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Speaker 1: It's the Fred Show.

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Speaker 2: This is what's trending, all.

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Speaker 3: Right, jod Diddy is trending, and I'm sure Calein has

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Speaker 3: more on that in just a moment. In the course

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Speaker 3: historic rainfall North Carolina has flooded home, stranded vehicles, and

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Speaker 3: forced water rescues, probably the worst flooding than any of

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Speaker 3: us have ever seen in Carolina Beach. According to the

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Speaker 3: town manager, there eighteen inches of rain fell there in

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Speaker 3: twelve hours at one station. It's a once in a

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Speaker 3: thousand year rainfall event. According to the National Weather Service

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Speaker 3: in Wilmington. A recent survey has founded Miami, Florida, is

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Speaker 3: the rudest city in America, worse than New York. I

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Speaker 3: think everyone thinks New York is probably the rudest city,

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Speaker 3: but no. The study conducted by some sort of language

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Speaker 3: learning platform. I'm not sure why they get to decide,

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Speaker 3: but they found that locals in the Magic City rank

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Speaker 3: their fellow residents a nine point eighty eight out of

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Speaker 3: ten for being the rudest people in America. This is

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Speaker 3: based on a variety of factors, including lack of awareness

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Speaker 3: in public noisiness and shared places, and rudeness to service staff.

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Speaker 3: Coming in second and third were Philadelphia and Tampa. Man

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Speaker 3: they route in Florida, the ladder of which was named

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Speaker 3: the Rudest city in twenty twenty two. Tampa was I

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Speaker 3: had no idea and this story is a very slow

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Speaker 3: news day today, guys, I have to tell you. But

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Speaker 3: police in Bedford, Ohio, said an eight year old girl

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Speaker 3: stole her parents' suv and drove ten miles to go

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Speaker 3: shopping at Target.

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Speaker 1: Hell yeah, girl.

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Speaker 3: Her worried parents reported her missing from their home at

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Speaker 3: about seven am, and they said that the twenty twenty

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Speaker 3: niece on Roague that they owned was gone too. A

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Speaker 3: neighbor told police that their home security camera caught the

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Speaker 3: girl getting inside the suv with nobody but herself and

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Speaker 3: driving off cops and received reports of a small child

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Speaker 3: behind the wheel of an suv miles away. Eventually, the

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Speaker 3: police in a nearby town located the runaway vehicle in

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Speaker 3: the parking lot of a local Target about ten miles away,

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Speaker 3: twenty five minutes away, driving from the girls sow where

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Speaker 3: they find her inside shopping.

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Speaker 1: That's what she was doing. Why what else would you do?

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Speaker 1: You go to Target? I go shopp him police, She

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Speaker 1: should have done the pickup.

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Speaker 3: Well police called her parents, but she know what she wanted,

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Speaker 3: you know, she wanted to browse, maybe get herself a

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Speaker 3: little coffee.

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Speaker 1: You don't walk around.

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Speaker 3: Police called her parents, but said that she would not

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Speaker 3: be charged with a crime due to her age. They

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Speaker 3: did have a confession to make. She smashed into a

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Speaker 3: mailbox somewhere along the way, leaving a tent in her

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Speaker 3: eight years old driving around eight years old, driving ten

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Speaker 3: miles like on a major road. Wow, that sounds like

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Speaker 3: something Rufio was doing at eight years old. It's something

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Speaker 3: Action is going to do when he's eight years old.

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Speaker 3: I mean, what was it When did you start stealing

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Speaker 3: your parents' car?

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Speaker 1: I was under age. I didn't have a license for sure. Yeah. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and you just cruise around.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And they never knew you did it. No, they never

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Speaker 1: knew you did it. No, not that I no, my

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Speaker 1: stepdad knew, because you were the one telling me that.

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Speaker 3: You used to like put the car in neutral and

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Speaker 3: then push it out of the garage so.

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Speaker 5: I would pull the you know the little red handle

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Speaker 5: in the garage, right, you pull it so you could

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Speaker 5: open the garage yourself quietly, and then I would put

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Speaker 5: the car in neutral and push it down the driveway

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Speaker 5: and push it down the block and then start it

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Speaker 5: and then and then leave.

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Speaker 4: Smart. Wow skills.

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Speaker 1: How did you guys scam your parents?

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Speaker 6: Wait?

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Speaker 3: Eight five five five three five. You can call him

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Speaker 3: text the same number. I'm looking at you.

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Speaker 1: Pull space? Is a safe still a safe space? Are

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Speaker 1: you talking about the statue limitations?

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Speaker 2: Is?

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Speaker 1: Oh my dad knows now if he's listening.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I thirty. It all happened, you know, twenty years ago.

