you're up, sometimes

3201
02:39:39,520 --> 02:39:39,880
Speaker 1: you're down.

3202
02:39:39,920 --> 02:39:41,039
Speaker 2: You get addicted to the high.

3203
02:39:40,920 --> 02:39:42,920
Speaker 1: And you literally can't control, like it just really like

3204
02:39:43,120 --> 02:39:46,039
Speaker 1: he's just lost control. He lost control. Yeah, hope you're

3205
02:39:46,080 --> 02:39:49,480
Speaker 1: spirally man. Here we go. But I was a consistent loser,

3206
02:39:49,640 --> 02:39:52,680
Speaker 1: losing on average twenty K to thirty K per month. Hey,

3207
02:39:52,680 --> 02:39:55,560
Speaker 1: if anything, at least he's consistent twenty to thirty k.

3208
02:39:56,160 --> 02:40:00,560
Speaker 1: Come on, what are you doing? Oh my god? My

3209
02:40:00,800 --> 02:40:03,680
Speaker 1: entire salary would go into this other than renter or food.

3210
02:40:03,879 --> 02:40:06,000
Speaker 1: The last week or so of every month, I would

3211
02:40:06,000 --> 02:40:08,280
Speaker 1: be counting my dollars to make sure I had enough

3212
02:40:08,320 --> 02:40:11,080
Speaker 1: to make it through. And then it happened.

3213
02:40:11,480 --> 02:40:14,000
Speaker 2: What did he win? Did he win? He won?

3214
02:40:14,360 --> 02:40:16,720
Speaker 1: I lost my balance completely?

3215
02:40:16,920 --> 02:40:17,920
Speaker 2: Wait, what what do you mean?

3216
02:40:18,080 --> 02:40:22,599
Speaker 1: I had a month where I lost over fifty thousand dollars.

3217
02:40:22,800 --> 02:40:25,600
Speaker 1: I blew through my savings, took an advance from work,

3218
02:40:25,680 --> 02:40:28,280
Speaker 1: and then I blew through that too.

3219
02:40:28,600 --> 02:40:30,520
Speaker 2: Oh man, I really thought it was going to be

3220
02:40:30,560 --> 02:40:31,640
Speaker 2: a fairy tale and.

3221
02:40:31,879 --> 02:40:34,080
Speaker 1: You're just gonna come right back. No, no, he got

3222
02:40:34,160 --> 02:40:36,000
Speaker 1: that all right from the ashes? Yeah?

3223
02:40:36,000 --> 02:40:37,080
Speaker 2: Absolutely, who saw it?

3224
02:40:37,120 --> 02:40:39,800
Speaker 1: Comment? Who could have predicted this? As of today, I'm

3225
02:40:39,840 --> 02:40:42,959
Speaker 1: down one hundred and forty six thousand dollars. Oh, with

3226
02:40:43,160 --> 02:40:46,400
Speaker 1: twelve thousand dollars in debt and about two hundred dollars

3227
02:40:46,400 --> 02:40:48,320
Speaker 1: to my name to last through the month.

3228
02:40:48,560 --> 02:40:50,440
Speaker 2: Dude, what are you doing?

3229
02:40:50,920 --> 02:40:52,880
Speaker 1: I don't have enough for rent this month, and I

3230
02:40:52,920 --> 02:40:54,720
Speaker 1: really don't know how I'm going to figure this out?

3231
02:40:54,760 --> 02:40:55,080
Speaker 1: All right?

3232
02:40:55,160 --> 02:40:56,920
Speaker 2: Can I give you step one? Can I get you

3233
02:40:56,959 --> 02:40:57,400
Speaker 2: step one?

3234
02:40:57,480 --> 02:40:57,920
Speaker 1: Step one?

3235
02:40:57,959 --> 02:40:59,320
Speaker 2: You can destroy your computer?

3236
02:40:59,480 --> 02:41:03,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, destroy it, delete your fucking poker at, block all

3237
02:41:03,879 --> 02:41:08,560
Speaker 1: poker websites. Just just just don't go online. Man, No, stop,

3238
02:41:08,720 --> 02:41:12,280
Speaker 1: you want to retreat? Yeah, to Bali, to Bali. Every

3239
02:41:12,360 --> 02:41:14,960
Speaker 1: every solution to Ope's problems is going to be bothered

3240
02:41:15,080 --> 02:41:18,080
Speaker 1: every place with no Wi Fi every no temptation to

3241
02:41:18,120 --> 02:41:18,520
Speaker 1: the jungle.

3242
02:41:18,600 --> 02:41:20,160
Speaker 2: Jungles to the jungle for a month, go.

3243
02:41:20,120 --> 02:41:20,680
Speaker 1: To Sri Lanka.

3244
02:41:20,800 --> 02:41:22,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's apparently it's the new Bali.

3245
02:41:22,959 --> 02:41:25,480
Speaker 1: There we go. I am respected at work and seen

3246
02:41:25,520 --> 02:41:28,360
Speaker 1: as someone who is highly logical analytical. You shouldn't be

3247
02:41:28,360 --> 02:41:31,640
Speaker 1: respected anywhere. What they don't know is that I'm also

3248
02:41:31,720 --> 02:41:34,440
Speaker 1: a degenerate gambler. I'm sure I'll get through this. I

3249
02:41:34,520 --> 02:41:36,640
Speaker 1: have to and I have to rebuild. But I just

3250
02:41:36,680 --> 02:41:38,760
Speaker 1: needed to put this down and share it with someone,

3251
02:41:38,959 --> 02:41:41,160
Speaker 1: even if it is just words in an empty sub

3252
02:41:41,320 --> 02:41:44,920
Speaker 1: Take care, guys. Loneliness is a hell of a thing.

