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Speaker 1: Well, I invited you.

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Speaker 2: Hear, I thought, I made myself perfectly clear, But you're.

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Speaker 3: A guess to my home.

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Speaker 2: You gotta come to me empty, And I said, no,

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Speaker 3: So how did you dan to surbey me?

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Speaker 1: Welcome to I said, no gifts. I'm Richard Wineger. What's

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Speaker 1: going on? I started the day in a bad mood.

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Speaker 1: I went to bed in a bad mood. I tried

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Speaker 1: watching this thing called The Curious Case of Natalie Grace,

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Speaker 1: Natalia Grace, I don't know which. I thought was just

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Speaker 1: going to be thrilling and exciting, trashy documentary documentaries may

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Speaker 1: be generous, And then it was so horribly made that

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Speaker 1: I had stopped watching it, and I never learned whether

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Speaker 1: or not this couple accidentally adopted an evil thirty year old.

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Speaker 1: And so now I'm not even going to look into it.

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Speaker 1: I guess I just have to hopefully someone will just

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Speaker 1: real piece of crap, and oh it set me off.

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Speaker 1: So I hate to start the podcast in this way.

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Speaker 1: And now I'm thinking about how the photo app is

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Speaker 1: still horrible on the iPhone. What's happening there? They haven't changed.

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Speaker 1: It's universally hated and they're just making a stick with it.

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Speaker 1: I don't try to start this with so much complaining,

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Speaker 1: but Natalia or Natalie Grace set me off. I'm sorry,

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Speaker 1: Let's get into the show. Maybe that will help things.

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Speaker 1: I adore today's guest. It's Mary Lynn Rice called Mary Lynn.

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Speaker 3: Oh, Hello, you said my last name correctly.

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Speaker 1: Your last name is so interesting. It's like, I mean,

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Speaker 1: if you weren't aware of how to pronounce it beforehand,

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Speaker 1: you know, it's just two words.

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Speaker 3: I kind of like that. It's like, why don't you know?

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Speaker 3: How about you look out to it and then talk

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Speaker 3: to me and don't talk to me until then. Don't

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Speaker 1: Red Yeah, what do you get done with that?

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Speaker 3: We're done with that. Don't not try, don't give.

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Speaker 1: Up, don't give up. I think I and like, I'll

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Speaker 1: how to pronounce my last name. You have the internet.

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Speaker 3: Weininger wind Wow, look well, I've heard you say that

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Speaker 3: I did a little you know how to spruce up.

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Speaker 1: Well. I have people in my life who still say Winneger,

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Speaker 3: I got scared as it was coming out of my mouth.

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Speaker 1: It was beautiful. I mean, it's the kind of the

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Speaker 1: last guess for the pronunciation of my name, which is

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Speaker 1: oh really, I mean, I guess whin a Ger makes sense,

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Speaker 1: Winegar makes sense, but it has that little speed bump

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Speaker 3: Yours is almost harder than mine in a way. I

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Speaker 1: But I feel like with your name, once you've heard it,

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Speaker 3: Yes, but I have seen people, a lot of hosts.

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Speaker 3: I'll see them panic and I just go, just whatever

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Speaker 3: not going to help you. We all know that. But

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Speaker 3: I appreciate those people even more because they're trying. You know,

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Speaker 1: You're just imagining that word in your head.

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Speaker 1: That's always the same with me.

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Speaker 1: I do think living with my entire mess of a

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Speaker 3: How are you pretty fantastic? Pretty fantastic? I mean, I'd

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Speaker 3: if I go beyond the complaining, I realize my life

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Speaker 1: You know what I want to complain about having a rush.

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Speaker 1: I just don't rush me. You know who's rushing you?

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Speaker 3: Just life. That's a great question. Thank you for that.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if we're gonna make it. You're you're

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Speaker 3: I could not everything I read in Worldlit. Each word

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Speaker 3: When I was in seventh grade, they had this microfiche

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Speaker 1: It's just the amount of books these people are reading.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like I'm lucky if I read two

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Speaker 1: Are you doing fiction or mostly fiction? Okay, although nonfiction

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Speaker 1: I find more and more is easier to get through

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Speaker 3: At least like it would be harder to get through.

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Speaker 1: I think I can convince myself that I'm learning, and

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Speaker 1: And of course, like the subjects I'm reading about are

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Speaker 3: So the things you may be more emotionally involved in,

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Speaker 1: Magic Hour. Yeah, and then what was the But honly

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Speaker 1: Right, so she all I know, and this actually might

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Speaker 1: And that's why it's so hard. I mean, these are issues, these.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. And I think you know the author, Colleen Hoover.

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Speaker 1: Interesting. Yeah, this whole thing and I can't even remember

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Speaker 3: Yeah, what's her name? And what's his name? Jason Baldoni?

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Speaker 3: We end up talking about this? Of all things? That's

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Speaker 1: Sometimes when anything goes, when anything goes, and that's kind

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Speaker 1: thing for me, for my brain, Like just wake up

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Speaker 1: every morning and try to remember things.

441
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Speaker 3: That'd be a fun board game, like that memory game

442
00:24:24,400 --> 00:24:25,520
Speaker 3: you play when you're little.

443
00:24:25,520 --> 00:24:29,240
Speaker 1: But with only celebrities that. I guess there'll probably some

444
00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:31,359
Speaker 1: copyright issues or what have you. Maybe it could be

445
00:24:31,440 --> 00:24:35,560
Speaker 1: kind of an off brand or black market. Yeah, I

446
00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:37,840
Speaker 1: guess you could make that at home, print up pictures,

447
00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:40,000
Speaker 1: make that at home. You should make that?

448
00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:45,040
Speaker 3: Can you and invite me over? And I won't know

449
00:24:45,080 --> 00:24:47,520
Speaker 3: anyone's name, I won't know who anyone is.

450
00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:51,320
Speaker 1: That actually US magazine guess who combined forces. It's called

451
00:24:51,359 --> 00:24:55,080
Speaker 1: guest US and it celebrity.

452
00:24:55,160 --> 00:24:55,560
Speaker 3: You did it.

453
00:24:55,600 --> 00:24:56,800
Speaker 1: Oh my god, if they.

454
00:24:56,560 --> 00:24:57,600
Speaker 3: Did it, I'm a part of this.

455
00:24:58,160 --> 00:25:01,520
Speaker 1: We're in you did it. This is a nice little sign.

456
00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:03,479
Speaker 1: Now guess we're ready to go.

457
00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:06,760
Speaker 3: Let's run with this and at least get them on

458
00:25:06,800 --> 00:25:09,080
Speaker 3: the horn copyright whatever?

459
00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:11,040
Speaker 1: Do you play? Connections?

460
00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:12,360
Speaker 3: What is that?

461
00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:14,320
Speaker 1: This is the New York Times game? I played this

462
00:25:14,359 --> 00:25:14,880
Speaker 1: every morning.

463
00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:17,240
Speaker 3: No, but I know people.

464
00:25:17,240 --> 00:25:19,560
Speaker 1: Fantastic game. This does make me feel a little better

465
00:25:19,640 --> 00:25:22,199
Speaker 1: about my Not the crossword, No, this one. It's like,

466
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Speaker 1: give me, you don't know what this is? Like four

467
00:25:24,760 --> 00:25:28,800
Speaker 1: there are four categories and then they're like, uh, maybe

468
00:25:28,840 --> 00:25:31,639
Speaker 1: sixteen words I think, and you have to decide which

469
00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:34,720
Speaker 1: words go with which into which category.

470
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Speaker 3: I'm into that.

471
00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:36,960
Speaker 1: It's wonderful.

472
00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:39,080
Speaker 3: It's less taxing than a crossword puzzle.

473
00:25:39,359 --> 00:25:43,520
Speaker 1: Yes, it takes less time and actually, in some ways

474
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Speaker 1: makes you feel a little bit more clever than a crossword.

475
00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:48,359
Speaker 3: Puzzle, and more clever than wordle certainly.

476
00:25:48,560 --> 00:25:50,280
Speaker 1: Oh I don't do wordle at all.

477
00:25:51,040 --> 00:25:55,960
Speaker 3: See, we got to slow down. Don't get its tax.

478
00:25:57,400 --> 00:26:01,200
Speaker 1: Word essentially like playing the lottery or something.

479
00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:03,600
Speaker 3: It's just a lot of gane and then not a

480
00:26:03,640 --> 00:26:04,560
Speaker 3: lot of satisfaction.

481
00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:08,160
Speaker 1: It's right, exactly. Congratulations you were able to guess.

482
00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:11,119
Speaker 3: Yeah, and now I feel dirty. It's just like I

483
00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:15,840
Speaker 3: do describing this book multiple reasons, none having to do

484
00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:17,240
Speaker 3: with the caliber.

485
00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:20,600
Speaker 1: Of the Yeah, I was off wordled pretty quickly. I

486
00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:22,679
Speaker 1: don't know if it was because I was just frustrated,

487
00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:24,439
Speaker 1: but I just felt like it was dumb. It kind

488
00:26:24,440 --> 00:26:26,200
Speaker 1: of felt to me like almost like a word search.

489
00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:29,080
Speaker 3: Yes, it's like this is I think there are people

490
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Speaker 3: who are still into it. I spent a good deal

491
00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:33,280
Speaker 3: of time. I think there was a moment where I

492
00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:35,200
Speaker 3: was even telling other.

493
00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:38,080
Speaker 1: People, you got it took us all by storm.

494
00:26:38,119 --> 00:26:39,280
Speaker 3: It took us by storm.

495
00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:41,720
Speaker 1: But Connections, I think is playing the long game. I

496
00:26:41,720 --> 00:26:43,680
Speaker 1: think it's going to it's going to be the one

497
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Speaker 1: that stands the test of time.

498
00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:46,320
Speaker 3: I'm going to get in there.

499
00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:49,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a good one. I mean well, speaking of

500
00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:52,960
Speaker 1: things that make us feel dirty and horrible, there's probably

501
00:26:52,960 --> 00:26:55,600
Speaker 1: something else I should bring up. I don't know that

502
00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:58,960
Speaker 1: I even want to, But Marylynn, I was excited to

503
00:26:58,960 --> 00:26:59,760
Speaker 1: have you here today.

504
00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:00,439
Speaker 3: Thank you.

505
00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:00,800
Speaker 1: I was.

506
00:27:00,960 --> 00:27:02,040
Speaker 3: I'm excited to be here.

507
00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:05,000
Speaker 1: I thought we would have a good time. Yeah, talk

508
00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:07,640
Speaker 1: about whatever we wanted and move on with our days. Yes,

509
00:27:07,800 --> 00:27:11,040
Speaker 1: the podcast is called I said No Gifts. Yes, so

510
00:27:11,160 --> 00:27:16,080
Speaker 1: I'll just say I was floored when you burst into

511
00:27:16,080 --> 00:27:20,920
Speaker 1: the studio. Yeah, you've, by your own admission, received about

512
00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:23,560
Speaker 1: a thousand emails about this podcast. I'm sure one of

513
00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:25,240
Speaker 1: them had the title, I.

514
00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:29,080
Speaker 3: Mean, everybody wants a gift. You're just when you say that,

515
00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:31,160
Speaker 3: you're just saying that you're.

516
00:27:31,040 --> 00:27:33,399
Speaker 1: Painting me to be a very materialistic person.

517
00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:35,560
Speaker 3: Right now, you're telling me you don't want the gift

518
00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:36,239
Speaker 3: I brought for you.

519
00:27:38,800 --> 00:27:40,480
Speaker 1: I'm not saying one thing or another.

520
00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:44,200
Speaker 3: Catching you in your own in your own game, and.

521
00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:46,760
Speaker 1: I will not be caught. I will leave the studio

522
00:27:46,800 --> 00:27:47,920
Speaker 1: before being caught.

523
00:27:48,080 --> 00:27:50,520
Speaker 3: Okay, you know what. I'm a guest here, and you're right.

524
00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:53,120
Speaker 3: It said no gifts, and I defined it. Okay, there,

525
00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:58,159
Speaker 3: you're right I did. I went against everything that you

526
00:27:58,280 --> 00:28:01,760
Speaker 3: think you want, everything you take a stand for, sneak

527
00:28:01,800 --> 00:28:05,720
Speaker 3: in the back door, and I'm saying you, wouldn't you

528
00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:07,679
Speaker 3: like to open a little gift. Wouldn't that make you

529
00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:08,240
Speaker 3: feel better?

530
00:28:08,640 --> 00:28:11,000
Speaker 1: Well? Maybe then should we open it here on the podcast.

531
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Speaker 3: I would love that so much. I'm going to get

532
00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:13,600
Speaker 3: the gift.

533
00:28:13,640 --> 00:28:19,000
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, great, wait, oh, it's right here. I was like,

534
00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:21,760
Speaker 1: where are you go down?

535
00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:22,399
Speaker 3: Fake stairs?

536
00:28:23,320 --> 00:28:31,640
Speaker 1: Away? Just vanish.

537
00:28:32,119 --> 00:28:33,920
Speaker 3: Okay, first of all, clearly this is a notebook. I

538
00:28:33,920 --> 00:28:34,919
Speaker 3: got one up for each of us.

539
00:28:34,960 --> 00:28:37,320
Speaker 1: Oh fantastic. Oh I'm excited to see where this hads.

540
00:28:37,359 --> 00:28:40,480
Speaker 3: So we can write everything we thought about this podcast

541
00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:41,200
Speaker 3: and a.

542
00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:43,880
Speaker 1: Nice to review. Okay, so it's in this brown paper bag,

543
00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:46,120
Speaker 1: and so should I take out the notebook first? Yeah?

544
00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:48,680
Speaker 3: Just take a notebook out. We all have a notebook.

545
00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:53,240
Speaker 1: We each have a seventy match notebooks, college ruled notebook.

546
00:28:53,280 --> 00:28:55,600
Speaker 1: Oh does that feel good? Kind of a bright blue color?

547
00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:56,720
Speaker 1: And now should I take this out?

548
00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:57,400
Speaker 3: Yeah?

549
00:28:57,560 --> 00:29:03,400
Speaker 1: Okay, we'll pull this. Oh I'm excited about this already.

550
00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:07,560
Speaker 1: It's a pair of white sox that I would describe

551
00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:10,520
Speaker 1: as a mid calf. Is that what this is? It's not.

552
00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:13,080
Speaker 3: It's the thing that's exciting. They're not short, and they're

553
00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:15,120
Speaker 3: not long, and they're from the liquor store.

554
00:29:16,120 --> 00:29:20,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's going to Why is the should should I

555
00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:22,680
Speaker 1: keep going here? Or should we talk about this first?

556
00:29:23,240 --> 00:29:25,360
Speaker 3: Let's let's talk about it.

557
00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:30,120
Speaker 1: This is, I would say, just upon looking at them immediately,

558
00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:32,160
Speaker 1: is probably the least flattering sock you can wear.

559
00:29:33,200 --> 00:29:35,240
Speaker 3: I know, so I agree.

560
00:29:35,680 --> 00:29:38,520
Speaker 1: I agree because it doesn't cover it. Like, maybe I

561
00:29:38,560 --> 00:29:39,880
Speaker 1: should put one on right now.

562
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Speaker 3: That'd be great, that'd be terrific. They're almost the right

563
00:29:43,440 --> 00:29:50,000
Speaker 3: length to be calves. E's right, it's the style of

564
00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:52,600
Speaker 3: sock I have on right now. But yeah, they're like

565
00:29:52,680 --> 00:29:53,600
Speaker 3: no brand.

566
00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:56,800
Speaker 1: Yours feels a little longer to me. I'll also say

567
00:29:56,800 --> 00:30:00,160
Speaker 1: that they're white socks but also are almost gray.

568
00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:04,800
Speaker 3: That's exciting. It's like a high Does that one look dirty?

569
00:30:05,440 --> 00:30:08,960
Speaker 1: Or maybe it's the lighting it. I mean, the majority

570
00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:12,080
Speaker 1: of the sock is meant for the foot rather than

571
00:30:12,080 --> 00:30:16,400
Speaker 1: the leg, like that foot ratio is shocking.

572
00:30:17,040 --> 00:30:20,840
Speaker 3: The texture looks like maybe a sink scrubber.

573
00:30:21,040 --> 00:30:23,440
Speaker 1: Oh this is actually worse than I imagine.

574
00:30:23,520 --> 00:30:27,280
Speaker 3: I thought it was better. Your foot fits in there perfectly. Wait,

575
00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:27,880
Speaker 3: why is it.

576
00:30:27,840 --> 00:30:31,520
Speaker 1: Work goes in? But what say about my legs length?

577
00:30:31,920 --> 00:30:34,080
Speaker 1: What do you do legwise with this?

578
00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:36,440
Speaker 3: But don't gloss over the foot.

579
00:30:36,560 --> 00:30:39,360
Speaker 1: You said that it was so big but perfect. This

580
00:30:39,440 --> 00:30:42,360
Speaker 1: is a Cinderella situation. Now what if you just.

581
00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:44,880
Speaker 3: Scrunch the top down and make it like a footy

582
00:30:45,000 --> 00:30:49,520
Speaker 3: with bonus? Oh, interesting footy with an extra. Yeah, that's terrible.

583
00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:51,880
Speaker 3: It's a terrible length of sopping.

584
00:30:51,840 --> 00:30:53,400
Speaker 1: My shoe, and we'll see how that looks.

585
00:30:53,840 --> 00:30:55,920
Speaker 3: But I think maybe the scrunch down is the way

586
00:30:55,960 --> 00:30:57,600
Speaker 3: to go to act like it's deliberate.