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Speaker 3: It's fine, that's true.

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Speaker 7: Yes, I would do my mom's car because I was

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Speaker 7: the only one that like really had access to a car.

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Speaker 8: I guess.

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Speaker 7: But my mom's car would go to house parties. I'd

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Speaker 7: pick everybody up. My best friend Claudia would jump out

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Speaker 7: the window. I had to catch her because her house

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Speaker 7: was like a branch kind of stile, So I shed

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Speaker 7: hop out the window.

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Speaker 4: I'd grab her. We would go and return the car.

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Speaker 4: I would.

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Speaker 7: What I would do is I go through all the basement.

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Speaker 7: But I would have the dryer and the washer running

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Speaker 7: at in the morning. So that's believable. But my mom

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Speaker 7: didn't buntion it. But I would sleep down there. But

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Speaker 7: you know I'm going to sleep down here. Why because

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Speaker 7: the TV was there, so I'm watching TV. We'd go

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Speaker 4: Like five am.

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Speaker 3: And you don't think she knew, or you think she

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Speaker 4: Finn, Yeah, she caught me one time.

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Speaker 7: And I think I told this because my sister I

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Speaker 7: took her chips or whatever, and she got really upset

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Speaker 7: with me.

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Speaker 4: So then she snitched on me pretty much and it

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Speaker 4: didn't cover for me.

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Speaker 1: She took her potato chips.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, it was Funnians and she had a sleepover and

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Speaker 7: I took her funny and so they didn't have any

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Speaker 7: fun ye I know right.

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Speaker 4: I'm'm worth it looking feet yeah, Grandpaffee yeah yeah, sorry,

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Speaker 7: So I was like I got caught that night. But

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Speaker 7: my stepdad had this. We called it like a it

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Speaker 7: was a beer, right, we called it something else. But

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Speaker 7: I can't sit on the radio because it's the S word.

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Speaker 7: But basically I would take that car. When I was younger,

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Speaker 7: it's like fifteen, I'd go to my friend Nikki's house.

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Speaker 7: She lived well like maybe five minutes down the road.

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Speaker 7: I would go there. We would engage in activities, not

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Speaker 7: like the two of us, but just like yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 4: That I did.

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Speaker 1: I have a lot of questions for her.

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Speaker 7: Nikki had like the house that was like the cool parents,

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Speaker 7: like they did not care what.

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Speaker 1: Went down, Like yeah, I remember those parents.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like but this was like time's time.

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Speaker 7: In my opinion now looking back at it, I was like,

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Speaker 7: but we would just smoke and hang out whatever.

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Speaker 4: Then my stepdad caught me doing that with his beater

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Speaker 7: So like, you know, that was my little scam in

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Speaker 7: my cigarette sale, I did that too.

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Speaker 4: I would sell those.

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Speaker 1: That's right.

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Speaker 3: I remember the parents. It wasn't really that they didn't care.

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Speaker 3: There were some of those, but a lot of them

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Speaker 3: just weren't there. They were just never home. And so

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Speaker 3: it was like did anything goes And like I went

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Speaker 3: to school with some rich kids and like so some

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Speaker 3: I just I guess because I grew up with it,

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Speaker 3: I didn't think too much of it. But now in retrospect,

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Speaker 3: there's no freaking way I would let my kids just

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Speaker 3: There's just no way. No, there's no it, which is

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Speaker 3: I couldn't believe, and like thinking back on it, I

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Speaker 3: it wasn't that long ago.

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Speaker 4: But no, I would never. I want to be a

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Speaker 4: cool mom, but not that cool.

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Speaker 5: Honestly, I think I would do it now because I

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Speaker 5: got cameras everywhere I could.

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Speaker 7: There's no way in hell I could do it now,

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Speaker 7: like sneaking out or any of that.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it's a lot of stuff has been waiting

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Speaker 1: for the kids.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, it's like Mexican security at my house, everything, all

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Speaker 7: the alarms, and I grew up with that, so like today,

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Speaker 7: my daughter could.

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Speaker 4: Not light three sixty you know when they leave come home.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's it's not going to happen for them. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: Text from seven o eight.

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Speaker 3: We had a fire escape window in the basement, the

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Speaker 3: and sneak out of the house. Smart Jason, you were

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Speaker 3: the rule follower. Did you ever do anything like this?

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Speaker 9: No, like, not not until college, which sounds really cool.

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Speaker 1: You lived at home in college. No, so that's actually

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Speaker 9: So I went to Loyola, but I hated my roommate,

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Speaker 1: But that was that. So you weren't really doing anything wrong.

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Speaker 4: No, I never took the car.

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Speaker 9: I didn't do any of that stuff like in high school.

