Speaker 1: Call It what it Is with Jessica Capshaw and Camille Luddington,
Speaker 1: an iHeartRadio podcast.
Speaker 2: Well, Hello, Hello, Hello, Hello call it crew, and welcome
Speaker 2: to another episode of short and Sweet.
Speaker 1: This this one, this is a short no matter what.
Speaker 1: But I I mean, is it sweet?
Speaker 2: It's I don't. Well, maybe some people, this is why
Speaker 2: we're talking about it. Maybe some people will think that
Speaker 2: it's fine. And it is a little tangy, a.
Speaker 3: Little, it's got some it's got some tang Well.
Speaker 1: The subject heading would be chat GPT and how it
Speaker 1: affects our lives in different ways. This this way maybe
Speaker 1: a little more surprising than others.
Speaker 2: This way is a little specific. And I have I
Speaker 2: have a sneaking suspicion that someone's going to listen to
Speaker 2: this cop podcast and be like, actually that's a great
Speaker 2: idea and they're going.
Speaker 3: To be longing.
Speaker 2: Ang, okay, this what do we what are we talking? So?
Speaker 3: What happened?
Speaker 2: What happened was People magazine. Someone wrote in and this
Speaker 2: is what they said. It was from the am I
Speaker 2: the asshole read it, you know post Okay.
Speaker 1: He said that she read out what she had for
Speaker 1: the ceremony the night before and he told her that
Speaker 1: he thought it sounded great, to which she responded, well,
Speaker 1: I had chat gpt write it again, she had since
Speaker 1: February or March, so this I know this. He then
Speaker 1: asked her if she had the AI chat bot to
Speaker 1: write the whole speech, to which she responded more or.
Speaker 3: Less or less yeah yeah, more or less yeah yeah.
Speaker 1: So then he said, or he reports in the subreddit.
Speaker 1: I then said, it made me feel kind of weird
Speaker 1: in my stomach that she would have AI write the
Speaker 1: ceremony for her longest and dearest best friend. He felt
Speaker 1: it in his stomach. I feel at other places.
Speaker 2: I mean, okay, here's here's I'm going to play Devil's
Speaker 2: advocate for a second.
Speaker 1: Do it.
Speaker 2: Do I think think that it is the way to go? No,
Speaker 2: I think it has you know, it should come from
Speaker 2: the heart. However, there are some people that get a
Speaker 2: lot of anxiety speaking in public and sort of like,
Speaker 2: you know, they can't put into words a speech like this.
Speaker 2: It's a big speech, right, Like, it's a huge speak
Speaker 2: in front of a lot of people, and maybe they're
Speaker 2: stressed out, maybe having anxiety, and they're leaning on something
Speaker 2: to help form create that speech for them. So I
Speaker 2: understand a little bit because it's intimidating. It's an intimidating
Speaker 2: thing I understand thinking like, wow, something can help me.
Speaker 1: I completely get that, and I would add in there
Speaker 1: that I have not yet, but I know that I will.
Speaker 1: I think that that it's a really great resource to
Speaker 1: use as maybe like a first draft or like a
Speaker 1: go at it, like, I am interested to.
Speaker 3: Hear what people would say.
Speaker 1: So I'm not against the use of it is I
Speaker 1: guess my point. I think that where I'm a little
Speaker 1: bit and maybe I share some of this man sentiments
Speaker 1: is when it's about something super intimate, like a longest
Speaker 1: and dearest best friend since the age of two, there's
Speaker 1: just no way that chat GIPT can know, like they
Speaker 1: can't come up with the stories and the memories and
Speaker 1: everything else. So maybe as a framework I would run
Speaker 1: it through as like a first draft, but I think
Speaker 1: then you would really need to then comb through it
Speaker 1: and add in yeah, you know, support your insert your
Speaker 1: evidence right, give your examples.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I definitely think, I definitely think that there
Speaker 2: are times like when you should forego it completely, no
Speaker 2: matter how nervous you are. If I had found out
Speaker 2: that Matt had proposed me with a chat GPT speech.
Speaker 3: I probably wouldn't. Yeah, I don't think you'd be like,
Speaker 3: oh he just gets so nervous.
