Speaker 1: Second date. One of our listeners, Jewels, emailed us for
Speaker 1: a second date update, and she's worried that after it
Speaker 1: was all said and done, she may have come across
Speaker 1: looking a little high maintenance. That's all right, we'll find
Speaker 1: out the details about that in just a minute. But first, Jewels,
Speaker 1: welcome to the show. Hi. I love you guys, so
Speaker 1: very happy and yet not happy to be here. Well,
Speaker 1: let's do a little quick high maintenance test just to
Speaker 1: start things off. Okay, tell me, have you ever posted
Speaker 1: a status update or a meme that says if you
Speaker 1: can't handle me at my worst, then you don't deserve
Speaker 1: me at my best. I have not posted one of those. Good.
Speaker 1: Have you ever sent a coffee back because your name
Speaker 1: was misspelled on the cup? I've never sent it back
Speaker 1: because of that, but I've definitely made a point to
Speaker 1: say something. Okay, well, we're on the line there, but
Speaker 1: let's find out if you were high maintenance on the date. First.
Speaker 1: What's the name of the guy Eric, Eric? And how
Speaker 1: did you meet Eric? This is a blind day. We
Speaker 1: met from friends. I literally showed up. I had no
Speaker 1: idea what you looked like. Oh my god, that you
Speaker 1: didn't stock him at all. You didn't look up any
Speaker 1: of his socials before you, guys met Well, I couldn't
Speaker 1: because my friends. I love my girlfriends. But like, they
Speaker 1: did not do me a solid here. They met him
Speaker 1: out when I wasn't with them, and they all have boyfriends,
Speaker 1: so they saw that like we would hit it off.
Speaker 1: So they just gave him my number, but didn't ask
Speaker 1: for his full name or his Insta or anything. Oh
Speaker 1: my god, that's kind of like if you want to
Speaker 1: keep doing a true blind day, would you want to
Speaker 1: do it? So how did things go when you actually
Speaker 1: met up with Eric? It's hard to say. So. First
Speaker 1: he invited me to go to this bar that I'd
Speaker 1: never been to, I've never even heard of. When I
Speaker 1: got there, it was like an underground bar, like I
Speaker 1: had to go down steps and there were no windows
Speaker 1: and stuff. Yeah cool, unless you have to get away
Speaker 1: fast from a blind days with a stranger like he
Speaker 1: could have been a murderer. So what was he like? Well,
Speaker 1: it took me a while to find him because there
Speaker 1: were a lot of people there, so I text him,
Speaker 1: I said, hey, where are you? I'm here when I
Speaker 1: got there, and he said, come find me. I'm the
Speaker 1: most attractive guy here. Oh, come on, that's just trying
Speaker 1: to be flirty. I mean it is adding yourself up
Speaker 1: for a failure if she goes to someone else. Yes,
Speaker 1: exactly did you find him? Off of that? Did you
Speaker 1: find him right away? No? I went up to like
Speaker 1: the best looking guy that I thought was there, and
Speaker 1: I asked him, like, hey, are you Eric? And he said,
Speaker 1: I can be tonight. That guy's got game. Yeah. Okay,
Speaker 1: did you ever find Eric? Yeah? So I was about
Speaker 1: to leave, and then I was like, you know what,
Speaker 1: I'm just I'll call him, Like this is ridiculus. So
Speaker 1: I called him and I hear a phone ring and
Speaker 1: I turned and there he is And I found him,
Speaker 1: and sure, maybe he was trying to be flirty like
Speaker 1: you guys said, but like he was not the most
Speaker 1: attractive guy there, Like he was like top four or five, okay,
Speaker 1: not even top three. Yeah did you tell him that? No?
Speaker 1: Oh my god? No, Okay, So what you're were you
Speaker 1: able to actually get a good conversation going once you
Speaker 1: found him? Yeah? I mean we had a really good
Speaker 1: time in all. Honestly, at a certain point, like I
Speaker 1: couldn't see him really, it was really dark. I just
Speaker 1: like got the courage to ask to go somewhere else,
Speaker 1: So we leave. Take me to this outdoor beer garden
Speaker 1: that's pretty close as walking distance. Okay, super fun. But
Speaker 1: I dressed up for a bar, so I was free
Speaker 1: thing and I stuck it out for a little bit
Speaker 1: because I really didn't want to see high venants. But like,
Speaker 1: after like fifteen minutes, I was like, I have to
Speaker 1: go somewhere else. Shall I asked to go somewhere warmer.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I don't. But that's not high maintenance.
