WEBVTT - Best Bits: Listener Q&A With Morgan and Amy

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<v Speaker 1>The best bits of the week with Morgan.

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<v Speaker 2>It's listener Q and daytime.

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<v Speaker 1>We're Morgan in a show member answer almost all your questions.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up everyone? Happy weekend, It's time for some listener

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<v Speaker 1>Q and a action. Amy is joining me this weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>How you feeling aby? Hi?

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<v Speaker 2>Good?

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<v Speaker 1>Got ready to answer some questions. All right, are you

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<v Speaker 1>feeling better with your coffee?

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<v Speaker 2>I am? I just hope I sound better.

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<v Speaker 1>You do? You have a little like sinusy going on there?

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<v Speaker 1>We're not bad.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's gone in phases.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so weird.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know how it's gone from sore throat. I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like I've had every symptom under the sun, and

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<v Speaker 2>I have no idea what it was. But I'm glad

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<v Speaker 2>that it's over. Got a steroid pack and that really

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<v Speaker 2>I should have gotten that last week, and of course

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<v Speaker 2>I put it off until I got it. I guess

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<v Speaker 2>I got it on Monday, and I should have gotten

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<v Speaker 2>it last Thursday.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, we always like to think we can just magically

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<v Speaker 1>get better.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I kept I was in denial. Yeah, it was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel great. Bobby's like, why do you keep bitching

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<v Speaker 2>your throat? I feel great?

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, you never know until it's happy you like dang,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't feel great? Yeah, I do want to start

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<v Speaker 1>with some shout outs. Anna from Virginia said, I love

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<v Speaker 1>you ladies. You are fantastic. You give so much love.

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<v Speaker 1>She's super sweet. We love you back, Emma.

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<v Speaker 2>Thanks Anna.

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<v Speaker 1>Just love you bus so much and appreciate you both

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<v Speaker 1>sharing so much of your lives. That's from Kayla, So

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<v Speaker 1>really sweet shout outs to start you feel good? You're

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<v Speaker 1>ready now, I'm ready.

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<v Speaker 2>It pumped us up.

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<v Speaker 1>Did your cousin warn you in advance about the divorce?

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<v Speaker 1>Don in Saint Louis wants to know this.

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<v Speaker 2>I was actually talking about this the other day with

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<v Speaker 2>her friend, and I don't know that it was so

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<v Speaker 2>much a warning because she didn't want to say that,

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<v Speaker 2>and I know she's cautious about that with any client

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<v Speaker 2>or a loved one of saying this exact thing, especially

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<v Speaker 2>when it's such a huge life event. But she did

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<v Speaker 2>tell me with clarity and just she was very assertive

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<v Speaker 2>in saying, you need to get involved in your fine nanswers.

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<v Speaker 2>And I didn't know what that meant, you know, because

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<v Speaker 2>one could think a way to something shady being done

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<v Speaker 2>that I'm not aware of and that was not the case.

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<v Speaker 2>It was her getting a feeling that I never handled

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<v Speaker 2>anything and Ben did everything. So therefore, when you have

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<v Speaker 2>a split, you have to start to learn those things.

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<v Speaker 2>And she said, this is going to help you, it's

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<v Speaker 2>going to be empowering and you're going to need it.

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<v Speaker 2>And sure that means yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Learning today, Like there's just so much that could come

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<v Speaker 1>from that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's somebody stealing from us and I have no idea.

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<v Speaker 2>I just it was one of those things early in

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<v Speaker 2>the marriage that I passed the torch to him because

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't want to have anything to do with it,

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<v Speaker 2>and she just was strongly encouraging me to start to

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<v Speaker 2>get involved to learn.

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<v Speaker 1>Asked her now if she did know, and she just

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to say to you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, we've talked about it, and she had that

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<v Speaker 2>feeling and there was a lot of other factors involved.

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<v Speaker 2>And she's someone that I would talk to because she

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<v Speaker 2>had gone through similar life things that we were experiencing.

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<v Speaker 2>And I don't know if one day I don't enjoy

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<v Speaker 2>being super vague sometimes I think there are certain life

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<v Speaker 2>things that will always remain personal and private, and that's

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<v Speaker 2>just a given for any one that is sharing their

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<v Speaker 2>life publicly. It's up to you what you choose to tell.

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<v Speaker 2>And I have chosen a lot of times when the

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<v Speaker 2>time is right to share certain things and some stuff

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<v Speaker 2>not and I won't ever and that's on me. But

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<v Speaker 2>when it involves other people and such personal stories to them,

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<v Speaker 2>it's just not my place to go talking about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Although it was my story too, right, I experienced and

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<v Speaker 2>learned a lot, and there's things that may come out later,

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<v Speaker 2>but she was privy to that information too, and some

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<v Speaker 2>of what was going on. But even then, I still

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<v Speaker 2>didn't think that that meant divorce. But I was also

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<v Speaker 2>in denial of a lot of things, and I think

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<v Speaker 2>that played a huge role. She just was definitely a

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<v Speaker 2>sounding board for me, and I will not as a psychic,

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<v Speaker 2>as a cousin and a loved one. I don't think

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<v Speaker 2>she wasn't giving me a reading in any way, but

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<v Speaker 2>she definitely felt that it wasn't gonna work.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, super interesting, good question, don okay, any advice

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<v Speaker 1>for your first Christmas without your baby? I'm already emotional.

