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Speaker 1: I want to call out my father and sister in

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Speaker 1: law for being selfish. I don't think they've ever cared

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Speaker 1: about our family.

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Speaker 2: Dang daddy.

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Speaker 1: I thirty two female, have been married to my amazing hubby,

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Speaker 1: thirty seven male, for ten years. We live in a

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Speaker 1: small town where I was born and raised and have

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Speaker 1: a huge family.

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Speaker 3: By the way, this.

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Speaker 1: Comes from user Chica You're tooed one oh one on

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Speaker 1: the r slash Okay storytime subreddit. So my hubby is

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Speaker 1: not from here, but his mom's extended family is here.

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Speaker 1: Our town is where his parents decided to retire. My

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Speaker 1: sister in law lives in another state, one brother in

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Speaker 1: law lives several hours away in the same state as us,

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Speaker 1: and my other brother in law lives out of the country.

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Speaker 1: So it's us, the kiddos, and his parents as far

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Speaker 1: as his family is concerned.

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Speaker 3: Okay, the full breakdown.

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Speaker 1: We've got the entire hierarchy family breakdown.

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Speaker 3: Our family hierarchy breakdown, I said, I makes them up

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Speaker 3: close enough, close enough.

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Speaker 1: My family has always welcomed my in laws for holidays

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Speaker 1: and family functions. My family has also helped us when

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Speaker 1: my in laws got sick. Unfortunately, my mother in law

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Speaker 1: passed away a few years ago after suffering from dementia.

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Speaker 1: This woman was a saint and we miss her terribly.

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Speaker 1: My hubby and I were here to help with my

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Speaker 1: mother in law. We would come over and help cook

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Speaker 1: and clean and take them to the doctor's appointments. My

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Speaker 1: sister in law never came down and would avoid coming

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Speaker 1: here at all costs. She would rather make her elderly

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Speaker 3: That's gross.

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Speaker 1: When she did come and visit, she would still be

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Speaker 1: working from home, and my father in law would sing

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Speaker 1: her praises. He made it sound like she was the

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Speaker 1: only one who cared and the only one who ever

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Speaker 1: that we were the ones actually doing all the dirty work.

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Speaker 1: When my mother in law passed, my sister in law

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Speaker 1: didn't even come to the funeral.

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Speaker 4: Wow, she said, it was her. Yeah, that's that's funeral.

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Speaker 4: You're never too busy at with anything to do that.

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Speaker 3: That's great. You will always be able to get time

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Speaker 3: off for that. I would hope.

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Speaker 4: What about chat? But what if we we got a

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Speaker 4: live stream our mom's funerals?

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Speaker 3: It is true, we wouldn't be able to what are

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Speaker 3: we doing.

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Speaker 4: We'll figure it out, We'll figure well, well, we're just

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Speaker 4: for a freestyling, no.

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Speaker 2: Wrong ideas.

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Speaker 1: So her reasoning was that she said it was not

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Speaker 1: worth the risk of COVID. Personally, I would have crossed

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Speaker 1: the river of fire itself if it meant being there

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Speaker 1: for my family and being at my mom's funeral. My

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Speaker 1: father in law was disappointed but kept making excuses for

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Speaker 1: my father in law's sister came out of state for

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Speaker 3: Mother in law was his stepmom, but he loved her

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Speaker 3: all the same things.

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Speaker 1: Moved on, and sister in law never came down for

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, no way.

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Speaker 4: Go figure whoa I'm color me shocked that the woman

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Speaker 3: It's crazy.

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Speaker 1: She claimed coming to see her dad and family wasn't

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Speaker 3: You are such a hypocrite.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, this is the worst. Wow, this is

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Speaker 4: the worst daughter maybe ever.

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Speaker 3: That's afuriating.

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Speaker 1: She insisted that her dad, who is starting to show

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Speaker 1: He did this three times in one year. Oh dude, stop,

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Speaker 4: Though brois cross country long haul in it.

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Speaker 3: Got them strong.

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Speaker 1: So fast forward to this year, father in law was

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Speaker 1: struggle to help father in law because we both work

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Speaker 1: All three of us agree that a sitter or aid

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Speaker 1: We had agreed on this and we're in the process

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Speaker 3: Two weeks ago, Hubby took father law to the doctor

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Speaker 1: Father in law starts going on and on about how

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Speaker 1: he is moving to the same city a sister in

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Speaker 1: law and he's moving into a retirement village. Hubby kind

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Speaker 1: of shrugs it off, thinking father in law is just

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Speaker 1: confirms that she's looking into a retirement village for father

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Speaker 1: what ulterior motive does she possibly have for this.

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Speaker 4: Money? She wants to listen if we take him. We

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Speaker 4: know retirement homes are bunk, right, They're just not A

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Speaker 4: lot of them, are not.

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Speaker 2: Hey, not all of them.

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Speaker 4: I've seen some, John, how dare you in Florida? You

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Speaker 4: shouldn't know that they are. There's a lot about it anyway, Okay,

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Speaker 4: there's a a bad there's not a good one. So

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Speaker 4: there's a lot of bad ones, right, or there's there's

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Speaker 4: there are bad ones. I'll say that there are bad ones.

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Speaker 4: She's like, Oh, the op's making this great plan to

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Speaker 4: get like a person to drive him, and like, do

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Speaker 4: all these activities make sure he lives a long time.

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Speaker 4: She's like, well, if he lives a long time, I

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Speaker 4: stay broke.

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Speaker 3: So what do I do?

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Speaker 4: I put him in the worst retirement home. I could

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Speaker 4: possibly fine. Then you know what happens after that? Oh no,

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Speaker 4: that's the manipulation. That's exactly what's happening. Wow, she sucks,

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Speaker 4: She sucks.

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Speaker 3: Agreed.

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Speaker 1: Father in law would be moving from a southern warmer

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Speaker 3: Him a little longer.

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Speaker 4: If you think about it, this is crazy. You could

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Speaker 4: be cryogenically preserved in the ice.

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Speaker 3: Stop.

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Speaker 1: Father in law hates being cold, hobby and I express

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Speaker 1: concern about such an extreme move could speed up father

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Speaker 1: in law's decline due to the dementia. When mother in

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Speaker 1: I didn't Actually, I didn't know that.

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Speaker 3: That's really interesting.

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Speaker 1: If you have worked with dementia patients or have a

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Speaker 1: you know that routine and familiarity helps dementia patients survive longer. Plus,

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Speaker 1: he would have gone from a paid off two thousand

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Speaker 1: of an eleven hundred square foot apartment. It just makes

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Speaker 1: no sense to hubby and I, Well, that doesn't make

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Also, sister in law is trying to convince us that

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Speaker 1: he will never be lonely. We told her that she

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Speaker 1: and out of country several times a year for work

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Speaker 1: and for pleasure. We are worried that father in law

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Speaker 1: So in reality, father in law will be in a

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Speaker 1: him that he knows. It makes absolutely no sense to us.

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Speaker 1: But recipe for success. Yeah, if you're your definition of

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Speaker 1: success is inheriting everything from your dementia having father.

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Speaker 4: Exactly, crazy, dude, it's so oh yeah, this cannot happen.

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Speaker 2: She's no longer family.

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Speaker 3: I don't know why.

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Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, no, yes, she's getting fourteen. She's getting number fourteen.

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Speaker 4: That straight up like your blood, but you're not blood.

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Speaker 4: You know, it would be great, you know how you

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Speaker 4: can like change your last name.

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Speaker 3: It would be great.

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Speaker 4: If you could, like forcibly change other people's last names

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Speaker 4: like this, that sucked. The problem is people would abuse

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Speaker 4: it because we know all the reda stories. But if

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Speaker 4: we had a special special rule where it's like we

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Speaker 4: voted people like this off the island, off the family island,

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Speaker 4: I would love it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're no longer just You're no longer Sarah, You're

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Speaker 2: now Megatron poopo bug.

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Speaker 3: Yeah right I I.

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Speaker 1: There needs to be one person who's given the authority

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Speaker 1: each year to change everyone's name at will, just one.

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Speaker 1: And yeah, they just walk by you and call you

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Speaker 1: poo Poo Jones and you're like, dang it, Yeah I

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Speaker 3: Okay, all right, that's enough of that.

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Speaker 1: My hubby has been taking this whole situation really hard

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Speaker 1: and feels like he's being abandoned, that he is not

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Speaker 3: I don't know what to do to help him.

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Speaker 1: I want to tell father in law and sister in

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Speaker 1: there for him. Would I be the a hole if

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Speaker 1: I did call them a holes? I think maybe if

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Speaker 1: that territory because the father in law has dementia and

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Speaker 1: like doesn't Yeah, she might not call the father in

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Speaker 4: I think calling both of them yas, which okay, yeah,

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Speaker 4: I mean father in law he doesn't know, he doesn't

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Speaker 4: know what to do. He's Scott Devinia like yeah. But

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Speaker 4: the sister in law, Yeah, yeah, I guess because oh

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Speaker 4: he's like going along with the plan, I gut, but

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Speaker 4: he just doesn't like, like, you can't trust that he

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Speaker 4: knows any better. U. Terry Sapphire Frog says, I'm a

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Speaker 4: nurse and actually work on dimension unit at my facility.

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Speaker 3: I find it incredibly rewarding work.

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Speaker 4: But it is so sad to see how a few

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Speaker 4: famili show up to visit the staff become their family.

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Speaker 3: That is, yeah, that's so true. That's rough, that's so true. Well,

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Speaker 3: thank goodness they have y'all though, for real, truly, Oh

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Speaker 3: my goodness, Oh my goodness. All right, So here's the update.

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Speaker 3: Here we go.

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Speaker 1: Father in law planned a week long visit with sister

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Speaker 1: in law to look at potential retirement villages. He was

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Speaker 1: supposed to be coming back home in a week. They

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Speaker 1: called us and said he has signed on the dotted

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Speaker 1: line and will not be back. Nah, this is like,

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Speaker 1: get the authorities involved, Like.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, somebody's like she's making a decisions. She's making decisions

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Speaker 4: for him that he doesn't He probably doesn't understand at

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Speaker 4: My grandpa when he got dementia, he became happy. He

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Speaker 4: Haredi Spaghetti said, Uh, maybe Op is Harry Spaghetti. Sorry,

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Speaker 4: maybe Op isn't a fair child, or maybe the sister

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Speaker 4: I think a lot of people in chat are saying, like,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm sure that the yes, the there's no way

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Speaker 3: One hundred percent.

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Speaker 3: Yes, well, aha, look who's late now? Everybody it was

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Speaker 4: Both of us of us, you're more late than we

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Speaker 1: Is that Op and her husband. It's his opie step

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Speaker 3: I would assume that's right. Kidnap grandpa, yes, elder knapt.

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Speaker 1: He's moving into a retirement village. We are concerned for

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Speaker 1: much abandoning him there because she's not going to change

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Speaker 1: this is weird, He literally bet.

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Speaker 4: I feel like maybe the dementia has reached the tipping

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Speaker 4: she's probably saying terrible things about op Pope's whole uh

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Speaker 3: Like yeah, I am.

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Speaker 3: And he could just be like oh I did, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, which is fortunate, super unfortunate, super sad.

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Speaker 1: Oh, let's hope up the third update she gets her

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Speaker 4: Oh then abandons among Christmas. Oh no, course, we could

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Speaker 1: Hey there, I thirty two female posted a story a

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Speaker 3: Well, so he's loosid enough to keep the dates straight. True.

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Speaker 3: That's that's a pretty uh why did he do this?

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Speaker 1: And wouldn't in a moment of lucidity, wouldn't he go like,

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Speaker 3: Why did I do this?

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Speaker 4: Maybe and all the brilliant people healthcare people in chat

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I'm very uneducated, but.

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Speaker 4: Maybe he just secretly doesn't like the sun in life.

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Speaker 4: A lot of people Helen the Bains I believe in

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Speaker 4: many other people said golden child. Cistern Law is the

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Speaker 2: And I guarantee you that she's like, I'm the one

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he wish it was my brother instead of me.

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Speaker 3: He wanted the rings so bad he wanted to be

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Speaker 2: I said the thing that I should have said, Lord

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Speaker 3: John, John's sideline this time we're going back.

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Speaker 2: Here we go.

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Speaker 1: We asked if it was a work related trip, and

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Speaker 1: of what.

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Speaker 3: Her and father in law are going to do for Christmas.

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Speaker 1: She says they went out for dinner the day before

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Speaker 1: So for father in law's first Christmas away from his family,

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Speaker 1: the beach. Wow, and you know what's even better than

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Speaker 3: Tell me Dakota.

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Speaker 1: Listening to full episodes with stories like this, you just

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Speaker 1: or your favorite podcast app and search, Okay, storytime benjam.

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Speaker 3: Bing Bong, there you go. Whoo.

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Speaker 1: So does this story end with them explaining, Hey, so

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Speaker 3: Not the good one?

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Speaker 4: I mean, I feel like, yeah, you gotta you gotta

446
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Speaker 4: go in for It's that. It's that final moment you

447
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Speaker 4: know you're an inch from the finish line. Just send

448
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Speaker 4: it and be like, Yo, this is not good. We

449
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Speaker 4: need to take you out. Let's bring you back, Let's

450
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Speaker 4: get you. You always say you didn't want to be

451
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Speaker 4: an our time village. I think just go for it

452
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Speaker 4: at this point, because if we don't say it now,

453
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Speaker 4: are we ever gonna have that opportunity. He's he's the demand.

454
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Speaker 4: She's probably only progressing, you know. I think hopefully this

455
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Speaker 4: last little bit we have is uh is what happens Emerson,

456
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Speaker 4: Ray says, healthier worker here dimension picks and chooses what

457
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Speaker 4: you remember and what you forget. It depends on what

458
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Speaker 4: type you have. Okay, So, Emerson, I'd love to know

459
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Speaker 4: if what we were saying earlier, is it possible that

460
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Speaker 4: like maybe his like numbers and dates and like other

461
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Speaker 4: things like that are working pretty well, but his like

462
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Speaker 4: maybe emotional reasoning and or forgetting all the terrible thing,

463
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Speaker 4: why forgetting that sister law is a monster?

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Speaker 3: Can Is that possible? That's what we were I.

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Speaker 1: Feel like you would maybe remember that she didn't go

466
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Speaker 1: to the funeral. But I think even back then they

467
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Speaker 1: said that he was making excuses for her. So it's

468
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Speaker 1: always been good callback she's always gotten, she's always gotten

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Speaker 1: off easy.

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Speaker 3: Feel Yeah, it feels golden chown.

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Speaker 4: But let's see, hopefully, hopefully they go in and try

472
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Speaker 4: to make it right.

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Speaker 3: Yes, all right, let's see how this goes. Hookkay? So

474
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Speaker 3: before or he moved away, father in law would always

475
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Speaker 3: spend the holidays with us so he wouldn't be alone.

476
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Speaker 1: And before we moved, we told sister in law we

477
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Speaker 1: were afraid that he'd be lonely. She swore she would

478
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Speaker 1: make him a priority. But her life hasn't changed since

479
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Speaker 1: he moved there. She still continues to live her own life.

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Speaker 1: We have bent over backwards and made father in law

481
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Speaker 1: a priority. All decisions were made with him in mind.

482
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Speaker 1: Now he's moved away from any and all family, and

483
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Speaker 1: sister in law can't be bothered to put her father first.

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Speaker 3: He literally lives two blocks away from her. I feel

485
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Speaker 3: bad for.

486
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Speaker 1: My father in law, but I also don't because we

487
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Speaker 1: told him sister in law would not make him a priority,

488
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Speaker 1: and that is the end.

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Speaker 4: Wow, Wow, I want to add emson Ray in chat

490
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Speaker 4: did say absolutely true.

491
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Speaker 3: I believe to what we said.

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Speaker 4: So it's possible that he's like great with dates and

493
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Speaker 4: numbers and like whatever else, but like his emotional reasoning

494
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Speaker 4: and memory of like how you know, terrible she.

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Speaker 2: Is is gone.

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Speaker 4: Maybe that plus he made maybe he made excuses for

497
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Speaker 4: her in the past already and it's just like the dementia.

498
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Speaker 3: Uh, exacerbated that. Helen A.

499
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Speaker 4: Bain says, yeah, he said she was always perfect.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she is not perfect. Man.

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Speaker 1: I just I guess there's nothing legally you can do.

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Speaker 1: It's like he signed it. He was of I guess

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Speaker 1: he was in a witness.

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Speaker 4: He had a witness you probably for like uh like, oh,

505
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Speaker 4: he wasn't in his right mind something like that signed

506
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Speaker 4: under dress.

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Speaker 2: Maybe, but like but like would you want to do that,

508
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Speaker 2: especially to yeah, like point you what are you trying

509
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Speaker 2: to get out of that? Yeah, I mean money? But

510
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Speaker 2: and like try and get him back to you.

511
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Speaker 4: But because at this point he's he's stating how he feels.

512
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Speaker 4: He's like, yeah, oh well it's like all right, well

513
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Speaker 4: you know what, it's just like an immovable it's like

514
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Speaker 4: anuntoppable for us.

515
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Speaker 2: Yea, at this point, what's the point anymore? Like you

516
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Speaker 2: just keep butting your head against the wall.

517
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Speaker 3: Say your piece, move on. That's what he did. Just

518
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Speaker 3: not much he can do.

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Speaker 2: Can't be wish him the best, you like, I'm still

520
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Speaker 2: here for you.

521
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Speaker 3: I'm trying to brainwash him.

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Speaker 1: Be Like remember how you said you always wanted to

523
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Speaker 1: move into a retirement community down here, you guys, I

524
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Speaker 1: said that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you remember we just talked about it.

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Speaker 1: I mean, weaponize the dementia for positivity, weaponized dementia positively.

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Speaker 3: I don't think I'm mad at it. I don't think

528
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Speaker 3: I'm mad at it.

529
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Speaker 1: But yeah, that's that's imagine living in Chicago on purpose.

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Speaker 2: What the heck do you just did? You just call

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Speaker 2: out Chicago.

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Speaker 3: I don't just so brutally cold and windy and crazy.

533
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Speaker 3: I would I would cry.

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Speaker 2: I love Chicago, But about New York you can say

535
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Speaker 2: that about Miss Minnesota doesn't.

536
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Speaker 3: Get windy like Chicago.

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Speaker 4: That window does not come in off the wind is

538
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Speaker 4: doing off of the lake, even as f has like

539
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Speaker 4: crazy wind, and it would make me a cold boy.

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Speaker 3: We got crazy wind here today. That's true. If we

541
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Speaker 3: get engulfed by flames.

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Speaker 4: Guys know, we we love you, We loved you. You know,

543
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Speaker 4: we went out, we we we passed away doing what

544
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Speaker 4: we loved.

545
00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:04,200
Speaker 3: We passed away doing what we loved. It's all part

546
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Speaker 3: of the bit. Yeah, that's that's what it would all

547
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Speaker 3: be part of the show.

548
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Speaker 2: I did see a lot of people say like, oh

549
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Speaker 2: my gosh, why are you guys there? Like is the

550
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Speaker 2: air okay? We are okay? It is pretty close, but

551
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Speaker 2: like not it's lucuation close. It looks crazy, but we've

552
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Speaker 2: seen like we saw it this morning and it's a

553
00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:20,920
Speaker 2: giant death cloud.

554
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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, it looked like a like a mushroom cloud,

555
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Speaker 1: like rising into the sky. It was it's it was

556
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Speaker 1: what's the right word.

557
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Speaker 3: Wait, did you did John skiit? Sober? Mushroom clouds? Over?

558
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Speaker 2: Uh?

559
00:26:41,000 --> 00:26:43,679
Speaker 3: Focus on it? Okay, Well, and that well that's the

560
00:26:43,760 --> 00:26:44,359
Speaker 3: end of that story.

561
00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:46,280
Speaker 1: So you know what we're gonna focus on now, We're

562
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Speaker 1: gonna focus on some of these donations that came in.

563
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Speaker 3: Don't know.

564
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Speaker 4: I think I can do it, guys, I think I

565
00:26:52,320 --> 00:26:55,639
Speaker 4: got it super quick. Okay, story time. Uh, this is

566
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Speaker 4: my second time drinking soap by accident. The first time

567
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Speaker 4: actually we went out and record did some videos for

568
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Speaker 4: Doctor Phil. I drank it in the morning by accident,

569
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Speaker 4: and then was okay by the afternoon. So, guys, I'm

570
00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:12,359
Speaker 4: still I'm still a soapy boy. But yeah, it's okay.

571
00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:13,119
Speaker 3: Say that again.

572
00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:14,960
Speaker 4: You know, we all we all, we all drink soap.

573
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Speaker 4: Sometimes it multiple times. In fact, don't you know it happens.

574
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Speaker 3: Don't don't use so much soap.

575
00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:23,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, it happens.

576
00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:25,280
Speaker 3: I don't know how you could use so much soap

577
00:27:25,920 --> 00:27:29,520
Speaker 3: shot on like cup, dude. The amount left over is

578
00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:32,359
Speaker 3: like still hanging around, dude. I was pouring it like

579
00:27:32,480 --> 00:27:33,760
Speaker 3: syrup on a waffle bro.

580
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Speaker 4: Just going crazy. Anyways, let's read some downdes. Missus Rainbo,

581
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Speaker 4: thank you for the five bucks on a don'no link.

582
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Speaker 4: I think he knows he doesn't have much lucid time left,

583
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Speaker 4: and he feels like he hasn't spent much time with

584
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Speaker 4: her as much as the brother. This is his attempt

585
00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:50,040
Speaker 4: to try interesting theory, and I will let chat uh

586
00:27:51,119 --> 00:27:53,520
Speaker 4: kind of fight that. I like that theory because it's

587
00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:56,800
Speaker 4: a positive theory. Yeah, it's like it's the it's the

588
00:27:56,800 --> 00:28:01,160
Speaker 4: silver lining, it's the indeed, the light in amidst the clouds.

589
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Speaker 3: Yes. Yes, And then.

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Speaker 2: Mariah, there you go, he did it.

591
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Speaker 4: Thanks for the five bucks. I tried with the name

592
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Speaker 4: and I got right. I love you guys so much.

593
00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:18,800
Speaker 4: First time catching a live stream, let's freaking go. Is

594
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Speaker 4: that that's not it must be a different Mariah, different Mariah.

595
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Speaker 4: What we love all Maria's I think I think you're

596
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Speaker 4: Mariah was Mariah from Alaska.

