1 00:00:04,640 --> 00:00:09,840 Speaker 1: Looking jewels second day. It is always a good sign 2 00:00:09,920 --> 00:00:13,400 Speaker 1: when you continually ask somebody out and they constantly say 3 00:00:13,520 --> 00:00:16,880 Speaker 1: I'm busy and then never try to make an effort 4 00:00:16,920 --> 00:00:21,040 Speaker 1: to go out with you, that's always a plus. Yeah, yeah, 5 00:00:21,040 --> 00:00:24,680 Speaker 1: that's good. That's what's happening to David who wants to 6 00:00:24,680 --> 00:00:26,440 Speaker 1: call a girl a day for a second date. Update. 7 00:00:26,480 --> 00:00:28,760 Speaker 1: They met on match, had a good time, but apparently 8 00:00:29,000 --> 00:00:31,080 Speaker 1: every time he asks her out now she just says 9 00:00:31,160 --> 00:00:33,640 Speaker 1: I'm busy and then doesn't go like, I'm busy, but 10 00:00:34,240 --> 00:00:36,800 Speaker 1: we could do this. It's just I'm busy. That's what 11 00:00:36,840 --> 00:00:40,760 Speaker 1: you're getting, right, David. That's right, yeah, David, David, you're 12 00:00:40,760 --> 00:00:43,360 Speaker 1: not one to read signs or take hints very well, 13 00:00:43,360 --> 00:00:50,800 Speaker 1: are you? You know, ever work for a while? Um, 14 00:00:51,080 --> 00:00:52,599 Speaker 1: tell us a little bit about the girl you want 15 00:00:52,640 --> 00:00:55,760 Speaker 1: us to call first. Well, her name is Alyssa, and 16 00:00:55,800 --> 00:00:59,360 Speaker 1: we met dot com. Okay, yeah, yeah, she's really cool. 17 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:01,560 Speaker 1: She was fine and she was cute all that stuff. 18 00:01:01,600 --> 00:01:03,280 Speaker 1: So we ended up meeting up going out for drink 19 00:01:03,440 --> 00:01:05,400 Speaker 1: for a happy hour and we had a good time, 20 00:01:05,480 --> 00:01:08,080 Speaker 1: you know, and it was a conversation good, everything normal. 21 00:01:08,160 --> 00:01:12,160 Speaker 1: Did anything strange happen on your date? No, not at all. 22 00:01:12,160 --> 00:01:13,720 Speaker 1: It's actually a really good time. You know, We're just 23 00:01:13,760 --> 00:01:15,560 Speaker 1: sitting around drinking and then got on the topic of 24 00:01:15,680 --> 00:01:17,679 Speaker 1: liking to try new things and we both like to 25 00:01:17,720 --> 00:01:19,679 Speaker 1: do that and started ordering each other drinks that we 26 00:01:19,800 --> 00:01:22,280 Speaker 1: never had before. And of course that you know, that 27 00:01:22,319 --> 00:01:25,440 Speaker 1: went well. Nobody got sick or how much thing like that. 28 00:01:25,920 --> 00:01:29,399 Speaker 1: How much alcohol was consumed because it was only like 29 00:01:29,560 --> 00:01:32,040 Speaker 1: three drinks a peace, that's not too bad. You know. 30 00:01:32,080 --> 00:01:34,160 Speaker 1: I had like our initial drink and then she got 31 00:01:34,160 --> 00:01:37,800 Speaker 1: me something like a blue Hawaiian and an Alabama slammer, 32 00:01:37,840 --> 00:01:40,880 Speaker 1: and I got her Kamadori sour and she had never 33 00:01:40,880 --> 00:01:44,280 Speaker 1: done an Irish car bomb. So, yeah, you guys can 34 00:01:44,360 --> 00:01:47,039 Speaker 1: get classy on your date, didn't you? Is that all 35 00:01:47,040 --> 00:01:48,640 Speaker 1: that you did was go to happy hour and do 36 00:01:48,680 --> 00:01:51,040 Speaker 1: the like, hey you try this drink thing. Well, you 37 00:01:51,080 --> 00:01:53,680 Speaker 1: know you do that pretty quick in an hour? Ye 38 00:01:54,680 --> 00:01:58,480 Speaker 1: dinner so got you