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Speaker 1: The best bits of the week with Morgan.

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Speaker 2: It's listener Q and daytime.

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Speaker 1: We're Morgan in a show member answer almost all your questions.

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Speaker 1: What's up everyone? Happy weekend, It's time for some listener

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Speaker 1: Q and a action. Amy is joining me this weekend.

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Speaker 1: How you feeling aby? Hi?

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Speaker 2: Good?

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Speaker 1: Got ready to answer some questions. All right, are you

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Speaker 1: feeling better with your coffee?

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Speaker 2: I am? I just hope I sound better.

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Speaker 1: You do? You have a little like sinusy going on there?

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Speaker 1: We're not bad.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's gone in phases.

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Speaker 1: It's so weird.

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Speaker 2: I don't know how it's gone from sore throat. I

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Speaker 2: feel like I've had every symptom under the sun, and

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Speaker 2: I have no idea what it was. But I'm glad

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Speaker 2: that it's over. Got a steroid pack and that really

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Speaker 2: I should have gotten that last week, and of course

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Speaker 2: I put it off until I got it. I guess

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Speaker 2: I got it on Monday, and I should have gotten

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Speaker 2: it last Thursday.

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Speaker 1: Well, we always like to think we can just magically

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Speaker 1: get better.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I kept I was in denial. Yeah, it was like,

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Speaker 2: I feel great. Bobby's like, why do you keep bitching

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Speaker 2: your throat? I feel great?

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Speaker 1: Hey, you never know until it's happy you like dang,

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Speaker 1: I didn't feel great? Yeah, I do want to start

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Speaker 1: with some shout outs. Anna from Virginia said, I love

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Speaker 1: you ladies. You are fantastic. You give so much love.

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Speaker 1: She's super sweet. We love you back, Emma.

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Speaker 2: Thanks Anna.

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Speaker 1: Just love you bus so much and appreciate you both

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Speaker 1: sharing so much of your lives. That's from Kayla, So

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Speaker 1: really sweet shout outs to start you feel good? You're

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Speaker 1: ready now, I'm ready.

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Speaker 2: It pumped us up.

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Speaker 1: Did your cousin warn you in advance about the divorce?

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Speaker 1: Don in Saint Louis wants to know this.

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Speaker 2: I was actually talking about this the other day with

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Speaker 2: much a warning because she didn't want to say that,

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Speaker 2: and I know she's cautious about that with any client

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Speaker 2: or a loved one of saying this exact thing, especially

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Speaker 2: when it's such a huge life event. But she did

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Speaker 2: And I didn't know what that meant, you know, because

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Speaker 2: that I'm not aware of and that was not the case.

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Speaker 2: It was her getting a feeling that I never handled

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Speaker 2: anything and Ben did everything. So therefore, when you have

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Speaker 2: a split, you have to start to learn those things.

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Speaker 2: And she said, this is going to help you, it's

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Speaker 2: And sure that means yeah.

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Speaker 1: Learning today, Like there's just so much that could come

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's somebody stealing from us and I have no idea.

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Speaker 2: I just it was one of those things early in

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Speaker 1: Asked her now if she did know, and she just

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Speaker 2: Although it was my story too, right, I experienced and

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, super interesting, good question, don okay, any advice

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Speaker 2: Yeah, if you're co parenting, you split up the holidays,

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Speaker 2: So we're going to assume that's what she's talking about.

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Speaker 2: And I would say spend time with yourself figuring out

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't isolate. You may need some time alone, but

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Speaker 2: there's a difference in isolating and creating space for yourself.

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Speaker 2: So make sure you don't isolate. But what friends, what

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Speaker 2: But it is easy to isolate, and I speak from

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Speaker 1: Good are you glad Ben started dating first. Did it

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Speaker 2: Sure, I think so. I appreciate not having to be

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Speaker 1: Probably a lot of feelings that came with that too,

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Speaker 1: I don't think that's a bad thing to feel.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And we've worked so hard to co parent well

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Speaker 2: I think anybody that comes into our lives are gonna

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Speaker 2: There are so many life events over the next few

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Speaker 1: important quality trait of any partner. Anyways, It's a good word,

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Speaker 2: Getting ready to go out on a date.

