1 00:00:03,440 --> 00:00:06,680 Speaker 1: Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of I Heart Radio. 2 00:00:09,160 --> 00:00:14,440 Speaker 1: Good Morning. This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast. 3 00:00:15,160 --> 00:00:19,040 Speaker 1: Today's tip is to find new ways to celebrate the holidays. 4 00:00:19,920 --> 00:00:22,800 Speaker 1: A lot will need to change this year, but by 5 00:00:22,840 --> 00:00:28,080 Speaker 1: thinking ahead, you increase the chances of feeling contented rather 6 00:00:28,160 --> 00:00:33,919 Speaker 1: than disappointed. Many of my listeners are celebrating Halloween this weekend, 7 00:00:34,320 --> 00:00:38,760 Speaker 1: Thanksgiving in November, and Christmas or Hanukkah in December. The 8 00:00:38,840 --> 00:00:41,400 Speaker 1: last ten weeks of the year are pretty much packed 9 00:00:41,479 --> 00:00:46,159 Speaker 1: with such things. It's always a fun, festive time, but 10 00:00:46,320 --> 00:00:50,520 Speaker 1: this year many things will have to change. People won't 11 00:00:50,520 --> 00:00:54,680 Speaker 1: throw big parties, parades, and other concerts might be canceled 12 00:00:55,080 --> 00:00:59,520 Speaker 1: or look different. Anything with a crowd is suspect, and 13 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:02,680 Speaker 1: many people won't want to travel, even if it looks 14 00:01:02,680 --> 00:01:06,880 Speaker 1: like research is showing that flying is relatively safe. None 15 00:01:06,920 --> 00:01:10,600 Speaker 1: of this is breaking news. We've obviously lived with the 16 00:01:10,640 --> 00:01:14,240 Speaker 1: reality of a pandemic for a while now. But the 17 00:01:14,319 --> 00:01:18,679 Speaker 1: holidays also feature tons of traditions. These are things that 18 00:01:18,720 --> 00:01:22,920 Speaker 1: we do the same way year after year. Because they 19 00:01:23,080 --> 00:01:27,919 Speaker 1: are so ingrained, we don't necessarily think about them until 20 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:32,160 Speaker 1: the holidays are upon us. So the next few weeks 21 00:01:32,200 --> 00:01:36,960 Speaker 1: are going to bring some big realizations that, oh, after 22 00:01:37,160 --> 00:01:39,640 Speaker 1: ten years of going to the Joneses holiday party, the 23 00:01:39,760 --> 00:01:41,840 Speaker 1: Joneses aren't going to be able to have a big 24 00:01:41,880 --> 00:01:45,160 Speaker 1: holiday party. The kids always sit on Santa's lap, but 25 00:01:45,200 --> 00:01:48,680 Speaker 1: there won't be any sitting on Santa's lap. Last year, 26 00:01:48,760 --> 00:01:51,440 Speaker 1: for example, I got my family tickets to all sorts 27 00:01:51,480 --> 00:01:55,960 Speaker 1: of crowded favorite indoor holiday events like a performance of 28 00:01:55,960 --> 00:02:00,600 Speaker 1: The Nutcracker, a classical coral concert, Disney on ice circ 29 00:02:00,680 --> 00:02:05,240 Speaker 1: de Sole. With my city restricting all large gatherings, these 30 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:09,240 Speaker 1: are not likely to happen. This could certainly make the 31 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:11,920 Speaker 1: end of the year feel even more woeful than it 32 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:16,799 Speaker 1: already will. But here's the thing. We know this realization 33 00:02:16,919 --> 00:02:20,520 Speaker 1: is coming up, and if you know it, you can 34 00:02:20,560 --> 00:02:23,720 Speaker 1: plan to deal with it. There are plenty of options 35 00:02:23,760 --> 00:02:27,560 Speaker 1: for celebrating in different ways, and if you proactively plan 36 00:02:27,680 --> 00:02:31,440 Speaker 1: in enough fun stuff that can be done, the absence 37 00:02:31,440 --> 00:02:35,359 Speaker 1: of what can't be done won't seem quite so difficult 38 00:02:35,360 --> 00:02:39,480 Speaker 1: to deal with. My family is doing this with Halloween. 39 00:02:40,440 --> 00:02:43,000 Speaker 1: When I realized that some of the usual adventures like 40 00:02:43,040 --> 00:02:46,840 Speaker 1: a Halloween parade or my husband's office Halloween party wouldn't 41 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:49,959 Speaker 1: be happening. We hunted for other events where we could 42 00:02:49,960 --> 00:02:53,440 Speaker 1: wear our costumes. We wound up doing a drive through 43 00:02:53,520 --> 00:02:57,240 Speaker 1: Halloween parade, going to a ghost gathering at a local 44 00:02:57,280 --> 00:03:00,919 Speaker 1: botanical garden, and getting tickets for a music ms socially 45 00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:06,200 Speaker 1: distanced Halloween event. With enough fun stuff stacked up, the 46 00:03:06,240 --> 00:03:10,880 Speaker 1: holiday couldn't help but still feel really fun. We're taking 47 00:03:10,880 --> 00:03:14,600 Speaker 1: the same approach with Christmas. I'm pretty sure we'll wind 48 00:03:14,680 --> 00:03:19,000 Speaker 1: up doing lots of outdoor festive stuff and just bottling up. 49 00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:23,280 Speaker 1: It will still feel like Christmas and that will be good. 50 00:03:24,800 --> 00:03:29,160 Speaker 1: So today, think about the upcoming holidays you might be celebrating. 51 00:03:29,960 --> 00:03:33,639 Speaker 1: Think about what traditions you do automatically, and think about 52 00:03:33,680 --> 00:03:37,480 Speaker 1: which might have to change. Think about what you can 53 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:42,360 Speaker 1: do instead that will be really fun and meaningful. You 54 00:03:42,480 --> 00:03:44,680 Speaker 1: just might come up with some new stuff that you'll 55 00:03:44,680 --> 00:03:47,960 Speaker 1: want to keep when all this is over and the 56 00:03:48,040 --> 00:03:52,920 Speaker 1: normal traditions are possible. That would be the best of 57 00:03:53,000 --> 00:03:59,040 Speaker 1: both worlds. In the meantime, this is Laura. Thanks for listening, 58 00:03:59,800 --> 00:04:09,320 Speaker 1: and here's to making the most of our time. Hey, everybody, 59 00:04:09,560 --> 00:04:11,680 Speaker 1: I'd love to hear from you. You can send me 60 00:04:11,720 --> 00:04:15,360 Speaker 1: your tips, your questions, or anything else. Just connect with 61 00:04:15,360 --> 00:04:19,799 Speaker 1: me on Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram at Before Breakfast pod. 62 00:04:20,480 --> 00:04:24,800 Speaker 1: That's B the number four, then Breakfast p o D. 63 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:29,200 Speaker 1: You can also shoot me an email at Before Breakfast podcast. 64 00:04:29,320 --> 00:04:32,160 Speaker 1: At i heeart media dot com that Before Breakfast is 65 00:04:32,200 --> 00:04:34,919 Speaker 1: spelled out with all the letters. Thanks so much, I 66 00:04:34,960 --> 00:04:43,080 Speaker 1: look forward to staying in touch. 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