1 00:00:00,960 --> 00:00:03,920 Speaker 1: On the bel Cast, the questions asked if movies have 2 00:00:04,080 --> 00:00:07,960 Speaker 1: women in them, are all their discussions just boyfriends and husbands, 3 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:12,360 Speaker 1: or do they have individualism? The patriarchy? Zef in best 4 00:00:12,800 --> 00:00:18,360 Speaker 1: start changing it with the beck Del Cast. Hey, Jamie, Hey, Caitlin, 5 00:00:18,800 --> 00:00:23,840 Speaker 1: my Sharona is playing Turn it Up and Let's dance. Caitlin, 6 00:00:23,920 --> 00:00:27,040 Speaker 1: did you know that My Sharona is a song about 7 00:00:27,080 --> 00:00:32,520 Speaker 1: an underage girl? I did not know that, like extremely underage, 8 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:38,000 Speaker 1: like thirteen. Yikes. Well, well, welcome to the Bechdel Cast. 9 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:43,320 Speaker 1: That was my That's one of my favorite bubbles to burst. 10 00:00:43,479 --> 00:00:45,640 Speaker 1: Not because but that was something I learned while I 11 00:00:45,680 --> 00:00:47,839 Speaker 1: was making Lolita podcast, because I was just making a 12 00:00:47,920 --> 00:00:52,960 Speaker 1: superlist of popular songs that are actually about exploiting young women. 13 00:00:53,680 --> 00:00:57,720 Speaker 1: And My Sharona is I mean, look, if you want 14 00:00:57,760 --> 00:01:00,520 Speaker 1: to pause the podcast and take a gander at the lyrics, 15 00:01:01,200 --> 00:01:03,800 Speaker 1: be my guest, but it is, uh, it is a 16 00:01:03,880 --> 00:01:06,400 Speaker 1: rough road. My my dad. That was one of my 17 00:01:06,480 --> 00:01:08,440 Speaker 1: dad's favorite songs. And I was like, Dad, you gotta 18 00:01:08,480 --> 00:01:10,360 Speaker 1: you gotta take a peep at these lyrics, and he 19 00:01:10,520 --> 00:01:15,080 Speaker 1: was like, oh my, oh my. Now look this is 20 00:01:15,120 --> 00:01:19,440 Speaker 1: just a sampling of one of the elements of culture 21 00:01:19,480 --> 00:01:22,119 Speaker 1: that maybe don't age very well. Welcome to the Bexel Cast. 22 00:01:22,240 --> 00:01:26,320 Speaker 1: My name is Jamie Lofts and my name is Caitlin Durante. 23 00:01:26,440 --> 00:01:30,360 Speaker 1: And this is a podcast where basically we take media 24 00:01:30,440 --> 00:01:33,520 Speaker 1: that you love and point out everything that's wrong with 25 00:01:33,560 --> 00:01:36,960 Speaker 1: it from an intersectional feminist lens. I think that's a 26 00:01:37,040 --> 00:01:39,200 Speaker 1: little harsh. We we take a look at it from 27 00:01:39,200 --> 00:01:42,679 Speaker 1: an intersexual fevtist lens. We're not a part of the 28 00:01:42,840 --> 00:01:46,640 Speaker 1: ruin everything culture. We take a look at things that 29 00:01:46,760 --> 00:01:50,000 Speaker 1: just happens sometimes as a byproduct of what we do, 30 00:01:50,120 --> 00:01:53,000 Speaker 1: because a lot of things kind of just ruined themselves. 31 00:01:53,400 --> 00:01:57,840 Speaker 1: I guess so is that fair to say anyway? Um So, 32 00:01:57,880 --> 00:02:00,400 Speaker 1: we used the Bechtel Test as a jumping off point 33 00:02:00,400 --> 00:02:03,560 Speaker 1: to initiate a larger conversation. And the Bechtel Test, of course, 34 00:02:03,720 --> 00:02:06,800 Speaker 1: is a media metric created by queer cartoonist Alison Becktel, 35 00:02:07,040 --> 00:02:11,560 Speaker 1: sometimes called the Bechtel Wallace Test, originally conceived as a 36 00:02:11,720 --> 00:02:15,040 Speaker 1: just kind of one off joke in a comic by 37 00:02:15,120 --> 00:02:18,600 Speaker 1: Alison Becktel called Begs to Watch Out for Uh, and 38 00:02:18,760 --> 00:02:23,160 Speaker 1: has since been kind of repurposed as this media metric. 39 00:02:23,880 --> 00:02:25,520 Speaker 1: There are many versions of it, the one that we 40 00:02:25,639 --> 00:02:29,399 Speaker 1: use requires that two people of a marginalized gender who 41 00:02:29,440 --> 00:02:32,800 Speaker 1: have names must speak to each other, and their conversation 42 00:02:32,840 --> 00:02:35,880 Speaker 1: has to be about something other than a man, and 43 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:41,280 Speaker 1: ideally it's a narratively meaningful conversation. Oh yeah, oh yeah. 44 00:02:41,360 --> 00:02:44,280 Speaker 1: And today we have a long time request with a 45 00:02:44,400 --> 00:02:49,080 Speaker 1: much beloved guest, so let's get to it. We're covering 46 00:02:49,160 --> 00:02:53,280 Speaker 1: reality bites directed by one bend Still are written by 47 00:02:53,320 --> 00:02:57,959 Speaker 1: one Helen child Dress Childress. Don't know, sure, don't know, 48 00:02:58,240 --> 00:03:01,680 Speaker 1: and we'll never know. And that's on in hernalized misogynt 49 00:03:02,560 --> 00:03:07,040 Speaker 1: we know how to pronounce Ben Stiller's name makes you think, okay, 50 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:12,520 Speaker 1: uh so look at her wonderful returning guests in here. Indeed, 51 00:03:12,880 --> 00:03:15,600 Speaker 1: she is the host of the podcast There Are No 52 00:03:15,680 --> 00:03:17,880 Speaker 1: Girls on the Internet. She's the host of the new 53 00:03:17,960 --> 00:03:22,160 Speaker 1: podcast Internet Hate Machine on cool Zone Media. Check it out. 54 00:03:22,280 --> 00:03:24,400 Speaker 1: And do you remember her from our episode on Eve's 55 00:03:24,480 --> 00:03:28,640 Speaker 1: by You. It's Bridget Todd. I'm so excited to be here. 56 00:03:28,880 --> 00:03:31,079 Speaker 1: Thank you for having me, Thank you for bringing us 57 00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:36,000 Speaker 1: reality bites. I'm very excited, too excited. Did did to 58 00:03:36,480 --> 00:03:40,160 Speaker 1: discuss us us us this movie? Um that you have 59 00:03:40,240 --> 00:03:43,720 Speaker 1: brought us? I feel like This movie is very often 60 00:03:43,880 --> 00:03:48,120 Speaker 1: held up as like this is the gen X movie, which, 61 00:03:48,800 --> 00:03:51,640 Speaker 1: as many you know, and we can bitch all day 62 00:03:51,680 --> 00:03:54,520 Speaker 1: about jen X and we will, but I will say 63 00:03:54,880 --> 00:03:58,280 Speaker 1: it must suck as a generation to be told like 64 00:03:58,520 --> 00:04:01,360 Speaker 1: this is you when you like it or not. Like, 65 00:04:01,680 --> 00:04:05,080 Speaker 1: I don't think that millennials really have a movie that 66 00:04:05,280 --> 00:04:09,080 Speaker 1: is like made like this is your defining thing. I 67 00:04:09,080 --> 00:04:11,800 Speaker 1: think I would resent it on. I would just resent 68 00:04:11,880 --> 00:04:16,200 Speaker 1: it automatically. So to our gen X listeners, whether you 69 00:04:16,240 --> 00:04:19,039 Speaker 1: like this movie or or not, I think it's just 70 00:04:19,240 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 1: I feel like it's the only generation I know of 71 00:04:21,560 --> 00:04:25,000 Speaker 1: that is like, there's one movie about gen X and 72 00:04:25,400 --> 00:04:28,560 Speaker 1: it involves one of the most toxic relationships I've ever seen. 73 00:04:28,600 --> 00:04:34,960 Speaker 1: Committed to film. Oh, brother, um that said, I'm excited 74 00:04:35,040 --> 00:04:37,240 Speaker 1: to discuss this movie. There were elements of it I 75 00:04:37,279 --> 00:04:41,279 Speaker 1: liked very much. So bridget to kick us off. What 76 00:04:41,480 --> 00:04:45,000 Speaker 1: is your history with reality bites? Oh, I have a 77 00:04:45,040 --> 00:04:47,480 Speaker 1: long history with this movie. That's why I suggested it. 78 00:04:47,720 --> 00:04:50,040 Speaker 1: I loved it when I first saw it. I saw 79 00:04:50,040 --> 00:04:53,240 Speaker 1: it as a young person, maybe I saw it in 80 00:04:53,960 --> 00:04:56,320 Speaker 1: high school. I even had the soundtrack that I bought 81 00:04:56,320 --> 00:05:00,440 Speaker 1: from the Salvation Army, which the soundtracks, slaps sound it 82 00:05:00,520 --> 00:05:03,719 Speaker 1: really is. Yeah. I loved it, And I also think 83 00:05:03,720 --> 00:05:06,400 Speaker 1: it was a movie that when I was young in 84 00:05:06,440 --> 00:05:10,400 Speaker 1: the suburbs, I thought, when I'm an adult, this my 85 00:05:10,440 --> 00:05:12,800 Speaker 1: life is gonna be like this. It's gonna be cool, 86 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:16,680 Speaker 1: creative young people hanging around in a group house, you know, 87 00:05:16,800 --> 00:05:19,960 Speaker 1: smoking weed out of cans and quitting with each other. 88 00:05:20,760 --> 00:05:24,360 Speaker 1: It really presented a life that I found aspirational at 89 00:05:24,360 --> 00:05:29,200 Speaker 1: the time. And it's funny because watching it now, I'm like, 90 00:05:29,240 --> 00:05:34,200 Speaker 1: thank God, that wasn't my eye. Yeah, not a great 91 00:05:34,240 --> 00:05:38,480 Speaker 1: fate as it turns out. Jamie. What is your relationship 92 00:05:38,640 --> 00:05:41,480 Speaker 1: in history with this movie? Um, I don't have much 93 00:05:41,520 --> 00:05:43,520 Speaker 1: of history with it. I had never seen it before. 94 00:05:43,960 --> 00:05:48,359 Speaker 1: It never really never came across my desk as a youth. 95 00:05:49,200 --> 00:05:52,200 Speaker 1: I have worked with one of the producers of this 96 00:05:52,279 --> 00:05:55,400 Speaker 1: movie before, Stacy Shure. She's really really awesome. So I'm 97 00:05:55,440 --> 00:05:57,520 Speaker 1: coming in a little bit biased here because I just 98 00:05:57,560 --> 00:06:02,480 Speaker 1: think that she's like championed so many movies that centerr 99 00:06:02,600 --> 00:06:05,880 Speaker 1: women and queer stories, and like she She's done a 100 00:06:05,880 --> 00:06:08,560 Speaker 1: lot of really really cool work. But I never actually 101 00:06:08,600 --> 00:06:12,280 Speaker 1: like sat with this movie before and watched it, and 102 00:06:12,320 --> 00:06:15,560 Speaker 1: honestly I was coming in thinking maybe I wouldn't like 103 00:06:15,680 --> 00:06:19,640 Speaker 1: it very much at all. They're definitely like I mean, 104 00:06:19,920 --> 00:06:22,360 Speaker 1: I think that this movie, like I didn't know much 105 00:06:22,400 --> 00:06:24,240 Speaker 1: about the history. I didn't know it was like written 106 00:06:24,279 --> 00:06:26,559 Speaker 1: by a young woman that is like very much pulling 107 00:06:26,560 --> 00:06:29,919 Speaker 1: from her own experience, which I think is really cool 108 00:06:29,960 --> 00:06:33,680 Speaker 1: and especially in would have been super rare. And then 109 00:06:34,080 --> 00:06:37,240 Speaker 1: just like I don't know. I mean, my main issue 110 00:06:37,360 --> 00:06:39,320 Speaker 1: with this movie, which I'm sure we'll be talking about, 111 00:06:39,480 --> 00:06:44,760 Speaker 1: is it's like hyper focus on this shitty relationship that 112 00:06:45,000 --> 00:06:47,560 Speaker 1: I mean, and amongst other things. But it felt like 113 00:06:47,720 --> 00:06:50,280 Speaker 1: there were a lot of things that that this movie 114 00:06:50,440 --> 00:06:53,920 Speaker 1: was commenting on that even when characters sucked, they sucked 115 00:06:53,960 --> 00:06:56,600 Speaker 1: contextually in a way that felt like there's a lot 116 00:06:56,600 --> 00:06:59,360 Speaker 1: of satire and a lot of commentary on like why 117 00:06:59,480 --> 00:07:02,800 Speaker 1: people are making the choices they are, Like no characters 118 00:07:02,839 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 1: goats completely uncriticized by the movie except for like this 119 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:13,120 Speaker 1: relationship that I just have Like oh um, But but 120 00:07:13,200 --> 00:07:14,840 Speaker 1: I'm very excited to talk about it. I feel like 121 00:07:14,840 --> 00:07:19,720 Speaker 1: there's a lot of it resonated more than I was 122 00:07:19,800 --> 00:07:23,520 Speaker 1: expecting it too. For me, Caitlin, what is your history 123 00:07:23,640 --> 00:07:27,480 Speaker 1: with reality bites? I Honestly, I am not sure if 124 00:07:27,520 --> 00:07:30,080 Speaker 1: I had seen it before, because there were parts that 125 00:07:30,120 --> 00:07:35,120 Speaker 1: were very familiar to me, the my Sharonas scene in particular. 126 00:07:35,280 --> 00:07:38,640 Speaker 1: I that scene is really fun. It is. But what 127 00:07:38,720 --> 00:07:41,400 Speaker 1: I remember even more than them dancing to that song 128 00:07:41,680 --> 00:07:47,960 Speaker 1: was the line where they're like, Avian is naive spelled backwards. 129 00:07:48,000 --> 00:07:53,320 Speaker 1: I don't know why Corny jed x line. Ever, why 130 00:07:53,360 --> 00:07:55,640 Speaker 1: did I remember that so much? I'm not sure. I 131 00:07:55,680 --> 00:07:58,600 Speaker 1: think there's a very real possibility that I had only 132 00:07:58,640 --> 00:08:02,520 Speaker 1: ever seen that seen probably from that movie Trivia Game. 133 00:08:02,800 --> 00:08:05,480 Speaker 1: Seen it, Oh my god, And that's just why I 134 00:08:05,560 --> 00:08:09,800 Speaker 1: remember seeing it. That's the millennials true movie. Oh yeah, 135 00:08:10,640 --> 00:08:12,720 Speaker 1: Oh you just a lot to memory for me of 136 00:08:12,760 --> 00:08:15,240 Speaker 1: how much I love seen it and I haven't played 137 00:08:15,240 --> 00:08:19,720 Speaker 1: it in years seen it kind of rules. Yeah, oh yeah, 138 00:08:20,120 --> 00:08:23,560 Speaker 1: that's so much cultural osmosis. Um. Maybe that maybe I 139 00:08:23,560 --> 00:08:26,000 Speaker 1: had seen that scene that way too. Also, this is 140 00:08:26,040 --> 00:08:28,960 Speaker 1: like Janine Garofolo being I was like, that's the true 141 00:08:29,520 --> 00:08:32,839 Speaker 1: harbinger of of a gen x um classic. Is like 142 00:08:32,920 --> 00:08:37,000 Speaker 1: Jennine Garofolo in a supporting role. Yeah, we've done it. 143 00:08:37,320 --> 00:08:40,040 Speaker 1: That's how you know. Um. But yeah, the rest of 144 00:08:40,040 --> 00:08:43,120 Speaker 1: the movie wasn't super familiar to me, so I think 145 00:08:43,120 --> 00:08:45,960 Speaker 1: I had actually seen the whole thing, and it was 146 00:08:46,080 --> 00:08:49,760 Speaker 1: just that scene in the gas station that I saw 147 00:08:49,880 --> 00:08:51,959 Speaker 1: and then thought I had seen the whole movie. I'm 148 00:08:52,000 --> 00:08:55,640 Speaker 1: not really sure. So, yeah, not super familiar with this movie. 149 00:08:55,920 --> 00:08:58,440 Speaker 1: But but there's a lot to talk about there is 150 00:08:59,280 --> 00:09:02,200 Speaker 1: This is not the primary thing to talk about. But 151 00:09:02,320 --> 00:09:04,640 Speaker 1: I didn't know Steve Zon was in this movie, and 152 00:09:04,720 --> 00:09:08,000 Speaker 1: as a known Zon head, I was like, who, well, well, 153 00:09:08,200 --> 00:09:12,439 Speaker 1: look who we have here, Stevenson. I love Stevenson so much. 154 00:09:13,080 --> 00:09:15,760 Speaker 1: The fact that anyone would say in a movie that 155 00:09:15,880 --> 00:09:18,160 Speaker 1: no one wants to have sex with Steve Zon, I'm like, 156 00:09:19,280 --> 00:09:21,040 Speaker 1: you're gonna want to check your notes on that one. 157 00:09:21,600 --> 00:09:24,560 Speaker 1: I do love Steve Zon. Do you remember when he 158 00:09:24,559 --> 00:09:28,560 Speaker 1: played the cat Stewart a little? Of course. I remember 159 00:09:28,559 --> 00:09:31,280 Speaker 1: when he played Stewart Little. Yeah. He played Nathan Lane's 160 00:09:31,320 --> 00:09:34,079 Speaker 1: best friend and his only line was snow volume of 161 00:09:34,160 --> 00:09:38,000 Speaker 1: best friend. God, he's so delightful. It's such a delight 162 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:40,520 Speaker 1: when he like, no one's ever sad to see Steve's on. 163 00:09:40,920 --> 00:09:44,240 Speaker 1: He's what was your Is that your favorite Steve's on movie? 164 00:09:44,840 --> 00:09:49,160 Speaker 1: Stewart Little Yes. I'm trying to think of where I 165 00:09:49,200 --> 00:09:51,920 Speaker 1: first fell in love with steve 'son, it would have 166 00:09:52,000 --> 00:09:54,640 Speaker 1: been I remember this is I don't think where I 167 00:09:54,720 --> 00:09:57,280 Speaker 1: fell in love with him, But he was in a 168 00:09:57,600 --> 00:10:01,560 Speaker 1: Christen Early Christen Stewart movie called Speak, which is about 169 00:10:01,600 --> 00:10:06,040 Speaker 1: a very traumatic it's very traumatic, but Steve's On plays 170 00:10:06,600 --> 00:10:12,240 Speaker 1: the nice teacher of a middle schooler who experiences pretty 171 00:10:12,400 --> 00:10:15,520 Speaker 1: horrific abuse. And so Steve's On, You're like, oh, nice, 172 00:10:15,720 --> 00:10:19,839 Speaker 1: Mr He's just always Mr Nice. He's always Mr Nice? 173 00:10:20,040 --> 00:10:23,760 Speaker 1: Is Mr Nice? He cannot play a villain. Um, I've 174 00:10:23,800 --> 00:10:26,520 Speaker 1: accept in White Lotos, where he definitely does. Oh that's 175 00:10:26,559 --> 00:10:31,040 Speaker 1: I didn't finish that series. Um. I first saw him 176 00:10:31,080 --> 00:10:35,079 Speaker 1: in the movie joy Ride. What's that? It's basically a 177 00:10:35,320 --> 00:10:40,000 Speaker 1: remake of the movie Duel where a scary truck driver 178 00:10:40,880 --> 00:10:46,080 Speaker 1: terrorizes Steve's On, Paul Walker and Lely Sobieski And it's 179 00:10:46,200 --> 00:10:48,959 Speaker 1: pretty cool. What else is Stevenson is also and You've 180 00:10:48,960 --> 00:10:50,560 Speaker 1: Got Mail? I think maybe that's the last time I 181 00:10:50,559 --> 00:10:52,640 Speaker 1: got thrilled to see him on the show in a 182 00:10:52,720 --> 00:10:55,400 Speaker 1: movie I had. The Whites did not like. It's funny. 