1 00:00:12,440 --> 00:00:14,160 Speaker 1: I talked about Kale every couple of months. I just 2 00:00:14,160 --> 00:00:16,279 Speaker 1: want to know has Kale been canceled? We don't see 3 00:00:16,280 --> 00:00:17,880 Speaker 1: it as much, we don't talk about it as much. 4 00:00:17,920 --> 00:00:20,320 Speaker 1: We don't have Kale chips as much. I don't see 5 00:00:20,360 --> 00:00:23,440 Speaker 1: Kale Caesar as much. It's just it's it's low down 6 00:00:23,480 --> 00:00:26,840 Speaker 1: on the menu, like Kale Caesar is the new Caesar, 7 00:00:27,000 --> 00:00:28,760 Speaker 1: like where Caesar is just sort of the loser in 8 00:00:28,800 --> 00:00:30,920 Speaker 1: the corner, when like Mescalin and a Rugala are like 9 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:33,760 Speaker 1: shining bright and a rugal is even like a little canceled. 10 00:00:33,760 --> 00:00:36,519 Speaker 1: There's like other things probably like esk Roll and I 11 00:00:36,520 --> 00:00:39,320 Speaker 1: don't know, but like, is Kale Caesar just is it? 12 00:00:39,400 --> 00:00:41,680 Speaker 1: I mean, has has Kale been canceled? I just want 13 00:00:41,720 --> 00:00:44,200 Speaker 1: someone to tell me and who is is Callie Flower 14 00:00:44,240 --> 00:00:46,600 Speaker 1: the new Kale? I just want to know, let me know. 15 00:00:46,880 --> 00:00:52,960 Speaker 1: I want to speak to Kale's agent. I want to 16 00:00:52,960 --> 00:00:57,480 Speaker 1: talk about who your high school heart throbs were. My 17 00:00:57,640 --> 00:01:00,600 Speaker 1: daughter is so she's obsessed with more of a concept 18 00:01:00,640 --> 00:01:04,160 Speaker 1: and a person. She loves Rudy Panko from Outer Banks 19 00:01:04,160 --> 00:01:05,560 Speaker 1: like she loves him and when that show comes on, 20 00:01:05,680 --> 00:01:08,560 Speaker 1: she'll be into it again. And she loves him she's 21 00:01:08,560 --> 00:01:10,800 Speaker 1: obsessed with him. And that was my Matt Dylan, which 22 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:15,160 Speaker 1: we'll get back into. But Duran Durant as a whole, 23 00:01:15,200 --> 00:01:17,800 Speaker 1: And yes, I did love Simon, I love John Taylor. 24 00:01:17,840 --> 00:01:21,160 Speaker 1: I think it was Taylor, but loved but the whole 25 00:01:21,240 --> 00:01:26,400 Speaker 1: of Duran Duran. Like just I was obsessed, like thought 26 00:01:26,440 --> 00:01:30,039 Speaker 1: about it, just dreamt about it. I just I don't 27 00:01:30,040 --> 00:01:31,640 Speaker 1: I like was obsessed with it, went to all the 28 00:01:31,680 --> 00:01:37,119 Speaker 1: kind Really, my daughter is obsessed with stranger things. What obsessed? 29 00:01:37,160 --> 00:01:39,520 Speaker 1: I took her to the premiere, she met every single person. 30 00:01:39,840 --> 00:01:41,959 Speaker 1: She's such a lovely child. She's such a good girl. 31 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:44,160 Speaker 1: You know, I was wondering, and I want to talk 32 00:01:44,200 --> 00:01:47,600 Speaker 1: about this separately. What spoiled is because is spoiled, acting 33 00:01:47,640 --> 00:01:51,440 Speaker 1: spoiled or spoiled being spoiled? Because my daughter, with experience, 34 00:01:51,640 --> 00:01:54,880 Speaker 1: is definitely spoiled. I bring her to things, I introduced 35 00:01:54,880 --> 00:01:56,880 Speaker 1: her to people. She doesn't really care, but I she's 36 00:01:56,920 --> 00:02:03,400 Speaker 1: had wonderful experiences. She is the most delightful, sweet, amazing 37 00:02:03,480 --> 00:02:05,640 Speaker 1: child you could ever meet. So she doesn't have a 38 00:02:05,680 --> 00:02:08,359 Speaker 1: spoiled bone in her body. The way she acts. She 39 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:10,919 Speaker 1: gets art supplies at school, Mama, they gave us three 40 00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:13,120 Speaker 1: art supplies. I'm so excited of my own. She takes 41 00:02:13,160 --> 00:02:15,880 Speaker 1: care of her things, she's kind, she's a good person. 