1 00:00:02,600 --> 00:00:03,920 Speaker 1: Two Teas in a Pod. 2 00:00:04,320 --> 00:00:08,280 Speaker 2: It's Teddy Mellencamp and camera judge. 3 00:00:09,400 --> 00:00:12,039 Speaker 3: Hi, guys, welcome to another episode of Two Teas and 4 00:00:12,080 --> 00:00:16,360 Speaker 3: a Pod with myself, Teddy Mellencamp and Dolores Catanya. 5 00:00:16,480 --> 00:00:18,079 Speaker 2: How are you everyone today? 6 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:20,439 Speaker 3: I wasn't feeling well this morning and right now and 7 00:00:20,480 --> 00:00:23,440 Speaker 3: I are boasting in the same house. And so this 8 00:00:23,520 --> 00:00:25,600 Speaker 3: morning he saw me and he's like, you don't look good. 9 00:00:25,640 --> 00:00:27,520 Speaker 3: I'm like, I know, I don't feel good. And I'm like, 10 00:00:27,520 --> 00:00:29,360 Speaker 3: can you give me a blanket? He's like, A what 11 00:00:30,080 --> 00:00:33,920 Speaker 3: I'm like a blanket? Bank And he's like, hold on, 12 00:00:34,159 --> 00:00:36,440 Speaker 3: like a what I'm like like a blanket? 13 00:00:38,800 --> 00:00:43,240 Speaker 2: The maternal instinct is uncanny. I mean, I just don't 14 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:46,040 Speaker 2: know where it comes from. A dead possum maybe I 15 00:00:46,080 --> 00:00:46,400 Speaker 2: don't know. 16 00:00:47,560 --> 00:00:51,600 Speaker 3: I cannot believe we've gone through three rounds of a blanket. 17 00:00:51,960 --> 00:00:53,199 Speaker 1: He's like, where do I get it? 18 00:00:53,320 --> 00:00:55,640 Speaker 3: I'm like, you've never used a blanket in all the 19 00:00:55,720 --> 00:00:57,000 Speaker 3: years we've lived at this house. 20 00:00:57,760 --> 00:01:01,160 Speaker 1: When they're in the blanket for hmmm, I go to 21 00:01:01,160 --> 00:01:01,440 Speaker 1: the place. 22 00:01:02,640 --> 00:01:05,760 Speaker 3: Well, let's start there talking about Okay, so it starts 23 00:01:05,760 --> 00:01:09,720 Speaker 3: off this episode of the Valley. We're already at episode 24 00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:13,760 Speaker 3: fourteen you we're pretty fast. 25 00:01:14,240 --> 00:01:17,920 Speaker 2: It really is. Like, honestly, in the beginning, I was like, 26 00:01:18,040 --> 00:01:19,880 Speaker 2: oh God, how do I get through it? And then 27 00:01:19,959 --> 00:01:23,559 Speaker 2: like it picked up and now the real adults having 28 00:01:23,680 --> 00:01:27,679 Speaker 2: real problems, and I feel for them. 29 00:01:28,240 --> 00:01:29,200 Speaker 1: I feel for them too. 30 00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:33,440 Speaker 3: I also have moments where like, the good thing about 31 00:01:33,480 --> 00:01:35,760 Speaker 3: it is, even though sometimes some people are driving me 32 00:01:35,880 --> 00:01:38,880 Speaker 3: absolutely nuts, then they come back around and then you 33 00:01:38,959 --> 00:01:41,360 Speaker 3: see like a little bit of a deeming side in them, 34 00:01:41,800 --> 00:01:44,200 Speaker 3: and I'm like, Okay, I can deal with this. I 35 00:01:44,240 --> 00:01:46,880 Speaker 3: can see where this person's coming from. 36 00:01:46,920 --> 00:01:50,279 Speaker 2: I'm a little bit like, huh. Like, to be honest, 37 00:01:50,320 --> 00:01:52,720 Speaker 2: if I miss it, I'm not like, oh my god, 38 00:01:52,720 --> 00:01:55,000 Speaker 2: I can't believe I missed it. I'm not feeling that 39 00:01:55,080 --> 00:01:58,240 Speaker 2: way about it. But when I'm watching it, I'm invested 40 00:01:58,440 --> 00:01:59,480 Speaker 2: at this point. 41 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:01,680 Speaker 3: And especially because this was a little bit of a 42 00:02:01,680 --> 00:02:04,160 Speaker 3: filler episode, but it was still pretty good. It starts 43 00:02:04,200 --> 00:02:07,280 Speaker 3: out where Jasmine meets Danny and na to give them 44 00:02:07,320 --> 00:02:09,400 Speaker 3: a tour of a house that's up for sale. 45 00:02:10,240 --> 00:02:13,720 Speaker 2: Nia, please having kids, because you're growing out of the 46 00:02:13,760 --> 00:02:16,840 Speaker 2: house that you can afford, right, Like, she wants to just. 47 00:02:16,880 --> 00:02:20,160 Speaker 1: Move to the town that's twenty more minutes you. 48 00:02:20,040 --> 00:02:22,200 Speaker 2: Could do that. Do they want the name? Is that 49 00:02:22,440 --> 00:02:24,760 Speaker 2: so important? And I used to be a realtor, I 50 00:02:24,840 --> 00:02:26,840 Speaker 2: know this very well. They want the name or it's 51 00:02:26,880 --> 00:02:28,880 Speaker 2: the school system is very important. 52 00:02:29,360 --> 00:02:32,079 Speaker 3: Yeah, Well they're going to get a better school system 53 00:02:32,120 --> 00:02:38,120 Speaker 3: if they move somewhere like Castaic or Valencia, any of 54 00:02:38,160 --> 00:02:40,920 Speaker 3: those places. They're going to get a great school system. 55 00:02:41,240 --> 00:02:44,359 Speaker 3: They're going to live in a mansion. But Nia's stuck 56 00:02:44,400 --> 00:02:48,080 Speaker 3: on this. I wish I think she's stuck on it 57 00:02:48,120 --> 00:02:51,280 Speaker 3: because I think there's part of her reasoning why if 58 00:02:51,280 --> 00:02:52,959 Speaker 3: they don't live in the valley, are they going to 59 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:55,240 Speaker 3: be on the valley? But I want to be like, 60 00:02:55,360 --> 00:02:58,080 Speaker 3: no one from Beverly Hills actually lives in Beverly Hills. 61 00:03:00,040 --> 00:03:03,600 Speaker 2: We could say that for a few shows, by the way, 62 00:03:03,840 --> 00:03:08,800 Speaker 2: So just put a little adj adjacent and then we're fine. Yeah, Nia, 63 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:12,800 Speaker 2: I mean, you could give up on the No one's 64 00:03:12,840 --> 00:03:14,000 Speaker 2: getting rid of you. 65 00:03:14,040 --> 00:03:16,239 Speaker 3: No one's getting rid You're a fan favorite right now, 66 00:03:16,280 --> 00:03:18,720 Speaker 3: even though I want to get into this hole. Either 67 00:03:18,760 --> 00:03:21,639 Speaker 3: we're having another baby or we're having surgery type thing 68 00:03:21,639 --> 00:03:23,519 Speaker 3: that we're going through with Neia. I think we're starting 69 00:03:23,520 --> 00:03:26,000 Speaker 3: to see a different side of Nia. But before that, 70 00:03:26,120 --> 00:03:29,440 Speaker 3: I want to know, did Danny tell Jasmine please go 71 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:32,720 Speaker 3: find the tiniest one million dollar home you possibly can. 72 00:03:33,919 --> 00:03:36,640 Speaker 3: It's just not an appropriate house for when you have 73 00:03:36,720 --> 00:03:40,560 Speaker 3: six four hundred and twenty two children. Like if I 74 00:03:40,640 --> 00:03:42,280 Speaker 3: was going to go live in that house with one 75 00:03:42,320 --> 00:03:45,880 Speaker 3: other person, great, Yes, I would probably if I was. 76 00:03:46,040 --> 00:03:48,280 Speaker 2: Yonder and one other person and I didn't have my 77 00:03:48,360 --> 00:03:51,800 Speaker 2: wardrobe yet, Like at eighteen, when I had one pair 78 00:03:51,840 --> 00:03:54,400 Speaker 2: of sneakers and I borrowed shoes to go out with, 79 00:03:54,800 --> 00:03:57,200 Speaker 2: that would have been so per and it actually had lights, 80 00:03:57,280 --> 00:03:59,880 Speaker 2: like in my house we didn't have lights and sit 81 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:04,480 Speaker 2: like that. Yeah, so yeah, that would I think it's 82 00:04:04,560 --> 00:04:08,119 Speaker 2: so nice for a starter couple, but not a family. 83 00:04:08,960 --> 00:04:10,400 Speaker 1: Okay, so we look at this house. 84 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:12,720 Speaker 3: At this point, Nia is starting to see like she's 85 00:04:12,760 --> 00:04:15,440 Speaker 3: going to come around. But I do think it means 86 00:04:15,440 --> 00:04:17,240 Speaker 3: that there's going to be another baby coming. 87 00:04:18,680 --> 00:04:21,960 Speaker 2: Well, then you better hold off on your booble lift 88 00:04:22,040 --> 00:04:23,440 Speaker 2: because that'll be a big waste. 