3253
02:41:45,080 --> 02:41:50,640
Speaker 1: Oh my god, well one hundred and fifty k Yeah.

3254
02:41:50,720 --> 02:41:52,520
Speaker 1: I mean the first thing is like, you have to

3255
02:41:52,560 --> 02:41:54,480
Speaker 1: do whatever you have to do to stop gambling. I

3256
02:41:54,520 --> 02:41:58,120
Speaker 1: feel like right, like no, completely cut it, or or

3257
02:41:58,760 --> 02:42:02,520
Speaker 1: maybe Op's luck is about to turn around. Op, Here

3258
02:42:02,560 --> 02:42:04,480
Speaker 1: we go, Here we go. You know those guys that

3259
02:42:04,600 --> 02:42:08,440
Speaker 1: like give money in paper bags, well like the mafia.

3260
02:42:08,520 --> 02:42:10,959
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, take a loan from them, genius. You know

3261
02:42:11,320 --> 02:42:13,480
Speaker 1: you probably have a car, use that as collateral. I

3262
02:42:13,520 --> 02:42:15,800
Speaker 1: heard that you can get a deal from sit Down

3263
02:42:15,800 --> 02:42:18,400
Speaker 1: from sixty percent interest to five percent. Yeah. A day.

3264
02:42:18,560 --> 02:42:22,760
Speaker 1: Pretty good deal. Yeah, you get a percent interest per day. Yeah, dude,

3265
02:42:22,800 --> 02:42:25,480
Speaker 1: you only need one good hand. I heard.

3266
02:42:25,520 --> 02:42:26,640
Speaker 2: Compound interest is good.

3267
02:42:27,000 --> 02:42:29,160
Speaker 1: Compound interest is good, especially when you're the one oing.

3268
02:42:29,320 --> 02:42:34,160
Speaker 1: Yeah exactly, I OPI, OPI. All right, you got two options? Yes, one,

3269
02:42:34,240 --> 02:42:37,920
Speaker 1: destroy your computer lame. I mean that's like the obvious

3270
02:42:38,080 --> 02:42:41,400
Speaker 1: thing to do. Two double or nothing, baby double or

3271
02:42:41,440 --> 02:42:43,959
Speaker 1: fucking nothing. Take a loan from the mafia, you know,

3272
02:42:44,120 --> 02:42:46,320
Speaker 1: put your knee caps on the line, your car on

3273
02:42:46,360 --> 02:42:49,039
Speaker 1: the line, maybe like steal from your grandma or something.

3274
02:42:49,160 --> 02:42:51,119
Speaker 2: Right, just need it you You.

3275
02:42:51,040 --> 02:42:53,160
Speaker 1: Put in five k, yep, you could be up one

3276
02:42:53,200 --> 02:42:56,840
Speaker 1: hundred and forty K by the day's end. Bam, money back.

3277
02:42:57,000 --> 02:42:58,760
Speaker 1: And then why stop there? And then why stop?

3278
02:42:58,760 --> 02:43:01,320
Speaker 2: Why stop there? You can be a hundred keep going,

3279
02:43:01,520 --> 02:43:02,080
Speaker 2: never stop.

3280
02:43:02,200 --> 02:43:04,960
Speaker 1: In all seriousness, I feel like he should find like

3281
02:43:05,040 --> 02:43:08,360
Speaker 1: a like a gambling addiction like like recovery center or

3282
02:43:08,400 --> 02:43:11,560
Speaker 1: like some some sort of program, because also because that's

3283
02:43:11,560 --> 02:43:13,760
Speaker 1: where the best gamblers are, you can get tipped to

3284
02:43:14,480 --> 02:43:16,280
Speaker 1: that Loki probably is where of the best. No, that's

3285
02:43:16,280 --> 02:43:18,280
Speaker 1: actually this is where the worst are because they've lost

3286
02:43:18,320 --> 02:43:20,039
Speaker 1: all their money and not mating to stop. But maybe

3287
02:43:20,080 --> 02:43:23,080
Speaker 1: they have little pieces of information you could take, compile together,

3288
02:43:23,480 --> 02:43:26,000
Speaker 1: create a new strategy. But like, also, I feel like

3289
02:43:26,000 --> 02:43:27,640
Speaker 1: that I'll solve I feel like this was just bread

3290
02:43:27,680 --> 02:43:30,039
Speaker 1: out of like loneliness and boredom. Like he literally had

3291
02:43:30,080 --> 02:43:31,720
Speaker 1: nothing to do with a girlfriend. Did all this free

3292
02:43:31,720 --> 02:43:34,040
Speaker 1: time get a girlfriend? Get a girlfriend? We're not looking

3293
02:43:34,080 --> 02:43:39,360
Speaker 1: at our producer. I oh, speaking of girlfriends, My Australian

3294
02:43:39,360 --> 02:43:43,000
Speaker 1: Bali girlfriend is maybe coming back. See remember how sad

3295
02:43:43,000 --> 02:43:46,320
Speaker 1: he was just episodes ago. But literally an hour after

3296
02:43:46,360 --> 02:43:49,320
Speaker 1: we recorded, she texted me saying that she had something

3297
02:43:49,360 --> 02:43:51,480
Speaker 1: come up and changed her flights to stay in Bali.