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<v Speaker 1>Katie in South Carolina. She didn't specify this. I'm assuming

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<v Speaker 1>this means she's also going through something similar and it

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<v Speaker 1>is about to have a Christmas without.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, if you're co parenting, you split up the holidays,

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<v Speaker 2>So we're going to assume that's what she's talking about.

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<v Speaker 2>And I would say spend time with yourself figuring out

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<v Speaker 2>what you think you're gonna need, and on day of,

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<v Speaker 2>if something changes and what you thought you needed is

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<v Speaker 2>and what you need, you have every right to call

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<v Speaker 2>an audible and do what you need to do for yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>I wouldn't isolate. You may need some time alone, but

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<v Speaker 2>there's a difference in isolating and creating space for yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>So make sure you don't isolate. But what friends, what

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<v Speaker 2>other family? Who can you make plans with? And then

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<v Speaker 2>how can you have your time and then your family

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<v Speaker 2>time Because everyone's different. Someone that is going to want

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<v Speaker 2>to go do something else, and someone else might be

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<v Speaker 2>processing a lot of emotion and being around other people

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<v Speaker 2>won't be the healthiest thing. But just don't go days

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<v Speaker 2>and days over the holiday without making plans or seeing is.

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<v Speaker 1>Really helpful going through stuff like that.

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<v Speaker 2>But it is easy to isolate, and I speak from

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<v Speaker 2>experience on that, and just you know, solitude is good.

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<v Speaker 2>Isolation not good, Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Good are you glad Ben started dating first. Did it

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<v Speaker 1>make it less awkward for you to do it? That's

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<v Speaker 1>Jessica from Texas.

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<v Speaker 2>Sure, I think so. I appreciate not having to be

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<v Speaker 2>the first person for anything to be awkward, and we've

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<v Speaker 2>learned a lot, so I'll take it. He started dating

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<v Speaker 2>right away, so that was.

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<v Speaker 1>Probably a lot of feelings that came with that too,

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<v Speaker 1>just in general.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and also I wanted him to be happy, so

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<v Speaker 2>I was okay with it. I just had this whole

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<v Speaker 2>modern family vibe in my head. If I want everybody

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<v Speaker 2>to hang out and get along.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think that's a bad thing to feel.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't either.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know that it happens all that often, but

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think it's a bad thing to want that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And we've worked so hard to co parent well

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<v Speaker 2>and make sure that we were ending that part of

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<v Speaker 2>our relationship in such a healthy way. And we have

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<v Speaker 2>a unique dynamic because our families are friends. And I've

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<v Speaker 2>known him since I was a kid, and I've known

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<v Speaker 2>his parents and since I was His parents and my

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<v Speaker 2>mom were very close. My sister's married to his best

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<v Speaker 2>friend from his childhood. It's a very tangled web so

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<v Speaker 2>I think anybody that comes into our lives are gonna

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<v Speaker 2>have to realize. You know, when some people get a divorce,

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<v Speaker 2>it's like, oh, you can get a divorce and you

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<v Speaker 2>don't ever have to interact with that person ever. Again, well,

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<v Speaker 2>that's just not the case with our situation at all.

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<v Speaker 2>And you have kids involved that also, But even if

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<v Speaker 2>you have kids, you can still avoid a lot of things.

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<v Speaker 2>There are so many life events over the next few

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<v Speaker 2>years because of how tangled up we are, that we're

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<v Speaker 2>going to be at all kinds of weddings and funerals

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<v Speaker 2>and you name it, everything in between together because of

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<v Speaker 2>how close are our families have been for decades that

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<v Speaker 2>I think we're interesting for some people to try to

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<v Speaker 2>figure out. And I feel bad for anybody that is

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<v Speaker 2>trying to enter that picture. I mean, even my future whomever.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like, you just are gonna have to.

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<v Speaker 1>They're gonna have to be secure. And that's also the

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<v Speaker 1>important quality trait of any partner. Anyways, It's a good word,

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<v Speaker 1>gonna have to be secure. I like it. The top

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<v Speaker 1>three things you've had to adjust to while dating again

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<v Speaker 1>Zach in Canada.

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<v Speaker 2>Getting ready to go out on a date.

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<v Speaker 1>Getting ready it's hard. You gotta get yourself all dulled up,

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<v Speaker 1>and you may never see this person ever again in

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<v Speaker 1>your life. It's a weird.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I mean I haven't even done it much at

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<v Speaker 2>all whatsoever, so that I think because I would just

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<v Speaker 2>rather not isolate but stay home. So fair, I like that, So.

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<v Speaker 1>Putting yourself out there is probably one of those things.

