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Speaker 2: My husband only wants to hook up to have a baby.

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Speaker 1: That's an interesting reason. Oh well.

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Speaker 3: I female, twenty six have recently gotten married to my husband,

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Speaker 3: Edward male, twenty six, two months ago. We both attended

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Speaker 3: the same church ever since we were born. Wow, and

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Speaker 3: I started to like him over the years. At twenty

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Speaker 3: years old, we started gradually talking to each other and

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Speaker 3: got engaged by twenty four. By the way, this comes

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Speaker 3: Okay Storytime snow bred it So. My husband is very

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Speaker 3: religious and never misses a service. I too am religious,

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Speaker 3: but not as much as him.

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Speaker 1: But in I see you in the.

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Speaker 2: Chats if you see where this is going.

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Speaker 3: We both respect the other's choice and it's not really

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Speaker 3: an issue between them. However, when we were dating and engaged,

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Speaker 3: he didn't come near me in any way. He looked

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Speaker 3: like for yourself, Riley that I must, I must ensure

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Speaker 3: that I'm not touch you by the female touch.

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Speaker 2: It's too much as Matt He's ad.

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Speaker 1: In commentary even when he can't talk. That's how good

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Speaker 1: he is. It's called physical comedy.

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Speaker 3: Ooh, I hate that truth. Now, for example, we rarely

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Speaker 3: held hands that satan. He never hugged nor kissed me

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Speaker 3: on the cheeks, even though it's a form of greeting

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Speaker 3: that's very used in our culture.

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Speaker 1: Interesting.

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Speaker 4: Interesting, so like casual forms of intimacy are very common

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Speaker 4: in their culture. And even then he's like.

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Speaker 3: Eh, Sophia, you think, just because I'm engaged to a woman,

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Speaker 3: I hug her.

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Speaker 1: I only hug women i'm not engaged to. That's it.

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Speaker 4: Once I'm in a romantic relationship with them, no hugging,

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Speaker 4: no kissing, no hand holding six feet apart, just like

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Speaker 4: God intended.

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Speaker 3: And it bothered me a bit. You could say that,

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Speaker 3: but I think he was doing it out of respect.

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Speaker 3: The roller Coast was our wedding night. Now, during the

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Speaker 3: ceremony we danced for the first time, we held hands,

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Speaker 3: and when we got to our hotel, we hugged.

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Speaker 2: And he kissed me for the first time on my lip.

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Speaker 5: On your lips, stay away, ye sleep ye sleep ye

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Speaker 5: old sleep on the lips.

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Speaker 3: Girls on you wedding night. Now, it wasn't like making

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Speaker 2: It was just a peck.

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Speaker 1: Literally, I'm imagining like, ha, and then he runs away.

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Speaker 1: That's it.

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Speaker 3: Nothing else. We didn't do anything more, not even cuddle.

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Speaker 3: We just showered and went to sleep because we were

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Speaker 3: extremely exhausted.

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Speaker 1: Just imagine he's like, whoa that I'm tired from that.

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Speaker 4: But I'm assuming they're tired for the wedding night. But

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Speaker 4: I am also just imagining him being like that was

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Speaker 4: a lot.

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Speaker 1: That kiss. Wow, really took it out of me.

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Speaker 5: I'm so sleepy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, sh I hope she thinks I'm asleep. Can I

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Speaker 1: just drop a real quick conspiracy theory? Is it the

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Speaker 1: one that's been in the chat?

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Speaker 3: I have not seen the one in the chat, so

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna say it with one word and see if

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Speaker 3: that is what chat was saying.

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Speaker 4: I think you might gay gay gay gay.

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Speaker 1: That's right, Riley, that's right, Riley three point zero.

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Speaker 3: So right when I was about to fall asleep while

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Speaker 3: we were talking, he told me that he won't do

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Speaker 1: Is to conceive kids.

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Speaker 4: Dude, this is like freaking uh, what's it called a

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Speaker 4: house of the dragon? Like when she because she marries

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Speaker 4: her cousin who's gay, right, and then they're like not

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Speaker 4: having spicestly, but at least.

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Speaker 3: They have their own they had an agreements like, oh,

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Speaker 3: we have our own mistresses.

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Speaker 1: You know, we each got a boo, we got a bang.

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Speaker 1: But this guy is just like no.

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Speaker 3: Nothing, only copulation for kids andrect me if I'm wrong,

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Speaker 3: give me a thumbs up or thumbs down.

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Speaker 1: Riley.

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Speaker 3: In the Good Book, it says, if you're married, intimacy

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Speaker 3: doesn't have to only be for children bearing. Or is

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Speaker 3: that a thumb's downe it's a thumb's up. It's a

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: So I think when I mean, if he truly if

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Speaker 4: like what is his religion to you? Or like what

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Speaker 4: is like wherever he's going specifically teaching him that spicy

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Speaker 4: sleep is just never okay, Like that's too far, isn't

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Speaker 4: I mean, like unless you're a priest, I suppose, unless

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Speaker 4: you've taken a val of chastity thinking that you can

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Speaker 1: Even when you're married. Someone's been someone's been teaching the

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Speaker 1: other wrong stuff. Gotta lock it up. What did Riley say? Again,

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Speaker 1: unless you've taken a val of chastity, Yeah, I mean,

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Speaker 4: Priest or a nun or some other religious figure that

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Speaker 4: has said I'm not gonna have spicy sleep, which it

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Speaker 4: doesn't seem like he is. I feel like it's yeah.

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Speaker 3: So uh, he told me he wouldn't do anything unless

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Speaker 3: it is to can steve kids. I wasn't sure what

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Speaker 3: This literally crushed my expectations. Of course, I understand that

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Speaker 3: he doesn't want to do anything, but really not until

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Speaker 3: we decide to have kids, which is a minimum of

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Speaker 3: two years away.

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Speaker 1: Also, I will actually pause in another one.

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Speaker 4: He could just be like like asexual or yeah, this

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Speaker 4: in which case you should have also been informing Ope that.

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Speaker 3: Of course, I wonder if he's like if that is

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Speaker 3: the case, if he even accepts or even understands.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Casey Roberts says that too. Yeah that's true.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I love my husband with all my heart and

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Speaker 3: I would never leave him, as he is the best

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Speaker 3: and most respectful human being I have ever met, in

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Speaker 3: an amazing person overall, but I can't seem to accept this.

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Speaker 3: Ever since I was a teen, I have been addicted

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Speaker 3: to Watt Patty spicy stories, So of course I've always

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Speaker 1: Nw oh, oh, my god, dude.

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Speaker 3: I didn't really want to keep my expectations really high

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Speaker 2: But I never thought that this could happen.

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Speaker 3: I was disappointed for the rest of our honeymoon, which

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Speaker 3: lasted a week. I know it's my fault for not

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Speaker 3: talking to him about it, that is incorrected. Is his

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Speaker 3: fault for not informing you?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, absolutely, but I was really afraid of doing so.

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Speaker 3: You see, in our culture, it's not appropriate for a

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Speaker 3: Edward is religious, like I said, so I was afraid

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Speaker 4: Well, it sounds like he's the holiest guy around, so

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and if we can't the whole point of authentically

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Speaker 3: communicating is you put your whole self as you are

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Speaker 4: I also, if you guys are both religious, there is

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Speaker 4: a chance. I don't know if this is like still

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Speaker 4: and also just historically, the only way to authenticate a

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Speaker 4: That was like like to spicy consummate it. So if

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Speaker 4: you haven't done that, maybe there's a way to annul it.

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Speaker 1: If it's like super religious, you know, that's a good question. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: what country is this? Then part of them? I don't

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Speaker 1: know if that's like a part of it. This is

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Speaker 3: I even tried to seduce him for the past couple

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Speaker 4: Yeah he's either gay or asexual or yeah, not attracted

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Speaker 1: Way like Loki. Though.

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Speaker 3: It's really starting to bug me because I have a

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Speaker 1: I can't help it just reading all those wat pass stores. Man.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, right, pose, I don't really know what's the reason

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Speaker 3: subject with him. Once more, I will not even consider

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Speaker 3: leaving him, So please all advice will be appreciated. There

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Speaker 3: is an update and a lot more to this story. Ooh, okay,

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Speaker 3: well let's talk.

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Speaker 4: Well, okay, if you were not considering leaving him at

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Speaker 4: this time, the first step is to go to him

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Speaker 4: and say, hey, like, why don't you want to have

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Speaker 4: it because you think it's religious? Something religious? And then

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Speaker 4: you know, talk about that and tell him, but like,

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Speaker 4: there's nothing in any religion I'm that I know of

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Speaker 4: that's an issue in the marriage because that kind of

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Speaker 4: you can kind of go and then talk about why

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Speaker 4: two things that you got to talk about.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And like, just to be clear, someone not wanting

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Speaker 3: to be intimate is totally fine. Yes, someone wanting to

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Speaker 3: I don't want my partner to think I'm unholy or anything,

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Speaker 3: I don't know. It's just like you should, at a

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Speaker 3: bare minimum have a grounds for communicating openly to figure

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Speaker 4: Absolutely, though of course it is difficult when you know,

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Speaker 4: like you have cultural expectations that say you can't talk

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Speaker 4: those are I mean, those are my suggestions if you

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Speaker 4: don't want to leave them. Though, you guys just might

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Speaker 4: not be aligned. And that's not your fault because he

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Speaker 4: didn't communicate with you.

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Speaker 3: I want a poll, Will they stay together or not?

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Speaker 3: That's too long for a poll, but stay together or not?

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, And this is asking not if they should

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Speaker 3: stay together, but will they were on some predictive type.

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Speaker 1: Vibes, you're you're placing bets right.

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Speaker 3: Now placing bets. I have a fear she might stay. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I have a fear so too. But I'm curious what

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Speaker 3: chat says Dutchess. Cassanda says, he totally trapped her in

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and she has different wants and desires which he Again,

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Speaker 1: Hey wait, it was the first option. It was the religion.

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Speaker 4: Sometimes you are growing up in a very religious, you

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Speaker 1: There it is, and that seems like that was the problem.

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Speaker 1: The Good Lord, the good Lord says don't do it.

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Speaker 4: The Good Lord says, if you do it, you get STDs.

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Speaker 1: He said yes and was curious about what was bothering me.

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Speaker 3: I was direct and simply asked him why he won't

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Speaker 1: Am wrong for having these ceilings, right for not being

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Speaker 4: I was like, I'm wrong for this. I should not

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Speaker 3: I think I was missed. I was misinterpreting it earlier.

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Speaker 4: But no, He's like, I'm having these feelings I shouldn't

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Speaker 3: Yeah, repress. Okay, well here here we're working somewhere.

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Speaker 1: Un is a hooray for communication?

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, guys, this yeh is the thing.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, look at all the assumptions that we made,

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Speaker 1: We're supposed to be making assumptions, indeed.

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Speaker 4: But then look at what happens when you have the communication,

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Speaker 4: when you're ever in a relationship with someone, in any

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Speaker 4: talk to them first before you make before you act

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Speaker 3: You know what they say about when you assume, yeah,

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Speaker 3: I do, it doesn't work. So try talking talk man,

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Speaker 3: That's what they say. So I felt really bad for him.

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Speaker 3: Apparently that's what he grew up thinking, and that's what

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Speaker 2: I cannot imagine that they did this to him.

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Speaker 3: I'm sure it was to make fun of him and

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Speaker 3: mess around, which led to completely messing up his view

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Speaker 3: way that they also believe in this. Oh interesting, So

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Speaker 3: it's almost like it was like they almost locked it

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Speaker 3: which is almost like even more way more fed up.

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Speaker 4: Oh no, it's superrapped up. They're like, this is going

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Speaker 4: to be funny. That's crazy, But I do know. This

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Speaker 4: is how you fix it. You both read wapad together,

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Speaker 4: except not what pad you read AO three, because what

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Speaker 4: pad is bad?

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Speaker 1: Always what so good?

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Speaker 4: What pad sucks? Wat pad is the gateway drug to

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Speaker 4: fan fiction AO three. He's a glass of wine.

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Speaker 3: Uh, it's the elevate inform I learned that today. Now,

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Speaker 1: They go to sleep after they're like, okay, that was tough.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to bed. Hey, shout out for self care.

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Speaker 1: I guess.

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Speaker 3: After the nap, he apologized for not talking about this

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Speaker 3: fact that he never displayed any affection before our wedding

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Speaker 3: was due to his beliefs, and don't worry. We also

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Speaker 3: just teasing oh Rough, he also didn't want to do

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Speaker 3: fed his mind with. Not gonna lie, I expressed to

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Speaker 3: my opinion on this matter. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely.

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Speaker 3: He apologized again and said that he was afraid of

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Speaker 3: working on physical touch. Oh Edward said that he would

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Speaker 3: and that he will always be ready to answer all

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Speaker 3: of my questions. This realization was really like an epiphany

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Speaker 3: across the base for him. So I suggested going to therapy.

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Speaker 3: He immediately agreed tomorrow and we will look for a therapy.

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Speaker 4: Yay, God's great unlearned all of those terrible things that

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Speaker 3: We need to unplug the wires in the brain now

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Speaker 3: and re plug the wires into the good place. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: just a little rewiring, little rewire now. Going on Reddit

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Speaker 3: wasn't really the best idea, but it really gave me

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Speaker 3: a push. Having this conversation was definitely something that we

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Speaker 3: should have done sooner, way back when we were engaged. Also,

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Speaker 3: to everyone telling me to leave, just because the problem

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Speaker 3: if this took another turn, and if I found out

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Speaker 3: I have no choice but to understand him. He has

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Speaker 3: Until we talk everything out, I will not pressure him

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Speaker 1: In the end, we cried together and laughed about ourselves.

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Speaker 3: Then he made some snacks that we had while watching

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Speaker 2: Now Edward is sleeping right next to me. Olhoser than us?

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Speaker 1: Whoa? Whoa closer than usual? Are you guys like almost touching? Oh?

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Speaker 1: Are you maybe holding fingers?

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Speaker 4: Oh my, it's too much, it's too hus.

