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Speaker 1: Hello everyone, and welcome back to another episode of Car

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Speaker 1: Stories with Sun King and Amelia Hartford.

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Speaker 2: Hi, Amelia, Hi song. What's going on?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 2: That's why I asked you.

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Speaker 1: What is going on? I love that we match every

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Speaker 1: time and we never plan on it. In fact, I

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Speaker 1: pulled out these red parachute pants and I was like,

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Speaker 1: there's no way we were matching today, and then shot

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Speaker 1: up in red parachute pants.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I've heard these for three days in a row.

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Speaker 1: Oh really, Yeah, I think I might do the same.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, because they're comfortable. Yeah, yeah, they look comfortable.

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Speaker 2: Those are called parachute pants. A parachute pants were big

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Speaker 2: when I was a kid. Yeah, like when I was

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Speaker 2: like ten eleven. Those were one hundred dollars, really parachute

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Speaker 2: pants because they had like zippers and the breakdancers and

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Speaker 2: the bee boys with you know, that's what they wore.

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Speaker 2: So it's like super expensive that And there's this Michael

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Speaker 2: Jackson zipper jacket. And if you could buy the Michael

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Speaker 2: Jackson jacket parachute pants and I think Jordan.

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Speaker 1: Ones you were styling.

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Speaker 2: Oh and you had to have money. That was like

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Speaker 2: that was it a baller?

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Speaker 1: That was it?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, those aren't really parachute pants.

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Speaker 1: Though, No, No, what would you call these pants?

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Speaker 2: Why are they called parachute pants? You've appropriated a name

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Speaker 2: for a pair of pants.

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Speaker 1: Because they're like baggy and floy.

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Speaker 2: You call them parachute pants.

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Speaker 1: This is what they're called.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, because of the material.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and the bagginess. I think.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I guess so. Because they're bagging like a parachute. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's cool. Who makes those?

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Speaker 1: You know?

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Speaker 2: Kloe?

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Speaker 1: Amazon?

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Speaker 2: You shop on Amazon?

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Speaker 1: Sometimes?

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Speaker 2: You buy your clothes on Amazon sometimes, I mean, I'm

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Speaker 2: not there's nothing wrong with that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Is it good quality?

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Speaker 3: You know?

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Speaker 1: I get scared about on Amazon for that reason. But

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Speaker 1: there is some stuff that's actually decent quality of last

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Speaker 1: a while. Yeah, you like tom Bucks.

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Speaker 2: I bought some shirts recently from Amazon.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Mark, They're fine.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's easy, come in in.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I get my socks on Amazon.

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Speaker 2: You do?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So you don't go to the store often.

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Speaker 1: I get some socks from Amazon and some socks from

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Speaker 1: a Ritzy. I really like the Aritzia socks.

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Speaker 2: That's an online store.

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Speaker 1: No, Aritzy is an in person store.

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Speaker 2: Are you a shopper?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 2: You don't like shopping?

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Speaker 1: No, I'm really bad at it. Do you like shopping?

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Speaker 2: Hmm, depends on what it's for. Yeah, you like shoes.

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Speaker 2: I love to go shoes.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, but I buy my shoes online.

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Speaker 2: You do. You don't try them on?

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Speaker 1: Oh no, I mean I know its size. I am

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Speaker 1: in Jordan ones.

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Speaker 2: But you don't like the whole ceremony of asking the

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Speaker 2: dude or the young lady ten and a half please,

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Speaker 2: and then then.

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Speaker 1: They bring it eleven. You're like, no, this is the

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Speaker 1: wrong size. Then you try them on, you walk on.

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Speaker 1: Not really, No, no, because I know my size, and

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Speaker 1: I'm more just looking at different colorways online and seeing

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Speaker 1: what I want to do, at least for Nikes and

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Speaker 1: then for vansize, I just got the same ones over

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Speaker 1: and over again.

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Speaker 2: So you don't go to the mall like every weekend?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 2: No, no, that was a thing for us.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, well, before like phones and social media, even

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Speaker 1: as a kid, we would go to the mall just

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Speaker 1: to hang out after school.

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Speaker 2: How often to go to the mall per month?

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Speaker 1: Now?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: You mean per year, per year? Yeah, I'm trying to

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Speaker 1: make an effort to go more frequently, to actually buy

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Speaker 1: myself nice clothes because I wear the same thing, just

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Speaker 1: over and over again. But I think they'll try once

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Speaker 1: every three months, try to make it to the mall.

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Speaker 2: That's not very often.

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Speaker 1: Half New go.

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Speaker 2: Never often.

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Speaker 1: I don't go at all.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, when I was your age, I would probably

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Speaker 2: every weekend.

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Speaker 1: Really.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was like my wife and I would go

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Speaker 2: on a date.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: You know, well maybe sometimes we even't buy anything, but

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Speaker 2: you know, buy some pretzels, you know, the the pretzels pretzels. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: there was like a routine. You go there, you get

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Speaker 2: the pretzels, corn dog from the hot dog in the States,

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Speaker 2: in the luminade. Yeah, very rarely would I actually buy anything,

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Speaker 2: But if you walk around for an hour, it's like exercise,

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Speaker 2: and you know.

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Speaker 1: I do want to do it more. I think it's

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Speaker 1: also a luxury of time thing that I fill my

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Speaker 1: time with everything. Like right now, I'm in flight school,

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Speaker 1: so that's I am. Yeah, so that's taking up a

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Speaker 2: Were you taking class in Venais?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, Clipper Aviation Clipper. Yeah, do you know Clipper.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I took my nephew because his dream is to be

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Speaker 2: a pilot, so I took him over to Clipper. Oh cool,

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Speaker 2: to start like taking lessons really and I was like, damn,

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Speaker 2: this kid is so lucky. Like if I told my

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Speaker 2: parents like I wanted to be a pilot, that like

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Speaker 2: good for you. Good dream. But yeah, I mean it's

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Speaker 2: cool that we live, you know, close to the Van

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Speaker 2: Nuys Airport. I heard that that airport is like the

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Speaker 2: busiest private airport in America.

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Speaker 1: I'm not surprised. I mean there's a lot of privilege

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Speaker 1: es there whenever I'm going up in my little piper.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so they said that's really good too. That's why

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Speaker 2: the pilots that learn out of Van Eyes are actually

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Speaker 2: the better pilots because it's so busy. So like you know,

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Speaker 2: let's say you learned in a private airport in like the.

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Speaker 1: Mid West, and there's never any air traffic, so you're

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, why are you getting that? Because I want to,

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, what are you going to do with it?

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Speaker 1: Places Amelia, Amelia Earhart.

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Speaker 2: Following our footsteps.

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Speaker 1: Now when people finally if I say Amelia, and every

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Speaker 1: time people will go oh, like the pilot, I can

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Speaker 1: finally say yes, like the pilot.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well that's cool. Yeah, that's cool. That's good. That's

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Speaker 2: a that's a cool thing to have.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I think the last time I really saw you

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Speaker 1: on hung out was in Japan, right.

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Speaker 2: How was that?

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Speaker 1: I had a great time. Yeah, yeah, what about you?