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Speaker 1: Getting ready it's hard. You gotta get yourself all dulled up,

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean I haven't even done it much at

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Speaker 1: Don't think there's anything wrong with that though, because until

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Speaker 2: It seems exhausting too. I watch my friends, I've watched

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Speaker 2: ninety one days ago.

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Speaker 2: better because that is what she does and decorating things

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Speaker 2: and styling things as her gift. And then I say,

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Speaker 2: I don't really know what I'm doing, but she's like,

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Speaker 2: if that color is speaking to you and you think

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Speaker 2: it will look good, then you need to do that.

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Speaker 2: But sometimes I don't even hear myself like say something

444
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Speaker 2: after she says it, because I'll I'll say, oh, well,

445
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Speaker 2: I thought maybe this color, but then I discount it immediately.

446
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Speaker 2: And she told me to pay attention to what I like.

447
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Speaker 2: And so my paint deck has been bringing me joy

448
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Speaker 2: and trying to figure out what I want my elf

449
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Speaker 2: and if I want to do the color green in

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Speaker 2: this one room, I really want to do some room

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Speaker 2: I'm not sure what if it's going to be maybe laundry, bathroom,

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Speaker 2: I don't know where, but I really like this cranberry color, okay,

453
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Speaker 2: and I can't figure out where it gives.

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Speaker 1: It deep maroon reddish type cranberry.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a deep cranberry. It's not like this bright

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Speaker 2: red but more I don't know the color is or

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Speaker 2: cranberry ish, but I would say more on the rooton

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Speaker 2: side if I was getting specific.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you could totally do that in a small room somewhere.

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Speaker 2: Maybe I just can't figure out exactly where, and I

461
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Speaker 2: may have to let that go.

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Speaker 1: But I like popping up half bath situation.

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Speaker 2: I do, and I'm doing that green.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, I did just amy. I did just pick

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Speaker 1: out a green that I really loved, so I'm sure

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Speaker 1: my Mulliam's well color the same.

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Speaker 2: I did retreat. Well, no, retreat is what I did

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Speaker 2: in my living room last time. I did that, so

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Speaker 2: on the paint deck. If the colors are on the

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Speaker 2: same road, that means they're in the same family. They're

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Speaker 2: just lighter or darker. And I did the shade lighter

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Speaker 2: than retreat this time for this half bath. And I

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Speaker 2: can't remember the name right now, but it's like Hayes something.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, let me I'm gonna turn you on to

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Speaker 1: something because i've been I've been setting up the potcash room.

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Speaker 1: The green color that I did is basil. But I

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Speaker 1: learned two things. One, if you go on Turwin Williams

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Speaker 1: dot com, there's an app that you can get and

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Speaker 1: you can literally hold it up just kind of like

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Speaker 1: you'd be holding up your camera to a QR code.

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Speaker 1: Hold it up in the room and put the paint

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Speaker 1: on your wall and see what it looks like.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's awesome.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so you could do that. That will help if

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Speaker 1: you narrow it down. And then also they now have

486
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Speaker 1: for their very popular colors, they have like a peel

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Speaker 1: and stick and it won't damage your wall. You can

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Speaker 1: order online a peel and stick of like your three

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Speaker 1: favorite colors, and instead of having to go and paint

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Speaker 1: different like little swatches, you can just peel it, stick

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Speaker 1: it on the wall, and then pull it off when

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Speaker 1: you're done.

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Speaker 2: Boom.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: My sister was telling me about the peel and stick

496
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Speaker 2: thing because I bought some of the little tiny jugs

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Speaker 2: and I've been painting like the thing. So the peel

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Speaker 2: and stick, it's just patience. You don't have to order

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Speaker 2: in and wait for it. They didn't have any peel

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Speaker 2: and sticks in the store, and I'm like, okay, fine,

501
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Speaker 2: just give me the tiny cannon and a paintbrush, and

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Speaker 2: I'll go.

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Speaker 1: It's well in the peel and stick is like three

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Speaker 1: bucks versus like twelve fifteen dollars you pay for a

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Speaker 1: little can.

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Speaker 2: I know it's the patients of waiting. I hear you

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Speaker 2: for the pee and stick.

