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Speaker 4: So I have a love hate relationship with my birthday,

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Speaker 1: Way absolutely is. You deserve a gift on your birthday,

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Speaker 1: If you would please send me the link, I will

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Speaker 1: But why there been there been debates and discussions and

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Speaker 1: its stay or go Kelly, Good morning to Kelly, how

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Speaker 1: you doing. Welcome to the program. Kelly, So you are,

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Speaker 1: you're a married woman. Congratulate, congratulations for being a married woman.

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Speaker 1: That's a big accompny been together a long time. I'm serious.

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Speaker 1: The options are you? You do it this way? You know,

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Speaker 3: He's like, oh, I'm not gonna get up the middle

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Speaker 3: If you're gonna do it on your own, I would.

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Speaker 1: And you're going to resent him.

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Speaker 2: You're going to resent him when the baby's there middle

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Speaker 2: Like you guys were very clear in the beginning. You guys,

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Speaker 1: but we are now fractured. We are fundamentally on different

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Speaker 1: Of course you can if someone wants to know how

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Speaker 1: what people have to say about this. Though I hate

436
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Speaker 1: to say this, but I think you you know, have

437
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Speaker 1: to have a very and it's not a mean conversation.

438
00:18:58,040 --> 00:18:59,520
Speaker 1: It's not you know, there's no lack of love. I

439
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Speaker 1: don't think it's spiteful or hateful. This guy didn't lie

440
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Speaker 1: to you. He told you the truth. But it may

441
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Speaker 1: it may be the kind of conversation where you have

442
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Speaker 1: to just say, look, I gotta do this and so,

443
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Speaker 1: and I want to do it with somebody who either

444
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Speaker 1: either is going to be an active participant who wants

445
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Speaker 1: to be there, or I'd rather do it on my own.

446
00:19:19,800 --> 00:19:23,840
Speaker 1: I know people who've done that too. Well, Kelly, let

447
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Speaker 1: me take some calls and have the radio one and

448
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Speaker 1: thank you for sharing this. I know it's very personal,

449
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Speaker 1: and good luck to you.

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Speaker 7: Well, thank you so much for having me.

451
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Speaker 1: Yeah, you got it. We appreciate you. I mean, yeah,

452
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Speaker 1: I don't know. I think she's got to probably leave

453
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Speaker 1: this guy.

454
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Speaker 9: Yeah, from his perspective too, like he came into this

455
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Speaker 9: relationship like thinking one thing, and now yeah, she gets

456
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Speaker 9: to choose her what she wants to do. But in

457
00:19:47,520 --> 00:19:49,199
Speaker 9: a way it is also like blowing up his life,

458
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Speaker 9: you know, like now he may lose his marriage because

459
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Speaker 9: of it, and he had the same intentions from the jump.

460
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't like his response, but I don't disagree

461
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Speaker 1: with with him having a say in this and having

462
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Speaker 1: a vote and having a desire for his life too.

463
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Speaker 1: I mean again, the whole I'll well, I'll knock you

464
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Speaker 1: up and then just be here. I don't like that.

465
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Speaker 1: But I also for the people like this guy is

466
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Speaker 1: such a d I he didn't have to want this,

467
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Speaker 1: you know, he didn't have to run the jump. This

468
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Speaker 1: is what I want. She's the one switching up, but yeah,

469
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Speaker 1: she can do.

470
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Speaker 3: But it's sad, but it happens.

471
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Speaker 2: I think in marriages people just outgrow each other, not

472
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Speaker 2: because okay it's but other things too, right, And I

473
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Speaker 2: think it's sad and it blows up everyone's life.

474
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Speaker 3: And now you know you're divorced. But it is what

475
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Speaker 3: it is.

476
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Speaker 1: Autumn, Good morning, Hi, welcome.

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Speaker 8: Hi, I'm your fourteenth color.

478
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Speaker 1: Just so you guys know, Oh you're the fourteen You

479
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Speaker 1: know what, that's impossible. We only have thirteen listeners, will

480
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Speaker 1: only ever have thirteen listeners? Right when we think we

481
00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:46,600
Speaker 1: got fourteen, someone moves to somewhere where they don't have

482
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Speaker 1: the Internet yet. It's crazy anyway, what do you think?