587
00:30:57,680 --> 00:30:59,800
Speaker 1: If I were in shorts, what would we think of me?

588
00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:00,440
Speaker 1: Right now?

589
00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:04,000
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie. That's cute, That's cute as hell.

590
00:31:05,440 --> 00:31:08,200
Speaker 1: This feels like if I were wearing like a slightly

591
00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:09,680
Speaker 1: below knee.

592
00:31:09,240 --> 00:31:12,360
Speaker 3: Skirt, which is what I'm doing right now. All right,

593
00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:14,920
Speaker 3: This feels like, look, I'm just making you dress like me.

594
00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:20,840
Speaker 1: I pull out a skirt next denim jacket. Yes, okay, yeah,

595
00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:22,680
Speaker 1: I wonder what at a last, do we have any

596
00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:26,160
Speaker 1: idea of what type of sock? This is called cru sock?

597
00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:28,680
Speaker 1: This is a cru sock, that's my guest. I've always

598
00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:30,360
Speaker 1: assumed a crusock was one of the ones that goes

599
00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:31,000
Speaker 1: onto your cat.

600
00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:33,440
Speaker 3: Now I see what you're saying. You're you're completely throwing

601
00:31:33,480 --> 00:31:35,560
Speaker 3: that sock under the bus, and you're doing it in

602
00:31:35,600 --> 00:31:38,120
Speaker 3: a reverse way by trying to uplift it and say,

603
00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:40,920
Speaker 3: what kind of suck is this? When you know, damn well,

604
00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:42,480
Speaker 3: it's a poorly made crew sock.

605
00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:44,960
Speaker 4: It looks like a krusock to me.

606
00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:45,880
Speaker 1: It's a crew sock.

607
00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:49,400
Speaker 3: You're trying to invent a different style of sock.

608
00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:51,880
Speaker 1: So what's the calf sock? What does that? What do

609
00:31:51,920 --> 00:31:52,320
Speaker 1: we call that?

610
00:31:52,440 --> 00:31:55,640
Speaker 3: Is a crew sock? This is a bastardized it's.

611
00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:59,480
Speaker 1: Just like a sty right, do you agree? I guessed.

612
00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:02,000
Speaker 1: So then there's like the one that goes up to

613
00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:06,080
Speaker 1: your that's a knee sock. Okay, Oh, that's a sweat sock, sweatsock.

614
00:32:06,760 --> 00:32:08,800
Speaker 1: But isn't there also sock?

615
00:32:10,840 --> 00:32:14,600
Speaker 3: Oh? A knee sock is what girls wear with their

616
00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:18,840
Speaker 3: school uniforms and their Mary Jane's sweatsock, same length, made

617
00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:21,800
Speaker 3: out of thicker materials, what basketball players in the seventies wear.

618
00:32:21,800 --> 00:32:24,479
Speaker 1: Right with a strip. So that's a classic song. That's

619
00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:27,000
Speaker 1: a classic you kind of that's timeless, And there's.

620
00:32:26,800 --> 00:32:29,440
Speaker 3: Different versions of that. They're not all not all sweat

621
00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:31,280
Speaker 3: socks are the same length. So maybe we just call

622
00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:34,560
Speaker 3: this a sweat sock. This is a sweets a it's

623
00:32:34,640 --> 00:32:35,560
Speaker 3: trying to be a crew.

624
00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:38,000
Speaker 4: Okay, So I actually think that what you have in

625
00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:41,600
Speaker 4: your possession is called a micro crew, a micro crew.

626
00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:45,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, you were right to give the dignity to the sock,

627
00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:48,200
Speaker 3: because there is a sock category called a mic C.

628
00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:51,480
Speaker 1: That feels new. I don't think we were calling this crew.

629
00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:54,120
Speaker 3: She didn't want the sock to feel bad.

630
00:32:55,400 --> 00:32:59,680
Speaker 1: On Alas is always thinking about the sock micro crew

631
00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:02,680
Speaker 1: interesting but my crow crew?

632
00:33:03,120 --> 00:33:05,400
Speaker 3: Wait, so then does that mean that the crew sock

633
00:33:05,560 --> 00:33:07,800
Speaker 3: is supposed to go up the calve? Do you have

634
00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:09,480
Speaker 3: a picture of a crew sock over there?

635
00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:12,480
Speaker 1: I feel like this is a cruise sock right here. Okay,

636
00:33:12,600 --> 00:33:18,080
Speaker 1: let me put this back on. The sock I came

637
00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:21,680
Speaker 1: into the studio is a gray crew.

638
00:33:22,840 --> 00:33:25,240
Speaker 3: I think I'm into the crew sock. For for many

639
00:33:25,360 --> 00:33:28,760
Speaker 3: a year, I wore footies because that was what was

640
00:33:28,800 --> 00:33:35,600
Speaker 3: available right in my hastily shopping at Target. Now I

641
00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:38,080
Speaker 3: go out of my way to get what the crew is.

642
00:33:38,280 --> 00:33:40,160
Speaker 3: I'm gonna say, is the best kind of sock.

643
00:33:41,360 --> 00:33:43,760
Speaker 1: Now we're looking, oh we have a hole? Oh wow,

644
00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:46,680
Speaker 1: looking at there's eight or nine different all of the

645
00:33:46,720 --> 00:33:50,240
Speaker 1: types of socks, and okay, socks by heart.

646
00:33:50,400 --> 00:33:50,880
Speaker 3: We go.

647
00:33:51,280 --> 00:33:52,600
Speaker 1: We have the no show hidden.

648
00:33:54,040 --> 00:33:54,880
Speaker 3: I'll get out of there.

649
00:33:56,360 --> 00:34:01,600
Speaker 1: Then the no show. So the no show is different

650
00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:04,959
Speaker 1: than the no show hidden, interestingly, okay, which doesn't make

651
00:34:05,000 --> 00:34:05,680
Speaker 1: a ton of sense.

652
00:34:05,720 --> 00:34:08,560
Speaker 3: So no show it's like it doesn't really not show

653
00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:09,279
Speaker 3: now bad sock.

654
00:34:09,440 --> 00:34:13,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, which is also I believe an ankle sock. I

655
00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:15,400
Speaker 1: think that's more of an ankle sock. I'll look at

656
00:34:15,400 --> 00:34:17,319
Speaker 1: the next one. Oh, then we've got the quarter.

657
00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:19,480
Speaker 3: Which is like a little bit over the ankle, which

658
00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:22,040
Speaker 3: is kind of hilarious because you're right. The second one

659
00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:23,680
Speaker 3: is more of a true ankle sock.

660
00:34:23,960 --> 00:34:24,160
Speaker 2: Right.

661
00:34:24,320 --> 00:34:27,640
Speaker 1: Then we get to our micro crew, our hero.

662
00:34:28,040 --> 00:34:31,680
Speaker 3: Then the crew where microstore sock is the micro crew.

663
00:34:31,840 --> 00:34:34,320
Speaker 1: I actually think I'm in a boot boot sock.

664
00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:39,760
Speaker 3: Or in a GD boot socks because there's so subtle

665
00:34:39,800 --> 00:34:40,560
Speaker 3: the differences.

666
00:34:40,880 --> 00:34:46,120
Speaker 1: I know, this feels unnecessary boot sock midcalf.

667
00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:49,920
Speaker 3: And also this is a it's not really I'd love

668
00:34:49,960 --> 00:34:52,279
Speaker 3: to see this. But then with just all the examples

669
00:34:52,280 --> 00:34:57,640
Speaker 3: in the world, oh right, right, like the seventies sock

670
00:34:57,680 --> 00:34:58,399
Speaker 3: we're talking about.

671
00:34:58,480 --> 00:35:00,359
Speaker 1: Yes, there are a bunch of other socks. It could

672
00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:04,600
Speaker 1: be on this diagram. Thigh highs Yeah, yeah, is that

673
00:35:04,640 --> 00:35:05,960
Speaker 1: a sock that's more of a boot?

674
00:35:07,120 --> 00:35:08,239
Speaker 3: I agree with you.

675
00:35:09,160 --> 00:35:15,799
Speaker 1: I'd like a thigh highs song just a white thought.

676
00:35:16,160 --> 00:35:21,320
Speaker 3: Crotch sock all the way up to the to the shoulder,

677
00:35:21,440 --> 00:35:22,360
Speaker 3: to this shoulder.

678
00:35:24,080 --> 00:35:27,040
Speaker 1: Okay, tell me why you brought these socks.

679
00:35:27,560 --> 00:35:31,200
Speaker 3: Well, I was going to the liquor store to get

680
00:35:31,239 --> 00:35:34,520
Speaker 3: another item that's in that bag, which was isn't meant

681
00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:38,520
Speaker 3: to be in the bag, and I saw them and

682
00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:45,120
Speaker 3: they looked cozy and nice, you know, like a nice

683
00:35:45,120 --> 00:35:45,800
Speaker 3: thing to touch.

684
00:35:46,120 --> 00:35:48,759
Speaker 1: It is a nice soft and this is a good

685
00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:54,160
Speaker 1: bed sock you're gonna put You're gonna wear those. There's cozy.

686
00:35:54,400 --> 00:35:56,680
Speaker 1: I'm always in need of new socks. We all do.

687
00:35:56,840 --> 00:35:58,960
Speaker 3: And that's a good feeling when you go into a

688
00:35:58,960 --> 00:36:01,560
Speaker 3: store that you don't expect will have anything and then

689
00:36:01,600 --> 00:36:03,719
Speaker 3: they're there and they just spoke to me.

690
00:36:04,320 --> 00:36:08,200
Speaker 1: A liquor store with socks. That's I mean, that's incredible.

691
00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:10,640
Speaker 1: Underwear too. They have a full clothing.

692
00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:13,680
Speaker 3: Section, no, like an underwear socks and underwear.

693
00:36:13,680 --> 00:36:15,719
Speaker 1: So that's for somebody whose life is a mess. Yeah,

694
00:36:15,920 --> 00:36:21,040
Speaker 1: something's going on and there that's not you yet.

695
00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:24,560
Speaker 3: That's not you when I picked that out for you.

696
00:36:25,440 --> 00:36:26,640
Speaker 1: It's a luxury sock.

697
00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:29,000
Speaker 3: That's how I thought of it. I go into the

698
00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:31,920
Speaker 3: liquor store and I think I didn't expect to see

699
00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:37,359
Speaker 3: this here. Yeah, it could very well for someone who

700
00:36:37,400 --> 00:36:40,680
Speaker 3: is in need. It functions in an Oh, thank god.

701
00:36:40,480 --> 00:36:43,279
Speaker 1: That's here, right, Oh, it socks.

702
00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:45,400
Speaker 3: And they were like five bucks, which I also thought

703
00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:46,560
Speaker 3: was a bargain. Great price.

704
00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:48,600
Speaker 1: Socks have gotten very expensive.

705
00:36:48,239 --> 00:36:50,239
Speaker 3: Because that's like three pairs of socks.

706
00:36:50,520 --> 00:36:53,759
Speaker 1: At least three pairs, right, yeah, and they can just

707
00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:56,880
Speaker 1: immediately go into my wardrobe. I've started doing more of

708
00:36:56,880 --> 00:36:57,680
Speaker 1: a neutral sock.

709
00:36:58,360 --> 00:36:59,959
Speaker 3: Oh this is great.

710
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:03,120
Speaker 1: I love this, great news. I was wearing kind of more,

711
00:37:03,239 --> 00:37:04,600
Speaker 1: you know, ones with designs for a lot of time,

712
00:37:04,640 --> 00:37:07,040
Speaker 1: and I haven't sworn them off, right, But a nice

713
00:37:07,080 --> 00:37:08,040
Speaker 1: gray or white sox.

714
00:37:07,920 --> 00:37:11,280
Speaker 3: For twenty twenty five into the neutral socks.

715
00:37:11,520 --> 00:37:13,759
Speaker 1: Yes, we need to have a nice neutral into it.

716
00:37:14,239 --> 00:37:14,879
Speaker 3: I'm into it.

717
00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:19,000
Speaker 1: Are you much of a sock person? I care?

718
00:37:19,680 --> 00:37:23,520
Speaker 3: I don't even want to get into it. I don't care,

719
00:37:23,640 --> 00:37:24,439
Speaker 3: but I do care.

720
00:37:24,600 --> 00:37:25,760
Speaker 1: I feel like you've got style.

721
00:37:26,840 --> 00:37:27,759
Speaker 3: I'd thank you.

722
00:37:27,800 --> 00:37:28,920
Speaker 1: I'd like to have style.

723
00:37:30,080 --> 00:37:33,759
Speaker 3: I'm forever throwing things away and starting over and then

724
00:37:33,840 --> 00:37:38,080
Speaker 3: not knowing and then not committing.

725
00:37:37,800 --> 00:37:39,520
Speaker 1: Right to a particular look.

726
00:37:40,120 --> 00:37:43,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, I have you. So then right now I'm just

727
00:37:43,920 --> 00:37:45,200
Speaker 3: doing the white cruise sock.

728
00:37:45,640 --> 00:37:46,920
Speaker 1: I think you're right on brand.

729
00:37:47,440 --> 00:37:48,200
Speaker 3: I'm into it.

730
00:37:48,520 --> 00:37:51,680
Speaker 1: You know, it's twenty twenty five. I've just declared you've

731
00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:53,360
Speaker 1: just declared neutral sock.

732
00:37:53,800 --> 00:37:56,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't think I can commit to I do

733
00:37:56,480 --> 00:37:59,120
Speaker 3: have some striped socks and some socks with things on them.

734
00:37:59,600 --> 00:38:02,719
Speaker 1: But when you have that then it has to really

735
00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:05,040
Speaker 1: be part of a particular look. That's right. You can't

736
00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:08,319
Speaker 1: just throw that on with anything. No, but I do

737
00:38:08,400 --> 00:38:08,560
Speaker 1: you know.

738
00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:11,319
Speaker 3: I will say I tend to wear the same pair

739
00:38:11,360 --> 00:38:13,439
Speaker 3: of black sweatpants every single day.

740
00:38:13,880 --> 00:38:16,799
Speaker 1: A fun sock will jass it up. That's true. Take

741
00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:17,360
Speaker 1: the neutral.

742
00:38:17,640 --> 00:38:19,919
Speaker 3: I would go the opposite. Instead of having a whole

743
00:38:20,120 --> 00:38:22,720
Speaker 3: outfit go with it. I will have a bland outfit.

744
00:38:22,640 --> 00:38:23,680
Speaker 1: And something to look at that.

745
00:38:23,719 --> 00:38:25,719
Speaker 3: It's also like I start getting my nails done. Oh

746
00:38:25,719 --> 00:38:29,000
Speaker 3: I like that color on my eyeliners, on my fingers,

747
00:38:30,120 --> 00:38:34,240
Speaker 3: Thank you so much. Because it also makes me seem

748
00:38:34,280 --> 00:38:36,359
Speaker 3: like I'm wearing an outfit right when I'm not.

749
00:38:36,600 --> 00:38:38,600
Speaker 1: It feels like a choice that you don't you don't

750
00:38:38,600 --> 00:38:39,239
Speaker 1: even have to make.

751
00:38:39,160 --> 00:38:43,000
Speaker 3: That it makes something fancy, like I'm dressed in shitty clothes.

752
00:38:43,040 --> 00:38:45,720
Speaker 3: And then it's like, wait a minute, she's got class.

753
00:38:45,760 --> 00:38:48,719
Speaker 1: Did you see that she buys socks at liquor store? Yeah,

754
00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:49,640
Speaker 1: what color is that?

755
00:38:49,640 --> 00:38:52,000
Speaker 3: That's a It's like a looks like a Barbie pink

756
00:38:52,160 --> 00:38:53,000
Speaker 3: bubblegum pink.

757
00:38:53,600 --> 00:38:56,719
Speaker 1: It's very bubblegum. I like it. Okay, should I get

758
00:38:56,719 --> 00:38:57,160
Speaker 1: back in here.

759
00:38:57,160 --> 00:38:59,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, let's get back in there. I'm really excited about

760
00:38:59,200 --> 00:38:59,680
Speaker 3: the gifts.

761
00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:06,040
Speaker 1: Oh, I'm thrilled. A nice trail mix, simply classic.

762
00:39:06,080 --> 00:39:08,719
Speaker 3: That's yeah. I couldn't eat it anymore.

763
00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:13,839
Speaker 1: It has absolutely been open, so I can just dive

764
00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:14,520
Speaker 1: in right now.

765
00:39:14,520 --> 00:39:16,040
Speaker 3: Absolutely has been open.

766
00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:18,160
Speaker 1: I love a good trail mix. Do you want some?

767
00:39:18,560 --> 00:39:21,520
Speaker 3: No, because I've had too much over the past three

768
00:39:21,560 --> 00:39:23,400
Speaker 3: four days. And I like to think my son was

769
00:39:23,440 --> 00:39:25,400
Speaker 3: going to get in there, but he he didn't. I

770
00:39:25,600 --> 00:39:27,239
Speaker 3: ate all the rest of that bag myself, so it's

771
00:39:27,239 --> 00:39:28,680
Speaker 3: time for you to do the rest of the work

772
00:39:28,719 --> 00:39:31,600
Speaker 3: for me. Please brand And.

773
00:39:31,520 --> 00:39:33,000
Speaker 1: It's great, It's very good.

774
00:39:33,080 --> 00:39:36,720
Speaker 3: It's not too salty. It's got a good casual almond ratio.

