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Speaker 1: Welcome back to another week Happy Hour listeners. Now, Rachel,

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Speaker 1: the top of this episode really popped off because front

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Speaker 1: and center we see this drama. We see this to

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Speaker 1: be continued from last week with Bennett and Noah on

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Speaker 1: this dreaded two on one, and we're definitely going to

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Speaker 1: get into it today, but we're not going to do

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Speaker 1: a full recap because we actually are going to have

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Speaker 1: one of the men who was front and center in

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Speaker 1: this drama, which is Noah himself. But before we bring

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Speaker 1: him on, I know that I have to give the

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Speaker 1: mic to you because you have a few special words prepared.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna try not to lose it as I speak

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Speaker 1: these special words. The time is Combecca. I've alluded to Kleenex.

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Speaker 1: I don't have Kleenex. Sadly, I guess I'll just have

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Speaker 1: to use my own shirt. But the time has come

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Speaker 1: a day I thought I would never see, and now

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Speaker 1: we'd just like to prepare for the moment. I'm already

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Speaker 1: dressed in black, obviously for the occasion. I'm gonna put

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Speaker 1: on sunglasses because I'm not just I'm not quite sure

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Speaker 1: how where my emotions are going to take me. But

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Speaker 1: those of you watching I'm setting up a cross and

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Speaker 1: athletic candle because we have some sad news to report today.

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Speaker 1: In Battelns Embatturnation. Last night we lost someone great. And

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Speaker 1: that's someone great was Bennett. Pause for dramatics. Now, I

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Speaker 1: know we see Bennett pop up later in the episode,

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Speaker 1: but let's just be ho. I said, Hey, looking good

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Speaker 1: for Bennett. So rather than drag this out for a

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Speaker 1: whole nother week, I'm just going to or maybe two,

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Speaker 1: who knows. I don't know how long Ben it is saying,

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Speaker 1: but I'm just going to nip it in the bud

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Speaker 1: now because I don't think my emotions can take another

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Speaker 1: few weeks of this. We lost one of the most charismatic, condescending, charming,

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Speaker 1: and coolest cats to ever Grace Vatchurnation. The other men

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Speaker 1: wish they could Bennett. We shall miss your wit, your jobs,

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Speaker 1: your itms, your emotional intelligence, and your chateau. Bennett. I

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Speaker 1: feel you were misunderstood. But if no one else understood you,

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Speaker 1: I did. I mean, Bennett, who even cares that you

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Speaker 1: could spell the word limousine? I can't either, but you

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Speaker 1: wealth Management, and Harvard, who cares that you couldn't solve

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Speaker 1: a problem that had to do with time, that had

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Speaker 1: to do with clocks. You know what you can solve.

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Speaker 1: You know what. You can read somebody's financial statements, assets,

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Speaker 1: You can manage billions and billions of dollars. Bennett, Bennett,

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Speaker 1: you will be missed. You were one of a kind.

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Speaker 1: You were in a league of your own. And if

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Speaker 1: there was a hall of fame of vatterination, gosh darneth,

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Speaker 1: you'd be in it. There will never be another Minnett,

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Speaker 1: and we wish you well on your next journey. And

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Speaker 1: in saying that, I'd like to close with this, how

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Speaker 1: do I say goodbye to the time we had? The

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Speaker 1: good times that made me laugh outweigh the bad. I

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Speaker 1: thought we'd get to see forever, But forever's gone away.

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Speaker 1: It's so hard to say goodbye to yesterday. Good Rachel,

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Speaker 1: Oh God, that was beautiful. I have tears in my

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Speaker 1: say now, Bennett is a lucky man to get those

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Speaker 1: words from you. And if and when I do die, Rachel,

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Speaker 1: longingly out the window for what could have been. Oh,

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Speaker 1: that gets been rough, Rachel. I know you know. Well,

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Speaker 1: we'll take a moment. Everyone, please give us a few

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Speaker 1: Bennett or whenever for Bennett. Everyone, you know, as sad

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Speaker 1: that Bennett will grace, perhaps on Paradise, perhaps on dare

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Speaker 1: I say something bigger and better, such as Boucher one day,

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Speaker 1: And so I think, you know, everyone has a past,

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Speaker 1: super supportive. Weren't too surprised, but we're more like, you know,

424
00:23:25,400 --> 00:23:29,280
Speaker 1: how much of this? How much is this that we're seeing?

425
00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:32,399
Speaker 1: How much was left out that wasn't there? And obviously

426
00:23:32,440 --> 00:23:35,000
Speaker 1: I can't talk about it. Oh so you're saying some

427
00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:38,280
Speaker 1: things were left out. We didn't get the whole story, Okay, Noah.

428
00:23:38,359 --> 00:23:40,119
Speaker 1: So you know you're in a good company here you're

429
00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:43,080
Speaker 1: talking to we're all we all three have biblical names here, Okay.

430
00:23:43,400 --> 00:23:46,960
Speaker 1: Rebecca Rachel Noah. Okay, so you're in a safe place.

431
00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:54,400
Speaker 1: You're a safe place here, but okay, no, I feel

432
00:23:54,440 --> 00:23:57,159
Speaker 1: like I've seen on social media you've been alluding to this,

433
00:23:57,320 --> 00:24:00,840
Speaker 1: but you're the villain. Okay, let's just call it about

434
00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:03,479
Speaker 1: Becca and I loved you jumping the fits. We are

435
00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:05,840
Speaker 1: actually big fans of you jumping the fits. I thought

436
00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:07,280
Speaker 1: it was a it was a bold move, it was

437
00:24:07,320 --> 00:24:09,720
Speaker 1: a big move, it was necessary, and everybody else was

438
00:24:09,760 --> 00:24:11,200
Speaker 1: just jealous that they didn't think of it or do

439
00:24:11,280 --> 00:24:15,480
Speaker 1: it first. Okay, but you're the villain. What do you

440
00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:19,840
Speaker 1: think about that? How do you feel being portrayed as

441
00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:22,359
Speaker 1: the villain? I mean, like maybe maybe been it is

442
00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:25,639
Speaker 1: getting a little bit of it too, but I think you.

443
00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:28,440
Speaker 1: I think it's more you. I think it's more so.

444
00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:33,879
Speaker 1: I think I'll go ahead something just before to give you.

445
00:24:34,320 --> 00:24:35,719
Speaker 1: I mean, because I don't know how if you had

446
00:24:35,760 --> 00:24:37,639
Speaker 1: watched the show before. But usually in the past, when

447
00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:40,600
Speaker 1: we see a villain, like you know right away who

448
00:24:40,640 --> 00:24:42,639
Speaker 1: the villain is going to be because they say certain

449
00:24:42,720 --> 00:24:44,879
Speaker 1: things to the group of people that like I remember

450
00:24:44,920 --> 00:24:46,920
Speaker 1: the villain on on my season, well not on my season,

451
00:24:46,960 --> 00:24:50,640
Speaker 1: but on r season, like lost her Mind, a little

452
00:24:50,680 --> 00:24:52,880
Speaker 1: bit and like went off and was calling us bitches

453
00:24:52,960 --> 00:24:56,359
Speaker 1: and worse things. But with you, it's in a different way.

454
00:24:56,480 --> 00:25:00,200
Speaker 1: It's like a new kind of villain that I like,

455
00:25:01,320 --> 00:25:02,960
Speaker 1: I watch you go down and I see like the

456
00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:05,720
Speaker 1: banter between you and Bennett, but I like, I wouldn't

457
00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:07,600
Speaker 1: call you a full villain. But it's just like the

458
00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:11,400
Speaker 1: show needs that title. You know, he's a villain, You're

459
00:25:11,440 --> 00:25:16,919
Speaker 1: a manipulator. Listen your boy. Bennett's little shimmer, I mean

460
00:25:17,040 --> 00:25:19,159
Speaker 1: his glimmer. A shimmer is not a word. His glimmer

461
00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:20,800
Speaker 1: is starting to wear off and he's starting to be

462
00:25:20,880 --> 00:25:23,359
Speaker 1: shown for more of a villain. And that's how some

463
00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:25,720
Speaker 1: of the guys at the house song We we got

464
00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:28,280
Speaker 1: to see Bennett. He's funny, he's quirky, he's all these things.

465
00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:31,280
Speaker 1: But then he'll say stuff and you're like, I mean,

466
00:25:31,359 --> 00:25:35,280
Speaker 1: it's just he was just very condescending and demeaning totally,

467
00:25:35,880 --> 00:25:37,720
Speaker 1: and so we'd be like, dude, what is that. You know,

468
00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:40,159
Speaker 1: you're funny and we like you, but it's also some

469
00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:43,200
Speaker 1: random things. So mine was he like that with just

470
00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:45,000
Speaker 1: you or with all of the guys too. For the

471
00:25:45,040 --> 00:25:47,960
Speaker 1: most part, he was Okay, I don't know, which question

472
00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:50,600
Speaker 1: to answer first? There's so much to unbottle here. Um,

473
00:25:55,960 --> 00:26:02,639
Speaker 1: why all right, So I'll start with with your question.

474
00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:04,760
Speaker 1: When I saw that I was starting to be portrayed

475
00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:09,639
Speaker 1: as the villain, honestly, I was annoyed at first, and

476
00:26:10,080 --> 00:26:12,479
Speaker 1: all my friends and family thought it's hilarious because they

477
00:26:12,560 --> 00:26:15,080
Speaker 1: know me, and they're like, dude, you look I mean

478
00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:20,480
Speaker 1: you kind of looking like like just a manipulative torp. Dude,

479
00:26:20,560 --> 00:26:22,399
Speaker 1: you look like you're just doing all these things and

480
00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:24,880
Speaker 1: we know you're not like that, Like are you okay?

481
00:26:24,920 --> 00:26:29,000
Speaker 1: And I'm like, yeah, I'm fine. It's just annoying because

482
00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:32,440
Speaker 1: you know, their opinion matters more to me than people

483
00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:35,520
Speaker 1: on Twitter that are ragging on me. They have no

484
00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:37,080
Speaker 1: idea who I am, They have no idea what my

485
00:26:37,160 --> 00:26:39,560
Speaker 1: life's like. So I value their opinion a lot more so.

486
00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:41,280
Speaker 1: I got a lot of support from them, but I

487
00:26:41,359 --> 00:26:43,600
Speaker 1: was annoyed when I you know, I figured out I'm

488
00:26:43,640 --> 00:26:45,439
Speaker 1: the villain. That's why on Instagram I made these sly

489
00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:49,440
Speaker 1: little jokes like yeah, I'm the big bad villain to me.

490
00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:52,040
Speaker 1: A lot of the stuff that I said was left

491
00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:57,560
Speaker 1: out would have probably clarified why why things were portrayed

492
00:26:57,560 --> 00:27:01,880
Speaker 1: the way that were. So when I the first time

493
00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:07,920
Speaker 1: I talked to Tasha, I knew. I knew things After

494
00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:11,680
Speaker 1: that point, we're gonna be bad. And the only reason

495
00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:13,879
Speaker 1: I wanted to talk to her is because the guys

496
00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:16,359
Speaker 1: were saying, basically like, dude, you got this rose for

497
00:27:16,440 --> 00:27:19,040
Speaker 1: no reason. We know it. It's just to make us

498
00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:21,320
Speaker 1: all try harder. Piss us off all this stuff. So

499
00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:24,399
Speaker 1: I said, hey, Tasha, I have feelings for you, and

500
00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:26,440
Speaker 1: I want to know if you gave it to me

501
00:27:26,560 --> 00:27:31,760
Speaker 1: just for fun, because if you did, I'll go home. Yeah,

502
00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:34,760
Speaker 1: I mean it was for me. It was for me

503
00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:37,680
Speaker 1: being like I will leave like this is what I heard.