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Speaker 3: We need to bring this uh cajun spice down to salt. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: a little too spicy. Let's put some flour in here.

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Speaker 3: It's a flower there some veniam. I feel happy about it,

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Speaker 3: even though it's not much, but it's definitely considered improof.

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Speaker 1: I think that's a lot. Yeah, that's yeah.

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Speaker 4: He's not going to change immediately, you know, still has

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Speaker 1: This is true. I also feel much better than yesterday.

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Speaker 3: There are still many things that we need to discuss

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Speaker 3: and so many more steps to take. I think I

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Speaker 3: like to thank all the kind comments and nice people

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Speaker 1: So yeah, looking pretty.

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Speaker 2: Good, Riley. Where did our pole?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? I'm curious what the people were thinking.

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Speaker 4: Wow, people hate love, said divorce and look how silly

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Speaker 4: you guys, look, Look how silly.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't even lost our leading theories, even our leading theory.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't any of it. Well, you know what I

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Speaker 1: did say it. I think that was one of my options.

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Speaker 4: I said, maybe it's just a religious thing, and he

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Speaker 4: like has been misinformed, So it was it was one

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Speaker 4: of my theories. But this is great. You guys had

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Speaker 4: it's going to take a probably a minute for him

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Speaker 4: I suposed to sleep all the time. Like he still

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Speaker 4: has those thoughts and feelings of shame and grained. They

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Speaker 4: don't just disappear. Yeah, even when you realize, like even

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Speaker 4: when you know in your mind it's hard to overcome

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you might not go straight to boinking ten thousand

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Speaker 3: times per day. Yeah, but could we do something more

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Speaker 3: reasonable like five thousand, well, one thousand.

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Speaker 4: Maybe even a kiss for longer than a second will

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Speaker 3: I have to say, it seems like they are well

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Speaker 1: I agree.

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Speaker 2: I agree, you have to give it up to them.

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Speaker 3: We did not always see that, No, we do not,

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Speaker 3: especially with the like super religious background. I think they

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Speaker 3: I should say they were a able to kind of

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Speaker 3: good job Op, good job Op. Seriously, this is a

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Speaker 3: pretty good stuff here. But we have a second update.

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Speaker 1: No, I hope it stays good. Here we go, Oh

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Speaker 1: real quick, bubbles, Maris says, loll.

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Speaker 3: The religion I was raising taught that any kind of

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Speaker 3: spicy sleep was bad unless you're married. There's several article

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Speaker 3: you can you know, there you go.

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Speaker 1: So that's and that's the religion I was just raised.

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Speaker 3: And that's what makes it hard for people like Op

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Speaker 3: and Edward, you know, in their situation.

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Speaker 4: But they did it, Yeah, and there's so much culture

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Speaker 4: because you're like, I can't talk about them illegal.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, take me away off. Let's get into updates number two. So,

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Speaker 3: like I mentioned in my last update, we started looking

440
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Speaker 3: for a therapist and found some sort of sent.

441
00:21:00,240 --> 00:21:01,320
Speaker 1: Her a couple of days later.

442
00:21:01,400 --> 00:21:04,040
Speaker 3: Basically, they're like a group of therapists specialized in different

443
00:21:04,080 --> 00:21:06,679
Speaker 3: types of issues. So once we explained our situation, they

444
00:21:06,680 --> 00:21:09,160
Speaker 3: assigned us to a couple therapists. He was actually very

445
00:21:09,200 --> 00:21:11,840
Speaker 3: understanding of our situation and we've had a few sessions

446
00:21:11,840 --> 00:21:13,840
Speaker 3: with her which are very eye opening.

447
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Speaker 1: Nice.

448
00:21:14,760 --> 00:21:17,640
Speaker 3: She navigated us through our emotions and basically was more

449
00:21:17,720 --> 00:21:20,760
Speaker 3: like a consultant than a therapist we want. As for

450
00:21:20,800 --> 00:21:23,240
Speaker 3: my husband, he was assigned to another therapist and has

451
00:21:23,280 --> 00:21:25,520
Speaker 3: sessions with him twice a week. It's not just because

452
00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:27,639
Speaker 3: of our issue, but they found out that my husband

453
00:21:27,640 --> 00:21:30,480
Speaker 3: has some deep childhood traumas he needs to work on.

454
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Speaker 4: Well, I could have told you that. Oh that one

455
00:21:33,640 --> 00:21:37,000
Speaker 4: was pretty that was pretty obvious. Yep, Sorry, this journey

456
00:21:37,040 --> 00:21:40,320
Speaker 4: will take him a couple of months. Apparently also told

457
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Speaker 4: you that.

458
00:21:42,000 --> 00:21:45,640
Speaker 3: And this is something that he definitely needs, so he's

459
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Speaker 3: totally ready for it.

460
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Speaker 1: Deed, I literally I told you all that for free. Hey, no,

461
00:21:50,359 --> 00:21:52,399
Speaker 1: stra Damas, can you can you tone it down a

462
00:21:52,440 --> 00:21:55,360
Speaker 1: little bit? Literally could have come to me, wouldn't even

463
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Speaker 1: need to pay for the therapist. Why don't Sofia, Why

464
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Speaker 1: don't you just be wrong?

465
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Speaker 2: Once.

466
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Speaker 4: Can you just be wrong a single time a condit

467
00:22:02,840 --> 00:22:03,520
Speaker 4: not today?

468
00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:09,000
Speaker 3: Stop predicting with one hundred percent accuracy right now. Anyways,

469
00:22:09,119 --> 00:22:11,359
Speaker 3: as for our intimate life, our therapist advised us to

470
00:22:11,359 --> 00:22:14,840
Speaker 3: show each other more affection before taking things slowly and

471
00:22:14,920 --> 00:22:18,880
Speaker 3: watching educational videos as references educational.

472
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Speaker 4: Dude, and maybe reading educational books literature.

473
00:22:25,560 --> 00:22:27,800
Speaker 3: So for a week we tried showering each other with

474
00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:33,280
Speaker 3: random hugs, kisses, cuddles, and this was really addicting for Edward.

475
00:22:33,440 --> 00:22:36,359
Speaker 3: It was really something new. But now he won't stop

476
00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:40,000
Speaker 3: with the back hugs and it's very comforting. This is

477
00:22:40,280 --> 00:22:45,120
Speaker 3: actually so adorable. Then I started teasing him to take

478
00:22:45,160 --> 00:22:48,000
Speaker 3: things to another level. Like the therapist said, Edward is

479
00:22:48,000 --> 00:22:49,960
Speaker 3: still trying to build up the courage to do so.

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Speaker 3: After a while, we made out for the first time.

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Speaker 1: oOoOO, but you napped right after right?

482
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Speaker 2: Also, why is this starting to feel like the watt pass?

483
00:23:00,680 --> 00:23:02,480
Speaker 1: It is? This is?

484
00:23:02,600 --> 00:23:05,359
Speaker 3: Oh god, it felt super great and from there we

485
00:23:05,400 --> 00:23:08,320
Speaker 3: started getting touchy. We did this for like two weeks

486
00:23:08,400 --> 00:23:10,520
Speaker 3: and got freak here each day okay.

487
00:23:10,600 --> 00:23:13,760
Speaker 1: Okay, simmer down, simmer down.

488
00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:17,280
Speaker 3: Oh free, seven days a week. The videos were really helpful.

489
00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:20,159
Speaker 3: We also took our first shower together and played around.

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Speaker 1: Okay, o, b it's getting too hot.

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00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:27,640
Speaker 3: Riley, please search up what you purchased on Amazon recently.

492
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Speaker 2: Pull it up.

493
00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:30,679
Speaker 1: Pull it up.

494
00:23:30,720 --> 00:23:33,119
Speaker 3: He knows exactly what I'm talking about. By slap on

495
00:23:33,160 --> 00:23:37,320
Speaker 3: the table. All these little achievements really made me so happy.

496
00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:41,360
Speaker 3: And for the big thing, we finally made love two

497
00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:41,880
Speaker 3: days ago.

498
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Speaker 1: Congratulations, that's really exciting. Thank you for telling us. Appreciate it.

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Speaker 1: I feel like at this point you need to get

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Speaker 1: like a little cake or something.

501
00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:55,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, Like we just had spicy sleep. She's like calling,

502
00:23:56,440 --> 00:23:59,119
Speaker 4: you know, she's gone. Everyone she knows, well, maybe you're friends,

503
00:23:59,160 --> 00:24:03,720
Speaker 4: not her parents. Like, guys, you won't believe what just happened. Yes,

504
00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:06,560
Speaker 4: what me and my husband just up together.

505
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Speaker 3: Oh it was very great and we took it slowly,

506
00:24:13,160 --> 00:24:15,720
Speaker 3: but we both really enjoyed it. It felt like a

507
00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:18,000
Speaker 3: different level of closeness. And I'm very proud of my

508
00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:21,080
Speaker 3: husband for finally taking this step about feeling bad or

509
00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:25,440
Speaker 3: guilty about it. Hey, Laura Hot says, Oh, I need details,

510
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Speaker 3: Laura chill, whoa go on? AO three? This is yes, okay, story.

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Speaker 1: Times, Story Times, This is an AO.

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Speaker 4: Three Okay, Spicy Times. This is what you gotta do, Laura.

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Speaker 4: You're not on me Riley giving advice. Laura. You got

514
00:24:41,640 --> 00:24:43,800
Speaker 4: oe A the AO three and you're gonna search up

515
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Speaker 4: whoever you want.

516
00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:48,960
Speaker 1: And then you're gonna change it to explicit.

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Speaker 6: There you go.

518
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Speaker 1: Over here.

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00:24:54,960 --> 00:25:00,960
Speaker 3: Oh it's okay, a double headed shower. That's a Riley

520
00:25:01,000 --> 00:25:04,840
Speaker 3: got for his new roommate, Alex the man. Yeah, he

521
00:25:04,960 --> 00:25:08,439
Speaker 3: identifies as male. I said it. I said it, okay,

522
00:25:09,119 --> 00:25:12,960
Speaker 3: Sorry if I crossed the line, that's what I do.

523
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Speaker 1: AnyWho.

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Speaker 3: So, not only that, but we also went on some

525
00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:19,040
Speaker 3: dates the change of routine, and tried new restaurants, which

526
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Speaker 3: I really love.

527
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Speaker 1: Edward.

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00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:22,520
Speaker 3: It surprised me with my dream restaurant and we had

529
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Speaker 3: a blast. By the way, you can listen to full,

530
00:25:26,560 --> 00:25:29,320
Speaker 3: weet and cute and wholesome stories just like this if

531
00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:32,200
Speaker 3: you go to Spotify, Apple or iHeart to search Okay,

532
00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:36,040
Speaker 3: story time, and you have twenty five hundred episodes to binge.

533
00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:38,400
Speaker 3: And by the way, if you binge them, you can

534
00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:40,960
Speaker 3: tell me and I will congratulate you or I will

535
00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:43,360
Speaker 3: grill you. Because we have twenty five hundred episodes, that's

536
00:25:43,400 --> 00:25:44,760
Speaker 3: a lot of content to listen to.

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Speaker 1: So I am very very skeptical.

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00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:49,720
Speaker 4: We should do a quiz. We shouldn't make a quiz.

539
00:25:49,720 --> 00:25:51,640
Speaker 4: We should It's like only the best, the best can

540
00:25:51,680 --> 00:25:52,199
Speaker 4: win in.

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Speaker 1: Your little little award. Yeah, think of a We'll think

542
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Speaker 1: of an award.

543
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Speaker 3: I couldn't think of a good one if not my head.

544
00:25:58,480 --> 00:26:01,119
Speaker 3: But we are almost at the end of the story here.

545
00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:04,000
Speaker 3: But I would be remiss if I didn't proverbial mic

546
00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:06,800
Speaker 3: over to my good coast of how are we feeling

547
00:26:07,000 --> 00:26:07,879
Speaker 3: at this point in time?

548
00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:10,760
Speaker 1: I'm feeling great. This is very.

549
00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:15,280
Speaker 4: Like like first love, like you know, juvenile excitement over

550
00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:18,439
Speaker 4: like all this newness, and that is really lovely to

551
00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:21,000
Speaker 4: watch because they talked about it and they figured it

552
00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:23,399
Speaker 4: out and they're doing, you know, doing the work to

553
00:26:23,720 --> 00:26:26,680
Speaker 4: uh with like a therapist and stuff to overcome these

554
00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:29,640
Speaker 4: feelings of guilt and shame that are so a part

555
00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:32,480
Speaker 4: of their life and culture and stuff or like growing up.

556
00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:35,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, and that's great. I love that. It seems

557
00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:37,480
Speaker 1: like you guys have a.

558
00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:42,640
Speaker 4: Very strong foundation of love that you're clearly building upon.

559
00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:43,200
Speaker 1: Yeah.

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00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:47,399
Speaker 3: And great job, absolutely, like this is flawless execution. Well,

561
00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:50,359
Speaker 3: boys and girls, Let's see the finale. Let's see it

562
00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:53,600
Speaker 3: of the super sweet story Opie says, our communication is

563
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:56,639
Speaker 3: ten times better than before, and it really feels like

564
00:26:56,680 --> 00:26:58,200
Speaker 3: the wall that was standing between.

565
00:26:58,000 --> 00:27:01,760
Speaker 1: Us is completely gone. Yay, that is fantastic.

566
00:27:01,840 --> 00:27:02,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, you kind of.

567
00:27:02,520 --> 00:27:05,359
Speaker 3: It seems like you tackled like the scariest thing.

568
00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:08,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, and now it's like everything's easy, and everything's easy.

569
00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:11,399
Speaker 1: You overcame that little bump in the road. E a

570
00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:13,000
Speaker 1: mm hmm.

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Speaker 3: There are still many things that we haven't tried, so

572
00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:18,760
Speaker 3: we're really excited. I also told him about my smut

573
00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:21,359
Speaker 3: session yesterday, and he asked me to give him a

574
00:27:21,400 --> 00:27:22,560
Speaker 3: list of fan fixs.

575
00:27:22,800 --> 00:27:26,959
Speaker 1: Stop. I said that I can't stop being right. I

576
00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:28,000
Speaker 1: literally said that.

