Speaker 1: Hell, we suck at being newly weds. Haylan miller Key
Speaker 1: and Jared haven An iHeartRadio podcast. What's going on? Help?
Speaker 1: I suck at being newly wetters? Wow? Oh my god. Wow,
Speaker 1: what an on earth is? Right? Just think of we
Speaker 1: instead of I. Wow, what an on earth is to
Speaker 1: have us all here today on this beautiful day. I
Speaker 1: hope wherever you are, the sun is shining, the birds
Speaker 1: are chirping, the squirrels are squirreling. Oh man, what a
Speaker 1: great time it is to be alive. Winter is coming
Speaker 1: to an end, Summer is drawing in. Dude, you live
Speaker 1: in face Yeah, yeah, we do live in Las Vegas.
Speaker 1: It's cold. It's very cold out there right now. Brutal winters,
Speaker 1: bal brutal for coming from LA. What's the definition of
Speaker 1: a brutal winter right now? We had three times this year? Yeah, thirties. Also,
Speaker 1: I'm in Los Angeles right now. It was hailing last
Speaker 1: night here in La. Yeah, I said, I didn't mess
Speaker 1: my words up. Hailing, Jared, there was frozen ice on
Speaker 1: the ground. So all I'm saying is it's been a
Speaker 1: crazy winter La. Right now. I think the apocalypse is coming. Yeah,
Speaker 1: weather's been too bad in La Something's happening, Something's coming,
Speaker 1: The aliens are coming. I forget what podcast I was
Speaker 1: listening to. Maybe an I'm Sure expert. Yeah yeah, and
Speaker 1: he's like he's like, the apocalypse is coming, and we're
Speaker 1: just like totally okay with it. It's snowing in Los
Speaker 1: Angeles and at first people are like freaking out, but
Speaker 1: by day three everyone's kind of like, just whatever about it.
Speaker 1: He said there could be fireballs falling from the sky,
Speaker 1: and by the second day people are just like, yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, just more fireballs today. Yeah, did you see
Speaker 1: that fireball today? She's dead. She's dead. Poor Susie. But
Speaker 1: great episode for you guys today. But Jared, I've got
Speaker 1: a question for you. You You very famously missed last week's
Speaker 1: episod out of help we stuck at being newlyweds. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I've missed the past couple. Man, Sorry about that. Guys.
Speaker 1: I don't want to say it, but this is becoming
Speaker 1: a trend for you, and I just think you're going
Speaker 1: down a slippery slope. But I got to hear about it.
Speaker 1: What was what was the reason for a skipping last week?
Speaker 1: So the Pascal weeks we filmed a show in New York,
Speaker 1: which is a lot of fun for First Look TV,
Speaker 1: which is going to air on NBC after the finale
Speaker 1: of SNL. And it's a competition show between two travel
Speaker 1: agents and they have to plan the best dates and
Speaker 1: it took place in New York, so they had to
Speaker 1: plan the best dates in New York for their couple.
Speaker 1: We were very lucky to be the couple, so we
Speaker 1: got to experience all these cool things, and we did
Speaker 1: the City Climb, which was insane. Dean I think you
Speaker 1: would love it, but also maybe it's not as adrenaline
Speaker 1: junkie for you because it's like definitely tamed a little bit.
Speaker 1: But so you go to the one hundredth floor of
Speaker 1: the Edge Building, which is the sixth tallest building in
Speaker 1: New York City, and then you there's an observatory up there.
Speaker 1: You can go up and look at the skyline of
Speaker 1: New York. It's beautiful. But then we did something called
Speaker 1: city Climb, which is you go two floors up and
Speaker 1: you get all your equipment on and then you get
Speaker 1: get tethered to the building and then you go on
Speaker 1: the outside of the building and then walk on the
Speaker 1: edge and then there's one hundred and twenty steps that
Speaker 1: you walk from where you walk outside to the tip
Speaker 1: top of the building and you're your twelve hundred feet
Speaker 1: in the air and you the whole thing is like
Speaker 1: you lean because you're tethered to the building so you
Speaker 1: don't have much slack, so you just literally walk to
Speaker 1: the edge of the building. It was terrifying and then
Speaker 1: you just you They have you like lean over like this,
Speaker 1: and then they take pictures of videos and it's very cool.
Speaker 1: We're very glad we did it, but holy shit, it
Speaker 1: was terrifying. Wait, this was for the TV show. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so they don't make you sign like an NBA or anything.
Speaker 1: You can just talk about it. They want us to
Speaker 1: promote it. Oh, I know, it's so different. We were
Speaker 1: talking about that with the producers and we're like, to
Speaker 1: should be hush hushed, and she's like, no, please, like
Speaker 1: put it out there. We want people to know that
Speaker 1: this show is airing soon and you can talk about
Speaker 1: it and you know, they'll be able to see the
Speaker 1: whole thing, you know. After the finale of SNL, so
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, totally, it was cool. And then
Speaker 1: last week we had the distinct privilege of going down
Speaker 1: to Tampa Bay, Florida, where there was a party for
Speaker 1: a company called Autograph, which is a great company, and
Speaker 1: Tom Brady is one of the investor like founders of
Speaker 1: this company, Autograph, and we had an opportunity to have
Speaker 1: sixty seconds with him. It was cool. We got the
Speaker 1: breakdown of the email of the day before and we
Speaker 1: didn't know if we we knew Brady was gonna be there.
Speaker 1: We didn't know if we were gonna have a moment
Speaker 1: with him or not. And the day before they gave
Speaker 1: us a breakdown of what we're gonna do and they said,
Speaker 1: you're gonna have sixty seconds with Tom. We're like, holy shit,
Speaker 1: because we just met him at the eighty for Brady premiere,
Speaker 1: which is crazy. I've idolized this man for over twenty
Speaker 1: years of my life and then here twice in the
Speaker 1: manner of three on, so I'm going to be able
Speaker 1: to interact with him. So he came to the event.
Speaker 1: The event was awesome. It was so much fun, and
Speaker 1: then we were in line for the meet and greet
Speaker 1: and we were the first ones, like you know, he was.
Speaker 1: Gronk was there, and Leonon Fournette was there, and they
Speaker 1: were all taking pictures with these people, but we were
Speaker 1: the first people of like the meet and greet, and
Speaker 1: so we were trying to think of like what we
Speaker 1: should do, or what we should say, or just anything,
Speaker 1: because you know, everybody's like, what questions are you gonna
Speaker 1: ask Tom? And I'm like, I don't know. And so
Speaker 1: because people always say that I would, you know, choose
Speaker 1: Tom Brady over my wife Ashley or give the rose
Speaker 1: to Tom, we were joking about how it wouldn't be
Speaker 1: really funny if like I had a rose in my hand,
Speaker 1: as if it was a rose ceremony, saying that this
Speaker 1: journey's been incredible, but only one if you can get
Speaker 1: this rose. And then you pan over her and you
Speaker 1: see that it's Ashley and Tom Brady standing next to
Speaker 1: each other, and then of course I give my rose
Speaker 1: to Tom Brady. So we were like, we have to
Speaker 1: try to do this now. So the publicist that was
Speaker 1: with us was very kind, and she's like, let me
Speaker 1: go ask Tom to make sure he's okay with this,
Speaker 1: because you know he might not be. We're like totally,
Speaker 1: you know, I get it. So she went up to
Speaker 1: him and she came back and she said, no, he's
Speaker 1: down for it, He's fine with it, and unbeknownst to
Speaker 1: me at the time, the publicists later texted me and
Speaker 1: she goes, By the way, I forgot to tell you.
Speaker 1: When I went up to ask Tom about the rose,
Speaker 1: he looked at you guys and he said, yeah, no,
Speaker 1: I've met them before. I was like, holy, So that
Speaker 1: was awesome. The fact that Tom Brady he recognized us,
Speaker 1: Like that's crazy, and so I went up so of
Speaker 1: course went out to him, just like keeping my composure
Speaker 1: but obviously losing my ship on the inside, and shook
Speaker 1: his hand and I was like, hey, you know, I'm Jared.
Speaker 1: We met very briefly, and as I was saying Ady
Speaker 1: for Brady, so was he. So that was my first inclination.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh shit, he might remember us. And
Speaker 1: then of course later I got the confirmation. But then
Speaker 1: I went into my quick speel and was like, we're
Speaker 1: from the Bachelor. We had this idea that I could
Speaker 1: give you a rose because people always choke about how
Speaker 1: I'd give my rose to you over my wife because
Speaker 1: I'm such a big Tom Brady fan. And he was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's fine, and so I told Ashley. I was like, actually,
Speaker 1: just stand next to Tom. And then you know, I
Speaker 1: was trying to tell the publicists, like, just keep the
Speaker 1: camera on me, and then I'll point and just pan
Speaker 1: over to Tom and Ashley when I'm done with much peel.
Speaker 1: And then it was so funny because I then I
Speaker 1: gave Tom Brady direction because he was like, what am
Speaker 1: I supposed to do? I said, just look happy when
Speaker 1: I give you the rose bro and and I was
Speaker 1: joking later on with Ashley about how I should be
Speaker 1: the movie director because I could direct. If I could
Speaker 1: tell Tom Brady what to do, I could tell anybody
Speaker 1: what to do. And so it was cool. And obviously
Speaker 1: so the video direct to cast the three. You can
Speaker 1: direct a full movie set. Dude, if I got it,
Speaker 1: I got it. That do you think do you think
Speaker 1: Tom Brady while you were performing her monologue? Do you
Speaker 1: think he was like, get me the fuck out of here? Oh?
Speaker 1: One thousand percent. I don't think he knew. I don't think.
