WEBVTT - Ep30 Sung and Emelia

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<v Speaker 1>Hello everyone, and welcome back to another episode of Car

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<v Speaker 1>Stories with Sun King and Amelia Hartford.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, Amelia, Hi song. What's going on?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why I asked you.

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<v Speaker 1>What is going on? I love that we match every

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<v Speaker 1>time and we never plan on it. In fact, I

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<v Speaker 1>pulled out these red parachute pants and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>there's no way we were matching today, and then shot

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<v Speaker 1>up in red parachute pants.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I've heard these for three days in a row.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh really, Yeah, I think I might do the same.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah yeah, because they're comfortable. Yeah, yeah, they look comfortable.

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<v Speaker 2>Those are called parachute pants. A parachute pants were big

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<v Speaker 2>when I was a kid. Yeah, like when I was

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<v Speaker 2>like ten eleven. Those were one hundred dollars, really parachute

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<v Speaker 2>pants because they had like zippers and the breakdancers and

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<v Speaker 2>the bee boys with you know, that's what they wore.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's like super expensive that And there's this Michael

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<v Speaker 2>Jackson zipper jacket. And if you could buy the Michael

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<v Speaker 2>Jackson jacket parachute pants and I think Jordan.

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<v Speaker 1>Ones you were styling.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh and you had to have money. That was like

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<v Speaker 2>that was it a baller?

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<v Speaker 1>That was it?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, those aren't really parachute pants.

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<v Speaker 1>Though, No, No, what would you call these pants?

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<v Speaker 2>Why are they called parachute pants? You've appropriated a name

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<v Speaker 2>for a pair of pants.

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<v Speaker 1>Because they're like baggy and floy.

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<v Speaker 2>You call them parachute pants.

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<v Speaker 1>This is what they're called.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, because of the material.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and the bagginess. I think.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I guess so. Because they're bagging like a parachute. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>that's cool. Who makes those?

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<v Speaker 1>You know?

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<v Speaker 2>Kloe?

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<v Speaker 1>Amazon?

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<v Speaker 2>You shop on Amazon?

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes?

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<v Speaker 2>You buy your clothes on Amazon sometimes, I mean, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not there's nothing wrong with that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Is it good quality?

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<v Speaker 3>You know?

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<v Speaker 1>I get scared about on Amazon for that reason. But

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<v Speaker 1>there is some stuff that's actually decent quality of last

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<v Speaker 1>a while. Yeah, you like tom Bucks.

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<v Speaker 2>I bought some shirts recently from Amazon.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Mark, They're fine.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's easy, come in in.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I get my socks on Amazon.

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<v Speaker 2>You do?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So you don't go to the store often.

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<v Speaker 1>I get some socks from Amazon and some socks from

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<v Speaker 1>a Ritzy. I really like the Aritzia socks.

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<v Speaker 2>That's an online store.

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<v Speaker 1>No, Aritzy is an in person store.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you a shopper?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 2>You don't like shopping?

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<v Speaker 1>No, I'm really bad at it. Do you like shopping?

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<v Speaker 2>Hmm, depends on what it's for. Yeah, you like shoes.

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<v Speaker 2>I love to go shoes.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, but I buy my shoes online.

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<v Speaker 2>You do. You don't try them on?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, I mean I know its size. I am

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<v Speaker 1>in Jordan ones.

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<v Speaker 2>But you don't like the whole ceremony of asking the

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<v Speaker 2>dude or the young lady ten and a half please,

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<v Speaker 2>and then then.

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<v Speaker 1>They bring it eleven. You're like, no, this is the

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<v Speaker 1>wrong size. Then you try them on, you walk on.

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<v Speaker 1>Not really, No, no, because I know my size, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm more just looking at different colorways online and seeing

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<v Speaker 1>what I want to do, at least for Nikes and

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<v Speaker 1>then for vansize, I just got the same ones over

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<v Speaker 1>and over again.

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<v Speaker 2>So you don't go to the mall like every weekend?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, that was a thing for us.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Yeah, well, before like phones and social media, even

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<v Speaker 1>as a kid, we would go to the mall just

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<v Speaker 1>to hang out after school.

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<v Speaker 2>How often to go to the mall per month?

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<v Speaker 1>Now?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>You mean per year, per year? Yeah, I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 1>make an effort to go more frequently, to actually buy

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<v Speaker 1>myself nice clothes because I wear the same thing, just

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<v Speaker 1>over and over again. But I think they'll try once

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<v Speaker 1>every three months, try to make it to the mall.

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<v Speaker 2>That's not very often.

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<v Speaker 1>Half New go.

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<v Speaker 2>Never often.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't go at all.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Well, when I was your age, I would probably

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<v Speaker 2>every weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>Really.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was like my wife and I would go

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<v Speaker 2>on a date.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, well maybe sometimes we even't buy anything, but

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<v Speaker 2>you know, buy some pretzels, you know, the the pretzels pretzels. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>there was like a routine. You go there, you get

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<v Speaker 2>the pretzels, corn dog from the hot dog in the States,

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<v Speaker 2>in the luminade. Yeah, very rarely would I actually buy anything,

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<v Speaker 2>But if you walk around for an hour, it's like exercise,

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<v Speaker 2>and you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I do want to do it more. I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>also a luxury of time thing that I fill my

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<v Speaker 1>time with everything. Like right now, I'm in flight school,

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<v Speaker 1>so that's I am. Yeah, so that's taking up a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of my time.

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<v Speaker 2>Were you taking class in Venais?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Yeah, Clipper Aviation Clipper. Yeah, do you know Clipper.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I took my nephew because his dream is to be

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<v Speaker 2>a pilot, so I took him over to Clipper. Oh cool,

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<v Speaker 2>to start like taking lessons really and I was like, damn,

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<v Speaker 2>this kid is so lucky. Like if I told my

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<v Speaker 2>parents like I wanted to be a pilot, that like

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<v Speaker 2>good for you. Good dream. But yeah, I mean it's

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<v Speaker 2>cool that we live, you know, close to the Van

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<v Speaker 2>Nuys Airport. I heard that that airport is like the

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<v Speaker 2>busiest private airport in America.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not surprised. I mean there's a lot of privilege

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<v Speaker 1>es there whenever I'm going up in my little piper.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so they said that's really good too. That's why

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<v Speaker 2>the pilots that learn out of Van Eyes are actually

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<v Speaker 2>the better pilots because it's so busy. So like you know,

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<v Speaker 2>let's say you learned in a private airport in like the.

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<v Speaker 1>Mid West, and there's never any air traffic, so you're

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<v Speaker 1>not used to having to navigate.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, why are you getting that? Because I want to,

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, what are you going to do with it?

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<v Speaker 1>Places Amelia, Amelia Earhart.

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<v Speaker 2>Following our footsteps.

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<v Speaker 1>Now when people finally if I say Amelia, and every

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<v Speaker 1>time people will go oh, like the pilot, I can

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<v Speaker 1>finally say yes, like the pilot.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well that's cool. Yeah, that's cool. That's good. That's

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<v Speaker 2>a that's a cool thing to have.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I think the last time I really saw you

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<v Speaker 1>on hung out was in Japan, right.

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<v Speaker 2>How was that?

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<v Speaker 1>I had a great time. Yeah, yeah, what about you?

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<v Speaker 2>I had a good time. Yeah. My favorite part of

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<v Speaker 2>it was finding those carburetors.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's really cool. Those green tea Macha candies that

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<v Speaker 1>you got me cookies. The cookies are so good. Did

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<v Speaker 1>you know this place before? Were you just walking in

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<v Speaker 1>a store?

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<v Speaker 2>No, that's a that's a thing from Kyoto. That's the

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<v Speaker 2>thing by people.

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<v Speaker 1>As as cookies, thank you. They were really good.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>We just missed the cherry blossom season. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>when you have to go get the car raiders if

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<v Speaker 1>you saw them down there or not.

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<v Speaker 2>It was cherry blossom season, but they weren't. They weren't

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<v Speaker 2>blooming because of the cold.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, But I guess they ended up blooming a week

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<v Speaker 1>after we were there. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I saw one tree. It's like a sad ass a

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<v Speaker 2>couple of Yeah, it was really cool formula. Each time

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<v Speaker 2>I get to go to an event, it just impresses

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<v Speaker 2>me more and more.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I just think it was really cool. The take

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<v Speaker 1>on the Japanese car culture that they did to promote

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<v Speaker 1>being the first race on the streets of Tokyo. Ever

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<v Speaker 1>at a championship level.

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<v Speaker 2>The thing we did, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>It was cool to have like Pandem Liberty fail Side

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<v Speaker 1>and all these ogs bringing out their kid like it

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<v Speaker 1>was so hardcore enthusiast that, like the general masses may

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<v Speaker 1>not have known how Like the attention to detail of

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<v Speaker 1>every little bit of that scene, right those I remember

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<v Speaker 1>just staying. I was looking around, like this is cool. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's so cool.

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<v Speaker 2>Unfortunately, the Pandem truck that Mirasom brought was not even

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<v Speaker 2>in the shot. Really he brought it. He brought a

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<v Speaker 2>Toyota Hylus that he had actually built the year before

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<v Speaker 2>for the tokyoa Autistan and I actually I worked on

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<v Speaker 2>that truck with him because I heard I messed it up.