42 00:02:16,040 --> 00:02:18,960 Speaker 1: So is she spoiled, I don't know. But she gets 43 00:02:18,960 --> 00:02:22,760 Speaker 1: to go to these experiences. So she's gone to uh 44 00:02:22,960 --> 00:02:26,280 Speaker 1: stranger things premieer with me. Uh. And that's the where 45 00:02:26,400 --> 00:02:29,799 Speaker 1: I like being That's where I do like being successful 46 00:02:30,120 --> 00:02:31,600 Speaker 1: because I don't go to things on my own. I 47 00:02:31,639 --> 00:02:34,240 Speaker 1: don't go to red carpet things. I don't care I 48 00:02:34,360 --> 00:02:36,240 Speaker 1: go when I'm going with her. You'll see a pattern. 49 00:02:36,400 --> 00:02:40,040 Speaker 1: I went to the I Heart Media Awards because oh no, 50 00:02:40,120 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 1: I didn't. I went to the Jingle Ball why because 51 00:02:43,200 --> 00:02:45,919 Speaker 1: my daughter could come, and you know, it's good music. 52 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:48,280 Speaker 1: And then we got to meet Olivia Rodrigo and that 53 00:02:48,440 --> 00:02:50,800 Speaker 1: is something brain will enjoy. Ah. We went to the 54 00:02:50,919 --> 00:02:54,200 Speaker 1: MTV Awards. I was getting a Lifetime Achievement Award. Damilia's 55 00:02:54,200 --> 00:02:56,680 Speaker 1: were there. She really wanted to come. Actually, no, she's 56 00:02:56,680 --> 00:02:58,480 Speaker 1: not spoiled, so she didn't want to come. She said 57 00:02:58,760 --> 00:03:00,799 Speaker 1: she was like fine without coming. I then thought that 58 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:02,560 Speaker 1: we'd regret it because it was a lifetime I mean 59 00:03:02,560 --> 00:03:05,519 Speaker 1: not a lifetime it was a Reality Royalty Award, and 60 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 1: I thought I wanted to mention her and it was important, 61 00:03:08,760 --> 00:03:11,079 Speaker 1: so I wanted her to have that experience, which she loved. 62 00:03:11,480 --> 00:03:13,280 Speaker 1: But she got a beautiful dress and expensive and I 63 00:03:13,400 --> 00:03:15,760 Speaker 1: dressed that I bought her. That's spoiled. But she's so 64 00:03:15,840 --> 00:03:18,200 Speaker 1: lovely that she couldn't have cared about coming. She only 65 00:03:18,240 --> 00:03:22,519 Speaker 1: cared about supporting me. Um, But I'm digressing. I just 66 00:03:22,560 --> 00:03:24,480 Speaker 1: wanted to talk about spoiled and we can do that separately. 67 00:03:24,800 --> 00:03:29,280 Speaker 1: But she is obsessed with stranger things, like lives for it, 68 00:03:29,480 --> 00:03:33,200 Speaker 1: and I just know how she feels like she yearns 69 00:03:33,200 --> 00:03:35,320 Speaker 1: for it. She thinks about she wants to talk about it, 70 00:03:35,360 --> 00:03:38,600 Speaker 1: Like what do you mom? Okay, So like, Max, do 71 00:03:38,640 --> 00:03:41,560 Speaker 1: you think that song really helped her? Like we get 72 00:03:41,560 --> 00:03:43,240 Speaker 1: out of the upside down? Do you think do you 73 00:03:43,280 --> 00:03:44,600 Speaker 1: think that was it? I was like, well, I think 74 