504
00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:39,440
Speaker 1: If it's I want to know if it's true or not,

505
00:27:39,520 --> 00:27:42,760
Speaker 1: because I don't really want to be here if it is. Now,

506
00:27:43,160 --> 00:27:47,040
Speaker 1: no part of you thought she would have because you

507
00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:50,879
Speaker 1: were basically saying, hey, the men are doing this and

508
00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:53,800
Speaker 1: they're they're quite you. You you set that up, and

509
00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:56,320
Speaker 1: it's become this thing that I like, can't stand. This

510
00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:58,639
Speaker 1: whole questioning my integrity I think is being blown out

511
00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:00,800
Speaker 1: of the water. Personally, I don't think it's really all

512
00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:04,320
Speaker 1: that deep, but you kind of set her on the

513
00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:07,040
Speaker 1: path to think that because of what you were saying,

514
00:28:07,160 --> 00:28:09,720
Speaker 1: you can't tell me. There was no part of you

515
00:28:10,280 --> 00:28:14,200
Speaker 1: that thought, oh gosh, maybe she's gonna take this the

516
00:28:14,280 --> 00:28:18,320
Speaker 1: wrong way. I thought, I mean, I thought, maybe she

517
00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:21,600
Speaker 1: will take this the wrong way. But I also I

518
00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:23,879
Speaker 1: was never malicious and devious on how I did that.

519
00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:26,120
Speaker 1: I'm not sitting back in my room thinking I'm gonna

520
00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:28,720
Speaker 1: say this because I have the biggest rose in back

521
00:28:29,160 --> 00:28:31,040
Speaker 1: history on my chest, which is ten pounds for some

522
00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:36,520
Speaker 1: reason rose. Yeah, it's huge, But I'm not gonna say

523
00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:38,920
Speaker 1: all this. I mean, I wasn't devious when I did it.

524
00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:43,160
Speaker 1: I honestly wanted to know, like is this true or not?

525
00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:46,480
Speaker 1: And it exploded to right, it exploded into something I

526
00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:50,960
Speaker 1: didn't really intend. And you knew it when the group,

527
00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:54,360
Speaker 1: when the group was all back together and Tasia went

528
00:28:54,520 --> 00:28:57,520
Speaker 1: and on her rant and they were like, well what happened?

529
00:28:57,640 --> 00:29:01,040
Speaker 1: Like who said something? And you were like who said that?

530
00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:05,440
Speaker 1: That's where I was so confused, because I feel like

531
00:29:05,560 --> 00:29:08,560
Speaker 1: watching that interaction Aftertation left and you know, had this

532
00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:10,400
Speaker 1: moment where she's like, if you're gonna question me, I'm

533
00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:14,320
Speaker 1: out of here. You see you up against how many

534
00:29:14,360 --> 00:29:16,560
Speaker 1: guys were left at that point like sixteen or something like,

535
00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:19,800
Speaker 1: they're all questioning you saying Noah, like we didn't say

536
00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:22,320
Speaker 1: these things too directly, and you should have had a conversation,

537
00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:24,080
Speaker 1: and it made it seem like you were like, well,

538
00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:26,400
Speaker 1: yes I did, or I tried, or there was just

539
00:29:26,520 --> 00:29:29,080
Speaker 1: a lot loss in translation as viewer, where I was like,

540
00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:32,120
Speaker 1: we're missing something here, because there obviously is a lot

541
00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:36,200
Speaker 1: more shown than what we can see weekly on the show.

542
00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:40,040
Speaker 1: But like all of the guys basically were like hands up, like, no,

543
00:29:40,240 --> 00:29:42,280
Speaker 1: we didn't have this conversation with you. We didn't say

544
00:29:42,320 --> 00:29:44,600
Speaker 1: anything like this too, So where did that come from? Then?

545
00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:47,520
Speaker 1: So you said sixteen guys were gonna at me. If

546
00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:49,160
Speaker 1: you notice it's five or six, and it's the same

547
00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:52,320
Speaker 1: five or six that I realized when I showed up.

548
00:29:52,680 --> 00:29:55,000
Speaker 1: You know, they had their packed whatever they called themselves,

549
00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:58,959
Speaker 1: the Sweet sixteen, o G sixteen, whatever it is, they

550
00:29:59,040 --> 00:30:02,360
Speaker 1: had a packed they shared in your heartbreak with Claire,

551
00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:05,840
Speaker 1: which coming on, I had no idea what happened. I

552
00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:11,360
Speaker 1: just knew Claire's not the bacherette pass the bacherette. Uh great,

553
00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:13,440
Speaker 1: That's all I knew. I did not know things went

554
00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:16,000
Speaker 1: down how they went down. So That's why when Spencer

555
00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:19,880
Speaker 1: got flack sake in these jokes, we didn't know all

556
00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:21,680
Speaker 1: the stuff they went through. So when I showed up,

557
00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:24,320
Speaker 1: I knew that this is a group of guys that

558
00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:27,680
Speaker 1: are super close. But I have a target on my back,

559
00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:30,720
Speaker 1: and regardless of what I'm gonna do, I'm gonna have

560
00:30:30,760 --> 00:30:32,720
Speaker 1: a target on my back. So I was at the

561
00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:38,080
Speaker 1: point where I said, I'm either going to completely be myself.

562
00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:42,240
Speaker 1: The guys that are disrespectful to me, I don't care.

563
00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:45,000
Speaker 1: The guys that are respectful to me, I'll be respectful

564
00:30:45,000 --> 00:30:47,880
Speaker 1: to them, but I'm not gonna just be quiet and

565
00:30:47,960 --> 00:30:49,680
Speaker 1: let them hush me away because I'm the new guy

566
00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:52,600
Speaker 1: and I'm the youngest. Because you didn't have a target

567
00:30:52,680 --> 00:31:01,400
Speaker 1: on your back under my nose. If you would have

568
00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:03,800
Speaker 1: just shaved it off prior to coming that first night,

569
00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:05,680
Speaker 1: who knows where we would be at this point. But

570
00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:08,080
Speaker 1: then Tasia wouldn't have shaved it off, you know, And

571
00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:12,520
Speaker 1: that was smoothoth she shaved it off. I'm like she

572
00:31:12,840 --> 00:31:15,760
Speaker 1: she complimented me more in those two hours, in the

573
00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:18,640
Speaker 1: whole week or two weeks, and I'm like, Okay, well

574
00:31:20,120 --> 00:31:22,360
Speaker 1: I guess, but I wish I would have known this

575
00:31:22,400 --> 00:31:26,480
Speaker 1: a long time ago. But I those guys that I

576
00:31:26,560 --> 00:31:28,640
Speaker 1: got into it with, it was five or six of them,

577
00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:30,800
Speaker 1: and they would have banded together. You could have said,

578
00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:33,520
Speaker 1: Noah has a unibrown blueskin and they'd have been like,

579
00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:36,040
Speaker 1: Noah does have a unibrown blueskin. They would have banded

580
00:31:36,080 --> 00:31:38,320
Speaker 1: together and said anything like in support of each other.

581
00:31:38,680 --> 00:31:40,960
Speaker 1: And that's why the footage that's missing. It's a shame

582
00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:44,000
Speaker 1: because I'm like, okay, you can see me calling people

583
00:31:44,040 --> 00:31:46,160
Speaker 1: out and it just being brushed aside, like I don't

584
00:31:46,160 --> 00:31:47,360
Speaker 1: know what you're talking about, dude, I don't know what

585
00:31:47,400 --> 00:31:50,120
Speaker 1: you're talking about. But then you know, I hear it

586
00:31:50,160 --> 00:31:51,880
Speaker 1: as I'm walking into the house or into the hub

587
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:54,920
Speaker 1: or whatever. Did anyone kind of have your back and

588
00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:59,800
Speaker 1: stand up for you in that instance? That instance, no, nobody.

589
00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:03,440
Speaker 1: It was me, and we're all looking around that people

590
00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:06,880
Speaker 1: are calling out producer. It was Mayhem. They don't show

591
00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:11,200
Speaker 1: how bad it really was. It was six first one

592
00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:13,960
Speaker 1: yelling and Ed I don't even know where he came from.

593
00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:17,200
Speaker 1: He just started thinking. I don't think he knew where

594
00:32:17,200 --> 00:32:23,080
Speaker 1: he was. He was just yelling. He was To be fair, No,

595
00:32:24,200 --> 00:32:27,400
Speaker 1: I didn't expect any of my back that because I

596
00:32:27,480 --> 00:32:30,640
Speaker 1: knew day well that it would have. I mean, people

597
00:32:30,640 --> 00:32:32,800
Speaker 1: are gonna be pissed about it if it's if they

598
00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:34,680
Speaker 1: think that I'm just lying and making it up. That's

599
00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:37,280
Speaker 1: why I didn't want to bring in names. Um. I

600
00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:38,920
Speaker 1: just wanted her to tell me yes or no, I

601
00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:41,040
Speaker 1: gave you that rose to help. I gave you that

602
00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:44,080
Speaker 1: rose just because or yeah, I do I feelings for you.

603
00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:46,400
Speaker 1: So nobody had in my back, but they didn't. I

604
00:32:46,400 --> 00:32:48,840
Speaker 1: didn't deserve anybody had my back at that point. Later on,

605
00:32:48,960 --> 00:32:50,480
Speaker 1: when they got to know me, I did have a

606
00:32:50,600 --> 00:32:52,280
Speaker 1: quite a few guys in the house. Yeah, I feel

607
00:32:52,280 --> 00:32:54,000
Speaker 1: like we had been on here last week and he

608
00:32:54,560 --> 00:32:56,840
Speaker 1: spoke highly of you. I feel like, I mean, if

609
00:32:56,880 --> 00:32:59,040
Speaker 1: you really wanted to know, if Tastia gave me the

610
00:32:59,120 --> 00:33:01,200
Speaker 1: rose for real, you just have asked it and it

611
00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:04,000
Speaker 1: wouldn't have, you know, escalated to what it did. But

612
00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:09,000
Speaker 1: it did escalate. And then we saw, you know, you

613
00:33:09,160 --> 00:33:12,000
Speaker 1: and Bennett start. You can always see as you're watching

614
00:33:12,040 --> 00:33:13,280
Speaker 1: the show, and I'm not sure if you're a fan

615
00:33:13,360 --> 00:33:16,680
Speaker 1: of the show, before you can see people start like

616
00:33:16,920 --> 00:33:19,280
Speaker 1: it's like they start rising up and you're like Okay,

617
00:33:19,720 --> 00:33:22,960
Speaker 1: they're going on a two on one. It's happening. And

618
00:33:23,400 --> 00:33:26,920
Speaker 1: it shifted a bit in this group, but just from

619
00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:32,000
Speaker 1: Claire's season totatious season, but as we see it becomes

620
00:33:32,080 --> 00:33:34,200
Speaker 1: you and Bennett at any time where you were like,

621
00:33:34,520 --> 00:33:37,560
Speaker 1: were you like, oh my gosh, I'm gonna be the

622
00:33:37,600 --> 00:33:40,120
Speaker 1: one on the two on one. It's gonna be me

623
00:33:40,400 --> 00:33:45,480
Speaker 1: versus Bennett. How did I get to this place? So

624
00:33:45,640 --> 00:33:48,640
Speaker 1: I have this habit of just pretty much planned umb

625
00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:51,800
Speaker 1: especially when it comes to insults, just brush them off.

