1 00:00:01,400 --> 00:00:09,840 Speaker 1: The Jewels Show on demand Jebils dirty little Secret signed 2 00:00:09,840 --> 00:00:11,840 Speaker 1: for your dirty little Secret. And remember we never asked 3 00:00:11,840 --> 00:00:13,520 Speaker 1: what your name is when you want to call us 4 00:00:13,560 --> 00:00:16,000 Speaker 1: with a dirty little secret. So on the phone right now, 5 00:00:16,480 --> 00:00:18,639 Speaker 1: there's someone with a dirty little secret. What's up? What 6 00:00:18,760 --> 00:00:22,040 Speaker 1: is your dirty little secret? Hi? So, um my boyfriend, 7 00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:26,200 Speaker 1: um who I've been dating now for like eight months. 8 00:00:27,040 --> 00:00:30,680 Speaker 1: Um My mom keeps asking me like, oh, Bringham home, 9 00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:33,160 Speaker 1: bringam home? Like I want to know more about him 10 00:00:33,200 --> 00:00:36,040 Speaker 1: and like maybe get to know his family a little bit, 11 00:00:36,880 --> 00:00:41,360 Speaker 1: but I keep avoiding it because, uh, you know, like 12 00:00:41,400 --> 00:00:43,720 Speaker 1: we're it's a small town where I live in and 13 00:00:43,880 --> 00:00:49,199 Speaker 1: everybody knows everything, and his dad is all over the 14 00:00:49,320 --> 00:00:54,880 Speaker 1: news for um uh it's sad like, uh he led 15 00:00:55,240 --> 00:01:00,440 Speaker 1: the racketeering and surprise, so his dad's a ringleader. Oh wow. 16 00:01:00,640 --> 00:01:03,760 Speaker 1: And I just don't know what to do because I'm like, 17 00:01:03,800 --> 00:01:08,000 Speaker 1: I'm with him and were making for glants together, and 18 00:01:08,040 --> 00:01:10,800 Speaker 1: I like, how do I hide him from my mom? 19 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:12,840 Speaker 1: Like how do I bring that up to mom? Like, Hey, 20 00:01:12,959 --> 00:01:15,680 Speaker 1: my boyfriend, his dad is a real leader. Well at 21 00:01:15,760 --> 00:01:18,679 Speaker 1: least it's his dad and not him. That's actually a 22 00:01:18,720 --> 00:01:20,560 Speaker 1: really good point. Yeah, if you look at it in 23 00:01:20,560 --> 00:01:22,280 Speaker 1: a positive way. That's probably the way you could tell 24 00:01:22,319 --> 00:01:25,520 Speaker 1: him like, hey, I could have dated his dad but 25 00:01:25,560 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 1: instead of with him, Like that's kind of still good. Right. 26 00:01:28,840 --> 00:01:31,560 Speaker 1: Does your boyfriend know that you're avoiding having him meet 27 00:01:31,600 --> 00:01:35,720 Speaker 1: your parents? Oh? I mean he does, and he understands 28 00:01:36,360 --> 00:01:38,720 Speaker 1: because I mean it's like obviously you know, like he 29 00:01:38,800 --> 00:01:41,760 Speaker 1: obviously knows why, but so does your is your mom 30 00:01:41,760 --> 00:01:43,880 Speaker 1: like why why why am I not meeting your boyfriend? 31 00:01:45,880 --> 00:01:48,600 Speaker 1: Are you embarrassed in her family? And I'm like, oh, 32 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:52,520 Speaker 1: things to do? Was like our family, Like it's so sad. 33 00:01:52,840 --> 00:01:54,920 Speaker 1: One day you're just gonna like overflow and be like, no, 34 00:01:55,000 --> 00:01:58,800 Speaker 1: it's because his dad's a criminal exactly. And so I 35 00:01:58,840 --> 00:02:01,160 Speaker 1: grew up in a small town. Actually both my grandfathers 36 00:02:01,160 --> 00:02:03,480 Speaker 1: died before I was born, but my dad's dad was 37 00:02:03,520 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 1: like the American gangster of the town. I guess it's 38 00:02:05,960 --> 00:02:08,320 Speaker 1: so cool. He was telling me about it, like my 39 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:11,560 Speaker 1: grandpa would pay off the cops and like, you know, 40 00:02:11,560 --> 00:02:13,000 Speaker 1: sold a lot of drugs. And I'm like that is 41 00:02:13,040 --> 00:02:17,160 Speaker 1: so weird, like kind of cool. Yeah, dude, when Alex 42 00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:18,520 Speaker 1: and are married, if he didn't know that, and when 43 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:20,760 Speaker 1: I first found that out, I was super excited, but 44 00:02:20,840 --> 00:02:22,840 Speaker 1: I was like, whoa, is this the family business that 45 00:02:22,880 --> 00:02:26,800 Speaker 1: I'm getting into? Let's do this. And also Alex's dad 46 00:02:26,960 --> 00:02:28,680 Speaker 1: is a used car salesman, so I'm like, dude, this 47 00:02:28,760 --> 00:02:31,520 Speaker 1: is dope. These guys are swindlers and I love it. 48 00:02:32,200 --> 00:02:34,760 Speaker 1: Do you guys know what ether means? That's what they 49 00:02:34,800 --> 00:02:36,919 Speaker 1: would call what they used to do is putting people 50 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:39,560 Speaker 1: under ether as a figure speech. It's basically just like 51 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:41,560 Speaker 1: a way to move your body and you essentially put 52 00:02:41,560 --> 00:02:43,760 Speaker 1: them in a trance and then they make decisions like 53 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:45,720 Speaker 1: how you want. So he was a night guy and 54 00:02:45,880 --> 00:02:48,000 Speaker 1: he would want people to baxt into warranties and then 55 00:02:48,040 --> 00:02:49,600 Speaker 1: they would buy. He was like one of the best 56 00:02:49,600 --> 00:02:52,760 Speaker 1: ones ever apparently, and like the way he explained it 57 00:02:52,800 --> 00:02:56,760 Speaker 1: would be, he would be lowering his body like further 58 00:02:56,919 --> 00:03:00,160 Speaker 1: down below his desk and like they would too, as 59 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 1: at the same time, they didn't know what they were doing. 60 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:04,320 Speaker 1: They didn't know this was going on because they were hypnotized. 61 00:03:04,400 --> 00:03:06,639 Speaker 1: And when my dad told this, I was mind blown. 62 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:12,720 Speaker 1: That's crazy. My dad's a badass. Though. Your boyfriend's not 63 00:03:12,800 --> 00:03:14,799 Speaker 1: caught up in that life though, is he? No, No, 64 00:03:14,919 --> 00:03:17,600 Speaker 1: he's not caught up in that but well then it 65 00:03:17,639 --> 00:03:19,560 Speaker 1: should be fine because if he's got you know, no 66 00:03:19,720 --> 00:03:22,360 Speaker 1: sort of not a foot in that game, your mom 67 00:03:22,440 --> 00:03:25,120 Speaker 1: might be understanding you know it's not him. Yeah that's terrible, 68 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:28,160 Speaker 1: but like you know how parents like they'll be like, 69 00:03:28,560 --> 00:03:32,760 Speaker 1: oh um, if they're in vledge, if if they are 70 00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:35,680 Speaker 1: associated with that, then like that just like puts the 71 00:03:35,920 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 1: bad reputation on them, which totally put bad on you. 72 00:03:40,120 --> 00:03:43,600 Speaker 1: So you know, because like if it's his dad, odds 73 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:47,480 Speaker 1: are you know, sons all after their dad's footsteps or 74 00:03:47,680 --> 00:03:49,240 Speaker 1: might have it in his jeans or something, but I 75 00:03:49,320 --> 00:03:51,720 Speaker 1: have you know or might not? What crime does he 76 00:03:51,760 --> 00:04:00,400 Speaker 1: exactly do? Um? He money laundering and um like gambling okay, 77 00:04:01,400 --> 00:04:04,720 Speaker 1: and like you like he used to uh also like 78 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:07,920 Speaker 1: deal with drugs at asks or like the mom passed away, 79 00:04:08,040 --> 00:04:10,520 Speaker 1: like I stopped, like you stopped dealing with drugs and 80 00:04:10,560 --> 00:04:13,120 Speaker 1: all that that they still like do with money on 81 00:04:13,280 --> 00:04:15,680 Speaker 1: training and well, I mean in terms of criminals, he 82 00:04:15,720 --> 00:04:19,200 Speaker 1: doesn't sound that bad. Yeah, I mean, once you get 83 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:21,760 Speaker 1: like a smell of that kind of money, you're like, um, 84 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:24,280 Speaker 1: I can't stop now, Yeah, I can't go back to 85 00:04:24,360 --> 00:04:27,800 Speaker 1: McDonald's anymore. All right, Well, thanks so much for telling 86 00:04:27,839 --> 00:04:30,120 Speaker 1: us your dirty little secret. Thank you so much nice. 87 00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:31,800 Speaker 1: The Jebel Show on demand,