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00:28:25,920 --> 00:28:28,679
Speaker 2: Maria from Alaska said times.

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Speaker 4: And I apologize till the day I deceased. Big Mommy Panda.

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Speaker 4: Thanks for the five bucks. Hey, guys, glad I kind

600
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Speaker 4: of stream been around since the beginning when it was

601
00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:39,760
Speaker 4: just John and Sam. Thanks for always being a show

602
00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:41,479
Speaker 4: I can watch in the background or fall asleep too.

603
00:28:41,840 --> 00:28:44,040
Speaker 3: That's what we do best. Hey, you're welcome.

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Speaker 2: You look over the honk shoes, honk shoes.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's why sometimes we just scream as loud as

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Speaker 1: we get so many.

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Speaker 2: Is that too smaller?

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Speaker 3: That works? Yes?

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Speaker 4: Was that?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 4: That's that's everything from tiplink Michelle d Actually, yeah, give

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Speaker 4: me one more.

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Speaker 3: Plus you're right, you're right.

614
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Speaker 4: Thanks for being a member for three months of the nights.

615
00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:07,480
Speaker 4: So glad to be a member for the last three months.

616
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Speaker 4: Been watching longer. You guys keep me saying at work.

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Speaker 4: Dakota's smile brighton, Thanks Michelle, Dude, he does have a

618
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Speaker 4: Dave brightening smile. Bro absolutely got me. Jason and then

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Speaker 4: Joseph you have with Dollard bark West. Thanks for the

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Speaker 4: twenty seven Swedish crowners.

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Speaker 3: Dakota. Swedish winter is one million times worse.

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Speaker 1: Trust me, I would believe that, and I believe that

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Speaker 1: one hundred percent.

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Speaker 3: I think that.

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Speaker 4: They have snow that goes so high it's like twelve

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Speaker 4: feet high.

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Speaker 3: It gets it gets crazy up there.

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Speaker 1: And to be clear, because I saw some people being like,

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Speaker 1: you better not talk about Chicago like that.

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Speaker 3: I love Chicago.

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Speaker 4: I'm from Saint Louis and I will I would take

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Speaker 4: Chicago ten out of ten times over my home.

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Speaker 2: Now you're calling out Saint Louis.

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Speaker 4: Okay, good, any Saint Louis, there's gonna be sat Wow, Saint.

635
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Speaker 3: Louis has problems.

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Speaker 2: St Louis problem both where you said, ah Chicago.

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Speaker 3: Man.

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Speaker 4: Bro is in the doug Grave and he said not

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Speaker 4: deep enough. I like, I mean, let me let me

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Speaker 4: get at two cities. Well, Jen Thomson, thanks for the

641
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Speaker 4: five gifted memberships. Let's freaking go love that. And then

642
00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:28,640
Speaker 4: sco Vix Mix thanks for being a member for six months.

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Speaker 4: Happy act day and I know uh and I now

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Speaker 4: have my ok st PhD.

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Speaker 3: Very true. So glad I found y'all.

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Speaker 4: I absolutely love my new nephews and of course my

647
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Speaker 4: niece Sophia Orange.

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Speaker 3: Army for Life Mix freak yeah uh.

649
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Speaker 4: And then Stephanie thanks for being a member for one month.

650
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Speaker 4: Let's freaking go finally made it to a live stream.

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Speaker 4: When people like first month members first time live.

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Speaker 2: Stream makes me so happy. We love it.

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Speaker 3: It makes me so happy. We love we always love

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Speaker 3: the new babies.

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Speaker 4: Guys, guys, Oh the King, I saw him in the chat.

656
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Speaker 2: Some crowns are in the chest.

657
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Speaker 4: King, Frederick Locknick. Please sound off in the chat if

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Speaker 4: you are still in the chat. But guys, please flood

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Speaker 4: the chat with crowns for a very own Frederick Locknik.

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Speaker 4: He is the arbitrator of many a ten hour stream

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Speaker 4: if you are not familiar with his with his holiness.

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Speaker 3: Easy, he deserves the crown, the Florida Key. He truly does.

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Speaker 4: He gave us the five gifted memberships, grow in the

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Speaker 4: family as he always does. And then oh yeah, celebrating

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Speaker 4: his nine months of membership. Hey, can y'all give a

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Speaker 4: shout out to my two nephews and niece that just

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Speaker 4: lost their dad. I am so so sorry to hear that.

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Speaker 4: But to the Locknick kids and family if that is

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Speaker 4: so sorry to hear that. The whole family here. Hey

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Speaker 4: very sorry to hear that, but hey, we're here. Can

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Speaker 4: Frederick is literally literally our king, you know, so you're

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Speaker 2: In the chat for fred and the family. But speaking

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Speaker 3: Eddie.

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Speaker 4: Guess what the chat and it's a very special day,

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Speaker 4: Eddie has literally he is the this everything you're you see,

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Speaker 4: that's because of Eddie. Okay, he is freaking phenomenal.

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Speaker 3: We love him.

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Speaker 4: He has done so much to create this amazing experience

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Speaker 4: that you all get to enjoy seven days a week.

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Speaker 4: So guys, big shout out what.

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Speaker 4: The Goat's freaking birthday.

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Speaker 3: There we go.

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Speaker 4: Oh and then we got some more vix mix. Oh,

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Speaker 4: thank you for the ten gifted memberships. Let's freaking go ten. Josephine,

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Speaker 4: it's like a saying that people are saying that.

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Speaker 3: It's like it'll be like, oh.

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Speaker 4: Uh, someone did the my sister and lost all my

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Speaker 4: father in law.

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Speaker 3: We listen, we don't judge.

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Speaker 2: We don't jump, we don't jump.

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Speaker 3: It don't conclusions. Yeah, I can't do that. Can do that.

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Speaker 3: We gotta do that one uh frame of mind. Welcome

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Speaker 3: to the Knights for weenah bo nola, thank you or

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Speaker 3: welcome to the Knights.

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Speaker 4: Yeah yea, yeah, there we go. Welcome to the Knights.

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Speaker 4: Let's go, and is that all of the I think

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Speaker 4: we got some We just got a brand new one

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Speaker 4: which one skip a thanks out a five bucks thank

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Speaker 4: you for helping me through my first twenty twenty five challenge.

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Speaker 4: Just caught home from a major dental procedure. It went well,

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Speaker 4: but I'm happy to be recovering with a live with

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Speaker 4: my favorite people. You all help my anxiety subside as

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Speaker 3: That we love to hear it.

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Speaker 4: We love to hear that. That is that is truly

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Speaker 4: the goal. And did we get another one from? I

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Speaker 3: Your chompers will be all right.

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Speaker 2: And we read missus Rainbow.

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Speaker 3: We did, Yeah, we did.

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Speaker 2: Let's just double check one one. There we go. Oh

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Speaker 2: we got from Josephine. Ah, that's where we're getting it.

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Speaker 3: From here, Josephine. Yeah, Josephine.

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Speaker 4: Uh. Once Frederick gifted one hundred to one hundred and

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Speaker 4: fifty memberships in one stream. Yes, that is correct, King

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Speaker 4: the King himself willing he will be known as the king.

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Speaker 4: And then Yvonne, thank you for the twenty bucks on

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Speaker 3: There we go fun that would have been great.

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Speaker 4: And then mixed mix for another five gifted member guys, throwing.

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Speaker 3: Another five in there, just grow, just grown another five.

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Speaker 4: And well there we go. I think I think we've

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Speaker 4: caught up, and I think it's time for the story.

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Speaker 3: Who is gonna be one quick okay story time? Yeah,

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Speaker 3: we're gonna do quick after after this story.

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Speaker 2: Yes, okay, who is ready?

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Speaker 4: John?

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Speaker 2: Are you okay to you?

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Speaker 3: Let's give it one more because I still got soapy's

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Speaker 3: he's got soap, everybody, he's got soap in his hole.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Oh no, it's true.

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Speaker 3: It's better to have hope. That's one of my favorite

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Speaker 3: dad sayings. It better to have hope in your soul

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Speaker 3: than soap in your hole.

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Speaker 2: Okay, good saying. I guess we have one more donation.

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Speaker 2: Then we'll get to the next story.

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Speaker 1: Mirandy Joe, thanks for the two bucks. I listen and

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Speaker 1: judge silently. That's that's like a you're like a ninja.

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Speaker 1: There we go, yeah, judgment, Yes, okay, are you ready?

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Speaker 2: You have my client's mother in law correct? Uh, yes,

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Speaker 2: and you are good to go.

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Speaker 1: My client's mother in law revealed her wedding dress on

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Speaker 1: social media, so my client shocked everyone.

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Speaker 3: What'd you do? Client? Now, let's.

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Speaker 4: Why do I feel like that was a punchline, which

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Speaker 4: like no punchline?

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Speaker 3: Would you do? Client?

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Speaker 1: Let's find out a little while back. I worked in

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Speaker 1: events at a country club. There was a one older

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Speaker 1: couple that we all adored. They owned a local bakery

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Speaker 1: and joined the country club as a way to network

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Speaker 1: as well as have someplace to go for Thanksgiving dinner

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Speaker 1: after baking pies all week for other people's celebrations. We

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Speaker 1: love this couple easily my favorite members. By the way,

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Speaker 1: this comes from user rebuild collapse six seventy nine on

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Speaker 1: the r slash Okay storytime subreddit. So the couple's kids

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Speaker 1: were just as sweet general send down to Earth as

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Speaker 1: their parents were, except.

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Speaker 3: One, who I will refer to as Karen.

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Speaker 4: Karen good name, ah, the name that we all know,

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00:37:12,280 --> 00:37:15,759
Speaker 4: a name that has no cultural context. There were connotations

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Speaker 4: associated with it none.

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Speaker 3: We're not quite sure what happened with Karen.

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Speaker 1: My thought is she was switched at birth in the

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Speaker 1: hospital because she's the only member of this family. You

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Speaker 1: can't make happy at all. You will literally pretzel yourself

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Speaker 1: and still nothing. Please don't pretze pretzel yourself. Thankful, her

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Speaker 1: family loves her, but recognizes the p thankfully. Rather, her

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Speaker 1: family loves her but recognizes the problem and attempts to

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Speaker 1: help basically, they just don't put up with her crap.

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Speaker 1: Karen's son and his longtime girlfriend decided to get married,

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Speaker 1: and the grandparents offered to pay for the ceremony and

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Speaker 1: reception at the country club. The bride and groom were

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Speaker 1: a delight to work with, not at all demanding and

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Speaker 1: super grateful grandparents made their planning easier. They already knew

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Speaker 1: the menu and the property, so there was much less stress. However,

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Speaker 1: Karen showed up at one of the planning meetings and

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Speaker 1: attempted to change a few of the menu selections.

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Speaker 4: Of course, of course she did, She's Karen, but she

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Speaker 4: was quickly shot down.

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00:38:21,280 --> 00:38:24,440
Speaker 3: The bride and groom just wanted good food, comfortable shoes,

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Speaker 3: and an epic first look moment, just the two of

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Speaker 3: them and their good friend, who offered to photograph the moment.

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Speaker 3: Love it. The only thing the bride kind of worried

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Speaker 3: about was the wedding dress. Due to medication, her weight

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Speaker 3: often fluctuated and she was saving to buy a dress

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Speaker 3: until the last minute. She was worried she'd spend a

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Speaker 3: ton of time and money on the perfect dress to

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Speaker 3: find on the day it was too small. I think

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Speaker 3: it was about a month before the wedding that she

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Speaker 3: and her mother went to look at a few dresses

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Speaker 3: that could be purchased off the rack. Off the rack,

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Speaker 3: off the rack she picked.

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Speaker 1: She picked two she liked and the store had in

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Speaker 1: her size, along with dresses in one size larger or

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Speaker 1: smaller they could get from a nearby store if needed.

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Speaker 1: About two weeks before the wedding, she attempted to be

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Speaker 1: a good daughter in law and invited Karen as well

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Speaker 1: as a few friends to help with the final decision.

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Speaker 3: Opinions were given and the dress was picked. A day

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Speaker 3: or two after dress selection, the bride comes walking into

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Speaker 3: the country club to leave thank you cards with cash

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Speaker 3: tips inside them for the cooks and dishwashers. Bride and

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Speaker 3: groom new back of house crew does not usually get tipped,

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Speaker 3: so they worried they wouldn't have enough time on the

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Speaker 3: day of the wedding to do so, but wanted the

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Speaker 3: crew to know they appreciated all their hard work on

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Speaker 3: wedding day. Like I said, the family is good people.

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Speaker 3: But it looks like she'd been crying.

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Speaker 1: I tell her the tips are greatly appreciated and ask

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Speaker 1: if she's okay. She pulls out her phone and tells

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Speaker 1: me the dress shopping story and shows me two pictures

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Speaker 1: posted on social media by Karen. Both pictures were of

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Speaker 1: the bride in the two dresses she had selected.

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Speaker 3: Dude, I don't even know. I don't know anything about weddings.

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Speaker 3: I know you don't do that. What Wow. Wow, that's bold.

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Speaker 3: That's sight. It's bold, dude. That's like, hello, delete all

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Speaker 3: of your social media or not.

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Speaker 4: You're not built for this, or make a post about

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Speaker 4: how you did that, go viral, contracreator boom they.

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Speaker 3: And there we go.

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Speaker 4: We've built another pipeline, the ruining my wedding to content

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Speaker 4: creator pipelines.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 4: Karen also tagged the groom and at least half of

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Speaker 4: the wedding guests.

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Bride tells me she feels like a brat for being

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Speaker 1: upset about the post. Grandparents have been so generous with

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Speaker 1: the wedding, but she really wanted that perfect first look moment.

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Speaker 1: She also mentioned she was ninety nine percent sure when

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Speaker 1: she saw the groom looking all good in his wedding suit,

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Speaker 1: she'd burst into happy tears. And if she got that

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Speaker 1: out of the way at the first look, she could

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Speaker 1: get her makeup touched up before the ceremony, and not

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Speaker 1: all of her wedding pictures would feature ruined makeup.

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Speaker 3: I was flabbergasted. I mean, seriously, who posts a picture

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Speaker 3: of the bride in the dress before the wedding without

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Speaker 3: permission and tags everyone they know?

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Speaker 2: So bad?

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Speaker 3: I mean? Is that?

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Speaker 4: I mean the only scenario that comes to mind that

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Speaker 4: I think is maybe if there's someone in a completely

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Speaker 4: different culture where like that's what they do with their

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Speaker 4: weddings versus like this sounds like this.

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Speaker 3: Sure is that there's.

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Speaker 4: Probably someone probably someone probably just excited.

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Speaker 3: You're just excited, just excited, boll you look good. Let

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Speaker 3: me show. I want to I want to tell the world.

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00:41:46,760 --> 00:41:51,160
Speaker 3: I gotta tag the world, let them know. That's the

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Speaker 3: elite Karen Activities.

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Speaker 4: Belie, that's you're the you're you're like the you're in

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Speaker 4: like uh, the upper branches of the Karen mill military wait,

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Speaker 4: executive branch of Karen.

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Speaker 2: Like a colonel, you're a colonel Karen. Yeah, a black

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00:42:07,440 --> 00:42:09,200
Speaker 2: belt in Karen, Yes, a black.

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Speaker 4: Belt in Karen, Karen fu nice. One of the dishwashers

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Speaker 4: overheard the conversation and says, just get another dress or

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00:42:20,760 --> 00:42:21,840
Speaker 4: make one.

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Speaker 3: I start to explain to.

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Speaker 1: Him that it's not that easy with wedding dresses, that

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00:42:25,880 --> 00:42:28,480
Speaker 1: sometimes they have to be ordered well in advance, and

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Speaker 1: does he know how hard it would be to make

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Speaker 1: a wedding dress when the bride the bride's eyes light

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Speaker 1: up and she starts making a phone call.

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Speaker 3: Wait, oh wait, I'm sorry, and how hard it would

888
00:42:39,520 --> 00:42:40,640
Speaker 3: be to make a wedding dress.

889
00:42:40,760 --> 00:42:44,839
Speaker 1: When the bride's eyes light up and she starts making

890
00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:48,440
Speaker 1: a phone call, she says a quick thank you and

891
00:42:48,480 --> 00:42:51,440
Speaker 1: goodbye while she heads out the door. I love this

892
00:42:51,560 --> 00:42:54,040
Speaker 1: is like just like the extra character in the movie

893
00:42:54,040 --> 00:42:57,160
Speaker 1: that just goes, oh, what if we did this? And

894
00:42:57,200 --> 00:42:59,920
Speaker 1: then the main character goes, you're a genie.

895
00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:04,800
Speaker 4: Oh my god, I had work Johnson, I got an idea,

896
00:43:05,760 --> 00:43:06,920
Speaker 4: and they're never seen again.

897
00:43:08,960 --> 00:43:12,759
Speaker 3: Okay. On the day of the wedding, the bride is

898
00:43:12,880 --> 00:43:16,360
Speaker 3: all smiles while getting hair and makeup done. But I

899
00:43:16,560 --> 00:43:19,640
Speaker 3: noticed the dress stayed in its bag. When I went

900
00:43:19,800 --> 00:43:23,239
Speaker 3: in to bring water and some small sandwiches. She had

901
00:43:23,239 --> 00:43:26,680
Speaker 3: one of those bride satin robes on and even had

902
00:43:26,719 --> 00:43:29,600
Speaker 3: it on over the dress when the golf cart came

903
00:43:29,680 --> 00:43:34,080
Speaker 3: to leave for the first look location. What is a

904
00:43:35,280 --> 00:43:37,000
Speaker 3: the brides wear satin robes.

905
00:43:37,640 --> 00:43:39,520
Speaker 2: I could see that that makes sense.

906
00:43:39,560 --> 00:43:41,920
Speaker 4: Maybe I'm thinking of a different material. Satin is not

907
00:43:42,560 --> 00:43:45,759
Speaker 4: I gotta be smooth. Okay, yeah, it's not what I

908
00:43:45,800 --> 00:43:46,719
Speaker 4: was thinking of. Okay, cool.

909
00:43:46,760 --> 00:43:47,000
Speaker 3: Cool.

910
00:43:48,880 --> 00:43:52,800
Speaker 1: To prevent getting any stains in the dress, she told

911
00:43:52,920 --> 00:43:56,839
Speaker 1: Karen when asked, Oh, that's why the dress was still

912
00:43:56,880 --> 00:43:59,399
Speaker 1: in the bag. Didn't want it to get stained. When

913
00:43:59,480 --> 00:44:03,000
Speaker 1: Karen went it knows and around asking questions. The first

914
00:44:03,000 --> 00:44:06,000
Speaker 1: look happens and the bride walks down in not the

915
00:44:06,040 --> 00:44:10,600
Speaker 1: social media posted dresses, but the most flattering dress I

916
00:44:10,600 --> 00:44:14,759
Speaker 1: have ever seen on a bride shows off her figure perfectly.

917
00:44:15,239 --> 00:44:18,000
Speaker 1: I also have never noticed how lovely her neck and

918
00:44:18,040 --> 00:44:21,280
Speaker 1: shoulders were until seeing how that dress showed them off.

919
00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:23,719
Speaker 1: Turns out the phone call she made was to a

920
00:44:23,760 --> 00:44:26,840
Speaker 1: family friend who studied fashion and worked in the costume

921
00:44:26,880 --> 00:44:33,920
Speaker 1: department of a major local opera company, WOW for the opera.

922
00:44:34,280 --> 00:44:37,680
Speaker 3: For the opera, she explained the situation, and the friend

923
00:44:37,760 --> 00:44:40,040
Speaker 3: had a few days off, so he made her a

924
00:44:40,200 --> 00:44:41,080
Speaker 3: custom gown.

925
00:44:41,200 --> 00:44:41,560
Speaker 2: WOW.

926
00:44:41,640 --> 00:44:43,600
Speaker 1: All she had to do is pay for the fabric

927
00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:47,200
Speaker 1: and notions. I googled the gentleman later.

928
00:44:47,080 --> 00:44:51,520
Speaker 4: And found out the guy interned under Versace at this

929
00:44:51,800 --> 00:44:58,440
Speaker 4: opera company, freaking VERSATCHI that's wow, what an amazing last

930
00:44:58,440 --> 00:44:59,760
Speaker 4: second dress situation.

931
00:45:00,440 --> 00:45:03,440
Speaker 3: You're like, Oh, thank you, random guy at the venue

932
00:45:03,520 --> 00:45:07,160
Speaker 3: for reminding me that my what was it? Her cousin,

933
00:45:09,200 --> 00:45:15,040
Speaker 3: family friend, family friend, family friend who studied under VERSACEI casual?

934
00:45:15,280 --> 00:45:18,080
Speaker 2: Hey, light workmah well out there, you never know.

935
00:45:18,280 --> 00:45:19,000
Speaker 3: Yeah.

936
00:45:19,040 --> 00:45:23,520
Speaker 1: Well, the groom could not stop looking at her or

937
00:45:23,640 --> 00:45:25,000
Speaker 1: keep his hands off her all night.

938
00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:28,080
Speaker 3: It was actually super sweet and romantic to see. The

939
00:45:28,160 --> 00:45:29,200
Speaker 3: reception was beautiful.

940
00:45:29,280 --> 00:45:32,239
Speaker 1: Everyone seemed happy, I'm sure except for one person, and

941
00:45:32,400 --> 00:45:35,440
Speaker 1: had a good time. In a small workplace like that,

942
00:45:35,520 --> 00:45:38,799
Speaker 1: we're a bunch of petty gossips. The entire staff knew

943
00:45:38,840 --> 00:45:40,960
Speaker 1: what had happened and kept an eye on Karen all

944
00:45:41,040 --> 00:45:44,160
Speaker 1: night to see her reaction. At one point during the reception,

945
00:45:44,280 --> 00:45:46,680
Speaker 1: a cousin came up to the bride and Karen and

946
00:45:46,840 --> 00:45:49,000
Speaker 1: said she knew that social media post was not the

947
00:45:49,040 --> 00:45:52,160
Speaker 1: real address, because come on, who would do something like

948
00:45:52,239 --> 00:45:55,040
Speaker 1: that and to their own future daughter in law.

949
00:45:56,040 --> 00:45:59,840
Speaker 3: Yeah. The bride just stared down Karen as she chuckled

950
00:45:59,840 --> 00:46:02,560
Speaker 3: and said, so funny, I mean that would ruin her

951
00:46:02,560 --> 00:46:08,560
Speaker 3: own son's wedding. M you think, Oh, yes, that's quite funny.