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Speaker 2: I had a good time. Yeah. My favorite part of

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Speaker 2: it was finding those carburetors.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's really cool. Those green tea Macha candies that

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Speaker 1: you got me cookies. The cookies are so good. Did

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Speaker 1: you know this place before? Were you just walking in

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Speaker 1: a store?

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Speaker 2: No, that's a that's a thing from Kyoto. That's the

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Speaker 2: thing by people.

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Speaker 1: As as cookies, thank you. They were really good.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: We just missed the cherry blossom season. I don't know

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Speaker 1: when you have to go get the car raiders if

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Speaker 1: you saw them down there or not.

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Speaker 2: It was cherry blossom season, but they weren't. They weren't

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Speaker 2: blooming because of the cold.

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Speaker 1: Right, But I guess they ended up blooming a week

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Speaker 2: I saw one tree. It's like a sad ass a

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Speaker 2: couple of Yeah, it was really cool formula. Each time

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Speaker 2: I get to go to an event, it just impresses

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Speaker 2: me more and more.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I just think it was really cool. The take

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Speaker 1: being the first race on the streets of Tokyo. Ever

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Speaker 1: at a championship level.

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Speaker 2: The thing we did, Yeah.

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Speaker 1: It was cool to have like Pandem Liberty fail Side

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Speaker 1: and all these ogs bringing out their kid like it

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Speaker 1: was so hardcore enthusiast that, like the general masses may

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Speaker 1: not have known how Like the attention to detail of

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Speaker 1: every little bit of that scene, right those I remember

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Speaker 1: just staying. I was looking around, like this is cool. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Unfortunately, the Pandem truck that Mirasom brought was not even

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Speaker 2: in the shot. Really he brought it. He brought a

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Speaker 2: Toyota Hylus that he had actually built the year before

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Speaker 2: for the tokyoa Autistan and I actually I worked on

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Speaker 2: that truck with him because I heard I messed it up.

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Speaker 1: But that was one of my favorite vehicles there. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that thing was cool. Yeah, but it's not in the Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I guess I didn't really, I was. I was just

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Speaker 1: there admiring it as a fan. The attention, like the

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Speaker 1: fab work on that thing is beautiful.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's cool, you're right. I mean, like the legends

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Speaker 2: of the car design or bodykit design Japan, they were

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Speaker 2: like all in one like parking lot. Right, it's cool. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it's awesome to be a part of something like that.

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Speaker 2: And I'm really frazzled today. What I have to share

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Speaker 2: something with you? So there's this Japanese word kudowari, right,

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Speaker 2: I think I'm pronouncing it maybe wrong, but it's and

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Speaker 2: it means like to strive for perfection in your life

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Speaker 2: when you know that there's no such thing. You'll never

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Speaker 2: get there, but to strive, like you know, you're just

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Speaker 2: trying to like elevate every day.

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Speaker 1: Is that a positive thing?

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Speaker 2: It's a positive thing. Yeah, yeah, yeah, you know it's

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Speaker 2: it's a positive to It's a philosophy, right to go. Hey,

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Speaker 2: whatever you do, if you're doing laundry, you do it

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Speaker 2: like try to aim for perfection even though you know

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Speaker 2: it's not going to happen, but you try, right, if

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Speaker 2: you know, build the car, but then understanding that it's

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Speaker 2: never going to be there's no such thing as perfection, right,

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Speaker 2: you eventually just kind of have to you know, leave

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Speaker 2: it be right and move on. Right. And as of late,

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Speaker 2: I wake up and I think about this, and I go,

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Speaker 2: there's two actually like Japanese things that I think about.

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Speaker 2: The kodowari or the kudari. I think I'm pronouncing her wrong.

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Speaker 2: You know, the idea of striving for perfection, to be

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Speaker 2: a better person, whatever I'm doing in my life, to

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Speaker 2: strive for that. And then also this number seventy eight,

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Speaker 2: and it's a Japanese saying nana korobi aoki. It's like

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Speaker 2: fall down seven, get up eight, right, And so as

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Speaker 2: soon as I wake up these days, like I think

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Speaker 2: about these two kind of sayings, right, or these principles

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Speaker 2: So I've tried to play golf with her four times.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, all right, let's just leave, right, and they're like, hey,

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Speaker 2: It grabs her like this. But she's under the cart right,

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Speaker 2: and I'm all, holy moly. And so the dudes, the kids,

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Speaker 2: And was this wonderful couple, this older couple came over

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Speaker 2: Put in the golf carty.

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Speaker 1: Do you make me never want a golf just hearing

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Speaker 2: So you don't need to play golf like it it's

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Speaker 2: She wants to go home to see the dogs. Right,

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Speaker 2: She's crying. I'm like, we need to go to the hospital.

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Speaker 2: emergency room. It's a whole thing, okay, the whole thing. Right. Wait,

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Speaker 2: why did I bring this golf story up? Oh? Oh,

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Speaker 2: because the Japan thing. Okay, and then in two days later,

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Speaker 1: Right, I had no idea all this happened right before.

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Speaker 2: I was not in a good mood in Japan. I

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Speaker 1: You did it very well. You're very professional.

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Speaker 2: Because because I felt guilty because it was a lot

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Speaker 2: also she's just them pain and it was so stupid,

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Speaker 2: I know what they're saying. They're going, hey, Han almost

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Speaker 1: I don't think we're saying that.

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Speaker 2: Whatever, right, I would say it if I were, I

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Speaker 1: That they're probably just as traumatized about the thing.

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Speaker 2: have never met, right, and Tegi pulled in. There was

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Speaker 2: like one of those house mailboxes.

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Speaker 1: With They didn't run away though, right, I'm prepared for

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Speaker 2: Of being He just like pulled it. The whole thing goes.

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Speaker 2: The whole thing is just crumbles because old, like it's

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Speaker 2: And then I'm like looking around, and I was like

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Speaker 2: I'm getting to that, okay. So so like I go

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Speaker 2: comes out with a smile on his face and he goes,

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00:19:37,080 --> 00:19:39,720
Speaker 2: excuse me, I talk to you, and I was like yeah, sure.

438
00:19:40,080 --> 00:19:42,800
Speaker 2: It's like do you remember that mailbox there? And I

439
00:19:42,840 --> 00:19:46,320
Speaker 2: was like yeah, and he's like, you broke it and

440
00:19:46,359 --> 00:19:49,239
Speaker 2: I was like yes. He goes, it would have been

441
00:19:49,320 --> 00:19:52,159
Speaker 2: nice if you could have just like told me. I

442
00:19:52,240 --> 00:19:55,000
Speaker 2: was like, you're right, and he's like, I just want

443
00:19:55,040 --> 00:19:58,159
Speaker 2: to let you know. We ordered another mailbox and I

444
00:19:58,200 --> 00:20:00,840
Speaker 2: was like, can I pay for that? And he's like, no,

445
00:20:02,280 --> 00:20:06,399
Speaker 2: just know that it would have been nice if you

446
00:20:06,480 --> 00:20:09,000
Speaker 2: had like just knocked on the door and told us

447
00:20:09,040 --> 00:20:11,239
Speaker 2: that the mailbox was broken. And he's like that's all

448
00:20:11,280 --> 00:20:14,520
Speaker 2: I wanted to say. And he's like it's not very neighborly,

449
00:20:14,840 --> 00:20:17,560
Speaker 2: but you did, and I was like, yeah, it's not.