483
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Speaker 8: So I just I'm thinking about the child. My that's

484
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Speaker 8: always my number one is do you really want to

485
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Speaker 8: raise a child or have even a sixty percent chan

486
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Speaker 8: of like this child not having the father being around

487
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Speaker 8: like in their life. So I just think that that's

488
00:21:06,520 --> 00:21:09,040
Speaker 8: that's what I would think about. I'd leave, I for

489
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Speaker 8: sure leave, especially if she really wants a baby, because

490
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Speaker 8: you don't know for sure if he's going to want

491
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Speaker 8: to be around, and you don't want to do that

492
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Speaker 8: to the baby either, you know.

493
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree, and you know what it could be

494
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Speaker 1: like my friend who had a kid that he wasn't

495
00:21:22,240 --> 00:21:24,399
Speaker 1: expecting and and loves that kid more than anything and

496
00:21:24,440 --> 00:21:27,040
Speaker 1: it changed his life. If you're here right now, he

497
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Speaker 1: would tell you it's the greatest thing that ever happened

498
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Speaker 1: to you. I know he'd say that, but he didn't

499
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Speaker 1: see it. But you're taking a risk. You're taking a risk.

500
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Speaker 8: He's an exception, he's not the rule right from a movie.

501
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Speaker 1: And I can't, I can't with much confidence, uh, engage

502
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Speaker 1: in that agreement, you know what I mean? Like that's

503
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Speaker 1: that doesn't feel good. My partner is gonna my partner

504
00:21:50,560 --> 00:21:53,479
Speaker 1: is willing to sleep with me, and you know whatever.

505
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Speaker 1: But but but he's not really willing to do this

506
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Speaker 1: with me.

507
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Speaker 8: So sometimes you grow apart like that just is huge

508
00:22:00,280 --> 00:22:03,240
Speaker 8: different things and you grow in different directions and that's okay,

509
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Speaker 8: and she shouldn't feel ashamed about that. But if she

510
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Speaker 8: doesn't want the same things, then I mean it might

511
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Speaker 8: be time to part ways.

512
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Speaker 1: Yeah. Maybe, So thank you autumn listener number. You say

513
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Speaker 1: fourteen and you're still thirteen. But HI, have a good day.

514
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Speaker 8: Thank you.

515
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Speaker 1: I love you mean it, Hi, Kelly, good morning, Kelly. Hello, Hi,

516
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Speaker 1: Hi Kelly. What do you want to say?

517
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Speaker 9: Hi?

518
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Speaker 8: I want to say that she needs to go.

519
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Speaker 3: This is so selfish.

520
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Speaker 8: She should not bring a child into this world knowing

521
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Speaker 8: that their father wants nothing to do with it. It's

522
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Speaker 8: so cool.

523
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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, I don't think it's going to work under

524
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Speaker 1: the current arrangement, and I think it's a risk if

525
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Speaker 1: you do it within these with the confides of this relationship,

526
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Speaker 1: because he's telling you he doesn't want to do it.

527
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Speaker 1: But thank you, Kelly. I'm glad you called. I have

528
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Speaker 1: a great day, you too, and thank you for listening. Brandon.

529
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Speaker 1: So you say stay, why, I.

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Speaker 6: Say steep because he was honest from the very beginning.

531
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Speaker 6: He told her exactly what the situation was. While there's

532
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Speaker 6: a good chance that his mind will change when he

533
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Speaker 6: sees that precious young one and he holds it in

534
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Speaker 6: his hands. However, there's so many fathers who never were

535
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Speaker 6: honest from the beginning, who have a just who actually

536
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Speaker 6: never told their wives that, oh no, I'll do everything,

537
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Speaker 6: but then never do anything. Who who are married now

538
00:23:33,880 --> 00:23:36,480
Speaker 6: but never take care of the child in any way,

539
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Speaker 6: who perhaps live from the beginning.

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Speaker 1: I think we're talking about it. He told two different things, Brandon.