952
00:46:11,120 --> 00:46:12,160
Speaker 3: Gives me ideas.

953
00:46:13,000 --> 00:46:14,160
Speaker 2: I don't want ideas from you.

954
00:46:14,239 --> 00:46:18,040
Speaker 3: John, no ideas ideas. John's not in a suit.

955
00:46:20,200 --> 00:46:24,440
Speaker 4: I'm bringing some I can't even lie the soap he's got.

956
00:46:24,640 --> 00:46:29,520
Speaker 4: I'm wilding off the soap, so wiling off the fabulous soap.

957
00:46:31,320 --> 00:46:38,280
Speaker 2: Hey, enough responsors, I'm sorry that was amazing, dude.

958
00:46:38,400 --> 00:46:42,480
Speaker 3: Why you feel so good today? I don't know day

959
00:46:44,560 --> 00:46:49,240
Speaker 3: uh uh yeah, who would do something so cool and rude?

960
00:46:50,000 --> 00:46:52,759
Speaker 3: According to the server who witnessed this exchange, Karen, for

961
00:46:52,800 --> 00:46:55,840
Speaker 3: the first time ever, looked like she wanted to disappear,

962
00:46:56,280 --> 00:46:58,759
Speaker 3: like she knows, like she knew she had gone too far,

963
00:46:59,320 --> 00:47:03,520
Speaker 3: and this time she made a huge mistake. Another very

964
00:47:03,560 --> 00:47:06,400
Speaker 3: observant server noticed at the end of the night, the

965
00:47:06,400 --> 00:47:08,799
Speaker 3: bride and groom gave a little thank you speech. They

966
00:47:08,880 --> 00:47:12,080
Speaker 3: thanked grandparents, the wedding party, the country club staff. The

967
00:47:12,120 --> 00:47:15,320
Speaker 3: groom thanked his father and siblings, and the bride thanked

968
00:47:15,320 --> 00:47:19,200
Speaker 3: her parents and siblings, but neither of them mentioned Karen.

969
00:47:21,360 --> 00:47:26,040
Speaker 3: Thank god, no one mentioned her again. Yeah, canout Karen? Please?

970
00:47:28,680 --> 00:47:30,919
Speaker 3: And we have an update which I bet it's gonna

971
00:47:30,920 --> 00:47:33,040
Speaker 3: be like And now we're married and happily ever after

972
00:47:33,080 --> 00:47:34,200
Speaker 3: and everything's been perfect.

973
00:47:34,719 --> 00:47:40,279
Speaker 1: Okay, thanks for the love, lovelies. Yes, that dishwasher is

974
00:47:40,320 --> 00:47:43,440
Speaker 1: one of my favorite people ever. I so miss working

975
00:47:43,480 --> 00:47:46,160
Speaker 1: with him. My personal thoughts on Karen is she's someone

976
00:47:46,160 --> 00:47:48,680
Speaker 1: who lives to be the victim, and I think she's

977
00:47:48,719 --> 00:47:51,080
Speaker 1: hoped she'd be attacked for posting the pictures.

978
00:47:51,600 --> 00:47:52,880
Speaker 3: Oh so she wanted it.

979
00:47:52,920 --> 00:48:00,399
Speaker 4: She was like, dude, that's crazy, Karen the smoke deem

980
00:48:00,480 --> 00:48:03,799
Speaker 4: it te. We got pooty of smoke for outside. Yeah,

981
00:48:05,440 --> 00:48:08,560
Speaker 4: unlimited amount of smoke in the air outside right.

982
00:48:08,680 --> 00:48:11,360
Speaker 2: Oh, I'm not gonna lie. It was kind of affecting

983
00:48:11,360 --> 00:48:14,200
Speaker 2: me a little bit. Yeah, Like my nose was like tingling,

984
00:48:14,200 --> 00:48:15,120
Speaker 2: and my allergies kind of.

985
00:48:15,120 --> 00:48:17,640
Speaker 4: I saw you sniffling over there. We should run the AC.

986
00:48:17,800 --> 00:48:18,719
Speaker 4: Maybe that'll filter it.

987
00:48:18,960 --> 00:48:22,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't think so. No, it would probably put

988
00:48:22,200 --> 00:48:25,080
Speaker 3: more in. Oh no, good, Maybe I don't know.

989
00:48:25,680 --> 00:48:27,480
Speaker 2: We'll see. I'm okay right now.

990
00:48:27,560 --> 00:48:30,440
Speaker 3: Let us know chat, Yeah, let us know. Do we

991
00:48:30,480 --> 00:48:31,839
Speaker 3: turn the air on or do we not.

992
00:48:35,520 --> 00:48:38,680
Speaker 1: On several occasions, Karen has stated she would not be

993
00:48:38,719 --> 00:48:41,120
Speaker 1: attending dinners at the country club only to show up

994
00:48:41,160 --> 00:48:44,000
Speaker 1: and pout that she doesn't have a sheet but she

995
00:48:44,080 --> 00:48:47,120
Speaker 1: always does. Because after the first time she did that,

996
00:48:47,239 --> 00:48:50,239
Speaker 1: staff asked the family if they'd be okay sitting at

997
00:48:50,280 --> 00:48:53,319
Speaker 1: a larger table just in case, and they agree that

998
00:48:53,360 --> 00:48:56,880
Speaker 1: would be the best solution. And by the way, I

999
00:48:56,920 --> 00:48:59,400
Speaker 1: have a solution for you if you want to listen

1000
00:48:59,440 --> 00:49:03,080
Speaker 1: to more full stories like this one do is go

1001
00:49:03,200 --> 00:49:07,160
Speaker 1: to Spotify or Apple Podcasts or your podcast platform of

1002
00:49:07,280 --> 00:49:09,040
Speaker 1: choice and look up Okay story Time.

1003
00:49:09,160 --> 00:49:11,839
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, it's that easy, beautiful. Yeah.

1004
00:49:12,080 --> 00:49:13,880
Speaker 1: If you're like, oh my god, I've run out of stories,

1005
00:49:14,480 --> 00:49:16,000
Speaker 1: you have correct go look it up.

1006
00:49:16,239 --> 00:49:19,760
Speaker 4: Nineteen hundred episodes for your freaking dome piece.

1007
00:49:20,800 --> 00:49:24,879
Speaker 3: Listen. So we do have a little bit more here

1008
00:49:26,200 --> 00:49:30,439
Speaker 3: before we finish it off. Yes, like I don't even

1009
00:49:30,480 --> 00:49:34,839
Speaker 3: have any Like I think they've handled this perfectly. They right, Yeah,

1010
00:49:34,880 --> 00:49:36,320
Speaker 3: they did. They did a great job.

1011
00:49:36,600 --> 00:49:39,640
Speaker 4: Also, how the universe inspired in their favor when there's

1012
00:49:39,680 --> 00:49:43,279
Speaker 4: a Karen you know, when when someone closes a Karen door,

1013
00:49:43,440 --> 00:49:48,000
Speaker 4: a wonder window opens, you know, and yes, the Wonder window,

1014
00:49:48,080 --> 00:49:51,280
Speaker 4: the Wonder window, and it kind of low key worked

1015
00:49:51,280 --> 00:49:51,919
Speaker 4: out so great.

1016
00:49:52,120 --> 00:49:55,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm so happy. Do you think do you think

1017
00:49:56,040 --> 00:49:58,359
Speaker 2: we don't know? Because we're getting this from like a

1018
00:49:58,400 --> 00:50:00,400
Speaker 2: third party, which is kind of rare for these stories,

1019
00:50:00,400 --> 00:50:03,640
Speaker 2: but from a third party for op Do you think

1020
00:50:03,719 --> 00:50:07,280
Speaker 2: Karen went up to the bride and was like, you're welcome.

1021
00:50:07,600 --> 00:50:08,880
Speaker 2: I made you look even better?

1022
00:50:10,440 --> 00:50:15,960
Speaker 4: No? Maybe, I don't know, because if Karen could go

1023
00:50:16,040 --> 00:50:18,880
Speaker 4: that far to post the dress itself, yeah, go far,

1024
00:50:19,000 --> 00:50:21,040
Speaker 4: like she's so vain about herself, like you're welcome.

1025
00:50:21,040 --> 00:50:21,680
Speaker 2: I did this for you.

1026
00:50:21,920 --> 00:50:24,799
Speaker 1: She's like, yeah, actually I knew that, and I was

1027
00:50:24,840 --> 00:50:28,720
Speaker 1: the one who talked Yeah, I am versace.

1028
00:50:29,200 --> 00:50:33,440
Speaker 3: And then and then uh, the bride finally.

1029
00:50:33,160 --> 00:50:35,600
Speaker 4: Like loses it, gets a bit frustrated, like you're the

1030
00:50:35,600 --> 00:50:38,239
Speaker 4: one that caused this mess, tells her literally what she

1031
00:50:38,280 --> 00:50:41,239
Speaker 4: did wrong, like like totally within line right, and then

1032
00:50:41,320 --> 00:50:45,040
Speaker 4: she's like all I said was you're welcome. I was

1033
00:50:45,080 --> 00:50:50,839
Speaker 4: trying to show a gesture of goodwill and you attack me. Yeah, yeah,

1034
00:50:50,960 --> 00:50:54,000
Speaker 4: because that's put in her place. But that's what we've heard.

1035
00:50:54,040 --> 00:50:55,960
Speaker 4: I want I just want to see if she like,

1036
00:50:56,200 --> 00:50:58,359
Speaker 4: if she shut up or she put up.

1037
00:50:58,600 --> 00:51:00,719
Speaker 2: I can see Karen doing that though.

1038
00:51:00,560 --> 00:51:02,960
Speaker 4: I can see it too. I'm I'm in on this.

1039
00:51:03,000 --> 00:51:06,400
Speaker 1: I bet you she's gonna shut up, shut up, Kuren,

1040
00:51:06,440 --> 00:51:09,000
Speaker 1: and I can see we got thirty more minutes.

1041
00:51:14,600 --> 00:51:15,040
Speaker 3: Very soon.

1042
00:51:16,160 --> 00:51:19,040
Speaker 4: Ae, Okay, let's yeah, let's finish this story off. We'll

1043
00:51:19,080 --> 00:51:21,520
Speaker 4: see if Karen gets you know, maybe send.

1044
00:51:21,320 --> 00:51:23,080
Speaker 3: Her to the moon. I think this is a moon.

1045
00:51:23,280 --> 00:51:25,600
Speaker 3: Could be a scenario. Could be a moon scenario only

1046
00:51:25,640 --> 00:51:27,160
Speaker 3: because she didn't ruin the wedding though.

1047
00:51:28,239 --> 00:51:31,000
Speaker 1: Her family would also ask to have a plate ready

1048
00:51:31,000 --> 00:51:34,080
Speaker 1: for special occasions like New Year's Eve, where dinner service

1049
00:51:34,200 --> 00:51:37,319
Speaker 1: ends at nine pm. Although appetizers are available all through

1050
00:51:37,360 --> 00:51:40,240
Speaker 1: the event, Karen would show up at nine fifteen pouting

1051
00:51:40,239 --> 00:51:43,400
Speaker 1: about how hung she is, even though there are plenty

1052
00:51:43,400 --> 00:51:46,840
Speaker 1: of appetizers and she knew that dinner ended at nine pm,

1053
00:51:47,280 --> 00:51:49,480
Speaker 1: so the staff would walk out of the kitchen with

1054
00:51:49,480 --> 00:51:52,399
Speaker 1: a fresh plate for of course, much to her disappointment,

1055
00:51:52,600 --> 00:51:54,160
Speaker 1: her family would always say things.

1056
00:51:54,000 --> 00:51:56,640
Speaker 3: Like, oh, honey, look, look how lucky we are.

1057
00:51:56,840 --> 00:51:58,920
Speaker 1: Isn't the staff the best for making sure you had

1058
00:51:58,920 --> 00:52:02,000
Speaker 1: a dinner in a place to it and hasn't strangled you.

1059
00:52:02,000 --> 00:52:03,000
Speaker 3: With your own purse drap?

1060
00:52:05,960 --> 00:52:06,040
Speaker 4: What?

1061
00:52:06,480 --> 00:52:07,360
Speaker 3: Oh?

1062
00:52:07,520 --> 00:52:07,839
Speaker 2: I mean?

1063
00:52:08,040 --> 00:52:10,320
Speaker 1: You know, I'm sure that last one was a little

1064
00:52:10,400 --> 00:52:13,319
Speaker 1: you know, they're just dishing, right, there is a little dish.

1065
00:52:13,440 --> 00:52:15,879
Speaker 1: But it is hilarious that everyone in the country club

1066
00:52:15,960 --> 00:52:19,120
Speaker 1: knows like all right, Karen wants to make a problem,

1067
00:52:19,200 --> 00:52:20,680
Speaker 1: so we're just gonna prevent.

1068
00:52:20,480 --> 00:52:23,200
Speaker 3: All the problems. Yes, yeah. And then Karen's just like,

1069
00:52:23,840 --> 00:52:27,040
Speaker 3: I just want there to be more problems. I don't

1070
00:52:27,040 --> 00:52:29,640
Speaker 3: want peace, I want problems always.

1071
00:52:29,760 --> 00:52:32,680
Speaker 4: This is like the usually everyone in the story, it seems,

1072
00:52:32,719 --> 00:52:35,360
Speaker 4: conspires to make everything worse. In this story, everyone conspired

1073
00:52:35,360 --> 00:52:38,680
Speaker 4: to make everything great. Shout out to everyone, law.

1074
00:52:38,680 --> 00:52:45,840
Speaker 3: It's a conspiracy. Yeah, of positivity. Uh. She would mumble.

1075
00:52:45,600 --> 00:52:49,840
Speaker 1: Youw yeah, that's great and seemed disappointed that she couldn't

1076
00:52:49,840 --> 00:52:53,239
Speaker 1: throw a fit. I just never understood her disappointment in

1077
00:52:53,280 --> 00:52:55,880
Speaker 1: her family and the country club staff doing all they

1078
00:52:55,880 --> 00:52:56,600
Speaker 1: could to try to.

1079
00:52:56,520 --> 00:52:59,200
Speaker 3: Help make her happy. And that is the end of

1080
00:52:59,200 --> 00:53:00,360
Speaker 3: that story. I love it.

1081
00:53:00,400 --> 00:53:03,560
Speaker 4: And Karen's just like, everyone's so great. I just wish

1082
00:53:03,600 --> 00:53:07,680
Speaker 4: I could be upset about evil and terrible and make

1083
00:53:07,680 --> 00:53:09,080
Speaker 4: you all mad and you crash out of me. So

1084
00:53:09,120 --> 00:53:13,920
Speaker 4: I have my vigdam mentality. She incites a crash out.

1085
00:53:14,000 --> 00:53:17,439
Speaker 4: She just starts, she starts hovering. She just leggates into

1086
00:53:17,480 --> 00:53:23,000
Speaker 4: their power back. She's like an energy vampire from uh,

1087
00:53:23,160 --> 00:53:28,480
Speaker 4: what's that show? Have you seen Vampire Diaries? What we

1088
00:53:28,560 --> 00:53:31,160
Speaker 4: do in the shadows Nope. There's like a guy who's

1089
00:53:31,160 --> 00:53:33,720
Speaker 4: an energy not a real vampires, like an energy vampire.

1090
00:53:33,760 --> 00:53:36,120
Speaker 3: So he doesn't like drink blood. He just drinks vibes.

1091
00:53:36,480 --> 00:53:37,640
Speaker 3: And he's just like he.

1092
00:53:37,719 --> 00:53:40,279
Speaker 4: Just makes he's like the most annoying person at work.

1093
00:53:40,320 --> 00:53:42,359
Speaker 4: He's just like the guy who's like, hey, so I

1094
00:53:42,480 --> 00:53:44,040
Speaker 4: was watching this thing, and so he.

1095
00:53:44,040 --> 00:53:46,920
Speaker 1: Drains everyone of their energy and it just makes him

1096
00:53:46,920 --> 00:53:49,239
Speaker 1: like so powerful. Like at one point he goes into

1097
00:53:49,239 --> 00:53:52,319
Speaker 1: the bathroom and just like crushes an entire trash can,

1098
00:53:52,440 --> 00:53:54,839
Speaker 1: Like yeah, like just out of nowhere.

1099
00:53:55,120 --> 00:53:56,200
Speaker 2: That's my good time boy.

1100
00:53:56,440 --> 00:53:58,640
Speaker 4: Hey, hey, here he is.

1101
00:53:58,680 --> 00:54:00,000
Speaker 3: He's my good time boy.

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00:54:00,000 --> 00:54:07,400
Speaker 4: Sweet geez, these guys and they're freaking SciTS bad shout

1103
00:54:07,440 --> 00:54:10,120
Speaker 4: out now our roommates and now that's really bad for me. Dude.

1104
00:54:10,239 --> 00:54:12,719
Speaker 3: It's gonna do the next from here, it's gonna text here.

1105
00:54:12,800 --> 00:54:14,839
Speaker 4: You need to watch more TV, John, That's what's that's

1106
00:54:14,840 --> 00:54:17,719
Speaker 4: what needs to I need more watch You don't even

1107
00:54:17,760 --> 00:54:21,280
Speaker 4: watch TV, just watch like YouTube clips of TV shows

1108
00:54:21,320 --> 00:54:24,319
Speaker 4: and you can randomly piece together like some sort of

1109
00:54:24,400 --> 00:54:28,560
Speaker 4: Frankenstein monster, the the context of the things that we

1110
00:54:28,680 --> 00:54:29,520
Speaker 4: want to do my best.

1111
00:54:30,000 --> 00:54:32,680
Speaker 3: You'd be like, oh, I've seen sixty eight seconds of that.

1112
00:54:32,680 --> 00:54:37,200
Speaker 2: Before Colin Robinson. Yep, have to do all right, but

1113
00:54:37,280 --> 00:54:38,680
Speaker 2: let's read some donos, no knows?

1114
00:54:38,719 --> 00:54:40,680
Speaker 4: Could you read the donuts? And I think, uh, you're

1115
00:54:40,680 --> 00:54:42,239
Speaker 4: soap boil will finally be ready to.

1116
00:54:42,440 --> 00:54:46,000
Speaker 2: The next story, the next stories like he's gonna, I'm

1117
00:54:46,120 --> 00:54:48,040
Speaker 2: so clean, give me a long one. I don't want

1118
00:54:48,040 --> 00:54:50,160
Speaker 2: you to read it. Yeah, no, I don't want to

1119
00:54:50,160 --> 00:54:51,640
Speaker 2: see a bubble come out of here, like hick up

1120
00:54:51,640 --> 00:54:53,680
Speaker 2: a bubble. It'll be cute, but like.

1121
00:54:53,880 --> 00:54:55,759
Speaker 1: I want to see you like just like burp up

1122
00:54:55,760 --> 00:54:57,960
Speaker 1: a bubble like that Poor Things movie.

1123
00:54:58,640 --> 00:55:03,240
Speaker 4: Never mind, you probably haven't seen that. Nope, it okay,

1124
00:55:03,480 --> 00:55:06,920
Speaker 4: it's actually a really amazing movie and very disturbing.

1125
00:55:07,719 --> 00:55:08,239
Speaker 3: Charm.

1126
00:55:08,280 --> 00:55:10,919
Speaker 1: Thanks for the twenty bucks in the tip link where

1127
00:55:11,000 --> 00:55:13,880
Speaker 1: YouTube doesn't take thirty percent. Yeah, first live stream and

1128
00:55:13,920 --> 00:55:15,839
Speaker 1: I'm so happy to be here, and we're happy you're

1129
00:55:15,840 --> 00:55:16,840
Speaker 1: here too, Charm.

1130
00:55:16,880 --> 00:55:19,520
Speaker 3: Thanks for getting me through the holidays that we're anything

1131
00:55:19,600 --> 00:55:22,759
Speaker 3: but jolly love y'all and a little blue heart. We

1132
00:55:22,800 --> 00:55:24,839
Speaker 3: love you too, Charm. That's a nice heart for winter

1133
00:55:24,920 --> 00:55:28,600
Speaker 3: and hopefully yes it's a little winter hot peachy eve.

1134
00:55:28,719 --> 00:55:31,840
Speaker 4: Thanks to ten bucks. Here we are again. It's one am.

1135
00:55:31,880 --> 00:55:33,480
Speaker 4: And I'm doing school stuff.

1136
00:55:33,520 --> 00:55:33,800
Speaker 3: Haha.

1137
00:55:34,320 --> 00:55:37,520
Speaker 1: Thank you for being my midnight family a little less

1138
00:55:37,520 --> 00:55:41,040
Speaker 1: than three hurt uh. It feels not so lonely when

1139
00:55:41,040 --> 00:55:41,799
Speaker 1: you guys are live.

1140
00:55:42,600 --> 00:55:46,440
Speaker 3: That's oh adorable. I love it. We did midnight fah

1141
00:55:48,360 --> 00:55:49,520
Speaker 3: donation from Eddie.

1142
00:55:49,400 --> 00:55:52,560
Speaker 4: For ten bucks real quick, Eddie, put that on your invoice.

1143
00:55:52,600 --> 00:55:55,560
Speaker 4: I'm paying you back that immediately. Yeah, but anyways, please

1144
00:55:55,640 --> 00:56:00,000
Speaker 4: please please read this amazing comment oh from Eddie who's

1145
00:56:00,200 --> 00:56:04,120
Speaker 4: it's his birthday today. Thank you Sam, John Riley, Sofia,

1146
00:56:04,239 --> 00:56:08,480
Speaker 4: Keon Takota, and the entire Okay Storytime team and community

1147
00:56:08,520 --> 00:56:11,200
Speaker 4: for the lovely birthday wishes. You guys have made my

1148
00:56:11,280 --> 00:56:14,000
Speaker 4: day extra special and I'm truly grateful to be part

1149
00:56:14,040 --> 00:56:15,240
Speaker 4: of this amazing family.

1150
00:56:15,680 --> 00:56:19,200
Speaker 3: Thank you John once again for all that appreciation. I'm

1151
00:56:19,239 --> 00:56:22,040
Speaker 3: not crying. It's the fire smoke, it really is.

1152
00:56:22,080 --> 00:56:23,759
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie if you don't. If you see

1153
00:56:23,760 --> 00:56:26,000
Speaker 2: my eyes if they're starting to flare up again. But

1154
00:56:26,080 --> 00:56:27,960
Speaker 2: I'd also make it be a little emotional. That was

1155
00:56:28,080 --> 00:56:28,560
Speaker 2: very sweet.