3298
02:43:51,600 --> 02:43:54,760
Speaker 1: Totally not because of me. Something happened, you know, something happened.

3299
02:43:54,840 --> 02:43:57,199
Speaker 1: We've gambled on this story, but I think we should

3300
02:43:57,200 --> 02:43:59,120
Speaker 1: put it all on the line for another one. With

3301
02:43:59,160 --> 02:44:00,920
Speaker 1: the next one. Let's do it, John. In that last story,

3302
02:44:00,959 --> 02:44:03,160
Speaker 1: we're talking about people losing money.

3303
02:44:03,560 --> 02:44:04,000
Speaker 2: Guess what.

3304
02:44:04,160 --> 02:44:08,560
Speaker 1: We're continuing the lost train and we're talking about a scam.

3305
02:44:08,640 --> 02:44:10,240
Speaker 1: Double nothing. End of the episode.

3306
02:44:10,360 --> 02:44:13,240
Speaker 2: End of the episode. Let's go all right, my.

3307
02:44:13,400 --> 02:44:17,240
Speaker 1: Wife lost twenty five thousand dollars in a scam and

3308
02:44:17,360 --> 02:44:21,040
Speaker 1: I'm furious beyond belief. She's now depressed. But I kind

3309
02:44:21,040 --> 02:44:23,400
Speaker 1: of don't care. Am I the asshole for calling her

3310
02:44:23,400 --> 02:44:28,120
Speaker 1: a fucking idiot scumbag? I added that last bit. Guys,

3311
02:44:29,800 --> 02:44:31,959
Speaker 1: they're a little sauce that it was a little dry,

3312
02:44:33,120 --> 02:44:37,720
Speaker 1: little sauce. Yeah, you know, I mean, losing twenty five

3313
02:44:37,720 --> 02:44:40,560
Speaker 1: thousand dollars in a scam is pretty bad. And also

3314
02:44:40,680 --> 02:44:42,800
Speaker 1: when we hear these stories, it's never like, oh, I

3315
02:44:42,879 --> 02:44:45,080
Speaker 1: lost like a thousand dollars and then I totally stopped it.

3316
02:44:45,160 --> 02:44:50,520
Speaker 1: They always keep going addictive. That's what we've seen every time. Hey, John, John,

3317
02:44:50,520 --> 02:44:55,000
Speaker 1: we're basically like financially married. Yeah, actually, yeah, I got a.

3318
02:44:55,879 --> 02:44:57,959
Speaker 1: Did we get real married on the show? Yeah, real

3319
02:44:58,040 --> 02:45:00,880
Speaker 1: married on the show for tax purposes and love purposes?

3320
02:45:00,959 --> 02:45:02,200
Speaker 2: Yes, I have a. I have a.

3321
02:45:02,320 --> 02:45:06,320
Speaker 1: I have this. This Nigerian prince wants to wire. We

3322
02:45:06,560 --> 02:45:09,280
Speaker 1: give him ten thousand dollars, right, he gives us ten million?

3323
02:45:09,720 --> 02:45:12,040
Speaker 1: You in for a MILLI ten million even if it

3324
02:45:12,080 --> 02:45:14,560
Speaker 1: doesn't happen. The possibility of getting timmy do you the

3325
02:45:14,959 --> 02:45:18,720
Speaker 1: risk reward the reward ratio massive is crazy?

3326
02:45:18,959 --> 02:45:21,920
Speaker 2: Could we You can't look into it? You can't look

3327
02:45:21,959 --> 02:45:22,280
Speaker 2: into it.

3328
02:45:22,600 --> 02:45:24,160
Speaker 1: I'm not looking Oh I can't look into it.

3329
02:45:24,360 --> 02:45:26,760
Speaker 2: You can't look into it? Yes, or no, ten million,

3330
02:45:26,800 --> 02:45:27,560
Speaker 2: All right, we're doing it.

3331
02:45:27,560 --> 02:45:29,680
Speaker 1: We'll take the hit. We'll just I'll just go out

3332
02:45:29,680 --> 02:45:32,040
Speaker 1: there and sell another brand. Deal that's perfect, and then

3333
02:45:32,200 --> 02:45:33,240
Speaker 1: and then and then we'll.

3334
02:45:33,080 --> 02:45:35,000
Speaker 2: Cover and then we're good. Yeah, good, easy piece.

3335
02:45:35,080 --> 02:45:38,680
Speaker 1: Ten million, keep the company, yeah, ten million and we

3336
02:45:38,760 --> 02:45:43,080
Speaker 1: keep the company. Wow, all right, Nigerian princes hit my line,

3337
02:45:43,160 --> 02:45:47,360
Speaker 1: baby bugs baby, all right, this actually does have a

3338
02:45:47,600 --> 02:45:50,320
Speaker 1: prince in it. Oh boy, all right. So my male

3339
02:45:50,400 --> 02:45:54,119
Speaker 1: thirty three wife, female twenty seven of eight years fell

3340
02:45:54,240 --> 02:45:58,120
Speaker 1: victim to a scam in which he sent roughly twenty

3341
02:45:58,160 --> 02:46:01,720
Speaker 1: five thousand dollars to a sci who promised to transfer

3342
02:46:01,840 --> 02:46:04,160
Speaker 1: ten million to her so that she could help people

3343
02:46:04,160 --> 02:46:06,959
Speaker 1: in Africa. So she thought not only was she going

3344
02:46:07,040 --> 02:46:10,080
Speaker 1: to transfer get ten million, but also.