183 00:10:55,440 --> 00:10:58,880 Speaker 1: I'm looking at his IMDb reality bites. Was only that 184 00:10:59,040 --> 00:11:01,520 Speaker 1: like the fourth movie he had ever been in he 185 00:11:01,600 --> 00:11:03,959 Speaker 1: was in an episode of All My Children, a movie, 186 00:11:04,000 --> 00:11:07,000 Speaker 1: a TV movie called First Love, Fatal Love, another movie 187 00:11:07,040 --> 00:11:09,720 Speaker 1: called Rain Without Thunder, an episode of a show called 188 00:11:09,760 --> 00:11:12,120 Speaker 1: South Beach, and then reality bites like that was his 189 00:11:12,240 --> 00:11:14,760 Speaker 1: This was like early Steve's On. This was his break, 190 00:11:14,960 --> 00:11:17,800 Speaker 1: this big break. I read that because the casting process, 191 00:11:17,800 --> 00:11:20,040 Speaker 1: for I mean, the production of this movie is just 192 00:11:20,120 --> 00:11:23,920 Speaker 1: like wild in general. But I read that Ethan Hawk 193 00:11:24,120 --> 00:11:26,079 Speaker 1: had just like done a play with Steve's on and 194 00:11:26,200 --> 00:11:29,640 Speaker 1: was like, he's cool for human and then Steve's on 195 00:11:29,880 --> 00:11:35,160 Speaker 1: being Mr nice Um was really enthusiastic about playing a 196 00:11:35,240 --> 00:11:37,680 Speaker 1: queer character who is like who comes out of the 197 00:11:37,679 --> 00:11:40,400 Speaker 1: closet and is loved and accepted for it because he's 198 00:11:40,480 --> 00:11:44,000 Speaker 1: Mr nice So the only movie I've ever seen him 199 00:11:44,040 --> 00:11:48,760 Speaker 1: being not nice in is um a perfect getaway. He's like, 200 00:11:48,920 --> 00:11:51,120 Speaker 1: I don't want to spoil it, but it's got I 201 00:11:51,160 --> 00:11:55,360 Speaker 1: think Mila Djovlovich maybe uh. And he's very much the villain, 202 00:11:55,520 --> 00:11:58,080 Speaker 1: like not just like the villain like in White Lotus 203 00:11:58,080 --> 00:11:59,400 Speaker 1: where it's like, oh, he's rich and has a lot 204 00:11:59,400 --> 00:12:03,720 Speaker 1: of privilege, A villain villain like a bad guys. Good 205 00:12:03,760 --> 00:12:07,440 Speaker 1: for him. He's got range. I also remembering he's Mr 206 00:12:07,559 --> 00:12:11,320 Speaker 1: Nice And I don't know if anyone else was a 207 00:12:11,360 --> 00:12:14,160 Speaker 1: baby sitter and saw the Diary of a Wimpy Kid 208 00:12:14,480 --> 00:12:18,280 Speaker 1: movie series, but he's he's Mr Dad in that one, 209 00:12:18,600 --> 00:12:21,120 Speaker 1: and yeah, sure he makes some mistakes, but at the 210 00:12:21,200 --> 00:12:26,520 Speaker 1: end of the day, he's Mr Nice. Well, shall we 211 00:12:26,559 --> 00:12:32,360 Speaker 1: move on from Steve's on? The beginning of the ence 212 00:12:32,960 --> 00:12:35,800 Speaker 1: is in this movie this is a feminist movie podcast, 213 00:12:35,840 --> 00:12:39,600 Speaker 1: which you wouldn't have guessed from that conversation at Tirade 214 00:12:39,720 --> 00:12:43,360 Speaker 1: about Steve's on about how he's nice. Yeah, let's recap 215 00:12:43,360 --> 00:12:47,080 Speaker 1: the movie, shall we? Let's do it? Okay, So we 216 00:12:47,360 --> 00:12:52,000 Speaker 1: open on Lelna. That's Winona writer. She's giving a speech 217 00:12:52,120 --> 00:12:56,600 Speaker 1: at her college graduation, which effectively sets up the theme 218 00:12:56,640 --> 00:12:59,000 Speaker 1: of the movie, which is like, Hey, there are all 219 00:12:59,000 --> 00:13:01,720 Speaker 1: these problems in the world, but what do we do 220 00:13:01,800 --> 00:13:07,000 Speaker 1: about them? I don't know that. I like how every 221 00:13:07,040 --> 00:13:10,280 Speaker 1: generation will, especially now that like we're no longer the 222 00:13:10,320 --> 00:13:13,640 Speaker 1: youngest generation and we're growing crustier with each passing day. 223 00:13:14,040 --> 00:13:16,880 Speaker 1: I do think it's like funny how that this is 224 00:13:16,920 --> 00:13:19,800 Speaker 1: the question of literally every generation. But everyone is like, 225 00:13:20,080 --> 00:13:22,280 Speaker 1: but it was my idea. We're kind of the first 226 00:13:22,320 --> 00:13:25,360 Speaker 1: people to have this problem and it's like, wow, Dan 227 00:13:25,800 --> 00:13:29,680 Speaker 1: getting old is punishing. It was not our idea, and 228 00:13:29,720 --> 00:13:35,400 Speaker 1: we are also fumbling it. So amazing. Yeah, Okay, So 229 00:13:35,440 --> 00:13:38,920 Speaker 1: then we see video footage because Lelena is making a 230 00:13:38,960 --> 00:13:43,400 Speaker 1: documentary about her friends. Her friends are Troy Dyer. That's 231 00:13:43,440 --> 00:13:48,760 Speaker 1: Ethan hawk Hot mm hmmm. His character is despicable. His 232 00:13:48,840 --> 00:13:54,280 Speaker 1: character is horrible. Yeah, Vicky, that's Janine Garoffalo and Sammy 233 00:13:54,720 --> 00:13:59,880 Speaker 1: Steve's on of the Zones sence Hot. There's I just 234 00:14:00,920 --> 00:14:05,120 Speaker 1: I'm going to be annoying today. Um there was. I 235 00:14:05,160 --> 00:14:09,480 Speaker 1: was thinking of just like other very gen xy movies 236 00:14:09,520 --> 00:14:12,040 Speaker 1: and things in general, and I was thinking about Rent, 237 00:14:12,440 --> 00:14:15,400 Speaker 1: which I feel like also goes in this category very much. 238 00:14:15,880 --> 00:14:21,560 Speaker 1: Also features I think, a visibly terrible documentary about someone's friends. 239 00:14:22,280 --> 00:14:24,120 Speaker 1: It was a very niceties thing to do to think 240 00:14:24,160 --> 00:14:26,400 Speaker 1: that you were. I mean, I guess it's like how 241 00:14:26,440 --> 00:14:28,840 Speaker 1: millennials and gen z use social media to be like 242 00:14:29,680 --> 00:14:31,920 Speaker 1: get ready with me, and it's like, God, everyone's so 243 00:14:32,080 --> 00:14:36,280 Speaker 1: fucking boring and you all have the same instincts exactly. Yeah, 244 00:14:36,400 --> 00:14:40,000 Speaker 1: And I think that to document our lives and make 245 00:14:40,040 --> 00:14:44,280 Speaker 1: them public. I do think that Winona Writer's fake documentary 246 00:14:44,320 --> 00:14:49,640 Speaker 1: in Reality Bites seems more interesting than Anthony Rapp's fake 247 00:14:49,800 --> 00:14:54,600 Speaker 1: documentary in rent That's a professional opinion question. I mean 248 00:14:54,720 --> 00:14:59,360 Speaker 1: his documentary is just videoing his I mean, Lena is 249 00:14:59,560 --> 00:15:02,520 Speaker 1: like act them questions about like what's it like to 250 00:15:02,560 --> 00:15:04,600 Speaker 1: be worried about AIDS? What's it like to do this? 251 00:15:04,680 --> 00:15:08,040 Speaker 1: Like she's asking them their perspective the documentary. If I 252 00:15:08,040 --> 00:15:10,440 Speaker 1: haven't seen Rented a long time, so excuse me if 253 00:15:10,440 --> 00:15:14,040 Speaker 1: I'm misremembering, But if I recall correctly, he's just like 254 00:15:14,200 --> 00:15:16,560 Speaker 1: got a camera in his friend's faces and they're just 255 00:15:16,640 --> 00:15:19,840 Speaker 1: living their lives. Yeah, he's trying to do him more 256 00:15:19,960 --> 00:15:24,640 Speaker 1: Like I'm just like, is who's getting releases for these things? Logistically? 257 00:15:25,120 --> 00:15:28,080 Speaker 1: Like who's getting releases for this? Yeah? He was just 258 00:15:28,160 --> 00:15:31,960 Speaker 1: bringing his camera to like like support groups in a 259 00:15:32,000 --> 00:15:36,040 Speaker 1: way that you're like, this is illegal mark following this 260 00:15:36,080 --> 00:15:41,280 Speaker 1: person's anonymity or whatever. Yeah, she's anyway, Here's They both 261 00:15:41,280 --> 00:15:43,680 Speaker 1: probably would suck, But I think when known as this 262 00:15:43,840 --> 00:15:46,680 Speaker 1: is more interesting and it seems like at least everyone 263 00:15:46,880 --> 00:15:51,640 Speaker 1: is willingly participating. That's true time. Here's my hot and 264 00:15:51,720 --> 00:15:55,920 Speaker 1: potentially terrible take, is that the TV network in your 265 00:15:55,960 --> 00:16:02,080 Speaker 1: Face version of who are not think is like not 266 00:16:02,120 --> 00:16:05,120 Speaker 1: that bad? Totally agree, I'm so I would that. I 267 00:16:05,120 --> 00:16:08,520 Speaker 1: was going to totally say the same thing. I thank you, honestly, 268 00:16:08,560 --> 00:16:11,120 Speaker 1: I truly so. I'm sure we'll get to this and 269 00:16:11,120 --> 00:16:12,840 Speaker 1: I maybe I'm jumping the gun. But the scene when 270 00:16:12,880 --> 00:16:15,640 Speaker 1: they show it, I was like, it just seems like 271 00:16:15,680 --> 00:16:18,120 Speaker 1: the bumper or the teaser, like you don't even what 272 00:16:18,160 --> 00:16:21,520 Speaker 1: was so bad about it they I truly don't get it, Okay, 273 00:16:21,760 --> 00:16:24,600 Speaker 1: my As I was watching that, I was like, how 274 00:16:24,640 --> 00:16:28,200 Speaker 1: different is this from the trailer to reality bites? It's 275 00:16:28,400 --> 00:16:31,680 Speaker 1: pretty similar and very similar, but that's like I feel 276 00:16:31,680 --> 00:16:34,760 Speaker 1: like that's kind of like one of the bizarro like. 277 00:16:35,200 --> 00:16:37,440 Speaker 1: I mean, I know the word irony is used really 278 00:16:37,480 --> 00:16:39,040 Speaker 1: heavily in this movie, but that's like kind of the 279 00:16:39,080 --> 00:16:41,640 Speaker 1: weird irony of this movie is like a movie about 280 00:16:41,680 --> 00:16:43,680 Speaker 1: selling out, but like you would have had to have 281 00:16:43,760 --> 00:16:46,240 Speaker 1: sold out in order for it to be made. It's 282 00:16:46,240 --> 00:16:50,520 Speaker 1: a studio movie, right. I don't know, Jamie, define irony. 283 00:16:51,200 --> 00:16:55,120 Speaker 1: You can't. It's undefinable. Literally, I was as she was 284 00:16:55,120 --> 00:16:56,960 Speaker 1: fumbling with that, I was like, oh, I would have 285 00:16:57,560 --> 00:17:00,200 Speaker 1: I would not have been able to do that, would 286 00:17:00,200 --> 00:17:03,320 Speaker 1: have sucked it up. I also think that what Ethan 287 00:17:03,360 --> 00:17:06,520 Speaker 1: hawks characters definition is like also not quite the right 288 00:17:06,560 --> 00:17:10,000 Speaker 1: definition of irony? Was this before or after the Atlantis 289 00:17:10,000 --> 00:17:15,000 Speaker 1: Morrissette song This exchangees I was like, could no one 290 00:17:15,119 --> 00:17:21,120 Speaker 1: in this generation correctly define that word? We don't know anyway. Okay, 291 00:17:21,160 --> 00:17:25,359 Speaker 1: So Lene is making this documentary about her friends. We 292 00:17:25,400 --> 00:17:30,320 Speaker 1: see footage of them talking. They're goofing around, they're speaking 293 00:17:30,400 --> 00:17:33,320 Speaker 1: on their lives and their future plans, and they all 294 00:17:33,359 --> 00:17:35,800 Speaker 1: seem kind of aimless and they they're not really sure 295 00:17:36,280 --> 00:17:39,600 Speaker 1: what to do or how to proceed. Then we cut 296 00:17:39,640 --> 00:17:43,600 Speaker 1: to Lelena having dinner with her parents. Her dad gives 297 00:17:43,640 --> 00:17:46,639 Speaker 1: her a gas card, which he says he'll pay the 298 00:17:46,640 --> 00:17:49,760 Speaker 1: bill on for a year. He also gives her his 299 00:17:49,800 --> 00:17:53,520 Speaker 1: old BMW. There's some debate about whether or not she 300 00:17:53,520 --> 00:17:56,840 Speaker 1: should take the BMW because she mentioned being more morally 301 00:17:56,840 --> 00:18:00,359 Speaker 1: opposed to BMW's in her graduation speech, but ultimately she 302 00:18:00,440 --> 00:18:08,280 Speaker 1: takes the car and loaded the privilege these kids have, 303 00:18:08,560 --> 00:18:12,800 Speaker 1: um I know. Yeah. So then Lena we see her 304 00:18:12,840 --> 00:18:16,320 Speaker 1: at her job as a I think production assistant on 305 00:18:16,480 --> 00:18:21,640 Speaker 1: a morning talk show for Frasier's dad. Oh my god, right, 306 00:18:22,640 --> 00:18:26,280 Speaker 1: second only the two times I gasped, No, three times 307 00:18:26,280 --> 00:18:30,760 Speaker 1: I gasped. First Steve's on reveal, second, Fraser's dad revel, 308 00:18:31,080 --> 00:18:36,600 Speaker 1: Third she chooses ethan Hawk reveal just just just. But 309 00:18:36,760 --> 00:18:41,600 Speaker 1: Frasier's dad absolutely killing in this movie. And his character 310 00:18:41,760 --> 00:18:45,000 Speaker 1: is a menal jerk he learned, just like in Frasier, 311 00:18:45,040 --> 00:18:51,879 Speaker 1: except in Frasier it's complicated. I mean, he's he's like 312 00:18:51,920 --> 00:18:54,199 Speaker 1: a softie that we love, but he does run for 313 00:18:54,280 --> 00:18:57,080 Speaker 1: like an extreme like he doesn't even vote for like 314 00:18:57,119 --> 00:19:00,439 Speaker 1: an extremist candidate, and might have some and not so 315 00:19:00,520 --> 00:19:04,360 Speaker 1: great political positions. I would not because I think, isn't 316 00:19:04,359 --> 00:19:07,879 Speaker 1: he like a former cop? Like you? You're like, I 317 00:19:07,920 --> 00:19:09,719 Speaker 1: don't want to know how this guy votes, but I 318 00:19:09,760 --> 00:19:14,560 Speaker 1: do love the just the character setup of I love 319 00:19:14,600 --> 00:19:19,840 Speaker 1: my fancy sons, my fancy lad son, my I love 320 00:19:19,920 --> 00:19:23,600 Speaker 1: my weird fancy sons. You're like, well, someone's gotta a 321 00:19:23,600 --> 00:19:27,000 Speaker 1: little aside. I I only I watched Fraser for the 322 00:19:27,040 --> 00:19:29,879 Speaker 1: first time in The Pandemic and my partner loves the show, 323 00:19:30,040 --> 00:19:32,479 Speaker 1: and I was like, oh, isn't it about a gruff 324 00:19:32,520 --> 00:19:35,439 Speaker 1: guy who has two sons who are British for some reason? 325 00:19:35,440 --> 00:19:38,159 Speaker 1: And he was like, no, they're not British, They're just fancy. 326 00:19:39,160 --> 00:19:42,400 Speaker 1: I always, for whatever reason, I did assume they were British. 327 00:19:42,480 --> 00:19:45,480 Speaker 1: I would say that Kelsey Grammar and David Hyde Piers 328 00:19:45,840 --> 00:19:49,800 Speaker 1: do sort of affect a like movie like Transatlantic accent 329 00:19:49,920 --> 00:19:53,200 Speaker 1: for their roles. It's not they don't sound like they're 330 00:19:53,240 --> 00:19:58,680 Speaker 1: from Seattle. They sound like Rose DeWitt Picater from Titanic. Yes, 331 00:19:59,359 --> 00:20:01,480 Speaker 1: they sound they sound like they're from a place that 332 00:20:01,560 --> 00:20:08,440 Speaker 1: never existed. But I mean, look, the Fraser reboot, goddamn 333 00:20:08,440 --> 00:20:10,720 Speaker 1: if I'm not going to watch it. They shut down 334 00:20:11,119 --> 00:20:14,880 Speaker 1: one of my favorite local bars to film, which is weird. 335 00:20:14,920 --> 00:20:17,760 Speaker 1: That's a thing that's happening. A Fraser reboot. Oh yeah, 336 00:20:17,800 --> 00:20:19,879 Speaker 1: I don't know about this. There's going to be a 337 00:20:19,880 --> 00:20:23,680 Speaker 1: Fraser reboot. And they shut down this bar near me 338 00:20:23,720 --> 00:20:26,399 Speaker 1: called the Thirsty Crow, just like a fun but like 339 00:20:26,520 --> 00:20:28,760 Speaker 1: grimy little bar. I was like, what is Fraser going 340 00:20:28,800 --> 00:20:33,280 Speaker 1: to do there? Get killed? Like I don't know. Okay, 341 00:20:33,359 --> 00:20:37,239 Speaker 1: So so we see Lena at her job. Then she 342 00:20:37,280 --> 00:20:39,760 Speaker 1: gets into a minor car accident with this guy named 343 00:20:39,800 --> 00:20:44,159 Speaker 1: Michael played by Ben Stiller, and they meet via this 344 00:20:44,240 --> 00:20:46,879 Speaker 1: car accident and they kind of hit it off and 345 00:20:46,920 --> 00:20:51,800 Speaker 1: he asks her for a date. Meanwhile, Troy slash Ethan 346 00:20:51,880 --> 00:20:55,399 Speaker 1: Hawk has been fired from his newsstand job for eating 347 00:20:55,400 --> 00:20:59,320 Speaker 1: a Snickers bar, so he has to move into Lelena 348 00:20:59,359 --> 00:21:02,240 Speaker 1: and Vicki's apartment and he crashes on the couch for 349 00:21:02,280 --> 00:21:05,320 Speaker 1: a while. We also learn more about the dynamic between 350 00:21:05,320 --> 00:21:09,280 Speaker 1: Troy and Lelena, which is a bit contentious. It's a 351 00:21:09,280 --> 00:21:13,720 Speaker 1: bit will they or won't they? The friends are hanging out, 352 00:21:13,760 --> 00:21:17,680 Speaker 1: we see more documentary footage Lelena and Vicky and Sammy 353 00:21:17,800 --> 00:21:21,480 Speaker 1: dance to my Sharona in the convenience store. Troy is like, 354 00:21:21,600 --> 00:21:24,879 Speaker 1: I'm too cool to dance. You're like, shut up. I 355 00:21:25,440 --> 00:21:31,040 Speaker 1: hate him. I can't stand Troy can't stand. He reminds 356 00:21:31,320 --> 00:21:35,040 Speaker 1: I'm discovering that a lot of nineties ethan Hot characters 357 00:21:35,080 --> 00:21:38,440 Speaker 1: are really deplorable. Because Before Sunrise is one of my 358 00:21:38,440 --> 00:21:42,080 Speaker 1: favorite movies. But I went back and rewatched that recently. 359 00:21:42,160 --> 00:21:44,320 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, his character is awful 360 00:21:44,920 --> 00:21:47,679 Speaker 1: in that movie. He gets a little more mature and 361 00:21:47,760 --> 00:21:50,680 Speaker 1: Before Sunset, but I still haven't seen it. I mean, 362 00:21:50,720 --> 00:21:53,800 Speaker 1: it's like there's I I'm it's it's so confusing. I 363 00:21:53,800 --> 00:21:57,160 Speaker 1: wish I could was anyone able to find like because 364 00:21:57,320 --> 00:22:01,479 Speaker 1: I read that this script was written like sevent dy times, 365 00:22:01,840 --> 00:22:04,320 Speaker 1: so it sounds like there was like studio notes on 366 00:22:04,400 --> 00:22:07,439 Speaker 1: notes on notes on notes. Um. So I'm just like 367 00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:11,560 Speaker 1: because it seems like the final script goes all the 368 00:22:11,600 --> 00:22:14,960 Speaker 1: way up to like, yeah, fuck this guy, but then 369 00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:18,320 Speaker 1: at the last second it's like, nah, he's great, he's great, 370 00:22:18,400 --> 00:22:20,399 Speaker 1: and you gotta marry him. And I was like, that 371 00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:23,040 Speaker 1: has to be a studio notes. Like I cannot conceive 372 00:22:23,119 --> 00:22:25,200 Speaker 1: of a world because it's like the movie goes all 373 00:22:25,240 --> 00:22:28,200 Speaker 1: the like she does the she does the right thing, 374 00:22:28,520 --> 00:22:35,520 Speaker 1: she bails. Yeah. Anyways. Yeah, So then Lelena goes on 375 00:22:35,560 --> 00:22:39,399 Speaker 1: her date with Michael Ak Ben Stiller. They make out, 376 00:22:39,960 --> 00:22:42,600 Speaker 1: which Troy sees and he gets upset about this and 377 00:22:42,640 --> 00:22:44,920 Speaker 1: he picks a fight with Lelena and she's like, if 378 00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:46,800 Speaker 1: you have a problem, just say it, and he's like, 379 00:22:46,920 --> 00:22:49,200 Speaker 1: I love you, and it seems like he's being sincere, 380 00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:51,760 Speaker 1: but it turns out he's just being an asshole, even 381 00:22:51,800 --> 00:22:54,440 Speaker 1: though it is clear that he is in love with her, 382 00:22:54,840 --> 00:22:58,199 Speaker 1: but he won't admit it. Anoying Can I Can I 383 00:22:58,240 --> 00:23:01,000 Speaker 1: ask a question there? Because that's something in rewatching this movie, 384 00:23:01,040 --> 00:23:03,000 Speaker 1: I was sort of like, what is this? And I 385 00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:07,159 Speaker 1: know people are complicated and I've certainly been there, what 386 00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:10,080 Speaker 1: is the vibe of like being in love with each other? 