Speaker 1: What's up and welcome back to another episode of No
Speaker 1: Sealer's Podcast with your hosts Now fuck that with your
Speaker 1: low glasses.
Speaker 2: Malone, What I think you're not thinking anything of that?
Speaker 2: Like I think that we're we have a lot of emotion,
Speaker 2: So you're not thinking that comes into that.
Speaker 1: It's not, it's not. We think differently.
Speaker 3: We think, you know what, what you're not about to
Speaker 3: do is play in our faces.
Speaker 1: No, y'all feel and we think.
Speaker 3: No, that's true. I agree with that.
Speaker 1: And I'm not saying women are not intelligent. I'm not
Speaker 1: saying women are not educated or women are not smart.
Speaker 1: I'm saying we think y'all feel. It's more intuition.
Speaker 2: I mean, but I wasn't feeling it when I'm like, okay,
Speaker 2: you know, can you move something? And I just didn't
Speaker 2: say exactly what it was, but you know what I
Speaker 2: mean though.
Speaker 1: No, no, we don't know what you mean.
Speaker 2: But if okay, so if you know that we're putting
Speaker 2: some some we don't know what you can something here
Speaker 2: and we already talked about that.
Speaker 1: You can't put the math together to make you right.
Speaker 3: Yes you can.
Speaker 1: Sometimes you just have to be wrong. And I know
Speaker 1: that's virtually impossible for y'all.
Speaker 3: No, you know what, I'm being honest, keep it one hundred.
Speaker 3: I have been working on apologizing.
Speaker 2: Be wrong.
Speaker 3: Hey, if I'm wrong, I'm working on apologizing. Damn it.
Speaker 3: It's only it's only happened twice so far.
Speaker 1: So far, I've only been wrong far.
Speaker 3: Well, I'm saying, are you saying I haven't been wrong
Speaker 3: or no? Not, I've only been wrong. I'm saying, he's
Speaker 3: only apologized. I apologize like you only apologized. Probably probably
Speaker 3: the fuck. I'm being honest like I, Hey, I said it,
Speaker 3: even if it's wrong, I said it. I used to
Speaker 3: say like.
Speaker 2: That, what do you say?
Speaker 3: Oh my god? I used to say, what the fuck?
Speaker 3: Like I should stop calling you daddy because you really
Speaker 3: think you are my daddy? And I said, this is why.
Speaker 3: See let me stop. Don't be so mad at me
Speaker 3: talking about this.
Speaker 2: But fuck it.
Speaker 3: So I always used to tell people like I don't
Speaker 3: call my man daddy. I smember, I said, I ain't
Speaker 3: calling no daddy. Used to say that, And now I'm
Speaker 3: figuring out why Why I said that. It's because the
Speaker 3: nigga really thinks he's my daddy. I don't like it.
Speaker 3: Why are you shaking your hand. I don't like.
Speaker 1: It because a good relationship, like a good there is
Speaker 1: like one thing I don't want to do with no
Speaker 1: centers that turn into a bunch of fucking relationship. I
Speaker 1: hate them, I feel. Let me say this, you do
Speaker 1: take on the role of somebody's parents. You know, when
Speaker 1: it comes to Karen for your significant other, you your god.
Speaker 1: You become his mother. Your dude becomes your father. Now, yes,
Speaker 1: he's not your father in a sense that the only
Speaker 1: thing different y'all doing is fucking But you really want
Speaker 1: him to protect you if somebody gonna kick your ass.
Speaker 1: You want him to go out and provide for you.
Speaker 1: You want him to be your father. You don't want
Speaker 1: him to be anything else. Yes, you probably don't want
Speaker 1: to just have to listen, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: That's probably the one thing you don't want to have
Speaker 1: to do is just listen. You know, that's the one
Speaker 1: thing your father demands, like you have.
Speaker 4: To listening, right, So listen right, Like everything else is good.
Speaker 5: But when I gotta listen, that's where the.
Speaker 3: Problem on everything. No, But I'm telling you guys, I'm
Speaker 3: working on self, and I'm really proud of myself. I
Speaker 3: used to be like fucking whatever. Yeah, and even though
Speaker 3: and honestly, I know, like if I really care about you,
Speaker 3: like I know that really would fuck with me later,
Speaker 3: But in that moment, it's like, so what and that's bad,
Speaker 3: Like that's really bad. So I've really been talking to myself.
Speaker 3: I know, like, look, girl, you can't be doing that,
Speaker 3: like if you really let this man, you can't be
Speaker 3: doing that. Right now, I can see it.
Speaker 1: Okay, relax, Jesus Christ.
Speaker 3: What you want us to open up? Right? You know
Speaker 3: it's just you know, no, but it's true, like you
Speaker 3: have to work on self, like you can't really put
Speaker 3: everything off on the other person. And I'm starting to
Speaker 3: like I never really did it like that, but I'm
Speaker 3: starting to Well, let's say I didn't see that I
Speaker 3: was doing that like that, I didn't see that I
Speaker 3: was doing certain things. Well, clearly, I didn't see that
Speaker 3: I need to differentiate the dresser from the nightstand when
Speaker 3: clearly I didn't.
Speaker 2: Know that people also put clothes in nightstands. I mean
Speaker 2: underwear and stuff for socks. But you know, I don't know.
Speaker 1: Are they are those two things not articles of clothes?
Speaker 2: They are they are? I guess I'm just trying to
Speaker 2: figure out how I'm right here you're not. I know,
Speaker 2: I know you're not right, and I be really trying
Speaker 2: to find the logic, you know, I'll be trying to
Speaker 2: find the logic in why I'm telling you this, Like
Speaker 2: you know why I'm saying. You don't understand what I'm saying,
Speaker 2: Like I'm really trying to be like, girl, you are right.
Speaker 2: And then when I hear other men and you guys
Speaker 2: are thinking the same way.
Speaker 6: I mean, we're just thinking you're supposed to be able to, like,
Speaker 6: you know, understand, like pick it up, like I know
Speaker 6: what she means.
Speaker 2: Why you can't just say, baby, I know what you mean.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna move, I'm gonna move the nightstand and you know,
Speaker 2: so that everything's good, I know what you mean?
Speaker 3: Why? Why why you just can't do that?
Speaker 4: What if he didn't know though, What if he moves
Speaker 4: the wrong thing and you, like, I wasn't talking about that,
Speaker 4: which happens.
Speaker 2: That's true, that does happen.
Speaker 5: He's trying to take initiative.
Speaker 2: This was very clear, though, because we have something that's
Speaker 2: going in that area.
Speaker 1: It's not clear you felt like it was I did.
Speaker 2: I felt like it was clear, and so you know,
Speaker 2: I don't know why. I just get so frustrated though,
Speaker 2: like it really like not frustrated, but like it really
Speaker 2: like hurts my feelings to where I'm like, he just
Speaker 2: like trying to like pick and it's was supposed to
Speaker 2: be like a good day. Like that's the part that
Speaker 2: just makes me upset. So then I'm like, I'm not
Speaker 2: about to deal with this, you know.
Speaker 3: So that's the defense. That's the defense ascidism that we have,
Speaker 3: like we just be like fuck it.
Speaker 2: So I just was quiet, you know, He's like, you
Speaker 2: do nothing to say. No, I don't have nothing to say,
Speaker 2: you know, not.
Speaker 1: Just say my bad baby, I'm meant the nights.