450
00:20:18,400 --> 00:20:22,840
Speaker 2: And then I started walking away and my gut just

451
00:20:22,920 --> 00:20:26,760
Speaker 2: started feeling like I started feeling sick, right, because then

452
00:20:26,800 --> 00:20:30,639
Speaker 2: I'm going back to the Khudowari way of living life.

453
00:20:30,640 --> 00:20:33,680
Speaker 2: And I was like, why would I not, yeah, come back?

454
00:20:33,840 --> 00:20:36,600
Speaker 2: Why didn't it didn't even occur to me really? Right?

455
00:20:36,600 --> 00:20:39,199
Speaker 2: And I was like, yeah, you were stressed. It was

456
00:20:39,240 --> 00:20:42,639
Speaker 2: like a tough day. But within the chaos is when

457
00:20:42,680 --> 00:20:47,040
Speaker 2: you're truly tested. And I fail, right, And what is

458
00:20:47,119 --> 00:20:49,639
Speaker 2: that mailbox going to cost? He doesn't even care because

459
00:20:49,680 --> 00:20:51,440
Speaker 2: he was like, look, we were going to get a

460
00:20:51,480 --> 00:20:54,000
Speaker 2: new mailbox anyway. But it just as a neighbor.

461
00:20:54,200 --> 00:20:55,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not about the money.

462
00:20:55,359 --> 00:20:57,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not. He goes, I don't need your money.

463
00:20:57,280 --> 00:20:59,200
Speaker 2: He's like, I take pride. I've been here for twenty

464
00:20:59,240 --> 00:21:02,040
Speaker 2: six years. You know, I'm friends with everybody. It's just like,

465
00:21:02,080 --> 00:21:04,280
Speaker 2: this is how what neighbors do for each other. You

466
00:21:04,359 --> 00:21:07,080
Speaker 2: take care of each other. And then so I walked

467
00:21:07,080 --> 00:21:10,160
Speaker 2: back and I was like, sir, he was like organizing

468
00:21:10,160 --> 00:21:11,640
Speaker 2: his garage, and it was like, Sir, can I talk

469
00:21:11,680 --> 00:21:15,200
Speaker 2: to you. It's like, I feel really bad right now,

470
00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:17,439
Speaker 2: and I don't know what to do to make it

471
00:21:17,520 --> 00:21:20,959
Speaker 2: up to you because I'm wrong. I was wrong and

472
00:21:21,000 --> 00:21:24,399
Speaker 2: I am wrong and you're one hundred percent right. And

473
00:21:24,440 --> 00:21:27,160
Speaker 2: he started telling me the context of like what that

474
00:21:27,200 --> 00:21:31,080
Speaker 2: mailbox caused. He goes, well, you know, we needed to

475
00:21:31,160 --> 00:21:33,240
Speaker 2: leave town for our family, and I was in San

476
00:21:33,280 --> 00:21:38,200
Speaker 2: Francisco for some work and the next door neighbors were robbed,

477
00:21:39,040 --> 00:21:42,240
Speaker 2: and so when the mailbox collapse, I thought it was

478
00:21:42,280 --> 00:21:45,760
Speaker 2: a burglar because he goes, I have cameras everywhere, and

479
00:21:45,840 --> 00:21:49,800
Speaker 2: so I actually drove down from San Francisco. Oh wow,

480
00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:52,320
Speaker 2: I needed to get my passport, and I was worried

481
00:21:52,320 --> 00:21:54,840
Speaker 2: that the passport was going to not be diner because

482
00:21:54,840 --> 00:21:59,840
Speaker 2: there's no mailbox, right, Like, Fortunately the passport was still

483
00:21:59,840 --> 00:22:02,680
Speaker 2: in the mailbox. It was already delivered, but somebody could

484
00:22:02,680 --> 00:22:04,480
Speaker 2: have picked up the mailbox and taken it. He's like,

485
00:22:04,520 --> 00:22:07,040
Speaker 2: so there's a lot of like things that kind of

486
00:22:07,359 --> 00:22:11,439
Speaker 2: you know, were triggered by your mailbox like fiasco. And

487
00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:13,879
Speaker 2: I was like, and it hit me. I was like,

488
00:22:13,960 --> 00:22:17,000
Speaker 2: you never know, it's a simple thing as a mailbox,

489
00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:19,600
Speaker 2: but then it could cause so many other problems, right.

490
00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:22,680
Speaker 1: I literally say all the time that everyone is fighting

491
00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:25,240
Speaker 1: a battle that you know nothing about, and I think

492
00:22:25,280 --> 00:22:27,040
Speaker 1: it's true. And that's a perfect example of that.

493
00:22:27,240 --> 00:22:29,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it doesn't matter what you're going through. I

494
00:22:29,359 --> 00:22:31,639
Speaker 2: guess the whole point of this conversation is, like I

495
00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:34,399
Speaker 2: need to articulate. I needed to like actually like speak

496
00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:36,720
Speaker 2: it because I'm like, you know, it's not the end

497
00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:39,720
Speaker 2: of the world, but it's still like, not good. It's

498
00:22:39,760 --> 00:22:41,359
Speaker 2: not the kind of person I would want to be.

499
00:22:41,400 --> 00:22:42,919
Speaker 2: It's not the kind of neighbor.

500
00:22:42,840 --> 00:22:44,800
Speaker 1: I would still like bake them a plate of cookies

501
00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:46,840
Speaker 1: or do something. Just leave it at the doorstep with

502
00:22:46,880 --> 00:22:49,679
Speaker 1: a little note. I would still do something.

503
00:22:49,840 --> 00:22:51,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I'm going to go buy a cake.

504
00:22:52,520 --> 00:22:55,480
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, on the way home today. But it makes

505
00:22:55,520 --> 00:22:57,400
Speaker 2: me go I want to be that kind of man

506
00:22:57,640 --> 00:23:01,480
Speaker 2: when I get older. Right, he was like, did he

507
00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:04,000
Speaker 2: drop this knowledge on me? And it just made me

508
00:23:04,040 --> 00:23:08,840
Speaker 2: feel I have so far to go? You know, makes sense?

509
00:23:09,400 --> 00:23:12,880
Speaker 1: Makes sense? Yeah, now I'm slightly traumatized to ever go golfing.

510
00:23:13,520 --> 00:23:14,760
Speaker 2: Well, just don't go golfing with me.