Speaker 1: I don't think he's ever watched an episode of the Bachelor,
Speaker 1: because I don't think he really knew what the hell
Speaker 1: was going on, and so, but he was such a
Speaker 1: good sport about it, and he was standing there and
Speaker 1: then I think I see. I think at first it
Speaker 1: wasn't the speel. I think at first he was like,
Speaker 1: oh no, what did I say I do? And then
Speaker 1: I think once I handed him the rose and actually
Speaker 1: was like fake crying, and then he could. I think
Speaker 1: that then it clicked for him, like oh okay, like
Speaker 1: I get what they were going for now, because then
Speaker 1: he started laughing and smiling, and at first, like I
Speaker 1: could tell he was smiling, but I could tell like
Speaker 1: he was like, what the hell is this? And then
Speaker 1: I think it clicked for him. Then, Oh okay, I
Speaker 1: kept what he's doing now, so that was cool. And
Speaker 1: then of course we took a pick and and then
Speaker 1: shook his hand and I was like, do you do
Speaker 1: the best? And he said, thank you so much, really
Speaker 1: appreciate that, and then that was it. He's gotten out
Speaker 1: the Bachelor is There's no way he doesn't. I feel
Speaker 1: like every American knows what it is, whether you watch
Speaker 1: it or what it is. Yeah, but I don't know
Speaker 1: if he knows like how a rose ceremony works, because
Speaker 1: in the moment, it felt like very much like he
Speaker 1: didn't know what was going on. So I was like,
Speaker 1: I don't think he knows, like what the hell of
Speaker 1: a Rose ceremony is I'm sure he knows of the show.
Speaker 1: Who doesn't. Yeah, great, that's what I was thinking. Well,
Speaker 1: so do you think there's any chance of you guys
Speaker 1: becoming best friends? Are you going to be able to
Speaker 1: like message him on Instagram at any point? Or what
Speaker 1: do you think like next steps for you guys? Uh?
Speaker 1: You know, I might just ask him out for a date,
Speaker 1: see if he's down for that. Next steps I don't know, man,
Speaker 1: I mean, here's here's the cool part is that if
Speaker 1: you would asked me a few months ago would I
Speaker 1: ever meet Tom Brady? I probably would have said no,
Speaker 1: I don't know if I'd never had the opportunity to
Speaker 1: meet Tom. Now I feel so much better in saying like, like,
Speaker 1: I think that there's potential that I could see him again.
Speaker 1: You know, even if those small interactions those are obviously
Speaker 1: like the fact that he recognized us is that was
Speaker 1: the best part of everything. Well, now that he's out
Speaker 1: of like I mean, he's not playing football anymore, but
Speaker 1: for now at least, which means he will be more
Speaker 1: of a socialite, Hollywood kind of guy. And that does
Speaker 1: lend itself to be more like social when it comes
Speaker 1: to these types of events and things like that, So
Speaker 1: I could definitely retirement has been good for me. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: let's be honest, You're the true winner from Tom's retirement,
Speaker 1: which is which is great news. Um, I'm trying to
Speaker 1: think of anyone that I would be equally as excited for,
Speaker 1: or Klin would be equally as excited for, Like Kylin,
Speaker 1: who's your Tom Brady? Do you think Hillary Duff you
Speaker 1: could meet? You could meet Hillary Duff. I feel like
Speaker 1: we've talked about this on the podcast. No, No, I'm
Speaker 1: not saying Hillar Duff isn't amazing. She definitely is. But
Speaker 1: like child, I was, Yes, I was obsessed with there
Speaker 1: still am, and especially after listening to her on that podcast,
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I'm even more obsessed with you
Speaker 1: than I was before. Hmm. I feel like we could
Speaker 1: kid Hilary Duff on this podcast. I don't think that's
Speaker 1: she's like all the way up here. Oh, don't get
Speaker 1: me wrong, She's a huge celebrity. But I feel like
Speaker 1: there's a shot that Hillary Duff watches the show. No.
Speaker 1: I think she went on the Bachelor two years ago
Speaker 1: just to promote how I met your father Because there
Speaker 1: was ABC and ABC. Yeah, but so did she say
Speaker 1: that she's never watched the show? No, I mean she
Speaker 1: like played along and she's like, oh, I'm a huge
Speaker 1: fan of Clayton. But I don't think that's true. She's
Speaker 1: on Clayton season Okay, I do remember this, Listen. I
Speaker 1: think this is possible. I think it's very possible to
Speaker 1: get Hillary Duff on this podcast. I would bet a
Speaker 1: lot of money that it wouldn't happen, but I would
Speaker 1: love for his zappen. What about getting Tom Brady on
Speaker 1: this podcast? Jerry, can you pull some strings for us?
Speaker 1: That's zero percent chance. But the difference is I think
Speaker 1: that there's a chance that Hillary Duff is a fan
Speaker 1: of the show. And I bet if she is a fan, Kaylin,
Speaker 1: she knows who you are, like she'll recognize you now.
Speaker 1: And also, furthermore, if like, what is Hillary Duff? You
Speaker 1: know obviously she's an actress. She is. The show How
Speaker 1: I Met Your Father's still on. Yeah, I think it's
Speaker 1: airing right now. So yeah, okay, so it's on. It's
Speaker 1: two seasons. There'll probably be a season three, so this
Speaker 1: is what needs to happen. There'll be I'm sort of
Speaker 1: event in LA for season three of How I Met
Speaker 1: Your Father. So we're putting it out in the universe
Speaker 1: right now that Kaylin, you will one hund be invited
Speaker 1: to this event, Like you could get into this event
Speaker 1: and then you'd be able to meet Hillary Duff. I
Speaker 1: mean I also met another one of my like icons,
Speaker 1: like I love her and she was span at the show.
Speaker 1: So that was a very cool moment. Who's that. No,
Speaker 1: we're not going to say, don't don't say it. You
Speaker 1: were there and when we were looking at wedding venues. Oh,
Speaker 1: don't say it. It was the coolest experience of my life.
Speaker 1: Oh what we all want to talk about it? No, No,
Speaker 1: I would be so embarrassed if she knew that we
Speaker 1: were talking about it. Well, come on, that was an
Speaker 1: exciting moment for us. No, okay, I guess I'm not
Speaker 1: allowed to talk about it. Sorry now, I hold on.
Speaker 1: But I don't need Yeah, I don't need you to
Speaker 1: say the name. But can you tell us why you
Speaker 1: don't want to say just because you think because we
Speaker 1: got at becoming best friends. Yeah, all right, I get that.
Speaker 1: I get that, Like I have no shot of being
Speaker 1: best friends with Brady, which is why it's slow, like,
Speaker 1: I don't care all fanboy. We don't have a shot
Speaker 1: of being best friends to this person either. But she
Speaker 1: did approach us, and she did linger for a very
Speaker 1: long time, talking to us while we were eating our breakfast.
Speaker 1: I'm even embarrassed, just like rehashing it. I shouldn't have remeber.
Speaker 1: She did ask a sort of picture and we were no,
Speaker 1: you're really embarrassing me. Oh. I'm just saying we were
Speaker 1: so excited and we were so happy to be there,
Speaker 1: and we walked out of that place and we couldn't
Speaker 1: believe our our minds of what just happened. And that's it.
Speaker 1: That's the end of that. Man. If I say her name, Kaylin,
Speaker 1: who's my Nope, Nope, nope on the next thing, because
Speaker 1: Kylan's already it's too embarrassed for us to even continue
Speaker 1: talking about this. Who's my Tom Brady? Kaylin? Um? Someone
Speaker 1: from ntage? Yeah, I knew you were going to say that.
Speaker 1: Just can't be. It can't be that though, Dax. You
Speaker 1: love Dax, but I don't think you'd like freak out
Speaker 1: over him. I'd get a little nervous. I'm just saying, like,
Speaker 1: like Jared's had Tom Brady, his idol, his whole life.
Speaker 1: I don't know if I've had one of this. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I guess you were too young for Alway right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: and I've heard always kind of weird. I've got some
Speaker 1: friends that know him that or I've met him a
Speaker 1: few times and he's just kind of like an odd ball.
Speaker 1: Not that I don't think out over this, But you
Speaker 1: love Russell and you love to defend Russell. Yeah, Russell Wilson.
Speaker 1: But I want to go off football like you went
Speaker 1: off the ball. So I want to. I just I
Speaker 1: wonder who it would be, Maybe like uh, oh lady,
Speaker 1: maybe like Neil de grass Tyson. It would be really
Speaker 1: cool to meet in life. But I don't know. Do
Speaker 1: you think someone like um, just because you know you've
Speaker 1: been compared with him, looks wise like DiCaprio. So they're
Speaker 1: gonna say Brad Pitt, Yeah, yeah, my Brad Pitt or
Speaker 1: zac Efron. Oh, Actually, do you think Dean looks more
Speaker 1: like Brad Pitt? You look way more likely. Leo's got
Speaker 1: like the round face. M hmm. Well, let's be honest, guys.
Speaker 1: I don't like either of these people, but I do
Speaker 1: appreciate it. Um, I think that I don't know. Man,
Speaker 1: I've never really like, I've never really idolized someone to
Speaker 1: that extent. And that's kind of a knock at me,
Speaker 1: Like why can't I get excited about just not into
Speaker 1: like seleb culture. I'm really not, I really am not,
Speaker 1: And I do pride myself on like when Caleen's like, oh,
Speaker 1: do you know who that is? And I'm like, I
Speaker 1: have no idea except when Kim Kardashian looked you up
Speaker 1: and down? Yeah, yeah she did? I she did. When
Speaker 1: did Kim Kardashian look you up and down? She eyed
Speaker 1: me once? Um, that's funny that you're not embarrassed about
Speaker 1: telling that story, but you're embarrassed about the other story,
Speaker 1: because yeah, no, good. So there was like Calen is
Speaker 1: presenting at the Influencer Awards and it was say she
Speaker 1: didn't I fuck me? But Calen looked beautiful in this
Speaker 1: beautiful dress, and I showed up like in a black
Speaker 1: T shirt, black pear of jeans and flip flops. And
Speaker 1: we're like backstage and Kim Kardashian's finishing her speech walking
Speaker 1: off stage, and Kaylin's about to walk out on stage
Speaker 1: next and I'm just like back there being supportive boyfriend
Speaker 1: wearing my flip flops, and Kim Kardashian walks by, also
Speaker 1: dressed to the nines and like looks at me, looks
Speaker 1: down at my flip flops, looks back at me, and
Speaker 1: like just like basically scops at me and scarries on
Speaker 1: them to day. It's great. It was great. That's pretty good.