541
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Speaker 1: Now we're talking about dead bee dads. We're talking about

542
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Speaker 1: people who want a kid but don't want to work

543
00:23:45,080 --> 00:23:47,080
Speaker 1: for it. This guy, and you don't find that out

544
00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:50,080
Speaker 1: until after the fact. This guy's telling you. He's telling

545
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Speaker 1: you right now. Hey, he's calling a shot, like hey,

546
00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:54,800
Speaker 1: just heads up, I don't want to do this. Like

547
00:23:54,840 --> 00:23:58,080
Speaker 1: that's I think that's a little bit different, because it's

548
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Speaker 1: bad enough if you have a kid and then yeah, yeah,

549
00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:02,159
Speaker 1: yeah kid, and then you don't want to raise it.

550
00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:05,600
Speaker 1: I mean, that's a different I think it's a different problem.

551
00:24:06,119 --> 00:24:08,439
Speaker 6: That's true. But however, he is willing to take care

552
00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:10,119
Speaker 6: of it in every way. But the amount of single

553
00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:13,560
Speaker 6: moms out there who have zero support whatsoever, have to

554
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Speaker 6: do it all on their own.

555
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Speaker 4: Well, not every way, not the emotional. But you know

556
00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:20,280
Speaker 4: he's saying, I want to be like a hands offstague.

557
00:24:20,359 --> 00:24:22,320
Speaker 4: So I wonder, okay, if she goes to a sperm

558
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Speaker 4: make and the kid doesn't hack quote unquote have a dad,

559
00:24:24,880 --> 00:24:26,760
Speaker 4: is that less painful than having a dad that's like

560
00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:28,480
Speaker 4: one foot in, one foot out the door?

561
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Speaker 3: You know what I mean.

562
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Speaker 1: On the riod, he's somehow going to buy in after

563
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Speaker 1: the fact. But Brandon, I appreciate you, man, Thank you

564
00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:37,240
Speaker 1: so much for calling Katie. Katie, you say go, she's

565
00:24:37,240 --> 00:24:37,720
Speaker 1: got to go.

566
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Speaker 8: Yes, I do.

567
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Speaker 1: Well.

568
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Speaker 8: I think if they can find a compromise, great, But

569
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Speaker 8: I think the idea at hands is a bad idea

570
00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:47,800
Speaker 8: and if that's the only idea, she should go.

571
00:24:49,160 --> 00:24:51,879
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, yeah, So we got to vote for go.

572
00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:57,040
Speaker 1: Thank you, Katie. Yeah, Larry, vote for stay. Hi, Larry,

573
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Speaker 1: Hell old there, Larry. You can say why. So the

574
00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:05,040
Speaker 1: reason why is that?

575
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Speaker 10: And I don't know this gentleman's circumstances, but depending if

576
00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:12,359
Speaker 10: he was an only child or something like that, I

577
00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:14,159
Speaker 10: had the same thing with my folks, and when my

578
00:25:14,200 --> 00:25:17,520
Speaker 10: folks got married, my dad wanted to have kids. But

579
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Speaker 10: until we were like, I don't know, seven or eight

580
00:25:20,720 --> 00:25:23,080
Speaker 10: years old, he didn't really he wasn't involved in our

581
00:25:23,320 --> 00:25:25,800
Speaker 10: in our you know, raising us and what have you.

582
00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:28,240
Speaker 6: Thus he would do is probably wipe.

583
00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:29,720
Speaker 10: A butt every now and then, but other than that

584
00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:33,040
Speaker 10: he didn't do much. But as we got older, he

585
00:25:33,080 --> 00:25:36,640
Speaker 10: got more involved and active. And I think that has

586
00:25:36,680 --> 00:25:38,320
Speaker 10: a lot to do with it. Since we don't know

587
00:25:38,400 --> 00:25:42,439
Speaker 10: the gentleman's circumstances here and what his upbringing is. I

588
00:25:42,520 --> 00:25:45,600
Speaker 10: think that it's the same thing that maybe once this

589
00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:48,359
Speaker 10: child gets older, he may get more involved.

590
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Speaker 1: And oh, we love Larry, but Larry, no, I hear

591
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Speaker 1: what you're saying. That's a risk. I mean, I hear

592
00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:57,720
Speaker 1: what you're saying. Does a chance he buys in over

593
00:25:57,800 --> 00:26:01,240
Speaker 1: time right or warms up the idea, But that now

594
00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:03,119
Speaker 1: you have another human involved, and I think we have

595
00:26:03,200 --> 00:26:06,919
Speaker 1: to consider not only her needs his needs, as Jason

596
00:26:06,920 --> 00:26:09,960
Speaker 1: pointed out, but also like how's this, how's his kid

597
00:26:10,040 --> 00:26:13,720
Speaker 1: going to feel if dad is truly detached from the process.