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<v Speaker 2>I think. So, you know, before I got married, I

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<v Speaker 2>had two serious boyfriends in my college years. Two I

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<v Speaker 2>mean I loved them, thought I was going to marry them,

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<v Speaker 2>and they both one of them we broke up multiple times,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was the breaker up er maybe once or twice,

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<v Speaker 2>but then he broke up. But then I think I

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<v Speaker 2>was the final right But I mean I was broken

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<v Speaker 2>up with by him, is my point. And then the

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<v Speaker 2>other one we went out twice, broke up twice, and

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<v Speaker 2>he was the breaker up or twice. Okay, so really

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<v Speaker 2>nice got brrried. So I am, I guess part of me,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I know what experience of breaking up and

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<v Speaker 2>going through divorce is a lot of heartache. So I

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<v Speaker 2>think I'm just treading into all this very softly, gingerly,

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<v Speaker 2>like I'm tiptoeing because maybe I'm wanting to protect myself,

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<v Speaker 2>so that part I need to work through. I think I.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't think there's anything wrong with that though, because until

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<v Speaker 1>you're ready to be vulnerable to date again, it's almost

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<v Speaker 1>not worth it because you're just setting yourself up to fail.

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<v Speaker 2>It seems exhausting too. I watch my friends, I've watched

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<v Speaker 2>them for years, including you, and I'm very happy for

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<v Speaker 2>you now, by the way, So that is hope.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, there's hope, but hope feels from my experience, hope

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<v Speaker 1>feels like a far distance relative. When you're in it,

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<v Speaker 1>you're in the weeds of it, and you're like, how

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<v Speaker 1>is that ever going to happen? There's this like lingering

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<v Speaker 1>question of like there's there's not a world in which

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<v Speaker 1>I could possibly find that.

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<v Speaker 2>I got a wedding invitation to was this this morning

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<v Speaker 2>that I saw it or yesterday via email? So I

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<v Speaker 2>guess it was a cute little I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 2>need to pull it up. They're actually going to have

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<v Speaker 2>what I realized when I opened it up is they're

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<v Speaker 2>going to have a small private ceremony, like at one

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<v Speaker 2>of their parents' backyards, and then they're having a big

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<v Speaker 2>party in Nashville, and I got the email to the

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<v Speaker 2>big party in Nashville and they met on I believe bumble, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>ninety one days ago.

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<v Speaker 1>That's tough.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like, wow, this is fast, Like that's crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>That would be so wild to me right now to

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<v Speaker 2>be sitting here with you doing best ofs and what

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<v Speaker 2>I'm on with you every eight weeks. Yeah, so the

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<v Speaker 2>next time you'd be getting married, super close to getting married,

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<v Speaker 2>and then the next time I was on, I would

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<v Speaker 2>be married.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, it's so funny. I look at my

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<v Speaker 1>friends and we all get together because all of us

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<v Speaker 1>besides Morgan m which we know is around the corner

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<v Speaker 1>for her, but all of us in the last year

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<v Speaker 1>have gotten in a relationship. One's already engaged, about to

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<v Speaker 1>be married. The other three are like movie, there's things happening,

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<v Speaker 1>and we look echa like a year ago, we were

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<v Speaker 1>so far off from this. There was not even a

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<v Speaker 1>realm of possibility when this was happening two day. So

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<v Speaker 1>it's crazy how much can change in your life in

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<v Speaker 1>just a month and a year. So like it is possible,

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<v Speaker 1>But when you're in the weeds, it doesn't feel that way.

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<v Speaker 1>You feel there's there's no way. There's no way, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>I couldn't imagine that being my life ninety one days

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<v Speaker 2>from now. But I'm super happy for my friend. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and then I'm like, are you sure you know him?

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<v Speaker 1>How do we feel about those? Are? Are we really sure? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Lots of questions. Okay, that's a good one, Zach.

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<v Speaker 2>What's your four fan? I don't know if I even

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<v Speaker 2>answered the question.

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, he did you say? Yeah, you said

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<v Speaker 1>that you're you're nervous to get back in. He said,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't really like.

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<v Speaker 2>To get ready from the dome. Yeah, it seems exhausting. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>so we got there.

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<v Speaker 1>We go.

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<v Speaker 2>When I'm scared of rejection, I'm scared of being Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>that's stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, rejection is hard because the reality is is everybody

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<v Speaker 1>has an ego. Some are just bigger than others. But like,

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<v Speaker 1>nobody wants to feel somebody say hey, I don't like you.

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<v Speaker 1>Nobody wants that, right, But it is a part of dating,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's really good for you to build yourself back up.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. It's funny, like even this scenario, I would

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<v Speaker 1>have never been in the in the realm of like

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<v Speaker 1>the whole dustin lunch thing, the friendship friendship bracelet, even

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<v Speaker 1>though it was like half a joke, half funny whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>I would have never had I not been through all

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<v Speaker 1>the dating trials and triumphs that I had been been

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<v Speaker 1>able to do that because of the rejection side of it.

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<v Speaker 1>But I just knew that I was, Like, the worst

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<v Speaker 1>that happens is he says no and no for like

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<v Speaker 1>a second, stinks and then you're like, okay, whatever better things.