Speaker 1: It's a good story right there. Well, yeah, well that's
Speaker 1: all we got a little uh dis lead and yeah,
Speaker 1: that's so that's all we got. What else? Is there
Speaker 1: anything else shared that you want to talk about before
Speaker 1: we get into this interview that we're about to have. No,
Speaker 1: I think I talked already too much about Tom Brady. Yeah,
Speaker 1: i'd be nervous to meet Tom Brady. I'd be nervous
Speaker 1: to me. Yeah, Aaron Rodgers, Rogers, I'd be nervous to
Speaker 1: meet Rogers just because I'd be like I I I
Speaker 1: think you're just gonna judge me, you know, Yeah, on
Speaker 1: the same show my brother was on. Yeah, I thought
Speaker 1: you just meant like he's just like kind of a
Speaker 1: judgmental person, which I could definitely see that and that
Speaker 1: as well. Yeah, he's like the kind of guy that
Speaker 1: you would go to like lunch with and then like
Speaker 1: he would talk shit about you to the waiter secretly
Speaker 1: or something like that. I could see that being a possibility,
Speaker 1: like whispering about how much of a piece you are?
Speaker 1: Probably I want to ask get your thoughts. Jared on
Speaker 1: prenups a pre nuptial agreement. Yeah, my business manager was like,
Speaker 1: you need to sign a prenup before you marry Dean,
Speaker 1: And I was like, I'd rather not start off my
Speaker 1: marriage with a prenup. I mean, i'd sign a Ashley's
Speaker 1: looking at me. You You're worth more than I am,
Speaker 1: So if anybody wants to sign this prenup, it should
Speaker 1: be you. Yeah, that's true. She knows that I wouldn't
Speaker 1: come for anything. I would just be like, no, that's fine.
Speaker 1: I'll live in a studio apartment. I'm fine with that
Speaker 1: in Rhode Island. That's That's kind of how I am, too,
Speaker 1: Like God forbid, Caitlin and I divorce, and again, Kitleen
Speaker 1: is also worth way more than I am or ever
Speaker 1: could dream of being. And you never know how things
Speaker 1: are gonna go. But like, even in the worst case scenario,
Speaker 1: I can't imagine being like, give me half the very
Speaker 1: thing you have, you know, Yeah, I just thought it
Speaker 1: was a good thoughts starter. Yeah, I mean, I'm I'm
Speaker 1: down with the idea of a pre numb I don't think.
Speaker 1: I think the idea of going to anything with one
Speaker 1: hundred percent certainty is a recipe for disaster. Like do
Speaker 1: I believe I'm gonna spend the rest of my life
Speaker 1: with Ashley? Absolutely? Do. I want to spend the rest
Speaker 1: of the life of my life with Ashley, of course,
Speaker 1: But like the idea that oh, just because I believe
Speaker 1: it and want that to happen means it will happen.
Speaker 1: Is I don't know? Anything could change? So yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm down, especially like if you know, for example, Kaylen,
Speaker 1: say you are worth more than Dean, you know, and
Speaker 1: say Dean wasn't the guy he is and he was
Speaker 1: a little bit more of a in fullencer who didn't,
Speaker 1: you know, wear flip flops to some sort of award
Speaker 1: show and would potentially come for your assets. Yeah, of course,
Speaker 1: just to be like, hey, listen, I love you, you know,
Speaker 1: I want to spend the rest of my life with you.
Speaker 1: But you know, it's just let's just sign this and
Speaker 1: and and then move on. The thing is if Caylen
Speaker 1: and I ever got divorced, I would take my van
Speaker 1: and I would drive it to the furthest possible place
Speaker 1: I could reach, and you would never ever hear from
Speaker 1: me ever again. Like literally, the only reason that's sound
Speaker 1: percent true. The only reason that I'm around right now
Speaker 1: is because of you. If it wasn't for you, I
Speaker 1: would be doing that exactly that. But I don't know
Speaker 1: if that's you. You really like to think that if
Speaker 1: we got divorced, it would, especially like we're not getting divorced.
Speaker 1: You said if we're getting married, we'll never get divorced
Speaker 1: because you don't want to get married. If we're getting married,
Speaker 1: we're not getting divorced, Like you'll love to kill me
Speaker 1: before we get divorced. But that's not to say that
Speaker 1: you won't want to divorce me. If you do divorce me,
Speaker 1: I will drop off the face of the earth and
Speaker 1: you'll never hear from me again, not you specifically, like
Speaker 1: the rest, Like no one will hear from me, you know. No,
Speaker 1: you've your brothers too much. They could come visit. They
Speaker 1: they'll know my secret location. Anyways. Yeah, that's that is
Speaker 1: a good thought starter. Maybe I need some more time
Speaker 1: to reflect on it before I can provide an accurate answer. Um,
Speaker 1: we do have a great guest coming up. I don't
Speaker 1: want to tell you who it is. I want you
Speaker 1: to be surprised when you hear her voice. So stick
Speaker 1: in through this break and we'll be right back. All right, Hannah,
Speaker 1: We're gonna just go ahead and jump right into it. Um,
Speaker 1: welcome to the podcast. We're so honored to have you here.
Speaker 1: We have been working for five years to get you
Speaker 1: as a guest on here, and we finally were able
Speaker 1: to pull it off. We're not going to hold any punches,
Speaker 1: we're just we're just so thrilled. So yeah, so thank
Speaker 1: you so much for joining us. Yeah, um, well, welcome
Speaker 1: to the podcast. The episode is or the podcast name
Speaker 1: is help we suck at being newly weds and we
Speaker 1: know what You and Dylan are not wedded just yet,
Speaker 1: But do you guys suck at being engaged at least totally? Yeah?
Speaker 1: That's good. Okay, So same with Kaylin and I. Um,
Speaker 1: what do you think Dylan needs to work on the
Speaker 1: most in the relationship? Sorry, what if you suck most out?
Speaker 1: I never do this. I don't even know why I
Speaker 1: said usually Dean starts the interview with like, what's your
Speaker 1: favorite color? No, definitely, let's do some icebreakers, like I
Speaker 1: never do this. Yeah it's Dan. I'll tell you my
Speaker 1: least favorite thing about Dylan. This is my last favorite
Speaker 1: thing about Dylan. Dylan is notorious for texting and be like,
Speaker 1: hey man, what's up. You want to like play some
Speaker 1: video games? I'm like, yeah, dude, I love that, and
Speaker 1: then he just doesn't respond to me anymore. That's what
Speaker 1: I hate most about Dylan. Oh yeah, you guys do play?
Speaker 1: How often do you guys play? It varies, we go
Speaker 1: through phases, but yeah, uh well you actually came down, Dylan.
Speaker 1: I was just talking about you. Man, Dylan, I have
Speaker 1: to say why you suck? This is our first question
Speaker 1: he said, So what does Dylan suck? Yeah? I just
Speaker 1: I basically just wanted to reason to tell her about
Speaker 1: you texting me to play video games and then um
Speaker 1: just never responding to me after that. So I just
Speaker 1: wanted to get that off my chest. Or when you're
Speaker 1: like I was like, is Hannah doing your podcast? You're like, yeah,
Speaker 1: do you want to come on? I was like, such
Speaker 1: a classic Dylan move. Yeah, and here you are, all right, Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: make sure you quickly great seeing anybody. Okay, things that
Speaker 1: Dylan sucks suck. No, you don't answer that. Let's let's
Speaker 1: move on to some icebreakers. Let's talk about uh, let's
Speaker 1: let's let someone else talk, maybe Kaylan and Jared. You
Speaker 1: guys want to ask some questions because I put my foot. Well,
Speaker 1: let's talk about wedding planning, because we're both in the
Speaker 1: middle of it and you're getting out of August. We're
Speaker 1: getting married right after you. So I saw you tried
Speaker 1: on wedding dresses. Have you found out the one? No,
Speaker 1: it's now almost April, and yeah, I still don't have
Speaker 1: a dress or even really an idea of a dress,
Speaker 1: which is very like I'm just kind of annoyed at myself,
Speaker 1: but I've been holding off. I think I'm going to
Speaker 1: work with a designer and she's gonna like help me
Speaker 1: do the whole thing. But I also need to be
Speaker 1: prepped for this meeting because I don't know even really
Speaker 1: what I want. So I tried on a dresses just
Speaker 1: to like look at the rist styles. I kind of
Speaker 1: like everything, which is an issue, like I don't know,
Speaker 1: have you chosen like the dress? Yeah, I'm doing the
Speaker 1: same thing. I'm working with two designers. I'm doing like
Speaker 1: a ceremony and then a reception, so I'm working with them.
Speaker 1: But I found like, off the what I liked, So
Speaker 1: I don't know if we're gonna change like that much. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's that's good. I have. I have my pinter sport
Speaker 1: is like all over the place, like I have absolutely
Speaker 1: no concept, and a part of me is like, Okay,
Speaker 1: I want like sparkles, but then I want to plunge.
Speaker 1: But then I like long sleeve, like this type of fit,
Speaker 1: like it looks good. But then I almost want to
Speaker 1: be like no, I need to just like what's a
Speaker 1: vibe like simple cool that route? I don't know. I
Speaker 1: think you did two or three then dresses, Yeah, honestly
Speaker 1: I need to Somebody told me they did four. I
Speaker 1: was like, you're that's that's a whole other different type
Speaker 1: of day, Like you're just changing the whole time. That's insense,
Speaker 1: Like I don't think I'm gonna do four. I'll probably
Speaker 1: do like two maybe I know. And even with two,
Speaker 1: I'm like because I wanted to do three, but I
Speaker 1: was like, Okay, you're doing too much. But I want
Speaker 1: to have time in each dress. You know, it needs
Speaker 1: to have a moment each one. Yeah, yeah, well, I
Speaker 1: mean the moment of the May dress will of course
Speaker 1: be you walking down the aisle, right and then so
Speaker 1: like I don't know what Ashley did. I know that
Speaker 1: actually had two dresses. But the problem became, and this
Speaker 1: is something that you're gonna have to think about as well,
Speaker 1: is that if you do do three dresses, each time
Speaker 1: you get out of a dress and into a dress,
Speaker 1: it's gonna be time consuming because it's not like I
Speaker 1: don't know, that's what I found out with Ashley, because
Speaker 1: obviously it's like you've you know, you guys will have
Speaker 1: it too. You have your hair and your makeup there,
Speaker 1: and like there's all this thing and everybody wants you
Speaker 1: to look perfect, and so like by the time you
Speaker 1: go up and then because you have to go into
Speaker 1: a different room and then get undressed and then put
Speaker 1: the dress on, and then make sure your hair and
Speaker 1: mape are still on, and then there's like a I
Speaker 1: don't know, like our wedding plate. De Troy always wanted
Speaker 1: to Ashley to have an entrance into the ballroom, so
Speaker 1: we had to make sure that she had the entrance
Speaker 1: and the new dress, and so it was like forty
Speaker 1: five minutes that she missed out on because she had
Speaker 1: to leave change, like make sure she was all done,
Speaker 1: and then come back in at the right time. So
Speaker 1: that's something to think about as well. So if you
Speaker 1: do do three dresses and then that happens three times,
Speaker 1: that's like an hour and a half of the way.
