WEBVTT - The Rutgers Women Fight Back (Pt 2)

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, everyone, this is part two of our episode about

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<v Speaker 1>the two thousand and seven Rutgers women's basketball team. If

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<v Speaker 1>you haven't listened to part one yet, I recommend starting there.

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<v Speaker 1>And just a note that we discussed racist and sexist

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<v Speaker 1>language in this episode.

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<v Speaker 2>In April two.

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<v Speaker 1>Thousand and seven, Don Imss, a popular and prominent radio host,

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<v Speaker 1>callously dragged a group of young female college athletes into

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<v Speaker 1>a press storm.

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<v Speaker 3>I was blown away, bab what was said. Although I

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<v Speaker 3>was no stranger to racism and the nuances of it,

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't necessarily think it would be possible, especially towards

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<v Speaker 3>a group of young women like ourselves.

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<v Speaker 1>But don iMOS was about to get caught in his

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<v Speaker 1>own storm.

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<v Speaker 4>He had done it before, and there was a track

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<v Speaker 4>record of him, particularly saying and espousing some pretty dangerous

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<v Speaker 4>tropes about black women. And finally, I think a lot

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<v Speaker 4>of people said enough is enough.

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<v Speaker 1>After a week of silence, the team was finally ready

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<v Speaker 1>to respond to take control of the narrative.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm Susie Banacaram and I'm Jessica Bennett.

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<v Speaker 1>And this is in Retrospect, where each week we revisit

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<v Speaker 1>a cultural moment from the past that shaped us and.

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<v Speaker 2>That we just can't stop thinking about today.

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<v Speaker 1>We're talking about a college basketball team that was thrown

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<v Speaker 1>into the national spotlight against their will, but we are

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<v Speaker 1>also talking about who is allowed to respond in anger

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<v Speaker 1>when they are publicly targeted and who gets centered when

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<v Speaker 1>these stories get told.

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<v Speaker 2>This is part two, Okay to recap.

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<v Speaker 5>So, the Rutgers women's basketball team has just been to

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<v Speaker 5>the national championships and shock jock radio host Don Imus

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<v Speaker 5>goes on his show and calls them an offensive slur

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<v Speaker 5>on the.

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<v Speaker 2>Air, that's a nappy head of ours.

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<v Speaker 5>The backlash is growing quickly at this point, with people

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<v Speaker 5>like Al Sharpton and Barack Obama calling for his resignation.

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<v Speaker 2>This all happens inside of a week, is that right? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>The Rutgers team initially stays quiet.

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<v Speaker 1>They take time to think about how they want to

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<v Speaker 1>respond and to let it play out a little bit,

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<v Speaker 1>and then they decide the best way to do this

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<v Speaker 1>is with a press conference.

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<v Speaker 2>What happens at the press conference.

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<v Speaker 1>So exactly a week after the comments, they have this

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<v Speaker 1>really emotional news conference. Coach Vivian Springer, who I'll remind

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<v Speaker 1>you was this very famous Hall of Fame coach, decided

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<v Speaker 1>that the way to best approach this was to really

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<v Speaker 1>emphasize the humanity of the girls beside her.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so here's what she said.

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<v Speaker 6>These young ladies that you just have seated before you,

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<v Speaker 6>before you, are valedictorians of your class, future doctors, musical prodigies,

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<v Speaker 6>and yes, even girl scouts. These young ladies are the

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<v Speaker 6>best thistination has to offer, and we are so very

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<v Speaker 6>fortunate to have them here at Rutgers University. They are

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<v Speaker 6>young ladies of class distinction, are articulate, they are brilliant,

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<v Speaker 6>They are gifted.

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<v Speaker 1>She also didn't dry away from clearly calling out what

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<v Speaker 1>don Imus had said as unacceptable slurs.

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<v Speaker 7>We had to experience racist and sexist remarks that are deplorable,

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<v Speaker 7>despicable and abominable and unconscionable, and it hurts me.

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<v Speaker 1>And then a couple players spoke, and Essence was one

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<v Speaker 1>of them. She was introduced as a straight a student

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<v Speaker 1>who could walk out here and play Moonlight Sonata on

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<v Speaker 1>the piano without looking at the notes, which I know

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<v Speaker 1>is true because I watched a video of her playing piano,

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<v Speaker 1>and she expressed the team's great hurt, anger and disgust.

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<v Speaker 8>Not only has mister Imus stolen a moment of pure

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<v Speaker 8>grace from us. But he has brought us to the

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<v Speaker 8>harsh reality that behind the faces of the networks, they

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<v Speaker 8>have worked so hard to convey a message of empowerment

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<v Speaker 8>to young adults that so, somehow, some way, the door

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<v Speaker 8>has been left open to attack your leaders of tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 2>Well you can hear how young she is there.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean a lot of the commentators who were

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<v Speaker 1>watching that day noted how young and vulnerable the team appeared.

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<v Speaker 1>And this press conference was terrible for don Imus. The

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<v Speaker 1>Wall Street Journal would call it devastating for him, but

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<v Speaker 1>the Wreckers team did say at the end they had

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<v Speaker 1>agreed to meet with him.

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<v Speaker 5>So we just heard Vivian Stringers being very composed and

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<v Speaker 5>super gracious in that press conference. But has she ever

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<v Speaker 5>talked about how she reacted privately, because I imagined she

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<v Speaker 5>was pretty pissed.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, her private reaction was very different. Years later, she

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<v Speaker 1>recalled in twenty eighteen profile than in the days afterward,

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<v Speaker 1>And I'll read this. I kept reading those words and

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<v Speaker 1>I was so upset. I kept thinking, why would he

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<v Speaker 1>say that he doesn't know us? I remember busting my

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<v Speaker 1>hand on the wall, and I was crying because it

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<v Speaker 1>was bleeding.

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<v Speaker 5>Hearing all this like honestly makes me so sad because

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<v Speaker 5>she's just like, he doesn't even know us. Like there's

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<v Speaker 5>so much bias coursing underneath the surface to what they're saying.

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<v Speaker 5>Even in the press conference when they're having to reiterate

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<v Speaker 5>that these are brilliant, articulate young women, it's like trying

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<v Speaker 5>to object or subvert the tropes while responding to the thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's really is what's happening.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, she has to put on this professional face

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<v Speaker 1>and she has to prepare her team for a meeting

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<v Speaker 1>with this man who's caused them so much pain because

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<v Speaker 1>she knows that's what's expected of her.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, she doesn't really have a choice.

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<v Speaker 5>And then, of course she doesn't really have the luxury

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<v Speaker 5>of getting publicly angry, right, Like, of course she has

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<v Speaker 5>to slam a wall behind closed doors, because what would

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<v Speaker 5>they possibly say if she showed anger in public?

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<v Speaker 1>Right then she'd become an angry black woman. That's another

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<v Speaker 1>trope that they have to make sure they're not feeding into.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think intrinsically they understood that they had to

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<v Speaker 1>appeal to people by laying bear their humanity which is

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<v Speaker 1>just not right.