00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:46,200 Speaker 1: the lyrics in the song. You guys don't have to 75 00:03:46,240 --> 00:03:47,920 Speaker 1: know what I'm talking about, I said, but some of 76 00:03:47,960 --> 00:03:49,600 Speaker 1: you do. I said, I think the lyrics in the 77 00:03:49,640 --> 00:03:52,640 Speaker 1: song motivated her to want to live and get out 78 00:03:52,640 --> 00:03:54,800 Speaker 1: of the upside down. And so she's like, okay, but 79 00:03:54,880 --> 00:03:59,040 Speaker 1: do you think but do you think that like Steve 80 00:03:59,120 --> 00:04:01,840 Speaker 1: is gonna get back together with whoever and like for 81 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:04,520 Speaker 1: her name? Do you think and do you think they're 82 00:04:04,520 --> 00:04:06,080 Speaker 1: gonna get back together? Do you think he likes her? 83 00:04:06,120 --> 00:04:08,840 Speaker 1: But do you think she's a good person? Because I 84 00:04:08,840 --> 00:04:10,600 Speaker 1: don't think he's good. The other guy's smoking pot. I 85 00:04:10,640 --> 00:04:13,600 Speaker 1: don't think I'm like, I think I think he's I 86 00:04:13,600 --> 00:04:15,040 Speaker 1: think he had a rough year. I think he's been 87 00:04:15,080 --> 00:04:17,040 Speaker 1: a dork and it was hard for him and he 88 00:04:17,040 --> 00:04:18,760 Speaker 1: was misunderstood. He was called the murder And I think 89 00:04:18,800 --> 00:04:22,360 Speaker 1: now Steve, now this other person, Eddie, I think they're 90 00:04:22,360 --> 00:04:25,560 Speaker 1: gonna think he's the new you know. And I'm talking 91 00:04:26,240 --> 00:04:29,680 Speaker 1: like we know, like we know these people where I 92 00:04:29,720 --> 00:04:31,359 Speaker 1: live in this because she wants it. I'm in the 93 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:33,279 Speaker 1: upside down. She wants to talk to me for two 94 00:04:33,279 --> 00:04:35,719 Speaker 1: hours like that's we're having a conver I'm like, this 95 00:04:35,760 --> 00:04:38,360 Speaker 1: isn't us speaking, This is not us connecting, like we're 96 00:04:38,360 --> 00:04:42,719 Speaker 1: maybe connecting. I'm talking to you about like fictitious characters 97 00:04:42,760 --> 00:04:46,520 Speaker 1: that we're creative for thirty million dollars in episode, like 98 00:04:46,560 --> 00:04:48,600 Speaker 1: Max isn't real and the upside down isn't real. This 99 00:04:48,760 --> 00:04:50,720 Speaker 1: I'm in the upside down now with you. We're talking 100 00:04:50,760 --> 00:04:53,080 Speaker 1: like these people. But that was Duran durand like I 101 00:04:53,160 --> 00:04:55,320 Speaker 1: lived for them. It just wasn't a world that they 102 00:04:55,320 --> 00:04:56,720 Speaker 1: lived in that I understood. I was gonna be like, 103 00:04:56,760 --> 00:04:58,320 Speaker 1: do you think they're going back to London and gonna 104 00:04:58,320 --> 00:05:00,279 Speaker 1: eat fish and chips? Like I all I do saw 105 00:05:00,320 --> 00:05:02,840 Speaker 1: the concert in the music, these shows like we're living. 106 00:05:02,920 --> 00:05:05,280 Speaker 1: I'm living in the stranger things with her, So she's 107 00:05:05,279 --> 00:05:08,160 Speaker 1: obsessed with it. But the spoiled conversation I think is 108 00:05:08,200 --> 00:05:11,720 Speaker 1: interesting because the reason I indulge my daughter, it's because 109 00:05:11,720 --> 00:05:15,720 Speaker 1: she's not spoiled and I want her to. It's not 110 00:05:15,839 --> 00:05:17,719 Speaker 1: nice things. It's not like I'm out buying her like 111 00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:20,960 