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Speaker 3: No, I know you did, Kalin Kiki. Okay, Now, who

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Speaker 3: were you scamming in high school? Would have been your

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Speaker 3: sister at this point? Yes, okay? And were you scamming her?

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Speaker 10: No, because my brother did a lot of scamming to

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Speaker 10: the point where, like his crimes were so intricate that

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Speaker 10: I was able to get away with everything because she

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Speaker 10: was busy, Like she was busy attending to all of

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Speaker 10: his shenanigans, and so he was more of the big,

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Speaker 10: big scammer and I was just like, I mean, I

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Speaker 10: had all the This is a thing I think parents

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Speaker 10: should take he too. When you give your kids a

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Speaker 10: lot of freedom, the desire to want to commit crimes

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Speaker 10: is less in my experience, like I could have gotten away,

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Speaker 10: I could have done a lot of things, but because

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Speaker 10: I knew that I could do it, I had no

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Speaker 10: desire to do it. I was like, why do I

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Speaker 10: need to sneak a boy? And like if I want

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Speaker 10: to have a boy, it was just so ea, Like

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Speaker 10: I don't know. I just never had the desire to

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Speaker 10: really do crime. And one time he tried to bring

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Speaker 10: me in on his crime. He stole the car and

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Speaker 10: we started driving and I saw a car that looked

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Speaker 10: similar to my sister's car, and I was like, that's her.

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Speaker 10: Oh my god, they're on to us. And so I

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Speaker 10: got out at the light and left him in the

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Speaker 10: car and he was like that. He's like, you can

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Speaker 10: never commit a crime with me, So you were a liability, yeah,

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Speaker 10: to his crime. So I didn't I didn't have the

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Speaker 10: desire really to do much.

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Speaker 3: I never did anything. I never did anything like my

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Speaker 3: parents always thought I was up to something. I was

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Speaker 3: never up to anything. But I do agree with you

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Speaker 3: about I didn't have a necessarily lot of freedom, but

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Speaker 3: my parents would let us for me and I guess

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Speaker 3: my sister too. We want vacation, They let us have

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Speaker 3: like a drink or something or alcohol, and maybe they

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Speaker 3: let us go a little too far sometimes. And I

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Speaker 10: And my friends who had really strict parents, like you know,

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Speaker 3: Dead like my sister. On the other hand, she was

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Speaker 1: Gave up show is on. It's stay or go. Mike

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Speaker 1: is here. Good morning, Mike. How you doing. Welcome?

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Speaker 2: Hey guys, I'm doing all right. I'm I'm just not sure.

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Speaker 3: What the oh look at this guy. He sounds truly distrawed. Well,

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Speaker 3: this is what we're here for. We're here to comment

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Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, yeah, so what's so?

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Speaker 11: Yeah, I work in construction and she works from home

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Speaker 11: heavy labor. But for a while now she's been slipping,

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Speaker 11: like she agreed to do these things and.

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Speaker 2: She's not doing anymore.

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Speaker 11: And when we talk about it, she reminds me like, hey,

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, you're at home typing.

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Speaker 3: It goes like that, It goes like that, Yeah right, No,

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Speaker 11: Exactly, I mean between calls she because it's like throwing

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Speaker 2: That's all she's going anywhere.

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Speaker 4: Exactly.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Mike, I don't know. You may not have a

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Speaker 3: I'm trying, Mike. You guys agreed to this though, or

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Speaker 11: We did agree upon this and she did it for

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Speaker 2: And I can't get it across to her.

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Speaker 11: We always have arguments. And look, I make way more

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Speaker 10: You should hire a housekeeper or you know, you should

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Speaker 10: I'm ready for Mike. I'm sorry, very little sympathy for you. Bruh,

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Speaker 10: I really do.

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Speaker 3: Okay, but and again I'm scared, but you you guys,

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Speaker 3: I want to be clear about this.

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Speaker 1: You sat down. This isn't just your expectation.

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Speaker 3: This isn't just I'm the man, and when I come

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Speaker 3: What do you do aside from your job? Do you

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Speaker 3: just determine that she was going to do all of that.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I need time to decompressed when I get home.

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Speaker 2: It's long days. I work ten twelve hour days.

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Speaker 3: So you decided you're not going to do any of that.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I make the good bills, Sue.

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Speaker 4: I'm just adding that in there. I'm not saying I'm

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Speaker 1: I guess I love it.

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Speaker 11: I appreciate my wife, and we talked about this before

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Speaker 3: I mean, maybe she doesn't want to feel like she's

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Speaker 3: little bit. Maybe you guys sit down and talk a

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Speaker 3: stuff's not getting done. We talked about you doing it.

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Speaker 3: It doesn't seem like you want to do it anymore.