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Speaker 1: Well, if you decide too for other if you're painting

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Speaker 1: a lot of different things, these are two things that help.

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 2: That's awesome. I didn't know about the virtual room thing.

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Speaker 1: I was sitting in like my new little podcast base,

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Speaker 1: and I was just painting the walls. I was just

514
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Speaker 1: sitting there like, Okay, not that color. Maybe this one.

515
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Speaker 1: So maybe you can try that with your cranberry and

516
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Speaker 1: see if it fits in a certain room.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm going to do that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, we're going to end on these two or

519
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Speaker 1: this thing, not two things. I see another thing, but

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Speaker 1: we're ending on this one. What off the wall thing

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Speaker 1: or maybe what thing did you buy on Prime Day?

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Speaker 1: Rick from Oregon? Did you do any Amazon priming on

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Speaker 1: the Prime Day?

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Speaker 2: I did my Anastasia brow whiz my eyebrow pencils. They

525
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Speaker 2: were like, I don't even know, it was five six seven.

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Speaker 2: They were like eight dollars off or something nice. So

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Speaker 2: I ordered three. Okay, so that way I have backstock

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Speaker 2: of those.

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Speaker 1: I love ordering multiples in my favorite things.

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to think if there's something else that I bought.

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Speaker 2: All my snail stuff was on sale. My biopals. I

532
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Speaker 2: needed to teach me.

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Speaker 1: How to use it because I still have the yours

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Speaker 1: that you gave me and I just am scared to

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Speaker 1: conquer it.

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Speaker 2: Oh it's I have tutorials online and I'm going to

537
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Speaker 2: go watch them.

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Speaker 1: I did, like, you know, it's one of those things

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Speaker 1: where you like, I just also.

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Speaker 2: We should do a girls' night like with you know

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Speaker 2: me you Abby, Lauren even in two Morgan you're into,

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Speaker 2: but the original Morgan in one, you know, because she's

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Speaker 2: still a part of the now she's the part of

544
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Speaker 2: the podcast network. Yeah, your podcast has been officially announced,

545
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Speaker 2: which is exciting. So that's next week, right on Monday. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it's coming up. So I don't know, I want to

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Speaker 2: plan like a girl's night and maybe we could do

548
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Speaker 2: that and we'll do a snail oh yes, tutorial and

549
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Speaker 2: we can watch a movie and order food and hang out.

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Speaker 2: I've been wanting to do that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, let's totally do that. Then you can teach me

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Speaker 1: about it. Well I did. I finally bought a Apple Watch.

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Speaker 1: I forgot it today. But I've been obsessed because I

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Speaker 1: realized because I was going to buy one from Costco

555
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Speaker 1: because it was really cheap, and then Amazon Prime one

556
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Speaker 1: was even thirty dollars cheaper. So I want Amazon Watch.

557
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Speaker 1: I finally got one, or Apple Watch and Apple Watch. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and I've been counting my steps and trying to get

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Speaker 1: all my steps in every day.

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Speaker 2: I know on Amazon Prime Day my niece did order

561
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Speaker 2: some bands that were on sale for her Apple Watch.

562
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Speaker 2: They're not buy Apple, but they're another brand, and she

563
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Speaker 2: got some really cute ones that were on sale Amazon

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Speaker 2: Prime Day. Definitely, it gets you'll get you, but then

565
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Speaker 2: you're like, do I really need this? And the thing

566
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Speaker 2: is with my eyebrow princils. Yes they're not going to

567
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Speaker 2: go bad, but I will need them. And I saved money,

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Speaker 2: so I did. Okay, they really are Amazon is banking

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Speaker 2: on girl math on Amazon Prime Day, which I just

570
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Speaker 2: looked at the Sherwyo william paint color Sherwan Williams Paint

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Speaker 2: colors and retreat was my old living room. Then I've

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Speaker 2: got this half bath I did Akasha Hayes. Okay, that's

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Speaker 2: the green that I did, and it's all in the

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Speaker 2: same family. And Basil is also in the family. Oh,

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Speaker 2: which is what you did?

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Speaker 1: Rooms?