89 00:04:23,960 --> 00:04:29,679 Speaker 1: Well, I have a question. She's very tough on her body. 90 00:04:31,320 --> 00:04:32,040 Speaker 2: Who isn't. 91 00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:33,560 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm tough. 92 00:04:33,360 --> 00:04:36,080 Speaker 3: On my body too, but like, I don't know that 93 00:04:36,160 --> 00:04:38,520 Speaker 3: I would be so tough if I was popping out 94 00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:43,880 Speaker 3: four to seven children, right, But yeah. 95 00:04:43,640 --> 00:04:46,000 Speaker 2: Because why because you would expect to lose. 96 00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:48,119 Speaker 1: Yeah, I would expect it to be a little bit hard. 97 00:04:48,720 --> 00:04:52,240 Speaker 2: Yeah. So that's but she's still listen, she looks great 98 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:56,919 Speaker 2: for having kids back to back. You know, she looks amazing. 99 00:04:57,040 --> 00:05:01,359 Speaker 2: But we're all our own worst critics. However, or plastic 100 00:05:01,440 --> 00:05:05,240 Speaker 2: surgery should not be at the tip of your tongue 101 00:05:05,400 --> 00:05:07,680 Speaker 2: or anywhere is near coming out of your mouth when 102 00:05:07,680 --> 00:05:11,240 Speaker 2: you're considering having another child. Still, it's one or the other. 103 00:05:11,760 --> 00:05:15,000 Speaker 3: Then we get to Kristin and Luke talking about their 104 00:05:15,000 --> 00:05:19,840 Speaker 3: doctor's appointment, Kristin blaming their inability to conceive on her 105 00:05:19,920 --> 00:05:22,320 Speaker 3: age and her body. I can only imagine what she's 106 00:05:22,400 --> 00:05:24,720 Speaker 3: kind of going through because now they've just gotten the 107 00:05:25,480 --> 00:05:28,360 Speaker 3: you know, we see the doctor saying, oh, Luke, you've 108 00:05:28,400 --> 00:05:31,520 Speaker 3: got plenty of your numbers are looking good, and then they're. 109 00:05:31,360 --> 00:05:33,279 Speaker 2: Like and then she feels like it's her right. 110 00:05:33,480 --> 00:05:37,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, I remember when I could get pregnant naturally and 111 00:05:37,920 --> 00:05:41,120 Speaker 3: the amount of stress that I put on myself, and 112 00:05:41,320 --> 00:05:43,960 Speaker 3: I even remember the last time around the doctor said 113 00:05:44,000 --> 00:05:45,800 Speaker 3: to me, this is the last time we're letting you 114 00:05:45,839 --> 00:05:50,440 Speaker 3: do this, really, because you are beating yourself up and 115 00:05:50,520 --> 00:05:52,560 Speaker 3: you're putting yourself like you're gonna have to wait a bit. 116 00:05:53,520 --> 00:05:55,760 Speaker 3: And so then that was the only time that I 117 00:05:55,800 --> 00:05:58,880 Speaker 3: didn't fully like obsess like. 118 00:05:59,080 --> 00:05:59,880 Speaker 1: Getting the test. 119 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:01,800 Speaker 3: The day that they said I could get the test, like, 120 00:06:01,800 --> 00:06:04,240 Speaker 3: I was just more casual about everything. I went home 121 00:06:04,279 --> 00:06:06,800 Speaker 3: for Christmas, I went whatever, They're like, then you're gonna 122 00:06:06,800 --> 00:06:09,080 Speaker 3: miss your test. I'm like, but is the test going 123 00:06:09,120 --> 00:06:10,960 Speaker 3: to do anything other than tell me I'm pregnant or 124 00:06:11,040 --> 00:06:13,960 Speaker 3: not pregnant, And they're like no, I'm like, okay, so 125 00:06:14,040 --> 00:06:16,279 Speaker 3: when I get home from Christmas, I'll come in and check. 126 00:06:16,680 --> 00:06:18,360 Speaker 1: And that was the time I was pregnant. 127 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:23,600 Speaker 2: I feel like stress is such a component of that 128 00:06:24,920 --> 00:06:28,920 Speaker 2: making it harder. I just do I because when I 129 00:06:29,040 --> 00:06:32,400 Speaker 2: hear so many stories people saying, I mean, it's been 130 00:06:32,440 --> 00:06:34,680 Speaker 2: five hundred years since I was pregnant, so I can't, like, 131 00:06:34,800 --> 00:06:38,520 Speaker 2: you know whatever, I can't relate, but I feel for 132 00:06:38,560 --> 00:06:41,960 Speaker 2: you when you're going through that. It's hard. But I 133 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:44,840 Speaker 2: say to myself, like so many people are like, well, 134 00:06:44,839 --> 00:06:46,800 Speaker 2: when I stop caring, that's when it happened. 135 00:06:48,040 --> 00:06:50,320 Speaker 3: But then when you're in the place where you are caring, 136 00:06:50,360 --> 00:06:51,520 Speaker 3: it really pisses you off. 137 00:06:51,520 --> 00:06:53,239 Speaker 1: That people say that, so it's hard. 138 00:06:53,400 --> 00:06:56,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a lose lose, I mean, And I also 139 00:06:57,160 --> 00:07:01,400 Speaker 3: remember if you don't feel stressed, if you feel casual, 140 00:07:01,760 --> 00:07:04,240 Speaker 3: you're going to do better. And that's the same thing 141 00:07:04,279 --> 00:07:06,200 Speaker 3: people have said to me about cancer stuff. 142 00:07:07,640 --> 00:07:09,320 Speaker 1: And I'm like, I know when. 143 00:07:09,120 --> 00:07:11,240 Speaker 3: Other people say it to you, it's very different than 144 00:07:11,280 --> 00:07:12,800 Speaker 3: when it's sinking in for yourself. 145 00:07:13,480 --> 00:07:17,520 Speaker 2: Sometimes it's better to say nothing, right teddy, But people 146 00:07:17,600 --> 00:07:20,800 Speaker 2: want to say something to you because they feel they 147 00:07:20,840 --> 00:07:23,239 Speaker 2: want to make you feel better. They truly are broke, 148 00:07:23,360 --> 00:07:26,800 Speaker 2: heartbroken over you. And there's so many wrong things to 149 00:07:26,840 --> 00:07:28,800 Speaker 2: say and so little right things to say. 150 00:07:28,880 --> 00:07:29,560 Speaker 1: Is the problem. 151 00:07:30,120 --> 00:07:34,080 Speaker 3: And no matter what, nothing anybody else says to you, 152 00:07:34,120 --> 00:07:36,600 Speaker 3: when you're going through a hardship like either one of 153 00:07:36,640 --> 00:07:39,080 Speaker 3: these things like you really really want a baby and 154 00:07:39,120 --> 00:07:41,560 Speaker 3: you're trying to get pregnant, or if you have cancer, 155 00:07:41,720 --> 00:07:43,920 Speaker 3: or if one of your family members is sick or 156 00:07:43,960 --> 00:07:48,120 Speaker 3: whatever it may be, there's really nothing anybody can say 157 00:07:48,160 --> 00:07:50,920 Speaker 3: that's going to take away your personal pain or what 158 00:07:50,960 --> 00:07:51,840 Speaker 3: you're upset about. 159 00:07:52,400 --> 00:07:55,680 Speaker 2: No, so what would you since you've been through both 160 00:07:56,480 --> 00:07:59,040 Speaker 2: of these things that we're talking about, what would be 161 00:07:59,880 --> 00:08:03,120 Speaker 2: the suggestion to somebody on the other side, talking to 162 00:08:03,200 --> 00:08:06,240 Speaker 2: the person who's going through it, what would you suggest 163 00:08:06,320 --> 00:08:06,680 Speaker 2: to them? 164 00:08:07,000 --> 00:08:10,280 Speaker 3: I personally don't like when people would suggest to me, 165 00:08:10,480 --> 00:08:14,800 Speaker 3: like their doctors or different ways that they were able 166 00:08:14,840 --> 00:08:15,360 Speaker 3: to make it. 167 00:08:15,280 --> 00:08:17,800 Speaker 1: Work, like unless it's like, oh, my gosh, I had 168 00:08:17,840 --> 00:08:18,440 Speaker 1: the same issue. 169 00:08:18,520 --> 00:08:20,960 Speaker 3: My acupuncturist is amazing. Do you want to see them? 170 00:08:21,000 --> 00:08:24,040 Speaker 3: You know, those types of things. Light messaging I was 171 00:08:24,080 --> 00:08:26,760 Speaker 3: fine with. But anytime somebody was like, oh, you know 172 00:08:26,800 --> 00:08:28,800 Speaker 3: what you need to do. You need to relax, you 173 00:08:28,840 --> 00:08:30,760 Speaker 3: need to make sure you're getting your rest, you know, 174 00:08:30,840 --> 00:08:32,559 Speaker 3: I'd be like, you know what you need to do? 175 00:08:32,920 --> 00:08:35,280 Speaker 3: Imagine how hard it is for me to feel relaxed. 