3345
02:46:10,040 --> 02:46:11,160
Speaker 2: Like could help the Africans.

3346
02:46:11,280 --> 02:46:13,680
Speaker 1: She was gonna give a belly full of rice every

3347
02:46:13,720 --> 02:46:17,320
Speaker 1: African in Africa. Oh, oh, PE's wife. You are an idiot,

3348
02:46:17,360 --> 02:46:20,080
Speaker 1: you know you are a idiot, actually yeah, but a

3349
02:46:20,240 --> 02:46:22,560
Speaker 1: helpful idiot. You know, I'll give you a good I

3350
02:46:22,560 --> 02:46:23,640
Speaker 1: mean she's like, well.

3351
02:46:23,600 --> 02:46:26,440
Speaker 2: Ten million, she's like a ten million she could easily

3352
02:46:26,440 --> 02:46:26,920
Speaker 2: just you know.

3353
02:46:27,120 --> 02:46:29,959
Speaker 1: Well, what's what's funny is it's like she also thinks

3354
02:46:29,959 --> 02:46:33,640
Speaker 1: she's helping the orphans in Africa and she's getting ten millions,

3355
02:46:33,680 --> 02:46:35,720
Speaker 1: So like she's not really being that altruistic. That's what

3356
02:46:35,720 --> 02:46:38,240
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Yeah, you're really about the ten million. Don't

3357
02:46:38,280 --> 02:46:42,240
Speaker 1: don't even try to tell us that trying to feed,

3358
02:46:42,360 --> 02:46:44,240
Speaker 1: you know, give a belly full of rice to everyone.

3359
02:46:44,879 --> 02:46:47,600
Speaker 1: So it was well intentioned bullshit, but she did not

3360
02:46:47,680 --> 02:46:51,760
Speaker 1: seek my counsel initially. After she sent six thousand dollars.

3361
02:46:51,959 --> 02:46:54,480
Speaker 1: She then approached me and I pointed out the red

3362
02:46:54,480 --> 02:46:57,080
Speaker 1: flags in her story. She prayed about it and felt

3363
02:46:57,160 --> 02:46:59,520
Speaker 1: God told her it was the right thing to do.

3364
02:47:00,080 --> 02:47:06,280
Speaker 1: Oh honey, no, old piece, girlfriend, help those African children

3365
02:47:06,840 --> 02:47:10,080
Speaker 1: with your money. And also as a reward, I'll give

3366
02:47:10,120 --> 02:47:13,119
Speaker 1: you ten million dollars. Bro. We need to find these people.

3367
02:47:13,160 --> 02:47:15,360
Speaker 1: We need to email these people from random. She don't

3368
02:47:15,400 --> 02:47:18,360
Speaker 1: know how God works, not how God works. That's not

3369
02:47:18,360 --> 02:47:19,039
Speaker 1: how God works.

3370
02:47:19,840 --> 02:47:22,240
Speaker 2: Is that how God works?

3371
02:47:24,400 --> 02:47:27,400
Speaker 1: Certified? Not for money, scene, not for money's seen. Riley's

3372
02:47:27,440 --> 02:47:30,360
Speaker 1: from a small religious town. He knows his God's kit ah.

3373
02:47:31,000 --> 02:47:31,520
Speaker 1: That's right.

3374
02:47:31,720 --> 02:47:33,680
Speaker 2: This became a point of contention.

3375
02:47:35,600 --> 02:47:38,320
Speaker 1: He's got got a lot, baby. This became a point

3376
02:47:38,320 --> 02:47:40,760
Speaker 1: of contention in our marriage. For the past three months,

3377
02:47:40,800 --> 02:47:43,720
Speaker 1: three months. It should just be like stop giving money

3378
02:47:43,720 --> 02:47:46,959
Speaker 1: to the Nigerian prints. She opened and maxed out two

3379
02:47:47,040 --> 02:47:49,959
Speaker 1: credit cards and kept it from me. She never lied

3380
02:47:50,040 --> 02:47:52,560
Speaker 1: about it when I asked her, but she certainly avoided

3381
02:47:52,560 --> 02:47:55,640
Speaker 1: telling the truth. This bled into her normal lives as well.

3382
02:47:55,800 --> 02:47:58,040
Speaker 1: She used to call and text me about her days

3383
02:47:58,080 --> 02:48:00,920
Speaker 1: and things she has questions about. Now she's withdrawn with

3384
02:48:00,959 --> 02:48:03,160
Speaker 1: me except for the day to day items needed to

3385
02:48:03,240 --> 02:48:06,199
Speaker 1: keep the family running. I feel similar to have been

3386
02:48:06,280 --> 02:48:09,240
Speaker 1: cheated on, just more of a financial affair. I mean,

3387
02:48:09,320 --> 02:48:11,600
Speaker 1: it is such, it is such a betrayal of trust,

3388
02:48:11,640 --> 02:48:14,039
Speaker 1: and like she keeps doing it. I know she's like,

3389
02:48:14,440 --> 02:48:16,160
Speaker 1: just let me give you. Let me give like another

3390
02:48:16,160 --> 02:48:18,400
Speaker 1: one thousand dollars. I swear that ten million is coming.