know, we got pretty drunk pretty quick. Yeah, 39 00:01:58,600 --> 00:02:00,760 Speaker 1: I realized it was it was probably a good idea 40 00:02:00,800 --> 00:02:05,040 Speaker 1: to slow down there. Yeah, some food at the end 41 00:02:05,080 --> 00:02:07,400 Speaker 1: of your hour of drinking. What did you guys do? 42 00:02:07,440 --> 00:02:10,000 Speaker 1: Did you go get somebody eat or well, you know, 43 00:02:10,120 --> 00:02:12,560 Speaker 1: you can't you can't always do drinks and dinner on 44 00:02:12,600 --> 00:02:16,760 Speaker 1: a first date. Maybe a good idea to combine the both. 45 00:02:17,040 --> 00:02:19,239 Speaker 1: I'm thinking you needed something to stop up the alcohol 46 00:02:19,960 --> 00:02:22,680 Speaker 1: that second date idea. I can't do that on first 47 00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:26,240 Speaker 1: I don't have a lot of ideas. First date drinks, 48 00:02:26,360 --> 00:02:29,000 Speaker 1: second date, dinner and drink. Well, it's not like you 49 00:02:29,000 --> 00:02:31,960 Speaker 1: were slamming down bottles and bottles. You had like three 50 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:34,480 Speaker 1: or four drinks, eats. You weren't completely hammered, right, Well, 51 00:02:34,520 --> 00:02:37,799 Speaker 1: not everyone's a raging alcoholic. Like three or four drinks, 52 00:02:37,800 --> 00:02:41,240 Speaker 1: you'll probably still be okay in an hour. Yeah, yeah, 53 00:02:41,400 --> 00:02:44,240 Speaker 1: I feel good, David. Can I ask when you made 54 00:02:44,280 --> 00:02:46,840 Speaker 1: plans with her the first time? Was it hard? Was 55 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:49,880 Speaker 1: she always quote quote busy or did she have a 56 00:02:49,919 --> 00:02:52,200 Speaker 1: lot of free time? No, she was really open for it. 57 00:02:52,600 --> 00:02:55,040 Speaker 1: And did she Did she give you any indication on 58 00:02:55,080 --> 00:02:57,320 Speaker 1: her date that she has like a really busy schedule 59 00:02:57,480 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 1: or a crazy job or anything like that. You know, 60 00:03:00,480 --> 00:03:04,079 Speaker 1: not really, Um, you know, just it seems like she's 61 00:03:04,400 --> 00:03:07,280 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest, we really didn't talk about with 62 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:10,040 Speaker 1: each other, Um, what we both do for work? How 63 00:03:10,120 --> 00:03:12,640 Speaker 1: did how did the date end with her? Did you 64 00:03:12,639 --> 00:03:15,160 Speaker 1: guys make out. No, we didn't make out. I got 65 00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:16,880 Speaker 1: I was a pretty smooth operator. I got a kiss 66 00:03:16,880 --> 00:03:23,160 Speaker 1: on the cheek. Okay, that's not smooth, David, Dude, And 67 00:03:23,600 --> 00:03:25,600 Speaker 1: I don't know that was a gentleman peck. It was 68 00:03:25,639 --> 00:03:28,120 Speaker 1: a nice dog. It wasn't a side hug, regular good 69 00:03:28,240 --> 00:03:31,000 Speaker 1: linger and hug and kiss on the cheek, David. I'm 70 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:34,240 Speaker 1: just gonna say throw it out there. Anytime I've ever 71 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:36,840 Speaker 1: told a guy or even a friend that I'm busy, 72 00:03:36,920 --> 00:03:40,280 Speaker 1: it's because I don't want to hang out with them. 73 00:03:40,320 --> 00:03:43,280 Speaker 1: If I'm busy and I make plans like alternate plans, 74 00:03:43,320 --> 00:03:46,600 Speaker 1: then it means, yeah, go for it. Well, she still responds, 75 00:03:46,640 --> 00:03:48,800 Speaker 1: Like if I text her or send her a message 76 00:03:48,840 --> 00:03:51,160 Speaker 1: on Facebook or anything, you know, she's still she's still responding. 