176 00:08:35,480 --> 00:08:38,000 Speaker 3: So I would say the biggest thing that I would 177 00:08:38,080 --> 00:08:41,000 Speaker 3: say is just have somebody say, hey, I'm here for you, 178 00:08:41,679 --> 00:08:44,199 Speaker 3: I love you, and anything that you need. 179 00:08:44,200 --> 00:08:45,920 Speaker 2: Let me know makes sense. 180 00:08:46,400 --> 00:08:48,600 Speaker 3: And then it's like you're not even forced to respond 181 00:08:48,600 --> 00:08:50,480 Speaker 3: if you don't want to. And your real friends know 182 00:08:50,559 --> 00:08:52,760 Speaker 3: that if you don't respond, it has nothing to do 183 00:08:52,800 --> 00:08:53,160 Speaker 3: with them. 184 00:08:53,520 --> 00:08:58,320 Speaker 1: It's just what you're going through exactly. Real friends, that's 185 00:08:58,400 --> 00:09:00,320 Speaker 1: the big that's the thing that. 186 00:09:00,280 --> 00:09:03,959 Speaker 2: Really care about you, because it's not about them at 187 00:09:03,960 --> 00:09:07,199 Speaker 2: the time. It's not about them getting their answer from you. 188 00:09:07,360 --> 00:09:10,319 Speaker 2: It's not about how they made you feel that they 189 00:09:10,360 --> 00:09:12,040 Speaker 2: need to know. It's about you. 190 00:09:12,559 --> 00:09:14,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's about you. 191 00:09:14,240 --> 00:09:17,959 Speaker 3: And then when you come around, you're going to feel 192 00:09:17,960 --> 00:09:20,520 Speaker 3: better and they're going to feel better because nobody applied 193 00:09:20,520 --> 00:09:21,520 Speaker 3: pressure on each other. 194 00:09:22,280 --> 00:09:23,920 Speaker 1: But I think that Luke. 195 00:09:23,760 --> 00:09:27,200 Speaker 3: Does a really excellent job of making Kristen feel good 196 00:09:27,240 --> 00:09:28,079 Speaker 3: and also saying. 197 00:09:27,920 --> 00:09:32,600 Speaker 1: A lovely guy, yeah, and also saying like would you dabbed? 198 00:09:32,640 --> 00:09:35,160 Speaker 1: Would you do? How would you feel if I did? Surrogacy? 199 00:09:36,120 --> 00:09:38,240 Speaker 3: And I mean you could tell that hurt her to 200 00:09:38,280 --> 00:09:41,160 Speaker 3: have that conversation, but I think those are real conversations 201 00:09:41,240 --> 00:09:42,960 Speaker 3: that need to be happy we had. 202 00:09:43,480 --> 00:09:47,240 Speaker 2: And but you know what, Teddy, he he did it 203 00:09:47,280 --> 00:09:50,760 Speaker 2: in a way that was very empathetic to her. I 204 00:09:50,960 --> 00:09:55,160 Speaker 2: feel like the way he worded it in a situation 205 00:09:55,240 --> 00:09:58,480 Speaker 2: like that, especially for a woman, it's all in presentation. 206 00:09:58,720 --> 00:10:01,640 Speaker 2: Like I'll say, Paul, when he tries to tell me something, 207 00:10:01,640 --> 00:10:05,240 Speaker 2: I go, well, I shut down after the last sentence 208 00:10:05,280 --> 00:10:08,080 Speaker 2: because you didn't approach me with it. Well, yeah, like 209 00:10:08,120 --> 00:10:12,080 Speaker 2: you came at me with it, You didn't suggest it more. 210 00:10:12,120 --> 00:10:14,199 Speaker 2: I think he came to her more of a suggestion 211 00:10:14,440 --> 00:10:17,400 Speaker 2: than anything. Yeah, however it was that he did it. 212 00:10:17,840 --> 00:10:19,920 Speaker 2: I did at the time feel he was a very 213 00:10:20,040 --> 00:10:21,840 Speaker 2: gentle man about it, which. 214 00:10:21,800 --> 00:10:22,280 Speaker 1: I did too. 215 00:10:23,000 --> 00:10:25,320 Speaker 3: I thought that he was very gentle about it, and 216 00:10:25,440 --> 00:10:27,080 Speaker 3: also he took away. 217 00:10:27,200 --> 00:10:28,120 Speaker 1: I think a lot of. 218 00:10:28,120 --> 00:10:30,480 Speaker 3: Men, whether they mean to or not, but when you're 219 00:10:30,559 --> 00:10:33,000 Speaker 3: significant others trying to get pregnant, they want to put 220 00:10:33,000 --> 00:10:36,080 Speaker 3: blame on something like, but did you have that special 221 00:10:36,160 --> 00:10:38,400 Speaker 3: drink that they told you to have at ten am 222 00:10:38,400 --> 00:10:40,679 Speaker 3: when they told you to have it, Or didn't you 223 00:10:40,760 --> 00:10:43,200 Speaker 3: have a champagne three weeks ago? 224 00:10:44,040 --> 00:10:45,240 Speaker 1: Are you not supposed to drink? 225 00:10:45,360 --> 00:10:48,120 Speaker 3: You know, like they start like pinning, like trying to 226 00:10:48,160 --> 00:10:51,440 Speaker 3: pick reasons. Meanwhile, where like most people that get pregnant 227 00:10:51,480 --> 00:10:57,040 Speaker 3: are like sixteen and like aren't trying or probably drinking 228 00:10:57,240 --> 00:10:58,559 Speaker 3: as a total disaster. 229 00:10:58,880 --> 00:11:01,520 Speaker 1: So like, you know, if you're gonna. 230 00:11:03,040 --> 00:11:13,600 Speaker 3: Exactly what about the James May photo shoot with your 231 00:11:13,600 --> 00:11:14,120 Speaker 3: hair today? 232 00:11:14,120 --> 00:11:18,360 Speaker 1: You could really just zip right into it. Oh shirt on. 233 00:11:18,960 --> 00:11:23,319 Speaker 2: She's such a pretty girl, Yeah, Brandy, she really is pretty. 234 00:11:23,679 --> 00:11:24,320 Speaker 1: She's pretty. 235 00:11:24,440 --> 00:11:27,839 Speaker 3: I think I think the entire you see the house 236 00:11:27,920 --> 00:11:30,760 Speaker 3: that you know they're going through it while they're taking 237 00:11:30,800 --> 00:11:33,440 Speaker 3: their pictures. Of course, Jax calls and asks for his 238 00:11:33,720 --> 00:11:36,959 Speaker 3: ring verification code. 239 00:11:37,760 --> 00:11:41,720 Speaker 2: Does he ever leave her alone? You know what I 240 00:11:41,760 --> 00:11:45,240 Speaker 2: think they really I think he's I think he loves her, 241 00:11:45,720 --> 00:11:49,760 Speaker 2: but he's just a disaster. Do you think there are. 242 00:11:49,720 --> 00:11:54,640 Speaker 3: Some people that are capable of ever not cheating or 243 00:11:54,640 --> 00:11:57,040 Speaker 3: do you think, like if once I think this massive 244 00:11:57,080 --> 00:11:58,680 Speaker 3: of a cheater, you're a cheater for the rest of 245 00:11:58,679 --> 00:12:00,040 Speaker 3: your life. No. 246 00:12:01,120 --> 00:12:03,520 Speaker 2: I was told once from my cousin. He was my 247 00:12:03,600 --> 00:12:05,920 Speaker 2: mentor growing up. He owned, bought a bank, he owned 248 00:12:05,960 --> 00:12:09,160 Speaker 2: strip clubs. You owned a lot of things. And he 249 00:12:09,360 --> 00:12:12,920 Speaker 2: said that when men, you can never change a man, 250 00:12:13,080 --> 00:12:15,200 Speaker 2: but they change in like they start to change in 251 00:12:15,200 --> 00:12:18,320 Speaker 2: their late fifties and early sixties because when they're and 252 00:12:18,360 --> 00:12:21,480 Speaker 2: I've said this before, when that stops working, they start 253 00:12:21,520 --> 00:12:24,080 Speaker 2: to think about who they're going to die with, right, 254 00:12:24,120 --> 00:12:29,920 Speaker 2: Like it becomes all of a sudden they aren't like immortal, 255 00:12:30,000 --> 00:12:33,640 Speaker 2: like they find this human side to them, like, oh 256 00:12:33,640 --> 00:12:37,320 Speaker 2: my god, like this this isn't everything anymore. But that 257 00:12:37,360 --> 00:12:38,880 Speaker 2: doesn't that I don't. 258 00:12:38,679 --> 00:12:40,520 Speaker 1: Think that means that's what Brittany should do. 259 00:12:40,559 --> 00:12:42,560 Speaker 3: I don't think that means Brittany has to wait until 260 00:12:42,600 --> 00:12:46,199 Speaker 3: she can no longer have sex to being a good. 261 00:12:46,600 --> 00:12:50,280 Speaker 2: By the way, I think Brittany, I think Jacks has 262 00:12:50,400 --> 00:12:53,240 Speaker 2: so much more trouble than cheating. There's just so much. 263 00:12:53,360 --> 00:12:57,080 Speaker 2: It's endless, And I think that Jacks should become a 264 00:12:57,120 --> 00:13:00,280 Speaker 2: monk for a while and stay away from everyone and 265 00:13:00,320 --> 00:13:02,560 Speaker 2: go find himself with a bunch of monks in a 266 00:13:02,600 --> 00:13:06,160 Speaker 2: mountain and not come back down until he cannot hurt it. 267 00:13:06,200 --> 00:13:09,440 Speaker 3: Anyone monks in a mountain, that's gonna go on a 268 00:13:09,480 --> 00:13:13,600 Speaker 3: T shirt instead of it saying jackx's he just wear 269 00:13:14,120 --> 00:13:14,960 Speaker 3: monks in a mountain. 