626
00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:54,040
Speaker 1: I don't care. I don't want them bother me, because honestly,

627
00:33:54,040 --> 00:33:54,960
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, I'm like, what do

628
00:33:55,000 --> 00:33:57,800
Speaker 1: I get out of this? Yeah, I can just totally

629
00:33:57,880 --> 00:34:01,280
Speaker 1: go in and make all these insulted or like, I

630
00:34:01,400 --> 00:34:02,680
Speaker 1: can do a lot of things with it, But what

631
00:34:02,760 --> 00:34:04,040
Speaker 1: do I get at the end? I might feel a

632
00:34:04,080 --> 00:34:06,080
Speaker 1: little rush for the moment because I made some guy,

633
00:34:06,360 --> 00:34:08,400
Speaker 1: you know, I made fun of him or something. So

634
00:34:08,640 --> 00:34:12,840
Speaker 1: I would get remarks from Bennett all the time, but

635
00:34:14,200 --> 00:34:16,480
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm not going to feed into this. Honestly,

636
00:34:16,719 --> 00:34:19,200
Speaker 1: I was I'd stay on the defensive. I was like,

637
00:34:19,200 --> 00:34:21,040
Speaker 1: I'm not going to feed into it, and they're just jabs.

638
00:34:21,080 --> 00:34:22,960
Speaker 1: They're little jabs. Who cares? You know. I came from

639
00:34:23,000 --> 00:34:25,560
Speaker 1: a family of ten brothers and sisters. We get jabs

640
00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:27,480
Speaker 1: all the time. It's like, whatever, you know, where do

641
00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:29,719
Speaker 1: you fall in live? I'm in the middle with my twin.

642
00:34:30,200 --> 00:34:34,040
Speaker 1: You're a middle child, Yeah, makes so much sense. I'm

643
00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:36,320
Speaker 1: a little child too. Maybe that's why I love to

644
00:34:36,400 --> 00:34:42,840
Speaker 1: hate you. I understand you. No, But I heard the

645
00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:45,400
Speaker 1: remarks even when I when I jumped the fence. When

646
00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:46,719
Speaker 1: I was jumping the fence, I was like, I know

647
00:34:46,840 --> 00:34:48,960
Speaker 1: this is going to cause drama, but listen, I'm here

648
00:34:49,000 --> 00:34:51,359
Speaker 1: for tastion. I'm not here to fit in with these

649
00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:53,680
Speaker 1: guys because either she'll like me or she doesn't, and

650
00:34:53,760 --> 00:34:57,480
Speaker 1: then the guys we'll see, you know. But even with

651
00:34:57,600 --> 00:35:01,279
Speaker 1: that moment, mean Bennett had said like two words to

652
00:35:01,360 --> 00:35:03,080
Speaker 1: each other up to that point, like we haven't talked.

653
00:35:03,120 --> 00:35:05,719
Speaker 1: All I hear is just little little chirps in the

654
00:35:05,800 --> 00:35:08,080
Speaker 1: corner the whole time, and I'm like, this guy has

655
00:35:08,200 --> 00:35:11,799
Speaker 1: no idea who I am. We've never talked. They did

656
00:35:11,840 --> 00:35:13,840
Speaker 1: the same thing they did with Spencer, where they started

657
00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:16,719
Speaker 1: going on Spencer and Spencer ended up kind of being like,

658
00:35:16,800 --> 00:35:19,400
Speaker 1: I don't want to deal with this drama. I'll you know,

659
00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:21,600
Speaker 1: I was in the wrong, whereas I was like, I

660
00:35:21,680 --> 00:35:25,200
Speaker 1: haven't done anything to wrong any of you. The tattling

661
00:35:25,480 --> 00:35:28,680
Speaker 1: in that I could have definitely went through more smoothly,

662
00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:30,880
Speaker 1: but you know, looking back, I don't regret it. I

663
00:35:30,960 --> 00:35:32,879
Speaker 1: was just like, I could have been more smooth about

664
00:35:32,880 --> 00:35:34,440
Speaker 1: that and handled it in a different way, but how

665
00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:37,600
Speaker 1: it played out. I never wronged anybody. I never went

666
00:35:37,640 --> 00:35:39,200
Speaker 1: out of my way to do these things. But some

667
00:35:39,239 --> 00:35:40,759
Speaker 1: of these guys are coming at me like I just

668
00:35:41,760 --> 00:35:44,200
Speaker 1: you know, went in and stole other presents from under

669
00:35:44,239 --> 00:35:46,239
Speaker 1: the Christmas tree. I didn't. I didn't get it. So

670
00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:49,719
Speaker 1: the Bennett remarks, I brushed him off and brushed him off,

671
00:35:50,239 --> 00:35:52,520
Speaker 1: and then people were telling me, like, you know, Ivan

672
00:35:52,640 --> 00:35:55,920
Speaker 1: was like, dude, he's Ivan's my boy by the web preface,

673
00:35:57,080 --> 00:36:00,440
Speaker 1: you know, people were telling me like, what's up with you, Bennett,

674
00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:01,680
Speaker 1: and I'm like, I don't know what you're talking about.

675
00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:04,840
Speaker 1: And then I started to notice, I'm like, you know what,

676
00:36:05,040 --> 00:36:07,640
Speaker 1: he is kind of coming at me sideways. And then

677
00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:09,799
Speaker 1: when Tastia said it, I was like, all right, yeah,

678
00:36:10,040 --> 00:36:12,439
Speaker 1: this is where this is where I'm done playing around

679
00:36:12,440 --> 00:36:15,160
Speaker 1: because I actually you know, I started having feelings for Tastia,

680
00:36:16,000 --> 00:36:17,880
Speaker 1: and I'm like, now we're all dating the same the

681
00:36:18,000 --> 00:36:21,759
Speaker 1: same chick, and you're like coming after me. Now it's

682
00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:25,120
Speaker 1: actually personal. You know, Before I'm like who cares? But now,

683
00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:27,480
Speaker 1: you know. As it progressed and she brought it up,

684
00:36:27,520 --> 00:36:30,280
Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, something, something's gonna have to happen.

685
00:36:30,719 --> 00:36:33,080
Speaker 1: And it looks like one of us is gonna go home.

686
00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:34,879
Speaker 1: I don't know how, but one of us is gonna

687
00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:37,200
Speaker 1: go home, and the other person's gonna try to burn

688
00:36:37,239 --> 00:36:39,520
Speaker 1: the house down on the way. That's what's gonna happen.

689
00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:41,360
Speaker 1: I don't know how I was gonna play out. I

690
00:36:41,480 --> 00:36:44,600
Speaker 1: just can see it coming. So we see you and

691
00:36:44,719 --> 00:36:48,120
Speaker 1: Bennett on this two on one, and usually I feel

692
00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:51,000
Speaker 1: like the guys don't have you know, because Rachel, did

693
00:36:51,040 --> 00:36:54,600
Speaker 1: you have a two on one on your side? Okay? So,

694
00:36:55,040 --> 00:36:57,480
Speaker 1: and I feel like usually they don't leave the guys

695
00:36:57,680 --> 00:36:59,759
Speaker 1: alone that long, at least on my two on one,

696
00:36:59,800 --> 00:37:02,640
Speaker 1: Like I spent the whole first half with them, like

697
00:37:02,719 --> 00:37:05,200
Speaker 1: they weren't alone together, and so I thought it was

698
00:37:05,280 --> 00:37:07,239
Speaker 1: interesting that they put you two in the room. And

699
00:37:07,320 --> 00:37:09,840
Speaker 1: of course they knew Lack Bennett had this gift for you.

700
00:37:11,160 --> 00:37:15,800
Speaker 1: So he gives you this book about emotional intelligence, and

701
00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:19,600
Speaker 1: I just have to say, I hope we see the

702
00:37:19,640 --> 00:37:22,080
Speaker 1: book at some point, maybe during mental all. Who knows.

703
00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:24,880
Speaker 1: I hope it. Maybe you still have it. I don't know.

704
00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:28,400
Speaker 1: But have you read the book? And how would you

705
00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:33,520
Speaker 1: rate your emotional intelligence? So I started to read the book.

706
00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:36,680
Speaker 1: I did. I think there's gonna I mean, there's a

707
00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:39,200
Speaker 1: clip of me somewhere cropped up with a little bit

708
00:37:39,239 --> 00:37:42,600
Speaker 1: of a Chardonnay, my socks on the couch reading this book.

709
00:37:43,120 --> 00:37:47,279
Speaker 1: The mustache socks. No, they're different socks. But you know,

710
00:37:48,080 --> 00:37:50,000
Speaker 1: I'm just chilling. I'm like this. You know, I'm not

711
00:37:50,880 --> 00:37:54,000
Speaker 1: above being taught about, you know, more emotional intelligence. If

712
00:37:54,040 --> 00:37:55,920
Speaker 1: it's a good book. It's a good book, it's peer

713
00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:58,800
Speaker 1: reviewed from Harvard. Then it read it four times apparently,

714
00:37:58,880 --> 00:38:00,759
Speaker 1: but he didn't apply it, so I can read it once.

715
00:38:04,800 --> 00:38:06,399
Speaker 1: We're not going to have any of that. I read

716
00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:08,600
Speaker 1: a lot of it. Um, I feel like to rate

717
00:38:08,719 --> 00:38:13,320
Speaker 1: myself on emotional intelligence, like kind of defeats the purpose

718
00:38:13,520 --> 00:38:16,359
Speaker 1: of emotional intelligence. Do you think you have more than

719
00:38:16,480 --> 00:38:20,759
Speaker 1: one of the key components? Yeah? Um. The funny thing

720
00:38:20,880 --> 00:38:24,239
Speaker 1: is Bennett said self management is the only one I have. UM,

721
00:38:25,000 --> 00:38:27,640
Speaker 1: But I mean the things that he said I didn't

722
00:38:27,680 --> 00:38:29,560
Speaker 1: have are things like I mean, there are things that

723
00:38:29,680 --> 00:38:32,680
Speaker 1: I like make a mission to live by and like

724
00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:35,440
Speaker 1: put at the top of my list, Like empathy is one.

725
00:38:37,120 --> 00:38:39,759
Speaker 1: I would say, screw nursing if I wasn't empathetic, because

726
00:38:39,760 --> 00:38:41,920
Speaker 1: it's not fun. It's not like those days where it

727
00:38:41,960 --> 00:38:43,960
Speaker 1: just sucks and you're like why would I be doing this?