775
00:39:37,520 --> 00:39:42,520
Speaker 3: Gonna get get you an eminem in there. The filler

776
00:39:42,680 --> 00:39:46,600
Speaker 3: of trail mix. Of course, you gotta expect there's they're

777
00:39:46,600 --> 00:39:47,960
Speaker 3: gonna put too many. It's too easy.

778
00:39:48,080 --> 00:39:49,480
Speaker 1: It's the easiest thing to.

779
00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:53,480
Speaker 3: Throw the raisins in there. But I I'm excited for

780
00:39:53,520 --> 00:39:55,399
Speaker 3: you to eat the rest of this bag. And I'm

781
00:39:55,400 --> 00:39:57,040
Speaker 3: thrilled that you tried it right away.

782
00:39:57,320 --> 00:39:57,799
Speaker 1: I had to.

783
00:39:58,200 --> 00:39:58,560
Speaker 3: Yes.

784
00:39:58,719 --> 00:40:00,359
Speaker 1: The nice thing about a trail mixes it's a good

785
00:40:00,360 --> 00:40:01,520
Speaker 1: way to get your raisins in.

786
00:40:02,840 --> 00:40:08,239
Speaker 3: I've always said, gotta get more raisins in. It's fiber, right.

787
00:40:08,280 --> 00:40:11,280
Speaker 1: It's fiber, and by putting that little bit of salt

788
00:40:11,320 --> 00:40:13,080
Speaker 1: on it, it makes them much more tolerable.

789
00:40:13,239 --> 00:40:18,080
Speaker 3: Could you imagine what your parent being the one your

790
00:40:18,120 --> 00:40:22,400
Speaker 3: parent mom's only mom's pack lunches. Let's be real, that

791
00:40:22,480 --> 00:40:26,359
Speaker 3: puts the pack of raisins in there. Oh, I was

792
00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:29,319
Speaker 3: that mom for a moment you put in But I'm

793
00:40:29,360 --> 00:40:32,000
Speaker 3: not that mom. But I one day I was in

794
00:40:32,040 --> 00:40:33,960
Speaker 3: the grocery store and I was like, I'm gonna be

795
00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:36,000
Speaker 3: that mom. It didn't last very long, but I can

796
00:40:36,120 --> 00:40:42,160
Speaker 3: remember growing up. But who's your mom?

797
00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:46,920
Speaker 1: Why is your mom such a loser because of it?

798
00:40:46,920 --> 00:40:50,360
Speaker 3: It's like that a healthy It's not no, it's.

799
00:40:50,239 --> 00:40:53,600
Speaker 1: Not just another type of candy, except for if no

800
00:40:53,640 --> 00:40:54,560
Speaker 1: one likes to eat them.

801
00:40:54,840 --> 00:40:57,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what it was considered, is like a.

802
00:40:57,360 --> 00:41:00,879
Speaker 1: Healthy right of course. And then there was the crazy phenomenon.

803
00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:04,240
Speaker 3: They'll still see a crazin in a salad.

804
00:41:04,280 --> 00:41:07,160
Speaker 1: You find them in the salad, ye, when you're kind

805
00:41:07,160 --> 00:41:10,280
Speaker 1: of just chewing them up. Don't need it, don't add anything.

806
00:41:10,080 --> 00:41:14,520
Speaker 3: Don't put a crazin, don't put a I'm gonna go

807
00:41:14,600 --> 00:41:16,880
Speaker 3: back on that. I've had a kio salad with a crazin,

808
00:41:17,200 --> 00:41:20,120
Speaker 3: and it helps if the lettuce is more better.

809
00:41:20,480 --> 00:41:22,960
Speaker 1: Oh ad a little bit of sweetness or a little

810
00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:23,800
Speaker 1: extra something.

811
00:41:24,440 --> 00:41:27,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, I can't fully turn against fruit, but I would

812
00:41:27,719 --> 00:41:30,880
Speaker 3: say I'm ninety percent against fruit in a salad.

813
00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:32,879
Speaker 1: It's like, just make a good salad, don't put fruit,

814
00:41:33,000 --> 00:41:36,120
Speaker 1: Pick the right vegetables, please, thank you, and make a

815
00:41:36,160 --> 00:41:38,400
Speaker 1: good dressing. Throw a little cheese in there.

816
00:41:39,600 --> 00:41:43,040
Speaker 3: I'm not going to do it at home ever. I always, yeah,

817
00:41:43,040 --> 00:41:45,200
Speaker 3: I always try to make a salad and it's a bust.

818
00:41:46,600 --> 00:41:51,000
Speaker 3: This is terrible. I admire anyone who can make a true,

819
00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:52,240
Speaker 3: really good salad.

820
00:41:52,320 --> 00:41:54,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's interesting because it seems like it should be

821
00:41:54,280 --> 00:41:57,480
Speaker 1: easier and then you try. And I think making a

822
00:41:57,480 --> 00:42:02,000
Speaker 1: good salad requires be able to go all the way. Yes,

823
00:42:02,080 --> 00:42:04,080
Speaker 1: And when you're making something at home, you don't. You're

824
00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:06,160
Speaker 1: not interested in going all the way. You're not buying

825
00:42:06,239 --> 00:42:08,760
Speaker 1: all of the vegetables or chopping them up in the

826
00:42:08,800 --> 00:42:10,960
Speaker 1: way you should not. Then you end up kind of

827
00:42:10,960 --> 00:42:14,880
Speaker 1: with like the baby spinach and you can't slivered almonds

828
00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:15,680
Speaker 1: or something.

829
00:42:15,760 --> 00:42:20,080
Speaker 3: Exactly, and then boring, Wow, I got slivered almonds.

830
00:42:22,880 --> 00:42:26,080
Speaker 1: This trail mix to me, it always reminds me that

831
00:42:26,600 --> 00:42:29,920
Speaker 1: I'm shocked, especially now when all these companies companies are

832
00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:32,480
Speaker 1: doing a billion different flavors all the time with their products.

833
00:42:32,600 --> 00:42:35,640
Speaker 1: Why Eminem's hasn't done as salted M and M just

834
00:42:35,960 --> 00:42:40,200
Speaker 1: have a bag of Eminem's and they're coated in salt. Okay,

835
00:42:40,280 --> 00:42:42,320
Speaker 1: because an Eminem out of a trail mixing.

836
00:42:42,719 --> 00:42:45,360
Speaker 3: I mean, I like your ingenuity. I like you seem

837
00:42:45,440 --> 00:42:47,560
Speaker 3: like if you were the boss there, you'd be like,

838
00:42:47,719 --> 00:42:49,080
Speaker 3: make it happen by the end of the day. And

839
00:42:49,120 --> 00:42:52,960
Speaker 3: they're like our hard shell that we've been making since

840
00:42:53,080 --> 00:42:56,200
Speaker 3: nineteen hundred. You want us to just add salt to

841
00:42:56,280 --> 00:43:00,560
Speaker 3: that that sticks? You want us sick break the entire

842
00:43:01,080 --> 00:43:07,080
Speaker 3: recipe of Eminem's. Any Eminem always has the same shell.

843
00:43:07,200 --> 00:43:09,839
Speaker 1: What would it? Okay, hose them down and then throw

844
00:43:09,960 --> 00:43:10,680
Speaker 1: salt on them.

845
00:43:12,280 --> 00:43:15,160
Speaker 3: Wow, holos them down and get some salt on it.

846
00:43:15,200 --> 00:43:16,640
Speaker 1: By the end of the day, we get a garden

847
00:43:16,640 --> 00:43:20,279
Speaker 1: hose in the factory. That's all it would take and

848
00:43:20,640 --> 00:43:22,600
Speaker 1: like a bag of salt. Somebody kind of just.

849
00:43:23,280 --> 00:43:25,440
Speaker 3: At you right now. I'm not gonna lie. I got

850
00:43:25,480 --> 00:43:26,280
Speaker 3: a little bit angry.

851
00:43:26,360 --> 00:43:29,759
Speaker 1: You're mad because I thought of it first. And now

852
00:43:29,840 --> 00:43:31,680
Speaker 1: I'm going to be working up mars m and m

853
00:43:31,840 --> 00:43:34,440
Speaker 1: or whatever it's called, eminem mars with.

854
00:43:34,400 --> 00:43:38,640
Speaker 3: A bunch of melting salty colors all over your hair

855
00:43:38,760 --> 00:43:41,920
Speaker 3: stuck together, and we'll call them eminem clusters.

856
00:43:42,960 --> 00:43:45,320
Speaker 1: Okay, so this is us working as a sea and

857
00:43:45,360 --> 00:43:46,480
Speaker 1: now I'm bringing you on.

858
00:43:46,920 --> 00:43:49,080
Speaker 3: Maybe well, he's a raisin as part of the glue.

859
00:43:49,400 --> 00:43:51,040
Speaker 1: Interesting, Now we're going backwards.

860
00:43:51,080 --> 00:43:51,920
Speaker 3: We're going backwards.

861
00:43:52,040 --> 00:43:54,279
Speaker 1: That's interesting. I wonder if that's ever come up with

862
00:43:54,360 --> 00:43:57,799
Speaker 1: the company of trying to make a raisin eminem. Oh,

863
00:43:57,840 --> 00:43:59,920
Speaker 1: that sounds terrible, eminem with a hidden raisin.

864
00:44:00,040 --> 00:44:05,799
Speaker 3: I'm interested in a shape of a what do you

865
00:44:05,840 --> 00:44:06,239
Speaker 3: call that?

866
00:44:06,719 --> 00:44:11,520
Speaker 1: With like a cell with all the orbits.

867
00:44:11,760 --> 00:44:16,760
Speaker 3: Yes, thank you and Adam, because I'm also simultaneously thinking

868
00:44:16,760 --> 00:44:18,520
Speaker 3: of what will you want on the chalk Factory the

869
00:44:18,560 --> 00:44:21,920
Speaker 3: original where he's got that oh god like kind of

870
00:44:21,960 --> 00:44:25,040
Speaker 3: a shape. That'd be a fun right for a candy

871
00:44:25,120 --> 00:44:27,560
Speaker 3: to have offshoots.

872
00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:29,880
Speaker 1: Yes, have like a chocolate center with a little M

873
00:44:29,880 --> 00:44:30,759
Speaker 1: and M stuck.

874
00:44:30,520 --> 00:44:32,839
Speaker 3: On the house around to something now.

875
00:44:32,719 --> 00:44:34,440
Speaker 1: And then a pure raisin center.

876
00:44:36,200 --> 00:44:38,799
Speaker 3: You never want to get to the center. I wish

877
00:44:38,880 --> 00:44:40,040
Speaker 3: I didn't get to that center.

878
00:44:40,160 --> 00:44:43,400
Speaker 1: That's when you have to stop. Yeah, I do like

879
00:44:43,440 --> 00:44:45,120
Speaker 1: a raisinet. Do you like a raisinet?

880
00:44:45,960 --> 00:44:47,360
Speaker 3: You can't argue with a raisinet?

881
00:44:47,440 --> 00:44:49,040
Speaker 1: I mean, I love her pick a raisin.

882
00:44:49,239 --> 00:44:51,520
Speaker 3: Thank you, exactly. I'm right there with you.

883
00:44:51,560 --> 00:44:53,080
Speaker 1: But if I'm in a movie theater and a friend

884
00:44:53,120 --> 00:44:54,799
Speaker 1: has them and they shake it into my hand, I'll

885
00:44:54,840 --> 00:44:55,200
Speaker 1: eat one.

886
00:44:55,280 --> 00:44:55,959
Speaker 3: Yeah, they're fun.

887
00:44:56,120 --> 00:44:58,120
Speaker 1: It's probably the best version of a raisin.

888
00:44:58,200 --> 00:44:59,960
Speaker 3: It is cover it and damn chalk.

889
00:45:00,280 --> 00:45:02,280
Speaker 1: And then you never see a raisin in a salad,

890
00:45:02,320 --> 00:45:04,840
Speaker 1: although you see crasins. So I think that that's a

891
00:45:04,920 --> 00:45:07,600
Speaker 1: real clear there's something going on.

892
00:45:07,800 --> 00:45:09,600
Speaker 3: There's something happening with the raisin.

893
00:45:09,760 --> 00:45:11,719
Speaker 1: If someone gave me a raisin in a like a

894
00:45:11,800 --> 00:45:13,000
Speaker 1: lettuce salad.

895
00:45:12,880 --> 00:45:18,320
Speaker 3: The raisin needs some anti depressants because there's something sound

896
00:45:18,680 --> 00:45:19,400
Speaker 3: with the raisin.

897
00:45:19,960 --> 00:45:21,600
Speaker 1: Has a mood disorder.

898
00:45:22,080 --> 00:45:26,200
Speaker 3: You know, the poor raisin. It's it's not really going.

899
00:45:26,200 --> 00:45:30,200
Speaker 1: To change mind. Yeah, there's nothing they can do. There's

900
00:45:30,239 --> 00:45:32,000
Speaker 1: no it's got to be a frustrating business.

901
00:45:32,000 --> 00:45:33,360
Speaker 3: To be the yogurt raisin.

902
00:45:34,040 --> 00:45:38,720
Speaker 1: Oh, terrible, awful. I'd rather get a yogurt pretzel. Yogurt

903
00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:40,840
Speaker 1: pretzel there we go, which is essentially now just a

904
00:45:40,960 --> 00:45:44,640
Speaker 1: chocolate pretzel. Why am I not eating a chocolate pretzel?

905
00:45:44,840 --> 00:45:46,720
Speaker 1: But you can convince yourself.

906
00:45:46,800 --> 00:45:49,799
Speaker 3: What about those dark chocolate ones from uh Trader Joe's

907
00:45:49,880 --> 00:45:51,360
Speaker 3: Dark Chocolate Pretzels?

908
00:45:51,400 --> 00:45:53,680
Speaker 1: Oh, I have a bag in my cupboard right now.

909
00:45:53,680 --> 00:45:56,279
Speaker 1: Oh those delicious, so good. I don't buy them very

910
00:45:56,320 --> 00:46:00,759
Speaker 1: often because you can't. It's irresistible thing to rest. One

911
00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:03,400
Speaker 1: of the best things you can eat is a chocolate pretzel. Yes,

912
00:46:03,640 --> 00:46:07,120
Speaker 1: and it's the right, It's not too sweet. It's really

913
00:46:07,160 --> 00:46:11,160
Speaker 1: a perfect snack because it's a dark chocolate right, exactly,

914
00:46:11,360 --> 00:46:15,880
Speaker 1: so nice. That's the trick. Should I get back in here? Okay?

915
00:46:18,560 --> 00:46:19,520
Speaker 1: There for so many things.

916
00:46:19,800 --> 00:46:23,560
Speaker 3: I know, it's really it started ramping up towards the end.

917
00:46:25,080 --> 00:46:25,759
Speaker 1: Fantastic.

918
00:46:25,880 --> 00:46:28,040
Speaker 3: Okay, So that's the tape that I went into the

919
00:46:28,120 --> 00:46:30,840
Speaker 3: liquor store for which they did have, but I was

920
00:46:30,880 --> 00:46:32,839
Speaker 3: sitting in my car with eight minutes to get in here.

921
00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:35,440
Speaker 3: Try to open the tab and good luck, enjoy that

922
00:46:35,520 --> 00:46:37,840
Speaker 3: gift because you won't be able to actually open the

923
00:46:37,880 --> 00:46:40,879
Speaker 3: tape as I wasn't to finish wrapping the gift, which

924
00:46:40,880 --> 00:46:43,640
Speaker 3: I would have wrapped because I love a wrapping with tape.

925
00:46:44,480 --> 00:46:47,280
Speaker 3: Go ahead and try to even though there's a tab

926
00:46:47,400 --> 00:46:48,759
Speaker 3: with arrows on it.

927
00:46:49,160 --> 00:46:52,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh wow, this tape.

928
00:46:52,400 --> 00:46:54,719
Speaker 3: And I said, I'm done with you. This is now

929
00:46:54,760 --> 00:46:55,359
Speaker 3: part of the gift.

930
00:46:55,440 --> 00:46:59,640
Speaker 1: It's literally unopenable. This is we'll say it's a Basik product.

931
00:46:59,719 --> 00:47:01,600
Speaker 1: This is a basic take. And you see how I

932
00:47:01,680 --> 00:47:02,640
Speaker 1: ripped the top.

933
00:47:02,480 --> 00:47:04,440
Speaker 3: Off to try to get closer, to try to get

934
00:47:04,440 --> 00:47:05,279
Speaker 3: my hands in there.

935
00:47:05,880 --> 00:47:07,120
Speaker 1: It's like an animal got to this.

936
00:47:07,320 --> 00:47:11,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, have a version against packaging.

937
00:47:11,120 --> 00:47:11,800
Speaker 1: I've never seen that.

938
00:47:12,160 --> 00:47:16,040
Speaker 3: I enjoy wrapping the Basic brand. I wonder if that

939
00:47:16,080 --> 00:47:17,520
Speaker 3: your socks are also that brand.

940
00:47:18,080 --> 00:47:20,960
Speaker 1: It's a whole. It's like ACME or something. Let's see here,

941
00:47:22,000 --> 00:47:23,360
Speaker 1: this is impossible.

942
00:47:23,640 --> 00:47:24,360
Speaker 3: I've given you.