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<v Speaker 2>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>We shouldn't have to lay ourselves bear to convince people

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<v Speaker 1>we are worthy of not being treated terribly. And I

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<v Speaker 1>was really struck by that too, so I asked Essence,

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<v Speaker 1>if they were conscious of that.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's black women, you know, we have to

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<v Speaker 3>somehow figure out how to navigate this place, how to

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<v Speaker 3>navigate life in a way where you are able to

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<v Speaker 3>show how strong and powerful you are, how intelligent you are,

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<v Speaker 3>but at the same time, do it in a way

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<v Speaker 3>where you don't ruffle any feathers, where you don't intimidate people.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, we should just take what's given to us,

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<v Speaker 3>or you know, the more we fight for ourselves and

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<v Speaker 3>for others, as we often do, it's almost just like hey,

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<v Speaker 3>you you right there, Yes, you.

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<v Speaker 2>You specifically be quiet.

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<v Speaker 3>What you grow to understand is that what happens and

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<v Speaker 3>sports soch a Michael cosm of what society is.

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<v Speaker 5>What she's talking about here is the double bind, right

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<v Speaker 5>like that these women, these young women had to grapple

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<v Speaker 5>with the isms of both race and gender, and so

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<v Speaker 5>like God forbid, they would be labeled as angry. We

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<v Speaker 5>saw how that played out when Serena william Is yelled

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<v Speaker 5>at that ref even though research actually shows and I

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<v Speaker 5>will just point this out to clarify the record, that

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<v Speaker 5>black women are in fact less likely to show anger

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<v Speaker 5>when criticized or disrespected.

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<v Speaker 1>Because they know that this is a catch twenty two, right,

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<v Speaker 1>especially ins in sports, you're supposed to be aggressive. How

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<v Speaker 1>are you also going to be docile? Like it's this

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<v Speaker 1>insane thing where Serena Williams gets, you know, weeks of

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<v Speaker 1>headlines about how she was unsportsmanlike. But in tennis, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>think about John Beckenroe. Those guys were crazy and they

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<v Speaker 1>never got dinged in the way she did.

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<v Speaker 5>That's the thing too, right, Like when men express anger,

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<v Speaker 5>they are viewed as passionate and their status actually increases,

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<v Speaker 5>whereas when a woman expresses anger, she's just crazy and nuts.

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<v Speaker 2>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>So as women, you know, right, you know that you

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<v Speaker 1>have to kind of make yourself softer in some way

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<v Speaker 1>to be considered professional. You have to put a bunch

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<v Speaker 1>of exclamation points in your emails, and you have.

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<v Speaker 2>To be likable.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, and in fact, they did come off as very likable.

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<v Speaker 5>It seems like they effectively threaded that needle in this

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<v Speaker 5>press conference.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that what the response was.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, they definitely did, and it was an extremely successful

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<v Speaker 1>press conference, and essence really credits Vivian's stringer for that.

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<v Speaker 1>She really was a pro so she knew how to

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<v Speaker 1>frame this in a way that would be effective. But

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<v Speaker 1>one thing that's interesting about the response to it is

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<v Speaker 1>that a lot of the coverage remarked about how graceful

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<v Speaker 1>they were, their dignity, they're poise, and Hundits repeatedly marveled

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<v Speaker 1>at how articulate and gracious they were.

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<v Speaker 2>They actually used the word articulous in.

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<v Speaker 1>The yes okay, And you know, the subjects of that

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<v Speaker 1>is that it's surprising that they were rating right, which

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<v Speaker 1>feels racist in a less obvious way.

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<v Speaker 2>So I want to bring back Jaml Hill to talk

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<v Speaker 2>about this.

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<v Speaker 1>As you know, Jamal is an acclaimed sports journalist and

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<v Speaker 1>she wrote about the story for ESPN at the time.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, there's the indignity that you suffer of being dehumanized,

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<v Speaker 4>and then you have the extra indignity of having to

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<v Speaker 4>react to it politely because you're always aware of the

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<v Speaker 4>fact that your reactions are scrutinized and judged a lot differently.

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<v Speaker 4>For them to be angry in that moment, for them

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<v Speaker 4>to express any rage. It says everything about race in

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<v Speaker 4>America that that would have been considered to be a

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<v Speaker 4>classless reaction, but not what he said. Their reaction would

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<v Speaker 4>have been considered had they chosen to be angry and

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<v Speaker 4>chosen to exhibit a more forceful emotion, would have been

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<v Speaker 4>considered to be more egregious than the actual offense. I

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<v Speaker 4>would have loved for them to be able to express

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<v Speaker 4>however I feel, But it's unfortunately the burden and the

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<v Speaker 4>responsibility that a lot of Black people have had to

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<v Speaker 4>live with a long time, because not only are we

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<v Speaker 4>often the victims of racism and institutional racism and white supremacy,

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<v Speaker 4>were also not only tasked with being kind and polite

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<v Speaker 4>to it, we're also tasked with fixing it to It's.

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<v Speaker 5>So interesting because it's like what they had to do

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<v Speaker 5>there was predict the racist undertones or tropes that were

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<v Speaker 5>going to be used against them and then like preemptively

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<v Speaker 5>come back.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, they definitely had to go into this with the

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<v Speaker 1>understanding that it was their responsibility to somehow make this

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<v Speaker 1>better while also making it clear how unacceptable it was

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<v Speaker 1>to them.

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<v Speaker 5>Right, And how do you do that if you can't

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<v Speaker 5>be firm because firm might be interpreted as angry.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that is actually the brilliance of Vivian Stringer.

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<v Speaker 1>She is really but she's doing it in a way

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<v Speaker 1>that really engenders empathy. And you can tell this isn't

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<v Speaker 1>her first rodeo rights what she's doing.

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<v Speaker 5>It's just like, there's so many layers to this that

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<v Speaker 5>you have to peel back and constantly be aware of.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, because you have to experience the racism, but then

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<v Speaker 1>you also have to respond in a way that's not

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<v Speaker 1>going to create more racism, that's not going to make

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<v Speaker 1>you more of a target. It's really complex, and I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's also worth noting here that there was this

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<v Speaker 1>kind of deep historical and cultural significance to the way

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<v Speaker 1>that don Imus chose to be offensive right by calling

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<v Speaker 1>them names that were tied to their sexuality and to

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<v Speaker 1>their hair. It was tapping into this long standing cultural

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<v Speaker 1>baggage around black women's hair in this country. It's been

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<v Speaker 1>stereotyped and stigmatized for so long, as we mentioned earlier,

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<v Speaker 1>and Jabelle was really interesting on this topic. Hair is

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<v Speaker 1>very central to the identity of black women. Backing the

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<v Speaker 1>times of slavery, they used to make black women bind

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<v Speaker 1>their hair in various cloths basically so it wouldn't publicly

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<v Speaker 1>be seen. And the reason they didn't it was because

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<v Speaker 1>it was this crazy sort of thesis that if because

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<v Speaker 1>black women were elaborately styling their hair and that was

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<v Speaker 1>part of their expression, there was this crazy idea that

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<v Speaker 1>that would lure white men. And so when you call

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<v Speaker 1>a group of black women that be hitdedt os, you're

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<v Speaker 1>not only trying to dehumanize them, you're also trying to

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<v Speaker 1>make sure that you are sending the message that their

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<v Speaker 1>beauty is not respected, regarded, or even wanted.