Speaker 1: product or crap like that. Like she'll ask me. She 112 00:05:21,080 --> 00:05:23,080 Speaker 1: calls me every day to say, can I get boba? 113 00:05:23,240 --> 00:05:26,840 Speaker 1: It's been two years. Every day, can I get boba? 114 00:05:27,000 --> 00:05:29,560 Speaker 1: And she never doesn't call because a normal person would say, 115 00:05:29,560 --> 00:05:32,320 Speaker 1: like I asked momma yesterday and she said yes. And 116 00:05:32,360 --> 00:05:34,960 Speaker 1: I asked her the last three seventy seven days and 117 00:05:35,000 --> 00:05:36,680 Speaker 1: she said yes, So today she's gonna say yes. But 118 00:05:36,680 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 1: she still asks every day. She's in a mall, she 119 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:41,320 Speaker 1: wants to buy four dollars shorts. She calls me she 120 00:05:41,360 --> 00:05:43,080 Speaker 1: has her ound fifty dollars and she brought them all 121 00:05:43,120 --> 00:05:45,359 Speaker 1: and I give her extra. She calls me she's like 122 00:05:45,480 --> 00:05:48,440 Speaker 1: the best girl. It's so she's so sweet, um, but 123 00:05:48,520 --> 00:05:50,400 Speaker 1: so I indulge her because I want her enjoy her life. 124 00:05:50,400 --> 00:05:52,280 Speaker 1: She's so nice. She gives me so much. I want 125 00:05:52,320 --> 00:05:54,560 Speaker 1: her to enjoy these experiences. It's not about the stuff though, 126 00:05:54,560 --> 00:05:57,680 Speaker 1: It's about the experiences. It's about taking her to Paris, 127 00:05:57,720 --> 00:06:00,040 Speaker 1: taking her if I go to Orlando to work and 128 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:02,400 Speaker 1: it becomes more work for me to then, you know, 129 00:06:02,440 --> 00:06:05,240 Speaker 1: take her to the Lazy River and do those experiences, 130 00:06:05,360 --> 00:06:07,279 Speaker 1: and go to Disney and go on water Slide. I 131 00:06:07,320 --> 00:06:10,400 Speaker 1: just love that. I've always loved that. I've always loved that. 132 00:06:10,600 --> 00:06:13,600 Speaker 1: So it's just where I don't. But I never had 133 00:06:13,640 --> 00:06:15,599 Speaker 1: her watch a lot. I never had her watch TV. 134 00:06:15,720 --> 00:06:18,560 Speaker 1: She's not a device kid. I never like just fed 135 00:06:18,600 --> 00:06:20,240 Speaker 1: her a bunch of junk food to make her like 136 00:06:20,279 --> 00:06:22,960 Speaker 1: shut up, or just gave her TV as a babysitter. 137 00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:25,920 Speaker 1: I've put in time. But she definitely is spoiled and 138 00:06:26,000 --> 00:06:30,120 Speaker 1: experiences not in um material goods. I mean she has 139 00:06:30,160 --> 00:06:31,760 Speaker 1: some nice things, don't get me wrong, but not in 140 00:06:31,800 --> 00:06:35,839 Speaker 1: that way. And she's lovely. And it's funny because Um, 141 00:06:35,920 --> 00:06:38,760 Speaker 1: I sent her this Stranger Things experience, and she's coming 142 00:06:38,760 --> 00:06:40,640 Speaker 1: down to Florida with me to film show. Not for 143 00:06:40,640 --> 00:06:42,560 Speaker 1: the whole time, for a couple of days. Two of 144 00:06:42,600 --> 00:06:45,280 Speaker 1: the days or free days, um, but some of them 145 00:06:45,279 --> 00:06:46,760 Speaker 1: are work days. And of course we're gonna be on 146 00:06:46,800 --> 00:06:48,800 Speaker 1: a beach and there's a pool. And I don't I've 147 00:06:48,800 --> 00:06:50,480 Speaker 1: never had a nanny, So my assistant is gonna come 148 00:06:50,520 --> 00:06:51,800 Speaker 1: and do fun