Speaker 2: Then I did. I think I did, but it was
Speaker 2: just like a point that needed to be proven. Yes,
Speaker 2: I did know you didn't I probably didn't.
Speaker 1: Just listen, listen, we went over this right, let tell you,
Speaker 1: because you're about to cry and ship up taking all.
Speaker 1: I'm not even upset or I'm not laughing. Seriously, even
Speaker 1: though we may have a standoff moment, like with y'all,
Speaker 1: it's not like a real fight. It's not the end
Speaker 1: of the world. Sometimes you could wear it that way.
Speaker 1: As a woman right that it's not the point of it.
Speaker 1: We've talked about this on the other No Seilings podcast.
Speaker 1: This is No Seilings. G L Way did the intro
Speaker 1: Red Red, what's up?
Speaker 3: What's going on? You got that counseling session going. It's
Speaker 3: just flying my.
Speaker 1: Man six k through the spot six what's up, yo?
Speaker 5: What's happening?
Speaker 1: Thank you for fopping in. So look, the clinical definition
Speaker 1: of listen and here to hear is to acknowledge the
Speaker 1: sound sound right. So when sometimes we talk to women
Speaker 1: right and I know you're not listening, you're hearing me.
Speaker 1: So that's why you will respond with it sounds like
Speaker 1: you said. To listen is to list an end right
Speaker 1: right there. So sometimes when you when y'all be talking like,
Speaker 1: the reason he could react this way also is because
Speaker 1: there were other times you said something and that's not
Speaker 1: what the fuck you meant. Y'all have a real Ever
Speaker 1: since the original White Man can't Jump, y'all have this
Speaker 1: weird fucking way of talking where y'all feel like people
Speaker 1: supposed to know what the fuck y'all, I'm not thirsty.
Speaker 1: It doesn't mean I want a drink of water. It
Speaker 1: means that I'm thankful for like, bro, remember white man,
Speaker 1: that's women's thoughts. That's how y'all feel about things. You
Speaker 1: want people to communicate with how you feel about something
Speaker 1: or how you acknowledge it versus what actually it is.
Speaker 1: And then we come to a place to where we clash.
Speaker 1: And instead of sometimes y'all just saying, hey, I'm wrong,
Speaker 1: my bad, baby, I don't know how I mix the
Speaker 1: two up, not acting like he's wrong for not understanding
Speaker 1: what the fuck you're talking about. I know that's not right.
Speaker 1: And instead of you saying, hey, my bad, I'm you
Speaker 1: know shit, I don't really stinguish difference. I meant the nightstand.
Speaker 1: It's like you'll have an attitude cause because be like, Yo,
Speaker 1: what the fuck are you talking about? Why am I
Speaker 1: moving a dresser?
Speaker 7: I know?
Speaker 2: And it just sounds so close you know, No, it's
Speaker 2: just talking about it is like okay, damn, okay, I
Speaker 2: fucked up.
Speaker 1: You know you didn't fuck up. It's not that serious.
Speaker 2: It's not that serious. But I just really was like,
Speaker 2: you really are just not trying to understand. You know
Speaker 2: what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: You are not speaking English, it's not he's not trying
Speaker 1: to understand you're not speaking English, like you're not speaking
Speaker 1: about You're not speaking English. I don't speak Asia. I
Speaker 1: don't speak Red. Oh god, we don't know Red. That's
Speaker 1: not we don't know you. We don't know the language
Speaker 1: that is read language. We wasn't educated to that. We
Speaker 1: were all educated because in English, regular traditional English, and
Speaker 1: you can even throw in a little bit of slang
Speaker 1: like motherfucker, motherfucker could be a thousand different things, but
Speaker 1: we know what all them motherfuckers mean. So sometimes we're
Speaker 1: not It's not we don't want to understand you, nigga,
Speaker 1: you are not speaking English.
Speaker 3: Okay, Oh yeah, I know me and shit, Like I
Speaker 3: told you guys, I've been doing good, so I'm gonna
Speaker 3: keep on trying.
Speaker 1: That's it's all to come down to, is trying, right,
Speaker 1: You just gotta try. So what was all my brain was?
Speaker 1: And it's funny because this is kind of what this
Speaker 1: is about. The irony. Right, you just literally had a
Speaker 1: discussion that you're making like you had an argument. You didn't.
Speaker 1: You just overreacting a little bit. But your woman is
Speaker 1: your right to feel, but a woman's pride, right. I
Speaker 1: was telling my niece that she didn't need pride. A
Speaker 1: woman doesn't need pride. She was like, of course we
Speaker 1: need fucking pride. And I told my homegirl she didn't
Speaker 1: need pride. Of course I need pride, right, Pride is
Speaker 1: the over sensationalized you know, joy from accomplishment, you know,
Speaker 1: I mean roughly roughly right, that's the definition of joy
Speaker 1: as the creator and the birth of all things. Like,
Speaker 1: I just don't think you know, women are the creator
Speaker 1: and they birth all things? What the fuck would you
Speaker 1: need pride for? And a pride for woman is an
Speaker 1: independent woman? Now, not an independent woman could that take
Speaker 1: care of herself? Every adult takes care of themselves, most
Speaker 1: of them. If you've grown ups an adult, because you
Speaker 1: could be an adult, not be grown Every grown person
Speaker 1: takes care of themselves. But the independent woman is a
Speaker 1: woman that brags about providing for herself. That's a pride
Speaker 1: for women. Why the fuck would you be bragging that
Speaker 1: you put a roof over your own head. You're fucking adult,
Speaker 1: you're grown up. How the fuck would you not put
Speaker 1: a roof over your fucking own head? You just sleeping
Speaker 1: in the box.
Speaker 2: Well, I mean it's also to say for the women
Speaker 2: that aren't, you know, they're you know, taking somebody else's
Speaker 2: money and spending their money, and you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 2: like they're not doing it for theirselves. That's also to
Speaker 2: I guess, you know, to tell them like, hey, you know,
Speaker 2: I'm independent. I don't need a nigga or I don't
Speaker 2: need a man, or I don't need this other woman
Speaker 2: or this person to do anything for me. Because a
Speaker 2: lot of people feel like if they're taking care of me,
Speaker 2: then I need to stay or do what it is
Speaker 2: that they want, you know, me to do. And so
Speaker 2: that's just pretty much like I can do what I
Speaker 2: want to do because I pay my own way, so you.
Speaker 7: Know, but.
Speaker 1: All adults, all grown ups do not.
Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, all grown ups do. But it's just different,
Speaker 3: like I don't know, people tend to feel like women
Speaker 3: you know, shouldn't like like just said it, shouldn't have
Speaker 3: pride or shouldn't want to say what they're doing or
Speaker 3: whatever or put out there that.
Speaker 1: And I need more because you just didn't even say nothing.
Speaker 3: No, I'm just saying that it does.
Speaker 1: What do you mean you did? You just did not
Speaker 1: speaking English, I was talking about that said a bunch
Speaker 1: of nothing and put it together like it was a
Speaker 1: fucking formulated sentence because that wasn't a sentence because you
Speaker 1: are not making sense. You didn't say.
Speaker 3: I'm saying, like, what is the problem with about not
Speaker 3: being Why a woman shouldn't have to have pride? Like
Speaker 3: I don't.
Speaker 1: Why do you need the sense to brag about accomplishing?