270 00:13:15,120 --> 00:13:17,560 Speaker 2: No, that's it, That's where he needs to be. But 271 00:13:17,600 --> 00:13:21,160 Speaker 2: I mean, this is an extensive, extensive therapy. 272 00:13:20,960 --> 00:13:23,439 Speaker 1: And yeah, like this isn't going anywhere anytime soon. 273 00:13:23,559 --> 00:13:25,679 Speaker 2: Some cornball thing that he was at where they gave 274 00:13:25,720 --> 00:13:27,520 Speaker 2: him his phone to abuse his wife every day. 275 00:13:27,920 --> 00:13:32,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, then Jesse visits Jacks's apartment for the first time. 276 00:13:32,440 --> 00:13:35,720 Speaker 3: You can tell Jacks is uncomfortable even showing his apartment, 277 00:13:35,760 --> 00:13:38,280 Speaker 3: which I'm like, listen, this is a thousand square feet 278 00:13:38,320 --> 00:13:40,439 Speaker 3: bigger than the one we just sol for me, and 279 00:13:42,679 --> 00:13:45,520 Speaker 3: he was really worked up about having to do. This 280 00:13:45,559 --> 00:13:49,120 Speaker 3: is a stairs, Yeah, so you have to walk up 281 00:13:49,160 --> 00:13:50,120 Speaker 3: some stairs, Jacks. 282 00:13:50,160 --> 00:13:51,760 Speaker 1: You've got a lot of pent up energy. 283 00:13:51,880 --> 00:13:56,760 Speaker 2: Go go wear yourself out after you go food chopping 284 00:13:56,760 --> 00:13:58,360 Speaker 2: and have to bring up all the bags. 285 00:13:58,520 --> 00:14:03,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you know what, but he kind of made 286 00:14:03,600 --> 00:14:06,280 Speaker 3: me like there were moments of things that he would 287 00:14:06,400 --> 00:14:10,080 Speaker 3: like just he was he's such a hypocrite, like he'd 288 00:14:10,120 --> 00:14:13,040 Speaker 3: be like, oh, you know, I'm totally and Jesse. I 289 00:14:13,080 --> 00:14:16,199 Speaker 3: really liked this episode because Jesse's realized that he now 290 00:14:16,320 --> 00:14:20,640 Speaker 3: needs Michelle to like him, and he's coming around. 291 00:14:20,640 --> 00:14:23,920 Speaker 2: This was a really pivotal moment for a lot of 292 00:14:24,120 --> 00:14:25,200 Speaker 2: people in this episode. 293 00:14:25,240 --> 00:14:29,520 Speaker 3: By the way, Yeah, well Jack, Jack's is still worked 294 00:14:29,600 --> 00:14:33,320 Speaker 3: up because he found out that Brittany is dating someone else. 295 00:14:33,600 --> 00:14:36,560 Speaker 3: I'm sorry, we're on episode fourteen. Hasn't she been dating 296 00:14:36,560 --> 00:14:38,040 Speaker 3: somebody else since the beginning of it? 297 00:14:38,440 --> 00:14:40,800 Speaker 2: Because as I checked, he threw a table at her 298 00:14:40,840 --> 00:14:45,280 Speaker 2: because she was showing she had like beIN shots on 299 00:14:45,360 --> 00:14:48,400 Speaker 2: her kids. I passed, Yeah, I'm not sure this is 300 00:14:48,520 --> 00:14:49,280 Speaker 2: news to him. 301 00:14:50,040 --> 00:14:53,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, And like, who aren't you seeing somebody else? 302 00:14:53,800 --> 00:14:54,240 Speaker 2: Why? 303 00:14:54,440 --> 00:14:56,480 Speaker 3: Why are we still talking about let's talk about the 304 00:14:56,480 --> 00:14:59,640 Speaker 3: fact that you two can't have one decent conversation together. 305 00:14:59,800 --> 00:15:02,800 Speaker 3: Why figure out a decent schedule for your child? 306 00:15:03,880 --> 00:15:06,080 Speaker 2: Well, they better figure it out real soon, because it's 307 00:15:06,120 --> 00:15:09,440 Speaker 2: not about them anymore. I you know, I want to say, 308 00:15:10,000 --> 00:15:12,920 Speaker 2: I say I want to find something wrong with her 309 00:15:13,000 --> 00:15:15,280 Speaker 2: in all this, because it always you can always say 310 00:15:15,280 --> 00:15:17,760 Speaker 2: it takes two. I don't want to be biased because 311 00:15:17,800 --> 00:15:20,080 Speaker 2: she's a woman. I'm not looking at it like that. 312 00:15:20,240 --> 00:15:24,240 Speaker 2: But this girl did nothing wrong. She did absolutely nothing wrong. 313 00:15:24,360 --> 00:15:27,320 Speaker 3: Did she Well, I don't think she did anything wrong. 314 00:15:27,400 --> 00:15:29,560 Speaker 3: But I think the problem is that there was so 315 00:15:29,760 --> 00:15:34,360 Speaker 3: many times that they would have these massive fights and 316 00:15:34,640 --> 00:15:37,280 Speaker 3: break up, get back together. You know, this is throughout 317 00:15:37,320 --> 00:15:39,800 Speaker 3: before they were even engaged or married, and then she 318 00:15:39,920 --> 00:15:42,920 Speaker 3: still got engaged to him. I don't think going into 319 00:15:42,960 --> 00:15:46,880 Speaker 3: it she thought this is going to work out well. 320 00:15:47,240 --> 00:15:49,400 Speaker 1: And I think they're addicted to fighting with each other. 321 00:15:49,800 --> 00:15:52,080 Speaker 2: I think she did. I think that she thought, I 322 00:15:52,080 --> 00:15:55,600 Speaker 2: think should change him. I think I think he loves her, 323 00:15:55,760 --> 00:15:58,840 Speaker 2: believe it or not. I think right now he loves 324 00:15:58,880 --> 00:15:59,720 Speaker 2: her more than she. 325 00:15:59,600 --> 00:16:02,160 Speaker 1: Loves only because she's pushing him away. 326 00:16:03,280 --> 00:16:07,480 Speaker 2: You can't. How can you not love someone who has 327 00:16:07,600 --> 00:16:12,360 Speaker 2: stuck by you through your abuse, through your this. And 328 00:16:12,480 --> 00:16:14,280 Speaker 2: I mean not that he knows how to love or 329 00:16:14,320 --> 00:16:16,880 Speaker 2: not that he shows it, but he has to feel 330 00:16:17,000 --> 00:16:19,640 Speaker 2: something for her. We know he has deep rooted issues 331 00:16:20,760 --> 00:16:24,440 Speaker 2: with family and all these unresolved issues that he has. 332 00:16:26,000 --> 00:16:30,280 Speaker 2: And how could he She's all he has in this world. 333 00:16:31,240 --> 00:16:33,920 Speaker 3: I know, and I think he knows that Andy away, 334 00:16:34,320 --> 00:16:37,960 Speaker 3: but he's been pushing her away for over ten years. 335 00:16:38,440 --> 00:16:42,480 Speaker 2: Well, everybody has a breaking point, some closer than others. 336 00:16:42,920 --> 00:16:46,440 Speaker 3: That's true. That's true. Well, then we'll get back to them. 337 00:16:46,440 --> 00:16:48,760 Speaker 3: But Nea goes to the doctor for her consultation for 338 00:16:48,840 --> 00:16:51,960 Speaker 3: her mommy makeover. She gets emotional when the doctor says 339 00:16:52,040 --> 00:16:54,800 Speaker 3: parts of her body are almost at an extreme level? 340 00:16:55,880 --> 00:16:56,680 Speaker 2: What does that mean? 341 00:16:57,240 --> 00:17:01,520 Speaker 3: So like to me, I be wrong, but I this 342 00:17:01,680 --> 00:17:04,159 Speaker 3: is like the one area I I went in and 343 00:17:04,200 --> 00:17:05,120 Speaker 3: got everything. 344 00:17:04,840 --> 00:17:06,480 Speaker 1: Checked too after I had my kids. 345 00:17:07,560 --> 00:17:11,439 Speaker 3: But he said that like the way that her boobs 346 00:17:11,480 --> 00:17:15,080 Speaker 3: are falling is an extreme level, which means that she 347 00:17:15,160 --> 00:17:18,000 Speaker 3: would have to get a lift, And then I think 348 00:17:18,040 --> 00:17:20,120 Speaker 3: one of those like nets where they pull it up. 349 00:17:20,680 --> 00:17:25,200 Speaker 3: And then also, you know, it's like essentially a big surgery. 350 00:17:25,280 --> 00:17:26,840 Speaker 3: It's not like you're just going in to get your 351 00:17:26,920 --> 00:17:27,440 Speaker 3: tits done. 352 00:17:27,840 --> 00:17:30,560 Speaker 2: I've had it five times, just like that. I've had 353 00:17:30,600 --> 00:17:33,200 Speaker 2: five lifts. I've had five I don't know, you got. 354 00:17:33,080 --> 00:17:34,240 Speaker 1: A lift every time? 355 00:17:35,200 --> 00:17:40,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, See, I've. 356 00:17:38,800 --> 00:17:40,920 Speaker 2: Had my nipples taken off more times than I can't 357 00:17:40,960 --> 00:17:42,879 Speaker 2: count and put back on. 358 00:17:43,560 --> 00:17:46,359 Speaker 3: How many nipples are They always the same ones that 359 00:17:46,400 --> 00:17:46,919 Speaker 3: come back on. 360 00:17:47,200 --> 00:17:49,280 Speaker 2: Yes, they put the same ones back on. Thank god 361 00:17:49,280 --> 00:17:52,600 Speaker 2: they don't lose them or anything. But yeah, so yes, 362 00:17:53,000 --> 00:17:57,719 Speaker 2: I've had I've had it done so many times, and 363 00:17:57,760 --> 00:18:00,160 Speaker 2: you really make sure you have the right doctor because 364 00:18:00,200 --> 00:18:05,840 Speaker 2: it's not easy. They kelloyd and things like that, and listen, 365 00:18:06,200 --> 00:18:08,920 Speaker 2: and I'll be having them done it again, by the way. 366 00:18:08,800 --> 00:18:12,159 Speaker 1: A minor do. But because of my cancer stuff, I 367 00:18:12,200 --> 00:18:12,480 Speaker 1: have to. 368 00:18:13,280 --> 00:18:15,360 Speaker 3: Gosh, dang it, I have to take a break from 369 00:18:15,400 --> 00:18:16,800 Speaker 3: getting my boobs done. 370 00:18:17,280 --> 00:18:18,440 Speaker 2: I'm so sorry. 