things with her for some of the 149 00:06:51,839 --> 00:06:54,400 Speaker 1: time as well. I because when I'm off, I'll be 150 00:06:54,480 --> 00:06:57,640 Speaker 1: going with her to do kid activities, so I don't 151 00:06:57,680 --> 00:06:59,480 Speaker 1: get any free time. You know, That's just the way 152 00:06:59,520 --> 00:07:02,640 Speaker 1: it is. But I said to her, you're doing this experience, 153 00:07:03,000 --> 00:07:06,159 Speaker 1: and I expect perfection. Womer in Florida, not an ask, 154 00:07:06,560 --> 00:07:10,040 Speaker 1: not a complain, not a sigh. If you are sitting 155 00:07:10,120 --> 00:07:12,960 Speaker 1: in TV and it's snowing in Florida, you'll be happy 156 00:07:13,040 --> 00:07:15,360 Speaker 1: because you did this experience. And now it's Mommy's sign 157 00:07:15,480 --> 00:07:17,360 Speaker 1: going down for a work trip. You're coming with me. 158 00:07:17,600 --> 00:07:20,000 Speaker 1: There's a pool, you have everything you could do, you 159 00:07:20,040 --> 00:07:22,120 Speaker 1: know you want. You could go to see the alligators 160 00:07:22,120 --> 00:07:24,200 Speaker 1: and do but you know, kids, they'll take a mile. 161 00:07:24,840 --> 00:07:27,400 Speaker 1: I said, and I wanted him writing A texted her, 162 00:07:27,480 --> 00:07:29,600 Speaker 1: it's just twelve. I said, I want, this is a contract. 163 00:07:30,160 --> 00:07:31,920 Speaker 1: We're going down to Florida'm shooting a show, and I 164 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:34,920 Speaker 1: just want you're gonna agree. That will be zero zero asking, 165 00:07:35,040 --> 00:07:37,960 Speaker 1: zero complaining. You will be Here's what I expect perfect 166 00:07:38,480 --> 00:07:40,640 Speaker 1: because it's a long story and this experience she's going 167 00:07:40,680 --> 00:07:42,480 Speaker 1: to and how it almost didn't happen and Mommy saved 168 00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:44,200 Speaker 1: the day and you know it took a minute, and 169 00:07:44,240 --> 00:07:47,080 Speaker 1: I called up my people at Stranger Things and you 170 00:07:47,120 --> 00:07:49,480 Speaker 1: know all of it. But I was like, so, I 171 00:07:49,600 --> 00:07:52,360 Speaker 1: I think this is gonna be a new tactic. Get 172 00:07:52,360 --> 00:07:54,960 Speaker 1: it in writing. You could show them that they saw 173 00:07:55,120 --> 00:07:57,280 Speaker 1: saying you said it. They forget we did that. I 174 00:07:57,360 --> 00:07:59,280 Speaker 1: just did that for you. They forget. They're like they 175 00:07:59,280 --> 00:08:03,440 Speaker 1: have who has short memories fucking like penguins or nats, 176 00:08:03,520 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 1: I don't know whoever a short memories. They don't remember 177 00:08:05,920 --> 00:08:07,960 Speaker 1: you said it, you bought something for them. Two minutes later, 178 00:08:08,000 --> 00:08:09,600 Speaker 1: they're gonna be onto something else. And you know how 179 00:08:09,640 --> 00:08:12,200 Speaker 1: it is, it's like feeling a void. If I write 180 00:08:12,200 --> 00:08:14,880 Speaker 1: to her, I expect perfection because this thing is happening 181 00:08:14,960 --> 00:08:16,520 Speaker 1: right now. Then I'm gonna show it back to her. 182 00:08:16,520 --> 00:08:18,800 Speaker 1: I'm writing like stupid things, like I need her to pack. 183 00:08:19,240 --> 00:08:22,520 Speaker 1: She likes to pack herself, and she procrastinates, and I 184 00:08:22,600 --> 00:08:25,000 Speaker 1: need her to pack now for Miami because I'm not 185 00:08:25,040 --> 00:08:28,120 Speaker 1: going to see her in between. She doesn't understand calendar. 