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<v Speaker 1>But that was one of my favorite vehicles there. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that thing was cool. Yeah, but it's not in the Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I didn't really, I was. I was just

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<v Speaker 1>there admiring it as a fan. The attention, like the

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<v Speaker 1>fab work on that thing is beautiful.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's cool, you're right. I mean, like the legends

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<v Speaker 2>of the car design or bodykit design Japan, they were

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<v Speaker 2>like all in one like parking lot. Right, it's cool. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it's awesome to be a part of something like that.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm really frazzled today. What I have to share

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<v Speaker 2>something with you? So there's this Japanese word kudowari, right,

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<v Speaker 2>I think I'm pronouncing it maybe wrong, but it's and

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<v Speaker 2>it means like to strive for perfection in your life

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<v Speaker 2>when you know that there's no such thing. You'll never

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<v Speaker 2>get there, but to strive, like you know, you're just

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<v Speaker 2>trying to like elevate every day.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that a positive thing?

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<v Speaker 2>It's a positive thing. Yeah, yeah, yeah, you know it's

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<v Speaker 2>it's a positive to It's a philosophy, right to go. Hey,

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<v Speaker 2>whatever you do, if you're doing laundry, you do it

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<v Speaker 2>like try to aim for perfection even though you know

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<v Speaker 2>it's not going to happen, but you try, right, if

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<v Speaker 2>you know, build the car, but then understanding that it's

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<v Speaker 2>never going to be there's no such thing as perfection, right,

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<v Speaker 2>you eventually just kind of have to you know, leave

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<v Speaker 2>it be right and move on. Right. And as of late,

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<v Speaker 2>I wake up and I think about this, and I go,

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<v Speaker 2>there's two actually like Japanese things that I think about.

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<v Speaker 2>The kodowari or the kudari. I think I'm pronouncing her wrong.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, the idea of striving for perfection, to be

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<v Speaker 2>a better person, whatever I'm doing in my life, to

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<v Speaker 2>strive for that. And then also this number seventy eight,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's a Japanese saying nana korobi aoki. It's like

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<v Speaker 2>fall down seven, get up eight, right, And so as

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<v Speaker 2>soon as I wake up these days, like I think

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<v Speaker 2>about these two kind of sayings, right, or these principles

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<v Speaker 2>if you will, right. And I've been trying to spend

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<v Speaker 2>more time with my wife, right, and she likes to

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<v Speaker 2>play golf. I hate golf, Amelia, like with a capital H.

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<v Speaker 2>Like it's like on the top of the list, like

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<v Speaker 2>stepping on Pooh I hate, but golf I hate more. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>it's nice that you're doing yet yeah for her, right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I need to find.

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<v Speaker 1>You enjoy driving the cart.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I'm getting to that. Yeah, it's funny that up.

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<v Speaker 3>Right.

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<v Speaker 2>So I've tried to play golf with her four times.

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<v Speaker 2>First time I went with her, we played about two

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<v Speaker 2>holes and there were people behind us catching up because

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<v Speaker 2>we suck, like, you know, we were like horrible like

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<v Speaker 2>I don't even know the rules of golf, but let's try.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's get in the golf cart and go. People catching

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<v Speaker 2>up to us, and both of us like, hey, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>they're kind of waiting for us because we keep losing

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<v Speaker 2>all the balls, like we don't know what we're doing.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like, let's go home. So we drove around the

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<v Speaker 2>golf course and in the golf cart. It was like

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<v Speaker 2>next to romantic, and we went home. Second time, I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, hey, we can't be late, Like I don't

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<v Speaker 2>think you can be late for your tea time in golf.

0:10:41.160 --> 0:10:43.840
<v Speaker 2>It doesn't really work like that. But we were fifteen

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<v Speaker 2>minutes late, so we missed our tea time. So it's like, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>that didn't happen. Third time, we're paired up with these

0:10:51.440 --> 0:10:56.079
<v Speaker 2>two dudes that obviously like, you know, golfers, like avid golfers,

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<v Speaker 2>and they see me and my wife dresses me up

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<v Speaker 2>up like I'm a professional golfer, and they're like, hey, buddy,

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<v Speaker 2>nice to meet you. There's you know, because they're very

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<v Speaker 2>they're very formal people, right and you know, and very cordial.

0:11:09.240 --> 0:11:12.960
<v Speaker 2>And guys were like, hey, so are you teeing off

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<v Speaker 2>from like the gold or the green or the brown.

0:11:15.800 --> 0:11:18.160
<v Speaker 2>I was like, brother, I don't even know what you're

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<v Speaker 2>talking about. And they were like, ah, stop messing around.

0:11:22.360 --> 0:11:24.400
<v Speaker 2>And they're like, why don't you go ahead? I go, no,

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<v Speaker 2>you want? Ton't you go ahead? Because I can barely

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<v Speaker 2>hit the ball. And they're like, oh, yeah, yeah. You

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<v Speaker 2>look at you. You're like it looks like you've been

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<v Speaker 2>playing golf since you're a baby. And I'm like, and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm also Korean. Koreans are all playing golf, right, And

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, no, I can't. I don't know what I'm doing. Man,

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<v Speaker 2>trust me, right, And I go, so, what is why

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<v Speaker 2>are you with us? And like oh, we're paired up

0:11:45.000 --> 0:11:47.360
<v Speaker 2>because you know, it's a busy day at the course,

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<v Speaker 2>so we're paired up with you and I'm like, ah,

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<v Speaker 2>this ain't going to really work. And then my wife

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<v Speaker 2>was like, I don't want to play with these strangers

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<v Speaker 2>because they're really good and we suck. So we went home, right,

0:11:57.480 --> 0:11:59.800
<v Speaker 2>but that's where and they're like, where are you going?

0:11:59.800 --> 0:12:03.360
<v Speaker 2>I go, sorry, buddy, did you hit it once? No?

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<v Speaker 2>Hit the ball.

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<v Speaker 1>As far as you know, you would have hit a

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<v Speaker 1>hole in one. It would have been the coolest.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't hit the ball, especially when someone's watching. It's

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<v Speaker 2>like they strike out right. I'm like sweating.

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<v Speaker 3>Now.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, all right, let's just leave, right, and they're like, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>is it us? And I go no, no, no, it's us,

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you so much, see you later, right. And then

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<v Speaker 2>as we're leaving, I hear this noise, this cracking of wood,

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<v Speaker 2>and all of a sudden, this oak tree falls like

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<v Speaker 2>right behind the car almost crushes us. Wow, Like it's

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<v Speaker 2>like a massive tree. Like why did this tree wait

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<v Speaker 2>for me to like drive under him and then fall?

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like looking over and my wife was like, wow,

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<v Speaker 2>this is a sign, a sign sign whatever. And then

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<v Speaker 2>we go home fourth time, right, and I think this

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<v Speaker 2>is my last time I ever will ever play golf.

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<v Speaker 2>So we go and I was busy that day, and

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<v Speaker 2>our tea time was at three o'clock, right, and I

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<v Speaker 2>was kind of running, and I was like, don't worry,

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<v Speaker 2>I'll call them and we'll get a different tea time.

0:13:03.200 --> 0:13:05.720
<v Speaker 2>And I called the guys and I was like, hey, guys,

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<v Speaker 2>you know I'm kind of in the doghouse. You got

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<v Speaker 2>to give me a tea time because my wife really

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<v Speaker 2>wants to play golf. With me today, so I got

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<v Speaker 2>to make this work. And they're like, don't worry. So

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<v Speaker 2>we got you, right, like thank you, and I go,

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<v Speaker 2>but don't pair us up with anybody. It has to

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<v Speaker 2>be like just us. And they're like, okay, we got you.

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<v Speaker 2>So we get there early, fifteen minutes early. We're there.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, all right, this is great. There's nobody around,

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<v Speaker 2>and this guy pulls up behind me and I was like, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>how are you and it's like, hey, what's your tea time?

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<v Speaker 2>I go three? What's your tea time? Like two fifty?

0:13:37.120 --> 0:13:39.600
<v Speaker 2>I was like, so you're before us. It's like yes,

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<v Speaker 2>I go, okay, son, I guess you have to go ahead,

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<v Speaker 2>and he goes, but how do I get in front

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<v Speaker 2>of you? Because your card is blocking because the path

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<v Speaker 2>is so narrow, And I was like, oh, I guess

0:13:49.320 --> 0:13:52.400
<v Speaker 2>I have to reverse it. We both have to reverse

0:13:52.440 --> 0:13:54.040
<v Speaker 2>it and then you know, you can get in front

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<v Speaker 2>of me. And he's kind of get me attitude right,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm like, god, man, this is why I hate golf,

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<v Speaker 2>like they take it so seriously. So we reverse and

0:14:02.440 --> 0:14:05.480
<v Speaker 2>he's in front of me. Now right, I'm behind him,

0:14:05.480 --> 0:14:07.439
<v Speaker 2>and now I'm at like the fork of the road, right,

0:14:07.640 --> 0:14:11.360
<v Speaker 2>they kind of an intersection, and I'm waiting for him

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<v Speaker 2>to tee off and he's just doing yoga now right.