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Speaker 3: Like maybe have the demand of your job. Has it changed?

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, how do we do this when

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Speaker 1: I communicate.

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Speaker 2: What we are communicating and I'm fussing.

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Speaker 11: I'm extremely frustrated because it's just arguing back and forth.

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Speaker 2: She doesn't want to do her anymore.

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Speaker 4: You don't have kids, right, Mike, you don't have kids, right.

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Speaker 7: Okay, that's a good thing in the situation, because I

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Speaker 7: to do all of this. I'm telling you right now,

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Speaker 7: she'd be expected to work. She'll be expected to do

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Speaker 7: like laundry, feed the kids, all these things, getting ready

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Speaker 7: for bed, bath time. Like you're not really giving equal

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Speaker 7: work outside, she's inside, but you both are still working.

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Speaker 7: She wants to decompressed too, after she's done.

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Speaker 3: Typing exactly, But like she and she's not just sitting

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Speaker 3: corporate job. She has a job.

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Speaker 2: Correct, yes she does. It's a corporate job.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So, but what I mean is just because she

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Speaker 3: mean that. Yes, I suppose she could put laundry in,

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Speaker 10: Lose her no physical labor, she's doing mental labor. That's

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Speaker 10: even that's even worse. Sometimes like I would love to

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Speaker 10: go hold the sign sometimes it little stop.

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Speaker 4: Sign, rather than have to end no crossing.

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Speaker 1: People.

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Speaker 10: That would be anything some days other than working from home.

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Speaker 10: Let me tell you something.

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Speaker 4: I was one of these.

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Speaker 10: My God was like you before I worked from home.

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Speaker 10: I thought work working from home was the biggest luxury.

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Speaker 10: You don't know that hell, and so you are in

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Speaker 10: it when your house is your job, and your job

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Speaker 10: is your house and there is no escape.

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Speaker 4: So if she's at home, are they working.

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Speaker 10: Imagine closing her laptop and stopping typing to only come

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Speaker 10: home to now work for you as well, it's too

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Speaker 10: much and if you make so much money, sir, I

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Speaker 4: So that you guys, can have a healthy balance in

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Speaker 1: This is what about this? What about this? What if

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Speaker 3: What if she just quits your job and that becomes

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Speaker 3: I think she would be fulfilled by that, because that's

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Speaker 3: wouldn't like that, But is that an option if it's like, Look,

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Speaker 3: I can't manage all of this because I still do

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Speaker 3: but I do expect that you're going to clean a

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Speaker 2: That's that's an option, because I really think she hates

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Speaker 12: I mean, one is physically taxing, one is mentally taxing.

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Speaker 12: But they're both taxing and they should both be looked

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Speaker 12: at equally.

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Speaker 1: Yes, let me take some phone calls.

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Speaker 3: Mike. I don't think this is going to go well

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Speaker 3: for you, but I wish you the best said, thank

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Speaker 2: I appreciate you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, eight three five, you can call him texta the

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Speaker 3: If in fact they sat down and discussed this and

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Speaker 3: He loves her, he should want her to be happy

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Speaker 3: and fulfilled. Maybe she's not fulfilled doing his laundry and

443
00:18:53,640 --> 00:18:56,639
Speaker 3: wiping his butt, and so they need to sort of reassess,

444
00:18:56,880 --> 00:18:59,040
Speaker 3: and he needs to communicate that as opposed to just

445
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Speaker 3: expecting it, because he didn't seem he didn't say no,

446
00:19:02,960 --> 00:19:04,680
Speaker 3: but he didn't seem all that into the idea of

447
00:19:04,760 --> 00:19:08,760
Speaker 3: for not working. Because again I think homemaking quote unquote

448
00:19:08,960 --> 00:19:12,680
Speaker 3: or managing a house is a job in itself.

449
00:19:13,400 --> 00:19:15,760
Speaker 12: Right, or like maybe the over the weekend, if he's so,

450
00:19:16,440 --> 00:19:18,159
Speaker 12: you know, burnt out, then he can do all the

451
00:19:18,200 --> 00:19:20,000
Speaker 12: housework or I don't know, they need to work something

452
00:19:20,040 --> 00:19:21,080
Speaker 12: out because he can't put.

453
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Speaker 1: It on Tammy. How you doing, Tammy?

454
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Speaker 6: Hey, y'all.

455
00:19:26,640 --> 00:19:30,439
Speaker 4: My girl, Hey friends? Hey, he got Mike got me upset.

456
00:19:30,560 --> 00:19:31,400
Speaker 4: I'm sorry.

457
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Speaker 13: Yet twist Listen.

458
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Speaker 11: I'm work from home.