Speaker 1: But I should anyone men have to because we are
Speaker 1: not the birth. We didn't birth the fucking universe. Okay,
Speaker 1: but so literally we don't make everything, so pride is
Speaker 1: so this is crazy, right, So in the streets you
Speaker 1: need pride because that becomes your most value stock, reputation
Speaker 1: and pride, you know what I mean, how other men
Speaker 1: could treat you. You know what I mean, the things
Speaker 1: that people know about you determines what you can go
Speaker 1: out and get accomplished. Like if niggas know that I
Speaker 1: stood up for myself and I did whatever that person
Speaker 1: had to do, that may stop this situation from happening.
Speaker 1: This beef right, if little do dirty them from top
Speaker 1: of the roof, crip gang, if they know that old
Speaker 1: Glasses got into it with them, he fucked this nigga
Speaker 1: over stood up for itself. God is money and he
Speaker 1: left this person from white wall Crip may not try
Speaker 1: to steal from me. That's the point of pride. It
Speaker 1: determines how I earn the next time. Prime example, when
Speaker 1: the music business. As a up and coming artist, you
Speaker 1: don't need pride. You really need to be humble and
Speaker 1: willing to learn from however motherfuckers want to teach you.
Speaker 1: I didn't know that neither. But in the streets you
Speaker 1: need your pride. Women, what do you need your pride for?
Speaker 1: Like what type of man do you get? Because you're independent?
Speaker 1: Who the fuck cares you think somebody? You think a
Speaker 1: nigga ever said, man, she take care of herself. She's
Speaker 1: a batter beast than other business.
Speaker 3: A lot of niggas right now are saying that because
Speaker 3: they don't want to take care of females. I'm so
Speaker 3: tired of that, Like that conversation, always bringing it well,
Speaker 3: you put in all the tam time, like what people
Speaker 3: bring to the table. It all just comes back to that,
Speaker 3: Like it's just.
Speaker 1: The nigga who started that conversation looked like a homosexual man.
Speaker 3: He did that, yeah, but everything that he said was
Speaker 3: pretty much like he didn't even value a woman at all, period,
Speaker 3: Like she couldn't do really anything for him. So that's
Speaker 3: why I was.
Speaker 1: Like, yeah, I don't think he does.
Speaker 3: I don't think he values at all.
Speaker 1: Tangible things are one thing, right, but what value can
Speaker 1: be for a woman is different. That's why I've been
Speaker 1: saying forever that conversation is weird, because like, what do
Speaker 1: you mean what does a woman bring to the table?
Speaker 5: Nigga?
Speaker 1: Do you like the bitch?
Speaker 7: Work?
Speaker 3: Right?
Speaker 1: If you like her? The fuck? What the fuck are
Speaker 1: you talking about? What does she bring to the table?
Speaker 1: You like her, That's why you want to take care
Speaker 1: of her, That's why you want to be in a
Speaker 1: relationship with her. You feel like she is somebody you
Speaker 1: want around you. The fuck are you doing a fucking
Speaker 1: like is this a corporate takeover?
Speaker 3: That's what I didn't understand for me, Like I always
Speaker 3: felt like a man would say, like you guys said
Speaker 3: all the time, like I want a home cook meal.
Speaker 3: I want a woman that don't give me no headache,
Speaker 3: like you know what I mean, Like I'll be able.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 3: I just didn't understand that for him to say, like
Speaker 3: the whole what do you bring to the table? I mean,
Speaker 3: if that person coming she's doing that, then she's bringing
Speaker 3: something well.
Speaker 2: He was just dominate, trying to dominate the conversation to
Speaker 2: me because he basically, you know, she's like, well, I
Speaker 2: cook a meal and I can clean the house.
Speaker 1: Turn the house into a home.
Speaker 2: Yeah exactly, I turned the house to a home. And
Speaker 2: he's like, oh, I can I could pay for.
Speaker 1: That, can get paid that number because it was a lot.
Speaker 1: I was like, that is not going to be a month.
Speaker 1: No mother, we're cooking, no motherfucking that many meals for
Speaker 1: hundred dollars a week. You must be going to get
Speaker 1: there from Mexico. And I don't think you get it
Speaker 1: done from there. The ain't not. You can't get that
Speaker 1: from home depot. They charged.
Speaker 3: They charged a lot.
Speaker 1: Now, yeah, my fuck crazy. But that was my point.
Speaker 1: That's why it doesn't matter, Like there's no reason to
Speaker 1: brag that you're an independent woman. Hints back to my
Speaker 1: digress to my original point of pride the.
Speaker 2: Pride I mean, but not every woman is saying that
Speaker 2: they're prideful because they're independent women.
Speaker 1: I'm just giving you one, okay, because.
Speaker 2: I'm going to say, you know, there's I mean, so
Speaker 2: many other things that women are are prideful for, but
Speaker 2: some of those women that are. I mean, you prideful
Speaker 2: because you know you are college educated, or because your
Speaker 2: parents are you know, from a certain community or whatnot.
Speaker 2: You're you're just prideful of where you come from, you know.
Speaker 2: But it doesn't mean to say like the women that
Speaker 2: are prideful that they take care of theirself like you
Speaker 2: don't know or we don't know their situation where they
Speaker 2: came from. I mean they may have you know, been
Speaker 2: out on the streets and you know, was hoeing or
Speaker 2: you know, had to do this or do that, and
Speaker 2: here it is now they're like, okay, I'm not going
Speaker 2: to put myself in that situation again to where I
Speaker 2: can't take care of myself. So that's all they know
Speaker 2: is to say, okay, I can do this, I can
Speaker 2: do this on my own, because probably everybody that they,
Speaker 2: you know, trusted in their life was like, okay, well
Speaker 2: you can't count on me yet or if you're if
Speaker 2: you are, then you need to do this, this, this
Speaker 2: and that. So you know, a lot of those women
Speaker 2: that are prideful from being independent. A lot of them,
Speaker 2: I don't think that they're coming up in certain situations
Speaker 2: like I think most of them have come from more
Speaker 2: of a struggle, I think, and or you know, seeing
Speaker 2: a struggle, and so they're just I could pay my
Speaker 2: own bills, I could you know, I could do this,
Speaker 2: I could do that, And that's all they know. And
Speaker 2: it's there'sn't a man or maybe they father somebody like
Speaker 2: you know, so apologize that should happen.
Speaker 1: So then don't you need at that point, then yes,
Speaker 1: you don't need pride, you need therapy.
Speaker 3: Okay, you might need therapy, but I mean I think
Speaker 3: that that's a valid point, Like that's the reason why
Speaker 3: they most of the time would be pridefle So.
Speaker 1: Then you need therapy. Goes to the point like, listen,
Speaker 1: do you think a wealthy woman is successful?
Speaker 2: A wealthy woman is successful? I mean that depends on
Speaker 2: what her success is.
Speaker 3: She could be well, I mean wealthy and.
Speaker 2: Doesn't mean she's successful.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna show you the difference. Six is a wealthy
Speaker 1: man successful? Ye?
Speaker 3: What's the difference? Now?
Speaker 1: You see we didn't have to think about it. We
Speaker 1: didn't give a fuck what he did, because that's our
Speaker 1: measurement of success is what we go out and build
Speaker 1: in this world as builders. Right, I think a woman's success,
Speaker 1: I think more women will be Michelle Obama than Oprah.