577
00:27:28,359 --> 00:27:30,359
Speaker 2: Stop it too good at this.

578
00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:32,920
Speaker 1: Dude, he's about to be.

579
00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:38,560
Speaker 4: Reading like Dremione fan fis Stop Sophia manacled and I

580
00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:41,000
Speaker 4: only know that I haven't read it. I only know

581
00:27:41,080 --> 00:27:43,679
Speaker 4: that because my friend loves Gremione fan fix.

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00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:47,560
Speaker 1: Sophia's friend has a suggestion for you.

583
00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:51,440
Speaker 4: I swear, I don't I hate Yourmione. I'm a very

584
00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:52,760
Speaker 4: I'm anti Germione.

585
00:27:52,760 --> 00:27:53,280
Speaker 1: It's not me.

586
00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:55,240
Speaker 3: So I gave him a list of fan fix that

587
00:27:55,280 --> 00:27:57,560
Speaker 3: I really like, so that way he could make them

588
00:27:57,600 --> 00:27:58,879
Speaker 3: happen in real life.

589
00:27:59,000 --> 00:28:02,480
Speaker 2: That was really so awesome. I still can't get over this.

590
00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:06,560
Speaker 4: Oh he's like more excited about getting her husband to

591
00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:09,320
Speaker 4: read Fan Fix than she is about anything else.

592
00:28:09,880 --> 00:28:12,920
Speaker 3: Yep, I love that. Yep, yep, yep, yep. And lastly,

593
00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:15,639
Speaker 3: that's our honeymoon wasn't really a honeymoon. We were thinking

594
00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:18,800
Speaker 3: of going on one this Christmas maybe, so I can't wait.

595
00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:21,960
Speaker 3: By the way, to all the comments that suggested using toys,

596
00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:24,560
Speaker 3: we talked about it, but the therapist said that this could

597
00:28:24,600 --> 00:28:28,800
Speaker 3: be too early and that Edward might get addicted if

598
00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:31,199
Speaker 3: we use them during our first.

599
00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:32,640
Speaker 2: So I guess we will wait.

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00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:38,440
Speaker 3: See, I have literally one and only one suggestion to

601
00:28:38,520 --> 00:28:41,400
Speaker 3: their perfect execution. This isn't even really like, this is

602
00:28:41,440 --> 00:28:43,640
Speaker 3: bonus points, like they've already got a ten out of

603
00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:46,880
Speaker 3: ten perfect scorecard. But maybe if they got a spicy

604
00:28:46,960 --> 00:28:51,720
Speaker 3: sleep therapist specifically, yeah, because it from the context clues

605
00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:54,400
Speaker 3: it seemed like this was a not a spicy sleep

606
00:28:54,680 --> 00:28:58,080
Speaker 3: specialized therapist. Yeah, then they could maybe have someone who

607
00:28:58,080 --> 00:29:00,719
Speaker 3: could as a little more.

608
00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:02,000
Speaker 1: Experts agree in that.

609
00:29:02,360 --> 00:29:04,400
Speaker 3: But again, this is a bonus point, like we've really,

610
00:29:04,560 --> 00:29:05,920
Speaker 3: we've really kind of knocked out of the parking.

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00:29:06,200 --> 00:29:07,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, you guys are doing it.

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00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:11,160
Speaker 3: Man, This might be from just as stories I can

613
00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:14,040
Speaker 3: recall in my brain right at this redaus second the

614
00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:17,320
Speaker 3: one of the if not the best, example of communication

615
00:29:17,720 --> 00:29:20,000
Speaker 3: actually really happening.

616
00:29:20,160 --> 00:29:20,840
Speaker 1: I agree.

617
00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:24,600
Speaker 4: You have a very serious problem that everyone's like, there's

618
00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:26,320
Speaker 4: no way you're going to fix this. And then we

619
00:29:26,400 --> 00:29:28,800
Speaker 4: had a conversation and we went to therapy and we

620
00:29:28,840 --> 00:29:29,240
Speaker 4: fixed it.

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Speaker 1: Wow, would you look at that? Would you look at that?

622
00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:34,920
Speaker 1: Would you look at that? But that is the end

623
00:29:35,040 --> 00:29:39,640
Speaker 1: of that story. Over shock or let this episode's on over?

624
00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:43,000
Speaker 1: Oh no, freaking got you? Maybe? Oh no, because maybe

625
00:29:43,000 --> 00:29:45,320
Speaker 1: we maybe got you. Got another story coming. I sure

626
00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:50,280
Speaker 1: do know my friends tolerated my husband's affair. No tolerance

627
00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:51,040
Speaker 1: allowed here.

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Speaker 4: I twenty six female, have been married to my husband, Dylan,

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Speaker 4: twenty six male, for three years. We got together when

630
00:29:57,840 --> 00:30:00,920
Speaker 4: we were seventeen, but we I've known each other since

631
00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:01,680
Speaker 4: the fourth grade.

632
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Speaker 1: Wow.

633
00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:06,520
Speaker 4: I love my husband. He's the total package. Funny, sweet,

634
00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:10,560
Speaker 4: smart and attractive. He's made my life amazing and he's

635
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Speaker 4: who I fully intended on spending the rest of my

636
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Speaker 4: life with. By the way, this comes from Alternative Sink

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Speaker 4: four eight three and if you want to smit your

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Speaker 4: own stories, go to the r slash Okay, Storytime cybrid it.

639
00:30:20,560 --> 00:30:23,400
Speaker 4: So we attended all the same schools from the time

640
00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:26,040
Speaker 4: we met up until college. In that time, we both

641
00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:28,680
Speaker 4: made our own friend groups. He's been more connected with

642
00:30:28,720 --> 00:30:31,160
Speaker 4: his friends than I have, and because of that, I've

643
00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:32,920
Speaker 4: become a part of the group as well. I'd like

644
00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:35,840
Speaker 4: to think in that time I've been at around fifty

645
00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:38,400
Speaker 4: percent of their group hangouts, mostly because of my job,

646
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Speaker 4: but sometimes I'm just straight up not invited. I didn't

647
00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:44,280
Speaker 4: question any of this, because, hey, they're his friends. He

648
00:30:44,320 --> 00:30:46,440
Speaker 4: doesn't see them nearly as often as he sees me.

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Speaker 4: It's not my business. My husband met his best friend, Caro,

650
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Speaker 4: twenty seven male, long before he met me. I knew

651
00:30:52,600 --> 00:30:56,320
Speaker 4: almost nothing about Caro up until recently. He wasn't at

652
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Speaker 4: our wedding, nor did he attend any of the same

653
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Speaker 4: schools as us. I was under the impression he wasn't

654
00:31:01,640 --> 00:31:04,160
Speaker 4: friends with anyone in our group. I thought all of

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00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:06,320
Speaker 4: this was because of his line of work, as I

656
00:31:06,400 --> 00:31:08,560
Speaker 4: was told he traveled a lot. Last year, me and

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00:31:08,600 --> 00:31:11,200
Speaker 4: my husband went to a barbecue hosted by another couple

658
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Speaker 4: in the group.

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Speaker 1: Caro was there.

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Speaker 4: I didn't recognize him at first, but when I realized

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Speaker 4: who he was, I was honestly kind of shocked. I'd

662
00:31:18,520 --> 00:31:21,040
Speaker 4: seen him in person before, but he always kept a

663
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Speaker 4: very good distance from me, which I'm realizing now was intentional. Anyways,

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Speaker 4: he's totally stunning. He looks like he could be a supermodel.

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00:31:31,120 --> 00:31:35,240
Speaker 1: He's attractive, attracted. Oh no, he's hot.

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00:31:35,600 --> 00:31:41,080
Speaker 4: I think Ohpi's husbands maybe doing some stuff with Caro.

667
00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:45,440
Speaker 3: Maybe our theory in the first story is the theory

668
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Speaker 3: for the second story.

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Speaker 4: Ah, we just saw too far ahead and this man

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Speaker 4: might be.

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Speaker 4: When I attempted to make conversation with him, he seemed

676
00:32:00,480 --> 00:32:03,920
Speaker 4: really nervous and totally shut me down after a few sentences.

677
00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:06,640
Speaker 4: When I mentioned this behavior to anyone else, they also

678
00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:09,880
Speaker 4: shut me down, saying things like that's just how he is,

679
00:32:10,440 --> 00:32:12,960
Speaker 4: or maybe you said something that offended him.

680
00:32:12,960 --> 00:32:15,520
Speaker 1: Or maybe you married the guy that he likes.

681
00:32:16,560 --> 00:32:18,920
Speaker 4: In short, no one would tell me anything about Caro

682
00:32:19,400 --> 00:32:22,000
Speaker 4: at all. Any conversation that involved him was a no go.

683
00:32:22,280 --> 00:32:24,080
Speaker 4: At the end of the night, I tried talking to

684
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Speaker 4: Dylan about his behavior. He told me Caro didn't like me.

685
00:32:27,720 --> 00:32:29,840
Speaker 1: Oh straight up, Okay.

686
00:32:30,320 --> 00:32:32,960
Speaker 4: I was confused because I'd hardly seen him in person

687
00:32:33,000 --> 00:32:34,200
Speaker 4: at all, let alone.

688
00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:34,880
Speaker 1: Actually talk to him.

689
00:32:35,000 --> 00:32:37,600
Speaker 4: The excuse my husband gave was that he disliked me

690
00:32:37,760 --> 00:32:41,280
Speaker 4: because I she did on my husband once in college,

691
00:32:41,560 --> 00:32:43,640
Speaker 4: and Caro was too stubborn to let it go.

692
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Speaker 1: Wait, I'm so, whoa did you?

693
00:32:45,600 --> 00:32:49,000
Speaker 2: There was little quotes around Yeah, she did, so, I'm.

694
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Speaker 1: Did you cheat on your husband? Why did you put

695
00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:53,880
Speaker 1: quotes around that? I hope we get some details.

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Speaker 3: I'm wondering if it's the thing of like they were

697
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Speaker 3: on a ba ape informed each other one, she informed

698
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Speaker 3: obie whatever that they were on a break and then

699
00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:01,920
Speaker 3: she saw someone and then they got back together.

700
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Speaker 1: Oh. He literally doesn't address that at all.

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Speaker 3: Uh okay, Well, we can only assume that there is

702
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Speaker 3: actual cheating, because that's all it says, cheated.

703
00:33:11,440 --> 00:33:12,360
Speaker 1: Also, there's some quotes.

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Speaker 4: I've seen Caro less than a dozen times since then,

705
00:33:15,040 --> 00:33:18,400
Speaker 4: mostly at birthday parties, huge get togethers, and on one

706
00:33:18,440 --> 00:33:20,560
Speaker 4: occasion he came to our house to watch a football

707
00:33:20,560 --> 00:33:23,760
Speaker 4: game with my husband and a few of their other buddies. Anyways,

708
00:33:23,800 --> 00:33:26,600
Speaker 4: a few weeks ago, my husband went fishing with his cousin.

709
00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:30,560
Speaker 1: Sorry, also went fishing with his cousin. What's up with

710
00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:32,640
Speaker 1: all these quotes? What do these quotes mean?

711
00:33:32,920 --> 00:33:34,920
Speaker 4: That same night, I had some of the girls in

712
00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:37,240
Speaker 4: our friend group over for a girls' night type thing.

713
00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:40,520
Speaker 4: Lily twenty four, female, was scrolling through some social media.

714
00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:43,120
Speaker 4: I was glancing over her shoulder when I saw selfie

715
00:33:43,160 --> 00:33:45,760
Speaker 4: of Dylan and Caro sitting next to each other in

716
00:33:45,800 --> 00:33:48,640
Speaker 4: a hot tub. The selfie had been posted maybe thirty

717
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Speaker 4: minutes ago. I asked Lily about what I had seen,

718
00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:54,040
Speaker 4: and she went pale. She tried saying nothing, but I

719
00:33:54,080 --> 00:33:56,160
Speaker 4: snatched the phone from her and went to the profile

720
00:33:56,200 --> 00:34:00,000
Speaker 4: that posted the photo. The profile belonged to my husband.

721
00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:03,880
Speaker 4: It was a private profile and scrolling through the photos,

722
00:34:03,920 --> 00:34:06,680
Speaker 4: most of them were dirty jokes or memes, but the

723
00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:10,120
Speaker 4: rest of them were photos of him and Caro. How

724
00:34:10,880 --> 00:34:17,120
Speaker 4: stupid do you have to be to document your cheating online?

725
00:34:17,760 --> 00:34:21,400
Speaker 1: This is a new level that we have. Wow, he's dumb.

726
00:34:21,600 --> 00:34:26,000
Speaker 3: He has a whole Finsta dedicated to it. It seems

727
00:34:26,040 --> 00:34:27,160
Speaker 3: like the cheating and then.

728
00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:28,560
Speaker 1: Man, it also dirty memes?

729
00:34:28,640 --> 00:34:31,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, like maybe like things that are out of character

730
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Speaker 3: for what his partner thinks about him, which is like, yeah,

731
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Speaker 3: why not just be who you are?

732
00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:42,040
Speaker 4: And it's like the spider Man cave man meme like that,

733
00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:44,799
Speaker 4: and then the caption is when your wife asks you

734
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Speaker 4: who you're fishing with and you say your cousin.

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Speaker 1: This is my cousin.

736
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Speaker 4: Either they were hanging out alone or with the rest

737
00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:54,319
Speaker 4: of the group minus me. Most of the photos they

738
00:34:54,320 --> 00:34:57,799
Speaker 4: seemed way too close, too touchy, or doing things that

739
00:34:57,840 --> 00:35:00,520
Speaker 4: seemed too personal or intimate for friends to be doing.

740
00:35:00,640 --> 00:35:03,120
Speaker 4: I spent a good ten minutes looking before I couldn't

741
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Speaker 4: take it anymore. I was horrified. All of the photos

742
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Speaker 4: were dated tonights.

743
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Speaker 1: My husband told me he was working late, hanging out

744
00:35:09,880 --> 00:35:10,840
Speaker 1: with this relative or that.