459
00:19:35,760 --> 00:19:36,240
Speaker 10: I'm in it.

460
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Speaker 13: Okay, some days I can't even shower, that's how awesome.

461
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Speaker 6: So me, this job is and if you got kids.

462
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Speaker 11: Is over with.

463
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Speaker 6: I have opened so many kids of rabol.

464
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Speaker 10: Y'all have.

465
00:19:51,240 --> 00:19:52,440
Speaker 6: I to chill out.

466
00:19:52,680 --> 00:19:54,879
Speaker 4: My needs to chill and grow up.

467
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Speaker 10: And it's not your goal.

468
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Speaker 11: For Mike it stay or go for homebirus.

469
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Speaker 4: She needs to get out of it.

470
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Speaker 1: I agree with that. I agree with them.

471
00:20:03,480 --> 00:20:07,160
Speaker 3: I think everybody, everybody just assumes that staying at home

472
00:20:07,440 --> 00:20:09,120
Speaker 3: is the better of the two options.

473
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Speaker 1: But we've talked about this before.

474
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Speaker 3: I have friends who who they're out working all day

475
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Speaker 3: and they're in this case, their wife is at home,

476
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Speaker 3: you know, taking the kids to school, making lunches, cleaning

477
00:20:20,440 --> 00:20:22,840
Speaker 3: the house, doing all the errands and whatever, and then

478
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Speaker 3: dude comes home.

479
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Speaker 1: In this case, I mean, you can be reverse.

480
00:20:25,760 --> 00:20:28,080
Speaker 3: Of course, dude comes home and then he wants to

481
00:20:28,160 --> 00:20:30,720
Speaker 3: like kick back, and his wife is like, no, you

482
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Speaker 3: got kids, you got stuff to do. And he's like,

483
00:20:32,440 --> 00:20:34,080
Speaker 3: but I've been out all day, and she's like, what

484
00:20:34,160 --> 00:20:35,680
Speaker 3: I wouldn't give to be out all day?

485
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Speaker 1: You know what I mean?

486
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Speaker 3: So I think everyone thinks that it's greener on the

487
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Speaker 3: other side, But yet you've got to compromise, because yes,

488
00:20:44,200 --> 00:20:46,960
Speaker 3: it's hard work doing twelve hours of construction, but it's

489
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Speaker 3: also you know, she has a job, and she's doing

490
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Speaker 3: Washington his underwear too, and I guess not well enough.

491
00:20:53,320 --> 00:20:57,040
Speaker 3: So yeah, and this dude doesn't seem like he's maybe

492
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Speaker 3: the best communicator either, So.

493
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Speaker 2: There's that get out of there, get you can't.

494
00:21:13,280 --> 00:21:15,200
Speaker 3: This reminds me that Dave Chappelle's get when he's with

495
00:21:15,560 --> 00:21:27,720
Speaker 3: Wayne Brady and the hose come up? How you doing, Aaron?

496
00:21:28,840 --> 00:21:30,360
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, hid, how you doing?

497
00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:30,680
Speaker 2: Hey?

498
00:21:30,760 --> 00:21:32,240
Speaker 1: Good morning, Welcome, what do you want to say?

499
00:21:33,320 --> 00:21:33,840
Speaker 2: Good morning?

500
00:21:33,960 --> 00:21:36,440
Speaker 6: Yes, I would say, I know, you know, last caller

501
00:21:36,600 --> 00:21:39,320
Speaker 6: was kind of mad at Mike, but uh, he definitely

502
00:21:39,840 --> 00:21:42,119
Speaker 6: the communication needs to be open, kind of what everyone

503
00:21:42,400 --> 00:21:46,600
Speaker 6: is saying, and just hear everyone's side. It's like you said,

504
00:21:46,680 --> 00:21:50,159
Speaker 6: the workload may be increased on her end, and he

505
00:21:50,240 --> 00:21:52,840
Speaker 6: doesn't have a clear understanding. He just keeps saying she's slipping,

506
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Speaker 6: but why is that? Another thing is too I would

507
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Speaker 6: recommend anyone hiring help if you can afford, since he's

508
00:22:01,119 --> 00:22:03,879
Speaker 6: making good money. But it definitely takes a lot of

509
00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:09,439
Speaker 6: the like his expectations of her doing all this. If

510
00:22:09,520 --> 00:22:11,520
Speaker 6: you have a you know, a cleaning lady or you're

511
00:22:11,600 --> 00:22:14,680
Speaker 6: getting your grass cut, it just kind of takes that

512
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Speaker 6: expectation off of that person.

513
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Speaker 4: I agree it for them doing it.