Speaker 1: I think traumatized women will want to be open. Somebody
Speaker 1: who grew up poor, somebody who grew up not knowing
Speaker 1: their fathers all the But that's my plot. I think
Speaker 1: that's it. I think most women want to have a
Speaker 1: successful husband, a healthy family, blah blah blah. Now maybe
Speaker 1: that's a bit traditional in value, but ain't that where
Speaker 1: we plan from? Because outside of that, then why would
Speaker 1: I put my jacket on the ground over a puddle
Speaker 1: of water for you? Why am I opening your door first?
Speaker 3: A lot of women right now they are searching for that.
Speaker 3: They are searching for a lasting relationship right now, Like
Speaker 3: I look like you know me, All I do is
Speaker 3: observe stuff, and a lot of women's Like I don't
Speaker 3: know why everybody keeps saying that they don't want to
Speaker 3: get married, they don't want to share their life with
Speaker 3: someone or have a healthy relationship. Like I see it
Speaker 3: all the time, So I know there's people out there,
Speaker 3: and then like I talk to my friends, like the
Speaker 3: ones that are single, and they do want that, Like
Speaker 3: there's a lot of women that really want that. It's
Speaker 3: just like I don't. I don't really, I don't blame
Speaker 3: the other sex either. I mean, I don't know where are.
Speaker 2: I think that the longer you're single, though, and you're old,
Speaker 2: and you're older as a woman, you get set in
Speaker 2: your like you're really setting your ways, and that is
Speaker 2: a different type of pride that comes about, because you know,
Speaker 2: it's not just about being independent, that pride of okay,
Speaker 2: I couldn't say okay, my you know, my bad babe,
Speaker 2: like I knew it was the dresser, you know, So
Speaker 2: then it makes it. You may want that relation ship,
Speaker 2: but you don't want to change or you don't even
Speaker 2: know how to change those things, to break down those
Speaker 2: walls so you can allow yourself to be with the
Speaker 2: man or for them to come to even come in
Speaker 2: because you have your your guard up so much. And
Speaker 2: then maybe that's where the I'm independent, where I don't know,
Speaker 2: I don't want no man come and living on me,
Speaker 2: you know, living this and this and that, and it's like,
Speaker 2: why don't you just try to get to know each
Speaker 2: other first? But you you always block it because you know,
Speaker 2: So I have my friends that I'm like, man, they're
Speaker 2: awesome women, but I know that they're really like stuck
Speaker 2: in these ways and they don't. They don't want to change,
Speaker 2: you know, they feel like this is how I am.
Speaker 2: I'm independent, I take care of myself, you know. And yeah,
Speaker 2: their their pride is causing them to be single.
Speaker 1: So it's something you said right in the middle of
Speaker 1: that where you were saying that they have their guards up.
Speaker 1: What are you protecting?
Speaker 3: Man?
Speaker 2: You feel like you're protecting your your heart and you're like,
Speaker 2: I'm a foss right now, like I you know, so
Speaker 2: this is not what I want to.
Speaker 1: Give you know what I'm saying right now because you're emotional.
Speaker 2: In my like when you're as far as like you know,
Speaker 2: talking to my like you said, okay, you have your
Speaker 2: guards up.
Speaker 1: So what like what does your guard need to be
Speaker 1: up right now? When you just should have said, hey,
Speaker 1: my bad, I meant the.
Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't know. It was just like
Speaker 2: maybe I felt attacked and even though like I'm like, dang,
Speaker 2: you just coming to start a problem, like that's what
Speaker 2: I'm doing.
Speaker 3: Can ask your question? Was it the tone?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 4: That be it?
Speaker 3: So that and that's saying like the problem like you
Speaker 3: may say some ship that may that tone is a
Speaker 3: motherfucker because you could say.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's of listening, you're hearing.
Speaker 3: See I'm telling you what it is. It's the tone.
Speaker 3: So she heard the tone and she's like she felt like, Okay,
Speaker 3: he's attacking.
Speaker 2: And I'm like, I'm you know what I'm saying, like
Speaker 2: what was the attack?
Speaker 1: Like where was the where was the blow on your what?
Speaker 1: Where was the blow like on your what? Like like
Speaker 1: when somebody attacks you, Like where was he attacking?
Speaker 2: Like, I mean, my energy, pride, it was, That's all
Speaker 2: it was.
Speaker 1: And it was foolish.
Speaker 2: It was really foolish, Like.
Speaker 1: You know, I don't know the difference, my stupid ass,
Speaker 1: because it's probably the truth. I meant the nice.
Speaker 2: Dance my bad right right, That's exactly what I could have, did,
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. So you know, when I
Speaker 2: get home, that was something that I like, I just
Speaker 2: needed to take that time. But I don't want to
Speaker 2: have to take that time, like I should just be
Speaker 2: able to say my bad, you know what I'm saying. So,
Speaker 2: and that doesn't happen all the time, because I you
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying, I do do that, but it
Speaker 2: doesn't make it a lot. It doesn't.
Speaker 1: That like it happens a lot because it's I'm telling
Speaker 1: you it's a functionality, and I do think maybe it
Speaker 1: is because you know, when you necessarily haven't been with
Speaker 1: somebody else, or.
Speaker 7: Or you just you've you've had different experiences in your life,
Speaker 7: like your past relationships or your past experiences. Of course
Speaker 7: you don't want to bring them into your relationship, but
Speaker 7: just period how you grew up, all of those things
Speaker 7: play a part of who I am today.
Speaker 2: So it's just really just working on self and having
Speaker 2: you know, a partner that okay, you know, I understand that,
Speaker 2: and that where sometimes you need that toad to say, Okay,
Speaker 2: I didn't say my bad, but you already know what
Speaker 2: I'm what I mean okay, but you did it. Okay,
Speaker 2: but now here we are, and did I say I
Speaker 2: say oh the dresser. I didn't say it the way
Speaker 2: I didn't. I didn't apologize, you know, But why can't you,
Speaker 2: as my man, what to to just let's just cut it.
Speaker 2: Just you know what, babe, I got it.
Speaker 3: I know what you mean.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna do it.
Speaker 1: Okay. When you say my man, what does that mean?
Speaker 1: Because that's really important When you say my.
Speaker 2: Man, my my, my, my other half, my like okay,
Speaker 2: when you're down.
Speaker 1: I feel like you have the other half when you
Speaker 1: say your man no, because it's really important. Sometimes we
Speaker 1: say shit and we use words. Do you know what
Speaker 1: these words really mean? When you say my m a
Speaker 1: n man, not my woman, not your bread, not your daughter,
Speaker 1: not your daughter, not your motherfucking mom, your man? It's
Speaker 1: really important because your man. Yeah, my men know what
Speaker 1: that means when you're saying that, right, But I mean
Speaker 1: he's not going to handle it like a woman.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, And that's why I said, talking to other men,
Speaker 2: I'm like, damn, like you guys just really think differently than.
Speaker 1: How we don't think, think or feel how y'all feel.
Speaker 2: It's true, it's really, it's true. And I mean I
Speaker 2: think that, I mean, as women like you need that
Speaker 2: from us, Like that's the emotional side that you know.
Speaker 2: So at that moment, if you know that's where I'm at,
Speaker 2: then why don't you think think is that you think?
Speaker 2: Just say I know this is what she means? Let
Speaker 2: me just.
Speaker 1: You gotta you can't assume we know what you're talking about.
Speaker 1: You don't fucking really know. You don't y'all don't be
Speaker 1: fucking speaking english Man. Sometimes y'all just will say some
Speaker 1: shit and it don't got nothing to do with this shit.