186 00:08:28,200 --> 00:08:30,160 Speaker 1: She's a little kid. She has to understand that, Like 187 00:08:30,520 --> 00:08:33,880 Speaker 1: she's not gonna be with me at my house near 188 00:08:33,920 --> 00:08:37,080 Speaker 1: her stuff to pack in time. Who cares, that's weeds, 189 00:08:37,120 --> 00:08:39,160 Speaker 1: you don't care. I'm just saying she has to pack tonight, 190 00:08:39,200 --> 00:08:41,360 Speaker 1: but she's not gonna be down in Florida for a week, 191 00:08:41,440 --> 00:08:43,400 Speaker 1: so she doesn't understand that's has to pack now for 192 00:08:43,440 --> 00:08:46,760 Speaker 1: the summer in the Hampton's. She doesn't understand that. You 193 00:08:46,800 --> 00:08:48,640 Speaker 1: know why she's gonna understand it because I got a 194 00:08:48,720 --> 00:08:51,160 Speaker 1: name writing, because I got it him writing. I'm gonna 195 00:08:51,160 --> 00:08:52,560 Speaker 1: see her, like you're gonna you know what you're I'm 196 00:08:52,559 --> 00:08:54,320 Speaker 1: not gonna fucking because I don't curse my kid, but 197 00:08:54,400 --> 00:08:56,920 Speaker 1: I'm thinking to myself, I'm telling you guys, you're gonna pack, 198 00:08:57,360 --> 00:09:00,320 Speaker 1: and here's here are the receipts where we agreed and 199 00:09:00,400 --> 00:09:02,800 Speaker 1: it's binding, and I'll take it to kid's court. I 200 00:09:02,840 --> 00:09:04,800 Speaker 1: don't know where that is I'll start it myself. I'll 201 00:09:04,800 --> 00:09:07,280 Speaker 1: do it as a show, but that's legally binding. You're 202 00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:09,680 Speaker 1: gonna pack tonight, not tomorrow, not later. I have it, 203 00:09:09,679 --> 00:09:11,920 Speaker 1: I'm writing, I'll print it out. I'll make her sign 204 00:09:11,960 --> 00:09:14,480 Speaker 1: it tonight too. I'll get a goddamn notary to my house, 205 00:09:14,960 --> 00:09:17,280 Speaker 1: like you said you were gonna pack tonight. I have 206 00:09:17,320 --> 00:09:19,960 Speaker 1: a notary Republic, and they'll come here with handcuffs and 207 00:09:20,080 --> 00:09:23,760 Speaker 1: arrest you. It was notarized. You said it. You cannot 208 00:09:23,760 --> 00:09:26,600 Speaker 1: reach this contract and you're going to be good and 209 00:09:26,679 --> 00:09:29,200 Speaker 1: perfect in Florida. And you know why, because I got it. 210 00:09:29,200 --> 00:09:44,520 Speaker 1: I'm writing, when does card again Age start? Start? When 211 00:09:44,520 --> 00:09:47,199 Speaker 1: does card again Age start? So? I am Cardi b 212 00:09:47,520 --> 00:09:50,600 Speaker 1: I'm Cardi Bethany, Like I never leave the house without 213 00:09:50,600 --> 00:09:52,480 Speaker 1: a card again. I am never on a vacation, on 214 00:09:52,520 --> 00:09:55,440 Speaker 1: a plane, in a car. These people that will just 215 00:09:55,520 --> 00:09:57,400 Speaker 1: walk out in summer in a sun dress and like 216 00:09:57,520 --> 00:09:59,840 Speaker 1: that's it, Like what do you mean that's it? Like 217 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:02,480 Speaker 1: that's your whole thing, Like it's just what you're doing. 