Speaker 2: No, no, no, I do think because it's like a
Speaker 2: public what the well, wait, how would you how would
Speaker 2: you feel if you found out that your your girl,
Speaker 2: your boy, whoever it is that you picked to do
Speaker 2: that speech, had used that.
Speaker 1: I also it kind of I mean, no one has
Speaker 1: said how good or bad it was in this little report,
Speaker 1: like was it a phenomenal speech? Because I feel like
Speaker 1: that matters. So Like my point is is that if
Speaker 1: someone in my life.
Speaker 2: And even okay, okay, let's let's play the game of like,
Speaker 2: the speech was absolutely like your entire wedding. The party
Speaker 2: was blown away. They were laughing, They're like, oh my god,
Speaker 2: get a Netflix special. You're so amazing. This is incredible.
Speaker 2: In fact, it overshined your whole wedding. Yeah, yea, everyone's
Speaker 2: high fiving.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: And then if they find out, you find out that
Speaker 2: it's that I'm gonna I'm gonna do some bitching.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna be honest bitch, Yeah, go for it.
Speaker 2: No, no, no, I'm saying I would be side texting
Speaker 2: you like are you kidding me.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like if if the if chet
Speaker 1: chipet like hoodwinked us all and there was high fiving
Speaker 1: and like a big Ponga train the celebration of that
Speaker 1: amazing speech that just happened, then I would just I'd
Speaker 1: roll with it. I'd be like, wow, you gave chat
Speaker 1: GBT like a very a really great description, and and
Speaker 1: wow did those bots really serve you? I don't know,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't take it personally.
Speaker 2: Well, because somebody's someone's response to this is if someone
Speaker 2: is really your best friend, is it that hard to
Speaker 2: write a speech for them? I think I think speeches
Speaker 2: are hard. It's not my forte.
Speaker 3: I do think speeches are hard, and sometimes.
Speaker 2: I think they're harder when someone is that close to you,
Speaker 2: because the weight of it feels a lot.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, Well one of my best friends gave
Speaker 1: a toast at our wedding and she did actually do
Speaker 1: what you just talked about. She crushed it, like just
Speaker 1: I mean, and she hates giving speeches. She hates talking
Speaker 1: in front of anybody, truly. I didn't say dislike, she
Speaker 1: hates it, and she took beta blockers.
Speaker 3: She was just I mean, I know it's actually torture.
Speaker 1: I almos feel I shouldn't have done it to her,
Speaker 1: but she got up there and crushed it and and
Speaker 1: it met And you know what, now that I'm being
Speaker 1: pulled back into that moment, it meant so much to
Speaker 1: me that everybody was high fiving, and it absolutely contributed
Speaker 1: to the mood because there was so much love and
Speaker 1: so much knowing in her speech. So if I had
Speaker 1: then found out that Cheept had written it, I well,
Speaker 1: first of all, I'd also be like, damn, they know
Speaker 1: a lot about me in my life.
Speaker 2: Yeah, where does that information?
Speaker 3: How did they know all that? And who is they?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: I think I would probably feel differently about it. I
Speaker 1: guess it would make it feel maybe a tiny bit
Speaker 1: less valuable. Yeah, I think it would affect its value
Speaker 1: and connection.
Speaker 2: So you did a speech at my wedding, Yeah I did.
Speaker 2: Now is the time if you did use a jass
Speaker 2: to confess because I have been suspicious over the years.
Speaker 2: I can a little gpt to.
Speaker 3: A little tinny.
Speaker 1: There was a little there's a tiney quality to it,
Speaker 1: like maybe you didn't I didn't know you so well? No, No,
Speaker 1: I had the armpit sweat to prove that it was authentic,
Speaker 1: and I was.
Speaker 3: It was all it was all true. It was all true.
Speaker 3: Giving a speech. By the way, again, I'm back at
Speaker 3: this moment.
Speaker 2: It is nerve wracking, really nerve wracking.
Speaker 3: And then I mean, if.
Speaker 1: You're being an officiant, And my guess is that she
Speaker 1: doesn't do that every day of her life.
Speaker 2: So yeah, I told my dad on my wedding day.