371 00:18:19,760 --> 00:18:20,840 Speaker 1: Can now believe it? 372 00:18:21,040 --> 00:18:22,280 Speaker 2: Now I feel bad for you. 373 00:18:22,640 --> 00:18:25,200 Speaker 1: Listen, I have to go my botox and tits. 374 00:18:25,440 --> 00:18:26,800 Speaker 2: Now I feel for you. 375 00:18:26,800 --> 00:18:27,800 Speaker 1: You should feel for me. 376 00:18:27,920 --> 00:18:28,240 Speaker 2: Sucks. 377 00:18:28,920 --> 00:18:30,320 Speaker 1: Well, you know what, you want to feel bad for 378 00:18:30,400 --> 00:18:35,399 Speaker 1: me again? Get my Tit's done, okay, you listen, listen. 379 00:18:35,880 --> 00:18:37,160 Speaker 1: This was a really bad day. 380 00:18:38,000 --> 00:18:41,440 Speaker 3: So you know about ten years ago when I went 381 00:18:41,480 --> 00:18:43,600 Speaker 3: to get my boobs done right after cruise because I 382 00:18:43,600 --> 00:18:44,840 Speaker 3: didn't know that Dove was coming. 383 00:18:45,560 --> 00:18:48,200 Speaker 1: The woman the doctor who did my boob. 384 00:18:48,040 --> 00:18:52,880 Speaker 3: Said, listen, if there's a spot that needs a little 385 00:18:52,920 --> 00:18:55,240 Speaker 3: bit more volume, would you like us to take fat 386 00:18:55,560 --> 00:18:57,440 Speaker 3: from any of your areas? And I was like, yes, 387 00:18:57,520 --> 00:19:00,359 Speaker 3: please take it from my inner thighs and she's like, great, 388 00:19:00,400 --> 00:19:02,959 Speaker 3: we'll do that. I thought that meant that was a 389 00:19:02,960 --> 00:19:05,960 Speaker 3: confirmation of what they'll do. And then I woke up 390 00:19:06,040 --> 00:19:09,360 Speaker 3: and the first thing I did was check in my thighs, 391 00:19:09,359 --> 00:19:11,440 Speaker 3: like it's nobody's business. I'm like, hold on, I don't 392 00:19:11,440 --> 00:19:14,720 Speaker 3: feel anything. And they're like, we didn't need any extra volume. 393 00:19:15,080 --> 00:19:17,919 Speaker 2: Oh no, I couldn't let you borrow seven if you 394 00:19:18,040 --> 00:19:18,520 Speaker 2: need it. 395 00:19:19,240 --> 00:19:22,920 Speaker 3: I know. I was like, no, I wanted to so fat. 396 00:19:23,440 --> 00:19:25,640 Speaker 2: I'm like, well, you're around her. Get it all done. 397 00:19:26,280 --> 00:19:29,520 Speaker 2: I'm getting fat taken out of They can have their choice. 398 00:19:29,520 --> 00:19:31,439 Speaker 2: I just don't need it. On the inside. I need it, 399 00:19:31,440 --> 00:19:35,159 Speaker 2: and they're gonna put it in my hands for wrinkles. 400 00:19:35,800 --> 00:19:38,400 Speaker 2: For wrinkles, I'm putting it and I'm doing a skin 401 00:19:38,440 --> 00:19:40,920 Speaker 2: tightening with renovale on at the end of this month. 402 00:19:41,359 --> 00:19:43,240 Speaker 1: My gosh, can I come? Am I allowed to get 403 00:19:43,240 --> 00:19:43,960 Speaker 1: these things yet? 404 00:19:44,000 --> 00:19:44,280 Speaker 3: You know? 405 00:19:44,520 --> 00:19:46,639 Speaker 2: I mean, I'm not your doctor, but I'm gonna tell 406 00:19:46,680 --> 00:19:48,560 Speaker 2: you you're my friend. Yeah, you come with me wherever 407 00:19:48,640 --> 00:19:50,920 Speaker 2: I go. I get it for you too. We'll get 408 00:19:50,920 --> 00:19:51,200 Speaker 2: it two. 409 00:19:51,240 --> 00:19:53,520 Speaker 1: First, we'll do it. We'll do a little paid post. 410 00:19:53,720 --> 00:19:55,119 Speaker 1: I'll wear my brown wigs so. 411 00:19:56,440 --> 00:19:59,640 Speaker 2: We can match. It'll be like we'll have a little 412 00:19:59,640 --> 00:20:00,360 Speaker 2: girl's day. 413 00:20:00,640 --> 00:20:02,040 Speaker 1: You love it. 414 00:20:03,800 --> 00:20:08,160 Speaker 3: But the doctor goes on and on about the insecurities 415 00:20:08,160 --> 00:20:11,240 Speaker 3: that she's having. I have to say this, that doctor 416 00:20:11,280 --> 00:20:14,360 Speaker 3: would have had some problems if he would have used 417 00:20:14,359 --> 00:20:17,800 Speaker 3: some of that language about my body to me on camera. 418 00:20:18,920 --> 00:20:20,680 Speaker 1: Who was a little. 419 00:20:21,280 --> 00:20:23,800 Speaker 2: Well what did he not? All doctors have the best 420 00:20:23,840 --> 00:20:27,280 Speaker 2: bedside manner, by the way, Yeah, And I don't mind them. 421 00:20:27,320 --> 00:20:29,080 Speaker 2: I'm not like want to date them. I just want 422 00:20:29,080 --> 00:20:29,760 Speaker 2: a good doctor. 423 00:20:30,480 --> 00:20:32,040 Speaker 3: I at the end of the day, as long as 424 00:20:32,040 --> 00:20:34,520 Speaker 3: it's a good time. I mean, I'm watching Toxic right now, 425 00:20:34,520 --> 00:20:37,000 Speaker 3: which you need to watch. You're gonna be so obsessed. 426 00:20:37,240 --> 00:20:37,640 Speaker 2: Get out. 427 00:20:37,680 --> 00:20:40,160 Speaker 1: Really it's so good. 428 00:20:40,560 --> 00:20:43,480 Speaker 3: So Armie Hammer's wife or I don't know if it's 429 00:20:43,520 --> 00:20:45,400 Speaker 3: his ex wife at this point, is on a show 430 00:20:45,440 --> 00:20:51,720 Speaker 3: called Toxic Okay, and it it's based on people who 431 00:20:51,760 --> 00:20:54,600 Speaker 3: go in and they have these like toxic relationships and 432 00:20:54,600 --> 00:20:56,840 Speaker 3: how they get out of them and how they Oh my. 433 00:20:56,880 --> 00:20:57,719 Speaker 1: God, I'm hooked. 434 00:20:58,359 --> 00:21:02,120 Speaker 2: Why So is it like a or is a seriousity? 435 00:21:02,359 --> 00:21:04,600 Speaker 3: It's serious, but it's based on the truth and you're 436 00:21:04,640 --> 00:21:06,320 Speaker 3: seeing the actual people it's happened to. 437 00:21:07,960 --> 00:21:08,439 Speaker 1: It's so good. 438 00:21:08,480 --> 00:21:13,000 Speaker 3: Write it down toxic. I think it's on Netflix, But 439 00:21:13,200 --> 00:21:15,159 Speaker 3: if it's not on Netflix, you can do your own googling. 440 00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:16,120 Speaker 3: I'm sure, Paul can. 441 00:21:17,320 --> 00:21:20,040 Speaker 2: I'm gonna watch I haven't had a minute, but I'm 442 00:21:20,080 --> 00:21:20,680 Speaker 2: gonna watch it. 443 00:21:20,800 --> 00:21:22,600 Speaker 3: You're gonna need to do it, and then we're gonna 444 00:21:22,600 --> 00:21:24,960 Speaker 3: have to touch base. Did you think it was necessary 445 00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:26,240 Speaker 3: to prove a point? 446 00:21:26,640 --> 00:21:27,719 Speaker 2: What point was proved? 447 00:21:28,880 --> 00:21:31,000 Speaker 3: I guess the point that they're trying to prove is 448 00:21:31,040 --> 00:21:33,119 Speaker 3: like he al together for as Janet. 449 00:21:33,320 --> 00:21:33,879 Speaker 1: Yeah. 450 00:21:34,040 --> 00:21:36,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, because anybody who ever got a tattoo with a 451 00:21:36,440 --> 00:21:40,240 Speaker 2: woman's face or somebody's name on them never, I mean, 452 00:21:40,320 --> 00:21:45,240 Speaker 2: that's that's like a for sure. Oh last, that's hitting 453 00:21:45,320 --> 00:21:47,840 Speaker 2: at home because that lasts forever. 454 00:21:48,400 --> 00:21:49,960 Speaker 3: And if I was a woman and I saw a 455 00:21:50,000 --> 00:21:52,480 Speaker 3: hot guy and he had a baby, tiny little line 456 00:21:52,560 --> 00:21:55,480 Speaker 3: on his finger, I'd be like, he's married, that's get 457 00:21:55,560 --> 00:21:56,680 Speaker 3: stay away from that one. 458 00:21:57,280 --> 00:22:00,120 Speaker 1: Paul had one when I met him, tiny little line. 459 00:22:00,520 --> 00:22:03,360 Speaker 2: No, he had his writing bands. He got it removed, 460 00:22:03,920 --> 00:22:04,520 Speaker 2: Oh he did. 461 00:22:04,680 --> 00:22:06,080 Speaker 1: Now does he have a white spot there? 