218 00:10:03,120 --> 00:10:05,880 Speaker 1: So I just want to know if that means I'm old. 219 00:10:05,960 --> 00:10:09,360 Speaker 1: I've been doing this game for at least fifteen years now, Um, 220 00:10:09,400 --> 00:10:12,480 Speaker 1: because when you're younger. It's like twin Setti card Agains 221 00:10:12,480 --> 00:10:14,439 Speaker 1: when I was younger. I just want to know when 222 00:10:14,480 --> 00:10:16,719 Speaker 1: it starts, because I'm telling I am that woman who 223 00:10:16,720 --> 00:10:18,200 Speaker 1: will not go anywhere with that a card again, just 224 00:10:18,240 --> 00:10:21,760 Speaker 1: a fact. So that means, let's just say I'm Cardi 225 00:10:21,800 --> 00:10:30,439 Speaker 1: B because it's better than saying, how many days can 226 00:10:30,520 --> 00:10:33,960 Speaker 1: you spend with another human being like you're on a 227 00:10:34,040 --> 00:10:37,480 Speaker 1: romantic occasion, how many days? Like I am not that 228 00:10:37,559 --> 00:10:40,480 Speaker 1: person that wants to spend fourteen days with any other 229 00:10:40,600 --> 00:10:44,120 Speaker 1: human being, including my daughter, and I am she is 230 00:10:44,160 --> 00:10:48,280 Speaker 1: my codependent soul sister, ride or die. I don't want 231 00:10:48,280 --> 00:10:52,120 Speaker 1: to be with another human being longer than six days. 232 00:10:52,240 --> 00:10:54,880 Speaker 1: I really six nights. I really don't. I need a break. 233 00:10:54,920 --> 00:10:58,040 Speaker 1: I need choice time. I need choice time. Choice time 234 00:10:58,080 --> 00:10:59,920 Speaker 1: within that vacation still doesn't count because I have a 235 00:11:00,000 --> 00:11:02,960 Speaker 1: ready started to despise the person. So choice time just 236 00:11:03,000 --> 00:11:04,440 Speaker 1: means that I have to get back to the person. 237 00:11:04,720 --> 00:11:07,160 Speaker 1: It doesn't matter who it is, leave me the fuck 238 00:11:07,280 --> 00:11:10,000 Speaker 1: alone after a certain number of days. Okay, we can 239 00:11:10,040 --> 00:11:12,640 Speaker 1: do this. We can pretend we peeked. We peaked. It's 240 00:11:12,679 --> 00:11:15,960 Speaker 1: like being at a club at four o'clock in the morning. 241 00:11:16,280 --> 00:11:19,720 Speaker 1: Now I look seventy five years old. Now them scares 242 00:11:19,720 --> 00:11:22,640 Speaker 1: down my face. Now my breath is not what it 243 00:11:22,760 --> 00:11:25,400 Speaker 1: was five hours ago. The perfume has worn off, the 244 00:11:25,520 --> 00:11:27,600 Speaker 1: music is shitty now, and I'll tech now and they're 245 00:11:27,600 --> 00:11:30,840 Speaker 1: digging to the bottom of the goddamn fucking playlist barrel 246 00:11:31,160 --> 00:11:33,720 Speaker 1: to figure out what to play for like music to 247 00:11:33,960 --> 00:11:36,200 Speaker 1: find out who to fuck buy at the end of 248 00:11:36,200 --> 00:11:38,800 Speaker 1: the night, and like it's just all wrong. You could 249 00:11:38,880 --> 00:11:43,640 Speaker 1: leave leave at Boston, does it right closing times, like 250 00:11:44,080 --> 00:11:47,439 Speaker 1: before two o'clock liquor license is done. It's enough when 251 00:11:47,480 --> 00:11:50,559 Speaker 1: you're my age, eleven thirty midnight. Okay, we don't need 252 00:11:50,559 --> 00:11:52,320 Speaker 1: to beat it to death. We don't need to do 253 00:11:52,360 --> 00:11:54,920 Speaker 1: that with other individuals that you're away with either. I 254 00:11:54,960 --> 00:11:57,400 Speaker 1: don't need roommates to be with for all the time. 255 00:11:57,640 --> 00:11:59,360 Speaker 1: And when I was younger it was a little different. 256 00:11:59,360 --> 00:12:02,320 Speaker 1: I could go longer. Now at this age and this stage, 257 00:12:02,600 --> 00:12:04,680 Speaker 1: I do not need to be with another fucking human 258 00:12:04,679 --> 00:12:06,760 Speaker 1: being more than six nights. And by the way, that's 259 00:12:06,800 --> 00:12:10,360 Speaker 1: being generous. Okay, Like Paul, yes, because I love him 260 00:12:10,400 --> 00:12:12,080 Speaker 1: and we have a good dynamic and it gets great. 