Speaker 2: I told him that because he had a this is
Speaker 2: what happened on my brother's wedding day. Okay, so my
Speaker 2: older brother got married and my dad's opening comment in
Speaker 2: his speech was unfortunately, oh Daniel met the love of
Speaker 2: his life ten years ago. Unfortunately she can't be here today.
Speaker 2: That's how that speech started, right on his wedding day.
Speaker 2: He thought it was very funny. There was one laugh
Speaker 2: in the crowd that came from him, and so I
Speaker 2: said to him, no speeches. You cannot do a speech.
Speaker 2: What you're allowed to do is the welcome speech. And
Speaker 2: he still turned it into a complete disaster. I don't
Speaker 2: know if you remember. He sung, he's saying, can you
Speaker 2: feel the love tonight? Then he pretended that he got
Speaker 2: a phone call from Snoop dogg congratulating us.
Speaker 3: That was random.
Speaker 2: I mean, there were so many disaster Honestly, I would
Speaker 2: have loved chat GP to write that. That should have
Speaker 2: been a chat GPT.
Speaker 1: Whenever you talk about your father, I am just I'm
Speaker 1: reminded the very fertile soil of hilarity that you grew up.
Speaker 2: It's not what I mean, yeah, as an outsider. As
Speaker 2: an insider, it's you know, we need therapy.
Speaker 3: So bunkers though.
Speaker 2: And I said to him the night before because he
Speaker 2: was in a little he was in a little saucy,
Speaker 2: little mood right and was drinking his red wine. He was,
Speaker 2: he was he was mingling with all of the crowd.
Speaker 2: And I don't know if you have a parent that
Speaker 2: you're like desperately hoping never mingles.
Speaker 3: I have that.
Speaker 2: I don't hate him mingling. I'd rather him in a
Speaker 2: corner with a muzzle on. He was mingling in the crowd.
Speaker 2: And I said to him, Dad, this speech tomorrow is
Speaker 2: just a welcome speech. And he's like, oh my god, Dunning,
Speaker 2: I've gone it for Gaussie. I know, I know, it's
Speaker 2: just got it. And the next day is when he
Speaker 2: was like, kids, you feel And I died inside. So
Speaker 2: these speeches are tough people, is my boy, and sometimes
Speaker 2: you should be using jett.
Speaker 3: I know, I know.
Speaker 1: And by the way, it is really interesting how different
Speaker 1: what you think might be acceptable and what someone else
Speaker 1: might think is acceptable. I was, I too, was at
Speaker 1: a wedding where the best man gave a speech the
Speaker 1: night before where he he.
Speaker 3: Revealed that the groom had cheated on the.
Speaker 2: You know the timeline he like kind of released it
Speaker 2: was I remember when we were yes.
Speaker 3: Yeah, stop, and they were supposed to be on a break.
Speaker 1: But I think that the groom reported there was a
Speaker 1: break and the bride did not know that it.
Speaker 3: Was a break.
Speaker 1: So yeah, so the night before they were about to
Speaker 1: get married about something that happened, you know, ten years prior,
Speaker 1: because it was one of those like college sweetheart. No,
Speaker 1: yeah it was, and I remember it was drum oh
Speaker 1: my god, and then the bride ran.
Speaker 3: To the bathroom.
Speaker 2: No, Jessica, I'm like literally sweating so bad.
Speaker 3: No, I know, I know, because I was. I was
Speaker 3: very young when it happened.
Speaker 1: It was like I was like sixteen, and the bride
Speaker 1: ran to the bathroom and but nobody knew that's where
Speaker 1: she'd gone. And so maybe like ten minutes later, my
Speaker 1: girlfriend and I go to the bathroom and we didn't
Speaker 1: know she was stuck herself in one of the bathroom stalls,
Speaker 1: and we're going to the bathroom talking about it in
Speaker 1: the bathroom, and then we hear like the sniffles and
Speaker 1: then the sniffles turned into like whales of just absolutely lot, like,
Speaker 1: oh it was.
Speaker 3: Awful, poor lady.
Speaker 1: And marriage didn't last by the way they did, because
Speaker 1: you're all wondering what happened got married and divorced?
Speaker 2: Wow, Okay, so I think I think what we're feeling here.
Speaker 3: We have divers we've we've we've we've gone off topic.