387 00:23:10,600 --> 00:23:12,840 Speaker 1: It's also in plan that they've hooked up drunkenly at 388 00:23:12,880 --> 00:23:15,840 Speaker 1: least once in the past, at least once. Like why 389 00:23:15,880 --> 00:23:19,639 Speaker 1: are they so against admitting it, talking about it, communicating 390 00:23:19,680 --> 00:23:22,480 Speaker 1: about it? Like I understand that in in the in 391 00:23:22,480 --> 00:23:24,199 Speaker 1: the universe of the film, it's supposed to be like 392 00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:26,320 Speaker 1: they can't admit it, you know, they don't want to 393 00:23:26,359 --> 00:23:29,760 Speaker 1: ruin the friendship. Why not, Like why it's communicating openly 394 00:23:29,800 --> 00:23:32,800 Speaker 1: about how you feel such a villain in the universe 395 00:23:32,800 --> 00:23:35,840 Speaker 1: of this film. I feel like my assumption was like 396 00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:40,199 Speaker 1: they're twenty two and extremely emotionally immature, Like that was 397 00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:43,360 Speaker 1: sort of mine. And like especially Troy, like I mean, 398 00:23:43,800 --> 00:23:46,320 Speaker 1: we can we'll talk about Lena and all the ways 399 00:23:46,359 --> 00:23:50,000 Speaker 1: where like she's very messy and a lot of regards, 400 00:23:50,680 --> 00:23:54,679 Speaker 1: especially with her own privilege, and like she's just like 401 00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:58,280 Speaker 1: bad at navigating it. But like Troy especially, I feel 402 00:23:58,280 --> 00:24:01,199 Speaker 1: like he's like I don't know, like I'm trying. I 403 00:24:01,240 --> 00:24:03,800 Speaker 1: was watching this movie, I was thinking, all this bad 404 00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:05,960 Speaker 1: advice my mom has given me at different points in 405 00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:09,600 Speaker 1: my life, but where she's like, well, sometimes like people 406 00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:13,199 Speaker 1: run away because they know that they can't handle a 407 00:24:13,240 --> 00:24:17,840 Speaker 1: relationship even if they care about you. And I was like, yeah, 408 00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:20,280 Speaker 1: like I can sort of see that in Troy, of 409 00:24:20,320 --> 00:24:23,960 Speaker 1: like he knows he's a piece of ship to some extent, 410 00:24:24,680 --> 00:24:27,119 Speaker 1: and like even if you love someone and you know 411 00:24:27,200 --> 00:24:29,440 Speaker 1: you're a piece of ship, but then but then he's 412 00:24:29,480 --> 00:24:32,080 Speaker 1: also so unwilling to work on himself that you're just like, 413 00:24:33,160 --> 00:24:35,800 Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know, what do you guys think? Well, 414 00:24:35,840 --> 00:24:37,760 Speaker 1: I would have definitely had the hots for Ethan Hawk's 415 00:24:37,840 --> 00:24:40,200 Speaker 1: character when I was in my early twenties, No question. 416 00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:43,600 Speaker 1: I would have let him suck up my life, suck 417 00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:46,800 Speaker 1: up my credit, crash on my couch, no question in 418 00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:48,960 Speaker 1: my mind, I would have gotten sucked up in that 419 00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:52,199 Speaker 1: Troy tornado. Happily, I would have been in love with 420 00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:54,320 Speaker 1: steve 'son and then he would have come out to me, 421 00:24:54,440 --> 00:24:57,120 Speaker 1: and then I would have been like, I'm happy for you, 422 00:24:57,200 --> 00:25:01,879 Speaker 1: and then I would have cried for weeks and then 423 00:25:01,880 --> 00:25:05,400 Speaker 1: we would have been friends forever. But yeah, I mean 424 00:25:05,440 --> 00:25:07,600 Speaker 1: I don't get the whole Oh, we love each other, 425 00:25:07,800 --> 00:25:11,600 Speaker 1: but we refuse to admit it thing. I mean I do. 426 00:25:11,920 --> 00:25:14,720 Speaker 1: But for me, at least, if I like someone romantically, 427 00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:18,399 Speaker 1: I go out of my way to tell them, see 428 00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:20,919 Speaker 1: I will, I will be quiet about it forever. So 429 00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:24,000 Speaker 1: I do understand like where he's coming from. But also, 430 00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:27,360 Speaker 1: but but I feel like that gets conflated with like, 431 00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:30,960 Speaker 1: and so he's allowed to be an asshole and neg everything. 432 00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:33,080 Speaker 1: She says. It's like, well, it's one thing to not 433 00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:36,760 Speaker 1: express your romantic feelings to someone, but that doesn't automatically 434 00:25:36,760 --> 00:25:38,960 Speaker 1: translate to like, and you get to be at evil 435 00:25:39,040 --> 00:25:42,000 Speaker 1: villain because you can't. But i'fe like that's where a 436 00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:48,200 Speaker 1: lot of the masculine issues that Troy has, that's where 437 00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:51,200 Speaker 1: a lot of them live. The film really like validates 438 00:25:51,320 --> 00:25:54,679 Speaker 1: his antisocial dick behavior, And it's supposed to be like, well, 439 00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:58,400 Speaker 1: he's an artist, he's tortured, he's emotionally unavailable, and we're 440 00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:01,679 Speaker 1: supposed to not find that problematic as of you. We're 441 00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:04,920 Speaker 1: supposed to like empathize for him being in that state, 442 00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:07,520 Speaker 1: as opposed to be like, well, you're an adult and 443 00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:09,760 Speaker 1: you are responsible for communicating the way that you feel. 444 00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:12,000 Speaker 1: If you can't, we're not all supposed to find it 445 00:26:12,080 --> 00:26:15,119 Speaker 1: charming or whatever, right, And it's like there are moments 446 00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:19,240 Speaker 1: where Laney like does explicitly say that where she's just like, oh, 447 00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:22,400 Speaker 1: you're a fucking artist. Then like where is the art at? 448 00:26:22,600 --> 00:26:25,000 Speaker 1: Like what are you doing? What? You don't do shit? 449 00:26:25,760 --> 00:26:27,680 Speaker 1: Like she calls him out on his ship, but then 450 00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:31,040 Speaker 1: like the but then she just ends up with him anyways, 451 00:26:31,280 --> 00:26:34,840 Speaker 1: and the I don't It is a tricky movie because 452 00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:37,480 Speaker 1: sometimes you're like, you know, there's a lot of criticisms 453 00:26:37,520 --> 00:26:39,960 Speaker 1: I would have of these characters that I'm like, yeah, 454 00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:42,480 Speaker 1: I probably did something like that when I was twenty two. 455 00:26:42,480 --> 00:26:48,200 Speaker 1: I probably did something emotionally volatile and weird. Um. But 456 00:26:48,600 --> 00:26:55,359 Speaker 1: it's it's tricky. Um. There's this through line in the movie, 457 00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:58,640 Speaker 1: or this kind of like subplot where Vicky we learned 458 00:26:58,640 --> 00:27:00,920 Speaker 1: that she has a lot of casual X and then 459 00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:05,159 Speaker 1: she becomes worried that she is HIV positive because a 460 00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:07,560 Speaker 1: friend of hers tested positive for HIV, so we see 461 00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:12,399 Speaker 1: her going to get tested. We then see a scene 462 00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:17,000 Speaker 1: where Lena's boss aka Mr. Fraser's dad is an asshole 463 00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:20,440 Speaker 1: to her, so she retaliates by humiliating him on air, 464 00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:23,840 Speaker 1: which gets her fired. So now she's worried about money. 465 00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:28,800 Speaker 1: She's worried about paying rent. Troy consoles her and in 466 00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:32,480 Speaker 1: so doing, he surprised kisses her and she's like, no, 467 00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:36,840 Speaker 1: it'll ruin our friendship. And also I'm dating Michael. Troy's 468 00:27:36,840 --> 00:27:41,680 Speaker 1: ability to make anything and everything about himself is um 469 00:27:42,320 --> 00:27:50,080 Speaker 1: infurious staggering. Yeah. Meanwhile, Lelena shows Michael her documentary and 470 00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:53,520 Speaker 1: he is like a VP of programming for this TV 471 00:27:53,600 --> 00:27:57,640 Speaker 1: network similar to MTV called in Your Face, and he 472 00:27:57,680 --> 00:28:01,640 Speaker 1: thinks this documentary would be great programing for the network, 473 00:28:01,800 --> 00:28:06,000 Speaker 1: but Lena isn't sure about that. Um. We also see 474 00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:11,240 Speaker 1: Troy after having been rejected by Lena. He's being pretty distant. 475 00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:14,640 Speaker 1: Then we see Lilena trying to get a new job 476 00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:18,280 Speaker 1: in television, but she can't get hired for anything. She 477 00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:24,679 Speaker 1: then considers a hot dog job's hot dog David Spade 478 00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:29,320 Speaker 1: hot dog cameo, Hello there. And I also like that 479 00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:32,840 Speaker 1: she can't hack in the world of hot dogs. She's 480 00:28:33,359 --> 00:28:37,000 Speaker 1: that I found to be good hot dog representation of 481 00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:40,280 Speaker 1: like not just anyone can work in hot dogs, which 482 00:28:40,320 --> 00:28:43,520 Speaker 1: is true. And on the other end, I appreciate that 483 00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:46,600 Speaker 1: there's a through line with Laney that she is a 484 00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:51,040 Speaker 1: smart and creative young woman who is constantly thwarted by 485 00:28:51,080 --> 00:28:56,520 Speaker 1: being bad at math. Um don't know that? Yeah, it's 486 00:28:56,560 --> 00:28:59,080 Speaker 1: like I know this, I know this struggle. I know 487 00:28:59,160 --> 00:29:02,800 Speaker 1: this pain at math, bad at money numbers in general 488 00:29:02,920 --> 00:29:05,400 Speaker 1: or not her strong suit like no way either. Let's 489 00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:08,920 Speaker 1: be real, could either of you to add two numbers 490 00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:11,360 Speaker 1: like that in your head? Like he he throws her 491 00:29:11,480 --> 00:29:14,680 Speaker 1: like three dred and sixteen plus twenty nine, Like you 492 00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:16,920 Speaker 1: couldn't add that in your head quickly without a piece 493 00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:20,160 Speaker 1: of paper, right right? And she also like I do 494 00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:22,600 Speaker 1: like how I mean, like when not the writer's the bet, 495 00:29:22,600 --> 00:29:26,840 Speaker 1: Like I love this character like just buckles under like 496 00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:31,320 Speaker 1: one milliss thing of pressure at any time. They're like 497 00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:34,360 Speaker 1: to find a word, she's like and like explode And 498 00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:36,600 Speaker 1: he's like, what's stupiless too? And she's like, I don't 499 00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:40,240 Speaker 1: know that is that doesn't have My favorite line of 500 00:29:40,320 --> 00:29:42,360 Speaker 1: the whole movie when she can't add the numbers that 501 00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:45,200 Speaker 1: she's guessing and David's fate is like it's not an option, 502 00:29:46,880 --> 00:29:49,120 Speaker 1: and then that that seems, I mean, it is a 503 00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:53,120 Speaker 1: well written like the line that it ends on. Rai's like, look, 504 00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:55,280 Speaker 1: I've been at this job for six months, for a 505 00:29:55,280 --> 00:30:01,240 Speaker 1: reason like that's honestly the funniest scene in the movie. 506 00:30:02,240 --> 00:30:05,560 Speaker 1: The scene that proceeds that we'll talk about. But there's 507 00:30:05,600 --> 00:30:13,120 Speaker 1: some really fucked up ablest language and ideology that's happening there. Yes, Okay, 508 00:30:13,280 --> 00:30:17,200 Speaker 1: So Lena, she's struggling to get a new job. She's 509 00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:19,840 Speaker 1: bumming around for a while. Then she calls a psychic 510 00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:22,200 Speaker 1: cot line and racks up a huge phone bill. So 511 00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:23,760 Speaker 1: now she has to figure out how to pay it 512 00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:26,320 Speaker 1: off and get her life back on track. So she 513 00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:30,200 Speaker 1: basically starts running a scam where she pays for people's 514 00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:33,680 Speaker 1: gas with her dad's gas card but makes the customers 515 00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:36,440 Speaker 1: give her cash. So she's collecting the cash knowing that 516 00:30:36,520 --> 00:30:39,720 Speaker 1: her dad will pay off the gas card, and that's 517 00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:41,840 Speaker 1: how she like earns enough money to pay for this 518 00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:45,840 Speaker 1: phone bill. She she taps in and out of her privilege. 519 00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:52,440 Speaker 1: It's wild, It's wild. Yeah. So then Michael tells Lena 520 00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:55,760 Speaker 1: that his network wants to buy her documentary and make 521 00:30:55,840 --> 00:30:59,160 Speaker 1: it a series. Um, and she's very excited about that 522 00:30:59,200 --> 00:31:01,800 Speaker 1: because she's like, this solve my money problems. And then 523 00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:05,960 Speaker 1: Michael and Troy argue because Troy is being an asshole 524 00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:09,239 Speaker 1: and he's like, you don't know what Lena needs, and 525 00:31:09,280 --> 00:31:11,560 Speaker 1: Michael's like, I know what she needs in a way 526 00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:14,120 Speaker 1: that you never will, and you're like, oh my god, 527 00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:18,680 Speaker 1: put your dicks away and stop trying to measure them. 528 00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:21,120 Speaker 1: And then and then the fact that they go back 529 00:31:21,160 --> 00:31:26,400 Speaker 1: for round two before the end of the movie. I'm like, you, guys, this, 530 00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:30,640 Speaker 1: this is such a bad look. She shouldn't pick. I 531 00:31:30,680 --> 00:31:33,719 Speaker 1: was really hoping she would do the thing where she 532 00:31:34,160 --> 00:31:37,400 Speaker 1: is like, wait a second, I'm twenty two. I picked nobody. 533 00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:41,440 Speaker 1: I picked myself right, Yeah. Yeah, Sex in the City 534 00:31:41,480 --> 00:31:45,560 Speaker 1: finale style. I mean I I do I in the 535 00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:48,880 Speaker 1: universe of this film. I always wonder is Michael such 536 00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:50,760 Speaker 1: a bad guy? Like what did he do that was 537 00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:52,959 Speaker 1: other than with the movie? Like what do you do 538 00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:55,720 Speaker 1: that was so wrong? I have the same thoughts. I 539 00:31:55,760 --> 00:31:58,320 Speaker 1: don't hate Michael. I think it's very interesting that the 540 00:31:58,320 --> 00:32:01,200 Speaker 1: movie seems to want I mean, I feel we're supposed 541 00:32:01,240 --> 00:32:05,520 Speaker 1: to dislike Michael because he works for a corporation, but 542 00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:08,520 Speaker 1: he's like a yuppie sellout. Yeah, he's a yuppie sellout. 543 00:32:08,800 --> 00:32:12,520 Speaker 1: But the messaging of this movie is so muddled where 544 00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:16,120 Speaker 1: it's like it's okay if some people are sellout, but 545 00:32:16,200 --> 00:32:19,600 Speaker 1: it's not okay if other people are. Again, I just 546 00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:22,000 Speaker 1: like it makes me want to read earlier drafts of 547 00:32:22,040 --> 00:32:25,800 Speaker 1: this movie because I found Michael to be a pretty 548 00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:28,880 Speaker 1: sympathetic character, and I liked that the movie went out 549 00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:32,840 Speaker 1: of its way to characterize him as like a guy 550 00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:36,480 Speaker 1: that had dreams but was bad at math, and like 551 00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:40,080 Speaker 1: he's like, I don't know, it's so weird because you 552 00:32:40,200 --> 00:32:42,400 Speaker 1: put yourself in gen X brain and we you know, 553 00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:45,000 Speaker 1: we all work for fucking I heart radio. We don't 554 00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:47,160 Speaker 1: have a like to stand on when it comes to 555 00:32:47,280 --> 00:32:51,200 Speaker 1: like being yuppie fucking sellouts here, we are not even 556 00:32:51,360 --> 00:32:53,360 Speaker 1: a little bit. I take what I am. I am, 557 00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:56,680 Speaker 1: I have a price, people have met it. You know 558 00:32:57,160 --> 00:33:00,160 Speaker 1: what can I say? Right like and and it's a 559 00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:02,600 Speaker 1: very twenty two year old mentality. And I don't even 560 00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:05,160 Speaker 1: mean that in a negative way. I think, like young 561 00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:09,640 Speaker 1: people being vehemently anti capitalist is always a net good thing. 