728
00:38:44,120 --> 00:38:46,200
Speaker 1: So like in order to say I don't have empathy,

729
00:38:46,239 --> 00:38:49,080
Speaker 1: that's what I have to like show every day or

730
00:38:49,200 --> 00:38:52,239
Speaker 1: I'm just a bad nurse, you know, And so I like,

731
00:38:52,520 --> 00:38:54,959
Speaker 1: damn it. Some some of the things that he said

732
00:38:54,960 --> 00:38:58,600
Speaker 1: I lacked, I just like, I'm I'm hearing them, and

733
00:38:59,320 --> 00:39:02,239
Speaker 1: I'm like, you can tell I'm getting so mad, I'm

734
00:39:02,280 --> 00:39:04,960
Speaker 1: getting so throttled. But I'm like, if I feed into this,

735
00:39:05,040 --> 00:39:06,919
Speaker 1: I'm gonna look like a twenty five year old punk

736
00:39:07,280 --> 00:39:09,800
Speaker 1: that's a hothead. So I just have to listen. But

737
00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:12,480
Speaker 1: I would disagree with a lot of the emotional intelligence things,

738
00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:13,520
Speaker 1: and I think a lot of the people that know

739
00:39:13,680 --> 00:39:16,719
Speaker 1: me would as well. Yeah, you mentioned your age, and

740
00:39:16,760 --> 00:39:19,719
Speaker 1: I feel like you got a lot of black from that. Um,

741
00:39:20,239 --> 00:39:23,080
Speaker 1: you know you're you're Are you twenty five? I just

742
00:39:23,120 --> 00:39:26,359
Speaker 1: turned twenty six on the fifteenth November. Okay, just you said,

743
00:39:26,400 --> 00:39:32,640
Speaker 1: get it read the scorpio. I knew you knew it,

744
00:39:32,719 --> 00:39:36,040
Speaker 1: And normally I asked, I think your birthday? Where did

745
00:39:36,120 --> 00:39:45,319
Speaker 1: your birthday? Since the zoom and leaves, She's gone, get

746
00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:47,680
Speaker 1: the water out, dad, bringing the water. I need the water,

747
00:39:48,200 --> 00:39:54,040
Speaker 1: the Holy water, especially bell scorpios. I know it all

748
00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:56,360
Speaker 1: makes sense to all of a sudden. No, but but

749
00:39:56,520 --> 00:39:58,799
Speaker 1: your age. I feel like, and this is a theme

750
00:39:58,880 --> 00:40:02,239
Speaker 1: on The Bachelor Age younger people. It becomes a talking point,

751
00:40:02,280 --> 00:40:05,680
Speaker 1: it becomes an issue, but it is something that Tasia recognized.

752
00:40:05,719 --> 00:40:07,520
Speaker 1: Tasia said to you in the episode when she was,

753
00:40:07,800 --> 00:40:10,160
Speaker 1: you know, trying to decide between you and Finnett. She

754
00:40:10,360 --> 00:40:14,120
Speaker 1: says to you, I feel like you're not ready for marriage.

755
00:40:14,320 --> 00:40:16,200
Speaker 1: She makes a comment, I feel like you're not ready

756
00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:18,200
Speaker 1: for this. How did that make you feel? And and

757
00:40:18,320 --> 00:40:22,719
Speaker 1: why do you think she said that to you? Um? Well,

758
00:40:22,760 --> 00:40:25,879
Speaker 1: to be honest, So the age thing, that's something I've

759
00:40:25,920 --> 00:40:28,320
Speaker 1: been dealing with my entire life because me and my

760
00:40:28,400 --> 00:40:30,680
Speaker 1: twins started college when we were I mean, we started

761
00:40:30,719 --> 00:40:33,480
Speaker 1: doing concurrent classes when we were sixteen. By the time

762
00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:34,960
Speaker 1: we were eighteen, we've already done with all of our

763
00:40:35,239 --> 00:40:40,839
Speaker 1: prerequisits and stuff. So I was, I might, I might

764
00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:45,239
Speaker 1: be You're grown on Rachel, I no, no, shut it down.

765
00:40:45,320 --> 00:40:48,680
Speaker 1: Shut it down as a full moon out tonight too.

766
00:40:51,040 --> 00:40:54,680
Speaker 1: But I'm used to like always being like being a topic,

767
00:40:54,760 --> 00:40:57,120
Speaker 1: and it used to bother me so much. Like that's

768
00:40:57,160 --> 00:41:00,319
Speaker 1: why my Instagram handle was baby Herb for the longest time,

769
00:41:00,360 --> 00:41:02,600
Speaker 1: because that was a nickname everybody called. My last name

770
00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:04,960
Speaker 1: is Herb. You know, that's what everyone's like, He's so

771
00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:06,840
Speaker 1: much younger. My friends were six years older than me.

772
00:41:07,320 --> 00:41:08,759
Speaker 1: So I used to bother me. But then I got

773
00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:12,600
Speaker 1: to a point where, you know, I'm the ten ten

774
00:41:12,680 --> 00:41:15,080
Speaker 1: years younger than the people in my nursing class and

775
00:41:15,160 --> 00:41:17,560
Speaker 1: working at a furniture store when everyone's in their thirties

776
00:41:17,560 --> 00:41:20,319
Speaker 1: and I'm twenty or nineteen. And I started taking as

777
00:41:20,320 --> 00:41:23,000
Speaker 1: a compliment like not a chip on my shoulder, but

778
00:41:23,120 --> 00:41:24,799
Speaker 1: more like let me prove you wrong kind of thing,

779
00:41:24,880 --> 00:41:26,880
Speaker 1: like let my actions speak for themselves. I don't need

780
00:41:26,960 --> 00:41:31,360
Speaker 1: to say anything about it. Um. So that's kind of

781
00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:33,040
Speaker 1: how I've been living my life when people view me

782
00:41:33,280 --> 00:41:35,239
Speaker 1: like my age is a big deal, like, let me

783
00:41:35,280 --> 00:41:38,879
Speaker 1: prove you wrong. I mean, just staid instead of having

784
00:41:38,920 --> 00:41:42,279
Speaker 1: a preconceived notion to me, because I'm twenty five, talk

785
00:41:42,360 --> 00:41:44,319
Speaker 1: to me and hang out and my actions will speak

786
00:41:44,360 --> 00:41:46,400
Speaker 1: way louder than whatever I say. So why do you

787
00:41:46,440 --> 00:41:49,520
Speaker 1: think you weren't ready? Well when Tatious said that, you

788
00:41:49,640 --> 00:41:53,759
Speaker 1: have to look from tatious perspective. Caught up in a

789
00:41:53,800 --> 00:41:58,279
Speaker 1: lot of drama. All the drama and something one thing

790
00:41:58,360 --> 00:42:00,680
Speaker 1: she did saying, she said a lot to me, like

791
00:42:00,760 --> 00:42:04,120
Speaker 1: you're always goofing around, You're always having fun. I'm kind

792
00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:07,560
Speaker 1: of like that, you know, in my life it's I'm

793
00:42:07,560 --> 00:42:09,360
Speaker 1: a more half full kind of guy. So I was

794
00:42:09,480 --> 00:42:11,359
Speaker 1: goofing around with her a lot. But I did make

795
00:42:11,880 --> 00:42:14,000
Speaker 1: it a point to show a serious side, and you

796
00:42:14,040 --> 00:42:16,680
Speaker 1: didn't see that in the art thing. But I dove

797
00:42:16,760 --> 00:42:18,920
Speaker 1: into I got. I was the first one to go,

798
00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:20,640
Speaker 1: so I set the pace for how emotional we got.

799
00:42:20,680 --> 00:42:22,760
Speaker 1: And clearly the other thing got very emotional with everyone.

800
00:42:23,360 --> 00:42:25,080
Speaker 1: But I try to go out of my way to

801
00:42:25,160 --> 00:42:28,320
Speaker 1: be like or to show my more deep sides and

802
00:42:28,600 --> 00:42:32,560
Speaker 1: more husband sides and things like that. But Tacia can

803
00:42:32,600 --> 00:42:34,560
Speaker 1: only see so much, so if all she sees is

804
00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:37,360
Speaker 1: us having fun, a little bit of deep sides that

805
00:42:37,440 --> 00:42:39,759
Speaker 1: she's more intrigued by, and then the rest is me

806
00:42:41,440 --> 00:42:43,480
Speaker 1: on the defensive fight and everybody in the house and like,

807
00:42:43,719 --> 00:42:46,040
Speaker 1: you know, caught up in drama. I don't blame her

808
00:42:46,080 --> 00:42:48,719
Speaker 1: for saying that I wasn't mad. I was. I was

809
00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:50,399
Speaker 1: kind of sad to hear that because I know how

810
00:42:50,480 --> 00:42:53,160
Speaker 1: hard I've worked in my life and set myself up,

811
00:42:53,239 --> 00:42:55,799
Speaker 1: and to hear that, I was kind of like disappointed.

812
00:42:56,080 --> 00:42:58,920
Speaker 1: But I also feel like when she didn't give me

813
00:42:59,000 --> 00:43:01,439
Speaker 1: the rose after Bennett at home and then she said

814
00:43:01,480 --> 00:43:03,480
Speaker 1: I don't think you're ready for marriage. She said it

815
00:43:03,480 --> 00:43:06,520
Speaker 1: in a way that was like proving me wrong, honestly,

816
00:43:07,360 --> 00:43:09,600
Speaker 1: And you know, I'll take that instead of her being like,

817
00:43:09,640 --> 00:43:11,880
Speaker 1: you're not ready for marriage for sure, you know, I

818
00:43:12,200 --> 00:43:14,680
Speaker 1: kind of felt it was like I see deeper sides

819
00:43:14,680 --> 00:43:17,680
Speaker 1: in you every time we talk. You know, proved me wrong.

820
00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:19,719
Speaker 1: It is what it is. So I didn't like caring

821
00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:21,759
Speaker 1: it because I know all the work I've put in

822
00:43:22,400 --> 00:43:25,279
Speaker 1: to my life to get where I am now. Well,

823
00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:29,279
Speaker 1: and h doesn't mean like maturity or I think it's

824
00:43:29,360 --> 00:43:31,680
Speaker 1: experience that really makes someone who they are. Like I

825
00:43:31,760 --> 00:43:36,120
Speaker 1: think back to like Ben Higgins actually when he was Bachelor.