511
00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:21,199
Speaker 1: I'm just I'm that's a lot of terrible things to

512
00:23:21,240 --> 00:23:23,800
Speaker 1: follow you as you go golfing. When you were starting

513
00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:26,080
Speaker 1: to tell me the story about you going golfing and

514
00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:28,480
Speaker 1: the tree falling and all this stuff, in my mind,

515
00:23:28,520 --> 00:23:30,399
Speaker 1: I was like, there's nothing bad enough that you can

516
00:23:30,440 --> 00:23:32,399
Speaker 1: tell me that I won't tell you that you should

517
00:23:32,480 --> 00:23:35,840
Speaker 1: continue golfing and give it a shot. But after the

518
00:23:35,880 --> 00:23:37,800
Speaker 1: card incident with your wife, I'm actually like, you know what,

519
00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:40,199
Speaker 1: maybe you guys should find a new hobby. Yeah, I mean,

520
00:23:40,320 --> 00:23:41,120
Speaker 1: she thought of tennis.

521
00:23:42,240 --> 00:23:45,560
Speaker 2: She doesn't like tennis. I took a pick a ball class. Yeah,

522
00:23:45,560 --> 00:23:47,040
Speaker 2: there you go, and it's a lot of fun. But

523
00:23:47,080 --> 00:23:48,840
Speaker 2: I don't know if she's gonna be And she really

524
00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:49,480
Speaker 2: likes golf.

525
00:23:49,840 --> 00:23:52,320
Speaker 1: She didn't need surgery. She's okay, No she doesn't.

526
00:23:52,359 --> 00:23:53,439
Speaker 2: Well, we don't know.

527
00:23:53,600 --> 00:23:55,160
Speaker 1: Is it clean break or is it cracked?

528
00:23:55,240 --> 00:23:59,640
Speaker 2: It's cracked. Okay, that's worse. I don't know what else

529
00:23:59,680 --> 00:24:00,359
Speaker 2: to say. I don't know.

530
00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:04,200
Speaker 1: Kind of sad, Sorry, guys. If this is.

531
00:24:04,200 --> 00:24:08,359
Speaker 2: Sad for that, that's sad. I mean the whole point

532
00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:10,040
Speaker 2: of me bringing all this up is.

533
00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:12,879
Speaker 1: That everything happens for a reason. That everyone's fighting battle

534
00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:15,760
Speaker 1: you know nothing about. It literally costs nothing to be

535
00:24:15,840 --> 00:24:16,520
Speaker 1: nice to people.

536
00:24:16,880 --> 00:24:19,679
Speaker 2: Yeah, and every day you can be better. Yeah, you know,

537
00:24:20,040 --> 00:24:23,720
Speaker 2: and sometimes like a mailbox is gonna teach you you're

538
00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:26,359
Speaker 2: not even half demand that you think you are.

539
00:24:27,240 --> 00:24:28,840
Speaker 1: You know, do you meditate?

540
00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:32,200
Speaker 2: The running is the meditation? Okay, how about you?

541
00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:34,760
Speaker 1: The gym is my meditation for me?

542
00:24:35,880 --> 00:24:37,919
Speaker 2: So what is meditation for you? Like, what are you

543
00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:39,320
Speaker 2: thinking about when you're meditating?

544
00:24:39,440 --> 00:24:41,880
Speaker 1: Well, the idea is you're not thinking right, and it's

545
00:24:42,040 --> 00:24:43,720
Speaker 1: teaching you how to live in the present moment, so

546
00:24:43,760 --> 00:24:45,919
Speaker 1: you're not being so bombarded by your thoughts and your

547
00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:48,359
Speaker 1: motions and everything coming up from a bunch of different directions.

548
00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:51,480
Speaker 1: It just recenters yourself and brings you back to the

549
00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:53,600
Speaker 1: present moment. And I'm sure it sounds a little like

550
00:24:53,600 --> 00:24:58,520
Speaker 1: oh meditations like yoga, but it actually it does. It

551
00:24:58,560 --> 00:25:02,800
Speaker 1: does help to ground yourself, especially when you know instances

552
00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:04,960
Speaker 1: where you can't control your mind when something bad happens.

553
00:25:05,440 --> 00:25:08,399
Speaker 2: I think the running is like my sense of or

554
00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:11,480
Speaker 2: my source of meditation or my version of it, you know,

555
00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:15,040
Speaker 2: especially lately. You know, it's like I think lately, like

556
00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:18,040
Speaker 2: you know, people in my life, like on a professional

557
00:25:18,119 --> 00:25:20,600
Speaker 2: level that are you know, like moving on and stuff,

558
00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:24,640
Speaker 2: and it's like all this anxiety and like insecurities come out,

559
00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:26,679
Speaker 2: like you know, it's like you wake up and you

560
00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:32,200
Speaker 2: feel like there's like this hopeless feeling right and things

561
00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:35,040
Speaker 2: that I can't control and no matter what I do,

562
00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:38,359
Speaker 2: it's not going to change anything. And we're talking about

563
00:25:38,640 --> 00:25:42,720
Speaker 2: we actually have the same agent. We're just Yeah, so

564
00:25:42,800 --> 00:25:47,320
Speaker 2: it's a guy named Frank and he's leaving the business to.

565
00:25:47,359 --> 00:25:49,520
Speaker 1: Like go on to bigger and better things, right to

566
00:25:49,560 --> 00:25:51,880
Speaker 1: start his own thing, which I think being your own

567
00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:55,119
Speaker 1: business owner is an incredible thing and something that not

568
00:25:55,160 --> 00:25:56,520
Speaker 1: everyone gets to do in a lifetime.

569
00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:59,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, but you know Frank Is you know, dear friend

570
00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:03,840
Speaker 2: and you know him leaving just like it triggered like

571
00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:07,240
Speaker 2: this anxiety and I had to really kind of step

572
00:26:07,280 --> 00:26:08,960
Speaker 2: back and go where is all this coming from? And

573
00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:12,280
Speaker 2: it's like, you know again it's like I'm not you know,

574
00:26:12,400 --> 00:26:16,840
Speaker 2: invincible or you know, immune to fear and insecurity about

575
00:26:16,880 --> 00:26:17,359
Speaker 2: the future.

576
00:26:17,520 --> 00:26:17,840
Speaker 1: Right.

577
00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:20,439
Speaker 2: So I think that's where that meditation and the running

578
00:26:20,520 --> 00:26:22,720
Speaker 2: like you brought up is like to echo that is

579
00:26:22,720 --> 00:26:25,160
Speaker 2: that you know, with the running, I can control it.

580
00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:28,479
Speaker 2: And it's like, you know, focus on you know, the

581
00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:31,400
Speaker 2: negative stuff right and do nothing right and just kind

582
00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:35,040
Speaker 2: of sit there and mope and be sad and stress

583
00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:37,760
Speaker 2: and just like you know, get consumed by it, or

584
00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:40,480
Speaker 2: go and do something positive, something healthy that's going to

585
00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:44,000
Speaker 2: actually you know, make me better. And it's always like

586
00:26:44,320 --> 00:26:48,280
Speaker 2: so interesting because today I ran you know, five miles, right,

587
00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:51,720
Speaker 2: Jesus right, it's it's it's not it's not that it's

588
00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:53,800
Speaker 2: not that impressive. Actually, at the end of the day,

589
00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:54,639
Speaker 2: I hate running.

590
00:26:55,200 --> 00:26:55,800
Speaker 1: It's not for me.

591
00:26:56,880 --> 00:26:59,359
Speaker 2: Have you tried it? Yes, like really tried it.