462 00:22:07,080 --> 00:22:09,560 Speaker 2: No, it's totally on. There's nothing there. 463 00:22:09,920 --> 00:22:11,960 Speaker 1: I hope when it's you, it's just your face smiling 464 00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:12,680 Speaker 1: like that, when. 465 00:22:14,760 --> 00:22:17,720 Speaker 2: You know what it is when you're gonna get those tattoos. 466 00:22:17,760 --> 00:22:21,280 Speaker 2: A little word to the wise, guys, don't make it 467 00:22:21,440 --> 00:22:24,000 Speaker 2: so dark. Make it so that if you ever want 468 00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:27,960 Speaker 2: to have it removed, that it's very light. There's a way. 469 00:22:28,320 --> 00:22:29,720 Speaker 2: There's it, like. 470 00:22:29,960 --> 00:22:32,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, you could, you could do multiple ways. But as 471 00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:34,399 Speaker 3: I was watching it, all I could think about was 472 00:22:34,440 --> 00:22:37,400 Speaker 3: my dad. So, my dad, when he was younger, him 473 00:22:37,440 --> 00:22:40,000 Speaker 3: and my mom both got matching tattoos with themselves. My 474 00:22:40,040 --> 00:22:44,879 Speaker 3: mom's tattoo was like probably this big, like very very tiny. 475 00:22:45,680 --> 00:22:48,280 Speaker 3: My dad got a tattoo of my mom's face the 476 00:22:48,440 --> 00:22:49,920 Speaker 3: entire size of his shoulder. 477 00:22:50,640 --> 00:22:51,680 Speaker 1: So when they broke up. 478 00:22:52,040 --> 00:22:53,399 Speaker 3: You want to know what he did. It was this 479 00:22:53,440 --> 00:22:56,880 Speaker 3: beautiful woman's face. He turned it into Jesus. 480 00:22:57,720 --> 00:23:02,320 Speaker 2: Oh well, let me tell you if somebody who's gonna 481 00:23:02,440 --> 00:23:05,280 Speaker 2: change my face into someone else is why not who's 482 00:23:05,320 --> 00:23:09,679 Speaker 2: better than Jesus? That's actually like you're almost okay with that. 483 00:23:09,800 --> 00:23:12,080 Speaker 2: You're like, well, at least it wasn't another woman. 484 00:23:12,440 --> 00:23:18,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean Jesus, I mean Jesus or gosh, like that, 485 00:23:18,280 --> 00:23:18,920 Speaker 1: but hey. 486 00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:21,560 Speaker 2: Turn my face into Jesus all day long. 487 00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:26,200 Speaker 3: Not offended, not offended, But either way, I'm watching Janet 488 00:23:26,240 --> 00:23:29,080 Speaker 3: and Jason. I'm thinking these two protest too much. I'm 489 00:23:29,119 --> 00:23:31,719 Speaker 3: over it, trying to give them a little credit. Then 490 00:23:31,800 --> 00:23:35,200 Speaker 3: Nia heads over to Kristen's house. They chat about Kristen's 491 00:23:35,200 --> 00:23:38,960 Speaker 3: struggles with conceiving. Nia opens up about wanting a mommy makeover. 492 00:23:39,280 --> 00:23:42,359 Speaker 3: All this, I'm over it. I'm over it. I don't 493 00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:44,919 Speaker 3: care about the mommy makeover anymore until you get it, 494 00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:47,320 Speaker 3: and then I'll say it looks amazing. But I'm gonna 495 00:23:47,320 --> 00:23:47,800 Speaker 3: tell you. 496 00:23:49,359 --> 00:23:52,119 Speaker 2: Mommy makeover is of all of us who don't know, 497 00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:55,160 Speaker 2: which we all know is what is it? It's boobs 498 00:23:55,840 --> 00:23:59,920 Speaker 2: light up and tummy tuck. That's a rough one. That's 499 00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:03,639 Speaker 2: it's like the trifecta that you know. 500 00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:06,440 Speaker 1: That's like rough with four little kids. 501 00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:09,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, she better have some more help than just him. 502 00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:13,119 Speaker 3: She better because even when I had my necklift done, 503 00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:15,679 Speaker 3: I love we could do a full podcast twist on 504 00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:17,560 Speaker 3: our surgeries. But when I had my necklift on, my 505 00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:22,280 Speaker 3: kids were older and I'm still it was rough. Like 506 00:24:22,359 --> 00:24:23,520 Speaker 3: still to this day. 507 00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:26,480 Speaker 1: I'm like, am I swallowing I'm not sure. 508 00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:31,200 Speaker 2: When I got my Brazilian butt lift. I couldn't feel 509 00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:33,600 Speaker 2: my butt for a long time. My pants were down 510 00:24:33,640 --> 00:24:37,040 Speaker 2: in the back, like literally all the way down. My 511 00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:39,320 Speaker 2: whole ass was hanging out. I was walking down the street. 512 00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:41,760 Speaker 2: I had bags, and I didn't know that my ass 513 00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:43,880 Speaker 2: was out because I couldn't feel anything. 514 00:24:44,800 --> 00:24:47,840 Speaker 1: Oh God, who wants to give a surgery? Ready for 515 00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:48,600 Speaker 1: the next. 516 00:24:56,320 --> 00:24:58,760 Speaker 3: So Jax goes over to Britney's house to discuss their 517 00:24:58,800 --> 00:24:59,880 Speaker 3: co parenting arrangement. 518 00:25:00,600 --> 00:25:02,240 Speaker 1: But the first thing Brittany. 519 00:25:01,840 --> 00:25:05,480 Speaker 3: Asks him is how many xanax have you taken? Because 520 00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:07,360 Speaker 3: I'm not even like yourself. 521 00:25:07,520 --> 00:25:12,240 Speaker 2: No, I saw that, and I mean I don't know, like, 522 00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:15,720 Speaker 2: is he taken? That's a problem because you know, that's 523 00:25:15,760 --> 00:25:18,920 Speaker 2: the lot of times the precursor to Heroine. 524 00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:24,040 Speaker 1: But also she'd already called him out for doing cocaine 525 00:25:24,080 --> 00:25:26,280 Speaker 1: on camera. Now she's got to bring up the xanax? 526 00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:33,280 Speaker 2: Is he? But I don't really vehemently just deny it. 527 00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:39,000 Speaker 3: He just he didn't say how many. Oh, I mean, 528 00:25:39,080 --> 00:25:41,000 Speaker 3: I don't know how many is too many and how 529 00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:45,480 Speaker 3: many is regular? But I would assume, well, I don't 530 00:25:45,480 --> 00:25:48,040 Speaker 3: think he he didn't get that mad about it like 531 00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:50,240 Speaker 3: he's like, listen, you already accused me of cocaine. 532 00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:54,119 Speaker 2: Maybe he's just sick of hearing her. But I'm starting 533 00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:58,640 Speaker 2: to wonder. I'm like whatever, He's like, that's the least 534 00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:02,159 Speaker 2: of what you've accused me of these days. But here's 535 00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:04,760 Speaker 2: I mean, this fight got to me, to be honest, 536 00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:08,320 Speaker 2: it really hurt me. For them, I kind of felt it. 537 00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:12,399 Speaker 2: We've all been there. We've all been in that place 538 00:26:12,440 --> 00:26:15,199 Speaker 2: where you can't even look at each other. It's just 539 00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:18,600 Speaker 2: to that point there, and then I want to know 540 00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:21,840 Speaker 2: why she couldn't look at him. Could she not look 541 00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:24,600 Speaker 2: at him because she hates him or because she loves him? 542 00:26:24,960 --> 00:26:28,240 Speaker 2: And that's what confused me at the end, Like not confused, 543 00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:29,240 Speaker 2: but I was curious. 