826
00:43:36,160 --> 00:43:38,720
Speaker 1: He just tweeted this out last night. In your defense, Noah,

827
00:43:39,320 --> 00:43:42,400
Speaker 1: he was twenty five when he became bachelor, and I

828
00:43:42,480 --> 00:43:45,200
Speaker 1: mean he was ready. He obviously got engaged in and

829
00:43:45,400 --> 00:43:47,480
Speaker 1: was ready for the next step, and you know, things

830
00:43:47,719 --> 00:43:51,000
Speaker 1: worked out in a different way for him. But but

831
00:43:51,160 --> 00:43:53,680
Speaker 1: to your point, like on my season on R season,

832
00:43:53,760 --> 00:43:56,000
Speaker 1: beck at m who was twenty two at the time,

833
00:43:56,160 --> 00:43:58,359
Speaker 1: like everyone when they found out her age gave her

834
00:43:58,480 --> 00:44:01,360
Speaker 1: so much flak and and simply because she was twenty

835
00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:04,719
Speaker 1: two and now she has two amazing, beautiful babies, Like

836
00:44:04,840 --> 00:44:09,240
Speaker 1: she's just a badass mom. She just works hard, she's funny,

837
00:44:09,360 --> 00:44:12,319
Speaker 1: witty like all these things. And it's just because yes,

838
00:44:12,400 --> 00:44:15,160
Speaker 1: she's young, but she has probably more experience and maturity

839
00:44:15,200 --> 00:44:19,520
Speaker 1: than most people. So in your defense, like, kudos to

840
00:44:19,640 --> 00:44:22,120
Speaker 1: you for now coming on here and sharing that, because

841
00:44:22,120 --> 00:44:24,560
Speaker 1: I think I think everyone could hear this because they

842
00:44:24,640 --> 00:44:26,759
Speaker 1: just you know, see the thirty minutes that you and

843
00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:29,799
Speaker 1: Benett were chirping at each other. Well also you were

844
00:44:29,880 --> 00:44:32,080
Speaker 1: really feeding into it. But but yeah, I think it

845
00:44:32,880 --> 00:44:37,359
Speaker 1: comes with experience, just with what you do. Well, that's

846
00:44:37,400 --> 00:44:40,279
Speaker 1: something that I said when I really did get to

847
00:44:40,320 --> 00:44:41,719
Speaker 1: a point where I was starting to get fed up,

848
00:44:42,480 --> 00:44:45,279
Speaker 1: and when they started going at Spencer and then me

849
00:44:45,360 --> 00:44:47,480
Speaker 1: and Ivan. You know a lot of the guys that

850
00:44:48,000 --> 00:44:50,120
Speaker 1: were in the middle are like four years older than me,

851
00:44:50,280 --> 00:44:52,160
Speaker 1: and they're trying to act like, you know, here, I

852
00:44:52,239 --> 00:44:54,279
Speaker 1: am putting no under my wing. I'm like, you're not

853
00:44:54,440 --> 00:44:57,520
Speaker 1: putting me into your wing. I'm not above whatever advice

854
00:44:57,560 --> 00:44:59,160
Speaker 1: you have to give me, but let's not try to

855
00:44:59,200 --> 00:45:03,360
Speaker 1: act like I'm your little brother. Age does not directly

856
00:45:03,360 --> 00:45:06,800
Speaker 1: correlate with maturity. Like just because you weren't ready for

857
00:45:06,880 --> 00:45:09,080
Speaker 1: love and weren't out a place when you were twenty

858
00:45:09,160 --> 00:45:11,360
Speaker 1: five doesn't mean I'm not You can't speak for me

859
00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:13,440
Speaker 1: in my life experiences. And that's something I kept saying,

860
00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:16,560
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna speak for you either. You know, I'm

861
00:45:16,560 --> 00:45:19,239
Speaker 1: not gonna speak for you. Yeah, sorry for doing good points.

862
00:45:19,239 --> 00:45:22,560
Speaker 1: I'll show I'll slow him down, Rachel put the cross up.

863
00:45:24,920 --> 00:45:27,359
Speaker 1: You can't even do it right now. That was something

864
00:45:27,440 --> 00:45:29,880
Speaker 1: that I kept trying to, like say, is you know,

865
00:45:30,560 --> 00:45:34,440
Speaker 1: quit having preconceived notions and judgments about me and other

866
00:45:34,560 --> 00:45:37,120
Speaker 1: guys that you don't know because you you're speaking from

867
00:45:37,160 --> 00:45:39,959
Speaker 1: where you were when you're my age. You can't speak

868
00:45:40,000 --> 00:45:41,480
Speaker 1: for me, you don't know me. You know me a week?

869
00:45:41,600 --> 00:45:48,040
Speaker 1: You know? Yeah, so so you know because it's it's

870
00:45:48,080 --> 00:45:50,680
Speaker 1: a lot of the guys, it seems like comparing you

871
00:45:50,880 --> 00:45:54,239
Speaker 1: to them and where you're all at. So, no, what

872
00:45:54,320 --> 00:45:57,160
Speaker 1: does your five year plan look like? Do you think

873
00:45:57,239 --> 00:46:00,879
Speaker 1: marriage will be in that? I've Oh, I think if

874
00:46:00,920 --> 00:46:03,080
Speaker 1: I'm not married at five, I really messed up along

875
00:46:03,160 --> 00:46:05,839
Speaker 1: the way. Something happened. Okay, you were seeking to somebody

876
00:46:05,880 --> 00:46:11,520
Speaker 1: who is thirty and personally okay, personally now my five

877
00:46:11,680 --> 00:46:15,320
Speaker 1: year Um, I mean I would love to get married

878
00:46:15,880 --> 00:46:17,520
Speaker 1: here in the next couple of years, as long as

879
00:46:17,560 --> 00:46:20,640
Speaker 1: I find somebody that our b life work out. I

880
00:46:20,719 --> 00:46:23,160
Speaker 1: want to start having kids when i'm like early thirties,

881
00:46:23,160 --> 00:46:24,960
Speaker 1: so I can still be a cool dad, you know,

882
00:46:25,400 --> 00:46:28,759
Speaker 1: but you'll still be cool. Remember age, does it right?

883
00:46:28,920 --> 00:46:32,440
Speaker 1: I'm doing stretches now, so I'm not worthless. Almost just

884
00:46:32,520 --> 00:46:37,320
Speaker 1: pulled your leg when you were showing us. I have

885
00:46:37,560 --> 00:46:41,160
Speaker 1: to oh, I'm sorry. Well, like my five years, I

886
00:46:41,239 --> 00:46:43,719
Speaker 1: want to I'm still trying to devote you know. This

887
00:46:43,920 --> 00:46:47,640
Speaker 1: year has been crazy with COVID and the Bachelorette and everything.

888
00:46:48,160 --> 00:46:51,200
Speaker 1: I'm still trying to set myself up financially and things

889
00:46:51,280 --> 00:46:55,239
Speaker 1: like that. For you know, whatever lady I do meet,

890
00:46:55,920 --> 00:46:57,960
Speaker 1: you know, we can have fun and enjoy the world

891
00:46:58,000 --> 00:47:00,280
Speaker 1: for a couple of years and then start to focus

892
00:47:00,360 --> 00:47:03,680
Speaker 1: on you know, where we want to go next, and

893
00:47:03,760 --> 00:47:05,440
Speaker 1: kids later down their own stuff like that. So five

894
00:47:05,520 --> 00:47:08,360
Speaker 1: years is gonna be focused on me and one other person.

895
00:47:08,800 --> 00:47:10,879
Speaker 1: I mean, I'll still focus on my career and things

896
00:47:10,920 --> 00:47:14,440
Speaker 1: like that, but it's being geared more turns towards another

897
00:47:14,800 --> 00:47:17,799
Speaker 1: person with my career, whereas the last few years it's

898
00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:21,160
Speaker 1: just been me. Yeah, I mean that's Listen. When you

899
00:47:21,239 --> 00:47:24,160
Speaker 1: have older siblings, I really do feel like there's something

900
00:47:24,680 --> 00:47:26,800
Speaker 1: that makes you grow up faster. And you have a

901
00:47:26,880 --> 00:47:29,640
Speaker 1: lot of them, So there's just something about being around

902
00:47:29,719 --> 00:47:32,880
Speaker 1: older siblings where you like, you're into the things that

903
00:47:33,000 --> 00:47:35,399
Speaker 1: they are and it makes you mature in a different way.

904
00:47:35,680 --> 00:47:38,279
Speaker 1: I mean, life experiences do as well, but something about

905
00:47:38,280 --> 00:47:40,800
Speaker 1: older sibling. Okay, so I have to ask them. Okay,

906
00:47:42,080 --> 00:47:45,480
Speaker 1: on the two on one, when my dear Bennett was

907
00:47:45,560 --> 00:47:51,560
Speaker 1: sent hard all right, Okay, Bennett, Okay, I'll just called

908
00:47:51,600 --> 00:47:54,239
Speaker 1: you Bennett because I'm so frazzled, so frazled on the

909
00:47:54,280 --> 00:47:57,000
Speaker 1: BacT so at home when he went home, and you

910
00:47:57,080 --> 00:47:59,600
Speaker 1: were sitting there in that room by yourself, and you

911
00:47:59,760 --> 00:48:04,040
Speaker 1: have that singlish gleam in your eye and you were smiling.

912
00:48:04,600 --> 00:48:08,839
Speaker 1: What was behind that thought? All right, First we need

913
00:48:08,880 --> 00:48:11,839
Speaker 1: to talk about We need to talk about the fact

914
00:48:11,880 --> 00:48:14,520
Speaker 1: that some of the faces they've been showing me on television.

915
00:48:14,680 --> 00:48:16,000
Speaker 1: I don't know if I don't know I make these

916
00:48:16,040 --> 00:48:21,319
Speaker 1: faces or what. I've got this snobby little grin. It's

917
00:48:21,360 --> 00:48:23,560
Speaker 1: the side of my mouth apparently, I don't know which side.

918
00:48:23,600 --> 00:48:26,040
Speaker 1: It's one of them where I'm like, oh yeah, I'm

919
00:48:26,080 --> 00:48:28,640
Speaker 1: not saying anything, but you can just feel that, Oh yeah,

920
00:48:29,560 --> 00:48:31,799
Speaker 1: I noticed. I'm like, what is that face? Like? Why

921
00:48:31,840 --> 00:48:34,960
Speaker 1: am I making that face? I think it's a defensive face.

922
00:48:35,080 --> 00:48:36,799
Speaker 1: You know, it's like, all right, these guys are coming

923
00:48:36,840 --> 00:48:39,640
Speaker 1: at me and bring it on. But nobody was in

924
00:48:39,760 --> 00:48:43,360
Speaker 1: the room. What were you thinking? That one? I was

925
00:48:43,400 --> 00:48:49,239
Speaker 1: happy because once you don't know is that your boy

926
00:48:49,360 --> 00:48:53,000
Speaker 1: Bennett was so confident in the fact that he was

927
00:48:53,080 --> 00:48:55,320
Speaker 1: going to send me home that he's telling all the

928
00:48:55,400 --> 00:48:58,640
Speaker 1: guys he's not concerned. And the thing with Bennett is

929
00:48:58,680 --> 00:49:02,920
Speaker 1: a lot of the things he does are premeditated. He

930
00:49:03,160 --> 00:49:05,760
Speaker 1: thinks about him. He's got his sayings, he's got his singers,

931
00:49:05,840 --> 00:49:08,000
Speaker 1: he has his singers, he's got good ones. But he

932
00:49:08,080 --> 00:49:11,920
Speaker 1: thinks about the stuff hours in advance. So when she said,

933
00:49:12,480 --> 00:49:15,840
Speaker 1: you're like, Noah, like she wasn't happy to let Bennett

934
00:49:15,880 --> 00:49:18,480
Speaker 1: go that way, and she wasn't she wasn't happy with

935
00:49:18,560 --> 00:49:21,719
Speaker 1: me obviously, as we saw, she wiped that smile off

936
00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:26,720
Speaker 1: my face. Read walked in and said, no, don't be smiling.