943
00:47:24,360 --> 00:47:27,200
Speaker 1: You have to exactly how I'm cutting at your fingers

944
00:47:27,239 --> 00:47:30,759
Speaker 1: when you're trying to get to it. Yes, I would

945
00:47:30,800 --> 00:47:32,640
Speaker 1: love to open this in front of you, though, just

946
00:47:32,680 --> 00:47:33,440
Speaker 1: to show you up.

947
00:47:33,480 --> 00:47:35,640
Speaker 3: I know I can feel it. I already know that's

948
00:47:35,640 --> 00:47:38,680
Speaker 3: what you're doing. And then you'd go, oh see, I

949
00:47:38,719 --> 00:47:41,600
Speaker 3: got it. But really what you meant is see I

950
00:47:41,640 --> 00:47:43,960
Speaker 3: got it and you did it, that's what you mean.

951
00:47:44,040 --> 00:47:46,000
Speaker 1: But it's unopened, worthless.

952
00:47:46,040 --> 00:47:48,279
Speaker 3: Now we're back on the same team of not being

953
00:47:48,320 --> 00:47:50,279
Speaker 3: able to open it, and you gave it more of

954
00:47:50,320 --> 00:47:51,680
Speaker 3: a chance than I did.

955
00:47:52,280 --> 00:47:58,560
Speaker 1: Wow, this is I cannot imagine. Yeah, the basic brand

956
00:47:58,920 --> 00:48:02,239
Speaker 1: is be a Z went on their way to.

957
00:48:04,080 --> 00:48:07,760
Speaker 3: That tab and it's but they didn't think to actually

958
00:48:07,800 --> 00:48:08,640
Speaker 3: make it a tab.

959
00:48:10,080 --> 00:48:13,560
Speaker 1: Wow, this is and I I really.

960
00:48:13,280 --> 00:48:15,239
Speaker 3: Think they made a tab that's not a real tab.

961
00:48:15,360 --> 00:48:18,440
Speaker 1: No, this is this thing with the arrows is meaningless.

962
00:48:18,600 --> 00:48:21,440
Speaker 1: That doesn't indicate anything. I wonder if you were to

963
00:48:22,360 --> 00:48:28,239
Speaker 1: dare I pull it completely open? Well, sure, we're gonnah,

964
00:48:28,280 --> 00:48:31,319
Speaker 1: and then you've missed the metal. Miss the metal. I

965
00:48:31,320 --> 00:48:33,480
Speaker 1: wonder if you can take this on an airplane. The

966
00:48:33,480 --> 00:48:36,320
Speaker 1: little edges there, that's.

967
00:48:36,160 --> 00:48:39,160
Speaker 3: My tape that I carry her out for a good luck.

968
00:48:40,080 --> 00:48:42,520
Speaker 1: That's yeah, Okay, I'm giving up. I mean, I will

969
00:48:42,560 --> 00:48:45,440
Speaker 1: say I'm usually not good at opening anything, you know,

970
00:48:45,640 --> 00:48:46,200
Speaker 1: like a jar.

971
00:48:46,360 --> 00:48:47,680
Speaker 3: Now I want to give it another try.

972
00:48:47,920 --> 00:48:48,760
Speaker 1: Try.

973
00:48:49,000 --> 00:48:52,239
Speaker 3: There's no way. You've just given it so many tries.

974
00:48:51,920 --> 00:48:54,440
Speaker 1: And you actually have nails able to think get some

975
00:48:54,560 --> 00:48:58,520
Speaker 1: traction there. I can feel the edge, but it just

976
00:48:58,760 --> 00:49:03,000
Speaker 1: is so it's barely there. It's ah, it's barely there,

977
00:49:03,160 --> 00:49:04,080
Speaker 1: hint of an edge.

978
00:49:05,840 --> 00:49:09,000
Speaker 3: I have cat eyeliner all over my fingers from crying

979
00:49:10,840 --> 00:49:16,759
Speaker 3: from crying about that book. Oh god, I can see it.

980
00:49:16,840 --> 00:49:17,759
Speaker 3: I can see the edge.

981
00:49:17,760 --> 00:49:19,560
Speaker 1: Shouldn't it be satisfying to get that open?

982
00:49:19,680 --> 00:49:22,239
Speaker 3: Yeah? It would. And maybe that's the purpose of this,

983
00:49:22,560 --> 00:49:26,439
Speaker 3: is to just let you not be satisfied and live

984
00:49:26,440 --> 00:49:27,439
Speaker 3: in that place of zen.

985
00:49:27,760 --> 00:49:29,680
Speaker 1: And I'll say that it looks like the liquor store

986
00:49:29,719 --> 00:49:31,880
Speaker 1: has put a price tag over a price tag. So

987
00:49:31,920 --> 00:49:33,600
Speaker 1: I wonder if that used to be more and they

988
00:49:33,600 --> 00:49:35,040
Speaker 1: were like, no one's gonna be able to open this.

989
00:49:35,880 --> 00:49:39,960
Speaker 1: Cut it the price in half. Wow, it's a useless product,

990
00:49:40,080 --> 00:49:43,040
Speaker 1: but almost a collector's item. Then that's something you can

991
00:49:43,080 --> 00:49:43,840
Speaker 1: put on a mantle.

992
00:49:43,960 --> 00:49:44,520
Speaker 3: That's right.

993
00:49:45,200 --> 00:49:46,960
Speaker 1: So what Paine that can never open?

994
00:49:47,680 --> 00:49:51,399
Speaker 3: It's a point of reflection, like a little sand those

995
00:49:52,000 --> 00:49:53,399
Speaker 3: meditation things.

996
00:49:53,840 --> 00:49:55,680
Speaker 1: Or it's like a stress ball or something. You could

997
00:49:55,719 --> 00:49:57,239
Speaker 1: have this in a meeting at a company. You can

998
00:49:57,360 --> 00:49:59,439
Speaker 1: just picking at it trying to get it open all day,

999
00:50:00,280 --> 00:50:04,440
Speaker 1: just stressing out. So walk me through this gift buying process.

1000
00:50:04,520 --> 00:50:06,640
Speaker 1: You got the trail mix.

1001
00:50:07,000 --> 00:50:09,640
Speaker 3: Okay, the trail mix, I almost brought in the bag

1002
00:50:09,719 --> 00:50:12,839
Speaker 3: of a variety of snacks that was in my car

1003
00:50:13,000 --> 00:50:15,880
Speaker 3: just to out myself, because I was like, this is great.

1004
00:50:16,040 --> 00:50:18,640
Speaker 3: I prefer to eat like this. It's probably. I had

1005
00:50:18,680 --> 00:50:21,719
Speaker 3: also from the Trader Joe's the cheese and crackers, the

1006
00:50:21,719 --> 00:50:22,600
Speaker 3: mini cheese and crackers.

1007
00:50:22,680 --> 00:50:24,920
Speaker 1: Oh, I've never had this talk about you.

1008
00:50:24,880 --> 00:50:27,480
Speaker 3: Want to go through the box as you start eating it,

1009
00:50:27,520 --> 00:50:31,080
Speaker 3: you want to get through the whole box. The dried mango, Oh,

1010
00:50:31,120 --> 00:50:33,399
Speaker 3: sure of course. Oh. I had a lot of Trader

1011
00:50:33,480 --> 00:50:36,480
Speaker 3: Joe's items. And then the pecans with the sweet and salty.

1012
00:50:36,719 --> 00:50:40,520
Speaker 1: Oh I love those, boy, or the sesame cashews. Have

1013
00:50:40,560 --> 00:50:41,040
Speaker 1: you had those?

1014
00:50:41,719 --> 00:50:45,480
Speaker 3: Yes? Not as often. I'll revisit those. Thank you for

1015
00:50:45,520 --> 00:50:47,600
Speaker 3: reminding me. I don't. I love a cashew, and I

1016
00:50:47,680 --> 00:50:50,520
Speaker 3: think I'm so I'm so partial towards the pecan that

1017
00:50:50,520 --> 00:50:51,480
Speaker 3: I've forgotten about the.

1018
00:50:51,480 --> 00:50:53,720
Speaker 1: Cast so interesting I've got to get I will revisit.

1019
00:50:53,960 --> 00:50:57,960
Speaker 3: Okay, So those are my three all. And then I

1020
00:50:58,040 --> 00:50:59,560
Speaker 3: also had a beef jerky, which I did not.

1021
00:50:59,719 --> 00:51:01,480
Speaker 1: I did notice the beef jerky in your bed, and

1022
00:51:01,520 --> 00:51:04,000
Speaker 1: I get that it's a brand name.

1023
00:51:04,120 --> 00:51:06,239
Speaker 3: This was all my breakfast and that those were all

1024
00:51:06,280 --> 00:51:08,560
Speaker 3: the items because I could mix and match.

1025
00:51:08,440 --> 00:51:10,719
Speaker 1: All the ways here saying you've got a little protein.

1026
00:51:11,239 --> 00:51:13,160
Speaker 3: And then I and then I said, I'm going to

1027
00:51:13,200 --> 00:51:14,960
Speaker 3: give this as a gift because I can't eat any

1028
00:51:15,000 --> 00:51:17,280
Speaker 3: more of that. It's it's too big of a bag

1029
00:51:17,320 --> 00:51:19,600
Speaker 3: for one person, and so to keep eating.

1030
00:51:19,920 --> 00:51:21,640
Speaker 1: Then you were at the Then you went to the

1031
00:51:21,640 --> 00:51:22,320
Speaker 1: liquor store.

1032
00:51:23,080 --> 00:51:24,760
Speaker 3: Oh, I went to the liquor store because I thought

1033
00:51:25,000 --> 00:51:27,280
Speaker 3: I'd love to wrap these and I have a few minutes.

1034
00:51:27,560 --> 00:51:28,960
Speaker 3: Let me see if they have tape. And they did,

1035
00:51:29,000 --> 00:51:34,320
Speaker 3: and here we are. There still is more than there's

1036
00:51:34,360 --> 00:51:36,960
Speaker 3: more in the bag that these are not even I

1037
00:51:37,000 --> 00:51:40,480
Speaker 3: think what you're getting item here, this is actually was

1038
00:51:40,520 --> 00:51:43,960
Speaker 3: the original actual gift. It's a real gift.

1039
00:51:44,280 --> 00:51:45,920
Speaker 1: This is an actual thing that I actually need to

1040
00:51:45,920 --> 00:51:48,960
Speaker 1: explain to me. Yeah, what is this? It seems like

1041
00:51:49,000 --> 00:51:52,160
Speaker 1: a mustache keychain is what my initial guess would be.

1042
00:51:52,200 --> 00:51:52,560
Speaker 3: Close.

1043
00:51:53,080 --> 00:51:55,719
Speaker 1: What is It's like a furry little First.

1044
00:51:55,480 --> 00:51:57,640
Speaker 3: Of all, it's made out of real steal skin.

1045
00:51:58,200 --> 00:52:02,359
Speaker 1: What Yeah.

1046
00:52:02,600 --> 00:52:06,160
Speaker 3: Second of all, I'm gonna start writing in your notebook

1047
00:52:06,200 --> 00:52:12,080
Speaker 3: about this. It's from Callowit, Nunavut, which is in the

1048
00:52:12,080 --> 00:52:16,440
Speaker 3: Canadian Arctic. Okay, you take a plane to Toronto, you

1049
00:52:16,440 --> 00:52:19,400
Speaker 3: take another plane to Ottawa. You get on an airline

1050
00:52:19,440 --> 00:52:24,399
Speaker 3: called Canadian North and you from Ottawa go another three

1051
00:52:24,480 --> 00:52:27,240
Speaker 3: hours north. This is from just outside the Arctic Circle.

1052
00:52:27,320 --> 00:52:29,600
Speaker 1: What Yeah, when were you there?

1053
00:52:29,880 --> 00:52:32,200
Speaker 3: I was there filming a TV show. See this is

1054
00:52:32,280 --> 00:52:35,560
Speaker 3: real coming in bring in the juice like that bitch

1055
00:52:35,600 --> 00:52:40,880
Speaker 3: talked about trail mix for twee in the car for

1056
00:52:40,880 --> 00:52:43,799
Speaker 3: forty minutes. Now I'm telling you about a TV show

1057
00:52:43,800 --> 00:52:44,680
Speaker 3: that I'm on that.

1058
00:52:44,600 --> 00:52:48,840
Speaker 1: We How long were you up there for?

1059
00:52:48,840 --> 00:52:51,840
Speaker 3: For three months? It's a show called North of North

1060
00:52:51,880 --> 00:52:54,920
Speaker 3: which has started to air in Canada and it's airing

1061
00:52:54,960 --> 00:52:57,759
Speaker 3: on Netflix, but it's coming out. If you go to

1062
00:52:57,840 --> 00:53:01,080
Speaker 3: my Instagram, you'll see I've like post about it because

1063
00:53:01,120 --> 00:53:02,800
Speaker 3: and I've started to post about it because it's airy

1064
00:53:02,800 --> 00:53:05,600
Speaker 3: in Canada and I will be doing more. It'll be

1065
00:53:05,600 --> 00:53:08,000
Speaker 3: on Netflix in the spring. They haven't given us a date,

1066
00:53:08,520 --> 00:53:11,799
Speaker 3: but yeah, really fantastic show. I'm really proud of it.

1067
00:53:11,840 --> 00:53:14,000
Speaker 3: I play the white lady on the show for you,

1068
00:53:14,200 --> 00:53:17,840
Speaker 3: and it's about an Inuit woman who is trying to

1069
00:53:17,880 --> 00:53:20,239
Speaker 3: break out of her shell because she's married to the

1070
00:53:20,320 --> 00:53:23,040
Speaker 3: like best seal hunter in the town. Everybody knows, everybody

1071
00:53:23,040 --> 00:53:25,239
Speaker 3: and she's trying to become herself.

1072
00:53:25,440 --> 00:53:27,040
Speaker 1: Yes, right, right.

1073
00:53:26,880 --> 00:53:31,160
Speaker 3: And I'm like the Karen gatekeeper, who's you know, sort

1074
00:53:31,160 --> 00:53:34,640
Speaker 3: of like, you don't know. Am I a terrible person?

1075
00:53:34,760 --> 00:53:37,239
Speaker 3: Am I a helper? Do we need each other? Am

1076
00:53:37,239 --> 00:53:39,719
Speaker 3: I a gatekeeper? Am I lifting her up? Am I?

1077
00:53:41,600 --> 00:53:41,799
Speaker 1: You know?

1078
00:53:41,880 --> 00:53:44,600
Speaker 3: Heartfelt but ignorant. It's a really cool part because it's

1079
00:53:44,640 --> 00:53:47,839
Speaker 3: not a straight up bitchy Karen. It's it's a Karen with.

1080
00:53:47,920 --> 00:53:50,960
Speaker 1: Like depth and Karen we all know and love.

1081
00:53:51,160 --> 00:53:54,680
Speaker 3: Thank you. And my character is married to an Inuit man,

1082
00:53:54,760 --> 00:53:57,239
Speaker 3: so I've lived in their culture for you know, over

1083
00:53:57,280 --> 00:53:59,960
Speaker 3: twenty years or whatever. But but yeah, it was really

1084
00:54:00,120 --> 00:54:00,600
Speaker 3: cool show.

1085
00:54:00,719 --> 00:54:02,320
Speaker 1: And what was it like living up there?

1086
00:54:02,760 --> 00:54:06,160
Speaker 3: It was it's it's wild, it's wild.

1087
00:54:06,320 --> 00:54:07,680
Speaker 1: Just freezing cold all the time.

1088
00:54:07,800 --> 00:54:10,279
Speaker 3: It's freezing cold all the time. I arrived in March

1089
00:54:10,320 --> 00:54:13,719
Speaker 3: and it was twenty below and by the beginning of

1090
00:54:13,800 --> 00:54:16,719
Speaker 3: June when I left, it was thirty two degrease bahrenheit

1091
00:54:17,239 --> 00:54:19,759
Speaker 3: And that's warm when it's thirty two or thirty three.

1092
00:54:20,320 --> 00:54:24,520
Speaker 1: And are you seeing like crazy wildlife, any sort of

1093
00:54:24,640 --> 00:54:26,799
Speaker 1: polar bear or anything like this?

1094
00:54:27,080 --> 00:54:30,479
Speaker 3: What they say is, you know, polar bear hasn't walked

1095
00:54:30,520 --> 00:54:34,000
Speaker 3: in town since nineteen sixty two or whatever. Oh interesting,

1096
00:54:34,080 --> 00:54:36,680
Speaker 3: it could happen, but it's not going to right. And

1097
00:54:36,719 --> 00:54:40,600
Speaker 3: also the way the landscape has sort of now, I

1098
00:54:40,600 --> 00:54:44,000
Speaker 3: can't remember if I think it's a combo of things,

1099
00:54:44,080 --> 00:54:47,040
Speaker 3: because there as soon as you land, you see seal hunters.

1100
00:54:47,040 --> 00:54:50,160
Speaker 3: There's a road where we were staying, and and there's

1101
00:54:50,160 --> 00:54:52,840
Speaker 3: a series of like inlets, so where we're staying is

1102
00:54:53,200 --> 00:54:57,440
Speaker 3: more flat and the city was developed by the military.