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<v Speaker 2>You're trying to make them feel undesirable.

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<v Speaker 4>That is the whole point of this, right, And so

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<v Speaker 4>that's something that black women have also faced throughout the

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<v Speaker 4>history of our lives, is that we have been made

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<v Speaker 4>to feel not only as if we don't matter, but

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<v Speaker 4>that we're just not even beautiful or desirable enough to

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<v Speaker 4>even be considered in the same way, regarded in the

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<v Speaker 4>same scope of femininity that everybody else is. And so

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<v Speaker 4>by planting the image that we are hoes, it makes

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<v Speaker 4>it seem as if historically that the type of sexual

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<v Speaker 4>abuse and sexual trauma that black women have suffered is

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<v Speaker 4>really their fault because they're hoes and they're loose, and

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<v Speaker 4>that is another stereotype in a narrative that we have

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<v Speaker 4>had to fight throughout the course of our beings.

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<v Speaker 2>Susie.

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<v Speaker 5>Let's go back to the fallout for Imus. Did he

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<v Speaker 5>end up facing any consequences.

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<v Speaker 2>He did.

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<v Speaker 1>After the press conference, general outrage grew because it had

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<v Speaker 1>been really effective, right. It had really emphasized that the

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<v Speaker 1>Rutgers players were just kids for the most part, and.

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<v Speaker 2>They they wanted it to do. Yeah, And they weren't.

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<v Speaker 1>Journalists or politicians who were choosing to go on Imus's

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<v Speaker 1>platform and mix it up with him to sell books

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever. These were just hard working girls who had

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<v Speaker 1>done nothing but dare to play basketball while being black.

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<v Speaker 1>So it really was a critical moment in this story.

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<v Speaker 1>He did try to continue to spin things afterwards. He

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<v Speaker 1>did talk a lot about how he'd done all this

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<v Speaker 1>charitable work, which is true. He had done a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of charitable work with children with cancer, and he felt

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<v Speaker 1>the need to mention that some of them were black,

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<v Speaker 1>which it's like, oh, but thank god you didn't weed

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<v Speaker 1>out the black kids from your cancer and illness ranch Like,

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<v Speaker 1>it just was kind of a crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's basically like that, but I have a black friend.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it was a version of that, but almost worse

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<v Speaker 1>because he was using these sick children as a way

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<v Speaker 1>to defend himself, which it's hard not to see that

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<v Speaker 1>as a cynical way to try and change the conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>He launched a telethon to benefit three children's charities while

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<v Speaker 1>all of this was happening, which just does feel a

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<v Speaker 1>bit like a stunt. He also defended himself by saying

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<v Speaker 1>that the black community had used the word and said

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<v Speaker 1>horrible things about black women. And he argued that because

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<v Speaker 1>rappers routinely and this is a quote from him the

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<v Speaker 1>fame and demean black women and called them in quotes

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<v Speaker 1>worse names than I ever did.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, how was he supposed to know that this was offensive?

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<v Speaker 1>And you know that conversation is also to me just ridiculous,

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<v Speaker 1>Like what that has to do with his decision to

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<v Speaker 1>go after these girls for no reason, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>But it worked as a distraction.

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<v Speaker 2>It did.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, a lot of conversation at the time around hip

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<v Speaker 1>hop and whether it was a double standard that black rappers.

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<v Speaker 2>Interesting, So that actually became a story.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, time did a story at the time, Oprah Winfrey

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<v Speaker 1>did a town hall with black leaders about whether or

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<v Speaker 1>not hip hop needed to be held accountable for calling

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<v Speaker 1>women bitches and hoes. But okay, so it is this

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<v Speaker 1>crazy side show that happens. In fairness to Oprah, she

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<v Speaker 1>had also done an episode with the girls from Rutgers.

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<v Speaker 1>But still, I Ell said when I spoke to her

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<v Speaker 1>that this whole thing was just a way to continue

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<v Speaker 1>to avoid accountability.

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<v Speaker 4>It was a way to let don I Miss and

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<v Speaker 4>other people who think like them off the hook, because

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<v Speaker 4>I can tell you, I can't think of a single

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<v Speaker 4>jay Z lyric where he said the Rutgers women's basketball

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<v Speaker 4>team are nappy headed holes, not one. Often what we see, unfortunately,

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<v Speaker 4>in conversations about race is that at some point in

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<v Speaker 4>these conversations, the people who don't want to be accountable

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<v Speaker 4>want to then blame the people that they have either insulted,

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<v Speaker 4>demean or dehumanized for their own treatment. So it's not

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<v Speaker 4>about don Iamas saying this about the Ruggers women's basketball team.

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<v Speaker 4>It then becomes oh, no, black people deserve this, because

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<v Speaker 4>that's ultimately what he was saying. They deserve to be

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<v Speaker 4>called nappy headed holes because of something that Tupac said.

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<v Speaker 2>That's basically what he says.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just a diversionary tactic essentially, and it becomes such

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<v Speaker 1>a big part of the story that Snoop dogg ends

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<v Speaker 1>up responding to it.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh, she didn't. Yeah, remember this, Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>He said an interview with MTV News, which was still

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<v Speaker 1>a thing then, that we're not, as he puts it,

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<v Speaker 1>old ass white men sitting on MSNBC going hard on

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<v Speaker 1>black girls.

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<v Speaker 2>We're rappers.

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<v Speaker 1>This comes from our own experience and it's relevant to

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<v Speaker 1>what we feel, and we're not going to let people

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<v Speaker 1>say we're in the same league as this man.

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<v Speaker 2>That's interesting. Yeah, I mean that's true.

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<v Speaker 5>Like, he's not a news person on major news programs

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<v Speaker 5>who is supposed to have some sort of journalistic standards,

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<v Speaker 5>even though we know that he didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, it's just a totally different thing.

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<v Speaker 1>And also, as is well established now, but I guess

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't as well established at the time, being part of

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<v Speaker 1>a group does give you license to have different kinds

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<v Speaker 1>of conversations about them. That is just a fact, and

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<v Speaker 1>to pretend like that's not a fact and clutch your

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<v Speaker 1>pearls and be like well, why do they get to

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<v Speaker 1>say this?

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<v Speaker 2>But it's like, we know why, we don't need to

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<v Speaker 2>pretend we don't know why.