937
00:49:26,800 --> 00:49:28,960
Speaker 1: That wasn't not a victor's call. You. Oh, I know,

938
00:49:29,040 --> 00:49:31,680
Speaker 1: And I'm like, you are such a scow but you're

939
00:49:32,440 --> 00:49:34,279
Speaker 1: But she's gonna keep me here. I'm like, send me home,

940
00:49:34,520 --> 00:49:38,560
Speaker 1: Just send me home then fine. But when he went home, honestly,

941
00:49:38,600 --> 00:49:40,080
Speaker 1: it was more of a testament to the fact that

942
00:49:40,760 --> 00:49:44,960
Speaker 1: what she saw on us overshadowed the drama and the

943
00:49:45,080 --> 00:49:46,719
Speaker 1: mess that I was in. So I'm kind of thinking,

944
00:49:46,800 --> 00:49:50,680
Speaker 1: like Bennett ed are gone. The rest of the guys

945
00:49:50,719 --> 00:49:54,520
Speaker 1: in the house, we're all close. There's not gonna be drama.

946
00:49:54,800 --> 00:49:57,279
Speaker 1: Nobody's like going out of their way to start anything.

947
00:49:57,320 --> 00:50:00,960
Speaker 1: We're all friends. I was just happy for like, Okay,

948
00:50:00,960 --> 00:50:03,320
Speaker 1: I got past this. I went against all the odds.

949
00:50:03,640 --> 00:50:06,560
Speaker 1: I'm past all this. Now she can see like my

950
00:50:06,719 --> 00:50:09,040
Speaker 1: real side, and there's a way more to me than

951
00:50:09,120 --> 00:50:11,640
Speaker 1: she's seen, you know. So that's why I was excited.

952
00:50:11,640 --> 00:50:14,920
Speaker 1: I wasn't like showed Bennett like part of me was

953
00:50:15,320 --> 00:50:18,000
Speaker 1: because he started to kiss me off. But it was

954
00:50:18,080 --> 00:50:19,759
Speaker 1: more like, all right, I'm ready to do this like

955
00:50:20,400 --> 00:50:23,320
Speaker 1: at the next level. And that's I kept saying to

956
00:50:23,400 --> 00:50:26,800
Speaker 1: the guys. Zach's the only one that kept agreeing with me.

957
00:50:27,520 --> 00:50:30,959
Speaker 1: When I jumped the fence that one time. I said, listen, listen, boys,

958
00:50:31,000 --> 00:50:32,839
Speaker 1: if we're all gonna do this for real and try

959
00:50:32,880 --> 00:50:35,920
Speaker 1: to end up engaged, I'm gonna keep stepping it up.

960
00:50:35,960 --> 00:50:37,920
Speaker 1: That's where I said, I'm just getting started. I'm like,

961
00:50:38,160 --> 00:50:40,200
Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep stepping it up. I'm not doing it

962
00:50:40,280 --> 00:50:43,480
Speaker 1: to try to push you guys down. I expect all

963
00:50:43,560 --> 00:50:45,520
Speaker 1: of us to keep stepping it up, and then you know,

964
00:50:46,200 --> 00:50:50,000
Speaker 1: whoever's most suitable take the prize, which is you know,

965
00:50:50,320 --> 00:50:53,120
Speaker 1: clean Tatia. That's about where we're at. So I was

966
00:50:53,160 --> 00:50:55,080
Speaker 1: ready to keep stepping it up once Bennett went home,

967
00:50:55,160 --> 00:50:58,120
Speaker 1: just having less mess along the way. But I did

968
00:50:58,239 --> 00:51:00,840
Speaker 1: have a smug little smile. Yeah, I know I saw it.

969
00:51:01,360 --> 00:51:05,080
Speaker 1: She slapped it off my face. I would. She walked

970
00:51:05,080 --> 00:51:07,640
Speaker 1: it and said that, you know, well, Rachel, you probably

971
00:51:07,640 --> 00:51:10,399
Speaker 1: remember this one. I think it was Paradise, which we'll

972
00:51:10,440 --> 00:51:12,879
Speaker 1: get into for you know, but Paradise Reunion a couple

973
00:51:12,920 --> 00:51:15,560
Speaker 1: of years ago. Tia was sitting there. She's like, yes, bitch, yes,

974
00:51:16,040 --> 00:51:18,800
Speaker 1: That's when I felt walked back in. I was like, mmmm,

975
00:51:20,360 --> 00:51:23,640
Speaker 1: I have sat on my hands. I was like, yes, man, sorry,

976
00:51:29,320 --> 00:51:31,560
Speaker 1: so speaking well, I want to protect in the future

977
00:51:31,600 --> 00:51:34,080
Speaker 1: and you stepping it up. We obviously don't know what

978
00:51:34,160 --> 00:51:36,279
Speaker 1: happens with you or the rest of the season, but

979
00:51:36,960 --> 00:51:39,279
Speaker 1: if there were to be an offer of Paradise on

980
00:51:39,400 --> 00:51:42,239
Speaker 1: the table in several months, what would you say to that.

981
00:51:43,440 --> 00:51:45,479
Speaker 1: I think Paradise would be wild. I think it would

982
00:51:45,480 --> 00:51:47,400
Speaker 1: be like a mental lull. And you'll see what the

983
00:51:47,480 --> 00:51:51,080
Speaker 1: mental lall was like. Okay, so I said I wouldn't

984
00:51:51,120 --> 00:51:52,680
Speaker 1: do it. I said I wouldn't do it. I was like,

985
00:51:52,800 --> 00:51:55,680
Speaker 1: you know what, I don't know, I don't We'll see,

986
00:51:55,800 --> 00:52:02,719
Speaker 1: you know, look I said I wouldn't do it. Now,

987
00:52:02,760 --> 00:52:04,680
Speaker 1: I'm like, you know what part of that was? Because

988
00:52:05,360 --> 00:52:07,080
Speaker 1: I felt like I was getting a poor portrayal on

989
00:52:07,120 --> 00:52:09,560
Speaker 1: the show, honestly, and I was like listen. If they're

990
00:52:09,600 --> 00:52:11,640
Speaker 1: just gonna make me look like some douchebag, there's no

991
00:52:11,760 --> 00:52:14,600
Speaker 1: reason to do it twice. I don't need the publicity

992
00:52:14,680 --> 00:52:17,160
Speaker 1: in my life. Like I'm pretty happy. I was pretty

993
00:52:17,160 --> 00:52:19,320
Speaker 1: happy with my life before the show, to be honest,

994
00:52:19,840 --> 00:52:21,560
Speaker 1: So I'm like, I don't need all of that, and

995
00:52:21,680 --> 00:52:25,920
Speaker 1: I don't care for it, you know. Um, but you know,

996
00:52:27,080 --> 00:52:30,279
Speaker 1: I realized now that it's just all kind of part

997
00:52:30,360 --> 00:52:33,680
Speaker 1: of how it was. My personality itself got got me

998
00:52:33,719 --> 00:52:37,440
Speaker 1: in trouble. They can only show so much, and so

999
00:52:37,600 --> 00:52:39,120
Speaker 1: I kind of took it with stride. I know, like

1000
00:52:39,200 --> 00:52:41,960
Speaker 1: my family and friends are super supportive. Um, so I

1001
00:52:42,080 --> 00:52:44,200
Speaker 1: think I would do it. Yeah. Yeah, I mean I

1002
00:52:44,360 --> 00:52:47,480
Speaker 1: have a current poll going on right now on Instagram

1003
00:52:47,560 --> 00:52:51,400
Speaker 1: and you're winning. So I don't think that team Bennett

1004
00:52:51,560 --> 00:52:56,120
Speaker 1: or team Noah. Oh. I will tell you right now,

1005
00:52:56,520 --> 00:53:01,520
Speaker 1: I might be the only one one who like Bennett.

1006
00:53:01,760 --> 00:53:05,080
Speaker 1: Here's what I realized is how flippant everybody is. Because

1007
00:53:05,239 --> 00:53:10,120
Speaker 1: I most hated man. I mean I'm next to I say,

1008
00:53:10,200 --> 00:53:12,240
Speaker 1: Putin on here. I don't know I'm next to Putin

1009
00:53:12,280 --> 00:53:15,000
Speaker 1: as far as people hating me or Chad Johnson, the

1010
00:53:15,080 --> 00:53:18,200
Speaker 1: last guy from Tulsa. Who sucked, actually sucked. It's chats

1011
00:53:18,239 --> 00:53:21,000
Speaker 1: from Tulsa. Yeah, he's from Tulsa. That's why I got something.

1012
00:53:22,160 --> 00:53:27,680
Speaker 1: Don't say that. Don't say that. I thought I was

1013
00:53:27,800 --> 00:53:30,879
Speaker 1: so hated, and honestly, I was like, why do people

1014
00:53:31,000 --> 00:53:33,400
Speaker 1: hate me? I haven't even done anything yet, Like they

1015
00:53:33,440 --> 00:53:37,719
Speaker 1: haven't even seen the stuff I've done, the like give

1016
00:53:37,760 --> 00:53:39,520
Speaker 1: it a week and actually hate me for a reason.

1017
00:53:40,520 --> 00:53:44,759
Speaker 1: But they've changed so fast and now yeah Bennett, Yeah,

1018
00:53:44,960 --> 00:53:47,879
Speaker 1: down with Bennett. Or people are like I still really

1019
00:53:47,920 --> 00:53:49,840
Speaker 1: don't like no, but I hate Bennett. So it's like

1020
00:53:49,920 --> 00:53:56,120
Speaker 1: the lesser of two evils that somebody's gonna do something

1021
00:53:56,200 --> 00:53:57,960
Speaker 1: next week or in two weeks to piss everyone else

1022
00:53:58,000 --> 00:54:01,879
Speaker 1: off and they won't even exactly. Um, No, everybody else

1023
00:54:02,000 --> 00:54:04,720
Speaker 1: lived is too quiet. They're too careful. Everyone's so careful.

1024
00:54:04,880 --> 00:54:08,920
Speaker 1: Everybody was too careful. Noah. I love a person who's

1025
00:54:08,960 --> 00:54:12,160
Speaker 1: direct and calls it out like it is. What do

1026
00:54:12,320 --> 00:54:14,919
Speaker 1: you mean by too careful? Were they playing a part?

