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Speaker 2: Nation's ever been left waiting by the phone?

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Speaker 1: It's the Fred Show. Marshie, Hi, good morning. Yeah, Well

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Speaker 1: here we are. We're doing waiting by the phone where

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Speaker 1: we love this. We're good at this. It's an institution

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Speaker 1: around here and we're trying to help people. Is a

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Speaker 2: We want to know what's going on with you and

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Speaker 2: this guy, Jed, how did you meet?

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Speaker 1: Tell us everything so.

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Speaker 3: Jaed BM Instagram for air, very charming and very sweet

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Speaker 3: from the beginning, and exchange numbers and then we went

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Speaker 3: out and we had an amazing time. I had so

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Speaker 3: much fun with him. He's so cute and funny and

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Speaker 3: just like Prince Charming. I honestly can't describe him any

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Speaker 3: other way.

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Speaker 1: He's perfect.

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Speaker 3: Wow, and yeah, I just but here's the thing though,

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Speaker 3: I'm confused because he's kind of ghosting me now and

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Speaker 3: I don't get ghosted, so I don't know what is

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Speaker 3: up with us. It's kind of bizarre. But I'm wondering,

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Speaker 3: you know what happened because we had such an amazing time.

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Speaker 2: Okay, really successful first date. You can't get a hold

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Speaker 2: of this guy now, he hasn't called you. Have you

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Speaker 2: reached out to him?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, of course, Oh okay.

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Speaker 3: But he hasn't responded to my tech.

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, full on ghosts going on, and that's frustrating,

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Speaker 2: and you want to know why. So that's where we

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Speaker 2: come in. We're gonna call Jed and we'll see if

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Speaker 2: we can get him on the phone. You'll be on

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Speaker 2: the phone as well. Hopefully we can get you some info.

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Speaker 2: You're welcome a jump in at any time, and if

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Speaker 2: we can straighten this out, then we'll pay for another date.

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Speaker 3: Okay, ok thank you?

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Speaker 2: Can I have you hang on for a second far

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Speaker 2: to a waiting by the phone, Marcy, H welcome back.

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Speaker 2: Let's call Jed. You guys, he's slid in the dms

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Speaker 2: on Instagram. So that's how you met. Exchange numbers went out.

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Speaker 2: You thought this was a hugely successful date, that he

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Speaker 2: was Prince charming, I think you said. And you were

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Speaker 2: hoping to hear from him again. And he's ghosting you,

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Speaker 2: not calling you, not responding to you, and you want

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Speaker 2: to know why.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly, I don't understand what's going on.

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Speaker 2: Okay, let's call him right now. Good luck, hius Jed's speak.

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Speaker 2: Hey Jed, thanks for answering and for talking to us

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Speaker 2: for a second. My name is Fred from the Fred Show.

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Speaker 2: My whole crew is here, and I got to tell

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Speaker 2: you that we are on the radio right now. I

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Speaker 2: would need your permission, your consent to continue with the calls.

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Speaker 2: It okay, if we talk for a minute, be sure.

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Speaker 1: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: We appreciate that. We get right to it. We're calling

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Speaker 2: on behalf of a woman named Marcy. I guess you

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Speaker 2: out to her in her DMS on Instagram and you

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Speaker 2: guys had a date. Do you remember this woman?

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, I remember Marcie well.

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Speaker 2: She described what she thought was a really successful date,

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Speaker 2: had a great time. She called you prince charming was

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Speaker 2: excited to see you again and says that not only

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Speaker 2: have you not reached out, but you're also not responding

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Speaker 2: to her. So can you fill us in on what's

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Speaker 2: going on.

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Speaker 4: I'm look, he's way too high maintenance for me.

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Speaker 1: Okay, what does that mean?

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Speaker 2: So?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so we talked on Instagram for a little bit

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Speaker 4: and then we were planning this date. I suggested, like

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Speaker 4: a couple of dates go out, and she wanted to

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Speaker 4: pick the day that was her birthday.

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Speaker 1: So first date on her birthday.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and like she's like she wanted to do it

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Speaker 4: on that day. It wasn't like I suggested that, and

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Speaker 4: it happened to be. She was like, no, let's do.

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Speaker 1: It on my birthday okay.

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Speaker 4: And then you know, so I said, okay, it's a

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Speaker 4: little weird, but I spent restaurant ideas and then she

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Speaker 4: sent back, like a restaurant you want to go to

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Speaker 4: that was like.

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Speaker 2: So expensive because birthday dinner. Birthday dinners are special dinners.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's just and I was like, I'm not, you know,

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Speaker 4: I'm not. I'm not her boyfriend. Oh the burden is

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Speaker 2: Man, don't you have friends or family? Big dinner on

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Speaker 2: your birthday? Okay, all right, so what did you do?