77 00:03:51,200 --> 00:03:53,520 Speaker 1: She's not completely boring me off. Yeah. So that's why 78 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:56,680 Speaker 1: I'm confused. As you know, I've been in that position 79 00:03:56,680 --> 00:03:58,880 Speaker 1: where I said I'm busy and then I just don't 80 00:03:58,920 --> 00:04:01,200 Speaker 1: respond to text. Yeah, but some people don't do that, 81 00:04:01,280 --> 00:04:02,720 Speaker 1: Like I know, for me, if I tell somebody I'm 82 00:04:02,720 --> 00:04:04,360 Speaker 1: busy and they keep doing like eventually I'll break down. 83 00:04:04,400 --> 00:04:05,880 Speaker 1: I'll still respond to him, and then they'll be like Okay, 84 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:07,800 Speaker 1: so let's go out and you're like, no, I'm still busy. Yeah, 85 00:04:08,520 --> 00:04:11,200 Speaker 1: I don't want to see you, but you just keep 86 00:04:11,240 --> 00:04:13,520 Speaker 1: bugging me, so I will answer. If you like a guy, 87 00:04:13,560 --> 00:04:16,720 Speaker 1: you make time. That's all I'm saying. Guy or girl. Yeah, well, 88 00:04:16,760 --> 00:04:18,240 Speaker 1: I mean like, if she has plowing me off, I 89 00:04:18,240 --> 00:04:22,800 Speaker 1: would like to know the reason why. Okay, because it's 90 00:04:23,120 --> 00:04:25,200 Speaker 1: to me we had a really great time. Okay, well 91 00:04:25,200 --> 00:04:27,240 Speaker 1: we'll play a song, come back caller and get your 92 00:04:27,279 --> 00:04:30,760 Speaker 1: second date update. Okay, cool, if we're not too busy, 93 00:04:32,520 --> 00:04:39,239 Speaker 1: hang on, all right, all right, brooking jubil in the morning. 94 00:04:41,800 --> 00:04:45,440 Speaker 1: Hey David, yep, we were gonna do your second date update, 95 00:04:45,440 --> 00:04:48,479 Speaker 1: but honestly, something just came up. Can we make the 96 00:04:48,520 --> 00:04:50,520 Speaker 1: phone call for you, like next week or something. My 97 00:04:50,600 --> 00:04:54,119 Speaker 1: promise will get around to it. If you're just tuning 98 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:56,400 Speaker 1: into the second date update. I'm telling David that because 99 00:04:56,400 --> 00:04:57,760 Speaker 1: the girl that he wants us to get a hold 100 00:04:57,800 --> 00:05:02,560 Speaker 1: of keeps giving him the I'm busy. Yeah treatment not, 101 00:05:02,760 --> 00:05:05,800 Speaker 1: I'm busy. We could maybe try next Thursday when I'm 102 00:05:05,839 --> 00:05:09,400 Speaker 1: not busy. Just I'm busy, which usually means I don't 103 00:05:09,400 --> 00:05:11,120 Speaker 1: want to see you. So we're about to call her 104 00:05:11,160 --> 00:05:13,760 Speaker 1: and find out why they met on match, went out 105 00:05:13,760 --> 00:05:17,080 Speaker 1: for a happy hour, had some drinks, maybe too many drinks, 106 00:05:17,120 --> 00:05:19,919 Speaker 1: I don't know, and he said everything went well. So 107 00:05:19,960 --> 00:05:22,680 Speaker 1: he doesn't understand why she would say that she's busy 108 00:05:22,720 --> 00:05:24,080 Speaker 1: and doesn't want to see him again. But she is 109 00:05:24,120 --> 00:05:26,880 Speaker 1: responding to like all of his texts and everything to 110 00:05:26,960 --> 00:05:30,240 Speaker 1: be nice. Maybe maybe, yeah, David, I mean you got 111 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:32,280 Speaker 1: a kiss on the cheek when you left. Was there 112 00:05:32,320 --> 00:05:36,080 Speaker 1: any talk then of seeing each other? I don't remember. 