1027
00:54:15,360 --> 00:54:18,480
Speaker 1: Were they were they trying to go for maybe another

1028
00:54:18,640 --> 00:54:21,960
Speaker 1: role in the franchise? I'm just what's what do you

1029
00:54:22,080 --> 00:54:26,400
Speaker 1: mean they were too careful? I think so a lot

1030
00:54:26,440 --> 00:54:28,439
Speaker 1: of those people that you think, are they playing another

1031
00:54:28,520 --> 00:54:32,319
Speaker 1: role in the franchise the ups and downs? They're probably gone,

1032
00:54:32,520 --> 00:54:35,719
Speaker 1: your boy being one of them. Um, I think the

1033
00:54:35,840 --> 00:54:37,960
Speaker 1: people like that's playing a role because I don't want

1034
00:54:38,000 --> 00:54:39,440
Speaker 1: to give you a bad name when I say that,

1035
00:54:39,520 --> 00:54:41,480
Speaker 1: I mean like trying to be the next Bachelor. You

1036
00:54:41,560 --> 00:54:46,440
Speaker 1: weren't playing ben Um. I mean he said to himself,

1037
00:54:46,560 --> 00:54:48,160
Speaker 1: he stayed out of all drama, King of the No

1038
00:54:48,320 --> 00:54:54,160
Speaker 1: Drama Club. They made little jokes to me. Some of

1039
00:54:54,200 --> 00:54:57,759
Speaker 1: the guys just were more careful about not being and

1040
00:54:57,840 --> 00:54:59,719
Speaker 1: it's not a bad thing, you know, it's not bad

1041
00:54:59,800 --> 00:55:01,680
Speaker 1: to go out of your way to stay out of

1042
00:55:01,680 --> 00:55:03,600
Speaker 1: the drama because the people that are in drama it's

1043
00:55:03,640 --> 00:55:06,680
Speaker 1: messy as you can see. Yeah, so a lot of

1044
00:55:06,719 --> 00:55:08,960
Speaker 1: the guys that are left are I mean, I'm the

1045
00:55:09,040 --> 00:55:12,239
Speaker 1: loudest one of the group unless we're drinking chardonade, and

1046
00:55:12,400 --> 00:55:16,880
Speaker 1: rather is definitely loud, and so is I. But that like,

1047
00:55:17,400 --> 00:55:20,319
Speaker 1: the guys that are left were very concise and how

1048
00:55:20,360 --> 00:55:25,840
Speaker 1: they did everything calculated, Yeah, calculating exactly. Not in a

1049
00:55:25,920 --> 00:55:29,759
Speaker 1: bad way, it's just there. I don't know, I don't

1050
00:55:29,800 --> 00:55:31,360
Speaker 1: know how to say it. They were just actually have

1051
00:55:31,560 --> 00:55:36,239
Speaker 1: my thought that some people were on a I'm doing

1052
00:55:36,320 --> 00:55:40,000
Speaker 1: everything perfect, so I could potentially be the Bachelor. Actually

1053
00:55:40,040 --> 00:55:44,560
Speaker 1: that is actually my thought, but I won't. Oh, I

1054
00:55:44,680 --> 00:55:46,520
Speaker 1: love it. I was going to ask you, I'll be

1055
00:55:46,920 --> 00:55:51,799
Speaker 1: very honest about this, Ben yeh Ben the podcast last week.

1056
00:55:51,840 --> 00:55:53,640
Speaker 1: I was being facetious when I said it on the

1057
00:55:53,719 --> 00:55:55,920
Speaker 1: podcast last week, but I was really thinking about this,

1058
00:55:56,000 --> 00:55:59,560
Speaker 1: and I was like, I really feel like he's playing

1059
00:56:00,200 --> 00:56:02,600
Speaker 1: hit the part too. If he doesn't make it in

1060
00:56:02,680 --> 00:56:05,000
Speaker 1: the end, it could be the next Batchler. People already

1061
00:56:05,000 --> 00:56:07,720
Speaker 1: talking about it. It's hard to say with him because

1062
00:56:07,760 --> 00:56:10,719
Speaker 1: of his background. The man's a militant. He's very like

1063
00:56:10,840 --> 00:56:14,960
Speaker 1: strategic down man stripped down naked, you know what I

1064
00:56:15,040 --> 00:56:18,000
Speaker 1: mean like, and then said that I tweeted about it.

1065
00:56:18,080 --> 00:56:20,600
Speaker 1: I saw his butt cheeks for way too long. I

1066
00:56:20,719 --> 00:56:22,640
Speaker 1: was the first time. All I was thinking about was

1067
00:56:22,719 --> 00:56:24,600
Speaker 1: you guys sitting in back of him, just having to

1068
00:56:24,640 --> 00:56:27,120
Speaker 1: stare at his ass this entire time. Listen during that day,

1069
00:56:27,280 --> 00:56:31,680
Speaker 1: I saw cheeks. They placed me right behind that modeling

1070
00:56:31,719 --> 00:56:33,799
Speaker 1: couple that was naked. They placed me right before behind

1071
00:56:33,840 --> 00:56:36,280
Speaker 1: the guy, so I saw it. I saw butt cheeks

1072
00:56:36,280 --> 00:56:39,799
Speaker 1: for like four hours straight. I didn't you there, did

1073
00:56:39,880 --> 00:56:49,200
Speaker 1: not start I love that part. I'm sorry that. I mean,

1074
00:56:49,239 --> 00:56:52,040
Speaker 1: you just like took it. You were just like, oh, okay, okay,

1075
00:56:52,120 --> 00:56:54,200
Speaker 1: what was I about to do? Flip the table over?

1076
00:56:56,280 --> 00:56:58,200
Speaker 1: In that moment. I probably would have been the same

1077
00:56:58,239 --> 00:57:00,400
Speaker 1: person because I don't like conflict. I want to deal

1078
00:57:00,400 --> 00:57:02,360
Speaker 1: with bullshit, So I would have been like, Okay, whatever,

1079
00:57:02,480 --> 00:57:05,200
Speaker 1: fuck it, I don't care. I like to stay out

1080
00:57:05,239 --> 00:57:07,120
Speaker 1: of it. I just had to react to it to be.

1081
00:57:07,400 --> 00:57:09,120
Speaker 1: You played it right, you played it the way you

1082
00:57:09,160 --> 00:57:11,400
Speaker 1: were supposed to. But that was funny. That was a

1083
00:57:11,440 --> 00:57:13,919
Speaker 1: funny moment. Hey, I didn't know he kissed her. That's

1084
00:57:13,960 --> 00:57:17,360
Speaker 1: the thing. That was the smoothest move he's done. It was.

1085
00:57:18,960 --> 00:57:20,640
Speaker 1: It was questionable because she didn't know who it was,

1086
00:57:21,120 --> 00:57:23,560
Speaker 1: but it was. It was, I mean, bold and smooth.

1087
00:57:23,600 --> 00:57:27,600
Speaker 1: I'd say, you guys have similarities. You, you and Bennett

1088
00:57:27,840 --> 00:57:31,320
Speaker 1: have some trying to call me Bennett and similarities. I'm not.

1089
00:57:31,640 --> 00:57:33,920
Speaker 1: I'm not. I wouldn't. I wouldn't give you that crown,

1090
00:57:34,200 --> 00:57:37,440
Speaker 1: but I'm just no, but no, really, y'all have some similarities.

1091
00:57:37,960 --> 00:57:41,720
Speaker 1: Well in a good way, you know. Noah, with all

1092
00:57:41,760 --> 00:57:44,240
Speaker 1: due respect, I don't think you can take Bennett's crown

1093
00:57:44,720 --> 00:57:47,840
Speaker 1: that he holds in Rachel's eyes. But I think you're

1094
00:57:47,880 --> 00:57:49,960
Speaker 1: winning her over a little bit. I would relaying that.

1095
00:57:50,360 --> 00:57:52,480
Speaker 1: I hate to shut it down, but I can't take

1096
00:57:52,520 --> 00:57:56,720
Speaker 1: Bennett's crown. But I did take his chateau. Oh good,

1097
00:57:58,720 --> 00:58:05,080
Speaker 1: that shatau. Listen. I've never been right like they were

1098
00:58:06,800 --> 00:58:09,800
Speaker 1: behind for you. I had the fireplaces going all the time,

1099
00:58:09,960 --> 00:58:12,400
Speaker 1: not because it wasn't hot enough. It's just because I

1100
00:58:12,520 --> 00:58:14,880
Speaker 1: love to look at him lights down. I mean, Benne's

1101
00:58:14,960 --> 00:58:17,160
Speaker 1: chateau was no more. Actually, I think as he walked out,

1102
00:58:17,440 --> 00:58:19,560
Speaker 1: my chirp that I did say was thanks for warming

1103
00:58:19,640 --> 00:58:23,480
Speaker 1: up the chateau. Oh, Noah's nest. Noah's nest. It just

1104
00:58:23,840 --> 00:58:26,680
Speaker 1: took a page. I could play a handbook. I love

1105
00:58:26,760 --> 00:58:34,520
Speaker 1: it changed from Benet to Noah. Actually, well that sounds

1106
00:58:34,560 --> 00:58:36,720
Speaker 1: like a highlight right there. We're totally gonna let you go.

1107
00:58:36,800 --> 00:58:38,160
Speaker 1: But I have to say this because I want to

1108
00:58:38,160 --> 00:58:41,800
Speaker 1: give our Bachelor Happy listener, our Bachelor Happy hour listeners

1109
00:58:41,880 --> 00:58:48,960
Speaker 1: a tease. Men, tell all who's the star? Oh shoot?

1110
00:58:49,720 --> 00:58:52,160
Speaker 1: And I used star loosely, just like, yeah, what is

1111
00:58:52,240 --> 00:58:55,600
Speaker 1: start mean? It gets on so many levels. It gets intense,

1112
00:58:55,760 --> 00:59:00,720
Speaker 1: it gets emotional, it gets angry. Oh a lot of yelling.

1113
00:59:01,480 --> 00:59:04,440
Speaker 1: I mean, there is so many different emotions going on.

1114
00:59:04,600 --> 00:59:06,920
Speaker 1: It's just a glast box of emotions really the whole thing.

1115
00:59:07,560 --> 00:59:11,600
Speaker 1: So yeah, go ahead, because who's the person who's fighting

1116
00:59:11,680 --> 00:59:13,880
Speaker 1: for their spot on paradise? That's usually what the way

1117
00:59:13,880 --> 00:59:18,720
Speaker 1: they say. Oh okay, okay, Kenny, Okay, yeah, Kenny, listen.

1118
00:59:18,800 --> 00:59:22,640
Speaker 1: Kenny's very outspoken. I like that. Yeah, it's got to

1119
00:59:22,680 --> 00:59:25,320
Speaker 1: be Kenny. Then it's got to be Kenny. He was

1120
00:59:25,520 --> 00:59:27,440
Speaker 1: he was, I mean, he was out, he was out

1121
00:59:27,520 --> 00:59:30,760
Speaker 1: to play. Oh yeah, Kenny's Kenny. We will see Kenny

1122
00:59:31,040 --> 00:59:33,280
Speaker 1: walking down the shore. I mean people make fun of

1123
00:59:33,320 --> 00:59:35,920
Speaker 1: me from me having spiky hair. Kenny's hair, as he

1124
00:59:36,040 --> 00:59:40,720
Speaker 1: was yelling, was getting pointier and pointier. All the people. Men,

1125
00:59:41,600 --> 00:59:45,000
Speaker 1: your hair is also tall, Like, I don't know how

1126
00:59:45,240 --> 00:59:46,960
Speaker 1: half of you get the height that you do on

1127
00:59:47,040 --> 00:59:49,920
Speaker 1: your head. Like what products? Send the regiment? I told you,

1128
00:59:50,080 --> 00:59:52,600
Speaker 1: I'll send you the regiment. Herbal lessons is great. Quit

1129
00:59:53,000 --> 00:59:56,000
Speaker 1: quit quit using your blow dryer so much? Too? Okay,

1130
00:59:56,560 --> 00:59:59,200
Speaker 1: come out? Was it the set that wait? Was it? Noah?

