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Speaker 2: Jackson is on the phone today for a first Day

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a girl named Cameron.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we'll call her and see

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Speaker 2: if she tell us why she's ghosting him. But first, Jackson,

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Speaker 2: how long has evinces as you are from Cameron?

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Speaker 3: We did a few days. I have no idea what's

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Speaker 2: Okay, how the day go?

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Speaker 3: I honestly think the date went pretty well. We just

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Speaker 3: went to go get coffee at like this local quality place,

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Speaker 3: and we were having a lot of fun, like just

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Speaker 3: like you know, just over coffee that we just had

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Speaker 3: to go somewhere to get breakfast too, and so we

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Speaker 3: got some bagels and then from a place that actually

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Speaker 3: she had heard about from her friend, and then we

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Speaker 3: We even ended on a kid.

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Speaker 1: Well, is there anything that happened in that time that

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Speaker 1: you think might be kind of the reason why she's

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Speaker 1: not hitting you back.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I've been thinking about it, and I feel

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Speaker 3: like because at one point during the day, you know,

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Speaker 3: it was going well, but at one point, I I

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Speaker 3: talked about my ax like a minute she did ask about, uh,

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Speaker 3: my ex a any X I had, like how it ended.

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Speaker 3: So that's why I don't know if I no, no,

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Speaker 3: nothing like that. I didn't bring it up like voluntarily

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Speaker 3: like that like she asked. But I wasn't sure if

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Speaker 3: like maybe I went in like too deep about it,

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Speaker 3: and I just I basically talked about that how like

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Speaker 3: we were just not a good fit. She broke it off,

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Speaker 3: and uh, you know, just like not really like a

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Speaker 3: great relationship. And maybe that's why I feel like I'm

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Speaker 3: getting ghosted here, Like I'm just I'm afraid of like

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Speaker 3: this might be another one of those relationships, and I'm

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Speaker 3: hoping not, because, like I said, first date, great time.

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Speaker 4: Did you call your ex crazy?

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Speaker 3: You know?

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Speaker 4: Okay?

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Speaker 3: I remained the civil possible, you know about it?

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Speaker 2: That can always be a tough one if someone's like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: they're just nuts, They're just so crazy. All of them

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Speaker 2: are crazy, every single one I've had, right, and we're

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Speaker 2: supposed to see that as a big red flag. So

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Speaker 2: I was just wondering.

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Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, that's basically it.

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Speaker 1: Did you talk about your ex before or after you?

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Speaker 1: Guys kissed it before.

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Speaker 3: I only mentioned it for like a minute and that

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Speaker 4: Did you kiss her or did she kiss you?

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Speaker 3: We both kind of just like leaned in and it

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Speaker 3: was a moment kissed each other. It was a moment.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, did she eat so many mag goals and have

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Speaker 1: to run home? But that wouldn't explain why she's ghosting

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Speaker 1: in a few days. Maybe she's not ghosting, she's just

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Speaker 1: trying to figure it out.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I'm just I'm trying to figure out.

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Speaker 3: I don't know a lot. Like I said, like things

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Speaker 3: like we're just like going well and I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Maybe it was like the clone I was wearing or

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Speaker 2: But I hope it wasn't that wearing terrible cologne.

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Speaker 3: No, no, I say it's a pretty good brand. It

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Speaker 4: Honestly, AX smells still lack.

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Speaker 2: Actually, yeah it really. I'll get up in those you

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Speaker 2: got as all right, Well, we'll see if we can

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Speaker 2: figure it out for you. Then we'll play a song,

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Speaker 2: come back, and then call her and see her house

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Speaker 2: why she's ghosting you, and maybe get you another date. Okay, thanks,

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Speaker 2: I'm good, all right, plas, I'll come back at your

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Speaker 2: first date follow up next if you're just joining us

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Speaker 2: for today's first date follow up. Jackson is on the phone,

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Speaker 2: and Jackson is getting ghosted by Cameron. So we're about

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Speaker 2: to call her and see what she tell us why

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Speaker 2: she's ghosting him, and maybe get him another date if

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Speaker 2: he still wants one. Before we call her, though, Jackson,

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Speaker 2: why don't you catch us up on your situation?

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Speaker 3: Basically, I went on a date with the skirl named Cameron,

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Speaker 3: and it started on as coffee, but then we ended

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Speaker 3: up getting precess and then it turned out turned in

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Speaker 3: first date and then really well in my opinions.

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Speaker 2: And you haven't heard anything from her since, and you

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Speaker 2: think it could be because you talked about your ex.

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Speaker 3: Possibly, Yeah, all right.

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Speaker 2: You're ready for us to call her? Yes, okay, here

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Speaker 2: we go. Hello, Hi, miss to Cameron. Please, miss Cameron,

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Speaker 2: Hey Cameron, how are you? My name is Jewbel. I'm

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Speaker 2: calling from radio show. It's called the Jubil Show.

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Speaker 4: Hi Cameron, I'm Nina.

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Speaker 2: Hi I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 5: Why guy.

