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Speaker 1: I sued my ex then kicked them to the streets

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Speaker 1: on Christmas. Am I the a hole on Christmas? Sometimes

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Speaker 1: you got to get people out on a tier present,

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Speaker 1: you know. Sometimes, Hey, sometimes you've been naughty, so goodbye.

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Speaker 2: See now you get a piece of cold but you

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Speaker 2: get a piece of the real world.

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Speaker 1: My ex and I divorced about fifteen years ago, and

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Speaker 1: we have shared custody of our daughter.

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Speaker 3: Whoo, hell, yeah, let's go.

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Speaker 1: We should just like like, uh, completely over the top

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Speaker 1: cheer at like random or sad news.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's what I do.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, I just confused, confused the funk out of everybody.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, bro, I pick up no social cues.

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Speaker 1: In the divorce, she wanted our house, but I fought

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Speaker 1: hard against it because it's been in my family home

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Speaker 1: for three generations before I inherited it.

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Speaker 2: Wow, and she wanted it yo.

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Speaker 1: I mean in a way I kind of get like

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Speaker 1: from her perspective, like it's a house, but also like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't know, that's that's a hard three generation regenerations. Brow,

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Speaker 1: that's a lot. In the end, we came to a

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Speaker 1: compromise that was signed off by the judge. Basically, she

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Speaker 1: gets to live in the house rent free until our

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Speaker 1: daughter turns eighteen, and then I.

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Speaker 3: Get it back. It seems like a fair compromise.

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Speaker 1: I had to pay the utilities, maintenance, and property taxes

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Speaker 1: the entire time. In addition, she can't make any modifications

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Speaker 1: or upgrades to the house without my written permission. She's

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Speaker 1: solely responsible for the cost and the work that has

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Speaker 1: to be performed by an insurance and legal license professional

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Speaker 1: if she wants to do anything. I've been sending her

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Speaker 1: move out notices for months in anticipation of my daughter's

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Speaker 1: eighteenth birthday, and recently that has come to pass.

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Speaker 2: Oh, okay, so he's getting the house back.

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Speaker 3: The time is up.

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Speaker 1: There we go the day after I showed up to

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Speaker 1: the house with a contractor because I wanted some work

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Speaker 1: done before I moved back in.

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Speaker 4: Okay, so he hasn't been living there. Yeah, you know,

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Speaker 4: he hasn't been living there. It's just the wife.

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Speaker 3: The wife and the daughter. Wow dang.

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Speaker 1: At first she refused to let me in until I

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Speaker 1: reminded her I'm the legal owner of the house.

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Speaker 2: Wait, didn't let him in? Doesn't she know her time

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Speaker 2: is up? Didn't she get their letters? Bro?

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Speaker 1: I'll be I'll try to be sweet talking to him

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Speaker 1: right now if I were you, And according to our

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Speaker 1: divorce agreement signed by the judge, she's no longer allowed there,

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Speaker 1: and I will call the police if she doesn't.

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Speaker 3: Let me in.

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Speaker 4: I wonder if there's but like that feels like because

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Speaker 4: we've read another story where you know, someone was in

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Speaker 4: the house and they claimed they had squatters, right, yeah, right,

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Speaker 4: So I wonder if like she can claim the same thing.

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Speaker 1: Interesting, Yeah, probably, I would imagine a so much situation

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Speaker 1: because it was like they got to live there for

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Speaker 1: like four or five months for free, so she might

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Speaker 1: be able to squeeze an some more time out a.

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Speaker 3: Few months out of it. Interesting.

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Speaker 1: But hearing all this, she got the point and opened

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Speaker 1: the door. I was surprised nothing was packed and it

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Speaker 1: didn't seem like she was moving at all.

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Speaker 2: I guess this is not going to be a smooth

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Speaker 2: exchange of ownership.

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Speaker 3: Nope.

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Speaker 1: We were arguing, and as I walked through and inspected

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Speaker 1: my house, she wanted extra time, and I told her

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Speaker 1: to be out by the end of the week or

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Speaker 1: all have her stuff thrown out. When I walked into

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Speaker 1: the living room, I was shocked into silence. The living

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Speaker 1: room was expanded by a wall being tore down and

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Speaker 1: having the bedroom that was once there merged into it.