Speaker 1: And it might be four dresses in here, three dresses
Speaker 1: in there, and we're not supposed to move, no dresses,
Speaker 1: and I don't know what the fuck is going on, y'all.
Speaker 1: Y'all just and this is the thing, y'all just assume women,
Speaker 1: assume that we know what you're talking about. Don't nobody
Speaker 1: fucking know what y'all be talking about? Man, y'all get
Speaker 1: up this lady. We talked about it the other day.
Speaker 1: She was talking about some they asked everyone when she
Speaker 1: date a bus driver. She's like, well, if he owned
Speaker 1: the bus, it's like, no, a bus driver, and she
Speaker 1: was like, that's a regular, that's average. I don't want
Speaker 1: to know average man. And then when she started backing up, well,
Speaker 1: y'all know what I meant. No, we fucking don't know
Speaker 1: what you meant, lady.
Speaker 7: We know.
Speaker 1: The words you used, and I think it's just a
Speaker 1: little irresponsible at times, which y'all, but I'm not. I
Speaker 1: do agree that it is a balance of emotional and thought,
Speaker 1: and they both come from the brain.
Speaker 5: You know.
Speaker 1: But thinking is where you process things that are said,
Speaker 1: you know, you list them and you in. That's listening.
Speaker 1: Thinking is all the same. Feeling is what you're talking about,
Speaker 1: Feel what I'm saying, Imagine what I could mean, And
Speaker 1: that shit is fucked up because you know, we don't.
Speaker 1: We didn't grow up in that world of imagination like y'all.
Speaker 1: We didn't grow up dreaming of a castle where we
Speaker 1: got put away fairy tale. There's no male fairy tales
Speaker 1: right like as six. That's dropping the responsibility on us
Speaker 1: all the time, NonStop. Dang don't we don't have fairy tales?
Speaker 1: What's a male fucking fairy tale story? Everyone is about love.
Speaker 1: That's not what we were raised. We wasn't raised about love.
Speaker 1: We wasn't We didn't get dolls and shit. We didn't
Speaker 1: get the imagination of being a parent one day. We
Speaker 1: didn't get a you know, we got real linemowers. We
Speaker 1: didn't get a fake an easy bakeup.
Speaker 3: There's no.
Speaker 1: We got prepared for reality and y'all got prepared for fantasy.
Speaker 1: And then we try to mesh them because at the
Speaker 1: same fucking time, we try to mess reality and imaginary
Speaker 1: at the same time, and we try to meshing together.
Speaker 1: And then we understand it's not like one of the
Speaker 1: other fault. It's just somebody having to care about what
Speaker 1: this person is going through. But you also have to
Speaker 1: be cognitive. A lot of men, maybe even yours, is
Speaker 1: not cognitive of what's really going on. Like he really like,
Speaker 1: what's wrong with your function? Like, bro, what's your malfunction?
Speaker 1: Like versus me? Where I am a more like this
Speaker 1: motherfucker not thinking wrong? Yeah, like what's your problems? I mean,
Speaker 1: head is like that head cannot capture a woman's imagination.
Speaker 1: It drives him crazy. And I'm like, you have to
Speaker 1: remove yourself from just yourself and then put yourself into
Speaker 1: where they at. Head is like the head, his head
Speaker 1: has no imagination at all, and so when he talks
Speaker 1: to a woman, they always clash because soon as they
Speaker 1: come into that world of fantasy. He like, the best
Speaker 1: thing is to do is put him in their castle
Speaker 1: that used to be his expression. Put him in that castle,
Speaker 1: lock them up in their castle, let them at the tower.
Speaker 1: The problem is sometimes they want you in the motherfucker
Speaker 1: with them. And that's what I tell him. Sometimes if
Speaker 1: you don't learn how the castle work, if you just
Speaker 1: like put you you could build a woman in a
Speaker 1: castle and toss her up in that motherfucker. If you
Speaker 1: not in there with her, she's gonna sneak another nigga
Speaker 1: in there.
Speaker 3: It's gonna be a problem.
Speaker 1: So it really comes down to those things. So every
Speaker 1: man doesn't have an imagination, but he's still a man,
Speaker 1: you know, just because he ain't super extra. You're supposed
Speaker 1: to nurture, right, can't nurture your foolishness all the time?
Speaker 1: Only some of us?
Speaker 3: Only some of us.
Speaker 1: Yeah, see, some of us do nurture woman's foolishness for real,
Speaker 1: Like some of us do we like some I know
Speaker 1: some dudes man who literally will tell women to put
Speaker 1: on makeup, put in weaves, go get this, go get that.
Speaker 1: The men will nurture their foolishness. Put on that makeup,
Speaker 1: you look good. It's like, what are you looking at.
Speaker 3: Bro Click that I got that dressed for you.
Speaker 1: Think about it. Some niggas love like like like some
Speaker 1: niggas love lingerie and like, y'all tell me what about something?
Speaker 1: Y'all talking to me about? What's that ship with? What
Speaker 1: role playing a nurture broke?
Speaker 3: Wait? Wait, you know that that was his ship? I
Speaker 3: didn't that wasn't he put me onto that? I wasn't
Speaker 3: the yeah you know what happened?
Speaker 1: What was y'all role play? Tell me? I mean, it
Speaker 1: ain't not nasty or nothing about so y'all could have
Speaker 1: gotten nasty, but it's not nasty.
Speaker 3: No, it was just like the like the naughties school
Speaker 3: teacher ship. It wasn't nothing like crazy. But it was
Speaker 3: just still funny to me because I ain't never done
Speaker 3: no sh like. I was like, really, you won't do that?
Speaker 1: Yeah, how did you like it?
Speaker 3: I mean it was cool. It was fun. I was
Speaker 3: a little tipsy, so it was cool.
Speaker 1: Did you think different? Tell the true? Don't lie? You
Speaker 1: could tell one time?
Speaker 3: Okay, but I mean it was fun. It was different.
Speaker 3: But what's bro? What was? What was? It was just
Speaker 3: he first of all, he bought it already. It was
Speaker 3: I didn't buy the ship, I said, And he had
Speaker 3: a toy?
Speaker 2: What for him?
Speaker 3: For me?
Speaker 2: Oh what? Okay, that's that's better.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so pretty much that's what it was. So he's like,
Speaker 3: I got something for you know, So you got all
Speaker 3: dressed up and he know, so we went, you know,
Speaker 3: when did our regular day like when to go out
Speaker 3: to eat everything like that? And we got y'all like
Speaker 3: we had like a nice ass room and ship and
Speaker 3: he had like this stuff on the bend. I'm like,
Speaker 3: what's that. He's like, oh, that's your surprise.
Speaker 2: What's this?
Speaker 3: And it was like, you know, my my outfit and
Speaker 3: this little toy. And I'm just like, oh, she's sick.
Speaker 1: You're doing the sick like a good.
Speaker 5: Well I'm stuck here now. Yeah as well, drug, I didn't.
Speaker 3: I didn't plan that, though I did it, but I
Speaker 3: didn't plan.
Speaker 1: That's definitely a woman's thing to plant it, like like
Speaker 1: role player would be a woman's thing.
Speaker 3: That's what I would think. I didn't.
Speaker 2: You was the role player, right, he adding, like a
Speaker 2: naughty like.
Speaker 1: Stupid school boy.
Speaker 2: Yeah was he?