598
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Speaker 1: Sample Jenny, good morning, Hey, good morning. I'm gonna let

599
00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:19,400
Speaker 1: you have the final say here, what do you think?

600
00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:20,760
Speaker 6: So?

601
00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:22,720
Speaker 5: I think they both should try to work it out

602
00:26:22,800 --> 00:26:25,600
Speaker 5: only because it's a little different. But I had a

603
00:26:25,640 --> 00:26:28,399
Speaker 5: friend or I have a friend who they both got married.

604
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Speaker 6: In all their lives, they said, you know, we don't

605
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Speaker 6: want kids.

606
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Speaker 5: Both when she turned forty I think forty one, she

607
00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:40,000
Speaker 5: accidentally got pregnant. They get baby, and now they're in

608
00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:43,240
Speaker 5: love with this little boys now I think eight years old,

609
00:26:43,760 --> 00:26:46,040
Speaker 5: and he says it's the best thing that's ever happened

610
00:26:46,080 --> 00:26:46,879
Speaker 5: to their lives.

611
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it's very possible.

612
00:26:50,680 --> 00:26:53,680
Speaker 5: Yeah, once the baby's here, he could easily change his mind.

613
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Speaker 1: You never know, it's possible.

614
00:26:56,200 --> 00:26:58,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know, but mind.

615
00:26:58,480 --> 00:27:01,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a risk, I mean risk gambling my baby. Yeah,

616
00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:05,639
Speaker 1: that's that's a big risk because you know he's telling

617
00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:08,159
Speaker 1: you his truth. It's almost like when people show you

618
00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:09,919
Speaker 1: who they are, you should believe them kind of thing.

619
00:27:09,920 --> 00:27:12,960
Speaker 1: I mean, I know that applies to different scenarios, but

620
00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:16,000
Speaker 1: it's like he's telling you. So then in when the

621
00:27:16,080 --> 00:27:17,919
Speaker 1: kid's five years old and he's like, I told you

622
00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:19,480
Speaker 1: I don't want any I don't want any want to

623
00:27:19,480 --> 00:27:21,760
Speaker 1: do this. You can't be mad at him, I guess,

624
00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:23,879
Speaker 1: because he's as messed up as that is. He told

625
00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:27,480
Speaker 1: you that. Yeah, So I don't know, Jenny, but thank you,

626
00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:30,439
Speaker 1: thanks for calling. You have a good day. Okay, Well,

627
00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:33,120
Speaker 1: I don't think we solved the problem, but anyway. Entertainment

628
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Speaker 1: report is on the Bread Show.

629
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Speaker 4: Carucci Tran, who you may know as Chris Brown's, actually's beautiful.

630
00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:42,760
Speaker 4: She was seen supporting Hall of Fame coach Dion Sanders

631
00:27:43,040 --> 00:27:47,720
Speaker 4: during his recent bladder cancer surgery in a documentary style

632
00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:51,600
Speaker 4: video produced by Dion's Sun. It shows her wiping away tears,

633
00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:54,960
Speaker 4: holding his hand, and asking very detailed questions in the

634
00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:58,679
Speaker 4: hospital room as he underwent his treatment. Earlier outings like

635
00:27:58,840 --> 00:28:02,720
Speaker 4: lunches and some handling had already started speculation earlier this year,

636
00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:04,959
Speaker 4: but neither have confirmed their relationship.

637
00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:06,320
Speaker 3: I think now it's.

638
00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:08,520
Speaker 4: Pretty much sealing the deal that they are together, and

639
00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:13,080
Speaker 4: of course we're wishing him a very speedy recovery. Last week,

640
00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:16,520
Speaker 4: fifty Cent, who is his full time job, is strolling

641
00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:19,919
Speaker 4: above all else. He posted a video of what appeared

642
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Speaker 4: to be or photos of what appeared to be Rick

643
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Speaker 4: Ross cuddling up to another man on a yacht in Miami,

644
00:28:25,760 --> 00:28:29,000
Speaker 4: writing quote, your man was looking real saucy kissing that.

645
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Speaker 3: Boy on that boat. That's not Ai.