745
00:35:10,880 --> 00:35:13,400
Speaker 4: At times that he told me he was doing something else,

746
00:35:13,560 --> 00:35:17,600
Speaker 4: and obviously hangouts I wasn't invited to. Lily just sat

747
00:35:17,640 --> 00:35:20,560
Speaker 4: there looking dumb. She didn't say anything, but all the

748
00:35:20,560 --> 00:35:22,440
Speaker 4: girls were looking at us like a bomb had just

749
00:35:22,480 --> 00:35:25,560
Speaker 4: gone off. They clearly knew what I had seen, and

750
00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:28,480
Speaker 4: their reactions were enough to confirm exactly what I was

751
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Speaker 4: afraid of.

752
00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:30,160
Speaker 1: I was livid.

753
00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:33,360
Speaker 4: I started yelling, Lily was crying, and the rest of

754
00:35:33,400 --> 00:35:35,960
Speaker 4: the girls were freaking out. When I started to calm

755
00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:38,560
Speaker 4: down and demanded that they explain what was going on,

756
00:35:38,800 --> 00:35:42,360
Speaker 4: Lily told me everything. Dylan and Caro had been sleeping

757
00:35:42,400 --> 00:35:45,040
Speaker 4: together and very essentially dating. I mean, they have a

758
00:35:45,080 --> 00:35:49,880
Speaker 4: fensta together behind my back since before we even got married.

759
00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:52,960
Speaker 4: They got together during a one month break me and

760
00:35:53,040 --> 00:35:56,759
Speaker 4: Dylan had during college. They stuck together ever since, which

761
00:35:56,760 --> 00:36:00,520
Speaker 4: I'm wondering if that is when the supposed cheating happened.

762
00:36:00,760 --> 00:36:05,759
Speaker 3: That's what I would guess, but we don't have nofirmation.

763
00:36:06,040 --> 00:36:08,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, they knew, and none of them told me until

764
00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:10,960
Speaker 4: I found out the hard way. Caro wasn't at our

765
00:36:10,960 --> 00:36:13,799
Speaker 4: wedding because he felt guilty. He avoided me like the

766
00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:18,000
Speaker 4: effing plague because he felt guilty. They arranged group meetups

767
00:36:18,000 --> 00:36:20,399
Speaker 4: in a group chat I wasn't in because they all

768
00:36:20,600 --> 00:36:23,640
Speaker 4: like Caro enough to spare his feelings. Even the guys

769
00:36:23,680 --> 00:36:26,160
Speaker 4: in the group felt the same way about him. Apparently,

770
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Speaker 4: Caro was never as distant as I thought he was.

771
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Speaker 4: He was just being hidden. Dylan was hiding him from

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Speaker 4: me because he didn't want me to find out they

773
00:36:33,760 --> 00:36:35,960
Speaker 4: were together. By the end of it, half of us

774
00:36:35,960 --> 00:36:39,120
Speaker 4: were sobbing, and everyone who wasn't was apologizing to me.

775
00:36:39,239 --> 00:36:42,560
Speaker 4: I would literally drop all of them. I would literally

776
00:36:42,680 --> 00:36:45,240
Speaker 4: leave my husband and all of them behind.

777
00:36:45,480 --> 00:36:49,680
Speaker 1: What are these people not Sophia friends. I was so angry.

778
00:36:49,920 --> 00:36:52,120
Speaker 4: I made them swear they wouldn't say anything to Dylan

779
00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:54,840
Speaker 4: or anyone else. I punted them all out and cried

780
00:36:54,880 --> 00:36:57,640
Speaker 4: myself to sleep. I was basically in denial, like it

781
00:36:57,680 --> 00:37:00,440
Speaker 4: was some kind of effing prank. My husband didn't come

782
00:37:00,480 --> 00:37:02,840
Speaker 4: home until the next morning. He told me all about

783
00:37:02,840 --> 00:37:05,919
Speaker 4: the supposed fishing trip. He went on, oh, here we go.

784
00:37:06,280 --> 00:37:08,560
Speaker 4: I didn't say anything about what I knew. I guess

785
00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:11,360
Speaker 4: he could tell something was wrong because he kept asking

786
00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:14,440
Speaker 4: me what was wrong all day every five effing minutes.

787
00:37:14,680 --> 00:37:17,040
Speaker 4: Eventually I just told him I'd been in an argument

788
00:37:17,160 --> 00:37:19,080
Speaker 4: with my sister. By the end of the week, I

789
00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:22,000
Speaker 4: was totally numb. Last night, well, my husband was handing

790
00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:24,799
Speaker 4: out candy to kids. I saw a notification pop up

791
00:37:24,840 --> 00:37:27,960
Speaker 4: on his phone. Since I knew his password, I opened it.

792
00:37:27,960 --> 00:37:30,440
Speaker 4: It was a text from Caro. I looked through the

793
00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:35,480
Speaker 4: conversations they'd had it confirmed everything. It was devastating. Dylan

794
00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:38,960
Speaker 4: texted Caro the exact same way he texted me. He

795
00:37:39,040 --> 00:37:41,919
Speaker 4: told Caro he loved him. Every sweet thing he said

796
00:37:41,920 --> 00:37:44,359
Speaker 4: to me had been said in his conversations with Caro.

797
00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:47,360
Speaker 4: I was hardly mentioned. I put his phone back before

798
00:37:47,400 --> 00:37:49,920
Speaker 4: he noticed Dylan is at work. Now I don't know

799
00:37:49,960 --> 00:37:53,080
Speaker 4: what to do. I could never imagine myself leaving Dylan

800
00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:55,359
Speaker 4: because he's such a loving partner and a good man.

801
00:37:55,480 --> 00:37:58,520
Speaker 1: No he is not. Those are bad man, bad partner things.

802
00:37:58,560 --> 00:37:59,839
Speaker 1: It's why is it always there?

803
00:37:59,880 --> 00:38:00,000
Speaker 4: Life?

804
00:38:00,400 --> 00:38:04,800
Speaker 3: They're so sweet, amazing and perfect except for the horrible everything.

805
00:38:04,880 --> 00:38:08,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, except for when he cheated on you. Your whole relationship,

806
00:38:08,239 --> 00:38:11,200
Speaker 4: your whole relationship. Come on, you guys are twenty six,

807
00:38:11,239 --> 00:38:14,759
Speaker 4: you married three years ago. You he started cheating on

808
00:38:14,840 --> 00:38:15,840
Speaker 4: you in college.

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00:38:16,080 --> 00:38:20,000
Speaker 1: Good math over three years of this? Even more? Yeah,

810
00:38:20,040 --> 00:38:20,640
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying.

811
00:38:20,680 --> 00:38:22,960
Speaker 4: Like, if you know, if this happened, like, let's say

812
00:38:22,960 --> 00:38:26,879
Speaker 4: they were twenty twenty one, five six years of cheating.

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00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:30,399
Speaker 1: Everyone in the everyone now that everyone.

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00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:33,919
Speaker 4: I would never forgive them. Oh, I would never forgive them.

815
00:38:34,080 --> 00:38:36,960
Speaker 4: Oh my, what a betrayal. But I can't see myself

816
00:38:37,000 --> 00:38:39,360
Speaker 4: winning in a competition against Caro if that's what it

817
00:38:39,360 --> 00:38:42,160
Speaker 4: comes down to. I can't even make myself be disgusted

818
00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:44,759
Speaker 4: or angered by Dylan, I love him too much. I'm

819
00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:47,600
Speaker 4: not even upset with Caro, but I'm so hurt. I

820
00:38:47,600 --> 00:38:49,839
Speaker 4: don't want to risk losing my husband and I don't

821
00:38:49,880 --> 00:38:52,319
Speaker 4: want to share him. I mean, you've lost him. He's

822
00:38:52,360 --> 00:38:54,560
Speaker 4: cheated on you for six years that you don't.

823
00:38:54,280 --> 00:38:56,759
Speaker 1: Have him because Opie hope you know that.

824
00:38:56,840 --> 00:38:59,359
Speaker 3: Are we going to go down the How do I

825
00:38:59,719 --> 00:39:02,840
Speaker 3: you know, win him back? Yeah street, when we should

826
00:39:02,840 --> 00:39:06,800
Speaker 3: be going down the you have done the unthinking street.

827
00:39:06,960 --> 00:39:07,719
Speaker 1: That's what it feels like.

828
00:39:08,280 --> 00:39:11,640
Speaker 4: And also amy Lyn says, not only is he cheating

829
00:39:11,640 --> 00:39:14,840
Speaker 4: on you, but he's treating Caro horribly too. Caro is

830
00:39:14,840 --> 00:39:17,399
Speaker 4: obviously in love with him. Yeah, I mean that's the thing.

831
00:39:17,680 --> 00:39:18,880
Speaker 1: He's cheating on you.

832
00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:21,239
Speaker 4: Lying to you, having everyone around him lie to you.

833
00:39:21,440 --> 00:39:25,040
Speaker 4: And then also he's hiding Caro and forcing Caro to Hie,

834
00:39:25,080 --> 00:39:27,520
Speaker 4: which Caro is just as you know, is absolutely as

835
00:39:27,520 --> 00:39:28,239
Speaker 4: culpable in this.

836
00:39:28,440 --> 00:39:32,760
Speaker 1: Yes, but like this is just horrible conspiracy theory. Yeah.

837
00:39:32,880 --> 00:39:36,279
Speaker 2: I wonder if Caro is like, I want to.

838
00:39:36,200 --> 00:39:37,880
Speaker 3: Be real, I want to have all these things like

839
00:39:38,040 --> 00:39:39,719
Speaker 3: I want to be I want to show the world.

840
00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:43,600
Speaker 1: He's like, Okay, I'll make an Instagram on Prime. Yeah,

841
00:39:43,800 --> 00:39:46,239
Speaker 1: I'll give you a little I'll give you a little bit,

842
00:39:46,320 --> 00:39:49,399
Speaker 1: a little bit, a little bit like a Ponzi. Yeah,

843
00:39:49,440 --> 00:39:52,200
Speaker 1: crashing down nasty exactly.

844
00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:54,719
Speaker 4: I called Lily and my sister this morning and told

845
00:39:54,760 --> 00:39:57,000
Speaker 4: them about what I had found. They both asked what

846
00:39:57,200 --> 00:39:59,640
Speaker 4: I'm going to do and I had nothing to say.

847
00:39:59,800 --> 00:40:01,920
Speaker 4: I don't know what to do at all. And folks,

848
00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:05,279
Speaker 4: there is an update, But what does Opie do?

849
00:40:05,680 --> 00:40:08,480
Speaker 3: It seems that op is in the headspace and we

850
00:40:08,480 --> 00:40:12,839
Speaker 3: see this in our stories when people initially get the bombshell,

851
00:40:13,080 --> 00:40:15,520
Speaker 3: they're like, oh, like, how do I fix things?

852
00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:17,440
Speaker 2: Like what do what do I do? How do I

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Speaker 2: d D?

854
00:40:18,840 --> 00:40:22,759
Speaker 3: And it's like, no, this person has totally eviscerated your

855
00:40:22,760 --> 00:40:26,600
Speaker 3: trust and done a horrible, unthinkable thing and clearly shows

856
00:40:26,640 --> 00:40:29,240
Speaker 3: no guilt because they've done it for at least three years,

857
00:40:29,520 --> 00:40:32,239
Speaker 3: at least three years, men probably way more so. I

858
00:40:32,239 --> 00:40:34,319
Speaker 3: think you go and it's like, hey you, I mean

859
00:40:34,560 --> 00:40:38,360
Speaker 3: again basically like divorce. I you can go to counseling,

860
00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:40,960
Speaker 3: but I don't know. To me, it is the length

861
00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:44,200
Speaker 3: and years that he's done it. It is the fact

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00:40:44,200 --> 00:40:48,400
Speaker 3: that he got all the friends to hide it that helearly, clearly,

863
00:40:48,400 --> 00:40:51,600
Speaker 3: clearly had no sign or no guilt or no remorse

864
00:40:52,160 --> 00:40:54,840
Speaker 3: like that. If you know, this is also obviously horrible.

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00:40:55,000 --> 00:40:57,600
Speaker 3: But if someone cheated on their partner and then they

866
00:40:57,600 --> 00:40:59,520
Speaker 3: were immediately like, you know what, I made the biggest

867
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Speaker 3: mistake of my life. I got to own up to

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00:41:01,080 --> 00:41:03,080
Speaker 3: I got to do other things. At least there's like remorse.

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00:41:03,160 --> 00:41:05,279
Speaker 3: At least there's like something to work with, and they're

870
00:41:05,320 --> 00:41:08,000
Speaker 3: showing that they have that honesty, integrity and other things

871
00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:11,200
Speaker 3: that glue to potentially help the relationship with this guy's

872
00:41:11,200 --> 00:41:11,920
Speaker 3: out of nothing.

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00:41:12,160 --> 00:41:13,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, one hundred percent agree.

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00:41:13,760 --> 00:41:17,200
Speaker 6: They're pulling a or they're pulling a Hannah Montana best

875
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Speaker 6: of both both.

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Speaker 1: World Yeah, yeah, but you can't have the best of

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00:41:20,600 --> 00:41:24,840
Speaker 1: both worlds. There isn't a limma up front. Oh oh whoa, whoa.

878
00:41:24,560 --> 00:41:28,359
Speaker 3: No Mitchell moos though, Okay, I'm gonna take my leg

879
00:41:28,400 --> 00:41:30,560
Speaker 3: tassels and do some of that to you.

880
00:41:30,640 --> 00:41:33,440
Speaker 4: Watch out, folks, He's taken his leg tassles to you.

881
00:41:33,719 --> 00:41:39,880
Speaker 1: He's lifting off. Oh boy, whoa, he's a helicopter. Whoa?

882
00:41:41,000 --> 00:41:41,880
Speaker 1: Where'd he go? On?

883
00:41:42,080 --> 00:41:42,600
Speaker 6: There? You go?

884
00:41:43,360 --> 00:41:44,560
Speaker 1: Anyway, there's an update.