562 00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:13,160 Speaker 1: But but to put all of the evils of capitalism 563 00:33:13,160 --> 00:33:17,200 Speaker 1: onto like one benz Diller, who is the only person 564 00:33:17,280 --> 00:33:20,760 Speaker 1: in the movie, or the only man in the movie 565 00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:25,240 Speaker 1: who seems to a be willing to apologize for when 566 00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:30,440 Speaker 1: he fox up and be like accept Laney's decisions and 567 00:33:30,640 --> 00:33:35,160 Speaker 1: like seems to like genuinely respect and love her. I 568 00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:38,240 Speaker 1: felt like a sellout for kind of being like is 569 00:33:38,240 --> 00:33:41,200 Speaker 1: he not bad? But like is he saying I don't know? 570 00:33:41,560 --> 00:33:43,760 Speaker 1: Are we are we old by saying is he that bad? 571 00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:46,200 Speaker 1: But I don't think he's that bad. He is sweet 572 00:33:46,240 --> 00:33:49,680 Speaker 1: to her. Troy treats her like shit, Like there's a 573 00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:52,880 Speaker 1: noble difference in the way that those two guys treat her. 574 00:33:52,920 --> 00:33:55,400 Speaker 1: And I also feel like he is you know, he 575 00:33:55,520 --> 00:33:58,520 Speaker 1: like wants to siphon off corporate money to get her 576 00:33:58,840 --> 00:34:02,040 Speaker 1: art out into the world, which again you would think 577 00:34:02,240 --> 00:34:05,560 Speaker 1: is exactly what's happening by reality bites being made and 578 00:34:05,640 --> 00:34:10,439 Speaker 1: by producers championing this young writer and like, so there's 579 00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:13,760 Speaker 1: all these like interesting parallels that I'm like, I don't 580 00:34:13,960 --> 00:34:18,759 Speaker 1: hate Michael. I understand people's criticisms of him, like ideologically, 581 00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:23,200 Speaker 1: but like he seems like a pretty nice guy. I 582 00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:25,600 Speaker 1: don't know, Yeah, I would let him take me to 583 00:34:25,640 --> 00:34:29,239 Speaker 1: the aquarium restaurant. I'm just saying. Watching that's when I 584 00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:31,920 Speaker 1: was in high school. But I first watched it, I 585 00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:35,440 Speaker 1: was like, Oh, he's such a yuppy fuck. Troy is 586 00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:38,319 Speaker 1: the is clearly the right match for her. Watching it 587 00:34:38,440 --> 00:34:41,280 Speaker 1: recently in my thirties, I was like that, Michael seems 588 00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:43,400 Speaker 1: like a nice guy, probably got a furrow one k 589 00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:49,719 Speaker 1: taking her to dinner. Guy, Like I literally was like, dude, 590 00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:51,360 Speaker 1: I don't know. I was like at this point, like 591 00:34:52,120 --> 00:34:55,920 Speaker 1: you can't be emotionally abusive and make me pay your rent, 592 00:34:56,239 --> 00:35:01,080 Speaker 1: like you make a fucking lane man, And like, anyways, 593 00:35:01,239 --> 00:35:03,799 Speaker 1: he really I think he really has choice number in 594 00:35:03,840 --> 00:35:06,640 Speaker 1: that scene where he's trying when they have their second conversation, 595 00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:09,719 Speaker 1: like you're like the Jester, like holding a skull, Like 596 00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:12,320 Speaker 1: it comes out terribly, But I think that he really 597 00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:14,640 Speaker 1: is the only person in the movie who really see 598 00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:17,760 Speaker 1: Stoy for who he actually is, which is just somebody 599 00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:20,719 Speaker 1: who wants to make crafts jokes while really offering not 600 00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:24,480 Speaker 1: a lot himself. Is that Yeah? And I also was like, 601 00:35:24,520 --> 00:35:28,840 Speaker 1: would I ultimately date a guy fumbling that hard to 602 00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:32,319 Speaker 1: make a Hamlet reference? Yes, of course I would. Where 603 00:35:32,320 --> 00:35:35,520 Speaker 1: he's like in the Clown and the Skull and he's alone, 604 00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:40,879 Speaker 1: You're like, yeah, man, yeah, okay, we're all I guess 605 00:35:40,880 --> 00:35:45,279 Speaker 1: we're all on team Michael. It doesn't feel like a 606 00:35:45,320 --> 00:35:48,040 Speaker 1: great place to be but what's the alternative? But here 607 00:35:48,080 --> 00:35:52,400 Speaker 1: we are. Yeah, apparently it's she has to end up 608 00:35:52,440 --> 00:35:56,440 Speaker 1: with a guy buddy movie, right, There's no alternative, So 609 00:35:56,920 --> 00:36:02,399 Speaker 1: these are the choices. Okay, So, speaking of selling out, 610 00:36:02,520 --> 00:36:05,640 Speaker 1: Lena sees what the In her Face network did to 611 00:36:05,800 --> 00:36:10,200 Speaker 1: her documentary footage, which basically makes a mockery of her 612 00:36:10,239 --> 00:36:13,000 Speaker 1: and her friends. So she's furious and she storms out 613 00:36:13,640 --> 00:36:18,160 Speaker 1: back home. She and Troy talk and he's like, I 614 00:36:18,239 --> 00:36:22,000 Speaker 1: do love you for real this time, and then they 615 00:36:22,000 --> 00:36:25,920 Speaker 1: smooch and then they frick. But then the next morning, 616 00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:30,160 Speaker 1: Troy is very distant and he bails, and Lena goes 617 00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:34,120 Speaker 1: to his show that night, I think where Michael shows 618 00:36:34,200 --> 00:36:39,120 Speaker 1: up and apologizes to Lelena for the whole network mishap. 619 00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:42,200 Speaker 1: He's like, let's go to New York and we'll show 620 00:36:42,200 --> 00:36:44,759 Speaker 1: the network the series the way that you want it 621 00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:47,520 Speaker 1: to be. But then Troy pops up and he's like, 622 00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:50,920 Speaker 1: I panicked this morning, and yeah, I know him an asshole, 623 00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:54,360 Speaker 1: but I'm the only real thing you have. Oh my god, 624 00:36:54,400 --> 00:37:00,200 Speaker 1: that speech a legendary, a legendarily bad. And she well, 625 00:37:00,200 --> 00:37:02,680 Speaker 1: this is like, what what drives me up a wall 626 00:37:02,719 --> 00:37:05,520 Speaker 1: about this movie is she reacts appropriately, She's like, go 627 00:37:05,680 --> 00:37:09,000 Speaker 1: fuck yourself, because he literally is like, yeah, I'm gonna 628 00:37:09,080 --> 00:37:12,520 Speaker 1: treat you bad. Yeah, I'm gonna disappear out of nowhere. Yeah. 629 00:37:12,560 --> 00:37:16,440 Speaker 1: I don't play by anyone's rules, and I don't respect you, God, 630 00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:22,880 Speaker 1: but I love you. And dude, oh my god, imagine 631 00:37:22,880 --> 00:37:25,400 Speaker 1: that a man like said that to you, all defiantly 632 00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:28,040 Speaker 1: expecting you to like marry him because of that pet 633 00:37:28,120 --> 00:37:31,160 Speaker 1: or something, or like run away with him. The audacity 634 00:37:31,200 --> 00:37:34,160 Speaker 1: of straight man. Let me tell you, Oh my god, 635 00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:38,480 Speaker 1: I was. I was a pretty exceptionally um bad decision 636 00:37:38,560 --> 00:37:40,880 Speaker 1: maker at twenty two, but even I wouldn't have gone 637 00:37:40,920 --> 00:37:44,920 Speaker 1: for that bullshit. He's he's literally telling on himself in 638 00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:47,359 Speaker 1: a in a way that it's like almost doing her 639 00:37:47,400 --> 00:37:49,360 Speaker 1: a favor because then you're like, okay, you're telling me 640 00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:52,319 Speaker 1: who you are. Now I can walk away. There has 641 00:37:52,360 --> 00:37:54,920 Speaker 1: to be a version of this movie where she walks away, 642 00:37:55,120 --> 00:37:57,920 Speaker 1: like I would hope. So, what the hell do you think? 643 00:37:57,920 --> 00:38:00,400 Speaker 1: It's like one of those situations like I was it 644 00:38:00,480 --> 00:38:03,280 Speaker 1: Pretty in Pink or Sixteen Candles where there's two apparently 645 00:38:03,280 --> 00:38:06,440 Speaker 1: two versions where she chooses the one guy and then 646 00:38:06,480 --> 00:38:08,960 Speaker 1: she chooses the other audiences didn't like it, Like, do 647 00:38:09,000 --> 00:38:11,640 Speaker 1: you think there's a cut of the scripts somewhere where 648 00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:15,200 Speaker 1: she doesn't choose him. I think it's pretty in pink. 649 00:38:15,320 --> 00:38:18,120 Speaker 1: I'm guessing if there were seventy drafts, the coin couldn't 650 00:38:18,120 --> 00:38:20,719 Speaker 1: have flipped in his favor and all seventy right, I 651 00:38:20,760 --> 00:38:24,440 Speaker 1: don't know what you would think, right, Yeah. Anyway, point 652 00:38:24,520 --> 00:38:28,720 Speaker 1: is that this love triangle slash like competition between Troy 653 00:38:28,760 --> 00:38:33,520 Speaker 1: and Michael for Lolene's affection. It's like reaching its peak here. 654 00:38:34,120 --> 00:38:37,560 Speaker 1: Then Troy leaves town. We find out it's because his 655 00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:41,279 Speaker 1: father passed away, but he doesn't really tell Lolena that 656 00:38:41,360 --> 00:38:43,760 Speaker 1: he's leaving, and so she's looking for him. She's thinking 657 00:38:43,760 --> 00:38:47,520 Speaker 1: about him, she's moping around, and then Sammy's like, oh no, 658 00:38:47,600 --> 00:38:52,000 Speaker 1: Troy went to Chicago. So she's about to go after him. 659 00:38:52,080 --> 00:38:55,560 Speaker 1: But before she can, Troy shows up at her doorstep 660 00:38:55,840 --> 00:38:58,160 Speaker 1: and he's like, I love you, and I wish I 661 00:38:58,200 --> 00:39:02,320 Speaker 1: had behaved differently the morning after we smooched and fricked, 662 00:39:02,880 --> 00:39:05,840 Speaker 1: and then they smooch again, and then we flash forward 663 00:39:05,880 --> 00:39:09,120 Speaker 1: in time. They're together, it seems like they live together, 664 00:39:09,560 --> 00:39:12,440 Speaker 1: and then the movie ends with Lilane's dad calling and 665 00:39:12,480 --> 00:39:15,000 Speaker 1: being like, why is there a nine dollar bill on 666 00:39:15,160 --> 00:39:18,680 Speaker 1: my gas card? Yeah? The end, Can I say something 667 00:39:18,680 --> 00:39:22,440 Speaker 1: about that? Because the scene where Okay, they smooch and 668 00:39:22,440 --> 00:39:26,399 Speaker 1: they frick, he wakes up, feels weird, bails Okay. Then 669 00:39:26,920 --> 00:39:29,160 Speaker 1: Laney is like where is Hei. There's like a montage 670 00:39:29,160 --> 00:39:32,080 Speaker 1: where it's like that's sad you two song is playing 671 00:39:32,120 --> 00:39:34,040 Speaker 1: and it's like have you seen him? Like she's like 672 00:39:34,040 --> 00:39:36,520 Speaker 1: going to all his old haunts and like finding his laundry, 673 00:39:36,760 --> 00:39:38,560 Speaker 1: and then Steve's on it is like, oh, his dad 674 00:39:38,640 --> 00:39:40,719 Speaker 1: is sick. He's in Chicago. I ever heard of a 675 00:39:40,800 --> 00:39:42,920 Speaker 1: fucking phone? Like, I guess I feel like, I mean, 676 00:39:42,960 --> 00:39:45,600 Speaker 1: he does call her, but then he's like I can't. 677 00:39:45,840 --> 00:39:49,200 Speaker 1: Oh that's all right. I hate it. It's like I 678 00:39:49,239 --> 00:39:52,160 Speaker 1: guess i'd just be like in the universe of the film, 679 00:39:52,239 --> 00:39:56,839 Speaker 1: him not being able to physically express himself verbally even 680 00:39:56,840 --> 00:39:58,440 Speaker 1: this to be like, Yo, my dad is really sick. 681 00:39:58,440 --> 00:40:00,239 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be gone for a couple of days. Talk 682 00:40:00,320 --> 00:40:02,359 Speaker 1: to you. Then I don't think we're weird. When he 683 00:40:02,400 --> 00:40:06,120 Speaker 1: shows up unexpectedly at her door, we're supposed to be like, wow, 684 00:40:06,239 --> 00:40:08,640 Speaker 1: this is so heavy, and in reality, it's like he 685 00:40:08,760 --> 00:40:11,680 Speaker 1: just skipped town for a legitimate reason, but couldn't even 686 00:40:11,719 --> 00:40:15,040 Speaker 1: leave her a voicemail letting her know, Like, and why, 687 00:40:15,080 --> 00:40:17,640 Speaker 1: I guess I feel like why is it treated as 688 00:40:17,760 --> 00:40:21,200 Speaker 1: deep in the movie or like like a weighty emotional 689 00:40:21,320 --> 00:40:24,080 Speaker 1: choice all he had, Like he couldn't leave a message, right, 690 00:40:24,440 --> 00:40:27,000 Speaker 1: and then him showing back up is like, oh my gosh, 691 00:40:27,040 --> 00:40:29,600 Speaker 1: it's so romantic that he just showed up on her 692 00:40:29,640 --> 00:40:33,240 Speaker 1: doorstep and professed his love after he's been an asshole 693 00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:35,919 Speaker 1: to her for the entire movie, which is like, it's 694 00:40:36,000 --> 00:40:40,240 Speaker 1: so it's such an abrupt way to end it, because 695 00:40:40,239 --> 00:40:43,320 Speaker 1: it's like if there was a draft of the script 696 00:40:43,360 --> 00:40:48,480 Speaker 1: produced where the fact like it's it's referenced twice early 697 00:40:48,520 --> 00:40:53,280 Speaker 1: in the movie that Troy is dealing with a terminally 698 00:40:53,320 --> 00:40:57,200 Speaker 1: ill parent, and like the I can't imagine, thankfully, I 699 00:40:57,200 --> 00:41:00,920 Speaker 1: can't imagine the existential stress that comes with that, especially 700 00:41:00,920 --> 00:41:04,359 Speaker 1: when you're so young. Like that is a real thing 701 00:41:04,520 --> 00:41:08,520 Speaker 1: that I'm sure, I mean like causes people to act 702 00:41:08,560 --> 00:41:11,920 Speaker 1: out and like you know, like that grieving process is 703 00:41:11,960 --> 00:41:14,719 Speaker 1: a real thing, but like there's no emphasis put on it, 704 00:41:15,000 --> 00:41:18,840 Speaker 1: and it's made to seem like well, because the horrible 705 00:41:18,920 --> 00:41:23,120 Speaker 1: thing happens that excuses how poorly he's treated people this 706 00:41:23,360 --> 00:41:27,120 Speaker 1: entire movie, when it's like there's I don't know, like 707 00:41:27,400 --> 00:41:29,640 Speaker 1: I always we've talked about this a bunch on the show, 708 00:41:29,680 --> 00:41:33,279 Speaker 1: but there's like such a dearth of like movies that 709 00:41:33,680 --> 00:41:38,120 Speaker 1: address grief in a in a thoughtful way, and it's 710 00:41:38,160 --> 00:41:41,840 Speaker 1: like that there is an opportunity to like explore it 711 00:41:41,840 --> 00:41:44,719 Speaker 1: with Troy's character, but like it just doesn't really go 712 00:41:44,800 --> 00:41:47,120 Speaker 1: there because it's like you obviously like feel for him, 713 00:41:47,120 --> 00:41:49,040 Speaker 1: he's lost a parent, but it doesn't mean that he 714 00:41:49,080 --> 00:41:52,960 Speaker 1: hasn't been treating Laney like ship seemingly before his dad 715 00:41:53,040 --> 00:41:55,920 Speaker 1: was even sick. Like it's like he's just been an 716 00:41:55,920 --> 00:41:59,080 Speaker 1: at Like he's an asshole going through something horrible. That's 717 00:41:59,080 --> 00:42:02,040 Speaker 1: an interesting thing to explore, but you can't just like 718 00:42:02,160 --> 00:42:05,239 Speaker 1: forgive the behavior. I don't know, he does nothing to 719 00:42:05,239 --> 00:42:08,480 Speaker 1: redeem himself. That's exactly it. We we as the audience 720 00:42:08,560 --> 00:42:12,040 Speaker 1: never see him, Like what is the thing that we 721 00:42:12,080 --> 00:42:14,440 Speaker 1: don't see him grappling with any of that, like coming 722 00:42:14,440 --> 00:42:17,759 Speaker 1: to realize, you know, I have treated her badly and 723 00:42:17,960 --> 00:42:19,799 Speaker 1: I have like not treated her the way that I 724 00:42:19,800 --> 00:42:22,000 Speaker 1: wanted to treat her, And you know I've learned from 725 00:42:22,000 --> 00:42:24,439 Speaker 1: my behavior. You don't you don't see any of that, 726 00:42:25,080 --> 00:42:26,640 Speaker 1: you know where you just are spant to be like, 727 00:42:26,640 --> 00:42:29,480 Speaker 1: oh his dad passed away, that was some sort of 728 00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:32,600 Speaker 1: emotional block or weight lifted, and now he's gonna show 729 00:42:32,680 --> 00:42:34,640 Speaker 1: up at her door and she's gonna be thrilled to 730 00:42:34,680 --> 00:42:38,520 Speaker 1: have him. Like I think if the movie had shown 731 00:42:38,640 --> 00:42:40,440 Speaker 1: us a little bit or like built like built that 732 00:42:40,520 --> 00:42:43,160 Speaker 1: out a little bit more, I would be more willing 733 00:42:43,160 --> 00:42:45,880 Speaker 1: to accept it. Also, sign oute Jamie, how many beverages 734 00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:48,280 Speaker 1: do you have? Because I've seen now the coffee whatever 735 00:42:48,360 --> 00:42:54,479 Speaker 1: than the kids. This is I'm impressed. I'm impressed. Look 736 00:42:54,520 --> 00:42:57,280 Speaker 1: we've got we've got three. We've got three on rotation 737 00:42:57,440 --> 00:43:01,000 Speaker 1: right now, pretty cool, or or any of the diet cokes, 738 00:43:01,040 --> 00:43:06,200 Speaker 1: because you know who loves the diet coke. Jamie's got 739 00:43:06,239 --> 00:43:08,600 Speaker 1: a diet coke. I was like, wow, quirky white girl 740 00:43:08,680 --> 00:43:11,480 Speaker 1: drinks too many big gulps. Someone has my fucking number, 741 00:43:11,960 --> 00:43:15,360 Speaker 1: Like ridiculous. By the way, we need to take a 742 00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:25,959 Speaker 1: quick break and then we will come right back. And 743 00:43:26,080 --> 00:43:29,240 Speaker 1: we're back and we're so hydrated and we're doing great. 