592
00:26:59,440 --> 00:27:02,359
Speaker 1: Yes, I don't enjoy it. I don't get those runners high.

593
00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:03,760
Speaker 1: Running's not for me.

594
00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:05,320
Speaker 2: I don't enjoy it.

595
00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:06,560
Speaker 1: You just suffer through it.

596
00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:11,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like a metaphor to life because let's use

597
00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:13,840
Speaker 2: five miles, right, And I think I've spoke on this

598
00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:16,760
Speaker 2: before with Magnus because this is a runner. It's like

599
00:27:16,840 --> 00:27:19,480
Speaker 2: I use running as like a daily lesson. It's like

600
00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:23,240
Speaker 2: the meditation. Right, It's like it's so hard. Yeah, let's

601
00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:26,200
Speaker 2: say five miles takes me like you know, forty six minutes,

602
00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:29,760
Speaker 2: or you're taking the first half really slowly, like you know,

603
00:27:29,840 --> 00:27:32,080
Speaker 2: fifty minute run for it. So like let's say you

604
00:27:32,119 --> 00:27:35,560
Speaker 2: average like ten minutes a mile, right, the first mile,

605
00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:39,040
Speaker 2: just like everything else in life, is like so hard

606
00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:42,560
Speaker 2: to lace up and get there and start doing it.

607
00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:46,200
Speaker 2: And half a mile I want to quit. Let's say

608
00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:51,600
Speaker 2: we parallel with like acting or writing a script or

609
00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:56,000
Speaker 2: developing a movie or doing a project for yourself. Right,

610
00:27:56,440 --> 00:27:58,560
Speaker 2: and you go, great idea, and then it's like you

611
00:27:58,600 --> 00:28:01,680
Speaker 2: start it and I kind of halfway into it, you're

612
00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:05,399
Speaker 2: like I want to quit, right, And you get to

613
00:28:05,400 --> 00:28:07,320
Speaker 2: the mile and you're like, oh, I did a mile

614
00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:11,240
Speaker 2: and maybe that's enough, right, But you're like, but my

615
00:28:11,320 --> 00:28:14,440
Speaker 2: goal is five miles, so I'm at a mile.

616
00:28:14,600 --> 00:28:15,200
Speaker 1: You walk it all?

617
00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:18,280
Speaker 2: No, No, I don't even stretch. I just go like

618
00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:21,960
Speaker 2: there's no stretching. The stretching is like the slow jogging, right,

619
00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:24,640
Speaker 2: And then I try to run uphill for the first

620
00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:27,480
Speaker 2: three miles because downhill is where you're gonna hurt yourself

621
00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:29,920
Speaker 2: with the shin splints and stuff like. Uphill is hard

622
00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:32,600
Speaker 2: and you're able to. And I talked to myself and

623
00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:34,879
Speaker 2: I'm like, so you're such a loser, Like why'd you

624
00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:36,200
Speaker 2: do that? What'd you do with the mail box?

625
00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:38,840
Speaker 1: Such a David Goggins thing to do, is it?

626
00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:40,560
Speaker 2: Does he talk to himself?

627
00:28:40,720 --> 00:28:43,400
Speaker 1: He says a little worse things to himself to motivate himself.

628
00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:45,840
Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, and it's all I'm venting it out. I'm like,

629
00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:48,479
Speaker 2: you stupid piece of crap, Like, why'd you do that?

630
00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:51,680
Speaker 1: Like what this doesn't sound healthy song? Nothing that you're

631
00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:51,960
Speaker 1: telling me?

632
00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:55,320
Speaker 2: Well, you got to get it out. You gotta get

633
00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:57,800
Speaker 2: in whatever works for you. I guess you gotta get

634
00:28:57,800 --> 00:29:00,920
Speaker 2: it out, you know. I'm being honest with myself, like

635
00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:02,680
Speaker 2: you could have done better. Why'd you do that, what'd

636
00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:03,520
Speaker 2: you take that shortcut?

637
00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:06,200
Speaker 1: You also tell yourself it's okay. Would I try to

638
00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:09,160
Speaker 1: talk to myself like I would talk to four year

639
00:29:09,160 --> 00:29:11,040
Speaker 1: old me or five year old me. I would never

640
00:29:11,080 --> 00:29:12,640
Speaker 1: say stuff like that to a kid.

641
00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:16,640
Speaker 2: This is the first part. Remember, it's like you are structure.

642
00:29:16,920 --> 00:29:20,520
Speaker 2: It's a three x short shirt. Three parts. Okay, the beginning, right,

643
00:29:20,560 --> 00:29:22,560
Speaker 2: it's like you got to keep going, man, come on,

644
00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:24,360
Speaker 2: you gotta run, you gotta run, you gotta do it.

645
00:29:24,560 --> 00:29:27,080
Speaker 2: Get to the first mile, get there, like, see you

646
00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:29,320
Speaker 2: made the first mile, right, It's like, but I want

647
00:29:29,360 --> 00:29:32,480
Speaker 2: to quit. It's like two versions of me. There's this

648
00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:35,600
Speaker 2: like loser version of me, right, and then there's like

649
00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:38,960
Speaker 2: the varsity like team captain version of me. And they

650
00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:41,680
Speaker 2: start talking to themselves right in a healthy way. It's like,

651
00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:46,760
Speaker 2: you know, I ran yesterday. I did six seven miles yesterday,

652
00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:48,440
Speaker 2: Like why do I need to do and let's take

653
00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:50,560
Speaker 2: a break. Then the varsity is like, so what are

654
00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:52,200
Speaker 2: you gonna do? Go home and just like sit around

655
00:29:52,240 --> 00:29:55,120
Speaker 2: and mope around and be depressed and feel sorry for yourself.

656
00:29:55,280 --> 00:29:57,160
Speaker 2: Come on, let's do another amount and see how you

657
00:29:57,160 --> 00:30:01,760
Speaker 2: feel during that second mile. It's like, is so hard? Amelia.

658
00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:04,560
Speaker 1: Right, you're just like, you don't need to tell me.

659
00:30:04,920 --> 00:30:07,720
Speaker 2: It's so hard, right, and your body's not really warmed

660
00:30:07,760 --> 00:30:10,440
Speaker 2: up here, so things are starting to creak and you're like, oh,

661
00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:13,560
Speaker 2: my knees kind of clicking and my back doesn't feel

662
00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:18,200
Speaker 2: like your body's like trying to prevent you from moving on, right,

663
00:30:18,360 --> 00:30:22,200
Speaker 2: just like in life. Right, it's like everything that we do,

664
00:30:22,280 --> 00:30:25,800
Speaker 2: it's like there's some entity that's like, hey, the weather's bad,

665
00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:28,120
Speaker 2: so you can't do that. You don't know so and so,

666
00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:29,960
Speaker 2: so you can't do that. It's like you're not in

667
00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:31,680
Speaker 2: the union, Well how do you do that? All these

668
00:30:31,680 --> 00:30:35,160
Speaker 2: things that like will try to prevent you. Right, then

669
00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:37,120
Speaker 2: you get to the second mont, you're like, oh, actually

670
00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:41,440
Speaker 2: I'm here the rationalizing going, well, you did too, that's