646
00:28:31,560 --> 00:28:36,080
Speaker 4: Well, yesterday, Rick Ross, a shirtless Rick Ross. He was

647
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Speaker 4: in a pool with a cocktail and a joint.

648
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Speaker 3: He responded to fifty cent.

649
00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:44,320
Speaker 11: So infatuated with my lifestyle. You see me out on

650
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Speaker 11: the yacht with a black beautiful woman. And I hope

651
00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:52,840
Speaker 11: you don't have anything against black beautiful women, Curtis. I mean,

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Speaker 11: what are you insinuating here? I mean, and we know

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Speaker 11: you just as your heart shatted when you found out

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Speaker 11: what we found out. We all found out together, and

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Speaker 11: we know that's the mother of your youngest son, low

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Speaker 11: Bruce Lee roy Man. But you got to give a

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Speaker 11: beautiful black woman an opportunity, Curtis. We know you may

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Speaker 11: have been hurt.

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Speaker 6: You are hurt.

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Speaker 11: Home, we get over it, man, enjoy your glass of

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Speaker 11: far and bubbles and move on in life.

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Speaker 3: Be happy, all right, move on, be happy. I love

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Speaker 3: a light rap beef.

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Speaker 4: That's not like hurting anyone, really, but that was his response,

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Speaker 4: and it made me chuckle. And lastly, real quick, the

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Speaker 4: fourth movie in the Meet the Parents franchise has been

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Speaker 4: officially named. It's Falker in Law as I said, foc

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Speaker 4: k e R. And it is set for release on

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Speaker 4: Thanksgiving next year. So we're gonna have to wait. Ben

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Speaker 4: Stiller is back as Greg Fawker and Roberts and Hero

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Speaker 4: of course is back as Jack Burns, along with blythe Danner,

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Speaker 4: Terry Polo, and Owen Wilson reprising their roles. Ariana Grande

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Speaker 4: joins the cast as a assertive fiance, and she is

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Speaker 4: the fiance of one of Greg and Pam's sons. The

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Speaker 4: storyline will mirrow the og by depicting Greg's grown children

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Speaker 4: preparing to introduce their partners to the next Burns family,

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Speaker 4: this time through the eyes of the next generation.

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Speaker 3: By the way, if you missed any part of our

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Speaker 3: show or.

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Speaker 4: You want to catch up, just type the Fred Show

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Speaker 4: on demand and set us as a preset on the

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Speaker 4: free iHeartRadio app.

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Speaker 1: It's the Fred Show. Do you have what it takes

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Speaker 1: to battle show biz? Shelley in the show Biz Showdown?

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Speaker 6: Show me?

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Speaker 1: Hi, how's your morning?

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Speaker 3: Oh? You know, mornings are chaos, but they're fine.

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Speaker 1: It's good, all right, raising children are playing the game,

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Speaker 1: doing the thing.

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Speaker 3: Hey Kelly, good morning, guys.

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Speaker 1: Hello you Kelly.

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Speaker 10: Hi.

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Speaker 1: Fun fact about you is what I am a mom

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Speaker 1: to Cheokaitto.

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Speaker 4: But my son with me and you guys in Palatine.

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Speaker 1: Why I love that. What is your son's name, Kelly?

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Speaker 8: My name is Jimmy.

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Speaker 1: Hi, Jimmy, Hey, Jimmy. How old are you?

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Speaker 8: I am about to be twelve years old?

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Speaker 7: Don't jewish mon?

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Speaker 1: Don't you cheat? Okay, Jimmy, I don't want.

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Speaker 11: I don't know.

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Speaker 8: I don't even know what I because what's your favorite

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Speaker 8: time of the show?

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Speaker 7: You were just telling your favorite of the show is

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Speaker 7: what Kayln's entertainer report.

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Speaker 1: Okay, this kid's gonna cheat that. If I hear a

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Speaker 1: little voice in the background, I'm disqualifying you. I don't

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Speaker 1: care if.

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Speaker 3: You're twelve, I might count a little slower for you.

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Speaker 1: All Right, guys, let's play the game. Five pop culture questions.

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Speaker 1: Seven fifty is the prize? Good luck, guys, all right,

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Speaker 1: good luck. All the respect. Shelly, you got to get

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Speaker 1: the heck out question number one, Kelly and only Kelly.