1156
00:56:28,600 --> 00:56:31,359
Speaker 3: Dude. Oh my god, Eddie. We love you, Eddie. You're

1157
00:56:31,360 --> 00:56:31,720
Speaker 3: the goat.

1158
00:56:32,200 --> 00:56:32,239
Speaker 4: You.

1159
00:56:32,440 --> 00:56:35,360
Speaker 3: We love you well. We would be hopeless without you.

1160
00:56:36,640 --> 00:56:37,120
Speaker 3: Oh my god.

1161
00:56:37,520 --> 00:56:40,080
Speaker 1: Corey, thanks for the five bucks. I'm heading off to

1162
00:56:40,160 --> 00:56:42,320
Speaker 1: the skating rink with my daughter. That sounds lovely.

1163
00:56:42,440 --> 00:56:44,799
Speaker 3: I was inspired by Sophia to get into a new

1164
00:56:44,880 --> 00:56:50,680
Speaker 3: slash old hobby. Oops, and oh my god, oh my god.

1165
00:56:51,239 --> 00:56:55,520
Speaker 1: And we just got another one and it scrolled and

1166
00:56:55,600 --> 00:56:59,759
Speaker 1: we know who it was. It was it was, and

1167
00:57:00,160 --> 00:57:03,880
Speaker 1: I can't derail the one I was just reading for Hannah,

1168
00:57:04,200 --> 00:57:10,840
Speaker 1: So let me finish this one here. Yes, oh down, yes, okay.

1169
00:57:11,640 --> 00:57:13,719
Speaker 1: I was inspired by Sophia to get into a new

1170
00:57:13,760 --> 00:57:17,240
Speaker 1: slash old hobby. So I'll miss some of this live,

1171
00:57:17,480 --> 00:57:19,360
Speaker 1: but I wanted to send some love before I go.

1172
00:57:19,720 --> 00:57:20,360
Speaker 3: Love you guys.

1173
00:57:20,520 --> 00:57:24,280
Speaker 4: Well, thanks Corey, and uh I hope you're you're hearing

1174
00:57:24,320 --> 00:57:25,680
Speaker 4: this and we love you back.

1175
00:57:27,280 --> 00:57:29,400
Speaker 3: Caitlin Creswell, thanks for the five bucks.

1176
00:57:29,520 --> 00:57:32,560
Speaker 1: Sorry, my bucket hats are taking much longer than expected.

1177
00:57:32,960 --> 00:57:35,880
Speaker 1: My machine has broken and is currently in for repairs.

1178
00:57:36,400 --> 00:57:39,280
Speaker 1: Hopefully won't be much longer before it's back in action.

1179
00:57:40,560 --> 00:57:42,840
Speaker 3: Don't worry, we'll be here. We are. We will be

1180
00:57:42,880 --> 00:57:45,120
Speaker 3: here for your bucket hat. Also, uh uh.

1181
00:57:48,640 --> 00:57:57,880
Speaker 4: Yeah all right okay, yes, next one after that is Stephanie.

1182
00:57:57,920 --> 00:58:01,000
Speaker 4: Thanks for the five bucks. Made it a month many

1183
00:58:01,040 --> 00:58:05,440
Speaker 4: more to go. Here's too many more. Stephanie most definitely

1184
00:58:06,080 --> 00:58:07,959
Speaker 4: and up at the top.

1185
00:58:09,720 --> 00:58:13,360
Speaker 3: You know her, you love her. She's always in the

1186
00:58:13,440 --> 00:58:14,960
Speaker 3: chat dropping.

1187
00:58:16,360 --> 00:58:22,080
Speaker 4: She's a silent fifty piece, just a sh oh.

1188
00:58:22,360 --> 00:58:24,360
Speaker 1: They can make their jaw pop way harder than me.

1189
00:58:24,440 --> 00:58:34,120
Speaker 1: But thank you, Hannah. We always love you being here.

1190
00:58:35,640 --> 00:58:39,640
Speaker 1: And maybe one day Hannah will well, no, that'd be it.

1191
00:58:39,680 --> 00:58:42,400
Speaker 1: I'd be exaggerating if I said Hannah never wrote anything

1192
00:58:42,440 --> 00:58:45,080
Speaker 1: in her donations. But it is so funny that just

1193
00:58:45,200 --> 00:58:47,600
Speaker 1: it's it's the tradition at this point, just drops the

1194
00:58:47,640 --> 00:58:51,440
Speaker 1: donations so great, wordless silence.

1195
00:58:52,080 --> 00:58:54,840
Speaker 4: Sushes in the chat, and let's check out. I think

1196
00:58:54,880 --> 00:58:57,240
Speaker 4: we're all caught up in link. Let's look at the.

1197
00:58:57,200 --> 00:59:00,320
Speaker 2: Super chat you Stephanie. Yes, yes, cool?

1198
00:59:01,040 --> 00:59:04,080
Speaker 3: Oh I keep twitching. Need more magnesium.

1199
00:59:04,280 --> 00:59:06,360
Speaker 2: I don't think that's okay. Maybe it was gonna say

1200
00:59:06,360 --> 00:59:08,840
Speaker 2: it's from the the fire.

1201
00:59:09,480 --> 00:59:13,800
Speaker 3: No, it's my magnesium. Okay, yes, sorry? Can you can

1202
00:59:13,840 --> 00:59:16,840
Speaker 3: you make it larger? Can you make it larger? Sir?

1203
00:59:17,000 --> 00:59:18,000
Speaker 3: I can't read it.

1204
00:59:20,120 --> 00:59:24,280
Speaker 1: Stella bogefelt. Thank you for being a member for six months. Hey, guys,

1205
00:59:24,760 --> 00:59:27,840
Speaker 1: don't turn on the AC. You can drag the smoke

1206
00:59:27,880 --> 00:59:28,760
Speaker 1: inside your house.

1207
00:59:28,760 --> 00:59:30,440
Speaker 3: We're about to get conflicting advice.

1208
00:59:30,400 --> 00:59:33,440
Speaker 4: And keon, you can rinse your eyes to remove the irritation.

1209
00:59:33,920 --> 00:59:37,320
Speaker 4: Love from Denmark, did it? Thank you Stella, go rinse

1210
00:59:37,360 --> 00:59:40,720
Speaker 4: your eyes. I do you dirty, you dirty boy with

1211
00:59:40,760 --> 00:59:44,520
Speaker 4: your dirty eyes, dirty dirty boy.

1212
00:59:44,280 --> 00:59:46,200
Speaker 3: Dirt stop.

1213
00:59:50,360 --> 00:59:50,640
Speaker 4: S J.

1214
00:59:51,040 --> 00:59:52,120
Speaker 3: Thanks for the two bucks.

1215
00:59:52,560 --> 00:59:55,360
Speaker 1: Turn on your h VACK or turn your h VACK

1216
00:59:55,440 --> 00:59:57,480
Speaker 1: fan on because it has an air filter.

1217
00:59:57,560 --> 01:00:01,400
Speaker 3: Do we have an HVAC it's central. Yeah, I don't

1218
01:00:01,400 --> 01:00:02,600
Speaker 3: know if that's what that means.

1219
01:00:02,640 --> 01:00:06,080
Speaker 4: It's like, well, it's like heating ventilation air conditioning.

1220
01:00:06,680 --> 01:00:09,800
Speaker 3: Is that? Is that what it stands for? Heating ventilation

1221
01:00:10,040 --> 01:00:10,800
Speaker 3: air conditioning?

1222
01:00:11,040 --> 01:00:14,560
Speaker 4: It's like something's no way the HV stands does There's

1223
01:00:14,720 --> 01:00:15,640
Speaker 4: no way google it.

1224
01:00:16,200 --> 01:00:17,760
Speaker 3: It's gotta be like high volume.

1225
01:00:18,120 --> 01:00:20,960
Speaker 4: No, no, no, it's it's like heat heating ventilation air conditioning.

1226
01:00:20,960 --> 01:00:23,920
Speaker 4: It's it's it's the the air a C like unit

1227
01:00:24,240 --> 01:00:29,720
Speaker 4: air stuff. They're just you'll see, you'll freaking see feel

1228
01:00:29,760 --> 01:00:31,120
Speaker 4: like for the I don't know what it's.

1229
01:00:32,720 --> 01:00:38,080
Speaker 3: I think it's Google. We need a acronym that sounds smart.

1230
01:00:38,080 --> 01:00:38,440
Speaker 3: What do we do?

1231
01:00:38,480 --> 01:00:40,640
Speaker 1: I don't know, just put like two aspects of air

1232
01:00:40,640 --> 01:00:43,560
Speaker 1: conditioning in there that's right, Stone Cold.

1233
01:00:43,400 --> 01:00:45,320
Speaker 3: Jackal, thanks for being a member for nine months. You

1234
01:00:45,360 --> 01:00:46,240
Speaker 3: guys are awesome.

1235
01:00:46,520 --> 01:00:48,920
Speaker 1: I hope I'll still be watching you guys when we're

1236
01:00:48,960 --> 01:00:52,800
Speaker 1: all all old and wrinkly blasting eminem and in the

1237
01:00:52,880 --> 01:00:53,400
Speaker 1: nursing home.

1238
01:00:53,440 --> 01:00:55,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're playing Super Smash Bros And all that stuff.

1239
01:00:55,840 --> 01:00:56,840
Speaker 3: That would be so great.

1240
01:00:57,040 --> 01:01:01,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're gonna be watching that. It be great. Let's

1241
01:01:01,600 --> 01:01:05,040
Speaker 2: go h VAX stands for heating, ventilation and air conditioning.

1242
01:01:07,400 --> 01:01:12,959
Speaker 3: That's crazy. He gets rested, rested like a good cut

1243
01:01:12,960 --> 01:01:18,600
Speaker 3: of meat. And there's hey Addie, Eddie remember for two months,

1244
01:01:19,040 --> 01:01:21,880
Speaker 3: just sent the birthday Eve picture. In general, chat on

1245
01:01:22,440 --> 01:01:24,040
Speaker 3: the okay storytime.

1246
01:01:23,600 --> 01:01:26,840
Speaker 4: With before we get next to wow, which we should

1247
01:01:26,840 --> 01:01:30,000
Speaker 4: look at Let's should be okay, I'll read these firsts

1248
01:01:30,000 --> 01:01:30,880
Speaker 4: and then we'll look at it.

1249
01:01:30,920 --> 01:01:34,560
Speaker 3: Fine. Winter ninety six girl, thanks for the five Okay

1250
01:01:34,560 --> 01:01:35,680
Speaker 3: Storytime memberships.

1251
01:01:36,040 --> 01:01:40,960
Speaker 4: You have grown the family five hole babies. Ashley, Welcome

1252
01:01:41,000 --> 01:01:43,640
Speaker 4: to the Knights. We are glad that you and your

1253
01:01:43,640 --> 01:01:44,440
Speaker 4: giraffe are here.

1254
01:01:45,880 --> 01:01:49,480
Speaker 3: Josephine and medelo Bergqueest, thank you for the twenties Eve

1255
01:01:49,520 --> 01:01:53,960
Speaker 3: and see the scroll in ther uh what you scrolled away?

1256
01:01:54,200 --> 01:01:55,400
Speaker 3: She may be black.

1257
01:01:55,160 --> 01:01:59,840
Speaker 4: Belt but I'll give her real black child.

1258
01:02:00,120 --> 01:02:00,919
Speaker 2: Don't get that back.

1259
01:02:00,960 --> 01:02:05,040
Speaker 1: Sorry, I I I accidentally punched the bike stand Avon Russell,

1260
01:02:05,160 --> 01:02:08,840
Speaker 1: Welcome to the Nights and snow Fails.

1261
01:02:10,880 --> 01:02:12,720
Speaker 3: I'm gonna say that was the right way to pronounce that.

1262
01:02:12,840 --> 01:02:13,800
Speaker 3: Those are the five Bucks.

1263
01:02:13,960 --> 01:02:16,520
Speaker 4: Usually have to listen to old shows form my Jim Sashes.

1264
01:02:16,640 --> 01:02:18,480
Speaker 4: Seems like I get the luxury of a live show

1265
01:02:18,520 --> 01:02:22,760
Speaker 4: to motivate me. That's right, So work harder. Whatever weight

1266
01:02:22,800 --> 01:02:24,840
Speaker 4: you're lifting right now, it's nothing.

1267
01:02:25,800 --> 01:02:29,640
Speaker 3: You can lift even more. Go but don't worry yourself,

1268
01:02:29,880 --> 01:02:33,439
Speaker 3: but go lift heavy. All right. Now, let's see let's

1269
01:02:33,440 --> 01:02:36,280
Speaker 3: see Eddie's birthday Eve picture.

1270
01:02:36,800 --> 01:02:39,000
Speaker 2: Trying to find it in general right now, Oh there

1271
01:02:39,000 --> 01:02:39,320
Speaker 2: it is.

1272
01:02:39,560 --> 01:02:47,320
Speaker 3: Yayatient is billy. Anticipation is crushing me.

1273
01:02:49,840 --> 01:02:52,120
Speaker 2: And get I'm gonna try and get it on Cyberg.

1274
01:02:53,240 --> 01:02:54,040
Speaker 2: Or should should I?

1275
01:02:54,280 --> 01:02:56,600
Speaker 3: Or now? Yeah, if we can all right, I geat

1276
01:02:56,640 --> 01:02:57,160
Speaker 3: I'm guessing.

1277
01:02:57,280 --> 01:02:59,160
Speaker 2: Or should we have everyone? Should we just promote discord

1278
01:02:59,160 --> 01:02:59,400
Speaker 2: and everyone?

1279
01:02:59,440 --> 01:03:02,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know what, everyone hoping the discord. Everyone hopp

1280
01:03:02,160 --> 01:03:05,320
Speaker 3: in the discord and just posted a super cute picture.

1281
01:03:05,360 --> 01:03:08,920
Speaker 4: So like, look at it that I am at peace

1282
01:03:09,000 --> 01:03:14,520
Speaker 4: and I am right right, that's that's that's not a house.

1283
01:03:14,560 --> 01:03:16,960
Speaker 4: It's a home, dude. And he and he looks at home.

1284
01:03:17,120 --> 01:03:19,600
Speaker 4: That's that's that's the facial expression I'm getting from.

1285
01:03:19,800 --> 01:03:22,120
Speaker 3: You need your crown, dude, you're looking like a real king.

1286
01:03:22,200 --> 01:03:23,560
Speaker 3: Pick it up, Pick it up for him.

1287
01:03:24,000 --> 01:03:26,240
Speaker 2: Let me see king, try and put.

1288
01:03:26,160 --> 01:03:28,280
Speaker 3: It over here. We're gonna try.

1289
01:03:28,360 --> 01:03:30,560
Speaker 2: Baby, while we're doing that. To Kelly, you want you

1290
01:03:30,560 --> 01:03:31,240
Speaker 2: want to share.

1291
01:03:31,080 --> 01:03:32,680
Speaker 3: Something I do.

1292
01:03:32,800 --> 01:03:34,680
Speaker 1: I just we had the exact same thought at the

1293
01:03:34,720 --> 01:03:36,600
Speaker 1: exact same time. So key on, I got key on

1294
01:03:36,680 --> 01:03:42,680
Speaker 1: a gift for Christmas. And here before you, before you show,

1295
01:03:43,120 --> 01:03:44,960
Speaker 1: I'll show the rough outline of it.

1296
01:03:45,360 --> 01:03:48,880
Speaker 3: What is it? What is that? Oh?

1297
01:03:48,960 --> 01:03:51,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, see look at him, Folks, tell me that's not

1298
01:03:51,760 --> 01:03:53,200
Speaker 1: a king with his queen.

1299
01:03:53,280 --> 01:03:55,760
Speaker 4: That's a king with his queen. That's home. That's home

1300
01:03:55,840 --> 01:03:59,919
Speaker 4: right at that. There we go, ladies and gentlemen, Happy berth,

1301
01:04:00,120 --> 01:04:04,040
Speaker 4: pray dispa. Yeah, wish him happy birthday. Yeah, that's a birthday.

1302
01:04:04,080 --> 01:04:07,280
Speaker 4: That's I'm the man on my birthday birthday.

1303
01:04:07,560 --> 01:04:12,520
Speaker 3: I love it. I freaking love it. Okay, all right.

1304
01:04:12,640 --> 01:04:16,560
Speaker 1: Oh dude, snow just added five more pounds, add five more,

1305
01:04:17,400 --> 01:04:18,200
Speaker 1: five more top.

1306
01:04:18,640 --> 01:04:21,200
Speaker 2: We'll do five reps first with the five pounds and then.

1307
01:04:21,080 --> 01:04:27,240
Speaker 1: Do Yeah, I'm not a licensed uh trainer. Yeah, my

1308
01:04:27,360 --> 01:04:28,640
Speaker 1: advice may not be good.

1309
01:04:29,320 --> 01:04:33,080
Speaker 3: Okay, So any bigger, bigger Kean has a gift and

1310
01:04:33,080 --> 01:04:33,920
Speaker 3: it's in my hand.

1311
01:04:34,760 --> 01:04:39,400
Speaker 1: And I like getting little knickknacks that are almost worthless.

1312
01:04:38,800 --> 01:04:40,680
Speaker 3: For all my friends.

1313
01:04:41,240 --> 01:04:43,400
Speaker 1: And I saw this in a good will and I

1314
01:04:43,480 --> 01:04:45,200
Speaker 1: knew it had to belong to him.

1315
01:04:45,400 --> 01:04:51,880
Speaker 3: You ready to cut closer? Okay, we got there there

1316
01:04:51,920 --> 01:04:54,840
Speaker 3: on the other side. What does it say?

1317
01:04:54,920 --> 01:04:56,480
Speaker 2: It's just a little.

1318
01:04:56,400 --> 01:04:59,920
Speaker 1: Jungle house in a glass that says Philippines on.

1319
01:05:00,760 --> 01:05:04,800
Speaker 2: He found us in a good will in Saint Louis.

1320
01:05:04,920 --> 01:05:07,880
Speaker 3: Literally dead, I am literally you know.

1321
01:05:07,920 --> 01:05:10,840
Speaker 2: It's really funny. His mom is the one who found it.

1322
01:05:11,000 --> 01:05:13,160
Speaker 1: My mom was the one who found it and was like,

1323
01:05:13,280 --> 01:05:15,680
Speaker 1: he love this, and I was like, dang.

1324
01:05:15,480 --> 01:05:17,400
Speaker 3: It, Yeah, I would have thought the same thing.

1325
01:05:17,560 --> 01:05:20,480
Speaker 1: I should have found it first. But so it's technically

1326
01:05:20,480 --> 01:05:22,800
Speaker 1: an assist from both my mom and.

1327
01:05:22,760 --> 01:05:26,000
Speaker 2: I'll take it from the pains and yeah, it's so

1328
01:05:26,240 --> 01:05:26,520
Speaker 2: key on.

1329
01:05:26,600 --> 01:05:28,800
Speaker 1: We lived together now and if and if you ever

1330
01:05:28,880 --> 01:05:30,880
Speaker 1: need another place to say, you can just live in

1331
01:05:30,880 --> 01:05:31,520
Speaker 1: this little house.

1332
01:05:31,920 --> 01:05:33,320
Speaker 2: Oh no, I'd rather live with you.

1333
01:05:33,480 --> 01:05:35,680
Speaker 3: I'll shrink you down and I'll put you in my pocket.

1334
01:05:35,760 --> 01:05:38,280
Speaker 3: Yeah you shrink, You can shrink wherever I go.

1335
01:05:38,520 --> 01:05:41,160
Speaker 2: You don't even need to shrink me. I'm already that here.

1336
01:05:41,480 --> 01:05:47,120
Speaker 3: Quick, buddy, hopp Hoppin' gotta get the c GI animators in.

1337
01:05:47,440 --> 01:05:49,640
Speaker 4: But when he when he showed it to me, I

1338
01:05:49,800 --> 01:05:54,360
Speaker 4: was like, where did you find that? I was like,

1339
01:05:54,840 --> 01:05:56,960
Speaker 4: there's a story to that. But I was like, oh,

1340
01:05:57,160 --> 01:05:57,840
Speaker 4: that's real, sweet.

1341
01:05:58,440 --> 01:06:00,360
Speaker 3: I built it with my bare hands. I want to

1342
01:06:00,400 --> 01:06:02,560
Speaker 3: know what the materials in here are, Like.

1343
01:06:02,760 --> 01:06:05,920
Speaker 2: What sand and like shells and like.

1344
01:06:07,400 --> 01:06:10,680
Speaker 4: Chat disact, please please let us know? What is the

1345
01:06:10,920 --> 01:06:12,120
Speaker 4: roof made out of paper?

1346
01:06:13,440 --> 01:06:14,320
Speaker 3: Chat is all the answers?

1347
01:06:14,960 --> 01:06:20,520
Speaker 2: What is your roof made out of cardboard? Emotional?

1348
01:06:20,600 --> 01:06:22,880
Speaker 3: Damnit? And there are you said there's houses that actually

1349
01:06:22,880 --> 01:06:23,720
Speaker 3: there's a lot of houses there.

1350
01:06:23,840 --> 01:06:25,760
Speaker 2: There's a lot of houses. Look, that's like literally a

1351
01:06:25,800 --> 01:06:26,200
Speaker 2: beach house.

1352
01:06:26,240 --> 01:06:31,120
Speaker 3: These are beach houses in the Philippines. So I'm gonna

1353
01:06:31,120 --> 01:06:32,880
Speaker 3: put it there we go.

1354
01:06:33,440 --> 01:06:37,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, I do genuinely love that you that's so great.

1355
01:06:37,920 --> 01:06:39,840
Speaker 4: I kept I've been telling him ever since we got back.

1356
01:06:39,840 --> 01:06:43,120
Speaker 4: I'm like, you need to show the stream your house.

1357
01:06:45,600 --> 01:06:49,919
Speaker 3: It's just been in his car where you can admire it. Beat.

1358
01:06:50,240 --> 01:06:55,840
Speaker 2: Yes, but we have did Dakota called Kean Pokemon? Did

1359
01:06:55,920 --> 01:06:57,600
Speaker 2: you yeah? Kind of?

1360
01:06:57,680 --> 01:06:59,000
Speaker 3: I was like, you can. I can just take you

1361
01:06:59,040 --> 01:07:01,480
Speaker 3: wherever I go and you can be my pocket. You

1362
01:07:01,600 --> 01:07:03,720
Speaker 3: can live in my pocket, little boy?