514
00:22:18,880 --> 00:22:22,360
Speaker 6: And even if things aren't getting done to his like standard,

515
00:22:22,840 --> 00:22:25,600
Speaker 6: if you're having a cleaning lady, it's like it's it's

516
00:22:25,760 --> 00:22:31,280
Speaker 6: off that personal like, you know, you have that personal

517
00:22:32,040 --> 00:22:33,879
Speaker 6: connection to them, that cleaning lady. If you have to

518
00:22:33,920 --> 00:22:36,160
Speaker 6: tell her, hey, something I've done, right, you know you're

519
00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:37,080
Speaker 6: paying her, so it's.

520
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Speaker 1: Easier to do that. Yeah, yeah, that makes sense. Thank you, Eron,

521
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Speaker 1: have a good day. Thanks glad you called.

522
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Speaker 3: That's another thing too, is like who knows, maybe they

523
00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:47,159
Speaker 3: had the conversation and again I'm trying to see the

524
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Speaker 3: other side here.

525
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Speaker 1: It's very hard.

526
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Speaker 3: We try and be balanced, you know, but maybe they

527
00:22:51,800 --> 00:22:53,520
Speaker 3: had a conversation where he was like, well, let's hire

528
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Speaker 3: He doesn't sell like this kind of guy, but it's like, hey,

529
00:22:55,720 --> 00:22:57,720
Speaker 3: let's hire someone, and she's like, no, let's save the money.

530
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Speaker 3: And if she said that and then stuff's not getting done,

531
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Speaker 3: then I think he could go back and say, look,

532
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Speaker 3: we offered to hire.

533
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Speaker 1: I offered to pay for somebody.

534
00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:06,639
Speaker 3: We talked about this, and you said you didn't want

535
00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:08,000
Speaker 3: to spend the money because you're going to do it, Well,

536
00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:10,399
Speaker 3: then you have to do it. But again, I doesn't

537
00:23:10,520 --> 00:23:12,359
Speaker 3: I think he would have mentioned that if that weren't

538
00:23:12,359 --> 00:23:14,760
Speaker 3: the case, because I could see that where it's like, look,

539
00:23:14,800 --> 00:23:16,800
Speaker 3: you don't have to do this, we can get someone

540
00:23:16,880 --> 00:23:18,480
Speaker 3: to do it, but maybe you don't want that person

541
00:23:18,520 --> 00:23:20,280
Speaker 3: in your space. Maybe you don't want to pay that

542
00:23:20,520 --> 00:23:21,960
Speaker 3: we don't want to spend the money. You want to

543
00:23:21,960 --> 00:23:24,080
Speaker 3: spend the money on something else. That's fine, But then

544
00:23:24,119 --> 00:23:25,639
Speaker 3: if you're saying you're going to do it, then we

545
00:23:25,720 --> 00:23:26,960
Speaker 3: got to get it. It has to get done.

546
00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:28,920
Speaker 12: Yeah, I mean this goes back to my whole like

547
00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:31,520
Speaker 12: we can never say must be nice thing because until

548
00:23:31,560 --> 00:23:34,159
Speaker 12: you've worked someone's job, you really just don't know. I

549
00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:37,600
Speaker 12: mean people think and we have, you know, relatively easy jobs,

550
00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:39,480
Speaker 12: but people think we just talked, talk talk.

551
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Speaker 4: And have the best time and leave. But the hours

552
00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:41,840
Speaker 4: are hard.

553
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Speaker 12: You know, it does take a lot out of you

554
00:23:43,800 --> 00:23:46,000
Speaker 12: to be on you know, especially if you're going through

555
00:23:46,200 --> 00:23:48,000
Speaker 12: like you know, a death in the family or something.

556
00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:50,720
Speaker 12: So everybody's job is hard in its own ways, and

557
00:23:50,800 --> 00:23:52,560
Speaker 12: it's very dangerous to argue about that.

558
00:23:52,680 --> 00:23:54,920
Speaker 4: Absolutely, y'all.

559
00:23:55,320 --> 00:24:02,880
Speaker 10: Yeah, no, I know, chahse they wake up, they're done

560
00:24:02,960 --> 00:24:05,160
Speaker 10: talking about tea and they got the rest of their day.

561
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Speaker 4: Oh, how I apologize, thank you. Keep I'm so sorry.

562
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Speaker 3: I've been waiting for that apology with some chuch because

563
00:24:12,600 --> 00:24:13,760
Speaker 3: you used to say to me all the time in

564
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Speaker 3: the hallway.

565
00:24:17,600 --> 00:24:24,080
Speaker 1: You're out of here. Thank you for that apology. Been

566
00:24:24,119 --> 00:24:24,560
Speaker 1: waiting for that.