Speaker 1: I mean, like I shouldn't have gone there in the
Speaker 1: first place. Why. I mean, as a guy, if a
Speaker 1: girl's like this bar's too dark, this bar's too cold,
Speaker 1: This bar makes me feel funny when I walked through
Speaker 1: the doors, like I want to it is a lot yea.
Speaker 1: And then get more money and take me to a
Speaker 1: private bar. Exactly. This bar is too poor. I think
Speaker 1: that he should have an understanding of that, Like you're
Speaker 1: freezing your butt off, you can't have a good time.
Speaker 1: What did he say? So he invited me back to
Speaker 1: his place. Oh yeah, that's a good opportunity for him.
Speaker 1: I didn't want to do that. It was a first day,
Speaker 1: you know, like another option that's not good enough for her.
Speaker 1: It's a first day five star hotel. I would have
Speaker 1: been okay with that until you got there. I mean,
Speaker 1: you may be high maintenance in other ways, but bar location,
Speaker 1: chag doesn't sound high maintenance to me. So did you
Speaker 1: guys ever end up at another place? So then we
Speaker 1: walked to a nightclub, but it's too loud, and then
Speaker 1: you go into like a b stro and it's too expensive.
Speaker 1: You know, I don't want him to like do that
Speaker 1: on the first date. So finally we just go to
Speaker 1: a normal bar. But I'm wearing like the same exact
Speaker 1: outfit as the waitresses. Yeah, did you leave or did
Speaker 1: you ask the waitress to go change outfits? No? I
Speaker 1: did not. We we stayed. And did you joke about it?
Speaker 1: Did you laugh? Yeah? I mean I brought it up.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, do you think I
Speaker 1: should get a job here if it doesn't work out
Speaker 1: in my office? That's funny. I mean it sounds like
Speaker 1: you're starting to recover after you know, a bar crawl
Speaker 1: without any of the fun. So how did the night end?
Speaker 1: We hugged, no kiss, and honestly, I liked him and
Speaker 1: I do kind of agree that. I feel like he
Speaker 1: might think I'm high maintenance, but it was really all
Speaker 1: just circumstantial. And that's what I want to make clear.
Speaker 1: Do your friends call you high maintenance? They don't. I'm
Speaker 1: really not a high maintenance person. Like I maybe sound
Speaker 1: high maintenance, but like you see now Brooks suddenly flopping.
Speaker 1: She's like, actually, now, the more I hear you talk,
Speaker 1: you do sound a little bit him. If it looks
Speaker 1: like chicken, it tastes like chicken, it's rebably chicken. I
Speaker 1: don't know. It's not bad friends, Okay, maintence if you
Speaker 1: just own it. At least she's aware. Juels, we're gonna
Speaker 1: play a song, all right. I don't know is this
Speaker 1: song okay to play for you or would you like
Speaker 1: a different song. Either way, we're gonna come back and
Speaker 1: we'll call Eric for you. We'll try and get your
Speaker 1: second date update, all right, Jules, Oh thank you. You
Speaker 1: guys are like making me so nervous though, no, no,
Speaker 1: I don't want to make you nervous. Okay, hold on, Okay,
Speaker 1: we'll be right back. If you're just tuning in for
Speaker 1: the second date update. We're on the phone with Jules,
Speaker 1: who's worried she may have come across looking little high
Speaker 1: maintenance because she asked to move locations about six times
Speaker 1: throughout the night, and no matter where they went, she
Speaker 1: always found something wrong about each place. It's like the
Speaker 1: Goldilocks of bars. Yeah, you know, whether it was the
Speaker 1: temperature or the lighting or the outfit of the weight staff,
Speaker 1: no place was good enough for Jewels. It's interesting, though,
Speaker 1: as picky as she was about the bar, she was
Speaker 1: surprisingly low maintenance about the actual guy, because she told
Speaker 1: us he was only the fourth best looking man at
Speaker 1: the bar. And I would imagine a truly high maintenance
Speaker 1: woman would only be willing to date number one or
Speaker 1: number two. So, Jewels, you're actually looking pretty chill right now. Us. Yeah, well,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think that brings her back up
Speaker 1: to high maintenance. Yeah, but it's not looking too bad
Speaker 1: for you, Jewels. I mean, you guys make me sound
Speaker 1: so terrible, so I feel like it is. Looking back,
Speaker 1: was any of what I said not an accurate recap?