Speaker 3: Like I was just he was. I was just doing
Speaker 3: all the talking and you were, you know, like.
Speaker 1: Tell me like for example, I mean, this is not
Speaker 1: going to turn me on it. That's weird, but just
Speaker 1: so I can know you made the right standings.
Speaker 3: Did like I sweat his haim with a ruler.
Speaker 1: Shatt his bottom.
Speaker 2: Bottom?
Speaker 1: You are playing in this trust you just don't never
Speaker 1: tell me planted. I swear you sweat his bottom.
Speaker 2: But you know, off like how was he laying?
Speaker 3: What?
Speaker 2: How was he laying.
Speaker 1: Did he bend over on the bed on his stomach.
Speaker 5: With his feet kicked up in the air?
Speaker 3: Better, No, it was like up in the air.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah it was.
Speaker 5: He was twiddling his feet when he was spanking.
Speaker 3: Just No, he wasn't. But I did. I did, he
Speaker 3: was I did spank him.
Speaker 4: He liked it.
Speaker 1: Just spik my bottom.
Speaker 3: I said, you've been naughty, and.
Speaker 1: You felt different about itself.
Speaker 5: But she ain't talk to him no more.
Speaker 1: That was it. She ain't never talked. She probably thought
Speaker 1: it was fun at first she thought about it, and
Speaker 1: then she thought about it six it.
Speaker 3: Was like, that's exactly what happened. That's exactly what happened.
Speaker 3: It was cool, you know, you you know, and then
Speaker 3: thinking I'm like, na, he keep doing every time you're
Speaker 3: something weirder, and are you doing something weird? I'm just
Speaker 3: I was over it. But you know, yeah, that was
Speaker 3: an experience.
Speaker 1: So you would like that that that that you think
Speaker 1: that's fun.
Speaker 2: I think that would be fun to.
Speaker 1: So if he came with that whole lady.
Speaker 2: Man, I can't do it no more.
Speaker 1: But I mean, if your man wanted to do it,
Speaker 1: I know what. I'm sorry. We argued about the dress
Speaker 1: and a nice stand and he laid out a little
Speaker 1: school teacher out for you. He had on a little
Speaker 1: he had on a little cute hat, little school kid had.
Speaker 2: Yes, I would bro play for him, but meet him
Speaker 2: me spanking his ass and he's like, spank me. You know, no,
Speaker 2: he better not tell me to spake him.
Speaker 1: That's would have been like if he would have said,
Speaker 1: I know what you're talking about. That would have been
Speaker 1: like if you would have said, yea, I know what
Speaker 1: you talking about. Let me go move the right thing,
Speaker 1: he might as well bend over and got a spanking.
Speaker 1: That's exactly what would have.
Speaker 2: Been I guess so. But yeah, no, I would dress
Speaker 2: up for him, but definitely like.
Speaker 1: What if he wanted to dress up he didn't want you, I'm.
Speaker 3: Gonna say I would initiate it.
Speaker 2: Oh wait, him dressing up.
Speaker 1: See that guy just came home dressed like a little sailor.
Speaker 2: Oh I love him. So I'd be like, all right,
Speaker 2: this is we doing it?
Speaker 3: Okay, I don't believe it. I think she would. I
Speaker 3: think if they broke.
Speaker 1: Up, she'd be talking ship about that nigga for the
Speaker 1: rest of his life.
Speaker 2: I wouldn't tell you that.
Speaker 1: She wouldn't especially if y'all broke a baby, this nigga
Speaker 1: dressed up like a saint.
Speaker 3: I would not.
Speaker 2: I would I tell my homegirls.
Speaker 1: Though probably y'all are making a name for Gilligan. They'll
Speaker 1: make a name for They'll make a top secret name
Speaker 1: for him. Remember Gilligan.
Speaker 2: So many years, we got so many names. And you know,
Speaker 2: I'll be living vicariously through.
Speaker 3: Getting back out.
Speaker 1: But sometimes, like honestly, like I get it, like we
Speaker 1: do some of the best of us men. We like,
Speaker 1: there's nothing wrong with a man that's functioning just on
Speaker 1: man time. Right, It's like, I'm not fucking with that,
Speaker 1: because that's how head is the function. But that's how
Speaker 1: something you have to own masculinity before you step out
Speaker 1: of See, you got some people to me who don't
Speaker 1: own it. They just fucked up. But if you own it,
Speaker 1: like I'm not dressing up ever, I mean, the only
Speaker 1: fuck what you talking about? That just stupid. But I
Speaker 1: will cater to your irrational shit, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Like I saw something to that where like Kim Kardashian
Speaker 1: was like she was a single mom and talk about
Speaker 1: the struggles and say, bitch, you are not a single mom.
Speaker 1: You are a single woman, that's a mom. Yeah, Like
Speaker 1: you're not a single parent just because you're single with
Speaker 1: a child. It's literally unbelievable that you would say that
Speaker 1: about somebody's father who's trying to be present in their
Speaker 1: life because y'all not together. You're a single parent. You're
Speaker 1: not a fucking single parent. But that be that shit,
Speaker 1: and then you'll have a thousand motherfuckers in the comments
Speaker 1: catering to that irrational bullshit, Whereas like, just listen, but
Speaker 1: her feelings is she's a parent in the home by herself.
Speaker 1: So that makes me say, no, it doesn't fucking doesn't.
Speaker 1: This nigga is present in this kid's life. He wants
Speaker 1: to be involved. You don't want. Motherfucker's on tiktoks a
Speaker 1: thousand things he want that you ain't going with. So
Speaker 1: I just think, and that's really what this whole the irony,
Speaker 1: this whole comment, this God, this is God today. God
Speaker 1: got involved because for sure you and your pride dad
Speaker 1: was silly start a whole fight over you just not
Speaker 1: being correct. Now, I'm not saying I can see if
Speaker 1: you're like this nigga, not finna break up with you. You know,
Speaker 1: it's over. Now you don't know what to do in a dresser. See,
Speaker 1: sometimes that's how you react some situations.
Speaker 2: I can see women, you know, they just that way.
Speaker 2: It's over. It's so like it's devastating. It's like, oh
Speaker 2: my god.
Speaker 3: Like especially real good arguments, I'll be like, I ain't
Speaker 3: with this, see.
Speaker 1: What, Like what's a really good argument?
Speaker 3: You know what I'm talking about? Like those ones like
Speaker 3: I don't know a good one, like where you just
Speaker 3: really y'all both fired up me, y'all both just like.
Speaker 2: And it's always over the little.
Speaker 1: Because it's really functionality. The big things ain't crazy. Like
Speaker 1: that's how I am. I'm like a principal person. I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm not like you could run a car into a
Speaker 1: brick fucking wall and it won't be an argument, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. But when a fractured principle that
Speaker 1: will make you make the same mistake, that shit will
Speaker 1: drive me crazy. I'm like, hey, bro, you gotta fix that.
Speaker 1: That's just stupid. Or I just won't say nothing. See
Speaker 1: that's see the difference with me. And because it's I
Speaker 1: just won't say nothing, I'll just let you be just
Speaker 1: crazy on your own, you know what, I'm saying, like,
Speaker 1: because the corn the cornerstone what it all is. Sometimes
Speaker 1: you just can't argue because y'all don't argue, well, you
Speaker 1: don't debate, well, you just kind of get mad feelings hurt.
Speaker 1: Didn't say some raggedy shit.
