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Speaker 1: I got my useless assistant fired. I don't really care.

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Speaker 1: I had to secure that bag. Am, I've a hole.

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Speaker 2: Get that bag ol pe.

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Speaker 1: You know, Sam, why have friends and loved ones when

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Speaker 1: you can have sacks of cat money?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Dude, you know who my friends are? Benjamin Franklin, who else?

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Speaker 3: Andrew Jackson?

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Speaker 1: Who else?

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Speaker 3: Sometimes Abraham Lincoln, that's right.

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Speaker 2: Also George Washington.

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Speaker 1: Oh oh uh, my boy?

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Speaker 2: U g which ones you?

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Speaker 1: It's that's a fifty fifty?

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Speaker 2: This is as great baby? Who's on the ten?

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Speaker 1: George, Abraham Lincoln? And uh Alexander Andrew Wait Alexander Hamilton,

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Speaker 1: who is on a ten dollar bill?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Hold on? Oh yeah, no, no, yeah, Alexander Hamilton.

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Speaker 1: Oh two for two.

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Speaker 2: Alexander Hamilton. His name is Hamilton. And as that mother, thanks,

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Speaker 2: he has that done? Just you, just you? And when

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Speaker 2: he was ted father, sick brother.

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Speaker 1: Point is that's all the friends we need?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Okay, so I know how this sounds, but please read

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Speaker 1: before you judge.

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Speaker 2: Too, laid o p o.

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Speaker 3: They we judge, then read, and then we judge again. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: double the judge.

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Speaker 2: That's right.

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Speaker 1: I thirty mail worked at my current employer for the

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Speaker 1: last three years. Last year, March of twenty twenty, I

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Speaker 1: received a promotion to project manager. In the beginning, everything

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Speaker 1: more and more negative feedback. I did not understand what

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Speaker 2: Why well, is there something going around the water cooler?

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Speaker 2: I mean the passing herpes to your partners?

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Speaker 1: Oh goodness, yeah, all my clients have herpes. I don't

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Speaker 1: know why they're leaving, am I the whole? I don't

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Speaker 1: know what they got herpes on their ahole?

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Speaker 2: So hey, can you get herpes on your ahole?

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Speaker 1: I don't know? And you know what, Sam, this is

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Speaker 1: one I don't want to.

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Speaker 2: Look a find out.

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Speaker 1: Okay, there's some things we leave on unfound on this podcast.

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Speaker 2: We don't. We don't look all this up on web

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Speaker 1: That's right.

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Speaker 2: Some rocks you don't want to look up by RPH.

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Speaker 2: Somehow your eyes to be accosted by that.

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Speaker 1: Somehow, I don't. I started. I started talking to my

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Speaker 1: just like what can I do? Seriously? Like, come on,

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Speaker 1: everyone's everyone's scratching their freaking bum hole, just looking for

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Speaker 3: We got bleeding buttholes on every corner, all the seats

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Speaker 1: Every Joe and Sally around is just looking for an answer.

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Speaker 1: Oh man, I felt like I was failing. Then a

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Speaker 1: I was really confused.

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Speaker 2: What did OP say?

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Speaker 1: I was really confused and asked why she was so

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Speaker 3: Really weird, like we're like Scooby doing this, Like, what

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Speaker 1: Wood Reggie? Well, she did it and it had my name,

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Speaker 2: What is going on.

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Speaker 1: Then it clicked with me. My assistant thirty nine female

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Speaker 2: But why, what's the motive?

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Speaker 1: Why would they don it? She's also the only one

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Speaker 3: Promotional Oh and so she's trying to sabotage. Wow, this

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Speaker 3: is but like she's got to know that she's gotta

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Speaker 2: Like that's so dumb on her part.

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Speaker 1: Right, I mean this, like, this exact scenario is bound

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Speaker 3: If you're gonna sabotage, at least be freaking smart out.