544 00:26:29,400 --> 00:26:33,520 Speaker 3: My guess is that she is so shocked when he 545 00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:37,399 Speaker 3: openly admits that he's not going to help support their child. 546 00:26:39,000 --> 00:26:43,280 Speaker 3: She can't look at him. But she seemed fine about everything, 547 00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:44,840 Speaker 3: like she kind of was just going through it. But like, 548 00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:47,600 Speaker 3: you're not seeing my son, you're not getting my ring camera, 549 00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:48,600 Speaker 3: you're not doing this. 550 00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:52,879 Speaker 2: She's setting boundaries. He goes, I came here to set boundaries, bitch. 551 00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:55,720 Speaker 2: She already set the boundaries and she and also. 552 00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:58,680 Speaker 3: If you want to set boundaries, and like this comes 553 00:26:58,680 --> 00:27:00,919 Speaker 3: from and like I am, I don't know if you 554 00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:03,040 Speaker 3: called if I'm in the middle of a divorce anymore. 555 00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:06,080 Speaker 3: I was getting divorced and then I almost died, so 556 00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:07,520 Speaker 3: then everything got put on hold. 557 00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:09,400 Speaker 1: But like it's just because like. 558 00:27:09,359 --> 00:27:10,879 Speaker 2: I don't think you call it in the middle of 559 00:27:10,920 --> 00:27:11,960 Speaker 2: the divorce anymore. 560 00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:13,919 Speaker 1: Do you just call it? But we're not back together? 561 00:27:14,280 --> 00:27:15,000 Speaker 1: So what do you call? 562 00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:18,119 Speaker 2: You just it's hold. 563 00:27:18,520 --> 00:27:22,359 Speaker 3: It's on hold because the one of the people divorcing 564 00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:25,920 Speaker 3: is not in a place where she can deal with lawyers. 565 00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:30,960 Speaker 2: No, but listen, it can Yeah, it's just right now, 566 00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:31,639 Speaker 2: it's on hold. 567 00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:35,159 Speaker 3: Yeah, So whatever it is that we call it, not 568 00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:39,880 Speaker 3: back together with my ex, not divorced, that's. 569 00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:42,520 Speaker 1: What we are. But I think that. 570 00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:47,840 Speaker 3: You have to set up some sort of a schedule 571 00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:52,000 Speaker 3: unless she is never gonna let Jack see that her 572 00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:55,000 Speaker 3: son again. But like, I don't think there's anything wrong 573 00:27:55,119 --> 00:27:57,600 Speaker 3: with Jack's trying to say, Okay, what days can I 574 00:27:57,640 --> 00:27:58,280 Speaker 3: see my son? 575 00:27:58,840 --> 00:28:03,800 Speaker 2: There's not. And here's the thing, she cannot fight with 576 00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:07,159 Speaker 2: him if they're gonna co parent. I do feel it 577 00:28:07,160 --> 00:28:10,199 Speaker 2: should be a supervised visits. She should at least be 578 00:28:10,280 --> 00:28:14,040 Speaker 2: around for a while until he does prove himself, which 579 00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:17,159 Speaker 2: he hasn't yet, not to me anyway. I feel that 580 00:28:17,520 --> 00:28:21,160 Speaker 2: you cannot fight in front of the kids. You cannot. 581 00:28:21,640 --> 00:28:24,680 Speaker 2: And when I was getting divorced, I went to see 582 00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:27,399 Speaker 2: a therapist. It was the school therapist, because I had 583 00:28:27,440 --> 00:28:29,359 Speaker 2: never heard of a therapist before where I grew up. 584 00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:31,200 Speaker 2: I had to go to school one time because I 585 00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:33,439 Speaker 2: got up fist fight, and everybody got up fist fight anyway, 586 00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:35,640 Speaker 2: so there was the school therapist. So the only one 587 00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:38,120 Speaker 2: I knew to cole was doctor Platt. I go to 588 00:28:38,200 --> 00:28:40,760 Speaker 2: doctor Platt. I have an infant in one hand and 589 00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:43,080 Speaker 2: a three year old hanging off my leg, and I'm 590 00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:46,040 Speaker 2: sitting with all high school kids in the waiting area 591 00:28:46,720 --> 00:28:49,880 Speaker 2: and this kid walks out and he's punching and he's 592 00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:52,960 Speaker 2: kicking the walls and his mom is behind him, broken hearted, 593 00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:56,560 Speaker 2: and I like, go around them. I sit down. I'm broken. 594 00:28:56,760 --> 00:28:59,320 Speaker 2: I'm almost half dead. And I said to her, what 595 00:28:59,360 --> 00:29:02,720 Speaker 2: do I do to make them not grow up to 596 00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:05,320 Speaker 2: be so angry? And she said, don't fight in front 597 00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:11,440 Speaker 2: of them. And then and from there, Teddy, everything halted. 598 00:29:11,920 --> 00:29:15,600 Speaker 2: I stopped. I let things go that I didn't care 599 00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:18,080 Speaker 2: about money was there. It was there if it was, 600 00:29:18,120 --> 00:29:19,959 Speaker 2: and it wasn't. For a long time it was. And 601 00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:22,120 Speaker 2: then when it wasn't, I just picked up my big 602 00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:24,280 Speaker 2: girl pants and I went and found it myself, like 603 00:29:24,560 --> 00:29:29,480 Speaker 2: you know, seeing that child and so much pain and 604 00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:31,960 Speaker 2: her saying that to me was enough for me to 605 00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:33,760 Speaker 2: do what I had to do. And it was at 606 00:29:33,800 --> 00:29:36,160 Speaker 2: a very good time that I needed and I took. 607 00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:38,880 Speaker 2: There was frustration through it, because you know, when you 608 00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:41,000 Speaker 2: hold things in, you take them out in the wrong ways. 609 00:29:41,280 --> 00:29:45,200 Speaker 2: I wasn't always the best mom, but I'm sure you 610 00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:48,000 Speaker 2: were a great mom. One thing I knew to do 611 00:29:48,080 --> 00:29:50,000 Speaker 2: was not fight in front of them. And Brittany has 612 00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:53,200 Speaker 2: to understand that she cannot show her hate towards him. 613 00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:56,440 Speaker 2: It's an anchor for her. It's detrimental to the baby. 614 00:29:56,840 --> 00:29:59,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think. I mean, I've been told that, you know. 615 00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:02,400 Speaker 3: And then if you are to get into some sort 616 00:30:02,440 --> 00:30:05,680 Speaker 3: of disagreement in front of your kids, the most important 617 00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:10,280 Speaker 3: thing for your kids is to see that you've had resolution. 