3391
02:48:18,600 --> 02:48:25,720
Speaker 1: Those African children need my money. If she started like

3392
02:48:25,760 --> 02:48:29,040
Speaker 1: a coding school in Africa with that money, she could

3393
02:48:29,080 --> 02:48:29,800
Speaker 1: have return.

3394
02:48:30,280 --> 02:48:32,360
Speaker 2: She this is she's doing the furthest thing from that.

3395
02:48:32,480 --> 02:48:34,840
Speaker 1: I know, low key. Actually I think we should what

3396
02:48:34,879 --> 02:48:36,640
Speaker 1: if we invested. Have you ever seen that thing where

3397
02:48:36,680 --> 02:48:39,560
Speaker 1: you like, it's like micro investments where you like buy

3398
02:48:39,640 --> 02:48:43,200
Speaker 1: like a cow for like someone in like Djibouti, and

3399
02:48:43,280 --> 02:48:46,520
Speaker 1: like Jibouti is a US military operated so we'd be

3400
02:48:46,560 --> 02:48:47,640
Speaker 1: buying it for the US military.

3401
02:48:48,240 --> 02:48:49,520
Speaker 2: Actually are there?

3402
02:48:49,560 --> 02:48:50,160
Speaker 1: Is there? Only?

3403
02:48:50,240 --> 02:48:52,520
Speaker 2: Wait, Djibouti is US owned and operated.

3404
02:48:52,560 --> 02:48:55,640
Speaker 1: I believe Djibouti is essentially like a it's almost like

3405
02:48:55,640 --> 02:48:59,080
Speaker 1: a territory in a sense where the US military because

3406
02:48:59,080 --> 02:49:02,840
Speaker 1: of the port access all right outside of Jaboudy Okay,

3407
02:49:02,879 --> 02:49:05,400
Speaker 1: so outside of Jibouti. We'd buy a cow for a guy.

3408
02:49:05,520 --> 02:49:08,400
Speaker 1: We spend like four hundred dollars on that cow. That

3409
02:49:08,440 --> 02:49:12,440
Speaker 1: guy now owes us money for every like milk that

3410
02:49:12,520 --> 02:49:15,879
Speaker 1: he sells. I like how we went from let's let's

3411
02:49:15,920 --> 02:49:18,920
Speaker 1: buy a cow for somebody to like now every ounce

3412
02:49:18,959 --> 02:49:22,800
Speaker 1: of milk. It's a loan. It's a business loans. We

3413
02:49:22,920 --> 02:49:26,400
Speaker 1: are investors. We have investors in these cows, and we

3414
02:49:26,440 --> 02:49:29,080
Speaker 1: get the money back. Oh my god, right now, think right,

3415
02:49:29,320 --> 02:49:32,119
Speaker 1: one cow, maybe it's like five dollars a month. Right,

3416
02:49:32,360 --> 02:49:35,360
Speaker 1: we buy the whole village cows? Right, all right, we're

3417
02:49:35,600 --> 02:49:38,840
Speaker 1: five thousand dollars a month, right, something of this This

3418
02:49:38,879 --> 02:49:39,360
Speaker 1: could work.

3419
02:49:39,600 --> 02:49:41,520
Speaker 2: You had me and then you lost me, and now

3420
02:49:41,520 --> 02:49:42,320
Speaker 2: I'm kind of back.

3421
02:49:42,520 --> 02:49:46,240
Speaker 1: So hey, if anyone from anywhere where there are cows

3422
02:49:46,240 --> 02:49:49,360
Speaker 1: that need investment on We got a few sharks in

3423
02:49:49,400 --> 02:49:55,119
Speaker 1: the shark Can you pitch your cow, your cheat optimization ratio,

3424
02:49:55,680 --> 02:49:58,160
Speaker 1: pitch your cows to us. Oh boy, show us what

3425
02:49:58,200 --> 02:50:00,760
Speaker 1: you do with those nips. Oh god, and uh, we'll

3426
02:50:00,760 --> 02:50:03,200
Speaker 1: consider investment. We'll see, all right, But let's get back

3427
02:50:03,240 --> 02:50:06,039
Speaker 1: to the keeping. I obviously have trust issues when it

3428
02:50:06,080 --> 02:50:08,600
Speaker 1: comes to money with her. I've opened separate accounts and

3429
02:50:08,640 --> 02:50:11,240
Speaker 1: taken her name off my credit cards. There isn't anything

3430
02:50:11,320 --> 02:50:14,800
Speaker 1: left in our savings, including our emergency savings. I've cut

3431
02:50:14,840 --> 02:50:17,720
Speaker 1: my spending back tremendously. I used to eat out twice

3432
02:50:17,760 --> 02:50:20,200
Speaker 1: a week and bring food from home the other three days.

3433
02:50:20,240 --> 02:50:22,800
Speaker 1: I now only bring food from home. I haven't bought

3434
02:50:22,840 --> 02:50:25,120
Speaker 1: a new video game in the last three months. This

3435
02:50:25,200 --> 02:50:27,920
Speaker 1: has impacted my life and has limited what I can do.

3436
02:50:28,120 --> 02:50:31,440
Speaker 1: The man can no longer game. It's basically he's has

3437
02:50:31,520 --> 02:50:33,839
Speaker 1: taken away our boys gaming.

3438
02:50:33,640 --> 02:50:36,160
Speaker 2: Like he cannot like enjoy his life. I know what

3439
02:50:36,240 --> 02:50:38,360
Speaker 2: the money that he has earned, I know.