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<v Speaker 1>You learn to just like brush off whatever because you've

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<v Speaker 1>been through it so many times, so there is something

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<v Speaker 1>to look forward to in that, like nothing can bother you.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So I'll get used to it, got it.

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<v Speaker 1>It just takes a while. I mean those like ten

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<v Speaker 1>years of probably going through all the dating stuff to

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<v Speaker 1>like get there, you know what I mean. It takes time.

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<v Speaker 2>Ten years from now, I'm going to be fifty three.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, here's probably will be ten different phases of life,

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<v Speaker 1>different life experience.

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<v Speaker 2>Honestly, I'm just trying to be in the moment, so

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<v Speaker 2>it's fine anyway. I'm the present and I'm very much

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<v Speaker 2>enjoying my life at the moment.

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't I don't like the same rejection is redirection.

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<v Speaker 1>It's true, with one hundred percent true. I just it's cheesy.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just rejection is good for you. It's good

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<v Speaker 1>to experience for all phases of life.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I know that at my core, and I've I've

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<v Speaker 2>been rejected in other areas of life too, and I

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<v Speaker 2>don't want fear to hold me back from certain things.

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<v Speaker 1>But and you'll get there. You'll get to the point

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<v Speaker 1>where fear will lose out over your hope for wanting

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<v Speaker 1>to do something. You're just not there yet. Not they're

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<v Speaker 1>wrong with that. Okay, I have another question, but but

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<v Speaker 1>we'll take a quick break, will be our back. What

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<v Speaker 1>are your four favorite things about your niece being in

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<v Speaker 1>Nashville for summer. Alissa from Illinois.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh man, she's leaving soon. And we were talking about

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<v Speaker 2>the other day and I started crying. No, And I

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<v Speaker 2>was on the phone with my sister and her husband,

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<v Speaker 2>and I started crying to them too because I was

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<v Speaker 2>so proud of them and who they've raised. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>y'all did this, and I am so grateful for the opportunity.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, my favorite part is getting to bond with

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<v Speaker 2>her in a way that we've never had before, especially

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<v Speaker 2>you know, when we were in Austin together, she was

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<v Speaker 2>so young, so it wasn't the same. And then they

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<v Speaker 2>moved to Colorado, and then I moved to North Carolina

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<v Speaker 2>and then Nashville, and we just haven't I would see

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<v Speaker 2>her on vacations and Christmas, you know. So this is

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<v Speaker 2>such a different connection that we've been able to have.

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<v Speaker 2>So the bonding, the fact that she's older, more mature,

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<v Speaker 2>she's twenty one now. Having a cocktail with her out

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<v Speaker 2>on my back porch.

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<v Speaker 1>That's so fun.

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<v Speaker 2>Watching her in a relationship. Her boyfriend Henry is very sweet.

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<v Speaker 2>We check the mailbox a lot because Henry likes to

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<v Speaker 2>send handwritten notes.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I love that. So romantic.

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<v Speaker 2>And watching her get this bonding time with my kids,

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<v Speaker 2>which is super special because they wouldn't have this type

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<v Speaker 2>of time with her otherwise. And I've learned from her too.

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<v Speaker 2>She's an old soul. She's wise, she's caring, she's gentle.

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<v Speaker 2>She's comforted me in certain things that have been happening.

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<v Speaker 2>She's been on my podcast, and I've loved having her

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<v Speaker 2>as a guest and.

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<v Speaker 1>Trying to get her to move to Nashville. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like that's the nice.

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<v Speaker 2>But I mean she's about to go be a junior.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, yes, that's college left.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she's going back to Boulder. But maybe next summer

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<v Speaker 2>she'll come for another internship or you know this, we've

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<v Speaker 2>just gotten closer to where now, you know, I just

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<v Speaker 2>want to fly to Boulder and not Pagosa to see

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<v Speaker 2>my sister. But tell my sister, Hey, go up to Boulder,

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<v Speaker 2>meet me. Let's hang out with Adelin for the weekend

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<v Speaker 2>and all takes to share and we'll have a girl's weekend.

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<v Speaker 2>And previously I don't know that I have really thought

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<v Speaker 2>about going to Boulder. I would just wait to see

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<v Speaker 2>her somewhere else. And now I want to get that

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<v Speaker 2>sort of stuff on the calendar.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I love that. Give bonding time this summer. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>do you plan to keep your hair short? We're switching

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<v Speaker 1>switching gears here at Leah in Pennsylvania.

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<v Speaker 2>I already want to start growing it out. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't decide. I have a hair wointment coming up

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm either going to cut it another inch off

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<v Speaker 2>it's growing pretty fast, or I'm gonna start to just

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<v Speaker 2>grow it out.

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<v Speaker 1>So maybe not, Leah, Maybe yes, I have no.

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<v Speaker 2>Sir, Leah I'm very sorry about that. I like it

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<v Speaker 2>both ways, so uh and some of that I just

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<v Speaker 2>have to check in with myself, like what is it

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<v Speaker 2>that I'm like, am I trying to create some change?