1103
00:54:58,719 --> 00:55:02,080
Speaker 3: And I can't remember why. I the polar bears were

1104
00:55:02,200 --> 00:55:07,360
Speaker 3: closer years ago, and now maybe just the landscape has shifted,

1105
00:55:07,400 --> 00:55:09,440
Speaker 3: so you have to go out a little further to

1106
00:55:09,480 --> 00:55:15,239
Speaker 3: do your ice fishing and your seal hunting. And yeah,

1107
00:55:15,280 --> 00:55:17,920
Speaker 3: I don't it's funny now. I don't know, because I've

1108
00:55:17,920 --> 00:55:19,640
Speaker 3: certainly met a lot of people that then go to

1109
00:55:19,640 --> 00:55:22,640
Speaker 3: the territories even outside of where we were. So where

1110
00:55:22,719 --> 00:55:24,359
Speaker 3: we were, it was like there's the town and then

1111
00:55:24,400 --> 00:55:28,920
Speaker 3: there's just a vast landscape, yes, right, And so a

1112
00:55:28,920 --> 00:55:30,399
Speaker 3: lot of people we met were like, oh, I'm from

1113
00:55:30,440 --> 00:55:34,360
Speaker 3: this territory that's even further And I kind of forgot

1114
00:55:34,400 --> 00:55:37,600
Speaker 3: how their frequency of if they're seeing polar bears on

1115
00:55:37,640 --> 00:55:41,160
Speaker 3: the rag interesting And I got to do a dog

1116
00:55:41,200 --> 00:55:42,120
Speaker 3: sled ride.

1117
00:55:42,200 --> 00:55:44,840
Speaker 1: I was curious about this. How was that experience?

1118
00:55:44,920 --> 00:55:47,239
Speaker 3: Incredible? Incredible?

1119
00:55:47,440 --> 00:55:49,360
Speaker 1: Is it? How fast are you going when these dogs

1120
00:55:49,360 --> 00:55:50,800
Speaker 1: are pulling you?

1121
00:55:50,800 --> 00:55:54,480
Speaker 3: You it's very deceiving because you're sitting there and it

1122
00:55:54,560 --> 00:55:57,640
Speaker 3: doesn't look like it's fast. And then they tell you, hey,

1123
00:55:57,719 --> 00:56:00,759
Speaker 3: hop off the back and you try to run and

1124
00:56:00,800 --> 00:56:05,799
Speaker 3: it's like, oh like you it's it's really hard and

1125
00:56:05,840 --> 00:56:07,280
Speaker 3: you feel like you're gonna fall on your face.

1126
00:56:07,360 --> 00:56:07,960
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

1127
00:56:08,160 --> 00:56:10,120
Speaker 3: Then you have to run and catch up and jump

1128
00:56:10,160 --> 00:56:12,840
Speaker 3: back on the sleds. Yeah, they're they're they're hauling.

1129
00:56:12,960 --> 00:56:14,799
Speaker 1: And how many dogs are pulling you at once?

1130
00:56:15,400 --> 00:56:16,920
Speaker 3: I think eight or something?

1131
00:56:18,480 --> 00:56:19,000
Speaker 1: Interesting?

1132
00:56:19,480 --> 00:56:19,680
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1133
00:56:20,440 --> 00:56:24,960
Speaker 1: Was it frightening? Do you feel in control of the dogs? Like? Oh,

1134
00:56:25,120 --> 00:56:27,600
Speaker 1: I saw you were a passenger? Or were you the driver?

1135
00:56:27,840 --> 00:56:29,759
Speaker 3: Yeah? No, no, no, we're not the driver? No no,

1136
00:56:30,000 --> 00:56:34,480
Speaker 3: what did they call that? The the mush musher Ours

1137
00:56:34,680 --> 00:56:38,440
Speaker 3: was led by a dad and then his daughter. I

1138
00:56:38,440 --> 00:56:41,960
Speaker 3: think there was one other person helping. So you arrive,

1139
00:56:42,160 --> 00:56:45,120
Speaker 3: you pull up and you can see them far away,

1140
00:56:45,120 --> 00:56:47,919
Speaker 3: so you've parked, and then you walk down, you trek down.

1141
00:56:48,520 --> 00:56:51,320
Speaker 3: I mean it's all there's no trees, so it's all ice.

1142
00:56:51,440 --> 00:56:54,279
Speaker 3: So you walk down a little embankment and then you

1143
00:56:54,320 --> 00:56:56,680
Speaker 3: get down and all the dogs. There was two teams

1144
00:56:56,760 --> 00:57:00,960
Speaker 3: and they're just chilling sitting outside. They never go inside.

1145
00:57:01,040 --> 00:57:05,480
Speaker 3: These huskies wore wild animals, but yet you are allowed

1146
00:57:05,480 --> 00:57:09,640
Speaker 3: to go up and touch them just like they're they're

1147
00:57:09,680 --> 00:57:10,399
Speaker 3: like dogs, but.

1148
00:57:10,440 --> 00:57:12,760
Speaker 1: Like like very close to their answers.

1149
00:57:12,920 --> 00:57:16,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, they're kind of wild, so you're like, oh, it's

1150
00:57:16,160 --> 00:57:18,480
Speaker 3: like they're not scary, but they're a little bit like

1151
00:57:19,040 --> 00:57:21,400
Speaker 3: if you had a wild dog that was just running

1152
00:57:21,400 --> 00:57:25,320
Speaker 3: into you really and it was kind of stinky, you know,

1153
00:57:26,120 --> 00:57:28,200
Speaker 3: although it was cold seat or like kind of like

1154
00:57:28,240 --> 00:57:31,760
Speaker 3: a little dirty, you know, maybe maybe.

1155
00:57:31,480 --> 00:57:31,760
Speaker 2: They have.

1156
00:57:34,000 --> 00:57:37,600
Speaker 3: Squiggled around in some seal guts or something, who knows,

1157
00:57:38,480 --> 00:57:40,320
Speaker 3: who knows. No, they were clean. I don't know. I

1158
00:57:40,360 --> 00:57:42,160
Speaker 3: don't know why I'm going down that road. They're they're

1159
00:57:42,160 --> 00:57:45,080
Speaker 3: outdoor dogs. They were very very clean and well kept

1160
00:57:45,120 --> 00:57:48,680
Speaker 3: by their owners. And then and that's their job. And uh,

1161
00:57:49,240 --> 00:57:52,640
Speaker 3: we had the daughter taking us, so we both had sleds.

1162
00:57:52,680 --> 00:57:56,640
Speaker 3: I mean, it's a total tourist thing, but this is

1163
00:57:56,680 --> 00:57:59,640
Speaker 3: their real team of dogs that has been carried down

1164
00:57:59,720 --> 00:58:03,520
Speaker 3: through tradition, so they do use the dogs to go

1165
00:58:03,560 --> 00:58:08,160
Speaker 3: out on the land for whatever run errands.

1166
00:58:08,240 --> 00:58:08,919
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1167
00:58:09,000 --> 00:58:12,160
Speaker 3: So yeah, we're passengers and then the daughters in front

1168
00:58:12,160 --> 00:58:14,320
Speaker 3: of us and it's me and one other person.

1169
00:58:14,840 --> 00:58:16,280
Speaker 1: That's how big the little sled is.

1170
00:58:16,800 --> 00:58:18,439
Speaker 3: And then there's a kind of a ledge and it's

1171
00:58:18,480 --> 00:58:21,120
Speaker 3: just you know, by a ledge on the back you

1172
00:58:21,160 --> 00:58:24,760
Speaker 3: can stand. And then a person goes in front of

1173
00:58:24,840 --> 00:58:27,040
Speaker 3: us on a snowmobile just to you know.

1174
00:58:27,000 --> 00:58:30,120
Speaker 1: Because it's sure just to show off, just to.

1175
00:58:30,040 --> 00:58:33,880
Speaker 3: Show off and be in communication with the other.

1176
00:58:34,240 --> 00:58:35,480
Speaker 1: There aren't any dangers.

1177
00:58:35,600 --> 00:58:38,240
Speaker 3: Oh no, I know what it is. We then you

1178
00:58:38,360 --> 00:58:40,680
Speaker 3: ride the snowmobile back, so you sweach.

1179
00:58:41,560 --> 00:58:42,000
Speaker 1: Interesting.

1180
00:58:42,040 --> 00:58:43,200
Speaker 3: That's that's how big.

1181
00:58:43,040 --> 00:58:43,680
Speaker 1: Our group was.

1182
00:58:43,720 --> 00:58:47,200
Speaker 3: So depending on your group, you couldn't. Yeah, and then

1183
00:58:47,240 --> 00:58:49,200
Speaker 3: you get this sled on the way back. But it's

1184
00:58:49,240 --> 00:58:50,760
Speaker 3: I mean, it's an all day Where do.

1185
00:58:50,720 --> 00:58:55,360
Speaker 1: You go just further out in the Arctic that's the thing.

1186
00:58:55,480 --> 00:58:59,800
Speaker 3: Wow, that's the thing that was so amazing because you're

1187
00:59:00,320 --> 00:59:05,920
Speaker 3: your eyes. It's such a vast nothingness that you can't avoid. Yeah,

1188
00:59:06,320 --> 00:59:07,680
Speaker 3: a really beautiful void.

1189
00:59:07,960 --> 00:59:08,440
Speaker 1: Wow.

1190
00:59:08,600 --> 00:59:09,360
Speaker 3: I loved it.

1191
00:59:09,400 --> 00:59:12,080
Speaker 1: And did you have to like bundle up completely?

1192
00:59:12,360 --> 00:59:13,040
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1193
00:59:13,200 --> 00:59:14,840
Speaker 1: What are you crazy?

1194
00:59:16,480 --> 00:59:19,920
Speaker 3: I mean it ended up being fine, but going into it,

1195
00:59:19,960 --> 00:59:23,080
Speaker 3: this was probably the most worried about bundling up. I

1196
00:59:23,280 --> 00:59:25,400
Speaker 3: was the whole trip, just because it's like, then you

1197
00:59:25,400 --> 00:59:27,040
Speaker 3: get out there and what if I'm a big baby

1198
00:59:27,040 --> 00:59:30,479
Speaker 3: and I'm like I'm getting frost bit and you can't

1199
00:59:30,520 --> 00:59:32,800
Speaker 3: like there's nothing you could do. Yeah, every other place

1200
00:59:33,000 --> 00:59:37,040
Speaker 3: I was there was some type of escape, and you

1201
00:59:37,120 --> 00:59:39,440
Speaker 3: definitely are out in the elements. But you know that

1202
00:59:40,920 --> 00:59:42,760
Speaker 3: I knew how to do it by that time. You

1203
00:59:42,760 --> 00:59:44,280
Speaker 3: have a certain amount of socks.

1204
00:59:44,560 --> 00:59:46,880
Speaker 1: Do they bring up picnic? What are you eating out there?

1205
00:59:47,520 --> 00:59:47,880
Speaker 3: Nothing?

1206
00:59:48,160 --> 00:59:52,400
Speaker 1: Nothing, you'd bring your own snacks. Did you bring a

1207
00:59:52,440 --> 00:59:52,919
Speaker 1: trail mix?

1208
00:59:52,960 --> 00:59:53,680
Speaker 3: What did you bring? Yeah?

1209
00:59:53,680 --> 00:59:57,120
Speaker 1: I think we had a We had a bar and

1210
00:59:57,160 --> 00:59:58,200
Speaker 1: a little bit of water.

1211
00:59:58,320 --> 01:00:01,160
Speaker 3: But that's on you. That's where your brain went.

1212
01:00:02,280 --> 01:00:06,560
Speaker 1: Of course, I'm wondering what was happening the lunch situation.

1213
01:00:07,240 --> 01:00:08,560
Speaker 1: But then you come back at night.

1214
01:00:09,200 --> 01:00:12,960
Speaker 3: No, I okay, I was exaggerating. It was probably a

1215
01:00:13,000 --> 01:00:16,760
Speaker 3: lot of lies. No one lie all. I mean, I

1216
01:00:16,800 --> 01:00:20,360
Speaker 3: get And I wasn't even lying all day for a

1217
01:00:20,720 --> 01:00:22,800
Speaker 3: for going straight out into the Arctic.

1218
01:00:23,440 --> 01:00:28,080
Speaker 1: Okay, in this place, the story is falling apart as

1219
01:00:28,120 --> 01:00:28,720
Speaker 1: we speak.

1220
01:00:29,000 --> 01:00:30,840
Speaker 3: It may have been four hours.

1221
01:00:30,920 --> 01:00:32,240
Speaker 1: Four hours, that's a long time.

1222
01:00:32,600 --> 01:00:33,040
Speaker 3: It is.

1223
01:00:33,080 --> 01:00:35,040
Speaker 1: It is in the middle of it is nothing.

1224
01:00:35,360 --> 01:00:36,440
Speaker 3: It really is. Wow.

1225
01:00:36,720 --> 01:00:38,360
Speaker 1: I don't know if I could do it. I don't

1226
01:00:38,360 --> 01:00:40,840
Speaker 1: know how strong. I appreciate that.

1227
01:00:40,920 --> 01:00:44,720
Speaker 3: And you will look in that notebook. There's a ticket.

1228
01:00:45,240 --> 01:00:47,520
Speaker 3: This trail mix is for you out on the sled.

1229
01:00:48,840 --> 01:00:51,200
Speaker 3: That tape is what's going to keep you on the sled.

1230
01:00:51,440 --> 01:00:54,400
Speaker 1: You get into a weapon, yeah, defend myself out.

1231
01:00:54,520 --> 01:00:59,200
Speaker 3: Keychain is for the keys and keep you warm the

1232
01:00:59,320 --> 01:01:02,600
Speaker 3: ski do Yeah, you're gonna get on your hog and

1233
01:01:02,640 --> 01:01:06,760
Speaker 3: take your skidoo out on on on the trail and

1234
01:01:07,480 --> 01:01:11,240
Speaker 3: get yourself some seal to feed the whole family. And

1235
01:01:11,240 --> 01:01:14,120
Speaker 3: by the way, it's instantly normal when you land the

1236
01:01:14,280 --> 01:01:14,920
Speaker 3: seal hunting.

1237
01:01:15,040 --> 01:01:16,520
Speaker 1: Oh, it's just if I try to tell people.

1238
01:01:16,560 --> 01:01:19,360
Speaker 3: But I was in such a immersed in the culture

1239
01:01:19,480 --> 01:01:21,400
Speaker 3: that when I came back, I wanted I kind of

1240
01:01:21,440 --> 01:01:23,440
Speaker 3: wanted to share this profound thing. And a lot of

1241
01:01:23,440 --> 01:01:28,200
Speaker 3: people are just like they're interested, and then they're like, no, no.

1242
01:01:28,160 --> 01:01:28,720
Speaker 1: It's hard to.

1243
01:01:30,200 --> 01:01:34,000
Speaker 3: In yeah. Right, And if you say something like seal

1244
01:01:34,080 --> 01:01:36,959
Speaker 3: hunting in La, if you even say that phrase.

1245
01:01:36,640 --> 01:01:38,200
Speaker 1: It's a tough thing to hear out loud.

1246
01:01:38,840 --> 01:01:41,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, you don't want to say that out loud, but

1247
01:01:41,600 --> 01:01:44,640
Speaker 3: when you're there, you just immediately are like, oh, this is.

1248
01:01:44,880 --> 01:01:48,200
Speaker 1: This is what they've done culture right.

1249
01:01:47,640 --> 01:01:50,720
Speaker 3: Centuries and this is how they sustain and will feed

1250
01:01:50,840 --> 01:01:52,040
Speaker 3: up family.

1251
01:01:51,960 --> 01:01:54,360
Speaker 1: Right with every part of the seal. It's not a

1252
01:01:54,440 --> 01:01:58,120
Speaker 1: Cruella de Ville situation. That's what you're going to start

1253
01:01:59,040 --> 01:02:05,440
Speaker 1: exactly way. But now I do own you're going, yes, seals.

1254
01:02:05,920 --> 01:02:07,800
Speaker 1: What is a pelt seal?

1255
01:02:09,160 --> 01:02:13,200
Speaker 3: Fur? Oh, and the shape of that is an ulu

1256
01:02:13,360 --> 01:02:15,560
Speaker 3: and so the top it's just the design, but the

1257
01:02:16,200 --> 01:02:22,320
Speaker 3: real thing is a tool that's like a knife for everything. Yeah,

1258
01:02:22,360 --> 01:02:24,480
Speaker 3: and it's a very sharp blade. And so they'll have

1259
01:02:24,680 --> 01:02:29,200
Speaker 3: their frozen caribou is like their sushi. So you can

1260
01:02:29,200 --> 01:02:31,880
Speaker 3: get the carcass and you're cutting little slivers off of

1261
01:02:31,880 --> 01:02:33,720
Speaker 3: that and dipping it in soy sauce.

1262
01:02:33,760 --> 01:02:34,400
Speaker 1: Did you eat that?

1263
01:02:34,880 --> 01:02:35,480
Speaker 3: I sure did.

1264
01:02:35,640 --> 01:02:37,840
Speaker 1: How was it? It was not bad?

1265
01:02:38,240 --> 01:02:40,560
Speaker 3: It definitely has like a bit of an aftertaste, which

1266
01:02:40,640 --> 01:02:44,640
Speaker 3: I could see, not unlike sushi. Once you get used

1267
01:02:44,680 --> 01:02:47,560
Speaker 3: to the taste, you start to crave it. I did

1268
01:02:47,560 --> 01:02:50,360
Speaker 3: not get to that point with it. And then there

1269
01:02:50,400 --> 01:02:53,560
Speaker 3: was one day because we had quite a few casts

1270
01:02:53,600 --> 01:02:56,360
Speaker 3: and crew, well all the crewmember most of the crew

1271
01:02:56,400 --> 01:03:01,120
Speaker 3: members that are from there or I'm a different territory

1272
01:03:01,200 --> 01:03:04,520
Speaker 3: and one of the ladies you know on the WhatsApp

1273
01:03:04,600 --> 01:03:06,880
Speaker 3: she said, well, I have Walworths if you want to,

1274
01:03:07,600 --> 01:03:10,840
Speaker 3: and I just I was like I can't. Whatever was

1275
01:03:10,880 --> 01:03:12,680
Speaker 3: going on with me that day, I was just like,

1276
01:03:12,920 --> 01:03:15,960
Speaker 3: I'm not ready. And then I never got the chance

1277
01:03:16,760 --> 01:03:17,919
Speaker 3: to do that again.