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Speaker 2: Yes, so that palette of green on my paint deck,

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Speaker 2: that's one of my that's your favorite, one of my

579
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Speaker 2: favorite ones, and it's got all of those colors. So

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Speaker 2: if you're looking for a awesome green, try out one

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Speaker 2: of those three. But order the peel and stick.

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Speaker 1: And use the virtual room because you can just paint

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Speaker 1: your room.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Oh yeah.

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Speaker 1: So Amazon Prime Day I did. I bought my Apple Watch.

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Speaker 1: I also bought a cologne that I've been wanting by

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Speaker 1: tom Ford that's normally two hundred and fifty dollars and

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Speaker 1: it was one hundred and thirty on Prime Day.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow.

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Speaker 1: And I'd been looking at that for six months by

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Speaker 1: just couldn't get myself to buy it. Prime Day got

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Speaker 1: me because that was girl math. That was hard girl.

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Speaker 1: And then I also got new Beats AirPods because mine

594
00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:06,359
Speaker 1: my Apple Ones broke and I was really tired of

595
00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:08,840
Speaker 1: my Apple Ones because they keep crapping out. So I

596
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Speaker 1: did make three big purchases, but they were all things

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Speaker 1: i'd been looking at for like six months.

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Speaker 2: So you got on onn sales.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, it was girl math.

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Speaker 2: Yeah it was bad as you were patient. I think

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Speaker 2: sometimes as long as we're patient with things, it makes sense.

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Speaker 1: Asians, it's hard though, as we've learned. Okay, we're wrapping

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Speaker 1: it up. Amy, Tell the people where they can find you.

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Speaker 1: See you all that.

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Speaker 2: Good stuff at Radio Amy four Things with Amy Brown

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Speaker 2: as podcast and there's a couple of episodes a week

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Speaker 2: and then out Weigh on Saturdays. Uh and yeah Radio

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Speaker 2: Amy dot com. But I have been updating over there lately,

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Speaker 2: so I would say socials. I am trying to up

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Speaker 2: my TikTok game. Adeline's been helping me. Nice my niece

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Speaker 2: so who posted a TikTok even this week? I believe

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Speaker 2: it was like the theme of you Who's Gonna Match

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Speaker 2: My free?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah that trenned.

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Speaker 2: I like it, and it was me doing my brain

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Speaker 2: exercises in the kitchen. I will be curious to.

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Speaker 1: Know if anybody's gonna match your freak for with that,

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Speaker 1: maybe I am, Are you.

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Speaker 2: Gonna match my freak?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Well, and now people can find you not only hear

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Speaker 2: the Bobby Bone Show.

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Speaker 1: But oh yeah, take this personally podcast drafting on Monday.

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Speaker 1: I'm super excited and I got I did get a

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Speaker 1: lot of requests for you to come on. I think

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Speaker 1: what would be really fun. As we were talking about

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Speaker 1: a girl night, I had been thinking about this. It

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Speaker 1: would be fun to have the girls of The Bobby

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Speaker 1: Bone Show on together for an episode, all at.

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Speaker 2: The same time. Yeah, okay, yeah, we'd have to be

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Speaker 2: very intentional of when we speak.

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Speaker 1: Well I would, I would be our mediator, but like

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Speaker 1: it would be I think it would be fun to

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Speaker 1: have all of us sit there, we all just chat over,

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Speaker 1: you know, because well because like the Bobby Bone Show

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Speaker 1: is different, but the girls also Lauren's not typically on

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Speaker 1: very often. Abby's not on all that much, so like

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Speaker 1: it'd be fun to to do like a little girl chat.

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Speaker 1: It's a it's a theory idea I have.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe it's what you're in. It's in progress, like

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Speaker 2: throw it out there, let's see what happens.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, Well we'll see you guys later. Amy,

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Speaker 1: thank you for joining me, Thanks for having me. I

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Speaker 1: hope you start feeling even better next day with your

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Speaker 1: handyman remedy.

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Speaker 2: Next time I come back, you might be married. And

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Speaker 2: with long hair, love it, love it.

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Speaker 1: That's the best bits of the week with Morgan. Thanks

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Speaker 1: for listening.

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Speaker 2: Be sure to check out the other two parts this weekend.

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Speaker 1: Go follow the show on all social platforms.

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Speaker 2: Show and follow ed web

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