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Speaker 1: you here. It is to straw up every letter subject.

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Speaker 1: I will be satisfied no matter what. Dear Stephen Shirley,

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Speaker 1: I'm an attractive forty five year old independent woman and

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Speaker 1: I've been in a relationship with a forty one year

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Speaker 1: old man for a year. We don't live together because

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Speaker 1: I'm not ready for all of that, and we've been

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Speaker 1: arguing a lot lately. He's a great man, and for

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Speaker 1: the first time in a very long time, I'm faithful

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Speaker 1: to one guy. He is great in the bedroom, but

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Speaker 1: his libido doesn't match mine. I want sex all of

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Speaker 1: the time and he doesn't. I'm not used to a

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Speaker 1: man that won't give it to me when I need it.

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Speaker 1: We've gotten into arguments if I try to have sex

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Speaker 1: with him and he's not in the mood. He likes

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Speaker 1: to call me selfish and says it's all about me

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Speaker 1: all of the time. He doesn't see that if I'm

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Speaker 1: getting pleased, he's getting pleasure from it too, or maybe

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Speaker 1: the sex isn't good to him anyway. I've started being

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Speaker 1: really selfish, and I've been pulling out my toys whenever

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Speaker 1: he tells me no. I like to lie next to

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Speaker 1: him and use one or two of my battery operated

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Speaker 1: devices to love on myself. The first couple of times

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Speaker 1: he watched as I did it, but recently he gets

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Speaker 1: irritated when I do it. The other night. He told

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Speaker 1: me that something's wrong with me, and he got dressed

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Speaker 1: and left. He said that no other woman he's ever

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Speaker 1: been with has wanted sex as much as I do.

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Speaker 1: I honestly can't believe that we're arguing over this. Couples

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Speaker 1: usually fight over cheating, lying, or social media. But he's

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Speaker 1: mad at me because I want to have sex with him.

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Speaker 1: Makes me think I should just get a man on

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Speaker 1: the side to really make him mad. Life is short

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Speaker 1: and times are heart Sex is my stress reliever. How

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Speaker 1: can I get him to use his toy instead of

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Speaker 1: my bat battery operated one? Okay, well, this is a

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Speaker 1: situation where you guys are just not sexually compatible at

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Speaker 1: all and you never will be. Or like you say,

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Speaker 1: the sex isn't good to him. It all sounds like

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Speaker 1: it's just too much though, and sometimes too much is

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Speaker 1: too much. I mean, you might be an addict when

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Speaker 1: it comes to sex, because it does seem like a

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Speaker 1: whole lot. I'm not judging, I'm just observing and going

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Speaker 1: by what you wrote in this letter. This is the

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Speaker 1: first time you've been faithful to one guy. Wow, that

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Speaker 1: says a lot right there. I mean, it doesn't sound

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Speaker 1: like to me you will ever be satisfied with one

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Speaker 1: guy or one of anything. You even use more than

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Speaker 1: one toy at a time. You mentioned that in the letter.

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Speaker 1: You're pushing him away with all of this. In any case,

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Speaker 1: he just can't handle it as scenes, and I know

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Speaker 1: you don't want to do that. I do hope you

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Speaker 1: guys have talked calmly about this at some point. Have

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Speaker 1: you done it lately anyway? I mean you've been arguing

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Speaker 1: a lot, but you know, have you really discussed this situation?

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Speaker 1: Because it is already a problem. He's leading out now,

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Speaker 1: saying there's something wrong with you. He's never had a

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Speaker 1: woman that wants sex as much as you do. You

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Speaker 1: guys may not be able to withstand this. I just

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Speaker 1: don't think you're sexually compatible anymore. If you want it

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Speaker 1: more and he doesn't, how is this gonna work? I mean,

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Speaker 1: he's walking out, so this isn't gonna work. You're gonna

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Speaker 1: have to find someone else that's more sexually compatible, and

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Speaker 1: believe me, they're out there, okay, Steve, Well, I don't

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Speaker 1: know how to address this, so I've decided to go

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Speaker 1: the other way. I'm gonna give you the top reasons

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Speaker 1: I'm doing this now the top reasons a man don't

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Speaker 1: y'all remember I used to do top tens. Yes, of course.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how many of these I'm gonna do.

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Speaker 1: This could be the top fifteen, top twenty. I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: just go through them as I need them. But that's

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Speaker 1: a lot, you know, that's a lot, Steve. But here

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Speaker 1: we go. We are doing the top ten reasons now,

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Speaker 1: just saying we're doing the top reasons why this man

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Speaker 1: don't want to have sex with you? Okay, scared, First one,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna participate. Yeah, first for one. Yeah, number one,

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Speaker 1: number one, Sometime it just takes you too damn long

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Speaker 1: to finish. Okay, Number two, number number you're just too

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Speaker 1: damn much. Yeah right, that's number three. Number three, Your

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Speaker 1: tours is too loud. Not the volume sounds like Shane saw.