1363
01:07:04,040 --> 01:07:04,240
Speaker 4: True?

1364
01:07:06,600 --> 01:07:10,000
Speaker 3: Who run? And to be clear, I was talking to

1365
01:07:10,120 --> 01:07:12,840
Speaker 3: an almost thirty year old man when I said that,

1366
01:07:13,360 --> 01:07:16,880
Speaker 3: why are you You're just throwing? You just throw?

1367
01:07:16,960 --> 01:07:17,160
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1368
01:07:17,560 --> 01:07:17,600
Speaker 4: What?

1369
01:07:18,360 --> 01:07:20,560
Speaker 1: I just wanted to make sure that it's not no one,

1370
01:07:20,960 --> 01:07:24,800
Speaker 1: no little boys. This is like that scene from It's

1371
01:07:24,840 --> 01:07:28,040
Speaker 1: Always Funny Sunny in Philadelphia. Freak's like, we need to

1372
01:07:28,160 --> 01:07:30,480
Speaker 1: change the saw, can't.

1373
01:07:30,680 --> 01:07:31,480
Speaker 3: We're talking after us?

1374
01:07:32,520 --> 01:07:32,720
Speaker 4: Oh?

1375
01:07:33,320 --> 01:07:36,480
Speaker 2: Yes, Dakota's on fire today, my pollypock, just like the

1376
01:07:36,520 --> 01:07:37,760
Speaker 2: Pacific Palace. It's over there.

1377
01:07:38,000 --> 01:07:41,400
Speaker 3: Hey yo, all right, boys and girls are already get

1378
01:07:41,440 --> 01:07:42,840
Speaker 3: to the next fire story.

1379
01:07:43,480 --> 01:07:47,160
Speaker 2: I don't think we should be keep saying fire, True, John,

1380
01:07:47,200 --> 01:07:50,960
Speaker 2: you have I defended, right, my I defended Yes? All right?

1381
01:07:51,000 --> 01:07:53,000
Speaker 2: Are you ready? We are?

1382
01:07:53,160 --> 01:07:54,840
Speaker 4: We got some donations, but we'll read it after this.

1383
01:07:55,000 --> 01:07:56,960
Speaker 4: That's right, We'll get to it very soon, I promise.

1384
01:07:57,360 --> 01:07:58,160
Speaker 3: All right. Were you ready?

1385
01:07:58,320 --> 01:07:58,640
Speaker 2: Yes, sir?

1386
01:07:59,320 --> 01:08:02,520
Speaker 3: I defended my fiance against my future mother in law

1387
01:08:02,880 --> 01:08:05,520
Speaker 3: because she is manipulative. Look at her pulling all of

1388
01:08:05,600 --> 01:08:06,360
Speaker 3: these strings.

1389
01:08:06,400 --> 01:08:09,160
Speaker 4: I see you, mother in law. Ooh, Hi, my name

1390
01:08:09,240 --> 01:08:12,920
Speaker 4: is Kat and I'm thirty years old, not me, Kate. Hi,

1391
01:08:13,160 --> 01:08:15,240
Speaker 4: my name is Kate and I'm thirty years old. My

1392
01:08:15,440 --> 01:08:18,160
Speaker 4: fiance thirty has a mother who is becoming more and

1393
01:08:18,320 --> 01:08:21,639
Speaker 4: more unbearable by the way. This comes from Kate Rosewood

1394
01:08:21,720 --> 01:08:22,599
Speaker 4: on the r slash.

1395
01:08:22,439 --> 01:08:23,400
Speaker 3: Okay Storytime Supper.

1396
01:08:23,840 --> 01:08:25,760
Speaker 4: So I wanted to ask credit users if I'm so

1397
01:08:26,120 --> 01:08:30,439
Speaker 4: terrible for defending myself and my partner. The situation is

1398
01:08:30,560 --> 01:08:33,200
Speaker 4: like this, and I apologize for any mistakes. English is

1399
01:08:33,280 --> 01:08:36,040
Speaker 4: not my native language. Before Christmas, about a month ago,

1400
01:08:36,200 --> 01:08:38,240
Speaker 4: we called his mother to see if she wanted to

1401
01:08:38,320 --> 01:08:41,800
Speaker 4: come with her husband for Christmas. His mother is sixty

1402
01:08:41,920 --> 01:08:44,400
Speaker 4: years old this year, and that's when they told us

1403
01:08:44,520 --> 01:08:47,519
Speaker 4: they couldn't that they'd arranged with her ex husband to

1404
01:08:47,680 --> 01:08:51,040
Speaker 4: visit him. Yes, I know how strange it sounds. She

1405
01:08:51,200 --> 01:08:54,400
Speaker 4: and her husband are best friends with her ex husband.

1406
01:08:55,640 --> 01:08:59,320
Speaker 4: Were they like best friends, like in a strictly platonic sense,

1407
01:09:00,120 --> 01:09:02,120
Speaker 4: friends with benefits? Oh?

1408
01:09:03,120 --> 01:09:04,439
Speaker 2: Sounds tonically official.

1409
01:09:06,960 --> 01:09:09,920
Speaker 4: Well, after a week we called them again to see

1410
01:09:09,960 --> 01:09:11,960
Speaker 4: if they wanted to come, at least for coffee in

1411
01:09:12,040 --> 01:09:15,519
Speaker 4: the afternoon, especially since her ex husband lives two doors

1412
01:09:15,640 --> 01:09:17,360
Speaker 4: down in the block of flats next with us.

1413
01:09:17,400 --> 01:09:20,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, they're literally right wire, Like, why not just drop by?

1414
01:09:21,120 --> 01:09:25,160
Speaker 3: This is like a sitcom right now, it's crazy. Last

1415
01:09:25,160 --> 01:09:26,040
Speaker 3: week she called us.

1416
01:09:26,000 --> 01:09:28,759
Speaker 4: Again that we were going on a trip to see family,

1417
01:09:29,000 --> 01:09:31,639
Speaker 4: to see my family there on Saturday morning and back

1418
01:09:32,040 --> 01:09:35,160
Speaker 4: on Sunday early evening. The conversation on the phone was

1419
01:09:35,200 --> 01:09:38,839
Speaker 4: exceptionally pleasant, and we ended it saying that after Christmas

1420
01:09:38,920 --> 01:09:41,479
Speaker 4: we would visit her and give her birthday presents or

1421
01:09:41,600 --> 01:09:44,000
Speaker 4: go to her ex husband's home and wish her a

1422
01:09:44,080 --> 01:09:44,920
Speaker 4: happy birthday there.

1423
01:09:45,880 --> 01:09:47,000
Speaker 3: Now, after an hour.

1424
01:09:46,880 --> 01:09:49,720
Speaker 4: From the end of the call, her husband texted my

1425
01:09:49,840 --> 01:09:54,880
Speaker 4: fiance something like this, how can you allow yourself to

1426
01:09:54,960 --> 01:09:59,360
Speaker 4: treat your mother like this? You're crazy? You treat her

1427
01:09:59,520 --> 01:10:03,240
Speaker 4: terribly and she's supposed to be sixty. We're not at

1428
01:10:03,280 --> 01:10:06,320
Speaker 4: home for you, So don't call us and don't visit us.

1429
01:10:08,280 --> 01:10:13,920
Speaker 4: Oh oh, I don't. I don't understand.

1430
01:10:14,040 --> 01:10:15,439
Speaker 3: That is a pretty That was a pretty Uh.

1431
01:10:15,880 --> 01:10:18,200
Speaker 2: I didn't say something. John is like, you have like

1432
01:10:18,320 --> 01:10:20,000
Speaker 2: little hiccups and it's really cute.

1433
01:10:20,640 --> 01:10:22,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, I still have a lot of bubbles.

1434
01:10:22,880 --> 01:10:24,800
Speaker 2: I was like, you got bubble hiccups you a little,

1435
01:10:24,800 --> 01:10:25,840
Speaker 2: but you don't need to notice.

1436
01:10:26,040 --> 01:10:26,519
Speaker 3: I didn't.

1437
01:10:26,840 --> 01:10:27,720
Speaker 2: Oh I noticed, John.

1438
01:10:27,840 --> 01:10:30,000
Speaker 3: He's got bubble hiccups. I've got eyeball twitches.

1439
01:10:30,200 --> 01:10:32,479
Speaker 4: I'm literally foaming at the mouth, but I'm doing a

1440
01:10:32,520 --> 01:10:34,880
Speaker 4: good job. That's probably good to get all the soap out.

1441
01:10:34,960 --> 01:10:37,439
Speaker 4: You gotta talk that soap out of here. Talk about

1442
01:10:37,600 --> 01:10:39,599
Speaker 4: talk to bubbles, John.

1443
01:10:39,479 --> 01:10:40,160
Speaker 3: It's really cute.

1444
01:10:41,200 --> 01:10:45,840
Speaker 4: I want to I want to hug you, but I'm

1445
01:10:45,840 --> 01:10:51,080
Speaker 4: gonna hug this next sentence instead. My fiance wanted to

1446
01:10:51,160 --> 01:10:53,800
Speaker 4: reply to this insane message. I threw insane in there.

1447
01:10:53,840 --> 01:10:56,840
Speaker 4: I'm sorry uh to her husband, but before he could,

1448
01:10:57,320 --> 01:11:00,880
Speaker 4: my mother's husband blocked him on Facebook where he wrote

1449
01:11:00,920 --> 01:11:03,800
Speaker 4: that to him. We immediately called him and wanted to

1450
01:11:03,920 --> 01:11:08,439
Speaker 4: ask what was going on. Instead, he picked it up

1451
01:11:08,560 --> 01:11:12,320
Speaker 4: and immediately put it down. Dude, what the immediate hang up?

1452
01:11:12,760 --> 01:11:14,200
Speaker 3: What happened? Something happened?

1453
01:11:14,200 --> 01:11:14,360
Speaker 4: Why?

1454
01:11:14,640 --> 01:11:16,400
Speaker 3: Why does this guy have the beef?

1455
01:11:16,920 --> 01:11:18,840
Speaker 4: They're like, oh, hey, we want to see you. Wish

1456
01:11:18,880 --> 01:11:22,360
Speaker 4: you had merry Christmas. He's like, how freaking dare you?

1457
01:11:22,840 --> 01:11:26,439
Speaker 3: We are not here some of beer. We're not here

1458
01:11:26,600 --> 01:11:27,040
Speaker 3: to see you.

1459
01:11:28,320 --> 01:11:31,080
Speaker 4: You may be here to see us, but we would

1460
01:11:31,120 --> 01:11:33,800
Speaker 4: not be making eye contact, like, Okay.

1461
01:11:33,840 --> 01:11:37,680
Speaker 2: God, we're gonna need a quick two things, John, Yes,

1462
01:11:37,760 --> 01:11:39,360
Speaker 2: we're getting a lot of people joining on the story,

1463
01:11:39,560 --> 01:11:41,280
Speaker 2: so we're gonna need a quick till d are where

1464
01:11:41,320 --> 01:11:41,599
Speaker 2: we're at.

1465
01:11:41,640 --> 01:11:42,400
Speaker 3: I know it's very quick.

1466
01:11:42,479 --> 01:11:44,639
Speaker 2: And then also an update on the soap on why

1467
01:11:44,760 --> 01:11:45,360
Speaker 2: you have soap?

1468
01:11:45,439 --> 01:11:49,680
Speaker 4: Indeed, till the end of the story, basically Opie and

1469
01:11:49,760 --> 01:11:52,559
Speaker 4: their significant other we're trying to organize seeing the in laws,

1470
01:11:54,560 --> 01:11:58,720
Speaker 4: and out of nowhere, the uh father in law I

1471
01:11:58,800 --> 01:12:00,759
Speaker 4: believe the step father in law because like the newly

1472
01:12:00,960 --> 01:12:05,080
Speaker 4: like more newly married husband to the to the to

1473
01:12:05,160 --> 01:12:08,080
Speaker 4: the mother in law, to the mom just freaked out

1474
01:12:08,160 --> 01:12:10,400
Speaker 4: and was like, how dare you guys try to like

1475
01:12:10,680 --> 01:12:12,200
Speaker 4: contact us and see us and all this sudden they

1476
01:12:12,200 --> 01:12:15,559
Speaker 4: were like we're just like around and it's and it's

1477
01:12:15,600 --> 01:12:17,479
Speaker 4: and it's Christmas and we just wanted to say ah,

1478
01:12:18,080 --> 01:12:21,120
Speaker 4: like like what uh. And the TLDR on the soap

1479
01:12:21,160 --> 01:12:25,160
Speaker 4: situation is I drank some soap. Yeah, for the second time,

1480
01:12:25,880 --> 01:12:28,519
Speaker 4: and it's not the first time. That's basically that's basically

1481
01:12:28,640 --> 01:12:30,920
Speaker 4: so I have Soapi's he's.

1482
01:12:30,800 --> 01:12:34,120
Speaker 1: Got the sons, folks, He's drank enough soap in his

1483
01:12:34,240 --> 01:12:37,280
Speaker 1: life to have a nickname for when he accidentally dranks soap.

1484
01:12:37,439 --> 01:12:40,240
Speaker 4: I'm a professional, he's got the soapies. Yeah, I'm not

1485
01:12:40,320 --> 01:12:42,920
Speaker 4: one of these tide pod punks. Okay, I real stuff,

1486
01:12:43,400 --> 01:12:48,920
Speaker 4: okay back in my day. But anyways, uh Opie says,

1487
01:12:49,120 --> 01:12:51,479
Speaker 4: we let the situation calm down. I thought it would

1488
01:12:51,520 --> 01:12:54,519
Speaker 4: calm down like all these manipulative episodes of hers. Okay,

1489
01:12:54,560 --> 01:12:56,679
Speaker 4: so I guess this is where it's coming from. Instead,

1490
01:12:56,840 --> 01:12:59,600
Speaker 4: a few days later, she wrote this, in short, I

1491
01:12:59,640 --> 01:13:03,439
Speaker 4: don't I don't want any handouts and a loving play. Okay,

1492
01:13:03,920 --> 01:13:06,599
Speaker 4: we live twenty minutes from you, but you don't come,

1493
01:13:07,000 --> 01:13:09,559
Speaker 4: and if you do, you rush back home and only

1494
01:13:09,640 --> 01:13:12,519
Speaker 4: stay for a while, and the and that you need

1495
01:13:12,600 --> 01:13:13,719
Speaker 4: to rest after work.

1496
01:13:14,320 --> 01:13:16,840
Speaker 3: I won't be here forever. And do you act like this?

1497
01:13:17,439 --> 01:13:20,800
Speaker 4: You are a snob and behave terribly. You said to

1498
01:13:20,880 --> 01:13:24,559
Speaker 4: yourself that you have a new family, so don't bother.

1499
01:13:25,360 --> 01:13:27,840
Speaker 2: Wow, Sorry, Jad, you just didn't get enough contact from

1500
01:13:27,840 --> 01:13:28,240
Speaker 2: the soap.

1501
01:13:28,320 --> 01:13:30,280
Speaker 3: So everyone's perfect.

1502
01:13:30,600 --> 01:13:33,120
Speaker 4: Everyone's like, what's your flavor for your favorite flavor of

1503
01:13:33,240 --> 01:13:34,720
Speaker 4: so waffle Bucket.

1504
01:13:34,520 --> 01:13:38,320
Speaker 3: Says, chugging soap for doctor Phil. Okay, I'll give you

1505
01:13:38,360 --> 01:13:39,040
Speaker 3: the fullersh story.

1506
01:13:40,560 --> 01:13:44,000
Speaker 4: So basically like two years ago, me and Sam did

1507
01:13:44,040 --> 01:13:45,880
Speaker 4: this six s Amazon Doctor Phil if you didn't know,

1508
01:13:46,240 --> 01:13:48,400
Speaker 4: and then uh they had us do these like Man

1509
01:13:48,479 --> 01:13:50,879
Speaker 4: on the Street videos and I'm just making a smoothie.

1510
01:13:51,040 --> 01:13:52,800
Speaker 3: I poured the soap in thinking I was gonna rinse

1511
01:13:52,840 --> 01:13:54,240
Speaker 3: it out. I forgot this soap was in there.

1512
01:13:54,320 --> 01:13:57,680
Speaker 4: Whoop, threw it back, and then I had a lot

1513
01:13:57,720 --> 01:14:01,960
Speaker 4: of soapies, and then I had to I had to progressively,

1514
01:14:02,280 --> 01:14:05,160
Speaker 4: you know, talk tua the soap out until.

1515
01:14:05,320 --> 01:14:08,960
Speaker 3: Whoa, whoa whoa no free sponsors, job pre sponsors.

1516
01:14:09,600 --> 01:14:09,720
Speaker 2: Uh.

1517
01:14:10,080 --> 01:14:12,240
Speaker 3: So that was the first time so I was prepared.

1518
01:14:12,640 --> 01:14:14,719
Speaker 4: This morning, I thought I was cleaning out my little

1519
01:14:14,760 --> 01:14:18,919
Speaker 4: lattic up, uh, you know, like like one does. Apparently

1520
01:14:18,960 --> 01:14:21,960
Speaker 4: I put on too much soap. So I lathered this

1521
01:14:22,000 --> 01:14:24,560
Speaker 4: thing down with soap and I was drinking it. And

1522
01:14:24,640 --> 01:14:26,519
Speaker 4: I've been having throat problems. I'm I'm, I'm on a

1523
01:14:26,560 --> 01:14:28,080
Speaker 4: little bike. I'm like, man, I really need to get

1524
01:14:28,120 --> 01:14:30,439
Speaker 4: my my my throat checked out. And then I'm like,

1525
01:14:31,040 --> 01:14:33,880
Speaker 4: oh no, this isn't this isn't the regular throat problems.

1526
01:14:33,960 --> 01:14:36,960
Speaker 4: There's there's something I know this feeling. I know this feeling,

1527
01:14:37,000 --> 01:14:42,720
Speaker 4: I know this distinct taste and I started, you know, regurgitating,

1528
01:14:44,520 --> 01:14:46,439
Speaker 4: and I was like, oh, yeah, this is it. So

1529
01:14:46,680 --> 01:14:49,680
Speaker 4: I immediately biked home and I got on my the

1530
01:14:49,760 --> 01:14:52,320
Speaker 4: soapy routine, which is you just get the soap out.

1531
01:14:52,479 --> 01:14:56,439
Speaker 3: You just got to keep drink a little, out, a little.

1532
01:14:57,840 --> 01:15:00,759
Speaker 3: My favorite is here in spaghetti goes. John keeps creating

1533
01:15:01,000 --> 01:15:01,759
Speaker 3: more questions.

1534
01:15:01,840 --> 01:15:07,880
Speaker 4: Listen, we drink so something, it happens, it happens. So anyway,

1535
01:15:07,880 --> 01:15:09,000
Speaker 4: that's gonna be your new emoji.

1536
01:15:09,120 --> 01:15:12,240
Speaker 3: Now that's I guess. I guess the orange soap soap.

1537
01:15:14,000 --> 01:15:16,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, they got mad orange scented soap. So anyways, that's

1538
01:15:16,240 --> 01:15:19,519
Speaker 4: the full story. Hopefully, hopefully everyone feels caught up. That's

1539
01:15:19,560 --> 01:15:22,200
Speaker 4: the orange soap is the best soap, like orange cats

1540
01:15:22,240 --> 01:15:23,000
Speaker 4: are the best cats.

1541
01:15:23,160 --> 01:15:26,719
Speaker 2: There we go, aren't orange cats usually male cats?

1542
01:15:27,720 --> 01:15:28,280
Speaker 3: I don't know know.

1543
01:15:28,439 --> 01:15:30,440
Speaker 2: I was told by a special.

1544
01:15:30,200 --> 01:15:35,160
Speaker 3: Someone, Oh I did, Let's get back to.

1545
01:15:37,040 --> 01:15:37,400
Speaker 2: Okay.

1546
01:15:38,640 --> 01:15:44,920
Speaker 4: So so we just read the insane must message from

1547
01:15:46,360 --> 01:15:48,280
Speaker 4: mom slash mother in law right, yes.

1548
01:15:48,960 --> 01:15:50,800
Speaker 1: And then and then the father in law was just

1549
01:15:50,880 --> 01:15:53,840
Speaker 1: like I mean, or the mother You're just like yeah,

1550
01:15:53,960 --> 01:15:56,559
Speaker 1: and you live twenty minutes away and when you come over,

1551
01:15:56,840 --> 01:15:58,679
Speaker 1: I don't feel like you even like it here.

1552
01:16:00,720 --> 01:16:05,360
Speaker 4: And it's like what okay, just so out of nowhere? Okay,

1553
01:16:05,880 --> 01:16:08,200
Speaker 4: so hope, he says, to put things in perspective. I

1554
01:16:08,320 --> 01:16:10,799
Speaker 4: am a teacher and my partner works twelve hour shifts

1555
01:16:10,840 --> 01:16:13,720
Speaker 4: at work. My fiance's mother still complains that we don't

1556
01:16:13,760 --> 01:16:16,960
Speaker 4: visit her enough. We visit my family four times a year,

1557
01:16:17,280 --> 01:16:21,360
Speaker 4: always for two to three days, but more frequent than

1558
01:16:21,400 --> 01:16:24,920
Speaker 4: some U there's no other way because of work. We

1559
01:16:25,000 --> 01:16:27,000
Speaker 4: go to his mother's house at least once a month

1560
01:16:27,800 --> 01:16:30,519
Speaker 4: during the summer break. This year, we visited their garden

1561
01:16:30,600 --> 01:16:33,360
Speaker 4: at least six times. His mother has health problems with

1562
01:16:33,439 --> 01:16:36,680
Speaker 4: her spine and is at risk of two surgeries. She

1563
01:16:36,880 --> 01:16:39,920
Speaker 4: was on drips and taking medication. I understand that she

1564
01:16:40,040 --> 01:16:43,599
Speaker 4: is worried about her health, but she is exaggerating. Every

1565
01:16:43,720 --> 01:16:46,360
Speaker 4: time we want to come to them, she starts making

1566
01:16:46,479 --> 01:16:51,479
Speaker 4: excuses for not coming. For example, don't drive, don't drive,

1567
01:16:51,680 --> 01:16:55,519
Speaker 4: Kate works works in education. What does that even mean?