885
00:41:44,760 --> 00:41:47,440
Speaker 4: Dylan came home last night around ten. I had a

886
00:41:47,440 --> 00:41:49,799
Speaker 4: whole speech prepared to confront him with but I could

887
00:41:49,840 --> 00:41:51,959
Speaker 4: only end up saying I know about you and Cara.

888
00:41:52,239 --> 00:41:55,680
Speaker 4: I'll spare the details of the conversation because it's still raw.

889
00:41:55,840 --> 00:41:58,319
Speaker 4: But he left around midnight. He only took a few

890
00:41:58,360 --> 00:42:01,320
Speaker 4: of his things. I haven't spoken to him since, aside

891
00:42:01,320 --> 00:42:03,200
Speaker 4: from him telling me he was coming to get more

892
00:42:03,239 --> 00:42:06,279
Speaker 4: of his things. And after our conversation, I've decided to

893
00:42:06,320 --> 00:42:10,640
Speaker 4: go through with divorce. I've collected all the necessary information

894
00:42:10,760 --> 00:42:12,920
Speaker 4: and I'll be getting in touch with the lawyer shortly.

895
00:42:13,200 --> 00:42:14,600
Speaker 1: And there is a second update.

896
00:42:14,640 --> 00:42:18,239
Speaker 4: But yeah, I mean Op's made the correct decision to

897
00:42:18,320 --> 00:42:18,719
Speaker 4: leave him.

898
00:42:19,520 --> 00:42:20,120
Speaker 2: I was worried.

899
00:42:20,280 --> 00:42:22,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, there was really no other This wasn't a one

900
00:42:22,760 --> 00:42:26,400
Speaker 4: time thing. This wasn't a you know, drunk you know,

901
00:42:26,480 --> 00:42:30,879
Speaker 4: or like under the influence mistake. This was which all

902
00:42:30,880 --> 00:42:33,040
Speaker 4: would be very valid for you to leave him for.

903
00:42:34,040 --> 00:42:39,640
Speaker 4: This was six years of informed cheating that everyone around

904
00:42:39,719 --> 00:42:44,399
Speaker 4: you knew about and let happen. Yep, yep, update too,

905
00:42:44,600 --> 00:42:47,560
Speaker 4: I'm leaving Dylan. No, I did not actually cheat on him.

906
00:42:47,840 --> 00:42:49,120
Speaker 1: Yay, thank you.

907
00:42:49,360 --> 00:42:50,680
Speaker 2: Now I'm going to get the details.

908
00:42:50,800 --> 00:42:53,279
Speaker 4: It was a huge misunderstanding between the two of us

909
00:42:53,360 --> 00:42:56,960
Speaker 4: that led him to believe and tell people that I cheated.

910
00:42:57,239 --> 00:42:59,120
Speaker 4: I don't even know if what he told me about

911
00:42:59,160 --> 00:43:01,799
Speaker 4: Caro's dislike for me is or was true. No, I'm

912
00:43:01,840 --> 00:43:04,080
Speaker 4: not going to assume him for everything. Yes, wait, tell

913
00:43:04,120 --> 00:43:05,080
Speaker 4: us more about the cheating.

914
00:43:05,480 --> 00:43:07,600
Speaker 1: Tell us a lot. I will no longer be speaking

915
00:43:07,600 --> 00:43:10,400
Speaker 1: to anyone from that group. Good. I may have been naive,

916
00:43:10,440 --> 00:43:11,480
Speaker 1: but I'm not stupid.

917
00:43:11,680 --> 00:43:13,839
Speaker 4: No. I still do not know why they chose to

918
00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:17,480
Speaker 4: betray me like that, and I don't intend on finding out. Yes, well,

919
00:43:17,480 --> 00:43:20,359
Speaker 4: as parents were accepting of LGBTQ, I don't think they

920
00:43:20,360 --> 00:43:22,520
Speaker 4: would have been okay with Dylan marrying a man from

921
00:43:22,600 --> 00:43:24,840
Speaker 4: here on out, I doubt I will have anything to

922
00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:25,919
Speaker 4: say that is all.

923
00:43:26,160 --> 00:43:26,520
Speaker 1: Thank you.

924
00:43:26,760 --> 00:43:29,000
Speaker 4: Also, I have never watched Broke Back Mountain, but the

925
00:43:29,040 --> 00:43:31,160
Speaker 4: jokes about it did make me chuckle. And folks, there's

926
00:43:31,200 --> 00:43:33,880
Speaker 4: another update. Oh I think this is the last update.

927
00:43:33,960 --> 00:43:37,080
Speaker 3: Oh wow, what more could transpire that has not already transpired?

928
00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:37,439
Speaker 1: Yeah?

929
00:43:37,520 --> 00:43:41,759
Speaker 4: I know where else can this go? Hopefully somewhere good

930
00:43:41,880 --> 00:43:45,160
Speaker 4: where Opie's like. I've improved myself. I've gone to therapy

931
00:43:45,200 --> 00:43:48,160
Speaker 4: and now I'm married to a wonderful person and we

932
00:43:48,239 --> 00:43:50,360
Speaker 4: have a mansion in a Limo out front.

933
00:43:50,680 --> 00:43:53,480
Speaker 1: Oh, that's what I want to see. Op deserves the

934
00:43:53,520 --> 00:43:55,480
Speaker 1: best of both worlds. I agree, that's what I'm.

935
00:43:55,360 --> 00:43:57,799
Speaker 4: Saying, but not in a cheating way, just in like

936
00:43:57,880 --> 00:44:00,439
Speaker 4: a Hannah Montana kind of way. About eight months months ago,

937
00:44:00,520 --> 00:44:03,280
Speaker 4: I posted here seeking a release from an ugly, brutal

938
00:44:03,320 --> 00:44:06,880
Speaker 4: situation involving my cheating now ex husband. I've been working

939
00:44:06,920 --> 00:44:09,440
Speaker 4: really hard on getting better for myself, and since then

940
00:44:09,520 --> 00:44:11,919
Speaker 4: I'm okay. Until a week and a half ago.

941
00:44:12,320 --> 00:44:17,120
Speaker 2: No update, ladies and gentlemen. That's why there's another date.

942
00:44:17,880 --> 00:44:19,799
Speaker 1: Hey, it's Sam og host. We're going to get back

943
00:44:19,800 --> 00:44:21,040
Speaker 1: to these delectable stories.

944
00:44:21,080 --> 00:44:21,880
Speaker 2: But here's three.

945
00:44:21,760 --> 00:44:23,959
Speaker 1: Minutes of ads from our sponsors to help support the show.

946
00:44:24,680 --> 00:44:27,280
Speaker 4: Ten days ago, I heard from one too many distant

947
00:44:27,360 --> 00:44:30,719
Speaker 4: mutual friends that Caro left Dylan. It makes me so

948
00:44:30,880 --> 00:44:33,080
Speaker 4: happy to hear that he got what he deserved the

949
00:44:33,080 --> 00:44:36,120
Speaker 4: man he had to have left him. Unfortunately, Caro hasn't

950
00:44:36,120 --> 00:44:38,319
Speaker 4: received his end of the karma and is still just

951
00:44:38,360 --> 00:44:40,400
Speaker 4: as effing perfect as the day I found out he

952
00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:43,200
Speaker 4: was having an affair with my husband. By the way,

953
00:44:43,440 --> 00:44:45,800
Speaker 4: it would be perfect if you listen to full episodes

954
00:44:45,840 --> 00:44:48,520
Speaker 4: of stories just like this. Just go to Spotify, Apple

955
00:44:48,560 --> 00:44:51,759
Speaker 4: Podcasts or iHeart Radio and search up. Okay, storytime, but

956
00:44:51,760 --> 00:44:53,920
Speaker 4: there is a little bit left to the story. Is

957
00:44:54,000 --> 00:44:57,040
Speaker 4: Opie only upset because Caro's just still kind of perfect,

958
00:44:57,360 --> 00:45:00,000
Speaker 4: just like I. It was fine until ten days ago

959
00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:01,719
Speaker 4: when I found out Kroo is so perfect.

960
00:45:01,880 --> 00:45:05,799
Speaker 3: You know, sometimes people are hot, evil, yeah, and get

961
00:45:05,800 --> 00:45:07,640
Speaker 3: away with it, and that is a frustrating experience.

962
00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:10,920
Speaker 4: It is frustrating, but life is not fair, and sometimes evil,

963
00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:12,720
Speaker 4: hot people get ahead in the world.

964
00:45:13,080 --> 00:45:16,360
Speaker 1: That is a lot of the celebrities.

965
00:45:16,560 --> 00:45:19,200
Speaker 4: Honestly, that's kind of their whole thing, being evil and

966
00:45:19,239 --> 00:45:21,040
Speaker 4: hot and it sucks.

967
00:45:21,120 --> 00:45:24,560
Speaker 3: He Kaylee says his karma will come eventually. Yeah, eventually,

968
00:45:24,719 --> 00:45:26,520
Speaker 3: that's new book.

969
00:45:26,960 --> 00:45:30,759
Speaker 4: Oh, I thought like he releases a new album, his

970
00:45:30,880 --> 00:45:31,440
Speaker 4: first album.

971
00:45:31,560 --> 00:45:35,319
Speaker 1: It's called Karma, Hero's Karma, Karma, oh God or that

972
00:45:35,480 --> 00:45:37,560
Speaker 1: you know what? Actually, that would be a really good perfume.

973
00:45:37,920 --> 00:45:43,040
Speaker 3: Caro's Karma smells like bad beats getting justice.

974
00:45:43,239 --> 00:45:45,680
Speaker 4: However, I'd be lying if I said I cared or

975
00:45:45,760 --> 00:45:48,200
Speaker 4: had any ill will towards him. I don't just my

976
00:45:48,280 --> 00:45:50,440
Speaker 4: ex husband. Heck, if I saw him in a parking lot,

977
00:45:50,520 --> 00:45:52,680
Speaker 4: I'd sprint over, shake his hand and tell him I'm

978
00:45:52,680 --> 00:45:55,400
Speaker 4: glad he delivered my ex husband his much deserved karma.

979
00:45:55,520 --> 00:45:57,480
Speaker 4: I don't know how Dylan is doing now, but I

980
00:45:57,520 --> 00:46:00,600
Speaker 4: hope he sees how it hurts being buttrayed like that. Anyways,

981
00:46:00,680 --> 00:46:02,680
Speaker 4: you can consider this the end of the line, No

982
00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:05,759
Speaker 4: more updates, know nothing. All I can and we'll do

983
00:46:05,880 --> 00:46:07,080
Speaker 4: from now on is heal.

984
00:46:07,360 --> 00:46:10,920
Speaker 1: Okay, So everything's fine? Yeah, And you know, sometimes that's

985
00:46:10,960 --> 00:46:13,360
Speaker 1: the all you can do and the best.

986
00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:18,439
Speaker 3: It's always good to heal, grow and self care and especially.

987
00:46:18,160 --> 00:46:22,320
Speaker 1: My goodness, especially in these scenarios. Agreed, that's right. Agreed.

988
00:46:22,640 --> 00:46:25,600
Speaker 3: I refuse to cook fancy meals from my husband only

989
00:46:25,719 --> 00:46:29,400
Speaker 3: slap eat it. I'm the only one who cooks in

990
00:46:29,440 --> 00:46:31,520
Speaker 3: our house. It's just the four of us, my husband,

991
00:46:31,560 --> 00:46:33,120
Speaker 3: me and my daughter and my little brother.

992
00:46:33,200 --> 00:46:33,920
Speaker 1: My husband is.

993
00:46:33,840 --> 00:46:36,160
Speaker 3: Twenty seven and I am twenty five. Wow, big house

994
00:46:36,160 --> 00:46:39,440
Speaker 3: and young parents. My husband barely knows how to make eggs, even.

995
00:46:39,200 --> 00:46:43,480
Speaker 1: Though I'm embarrassing. That's orb that's embarrassing. That is really tough.

996
00:46:43,560 --> 00:46:44,359
Speaker 1: Figure it out, dude.

997
00:46:44,400 --> 00:46:46,399
Speaker 3: Right, my husband barely knows how to make eggs, even

998
00:46:46,440 --> 00:46:49,080
Speaker 3: though I've tried to talk to him constantly and learning

999
00:46:49,120 --> 00:46:51,360
Speaker 3: how to cook. My daughter and brother are still in

1000
00:46:51,400 --> 00:46:54,239
Speaker 3: elementary school, so they only help me cook.

1001
00:46:54,400 --> 00:46:58,520
Speaker 4: That's embarrassing. Your daughter knows how to cook and your

1002
00:46:58,600 --> 00:46:59,560
Speaker 4: husband doesn't.

1003
00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:02,120
Speaker 1: Dude, figure it out. You're an adult.

1004
00:47:01,840 --> 00:47:03,680
Speaker 2: Weaponi's and competence all all.

1005
00:47:03,760 --> 00:47:06,560
Speaker 3: I just broke egg everywhere. Oh oh no, I don't.

1006
00:47:06,600 --> 00:47:08,319
Speaker 3: I don't know how to how to use this bash

1007
00:47:08,360 --> 00:47:09,360
Speaker 3: slat just like this.

1008
00:47:09,480 --> 00:47:11,359
Speaker 4: Dude, do you know how easy it is to make

1009
00:47:11,440 --> 00:47:14,880
Speaker 4: boiled hard boiled eggs? Yeah, boil water you've seen in

1010
00:47:14,920 --> 00:47:17,840
Speaker 4: the name, turn it off, put egg in for I

1011
00:47:17,840 --> 00:47:19,960
Speaker 4: don't know, ten minutes done.

1012
00:47:20,520 --> 00:47:22,759
Speaker 1: I gotta think about time. I have to go get

1013
00:47:22,800 --> 00:47:25,680
Speaker 1: it time. I have to get an egg. Then what

1014
00:47:25,760 --> 00:47:28,920
Speaker 1: do I do? So? And then you peel it, You

1015
00:47:28,960 --> 00:47:33,360
Speaker 1: shove it down your whole egg. Ow it's hot.

1016
00:47:34,080 --> 00:47:36,879
Speaker 3: By the way, this comes from Local Moment for seven

1017
00:47:36,920 --> 00:47:38,560
Speaker 3: eighty two, and if you want to submit your own.

