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Speaker 1: connect over shared interests or hobbies. Other people connect because

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Speaker 1: they're both freaking hot. But one of our listeners, Thomas,

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Speaker 1: says he connected with a woman online over their joint sadness.

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Speaker 1: Oh something like that. Okay, let's talk to Thomas. Thomas.

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Speaker 1: Did you meet her on tiermatch dot com or was

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Speaker 1: it the Kleenex club? Which one was? That's cute, Well

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Speaker 1: that could go. Yeah, I'm not getting paid by any

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Speaker 1: be free advertising. But we did meet online. Okay, what's

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Speaker 1: the sadness you speak of? My friend? Well, you know

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Speaker 1: how you can put like whether you're single or divorce.

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Speaker 1: There's an option where you can put separated, and so

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Speaker 1: I thought I would be honest since the divorces and

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Speaker 1: why wouldn't you normally do that? Well, I would normally

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Speaker 1: on Facebook single and people sometimes put it's complicated. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you're obviously involved with somebody, but some people think that's

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Speaker 1: had separated on her profile. Okay, yeah, she had a

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Speaker 1: start that you guys are going through. I mean, I

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Speaker 1: don't know how similar it is, but similar life experience.

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Speaker 1: So you're coming in with with understanding and you probably

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Speaker 1: is my first first date since the you know, well

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Speaker 1: what were you feeling? Like? Slow down because this is

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Speaker 1: You know that doesn't sound nervous, no, of course, of course. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Well how did it go when you showed up? Like?

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Speaker 1: Hello is it Celia? Yeah? Sorry, I was really excited there, Celia.

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Speaker 1: Hey cool, Now she's not answering a second to process.

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Speaker 1: This is probably a lot, right, I don't Who is it? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: a second Date Update. Oh no, thank you. That's a no, no, no, no, Celia,

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Speaker 1: if you're playing the statistics, chances are she already has.

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Speaker 1: because that's probably a hard thing to share with you people.

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Speaker 1: I would imagine you're not listening to me. I deserved it.

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Speaker 1: Like he didn't even bust anything. Okay, I see what

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Speaker 1: I've had enough. No, no, no, no enough. You understand

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Speaker 1: How does that make sense on a first date? First

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Speaker 1: of all, I didn't even know you were on the line. Secondly,

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Speaker 1: I go for a reason, and I really don't even

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Speaker 1: Nothing like this. This is like Medusa head. I don't

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Speaker 1: I feel like you could have at least questioned why

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Speaker 1: accountable for all Right, you want some criticism? Are you

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Speaker 1: got my nails? Dont my nails look good? Yeah? Your

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Speaker 1: those you didn't go there? Did you like? My nails

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Speaker 1: you what you want there, Celia. He's not reading what

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Speaker 1: she wants very well though. I mean, I will give

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Speaker 1: sounds like you want to be punished next time. Bring

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Speaker 1: This is why he practice dating more. Yeah, I have

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Speaker 1: called the first person back a lot of people out

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Speaker 1: I don't think that's what she wants either. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: mean I could ask Celia, would you be interested in that?

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Speaker 1: good with him. I thought I made that clear. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: now you're talking the way that she likes. Ye. Well,

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Speaker 1: I really appreciate you guys having me on. But if

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Speaker 1: I learned anything from this, it don't date anyone who

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Speaker 1: says separated in a profiles. I guess Broke and Jeffrey

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Speaker 1: dating today is hard. Yeah. I think it's time after

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Speaker 1: that scene as a weakness. Yeah, and they don't like

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Speaker 1: at the end. Anybody out there who's single, including myself,

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Speaker 1: let's just all give up. That's a winning at Kay,

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Speaker 1: that's so sad. Okay, I just hate a dialone. It's mad.

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Speaker 1: You will find your love. You don't have to base

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Speaker 1: it up this lady. This lady was a little out there,

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Speaker 1: and I think what it does say is that even

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Speaker 1: hated you thought sappy, but you know, yeppy, it wasn't sides,

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Speaker 1: it wasn't. But no, look, we do want to help

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Speaker 1: connect you if you still do believe in love out there,

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Speaker 1: and if you do, you can always email the show.

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Speaker 1: We'll call the person who wasn't calling you better