567
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Speaker 3: Hey, Tiffany, good morning, Tiffany, good morning. What do you

568
00:24:29,600 --> 00:24:31,159
Speaker 3: want to advise if you're just tuning in, by the way,

569
00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:34,320
Speaker 3: stare go This dude. He's upset because his wife he's

570
00:24:34,320 --> 00:24:37,040
Speaker 3: a construction worker, he's out, you know, doing that.

571
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Speaker 1: And he says he makes a lot of money. His

572
00:24:39,440 --> 00:24:40,320
Speaker 1: wife works from home.

573
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Speaker 3: He says that his wife agreed to do a lot

574
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Speaker 3: of the household chores and do her at home job,

575
00:24:45,680 --> 00:24:49,160
Speaker 3: corporate job. And and he says he's not getting donep

576
00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:52,480
Speaker 3: she's slipping that the home, you know, the work of

577
00:24:52,560 --> 00:24:55,280
Speaker 3: the housework is not getting done, and he's not happy

578
00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:57,840
Speaker 3: about it. They did have a conversation. He says that

579
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Speaker 3: she did agree to it. What is he supposed to do.

580
00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:02,640
Speaker 6: Well.

581
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Speaker 13: I'm of the opinion that if he has a standard

582
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Speaker 13: that is not being upheld, then why don't the two

583
00:25:08,840 --> 00:25:12,040
Speaker 13: of them start doing their own chores for a little bit.

584
00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:15,080
Speaker 13: She does what's good for her, he does what's good

585
00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:18,280
Speaker 13: for him. It's twenty twenty four. You can get laundry service,

586
00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:21,600
Speaker 13: you can get groceries delivered. You don't have to do

587
00:25:21,880 --> 00:25:25,560
Speaker 13: everything except coordinate it. And if he's making so much

588
00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:29,280
Speaker 13: money and he has these provider vibes, then it shouldn't

589
00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:33,959
Speaker 13: be a problem outsourcing. She's not his mommy. He doesn't

590
00:25:34,000 --> 00:25:35,159
Speaker 13: get it both ways.

591
00:25:35,440 --> 00:25:37,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I think you're right, Tiffany. Thank you, have

592
00:25:37,680 --> 00:25:40,360
Speaker 3: a good day, you too, Bay, Thank you for calling,

593
00:25:40,400 --> 00:25:42,600
Speaker 3: Thanks for listening. Hey, Jason, good morning, Jason.

594
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Speaker 6: Is it Mike?

595
00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:48,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, mechanic.

596
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Speaker 3: He has a few words called himself Jason, though, Hi, Jason,

597
00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:53,880
Speaker 3: what do you want to say?

598
00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:55,080
Speaker 6: Hey?

599
00:25:55,840 --> 00:25:58,680
Speaker 1: Honestly, it shouldn't even be about him staring or going.

600
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Speaker 8: She needs to go hit it, go and go quickly,

601
00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:02,879
Speaker 8: because if this is the way he's.

602
00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:04,680
Speaker 1: Acting now, how is he gonna.

603
00:26:04,520 --> 00:26:06,920
Speaker 6: Act when kids are around or anything else down the line?

604
00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:10,280
Speaker 1: Like it is ridiculous that this grown ass man can't

605
00:26:10,320 --> 00:26:13,680
Speaker 1: cook a dinner, clean up a little bit, and guarantee

606
00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:16,119
Speaker 1: she's not happy, and Ben, I guarantee it.

607
00:26:16,640 --> 00:26:18,480
Speaker 3: You know what, let's go ahead and call this man

608
00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:21,639
Speaker 3: a short, short man as well. Yeah, that's exactly right.

609
00:26:21,920 --> 00:26:23,680
Speaker 3: You know what, Jason, this guy's not putting it down

610
00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:25,520
Speaker 3: your dn't I agree?

611
00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:28,520
Speaker 1: Have you hearing the men talk like that? He gave

612
00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:30,080
Speaker 1: two pump shop energy?

613
00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:30,520
Speaker 6: He did?

614
00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:33,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, he certainly did, Jason. I agree with you.

615
00:26:33,520 --> 00:26:34,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's a grown ass man.

616
00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:38,840
Speaker 1: He needs a man up and do like do equally

617
00:26:39,160 --> 00:26:41,080
Speaker 1: he needs to go. I agree, Thank you, Jason, have

618
00:26:41,119 --> 00:26:41,520
Speaker 1: a good day.

619
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Speaker 4: I love that number trading me on Jason.

620
00:26:44,920 --> 00:26:48,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, I think that's if someone texted this.

621
00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:50,119
Speaker 3: A few people have texted this, and I think it's right.