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Speaker 1: Which late wrestler's action figure is making a comeback after

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Speaker 1: his passing. Last week, Chris Martin's ex wife was hired

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Speaker 1: to be the spokesperson for the tech company where the

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Speaker 1: viral cold Play cheaters used to work. Name his speaking

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Speaker 1: of cold Play, Lionel Messi and his wife were caught

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Speaker 1: on their concert kiss cam. Why is he famous?

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Speaker 8: He's a kind offer?

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Speaker 1: Which actress is getting roasted online for her new American

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Speaker 1: Eagle Denim ad what What's awesome? And Billie Eilish's brother

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Speaker 1: and musical counterpart turns twenty eight tomorrow name him? All right,

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Speaker 1: you got a four and you're gonna kick yourself for

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Speaker 1: number three. But don't say it. Don't say it, don't

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Speaker 1: say don't I tell.

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Speaker 3: You, don't your own books at me?

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Speaker 8: He goes, he told me the right answer.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, don't say it. Don't say Kelly, sometimes

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Speaker 1: sometimes less words. Okay, and I need I need to

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Speaker 1: take my own advice. But here we go four. Oh

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Speaker 1: oh no, okay, you got to focus. All right. Kelly

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Speaker 1: was trying to give you an answer, but I had

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Speaker 1: to stop her. Which late wrestler's action figure is making

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Speaker 1: a comeback after his passing last week.

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Speaker 3: O Cogan, that's right.

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Speaker 1: Chris Martin's ex wife was hired to be the spokesperson

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Speaker 1: for the tech company where the viral cold Plade cheaters worked.

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Speaker 1: Name his ex Gwyneth Yeah. Speaking of cold play, Lionel

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Speaker 1: Messi and his wife were caught on their concert kiss Cam.

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Speaker 1: Why is he famous? Uh?

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Speaker 3: Soccer?

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Speaker 1: He's a soccer player, that's right, not a tennis player.

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Speaker 1: Which actress is getting roasted online for her new American Eagle.

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Speaker 1: Denim Ad and Billie Eilish's brother and musical counterpart turned

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Speaker 1: twenty eight Tom name.

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Speaker 3: Him oh Phineas.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a five. That's key, Kelly. Number three got

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Speaker 1: you and Jimmy could have saved you, but he didn't see.

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Speaker 1: He didn't see, So we'll we'll get you some kind

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Speaker 1: of a runner up Jason. Yeah, well, now we're gonna

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Speaker 1: get you some kind of runner up price. I don't

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Speaker 1: know what it is.

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Speaker 6: Do you know what it is?

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Speaker 1: But I'm gonna figure it out. Jason, Jason always figures

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Speaker 1: it out. Yeah. I commit Jason of things all the time.

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Speaker 1: He doesn't want to do. It's fine.

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Speaker 3: I'm in a medium.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, we gotta say it. Kelly and Jimmy, you

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Speaker 1: can join its. Kelly, I got showed up on the showdown.

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Speaker 1: You know the rest?

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Speaker 8: All right, ready, then my name is Kelly. I got

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Speaker 8: showed up on the showdown.

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Speaker 1: Boom oh man, that was good. That was so good.

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Speaker 1: I don't have to do it, guys. Excellent I love

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Speaker 1: you for that. You guys, hang on a second. Thanks

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Speaker 1: for listening, all right, you stay right there, Shelly, Yes

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Speaker 1: you did it. You got a five. You needed a five,

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Speaker 1: eight hundred bucks tomorrow when number one thousand, thirty two

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Speaker 1: eleven straight. We've been at sixty nine losses for some

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Speaker 1: time now, hasn't it?

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Speaker 6: So?

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Speaker 1: Very good job? Come back tomorrow. Let's play again.

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Speaker 3: All right, sounds good.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna heye, we're gonna. I'm reluctant to say I

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Speaker 1: don't want to chase it, but like we're gonna drive

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Speaker 1: this up. It's gonna be five thousand dollars.

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Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, no pressure, Okay, no pressure.

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Speaker 1: All right, have a good mon Alright, that's good. Okay,

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Speaker 1: bye waiting on the phone. Why did somebody get ghosted

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Speaker 1: from the vault? We'll do it more pread Show next