1278
01:03:18,320 --> 01:03:21,280
Speaker 1: Right, I don't entirely blame you. That's the thing you

1279
01:03:21,320 --> 01:03:22,960
Speaker 1: have to, I think, prepare for mentally.

1280
01:03:23,600 --> 01:03:26,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, I wasn't prepared. I should have been because I

1281
01:03:26,480 --> 01:03:27,520
Speaker 3: had been there for a while.

1282
01:03:27,600 --> 01:03:32,080
Speaker 1: But sure, but maybe just wasn't for it that day.

1283
01:03:32,200 --> 01:03:33,680
Speaker 1: Sometimes you're not in the mood for a reason.

1284
01:03:34,440 --> 01:03:38,240
Speaker 3: I'm in my room with my trail mix Walrus.

1285
01:03:38,320 --> 01:03:42,080
Speaker 1: Wow. Okay, Well, I'm thrilled to have this. I feel

1286
01:03:42,160 --> 01:03:45,080
Speaker 1: like I'm gonna get red paint thrown on me. Pete's

1287
01:03:45,120 --> 01:03:47,320
Speaker 1: coming for me. Don't tell anybody what it is. It's

1288
01:03:47,360 --> 01:03:51,280
Speaker 1: our secret. It's our little secret. This will all be

1289
01:03:51,600 --> 01:03:54,200
Speaker 1: edited out the last half hour of the podcast.

1290
01:03:54,560 --> 01:03:57,480
Speaker 3: You know, if somebody is a fan of the podcast

1291
01:03:57,560 --> 01:04:02,400
Speaker 3: and they want to find you and throw red paint

1292
01:04:02,440 --> 01:04:06,160
Speaker 3: on you, good for them. Yeah, then that's.

1293
01:04:06,440 --> 01:04:12,800
Speaker 1: That's somebody with a real they've got something, passion, hobby,

1294
01:04:14,160 --> 01:04:16,400
Speaker 1: It's ultimately a hobby.

1295
01:04:15,800 --> 01:04:19,720
Speaker 3: I want to believe that people that have heard about

1296
01:04:19,720 --> 01:04:22,360
Speaker 3: that on this podcast right now will respect.

1297
01:04:22,640 --> 01:04:23,960
Speaker 1: I think so absolutely.

1298
01:04:24,040 --> 01:04:27,840
Speaker 3: And then for the ones that don't, you just lie

1299
01:04:28,320 --> 01:04:33,600
Speaker 3: and say, oh, it's not real, seal skin? Are you crazy?

1300
01:04:34,080 --> 01:04:35,040
Speaker 1: Who do you think I am?

1301
01:04:35,200 --> 01:04:38,840
Speaker 3: Who do you? Who are you? And who do you

1302
01:04:38,920 --> 01:04:42,240
Speaker 3: think I am? And how dare you you pull one

1303
01:04:42,240 --> 01:04:47,280
Speaker 3: of those? Just right back at you. You know, I'm

1304
01:04:47,280 --> 01:04:50,200
Speaker 3: gonna a cone of my own energy.

1305
01:04:52,080 --> 01:04:56,680
Speaker 1: Yes, people.

1306
01:04:59,000 --> 01:05:01,360
Speaker 3: Go the opposite way, make them accept that.

1307
01:05:01,320 --> 01:05:06,400
Speaker 1: It, yeah, exactly, kind of force them into my polue system, which,

1308
01:05:06,520 --> 01:05:10,560
Speaker 1: by way of me visit the Arctic. Respect.

1309
01:05:11,840 --> 01:05:12,160
Speaker 3: Wow.

1310
01:05:12,240 --> 01:05:14,440
Speaker 1: Wow, Wow, Well, is there anything left we should say

1311
01:05:14,440 --> 01:05:18,920
Speaker 1: about this? It's so soft, isn't it. Yeah, it's unbelievably so.

1312
01:05:19,160 --> 01:05:21,280
Speaker 3: There's a lot left on the table. But I feel

1313
01:05:21,360 --> 01:05:22,360
Speaker 3: we've said enough.

1314
01:05:22,360 --> 01:05:26,280
Speaker 1: Said enough. We should play a game. Then, Okay, we're

1315
01:05:26,280 --> 01:05:28,680
Speaker 1: gonna play a game called Gift You're a curse. I

1316
01:05:28,720 --> 01:05:32,120
Speaker 1: need a number between one and ten from you to

1317
01:05:32,160 --> 01:05:33,440
Speaker 1: say out loud, yeah.

1318
01:05:33,240 --> 01:05:35,080
Speaker 3: You're not gonna pull my card or anything.

1319
01:05:35,440 --> 01:05:39,520
Speaker 1: This becomes all right? Okay. I have to use that

1320
01:05:39,600 --> 01:05:42,160
Speaker 1: number to do some light calculating to get our game pieces.

1321
01:05:42,480 --> 01:05:45,120
Speaker 1: So right now you can promote, recommend to whatever you want.

1322
01:05:45,160 --> 01:05:45,919
Speaker 1: I'll be right back.

1323
01:05:46,440 --> 01:05:50,680
Speaker 3: Hey everybody, my name's Marylyn mis Cup. I'd like to

1324
01:05:50,680 --> 01:05:56,439
Speaker 3: promote Kroger Trail makes. Try it out. It's pretty cool.

1325
01:05:56,560 --> 01:06:00,280
Speaker 3: It's yet M and M's almonds cash us. I think

1326
01:06:00,320 --> 01:06:02,240
Speaker 3: I think we've already covered that. Don't really need to

1327
01:06:02,280 --> 01:06:07,280
Speaker 3: plug that. But please please find me on social media.

1328
01:06:08,120 --> 01:06:11,840
Speaker 3: If you follow me on TikTok, maybe TikTok will be saved.

1329
01:06:12,360 --> 01:06:16,760
Speaker 3: Think about it like that. Maybe they'll say, oh, Marylyn's

1330
01:06:16,840 --> 01:06:20,280
Speaker 3: just starting to get followers. We're going to reverse the

1331
01:06:20,400 --> 01:06:24,040
Speaker 3: ruling and we're gonna keep TikTok. We're not afraid of

1332
01:06:24,080 --> 01:06:26,040
Speaker 3: the Chinese. There are friends.

1333
01:06:27,640 --> 01:06:29,640
Speaker 1: TikTok. By the time this is released, I guess will

1334
01:06:29,680 --> 01:06:30,080
Speaker 1: be done.

1335
01:06:30,240 --> 01:06:33,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, I sure will. I know, as I was saying that,

1336
01:06:33,280 --> 01:06:36,240
Speaker 3: I realized, I mean, it's on, it's on like Donkey

1337
01:06:36,320 --> 01:06:39,520
Speaker 3: Kong in like two days from now or something.

1338
01:06:39,880 --> 01:06:43,400
Speaker 1: Unless some horrible person here bies it, that very well

1339
01:06:43,440 --> 01:06:43,920
Speaker 1: could happen.

1340
01:06:44,080 --> 01:06:46,520
Speaker 3: What a world that we live in, We really don't

1341
01:06:46,560 --> 01:06:50,480
Speaker 3: know like that could happen. Oh yeah, and also I

1342
01:06:50,520 --> 01:06:53,040
Speaker 3: don't even understand.

1343
01:06:52,640 --> 01:06:57,200
Speaker 1: How how they buy a tour now? How sorry?

1344
01:06:57,320 --> 01:07:00,439
Speaker 3: How is this a thing with the Supreme Court? Aren't

1345
01:07:00,480 --> 01:07:05,600
Speaker 3: there multiple other ways that we're getting disinformation and we're

1346
01:07:05,640 --> 01:07:08,240
Speaker 3: getting a cat from other countries?

1347
01:07:08,520 --> 01:07:09,960
Speaker 1: Facebook? Instagram?

1348
01:07:10,520 --> 01:07:13,640
Speaker 3: Well that's our that's our own. We're doing it to ourselves.

1349
01:07:13,720 --> 01:07:15,960
Speaker 1: Well, but all these countries are also vulnerable.

1350
01:07:16,080 --> 01:07:19,560
Speaker 3: So how is it this big stand against TikTok. It's

1351
01:07:19,600 --> 01:07:23,680
Speaker 3: like none of this is regulated and we're getting by

1352
01:07:23,840 --> 01:07:27,680
Speaker 3: bots all the time, So how is this It seems

1353
01:07:27,720 --> 01:07:31,680
Speaker 3: like we're this is where we lose. We're humans going,

1354
01:07:32,000 --> 01:07:34,280
Speaker 3: we're going to pass a law on this. It's like

1355
01:07:34,400 --> 01:07:34,960
Speaker 3: it's done.

1356
01:07:35,000 --> 01:07:38,120
Speaker 1: It's not gonna protect everybody. Half of our brains are gone.

1357
01:07:39,680 --> 01:07:44,640
Speaker 3: Half of everything I watch is built by Russia, half

1358
01:07:44,680 --> 01:07:49,480
Speaker 3: of the emotional tie I have to anything I see online?

1359
01:07:49,760 --> 01:07:52,480
Speaker 3: Did you see on Instagram? They're like, we're going to

1360
01:07:52,560 --> 01:07:56,240
Speaker 3: start this was a couple of weeks ago, putting AI.

1361
01:07:56,760 --> 01:08:03,480
Speaker 1: Users like immediately like racist caricatures of people for.

1362
01:08:03,520 --> 01:08:05,640
Speaker 3: Things that you like that'll make you feel good.

1363
01:08:06,600 --> 01:08:07,160
Speaker 1: That's dark.

1364
01:08:07,720 --> 01:08:10,280
Speaker 3: It's so dark, So that's what it's going to be.

1365
01:08:12,120 --> 01:08:16,360
Speaker 1: It simply doesn't solve any problem. There was no one

1366
01:08:16,479 --> 01:08:20,439
Speaker 1: was hoping to have a computer friend. No one, that's

1367
01:08:20,479 --> 01:08:21,360
Speaker 1: just like based.

1368
01:08:21,040 --> 01:08:24,320
Speaker 3: On Hey, it's better for comedy, am I right? Come

1369
01:08:24,400 --> 01:08:32,639
Speaker 3: see me comedy somewhere else? I can't remember. You got

1370
01:08:32,640 --> 01:08:34,400
Speaker 3: a full roster.

1371
01:08:35,479 --> 01:08:37,240
Speaker 1: Okay, this is how we play Gift or a Curse.

1372
01:08:37,280 --> 01:08:39,560
Speaker 1: I'm gonna name three things and then you tell me

1373
01:08:39,600 --> 01:08:42,080
Speaker 1: if they are a gift or a curse and why,

1374
01:08:42,600 --> 01:08:43,920
Speaker 1: and then I'll tell you if you're right or wrong.

1375
01:08:43,960 --> 01:08:47,080
Speaker 1: Because there are correct answers, you can lose, you can

1376
01:08:47,080 --> 01:08:49,320
Speaker 1: also win. You can also be in between and be

1377
01:08:49,400 --> 01:08:51,840
Speaker 1: kind of just feel bad for the rest of the day.

1378
01:08:51,960 --> 01:08:53,320
Speaker 1: So be careful.

1379
01:08:53,360 --> 01:08:55,240
Speaker 3: You're urging me to make a strong choice.

1380
01:08:55,520 --> 01:08:58,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, just be can mess up the name, Okay, I'll

1381
01:08:58,000 --> 01:09:03,000
Speaker 1: be careful of warning. Okay, does that feel pretty clear

1382
01:09:03,000 --> 01:09:03,200
Speaker 1: to you?

1383
01:09:03,400 --> 01:09:03,679
Speaker 3: Yes?

1384
01:09:04,280 --> 01:09:09,000
Speaker 1: I mean, who why? There's been a lot of red

1385
01:09:09,040 --> 01:09:12,320
Speaker 1: flags with me. There's been a lot of red flags.

1386
01:09:12,560 --> 01:09:14,000
Speaker 1: I've been we've been coming up to this game, and

1387
01:09:14,040 --> 01:09:16,280
Speaker 1: I thought this might not get like she.

1388
01:09:16,200 --> 01:09:20,360
Speaker 3: Couldn't get through world literature or a reading comprehension test

1389
01:09:21,600 --> 01:09:24,120
Speaker 3: the author of the book she's reading right now.

1390
01:09:25,920 --> 01:09:27,960
Speaker 1: They let her really spell out.

1391
01:09:27,760 --> 01:09:29,080
Speaker 3: The rule die.

1392
01:09:30,400 --> 01:09:33,920
Speaker 1: Okay. This first one is from a listener named Emily.

1393
01:09:34,000 --> 01:09:36,880
Speaker 1: The suggestion is gift her a curse. You're taking a

1394
01:09:36,880 --> 01:09:39,559
Speaker 1: photo of your family when a stranger offers to take

1395
01:09:39,600 --> 01:09:41,640
Speaker 1: the photo for you so you can be in the

1396
01:09:41,680 --> 01:09:47,280
Speaker 1: picture too. Curse why fuck you?

1397
01:09:48,360 --> 01:09:52,160
Speaker 3: Micromanagement? Oh you think I want to be in the picture.

1398
01:09:52,840 --> 01:09:55,599
Speaker 3: I'm against that. I'm against the group picture in general.

1399
01:09:56,479 --> 01:09:59,080
Speaker 3: Just leave me alone.

1400
01:10:00,280 --> 01:10:05,799
Speaker 1: Correct curse pervert alerts say out of our family's business.

1401
01:10:05,880 --> 01:10:09,160
Speaker 3: Yes, I didn't go quite so far as pervert, but yes,

1402
01:10:09,680 --> 01:10:10,360
Speaker 3: right there with you.

1403
01:10:10,520 --> 01:10:12,720
Speaker 1: We don't know you. Also, you might be bad at

1404
01:10:12,760 --> 01:10:15,080
Speaker 1: taking pictures, and then we're stuck with your bad photo.

1405
01:10:15,560 --> 01:10:18,880
Speaker 1: There's no element of this that we could trust. They

1406
01:10:18,960 --> 01:10:19,840
Speaker 1: might take the phone.

1407
01:10:21,080 --> 01:10:24,360
Speaker 3: Run how fast can you run? Yes, exactly my phone.

1408
01:10:24,840 --> 01:10:27,320
Speaker 1: I don't want you anywhere near me or my family.

1409
01:10:27,320 --> 01:10:29,360
Speaker 3: That'd be kind of cool if somebody did it and

1410
01:10:29,400 --> 01:10:32,400
Speaker 3: then just threw it over the bridge. Now you have

1411
01:10:32,479 --> 01:10:36,400
Speaker 3: a memory of your phone in the Thames Thames.

1412
01:10:37,240 --> 01:10:39,439
Speaker 1: That's I support that great?

1413
01:10:40,560 --> 01:10:41,519
Speaker 3: How great would that be?

1414
01:10:42,240 --> 01:10:44,120
Speaker 1: You would talk about that for the rest of your life.

1415
01:10:44,240 --> 01:10:46,519
Speaker 3: And you know what, I wouldn't even press charges because

1416
01:10:46,520 --> 01:10:50,800
Speaker 3: it too much work. I'd be like, give me your ID,

1417
01:10:51,479 --> 01:10:54,680
Speaker 3: let me call the police. Like what it'd be like

1418
01:10:55,960 --> 01:10:59,080
Speaker 3: pissed and then all your rage. Yeah, and you would

1419
01:10:59,080 --> 01:11:01,680
Speaker 3: come together as a You think a photo's gonna make

1420
01:11:01,680 --> 01:11:02,280
Speaker 3: you come together?

1421
01:11:02,680 --> 01:11:06,080
Speaker 1: No, this is a common animate Yes, who has shocked

1422
01:11:06,080 --> 01:11:09,599
Speaker 1: you and thrown away your device, Thank you and probably

1423
01:11:09,640 --> 01:11:10,920
Speaker 1: helped you. That'd be great.

1424
01:11:11,640 --> 01:11:14,680
Speaker 3: More people, just takes and rivers.

1425
01:11:16,160 --> 01:11:19,840
Speaker 1: We need this straight into the Grand Canyon. Yes, okay,

1426
01:11:19,880 --> 01:11:22,679
Speaker 1: well you got one right so far, very good. Number

1427
01:11:22,680 --> 01:11:25,360
Speaker 1: two this is from a listener named Mark. Gift or

1428
01:11:25,400 --> 01:11:28,519
Speaker 1: a curse unpacking boxes you forgot about for a year

1429
01:11:28,600 --> 01:11:33,439
Speaker 1: after you moved. Oh curse, why throw it away? You

1430
01:11:33,560 --> 01:11:34,519
Speaker 1: forgot about it?

1431
01:11:34,520 --> 01:11:38,960
Speaker 3: It's done, goodbye.

1432
01:11:38,280 --> 01:11:40,200
Speaker 1: Curse wrong.