1568
01:16:58,760 --> 01:17:02,439
Speaker 4: She works in education? He can't drive, husband works twelve

1569
01:17:02,479 --> 01:17:06,840
Speaker 4: hour shifts. Don't use the phone, don't call me, don't

1570
01:17:06,920 --> 01:17:08,559
Speaker 4: do it? But why don't you call me? And why

1571
01:17:08,600 --> 01:17:12,680
Speaker 4: don't you visit? Perfect logic? Perfect logic? These people do

1572
01:17:12,880 --> 01:17:17,000
Speaker 4: sound difficult at all. If he says children have germs,

1573
01:17:18,520 --> 01:17:19,479
Speaker 4: like that explains it.

1574
01:17:19,840 --> 01:17:22,680
Speaker 1: Oh dude, I forgot when all of the germs in

1575
01:17:22,760 --> 01:17:27,000
Speaker 1: my body left, and once I became an adult, I

1576
01:17:27,120 --> 01:17:28,120
Speaker 1: never got sick again.

1577
01:17:28,280 --> 01:17:30,400
Speaker 4: Well, because she teaches the kids, so the kids they

1578
01:17:30,439 --> 01:17:33,759
Speaker 4: give her the germs and she she drives them down anyway,

1579
01:17:33,880 --> 01:17:36,240
Speaker 4: which is why she's so childish. Yeah, because she still

1580
01:17:36,280 --> 01:17:39,920
Speaker 4: has germs. It's all like a child the full circle.

1581
01:17:41,160 --> 01:17:43,800
Speaker 4: Don't go, we're not well, don't go. You are on

1582
01:17:43,880 --> 01:17:46,040
Speaker 4: a trip in a bigger city, and you'll bring the

1583
01:17:46,120 --> 01:17:49,519
Speaker 4: vid home to us, et cetera, et cetera. On the

1584
01:17:49,600 --> 01:17:52,439
Speaker 4: other hand, she constantly blames us for not going to

1585
01:17:52,520 --> 01:17:56,400
Speaker 4: see them when they themselves present prevent us from doing so,

1586
01:17:56,720 --> 01:17:59,400
Speaker 4: and when we invite them, they don't come, even though

1587
01:17:59,520 --> 01:18:05,000
Speaker 4: they are two doors away. This is this is this

1588
01:18:05,120 --> 01:18:08,680
Speaker 4: way wound like absurd. Are they all they're always two

1589
01:18:08,760 --> 01:18:11,080
Speaker 4: doors I was a little confused to traveling and two doors.

1590
01:18:11,120 --> 01:18:13,040
Speaker 4: Maybe chat can let me know. I don't know if

1591
01:18:13,040 --> 01:18:16,040
Speaker 4: they're always two doors away or because if they only

1592
01:18:16,080 --> 01:18:17,920
Speaker 4: see them four times a year, I mean, I guess

1593
01:18:17,920 --> 01:18:18,640
Speaker 4: you could see them more.

1594
01:18:19,080 --> 01:18:20,720
Speaker 3: It sounded like they had to travel. I thought they

1595
01:18:20,720 --> 01:18:22,280
Speaker 3: were like twenty minutes away.

1596
01:18:23,040 --> 01:18:26,040
Speaker 4: That's what I thought too. So maybe this is their

1597
01:18:26,240 --> 01:18:28,640
Speaker 4: set even though they're two doors away. Yeah, I might

1598
01:18:28,720 --> 01:18:31,000
Speaker 4: be confused. Chat three maybe they live in the middle

1599
01:18:31,040 --> 01:18:33,600
Speaker 4: of nowhere. Maybe they live out in the country. And

1600
01:18:34,240 --> 01:18:38,719
Speaker 4: two it is twenty minutes that's true. But anyways, Opie says,

1601
01:18:38,840 --> 01:18:40,760
Speaker 4: we didn't do anything to them, and yet they are

1602
01:18:40,840 --> 01:18:43,800
Speaker 4: always the bad ones, and yet we are always the

1603
01:18:43,880 --> 01:18:47,599
Speaker 4: bad ones. Even after we both celebrated our thirtieth birthdays

1604
01:18:47,680 --> 01:18:50,400
Speaker 4: this year, my fiance had a party planned that got

1605
01:18:50,479 --> 01:18:54,960
Speaker 4: canceled three times because of them. First because they were sick,

1606
01:18:55,439 --> 01:18:59,160
Speaker 4: second because my mother's husband went to work abroad they

1607
01:18:59,200 --> 01:19:02,439
Speaker 4: had deaths and needed money. Uh, and third because they

1608
01:19:02,479 --> 01:19:03,839
Speaker 4: couldn't make it that weekend.

1609
01:19:04,080 --> 01:19:05,600
Speaker 3: Wow we did.

1610
01:19:06,880 --> 01:19:15,320
Speaker 4: Oh Kyoko Cahoko ninety drops a fifty Oh, mister Rance

1611
01:19:15,360 --> 01:19:15,880
Speaker 4: in the building.

1612
01:19:16,000 --> 01:19:18,479
Speaker 3: Oh and right under it, we got Hannah dropping a

1613
01:19:18,600 --> 01:19:21,400
Speaker 3: thirty piece. My goodness, both of them.

1614
01:19:21,800 --> 01:19:28,000
Speaker 4: Silent Cohoco ninety and Hannah on the silent train playing

1615
01:19:28,160 --> 01:19:29,040
Speaker 4: silent games.

1616
01:19:30,080 --> 01:19:31,559
Speaker 3: And our silent game.

1617
01:19:31,479 --> 01:19:35,479
Speaker 1: Is now thirty thirty more minutes for our silent game

1618
01:19:36,000 --> 01:19:38,000
Speaker 1: thirty more and it's not silent because.

1619
01:19:37,760 --> 01:19:40,280
Speaker 3: We're beautiful silence. Yeah, we'll be so thirty minutes of

1620
01:19:40,360 --> 01:19:41,680
Speaker 3: silent talking. That's okay, just.

1621
01:19:41,720 --> 01:19:43,760
Speaker 2: Really getting into my side profile here.

1622
01:19:43,800 --> 01:19:44,320
Speaker 3: That looks cool.

1623
01:19:44,439 --> 01:19:46,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, so Hannai Coco bounces out with a quietness.

1624
01:19:47,280 --> 01:19:48,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then we'll be left.

1625
01:19:48,280 --> 01:19:50,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, we're all works out ya and we'll get to

1626
01:19:50,280 --> 01:19:52,280
Speaker 4: all the O donations right at the end of the story.

1627
01:19:53,000 --> 01:19:57,240
Speaker 3: But diving back in. Eventually we gave up and stopped asking.

1628
01:19:57,920 --> 01:19:58,400
Speaker 3: Makes sense.

1629
01:19:58,720 --> 01:20:01,880
Speaker 4: On my birthday, they were in to my families for

1630
01:20:02,000 --> 01:20:05,280
Speaker 4: a family celebration of my thirtieth birthday. A few days

1631
01:20:05,320 --> 01:20:09,120
Speaker 4: before leaving, they called us that my mother's husband had

1632
01:20:09,200 --> 01:20:11,960
Speaker 4: health problems and they could not go with us. It

1633
01:20:12,080 --> 01:20:15,439
Speaker 4: even pissed me off, and it pissed even me off,

1634
01:20:15,600 --> 01:20:18,160
Speaker 4: and I'm a pretty calm person. They were supposed to

1635
01:20:18,240 --> 01:20:21,840
Speaker 4: go on vacation a week later. The day before leaving

1636
01:20:21,920 --> 01:20:24,360
Speaker 4: for my family, we went to their garden and asked

1637
01:20:24,400 --> 01:20:25,720
Speaker 4: them how they were doing and so on.

1638
01:20:26,600 --> 01:20:29,160
Speaker 3: We were told that on Friday, the day.

1639
01:20:30,680 --> 01:20:34,200
Speaker 4: The day of our travel, that they would bring pebbles

1640
01:20:34,479 --> 01:20:37,519
Speaker 4: between that they would be putting pebbles between the flower beds,

1641
01:20:37,760 --> 01:20:40,360
Speaker 4: and that she and her husband would somehow transfer it to.

1642
01:20:40,439 --> 01:20:43,439
Speaker 3: The flower beds. Again, we were the bad ones for

1643
01:20:43,560 --> 01:20:47,320
Speaker 3: not helping them because we were going away. I'm confused

1644
01:20:47,479 --> 01:20:50,080
Speaker 3: your yard, because if you're putting pebbles in between the

1645
01:20:50,160 --> 01:20:52,680
Speaker 3: flower beds and you want to put the pebbles in

1646
01:20:52,720 --> 01:20:56,840
Speaker 3: the flower peds, put the pebbles in the flower beds first.

1647
01:20:57,720 --> 01:20:59,960
Speaker 3: Why do you abandon us when we have all these

1648
01:21:00,120 --> 01:21:04,719
Speaker 3: peedbals the place. I don't know. This is so weird.

1649
01:21:04,840 --> 01:21:09,000
Speaker 3: They have like the weirdest behaviors and problems.

1650
01:21:09,160 --> 01:21:09,439
Speaker 2: Dude.

1651
01:21:10,160 --> 01:21:13,000
Speaker 4: We had so many pebbles. You know how many pebbles

1652
01:21:13,080 --> 01:21:17,480
Speaker 4: we had to sort. We only wanted the small pebbles,

1653
01:21:17,680 --> 01:21:20,639
Speaker 4: so we sorted them all out in a single line.

1654
01:21:21,240 --> 01:21:23,760
Speaker 3: We had too many pebbles, so don't drive over here.

1655
01:21:24,360 --> 01:21:25,799
Speaker 3: Logic logics.

1656
01:21:26,560 --> 01:21:29,280
Speaker 4: But in the end, their vacation didn't work out because

1657
01:21:29,280 --> 01:21:34,280
Speaker 4: their dog got sick. Oh no, My fiance said, uh

1658
01:21:34,560 --> 01:21:37,160
Speaker 4: that it was karma wow for the dog.

1659
01:21:37,640 --> 01:21:43,720
Speaker 3: The dog do dogs innocent dogs inizen? See, never mind,

1660
01:21:43,760 --> 01:21:45,479
Speaker 3: I just keep that one rolling. Oh, let's go.

1661
01:21:45,920 --> 01:21:48,960
Speaker 4: Ever, since I met his mother, her health has gradually deteriorated,

1662
01:21:49,040 --> 01:21:51,840
Speaker 4: and even her doctor has prescribed medication to calm her

1663
01:21:51,880 --> 01:21:52,439
Speaker 4: mental steak.

1664
01:21:52,800 --> 01:21:54,200
Speaker 3: She didn't take it. Go figure.

1665
01:21:54,360 --> 01:21:56,800
Speaker 4: She hasn't had an easy life. I understand that, but

1666
01:21:56,920 --> 01:21:59,000
Speaker 4: she can't treat us like this and expect us to

1667
01:21:59,120 --> 01:22:02,360
Speaker 4: just shut up and not fight back. Well, today, despite

1668
01:22:02,400 --> 01:22:05,559
Speaker 4: their warning, uh, we are not we are not at

1669
01:22:05,600 --> 01:22:08,240
Speaker 4: home for you, we went to We went to wish

1670
01:22:08,280 --> 01:22:11,360
Speaker 4: her a happy birthday. We wrote to her that we

1671
01:22:11,479 --> 01:22:13,679
Speaker 4: were waiting in the parking lot and if we could

1672
01:22:13,680 --> 01:22:16,600
Speaker 4: come in. We were actually standing below the house and

1673
01:22:16,800 --> 01:22:19,920
Speaker 4: waiting for what she would text back to us. We

1674
01:22:20,120 --> 01:22:21,080
Speaker 4: heard the text.

1675
01:22:21,000 --> 01:22:24,320
Speaker 2: Ringing on her cell phone through the open window.

1676
01:22:25,479 --> 01:22:29,120
Speaker 3: They were home, there was a light on. We heard

1677
01:22:29,200 --> 01:22:34,160
Speaker 3: them talking about it upstairs. The text message tone is

1678
01:22:34,320 --> 01:22:36,040
Speaker 3: so loud you can hear it from the street.

1679
01:22:36,160 --> 01:22:41,080
Speaker 4: All right, it's like, oh my god. You know you

1680
01:22:41,320 --> 01:22:44,439
Speaker 4: know their font size is like a thousand, just like

1681
01:22:44,600 --> 01:22:45,439
Speaker 4: one word.

1682
01:22:45,360 --> 01:22:46,240
Speaker 3: Per like scroll.

1683
01:22:47,680 --> 01:22:52,479
Speaker 2: Josephine. Actually we got a little uh like straightforwardness with

1684
01:22:52,600 --> 01:22:54,200
Speaker 2: the the story here from Josephine.

1685
01:22:54,280 --> 01:22:58,160
Speaker 4: Oh, she says, here we go, Uh no, thanks for

1686
01:22:58,200 --> 01:23:02,479
Speaker 4: you don't know, and uh no, opiece. Opie's family they

1687
01:23:02,600 --> 01:23:05,040
Speaker 4: meet four times a year. Yes, so the in laws.

1688
01:23:05,080 --> 01:23:07,880
Speaker 4: The mother in law lives twenty minutes away and the

1689
01:23:08,040 --> 01:23:12,280
Speaker 4: mother in law's X lives two doors down. Also, it

1690
01:23:12,439 --> 01:23:14,280
Speaker 4: was mother in law's birthday, not Christmas.

1691
01:23:14,439 --> 01:23:14,720
Speaker 3: Thank you.

1692
01:23:14,920 --> 01:23:17,360
Speaker 4: The soap has got I'm off the soap, y'all. So

1693
01:23:18,160 --> 01:23:20,800
Speaker 4: there we go, and you like out the chet. It's like,

1694
01:23:20,840 --> 01:23:22,240
Speaker 4: oh yeah, to go to legs dogs?

1695
01:23:22,320 --> 01:23:25,040
Speaker 3: No, oh right, right right, that's so funny. That's what

1696
01:23:25,160 --> 01:23:26,639
Speaker 3: I was gonna say. And I was like, nah, I'll

1697
01:23:26,720 --> 01:23:32,280
Speaker 3: just let it go again. I never said I hated dogs.

1698
01:23:32,360 --> 01:23:35,160
Speaker 3: God day it. That's okay, we know, okay, we have

1699
01:23:35,360 --> 01:23:38,920
Speaker 3: the clin We've already it. Anyways, I am an equal

1700
01:23:38,960 --> 01:23:42,080
Speaker 3: opportunity hater. I'll hate anything if it gives me a reason.

1701
01:23:42,720 --> 01:23:44,800
Speaker 3: Oh boy, so so.

1702
01:23:44,880 --> 01:23:47,680
Speaker 4: About five minutes later, a text message written by her

1703
01:23:47,760 --> 01:23:50,280
Speaker 4: husband arrived, saying they were not.

1704
01:23:50,360 --> 01:23:55,960
Speaker 3: Home after all that. No, no, no home, dude, We

1705
01:23:56,000 --> 01:23:59,880
Speaker 3: should we should call them. You probably here, Like you

1706
01:24:00,080 --> 01:24:03,280
Speaker 3: can hear you guys aren't home. You're not home today

1707
01:24:03,800 --> 01:24:06,120
Speaker 3: through the open window. You can hear her dictating into

1708
01:24:06,160 --> 01:24:07,800
Speaker 3: her phone, Yeah, we're not.

1709
01:24:08,120 --> 01:24:13,440
Speaker 4: Home today, sirih telling him that I'm not coming outside.

1710
01:24:14,400 --> 01:24:17,120
Speaker 3: I'm not answering the door, serie. Go tell him now

1711
01:24:17,240 --> 01:24:17,680
Speaker 3: right now.

1712
01:24:18,200 --> 01:24:22,879
Speaker 4: Anyway, we recognized it because it was written in his language.

1713
01:24:22,960 --> 01:24:25,960
Speaker 4: He is from a different country than So funny he's

1714
01:24:26,040 --> 01:24:26,960
Speaker 4: responding anyways.

1715
01:24:27,280 --> 01:24:30,120
Speaker 3: So we collected about one hundred and thirty dollars worth

1716
01:24:30,160 --> 01:24:31,200
Speaker 3: of gifts and went home.

1717
01:24:31,479 --> 01:24:31,719
Speaker 2: Wow.

1718
01:24:32,240 --> 01:24:34,720
Speaker 4: My fiance couldn't stand it at home and wrote to

1719
01:24:34,800 --> 01:24:37,880
Speaker 4: her husband that he was writing to his mom and

1720
01:24:38,080 --> 01:24:41,000
Speaker 4: not to him, and why is he still answering messages

1721
01:24:41,080 --> 01:24:43,719
Speaker 4: for her? And then he blocked his number to repay

1722
01:24:43,800 --> 01:24:47,040
Speaker 4: him for blocking him on Facebook. We went to see

1723
01:24:47,240 --> 01:24:50,439
Speaker 4: a streamer movie and that's when I started getting messages

1724
01:24:50,479 --> 01:24:53,040
Speaker 4: on my cell phone. She wrote to me, how can

1725
01:24:53,120 --> 01:24:55,920
Speaker 4: we afford to treat her husband like this? And who

1726
01:24:56,400 --> 01:25:00,000
Speaker 4: wrote the text? If you want to wash your eye

1727
01:25:00,080 --> 01:25:03,320
Speaker 4: that big dog, you are welcome to because.

1728
01:25:03,080 --> 01:25:06,120
Speaker 3: I just started crying because everyone keeps harassing me. Oh

1729
01:25:06,439 --> 01:25:10,759
Speaker 3: stop it, stop cry because everybody thinks I hate dogs.

1730
01:25:10,840 --> 01:25:12,920
Speaker 3: And also maybe I'm getting smoked in my ass. No

1731
01:25:13,040 --> 01:25:15,120
Speaker 3: more harassments because his sis or teary.

1732
01:25:15,280 --> 01:25:17,920
Speaker 2: They Yeah, I was having that.

1733
01:25:18,040 --> 01:25:20,599
Speaker 3: Yeah, go go wash it out, dude, I can see

1734
01:25:20,640 --> 01:25:22,439
Speaker 3: you're gonna make me.

1735
01:25:22,680 --> 01:25:25,960
Speaker 2: My eyes were sticking. My nose was like like getting tickled.

1736
01:25:26,000 --> 01:25:26,559
Speaker 2: It sucked.

1737
01:25:26,640 --> 01:25:28,880
Speaker 4: I'm the last one standing over here. You have glasses?

1738
01:25:29,280 --> 01:25:32,479
Speaker 4: Oh in the soap and you have soap in your math, dude,

1739
01:25:32,680 --> 01:25:37,640
Speaker 4: I'm clean. Anyways, Opie says uh uh that they are

1740
01:25:37,720 --> 01:25:40,639
Speaker 4: now arguing at home about it and that she wasn't home.

1741
01:25:41,080 --> 01:25:43,240
Speaker 4: She said she was at the pharmacy for her medication

1742
01:25:43,439 --> 01:25:45,640
Speaker 4: and he wrote the message for her that she is

1743
01:25:45,720 --> 01:25:48,320
Speaker 4: not well, et cetera, et cetera. Instead, I looked at

1744
01:25:48,360 --> 01:25:51,400
Speaker 4: her stories on Facebook, how she is smiling with a cake,

1745
01:25:51,800 --> 01:25:54,479
Speaker 4: taking pictures of a flower and a gift from him,

1746
01:25:54,720 --> 01:25:55,639
Speaker 4: and looking very.

1747
01:25:55,520 --> 01:25:59,040
Speaker 3: Well and not sick, as she constantly writes to us.

1748
01:25:59,439 --> 01:26:01,519
Speaker 4: During our relationship with them, we found out that his

1749
01:26:01,600 --> 01:26:04,160
Speaker 4: mother lies very often and chooses when she has time

1750
01:26:04,200 --> 01:26:06,240
Speaker 4: and when she doesn't want to go or do anything.

1751
01:26:07,160 --> 01:26:10,200
Speaker 4: We figured it out about her due to the fact

1752
01:26:10,720 --> 01:26:14,799
Speaker 4: that when she was with my fiance's brother and his girlfriend,

1753
01:26:15,160 --> 01:26:18,400
Speaker 4: she was gossiping about us, and when she was with us,

1754
01:26:18,560 --> 01:26:19,960
Speaker 4: she was gossiping about them.

1755
01:26:20,000 --> 01:26:20,479
Speaker 3: So we got it.

1756
01:26:20,560 --> 01:26:26,280
Speaker 4: We got a cereal a serial gossiper. The the fiances, yeah,

1757
01:26:26,320 --> 01:26:31,439
Speaker 4: the the the fiance's brother's girlfriend, there's just so many.

1758
01:26:31,800 --> 01:26:32,760
Speaker 4: The girlfriend of law.

1759
01:26:33,080 --> 01:26:33,280
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1760
01:26:34,520 --> 01:26:36,920
Speaker 4: She just didn't understand that we were having fun together

1761
01:26:37,160 --> 01:26:40,080
Speaker 4: and we would tell each other everything. She slandered her

1762
01:26:40,120 --> 01:26:43,040
Speaker 4: brother's girlfriend that she was a gold digger and that

1763
01:26:43,200 --> 01:26:46,559
Speaker 4: her son was under her influence. On the other hand,

1764
01:26:46,880 --> 01:26:49,839
Speaker 4: his mother claimed that I made up my nut allergies.

1765
01:26:50,479 --> 01:26:53,320
Speaker 4: I choke and throw up after eating nuts and have

1766
01:26:53,520 --> 01:26:54,479
Speaker 4: other food allergies.

1767
01:26:54,880 --> 01:26:56,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, he's faking it. He's baking it.

1768
01:26:57,000 --> 01:26:59,960
Speaker 4: He's faking that. I've seen a fake nut allergy. Grandma said,

1769
01:27:00,080 --> 01:27:03,120
Speaker 4: let's say, and what now, Oh, I can smell it

1770
01:27:03,200 --> 01:27:05,360
Speaker 4: in here now, Oh yeah.

1771
01:27:05,240 --> 01:27:07,360
Speaker 2: It's in here, it's here, it's in here. I'm actually,

1772
01:27:07,640 --> 01:27:08,519
Speaker 2: did we turn on the air?

1773
01:27:09,160 --> 01:27:09,200
Speaker 4: No?

1774
01:27:11,000 --> 01:27:12,560
Speaker 3: Can we? Can we do a pole? I think no?

1775
01:27:12,840 --> 01:27:16,960
Speaker 3: I was saying that should we be good? Yeah we didn't. Oh,

1776
01:27:17,280 --> 01:27:19,120
Speaker 3: I think it's good that we didn't. Unless we have

1777
01:27:19,240 --> 01:27:22,240
Speaker 3: an h bag we do. That's literally.