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Speaker 2: Sounds like something maybe I'm not sure yet. It sounds

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Speaker 2: like you are least listen to the show though, so

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Speaker 2: thank you.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I love it. What's up? Oh my god, I'm

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Speaker 2: What's up is that we got an email about you

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Speaker 2: from somebody because you're ghosting them. Oh, this is a

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Speaker 2: first date follow up? You know the segment that we

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Speaker 2: do that if you go somebody that can email us

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Speaker 2: and ask why you're ignoring them.

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Speaker 5: Yes, I've heard ever before.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well who do you think email us?

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, no way, Jackson.

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Speaker 4: Yes, Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: You really like your date and it's confused. Why you're

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, I'm so embarrassed right now?

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Speaker 4: Are you ghosting him?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 6: I wasn't even I wouldn't even call it ghosting him.

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Speaker 6: Oh my god, I wasn't really ghosting him.

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Speaker 5: I mean, after this, I'm mighty.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, why aren't you talking to him?

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Speaker 3: Then?

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Speaker 6: Oh my god, I'm so like overwhelmed. Okay, I'm not

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Speaker 6: really ghosting him.

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Speaker 5: I mean we went on the day like.

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Speaker 6: One day, a couple of days ago, like three days ago.

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Speaker 5: I don't know.

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Speaker 6: Oh my god, I'm just so like I just don't

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Speaker 6: believe it. Okay, honestly, he was really cute.

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Speaker 3: We went for.

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Speaker 6: Coffee and we were hitting it out pretty great.

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Speaker 5: We had breakfast. I just felt like he got very.

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Speaker 6: Clangy and like like before the after by the afternoon

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Speaker 5: I'm not for instant.

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Speaker 6: It was a long morning, but still it was just

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Speaker 6: the reason why I haven't called him, because I didn't

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Speaker 6: say I love you.

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Speaker 1: Back you, Yeah, was it I love you or like

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Speaker 1: I love this or I love talking to you?

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Speaker 4: Was it really I love you?

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Speaker 6: Listen?

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Speaker 3: It was.

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Speaker 6: It was just supposed to be coffee, you know, and

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Speaker 7: Know, he was just like very like flattering and all

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Speaker 7: you're beautiful, and then I love your hair turned into

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Speaker 7: I heard I love you, you know, and I don't

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Speaker 7: want to time to concede it. But it really was

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Speaker 7: like too much, you know, like super exclaining well oh no,

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Speaker 7: oh my god, Jackson, I'm so sorry, dude.

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Speaker 3: You could say that.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's right, you know the first day followups. Yes,

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Speaker 2: Jackson is on the phone listening and wants to talk

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Speaker 2: to you.

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Speaker 3: Hi, Hi Cameron. I didn't say I love you, yes

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Speaker 3: he did. No. No, I was saying like I love

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Speaker 3: your shoes. You know, I was probable.

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Speaker 5: No, we listened, we were walking and you were literally

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Speaker 6: Into my eyes and you were like, I.

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Speaker 6: You No, no, No, I was complimenting you on your shoes

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Speaker 3: I was just talking about like the things that I

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Speaker 3: I didn't mean for to like sound like that, but

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Speaker 3: I wasn't saying like I love you, you know.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, and that right there is just weird, like why

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Speaker 5: And like my house say, it was just like the

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Speaker 3: Way, Well, the thing is okay, Well, the thing is

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Speaker 3: I thought we were having a really good time throughout

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Speaker 3: I loved all those things about you, like, you know,

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Speaker 3: I would that would lead to me saying like I

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Speaker 3: I didn't say that, but I love you.

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Speaker 6: Just stop saying to me just like really creaming me off,

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Speaker 3: Okay, I'm sorry, Okay, I will say that that. I'm

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Speaker 3: I'll say it, I'll meet But do.

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Speaker 5: You see what you're doing.

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Speaker 6: You're like making me uncomfortable.

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Speaker 5: Stop saying I love you. This is probably why your

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, why are you bringing my accents? And please

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Speaker 3: don't do that. Okay, I was not saying I want you, Okay.

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Speaker 1: I think sometimes people react to the word love differently.

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Speaker 1: You know, for some people it's a scary word. For others,

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Speaker 1: it's a comforting word. So maybe this is kind of

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Speaker 1: where you guys are on different pages, and some people

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Speaker 1: can say it freely, some people can't.

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Speaker 2: Cameron, would you like to go on another day? Which

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Speaker 2: Jackson will pay for it.

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Speaker 5: I mean, I would say i'd love you if I

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Speaker 6: That's not fair and vice versa. I mean, yeah, I

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Speaker 6: someone who's going to fall in.

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Speaker 3: Love with me so quickly. I was just saying your shoes,

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Speaker 3: I love your personality as well. I wasn't saying I

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Speaker 3: I'll tell you what if you agreed to a second day,

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Speaker 3: then I promise I won't use that word ever.

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Speaker 5: Oh my god. But you see what I mean sounds

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Speaker 5: so clingy, just like I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I mean, it's kind of nice, you just really like.

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Speaker 5: Okay, I don't know. Maybe what do you guys think?

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Speaker 2: I think you should give it another shot.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's kind of nice.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I really appreciate.

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Speaker 2: Well, there you go, Jackson, you got a second date.

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Speaker 4: Jackson scream out, I love it.

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Speaker 2: Good luck you guys. You both maybe you will first

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Speaker 2: date follow up