Speaker 1: I think. I think I'm gonna have to do too.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have way too much phomo. I feel like
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna want to miss anything. You know, I
Speaker 1: don't even want to do like the photos, Like I
Speaker 1: don't want to be away from our wedding party for
Speaker 1: like an hour to do photos. I want to just
Speaker 1: like pump them out quick. Yeah. Yeah, but the photos
Speaker 1: are so like these the photos are importance having someone
Speaker 1: who's done this, because that is it's just like those
Speaker 1: are the ones you will look at for the rest
Speaker 1: of your live, you know, your lives, like those are
Speaker 1: all of our wedding photos are now plastered over our
Speaker 1: house like those. So it's hard, right, And plus, you
Speaker 1: guys are gonna have really good photographers. They are going
Speaker 1: to make sure that they're done perfect and they get
Speaker 1: every angle and they want every picture done, and so
Speaker 1: like our pictures, don't want all the angles and all
Speaker 1: the I'm like, you can get it. It's a lot,
Speaker 1: it's a lot, It's simple. Yeah kay, Then why are
Speaker 1: you trying? Why are you trying to play it so cool?
Speaker 1: You want all the angles you want? You want as
Speaker 1: a photo shoot as those light will give us. No,
Speaker 1: because our engagement shoot we have so many um not
Speaker 1: our engagement shoot, our engagement party. We have so many
Speaker 1: photos and we used to photos thank you photos for
Speaker 1: like thirty minutes and that was plenty. So we can
Speaker 1: just like pump them out. Everything's at the property. We
Speaker 1: don't have to like drive or leave. And then I
Speaker 1: will say the difference between and gas. Sorry, I keep
Speaker 1: shooting because and this is also rightfully so, you guys,
Speaker 1: both you and Hannah too. You guys are gonna want
Speaker 1: a lot of pictures in your dress, which rightfully so,
Speaker 1: because I mean, think of how much time and effort
Speaker 1: and love you're putting into the dress right now, You're
Speaker 1: gonna want to make sure that you get photos and
Speaker 1: like the you know, you're you're gonna look great and
Speaker 1: you're gonna feel great, and you're gonna want to remember that.
Speaker 1: So it's it's tough. It's like it's the balance right
Speaker 1: between being like, Okay, we want really good photos and
Speaker 1: I wanted to remember the rest of my life, but
Speaker 1: I also want to experience the wedding and make sure
Speaker 1: that I'm not away from it for too long and
Speaker 1: we don't have a three hour hocktail hour because we're
Speaker 1: taking so many pictures. Right, I'm hoping that after all
Speaker 1: of these years, Dylan's like slightly more trained, like to
Speaker 1: be like us, just to be like, all right, let's
Speaker 1: like knock these out and be done. I used to
Speaker 1: shoot weddings like before, like I went on the show
Speaker 1: or whatever. So I was shooting weddings all the time,
Speaker 1: and like I think people got held up by like
Speaker 1: poses or like they'd be like okay, this exact ins
Speaker 1: boon and you're like okay, cool, but like you end
Speaker 1: up just spinning too long. But if you go in,
Speaker 1: I think, hopefully with the plan, probably easier said than done.
Speaker 1: Knock through him. That does Dylan get grumpy when he
Speaker 1: has to take photos with you? Um? Yes, but I
Speaker 1: think he's learned that. It's probably I saw him like psycho,
Speaker 1: but it's not really productive for him to go through
Speaker 1: this whole grumpy thing, because I'm like, we could just
Speaker 1: knock it out really quick and be done, versus like
Speaker 1: this whole back and forth like should we do one
Speaker 1: or like what's the deal or like he's just like
Speaker 1: picking his nose in a photo or something, and I'm like, okay,
Speaker 1: that's great, but that will be the one I post
Speaker 1: if that's what you want, which sometimes is like I
Speaker 1: actually don't care at all, actually most of the time. Um,
Speaker 1: but yeah, is what guys are just like just grumpy? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Why did you ask that question? As if you had
Speaker 1: a personal experience with it? Hate taking photos? You get
Speaker 1: so grumpy. I like taking photos of you, but I
Speaker 1: don't like being in photos. Yeah, and sometimes I want
Speaker 1: a photo with you and you're grumpy. You can see
Speaker 1: it on your face and you're so unhappy. No. No,
Speaker 1: I'm pretty good at like turning it on, turning off
Speaker 1: the grumps for a couple of minutes, getting the photos,
Speaker 1: being and then being grumpy again right afterwards because I
Speaker 1: you know, and I feel guilty while we're taking the photos.
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh he's miserable. Yeah, well so I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: I think grumpy too. It's a thing, yeah, don't. He
Speaker 1: has one smile and like I could like he turns
Speaker 1: into like stone, like he's like I kind of like Joe,
Speaker 1: like a little like something into it just like anything.
Speaker 1: And then he just just and like that's him trying,
Speaker 1: and like you know what, like you know it is
Speaker 1: what it is. It's the same way. But also so
Speaker 1: I bring myself back to center because I'm the same
Speaker 1: way where I'm like Jesus, like I don't feel like
Speaker 1: doing this, and especially if it's a video like an
Speaker 1: Instagram story or a real and like Ashley's recording like
Speaker 1: her seventh take, and I'm like, I'm gonna I'm gonna
Speaker 1: lose my god damn one. But then I also sent
Speaker 1: to myself because I'm like wait a minute, like we're
Speaker 1: this is We're getting paid to do this. This is
Speaker 1: why am I complaining about this? This is ridiculous, Like
Speaker 1: I was, I would be washing dishes right now if
Speaker 1: it wasn't for this, So you know what, like I
Speaker 1: should just be happy, and that's what you know if
Speaker 1: she always reminds me of that. So I'm like, okay,
Speaker 1: never mind. I needed to shut the hell off and
Speaker 1: not be that grumpy. Yeah. I got a question Hannah
Speaker 1: about Dylan's wedding prep Tessie, and I asked you, like
Speaker 1: potential or groom to be this question too, just for
Speaker 1: my own knowledge sake. Has he started looking at tuxedos
Speaker 1: yet or is that going to be like a kind
Speaker 1: of a closer to the wedding day sort of thing. Um,
Speaker 1: I think he just started having the conversation like last Um, so,
Speaker 1: I think it's really early stages. He's working with his
Speaker 1: buddy Jay, and he did like all of his jackets
Speaker 1: for um when he went on the show, and then
Speaker 1: Jay ended up doing I don't know if he still is,
Speaker 1: but like he was, he was, he was doing all
Speaker 1: of the Bachelor dudes styling. He's really good anyways, just
Speaker 1: like reach out to him. He's really talented. So, yeah,
Speaker 1: do you needs someone, I'm just gonna go to a
Speaker 1: tux rental store. You'd rent your wedding tucks? What do
Speaker 1: everyone rents their wedding tucks? Yeah? What so I I
Speaker 1: use black tucks. Yeah. Did you get paid for it
Speaker 1: or did you just do it for? No? No? No no no,
Speaker 1: but they gave um all the groom's been uh free
Speaker 1: tux for rental, and then they gave me. They gave
Speaker 1: me my tux, which is really nice. I would say
Speaker 1: majority of grooms probably rent their tux. I would say,
Speaker 1: is it not a thing that guys just have tux
Speaker 1: like tuxes in their closet? Um, I'm may be used to.
Speaker 1: I may be used to, but I um got rid
Speaker 1: of all. Yeah, I have a suit, you know, Like
Speaker 1: I have a suit ready to go. I just think
Speaker 1: it's nice to like wear it again, not wear it,
Speaker 1: but like try it on like I want to. I
Speaker 1: don't know in twenty years to have my wedding dress.
Speaker 1: I'm so happy for you to have your wedding dress
Speaker 1: for the future of you, But I don't really have
Speaker 1: any interest in keeping my wedding tuch. What if Hunter
Speaker 1: wants to wear it, I would say, great, this is
Speaker 1: the store name. Hopefully they still got something in your
Speaker 1: sides if bad mojo too to it, Like what if
Speaker 1: it you put it on and it's got like, you know,
Speaker 1: kind of a weird stories. Yeah, got a weird energy
Speaker 1: to it. That's who knows. Who knows, But I guess
Speaker 1: I guess you just got to take the energy and
Speaker 1: do whatever I can with it, um, Hannah. I told
Speaker 1: Dylan I promised Dylan that I well, no, actually, I'm
Speaker 1: so sorry. Dylan promised me that you would come on
Speaker 1: this podcast and tell us where the wedding is for
Speaker 1: you guys, So can you just share that with us
Speaker 1: real quick and then we'll bow to the next question.
Speaker 1: He's definitely so. I told Dylan to text Deed and say, hey,
Speaker 1: I don't exactly know what he ended up saying, but
Speaker 1: for him to say, oh, yeah, we're not sharing our
Speaker 1: location by the way, which I think you might know.
Speaker 1: I think Dylan told you and then you said, I
Speaker 1: don't even know where it is. But I think Dylan
Speaker 1: literally told you. Do y'all know where it is? I
Speaker 1: don't think so, oh didn't he tell you while you
Speaker 1: were playing video games y'all were talking wedding? I think
Speaker 1: I think they talked about it. Yeah, I think that's
Speaker 1: that's possible. That's very possible. But I don't think. I'm
Speaker 1: I mean, we might end up like sharing it, Like
Speaker 1: I don't want to make it this big, weird, like
Speaker 1: secret thing. I think it's just more for like us,
Speaker 1: Like I kind of like that for once, we're not
Speaker 1: like just sharing everything I'm already like an over chair,
Speaker 1: especially like with social media now and stuff. I just
Speaker 1: share everything. So it's kind of fun be like, oh,
Speaker 1: like we're doing our little thing. I mean, we got
Speaker 1: like engaged on television like this is like for us,
Speaker 1: we're kind of like, oh, like kind of fun. I mean,
Speaker 1: who knows, it might just come out one day, but
Speaker 1: I don't know if today's that day. You know, how
Speaker 1: big is the wedding um? One hundred to one hundred
Speaker 1: and fifty? I think, okay, yeah, how big was yours?