1018
00:47:38,360 --> 00:47:40,680
Speaker 1: Stories, just go to the r slash Okay, storytime suburn.

1019
00:47:40,840 --> 00:47:43,800
Speaker 3: So the responsibility falls on me, and it's honestly exhaust

1020
00:47:44,080 --> 00:47:46,399
Speaker 3: So I just set up a system in my head.

1021
00:47:46,480 --> 00:47:47,080
Speaker 1: It's easy.

1022
00:47:47,200 --> 00:47:50,320
Speaker 3: For breakfast, it's just something with eggs or cereal. Lunch

1023
00:47:50,360 --> 00:47:52,880
Speaker 3: is some sort of sandwich, a burger or leftovers, and

1024
00:47:52,920 --> 00:47:54,880
Speaker 3: dinner is the meal I usually plan, but I have

1025
00:47:54,960 --> 00:47:57,560
Speaker 3: like ten dishes that I repeat. Sometimes I'll go off,

1026
00:47:57,640 --> 00:48:01,280
Speaker 3: especially Sunday, but generally I stay in that because easier

1027
00:48:01,320 --> 00:48:02,040
Speaker 3: for me mentally.

1028
00:48:02,160 --> 00:48:02,359
Speaker 1: Well.

1029
00:48:02,360 --> 00:48:05,120
Speaker 3: One day, I had just made pasta alfredo with chicken,

1030
00:48:05,200 --> 00:48:07,560
Speaker 3: and as we were eating, my husband mentioned that it'd

1031
00:48:07,600 --> 00:48:09,720
Speaker 3: be nice if I made fancier dishes.

1032
00:48:10,360 --> 00:48:13,640
Speaker 4: You're to see how fancy a dish I can make

1033
00:48:13,719 --> 00:48:14,640
Speaker 4: on your face.

1034
00:48:17,280 --> 00:48:19,160
Speaker 1: No, I don't have to get them. Sorry for the

1035
00:48:19,160 --> 00:48:20,320
Speaker 1: blood fancy feast.

1036
00:48:21,440 --> 00:48:24,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, because he's a dog.

1037
00:48:26,000 --> 00:48:31,520
Speaker 4: Cats, right, Nancy, Okay, well he's a cat.

1038
00:48:31,680 --> 00:48:35,960
Speaker 1: He's an animal. Yeah, he deserves animal food. It works.

1039
00:48:36,040 --> 00:48:38,080
Speaker 1: Du're just cracking up and the canna is just like

1040
00:48:39,560 --> 00:48:40,200
Speaker 1: about joy.

1041
00:48:40,480 --> 00:48:42,759
Speaker 3: I asked him what he meant, and he explained, he

1042
00:48:42,840 --> 00:48:45,560
Speaker 3: wants me to change things up, add some more meat

1043
00:48:45,600 --> 00:48:48,719
Speaker 3: dishes in variety. Next time, we went out shopping and

1044
00:48:48,760 --> 00:48:51,439
Speaker 3: I was putting together ingredients I don't usually buy into

1045
00:48:51,520 --> 00:48:54,520
Speaker 3: the carts. As ingredients started piling up, my husband would

1046
00:48:54,520 --> 00:48:55,879
Speaker 3: get all puffy and up set.

1047
00:48:58,560 --> 00:49:02,840
Speaker 4: He's in that advertisement for Chef Bardy. He's like, but

1048
00:49:03,040 --> 00:49:04,320
Speaker 4: I want chef tonight.

1049
00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:08,439
Speaker 1: Hmm. And then it's like rolling after Yeah, the can

1050
00:49:09,360 --> 00:49:10,399
Speaker 1: please eat.

1051
00:49:11,120 --> 00:49:13,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, we get to the meat aisle and I start

1052
00:49:13,040 --> 00:49:15,920
Speaker 3: picking out beef, and that's when my husband lost it

1053
00:49:16,000 --> 00:49:18,600
Speaker 3: and started taking things out of the cart, saying that

1054
00:49:18,719 --> 00:49:21,080
Speaker 3: we can't afford my fancy living.

1055
00:49:21,480 --> 00:49:23,239
Speaker 1: He wants some fancy food, but we can't afford the

1056
00:49:23,239 --> 00:49:23,839
Speaker 1: fancy living.

1057
00:49:24,040 --> 00:49:26,920
Speaker 3: Do you want fancy or do you want not fancy?

1058
00:49:27,239 --> 00:49:28,959
Speaker 3: Make up your mind.

1059
00:49:29,040 --> 00:49:30,200
Speaker 1: I can't keep up.

1060
00:49:30,440 --> 00:49:32,759
Speaker 3: I blinked at him and tried to explain that he

1061
00:49:32,880 --> 00:49:35,120
Speaker 3: was the one who asked for a variety in different dishes,

1062
00:49:35,280 --> 00:49:38,640
Speaker 3: so I'm buying different ingredients. He rolled his eyes and

1063
00:49:38,680 --> 00:49:40,839
Speaker 3: told me that I'm just being dramatic. I just let

1064
00:49:40,880 --> 00:49:43,359
Speaker 3: him do his thing, taking most of the ingredients out.

1065
00:49:43,560 --> 00:49:45,759
Speaker 3: The next week, I made the same dishes because that's

1066
00:49:45,800 --> 00:49:48,440
Speaker 3: all I had ingredients for a week past, and my

1067
00:49:48,560 --> 00:49:51,439
Speaker 3: husband was all pouting that I made fried rice again

1068
00:49:51,719 --> 00:49:53,200
Speaker 3: and that he's sick of chicken.

1069
00:49:53,560 --> 00:49:57,319
Speaker 1: I'm literally gonna gonna go off on this man.

1070
00:49:57,680 --> 00:49:59,600
Speaker 2: I said this earlier this week.

1071
00:49:59,760 --> 00:49:59,960
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1072
00:50:00,120 --> 00:50:04,200
Speaker 3: Think classic mister Crabs and Missus Puff type situation. Oh

1073
00:50:04,239 --> 00:50:06,120
Speaker 3: I want the fancy meat. Why are you buying the

1074
00:50:06,120 --> 00:50:07,920
Speaker 3: fancy meat? We can't have as Oh, babe, I want

1075
00:50:07,920 --> 00:50:08,359
Speaker 3: the fancy meat.

1076
00:50:08,360 --> 00:50:10,480
Speaker 1: Can we get the face meat? You literally can't win,

1077
00:50:11,080 --> 00:50:11,440
Speaker 1: my god.

1078
00:50:11,640 --> 00:50:13,600
Speaker 3: When I pointed out that he had taken all the

1079
00:50:13,600 --> 00:50:15,319
Speaker 3: beef out of our carts, he blew up on me

1080
00:50:15,360 --> 00:50:17,120
Speaker 3: and said that I'm being an a hole because he

1081
00:50:17,120 --> 00:50:18,000
Speaker 3: doesn't know how to cut.

1082
00:50:18,120 --> 00:50:20,960
Speaker 5: I didn't know you needed the meat to make the

1083
00:50:21,080 --> 00:50:22,040
Speaker 5: fancy meal.

1084
00:50:22,400 --> 00:50:24,719
Speaker 1: I don't know how to cut.

1085
00:50:25,200 --> 00:50:30,239
Speaker 2: I'm sorry. I'm not agitated on you. So am I

1086
00:50:30,440 --> 00:50:31,240
Speaker 2: the a hole?

1087
00:50:31,360 --> 00:50:32,600
Speaker 1: No divorce him.

1088
00:50:33,000 --> 00:50:36,239
Speaker 3: He didn't even have time to ask. But there it is, ladies, gentlemen,

1089
00:50:36,320 --> 00:50:38,279
Speaker 3: and you know what. The consensus on the story was

1090
00:50:38,560 --> 00:50:41,640
Speaker 3: not the a hole, Sophia. Could you ye break.

1091
00:50:41,440 --> 00:50:42,440
Speaker 2: Down for us? Y?

1092
00:50:42,560 --> 00:50:44,080
Speaker 1: Op? Is not the a hole?

1093
00:50:44,160 --> 00:50:48,640
Speaker 4: OPI. You're literally cooking this man, this adult man, dinner.

1094
00:50:48,880 --> 00:50:53,080
Speaker 4: And then even was kind enough to listen to his

1095
00:50:53,160 --> 00:50:56,800
Speaker 4: little wines about wanting fancy meals, went to the store

1096
00:50:57,080 --> 00:50:59,800
Speaker 4: with him to pick out his fancy meals, had the

1097
00:51:00,000 --> 00:51:03,160
Speaker 4: audacity to whine about that and say we can't afford that.

1098
00:51:03,280 --> 00:51:05,480
Speaker 4: And then you went home and cooked your regular meals.

1099
00:51:05,520 --> 00:51:09,399
Speaker 4: And now he has again the audacity to complain, where

1100
00:51:09,440 --> 00:51:12,080
Speaker 4: are the fancy meals? And then yell at you when

1101
00:51:12,120 --> 00:51:15,839
Speaker 4: you say you took out the ingredients. My guy like, no,

1102
00:51:15,920 --> 00:51:19,400
Speaker 4: you're not the ale at all. Your husband is incompetent

1103
00:51:19,680 --> 00:51:20,960
Speaker 4: and sucks.

1104
00:51:20,760 --> 00:51:23,360
Speaker 3: And I don't like him very bad. Yeah, this is

1105
00:51:24,040 --> 00:51:28,040
Speaker 3: very very bad. And I wonder you know what spiracy theory?

1106
00:51:28,040 --> 00:51:29,319
Speaker 3: He's cheating conspiracy.

1107
00:51:29,480 --> 00:51:33,080
Speaker 4: Honestly, he's cheating, he is, He's getting fancy meals somewhere else,

1108
00:51:33,120 --> 00:51:34,759
Speaker 4: and he's like, I want my wife to make those

1109
00:51:34,760 --> 00:51:35,839
Speaker 4: fancy meals.

1110
00:51:35,600 --> 00:51:36,480
Speaker 1: And he wants to.

1111
00:51:36,719 --> 00:51:39,120
Speaker 3: He feels like all the guilt inside, so he's like

1112
00:51:39,239 --> 00:51:40,880
Speaker 3: inventing things to be mad.

1113
00:51:40,719 --> 00:51:43,600
Speaker 1: At her, yes, exactly, to blame her.

1114
00:51:43,800 --> 00:51:46,319
Speaker 3: My god, my wife like she like doesn't make these

1115
00:51:46,320 --> 00:51:47,920
Speaker 3: fancy meals. But then I like tell her not to

1116
00:51:47,920 --> 00:51:49,560
Speaker 3: buy the fancy ingredients. But then she like doesn't make

1117
00:51:49,600 --> 00:51:51,120
Speaker 3: the fancy meals. And now I'm like, I'm like.

1118
00:51:51,400 --> 00:51:54,320
Speaker 1: Like, she can't. She doesn't make the fancy meals appear

1119
00:51:54,360 --> 00:51:55,920
Speaker 1: of nowhere. I'm divorcing her.

1120
00:51:56,280 --> 00:51:57,840
Speaker 2: Why can't you just be magic?

1121
00:51:59,040 --> 00:52:01,400
Speaker 6: Like a little triangle is to put like smiley faces

1122
00:52:01,440 --> 00:52:02,040
Speaker 6: in my food?

1123
00:52:02,120 --> 00:52:05,920
Speaker 4: Why can't my chicky nuggies look like dinosaurs? What's up

1124
00:52:05,920 --> 00:52:06,239
Speaker 4: with that?

1125
00:52:06,400 --> 00:52:07,719
Speaker 2: I want my nuggies.

1126
00:52:08,000 --> 00:52:09,720
Speaker 1: I want my little nuggies.

1127
00:52:09,320 --> 00:52:11,800
Speaker 2: Cut off the quest, but keep it on, Dunny.

1128
00:52:11,920 --> 00:52:17,080
Speaker 1: I don't like the quest. Why am I peas touching

1129
00:52:17,120 --> 00:52:17,600
Speaker 1: my corn?

1130
00:52:18,760 --> 00:52:23,440
Speaker 3: Well, gentlemen, we have some relevant comments, some notable comments,

1131
00:52:23,440 --> 00:52:25,120
Speaker 3: I should say so. The first one starts. The thing

1132
00:52:25,160 --> 00:52:27,440
Speaker 3: that bothers me is that he complains about something. Then

1133
00:52:27,480 --> 00:52:30,319
Speaker 3: it gets angry when you try to do what he wants. Yes,

1134
00:52:30,400 --> 00:52:32,279
Speaker 3: that's the infuriating part. When you point that out, he

1135
00:52:32,320 --> 00:52:34,239
Speaker 3: gets angry at you. It sounds like he just wants

1136
00:52:34,280 --> 00:52:36,680
Speaker 3: to be angry at you. That's so bizarre. Not the

1137
00:52:36,719 --> 00:52:39,040
Speaker 3: a holes coming from curly suit ninety nine. She let

1138
00:52:39,120 --> 00:52:41,440
Speaker 3: him get away with not cooking and that went to

1139
00:52:41,520 --> 00:52:44,200
Speaker 3: his head and he got entitled. Next time, OP needs

1140
00:52:44,239 --> 00:52:46,759
Speaker 3: to nip any unfairness like that in the bud right

1141
00:52:46,800 --> 00:52:48,640
Speaker 3: away so it doesn't get this far.

1142
00:52:48,920 --> 00:52:50,200
Speaker 1: He's the father of a child.

1143
00:52:50,400 --> 00:52:53,000
Speaker 3: Not knowing how to cook isn't a thing anymore if

1144
00:52:53,000 --> 00:52:55,840
Speaker 3: you're a single person, sure, but that excuse no longer

1145
00:52:55,880 --> 00:52:57,440
Speaker 3: applies when you have mouths to feed.

1146
00:52:57,640 --> 00:53:01,040
Speaker 1: For Flonique paws paws as well. We double pause.

1147
00:53:01,640 --> 00:53:06,680
Speaker 3: I have been living without parental guidance for eleven years.