1131
00:59:59,280 --> 01:00:02,000
Speaker 1: That was the message. He is too set that Spencer said,

1132
01:00:02,920 --> 01:00:05,480
Speaker 1: that's because I thought I was going home every night,

1133
01:00:05,600 --> 01:00:08,400
Speaker 1: so I never unpacked. It's tricky. How am I gonna

1134
01:00:08,440 --> 01:00:10,440
Speaker 1: unpack when I think I'm going home every single night?

1135
01:00:11,920 --> 01:00:17,120
Speaker 1: You know? All right, Noah, I there, I say this.

1136
01:00:17,520 --> 01:00:22,440
Speaker 1: But I enjoyed the conversation. Okay, I'm not gonna lie.

1137
01:00:22,480 --> 01:00:25,520
Speaker 1: I'm not a liar, I am. I enjoyed the conversation.

1138
01:00:25,840 --> 01:00:28,880
Speaker 1: I thought it was great. You're a lot of fun. Um.

1139
01:00:29,080 --> 01:00:31,480
Speaker 1: It's nice to get the insight, you know, from you

1140
01:00:31,640 --> 01:00:33,360
Speaker 1: that maybe some things that we didn't get to see.

1141
01:00:33,400 --> 01:00:35,160
Speaker 1: And Becca and I understand this. We've been on both

1142
01:00:35,200 --> 01:00:37,200
Speaker 1: sides of it. We know that not everything is shown

1143
01:00:37,560 --> 01:00:39,520
Speaker 1: and you kind of just pick a side based on

1144
01:00:39,640 --> 01:00:43,000
Speaker 1: the two hours you see on TV when there's you're

1145
01:00:43,040 --> 01:00:45,680
Speaker 1: filming seven days a week. But thank you for being

1146
01:00:46,040 --> 01:00:49,840
Speaker 1: like taking it all with fun and you know, coming

1147
01:00:49,920 --> 01:00:51,920
Speaker 1: on the show, even when we give you a bit

1148
01:00:51,960 --> 01:00:54,880
Speaker 1: of a hard time. I'm still I'm still taint Bennett.

1149
01:00:54,960 --> 01:00:57,280
Speaker 1: But I'll be damned if I don't if I don't

1150
01:00:57,320 --> 01:01:02,200
Speaker 1: like no a little bit, now, that's no. You guys

1151
01:01:02,240 --> 01:01:05,120
Speaker 1: are awesome and honestly, the whole thing, Yeah, it was crazy.

1152
01:01:05,600 --> 01:01:08,000
Speaker 1: Uh definitely some punches left it right, But at the end,

1153
01:01:08,240 --> 01:01:11,960
Speaker 1: I you know, I wouldn't change it. I thought it

1154
01:01:12,000 --> 01:01:14,360
Speaker 1: was awesome. I can't wait to see the popsicle house.

1155
01:01:14,680 --> 01:01:16,560
Speaker 1: I'm gonna find it. I'm gonna find it. For the

1156
01:01:16,640 --> 01:01:21,960
Speaker 1: biggest letdown, this thing had like a foundation. No, it

1157
01:01:22,120 --> 01:01:26,920
Speaker 1: had architectural roof being. This thing was. Maybe that was

1158
01:01:26,960 --> 01:01:34,000
Speaker 1: a mess foundation, Maybe that was. I don't know what

1159
01:01:34,080 --> 01:01:36,240
Speaker 1: they did with it. I want to say once I left,

1160
01:01:36,280 --> 01:01:38,400
Speaker 1: the men burned it as like a vigil. But I

1161
01:01:38,480 --> 01:01:41,400
Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know. They had to get all

1162
01:01:41,400 --> 01:01:43,320
Speaker 1: that could juju up in there. Hey, Actually, the one

1163
01:01:43,400 --> 01:01:45,080
Speaker 1: thing before you let me go, the one thing since

1164
01:01:45,120 --> 01:01:47,920
Speaker 1: you guys were talking about Ben, we talked about body

1165
01:01:47,960 --> 01:01:51,880
Speaker 1: by Ben when we all worked out. Um, that's what

1166
01:01:52,000 --> 01:01:53,640
Speaker 1: we called it, Body by Ben because he was our

1167
01:01:53,720 --> 01:01:57,840
Speaker 1: person trainer. We never talked about body by Noah when

1168
01:01:57,920 --> 01:02:00,480
Speaker 1: we didn't want to work out. And here he which

1169
01:02:00,560 --> 01:02:03,760
Speaker 1: body Body by Noah was. You know what, I'm not

1170
01:02:03,880 --> 01:02:07,640
Speaker 1: feeling it today. Body by Noah lay at the pool

1171
01:02:07,680 --> 01:02:09,880
Speaker 1: with some shard nay and the floaty. That's the Body

1172
01:02:09,920 --> 01:02:14,160
Speaker 1: by Noah. And it's undervalued. It really is. Oh no,

1173
01:02:14,320 --> 01:02:16,360
Speaker 1: it's not. I would have probably been a part of that.

1174
01:02:17,720 --> 01:02:19,640
Speaker 1: I would have joined the body by Noah. That's why

1175
01:02:19,640 --> 01:02:21,920
Speaker 1: you can see me every other roast ceremony. I just

1176
01:02:22,000 --> 01:02:23,480
Speaker 1: look darker and dark and you're like, what is this

1177
01:02:23,560 --> 01:02:26,480
Speaker 1: guy just sleeping outside? That's what I wanted to say.

1178
01:02:26,520 --> 01:02:28,480
Speaker 1: I was watching with a couple of girlfriends last night

1179
01:02:28,560 --> 01:02:31,680
Speaker 1: and everyone's like, why is Noah so tanned? And I'm like, well,

1180
01:02:31,720 --> 01:02:38,320
Speaker 1: he's been laid by the pool. He's yeah, so all

1181
01:02:38,360 --> 01:02:39,800
Speaker 1: right body by no One. I can't wait to see

1182
01:02:39,840 --> 01:02:43,320
Speaker 1: these uh workout videos. Won't work on it for b

1183
01:02:43,400 --> 01:02:45,160
Speaker 1: IP because I can't be shown up looking like I

1184
01:02:45,240 --> 01:02:50,720
Speaker 1: do now saying he's already there. We'll see you back

1185
01:02:50,720 --> 01:02:54,320
Speaker 1: on the podcast. Noah, You've been so much fun. Um.

1186
01:02:54,640 --> 01:02:57,080
Speaker 1: Thank you for everything that you do just on camera,

1187
01:02:57,160 --> 01:03:00,320
Speaker 1: but then also off camera in your profession. Truly, I

1188
01:03:00,400 --> 01:03:01,840
Speaker 1: know you don't want to talk about it, so we'll

1189
01:03:01,880 --> 01:03:04,080
Speaker 1: talk about it for you. But thank you. We can't

1190
01:03:04,120 --> 01:03:07,400
Speaker 1: thank you. Nice to see you. Thank you for coming

1191
01:03:07,440 --> 01:03:13,120
Speaker 1: on today a blast. Becca. What did you think? What's

1192
01:03:13,120 --> 01:03:18,560
Speaker 1: you think? I will say? I mean, I've always like

1193
01:03:18,720 --> 01:03:21,720
Speaker 1: tried to be the play devil's advocate, if you will,

1194
01:03:21,880 --> 01:03:24,560
Speaker 1: and I'm not gonna lie. I have loved Bennett this

1195
01:03:24,720 --> 01:03:27,440
Speaker 1: entire season. He did start to rub me the wrong way.

1196
01:03:27,480 --> 01:03:28,960
Speaker 1: So I'm glad that we were at least able to

1197
01:03:29,000 --> 01:03:32,400
Speaker 1: have Noah on to explain his side in his take, because,

1198
01:03:32,480 --> 01:03:34,880
Speaker 1: like you said, with him, like what you see is

1199
01:03:34,880 --> 01:03:36,760
Speaker 1: not always what you get, and there's so much that

1200
01:03:36,920 --> 01:03:40,280
Speaker 1: you have to film into, like clip into a certain storyline,

1201
01:03:40,360 --> 01:03:42,720
Speaker 1: and there's a lot more that we did not, I think,

1202
01:03:42,720 --> 01:03:45,160
Speaker 1: get to see or hear of him. So I was glad.

1203
01:03:45,160 --> 01:03:47,760
Speaker 1: I'm glad that we had him on today. I mean,

1204
01:03:48,040 --> 01:03:50,600
Speaker 1: you're right, I felt like I was cheating on Bennett

1205
01:03:50,600 --> 01:03:53,440
Speaker 1: the entire time I was talking to Noah. I mean, listen,

1206
01:03:54,640 --> 01:03:57,880
Speaker 1: did Noah kind of win me over a bit? Yeah,

1207
01:03:58,280 --> 01:04:00,800
Speaker 1: he made a little dent in me. I'm not saying

1208
01:04:00,840 --> 01:04:03,040
Speaker 1: that I'm going to follow him into the Ark two

1209
01:04:03,120 --> 01:04:09,080
Speaker 1: by two, but I definitely I had fun with him.

1210
01:04:09,160 --> 01:04:11,800
Speaker 1: Let's just put it like that. I'm ustan surprised. Yes,

1211
01:04:11,880 --> 01:04:14,120
Speaker 1: I was pleasantly surprised. And you know what, guys, I

1212
01:04:14,320 --> 01:04:16,960
Speaker 1: hope you were too. I hope you had fun listening

1213
01:04:17,000 --> 01:04:19,240
Speaker 1: to Noah and of course hanging out with us today.

1214
01:04:19,520 --> 01:04:21,440
Speaker 1: We love being able to talk to you guys, and

1215
01:04:21,560 --> 01:04:23,600
Speaker 1: to share so much with you and to bring on

1216
01:04:23,720 --> 01:04:26,720
Speaker 1: these special guests to give you some insight behind the

1217
01:04:26,880 --> 01:04:29,600
Speaker 1: scenes of what you may have missed and maybe to

1218
01:04:29,800 --> 01:04:32,680
Speaker 1: change your opinion about saying I did, but change your

1219
01:04:32,720 --> 01:04:35,640
Speaker 1: opinion on some of these contestants that you see on

1220
01:04:35,720 --> 01:04:38,240
Speaker 1: the show. Listen, we see all of your dms about

1221
01:04:38,320 --> 01:04:40,800
Speaker 1: guys you want on the show. We see you, we

1222
01:04:41,040 --> 01:04:44,200
Speaker 1: hear you. We're trying to accommodate to everything that you're

1223
01:04:44,240 --> 01:04:46,880
Speaker 1: asking for on this show, so be patient with us

1224
01:04:47,160 --> 01:04:49,720
Speaker 1: and stay tuned because we have some great interviews lined

1225
01:04:49,800 --> 01:04:52,280
Speaker 1: up for you, So keep tuning in and keep sending

1226
01:04:52,400 --> 01:04:55,760
Speaker 1: us those questions, those comments, all of it. You can

1227
01:04:55,840 --> 01:04:59,080
Speaker 1: find us at batter Happy Hour on Instagram or batch

1228
01:04:59,200 --> 01:05:03,120
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1229
01:05:03,360 --> 01:05:06,320
Speaker 1: if you love us, please don't forget to subscribe to

1230
01:05:06,400 --> 01:05:09,800
Speaker 1: our podcast. You can find us on Apple Podcasts, Spotify,

1231
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Speaker 1: the Wondering App, or wherever you're listening to our lovely

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