0:14:16.080 --> 0:14:19.720
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, just hit the ball, dude. And he's doing yoga,

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<v Speaker 2>he's stretching and he's doing all of this right. And

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<v Speaker 2>then I'm like and my wife is like, uh, he's

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<v Speaker 2>really taking a long time. I'm like, I know, it's like,

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<v Speaker 2>but what are we going to do? His tea time's

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<v Speaker 2>at two fifty, you know, we're fifteen minutes early. I go,

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<v Speaker 2>why don't you warm up as well? Want you to

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<v Speaker 2>go stretch? And she's like okay, And I'm sitting there

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<v Speaker 2>in the passenger side just like this of the cart.

0:14:40.920 --> 0:14:43.280
<v Speaker 2>I'm just like, gosh, man, I really don't want to

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<v Speaker 2>be here. And all of a sudden, these kids like

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<v Speaker 2>they're like I think high school. They look like high

0:14:49.400 --> 0:14:52.560
<v Speaker 2>school kids are college kids. They're young men, three young men.

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<v Speaker 2>And then they pull up in the cart and they're like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my god, it's han. It's like I grew up

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<v Speaker 2>with you. It's like, oh my god. And then they're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>we can't squeeze, Like, oh, don't worry, We'll like drift

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<v Speaker 2>around him and I'm like, oh, okay, all right, and

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<v Speaker 2>then they get stuck. They get stuck right with my cart,

0:15:07.600 --> 0:15:09.320
<v Speaker 2>and I'm like, all right, let me just move to

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<v Speaker 2>the cart either way. So I turned the wheel and

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<v Speaker 2>then pressed the gas like this, and the cart bolts forward,

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<v Speaker 2>like just jerks forward. Guess who's in front of the cart.

0:15:19.560 --> 0:15:38.360
<v Speaker 2>My wife. I run her over. She's completely under the

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<v Speaker 2>cart like it hits her and it was like a

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<v Speaker 2>bush like this that grabbed her. And it was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>if without this purse, she would have hit the concrete.

0:15:46.400 --> 0:15:49.960
<v Speaker 2>It grabs her like this. But she's under the cart right,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm all, holy moly. And so the dudes, the kids,

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<v Speaker 2>and I had to lift the cart off of her,

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<v Speaker 2>and she starts to come too, and all of a

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<v Speaker 2>sudden she's screaming and crying because her ankle is broken.

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<v Speaker 1>She broke her ankle.

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<v Speaker 2>It's mangled under the she ha.

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<v Speaker 1>A cast right now, like actually broken.

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<v Speaker 2>Broken, broken, and she's just screaming and crying and crying.

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<v Speaker 2>And was this wonderful couple, this older couple came over

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<v Speaker 2>and the lady like like hugged her and said it's okay,

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<v Speaker 2>it's okay. And then they call the ambulance, but the

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<v Speaker 2>ambulance cann't come down, so I had to lift her up.

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<v Speaker 2>Put in the golf carty.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you make me never want a golf just hearing

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<v Speaker 1>those story?

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<v Speaker 2>So you don't need to play golf like it it's

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<v Speaker 2>a golf That's this is why I hate golf. Right,

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<v Speaker 2>get to the ambulance. The ambulance is trying to take

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<v Speaker 2>the hospital. She doesn't want to go to the hospital.

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<v Speaker 2>She wants to go home to see the dogs. Right,

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<v Speaker 2>She's crying. I'm like, we need to go to the hospital.

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<v Speaker 2>She's like, I don't want to go, So I take

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<v Speaker 2>her home. She sees the dog, she goes, I want

0:16:53.080 --> 0:16:54.680
<v Speaker 2>to go to the hospital, so we go to the

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<v Speaker 2>emergency room. It's a whole thing, okay, the whole thing. Right. Wait,

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<v Speaker 2>why did I bring this golf story up? Oh? Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>because the Japan thing. Okay, and then in two days later,

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<v Speaker 2>so then two days later I have to go to

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<v Speaker 2>Japan with you.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, I had no idea all this happened right before.

0:17:15.359 --> 0:17:16.720
<v Speaker 2>I was not in a good mood in Japan. I

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<v Speaker 2>was like highly stressed and feeling super well.

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<v Speaker 1>You did it very well. You're very professional.

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<v Speaker 2>Because because I felt guilty because it was a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of fun, right, it was like super fun. But then

0:17:24.720 --> 0:17:28.040
<v Speaker 2>she's in the cast, yeah, and she with a broken

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<v Speaker 2>ankle and having to take care of the dogs and

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<v Speaker 2>also she's just them pain and it was so stupid,

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<v Speaker 2>so dumb, like why did I almost kill my wife

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<v Speaker 2>in a golf cart? And think about it, Like these kids,

0:17:40.760 --> 0:17:43.439
<v Speaker 2>I know what they're saying. They're going, hey, Han almost

0:17:43.480 --> 0:17:45.960
<v Speaker 2>killed his wife. He can't drive, he can't even drive her.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think we're saying that.

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<v Speaker 2>Whatever, right, I would say it if I were, I

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<v Speaker 2>would say.

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<v Speaker 1>That they're probably just as traumatized about the thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe, but maybe not. But they're high school kids who know,

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<v Speaker 2>right but regardless. So remember I was walking the dog

0:18:02.600 --> 0:18:06.000
<v Speaker 2>the day that her ankle broke, and usually she and

0:18:06.040 --> 0:18:08.719
<v Speaker 2>I walked the dogs together. It's kind of our time together,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, it's like, you know, we talk and we

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<v Speaker 2>take our time. And I'm walking the dogs and I'm

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<v Speaker 2>slightly stressed, feeling so guilty because I replayed in my

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<v Speaker 2>head and see her head hit the bush and like

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<v Speaker 2>she's like out and then she's waking up crying and stuff,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was I was sweating and I. I had

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<v Speaker 2>a hoodie just like that, and I took off the

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<v Speaker 2>hoodie and I had the leash of the dogs because

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<v Speaker 2>I have one leash that connects both dogs, right and

0:18:33.560 --> 0:18:36.320
<v Speaker 2>you know, Tedji's huge, you know. And I put the

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<v Speaker 2>leash on a mailbox one of my neighbors that I

0:18:40.320 --> 0:18:43.920
<v Speaker 2>have never met, right, and Tegi pulled in. There was

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<v Speaker 2>like old, old mailbox and they shattered the whole mailbox

0:18:47.680 --> 0:18:49.879
<v Speaker 2>like one of those house mailboxes.

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<v Speaker 1>With They didn't run away though, right, I'm prepared for

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<v Speaker 1>like a bad story.

0:18:52.160 --> 0:18:55.520
<v Speaker 2>Of being He just like pulled it. The whole thing goes.

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<v Speaker 2>The whole thing is just crumbles because old, like it's

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<v Speaker 2>in like pieces, and I'm like, what am I supposed

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<v Speaker 2>to do?

0:19:04.320 --> 0:19:06.680
<v Speaker 1>Something fall on you around?

0:19:06.960 --> 0:19:08.879
<v Speaker 2>And then I'm like looking around, and I was like

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<v Speaker 2>I got to get home. So I just left shitched

0:19:11.520 --> 0:19:13.280
<v Speaker 2>the mailbox. Yeah, I left. I was like, well, what

0:19:13.320 --> 0:19:14.320
<v Speaker 2>am I going to do with this now?

0:19:14.400 --> 0:19:15.960
<v Speaker 1>So when your neighbors hear this, are they going to

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<v Speaker 1>finally learn what happened to their in a mailbox?

0:19:17.800 --> 0:19:22.080
<v Speaker 2>I'm getting to that, okay. So so like I go

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<v Speaker 2>home and then we go to Japan and I come

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<v Speaker 2>back right and this morning, I was walking the dog

0:19:30.040 --> 0:19:35.280
<v Speaker 2>and I was passing the house and this elderly gentleman

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<v Speaker 2>comes out with a smile on his face and he goes,

0:19:37.080 --> 0:19:39.720
<v Speaker 2>excuse me, I talk to you, and I was like yeah, sure.

0:19:40.080 --> 0:19:42.800
<v Speaker 2>It's like do you remember that mailbox there? And I

0:19:42.840 --> 0:19:46.320
<v Speaker 2>was like yeah, and he's like, you broke it and

0:19:46.359 --> 0:19:49.239
<v Speaker 2>I was like yes. He goes, it would have been

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<v Speaker 2>nice if you could have just like told me. I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, you're right, and he's like, I just want

0:19:55.040 --> 0:19:58.159
<v Speaker 2>to let you know. We ordered another mailbox and I

0:19:58.200 --> 0:20:00.840
<v Speaker 2>was like, can I pay for that? And he's like, no,

0:20:02.280 --> 0:20:06.399
<v Speaker 2>just know that it would have been nice if you

0:20:06.480 --> 0:20:09.000
<v Speaker 2>had like just knocked on the door and told us

0:20:09.040 --> 0:20:11.239
<v Speaker 2>that the mailbox was broken. And he's like that's all

0:20:11.280 --> 0:20:14.520
<v Speaker 2>I wanted to say. And he's like it's not very neighborly,

0:20:14.840 --> 0:20:17.560
<v Speaker 2>but you did, and I was like, yeah, it's not.