1148
00:53:07,320 --> 00:53:11,600
Speaker 3: Did I decide to just shrivel up and starve Nope, No,

1149
00:53:12,080 --> 00:53:15,480
Speaker 3: I just made meals to consume.

1150
00:53:15,760 --> 00:53:17,360
Speaker 2: Am I a master chef?

1151
00:53:17,600 --> 00:53:17,799
Speaker 1: No?

1152
00:53:18,040 --> 00:53:20,600
Speaker 2: Chat, I am not, that is the truth.

1153
00:53:20,640 --> 00:53:23,600
Speaker 3: But I cook for myself, and I don't understand what

1154
00:53:23,640 --> 00:53:26,320
Speaker 3: these people who are expecting their wives or their partners

1155
00:53:26,360 --> 00:53:28,600
Speaker 3: to make the meals. I'm like, were you not making

1156
00:53:28,640 --> 00:53:30,520
Speaker 3: meals to feed yourself before?

1157
00:53:30,760 --> 00:53:34,320
Speaker 4: I understand doing the thing? I don't understand. And also

1158
00:53:34,520 --> 00:53:36,160
Speaker 4: for that commentary, I understand.

1159
00:53:35,840 --> 00:53:36,360
Speaker 1: What they're saying.

1160
00:53:36,520 --> 00:53:38,640
Speaker 4: I don't think there's any excuse for not knowing how

1161
00:53:38,680 --> 00:53:41,359
Speaker 4: to cook even when you're single. Yes, I don't think

1162
00:53:41,360 --> 00:53:43,960
Speaker 4: there's any excuse. You don't have to be a great chef.

1163
00:53:44,160 --> 00:53:46,799
Speaker 4: You gotta know how to cook. Yeah, because it's a

1164
00:53:46,800 --> 00:53:50,480
Speaker 4: basic life skill. Yes, honestly, we should start bringing home

1165
00:53:50,520 --> 00:53:52,560
Speaker 4: at classes back. Why did we get I know that

1166
00:53:52,600 --> 00:53:55,480
Speaker 4: some places have that we didn't have that. I think, Yeah,

1167
00:53:55,520 --> 00:53:58,440
Speaker 4: I think they should like make home at classes mandatory

1168
00:53:58,680 --> 00:54:00,960
Speaker 4: because the amount of people that I mean that don't

1169
00:54:01,000 --> 00:54:04,440
Speaker 4: know how to cook basic things or clean their clothes properly.

1170
00:54:04,520 --> 00:54:06,080
Speaker 4: The amount of boys that I had to teach how

1171
00:54:06,120 --> 00:54:10,160
Speaker 4: to wash their clothes in college, like in freshman year, shocking, shocking.

1172
00:54:10,239 --> 00:54:10,759
Speaker 1: That is bad.

1173
00:54:11,040 --> 00:54:13,759
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's actually kind of weird. I know, because I

1174
00:54:13,880 --> 00:54:15,640
Speaker 6: had like my roommate didn't know how to do that.

1175
00:54:15,840 --> 00:54:17,480
Speaker 6: I was like, what, it's crazy.

1176
00:54:17,560 --> 00:54:19,680
Speaker 2: I didn't realize how widespread this epidemic was.

1177
00:54:19,760 --> 00:54:20,520
Speaker 1: It's widespread.

1178
00:54:20,640 --> 00:54:23,080
Speaker 3: I know some people I met. There was one guy

1179
00:54:23,280 --> 00:54:25,600
Speaker 3: literally about to get married, thirty one years old, never

1180
00:54:25,680 --> 00:54:26,800
Speaker 3: done laundry.

1181
00:54:26,760 --> 00:54:32,120
Speaker 4: Insane for insane? What who's doing your laundry? Mommy, Mummy.

1182
00:54:32,239 --> 00:54:34,600
Speaker 4: Mommy's coming to college literally to drive.

1183
00:54:34,440 --> 00:54:35,680
Speaker 1: You to clean your laundry.

1184
00:54:35,880 --> 00:54:41,120
Speaker 3: Mamasita, mummy, biggest red flager, Yeah, no, super super big one.

1185
00:54:41,280 --> 00:54:44,440
Speaker 1: Anyway, I'll all step off of my little box. Well,

1186
00:54:44,280 --> 00:54:46,719
Speaker 1: we enjoyed the speech for you, Kim, So I.

1187
00:54:46,719 --> 00:54:49,000
Speaker 3: Think this is another comment. I would stop cooking for

1188
00:54:49,040 --> 00:54:51,840
Speaker 3: His Grace, the Duke of Minimum Efforts for a while.

1189
00:54:52,000 --> 00:54:55,280
Speaker 3: That's great. I love that, possibly forever. Just feed yourself

1190
00:54:55,320 --> 00:54:57,759
Speaker 3: and your kids. Your foods aren't good enough for Sir

1191
00:54:57,920 --> 00:55:04,000
Speaker 3: requires all, so why bother reginald Expectationington the Third can

1192
00:55:04,080 --> 00:55:07,600
Speaker 3: learn to cook for himself unless he is mentally impaired. Somehow,

1193
00:55:07,760 --> 00:55:10,040
Speaker 3: tell him that you are very excited to taste his

1194
00:55:10,040 --> 00:55:12,480
Speaker 3: beef wellingtons and nicely feared helbuts. Yeah, that was a

1195
00:55:12,480 --> 00:55:15,800
Speaker 3: little bit weird. I absolutely despise people who are about

1196
00:55:15,800 --> 00:55:18,600
Speaker 3: as useful as a handful of dirt, yet act all

1197
00:55:18,760 --> 00:55:21,080
Speaker 3: entitled and crap on people who take care of them.

1198
00:55:21,160 --> 00:55:23,080
Speaker 1: Not the ahole, not the ahole, not the a hole.

1199
00:55:23,160 --> 00:55:25,399
Speaker 3: Okay, here we go another comment, husband Afford two years

1200
00:55:25,400 --> 00:55:28,279
Speaker 3: here with a word for your man son, grow up

1201
00:55:28,320 --> 00:55:29,360
Speaker 3: and help with your family.

1202
00:55:29,440 --> 00:55:31,640
Speaker 1: Learn to cook. It ain't difficult to do the basics.

1203
00:55:31,680 --> 00:55:34,439
Speaker 3: Cooking is fun, creative, rewarding, and you just might save

1204
00:55:34,520 --> 00:55:37,719
Speaker 3: your marriage that and quit being a bunch. And then

1205
00:55:38,080 --> 00:55:41,520
Speaker 3: quick comment from Ope. I mean, he's a big boy

1206
00:55:41,560 --> 00:55:43,759
Speaker 3: engineer and he's really smart. I don't think he has

1207
00:55:43,800 --> 00:55:46,759
Speaker 3: a learning disability. He's a MoMA's boy. And I realized

1208
00:55:46,800 --> 00:55:49,120
Speaker 3: I just kind of allowed this behavior to continue. He's

1209
00:55:49,120 --> 00:55:50,680
Speaker 3: the oldest of eight boys and his mom is a

1210
00:55:50,760 --> 00:55:52,680
Speaker 3: boy mom type, so I had to teach him how

1211
00:55:52,680 --> 00:55:54,879
Speaker 3: to take care of himself after we got married. And

1212
00:55:54,960 --> 00:55:58,160
Speaker 3: now the last challenge is cooking. And yes, I work

1213
00:55:58,200 --> 00:56:00,960
Speaker 3: part time from home. I don't mind cooking honestly, And

1214
00:56:01,000 --> 00:56:03,440
Speaker 3: he does everything else. He does laundry mostly. Okay, at

1215
00:56:03,520 --> 00:56:06,239
Speaker 3: least he does laundry at least. Yeah, but this his

1216
00:56:06,320 --> 00:56:09,839
Speaker 3: red flag got so big that it's just fall it's not.

1217
00:56:09,800 --> 00:56:11,960
Speaker 4: Even like the thing is that I think it's totally

1218
00:56:12,000 --> 00:56:15,000
Speaker 4: fine if you have one partner who does a majority

1219
00:56:15,040 --> 00:56:16,920
Speaker 4: of the cooking and another partner who does majority of

1220
00:56:16,920 --> 00:56:18,760
Speaker 4: the cleaning or something, that's fine.

1221
00:56:19,120 --> 00:56:21,120
Speaker 1: It's not fine for you to not know how to

1222
00:56:21,160 --> 00:56:24,720
Speaker 1: cook at all. Yeah, like you got you, like you don't.

1223
00:56:24,840 --> 00:56:28,240
Speaker 4: Again, if you have a relationship where someone does different

1224
00:56:28,360 --> 00:56:29,400
Speaker 4: chores and stuff, that's.

1225
00:56:29,320 --> 00:56:31,520
Speaker 1: Fine, But it's a it's a life skill. It's just

1226
00:56:31,560 --> 00:56:32,160
Speaker 1: a life skill.

1227
00:56:32,280 --> 00:56:34,960
Speaker 3: You know what I will be if I'm the judge

1228
00:56:35,000 --> 00:56:38,680
Speaker 3: in this court. Yeah, I would even be so merciful

1229
00:56:38,800 --> 00:56:42,640
Speaker 3: as to say, all right, if you don't know how

1230
00:56:42,680 --> 00:56:45,560
Speaker 3: to and you absolutely hate cooking, okay, but we need

1231
00:56:45,600 --> 00:56:49,640
Speaker 3: to come together and you need to fully do everything.

1232
00:56:49,760 --> 00:56:50,000
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1233
00:56:50,040 --> 00:56:52,560
Speaker 2: And that's like not just do everything everything and then

1234
00:56:52,640 --> 00:56:54,080
Speaker 2: some of what will.

1235
00:56:53,840 --> 00:56:55,960
Speaker 3: Make up for it for your partner. So you need

1236
00:56:56,000 --> 00:56:58,480
Speaker 3: to do what is it the laundry, cleaning the house,

1237
00:56:58,520 --> 00:57:01,040
Speaker 3: like all the things. What are the things that your

1238
00:57:01,040 --> 00:57:03,400
Speaker 3: partner hates to do that you can absorb and take on,

1239
00:57:03,600 --> 00:57:07,360
Speaker 3: so that way it's at least a equitable exchange. Yeah,

1240
00:57:07,600 --> 00:57:10,080
Speaker 3: sure I would even allow that, But I'm not the

1241
00:57:10,120 --> 00:57:13,240
Speaker 3: best cook. So I always say, hey, I'll do the dishes,

1242
00:57:13,719 --> 00:57:17,760
Speaker 3: simple as that, and everyone everyone can cook something, it's like, yeah,

1243
00:57:17,920 --> 00:57:18,240
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1244
00:57:18,280 --> 00:57:20,320
Speaker 4: And also for all the people who are like, I

1245
00:57:20,320 --> 00:57:22,800
Speaker 4: don't know how to cook, so I let this person cook.

1246
00:57:23,160 --> 00:57:25,439
Speaker 4: You know how to chop? I bet help prep ask

1247
00:57:25,440 --> 00:57:27,160
Speaker 4: them what they need help with. I love it like

1248
00:57:27,160 --> 00:57:29,040
Speaker 4: people are always like, hey, how can I help, I'm like,

1249
00:57:29,320 --> 00:57:29,880
Speaker 4: start chopping.

1250
00:57:30,040 --> 00:57:32,280
Speaker 3: I honestly, I think I don't know how to cook?

1251
00:57:32,360 --> 00:57:33,240
Speaker 3: Is actually a lie?

1252
00:57:33,400 --> 00:57:36,200
Speaker 4: I think so too. Just cookie is not that hard? Yeah,

1253
00:57:36,240 --> 00:57:40,040
Speaker 4: it's really like, genuinely, it's not that hard. It's following directions.

1254
00:57:40,080 --> 00:57:43,240
Speaker 4: If you can follow directions, you'll be okay. Obviously, there

1255
00:57:43,240 --> 00:57:45,320
Speaker 4: are some things that are hard and require a lot

1256
00:57:45,360 --> 00:57:48,600
Speaker 4: of different like materials and stuff, like making pasta. If

1257
00:57:48,600 --> 00:57:50,600
Speaker 4: you don't have the thing, that's could be hard, like

1258
00:57:50,760 --> 00:57:53,400
Speaker 4: fresh pasta's when I meant sorry, I didn't add that.

1259
00:57:54,160 --> 00:57:58,640
Speaker 4: If you're making fresh pasta, yes, difficult, but like making

1260
00:57:58,720 --> 00:58:00,600
Speaker 4: regular pasta, not hard.

1261
00:58:00,840 --> 00:58:03,160
Speaker 1: You can even crack it in half if you want. Sure,

1262
00:58:03,600 --> 00:58:06,400
Speaker 1: Oh I don't know about that, I'll allow it. Listen.

1263
00:58:06,600 --> 00:58:09,560
Speaker 3: I was raised on I ate cracked spaghetti and milk

1264
00:58:09,600 --> 00:58:11,240
Speaker 3: ladies and gentlemen all the time.

1265
00:58:11,440 --> 00:58:12,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, literally, what is that?

1266
00:58:12,840 --> 00:58:15,479
Speaker 2: Spaghetti and orange? Yep, happened all the time.

1267
00:58:15,680 --> 00:58:18,200
Speaker 1: Wait, you cooked spaghetti with orange juice by the way.

1268
00:58:18,240 --> 00:58:20,080
Speaker 3: By the way, just to be clear, this wasn't me

1269
00:58:20,600 --> 00:58:23,560
Speaker 3: making the meal. This is simply me receiving, as an

1270
00:58:23,600 --> 00:58:26,240
Speaker 3: eight year old boy, a meal that was prepared. I

1271
00:58:26,240 --> 00:58:29,280
Speaker 3: don't do it anymore. I've sproke, so I've broken Sofia.

1272
00:58:29,400 --> 00:58:32,560
Speaker 3: You don't like my spaghetti and orange juice combos in

1273
00:58:32,640 --> 00:58:38,320
Speaker 3: the orange Wait, no, not in the It was separately,

1274
00:58:38,680 --> 00:58:43,960
Speaker 3: like a plate of spaghetti's.