113 00:05:37,080 --> 00:05:40,480 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go with no. All right, you ready to 114 00:05:40,520 --> 00:05:55,280 Speaker 1: give her a call? Yeah? Here we go. Well, I 115 00:05:55,360 --> 00:05:59,359 Speaker 1: canna speak to Alyssa please? Yeah, Hey, how are you? 116 00:05:59,440 --> 00:06:01,320 Speaker 1: This is jew from Brook and Jewel in the morning. 117 00:06:01,320 --> 00:06:08,160 Speaker 1: I'm moving ninety two point five? Really, Yeah, what's going on? Um? 118 00:06:09,480 --> 00:06:12,800 Speaker 1: This is really weird. Do you listen to our show? 119 00:06:13,680 --> 00:06:15,760 Speaker 1: I had to it once in a while in the morning, 120 00:06:15,800 --> 00:06:17,440 Speaker 1: I kind of have to focus on like hard news 121 00:06:17,440 --> 00:06:19,520 Speaker 1: stuff to so I'm ready for work. But I like 122 00:06:19,560 --> 00:06:21,560 Speaker 1: to think of us as hard news. We report on 123 00:06:21,560 --> 00:06:24,119 Speaker 1: the hard hitting things. I mean, like all like solid news, 124 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:27,440 Speaker 1: like nothing, but you I would so much rather have 125 00:06:27,480 --> 00:06:29,560 Speaker 1: a good like some good music in the morning. But 126 00:06:29,640 --> 00:06:31,719 Speaker 1: it doesn't really work for here. Oh well, yeah, you 127 00:06:31,720 --> 00:06:33,360 Speaker 1: want good music, You're not coming to the right place 128 00:06:33,360 --> 00:06:37,080 Speaker 1: by listening to us. Where do you have music? I 129 00:06:37,120 --> 00:06:41,080 Speaker 1: mean whatever? All right, listen, listen. I'm calling you because 130 00:06:41,120 --> 00:06:43,680 Speaker 1: you recently went out with someone else who listens to 131 00:06:43,680 --> 00:06:45,040 Speaker 1: our show, and they wanted us to get a hold 132 00:06:45,080 --> 00:06:48,760 Speaker 1: of you. So this is like a social call. Yeah, 133 00:06:48,800 --> 00:06:52,080 Speaker 1: I like that name. It's a social call, social call, 134 00:06:52,360 --> 00:06:54,360 Speaker 1: or a second date update, as we like to call it. 135 00:06:54,360 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 1: It's where if you go out with someone and end 136 00:06:56,839 --> 00:06:59,320 Speaker 1: up blowing them off, they email us to call and 137 00:06:59,400 --> 00:07:01,520 Speaker 1: ask why. David, who was a friend of the show, 138 00:07:01,760 --> 00:07:03,880 Speaker 1: feels like you've been giving him the runaround, just telling 139 00:07:03,920 --> 00:07:06,560 Speaker 1: him that you're busy. Are you really busy or do 140 00:07:06,640 --> 00:07:12,200 Speaker 1: you actually want to see David again? Uh? Yeah, that's 141 00:07:12,240 --> 00:07:15,520 Speaker 1: a that's a really interesting question. It's not that interesting. 