Speaker 1: We were once five something like that, like ray around
Speaker 1: one eighty. So because the venue that we got married
Speaker 1: at Rosecliff, their main ballroom could only fit one hundred
Speaker 1: and eighty people, so anybody else had to go into
Speaker 1: this separate room and it was just not gonna be
Speaker 1: as nice. So um, we've got lucky. We sent out
Speaker 1: like one hundred and I guess like one hundred and
Speaker 1: nine invites. We got like ten knows something like that.
Speaker 1: So wow, I'm kind of worried about that. I'm like,
Speaker 1: how many people are going to actually not come or
Speaker 1: we haven't sent out RSI We're really I wouldn't imagine
Speaker 1: for both you and Kaylin. Not a lot of people
Speaker 1: are going to say no to Goding this wedding. So
Speaker 1: just like FYI, you know how a lot of people
Speaker 1: give you vice and they're like, oh, you're gonna get
Speaker 1: so many knows. I think for your guys weddings, a
Speaker 1: lot of people are going to make sure that they
Speaker 1: make it so I would be you know, uh conscious
Speaker 1: of that. I've got a question, Jared to the ten
Speaker 1: that said no to you? What did that U hurt
Speaker 1: your relationship at all? Or do you guys still Are
Speaker 1: you guys still friends? Uh? We're still friends. Okay. So
Speaker 1: just because someone said no to come to your wedding,
Speaker 1: you don't hold them in de eggs. If somebody said
Speaker 1: note coming in your wedding, would you really be that mad?
Speaker 1: If if they actually? I was curious, like, you know,
Speaker 1: well you and Wells are still friends. Yeah that's true,
Speaker 1: that's true. Oh yeah, I mean you just like didn't go.
Speaker 1: I was in Pakistan. Yeah, but you could have changed
Speaker 1: that trip. I couldn't have There's no way I could
Speaker 1: have done it. I could have changed it for ten
Speaker 1: thousand dollars which I don't have, just laying around to
Speaker 1: chick go and change stuff with so you pretty much saying, so,
Speaker 1: what would worse than I already do? Okay, let's put
Speaker 1: a monetary value on this, so like, if it was
Speaker 1: so your friendship with Wells, it's not worth ten thousand dollars. Okay,
Speaker 1: I get it. But what wow? What about like two thousand? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: we don't have to talk about this. I see you.
Speaker 1: I see your point. I see your point. But also
Speaker 1: they didn't send out not that I'm not that I'm
Speaker 1: just holding it against Wells. They didn't send out their
Speaker 1: wedding invites until like a month before the wedding or
Speaker 1: something crazy. Wow. Okay, so that's like two months, three months.
Speaker 1: It was a very short turnaround, basically like what I'm doing, Yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: so you might get a lot of knows and if
Speaker 1: you do, just feel comfortable getting out of us. Um.
Speaker 1: And then his bachelor party was different too, because my
Speaker 1: brother called me like the week before and it was like,
Speaker 1: I'm getting married next week and you have to be there,
Speaker 1: And I was like, what the fuck? This insane? Yeah,
Speaker 1: just bad luck and it's probably for the best. Anyways,
Speaker 1: I would have ruined the wedding. But uh, anyways, Hannah,
Speaker 1: I got some more questions. We got to talk to
Speaker 1: Hannah more that it's about than it is about me.
Speaker 1: You know, are you excited to finally put to bed?
Speaker 1: Because I can only imagine like the amount of people
Speaker 1: that reach out and say, just get married already, blah
Speaker 1: blah blah, because like you said, you did get engaged
Speaker 1: on TV. Are you excited to kind of put that
Speaker 1: all to bed? Yeah? I am wondering, like, is what's next?
Speaker 1: Like are people just gonna be like, okay, win our kids?
Speaker 1: Like does it is it? Now? Is that how it goes?
Speaker 1: Because we've gotten a few of those now that we're like,
Speaker 1: oh yeah, we have a wedding date. Like people are
Speaker 1: asking that already, and I'm like, okay, this is gonna
Speaker 1: and I get it, and I get like excitement and curiosity,
Speaker 1: but I'm like, all right, so it's just really never ending.
Speaker 1: But you know, there were there were a few people.
Speaker 1: I think it's I think it's like a one or
Speaker 1: two girls with multiple accounts that were for real like
Speaker 1: commenting on every single post and everything, like next level
Speaker 1: stuff about just like you guys have to get married
Speaker 1: or else I'm gonna like like kind of weird or
Speaker 1: old type of vibes and like, yeah, like constant reaching
Speaker 1: out to people we know and friends and following and
Speaker 1: like all this stuff, like like they have to get married.
Speaker 1: Like it was just really weird kind of stop. But
Speaker 1: at least for them, they'll probably be super excited to
Speaker 1: day we tie them. Not but yeah, but then it's
Speaker 1: gonna go. You guys need to have kids or else. God,
Speaker 1: here we go. It's the orlts ones. I was like,
Speaker 1: we gotta we gotta tie them earlier. You should invite
Speaker 1: them to the wedding. I think should make a maid
Speaker 1: of honor. Maybe I shouldn't. Let's just invite them, you know, Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what I want to do. But Kilan won't let
Speaker 1: me invite the public to our wedding. Not that not
Speaker 1: that the public would show up, but I did say, hey, Kaylin,
Speaker 1: let's like put out an open invite if you're in
Speaker 1: the area and you want to come, want just get married,
Speaker 1: come on. I think that would be so fun in
Speaker 1: such a special part of your day. Yeah yeah, so
Speaker 1: like an open bar, Well, yeah, well I'm an open bar.
Speaker 1: Come getting drunk on us for free. I'm already complaining
Speaker 1: about the price. And he's like let's out a hundred. However, Yeah,
Speaker 1: which wedding food and wedding drinks is so expensive. I'm
Speaker 1: shocked and I already knew god going in, but it
Speaker 1: is ridiculously expensive. Yeah. Yeah, Like the more people that
Speaker 1: say no, the happier I'm getting. Yeah. Yeah, we've only
Speaker 1: had two nos. But who said? Who said no to us?
Speaker 1: I gotta know? Oh, you gotta text me separately. I
Speaker 1: don't know people were saying no to us already Marty's
Speaker 1: I'm already so mad you already about this one? Yeah,
Speaker 1: you're right. Wait, who said no? I don't want to say.
Speaker 1: I don't want to out them. Yeah, it's done out them.
Speaker 1: That's rude. Okay, what's the with within Bachelor Nation or not? Okay?
Speaker 1: I think that silence as a yes is that I
Speaker 1: don't know? Um okay, yeah, moving on, moving to Okay,
Speaker 1: So we're talking about kids, but you guys want kids
Speaker 1: and do you have a time frame? Not really? I
Speaker 1: it is kind of weird or I guess interesting, like
Speaker 1: now that we are officially like we have a wedding
Speaker 1: date and all of this stuff, that's not just like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: we're engaged. We'll probably get married in a few years,
Speaker 1: like you know, like this whole concept. Now it's like, oh,
Speaker 1: we're like actually getting married, like we should talk more
Speaker 1: about future stuff. And I've always been someoney who like
Speaker 1: talks about kids. It's just like what I do, I
Speaker 1: don't know. But now that it's like actually a realistic thing,
Speaker 1: it's kind of crazy. I mean we're both twenty eight though,
Speaker 1: so probably I don't know five this years definitely, but
Speaker 1: I don't know. Honestly, some days I'm like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: we could totally do this, Like I would love to
Speaker 1: have like a little kid, Like this would be great.
Speaker 1: And then some days I'm like I don't, like I
Speaker 1: don't even know what I was thinking, Like I have
Speaker 1: like I can't even book appointments for myself, let alone
Speaker 1: a Chile. So yeah, yeah, what you just described is parenthood.
Speaker 1: So you're fine because it's just some days you're like
Speaker 1: this is fantastic and wonderful and there's nothing better. And
Speaker 1: then there are other days where like I just want
Speaker 1: to sleep and not have to deal with anything, and
Speaker 1: this really sucks. I also feel like Dylan will be
Speaker 1: an amazing dad. I get. I get really good dad
Speaker 1: vibes from Dylan He's totally gonna be an amazing dad,
Speaker 1: Like he does things all the time, even like now,
Speaker 1: I'm just like, yeah, he's gonna crush it. I don't
Speaker 1: neither of us have kids, but I already know that
Speaker 1: I want to be a Dylan as good as a
Speaker 1: Dylan dad. You know, Like I'm still just like working
Speaker 1: towards being as good as him. How many kids do
Speaker 1: you guys? When I have we're thinking like nine. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we're gonna we're gonna have two of our own, and
Speaker 1: then we're going to adopt too. That's the plane about that.
Speaker 1: The other day. We haven't spoken about adoption in a while. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we kind of fell kind of fell off of it.
Speaker 1: But we need to get jobs first, or at least
Speaker 1: I need to get a job first before any type
Speaker 1: of kid comes out of either of us. He's going
Speaker 1: to start building decks. Yeah, perfect. Yeah, Yeah, if you
Speaker 1: guys need a deck, hit me up. I don't know
Speaker 1: how your new backyard looks, but your last one was
Speaker 1: pretty sweet. So if you need a deck, I'm your guy.
Speaker 1: There we go. Yeah, we're the I think Dylan, especially
Speaker 1: like with his visor stuff that he works on for work,
Speaker 1: Like he's like I wouldn't be able to pray or
Speaker 1: a hide at the child right now, like I need
Speaker 1: to like knock out this work stuff and then go
Speaker 1: from there. But yeah, some days I'm literally like, oh,
Speaker 1: like thoughts and he's like, so well, pers a little
Speaker 1: but yeah, but like you said, you're only twenty eight,
Speaker 1: so you've got some time to figure it out. Yeah,
Speaker 1: totally plenty of times. So you are having the wedding,
Speaker 1: you're not revealing the location? Well you did? You guys
Speaker 1: say it was outside of the United States. Yeah? Are
Speaker 1: you revealing the country? Huh? Are you revealing the country
Speaker 1: or no? No, okay, but I don't know. Somewhere in
Speaker 1: Europe or somewhere like Mexico. It's what I've already kind
Speaker 1: of put out there, So I'm guessing Europe. I feel
Speaker 1: like it's Europe. Yeah, that would be my guest too.