1778
01:27:23,960 --> 01:27:28,640
Speaker 4: Look, look but that's just the ventilation, heating, ventilation and

1779
01:27:28,720 --> 01:27:31,400
Speaker 4: air conditioning that is like, that is the system.

1780
01:27:31,840 --> 01:27:33,960
Speaker 3: Can we can we can we double check on that.

1781
01:27:34,240 --> 01:27:35,839
Speaker 3: We've got to have a filter somewhere.

1782
01:27:36,840 --> 01:27:38,840
Speaker 4: I'm going to text some people and see if we

1783
01:27:38,880 --> 01:27:42,920
Speaker 4: haven't maybe not, yeah, yeah, and if anyway.

1784
01:27:42,760 --> 01:27:43,519
Speaker 3: Maybe we turn it on.

1785
01:27:43,880 --> 01:27:49,080
Speaker 4: So he says, uh, they say that I don't clean

1786
01:27:49,160 --> 01:27:50,920
Speaker 4: and my house is a mess, and the worst part

1787
01:27:51,040 --> 01:27:54,439
Speaker 4: is that I'm fat. After my knee injury, I gained

1788
01:27:54,479 --> 01:27:57,439
Speaker 4: twenty kilos and unfortunately I am not that lucky to

1789
01:27:57,560 --> 01:28:00,880
Speaker 4: lose it even if I try. After defending myself for

1790
01:28:00,960 --> 01:28:03,280
Speaker 4: the first time, and we shoved in her face very

1791
01:28:03,360 --> 01:28:05,800
Speaker 4: politely that even if we try, we are still the

1792
01:28:05,840 --> 01:28:08,160
Speaker 4: bad ones, and that we want to visit them, but

1793
01:28:08,240 --> 01:28:09,360
Speaker 4: they always discourage us.

1794
01:28:09,520 --> 01:28:11,679
Speaker 3: She was silent for a while and then started again.

1795
01:28:11,760 --> 01:28:16,200
Speaker 4: No confession, I did this and that instead the same again,

1796
01:28:16,520 --> 01:28:19,519
Speaker 4: who wrote the message? And how can we insult her

1797
01:28:19,640 --> 01:28:21,720
Speaker 4: husband like this? At the same time, he was the

1798
01:28:21,760 --> 01:28:24,200
Speaker 4: first to write us and threaten us not to go

1799
01:28:24,360 --> 01:28:27,200
Speaker 4: to them. Subsequently, I objected that half of the things

1800
01:28:27,280 --> 01:28:31,880
Speaker 4: she says aren't even true, that they even change, that

1801
01:28:32,720 --> 01:28:34,560
Speaker 4: they have changed and not us, and I have no

1802
01:28:34,640 --> 01:28:37,680
Speaker 4: idea what happened, and if she wants something, and that

1803
01:28:37,760 --> 01:28:40,760
Speaker 4: if she wants something of my fiance, she should write

1804
01:28:40,800 --> 01:28:42,840
Speaker 4: to me because she is hurting him and I will

1805
01:28:42,920 --> 01:28:43,640
Speaker 4: not allow her to.

1806
01:28:43,680 --> 01:28:44,280
Speaker 3: Treat him like this.

1807
01:28:45,240 --> 01:28:47,519
Speaker 4: So afterwards, about an hour later, she wrote to my

1808
01:28:47,600 --> 01:28:50,560
Speaker 4: fiance this, since you have been with Kate, you have

1809
01:28:50,760 --> 01:28:54,240
Speaker 4: changed and you were acting rudely. I hope you are

1810
01:28:54,360 --> 01:28:57,640
Speaker 4: not unreasonable and you can have communication with me as

1811
01:28:57,720 --> 01:29:01,080
Speaker 4: much as you want. When threats didn't work, she tried questions,

1812
01:29:01,400 --> 01:29:04,080
Speaker 4: and when those did work either she tried to destroy

1813
01:29:04,240 --> 01:29:05,840
Speaker 4: or disrupt our relationship.

1814
01:29:06,160 --> 01:29:06,960
Speaker 3: So what do you guys think?

1815
01:29:07,040 --> 01:29:09,200
Speaker 4: Am I really that terrible for standing up to this

1816
01:29:09,479 --> 01:29:13,640
Speaker 4: callous and toxic mother? I believe we have basically an

1817
01:29:13,720 --> 01:29:18,719
Speaker 4: update coming up, but just real, real quick, mister big d, mister.

1818
01:29:18,560 --> 01:29:24,400
Speaker 3: Dakota, no North or South? Just living is it? First off?

1819
01:29:24,600 --> 01:29:25,599
Speaker 3: Are they they are?

1820
01:29:26,040 --> 01:29:28,760
Speaker 2: Are they bad for you know, standing up to this

1821
01:29:28,920 --> 01:29:29,680
Speaker 2: evil mod? No?

1822
01:29:30,160 --> 01:29:34,920
Speaker 1: I would say no, And like it'd be different if

1823
01:29:35,040 --> 01:29:37,880
Speaker 1: like the literal entire context of the story wasn't there.

1824
01:29:38,280 --> 01:29:41,280
Speaker 1: If you just take like my like in laws live

1825
01:29:41,320 --> 01:29:44,439
Speaker 1: twenty minutes away and we never see them, am I

1826
01:29:44,520 --> 01:29:46,680
Speaker 1: the a whole? It's like, well maybe, but it's like

1827
01:29:46,840 --> 01:29:51,560
Speaker 1: content they're constantly like, well you can't drive, you're in education.

1828
01:29:52,680 --> 01:29:54,840
Speaker 3: It's like, and I'm like, why don't you visit?

1829
01:29:55,880 --> 01:29:58,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like because you have like a weird demand

1830
01:29:58,920 --> 01:30:02,240
Speaker 1: system that you put on us, Like that's weird. And

1831
01:30:02,320 --> 01:30:04,600
Speaker 1: then also you kind of don't want to be like

1832
01:30:05,400 --> 01:30:08,280
Speaker 1: all right, fine, we'll come visit you after they do

1833
01:30:08,360 --> 01:30:11,040
Speaker 1: all this like really sort of annoying stuff to you.

1834
01:30:12,280 --> 01:30:14,479
Speaker 1: And it's like they're I feel like they're just kind

1835
01:30:14,520 --> 01:30:16,960
Speaker 1: of gas lighting them into being like, oh, you never came.

1836
01:30:17,040 --> 01:30:19,439
Speaker 1: It's like every time we try to you literally tell

1837
01:30:19,479 --> 01:30:19,800
Speaker 1: us not to.

1838
01:30:19,880 --> 01:30:24,840
Speaker 3: In seeing gaslighting, I am legit. Go uh low contact? Yeah, yeah,

1839
01:30:24,840 --> 01:30:27,200
Speaker 3: I don't. I think if you, if you is relented,

1840
01:30:27,280 --> 01:30:30,439
Speaker 3: it's like you're reinforcing their bad behavior. Essentially, They're they're.

1841
01:30:30,280 --> 01:30:31,680
Speaker 1: Literally like, oh, if I want to get what I

1842
01:30:31,720 --> 01:30:34,360
Speaker 1: want from them, this is what I need to do. Yeah,

1843
01:30:34,720 --> 01:30:37,120
Speaker 1: and then they just keep doing it forever. So let's

1844
01:30:37,160 --> 01:30:40,960
Speaker 1: do a pole contact or low contact. I'm gonna say, actually,

1845
01:30:42,240 --> 01:30:46,120
Speaker 1: let's get some people talking low contact or no contact.

1846
01:30:47,040 --> 01:30:48,600
Speaker 3: That's that's the real debate. I'm gonna do.

1847
01:30:48,720 --> 01:30:51,599
Speaker 2: Elsie in U n C, Elsie in NC.

1848
01:30:51,960 --> 01:30:54,679
Speaker 3: Guys. The poll's coming up. Please vote. The pole is here,

1849
01:30:54,920 --> 01:30:56,760
Speaker 3: but we're going to get to this poll is up.

1850
01:31:00,200 --> 01:31:00,519
Speaker 3: Let's go.

1851
01:31:01,080 --> 01:31:04,000
Speaker 4: So Obi says, thank you for any advice and ideas

1852
01:31:04,080 --> 01:31:06,200
Speaker 4: on how to get this to heck, how to get

1853
01:31:06,840 --> 01:31:08,559
Speaker 4: out of this heck and not be.

1854
01:31:08,600 --> 01:31:10,960
Speaker 3: A moron with your ears down. And now we're diving

1855
01:31:11,000 --> 01:31:12,080
Speaker 3: into the full update.

1856
01:31:12,240 --> 01:31:15,759
Speaker 4: Yes, when my fiance's mother couldn't handle the abusive messages

1857
01:31:15,800 --> 01:31:18,080
Speaker 4: to me, she decided to write to my fiance. She

1858
01:31:18,120 --> 01:31:20,760
Speaker 4: wrote to him that since he's been with me, he's

1859
01:31:20,800 --> 01:31:23,519
Speaker 4: been rough and heartless, and that he's never been like

1860
01:31:23,600 --> 01:31:26,320
Speaker 4: that ever since he started being with me. At the

1861
01:31:26,360 --> 01:31:29,200
Speaker 4: same time last year, at Christmas, when my fiance proposed

1862
01:31:29,200 --> 01:31:31,800
Speaker 4: to me, she forced herself into our house so that

1863
01:31:31,880 --> 01:31:34,080
Speaker 4: way she could be at the proposal, to which my

1864
01:31:34,200 --> 01:31:38,559
Speaker 4: fiance finally nodded, just to keep the peace. He originally

1865
01:31:38,640 --> 01:31:41,160
Speaker 4: wanted to propose to me alone by the Christmas tree

1866
01:31:41,240 --> 01:31:43,920
Speaker 4: in the evening. He even asked my family if he

1867
01:31:44,000 --> 01:31:46,400
Speaker 4: could marry me, which is the nicest thing he could

1868
01:31:46,400 --> 01:31:49,080
Speaker 4: do for me. He asked my mom and her husband.

1869
01:31:49,200 --> 01:31:51,479
Speaker 4: He's not my biological father, but it's like he is.

1870
01:31:51,840 --> 01:31:54,960
Speaker 4: And he even asked my grandmother, what.

1871
01:31:55,080 --> 01:31:57,720
Speaker 3: A nice boy, what a nice little gentleman, What a

1872
01:31:57,880 --> 01:32:00,639
Speaker 3: nice boy? He is a number two.

1873
01:32:00,760 --> 01:32:04,200
Speaker 4: But so far CHAT is sixty seven percent of CHAT

1874
01:32:04,280 --> 01:32:05,639
Speaker 4: is saying no contact.

1875
01:32:07,240 --> 01:32:07,559
Speaker 3: Hmmm.

1876
01:32:08,560 --> 01:32:10,519
Speaker 4: Somebody made a good point too, and it's that this

1877
01:32:10,840 --> 01:32:13,800
Speaker 4: actually is an op's boundary to set. I mean that

1878
01:32:13,880 --> 01:32:15,600
Speaker 4: you can set a boundary, but it's like it's not

1879
01:32:16,000 --> 01:32:19,599
Speaker 4: your parents that are your parents are not the ones

1880
01:32:19,760 --> 01:32:21,479
Speaker 4: causing all of this nightmare.

1881
01:32:21,760 --> 01:32:22,439
Speaker 3: That's a good point.

1882
01:32:22,479 --> 01:32:25,240
Speaker 4: I feel like suggesting it and being like, hey, look

1883
01:32:25,280 --> 01:32:29,040
Speaker 4: at the insanity this brings to both of our lives.

1884
01:32:29,600 --> 01:32:31,719
Speaker 3: Is this something you want to I feel like asking

1885
01:32:31,800 --> 01:32:35,360
Speaker 3: the question, uh, is fair.

1886
01:32:35,680 --> 01:32:37,960
Speaker 1: Or just anybody be the only the person who has

1887
01:32:38,040 --> 01:32:41,679
Speaker 1: the highest likelihood of doing something productive about the situation

1888
01:32:41,760 --> 01:32:44,840
Speaker 1: would be the husband. Yes, it's really you know, I

1889
01:32:45,120 --> 01:32:48,320
Speaker 1: think it's a hard decision to put on somebody to

1890
01:32:48,360 --> 01:32:49,720
Speaker 1: be like, yeah, I mean, are you're gonna cut your

1891
01:32:49,760 --> 01:32:53,160
Speaker 1: parents off or not? It's like that's definitely probably a

1892
01:32:53,240 --> 01:32:55,880
Speaker 1: group thing, yeah, or the both of you, But like

1893
01:32:56,120 --> 01:32:58,840
Speaker 1: just in terms of like maybe fixing it or getting

1894
01:32:58,840 --> 01:33:00,639
Speaker 1: to the bottom of it, like it's really on him.

1895
01:33:00,760 --> 01:33:01,639
Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree.

1896
01:33:01,680 --> 01:33:03,760
Speaker 4: I think ultimately he should be the one to make

1897
01:33:03,840 --> 01:33:08,080
Speaker 4: that final decision. And if the US husband doesn't want

1898
01:33:08,080 --> 01:33:12,439
Speaker 4: to do that, then I was like, okay, you I can't,

1899
01:33:12,680 --> 01:33:16,040
Speaker 4: yeah do that as then being my inlass agreed, agreed.

1900
01:33:16,040 --> 01:33:20,880
Speaker 3: Let's get into update number two. Okay. And to clarify,

1901
01:33:21,080 --> 01:33:23,840
Speaker 3: because someone in the comments fixed it or made me

1902
01:33:23,960 --> 01:33:28,920
Speaker 3: realize I was my brain was thinking about hepa filters Okay,

1903
01:33:29,120 --> 01:33:36,360
Speaker 3: hepa filter you don't necessarily have the filters fine particulate.

1904
01:33:37,600 --> 01:33:40,040
Speaker 3: I guess it's not fine particular. It's probably pretty chunky.

1905
01:33:40,560 --> 01:33:44,360
Speaker 3: That fine particularly better than nothing, I guess turn it on.

1906
01:33:46,360 --> 01:33:52,599
Speaker 3: We got an h wrong level wrong lit you lit

1907
01:33:52,640 --> 01:33:56,160
Speaker 3: everything on five? Oh no, it didn't work. Oh no.

1908
01:33:56,640 --> 01:33:59,880
Speaker 4: Anyways, I'm going to segue into update number two. Christmas Day,

1909
01:34:00,280 --> 01:34:03,680
Speaker 4: twelve twenty four. That's Christmas Eve, but we'll go with it. So,

1910
01:34:04,479 --> 01:34:07,120
Speaker 4: my fiance's mother started writing to him at six thirty

1911
01:34:07,160 --> 01:34:09,760
Speaker 4: am in the morning. She knew he would be leaving

1912
01:34:09,840 --> 01:34:13,240
Speaker 4: work and texted him letter after letter until he answered.

1913
01:34:13,760 --> 01:34:16,320
Speaker 4: She asked him if he should really write to me

1914
01:34:16,520 --> 01:34:19,240
Speaker 4: about everything she wants to deal with him about. When

1915
01:34:19,280 --> 01:34:20,880
Speaker 4: she wrote to us for the first time, I wrote

1916
01:34:20,880 --> 01:34:22,519
Speaker 4: to her that if she wanted to solve something, she

1917
01:34:22,560 --> 01:34:24,760
Speaker 4: should write to me, because I want to allow her

1918
01:34:24,800 --> 01:34:27,960
Speaker 4: to keep hurting her son like this stupidly. Basically, I

1919
01:34:28,080 --> 01:34:30,439
Speaker 4: did the same thing as her husband. And then she

1920
01:34:30,640 --> 01:34:35,120
Speaker 4: started writing to me. Where I take this right? Where

1921
01:34:35,160 --> 01:34:38,000
Speaker 4: I take this right to talk to her like this,

1922
01:34:38,960 --> 01:34:41,960
Speaker 4: like this and that, and that she can write as

1923
01:34:42,040 --> 01:34:45,840
Speaker 4: she wants to her son. She asked him about uh,

1924
01:34:46,320 --> 01:34:50,160
Speaker 4: God keeps saying writing to him, someone taps, okay, I'm sorry,

1925
01:34:50,920 --> 01:34:52,680
Speaker 4: I think op. He said English is not her first thing,

1926
01:34:52,720 --> 01:34:55,800
Speaker 4: which was totally fine. She asked him about writing to him,

1927
01:34:55,920 --> 01:34:58,439
Speaker 4: and she said she even said that I should calm

1928
01:34:58,600 --> 01:35:01,960
Speaker 4: down because he is not some kiddo from my school.

1929
01:35:02,360 --> 01:35:03,200
Speaker 3: I work as a teacher.

1930
01:35:03,680 --> 01:35:06,599
Speaker 4: My fiance then wrote to her that she can write

1931
01:35:06,840 --> 01:35:10,360
Speaker 4: just to him and he doesn't want to see her husband.

1932
01:35:10,360 --> 01:35:12,040
Speaker 3: In his life anymore.

1933
01:35:12,880 --> 01:35:18,880
Speaker 4: So it seems that the husband is indeed starting the

1934
01:35:19,439 --> 01:35:22,519
Speaker 4: no contact train has begun.

1935
01:35:22,720 --> 01:35:24,320
Speaker 3: It's begun. The first domino.

1936
01:35:24,560 --> 01:35:27,200
Speaker 4: He blew the whistle on the no contact the stepdaddy,

1937
01:35:27,320 --> 01:35:31,439
Speaker 4: stepdaddy is no more. Yes, it's interesting that her husband

1938
01:35:32,200 --> 01:35:35,720
Speaker 4: can uh uh write for her to us, but as

1939
01:35:35,760 --> 01:35:37,720
Speaker 4: soon as I do the same, she starts writing to

1940
01:35:37,800 --> 01:35:40,640
Speaker 4: me that my fiance is a self righteous person and

1941
01:35:40,760 --> 01:35:43,439
Speaker 4: that I don't have the rights to write for him.

1942
01:35:44,080 --> 01:35:47,680
Speaker 3: A double standard. Indeed, what can we do to fix her?

1943
01:35:47,840 --> 01:35:50,800
Speaker 4: Because I'm starting to think that the biggest evil is

1944
01:35:50,880 --> 01:35:53,680
Speaker 4: her husband and he's just trying to cut her off

1945
01:35:53,760 --> 01:35:55,240
Speaker 4: from her children, just as he is.

1946
01:35:55,280 --> 01:35:56,040
Speaker 2: From his own.

1947
01:35:57,080 --> 01:35:59,360
Speaker 3: That is a plot twist that well, he was the

1948
01:35:59,439 --> 01:36:01,240
Speaker 3: fear from the very beginning. He was the one who

1949
01:36:01,360 --> 01:36:03,000
Speaker 3: was like, and you won't.

1950
01:36:02,800 --> 01:36:06,000
Speaker 4: Be seeing us, who do you think you are seeing us?

1951
01:36:06,640 --> 01:36:08,800
Speaker 4: When you do see us, you don't really like it,

1952
01:36:08,880 --> 01:36:09,360
Speaker 4: I can tell.

1953
01:36:09,560 --> 01:36:09,800
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1954
01:36:09,960 --> 01:36:11,680
Speaker 4: So we have this update number three, which I think

1955
01:36:11,760 --> 01:36:13,880
Speaker 4: is our final update, but like, yeah, I think that's

1956
01:36:13,960 --> 01:36:18,599
Speaker 4: actually it's it's the classic like, uh, your parent gets

1957
01:36:18,680 --> 01:36:21,720
Speaker 4: married and then the step parent comes in and just

1958
01:36:21,840 --> 01:36:24,280
Speaker 4: like ruins everything. Yeah, right, and they're just kind of

1959
01:36:24,320 --> 01:36:26,680
Speaker 4: like following along because they married them.

1960
01:36:26,880 --> 01:36:29,200
Speaker 3: I think that that could be accurate.

1961
01:36:29,240 --> 01:36:33,160
Speaker 4: The crazy thing is there the parents getting married or

1962
01:36:33,200 --> 01:36:35,719
Speaker 4: sixty and then uh, Opie and her husband are thirty,

1963
01:36:35,760 --> 01:36:39,040
Speaker 4: so it's like, guys, we're not freaking kids anymore. Yeah,

1964
01:36:39,160 --> 01:36:42,280
Speaker 4: but they're still pulling this like you know, oh, I'm

1965
01:36:42,400 --> 01:36:44,800
Speaker 4: the daddy. Now you're going respect your big daddy, or

1966
01:36:44,800 --> 01:36:46,400
Speaker 4: I'm gonna do all this stupid stuff.

1967
01:36:46,680 --> 01:36:50,160
Speaker 3: If you're gonna live in my under my roof in

1968
01:36:50,360 --> 01:36:54,600
Speaker 3: my house, which you don't, but you will listen to

1969
01:36:54,800 --> 01:36:55,559
Speaker 3: my rules.

1970
01:36:56,360 --> 01:36:59,840
Speaker 4: If you're gonna visit my house for twenty minutes driving

1971
01:37:00,040 --> 01:37:01,160
Speaker 4: twenty minutes.

1972
01:37:01,320 --> 01:37:03,360
Speaker 3: And don't drive, you're an education.

1973
01:37:04,520 --> 01:37:09,360
Speaker 4: To Okay, Okay, we got update number three and there's

1974
01:37:09,360 --> 01:37:11,160
Speaker 4: even one more up and after this one, buggle up.

1975
01:37:11,600 --> 01:37:16,080
Speaker 4: The future ex mother in law is working her magic again.

1976
01:37:17,520 --> 01:37:24,320
Speaker 4: The future ex mother she ascended. She's got a new title. Okay,

1977
01:37:25,840 --> 01:37:27,599
Speaker 4: a new level that we couldn't find out.

1978
01:37:27,720 --> 01:37:29,160
Speaker 3: Wow, hopefully we can context.

1979
01:37:29,360 --> 01:37:31,960
Speaker 4: Last night, at half past eight in the evening, we

1980
01:37:32,080 --> 01:37:37,880
Speaker 4: were approached with screenshots from Facebook. Oh oh no, the

1981
01:37:38,000 --> 01:37:42,840
Speaker 4: fiance's mother uh screened my mom's Facebook and sent screenshot

1982
01:37:42,920 --> 01:37:44,559
Speaker 4: in my mom's Facebook and sent it to us.