142 00:07:15,920 --> 00:07:18,880 Speaker 1: You're just trying to be nice. Yeah, you don't want 143 00:07:18,880 --> 00:07:24,000 Speaker 1: to see David again, do you? Um? No, I mean 144 00:07:24,600 --> 00:07:27,040 Speaker 1: I guess he told you. What did he tell you? 145 00:07:27,880 --> 00:07:29,840 Speaker 1: He said you guys went out for a happy hour, 146 00:07:30,120 --> 00:07:32,320 Speaker 1: started talking about things you haven't tried before, and then 147 00:07:32,560 --> 00:07:35,240 Speaker 1: we're suggesting drinks to each other and had a few 148 00:07:35,280 --> 00:07:37,040 Speaker 1: drinks and he said he got a kiss on the 149 00:07:37,120 --> 00:07:40,280 Speaker 1: cheek from you. That's a big deal, right, said. We 150 00:07:40,320 --> 00:07:43,080 Speaker 1: had a few drinks. We had a lot of drinks. 151 00:07:43,560 --> 00:07:45,840 Speaker 1: It was like a lot of drinking. It was like 152 00:07:46,000 --> 00:07:50,000 Speaker 1: I was feeling really about Okay, all right, so you 153 00:07:50,040 --> 00:07:53,120 Speaker 1: were you were pretty drunk on the date. Yeah, I mean, 154 00:07:53,160 --> 00:07:56,000 Speaker 1: I'm guessingly he was too. I don't know, did he 155 00:07:56,040 --> 00:07:58,960 Speaker 1: do something weird then, or did he you know, try 156 00:07:59,000 --> 00:08:01,880 Speaker 1: to make a move on you or no. I mean 157 00:08:01,960 --> 00:08:04,280 Speaker 1: it was fun and we were like talking and laughing 158 00:08:04,280 --> 00:08:07,200 Speaker 1: and trying these drinks and then like you know, we 159 00:08:07,200 --> 00:08:09,960 Speaker 1: were just talking about stuff from the past, and like, 160 00:08:10,600 --> 00:08:13,720 Speaker 1: I mean, it was kind of awkward because he said 161 00:08:13,920 --> 00:08:16,760 Speaker 1: that a long time ago he got in trouble with 162 00:08:16,840 --> 00:08:19,440 Speaker 1: a law in another state, which is like really crazed 163 00:08:19,480 --> 00:08:22,680 Speaker 1: thing to say. Can he tell you what he did? No? 164 00:08:22,800 --> 00:08:24,920 Speaker 1: He like there must have been a weird look on 165 00:08:25,040 --> 00:08:28,400 Speaker 1: my face because I think he like kind of caught himself, 166 00:08:28,440 --> 00:08:30,200 Speaker 1: and he just like tried to like play it off 167 00:08:30,240 --> 00:08:32,199 Speaker 1: like it was no big deal, you know, like, oh, 168 00:08:32,280 --> 00:08:34,080 Speaker 1: he just you know, he said something like, oh I 169 00:08:34,120 --> 00:08:37,240 Speaker 1: was kind of wild when I was younger. That really 170 00:08:37,240 --> 00:08:38,880 Speaker 1: stuck with me. What he said, and I just but 171 00:08:38,960 --> 00:08:40,600 Speaker 1: you don't even you don't even know what he did though, 172 00:08:40,640 --> 00:08:43,480 Speaker 1: because he never told you what he did, That's exactly, 173 00:08:43,520 --> 00:08:45,320 Speaker 1: And that's why I didn't know what to make of it. 174 00:08:45,360 --> 00:08:47,120 Speaker 1: So I was talking to my friends about it, and 175 00:08:47,200 --> 00:08:49,560 Speaker 1: they're worried about safety and stuff. So they're like, look, 176 00:08:49,640 --> 00:08:51,960 Speaker 1: you know, you should really do a background check just 177 00:08:52,040 --> 00:08:54,520 Speaker 1: to be safe. Like anyone can go online and like 178 00:08:55,200 --> 00:08:57,280 Speaker 1: put up a profile. You don't know who this guy is, 179 00:08:57,320 --> 00:09:01,920 Speaker 1: So did you do a background check? Yeah, you actually 180 00:09:01,920 --> 00:09:04,720 Speaker 1: paid to have a background checked on him. Yeah, I 181 00:09:04,720 --> 00:09:08,160 Speaker 1: mean it's not that's not that expensive. I just I 182 00:09:08,240 --> 00:09:11,640 Speaker 1: was really surprised by what I found out, and that's 183 00:09:11,640 --> 00:09:14,839 Speaker 1: why I haven't said yes to a second day. What 184 00:09:14,960 --> 00:09:18,920 Speaker 1: did you find