261 00:12:12,120 --> 00:12:14,400 Speaker 1: But trust me, we're on that plane coming home when 262 00:12:14,440 --> 00:12:17,439 Speaker 1: the wheels come off. I've heard about addicts when they're 263 00:12:17,440 --> 00:12:20,280 Speaker 1: about to get to their fix, they start to get 264 00:12:20,280 --> 00:12:21,920 Speaker 1: all like cheery and they're about to get you know 265 00:12:21,920 --> 00:12:23,640 Speaker 1: what I mean, Like I want to be I'm a 266 00:12:23,679 --> 00:12:27,320 Speaker 1: loner at heart. I will start to look at somebody 267 00:12:27,320 --> 00:12:30,080 Speaker 1: like I don't even know them and I've never met 268 00:12:30,120 --> 00:12:32,400 Speaker 1: them in my life, and that why are they even 269 00:12:32,400 --> 00:12:34,720 Speaker 1: in my personal space after a certain amount of time, 270 00:12:35,160 --> 00:12:38,880 Speaker 1: like it will be and it's by the way, and 271 00:12:38,920 --> 00:12:40,600 Speaker 1: once I get to a place, I have to defrost 272 00:12:40,640 --> 00:12:43,000 Speaker 1: in the beginning to I'll get to a place and 273 00:12:43,080 --> 00:12:48,480 Speaker 1: probably like I know you want to leave, I'll be like, no, 274 00:12:48,679 --> 00:12:50,200 Speaker 1: I love you, but I have to defrast. Like I 275 00:12:50,240 --> 00:12:53,280 Speaker 1: have to defrast another thing. When I take a nap. 276 00:12:54,200 --> 00:12:57,280 Speaker 1: If I take a daytime nap, I am such a 277 00:12:57,320 --> 00:13:00,040 Speaker 1: cranky afterwards. There's no way to describe it. It is 278 00:13:00,120 --> 00:13:02,800 Speaker 1: like I don't really sleep, so if I do, there's 279 00:13:02,800 --> 00:13:05,319 Speaker 1: such a situation that gets worked out through that nap, 280 00:13:05,360 --> 00:13:08,400 Speaker 1: Like it's like I'm working on my problems, my toxins, 281 00:13:08,440 --> 00:13:11,559 Speaker 1: the alcohol from a trip, everything that's gone on all 282 00:13:11,600 --> 00:13:14,240 Speaker 1: my working before the trip. Everything. I wake up and 283 00:13:14,600 --> 00:13:16,160 Speaker 1: I said to Paul in the car on the way 284 00:13:16,160 --> 00:13:17,880 Speaker 1: back into the city yesterday because we just got back 285 00:13:17,880 --> 00:13:20,680 Speaker 1: from being on a trip. I said to him, you know, 286 00:13:21,000 --> 00:13:25,160 Speaker 1: I'm like really cranky when I wake up from uh 287 00:13:25,880 --> 00:13:28,480 Speaker 1: a nap, And he said yeah, also when you wake 288 00:13:28,559 --> 00:13:30,360 Speaker 1: up in the morning, I'm like right, and he's like, 289 00:13:30,600 --> 00:13:34,319 Speaker 1: and also if you haven't sleep that night, like right. 290 00:13:35,040 --> 00:13:37,480 Speaker 1: So it's not that easy, but yes, after a certain 291 00:13:37,480 --> 00:13:41,520 Speaker 1: period of time, but I'll have a best friend, and 292 00:13:41,640 --> 00:13:43,800 Speaker 1: you know I want to I don't want to see 293 00:13:43,800 --> 00:13:45,719 Speaker 1: your fucking face again after a couple of days on 294 00:13:45,760 --> 00:13:49,120 Speaker 1: a vacation. Everything they do, forget it. Paul points it 295 00:13:49,160 --> 00:13:50,719 Speaker 1: out that I should never share a room with a 296 00:13:50,760 --> 00:13:53,480 Speaker 1: girlfriend because that's where the annoying really happens. To sleep, 297 00:13:53,559 --> 00:13:56,840 Speaker 1: the wake, the chewing, snacking, the fucking pajamas get away 298 00:13:56,880 --> 00:13:57,079 Speaker 1: from me.