671
00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:45,360
Speaker 2: a lot. That's enough man. Right, it's so strong, it's

672
00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:49,960
Speaker 2: like intense, and the Varsity version of me is like, yo, dude,

673
00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:54,000
Speaker 2: that's just that's JV kind of running. The goal is

674
00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:57,720
Speaker 2: five miles, just keep going and two and a half

675
00:30:57,720 --> 00:31:00,760
Speaker 2: you're like halfway there. But then the desire to quit

676
00:31:01,160 --> 00:31:04,120
Speaker 2: is even stronger at that moment. But then I sit

677
00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:06,200
Speaker 2: there and I go, well, your goal is five miles,

678
00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:10,320
Speaker 2: keep going, keep going. It's so hard. Three miles hits

679
00:31:10,320 --> 00:31:13,680
Speaker 2: and you're like, okay, and now I can quit, right,

680
00:31:13,760 --> 00:31:17,000
Speaker 2: And then I start increasing the speed. I go like

681
00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:19,360
Speaker 2: thirty percent faster, right because I'm like, okay, I'm a

682
00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:21,880
Speaker 2: three miles. If I go super fast and I'm just

683
00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:24,480
Speaker 2: in pain, I'll forget about it. And then all of

684
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:27,320
Speaker 2: a sudden, four miles shows up and that fourth mile

685
00:31:27,480 --> 00:31:31,240
Speaker 2: you're sitting there, you go, okay, it's a very simple choice. Star.

686
00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:33,960
Speaker 2: It's like I can just start walking now I'm done.

687
00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:37,840
Speaker 2: But then if you're done, what was the whole point

688
00:31:37,840 --> 00:31:41,320
Speaker 2: of the run? Get to the five mile, right? And

689
00:31:41,360 --> 00:31:45,200
Speaker 2: the five mile is a full sprint, it's just full spint,

690
00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:48,400
Speaker 2: so it goes by really fast. And then as soon

691
00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:50,080
Speaker 2: as that five miles is done, because you have a

692
00:31:50,120 --> 00:31:52,560
Speaker 2: track or you have a watch or you know I watch,

693
00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:55,520
Speaker 2: or if you're on a treadmill so you can see it, right,

694
00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:58,240
Speaker 2: and you look at that five mile thing, all of

695
00:31:58,280 --> 00:32:00,680
Speaker 2: a sudden everything feels like it's going to be okay.

696
00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:03,840
Speaker 2: If I don't do that run, like all day, I'm

697
00:32:03,840 --> 00:32:05,320
Speaker 2: this like neurotic mess.

698
00:32:05,720 --> 00:32:07,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's how I feel about the gym. If I

699
00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:08,640
Speaker 1: don't hit the gym. If I don't get a good,

700
00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:12,120
Speaker 1: solid workout in, that's how I feel like cloudy, not

701
00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:18,080
Speaker 1: clear minded. I actually saw this TikTok recently that was like, Oh,

702
00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:21,920
Speaker 1: I'm feeling sad and depressed or I'm just like cloudy,

703
00:32:21,960 --> 00:32:24,200
Speaker 1: my judgment's off, like I don't know what's wrong with me.

704
00:32:24,280 --> 00:32:26,040
Speaker 1: And the person goes, well, did you work out today?

705
00:32:26,080 --> 00:32:28,520
Speaker 1: They go nope. Did you eat well today? They go nope?

706
00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:31,200
Speaker 1: Did you drink any water? They go nope? Have you journaled,

707
00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:33,400
Speaker 1: meditator doing anything? They go nope. And it's just this

708
00:32:33,440 --> 00:32:35,240
Speaker 1: whole list of like things that you could be doing

709
00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:37,560
Speaker 1: to help better yourself your mental health and not doing

710
00:32:37,600 --> 00:32:39,840
Speaker 1: any of them, but then still not being sure why

711
00:32:39,840 --> 00:32:42,240
Speaker 1: you're not feeling your best. You got to take care

712
00:32:42,240 --> 00:32:44,760
Speaker 1: of yourself. And I agree that's one of those things

713
00:32:44,800 --> 00:32:46,560
Speaker 1: that like, if I don't hit the gym or if

714
00:32:46,600 --> 00:32:48,240
Speaker 1: I don't get a workout in, I just do not

715
00:32:48,360 --> 00:32:50,160
Speaker 1: feel the same for the rest of the day. I

716
00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:52,000
Speaker 1: just don't feel like as good. I don't have to

717
00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:52,800
Speaker 1: explain it.

718
00:32:52,800 --> 00:32:56,120
Speaker 2: It's so simple. Yeah, but it is an investment. I mean,

719
00:32:56,120 --> 00:32:57,920
Speaker 2: with your schedule, it must be really hard to get

720
00:32:57,960 --> 00:32:58,400
Speaker 2: to the gym.

721
00:32:58,520 --> 00:33:00,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, well I have to. I have to get up

722
00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:02,000
Speaker 1: at five five point thirty to go to the gym

723
00:33:02,200 --> 00:33:03,600
Speaker 1: or else it's just not going to get done.

724
00:33:03,720 --> 00:33:06,000
Speaker 2: You don't get there, and all day you feel like

725
00:33:06,080 --> 00:33:07,280
Speaker 2: there's something incomplete.

726
00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:07,720
Speaker 1: Yeah.

727
00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:11,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I was living like that for you know,

728
00:33:11,840 --> 00:33:14,800
Speaker 2: November twenty third, Like I'll never forget the date because

729
00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:17,760
Speaker 2: that's the day that I just stopped smoking cigarettes. Too,

730
00:33:18,240 --> 00:33:21,720
Speaker 2: because as when COVID started that first week, it's like, yeah,

731
00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:24,240
Speaker 2: I think I'll just start smoking because COVID will last

732
00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:26,480
Speaker 2: for like a couple of weeks, And that was my excuse.

733
00:33:26,520 --> 00:33:31,160
Speaker 2: And then years later, I'm still smoking. And if I

734
00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:35,400
Speaker 2: look back at myself from November twenty third and before that,

735
00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:39,520
Speaker 2: like I even look at pictures, right, I remember, even

736
00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:42,240
Speaker 2: like talking to you, You're like, yeah, you don't like

737
00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:44,280
Speaker 2: looking at pictures of yourself, And I was like, I

738
00:33:44,360 --> 00:33:47,280
Speaker 2: think I told you that. It was because I knew

739
00:33:47,520 --> 00:33:51,480
Speaker 2: that I was not like my optimal because I was

740
00:33:51,520 --> 00:33:53,880
Speaker 2: not taking care of myself. I was smoking cigarettes, not

741
00:33:53,920 --> 00:33:56,160
Speaker 2: sleeping properly, eating crap.

742
00:33:56,360 --> 00:33:57,920
Speaker 1: You look at foes yourself now.