out? Well, he was basically like a 185 00:09:18,960 --> 00:09:27,720 Speaker 1: serial arsonist? What a serial arsonist? Like how bad? What? Well? 186 00:09:27,800 --> 00:09:30,320 Speaker 1: I don't know all the details, like you don't get 187 00:09:30,360 --> 00:09:34,440 Speaker 1: every single everything, but when the information came back, it's 188 00:09:34,440 --> 00:09:39,120 Speaker 1: just like he set things on fire like more than once. 189 00:09:39,400 --> 00:09:44,280 Speaker 1: Oh wow, how many counts of setting things on fire? 190 00:09:44,360 --> 00:09:48,559 Speaker 1: Did he have? This mentioned four and there were there 191 00:09:48,600 --> 00:09:51,760 Speaker 1: were allegations about a fifth. I guess that wasn't proven. 192 00:09:52,840 --> 00:09:55,520 Speaker 1: Now Alyssa, where did this phone call for him to 193 00:09:55,520 --> 00:09:57,559 Speaker 1: find out why you weren't calling him back? Now, I'm 194 00:09:57,559 --> 00:10:00,400 Speaker 1: scared if things don't go well, he's gonna my house 195 00:10:00,440 --> 00:10:07,199 Speaker 1: down or something. Yeah, I'm sorry for that, Alyssa. I 196 00:10:07,280 --> 00:10:12,319 Speaker 1: know you probably never want to talk to David again. Yeah, 197 00:10:12,360 --> 00:10:14,800 Speaker 1: but I should tell you that he's actually been on 198 00:10:14,840 --> 00:10:23,240 Speaker 1: the other line this whole time, listening to everything you said. Hey, Okay, 199 00:10:23,240 --> 00:10:25,400 Speaker 1: this is really awkward. I don't even know what to say. No, 200 00:10:26,760 --> 00:10:28,720 Speaker 1: first of all, that is really weird that you would 201 00:10:28,720 --> 00:10:31,240 Speaker 1: do a background check on me. I can't believe that 202 00:10:31,440 --> 00:10:35,840 Speaker 1: people actually do that. Don't just like, how can you 203 00:10:35,880 --> 00:10:38,360 Speaker 1: have a complaint that I did a background check? There 204 00:10:38,440 --> 00:10:42,400 Speaker 1: was something to find that seems to be more an issue. Yeah, 205 00:10:42,000 --> 00:10:46,280 Speaker 1: you could have asked me. I did ask you after 206 00:10:46,400 --> 00:10:48,840 Speaker 1: you mentioned that you got in trouble with law, and 207 00:10:49,000 --> 00:10:51,080 Speaker 1: you blew off the question. You kind of just shut 208 00:10:51,160 --> 00:10:53,520 Speaker 1: down and obviously didn't want to answer it. So I 209 00:10:53,520 --> 00:10:56,000 Speaker 1: did try that. I don't really care about you talking 210 00:10:56,040 --> 00:10:57,880 Speaker 1: to each other right now. All I want to know is, David, 211 00:10:58,240 --> 00:11:04,040 Speaker 1: are you really a serial arsonist? Serial arsenis is a 212 00:11:04,120 --> 00:11:06,320 Speaker 1: really strong way to label it. I set a couple 213 00:11:06,320 --> 00:11:09,440 Speaker 1: of old frs on fire and like a shed in 214 00:11:09,480 --> 00:11:13,319 Speaker 1: the woods. Why would you do that? We were just 215 00:11:13,480 --> 00:11:16,000 Speaker 1: kids scooping off. It's not like someone lived in the shed. 216 00:11:16,080 --> 00:11:18,480 Speaker 1: It's not like it was like a car in someone's driveway. 