622
00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:54,119
Speaker 3: I think it's I think it comes down to he

623
00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:57,119
Speaker 3: probably treats her like a maid and she's probably over it,

624
00:26:57,359 --> 00:26:59,080
Speaker 3: and that's what I think. That's what it probably comes

625
00:26:59,119 --> 00:27:01,240
Speaker 3: down to. I'm she didn't agree to do it, not

626
00:27:01,359 --> 00:27:03,879
Speaker 3: that she couldn't do some of this stuff. I mean,

627
00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:06,040
Speaker 3: come on, you're on a call. You could put laundry,

628
00:27:06,040 --> 00:27:07,680
Speaker 3: and I guess you're on a call you could do

629
00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:09,280
Speaker 3: something else. I get if you agree to that if

630
00:27:09,320 --> 00:27:11,359
Speaker 3: that's if that's what you but the way that he

631
00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:13,880
Speaker 3: was acting on that call, if he treats her anywhere

632
00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:16,560
Speaker 3: like that, with that energy, then she's probably over it.

633
00:27:17,320 --> 00:27:19,360
Speaker 3: It's like, you don't respect what I'm doing. And she's

634
00:27:19,359 --> 00:27:20,200
Speaker 3: bringing money home.

635
00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:22,680
Speaker 10: Too, and she's probably already beating herself up about this

636
00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:25,000
Speaker 10: already because I remember working from home and Big ten

637
00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:27,080
Speaker 10: would come back back and I would hear the car

638
00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:28,359
Speaker 10: pull up, and I would hurry up and go do

639
00:27:28,440 --> 00:27:30,199
Speaker 10: something like I was busy, you know, like, oh, let

640
00:27:30,240 --> 00:27:32,520
Speaker 10: me get up and act like I'm cleaning. Yeah, because yeah,

641
00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:34,880
Speaker 10: because in your mind you think this person is home

642
00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:37,520
Speaker 10: all day. There's no excuse. But like until you hear

643
00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:39,160
Speaker 10: that little Microsoft team saying.

644
00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:43,680
Speaker 3: You don't know the struggle, right, I used to think

645
00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:46,560
Speaker 3: pre COVID, Honestly, if you had told me, I've said

646
00:27:46,600 --> 00:27:48,320
Speaker 3: this so many times, if you had told me Fred,

647
00:27:48,359 --> 00:27:50,000
Speaker 3: here's the deal. We're gonna put everything you need in

648
00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:51,879
Speaker 3: your house and you can do the show and you

649
00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:55,119
Speaker 3: don't have to leave your house. You'll do anything, I

650
00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:56,920
Speaker 3: would have thought that was the greatest thing ever until

651
00:27:56,960 --> 00:27:59,040
Speaker 3: it happens. Yeah, And then we did that for about

652
00:27:59,160 --> 00:28:01,159
Speaker 3: three days and we're like, nope.

653
00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:03,720
Speaker 7: No, not having it, couldn't do it, not having no

654
00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:06,640
Speaker 7: eggs in the air once that's what did you Yeah

655
00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:07,240
Speaker 7: we were on the air.

656
00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:10,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, we were on the Airyah. I made eggs.

657
00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:13,199
Speaker 4: That's where we were at. I was like, please bring

658
00:28:13,280 --> 00:28:13,960
Speaker 4: it back to the office.

659
00:28:14,320 --> 00:28:18,000
Speaker 1: I'm really glad that we came in just to wear

660
00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:18,920
Speaker 1: my eggs. I'm hungry.

661
00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:23,600
Speaker 3: I'd enjoyed it. The Entertainper reports next Fred show.

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Speaker 1: The Fread Show is on.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, Fread's fun fact red fun So body gods, did

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Speaker 8: you know?

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Speaker 3: The first known speeding ticket was issued to Walter Arnold

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Speaker 3: in eighteen ninety six for going eight miles an hour. Oh,

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Speaker 3: the posted speed limit was two. This man four times

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Speaker 3: the speed limit.

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Speaker 1: Did he think he was? Who did Walter think he was?

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Speaker 1: Was on a horse?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 6: Horse?

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Speaker 4: And muggy? Is he using his feet to horse?

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Speaker 1: I mean there's no no saying.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Probably electric vehicle eighteen ninety six. He was going eight

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Speaker 3: you were only supposed to go to Yeah, he didn't know.

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Speaker 1: He just didn't. He didn't write. Sometimes you gotta get

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Speaker 1: to where you need to go. He didn't know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Well, what are the other What do you say

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Speaker 3: to a cop when you get pulled over going too fast?

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Speaker 1: I was, I was, I was.

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Speaker 3: The cop actually ran up next to him and pulled

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Speaker 3: him over, just walked up next that you went too fast, broke.

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Speaker 1: More Fresh show next,