Speaker 1: You feel like an Italian wedding. I do remember Dylan
Speaker 1: telling me where it was. I just I just have
Speaker 1: to put that out there. I'm not gonna say obviously,
Speaker 1: I never want to share remember without your permission. It
Speaker 1: was one of those moments where it's like it just
Speaker 1: hit you all of a sudden, you know. Yeah, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm really excited, but it definitely like just out of
Speaker 1: the country in general, like adds a bit of a
Speaker 1: challenge even with like the guest list thing, and we're
Speaker 1: already behind in wedding planning. Yeah, I'm like all right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: we gotta figure this out. Plus, like August just such
Speaker 1: a busy time for people and for wedding, so we're
Speaker 1: like many people can get this on their calendars. We
Speaker 1: sent to save the day, but we haven't sent like
Speaker 1: rs vps or anything yet. Yeah, me to do this week. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'd be worried about. Like I'm already worried enough about
Speaker 1: people coming to Colorado for our wedding. I can't imagine
Speaker 1: having an international wedding. I feel like zero people would
Speaker 1: show up for us at least, oh my gosh. Okay,
Speaker 1: maybe like worried about. And I part of me like
Speaker 1: feels like some days I'm like, yay, like let's do it.
Speaker 1: I just want to do like a little vaca like
Speaker 1: it's fine. Um, but you know, I'm from Alabama, like
Speaker 1: the South. A lot of my friends like don't really
Speaker 1: travel a lot at home, Like I didn't travel when
Speaker 1: I lived in Alabama either. Um, so I'm kind of
Speaker 1: just trying to figure out and sort through all of that.
Speaker 1: Um and yeah, so yeah, I'm hoping it's people seem excited,
Speaker 1: So people are going to show up, and I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna hold it against anybody, like if they can't make
Speaker 1: it or whatever, just because I've realized that, like it's
Speaker 1: not it's like down the street like typically it is. Yeah. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: what about like you guys as bachelor bachette parties if
Speaker 1: you started playing those yet? Yeah, So I think Dylan
Speaker 1: is doing Miami and then I think I'm just gonna
Speaker 1: go full Vegas. Nice. Wait, that's so funny. So I'm
Speaker 1: having my bachelorette in San Diego and I live in Vegas,
Speaker 1: and you're that is pretty funny. If it was the
Speaker 1: same week and we just fully switched, Wait in August,
Speaker 1: it wouldn't be in August. Okay, minds in May. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's so funny. Soon honestly, Yeah, I have a bachelorte.
Speaker 1: I introduced everybody and then they said, okay, we're kicking
Speaker 1: you out. So I got kicked out yesterday, so we'll
Speaker 1: see how it goes. But so fun, it'll be fun. Yeah,
Speaker 1: who's your maid of Honor. My best friend Dina Um, Dina,
Speaker 1: like I we went to middle school together, high school,
Speaker 1: just one of the ogs. And yeah, she was actually
Speaker 1: on my hometown thing and we like always have this
Speaker 1: inside joke of that we love Britney spears, like it's
Speaker 1: just we always like dance to it or whatever. And
Speaker 1: as soon as I saw her at hometown, she hugged
Speaker 1: me and she whispered in my ears. She was like,
Speaker 1: that's Britney bitch. And I was like, like, I'm just
Speaker 1: like hugging everybody. Hadn't study body in a few months,
Speaker 1: and um, I think. Yeah, she was able to spell
Speaker 1: a little bit of tea like during the hometown sing
Speaker 1: of what was going on in the real world. But
Speaker 1: it was great. So she's she's my best friend, she's
Speaker 1: like my sister. Nice. Yeah. Do you have any bachelor
Speaker 1: of people going? We've invited just a few. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: I don't I meant to your bachelorrette. Oh no ah, No,
Speaker 1: it's just like literally, I think most everybody is friends
Speaker 1: pre most of them are friends pre show stuff, like
Speaker 1: I think my mom's even coming, it'll be is your huh? No.
Speaker 1: I was asking if Kyl's bomb is gone, she's not. No, No,
Speaker 1: it's and she could. It's gonna be very tame. It's
Speaker 1: gonna be like spot and pick a ball and and calm.
Speaker 1: But I'm kind of jealous. I'm not jealous, but I'm like,
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I've signed up for a full Vegas set. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's gonna be great. It'll be fun, though, I'm really excited.
Speaker 1: You guys are gonna have dick gummies and bottle service
Speaker 1: at the it's at the pool clubs. Oh yeah, Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: that's that's fun though. You know, that's always fun to
Speaker 1: go out there and kind of just live it up
Speaker 1: for you know, it's notthing different. Yeah, I want all
Speaker 1: the cheese. I want the whole experience. I want to
Speaker 1: like fully bachelorette it up, and I want to wear
Speaker 1: like a little headband that says I'm getting married or
Speaker 1: something kind of I want to have a night or fully. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I need to do that, So get out of my system. Well, Caitlin,
Speaker 1: I am very jealous. I'm not gonna lie to pick
Speaker 1: a ball and spa So I'm just fantastic, right, I can't.
Speaker 1: I hate being hungover. I can only drink if I
Speaker 1: drink more than three glasses of wine or even three,
Speaker 1: I get hungover. So I'm like just gonna be minimal drinking.
Speaker 1: I don't believe it. I believe it when I see
Speaker 1: it better. Can I's gonna be wasted curled over a toilet.
Speaker 1: Absolutely not. Yeah, I'm actually not even gonna be drinking
Speaker 1: at mine. But thank you, Kaitlin. What was the last
Speaker 1: time to me threw up because of drinking? Oh my gosh. College. Okay,
Speaker 1: so it's been a while, yeah, not for me. Two
Speaker 1: weeks ago, I've been getting like really motion sick. This
Speaker 1: isn't this is true. I'll get I'll get like buzzed,
Speaker 1: and then I'll get in a car like not driving,
Speaker 1: I'll be like passenger, especially if I'm in the back seat,
Speaker 1: and just get so nauseous and all. I was puking
Speaker 1: out of my friends like passenger window a couple of
Speaker 1: weeks ago, because I just get our engagement party. He
Speaker 1: threw up and threw up all over my car. Nice,
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, it was so well. Okay, but was
Speaker 1: it over or were you like I got a break
Speaker 1: in puke. We went to the after party. Yeah, we
Speaker 1: went to the after party, and I was in the
Speaker 1: back of the car on the way to the afterparty,
Speaker 1: and I just got nauseous. Walked in and I had
Speaker 1: to go puke upstairs, and then I was like, I
Speaker 1: just gotta go. I gotta get out of here. So
Speaker 1: I told Kylin. I was like, Kylen, I just want
Speaker 1: to go home and go to bed. And Kaylan's like, great,
Speaker 1: get in my car. Go to get in the front
Speaker 1: door passenger seat, and there's millions of boxes in it.
Speaker 1: So I was like, Kyleen, how where am I supposed
Speaker 1: to sit in this car? And She's like, oh, let
Speaker 1: me push a box to the side, and so I
Speaker 1: get in the back seat with the seat folded down.
Speaker 1: So I'm like fetal position in the back of her
Speaker 1: car surrounded by boxes. She makes like three turns and
Speaker 1: I was like, Kyleen, I'm puking all over the side
Speaker 1: of your car right now. We had to drive like
Speaker 1: thirty minutes to Calibigos, which is way up in Malibu,
Speaker 1: like up, and oh my gosh, dude, I did not
Speaker 1: miss Windy. I can't. I can't like drinking a lot.
Speaker 1: It's not my thing either at all. Like I can't
Speaker 1: do it anymore. I can't hang o well, you got
Speaker 1: one more weekend in Johannah apparently. Yeah, I'm a little
Speaker 1: nervous about it. But it's always fun drinking with friends,
Speaker 1: you know. I mean, you're they'll make sure that you're
Speaker 1: taking care of It's the worst when you're drinking like
Speaker 1: with that one. I guess it's different guys too, when
Speaker 1: you drink with like that one buddy who just will
Speaker 1: ditch you. Yes, you know, yeah, you'll be with good friends. Yes,
Speaker 1: it'll be a good time. Wedding wise, are you guys
Speaker 1: going to do a first look? Do you? And I've
Speaker 1: been talking about this a lot so much about before, Yeah,
Speaker 1: we we should. We need to decide and kind of
Speaker 1: like go through like what the day of events kind
Speaker 1: of are um. At first, Dylan was very much like, oh,
Speaker 1: I want to see you the first time down the aisle,
Speaker 1: like we're all the way out here, like we might
Speaker 1: as well just like have this moment. And I'm like, yeah,
Speaker 1: like I agree, like you know whatever. But I think
Speaker 1: once he kind of figured out that we would have
Speaker 1: to leave our cocktail hour, which would be wait cocktail
Speaker 1: or like whatever the cock is that what it's called
Speaker 1: the little about hour to go take photos then and
Speaker 1: like leave all our all of our friends and family.
Speaker 1: He was like, mmmm, maybe not so, so we might
Speaker 1: end up doing just something before and then hanging out
Speaker 1: with everybody the whole time. I think that's going to
Speaker 1: be the most important part, is like hanging out with
Speaker 1: our friends and family there the entire time, versus I
Speaker 1: don't like want to do a bunch of dress changes,
Speaker 1: like I don't want to leave people, like I don't
Speaker 1: know what about you guys, Yeah we're doing one. Oh
Speaker 1: my gosh, you're so ridiculous. I was very out of
Speaker 1: it about no, and so was Dean. But like, the
Speaker 1: only appeal is to get the photos done. But then
Speaker 1: I'm like, if that's all it's about, then do we
Speaker 1: just I want I don't think Dean's gonna cry, And
Speaker 1: if there's a chance he's gonna cry, it's not at
Speaker 1: a first, Like it's gonna be me walking down the aisle.
Speaker 1: So so you are you trying you want me to cry?
Speaker 1: Are you trying to sit out to cry? Cry? Jared?