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<v Speaker 2>And then I'm also like, it's just hair. Who cares?

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<v Speaker 2>Like it is fun?

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<v Speaker 1>It's just hair. At the end of the day, It's

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<v Speaker 1>just hair. So you gotta love it though for the time,

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<v Speaker 1>for the six weeks that you are doing it for

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<v Speaker 1>until you have to go.

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<v Speaker 2>Back to I have to go back yeah and make

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<v Speaker 2>another decision.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so that's the only actual part that matters, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>I will say that, I know I don't want the

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<v Speaker 2>in between, like I like it either really short or

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<v Speaker 2>past my shoulders. So got to figure that out.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes you can get like those the halo thing or

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<v Speaker 2>some extensions, or you can order stuff for the in

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<v Speaker 2>between while it grows and that kind of helps you.

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<v Speaker 2>But or you just let it grow. See what happens.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, we'll find out what he's going to do here soon,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like the next episode. What will happen?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, if in a few weeks magic my hairs long.

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<v Speaker 2>Just now, that's not my real hair. I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 2>figure stuff out.

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<v Speaker 1>That's fine, okay. Jessica from Texas asks this one for

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<v Speaker 1>me and I'll I can share it. What does your

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<v Speaker 1>family like about Man in Uniform? So the whole family

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<v Speaker 1>met Man in Uniform and got thrown to the shark

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<v Speaker 1>infested waters for my sister's wedding, and they love He's

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<v Speaker 1>super easy to be around, really easy going, he's a

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<v Speaker 1>great listener. These are all things that like my You

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<v Speaker 1>know what's funny is my mom spent some time with

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<v Speaker 1>him before the wedding, like the days leading up and

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<v Speaker 1>the whole time at the wedding when she was see

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<v Speaker 1>all our friends and family. She's like, guys, you have

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<v Speaker 1>to meet Morgan's boyfriend. He's amazing. And I'm like, what

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<v Speaker 1>is happening? What are you doing? And she was. She

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<v Speaker 1>loved him so much she couldn't stop like graving about

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<v Speaker 1>him because he was just really kind and easy to

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<v Speaker 1>be around, and he's thoughtful. He's really intentional about what

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<v Speaker 1>he does and you can feel that around him, and

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<v Speaker 1>he wants He's not someone who will listen to pretend

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<v Speaker 1>like they're listening to share their side. He's actually listening

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<v Speaker 1>to you, not to share his side. He wants he's

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<v Speaker 1>like a very intentional listener, so I think those would

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<v Speaker 1>be some quality traits that they liked. Yeah, at least

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<v Speaker 1>that's what they've told me so far. I'm sure there's

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<v Speaker 1>more of it. That's what I got.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you spent a lot of time with his family?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, So I did meet his parents before we went

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<v Speaker 1>to the wedding, and then I just spent another We

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<v Speaker 1>had another lunch with them that just happened. And I've

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<v Speaker 1>hung out with some of his cousins that are he's

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<v Speaker 1>really close to from that family as well.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I remember the cousin hanging because that was a.

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<v Speaker 1>Big gal uh huh. And I've seen him quite a

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<v Speaker 1>because they're all in town, so we see him quite

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<v Speaker 1>a bit. I haven't met his brother because his brother

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't live here, but besides that, yeah, we're definitely hanging

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<v Speaker 1>out more, which has been really good. And I'm jealous.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I love it because I don't have my

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<v Speaker 1>family here, so I love that there's that connection for

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<v Speaker 1>him here and I kind of get to feel connected

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<v Speaker 1>through him. But I'm also jealous because I wish my

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<v Speaker 1>family's here and we get to hang out with them

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<v Speaker 1>all the time too, So that's's going good. So there's that.

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<v Speaker 1>What is something trivial that brings you so much joy?

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<v Speaker 1>This is Lucy from Kansas City, Missouri right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Who something trivial that brings me so much joy?

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<v Speaker 1>I know I threw it on the spot. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>let you prepare for that one.

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<v Speaker 2>My paint deck. Okay, my Sherwin Williams paint deck.

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<v Speaker 1>What does this mean?

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<v Speaker 2>Let's bring me a lot of joy because I'm having

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<v Speaker 2>to pick out some paint colors and I really like

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<v Speaker 2>having my deck the little thing you know that you

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<v Speaker 2>whip out like a fan and it has all the

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<v Speaker 2>colors with.

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<v Speaker 1>All the paint samples. I thought it meant like you

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<v Speaker 1>were painting a deck and you were just like kind

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<v Speaker 1>of doing an artist thing.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I can see how my back deck is bringing

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<v Speaker 2>me joy. But no, just paint colors. And you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I get to decide myself, and I'm practicing making those

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<v Speaker 2>decisions too, because for a lot of things, I also

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<v Speaker 2>will just a default to my sister because I think

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<v Speaker 2>she knows better. And she said something to me recently

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<v Speaker 2>after she did help me pick something out, and she said, Amy,

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<v Speaker 2>I just want you to know, like sometimes I do

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<v Speaker 2>help you pick it out, and that's great, but then

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<v Speaker 2>I hear you say, well, I kind of like this,

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<v Speaker 2>and she's like, listen to that, like you don't have

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<v Speaker 2>to do what I'm saying, because I will default to

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<v Speaker 2>what she says because I just feel like she knows

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<v Speaker 2>better because that is what she does and decorating things

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<v Speaker 2>and styling things as her gift. And then I say,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't really know what I'm doing, but she's like,

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<v Speaker 2>if that color is speaking to you and you think

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<v Speaker 2>it will look good, then you need to do that.