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<v Speaker 1>So the pressure continues on CBS and MSNBC particularly to

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<v Speaker 1>fire him, particularly from black leaders Al Sharpton, who I

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<v Speaker 1>already mentioned, who's a well known civil rights leader, and

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<v Speaker 1>also Jesse Jackson, who's also a well known civil rights leader,

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<v Speaker 1>and women's groups continue.

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<v Speaker 2>To also put a lot of pressure on.

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<v Speaker 1>I think the thing that this really highlights is that

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<v Speaker 1>while Imas's audience had gotten used to his antics, the

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<v Speaker 1>larger republic wasn't so familiar with them. So this clip

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<v Speaker 1>ends up being really shocking to a broad audience. And

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<v Speaker 1>then all these previous clips that we mentioned come in

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<v Speaker 1>and others that we didn't mention because there were so

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<v Speaker 1>many of them. So advertisers begin to bail, and as

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<v Speaker 1>you and I both know, when the money goes is

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<v Speaker 1>when the pressure.

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<v Speaker 2>Really comes on.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, And once advertisers start pulling out, CBS and MSNBC

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<v Speaker 1>realized that the suspension isn't going to be enough, and

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<v Speaker 1>MSNBC cancels his television simulcast right because they don't actually

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<v Speaker 1>produce the show, they just air it and eight days

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<v Speaker 1>after he made the comments, don Imis is finally fired

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<v Speaker 1>by CBS. Okay, okay, and in an in retrospect cameo

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<v Speaker 1>as twist. As per usual, the person who fires don

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<v Speaker 1>Imis is Les Moonvez Because no matter what, a list

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<v Speaker 1>of bad men always crops up in every story.

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<v Speaker 5>Less moonves to remind people the former head of CBS

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<v Speaker 5>who was then pushed out over egregious sexual harass.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, yes, it's just a reminder that the bad men

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<v Speaker 1>are everywhere. So one other thing I just want to

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<v Speaker 1>mention here because I think it is wild, is that

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<v Speaker 1>when I was researching this story, I found that it

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<v Speaker 1>had become such a huge story at the time that

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<v Speaker 1>it inspired not one, but two Harvard Business School cases.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh really about how as a leader you should handle

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<v Speaker 1>a crisis like this.

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<v Speaker 2>So oh fascinating. This really did.

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<v Speaker 1>Capture the national attention, far beyond the local New York

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<v Speaker 1>story that it might have been in a different world.

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<v Speaker 5>It's so interesting because this is the kind of stuff

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<v Speaker 5>that now plays out all the time, yes, and is

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<v Speaker 5>probably tackled much more quickly, So it's interesting to think

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<v Speaker 5>about how that has shifted. It's just so much more common.

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<v Speaker 5>I think now for big companies to be put under

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<v Speaker 5>pressure by the public and then advertisers to make a

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<v Speaker 5>decision about a thing that happened.

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<v Speaker 1>It's interesting because on the one hand, I think that's true,

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<v Speaker 1>but then I think about like a Joe Rogan on

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<v Speaker 1>Spotify and how Spotify has basically just kind of let

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<v Speaker 1>Joe Rogan do whatever he wants. And I think the

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<v Speaker 1>other way in which the landscape has shifted is that

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<v Speaker 1>there's an expectation that certain people are going to be

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<v Speaker 1>who they are, and so we don't get as much

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<v Speaker 1>backlash if a Joe Rogan says something, but obviously if

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<v Speaker 1>a mainstream network TV person says something, that's going to

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<v Speaker 1>have a different impact. But there are different rules for

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<v Speaker 1>different people now in a way that I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>existed then, because there's how many listeners are yours? How

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<v Speaker 1>much money are you bringing him for the platform? I

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<v Speaker 1>mean that was the whole thing with Joe Rogan, right right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>with Joe Rogan, Spotify doesn't rely on advertising, right, so

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<v Speaker 1>they make their own decision about what happens on it's

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<v Speaker 1>hard to prussure them. Yeah, So it's interesting and look,

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<v Speaker 1>I think you can look at even Tucker Carlson. Advertisers

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<v Speaker 1>left Tucker Carlson in droves when he was at Fox News.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's not what finally got him fired, right, What

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<v Speaker 1>finally got empired is that, by all accounts, Super Murdoch

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<v Speaker 1>finally got sick of him pushing conspiracy theories.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, so you mentioned that the team did agree to

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<v Speaker 5>meet with Don Ims. I imagine that must have been crazy.

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<v Speaker 5>Did that happen? What exactly happened at that meeting? And

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<v Speaker 5>what do we know about it? So the meeting did happen.

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<v Speaker 1>Coincidentally, the meeting was scheduled for the evening of the

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<v Speaker 1>day he ends up getting fired. So the meeting happens

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<v Speaker 1>also eight days after he made the initial comments, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's a pre arranged meeting with the coach, Vivian Springer,

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<v Speaker 1>and the whole team at the New Jersey Governor's mansion.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wow, it's at the Governor's at.

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<v Speaker 1>The governor's mansion. But strangely, the governor never makes it

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<v Speaker 1>to the meeting. As a weird aside, he gets in

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<v Speaker 1>a car accident on the way.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh and it is like injured.

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<v Speaker 1>So they have the meeting without him, So he's not involved,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's at the governor's mansion.

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<v Speaker 5>But that is interesting that this has made it to

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<v Speaker 5>the highest level of state politics.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, yes, definitely.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think also New Jersey really rallied around this team,

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<v Speaker 1>like they felt real pride in them as they were

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<v Speaker 1>making their way up to the Final four, So I

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<v Speaker 1>think they felt protective of them, right, So it became

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<v Speaker 1>a New Jersey story in that way. So the meeting

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<v Speaker 1>lasts about three to four hours.

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<v Speaker 2>That's long.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's a long meeting, and I think a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of people on the team talk and afterwards i Miss

0:23:07.600 --> 0:23:10.920
<v Speaker 1>leaves without commenting, but Stringer does say that the meeting

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<v Speaker 1>went well and that i Miss apologized and that they

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<v Speaker 1>accepted his apology because he came to the meeting in

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<v Speaker 1>spite of the fact that he'd lost his job, So

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<v Speaker 1>they give him credit for that, or at least coach

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<v Speaker 1>Stringer gives him credit for that. And she also makes

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<v Speaker 1>the point that the basketball team had not called for

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<v Speaker 1>i Miss to be fired.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's pretty interesting, right.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that is interesting and worth noting because you

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<v Speaker 1>get this sense that even as all of this is

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<v Speaker 1>playing out, she's conscious of not wanting the team to

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<v Speaker 1>be blamed. She doesn't want to be responsible for whatever

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<v Speaker 1>happened to him again, because I think they're conscious of

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<v Speaker 1>this possibility that there will be backlash, that somehow this

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<v Speaker 1>will kind of push back on them.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, and also at the end of the day, probably

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<v Speaker 5>she's just trying to stay in her lank like this.

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<v Speaker 5>This is a team, this is an athletic team. These

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<v Speaker 5>are girls. They'd never wanted to be weighing in on

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<v Speaker 5>national racial politics in the first place.