1433
01:11:40,840 --> 01:11:46,360
Speaker 3: No, oh you're going to open it and get sentimental. Oh,

1434
01:11:46,400 --> 01:11:49,719
Speaker 3: here's the tape I could never open. Here's the trail mags,

1435
01:11:51,000 --> 01:11:53,599
Speaker 3: here's the sealskin keychain.

1436
01:11:54,280 --> 01:11:57,599
Speaker 1: It's a gift. Well, these are great gifts.

1437
01:11:57,800 --> 01:12:00,000
Speaker 3: This is an excellent every gift I gave you.

1438
01:12:00,160 --> 01:12:02,320
Speaker 1: Everything you gave me is I will be selling me.

1439
01:12:02,520 --> 01:12:06,360
Speaker 1: I'll be getting on Craigslist and listening ebaying these things.

1440
01:12:06,640 --> 01:12:08,280
Speaker 1: Bag half bag of trail makes Now.

1441
01:12:08,320 --> 01:12:09,720
Speaker 3: I put my heart in this gift and you.

1442
01:12:09,720 --> 01:12:13,400
Speaker 1: Know it absolutely, And you went above and beyond. You

1443
01:12:13,400 --> 01:12:14,759
Speaker 1: even tried to open the tape.

1444
01:12:15,720 --> 01:12:19,599
Speaker 3: But these fails, we both have a notebook to reflect,

1445
01:12:20,000 --> 01:12:21,120
Speaker 3: reflect together.

1446
01:12:21,560 --> 01:12:26,200
Speaker 1: Remember, but you you did lose this point. It's a

1447
01:12:26,240 --> 01:12:29,200
Speaker 1: gift to unpack a box you forgot about a year. Okay,

1448
01:12:29,280 --> 01:12:32,360
Speaker 1: you might you know your life is being shifted in

1449
01:12:32,479 --> 01:12:35,519
Speaker 1: all new ways. Maybe it's dragging you back into the past.

1450
01:12:37,200 --> 01:12:38,360
Speaker 1: What's an experience.

1451
01:12:38,439 --> 01:12:43,360
Speaker 3: It's like you're coming to my side. See, you can't

1452
01:12:43,400 --> 01:12:46,519
Speaker 3: even say you're you know that. You know that's not good.

1453
01:12:46,600 --> 01:12:49,599
Speaker 3: As you're saying it, you're like, go back into the path.

1454
01:12:49,800 --> 01:12:55,200
Speaker 1: Boo when any racket you lost and you're thinking, I.

1455
01:12:55,160 --> 01:12:57,320
Speaker 3: Look like, let me get her off the You know

1456
01:12:57,479 --> 01:13:01,440
Speaker 3: I did go through a box of photos.

1457
01:13:01,880 --> 01:13:03,719
Speaker 1: Okay, now you're coming to my side.

1458
01:13:03,960 --> 01:13:06,120
Speaker 3: I am. I don't know if it was worth it.

1459
01:13:06,800 --> 01:13:11,800
Speaker 3: Maybe my child, but yeah maybe. And then there was

1460
01:13:11,800 --> 01:13:15,080
Speaker 3: a bunch of pictures the nineties, super nostalgic. But also

1461
01:13:15,439 --> 01:13:16,480
Speaker 3: but why.

1462
01:13:16,320 --> 01:13:19,400
Speaker 1: Because you gotta have that on occasion, a little taste

1463
01:13:19,400 --> 01:13:21,800
Speaker 1: of nostalgia. You need to have it on occasion. I'm

1464
01:13:21,840 --> 01:13:26,439
Speaker 1: back on your side, okay, number three.

1465
01:13:26,360 --> 01:13:27,679
Speaker 3: You know that's mostly a curse.

1466
01:13:27,760 --> 01:13:31,760
Speaker 1: Though you're not getting me, You will not get me.

1467
01:13:34,720 --> 01:13:39,200
Speaker 3: That's a real hard line. That was unnecessary and hurtful.

1468
01:13:40,880 --> 01:13:43,479
Speaker 1: Okay. Number three This is from a listener name to

1469
01:13:43,600 --> 01:13:46,400
Speaker 1: Rachel Gift for a curse when a child actor is

1470
01:13:46,439 --> 01:13:47,840
Speaker 1: replaced in a TV show.

1471
01:13:51,360 --> 01:13:57,559
Speaker 3: My investment level in that is low. You know I'm

1472
01:13:57,600 --> 01:14:01,360
Speaker 3: gonna go curse. I feel like I'm I'm gonna go curse.

1473
01:14:01,600 --> 01:14:03,240
Speaker 3: I feel like you're gonna go the opposite way.

1474
01:14:03,320 --> 01:14:05,160
Speaker 1: You just have kind of no feeling about it.

1475
01:14:05,400 --> 01:14:08,720
Speaker 3: No, I'm gonna say curse because that if they are

1476
01:14:08,880 --> 01:14:11,720
Speaker 3: replacing that actor, that means they fed up in the

1477
01:14:11,760 --> 01:14:15,760
Speaker 3: first place, and that the show is already tanking and

1478
01:14:15,840 --> 01:14:21,599
Speaker 3: they think firing a child is going to make it better. No, sir, no,

1479
01:14:21,680 --> 01:14:23,320
Speaker 3: you don't do that, or the or the kid has

1480
01:14:23,439 --> 01:14:28,160
Speaker 3: changed their look or aged out. You're done right to

1481
01:14:28,920 --> 01:14:33,240
Speaker 3: be a better writer. Make the child get lost and

1482
01:14:33,320 --> 01:14:38,840
Speaker 3: never come back. That's better and I'm correct and I'm

1483
01:14:38,880 --> 01:14:39,920
Speaker 3: correct wrong.

1484
01:14:40,760 --> 01:14:44,320
Speaker 1: Sorry, No, Gift. I love when the child gets replaced.

1485
01:14:45,040 --> 01:14:47,200
Speaker 1: They should be replacing the child every scene like they

1486
01:14:47,200 --> 01:14:50,960
Speaker 1: do with dogs. I think that the child, just like you,

1487
01:14:50,960 --> 01:14:55,320
Speaker 1: should be so disoriented by this casting. I'm back children

1488
01:14:55,320 --> 01:14:57,240
Speaker 1: out of the studio, bring the next one in.

1489
01:14:57,320 --> 01:15:01,240
Speaker 3: You're right, I'm wrong, and I will also, that's very funny.

1490
01:15:01,560 --> 01:15:06,320
Speaker 1: Madmen classic show. They replaced the Bobby Don Draper's son

1491
01:15:06,320 --> 01:15:07,960
Speaker 1: got play so many times.

1492
01:15:07,960 --> 01:15:08,360
Speaker 3: That's right.

1493
01:15:08,400 --> 01:15:09,360
Speaker 1: There was always a little something.

1494
01:15:09,640 --> 01:15:12,320
Speaker 3: I don't even remember that. That's how much you're correct.

1495
01:15:12,479 --> 01:15:16,439
Speaker 1: The original one was. Then with children, they all look

1496
01:15:16,520 --> 01:15:16,960
Speaker 1: the same.

1497
01:15:18,120 --> 01:15:19,600
Speaker 3: They're interchangeable.

1498
01:15:19,920 --> 01:15:23,320
Speaker 1: They're all just little clones, little annoying clones. You can

1499
01:15:23,360 --> 01:15:27,080
Speaker 1: throw them in there, I say, replace them as often

1500
01:15:27,120 --> 01:15:30,080
Speaker 1: as possible, even with camera changes. Let's say you know

1501
01:15:30,120 --> 01:15:35,800
Speaker 1: it's just a new child, a gift. You got one

1502
01:15:35,840 --> 01:15:36,400
Speaker 1: out of three?

1503
01:15:37,520 --> 01:15:40,000
Speaker 3: What no, I got two out of three? You're wrong

1504
01:15:40,040 --> 01:15:40,360
Speaker 3: about that?

1505
01:15:40,520 --> 01:15:42,080
Speaker 1: You got one out of three? You can.

1506
01:15:43,880 --> 01:15:46,439
Speaker 3: You're incorrect and you know it in your heart, moving

1507
01:15:46,439 --> 01:15:47,599
Speaker 3: on in your heart.

1508
01:15:49,040 --> 01:15:51,519
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, honlys do you have your thing?

1509
01:15:52,000 --> 01:15:52,840
Speaker 3: I do? I do?

1510
01:15:53,080 --> 01:15:59,560
Speaker 1: Okay? Is this is holysts one round of PA like

1511
01:15:59,640 --> 01:16:03,559
Speaker 1: your boy and at least has a great voice onals

1512
01:16:03,640 --> 01:16:05,760
Speaker 1: is going to present one that neither of us is

1513
01:16:05,760 --> 01:16:07,120
Speaker 1: going to do, and we're going to both try and

1514
01:16:07,120 --> 01:16:09,840
Speaker 1: then they're going to give us the correct answer. So

1515
01:16:09,880 --> 01:16:10,760
Speaker 1: what are we talking about here?

1516
01:16:10,760 --> 01:16:14,240
Speaker 4: Onal's well, earlier Bridger, you mentioned that you were in

1517
01:16:14,280 --> 01:16:17,960
Speaker 4: need of a shower, So this is about when you shower,

1518
01:16:18,080 --> 01:16:20,800
Speaker 4: so gift or a curse? Showering at night.

1519
01:16:21,600 --> 01:16:24,760
Speaker 1: I'll speak to this. I think it's a gift. I

1520
01:16:24,800 --> 01:16:29,000
Speaker 1: think showering at night is so wonderful. It feels great

1521
01:16:29,720 --> 01:16:32,639
Speaker 1: after a long, disgusting day to be in the shower

1522
01:16:33,360 --> 01:16:37,519
Speaker 1: cleaning yourself off, and then you're relaxed. It's not like

1523
01:16:37,560 --> 01:16:39,639
Speaker 1: the morning shower where you have to end it quickly.

1524
01:16:40,200 --> 01:16:41,760
Speaker 1: You can hop in there and it's more of a

1525
01:16:42,240 --> 01:16:46,920
Speaker 1: let's we're just relaxing. We're not going back to work.

1526
01:16:47,080 --> 01:16:49,840
Speaker 1: We're getting into bed and keeping our sheets clean. I

1527
01:16:49,840 --> 01:16:51,680
Speaker 1: don't do it that often, though, it's more of a

1528
01:16:51,720 --> 01:16:53,479
Speaker 1: little treat the same.

1529
01:16:54,640 --> 01:16:55,320
Speaker 3: It's a gift.

1530
01:16:55,760 --> 01:16:56,519
Speaker 1: Am I the same?

1531
01:16:56,600 --> 01:16:57,880
Speaker 3: I don't do it often either.

1532
01:16:58,640 --> 01:16:59,920
Speaker 1: You probably do it more often.

1533
01:17:00,080 --> 01:17:02,360
Speaker 3: We do it tonight and then when we get in bed,

1534
01:17:02,439 --> 01:17:03,240
Speaker 3: right in our notebook.

1535
01:17:03,479 --> 01:17:05,800
Speaker 1: Oh that's great. But I think there are people who

1536
01:17:05,840 --> 01:17:08,120
Speaker 1: will only shower at night. But I have to do both.

1537
01:17:09,000 --> 01:17:11,559
Speaker 1: I can't start a day without showering, So then am

1538
01:17:11,600 --> 01:17:14,160
Speaker 1: I being wasteful if I'm doing double showers.

1539
01:17:14,200 --> 01:17:16,360
Speaker 3: I've started a day without showering.

1540
01:17:16,560 --> 01:17:19,120
Speaker 1: Never in my life.

1541
01:17:18,280 --> 01:17:20,160
Speaker 3: Are you someone who will get up and get ready

1542
01:17:20,200 --> 01:17:20,760
Speaker 3: no matter what.

1543
01:17:21,080 --> 01:17:23,920
Speaker 1: Almost make your bed and get dressed. Yes, even like

1544
01:17:24,040 --> 01:17:27,000
Speaker 1: during early COVID, I was like, I would get up.

1545
01:17:27,040 --> 01:17:29,960
Speaker 3: That's really smart. I aspire to be you, and I

1546
01:17:30,000 --> 01:17:33,240
Speaker 3: would like to I would like to invite myself back

1547
01:17:33,280 --> 01:17:37,320
Speaker 3: on the podcast. And at some point, and when you

1548
01:17:37,360 --> 01:17:41,240
Speaker 3: invite me back, you say, have you started getting dressed

1549
01:17:41,720 --> 01:17:43,480
Speaker 3: in something other than sweatpants?

1550
01:17:43,720 --> 01:17:46,360
Speaker 1: That'll be a life check in. Yeah, I'm going to

1551
01:17:46,400 --> 01:17:48,200
Speaker 1: call you in the middle of another episode, or.

1552
01:17:48,120 --> 01:17:51,400
Speaker 3: Am I excommunicating? Just tell me I don't even better

1553
01:17:51,720 --> 01:17:55,000
Speaker 3: care absolutely, and then then I'll do that to cover up.

1554
01:17:55,000 --> 01:17:55,680
Speaker 3: I don't even care.

1555
01:17:58,280 --> 01:18:00,280
Speaker 1: No, It's very rare that I'm in a I mean

1556
01:18:00,280 --> 01:18:02,120
Speaker 1: there are days every once in a while I'm in

1557
01:18:02,120 --> 01:18:05,760
Speaker 1: a robe until eleven thirty. But okay, for the most part.

1558
01:18:06,000 --> 01:18:07,160
Speaker 3: Saying that, for.

1559
01:18:07,000 --> 01:18:09,439
Speaker 1: The most part, I'm like, I feel just better and

1560
01:18:09,479 --> 01:18:12,000
Speaker 1: ready to go, even despite the fact that I rarely

1561
01:18:12,040 --> 01:18:12,720
Speaker 1: have anything to do.

1562
01:18:12,800 --> 01:18:16,080
Speaker 3: Ever, and what pont are you putting on? Like a gene?

1563
01:18:16,120 --> 01:18:18,840
Speaker 1: A gene, I will say. On the other side of

1564
01:18:18,880 --> 01:18:21,479
Speaker 1: the day, though, I used to wear jeans up until

1565
01:18:21,520 --> 01:18:23,519
Speaker 1: I went to bed. I would wear my full day's

1566
01:18:23,520 --> 01:18:26,200
Speaker 1: outfit until I was done watching TV and everything. Then

1567
01:18:26,200 --> 01:18:28,560
Speaker 1: I would switch into pajamas. And I've only in the

1568
01:18:28,600 --> 01:18:30,880
Speaker 1: last couple of years allowed myself to be like, Okay,

1569
01:18:30,880 --> 01:18:34,120
Speaker 1: I'm not going out. It's time. Like we're at the

1570
01:18:34,120 --> 01:18:36,000
Speaker 1: point of the day where I'm in the house. Put

1571
01:18:36,000 --> 01:18:40,760
Speaker 1: on something more comfortable, something slightly more relaxing. Okay. I

1572
01:18:40,760 --> 01:18:42,840
Speaker 1: don't know why I had to be ready to go

1573
01:18:43,200 --> 01:18:45,000
Speaker 1: until the very last minute of my day.

1574
01:18:45,120 --> 01:18:46,479
Speaker 3: That sounds healthy.

1575
01:18:47,479 --> 01:18:51,400
Speaker 1: You're watching TV in a pair of like dark blue

1576
01:18:51,439 --> 01:18:52,520
Speaker 1: jeans and a tuxedo.

1577
01:18:54,320 --> 01:18:56,639
Speaker 3: Secret Lives of Mormon, Oh.

1578
01:18:56,439 --> 01:18:58,880
Speaker 1: My god, I mean this podcast could go for another

1579
01:18:58,880 --> 01:19:00,920
Speaker 1: two hours. You bring up that don't start?

1580
01:19:01,040 --> 01:19:03,680
Speaker 3: Don't start. I heard you talking about it, and I did.

1581
01:19:03,720 --> 01:19:04,599
Speaker 3: I dipped in there too.

1582
01:19:04,680 --> 01:19:07,400
Speaker 1: I started watching the show. Did you finish it? No?

1583
01:19:07,920 --> 01:19:09,599
Speaker 1: I mean it's not a well produced No.

1584
01:19:09,840 --> 01:19:12,160
Speaker 3: But now I kind of I feel like I will

1585
01:19:12,200 --> 01:19:12,880
Speaker 3: get back in there.

1586
01:19:12,960 --> 01:19:15,200
Speaker 1: It's coming back for another season. I get very far.

1587
01:19:15,400 --> 01:19:19,080
Speaker 3: But you know, when it starts, there's that lady who

1588
01:19:19,920 --> 01:19:23,320
Speaker 3: I've already forgotten all their names, the one who has

1589
01:19:23,439 --> 01:19:24,160
Speaker 3: got pregnant.

1590
01:19:24,360 --> 01:19:30,439
Speaker 1: Oh at the very beginning, Oh right, Taylor, I think, yes, yes, uh,

1591
01:19:30,760 --> 01:19:32,160
Speaker 1: we'll see how that show goes.

1592
01:19:32,640 --> 01:19:34,679
Speaker 3: How far in did she have her baby?