618 00:30:10,960 --> 00:30:11,360 Speaker 2: Correct. 619 00:30:11,520 --> 00:30:13,720 Speaker 1: Yes, so there's conflict and then resolution. 620 00:30:14,080 --> 00:30:17,920 Speaker 3: Things don't just end human yeah right, yeah, and I'm human, 621 00:30:18,120 --> 00:30:20,400 Speaker 3: but I think that's the problem. They have so much 622 00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:24,760 Speaker 3: hate and love towards each other, but that they're not 623 00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:27,240 Speaker 3: making any of the right decisions, Like I felt like 624 00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:29,960 Speaker 3: Jack's probably left this and went and screamed into a 625 00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:32,800 Speaker 3: pillow for twenty five minutes, Like I don't think anything 626 00:30:32,880 --> 00:30:33,600 Speaker 3: was accomplished. 627 00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:37,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, so emotions does not travel in rational channels. So 628 00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:42,200 Speaker 2: until they can calm their emotionals down, emotion down, there 629 00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:45,160 Speaker 2: should be a schedule. There should be a family member 630 00:30:45,280 --> 00:30:47,520 Speaker 2: or a close friend for the supervised visit of the 631 00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:51,080 Speaker 2: baby with Jack so that she can go but on 632 00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:54,800 Speaker 2: a Saturday, on a set day. But until they can 633 00:30:54,800 --> 00:30:58,160 Speaker 2: get to that point, they cannot be together. If they're fighting, 634 00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:01,760 Speaker 2: it's no good. Like look at look at Kim Zolesiak 635 00:31:02,040 --> 00:31:04,400 Speaker 2: and what's his name? The way they would fight. On Instagram, 636 00:31:04,440 --> 00:31:06,560 Speaker 2: I wrote in one time, I said. 637 00:31:06,360 --> 00:31:08,280 Speaker 1: Listen, wrote in like I did. 638 00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:12,880 Speaker 2: I wrote a comment, I said, they're gonna this is scary. 639 00:31:12,920 --> 00:31:14,360 Speaker 1: But how does this work for the show? 640 00:31:14,400 --> 00:31:14,600 Speaker 2: Then? 641 00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:16,400 Speaker 1: How are they on a show together? 642 00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:20,000 Speaker 2: I don't care about the show. How about that I 643 00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:24,720 Speaker 2: care about that kid and the mental health of the 644 00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:27,800 Speaker 2: two of them. They don't have They shouldn't listen. People 645 00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:30,200 Speaker 2: on our show hated each other and phone for fourteen years? 646 00:31:30,360 --> 00:31:33,280 Speaker 2: What do you do you then? You know, just don't 647 00:31:33,320 --> 00:31:36,200 Speaker 2: film together. Everybody goes to the party. Stay away from 648 00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:36,640 Speaker 2: each other. 649 00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:38,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't. Don't talk to each other. 650 00:31:38,640 --> 00:31:41,480 Speaker 2: Fighting, you know, killing each other. It's not going to 651 00:31:41,520 --> 00:31:42,840 Speaker 2: go it's not getting anywhere. 652 00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:44,680 Speaker 3: The only thing it's going to do is it's going 653 00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:47,360 Speaker 3: to potentially have both of you lose custody. 654 00:31:48,640 --> 00:31:51,320 Speaker 2: And that that's the least of it. How about what 655 00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:51,960 Speaker 2: he's going. 656 00:31:51,920 --> 00:31:53,120 Speaker 1: To go through? 657 00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:53,239 Speaker 3: What? 658 00:31:53,480 --> 00:31:56,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, go what he's going through? You know, where is 659 00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:58,239 Speaker 2: he when this fighting's going on? Is he in the 660 00:31:58,240 --> 00:31:59,120 Speaker 2: next room? Kids? 661 00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:01,400 Speaker 1: No more than we She was there when she threw 662 00:32:01,560 --> 00:32:03,560 Speaker 1: when he threw the That's what. 663 00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:07,480 Speaker 2: I'm saying, yew No, there's still time. He's young enough 664 00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:12,800 Speaker 2: where they can redeem themselves and get on with their 665 00:32:12,840 --> 00:32:16,880 Speaker 2: family in a nice way. There's love there, however you 666 00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:19,320 Speaker 2: want to see it. I do feel like there's love, 667 00:32:19,480 --> 00:32:24,240 Speaker 2: but the hate has to be buried and gone. Listen, 668 00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:26,800 Speaker 2: Brittany Jacks is not going to change. He's not going 669 00:32:26,880 --> 00:32:29,920 Speaker 2: to get any better. Do not expect anything from him. 670 00:32:30,400 --> 00:32:32,680 Speaker 2: Figure out how to make this work altogether. 671 00:32:32,920 --> 00:32:35,120 Speaker 3: Figure out how to make yourself happy, and figure out 672 00:32:35,200 --> 00:32:38,280 Speaker 3: a way that your son can see his father in 673 00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:39,040 Speaker 3: a healthy way. 674 00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:43,440 Speaker 2: Correct, And there are a lot of ways it is 675 00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:46,480 Speaker 2: it can be done. I hope for them if they 676 00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:49,280 Speaker 2: need help finding that somebody steps in and helps them. 677 00:32:49,520 --> 00:32:50,040 Speaker 1: I do too. 678 00:32:50,360 --> 00:32:53,400 Speaker 3: I hope that's how we start to like end the season, 679 00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:55,560 Speaker 3: because I mean, there's one episode left. 680 00:32:55,880 --> 00:32:58,440 Speaker 2: Let's end the season with some resolution to this, because 681 00:32:58,480 --> 00:33:02,959 Speaker 2: what I just saw is riveting. It is the price 682 00:33:03,040 --> 00:33:04,959 Speaker 2: you pay at the end of the day for this 683 00:33:05,680 --> 00:33:10,360 Speaker 2: that your health, your mental stability, the time you've lost 684 00:33:10,400 --> 00:33:13,959 Speaker 2: hating somebody, and the toll it takes on your child. Please, 685 00:33:14,080 --> 00:33:16,880 Speaker 2: I'm begging them. If you hear me, please you can 686 00:33:16,920 --> 00:33:19,360 Speaker 2: even call me and talk to me. I've been through it. 687 00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:20,080 Speaker 3: She will. 688 00:33:20,840 --> 00:33:22,000 Speaker 1: I will give you good advice. 689 00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:23,840 Speaker 2: I will. I'm here for you. 690 00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:27,440 Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, I love you, Dolores, and I will be 691 00:33:27,800 --> 00:33:28,880 Speaker 1: talking to you next week