Speaker 1: Did you cry? Yeah? Yeah, I cried. It was also
Speaker 1: because um, it was so my I would suggest seeing
Speaker 1: you'd walk down the aisle for the first time because
Speaker 1: it is such a moment, And yes, it does suck
Speaker 1: where you get taken away and you take pictures, but
Speaker 1: also that is a moment as well where after you
Speaker 1: get because now you're you're taking pictures after you said
Speaker 1: I do, so there is that fun, flirtatious banter of
Speaker 1: being like hi wife, like holy sh and you take
Speaker 1: pictures and there's those moments between you and I totally
Speaker 1: understand of like, hey, we want to go back and
Speaker 1: hang out with our friends. But honestly, once you're in
Speaker 1: there hanging out with your friends, I mean, you're you're
Speaker 1: hanging out with everybody, but you're also just like everybody's
Speaker 1: gonna find time to hang out with you, whether you
Speaker 1: take pictures or not. And then just that I'll never
Speaker 1: forget that moment for the rest of my life, you know.
Speaker 1: And I'm sure a first look can do that as well.
Speaker 1: But the idea of seeing Ashley walk down the aisle
Speaker 1: for the first time in the wedding dress, and we
Speaker 1: were you know, we didn't stay together the night before,
Speaker 1: so we had the rehearsal dinner and then we went
Speaker 1: our separate ways and then I hung out with the
Speaker 1: guys all day on the wedding day, and then just
Speaker 1: seeing everybody walk down the aisle because you know, the
Speaker 1: doors open up, and like, you know, I saw a
Speaker 1: dean walk the aisle and all my friends and family
Speaker 1: and my sister and my dad, and then and then
Speaker 1: at the very end is you know, the doors open up,
Speaker 1: and then there's Ashley and her wedding dress with her dad,
Speaker 1: and it was just, you know, it's very overwhelming and emotional,
Speaker 1: and I was like, I, you know, it was such
Speaker 1: a moment to me that that I think that, you know,
Speaker 1: that's what I would suggest doing. Well, you guys do
Speaker 1: that you'll sleep separately the night before at the wedding. Um,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean, like the way it's to
Speaker 1: set up. We're trying to figure that out. I think
Speaker 1: a part of us just wants to be like low
Speaker 1: key and be like, yeah, let's just sleep together, Like
Speaker 1: who cares? Like I honestly, I'm such a weirdo with sleep,
Speaker 1: Like I'm very like routine and like like when I
Speaker 1: sleep next to Dylan, like I sleep so much better
Speaker 1: versus like sleeping with anybody else. So like my friends
Speaker 1: are like sleeping alone, Like I don't know. So I'm
Speaker 1: like if I'm well rested. The next day, we talked
Speaker 1: about just sharing a room. Yeah, is that bad? Does
Speaker 1: that ruin everything? No? Whatever, I don't think it's bad.
Speaker 1: I don't think it's bad either. Are we gonna do that? Kalin?
Speaker 1: What are we gonna thinking about that? So, the way
Speaker 1: our wedding works, everyone's going to be at the property, um,
Speaker 1: and there's no extra bedroom, so I think we might
Speaker 1: have to sure, please please sleep in the van the
Speaker 1: night before you can get married. It's very appropriate. I
Speaker 1: think it's so symbolic. And then we can consummate in
Speaker 1: the van of the day after. Yeah, and that's also
Speaker 1: where it ended. So Dylan didn't He's never he hadn't
Speaker 1: been to like a bunch of weddings until like this
Speaker 1: past year, like really ever. So I had mentioned it
Speaker 1: to him and I was like, yeah, like, should we
Speaker 1: do the thing where we like don't sleep together the
Speaker 1: night before? He was like what the hell? I was like, yeah, don't,
Speaker 1: like it's like a thing. He's like, no, I've never
Speaker 1: heard of that. There's no way that's the thing. But
Speaker 1: I don't think he realizes that. It's so that you
Speaker 1: have this like built up kind of moment the next
Speaker 1: day and but yeah, he didn't know it the thing,
Speaker 1: but I think it's fine, like sleep together and then
Speaker 1: it's like the whole day you're getting ready with he's
Speaker 1: getting ready to the guys, that's true. What time are
Speaker 1: we getting married at? Like in the day, it's like
Speaker 1: an afternoon thing. It's got to be an anything four pm? Interesting? Okay.
Speaker 1: I love how Dean knows nothing about his own wedding
Speaker 1: right now, right, where is it? Are you going to
Speaker 1: be at? The officer who's getting married? Is it going?
Speaker 1: It's great? Well, we have a time or of like
Speaker 1: noise orderance that I think we have to be quiet
Speaker 1: by ten or eleven? Gotcha, yeah, perfectly. Noise order order.
Speaker 1: How do you say it? Ordinance? Noise order ordinance? Yeah,
Speaker 1: dance whatever, right, they just have you keep it down. Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 1: And it's on a Saturday or on a Sunday. I
Speaker 1: can't remember, of course, say it should be a Saturday. Okay, cool,
Speaker 1: just making sure, just making sure. So do you think
Speaker 1: seen you'll wear a classic black tucks? Are you gonna
Speaker 1: go something crazy classic black tucks with a nice big
Speaker 1: penguin tail on it? Oh? You know those like with
Speaker 1: the like the long long back that's what I want
Speaker 1: to wear. It's nice. You know, maybe maybe I'll might
Speaker 1: go blue. I haven't decided yet. I think blue might
Speaker 1: go well because it's gonna be fall in Colorado. But
Speaker 1: we'll see. We'll see. Is Dylan sharing like um ideas
Speaker 1: with you of what he's gonna wear? Yeah, no he's not.
Speaker 1: But I can definitely get some inspell from you guys
Speaker 1: once I see the pictures come out, we get the
Speaker 1: privilege of going after Oh I thought I directed at
Speaker 1: me too. I was like, I mean maybe Dylan talks
Speaker 1: to me about what he's gonna wear. Who knows? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think Dylan he typically texted what do you think
Speaker 1: of this? Tucks you though, but you know he did
Speaker 1: mission is Jared, did you haven't? Did you have like
Speaker 1: a jacket change? I heard Don't kind of likes like
Speaker 1: switching it up, so I could see him doing something
Speaker 1: and then just putting on another jocket or something going out. Yeah,
Speaker 1: a lot of guys do that. Were they'll like a
Speaker 1: buddy of mine wore blackjack, you know, full black talks
Speaker 1: to his wedding and then when after pictures he change
Speaker 1: into a white jacket with the black So yeah, you
Speaker 1: know't just a different jacket, Jane, but a lot of
Speaker 1: guys do you, you know, just like you guys you
Speaker 1: girls do where you change your dresses and you know
Speaker 1: it's a different look. You know, you gotta keep it,
Speaker 1: keep it spiffy. Yeah yeah, Kilan, are you is your
Speaker 1: second dress super bridle or is it like just like
Speaker 1: a formal dress or something or like a fun Ye? Yeah,
Speaker 1: the first one's very traditional and then the second one
Speaker 1: is just sexier. Yeah. But as we did pageants, so
Speaker 1: it's like, I think Paget's helped me a lot knowing
Speaker 1: I've worn all these other dresses, so now I'm going
Speaker 1: to do something completely different. Yeah, it helps, but then
Speaker 1: it sometimes it hurts me because I don't I feel
Speaker 1: like I'm all over the place with styles I like.
Speaker 1: And maybe it's just because I'm like looking at everybody
Speaker 1: else's weddings and stuff and I get lost with it.
Speaker 1: I'm like should I do this? And should I do this?
Speaker 1: And I'm like I should to figure out, like within
Speaker 1: like what do I actually like because it's easier for
Speaker 1: me to be like, Okay, this one's easy, it looks great,
Speaker 1: move on, but I need to like actually do things
Speaker 1: that I genuinely like versus looking the easy rout. But
Speaker 1: will you do more fittings before you start designing something? Um? Uh,
Speaker 1: I should probably figure that out. I I'm flying to
Speaker 1: this to the design meeting in like three weeks, I think,
Speaker 1: so I have three weeks to kind of figure it out.
Speaker 1: I guess yeah, it will all come together. So many things, well,
Speaker 1: you will figure it out. It's all gonna come together.
Speaker 1: I promise you all in that like there are so
Speaker 1: many things leading up in the last week, we're like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, we still to do this and that
Speaker 1: and that, blah blah blah, and it all comes together
Speaker 1: and it all works out and it's all wonderful. Were
Speaker 1: you guys like all big, like oh, like one day
Speaker 1: my wedding will look like this, or like was Ashley
Speaker 1: like that? Or Kaylin like have you always been like, oh,
Speaker 1: I like I am a big wedding peru or Ashley
Speaker 1: it was more like that. She's always kind of dreamed
Speaker 1: about where her wedding day was going to look like
Speaker 1: I just wanted to get married in Rhode Island, and
Speaker 1: all Ashley wanted was a venue that was indoors. But
Speaker 1: if you open the doors you could see the water,
Speaker 1: so I was like, I could do that. That's no problem.
Speaker 1: Rhode Island can supply that. And then once we got
Speaker 1: engaged and started talking about a wedding, I'm sure you
Speaker 1: guys have the same as that conversations where it was like, okay,
Speaker 1: do we do a big wedding or do we put
Speaker 1: a down payment on a house? So what the hell
Speaker 1: do we do? And then we you know, talked to
Speaker 1: the family and talked about us, and we decided to
Speaker 1: do a big wedding. And then you know, that's when
Speaker 1: we were looking at venues and hired our wedding planner
Speaker 1: and decided, okay, this is what we kind of we
Speaker 1: want like more of like a gat speed field to it.
Speaker 1: So that's where we went. Yeah, but you got both.
Speaker 1: You got the wedding and you got the house. I know. Well,
Speaker 1: yeah we did buy a house. I mean, yeah, it's
Speaker 1: a very nice house. I love our house. Yeah, I saw.
Speaker 1: The three of us are all kind of in that boat.
Speaker 1: We all have homes in the weddings. So we're doing book. Yeah,
Speaker 1: well look at us. Yeah, we're so we're adulting, guys.