0:20:18.400 --> 0:20:22.840
<v Speaker 2>And then I started walking away and my gut just

0:20:22.920 --> 0:20:26.760
<v Speaker 2>started feeling like I started feeling sick, right, because then

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going back to the Khudowari way of living life.

0:20:30.640 --> 0:20:33.680
<v Speaker 2>And I was like, why would I not, yeah, come back?

0:20:33.840 --> 0:20:36.600
<v Speaker 2>Why didn't it didn't even occur to me really? Right?

0:20:36.600 --> 0:20:39.199
<v Speaker 2>And I was like, yeah, you were stressed. It was

0:20:39.240 --> 0:20:42.639
<v Speaker 2>like a tough day. But within the chaos is when

0:20:42.680 --> 0:20:47.040
<v Speaker 2>you're truly tested. And I fail, right, And what is

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<v Speaker 2>that mailbox going to cost? He doesn't even care because

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<v Speaker 2>he was like, look, we were going to get a

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<v Speaker 2>new mailbox anyway. But it just as a neighbor.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's not about the money.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's not. He goes, I don't need your money.

0:20:57.280 --> 0:20:59.200
<v Speaker 2>He's like, I take pride. I've been here for twenty

0:20:59.240 --> 0:21:02.040
<v Speaker 2>six years. You know, I'm friends with everybody. It's just like,

0:21:02.080 --> 0:21:04.280
<v Speaker 2>this is how what neighbors do for each other. You

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<v Speaker 2>take care of each other. And then so I walked

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<v Speaker 2>back and I was like, sir, he was like organizing

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<v Speaker 2>his garage, and it was like, Sir, can I talk

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<v Speaker 2>to you. It's like, I feel really bad right now,

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<v Speaker 2>and I don't know what to do to make it

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<v Speaker 2>up to you because I'm wrong. I was wrong and

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<v Speaker 2>I am wrong and you're one hundred percent right. And

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<v Speaker 2>he started telling me the context of like what that

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<v Speaker 2>mailbox caused. He goes, well, you know, we needed to

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<v Speaker 2>leave town for our family, and I was in San

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<v Speaker 2>Francisco for some work and the next door neighbors were robbed,

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<v Speaker 2>and so when the mailbox collapse, I thought it was

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<v Speaker 2>a burglar because he goes, I have cameras everywhere, and

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<v Speaker 2>so I actually drove down from San Francisco. Oh wow,

0:21:49.920 --> 0:21:52.320
<v Speaker 2>I needed to get my passport, and I was worried

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<v Speaker 2>that the passport was going to not be diner because

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<v Speaker 2>there's no mailbox, right, Like, Fortunately the passport was still

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<v Speaker 2>in the mailbox. It was already delivered, but somebody could

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<v Speaker 2>have picked up the mailbox and taken it. He's like,

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<v Speaker 2>so there's a lot of like things that kind of

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<v Speaker 2>you know, were triggered by your mailbox like fiasco. And

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, and it hit me. I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>you never know, it's a simple thing as a mailbox,

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<v Speaker 2>but then it could cause so many other problems, right.

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<v Speaker 1>I literally say all the time that everyone is fighting

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<v Speaker 1>a battle that you know nothing about, and I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's true. And that's a perfect example of that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and it doesn't matter what you're going through. I

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<v Speaker 2>guess the whole point of this conversation is, like I

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<v Speaker 2>need to articulate. I needed to like actually like speak

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<v Speaker 2>it because I'm like, you know, it's not the end

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<v Speaker 2>of the world, but it's still like, not good. It's

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<v Speaker 2>not the kind of person I would want to be.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not the kind of neighbor.

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<v Speaker 1>I would still like bake them a plate of cookies

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<v Speaker 1>or do something. Just leave it at the doorstep with

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<v Speaker 1>a little note. I would still do something.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think I'm going to go buy a cake.

0:22:52.520 --> 0:22:55.480
<v Speaker 2>Yeah yeah, on the way home today. But it makes

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<v Speaker 2>me go I want to be that kind of man

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<v Speaker 2>when I get older. Right, he was like, did he

0:23:01.640 --> 0:23:04.000
<v Speaker 2>drop this knowledge on me? And it just made me

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<v Speaker 2>feel I have so far to go? You know, makes sense?

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<v Speaker 1>Makes sense? Yeah, now I'm slightly traumatized to ever go golfing.

0:23:13.520 --> 0:23:14.760
<v Speaker 2>Well, just don't go golfing with me.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just I'm that's a lot of terrible things to

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<v Speaker 1>follow you as you go golfing. When you were starting

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<v Speaker 1>to tell me the story about you going golfing and

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<v Speaker 1>the tree falling and all this stuff, in my mind,

0:23:28.520 --> 0:23:30.399
<v Speaker 1>I was like, there's nothing bad enough that you can

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<v Speaker 1>tell me that I won't tell you that you should

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<v Speaker 1>continue golfing and give it a shot. But after the

0:23:35.880 --> 0:23:37.800
<v Speaker 1>card incident with your wife, I'm actually like, you know what,

0:23:37.840 --> 0:23:40.199
<v Speaker 1>maybe you guys should find a new hobby. Yeah, I mean,

0:23:40.320 --> 0:23:41.120
<v Speaker 1>she thought of tennis.

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<v Speaker 2>She doesn't like tennis. I took a pick a ball class. Yeah,

0:23:45.560 --> 0:23:47.040
<v Speaker 2>there you go, and it's a lot of fun. But

0:23:47.080 --> 0:23:48.840
<v Speaker 2>I don't know if she's gonna be And she really

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<v Speaker 2>likes golf.

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<v Speaker 1>She didn't need surgery. She's okay, No she doesn't.

0:23:52.359 --> 0:23:53.439
<v Speaker 2>Well, we don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it clean break or is it cracked?

0:23:55.240 --> 0:23:59.640
<v Speaker 2>It's cracked. Okay, that's worse. I don't know what else

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<v Speaker 2>to say. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Kind of sad, Sorry, guys. If this is.

0:24:04.200 --> 0:24:08.359
<v Speaker 2>Sad for that, that's sad. I mean the whole point

0:24:08.359 --> 0:24:10.040
<v Speaker 2>of me bringing all this up is.

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<v Speaker 1>That everything happens for a reason. That everyone's fighting battle

0:24:12.880 --> 0:24:15.760
<v Speaker 1>you know nothing about. It literally costs nothing to be

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<v Speaker 1>nice to people.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and every day you can be better. Yeah, you know,

0:24:20.040 --> 0:24:23.720
<v Speaker 2>and sometimes like a mailbox is gonna teach you you're

0:24:24.160 --> 0:24:26.359
<v Speaker 2>not even half demand that you think you are.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, do you meditate?

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<v Speaker 2>The running is the meditation? Okay, how about you?

0:24:33.119 --> 0:24:34.760
<v Speaker 1>The gym is my meditation for me?

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<v Speaker 2>So what is meditation for you? Like, what are you

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<v Speaker 2>thinking about when you're meditating?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, the idea is you're not thinking right, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>teaching you how to live in the present moment, so

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<v Speaker 1>you're not being so bombarded by your thoughts and your

0:24:45.960 --> 0:24:48.359
<v Speaker 1>motions and everything coming up from a bunch of different directions.

0:24:48.800 --> 0:24:51.480
<v Speaker 1>It just recenters yourself and brings you back to the

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<v Speaker 1>present moment. And I'm sure it sounds a little like

0:24:53.600 --> 0:24:58.520
<v Speaker 1>oh meditations like yoga, but it actually it does. It

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<v Speaker 1>does help to ground yourself, especially when you know instances

0:25:02.880 --> 0:25:04.960
<v Speaker 1>where you can't control your mind when something bad happens.

0:25:05.440 --> 0:25:08.399
<v Speaker 2>I think the running is like my sense of or

0:25:08.480 --> 0:25:11.480
<v Speaker 2>my source of meditation or my version of it, you know,

0:25:11.960 --> 0:25:15.040
<v Speaker 2>especially lately. You know, it's like I think lately, like

0:25:15.640 --> 0:25:18.040
<v Speaker 2>you know, people in my life, like on a professional

0:25:18.119 --> 0:25:20.600
<v Speaker 2>level that are you know, like moving on and stuff,

0:25:20.640 --> 0:25:24.640
<v Speaker 2>and it's like all this anxiety and like insecurities come out,

0:25:25.000 --> 0:25:26.679
<v Speaker 2>like you know, it's like you wake up and you

0:25:26.720 --> 0:25:32.200
<v Speaker 2>feel like there's like this hopeless feeling right and things

0:25:32.200 --> 0:25:35.040
<v Speaker 2>that I can't control and no matter what I do,

0:25:35.400 --> 0:25:38.359
<v Speaker 2>it's not going to change anything. And we're talking about

0:25:38.640 --> 0:25:42.720
<v Speaker 2>we actually have the same agent. We're just Yeah, so

0:25:42.800 --> 0:25:47.320
<v Speaker 2>it's a guy named Frank and he's leaving the business to.