1593
01:19:34,720 --> 01:19:37,160
Speaker 1: And I can. I can barely remember anything. I remember

1594
01:19:37,160 --> 01:19:40,120
Speaker 1: they go to the roller skating center I went to

1595
01:19:40,160 --> 01:19:45,000
Speaker 1: in middle school. Oh yeah, So that was part of

1596
01:19:45,000 --> 01:19:46,960
Speaker 1: the problem for me is I was like, while watching

1597
01:19:46,960 --> 01:19:48,560
Speaker 1: it was like, none of this seems that exotic or

1598
01:19:48,600 --> 01:19:52,479
Speaker 1: interesting to me because I know this personality, this sort

1599
01:19:52,479 --> 01:19:55,439
Speaker 1: of boring person But then I kind of got caught

1600
01:19:55,520 --> 01:19:58,840
Speaker 1: up in it and we'll probably continue to watch it

1601
01:19:58,920 --> 01:20:03,559
Speaker 1: until it's over for whatever reason. Anally, what's the verdict

1602
01:20:03,640 --> 01:20:04,759
Speaker 1: as far as gift are a curse?

1603
01:20:05,120 --> 01:20:08,040
Speaker 4: Of course it's a gift. Of course it's a gift.

1604
01:20:08,040 --> 01:20:10,599
Speaker 1: And I are we back together? I think this has

1605
01:20:10,640 --> 01:20:11,840
Speaker 1: really brought us all back together.

1606
01:20:11,880 --> 01:20:13,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm so proud of you both.

1607
01:20:14,240 --> 01:20:14,760
Speaker 3: Grank you.

1608
01:20:15,640 --> 01:20:17,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a wonder. Nobody can argue against a shower

1609
01:20:18,000 --> 01:20:21,440
Speaker 1: at night, and if they do, they're disgusting. Yes, okay,

1610
01:20:21,720 --> 01:20:24,240
Speaker 1: this is the final segment of the podcast. People write

1611
01:20:24,240 --> 01:20:26,759
Speaker 1: into I said no gifts at gmail dot com, begging

1612
01:20:26,800 --> 01:20:29,840
Speaker 1: for answers. We hope me answer a question. Yes, okay,

1613
01:20:30,320 --> 01:20:34,000
Speaker 1: this says hello Bridger Honali's and audacious guest. Okay, that's interesting.

1614
01:20:34,680 --> 01:20:39,320
Speaker 3: Wow, we're not back we were back together and that

1615
01:20:40,040 --> 01:20:43,840
Speaker 3: real backslashsh new way this listeners come between a two

1616
01:20:43,880 --> 01:20:46,200
Speaker 3: of us. I have to I have to take.

1617
01:20:46,120 --> 01:20:50,240
Speaker 1: Pick a team. Our bakery recently received some national recognition.

1618
01:20:50,280 --> 01:20:52,200
Speaker 1: Oh okay, I know who this is. This is well,

1619
01:20:52,240 --> 01:20:55,639
Speaker 1: I will say this is actually a bakery in Maine

1620
01:20:55,680 --> 01:20:57,840
Speaker 1: called The Place Bakery who has now become a listener

1621
01:20:57,840 --> 01:21:00,160
Speaker 1: of the podcast, and they it is a very good bakery.

1622
01:21:00,280 --> 01:21:01,360
Speaker 1: But now let's see what happened.

1623
01:21:01,360 --> 01:21:02,720
Speaker 3: I want to go there, say no more.

1624
01:21:02,920 --> 01:21:06,439
Speaker 1: Recently received some national recognition. They were in the New

1625
01:21:06,520 --> 01:21:10,519
Speaker 1: York Times. Congratulations, and people will not stop talking about it. Okay,

1626
01:21:10,560 --> 01:21:12,280
Speaker 1: now I'm starting to feel like this is they're trying

1627
01:21:12,320 --> 01:21:13,640
Speaker 1: to force me into an advertisement.

1628
01:21:14,600 --> 01:21:16,240
Speaker 3: Well, sure does feel like that.

1629
01:21:16,520 --> 01:21:18,760
Speaker 1: Validation for our hard work feels great, But we're a

1630
01:21:18,840 --> 01:21:22,520
Speaker 1: very small operation of two humans and it's become extremely overwhelming.

1631
01:21:22,640 --> 01:21:23,240
Speaker 3: Shark Tank.

1632
01:21:25,240 --> 01:21:27,639
Speaker 1: National press for a tiny food business is the ultimate

1633
01:21:27,680 --> 01:21:30,280
Speaker 1: gift or a curse. What are some responses I can

1634
01:21:30,360 --> 01:21:33,360
Speaker 1: use to end the bakery talk and move on, Some

1635
01:21:33,400 --> 01:21:37,599
Speaker 1: for ending the conversation entirely, and some which subjects would

1636
01:21:37,600 --> 01:21:42,400
Speaker 1: be great. You'res truly a baker having frequent panic attacks, Chelsea, Well,

1637
01:21:42,400 --> 01:21:44,360
Speaker 1: I don't talking about this is gonna.

1638
01:21:44,080 --> 01:21:49,120
Speaker 3: Help I know you recognition you're getting right now.

1639
01:21:49,280 --> 01:21:51,160
Speaker 1: This is going to destroy the baker's got you.

1640
01:21:51,280 --> 01:21:54,400
Speaker 3: Product placement on every show I work on from here,

1641
01:21:55,280 --> 01:21:56,960
Speaker 3: every comedy sid.

1642
01:21:56,800 --> 01:21:59,120
Speaker 1: I do you're going to bring up the place bakery,

1643
01:21:59,200 --> 01:22:02,880
Speaker 1: the place baker? I uh, what do we do? I

1644
01:22:02,920 --> 01:22:06,080
Speaker 1: mean my immediate what my brain goes to. If you

1645
01:22:06,120 --> 01:22:08,720
Speaker 1: want people to stop talking about your bakery is get

1646
01:22:08,720 --> 01:22:12,679
Speaker 1: shut down by the health department. Hey, then no one's

1647
01:22:12,680 --> 01:22:15,479
Speaker 1: gonna be talking about your opport. I mean maybe for

1648
01:22:15,520 --> 01:22:18,080
Speaker 1: another week where they're like, yeah, place is overrun by rats,

1649
01:22:18,240 --> 01:22:22,760
Speaker 1: too much salt. Yeah, but how else do you get

1650
01:22:22,760 --> 01:22:25,880
Speaker 1: people to stop talking about your bakery? Start making less

1651
01:22:26,160 --> 01:22:30,880
Speaker 1: good things worse customer service, make the hours a erratic

1652
01:22:30,920 --> 01:22:35,080
Speaker 1: where no one can really they show up, still.

1653
01:22:34,560 --> 01:22:38,720
Speaker 3: Show up, don't put your dark blue jeans on in

1654
01:22:38,760 --> 01:22:39,320
Speaker 3: the morning.

1655
01:22:41,200 --> 01:22:43,280
Speaker 1: And if it's in the moment someone won't stop talking

1656
01:22:43,320 --> 01:22:47,639
Speaker 1: about your bakery. Maybe bring up the death in the family.

1657
01:22:47,760 --> 01:22:48,040
Speaker 2: M h.

1658
01:22:48,640 --> 01:22:51,000
Speaker 3: We associate that with the with the delicious bite they're

1659
01:22:51,040 --> 01:22:52,720
Speaker 3: about to eat exactly.

1660
01:22:53,160 --> 01:22:57,479
Speaker 1: Bring in some sort of yeah, the death cake death

1661
01:22:57,560 --> 01:23:02,000
Speaker 1: muffin personal tragedy that will end a conversation pretty quickly. Yeah, uh,

1662
01:23:02,720 --> 01:23:05,759
Speaker 1: comment on their body. That'll get somebody to stop talking

1663
01:23:05,760 --> 01:23:06,000
Speaker 1: to you.

1664
01:23:06,280 --> 01:23:09,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, put the calories as they're eating it, make sure

1665
01:23:09,439 --> 01:23:10,960
Speaker 3: they know how many calories are in it.

1666
01:23:11,320 --> 01:23:11,479
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1667
01:23:11,520 --> 01:23:11,720
Speaker 2: There.

1668
01:23:11,720 --> 01:23:13,840
Speaker 1: I feel like Chelsea has not put in the work

1669
01:23:13,920 --> 01:23:17,240
Speaker 1: here to stop these conversations on her own. Rather, she

1670
01:23:17,280 --> 01:23:17,960
Speaker 1: turns to me.

1671
01:23:18,479 --> 01:23:20,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a bit of a humble brag.

1672
01:23:20,200 --> 01:23:22,920
Speaker 1: Oh it's an enormous I mean what she's done here

1673
01:23:23,000 --> 01:23:28,120
Speaker 1: is insidious. Yes, they've gotten free advertising. Yeah, they've bragged.

1674
01:23:28,120 --> 01:23:30,400
Speaker 1: Brag BRAGSCA called the guests. She didn't know who it

1675
01:23:30,439 --> 01:23:35,200
Speaker 1: was going to be so rude. I mean, Chelsea, the

1676
01:23:35,200 --> 01:23:38,880
Speaker 1: way she owes us for her continued success.

1677
01:23:38,520 --> 01:23:41,599
Speaker 3: You'd better send some baked goods. All two of you

1678
01:23:41,760 --> 01:23:43,040
Speaker 3: get in that kitchen.

1679
01:23:43,280 --> 01:23:47,960
Speaker 1: Full day's work. I mean, I mean, it's I mean,

1680
01:23:48,000 --> 01:23:50,800
Speaker 1: it's ultimately unfair and disgusting.

1681
01:23:50,960 --> 01:23:54,200
Speaker 3: Is she saying we're very happy with the way things are.

1682
01:23:55,040 --> 01:23:57,040
Speaker 1: It seems like, I mean that would be a gift,

1683
01:23:57,080 --> 01:23:57,879
Speaker 1: because you got.

1684
01:23:57,680 --> 01:24:01,000
Speaker 3: To learn that you don't want to be.

1685
01:24:00,280 --> 01:24:02,960
Speaker 1: Bigger, right, So that is a gift. Yeah, Like we're

1686
01:24:03,040 --> 01:24:06,760
Speaker 1: good just in our little thing, making our beautiful pastries.

1687
01:24:06,840 --> 01:24:09,240
Speaker 1: This is all we'll ever need, And this is what

1688
01:24:09,400 --> 01:24:10,120
Speaker 1: success is.

1689
01:24:10,560 --> 01:24:15,080
Speaker 3: No thank you? You know? Did I have a big

1690
01:24:15,120 --> 01:24:17,240
Speaker 3: house one time? When I made a lot of money

1691
01:24:17,280 --> 01:24:21,880
Speaker 3: on TV? And then the that had a lady in

1692
01:24:21,920 --> 01:24:25,120
Speaker 3: an urn entile and gold fixtures, and I said, ha

1693
01:24:25,160 --> 01:24:28,400
Speaker 3: ha ha, and then I bought the house and then

1694
01:24:28,439 --> 01:24:30,360
Speaker 3: the market crashed and I was no longer on TV.

1695
01:24:30,920 --> 01:24:33,880
Speaker 3: Did I learn from that that I don't need a house?

1696
01:24:34,320 --> 01:24:37,200
Speaker 3: But am I glad I have the experience? Of course,

1697
01:24:37,240 --> 01:24:40,200
Speaker 3: so they got the experience of people wanting them, and

1698
01:24:40,240 --> 01:24:40,759
Speaker 3: then they.

1699
01:24:40,640 --> 01:24:42,880
Speaker 1: Go, let's make some croissants.

1700
01:24:42,960 --> 01:24:45,559
Speaker 3: I don't want I don't want it. Who needs a

1701
01:24:45,800 --> 01:24:50,960
Speaker 3: six thousand square foot house? Not me? Mine is like

1702
01:24:51,120 --> 01:24:57,320
Speaker 3: a weird humble brag. But then sad so revealing of

1703
01:24:57,720 --> 01:25:03,120
Speaker 3: oh no, you know what, that's how I learned by doing? Okay,

1704
01:25:03,720 --> 01:25:07,920
Speaker 3: sue me. Do you think I when I'm threatened by

1705
01:25:07,920 --> 01:25:12,240
Speaker 3: the fires and I have no uh fire insurance? Do

1706
01:25:12,240 --> 01:25:13,720
Speaker 3: you know how I got to the place of like,

1707
01:25:13,800 --> 01:25:18,599
Speaker 3: I guess it is all gone? By having it gone? Yes,

1708
01:25:19,600 --> 01:25:23,240
Speaker 3: now I'm not afraid of it. So I don't know

1709
01:25:23,240 --> 01:25:24,479
Speaker 3: how that speaks to the bakery.

1710
01:25:24,640 --> 01:25:26,720
Speaker 1: Well, what I think is these people need to have

1711
01:25:26,760 --> 01:25:28,120
Speaker 1: a little more gratitude.

1712
01:25:29,040 --> 01:25:33,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, say we're doing here. Hire some more people.

1713
01:25:33,600 --> 01:25:37,960
Speaker 1: Yes, turn into a massive franchise. Yeah, where the quality

1714
01:25:38,080 --> 01:25:41,880
Speaker 1: goes down. That all got people to stop talking. Sell

1715
01:25:41,880 --> 01:25:46,400
Speaker 1: it to investment bankers. Yeah, say goodbye to the place.

1716
01:25:47,000 --> 01:25:51,599
Speaker 3: Don't be afraid of successes. Fear is not a smooth

1717
01:25:51,680 --> 01:25:54,720
Speaker 3: but is a share of his. That we're nice, that

1718
01:25:54,800 --> 01:25:56,879
Speaker 3: we're bigger than our.

1719
01:25:56,760 --> 01:26:00,320
Speaker 1: Wildest putting the steampunk.

1720
01:25:59,720 --> 01:26:05,200
Speaker 3: Fla and let it fly, and let it fly. And

1721
01:26:05,280 --> 01:26:08,960
Speaker 3: the next thing you know, you'll be starting a You're

1722
01:26:09,000 --> 01:26:11,720
Speaker 3: going to be the next movie. It's about your bakery.

1723
01:26:11,960 --> 01:26:14,240
Speaker 1: People be taking a picture in an AMC with your

1724
01:26:14,320 --> 01:26:17,839
Speaker 1: croissants or whatever. You're not knowing entirely what the movie's about.

1725
01:26:18,320 --> 01:26:20,120
Speaker 3: Blake Lively is going to start.

1726
01:26:20,360 --> 01:26:23,639
Speaker 1: Lawsuits are flying left and right. Yes, things are being

1727
01:26:23,720 --> 01:26:27,640
Speaker 1: exposed and uh.

1728
01:26:27,200 --> 01:26:29,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, the gratitude. And it's very hard. I would think

1729
01:26:29,880 --> 01:26:32,880
Speaker 3: it's very hard to make a name. I know from

1730
01:26:32,880 --> 01:26:36,080
Speaker 3: watching Shark Tank in a food industry.

1731
01:26:36,280 --> 01:26:37,320
Speaker 1: Oh, it's very hard.

1732
01:26:37,800 --> 01:26:39,840
Speaker 3: So what's the prob.

1733
01:26:42,560 --> 01:26:45,040
Speaker 1: Chelsea? Don't write back in, don't write back in. We

1734
01:26:45,040 --> 01:26:48,519
Speaker 1: don't want to ever hear from you again. Well, I

1735
01:26:48,520 --> 01:26:49,400
Speaker 1: think we answered, but I.

1736
01:26:49,360 --> 01:26:50,759
Speaker 3: Do want to try your stuff.

1737
01:26:50,960 --> 01:26:52,840
Speaker 1: Yes, and I'm.

1738
01:26:54,479 --> 01:26:57,519
Speaker 3: Sounds lovely and your bakery. I'd love to know what

1739
01:26:57,560 --> 01:26:59,320
Speaker 3: your specialty item is at the bakery.

1740
01:26:59,360 --> 01:27:05,160
Speaker 1: This stressing summertime crazy. Yeah, we answered the question to

1741
01:27:05,200 --> 01:27:08,400
Speaker 1: write in our books. I've got my socks, my micro

1742
01:27:10,000 --> 01:27:15,559
Speaker 1: cruise micro cruise socks, my keychain, my bag of snacks,

1743
01:27:15,600 --> 01:27:19,000
Speaker 1: and then my unusable tape. Yes, I'm set for life. Yes,

1744
01:27:19,040 --> 01:27:21,719
Speaker 1: what a gift. I know I've had such a wonderful

1745
01:27:21,720 --> 01:27:22,120
Speaker 1: time with you.

1746
01:27:22,200 --> 01:27:25,280
Speaker 3: I've had a wonderful time. Thank you for having me listener.

1747
01:27:25,479 --> 01:27:29,160
Speaker 1: The podcast is over. I know you didn't want or

1748
01:27:29,160 --> 01:27:31,880
Speaker 1: expect this to happen at any point, but you have

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Speaker 1: to face reality. I'm not responsible for anything in your life.

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Speaker 1: That's on you. Do what you need to do. I

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Speaker 1: love you, goodbye. I said No Gifts is an exactly

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Speaker 1: right production. Our senior producer is on A Lisa Nelson,

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Speaker 1: and our episodes are beautifully mixed by Ben Holliday. The

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Speaker 1: theme song is by miracle Worker Amy Mann, and we

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Speaker 1: couldn't do it with out our booker, Patrick Cottner. You

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Speaker 1: must follow the show on Instagram at I said No Gifts,

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Speaker 1: That's where you're going to see pictures of all these

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Speaker 1: wonderful gifts. I'm getting and don't you want to see

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Speaker 1: the gifts?

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Speaker 2: And I invited you here, thought I made myself perfectly clear.

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Speaker 2: When you're a guest to my home, you gotta come

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Speaker 2: to me empty. And I said, no gifts. You're our presences,

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Speaker 2: presence and I already had too much stuff, So how

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Speaker 2: do you dare to surbey me?