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<v Speaker 2>That's correct. I think that is definitely part of it.

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<v Speaker 1>She's just like, I'm just protecting my team and I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to be blamed for whatever decisions other people

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<v Speaker 1>need to make about this. The team has not talked

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<v Speaker 1>about this meeting very much. They've never really spoken about

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<v Speaker 1>what happened. But I did ask Essence what the meeting

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<v Speaker 1>was like from her perspective, and this is what she

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<v Speaker 1>told me.

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<v Speaker 3>I felt like we got what we needed to say

0:24:32.720 --> 0:24:34.639
<v Speaker 3>off of our chests, each and every one of us.

0:24:35.040 --> 0:24:37.280
<v Speaker 3>We shared what we needed to share, what we wanted

0:24:37.280 --> 0:24:40.000
<v Speaker 3>to share about how we were feeling about what it caused,

0:24:40.119 --> 0:24:48.840
<v Speaker 3>and really allow him to put a faith to those characters,

0:24:48.840 --> 0:24:53.680
<v Speaker 3>because essentially he diminished us and it made us characters, right,

0:24:53.800 --> 0:24:57.399
<v Speaker 3>So I think that at that time we were able

0:24:57.440 --> 0:25:01.719
<v Speaker 3>to kind of humanize ourselves as much as we could, right,

0:25:01.880 --> 0:25:02.919
<v Speaker 3>as much as he cared.

0:25:08.680 --> 0:25:11.359
<v Speaker 5>It's so interesting to think of them all there together

0:25:11.480 --> 0:25:16.480
<v Speaker 5>and what Essence is saying is still pretty graceful and

0:25:16.520 --> 0:25:20.119
<v Speaker 5>giving this guy a lot of grace in going to

0:25:20.200 --> 0:25:22.520
<v Speaker 5>this meeting, and you know, wanting to show that they're

0:25:22.520 --> 0:25:25.080
<v Speaker 5>real people, not going in and being like fuck you.

0:25:25.240 --> 0:25:29.119
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Well, we don't really know what happened in the meeting.

0:25:29.680 --> 0:25:33.640
<v Speaker 1>Imus did eventually talk a bit about this meeting, and

0:25:33.840 --> 0:25:36.959
<v Speaker 1>he did say that one of the player's moms really

0:25:37.359 --> 0:25:40.240
<v Speaker 1>was very mad at him and really expressed to him

0:25:40.800 --> 0:25:44.159
<v Speaker 1>in ways that made it clear to him that what

0:25:44.200 --> 0:25:47.720
<v Speaker 1>he had done wasn't okay and wasn't funny. And he said,

0:25:48.280 --> 0:25:50.879
<v Speaker 1>it was good that I lost my job before this meeting,

0:25:51.080 --> 0:25:53.480
<v Speaker 1>because it didn't feel like I was just there to

0:25:53.520 --> 0:25:56.640
<v Speaker 1>try and save my job. I was really there to apologize,

0:25:56.720 --> 0:25:59.239
<v Speaker 1>and I was grateful that they accepted it.

0:25:59.760 --> 0:26:01.719
<v Speaker 2>And I guess, to his credit, he could have canceled

0:26:01.760 --> 0:26:02.160
<v Speaker 2>the meeting.

0:26:02.400 --> 0:26:06.679
<v Speaker 1>I think he genuinely did feel very shamed by this chapter,

0:26:07.200 --> 0:26:10.160
<v Speaker 1>and he said afterwards he made a promise to them

0:26:10.240 --> 0:26:12.920
<v Speaker 1>that he would not make them regret for giving him

0:26:12.960 --> 0:26:16.680
<v Speaker 1>because they had accepted an apology, and I think for

0:26:17.040 --> 0:26:20.679
<v Speaker 1>the most part, he did try and live up to that.

0:26:20.920 --> 0:26:24.320
<v Speaker 1>But whatever his regrets, it did not stop him from

0:26:24.400 --> 0:26:28.440
<v Speaker 1>suing CBS for forty million dollars claiming wrongful termination.

0:26:28.800 --> 0:26:32.480
<v Speaker 2>So his regrets did not last very long. Did he

0:26:32.520 --> 0:26:34.679
<v Speaker 2>get that money? He got a lot of it.

0:26:34.920 --> 0:26:38.080
<v Speaker 1>CBS announced a settlement with him for an undisclosed amount

0:26:38.200 --> 0:26:40.760
<v Speaker 1>in August, so this happened in April, so not that

0:26:40.800 --> 0:26:43.399
<v Speaker 1>many months later, and the reporting at the time was

0:26:43.440 --> 0:26:45.400
<v Speaker 1>that he got ten to twenty million dollars.

0:26:45.760 --> 0:26:46.119
<v Speaker 2>Okay.

0:26:46.440 --> 0:26:49.800
<v Speaker 1>That same day, one of the Rutgers basketball players, Kia Vaughn,

0:26:49.920 --> 0:26:52.840
<v Speaker 1>who went on to play for the WNBA, filed a

0:26:52.880 --> 0:26:55.760
<v Speaker 1>suit against I Miss, his executive producer, and all the

0:26:55.800 --> 0:27:01.200
<v Speaker 1>media companies involved, citing slander and libel and defamation of character. Okay,

0:27:01.359 --> 0:27:04.160
<v Speaker 1>and she was the only one to pursue legal damages.

0:27:04.200 --> 0:27:06.280
<v Speaker 1>But you get the sense that they did really just

0:27:06.320 --> 0:27:08.800
<v Speaker 1>want to move on. So a month later, she drops

0:27:08.840 --> 0:27:11.320
<v Speaker 1>the lawsuit saying she just wants to concentrate on our

0:27:11.359 --> 0:27:15.159
<v Speaker 1>studies and basketball training. And I think they do just

0:27:15.560 --> 0:27:17.640
<v Speaker 1>move on from this and try not to talk about

0:27:17.680 --> 0:27:18.879
<v Speaker 1>it much afterwards.

0:27:19.440 --> 0:27:21.800
<v Speaker 2>And so where does don Imus go from here?

0:27:22.440 --> 0:27:25.720
<v Speaker 1>Well, Jessica, you might be surprised to know that I

0:27:25.840 --> 0:27:29.280
<v Speaker 1>Miss was back on the air at another network, WABC,

0:27:29.600 --> 0:27:32.960
<v Speaker 1>by the end of that same year, in a deal

0:27:33.040 --> 0:27:35.800
<v Speaker 1>that was reportedly worth five to eight billion dollars a year.

0:27:36.320 --> 0:27:38.280
<v Speaker 1>It may also surprise you to know that his first

0:27:38.320 --> 0:27:42.760
<v Speaker 1>guest included Pulitzer Prize winning historian Doris Kurns Goodwin and

0:27:42.800 --> 0:27:48.199
<v Speaker 1>Senator John McCain. So it really didn't last long the backlash,

0:27:48.280 --> 0:27:51.000
<v Speaker 1>and on his first show back, he described that meeting

0:27:51.080 --> 0:27:53.800
<v Speaker 1>with the team and said the things that I just

0:27:53.920 --> 0:27:57.399
<v Speaker 1>mentioned about how it made him realize that it wasn't funny.