217 00:11:18,800 --> 00:11:20,600 Speaker 1: There was just some old stuff out of the field 218 00:11:20,600 --> 00:11:23,720 Speaker 1: and we set it on fire. I don't know that 219 00:11:23,800 --> 00:11:27,719 Speaker 1: I feel better about that, David. I sadly. I can 220 00:11:27,720 --> 00:11:29,920 Speaker 1: see where David's coming from. Sometimes you just want to 221 00:11:30,000 --> 00:11:32,719 Speaker 1: light things on fire. At least it wasn't like houses 222 00:11:32,960 --> 00:11:36,439 Speaker 1: or anything like that. Animals. Yeah, it's not like it 223 00:11:36,520 --> 00:11:38,120 Speaker 1: did it because I was crazy. We did it because 224 00:11:38,120 --> 00:11:40,400 Speaker 1: we were bored and it happened to belong to somebody, 225 00:11:40,640 --> 00:11:45,520 Speaker 1: which we didn't know. And then you know, buildings usually 226 00:11:45,600 --> 00:11:49,640 Speaker 1: do belong to someone. David, How how much time did 227 00:11:49,640 --> 00:11:52,440 Speaker 1: you serve? I just went to high school like eighteen. 228 00:11:52,640 --> 00:11:54,240 Speaker 1: I was supposed to serve two years, but I was 229 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:59,200 Speaker 1: out in like six months. Nice. Not nice. That's all 230 00:11:59,480 --> 00:12:01,440 Speaker 1: that's all you get for burned down a couple of cars. 231 00:12:03,480 --> 00:12:07,880 Speaker 1: So you served two years in jail for arson two years. 232 00:12:07,880 --> 00:12:10,840 Speaker 1: I was done in six months. You're done in six months, So, Alyssa, 233 00:12:10,880 --> 00:12:12,960 Speaker 1: he's not that hardened. Of a criminal. He was only 234 00:12:13,000 --> 00:12:16,480 Speaker 1: in jail for six months, silver lining good behavior. That 235 00:12:17,080 --> 00:12:23,280 Speaker 1: does that make it any better? Alyssah, I'm really really uncomfortable. 236 00:12:24,360 --> 00:12:28,440 Speaker 1: I don't blame you at all. Yeah, it was I 237 00:12:28,559 --> 00:12:30,640 Speaker 1: was just hanging out with some bad people and made 238 00:12:30,640 --> 00:12:33,360 Speaker 1: a super mistake, and I learned from it, and I 239 00:12:33,440 --> 00:12:35,160 Speaker 1: moved away from there. I'm in a new state. I 240 00:12:35,200 --> 00:12:37,880 Speaker 1: started a new life. You know. I haven't had any 241 00:12:37,920 --> 00:12:40,080 Speaker 1: other problems with the cops, not even a speeding ticket. 242 00:12:40,480 --> 00:12:44,640 Speaker 1: You know. I think people can change here. How old 243 00:12:44,679 --> 00:12:48,040 Speaker 1: are you, David twenty eight and no problems in the 244 00:12:48,120 --> 00:12:51,800 Speaker 1: last like ten years. I was ten years ago. Everybody 245 00:12:51,840 --> 00:12:54,920 Speaker 1: makes dumb mistakes when they're young, four times, it doesn't 246 00:12:54,920 --> 00:12:56,959 Speaker 1: matter how long ago it was. I don't want to 247 00:12:57,000 --> 00:13:00,160 Speaker 1: date someone who was in jail. I think that that's 248 00:13:00,160 --> 00:13:02,720 Speaker 1: folk standard to have. I don't think so. I think, 249 00:13:02,800 --> 00:13:05,200 Speaker 1: you know, you really you gotta try a fellon at 250 00:13:05,280 --> 00:13:07,400 Speaker 1: least one time in your life. That's what I always say. 251 00:13:07,559 --> 00:13:09,360 Speaker 1: That's what my grandma told me, and I listened. But 252 00:13:10,480 --> 00:13:12,120 Speaker 1: so listen, we can't convince you to go out on 253 00:13:12,120 --> 00:13:14,000 Speaker 1: a second date with David. We will pay for it. 254 00:13:15,320 --> 00:13:18,920 Speaker 1: I'm just I'm not the right girl. David, I'm sorry 255 00:13:19,080 --> 00:13:21,080 Speaker 1: you did not get your second date, but at least 256 00:13:21,080 --> 00:13:25,120 Speaker 1: you know why this has been telling you that she's busy. Yeah, 257 00:13:24,360 --> 00:13:32,520 Speaker 1: that's she doesn't want her property burn down. Dream so