1275
00:58:43,280 --> 00:58:44,880
Speaker 1: Milk. Why did you say it like that?

1276
00:58:44,880 --> 00:58:48,440
Speaker 2: That's so normal, I thought, I thought. I Oh my.

1277
00:58:48,320 --> 00:58:50,800
Speaker 4: Gosh, I thought you were saying that you were cooking

1278
00:58:50,840 --> 00:58:52,800
Speaker 4: the spaghetti in orange shoes.

1279
00:58:53,920 --> 00:59:02,600
Speaker 1: That's what I thought that. Sorry, sorry for my orange spaghetti. Listen,

1280
00:59:03,000 --> 00:59:07,360
Speaker 1: I was orangehs. It's Everything's fine.

1281
00:59:07,800 --> 00:59:12,040
Speaker 4: John was just drinking a glass of orange huice while

1282
00:59:12,080 --> 00:59:12,920
Speaker 4: eating pasta.

1283
00:59:13,000 --> 00:59:13,600
Speaker 1: That's okay.

1284
00:59:13,760 --> 00:59:14,640
Speaker 2: I do know.

1285
00:59:14,840 --> 00:59:18,280
Speaker 3: Joe Juice will plug the sponsor for relevance of the banter.

1286
00:59:18,560 --> 00:59:22,360
Speaker 3: I live about eight minutes away from the Tropicanofact. Oh wow,

1287
00:59:22,480 --> 00:59:25,360
Speaker 3: like the whole fact smells horrible. By the way, it

1288
00:59:25,360 --> 00:59:27,360
Speaker 3: doesn't smell like orange juice because they burned the ride.

1289
00:59:27,600 --> 00:59:30,200
Speaker 1: Oh fun fact for you. That sucks.

1290
00:59:30,280 --> 00:59:32,400
Speaker 3: Anyways, let's get back to the story. He grew up

1291
00:59:32,440 --> 00:59:34,200
Speaker 3: with a boy mom, and it's been taking me the

1292
00:59:34,200 --> 00:59:36,760
Speaker 3: past four years of our relationship to kind of unravel that.

1293
00:59:37,120 --> 00:59:40,200
Speaker 3: We're minimal contact because she berates me for not making

1294
00:59:40,280 --> 00:59:42,840
Speaker 3: him a big lunch and doing his laundry. The relationship

1295
00:59:42,880 --> 00:59:44,880
Speaker 3: is so strange. He's going through therapy right now and

1296
00:59:45,160 --> 00:59:47,880
Speaker 3: we're on minimal contact with her. She constantly pesters me

1297
00:59:48,080 --> 00:59:51,120
Speaker 3: like it's a competition. His father is an irresponsible man,

1298
00:59:51,120 --> 00:59:54,320
Speaker 3: and his therapist explained that his mother might be subconsciously

1299
00:59:54,440 --> 00:59:57,400
Speaker 3: using my husband as a stand in. I wouldn't recommend

1300
00:59:57,440 --> 00:59:59,520
Speaker 3: the situation to anyone, but I really do love my husband,

1301
00:59:59,560 --> 01:00:01,360
Speaker 3: so I'm happy work through this. And it took a

1302
01:00:01,360 --> 01:00:03,480
Speaker 3: bit of talking to him before he confessed that he

1303
01:00:03,480 --> 01:00:05,920
Speaker 3: heard his best friend talk about how they have steak

1304
01:00:06,000 --> 01:00:08,600
Speaker 3: a few times a week, always the friends and.

1305
01:00:08,560 --> 01:00:11,920
Speaker 5: The my friend, we're telling me on to having steak,

1306
01:00:12,080 --> 01:00:15,000
Speaker 5: and I want a steak, then make it, then make

1307
01:00:15,280 --> 01:00:15,960
Speaker 5: then make it.

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Speaker 4: Even Sam could make steak, do you know? That's kind

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Speaker 4: of like all he can do, But he doesn't.

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Speaker 1: He does. He makes steak and then he makes him

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Speaker 1: a peas and corn. But hey, but hey, but hey,

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Speaker 1: he's cooking it. At least he can do that cooking himself.

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Speaker 3: Man, my husband is upset because he would like to

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Speaker 3: eat like that, but knows that we can't afford it

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Speaker 3: right now. He also said that he's stressed from some

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01:00:38,760 --> 01:00:41,320
Speaker 3: house issues that recently happened. We bought a house last

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01:00:41,360 --> 01:00:43,200
Speaker 3: year in the furnace had to be replaced a few

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Speaker 3: months ago, for example. He's been handling all of these

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01:00:45,920 --> 01:00:49,080
Speaker 3: problems and I honestly didn't realize that he's been so stressed.

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Speaker 3: Not that it justifies his actions, of course, and I

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Speaker 3: told him so. And we have another update.

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Speaker 4: Man, let's go in, let's go unless you have thoughts

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Speaker 4: just really quick.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you cannot take out your stress on your partner. No,

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Speaker 3: if you're going through stresses, you're here. Here's a crazy idea.

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01:01:05,840 --> 01:01:08,080
Speaker 3: Maybe you can open up and share and say, hey,

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Speaker 3: I've been really struggling with this. Yeah, and you know,

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01:01:12,400 --> 01:01:14,880
Speaker 3: ask for help, ask for some supressity. You could just

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01:01:14,920 --> 01:01:16,280
Speaker 3: just be like, I just need to.

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Speaker 1: Vent a little bit. I just need a hug.

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Speaker 4: I don't know that's all I want, and maybe we

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01:01:20,560 --> 01:01:23,240
Speaker 4: can rearrange the budget and get a steak one night.

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Speaker 4: Stop yelling at me when I try and get the steak, though.

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Speaker 1: Whoa, Sophia. These are too smart, these ideas are smart.

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01:01:29,200 --> 01:01:29,960
Speaker 1: Are too smart.

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Speaker 3: We need to dumb it down. We need to go

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01:01:31,640 --> 01:01:33,959
Speaker 3: back to make fancy meals. Don't make fancy meals.

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Speaker 1: For get it. Get into this update.

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Speaker 3: One month later, I am still in shock about the

1340
01:01:39,400 --> 01:01:41,520
Speaker 3: way this post blew up. I honestly was just here

1341
01:01:41,520 --> 01:01:42,960
Speaker 3: to prove a point to my husband, and the post

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01:01:43,040 --> 01:01:44,920
Speaker 3: definitely did that, and more so. When I showed him

1343
01:01:44,920 --> 01:01:47,160
Speaker 3: the post, he was shocked angry for a minute, but

1344
01:01:47,200 --> 01:01:49,200
Speaker 3: then he read a few comments and then turned off

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01:01:49,200 --> 01:01:51,200
Speaker 3: his phone and act like it didn't bother him. He

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01:01:51,200 --> 01:01:52,800
Speaker 3: didn't talk to me for the rest of the evening,

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01:01:53,000 --> 01:01:54,680
Speaker 3: and at night I woke up to see him reading

1348
01:01:54,720 --> 01:01:56,680
Speaker 3: the comments again, but just went back to fleet. I

1349
01:01:56,720 --> 01:01:58,960
Speaker 3: didn't mention it in the next morning. He was still

1350
01:01:59,040 --> 01:02:01,320
Speaker 3: really not talking my mind that evening. For dinner, when

1351
01:02:01,360 --> 01:02:03,320
Speaker 3: we sat at the table, he finally brought.

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01:02:03,160 --> 01:02:03,640
Speaker 1: Up the post.

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Speaker 3: He asked me if I agreed with what the comment said.

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Speaker 3: I just shrugged and said that yes, I agreed with

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01:02:07,920 --> 01:02:09,919
Speaker 3: some of them. He was quiet after that, and while

1356
01:02:09,920 --> 01:02:12,520
Speaker 3: we were cleaning up, he apologized for his behavior. Then

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01:02:12,560 --> 01:02:15,200
Speaker 3: a few days later, he asked if we could start

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01:02:15,200 --> 01:02:16,120
Speaker 3: making dinner.

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Speaker 2: Together every night. What are we seeing?

1360
01:02:20,880 --> 01:02:21,640
Speaker 1: Character growth?

1361
01:02:22,040 --> 01:02:22,760
Speaker 2: Character growth?

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01:02:22,960 --> 01:02:25,360
Speaker 1: Same thing. It was a bumpy road to first, but honestly,

1363
01:02:25,480 --> 01:02:26,160
Speaker 1: after a week we.

1364
01:02:26,200 --> 01:02:28,520
Speaker 3: Started enjoying it, and now a few weeks later he's

1365
01:02:28,560 --> 01:02:32,080
Speaker 3: gotten much better and even made a few meals himself.

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Speaker 5: Yay.

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Speaker 3: The reason behind his behavior, he admitted it was because

1368
01:02:36,280 --> 01:02:38,800
Speaker 3: his mother has been trying to contact him lately. It's

1369
01:02:38,840 --> 01:02:41,680
Speaker 3: been stressing him out, and one time when she called him,

1370
01:02:41,760 --> 01:02:44,400
Speaker 3: she started talking trash about me. What else is new

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01:02:44,480 --> 01:02:46,800
Speaker 3: and kept mentioning that I'm not feeding him well enough,

1372
01:02:46,840 --> 01:02:49,440
Speaker 3: that he was much happier when he was eating her food.

1373
01:02:50,120 --> 01:02:53,280
Speaker 3: Tat to your part, Yeah, honestly, I don't even know

1374
01:02:53,440 --> 01:02:55,600
Speaker 3: what she was trying to do. My husband apologized for

1375
01:02:55,640 --> 01:02:57,640
Speaker 3: it instead, that he likes my cooking, but let her

1376
01:02:57,640 --> 01:02:59,640
Speaker 3: words get to him, and he is talking to his

1377
01:02:59,640 --> 01:03:02,880
Speaker 3: therapist about all this. By the way, you can't talk

1378
01:03:02,920 --> 01:03:04,840
Speaker 3: to a therapist. That's an amazing thing to do, but

1379
01:03:05,200 --> 01:03:08,240
Speaker 3: you can't talk to a therapist. Eighteen hours a day,

1380
01:03:08,280 --> 01:03:11,200
Speaker 3: because that's very expensive unless you want to get into

1381
01:03:11,240 --> 01:03:13,560
Speaker 3: a lot of debt. What you could do just supplement

1382
01:03:13,720 --> 01:03:16,760
Speaker 3: your therapy is go to Spotify, Apple or iHeart or

1383
01:03:16,800 --> 01:03:19,960
Speaker 3: wherever you get your podcasts, search Okay, story time and

1384
01:03:20,360 --> 01:03:24,760
Speaker 3: simulate these real life relationship scenarios and gosh darn it,

1385
01:03:24,840 --> 01:03:27,480
Speaker 3: maybe just practice smile in the process.

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01:03:27,920 --> 01:03:30,720
Speaker 2: So true, so true, So do that, or I will

1387
01:03:30,760 --> 01:03:31,840
Speaker 2: be angry.

1388
01:03:31,640 --> 01:03:34,000
Speaker 1: And you don't want to see him When he's angry.

1389
01:03:34,200 --> 01:03:38,040
Speaker 1: I will be furious. So make your boy. But let's

1390
01:03:38,080 --> 01:03:39,720
Speaker 1: get to the end of the story. That's really it.

1391
01:03:39,760 --> 01:03:41,360
Speaker 3: A lot of people ask for the update or for

1392
01:03:41,400 --> 01:03:43,560
Speaker 3: his reaction role, but there wasn't much. He handled it

1393
01:03:43,560 --> 01:03:45,600
Speaker 3: a lot better than I hope. Even started joking about

1394
01:03:45,600 --> 01:03:47,280
Speaker 3: some of the comments a few weeks ago, and it's

1395
01:03:47,280 --> 01:03:49,280
Speaker 3: become somewhat of an inside joke. Thank you Reddit for

1396
01:03:49,280 --> 01:03:49,920
Speaker 3: helping us do this.

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Speaker 1: Haha. Life is good. Hope you all have a good

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01:03:52,320 --> 01:03:56,200
Speaker 1: dinner tonight. Heck yeah. And that's it. Heck yeah. Would

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01:03:56,240 --> 01:03:58,120
Speaker 1: you look at that? Would you look at that?

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01:03:58,200 --> 01:04:01,600
Speaker 3: We take inputs and say maybe there's something I can

1401
01:04:01,720 --> 01:04:05,760
Speaker 3: do to better myself and improve the relationship and do

1402
01:04:05,840 --> 01:04:06,680
Speaker 3: good bye, my partner.

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01:04:06,960 --> 01:04:09,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, whenever you have a partner saying I can't. I

1404
01:04:10,040 --> 01:04:11,840
Speaker 4: just don't know what to cuckoda. I don't know what

1405
01:04:12,360 --> 01:04:15,560
Speaker 4: they can learn. They can learn, and then then it

1406
01:04:15,560 --> 01:04:18,160
Speaker 4: could be a fun little group activity. Yay.

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01:04:18,680 --> 01:04:23,080
Speaker 1: Wow, imagine that. Imagine that a lot of date night. Yeah,

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01:04:23,560 --> 01:04:27,320
Speaker 1: glass of red juice. It's really yeah.

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01:04:27,520 --> 01:04:30,240
Speaker 4: No, I like whenever I have my friends over, whenever

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01:04:30,280 --> 01:04:32,600
Speaker 4: I have my friends over for little dinner nights, I

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01:04:32,680 --> 01:04:33,680
Speaker 4: just put them work, you know.

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01:04:33,880 --> 01:04:36,080
Speaker 1: I'm like, hey, can you cut that? Can you stir that?

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01:04:36,280 --> 01:04:38,240
Speaker 1: I've seen it easy. Yeah, I've witnessed this with my

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01:04:38,240 --> 01:04:39,400
Speaker 1: own nights. It's true.

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Speaker 3: Ladies and gentlemen like a delicious meal that Sophia makes.

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Speaker 1: This is all gone.

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Speaker 4: Because that's the end of the episode. So if you

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01:04:48,160 --> 01:04:49,720
Speaker 4: love us, make sure to subscribe.

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Speaker 2: We love you and see you tomorrow.