0:27:57.840 --> 0:28:01.560
<v Speaker 1>He diversified his show, he added some black comedians to

0:28:01.640 --> 0:28:05.080
<v Speaker 1>his existing crew, and to give you an idea of

0:28:05.080 --> 0:28:09.239
<v Speaker 1>how much he did or didn't change, he ended his

0:28:09.800 --> 0:28:13.320
<v Speaker 1>opening monologue by saying this, but.

0:28:13.359 --> 0:28:16.560
<v Speaker 2>Other than that, not much has change.

0:28:17.600 --> 0:28:23.159
<v Speaker 9>Dick Cheney is still a war criminal, Hillary Clinton is

0:28:23.200 --> 0:28:27.800
<v Speaker 9>still Satan, and I'm back on the radio.

0:28:29.520 --> 0:28:29.840
<v Speaker 2>Okay.

0:28:29.880 --> 0:28:33.080
<v Speaker 5>So he's clearly signaling to his audience that sure he

0:28:33.200 --> 0:28:36.320
<v Speaker 5>may have changed in this one realm, but he's still

0:28:36.480 --> 0:28:40.280
<v Speaker 5>the same guy. Who calls Hillary Clinton satan. Yes, I

0:28:40.320 --> 0:28:44.520
<v Speaker 5>mean it is interesting because it's like, Okay, can people

0:28:45.520 --> 0:28:51.320
<v Speaker 5>make in his case, racist mistakes, apologize, do the work

0:28:51.360 --> 0:28:55.840
<v Speaker 5>as we like to say, and move forward, or can

0:28:55.880 --> 0:28:59.480
<v Speaker 5>they not? Like it is an interesting question. Should he

0:28:59.520 --> 0:29:03.560
<v Speaker 5>have been kept off there forever? This seems pretty quick.

0:29:03.840 --> 0:29:06.960
<v Speaker 1>It's just indicative of the fact that while he did

0:29:07.000 --> 0:29:11.120
<v Speaker 1>get his hands slapped, he didn't really lose that much.

0:29:11.280 --> 0:29:15.800
<v Speaker 1>Right in the end, maybe he lost some amount of money,

0:29:16.160 --> 0:29:18.520
<v Speaker 1>but in the numbers we're talking about here, tens of

0:29:18.560 --> 0:29:21.080
<v Speaker 1>millions of dollars, whatever that money was, didn't make a

0:29:21.160 --> 0:29:24.600
<v Speaker 1>dent in his overall wealth. And honestly, I think the

0:29:24.640 --> 0:29:28.120
<v Speaker 1>thing that's more interesting is that it didn't take long

0:29:28.200 --> 0:29:31.920
<v Speaker 1>for him to fully rehabilitate his image. Almost a year

0:29:32.160 --> 0:29:35.320
<v Speaker 1>to the date of the original comments, Jesse Jackson, who

0:29:35.320 --> 0:29:38.240
<v Speaker 1>had literally been one of the people leading protests and

0:29:38.320 --> 0:29:42.680
<v Speaker 1>calling for as firing, appeared on his show Okay to

0:29:42.800 --> 0:29:45.960
<v Speaker 1>discuss the fortieth anniversary of the assassination of Martin Luther

0:29:46.040 --> 0:29:48.840
<v Speaker 1>King Junior. Which you may know that Jesse Jackson was

0:29:48.840 --> 0:29:52.920
<v Speaker 1>there when Mlking Jr. Was assassinated and that booking would

0:29:52.960 --> 0:29:56.200
<v Speaker 1>have seemed impossible a year before. So it is an

0:29:56.240 --> 0:30:00.000
<v Speaker 1>interesting question of how long does it take to rehabilitate,

0:30:00.240 --> 0:30:04.920
<v Speaker 1>or what is considered rehabilitation. But frankly, this feels like

0:30:05.000 --> 0:30:07.560
<v Speaker 1>it wasn't much. Within a year he was already sort

0:30:07.560 --> 0:30:10.800
<v Speaker 1>of buddying up with the people who had been calling

0:30:10.840 --> 0:30:11.720
<v Speaker 1>for accountability.

0:30:12.320 --> 0:30:14.800
<v Speaker 5>Did Jesse Jackson ever talk about why he made the

0:30:14.840 --> 0:30:16.200
<v Speaker 5>decision to go back on I.

0:30:16.240 --> 0:30:19.200
<v Speaker 1>Think the honest answer is people wanted access to his platform.

0:30:19.240 --> 0:30:22.680
<v Speaker 1>It's why people went on before knowing exactly who he was.

0:30:23.320 --> 0:30:27.600
<v Speaker 1>You know, in the end, access to power is extremely seductive,

0:30:27.720 --> 0:30:30.520
<v Speaker 1>and I think that's what the Imus story is. In

0:30:30.600 --> 0:30:33.600
<v Speaker 1>a lot of ways, people really tolerated a lot from

0:30:33.680 --> 0:30:37.320
<v Speaker 1>don Imus things they knew weren't okay even before these comments,

0:30:37.720 --> 0:30:40.400
<v Speaker 1>because they wanted access to his platform. And I assume

0:30:40.720 --> 0:30:43.560
<v Speaker 1>for Jesse Jackson, whatever he may have said at the time,

0:30:43.840 --> 0:30:47.920
<v Speaker 1>that was essentially the same reason he decided it was

0:30:47.960 --> 0:30:49.520
<v Speaker 1>okay to move forward.

0:30:49.200 --> 0:30:49.680
<v Speaker 2>With this guy.

0:30:50.200 --> 0:30:53.840
<v Speaker 5>Okay, So this is all interesting, But to what extent

0:30:53.880 --> 0:30:57.120
<v Speaker 5>do you think he actually did mean it when he

0:30:57.280 --> 0:30:59.760
<v Speaker 5>told the players, I am not going to make you

0:30:59.800 --> 0:31:02.200
<v Speaker 5>regret having accepted my apology.

0:31:02.360 --> 0:31:04.640
<v Speaker 2>I mean, I think to some degree he did.

0:31:04.680 --> 0:31:07.040
<v Speaker 1>I actually asked Essence about this, and she was like,

0:31:07.240 --> 0:31:09.719
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, man, I did not continue to follow

0:31:09.800 --> 0:31:12.480
<v Speaker 1>this man's career when this was over. I hit this

0:31:12.600 --> 0:31:15.720
<v Speaker 1>chapter away and like, I just didn't care to track him.