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, That's why I don't. I don't argue anymore
Speaker 2: because my mouth is reckless and.
Speaker 1: Like, we'll be debating about just like some regular shit
Speaker 1: and you start talking about something else. That's why your
Speaker 1: hair is yellow.
Speaker 5: Doing. Yeah, they take everything personal.
Speaker 1: What's the craziest thing yo ex ever said to you,
Speaker 1: six man that you could say publicly?
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 4: I'll tune out. I don't. I'm like you, I'm all
Speaker 4: I argue and I'm just quiet.
Speaker 1: I heard a woman tell her husband his kids was ugly.
Speaker 1: What that's why your kids ugly?
Speaker 5: Wow?
Speaker 1: Like, but you got kids by him too?
Speaker 3: Right?
Speaker 2: What? Yeah? You know what? I have heard some somebody
Speaker 2: said it.
Speaker 1: What's the minister thing you ever said to him me?
Speaker 1: And don't lie what you've said something to him?
Speaker 2: Meg?
Speaker 1: Sure? Okay, what was long time ago?
Speaker 2: Years ago? It was bad. I don't want to talk
Speaker 2: about it. I was drunk so that don't count.
Speaker 4: That overcount because that means it was it was down
Speaker 4: in there ready to come out. The opportunity just presented itself.
Speaker 2: No, I was not, No, just you know I was.
Speaker 2: I was drunk. It was bad. But yeah, So moving on,
Speaker 2: what's the worst.
Speaker 1: Thing that somebody told me? A drunk mind speaks a
Speaker 1: sober tongue. I don't believe that. I don't Oh, a
Speaker 1: drunk ton speaks a sober mind. I don't believe that.
Speaker 1: I think people drunk just are super tuned in to
Speaker 1: whatever point they're trying to prove. Somebody drunk be so
Speaker 1: tuned in with a point they trying to fucking prove.
Speaker 1: Oh man, they be tuned in. Whatever. What's the worst
Speaker 1: thing I say to this motherfucking when you drunk, you're like, nigga,
Speaker 1: fuck that, you just go.
Speaker 2: But that's my thing. I think that I think I
Speaker 2: have to stop trying to prove a point, Like you
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying, right, I'm a leo.
Speaker 1: Oh that's the worst two Yeah.
Speaker 2: So I'm a leo. So you know, but I like,
Speaker 2: I'm sensitive, like I really like, you know, I want
Speaker 2: to work on myself. But I really do know I'm
Speaker 2: very prideful like.
Speaker 1: You gotta let it go with it does nothing for you,
Speaker 1: It doesn't what what is?
Speaker 3: What do you need to I both got that pride.
Speaker 1: And he needs his.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he needs.
Speaker 1: His to go out in this world and earn and
Speaker 1: stand up for itself. Who you You aren't standing up
Speaker 1: to him, right, he's not trying to now if you
Speaker 1: was getting your ass kicked, it ain't even about standing
Speaker 1: up to him. It's time to leave, right. There's no
Speaker 1: reason for a woman to ever have pride if you
Speaker 1: have to stand up to a man, like if a
Speaker 1: man finna kick your fucking ass, you feel me, if
Speaker 1: he gonna kick your fucking ass, leave The solution is
Speaker 1: not to stand up and fight this mother, because if
Speaker 1: you whoop his ass, you knock on respect him. And
Speaker 1: if you whoop your ass, you still ain't got the message.
Speaker 1: You just fena live in fear crazy. So there's no
Speaker 1: reason for you to have pride. It don't even make sense.
Speaker 1: It's why for?
Speaker 3: What for?
Speaker 1: Why does a woman need? What's the definition of pride?
Speaker 1: What's the definition of pride? I don't look it up bridge.
Speaker 1: You use your smartphone and be smart. He's your smartphone.
Speaker 1: What was some information.
Speaker 5: I know what the worst thing.
Speaker 4: I think that was the worst thing.
Speaker 2: What was it?
Speaker 4: And X told me she said, I lost respect for
Speaker 4: you as a man. But I think she was trying
Speaker 4: to get a response out of her. So I'm I'm like,
Speaker 4: I think I'm way more secure in myself than she
Speaker 4: thought I was. So she was expecting me to grab
Speaker 4: her around her throat and all that type of stuff.
Speaker 5: I just looked at her and I nod in my head, right,
Speaker 5: all right.
Speaker 1: That's how you feel the facts. What's the definition brett?
Speaker 3: A feeling of deep pleasure or satisfaction derived from one's
Speaker 3: own achievements, achievements of those with whom one is closely associated,
Speaker 3: or from qualities or possessions that are widely admired.
Speaker 1: Like what do you fuck? Do you need that for?
Speaker 3: That? Consciousness of one's own dignity?
Speaker 1: Yeah, what do you need any of that for?
Speaker 3: Like?
Speaker 1: Self preservation should make you leave a fucking violent relationship.
Speaker 1: Nothing to do with pride. Motherfucker, you're a woman, Let's
Speaker 1: be honest. A man could kill you for sure. I mean,
Speaker 1: it's just simple genetics. So self preservation not leaving like
Speaker 1: I'm a pride woman that he kicked me. He slapped
Speaker 1: the shit out of me. I'm leaving.
Speaker 5: No.
Speaker 1: If you start whooping your motherfucking as, you fucking around die.
Speaker 7: Now.
Speaker 1: I need the pride because my pride is as a man.
Speaker 1: You know, we evenly match, and it's like I need
Speaker 1: to stand there for myself and this person. I may
Speaker 1: have to walk down the street see this motherfucker every
Speaker 1: day as a woman. If somebody kicking your ass, you're
Speaker 1: supposed to call the police because this motherfucker could kill you. Now,
Speaker 1: pride would be the difference if Mike Tyson tried to
Speaker 1: whoop my ass and I'm finna fight Mike Tyson, that's
Speaker 1: fucking pride, that's dumb. You gotta be smart. I'm shooting
Speaker 1: shit out of Mic Mike, bad motherfucker. But you ain't
Speaker 1: gonna be putting your hands Tyson, Fury, Deontay Wilder all
Speaker 1: the mother man, I'm gunning you niggas down. First off,
Speaker 1: whatever you said I did, I for sure. I never
Speaker 1: disrespected you nigga because you niggas could fight right, So
Speaker 1: why the fuck I professional fighter. I'm not disrespecting you
Speaker 1: niggas at all. I'm not finna be squabbling with y'all,
Speaker 1: I'm not finna be calling your mom out her name
Speaker 1: and none of that. So you started this, so you
Speaker 1: got this fucking bullet coming. It's yours. You earned this one.
Speaker 1: It just don't make sense red to have pride. That's
Speaker 1: the point. A woman's pride is useless, useless. There is
Speaker 1: never a reason you need pride. There's never that gLing
Speaker 1: reason to be proud of what accomplishment. Like sometimes I
Speaker 1: look at girls and this is gonna be some shit
Speaker 1: that motherfuckers get mad at me, but they'll be like,
Speaker 1: in their bio, their greatest achievement is being a mom.
Speaker 1: Do you know how fucking load the bar is for
Speaker 1: that to be your greatest achievement, I mean, not being
Speaker 1: a mom, Like this person is somebody and you're their mom. No,
Speaker 1: this is your fucking kid. You did the work to
Speaker 1: bring this little motherfucker. He ain't do nothing but freeload
Speaker 1: off of all the meals you was eating.
Speaker 3: Freeloaders, They really do be freeloaders.