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<v Speaker 1>Like go on to bigger and better things, right to

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<v Speaker 1>start his own thing, which I think being your own

0:25:52.040 --> 0:25:55.119
<v Speaker 1>business owner is an incredible thing and something that not

0:25:55.160 --> 0:25:56.520
<v Speaker 1>everyone gets to do in a lifetime.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but you know Frank Is you know, dear friend

0:26:00.680 --> 0:26:03.840
<v Speaker 2>and you know him leaving just like it triggered like

0:26:03.880 --> 0:26:07.240
<v Speaker 2>this anxiety and I had to really kind of step

0:26:07.280 --> 0:26:08.960
<v Speaker 2>back and go where is all this coming from? And

0:26:09.000 --> 0:26:12.280
<v Speaker 2>it's like, you know again it's like I'm not you know,

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<v Speaker 2>invincible or you know, immune to fear and insecurity about

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<v Speaker 2>the future.

0:26:17.520 --> 0:26:17.840
<v Speaker 1>Right.

0:26:17.920 --> 0:26:20.439
<v Speaker 2>So I think that's where that meditation and the running

0:26:20.520 --> 0:26:22.720
<v Speaker 2>like you brought up is like to echo that is

0:26:22.720 --> 0:26:25.160
<v Speaker 2>that you know, with the running, I can control it.

0:26:25.560 --> 0:26:28.479
<v Speaker 2>And it's like, you know, focus on you know, the

0:26:28.520 --> 0:26:31.400
<v Speaker 2>negative stuff right and do nothing right and just kind

0:26:31.400 --> 0:26:35.040
<v Speaker 2>of sit there and mope and be sad and stress

0:26:35.119 --> 0:26:37.760
<v Speaker 2>and just like you know, get consumed by it, or

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<v Speaker 2>go and do something positive, something healthy that's going to

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<v Speaker 2>actually you know, make me better. And it's always like

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<v Speaker 2>so interesting because today I ran you know, five miles, right,

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<v Speaker 2>Jesus right, it's it's it's not it's not that it's

0:26:51.760 --> 0:26:53.800
<v Speaker 2>not that impressive. Actually, at the end of the day,

0:26:53.920 --> 0:26:54.639
<v Speaker 2>I hate running.

0:26:55.200 --> 0:26:55.800
<v Speaker 1>It's not for me.

0:26:56.880 --> 0:26:59.359
<v Speaker 2>Have you tried it? Yes, like really tried it.

0:26:59.440 --> 0:27:02.359
<v Speaker 1>Yes, I don't enjoy it. I don't get those runners high.

0:27:02.960 --> 0:27:03.760
<v Speaker 1>Running's not for me.

0:27:03.920 --> 0:27:05.320
<v Speaker 2>I don't enjoy it.

0:27:05.440 --> 0:27:06.560
<v Speaker 1>You just suffer through it.

0:27:06.680 --> 0:27:11.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's like a metaphor to life because let's use

0:27:11.680 --> 0:27:13.840
<v Speaker 2>five miles, right, And I think I've spoke on this

0:27:13.920 --> 0:27:16.760
<v Speaker 2>before with Magnus because this is a runner. It's like

0:27:16.840 --> 0:27:19.480
<v Speaker 2>I use running as like a daily lesson. It's like

0:27:19.520 --> 0:27:23.240
<v Speaker 2>the meditation. Right, It's like it's so hard. Yeah, let's

0:27:23.280 --> 0:27:26.200
<v Speaker 2>say five miles takes me like you know, forty six minutes,

0:27:26.320 --> 0:27:29.760
<v Speaker 2>or you're taking the first half really slowly, like you know,

0:27:29.840 --> 0:27:32.080
<v Speaker 2>fifty minute run for it. So like let's say you

0:27:32.119 --> 0:27:35.560
<v Speaker 2>average like ten minutes a mile, right, the first mile,

0:27:35.920 --> 0:27:39.040
<v Speaker 2>just like everything else in life, is like so hard

0:27:39.040 --> 0:27:42.560
<v Speaker 2>to lace up and get there and start doing it.

0:27:42.720 --> 0:27:46.200
<v Speaker 2>And half a mile I want to quit. Let's say

0:27:46.240 --> 0:27:51.600
<v Speaker 2>we parallel with like acting or writing a script or

0:27:52.280 --> 0:27:56.000
<v Speaker 2>developing a movie or doing a project for yourself. Right,

0:27:56.440 --> 0:27:58.560
<v Speaker 2>and you go, great idea, and then it's like you

0:27:58.600 --> 0:28:01.680
<v Speaker 2>start it and I kind of halfway into it, you're

0:28:01.680 --> 0:28:05.399
<v Speaker 2>like I want to quit, right, And you get to

0:28:05.400 --> 0:28:07.320
<v Speaker 2>the mile and you're like, oh, I did a mile

0:28:08.080 --> 0:28:11.240
<v Speaker 2>and maybe that's enough, right, But you're like, but my

0:28:11.320 --> 0:28:14.440
<v Speaker 2>goal is five miles, so I'm at a mile.

0:28:14.600 --> 0:28:15.200
<v Speaker 1>You walk it all?

0:28:15.560 --> 0:28:18.280
<v Speaker 2>No, No, I don't even stretch. I just go like

0:28:18.320 --> 0:28:21.960
<v Speaker 2>there's no stretching. The stretching is like the slow jogging, right,

0:28:22.040 --> 0:28:24.640
<v Speaker 2>And then I try to run uphill for the first

0:28:24.720 --> 0:28:27.480
<v Speaker 2>three miles because downhill is where you're gonna hurt yourself

0:28:27.480 --> 0:28:29.920
<v Speaker 2>with the shin splints and stuff like. Uphill is hard

0:28:29.960 --> 0:28:32.600
<v Speaker 2>and you're able to. And I talked to myself and

0:28:32.680 --> 0:28:34.879
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, so you're such a loser, Like why'd you

0:28:34.920 --> 0:28:36.200
<v Speaker 2>do that? What'd you do with the mail box?

0:28:36.320 --> 0:28:38.840
<v Speaker 1>Such a David Goggins thing to do, is it?

0:28:39.560 --> 0:28:40.560
<v Speaker 2>Does he talk to himself?

0:28:40.720 --> 0:28:43.400
<v Speaker 1>He says a little worse things to himself to motivate himself.

0:28:43.520 --> 0:28:45.840
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Well, and it's all I'm venting it out. I'm like,

0:28:45.880 --> 0:28:48.479
<v Speaker 2>you stupid piece of crap, Like, why'd you do that?

0:28:48.640 --> 0:28:51.680
<v Speaker 1>Like what this doesn't sound healthy song? Nothing that you're

0:28:51.720 --> 0:28:51.960
<v Speaker 1>telling me?

0:28:53.520 --> 0:28:55.320
<v Speaker 2>Well, you got to get it out. You gotta get

0:28:55.360 --> 0:28:57.800
<v Speaker 2>in whatever works for you. I guess you gotta get

0:28:57.800 --> 0:29:00.920
<v Speaker 2>it out, you know. I'm being honest with myself, like

0:29:00.920 --> 0:29:02.680
<v Speaker 2>you could have done better. Why'd you do that, what'd

0:29:02.720 --> 0:29:03.520
<v Speaker 2>you take that shortcut?

0:29:03.560 --> 0:29:06.200
<v Speaker 1>You also tell yourself it's okay. Would I try to

0:29:06.240 --> 0:29:09.160
<v Speaker 1>talk to myself like I would talk to four year

0:29:09.160 --> 0:29:11.040
<v Speaker 1>old me or five year old me. I would never

0:29:11.080 --> 0:29:12.640
<v Speaker 1>say stuff like that to a kid.

0:29:12.840 --> 0:29:16.640
<v Speaker 2>This is the first part. Remember, it's like you are structure.

0:29:16.920 --> 0:29:20.520
<v Speaker 2>It's a three x short shirt. Three parts. Okay, the beginning, right,

0:29:20.560 --> 0:29:22.560
<v Speaker 2>it's like you got to keep going, man, come on,

0:29:22.640 --> 0:29:24.360
<v Speaker 2>you gotta run, you gotta run, you gotta do it.

0:29:24.560 --> 0:29:27.080
<v Speaker 2>Get to the first mile, get there, like, see you

0:29:27.160 --> 0:29:29.320
<v Speaker 2>made the first mile, right, It's like, but I want

0:29:29.360 --> 0:29:32.480
<v Speaker 2>to quit. It's like two versions of me. There's this

0:29:32.600 --> 0:29:35.600
<v Speaker 2>like loser version of me, right, and then there's like

0:29:35.640 --> 0:29:38.960
<v Speaker 2>the varsity like team captain version of me. And they

0:29:39.000 --> 0:29:41.680
<v Speaker 2>start talking to themselves right in a healthy way. It's like,

0:29:42.400 --> 0:29:46.760
<v Speaker 2>you know, I ran yesterday. I did six seven miles yesterday,

0:29:46.800 --> 0:29:48.440
<v Speaker 2>Like why do I need to do and let's take

0:29:48.480 --> 0:29:50.560
<v Speaker 2>a break. Then the varsity is like, so what are

0:29:50.560 --> 0:29:52.200
<v Speaker 2>you gonna do? Go home and just like sit around

0:29:52.240 --> 0:29:55.120
<v Speaker 2>and mope around and be depressed and feel sorry for yourself.

