WEBVTT - Make virtual networking work

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of I Heart Radio.

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<v Speaker 1>Good Morning, This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Today's tip is about how to make virtual networking work.

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<v Speaker 1>No matter your job, but particularly if you are running

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<v Speaker 1>a business where you need new clients and collaborators, you

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<v Speaker 1>need to meet new people. It is really hard to

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<v Speaker 1>establish relationships virtually, but it is not impossible if you

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<v Speaker 1>think this through. Many of us have been doing a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of our work virtually over the last eighteen months.

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<v Speaker 1>It has been fascinating to see how much day to

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<v Speaker 1>day work can be done virtually, even in industries that

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<v Speaker 1>had been slow to adopt remote work. It is harder

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<v Speaker 1>to meet new people virtually, though Fortunately modern technology makes

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<v Speaker 1>some connecting far easier than it was in the past,

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<v Speaker 1>and once you connect in some way, you can move

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<v Speaker 1>people up the ladder of connection. Some of my best

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<v Speaker 1>friends have begun their relationship with me as virtual connections.

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<v Speaker 1>What tended to happen is that I would read their

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<v Speaker 1>blogs and began leaving comments, or they read my blog

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<v Speaker 1>and began leaving comments. When I see the same names

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<v Speaker 1>over and over, I get to know the people leaving

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<v Speaker 1>those comments. Sometimes we start exchanging emails and so forth. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>not as many people may be blogging these days, but

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<v Speaker 1>lots of people are on social media, So if you

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<v Speaker 1>would like to get to know someone, start following them.

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<v Speaker 1>Leave thoughtful comments when it seems authentic. Over time, this

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<v Speaker 1>can start to grow a relationship. Not immediately. Don't dive

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<v Speaker 1>into a big ask after leaving one comment, but it

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<v Speaker 1>can be a start. You can also develop a reason

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<v Speaker 1>that people will want to get to know you. Lots

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<v Speaker 1>of people are starting podcasts these days, and if you

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<v Speaker 1>have a podcast, you will have a legitimate reason to

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<v Speaker 1>reach out to almost anyone to ask them to be

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<v Speaker 1>a guest. Practice with a few friends first for your

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<v Speaker 1>first few episodes, but once you have some done you'll

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<v Speaker 1>be good, and if you get a good audience, lots

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<v Speaker 1>of people will want to have a conversation with you.

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<v Speaker 1>Do the conversation with video on, so you get to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to people face to face, even if you're only

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<v Speaker 1>recording the audio. You can also start virtual groups that

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<v Speaker 1>people will want to seek out. A private industry discussion

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<v Speaker 1>group can be a real benefit to people. Think about

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<v Speaker 1>what angle might be best, but if you create a

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<v Speaker 1>safe and trusting space, you will build relationships with people,

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<v Speaker 1>and people will refer their friends as well. You can

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<v Speaker 1>also just generally offer to be helpful. If you have

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<v Speaker 1>established particular expertise on a topic, you could make yourself

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<v Speaker 1>available for people to book twenty minute calls with you,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe just every other Friday or so. Do these by

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<v Speaker 1>video calls so you get to know people's faces. You

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<v Speaker 1>don't have to do a ton, but maybe two to

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<v Speaker 1>three of Fortnite will build you a lot of goodwill

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<v Speaker 1>over time. Everyone knows someone else. It all comes together

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<v Speaker 1>eventually when you start to get to know people virtually.

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<v Speaker 1>Suggest video chats and then look for circumstances when you

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<v Speaker 1>might be in the same virtual spaces or even in

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<v Speaker 1>the same physical spaces. As the world opens up. If

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<v Speaker 1>you do your homework now, the first in person conference

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<v Speaker 1>you go to, it's just going to be a banjanza.

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<v Speaker 1>As you meet all your virtual connection in person, it

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<v Speaker 1>is going to be great. So why not get started now.

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<v Speaker 1>In the meantime, this is Laura, Thanks for listening, and

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<v Speaker 1>here's to making the most of our time. Hey, everybody,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd love to hear from you. You can send me

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<v Speaker 1>your tips, your questions, or anything else. Just connect with

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