3440
02:50:38,600 --> 02:50:42,359
Speaker 1: And the money that this one got.

3441
02:50:42,920 --> 02:50:44,279
Speaker 2: That's kind of that's kind of annoying.

3442
02:50:44,400 --> 02:50:44,800
Speaker 1: Yeah.

3443
02:50:44,879 --> 02:50:48,039
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like man couldn't even do a cow investment now.

3444
02:50:47,959 --> 02:50:51,160
Speaker 1: No, he can invest in zero T zero zero teas

3445
02:50:51,240 --> 02:50:52,760
Speaker 1: zeround of milk is at the end of the story.

3446
02:50:52,760 --> 02:50:54,199
Speaker 1: By the way, was a little bit more. Okay, okay,

3447
02:50:54,280 --> 02:50:56,560
Speaker 1: I understand that she is who I married, and I

3448
02:50:56,600 --> 02:50:59,600
Speaker 1: have no interest in divorce. Maybe you should that interest

3449
02:50:59,600 --> 02:51:02,560
Speaker 1: should how about you know why change that? If your

3450
02:51:02,560 --> 02:51:06,640
Speaker 1: wife charged an interest, then you should be losing interest. Yeah,

3451
02:51:07,160 --> 02:51:11,320
Speaker 1: hey yo ooh, that's that's a that's a relationship, maxim right.

3452
02:51:11,400 --> 02:51:14,160
Speaker 1: I accept this hardship that she brought upon us. I

3453
02:51:14,200 --> 02:51:16,240
Speaker 1: just want to move beyond this and grow back together.

3454
02:51:16,480 --> 02:51:18,320
Speaker 1: This brings me to the point that I'm writing for

3455
02:51:18,360 --> 02:51:20,520
Speaker 1: advice about. This is not even what he's writing to

3456
02:51:20,560 --> 02:51:23,560
Speaker 1: advice about. She told the scammer that she isn't sending

3457
02:51:23,600 --> 02:51:26,520
Speaker 1: any more money. They are still in communication, but this

3458
02:51:26,600 --> 02:51:29,320
Speaker 1: scam is starting to fall apart. My wife is becoming

3459
02:51:29,320 --> 02:51:31,920
Speaker 1: more and more depressed as it does. She says, this

3460
02:51:31,959 --> 02:51:33,840
Speaker 1: gave her a lot of purpose in her life. I

3461
02:51:33,879 --> 02:51:36,000
Speaker 1: want to comfort her and do whatever I can to

3462
02:51:36,040 --> 02:51:37,840
Speaker 1: do to bring her out of depression. I know that

3463
02:51:37,959 --> 02:51:39,920
Speaker 1: time will be my best friend, but I know that

3464
02:51:39,959 --> 02:51:41,880
Speaker 1: I can do things to help. But I am still

3465
02:51:41,959 --> 02:51:45,400
Speaker 1: angry at her for spending our entire savings and racking

3466
02:51:45,440 --> 02:51:48,280
Speaker 1: up credit card debt. How can I comfort her without

3467
02:51:48,360 --> 02:51:51,600
Speaker 1: condoning her actions? Simple have her invest in a cow.

3468
02:51:51,800 --> 02:51:54,400
Speaker 1: Cow investment is the solution. Let's earn it. Actually, I hear.

3469
02:51:54,480 --> 02:51:56,320
Speaker 1: Let me, let me look, let me look. There's a website,

3470
02:51:56,440 --> 02:52:00,560
Speaker 1: Kiefer is that. It's like, uh, I'm looking up invest

3471
02:52:00,680 --> 02:52:04,720
Speaker 1: in a goat for an African Jesus Christ cash cow.

3472
02:52:05,040 --> 02:52:06,720
Speaker 1: I love that. I want to give the gift of

3473
02:52:06,720 --> 02:52:09,360
Speaker 1: a goat. I want to invest in a goat. My

3474
02:52:09,440 --> 02:52:13,320
Speaker 1: girlfriend ones for my Christmas present. I gave her like

3475
02:52:13,520 --> 02:52:16,080
Speaker 1: these like antique books that she really wanted, and this

3476
02:52:16,280 --> 02:52:20,240
Speaker 1: like a picture for her favorite photographer. And then she

3477
02:52:20,680 --> 02:52:24,040
Speaker 1: donated to the Wildlife Fund in my name.

3478
02:52:25,040 --> 02:52:26,360
Speaker 2: Now fuck that shit, dude.

3479
02:52:26,520 --> 02:52:31,600
Speaker 1: I want things. I want materials right here, Cowprogram, micro Financing,

3480
02:52:31,640 --> 02:52:34,760
Speaker 1: Africa Cow Program and many roles of area and many

3481
02:52:34,879 --> 02:52:37,800
Speaker 1: rural areas of Africa. Livestock farming, particularly cow rearing offering,

3482
02:52:38,040 --> 02:52:41,360
Speaker 1: offers a promising income generating opportunity for farmers. The cows

3483
02:52:41,360 --> 02:52:43,560
Speaker 1: provide a steady supply of milk, which can be sold

3484
02:52:43,600 --> 02:52:46,080
Speaker 1: at local dairies for profit. I don't want to donate,

3485
02:52:46,120 --> 02:52:49,440
Speaker 1: I want to make money, Oh dude. To report daily

3486
02:52:49,480 --> 02:52:51,680
Speaker 1: income of two to five dollars from milk sales. Okay,

3487
02:52:51,720 --> 02:52:54,720
Speaker 1: so give me a dollar of that Kiva. Kiva, that's

3488
02:52:54,720 --> 02:52:57,400
Speaker 1: what it is. You spell that Kiva. Make a loan

3489
02:52:57,520 --> 02:52:59,280
Speaker 1: change of life. With Kiva, you can spend as little

3490
02:52:59,280 --> 02:53:01,360
Speaker 1: as five dollars, make a big change in someone's life.