0:29:55.280 --> 0:29:57.160
<v Speaker 2>Come on, let's do another amount and see how you

0:29:57.160 --> 0:30:01.760
<v Speaker 2>feel during that second mile. It's like, is so hard? Amelia.

0:30:02.560 --> 0:30:04.560
<v Speaker 1>Right, you're just like, you don't need to tell me.

0:30:04.920 --> 0:30:07.720
<v Speaker 2>It's so hard, right, and your body's not really warmed

0:30:07.760 --> 0:30:10.440
<v Speaker 2>up here, so things are starting to creak and you're like, oh,

0:30:10.520 --> 0:30:13.560
<v Speaker 2>my knees kind of clicking and my back doesn't feel

0:30:13.560 --> 0:30:18.200
<v Speaker 2>like your body's like trying to prevent you from moving on, right,

0:30:18.360 --> 0:30:22.200
<v Speaker 2>just like in life. Right, it's like everything that we do,

0:30:22.280 --> 0:30:25.800
<v Speaker 2>it's like there's some entity that's like, hey, the weather's bad,

0:30:25.880 --> 0:30:28.120
<v Speaker 2>so you can't do that. You don't know so and so,

0:30:28.120 --> 0:30:29.960
<v Speaker 2>so you can't do that. It's like you're not in

0:30:30.000 --> 0:30:31.680
<v Speaker 2>the union, Well how do you do that? All these

0:30:31.680 --> 0:30:35.160
<v Speaker 2>things that like will try to prevent you. Right, then

0:30:35.160 --> 0:30:37.120
<v Speaker 2>you get to the second mont, you're like, oh, actually

0:30:37.400 --> 0:30:41.440
<v Speaker 2>I'm here the rationalizing going, well, you did too, that's

0:30:41.480 --> 0:30:45.360
<v Speaker 2>a lot. That's enough man. Right, it's so strong, it's

0:30:45.360 --> 0:30:49.960
<v Speaker 2>like intense, and the Varsity version of me is like, yo, dude,

0:30:50.360 --> 0:30:54.000
<v Speaker 2>that's just that's JV kind of running. The goal is

0:30:54.040 --> 0:30:57.720
<v Speaker 2>five miles, just keep going and two and a half

0:30:57.720 --> 0:31:00.760
<v Speaker 2>you're like halfway there. But then the desire to quit

0:31:01.160 --> 0:31:04.120
<v Speaker 2>is even stronger at that moment. But then I sit

0:31:04.160 --> 0:31:06.200
<v Speaker 2>there and I go, well, your goal is five miles,

0:31:06.640 --> 0:31:10.320
<v Speaker 2>keep going, keep going. It's so hard. Three miles hits

0:31:10.320 --> 0:31:13.680
<v Speaker 2>and you're like, okay, and now I can quit, right,

0:31:13.760 --> 0:31:17.000
<v Speaker 2>And then I start increasing the speed. I go like

0:31:17.000 --> 0:31:19.360
<v Speaker 2>thirty percent faster, right because I'm like, okay, I'm a

0:31:19.440 --> 0:31:21.880
<v Speaker 2>three miles. If I go super fast and I'm just

0:31:21.960 --> 0:31:24.480
<v Speaker 2>in pain, I'll forget about it. And then all of

0:31:24.480 --> 0:31:27.320
<v Speaker 2>a sudden, four miles shows up and that fourth mile

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<v Speaker 2>you're sitting there, you go, okay, it's a very simple choice. Star.

0:31:31.280 --> 0:31:33.960
<v Speaker 2>It's like I can just start walking now I'm done.

0:31:34.960 --> 0:31:37.840
<v Speaker 2>But then if you're done, what was the whole point

0:31:37.840 --> 0:31:41.320
<v Speaker 2>of the run? Get to the five mile, right? And

0:31:41.360 --> 0:31:45.200
<v Speaker 2>the five mile is a full sprint, it's just full spint,

0:31:45.280 --> 0:31:48.400
<v Speaker 2>so it goes by really fast. And then as soon

0:31:48.400 --> 0:31:50.080
<v Speaker 2>as that five miles is done, because you have a

0:31:50.120 --> 0:31:52.560
<v Speaker 2>track or you have a watch or you know I watch,

0:31:53.360 --> 0:31:55.520
<v Speaker 2>or if you're on a treadmill so you can see it, right,

0:31:55.680 --> 0:31:58.240
<v Speaker 2>and you look at that five mile thing, all of

0:31:58.280 --> 0:32:00.680
<v Speaker 2>a sudden everything feels like it's going to be okay.

0:32:01.200 --> 0:32:03.840
<v Speaker 2>If I don't do that run, like all day, I'm

0:32:03.840 --> 0:32:05.320
<v Speaker 2>this like neurotic mess.

0:32:05.720 --> 0:32:07.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's how I feel about the gym. If I

0:32:07.200 --> 0:32:08.640
<v Speaker 1>don't hit the gym. If I don't get a good,

0:32:08.640 --> 0:32:12.120
<v Speaker 1>solid workout in, that's how I feel like cloudy, not

0:32:12.200 --> 0:32:18.080
<v Speaker 1>clear minded. I actually saw this TikTok recently that was like, Oh,

0:32:18.600 --> 0:32:21.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm feeling sad and depressed or I'm just like cloudy,

0:32:21.960 --> 0:32:24.200
<v Speaker 1>my judgment's off, like I don't know what's wrong with me.

0:32:24.280 --> 0:32:26.040
<v Speaker 1>And the person goes, well, did you work out today?

0:32:26.080 --> 0:32:28.520
<v Speaker 1>They go nope. Did you eat well today? They go nope?

0:32:28.640 --> 0:32:31.200
<v Speaker 1>Did you drink any water? They go nope? Have you journaled,

0:32:31.240 --> 0:32:33.400
<v Speaker 1>meditator doing anything? They go nope. And it's just this

0:32:33.440 --> 0:32:35.240
<v Speaker 1>whole list of like things that you could be doing

0:32:35.240 --> 0:32:37.560
<v Speaker 1>to help better yourself your mental health and not doing

0:32:37.600 --> 0:32:39.840
<v Speaker 1>any of them, but then still not being sure why

0:32:39.840 --> 0:32:42.240
<v Speaker 1>you're not feeling your best. You got to take care

0:32:42.240 --> 0:32:44.760
<v Speaker 1>of yourself. And I agree that's one of those things

0:32:44.800 --> 0:32:46.560
<v Speaker 1>that like, if I don't hit the gym or if

0:32:46.600 --> 0:32:48.240
<v Speaker 1>I don't get a workout in, I just do not

0:32:48.360 --> 0:32:50.160
<v Speaker 1>feel the same for the rest of the day. I

0:32:50.200 --> 0:32:52.000
<v Speaker 1>just don't feel like as good. I don't have to

0:32:52.000 --> 0:32:52.800
<v Speaker 1>explain it.

0:32:52.800 --> 0:32:56.120
<v Speaker 2>It's so simple. Yeah, but it is an investment. I mean,

0:32:56.120 --> 0:32:57.920
<v Speaker 2>with your schedule, it must be really hard to get

0:32:57.960 --> 0:32:58.400
<v Speaker 2>to the gym.

0:32:58.520 --> 0:33:00.160
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well I have to. I have to get up

0:33:00.200 --> 0:33:02.000
<v Speaker 1>at five five point thirty to go to the gym

0:33:02.200 --> 0:33:03.600
<v Speaker 1>or else it's just not going to get done.

0:33:03.720 --> 0:33:06.000
<v Speaker 2>You don't get there, and all day you feel like

0:33:06.080 --> 0:33:07.280
<v Speaker 2>there's something incomplete.

0:33:07.440 --> 0:33:07.720
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:33:08.120 --> 0:33:11.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean I was living like that for you know,

0:33:11.840 --> 0:33:14.800
<v Speaker 2>November twenty third, Like I'll never forget the date because

0:33:14.800 --> 0:33:17.760
<v Speaker 2>that's the day that I just stopped smoking cigarettes. Too,

0:33:18.240 --> 0:33:21.720
<v Speaker 2>because as when COVID started that first week, it's like, yeah,

0:33:21.720 --> 0:33:24.240
<v Speaker 2>I think I'll just start smoking because COVID will last

0:33:24.280 --> 0:33:26.480
<v Speaker 2>for like a couple of weeks, And that was my excuse.