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<v Speaker 2>But sometimes I don't even hear myself like say something

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<v Speaker 2>after she says it, because I'll I'll say, oh, well,

0:21:45.280 --> 0:21:48.320
<v Speaker 2>I thought maybe this color, but then I discount it immediately.

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<v Speaker 2>And she told me to pay attention to what I like.

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<v Speaker 2>And so my paint deck has been bringing me joy

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<v Speaker 2>and trying to figure out what I want my elf

0:22:00.920 --> 0:22:03.800
<v Speaker 2>and if I want to do the color green in

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<v Speaker 2>this one room, I really want to do some room

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not sure what if it's going to be maybe laundry, bathroom,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know where, but I really like this cranberry color, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>and I can't figure out where it gives.

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<v Speaker 1>It deep maroon reddish type cranberry.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's a deep cranberry. It's not like this bright

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<v Speaker 2>red but more I don't know the color is or

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<v Speaker 2>cranberry ish, but I would say more on the rooton

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<v Speaker 2>side if I was getting specific.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you could totally do that in a small room somewhere.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe I just can't figure out exactly where, and I

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<v Speaker 2>may have to let that go.

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<v Speaker 1>But I like popping up half bath situation.

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<v Speaker 2>I do, and I'm doing that green.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, I did just amy. I did just pick

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<v Speaker 1>out a green that I really loved, so I'm sure

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<v Speaker 1>my Mulliam's well color the same.

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<v Speaker 2>I did retreat. Well, no, retreat is what I did

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<v Speaker 2>in my living room last time. I did that, so

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<v Speaker 2>on the paint deck. If the colors are on the

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<v Speaker 2>same road, that means they're in the same family. They're

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<v Speaker 2>just lighter or darker. And I did the shade lighter

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<v Speaker 2>than retreat this time for this half bath. And I

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<v Speaker 2>can't remember the name right now, but it's like Hayes something.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well, let me I'm gonna turn you on to

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<v Speaker 1>something because i've been I've been setting up the potcash room.

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<v Speaker 1>The green color that I did is basil. But I

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<v Speaker 1>learned two things. One, if you go on Turwin Williams

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<v Speaker 1>dot com, there's an app that you can get and

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<v Speaker 1>you can literally hold it up just kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>you'd be holding up your camera to a QR code.

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<v Speaker 1>Hold it up in the room and put the paint

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<v Speaker 1>on your wall and see what it looks like.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so you could do that. That will help if

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<v Speaker 1>you narrow it down. And then also they now have

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<v Speaker 1>for their very popular colors, they have like a peel

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<v Speaker 1>and stick and it won't damage your wall. You can

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<v Speaker 1>order online a peel and stick of like your three

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<v Speaker 1>favorite colors, and instead of having to go and paint

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<v Speaker 1>different like little swatches, you can just peel it, stick

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<v Speaker 1>it on the wall, and then pull it off when

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<v Speaker 1>you're done.

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<v Speaker 2>Boom.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>My sister was telling me about the peel and stick

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<v Speaker 2>thing because I bought some of the little tiny jugs

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<v Speaker 2>and I've been painting like the thing. So the peel

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<v Speaker 2>and stick, it's just patience. You don't have to order

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<v Speaker 2>in and wait for it. They didn't have any peel

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<v Speaker 2>and sticks in the store, and I'm like, okay, fine,

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<v Speaker 2>just give me the tiny cannon and a paintbrush, and

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<v Speaker 2>I'll go.

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<v Speaker 1>It's well in the peel and stick is like three

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<v Speaker 1>bucks versus like twelve fifteen dollars you pay for a

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<v Speaker 1>little can.

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<v Speaker 2>I know it's the patients of waiting. I hear you

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<v Speaker 2>for the pee and stick.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, if you decide too for other if you're painting

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of different things, these are two things that help.

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<v Speaker 1>I know.

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<v Speaker 2>That's awesome. I didn't know about the virtual room thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I was sitting in like my new little podcast base,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was just painting the walls. I was just

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<v Speaker 1>sitting there like, Okay, not that color. Maybe this one.

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<v Speaker 1>So maybe you can try that with your cranberry and

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<v Speaker 1>see if it fits in a certain room.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I'm going to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Okay, we're going to end on these two or

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<v Speaker 1>this thing, not two things. I see another thing, but

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<v Speaker 1>we're ending on this one. What off the wall thing

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<v Speaker 1>or maybe what thing did you buy on Prime Day?

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<v Speaker 1>Rick from Oregon? Did you do any Amazon priming on

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<v Speaker 1>the Prime Day?