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Speaker 1: I checked all her sent mail on her prec when

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Speaker 1: That's just like, oh shit, there's infighting at the company.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I can't imagine. Why wouldn't you be Now

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Speaker 1: I was relieved, and all of my colleagues were informed.

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Speaker 1: I thought I was completely in the right here. But

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Speaker 1: some people at work are complaining that I violated company

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Speaker 1: policy for snooping on her PC and violating her privacy.

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Speaker 2: Wait what, oh p he's getting in trouble.

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Speaker 1: Her privacy was violated.

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Speaker 2: What are we gonna do?

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Speaker 3: My god, this they're playing some They're staying on some

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Speaker 1: Ophie is losing left, right, and center over here.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 1: The only way it could be worse is if the

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Speaker 3: How did you let this go on for so long?

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Speaker 3: Oh Pa, what are you doing? Why aren't you snooping more?

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Speaker 3: Why don't you have some spyware installed on your assistant's computer?

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Speaker 1: Come on, My boss and direct colleagues have my back.

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Speaker 1: But the people that knew her she has worked here

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Speaker 1: also knew maybe she shouldn't have tried to sabotage I mean, yeah, like,

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Speaker 1: why would you don't play the sympathy card on me?

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Speaker 1: Come on, come on, no sympathy here, go elsewhere, Go elsewhere.

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Speaker 1: I also need this job, and she was more than

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Speaker 1: willing to sacrifice me for her benefit. This is true.

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Speaker 1: I don't see how I could be in the wrong

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Speaker 1: Did I go too far by going on her pc U?

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Speaker 1: There is an update? But Sam, ladies and gentlemen watching,

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Speaker 1: what do we think?

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Speaker 2: I mean?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean going on someone else's computer is like great, yeah,

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Speaker 3: generally not not great. What he should have done probably

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Speaker 3: is like, hey, I got this email from like this,

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Speaker 3: enough evidence with the email that was sent from her already.

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Speaker 1: That's true. That's true. And maybe you go to the

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: The thing is that I probably like she could just

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Speaker 3: delete all of those and be like, wait, what do

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Speaker 3: you mean I did and send them.

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Speaker 1: That's true from him, But if he goes to the

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Speaker 2: That's it is.

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Speaker 3: It does put OP in a bad light to snoop

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Speaker 3: on someone else's computer. That's that's like generally like pretty bad. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: it's it's pretty bad. Yeah, but we we have an update, so, uh,

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Speaker 3: we have an update. Okay, let's sakay.

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Speaker 2: So I conclusion right now?

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Speaker 3: I think ope, like obviously the assistant is the a hole,

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Speaker 1: Right onto the update, they just let me know that

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Speaker 1: per my request. Slash advice. They are going to revise

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Speaker 2: Wow, Well, I'm glad it kind of all worked out

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Speaker 1: OP definitely does deserved like to be basically have their

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Speaker 1: OPI deserves some retribution and to have their name cleared,

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Speaker 1: See you on the next one. My mom's famous rock

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Speaker 2: It's no inspiration for my next song. Baby, It's called

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Speaker 3: To my heart?

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Speaker 1: Ooh, dude, that's that's a smash hit right there, that's

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Speaker 1: Well, I thought she was joking at first, but then

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Speaker 1: Give me your bank information so I can send you money.

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Speaker 1: Why are all of your money to someone else? I

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Speaker 2: What in life crisis. Wait, but she said she saw him?

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Speaker 1: She says, but this person has sent her some money,

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Speaker 3: This is exactly why you need public data check so

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Speaker 1: Exactly like she could have taken his phone number instantly

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Speaker 2: Go to the lake at our bio. Check out public

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Speaker 3: Look to see if there's any mysterious rock star in

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Speaker 1: Check yourself.

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Speaker 2: Will you break yourself now?

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Speaker 1: I ended up leaving after a fight, calling her that

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Speaker 1: Well, there is an update. I took her for breakfast

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Speaker 1: I'll do an update when I meet him, or when

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Speaker 3: Oh god, I hope it's not empty. I just want

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