Speaker 1: I mean with a sin which it's accurate the spin okay,
Speaker 1: I mean it wasn't looking for things to happen, but
Speaker 1: things were happening to her. I'll give her that I
Speaker 1: don't know, I think you would have to, like by
Speaker 1: the third place, you just have to kind of suck
Speaker 1: it up and realize that that's where you're at. But
Speaker 1: that's okay, I mean, that's in the hastules. The only
Speaker 1: concern I have is, I mean, have you tried to
Speaker 1: reach out to him or you just jumping straight to
Speaker 1: us for help. I texted him after I didn't get
Speaker 1: that like next day, follow up okay, and st nothing.
Speaker 1: So now I'm kind of like, yeah, okay, something is weird. Okay,
Speaker 1: So you just want us to relate to him that
Speaker 1: you're not high maintenance? Yeah, yeah, let him know like
Speaker 1: I'm a cool person. You know, I'm not a parable
Speaker 1: all right, but let's give this a shot. We're gonna
Speaker 1: call Eric for you, and we're gonna try and get
Speaker 1: you your second date up to you. Ready, I am ready? Okay,
Speaker 1: Here we go down the number right now. Hello, Hey,
Speaker 1: I'm looking for Eric. Who is this is this Eric?
Speaker 1: I asked you first, Jeffrey. Um, okay, yeah, yes, this
Speaker 1: is Eric. Okay. I just wanted to make sure thank
Speaker 1: you for answering. So now you got to tell him
Speaker 1: who you are. Yeah, So all right, no, don't hang
Speaker 1: up please. My name's Jeffrey from the radio show Broken
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the Morning. Oh okay, okay, we're doing a
Speaker 1: segment on our show called a Second Date Update, and
Speaker 1: we'd like you to be a part of it. Are
Speaker 1: you familiar with the Second Date updates? Not really? Did
Speaker 1: I like win something? Or yeah? I know A lot
Speaker 1: of people ask us that I never really know how
Speaker 1: to answer. No. Apparently radio stations are like famous for
Speaker 1: only one thing, and that's giving away free stuff. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we give away free It's true. It's possibly you may
Speaker 1: have won something. But first, let me just tell you
Speaker 1: how this works. Okay. So you recently went out on
Speaker 1: a date with a woman and afterwards you're not really
Speaker 1: getting back in touch with her. So she's emailed us
Speaker 1: get a hold of you to try and figure out
Speaker 1: the reason why. Oh all right, okay, and her name
Speaker 1: is Jules, remember Oh yeah, yeah, okay. Well she told
Speaker 1: us about the night that you guys spent together, and
Speaker 1: I mean it sounded pretty fun for the most part.
Speaker 1: She's just wondering how you thought of it. Did you
Speaker 1: have a good time? Yeah, I had a pretty good time.
Speaker 1: You know. She was nice to be around. I meant,
Speaker 1: I don't know if she told you, but we ended
Speaker 1: up like going to five or six different bars in
Speaker 1: one night. And I thought the first place was fine,
Speaker 1: it's actually my favorite bar that's in town. And then
Speaker 1: we got to a bar where like she was dressed
Speaker 1: like the people that were working there told us about
Speaker 1: that that she had the same outfit on as the waitress. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and we were we were able to laugh about that.
Speaker 1: We had fun. Oh, you were totally okay, Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: if that's the case, if you think that she was
Speaker 1: cool and you had a good time with her, then
Speaker 1: why aren't you actively pursuing her because you don't. She's
Speaker 1: mentioned that she's reached out to you a couple times
Speaker 1: since your date and hasn't gotten a response back. Well,
Speaker 1: I mean, she was really pretty, but it was just
Speaker 1: kind of weird for me. Do you guys know Catherine Hegel, Yes,
Speaker 1: Catherine Heigel, Yeah, the blonde that was in Um Grey's
Speaker 1: Anatomy forever and then she's done a ton of different
Speaker 1: wrong pombs. Yeah, and she got canceled for a while,
Speaker 1: but now she's trying to make a comeback. Yeah, what
Speaker 1: about her? So? Uh, the whole time we're sitting in
Speaker 1: this bar. Something in the back of my head were going,
Speaker 1: you look like somebody who is it? And then once
Speaker 1: we left, I realized she looks just like Catherine high Goal.
Speaker 1: Oh this important. So I like, I'm a real movie buff.