0:31:16.160 --> 0:31:19.000
<v Speaker 1>And I think that's very fair on her part. I

0:31:19.000 --> 0:31:22.560
<v Speaker 1>think he made an effort not to use really racially

0:31:22.760 --> 0:31:26.040
<v Speaker 1>charged language. What was in his heart? I mean, I

0:31:26.040 --> 0:31:30.840
<v Speaker 1>think we just don't know. There were a couple smaller

0:31:30.840 --> 0:31:35.920
<v Speaker 1>incidents where he denied the kind of racial undertones that

0:31:35.960 --> 0:31:38.200
<v Speaker 1>other people saw in them, So I do think he

0:31:38.280 --> 0:31:39.680
<v Speaker 1>was under scrutiny.

0:31:39.600 --> 0:31:41.120
<v Speaker 2>And did he ever talk about it again.

0:31:41.200 --> 0:31:44.080
<v Speaker 1>He did address the comments again in twenty eighteen, so

0:31:44.440 --> 0:31:46.960
<v Speaker 1>I miss passed in twenty nineteen. But he retired from

0:31:47.000 --> 0:31:49.640
<v Speaker 1>his show in twenty eighteen, so that gives you a

0:31:49.680 --> 0:31:51.520
<v Speaker 1>sense of how much longer he was on the air.

0:31:51.560 --> 0:31:52.960
<v Speaker 1>He went back on the air in two thousand and

0:31:53.040 --> 0:31:56.720
<v Speaker 1>seven and stayed on for eleven more years, And he

0:31:56.760 --> 0:31:59.640
<v Speaker 1>gave an interview to CBS Sunday Morning when he retired,

0:31:59.720 --> 0:32:01.760
<v Speaker 1>which also just gives you an idea of how much

0:32:01.760 --> 0:32:05.280
<v Speaker 1>his image was rehabilitated. Right that CBS Sunday Morning ran

0:32:05.360 --> 0:32:09.560
<v Speaker 1>this glowing profile of him upon his retirement, and when

0:32:09.720 --> 0:32:13.680
<v Speaker 1>the correspondent asked him if he had any regrets, he

0:32:13.840 --> 0:32:16.840
<v Speaker 1>said that the Rutgers thing, that's how he framed it,

0:32:16.880 --> 0:32:18.120
<v Speaker 1>the Rutgers thing, I regret.

0:32:18.600 --> 0:32:20.720
<v Speaker 2>The correspondent asked, what do you regret about it?

0:32:20.760 --> 0:32:23.600
<v Speaker 1>And he just said, because I know better, And he

0:32:23.640 --> 0:32:27.520
<v Speaker 1>also added that it was because it changes thinking about

0:32:28.120 --> 0:32:31.240
<v Speaker 1>making fun of some people who didn't necessarily have a

0:32:31.320 --> 0:32:34.960
<v Speaker 1>mechanism to defend themselves. I mean, I don't know if

0:32:35.000 --> 0:32:38.240
<v Speaker 1>it's the kind of deep regret I might have expressed

0:32:38.480 --> 0:32:38.760
<v Speaker 1>in this.

0:32:39.120 --> 0:32:41.680
<v Speaker 5>Well, it's interesting, and he says because he knew better,

0:32:41.760 --> 0:32:45.320
<v Speaker 5>which sort of hints at he knew it was bad

0:32:45.440 --> 0:32:46.040
<v Speaker 5>at the time.

0:32:46.200 --> 0:32:50.000
<v Speaker 1>Well, and I think also he just genuinely always resisted

0:32:50.040 --> 0:32:53.480
<v Speaker 1>the idea that he was racist in any way, that

0:32:53.520 --> 0:32:57.560
<v Speaker 1>the things he did had racist implications. Like so much

0:32:57.560 --> 0:33:00.160
<v Speaker 1>of the way he defended himself at the time was

0:33:00.200 --> 0:33:04.239
<v Speaker 1>to be like, I am not a racist. And you know,

0:33:04.560 --> 0:33:08.280
<v Speaker 1>that doesn't really inspire the sense that he did a

0:33:08.280 --> 0:33:11.120
<v Speaker 1>lot of self reflection, because obviously a man who feels

0:33:11.160 --> 0:33:14.480
<v Speaker 1>comfortable saying the N word and also just like spewing

0:33:14.480 --> 0:33:18.040
<v Speaker 1>out this kind of casual racism all the time does

0:33:18.320 --> 0:33:21.360
<v Speaker 1>have some racism to contend with. I just think that

0:33:21.800 --> 0:33:24.960
<v Speaker 1>this idea that when you're confronted with something about yourself,

0:33:25.000 --> 0:33:27.560
<v Speaker 1>you get to just say, that's not true about me.

0:33:27.800 --> 0:33:30.480
<v Speaker 1>I just said a bad thing, but it doesn't mean

0:33:30.560 --> 0:33:34.200
<v Speaker 1>anything about what I actually believe or who I actually am.

0:33:34.600 --> 0:33:36.200
<v Speaker 2>That kind of does feel like a cop out.

0:33:36.280 --> 0:33:39.760
<v Speaker 1>So I don't know that he ever fully came to

0:33:39.840 --> 0:33:43.800
<v Speaker 1>understand what this episode meant for him. I don't know

0:33:44.240 --> 0:33:47.160
<v Speaker 1>if narcissists are capable of that.

0:33:52.400 --> 0:33:55.880
<v Speaker 2>Okay, I'm sick of Vimus. Yeah, fair, Let's go back

0:33:55.920 --> 0:33:58.760
<v Speaker 2>to the players. I want to know what became of

0:33:58.880 --> 0:34:01.280
<v Speaker 2>race players where well, Jess.

0:34:01.360 --> 0:34:03.360
<v Speaker 1>Unlike a lot of stories we tell here, I'm happy

0:34:03.360 --> 0:34:06.160
<v Speaker 1>to report that this story does have a happy ending.

0:34:06.560 --> 0:34:10.319
<v Speaker 1>So Vivian Stringer would go on to become one of

0:34:10.320 --> 0:34:13.480
<v Speaker 1>the most successful college basketball coaches of all time. She

0:34:13.719 --> 0:34:16.880
<v Speaker 1>was the first coach in men's or women's basketball history

0:34:16.920 --> 0:34:20.120
<v Speaker 1>to take three different schools to the Final Four. She

0:34:20.320 --> 0:34:23.040
<v Speaker 1>was the fifth women's basketball coach to reach a thousand

0:34:23.120 --> 0:34:25.360
<v Speaker 1>career wins, and she was the first black coach to

0:34:25.400 --> 0:34:29.800
<v Speaker 1>achieve that goal. So she is an icon in college sports,

0:34:29.920 --> 0:34:33.120
<v Speaker 1>and just an icon in women's sports. And I think

0:34:33.480 --> 0:34:37.040
<v Speaker 1>is retired now from Rutgers, but is a beloved figure there.

0:34:37.120 --> 0:34:41.640
<v Speaker 1>So she had a great career. Essence had an amazing career. Also,

0:34:41.760 --> 0:34:44.440
<v Speaker 1>she was drafted by the New York Liberty when she

0:34:44.480 --> 0:34:45.560
<v Speaker 1>graduated from Ruckers.