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Speaker 3: So?

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Speaker 4: I mean we went and I I did not plan

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Speaker 4: on spending the amount of money that spent. I spent,

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Speaker 4: but you know, I tried. I tried to be nice

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Speaker 4: because you know, her birthday. And she said, what else

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Speaker 4: do you have plans?

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Speaker 1: What did you have plans?

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Speaker 4: It's a birthday.

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Speaker 1: I don't know this lady. Did you play her gifts

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Speaker 1: or anything?

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Speaker 4: I bought the.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so what happens next? Was that it You're like, no,

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Speaker 2: I don't have anything else planned. It was nice to

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Speaker 2: meet you, and then you got out. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I was like I tried to make a joke out

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Speaker 4: of it. I was like, I plan to walk around

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Speaker 4: the block, and we walked. That was that was it.

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Speaker 4: We parted ways and she said it was the best

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Speaker 4: birthday ever, and I was like.

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Speaker 1: God, it birth date ever?

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Speaker 2: For me.

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Speaker 1: That's a lot to ask of a first date. Let me.

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Speaker 2: I forgot to mention that marcis here, Marci that I mean,

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Speaker 2: come on, that's you haven't even met this person and

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Speaker 2: you're asking him to spring for a really expensive dinner

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Speaker 2: on your birthday. Don't you have other people in your

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Speaker 2: life who could do that for you.

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Speaker 3: I told you it was my birthday, Okay, I mean

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Speaker 3: birthdays are special and he should have done that. This

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Speaker 3: is what I was gonna want.

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Speaker 2: I gotta say, though, if he had suggested the day

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Speaker 2: and then you're like, well, that's my birthday and he

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Speaker 2: said no, no, no, but let me take you out for

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Speaker 2: your birthday, I mean he didn't really have a choice.

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Speaker 3: Listen. If he can't whine and jine me the way

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Speaker 3: that I want on my birthday, then I mean maybe

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Speaker 3: he just will never understand what I want ever in

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Speaker 3: a relationship.

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Speaker 2: I mean it looks a little I mean it's not

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Speaker 2: the best.

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Speaker 1: Look. Well, I've been.

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Speaker 3: Whined and dined really nicely before on a first date,

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Speaker 3: so I don't see why I should settle for anything

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Speaker 3: less of that.

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Speaker 2: But don't you think the guy or the girl whoever's

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Speaker 2: doing the asking, don't you think that person should get

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Speaker 2: to decide what kind of data it is as a post.

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Speaker 2: I mean, if I can tell you right now, if

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Speaker 2: I on a first date, if someone's like, we're going

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Speaker 2: to the most expensive restaurant in town. Actually, Jason Brown

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Speaker 2: did this to me. If someone did that, I would

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Speaker 2: be like, well, are you into me or you are

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Speaker 2: you just trying to get a really expensive free dinner

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Speaker 2: on your birthday?

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Speaker 3: No? I wasn't trying to use him at all like that.

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Speaker 3: I just thought that he would want to do something

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Speaker 3: special for me for my birthday.

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Speaker 1: He doesn't know you girl. Wasn't there anyone else you

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Speaker 1: wanted to spend it with?

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Speaker 4: You know?

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Speaker 1: Did you have friends? Ye?

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Speaker 3: Well of course I have friends. But I I just

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Speaker 3: stand by what I want and I don't think there's

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Speaker 3: anything wrong with that.

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Speaker 2: Fair enough, fair enough, Jed, Look that's your explanation. Would

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Speaker 2: you consider giving her another shot? Maybe you guys go

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Speaker 2: to a more reasonable place.

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Speaker 4: No, I'm not interested. This is it's so I hate this,

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Speaker 4: Like you want me to make this special day for

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Speaker 4: you at first day is supposed to be special for

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Speaker 4: both people, and I just feel like, frankly, like I

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Speaker 4: was like being exploited or something.

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Speaker 1: You don't have to do it yet.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you could have just said no, but then

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Speaker 2: I get the day you never would have happened. I

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Speaker 2: guess so he took the chance.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I gave it a shot. I I my fears

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Speaker 4: were confirmed the moment she started ordering. And yeah, I

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Speaker 4: mean if if this is how you meet people. I

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Speaker 4: don't I don't want to know how the rest goes.

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Speaker 3: You're the one who DMed me, so.

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Speaker 4: I'll make sure to check the person's birthday next time

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Speaker 4: I selected both of you.

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Speaker 1: Okay,