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Speaker 1: Number four. Number four, umber tours is to be the

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Speaker 1: number four. All right. We stopped at number four. We'll

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Speaker 1: have part two of Steve's response coming up at twenty

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Speaker 1: three minutes after be our subjects. I will be satisfied

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Speaker 1: no matter what. We'll get back into it right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Morning Show. All right, Steve,

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Speaker 1: come on, let's recap today's Strawberry Letters. Subject I will

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Speaker 1: be satisfied no matter what you left off. Number I'm

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Speaker 1: just I'm just doing the top reasons why this man

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Speaker 1: don't want to have sex with you. Just to go

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Speaker 1: over the last two I said. Number three, your toys

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Speaker 1: is too loud. There's just too damn liud. You need

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Speaker 1: to turn it down. You got too many, too many levels,

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Speaker 1: like it's on eight now, the whole damn bad is shaking.

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Speaker 1: You're using the toy, but it's affected me. Number five.

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Speaker 1: Number five, your toys is too damn big. Maybe he

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Speaker 1: don't want to be on that. Number six, Number six,

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Speaker 1: he don't want nobody in bed stronger than him. You here,

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Speaker 1: you're just too much much, yea most here's the next

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Speaker 1: room right here. Okay. Number seven, you're hurting him. Number seven,

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Speaker 1: she's hurting him. You're just hurting this boy. You said

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Speaker 1: it four years longer. Number eight younger, Yeah, number eight,

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Speaker 1: maybe we're dealing with a weight issue. Wow, that's that's

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Speaker 1: not that. That could be it. We could be dealing

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Speaker 1: just can't just keep it. He hit number nine, number nine.

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Speaker 1: You don't know he might have hart trouble. Number ten,

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Speaker 1: number ten, You just simply know too damn much? What

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Speaker 1: is were fitting to do tonight? But he's getting What

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Speaker 1: is you doing? Put your clothes back on? What you're

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Speaker 1: gonna do with that bat? Is helected too? We're doing

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Speaker 1: the reasons why this man don't want to make love

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Speaker 1: to you? How much more do you want you? All

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Speaker 1: I had? I ain't got no more funny? How much

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Speaker 1: mold do you want? Girl? I don't want you? You

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Speaker 1: keep making me? Here's another reason he don't want to

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Speaker 1: make love you. Maybe he don't want COVID nineteen that's

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Speaker 1: your goal to here's number twelve. Maybe he can't fulfill

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Speaker 1: all your fantasy. He can't jump up there and reach

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Speaker 1: the ceiling. Fans grabbed that swinging ceiling fan to swing around,

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Speaker 1: and every time you swing by, hit it, and he

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Speaker 1: keep swinging and come back and hit it too too much?

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Speaker 1: Damn grip right, We're just doing this. We're just doing

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Speaker 1: a lot of reasons that I'm trying to think of.

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Speaker 1: You know, here's another one. Everybody don't like hot wax.

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Speaker 1: Somebody from people. Just don't like hot wax. That's hot?

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Yeah, here's another one. Maybe

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Speaker 1: every time he don't, every time he get a cramp,

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Speaker 1: he don't want to be a little punk ass. She's

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Speaker 1: telling him like that. Why is your little punk ass

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Speaker 1: always pulling muscles? I ain't pulling no damn muscles. Seeing

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Speaker 1: all this damn talking. Maybe you're talking too much. He

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Speaker 1: can't concentrate all these instructions. Pick your leg up, hit

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Speaker 1: it harder what you're doing? Sprake me? Why ain't you

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Speaker 1: trying to bite me? Why are you spanking me? Run

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Speaker 1: over there and not dive on it? Jump higher, jump higher.

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Speaker 1: She just sounds like a woman. That's just too much.

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Speaker 1: And she said in the letter, I've never been faithful

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Speaker 1: to one man before. She usually has a team of

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Speaker 1: people's services. She in a rastling match, people tagging in

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Speaker 1: come on, oh my god. You know I ain't saying

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Speaker 1: of my baby. No problem. What do you mean no problem?

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Speaker 1: What ain't ain't no problem? Her all on the way?

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Speaker 1: Do you do you? Here's another reason why he might

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Speaker 1: be want to make love to you, maybe every two

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Speaker 1: maybe every time you cut the lights off. He gets scared.

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Speaker 1: He don't know what the hell fit that happening here

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Speaker 1: too much. And here's the last reason he probably don't

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