3491
02:53:01,400 --> 02:53:03,880
Speaker 1: And do I do I get more money than I

3492
02:53:03,920 --> 02:53:09,360
Speaker 1: invest back? Let's see, yo, Obviously this girl wanted ten

3493
02:53:09,400 --> 02:53:11,680
Speaker 1: million dollars. I'm trying to make it so it makes

3494
02:53:11,920 --> 02:53:14,760
Speaker 1: financial sense for them. She's not just about the deeds.

3495
02:53:14,760 --> 02:53:17,800
Speaker 1: She wants the money though she wants to help Africa.

3496
02:53:18,040 --> 02:53:21,080
Speaker 1: While also, oh, okay, I think this is the model.

3497
02:53:21,400 --> 02:53:26,360
Speaker 1: It's basically like an infinite donation, because you usually give

3498
02:53:26,360 --> 02:53:29,640
Speaker 1: a donation the money's gone, right. This is you donate,

3499
02:53:29,879 --> 02:53:32,080
Speaker 1: they pay the money back, and then you can donate again.

3500
02:53:32,360 --> 02:53:34,480
Speaker 1: That's the idea. You don't earn I don't think you

3501
02:53:34,560 --> 02:53:37,920
Speaker 1: earn anything on it, but you can keep redonating the

3502
02:53:37,959 --> 02:53:39,039
Speaker 1: same amount.

3503
02:53:39,400 --> 02:53:42,400
Speaker 2: So Sam is trying to fucking capitalize.

3504
02:53:42,800 --> 02:53:46,920
Speaker 1: SAM cannot squeeze squeeze profits from the teat of this

3505
02:53:47,840 --> 02:53:52,320
Speaker 1: charity donation micro loan investments. We need to give an

3506
02:53:52,320 --> 02:53:55,760
Speaker 1: actual solution for this person. The actual solution I think

3507
02:53:55,879 --> 02:53:58,879
Speaker 1: is a divorce chain. Actually, I think I think that

3508
02:53:58,959 --> 02:54:00,960
Speaker 1: might be the actual true solution.

3509
02:54:01,240 --> 02:54:04,359
Speaker 2: Here you go, micro loans, a low risk investment strategy

3510
02:54:04,360 --> 02:54:07,320
Speaker 2: for the post pandemic era. That just sounds like a

3511
02:54:07,959 --> 02:54:08,760
Speaker 2: like an ETF.

3512
02:54:09,200 --> 02:54:14,640
Speaker 1: Let's see two hundred percent interest. Yeah, definitely not a scam.

3513
02:54:15,000 --> 02:54:18,480
Speaker 1: P two P investing swapper dot com, Oh dude, that's

3514
02:54:18,480 --> 02:54:20,520
Speaker 1: a side. I trust swapper dot com.

3515
02:54:20,640 --> 02:54:20,920
Speaker 2: Why not?

3516
02:54:21,080 --> 02:54:23,720
Speaker 1: What's wrong with swap one hundred percent swap guarantee on

3517
02:54:23,760 --> 02:54:28,480
Speaker 1: swapper dot com? P to P investing? Okay, okay, getting started? Okay,

3518
02:54:28,480 --> 02:54:30,800
Speaker 1: I don't know if I could recommend this initial investment

3519
02:54:30,840 --> 02:54:36,760
Speaker 1: two thousand. I want annual interest of thirty four percent. Damn,

3520
02:54:37,600 --> 02:54:40,640
Speaker 1: you're you're gonna squeeze those teeths till they're just like

3521
02:54:40,640 --> 02:54:45,320
Speaker 1: like dry sponges. All right, well, Kiva at least might

3522
02:54:45,400 --> 02:54:48,040
Speaker 1: be this is not an ad, but not at all, Kiva.

3523
02:54:48,040 --> 02:54:50,320
Speaker 1: Maybe what you're looking for if you're not trying to

3524
02:54:50,320 --> 02:54:52,320
Speaker 1: make money and just trying to help the cows and

3525
02:54:52,360 --> 02:54:53,600
Speaker 1: the people with it. But if you want to be

3526
02:54:53,640 --> 02:54:58,520
Speaker 1: a capitalistic bastard, look elsewhere. You look elsewhere. Yeah, I

3527
02:54:58,560 --> 02:55:02,119
Speaker 1: think that here we are. I think I read the episode.