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Speaker 1: She had turned my four bedroom house into a three

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Speaker 1: bedroom house.

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Speaker 2: Which basically depreciates the value of the house.

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Speaker 1: Depreciates the value. And also like they have that agreement,

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Speaker 1: like we have to do it has to be approved.

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Speaker 1: I know I didn't sign off on this, and by

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Speaker 1: the looks of it, the work was done by her

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Speaker 1: boyfriend and not a professional.

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Speaker 3: No damn.

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Speaker 2: So they fucked up that shit too.

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Speaker 1: I yelled at her and told her I'm going to

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Speaker 1: sue her for everything she has.

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Speaker 3: Then I left.

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Speaker 2: So there are great terms, dude.

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Speaker 1: You know we need to like get commissioned them to

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Speaker 1: create a like a rule book for or like.

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Speaker 2: A fairy tale book. You know, this is the fairy

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Speaker 2: tale ending that every boy dreams.

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Speaker 3: This is what I want.

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Speaker 1: She went crying to our daughter and my family, and

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Speaker 1: now everyone is telling me to give her another month

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Speaker 1: to find a place and not to sue her. My

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Speaker 1: daughter is firmly on her mother's side and thinks I'm

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Speaker 1: the a hole for kicking out her mother a couple

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Speaker 1: weeks before Christmas and suing her. This is why I'm here.

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Speaker 1: I think I'm right, and legally I am right, but

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Speaker 1: my daughter's opinion, of course matters to me. Am I

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Speaker 1: the a hole.

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Speaker 4: Well let's let's let's analyze. Yes for a that she

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Speaker 4: like completely fucked up the house. Yes, right, yes, So

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Speaker 4: I think what's fair is maybe don't sue her yet

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Speaker 4: give her the option say, hey, this was a four bedroom.

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Speaker 4: You're gonna have to pay to put it back the

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Speaker 4: way it was. Yes, at the very least, yes, right,

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Speaker 4: because the work was probably shoddy too, like if it

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Speaker 4: wasn't done by a professional, So that one, and then

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Speaker 4: I think, I think, you know, giving her a month

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Speaker 4: is as fine.

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Speaker 2: I think to keep the peace.

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Speaker 4: I think it's a little a little aggressive to be

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Speaker 4: like out in a week, but like you know, now

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Speaker 4: that you've had FaceTime with her, she knows, hey, you're

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Speaker 4: out in a month. Yes, and also you got to

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Speaker 4: fix this, yes, this stuff. So that's what I would do.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because like it seems like she was just he

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Speaker 1: wasn't there, so it's like she was like, oh, like,

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Speaker 1: let's see how long I can get away with it.

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Speaker 1: And then once he pulls up, then it's like, Okay,

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Speaker 1: the jig is up there.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, So I think a month is fair

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Speaker 4: or we could floor the gas.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, how are we going to flow the prison?

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Speaker 1: There we go, So we're gonna we're going to commit ourson,

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Speaker 1: commit commit arson, frame her for arson, and we have

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Speaker 1: perfect evidence because you know she she hates him, she

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Speaker 1: doesn't want to move out of the house. So we

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Speaker 1: frame her for the crime, get her locked away for

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Speaker 1: thirty years, and then over.

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Speaker 4: That like little full custody of your kids already eighteen.

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Speaker 3: I guess, oh that's true.

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Speaker 1: That's true, but also convinced the child that their their

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Speaker 1: mother is a dirty criminal.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, which she is because she was convicted of arson.

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Speaker 1: And then figure out some sort of like sly wink

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Speaker 1: to like let her know that you did it without incriminate,

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Speaker 1: Like maybe you go and you're like.

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Speaker 4: I think you go to the call booth thing and

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Speaker 4: like three Glass say hey, I framed you for arson.

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Speaker 2: Hang up, I think you'd be direct.

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Speaker 3: I think Sam, we solved it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what else they should be direct about? John?

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Speaker 3: What should they be directed about? Uh?

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Speaker 2: They should be directly depositing the story in our slash

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Speaker 2: Oh,