743
00:33:57,840 --> 00:34:00,640
Speaker 2: No I can, oh, yeah, like I don't have a

744
00:34:00,640 --> 00:34:04,480
Speaker 2: problem with it. Right since November twenty third. You know,

745
00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:07,840
Speaker 2: I try to run every single day. My diet is

746
00:34:07,840 --> 00:34:12,120
Speaker 2: totally different. I don't touch cigarettes, right, I sleep very

747
00:34:12,360 --> 00:34:15,239
Speaker 2: I'm very like sleep hygiene is like a big thing.

748
00:34:15,280 --> 00:34:18,719
Speaker 2: It's like, you know, I'm religious about like sleeping properly.

749
00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:19,960
Speaker 1: Right and making sure it's cold.

750
00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:22,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I think the exercises wipes you out.

751
00:34:22,760 --> 00:34:26,560
Speaker 1: Exercise cold room, don't stare at a phone as you're

752
00:34:26,560 --> 00:34:29,320
Speaker 1: trying to fall asleep, don't doom scroll TikTok.

753
00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:34,960
Speaker 2: Like I don't watch TV at night. Like I used

754
00:34:34,960 --> 00:34:36,839
Speaker 2: to like watch a movie and then it turned into

755
00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:40,319
Speaker 2: another movie, and then it would get me depressed. I'm like,

756
00:34:40,400 --> 00:34:42,560
Speaker 2: why am I not in that movie? What am I

757
00:34:42,680 --> 00:34:43,200
Speaker 2: doing wrong?

758
00:34:43,640 --> 00:34:57,759
Speaker 3: Right? So?

759
00:34:57,920 --> 00:35:01,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean what I love about, you know, this

760
00:35:01,160 --> 00:35:06,120
Speaker 2: past year, especially with like all the wonderful conversations we had,

761
00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:09,440
Speaker 2: you know, even this morning, like you know, thinking about

762
00:35:09,480 --> 00:35:12,520
Speaker 2: coming here and having a conversation with you, I was like,

763
00:35:13,320 --> 00:35:17,680
Speaker 2: what is the Car Stories podcast done for me on

764
00:35:17,719 --> 00:35:20,560
Speaker 2: a personal level? Why does it need to continue for

765
00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:24,040
Speaker 2: me on a personal level? Right? I think all the

766
00:35:24,080 --> 00:35:28,799
Speaker 2: amazing people that we've met and the conversations, like I

767
00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:31,080
Speaker 2: don't remember the macro part of it, but I remember

768
00:35:31,120 --> 00:35:35,279
Speaker 2: these little like micro details that I feel like the

769
00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:37,880
Speaker 2: tools that I've been missing, you know, and that like

770
00:35:37,920 --> 00:35:41,200
Speaker 2: my toolbox is filled with this and that, and you

771
00:35:41,200 --> 00:35:43,360
Speaker 2: know it's like I didn't know I needed like a

772
00:35:43,640 --> 00:35:45,959
Speaker 2: ten millimeter. Now I have it right.

773
00:35:45,960 --> 00:35:47,440
Speaker 1: Last night, can find it and here it is.

774
00:35:48,200 --> 00:35:51,160
Speaker 2: I'm so appreciative this past year. It's like when I

775
00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:54,120
Speaker 2: think about, Hey, what are you grateful for, It's like,

776
00:35:54,400 --> 00:36:00,560
Speaker 2: this podcast is so important for me. We haven't made

777
00:36:00,640 --> 00:36:05,040
Speaker 2: much money, so just to tell you that, But we

778
00:36:05,080 --> 00:36:06,320
Speaker 2: don't do it for funey.

779
00:36:06,719 --> 00:36:09,920
Speaker 1: Right, No, we get to have these incredible conversations with

780
00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:13,080
Speaker 1: people that I've grown from it. I've become a better person.

781
00:36:13,120 --> 00:36:15,719
Speaker 1: And the feedback from the community, Like I know, people

782
00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:17,160
Speaker 1: come up to you and people come up to me.

783
00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:22,319
Speaker 1: They're super appreciative of it and they're thankful that it's there.

784
00:36:22,360 --> 00:36:25,839
Speaker 1: That we're making these conversations available for people to listen

785
00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:28,960
Speaker 1: to for free. We're not charging for this stuff. It's cool.

786
00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:32,400
Speaker 1: It's you know, in a way, it's like having different

787
00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:37,960
Speaker 1: mentors or learning from people you may idolize, and it's learning.

788
00:36:37,960 --> 00:36:40,680
Speaker 1: Maybe it's having a different outlook on life or whatever

789
00:36:40,719 --> 00:36:43,320
Speaker 1: it is. To really help you grow as a person,

790
00:36:43,360 --> 00:36:46,640
Speaker 1: as a soul, whatever that is. I've found growth in it,

791
00:36:46,640 --> 00:36:48,160
Speaker 1: so I do enjoyed it too.

792
00:36:48,360 --> 00:36:51,400
Speaker 2: What conversation do you think like sticks with you the

793
00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:52,800
Speaker 2: most from this past season?

794
00:36:53,200 --> 00:36:57,200
Speaker 1: I maybe because it's more recent. Talking to Jeff Zwart

795
00:36:57,280 --> 00:37:00,160
Speaker 1: was beautiful and he has such an incredible outlook on

796
00:37:00,320 --> 00:37:02,680
Speaker 1: life and I can only hope to be half the

797
00:37:02,680 --> 00:37:07,040
Speaker 1: person that he is. The conversation with Magnus was so strong,

798
00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:09,360
Speaker 1: and I don't want to like single people out because

799
00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:13,200
Speaker 1: I've taken away from every single conversation yeah, that we've had,

800
00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:15,560
Speaker 1: and it's cool to be able to share that with people.

801
00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:19,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I think we do need more women on

802
00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:21,200
Speaker 2: the show. Yeah, So this is it's so hard to

803
00:37:21,239 --> 00:37:22,280
Speaker 2: find women guests.

804
00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:26,839
Speaker 1: Honestly, a lot has been scheduling because the women we've

805
00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:28,760
Speaker 1: been talking to and reaching out are just so busy

806
00:37:28,960 --> 00:37:31,920
Speaker 1: taking over the world, which I'm so happy to see.

807
00:37:31,920 --> 00:37:35,600
Speaker 1: But they have intense travel schedules, they're racing whatever it is.

808
00:37:35,719 --> 00:37:38,799
Speaker 1: So we are working actively to get more women on

809
00:37:38,840 --> 00:37:42,239
Speaker 1: this show. And maybe there's some people that we have overlooked,

810
00:37:42,280 --> 00:37:45,799
Speaker 1: So please tag us in some posts of some strong

811
00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:48,759
Speaker 1: influential women. I promise. We've reached out to so many

812
00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:50,279
Speaker 1: and a lot of it is just scheduling.

813
00:37:50,520 --> 00:37:53,200
Speaker 2: If you had like a all star wish list.

814
00:37:53,640 --> 00:37:58,279
Speaker 1: Michelle Multon, she is an incredible driver and I think

815
00:37:58,280 --> 00:37:59,680
Speaker 1: she works with the fa now and she used to

816
00:37:59,760 --> 00:38:02,399
Speaker 1: race Auti Quatro and the Group B Series and she

817
00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:05,839
Speaker 1: is a huge inspiration. So she she's one for sure

818
00:38:05,880 --> 00:38:08,359
Speaker 1: amongst so many, Like there's there's a lot of people

819
00:38:08,400 --> 00:38:10,759
Speaker 1: that a lot of women who I've looked up to

820
00:38:10,800 --> 00:38:11,360
Speaker 1: who I would like.