Speaker 1: I love to watch movies, and so like, when I
Speaker 1: realized that that's who she looked like, I just could
Speaker 1: not stop thinking of all the bad movies Katherine Heigel
Speaker 1: grin in. I just, uh, you just couldn't. I couldn't
Speaker 1: get that. It's funny because Katherine Heigel is like known
Speaker 1: for being high maintenance, I think too, kind of like
Speaker 1: the big stories like blacklisted in Hollywood for a while,
Speaker 1: and I see her whole movie list here and I
Speaker 1: only recognize like two of them and I met both
Speaker 1: of them are horrible. But you're not on a date
Speaker 1: with Katherine. You're on a date with duels. Yeah. Didn't
Speaker 1: you have fun with Jewels? Yeah? Like I said, you know,
Speaker 1: I have fun. But I couldn't get that out of
Speaker 1: out of my head. And then when we did have
Speaker 1: to hop from bar to bar to bar to bar,
Speaker 1: like it just I mean, it just made her seem
Speaker 1: a little bit more highly highly It's that's that a bird. No,
Speaker 1: that's an adjectively. You don't want to be high? Yeah,
Speaker 1: meaning like one did the have in a high left manner. Yes, Okay,
Speaker 1: excuse me, but I've heard enough. I need to jump
Speaker 1: in here. That is the most ridiculous excuse for ghosting
Speaker 1: I have ever heard kind of back that way, Jewels,
Speaker 1: you jumped in before. You're supposed to a very high
Speaker 1: gol moving. To be honest, I don't honestly like, I
Speaker 1: don't even want to see you again. Let's stop this. First.
Speaker 1: First thing is I need to let Eric know that
Speaker 1: that is Jewels on the other line. She's been listening
Speaker 1: this entire time and she wants to talk to you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she was supposed to wait until we call her in.
Speaker 1: That's all the rules of this normally work, Juels. I
Speaker 1: mean me, Look, the world are moves. Okay. Well, I'm
Speaker 1: just saying you don't want to get blacklisted from our
Speaker 1: second data. Okay, stop it. Jeffrey, Hey, I think that
Speaker 1: first you should take it as a compliment just because
Speaker 1: he doesn't like Catherine Hegel's movies or high goals movies.
Speaker 1: She's a beautiful woman, Yeah, I mean she really is. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't want to make you seem like I thought
Speaker 1: you were ugly, because you're not. You're really pretty on
Speaker 1: the outside. Yeah, you know what, it's fine. I thank
Speaker 1: you for saying I'm really pretty. I think you're really
Speaker 1: pathetic and I'm just over that. Joels. Don't be upset. Honestly,
Speaker 1: it's one of the better reasons why someone has not
Speaker 1: called someone else back on this show. I mean, it
Speaker 1: doesn't really have anything to do with you. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: it's his opinion about her movies, like you were totally
Speaker 1: out of it. Well, I mean except for the high
Speaker 1: maintenance part. But I mean you probably agree with us Jewels, right,
Speaker 1: we all hate twenty seven Dresses, and I love that movie.
Speaker 1: You do not nobody loves that movie. But I'm really
Speaker 1: glad though, Honestly, Like I'm glad I have this clarity
Speaker 1: because like, no offense, Eric, but like this was not
Speaker 1: worth a call, like this is you. You just seems
Speaker 1: so weird to me, Like I'm over it. Well, I
Speaker 1: hope you can meet someone that looks like Emma Stone
Speaker 1: or something. I don't know. She does make some pretty
Speaker 1: fun movies. I really like Chemist La Lands, Super Bad. Okay,
Speaker 1: shut up about Emma Stone. Okay, okay, you brought her up. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I didn't think you guys would go like Gaga over
Speaker 1: her The Amazing Spider Man. I think it just sounds like,
Speaker 1: you know, maybe your guys's chemistry isn't quite right. I
Speaker 1: guess it really is the chemistry thing. But really it's
Speaker 1: not the chemistry thing. It's for sure that you're really weird.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, okay, all right. I mean I was trying
Speaker 1: to be nice. But if you want to go out
Speaker 1: like a d lister D Lister, I mean, she has
Speaker 1: a brand new show on Netflix. She's clearly doing very well.
Speaker 1: You might be intimidated by strong women. No one's seen
Speaker 1: that show. Let's be really good. I heard you ever
Speaker 1: watched it? I haven't watched it. Time normal. This is
Speaker 1: the part where I would ask if you guys would
Speaker 1: like to go out on a date again. Yes, maybe
Speaker 1: something happened in the No. No, maybe you can go
Speaker 1: watch a Katherine Heigel movie together that we we're gonna
Speaker 1: have a plot twist at the end and totally it
Speaker 1: didn't work out. Yeah, Eric, Sorry, Hey, well what can
Speaker 1: you expect from you know, go four as the most
Speaker 1: attractive guy in the room, Jeffrey in the morning,