Speaker 1: I was a freeloader once too. Kids don't do nothing
Speaker 1: but freeloading your stomach and y'all stomach, they just freeload
Speaker 1: take off shit, tell you what they not gonna eat.
Speaker 1: They start that shit in your stomach. They'll be like,
Speaker 1: we're not eating this, We're not eating that. You'll make
Speaker 1: me throw up? Fuck you up, all right, So they
Speaker 1: start already bullying y'all in the womb for me. Then
Speaker 1: they come out and you celebrate their birthday like they
Speaker 1: did something.
Speaker 2: I'm knocking off.
Speaker 1: What did they do? A birthday should really be celebrated
Speaker 1: for the mom.
Speaker 2: My mom my mom, you know, oh yeah, she celebrates
Speaker 2: on my birthday.
Speaker 1: She did the work that she should be celebrating. What
Speaker 1: the fuck did you do?
Speaker 3: Birthday?
Speaker 2: Now?
Speaker 1: The mother's day should be about the kids because they
Speaker 1: did make you a mom. But really, you should celebrate
Speaker 1: all the days on Mother's Day. All your kids' birthday
Speaker 1: should be Mother's Day. This is y'all day, but every
Speaker 1: one of y'all birthdays, y'all should celebrate me because I
Speaker 1: did all the work for you to be here. I
Speaker 1: could have smoked crack, I could have been drinking a
Speaker 1: bunch of liquor. I could have did I could have
Speaker 1: not took my prenatal pills as a mother. All that
Speaker 1: shit you did, and then you celebrate them like they did.
Speaker 1: So none of the niggas ain't did nothing nothing. I'm
Speaker 1: not knocking them. I'm not knocking the little crumb snatchers.
Speaker 1: I'm saying they didn't do nothing. You damn near died
Speaker 1: to make them. Motherfuckers. Come here, damn near motherfucker be
Speaker 1: on that table. You'd be seeing YouTube mo Fucky on
Speaker 1: the table. My fuckers split wide open, shit, and my
Speaker 1: fucky split wide the fuck open. And you celebrate that
Speaker 1: month for us, split you open. You know how crazy
Speaker 1: you gotta be.
Speaker 3: That's our baby.
Speaker 1: Shit, No, you her baby, your son, that nigga every
Speaker 1: birthday and he like, man, mom, you did that. Look
Speaker 1: at me. I'm here, but you know i'm here.
Speaker 2: Man, your brother your birthday on Mother's Day.
Speaker 1: That's your birthday, nigga. That's why we celebrate you on
Speaker 1: Mother's Day. You celebrates your ass on Mother's Day, nigga,
Speaker 1: because all you did was make me a mom your birthday.
Speaker 1: I damn near died for this, nigga. I put in
Speaker 1: the greatest work. I was Kobe Bryant that day, y'all.
Speaker 1: Kobe Bryant that day. In Game seven, seventeen eighty, when
Speaker 1: you give birth to a kid seventeen Kobe twenty ten.
Speaker 1: You missed somewhere, but you got them eighteen. He remounds
Speaker 1: you up on that table, split wide open, and this
Speaker 1: little nigga, you got to push. I seen youtubes maybe
Speaker 1: having to push and shit, he screaming. This motherfucker come
Speaker 1: out off fucked up and ship you up there, look
Speaker 1: tired like you just put in all them hours of work,
Speaker 1: and you celebrate him for what or her? Wow, you
Speaker 1: didn't do nothing. You just showed up. You wouldn't even
Speaker 1: get out. I had to push you. I could see
Speaker 1: if they just climbed out.
Speaker 3: You gotta push about.
Speaker 1: You gotta push too. Now only do you gotta feel
Speaker 1: and honestly, look Olivia on my mother, I wish i'd
Speaker 1: call her and apologize because I just think about it now,
Speaker 1: like even for mothers and fathers. Now, this is gonna
Speaker 1: be fucked up because it's a lot of great fathers
Speaker 1: and I love y'all fathers. My boy Alcatraze want to
Speaker 1: grass six is a great father. A lot of a
Speaker 1: lot of men I surround myself with are like incredible fathers.
Speaker 1: That's why I probably fuck with him, because I feel
Speaker 1: like something is more important than themselves to them that's right,
Speaker 1: So I fuck with niggas like that. But nigga as
Speaker 1: a father, nigga, a mom is ten months out on you.
Speaker 1: She been being a mom to this little nigga for
Speaker 1: nine or ten months, however long it takes to hatch
Speaker 1: this little thing and put it together, you know, I mean,
Speaker 1: bake it in the oven, whatever got to happen inside
Speaker 1: that oven. They do that shit ten months by the
Speaker 1: motherfucking self. By they motherfucking self. That's why I'll be like,
Speaker 1: I can't really argue when a mom want to do
Speaker 1: something and then the father don't get fifty to fifty
Speaker 1: rights it should be. But I get it, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean, because y'all go through a lot of
Speaker 1: shit for these little motherfuckers, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: a lot of shit And all I did was knock
Speaker 1: you down for about a good five seconds. So there's
Speaker 1: nothing to really like. Whatever accomplishment you did is really nothing.
Speaker 1: As somebody who earths everything about this world that we
Speaker 1: fuck with, Like, there's everything, So what is the point
Speaker 1: of pride? Like you're the it's like God being prideful.
Speaker 1: I would never call a woman god. I've heard that expression,
Speaker 1: but You're pretty close to the idea of it for sure.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, You're pretty close.
Speaker 5: Sure.
Speaker 1: I just think that point.
Speaker 2: I'm definitely gonna think about that. This was very eye opening.
Speaker 2: Crazy like you said, God brought this today and saying,
Speaker 2: I'm really gonna work on my's gonna work with my pride.
Speaker 3: I think you should go in there, you know what.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Just go in there.
Speaker 2: That's that's the solution for everything, he says. It's just
Speaker 2: go second dick.
Speaker 1: Yes, you know what, babe, man, I don't know. I
Speaker 1: didn't know the difference between this and I made this
Speaker 1: big deal. Give me your dick so I can put
Speaker 1: it in Give me your dick, put it in your mouth.
Speaker 2: But I'm the task rabbit is.
Speaker 3: You guys are gonna hang up. You guys gonna hang out.
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: The suck just like here, let me just suk your
Speaker 1: day for like three minutes or something. I know we
Speaker 1: got to go to this fantastic party.
Speaker 3: But let me shuck your day at least at least
Speaker 3: just you know, let him know, like we're gonna talk.
Speaker 1: Yeah, me and your dick is gonna talk. Wow, I
Speaker 1: have something to say to.
Speaker 2: Yes, we're gonna have a really good I want to
Speaker 2: have a good conversation today.
Speaker 1: You're gonna have a conversation today.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not a good conversation today too. Why because
Speaker 3: I just need to, you know, learn some ship out,
Speaker 3: figure my life out.
Speaker 1: Just don't start it with we need to talk.
Speaker 2: Okay, Just don't be that just we need to talk.
Speaker 1: Just doesn't please cut that out.
Speaker 2: We just want you to know how important it is.
Speaker 1: No, you don't. You just want to torture, because you
Speaker 1: know what tortures. Just now you're already ahead and we
Speaker 1: tell you we don't like that talk there.
Speaker 2: When you get home, we need to talk.
Speaker 3: Yes, I'm not home.
Speaker 1: I'm not even coming home. For good looking out for
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