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<v Speaker 2>I did my Anastasia brow whiz my eyebrow pencils. They

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<v Speaker 2>were like, I don't even know, it was five six seven.

0:25:09.119 --> 0:25:11.359
<v Speaker 2>They were like eight dollars off or something nice. So

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<v Speaker 2>I ordered three. Okay, so that way I have backstock

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<v Speaker 2>of those.

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<v Speaker 1>I love ordering multiples in my favorite things.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm trying to think if there's something else that I bought.

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<v Speaker 2>All my snail stuff was on sale. My biopals. I

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<v Speaker 2>needed to teach me.

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<v Speaker 1>How to use it because I still have the yours

0:25:26.560 --> 0:25:28.240
<v Speaker 1>that you gave me and I just am scared to

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<v Speaker 1>conquer it.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh it's I have tutorials online and I'm going to

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<v Speaker 2>go watch them.

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<v Speaker 1>I did, like, you know, it's one of those things

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<v Speaker 1>where you like, I just also.

0:25:36.240 --> 0:25:38.639
<v Speaker 2>We should do a girls' night like with you know

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<v Speaker 2>me you Abby, Lauren even in two Morgan you're into,

0:25:45.359 --> 0:25:50.720
<v Speaker 2>but the original Morgan in one, you know, because she's

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<v Speaker 2>still a part of the now she's the part of

0:25:52.640 --> 0:25:56.600
<v Speaker 2>the podcast network. Yeah, your podcast has been officially announced,

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<v Speaker 2>which is exciting. So that's next week, right on Monday. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it's coming up. So I don't know, I want to

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<v Speaker 2>plan like a girl's night and maybe we could do

0:26:05.720 --> 0:26:10.639
<v Speaker 2>that and we'll do a snail oh yes, tutorial and

0:26:10.680 --> 0:26:13.760
<v Speaker 2>we can watch a movie and order food and hang out.

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<v Speaker 2>I've been wanting to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, let's totally do that. Then you can teach me

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<v Speaker 1>about it. Well I did. I finally bought a Apple Watch.

0:26:20.000 --> 0:26:23.399
<v Speaker 1>I forgot it today. But I've been obsessed because I

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<v Speaker 1>realized because I was going to buy one from Costco

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<v Speaker 1>because it was really cheap, and then Amazon Prime one

0:26:27.640 --> 0:26:30.120
<v Speaker 1>was even thirty dollars cheaper. So I want Amazon Watch.

0:26:30.160 --> 0:26:33.240
<v Speaker 1>I finally got one, or Apple Watch and Apple Watch. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and I've been counting my steps and trying to get

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<v Speaker 1>all my steps in every day.

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<v Speaker 2>I know on Amazon Prime Day my niece did order

0:26:38.320 --> 0:26:41.080
<v Speaker 2>some bands that were on sale for her Apple Watch.

0:26:41.320 --> 0:26:45.119
<v Speaker 2>They're not buy Apple, but they're another brand, and she

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<v Speaker 2>got some really cute ones that were on sale Amazon

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<v Speaker 2>Prime Day. Definitely, it gets you'll get you, but then

0:26:51.440 --> 0:26:53.360
<v Speaker 2>you're like, do I really need this? And the thing

0:26:53.440 --> 0:26:55.800
<v Speaker 2>is with my eyebrow princils. Yes they're not going to

0:26:55.840 --> 0:26:58.720
<v Speaker 2>go bad, but I will need them. And I saved money,

0:26:58.920 --> 0:27:01.960
<v Speaker 2>so I did. Okay, they really are Amazon is banking

0:27:01.960 --> 0:27:04.560
<v Speaker 2>on girl math on Amazon Prime Day, which I just

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<v Speaker 2>looked at the Sherwyo william paint color Sherwan Williams Paint

0:27:07.240 --> 0:27:11.480
<v Speaker 2>colors and retreat was my old living room. Then I've

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<v Speaker 2>got this half bath I did Akasha Hayes. Okay, that's

0:27:16.000 --> 0:27:18.040
<v Speaker 2>the green that I did, and it's all in the

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<v Speaker 2>same family. And Basil is also in the family. Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>which is what you did?

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<v Speaker 1>Rooms?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, so that palette of green on my paint deck,

0:27:29.000 --> 0:27:30.560
<v Speaker 2>that's one of my that's your favorite, one of my

0:27:30.600 --> 0:27:33.399
<v Speaker 2>favorite ones, and it's got all of those colors. So

0:27:33.400 --> 0:27:36.680
<v Speaker 2>if you're looking for a awesome green, try out one

0:27:36.680 --> 0:27:38.600
<v Speaker 2>of those three. But order the peel and stick.

0:27:39.040 --> 0:27:40.760
<v Speaker 1>And use the virtual room because you can just paint

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<v Speaker 1>your room.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Oh yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So Amazon Prime Day I did. I bought my Apple Watch.