744 00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:32,280 Speaker 1: I would say that most actually the things I'm drinking 745 00:43:32,320 --> 00:43:36,759 Speaker 1: are not contributing to hydration. Um, by the time this 746 00:43:36,800 --> 00:43:39,200 Speaker 1: episode comes out, I will have already said something about it. 747 00:43:39,200 --> 00:43:42,640 Speaker 1: But I've been working at um Haunted hey Ride, and 748 00:43:42,760 --> 00:43:44,640 Speaker 1: so I just I forgot I had all all of 749 00:43:44,680 --> 00:43:47,319 Speaker 1: my last night's hay Ride beverages, and so I've just 750 00:43:47,400 --> 00:43:53,120 Speaker 1: kind of been draining them throughout the morning and afternoon. Beautiful. Um, 751 00:43:53,160 --> 00:43:57,200 Speaker 1: so we we've we started talking about the Lana slash 752 00:43:57,200 --> 00:44:02,400 Speaker 1: Troy slash Michael love my angle. What else needs to 753 00:44:02,400 --> 00:44:06,600 Speaker 1: be said about that? Yeah, let's let's kind of tackle it. 754 00:44:06,680 --> 00:44:10,520 Speaker 1: So I this kind of gets into my curiosity about 755 00:44:10,520 --> 00:44:14,520 Speaker 1: like how this movie was written and made. Okay, so 756 00:44:14,600 --> 00:44:18,560 Speaker 1: a lot of this revolves around the writer, Helen child 757 00:44:18,600 --> 00:44:22,239 Speaker 1: Dress or Childress I'm truly not totally sure, but there's 758 00:44:22,280 --> 00:44:24,080 Speaker 1: a there is a piece that came out a couple 759 00:44:24,080 --> 00:44:29,000 Speaker 1: of years ago from Atlantic writer Sriah Roberts, um work 760 00:44:29,040 --> 00:44:32,880 Speaker 1: I really like, but about sort of the legacy of 761 00:44:32,920 --> 00:44:36,759 Speaker 1: this movie and um, how it's remembered because I guess 762 00:44:36,800 --> 00:44:39,480 Speaker 1: when this movie came out, it was not popular with 763 00:44:39,560 --> 00:44:42,880 Speaker 1: its target audience nor which I feel like is a 764 00:44:43,000 --> 00:44:45,400 Speaker 1: very gen ic thing of like fucky, you don't make 765 00:44:45,440 --> 00:44:49,120 Speaker 1: a corporate movie that me, you know, so like whatever, 766 00:44:49,200 --> 00:44:52,279 Speaker 1: I get it, But how Helen child Dress is like 767 00:44:52,440 --> 00:44:55,839 Speaker 1: kind of been left out of the narrative even like 768 00:44:55,880 --> 00:45:00,480 Speaker 1: it just feels like a very hollywoody story where studios 769 00:45:00,480 --> 00:45:03,640 Speaker 1: were like, Okay, gen X, like they're now viable consumers 770 00:45:03,719 --> 00:45:06,080 Speaker 1: or whatever by the early nineties, and we want to 771 00:45:06,160 --> 00:45:10,520 Speaker 1: have a like generation defining studio movie because there had 772 00:45:10,560 --> 00:45:13,319 Speaker 1: been a couple of indie movies that had done well. 773 00:45:13,440 --> 00:45:17,080 Speaker 1: There was a a Richard link Letter movie that I've 774 00:45:17,120 --> 00:45:20,000 Speaker 1: never seen that, but like they were like, Okay, there's 775 00:45:20,000 --> 00:45:23,319 Speaker 1: an audience for this, let's do a studio version of it. 776 00:45:24,080 --> 00:45:26,920 Speaker 1: So they bring in this young writer, like Helen child 777 00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:31,120 Speaker 1: Dress is is Laney in a lot of ways, which 778 00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:35,959 Speaker 1: she's very much admitted to. And so she's like being 779 00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:39,160 Speaker 1: given five hundred dollars a week to write this movie. 780 00:45:39,520 --> 00:45:42,640 Speaker 1: Laney makes four dollars a week. She's pulling from her 781 00:45:42,640 --> 00:45:46,919 Speaker 1: own experiences and her own friends. But by she wasn't 782 00:45:46,960 --> 00:45:50,200 Speaker 1: even invited to the twenty five year reunion of this movie, 783 00:45:50,280 --> 00:45:55,160 Speaker 1: like it got swallowed full by Hollywood, and like, I mean, 784 00:45:55,239 --> 00:45:58,040 Speaker 1: I don't know, like whatever, I can't make a character 785 00:45:58,120 --> 00:46:01,040 Speaker 1: judgment on Ben Stiller based on this, but it seems 786 00:46:01,080 --> 00:46:03,840 Speaker 1: like this is more remembered as like Ben Stiller's first 787 00:46:04,239 --> 00:46:08,319 Speaker 1: directed movie and not like Helen Child. Dress's experience is 788 00:46:08,360 --> 00:46:11,320 Speaker 1: committed to film. She also has not gotten a script 789 00:46:11,719 --> 00:46:17,080 Speaker 1: produced since, which feels relevant. Um, we just wanted to 790 00:46:17,120 --> 00:46:24,040 Speaker 1: share a quick quote from her from nine also to 791 00:46:24,160 --> 00:46:26,959 Speaker 1: tie it back to the love triangle that was ben 792 00:46:27,080 --> 00:46:31,319 Speaker 1: Stiller's suggestion and idea. Helen Child just early versions of 793 00:46:31,320 --> 00:46:35,560 Speaker 1: the script gave fuller pictures of all I guess four 794 00:46:35,760 --> 00:46:37,880 Speaker 1: main characters live, so there was more Steve's on, there 795 00:46:37,920 --> 00:46:41,040 Speaker 1: was more Janine Garoffalo, but ben Stiller was like, let's 796 00:46:41,120 --> 00:46:43,799 Speaker 1: keep it focused on the relationship, which is what we 797 00:46:43,840 --> 00:46:46,600 Speaker 1: all have hated the most. Interestingly the note from the 798 00:46:46,600 --> 00:46:53,680 Speaker 1: male director. But um, yeah, she said. Um. Helen Child 799 00:46:53,719 --> 00:46:57,640 Speaker 1: was said, I have worked consistently and constantly for twenty 800 00:46:57,680 --> 00:47:01,760 Speaker 1: nine years. Um. They estimated she's written forty screenplays since 801 00:47:02,360 --> 00:47:05,359 Speaker 1: Reality Bites. Um. She says. Of the handful she wrote 802 00:47:05,360 --> 00:47:07,920 Speaker 1: on Spacked, half were sold er optioned. Most of them 803 00:47:07,960 --> 00:47:10,840 Speaker 1: feature female protagonists. In all sincerity, I think that was 804 00:47:10,880 --> 00:47:16,200 Speaker 1: a problem. Um, which is I mean, nineteen is a 805 00:47:16,239 --> 00:47:19,640 Speaker 1: stretch we have well covered, and so that is definitely 806 00:47:19,719 --> 00:47:22,640 Speaker 1: a thing. So yeah, and and to be clear, so 807 00:47:22,680 --> 00:47:27,000 Speaker 1: she she went for like two decades or slightly more 808 00:47:27,120 --> 00:47:29,680 Speaker 1: without any writing credit. So if you look at her 809 00:47:29,719 --> 00:47:32,440 Speaker 1: I am dB, she does have some writing credits from 810 00:47:32,480 --> 00:47:36,839 Speaker 1: like I think sixteen and beyond, I think for mostly television. 811 00:47:37,480 --> 00:47:40,479 Speaker 1: But yeah, she made this movie that ended up being 812 00:47:40,600 --> 00:47:44,920 Speaker 1: this like cult classic, like people still ride for this movie. 813 00:47:45,280 --> 00:47:49,640 Speaker 1: But ben Stiller hasn't had trouble directing more movies. And yeah, 814 00:47:49,719 --> 00:47:52,719 Speaker 1: she's not given the credit where credit is due for 815 00:47:52,800 --> 00:47:56,400 Speaker 1: like telling her own story and for example, like the 816 00:47:57,040 --> 00:48:00,600 Speaker 1: I'm also pulling this from that Atlantic piece. But um, 817 00:48:00,640 --> 00:48:04,080 Speaker 1: the iconic my Sharona dancing at the gas station scene 818 00:48:04,400 --> 00:48:07,880 Speaker 1: is like one of the producers of this movie, Michael 819 00:48:07,880 --> 00:48:12,799 Speaker 1: Shamberg credited that scene to Ben Stiller entirely. He's like, yeah, 820 00:48:12,880 --> 00:48:17,520 Speaker 1: that was Ben Stiller's idea. But Helen Childress was like, um, hello, 821 00:48:17,600 --> 00:48:21,000 Speaker 1: I wrote that into the screenplay in the script, So 822 00:48:21,120 --> 00:48:24,080 Speaker 1: how and what why was it his idea? It wasn't. 823 00:48:24,120 --> 00:48:28,319 Speaker 1: It was just this male producer failing to give the screenwriter, 824 00:48:28,440 --> 00:48:33,080 Speaker 1: Helen her Duke, credit for writing that scene into the movie. 825 00:48:33,200 --> 00:48:36,160 Speaker 1: And then when that was pointed out, this guy Shamberg 826 00:48:36,280 --> 00:48:39,360 Speaker 1: was like, oops, uh, yeah, I guess she does. And 827 00:48:39,400 --> 00:48:42,960 Speaker 1: then he said something like, so she deserves credit for 828 00:48:43,040 --> 00:48:46,759 Speaker 1: guiding Ben's direction. And then he says, I think the 829 00:48:46,840 --> 00:48:49,880 Speaker 1: reason that I mistakenly gave Ben all the credit was 830 00:48:49,960 --> 00:48:53,400 Speaker 1: that he was determined to give this feature film his 831 00:48:53,520 --> 00:48:58,000 Speaker 1: feature film directorial debut a strong visual style. So the 832 00:48:58,040 --> 00:49:01,000 Speaker 1: guy can't even like her, But like, what does that 833 00:49:01,040 --> 00:49:05,000 Speaker 1: have to do with Like it's again bare minimum ship, Like, oh, 834 00:49:05,080 --> 00:49:08,640 Speaker 1: he directed the script, like that's that's his job. She 835 00:49:08,719 --> 00:49:13,239 Speaker 1: wrote the scene like it's hurt. So yeah, It's just 836 00:49:13,320 --> 00:49:15,560 Speaker 1: all of this is very indicative of the way that 837 00:49:16,160 --> 00:49:22,880 Speaker 1: women in Hollywood are often erased from the narrative, forgotten about, ignored, 838 00:49:23,040 --> 00:49:26,120 Speaker 1: not given do credit, all of that stuff. All that 839 00:49:26,280 --> 00:49:29,160 Speaker 1: to say, also, this movie is produced by Danny de Vito. 840 00:49:29,320 --> 00:49:31,520 Speaker 1: Just wanted to throw that out there. Danny. I don't 841 00:49:31,560 --> 00:49:34,799 Speaker 1: have any more information than that, but to bring it 842 00:49:34,840 --> 00:49:38,360 Speaker 1: back to the love triangle. Focusing on the love triangle 843 00:49:38,719 --> 00:49:42,080 Speaker 1: was very much a Ben Stiller note, and it's the 844 00:49:42,080 --> 00:49:44,360 Speaker 1: thing that we that bothered us the most. In that 845 00:49:44,440 --> 00:49:47,320 Speaker 1: Atlantic piece, they do talk a little bit about Michael, 846 00:49:47,440 --> 00:49:51,240 Speaker 1: but in a way that I thought was interesting where 847 00:49:51,520 --> 00:49:53,440 Speaker 1: like that character it seems like went through a lot 848 00:49:53,480 --> 00:49:56,200 Speaker 1: of different drafts and Ben Stiller wasn't originally supposed to 849 00:49:56,239 --> 00:49:58,880 Speaker 1: play the character, and then eventually he's like, oh, I 850 00:49:58,880 --> 00:50:02,480 Speaker 1: can pull from my own experience as you know, like 851 00:50:02,680 --> 00:50:04,520 Speaker 1: not even to insult it, but like you know, as 852 00:50:04,560 --> 00:50:09,200 Speaker 1: like a working sellout basically to you know, kind of 853 00:50:09,200 --> 00:50:11,000 Speaker 1: flesh out this character and like, I feel like I 854 00:50:11,040 --> 00:50:15,040 Speaker 1: can relate with some of these moral dilemmas. And I 855 00:50:15,080 --> 00:50:18,080 Speaker 1: guess that he and Helen Child just would improvise as 856 00:50:18,120 --> 00:50:21,080 Speaker 1: the two characters to like figure out what that relationship was, 857 00:50:21,120 --> 00:50:24,000 Speaker 1: which I thought was kind of a fun way to write. 858 00:50:24,680 --> 00:50:27,800 Speaker 1: I'm sure that that's part of the reason why Michael 859 00:50:27,840 --> 00:50:30,680 Speaker 1: does come out as a more sympathetic character than if 860 00:50:30,719 --> 00:50:32,759 Speaker 1: he was just written as like, this is the guy 861 00:50:32,840 --> 00:50:35,160 Speaker 1: you don't want to end up with, this is Mr Business, 862 00:50:35,280 --> 00:50:39,440 Speaker 1: this is Mr Evil. Right, I'm seeing not to bring 863 00:50:39,560 --> 00:50:42,399 Speaker 1: up Titanic again, But what choice do I have? I mean, 864 00:50:43,520 --> 00:50:45,799 Speaker 1: I think it would have been, yeah, kind of an 865 00:50:46,120 --> 00:50:49,120 Speaker 1: easier or like maybe a lazier choice to have like 866 00:50:49,200 --> 00:50:52,359 Speaker 1: the Ben Stiller character be like cal Hockley, and then 867 00:50:52,440 --> 00:50:54,960 Speaker 1: you have your like Ethan Hawk being more of the 868 00:50:55,680 --> 00:50:59,919 Speaker 1: Jack Dawson who is artsy and poor and who isn't 869 00:51:00,040 --> 00:51:03,319 Speaker 1: some cog in the capitalist machine like the boyfriend at 870 00:51:03,320 --> 00:51:06,400 Speaker 1: the beginning of every lifetime movie, where like, this woman 871 00:51:06,480 --> 00:51:08,760 Speaker 1: is uptight, woman is dating like a guy who only 872 00:51:08,800 --> 00:51:11,240 Speaker 1: cares about his job, and she needs to date someone 873 00:51:11,280 --> 00:51:14,239 Speaker 1: who is free and wants to save this Christmas tree 874 00:51:14,239 --> 00:51:17,560 Speaker 1: farm or whatever. She needs to move back home and 875 00:51:17,640 --> 00:51:20,759 Speaker 1: start a Christmas tree farm and that's uh, and and 876 00:51:20,800 --> 00:51:22,960 Speaker 1: go to church tomorrow while you're at it. That's a 877 00:51:22,960 --> 00:51:28,520 Speaker 1: more respectable outcome for a woman. Yeah, but yeah, just 878 00:51:28,600 --> 00:51:32,799 Speaker 1: to put I guess a button on the love triangle thing, 879 00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:36,120 Speaker 1: it feels like such a trophy choice to have a 880 00:51:36,160 --> 00:51:40,839 Speaker 1: woman be in this like hetero love triangle where she 881 00:51:40,920 --> 00:51:44,960 Speaker 1: has to pick one or the other and the option 882 00:51:45,000 --> 00:51:48,000 Speaker 1: of like not picking one of them isn't presented, and 883 00:51:48,000 --> 00:51:51,600 Speaker 1: then ultimately she picks the worst option of the two 884 00:51:51,640 --> 00:51:55,799 Speaker 1: guys because again, both aren't great options, but at least 885 00:51:55,840 --> 00:52:01,640 Speaker 1: Michael is nice to her and Troy enjoy such an asshole, 886 00:52:01,960 --> 00:52:04,239 Speaker 1: and it just kind of sends this message that so 887 00:52:04,280 --> 00:52:08,800 Speaker 1: many movies and in so much media has delivered to audience, 888 00:52:08,840 --> 00:52:11,000 Speaker 1: which is that, oh yeah, a man can treat a 889 00:52:11,040 --> 00:52:13,799 Speaker 1: woman like shit, uh, and he doesn't have to apologize 890 00:52:13,840 --> 00:52:18,239 Speaker 1: for it, and she will still pick him for reasons unclear. 891 00:52:19,400 --> 00:52:23,759 Speaker 1: I personally blame the studio executives for that. I feel 892 00:52:23,760 --> 00:52:27,160 Speaker 1: comfortable blaming the studio executives for perpetuating that because it 893 00:52:27,200 --> 00:52:31,080 Speaker 1: just feels like very nineties Hollywood studio notes in general, 894 00:52:31,280 --> 00:52:33,319 Speaker 1: because it sounds like Helen Child just wanted to take 895 00:52:33,360 --> 00:52:37,120 Speaker 1: it in a totally different direction that would have allowed 896 00:52:37,160 --> 00:52:41,040 Speaker 1: you to explore these side characters who I think are 897 00:52:41,120 --> 00:52:45,520 Speaker 1: like really interesting, and there's a lot like the you 898 00:52:45,600 --> 00:52:48,960 Speaker 1: do get a fair amount with Lena and Um and 899 00:52:49,120 --> 00:52:52,400 Speaker 1: Vicky and their friendship, but like, I just like I 900 00:52:52,440 --> 00:52:55,400 Speaker 1: wanted to see more of that because there's so I 901 00:52:55,480 --> 00:52:58,000 Speaker 1: was trying to think of other friendships that It's like, 902 00:52:58,080 --> 00:53:02,879 Speaker 1: it's a loving, supportive friendship that is constantly challenged by 903 00:53:03,040 --> 00:53:07,040 Speaker 1: like class issues, which is like something I have you 904 00:53:07,080 --> 00:53:09,920 Speaker 1: don't really see in movies very often. I was like, 905 00:53:10,160 --> 00:53:12,319 Speaker 1: I'm you know, I want to see the version of 906 00:53:12,320 --> 00:53:14,000 Speaker 1: this movie that's more focused on that. I want to 907 00:53:14,000 --> 00:53:16,520 Speaker 1: see the version of this movie where you know, our 908 00:53:16,600 --> 00:53:21,600 Speaker 1: only openly queer character gets more than like mentioning three 909 00:53:21,640 --> 00:53:25,399 Speaker 1: quarters through the movie by the way I'm coming out, 910 00:53:25,760 --> 00:53:28,200 Speaker 1: I mean great, but you know, you just don't get 911 00:53:28,200 --> 00:53:31,759 Speaker 1: a lot. Where's Where's my son? Yeah, and I think 912 00:53:31,920 --> 00:53:34,799 Speaker 1: the point that you make about flushing out those those 913 00:53:34,840 --> 00:53:37,799 Speaker 1: side characters more, I think is so apt, especially with 914 00:53:37,880 --> 00:53:40,480 Speaker 1: somebody like Vicky, because you know, they allude to the 915 00:53:40,480 --> 00:53:43,480 Speaker 1: fact that Vicky is obsessed with like seventies pop culture, 916 00:53:43,800 --> 00:53:46,280 Speaker 1: and so if she's you know, just graduated from college, 917 00:53:46,280 --> 00:53:48,560 Speaker 1: that's probably her childhood. So are we supposed to under 918 00:53:48,719 --> 00:53:50,719 Speaker 1: We're supposed to like what's going on there that she 919 00:53:50,960 --> 00:53:54,960 Speaker 1: is someone who is a you know, sexual libertine, but 920 00:53:55,120 --> 00:53:59,600 Speaker 1: it's perhaps obsessed with the ideality childhood of her youth. 921 00:53:59,680 --> 00:54:01,960 Speaker 1: Like I feel that there's a draft of the movie 922 00:54:02,000 --> 00:54:04,719 Speaker 1: that made that flushes that out, But in the in 923 00:54:04,719 --> 00:54:07,719 Speaker 1: the version that we see, we're left to connect these 924 00:54:07,760 --> 00:54:09,839 Speaker 1: dots that are not really connected for us in ways 925 00:54:09,880 --> 00:54:13,160 Speaker 1: that I think just don't really work. It's confusing. Yeah, 926 00:54:13,160 --> 00:54:15,160 Speaker 1: it's like I would love to know why she's so 927 00:54:15,320 --> 00:54:17,719 Speaker 1: fixated on disc and I bridget You're probably right that 928 00:54:17,800 --> 00:54:22,360 Speaker 1: it's just like a childhood nostalgia thing, but we just 929 00:54:22,400 --> 00:54:24,399 Speaker 1: don't even get I didn't even think that yet, that 930 00:54:24,480 --> 00:54:28,200 Speaker 1: thread is never really connected. And then that, I mean 931 00:54:29,160 --> 00:54:32,040 Speaker 1: is one thing I did like is that like much 932 00:54:32,239 --> 00:54:36,520 Speaker 1: like us and I probably for generation ever because whenever 933 00:54:36,640 --> 00:54:39,040 Speaker 1: special as we think we are. Um. I did like 934 00:54:39,120 --> 00:54:42,560 Speaker 1: how these characters are constantly trying to contextualize their own 935 00:54:42,600 --> 00:54:47,799 Speaker 1: experience using pop culture. Where even when Vicky is talking 936 00:54:47,840 --> 00:54:50,719 Speaker 1: about her stress about waiting for to find out if 937 00:54:50,760 --> 00:54:53,840 Speaker 1: she is HIV positive or negative, which I thought was 938 00:54:54,080 --> 00:54:58,719 Speaker 1: I mean, I wasn't expecting that to be tackled within 939 00:54:58,760 --> 00:55:01,239 Speaker 1: this movie, and I thought it was pretty tastefully and 940 00:55:01,320 --> 00:55:05,560 Speaker 1: thoughtfully done. Um. But the way that she explains her 941 00:55:05,600 --> 00:55:09,560 Speaker 1: anxiety is like imagining herself as a character on Melrose 942 00:55:09,600 --> 00:55:13,200 Speaker 1: Place and right, but like the way that it's presented 943 00:55:13,360 --> 00:55:19,480 Speaker 1: isn't condescending. It doesn't make her seem silly or like unintelligent. 