1983
01:37:44,880 --> 01:37:46,519
Speaker 3: My mom shared a lot of things on her.

1984
01:37:46,400 --> 01:37:49,640
Speaker 4: Profile yesterday, a few quotes about how women have a

1985
01:37:49,680 --> 01:37:53,400
Speaker 4: hard time in life, something about a healthy pride apparent

1986
01:37:53,520 --> 01:37:57,479
Speaker 4: stuffing flowers between its feathers, and an article about bad

1987
01:37:57,600 --> 01:38:00,400
Speaker 4: behavior of mothers and how they can cause mental blocks

1988
01:38:00,439 --> 01:38:02,240
Speaker 4: for their children in the future, et cetera.

1989
01:38:02,600 --> 01:38:03,559
Speaker 3: It was all public.

1990
01:38:03,840 --> 01:38:06,960
Speaker 4: No one singled out anyone anywhere, especially since my mom

1991
01:38:07,120 --> 01:38:09,519
Speaker 4: is quite a fan of psychology and is very committed

1992
01:38:09,680 --> 01:38:11,680
Speaker 4: to raising me and my younger brother to do well

1993
01:38:11,800 --> 01:38:14,599
Speaker 4: in life a brother well to do good in life.

1994
01:38:15,000 --> 01:38:19,920
Speaker 4: When my fiance asked her what to do, she snapped

1995
01:38:19,920 --> 01:38:22,120
Speaker 4: in him that it was all aimed at her and

1996
01:38:22,280 --> 01:38:24,000
Speaker 4: the quotes my mom shared.

1997
01:38:24,040 --> 01:38:28,000
Speaker 2: And that she would not allow herself to be publicly humiliated.

1998
01:38:28,360 --> 01:38:31,600
Speaker 4: I repeated once again. No one was tagged anywhere, and

1999
01:38:31,880 --> 01:38:35,519
Speaker 4: what my mom shares is a classic of probably every

2000
01:38:35,880 --> 01:38:37,040
Speaker 4: fifty year old mother.

2001
01:38:37,040 --> 01:38:41,240
Speaker 3: With access to the internet. Just like, I won't allow

2002
01:38:41,320 --> 01:38:45,000
Speaker 3: you to probably humiliate me. It's like, it's not it's

2003
01:38:45,320 --> 01:38:49,160
Speaker 3: just out in public. It's not for you.

2004
01:38:49,720 --> 01:38:53,280
Speaker 4: She's like posting like got you know mother rescues like

2005
01:38:53,960 --> 01:38:54,960
Speaker 4: a baby squirrel.

2006
01:38:55,160 --> 01:38:58,200
Speaker 3: You know, she's like she's saying, I wouldn't rescue a

2007
01:38:58,320 --> 01:38:59,080
Speaker 3: baby squirrel.

2008
01:39:00,080 --> 01:39:05,200
Speaker 1: The lenders like, analyze those thoughts, maybe that you know,

2009
01:39:06,040 --> 01:39:08,160
Speaker 1: you illuminate some of your behaviors.

2010
01:39:08,479 --> 01:39:11,840
Speaker 4: God. So, in short, everything she likes and shares is

2011
01:39:11,960 --> 01:39:16,680
Speaker 4: this jokes parents because she has one at home, satire, psychology,

2012
01:39:16,760 --> 01:39:17,280
Speaker 4: and quotes.

2013
01:39:17,800 --> 01:39:19,080
Speaker 3: I think the content of her.

2014
01:39:19,040 --> 01:39:23,040
Speaker 4: Profile is very innocent considering today's conditions and the semi

2015
01:39:23,120 --> 01:39:26,160
Speaker 4: current condition in our country. Even though we wrote to

2016
01:39:26,200 --> 01:39:28,479
Speaker 4: her that no one is tagging her anywhere and it's

2017
01:39:28,720 --> 01:39:32,760
Speaker 4: just sharing things that she likes, she couldn't tell if

2018
01:39:32,840 --> 01:39:35,320
Speaker 4: she looked back at her probile a day later she

2019
01:39:35,400 --> 01:39:38,559
Speaker 4: would find very similar things to what she shared there yesterday.

2020
01:39:38,880 --> 01:39:43,000
Speaker 4: But I think she's looking for any excuse to fight Finally,

2021
01:39:43,280 --> 01:39:46,200
Speaker 4: after three hours of writing back and forth, we learned

2022
01:39:46,520 --> 01:39:50,280
Speaker 4: that if we don't rewrite the car we bought for

2023
01:39:50,360 --> 01:39:53,439
Speaker 4: them a month ago. Immediately when her husband says it,

2024
01:39:57,240 --> 01:39:59,720
Speaker 4: he's gonna reform us to the.

2025
01:40:02,680 --> 01:40:06,400
Speaker 3: For theft or preventing the rewriting of the car.

2026
01:40:06,479 --> 01:40:09,040
Speaker 4: And I believe that's like redeating, you know, getting like

2027
01:40:09,160 --> 01:40:12,400
Speaker 4: the ownership of the title of the car, right retitling

2028
01:40:12,479 --> 01:40:12,760
Speaker 4: the car.

2029
01:40:13,800 --> 01:40:17,400
Speaker 3: And at that moment, the smiles faded even for us

2030
01:40:17,600 --> 01:40:24,240
Speaker 3: to see. But that's where our smiles showed up.

2031
01:40:24,479 --> 01:40:30,000
Speaker 4: I'm choking on myself because I'm choking on myself.

2032
01:40:30,920 --> 01:40:33,000
Speaker 3: They're literally inventing crime.

2033
01:40:34,439 --> 01:40:38,639
Speaker 4: They're just running out of If you don't your car

2034
01:40:38,800 --> 01:40:42,560
Speaker 4: to me now, I'm called the place like pro this

2035
01:40:42,760 --> 01:40:47,679
Speaker 4: is yes car, and I will cite improper rewriting titling

2036
01:40:47,880 --> 01:40:50,960
Speaker 4: of the car to me, the one who wants.

2037
01:40:51,000 --> 01:40:53,040
Speaker 3: They bought it from them a month ago. It's like, yo,

2038
01:40:53,160 --> 01:40:53,760
Speaker 3: we paid you.

2039
01:40:55,000 --> 01:40:57,600
Speaker 4: And he's like, no, I burned off that money and

2040
01:40:57,720 --> 01:41:04,080
Speaker 4: I recorded myself doing it, which makes it no longer exist. Well,

2041
01:41:05,960 --> 01:41:10,400
Speaker 4: Opie says, the smiles faded even for us. Until until then,

2042
01:41:10,479 --> 01:41:12,800
Speaker 4: we had been joking about that loud scream of hers

2043
01:41:12,840 --> 01:41:15,800
Speaker 4: into the dark. We ended up making an appointment for

2044
01:41:15,920 --> 01:41:18,000
Speaker 4: next week, and luckily I was able to be there

2045
01:41:18,000 --> 01:41:22,040
Speaker 4: because my fiance is afraid that her husband is going

2046
01:41:22,120 --> 01:41:25,120
Speaker 4: to throw dirt on him and school him there about

2047
01:41:25,200 --> 01:41:28,400
Speaker 4: some non existent bad behavior towards his mother, especially when

2048
01:41:28,439 --> 01:41:30,479
Speaker 4: the only one causing problems here is him.

2049
01:41:30,760 --> 01:41:31,360
Speaker 3: So she says.

2050
01:41:31,600 --> 01:41:34,120
Speaker 4: In addition, if anything were to happen, I have a

2051
01:41:34,200 --> 01:41:37,719
Speaker 4: cell phone and papers pray with me, and I'm.

2052
01:41:37,560 --> 01:41:42,360
Speaker 3: Not going whoah she's using on the police or my mother.

2053
01:41:43,280 --> 01:41:46,599
Speaker 3: She's ready for any and all targets. Oop, he's ready

2054
01:41:46,640 --> 01:41:47,040
Speaker 3: for action.

2055
01:41:47,400 --> 01:41:52,240
Speaker 4: Oh god, dang, oh my goodness, Thank goodness for self

2056
01:41:52,320 --> 01:41:56,639
Speaker 4: defense classes with the local police, for our entire teachings.

2057
01:41:56,920 --> 01:42:01,120
Speaker 4: I know if anything physical were to happen, I know

2058
01:42:01,240 --> 01:42:03,160
Speaker 4: how to proceed with a calm head, and I know

2059
01:42:03,280 --> 01:42:03,600
Speaker 4: what to do.

2060
01:42:03,880 --> 01:42:07,760
Speaker 3: Okay. To be fair, these parents like keep escalating like

2061
01:42:08,080 --> 01:42:09,320
Speaker 3: there's so many threads.

2062
01:42:09,760 --> 01:42:13,120
Speaker 4: There's there's like so much there's like literally like it's

2063
01:42:13,760 --> 01:42:16,560
Speaker 4: they're they're just making a mountain out of a molecule,

2064
01:42:16,720 --> 01:42:17,360
Speaker 4: not a molehill.

2065
01:42:17,720 --> 01:42:19,960
Speaker 3: They just keep inventing these things. So to be fair,

2066
01:42:20,160 --> 01:42:22,519
Speaker 3: who knows, why do I feel.

2067
01:42:22,360 --> 01:42:26,000
Speaker 4: Like they'd use like a really weird like weapon as well,

2068
01:42:26,160 --> 01:42:28,240
Speaker 4: Like it wouldn't be like it'd be like like Indiana

2069
01:42:28,320 --> 01:42:32,640
Speaker 4: Jones's whip or something like uh some sort of like

2070
01:42:32,960 --> 01:42:35,920
Speaker 4: like an old medieval mace. Yeah, like the spikes on it.

2071
01:42:36,479 --> 01:42:39,679
Speaker 4: That's what they'd used in a physical altercation. Just great

2072
01:42:39,720 --> 01:42:40,519
Speaker 4: to have pepper spray.

2073
01:42:40,600 --> 01:42:43,679
Speaker 3: For god, someone's walking you down with a medieval flail.

2074
01:42:43,840 --> 01:42:45,920
Speaker 4: I mean, you gotta do something. You gotta do something

2075
01:42:45,960 --> 01:42:47,880
Speaker 4: at that point. You gotta have pepper spray your mom.

2076
01:42:48,160 --> 01:42:53,760
Speaker 4: Your only hope is science, science in a bottle. Well,

2077
01:42:53,920 --> 01:42:57,360
Speaker 4: during during the self defense course, they taught us directly

2078
01:42:57,439 --> 01:42:59,120
Speaker 4: about very unpleasant situations.

2079
01:42:59,320 --> 01:43:02,080
Speaker 3: Uh, they in them, and I know what to expect.

2080
01:43:03,120 --> 01:43:05,400
Speaker 3: And there's a final update number four. We're going to

2081
01:43:05,479 --> 01:43:05,880
Speaker 3: dive right in.

2082
01:43:06,120 --> 01:43:10,360
Speaker 4: I learned this morning that she wrote to my mom

2083
01:43:10,640 --> 01:43:14,000
Speaker 4: under the mother in law to my mom under the

2084
01:43:14,080 --> 01:43:17,200
Speaker 4: post that she should sweep her own doorstep and she

2085
01:43:17,240 --> 01:43:21,320
Speaker 4: should re educate her daughter me. In addition, my mother

2086
01:43:21,400 --> 01:43:24,599
Speaker 4: wrote to her what she meant by that and why

2087
01:43:25,200 --> 01:43:28,439
Speaker 4: she was publicly attacking her out of nowhere, and his

2088
01:43:28,680 --> 01:43:31,799
Speaker 4: mother wrote that my mom has problems in her marriage

2089
01:43:31,960 --> 01:43:36,000
Speaker 4: at home, and when she solves it, she can't talk

2090
01:43:36,080 --> 01:43:39,400
Speaker 4: about it to other people, and then she blocked my mom.

2091
01:43:40,080 --> 01:43:41,519
Speaker 4: All I can say is that my mom and her

2092
01:43:41,560 --> 01:43:46,120
Speaker 4: husband have only had one disagreement, and that was that

2093
01:43:46,240 --> 01:43:48,680
Speaker 4: he is a workaholic and was hardly home and when

2094
01:43:48,720 --> 01:43:50,720
Speaker 4: my mom moved in with him after the marriage. And

2095
01:43:50,800 --> 01:43:52,360
Speaker 4: that was when my mom moved in with him after

2096
01:43:52,400 --> 01:43:55,560
Speaker 4: the marriage. Since then, they've got along very well, a

2097
01:43:55,640 --> 01:43:58,080
Speaker 4: bump here and there, but that's normal after all. By

2098
01:43:58,080 --> 01:43:59,800
Speaker 4: the way, you know what else is the most normal

2099
01:43:59,840 --> 01:44:04,400
Speaker 4: thing in human history hit us? The fact that if

2100
01:44:04,479 --> 01:44:08,840
Speaker 4: you love these stories, then why not binge full episodes

2101
01:44:08,880 --> 01:44:11,519
Speaker 4: of it on Spotify, Apple Podcasts and your favorite podcasting app.

2102
01:44:12,200 --> 01:44:14,200
Speaker 4: Just just go to Spotify and all those places and

2103
01:44:14,240 --> 01:44:18,920
Speaker 4: just search. Okay, story time indeed, listen in. But speaking

2104
01:44:18,960 --> 01:44:22,519
Speaker 4: of listening, Dakota, I want to listen to you because

2105
01:44:23,439 --> 01:44:32,600
Speaker 4: my mind is uh is bubbles. Yeah, we've read a

2106
01:44:32,640 --> 01:44:36,720
Speaker 4: lot of insane stories. Nineteen hundred episodes, Dakota. This is

2107
01:44:37,120 --> 01:44:41,320
Speaker 4: this is some all we have all time. Gaslighting Karen

2108
01:44:41,439 --> 01:44:46,960
Speaker 4: material right here, because these in laws, just the way

2109
01:44:47,040 --> 01:44:52,280
Speaker 4: they're able to invent problems and call the police is grazy.

2110
01:44:53,200 --> 01:44:56,000
Speaker 1: I think you actually should get in front of that

2111
01:44:56,240 --> 01:44:59,840
Speaker 1: by contacting the police and being like, you know, you're

2112
01:45:00,040 --> 01:45:03,320
Speaker 1: gonna be receiving some calls from some people who are

2113
01:45:03,360 --> 01:45:07,800
Speaker 1: inventing crimes yes that don't exist. Yeah yeah, and so

2114
01:45:08,200 --> 01:45:12,000
Speaker 1: just letting warning heads up. And so if they're gonna

2115
01:45:12,040 --> 01:45:15,840
Speaker 1: gaslight you, it's time to gaslight the police to the

2116
01:45:15,920 --> 01:45:20,040
Speaker 1: point where their asinine calls yield no results.

2117
01:45:20,360 --> 01:45:21,360
Speaker 3: It's a brilliant idea.

2118
01:45:21,800 --> 01:45:23,880
Speaker 4: Like anytime they try to pull something, especially if the

2119
01:45:23,880 --> 01:45:26,240
Speaker 4: police are involved, they have it like tell like say, hey,

2120
01:45:26,320 --> 01:45:26,680
Speaker 4: we have the.

2121
01:45:26,720 --> 01:45:27,960
Speaker 3: Deed, have everything. They're gonna stay.

2122
01:45:28,000 --> 01:45:28,360
Speaker 2: We stole it.

2123
01:45:28,439 --> 01:45:30,880
Speaker 4: We literally paid for them and got the title and everything,

2124
01:45:30,960 --> 01:45:32,760
Speaker 4: like we're like we're good to go. They're just being

2125
01:45:32,800 --> 01:45:36,880
Speaker 4: crazy and do that anytime they do that. And definitely, honestly,

2126
01:45:36,960 --> 01:45:41,479
Speaker 4: at this point, I'm I'm mister low contact. I think

2127
01:45:41,560 --> 01:45:43,200
Speaker 4: we might have to go no, no, you can go

2128
01:45:43,280 --> 01:45:46,920
Speaker 4: no contract, no contact, you can go, definitely contact because

2129
01:45:46,960 --> 01:45:50,479
Speaker 4: they keep they they're just like they will not stop. Yeah,

2130
01:45:50,680 --> 01:45:53,439
Speaker 4: it's it's it's ceaseless and that's it. And on a

2131
01:45:53,520 --> 01:45:55,759
Speaker 4: real level, like I'm not saying like ha haa gaslight

2132
01:45:55,800 --> 01:45:59,800
Speaker 4: the police, but like when people make like there's there's

2133
01:46:00,200 --> 01:46:03,360
Speaker 4: people that like precincts will like have tabs on yeah,

2134
01:46:03,400 --> 01:46:05,719
Speaker 4: because they'll be like, oh, yeah, this person just makes

2135
01:46:05,880 --> 01:46:09,600
Speaker 4: calls NonStop. So if they really are going to like

2136
01:46:09,840 --> 01:46:12,960
Speaker 4: really try to constantly bring the police down on you,

2137
01:46:13,160 --> 01:46:16,960
Speaker 4: you should let them know, like in a like for real, like, hey,

2138
01:46:17,439 --> 01:46:21,200
Speaker 4: these are not calls that really need attention because they're

2139
01:46:21,320 --> 01:46:22,240
Speaker 4: just on it.

2140
01:46:22,320 --> 01:46:25,400
Speaker 3: They're just mad at us. We've done nothing wrong. They're

2141
01:46:25,439 --> 01:46:25,880
Speaker 3: just upset.

2142
01:46:26,040 --> 01:46:28,000
Speaker 4: It's a smart They need to protect themselves, and that's

2143
01:46:28,000 --> 01:46:30,920
Speaker 4: a smart move. Better than better than peppers pray. Don't attack, yeah,

2144
01:46:30,920 --> 01:46:32,360
Speaker 4: because you don't want to end up peppers praying the

2145
01:46:32,400 --> 01:46:34,920
Speaker 4: police yeah yeah, or or the mother in law, right, anyone.

2146
01:46:36,160 --> 01:46:39,200
Speaker 4: You learn the self defense from the police, so you

2147
01:46:39,439 --> 01:46:42,840
Speaker 4: have the inside track. You know their weaknesses. Ye right,

2148
01:46:44,000 --> 01:46:45,320
Speaker 4: you taught me everything I know.

2149
01:46:46,720 --> 01:46:47,840
Speaker 2: Now I've become the master.

2150
01:46:48,439 --> 01:46:50,920
Speaker 4: I have a final pull for the story. Yeah, move

2151
01:46:51,080 --> 01:46:53,960
Speaker 4: or not, because we're twenty minutes away. I believe right

2152
01:46:54,040 --> 01:46:57,040
Speaker 4: from the in laws. I remember Josephine's thing real quickly,

2153
01:46:57,280 --> 01:47:00,200
Speaker 4: So do we move? I think this might warrant. I

2154
01:47:00,320 --> 01:47:04,200
Speaker 4: think it just might be at that point, but let's

2155
01:47:04,200 --> 01:47:06,920
Speaker 4: finish the story and see poll is up pulls up

2156
01:47:07,720 --> 01:47:10,680
Speaker 4: Opie says that's the only thing the mother in law knew,

2157
01:47:10,880 --> 01:47:13,639
Speaker 4: and she immediately wanted to use it as a weapon.

2158
01:47:13,800 --> 01:47:16,360
Speaker 4: In addition, my mother only knows that we are at

2159
01:47:16,360 --> 01:47:21,680
Speaker 4: odds and that it's not thanks to us, unfortunately, and

2160
01:47:21,840 --> 01:47:24,200
Speaker 4: that my fiance is very sorry about what is happening

2161
01:47:24,240 --> 01:47:27,040
Speaker 4: with his mother. I understand that she has health problems

2162
01:47:27,080 --> 01:47:29,360
Speaker 4: in her life, but I'm afraid that it's starting to

2163
01:47:29,439 --> 01:47:32,840
Speaker 4: get on her. It's starting to get to her mind.

2164
01:47:33,680 --> 01:47:34,800
Speaker 3: What do you guys think is best?

2165
01:47:34,920 --> 01:47:37,280
Speaker 4: My fiance is shocked and his own mother is capable

2166
01:47:37,320 --> 01:47:39,240
Speaker 4: of such horrible things, and he never thought in his

2167
01:47:39,439 --> 01:47:41,960
Speaker 4: life that she could do such a thing to her

2168
01:47:42,040 --> 01:47:45,000
Speaker 4: own son. I'm one hundred percent in favor of ending

2169
01:47:45,120 --> 01:47:48,040
Speaker 4: contact with her and especially with her husband. I don't

2170
01:47:48,120 --> 01:47:49,800
Speaker 4: know what we will do with all the presents we

2171
01:47:49,880 --> 01:47:53,880
Speaker 4: bought for them, keep them for Christmas and her sixtieth birthday.

2172
01:47:53,960 --> 01:47:57,000
Speaker 4: They're still unopened at our home. But this is really

2173
01:47:57,080 --> 01:48:00,320
Speaker 4: too much, even for me. How can a mother harm

2174
01:48:00,400 --> 01:48:03,280
Speaker 4: her own child like this? And that is the end

2175
01:48:03,400 --> 01:48:07,760
Speaker 4: of the story. Seventy seven percent of Chat is saying

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Speaker 4: move wow. If it isn't too much of it, Like

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Speaker 4: you know, there's work there's like a lot of you know,

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Speaker 4: cost of living. There's like a lot of like different

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Speaker 4: things that go into this. But assuming that like work,

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Speaker 4: cost of moving, all that is like within reason, If

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Speaker 4: all that stuff isn't like a bigger hurdle than this insanity,

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Speaker 4: which is insanity is pretty high, I think I think

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Speaker 4: we should move definitely if you as long as you're

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Speaker 4: not bankrupting yourself or putting yourself into debt.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like maybe not even move like far away. Just

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Speaker 1: move to a place where they don't know where you are. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: like move like a couple.

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Speaker 4: Houses away, straight up, straight like like or like another

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Speaker 4: ten minutes away.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, but that's all she wrote. You know

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Speaker 3: what a crazy story that was.

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Speaker 2: That was there was there was a lot of craziness,

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Speaker 2: a lot of craziness, a lot of craziness.

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Speaker 3: Eighty five percent move now. Yeah, So there you go. Man,

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Speaker 3: you think I was like you were, like, my parents

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Speaker 3: are crazy. Sometimes sometimes you got to pepper spray your

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Speaker 3: mother in law. Dude, it happens.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes.

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Speaker 3: You never had to use chemical weapons against my relatives. Listen,

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Speaker 3: it happens, brother, it happens.