0:33:26.520 --> 0:33:31.160
<v Speaker 2>And then years later, I'm still smoking. And if I

0:33:31.240 --> 0:33:35.400
<v Speaker 2>look back at myself from November twenty third and before that,

0:33:35.680 --> 0:33:39.520
<v Speaker 2>like I even look at pictures, right, I remember, even

0:33:39.640 --> 0:33:42.240
<v Speaker 2>like talking to you, You're like, yeah, you don't like

0:33:42.280 --> 0:33:44.280
<v Speaker 2>looking at pictures of yourself, And I was like, I

0:33:44.360 --> 0:33:47.280
<v Speaker 2>think I told you that. It was because I knew

0:33:47.520 --> 0:33:51.480
<v Speaker 2>that I was not like my optimal because I was

0:33:51.520 --> 0:33:53.880
<v Speaker 2>not taking care of myself. I was smoking cigarettes, not

0:33:53.920 --> 0:33:56.160
<v Speaker 2>sleeping properly, eating crap.

0:33:56.360 --> 0:33:57.920
<v Speaker 1>You look at foes yourself now.

0:33:57.840 --> 0:34:00.640
<v Speaker 2>No I can, oh, yeah, like I don't have a

0:34:00.640 --> 0:34:04.480
<v Speaker 2>problem with it. Right since November twenty third. You know,

0:34:04.920 --> 0:34:07.840
<v Speaker 2>I try to run every single day. My diet is

0:34:07.840 --> 0:34:12.120
<v Speaker 2>totally different. I don't touch cigarettes, right, I sleep very

0:34:12.360 --> 0:34:15.239
<v Speaker 2>I'm very like sleep hygiene is like a big thing.

0:34:15.280 --> 0:34:18.719
<v Speaker 2>It's like, you know, I'm religious about like sleeping properly.

0:34:18.600 --> 0:34:19.960
<v Speaker 1>Right and making sure it's cold.

0:34:20.200 --> 0:34:22.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And I think the exercises wipes you out.

0:34:22.760 --> 0:34:26.560
<v Speaker 1>Exercise cold room, don't stare at a phone as you're

0:34:26.560 --> 0:34:29.320
<v Speaker 1>trying to fall asleep, don't doom scroll TikTok.

0:34:30.320 --> 0:34:34.960
<v Speaker 2>Like I don't watch TV at night. Like I used

0:34:34.960 --> 0:34:36.839
<v Speaker 2>to like watch a movie and then it turned into

0:34:36.840 --> 0:34:40.319
<v Speaker 2>another movie, and then it would get me depressed. I'm like,

0:34:40.400 --> 0:34:42.560
<v Speaker 2>why am I not in that movie? What am I

0:34:42.680 --> 0:34:43.200
<v Speaker 2>doing wrong?

0:34:43.640 --> 0:34:57.759
<v Speaker 3>Right? So?

0:34:57.920 --> 0:35:01.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean what I love about, you know, this

0:35:01.160 --> 0:35:06.120
<v Speaker 2>past year, especially with like all the wonderful conversations we had,

0:35:06.680 --> 0:35:09.440
<v Speaker 2>you know, even this morning, like you know, thinking about

0:35:09.480 --> 0:35:12.520
<v Speaker 2>coming here and having a conversation with you, I was like,

0:35:13.320 --> 0:35:17.680
<v Speaker 2>what is the Car Stories podcast done for me on

0:35:17.719 --> 0:35:20.560
<v Speaker 2>a personal level? Why does it need to continue for

0:35:20.760 --> 0:35:24.040
<v Speaker 2>me on a personal level? Right? I think all the

0:35:24.080 --> 0:35:28.799
<v Speaker 2>amazing people that we've met and the conversations, like I

0:35:28.840 --> 0:35:31.080
<v Speaker 2>don't remember the macro part of it, but I remember

0:35:31.120 --> 0:35:35.279
<v Speaker 2>these little like micro details that I feel like the

0:35:35.280 --> 0:35:37.880
<v Speaker 2>tools that I've been missing, you know, and that like

0:35:37.920 --> 0:35:41.200
<v Speaker 2>my toolbox is filled with this and that, and you

0:35:41.200 --> 0:35:43.360
<v Speaker 2>know it's like I didn't know I needed like a

0:35:43.640 --> 0:35:45.959
<v Speaker 2>ten millimeter. Now I have it right.

0:35:45.960 --> 0:35:47.440
<v Speaker 1>Last night, can find it and here it is.

0:35:48.200 --> 0:35:51.160
<v Speaker 2>I'm so appreciative this past year. It's like when I

0:35:51.239 --> 0:35:54.120
<v Speaker 2>think about, Hey, what are you grateful for, It's like,

0:35:54.400 --> 0:36:00.560
<v Speaker 2>this podcast is so important for me. We haven't made

0:36:00.640 --> 0:36:05.040
<v Speaker 2>much money, so just to tell you that, But we

0:36:05.080 --> 0:36:06.320
<v Speaker 2>don't do it for funey.

0:36:06.719 --> 0:36:09.920
<v Speaker 1>Right, No, we get to have these incredible conversations with

0:36:10.000 --> 0:36:13.080
<v Speaker 1>people that I've grown from it. I've become a better person.

0:36:13.120 --> 0:36:15.719
<v Speaker 1>And the feedback from the community, Like I know, people

0:36:15.840 --> 0:36:17.160
<v Speaker 1>come up to you and people come up to me.

0:36:17.320 --> 0:36:22.319
<v Speaker 1>They're super appreciative of it and they're thankful that it's there.

0:36:22.360 --> 0:36:25.839
<v Speaker 1>That we're making these conversations available for people to listen

0:36:25.880 --> 0:36:28.960
<v Speaker 1>to for free. We're not charging for this stuff. It's cool.

0:36:29.120 --> 0:36:32.400
<v Speaker 1>It's you know, in a way, it's like having different

0:36:32.920 --> 0:36:37.960
<v Speaker 1>mentors or learning from people you may idolize, and it's learning.

0:36:37.960 --> 0:36:40.680
<v Speaker 1>Maybe it's having a different outlook on life or whatever

0:36:40.719 --> 0:36:43.320
<v Speaker 1>it is. To really help you grow as a person,

0:36:43.360 --> 0:36:46.640
<v Speaker 1>as a soul, whatever that is. I've found growth in it,

0:36:46.640 --> 0:36:48.160
<v Speaker 1>so I do enjoyed it too.

0:36:48.360 --> 0:36:51.400
<v Speaker 2>What conversation do you think like sticks with you the

0:36:51.440 --> 0:36:52.800
<v Speaker 2>most from this past season?

0:36:53.200 --> 0:36:57.200
<v Speaker 1>I maybe because it's more recent. Talking to Jeff Zwart

0:36:57.280 --> 0:37:00.160
<v Speaker 1>was beautiful and he has such an incredible outlook on

0:37:00.320 --> 0:37:02.680
<v Speaker 1>life and I can only hope to be half the

0:37:02.680 --> 0:37:07.040
<v Speaker 1>person that he is. The conversation with Magnus was so strong,

0:37:07.560 --> 0:37:09.360
<v Speaker 1>and I don't want to like single people out because

0:37:09.440 --> 0:37:13.200
<v Speaker 1>I've taken away from every single conversation yeah, that we've had,

0:37:13.680 --> 0:37:15.560
<v Speaker 1>and it's cool to be able to share that with people.

0:37:15.800 --> 0:37:19.080
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And I think we do need more women on

0:37:19.120 --> 0:37:21.200
<v Speaker 2>the show. Yeah, So this is it's so hard to

0:37:21.239 --> 0:37:22.280
<v Speaker 2>find women guests.

0:37:22.640 --> 0:37:26.839
<v Speaker 1>Honestly, a lot has been scheduling because the women we've

0:37:26.880 --> 0:37:28.760
<v Speaker 1>been talking to and reaching out are just so busy

0:37:28.960 --> 0:37:31.920
<v Speaker 1>taking over the world, which I'm so happy to see.

0:37:31.920 --> 0:37:35.600
<v Speaker 1>But they have intense travel schedules, they're racing whatever it is.

0:37:35.719 --> 0:37:38.799
<v Speaker 1>So we are working actively to get more women on

0:37:38.840 --> 0:37:42.239
<v Speaker 1>this show. And maybe there's some people that we have overlooked,

0:37:42.280 --> 0:37:45.799
<v Speaker 1>So please tag us in some posts of some strong

0:37:45.840 --> 0:37:48.759
<v Speaker 1>influential women. I promise. We've reached out to so many

0:37:48.800 --> 0:37:50.279
<v Speaker 1>and a lot of it is just scheduling.

0:37:50.520 --> 0:37:53.200
<v Speaker 2>If you had like a all star wish list.

0:37:53.640 --> 0:37:58.279
<v Speaker 1>Michelle Multon, she is an incredible driver and I think

0:37:58.280 --> 0:37:59.680
<v Speaker 1>she works with the fa now and she used to

0:37:59.760 --> 0:38:02.399
<v Speaker 1>race Auti Quatro and the Group B Series and she

0:38:03.000 --> 0:38:05.839
<v Speaker 1>is a huge inspiration. So she she's one for sure

0:38:05.880 --> 0:38:08.359
<v Speaker 1>amongst so many, Like there's there's a lot of people

0:38:08.400 --> 0:38:10.759
<v Speaker 1>that a lot of women who I've looked up to

0:38:10.800 --> 0:38:11.360
<v Speaker 1>who I would like.