3528
02:55:02,320 --> 02:55:05,640
Speaker 1: Should I update them on my Let's give a quick

3529
02:55:05,800 --> 02:55:09,879
Speaker 1: Sam Sam's Love Chronicles chronicles so nice and tight. This

3530
02:55:09,920 --> 02:55:12,480
Speaker 1: girl that I met on the beach, we went on

3531
02:55:12,480 --> 02:55:15,120
Speaker 1: this amazing first date. We had this thing where we

3532
02:55:15,160 --> 02:55:17,240
Speaker 1: only could have one drink at every bar, and so

3533
02:55:17,320 --> 02:55:20,080
Speaker 1: we bar hopked all around. She came back here, we swam,

3534
02:55:20,280 --> 02:55:22,200
Speaker 1: you know, other things, and then we hung out like

3535
02:55:22,280 --> 02:55:25,200
Speaker 1: every day. And then she's like, hey, I'm leaving to

3536
02:55:25,280 --> 02:55:27,240
Speaker 1: go other places in Bali and then I'm going back

3537
02:55:27,280 --> 02:55:29,800
Speaker 1: to Australia. And I was super sad. And then like

3538
02:55:29,879 --> 02:55:32,879
Speaker 1: a few hours later, literally a few hours after I

3539
02:55:32,959 --> 02:55:36,720
Speaker 1: record the podcast, she says, she says, quote, did you

3540
02:55:36,760 --> 02:55:39,080
Speaker 1: have fun recording today? And I'm like, yeah, I went, well,

3541
02:55:39,160 --> 02:55:41,560
Speaker 1: I was simping about you on the pod. How's the friend.

3542
02:55:42,440 --> 02:55:44,640
Speaker 1: She's like, I don't know what you could have said,

3543
02:55:44,920 --> 02:55:48,480
Speaker 1: but bless you, I guess because she loves me. And

3544
02:55:48,480 --> 02:55:51,320
Speaker 1: then she said guess what and I said, you're pregnant,

3545
02:55:53,680 --> 02:55:56,120
Speaker 1: Oh my god. And then she said yes, look you

3546
02:55:56,160 --> 02:55:58,320
Speaker 1: have tool citizenship. And then I said huge. If it's

3547
02:55:58,320 --> 02:56:01,360
Speaker 1: a boy, let's call him Kim jong un. And she said,

3548
02:56:01,440 --> 02:56:03,000
Speaker 1: I don't know if that's one of your best ideas.

3549
02:56:03,040 --> 02:56:05,520
Speaker 1: And I'm like, fine, let's call them Supreme Leader. That

3550
02:56:05,520 --> 02:56:07,400
Speaker 1: way it works for both the boy and a girl.

3551
02:56:07,760 --> 02:56:10,000
Speaker 1: That's pretty good. She says, I feel sorry for any

3552
02:56:10,000 --> 02:56:12,600
Speaker 1: woman you knock up if that's the real case. And

3553
02:56:12,720 --> 02:56:15,000
Speaker 1: I said, I have away with names. And then she said,

3554
02:56:15,360 --> 02:56:18,080
Speaker 1: guess what, I'm staying in Bali a little longer. I

3555
02:56:18,200 --> 02:56:20,440
Speaker 1: rang my gal, who I was going to Birdsville with,

3556
02:56:20,600 --> 02:56:23,039
Speaker 1: and we had chats, and before I even said anything,

3557
02:56:23,120 --> 02:56:26,560
Speaker 1: she said to not bother coming back for it because

3558
02:56:26,600 --> 02:56:29,360
Speaker 1: the only track there from South Asia could get washed

3559
02:56:29,400 --> 02:56:31,080
Speaker 1: out and the flights are super expensive for me to

3560
02:56:31,080 --> 02:56:34,879
Speaker 1: come and possibly not go. So staying in Bolly longer. Wow, Okay,

3561
02:56:34,879 --> 02:56:37,640
Speaker 1: So she basically is staying in Bolly longer. She's staying

3562
02:56:37,640 --> 02:56:40,279
Speaker 1: Bolly longer. So where she right now, she's with her friends.

3563
02:56:40,360 --> 02:56:42,600
Speaker 1: She's going to be back in a few days. God.

3564
02:56:43,879 --> 02:56:46,440
Speaker 1: And so she said she's back in Chengu, which is

3565
02:56:46,440 --> 02:56:49,520
Speaker 1: where I am at the twenty seventh. Today is close

3566
02:56:49,560 --> 02:56:51,160
Speaker 1: to the twenty seventh. That is true.

3567
02:56:51,280 --> 02:56:53,800
Speaker 2: So, uh, she's coming back soon.

3568
02:56:53,800 --> 02:56:55,039
Speaker 1: The clock is ticking.

3569
02:56:55,120 --> 02:56:56,760
Speaker 2: The clock is ticking. I'm excited.

3570
02:56:56,920 --> 02:56:59,160
Speaker 1: We will update you when she comes back. Sam loves

3571
02:56:59,200 --> 02:57:03,240
Speaker 1: Chronicles Sam Love. Oh and also my friend from LA said,

3572
02:57:03,240 --> 02:57:06,320
Speaker 1: there's this girl coming for a month here tomorrow and

3573
02:57:06,360 --> 02:57:07,920
Speaker 1: she wants to get drinks. She got.

3574
02:57:07,959 --> 02:57:08,800
Speaker 2: I'm already married.

3575
02:57:08,959 --> 02:57:12,560
Speaker 1: But yep, sounds like a competition. But Riley to Riley

3576
02:57:12,640 --> 02:57:14,880
Speaker 1: is pointing to him right now and saying, give me

3577
02:57:14,920 --> 02:57:16,960
Speaker 1: a piece of that action. Oh yeah, it opened to

3578
02:57:17,040 --> 02:57:19,080
Speaker 1: you how those drinks went. It will probably happen in

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Speaker 1: like the next couple of days.

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Speaker 2: There you go, up, it's coming. See you on the

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Speaker 2: next Ham