944 00:55:19,560 --> 00:55:22,560 Speaker 1: It's like, oh yeah, that's like, not only are you 945 00:55:22,640 --> 00:55:27,719 Speaker 1: worried about potentially being very sick? Like also I feel 946 00:55:27,719 --> 00:55:31,640 Speaker 1: like that in that like simple exchange, she's describing how 947 00:55:32,040 --> 00:55:35,440 Speaker 1: she thinks the world will perceive her if the results 948 00:55:35,440 --> 00:55:39,000 Speaker 1: come back a certain way. Because pop culture trains you 949 00:55:39,040 --> 00:55:40,799 Speaker 1: how to see the world in so many ways, and 950 00:55:41,360 --> 00:55:44,480 Speaker 1: like moments like that, I was like that is awesome. 951 00:55:44,520 --> 00:55:47,120 Speaker 1: You never get stuff like that that's interesting. I have 952 00:55:47,239 --> 00:55:51,880 Speaker 1: mixed feelings about the way the movie handles HIV and AIDS. 953 00:55:52,280 --> 00:55:54,920 Speaker 1: Um the movie seems to be quite obsessed with it. 954 00:55:55,000 --> 00:55:57,560 Speaker 1: Number one, there are several references and like sometimes kind 955 00:55:57,560 --> 00:56:00,800 Speaker 1: of like offhand jokes made about it, or like characters 956 00:56:00,800 --> 00:56:05,080 Speaker 1: will make an offhand comment or joke about HIV and AIDS. 957 00:56:05,600 --> 00:56:10,000 Speaker 1: And then the kind of main conflict that the Vicki 958 00:56:10,120 --> 00:56:13,600 Speaker 1: characters is dealing with is that she is worried that 959 00:56:13,640 --> 00:56:17,160 Speaker 1: she might be positive for HIV, and so she goes 960 00:56:17,200 --> 00:56:19,760 Speaker 1: to get tested. And this is based on her having 961 00:56:20,560 --> 00:56:23,400 Speaker 1: you know, multiple sexual partners. She has a little book 962 00:56:23,840 --> 00:56:27,279 Speaker 1: like a sex diary, seems, where she like writes down 963 00:56:27,360 --> 00:56:29,400 Speaker 1: the names and the dates of the people she had 964 00:56:29,400 --> 00:56:32,600 Speaker 1: sex with. She doesn't always remember their names. I used 965 00:56:32,640 --> 00:56:36,759 Speaker 1: to do that based on this movie because I saw 966 00:56:36,800 --> 00:56:38,960 Speaker 1: this movie when I was a version and when I 967 00:56:38,960 --> 00:56:40,840 Speaker 1: started having sex, I was like, oh, you're supposed to 968 00:56:40,880 --> 00:56:43,520 Speaker 1: keep a diary. I don't have it anymore, but in 969 00:56:43,520 --> 00:56:48,520 Speaker 1: my early days of being sexual, I love it. It 970 00:56:48,520 --> 00:56:51,279 Speaker 1: could be a helpful tool, I feel like, But you know, 971 00:56:51,840 --> 00:56:55,080 Speaker 1: so she gets tested, she's waiting on the results. Um 972 00:56:55,120 --> 00:56:58,680 Speaker 1: Prior to her getting the results, she you know, expresses 973 00:56:58,719 --> 00:57:01,160 Speaker 1: a lot of concern about, you know, yeah, the way 974 00:57:01,320 --> 00:57:04,160 Speaker 1: she might be perceived or what her life might be 975 00:57:04,320 --> 00:57:09,400 Speaker 1: like if she is HIV positive. I just felt that, Okay, 976 00:57:09,840 --> 00:57:15,840 Speaker 1: for this to be an issue that a hetero sis 977 00:57:15,960 --> 00:57:21,120 Speaker 1: woman is dealing with, when HIV and AIDS is something 978 00:57:21,120 --> 00:57:24,480 Speaker 1: that largely affected the queer community, it just feels like 979 00:57:24,480 --> 00:57:27,240 Speaker 1: a weird erature of that. And obviously I'm not saying 980 00:57:27,280 --> 00:57:32,760 Speaker 1: that hetero people cannot become HIV positive and have AIDS, 981 00:57:32,840 --> 00:57:36,640 Speaker 1: but it's an issue that was famously not handled well 982 00:57:36,680 --> 00:57:39,920 Speaker 1: because it disproportionately affected the queer community, and you know, 983 00:57:39,960 --> 00:57:45,160 Speaker 1: like Reagan and and other administrations and institutions didn't give 984 00:57:45,200 --> 00:57:47,960 Speaker 1: a shit about the queer community. So it was just 985 00:57:48,040 --> 00:57:53,240 Speaker 1: like very mishandled basically every administration. Right. So for a 986 00:57:53,320 --> 00:57:56,480 Speaker 1: straight character to have a storyline where she's concerned about this, 987 00:57:56,600 --> 00:58:00,680 Speaker 1: it just felt kind of maybe indicative of that erasure. 988 00:58:01,240 --> 00:58:02,880 Speaker 1: But I was like, well, what's the alternative to have 989 00:58:02,960 --> 00:58:05,400 Speaker 1: the one queer character in the movie to be concerned 990 00:58:05,400 --> 00:58:07,640 Speaker 1: about that. I wouldn't want that either. I mean I 991 00:58:07,640 --> 00:58:10,560 Speaker 1: think that that then you could really easily skew into 992 00:58:11,240 --> 00:58:16,560 Speaker 1: tragedy porn. And my understanding is that um Helen Childress 993 00:58:16,600 --> 00:58:19,400 Speaker 1: is not a queer writer, and so it's like, would 994 00:58:19,400 --> 00:58:22,720 Speaker 1: it have been her place? I also was not sure. 995 00:58:22,760 --> 00:58:26,080 Speaker 1: I mean, I wasn't surprised that this movie had a 996 00:58:26,160 --> 00:58:29,720 Speaker 1: preoccupation with the AIDS epidemic because it was started being 997 00:58:29,760 --> 00:58:33,960 Speaker 1: written in It makes total sense to me that this 998 00:58:34,040 --> 00:58:37,760 Speaker 1: would be something that these characters would realistically be talking 999 00:58:37,800 --> 00:58:42,440 Speaker 1: and thinking about. But I mean, yeah, I I wasn't 1000 00:58:42,680 --> 00:58:44,760 Speaker 1: quite sure where to place it. I thought it was 1001 00:58:44,840 --> 00:58:49,000 Speaker 1: like interesting that they tackled the subject at all. I 1002 00:58:49,000 --> 00:58:52,000 Speaker 1: think it would have been a really easy issue that 1003 00:58:52,040 --> 00:58:55,400 Speaker 1: this group of friends would have been thinking about to 1004 00:58:55,600 --> 00:58:59,720 Speaker 1: erase from a major studio movie. I don't know. Yeah, 1005 00:58:59,760 --> 00:59:02,440 Speaker 1: I guess it's like with this specific writer in this 1006 00:59:02,480 --> 00:59:05,760 Speaker 1: specific movie. Yeah, I mean, I wouldn't have preferred it 1007 00:59:05,840 --> 00:59:09,720 Speaker 1: if the steves On character was if his whole storyline 1008 00:59:09,760 --> 00:59:13,320 Speaker 1: was defined by that. But then I guess that that's 1009 00:59:13,360 --> 00:59:16,080 Speaker 1: also the thing with having only one queer character in 1010 00:59:16,120 --> 00:59:20,480 Speaker 1: your movie. Like, I don't know, it didn't bother me 1011 00:59:21,080 --> 00:59:26,560 Speaker 1: that much, but also I'm completely open to that story 1012 00:59:26,600 --> 00:59:30,320 Speaker 1: point not being yeah, yeah, curious would if any listeners 1013 00:59:30,320 --> 00:59:34,800 Speaker 1: have any insight on that. Um, can we talk about 1014 00:59:35,200 --> 00:59:39,720 Speaker 1: the steves On character, Sammy, Let's talk about on Baby, 1015 00:59:41,200 --> 00:59:44,240 Speaker 1: that's gonna be a new segment on the show, and 1016 00:59:44,240 --> 00:59:51,160 Speaker 1: then talk about the steves On intersections. Okay, So it 1017 00:59:51,200 --> 00:59:56,120 Speaker 1: didn't even register with me that he is a queer 1018 00:59:56,200 --> 01:00:00,400 Speaker 1: character for a while, which does a few things. Signals 1019 01:00:00,440 --> 01:00:01,920 Speaker 1: to me that he is just allowed to be a 1020 01:00:02,000 --> 01:00:05,280 Speaker 1: queer character without that being like the first or defining 1021 01:00:05,360 --> 01:00:08,760 Speaker 1: thing you know about him, So his queerness is normalized 1022 01:00:08,960 --> 01:00:11,760 Speaker 1: in the story and in the world that he occupies. 1023 01:00:12,040 --> 01:00:15,560 Speaker 1: I also didn't notice any stereotypes of gay men being 1024 01:00:15,680 --> 01:00:19,880 Speaker 1: used with his character. But also he's kind of barely 1025 01:00:19,920 --> 01:00:23,479 Speaker 1: in the movie. He's the only character of the friend 1026 01:00:23,520 --> 01:00:27,480 Speaker 1: group that we see that we never see with a 1027 01:00:27,600 --> 01:00:31,120 Speaker 1: romantic or sexual partner, except there's maybe like one quick 1028 01:00:31,160 --> 01:00:33,080 Speaker 1: little scene where Sammy's in a diner with a guy 1029 01:00:33,160 --> 01:00:36,520 Speaker 1: named Lance. Yeah he's he, and he does introduce him 1030 01:00:36,600 --> 01:00:40,600 Speaker 1: as his boyfriend. Oh okay, I missed that. Okay, but 1031 01:00:40,680 --> 01:00:43,520 Speaker 1: that's such a quick throwaway moment, and clearly because I 1032 01:00:43,680 --> 01:00:48,400 Speaker 1: missed that part. So the fact that he like he's 1033 01:00:48,440 --> 01:00:50,480 Speaker 1: just not allowed to have any kind of like romantic 1034 01:00:50,520 --> 01:00:53,800 Speaker 1: subplot the way that other characters that's kind of like 1035 01:00:53,840 --> 01:00:56,560 Speaker 1: the focus of the movie. I did really like the 1036 01:00:56,600 --> 01:01:01,760 Speaker 1: scene where you see him and Vicky kind of like 1037 01:01:01,840 --> 01:01:04,560 Speaker 1: doing this bit where they're rehearsing him coming out to 1038 01:01:04,640 --> 01:01:07,600 Speaker 1: his family. Um, it's cute. And then you see the 1039 01:01:07,640 --> 01:01:10,320 Speaker 1: aftermath of him coming out to his family and they 1040 01:01:10,360 --> 01:01:14,240 Speaker 1: did not receive the information. Well there, they don't seem 1041 01:01:14,280 --> 01:01:17,080 Speaker 1: to be supportive, and you see how that affects him. 1042 01:01:17,280 --> 01:01:20,400 Speaker 1: You you see him talking about, you know, the reasons 1043 01:01:20,440 --> 01:01:25,200 Speaker 1: that he has chosen to be celibate, that he you know, 1044 01:01:25,320 --> 01:01:28,200 Speaker 1: hadn't been honest with himself about who he is, and 1045 01:01:28,240 --> 01:01:29,680 Speaker 1: you just like you see a lot of his kind 1046 01:01:29,720 --> 01:01:35,160 Speaker 1: of him expressing his inner struggles in a way that 1047 01:01:35,520 --> 01:01:38,840 Speaker 1: a lot of movies, especially from that era, never bothered 1048 01:01:38,880 --> 01:01:42,760 Speaker 1: to do or just like never handled well. So I 1049 01:01:42,800 --> 01:01:47,040 Speaker 1: thought that was it's queer representation in a movie at 1050 01:01:47,040 --> 01:01:51,320 Speaker 1: a time where there was very little on screen queer representation, 1051 01:01:51,560 --> 01:01:55,880 Speaker 1: and when it was there, it was usually really grossly mishandled. 1052 01:01:56,640 --> 01:02:01,560 Speaker 1: This representation isn't necessarily the best. Again, his character is 1053 01:02:01,680 --> 01:02:04,040 Speaker 1: kind of the of the four friends, like he has 1054 01:02:04,080 --> 01:02:08,360 Speaker 1: the least screen time and I think it's Helen Child. 1055 01:02:08,480 --> 01:02:11,280 Speaker 1: Riss did indicate that she wrote many versions of this group, 1056 01:02:11,720 --> 01:02:14,120 Speaker 1: wasn't the case. So again, it's like a studio issue 1057 01:02:14,160 --> 01:02:17,520 Speaker 1: of like, well, sure we can have an openly gay character, 1058 01:02:17,720 --> 01:02:21,240 Speaker 1: but not too much where. And this also feels like 1059 01:02:21,240 --> 01:02:25,280 Speaker 1: an era where I mean, even going back to Rent 1060 01:02:25,480 --> 01:02:29,800 Speaker 1: of like queer characters are or like the movie Philadelphia, 1061 01:02:29,840 --> 01:02:31,560 Speaker 1: which I've never seen but I know what happens in it. 1062 01:02:31,640 --> 01:02:34,560 Speaker 1: We're like, Okay, we could have gay characters on screen, 1063 01:02:34,800 --> 01:02:37,680 Speaker 1: but only if the worst possible thing happens to them. 1064 01:02:37,760 --> 01:02:40,680 Speaker 1: And so it's like we're not interested at this point 1065 01:02:40,760 --> 01:02:44,720 Speaker 1: in pop culture of like just exploring a queer person's 1066 01:02:44,800 --> 01:02:46,680 Speaker 1: day to day life in the way that this movie 1067 01:02:46,720 --> 01:02:50,640 Speaker 1: seems to be interested in. But then the studio doesn't 1068 01:02:50,680 --> 01:02:52,800 Speaker 1: let you go all the way of just like letting 1069 01:02:53,400 --> 01:02:57,200 Speaker 1: a gay man be a person, like and Steve's on 1070 01:02:57,320 --> 01:03:01,200 Speaker 1: such as sweetie, where's his first line? Where he's like 1071 01:03:01,240 --> 01:03:03,120 Speaker 1: such a He's just like, I don't know, I want 1072 01:03:03,120 --> 01:03:12,400 Speaker 1: a career. Oh, Mr Nice, Mr Nice. Yeah, let's take 1073 01:03:12,440 --> 01:03:22,000 Speaker 1: another break and then we will be right back and 1074 01:03:22,200 --> 01:03:24,520 Speaker 1: we're back. I wanted to go back a little bit 1075 01:03:24,560 --> 01:03:30,280 Speaker 1: to the so this is a very white middle to 1076 01:03:30,400 --> 01:03:34,640 Speaker 1: upper middle class. I think maybe spans because the middle 1077 01:03:34,680 --> 01:03:36,960 Speaker 1: class existed when this movie came out, which is kind 1078 01:03:36,960 --> 01:03:40,400 Speaker 1: of like confusing to navigate. I think that. I mean, 1079 01:03:40,600 --> 01:03:44,840 Speaker 1: obviously they're all young white people who have done some college, 1080 01:03:44,920 --> 01:03:47,360 Speaker 1: and it seems like Ethan Hawk didn't finish college, not 1081 01:03:47,400 --> 01:03:50,280 Speaker 1: because it was financially struggling, but like because it was 1082 01:03:50,360 --> 01:03:55,400 Speaker 1: like a that was his ideological preference. So it wasn't 1083 01:03:55,440 --> 01:03:57,360 Speaker 1: like he had to drop out because he couldn't afford it. 1084 01:03:58,080 --> 01:04:00,640 Speaker 1: So as far as class, because I think it's like 1085 01:04:00,800 --> 01:04:03,760 Speaker 1: interesting and telling that this is like hailed as the 1086 01:04:04,200 --> 01:04:07,440 Speaker 1: gen X movie, even if Janet's audiences didn't like it 1087 01:04:07,440 --> 01:04:10,800 Speaker 1: at the time, and it's still so centered on the 1088 01:04:10,800 --> 01:04:15,280 Speaker 1: white middle to upper middle class experience. Oh yeah, there's 1089 01:04:15,320 --> 01:04:18,320 Speaker 1: a lot of like social issues that get brought up 1090 01:04:18,360 --> 01:04:20,560 Speaker 1: in the movie that the characters talk about, Like so 1091 01:04:20,640 --> 01:04:26,840 Speaker 1: many movies ignore societal ills that are affecting you know, 1092 01:04:26,960 --> 01:04:29,280 Speaker 1: people across the globe. But they're talking about like the 1093 01:04:29,400 --> 01:04:32,840 Speaker 1: energy crisis and the environment. They're talking about class and 1094 01:04:33,000 --> 01:04:37,600 Speaker 1: wages and workers rights, they talk about world hunger. Like 1095 01:04:37,640 --> 01:04:40,520 Speaker 1: these things get brought up and the movie is largely 1096 01:04:40,560 --> 01:04:43,680 Speaker 1: about a young woman who's like optimistic and she wants 1097 01:04:43,680 --> 01:04:45,400 Speaker 1: to make a difference in the world and she wants 1098 01:04:45,400 --> 01:04:49,080 Speaker 1: to try to help fix some of these societal ills. 1099 01:04:49,120 --> 01:04:51,360 Speaker 1: But then she ultimately like doesn't really do anything and 1100 01:04:51,400 --> 01:04:54,920 Speaker 1: she just like kind of marinates in her privilege and 1101 01:04:54,960 --> 01:05:01,520 Speaker 1: makes a documentary about her friends what happens in Rent. Also, 1102 01:05:01,600 --> 01:05:04,400 Speaker 1: she acts like working retail after college it's the world, 1103 01:05:04,600 --> 01:05:07,640 Speaker 1: like the worst thing that, Like everybody works retail after 1104 01:05:07,680 --> 01:05:09,560 Speaker 1: college and it's not that like she makes it seem 1105 01:05:09,600 --> 01:05:12,120 Speaker 1: like it's the worst thing in the world. Okay, So 1106 01:05:12,320 --> 01:05:15,440 Speaker 1: I had so many feelings about that plot point, and 1107 01:05:15,480 --> 01:05:17,840 Speaker 1: that was another thing where it's like that to me 1108 01:05:18,000 --> 01:05:20,840 Speaker 1: was like what was really interesting about Like the tension 1109 01:05:20,880 --> 01:05:25,920 Speaker 1: between Vicky and Lena is like something that does genuinely 1110 01:05:25,960 --> 01:05:28,880 Speaker 1: suck about Lelena is she like wants to have her 1111 01:05:29,000 --> 01:05:32,760 Speaker 1: like cool, burnout friends, but she always there is an 1112 01:05:32,800 --> 01:05:34,680 Speaker 1: element to her character where she always has to view 1113 01:05:34,720 --> 01:05:38,720 Speaker 1: herself as a little bit above them, which is complicated 1114 01:05:38,920 --> 01:05:41,360 Speaker 1: because like there are things she says them like you're 1115 01:05:41,360 --> 01:05:45,240 Speaker 1: being an asshole. I know you're technically correct, where especially Troy, 1116 01:05:45,480 --> 01:05:49,320 Speaker 1: Troy is not paying rent. He refuses to look for work, 1117 01:05:49,600 --> 01:05:53,240 Speaker 1: like he's just being He is like actively mooching off 1118 01:05:53,280 --> 01:05:55,400 Speaker 1: of her and then negging her all the time, which 1119 01:05:55,480 --> 01:05:58,720 Speaker 1: is like go fund yourself. Situations very different with Vicky. 