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, we've given reasons that you should use
Speaker 2: it because chat GPT would not have told the crowd
Speaker 2: about Ashley and Cabo back in.
Speaker 3: That's true. That's true. So maybe you should.
Speaker 2: Unless you're plug in that information, in which I hope
Speaker 2: you're not even chat GPTs Like, no.
Speaker 3: Dude, yeah, don't say that, don't say that part.
Speaker 2: Listen clearly clearly, for some people, this works, this works.
Speaker 3: Go with what works.
Speaker 2: Go with what works, Go with what's gonna make the
Speaker 2: congo line and not the bride in the bathroom.
Speaker 3: Crying no, no, no, bride in the bathroom.
Speaker 2: You could compare it to people who have ghost writers
Speaker 2: for music, right or celebrity memoirs. Exactly does it feel
Speaker 2: any different? Possibly?
Speaker 1: Hmmm, well actually maybe yeah, you know why because well,
Speaker 1: I mean, if you have a good I mean, I
Speaker 1: guess if you're saying you have a ghostwriter, then that's
Speaker 1: just accepted. But I mean, you know, I can't say that.
Speaker 2: People don't it. Hell, no, I'm not out promoting Camilla
Speaker 2: Lennington auto Biocrey and I'm like, but my ghost wrote this, No,
Speaker 2: I'm not. Oh, definitely on Good Morning.
Speaker 3: America saying.
Speaker 2: I wrote this is stufrom till Midnight writing this yeah, yeah, Well.
Speaker 1: That seems kind of naughty to me because then you're
Speaker 1: saying you did something you didn't do and you're making
Speaker 1: money from it. Like, I think that's definitely you should
Speaker 1: you know. I don't know, that's maybe another episode. I
Speaker 1: don't even know what to say about that.
Speaker 2: That just feels, I know, but it happens all the time.
Speaker 1: So I think the way I've landed on is this,
Speaker 1: if you need a little help, get.
Speaker 3: A little help.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but that okay, okay, is it the same thing
Speaker 2: as like you're reading, say I'm writing a speech, I'm
Speaker 2: reading it to you. You're like, Camella, take that out.
Speaker 2: Why don't you mention this isn't it kind of the
Speaker 2: same thing. I mean, there's a lot of people that
Speaker 2: get maybe they yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that's absolutely what people think. I think
Speaker 3: absolutely people feel that way.
Speaker 2: Although although we have to quote this, he did ask
Speaker 2: her if it had written the whole speech, and she
Speaker 2: did say more.
Speaker 3: Or less, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I saw that part.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Well.
Speaker 1: And by the way, listen, relationship is what relationship is.
Speaker 1: And it sounds like this the story is really actually
Speaker 1: more about a boyfriend having an opinion about a girlfriend's choice, like,
Speaker 1: so maybe you should let her know that he does
Speaker 1: not want her to have her vows.
Speaker 3: Written by CHATCHBT.
Speaker 1: Chill out about the speech, Yeah, chill out about this speech, buddy,
Speaker 1: It's all good.
Speaker 3: It went well.
Speaker 2: I think that the crew is going to have an
Speaker 2: opinion on this. I think he is not going to
Speaker 2: be okay, let's hear it from you guys, hop into
Speaker 2: our comments. I think they're going to.
Speaker 1: Disagree with us, okay, So do they think it was
Speaker 1: okay or do they think that those a little questionable?
Speaker 2: Yeah, we want to hear from you. Guys, you're part
Speaker 2: of this conversation. It is drop a comment.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and let us know if any of this, any
Speaker 3: of this has happened for you to you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, if you're if you're writing a speech right now,
Speaker 2: we want to hear from you. If you're like, wait,
Speaker 2: this is a great idea.
Speaker 1: And by writing a speech, I mean talking into your
Speaker 1: phone and letting chat GPT know what you'd like to
Speaker 1: speech on.
Speaker 2: Listen.
Speaker 3: Time is of the essence.
Speaker 2: And maybe they're busy, I don't know, very busy people.
Speaker 3: All Right, I love it. I love the shortened sweets.
Speaker 3: Let's call it.
Speaker 2: Let's call it. The end of the episode.