821
00:38:11,360 --> 00:38:12,839
Speaker 2: Have we asked her to come on the show.

822
00:38:13,400 --> 00:38:16,200
Speaker 1: No, she's one of those I should. I'm intimidated to

823
00:38:16,280 --> 00:38:20,759
Speaker 1: reach out because I just I don't know her. I

824
00:38:20,760 --> 00:38:24,440
Speaker 1: don't know her people. I could try damning her on Instagram,

825
00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:25,600
Speaker 1: but I don't even think she has a.

826
00:38:25,719 --> 00:38:28,080
Speaker 2: Well, that's something that we talked about of just having

827
00:38:28,120 --> 00:38:32,560
Speaker 2: the courage right to reach out to people. You know,

828
00:38:33,000 --> 00:38:36,000
Speaker 2: we're not reaching out to people for likes. We're reaching

829
00:38:36,040 --> 00:38:40,160
Speaker 2: out to actually go share some lessons with people, right.

830
00:38:40,320 --> 00:38:43,279
Speaker 2: So I think that's something that you brought up with me,

831
00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:47,200
Speaker 2: is to just go reach out to people, right And

832
00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:49,360
Speaker 2: you never know it's like because I you know, I

833
00:38:49,480 --> 00:38:51,400
Speaker 2: was like, well, why would they come like you know,

834
00:38:51,640 --> 00:38:53,239
Speaker 2: why are they going to respond to me? But I

835
00:38:53,280 --> 00:38:54,440
Speaker 2: think we have to just try.

836
00:38:54,960 --> 00:38:57,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, right, Jen Horsey was also a really good conversation

837
00:38:58,480 --> 00:39:00,960
Speaker 1: that I was excited about because she's Boston General and

838
00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:03,200
Speaker 1: it's nice to be able to have those conversations and

839
00:39:03,600 --> 00:39:06,879
Speaker 1: understand that, you know, women have gone through a lot

840
00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:10,080
Speaker 1: of the same struggles and it's cool to see generationally

841
00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:13,680
Speaker 1: that change. But definitely working on having more more women

842
00:39:13,719 --> 00:39:14,360
Speaker 1: on the podcast.

843
00:39:14,440 --> 00:39:17,440
Speaker 2: Well, this whole podcast thing is not as easy as

844
00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:19,960
Speaker 2: I thought. Like I thought that we would just sit

845
00:39:20,080 --> 00:39:21,800
Speaker 2: here for an hour and like talk and everything was

846
00:39:21,840 --> 00:39:23,480
Speaker 2: going to be okay. But it's a muscle.

847
00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:27,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're also being very selective because we care deeply

848
00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:30,960
Speaker 1: about the people also listening to this, that we don't

849
00:39:30,960 --> 00:39:33,880
Speaker 1: want to just put out a random podcast because we

850
00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:38,320
Speaker 1: can get views or traffic or whatever. Like, we genuinely

851
00:39:38,360 --> 00:39:40,600
Speaker 1: are doing this because it's something that we're passionate about

852
00:39:40,640 --> 00:39:42,680
Speaker 1: and we care about and we want to share with people.

853
00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:43,320
Speaker 2: Yeah.

854
00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:45,239
Speaker 1: So I think that's also what makes it tricky, is

855
00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:48,280
Speaker 1: like we're constantly asking what can we learn from this person?

856
00:39:48,760 --> 00:39:51,480
Speaker 2: And Yeah, I guess when we were doing it, I

857
00:39:51,520 --> 00:39:56,399
Speaker 2: didn't understand the impact that this podcast would have for me, right,

858
00:39:56,520 --> 00:40:00,719
Speaker 2: And I would say it's you know, it's in the

859
00:40:00,760 --> 00:40:02,799
Speaker 2: top three of like most of the important things I've

860
00:40:02,840 --> 00:40:05,239
Speaker 2: done in my life. Well, right, because I know that

861
00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:08,640
Speaker 2: it'll be able to live on. Yeah, you know, And

862
00:40:08,719 --> 00:40:12,279
Speaker 2: I think there was like huge learning curve, especially with

863
00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:16,040
Speaker 2: like humility. I thought like, just based off of like

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Speaker 2: our social media right like numbers, like we would just

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Speaker 2: like dominate in the podcast space. But that's not the fact.

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Speaker 2: And it's but it's great because the podcast continues to

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Speaker 2: teach me things. Is that it's not going to happen overnight.

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Speaker 1: No success doesn't happen overnight. It takes ten years to

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Speaker 1: be an overnight success. Yeah, I just I don't believe

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Speaker 1: in the overnight success. And if people who do happen

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Speaker 1: to quote unquote have that, they're not likely to keep

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Speaker 1: it because they haven't gone through the struggles in the

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Speaker 1: build up to know what it takes, or or about

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Speaker 1: the people along the way that they've built up that

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Speaker 1: also helped build them up.

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Speaker 2: So that's why I'm really proud to be on this

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Speaker 2: journey with you, because you know, you have that philosophy

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Speaker 2: and you're willing to build this right and I think

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Speaker 2: we're aligned on like why we're doing this, and it's

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Speaker 2: pretty awesome, Milia. You know, I had no idea that

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Speaker 2: this was gonna be something that meant so much to me,

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Speaker 2: you know, and you're such a big part of it,

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Speaker 2: you know. So I'm glad that somehow we cross paths again.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, Yeah, the feeling's definitely mutual. Yeah, So

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Speaker 1: make sure you guys subscribe and comment and like, and

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Speaker 1: if there's guests that you would like for us to

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Speaker 1: have a podcasts that you'd like to see or learn from, like,

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Speaker 1: please tag us or feel free to reach out and

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Speaker 1: any way you can, like let us know, because we're

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Speaker 1: totally open to using this as a platform to also

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Speaker 1: help you guys learn or get to have conversations with

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Speaker 1: people that you may also look up to.

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Speaker 2: So, yeah, so cars are We have our Instagram cars

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Speaker 2: What's our.

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Speaker 1: Song, car Stories podcast, card.

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Speaker 2: Stories Podcast, and our YouTube channel is car Stories Podcast.

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Speaker 2: What else?

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Speaker 1: Forget it's car Stories podcast thing every everything?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, and still why what that's funny?

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Speaker 1: You don't know this?

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Speaker 2: Why?

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Speaker 1: Now? You have YouTube, YouTube, Instagram, TikTok.

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Speaker 2: And you can download the podcast.

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Speaker 1: On iHeartRadio, Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts.

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Speaker 1: Please share, subscribe, comment, leave a review, follow us on

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Speaker 1: our socials. Forward forward oh yeah, sure sure yeah. Forward

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Speaker 1: Forward in an email to your entire family.

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Speaker 2: Forward that's right recent. But thank you guys for you know, sticking.

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Speaker 1: With us for yeah. Thank you so soon.

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Speaker 2: Bye,