1120 01:05:58,760 --> 01:06:01,920 Speaker 1: I feel like it's telling that the only two people 1121 01:06:02,040 --> 01:06:06,760 Speaker 1: who live in this four person apartment are the two women. Um, 1122 01:06:06,800 --> 01:06:09,200 Speaker 1: I don't think that Sammy has a job for most 1123 01:06:09,240 --> 01:06:12,040 Speaker 1: of the movie. Yeah, Also, I don't think he lives 1124 01:06:12,280 --> 01:06:14,040 Speaker 1: does he live there? I think he lives somewhere else, 1125 01:06:14,080 --> 01:06:16,640 Speaker 1: But I don't know ifwhere he lives somewhere else because 1126 01:06:16,680 --> 01:06:20,280 Speaker 1: at one point he comes in and um, went Ona rogers, like, 1127 01:06:20,320 --> 01:06:22,040 Speaker 1: what are you even doing here? You don't live here? 1128 01:06:22,480 --> 01:06:25,760 Speaker 1: But she says that's Detroit too, and he does, and 1129 01:06:26,120 --> 01:06:28,440 Speaker 1: they call it the Maxi Pad, which leads me to 1130 01:06:28,440 --> 01:06:30,880 Speaker 1: believe that it's a house where only women live. Yeah. 1131 01:06:31,800 --> 01:06:34,520 Speaker 1: I don't know, I might been reading too much into that. No, 1132 01:06:34,680 --> 01:06:37,320 Speaker 1: I like that, But like with Vicky, I mean, like 1133 01:06:37,400 --> 01:06:39,920 Speaker 1: she I don't know, like there is kind of this. 1134 01:06:40,280 --> 01:06:42,720 Speaker 1: I wish that we could have explored it more because 1135 01:06:42,760 --> 01:06:46,280 Speaker 1: it's like Lenna is, you know, trying to like live 1136 01:06:46,360 --> 01:06:49,040 Speaker 1: life on her own terms while being while actively denying 1137 01:06:49,080 --> 01:06:52,400 Speaker 1: her own privilege, but you know, capitalizing on her own 1138 01:06:52,400 --> 01:06:56,200 Speaker 1: privilege when it suits her. Where Vicky it seems like 1139 01:06:56,240 --> 01:06:59,320 Speaker 1: she's from the lower middle class baby, it seems like 1140 01:06:59,360 --> 01:07:01,400 Speaker 1: she doesn't have of a safety net in the way 1141 01:07:01,440 --> 01:07:04,920 Speaker 1: that Lolena does. And she's working at the Gap, she 1142 01:07:05,000 --> 01:07:07,919 Speaker 1: becomes a manager. She's like taking pride in her work 1143 01:07:07,920 --> 01:07:09,680 Speaker 1: in a way that I thought was like really cool, 1144 01:07:09,920 --> 01:07:12,880 Speaker 1: Like she was just like, oh, you know that sort 1145 01:07:12,920 --> 01:07:15,640 Speaker 1: of shy, like I feel like a corporate sellout, but 1146 01:07:15,680 --> 01:07:19,360 Speaker 1: I'm also like I've never taken pride in my work before, 1147 01:07:19,400 --> 01:07:22,600 Speaker 1: and like that's a cool feeling, and that was like 1148 01:07:22,640 --> 01:07:25,360 Speaker 1: a cool element to that character. And then Lolena thinking 1149 01:07:25,440 --> 01:07:28,360 Speaker 1: she's a little too good for it and and like 1150 01:07:28,600 --> 01:07:32,160 Speaker 1: openly expressing that to Vicky and Vicky being local, fuck 1151 01:07:32,240 --> 01:07:35,960 Speaker 1: you, you you elitist break. There's there's there's like a couple 1152 01:07:36,000 --> 01:07:39,000 Speaker 1: of different times in the movie where someone calls another 1153 01:07:39,120 --> 01:07:42,280 Speaker 1: character out and you're like, yeah, good for you, and 1154 01:07:42,280 --> 01:07:44,000 Speaker 1: then it's just kind of dropped, and then we cut 1155 01:07:44,000 --> 01:07:46,840 Speaker 1: to the next scene and everyone's getting along again. Yeah, 1156 01:07:46,880 --> 01:07:50,000 Speaker 1: what that gap thing? In particular, when La lana Is 1157 01:07:50,360 --> 01:07:52,040 Speaker 1: thinks that she's high and mighty, she's like, I'm not 1158 01:07:52,040 --> 01:07:53,880 Speaker 1: going to work at the Gap for Christ's sake. But 1159 01:07:53,920 --> 01:07:55,960 Speaker 1: then when she's at her low moment, when she's on 1160 01:07:56,000 --> 01:07:59,760 Speaker 1: the couch, chain smoking, racking up money to the mine, 1161 01:08:00,040 --> 01:08:02,240 Speaker 1: she's like, oh, you think you're hot, ship because you 1162 01:08:02,320 --> 01:08:05,320 Speaker 1: work at the Gap. Like it's interesting how for her 1163 01:08:05,400 --> 01:08:08,080 Speaker 1: the gap is like beneath her. But then also she 1164 01:08:08,120 --> 01:08:13,040 Speaker 1: feels like it's being lorded over her later, right, Lena, 1165 01:08:13,440 --> 01:08:16,280 Speaker 1: So yeah, I wish that Vicky we just got a 1166 01:08:16,320 --> 01:08:19,839 Speaker 1: little more Vicky context. But I do like the peaks 1167 01:08:19,880 --> 01:08:23,160 Speaker 1: you have into her life of like, I don't know, 1168 01:08:23,240 --> 01:08:26,439 Speaker 1: it was sweet that her parents, uh love each other, 1169 01:08:26,479 --> 01:08:29,040 Speaker 1: but she's very grossed out by their relationship and like, oh, 1170 01:08:29,120 --> 01:08:32,240 Speaker 1: good for you, Vicky, good for you. Your parents love 1171 01:08:32,280 --> 01:08:34,680 Speaker 1: each other. Oh I didn't read that that way at all. 1172 01:08:34,720 --> 01:08:36,760 Speaker 1: I read it is that they don't like each other 1173 01:08:36,920 --> 01:08:40,160 Speaker 1: and they like the romance is completely dead. We shipped 1174 01:08:40,200 --> 01:08:42,880 Speaker 1: with the door open. I thincause that's how dead the 1175 01:08:43,000 --> 01:08:45,479 Speaker 1: romance I think shipping. I think that you can have 1176 01:08:45,640 --> 01:08:48,000 Speaker 1: romance and ship with the door open. I agree the 1177 01:08:48,040 --> 01:08:50,519 Speaker 1: two are not mutually exclusive, but I think it's a 1178 01:08:50,600 --> 01:08:53,439 Speaker 1: very naive take on Vicky's part. It's like, well, I 1179 01:08:53,479 --> 01:08:56,760 Speaker 1: think maybe they're they're in super love because you can 1180 01:08:56,800 --> 01:08:59,080 Speaker 1: if you can see someone take a ship and still 1181 01:08:59,120 --> 01:09:05,639 Speaker 1: be like you like, let's smooch and frick um. So 1182 01:09:05,960 --> 01:09:09,759 Speaker 1: I mentioned this, but so as Lelena is like trying 1183 01:09:09,800 --> 01:09:12,680 Speaker 1: to sort out her money troubles and trying to get 1184 01:09:12,720 --> 01:09:15,439 Speaker 1: another job after she kind of like puts down working 1185 01:09:15,560 --> 01:09:17,800 Speaker 1: at the Gap. She then goes to her mom for 1186 01:09:18,000 --> 01:09:20,880 Speaker 1: a loan, and her mom suggests, well, why don't you 1187 01:09:20,880 --> 01:09:23,719 Speaker 1: work at a fast food restaurant. This is the scene 1188 01:09:23,720 --> 01:09:26,800 Speaker 1: where the R word is just casually thrown around by 1189 01:09:26,880 --> 01:09:30,920 Speaker 1: multiple characters. Several characters. Yeah, and not just in this scene, 1190 01:09:30,920 --> 01:09:34,519 Speaker 1: although it gets it gets said other times. And Lena 1191 01:09:34,920 --> 01:09:39,080 Speaker 1: dismisses a job at a fast food restaurant citing a 1192 01:09:39,280 --> 01:09:42,840 Speaker 1: very ablest reason. I do. I do appreciate that the 1193 01:09:42,880 --> 01:09:45,519 Speaker 1: movie kind of makes a point to show that a 1194 01:09:45,640 --> 01:09:48,880 Speaker 1: job at a fast food restaurant is harder and takes 1195 01:09:48,880 --> 01:09:55,240 Speaker 1: more skills. She cannot she cannot add eighty five together 1196 01:09:55,400 --> 01:09:58,439 Speaker 1: quickly or whatever the numbers were. Because the movie does 1197 01:09:58,439 --> 01:10:01,680 Speaker 1: have little moments of commentary like that, like kind of 1198 01:10:01,760 --> 01:10:04,280 Speaker 1: class commentary, and I think it has a lot of 1199 01:10:04,320 --> 01:10:07,760 Speaker 1: good moments. Yeah, there's a scene that seems to be 1200 01:10:07,920 --> 01:10:12,439 Speaker 1: satirizing networks like MTV and the entertainment of that era 1201 01:10:12,840 --> 01:10:17,240 Speaker 1: where Laney's watching a show and I forget what it's called, 1202 01:10:17,600 --> 01:10:20,960 Speaker 1: but it's this woman. She's like the host of this show. 1203 01:10:21,000 --> 01:10:23,479 Speaker 1: It's like a fashion fashion it's meant to be House 1204 01:10:23,479 --> 01:10:26,760 Speaker 1: of Style. Did y'all watch that? Oh my god? Empty. 1205 01:10:26,880 --> 01:10:28,280 Speaker 1: I might be older than you all, but it's it's 1206 01:10:28,280 --> 01:10:31,479 Speaker 1: clearly meant to be MTV's House of Style. Cindy Crawford 1207 01:10:31,479 --> 01:10:33,280 Speaker 1: got her start on that show, like it was like 1208 01:10:33,800 --> 01:10:36,559 Speaker 1: it was that checked that but I think so it 1209 01:10:36,640 --> 01:10:40,200 Speaker 1: was like in the nineties it was MTVS Fashion and 1210 01:10:40,200 --> 01:10:42,479 Speaker 1: it was always kind of like edgy hip hop fashion. 1211 01:10:42,479 --> 01:10:46,120 Speaker 1: But yeah, it was their fashion show. Okay, So what 1212 01:10:46,439 --> 01:10:48,680 Speaker 1: happens in this like you know this like kind of 1213 01:10:48,720 --> 01:10:52,000 Speaker 1: spoof version of that on the In Your Face Network 1214 01:10:52,560 --> 01:10:55,719 Speaker 1: is it's this woman, she's the host of this show. 1215 01:10:56,040 --> 01:10:58,400 Speaker 1: And she's like today we're in I think they're in 1216 01:10:58,439 --> 01:11:01,840 Speaker 1: Compton and she's where in Compton? And you can buy 1217 01:11:01,880 --> 01:11:06,400 Speaker 1: this this Bandanna. It's got red for crips and blue 1218 01:11:06,439 --> 01:11:08,360 Speaker 1: for bloods or I don't even know if I have 1219 01:11:08,400 --> 01:11:12,679 Speaker 1: the colors right, And she's like and it's only seventy yeah, 1220 01:11:12,840 --> 01:11:16,719 Speaker 1: and it's made by Donna Carro and famously a bougee 1221 01:11:16,760 --> 01:11:19,800 Speaker 1: white woman. I actually love that comment. It's like the 1222 01:11:20,000 --> 01:11:22,840 Speaker 1: movie does try to do some nineties commentary of like 1223 01:11:22,880 --> 01:11:26,120 Speaker 1: that was the vibe of the nineties, like corporations and 1224 01:11:26,160 --> 01:11:29,920 Speaker 1: white rich people co opting like black folks and like 1225 01:11:30,000 --> 01:11:34,320 Speaker 1: Latino folks and like like working class like fashion and 1226 01:11:34,360 --> 01:11:36,960 Speaker 1: like making it a thousand dollars and then selling it 1227 01:11:37,000 --> 01:11:41,440 Speaker 1: back to people exactly. Yeah. I thought that, like especially 1228 01:11:41,560 --> 01:11:44,240 Speaker 1: for some reason, like the TV stuff especially, I thought 1229 01:11:44,280 --> 01:11:47,200 Speaker 1: was really really effective with the I mean, even with 1230 01:11:47,240 --> 01:11:50,080 Speaker 1: the Frasier's Dad Show, where it was very clearly like 1231 01:11:50,200 --> 01:11:52,720 Speaker 1: parodying a lot of daytime TV where it was like, 1232 01:11:53,479 --> 01:11:57,400 Speaker 1: you know, exploitative thing and tragic thing where you know, 1233 01:11:57,920 --> 01:12:02,240 Speaker 1: he's like today we have this amazing child and and 1234 01:12:02,439 --> 01:12:06,400 Speaker 1: someone with Alzheimer's disease and you're just like it, that 1235 01:12:06,600 --> 01:12:08,720 Speaker 1: is clear like what they're trying to do. And then 1236 01:12:09,120 --> 01:12:13,240 Speaker 1: I also thought it was like interesting that how when 1237 01:12:13,280 --> 01:12:16,520 Speaker 1: on a writer is like duped by a TV psychic 1238 01:12:17,040 --> 01:12:20,280 Speaker 1: and like that that was just a little montage of 1239 01:12:20,320 --> 01:12:23,600 Speaker 1: like predatory TV scams of the nine nineties because it 1240 01:12:23,640 --> 01:12:28,160 Speaker 1: was like TV College, TV Psychics and like just little 1241 01:12:28,360 --> 01:12:32,840 Speaker 1: ways that the culture of this time preyed on desperation 1242 01:12:32,920 --> 01:12:35,839 Speaker 1: and loneliness, which is like there's a different generational reboot 1243 01:12:35,880 --> 01:12:39,120 Speaker 1: of how to prey on desperation and loneliness. And I 1244 01:12:39,160 --> 01:12:44,080 Speaker 1: thought it was like kind of a fun comment on it. Oh, 1245 01:12:44,120 --> 01:12:46,160 Speaker 1: the TV Psychic scene has my favorite line of the 1246 01:12:46,200 --> 01:12:48,559 Speaker 1: movie where when her roommate is coming to talk to 1247 01:12:48,560 --> 01:12:50,280 Speaker 1: her about the phone bill over the phone, the TV 1248 01:12:50,320 --> 01:12:54,080 Speaker 1: Psychic is like, Laney, I said that you're in great danger, dangerous, 1249 01:12:55,720 --> 01:12:58,479 Speaker 1: And then and then Jean in Gruffalo is like, we 1250 01:12:58,560 --> 01:13:01,439 Speaker 1: have a four phone. What the fuck it's from this 1251 01:13:01,560 --> 01:13:03,960 Speaker 1: nine number? And then you just see when on a 1252 01:13:04,000 --> 01:13:09,839 Speaker 1: writer like very slowly hanging up the phone. That's comedy. 1253 01:13:10,320 --> 01:13:13,200 Speaker 1: I thought it was good. Yeah, Like it's like part 1254 01:13:13,200 --> 01:13:16,200 Speaker 1: of the reason that the ending to this movie bumps 1255 01:13:16,240 --> 01:13:17,680 Speaker 1: me out so much is I feel like there's so 1256 01:13:17,680 --> 01:13:21,719 Speaker 1: many like strong threads of like ways this movie could 1257 01:13:21,720 --> 01:13:24,240 Speaker 1: have gone. Characters, they could have expanded on more topics, 1258 01:13:24,280 --> 01:13:26,320 Speaker 1: they could have taken a little further, because it's like 1259 01:13:26,479 --> 01:13:30,880 Speaker 1: with Troy and Laney, like they're both shitty in their ways. 1260 01:13:30,920 --> 01:13:34,800 Speaker 1: Troy is by far worse, And I would hope that 1261 01:13:35,439 --> 01:13:37,920 Speaker 1: if Laney had done what I wanted her to do 1262 01:13:38,000 --> 01:13:40,960 Speaker 1: at the end and just like got her shipped together 1263 01:13:41,080 --> 01:13:42,680 Speaker 1: and figured out who she was as a person and 1264 01:13:42,720 --> 01:13:45,680 Speaker 1: worked a retail job and wasn't a total snob, I'm 1265 01:13:45,680 --> 01:13:48,439 Speaker 1: sure that these would be issues that hopefully would course 1266 01:13:48,479 --> 01:13:51,240 Speaker 1: correct later in her life. Troy maybe permanently broken. But 1267 01:13:51,360 --> 01:13:55,439 Speaker 1: like how Troy's central, Like it feels like what they're 1268 01:13:55,439 --> 01:13:57,479 Speaker 1: trying to ask with that character, I don't know, let 1269 01:13:57,520 --> 01:13:58,600 Speaker 1: me know what you think, because I was like, it 1270 01:13:58,640 --> 01:14:01,800 Speaker 1: seems like Troy is trying to do the thing where 1271 01:14:01,800 --> 01:14:07,559 Speaker 1: he's like saying something valid, but his methods are shitty 1272 01:14:07,720 --> 01:14:10,639 Speaker 1: and like don't make any difference for anything. Where it's 1273 01:14:10,640 --> 01:14:15,040 Speaker 1: like he wants to exist outside of capitalism. He resents capitalism, 1274 01:14:15,080 --> 01:14:18,120 Speaker 1: he resents that you are expected, you know, certain things 1275 01:14:18,160 --> 01:14:20,960 Speaker 1: are expected of you to exist in a society and 1276 01:14:21,200 --> 01:14:27,200 Speaker 1: be considered someone worthy of respect. A valid question and 1277 01:14:27,280 --> 01:14:33,959 Speaker 1: like fair, but like he sucks and like he's useless 1278 01:14:34,000 --> 01:14:36,240 Speaker 1: and he's mean, and then in the end he's kind 1279 01:14:36,280 --> 01:14:40,120 Speaker 1: of like rewarded by getting everything he ever wanted. So 1280 01:14:41,320 --> 01:14:45,160 Speaker 1: why I mean, because he's a white guy who had 1281 01:14:45,200 --> 01:14:48,320 Speaker 1: a safety net the whole time. That's why I like, 1282 01:14:48,479 --> 01:14:50,559 Speaker 1: at one point it's like a throwaway thing. But I 1283 01:14:50,600 --> 01:14:54,839 Speaker 1: think that Lena's dad set up a cushy job interview 1284 01:14:54,880 --> 01:14:57,360 Speaker 1: for Troy that he didn't go to, and I think 1285 01:14:57,360 --> 01:14:59,000 Speaker 1: he didn't go to it because he was like hanging 1286 01:14:59,040 --> 01:15:02,519 Speaker 1: out with her. I think that like her dad definitely 1287 01:15:02,640 --> 01:15:04,120 Speaker 1: is like I said, I'm a job interview and he 1288 01:15:04,160 --> 01:15:06,680 Speaker 1: couldn't even bother to show up. And so you're right 1289 01:15:06,720 --> 01:15:09,960 Speaker 1: that it's it's as someone who is a former like 1290 01:15:10,520 --> 01:15:13,040 Speaker 1: slacker knew a lot of like slacker types that were 1291 01:15:13,080 --> 01:15:16,080 Speaker 1: anti capitalists. It's really easy to be that way when 1292 01:15:16,120 --> 01:15:17,960 Speaker 1: you have a safety net, when people are looking out 1293 01:15:17,960 --> 01:15:19,639 Speaker 1: for you and someone can make a call and get 1294 01:15:19,680 --> 01:15:22,360 Speaker 1: you a job. And I think Troy is very good 1295 01:15:22,360 --> 01:15:27,080 Speaker 1: at presenting his his rejection of all that stuff ideologically 1296 01:15:27,080 --> 01:15:29,400 Speaker 1: on the outside, but not so good at acknowledging what 1297 01:15:29,479 --> 01:15:33,080 Speaker 1: he actually has access to, which is not nothing. Right. Yeah, 1298 01:15:33,280 --> 01:15:36,760 Speaker 1: And it's like Troy's life, I mean, his life would 1299 01:15:36,800 --> 01:15:40,679 Speaker 1: become so much more difficult if Laney and Vicky weren't 1300 01:15:40,720 --> 01:15:43,400 Speaker 1: constantly doing what he's yelling at them for all the time, 1301 01:15:43,479 --> 01:15:46,240 Speaker 1: which is working so that they all have a place 1302 01:15:46,280 --> 01:15:49,320 Speaker 1: to live, which Troy is not contributing to and is 1303 01:15:49,439 --> 01:15:53,840 Speaker 1: in fact actively hostile to them for like working so 1304 01:15:53,920 --> 01:15:55,880 Speaker 1: that he has somewhere to yell at them at. Like 1305 01:15:56,360 --> 01:15:59,280 Speaker 1: it's just it's so messy, and it's like the movie 1306 01:15:59,320 --> 01:16:02,799 Speaker 1: seems to know that, but then the ending it's it's wild. 1307 01:16:02,920 --> 01:16:08,000 Speaker 1: It's wild. I also find it fascinating and maybe this 1308 01:16:08,080 --> 01:16:12,960 Speaker 1: is some irony that the movie loves to talk about. 1309 01:16:13,000 --> 01:16:17,519 Speaker 1: But like the the like paradox of this being a 1310 01:16:17,560 --> 01:16:20,080 Speaker 1: movie about characters who are like, oh my god, selling 1311 01:16:20,120 --> 01:16:22,639 Speaker 1: out is like the worst thing you can do, and 1312 01:16:22,680 --> 01:16:26,680 Speaker 1: like it might be tempting, but ultimately your loser if 1313 01:16:26,680 --> 01:16:31,560 Speaker 1: you sell out. But then this was also a studio movie, 1314 01:16:31,840 --> 01:16:35,559 Speaker 1: and Ben Stiller said something like it's a strange thing 1315 01:16:35,640 --> 01:16:38,760 Speaker 1: because it was a studio movie about the ideas of 1316 01:16:38,760 --> 01:16:42,800 Speaker 1: commodification and descent or whatever. And the idea that it 1317 01:16:42,880 --> 01:16:46,440 Speaker 1: was a universal movie, meaning like the movie studio universal, 1318 01:16:47,080 --> 01:16:50,320 Speaker 1: a universal movie that was really sort of independent minded, 1319 01:16:50,840 --> 01:16:53,040 Speaker 1: was something that we struggled with. So it's like the 1320 01:16:53,120 --> 01:16:58,040 Speaker 1: same studio that released Jurassic Park the year before was 1321 01:16:58,080 --> 01:17:02,280 Speaker 1: also releasing reality Bites and clearly made a bunch of 1322 01:17:02,320 --> 01:17:05,400 Speaker 1: script changes, and like all, they had all these studio notes, 1323 01:17:05,479 --> 01:17:08,840 Speaker 1: and it's probably the reason that Lelaney ends up with 1324 01:17:08,920 --> 01:17:11,400 Speaker 1: Troy at the end, because that's kind of like the 1325 01:17:11,439 --> 01:17:15,040 Speaker 1: more like right gretty romantic choice for her to make, 1326 01:17:15,320 --> 01:17:17,559 Speaker 1: which I mean, I was glad that at least, like 1327 01:17:17,720 --> 01:17:20,720 Speaker 1: the major players and this who worked in this movie, 1328 01:17:20,760 --> 01:17:22,519 Speaker 1: I'll seem aware of that because it's like it's a 1329 01:17:22,640 --> 01:17:26,080 Speaker 1: pointed to just truly like what are you going to do? 1330 01:17:26,479 --> 01:17:31,240 Speaker 1: Like what the like? Because all of the you know, 1331 01:17:31,439 --> 01:17:34,040 Speaker 1: like they're all of the resources are in the hands 1332 01:17:34,040 --> 01:17:37,240 Speaker 1: of big studios, like, right, what the funk are you 1333 01:17:37,280 --> 01:17:40,760 Speaker 1: gonna do? And it it's I don't know it. Have 1334 01:17:40,800 --> 01:17:43,760 Speaker 1: either of you ever seen SLC Punk? I have not 1335 01:17:44,000 --> 01:17:46,280 Speaker 1: know I have. I've seen it many times. Do you 1336 01:17:46,320 --> 01:17:48,559 Speaker 1: like it? Um? I liked it when I was in 1337 01:17:48,600 --> 01:17:51,680 Speaker 1: high school. I rewatched it maybe two years ago. I 1338 01:17:51,720 --> 01:17:53,880 Speaker 1: actually think about it. I like not to kind of 1339 01:17:53,880 --> 01:17:55,200 Speaker 1: spoil the ending. I don't know if you'll have like 1340 01:17:55,240 --> 01:17:57,559 Speaker 1: a philosop I was. I wanted to talk about the 1341 01:17:57,600 --> 01:18:00,320 Speaker 1: ending to SELC Punk because I think I like it better. Yeah, 1342 01:18:00,520 --> 01:18:03,640 Speaker 1: the the ending is great because it's like, oh, this 1343 01:18:03,680 --> 01:18:06,360 Speaker 1: whole time, all of that ideology was BS and you 1344 01:18:06,439 --> 01:18:08,760 Speaker 1: sold that in the end and turns out you just 1345 01:18:08,880 --> 01:18:11,240 Speaker 1: like we're a poser like everybody else, and that's fine. 1346 01:18:11,280 --> 01:18:13,240 Speaker 1: It's called growing up. The end, like, I kind of 1347 01:18:13,280 --> 01:18:17,160 Speaker 1: love that. Yeah, like so, I the only time I've 1348 01:18:17,160 --> 01:18:21,000 Speaker 1: seen Slski punk I was on Molly Nights, but I 1349 01:18:21,040 --> 01:18:24,760 Speaker 1: really loved him. But but the ending, in spite of 1350 01:18:24,800 --> 01:18:27,840 Speaker 1: me being high out of my mind, the ending really 1351 01:18:27,960 --> 01:18:31,200 Speaker 1: stuck with me as one of the more like, you know, 1352 01:18:31,280 --> 01:18:33,800 Speaker 1: it doesn't feel good to watch, but it is an 1353 01:18:33,800 --> 01:18:37,320 Speaker 1: honest depiction of like. And also it's a Matthew Willard 1354 01:18:37,400 --> 01:18:41,639 Speaker 1: joint Caitlin, Oh, I I've unfamiliar. I just have yet 1355 01:18:41,640 --> 01:18:45,280 Speaker 1: to succeeded. And unlike Reality Bites, it's a true indie movie. 