0:38:11.360 --> 0:38:12.839
<v Speaker 2>Have we asked her to come on the show.

0:38:13.400 --> 0:38:16.200
<v Speaker 1>No, she's one of those I should. I'm intimidated to

0:38:16.280 --> 0:38:20.759
<v Speaker 1>reach out because I just I don't know her. I

0:38:20.760 --> 0:38:24.440
<v Speaker 1>don't know her people. I could try damning her on Instagram,

0:38:24.480 --> 0:38:25.600
<v Speaker 1>but I don't even think she has a.

0:38:25.719 --> 0:38:28.080
<v Speaker 2>Well, that's something that we talked about of just having

0:38:28.120 --> 0:38:32.560
<v Speaker 2>the courage right to reach out to people. You know,

0:38:33.000 --> 0:38:36.000
<v Speaker 2>we're not reaching out to people for likes. We're reaching

0:38:36.040 --> 0:38:40.160
<v Speaker 2>out to actually go share some lessons with people, right.

0:38:40.320 --> 0:38:43.279
<v Speaker 2>So I think that's something that you brought up with me,

0:38:43.400 --> 0:38:47.200
<v Speaker 2>is to just go reach out to people, right And

0:38:47.239 --> 0:38:49.360
<v Speaker 2>you never know it's like because I you know, I

0:38:49.480 --> 0:38:51.400
<v Speaker 2>was like, well, why would they come like you know,

0:38:51.640 --> 0:38:53.239
<v Speaker 2>why are they going to respond to me? But I

0:38:53.280 --> 0:38:54.440
<v Speaker 2>think we have to just try.

0:38:54.960 --> 0:38:57.960
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, right, Jen Horsey was also a really good conversation

0:38:58.480 --> 0:39:00.960
<v Speaker 1>that I was excited about because she's Boston General and

0:39:00.960 --> 0:39:03.200
<v Speaker 1>it's nice to be able to have those conversations and

0:39:03.600 --> 0:39:06.879
<v Speaker 1>understand that, you know, women have gone through a lot

0:39:06.920 --> 0:39:10.080
<v Speaker 1>of the same struggles and it's cool to see generationally

0:39:10.120 --> 0:39:13.680
<v Speaker 1>that change. But definitely working on having more more women

0:39:13.719 --> 0:39:14.360
<v Speaker 1>on the podcast.

0:39:14.440 --> 0:39:17.440
<v Speaker 2>Well, this whole podcast thing is not as easy as

0:39:17.600 --> 0:39:19.960
<v Speaker 2>I thought. Like I thought that we would just sit

0:39:20.080 --> 0:39:21.800
<v Speaker 2>here for an hour and like talk and everything was

0:39:21.840 --> 0:39:23.480
<v Speaker 2>going to be okay. But it's a muscle.

0:39:24.280 --> 0:39:27.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we're also being very selective because we care deeply

0:39:28.120 --> 0:39:30.960
<v Speaker 1>about the people also listening to this, that we don't

0:39:30.960 --> 0:39:33.880
<v Speaker 1>want to just put out a random podcast because we

0:39:33.960 --> 0:39:38.320
<v Speaker 1>can get views or traffic or whatever. Like, we genuinely

0:39:38.360 --> 0:39:40.600
<v Speaker 1>are doing this because it's something that we're passionate about

0:39:40.640 --> 0:39:42.680
<v Speaker 1>and we care about and we want to share with people.

0:39:42.840 --> 0:39:43.320
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:39:43.360 --> 0:39:45.239
<v Speaker 1>So I think that's also what makes it tricky, is

0:39:45.280 --> 0:39:48.280
<v Speaker 1>like we're constantly asking what can we learn from this person?

0:39:48.760 --> 0:39:51.480
<v Speaker 2>And Yeah, I guess when we were doing it, I

0:39:51.520 --> 0:39:56.399
<v Speaker 2>didn't understand the impact that this podcast would have for me, right,

0:39:56.520 --> 0:40:00.719
<v Speaker 2>And I would say it's you know, it's in the

0:40:00.760 --> 0:40:02.799
<v Speaker 2>top three of like most of the important things I've

0:40:02.840 --> 0:40:05.239
<v Speaker 2>done in my life. Well, right, because I know that

0:40:05.280 --> 0:40:08.640
<v Speaker 2>it'll be able to live on. Yeah, you know, And

0:40:08.719 --> 0:40:12.279
<v Speaker 2>I think there was like huge learning curve, especially with

0:40:12.360 --> 0:40:16.040
<v Speaker 2>like humility. I thought like, just based off of like

0:40:16.160 --> 0:40:19.640
<v Speaker 2>our social media right like numbers, like we would just

0:40:19.719 --> 0:40:23.720
<v Speaker 2>like dominate in the podcast space. But that's not the fact.

0:40:24.080 --> 0:40:27.560
<v Speaker 2>And it's but it's great because the podcast continues to

0:40:28.040 --> 0:40:31.160
<v Speaker 2>teach me things. Is that it's not going to happen overnight.

0:40:31.520 --> 0:40:35.200
<v Speaker 1>No success doesn't happen overnight. It takes ten years to

0:40:35.239 --> 0:40:38.000
<v Speaker 1>be an overnight success. Yeah, I just I don't believe

0:40:38.040 --> 0:40:40.400
<v Speaker 1>in the overnight success. And if people who do happen

0:40:40.520 --> 0:40:43.200
<v Speaker 1>to quote unquote have that, they're not likely to keep

0:40:43.239 --> 0:40:44.920
<v Speaker 1>it because they haven't gone through the struggles in the

0:40:44.960 --> 0:40:47.200
<v Speaker 1>build up to know what it takes, or or about

0:40:47.239 --> 0:40:49.600
<v Speaker 1>the people along the way that they've built up that

0:40:49.640 --> 0:40:50.879
<v Speaker 1>also helped build them up.

0:40:51.160 --> 0:40:54.600
<v Speaker 2>So that's why I'm really proud to be on this

0:40:54.680 --> 0:40:58.400
<v Speaker 2>journey with you, because you know, you have that philosophy

0:40:58.440 --> 0:41:01.759
<v Speaker 2>and you're willing to build this right and I think

0:41:01.800 --> 0:41:05.239
<v Speaker 2>we're aligned on like why we're doing this, and it's

0:41:05.440 --> 0:41:08.960
<v Speaker 2>pretty awesome, Milia. You know, I had no idea that

0:41:09.000 --> 0:41:12.279
<v Speaker 2>this was gonna be something that meant so much to me,

0:41:12.480 --> 0:41:14.319
<v Speaker 2>you know, and you're such a big part of it,

0:41:14.400 --> 0:41:18.439
<v Speaker 2>you know. So I'm glad that somehow we cross paths again.

0:41:18.760 --> 0:41:22.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, all right, Yeah, the feeling's definitely mutual. Yeah, So

0:41:22.239 --> 0:41:25.200
<v Speaker 1>make sure you guys subscribe and comment and like, and

0:41:25.560 --> 0:41:27.400
<v Speaker 1>if there's guests that you would like for us to

0:41:27.480 --> 0:41:29.840
<v Speaker 1>have a podcasts that you'd like to see or learn from, like,

0:41:29.920 --> 0:41:31.920
<v Speaker 1>please tag us or feel free to reach out and

0:41:31.920 --> 0:41:33.719
<v Speaker 1>any way you can, like let us know, because we're

0:41:33.760 --> 0:41:37.600
<v Speaker 1>totally open to using this as a platform to also

0:41:37.600 --> 0:41:40.040
<v Speaker 1>help you guys learn or get to have conversations with

0:41:40.040 --> 0:41:41.560
<v Speaker 1>people that you may also look up to.

0:41:41.760 --> 0:41:45.880
<v Speaker 2>So, yeah, so cars are We have our Instagram cars

0:41:46.560 --> 0:41:47.000
<v Speaker 2>What's our.

0:41:47.239 --> 0:41:51.640
<v Speaker 1>Song, car Stories podcast, card.

0:41:51.520 --> 0:41:56.440
<v Speaker 2>Stories Podcast, and our YouTube channel is car Stories Podcast.

0:41:57.480 --> 0:41:57.799
<v Speaker 2>What else?

0:41:57.840 --> 0:42:01.560
<v Speaker 1>Forget it's car Stories podcast thing every everything?

0:42:01.760 --> 0:42:05.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, and still why what that's funny?

0:42:05.640 --> 0:42:06.080
<v Speaker 1>You don't know this?

0:42:06.160 --> 0:42:06.319
<v Speaker 2>Why?

0:42:06.360 --> 0:42:10.400
<v Speaker 1>Now? You have YouTube, YouTube, Instagram, TikTok.

0:42:10.160 --> 0:42:13.799
<v Speaker 2>And you can download the podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>On iHeartRadio, Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts.

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<v Speaker 1>Please share, subscribe, comment, leave a review, follow us on

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<v Speaker 1>Forward in an email to your entire family.

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<v Speaker 2>Forward that's right recent. But thank you guys for you know, sticking.

0:42:43.760 --> 0:42:47.080
<v Speaker 1>With us for yeah. Thank you so soon.

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<v Speaker 2>Bye,