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<v Speaker 1>I also bought a cologne that I've been wanting by

0:27:47.160 --> 0:27:50.600
<v Speaker 1>tom Ford that's normally two hundred and fifty dollars and

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<v Speaker 1>it was one hundred and thirty on Prime Day.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wow.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'd been looking at that for six months by

0:27:55.040 --> 0:27:57.640
<v Speaker 1>just couldn't get myself to buy it. Prime Day got

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<v Speaker 1>me because that was girl math. That was hard girl.

0:28:01.359 --> 0:28:04.119
<v Speaker 1>And then I also got new Beats AirPods because mine

0:28:04.240 --> 0:28:06.359
<v Speaker 1>my Apple Ones broke and I was really tired of

0:28:06.359 --> 0:28:08.840
<v Speaker 1>my Apple Ones because they keep crapping out. So I

0:28:08.840 --> 0:28:10.880
<v Speaker 1>did make three big purchases, but they were all things

0:28:10.880 --> 0:28:12.479
<v Speaker 1>i'd been looking at for like six months.

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<v Speaker 2>So you got on onn sales.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, it was girl math.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah it was bad as you were patient. I think

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<v Speaker 2>sometimes as long as we're patient with things, it makes sense.

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<v Speaker 1>Asians, it's hard though, as we've learned. Okay, we're wrapping

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<v Speaker 1>it up. Amy, Tell the people where they can find you.

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<v Speaker 1>See you all that.

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<v Speaker 2>Good stuff at Radio Amy four Things with Amy Brown

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<v Speaker 2>as podcast and there's a couple of episodes a week

0:28:33.920 --> 0:28:38.640
<v Speaker 2>and then out Weigh on Saturdays. Uh and yeah Radio

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<v Speaker 2>Amy dot com. But I have been updating over there lately,

0:28:41.880 --> 0:28:43.479
<v Speaker 2>so I would say socials. I am trying to up

0:28:43.520 --> 0:28:47.400
<v Speaker 2>my TikTok game. Adeline's been helping me. Nice my niece

0:28:47.720 --> 0:28:52.120
<v Speaker 2>so who posted a TikTok even this week? I believe

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<v Speaker 2>it was like the theme of you Who's Gonna Match

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<v Speaker 2>My free?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah that trenned.

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<v Speaker 2>I like it, and it was me doing my brain

0:29:01.160 --> 0:29:04.400
<v Speaker 2>exercises in the kitchen. I will be curious to.

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<v Speaker 1>Know if anybody's gonna match your freak for with that,

0:29:05.960 --> 0:29:07.480
<v Speaker 1>maybe I am, Are you.

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<v Speaker 2>Gonna match my freak?

0:29:09.000 --> 0:29:09.240
<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, and now people can find you not only hear

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<v Speaker 2>the Bobby Bone Show.

0:29:13.160 --> 0:29:17.440
<v Speaker 1>But oh yeah, take this personally podcast drafting on Monday.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm super excited and I got I did get a

0:29:20.840 --> 0:29:22.760
<v Speaker 1>lot of requests for you to come on. I think

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<v Speaker 1>what would be really fun. As we were talking about

0:29:25.080 --> 0:29:26.800
<v Speaker 1>a girl night, I had been thinking about this. It

0:29:26.800 --> 0:29:28.360
<v Speaker 1>would be fun to have the girls of The Bobby

0:29:28.360 --> 0:29:30.400
<v Speaker 1>Bone Show on together for an episode, all at.

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<v Speaker 2>The same time. Yeah, okay, yeah, we'd have to be

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<v Speaker 2>very intentional of when we speak.

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<v Speaker 1>Well I would, I would be our mediator, but like

0:29:40.640 --> 0:29:42.240
<v Speaker 1>it would be I think it would be fun to

0:29:42.360 --> 0:29:45.400
<v Speaker 1>have all of us sit there, we all just chat over,

0:29:45.440 --> 0:29:47.720
<v Speaker 1>you know, because well because like the Bobby Bone Show

0:29:47.720 --> 0:29:50.400
<v Speaker 1>is different, but the girls also Lauren's not typically on

0:29:50.600 --> 0:29:53.400
<v Speaker 1>very often. Abby's not on all that much, so like

0:29:53.440 --> 0:29:55.720
<v Speaker 1>it'd be fun to to do like a little girl chat.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a it's a theory idea I have.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, maybe it's what you're in. It's in progress, like

0:30:02.320 --> 0:30:03.760
<v Speaker 2>throw it out there, let's see what happens.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, all right, Well we'll see you guys later. Amy,

0:30:06.760 --> 0:30:08.720
<v Speaker 1>thank you for joining me, Thanks for having me. I

0:30:08.760 --> 0:30:10.719
<v Speaker 1>hope you start feeling even better next day with your

0:30:10.760 --> 0:30:11.760
<v Speaker 1>handyman remedy.

0:30:12.240 --> 0:30:15.040
<v Speaker 2>Next time I come back, you might be married. And

0:30:15.160 --> 0:30:17.479
<v Speaker 2>with long hair, love it, love it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the best bits of the week with Morgan. Thanks

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<v Speaker 1>for listening.

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<v Speaker 2>Be sure to check out the other two parts this weekend.

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