1356 01:18:45,400 --> 01:18:48,320 Speaker 1: It made like two dollars and it like premiered at 1357 01:18:48,320 --> 01:18:51,160 Speaker 1: Sundance And but but yeah, like the the way, I 1358 01:18:51,520 --> 01:18:53,880 Speaker 1: was sort of wondering if Reality Bites would take that 1359 01:18:53,960 --> 01:18:57,240 Speaker 1: sort of option where it's like, you know, it seems 1360 01:18:57,320 --> 01:19:02,280 Speaker 1: inevitable that this grew at least you know, two or 1361 01:19:02,320 --> 01:19:04,920 Speaker 1: three out of the four are gonna end up selling 1362 01:19:04,920 --> 01:19:08,519 Speaker 1: out in the way that adults are forced to under 1363 01:19:08,520 --> 01:19:12,400 Speaker 1: capitalism more often than not. But I was wondering how 1364 01:19:12,439 --> 01:19:14,439 Speaker 1: self aware it's like that it didn't do it in 1365 01:19:14,479 --> 01:19:17,000 Speaker 1: a very self aware because even in the like the 1366 01:19:17,040 --> 01:19:20,960 Speaker 1: closing line of the movie, Laney is like, it's acknowledging 1367 01:19:21,000 --> 01:19:23,040 Speaker 1: that Laney has used her privilege to get to where 1368 01:19:23,120 --> 01:19:25,760 Speaker 1: she's at with Troy, because it's her doubt on the 1369 01:19:25,760 --> 01:19:30,320 Speaker 1: phone who you know, like all four boomer criticism of 1370 01:19:30,439 --> 01:19:32,360 Speaker 1: like look at this, you know how they opened the 1371 01:19:32,400 --> 01:19:35,080 Speaker 1: movie with like your revolution, you know, you traded your 1372 01:19:35,080 --> 01:19:39,280 Speaker 1: revolution for shoulder pads. Fair, fair criticism. But it's like 1373 01:19:39,720 --> 01:19:41,640 Speaker 1: our characters are well on their way to doing the 1374 01:19:41,680 --> 01:19:44,000 Speaker 1: same fucking thing by the end of the movie, but 1375 01:19:44,400 --> 01:19:46,759 Speaker 1: it's not quite willing to like go there and admit 1376 01:19:46,800 --> 01:19:49,679 Speaker 1: it in a way that s LC punk was like, yeah, 1377 01:19:49,800 --> 01:19:53,040 Speaker 1: little or to suit Now he's uh, he just got 1378 01:19:53,080 --> 01:19:55,400 Speaker 1: to the law school. He went to law school. He 1379 01:19:55,439 --> 01:19:59,639 Speaker 1: went to play shaggy. He's a corporate stooge. I mean, 1380 01:20:00,160 --> 01:20:05,519 Speaker 1: Lillard's taking that Scooby Money can't even blame. It's funny, 1381 01:20:05,520 --> 01:20:08,719 Speaker 1: like we're like, okay, so in the universe of the film, nobody, 1382 01:20:08,880 --> 01:20:11,960 Speaker 1: only certain people are allowed to sell out if if 1383 01:20:11,960 --> 01:20:15,200 Speaker 1: the clock spins five years later, like are we to 1384 01:20:15,240 --> 01:20:19,160 Speaker 1: believe that Troy is still under employed and like blowing 1385 01:20:19,160 --> 01:20:21,840 Speaker 1: off job interviews and sort of intentionally getting fired. And 1386 01:20:21,920 --> 01:20:24,479 Speaker 1: Lena is like, certainly they would have, like you would 1387 01:20:24,479 --> 01:20:26,280 Speaker 1: have to get a job at some point, Like that's 1388 01:20:26,840 --> 01:20:31,679 Speaker 1: life and life is unsustainable otherwise. Right, It's like he's 1389 01:20:31,720 --> 01:20:34,360 Speaker 1: not gonna If there's one person who's not going to 1390 01:20:34,479 --> 01:20:40,400 Speaker 1: singlehandedly dismantle American capitalism, it's Troy for Reality bite like 1391 01:20:40,840 --> 01:20:43,960 Speaker 1: he's gonna have to do something at some point. And 1392 01:20:44,000 --> 01:20:46,000 Speaker 1: I feel like such a like a mom saying that, 1393 01:20:46,000 --> 01:20:48,320 Speaker 1: where I'm like, get your life together, young man. But 1394 01:20:49,600 --> 01:20:53,519 Speaker 1: you know what I do starts a podcast. No, he 1395 01:20:53,520 --> 01:20:57,320 Speaker 1: starts a podcast and we're a part of the problem. Yeah, 1396 01:20:57,360 --> 01:20:59,519 Speaker 1: you think Troy from Reality, but it's wouldn't be fucking 1397 01:20:59,560 --> 01:21:05,040 Speaker 1: podcast two he's got. He's probably got two podcasts he has. 1398 01:21:05,080 --> 01:21:07,240 Speaker 1: Oh you know who he is. I know exactly who 1399 01:21:07,240 --> 01:21:10,360 Speaker 1: he is. He is like the leftist podcaster who was 1400 01:21:10,400 --> 01:21:14,439 Speaker 1: all like, oh, like class solidarity but makes three dollars 1401 01:21:14,479 --> 01:21:16,840 Speaker 1: a year via Patreon, but you would never know it 1402 01:21:16,880 --> 01:21:20,640 Speaker 1: because he talks about like class workfare every week in 1403 01:21:20,680 --> 01:21:24,520 Speaker 1: the podcast. That's who he never volunteered a weaken his life. Yeah, 1404 01:21:24,840 --> 01:21:30,040 Speaker 1: absolutely no. No. Oh, look, we're all a bunch of 1405 01:21:30,040 --> 01:21:33,519 Speaker 1: fucking sellouts. We're a feminist podcast on the I Heart 1406 01:21:33,600 --> 01:21:38,400 Speaker 1: Radio network. At the end of the day, if it's like, well, shit, fuck, 1407 01:21:39,360 --> 01:21:43,280 Speaker 1: we're the end of SLC punk. Um, okay, yeah, does 1408 01:21:43,320 --> 01:21:46,639 Speaker 1: anyone have anything else they want to talk about? It's 1409 01:21:46,640 --> 01:21:49,599 Speaker 1: everything ahead that might have been it. Yeah, the same. 1410 01:21:49,880 --> 01:21:54,160 Speaker 1: Does this movie pass the Bechtel test? It does. Yeah, 1411 01:21:54,280 --> 01:21:58,840 Speaker 1: We've got We've got some conversations, We've got some various combinations. 1412 01:21:58,880 --> 01:22:02,800 Speaker 1: It's a lot of Lelaney and Vicky I think is 1413 01:22:03,479 --> 01:22:07,719 Speaker 1: most of the Bechtel test passing convos. But what about 1414 01:22:07,720 --> 01:22:12,800 Speaker 1: that nipple scale, the famous flawless nipple scale where we 1415 01:22:12,840 --> 01:22:16,080 Speaker 1: write the movie on a scale of zero to five nipples. 1416 01:22:16,120 --> 01:22:20,799 Speaker 1: Based on examining the movie through an intersectional feminist lens, 1417 01:22:22,360 --> 01:22:24,960 Speaker 1: I feel like it's maybe like a two or a 1418 01:22:25,000 --> 01:22:26,479 Speaker 1: two and a half, just one of those kind of 1419 01:22:26,520 --> 01:22:29,840 Speaker 1: split down the middle ones, or maybe it's less than that. 1420 01:22:29,920 --> 01:22:33,040 Speaker 1: Let me talk through this. Um. I appreciate that this 1421 01:22:33,120 --> 01:22:37,479 Speaker 1: is a movie, like written by a woman writing about 1422 01:22:37,479 --> 01:22:42,360 Speaker 1: her own experiences. It's coming from a pretty privileged place 1423 01:22:42,479 --> 01:22:46,400 Speaker 1: because at least the characters it's like, yeah, they're broke, 1424 01:22:47,160 --> 01:22:51,280 Speaker 1: but they're broke in the way that white college graduates 1425 01:22:51,320 --> 01:22:55,760 Speaker 1: from supportive middle class families working entry level jobs are 1426 01:22:55,840 --> 01:22:59,759 Speaker 1: broke broke, not poor. Right, So it just feels gross 1427 01:22:59,800 --> 01:23:03,240 Speaker 1: to make a movie where things like money and labor 1428 01:23:03,479 --> 01:23:07,920 Speaker 1: and socioeconomic class are major themes of the movie, but 1429 01:23:08,320 --> 01:23:12,800 Speaker 1: the movie only features educated, middle class white people. UM. 1430 01:23:12,840 --> 01:23:16,920 Speaker 1: I do not like that the movie is predicated on 1431 01:23:16,960 --> 01:23:19,559 Speaker 1: which of these two guys is she going to choose 1432 01:23:19,720 --> 01:23:24,760 Speaker 1: because she has to pick one because hetero romance must prevail, 1433 01:23:25,360 --> 01:23:27,879 Speaker 1: and then she picks the guy who has been actively 1434 01:23:27,960 --> 01:23:31,320 Speaker 1: cruel to her throughout the entire movie. I hate that 1435 01:23:31,400 --> 01:23:34,719 Speaker 1: for her. Um. There are some things I do like. Um, 1436 01:23:34,760 --> 01:23:39,120 Speaker 1: there's some interesting satire. There is a queer character whose 1437 01:23:39,280 --> 01:23:43,280 Speaker 1: queerness is normalized within the story, even though that character 1438 01:23:43,439 --> 01:23:46,360 Speaker 1: gets the least amount of screen time in this version 1439 01:23:46,400 --> 01:23:49,240 Speaker 1: of the story at least. Um, But it's you know, 1440 01:23:49,320 --> 01:23:53,040 Speaker 1: queer representation that was I would say, generally more positive 1441 01:23:53,080 --> 01:23:57,560 Speaker 1: than you would tend to find in this era. Um. 1442 01:23:57,600 --> 01:23:59,400 Speaker 1: And yeah, as I think I like Trailed Off, But 1443 01:23:59,479 --> 01:24:03,360 Speaker 1: it's a a woman writing this screenplay about her life, 1444 01:24:03,360 --> 01:24:06,360 Speaker 1: about her experiences and her relationships. It seems like it 1445 01:24:06,439 --> 01:24:11,120 Speaker 1: got studio notes to death almost uh seventy different drafts 1446 01:24:11,240 --> 01:24:14,880 Speaker 1: kind of thing. But um, I don't know, it's just 1447 01:24:16,600 --> 01:24:19,120 Speaker 1: have I come to any conclusion. No, I'm gonna give 1448 01:24:19,120 --> 01:24:23,120 Speaker 1: it two nipples. I'll give one to one on a 1449 01:24:23,160 --> 01:24:26,519 Speaker 1: writer because I do love Oneona, and I'll give the 1450 01:24:26,520 --> 01:24:30,680 Speaker 1: other nipple to screenwriter Helen child Dress, who again has 1451 01:24:30,720 --> 01:24:32,960 Speaker 1: been kind of like left out of the conversation about 1452 01:24:33,040 --> 01:24:37,679 Speaker 1: this movie and like isn't given credit where credit is due. Yeah, 1453 01:24:37,760 --> 01:24:42,080 Speaker 1: so there you have it. I'm gonna go two and 1454 01:24:42,080 --> 01:24:45,439 Speaker 1: a half on this one. Maybe maybe I'm talented to 1455 01:24:45,479 --> 01:24:49,560 Speaker 1: do three, but I I the the centering of the 1456 01:24:49,680 --> 01:24:53,800 Speaker 1: relationship is just like so frustrating that I guess I'm 1457 01:24:53,800 --> 01:24:57,519 Speaker 1: going to do too and a half. Um again, yes, 1458 01:24:57,560 --> 01:25:00,240 Speaker 1: like this is yet another you know, quote on quote 1459 01:25:00,280 --> 01:25:03,600 Speaker 1: generation to finding movie that solely focuses on you know, 1460 01:25:03,840 --> 01:25:07,040 Speaker 1: middle class uh six white people. I do appreciate that 1461 01:25:07,080 --> 01:25:11,960 Speaker 1: there is some different class backgrounds and discussion of class. 1462 01:25:11,960 --> 01:25:14,519 Speaker 1: I feel like most movies like this, just like or 1463 01:25:14,600 --> 01:25:17,240 Speaker 1: most you know, coming of age movies, class exists in 1464 01:25:17,240 --> 01:25:19,679 Speaker 1: a complete and total void. So at least then that's 1465 01:25:19,720 --> 01:25:22,840 Speaker 1: not the case. Um, this movie asks a lot of 1466 01:25:22,880 --> 01:25:25,640 Speaker 1: interesting questions. I think that, you know, the answers are 1467 01:25:25,640 --> 01:25:28,800 Speaker 1: really complicated because we also like our generation is not 1468 01:25:28,840 --> 01:25:31,360 Speaker 1: going to have the answers and uh, you know gen 1469 01:25:31,439 --> 01:25:36,200 Speaker 1: Z best of luck, but and then there's no more generations. 1470 01:25:36,439 --> 01:25:39,799 Speaker 1: Uh So Ultimately, yeah, I think that this movie asks 1471 01:25:40,080 --> 01:25:42,840 Speaker 1: a lot of interesting questions. It challenged me in some ways, 1472 01:25:42,880 --> 01:25:47,120 Speaker 1: it frustrated me and others, and uh it made me 1473 01:25:47,120 --> 01:25:51,120 Speaker 1: want to rewatch SLC Punk um. But I do appreciate 1474 01:25:51,160 --> 01:25:54,000 Speaker 1: that this movie, um is you know, written by a 1475 01:25:54,040 --> 01:25:57,880 Speaker 1: woman who has lived out a similar experience. Um. I 1476 01:25:57,920 --> 01:26:02,639 Speaker 1: think that her career since is very indicative of how disposable, um, 1477 01:26:02,720 --> 01:26:06,080 Speaker 1: women creatives can be in Hollywood, especially during this era. 1478 01:26:06,160 --> 01:26:09,479 Speaker 1: I'm glad that there has been some motion against that 1479 01:26:09,640 --> 01:26:11,960 Speaker 1: since it doesn't seem to be something that happens quite 1480 01:26:11,960 --> 01:26:14,759 Speaker 1: as much, and that there are a lot of women 1481 01:26:14,760 --> 01:26:17,479 Speaker 1: in high positions in this production. You have a woman 1482 01:26:17,600 --> 01:26:19,679 Speaker 1: editor of a woman writer, you have a woman producer. 1483 01:26:20,760 --> 01:26:24,000 Speaker 1: But yeah, I don't know if this this Honestly, this 1484 01:26:24,040 --> 01:26:28,519 Speaker 1: movie is like challenging for for me, and uh, you know, 1485 01:26:28,800 --> 01:26:32,799 Speaker 1: being an adult sellout is fucking embarrassing and it's also 1486 01:26:33,680 --> 01:26:38,600 Speaker 1: unfortunately kind of a part of being an American and 1487 01:26:39,360 --> 01:26:42,640 Speaker 1: it Uh I guess that that's all I have to 1488 01:26:42,640 --> 01:26:45,960 Speaker 1: say about it. Uh yeah, So I'll go two and 1489 01:26:45,960 --> 01:26:49,240 Speaker 1: a half and I'm giving them all to Helen because, um, 1490 01:26:49,720 --> 01:26:53,200 Speaker 1: it's ridiculous that justice for Helen event Stiller is getting 1491 01:26:53,240 --> 01:26:57,040 Speaker 1: credit for ship shoot it. Yeah yeah, bridget Yeah, I'm 1492 01:26:57,080 --> 01:26:59,480 Speaker 1: going First of all, I love that we're just explicitly 1493 01:26:59,600 --> 01:27:03,599 Speaker 1: identify playing as adults sellouts, and this feminist adults sell 1494 01:27:03,600 --> 01:27:05,360 Speaker 1: out is going two and a half nipples, and I 1495 01:27:05,400 --> 01:27:10,120 Speaker 1: completely agree, mostly for Helen children. It's like justice for her. 1496 01:27:10,439 --> 01:27:12,479 Speaker 1: I had no idea about the ways that she was 1497 01:27:12,520 --> 01:27:16,040 Speaker 1: sort of written out of her own experience, and that 1498 01:27:16,200 --> 01:27:19,040 Speaker 1: just sucks that this is a movie about her life 1499 01:27:19,439 --> 01:27:23,280 Speaker 1: that is so accredited to Ben Stiller, a man, that 1500 01:27:23,360 --> 01:27:24,760 Speaker 1: she just gets written out of it. Like I was 1501 01:27:24,800 --> 01:27:28,400 Speaker 1: googling pictures, it was difficult to even find pictures of 1502 01:27:28,520 --> 01:27:30,799 Speaker 1: her with the cast, and like, this was her story, 1503 01:27:30,880 --> 01:27:33,800 Speaker 1: So most of those nipples are going to her. Also, 1504 01:27:33,920 --> 01:27:37,240 Speaker 1: Jeanine Garoffalo, I have a soft spot for je Garoffalo 1505 01:27:37,479 --> 01:27:42,680 Speaker 1: supporting casting. Yeah, in this movie, I once loved it 1506 01:27:42,720 --> 01:27:45,439 Speaker 1: as a youth, watching it as an adult, it's I agree, 1507 01:27:45,439 --> 01:27:49,639 Speaker 1: it's challenging, but yeah, I I like a movie that 1508 01:27:50,080 --> 01:27:53,400 Speaker 1: makes it attempt to show queerness in the nineties in 1509 01:27:53,400 --> 01:27:56,120 Speaker 1: a way that it's not so traumatic and Steve Zon 1510 01:27:56,200 --> 01:27:59,040 Speaker 1: doesn't die or something like I Think for the time, 1511 01:27:59,080 --> 01:28:02,599 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go too and a a half of fair. Yeah, Bridget, 1512 01:28:02,600 --> 01:28:06,840 Speaker 1: thank you so much for joining us, Thank you for returning. 1513 01:28:07,040 --> 01:28:11,320 Speaker 1: Come back any time. Oh it's always a blast. Anytime 1514 01:28:11,400 --> 01:28:15,439 Speaker 1: you're you're about to get sick of me? Impossible, can't happen, 1515 01:28:15,520 --> 01:28:17,719 Speaker 1: won't happen? Tell us all about your your new show 1516 01:28:17,760 --> 01:28:20,800 Speaker 1: on cool Zone. Oh yes. So Internet Hate Machine is 1517 01:28:20,800 --> 01:28:24,320 Speaker 1: an exploration of kind of an unpleasant topic, which is 1518 01:28:24,360 --> 01:28:27,280 Speaker 1: the online harassment of women, specifically black women, but women 1519 01:28:27,280 --> 01:28:30,360 Speaker 1: of color in general, and how I believe that is 1520 01:28:30,360 --> 01:28:34,160 Speaker 1: connected to our current sort of political and social healthscape. 1521 01:28:34,200 --> 01:28:37,800 Speaker 1: I guess I'll say, uh, and so yeah, it's it's 1522 01:28:37,840 --> 01:28:40,479 Speaker 1: but it's I swear it's not dark. It's not a 1523 01:28:40,520 --> 01:28:43,559 Speaker 1: start of it sounds, but yeah, it's an exploration of 1524 01:28:43,600 --> 01:28:46,080 Speaker 1: the ways that all of these things online, the way 1525 01:28:46,080 --> 01:28:48,000 Speaker 1: that black women have been treated, have gotten us to 1526 01:28:48,040 --> 01:28:51,200 Speaker 1: a place where those same tactics and those same ills 1527 01:28:51,400 --> 01:28:53,360 Speaker 1: impact all of us and really make it hard for 1528 01:28:53,439 --> 01:28:55,920 Speaker 1: us to have a functioning democracy. So if that sounds 1529 01:28:55,960 --> 01:28:59,280 Speaker 1: like something that you're interested in exploring, please check it out. 1530 01:28:59,320 --> 01:29:04,879 Speaker 1: The new season or the first season drops October. So excited, 1531 01:29:05,720 --> 01:29:08,599 Speaker 1: thank you, thank you so much for coming back. 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