0:34:45.600 --> 0:34:47.920
<v Speaker 2>She went on to have a long and successful basketball career.

0:34:48.320 --> 0:34:51.239
<v Speaker 1>Has played for a number of other WNBA teams and

0:34:51.400 --> 0:34:54.239
<v Speaker 1>the US national team, and she played overseas for some time.

0:34:54.280 --> 0:34:56.840
<v Speaker 1>And now she's a music executive, so she's doing great.

0:34:57.400 --> 0:35:00.719
<v Speaker 1>Kiya Vonn, who you may remember as the students who

0:35:00.760 --> 0:35:03.400
<v Speaker 1>she did try and sue him briefly. She would go

0:35:03.440 --> 0:35:05.399
<v Speaker 1>on to be drafted by the New York Liberty when

0:35:05.440 --> 0:35:06.239
<v Speaker 1>she graduated.

0:35:06.680 --> 0:35:09.760
<v Speaker 5>I didn't realize so many of these original Ruckers players

0:35:09.840 --> 0:35:10.640
<v Speaker 5>were on the Liberty.

0:35:10.800 --> 0:35:12.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well a lot of them just went on to

0:35:12.280 --> 0:35:15.480
<v Speaker 1>the WNBA. Kia eventually would go on to other WNBA

0:35:15.520 --> 0:35:19.520
<v Speaker 1>teams and play internationally, and she helped win championships for

0:35:19.600 --> 0:35:21.680
<v Speaker 1>some of the teams she played on in Europe. She

0:35:21.840 --> 0:35:24.239
<v Speaker 1>retired in twenty twenty two, so not that long ago,

0:35:24.480 --> 0:35:27.160
<v Speaker 1>and she works for the Atlanta Dream Now. I love

0:35:27.200 --> 0:35:30.359
<v Speaker 1>that there were other players who joined the WNBA. Epiphany Prince,

0:35:30.400 --> 0:35:32.800
<v Speaker 1>who was one of the players won the WNBA Championship

0:35:32.800 --> 0:35:34.560
<v Speaker 1>in twenty twenty with the Seattle Storm.

0:35:35.200 --> 0:35:38.280
<v Speaker 2>Oh my hometown. That's so interesting. I didn't realize.

0:35:38.320 --> 0:35:42.319
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, this was like team in New York. Yeah, and

0:35:42.480 --> 0:35:43.680
<v Speaker 5>the Storm my hometown.

0:35:43.800 --> 0:35:44.479
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I mean, I think.

0:35:44.400 --> 0:35:47.040
<v Speaker 1>That's the thing, right, is that this was a truly

0:35:47.120 --> 0:35:47.920
<v Speaker 1>remarkable team.

0:35:48.080 --> 0:35:48.319
<v Speaker 2>You know.

0:35:48.400 --> 0:35:51.440
<v Speaker 1>That is the story that sometimes got lost in the

0:35:51.480 --> 0:35:54.080
<v Speaker 1>coverage of this at the time. And others went on

0:35:54.160 --> 0:35:58.399
<v Speaker 1>to have other careers finance, healthcare, hospitality, whatever. But they

0:35:58.800 --> 0:36:01.600
<v Speaker 1>had the lives they always were meant to have, and

0:36:01.600 --> 0:36:04.280
<v Speaker 1>they didn't let this chapter derail them. And I think

0:36:04.520 --> 0:36:07.600
<v Speaker 1>that is a really nice way to end it. And

0:36:07.640 --> 0:36:09.279
<v Speaker 1>you know, I want to let Essence have the last

0:36:09.320 --> 0:36:12.600
<v Speaker 1>word here about what she took away from this experience.

0:36:13.280 --> 0:36:16.040
<v Speaker 3>It showed that you can have a voice, no matter

0:36:16.080 --> 0:36:19.719
<v Speaker 3>how small you are, even if it's just you yourself.

0:36:20.760 --> 0:36:24.120
<v Speaker 3>You can have a voice, and you don't have to

0:36:24.160 --> 0:36:29.160
<v Speaker 3>be the subject of anyone's jokes. You don't have to

0:36:29.200 --> 0:36:33.359
<v Speaker 3>be labeled that angry black woman. You can speak with eloquence,

0:36:33.719 --> 0:36:37.840
<v Speaker 3>you can convey your thoughts in a way, in a

0:36:37.920 --> 0:36:42.800
<v Speaker 3>manner in which hits home with people. You can focus

0:36:42.840 --> 0:36:48.160
<v Speaker 3>on the similarities between individuals to bring people together rather

0:36:48.200 --> 0:36:51.359
<v Speaker 3>than focus on the differences in order to drive them

0:36:51.360 --> 0:36:54.399
<v Speaker 3>further apart. You can be great in your own right

0:36:55.160 --> 0:36:58.520
<v Speaker 3>no matter what it is that you do, and if

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<v Speaker 3>you are given talent that you're born with, right, please

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<v Speaker 3>make sure that you use it for good. I think

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<v Speaker 3>it just kind of changed with my outlook on life

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<v Speaker 3>moving forward. Would be a part of the purpose. It

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<v Speaker 3>changed all those things, and it happened at an early age.

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<v Speaker 3>Would I rewrite the story? No, I wouldn't, because then

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<v Speaker 3>I wouldn't be who I am today and I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 3>have the effect on people the way that I do

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<v Speaker 3>just from learned experiences. If I can use what I

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<v Speaker 3>went through to help someone else, definitely would.

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<v Speaker 2>That's just a part of who I am now. That

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<v Speaker 2>feels like a really nice place to end it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it does feel like a good place to end it.

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<v Speaker 1>And I just want to thank Essence again for talking

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<v Speaker 1>to me. I know that this is not a subject

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<v Speaker 1>you love talking about, and I really feel like we

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<v Speaker 1>learned so.

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<v Speaker 2>Much from her.

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<v Speaker 5>Susie, you have a pretty personal episode coming up next week.

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<v Speaker 5>What are we talking about?

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<v Speaker 1>So next week I'm going to talk to my friend

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<v Speaker 1>and fellow portista Kakpor, who is a best selling author,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're going to talk about the movie Not Without

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<v Speaker 1>My Daughter, which was really one of the only representations

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<v Speaker 1>of Iranians in popular culture when we were growing up,

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<v Speaker 1>and so we have a lot of opinions about it.

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<v Speaker 10>Okay, so people to ask me if have you seen it?

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<v Speaker 10>I'd be like, yeah, yeah, of course, and then sometimes

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<v Speaker 10>they would watch it and then they'd be like, Wow,

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<v Speaker 10>this is such a terrible movie. Why doesn't everyone just

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<v Speaker 10>ignore it? Except the era made it so that we

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<v Speaker 10>couldn't forget it.

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<v Speaker 2>This is in retrospect. Thanks for listening.

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