Speaker 1: We're at great adulting by us. Although we do want
Speaker 1: a second house, Kalin, and but instead we're getting married,
Speaker 1: so that's a choice that we have to make. We've
Speaker 1: we've also run into that. Yeah, yeah, where would your
Speaker 1: second house be? I really just I just want to
Speaker 1: start getting in the real estate realm. It's not even
Speaker 1: like I want to live somewhere necessarily right now, like
Speaker 1: we love San Diego, but I just want to start
Speaker 1: like doing real estate and renting out and stuff like that,
Speaker 1: which I haven't done yet. So yeah, that's kind of
Speaker 1: how we are. We want to place in Colorado, but
Speaker 1: we're still unsure about what that means and if we're
Speaker 1: serious about it enough or not. But Hannah, I know
Speaker 1: you're from Alabama. How were you raised in Alabama? Yeah?
Speaker 1: How do you sound? Way you sound? I don't know. Um,
Speaker 1: it's always so funny when people are like, so why
Speaker 1: did you get rid of your accent? And I'm like,
Speaker 1: I never had, like this is my accent, Like I say, y'all,
Speaker 1: And I like, I think I do like more Southern
Speaker 1: things just in general. But yeah, I don't know. I'm
Speaker 1: from Birmingham, so I like Hannah be for examples from
Speaker 1: it's only like forty five minutes away. From me, but
Speaker 1: it's just that's how Alabama is. It's like you're like
Speaker 1: wherever I lived, like was Birmingham, and all my friends
Speaker 1: stuff like me just like normal, like not really an
Speaker 1: accent at all. And then you drive, you know, twenty
Speaker 1: minutes away and you're like roll toad, let's do it,
Speaker 1: and likely and my cousins and everything, like it's just
Speaker 1: such a different thing. My dad is very Southern though,
Speaker 1: like extremely southern. And then my mom, I think talks
Speaker 1: is kind of like me. So I don't know. I
Speaker 1: think it's how you end up talking. My friends very
Speaker 1: like they say, like a little like me. So we
Speaker 1: all say like a lot like a Valley Boys back.
Speaker 1: You guys were all in the same season, huh yeah yeah, wow,
Speaker 1: what a season? What a season? You anna b Kaitlyn obviously,
Speaker 1: Cassie Paitia. Wow, yep, what a crew. Damn. There are
Speaker 1: some like iconic like kind of people on there for sure. Yeah, Kitleen,
Speaker 1: were we in the same bunk room? Yeah? No, yes, yeah,
Speaker 1: I stopped above you. Yes, yes, yes, yes, yep, yep, yep, yep.
Speaker 1: Did we talk about it? I don't know if you
Speaker 1: and I talked about it or I was talking about it,
Speaker 1: definitely with Katie, who was also like Katie Moe, and
Speaker 1: I was talking about it with her. I don't know
Speaker 1: if I told you about I would like cry myself
Speaker 1: to sleep a lot of the nights, and I was
Speaker 1: like being like really quiet, and Katie was like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, I was crying myself to sleep too, So
Speaker 1: we like being silent, and I'm like and I like
Speaker 1: have a blanket over my head because I'm just like
Speaker 1: so like, like what am I doing? Or this isn't
Speaker 1: the beginning whenever I was kind of homesick or whatever.
Speaker 1: But I don't know, you had two roommates in there
Speaker 1: that were bawling their eyes out every night. I had
Speaker 1: no idea. So now that I'm thinking about it, I
Speaker 1: think you slept at the top. Katie slept next to you,
Speaker 1: and I slept below Kaye. I was below, so we
Speaker 1: slept next to each other. Are those rooms? I think
Speaker 1: I think Katie was above me. I don't know. We
Speaker 1: are in the same room. We were right next to
Speaker 1: each other. Hannah, So my brother not too long ago,
Speaker 1: we were like in the middle of lunch or something,
Speaker 1: and he stops lunch completely and he goes do you
Speaker 1: ever think how weird it is that you're marrying a
Speaker 1: person you met on a TV show. I was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's pretty weird. I guess do you have you ever
Speaker 1: had a family member say something similar to you where
Speaker 1: it's like, I can't believe you're married a guy you
Speaker 1: just met on on TV. I still think about it
Speaker 1: every single day, and Dylan and I like, we you
Speaker 1: have to like address address it or whatever, because it's
Speaker 1: not normal. I never thought for a billion years that
Speaker 1: I would like even be on a podcast with people
Speaker 1: that I had like seen on TV before like this.
Speaker 1: It's I'm still like very I don't know if the
Speaker 1: imposter syndrome is the right thing, But still, day to day,
Speaker 1: every single thing I do, even planning a wedding, like
Speaker 1: I have a hard time kind of catching up to
Speaker 1: it because it's just like and maybe it's just our
Speaker 1: age or maybe it's just the crazy life thing that
Speaker 1: happened to us, but like I still feel like I
Speaker 1: have to like slow down and be like, Okay, Hannah,
Speaker 1: who's like from Alabama, Like I'm still in my head.
Speaker 1: I'm like still my fifteen year old self, and I'm
Speaker 1: just experiencing all these crazy cool things, and I'm getting
Speaker 1: married to Dylan who I met on a show. It
Speaker 1: just makes I can't quite grasp it for some reason.
Speaker 1: But some days I'm just like, okay, just to slow
Speaker 1: down and like experience it because it's just it's crazy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we're very lucky. That's true. We are very lucky. I
Speaker 1: trust me. I feel the exact same way when people,
Speaker 1: you know, if they come into Audrey's and they're like, oh,
Speaker 1: this is like Jared, Tell this person doesn't know who
Speaker 1: you are, tell them like what it is, and then
Speaker 1: I'll go through the story. I'm like, well, like I
Speaker 1: was on Bachelor, ede and my wife was on Bachelor,
Speaker 1: and then I'll go through the whole story of like
Speaker 1: two minutes of it, and then I'll be like, Wow,
Speaker 1: that is fucking crazy. That's that's my love story right there.
Speaker 1: That's how it happened. That's the weirdest thing ever, because
Speaker 1: you're right handy. You just we're just living it. You know,
Speaker 1: we're very lucky and blessed, and it's crazy. You're just
Speaker 1: living And I got one more question before we let
Speaker 1: you go and get back to your life. Um, we
Speaker 1: were just talking about it before you joined the zoom call.
Speaker 1: We're talking. We're talking about prenuptial agreements. Are you guys
Speaker 1: gonna sign one? What do you think about them? Um?
Speaker 1: You know we should probably have a convoe So you
Speaker 1: haven't talked about it? No, No, but I will. No, Well,
Speaker 1: we kind of have. I think we are and this
Speaker 1: is and even just about this, I think we're both
Speaker 1: really big and too. Like he has his business, I
Speaker 1: have mine, and that's important at the end of the day.
Speaker 1: We I don't know, it's always just kind of like
Speaker 1: one of those like silly conversations, but like, I think
Speaker 1: we're pretty big into like even just how we spend
Speaker 1: now or buy homes together or whatever. We're not even married,
Speaker 1: but we kind of just do. Like he puts it
Speaker 1: in his portion, I put in mine, and I think
Speaker 1: that potentially it'll, like, you know, whatever we end up doing,
Speaker 1: we'll reflect that in some way or sort. I don't
Speaker 1: know what about y'all. My business manager asked. She was like,
Speaker 1: before you get married, we need to have this conversation.
Speaker 1: And I brought it up to Dean and he was like,
Speaker 1: absolutely not. It shows how much your business manager really
Speaker 1: sixteen Get him to sign a get him to sign
Speaker 1: it now. He needs to sign it now. I know
Speaker 1: we're six months away, but he needs to sign it
Speaker 1: right now. Yeah. I mean, I can see why someone
Speaker 1: would say that, and I can see why I would
Speaker 1: not want to sign one, but I don't. I'm not
Speaker 1: going to sign one. If you really want me to, Kayalen,
Speaker 1: of course I will sign it. Yeah. No, no, we did.
Speaker 1: We came to we talked about it, and I think
Speaker 1: we decided No. I'm in the same boat with Dean,
Speaker 1: where if Ashley was like, hey, I want you to
Speaker 1: sign a prenup but be like, yeah, that's fine. I mean, yeah,
Speaker 1: I could care less. Honestly. I think I'll bring it
Speaker 1: up to him and we'll see if it's like an
Speaker 1: easy combo and we're like, yeah, let's just have one.
Speaker 1: But I don't. I don't like the concept of it.
Speaker 1: I feel like even just that whole entire realm is
Speaker 1: so uncomfortable and kind of weird for some reason. But
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, I wish there's a way to have
Speaker 1: a conversation about stuff like business things or whatever where
Speaker 1: it's not like, oh, yeah, that means you're going to
Speaker 1: break up, like but yeah, yeah, yeah, you should secretly
Speaker 1: tape Dylan while you ask him the question and then
Speaker 1: just post it and then still the action to me
Speaker 1: asking him to sign a prenup. New viral TikTok, Yeah, viral,
Speaker 1: I bet too. My brother and his wife just signed
Speaker 1: a post up and that's kind of I think what
Speaker 1: sparked the whole conversation for us as well, was they,
Speaker 1: you know, now they're signing a post nup, which is
Speaker 1: an interesting thing, but it was kind of more of
Speaker 1: like a requirement from his wife's dad, who's her late dad,
Speaker 1: doesn't matter, but they're still signing a nuptial agreement. And
Speaker 1: it's just an interesting conversation because some people are really
Speaker 1: they swear by it, and some people just don't seem
Speaker 1: to care. So I don't know. Yes, we'll see. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'll add it to my list of things to run. Yeah,
Speaker 1: if you don't have enough on your list right now,
Speaker 1: we'll see. Well, Hannah, thank you so much for joining us.
Speaker 1: We really appreciate it. You're awesome. Please give it our
Speaker 1: love to Dylan as well. Tell the thanks for stopping by,
Speaker 1: and then you know, next episode we'll have Dean reveal
Speaker 1: where your wedding is. So sounds good, cool, but nonna
Speaker 1: thank you so much. Cool hang out. Yeah, we had
Speaker 1: a blast with you. Sorry you had to suffer through
Speaker 1: this hour, but we really appreciate you being here. We
Speaker 1: love you and Dylan both. I cannot wait to get
Speaker 1: wedding and spoke from him. Congrats you guys. Thanks. I
Speaker 1: wish Yaws was before ours so we could get inspoke
Speaker 1: from you. From you, but Jared will from your so
Speaker 1: perfect you think it's an accident. Ours is a month
Speaker 1: after you, guys, It's absolutely not all right. Thank you guys,
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